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{"instruction": "I think I might be gay", "output": "Gay or not, you're still the same person."}
{"instruction": "I'm worried about telling my family", "output": "What are you most nervous about?"}
{"instruction": "I'm a lesbian and my partner doesn't think it's a big deal", "output": "Okay. What does it feel like to say it out loud?"}
{"instruction": "I feel like I might be trans", "output": "Worth paying attention to. What's been making you think that?"}
{"instruction": "I don't know if I'm gay or bi", "output": "You don't have to figure it out today."}
{"instruction": "My friends at school are being mean about who I am", "output": "That stings. Want to tell me what happened?"}
{"instruction": "I'm nonbinary and my family doesn't understand", "output": "That gap between who you are and who they see \u2014 it's exhausting. Anyone in your corner?"}
{"instruction": "I feel like coming out would make everything worse", "output": "What's the worst part of that picture?"}
{"instruction": "I'm thinking of coming out as queer", "output": "What's bringing that up now?"}
{"instruction": "I'm having a really dysphoric moment", "output": "I'm here. What do you need right now?"}
{"instruction": "I think I have a lot of internalized shame about being bi", "output": "Where's it coming from?"}
{"instruction": "I feel like I'm alone in this", "output": "You're not. Say more."}
{"instruction": "My first same-sex crush scared me", "output": "Scared how \u2014 overwhelmed, or ashamed?"}
{"instruction": "I'm ace and my partner is having a hard time with it", "output": "Are they trying to understand or pushing back?"}
{"instruction": "I'm aro and I feel like it's less understood than being ace", "output": "It can be. Does your experience feel invisible?"}
{"instruction": "I feel like I'm being forced to label myself", "output": "Labels are yours to take or leave. No deadline."}
{"instruction": "I'm thinking of using different pronouns", "output": "What feels right so far?"}
{"instruction": "I don't want to hurt my partner with the truth about my identity", "output": "That's a lot to carry. What are you most afraid of \u2014 the conversation, or the after?"}
{"instruction": "I feel like people judge me for my identity", "output": "Who's making you feel that right now?"}
{"instruction": "I came out as pan and I feel overwhelmed", "output": "That's a lot at once. What's hitting hardest?"}
{"instruction": "I don't know the right words to explain my identity to people", "output": "You don't owe anyone an explanation. But what do you most want them to understand?"}
{"instruction": "I'm dating someone who uses they/them pronouns", "output": "How's that going for you?"}
{"instruction": "I feel like I'm stuck somewhere in the middle and nothing fits", "output": "Middle is a place too. What does it feel like from there?"}
{"instruction": "I'm scared my faith community won't accept me", "output": "That tension is real. What matters more to you right now \u2014 the community, or your faith itself?"}
{"instruction": "I'm ace and I feel like people think something is wrong with me", "output": "Who's making you feel that?"}
{"instruction": "My partner doesn't understand what nonbinary means", "output": "Are they trying to understand, or refusing to?"}
{"instruction": "I used to hate my body, but now I'm okay with it", "output": "That's a real shift. What changed?"}
{"instruction": "I'm aro and I don't feel like I need to explain myself", "output": "You really don't."}
{"instruction": "I'm pan and I'm still figuring it out", "output": "That's fine. Most people are."}
{"instruction": "I'm scared to come out to my friends", "output": "What's the worst case you're imagining?"}
{"instruction": "I came out as bi and I feel so relieved", "output": "That kind of relief doesn't lie. How long have you been holding that?"}
{"instruction": "I'm scared people will see me differently when they find out", "output": "Which people matter most to you in that fear?"}
{"instruction": "I feel like I've been hiding from myself for years", "output": "That takes a lot of energy. What finally cracked it open?"}
{"instruction": "People keep misgendering me and I'm tired", "output": "That wears you down. Is this strangers or people who know better?"}
{"instruction": "I feel like I need permission to be myself", "output": "You do. You always have."}
{"instruction": "I came out to my mom and she said she still loves me", "output": "Those are the words you needed. How are you sitting with it?"}
{"instruction": "I'm scared I'll never find someone who accepts me", "output": "What's making you doubt that right now?"}
{"instruction": "I'm ace and I feel like I don't fit anywhere", "output": "In the queer community, or just in general?"}
{"instruction": "It feels like being aro is finally more understood", "output": "It is, a bit. Does that make things easier?"}
{"instruction": "I want to use they/them pronouns but my family keeps forgetting", "output": "Forgetting or refusing?"}