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"Cooper: Plus my work hours have been cut",
"Eve: (Question) Do you have people you can talk to digitally? Friends, family?",
"Cooper: I have family but they live on the west coast im on the eastcoast"
] |
{
"dialog": "Cooper: Im so depressed\nEve: I am really sorry to hear that.\nCooper: It just wont end\nEve: What is making things so hard?\nCooper: Now Im in quaritine again cant leave the house\nCooper: I dont have anyone to tak to\nEve: I definitely understand that. I also have been having a hard time in quarantine.\nCooper: Plus my work hours have been cut",
"summary": "Cooper is depressed because he can't leave the house and he doesn't have anyone to take care of. His work hours have been cut and he is having a hard time in quarantine."
}
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Reflection of feelings
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"Carter: im not sure about that but i pray it will. thank you",
"Eve: (Affirmation and Reassurance) No one ever could have imagined that this would be how we are having to do things.",
"Carter: yes its crazy but i am praying my way though it all"
] |
{
"dialog": "Carter: i am unsure if my marriage will work\nCarter: we fight and argue all the time and don't get along\nEve: when did you start having these feelings?\nCarter: about 3 months ago\nEve: is there something specific that began around that time?\nCarter: i lost my job due to covid and my husband had to get another job while i stayed home with my son for school online.\nEve: That is a difficult and trying situation during unprecedented times. This is a temporary situation that will improve in time.\nCarter: im not sure about that but i pray it will. thank you",
"summary": "Carter lost his job and his husband got a new job. They fight a lot and don't get along. Eve tries to comfort Carter."
}
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Question
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"Eve: (Self-disclosure) I understand you pain and frustration. I have very close friend who has ADHD and trying to cope with it.",
"Madelyn: Thankyou for allowing me some of your time.",
"Madelyn: I would be so much better if my heart wasnt poorly. I could then be medicated properly. As of now i just have to live with it. Kinda sucks"
] |
{
"dialog": "Eve: Hello\nMadelyn: hi\nEve: How are you?\nMadelyn: Ive been better. Stressful day.\nEve: Ohh.. sorry to hear that. Would you mind sharing what is going on?\nMadelyn: Long story short, im a recovering alcoholic, 52 days sober, however my mental health has hit me with vengeance and am really struggling day to day.\nEve: You are getting out of alcoholism and feeling bad about it emotionally, is that right?\nMadelyn: i used alcohol as a self medication. It helped keep bad symtoms of ADHD away. I miss what alcohol used to do for me.",
"summary": "Madelyn is a recovering alcoholic. She used to use alcohol as a self medication to keep bad symtoms of ADHD away. Now she's struggling with her mental health."
}
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Question
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"Emilia: Well, did you see the problem I originally wrote about?",
"Eve: (Others) No I did not, can you tell me about it?",
"Emilia: Oh! You don't get to see the text of the problem? That's strange... I'll cut and paste it here: Oops - that's not allowed. Okay - let me input it again."
] |
{
"dialog": "Eve: Hi there, how is life treating you right now?\nEmilia: Oh, not too bad, thanks. And you?\nEve: I am okay but feeling a little down at the moment. Is there anything that you'd like to talk about?\nEmilia: Sorry to hear you're down... I'm definitely tired of this pandemic! Trying to keep in touch with messages and phone calls can help...\nEmilia: Except I guess not anymore with this one friend...\nEve: Is there anything specific getting you down? How are things in your work and your personal relationships?\nEve: Oh I am sorry to hear that .. you are having a problem with a close friend?\nEmilia: Well, did you see the problem I originally wrote about?",
"summary": "Eve is feeling down at the moment. She is tired of this pandemic. Emilia has a problem with one of her closest friends."
}
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Others
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"Xavier: i am stressed and depressed right now .",
"Eve: (Question) Tell me about it.",
"Eve: (Affirmation and Reassurance) with covid-19 yout not alone."
] |
{
"dialog": "Eve: Don't worry about my day, i'm 34 and retired i do this to help people, tell me about your situation.\nXavier: My suitaion is really very sad and depressed\nEve: I was a homeless drug addicted junkie for over 10 years. Tell me how yours is worse sweety.\nEve: Tell me why you are so sad and depressed.\nXavier: I had breakup with my partner ,it was really very horrible to me to overcome .\nEve: Was he abusive, tell me more.\nXavier: I tried a lot but i couldnt forget him at all\nXavier: He was not abusive at all",
"summary": "Eve is retired and wants to know why Xavier is depressed. Eve was homeless drug addict junkie for over 10 years. Xavier had a break up with his partner, who was not abusive."
}
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Question
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"Aubree: Thanks. But I'm really not that strong. It's really exhausting and overwhelming. My depression and anxiety are through the roof, and honestly, I'm not sure how long I can keep this up.",
"Eve: (Question) Someone else would have collapsed already. Do you go outside a lot?",
"Aubree: I actually am not able to go outside. Its been a few weeks."
] |
{
"dialog": "Aubree: Hi. I'm feeling depressed and overwhelmed.\nEve: Please tell me more about it, when did it start?\nAubree: It all started earlier this year. I live with my parents because I'm unable to care for myself , due to a disability. Well my dad has dementia, and my mom, who was the primary caregiver, was diagnosed with cancer. She's been in and out of hospital so now its up to me to keep everything afloat.,\nAubree: I'm having a really hard time with it.\nAubree: Between work, school, keeping up the house, and caring for my dad, it's a lot to handle.\nEve: That's very exhausting doing that much, I really feel bad for you, you're a strong person to be able to handle so much by yourself\nAubree: Thanks. But I'm really not that strong. It's really exhausting and overwhelming. My depression and anxiety are through the roof, and honestly, I'm not sure how long I can keep this up.\nEve: Someone else would have collapsed already. Do you go outside a lot?",
"summary": "Aubree lives with her parents because she has a disability. Her dad has dementia and her mother has cancer. She's been in and out of hospital recently. Aubree is struggling with depression and anxiety."
}
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Others
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[
"Bella: Thank you for vaildating my decision.",
"Bella: Yes, that is my plan. Focus on me and finding out what it is that I truly want in life.",
"Bella: He's helped me understand what I don't want."
] |
{
"dialog": "Bella: That is true, and that was why I broke it off. He supported Trump, which I knew 4 years ago during the election, but this year it was overwhelming.\nBella: I will be with family thankfully, we have a small family so COVID isn't something I have to worry about.\nEve: I understand. You made the right decision, if not now you will get in even more arguments in the future. He is just not the right person\nBella: Overall, I know im going to be ok, but it feels so fresh and like it hurts still.\nEve: Spend the time now that you have on yourself too. Be an even better version of you\nBella: Thank you for vaildating my decision.\nBella: Yes, that is my plan. Focus on me and finding out what it is that I truly want in life.\nBella: He's helped me understand what I don't want.",
"summary": "Bella broke up with her boyfriend because he supported Trump. She will be with her family."
}
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Reflection of feelings
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"Eve: (Question) Do you get paid vacation time in your job?",
"Landon: That sounds like a reasonable thing to do.",
"Landon: I do get paid vacation"
] |
{
"dialog": "Eve: I can see exactly how frustrated you are in this situation. Before I share some ideas do you have any ideas of ways to combat this issue?\nLandon: I've spoken to my boss. He was sympathetic about it all....At this point I'm not sure what to do.\nEve: Alright. Have you talked to your boss about working in areas where you can be around people less? Or possibly going part time for now and finding a lob that puts less danger on you and your family?\nLandon: Those are fairly decent ideas. The struggle for money would still be an issue if I worked part-time. And I doubt I could find a better job at this particular time. With that being said, I didn't think to see if the boss would let me work in the office for a bit. I know my fellow employees would respect my wishes.\nLandon: Any other suggestions?\nEve: We are going through some really tough times right now and I think that most people are very sympathetic. Especially for those who are in your shoes. Our children are our top priority and seeing them sick hurts us more than anything. How do you feel about talking to your boss about working in the office for a bit until things calm down a little?\nEve: Do you get paid vacation time in your job?\nLandon: That sounds like a reasonable thing to do.",
"summary": "Landon is frustrated because his children are sick and he can't find a part-time job that would be less stressful for him and his family. He will ask his boss to let him work in the office for a bit."
}
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Providing Suggestions
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"Eve: (Affirmation and Reassurance) I can understand how upset that must be",
"Landon: I know",
"Landon: why did he lied"
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{
"dialog": "Landon: I feel sad\nEve: I am sorry to hear that. Do you want to tell me more about what is going on?\nLandon: im mad at myself for trusting him again\nEve: What happened?\nLandon: he cheated on me\nEve: I am so sorry about that. I would be sad and mad too\nLandon: he ghosted and he was trying to get with other girsl on tinder\nLandon: i wish he had the balls to actually do a proper break up he promised me he would never do that but ofcourse he lied",
"summary": "Landon is upset because he cheated on her again. He was trying to get with other girls on Tinder."
}
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Others
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"Penelope: Just one more match, just one more, I keep telling me",
"Eve: (Information) It sounds like you might have a genuine addiction to gaming. Do you think you might benefit from some counselling? There are organisations that can help.",
"Penelope: Do you really think it's that severe?"
] |
{
"dialog": "Eve: Hello there! How is life treating you at the moment?\nPenelope: Hello, I have been concerned lately.\nEve: So you have some worries about life? Would you like to share them?\nPenelope: I keep failing online classes even when I seem to have them under control. I think it might have something to do with me playing too much videogames.\nEve: Do you feel that perhaps you are playing video games as a distraction from how bad the world is at the moment?\nPenelope: No, I don't think that's it. I have been playing games since I was 6.\nEve: Ah, so it's a long term hobby? I do love gaming myself I have to admit.\nEve: Could you perhaps set yourself some strict boundaries, like you can only do a certain number of hours of gaming a day?",
"summary": "Penelope keeps failing online classes even when she seems to have them under control. Penelope thinks it might be because she plays too much video games. She has been playing games since she was 6. Eve would like Penelope to limit her gaming."
}
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Others
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"Carolyn: (Question) How much sleep are you getting now? Do you keep irregular sleep hours, e.g. the time you go to bed and get up?",
"Nicholas: Yes, I had a bad sleeping schedule, when I would go to sleep around 2-3am. I now get around 8 hours of sleep but I feel like it isn't enough still.",
"Nicholas: Would this relate to a health problem of not being active or maybe stress?"
] |
{
"dialog": "Carolyn: Hello, my name is Carolyn. How are you feeling today?\nNicholas: Hello, my name is Nicholas. I am feeling a bit tired today, how are you Carolyn?\nCarolyn: I'm a bit tired too to be honest! Is there anything you'd like to talk about today? I'm ready to listen :)\nNicholas: I have been tired a lot lately, even when I sleep for 8 hours. I am not sure what to really do to help myself gain more energy and recover my sleeping schedule to normal.\nCarolyn: I see. Are you finding it hard to function on not enough sleep? I have experienced that at times as well, and found it quite frustrating!\nCarolyn: How much sleep are you getting now? Do you keep irregular sleep hours, e.g. the time you go to bed and get up?\nNicholas: Yes, I had a bad sleeping schedule, when I would go to sleep around 2-3am. I now get around 8 hours of sleep but I feel like it isn't enough still.\nNicholas: Would this relate to a health problem of not being active or maybe stress?",
"summary": "Nicholas has been tired a lot lately even when he sleeps for 8 hours. Carolyn has experienced that at times and found it frustrating. Nicholas used to sleep around 2-3 hours at night and now he gets 8 hours of sleep a night. He doesn't know what to do about it"
}
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Providing Suggestions
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"Charles: Yes, sometimes it is hard to just get into that groove",
"Eve: (Providing Suggestions) Getting yourself to bed and waking up at a good time will help too.",
"Charles: Yes, I am not very good at getting good night rests"
] |
{
"dialog": "Eve: You had it in the past, it is just a matter of bringing it back.\nCharles: Yes, with some hard work, I'm certain it can return. Do you do anything to keep yourself motivated?\nEve: I have found that accomplishing small tasks makes good momentum.\nCharles: That is a good advice\nCharles: I will start to focus on smaller tasks first\nEve: It helps to get things moving and becomes a good habit.\nCharles: Yes, sometimes it is hard to just get into that groove\nEve: Getting yourself to bed and waking up at a good time will help too.",
"summary": "Charles had motivation in the past. He will focus on smaller tasks to get back into the habit."
}
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Providing Suggestions
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"Angel: Thank you for your time! I will be praying for you as well!",
"Eve: (Others) I too believe it as well. and you are right no one talks about it but it should be but it is easier for me with Covid since covid brings up death alot. you are welcome and Keep safe and God did not give us a fearful mind but ... I don't remember all of it but you could google it .. something sound mind and Satan will use fear to get us",
"Angel: God does not give us the spirit of fear is I beleive what you were referring to and you 100% correct GOD BLESS!"
] |
{
"dialog": "Angel: Prayer is the best help in the world. Nothing is more effective than prayer!\nEve: Anxiety is a powerful thing and what may work for one person doesn't on another. I truly wish you the best . I would not want to be in your shoes . I honestly HATE public speaking\nEve: Yes it is and and most people say nothing left to do but pray and reality is that should be the first thing. I have learned through many years and dont go to people houses or jam religion down throats but I am led lately to speak up in general conversation if it comes up\nAngel: It does seem to be one of my biggest fears in the world!. I can say that just the topic of prayer and that being of the heavenly father, this topic has helped to ease my anxiety in the present moment and I am sure that God led me here to the platform this evening just for this conversation with you even though it was simple in nature, you have been very helpful\nAngel: People do not talk like this anymore\nAngel: God and anything related has been taken out of conversations\nEve: Anyways, it is time for me to go to bed. If we were able I would continue to talk to you and pray but as we can't I wish you all the best . Since you are in college you have your entire life ahead of you I hope. Covid is temporary and this too shall pass. See you in heaven one day I hope . Goodnight and God bless.\nAngel: Thank you for your time! I will be praying for you as well!",
"summary": "Angel and Eve have been talking about public speaking and anxiety. Angel prays for Eve."
}
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Information
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"Eve: (Others) It was nice speaking with you today",
"Michael: and you as well.",
"Michael: take care, and Happy Holidays!"
] |
{
"dialog": "Michael: yes, I try to walk outdoors every day, for at least 30 minutes. it does help a lot. but with the weather turning colder, that may be difficult to continue\nEve: It is so important during stressful life events to take care of our minds and bodies. It sounds like you have been making good choices! Have you reached out to family or friends for advice or perhaps help with supplemental employment?\nMichael: not yet; it is very difficult for me to ask for help. But I may need to do so in the near future. I am fortunate to have a close network of family and friends that I can count on\nEve: I am happy to hear you have support during this time.\nMichael: i would be open to seeking other employment online; work from home on the computer. any suggestions?\nEve: Luckily, there are many platforms online that allow you to work from home. I know of several that allow you to do side \"gigs\". Perhaps you can search and find a few of these. I, myself have had success doing these.\nMichael: thanks! i will check it out. in the meantime, any other suggestions for dealing with anxiety?\nEve: Many have found meditation helps relieve anxiety. Most importantly, if you find yourself feeling depressed or worsening symptoms, please contact your medical professional.",
"summary": "Michael walks outdoors every day, but with the weather turning colder it may be difficult to continue. Michael hasn't asked for help with supplemental employment, but he may do so in the near future. Eve knows several platforms that allow people to work from home."
}
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Others
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"Eve: (Question) have you guys seen a therapist",
"Samuel: No but I am thinking about i",
"Samuel: it*"
] |
{
"dialog": "Samuel: He told me not to take it personally because it is just lust and that he loves me only\nEve: since when have you guys been together\nSamuel: Actually, today is our 4th year anniversary\nEve: that's a long time.\nSamuel: Yes I guess he just wants a change\nEve: have you guys seen a therapist\nSamuel: No but I am thinking about i\nSamuel: it*",
"summary": "Samuel and his partner have been together for 4 years. He told Samuel not to worry, because he loves her only. They haven't seen a therapist yet."
}
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Others
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"Aubree: I do. this has been very helpful. It's not all hopeless.",
"Eve: (Self-disclosure) Last Christmas when I gave gifts to my family, one of them later told me that the gift they loved the most was the box of Christmas cookies that they were able to enjoy over the course of the week afterwards, and not the keyboard I had gotten them. Sometimes it doesn't take something expensive to be meaningful and make someone happy",
"Aubree: That sounds wonderful. I'm getting to work on my projects. Thank you."
] |
{
"dialog": "Eve: I have seen some people make small ornaments filled with candies and treats and other small goodies. So even if all of the gifts feel small, they can feel like they are getting a lot of them. And you could even get them to have fun decorating and painting the ornaments!\nEve: Yeah, a box fort is really fun!\nAubree: I never that about filling an ornament with small stuff. That's a great idea.\nEve: When I was a kid, I loved making box forts, and its a great way to reuse stuff you might already have around the house. The fun pretend games you can play were a blast. I'm sure your kids might love it too!\nAubree: I could paint and decorate it. My daughters would like that. I can make it look like a castle.\nEve: It can feel tough when it feels like you can't provide all the big gifts that you feel your kids deserve\nEve: But you clearly care and love your kids, and want to do something for them\nAubree: I do. this has been very helpful. It's not all hopeless.",
"summary": "Eve and Aubree's daughters would like to make a box fort out of small ornaments. Eve suggests filling them with candies and treats. Aubree can paint and decorate it."
}
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Affirmation and Reassurance
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"Eve: (Reflection of feelings) I can understand that. You don't want two people disrespecting you.",
"Aurora: absolutely not. i have a strong constitution about myself and don't allow to be disrespected by anyone",
"Eve: (Question) I hear that! What happened in court when you went?"
] |
{
"dialog": "Eve: Hi there. How are you today?\nAurora: I'm good. how r u?\nEve: I'm doing good today. What brings you on here?\nAurora: I'm not happy with an ex friend who talks behind my back to my current friends\n\n.\nEve: ugh. There's nothing worse than that. Have you confronted the ex friend?\nAurora: nope. we are not on speaking terms. We have sued each other in court before. we are past talking.\nEve: oh wow. that's not much of a friendship! So have you attempted at all to discuss it? What does the other friend think about it?\nAurora: they're still friends with me. if it gets bad enough i can sue her for slander",
"summary": "Aurora is upset with her ex friend who talks about her behind her back to her current friends. She has already sued her in court. If it gets bad, she might sue her for slander."
}
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Others
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[
"Cooper: True. I feel like I should try that.",
"Eve: (Affirmation and Reassurance) Good luck. A friend of mine used to say \"action alleviates anxiety\" and Ive found that helpful",
"Cooper: True. This really helped. Thanks for your time."
] |
{
"dialog": "Cooper: Because of that time period, to this day, I'm not as close as I once used to be with my friends\nEve: I had that tendency too, work was very important to me, sometimes to the detriment of my relationships. Tell me more about the lack of closeness. What's different?\nCooper: yes. I miss out on key moments and I felt left out.\nEve: Is there any way to speak to them directly about how you feel about that time... tell them what your feeling. People who care for you can be very understanding\nCooper: hmm yes..\nCooper: I agree.\nEve: You don't have to make a big deal about it but I have found that a low key discussion can change things for the better\nCooper: yes. And I will be happy to make more time for friends and family as well.",
"summary": "Cooper and Eve had a difficult period in their lives when work was very important to them and they didn't spend much time with their friends and family. Cooper misses out on key moments and feels left out. Eve advises him to talk to his friends about it."
}
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Others
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"Eve: (Information) Yes i think that would be a great first step. I would try a google search like \"Therapists (My Area) Sliding Scale\"",
"Eve: (Information) As for feeling better its different for everyone. I think it even took a couple months to recognize myself as worthy. Once you start feeling better about yourself it kind of snowballs in a good way.",
"James: Thank you things don't seem quite as hopeless now and I don't feel so alone and misunderstood. You have a nice day and I am going to go do that search now."
] |
{
"dialog": "Eve: One good thing covid has done for us is create a surge of telemedicine. I know my therapist along with many others are doing it this way now. It may not be as great as being in person but it helps having that ear to listen to you.\nJames: I think I feel this way because I feel so stuck. I make a little money working remotely but not enough to make any big changes and the things I do don't ever last like the house is only clean for moments.\nJames: You are right, one of my friends who has asthma started getting her meds through an online doctor and I am sure therapists are on line also, she said her doctor is even reasonable and less than her normal office visit that is something I can look into.\nEve: I can relate to that, spend 8 hours cleaning the place up for my 10 year old to tear it all down in 10 minutes. Jobs are a whole other can of worms as well. May i suggest though that, even though big goals are great to strive for, you set a bunch of smaller goals to complete?\nJames: What would be an example of a smaller goal? Enjoy your son my kids are grown and gone and it happens faster than you think.\nEve: Yea just last year they were a baby in my eyes ha. Maybe just even something as apply to 2 new jobs this week. Clean the kitchen on monday. Simple things.\nJames: I don't really have big goals because they all seem too impossible to be realistic.\nJames: Your small goals seem big to me. I can barely drag myself to the kitchen must let get motivated enough to clean it.",
"summary": "Eve thinks there is a good thing about telemedicine. James feels stuck because he makes little money working remotely and he can't make any big changes. James can't drag himself to the kitchen to clean it. Eve's kids are grown and gone and it happens faster than"
}
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Others
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[
"Sadie: Do you think I should call my closest friend then?",
"Eve: (Reflection of feelings) I think that is a good start. If they are your closet friend you should be able to talk about this too them.",
"Sadie: Yeah, I feel really comfortable talking to her. I can be open about my concerns regarding other friends too."
] |
{
"dialog": "Eve: hello how are you?\nSadie: I'm feeling kind of down lately. I feel like most of my friends have been avoiding me.\nEve: Oh i'm sorry to hear that. why are you're friends avoiding you?\nSadie: I have no idea. Everything was working out well just a few weeks ago. I feel so lonely.\nEve: Have you tried to reach out to your friends for coffee, food or beer?\nSadie: No. I fear that I might get turned down. They are usually the ones that ask me out, and they haven't been doing that for weeks.\nEve: Perhaps you should give it a shot and see what happens. They maybe feeling the you are the one not reciprocating and this whole thing has just been a miscommunication\nSadie: You are saying that I have perhaps missinterpreted the whole situation?",
"summary": "Sadie feels lonely because most of her friends have been avoiding her recently. She doesn't want to reach out to her friends for support because she's afraid she might get rejected."
}
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Affirmation and Reassurance
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"Sadie: i'm divorced. they sleep at his house and he gets them off the bus",
"Sadie: i start work at 6 so i cna get off at 2 and get them off the bus at 3",
"Sadie: i'm going for my master's degree. i am about halfway done"
] |
{
"dialog": "Sadie: hello?\nEve: How are you doing today ?\nSadie: stressed\nEve: It is a stressful time , why are you feeling stressed ?\nSadie: work, kids, school\nEve: I can understand\nSadie: how many kids do you have?\nSadie: what kind of degree do you have?",
"summary": "Sadie is stressed because of work, kids and school. Eve understands her stress. Eve has four kids and a degree."
}
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Reflection of feelings
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"Liam: I feel alone a lot I understand I am not but that is how I feel",
"Liam: Bye for now and thank you again",
"Eve: (Others) You have your wife and kids you are not alone :) Bye take care, things will get better."
] |
{
"dialog": "Eve: Aw thank you for the compliment\nLiam: I hope you have a great rest of your day and thank you so much for the kindness\nEve: Honestly, I have been ill with depression several times, and have felt hopeless...and it always lifted\nEve: You're so welcome. Feel better soon.\nLiam: Thank you\nEve: And don't give up!!!\nLiam: I am trying not too but that is the hard part\nLiam: I feel alone a lot I understand I am not but that is how I feel",
"summary": "Eve has been ill with depression several times and it always lifted her up. Liam feels alone and hopeless."
}
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Others
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[
"Joseph: Any advice on how to push past the racing thoughts?",
"Eve: (Providing Suggestions) Have you tried to talk to a professional about this, it is always helpful to talk to someone who is trained to talk about things like this with people.",
"Joseph: Yes"
] |
{
"dialog": "Eve: Hello\nJoseph: Hi! Did they send you a summary or anything of what's going on? If not, I've been struggling general depression. And overwhelming anxiety.\nEve: They did not, what is causing your depression and anxiety?\nJoseph: A cycle of anxiety.. overthinking that leads to depression.\nJoseph: Nothing specific at the moment\nEve: So just to clarify, you are having overwhelming depression and anxiety today that has been caused by nothing in particular?\nJoseph: yes\nEve: I completely understand, I have had many issues in the past with anxiety and depression.",
"summary": "Joseph has been struggling with depression and anxiety. Eve understands his issues with anxiety and depression."
}
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Question
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[
"Eve: (Information) Serotonin actually makes you feel good. In a depressed person it can be reuptaken by the brain too rapidly however, leaving you feeling low. Prozac prevents this from happening.",
"Eve: (Others) I hope I have been able to help you. Enjoy your day!",
"Julian: Thank you. You too..."
] |
{
"dialog": "Julian: I am just not fit for society.\nEve: I do understand. I have suffered severe depression and I know how debilitating it is. Can you see your doctor?\nJulian: Yeah, I probably can\nEve: Would you be prepared to take medication? I know a lot of people hate the idea but it can really help.\nJulian: Medication? Am I some kind of crazy psycho now? No, not at all\nEve: I was talking about anti depressants :). I use prozac and it helps a lot.\nJulian: Prozac? Could you tell me more about it...?\nEve: Yes - it is an anti depressant drug that was developed about thirty years ago. It works by preventing your brain from reuptaking serotonin",
"summary": "Julian suffers from depression. Eve uses Prozac, which helps with depression."
}
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Information
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[
"Chase: Indeed I don't, you're right.",
"Eve: (Self-disclosure) I hear you. Covid has disrupted the whole world so might this year! I can't wait for it to be over.",
"Chase: But now it seems like it will hurt them if I break up with him."
] |
{
"dialog": "Chase: I guess that's what I'm trying to figure out. Should I give him time to prove himself now that he's backed into a corner.\nEve: It's not for me to say but I wonder if he's really going to change as he has not already.\nChase: That's not an easy question to answer. He treats me very well. Always has. And he is frantically trying to accomodate me, now htat I know.\nChase: I agree with you. It's one of my fears.\nEve: How do your children feel about this? And his?\nChase: MY children (6 and 9) have been living with him in their lives as a male figure who is growing into a father figure. He and I have been together for fifteen months, and part-time living together for six.\nChase: This isn't a new relationship. That's part of the complication, too.\nChase: His kids actually asked if they could come live with me while he and his (ex?) figured their shit out.",
"summary": "Chase and his partner have been together for 15 months and part-time living together for 6. Chase's children (6 and 9) have been living with him for 6 and they see him as a father figure. His kids asked if they could live with Chase while he and his"
}
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Others
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[
"Eve: (Question) My goodness! How do they respond when you ask to end the conversation?",
"Robert: I tell him, but he just doesn't get it. Or, he says he understands, but then just goes back to talking!",
"Robert: Or, he may finally end the talk, but the next time we talk, he will just do it all over again!"
] |
{
"dialog": "Robert: Yo\nEve: Hi, how are you doing?\nRobert: I am decent. I am here because my friend talks way too much on the phone, and it frustrates me.\nRobert: They never want to hang up, and the talk can literally go on for hours.\nEve: It sounds like it would be quite frustrating for your friend to talk way too much on the phone.\nRobert: No, he loves it! I'm the one who hates it.\nEve: My goodness! How do they respond when you ask to end the conversation?\nRobert: I tell him, but he just doesn't get it. Or, he says he understands, but then just goes back to talking!",
"summary": "Robert hates the fact that his friend talks too much on the phone and never wants to end the conversation."
}
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Providing Suggestions
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[
"Brooklyn: it feels like everyone is secrectly angling to take each other down so they can get the good jobs",
"Eve: (Affirmation and Reassurance) I can understand how you feel being such competitive environment. However, the most important is your well being. I think as long as you do your utmost best, there is no need to stress over rankings",
"Brooklyn: The money investment is just so high. I don't want to get out of my 3L year and get a job making barely enough for the loan interest payment"
] |
{
"dialog": "Brooklyn: Hello\nBrooklyn: Hello?\nEve: Hello, how are you?\nBrooklyn: Anxious. I'm not sure I can get through this semester\nEve: What caused your anxiety? Is it because you don't understand your class?\nBrooklyn: No I understand the course work, its just a high pressure environment. Everyone is ranked, so its competitive.\nBrooklyn: it feels like everyone is secrectly angling to take each other down so they can get the good jobs\nEve: I can understand how you feel being such competitive environment. However, the most important is your well being. I think as long as you do your utmost best, there is no need to stress over rankings",
"summary": "Brooklyn is anxious about this semester's course work. She feels everyone is trying to take her down so they can get good jobs."
}
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Reflection of feelings
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[
"Joseph: I appreciate your help today. And your validation that I did nothing wrong. I was beginning to second guess my actions.",
"Eve: (Others) I'm so glad that I was able to offer helpful suggestions! Hang in there. You sound like a strong person! I would definitely spend some time with your true friends who live outside of your neighborhood. I can assure you that if someone else's animal attacked one of mine, I would have done the exact same thing that you did.",
"Joseph: THANK YOU! Take care!"
] |
{
"dialog": "Eve: That probably has a lot to do with it. I would feel sorry for her too, as it is very sad in general. However, it doesn't excuse the fact that her animal attacked two other dogs.\nJoseph: I've talked to the neighbors face-to-face and they just think that I overreacted. The woman started getting her dog and private training and so they feel that she was trying. My point was that my dog weighs 15 pounds and her dog weighs 45 pounds and, if it happens again, I may not have a dog anymore. I don't want to wait until a dog is killed or badly injured. I told them exactly what you just said, but they are being mean!\nJoseph: I guess I could try talking to them again. Maybe they've cooled off some.\nEve: That is absolutely terrible. In that case, I would just tell them that you refuse to allow another dog to possible injure or kill your own dog, so you did what was necessary to protect your fur-baby. Had you not done anything, this could have happened again, and the outcome may have been much worse. At that point, if they still don't respond kindly, I'd tell them that you still feel as though you did what needed to be done, that you understand why they are upset, but that you will always do whatever it takes to protect your dog. Hopefully, they will stop being mean. Even if they just stop talking to you completely, it's better than them harassing you or something along those lines. If they do start escalating their nasty behavior, I'd let the manager of your complex know that you're being mistreated. I always try to keep things calm and quiet, but I refuse to be taken advantage of or treated poorly.\nEve: Personally, as I stated previously, I wholeheartedly believe that you did the right thing. If they're unable to see that, I'd try to just avoid contact with them unless it's necessary. I know it stinks and I'd be sad too, but unfortunately, some people just don't know how to let things go and seem to find joy in making other people upset. I'm so sorrry that you're dealing with all of this.\nJoseph: Thank you so much! Those are really good suggestions. I'll do that and, hopefully, they will calm down. If not, I have other friends that live outside my neighborhood. And I can talk to the manager like you said.\nJoseph: I appreciate your help today. And your validation that I did nothing wrong. I was beginning to second guess my actions.\nEve: I'm so glad that I was able to offer helpful suggestions! Hang in there. You sound like a strong person! I would definitely spend some time with your true friends who live outside of your neighborhood. I can assure you that if someone else's animal attacked one of mine, I would have done the exact same thing that you did.",
"summary": "Joseph's dog attacked two other dogs. His neighbors think he overreacted. Eve offers him some advice on how to deal with the situation."
}
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Others
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[
"Thomas: I'm okay, but slightly worried about next year. My job is sort of tenuous and I have about a month to find a new role.",
"Eve: (Question) Yes it is nice. Are you doing anything festive today?",
"Thomas: No, nothing much. Same as always, on and off work, having a meal with the girlfriend, that sort. (It would help if this system shows us if one of us is typing..)"
] |
{
"dialog": "Thomas: Hi there\nEve: Hello, Merry Christmas Eve\nThomas: And to you\nThomas: You doing alright?\nEve: How are you today? I am buried in cookie dough, lol, but happy and wwell.\nThomas: That sounds like a cozy scene :)\nThomas: I'm okay, but slightly worried about next year. My job is sort of tenuous and I have about a month to find a new role.\nEve: Yes it is nice. Are you doing anything festive today?",
"summary": "Thomas is slightly worried about his job next year. Eve is busy baking cookies."
}
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Affirmation and Reassurance
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[
"Anthony: No, I am too far away to stop by or go for the weekend. I would have to plan a whole trip and I cant really afford it yet. My brother knew that the pets were mine but he demanded that he keep them there and I didnt want to fight with him so I said fine.",
"Eve: (Providing Suggestions) If they are your pets you should be able to keep them but you did the right thing as to not argue with your brother and your parents could help you look after them",
"Anthony: Yeah, you are right. Once he let the gate open just so my dog would run away, he says he didn't do it but I know him and he is really mean and vengeful. He would also pull pranks on me that were just cruel. He once told me that my cat was ran over but he was just hiding her at a friends house for a week."
] |
{
"dialog": "Anthony: I've always been closer to my mom so she is much more understanding. She helps me pay my monthly bills too.\nEve: Yeah reach out to your mum, and although you fight and argue, they are still your family at the end of the day\nEve: Thats nice of her :)\nAnthony: Yes, that is a good point. I have always heard the blood is thicker than water.\nAnthony: I have also been upset lately because I had to leave all my pets when I moved out. I left my dog and my cat back at home.\nEve: Have you visited them ever since?\nAnthony: No, I am too far away to stop by or go for the weekend. I would have to plan a whole trip and I cant really afford it yet. My brother knew that the pets were mine but he demanded that he keep them there and I didnt want to fight with him so I said fine.\nEve: If they are your pets you should be able to keep them but you did the right thing as to not argue with your brother and your parents could help you look after them",
"summary": "Anthony moved out and had to leave his pets with his brother. Eve advises him to reach out to his mother."
}
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Affirmation and Reassurance
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[
"Eve: (Self-disclosure) I understand and have been in your shoes and its NO FUN and they don't get to borrow ever again.",
"Eve: (Providing Suggestions) Have you explained just how much of an issue it is to them and flat out tell them you saw them spending money on junk etc when they could have given to you . Something is better than nothing . Maybe work out a plan of 50 a week if they work?",
"Anna: May be I can try that, $50 a week or asking them to pay in instalments sounds like a good idea. Problem is I loaned hard cash and I need as cash, not digital transfers"
] |
{
"dialog": "Anna: Yes, as recently as yesterday, but they keep delaying. And as though rubbing salt to wound, I can see them spending on personal goods instead of returning the money to me.\nEve: I would be furious too!\nAnna: I am not sure if they have borrowed before, but sure as hell, they have not returning any loan I can tell.\nAnna: *they are not\nEve: I just meant if they had borrowed in past and returned it than maybe they were telling the truth but since you saw them blowing money that s rightfully yours is a problem\nEve: Can you talk to a mutual friend of both of you or if you are close maybe their family ?\nAnna: Absolutely. This has put me in a tight spot financially\nAnna: I can try talking to their family but I am afraid I am not that close to their family",
"summary": "Anna is angry at her partner for not returning the money they borrowed recently. She wants to talk to their mutual friend or their family as she is not close to them."
}
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Providing Suggestions
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[
"Isaiah: yes , we need to do and arrange the house",
"Eve: (Reflection of feelings) I remember that. So much blood, it was scary thinking it was all coming out of me",
"Isaiah: yes dear , we will do like that ..you a such a brave and caring person"
] |
{
"dialog": "Isaiah: yes ,married my childhood best friend\nEve: that is great, i hope he is supportive.\nEve: you know, it may be a blessing in disguise. with COVID and all the hospitals full, maybe whatever higher power you believe in was saying you are meant to have a healthy baby in a healthy society\nIsaiah: yea. he is so caring. when we brought new house , next month i got preganent and got full time jobs for both , we were so happy but god turned our fate\nEve: wow, that is a lot going on at once!\nIsaiah: yes when i think in deep felt yea it is good to loose baby in covid but still i bared lot pain as single in bath room\nEve: you two have time now for you to get healthy and recover and get the house exactly how you want it for a family\nIsaiah: except my hubby , nobody in home lot of bed in car and bathroom entire night",
"summary": "Isaiah got married to his childhood best friend. They bought a house and got full time jobs. Isaiah lost the pregnancy."
}
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Providing Suggestions
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[
"Eve: (Reflection of feelings) finding what make one happy can be a big job",
"Eve: (Reflection of feelings) you stay positive and you are sure to get positive results!",
"Christian: that makes sense, thanks!"
] |
{
"dialog": "Eve: Has Covid 19 affected you or your family?\nChristian: Its hard being isolated and living alone\nEve: You dont have friends or company that comes to visit? I know going through tough times can have you feeling alone.\nChristian: yeah it is hard thanks for asking. i hope that you are doing alright\nEve: I am doing what I love to do most which is helping others because it makes me feel better to help others if I can.\nChristian: That's good to hear. I'm glad that you have something\nEve: I have something to look forward to everyday I can help someone vent about things they feel that they are unable to say out of fear of being judged or frowned upon or as you might say is rough about your life\nChristian: Yeah I can see how that would help, something to look forward to",
"summary": "Christian is living alone in Covid 19 and doesn't have any friends or family to visit him. Eve helps others in her job."
}
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Others
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[
"Eve: (Self-disclosure) They were but I didn't pay much attention :) I vote in the Generals and the locals but that's all .",
"Hazel: Oh, well, I'm sorry to hear that. I think participation in local governance is actually the most achievable path for change, but perhaps how it's structured where you are, it wouldn't really matter much if you participated.",
"Hazel: I guess mayorals are only technically local, not like parliamentary elections"
] |
{
"dialog": "Eve: Hello there, how are you doing today?\nHazel: I am doing well. My marijuana consumption today has been less than what it has been for the last week.\nEve: Well that is good. Are you trying to come off it completely?\nHazel: Absolutely not. I'm not even in California yet, where I know my usage will explode. It's just difficult managing the realities of quarantine with the effects of the marijuana\nEve: Well, do you worry about your consumption? If you don't I don't see it as a problem :)\nHazel: Yes, because of the financial strain it places on me and my wife, who is also a regular user.\nEve: Ah yes, it is not cheap. I am not sure how much to suggest as it's not legal in my country :)\nHazel: It was recently legalized in our state. My wife and I were actually one of the first people in line to buy it legally last year, before the pandemic. It is a major part of our lives.",
"summary": "Hazel's marijuana consumption today has been less than what it has been for the last week. She's not trying to come off completely, as she's not in California yet, but she's managing the realities of quarantine with the effects of marijuana. She and her wife were among the first"
}
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Others
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[
"Hazel: I hope so, I am very not looking forward to come to work tomorrow :/",
"Eve: (Affirmation and Reassurance) If you believe in yourself, things will work out somehow :)",
"Hazel: I will try to believe in my self and will check how to relax on youtube."
] |
{
"dialog": "Hazel: So how I should do it?\nEve: Maybe play calm classical music and start slowly reminiscing about the days previous, and your future ahead\nEve: or you could just wacth a youtube tutorial, either one works fine\nHazel: I just don't really like classic music but I can try\nHazel: Yes probably I will look in youtube how to do it thanks.\nHazel: Do you think I will lose my job?\nEve: It is all in the aid of calming yourself down, and your welcome :)\nEve: and knowing it is your first offense, probably not but always prepare for the worst",
"summary": "Hazel will look for a youtube tutorial on calming music to help her forget about the past."
}
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Affirmation and Reassurance
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[
"Eve: (Reflection of feelings) Oh wow, that sounds really hard, and I can only imagine it is so difficult to be breaking into a new career entirely working from home. Even people I know who have been in their jobs a long time are struggling with remote work. It is hard if your company is not being flexible on deadlines during this time.",
"Eve: (Question) Have you found any strategies that have helped a tiny bit?",
"Aubrey: It has been very hard in general, training has been a nightmare! I've tried to develop some coping strategies but they seem to fly out the window when i'm really stressed. I tend to\n over eat in these situations aswell."
] |
{
"dialog": "Aubrey: HI\nEve: Hi there! How are you doing?\nAubrey: I'm doing good, hbu?\nEve: I'm good! It's a beautiful evening where I am. What's on your mind?\nAubrey: Work is becoming a burden. I've just graduated college and my first ever job is stressful!\nEve: Oh wow! Well first of all, I want to say that I definitely empathize with you. My first job out of college was one of the most stressful times of my life. It does get better though.\nEve: What is stressful about your job?\nAubrey: Everyone I've reached out to has said the same. There are several factors that make my job stressful. The biggest issues are working from home and unrealistic deadlines.",
"summary": "Aubrey has just graduated college and she finds her first job after that stressful. Eve empathizes with her as it was one of the most stressful times of her life. Aubrey is working from home and has unrealistic deadlines."
}
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Self-disclosure
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[
"Caroline: He knows that I am torn. I am not going to put my son out of the house. I am also not one to get loud and angry. My son verbally is aggressive.",
"Eve: (Reflection of feelings) I can understand why your boyfriend be getting upset if your son is disrespectful to you and is aggressive but you know that is your son and you going to be there for him no matter what",
"Caroline: Yes, and I have gotten my son to go to a therapist weekly to try to express his anger about the pandemic and the changes it has brought in his lifestyle. He cannot take his frustrustations out on us."
] |
{
"dialog": "Eve: Hello\nEve: How may I help you today?\nCaroline: hi\nCaroline: I am stressed with my 25 year old moved back from NYC. . My boyfriend and I have a home and my son does not like him.\nEve: I am sorry to hear that i can understand how you must be feeling\nEve: Why does your son not like your boyfriend?\nCaroline: He is going back to school and I am supporting him in that. The problem is that my boyfriend thinks my son should speak to me more respectfully. He gets upset when my son is swears and shows anger to me.\nEve: Have you talked to your boyfriend about how you are feeling?",
"summary": "Caroline's 25-year-old son does not like her boyfriend. Caroline's son is going back to school and Caroline is supporting him in that. Her boyfriend thinks her son should speak to her more respectfully. Caroline has not talked to her boyfriend about this issue."
}
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Information
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[
"Eve: (Providing Suggestions) You can provide the doctor certificate and meet your parents to professor so that the actual reason can be understood by him",
"Sarah: I understand that part but it takes 3 semesters for a senior project so if i resart since this one is declared a failure i will have to add a semester...thats more money and maybe i loose the job i was to start",
"Sarah: maybe I am just freaking out???"
] |
{
"dialog": "Sarah: I tried but he does not want to hear it he said we all need to do this together and due to restrictions we would not be able to complete on time\nEve: You can meet all the team members and may meet the higher official to solve the problem\nSarah: He said there is nothing that can be done...he just brushes it off, and how do i tell my parents i need another semester to finish my degree\nEve: Make an effort to solve it .Because there will be a solution for each and every problem\nSarah: well it seems the solution right now is to start over and add a semester...\nEve: You can provide the doctor certificate and meet your parents to professor so that the actual reason can be understood by him\nSarah: I understand that part but it takes 3 semesters for a senior project so if i resart since this one is declared a failure i will have to add a semester...thats more money and maybe i loose the job i was to start\nSarah: maybe I am just freaking out???",
"summary": "Sarah's senior project has been declared a failure and she needs to reschedule it for another semester to finish her degree. Eve advises her to make an effort to solve the problem."
}
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Providing Suggestions
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[
"Carter: It really helps",
"Eve: (Affirmation and Reassurance) Of course, I am happy if I was able to help. You have a good heart and love your kids, you stay strong, you can do this :-)",
"Carter: Thank you and I'll be trying! I hope you have awesome day and thanks again"
] |
{
"dialog": "Carter: Absolutely the little terrors are the reason I get up in the morning. I can't let them down, you know\nCarter: Their dad's not arpund so its just us\nCarter: I'm all they've got\nEve: Well that is an enormous amount of responsibility that has been placed upon your shoulders, but your attitude seems extremely pleasant and positive. It does not sound easy, but you should make sure you build in some time for yourself if you can.\nCarter: I'm going to try, the messages idea is a really good one so I think I'll give that a try. I mean I am grateful for my kids and I guess things could be worse I do still have some savings left and I can always try to get another job\nEve: You definitely have options, but your situation is still tough, and you deserve relief where you can get it.\nCarter: I'll keep that in mind but thank you for taking the time to let me get things off my chest\nCarter: It really helps",
"summary": "Carter has to take care of his children alone because their father is out of town. He will try to find some time for himself."
}
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Others
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[
"Eve: (Providing Suggestions) both of you need to try to sit down and have a talk about the marriage and let your partner know how you are feeling and see how your partner is feeling.",
"Eve: (Information) without communication then it will be hard to get through a marriage",
"Madelyn: youre right"
] |
{
"dialog": "Madelyn: Are you married?\nEve: do not let this get the best of you. there are ups and downs in marriage but you have to be able to work through all that with your partner.\nEve: no i am not married but one day i do want to get married\nMadelyn: My parents are going through a divorce right now. They were together for 25 years.. my dad has been my step dad since I was two. She went to rehab and they were planning to renew their vows when she got out. She left him for a guy she met in rehab.\nEve: I know you will two will be able to work through this together\nMadelyn: Thanks\nEve: I am sorry to hear and i understand how you are feeling my parents recently got a divorce\nMadelyn: Yeah i think its bothering me more than I realized.",
"summary": "Eve's parents are going through a divorce. She wants to get married one day. Madelyn's stepdad left her for a guy she met in rehab."
}
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Information
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[
"Caroline: Very true, especially someone who is willing to listen and provide advice or positive conversation.",
"Caroline: Yes, I have begun a new medication that will hopefully help soon, I have also begun focusing on different hobbies that I enjoy so that I can keep my mind busy.",
"Eve: (Providing Suggestions) It's great to hear that you are on a medication that will hopefully help you. Have you also considered speaking to an outpatient therapist or someone along those lines? That way, you could return to the same person as often as you feel necessary to continue to work through your feelings with someone who isn't directly involved with your situation."
] |
{
"dialog": "Eve: Hello! How are you doing today?\nCaroline: Hello, I'm having a very rough day, how are you?\nEve: I'm doing well, thank you! I'm sorry to hear that you're having a rough day. Do you mind me asking what happened to make you feel that way?\nCaroline: My mother passed away about a month ago due to alcoholism, it has been rough attempting to cope with the many different emotions.\nEve: I am so sorry to hear that. My brother suffers from alcoholism as well. I know how worrisome and difficult it can be. I still have a hard time dealing with my emotions. What different types of emotions are you feeling?\nCaroline: I'm so sorry that it's a situation that you can relate to, its such a hard situation watching someone drink their life away no matter what you do until they eventually pass away from it. I can say my anxiety has increased immensely as well as depression. It seems that quite a bit of pressure has been placed on me because of the family business she ran and my dad who is now trying to live without her.\nEve: Wow, that really is a lot to deal with. It seems as though you have a good understanding of what you're feeling but that you are trying to figure out how to move forward from here. It seems like you are trying to figure out how to work through your feelings as well as how to manage and deal with the pressure that has been put on you as a result. Does that sound accurate to you?\nCaroline: It definitely does, I know it feels like quite a bit now but will gradually become easier to deal with.",
"summary": "Caroline's mother passed away a month ago due to alcoholism. Her brother suffers from alcoholism as well. She feels a lot of pressure because of the family business she ran and her dad is now trying to live without her."
}
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Others
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[
"Joseph: I feel like they are not my true friends. you are right I should give them time to realize their mistakes",
"Eve: (Providing Suggestions) exactly, that will also gives you the necessary time to know how to react to their forthcoming apologies",
"Joseph: Thanks for all your suggestions. I would try to implement on it."
] |
{
"dialog": "Joseph: Then what you do at that time\nEve: i used to give them time to cool off, when they are back to their senses, they will contact me and apologize\nEve: what causes the argument in the first place ?\nJoseph: I was trying to stop the fight, I just said bit loud , \"Stop all this nonsense at my place.\" Then they all started backfiring me.\nEve: oh,jst give them time to reflect on what happen, they will definitely reach out to you, but you also have to make an effort to forgo the situation because they see you raising your voice on them as a sign of command of seniority.\nJoseph: I feel like not talking to them. Without any reason they made such a big mess\nJoseph: I feel like they are not my true friends. you are right I should give them time to realize their mistakes\nEve: exactly, that will also gives you the necessary time to know how to react to their forthcoming apologies",
"summary": "Joseph was involved in an argument with his colleagues. He wants to distance himself from them. Eve advises him to give them time to cool off and to accept their apologies."
}
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Self-disclosure
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[
"Violet: The local FB group is only full of everyone complaining about everyone else (seems when everyone is home things seem to get on peoples nerves more so then when people could get away from home consistently) but I've never heard of the app Neighbors, I'll have to look into that.",
"Eve: (Providing Suggestions) Give that a try. Maybe you will meet some friends there.",
"Violet: I will definitely have to look into that"
] |
{
"dialog": "Eve: I'm sorry to hear that no good medicine for your issue rite now.\nViolet: I'd be open to doing Yoga once things open back up, but having this disease puts me in a high risk category so my interaction outside the home still has to remain limited until we develop some heard immunity.\nEve: I know. Sunshine is always best cure for a better mood. Did you try to maybe walk or drive around your neighborhood for some fresh air?\nEve: Oh, then drive around might be the only option\nViolet: I'm hoping to get out and go for walks once the weather warms up, unfortunately right now there is still some snow on the ground and it's not quite warn yet being in the northeast\nEve: Ye. You did the right choice. Safety is always the first concern\nViolet: I did take walks along the path in our development last summer so the cabin fever wasn't as bad as it seems to be with all the snow that basically kept me inside all of february\nEve: Does where you live have a online social activity group on FB or an app called Neighbors?",
"summary": "Violet has a disease that limits her physical activity outside the home. She would like to do yoga once the weather warms up, but right now there is still some snow on the ground. She used to take walks along the path in their development last summer when there was less snow"
}
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Others
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[
"Kevin: Well in that case, if it can help it may be worth a try.",
"Eve: (Affirmation and Reassurance) You deserve lots of credit for taking care of yourself and seeing a doctor.",
"Kevin: Thank you for the encouragement."
] |
{
"dialog": "Eve: Getting help from a trained professional can often help to solve problems\nKevin: You make a good point. What type of doctor could I see?\nEve: You could try going to your primary care physician and ask for recommendations.\nKevin: I can do that. Are there any doctors that deal with emotions?\nEve: I've help take a family member to a psychiatrist for help and it's been a tremendous support to help their lives be full again after great hardships.\nKevin: I'm worried about the stigma of going to a shrink.\nEve: Under HIPPA your visit is confidential.\nKevin: Well in that case, if it can help it may be worth a try.",
"summary": "Kevin wants to go to a shrink. He will ask his primary care physician for recommendations. Eve has helped take a family member to a psychiatrist."
}
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Question
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[
"Eve: (Affirmation and Reassurance) I am sorry to hear that. I can imagine it is challenging to work at a place where you are unhappy. And I understand it is a tough time right now.",
"Peyton: Yes, it is. And the new manager is useless! He does not appreciate my efforts at all and I know more than him.",
"Eve: (Self-disclosure) Yes, I can totally relate! I have been there. I was in a very similar situation at a previous job when departments were reorganized and I ended up working for someone who wasn't familiar with my work. It was a challenge and frustrating."
] |
{
"dialog": "Peyton: Hello?\nEve: Hello, how can I help you today?\nPeyton: I don't know what to do. I want to quit and punch the new manager in the face.\nEve: So if I understand correctly, you are upset with your job and your manager?\nPeyton: The company mostly and myself for having to work there.\nPeyton: I can't quit because I have bills to pay and it will be hard to find other job right now.\nEve: I am sorry to hear that. I can imagine it is challenging to work at a place where you are unhappy. And I understand it is a tough time right now.\nPeyton: Yes, it is. And the new manager is useless! He does not appreciate my efforts at all and I know more than him.",
"summary": "Peyton is unhappy with her job and the new manager. She can't quit because she has bills to pay and it will be hard to find a new job."
}
|
Providing Suggestions
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[
"Eve: (Affirmation and Reassurance) It sounds like you have a plan. I know that you will do great.",
"Eve: (Question) Is there anything else that I can help you with today?",
"Jayden: I think that is it. Thank you for the encouragement. :)"
] |
{
"dialog": "Jayden: No one in the neighborhood has kids and everyone does their own yard work around my area.\nEve: Wow. It sounds like you are really having a tough time.\nEve: What do you think the next step in finding new employment is?\nEve: What are your options?\nJayden: At this point, I don't know. I have thought about doing art commissions and selling them online but I don't know if my abilities are enough. Plus there is a lot of completion in the field.\nEve: That sounds like a fantastic idea, and even if there is competition, there are still a lot of people that might buy your art from Etsy or Amazon.\nJayden: You know what? I think I'll try it out. :)\nEve: It sounds like you have a plan. I know that you will do great.",
"summary": "Jayden is looking for a new job. He has thought about doing art commissions and selling them online, but he doesn't know if his abilities are enough. He will try working in the yard instead."
}
|
Others
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[
"Eve: (Information) That makes sense why you would want to avoid doing these things, which is a good thing, but is there anything that you try to do that isn't avoidance? Something that approaches something?",
"Gabriel: I go to all my therapy appoints and try to participate.",
"Gabriel: Thanks for your help. Have a good day."
] |
{
"dialog": "Eve: Hello, what brings you to bring the seeker?\nGabriel: I feel upset with myself over my situation. Did you read it?\nEve: I did not see it. What is your situation? I am here to listen.\nGabriel: I feel ashamed of my depression symptoms. I feel other people are ashamed of me.\nEve: I feel like dying all the time. It's very common for people to be depressed. Feel ashamed how?\nGabriel: I just can't live reguarly life like \"healthy\" people do and they notice my symptoms. They don't understand how your mind can be your enemy.\nEve: So you are saying that you can't live regularly and people don't understand that your mind isn't working in your favor. Is that right? Can you tell me what you mean by your mind being your enemy?\nGabriel: Like I have no interest or motivation to do ANYTHING some days. Hard to even take care of my hygiene. My mind doesn't care to do it even when it's embarrasing for people to notice.",
"summary": "Gabriel suffers from depression and feels ashamed of his symptoms. He feels like dying all the time. He has no interest or motivation to do anything or take care of his hygiene."
}
|
Question
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[
"Leah: yes",
"Leah: she did not believe me",
"Eve: (Affirmation and Reassurance) that sucks, I understand why you resent her so much"
] |
{
"dialog": "Eve: Hi, what can I help you?\nLeah: I am getting ready to sue my mother and am very nervous about the ordeal.\nEve: You're worried about being in court against your mother or are you worried about your relationship after that?\nLeah: Both\nEve: Can you tell me about the situation, why did you decide to sue her?\nLeah: My stepdad raped me and got me pregnant and I delivered a still born and i just remember the incident happened 23 years later. So now I am suing my mother.\nLeah: instead of pressing charges because my sister and I dont want it in the papers\nEve: So she knew about the incident but did nothing to help you?",
"summary": "Leah is going to sue her mother because she was raped by her stepdad and gave birth to a still born baby."
}
|
Others
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[
"Eve: (Others) Please try not to think like that! I think we will survive. I must go but Merry Christmas !",
"Violet: Merry Christmas to you too. Thanks.",
"Violet: Good bye"
] |
{
"dialog": "Eve: Yes. It is quite scary for all of us at the moment. Maybe it will be under control by this time next year though.\nEve: Can you think of anything to do that would take your mind off things?\nViolet: I don't even know,\nEve: Perhaps you could make a list of the things that you have to look forward to in the New Year? It might help reassure you that things can get better.\nViolet: For now I can't think of any, because I am totally depressed right now, I feel that the world is going to end right now\nEve: Please try not to think like that! I think we will survive. I must go but Merry Christmas !\nViolet: Merry Christmas to you too. Thanks.\nViolet: Good bye",
"summary": "Eve and Violet are worried about the future. Violet is depressed. Eve suggests that she should make a list of New Year's resolutions."
}
|
Others
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[
"Eve: (Providing Suggestions) It's a very difficult time to be out of work, I know. I hope that there is something out there for you. Have you tried employment agencies?",
"Robert: yes, I do not qualify for unemployment because I have savings above the min threshold and I also have rental property, which is currently loss making and I can't sell it because it's 30% below market value",
"Eve: (Affirmation and Reassurance) Well, on the plus side at least you do have savings .. hopefully this can give you some security for a while"
] |
{
"dialog": "Eve: Hi there, how are you doing?\nRobert: could be better\nEve: I am sorry to hear that. Would you like to talk about anything specific?\nRobert: thank you, I just don't know what else to do to get a job?\nEve: So you're unemployed? I am sorry to hear that. Are you prepared to take jobs that are below your usual level just to get by for a while?\nRobert: have tried that but don't even get an interview\nEve: It's a very difficult time to be out of work, I know. I hope that there is something out there for you. Have you tried employment agencies?\nRobert: yes, I do not qualify for unemployment because I have savings above the min threshold and I also have rental property, which is currently loss making and I can't sell it because it's 30% below market value",
"summary": "Robert is unemployed. He doesn't qualify for unemployment because he has savings above the min threshold and a rental property that is 30% below market value."
}
|
Question
|
[
"Eve: (Reflection of feelings) He will leave you if you do not come and help? That does not seem very healthy. Cant he see you are doing everything you can to try to get to him now?",
"Eleanor: No, he did not say that I just alway sfeel like someone is going to leave me because of past relationships and trauma",
"Eve: (Providing Suggestions) Oh i hear you, i am sorry that you have been affected like that. Have you conveyed those feelings to him?"
] |
{
"dialog": "Eleanor: Not yet I am going to soon\nEve: I would get on top of that as soon as possible. They are usually very accommodating with things like that. Ive had false charges that returned quickly. Hopefully that can get you to dallas soon\nEve: Whats going on with your boyfriend though?\nEleanor: He is struggling financially and wants to leave his apartment and I am supposed to be there Friday but things are a mess.\nEve: Im sorry i was confused before, so you are feeling as if you are abandoning him?\nEleanor: More like he'll leave me\nEve: He will leave you if you do not come and help? That does not seem very healthy. Cant he see you are doing everything you can to try to get to him now?\nEleanor: No, he did not say that I just alway sfeel like someone is going to leave me because of past relationships and trauma",
"summary": "Eleanor's boyfriend wants to leave his apartment and she's worried he'll leave her if she doesn't help him. She's supposed to be there on Friday, but she's not sure if she can make it."
}
|
Self-disclosure
|
[
"Skylar: i will try a new hobby are some other things.",
"Eve: (Others) That is good to hear. Is there anything else you would like to talk about?",
"Skylar: nothing else is there"
] |
{
"dialog": "Skylar: they will accept me but i am not willing to share my negative mood with them.\nEve: I understand. What have you tried to overcome your depression?\nSkylar: i am trying to overcome but i couldnot\nEve: I think what I meant are there things that you have done, that while you are doing them, you are not actively feeling depressed? Many people say that going for walks, taking a cooking class, starting a new hobby are ways they have stopped thinking about their depression and found some relief from it.\nSkylar: yes this seems a good idea\nSkylar: i will try doing this things.\nEve: In the past when I have dealt with depression following a breakup I have taken up a new hobby. I found I liked crochet. I made a blanket that I still have today.\nSkylar: i will try a new hobby are some other things.",
"summary": "Skylar is depressed. She is trying to overcome her depression but it doesn't work. Many people say that going for walks, taking a cooking class or starting a new hobby can help with depression. Eve used to take up crocheting to help with her depression after a breakup."
}
|
Others
|
[
"Zachary: thanx for all your positively",
"Eve: (Affirmation and Reassurance) Having no support is so hard :( Especially during these times!",
"Zachary: im gonna start again tomorrow with more faith in myself"
] |
{
"dialog": "Zachary: jumping\nEve: Hey, well that's okay! starting is half the battle, so that's an accomplishment right there!\nZachary: thanx that helps cause i start feeling defeated\nEve: have you tried maybe using a timer or making a list to help keep you focused on decluttering one area at a time?\nEve: Of course! It's easy to be hard on ourselves, but just the fact that you are trying is so important!\nZachary: u know what i bought a timer and it came in today!hopefully it will help!\nEve: Oh awesome! I am so glad! Maybe trying that out could be useful!\nZachary: i have no type of supportin my life and it really does effect me",
"summary": "Zachary bought a timer to help him with decluttering. He has no support in his life and it really affects him."
}
|
Question
|
[
"Eve: (Question) Okay, I understand. Do you feel embarrassed because this is happening to you?",
"Violet: yes i am",
"Violet: and i don't know how to overcome from this kind of sadness"
] |
{
"dialog": "Eve: That's a long time. I was in a similar situation not too long ago and I understand how hard this must be for you.\nViolet: I taught that she was my everything hereafter.\nViolet: but the fate plays a great game upon me\nEve: During a time like this, some people find it helpful to keep busy doing some kind of activity to take their mind off of their pain. Is there something you can do to take your mind off of it until you're ready to manage your feelings?\nViolet: I have some activities to do so, but i cannot able to concentrate on what i am doing\nEve: Okay, that's very understandable. I'm sure there's another strategy we can come up with.\nEve: Do you have a friend or family member you can talk about your feelings with?\nViolet: yeah! i have few friends",
"summary": "Violet's partner passed away. She was her everything. Eve was in a similar situation not too long ago. Violet has some activities to keep her mind off the pain, but she cannot concentrate on what she is doing. She has few friends and family members she can talk to about"
}
|
Providing Suggestions
|
[
"Eve: (Self-disclosure) I've had similar feelings also. People can be very selfish right now. That's normal to feel that way!",
"Eve: (Question) How have you been coping with anxiety?",
"Kennedy: yeah. Like I am scared of being sick at anytime. It could h\nappen anytime."
] |
{
"dialog": "Eve: That must be difficult living in such a big city with the pandemic going on.\nEve: What are you must scared of or stressed about?\nKennedy: yes of course.\nKennedy: just the sense of fear, anxiety, and paranoia. And helplessness and anguish that people are complacent and selfish and stupid.\nKennedy: Keep reading up on exposure sites here like restaurants and gyms, and the culprits are those between 18-35 years old.\nEve: I've had similar feelings also. People can be very selfish right now. That's normal to feel that way!\nEve: How have you been coping with anxiety?\nKennedy: yeah. Like I am scared of being sick at anytime. It could h\nappen anytime.",
"summary": "Kennedy lives in a big city where there is a pandemic going on. She is scared of being sick at anytime. "
}
|
Restatement or Paraphrasing
|
[
"James: That is what I am currently doing, and it is helping some. I have increased the time I work on there, so that will help some. I would love a second source as well, however...just so I could really save some.",
"Eve: (Providing Suggestions) I hear you on that. I am disabled and the extra income helps a lot for my family. Unfortunately until the pandemic ends a part time job might not be in your best interest for now. Ebay flipping takes some time to get into as well but could help.",
"James: Yes, I have thought of that, actually. I have quite a few items I would love to sell. I have never done it, though, so need to research how to ship items, etc."
] |
{
"dialog": "Eve: Hello, how are we doing today?\nJames: Hi. I'm doing fine. Just feeling a bit anxious.\nEve: Would you want to go further into whats causing this anxiety?\nJames: Well, I am retired, but in need of extra income to meet my financial obligations. It is very difficult for me, however, to wear a mask for longer than a few moments. Due to the mandates in my area, I would be required to wear a mask.\nEve: Well, have you tried online platforms like MTurk?\nEve: It can be bit tough to get into in the beginning, but with a decent amount of work and determination it might be able to help with your monetary problems.\nJames: That is what I am currently doing, and it is helping some. I have increased the time I work on there, so that will help some. I would love a second source as well, however...just so I could really save some.\nEve: I hear you on that. I am disabled and the extra income helps a lot for my family. Unfortunately until the pandemic ends a part time job might not be in your best interest for now. Ebay flipping takes some time to get into as well but could help.",
"summary": "James is retired and in need of an extra income to meet his financial obligations. He has tried online platforms like MTurk and Ebay. It is helping him, but he would like to have a second source of income. Eve is disabled and needs an income to help her family"
}
|
Information
|
[
"Violet: Not really...",
"Violet: She just keeps asking me for mone",
"Violet: I gave her like 10k for the house she bought and she hasn't done anything back."
] |
{
"dialog": "Violet: Hello.\nViolet: I am so upset. It's ridiculous how things keep happening to people around me.\nViolet: I suppose my supporter is not here.\nEve: hello how may I assist you today?\nViolet: I am just so upset\nViolet: It's like things never get better\nEve: I am sorry to hear that. I know how you feel.\nViolet: Yeah...",
"summary": "Violet is upset because she feels things don't get better for her."
}
|
Self-disclosure
|
[
"Serenity: yes that is correct ! Due to the pandemic, barely any jobs are available . it is very hard to find anything",
"Eve: (Affirmation and Reassurance) It is really hard time to find a job and work load is increasing due to less hiring.",
"Serenity: absolutely! Too many people are of a furlough scheme, but the work load is still the same ! it is absolutely manic ! i am working 4 departments at once"
] |
{
"dialog": "Eve: Hello! Hope you are doing well! How can I help you today?\nSerenity: i am extremely stressed outat work\nSerenity: at *\nSerenity: I can barely switch off from work\nEve: So your work load is giving you stress and you cannot change your job. Right?\nSerenity: yes that is correct ! Due to the pandemic, barely any jobs are available . it is very hard to find anything\nEve: It is really hard time to find a job and work load is increasing due to less hiring.\nSerenity: absolutely! Too many people are of a furlough scheme, but the work load is still the same ! it is absolutely manic ! i am working 4 departments at once",
"summary": "Serenity is stressed at work due to the pandemic. She is working 4 departments at once and she cannot change her job."
}
|
Reflection of feelings
|
[
"Aaron: I like strategy games. They really make you think which helps distract you from what you don't want to think about!",
"Eve: (Providing Suggestions) Oh sweet me too actually! I definitely recommend heartstone or any game that has a battle mode form",
"Aaron: Thanks! I'm going to look into playing the game! That might be just what I need to bring me out of this funk!"
] |
{
"dialog": "Aaron: Maybe I'll try that. Any game suggestions?\nEve: What type of movie were you trying to watch? Maybe choose a happier movie than a sad one.\nAaron: I was watching a comedy. It's a movie I usually like but I just couldn't keep my mind from wandering.\nEve: I would recommend games like Heartstone for stragedy, WoW for more role playing and if your into sci-fi, Cyberpunk cam out recently.\nEve: Really any game that has multiplayer would be a good fit!\nAaron: I like strategy games. They really make you think which helps distract you from what you don't want to think about!\nEve: Oh sweet me too actually! I definitely recommend heartstone or any game that has a battle mode form\nAaron: Thanks! I'm going to look into playing the game! That might be just what I need to bring me out of this funk!",
"summary": "Aaron was watching a comedy and his mind wandered. Eve recommends games like Heartstone, WoW and Cyberpunk. Aaron will look into playing the game."
}
|
Providing Suggestions
|
[
"Isabella: This year I am tie dying hooded sweatshirts. I make tshirts for a hobby. And to tell you the truth thats the only gifts I have gotten so far. My oldest daughter turned 18 this year and lives with her boyfriend so its just me and my 15 year old daughter. She struggles with depression/anxiety as well. Her dad has been in jail for some stupid actions since August. She has had to deal with him being an addict pretty much her whole life. I think we are both missing how the holidays were with her sister still living at home. Too much change in our lives in such a little time frame.",
"Eve: (Affirmation and Reassurance) Wow, what a great gift idea! That is a solid start on your gifts for the season, and something to be proud of.",
"Isabella: They will love them. A couple years ago I put their names on fleece blankets when I worked at an embroidery shop. They absolutly loved them!"
] |
{
"dialog": "Isabella: My cousin doesn't live around here and we have never been real close. He is alot younger than me. We just never had the connection like his sister and I did. And both my grandparents have passed away. Grandpa has been gone for 12 years and Grandma has been gone for 4 now.\nIsabella: My family has always been really good about talking about our loses. Things just will never be the same.\nEve: I understand. When losses are experienced it is a great change in many aspects of our lives.\nEve: Are there any aspects of the holidays that bring you joy? Maybe holiday music, movies, bright snow (if there is snow where you live), or seeing joy on someone's face when you give them a great gift?\nIsabella: They say it gets easier. And I agree it does. Things just have changed so much. I miss how life was before I lost them.\nEve: I understand - and it is normal to feel that way. When we lose someone who brought us happiness, it is only natural to miss them and their company.\nIsabella: I love giving gifts. And I always put lots of thought into the gifts I give. My nieces and nephews can't wait every year to see what I got them.\nEve: That's great! You must have a special talent for personalizing your gift selections. Perhaps focus on that reaction from you nieces and nephews to support your motivation for giving gifts this year.",
"summary": "Isabella's cousin doesn't live close to her, her grandparents passed away and she misses them. Eve understands her pain. Isabella loves giving gifts."
}
|
Question
|
[
"Anna: I guess you're right, should I try to get her back though",
"Eve: (Affirmation and Reassurance) no man you don't need her she had her chance and you'll find the right one someday just hang in there",
"Anna: but she was the one"
] |
{
"dialog": "Eve: don't worry about it just lighting the mood but really girls can be complicated and i get that its hard to understand why she left\nAnna: what do I do, we've been with each other for 4 and a half months\nEve: just give some time for yourself hangout with your friends and be free\nAnna: i wish but I dedicated so much time for her, I was planning to hang out with her over Christmas and blew off my friends. now they have their own plans\nEve: what about family I'm sure they'd love to have you around for Christmas\nAnna: I was supposed to introduce her, now I just look like a loser\nEve: trust me family never thinks of you like that you'll always be great to them\nAnna: I guess you're right, should I try to get her back though",
"summary": "Anna's girlfriend left her 4 and a half months ago. Anna was supposed to introduce her to Anna's family, but it didn't work out."
}
|
Providing Suggestions
|
[
"Adam: I know but I don't have the courage to do so, I'm kind of shy, really shy.",
"Eve: (Self-disclosure) I hear you - I found it very difficult to go to counselling too but when I did I found it very helpful.",
"Adam: I know I should seek help, but I don't have the guts, what should I do to have the will to do it?"
] |
{
"dialog": "Eve: Hi there how are you doing today?\nAdam: I'm good thank you, how about you?\nEve: I am okay thanks. Is there anything you'd like to talk to me about right now?\nAdam: Yes, I don't know what to do anymore, I'm just lazy on everything. I don't have any motivation anymore\nEve: It sounds to me like you are suffering from depression. That sounds scary but it really is common. Would you consider professional help?\nAdam: I don't know, I don't even talk to my family anymore, I'm just at my room watching and playing all the time.\nEve: That definitely does sound like depression to me. I have been there myself and I promise you that there is help available.\nAdam: I do still to my friends though through voice call, that's the only thing I've been doing lately play games with them",
"summary": "Adam is depressed and doesn't know what to do. He doesn't talk to his family or friends. He only talks to his friends on the phone."
}
|
Self-disclosure
|
[
"Layla: I think you are supposed to chat to me as a stranger coming to you for help",
"Eve: (Providing Suggestions) Oh I see, I was only suggesting an avenue that can help you pay off you debt. I can reword it.",
"Layla: ok go ahead"
] |
{
"dialog": "Eve: Is it important as in do you really need it, if not. Can you return it?\nLayla: No I got on sale on line . no returns\nEve: I see, so you have to pay it. I suggest making a plan of action, trying to pay at least the minimal balance, and try work out a saving plan to pay it off.\nLayla: Yes I realize that but I have no job. I have minimal balance in a week of 100\nEve: Okay, can you reduce any expenses? Maybe a subscription?\nLayla: I don't have a job and husband pays all the bills and subscriptions. We live paycheck to paycheck and he said this is my fault i pay\nLayla: this would be fine if i had an income and had money that i could do that but I told you before I don't have a job so that doesn't help me\nEve: If you have more free time, you can spend it on Amazon Mturk? It is a good way to earn extra money.",
"summary": "Layla got a discount on Amazon. She has to pay it off. She doesn't have a job and her husband pays all the bills and subscriptions."
}
|
Providing Suggestions
|
[
"Hailey: I have and he turns it into something nasty. Like I am saying he is a lazy piece of garbage, or something like that .",
"Hailey: And it becomes a huge fight",
"Eve: (Reflection of feelings) i dont think thats fair on his part. Even though you both are having a hard time he should try to be patient as well"
] |
{
"dialog": "Eve: hello how are you today\nHailey: Hello, I have been better. How are you?\nEve: good thank you\nEve: what seems to be the problem\nHailey: Well.. I lost my job and so did my husband. Since then we have been fighting all the time. and he doesn't help anymore around the house\nHailey: Or with the kids\nEve: thats horrible. i understand why you feel this way.\nEve: have you tried to talk to him about how you feel?",
"summary": "Hailey lost her job and her husband quit helping her around the house."
}
|
Question
|
[
"Caleb: I have my car. No bus's go through here.",
"Eve: (Providing Suggestions) Well if you have a car, maybe you would be able to find something a little outside your area that would pay more. Try taking a look on indeed.com or even craigslist for open positions. You may be surprised by what you find and a change in career can sometimes be a positive thing",
"Caleb: I just got out of the Air Force. I really need a steady paycheck right now."
] |
{
"dialog": "Eve: Hi. How are you doing today?\nCaleb: I can't believe it I just got layed off.\nEve: I'm sorry to hear that. It is a tough time right now for people working. Do you want to talk about it more?\nCaleb: I know. It's going to be nearly impossible to find something good now.\nEve: I understand that it is frustrating and scary to lose a job. But depending on what field you work in, there are actually quite a few places hiring right now because of the holidays.\nEve: My boyfriend was laid off from his job and was able to get interviews with a handful of places in his area. Granted, they are not dream jobs, but at least it is a paycheck.\nCaleb: I live in a small town. The mill is pretty much all we have that pays good.\nEve: Do you have access to any areas outside your town that are in driving distance or a bus can reach?",
"summary": "Caleb got laid off. He will have a hard time finding a new job. Eve's boyfriend was laid off from his job and was able to get interviews with a few places in his area."
}
|
Providing Suggestions
|
[
"Layla: Yeah that makes sense. It's just hard you know. What steps should I take to feel better?",
"Eve: (Providing Suggestions) I think it would be good for you to go out with your friends. Sometimes when you're really down, you might not feel like it. Going out takes effort, but it's worth it.",
"Layla: Okay I'll try to make an effort to go out more."
] |
{
"dialog": "Eve: I've been in relationships like that. It really takes it out of you.\nEve: What are your days like now?\nLayla: Every day has been feeling the same. I didn't like that we fought but now I feel empty. I don't know what to do.\nEve: I can totally understand why you're feeling that way.\nEve: How long have you been seperated?\nLayla: It's been about a month now.\nEve: So this is still really fresh. It's going to take some time to start to feel normal after three years.\nEve: What have you been doing for self-care?",
"summary": "Layla has been separated for a month. She didn't like that they fought, but now she feels empty. Eve has been in relationships like that."
}
|
Providing Suggestions
|
[
"Anthony: it makes me feel so depressed",
"Eve: (Question) I am very sorry to hear that. Do you have any other form of financial support?",
"Anthony: yes it is, the worst period in my life"
] |
{
"dialog": "Eve: Hello, how are you feeling today?\nAnthony: HI\nEve: Is there anything that you'd like to talk about?\nEve: I am happy to listen if you have a problem.\nAnthony: Yeah its about my personal problem can you give me any suggestions\nEve: Well, I'd need to know what your personal problem was first. Can you tell me?\nAnthony: Im in depression over past 4 months\nEve: I am very sorry to hear that. I have suffered from depression too so I empathise. Can you tell me what is making you feel depressed?",
"summary": "Anthony has been depressed for the past 4 months. Eve empathizes with him as she suffered from depression."
}
|
Self-disclosure
|
[
"Eve: (Affirmation and Reassurance) I don't think it's really anti social, it's just a result of a chemical imbalance I think. But it's a nuisance.",
"Eve: (Providing Suggestions) I hope I have been able to provide you with some help and let you know that you are not on your own in this! Can you be the first to press the quit button and then take the survey as I can't do it from my end :)",
"Alexander: thank you for talking to me"
] |
{
"dialog": "Alexander: That feels so scary. Sometimes I stay up till the morning because I hate the feeling. And I haven't found any.... Do you have some in mind\nEve: Well, there are some breathing techniques that you could practice .. they can be quite helpful\nAlexander: Thanks I will try. I have tried this app called calm also\nEve: Ah how did you find that? Is it useful?\nEve: Would you consider taking some sort of medication?\nAlexander: Not really.... Then its like i hate being in crowds, it makes me very anxious.\nEve: Yes I do too. I try to avoid other people as much as possible :(\nAlexander: RIght I thought I was the only one.",
"summary": "Alexander gets anxious and stays up all night looking for some calming techniques. Eve and Alexander avoid crowds because they get anxious too."
}
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Others
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[
"Kevin: yes really .",
"Eve: (Others) Make the most of your beautiful day!",
"Kevin: yes it is really wonder ful day"
] |
{
"dialog": "Kevin: yes ,but hard to over come that problem\nKevin: i enjoy going to walk\nEve: I love to walk too!\nEve: The park by my house has some incredible fall leaves right now!\nKevin: it is a nice climate too\nEve: Let's focus on accomplishing one small goal for the day.\nEve: I know you have the ability to accomplish your goals!\nEve: What one task can you succeed at today?",
"summary": "Kevin and Eve enjoy going for walks. They want to focus on one small goal for today."
}
|
Affirmation and Reassurance
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[
"Isaac: I have not said anything to them.",
"Eve: (Question) Why haven't you said anything to them?",
"Isaac: I hate confrontation."
] |
{
"dialog": "Isaac: Hi, I need to vent about an ongoing situation. Can I talk to you?\nEve: Of course you can talk to me, What would you like to vent about?\nIsaac: I am that friend that everyone can count on, I put everyone before me. But lately even though i volunteer to help, I have been feeling used and very angry.\nEve: So you are feeling kind of used by your friends and/or family?\nIsaac: Yes, very used and very angry.\nEve: I can understand how you feel, I have felt used at times by family and friends myself.\nEve: Have you tried to talk to them about the situation? Does the possibility of the conversation give you an undue amount of anxiety?\nIsaac: It is like they could care less about what I need to do, they show up late to get their kids, or think nothing of running errands and not coming early.",
"summary": "Isaac feels used and angry by his family and friends. He feels they don't care about him or his needs."
}
|
Affirmation and Reassurance
|
[
"Isaac: Thanks, the help was appreciated.",
"Eve: (Question) Anytime. Is there anything else you wanted to discuss?",
"Isaac: That was all for today, thank you."
] |
{
"dialog": "Isaac: Have you tried lavender? I have heard pillow or room sprays can be good for sleep.\nEve: Yep, I’ve tried a LOT of things. I’m currently struggling with this myself. I’m even trying out melatonin, tryptophan, and even CBD (not stoney weed oil)! So far no success, but I’m still trying!\nIsaac: I've heard people mention melatonin - I might use that later if other methods dont work. It's good to know other people are in the same boat.\nEve: It’s one of the reasons that it’s good to get outside. Your body makes melatonin from sunshine, so going for a walk outside helps in 2 ways!\nIsaac: If we had a little more sunshine where I live that would be fantastic!\nEve: Getting good sleep is critical. Supplementing with melatonin might help compensate for your lack of sunshine!\nIsaac: I'll look into it for sure. It's something I hadnt considered before this chat.\nEve: Glad I could help.",
"summary": "Eve struggles with sleep. She has tried a lot of different things to help her, including tryptophan, CBD, melatonin, and even lavender, but none of them works. She suggests going for a walk and vitamin D. Isaac will look into supplementing with"
}
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Others
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[
"Eve: (Reflection of feelings) Its actually kind of nice to vent on these anonymous things.",
"Caleb: ugh i just wish i could get a break",
"Caleb: thanks, :)"
] |
{
"dialog": "Eve: HI, how are you today?\nCaleb: hi\nCaleb: i have a lot going on. i am depressed because i am soo stressed\nEve: Thats sucks, what's going on?\nCaleb: I work full time, do frelance work on the side, i am a single mom of twin 6 year olds and an 8 year old, and i am in college for my masters degree\nCaleb: also my lease is up next month and i was notified they are raising it 300 dollars. i cant afford it. im scared and cant find anywhere cheaper to move\nEve: Oh wow, that is a lot. Add a pandemic to the mix. I can see why you'd feel overwhlemed.\nCaleb: sorry, guess i am venting",
"summary": "Caleb is stressed because he has a lot going on. He works full time, does frelance work and studies for his master's degree. His lease is up next month and he was notified they are raising it 300 dollars. He's scared and can't find anywhere cheaper to move."
}
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Question
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[
"Anna: They just think living for the moment is the bigger picture.",
"Eve: (Others) I hope your friends can see how important they are to you and thats a huge reason why you're not seeing them.",
"Anna: I think they do. They just think that this is a hoax."
] |
{
"dialog": "Eve: I think a lot of people are going by the notion that you can't live your life in fear, and that they're going to have these big family gathering regardless of what is happening with COVID. The stats have shown that after holidays the cases have surged, for example, memorial day, 4th of July, labor day. But I think its important to remember the bigger picture that peoples lives are literally at stake and the people that disregard need to be more aware.\nAnna: We feel like after this is all over, they will still remind us that we were standoffish during this time.\nAnna: And I agree. The longer we put it off and don't take it seriously, \nthe longer it will last.\nEve: Can you tell them that that just isn't the case? You and your husband are making the right choice by staying home for the safety of yourselves and others. If I am correct, it has nothing to do with the fact that you don't want to see your pals and family!\nEve: From chatting with you it sounds like your relationships with these people is incredibly important to you.\nAnna: Yes that's totally accurate.\nAnna: Yes they are. They are good people.\nAnna: They just think living for the moment is the bigger picture.",
"summary": "Anna and her husband don't want to go out with their friends and family because they are afraid they will remember they were standoffish during this time. Eve thinks people need to be more aware of COVID."
}
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Self-disclosure
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[
"Eliana: I think I will text her and let her know I'm sending a gift card....maybe she will respond.",
"Eve: (Affirmation and Reassurance) Text and ask about her son",
"Eliana: That's a great idea! Thank you :)"
] |
{
"dialog": "Eve: The virus is stopping people but we can find away\nEve: Does she have other family\nEliana: I am going to send her a message, do you think I should get her a digital gift card as a gift?\nEliana: Yes, she has a son in college.\nEve: The card could be a nice gift\nEliana: I think I will text her and let her know I'm sending a gift card....maybe she will respond.\nEve: Text and ask about her son\nEliana: That's a great idea! Thank you :)",
"summary": "The virus is stopping people but we can find away. Eliana will text and ask about her other family member's son. She will get him a digital gift card."
}
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Providing Suggestions
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[
"Eve: (Question) Do you live alone or do you have other family members in the same house?",
"Ethan: i live alone",
"Ethan: I am looking to move south"
] |
{
"dialog": "Eve: HOw are you doing?\nEthan: Hako\nEthan: So so.\nEve: What's wrong?\nEthan: kind of down\nEthan: holiday season\nEve: I'm sorry to hear that, what about the holidays has you down?\nEthan: loneliness",
"summary": "Ethan is lonely during the holiday season."
}
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Others
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[
"Eve: (Affirmation and Reassurance) That must be a lot to manage, I'm sure you're doing a great job.",
"Eve: (Self-disclosure) As a mom as well, I know there are many demands and things to juggle. Is there something specific you're struggling with?",
"Nathan: It is, thank you. I think I need to cope with self isolation better. Being a mom is self isolating by itself without the pandemic."
] |
{
"dialog": "Nathan: Hello\nEve: Hello, how are you doing today?\nNathan: I'm ok, how are you\n?\nEve: Just ok? Is there something bothering you?\nNathan: I'm struggling with depression. I'm a mom at home with my children throughout the day.\nEve: That must be a lot to manage, I'm sure you're doing a great job.\nEve: As a mom as well, I know there are many demands and things to juggle. Is there something specific you're struggling with?\nNathan: It is, thank you. I think I need to cope with self isolation better. Being a mom is self isolating by itself without the pandemic.",
"summary": "Nathan is struggling with depression. He is a stay-at-home dad. He needs to cope with self isolation better."
}
|
Affirmation and Reassurance
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[
"Eve: (Reflection of feelings) I know most of them is not helpful and somethimes waste of time. It is important that you keep ypurself busy during this time",
"Caroline: Hence doing the mturk work and creating content for the Youtube channel. This is part creative and hopefully income producing in the future.",
"Eve: (Others) I'm doing some kinda gig jobs too. I have been selling a lot things on Ebay, same thing i can use my creativity and dont let my mind go crazy"
] |
{
"dialog": "Caroline: Hi. Currently unemployed and this effects my impression of self as a person, husband and father. Doing mturk work and created a Youtube channel to share information gleaned during prison time.\nEve: Hi there.\n I understand how are you feeling. I have been looking for job for the past 5 months and it is a huge challenge.\nCaroline: Sorry to hear of you own challenge. Job search sites seem to have so much garbage out there.\nEve: Have you been looking online and try to apply for other jobs?\nCaroline: Yes, have emails coming in from several sites. At the same time though been helping out elderly parents with doctors, cleaning, cooking, etc. How about you?\nEve: I know most of them is not helpful and somethimes waste of time. It is important that you keep ypurself busy during this time\nCaroline: Hence doing the mturk work and creating content for the Youtube channel. This is part creative and hopefully income producing in the future.\nEve: I'm doing some kinda gig jobs too. I have been selling a lot things on Ebay, same thing i can use my creativity and dont let my mind go crazy",
"summary": "Caroline is unemployed and has been looking for a job for the past 5 months. Caroline has been doing mturk work and creating content for the Youtube channel. Eve is also unemployed but helps her elderly parents with various tasks. Eve sells things on Ebay to earn money."
}
|
Self-disclosure
|
[
"Daniel: Firstly pay cut and now about to layoff",
"Eve: (Restatement or Paraphrasing) I see. This pandemic terrible. sorry to hear that",
"Daniel: My company don't want to consider any body at all"
] |
{
"dialog": "Daniel: Good afternoon\nEve: Good afternoon. how are you?\nDaniel: I am not good at all\nEve: oh no. I am sorry, what happened?\nDaniel: This pandemic is causing too much of trouble for me\nDaniel: Firstly pay cut and now about to layoff\nEve: I see. This pandemic terrible. sorry to hear that\nDaniel: My company don't want to consider any body at all",
"summary": "Daniel had a pay cut and is about to be laid off at his company."
}
|
Affirmation and Reassurance
|
[
"Aaron: Really? I'd definitely be interested in that. Do they have online therapy like that?",
"Eve: (Others) I am not totally sure what is available but I think that there might be such things",
"Aaron: Thanks for your help. You said you've been in similar relationships. Is this behavior common for men?"
] |
{
"dialog": "Aaron: Exactly. And if I push further, he compares himself to other people: \"Well, at least I don't hit you.\" or \"At least I'm not an alcoholic\" Like I should thank him for existing.\nEve: It sounds like a really toxic relationship - I hear you! I have been in that position also. In the end I felt that I had no choice but to leave. I cannot tell you what to do, though.\nAaron: It's hard because we have children. When we were just dating, he was a different person. He didn't start to act this way until after our eldest was born.\nEve: Ah, unfortunately a lot of men are like that - before you become seriously committed they seem totally different. Have you considered seeking professional help?\nAaron: The problem all boils down to money. If I had enough for therapy I wouldn't be worried about his spending habits! lol. But, you're right, that's probably what we both need!\nEve: I believe that there are some organisations that will offer free therapy sessions for people in need. Have you considered asking your doctor?\nAaron: Really? I'd definitely be interested in that. Do they have online therapy like that?\nEve: I am not totally sure what is available but I think that there might be such things",
"summary": "Aaron is in a relationship with a man who is not a good provider. He compares himself to other people. They have children. Aaron wants to end the relationship. Eve has been in a similar situation and left her partner. Eve suggests seeking professional help online."
}
|
Others
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[
"Eve: (Providing Suggestions) don't quit the job unless you have another one lined up.",
"Madelyn: i never tried talking to his secretary",
"Madelyn: i think that's a good idea"
] |
{
"dialog": "Eve: Ugh - is he like this with everyone else, too - or do you think it's just directed at you?\nMadelyn: i think its directed to me\nEve: Can you give an example and then maybe we can replay it a different way?\nMadelyn: if am asked to complete a task, i do complete them and make sure no mistake was made, if he will evaluate the task he always sees fault in what i do\nEve: Hmm = that is frustrating. Can you sit with him and go over each section that he finds fault with and ask how he would have done it?\nMadelyn: he never give time to listen\nMadelyn: i think i'll quit the job\nEve: maybe talk to his secretary and make an appointment with him.",
"summary": "Eve is frustrated with her boss because he always finds fault with her performance. She will talk to his secretary and make an appointment with him."
}
|
Providing Suggestions
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[
"Zoey: We have been together 6 years.",
"Zoey: I want to find some kind of at home work shop or things to do. It sounds stupid but its really becoming a problem and we will divorce after christmas if we cant figure it out.",
"Eve: (Reflection of feelings) i can understand how you are feeling"
] |
{
"dialog": "Zoey: Hello how are you?\nEve: i am good thank you how are you doing?\nEve: how may I help you today?\nZoey: I'm ok\nZoey: I'm having a hard time communicating with my husband.\nEve: what seems to be making it hard to communicate with him?\nZoey: Every time we talk about anything we get into an argument it feels like that anyway\nEve: how long has this been going on?",
"summary": "Zoey is having problems communicating with her husband."
}
|
Providing Suggestions
|
[
"Eve: (Affirmation and Reassurance) It sounds like you are trying to solve the issue but get overwhelmed like we all do. I think you are doing a great job. All of this new stuff is difficult to learn",
"Matthew: Thank you so much for your help.",
"Matthew: I will tell my teacher as well."
] |
{
"dialog": "Eve: I know that is very difficult. When our anxieties take over it can be hard to think clearly.\nEve: Have you tried casting the zoom on to a larger screen?\nMatthew: Yes. It is also hard to concentrate when my nephews are at home. Most of the monitors and TVs are taken by other household members, but I think I will buy another monitor.\nEve: I think getting yourself a new monitor is a great idea!\nMatthew: I have a laptop, but I need it full screened for Excel and Zoom takes up too much space, so that is why I had it on my phone. But I think a second monitor is an excellent idea, thank you.\nEve: In the meantime, take some deep breaths when you feel yourself start to get anxious. It may be helpful to explain the situation to your teacher as well\nMatthew: I agree!\nEve: It sounds like you are trying to solve the issue but get overwhelmed like we all do. I think you are doing a great job. All of this new stuff is difficult to learn",
"summary": "Matthew will buy a second monitor. He needs it for Excel and Zoom."
}
|
Others
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[
"Sadie: Yes, I believe in Yehovah as God. Some their higher power wasnt a god like entity.",
"Eve: (Affirmation and Reassurance) So I would like to encourage you on the Youtube channel idea.",
"Sadie: Think we have timed out CHEERS"
] |
{
"dialog": "Sadie: America is unforgiving of mistakes initially. But we were a country founded on cast offs from other places.\nSadie: Assume you are in the States, or no?\nEve: For sure! It sounds like you have a good head on your shoulders!\nEve: I am in the US yes.\nEve: Do you have hopes of pursuing ministry at some point?\nSadie: Problem is mainly no real source of income and covid-19 hasnt helped with job, or having outside association. On ministry I am of a faith without paid ministry. Hence the Youtube channel to reach out and share at the same time.\nEve: Knowing that there is a higher power takes the focus off of \"me.\" I think this offers a better way of living.\nSadie: Higher power- an AA term. Was in an AA group at prison even though addiction was different.",
"summary": "Eve is in the US. Sadie is in America. She has problems with lack of income and covid-19 has not helped her with finding a job or having outside association. Eve believes in a higher power and has a faith without paid ministry."
}
|
Affirmation and Reassurance
|
[
"Lucy: Right. I hope we make it through the holidays without the pandemic getting even more out of control than it already is.",
"Lucy: I have had some coworkers at my location exposed to COVID and have to quarantine. At some of our other locations I have had coworkers get COVID and have to quarantine.",
"Lucy: My workplace is safe with PPE so I do not worry about getting covid from coworkers."
] |
{
"dialog": "Eve: So sometimes you worry that they aren't doing enough to protect themselves.\nEve: I know I'm more worried about others than I am about myself right now.\nLucy: Yes, and they are young so they do not understand how important it is to practice social distancing and wear a mask. We have had so many covid tests. Luckily they have all been negative.\nEve: Maybe just reminding them that wearing masks protects both them and others could help? They sure wouldn't want to infect you or your husband, or others.\nLucy: I do but they are young and the young are selfish. I'm not worried about getting covid. I'm worried about having to quarantine at home and not work. i supervise 15 people and if I get exposed I can't work for 3 weeks.\nEve: That is really relatable. I can understand how scary it is for you, especially with your husband's pay cut.\nEve: What if you talk to a close friend when your anxiety is especially difficult\n?\nLucy: Yes, there is nothing to do but keep putting what foot in front of the other and doing the next best thing.",
"summary": "Eve is worried about others catching the disease. Lucy's supervising 15 people and if she got caught, she wouldn't be able to work for 3 weeks."
}
|
Others
|
[
"Eve: (Information) There's nothing that can prepare you for unexpected tragedies like this. We just have to deal with them as they come.",
"Ariana: I understand what you are saying but that's the problem. How to deal with such a terrible unexpected loss",
"Ariana: I feel helpless because there is nothing I can do to make her feel better."
] |
{
"dialog": "Eve: Hello. How are you?\nAriana: Hello, thank you for signing up to listen to me\nAriana: I could be better but thank you for asking\nEve: What's on your mind?\nAriana: I am upset about the loss of my best friend's son dying in a car accident\nEve: I'm really sorry to hear that. When did this happen?\nAriana: The accident was Thursday February 25th but he held on until Sunday the 28th\nAriana: He was only 26 years old",
"summary": "Ariana is upset about the loss of her best friend's son, who died in a car accident on February 25th."
}
|
Reflection of feelings
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[
"Eve: (Question) Oh I am sorry to hear that. Have you had a conversation with her about her actions and how they have made you feel?",
"Olivia: She knew pretty well how I felt.",
"Olivia: I don't want to have anything to do with her again."
] |
{
"dialog": "Eve: Ah....relationship worries can be so draining and emotionally exhausting. I can understand that.\nEve: In your relationship, what has happened to create your worries?\nOlivia: I trusted my spouse but eventually disappointed.\nOlivia: She got a jot in another town and she utilize the opportunity to be sleeping around.\nEve: I can imagine how a break in trust has made you feel. I know a break in trust is always very difficult to process.\nOlivia: I am planing to get married next year but things has changed now.\nEve: Oh I am sorry to hear that. Have you had a conversation with her about her actions and how they have made you feel?\nOlivia: She knew pretty well how I felt.",
"summary": "Olivia is worried about her relationship because her spouse cheated on her. She is getting married next year."
}
|
Question
|
[
"Sophia: No, not yet. It's distance education so it's mostly me studying on my own time (each course runs at a max duration of six months), but I have reached out to them regarding some assignment and exam questions.",
"Sophia: But I do appreciating your sympathetic tone and that you've gone through this also.",
"Sophia: And also I go through things slower and things become more sluggish and not really motivated, whereas before I was faster and more productive and really interested in learning and trying to finish assignments etc as quick as I can, and not take the full 6 months of course deadline."
] |
{
"dialog": "Eve: Hello, how can I help you today?\nSophia: Hello, I am taking two courses online now that are nearing their end, one at the end of november, and one at the end of December. I guess I am just scared and stressed out about not doing well.\nEve: I have been in that same situation before! I had the exact feelings you are! But after realizing how much I studied it helped me relax.\nEve: Have you talked to your teachers about your worrying?\nSophia: I see. My problem right now is that due to the pandemic and having a lot of time to myself and getting restless, I tend to waste a lot of time doing other things, and procrastinating. So I am catching up and I know I can finish them, but just that I could have done better, so there's an element of guilt and shame involved because I am not happy with my actions on how I handled my studies.\nSophia: No, not yet. It's distance education so it's mostly me studying on my own time (each course runs at a max duration of six months), but I have reached out to them regarding some assignment and exam questions.\nSophia: But I do appreciating your sympathetic tone and that you've gone through this also.\nSophia: And also I go through things slower and things become more sluggish and not really motivated, whereas before I was faster and more productive and really interested in learning and trying to finish assignments etc as quick as I can, and not take the full 6 months of course deadline.",
"summary": "Sophia is taking two courses online now that are nearing their end. She is stressed about not being able to finish them on time. Eve has been in the same situation before and after thinking about how much she studied it helped her relax."
}
|
Information
|
[
"Eve: (Reflection of feelings) Surround yourself with family and friends. You might be surprised the person you meet wil be right there waiting",
"Jose: Yes thank you for the encouragement.",
"Eve: (Affirmation and Reassurance) Love is a funny Thing. U don't see the true love until you are in a spot of least accommodating"
] |
{
"dialog": "Jose: Yes it has. We are in different countries and his ex is in the same country as him.\nEve: You sound very attractive and other men would love you fro who u r\nEve: So it is safe to ay the chances of seeing each other is going to be impossible for a while\nEve: Would it be safe for you to try and chat with someone online that would care for you\nJose: Thank you. I hope it will get easier with time. It just takes me a long time to fully trust someone and this experience just made it a lot worse.\nJose: I think I will go stay with my family for some time. That way I won't feel lonely and I won't miss my ex as much.\nEve: It may take a little time but watch your heart. it is very easy to break\nJose: True. At least I can rely on my family.",
"summary": "Jose is in different countries and his ex is in the same country as him, so they can't see each other. Jose will stay with his family for some time to not miss his ex."
}
|
Reflection of feelings
|
[
"Eve: (Affirmation and Reassurance) But use your dad as inspiration",
"Eli: I'm just thankful I have had her this long",
"Eli: That I do. While I will never have the skills my father had technically, I am thankful that I did get his ability to be analytical and his compassion for others."
] |
{
"dialog": "Eli: I was in college. He died slowly and painfully. It was really unpleasant.\nEli: And he was a brilliant man. I could only wish to be half of what he was.\nEve: That can cause loneliness as well. What about seeing if your family will chat and let them know you ae ok\nEli: I don't even have contact information for them anymore. The last known phone numbers have been disconnected and the last time I sent mail, it was returned for wrong address, no forwarding information known.\nEli: I think they forgot about me.\nEve: Comparing yourself to others can be a positive and give you reason to strive more\nEli: The only one I still have contact with is my mother.\nEve: Have you checked to see if she is ok",
"summary": "Eli lost his father when he was in college. He died slowly and painfully. He was a brilliant man. Eli doesn't have contact information for his family. The only person he has contact with is his mother."
}
|
Affirmation and Reassurance
|
[
"Audrey: I was a manager of a retail store that closed.",
"Eve: (Providing Suggestions) I see. That's a very important role for any business. I bet there are numerous other retailers out there looking for a good manager to hire.",
"Audrey: That is true, I am just not sure if that is what I want to do anymore"
] |
{
"dialog": "Audrey: Hi\nEve: hello. How are you?\nAudrey: I'm honestly having a rough time\nEve: I'm sorry to hear that. Could you tell me about it?\nAudrey: Sure. I just lost my job and school is out so I feel like I have lost purpose\nEve: Thank you for telling me. I'm sorry to hear that. What did you do for your job?\nAudrey: I was a manager of a retail store that closed.\nEve: I see. That's a very important role for any business. I bet there are numerous other retailers out there looking for a good manager to hire.",
"summary": "Audrey lost her job and school is out so she feels like she has lost purpose. Audrey worked as a manager in a closed store."
}
|
Affirmation and Reassurance
|
[
"Kevin: Yes, but it's not the same.",
"Eve: (Affirmation and Reassurance) I know what you mean, in-person is always better than over the phone. I understand why you would feel this way.",
"Kevin: It's made me feel very depressed and I am only feeling worse as the holiday grows closer."
] |
{
"dialog": "Kevin: Hello.\nEve: Hi how are you doing today?\nKevin: I'm alright, just feeling a bit depressed.\nEve: Im sorry you are feeling depressed. Whats making you feel that way?\nKevin: Thanksgiving is this week and I will be spending it alone.\nEve: Youre spending thanksgiving alone? Do you usually spend Thanksgiving alone?\nKevin: Yes, and no because of COVID I haven't been able to see my family.\nEve: I understand how you feel. COVID is causing a lot of distance between familys making relationships difficult.",
"summary": "Kevin is depressed because he will spend Thanksgiving alone because he hasn't been able to see his family due to COVID."
}
|
Providing Suggestions
|
[
"Xavier: Thank you for your suggestion. I should follow it.",
"Eve: (Others) No problem! I am glad I was able to chat with you today!",
"Xavier: This is so nice. Thank you for your help."
] |
{
"dialog": "Xavier: During this pandemic situation, most of the companies laid off their employees.\nEve: Just from these few messages, I can tell you are very anxious about this situation.\nXavier: Yes. I don't know what to do.\nEve: Have you spoken with your supervisor about how you feel? Often times it helps to make sure your supervisor is aware of your concerns.\nXavier: No. I just got the information from the company and didn't speak with anyone.\nEve: I can definitely understand this feeling, as I was also very worried at the beginning of the pandemic about my job security.\nXavier: Yes. I planned for many more things. But now I am losing my job.\nEve: Another thing that really helped me was to take more time in the various hobbies I enjoy outside of work.",
"summary": "Xavier is worried about his job security as most of the companies laid off their employees during the pandemic. Eve can understand his concerns as she was worried about her job security at the same time."
}
|
Others
|
[
"Eve: (Providing Suggestions) For me this is the powerful tool, I pray every single day",
"Eve: (Information) We need to be grateful for beeb alive and for been health.",
"Caroline: Unfortunately, too many are at the base of the hill of the Lord and not climbing. Followers, not disciples. Hard to have gratitude when seeing other or thinking of our past."
] |
{
"dialog": "Eve: Yes, I believe Youtube channel is a great source for new opportunities nowadays\nEve: Everybody is facing a challenge time right now, we are all together on this\nCaroline: Sounds like a similar situation. Not sure if these efforts will pay off long term but need to do something to maintain sanity. Youtube can pay something if there are enough hits and subscribers.\nEve: Sure, in short term is a good choice. The most impoetant thing is looking foward always. For long term we are going to figure out something else\nCaroline: Having a religious base too can help.\nEve: For me this is the powerful tool, I pray every single day\nEve: We need to be grateful for beeb alive and for been health.\nCaroline: Unfortunately, too many are at the base of the hill of the Lord and not climbing. Followers, not disciples. Hard to have gratitude when seeing other or thinking of our past.",
"summary": "Eve believes Youtube can be a great source of new opportunities for Eve and Caroline. They are all together on a challenge time right now. Youtube can pay something if there are enough hits and subscribers. In the long term they are going to figure something else. Eve prays every day"
}
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Providing Suggestions
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[
"Eve: (Others) I hope it will get better!",
"Grayson: i will see someone on the 30th.",
"Grayson: i pray, Merry Christmas to you and God bless you. thank you."
] |
{
"dialog": "Grayson: with all of thois flower tak i am not sure i have not been scammed\nEve: I hope that I have been able to b of some comfort to you\nEve: I must leave now but I urge you to get professional help\nGrayson: there is alsays a sad story which hads also made me so depressed and then they have such terrible things happening to them over there\nEve: I hear you. Please try to reach out for professional help\nGrayson: i hank you for lending a listening ear and will continue to pray to God to help me until it gets better. thank you\nEve: I hope it will get better!\nGrayson: i will see someone on the 30th.",
"summary": "Grayson is depressed and afraid he has been conned out of money. Eve urges him to seek professional help. Grayson will see someone on the 30th."
}
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Others
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[
"Serenity: Yeah, I like that. I think it's a good idea to say those things to her.",
"Eve: (Reflection of feelings) she really needs to hear it and it sounds toxic to me . I know I wouldn't want a friend to accuse me of not being there and from the chat look like its all about her and she s acting like a spoiled brat",
"Serenity: I agree. She can't see past her own issues to see the whole situation."
] |
{
"dialog": "Serenity: Yes, that's exactly accurate. And she is 50 years old, and the issues have all been high school type problems that I've been listening to. Stuff about how she didn't post on social media about her birthday, and little petty things like that. Not something an adult should be concerned with. And I still sat and listened to her all that time.\nEve: I completely understand how unappreciated and stressed this would make you or any person. Especially when our plate is full and its the same old same old and nothing is changing. Its like thinking doing same thing over and over you will get a different result when 2+2 equals 4\nSerenity: Yes, exactly.\nEve: You are an extremely good and loyal friend and I am so proud of you. Most people would have left her.\nSerenity: Thank you. That's really important to me. She was starting to convince me that I wasn't a good friend because I wasn't there for her right now when I had problems of my own. Real problems - like my daughter's engagement breaking up.\nEve: However, it is time to take the hard road. YOu are going to have to say with LOVE because its not always what you say but how you say it. Give me a minute to please type it\nSerenity: Okay, thank you.\nEve: You are going to have to sit her down and say I need to be honest with you. I have always been there for you but you are not willing to take my advice or others advice and quite frankly I just can't do it anymore. IF you want to remain friends I need you to grow up and realize the world doesn't revolve around you or even me. Right now I could really use a good friend. I am going thru A LOT OF Sh** and I don't need this in my life. So",
"summary": "Serenity has been listening to her for a long time and not doing anything about it. Eve wants to break up with her. Serenity will talk to her about it with love."
}
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Information
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[
"Elijah: They're gonna give out 600 dollars to us I hope",
"Eve: (Others) That would be a big help for people who are struggling!",
"Elijah: Right now I am not too desperate and can enjoy listening to Christmas songs,"
] |
{
"dialog": "Elijah: I hope so too\n1\nEve: Can you think of things to look forward to in the New Year that might cheer you up a little?\nElijah: oh yes the stock price may keep going up. Like Tesla, that cheears me up\nEve: Well, maybe the change of administration in some parts of the world will help a little.\nElijah: what do you mean?\nEve: I mean that political change can help people and give them fresh hope. Or, depress them :)\nElijah: Oh yes\nElijah: They're gonna give out 600 dollars to us I hope",
"summary": "Elijah hopes the stock price will keep going up. He hopes the change of administration in some parts of the world will help people and give them fresh hope. Finally, he hopes they'll give him 600 dollars."
}
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Question
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[
"Robert: Yeah I think that's definitely the way forward. Listen this has really helped so thanks for the suggestions and sharing your own experiences.",
"Eve: (Affirmation and Reassurance) Yes of course! I wish you the best in overcoming this hard time with your friend. I believe that you guys will be able to talk through it since it's a newer issue. :)",
"Robert: I hope so too. Nice to talk to you and thanks again."
] |
{
"dialog": "Eve: Gotcha so not only are you frustrated with what he is doing, but you are also worried about his reputation! First of all, can I ask if he is just your friend online or if you hangout with him in person too?\nRobert: That's correct. He is actually a close friend and I wonder what has changed recently to make him like this. I've known him for over 20 years.\nEve: Okay I see. From personal experience, the best way to confront someone who likes to do most of their confrontations online, is in person. Since he is so used to almost \"hiding\" behind a screen, his feelings will be more vulnerable and real if you discuss your concerns in person.\nRobert: Actually I've never thought of it like that. Perhaps a couple of us can have a conversation with him in person. Honestly some off his views are disgusting. I think this needs to stop.\nEve: A suggestion I would make would be to hangout with him in person, and bring up the issues that you and your friends have been seeing. But it's important to not make him feel overwhelmed. Almost like he is being \"ganged up on.\"\nRobert: Yes that's good advice, I think we need to be tactful and raise it in the right way. Have you ever experienced something like this with a friend yourself?\nEve: I can tell that you care about this person as a friend, but you are worried that the way he thinks and talks may ruin that in a way. Make sure to let him know these concerns! It will show him that you guys truly are doing it out of love.\nEve: And yes I have actually had a very similar experience! Let me explain",
"summary": "Eve and Robert are concerned about their friend's behaviour. They want to confront him in person, but they don't want to make him feel overwhelmed. Eve has had a very similar experience."
}
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Others
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[
"Dominic: I don't shop at Walmart very much so thank you for that information.",
"Eve: (Restatement or Paraphrasing) I saw a seller on EBAY make small surf boards and sold them on EBAY well over a hundred dollars.They were 48 inches long but he made good money.",
"Dominic: That is very interesting. I wouldn't think you could make that much from small surfboards."
] |
{
"dialog": "Eve: I have purchased a lot of stuff from walmart and resold it on EBAY\nEve: Its fun\nDominic: I worked with someone whose boyfriend did that. I've never thought about doing that.\nDominic: I might have to consider doing that so I can feel more helpful to my husband.\nEve: Down load the Walmart app and when you go scan the item with app and sometimes its cheaper\nDominic: I don't shop at Walmart very much so thank you for that information.\nEve: I saw a seller on EBAY make small surf boards and sold them on EBAY well over a hundred dollars.They were 48 inches long but he made good money.\nDominic: That is very interesting. I wouldn't think you could make that much from small surfboards.",
"summary": "Eve has bought a lot of stuff from Walmart and resold it on EBAY. Dominic worked with someone whose boyfriend did that. Dominic might consider doing it to help his husband. Eve recommends using the Walmart app."
}
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Restatement or Paraphrasing
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[
"Peyton: Thank you, I think I am. I am always worrying about my mother, so this is nothing new. Although, financially this will be more stressful.",
"Eve: (Restatement or Paraphrasing) If I am understanding you correctly, you feel your mom may not be able to sustain herself during her time of recovery, is that correct?",
"Peyton: That's exactly right. I am worried because I think I may need to financially assist her if she doesn't recover soon and I also don't have much to sustain myself."
] |
{
"dialog": "Peyton: Hello, would you be able to help me with a fear of mine?\nEve: Hello, how are you today? I will be glad to assist you.\nPeyton: Thank you. I'm a little fearful and sad today because I found out my mother hurt her knee and won't be able to work for a while.\nEve: Sorry to hear that. is it possible her job can give her light duties for a while\nPeyton: Unfortunately she is a nurse and needs to be able to work with patients. I don't think there are any light duty options.\nEve: I can understand your concern for your mom, you sound like a caring child..\nPeyton: Thank you, I think I am. I am always worrying about my mother, so this is nothing new. Although, financially this will be more stressful.\nEve: If I am understanding you correctly, you feel your mom may not be able to sustain herself during her time of recovery, is that correct?",
"summary": "Peyton's mother hurt her knee and won't be able to work for a while. She is a nurse, so there are no light duty options for her. This will be financially stressful for Peyton."
}
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Self-disclosure
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[
"Nicholas: Its decently covered and at night it is pretty dark.",
"Carolyn: (Providing Suggestions) And a small snack of carbs, like a peice of toast or some cereal, before bed can help too. As you can see I have tried many things myself as I too have had sleep issues.",
"Nicholas: I will try that out as well if listening to relaxing sounds doesn't help. Thank you very much for responding to my questions and needs!"
] |
{
"dialog": "Nicholas: Do you have any suggestions other than exorcising to help with sleeping?\nNicholas: Anything would be taken into consideration if possible.\nCarolyn: I listen to a really good podcast called Tracks to Relax. It's guided meditation that helps me deeply relax before I sleep.\nCarolyn: sometimes I use it in the middle of the night too, if I can't fall back asleep!\nCarolyn: Have you tried meditation before bed?\nNicholas: Oh wow, I never really thought listening to relaxing music to help go back to sleep. I will try that out tonight! I have never done meditation before bed, mostly during the day.\nCarolyn: Is your room dark? Light blocking curtains can help.\nNicholas: Its decently covered and at night it is pretty dark.",
"summary": "Carolyn recommends listening to a podcast called Tracks to Relax to help her sleep. Nicholas wants to try meditation before bed."
}
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