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Wins not recording correctly Got 5 wins in solo today, but profile says 0 wins on solo, 5 on LTM (i can assure u i wasnt playing LTM, and have never played that mode as this is a new account). Anyone else getting this issue?
I'm on PC
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| FortNiteBR |
Building a High end PC - PLEASE HELP Hey guys,
This post got bigger than expected - but i hope i've given alot of information so if you're reading this and are feeling helpful - you'll have alot to work with.
I'm about to start the project i've wanted to start for the last 15 years of my life, but life always got in the way - now my kids are no longer emptying my bank account to £1 every month, i'm in a position to build a PC.
I'm not in any hurry - I have recently purchased this a Corsair Graphite Series 780T as a case - with the mind of this computer being the absolute shining gem of my desk. I intend for 2 Curved screens of a yet undecided size, to go with my already in use "SAMSUNG LS34J550 Quad HD 34" LED Monitor" - might eventually trade this out for a curved version of a similar size screen, so i can canopy the build.
I've however, now reached a stumbling point of where to go next - i have "general" understanding, but no-where near enough to self build something that i'm willing to invest as much into.
My goal for this PC - is as a Gaming rig, no doubt streaming (because, why not?), video editing, podcast recording and multi-use processes for my studying and career - which is auditing and accountancy, so just big ass spreadsheets and other boring stuff. My 3 children, aged 10, 5 and 2, have interests in drawing, science and poop, respectively. While my PC cannot aid the 2 year old and his never-ending quest in laughing at poo - i do know my 10 year old will want to "Create" - be that art on a drawing pad, or digital animation, or something like that. My (autistic) 5 year old already has more skills on kerbal space program on the xbox than me - so no doubt she'll want that.
So, based on purely an attitude of futureproofing, i've been looking at the **MEG X570 GODLIKE** \- however, i wonder if an X570 is the best route to go?
Why would you chose X570, over B450, for example - i will make the end decisions myself, but dear lord i don't know where to start - and googling "building a PC" just doesn't feel the same as the forum this reddit thing provides.
I'm unsure where to start, effectively in the decision process of the parts - the last time i seriously looked at computers was when i still used an Acer Aspire 5560G! - a few years before my kids started coming into my life - so i'm considerably out of date.
I'm looking for advice, and so will welcome such advice from anyone, and welcome anyone who wants to ask more questions to help me narrow down, and decide the right path to go, so i don't end up regretting a decision later on down the line.
Budget isn't an issue - within reason, under £1000 for a motherboard for example, i understand there are major scalping issues, issues with stock and even manufacturing - this is not an overnight build - this is a build where i'm going to put a few hundred away each month and build up over time - so i know i'm going to have to wait for GPU prices to become stable atleast. Ideally, i'd like to build this with a "Buy for the next 10 years" attitude, in terms of futureproofing - but i also don't know how realistic this will be. While i want a big expensive setup, i'm unlikely to spend more than 8 hours per week at the desk, so don't need to be buying a £20,000 PC. And i'm happy to wait a bit longer, to save a bit more money, to get the right part (new) - rather than buying now, to upgrade later - i HATE selling shit, and trade-in places are dreadful.
Thank you - LeeroyJames91 | buildapc |
If so many want the old feel of fortnite back why not advocate for “ground game” to be a permanent playlist selection? This seems like the most logical choice no?
When fortnite first came out you barely saw any building whatsoever, it’s when the game was a “shooting game with a building feature” and not a “building game with a shooting feature”
When stacking a 1x1 was the norm and if you wanted to give it the old genuine feel take editing out of it since editing wasn’t really a thing back then?
I feel like this would appease a big crowd that still loves this game but doesn’t enjoy the route it’s going, think of it as what blizzard is doing with WoW by bringing back “classic WoW. So why not bring back “classic fortnite”?
Edit: so when I say this I’m not saying it from a nostalgic viewpoint. I’m not asking for the old map back or anything. I’m just saying bring fortnite back to a shooting game with building rather than a building game with shooting | FortNiteBR |
Just got the COVID Vaccine Moderna I’m glad that I was able to get it since I work in a nursing home but man do my arm hurt like shit and it’s been almost a day and I honestly dont know when the pain is going to go away in my arm but eh... hopefully it works just fine for me | offmychest |
Personal Opinion on Hostels/Residences Let's say you have to choose between some options. I am a bit paralysed for choice.
I am thinking of staying in either of these:
* UTown shared 4-room apartment
* PGPR Type A
* PGPH Type C room.
You see, I am struggling with my degree (SoC), so I wish to get a place that would be nice and comfortable for studying, and being near good facilities would be a good bonus.
Now, my main concern is that for UTown, I am worried that I am rooming with those who are too outgoing. I am an introvert, and frankly I manage to put on a facade of functioning person, but honestly I am incapable to holding a conversation for long periods of time, as I literally have no interests and hobbies, and don't really like people in general. Social interactions just tire me out.
However, for PGPR, last time I roomed there, I got a room facing the road that the buses went on, so it was noisy and stuff. It was also quite cramped, and smelly from being old and not having anybody clean it for some time. Not the best experience. That was a Type C room though, with no A/C.
For PGPH. I actually have no idea if they have moved back to their building. If so, would someone please share with me what their rooms are like, and how they differ from PGPR? Like are their rooms good, spacious? The pictures make it seem so compared to PGPR. How is life there?
Thanks. | nus |
Would you be annoyed if a best friend of yours told you to get a dog or get pregnant because they feel you have that love to give but you're 30 and single and haven't found the right person? Teenie tiny context on this is that mid phone call my best friend said out of the blue that I'm searching for the love I can't give myself and that I'm forever giving out love and affection so instead of looking for it from/giving it to a potential SO that I should either get a dog or get pregnant to whoever in order to fulfill that.
I've not mentioned anything since to her about it but it's been sitting heavy on me recently because I feel that she thinks that I'm doomed in the relationship department so I should just give up and love/get love from a dog or a random baby daddy's child instead. Or at least that's what I've taken from it.
And even if maybe she didn't mean that and I'm projecting, I'm a 30 year old female who, so far, hasn't had a long term relationship last longer than 10 months. That doesn't mean I'm doomed surely?
Should I be annoyed with what she has said? | relationship_advice |
Application strategy while waiting for MCAT I'm taking MCAT 5/28. What should I do to minimize delay in my AMCAS and TMDSAS applications? | premed |
Migrating Dogecoin Core to a new computer I've tried looking it up but I cant find an up to date guide on how to do this. I recently got a new computer and I really dont want to wait ~1 week for a new installation of Dogecoin Core to sync with the blockchain. How can I copy the data on my old PC and transfer it to the new one? I already installed the program on the new computer and ended up with a new wallet address. I need to keep this new address because that's where my mining deposits go and if I change the deposit address in the miner I'll lose all my progress since my last payout. But I dont care if I lose the old one as its empty.
So in short, I want to copy the (old) synchronized wallet from my old computer to my new computer while keeping my new address. | dogecoin |
I recently got my Razer blade 15 2020 and i need some help! Please?! I got the laptop about a week ago, what i had the opportunity to do with it until now is install really few basic programs and LoL, i installed Coretemp too so i can keep track of how hot the cpu gets. Based on some light browsing and playing a few games on LoL I made a few observations that i need help with.
1. Synapse (a program i never used) i saw that on the performance tab, when on battery there aren’t any modes or any customization really, the only option is balanced which is the default mode, and no possibility to control fan speed. Is there anyway to have more options? When plugged in i have 3 modes: balanced, creator and gaming, with fans either auto or manual on all of them. I saw a lot of people talking about adjusting the fan curve, how can i do that here ?
2. The laptop gets too hot playing either ARAM or normals on LoL. While the gpu stays around 52C (from task manager), the cpu gets really hot hitting 90+C sometimes, once 98C on one core, but generally it’s around 75-90C (from Core Temp). What should i do? Should i undervolt? I heard it isn’t possible on the 10th gen chips, is there a way still ?
3. I haven’t really tested the battery life, but it seems really low, based on some light browsing, reading lessons online, basic google queries, a little youtube, with 50% screen brightness and 50% keyboard brightness, i got some 3 hours, is there a way to improve that ?
4. Is it just impossible to game on battery ? I tried to play without plugging it, it didn’t get any higher than 30fps. Is there a way to get past this limitation? It makes me worried for the battery since it’s always plugged in.
This is my first ever real laptop, so really any tip is welcome, even off topic. I got the 2020 Razer blade 15 model (i7-10750H, 2060, 16 RAM, 512 SSD) | GamingLaptops |
Compliments? And not sure why I'm getting them. So. MtF, 5 months HRT, had not done any work on transitioning before starting HRT. I don't know what to think of the progress I've made, but I don't think I pass.
But people have been giving me lots of compliments, especially on clothes (nothing fancy, just... dress + shirt + pretty unisex sandal-like shoes + purse + cute facemask). And I find it very strange.
Am I just so obviously trans that people want to make me feel better about myself? Is that a thing that random strangers do? Or is it more likely that the compliments are... like... genuine? I do try to pick clothes that match and look good on me, at least.
I just... It makes me happy but also SO confused and I don't know how to make sense of it. I don't want to feel like everyone is just humoring me. | asktransgender |
[D] ICCV2021 supplementary material format Are there any restrictions on the supplementary material text format?
For example, can I use a one-column template (which will be much more readable)?
I only found an answer for this in the ICML guidelines but didn't find anything specifically for ICCV
Supplementary material will not be published or archived, and there are no format restrictions | MachineLearning |
We broke up almost 3 months ago but I feel like it's fixable We broke up 3 months ago but I feel like it's fixable... She wanted a christian guy and told me I was perfect except for that, but I don't feel it in my heart to convert. I could choose to but it would be for her, not because I honestly believed it. Maybe over time I may, but that'd be brainwashing myself and we both agreed it was not healthy and we broke up and she said never to talk to her again.
She was 27 and i am 29.
Yet somehow I feel like it's fixable... But it's not because based on our last communication she said she only wanted a christian guy and can no longer help me in my journey about learning about christianity.
Knowing her, maybe I could see if we can meet in the middle and it'd work out, but then wouldn't that just be changing her and what she wants? Is changing really all that bad? People change things about themselves all the time for stupid trivial reasons, don't they? Why is changing for relationships such a taboo?
Yes, I'm dwelling on this again about the same woman, but it's because I feel like it's possible. Her sister is also a lawyer and i don't want to get sued or pressed charges against me for harassment, but I want to know what you all think.
Maybe I can just be her friend? Our breakup was literally one day I was with her planning a future and overnight she was gone 💔 | relationship_advice |
Which CPU should I upgrade to? When I first built my PC a couple years ago, I bought a Ryzen 3 2200g mainly because of the integrated graphics (no need for a GPU) and it was the cheapest option on sale near me.
Some time later, my friend gave me his old RX 580 and I used it because why not. I should also add that I don't really game on my PC.
I want to upgrade to a high end CPU like an i9 or Ryzen 9 mainly because I'm in computer science and I am working on a big project on the side. A lot of i9's are on sale near me for around $500. I was going to upgrade to a Ryzen 9 5900x (or even a Ryzen 7 5800x) but I cannot find them in stock near me.
My question is, what CPU should I upgrade to? Should I wait for Ryzen 5000 to get in stock or go for an i9? or is there an alternate CPU that might be better? My current PSU is 650W and while I am not planning to game the newest games anytime soon, I may run an older game here and there in the future. Thus, can I still use my RX 580 with the new CPU? I don't really want to upgrade both my CPU and GPU at the same time.
Thanks! | buildapc |
How to stop 4 month GSD from jumping and barking at new people and dogs? My pup is a friendly guy, he loves new people and new dogs. A little too much. He will try to jump on them and bark at them to say hello, but its not a good behavior. However, I am at a loss as to how to train him not to do this, because he is always excited in these circumstances and its hard to train a dog when they are excited.
Thoughts? | puppy101 |
[WTS] Vortex Strike Eagle 1-6 (FL) Practically brand new LPVO. Call dibs and I’ll DM you.
Looking for $260 shipped.
| GunAccessoriesForSale |
Dogecoin Auto Sending to Unknown Addresses Hey guys,
I just read a post on here from two months ago that got my attention. Two months ago would be Feb 2021. This is important as what I am about to show you has been going on for 5 years and has not gotten the attention it deserves. Until now.
The post from two months ago. It just shows how easily things can be misinterpreted if you don't fully read what the guy was saying and maybe he doesnt explain it that well.
In this post the user **xXx\_69Killer420\_xXx** asks how to retrieve the dogecoin sent from his wallet to another wallet foreign to him. This is the excerpt that was familiar to me:
*'But after I put in my address it changed in the app and the dogecoin got sent somewhere else. I checked the address they got sent to and it still has them and doesn't have any other dogecoin and hasn't made any transactions. '*
The responses were all pointing toward ah look at this guy if you send to the wrong address your f'd. But think about it. How would you send to a wrong address? You surely are not gonna type the public key in get some characters off and magically its another users address. That would be like winning the powerball.
So the only way you could do it is if you copy an existing address that is not yours and paste it and send. And you would think it would have to be an address that he has used before and that owner wakes up and boom free dogecoin. But that didnt happen. Its the only transaction ever posted to that address.
QUESTION #1: HOW DO WE SEE WHEN THAT ADDRESS WAS CREATED AND IS THERE AN IP ADDRESS THAT IS TIED TO IT? SOMETHING? Because what i think happened is the address was created at send. The question is does the user have control over that address to access the coins.
The same thing also happened to another user here back in **2018**
On Github **Doge0901** spoke of a similar issue but he described it as not having the private key.
This was the excerpt that rang a bell with me
*' After I made 2 transactions ( wallet was not entirely completed to sync ) 6 and 100000, wallet made other 2 transactions for no reason* *
*transaction* *
*Amount I sent only 100000 6f11ae8637c6b4232aee40e0a0f31d605c54c393ab53007fa744a97f8e2747b3-001*
*How I got other amount-381,251.01927000 sent ?*
*Please help me to retrieve it.*
Here is his phantom address DF61X3Gn1H8zVeV2QoERgprKAivufsVkA4
You can see he has that one transaction in that address and it has not moved since 2018
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Now we come to me. On June 27th 2016 I had the same thing happen. my doge was sent to an address that I did not put in the send to field.
This address DMLtAYk2mPFsH1MEET7BQtQFRSmV4XnA9v is not on my wallet list of receiving addresses. And just like the other two gentlemen, my doge has been sitting in that address untouch for nearly 5 years .
One person, no one is going to believe him. Two eh, but 3 Houston aka Dogecoin we have a systematic problem that is a community issue. I am sure there are alot more than 3 people this has happened to but where do you go. You bring it up and people automatically assume its user error. Well this ain't no user error and with $14B in valuation I don't think the users need to be penalized when they did nothing wrong.
I want my dogecoin back dammit! lol That whole experience made me shy away from this coin. If that didnt happen I'd have millions of these right now. So how do we escalate this and get this resolved. Thanks | dogecoin |
Kissed someone 2 weeks after 7 year relationship ended Kissed someone 2 weeks after my partner ended our 7 year relationship
The other day I kissed someone for the first time but it was only 2 weeks since he ended our relationship. Should I feel this guilty, like I just want to cry.
The whole relationship I was cheated on and even though I loved him I was a little relieved when it ended.
Am I a bad person for kissing someone after only 2 weeks? How do you not feel guilty after this? | relationship_advice |
£50K in on Doge ... looking for that Moon 🙏🏼🙏🏼🙏🏼🙏🏼 When and what do we think!? It’s being very bullish around the 150 after the drop. Back to the 170 Sats today!? | dogecoin |
Either it's getting erotic or I am crazy and I don't know what to do? We are a normal couple with 2 children, a daughter 17 and a son 14. First and only marriage for both. We always knew the trope that fathers and daughters are a pair and a mother and her son. I think both parents treat the kids evenly, no overt favoritism. I am a little closer to my boy than I am to our girl, but I've written that off to teenage girl warfare on mothers. My husband and son have a terrific relationship. Growing up, the kids sometimes got exposed to the stereotypes. Daughter had pjs that said "My Heart Belongs to Daddy" and brother had a t-shirt that said "Mama's Little Man".
I guess I have to say it. I think my daughter is kind of flirting with her Dad. I'm almost positive she doesn't know what she's doing, but the behavior makes me uncomfortable. I feel silly putting it down here, sitting next to him on the sofa for TV, the slightly jaunty good night hug, her dress and posture. But it's other stuff too, the smiles and the intense stares. Her womanhood is like a new toy she's playing with, and Dad is the only other kid on her playground.
He and I have a terrific rapport and I have shared my discomfort with him. I made a point of framing it that way - no one is doing anything "wrong" exactly, the only issue is my discomfort. He hears me out and I can see him sort of lower the temperature for a day or two, like sitting in a chair instead of on the sofa. He's even spoken once or twice. Two weeks ago she was lounging around in her sleepwear, no bra, and he suggested she slip on a robe "because I can see too much." She giggled but did.
So I need advice from other parents of teen daughters. How common is this, and by "this" again I repeat the problem is how I feel, not anything wrong anyone is doing? | relationship_advice |
[contest] Dental surgery next week! [closed]
My bummer is your fun! I need suggestions for tasty soft foods and a not so spicy toothpaste! Toothpaste BURNS! I hate mint!! Anyone know of a nice vanilla mint or soft mint brand? Contest ends Monday!!! I’ll pick a winner or two at random | Random_Acts_Of_Amazon |
My school bullies are getting married when I’m still a socially stunted virgin at 24 🤡 🤡 🤡 I fucking hate my life 🤡 🤡 🤡 I
For all of you that are a bit slow this isn’t me crying about the past but just reflecting on not just them but people in general. But I made this post because I only seen their lives literally today | offmychest |
In this thread: Your favourite bible chapters/quotes I came across a quote today while reading something secular and it struck me as I felt like I knew it from something, but couldn't pin it until I looked it up and saw that it was from Proverbs, Proverbs 26:4 "Answer a fool according to his folly, lest he become wise in his own eyes." Before I knew it, I got caught up reading a few bits of proverbs and realized that along with psalms, they're probably my favourite parts of the Bible apart from revelations. What are yours and why? I like that quote because it keeps me grounded yet respectful and teaching when arguing with others. | Catholicism |
My (23 F) boyfriend (22 M) stopped letting me cuddle him and play with his body like he used. I need advice to figure out why he is now no longer letting me be intimate with him. So my boyfriend has been the best absolute perfect man for me. He is the first guy that lets me cuddle him whenever I want and let’s me play with his entire body. With other guys certain locations have been off limits but with him he trusts me completely. I also hate being little spoon most of the time and it has been so great having a man relish being little spoon. He feels like he is all mine which I have never felt before.
Now, he has suddenly stopped. He no longer wants cuddles and I no longer get to play with his entire body. We still have sex and get along but for some reason it’s like a switch went off on him. I ask what is the matter and he just says “I’m not feeling like it.”. Which I thought was fine for a few days but now a week? It is so heartbreaking to go from having that special intimacy to now not having it at all. I even just bragged to my girlfriends how special it has been to me that he lets me hold him and try some semi-taboo kinks with him. Now, just gone. These aren’t dealbreakers but I just feel like our intimacy/trust was really high and now it has just lulled. Maybe this is his way of showing he is stressed? Usually though he is an open book to me so I am in unfamiliar territory. I just want my cuddly boyfriend back and it is killing me that he either doesn’t want that intimacy anymore or if he is stressed and won’t tell me why. | relationship_advice |
Watch Out for SNL Scammers!! There are a bunch of fake snl accounts on youtube right now telling everyone that Elon Musk is giving away doge, and that you should sell it, but they’re total scams. Be wary! | dogecoin |
How do bow users feel about the Ballistics skill for a bow build? Hey guys! I’m at a point in the game where I’m just trying out new weapons for fun. I’ve never been one to try to maximize damage so I was trying to build a comfy bow build and was wondering if this skill is worth it. I’d fit Ballistics 2 into the set, so would that range make enough of a difference?
During the while I’ve played around with a bow I felt that I needed to be too close to the monsters to get maximum damage and I was hoping to change that.
Also, I’m using the Narga bow and considering Pierce Up 2. Is the damage increase worth the skill?
EDIT: Thanks for the feedback everyone! It hadn’t even crossed my mind that it would also extend the range of the close range coating. I decided to give it a try and so far the builds feels just fine while I wait for the next update with the ending to the game.
Currently I’m running Constitution 4, WEX 3, Ballistics 3, Stamina Surge 3, Pierce Up 2 and Bow Charge Plus which feels like enough for a basic raw bow build.
I know LBG would be better for the range I’m playing at but I simply find the bows fun to use since World, yet felt that the range on Rise was shorter. That’s probably just my imagination though! I’ll keep trying out new weapons and eventually try to get into LBGs and HBGs but they’ve never been my cup of tea.
Thanks guys! | MonsterHunter |
How do I find plus sized "men's" clothing?! Hey!
I'm super early in my transition, but I think I'm non binary trans masculine.
I live in the UK, and in "women's" clothing I'm around a size 20. The only masculine thing I've found comfortable in so far is regular old t-shirts, usually an XXL.
My issue is finding underwear, namely boxer shorts, and trousers and shorts.
I'm still wearing black leggings (which I've lived in for the past 5 years), and I just pair them with a cool T-Shirt, and maybe an open shirt. And it's really comfortable! But I want to wear something more masculine on the bottom, but how do I find masculine bottoms that 1) fit around my belly 2) get used to "men's" sizing 3) do all of that on a barely existent budget.
I tried some men's plus size jeans from ASOS, and even though I measured myself, they were incredibly baggy around my waist.
If anyone has advice, or knows where to point me for advice, or just sympathises! 😂 I'd be incredibly grateful. | asktransgender |
Need help finding this video (or her name) for $$
Link of the video on another website but it's unavailable
And another one | tipofmypenis |
New 2019 Lenovo yoga updated drivers, plugged into external monitor hdmi through a cheap converter into usb-C now my laptop screen flickers on and off. It is not movement based. Should I uninstall drivers or is this a GPU overhall? Great laptop im a software developer I need this to last me another 2 years at least.
Is there an issue with using hdmi to usb-C converters into newer laptops? I really would think not at all.
So now I am using the computer with only an external screen. The external monitor works great no flickering and the PC runs very quickly CPU wise.
Hopefully this is just a driver reinstall. I have not done bios yet may do that.
Any pointers would be appreciated as i am a fix it felix guy but my strength lies in mechanical and software engineering. Computer hardware isnt my forte. Im here to learn :) | buildapc |
Stop putting low quality creative maps as ltms For the love of god, if epic features another "Red vs Blue Pro 100 Go Goated 💯💯💯" map I'm going to un-install. At first I was only a little annoyed, "oh this map is garbage but maybe some people like it", but now I know that isn't true. Yesterday was the last straw when epic featured the world's worst capture the flag map. It was literally just the lava island with random vents placed everywhere with metal bases (not even using prefabs), where you had to GRAB materials instead of getting them off spawn, that was made in 5 minutes. Instead of featuring any fantastic maps with creator's soul poured into them you know what they do? They make a event based on 3 red vs blue modes. These maps literally are just a giant box made of the obstacle course prefab, with every item thrown onto the ground with no devices or creativity. There are plenty of other creators with much much better maps and they decide to make a week dedicated to the laziest.
If you're wondering how bad the capture the flag map was, I'll post a link in a second. | FortNiteBR |
I (21F) am having a hard time with my Grandma living with us while I'm in school. I'm in my junior year of college in an engineering program that's currently living at home thanks to Covid. A little background: when I was younger my grandma and I were very close. I was constantly at her house and she was hands down my favorite person in the world. As I got older, I started to realize how she treated people, namely my mom. So, when I moved away to college, I went LC with her as her true colors started to show. This did not go well as she was constantly yelling at my mom for me not talking to her as much and being mean on the few phone calls I did have with her.
Around August, her cancer came back. She had been in remission for at least 4 years and it came as a shock to all of us. No matter how badly she behaves, the entire family has just decided to take everything with a grain of salt and just ignore how horribly she treats people when things aren't about her. Around October, my mom took a leave from her job so she could care for my grandma full time at our house. Things were mostly okay since I had a lighter workload, but family members were constantly in and out, and keeping up with school and my part-time job was rough. Thankfully, she beat cancer yet again and is much better health-wise, just not better enough to be on her own.
This semester, I'm taking 6 classes, and I'm extremely worried I won't be able to keep up with school while she's here. I got a full scholarship to an Ivy League school, which I'm incredibly grateful for. But, if I mess up academically, I'll lose my scholarship (and we can't afford to pay a $50,000 tuition). We originally suggested to my grandma that we swap her room, which is right beside mine, with our home office so she can be closer to my mom. This would also mean I get the back part of the house to myself, to do school work. She completely flipped out and my mom walked out of the room in tears.
My aunt, who my grandma has stayed with previously, offered to have her stay at her house for the semester so I could focus on school and my mom could possibly go back to work since our finances are dwindling since she took off from work. This seemed like a great idea until we brought it up to her and all she kept saying was 'you never wanted me here' and 'it's ok that you guys don't love me.' She's been ignoring us ever since we brought it up. And, no matter how many times we tell her it's not that we don't want her here (which isn't the case; she can get very mean but my mom and I are too soft to actually kick her out especially when she just went through a second bought of cancer) she doesn't believe us.
I've been trying to be a good sport about this, but I've been stressed about this for weeks now. It also doesn't help that she expects everyone to drop whatever they're doing to cater to her. My mom has been emotionally abused by my Grandma her entire life and has trouble creating boundaries and putting her foot down when my Grandma goes too far. My mother is a saint and would do anything for my grandma, no matter how much she makes her cry. At this point, we don't know what to do. How should we move forward with this? | relationship_advice |
Pro 100 - what was going on? Not the usual rant about Pro 100 (although I’m relieved to have done the quests so I never have to play this awful map again…)
I have been playing and trying to get people to reciprocate by knocking ourselves for the revives.
In a recent game almost my entire team were holed up in the vault. They were all boosted and just guarding the door. I joined them and tried prompting a bit of mutual reviving but they weren’t interested. They were just standing around. They weren’t getting kills - just sitting doing nothing. Any idea what they were doing? Maybe I was missing some obvious benefit to standing around whilst glowing purple… | FortNiteBR |
I don't know what to say now This will probably be long, sorry!
I (28F) don't know what to say to my partner (28M) after we've had the same fight we always have and I'm sick of it. We've been together 9 yrs. If I try to talk things out he says I'm pushing it because he wants to not talk about things that bother him because he gets annoyed when I defend myself. We can never talk about grievances without fighting. The situation is usually different but always the same things come out. Often if he hasn't had a smoke he snaps or goes into withdrawal I've told him that it's not fair he takes it out on me. This time I was feeling really unwell and he spent the weekend trying to wind me up (his admission) to lighten the mood and most of the time I joke back but eventually it got on my nerves and i told him to stop. He said I ruined the weekend and when he snaps at me it's not ok but when I do it it's fine. I apologised for getting annoyed but tried to explain that he didn't have to try to wind me up, I don't do that to him. He said that's who he is and if I don't like it we shouldn't be together.
If I try to explain myself I'm not taking responsibility. Me saying can we talk about what's bothering you is me trying to pin the blame on him.
There's so many other things but it's too long to explain. I know there must be things that bother him about me but I try to fit my life around him and what he wants to do and keeping him happy and never do things with malicious intent, if I annoy him it's accidental, and I apologise. He has said awful things to me in the past, and when we argue he says awful things, I don't, I only ask that we talk about how to fix things, but he tells me that I'm trying to twist everything and make it a blame game, which I don't, and if I say that he counters that my actions make him think that way but no matter what I do he's going to think what he wants so I can't ever do right.
Then usually, like this time he later apologizes for the awful things he's said and sounds sincere but I don't know if I believe him anymore because everytime it's over next time we argue he uses it against me saying he always apoloizes, and he will still say nasty things and never seems to learn from the last times. So I feel like nothing will ever change. There's no evolving and I know it's half my job to evolve and I want to but I don't know how to when regardless of what I do I'm accused of trying to blame him. I am happy to apologise to him too but I also have stuff I need to get off my chest but that's what causes the arguments, he says I'm pushing to argue again but I just want to talk and get it out in the open, not just say sorry and shut up until the next argument. So I haven't said anything at all because i am at a total loss, words seem pointless when it's all going to happen again.
In between the arguments we get on so well and he seems so happy but then in arguing he says during those good times he's just squashing how he feels and can't tell me when he's annoyed because I get defensive, so in the back of my mind I'm always wondering if he's pissed off and just shoving it down but trying to talk just makes a new argument so the cycle continues. So I don't know what to say now. Sorry again for the long post, I can't seem to keep things short lol. | relationship_advice |
How do I tell her my real age? So I met this girl online and we have got to a pretty intimate level but im 16 and she's 17. I told her I was 17 when we met a while back. How do I tell her my real age? | relationship_advice |
I (24M) had a huge fight with my GF (23F) and I don't know who's in the wrong... TL;DR - She is very bothered by fact that I carry a small fixed blade knife. And I'm very bothered by the fact she always has drugs (and smokes weed daily) and also has a stun gun...
So to make this straight, I can legally carry that knife and it's not a weapon, it's a really small knife. I use it to open packages, cut zip ties and strip wires.
And stun gun is - a weapon and even costs more than my knife, it's legal but - weed and other stuff is not. And after bothering me over my knife for days - I find out she's carrying drugs with her EVERY SINGLE DAY!
I'm considering breaking up with her, I don't like her drug habbits (she is doing it too often) and I don't like the fact that she's having drugs on her while being with me. And finally, she wants me to stop carrying a tool that I actually need and use.
She's even gone as far to call it natural and less harmful than alcohol (BTW she HATES alcohol with burning passion and will nag at me for hours over a single beer with my friends)... I'd maybe buy her story about weed being natural - but "party pills' aren't natural in my opinion... and I probably don't want to know other stuff she's possibly taking.
I don't think I can have a future with her. | relationship_advice |
Everyone go support @DogecoinRise on Twitter! Everyone go follow DogecoinRise on Twitter then make sure to like, retweet, and comment on all their posts. They are fighting the good fight on Twitter and spreading the word on dogecoin! Let’s make dogecoin go even more viral!!! | dogecoin |
What is this white power stuff Hi on YouTube i saw a guy put his water cooling radiator underwater in his pool to get super cold temps well i thought I could do it with an old white tub and some tap water
Here is a link to the tub
The radiator is placed in the tub and is filled with 13C tap water I get super cold temps and every thing is great until about a week of the radiator being submerged in the water this white thick starch looking stuff keeps coming off of the radiator the black paint on the radiator is Also Coming off too so my current theory is a reaction with chemicals in the tap water reacting with the aluminium radiator it's been like this for a month so if anyone can identify what is happening I will be very great full thanks | buildapc |
Which should i choose, the S20 FE or the S21? A bit of background
I've had countless Samsung devices from the Galaxy A line to most recently Galaxy Tab S range, but now I'm looking for my first Galaxy S phone and I need some opinions as to which is more suited to me.
I do a lot of Gaming and mainly want a device that can deliver smooth gameplay. | samsung |
Child Care Benifit in Ontario? If you live in Ontario and are married how much child care benefit would you expect monthly? Our combined net income is just over $30,000. Thanks | PersonalFinanceCanada |
Question about Sphere components and setup. Cant seem to find this information clearly and concisely stated and explained anywhere.
1. Do sphere nodes and frame rails generate power on their own, or is it only the sails that generate power?
2. Following that, does spamming them as many as you can close together as possible give any tangible benefit, or does it just cost you a bunch of resources for no real benefit at all?
I realize the grid size is static based on the diameter of your sphere, and so the maximum number of nodes is ALSO fixed. Really what i want to know is if there's and benefit from having a heck-ton of nodes, or if it's a waste of time and resources. | Dyson_Sphere_Program |
Can't seat new 3060 in PCIe slot ###Troubleshooting Help:
**What is your parts list? Consider formatting your parts list.**
What is your parts list?
**Describe your problem. List any error messages and symptoms. Be descriptive.**
MSI RX 480 has a failing fan that hitches under load which is annoying and stresses me out in this GPU climate. Managed to acquire an EVGA RTX 3060 (yay!) but it won't fit in the case even though it's like 30% smaller (wtf?)
RX 480 datasheet shows dimensions as 276 x 140 x 42 mm
EVGA RTX 3060 datasheet so we can clearly see it is both shorter and skinnier
**List anything you've done in attempt to diagnose or fix the problem.**
* Sanity check with friends in Discord
* Physically lined up cards to see if there was some obvious difference
* Double-checked there were no extra shipping safety bits in the way
* Set loadout in PC Part Picker to check if there was some obvious compatibility issue
* Tried inserting into secondary PCIe slot, same issue
* Loaded up PC Building Sim, sadly my case from 2015 isn't new enough to be in the game
* Panicked
**Post relevant photos of build/parts here.**
it's hard to get a good photo from the angle with the PSU being below it but hopefully this illustrates it, I can't line it up completely with the PCI slot, it's like I need to be able to move it 3mm to the left for it to fit but the case's slots for securing the card are "in the way". The card came bundled with a AMD Ryzen 5 3600 & GIGABYTE B450M DS3H V2 mobo and it fits not in the case
**Provide any additional details you wish below.**
One of my friends suggested checking the mobo risers which might account for such a small difference but I wanted to check with folks here before I get into the weeds on this. I also have a product replacement plan with Canada Computers in case I just need to replace it but given stock availability I don't really want to do that unless I have to | buildapc |
It's going to go up again it's logically impossible it doesn't Look at logic this made it impossible for me to be concerned
1 everyone and their mother knows about dogecoin that's not going to change
2 the odds of Elon mentioning doge again is I'd say big
3 every exchange just recently spammed us about taking dogecoin are they going to say oh it dipped we're all out
All of this isn't just going to be erased because of a dip and it's not even a big dip why is anyone panicking I'm a chronic overthinker and I can't panic about this I tried I am only panicking about not selling it all and then rebuying as then I'd have 40k coins I think | dogecoin |
Will Beast Boy be in for 3 days? I know it sounds stupid but epic has done some skins dirty before. If it's here for three days I can get it, but if not I can't. Thanks for reading. | FortNiteBR |
What do you think of X-Axis (Lille Barro) as a character? I know he's not the most fleshed out character but I still thought he was pretty cool. I like how he's basically the Bleach version of a sniper and his fight with Kyoraku was very fun.
View Poll | bleach |
AITA for continuously cancelling my plans with friends? Thank you for clicking on this even though I know that this is a really, really minor dilemma. However, I'm generally a really anxious person when it comes to social interactions and would just like to know what other people think, sorry.
So I have a really small group of friends (18F) that I hang out with and recently I have been wanting to hang out with them as the COVID guidelines have loosened in my area. Normally we would set up a date, talk about where we want to go, and would meet up. Recently my parents have been on edge (about personal affairs) and would allow me to go but make me cancel on them last minute. I would also sometimes feel not wanting to have any social interactions (due to anxiousness or personal issues) and would cancel the day before (real shitty of me ik). Although my friends do not show it, I have a feeling they might be feeling disappointed or pissed at me, especially since I am the one that plans most of these outings. Since they do not really know about my anxiety issues (as I'm usually the 'outgoing' one in the group) I feel that they may even think that I am canceling on purpose. All I want to know is if I really am AITA and what I should do. I decided to post about this because I just recently canceled plans with them (due to my parents) for the fifth time already and I feel extremely terrible.
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Thank you for reading so much and any feedback is appreciated! :) | AmItheAsshole |
How to tell my partner I've lost feelings for 3 weeks now? Hi,
I'm 20 and my partner is 18 and for 3 weeks or so I've felt very disconnected from her. I'm severely mentally ill so that doesn't help but we decided to go forward with our relationship anyway. I made a suicide attempt about a week and a half ago because I was in general feeling awful and now I'm no longer feeling suicidal although I still feel very disconnected from her. It's not just a lack of romance; I just feel pretty much nothing toward her. It's to the point where I know I need to talk to her because it hasn't passed yet and I'm finding myself regrettably looking at other girls online compulsively. I want to stress that I in general feel pretty much nothing so it's not entirely localized to her but I'm not comfortable with how I'm thinking about other girls at the moment. How should I approach her and communicate everything to her?
Thank you. | relationship_advice |
Is doge going to go back up? I don't want to panic sell but it's half of what it was last night | WallStreetbetsELITE |
Any gaming laptop under $650? Any gaming laptop deals you have spotted under $650? I am looking at the HP pavillion , Lenovo Gaming i3.
Unfurtunatelly the ones i have seen the cheapeast are in wallmart with: i5-9300HF. I have not seen any nitro 05 under $700.
I have seen the evoo gaming laptop but i am afraid of it. I have an old Lenovo B50 by the way. | GamingLaptops |
[SUMMARY] Republic of China 2022 Procurement |NAME|COST PER UNIT|NUMBER OF UNITS|TOTAL COST|NOTES|
:--|:--|:--|--:|:--|
|F-16V|$70,000,000|13|$910,000,000|In addition to the upgrades|
|E-2K|$130,000,000|1|$130,000,000||
|MC-55A|$615,000,000|1|$615,000,000|Variant for Taiwan|
|Tuo Chiang-class|$72,390,000|2|$144,780,000|IRL planned 12 navy 12 coast guard|
|Other Planned navy stuff|N/A|N/A|$900,000,000|Will post R&D later|
|Type 10 MBT|$8,400,000|60|$504,000,000||
|Sky Bow III|$60,000,000|3|$180,000,000||
|Total|||$3,383,780,000|
- Bobert | GlobalPowers |
my puppy is extremely picky when its about food bichon mix, male, 8 weeks old. he is super picky, he aint even eating dog food (different kinds of it). he just wants meat, and the things that he likes (lentils, specific dog food, eggs) and this is starting to become a very serious trouble: he isnt eating. i dont want to embrace this pickiness by always giving him what he wants when he doesnt eat, so he just starts misbehaving and not eating which is making me very worried, i have no idea how to correct this behavior! he used to eat anything i give him, now he wants a specific thing and he wont eat anything else. | puppy101 |
Help for Pulling Mini Doxie Our mini doxie has two modes - sniffing and RUNNING pulling on the leash. He’s 5 months old. We keep seeing to get a front harness and tried this but the clip drags on the ground cos he’s so short. Is there one that won’t do that? Does anyone have a very short puppy and have a type of harness that is actually no pull? We’re just using a back clip harness right now.
We plan to train him not to pull and currently do “the leash stops moving when you start pulling” but it’s just... not getting anywhere. His obedience classes currently don’t start till June so we’re hoping to at least find a stop gap that won’t teach him pulling is ok?
I don’t know. Looking for options. | puppy101 |
Businesses accepting doge doesn't make sense. As we know crypto currencies are highly volatile then it makes no sense to accept doge as payment because for example if i sell someone a 600$ mobile phone and accept doge coin as payment then within the next week the price of the coin could crash that would leave me with significantly less money. Basically isn't that how it works? | dogecoin |
How should I interpret this situation? I don’t even know how to write this situation.
My ex and I were together for 5 years and lived together but due to some underlying issues I had from past caused me to break mentally and I did some emotional cheating in this period. I dont know why, I thought the world was against me. It was hard time to say the lest.
We decided that we would live separately, around September she said she needed time to heal and grow. No problem.
On Halloween of 2020 I tried texting her but found she blocked me. So I reached out to her friend over linkedin to ask her if she is done with me.
Same day she texts me to not reach out to her friends and said
“please don’t reach out to my friends. by doing so, you are (again) not respecting MY wishes to contact YOU when I am ready. I AM NOT ON YOUR TIMELINE AND YOU DO NOT CONTROL ME ANYWAY. please work on moving on, seriously I am.”
Since Halloween I have not reached out to her.
I’ve been getting help I need with a therapist, but I really want closure. I really want to work things out with her but I’m so scared to reach out to know. The message is ambiguous. I want closure.
Furthermore for Xmas and her bday (both in December) I sent her gifts but no response. I can’t tell if she still likes me at all and is still mad. If she never wanted to speak to me, I believe she would have said so.
Is the door potentially open, we can ever just talk and be friends again? I really miss her. My heart cries so much. | relationship_advice |
How do i tell my friend [M20 both] I am starting to go out with a woman he was almost a couple with? First of all thank you in advance for your advice.This is the thing, my friend and I liked this girl he brought to our group of friends, that was about september of last year, he then asked me to stay away from her since he was doing his moves on her, i did so, since i wasn't even sure i wanted something with her and he really seemed into her, after a month or so i asked him how things were going regarding her, and was told that in the end it didn't work out for them mostly because of distance since he was most likely going to be moving to the city not much after that, thing he didn't do in the end.Last month She and I started chatting and now we are in a very weird spot between friends and couple, Today my friend is coming over and I really wanted to tell him this since he is one of my best friends, i am really not considering stop seeing her, simply because i gave him his chance and didn't work out, but i can't really find the words in my mind to tell him all of this. | relationship_advice |
Been in a funk for a few days I have had it with life in general. I'm definitely not suicidal,but life is just hard sometimes. There are times like now that it is too much.
I don't like the people at work, even though I've worked there 10 years. They drive me crazy and we have nothing in common. My boss is lazy and patronizing. In my small town, it's the best job available though, so I will stay.
I stay because my mom is here and in her 70s. I have a brother who lives here but he doesn't talk to us and we cannot see his kids because he has an evil wife. I have two aunt's here, but I don't like one(no one in our family likes her) and I'm not welcome at the other's house. My uncle told me not to come back after breaking up an argument with mom and hated aunt while in his house. So it's mom and me. She won't be around forever. We travel together but with covid, we haven't gone anywhere for a year.
My roof leaks. It was supposed to be fixed in Feb. I worry about the damage it's doing to my house. I know the contractor will send a crew when he can. I just worry and wish I could afford a better house.
I have money in savings to fix the roof and know that I am more fortunate than most. It doesn't matter honestly.
I'm overweight and keep failing to lose. I eat my emotions. Bad loop!
I tell myself that all of this is temporary. Well, not the brother situation but his kids are getting older. Maybe they will want to see me when they can drive. I'm just in a funk and wish it would pass. It will be okay some day.
That's all. Thanks for reading. | offmychest |
My relationships feel very alienated and I don’t know how to cope with it. I’m very sad right now 😞 The saddest I’ve been in a very long time because I realized how alien my relationships are. I’m so sad I don’t even feel like ranting /:
I’ve been in a self discovery journey for about a year now but I would have never imagined of discovering how little of a positive impact my relationships are in my life. I didn’t expect to find myself feeling very alone and I’ve been tearing up for the past few days.
I feel like the people around me make little effort and that really bums me out. I’m between with just going with the flow now or just cutting them off.
Everything was great until I realized how much effort I put into all these relationships with little to no return. I’m devastated. Are these people even my friends or are using me as a stepping stool /: | relationship_advice |
Has my bra size changed? What is going on? So I've done this quite a few times, but the thing is, I'm losing weight and because of that, the measurements keep changing.
Here are the measurements from then to now.
22/05/21
Loose underbust: 31.4”
Snug underbust: 30.7”
Tight underbust:29.9”
Standing bust: 34”
Leaning bust: 36”
Lying bust: 35”
Bra size: 30E
07/06/21
Loose underbust: 30"Snug underbust: 29.1"Tight underbust:27.8”Standing bust: 34.5”Leaning bust: 36.5”Lying bust: 35”
Bra size: 30 E
27/06/21 (today)
Loose underbust:29.5"
Snug underbust (used for bra measurements): 29"
Tight underbust: 27.6"
Standing bust (used for bra measurements): 33.4"
Leaning bust: 34.8"
Lying bust: 35.4"
Bra size: 30DD? | ABraThatFits |
Rayquaza Raid now add 9050 8714 8165 Hey! Rayquaza raid here add 9050 8714 8165 will begin ASAP, be online please
I will try to add as much as I can so stay in the lobby even if you see me leave ! | PokemonGoFriends |
more slots for ships and pets please sean all i want is more than 6 goddamn slots please | NoMansSkyTheGame |
Add Four or Five or Two-- Can someone please tell me how to figure out which brands add inches to their band size? I recently lost a good amount of weight and my current bras (Anita and Goddess) no longer fit me. I'm trying to figure out my new size, particularly in those brands since I liked those bras a lot, but I keep running into issues regarding band sizing. My band size seems to be 32 (at least, it's the most consistent measurement I've gotten, though I've also gotten numbers ranging from 30-33) but when I enter that number in calculators like Anita's I'm told that my band size is 34?
I'm genuinely bewildered as to why it appears to consistently add two inches to my band size. The same thing happened when I used the calculator here-- cup size was more or less what I had calculated, but band size was 34 instead of 32 (despite putting 34 as 'loose').
I know that brands sometimes pull the bullshittery of 'add four or five' to their bands, and that's already frustrating enough, but is there an add two inches rule for other brands or something? Anita, Goddess, and the calculator here use 'UK' sizing, so does is this something UK specific?
On that point-- has anyone on this subreddit compiled a list of brands that pull the 'add x inches to band size' garbage? I had hoped that a simple google search or searching around a brand's website for their sizing guide or even individualized calculator would let me know, but it looks like a lot of brands, like Goddess, don't provide that information.
Any information on how to find out that sort of thing is greatly appreciated! | ABraThatFits |
The battle for London feels quite different when you equip shepard with a venom shotgun and garrus with a typhoon usually it's one of the hardest missions in the game for me, truly an epic and desperate battle a last ditch attempt to win an impossible war. I can feel shepard's exhaustion and tiredness. A very nice sync of game and narrative.
well this time I felt like I was committing a war crime on the reapers no enemy survived more than 3 seconds I think Garrus and I could have taken back earth on our own | masseffect |
Ideas for boosting my confidence? (M22)(Height) I’ve been alone my entire life. In the teen years, Girls always told me that I was too short to date. I Coped with the fact that I had a few more years to go.
Went to doctor people yesterday. Turns out I’m shorter than I thought. I’m somehow the magic number. 5’8”. The exact number that is endlessly made fun of on social media and the de facto “Undateable monstrosity lmao” line for women in my age group on said sites and apps.
I’ve had one *COUGH* success with a woman but when I pursued she straight up told me that she’d prefer someone taller for actual dating.
On top of my other flaws, I don’t know how to go about this. Knowing that a couple inches locks me away from women I thought I’d mix great with and that it’s scientifically proven that EVERYONE respects me less. Being alone all my life and then getting hit with this internet barrage of what women really thought of me this whole time is brain punching. I’m not going to lie. I cried a little bit (pathetic at 22, I know) but before this, I never felt like there was anything wrong with me and now I have the knowledge that this one thing basically counts as two strikes.
I feel like I’m in denial. Knowing that, in my heart, I’ve truly given up. Going for it a few more times will probably end in failure. Still, I think it’s better than stopping now and regretting it at 65. Any tips for boosting my confidence? | dating_advice |
RKT was a distraction. Here’s why Everyone knows the big targets right now are AMC and GME. Hedgies know that and will try everything they can to stir you away from them.
1) why when a stock that has an 85% ownership of citadel, mysteriously goes up 72% In a day is blasted all over the news and internet. But when a stock not owned by them goes up we’re all “criminals” and idiots for catching onto it before them?
2) I bet you some people sold GME and AMC to buy RKT today to chase the run only to be burned today....
3) RKT is down almost 30%. Literally within 30 MINUTES OF MARKET OPEN... PEOPLE WAKE UP
4) you don’t go up 71% one day to drop that same percentage the next. That’s a classical Hedgefund pump n dump and if I were you I’d get out. Stay the course, AMC AND GME ALL THE WAY. WE ARE NOT LEAVING!!!
This is not financial advice | WallStreetbetsELITE |
Date of departure for non-resident tax return? I am a Canadian citizen who started my PhD in 2015 in the USA and recently finished my degree this year (May 2021). I became a tax resident in the US in 2020 due to the substantial presence test, and as I got married to an American citizen as well in 2020 I filed my US tax return as a resident. However, I realized I mistakenly filed my Canadian tax return as a resident too (I do not have any primary ties left and will be living in the US with my spouse). Do I need to correct this error, or can I simply file a departure tax return next year (for 2021)? If the latter option, what date of departure would I use (i.e. the date I became a US tax resident, the date I left Canada last, the date I left Canada to become a student in the US, or another date altogether?)
Thank you for any advice! | PersonalFinanceCanada |
Why are the main cryptos all synchronized? They are literally behaving almost exactly the same how is this possible in a free market? It really is starting to bother me | dogecoin |
Questions Regarding Ryzen 5 5600, Motherboard and RAM Hello,
I'm planning to upgrade my PC, and right now I'm set on getting a Ryzen 5 5600x, b550 tomahawk mtb, and crucial ballistixs 16gb 3600mhz. I have a few questions.
Is there any compatibility issues I should know about?
What's the temperature like for the Ryzen 5? Would the stock cooler be enough or would I need to buy an aftermarket one?
Is there any downsides to the ballistixs? I chose them because they're good for the price but I'm willing to spend a bit extra if there are better alternatives. Same applies for the motherboard | buildapc |
Being A Virgin Is Not Something To Be Ashamed of No Matter What Age! Stop Joking On Folks! Stop joking on people for being virgins!
I'm tired of ya'll with that shit. You ain't better than nobody because you get ass. Seriously how you gone look down on me for not fuckin? What am I missing out on?
I know how to please myself for your information. No being a virgin doesn't mean you fat or ugly or anything else these crazy people try to tell you that you are.
Let them run they mouth! I can't stand that shit. Telling me i'm ugly and fat because i'm a virgin.
I like women which is a whole nother topic. I just want to be free and embrace myself but it's some childish ass people tryna tell me to hate myself and who tryna make me feel bad about myself for liking women and being a virgin.
I have experimented with sex toys and have had phone sex. That's okay for me for now. I'm not ready to go all the way and when i've said this on different places online, people start hating on me saying that i'm pitiful for being a virgin at age 32 and that i'm going to be alone forever.
You ain't better than someone because they a virgin! Who are you sweety?
Get on my nerve with that shit. Let people live they life and stop joking on folks. That's some middle school shit.
I am not going to hold my head down because I'm not having sex so don't expect me to!
I don't know when i'm gone meet a woman and have sex but you don't have a right to judge me and make me feel bad. | offmychest |
How can I setup dual monitors using the MSI Meg X570 Unify? I ordered the parts for my new PC including the MSI Meg X570 Unify motherboard and the MSI GeForce GTX 1660 SUPER.
I don't know anything about how displays work on computers, so I'm wondering if it would be possible to setup dual monitors with this build? How would that work?
Thanks! | buildapc |
Do you prefer classes or “solo yoga”? I wanted to ask if you guys preferred classes over yoga from home (if that’s what you’d call it 😭) like Youtube videos and things such as Down Dog and why you like it more or don’t like it!
I’ve never been to a studio espically due to being new as of three months ago to yoga.
I’m interested in classes one day when there’s more finanical stability and it’s safer out because I feel like that hands on experience may help me improve or point out things I could be doing incorrectly but I just wanted to ask if people here found they flourished more without in-person classes or maybe they found them extremely helpful and better than practicing alone. | yoga |
I feel like I can't socially interact with others I have been dealing with social anxiety for a long time and I don't feel like I can properly communicate with others. I am unable to attaint any level of deeper conversation with anyone. I can only ever really have surface level conversations regarding whatever the current task at hand is. I have a deep need for emotional connection yet I cannot satisfy it. I feel like I can only really talk to myself. Everyday I feel like I can never start a conservation at any cost. I am trying to fix this but I feel like I might never be able to. | offmychest |
My (f28) husband(m28) is bringing his dog back and I’m not happy about it Yes, I realize that makes me a huge bitch but I’m trying to get advice to get over myself and at least be open to this.
Ok now on to my predicament.
My husband has had a cane corso since 2014 when he was in college. We met in 2015 at our job after he had graduated. When we met he had just moved in with his dad and couldn’t bring his dog with him so he has left him with his mom. She has a big house with a big yard so it made sense. He had to move in with his dad bc of the commute to work.
Anyway, we met and i lived w my parents at the time. Our relationship moved pretty fast. He ended up not getting along with his stepmom and he ended up moving in with me at my parents house after a couple months. Obviously, his dog couldn’t come with him. We got our own apartment a few months later and he finally brought his dog. I was pregnant with twins by now. I’d walk him and feed him and I was the one mostly with him bc my husband got a new job w lots of crazy hours. When I was about 7 months pregnant, his dog pulled me while I was walking him and I almost fell. He’s a good dog but he’s big and he listens well but mostly to my husband. He listens to me too but not that well. We also lived in a one bedroom apartment on the second floor so we thought it might be best to let him go back to his mom’s for a while.
That brings us to now. We finally bought a townhome with a small yard. Trouble is, we have twin 4 year olds and a 5 month old. He’s supposed to go get him this weekend but I don’t want him to come. I know I’ll end up having to feed, walk and clean up after him. We’ve tried to get our girls to warm up to him but they’re still scared of him. I just feel like it’ll be more work for me and he doesn’t help as much as I feel he should considering the extra work his BIG dog will add.
How do I approach this? Should I just suck it up? Am I completely wrong to feel this way? Am I just being selfish?
Please help me bc I feel so guilty but I desperately don’t want him to come. | relationship_advice |
The Dark Thoughts are Coming Back It’s springtime where I live, which means summer is just around the corner. I feel so hopeless in the summertime. There’s nothing to be happy about. There’s nothing to look forward to.
There are things happening in my life right now that probably make it look good from an outside perspective, but I just can’t bring myself to feel any happiness about any of it. Everything feels so bleak and hopeless. I struggle to do the daily shit that needs to be done, let alone any hobbies that might bring me a small measure of temporary joy.
Is this all there is to life? Some very small, short-lived, nearly negligible decent times sprinkled in amongst mostly darkness and despair? I’m medicated for fucks sake. I even had my inner cheek swabbed so my dna could be analyzed in a lab to determine the best medication for me based on my genetics. I’ve been taking this med for a couple years now and upped my dose once during that time. I thought I was fine.
I am not fine. | depression |
Which wallet is best for dogecoin? Honestly I've a couple thousand dogecoin i bought through Robinhood. Im not sure what good it does over there as I can't use it to pay anyone from there. So I'm curious, which wallet is best where I can buy more dogecoin and use it to pay others? | dogecoin |
What if weapons from certain monsters had their skills built into them? Had an idea that, like Kulve/Lunastra weapons, that weapons from apex and elder monsters have their QoL skill built into them.
For example:
Lavasioth weapons could have build in fire res or something to differentiate between other fire weapons.
Uragaan could have a point of Guard or somethign else.
Teostra could have built in skill that matches Teostra.
etc.
This, theoretically, could at least make weapon branches that seems like worser versions of other branches be a lot more interesting.
This, of course, takes into account how much of World's skill system makes it in. | MonsterHunter |
What’s with the ceiling at .05? Does a large mining operation have a ton of limit sells set at .05 or something? | dogecoin |
How long do I need to wait before getting the second shot of the pfizer vaccine? I might need to get vaccinated in order to travel from Europe to Canada. I heard from some people that it takes about two months to get the two shots + the vaccination passport. Can someone who is more informed tell me how long do I need to wait, before getting the second shot? Can I get the vaccination passport with only one shot? | COVID19positive |
4:30 am is not wake up time please go to sleep Our pup has been sleeping well through the night these days. But these past few days she’s been deciding to get up earlier. Today that was 4:30am.
She has to potty so maybe it was that. She’s starting to self settle and sleep on her own. If it’s close to bed time and she’s falling asleep we put her into her crate so we can go to bed.
I read that at night I should keep her awake until it’s time to sleep but I’m worried that it will make her cranky or over tired
Any tips? | puppy101 |
Age Gap of 14 years - what are some potential red flags? So I have been seeing this guy. We really click and I do really like him. I think this is the first time that I really feel compatible with a guy after a series of self destructive relationships.
He is 14 years older than me. I am 24, he is 38. Pretty much all the guys I have been with were older than me (partly because that's what I seem to be attracted to, partly because I don't get to meet many people my age).
I am just wondering, what are some red flags to watch out for with an age gap like this? I know there is a chance that he is manipulating me and using my position as a young women. It has happened to me before.
I don't want to be overly paranoid but I also don't want to be used again. So I am wondering if there are some things in his behaviour that I should look out for.
Thanks in advance to everyone! | relationship_advice |
I’ve found the miracle for puppy diarrhea and I just gotta share! Moro’s Carrot Soup!
My girl had diarrhea for weeks. Nothing helped. I gave antibiotics from the vet, I gave expensive fixes from the pharmacy. Nothing helped.
Here’s what helped!
The Moro’s carrot soup recipe:
Ingredients:
500 g carrots
water
½ teaspoon table salt
Utils:
Saucepan and hand blender
Preparation:
Wash 500 g of carrots
Peel the carrots and cut them roughly into small pieces
Put water in a saucepan
Add the carrots and cook for *at least 90 minutes*!!!!
Then puree the carrots
Add water until the amount is one liter
Add salt
Mix the soup and let it cool
Do not give soup to your dog until it has cooled down sufficiently
My puppy loved it and a couple hours later her poop was normal. It was just orange and smelled like carrot 😂
I wished someone had told be this sooner so I thought I’d share in case someone comes browsing this sub in need for a quick diarrhea fix ☺️ | puppy101 |
When did you start dating? I've dated prior to me coming out, but I never was happy with it. I've recently (19, mtf) have come out and for some reason, am really scared to go out as myself to date new people. I understand the common downsides are just how it is, but I wonder if it's because I've internalized my parents' transphobia that I've not felt comfortable enough to date new people.
What I'm trying to ask is, when did you gals, guys, and theys start feeling comfortable enough to date? As well as, what have you done to improve your confidence in presenting yourself to a new partner?
I appreciate any responses :) | asktransgender |
Stop with that "Early 2000s grew up the same as late 90's" mentality. I find it ridiculous when you get someone born in 2003 claiming they grew up the same as someone born in 1997 when one side aren't even fully grown up yet and have no rights.
Look, I get the exception of like 2001 and 1999 being similar but this is ridiculous when people born in 2003 try to lump themselves in with people born in 1998. There is NO similarities 😂
Stop! | generationology |
I'm a PC idiot and barley know anything about it. Is it worth to upgrade to a 1070 ti if I have a 1660 super? Whenever I play a game like boneworks I realize that sometimes I am hitting 40 fps and I figured that I should probably upgrade so I want to know if it's worth to upgrade to a 1070 ti if I have a 1660 super. I want to get 60 fps in most games but if I can't please educate me. thanks for the help in advance. | buildapc |
GUYS DOGECOIN ISN'T TRENDING ON TWITTER ANYMORE WE NEED IT #1 ON TWITTER SO WE CAN REACH TO THE MOON!!
USE #DOGECOIN #DOGE ON TWITTER
LIKE THIS SO MORE PEOPLE CAN SEE IT !!
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Is there a line between communication and being intrusive to my girlfriend's personal life? I just want to know if I'm in the wrong for wanting to know where my(19m) gf(17) is and who she's with when she goes out with friends to party or just to hangout. I feel so intrusive when I want to ask those things and I just want to know if those feeling are justified or if I'm being too jealous if that's the right term. Thanks!
Questions are welcome! | relationship_advice |
Girl I’m talking to keeps telling me she’s gonna kill her self then ghosts me all night A girl I’m casually talking to tells me her problems and I’m fine with that. She has suicidal tendencies and has attempted before. But the problem I have is she keeps tell me her problems and acting suicidal and then she says she’s gonna kill herself and then doesn’t respond all the rest of the night and acts like it didn’t happen the next dat. I don’t think that’s fair to me and I want to tell her to stop doing it Bc then I’m worried all the rest of the night and she won’t respond. Is it fair for me to tell her that and if so how should I say it ? | relationship_advice |
Expedition rewards for Mission Control not reusable if you get a new freighter? The rewards not the one time uses for mission but the technology ones you and to your freighter, I got a new one I like the color better and now don’t see the options to rebuild it back on my ship and my last save is a few days ago. | NoMansSkyTheGame |
Question About Expeditions I missed the latest expedition and was wondering when they usually start and end. Also, when they start another one, will I be able to start from the beginning to earn the helmet and all the other rewards? | NoMansSkyTheGame |
AITA for not hiding at all the hate I have for a coworker? This is ...kind of a follow up to a previous entry I did here, or well, is the same person I had a problem before. So recently I have been forced to work with a social worker Daniela at the hospital because I became in charge of most of the chronic patients health check-ups that we see through home-visits and she is the "manager" of the chronics program.
In the last months we have had so many fights about everythiny is hard for us to be in the same space anymore because every work related chat will end in a confrontation. Without furthering it, I don't like her and she doesn't like me. Those are facts, she has said so to a lot of other people.
Whats the problem? Even if she hates me, she is of those "appereance matters" woman. Unless we had fought moments before, she would be super happy and eager to speak with me. For example she says " Good Morning Faki!" (Calling me by names' diminutive intead of the full form or the title doctor), she will try to make small talk, she will try to joke while we are out looking at patients,etc. Basically, she is super friendly.
On the other hand, I am extremely apathic to her. I don't like her and don't see the point in acting as if I did. I don't insult here or anything, but I will only say hi when needed, always call her by title (Mrs. Apellido) and I shut down any unnecesary conversation she tries to start.
It seems the last straw for my "rudeness" to her was when some days a go, after going back to my home city and bringing back some of my moms homemade donuts for all my co-workers, I very intentionally didn't give one to her. She literally cried about it....and I couldn't care less.
My other coworkers are saying it was a horrible thing to do.
I asked them if they knew that we don't like each other. They said yes. I asked them why would I give a gift to someone I dont like and the only "solid" argument they could think was "because it makes for a better work environment".... Still not enough to convince me.
So reddit, AITA? | AmItheAsshole |
Can you modify a rocket after it has been built? One of the players on my server decided to be the one to build a rocket, but he didn't put storage into it when crafting it. Is there a way to put storage in after the fact, or do we just have to make another one? | feedthebeast |
get anxious when parents drink even as an adult im nearly 20 years old, and i still get anxious/nervous when I notice my mom getting drunk.
i have a fairly good relationship with my mom and she would drink/get drunk around me when i was young (at party’s or social gatherings) and i remember always being nervous when i saw them “act different”. i was never physically abused or assaulted but just seeing her act “stupid” and silly made me so anxious. whenever i would notice then getting more drunk i would refuse to go to bed until they did. i would hear the louder laughing and talking and feel a pit in my stomach.
i started drinking (around 18, typical teenage party drinking) i thought maybe i would feel it less since i would “understand” the feeling of getting drunk and be more sympathizing for when she’s drunk.
but still when i see my mom drunk i can feel myself internally shut down and get so anxious. :( | offmychest |
seeding messages for the benefit of the Proactive Detection Bureau. So, with the PDB running rampant should we all start resisting by seeding conversations with words like, bomb maker, acquiring corrosives, and odd sounding call and response.
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"Meet him At Elwood's Vision, source 200 tons, speak cat hear green, look for a purple feather." | EliteDangerous |
Looking for help building first PC, specifically motherboard! I'll post my build list here so you can give better advice:
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My main question is this whether or I'd be losing anything my substituting the ASRock X570 Phantom Gaming 4 with a MSI X470 Gaming Plus Max instead.
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I know the 3080 can use PCIe 4.0 but as I understand it, I'm not missing much by sticking the 3080 into a PCIe 3.0. Would I be prolonging my motherboard use if I just send it on a PCIe 4.0 capable board incase future GPU's further utilize PCIe 4.0?
Since I'm only using PCIe 3.0 M.2 drives, I still wouldn't be utilizing the PCIe 4.0 slots in that regard either.
Thoughts? | buildapc |
What’s everyone’s favourite piece of music? For me it just has to be when you meet the Krogan female in ME:3! Such a great mysterious piece of music. | masseffect |
Is covering shorts going to drive market down? When hedge found will be forced to cover short positions would it create fire sale of other assets they hold? What would be the scale of that event? | WallStreetbetsELITE |
Has it been confirmed that there are other silkbind moves than what we have in this demo? Because I've seen some even in today's trailer that are not in this demo such as the gunlance one where he launches himself across the way using both the wirebug and the wyvern fire booster and then slams it into the monsters face. I was really sad that wasn't possible here :/ | MonsterHunter |
My girl doesn't know how tall I am and im short. This girl and I met on snap and we live pretty close to each other. I've facetimed her a couple of a times, but she doesn't know how tall I am. She's already telling me how she loves me and I'm scared she finds out my height when we meet. I'm 13 and I'm only 5 foot and half an inch and she's 14 at 5'2. I'm scared if she thinks im short, what should i do. | dating_advice |
AITA for not supporting a friend's small business? (Business/person details omitted)
A friend of mine has owned a small business for years now and has done very well for themself despite covid. I think they has grown much faster than expected and has been having some trouble keeping up, which is totally understandable. I used to *only* use them for the service that they provides, and I would pay full price plus tip. Last month I reached out several times to schedule a visit and they never responded... so, I ended up going to a big chain company thinking that he was just too busy and it was fine. When they finally reached out to tell me he could squeeze me in, I told them I went somewhere else so was good for now and that I would let then know next time I needed one.
They got very upset with me and feels like I betrayed then or something by going somewhere else.. While I feel like I'm still a customer and they didn't respond several times, so I'm allowed to look elsewhere to get my services done if they don't have the time.
So... AITA? | AmItheAsshole |
Casper studying (4th quartile) For 4th quartile scorers, how long did you guys study for Casper? Did you guys take any practice exams? | premed |
Lot of negativity going on in the new Discord server, let's prove these bad mouthers wrong Don't let these fools drag you down, let's all PUMP at 10am PST, only US have the power to make $DOGE stronger. Let's go!! | dogecoin |
I asked someone out as a rebound and then told them they were a rebound before I asked out the person I truly loved. The rebound is now trying to get even, I guess. In early September, I'd fallen in love with an online friend, but I was afraid of confessing my feelings for fear of screwing up our friendship. So, like an absolute dumbass, I asked a guy I knew out (I'm bi) and he was ready to date me, but in the end, I told him the truth that he was a rebound. We didn't speak after this. I finally did confess my feelings to my online friend, and she said that she'd been in love with me, too. Last night, the guy sends me this message: *Tell <the girl's name> that you were about to use me as a rebound. You have 5 days to tell her, or I will tell her myself.* What should I do? I'm scared that if I tell her, she will stop trusting me—and that was the only mistake I ever made, before I asked her out. I love her, and I've been happy after a long time...I don't want to lose her.
Edit: I told my girlfriend, and she appreciated my honesty. She said that she's happy I told her something most guys wouldn't be able to, and that is why she trusts and loves me. Thanks, everybody! | relationship_advice |
DOGE and ALL OF US to the MOON! Having been around the crypto world for some time, I wondered if it is possible to do something to make this particular coin blow up? Since I love memes and the Internet culture, I thought this money is a great currency to spend my money on and there is probably something we can do to make the DOGE and all of us go to the moon. Something to spread the word about it or anything, this currency lives for the hype and is driven by it's owners and the great laugh it brings in. Very different from the other cryptocurrencies, the Dogecoin seems to have a unique potential, but only if we put life on this great meme coin.
Let's make it happen, spread the message to the whole world, bring you family and friends in, create the hype and the trend it needs and let's all board this rocket where it's next destination, with a little bit of work from all of us, can make it to the moon and even far beyond! We have way more power to drive this engine than we think and the change is definitly up to grab! | dogecoin |
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