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SUBREDDIT: r/relationship_advice TITLE: Friend (M19) and GF (18) are having some issues. What should I tell him? POST: So, my close guy friend texted me today asking for advice with his relationship. They've only been dating about 5 months, and when they moved back home from college, his GF apparently got really "cli...	Friend's gf is getting clingy. Makes him out to be the bad guy. Turns the tables when they talk. Won't listen to him.<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: I (24/F) may be overthinking this, but should I send my LDR BF (25/M) a housewarming gift? POST: We're hours apart and have been seeing each other online for only 6 months or so. We've not given each other gifts yet and never really talked about gifts. He just moved to a new place ...	BF met online 6 months ago has a new place, should I break the no-gifts-yet status quo and send him a $25 housewarming gift card?<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: Me [16M] with my girlfriend [17F] of a year and a half, my world has kind of been flipped upside down POST: I don't know how to start this but my girlfriend and I went to a very small forty person school. We connected and began dating and have had tons of fun. Her family quickly star...	My girlfriends parents want her to maybe take some space and time to figure out her life for herself. I'm really conflicted, reading the whole thing would make a lot more sense since I struggle from a lose of words right now.<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: My [M22] family pictures include ex-gf, current SO [F21] (of ~1.5 years) is not OK with this POST: Hey all, My parents have one of those digital photo frames. Really cool, just shows a slideshow of images on it or from the cloud. Anyway: My family and I moved away from the US 16 ye...	Girlfriend doesn't like group family photos containing my ex in parents photo frame. On the other hand, the photos also have my deceased great grandmother.<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/AskReddit TITLE: So Reddit, what was the closest you've ever been to being caught while masturbating? POST: My closest call was when I was 16. I was lounging about the house in my bathrobe, watching a bit of porn, when my mom fuckin ninjas her way up the stairs and is in the hall and yells my name. I fre...	My mom almost walked in on me jacking it when I was a kid and told me to empty the dishwasher with only a bathrobe on but didn't notice.<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/AskReddit TITLE: I am so lost. What should i do? POST: I am in a very bad predicament. I was going to go to the junior college of A&M, Blinn, and I was going transfer over my junior year to A&M. I already took 30 hours at a junior college near my house in Dallas. A normal degree would have a lot of class...	A college wont accept me as a transfer student for my degree. How can I still get accepted into this college by this spring semester?<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: Is it possible to fall in love with time? POST: I (20/F) have been dating my boyfriend (19) for a month or so now. He is amazing, caring, understanding, smart. I fell for him, I would even say I'm in love. But he is not. He says for him it takes time, that only if he gets to know m...	boyfriend of a month says he loves me but is not in love with me, I'm wondering if he will fall in love with time, or if we should end this so that I dont develop deeper feelings.<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/Pets TITLE: A couple cat questions, random meowing and possible boredom. POST: I hope I can keep this short. A couple months ago I adopted a 10 year old Siamese. I know the breed is know for 'talking' but she meows at weird times for no apparent reason. If I leave my closet door open, she might decide to...	10 year old Siamese I've had for a few months meows at odd times, and I worried she's bored. Does the meowing mean anything and what is there available to keep her stimulated indoors?<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/personalfinance TITLE: Car Insurance and Credit Score Impact POST: Apologies for the wall of text, just not sure how to procede: I recently had a fire lit under my ass to finally get all my finances and that aspect of my life in order. In doing so I have paid off my two credit cards (both long been clo...	Fixed finances, need car insurance, should I get the secured card before or after I get the insurance? Or wait even further for the CC until I get a place rented for August 1?<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: [20 M] It's been damn near close to a year, and I'm getting really tired of still not being over my ex. POST: It's been a while since I've been here. In a lot of ways, I'm feeling a lot better than I was when the break up first happened. Which is to be expected of course. It's just ...	After damn near a year, I still feel like I'm far from over my ex, and I feel like I'm just getting worn out.<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/weddingplanning TITLE: No recent weddings to draw inspiration/advice from... POST: A lot of the threads on this wonderful subreddit mention thinking about what you enjoyed about other weddings you've been to, what you hated, etc. Here's the thing. I've been a bridesmaid more than 5 times, but they were...	We will be the first marriage among both our families and friends in over 10 years - the trendsetters, I guess. Where do I get MY inspiration from?<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: Me [M18] and my gf [F18] (6months), gf constantly in pain and I don't know how to help POST: Hey guys, My gf of 6 months has told me (before we started going out and on a regular basis) that she has been in pain her entire life. She has seen several people previously about it before...	gf always has and still experiences alot of pain in various parts of the body and I don't know how I can help<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: My (21F) BF (24M) did not sort a court issue in time and might have to pay a big amount of money POST: Hi Reddit, I have a bit of an issue with my boyfriend. He had an issue with the court where he got a big fine (25k+) for something he did not do, about 4 years ago. Someone racked ...	My boyfriend did not sort out a court issue in time as he was waiting for responsible family member to sort out, now we potentially have 25k hanging above our head.<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/running TITLE: Foot a little weird from old running shoes? POST: Since leaving high school back in 2012, I always kept my old running shoes. From Senior year in 2011 up until summer of 2014, I'd used the same shoes for 3 years. I didn't run as much in college, so I didn't think it'd be worth spending ano...	Fucked up my foot with 3 year old running shoes. Foot problems continued even with new shoes. Is this permanent? Can I fix it? How? Help pls.<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: What are some ways I [33/M] can 'offer' to my wife [34/F] to be involved in OUR family without seeming too deep yet? POST: My wife moved out in March 2012, we were married since 2003. She moved out because I went into a midlife crisis, got depressed, and started drinking, and got rea...	I hit a midlife crisis, wife moved out and doesn't trust that I'll never hurt her again. Looking for ideas to show her how she can trust me.<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationship_advice TITLE: [22/m] Was she (20/f) just playing with me or is she worth fighting? POST: Hi, i met this girl a couple of weeks ago. We got on very well and laught and spent a lot of time together. We have a lot in comon (interests, roots, music etc.) The day we met we started making out and ...	First couple of weeks every thing was great, perfect girl. Then out of nothing she admited still having feelings for her exboyfriend. And was just hanging out because of trouble at home.<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: My [34F] brother-in-law [27M] used me as a reference for a job with the police while committing academic fraud. POST: I hate that I'm in this position. My sister's husband is doing classwork for his father because his dad cannot be promoted to CEO without a college degree. If I rem...	BIL used me as a character reference for a job as a cop. I don't think he's qualified, but my sister and nephew's financial security is also at stake. I don't know what to do.<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/tifu TITLE: TIFU By walking into on my parents with my dick out POST: This happened this morning. Background info: I sleep with only a T-shirt on. Don't ask why just a T-shirt yet nothing to cover my bits, I just do. Also, the kitchen in my house is literally 10 feet from my bedroom (bungalow). So I w...	Woke up tired with dick out, walked into kitchen where my parents were eating with said dick out, hiding for the foreseeable future.<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: Girlfriend Detoxing from Suboxone- should I wait it out? POST: I'm a 21 yo male she is 23. We met in rehab last year. Been dating on and off since. I've detoxed from heroin before so I kinda know what to expect. It just seems like her detox is much longer. I haven't been on a date ...	Does anyone have advice in this situation? Should I stick it out a few more weeks in the hopes that once she is better we will see eachother more? <\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: Me [22/F] with my boyfriend of 2 years [25/M] - Is he abusive? POST: First, let me apologize for the throwaway. I have a few IRL friends that know my main account, and I'd rather not have them see this. Alright, moving on. I have been dating my current boyfriend for two years, a...	I'm worried my SO might be going down an abusive path & I'm not entirely sure what to do about it.<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: Me [27F] with my husband [32M] of 8 years, trying to leave. POST: So I'm 27F and I've been with my husband almost 8 years. Things haven't really been right for a few years now, and I feel that I'm no longer in love with him. However, I have reconnected with a friend from my teenage y...	i want to be with this other person I've known for years and I'm in love with. My husband has me under constant surveillance and threatened to take my son away from me, what should I do?<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: Me [25F] with my boyfriend [25M] of 3 months, do I tell him I have history with visiting friend [26M]? POST: throwaway since all involved parties are redditors I have been dating my boyfriend for about three months and we have a great relationship and great communication. One of m...	Friend is coming to visit. Should I tell my boyfriend that this friend and I have been sexually involved in the past?<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: Me [17 M] with my childhood friend? [17 F] knew each other in elementary, she moved, came back and got really close and she moved again, I feel like I'm the only one trying to maintain the relationship? POST: So we used to go to elementary together, and we were "dating" but we were k...	I'm trying to keep in touch with a girl long-distance but it feels very one sided (my side) What do I do?<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: Is it okay for your partner (M18) to not think you're (F19) special if they value you? POST: Bf and I have been dating roughly 10 months now. We jumped into a relationship very shortly after his exgirlfriend broke up with him. Initially I'd have never guessed the current issue would ...	Boyfriend made a passing comment at dinner suggesting no one is special (myself included) but later suggested that it was okay because I was valued by him<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: How to get over anxiety while performing oral on my partner? POST: I [F22] have been in a relationship now for a 6 months with an amazing guy [M22]. This is my first relationship post-depression and I've noticed that I become extremely submissive in bed, when before my depression I w...	Never had anxiety before my depression while giving head to previous partners. Now no longer depressed and with amazing guy who deserves head 24/7 but have extreme anxiety at thoughts of doing so<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: I [25 M] read WAY too much into my relationship with my [25 F] gf of 4 months. How can I change this? POST: I've been dating a girl for about 4 months now and I recently moved away. I wanted to break it off because I knew that long distance relationships suck but she talked me into g...	I read too much into my relationship and often feel anxious that there is a problem when there usually isn't. My irrational behavior is making me very uncomfortable and I'm looking at how to stop doing this!<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/AskReddit TITLE: Reddit, I keep getting copy after copy of the same video game in the mail and I am NOT buying them. Any idea what's going on? POST: BACK STORY: About a month ago, I ordered a used copy of L.A. Noire from an Amazon.com seller. Took about 2.5 weeks to arrive. The day after, I received a "...	I have 5 copies of L.A. Noire, and only paid for one. Someone/some glitch has sent me 4 more copies. Please help.<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: I [18 M] was dumped by my [17 F] girlfriend after a little over two years, need advice to cheer up and get back on my feet. POST: Essentially what the title says. I know it was a high school relationship and from the outside it seems like it was so petty, but to me she was my world....	Girlfriend of two years broke up with me, talked to guy behind my back, said she doesn't love me or find me attractive anymore. Help and advice to cheer up/get back on my feet again?<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationship_advice TITLE: SO[20/f] is off to america for a year and says "she doesn't trust herself" and I[20/m] need a bit of help. POST: well i have been with my girlfriend for nearly 4 years and it has been one of the happiest and most rewarding relationships of my adult life. we lived together for t...	i need to be more trusting of my SO, SO needs to be able to trust herself. (also if anybody has any advice on disapproving parents it wouldn't hurt)<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: Me [21F] with my BF [24M] of 2.5 years finally admitted he cheated on me with his ex ONCE, three months into the relationship. Don't know how to let it go. POST: I've always suspected that my boyfriend cheated on me with his ex-girlfriend. I caught him texting her, and when I confron...	Boyfriend cheated with ex shortly into relationship, has not spoken or seen her in two years. Still feel like shit because he just finally told me the truth - even though I already knew. How can I get over it?<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/Advice TITLE: Friend blocked me because I wouldn't let him use my account. POST: Basically what happened is my "best" friend that I can only contact by texting/calling/video chatting has blocked me, because I don't trust him enough to let him log into my Google account to use my clash of clans account. I...	Friend blocked me because I refused to let him have my Clash of clans account, because on that account I have a credit card attached to it.<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: My GF[18] doesn't want me[17m] watching porn, but expects me to let her to - she claims it's the only way she can get off. Am I wrong in not wanting her to watch it if I can't? POST: We got into an argument about it before. I stated my position and told her basically "If I can't, you...	GF doesn't want me watching porn, expects me to let her as that's the only way she can get off.<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: Do I [27M] move in with my GF [28F] of a year and a half when I don't feel like I'm ready? POST: My girlfriend and I have been dating for almost a year and a half. She works full time for a law office and I'm finishing up dental school. Her roommate is moving out in June and she nee...	Girlfriend gives me an ultimatum to move in with her or its over. I'm not in a position to where I feel like it's the best idea right now.<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: My wife (30/f) and I (30/m) are traveling home for Christmas. Would it be awkward to separately spend time with our families not see each other much (if at all) on Christmas Eve and Day? POST: We live 3,000 miles from home and see our families 2-3x/year...and see each other everyday....	Is there an easy way to visit family on Christmas and Christmas Eve when you are married with no kids...while at the same time pleasing everyone?<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/weddingplanning TITLE: Do I invite my biological dad in obligation, or do I risk the drama and cut him out. POST: A little background: My parents got divorced when I was about 18 months old. My father and I were relatively close when I was a kid, but haven't been close for at least 10 years. He remarri...	My biological dad and I aren't close, but I am inviting the rest of his immediate family, do I invite him even though it won't add to our special day?<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: Me [17 M] with my girlfriend [17 F] of 5 months, questioning compatibility issues. POST: I'm currently in a relationship with my girlfriend of recently 5 months and everything so far has been going great. We've had really great communication on almost everything and we seem to be gre...	girlfriend and I have differentiating views on levels on sexual activity. How likely is it that this problem will work itself out by the time we're both adults?<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationship_advice TITLE: I [f21] know I like my boyfriend [m276] more than he likes me. Should I tell him I love him? POST: I have been with my bf (m26 - not m276 lol!) for nearly 6 months now. It's been quite intense, we talk to each other all the time and spend every weekend together (can't during th...	I want to tell my boyfriend I love him, but I don't think he'll say it back. Should I tell him anyway?<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/personalfinance TITLE: Old job is charging my credit card. Need help! POST: I purchased a monthly tanning package that came out of my credit card. Once I started working at the tanning salon the owner had canceled the membership. The owner did this because a perk of working there was free tanning. She...	job started charging my card after I quit, lost that card, can they send me to collections for non-payment?<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: I'm (19/M) looking for help with being Passive-Aggressive in a relationship. POST: I got into a relationship with a (21/F) 3 weeks ago (we've been super close for months, made it 'official' 3 weeks ago). Everything is going great and we both are very happy, but something started kill...	In a fresh relationship, realized I'm being passive-aggressive, it will damage/ruin the relationship, looking for help on how to stop it<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/loseit TITLE: How to balance social life? POST: Sorry for the lengthy post here... So, I've been feeling really bad lately. My girlfriend is pretty fit, and she works out a couple of times a week. I however am in the gym 5 days a week, lifting or doing cardio. I also don't really like to go out much any...	spend a lot of time in the gym, and don't go out often because counting calories/macros. How do I balance social life and having a girlfriend?<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: I[18F] am scared about continuing to date[17M] for a summer only relationship because I have been hurt in the past. POST: Hi, I know that isn't a very good title, but honestly I don't really know what else to say about it. I am currently dating this guy who is a senior in High Schoo...	Past boyfriend sent me into depression after he left me. I am worried my current one will do the same at the end of the summer.<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: Do I[M/21] deserve a second chance after being a dick to my wife[21]? POST: Me [M/21] and my wife [20] have been married for 1.5 years. We've been having some problems and I want to know if I deserve a second chance. The problems began after four months of dating when she fooled ar...	Wife wants to move on her own after I was an incredible dick. Do I deserve a second chance if I know I can change? And is her moving out on her own a good idea?<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/Pets TITLE: Got dog, lost friends POST: We recently got a free 5 year old staffordshire terrier. I've posted about her here before, but the summary is that her 2nd owner had a stroke and couldn't manage her anymore. The vet phoned and asked if we'd take her, so we did. I never gave her breed a second th...	If you're getting a dog, consider the impact that the breed you choose will have on who will visit you in the future.<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/personalfinance TITLE: Need some advice on the future, and my credit card POST: Some background: I'm 21yrs old. I have two part time jobs, but I only get around 20 or less hours a week. I just left a job where I got around another 25, but I couldn't stand working there anymore. It's complicated but I can...	Getting into debt trying to start a business, and get real estate license. Is it worth doing it all or should I get a real job?<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: Me [26 M] with my SO [27 F] 1.5 years, she wants to end the relationship because I am not 'in love' with her! Is this normal? POST: I've been with my GF since February 2013. We dated for about a year (long distance, 2.5 hour drive), then we decided it would be best if she moved in wi...	I love my gf, but I'm not in love. I end up falling 'in love' with roommate. GF wants to break up, despite being together for over a year and a half. Advice? Thanks!<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/offmychest TITLE: If feels like I should not complain, but this has always bugged me. POST: I was reading a thread the other night about relative human "value." It centered around an OP who had lost a good friend in high school, and no one cared. He went on to relate that same year a football player wa...	In high school, I changed from outcast to valuable human in less than a year, and it was/is infuriating.<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: Me [25F] with my best friend [25 M] 10 years, I don't know if I can stop being friends with him POST: I've always had feelings for him but never really had a good time to act on them. One or both of us was always dating someone. I know he did have feelings for me. But maybe it's been...	I have feelings for my best friend and am unsure if he feels the same back. If not, I don't think I can stop being friends with him. What should I do?<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/tifu TITLE: TIFU by not explaining the plan correctly. POST: So this happened about an hour ago. But first let me explain what lead to this FU. For the whole week I've been trying to ask out a girl, we will call her P. But I wasn't able to gain the confidence. So my solution was to tell a friend if I did...	Got someone to kick me in the balls if I didn't ask out a girl, explained the plan wrongly, now I have a broken heart and a broken pair of balls.<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: New guy I'm seeing (F/M 23) drinks heavily. Concern or overthinking? POST: I started seeing a new guy a few weeks ago and I really like him. He's actually exactly what I've been looking for. Hes open and communicates well, lots of mutual interests and friends, driven, passionate, etc...	new guy I'm seeing drinks heavily. Don't know if it's age/lifestyle or could be problematic down the line<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: Should I [20F] delete anything that reminds me of my ex's on my computer? POST: Currently, I'm having trouble getting over an ex (26M), we were together for 6 months and I felt crazy when I was with him, in good and bad ways. It was such an intense 6 months I can' even begin to descr...	Wondering if I should get rid of anything that reminds me of my past relationships or keep them as reminders of what I have learned through those relationships? Would this help me get over a recent (1 month ago) break up?<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: Where to draw the line between me [30M] helping out my mom [65F] and dad [68M] out economically and paying for your own stuff? POST: Heres my family situation: Were a group of 5, my two parents and my older sister and younger brother.My brothers 24, Im 30 and my sisters 36, both pare...	question is this: When is it OK to say "No, right now I cant give you any money" and going out my way to provide them with the amount of money theyre asking for?<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/AskReddit TITLE: Nothing productive to do, what are some of the things that I can self-teach myself in the computer science field? POST: After finals I've realized that I have too much time on my hands and I'm looking for something new about the computer science field. I currently develop websites, not t...	Designed websites, want to improve. Started game development, want to improve and finish a game. Interested in AI, don't know the base to start with.<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/AskReddit TITLE: In a busy sales event with long lines for the dressing room, a (temporarily) handicaped woman started raising hell because the large stall wasn't kept open. Was she in the right? POST: To elaborate a little more, the store was quite crowded for this 70% off sale, and the line just to try...	In a crowded dressing room, multiple women were sharing the handicap dressing room at the end. A disabled woman came in and started raising hell making me and others feel bad.<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/Advice TITLE: Job Dilemma POST: Hey guys, looking for advice. I work at a grocery store in the fish department. I'm not a big fan of it and would love a transfer. On Saturday I called in sick due to a headache. Had to check the schedule (this place doesn't have online schedules). So I walk over and check...	I called in sick, went there no schedule, went there the next day and the schedule's there and I missed a shift. What do?<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: So I(28f) have noticed that I have problems communicating what I want in a relationship, or even if I want a relationship. How do I work on this? POST: I have noticed that when there is miscommunication, the guy(all guys mentioned are in general and do not pinpoint one specific man) ...	I feel like I keep screwing up potential relationships and can't get my mind off of being in one. any advice is welcome.<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/AskReddit TITLE: I broke it. Need emergency help (x-post from r/sysadmin, hoping this gets more views) POST: I realize I'm a total fucking idiot (in advance) and now I desperately need your help. Also know, in advance, that I did not set up, nor did I even contribute to the setting up of this system, so...	I purged LDAP from the CS department server and need to restore it from the back up servers as soon as possible.<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: My [27F] incessant complaining and negative attitude is ruining my relationship and career. POST: I'm not sure where this problem stems from, but I've been like this for as long as I can remember and I'm looking for some insight on how to deal with my excessive complaining and negati...	I've always been a cynical, chronic complainer and I hate myself for it. How can I change my attitude before I ruin my relationship and career?<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationship_advice TITLE: My [22M] ex-gf [20F] on't tell me what I need to hear to properly move on. I will move on regardless but does it mean anything? POST: So my ex broke up with me. She says she doesn't even completely understand her feelings or even if she made the right choice. It's been tough bu...	ex gf won't say things I need to hear to completely put this in the past. if she wants the best and thinks it's unhealthy to not move forward why won't tell me something that will help me?<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: Me [21 M] and my significant other [21 F] have been together for several years, but I've found myself being sexually frustrated more and more lately... POST: So me and my SO have been together for over 4 years now. We're currently in a long distance relationship due to factors outsid...	Feeling sexually frustrated in my relationship, but I don't know what to do about it because I know it's my fault for feeling too needy.<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: Help! How do I [26/F] break up with an overly dependent boyfriend [30/M]? POST: So my boyfriend and I have been together for two years. I really think he is a great person, but as time goes on it's becoming increasingly obvious that we are not working. I value my independence and h...	Boyfriend of two years is extremely needy, to the point that I can't live my own life or have any measure of independence without him turning into an emotional mess. How do I end this before I go insane?<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: Bf (30m) and I (24f), how to best support him through serious abandonment issues POST: I love him deeply (I'm confident that's mutual) and 90% of our relationship is a goddamn fairytale. We've been together about 2 years and are very serious about each other. Except when we fight. ...	boyfriend had abandonment issues from his dad bailing. I want advice for the best way to be a supportive partner through this<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: Me [25 F] with my boyfriend [34 M] of 10 months, he's not ready to say 'I love you' POST: My boyfriend and I started dating 10 months ago. He had just gotten out of a long relationship (more than 6 years). To complicate things more, he'll be moving away (not sure where yet) in ~6 m...	Shouldn't someone know if they love you after dating you for 10 months? Do you keep dating someone who 'isn't ready' after that long?<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: I don't know if I [17m] am romantically interested in my friend [17f], what do you think? POST: Hey guys, have not viewed this subreddit before, but I'm desperate for more advice then my friends can offer. I have been friends with this girl for over a year. I talk to her every week...	I really, really, like my female friend, but I do not know if this means I am now romantically interested in her.<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationship_advice TITLE: [15/M] My girlfriend[15/F] of almost 3 years is upset about her birthday POST: My girlfriend of almost 3 years has had some pretty shitty birthdays in the past so her sister, my friend, and I were planning to have a surprise party for her this year. Her parents are in on it and...	My girlfriend is upset about not getting a birthday party when we're planning on giving her a surprise party and I don't know what to do to make her feel better<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: Boyfriend [27M] smashed laptop screen by closing it, I [22F] feel like it's my fault. POST: Hello there... I have been on and off this thread for sometime. I have had my many problems and am in serious need of help. Tonight I was up late with the bf, we had found a dating SIM online...	boyfriend of 2 years smashed computer screen. It was my fault because I shouldn't have given any attitude... Then this would not have happened. Working 6 hours a week, can't afford to fix it.<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/AskReddit TITLE: Are there any good gap year programs for an American high school student? POST: I'm a senior in high school going through the whole college application process, blah blah blah, I have decent grades and test scores, but I really have no motivation to really go anywhere for college other t...	Do worthwhile programs exist that let gap year students work or study abroad, or are there any good things to do to warrant a gap year?<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: I've (19f) caught my boyfriend (19m) using kik multiple times POST: We have been dating for 3 years. The first time I caught him doing anything was when he had screencapped pictures of girls we both know irl on instagram. I confronted him, told him how upset I was, and then discovere...	Is using kik to talk to girls and get nudes considered a form of cheating or is it perfectly normal every now and then?<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/legaladvice TITLE: MA - Trespassing Law? POST: Sorry if this isn't the right place for such a post, and sorrier if this is a stupid question. This doesn't involve me personally, but I thought it to be interesting. I'm curious as to what the legal minds on reddit think. Every year, a couple dozen law enf...	Suppose police set up a crime scene/perimeter around a serious fire/parade route/whatever? What would you be charged with if you attempted to violate it?<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/dating_advice TITLE: do drunk actions reveal sober feelings? POST: I met a guy (I'm female, we're both 24) a couple months back and we platonically have been hanging out and get lunch once a week. we have invited each other to other things and we have both been initiating about equally. he invited me to ...	a guy friend and I were drinking for the first time together on Saturday and he got affectionate and touchy feely (no kissing) and i reciprocated and I haven't heard from him since.<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: My SO [23] saw the gift he gave me [20] for Valentines Day in the trunk of my car... POST: He saw it this morning but the truth is, i forgot that i had even left it there. It was a sweet gift and i really liked it but now he thinks i hated it and that he/the gift mean nothing to me. ...	My SO found the gift he gave me in the back of my trunk and is annoyed with me. How do I fix this and prove to him he is important to me?<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/AskReddit TITLE: Dad's in the hospital--no one has called my out-of-state sister. Mom fears the sister won't do well on her finals and mother hasn't informed anyone or wants anyone informed. What do I do?! POST: As much as I hate it, I'm a FBer--but that's how I keep in touch with all my family and frien...	dad's having heart surgery in the morning, mom hasn't informed anyone he's even in the hospital--IMFO sister needs to be informed<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: I am a [27 F] who just started dating a [33 M] at what will probably be the worst possible time in my life... POST: I'm a med student who got out of a 5 year relationship about a year ago. As if navigating intense school work with losing my "person" and dating as a total noob wasn't ...	Med student with dying mother finds a boy with potential. How do I navigate a new relationship with so much emotional baggage???<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: How can my girlfriend [20 F] & I [21 M] manage our date time effectively? POST: My girlfriend and I are beginning our 2nd summer break together. We've spent enough time together that at this point we are both comfortable just hanging out at either of our houses and not going out on p...	Me and SO are happy spending time together at home, but we've come up with too many activities to tackle all at once, and I want to include both of our interests without scheduling out every little detail<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: I [21 M] came out as gay. My best friend is straight [22 M] of 4 years and I have a crush on him. Should I still be his friend or am I hurting myself? POST: It seems fairly common and most people seem to think its ok as long as I know its not going to happen and want to move on. I'm...	I came out of the closest and my best friend is straight. I know its not going to happen but wonder if its healthy?<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: How do I [17f] tell me roommates [21F] that I do not want to be friends with her and she needs to leave me alone? POST: I just started attending college a week ago and am living in a dorm room with a senior. The only way my mother would agree for me to move out is if I live with this...	Roommate acts like a 2nd mother always wanting to know where I am and what I am doing. How do I tell her to back off without her running and getting me in trouble with my actual mother?<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: Should I [19M] leave my first boyfriend [22M] of 1.5 years. POST: I'm sorry for the wall of text and if there is any improper formatting, I'm on mobile and kind of brain-dead right now so its a little difficult! I want to preface with saying that he has NOT been cheating on me (that...	My [19M] boyfriend [22M] has been lying to me for a long time and I don't know whether to leave him or try and save our relationship.<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: Im a 21 year old male who is a junior in college. I am a virgin and don't ever want to have sex. Am I the only one who wants this? Will I be able to find a purely Platonic relationship? POST: I honestly do not know why I don't ever want it, but I can say this with a very high degree ...	I'm a junior in college who doesn't want to ever have sex. Am I going to be able to find a serious girlfriend who is okay with that long term?<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/AskReddit TITLE: Cat attacked by dog, should the owners of the dog be responsible for the medical bills? POST: To keep everyone's anonymity the cat owners name can be Clark and the dog owners name can be Doug. (C)lark for cat owner. (D)oug for dog owner. From my understanding, the dog started to chase t...	Cat was attacked by a dog. Taken to the veterinarian but had to be put down due to the injuries. The dog owner refuses to pay the bill.<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: have you experience dating a bipolar person...? POST: I didn't know the best place to place this in ask reddit but here we go... I broke up with my boyfriend partially because i was scared of what I would go through with him (being bipolar) but it wasn't even that bad at all...honest...	Is dating a bipolar person worth it if everything else is really good. No such thing as prince charming, i want him back! but it is a loaded relationship!<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: I [20M] have a crush on a girl [20F] and I asked her close friend to have a 'quick talk'. Need advice. POST: Throwaway account. So I've had a crush on this girl for about 6 months now. We aren't very close, but we've got to know each other reasonably well. This girl is unbelievably ...	Have a crush on girl who is definitely out of my league, should I ask her friend for advice or not? Should I just back out and tell her friend not to worry about it and pretend like nothing ever happened?<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: Me [23 F] with my boyfriend[23 M] of 6 months, having trouble feeling wanted. POST: First time poster, long time lurker. Some background: My boyfriend and I have been dating for 6 months straight but have been friends for a bit longer + tried dating before we got together. We have ...	Boyfriend rarely initiates calls/skype/talks about the future. I feel unwanted and want him to initiate more without forcing him. Also clearly a bit crazy.<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: I [18M] asked a girl out [17F] but she said no and then some other things..... POST: This girl that I like throws around a lot of mixed signals. She always invites me to things such as going out to eat, going to the movies, yoga, etc. But she always brings her friend along with her. ...	What should I do at this point? Should I just not be her friend from now on? Should I attempt to talk to her? Some people have said that she likes me but I need to show her that I do.<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/tifu TITLE: TIFU by trying to vacuum cat poo POST: So this actually happened yesterday morning, but when I posted it, it apparently violated rule 4, since it wasn't the weekend... So I had some friends over last night, so I decided to vacuum my place before I go to work. All is well until I get to th...	tried to vacuum cat poo. Ended up smearing it instead. (Also, TIL we have rules enforced only on certain days of the week...)<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: I [32f] may have been projecting my lack of love onto my husband [30m] POST: Married ten years. We had in-laws come live with us and everything went downhill. My husband would behave in a certain way and then we'd fight over how that behavior was unloving and disrespectful. I no long...	Think I've been blaming my husband for how I feel. Do I admit this or just work to improve it on my own?<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationship_advice TITLE: I'm (18/m) in trouble with best friend (18/f) POST: So, i was in a not solid relationship with another girl (my family didn't like her that much), but it was fine for me, but then my best friend started to tell me that i should broke up with my gf and start a relationship with ...	Had a gf, broke up with her because best friend was hitting on me, think i love her (was just waiting to ask her out), she kissed another guy, don't know what to do<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: Me [24 M] with my now ex [23 F] 8 months, was I too harsh. POST: I've been on and off with this girl for the past 8 months. She lived with her ex boyfriend but insisted that the were broken up and she didn't want to be with him. He moved away from her 3 months ago and we've been cas...	found out she was cheating on me messaged ex with proof that we've been seeing each other, now I'm depressed and need advise.<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/askwomenadvice TITLE: Should I [m17] talk to her [f17] again? POST: Hello, I'm a seventeen year old guy and I have a crush on a foreign exchange student in my chemistry class. She's seventeen (let's call her Aimée), she has such a beautiful smile (one I was lucky to see when she smiled at me once or twic...	Three weeks ago, a girl who I have a crush on and I used to talk, however after I gave her the wrong number by mistake she and I haven't talked. Should I start talking to her again?<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: I [28/M] think I may be hung up on a friend (27/F) of mine. How should I approach the situation? POST: I have this friend. We met briefly back when we were in our very early 20s. She was a friend of a friend and somehow developed a fairly substantial crush on me. At the time I wasn't...	I have a long distance friend who I have some feelings for and don't know how to handle being hung up on these feelings?<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationship_advice TITLE: I (28/M) messed up with my ex (33/F) by commenting on GW photos... POST: We've been dating for about a year now. She's the greatest woman I've ever known. And I'm the biggest idiot ever. When I would work overnights, I'd get bored at work and surf some NSFW subreddits to pass ...	I commented on girls photos in NSFW. About 34 in total. GF found out. Broke up. Now I'm trying to get her back.<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: How to decrease my [M/18] problems with nervousness and fear on dates? POST: Hi community, It's really screwing with me right now. I've had some little dates int he past months but they all failed. I was too nervous. I normally got an unexpected "yes" for the invitation and then loo...	I tend to get nervous before dates and scared of rejection, and I beat myself up really bad afterwards if I feel I missed a chance to finally be perfectly happy. What can I do to make these feelings stop?<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: How can I [17M] stop thinking of my friends romantically? POST: I've always been quite feminine, to the point where people have on many occasions thought I was gay. As such, I've only ever been able to become friends with girls. Guys just tend to annoy me. I've never had a girlfrie...	I'm clueless as to how to go about not dating people, and I don't even know what dating means besides friendship and companionship.<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/tifu TITLE: TIFU by spilling paint all over a client's carpet POST: I have been a /r/TIFU lurker for a long time and this is my first actual post, so here goes... This actually happened today! Wow, ikr? Anyway, I work for a painting company and we were working inside someone's house today fixing th...	The homeowners talked about sheen, then I came onto the scene, into the gallon I ran, I knocked over the can, and now the carpet is tan.<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: I [21/F] saw women's things at my FWB [30/M] of 7 months house. POST: A little backstory, I met a man in Septemeber. We got along great, and had awesome sex. I have had many FWB relationships, and none have actually wanted to be actual friends with it. I could tell Jason was differen...	I saw a women's body wash at my FWB house. I didn't think I had feelings for him, but I am afriad I do because of my jealously.<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/AskReddit TITLE: I just got robbed. What should I do? POST: So my apartment got robbed (upstairs duplex) while I was at work and my girlfriend was at school. Our dog was here but thankfully he's okay (from what I can see). Our downstairs neighbor called the police when she saw the backdoor window shatter...	My place got robbed. They stole $20,000 worth of goods. Police can't do anything. And I don't know what I need to do next.<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/AskReddit TITLE: Seriously. I have to know... POST: IS there some kind of fucking reddit addon that can filter out images? I am so fucking sick of seeing cats and dogs all damn day. I can't tell what the image is going to be any more before clicking on it with a title like "On the couch" or "Super cupcak...	Your cats /dogs suck. They aren't doing anything special in these pics you submit. How can I filter this bullshit out?<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/AskReddit TITLE: whats your worst one night stand story? POST: Halloween a couple years ago a huge group of friends and I decided to meet at a buddies place get our pre-drinking sorted and get dressed there and we would meet up the next day to collect belongings/tell the stories of the night. We get pret...	I had a dream I had sex with a huge girl 300+ when I found part of her giant halloween costume I figured out it was all too real.<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/dating_advice TITLE: Am I [21M] too deep in the friendzone with a [21F]? POST: This girl [21F] and I met our freshman year of college (at the freshman camp before school starts), but she was in a relationship at the time so I didn't make a move since she was taken. I was instantly attracted to her, but I...	I have known a girl for 4 years, interested in dating her, and can't decide what I should do next.<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: My [17/F] friends [18/F] no longer invite me anywhere and when I ask them they are too busy, yet I see them hanging out all the time on Snapchat POST: So I pretty much have no friends. I always ask people to do something and they are always too busy but then on I see them hanging out...	friends are always to busy to hang out, yet spend time together often and I see it on snapchat. Should I continue trying to ask them to hang out or move on?<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: Me (22f) and boyfriend (26m) have been together for a short time, but I like him more as a friend now. POST: Me and my bf have known each other for a few months but have only been dating for a few weeks. It was great in the beginning but I'm realizing I like him more as a best friend...	Dating bf for a few weeks but realize I only like him as a good friend. How do I break up without breaking his heart?<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/AskDocs TITLE: Did my internal organ get hurt? POST: Age: 25 Sex: Female Height: 5"1 Weight: 130 pounds Location of pain: upper stomach area The other day my husband was drunk and being an asshole. I was in a sitting position, leaning forward slightly, which creates two stomach rolls due to me b...	Upper abdomen was pinched very hard while I was in a sitting position and leaning forward. Worried my liver was pinched. Now experiencing small sharp pains and occasional nausea.<\|endoftext\|>

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SUBREDDIT: r/relationship_advice TITLE: Friend (M19) and GF (18) are having some issues. What should I tell him? POST: So, my close guy friend texted me today asking for advice with his relationship. They've only been dating about 5 months, and when they moved back home from college, his GF apparently got really "cli...	Friend's gf is getting clingy. Makes him out to be the bad guy. Turns the tables when they talk. Won't listen to him.<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: I (24/F) may be overthinking this, but should I send my LDR BF (25/M) a housewarming gift? POST: We're hours apart and have been seeing each other online for only 6 months or so. We've not given each other gifts yet and never really talked about gifts. He just moved to a new place ...	BF met online 6 months ago has a new place, should I break the no-gifts-yet status quo and send him a $25 housewarming gift card?<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: Me [16M] with my girlfriend [17F] of a year and a half, my world has kind of been flipped upside down POST: I don't know how to start this but my girlfriend and I went to a very small forty person school. We connected and began dating and have had tons of fun. Her family quickly star...	My girlfriends parents want her to maybe take some space and time to figure out her life for herself. I'm really conflicted, reading the whole thing would make a lot more sense since I struggle from a lose of words right now.<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: My [M22] family pictures include ex-gf, current SO [F21] (of ~1.5 years) is not OK with this POST: Hey all, My parents have one of those digital photo frames. Really cool, just shows a slideshow of images on it or from the cloud. Anyway: My family and I moved away from the US 16 ye...	Girlfriend doesn't like group family photos containing my ex in parents photo frame. On the other hand, the photos also have my deceased great grandmother.<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/AskReddit TITLE: So Reddit, what was the closest you've ever been to being caught while masturbating? POST: My closest call was when I was 16. I was lounging about the house in my bathrobe, watching a bit of porn, when my mom fuckin ninjas her way up the stairs and is in the hall and yells my name. I fre...	My mom almost walked in on me jacking it when I was a kid and told me to empty the dishwasher with only a bathrobe on but didn't notice.<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/AskReddit TITLE: I am so lost. What should i do? POST: I am in a very bad predicament. I was going to go to the junior college of A&M, Blinn, and I was going transfer over my junior year to A&M. I already took 30 hours at a junior college near my house in Dallas. A normal degree would have a lot of class...	A college wont accept me as a transfer student for my degree. How can I still get accepted into this college by this spring semester?<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: Is it possible to fall in love with time? POST: I (20/F) have been dating my boyfriend (19) for a month or so now. He is amazing, caring, understanding, smart. I fell for him, I would even say I'm in love. But he is not. He says for him it takes time, that only if he gets to know m...	boyfriend of a month says he loves me but is not in love with me, I'm wondering if he will fall in love with time, or if we should end this so that I dont develop deeper feelings.<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/Pets TITLE: A couple cat questions, random meowing and possible boredom. POST: I hope I can keep this short. A couple months ago I adopted a 10 year old Siamese. I know the breed is know for 'talking' but she meows at weird times for no apparent reason. If I leave my closet door open, she might decide to...	10 year old Siamese I've had for a few months meows at odd times, and I worried she's bored. Does the meowing mean anything and what is there available to keep her stimulated indoors?<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/personalfinance TITLE: Car Insurance and Credit Score Impact POST: Apologies for the wall of text, just not sure how to procede: I recently had a fire lit under my ass to finally get all my finances and that aspect of my life in order. In doing so I have paid off my two credit cards (both long been clo...	Fixed finances, need car insurance, should I get the secured card before or after I get the insurance? Or wait even further for the CC until I get a place rented for August 1?<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: [20 M] It's been damn near close to a year, and I'm getting really tired of still not being over my ex. POST: It's been a while since I've been here. In a lot of ways, I'm feeling a lot better than I was when the break up first happened. Which is to be expected of course. It's just ...	After damn near a year, I still feel like I'm far from over my ex, and I feel like I'm just getting worn out.<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/weddingplanning TITLE: No recent weddings to draw inspiration/advice from... POST: A lot of the threads on this wonderful subreddit mention thinking about what you enjoyed about other weddings you've been to, what you hated, etc. Here's the thing. I've been a bridesmaid more than 5 times, but they were...	We will be the first marriage among both our families and friends in over 10 years - the trendsetters, I guess. Where do I get MY inspiration from?<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: Me [M18] and my gf [F18] (6months), gf constantly in pain and I don't know how to help POST: Hey guys, My gf of 6 months has told me (before we started going out and on a regular basis) that she has been in pain her entire life. She has seen several people previously about it before...	gf always has and still experiences alot of pain in various parts of the body and I don't know how I can help<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: My (21F) BF (24M) did not sort a court issue in time and might have to pay a big amount of money POST: Hi Reddit, I have a bit of an issue with my boyfriend. He had an issue with the court where he got a big fine (25k+) for something he did not do, about 4 years ago. Someone racked ...	My boyfriend did not sort out a court issue in time as he was waiting for responsible family member to sort out, now we potentially have 25k hanging above our head.<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/running TITLE: Foot a little weird from old running shoes? POST: Since leaving high school back in 2012, I always kept my old running shoes. From Senior year in 2011 up until summer of 2014, I'd used the same shoes for 3 years. I didn't run as much in college, so I didn't think it'd be worth spending ano...	Fucked up my foot with 3 year old running shoes. Foot problems continued even with new shoes. Is this permanent? Can I fix it? How? Help pls.<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: What are some ways I [33/M] can 'offer' to my wife [34/F] to be involved in OUR family without seeming too deep yet? POST: My wife moved out in March 2012, we were married since 2003. She moved out because I went into a midlife crisis, got depressed, and started drinking, and got rea...	I hit a midlife crisis, wife moved out and doesn't trust that I'll never hurt her again. Looking for ideas to show her how she can trust me.<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationship_advice TITLE: [22/m] Was she (20/f) just playing with me or is she worth fighting? POST: Hi, i met this girl a couple of weeks ago. We got on very well and laught and spent a lot of time together. We have a lot in comon (interests, roots, music etc.) The day we met we started making out and ...	First couple of weeks every thing was great, perfect girl. Then out of nothing she admited still having feelings for her exboyfriend. And was just hanging out because of trouble at home.<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: My [34F] brother-in-law [27M] used me as a reference for a job with the police while committing academic fraud. POST: I hate that I'm in this position. My sister's husband is doing classwork for his father because his dad cannot be promoted to CEO without a college degree. If I rem...	BIL used me as a character reference for a job as a cop. I don't think he's qualified, but my sister and nephew's financial security is also at stake. I don't know what to do.<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/tifu TITLE: TIFU By walking into on my parents with my dick out POST: This happened this morning. Background info: I sleep with only a T-shirt on. Don't ask why just a T-shirt yet nothing to cover my bits, I just do. Also, the kitchen in my house is literally 10 feet from my bedroom (bungalow). So I w...	Woke up tired with dick out, walked into kitchen where my parents were eating with said dick out, hiding for the foreseeable future.<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: Girlfriend Detoxing from Suboxone- should I wait it out? POST: I'm a 21 yo male she is 23. We met in rehab last year. Been dating on and off since. I've detoxed from heroin before so I kinda know what to expect. It just seems like her detox is much longer. I haven't been on a date ...	Does anyone have advice in this situation? Should I stick it out a few more weeks in the hopes that once she is better we will see eachother more? <\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: Me [22/F] with my boyfriend of 2 years [25/M] - Is he abusive? POST: First, let me apologize for the throwaway. I have a few IRL friends that know my main account, and I'd rather not have them see this. Alright, moving on. I have been dating my current boyfriend for two years, a...	I'm worried my SO might be going down an abusive path & I'm not entirely sure what to do about it.<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: Me [27F] with my husband [32M] of 8 years, trying to leave. POST: So I'm 27F and I've been with my husband almost 8 years. Things haven't really been right for a few years now, and I feel that I'm no longer in love with him. However, I have reconnected with a friend from my teenage y...	i want to be with this other person I've known for years and I'm in love with. My husband has me under constant surveillance and threatened to take my son away from me, what should I do?<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: Me [25F] with my boyfriend [25M] of 3 months, do I tell him I have history with visiting friend [26M]? POST: throwaway since all involved parties are redditors I have been dating my boyfriend for about three months and we have a great relationship and great communication. One of m...	Friend is coming to visit. Should I tell my boyfriend that this friend and I have been sexually involved in the past?<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: Me [17 M] with my childhood friend? [17 F] knew each other in elementary, she moved, came back and got really close and she moved again, I feel like I'm the only one trying to maintain the relationship? POST: So we used to go to elementary together, and we were "dating" but we were k...	I'm trying to keep in touch with a girl long-distance but it feels very one sided (my side) What do I do?<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: Is it okay for your partner (M18) to not think you're (F19) special if they value you? POST: Bf and I have been dating roughly 10 months now. We jumped into a relationship very shortly after his exgirlfriend broke up with him. Initially I'd have never guessed the current issue would ...	Boyfriend made a passing comment at dinner suggesting no one is special (myself included) but later suggested that it was okay because I was valued by him<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: How to get over anxiety while performing oral on my partner? POST: I [F22] have been in a relationship now for a 6 months with an amazing guy [M22]. This is my first relationship post-depression and I've noticed that I become extremely submissive in bed, when before my depression I w...	Never had anxiety before my depression while giving head to previous partners. Now no longer depressed and with amazing guy who deserves head 24/7 but have extreme anxiety at thoughts of doing so<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: I [25 M] read WAY too much into my relationship with my [25 F] gf of 4 months. How can I change this? POST: I've been dating a girl for about 4 months now and I recently moved away. I wanted to break it off because I knew that long distance relationships suck but she talked me into g...	I read too much into my relationship and often feel anxious that there is a problem when there usually isn't. My irrational behavior is making me very uncomfortable and I'm looking at how to stop doing this!<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/AskReddit TITLE: Reddit, I keep getting copy after copy of the same video game in the mail and I am NOT buying them. Any idea what's going on? POST: BACK STORY: About a month ago, I ordered a used copy of L.A. Noire from an Amazon.com seller. Took about 2.5 weeks to arrive. The day after, I received a "...	I have 5 copies of L.A. Noire, and only paid for one. Someone/some glitch has sent me 4 more copies. Please help.<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: I [18 M] was dumped by my [17 F] girlfriend after a little over two years, need advice to cheer up and get back on my feet. POST: Essentially what the title says. I know it was a high school relationship and from the outside it seems like it was so petty, but to me she was my world....	Girlfriend of two years broke up with me, talked to guy behind my back, said she doesn't love me or find me attractive anymore. Help and advice to cheer up/get back on my feet again?<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationship_advice TITLE: SO[20/f] is off to america for a year and says "she doesn't trust herself" and I[20/m] need a bit of help. POST: well i have been with my girlfriend for nearly 4 years and it has been one of the happiest and most rewarding relationships of my adult life. we lived together for t...	i need to be more trusting of my SO, SO needs to be able to trust herself. (also if anybody has any advice on disapproving parents it wouldn't hurt)<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: Me [21F] with my BF [24M] of 2.5 years finally admitted he cheated on me with his ex ONCE, three months into the relationship. Don't know how to let it go. POST: I've always suspected that my boyfriend cheated on me with his ex-girlfriend. I caught him texting her, and when I confron...	Boyfriend cheated with ex shortly into relationship, has not spoken or seen her in two years. Still feel like shit because he just finally told me the truth - even though I already knew. How can I get over it?<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/Advice TITLE: Friend blocked me because I wouldn't let him use my account. POST: Basically what happened is my "best" friend that I can only contact by texting/calling/video chatting has blocked me, because I don't trust him enough to let him log into my Google account to use my clash of clans account. I...	Friend blocked me because I refused to let him have my Clash of clans account, because on that account I have a credit card attached to it.<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: My GF[18] doesn't want me[17m] watching porn, but expects me to let her to - she claims it's the only way she can get off. Am I wrong in not wanting her to watch it if I can't? POST: We got into an argument about it before. I stated my position and told her basically "If I can't, you...	GF doesn't want me watching porn, expects me to let her as that's the only way she can get off.<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: Do I [27M] move in with my GF [28F] of a year and a half when I don't feel like I'm ready? POST: My girlfriend and I have been dating for almost a year and a half. She works full time for a law office and I'm finishing up dental school. Her roommate is moving out in June and she nee...	Girlfriend gives me an ultimatum to move in with her or its over. I'm not in a position to where I feel like it's the best idea right now.<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: My wife (30/f) and I (30/m) are traveling home for Christmas. Would it be awkward to separately spend time with our families not see each other much (if at all) on Christmas Eve and Day? POST: We live 3,000 miles from home and see our families 2-3x/year...and see each other everyday....	Is there an easy way to visit family on Christmas and Christmas Eve when you are married with no kids...while at the same time pleasing everyone?<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/weddingplanning TITLE: Do I invite my biological dad in obligation, or do I risk the drama and cut him out. POST: A little background: My parents got divorced when I was about 18 months old. My father and I were relatively close when I was a kid, but haven't been close for at least 10 years. He remarri...	My biological dad and I aren't close, but I am inviting the rest of his immediate family, do I invite him even though it won't add to our special day?<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: Me [17 M] with my girlfriend [17 F] of 5 months, questioning compatibility issues. POST: I'm currently in a relationship with my girlfriend of recently 5 months and everything so far has been going great. We've had really great communication on almost everything and we seem to be gre...	girlfriend and I have differentiating views on levels on sexual activity. How likely is it that this problem will work itself out by the time we're both adults?<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationship_advice TITLE: I [f21] know I like my boyfriend [m276] more than he likes me. Should I tell him I love him? POST: I have been with my bf (m26 - not m276 lol!) for nearly 6 months now. It's been quite intense, we talk to each other all the time and spend every weekend together (can't during th...	I want to tell my boyfriend I love him, but I don't think he'll say it back. Should I tell him anyway?<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/personalfinance TITLE: Old job is charging my credit card. Need help! POST: I purchased a monthly tanning package that came out of my credit card. Once I started working at the tanning salon the owner had canceled the membership. The owner did this because a perk of working there was free tanning. She...	job started charging my card after I quit, lost that card, can they send me to collections for non-payment?<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: I'm (19/M) looking for help with being Passive-Aggressive in a relationship. POST: I got into a relationship with a (21/F) 3 weeks ago (we've been super close for months, made it 'official' 3 weeks ago). Everything is going great and we both are very happy, but something started kill...	In a fresh relationship, realized I'm being passive-aggressive, it will damage/ruin the relationship, looking for help on how to stop it<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/loseit TITLE: How to balance social life? POST: Sorry for the lengthy post here... So, I've been feeling really bad lately. My girlfriend is pretty fit, and she works out a couple of times a week. I however am in the gym 5 days a week, lifting or doing cardio. I also don't really like to go out much any...	spend a lot of time in the gym, and don't go out often because counting calories/macros. How do I balance social life and having a girlfriend?<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: I[18F] am scared about continuing to date[17M] for a summer only relationship because I have been hurt in the past. POST: Hi, I know that isn't a very good title, but honestly I don't really know what else to say about it. I am currently dating this guy who is a senior in High Schoo...	Past boyfriend sent me into depression after he left me. I am worried my current one will do the same at the end of the summer.<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: Do I[M/21] deserve a second chance after being a dick to my wife[21]? POST: Me [M/21] and my wife [20] have been married for 1.5 years. We've been having some problems and I want to know if I deserve a second chance. The problems began after four months of dating when she fooled ar...	Wife wants to move on her own after I was an incredible dick. Do I deserve a second chance if I know I can change? And is her moving out on her own a good idea?<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/Pets TITLE: Got dog, lost friends POST: We recently got a free 5 year old staffordshire terrier. I've posted about her here before, but the summary is that her 2nd owner had a stroke and couldn't manage her anymore. The vet phoned and asked if we'd take her, so we did. I never gave her breed a second th...	If you're getting a dog, consider the impact that the breed you choose will have on who will visit you in the future.<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/personalfinance TITLE: Need some advice on the future, and my credit card POST: Some background: I'm 21yrs old. I have two part time jobs, but I only get around 20 or less hours a week. I just left a job where I got around another 25, but I couldn't stand working there anymore. It's complicated but I can...	Getting into debt trying to start a business, and get real estate license. Is it worth doing it all or should I get a real job?<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: Me [26 M] with my SO [27 F] 1.5 years, she wants to end the relationship because I am not 'in love' with her! Is this normal? POST: I've been with my GF since February 2013. We dated for about a year (long distance, 2.5 hour drive), then we decided it would be best if she moved in wi...	I love my gf, but I'm not in love. I end up falling 'in love' with roommate. GF wants to break up, despite being together for over a year and a half. Advice? Thanks!<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/offmychest TITLE: If feels like I should not complain, but this has always bugged me. POST: I was reading a thread the other night about relative human "value." It centered around an OP who had lost a good friend in high school, and no one cared. He went on to relate that same year a football player wa...	In high school, I changed from outcast to valuable human in less than a year, and it was/is infuriating.<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: Me [25F] with my best friend [25 M] 10 years, I don't know if I can stop being friends with him POST: I've always had feelings for him but never really had a good time to act on them. One or both of us was always dating someone. I know he did have feelings for me. But maybe it's been...	I have feelings for my best friend and am unsure if he feels the same back. If not, I don't think I can stop being friends with him. What should I do?<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/tifu TITLE: TIFU by not explaining the plan correctly. POST: So this happened about an hour ago. But first let me explain what lead to this FU. For the whole week I've been trying to ask out a girl, we will call her P. But I wasn't able to gain the confidence. So my solution was to tell a friend if I did...	Got someone to kick me in the balls if I didn't ask out a girl, explained the plan wrongly, now I have a broken heart and a broken pair of balls.<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: New guy I'm seeing (F/M 23) drinks heavily. Concern or overthinking? POST: I started seeing a new guy a few weeks ago and I really like him. He's actually exactly what I've been looking for. Hes open and communicates well, lots of mutual interests and friends, driven, passionate, etc...	new guy I'm seeing drinks heavily. Don't know if it's age/lifestyle or could be problematic down the line<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: Should I [20F] delete anything that reminds me of my ex's on my computer? POST: Currently, I'm having trouble getting over an ex (26M), we were together for 6 months and I felt crazy when I was with him, in good and bad ways. It was such an intense 6 months I can' even begin to descr...	Wondering if I should get rid of anything that reminds me of my past relationships or keep them as reminders of what I have learned through those relationships? Would this help me get over a recent (1 month ago) break up?<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: Where to draw the line between me [30M] helping out my mom [65F] and dad [68M] out economically and paying for your own stuff? POST: Heres my family situation: Were a group of 5, my two parents and my older sister and younger brother.My brothers 24, Im 30 and my sisters 36, both pare...	question is this: When is it OK to say "No, right now I cant give you any money" and going out my way to provide them with the amount of money theyre asking for?<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/AskReddit TITLE: Nothing productive to do, what are some of the things that I can self-teach myself in the computer science field? POST: After finals I've realized that I have too much time on my hands and I'm looking for something new about the computer science field. I currently develop websites, not t...	Designed websites, want to improve. Started game development, want to improve and finish a game. Interested in AI, don't know the base to start with.<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/AskReddit TITLE: In a busy sales event with long lines for the dressing room, a (temporarily) handicaped woman started raising hell because the large stall wasn't kept open. Was she in the right? POST: To elaborate a little more, the store was quite crowded for this 70% off sale, and the line just to try...	In a crowded dressing room, multiple women were sharing the handicap dressing room at the end. A disabled woman came in and started raising hell making me and others feel bad.<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/Advice TITLE: Job Dilemma POST: Hey guys, looking for advice. I work at a grocery store in the fish department. I'm not a big fan of it and would love a transfer. On Saturday I called in sick due to a headache. Had to check the schedule (this place doesn't have online schedules). So I walk over and check...	I called in sick, went there no schedule, went there the next day and the schedule's there and I missed a shift. What do?<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: So I(28f) have noticed that I have problems communicating what I want in a relationship, or even if I want a relationship. How do I work on this? POST: I have noticed that when there is miscommunication, the guy(all guys mentioned are in general and do not pinpoint one specific man) ...	I feel like I keep screwing up potential relationships and can't get my mind off of being in one. any advice is welcome.<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/AskReddit TITLE: I broke it. Need emergency help (x-post from r/sysadmin, hoping this gets more views) POST: I realize I'm a total fucking idiot (in advance) and now I desperately need your help. Also know, in advance, that I did not set up, nor did I even contribute to the setting up of this system, so...	I purged LDAP from the CS department server and need to restore it from the back up servers as soon as possible.<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: My [27F] incessant complaining and negative attitude is ruining my relationship and career. POST: I'm not sure where this problem stems from, but I've been like this for as long as I can remember and I'm looking for some insight on how to deal with my excessive complaining and negati...	I've always been a cynical, chronic complainer and I hate myself for it. How can I change my attitude before I ruin my relationship and career?<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationship_advice TITLE: My [22M] ex-gf [20F] on't tell me what I need to hear to properly move on. I will move on regardless but does it mean anything? POST: So my ex broke up with me. She says she doesn't even completely understand her feelings or even if she made the right choice. It's been tough bu...	ex gf won't say things I need to hear to completely put this in the past. if she wants the best and thinks it's unhealthy to not move forward why won't tell me something that will help me?<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: Me [21 M] and my significant other [21 F] have been together for several years, but I've found myself being sexually frustrated more and more lately... POST: So me and my SO have been together for over 4 years now. We're currently in a long distance relationship due to factors outsid...	Feeling sexually frustrated in my relationship, but I don't know what to do about it because I know it's my fault for feeling too needy.<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: Help! How do I [26/F] break up with an overly dependent boyfriend [30/M]? POST: So my boyfriend and I have been together for two years. I really think he is a great person, but as time goes on it's becoming increasingly obvious that we are not working. I value my independence and h...	Boyfriend of two years is extremely needy, to the point that I can't live my own life or have any measure of independence without him turning into an emotional mess. How do I end this before I go insane?<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: Bf (30m) and I (24f), how to best support him through serious abandonment issues POST: I love him deeply (I'm confident that's mutual) and 90% of our relationship is a goddamn fairytale. We've been together about 2 years and are very serious about each other. Except when we fight. ...	boyfriend had abandonment issues from his dad bailing. I want advice for the best way to be a supportive partner through this<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: Me [25 F] with my boyfriend [34 M] of 10 months, he's not ready to say 'I love you' POST: My boyfriend and I started dating 10 months ago. He had just gotten out of a long relationship (more than 6 years). To complicate things more, he'll be moving away (not sure where yet) in ~6 m...	Shouldn't someone know if they love you after dating you for 10 months? Do you keep dating someone who 'isn't ready' after that long?<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: I don't know if I [17m] am romantically interested in my friend [17f], what do you think? POST: Hey guys, have not viewed this subreddit before, but I'm desperate for more advice then my friends can offer. I have been friends with this girl for over a year. I talk to her every week...	I really, really, like my female friend, but I do not know if this means I am now romantically interested in her.<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationship_advice TITLE: [15/M] My girlfriend[15/F] of almost 3 years is upset about her birthday POST: My girlfriend of almost 3 years has had some pretty shitty birthdays in the past so her sister, my friend, and I were planning to have a surprise party for her this year. Her parents are in on it and...	My girlfriend is upset about not getting a birthday party when we're planning on giving her a surprise party and I don't know what to do to make her feel better<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: Boyfriend [27M] smashed laptop screen by closing it, I [22F] feel like it's my fault. POST: Hello there... I have been on and off this thread for sometime. I have had my many problems and am in serious need of help. Tonight I was up late with the bf, we had found a dating SIM online...	boyfriend of 2 years smashed computer screen. It was my fault because I shouldn't have given any attitude... Then this would not have happened. Working 6 hours a week, can't afford to fix it.<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/AskReddit TITLE: Are there any good gap year programs for an American high school student? POST: I'm a senior in high school going through the whole college application process, blah blah blah, I have decent grades and test scores, but I really have no motivation to really go anywhere for college other t...	Do worthwhile programs exist that let gap year students work or study abroad, or are there any good things to do to warrant a gap year?<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: I've (19f) caught my boyfriend (19m) using kik multiple times POST: We have been dating for 3 years. The first time I caught him doing anything was when he had screencapped pictures of girls we both know irl on instagram. I confronted him, told him how upset I was, and then discovere...	Is using kik to talk to girls and get nudes considered a form of cheating or is it perfectly normal every now and then?<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/legaladvice TITLE: MA - Trespassing Law? POST: Sorry if this isn't the right place for such a post, and sorrier if this is a stupid question. This doesn't involve me personally, but I thought it to be interesting. I'm curious as to what the legal minds on reddit think. Every year, a couple dozen law enf...	Suppose police set up a crime scene/perimeter around a serious fire/parade route/whatever? What would you be charged with if you attempted to violate it?<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/dating_advice TITLE: do drunk actions reveal sober feelings? POST: I met a guy (I'm female, we're both 24) a couple months back and we platonically have been hanging out and get lunch once a week. we have invited each other to other things and we have both been initiating about equally. he invited me to ...	a guy friend and I were drinking for the first time together on Saturday and he got affectionate and touchy feely (no kissing) and i reciprocated and I haven't heard from him since.<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: My SO [23] saw the gift he gave me [20] for Valentines Day in the trunk of my car... POST: He saw it this morning but the truth is, i forgot that i had even left it there. It was a sweet gift and i really liked it but now he thinks i hated it and that he/the gift mean nothing to me. ...	My SO found the gift he gave me in the back of my trunk and is annoyed with me. How do I fix this and prove to him he is important to me?<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/AskReddit TITLE: Dad's in the hospital--no one has called my out-of-state sister. Mom fears the sister won't do well on her finals and mother hasn't informed anyone or wants anyone informed. What do I do?! POST: As much as I hate it, I'm a FBer--but that's how I keep in touch with all my family and frien...	dad's having heart surgery in the morning, mom hasn't informed anyone he's even in the hospital--IMFO sister needs to be informed<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: I am a [27 F] who just started dating a [33 M] at what will probably be the worst possible time in my life... POST: I'm a med student who got out of a 5 year relationship about a year ago. As if navigating intense school work with losing my "person" and dating as a total noob wasn't ...	Med student with dying mother finds a boy with potential. How do I navigate a new relationship with so much emotional baggage???<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: How can my girlfriend [20 F] & I [21 M] manage our date time effectively? POST: My girlfriend and I are beginning our 2nd summer break together. We've spent enough time together that at this point we are both comfortable just hanging out at either of our houses and not going out on p...	Me and SO are happy spending time together at home, but we've come up with too many activities to tackle all at once, and I want to include both of our interests without scheduling out every little detail<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: I [21 M] came out as gay. My best friend is straight [22 M] of 4 years and I have a crush on him. Should I still be his friend or am I hurting myself? POST: It seems fairly common and most people seem to think its ok as long as I know its not going to happen and want to move on. I'm...	I came out of the closest and my best friend is straight. I know its not going to happen but wonder if its healthy?<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: How do I [17f] tell me roommates [21F] that I do not want to be friends with her and she needs to leave me alone? POST: I just started attending college a week ago and am living in a dorm room with a senior. The only way my mother would agree for me to move out is if I live with this...	Roommate acts like a 2nd mother always wanting to know where I am and what I am doing. How do I tell her to back off without her running and getting me in trouble with my actual mother?<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: Should I [19M] leave my first boyfriend [22M] of 1.5 years. POST: I'm sorry for the wall of text and if there is any improper formatting, I'm on mobile and kind of brain-dead right now so its a little difficult! I want to preface with saying that he has NOT been cheating on me (that...	My [19M] boyfriend [22M] has been lying to me for a long time and I don't know whether to leave him or try and save our relationship.<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: Im a 21 year old male who is a junior in college. I am a virgin and don't ever want to have sex. Am I the only one who wants this? Will I be able to find a purely Platonic relationship? POST: I honestly do not know why I don't ever want it, but I can say this with a very high degree ...	I'm a junior in college who doesn't want to ever have sex. Am I going to be able to find a serious girlfriend who is okay with that long term?<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/AskReddit TITLE: Cat attacked by dog, should the owners of the dog be responsible for the medical bills? POST: To keep everyone's anonymity the cat owners name can be Clark and the dog owners name can be Doug. (C)lark for cat owner. (D)oug for dog owner. From my understanding, the dog started to chase t...	Cat was attacked by a dog. Taken to the veterinarian but had to be put down due to the injuries. The dog owner refuses to pay the bill.<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: have you experience dating a bipolar person...? POST: I didn't know the best place to place this in ask reddit but here we go... I broke up with my boyfriend partially because i was scared of what I would go through with him (being bipolar) but it wasn't even that bad at all...honest...	Is dating a bipolar person worth it if everything else is really good. No such thing as prince charming, i want him back! but it is a loaded relationship!<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: I [20M] have a crush on a girl [20F] and I asked her close friend to have a 'quick talk'. Need advice. POST: Throwaway account. So I've had a crush on this girl for about 6 months now. We aren't very close, but we've got to know each other reasonably well. This girl is unbelievably ...	Have a crush on girl who is definitely out of my league, should I ask her friend for advice or not? Should I just back out and tell her friend not to worry about it and pretend like nothing ever happened?<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: Me [23 F] with my boyfriend[23 M] of 6 months, having trouble feeling wanted. POST: First time poster, long time lurker. Some background: My boyfriend and I have been dating for 6 months straight but have been friends for a bit longer + tried dating before we got together. We have ...	Boyfriend rarely initiates calls/skype/talks about the future. I feel unwanted and want him to initiate more without forcing him. Also clearly a bit crazy.<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: I [18M] asked a girl out [17F] but she said no and then some other things..... POST: This girl that I like throws around a lot of mixed signals. She always invites me to things such as going out to eat, going to the movies, yoga, etc. But she always brings her friend along with her. ...	What should I do at this point? Should I just not be her friend from now on? Should I attempt to talk to her? Some people have said that she likes me but I need to show her that I do.<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/tifu TITLE: TIFU by trying to vacuum cat poo POST: So this actually happened yesterday morning, but when I posted it, it apparently violated rule 4, since it wasn't the weekend... So I had some friends over last night, so I decided to vacuum my place before I go to work. All is well until I get to th...	tried to vacuum cat poo. Ended up smearing it instead. (Also, TIL we have rules enforced only on certain days of the week...)<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: I [32f] may have been projecting my lack of love onto my husband [30m] POST: Married ten years. We had in-laws come live with us and everything went downhill. My husband would behave in a certain way and then we'd fight over how that behavior was unloving and disrespectful. I no long...	Think I've been blaming my husband for how I feel. Do I admit this or just work to improve it on my own?<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationship_advice TITLE: I'm (18/m) in trouble with best friend (18/f) POST: So, i was in a not solid relationship with another girl (my family didn't like her that much), but it was fine for me, but then my best friend started to tell me that i should broke up with my gf and start a relationship with ...	Had a gf, broke up with her because best friend was hitting on me, think i love her (was just waiting to ask her out), she kissed another guy, don't know what to do<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: Me [24 M] with my now ex [23 F] 8 months, was I too harsh. POST: I've been on and off with this girl for the past 8 months. She lived with her ex boyfriend but insisted that the were broken up and she didn't want to be with him. He moved away from her 3 months ago and we've been cas...	found out she was cheating on me messaged ex with proof that we've been seeing each other, now I'm depressed and need advise.<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/askwomenadvice TITLE: Should I [m17] talk to her [f17] again? POST: Hello, I'm a seventeen year old guy and I have a crush on a foreign exchange student in my chemistry class. She's seventeen (let's call her Aimée), she has such a beautiful smile (one I was lucky to see when she smiled at me once or twic...	Three weeks ago, a girl who I have a crush on and I used to talk, however after I gave her the wrong number by mistake she and I haven't talked. Should I start talking to her again?<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: I [28/M] think I may be hung up on a friend (27/F) of mine. How should I approach the situation? POST: I have this friend. We met briefly back when we were in our very early 20s. She was a friend of a friend and somehow developed a fairly substantial crush on me. At the time I wasn't...	I have a long distance friend who I have some feelings for and don't know how to handle being hung up on these feelings?<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationship_advice TITLE: I (28/M) messed up with my ex (33/F) by commenting on GW photos... POST: We've been dating for about a year now. She's the greatest woman I've ever known. And I'm the biggest idiot ever. When I would work overnights, I'd get bored at work and surf some NSFW subreddits to pass ...	I commented on girls photos in NSFW. About 34 in total. GF found out. Broke up. Now I'm trying to get her back.<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: How to decrease my [M/18] problems with nervousness and fear on dates? POST: Hi community, It's really screwing with me right now. I've had some little dates int he past months but they all failed. I was too nervous. I normally got an unexpected "yes" for the invitation and then loo...	I tend to get nervous before dates and scared of rejection, and I beat myself up really bad afterwards if I feel I missed a chance to finally be perfectly happy. What can I do to make these feelings stop?<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: How can I [17M] stop thinking of my friends romantically? POST: I've always been quite feminine, to the point where people have on many occasions thought I was gay. As such, I've only ever been able to become friends with girls. Guys just tend to annoy me. I've never had a girlfrie...	I'm clueless as to how to go about not dating people, and I don't even know what dating means besides friendship and companionship.<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/tifu TITLE: TIFU by spilling paint all over a client's carpet POST: I have been a /r/TIFU lurker for a long time and this is my first actual post, so here goes... This actually happened today! Wow, ikr? Anyway, I work for a painting company and we were working inside someone's house today fixing th...	The homeowners talked about sheen, then I came onto the scene, into the gallon I ran, I knocked over the can, and now the carpet is tan.<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: I [21/F] saw women's things at my FWB [30/M] of 7 months house. POST: A little backstory, I met a man in Septemeber. We got along great, and had awesome sex. I have had many FWB relationships, and none have actually wanted to be actual friends with it. I could tell Jason was differen...	I saw a women's body wash at my FWB house. I didn't think I had feelings for him, but I am afriad I do because of my jealously.<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/AskReddit TITLE: I just got robbed. What should I do? POST: So my apartment got robbed (upstairs duplex) while I was at work and my girlfriend was at school. Our dog was here but thankfully he's okay (from what I can see). Our downstairs neighbor called the police when she saw the backdoor window shatter...	My place got robbed. They stole $20,000 worth of goods. Police can't do anything. And I don't know what I need to do next.<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/AskReddit TITLE: Seriously. I have to know... POST: IS there some kind of fucking reddit addon that can filter out images? I am so fucking sick of seeing cats and dogs all damn day. I can't tell what the image is going to be any more before clicking on it with a title like "On the couch" or "Super cupcak...	Your cats /dogs suck. They aren't doing anything special in these pics you submit. How can I filter this bullshit out?<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/AskReddit TITLE: whats your worst one night stand story? POST: Halloween a couple years ago a huge group of friends and I decided to meet at a buddies place get our pre-drinking sorted and get dressed there and we would meet up the next day to collect belongings/tell the stories of the night. We get pret...	I had a dream I had sex with a huge girl 300+ when I found part of her giant halloween costume I figured out it was all too real.<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/dating_advice TITLE: Am I [21M] too deep in the friendzone with a [21F]? POST: This girl [21F] and I met our freshman year of college (at the freshman camp before school starts), but she was in a relationship at the time so I didn't make a move since she was taken. I was instantly attracted to her, but I...	I have known a girl for 4 years, interested in dating her, and can't decide what I should do next.<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: My [17/F] friends [18/F] no longer invite me anywhere and when I ask them they are too busy, yet I see them hanging out all the time on Snapchat POST: So I pretty much have no friends. I always ask people to do something and they are always too busy but then on I see them hanging out...	friends are always to busy to hang out, yet spend time together often and I see it on snapchat. Should I continue trying to ask them to hang out or move on?<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: Me (22f) and boyfriend (26m) have been together for a short time, but I like him more as a friend now. POST: Me and my bf have known each other for a few months but have only been dating for a few weeks. It was great in the beginning but I'm realizing I like him more as a best friend...	Dating bf for a few weeks but realize I only like him as a good friend. How do I break up without breaking his heart?<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/AskDocs TITLE: Did my internal organ get hurt? POST: Age: 25 Sex: Female Height: 5"1 Weight: 130 pounds Location of pain: upper stomach area The other day my husband was drunk and being an asshole. I was in a sitting position, leaning forward slightly, which creates two stomach rolls due to me b...	Upper abdomen was pinched very hard while I was in a sitting position and leaning forward. Worried my liver was pinched. Now experiencing small sharp pains and occasional nausea.<\|endoftext\|>