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SUBREDDIT: r/AskReddit
TITLE: I am planning to stay in a very VERY shady motel tonight. How should I prepare myself?
POST: So here's the situation:
Me and a couple buddies and our gfs are planning to spend the week at Outer Banks in NC. We drove down from Maryland this morning and were planning on checking into ou... | Night accommodations fell through. Staying in what is expected to be shittiest place ever. Check out links above.<|endoftext|> |
SUBREDDIT: r/AskReddit
TITLE: Would a relationship with someone who has borderline personality disorder work with someone who lacks empathy?
POST: I love unconditionally, would do anything for anyone no matter what they've done to me. I love with everything I have, and would give the clothes off my back to anyone who... | Guy I'm in love with could be a sociopath, while I may have borderline personality disorder and I'm wondering if the relationship will work out.<|endoftext|> |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: Me [26F] with my [27M] husband of 4 yrs, split up and I had sex with someone else and now I have weird feelings
POST: Several months ago my husband told me he didn't want to be married, lots of negative stuff led to his decision. I moved out and that's going well, I am enjoying being... | husband and I split up, I slept with a coworker who has now moved out of state, husband wants to work things out now and I am conflicted about what I want.<|endoftext|> |
SUBREDDIT: r/personalfinance
TITLE: My fiancé wants to start a Masters program but I don't know if it makes sense financially
POST: So my fiancé f 28 wants to start a master of arts in liberal studies at Denver University for around 30 k, and I am wondering if this program makes sense in our situation. She has been ... | fiancé is looking at getting loans for a masters because she's stuck in low income job and I'm wondering if this is the best path for her.<|endoftext|> |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: I[18M] have a crush a girl[17F] whom I have known for 14 years but I am finding it hard to approach her
POST: This girl and I have been to going to the same school for 14 years. Since preschool all the way up until now, my senior year at high school. My school is pretty small so ther... | I have a crush on a girl whom I have know for a long time but havent talked to much. How do I break the ice?<|endoftext|> |
SUBREDDIT: r/jobs
TITLE: So I had an interview yesterday and I really messed up. I need your help.
POST: Ok, so I had an interview with a pharmaceutical company yesterday. I met with 3 people... John, the president of the company, Carlos, one of the chemists, and Phillip, who was in the HR department. We had our shor... | Had an interview, dropped the business card of the president of the company on the desk of the HR guy and didn't realize it. What do?<|endoftext|> |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationship_advice
TITLE: Girlfriend left me after 3 years, been 3 weeks still isn't interested in me.
POST: Alright, so bit of background, both were only 16 when we met in high school, yes we we're young and all that I know but, we clicked, really well! So we're both 20 now and she's left me. We were h... | Girlfriend left me 3 weeks ago after 3 stupidly happy years together, now treats me like I'm nothing to her when I did nothing wrong, need her back but how?<|endoftext|> |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: My girlfriend [30f] just told me [35m] that she's scared of how much she loves me and wants us to break up so she can protect herself. I'm flying to meet her tomorrow — what should I say or do?
POST: Background: We've known each other four months. We fell in love almost as soon as we... | he's saying that she loves me too much and will never be able to move on from me if she doesn't start shutting me out. What should I do?<|endoftext|> |
SUBREDDIT: r/AskReddit
TITLE: Any advice for dealing with Comcast?
POST: I signed up for internet services for $19.99/month for the first six months of service with Comcast on their website. When I talked to the customer service rep on the phone to try to set up an installation (which I did know was going to add an ... | Comcast is trying to charge me $62.95/month for a service they said was $29.99/month. What can I say to them to make them change it back?<|endoftext|> |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: Me (20M) crushing on a girl I met (22F) far too fast. She has a boyfriend
POST: I recently went on a university trip to visit a few big businesses where some 20 other students joined as well. We all spent every living moment together in the few days together. I met this girl and we i... | what do you do when you crush on a girl with a boyfriend who tells you she likes you back on a trip?<|endoftext|> |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: Me [22F] was caught having sex with a guy [26M] by his girlfriend. Should I talk to her and apologize?
POST: I just want to begin with clarifying that I honestly did not know he had a girlfriend. We originally met on Tinder and we went out for drinks at the weekend. I ended up going ... | Was caught having sex with a guy by his girlfriend. Didn't know he was in a relationship. Don't know if I should talk to her and apologize?<|endoftext|> |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: Me [22 M] and my girlfriend [22 F] of 3 years broke up, but I want to reach out and talk.
POST: My girlfriend and I went on a break because she wanted independence and space. Afterwards, she said she liked having this time to find out more about herself and wanted to stay broken up. ... | gf and I broke up after a break. says she needs space and time to herself. said she thought we'd one day get back together. wants to say close, wondering how to reach out.<|endoftext|> |
SUBREDDIT: r/legaladvice
TITLE: I've completed my college degree program, but the university won't let me graduate because I'm 17, and don't have a HS diploma
POST: Not sure if this is THE best subreddit for this, but I thought it was a good start.
Located in Ohio
I'm currently 17 and entering my senior year at bot... | My university recognizes I have completed my degree program, but won't give me the degree because I haven't graduated high school.<|endoftext|> |
SUBREDDIT: r/AskReddit
TITLE: Reddit, you can't have my soul as the bank has first dibs. How do you get out of debt and stay out?
POST: I'm only 19, I'm thousands of dollars in debt due to university, and I'm nowhere close to graduating (I'm in second year). I want to go to law school afterwards, which is even more e... | I'm heavily in debt due to school, what tips/advice/help do you have that can get me out so I can have a stable future?<|endoftext|> |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: Me [F] with my Sister[13/F] and Mom. Issues with parental responsibility for my sister.
POST: Hello,
so my sister "M" is slightly over 13 y/o and got her first boyfriend about 3 months ago. M's bf is nice enough and they seem to get along alright. However, my sister rarely if ever s... | Sister doesn't have friends, only boyfriend comes over. Stays way too long. Mother isn't taking parental responsibility.<|endoftext|> |
SUBREDDIT: r/tifu
TITLE: TIFU By ignoring physics and almost crushing people with half a ton of soda.
POST: Two years ago I was earning some extra money as a cashier in stores. I used to replace workers on sick-leave all over town in this store-chain. I was only instructed to work with cash registers, however in a sp... | Too much sugar or too little understanding of physics might end up grim for you! High speed moving soda on jack pallet is no joke.<|endoftext|> |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: Me (21/F) with my best friend (19/F). She just told me that her father's been sexually assaulting/molesting her for the past few years. What the fuck do I do? How do I be supportive without sounding insensitive or trite?
POST: Okay, a little background:
We've been friends since mid... | My best friend confessed to me that her father has been molesting her and I feel like a bad friend for not knowing what to say.<|endoftext|> |
SUBREDDIT: r/tifu
TITLE: TIFU by crying over spilt milk.
POST: So today was a great day. It was going, if anything, greater than expected. That was until I got home.
I was tired and quite irritable after doing a long shift at work. My little brother (much taller and stronger than me now) was making his awful dinner... | fucked up big time and ended up crying over milk, wine, buttercream and the seething hatred from my own mother.<|endoftext|> |
SUBREDDIT: r/Advice
TITLE: Should I speak to my lecturer?
POST: So a lecturer (professor?) I have at University has started to take a bit of an extra interest in me and has stated she's worried about me, wants to help me succeed and hopes to be a support for me.
We have spoken a couple of times recently about my wo... | Should I tell my lecturer I have been suffering from some anxiety around going to/being in class due to my sexuality?<|endoftext|> |
SUBREDDIT: r/tifu
TITLE: TIFU by deciding to not visit my dying Grandad in hospital..
POST: As with most fuck ups, this wasn't today, but 13 years ago, right before my teenage years. My grandad was taken into hospital for what we thought wasn't something overly serious. He'd been sick before and been to hospital, onl... | Had the chance to visit my Grandad in hospital, decided to stay home alone, his condition quickly worsened and I wasn't allowed to visit him, he then passed away without me ever getting a chance to say goodbye.<|endoftext|> |
SUBREDDIT: r/jobs
TITLE: Reconnecting with old boss
POST: Hi Reddit,
I'm beginning to look for full-time work, following completion of my MA in April. Overall, I have a pretty solid work history - I've been in career-relevant roles for the past 6 years, even while in school. There's only one blemish on my resume, a... | Didn't do a great job because of stress and unstructured work environment. Can I get a former boss on my side by reaching out?<|endoftext|> |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: I (21m) having issues with my genderfluid girlfriend (22f). Personality changes.
POST: Throwaway account because she knows my real account.
I also posted this in r/genderfluid, but I think it belongs here.
I've been dating Olivia (fake name) for five months now, her coming out as... | genderfluid GF, acting more masculine. Her personality seems to be changing with it and I don't know what I should do.<|endoftext|> |
SUBREDDIT: r/jobs
TITLE: No further information after being told they would keep me informed.
POST: Hey everyone. So I work for a large hospital in New Jersey. I currently have my bachelors in criminal justice and work in the security department, but last year started grad school to get my MPA with a concentration in... | Looking for internal mobility. Applied and emailed hiring manager. Told process would begin soon. No word a month later. What to do?<|endoftext|> |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: Doubts after meeting the family (26f, 27m) and a health crisis
POST: X/post from dating_advice, they sent me here.
We've been dating for 4 months and have spent every weekend together since we started. It's been great, bar a few anxieties on my end (I'm the 26f).
I met his mother ... | 4 months in, my family comes to visit me and dad has a heart attack, feel bf is unsupportive but not sure if I'm projecting my mother's views. <|endoftext|> |
SUBREDDIT: r/personalfinance
TITLE: Trouble with florist
POST: I rented a number of items from a florist (vases, etc) from a small flower shop in a small town. The florist delivered these items in four open-faced cardboard boxes on Saturday for an event on Saturday night. We asked her if we could return on Sunday as ... | Florist said we didn't return items that we did and wants us to pay. If outside parties become involved it becomes pretty much a he said/she said scenario because documentation and evidence is thin. How do I protect myself?<|endoftext|> |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: me [15] and her [15]. she recently had an x ray done at a doctor, and they found our her back is messed up. Need help with how to cope and help her.
POST: (I'm in mobile, formatting will more than likely be fucked up, I'm sorry) as the title states, my girlfriend was recently diagnos... | my girlfriend is having a lot of pain and stress from her back, and she's not in a good position, how can I help?<|endoftext|> |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: Reddit... Is phone sex cheating? I might have messed up alittle bit....
POST: Ok, I{24m} pretty much just had amazing phone sex with an ex GF{23f}. I am in a relationship right now and I of course feel more then a tiny bit regreteful.
Ok I broke up with this ex about 5years ago. but... | I had phone sex with an ex-GF though I'm currently with a new GF. Even though Phone sex is not physical and there's no feelings outside of a mutural good feeling that comes with it.<|endoftext|> |
SUBREDDIT: r/AskReddit
TITLE: Looking for some advice...
POST: I just had to do something very hard for me today, and it requires a bit of backstory.
Long story short, my wife and I took in our best friend (let's call her Mary) and her two children while Mary's struggling to get on her feet after leaving her abusiv... | Best friend and her two special needs, destructive children came to live with us after leaving ex-husband. Wife and I broke last night and I asked her to leave, knowing she has nowhere else to go. I feel terrible.<|endoftext|> |
SUBREDDIT: r/AskReddit
TITLE: I'm about to tell this girl how I truly feel. Please help me.
POST: The story-
So this girl (Lisa) I work with started working with me almost 5 months ago. At first I was like wow shes cute but then after (now) I feel as if can't be without her. Things started coming between us (flirting... | A girl and I started liking each other I liked another girl told the first one lets not go further got burnt by second girl, went back to first trying to go for a blank slate.<|endoftext|> |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: Extremely nervous about meeting a celebrity whom I like too much
POST: Months ago I [28F] met this incredibly good looking athlete through work, I was probably a bit star-struck but he was also so handsome, modest and easy-going that I got wayyyy too nervous, I acted like an awkward ... | I've met this celebrity and really liked him, I'm meeting him again next week and I'm shaking already/ How to calm myself down?<|endoftext|> |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: My [20M] girlfriend [19F] read all of my text messages and I as if she isn't respecting my right to privacy.
POST: Last night my girlfriend came home late and needed to use my laptop for some homework so I let her. I woke up this morning with a note and her not at home saying how she... | Girlfriend read through all of my text messages, saw texts that made her upset and is now saying that she feels betrayed and hurt by what I said. What do I do?<|endoftext|> |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationship_advice
TITLE: 24f is having trouble progressing relationship with 24m boyfriend. Possibly NSFW.
POST: Hello everyone. I'm having a problem with my boyfriend where I feel like we're not really progressing.
We both have issues talking with things that bother us and things that upset us that t... | Issue is two fold; why can't boyfriend respect my body/space and more importantly why can't he respect my wishes without getting butthurt<|endoftext|> |
SUBREDDIT: r/personalfinance
TITLE: Seeking advice about whether I should move
POST: My wife and I bought a house three years ago that was equal distance from where we worked. I worked an hour north and she works an hour south. A year after buying this house for $490k I got a new job working from home. It doesn't rea... | My wife and I need to move closer to her work but the value of our house is down and the houses in the area we are looking are expensive. What to do?<|endoftext|> |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: My boyfriend [27/M] of only 8 months has broken up with me [20/F] with no warnings
POST: I started dating my boyfriend in July 2014 for a month but I
thought that our age gap was too big and thought it would be
best to end things. I had never had a boyfriend before and I was
go... | I didn't get the chance to tell him how I feel about the break up and need to do so to get closure. Can I ask him to meet me? Do I not deserve it?<|endoftext|> |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: My brother (16) found out that my boyfriend and I (19) are sexually active
POST: So a little background: my brother and I have never had the best relationship, he is very rude and has very bad anger issues, he has hurt me before: punching me in the face and stomach as well as pushin... | boyfriend and I thought we were alone and had sex, brother was outside room whole time and threatened to harm us. <|endoftext|> |
SUBREDDIT: r/AskReddit
TITLE: Seriously, does it really matter that much?
POST: Okay. The internet is 99.9% bullshit at any given time. There are jokes galore, sarcasm, and, of course, trolls everywhere. However, it's entertaining! I love reading something really fucked up and having to wonder myself whether it's on ... | Internet's full of trolls, who really cares if they're trolling as long as you're entertained re: GrandpaWiggly<|endoftext|> |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: My [18f] best friend [18m] is ashamed of his SO [17f] and is ruining their relationship, any advice i could give him?
POST: He's my best friend and hes making a huge mistake. He's ashamed of his SO, who i know he loves more than anyone else, and she loves him more than anything. He's... | My best friend is ashamed of his SO, ruining their relationship and doesnt care. He loves her more than anything and i need to stop him before he makes a mistake.<|endoftext|> |
SUBREDDIT: r/tifu
TITLE: TIFU by telling my GF there are many ethnic groups in China
POST: This happened a few weeks ago. FYI, I am Chinese and my girlfriend is mixed race (black and white). She hates it when people tells her she is not real black. We were talking about some news about immigration one evening, and sh... | I told my GF there are Uighurs in China. She thought I said "wiggers" and she is mixed race.<|endoftext|> |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: Is it appropriate for me [21F] to ask my landlord [60sM] not to show my room while I am home?
POST: I'm not sure if this is the right place to ask this but I thought I would try. I have been living in a basement apartment since July on a month to month lease. I have two roommates, on... | My landlord wants to show my room to potential tenants and I don't want him to do so while I am home.<|endoftext|> |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: Me [23M] with my GF [23F] of 2 years
POST: Hi, I am 23 and have been with my gf of the same age for 2 years now. she lived with me for over a year but she moved out back in December. She was never direct with why, I tried everything but she just felt stressed out living with me. I di... | Planned a trip to see old friend and family since I am being laid off, booked the flight and didn't realize I'm arriving back 2 days after her Birthday. Idiot.<|endoftext|> |
SUBREDDIT: r/jobs
TITLE: Is this company real? Please help. I don't want to lose a kidney.
POST: Please help me determine if this place is a real opportunity or a scam...
I went for an interview, the office space is in a suite with another company's name on it. After filling out paper work (the receptionist was play... | I'm extremely suspicious about this whole thing, and don't really feel like wasting a 20 minute trip to embarrassingly find out I'm being used to do door-to-door sales for *free*<|endoftext|> |
SUBREDDIT: r/offmychest
TITLE: My coworker is the mother-fucking man.
POST: So tonight me and friend I'll call Johnny were working the late night shift at a local burrito place/bar.
Two drunk girls come in around 1:45 AM, best friends, and neither one can stop talking about Johnny. Both are cute, not total hotties or... | > Two drunk chicks walk into our work, want my coworker, stick around until we close, and take him back home for wild threesome.<|endoftext|> |
SUBREDDIT: r/tifu
TITLE: TIFU by underestimating the curriculum
POST: Little background. I'm in college having a degree in education. One of the requirements to graduate is to undergo practice teaching at a certain public school of my choosing.
So, that's what I did. I was sent to this school on November 2015 and I ... | My students will have an exam on Wednesday but they still don't know 1/3 of the lessons because I fucked up.<|endoftext|> |
SUBREDDIT: r/jobs
TITLE: Need Advice, USPS or Correctional Officer
POST: So I live in Florida and I have been offered a job in corrections. I can start in about a week. I am not certified so I will be paid less than if I was, but they will pay me as I attend the classes need for certification. The pay is salary, and ... | I was offered a job as a correctional officer and an interview with the USPS, should I take the job or go to the interview and try to work with the post office?<|endoftext|> |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationship_advice
TITLE: I [25/M] have noticed that my common-law wife [29/F] only wears her "sexy underwear" when I'm not around
POST: OK so I've been dating my girlfriend for over 5 years, and we've lived together for almost 4 years so we consider ourselves common-law husband and wife.
Here is the ... | whenever my long-term girlfriend and I are apart for several days at a time she seems to wear all of her fanciest underwear, and yet I haven't seen her wearing it myself in months.<|endoftext|> |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: Me [21 M] with my GF [23 F] 6 months, sex life drying up
POST: Me: Inexperienced, she's one of my very few sexual partners
Her: She's had 10x more sexual partners than me, likely around 20
When we met, she was in to sex a lot. We knew each other for about 3 weeks, the night we start... | 6 months into a relationship, sex life is 10% what it used to be. Is this normal at this stage?<|endoftext|> |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: Me [22 M] with my roommate [22 M] that I've been friends with for four years. I think he's upset that I hooked up with his friend [22 F], but I can't tell. How can I be sure?
POST: My roommate and I have been really good friends since we came into school as freshmen. We met because w... | Hooked up with roommate/best friend's friend, he said he has a crush on her. Now he is upset about something and won't talk to me about it.<|endoftext|> |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: She left me. I could have had her back, and there was a time where I would have. But no more.
POST: So I've had a bit of trouble maintaining NC with my ex. I'm not going to say that some of the fault hasn't been my own. But basically, the longest we've been out of contact was 10 days... | My ex wants me back and is upset that we don't talk anymore. I'm wishing I could drink her sweet, sweet tears.<|endoftext|> |
SUBREDDIT: r/AskReddit
TITLE: How can I make my BF feel comfortable with me having mostly guy friends?
POST: So I have always had more guy friends then girl friends throughout high school and college. I think guys are just more chill to have as friends and don't come with all the drama girls do. I know not everyone b... | My BF gets jealous of me having mostly guy friends. I want to make him feel better without losing my friends. Any advice? <|endoftext|> |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: Me [25 M] with my Girlfriend 22 F] 1.5/yrs, she absolutely hates my friends and im caught in the middle
POST: So i've been dating for almost 2 years. She is a great girlfriend, caring, kind, considerate, sexy. The issue we are facing is that she does not get along with my group of fr... | Girlfriend hates my friends, refuses to hang out with them or compromise with me. She has no friends that we can hang out with and I'm unsure on how to proceed with making this work.<|endoftext|> |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: Me [18 F] with my friend [18 M], IS OUR FRIENDSHIP REAL
POST: So there is this guy im rather attracted to as a friend and i like hanging out with him and talking to him ( NOT IN THE ROMANTIC WAY ).
The thing is i find our friendship a bit one sided, meaning im always the one intiat... | Im thinking he is just this nice to everyone but does it mean that our friendship isnt actually real at all?? Im afraid he's doing all these not because he wants to but because he's compelled to do so.<|endoftext|> |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: I [26 M] am in a monogamous relationship with my gf [24] and two days ago I went on a date. Nothing happened because I didn't want it to and I feel disgusted with myself. How do I make it right?
POST: Edit: maybe not obvious from the title, the date was with another girl.
My relatio... | Almost cheated on my gf who's as close as perfect for me as it gets, and it's destroying me inside. Need help.<|endoftext|> |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: How can I [23/M] feel less insecure all the time in my relationship with my girlfriend [22/F]. Travelling Holiday Issues.
POST: I've been in a happy relationship with my girlfriend for two years now, although I can't help but feel lost when I'm not with her. We used to see each other... | Advice on how I can feel comfortable with being away from my girlfriend, how to talk to her about my insecurities without freaking her out.<|endoftext|> |
SUBREDDIT: r/AskReddit
TITLE: Love. Is it just getting so used to a person that it becomes painful for them to leave?
POST: My girlfriend and I fight loads. In some respects I think she is very cool/intelligent/interesting but in others I often loathe her.
Trouble is it's my first serious relationship and so I didn... | It seems to me that you can fall in love with any joe blogs that you happen to be stuck with for long enough, pretty much regardless of personality.<|endoftext|> |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: Me [28 M] with my girlfriend [27 M/F] have been together for about 3 years, I have been struggling with my weight and it has cause issues.
POST: Basically I am overweight, I moved to my hometown and my girlfriend moved in with me. I had trouble career wise and it put me in a depresse... | Girlfriend says she is not in love anymore, I need to get her love back. How can I do this.<|endoftext|> |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: I (22F) want to move somewhere more affordable, I don't know if my boyfriend (23M) would leave his hometown.
POST: I've been with my boyfriend for about six months. We live in an area with a high cost of living, high income tax, high cost of food, expensive gas, and rent is insanely ... | I want to move somewhere my boyfriend and I can afford to live. He's lived here his whole life so I don't know how to ask him to leave.<|endoftext|> |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: Me [26M] breaking up with my roommate [27 M] who wants to move in with his GF
POST: I happen to live with my best friend for couple of years, since we both got a job in another city. It was crazy time, and it was great. However, he has met a girlfriend whom he intends to move in with... | My roommate is leaving, I can't afford living alone and would like to live with my GF who works 100km away from me, how do I approach the subject?<|endoftext|> |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: Me [22M] with my GF [23F] who slept with someone on the morning we became official. Its 5 months on and now I know.
POST: I had been seeing this girl since early may 2015 and we were seeing each other several times a week for 2 months but never talked about where it was going. 2 Week... | GF slept with someone on the day I asked her to be official after telling me only a few days before that she hadn't been with anyone since I met her.<|endoftext|> |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: My long distance girlfriend [20F] of 1.5 years emotionally abuses me and I don't know what to do [20M]
POST: Hi, I'm new here and i hope someone could give me advice or their insight on this situation of mine.
I've been together with her since March last year and she is probably the... | long distance girlfriend emotionally abuses me and threatens to leave. I won't let her and i aint leaving too. What should i do?<|endoftext|> |
SUBREDDIT: r/AskReddit
TITLE: Ok, Reddit, how do I deal with roommates that have just a different standard of cleanliness?
POST: It's pretty self-explanatory, but I'll go into detail for more specific advice. Basically, it's the bathroom and the kitchen. Mainly the bathroom though, there is hair EVERYWHERE. The kitch... | Roommates shed everywhere in the bathroom. How can I tell two adults to clean up after themselves without making a big thing out of it?<|endoftext|> |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: I [26Q] have no sexual interest, but am interested in a platonic partner. Additionally, I have substantial assets I am scared of being gold dug. How can I have a healthy relationship while balancing these issues?
POST: So, I am in a sort of unusual situation. I am a 26-year-old perso... | I am a wealthy, maybe transgender person who has no interest in sex but does want a platonic relationship. Is this feasible, or am I too much of an outlier to expect to be able to accomplish this?<|endoftext|> |
SUBREDDIT: r/tifu
TITLE: TIFU by having to pee so badly.
POST: I was coming home from visiting some relatives (and the city they were living in) and my cousin and her husband stopped at a gas station to buy this and that, while I had to stay in the car in order to watch over my niece and nephew. They took their sweet... | had to pee, ended up going to a womens bathroom without noticing, found out women can have terrible aim when they pee too.<|endoftext|> |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: How should I [16F] deal with the situation with my white boyfriend [19M] and South Asian parents [30sM/F]?
POST: My parents don't know about my LDR (2hrs train) boyfriend for two reasons, I'm not allowed a boyfriend and because he's white.
My boyfriend knew about this all from the s... | Boyfriend is upset about my parents not knowing about him, I don't know how to approach the situation or if I should even approach it. And what to do if they do find out because they're very against marriage outside culture.<|endoftext|> |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: I [27F] need advice on relaxing about my bf [28M] of 1 year
POST: We've been together 11 months and he's my best friend. He's the guy I didn't know I was missing through a decade of dating completely unsuitable men. He makes me want to make him happy, and I'm getting my shit together... | It's a question of "if" all the time... and I'm starting to want it to be a "when" or something actually happening.<|endoftext|> |
SUBREDDIT: r/needadvice
TITLE: How can I have my boyfriend over for the weekend without putting out my uptight and conservative housemate?
POST: I am a college student and live in an apartment with two other girls. We are definitely all on friendly terms, although I kind of have my own life, and so don't hang out muc... | How can I have my boyfriend over for the weekend while maintaining a friendly and comfortable relationship with my uptight housemate?<|endoftext|> |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: My (30m) girlfriend (29f) of 3 years proposed to me. I told her I wanted to be the one to do it, and now I'm a little mad.
POST: Jenna and I have been together for three great years. I've thought about marriage a lot while I've been with her, but ultimately I thought it would be best... | GF proposed before I could, despite knowing I wanted to do it. I suddenly don't know about the future of our relationship, because it feels like she took the control out of my hands.<|endoftext|> |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: My [24M] long distance girlfriend [25F] is thinking about making the move to be with me, but I have doubts, and I can't tell her as she is about to set up an interview and I think it will wreck her confidence.
POST: My LDR girlfriend and I haven't been together all that long, a littl... | LDR girlfriend wants to make the move to be with me, schedules an interview for a job near me. I have my doubts but I don't want to tell her for fear of destroying her confidence in the interview.<|endoftext|> |
SUBREDDIT: r/personalfinance
TITLE: Buy foreclosure with borrowed cash, fix issues, do a cash out refinance to pay back borrowed cash,???, Profit?
POST: Longtime /personalfinance lurker, here goes my first post. So I found a decent house in a town with low taxes, good schools (have kids), built 1975. The house is a g... | Buy foreclosure with borrowed cash, fix issues, do a cash out refinance to pay back borrowed cash, ???, Profit?<|endoftext|> |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: 27M - hung up between two great girls
POST: I'm hung up.
I like a girl named F. She is attracted to me too.....she confirmed it a few night ago. The rub is she is not ready to start something at the moment.
She is in the process of recapturing a sense of self and re-discovering wh... | Hung up between two great girls. Need to choose one soon. Wait on one or take a chance with an old flame.<|endoftext|> |
SUBREDDIT: r/tifu
TITLE: TIFU By losing my virginity. (Maybe NSFW)
POST: So I guess I knew I fucked up when I realized I only met the girl 5 days ago. I had surgery and was fucked up on painkillers and I was alone on valentines day. I ended up messaging her and we hung out. I shouldve stopped after we kissed, only kn... | I lost my virginity to someone that I've only known for 5 days and whom I don't have feelings for. Help?<|endoftext|> |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: I [M23] snuck around and found out a friend tried to have sex with my girlfriend [F23]
POST: Me and my girlfriend went through a rough patch a month ago, where we almost broke up. At the time, she refused to acknowledge that anything was wrong, even though it was obvious that somethi... | Had relationship issues, gf was't communicating so I freaked out and read her facebook messages, found out that a mutual friend tried to sleep with her. What should I do?<|endoftext|> |
SUBREDDIT: r/personalfinance
TITLE: Underwater car loan advice needed!
POST: It's actually quite embarrassing.. But thought I could afford to pay a car loan to build my credit and have reliable transportation. I then put down 2k in cash on a 2012 Nissan Altima coupe with 520 credit score coming out to 20.99APR. Car w... | But I really need so advice on how to go about this. My credit score is low and idk if i should sell it and get a bank loan on the remainder? Or?<|endoftext|> |
SUBREDDIT: r/AskReddit
TITLE: A question of ethics reddit. Parents are trying to help me out but are unaware of each others actions.
POST: ok so long story short, im going on a trip with my GF with weekend for 6 days. This has been planned for quite some time so we've been really looking forward to it especially sinc... | Asked dad to borrow money, said ok come get it tomorrow. Today my mom gives me money tells me not to tell dad. What do I do?<|endoftext|> |
SUBREDDIT: r/AskReddit
TITLE: Why are believers of psychics/pa almost universally seen as kooks and disrespected, unlike the religious?
POST: Let me preface this by saying that I hold no bias either way. I myself do not hold any disrespect towards anyone based solely on their faith, be that faith conventional or not.... | Christians, Muslims, Jews, and many others' beliefs are based solely on faith. Why are they given respect while ghost hunters, psychics, etc are not?<|endoftext|> |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: My [30 M] best friend [26 F] asked me to be her "Man of Honor" at her wedding, and I need advice on how to respond.
POST: We have been best friends for seven years now, and she's been dating a great guy for two years and they're getting hitched. Question is below.
So, I find it incr... | Best friend asked me to be Man of Honor in her wedding, not sure how to respond to her as I honestly don't want to do it.<|endoftext|> |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: On "Break" Protocol as [27 M] with my [25 F] gf of > 2 years?
POST: Recently gf and I entered a mutual "break" understood to last a few months. The reason was primarily because we both need to make some major life changes and need some alone time to work on ourselves. There are no ... | on a minimal contact break of a few months, her bday approaches , I'm wondering what is best for me to do<|endoftext|> |
SUBREDDIT: r/tifu
TITLE: TIFU by ashing in a water bottle
POST: I am an overnight sitter for an elderly woman who lives in an assisted living apartment building. Some nights after she's gone to bed, I walk down the hall to a nice screened in porch area to smoke a cig or 2 and call my boyfriend, play Pokémon, browse R... | Spilled my homemade ashtray all over my clean clothes at work, spent the second half of my shift in a continuous walk of shame.<|endoftext|> |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: Me [39/F] with my boyfriend [55/M] off and on for 10 years. Not sure where to go from here.
POST: The last few months we have gotten serious about each other. We've both been married before, and he made it clear long ago that he has no interest in getting married again or being a s... | My commitment-phobic boyfriend is besties with his ex wife. Should this be a problem for me, or am I being silly?<|endoftext|> |
SUBREDDIT: r/college
TITLE: Which creative degrees are worth studying?
POST: For context, I'm a 20yr old Australian girl who has put off university/college for two years now due to having too many interests...
When I say interests, I mean lifelong dreams. I desperately want to write novels (I'm a third of the way th... | to make it broader: of any creative industries, which do you find are worth studying, which can you teach yourself, which should you simply learn on the job?<|endoftext|> |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: Best friend(of opposite sex) acting strange?
POST: For the past year and a half I(19) have known my Best Friend(19). She is extremely Beautiful, but we grew too close when I first fell for her and I put myself in the friend-zone and only know am looking back. I have dated other women... | Best friend dates assholes, Complains when I date people, says she misses me being around, flips out when anyone complains about her boyfriend: laughs when I do.<|endoftext|> |
SUBREDDIT: r/Parenting
TITLE: Present ideas for a 3 year old boy?
POST: So my sister-in-law recently got married to one of my high school friends who has a two year old who is about to turn three in August.
I've been trying to figure out some things to get him for his birthday in August and for Christmas and since I... | I recently became an uncle and since I don't have kids of my own yet I don't know what to get my nephew.<|endoftext|> |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: Me [29 M] with my girlfriend [28 F] 3 years, can't spend quality time together
POST: We've been together for more than 3 years, living separately, and lately I feel like meeting her is a chore. Sometimes I try to avoid meeting with her. This sounds bad, and the first thing in everyon... | relationship goes stale, not always having a good time together. should I let go, with the risk of regretting losing an angel?<|endoftext|> |
SUBREDDIT: r/cats
TITLE: So my cat seems to have a mental illness or rather said a "cleaning bug"
POST: So my cat got adopted from my sister from a spanish death camp around 5 years ago and is living here for about 3 years now (my sister lives in another city and brought her cats once to our place and then decided to... | My cat has a cleaning bug and I'm interested in any advice that you can give me about how to solve this issue.<|endoftext|> |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: Me [21F] with my friend [19F] of a decent amount of time. Show's what I think may be interest? What would be the best way to pursue this?
POST: Neither one of us dates. We've had the conversation before. She tells me it's because she thinks it's stupid, but if she's anything like me,... | How does a guy with trust and self esteem issues go about entering a relationship with a girl who has the same trust issues?<|endoftext|> |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationship_advice
TITLE: [29m] - Recently broke up with girlfriend [31f], now we have made lifestyle changes and feel differently about my choice, unsure what to do next.
POST: Hi Reddit, first time poster.
I recently ended a 16 month rleationship with a girl I felt smothered by. She is 2 years older ... | Ended relationship over pressure and irritation. We both cleaned some bad stuff out of our lives and are faced with a decision to take another shot.<|endoftext|> |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: My [25f] husband [28m] pushes my buttons until I explode and blames me but then doesn't want to talk about it
POST: Hi everyone,
I'm super frustrated right now and need to vent about this.
Two nights ago my husband and I had just got into bed after a long day when he puts his (wha... | My husband pushes my buttons until I explode and then doesn't want to talk about what happened once I say I'm upset and disrespected. We're finally having a conversation about it today.<|endoftext|> |
SUBREDDIT: r/AskReddit
TITLE: Is This Guy Trying to Get Into My Pants?
POST: I'm a 17 year old tall male who lives in the U.S. Recently I've befriended a pretty cool guy. Let's just call him Ralph who lives with my friend(roommates not dating or anything) and he is gay. I have nothing against gay people but one night... | Should a 17 year old be going to a karaoke bar with a 24 year old gay male who will buy me a drink after and allow me to stay the night?<|endoftext|> |
SUBREDDIT: r/tifu
TITLE: TIFU by using a TV controller for scale (NSFW)
POST: Thank you to mexican jello guy for inspiring me to share...
A little background: I'm in my 30s, as is my GF. We have a gorgeous daughter together, she has 2 teenagers from a previous marriage.
My girlfriend and I can be very playful...lit... | used controller for scale, girlfriend's teenage daughter then cuddled with controller, waiting for 'to catch a predator' film crew...<|endoftext|> |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: Me [27 F] with my boyfriend[27 M] of six months; doesn't want me posting on /r/gonewild?
POST: My guy and I have a great sex life: frequent, exciting, blahblahblah. We're really open about things we want to try, and just what we're into in general. So, that's way it's been, pretty mu... | Wanted to post some sexy pics online, boyfriend doesn't want me to, not sure if he's being caring or controlling.<|endoftext|> |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: Me [21 M] with my girlfriend [21 F] of a year, having some issues with smothering
POST: Hey all, I'm going to just cut to the chase. (Throwaway because she knows my reddit name and checks it regularly)
My girlfriend has been suffering depression her whole life. Lately, she's started... | My girlfriend was smothering me and I felt like it was too much and I took her back. It didn't change. Was I wrong?<|endoftext|> |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: How should I [24M] go about ending contact? [25F] (Not sure you can all it a breakup)
POST: I met a girl online, and after a few messages she gave me her number. It took over 40 days for the two of us to get together for our first date (she's got a lot of things going on). During tha... | Met a girl online, texted for several weeks, and had one date. I don't think we have enough in common. Do I end it by text or face-to-face? She'll probably be upset and want answers.<|endoftext|> |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: Me [27M] with my Friend [38M]. He got married years ago, I went to his wedding and didn't get him a gift. The whole thing was selfish of me. I want to make it right.
POST: So I just wanted to ask what the right course of action is here. The backstory.
My buddy, who I'm in a band wit... | Didn't give friend a wedding gift, but attended his expensive wedding, ate his food, drank his liquor, and had a blast. Our friendship is unharmed, but I would definitely like to make up for my idiocy.<|endoftext|> |
SUBREDDIT: r/legaladvice
TITLE: Possible Security Deposit Issue (MN)
POST: Hi all,
I have a sequence of emails to describe my situation, but as a header. My wife and I rented a place and were in a lease until Oct. 31.
Here I will share the emails:
>Me: Oct 14: "Do we need to schedule a walkthrough of the house? I... | Landlady refused walkthrough, said place looked fine and I would get my deposit. Weeks later told me that she would be billing me for cleaning. Do I have a chance in SCC for my whole deposit? <|endoftext|> |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: Me [24 F] with my bf [24 M] 1.5 yr, love him but should we stay together? (health and money problems and my self esteem)
POST: I love my bf but there are some problems in the background that make me doubt how things will work out I the future and if we should stay together.
Has talk... | my first love - worried about his health condition, money problems and that he's not that attentive without me asking him to be<|endoftext|> |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: Me [37F] with my friend [35F], she really wants to settle down and have kids and I'm starting to think that being around my family is distressing for her
POST: I don't know how to write this without coming across as self-congratulatory. I have a pretty decent life. A loving SO and a ... | Friend is bitter and upset abt relationship status and not having kids. I have a good relationship and a kid, maybe i should stop rubbing it in her face?<|endoftext|> |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: I am feeling a bit odd after my fiance moved in. I would love some advice.
POST: Two weeks ago I proposed to my girlfriend right before we began to pack up her things. She said yes, and at the end of the weekend she was moved in. Fast forward two weeks and we are at today.
Over the... | My SO moved in, I started feeling like an impostor, undeserving of her, and somewhat depressed. I am confused and would like some help.<|endoftext|> |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: Me [24 F] with my bf [26 m], he doesn't want me to move in.
POST: Bf lives with a bunch of male roommates. I'm rooming with a friend atm, who has her own plans after lease ends. My lease runs out in about 3-4 months. I don't want to live by myself, but I don't want a complete strange... | bf won't move in with me, won't let me move in with him, does not want me to move back to my parents<|endoftext|> |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: Me [19 M] with my Ex [19 F] 23 Months. I thought I was over her, recent events have made me realize otherwise.
POST: Okay so me and my ex broke up back in October after a nearly 2 year long relationship, for reasons still unknown to me.
We've stayed friends since then and I've been ... | Thought I was over my ex of nearly 2 years, she's with someone new and it made me realize I'm not fully over her, should I get my stuff back from her and cut her out of my life or not?<|endoftext|> |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: My [17F] sister [15F] gets extremely confused about small things, repeatedly asks questions about tiny nuances in conversation, etc. It's frustrating and is causing rifts in our family
POST: I don't even know how exactly to explain the things she gets confused about because they're s... | sister gets extremely confused and frustrated about trivial details in conversation, it's incredibly difficult to talk to her at this point. What can we do?<|endoftext|> |
SUBREDDIT: r/tifu
TITLE: TIFU by opening the backdoor of my girlfriend's parent's house to let their dogs in.
POST: So this weekend I went to go visit my girlfriend at her parent's house. I decided to sleep on the living room couch during my stay. Last night, (3AM today to be exact), the dogs kept scratching at the b... | I open the backdoor to bring in my girlfriend's dogs, who were out in the yard, at her parent's house and end up setting off a full scale security alarm at 3AM.<|endoftext|> |
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