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SUBREDDIT: r/jobs TITLE: Met a CEO on a plane would love to parlay this into a job. Advice? POST: So a touch of background. I was on a plane, and ended up having some decent not-so-small talk with a guy who later revealed himself to be the owner and founder of his own company, which is one of the top firms in It's lo...	Met a CEO on a plane, kinda hit it off, would like to work for him. Looking for Advice on how to parlay this into a job opportunity<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: (22/f) the daily dose of self-doubt -.-" POST: right, so im a 22 y/o female and i broke up with my ex about 2 months ago. it was for the best of both of us, so i am okay with how things went and so is he, we are both 10 times happier. the thing is, that what he said to me (he was th...	i know the breakup was for the best of both of us, yet i keep doubting MYSELF and dont really know who i am anymore :(<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: My [21 M] girlfriend [21F] may have cheated on me with a few guys (and some girls), but I'm not sure. How do I find out? POST: We've been together for more than year, but she was studying abroad for about 6 months. Earlier today, I was sitting in her room while she was getting ready ...	My girlfriend probably has slept with other people, but if she did it while she was abroad, I don't really mind. How do I find out the story?<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: I [20F] hate my fiancee's [25M] friends. POST: My fiancè and I have been together for over two years. I'm 8 months pregnant and we couldn't be happier. My family loves him, his family loves me. We're totally in love and happy. I'm the only girl that he's ever loved. But, we live in ...	I hate most of my SO's friends. Some act like I'm not even in the room with them. I have extreme social anxiety.. How do I stand my ground?<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: Me [24/F] with my ___ [26 M/] Talks to me all day and night but never wants to hang out? POST: Hi All! So I'm really confused and hope someone could help me. So this guy took me out on two dates we really hit it off. We've texted everyday since and of course before hand. All night a...	Talks to me like his girlfriend.. never takes me out? or has no interest in seeing me/ sleeping with me?<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/askwomenadvice TITLE: (M/21) I have been with my girlfriend (20) for eight months, she proposed to me a month ago, asked me to move in with her and I said yes. I'm not sure whether I made the right decision. POST: I love my girlfriend very much. I think she is an incredible and beautiful human being, and...	I really love my girlfriend but I think things are moving too quickly, but I am in a position where I need a bit of stability. What do I do?<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/self TITLE: TIMU by falling for a Chinese product scam advertised here on reddit! Although feeling rather foolish, I thought I'd warn others to prevent them from the same fate. POST: One day I saw an advertisement at the top of reddit for a new online watch store that was giving away free product in exch...	Paid $20 shipping for a "free" watch in exchange for a review and received a cheap Chinese POS I could have bought on the streets of Cambodia for $4.<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationship_advice TITLE: 19/F is fed up with extremely jealous 21/M POST: Alright where do I begin, Ive been dating this guy since I was in grade 10, and he was in grade 12 (3 years). We've had our ups and downs and are arguments mainly stem from jealousy on his part. Basically any relationship with a ...	Boyfriend is extremely jealous of girlfriend of 3 years, so much that I cant take him out drinking because he could cause a scene.<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/tifu TITLE: TIFU by not flushing. POST: Today I went to get my schedule at my high school. I realize I really have to poop, so I go into the bathroom. But I don't poop in public bathrooms. This is probably only the 3rd (and probably last) time I've ever used the public bathroom to poop. So I get int...	Pooped in a toilet with other people's pee inside of it, had splashback and got other people pee up my butthole. why didn't I flush before i used it?<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: am (21/f) i just not cut out for long distance? POST: i've been dating this guy (26/m) for ~ 3 months. In a month, I'll be moving back to school which is 2-3hours away while he will be in the area. Last week, he left to visit his family in the east coast and won't be back for another...	haven't spoken to my bf in 2 days, starting to feel anxious and am not sure we'll last in a LDR.<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: Me [18 M] with my __girlfriens_ [17 F] of three months and she dumped me because her ex has come into her life again POST: So i've been with this amazing girl for three months and her first lover (ex) has come back into her life after 6 months she has been with him 2 years and 4 year...	Ex keeps coming back and she broke up with me because she needs time and i don't know what to do. Please help me!!<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: My [20F] boyfriend [21M] acts like a psycho when he gets mad POST: We've been dating for almost a year, and in the beginning the only time I would see him get mad was at videogames. If he was really frustrated, he would hit the desk or something. Pretty normal, everybody does that so...	boyfriend throws things around the room when he's mad, freaks me out because my older brother with a serious mental illness terrified me for years with the same behavior<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: Me [23F] slept with another grad student [23M]. I have just found out he has a girlfriend. I'm so mad at him but have to sit next to him everyday. POST: I have just started a PhD and my desk is next to this guy, Sean, who has also just started. We get along really well and have been ...	I had sex with a guy who I now found out has a girlfriend and have to sit next to him every day.<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/personalfinance TITLE: College Student: To Save or Pay Off Loans? POST: Hi everyone. I'm in the opposite situation of most college students. I am a freshman in mechanical engineering with a minor in lubrication. Due to my minor, Chevron has hired me for a summer internship. It pays extremely well, and be...	As a college student, should I build a large emergency fund (~$4500) or should I start paying off my no-interest loans from previous year?<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: Me [20 F] with my boyfriend [22 M] six months. I am extremely jealous of his ex-girlfriend. It is ruining our relationship! POST: I have never been one to hold someone's past against them. My boyfriend and his ex had some really wonderful experiences together, and she is friends with...	My own insecurities of my boyfriend's past love is making me want to leave him. Can anyone offer some advice?<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/AskReddit TITLE: Reddit, I haven't forgotten him in 5 years. I want to find him, but have next to no information. What should I do? POST: 5 years ago, when I was in grade 8, I met a guy in my Confirmation class. We had gone to summer camp together when we were little and we only spoke one time. We remem...	met a guy 5 years ago & have been thinking about him ever since. Want to find him, but only have his first name and a possibly mutual contact (whom I don't like & haven't talked to in years).<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/tifu TITLE: TIFU by chasing a squirrel POST: Okay, so I have a bird feeder that feeds a lot of birds and I like to watch them out of my window. Lately I've been noticing the bird feed disappearing rather fast and thought to myself "man these birds must really love this shit." Wrong. Wrong. Finally I see ...	I chased a squirrel and tried to jump my bushes except they didn't give way and I knocked the wind out of myself.<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/AskReddit TITLE: Calling Reddit: Help me win tuition money :) POST: Throwaway account here. So Reddit, here's the deal. My close friends and I are competing in a marketing challenge held by NESTEA and Pizza Pizza. We are doing this because the grand prize will be a $7500 Scholarship for each of us,...	chance to win a scholarship for school, just "like" the video at the bottom of this page: . Thanks!<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: My [26M] three year relationship with my girlfriend [26F] ended today. POST: I really thought we would be together forever. We were going to move in with each other. I thought we would get married and have kids. I wanted to marry her. I've never met a girl as cool as her. She was t...	Three year relationship with the girl I thought I'd be with forever ended very, very abruptly today. I am devastated.<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: Is it a good idea for me [M22] to delete/unfriend my ex [F24] off of social media after a vicious and immature breakup? POST: ***Job done. Thanks to all, feel better now there is literally no method of communication. Friends are supportive and understand why I had to do it. Here's ...	Vicious breakup over private message, worried what mutual friends will think if I break all communication as I'm no longer in the city to defend myself.<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: Would love some advice on how to fix issues arising from a difference in sex drives between me(23m) and my SO(25f). POST: I'll try to keep it short, but this is an ongoing issue between she and I that has some background now. Basically, I'm a guy who is incredibly attracted to my S...	SO(25f) and I(23m) have incredibly different sex drives, and it's driving us apart.<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: I [20F] have been with my boyfriend [20M] for two years, I'm bored and suddenly have wandering eyes POST: I've been with my bf, Josh, for around two years. We have a pretty solid relationship, and we talk frequently about the future (marriage, kids, etc.). For most of this relationsh...	Bored in current relationship, have a bit of a history with cheating, stuck between leaving bf and trying to fix what we have.<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/offmychest TITLE: "Nonsuicidal Self-Injury Among Nonclinical College Women" POST: Today for my sociology class I get to read an article with the above title. People always joke about triggers, and I make fun of people who seem to use it interchangeably with "being annoyed by something" and such, but yeah...	it's just weird and pretty unsettling to read articles for class that are about you. Not, about me, you know, but... yeah.<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationship_advice TITLE: Should I [20/f] contact my old friends [20/f] that I had cut off contact with? POST: Hey everyone, If you have any advice for me I would love to hear it :) Towards the end of last year I cut off contact with my two best friends, and now I'm wondering if I should contact them a...	I cut off contact with all my friends, not really looking to rekindle these friendships but wanna know if I should at least contact them to explain my actions<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: How can I [22M] overachiever balance relationships while still meeting my career/life goals? POST: Not sure if this is where I should ask this question because it has to do with relationships in general, and is not specific to any one relationship. Feel free to point me in the right ...	I am an overacheiver/workaholic who has a hard time keeping relationships because of all of the things I'm involved in. How can I balance work/relationships?<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/BreakUps TITLE: I broke up with her now 3 months later I am starting to regret it, help me almighty reddit! POST: Okay so, about 4 months ago I broke up with my girlfriend of 9 months, we got along pretty well our whole relationship with the exception of about a month before I broke up with her. Since th...	I broke up with my gf 3 months ago but am now deeply regretting doing so. There are other complications but they don't make sense without explanation. <\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/needadvice TITLE: Need some advice for my parents POST: I'm kinda sad this is going to be my first post to Reddit. Let me preface this by saying that my parents and I live in the U.S. My mom has had some major problems the past couple of years and I'm hoping someone might be able to steer me (and her) ...	Mom had a heart attack with no insurance. Looking for some advice to get her some financial help with the bills.<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/AskReddit TITLE: In your opinion, what is the worst song ever made and what makes you hate it? POST: **[Soulja Boy's "Crank That"] My High School decided to go along with it, so on the school announcements (mandatory that all students watch/listen to it), school dances, and at school convocations played ...	Forget You" radio stations because you only play the same 10 songs from the same few record companies, play censored songs (stupid FCC), and interrupt every other song to tell me you are "commercial free" for 90 minutes today.<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: My friend (22/f) had been experiencing hurtful rumors for a long time now, what can I do? POST: The rumors are of course not true, and they were started and continue to spread by a couple of high school drama makers, she's been experiencing rumors old and new for the past 6 years, up...	good friend had rumors that aren't true and feeds bullied, I don't know any of the parties involved in the rumors and idk what to do<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/tifu TITLE: TIFU by eating "delicious" rancid canned tuna POST: This actually happened today. It was a normal morning, slept a bit later than normal by about 30 minutes. After I got my shower and stuff, I went downstairs to see my dad making me a tuna sandwich for lunch and for breakfast. He doesn't do t...	Woke up a little late, dad made me a tuna sandwich, took a bite, wanted to implode, finished sandwich out of kindness, expired after 08/2014.<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/self TITLE: Today T-Mobile gave me excellent customer service, and I wanted to share that with you... POST: I had been on a low cost plan that did not allow me to upgrade phones. My contract was up, and I wanted to get a newer and better phone, but was having to pay full price. I called T-mobile, the l...	T-Mobile customer rep fudged with my account to help me get a phone upgrade even though my plan didn't allow it. Put a big damn smile on my face....<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/loseit TITLE: Big changes happening now POST: A little background: I am a 25/f who is finishing her final year of University to become a teacher. I recently broke up with a long term boyfriend who was constantly abusing me. I was often a larger female, but during our 8 year relationship I went from size ...	looking to make some changes after a bad breakup, seeking advice how to accomplish my goals (skinnier, stronger, ASAP)<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationship_advice TITLE: So Relationship_Advice, do scars REALLY get girls? POST: I've been told mixed things regarding this subject. I've been through a few really bad places in my day and have some pretty gnarly stab wounds on my stomach and arms. I'm not concerned about those. I do, however, have a ...	Should I use vitamin E to get rid of the scars on my head? Or are the wonderful young ladies of the world magnetically attracted to them, as I've been lead to believe?<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/self TITLE: Apparently I'm unemployable. POST: What follows is a lot of whining about how I can't find a job. You have been warned. I didn't think I was unemployable. I thought I was pretty smart, pretty capable, pretty easy to work with. I have a graduate degree and experience in a wide variety of me...	Unemployed. Living with parents for WAY too long. Losing grip on sanity. Can't seem to do anything about it.<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: How important is it to maintain a good body image in a relationship. POST: So I m23 was speaking to my 22f gf of 5 months recently and we discussed what would happen and if we would end things if the other partner let themselves go so to speak. We both work out and go to the gym sev...	I try to maintain a good body for my partner by eating healthy and working out, is it shallow/ selfish to expect the same from her?<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/dating_advice TITLE: What do you think of this advice? POST: 18M here. I was telling a friend of mine how I was having trouble picking up this girl I liked, and I mentioned how it's probably because I have no confidence or charm when it comes to girls I'm attracted to. My friend then agreed by telling ...	A friend told me I should find someone who likes me for my awkwardness, but experience and almost all the dating advice I have ever heard has said that that is impossible to do.<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/dating_advice TITLE: Is this a yes? POST: Context -- I (M,19) had lunch with girl (F,19) twice. They went well. We talked nonstop. Also have drunk texted her twice (once saying that i think she's pretty and the other one is negligible) and have asked her out to a party once but she had a legitimate excus...	Girl knows I like her, is friendly with me, we've gotten lunch twice. Asked her out and she said we'll figure something out via text.<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: Me [19 M] with my best friend [19 F] of over a year, are going out on Friday together. POST: Me and this girl, we met on the first day of College and hit it off immediately, the next few weeks were a very spotaneous, awesome relationship. Eventually she broke it off. We stayed close ...	I love my Ex, I want to show her that I can be that guy in her life, should I do this? How can I do this?<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/personalfinance TITLE: 19 and trying to climb out of small debt POST: Hey all, finance is one of my weakest subjects so ive been reading books and lurking this forum for about 6 months now, learning as much as i can. Heres my story: Im 19 y/o living in NC, i was in college but due to unforseen financial...	4,500 in debt and growing, college wont release my transcript. Just got my first job but im not sure if itll pay for all my expenses in time so i can apply for another college before application deadline.<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/AskReddit TITLE: Something really weird happened to me as I was falling asleep a week ago. Paranormal, or sleep related? POST: Ok, so over the past few years I've had a few really weird things happen in my house. Just enough for me to count on both hands. No one in my family would say the house is haunte...	I was falling asleep when I felt a finger slide up my leg and jab me. Not sure if ghost or just hallucinating.<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: How do I [M 18] form relationships? POST: So I'm in my second semester at my university, but still having trouble making friends that I can hang out with on a consistent basis. It might seem like an excuse, but my room mate is an international student from Dubai, and while I have no ...	Just want some help making guy friend's, when to ask a girl out after meeting them, and how to turn something into a relationship.<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/books TITLE: Struggles with Wheel of Time POST: I'm halfway through the 5th book in the Wheel of Time series and i'm beginning to lose hope. I love the world that RJ has created and desperately want to get on with the story but it's becoming increasingly difficult due to one well known thing that RJ does...	Women in WoT are all the same bossy character, is there any hope of the plot prevailing of their repeated tantrums or should I give up?<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: How do I (M/15) get a girl (F/14) to like me? POST: So I'm interested in this freshman, and I told my friend about it and he knows her, so he gave me her number. I've talked to her a few times now, and she seems to like talking to me, (she's even smiley faced me ;)). My friend sent...	So how should I get this girl to #1 know who the fuck I am, and #2 go out with me?<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: Me [25 M] with my Ex-GF [23 F] of 9-months. She is in the process of moving out. I'm leaving town. She has keys. First post ever and could use advice please POST: 1st post ever but I need some advice and I don't know where to turn soooo Reddit! My girlfriend and I broke up two days ...	Going back back to Cali Cali for the weekend and ex has keys but her stuff may not be moved out by time I leave and could trash my place or steal my shiz yo. Advice?<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: I [21m] got a friend request by my future wife [18f] POST: This post is going to come off as crazy to a lot of people that don't understand my culture but try to follow along. I am an Indian American male and I come from a liberal family. When I was a young child, my grandfather and ...	My family owes another family and as a result I am set to marry their first daughter. I recently got a friend request from my future wife, what do I do?<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/AskDocs TITLE: Nausea when watching text scroll or POV videos POST: 22, male, 6'3", 170lbs, white, been going on a few months now, midwest USA... eyes?, no existing conditions, no medications... Hey guys, thanks for reading. In the past few months it seems I've noticed I start getting dizzy or nauseo...	get dizzy, nauseous, or overwhelmed feeling when trying to focus/read scrolling text or fast paced POV videos. <\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/legaladvice TITLE: [Pennsylvania] Parents using an old joint bank account to write bad checks. I'm 5 hours away. Is driving 10 hours to remove my name my only option?... POST: When I was 18, my dad had myself and my mom open a bank account together so he could feed money into it if I needed something dur...	I need my name to be removed from an old bank account that my parents are now using to write bad checks. Am I seriously stuck on this account unless I make a 10 hour trip to cancel it?<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: [22 M] came on too strong; do I still have a chance? POST: I went on a date with a girl that I've known for quite some time about 2-3 weeks ago. The date went really well, and I stayed at her place. We messed around but no sex. We've hung out 3-4 other times and I stayed at her place...	Hitting it off really well with this girl, came on a little too strong and realized it. I have since backed off and am now wondering if I still have a chance and what I should do.<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: Me [20F] with my ex [21 M] 9months, He just broke up with me. I want him back but I don't know if I should stop trying. POST: The last months of our relationship consisted or arguing. We had a beautiful past. We were truly in love but arguing became something we would do since the ye...	He broke up with me last Thursday, and I am trying to make the relationship work but he says he doesn't know what he wants. Should I keep trying or give up?<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/AskReddit TITLE: Did I do the right thing? POST: I just recently broke up with my girlfriend of 1 year. Last night we decided to still be friends, and had a nice long talk about things I could change. Well she tells me about a guy she has started to "date" and I ask his name and how old he is. This morni...	Ex likes a possible pedofile, I tell her, she doesnt belive me. Did I do the right thing?<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/tifu TITLE: TIFU by making a lunch lady think I'm an immigrant. POST: First time posting in this sub. So this happened a few minutes ago, I'm an identical twin and I was sat with the clone in the college canteen waiting for the bus to take us home when a lunch/dinner lady who was replacing the bin liner...	Made a lunch lady believe I've immigrated to study and stay at my cousins because of how awkward the situation was when in fact I've lived in England my whole life<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/AskReddit TITLE: Reddit, I need help finding some information about professional writing/image in a corporate setting. Please help! POST: Without giving out too much information about where I work, I'm trying to get some information about professional writing/image in a corporate setting. I know the peop...	People at work can't type professionally and it's starting to bug me. Need information to help prove that this is something we really need to fix. <\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: I [17M] am in a complicated love triangle with 2 [~17F's] POST: So here's how it works. Girl 1 (1 for short) knew me since middle school. She contacted me recently and things kind of shot off. Soon I realized, we were complete polar opposites, she thinks I don't speak much, but I si...	girl 1 really likes me, feeling isn't mutual. I am much more interested in girl ones friend, who's feeling towards me are neutral.<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: My [22F] boyfriend [25M] of 6 months asked me to move in with him. POST: I've never posted here but here goes nothing. I've been dating my boyfriend for a couple months now, and I mentioned a few weekends ago that I could imagine us living together someday and asked if he could do th...	Moving in with my boyfriend in a few months, everything will be new and I'm a scaredy-pants. Advice?<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/tifu TITLE: TIFU: talking to a girl POST: Little bit of background: Winter 2013 college semester i started to fall for this girl that i meet through a mutual friend. fast forward to a week after school gets out, she goes home for the summer and i start working third shift, gotta make the money, so she br...	Ex-gf used me as a place holder, shit on my heart, hung out with me yesterday, and stuck in my head today when i could have done something with hotgurl.<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: [25]M - Girlfriend [25]F - wants me to go to bed at the same time she does. I wake up later, because I have to work later than she does (9-6). She gets upset when I don't go to bed at the same time. POST: [25]M - Girlfriend [25]F - wants me to go to bed at the same time she does. I w...	Girlfriend wants me to go to bed at same time. Our schedules are very different, sometimes just not tired. When this happens, it makes her quite angry / irritated. Seems completely irrational.<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: Me [16M] and my gf [16/F] have been dating for 4 months, and she has anxiety about me leaving. POST: I'm 16 and this is my first serious relationship, it's had it's ups and downs but for the most part I've really been enjoying myself. My gf has pretty bad anxiety. It's so bad at time...	My girlfriend is scared I'll leave her and she can't stop thinking about it. I'm going to talk with her tomorrow and I'm asking for any advice on what I could say or do<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: Should I follow him? POST: We are both in our early 20s, been dating over a year. We currently live together, and are very happy. He got a great job in a city 12 hrs away for after he finishes his master's degree. I will be finishing my master's degree around the same time. Bas...	SO got great job in another city, but I'm afraid to follow him because I don't have a job there.<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: I'm [34 F] not sure if I should go to the wedding of my best friend [29 M] POST: Before a recent meet up, my best friend informed me that my significant other and I were invited to his wedding. Things were fine until the meet up where things were mostly OK aside from one embarrassin...	Best friend invited me to wedding informally, but fiance may or may not have a problem with me or my SO. Should I still attend the wedding at this point?<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: [M21] Getting back in the dating game POST: Broke up with my ex-gf of two years a few months back, and I'm finally starting to think about dating again. Problem is, I suck at pursuing anything because I over-think how any given girl is feeling and convince myself to not be that pushy...	Should I just keep acting interested until a negative sign presents itself, or do what I have been doing, which is stop when there aren't as many positive signs happening?<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: My Long-Distance Girlfriend [19 F] just broke up with me [19 M], is it cruel for me to try my hardest to get her back? POST: For the past 7 months, my girlfriend of 18 months and I entered a long distance relationship due to her parents and her moving to the other side of Australia f...	My Gf which i love deeply broke up with me due to long distance alone and because not having me near "hurt" her. Is it cruel to fight to keep her?<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: Me [23MA] with my girlfriend [24 F] of four months, emotionally cheated. First, and last time, of backstabbing any human being like that again. POST: Plain and simple, I emotionally cheated on my ex. She went on my phone, and saw a text message of me stating "i want you" and "unhappy...	I royally screwed up, and will learn from my mistake the hard way. Sometimes, the only way to learn is the hard way.<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: Me (25F) trying to learn the boundaries of dealing with ex partners as well as form an understanding of how to be single now after so long. POST: What are the guidelines for dealing with exes? Should you use one for...'needs'? How does one even begin? It's been years since I have b...	I am trying to figure out how to function as a single person and still get my rocks off and enjoy others without it being weird.<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/AskReddit TITLE: I was poisoned by vegans. Reddit, what's your worst vacation story? POST: Several years ago, a few drinking buddies and I were driving to Virginia on vacation. After driving for nearly 16 hours, we stopped for dinner in Baltimore. I forget the name of the place, but it was this little ca...	Four rednecks mistake a vegan restaurant for a burger joint, get food poisoning by said restaurant, make an ass of themselves on interstate*<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/legaladvice TITLE: [GA/FL] Mom's joint bank account seized POST: Posting for my mom, I can get more info where needed. Mom lives in Georgia, brother lives in Florida. Long story short my mom has a joint bank account with my brother. He hasn't had access to it or has been active on it for over eight ye...	mom screwed out of $1000 in her joint bank account that the other party never used, she was never served papers or given a chance to defend herself. What can she do?<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: Me [19F] with my friend [19F], feeling smothered POST: Hi everyone, so I'm friends with this girl, I've known her since I was 11 but we've only just started speaking properly now. She's a really nice girl and I love texting her. I met up with her on the weekend and it was great but s...	How to explain that you can't/don't want to go out without hurting someone's feelings or making them angry?<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: My [25M] boyfriend and I [25F] would like to go on a trip, however my family doesn't know about my relationship. POST: So my boyfriend and I started dating early in highschool, we dated for a few years and ended up breaking up after he felt frustrated about the way my family treated ...	Dating an amazing and patient guy but I haven't told my family about him again, afraid of losing my family's love and would like some advice on being an adult.<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: My [19M] mother[late 60's F] won't stop belittling the women I date. POST: So I figured I would come to reddit to try to get help on what to say to my mother about this issue she keeps having. With multiple girls I date and whom she meets very early on, she always seems to really lov...	My mother is disrespectful and gossips about my girlfriend to me. I am looking to talk to my mother about how she is not only hurting me but being disrespectful as well to the girl i love.<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/AskReddit TITLE: Had a pretty crazy drunk encounter last night. What's the craziest most unexpected thing to happen to you while intoxicated? POST: A couple friends and I went to a pizza place called Pizan's to get some food after a friends 21st birthday party. I had a little too much to drink so I asked...	Got drunk, tried to get food, drunk manager threaten to hit me for trying to steal food, he finds out he was wrong, i get free beer.<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/AskReddit TITLE: Maintenance workers keep coming into my apartment while I'm sleeping. Should I be upset? POST: The first incident occured shortly after I moved in (Dec 7th) to my new apartment. I was notified that maintenace workers would be here Dec 14 between 9 and 4 to replace the furnace filter. We ...	maintenace workers at my apartment complex keep walking into my apartment without my permission, not sure if I should be upset<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: Me [18 M] with my Girlfriend [17 F] dumped after 3 weeks POST: Sorry if this seems petty but it's really made me lose hope for my future. This was my first ever girlfriend and we were flirting and stuff about a month before we started going out. At the start it felt great, she would ...	Got my first girlfriend after flirting for about a month, she lost interest and dumped me within 3 weeks of going out. Is this a usual thing to happen, or is it my fault?<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: How to overcome a language barrier? POST: I [28/m] am really interested in taking this girl [?/f] out from work (to clarify, we don't work for the same company, sites closing in about a month so won't even see her again after that.) but her first language is Spanish and her English i...	Me English, her Spanish, not sure she's understanding everything I say, need ideas to get a date out of her.<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/tifu TITLE: TIFU by sending a text. POST: Backstory - Was with a "lady" for many years. Produced offspring. No longer with said "lady". She cray cray. Today was going to be the day. Things have been gradually escalating between myself and my ex about kids/custody/schools/etc... I decided to hire a lawye...	sent my ex a text by accident saying she was getting served custody papers before I intended on her receiving them. Time to run and hide.<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: I (18M) confessed to my (ex) SO (17M) about a big lie i told her for six months and I'm unsure what to do. POST: Hey there, Some relevant background first: I'm 18, she's 17, we went out for approximately a year and a half before the incident. Also relevant, she has trust issues from...	Lied to SO for six months, confessed, she broke with me in a peculiar way (we should stay friends for at least a year). No idea what the best thing is to do. halp<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: [24M] A casual friend [21F] from class, sudden cold shoulder, no discernible reason...? POST: A friend of mine from a class I had over Spring semester suddenly stopped talking to me. Our friendship wasn't terribly complex and I have a girlfriend so it was entirely platonic. Texted ca...	Casual friend suddenly stopped talking to me, unfollowed me on instagram. Not sure why. Does this kind of thing happen?<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: I [30M] just started a trial separation with my wife [26F]. I could really use some advice or insight from others redditors with kids who have separated/divorced POST: A little background: my wife and I were together for 7 years and married for 5. We have a 3 year old together. Tod...	My wife and I separated today and I've been on a motherfuckin roller coaster of emotions. Is this normal? Also, would redditors recommend for or against seeing other people at this time?<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: I [F26] want to forgive an ex [M27] and let go of the anger but I'm having trouble. POST: Last year in the late summer/fall I briefly dated someone who ended up being a bad guy. The whole thing involved several ex girlfriends of his, one of whom was my professor at the time which cau...	I want to forgive an ex for my own peace of mind but I feel torn as to whether or not he deserves forgiveness. How can I make peace with this without feeling I've given him approval of his actions?<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: should I be (more) proactive about sexing up this boy? POST: Reddit, this is a throwaway because I feel pretty lame for asking this and sharing the circumstances. I'm 23, female. There's an extremely hot boy who I've hooked up with maybe 4 or 5 times since June. We don't really know ...	is it lame (can I) if I ask to hook up with the hot guy I've had a few sporadic one night stands with, even if I know he's not particularly interested in me?<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: Me [24 m] with the girl I'm dating [24F] for about a month, wants to remain monogamous sexually but still date other guys POST: So I started dating this girl (we are both 24) I've known for 3 months about a month ago and we started having sex pretty quickly and things escalated fast....	in rebound, dating girl out of serious relationship - she wants to continue dating, i want to be okay with that, i also want her to myself(eventually).<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/legaladvice TITLE: Do I have any recourse for this denied insurance claim? POST: I am in NJ and my insurance is Aetna. In December 2015 my doctor asked me to get an echo cardiogram. I made the appointment and had the service done on 12/30/15. When I called my doctors office to get the referral (prior to...	Was told I didn't need a referral by insurance. That was wrong and thus my claim denied. Doctors office wont back date a referral and now I owe way more than I can afford.<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: How do I (23F) support my friend's (28M) initial decision to stop drinking and smoking, now that he's changed his mind? POST: My fiancé and I are both friends with this really great guy. When we met him, it really seemed like everything was working out for him - he was dating this gr...	Friend says he's got a substance problem, then changes his mind. How do we help him cope with a difficult time without supporting a return to destructive coping mechanisms?<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: How do I [20 M] talk to my Great Aunt [86 F] who has alzheimer's and other memory problems? POST: I'm pretty bad at small talk to begin with and I feel really bad when I'm visiting my aunt who lives far away. She's kind of like a grandmother to me. She still has her humor, but just c...	Don't know how to act or what to say around my old aunt who can't speak her thoughts. How do I talk to her without it being awkward?<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/tifu TITLE: TIFU by snotting on my wife's nose. POST: So, this morning my schedule and my wife's schedule have overlapping time at home from work. I work nights, she doesn't have to be in until 11 am. So, I'm a little tired from working my shift, but we haven't had sex in a little while, and I'm kinda ...	Trying to put on the moves I get snot on wife's nose, try to backpedal by pointing out that semen is also basically snot.<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: Am I [20] F being too clingy? POST: I've never done this sort of thing before so it feels a bit weird. Myself [20] and my boyfriend [22] have been going out for around 9 months. I have always been a confident and self dependant, at the start of the relationship he often commented ho...	Never been an 'always at eachothers hip' couple, however I feel his efforts are diminishing and I want to make sure I'm not an annoying clingy gf before I confront.<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: [22 M] Girl I like just started ignoring and I don't know why. I'm not sure what I did or what to do. POST: So I have known this girl for a few years. We recently started hanging out more the last few weeks and both made it clear we like eachother. We were taking it slow. Had fooled ...	Been talking to a girl I really like. She ignores me out of no where and I don't know why. I'm really upset and need advice.<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/AskReddit TITLE: Need to do something meaningful! Any advice for those of us who are tired of feeling like sheep? POST: *I know there are a lot of people out there like me. After searching past submissions a bit, I thought I'd like to get a conversation started on this issue. Maybe something a bit deeper...	Does anyone have advice for people struggling with the feeling of not doing enough with their life? For people who feel like working 9-5 in an office isn't fulfilling or rewarding enough?<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: I [21M] reformated my girlfriend's [23F] computer and reinstalled Windows. She's lost her CV in the process, whose fault is this? POST: I built her computer a while ago and it's my responsibility to keep it maintained and operational. I gave it a complete clean up, inside and out, re...	Reinstalled Windows on girlfriend's PC. I tried backing up everything which was important but must have overlooked her CV somehow. Is it my fault for making a mistake or hers for not specifying/backing up her own files?<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: My [23 M] bf was really rough with me [22 F] and scared me POST: I've been with my bf for 3 years. He's a big guy (muscular) so it's happened many times where he's accidentally hurt me because he doesn't know his own strength. Not just during sex, but cuddling, picking me up, etc. ...	Bf was really really rough and scared me, not sure how to respond. I've never been in this type of situation before.<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/tifu TITLE: TIFU by talking to jamie lee curtis POST: This happened a few months back, and now that I no longer work with the company I can say this with no repercussions. I worked at a very successful restaurant here in new orleans and knowing someone who owns a transportation company he sends clients ...	I asked jamie lee curtis if she knew a friend she then asked me if i was gay and the whole restaurant found out.<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/AskReddit TITLE: Tonight, I purposely caused an accident out of rage and frustration. What the fuck is wrong with me? POST: I can't even fucking believe I just did this. I was supposed to meet a friend at this event, but he bailed at the last minute. I was already really stressed about this event for ...	I was raging and so frustrated at being ditched for an event, that I purposely caused a car accident just so I could have an excuse not to go.<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/GetMotivated TITLE: Why can't I just seem to DO anything? POST: Hey r/getmotivated. I don't know if this is the right place for this post. I've been subscribed to this subreddit for a few months now. And I've done nothing with it. I look at other people's posts, I think "wow that's really inspiring" and ...	I feel like I spend my life in bed with no motivation to do anything, though I have lots of things I wish I could do. <\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: Me [16M] and my SO [16F] broke up a week ago because we felt "iffy" about the relationship and im not sure if it was the right thing to do POST: Disclaimer: this might not be as serious as plenty of other posts here but im another soul in need of advice. So my girlfriend and I have ...	i broke up with my girlfriend of 5 months a week ago and im still not sure if i did the right thing or not by doing so seeing as i feel like garbage.<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: My boyfriend [26M] just slapped me [19F] and I'm outside sitting in the woods not sure where to go from here POST: I already know what you're going to say, break up with him. And I always thought this would be an easy decision if I was ever faced with it, but I was wrong. My boyfri...	My boyfriend slapped me and I don't really feel like I should break up with him but I know what everyone else will say.<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: I [22 F] want to help my [20 M] boyfriend feel successful POST: I started dating my boyfriend shortly before graduating college (1 year ago) and am still in town working because I found a great job. He is graduating in a few weeks and staying here for grad school, and moving in with ...	My boyfriend can't find a job and is about to start grad school and move in. He feels useless and I want to help him, but I feel just as useless, even though I make enough money to cover our living expenses.<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: Me [M21] My friend [M20] and Girl [20]; not your typical triangle POST: I want your honest opinions about how I reacted and my friend reacted in this situation. Basically, my friend "John" has been pining after this girl "Jane" who was our friend for a year. Jane hooked up with our...	I asked love interest of my friend to sleep with me after I received bipolar diagnosis. Friend wouldn't forgive me, blames me entirely, won't recognize illness. What does this mean for our friendship?<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/AskReddit TITLE: Let's hear some embarrassing stories! POST: I'll start off. In high school English class we were reviewing grammar by fixing grammatically incorrect sentences that the teacher had written on the board. This one girl that I liked went up and started correcting, and needless to say, I star...	I was caught staring at a girls ass and called out on it by the teacher, and became the laughing stock of the class.<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/self TITLE: Reddit, i'm not happy. This isn't new to me, but it's never gone on this long. POST: I pretty much range from noir to destitute these days. i'm one of those depressed gits you run into, but in my younger age i was able to sort of hide that. Things used to balance out after a few days at fi...	I'm an old emo (31), minus vampire sparkles. i don't go out much, i do have friends, but i don't hang out much with anyone either. My life isn't really enjoyable.<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: I think my boyfriend may be capable of killing me, but I'm okay with that. Am I crazy for this? POST: My [F 21] boyfriend [M 29] has always had this HUGE trust problem and also being able to love someone completely. But he has been able to open up to me and get closer to me than he h...	just curious if I'm crazy for being with someone who I know might kill me if I ever hurt them and not being bothered by it.<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: My [22 M] sister's [25 F] foreign boyfriend [23 M] cheated on her while she was home for 2 months. POST: So it's hard for me to type this without shaking with rage. My sister lived in Spain for the past 2 years or so. She got a boyfriend there, who she ended up falling in love with...	sisters foreign boyfriend came to US not telling her that he cheated on her while she was home for two months and now I am probably going to take a shit in his food.<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: I [18M] don't know if I should keep trying with my girlfriend [18F] POST: Hey all, I'm really caught at a crossing point, I've been with this girl for a little over a year and we've been on "Break" for about a month or so now. We've had issues before and differences and we decided ...	went on "break" from year relationship and now she's fucking another guy and flirting saying it could go either way and that I may loose her to a guy she finds interest in<\|endoftext\|>

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SUBREDDIT: r/jobs TITLE: Met a CEO on a plane would love to parlay this into a job. Advice? POST: So a touch of background. I was on a plane, and ended up having some decent not-so-small talk with a guy who later revealed himself to be the owner and founder of his own company, which is one of the top firms in It's lo...	Met a CEO on a plane, kinda hit it off, would like to work for him. Looking for Advice on how to parlay this into a job opportunity<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: (22/f) the daily dose of self-doubt -.-" POST: right, so im a 22 y/o female and i broke up with my ex about 2 months ago. it was for the best of both of us, so i am okay with how things went and so is he, we are both 10 times happier. the thing is, that what he said to me (he was th...	i know the breakup was for the best of both of us, yet i keep doubting MYSELF and dont really know who i am anymore :(<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: My [21 M] girlfriend [21F] may have cheated on me with a few guys (and some girls), but I'm not sure. How do I find out? POST: We've been together for more than year, but she was studying abroad for about 6 months. Earlier today, I was sitting in her room while she was getting ready ...	My girlfriend probably has slept with other people, but if she did it while she was abroad, I don't really mind. How do I find out the story?<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: I [20F] hate my fiancee's [25M] friends. POST: My fiancè and I have been together for over two years. I'm 8 months pregnant and we couldn't be happier. My family loves him, his family loves me. We're totally in love and happy. I'm the only girl that he's ever loved. But, we live in ...	I hate most of my SO's friends. Some act like I'm not even in the room with them. I have extreme social anxiety.. How do I stand my ground?<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: Me [24/F] with my ___ [26 M/] Talks to me all day and night but never wants to hang out? POST: Hi All! So I'm really confused and hope someone could help me. So this guy took me out on two dates we really hit it off. We've texted everyday since and of course before hand. All night a...	Talks to me like his girlfriend.. never takes me out? or has no interest in seeing me/ sleeping with me?<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/askwomenadvice TITLE: (M/21) I have been with my girlfriend (20) for eight months, she proposed to me a month ago, asked me to move in with her and I said yes. I'm not sure whether I made the right decision. POST: I love my girlfriend very much. I think she is an incredible and beautiful human being, and...	I really love my girlfriend but I think things are moving too quickly, but I am in a position where I need a bit of stability. What do I do?<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/self TITLE: TIMU by falling for a Chinese product scam advertised here on reddit! Although feeling rather foolish, I thought I'd warn others to prevent them from the same fate. POST: One day I saw an advertisement at the top of reddit for a new online watch store that was giving away free product in exch...	Paid $20 shipping for a "free" watch in exchange for a review and received a cheap Chinese POS I could have bought on the streets of Cambodia for $4.<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationship_advice TITLE: 19/F is fed up with extremely jealous 21/M POST: Alright where do I begin, Ive been dating this guy since I was in grade 10, and he was in grade 12 (3 years). We've had our ups and downs and are arguments mainly stem from jealousy on his part. Basically any relationship with a ...	Boyfriend is extremely jealous of girlfriend of 3 years, so much that I cant take him out drinking because he could cause a scene.<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/tifu TITLE: TIFU by not flushing. POST: Today I went to get my schedule at my high school. I realize I really have to poop, so I go into the bathroom. But I don't poop in public bathrooms. This is probably only the 3rd (and probably last) time I've ever used the public bathroom to poop. So I get int...	Pooped in a toilet with other people's pee inside of it, had splashback and got other people pee up my butthole. why didn't I flush before i used it?<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: am (21/f) i just not cut out for long distance? POST: i've been dating this guy (26/m) for ~ 3 months. In a month, I'll be moving back to school which is 2-3hours away while he will be in the area. Last week, he left to visit his family in the east coast and won't be back for another...	haven't spoken to my bf in 2 days, starting to feel anxious and am not sure we'll last in a LDR.<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: Me [18 M] with my __girlfriens_ [17 F] of three months and she dumped me because her ex has come into her life again POST: So i've been with this amazing girl for three months and her first lover (ex) has come back into her life after 6 months she has been with him 2 years and 4 year...	Ex keeps coming back and she broke up with me because she needs time and i don't know what to do. Please help me!!<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: My [20F] boyfriend [21M] acts like a psycho when he gets mad POST: We've been dating for almost a year, and in the beginning the only time I would see him get mad was at videogames. If he was really frustrated, he would hit the desk or something. Pretty normal, everybody does that so...	boyfriend throws things around the room when he's mad, freaks me out because my older brother with a serious mental illness terrified me for years with the same behavior<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: Me [23F] slept with another grad student [23M]. I have just found out he has a girlfriend. I'm so mad at him but have to sit next to him everyday. POST: I have just started a PhD and my desk is next to this guy, Sean, who has also just started. We get along really well and have been ...	I had sex with a guy who I now found out has a girlfriend and have to sit next to him every day.<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/personalfinance TITLE: College Student: To Save or Pay Off Loans? POST: Hi everyone. I'm in the opposite situation of most college students. I am a freshman in mechanical engineering with a minor in lubrication. Due to my minor, Chevron has hired me for a summer internship. It pays extremely well, and be...	As a college student, should I build a large emergency fund (~$4500) or should I start paying off my no-interest loans from previous year?<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: Me [20 F] with my boyfriend [22 M] six months. I am extremely jealous of his ex-girlfriend. It is ruining our relationship! POST: I have never been one to hold someone's past against them. My boyfriend and his ex had some really wonderful experiences together, and she is friends with...	My own insecurities of my boyfriend's past love is making me want to leave him. Can anyone offer some advice?<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/AskReddit TITLE: Reddit, I haven't forgotten him in 5 years. I want to find him, but have next to no information. What should I do? POST: 5 years ago, when I was in grade 8, I met a guy in my Confirmation class. We had gone to summer camp together when we were little and we only spoke one time. We remem...	met a guy 5 years ago & have been thinking about him ever since. Want to find him, but only have his first name and a possibly mutual contact (whom I don't like & haven't talked to in years).<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/tifu TITLE: TIFU by chasing a squirrel POST: Okay, so I have a bird feeder that feeds a lot of birds and I like to watch them out of my window. Lately I've been noticing the bird feed disappearing rather fast and thought to myself "man these birds must really love this shit." Wrong. Wrong. Finally I see ...	I chased a squirrel and tried to jump my bushes except they didn't give way and I knocked the wind out of myself.<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/AskReddit TITLE: Calling Reddit: Help me win tuition money :) POST: Throwaway account here. So Reddit, here's the deal. My close friends and I are competing in a marketing challenge held by NESTEA and Pizza Pizza. We are doing this because the grand prize will be a $7500 Scholarship for each of us,...	chance to win a scholarship for school, just "like" the video at the bottom of this page: . Thanks!<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: My [26M] three year relationship with my girlfriend [26F] ended today. POST: I really thought we would be together forever. We were going to move in with each other. I thought we would get married and have kids. I wanted to marry her. I've never met a girl as cool as her. She was t...	Three year relationship with the girl I thought I'd be with forever ended very, very abruptly today. I am devastated.<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: Is it a good idea for me [M22] to delete/unfriend my ex [F24] off of social media after a vicious and immature breakup? POST: ***Job done. Thanks to all, feel better now there is literally no method of communication. Friends are supportive and understand why I had to do it. Here's ...	Vicious breakup over private message, worried what mutual friends will think if I break all communication as I'm no longer in the city to defend myself.<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: Would love some advice on how to fix issues arising from a difference in sex drives between me(23m) and my SO(25f). POST: I'll try to keep it short, but this is an ongoing issue between she and I that has some background now. Basically, I'm a guy who is incredibly attracted to my S...	SO(25f) and I(23m) have incredibly different sex drives, and it's driving us apart.<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: I [20F] have been with my boyfriend [20M] for two years, I'm bored and suddenly have wandering eyes POST: I've been with my bf, Josh, for around two years. We have a pretty solid relationship, and we talk frequently about the future (marriage, kids, etc.). For most of this relationsh...	Bored in current relationship, have a bit of a history with cheating, stuck between leaving bf and trying to fix what we have.<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/offmychest TITLE: "Nonsuicidal Self-Injury Among Nonclinical College Women" POST: Today for my sociology class I get to read an article with the above title. People always joke about triggers, and I make fun of people who seem to use it interchangeably with "being annoyed by something" and such, but yeah...	it's just weird and pretty unsettling to read articles for class that are about you. Not, about me, you know, but... yeah.<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationship_advice TITLE: Should I [20/f] contact my old friends [20/f] that I had cut off contact with? POST: Hey everyone, If you have any advice for me I would love to hear it :) Towards the end of last year I cut off contact with my two best friends, and now I'm wondering if I should contact them a...	I cut off contact with all my friends, not really looking to rekindle these friendships but wanna know if I should at least contact them to explain my actions<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: How can I [22M] overachiever balance relationships while still meeting my career/life goals? POST: Not sure if this is where I should ask this question because it has to do with relationships in general, and is not specific to any one relationship. Feel free to point me in the right ...	I am an overacheiver/workaholic who has a hard time keeping relationships because of all of the things I'm involved in. How can I balance work/relationships?<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/BreakUps TITLE: I broke up with her now 3 months later I am starting to regret it, help me almighty reddit! POST: Okay so, about 4 months ago I broke up with my girlfriend of 9 months, we got along pretty well our whole relationship with the exception of about a month before I broke up with her. Since th...	I broke up with my gf 3 months ago but am now deeply regretting doing so. There are other complications but they don't make sense without explanation. <\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/needadvice TITLE: Need some advice for my parents POST: I'm kinda sad this is going to be my first post to Reddit. Let me preface this by saying that my parents and I live in the U.S. My mom has had some major problems the past couple of years and I'm hoping someone might be able to steer me (and her) ...	Mom had a heart attack with no insurance. Looking for some advice to get her some financial help with the bills.<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/AskReddit TITLE: In your opinion, what is the worst song ever made and what makes you hate it? POST: **[Soulja Boy's "Crank That"] My High School decided to go along with it, so on the school announcements (mandatory that all students watch/listen to it), school dances, and at school convocations played ...	Forget You" radio stations because you only play the same 10 songs from the same few record companies, play censored songs (stupid FCC), and interrupt every other song to tell me you are "commercial free" for 90 minutes today.<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: My friend (22/f) had been experiencing hurtful rumors for a long time now, what can I do? POST: The rumors are of course not true, and they were started and continue to spread by a couple of high school drama makers, she's been experiencing rumors old and new for the past 6 years, up...	good friend had rumors that aren't true and feeds bullied, I don't know any of the parties involved in the rumors and idk what to do<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/tifu TITLE: TIFU by eating "delicious" rancid canned tuna POST: This actually happened today. It was a normal morning, slept a bit later than normal by about 30 minutes. After I got my shower and stuff, I went downstairs to see my dad making me a tuna sandwich for lunch and for breakfast. He doesn't do t...	Woke up a little late, dad made me a tuna sandwich, took a bite, wanted to implode, finished sandwich out of kindness, expired after 08/2014.<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/self TITLE: Today T-Mobile gave me excellent customer service, and I wanted to share that with you... POST: I had been on a low cost plan that did not allow me to upgrade phones. My contract was up, and I wanted to get a newer and better phone, but was having to pay full price. I called T-mobile, the l...	T-Mobile customer rep fudged with my account to help me get a phone upgrade even though my plan didn't allow it. Put a big damn smile on my face....<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/loseit TITLE: Big changes happening now POST: A little background: I am a 25/f who is finishing her final year of University to become a teacher. I recently broke up with a long term boyfriend who was constantly abusing me. I was often a larger female, but during our 8 year relationship I went from size ...	looking to make some changes after a bad breakup, seeking advice how to accomplish my goals (skinnier, stronger, ASAP)<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationship_advice TITLE: So Relationship_Advice, do scars REALLY get girls? POST: I've been told mixed things regarding this subject. I've been through a few really bad places in my day and have some pretty gnarly stab wounds on my stomach and arms. I'm not concerned about those. I do, however, have a ...	Should I use vitamin E to get rid of the scars on my head? Or are the wonderful young ladies of the world magnetically attracted to them, as I've been lead to believe?<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/self TITLE: Apparently I'm unemployable. POST: What follows is a lot of whining about how I can't find a job. You have been warned. I didn't think I was unemployable. I thought I was pretty smart, pretty capable, pretty easy to work with. I have a graduate degree and experience in a wide variety of me...	Unemployed. Living with parents for WAY too long. Losing grip on sanity. Can't seem to do anything about it.<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: How important is it to maintain a good body image in a relationship. POST: So I m23 was speaking to my 22f gf of 5 months recently and we discussed what would happen and if we would end things if the other partner let themselves go so to speak. We both work out and go to the gym sev...	I try to maintain a good body for my partner by eating healthy and working out, is it shallow/ selfish to expect the same from her?<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/dating_advice TITLE: What do you think of this advice? POST: 18M here. I was telling a friend of mine how I was having trouble picking up this girl I liked, and I mentioned how it's probably because I have no confidence or charm when it comes to girls I'm attracted to. My friend then agreed by telling ...	A friend told me I should find someone who likes me for my awkwardness, but experience and almost all the dating advice I have ever heard has said that that is impossible to do.<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/dating_advice TITLE: Is this a yes? POST: Context -- I (M,19) had lunch with girl (F,19) twice. They went well. We talked nonstop. Also have drunk texted her twice (once saying that i think she's pretty and the other one is negligible) and have asked her out to a party once but she had a legitimate excus...	Girl knows I like her, is friendly with me, we've gotten lunch twice. Asked her out and she said we'll figure something out via text.<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: Me [19 M] with my best friend [19 F] of over a year, are going out on Friday together. POST: Me and this girl, we met on the first day of College and hit it off immediately, the next few weeks were a very spotaneous, awesome relationship. Eventually she broke it off. We stayed close ...	I love my Ex, I want to show her that I can be that guy in her life, should I do this? How can I do this?<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/personalfinance TITLE: 19 and trying to climb out of small debt POST: Hey all, finance is one of my weakest subjects so ive been reading books and lurking this forum for about 6 months now, learning as much as i can. Heres my story: Im 19 y/o living in NC, i was in college but due to unforseen financial...	4,500 in debt and growing, college wont release my transcript. Just got my first job but im not sure if itll pay for all my expenses in time so i can apply for another college before application deadline.<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/AskReddit TITLE: Something really weird happened to me as I was falling asleep a week ago. Paranormal, or sleep related? POST: Ok, so over the past few years I've had a few really weird things happen in my house. Just enough for me to count on both hands. No one in my family would say the house is haunte...	I was falling asleep when I felt a finger slide up my leg and jab me. Not sure if ghost or just hallucinating.<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: How do I [M 18] form relationships? POST: So I'm in my second semester at my university, but still having trouble making friends that I can hang out with on a consistent basis. It might seem like an excuse, but my room mate is an international student from Dubai, and while I have no ...	Just want some help making guy friend's, when to ask a girl out after meeting them, and how to turn something into a relationship.<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/books TITLE: Struggles with Wheel of Time POST: I'm halfway through the 5th book in the Wheel of Time series and i'm beginning to lose hope. I love the world that RJ has created and desperately want to get on with the story but it's becoming increasingly difficult due to one well known thing that RJ does...	Women in WoT are all the same bossy character, is there any hope of the plot prevailing of their repeated tantrums or should I give up?<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: How do I (M/15) get a girl (F/14) to like me? POST: So I'm interested in this freshman, and I told my friend about it and he knows her, so he gave me her number. I've talked to her a few times now, and she seems to like talking to me, (she's even smiley faced me ;)). My friend sent...	So how should I get this girl to #1 know who the fuck I am, and #2 go out with me?<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: Me [25 M] with my Ex-GF [23 F] of 9-months. She is in the process of moving out. I'm leaving town. She has keys. First post ever and could use advice please POST: 1st post ever but I need some advice and I don't know where to turn soooo Reddit! My girlfriend and I broke up two days ...	Going back back to Cali Cali for the weekend and ex has keys but her stuff may not be moved out by time I leave and could trash my place or steal my shiz yo. Advice?<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: I [21m] got a friend request by my future wife [18f] POST: This post is going to come off as crazy to a lot of people that don't understand my culture but try to follow along. I am an Indian American male and I come from a liberal family. When I was a young child, my grandfather and ...	My family owes another family and as a result I am set to marry their first daughter. I recently got a friend request from my future wife, what do I do?<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/AskDocs TITLE: Nausea when watching text scroll or POV videos POST: 22, male, 6'3", 170lbs, white, been going on a few months now, midwest USA... eyes?, no existing conditions, no medications... Hey guys, thanks for reading. In the past few months it seems I've noticed I start getting dizzy or nauseo...	get dizzy, nauseous, or overwhelmed feeling when trying to focus/read scrolling text or fast paced POV videos. <\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/legaladvice TITLE: [Pennsylvania] Parents using an old joint bank account to write bad checks. I'm 5 hours away. Is driving 10 hours to remove my name my only option?... POST: When I was 18, my dad had myself and my mom open a bank account together so he could feed money into it if I needed something dur...	I need my name to be removed from an old bank account that my parents are now using to write bad checks. Am I seriously stuck on this account unless I make a 10 hour trip to cancel it?<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: [22 M] came on too strong; do I still have a chance? POST: I went on a date with a girl that I've known for quite some time about 2-3 weeks ago. The date went really well, and I stayed at her place. We messed around but no sex. We've hung out 3-4 other times and I stayed at her place...	Hitting it off really well with this girl, came on a little too strong and realized it. I have since backed off and am now wondering if I still have a chance and what I should do.<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: Me [20F] with my ex [21 M] 9months, He just broke up with me. I want him back but I don't know if I should stop trying. POST: The last months of our relationship consisted or arguing. We had a beautiful past. We were truly in love but arguing became something we would do since the ye...	He broke up with me last Thursday, and I am trying to make the relationship work but he says he doesn't know what he wants. Should I keep trying or give up?<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/AskReddit TITLE: Did I do the right thing? POST: I just recently broke up with my girlfriend of 1 year. Last night we decided to still be friends, and had a nice long talk about things I could change. Well she tells me about a guy she has started to "date" and I ask his name and how old he is. This morni...	Ex likes a possible pedofile, I tell her, she doesnt belive me. Did I do the right thing?<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/tifu TITLE: TIFU by making a lunch lady think I'm an immigrant. POST: First time posting in this sub. So this happened a few minutes ago, I'm an identical twin and I was sat with the clone in the college canteen waiting for the bus to take us home when a lunch/dinner lady who was replacing the bin liner...	Made a lunch lady believe I've immigrated to study and stay at my cousins because of how awkward the situation was when in fact I've lived in England my whole life<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/AskReddit TITLE: Reddit, I need help finding some information about professional writing/image in a corporate setting. Please help! POST: Without giving out too much information about where I work, I'm trying to get some information about professional writing/image in a corporate setting. I know the peop...	People at work can't type professionally and it's starting to bug me. Need information to help prove that this is something we really need to fix. <\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: I [17M] am in a complicated love triangle with 2 [~17F's] POST: So here's how it works. Girl 1 (1 for short) knew me since middle school. She contacted me recently and things kind of shot off. Soon I realized, we were complete polar opposites, she thinks I don't speak much, but I si...	girl 1 really likes me, feeling isn't mutual. I am much more interested in girl ones friend, who's feeling towards me are neutral.<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: My [22F] boyfriend [25M] of 6 months asked me to move in with him. POST: I've never posted here but here goes nothing. I've been dating my boyfriend for a couple months now, and I mentioned a few weekends ago that I could imagine us living together someday and asked if he could do th...	Moving in with my boyfriend in a few months, everything will be new and I'm a scaredy-pants. Advice?<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/tifu TITLE: TIFU: talking to a girl POST: Little bit of background: Winter 2013 college semester i started to fall for this girl that i meet through a mutual friend. fast forward to a week after school gets out, she goes home for the summer and i start working third shift, gotta make the money, so she br...	Ex-gf used me as a place holder, shit on my heart, hung out with me yesterday, and stuck in my head today when i could have done something with hotgurl.<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: [25]M - Girlfriend [25]F - wants me to go to bed at the same time she does. I wake up later, because I have to work later than she does (9-6). She gets upset when I don't go to bed at the same time. POST: [25]M - Girlfriend [25]F - wants me to go to bed at the same time she does. I w...	Girlfriend wants me to go to bed at same time. Our schedules are very different, sometimes just not tired. When this happens, it makes her quite angry / irritated. Seems completely irrational.<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: Me [16M] and my gf [16/F] have been dating for 4 months, and she has anxiety about me leaving. POST: I'm 16 and this is my first serious relationship, it's had it's ups and downs but for the most part I've really been enjoying myself. My gf has pretty bad anxiety. It's so bad at time...	My girlfriend is scared I'll leave her and she can't stop thinking about it. I'm going to talk with her tomorrow and I'm asking for any advice on what I could say or do<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: Should I follow him? POST: We are both in our early 20s, been dating over a year. We currently live together, and are very happy. He got a great job in a city 12 hrs away for after he finishes his master's degree. I will be finishing my master's degree around the same time. Bas...	SO got great job in another city, but I'm afraid to follow him because I don't have a job there.<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: I'm [34 F] not sure if I should go to the wedding of my best friend [29 M] POST: Before a recent meet up, my best friend informed me that my significant other and I were invited to his wedding. Things were fine until the meet up where things were mostly OK aside from one embarrassin...	Best friend invited me to wedding informally, but fiance may or may not have a problem with me or my SO. Should I still attend the wedding at this point?<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: [M21] Getting back in the dating game POST: Broke up with my ex-gf of two years a few months back, and I'm finally starting to think about dating again. Problem is, I suck at pursuing anything because I over-think how any given girl is feeling and convince myself to not be that pushy...	Should I just keep acting interested until a negative sign presents itself, or do what I have been doing, which is stop when there aren't as many positive signs happening?<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: My Long-Distance Girlfriend [19 F] just broke up with me [19 M], is it cruel for me to try my hardest to get her back? POST: For the past 7 months, my girlfriend of 18 months and I entered a long distance relationship due to her parents and her moving to the other side of Australia f...	My Gf which i love deeply broke up with me due to long distance alone and because not having me near "hurt" her. Is it cruel to fight to keep her?<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: Me [23MA] with my girlfriend [24 F] of four months, emotionally cheated. First, and last time, of backstabbing any human being like that again. POST: Plain and simple, I emotionally cheated on my ex. She went on my phone, and saw a text message of me stating "i want you" and "unhappy...	I royally screwed up, and will learn from my mistake the hard way. Sometimes, the only way to learn is the hard way.<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: Me (25F) trying to learn the boundaries of dealing with ex partners as well as form an understanding of how to be single now after so long. POST: What are the guidelines for dealing with exes? Should you use one for...'needs'? How does one even begin? It's been years since I have b...	I am trying to figure out how to function as a single person and still get my rocks off and enjoy others without it being weird.<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/AskReddit TITLE: I was poisoned by vegans. Reddit, what's your worst vacation story? POST: Several years ago, a few drinking buddies and I were driving to Virginia on vacation. After driving for nearly 16 hours, we stopped for dinner in Baltimore. I forget the name of the place, but it was this little ca...	Four rednecks mistake a vegan restaurant for a burger joint, get food poisoning by said restaurant, make an ass of themselves on interstate*<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/legaladvice TITLE: [GA/FL] Mom's joint bank account seized POST: Posting for my mom, I can get more info where needed. Mom lives in Georgia, brother lives in Florida. Long story short my mom has a joint bank account with my brother. He hasn't had access to it or has been active on it for over eight ye...	mom screwed out of $1000 in her joint bank account that the other party never used, she was never served papers or given a chance to defend herself. What can she do?<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: Me [19F] with my friend [19F], feeling smothered POST: Hi everyone, so I'm friends with this girl, I've known her since I was 11 but we've only just started speaking properly now. She's a really nice girl and I love texting her. I met up with her on the weekend and it was great but s...	How to explain that you can't/don't want to go out without hurting someone's feelings or making them angry?<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: My [25M] boyfriend and I [25F] would like to go on a trip, however my family doesn't know about my relationship. POST: So my boyfriend and I started dating early in highschool, we dated for a few years and ended up breaking up after he felt frustrated about the way my family treated ...	Dating an amazing and patient guy but I haven't told my family about him again, afraid of losing my family's love and would like some advice on being an adult.<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: My [19M] mother[late 60's F] won't stop belittling the women I date. POST: So I figured I would come to reddit to try to get help on what to say to my mother about this issue she keeps having. With multiple girls I date and whom she meets very early on, she always seems to really lov...	My mother is disrespectful and gossips about my girlfriend to me. I am looking to talk to my mother about how she is not only hurting me but being disrespectful as well to the girl i love.<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/AskReddit TITLE: Had a pretty crazy drunk encounter last night. What's the craziest most unexpected thing to happen to you while intoxicated? POST: A couple friends and I went to a pizza place called Pizan's to get some food after a friends 21st birthday party. I had a little too much to drink so I asked...	Got drunk, tried to get food, drunk manager threaten to hit me for trying to steal food, he finds out he was wrong, i get free beer.<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/AskReddit TITLE: Maintenance workers keep coming into my apartment while I'm sleeping. Should I be upset? POST: The first incident occured shortly after I moved in (Dec 7th) to my new apartment. I was notified that maintenace workers would be here Dec 14 between 9 and 4 to replace the furnace filter. We ...	maintenace workers at my apartment complex keep walking into my apartment without my permission, not sure if I should be upset<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: Me [18 M] with my Girlfriend [17 F] dumped after 3 weeks POST: Sorry if this seems petty but it's really made me lose hope for my future. This was my first ever girlfriend and we were flirting and stuff about a month before we started going out. At the start it felt great, she would ...	Got my first girlfriend after flirting for about a month, she lost interest and dumped me within 3 weeks of going out. Is this a usual thing to happen, or is it my fault?<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: How to overcome a language barrier? POST: I [28/m] am really interested in taking this girl [?/f] out from work (to clarify, we don't work for the same company, sites closing in about a month so won't even see her again after that.) but her first language is Spanish and her English i...	Me English, her Spanish, not sure she's understanding everything I say, need ideas to get a date out of her.<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/tifu TITLE: TIFU by sending a text. POST: Backstory - Was with a "lady" for many years. Produced offspring. No longer with said "lady". She cray cray. Today was going to be the day. Things have been gradually escalating between myself and my ex about kids/custody/schools/etc... I decided to hire a lawye...	sent my ex a text by accident saying she was getting served custody papers before I intended on her receiving them. Time to run and hide.<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: I (18M) confessed to my (ex) SO (17M) about a big lie i told her for six months and I'm unsure what to do. POST: Hey there, Some relevant background first: I'm 18, she's 17, we went out for approximately a year and a half before the incident. Also relevant, she has trust issues from...	Lied to SO for six months, confessed, she broke with me in a peculiar way (we should stay friends for at least a year). No idea what the best thing is to do. halp<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: [24M] A casual friend [21F] from class, sudden cold shoulder, no discernible reason...? POST: A friend of mine from a class I had over Spring semester suddenly stopped talking to me. Our friendship wasn't terribly complex and I have a girlfriend so it was entirely platonic. Texted ca...	Casual friend suddenly stopped talking to me, unfollowed me on instagram. Not sure why. Does this kind of thing happen?<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: I [30M] just started a trial separation with my wife [26F]. I could really use some advice or insight from others redditors with kids who have separated/divorced POST: A little background: my wife and I were together for 7 years and married for 5. We have a 3 year old together. Tod...	My wife and I separated today and I've been on a motherfuckin roller coaster of emotions. Is this normal? Also, would redditors recommend for or against seeing other people at this time?<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: I [F26] want to forgive an ex [M27] and let go of the anger but I'm having trouble. POST: Last year in the late summer/fall I briefly dated someone who ended up being a bad guy. The whole thing involved several ex girlfriends of his, one of whom was my professor at the time which cau...	I want to forgive an ex for my own peace of mind but I feel torn as to whether or not he deserves forgiveness. How can I make peace with this without feeling I've given him approval of his actions?<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: should I be (more) proactive about sexing up this boy? POST: Reddit, this is a throwaway because I feel pretty lame for asking this and sharing the circumstances. I'm 23, female. There's an extremely hot boy who I've hooked up with maybe 4 or 5 times since June. We don't really know ...	is it lame (can I) if I ask to hook up with the hot guy I've had a few sporadic one night stands with, even if I know he's not particularly interested in me?<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: Me [24 m] with the girl I'm dating [24F] for about a month, wants to remain monogamous sexually but still date other guys POST: So I started dating this girl (we are both 24) I've known for 3 months about a month ago and we started having sex pretty quickly and things escalated fast....	in rebound, dating girl out of serious relationship - she wants to continue dating, i want to be okay with that, i also want her to myself(eventually).<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/legaladvice TITLE: Do I have any recourse for this denied insurance claim? POST: I am in NJ and my insurance is Aetna. In December 2015 my doctor asked me to get an echo cardiogram. I made the appointment and had the service done on 12/30/15. When I called my doctors office to get the referral (prior to...	Was told I didn't need a referral by insurance. That was wrong and thus my claim denied. Doctors office wont back date a referral and now I owe way more than I can afford.<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: How do I (23F) support my friend's (28M) initial decision to stop drinking and smoking, now that he's changed his mind? POST: My fiancé and I are both friends with this really great guy. When we met him, it really seemed like everything was working out for him - he was dating this gr...	Friend says he's got a substance problem, then changes his mind. How do we help him cope with a difficult time without supporting a return to destructive coping mechanisms?<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: How do I [20 M] talk to my Great Aunt [86 F] who has alzheimer's and other memory problems? POST: I'm pretty bad at small talk to begin with and I feel really bad when I'm visiting my aunt who lives far away. She's kind of like a grandmother to me. She still has her humor, but just c...	Don't know how to act or what to say around my old aunt who can't speak her thoughts. How do I talk to her without it being awkward?<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/tifu TITLE: TIFU by snotting on my wife's nose. POST: So, this morning my schedule and my wife's schedule have overlapping time at home from work. I work nights, she doesn't have to be in until 11 am. So, I'm a little tired from working my shift, but we haven't had sex in a little while, and I'm kinda ...	Trying to put on the moves I get snot on wife's nose, try to backpedal by pointing out that semen is also basically snot.<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: Am I [20] F being too clingy? POST: I've never done this sort of thing before so it feels a bit weird. Myself [20] and my boyfriend [22] have been going out for around 9 months. I have always been a confident and self dependant, at the start of the relationship he often commented ho...	Never been an 'always at eachothers hip' couple, however I feel his efforts are diminishing and I want to make sure I'm not an annoying clingy gf before I confront.<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: [22 M] Girl I like just started ignoring and I don't know why. I'm not sure what I did or what to do. POST: So I have known this girl for a few years. We recently started hanging out more the last few weeks and both made it clear we like eachother. We were taking it slow. Had fooled ...	Been talking to a girl I really like. She ignores me out of no where and I don't know why. I'm really upset and need advice.<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/AskReddit TITLE: Need to do something meaningful! Any advice for those of us who are tired of feeling like sheep? POST: *I know there are a lot of people out there like me. After searching past submissions a bit, I thought I'd like to get a conversation started on this issue. Maybe something a bit deeper...	Does anyone have advice for people struggling with the feeling of not doing enough with their life? For people who feel like working 9-5 in an office isn't fulfilling or rewarding enough?<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: I [21M] reformated my girlfriend's [23F] computer and reinstalled Windows. She's lost her CV in the process, whose fault is this? POST: I built her computer a while ago and it's my responsibility to keep it maintained and operational. I gave it a complete clean up, inside and out, re...	Reinstalled Windows on girlfriend's PC. I tried backing up everything which was important but must have overlooked her CV somehow. Is it my fault for making a mistake or hers for not specifying/backing up her own files?<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: My [23 M] bf was really rough with me [22 F] and scared me POST: I've been with my bf for 3 years. He's a big guy (muscular) so it's happened many times where he's accidentally hurt me because he doesn't know his own strength. Not just during sex, but cuddling, picking me up, etc. ...	Bf was really really rough and scared me, not sure how to respond. I've never been in this type of situation before.<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/tifu TITLE: TIFU by talking to jamie lee curtis POST: This happened a few months back, and now that I no longer work with the company I can say this with no repercussions. I worked at a very successful restaurant here in new orleans and knowing someone who owns a transportation company he sends clients ...	I asked jamie lee curtis if she knew a friend she then asked me if i was gay and the whole restaurant found out.<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/AskReddit TITLE: Tonight, I purposely caused an accident out of rage and frustration. What the fuck is wrong with me? POST: I can't even fucking believe I just did this. I was supposed to meet a friend at this event, but he bailed at the last minute. I was already really stressed about this event for ...	I was raging and so frustrated at being ditched for an event, that I purposely caused a car accident just so I could have an excuse not to go.<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/GetMotivated TITLE: Why can't I just seem to DO anything? POST: Hey r/getmotivated. I don't know if this is the right place for this post. I've been subscribed to this subreddit for a few months now. And I've done nothing with it. I look at other people's posts, I think "wow that's really inspiring" and ...	I feel like I spend my life in bed with no motivation to do anything, though I have lots of things I wish I could do. <\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: Me [16M] and my SO [16F] broke up a week ago because we felt "iffy" about the relationship and im not sure if it was the right thing to do POST: Disclaimer: this might not be as serious as plenty of other posts here but im another soul in need of advice. So my girlfriend and I have ...	i broke up with my girlfriend of 5 months a week ago and im still not sure if i did the right thing or not by doing so seeing as i feel like garbage.<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: My boyfriend [26M] just slapped me [19F] and I'm outside sitting in the woods not sure where to go from here POST: I already know what you're going to say, break up with him. And I always thought this would be an easy decision if I was ever faced with it, but I was wrong. My boyfri...	My boyfriend slapped me and I don't really feel like I should break up with him but I know what everyone else will say.<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: I [22 F] want to help my [20 M] boyfriend feel successful POST: I started dating my boyfriend shortly before graduating college (1 year ago) and am still in town working because I found a great job. He is graduating in a few weeks and staying here for grad school, and moving in with ...	My boyfriend can't find a job and is about to start grad school and move in. He feels useless and I want to help him, but I feel just as useless, even though I make enough money to cover our living expenses.<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: Me [M21] My friend [M20] and Girl [20]; not your typical triangle POST: I want your honest opinions about how I reacted and my friend reacted in this situation. Basically, my friend "John" has been pining after this girl "Jane" who was our friend for a year. Jane hooked up with our...	I asked love interest of my friend to sleep with me after I received bipolar diagnosis. Friend wouldn't forgive me, blames me entirely, won't recognize illness. What does this mean for our friendship?<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/AskReddit TITLE: Let's hear some embarrassing stories! POST: I'll start off. In high school English class we were reviewing grammar by fixing grammatically incorrect sentences that the teacher had written on the board. This one girl that I liked went up and started correcting, and needless to say, I star...	I was caught staring at a girls ass and called out on it by the teacher, and became the laughing stock of the class.<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/self TITLE: Reddit, i'm not happy. This isn't new to me, but it's never gone on this long. POST: I pretty much range from noir to destitute these days. i'm one of those depressed gits you run into, but in my younger age i was able to sort of hide that. Things used to balance out after a few days at fi...	I'm an old emo (31), minus vampire sparkles. i don't go out much, i do have friends, but i don't hang out much with anyone either. My life isn't really enjoyable.<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: I think my boyfriend may be capable of killing me, but I'm okay with that. Am I crazy for this? POST: My [F 21] boyfriend [M 29] has always had this HUGE trust problem and also being able to love someone completely. But he has been able to open up to me and get closer to me than he h...	just curious if I'm crazy for being with someone who I know might kill me if I ever hurt them and not being bothered by it.<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: My [22 M] sister's [25 F] foreign boyfriend [23 M] cheated on her while she was home for 2 months. POST: So it's hard for me to type this without shaking with rage. My sister lived in Spain for the past 2 years or so. She got a boyfriend there, who she ended up falling in love with...	sisters foreign boyfriend came to US not telling her that he cheated on her while she was home for two months and now I am probably going to take a shit in his food.<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: I [18M] don't know if I should keep trying with my girlfriend [18F] POST: Hey all, I'm really caught at a crossing point, I've been with this girl for a little over a year and we've been on "Break" for about a month or so now. We've had issues before and differences and we decided ...	went on "break" from year relationship and now she's fucking another guy and flirting saying it could go either way and that I may loose her to a guy she finds interest in<\|endoftext\|>