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Varicious | I'd say elementalist. With their four elements that's basically 4 builds, but I'm sure there's plenty more. Plus, they can easily farm and aren't assassins. (I don't like playing sins at all.) I know they can nuke in SCs and do odd ends stuff like bonding for UW clearing.
My personal choice would be Dervish, as that's... | 5,370,161 | [
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Varicious | I can't post any at the moment, as far as Ele goes it depends where you're at, and what the monsters are weak to. I don't know Paragons well but if a hero can run Imba well then I'd use that. Sorry for the lack of info. Also, main the class and do character specific titles on one you enjoy, regardless of what it can do... | 5,370,162 | [
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Varicious | Welcome to /r/Nofap
I am a newcomer myself; and wow I now realize so much.
I'm troubled because although accepting this challenge at a short two days ago, i wokeup today with a bad erection and invited a girl over tonight. I am currently conflicted with this idea
Best of luck to you my friend. It's a long, slow battle... | 5,370,163 | [
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Varicious | I smoke buds way more, and find it harder to stop. I have smoked since 13, picking on everyday around 15.
I'm now 19.
I began pmoing around 11, rather young. pretty much everyday since, and consistently throughout my 3 year relationship (15-18). I didn't see my pmo as a problem, usually once a day, until PIED occurred... | 5,370,164 | [
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Varicious | There are plenty of benefits to Nofap. My favorites are the reset on your natural manstincts. You'll notice you actually want to go out and meet and talk to people, and that alone is really nice. some smaller mentions are less acne, way more energy, and self-control that'll make you feel proud. Its tough nonetheless.
I... | 5,370,165 | null | 17 | null |
Varicious | That's awesome dude! I also wanna ride the waves of NoFap
I really feel for you though, I find myself running into beautiful woman, and they're readily smiling at me. I'm a tall guy(6'2), but don't have the personality of 'a tall guy,' & have pretty intimidating facial features. (beard and pretty big eyebrows, 99%... | 5,370,166 | [
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Varicious | This happened to me two years ago, and again years before that.
pmo gave me PIED during most of my relationship of three years (15-18). I have been depressed and starting to touch into serious dopamine outlets; whether through *o,*, drugs, or pills. I realize I have to take a step back and have dropped dropped them all... | 5,370,167 | [
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Varicious | Hey bro you all good? Its a good thing you realized that nothing good comes from smoking and took action.
Onto your girl issue, I completely relate. You stated that having a thing for someone suppresses and distracts the urge. I met somebody who is turned off by cigs, but is the most amazing beautiful person I've met, ... | 5,370,168 | null | 17 | null |
Varicious | I used this method. I haven't smoked in 45 days as of today. I've been at a steady two tins a week since. Oftentimes I'll tease myself with a drag of an unlit, just to say no and walk away a champ. Although I didn't beat nicotine fully, I made a step toward a healthier life style. and honestly, I don't want a smoke eve... | 5,370,169 | [
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reddit_dump_Duckyjammies | You can't study to much, you are working towards your future. It's not her place to say either way or more do wth she care??
I do agree she sounds very jealous but the disrespect is not okay. Or the snide comments. These type are bullies they know the non confrontational people will let stuff slide. Someone else would ... | 8,521,984 | [
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reddit_dump_Duckyjammies | Saying to them "I have zero contact with my parents, there is a history of abuse and I'm no contact and staying that way" is all you should need to say.
They can ignore her calls once they realize what she's pulling, the demented part is a 67 year old woman calling your higher ups like you are in elementary school not... | 8,521,985 | [
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reddit_dump_Duckyjammies | There are mature, ready to settle down 24 year olds and then party it up 24 year olds. While she might fall in between, she is in a different stage in her life than you.
Age gaps aren't always a big deal but this one sounds it. You were the third wheel because you have already been through that stage of life.
While i... | 8,521,986 | null | 123 | null |
reddit_dump_Duckyjammies | Do you keep them out because of not liking them? It's your account and your choice honestly.
I dislike my husbands family (it's like a <PERSON> show) and refused any requests they sent. My husbands relationship is his with them, ours is separate. They also can not speak English so there's extra problems there but how ... | 8,521,987 | null | 21 | null |
reddit_dump_Duckyjammies | Unless he has a scholarship or grants then you are also paying for his schooling and he should be talking to you about it.
Has he even told you his plans at all like where he would like to work etc?
I'd feel the same as you, even more than deciding about children without you or schooling, I'd be annoyed he makes deci... | 8,521,988 | [
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reddit_dump_Duckyjammies | The fact you seem to believe everything will be left behind is crazy in itself. You made a HUGE decision in a major life change for you to live with an ex in a city you have never visited, think you will drive away from your past and when he starts to date it won't cause issues? - yeah can't see how this is all a ticki... | 8,521,989 | [
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reddit_dump_Duckyjammies | If this is a running theme I'm leaning to think you are doing something that is putting off all your friends. Without more info though we can't help you with that.
A previous poster was correct though if they are talking over you, ignoring you etc they are not your friends. There was a girl when I was in hs we did thi... | 8,521,990 | [
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reddit_dump_Duckyjammies | God I'm mad for you!
She needs to butt out and be told by your husband she does not get to make the rules but he seems to lack a spine.
She raised her kids and judging by how her son lacks the ability to tell his mother to respect boundaries and not encourage her shows just how well she did with that task.
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reddit_dump_Duckyjammies | I think your husband has been to nice when dealing with him and it encouraged him. Start giving very short answers and no more details. Have you ever seen this son? Have you complained to the manager? (Assuming apartments).
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reddit_dump_Duckyjammies | I'm surprised it took a bit of scrolling to see someone say this! He is the source of his problems and his sister is enabling his behavior by letting him stay.
Why is how he disrespects you both and your home ok? I'd be looking at her differently at this point.
If you feel threatened- call the cops.
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reddit_dump_Duckyjammies | Welcome to catty women. They could be jealous, they could just have nasty attitudes or any other number of stupid reasons. You can't worry on what they are saying because regardless nothing will ever be right, they proved this by them calling you a slut to a prude.
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reddit_dump_Duckyjammies | My brother use to figure out how to unlock doors and sneak out while people slept (never got out luckily due to dogs and he was noisy), so family put locks at the top of the door neither of us could reach. He figured out how to get the broom and shove the lock until it unlocked. They are seriously little ninjas lol
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reddit_dump_Duckyjammies | It sounds in some ways, yes she has been disrespectful, that you are blaming her actions but it might really be you are seeing she doesn't share your same ideals and morals.
I'm with you I'd be pissed off if she brought a stranger into my home, drugs or did a disappearing act. But being mad she isn't working on hersel... | 8,521,996 | null | 123 | null |
reddit_dump_Duckyjammies | It's kind of funny because it was my best friend who moved in, friends for ten years, we were your age and I realized the lifestyle she was living was drastically different than what I wanted. (She also was a massive slob lol) I think 21-25 is when people start choosing life paths after college.
You sound like you are... | 8,521,997 | null | 199 | null |
reddit_dump_Duckyjammies | Agreed she will get worse if she realizes you are planning to leave.
By locking you down she thinks she is going to keep control, but you are right she is stunting your growth in a lot of ways.
The horror they play non Christian music? That's bizarre, do you only watch the Disney channel? You need to know about thing... | 8,521,998 | null | 150 | null |
reddit_dump_Duckyjammies | I said that in another comment, I agree. It just isn't a foreign concept like some are making out. Unless it literally is, maybe they live in a different country than those of us who find this normal.
I also stated her sulking for a week is extreme but <PERSON> posted he has had issues like this before with her and und... | 8,521,999 | null | 135 | null |
reddit_dump_Duckyjammies | It sounds like he is bringing girls to your bfs place like your bf is single so girls for both to hook up with. I'm not saying that was your bfs plan or thought, I think his friend is making an uncomfortable situation.
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reddit_dump_Duckyjammies | It's okay to cut toxic family members out of your life or to set strict boundaries. She sounds abusive like someone else said. If you don't want to totally cut her off you could set boundaries.
Even if you don't tell her these boundaries, say see her for dinner every two months or something, if she starts berating you... | 8,522,001 | null | 150 | null |
reddit_dump_Duckyjammies | This! Also I worked in daycare, how many kids are in his class? If a big class (more than 6) there should be a teachers aid in with them. Either way how she informed you is NOT ok or professional and if one of us did that it would be an issue. Never mind that, it shamed your kiddo for something that is normal for his a... | 8,522,002 | null | 51 | null |
reddit_dump_Duckyjammies | Yes two family members. One is still dealing with it at four, the other has out grown it. Your families reaction is way out there, why would you punish him? For pooping on the floor yes, but not beating him. Your kiddo needs to get over the fear of the pain, not be punished for something that he was embarrassed by (hid... | 8,522,003 | [
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reddit_dump_Duckyjammies | 1 - you asked, don't ask if you don't truly want to know.
2 - Jesus she's probably sick of being hounded by something so stupid so is lying because she's not going to win either way.
3 - get therapy for your severe insecurity.
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reddit_dump_Duckyjammies | If he had been there before, which it sounds like a place teens would go at times, wouldn't his scent he around the property anyway? I doubt him yelling for help would be heard, even so as sad as it is look how many people just don't want to get involved. If it's a known abandoned spots and teens end up there, do ya re... | 8,522,005 | null | 118 | null |
reddit_dump_Duckyjammies | Not about breastfeeding but your comment about acknowledging babies until a certain point. That's something that happened often and not as far off as a lot of people who know about it, would like to believe.
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reddit_dump_Duckyjammies | I'm wondering if he has issues of his own that you remind him of. Your OCD, maybe he fears hurting woman or something.
What I wanted to comment on though is I also have OCD, congrats on getting it under control. It will be a struggle unfortunately but the fact you got it controlled in a year shows you have the ability... | 8,522,007 | null | 21 | null |
reddit_dump_Duckyjammies | All stuff about open relationships aside, you hit the comfortable stage which is why a lot of people do break up. I think you were right with the "grass is greener" comment.
I've been with my husband six years also, it's different because there are no longer "first times" or that excited lust spark because you know ea... | 8,522,008 | [
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reddit_dump_Duckyjammies | How much time did you spend with him when meeting? I think part of your insecurities is you really don't know him. It's really shitty he isn't offering you a place to stay, my husband and I were long distance and he always let me stay with him. While it's new to you, you also are paying airfare that's expensive.
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reddit_dump_Duckyjammies | Honestly I'd be mad at my wife if I was you. It's her job to deal with her family and setting boundaries. I see no reason for you to be around them, not only are they horrible and disrespectful they never made an attempt.
She should have long ago set boundaries and if she wanted a relationship with them than make it c... | 8,522,010 | null | 135 | null |
reddit_dump_Duckyjammies | Two thoughts here, either you love her and just aren't the romantic type or you are very indifferent on being with her.
If it's the first she is wanting you to say sweet things it reassures her you love her and want to be with her. But the more I read your responses I think you couldn't care less on being with her whi... | 8,522,011 | [
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reddit_dump_Duckyjammies | Question, would you have married him or been with him if not for your child?
You two sound horribly matched honestly and the physical violence is extremely upsetting and worrisome. You also don't want your child to grow up finding that acceptable.
While you can not rely on him being your only source of interaction, i... | 8,522,012 | [
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reddit_dump_Duckyjammies | Gah I'd have told you not to let friends move in without an end date if known before hand. I made that mistake and it was hell getting the mooch out!
You had warning of his character sadly, he kept getting degrees to avoid working so giving him an opportunity to live free with no end date was the worst thing you could... | 8,522,013 | null | 48 | null |
reddit_dump_Duckyjammies | Regardless of what could be or what happens with this guy, why are you willing (and did you) accept being second place?
She is in love with this guy but can't have him so settled for you. You accept that (!!!) and then suddenly he changes his mind and she drops you like a hot potato.
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reddit_dump_Duckyjammies | Your friend is catty. I'm 5'10 and was never embarrassed by my height. I've had catty girls comment on my height to me cause guys did like I was tall (btw I'm the same height as my husband and I wear heels etc, so that comment was stupid.)
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reddit_dump_Duckyjammies | I believe it's a way for anyone about to make uncalled for advances, to test out your reaction.
I had a guy grab my ass on the train and when I screamed "don't touch me" everyone stared and he slunk away. But those type count on the people to embarrassed or to nice to make a scene. So make a scene, screw what stranger... | 8,522,016 | [
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reddit_dump_Duckyjammies | Was about to say all of this. Why was he so focused on his ex anyway after that time should have been questioned. But once you break up, if, he will do all this to you also. I'd definitely tell her to get a restraining order. Also it's extremely childish his friend is causing her problems. Even if true it wasn't his co... | 8,522,017 | [
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reddit_dump_Duckyjammies | I'm not getting the other responses personally. Even if she is friends with him, why would you want to be he betrayed your trust, why her family would want him there I find bizarre!
I don't blame you at all and personally I wouldn't go (but that could cause all kinds of problems!), but for me personally I'm of the mind... | 8,522,018 | null | 123 | null |
reddit_dump_Duckyjammies | Your bf is a jerk to be blunt. "I don't want anyone to know my business" I read as he is worried someone will recognize you. He needs to get over it, he shouldn't have asked that if he couldn't handle it, or break up.
He doesn't sound embarrassed but ashamed which should make you ask 'why is he staying', if he truly l... | 8,522,019 | null | 21 | null |
reddit_dump_Duckyjammies | I think her outlook is skewed because her parents views are! If that was my daughter I wouldn't want him in my house.
I'm not really sure how you can resolve this though. You either go and just deal, but the fact they view this as normal is strange and what else will he be invited to?
Don't go and possibly cause an is... | 8,522,020 | null | 123 | null |
reddit_dump_Duckyjammies | Your mothers family is childish as can be! So she was going to cut you out and leave you with that as your lady memory after never even discussing it with you?
Few things, you are their child not an adult in their past relationship. It is not your job to take sides. As your mother and adult she should know that.
While... | 8,522,021 | null | 150 | null |
reddit_dump_Duckyjammies | You truly sound upset she isn't spending money on you. "I'd like to take us out", paraphrasing here but you can but you said you can't afford it. So no you want her to take you out.
She is frugal, has a plan and is happy. You want her to waste money on a bigger place, meals etc when she is happy with how things are. On... | 8,522,022 | null | 123 | null |
reddit_dump_Duckyjammies | Sounds horrible but did he say that for dramatic effect or to get attention?
I personally look at it if you can lie over trivial things, what important things are you lying about? Same with a lie of omission.
I'd tell him I know you lied, why did you do it and keep it up. But I personally would be questioning everythi... | 8,522,023 | [
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reddit_dump_Duckyjammies | So what if he does want her? 'She broke up with him'.
She keeps him there like I keep my ex on mine, (my husband when dating sounded like you), he was a part of her life and the memories are there but the feelings are not. I was with my ex three years, he was a part of my life so I'm fb friends with him. Doesn't mean ... | 8,522,024 | [
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reddit_dump_Duckyjammies | Your friends sound disgusting and seem to base their decisions on "status". Tell them since they are dating "real" doctors they can afford the vet bill.
They belittled him and now because they are cheap, want a favor. I would not try to get them this favor personally, they are rude and disrespectful.
Btw he sounds li... | 8,522,025 | null | 32 | null |
reddit_dump_Duckyjammies | Your bf should be putting a stop to all of it instead of sitting there like a dummy. The fact he won't even do that with his sister is a huge red flag and this will be a constant issue in your telationship.
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reddit_dump_Duckyjammies | While he does sound like he treats you more as a roommate, a lot want that constant honeymoon phase and it is unrealistic.
Talk to him about what you want and are not happy about, warn him that if it doesn't change than this is not the relationship for you.
You do not need him to cheat to leave. It sounds like you th... | 8,522,027 | [
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reddit_dump_Duckyjammies | Effexor is the devil. I was put on it to see if it would help my fibro and it made me worse in so many ways!
Is he tapering off? How long has he been on it? Do NOT give him those meds it makes the withdrawal worse! Mine had me twitching and up walking circles when I made the dumb mistake of trying zzzquil. There isn't... | 8,522,028 | [
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reddit_dump_Duckyjammies | Your relationship isn't healthy sounding at all. Also saying I love you 20 times a day sounds needy, also not healthy.
It seems you are supportive of her but not the other way around, you are just there to serve her needs. I wouldn't limit myself by making decisions based on her neediness. Be faithful, communicate but ... | 8,522,029 | null | 123 | null |
reddit_dump_Duckyjammies | Pancreatic cancer is a horrible thing to watch destroy someone. My aunt died of it and she was literally a skeletal shell by the end. It usually isn't found until stage four and the patient usually dies in a matter of months.
Frankly your post is very narcissistic and not everything is about you. He is losing his moth... | 8,522,030 | [
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reddit_dump_Duckyjammies | So how I see it:
1- was committed to you.
2- got to where his ex lived but didn't want to cheat and to avoid guilt he asks if you can have an open relationship, so if the spark with the ex isn't there he still has you as back up.
3- sleeps with ex and no spark!
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reddit_dump_Duckyjammies | Panic attacks are horrible, I have them too. Just remember usually it's crap we make up in our heads that aren't logical (easier said than done.)
I'm not trying to be harsh I'm trying to prepare you I guess is the word, he will be distracted or sad for a while. It sucks because there's nothing anyone can do.
I needed... | 8,522,032 | null | 199 | null |
reddit_dump_Duckyjammies | All you can do is tell him you are there for him. Where is his mother in her cancer? Is she aware or has she hit the point they are keeping her drugged up? Does he have siblings? Where's his dad? It IS a hard slope for you in the sense you don't want him to think you don't care but you don't want to smother.
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reddit_dump_Duckyjammies | I am both an artist and photographer, this is really close to the "selling out" line of thinking some people have.
I, unless commissioned with freedom, make my personal work more creative than that which is stock or commissioned. Everything is technically fine but I take more risks with my personal art unless requeste... | 8,522,034 | [
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reddit_dump_Duckyjammies | I wish everyone had this mentality. I look younger than I am and think it contributes to this, but I get snubbed by the older birders when out in locations where we all end up meeting up.
A few of the birders who were not apparently raised by wolves have commented they are like that to a lot of 'young' people. It's ru... | 8,522,035 | [
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reddit_dump_Duckyjammies | Nope, just me. I've been snubbed on someone helping me out but then they get all flustered when they realize I know where some things are.
Example a woman was talking about a northern harrier, I asked if she could point me in the right direction and the attitude she gave me and refusal reminded me of a kindergarten ki... | 8,522,036 | [
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reddit_dump_Duckyjammies | I've been entering abandoned asylums/homes etc for over sixteen years now and I see it differently. This was two blocks away from his home, if he was exploring this place he most likely would have before its right there. (I traveled out of state often for asylums especially but before my state, Massachusetts, turned mo... | 8,521,981 | [
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reddit_dump_Duckyjammies | It sucks, I've been through the suddenly being responsible for someone else's child (I love him but when you suddenly have a teenager and it wasn't your way of life before it can get resentful/stressful) and health/accident wise.
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reddit_dump_Duckyjammies | Doesn't matter what the object is, she's just inviting herself to your items and that needs to be addressed. This isn't even she took her bfs socks but his roommates? That's a lack of boundaries.
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reddit_dump_laurenellemartin | First few weeks all walks were just sniff sessions. He would spend a good 5 minutes on 1 plant sniffing every part of every leaf.
Once he had discovered the world a bit we took him to training sessions, we use ‘this way’ a lot.
He is a super puller so the MOMENT the leash tightens, we change direction. Getting to the ... | 9,812,512 | null | 239 | null |
reddit_dump_laurenellemartin | Our vet said to us that while he grows, basically just let him eat whatever he wants. Once his growing starts to settle and he starts to stock out, then start to portion it out. We have always fed our boy more than the recommended amount and he is the perfect weight as he is super active.
You know your dog, and if he ... | 9,812,513 | null | 239 | null |
reddit_dump_laurenellemartin | It’s so sad when your dog just wants to play! We have the same issue! He is such a happy boy and wants to interact with EVERY dog.
When he was younger and we were training and a dog approached, or the owner didnt want interaction, we would literally walk in the opposite direction. I would keep a firm grip on the lead ... | 9,812,514 | null | 35 | null |
reddit_dump_laurenellemartin | My boy is almost 8 months, I actually posted a normal daily routine in here this evening but I’ll try to be brief and add timings!
08.15 - Wake up and let out of crate. Immediate pee in the garden and some energetic good morning cuddles for 10 mins/ half hour.
09.45 - Chews a bone and generally mooches around whilst p... | 9,812,515 | null | 45 | null |
reddit_dump_laurenellemartin | Ignore it and act totally normal. My fiancé noticed that whenever our boy experienced a new sound he would look at me immediately to see if I was worried or was about to comfort him, which would feed into his narrative of ‘scary sound’.
If he’s worried about something I keep a cheery tone and encourage playtime! Big lo... | 9,812,516 | null | 45 | null |
reddit_dump_laurenellemartin | Just like our boy, he was scared for a long while of the car.
3 things helped us:
1) We transitioned slowly (and I mean SLOWLT) from my lap, to back seat, to the boot with the back seat down so he could see us, to being in the boot.
2) We put his old bedding in the boot. This made a HUGE difference. He loves it.
3) M... | 9,812,517 | null | 239 | null |
reddit_dump_laurenellemartin | Honestly that sounds about right, at his age he will sleep between 6-10 hours at night time (4,5,6am all put him in this bracket) and they nap a LOT during the day. As he gets a bit older he will start to naturally sleep a bit longer at nighttime instead of the spontaneous puppy ‘cat naps’.
Short whines are ok to wait ... | 9,812,507 | null | 239 | null |
reddit_dump_laurenellemartin | This was a difficult decision, but you put the puppies welfare before your want for a puppy.
Thank you for not just abandoning him.
You’re a responsible person, and when the time is right I’m sure you will make a great dog owner.
Owning a dog is more than just wanting a pet, it takes time and commitment. You did the... | 9,812,508 | null | 6 | null |
reddit_dump_laurenellemartin | Our boy was a total diva with his food. We tried the food his breeder gave. Kept it dry, got it wet, mixed it with yoghurt, added chicken. Everything worked for a week or so and then complete disinterest.
We moved him to boiled rice and boiled chicken breast as his main meals whilst we trialed different foods so his s... | 9,812,509 | null | 239 | null |
reddit_dump_laurenellemartin | LOL the puppy is definitely hearing him and wants him to come comfort him. He will grow out if it, it’s just all new sounds still... still, don’t be scared to comfort him a bit. Lots of people say ‘ignore ignore ignore’ but if I started to feel like he was *crying* and not just whining, I would go to him, pick him up a... | 9,812,510 | null | 239 | null |
reddit_dump_laurenellemartin | Same for us. I feed and train my boy and he’s a snuggle monster. My fiancé however is seen more as his playmate so gets his feet nipped at and tug of war toys bought to him always. Snuggles and settling aren’t the only signs of affection.
My boy barely cuddles my partner, but when he comes in from work the dogs butt n... | 9,812,511 | null | 35 | null |
undogooder | He is a treasure trove of touring information. Heck, I just looked at a post with a jpeg of all the stuff two people were sending home because the just didn't need it...including two ulocks! I was gonna bring a ulock, then I bought the blueprint and the only thing I felt I didn't need on the trip was a padlock and extr... | 6,164,800 | [
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undogooder | I biked the southern tier a few years ago & never worried about bears. I am on the Transam right now, so that is a different story. If you want to take precautions though, yes, take rope and tie to a tree branch. There are many ways to do this and a simple google search will give you ideas of how. Always make sure ... | 6,164,801 | [
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undogooder | Sweet! I have a ['99 Specialized Hardrock FS]( [URL] that I got on Craigslist for $100! A hate flat bars so, first thing I did was change the bar, got some '80s style 10speed foam grips and kept the grip shifts on the drops. I'll upload a pic soon. The only thing original still left on the frame is the seat post! In to... | 6,164,802 | [
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undogooder | As far as upgrading components: the bike had Altus & was lucky to find someone on Craigslist with a square taper Deore LX crank with 172.5 arms & deore front & rear derailleur amongst other parts cheap. I did up it to a 9 speed cassette. I got some ultegra bar ends & [MKS Touring pedals]( [URL] with [po... | 6,164,803 | [
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undogooder | I have a [Botrager Backrack Deluxe]( [URL] & was the best rack for the price imo. I won't even comment on my front rack/s (2 separate pieces) cuz it sucks & need to replace it. I LOVE my [Brooks Flyer Pre-aged]( [URL] The pre-aged has a lot less "break in" time and needs no proofide for a long time, if ever. Th... | 6,164,804 | [
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undogooder | As a Clydesdale over 300lbs/21 stone, you don't need front suspension. It's just more added weight. There are lots of question that come into play as far as comfort goes, seeing as you will be in the saddle for hours on end. A comfy saddle is one of the most important things. Do you like drop bars or straight? Go to yo... | 6,164,805 | [
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undogooder | Good for you! I hope many read this & something "clicks". Life is what you make of it & while a lot of people have a death grip on their "security blanket" I think many are taking steps to find themselves & their true place in life. I myself have done two bike tours, purposefully going until broke just to h... | 6,164,806 | [
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undogooder | I have [this]( [URL] and have looked up & memorized how to filter water from nearby rivers in military survive guides. Always check for any contamination upstream from you. Hell, one time I was out of water & finally came across the first house I had seen in over ten miles & nothing in the direction I was g... | 6,164,807 | [
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undogooder | I would like to put my two cents in. I was on a 1/2 cross country bicycle tour from WI to CA. I spent 5 days here & was hooked! I came from a city of 70,000 & I get the same feeling here as far as size. I come from middle class/low income so I connect with poor better than rich. I have been homeless buy CHOICE,... | 6,164,808 | [
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undogooder | I get ya bro. Unfortunately everyone is so comfortable, that if the shit hit the fan they would be fucked; and you should be too. So, to try and appeal to the domestic beast: I am a sporadic person and sometimes, on my days off, I like to get on my bike and go for an adventure. I am also a procrastinator. If I have a b... | 6,164,809 | null | 250 | null |
undogooder | I always have a cable lock. At night I run it through my bike and around a tent pole. That way even if someone cuts the cable it will shake the tent & alert me. No lock is safe, just a deterrent. When I stop anywhere, I ask if I can bring the bike in. 9/10 times they are glad to help. You are a paying customer. The... | 6,164,810 | [
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undogooder | I rode on it from Topeka KS to Pueblo CO starting back in June. I stayed at the LBS in Newton KS(highly recommended) just as the Trans Am racers were coming through. They HIGHLY advised against riding on hwy 96, saying there was barely any safe shoulder, fast drivers & constant semi traffic along with too few stops... | 6,164,811 | [
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undogooder | No riser here. The LHT fork I bought had 380mm of length on it, so no need. My buddy bought a stem riser for his back problems & is very happy with it! You also have a great point about sitting more upright relating to awareness of your surroundings. I love being able to sit almost fully upright to get a better van... | 6,164,812 | [
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undogooder | My first road bike was a [2011]([URL] Defy 1! She was beautiful. Iirc, that was the first year of trickle down tech from Ultegra/Dura Ace & the first year 105 break cables were routed under the grip tape. [This]([URL] is the only pic I still have of her. Being 250lbs. I was surprised how well the radial spokes &... | 6,164,813 | [
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undogooder | When I was in high school(mid 90's), I had this happen to me while playing hacky sack. Freaked me the fuck out! I also popped back into place by straightening my leg, not knowing what else to do. After that, I could no longer sit "Indian Style" and had to switch legs in order to keep playing hacky sack. Fast forward 20... | 6,164,814 | [
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miatatony | This is a great series to watch to learn about the general process, there are others on the sidebar such as <PERSON> videos that will have more technical information about gun setup.
[URL]
If I were you though, I would sell the car, or just drive it as is. It just isn't worth the effort, and if you try to repaint it t... | 3,523,456 | [
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miatatony | I would probably do isolation exercises like chest flys, tricep pulldowns, bicep curls, basically all the smaller muscles that don't get burned out from compound movements in SS. If strength is your only goal then you would probably just be better off only doing SS really heavy and hard 3x a week, but if aesthetics is ... | 3,523,457 | [
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miatatony | I recently got an Xbox controller for my PC and I found it way too slippery since I have sweaty hands. I masked off the controller and sprayed about 3-4 wet coats of plastidip. At first it felt really tacky and almost sticky, but after playing with it for an hour or so it feels absolutely perfect now. It's way cheaper ... | 3,523,458 | [
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miatatony | it's actually pretty hard to pick off accidentally. I've used it for about a week now and no signed of any edges peeling or lifting.
When I purposely peeled the bottom section off I had to really pick at it to create an edge, and even then it takes a decent amount of force to pull on it, sort of like peeling very stro... | 3,523,459 | [
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miatatony | Definitely try a stronger compound, like Meguiars M105 compound, because the Ultimate compound is fairly mild especially for wet sanding marks. Also based on your pictures, there are still a ton of high spots, I would say spend more time sanding methodically and evenly and going finer than 2000 grit. Spend even more ti... | 3,523,460 | [
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miatatony | If you use collinite 845 properly (google or wiki it), it is VERY easy to apply, even more so that the over the counter products like meguiars which are inherently made to be user friendly. Not only will it bead up water better than nufinish and last longer, it will add a ridiculous slickness to the paint. ~$20 availab... | 3,523,461 | [
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miatatony | I just powerwashed and took about 4-5 seconds off my boot to fully load reddit time. I don't know exactly when it started but recently when I enter my password the screen would just go black for about 5-6 seconds, then open into the desktop. After powerwash it's back to normal and immediately goes into the desktop with... | 3,523,462 | [
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miatatony | I'm actually researching my own first build right now and mine looks almost exactly the same as yours, same cpu/mobo/case/psu, but with 240gb sandisk SSD from amazon for $70. I've been using the SSD on my current computer and i would say it is totally worth it, especially the 240gb since it's enough to have a few of yo... | 3,523,463 | [
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miatatony | My philosophy is it's all about the carb/side dish, a tasty side dish will keep you from getting sick of it when cooking in bulk. I love mashed potatoes cuz they taste good, they're easy to make in bulk, and are pretty cheap. Any mashed potato recipe u find online will do.
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