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SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: I (f/22) have to figure out if I want to still know these girls or not and would hate to sound insulting
POST: Not sure if this belongs here but it's worth a try.
Backstory:
When I (f/22) went through my first real breakup 2 years ago because he needed space after a year of dating ro... | OP wants to cut contact with ex's friends on Facebook as it brings back bad memories. Worried about insulting them and causing awkwardness. Seeks advice. |
SUBREDDIT: r/loseit
TITLE: SV & NSV! Keeping on keeping on.
POST: 30F, 5'6". SW: 236 GW: 150 CW: 219
I weigh myself weekly and measure myself monthly. I'd hit a plateau the last four weeks or so where I was stuck at 222. Felt like kind of a bummer, but knew it's because I haven't been as strict as I should with my die... | Woman hits weight loss plateau, but doesn't give up and is rewarded with a 8 inch total-body loss and being the lightest and smallest she's been since high school. |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: Me [19F] with my friend [19M] 10 months, Insecurities - Show or Tell?
POST: What are your stories about insecurities you've had in past relationships? How have you dealt with them, particularly the ones that you can't hide?
I'm not currently in a relationship, but recently I've realiz... | A woman is considering asking out someone she likes, but is hesitant because of her body image insecurities, specifically scars from long-term acne. She wonders how to handle it with a potential partner. |
SUBREDDIT: r/personalfinance
TITLE: Prioritize student debt or saving for down payment?
POST: I have $25k in student debt. One private loan at 9.5% (highest priority obviously) and nine others federal between 3.4% and 6.8%. Minimum payment per month total is $301.16. Over the next 9 months, I will pay off $11k of these... | Should I prioritize paying off $14k student debt (all <5%) or saving for a $300k house down payment with $5200/mo income? Advice needed. |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: My[25m] girlfriend [24f] is only nice and pleasant when I'm aloof and distant. (9 months)
POST: Throwaway
I noticed the more I'm cold and distant towards my girlfriend, the more pleasant she becomes. She'll come over and clean my apartment, do laundry, dishes and cook for me, even as ... | Man realizes his girlfriend is only nice when he's distant and cold, but becomes mean and picky when he's kind. He's unsure of how to proceed. |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: Me 28 F with guy I'm dating 30 M - 1 month, Is it okay to ask if everything is okay or am I being pushy?
POST: I have been dating this guy for 1 month now and everything was great until last Sunday when I noticed he wasn't responding to my text with the same flirty, cute, enthusiastic ... | OP is worried about her new boyfriend's sudden change in behavior, but is unsure if asking if everything is okay is too pushy. |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: Is it weird that this turned me off from my gf?
POST: The other day my girlfriend(23 years old) and myself(22 years old) were talking and she revealed to me that she almost didn't date me because I was too short (5'7"-5'8"). She is only about 5'5". Now she loves me a lot and thinks I... | Girlfriend revealed she almost didn't date him because of his height, now he's turned off and considering breaking up due to her shallow view. |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: I (27/F) am obnoxiously paranoid after a gynecological health scare. How do I explain my ridiculous hormonal-ness to my boyfriend (32/M)? (X-posted to /r/AskWomen)
POST: Last month, I started getting really hormonal and feeling downright crazy (becoming paranoid about my awesome boyfri... | Woman is paranoid and emotional after gynecological health scare. Wants to explain her behavior to boyfriend without sounding irrational. |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: Advice givers of this subreddit please help me (18m) out. Please and thank you:)
POST: So recently I listened to the song Feel Again by OneRepublic. GREAT SONG. But it got me thinking: "is my heart numb? Am I a lonely soul?" All my friends tell me I am basically Ted Mosby (for those of... | OP is feeling numb about love and has never been in a relationship. Has a few girl friends but can't choose. Asks for advice before college. |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: Me [20/F] having trouble with boyfriend [23/m] of 2.5 years sex drive
POST: My boyfriend and I have an amazing sex life. We are very sexually compatible.
Although, his sex drive is crazy high compared to mine. It really depends on the time of month for me [hormones], sometimes I'll be... | Girlfriend has lower sex drive than boyfriend, causing tension. She wants advice on how to approach his needs without him feeling rejected. |
SUBREDDIT: r/offmychest
TITLE: I'm just really tired right now...
POST: I just discovered this subreddit and I am glad I did because I am about to be at the breaking point.
I am about to move out of my house with my boyfriend and into an apartment in about a week. I've been extremely stressed out. I am losing sleep abo... | OP is stressed about moving out with boyfriend due to financial concerns and fear of the unknown. Friends advise against it, but abusive home life makes it necessary. Boyfriend doesn't seem worried. |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationship_advice
TITLE: How to deal with questioning everything?
POST: 23/f here and SO is 26/m. Together for 1.5 yrs and living together for 5 months.
My sister just recently got married and I can't tell if the thoughts I am having are because I'm imaging their relationship to be something it isn't or... | OP is questioning her LTR after seeing her sister's seemingly perfect marriage. Boyfriend has flaws but is loving and supportive. OP is unsure what to do. |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: Me [ 20/F] with my bf [ 20/M] of 3 years. I've found myself attracted to someone else. Need advice on how to overcome.
POST: So I have been in what I consider a serious relationship for a few years now. Like any relationship we've had our ups and downs, but things have been great these... | OP is in a serious relationship but attracted to her supervisor. Feels guilty and unsure how to handle it since they work together. Seeks advice. |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: Me [21M] with my GF [19F] of 2,5 years. She wants to pay me for helping her with her accounting studies, but I don't want her to
POST: Hello fellow redditors,
we've been together for 2,5 years and everything is more than perfect :)
She is sitting here with me and we will both provid... | Girlfriend wants to pay boyfriend for tutoring her in accounting, but he insists on doing it for free as a way of helping each other in their relationship. |
SUBREDDIT: r/dating_advice
TITLE: I think I'm trapped in nasty triangle and don't know how to proceed, some advice would be really appreciated.
POST: I (male, 19) met this girl at collge (19 too) a couple of months ago. At the moment I met her, nothing really special happened between us happened, we just chatted a bit ... | A guy likes a girl who is friends with his friend who also likes her. He suspects she likes another friend. Seeking advice on how to proceed without hurting anyone. |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: I [M20] met a girl [F20] who i really like while backpacking europe and i dont know what to do.
POST: I met her initially in berlin, where I only got to spend a day with her. I instantly knew there was something between us, I didnt know what but we just clicked strait away. I would hav... | Guy meets girl backpacking in Europe, clicks instantly, shares common interests, shares a bed. Meeting up again soon and can't stop thinking about her. Unsure how to express feelings. |
SUBREDDIT: r/dogs
TITLE: [HELP] Not sure how to deal with new people/dogs and my big ole pup
POST: I have a three year old Dober/Pit mix named Romulus ("Rome" for short). He's about 105lbs and for the most part a good guy. I live with 3 other dogs: a 10 year old labrador, a 2 year old French Bulldog and a 8 year old ma... | Owner of a 105lb Dober/Pit mix seeks advice on introducing him to new people and dogs, and how to handle a 4th of July party with multiple dogs. |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: I [16 M] think one of my friends [17 F] is self-harming. What should I do?
POST: I was talking to two of my friends at school yesterday - we'll call them Mary and Emma. Emma is a good friend of mine and one of Mary's best friends. Mary and I aren't particularly close, but we still talk... | 16-year-old thinks friend is self-harming, but they're not close. Wants to help but doesn't know how without making friend uncomfortable. Seeks advice. |
SUBREDDIT: r/legaladvice
TITLE: [GA] My ex is in possession of illegal pictures of me and won't delete them
POST: I originally posted in /r/relationships, but I was told to also post here.
So, I'm 16/F, and I was dating my ex for two years (I was 14 when he was 17, now I'm 16 and he's 19). During that time he was ver... | 16/F sent explicit photos to abusive ex-boyfriend, now 19, who won't delete them. Asks for legal advice and fears repercussions. |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: My (F27) ex-FWB (M26) lied about being single; he's married. Need help with rational response.
POST: I used the reddit search function and couldn't find this question.
We met 6 years ago, FWB off and on for about 3 years. We live (now) in different states. We'd travel periodically to... | Woman discovers her ex-FWB has been lying about being single for 3 years and is actually married. Asks for advice on how to confront him. |
SUBREDDIT: r/AskReddit
TITLE: Has anyone ever gone batshit crazy before, and how did you patch your life back after that?
POST: *First time posting on Reddit. Been lurking for awhile and thought this a much merry place to be.*
For context, I have been suffering from depression for the last few years. And as a reaction... | OP suffered from depression and lashed out at friends during "batshit crazy" period. Moved away from negative influences, got proper diagnosis and meds, and got a job. Seeking advice on rebuilding life. |
SUBREDDIT: r/legaladvice
TITLE: Contacting my biological father, who doesnt know I exist because of falsified DNA test [Washington]
POST: I'm going to try to keep this short so it doesn't drag long into a soap opera.
When my Mom [22 F at the time] got pregnant with her boyfriend at the time [24 M], aka my Dad, she dec... | Woman discovers her biological father through investigation, but her DNA test as a baby was falsified. Her mother fears charges if she contacts him. She seeks advice. |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: I [19M] have been talking to/seeing [18F] friend for about 3 months and have no idea what I'm doing.
POST: So basically I met a girl in the beginning of the semester during our orientation week. She caught my eye the first day and we ended up talking on a bus ride somewhere and clicke... | A guy has been seeing a girl for 3 months and wants to know if they are together, but he has never been in a relationship before. |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: I [23F] continually feel unwelcome around my boyfriend's [22M] Dad's side of the family.
POST: So my boyfriend and I have been together for a little over 2 years, and for the first 2, things were pretty great. I felt welcomed and loved by everyone in his families (his parents are divor... | Girlfriend feels unwelcome around boyfriend's dad's side of the family, despite trying to be friendly. Not sure how to proceed or win them over. |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: I [28 F] just confronted my Borderline mother [54 F] about all the things she has done to ruin my life up until now...
POST: I had been advised by my psychologist not to contact her due to the negative effect she was having on my personal life and mental health (I myself have problems ... | OP confronts Borderline mother about emotional abuse and neglect, but struggles with feelings of guilt afterwards. Seeks advice from others with similar experiences. |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: [Update] I [17 M] am crazy about this this girl [17 F] and need advice on how to proceed.
POST: My previous post can be seen here:
We have remained in touch since I originally posted this. She has since broken up with this guy [17/18 M] from Alberta, apparently due to what I understa... | A 17-year-old boy has reconnected with a girl he likes who has recently left an abusive relationship. They bonded over their shared experiences with depression. He's wondering how long he should wait to ask her out. |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: I [28m] am afraid to commit to a girl [26f] I really like because of my lack of relationship/dating experience. And the fact that she is ugly.
POST: I have been dating this girl for a few months now and I'm in a little bit of a dilemma. At first I did not really see this as anything lo... | Man afraid to commit to "ugly" girlfriend despite growing feelings and potential for long-term future. Worried he'll regret lack of dating experience. Seeking solutions. |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: How to convince my very conscious parents to allow me to go on a trip with my best friend
POST: My best friend asked me to go to Montreal with her this summer for a few days, but my parents are pretty strict. My whole life, my parents have most of the time said no to me hanging out wit... | OP wants to go on a trip to Montreal with her friend, but her strict Indian parents are hesitant. She needs advice on how to convince them. |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: My [23M] GF [22F] is a bit too active on my Instagram for my comfort level.
POST: We've been together a few months now and things are going swell. We're some 150 miles apart (she works, I'm in grad school). We see each other every or every other weekend depending on how busy we are and... | Guy's girlfriend is too active on his Instagram, leaving flirtatious comments that he doesn't want certain family/friends to see. Asks for advice on how to address it. |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: Am I [25/F] in the wrong for being incredibly upset that my LDR boyfriend [32] hasn't even texted me today?
POST: He texted me last night at 1 am while he was drinking with his friends saying "Happy Valentine's Day." I thought it was sweet he was thinking of me with his friends.
He... | Girlfriend upset that LDR boyfriend hasn't texted her all day, despite texting her late on Valentine's Day. Worried about initiating too much contact. |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationship_advice
TITLE: [24/f] Is it time to ask pseudo-fwb [27/m] the "what are we" question?
POST: We first met about a year ago - no common friends of any kind - and first went out this April. I got really loose on the first date and may or may not have said that i'm not looking for anything serious.... | Woman has been casually seeing a man for a year, having sex and going on dates. Wants to know if it's time to define the relationship. |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: Me [23 F], my SO [24 M] of a year, I want to break up but I have no place to go.
POST: So I have been dating my boyfriend over a year. Let's call him Austin. I moved in with Austin's family because my parents out of state and I decided to take some time off from the college where we m... | OP wants to break up with her boyfriend but has no place to go. She has a history of depression and doesn't want to move back in with her abusive parents. |
SUBREDDIT: r/running
TITLE: Blood blisters and weird sized feet
POST: Hey runnit, I'm training for my second half marathon in October, and I've got a concern: I've developed some decent blood blisters on the middle toes of both my feet as well as a doozy on the big toe of my left foot. My right foot has normal blisters... | Runner training for half marathon has blood blisters on toes and is unsure if they should be popped. Also seeks advice on preventing blisters and dealing with misshapen feet. |
SUBREDDIT: r/tifu
TITLE: TIFU by forgetting my lube in the shower
POST: So I'm sitting in the living room with my then GF not long ago and my roommate (Carl with the slicked back hair) comes in from the bathroom to ask me where the little black bottle in the shower went. Confused, I looked back at him and told him I di... | Guy's roommate mistakes his lube for hair product, raves about how great it is. Guy plays dumb, doesn't tell roommate the truth. Awkwardness ensues. |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: My mom [53F] keeps trying to reunite me [23F] and my estranged sister [19F] and it's making me miserable.
POST: "Estranged" isn't really the right word though. We have never had a relationship of any kind. We have hated each other since the moment she was born. Not once in the past dec... | OP has never had a relationship with her sister and they have always hated each other. Mom tries to reunite them, causing stress and avoiding visits. How to convince mom to stop? |
SUBREDDIT: r/dating_advice
TITLE: Is it a date? Or just as friends? M(18) F(17)
POST: So, I've know this girl a while through other friends and she's been at gatherings I've been to. The other day at a party I finally plucked up the courage to talk to her properly (not just the usual "hi how are you" stuff) and we got... | Guy asks girl out to see a movie they both really want to see, but unsure if it's a date or just as friends. |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: F20 broken up with by M20. 2 years. First day. I can't enjoy food, I'm afraid to sleep. My heart hurts.i want to connect to others that feel this way.
POST: The future was so bright, we were going to live together. We never fought. I tried so hard to make him happy. We talked through e... | Girl (20) devastated after being broken up with by her boyfriend (20) of 2 years. Struggling to enjoy food or sleep, seeking connection with others who can relate. |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: Should me [f]irst relationship be long distance?
POST: Hi all!
Backstory: I just recently came out of my "ugly duckling with extreme social anxiety" phase I have never had a boyfriend/girlfriend (am also a "supervirgin") or many friends.I have really come out of my shell these past fe... | A 19-year-old is considering a long-distance relationship with a guy from work who lives far away, but worries about being a bad girlfriend due to her hectic schedule. |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: I [27 M] met an amazing girl [29 F], but my superficial prejudices could screw it up.
POST: I went on an online date with an amazing girl. She's smart, funny, and we just had chemistry. I've been on many online dates, and the awkward silence during certain bits of the date is just par ... | Man meets amazing girl online, but is less attracted to her naked body. He doesn't want to let superficial prejudices ruin the connection, but is conflicted. |
SUBREDDIT: r/needadvice
TITLE: Much needed advice for adopted Russian prodigy!
POST: My family adopted an 8 year old girl with disabilities who's mother was an alcoholic prostitute. She was born with Fetal Alcohol Syndrome and is missing her arms from the elbows down. My sister is now 18 years old, a senior in high sch... | Adopted 18-year-old girl with Fetal Alcohol Syndrome and missing arms wants to attend university but struggles with social skills. Seeking advice on how to help her improve. |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: I [15 F] don't want my boyfriend [16 M] to think I'm cheating on him
POST: We've been together for about a year and I've made a new male friend (lets call him John) recently. Most of my friends are guys, so my boyfriend has gotten accustomed to it as far as I know. However, I spend a l... | Girl has a new male friend she spends a lot of time with due to being his support for a serious problem. Worried boyfriend will think she's cheating. |
SUBREDDIT: r/AskReddit
TITLE: Reddit, what makes you insanely mad?
POST: Something that makes me mad happened today. I'll start by saying I respect when people can be straight up with me, i.e. if they don't like me, and they tell me, I respect that. So, what happened: A while back I assisted a friend in making a short ... | OP feels disrespected after putting in hours of work editing a friend's short film, only to be told it was all crap and not used. Asks what makes others mad. |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: Me [18M] with my girlfriend [18F] of 1 year, she currently has a boy who 'likes' her sleeping in the same room as her tonight
POST: My girlfriend spent the day with her long time friend (he has asked her out and tried to have sex with her before) which I initially had no problems with ... | Girlfriend is letting a guy who has asked her out and tried to have sex with her sleep in the same room as her. Boyfriend doesn't know what to do. |
SUBREDDIT: r/personalfinance
TITLE: Wanting to go to an out of area school for 6 months. How would you pull it off?
POST: I'm wanting to go to a very prestigious furniture making and design school. The best part is is that it is ran by a community college so the fees will not be insane.
This school would be an investm... | Poster wants to attend a prestigious furniture making school but has a full-time job and financial obligations. Considering going on per diem and finding someone to sublet their rental. Concerned about lack of income for 6 months. |
SUBREDDIT: r/AskReddit
TITLE: What are some good motorcycles for a beginner?
POST: Hey guys,
I'm in the process of getting my M1 - just passed the safety course and waiting for my paperwork to take the written test at the DMV.
That being said, I'm pumped up to buy my first bike and start endangering you all on the ro... | Newbie motorcyclist seeks advice on best first bike. Wants a standard or cruiser-type bike around 250cc for commuting, not racing. Has $2,000 budget. |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: I [21 M] was seeing a girl [21 F] a few months back, stopped meeting after a few dates but recently saw her again and I want to try it again.
POST: So I was seeing this girl a few months back and everything was going great. Then came the winter holidays and didn't really talk to her at... | Guy stopped seeing girl a few months ago but recently saw her again and wants to try again. Worried about how she'll react and if he'll lose interest again. |
SUBREDDIT: r/AskReddit
TITLE: Unmotivated At Work: The Cubicle Cliché
POST: This is me browsing reddit at work again, as most of us do. This is, and has always been common practice to all of us dweller of the cube farms. I'm the stereotypical guy who works for a big corporation that doesn't give a shit about you, in tu... | OP is stuck in a boring, unfulfilling job and wants advice on how to be more productive and motivated throughout the work day. |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: Girlfriend [22] might be hiding something and my friend is worried about me [22]. (How) should I bring this up with her?
POST: My girlfriend (A) and I have been "officially" dating for about a month now. Out of the blue, I get a call from an old friend (B) who is pretty close to her. H... | OP's friend tells them that their girlfriend is hiding something, but won't disclose what. OP wants to bring it up with the girlfriend without betraying their friend's trust. |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: My girlfriend [25F] might get a job in another city and I [26M] am thinking to follow her
POST: Hello r/relationships,
I will try to be short. My girlfriend [25F] has an interview for a job in another city, let's called it C because it is the third city in our equation. I [26M] am fro... | OP is considering following their girlfriend to a new city for her job, but it would mean starting their career over. Seeking opinions on what to do. |
SUBREDDIT: r/personalfinance
TITLE: Should we adjust our high student loan repayments while my wife stays home with the kids?
POST: My wife and I both have pretty large amounts of student loans ($72,000 for my PhD, $83,000 for her 2 Master's), which are all Federal Direct Stafford Loans. The payments on these loans to... | Couple has large student loan debt and wife is staying home with kids, considering adjusting payments to reduce monthly amount until she returns to work. Is this a good idea? |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: How do I [19F] get my boyfriend [21M] of 4 months to feel more attractive?
POST: (Throwaway account)
My boyfriend and I have been official for almost 4 months, but have been close friends for the past year (it was a pretty seamless friends -> friends with benefits -> relationship tran... | Girlfriend wants to help her attractive boyfriend feel more confident in his looks, but he doesn't see himself the way she does. Seeking advice on how to help him. |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: My [21/M] girlfriend [21/F] constantly looks through my phone while I'm asleep. Time to end it?
POST: So my girlfriend and I have been getting along great our entire relationship. My family loves her, her family loves me, and we usually got along great.
However, she always goes throug... | Girlfriend of one year constantly goes through phone, accuses of cheating over innocent conversations. Despite promises to stop, she never does. Time to end it? |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: I [17 M] don't know how to start a relationship with a girl [16 F]
POST: Well, a little context first, I've been in love/attracted plenty of times over my life, but never I've been able to be with a girl. I've been rejecter every time.
This time the girl (let's call her Caterine) I ha... | 17M wants to start a relationship with 16F he's been seeing for 6 months, but fears being rejected again. Asks for advice on how to proceed. |
SUBREDDIT: r/AskReddit
TITLE: I feel like my dad is cheating me out of a large amount of money. What do?
POST: I'm currently 17. I lived with my dad my entire life. My mom died in 2009 and I began receiving social security checks every month for about $600. In November (2010) part of our house burnt down and we got an ... | 17-year-old thinks dad is cheating him out of money from social security checks and insurance money. Dad claims he can't afford things, but spends money on luxury items. |
SUBREDDIT: r/AskReddit
TITLE: Does writing a few papers on a band make you "obsessed"?
POST: So far in my college career I have taken all of my humanities courses on the subject of music (they tend to interest me more than others). There are always research topics that we are allowed to choose. During my first semester... | College student writes multiple papers on same band for humanities courses, becomes known as expert, but denies being obsessed. Asks Reddit for opinion. |
SUBREDDIT: r/cats
TITLE: Acquired cat! Now a question..
POST: So, I just got a lovely little cat named Luna. She's about a year, a year and a half and pretty tiny. I live in an apartment located on the 5th floor of my building. My apartment doesn't have AC (I'm in NYC) and I usually like to leave the windows open for v... | New cat owner concerned about cat fitting through child bars on apartment windows and potentially falling from 5th floor. Asks whether to leave windows open or keep them shut. |
SUBREDDIT: r/tifu
TITLE: TIFU By befriending a cannibal in grade 4-5.
POST: As usual this didn't happen today, it actually happened around 10 years ago when I was in grade 4 or 5.
I was not the most popular kid in school back in the day, probably starting from around grade 2 nobody liked me and my friends. It did suck... | OP befriended a lonely, weird kid in school and got bitten on the arm when the kid revealed himself as a cannibal. |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: Me [20m] just got out of an 8 month relationship with my gf [19F]. I am very emotional, she wasnt.
POST: I am far from the stereotypical macho, no emotions, no mushy stuff guy. I love romance, I love to be cute, and express my love in various ways. She is far from the stereotypical mus... | OP is emotional and romantic, ex-gf was not. Asks if girls generally like emotional guys and being called "babe" and if guys feel their girlfriends are emotional. |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: Me [18 M] with my Girlfriend [16 F] (4 months) - I'm constantly paranoid i'm screwing up my relationship and it's having bad effects on me
POST: Let me preface this by saying I love my girlfriend very much, and most of this is probably my fault.
Alot of time whenever I'm talking to/sk... | OP is paranoid about screwing up his long distance relationship and worries about his girlfriend's reactions. Previous relationship trust issues causing him stress. Needs advice. |
SUBREDDIT: r/AskReddit
TITLE: Girl had nip slip in photo, Blamed on me.
POST: I was with friends and we were going through pictures on facebook when we came across this photo from this years prom where a girl has a nip slip. It is barely visable, but we noticed it. (I should have reported the picture for nudity, but wi... | A girl had a nip slip in a prom photo, and the person who found it got blamed for sharing it. They're not sure whether to confront the person who spread the rumor or leave it alone. |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: Pride only hurts, it never helps.
POST: Me 26 Her 28
Having a tough time on my own with this one. I'm realizing how much my pride and ego are controlling a recent incident and if they're good indicators on wether I should take my gf back or not.
My girlfriend and I have been ... | Couple breaks up, stays in contact. Reconnect before girlfriend goes on trip, promise to not sleep with anyone. Girlfriend sleeps with someone, boyfriend forgives but breaks up. |
SUBREDDIT: r/AskReddit
TITLE: confused.
POST: I am not biased towards religion nor am I biased for or against atheism. I try not judge people by their personal beliefs because I know we are all different, either through evolution or through some supreme being. It doesn't matter to me if you think that God created us, o... | OP is confused about the bias towards atheism on Reddit and wishes for a subreddit promoting universal tolerance without religious or non-religious gratification. |
SUBREDDIT: r/tifu
TITLE: TIFU by Letting my Brothers onto an Social Experiment I was Planning.
POST: Not so recently, my grandma was put into a personal care home due to a broken hip and both of her daughters just not having the time to be able to care for her as she needs to be. More recently, the pitbull that the cou... | OP names a shy pitbull pup Fluttershy as part of a social experiment to test how many bronies live in their area, but their brothers expose the connection to the My Little Pony character. |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: There is a 80% chance I (20F) can't have children, but my boyfriend (24M) will not stop bringing up wanting to have his own kids. I don't know what to do.
POST: I found out recently that I have a medical condition that makes it very difficult for me to conceive, and very, very risky fo... | Woman has medical condition making it difficult and risky to conceive, tells boyfriend she won't have kids, but he keeps bringing it up. They've talked about adoption but unsure. |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: I [24 M] ended a very new relationship with a long time friend [24 F] because we seemed to want different things out of our relationship. She seemed to agree when I brought it up to her, but now I am not sure if I did the right thing.
POST: So I had met this girl when I started this ne... | Two long-time friends started dating, but after a few weeks the girl wanted a more casual relationship than the guy. They ended it amicably, but he now worries he made a mistake. |
SUBREDDIT: r/cats
TITLE: really need your help with my cat, Never seen him act like this
POST: So my brother comes over my house a lot and he is really scared of my cat, my cat is 2 and has always been a sweet heart so I never de-clawed him but today well I was working on my computer the my brother came home I didnt ev... | Cat attacks owner's brother, causing multiple bite marks and blood loss. Owner unsure of how to handle the situation and seeks advice. |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: I [22F] love my boyfriend [24M] dearly, but I don't want to move in with him...
POST: My boyfriend and I have been together for 5 years.
Our relationship for the most part has been pretty good. We get along well in nearly every capacity - life plans, sex, etc. I'm very happy with him... | Boyfriend wants girlfriend to move in, but she doesn't want to because she values time with family and alone time. Unsure if it's a bigger issue. |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: Me [21 M] with my GF [23 F] 6 months, girlfriend talks to exes and gets mad when I talk to girls
POST: So my GF is my first sexual partner, my GF has had many.
She talks to guys from her past. She talks weekly to 2 exes, which I'm fine with, but we recently got into a big fight, becau... | GF talks to exes but gets mad when OP talks to girls. She yells "I WILL TALK TO WHO I WANT TO TALK TO!!!!!! YOU DONT DESERVE TO KNOW MY PAST!!" |
SUBREDDIT: r/Advice
TITLE: Help, i feel like my step mom is being very unfair...
POST: So, lets start off by saying im a freshman, so, yes, im young, but i still need help. Last night i was watching Netflix in bed (It was about 12) and my stepmom texted me and told me to turn it down, so i put in headphones, problem s... | Freshman wants to bypass parental controls to watch Netflix past 10pm, but is unsure if it's worth the risk of getting caught and being grounded. Seeks advice. |
SUBREDDIT: r/dogs
TITLE: [discussion] Dog very injured and I'm emotionally terrified of what might happen
POST: So my dog turned 11 two days ago, we celebrated and he was so happy. I'm 18 now and we basically grew up together and of course have become attached. Yesterday my father went for a daily walk with him and a d... | A dog was attacked by another dog and has serious injuries, causing emotional distress for the owner. Charges are being pressed against the other dog's owner. |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: My close friend [both 20F] is getting married abroad but I don't want to go. Am I being selfish?
POST: We've known each other since teenagers and been through a lot together. She recently got engaged and is planning on having her wedding in Morocco because that's where her family (and... | Friend is getting married abroad, but OP doesn't want to go due to friend's infidelity, bad experience in Morocco, racism, and financial struggles. Is it selfish? |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: I [F21] feel frustrated with my boyfriend's [M24] laziness. Am I justified?
POST: I [F21] have been with my boyfriend [M24] for 2 years, lived with him for one year. Maybe it's just because of finals, but I've been feeling increasingly stressed about life over the past few months and h... | Girlfriend frustrated with lazy boyfriend who doesn't contribute equally to expenses or housework, only wants to play video games. Feeling unappreciated and stressed. |
SUBREDDIT: r/AskReddit
TITLE: Alright Reddit, What is the worst/craziest thing you've ever done at a party?
POST: I only think it is fair I should begin.
So growing up in a small town everybody knows everybody but once in awhile we got a rare chance to go to these massive house parties out in the country. These partie... | Reddit users share their craziest party stories, including one about a guy who drunkenly peed on a furnace and caused a stink at a massive house party. |
SUBREDDIT: r/offmychest
TITLE: I just saw my ex boyfriend for the first time in a year.
POST: We had an extremely emotionally intense relationship. Together for 2 years, lived together for the second year. We didn't have a crazy break up, we were both so numb and exhausted that we just said this is it and kind of dri... | OP saw ex-boyfriend for the first time in a year, went for a walk with their new dogs, had a long hug, feels confused about wanting to try again but also knowing it's not a good idea. |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: I'm [25 M] seeing this Girl [24F] for a month, doesn't do oral..
POST: Throwaway for obvious reasons.
Now I've posted here because no, I haven't spoken to her about this and would like some advice.
Been seeing this girl, let's call her Stacey, for about a month or so. She's attractiv... | A man has been seeing a woman for a month and has gone down on her multiple times, but she hasn't reciprocated. He wants advice on how to respectfully bring it up. |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: Me[20F] and ex[24M] he got married, had a baby, but still wont leave me alone. Should I tell his wife?
POST: I was gonna use a throwaway but fuck it. About 15 months ago I started talking to a guy and we went on ONE date. The whole "relationship" lasted only 1 month. Well , he would on... | Ex from a brief relationship got married and had a baby, but won't leave OP alone and begs for sex. Should she tell his wife? |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: Me[21F] and my boyfriend of a year [21M] are starting to face a long distance relationship and I don't know how to handle it
POST: Me and my boyfriend have been friends for four years and dating for a year, the past year has been one of the best years of my life. We don't fight we comm... | Couple facing long distance relationship due to school and work schedules, unsure if they should risk it or end it to preserve what they have. Seeking advice on coping in LDRs. |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: I [25 F] think that the guy I've been seeing for a couple months [39 M] is hiding a smoking habit from me.
POST: Short backstory: I've known him for about 4.5 years, he got divorced last year, we've been seeing each other for about two months. As long as I've known him I've never seen ... | Woman suspects new boyfriend is hiding smoking habit, not sure if she should bring it up or ignore it. Hates smoking and prefers not to date smokers. |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: Me (22F) and my boyfriend (22M) of 5 years are taking a break....but we still live together in seperate rooms. This feels weird. How can we make this break work?
POST: I posted this about a week ago for anyone that wants to read a more detailed version of why we went on a break:
We h... | Couple taking a break from their 5-year relationship, but still living together until their lease ends. Seeking advice on how to make it work. |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: I *Might* be a father again. How am I supposed to handle this? [25M]
POST: I had a fling for about a month with a girl back in September. We had unprotected sex but I pulled out.... which I know isn't perfect. Yesterday, she called me and wanted to talk. Apparently she is pregnant and ... | A man had a fling while on a break with his wife, and the girl is now pregnant and claiming he's the father. He doesn't want to be a father again and is unsure what to do. |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: I [19M] want to ask my coworker [??F] out but I never get an opening. Need suggestions..
POST: I work in retail with someone who I seem to have a good chemistry with and I think she would agree if I were to ask her, but the problem is that we never have a moment where I can do that.
W... | Guy wants to ask coworker out but can't find a moment alone. Asks if it's okay to ask her in front of coworkers or pass a note. Seeks advice. |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: I (22/F) think I have feelings for (25/M). Can't tell if it's mutual (x-post from r/wemetonline)
POST: Heyooo,
So, I met this guy online on a non-dating website 6 months ago. We started talking every day, we've video chatted a few times, and we've exchanged literally thousands of mess... | OP is preparing to visit an online friend of 6 months in the UK and is starting to develop feelings. Unsure if it's mutual or platonic. Seeks advice. |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: I [28 M] suspect my Wife [29 F] of 2 years may be cheating. Need advice.
POST: My wife and I have been growing apart lately (lack of intimacy for about 3 months) and I've noticed a couple strange things that I want some unbiased opinions on.
She goes to the gym 5 days a week for a co... | Man suspects wife of cheating due to lack of intimacy and strange behavior, including GPS directions to gym and hiding text conversations. Seeks advice on what to do. |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: Me [26 M] with my ex [25 F] broke up and I feel guilty and sad since I initiated it
POST: We had been dating for about six months and things were going reasonably well. I liked her and she liked me. I'd say there wasn't a very intense passion to the relationship, but there was definite... | OP broke up with his girlfriend because he wanted more passion and physical intimacy in the relationship, but feels guilty and sad about it. No question, just seeking advice. |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: Frustrated with these people...
POST: So, here's the gist of the situation. Got a girl, who broke with a boy, decided she hated him, then got back together with said boy after about 2 weeks, when he came crawling back.
The girl and I are in a close relationship, and she tried to hide ... | Guy is frustrated with his close female friend who got back together with an ex who cheated on her and is being callous towards him. |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: My gf wants an explenation from me [Both 24]
POST: This is a fight we had 2 times before, it's hard on our relationship, and if she doesn't get an explenation that it isn't going to happen anymore it's the end. Relationship of 2,5 years.
We are 2 outgoing people, we do alot of fun thi... | Couple has fight over girlfriend's excessive drinking, with boyfriend building up resentment and threatening to end relationship. Girlfriend wants explanation for boyfriend's behavior. |
SUBREDDIT: r/AskReddit
TITLE: Isn't it a matter of faith that we are not being lied to about the outcome of a national election? Because honestly, they can claim that *anyone* won, and none of us could say a thing about it.
POST: I understand that this is the only system we have right now, but is it not correct that th... | Is the outcome of a national election a matter of faith? With no real way to verify the results, do we just have to trust the people in charge? |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: Me [24 M] with my BF [27 M]: His housemate wants me to pay rent and bills just for staying there.
POST: I don't think I'm being unreasonable by asking WTF kind of backwards thinking is this:
*I've been with my boyfriend almost 18 months.
*I stay at his house (and he ... | Boyfriend's housemate wants me to pay rent and bills for staying over most nights of the week, despite not using much electricity or resources. Frustrated and seeking advice. |
SUBREDDIT: r/BreakUps
TITLE: So I got dumped by my best friend and all I want is to talk to him about, how do I get away from this circle jerk that is us?
POST: We have been best friends for 3 years, friends is such a stupid concept when it comes to boys and girls though, at least for us. Anyways, he broke up with me b... | OP was dumped by best friend/love interest due to family disapproval. Struggling with losing best friend and wanting to talk to him. Seeking advice on moving on. |
SUBREDDIT: r/AskReddit
TITLE: I want to throw a great party, Reddit. What are some special things that I can do to make this happen?
POST: Alright, so my 19th birthday is next Friday. I live in a college town, renting a house alone for the summer, and I want to throw a great party. I have invited friends from both scho... | OP is throwing a 19th birthday party and wants ideas to make it great. Invited friends from all over, thinking of music, card games, and beer pong. Asks for advice on making sure everyone mingles and things stay under control. |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: Why do I [23f], who has an amazing family and loving friends with a good life, hate myself? And how can I get past it?
POST: So this is me... I have a loving and amazing family. I have many loving friends. I have a great social life. It is easy for me to get the guy I want. I've just r... | Despite having a great family, friends, social life, and being able to get guys easily, a 23-year-old woman hates herself and wonders if past hurts and a devastating breakup are the cause. She seeks advice on how to get past it. |
SUBREDDIT: r/offmychest
TITLE: I'm worried.
POST: I'm incredibly worried about my younger cousins; I have been for some time, but tonight it's different. Today their father killed himself. Their parents have been separated for some time, and my cousins have been living with their mom and grandma out in the country for ... | Poster is worried about their younger cousins after their father's suicide. Oldest cousin has mental health issues, younger struggles with expressing emotions. Looking for advice. |
SUBREDDIT: r/tifu
TITLE: TIFU by scaring the shit out of my friends
POST: So this happened just today. We're in highschool and me and my three friends (lets call them Bob, Steven and Tong) were eating lunch and chilling. We were making fun of Bob as we usually do and then Tong brings up the topic of the Charlie, Charli... | High schooler scares friends with Charlie, Charlie game. Blows pencil to "Yes" and friends are now scared of Charlie finding them for 3 hours. |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: I (20F) am still good friends with my ex (25M). We're both in a relationship, but last night he started trying to sext me. What should I do?
POST: We've been friends since we broke up almost 3 years ago and this is the first time he's tried anything like this. I told him that I wasn't ... | Ex-boyfriend tried to sext me while we're both in relationships. I told him it's wrong and he complimented me before going to bed. Did I handle it correctly? |
SUBREDDIT: r/Advice
TITLE: I think I suck at my job.
POST: Now I make mistakes sometimes. Usually fine detail mistakes, like a typo in an important place. Or not knowing that someone put training equipment on a truck and I dispatch it on a job. I would say I could tack up one good mistake per month working.
I just cam... | Employee feels they are not detail-oriented and makes mistakes at work, but excels in other areas. Seeks advice on what is a reasonable expectation for human error in the workplace. |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: My [30 F] boyfriend [25 M] of 14 months, we are considering moving in together in a home that I own. What's the best way to split expenses?
POST: My boyfriend and I are discussing moving in together in the fall when his lease is up. We've been together for just over a year.
We both ma... | Couple considering moving in together in a home owned by the woman. She will cover all maintenance expenses, split bills and mortgage payments with him. |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: Me[19M] pissed off with my [19F] over sickness (long term relationship)
POST: So to keep it as brief as possible I have been dating my SO for coming up 5 years now, every things been great yadayada.
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Two weeks ago I came down with viral meningitis and was administered to hospital fo... | Man is bedridden with spinal headaches for 2 weeks, girlfriend hasn't visited once, blew off plans. He wonders if he has a right to be angry. |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: Am I being ridiculous for being upset that my boyfriend [30M] would rather bring family (that he is not close to) to his graduation rather than me [28F]?
POST: Some background: Me and my boyfriend have been in a long distance relationship for almost a year. We attend different schools ... | Long-distance girlfriend upset that boyfriend didn't invite her to graduation and gave tickets to family members he isn't close to. Boyfriend hasn't explicitly said whether she can come or not. |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: My boyfriend (age 22) of 5 months can't handle how many sexual partners I (female - age 23) have had.
POST: I've been with 29 other people, and he brings it up almost every day. I've also had a threesome, which he talks about constantly. He feels like he can't please me sexually (even ... | Boyfriend can't handle number of sexual partners (29), constantly brings it up and is jealous. Threatens to break up and wants to look at Facebook messages. Red flags abound. |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: Me [22 M] and my best friend [22F] got into a relationship - I need help
POST: We have been best friends since high school, we talked about everything and everybody and always had a good time together. She was the perfect "best friend", someone who would stay with you, the rest of your... | Best friends turned couple, but he's not ready for a serious relationship. Afraid of losing her if they break up. Seeks advice on how to stay friends. |
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