[ { "input": "Hello, what would you like to talk about?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "What makes your job stressful for you?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "Do you help your clients to make it to a better financial situation?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "But you offer them a better future than what they have currently. It may not be what they wanted, but it helps them in the long run.", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "I can understand that. ", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "Is there another job that would pay you close to what you currently make?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "Is it possible to reframe how you look at your clients' dire financial situations?", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "Some people can't do what you do because they don't have the heart to give someone else bad news. The reality is though, someone needs to fill that role and you do help people", "output": "Information" }, { "input": "I've had to deal with collections before when I was in bad financial condition. The person on the other line was really helpful though. She was understanding,", "output": "Self-disclosure" }, { "input": "It may not be for you. I think you should think about the pros and cons of keeping your position. It might make things clearer for you. ", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "I wouldn't stay if it really impacts your mental health in a negative way. Still, you may need to zoom out and see the bigger picture: that you provide a needed service and you do it compassionately", "output": "Restatement or Paraphrasing" }, { "input": "No doubt, but you know in your heart what is right for you. ", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "It's no problem. I hope you can make a decision about this situation and then be at peace with it", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "Ok, take care", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "Hello how are you?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "I'm doing ok I'm glad you are good. Is it snowing by you?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "Merry Christmas!", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "How can I help you today?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "I hear you are having trouble figuring out which friends are really your friends and which ones aren't. Is that about right?", "output": "Restatement or Paraphrasing" }, { "input": "I understand that... Did something happen that makes you feel like that?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "Is this a significant other?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "Are they ignoring you?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "Are you sure they are okay? Or not away with family for the holidays?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "That's no good what do you think the problem is?", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "Do you owe someone already?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "That can get in the way of a friendship sometimes, but I try not to get ahead of myself and jump the gun. They may have lost a phone or something may have come up...", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "That very well could be... Are you working?", "output": "Reflection of feelings" }, { "input": "I see, Have you tried for unemployment?", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "I understand that. What if that is the case? You may need to talk to them and let them know how you feel about that.", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "How long has this been going on?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "I understand that, but if you want to get to a point that you feel better about it then you will have to speak to them.", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "Do you see them everyday?", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "I understand that, are you able to go over there.", "output": "Restatement or Paraphrasing" }, { "input": "Well I can see that you have put the effort in to try and keep the relationship so it sounds like the ball is in their court if they want to do the same.", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "Well that is about all that can be done and wait for them to come around...Do you have any hobbies?", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "I like to go on runs every morning. It helps to clear my mind and makes it easier to brush things off when they bother me.", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "What instrument do you play?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "It is a really good stress reliever. I played when I was younger, didn't ever get very good. Did you?", "output": "Restatement or Paraphrasing" }, { "input": "Hmm, well maybe take some more lessons, We can always strive to be better at everything we do.", "output": "Reflection of feelings" }, { "input": "Maybe take a run in order to clear your mind.", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "I'm sure they will come around.", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "That may be a good idea. Good talk", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "to them and may find out that it was never anything against you", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "I sometimes get ahead of myself and try to figure out what is going on and thinking that it was something I did. You are right too. COVID has stressed everyone out to the max.", "output": "Self-disclosure" }, { "input": "It has been a crazy year I am glad that it is almost over.", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "I'm sure it will. Is there anything else I can help you with today?", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "No problem, I hope everything works out for you and your friends. Have a great New Year!", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "Good day!", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "Hi there, how are you feeling today? ", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "Hi :) Is there anything you'd like to talk about? Something on your mind? ", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "Oh I am so sorry to hear that! Are you at least getting sick pay? If not, are you getting advice about help you might be able to access? ", "output": "Information" }, { "input": "Oh I am so sorry to hear that! Are you at least getting sick pay? If not, are you getting advice about help you might be able to access? ", "output": "Information" }, { "input": "(sorry for duplication, not sure what happened there!)", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "So you have been getting some assistance? ", "output": "Restatement or Paraphrasing" }, { "input": "I see, so you are really financially struggling at the moment? Is there anywhere else you could apply for assistance? What about a foodbank? ", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "I hear you there - I spent a long time on hold for an official matter the other day. I guess that everyone is really desperate for help and advice right now. ", "output": "Self-disclosure" }, { "input": "I hope that they can help you. My partner and I have used one before and they were very helpful. I felt a bit ashamed but there was no judgement at all. ", "output": "Self-disclosure" }, { "input": "That sounds like a very positive thing to have done. I really hope that they pay some attention to you. This situation is not your fault! ", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "Yes they are run by lovely people. Ours gave us a pamphlet for cheap and easy to make recipes too. ", "output": "Self-disclosure" }, { "input": "So, at least it sounds like you have a good handle on this and are doing everything you can to help yourself, am I right? ", "output": "Restatement or Paraphrasing" }, { "input": "That sounds very encouraging! It's amazing what you can make even with cheap food. Noodles , for instance, are very versatile :) ", "output": "Information" }, { "input": "It's a very strange situation and I suspect that some of the authorities just feel overwhelmed and have no idea how to cope. ", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "That would be incredibly immoral of him. Do you feel that he is likely to do such a thing? ", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "That is a very rational way to look at things. I really hope that it does not come to thank though! Thank you for talking and I wish you all the best for the coming months.", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "I am glad that you'd not roll over and accept ill treatment! Well done :) ", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "I am afraid I need to leave now but thank you for talking :) (can you press the quit button and take the survey?) Best wishes!", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "You too! ", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "Hi! How are you doing? ", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "I am okay thanks but it is a worrying year. Have you been worrying about anything? ", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "Ah I hear you, I have been self isolating too. Do you have an online support network? ", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "Well, friends you can talk to during this difficult time? I have a lot of friends on facebook and similar that I can talk to. ", "output": "Self-disclosure" }, { "input": "Sometimes it does just make it easier to know that other people are in the same situation as you :) ", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "Yes .. or at least share coping mechanisms perhaps? ", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "Do you have any hobbies that you can occupy yourself with right now? ", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "Could you perhaps set up Zoom meetings where you could play together online? ", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "No I don't think so :) I think that it is totally live so you could play just as you would if you were together in person. ", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "I hope it goes well for you. It has been such an awful year, hasn't it? ", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "I wish you all the very best for 2021. I hope that you get to get together with your band again and rock! ", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "Yes, all we need to do is be patient! Have a great New Year and thanks for talking. ", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "Hello, what is life like for you at the moment? ", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "I am sorry to hear that but I am happy to listen and help you if I can", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "what sort of things are you trying to decide? ", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "Well, let's try to take it one problem at a time so's not to get overwhelmed. What is your biggest problem at the moment? ", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "Ah, am I to take it that a relationship has recently ended? ", "output": "Reflection of feelings" }, { "input": "Ah I totally hear you .. the old 'we're getting divorced' line. I've been in that one! You are well out of this. ", "output": "Self-disclosure" }, { "input": "From personal experience I think that if they say they're going to get divorced and then drag their feet it is never going to happen. ", "output": "Self-disclosure" }, { "input": "Well, if you were to give him an ultimatum what do you think he would say? ", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "And he's still married? ", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "I can tell that you feel that you are being cheated here. I can't tell you what to do but don't you think you deserve better? ", "output": "Reflection of feelings" }, { "input": "It's not for me to say but I wonder if he's really going to change as he has not already. ", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "How do your children feel about this? And his? ", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "Yes, I can imagine that it is. It is always really difficult when children are involved. I know you would not want your children to be hurt ", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "I hear you. Covid has disrupted the whole world so might this year! I can't wait for it to be over. ", "output": "Self-disclosure" }, { "input": "But it will hurt them more the longer the situation goes on :( ", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "Well it surely could not be worse :)", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "(sorry was afk let me catch up)\n", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "Is it possible she is suffering from depression? ", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "It just worries me that he might treat you the same way if you were ever in the same position ", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "And how does she feel about you? ", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "I think it would be better if he were able to come to a sensible financial solution with her. This situation is damaging for everyone. ", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "I hope I have been able to have been of some help to you :) A very happy New Year to you! ", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "You just need to press quit and take the survey - it has to be done at your end :) ", "output": "Information" }, { "input": "Hi there, how are you doing? ", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "I am sorry to hear that. Would you like to talk about anything specific? ", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "So you're unemployed? I am sorry to hear that. Are you prepared to take jobs that are below your usual level just to get by for a while? ", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "It's a very difficult time to be out of work, I know. I hope that there is something out there for you. Have you tried employment agencies? ", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "Well, on the plus side at least you do have savings .. hopefully this can give you some security for a while ", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "Are your family being supportive of your situation? ", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "Perhaps bankruptcy might not be a bad option? You would be eligible for some help then at least. ", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "So you feel as though you have been working hard all your life and now you need help and support and are not getting it ", "output": "Reflection of feelings" }, { "input": "I know how you feel .. I sometimes feel I would have been better off if I'd just not bothered working! ", "output": "Self-disclosure" }, { "input": "Anyway thank you for talking and I really hope things go better for you in the future :) ", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "You're welcome :) You need to press quit first and take the survey before I can :) ", "output": "Information" }, { "input": "hello? :) ", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "Please can you quit and take the survey. I cannot do it till you do and neither of us will get paid if I have to quit.", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "Yes it's been done :) ", "output": "Information" }, { "input": "Please can you quit. I have other things to do and if I have to leave because you did not end this neither of us gets anything. It can only be ended your side. ", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "Hello, how are you feeling at the moment? ", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "I am not so bad thanks. Is there anything on your mind right now? ", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "I hear you! I do gig work online too but it can be very difficult to find any. I think a lot more people are working online due to the pandemic. ", "output": "Self-disclosure" }, { "input": "Are you struggling financially at the moment, then? ", "output": "Restatement or Paraphrasing" }, { "input": "I have not but I appreciate the recommendation! I think that we all need to come together and help each other at this time. ", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "Are you aware that there are organisations that can offer a little help at this time? Food banks for instance, though I know some people feel awkward about accepting such help. ", "output": "Information" }, { "input": "I have had to use foodbanks once or twice this year and I did feel a bit bad about it but everyone there was very kind and no-one judged us. ", "output": "Self-disclosure" }, { "input": "There is nothing to be ashamed of in doing so and when you get to a better position you can give back to them. ", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "Do you feel you will be getting the vaccine when it is rolled out where you are? ", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "That is a good idea - yes, I will get it. I think and hope it will help 2021 to be a better year than 2020 has been! ", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "So, you feel that the New Year might be a turning point for us all? ", "output": "Restatement or Paraphrasing" }, { "input": "Yes it might take a little while - we are definitely not out of the woods yet and people do need to stick to the regulations to try to mitigate the situation. ", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "I sincerely hope that things pick up for you and for all of us. And that online work remains plentiful :D ", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "Anyway it has been lovely to talk to you, enjoy the rest of your Christmas Day! ", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "(I can't end it from my end, you have to :)) ", "output": "Information" }, { "input": "Please? :D ", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "I AM FINE \n", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "HOW IS YOUR SIDE ?", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "Please how may i be of help\n", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "okay", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "I could see how bad you feel because of that", "output": "Restatement or Paraphrasing" }, { "input": "It happens anyway, but not all the time ", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "when did it start and what do you think that can cause that ", "output": "Reflection of feelings" }, { "input": "I am like that sometime, I switch to what I love doing most ", "output": "Information" }, { "input": "it good to be safe, pandemic has caused my hoodlums ", "output": "Reflection of feelings" }, { "input": "do you have anything?, that you love doing most", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "I love playing soccer game, anytime I am not motivated to work or do anything in office or home, I pick my phone play soccer game. I will laugh, enjoy myself, within 5 minutes , I do gain my morale ", "output": "Self-disclosure" }, { "input": "that is good, reading is a good hobby \n", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "It seems you like reading novel", "output": "Restatement or Paraphrasing" }, { "input": "very fun, within some minutes , you will be alive back and motivated ", "output": "Information" }, { "input": "that is good, you can have soft copies on your phone, open it anytime your are bored ", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "it is a nice time chatting with you, if your are okay with that you can end the chat.", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "Hey. How can I help?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "Okay. Well lets start with exactly what the problem is. What kind of tips do you need?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "Okay I understand. Tell me a little about that.", "output": "Restatement or Paraphrasing" }, { "input": "That is unfortunate. How did you accumulate such debt?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "That's tough. It has personally affect me as well as my financial health as well. I know the frustration.\n", "output": "Self-disclosure" }, { "input": "Well to do so I need a little more information. Have you already taken any steps to help your situation?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "If so what steps have you taken?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "Okay that is an excellent start. Now to avoid another debt later on. Do you have a job to work with the payments to pay back the loan? ", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "If I may offer a suggestion. Have you thought of contacting a debt relief program? In some cases they can substantially reduce debt to something much more manageable.", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "Good afternoon", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "How r u", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "What is your day like", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "What seems to be the issue", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "What is making you feel this way", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "That is rough. How long ago", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "I can assume that the relationship was for awhile", "output": "Restatement or Paraphrasing" }, { "input": "Breakups are hard especially when you have been together for awhile", "output": "Restatement or Paraphrasing" }, { "input": "That was along time. 6 years. WAs the breakup sudden or had it gradually happened over time", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "What may I ask is pegging", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "had there been any disagreements ", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "R u a female", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "i am not judging you in anyway. Helps me better understand", "output": "Restatement or Paraphrasing" }, { "input": "WAs there another person involved with the relationship or just you both", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "sounds like you both had a solid relationship", "output": "Restatement or Paraphrasing" }, { "input": "Was she domineering in the relationship she felt she needed control", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "i am a man. And no I am not mocking you. Just better understanding of the relationship", "output": "Restatement or Paraphrasing" }, { "input": "Just need to better understand so I can talk better", "output": "Restatement or Paraphrasing" }, { "input": "hi", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "Hi I stepped out, how are you?\n", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "Good, I am good. Is there anything I can be of an assistence today?", "output": "Restatement or Paraphrasing" }, { "input": "I feel you. You might be just feeling a little tired. ", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "Do you feel like you need a rest?", "output": "Restatement or Paraphrasing" }, { "input": "Mom of 2 kids! You must be super busy. ", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "How are they doing today, playful? calm?", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "Oh well, it is a small gift then. I hope you can utilize this nice time", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "Never know when you lose your free time, it maybe in a next few minutes?\n", "output": "Reflection of feelings" }, { "input": "It is so adorable when toddlers are occupied with something, like playing with toys. I might feel worried if my free time lasts long, becuause it is so unusual!", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "haha, I cannot help smiling when picturing them. Are you seeing them over an indoor surveillance camera ?", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "What does your 8 years one do on his cell phone?", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "Ok you are around them really close. Oh well, these days single parent is becoming more popular, don't worry. Some kids have 2 parents and some don't, I hope kids will learn that. ", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "But they are so cute, that they are making sure that you will not go away ! ", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "It is sad though I heard kids tend to blame themselves for those uncontrollable events. I hope your kids will not.", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "I am sorry that you had to go through this, but I believe you will be able to. Raising two kids, not one, sounds tough but it maybe good for them just to have you, not you and him. ", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "What canI do to help?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "I feel bad for you.", "output": "Reflection of feelings" }, { "input": "There are many openings for Uber and Uber Eats.", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "What were you doing before you were looking for a job? Were you in college?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "What do you find are your top skill sets?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "That is good that you have a good skill set that allows you to find something in the same field of IT.", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "How so? What is the specific difficulty? Is it with your resume?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "Are you feeling nervous? Anxious?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "Any other questions or concerns that you may have for me?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "Well, how do you adapt to the work issue? Do you like dogs? There are opportunities for dog walkers.", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "I made good money in the past walking my neighbors and friends dogs.", "output": "Self-disclosure" }, { "input": "When I get stressed, I try to do vigorous exercises with pushups, chin ups, sit ups or walking fast.", "output": "Self-disclosure" }, { "input": "Do you have a place that you can walk briskly in your area of town?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "Losing a job? It never happened for you before?", "output": "Restatement or Paraphrasing" }, { "input": "I would join a support group for those people who need support and want to change careers.", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "There are support groups online to help with job loss who can advise you on where to use your interests and skills to have a more fulfilling life.", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "Well, what other questions or concerns do you have for me?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "I feel that you have really expressed the important things in your life that you need to. I am proud of you.", "output": "Reflection of feelings" }, { "input": "I have been down, but I reached out to support groups.", "output": "Self-disclosure" }, { "input": "I felt good to help you in December 2020.", "output": "Self-disclosure" }, { "input": "Hello! How are you today?\n", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "Oh, that sure is a heavy subject and a heavy thing to be on your mind.", "output": "Reflection of feelings" }, { "input": "So you have tried to discuss your loneliness with your husband before?", "output": "Restatement or Paraphrasing" }, { "input": "I am sure that is frustrating! Does he drink at home as well or just when you go out?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "Would a date night at home with take-out and a movie just the two of you be an option?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "Do you think you both might be open to talking to a marriage counselor?", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "Well, what about you finding a counselor for yourself who could help you with your own self-care? Perhaps it could be a start and then he/she could help you end your marriage if you still want to.", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "It took me awhile to learn my own value and how important self-care is.", "output": "Self-disclosure" }, { "input": "I know from experience that our self esteem suffers when we're in an unhappy marriage. It takes a lot of courage to seek help so I applaud you!", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "I'm glad I could help and I wish you the best of luck!", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "Hello how are you?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "Well that's no good, does your family live far away?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "True but I can understand that, it is hard being alone at the holidays.", "output": "Self-disclosure" }, { "input": "Did you have plans this weekend?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "What kind of hobbies do you have?", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "I have never understood how those work..I find it amazing someone can type out whole words or sentences with one word", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "Wow that is crazy, I don't understand how that works, is it preprogrammed or does it go by how the word sounds? ", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "OK that makes sense, so you basically program it as the user. I take it your stenography machine becomes pretty close to you lol", "output": "Self-disclosure" }, { "input": "Is this your first holiday alone?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "No problem, I hope I have made your day a little better!", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "Have a good rest of this year and don't forget to make your New Year's resolution!", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "Not really, stayed home lol... Have a good one!", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "Good day!", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "What else can I help you with today?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "hello", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "i'm good, what is troubling you this afternoon?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "if i get you clearly, you mean your friend disappointed you. how?", "output": "Restatement or Paraphrasing" }, { "input": "i have a hard time with my friends too sometimes", "output": "Self-disclosure" }, { "input": "i used to give them time to cool off, when they are back to their senses, they will contact me and apologize ", "output": "Information" }, { "input": "what causes the argument in the first place ?\n", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "oh,jst give them time to reflect on what happen, they will definitely reach out to you, but you also have to make an effort to forgo the situation because they see you raising your voice on them as a sign of command of seniority.", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "exactly, that will also gives you the necessary time to know how to react to their forthcoming apologies ", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "even if they haven't reach out, that doesn't mean they are not sorry", "output": "Self-disclosure" }, { "input": "just be patient with them", "output": "Information" }, { "input": "yes, give them time ", "output": "Restatement or Paraphrasing" }, { "input": "same to you friend", "output": "Restatement or Paraphrasing" }, { "input": "When did you lose your job?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "I feel bad for you, but there are options.", "output": "Reflection of feelings" }, { "input": "I suggest working on your resume and hitting job boards.", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "Was it just you that lost the job or a whole unit/department?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "Google your past job title title and add openings.", "output": "Information" }, { "input": "Was it a computer job or a job where you have to be working in-person?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "May I suggest Uber, Lyft, Door Dash or Grub Hub or Uber Eats?", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "Do you have a car to use as a delivery driver?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "I read that all you need is to wear a mask as you drive around to put up and deliver food to the masses.", "output": "Information" }, { "input": "Plus, gas prices are relatively cheap at 2.25 a gallon, nationally.", "output": "Information" }, { "input": "You can also send out flyers to do dog walking in the neighborhood.", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "Do you like doggies?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "Or are you a cat person?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "I feel that you seem to be taking to food delivery.", "output": "Reflection of feelings" }, { "input": "I did food delivery for three different companies and I have liked it.", "output": "Self-disclosure" }, { "input": "You seem to be a real go-getter from the short conversation that we have had so far.", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "I worked in the restaurant business about a decade ago, but restaurants need so many people to deliver their food.", "output": "Self-disclosure" }, { "input": "When I was younger, the food delivery business was minimal.", "output": "Self-disclosure" }, { "input": "I feel that if you start applying now for those jobs and you have a decent car, there is plenty of opportunity to make money with Grub Hub and Uber Eats\n", "output": "Reflection of feelings" }, { "input": "The survivor rate from COVID-19 infections is around 99%, so your chances of dying from the virus are still low.", "output": "Information" }, { "input": "I suggest taking Vitamin D3 and Zinc to protect against the virus. I take a ton of vitamins.", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "They say that the immune system can combat a lot of nasty crud if it is strong.", "output": "Information" }, { "input": "It's really great that you are on here seeking the information that you need. It is important to communicate effectively.", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "Hi! Hope you are doing well. How may I help you today?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "I seems like you are not feeling well. Am I correct?", "output": "Restatement or Paraphrasing" }, { "input": "Sorry to hear about it. Due to COVID most of us are trap with certain problem", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "It's really hard time but we should keep hopes. It will end soon", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "I can understand it could be a hard time for you. You try to keep working on your skill. For sure you will find a way", "output": "Reflection of feelings" }, { "input": "I felt the same way when 50% people were laid off from my previous company. Situation was really stressful all around. I was trying to stay positive and kept working. ", "output": "Self-disclosure" }, { "input": "I know sometime its hard to believe what happen with us suddenly, At that time we should keep moving and try to find a way. ", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "Due to COVID Unemployment rate has increased drastically. Most of the people are facing tough time somehow.", "output": "Information" }, { "input": "I would suggest you to keep trying or working on. Try to explore your strength. I am pretty sure you will get it.", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "I can understand its hard to find a job right now. The situation will not gonna stay the same, we should keep trying. ", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "Hope my words will help you stay positive at this tough time which all of us are facing. The very important thing right now is to stay healthy and safe. Take care", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "hi", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "how are doing you today, what is troubling you? ", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "you are not good, why", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "oh, if i get you clearly, you mean covid-19 impact on your job might soon affect you job\n", "output": "Restatement or Paraphrasing" }, { "input": "yeah, covid-19 is a real bummer but i am sure we will soon get over it and the economy will bounce back ", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "i was furloughed my self and now i am working part-time, its not s lot but it is better than nothing ", "output": "Self-disclosure" }, { "input": "i can feel your pain just by chatting with you", "output": "Reflection of feelings" }, { "input": "i was scared at first too before but now that i gat something i am doing it feels better a bit ", "output": "Self-disclosure" }, { "input": "yea, it soo surreal, but even though there is a lot lost jobs, there is still a lot of job you can get to keep things balance ", "output": "Information" }, { "input": "first of all, polish your resume, go online and ask around ", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "from what i have heard and seen, there is job somewhere around, you just have to ask the right person", "output": "Information" }, { "input": "hello there, how are you", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "Good, im ok thanks. What would like to discuss?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "Oh so sorry to hear. Would you feel a little bit happy when you think when it is over, next year probably?", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "I know right! What would you do once it is over!?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "oh nice! I used to love drinking and partying. ", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "My suggestion is to do all you want to do, really. Because I think you know yourself really well. ", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "For a social bees like yourself, staying home would be stressful. I would call all your friends and make some plans for the next year, plans for NYE 2022 etc\n", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "I am guessing sometime summer next year? We get all shots and good to go. ", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "My friend suggested to get a party ticket for 1.5 year later. You're welome!", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "Anytime, by the way, I bought a year worth tissues, kitchen papers and toilet tissues. Hoarding is not recommended but it relived my stress.", "output": "Information" }, { "input": "Helo, how are you?\n", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "Are you feeling sort of depressed? I am sorry", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "Would you feel happy if you think about after Covid, maybe next year?", "output": "Reflection of feelings" }, { "input": "have you been sleeping enough?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "Do you like morning or night?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "Me too. I like morning too. Air feels fresh, although it is little contaminated here. At night time, I feel a little bit anxiety more. ", "output": "Self-disclosure" }, { "input": "So I sleep really early. Sleeping feels good anyway? Do you feel ok while you're sleeping?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "I suggest listening to sad yet beautiful music. It sometimes helps me. Do you like classical music?", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "When you are sad, listening to upbeat music may disturb you. Listening to instrumental music maybe good for you. ", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "I just checked YouTube and searched for some music. Good, I hope it will soothe your mind. ", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "Hello, hello. I am so sorry to hear. Can I ask you more about it?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "Oh no\n!!!", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "I am sorry, how do you feel? sad? joyful?", "output": "Reflection of feelings" }, { "input": "oh no. I can totally understand that feeling. 4 years is a long time.", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "I would recommend doing your own thing, for example, devote into your hobby or do some other jobs. ", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "Ohhhh. well. I never ditch my partner, always my partner ditch me, so I do not know why they do that. ", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "I think it will worsen. ", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "yes, I quit alcohol 3 years ago. it took me 20 years\n", "output": "Self-disclosure" }, { "input": "It took me 1 whole year to forget about my ex", "output": "Self-disclosure" }, { "input": "It took me 1 whole year to forget about my ex", "output": "Self-disclosure" }, { "input": "my ex told me I am a partygirl because I drink too much, so I stopped. Trying to get him like me more. Since then I have not been drinking. ", "output": "Self-disclosure" }, { "input": "nope. I am cool without man", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "haha, smart, yes. No need to force yourself to forget about her.", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "I heard men cannot do without a woman but women don't really need a man", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "Hi, how are you feeling today? ", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "Oh, boy, do I know that feeling! How are you dealing with it? (if I may ask)", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "I know that. I use Zoom, just to see them...do you have a computer?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "Oh. I can feel it. I have someone who's sick as well. Do you have any one friend with whom you can share your feelings, your depression. I understand you're having issues with depression, right? It sometimes helps me to feel that we're all in this together. And, at the other end of this, we will be able to give the biggest hugs ever!", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "Oh....That's so tough...it being the first year!!!! Sometimes, I cry (I cry with my cat), and just to say the feelings out loud makes me feel a bit better. ", "output": "Self-disclosure" }, { "input": "I try to read, watch programs or podcasts that take away my negativity. Anything that will give me a lift, so that my own depression won't get so bad that I can't remember what it felt like to be a bit happy. ", "output": "Self-disclosure" }, { "input": "I wish that I could listen to more....this thing is so slow. Remember, we\n're all in this together, and we will come out the other end. Isn't it OK to be happy a bit, even though this takes such a toll on so many people? ", "output": "Reflection of feelings" }, { "input": "Yes, and are you somewhere where you can walk or exercise a bit? I always feel better if I can move around...dance...something active. What I find helps me the most is to remember that we need to stay safe and be OK, so that we will be here to celebrate when this is over. ", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "Oh...it's fortunate that you live in the country. Can you take some deep breathes and watch the trees, the animals, and nature....they are all here for us???", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "Keep venting, if it makes you feel better. I know I do when I can talk to someone I don't know. Is it nice where you are today, so that you can look at something bigger than the indoors?? That often helps me feel better.", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "You bet, I hope you feel so much better and can take that with you tomorrow--that you had a good day on the day after Christmas!!!!", "output": "Information" }, { "input": "Hi! How are you today?", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "It sounds like you might be upset. Can you tell me what’s going on?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "That sounds difficult and stressful. What do you do when you see it happening?", "output": "Reflection of feelings" }, { "input": "It sounds like you are avoiding things you enjoy because of their actions. I think documenting it is a good idea! Have you tried reporting them for harassing you?", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "That must be very frustrating. Can you tell me if you’ve tried other things to get them to stop? ", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "You tried to do the right thing and they are having a difficult time letting go. The ongoing comments through social media sounds like they are wanting your attention. That can be exhausting for you. In my past, I had to block someone who did something similar to me. If my friends mentioned seeing something from my ex about me, I asked them to keep it to themselves or consider blocking them,too. The people who were closest to me understood what was going on and I realized that people who didn’t know me, didn’t matter. Would you be willing to suggest this to friends or family if it would help to remove the ex from your interactions?", "output": "Self-disclosure" }, { "input": "I see. How long has this been going on and is this a daily occurrence or does it happen at certain times?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "I can sense your frustration. It must be overwhelming at times and make you dread the weekends. It sounds like it has become a habit for your ex. It might help if you write a letter to them explaining that you are ready to move on and are asking them to do the same. Explain that you are giving them the opportunity to stop harassing you in the following ways [list some of the details you have documented]. Inform them that if they do not stop, you are considering taking it further regarding harassing communications and that this letter serves as your intention to no longer tolerate their actions. Send it via certified mail and keep a copy. This will give them no way to immediately respond and would be the first step of official documentation should they decide to continue. Do you think that might help?", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "I sincerely hope it is a step toward you regaining your control over how you are able to interact with people. I wish you the best in dealing with this and hope you begin to feel better about it soon, especially entering into a new year! ", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "Hi there, how can I help you?\n", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "OK, sure. Can you tell me what the problem is? I'll do my best to help.", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "I can understand that. It must be an important exam for you. Do you enjoy calculus?", "output": "Reflection of feelings" }, { "input": "I'm terrible at anything with numbers, myself!", "output": "Self-disclosure" }, { "input": "A B is a great result!", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "Are there any revision courses that you can access to help refresh your skills?", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "This pandemic has really made it difficult to get anything done hasn't it.", "output": "Reflection of feelings" }, { "input": "Do you know of anyone else who is looking to take the course that you got revise together with?", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "I always find it easier to work through things like this with someone else.", "output": "Self-disclosure" }, { "input": "There seem to be some really good online courses out there. It might be worth sending out enquiries to a number of tutors, asking them to get in touch as soon as they are free, and in the meantime working through something online to help build up your confidence?", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "I bet once you get into it again it will all come back to you. Sometimes getting started is the hardest part.", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "I think that if you got a B once, you can do it again, and if you really want it, which you clearly do, you can do anything! Aim for an A, you can do it!", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "And you too, good luck!", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "Hello! How may I assist you today?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "It sounds you did not sleep. am I right?\n", "output": "Restatement or Paraphrasing" }, { "input": "Oh! sorry to hear about that. I can understand it might be tough for you to deal all this", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "I know you can handle this tough time situation. These tough time teach us so many lessons and give the solutions too.", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "By chatting with you I can totally understand how you are feeling at this movement. Such situations put so much burden on us", "output": "Reflection of feelings" }, { "input": "I feel the same when there is some financial or emotional problems in my life. Then I realize why I am not that strong to face it or why I was not prepare for it?", "output": "Self-disclosure" }, { "input": "From my past experience I have leant at tough time like this, we should not give up. We should keep trying and some solution will come definitely. ", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "What I have seen If we keep trying and stay motivated towards our goal, we for sure get that", "output": "Information" }, { "input": "Sure! I would suggest you to keep trying, try to stay positive in this tough time where we all are struggling ", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "Wishing you best wishes and stay healthy", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "you too! bye", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "Hi, how are you?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "Ok, how may I help you?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "Yes, it is the same for most of the people. Any thing particular bothering you?", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "So, you cannot go out due to COVID and that makes you frustrated. Is that correct?", "output": "Restatement or Paraphrasing" }, { "input": "Have you done anything different than usual while staying at home?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "You could explore some of your hobbies, such as music, painting, or workingout..", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "Whichever you enjoy.. pick one. There are a lots of online resources you cloud use.", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "What would you like to do in your spare time?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "Have you ever thought of creating videos for YouTube?", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "Yes, give it a try.. you might like and it will keep you busy during stay home time..", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "Anyting else, I can hlep you with?", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "Please click \"Finish and Quit\" to close the chat.. thank you.", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "Hey there! How are you feeling today?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "Is something troubling you?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "I'm sorry to hear that. I know how bad it can feel when life throws you a curve-ball. Can you tell me about your situation?", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "Oh dear. That is a very upsetting situation. It sounds like you might be feeling lonely and rejected as a result of your girlfriend breaking up with you. Is that right?", "output": "Reflection of feelings" }, { "input": "That's a long time. I was in a similar situation not too long ago and I understand how hard this must be for you.", "output": "Self-disclosure" }, { "input": "During a time like this, some people find it helpful to keep busy doing some kind of activity to take their mind off of their pain. Is there something you can do to take your mind off of it until you're ready to manage your feelings?", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "Okay, that's very understandable. I'm sure there's another strategy we can come up with.", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "Do you have a friend or family member you can talk about your feelings with?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "That's great. You've already taken a huge step by reaching out for help and that's a big deal! A good next step might be letting the people around you know that you need some support at this time. Sometimes people don't know something until you tell them, even if it seems obvious. Is that something you can do?", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "Okay, I understand. Do you feel embarrassed because this is happening to you?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "I understand that your feelings of sadness run very deep. Do you have people in your life who you can safely spend time with without necessarily talking about your feelings? Feeling connected to people can help quite a lot.", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "It's great that you have someone who can give you positivity and support. Do you feel comfortable with trying that or would you like to explore other options?", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "It might be helpful to simply spend some time together. Connecting with someone who cares about you can help reassure your positive feelings in yourself.", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "If you feel able to, something outdoors might be good. Fresh air and physical activity can help lower anxiety and doing a mutual activity can help strengthen bonds between people.", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "Yes, that's a great idea! It sounds like you're already better at this than you think.", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "Fantastic. I hope this strategy works for you and helps you feel better.", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "Exactly! You don't have to do anything that you're not comfortable with.", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "Feeling strong is very empowering but it's okay to feel vulnerable sometimes too. There are no wrong answers here. Do you feel good about the strategies you can use or would you like to continue exploring your options?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "That's wonderful! You already have the tools to work through this. I wish you all the best!", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "(it's up to you to finish and submit :) )", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "Hello, how can I help you today?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "So if I understand correctly, you are upset with your job and your manager?", "output": "Restatement or Paraphrasing" }, { "input": "I am sorry to hear that. I can imagine it is challenging to work at a place where you are unhappy. And I understand it is a tough time right now.", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "Yes, I can totally relate! I have been there. I was in a very similar situation at a previous job when departments were reorganized and I ended up working for someone who wasn't familiar with my work. It was a challenge and frustrating.", "output": "Self-disclosure" }, { "input": "While I know jobs are scarce right now, do you think you might consider at least taking a look at some job sites, doing some searches just to see if there are some other jobs you might be interested in?", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "Oh yes, I totally get that! I remember having to do the exact same thing, very frustrating!", "output": "Reflection of feelings" }, { "input": "That is a great idea! And there are job sites such as indeed and others you can search to see what jobs are available. You never know. I just know how challenging it is to be in a situation where you are unhappy with your job.", "output": "Information" }, { "input": "Journaling is an excellent idea!! It has helped me a lot! It can help you discover things you might not have otherwise thought about. ", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "That sounds great! Yes, updating your resume is important. ", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "I totally get understand that! I know you are in a challenging situation now. But you have come up with some great ideas and you sound very intelligent! I believe in you and feel things will get better for you!", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "Absolutely! That is great! Thank you so much! I hope you have a great day as well! And good luck to you! :)", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "Hi! How can I help you today ?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "It looks like you are missing your friends a a lot. am I right?\n", "output": "Restatement or Paraphrasing" }, { "input": "I am missing my friends and family too. Due to COVID it's hard for all of us to meet our near and dear. I can totally understand your feeling.\n", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "I do video call. It makes me feel that they are very close to me. ", "output": "Self-disclosure" }, { "input": "I can feel how much you are missing them especially in holidays. engaging yourself in doing the stuff which you love can be a good idea", "output": "Reflection of feelings" }, { "input": "Sadness can lead us to frustration. To avoid that we have to stay motivated and keep doing something which takes those negative thoughts away", "output": "Information" }, { "input": "you can play online games with your friends\n", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "giving task or challenges to each other, making funny videos, having competition for cleaning room are few example which can be tried. ", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "giving task is my favorite :)", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "Telling friend to drink 4 glass of water at once, making bed in 30 seconds, finding particular content on laptop in specific time(30 sec or45 sec)", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "No problem! Is there anything else that I can help you with", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "Thanks! Have a wonderful time !", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "Hello. How are you today?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "Happy to be here. Is there anything on your mind?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "This is a hard time of year for many people. ", "output": "Reflection of feelings" }, { "input": "It sounds like you are thinking about a specific person a lot of the time.", "output": "Reflection of feelings" }, { "input": "Is there anything you can think of that would help you to feel better?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "It sounds like things ended in an unresolved way. That can make it feel like there is no real conclusion.", "output": "Information" }, { "input": "yes, there is a lag in the system. it takes a while for the response to upload", "output": "Information" }, { "input": "Yes, I agree. Sometimes it just takes time to process all the emotions.", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "Yes, that's a good point. It sounds like you are thinking this through in a good way, but the emotions are hard to process. Letting yourself feel the emotions is an important part of getting through a difficult situation.", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "It is understandable to want to keep photos. Distracting yourself might not be the solution; that could stop you from processing the emotions. There is a stage of grieving for a lost relationship that happens when a relationship ends. There will be grieving for the person, and for the relationship with that person. That is what has to be processed in order to move on.", "output": "Information" }, { "input": "That makes sense; you care about him so you miss him. This is one of those things that will take time. Accepting and acknowledging the emotions, even when they are painful, will let the emotions evolve and over time they will become less painful. ", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "Yes, it must be a painful experience. The end of a relationship is a loss, and there is a grieving process to go through. That is a painful experience. I am sorry you have to go through this. I believe that you can manage this experience and end up a stronger person.", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "Good Afternoon. How are you doing today?\n", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "That sounds terrible. I can understand why you're sad today. That's a lot to take in around the holidays.\n", "output": "Reflection of feelings" }, { "input": "Getting a new puppy might be a way to make you feel happy during this dark time in your life. \n", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "It might be just what you need to have something to wake up and look forward to each day. Especially during times like now when everyone is spending so much time alone inside.\n", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "I completely agree. Having a dog as a companion has been a life saver to me in so many situations.\n", "output": "Self-disclosure" }, { "input": "Having a playmate for the dog will make it easier to justify leaving when you do need to go back to work in the office. The puppy won't be lonely.\n", "output": "Information" }, { "input": "I have a yellow lab! He's great!\n", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "I'd suggest a dog with a lot of energy if you like to workout! What kind of dog did you have previously?\n", "output": "Information" }, { "input": "Just from talking to you, it sounds like working from home is a great fit for you!", "output": "Reflection of feelings" }, { "input": "Pomeranians are such cute dogs! They always look like they're smiling! And they're small enough that having two won't be crowded!", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "I'm glad that I could help you! I hope your new puppies bring you much happiness! I think they will boost your spirits a lot!", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "Have a great new year! Bye!!", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "Hello, my name is Brandon and I will be serving you today. How are you doing?", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "I am sorry to hear that you are feeling sad this holiday season. Why are you feeling sad?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "I see, this sounds really difficult. How long were you dating your girlfriend? Do you have any friends, family or a support system by chance?", "output": "Reflection of feelings" }, { "input": "That is a very long time, I had a girlfriend and I was very vested in her and her family. She broke up with me around Christmas time as well. It has been awhile, but I remember getting her gift and it was over sometime afterwards. Do you have any co-workers or involvement with any local groups/organizations/church?", "output": "Self-disclosure" }, { "input": "I think a therapist would be a great way to process this situation since our time is limited. From what you shared, it sounds like you have some past hurts that you may want to share with someone you trust. Do you have insurance or are you uninsured? There are great therapist for the insured and uninsured. :) ", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "I see, that is very difficult. This season bring many feeling like this myself. If you had a magic wand and could change anything about your situation, what would you change assuming that we cannot fix this situation per se.\n", "output": "Self-disclosure" }, { "input": "From what I am hearing, it sounds like you have a boundary and your girlfriend did not respect that. I think you deserve someone that respects you and your boundaries. If you do not feel comfortable, then you do not feel comfortable and should not be shamed for it.", "output": "Restatement or Paraphrasing" }, { "input": "Sorry i was having wifi issues ", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "If it were me, i would seekout a couselor. ", "output": "Self-disclosure" }, { "input": "Hello, How are you today\n", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "Sorry to hear that, would you like to talk about it?", "output": "Restatement or Paraphrasing" }, { "input": "Ok. I am happy to listen. \n", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "Seems like you feel your partner betrayed you, does that sound right?\n ", "output": "Restatement or Paraphrasing" }, { "input": "That is understandable. I know how you feel, may I suggest taking a few minutes to clear your head, and making a plan to talk with your friends and parents about how you feel?", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "Oh I'm so sorry, sometimes family and friends don't think about your feelings. When did this happen?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "Dang. he seems very selfish. But I understand how up setting it must have felt. My first husband left me without warning. ", "output": "Self-disclosure" }, { "input": "Awhile. it started to feel a little bit better after I kept telling myself it was about him and not about me, then I started feeling a bit better. But it will take time, the old say is correct, good days and bad days. \n", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "Started back in to my routine. Work. Church. things like that. \n", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "My I suggestion you pick your closest friend, and talk to her/him about your feeling, but not about your boyfriend, about how you feel your friends have been treating you. Be nice but firm. I bet once they hear your pain, they will be very supportive. ", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "I understand that! it is very reasonable to want to be around family and friends during the holidays. ", "output": "Restatement or Paraphrasing" }, { "input": "Good! I'm glad helped, even if just a little. ", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "Hello, how are you doing today? \n", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "It sounds like you care a lot about your friend and others. How old is your friend? \n", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "It sounds like you care a lot about your friend and others. How old is your friend? \n", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "I see, it does sound like she is being negligent with her behavior and not respecting of you and your concern on this virus. When you say your friend does not believe in the virus, what is her stance on it?\n\n", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "I can relate with your friend, at the beginning I had similar thoughts. As my friends started working on those units and my members being hospitalized for it, I surrendered my political stance and dawned my mask. I have a friend who is just like your friend, they have politicized it and had first degree exposure and blew up when we had her sit out of our teen support group/youth group and church services for two weeks. She is in her 50's.\n", "output": "Self-disclosure" }, { "input": "I can relate with your friend, at the beginning I had similar thoughts. As my friends started working on those units and my members being hospitalized for it, I surrendered my political stance and dawned my mask. I have a friend who is just like your friend, they have politicized it and had first degree exposure and blew up when we had her sit out of our teen support group/youth group and church services for two weeks. She is in her 50's.\n", "output": "Self-disclosure" }, { "input": "I think these situations cause us to take care of our selves first, like you are doing by wearing your mask and still loving your friend (maybe from afar). Your idea of separation is wise, unless you want to protect your relationship with her and let her be. \n", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "I think these situations cause us to take care of our selves first, like you are doing by wearing your mask and still loving your friend (maybe from afar). Your idea of separation is wise, unless you want to protect your relationship with her and let her be. \n", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "It is my pleasure, I appreciate you being vulnerable and sharing where you are at in this moment. It is not always easy, continue to find people who are willing to listen and be the change that we need. Have a wonderful Christmas and a safe New Year!", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "Hello, I am still here. Is there anything else that I can help you with today?", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "Hi, sorry I just saw this", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "How are you and how may I assist you?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "I am so sorry to hear it. I am happy assist.", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "Although I am not a specialist, I might be able to cheer you up a little", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "What is your most concern at this point? I understand you are having a depression, that must be a great suffering. ", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "You can become whoever you want to be", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "Are you getting enough sleep lately?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "There is no failure. People were born in certain way. Each person was programmed differently. It is your uniqueness , not failure.\n", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "maybe your body needs to rejuvenate ", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "maybe your body needs to rejuvenate ", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "Somebody told me that confidence is the most important. I hope you will feel a great confidence in you and feel great soon.", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "Great, I am so glad I was able to chat with you today", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "Is there anything I can do for you today?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "Hi! How are you today?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "Something unexpected happened today?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "Holidays can add pressure to our \"normal\" situations.", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "Did you find that your normal coping mechanisms were not as helpful today?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "Sounds like your support is not appreciated.", "output": "Restatement or Paraphrasing" }, { "input": "Music definitely helps!", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "I have a list of songs that I like to sing to. I can't really sing, like, at all. But I love to do it. And it makes me forget about whatever is going on.\n", "output": "Self-disclosure" }, { "input": "You are certainly self-aware. Better off than most people!", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "Ah! I like pop songs from the 60's :-) ", "output": "Self-disclosure" }, { "input": "Ha! The car is always good! \n", "output": "Self-disclosure" }, { "input": "Have you tried The Smiths? Band from the 80's. They are my go to for when I am feeling low.\n", "output": "Reflection of feelings" }, { "input": "To be blindsided is a violation of trust. ", "output": "Reflection of feelings" }, { "input": "Have you spoken to her about it at all, or is that not your jam?", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "It's ok. A lot of people are non-confrontational. Society tells us we should be able to express our boundaries. Not everyone is comfortable with that and that is ok.", "output": "Information" }, { "input": "But that puts more responsibility on you for your feelings. Sounds like you have coping skills for that.", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "You're right. That is not fair. You are feeling conflict and abandoned/not-abandoned.\n", "output": "Reflection of feelings" }, { "input": "Could you make the decision?", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "Only you are responsible for you. I was with someone who, although we had great fun together, he couldn't be with me as much as I wanted him to. And it made me feel bad. Because it brought up feelings from when I was growing up and neglected.", "output": "Self-disclosure" }, { "input": "It took a long time, and it ...wasn't a clean break. I just got tired of feeling bad, and the relationship just waned. ", "output": "Self-disclosure" }, { "input": "Take the time you need, but you can take control, if you want to.", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "You said it, prioritize yourself. The rest will fall into place. It always does. ", "output": "Restatement or Paraphrasing" }, { "input": "I know you will ;-)\n", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "Hi, What's on your mind today?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "How are you?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "I am glad you stayed. ", "output": "Restatement or Paraphrasing" }, { "input": "What are some of the reasons you wanted to give up on me?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "Missing people can feel devastating, Is that what I am hearing you say?", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "You sound like you have a lot of wisdom", "output": "Reflection of feelings" }, { "input": "How are you trying to move on?", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "Do you have a support group, Family, friends?", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "I have recently separated from my spouse. I know it is a tough journey to walk. ", "output": "Self-disclosure" }, { "input": "You are so correct about the outcome of Faith", "output": "Reflection of feelings" }, { "input": "Moving on from a toxic relationship is important. ", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "My spouse is Narcissistic and I woke up to the understanding of the abuse.", "output": "Self-disclosure" }, { "input": "Most of the time, I feel confident about the breakup but there are times I become insecure.", "output": "Self-disclosure" }, { "input": "It is during those times, I look to resources to help remind me that I made the correct choice.", "output": "Self-disclosure" }, { "input": "I have been developing a support group to help me through. Have you been working on a support group of your own.?", "output": "Information" }, { "input": "That's wonderful!", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "you are welcome, Is anything else on your mind that you'd like to talk about today? I have been online with others who are healing from Narcissistic abuse.\n", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "Are you saying that shopping is a form of therapy?", "output": "Restatement or Paraphrasing" }, { "input": "How are you doing tonight?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "In what way are you not happy? Can you elaborate?", "output": "Restatement or Paraphrasing" }, { "input": "Problems often arise in relationships over misunderstanding each others point of view. ", "output": "Information" }, { "input": "I completely agree with you. One sided relationships do not work. ", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "What else besides unhappy do you feel about this breakup? Often there are a mix of emotions and looking at all of them is important to see the whole picture. People often report feeling relieved, regretful or other emotions with the feeling of unhappy. ", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "What are some things that you enjoyed doing before this relationship? ", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "Reaching out to old friends is a great idea to be able to regain some joy in life.", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "Many books have suggested that we are allowed to disclose what we want in relationships with friends. So if it is not something you wish to talk about with your friends tell them that and they should be willing to accept it. However I do understand if you do not want to reconnect with friends.", "output": "Information" }, { "input": "I understand. What have you tried to overcome your depression?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "I think what I meant are there things that you have done, that while you are doing them, you are not actively feeling depressed? Many people say that going for walks, taking a cooking class, starting a new hobby are ways they have stopped thinking about their depression and found some relief from it.", "output": "Information" }, { "input": "In the past when I have dealt with depression following a breakup I have taken up a new hobby. I found I liked crochet. I made a blanket that I still have today. ", "output": "Self-disclosure" }, { "input": "That is good to hear. Is there anything else you would like to talk about?", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "It was nice talking to you.", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "It is a good place to start. ", "output": "Information" }, { "input": "bye", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "Hello.", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "I am Tom. How can I help you? ", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "How are you in need of assistance?", "output": "Restatement or Paraphrasing" }, { "input": "I have a real talent to provide guidance to people out there in the World.\n", "output": "Reflection of feelings" }, { "input": "Not doing well in college or high school?", "output": "Restatement or Paraphrasing" }, { "input": "Are you in a trade school? Or in academia?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "Well, I went through a similar situation when a pink-eye breakout hurt my school....", "output": "Self-disclosure" }, { "input": "I struggled financially, but took any job I could.....", "output": "Self-disclosure" }, { "input": "Work part-time and go to school part-time", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "I suggest creating flyers and ask to be a dog walker.", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "Americans love their dogs. 70 Percent of Americans have dogs.", "output": "Information" }, { "input": "I feel that you can be great and be a good entrepreneur.....dog walking doesn't take a lot of talent\n", "output": "Reflection of feelings" }, { "input": "How close in the library?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "Ok, that is good. I once worked at a library.", "output": "Self-disclosure" }, { "input": "I worked in a library many years.....", "output": "Self-disclosure" }, { "input": "It was quite pleasant. And the pay was decent. Plus, I got to read and research a lot. I ended up meeting my wife at the library as well. I felt good taking the job. :)", "output": "Reflection of feelings" }, { "input": "I suggest keeping an eye out for smart and sexy w=ladies who like going there.", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "You can support your family by working at the library and reading up on higher paying jobs while there.", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "I feel that the local libraries are great options for working and learning. I met my future wife while working at the library many moons ago.", "output": "Reflection of feelings" }, { "input": "Do you have any other questions or concerns?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "Hello.", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "So it sounds like you've been struggling with finding a new job. It's never easy looking for a new job during these times. Why do you think you're having trouble?", "output": "Restatement or Paraphrasing" }, { "input": "It sounds like you're motivated and dealing with a lot. Is there a specific job that you had in mind or are you applying to different kinds of jobs?", "output": "Information" }, { "input": "It sounds like you really care to want to be close to home. Have you talked with someone locally about jobs that would allow you to stay close to home?", "output": "Reflection of feelings" }, { "input": "Stay motivated. If one opportunity doesn't get your desired response you may be even closer to finding the right job for you. Keep pushing on and know that if one opportunity doesn't work out a positive attitude will make all the difference. Just because you haven't found one yet doesn't mean you won't. ", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "Your faith is healthy and gives you purpose. Similarly you have to believe that the dots will connect in your favor. Maybe you can't connect them looking forward, but looking backwards you have to trust that the dots will somehow connect in your future.", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "It can be frustrating to focus on your last job, especially if you haven't found a new one yet. Perhaps once you find a new job your disappointment with the last one won't be so disappointing anymore. If the new job is better you wouldn't have found it working the last job. ", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "It's great that you're staying productive and improving yourself. If your desire to improve yourself is as strong as your desire to find a new job I'm confident you will.", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "Don't let your past define you, let your present choices pave a new path into the future.", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "I'm confident you will.", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "What do you mean?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "Thanks for sharing with me. Take care now.", "output": "Reflection of feelings" }, { "input": "I am here.", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "How are you?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "I feel that I can really help you on this Christmas Night.", "output": "Reflection of feelings" }, { "input": "How long have you not been feeling not so well?", "output": "Restatement or Paraphrasing" }, { "input": "Well, I can tell you that it is hard, but it could be a god send in the long run.", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "Well, I have been in rough relationships, but there is no need to add additional trauma to the situation.", "output": "Self-disclosure" }, { "input": "It's really hard during the Christmas Holidays, but there are ways to decompress.", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "Have you considered doing meditation to release negative thoughts?", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "There are online resources to help you get in a better frame of mind.", "output": "Information" }, { "input": "There are incense burning kits that can help to relieve stress and trauma.", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "Yes, the Calm app is one.", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "You said that you are allergic to incenses of all kinds?\n", "output": "Restatement or Paraphrasing" }, { "input": "There are websites like Decompress dot org that can help with relationships that are in turmoil.", "output": "Information" }, { "input": "I used to visit sites that help people who need to find ways to decompress after issues and fights have occurred in relationships.", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "I feel obligated to help during Christmas because I had a nasty fight with my partner one year over gifts.\n", "output": "Reflection of feelings" }, { "input": "What was the fight over? Food? Money? Sex? ", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "I would let things decompress for a long while.", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "I suggest thinking through ending the relationship if he has a hot temper. ", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "Yes, just think it through for some time. ", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "Was the relationship with him pleasant for many months?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "You said it has only gotten rough in the last two months?", "output": "Restatement or Paraphrasing" }, { "input": "You said that he has announced to you he has ended the relationship on Christmas?", "output": "Restatement or Paraphrasing" }, { "input": "Today, you mean?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "In my opinion, I would consider accepting that it is not going to be a healthy relationship whatsoever.", "output": "Reflection of feelings" }, { "input": "I have seen things only get worse in a situation like yours. I think h needs to accept that he needs to grow up.", "output": "Self-disclosure" }, { "input": "How old are the both of you?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "Any other counseling that I can give?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "Hi!", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "Hi! How are you doing?", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "That's is good to know you are doing ok. Did you do anything for the holidays?", "output": "Reflection of feelings" }, { "input": "Yeah, it is pretty frustrating with the shutdowns. I was pretty nervous for today and how I would be able to see family. Are you close to your family?", "output": "Self-disclosure" }, { "input": "Wow, that is far! Thankfully you were able to video chat them. Do you plan on video chatting with them today?", "output": "Information" }, { "input": "Wow, that is far! Thankfully you were able to video chat them. Do you plan on video chatting with them today?", "output": "Information" }, { "input": "That is good! It seems like calling on the phone can feel more genuine. Do you like playing Among Us? It might be fun to teach them how to play a game that allows you to play from far away.", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "That is good! It seems like calling on the phone can feel more genuine. Do you like playing Among Us? It might be fun to teach them how to play a game that allows you to play from far away.", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "I believe we have to each do 10 chat bubbles.", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "Is there anything else you want to talk about?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "I like to set mini goals for myself to make long term goals attainable. For example, I am in college and if I have to write a 8 page paper, I push myself to write at least 1 page every day until I finish. Then I have enough time to edit and make the deadline.", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "Another suggestion is to remind yourself why you need to wake up and get things going! For me, I know I want to help others in the future but without the degree I am going for, I would not be able to help.", "output": "Self-disclosure" }, { "input": "Yeah, bills are such a big responsibility. Hopefully this task will help some. Were you a part of theater productions?", "output": "Reflection of feelings" }, { "input": "Those are such amazing paths. I believe the stand up comedy could be done through podcasting. I hope you have a good night.", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "Hi, how can I help you?\n", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "How long have you been together?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "That has to be hard after 2 years. Does your partner know yet?", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "If you still love him, what is the reason for the break up?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "So then he is leaving the country. Why don't you want to go along?\n", "output": "Restatement or Paraphrasing" }, { "input": "Oh I see. That is a hard situation to be in. I would feel sad and angry. Is that what you are feeling?\n", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "You have every right to feel that way. You have invested two years with him. Have you had a talk with him to tell him how you feel about it?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "That had to hurt. So then there is no convincing him to stay. Is that right?", "output": "Restatement or Paraphrasing" }, { "input": "I think the best thing in these situations is to take time doing things that make you happy. Pamper yourself. Indulge in things that make you feel good and help you feel better about yourself.", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "Something like a spa day. Get a beauty treatment. Pamper yourself then you will have an attitude that will help you move on.", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "What do you think?", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "Hello! How are you feeling today?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "That's never good. I know how it can be to feel down. What's got you feeling that way?", "output": "Self-disclosure" }, { "input": "It seems like you're worried about your abilities as well as your team leader potentially being disappointed with your performance. Am I understanding that correctly?", "output": "Restatement or Paraphrasing" }, { "input": "That's lovely to hear. Have you tried discussing your doubts with your supervisor? There are times where I've felt overwhelmed, but maybe they could provide some additional guidance or someone to help assist you with the project.", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "Is there an impending deadline for the project you're worried about meeting? Maybe you could contact them through email or another form of outreach.", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "I can understand how stressful that must be, with the business of the holiday season on top of a looming deadline. Is there anyone else you can potentially contact to discuss changing the deadline? ", "output": "Reflection of feelings" }, { "input": "That sounds like a wonderful idea! That's what a teammate is there for after all.", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "I'm sure they'd love to help. Is there anything else on your mind today?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "Is there anything else you'd like to discuss today?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "Awesome! Have a wonderful holiday season :)", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "Hi, how are you doing?\n", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "Anything in particular you're having a hard time with?\n", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "I'm sorry, I've been in that position before. Do you feel it's for the best?", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "That's really hard, especially when there's chance it could have worked out if it wasn't for the distance. Do you regret choosing to go to the school near where she lives?", "output": "Reflection of feelings" }, { "input": "Definitely feeling like you're living for someone else and having them not do the same is hurtful. Although it seems like you're the one in the relationship who is willing to make more sacrifices", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "Oh ok then it's not the first time this has happened. ", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "I think you might be right, if you notice a pattern then it might continue to happen", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "Most likely, she seems to need space to live for herself and is less willing to make sacrifices for you like you do for her", "output": "Reflection of feelings" }, { "input": "But even it won't happen again, you shouldn't have to live worrying that it will", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "Have you spoken to her about how you feel?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "Wow I can only imagine. But I think it wasn't a waste if there were good times and you had room to grow. In relationships you have to prioritize your own happiness and I'm sure if you mentioned that you're frustrated and hurt maybe you can understand how she feels and why she made the decisions she made", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "Absolutely not! Individual frustrations are the best things to focus on before everything that happens in the world. ", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "I think it's important that you talk to her and get the answers you need. She might not even have been aware you feel this way and assumed you were happy to move for her. ", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "Although again, I'm really sorry you have to go through this during the holidays, definitely sucks but doesn't mean you can't at least get some answers and move on with your life", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "Thank you for talking to me! I hope it all works out ", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "Hello! How can I encourage you today?\n", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "Hello! How can I encourage you today?\n", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "Sorry that posted twice! :o", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "You are growing apart from your best friend? Is this a good thing or not a good thing? Or you aren't sure?\n", "output": "Restatement or Paraphrasing" }, { "input": "Ouch! That is a sad thing. As I was sitting here thinking about friends I have moved on from, sadly, most of the time it was for the best, even though it hurt at the time.\n", "output": "Reflection of feelings" }, { "input": "Life is a journey, and as we walk toward goals in our life, people either join us or bring us down. Sometimes they only walk on the path we are on for a short time, sometimes longer. I have very few friends from High School, 2 to be exact. And only on FB, that was back in 1979 too. lol I'm old, but I have had to move on from destructive relationships, as you are doing now. It can be hard.\n", "output": "Self-disclosure" }, { "input": "Ouch! That sounds hard. I had friends like that too. I had to walk away. Has your friend asked you why you are ignoring him? The reason I ask this is because it's good to get some closure and let them know their behavior is destructive and you need space from that.\n", "output": "Reflection of feelings" }, { "input": "I have learned in life that unhealthy people run from problems, healthy people stick in the mud with you and try to work out issues. ", "output": "Self-disclosure" }, { "input": "Have you other friends?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "Yes, and as you grow and mature, your life goals change, not everyone will travel with you. Right now you are starting out, I'm in the retired stage, lol Now I'm interested in helping younger people. It's amazing how our priorities change. ", "output": "Information" }, { "input": "I've basically figured out life only makes sense with God, and I don't worry about a thing now, very little upsets or angers me, it truly isn't worth it. A LOT of people have no goals. I think this is actually a good time to examine the year, what you did right, what you didn't do so right, and where you want to go next year. I think self reflection is good for us. ", "output": "Self-disclosure" }, { "input": "A young neighbor just stopped by today, and he just moved out of his home, he is consumed with HOW do I pay the electric, HOW do I budget? How do I cook? lol Like it is so interesting to see the journey in life. And my faith in Jesus Christ is really the most important thing. ", "output": "Information" }, { "input": "Do pray for your friend, and I will say a prayer too. Maybe he will come around some day?\n", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "I had two brothers die from alcohol and drugs. I had to learn not to enable them. Sadly, people choose their own life. There is opportunity to get sober, my husband is a recovered alcoholic. When hanging with them and they do not want to change, sometimes the best thing to do is to walk away and let them hit bottom. I have 2 brothers that DID find recover and a sister too. So my whole life was filled with people drinking and drugging. And I didn't want that life. ", "output": "Information" }, { "input": "there's a prayer called the serenity prayer, I don't know if you are familiar with it, but it is used in AA and NA a lot, learning to let go of what we cannot change, and that is people,", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "I feel obligated to help you this Christmas Night.", "output": "Reflection of feelings" }, { "input": "Who am I currently speaking with?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "I am Bob, your Christmas Night therapist and helper.", "output": "Self-disclosure" }, { "input": "I hope I can assist you this Christmas Night.", "output": "Reflection of feelings" }, { "input": "It takes courage to tell how you are feeling.", "output": "Information" }, { "input": "How can I help you?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "Please do your best. That is all I can expect.", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "Can you elaborate? What do you mean by that?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "You're doing great by contributing to your own cause on Christmas Night.", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "Do you like Christmas cookies?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "Bob has some jelly cookies for you.", "output": "Information" }, { "input": "I feel good asking you about how I can give you true insights on life.", "output": "Reflection of feelings" }, { "input": "You made the right decision to join and discuss your feelings. Do you like the Christmas Holidays?", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "I can suggest Uber or Lyft or Door Dash or Grub Hub for you.", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "I feel that you can earn and not be so sad and depressed this holiday.", "output": "Reflection of feelings" }, { "input": "I am baking cookies for others, so don't feel sad. Maybe I can cheer you up with chocolate chip cookies.", "output": "Self-disclosure" }, { "input": "I am here to help you in soooo many ways.", "output": "Self-disclosure" }, { "input": "Yes, it is. I love chocoalate chip.\n", "output": "Reflection of feelings" }, { "input": "Do you have the chance to make Christmas Cookies?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "Perhaps you could bake some using Bob's Xmas Cookie Recipe and share the joy that Christmas brings to the World.", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "Would you be interested?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "Cooking cookies for others is a great way to cheer up. You could also create a small business by making your own type of cookies.", "output": "Information" }, { "input": "You said you love baking? Well, other people who see you love to cook will get Joy from you. :\n)", "output": "Restatement or Paraphrasing" }, { "input": "I feel good to share my insights.", "output": "Reflection of feelings" }, { "input": "Did you need any other insights from me to be glad?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "I feel that being a professional baker my be the right career for you!", "output": "Reflection of feelings" }, { "input": "Do you need help with anything else?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "I feel that you are on your way to a new cooking career.", "output": "Reflection of feelings" }, { "input": "Hello, what would you like to talk about?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "Why do you feel like your life is empty?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "I'm really sorry to hear that. ", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "Was this a recent event?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "Wow, that's really a hard thing to deal with isn't it?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "Hmm, it sounds like she isn't being completely honest with you.", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "I've been left before too. It was one of the most painful experiences of my life.", "output": "Self-disclosure" }, { "input": "Maybe she did like the attention, but that is her own issue. It really doesn't have anything to do with you.", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "Sometimes low self worth makes a person seek that kind of exterior validation from someone else. ", "output": "Information" }, { "input": "That doesn't sound healthy to you, does it?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "so, do you think that was the only way she could connect with you, through sex?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "Is this your first serious relationship?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "It sounds like you enjoyed the sex a lot, but you also want an emotional connection to a woman.", "output": "Restatement or Paraphrasing" }, { "input": "Ok, be well.", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "Hi, how's life? ", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "I am glad to hear it. Is there anything you'd like to talk about? ", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "Yes I hear you on that, that happens to me rather a lot of the time. Can you tell me more? ", "output": "Self-disclosure" }, { "input": "That does not sound good. Do you feel that it is someone specifically who is blocking you out? ", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "Well, trust has to come with time... it cannot happen instantly. Perhaps you are being too hard on yourself? ", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "Sometimes you just run up against people who are not trustworthy themselves. It's best to just ignore these toxic people! ", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "Please know that it is NOT your problem, it it's their's! ", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "I do understand how it feels to be gossiped about - that has happened to me more than once and it is really painful. ", "output": "Self-disclosure" }, { "input": "Perhaps you should consider getting some new friends? Are there any societies or anything that you could join? ", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "That sounds like a really positive outlook. Make a resolution not to let toxicity into your life in this coming year? ", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "I hope I have been able to help you a little and set your mind at rest. I wish you a very happy New Year! ", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "goodbye and thanks for talking ", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "(you need to end from your end as I can't from mine :)) ", "output": "Information" }, { "input": "How may I help you?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "Are you there??", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "What was that? ", "output": "Restatement or Paraphrasing" }, { "input": "I can provide you with some insights...sure.", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "Uber. Lyft, Door Dash and Amazon delivery services are good.", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "Amazon pays well.", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "Don't be scared to go out.", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "There are plenty of jobs for freelance writers. Consider freelance content writing.", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "What do you want to do as a Work From Home, Option?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "What is your native language?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "You are not originally from the USA?", "output": "Restatement or Paraphrasing" }, { "input": "Ok, you could be a tutor in your language for those who are native Engrish speakers.", "output": "Restatement or Paraphrasing" }, { "input": "I believe that it could be a new career option.", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "I believe that you can succeed for sure.", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "The key to success is having a positive attitude and believing in yourself.", "output": "Information" }, { "input": "I did the self-publishing route a long time ago. I gave me conifdence to succeed.", "output": "Self-disclosure" }, { "input": "I feel that you can have just as much success as I did.", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "Self-willed belief they you can succeed in new money making ventures is the key!", "output": "Information" }, { "input": "Do you need help with anything else?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "Ok. Just click the red finalize and exit button to end the therapy session.", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "Hello how are you?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "Whats going on?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "It definitely is... Whats going on COVID wise with you?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "That isn't good, are you one of them?", "output": "Restatement or Paraphrasing" }, { "input": "It really has been a troubled year\n", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "We can only hope this year can be better.", "output": "Self-disclosure" }, { "input": "What kind of hobbies do you have?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "Have they told you that you were losing your job?", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "I'm just trying to figure out exactly what you need help with.. Have you lost your job?", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "I agree with you there, we have all had to sacrifice something. You are right. it is difficult to find work right now.", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "You may be able to look into unemployment at least if it comes down to it.", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "That is the scary part. It could come around again and cause more damage than it did the first time.", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "Besides the basic hand washing and hygiene, I don't think we can prepare anymore for it. I think at this point, we will either get it or not until they figure if the vaccine will work or not.", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "It is a very scary thing", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "Have you looked into unemployment?", "output": "Reflection of feelings" }, { "input": "I'm there with you buddy, I hope it eradicate this from our planet. First and second versions. ", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "That is smart\n", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "No problem I hope you enjoy the rest of your day", "output": "Information" }, { "input": "Hello, how is your life at the moment? Do you want to talk about anything? ", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "so I hear you are not feeling at all your best at the moment? ", "output": "Restatement or Paraphrasing" }, { "input": "Do you feel as though you have no-one to talk to about this situation? I am happy to listen. ", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "Do you have no idea? Do you think you might have done something wrong or perhaps she was being unfaithful to you? ", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "Do you consider that there might be any hope for the two of you at all? ", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "Well, I think you should give her some space but people do sometimes get back together after they've separated ", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "You really do need to give her some space though - don't crowd her ", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "I would give her a little time. Maybe two or three days? She might need some time to clear her head ", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "Perhaps you could send flowers and a note asking her if she'd like to talk? ", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "She might be feeling receptive to that but if she's not you might have to accept that it's over. ", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "Hello! How are you?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "Also Merry Christmas!", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "I'm doing good! ", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "So how can help you? Is there anything bothering you today? ", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "Oh I'm so sorry to hear that :(. That is terrible", "output": "Reflection of feelings" }, { "input": "Have you started looking for a new one?", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "I know this is difficult but the best thing I would recommend is moving on. ", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "Do you have a linkdin account? ", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "I would start by creating/updating that. ", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "That way you can find newer jobs. ", "output": "Information" }, { "input": "so linkedin gives quite a few suggested jobs given your profile.", "output": "Information" }, { "input": "So an updated profile will show you jobs that you can apply that fit your skillset. ", "output": "Information" }, { "input": "I would go to the \"jobs\" section in the menu and see what jobs you like best. ", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "Its a bit vague but really just start looking and you will find something that fits!", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "Thats a good starting point too! I believe linkedin can give suggestions on resumes format as well too.", "output": "Information" }, { "input": "Well it seems you have a good starting point. Is there anything else you want to talk about? ", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "Have a good day!", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "How can I help you today?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "It is Christmas, so I expect there to be help for the lonely.", "output": "Information" }, { "input": "The news from Nashville? ", "output": "Restatement or Paraphrasing" }, { "input": "What about it is making you feel anxious?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "You are totally stressed out?", "output": "Restatement or Paraphrasing" }, { "input": "I can tell that you are feeling bad about not seeing loved ones.", "output": "Reflection of feelings" }, { "input": "Do you have any treadmills you can use or a gym you can access today?", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "When I am stressed, I usually take a brisk walk of 30 to 45 minutes.", "output": "Self-disclosure" }, { "input": "They say that fresh our is really good for releasing stress. Do you have acupuncturists or holistic healers near you?", "output": "Information" }, { "input": "I try and walk and get fresh air almost daily. I love parks and paths to walk through.", "output": "Self-disclosure" }, { "input": "Well, shoveling can be good for releasing tension in the body by exercising by shoveling, even though it is short.", "output": "Restatement or Paraphrasing" }, { "input": "I like doing a little shoveling but you have to do it right, as to not wear out your back.", "output": "Self-disclosure" }, { "input": "Do you like snow? We had a rain storm for hours on Christmas Eve. I wanted a little snow to make things look nice.", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "Are my suggestions helping any?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "Well, there are incense pots that allow you to close you eyes and feel the glow of the meditation sticks. Certain scents can release stress. Do you have any on the home that you can burn?", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "I have heard good things about Palo Santo sticks and rosemary / lavender oils that can calm and relax, ", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "Do you have any music or sound effects that you can listen to as to be able to relax?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "I suggest rosemary oils all the time. Getting a few quaffs can calm the nerves.", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "Listening to calming sound effects like running creek water in the woods or dolphins communicating could put you in a good mood. ", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "They say its best to stop those racing thoughts and breath in a steady pace.", "output": "Information" }, { "input": "Do you need any other insights?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "You've done great at telling me your thoughts and deep feelings.", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "Ok. You are doing great with being more at ease.", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "I can tell from your responses that my suggestions have got the wheels moving.", "output": "Reflection of feelings" }, { "input": "It sounds like you are really upbeat and happier.", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "You can click the red finish and exit button to complete the session. :)\n", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "Correct.", "output": "Information" }, { "input": "It's Christmas Day, so please stay safe out there.", "output": "Information" }, { "input": "Hi, how are you feeling? Is there anything on your mind? ", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "What would you like to talk to me about today? ", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "Unfortunately I think that a lot of people are trying to find online work right now as people are too scared to go out - I know that I am! ", "output": "Self-disclosure" }, { "input": "It can be very good yes. Have you tried any other sort of gig work? ", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "Oh wow, that is really bad. At least there aren't very many people there .. I think it's mainly research people. ", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "So you feel that perhaps you could make some money by vlogging? ", "output": "Restatement or Paraphrasing" }, { "input": "I think it would be fun to visit but not for very long. ", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "Well, perhaps you could vlog about the need to wear facemasks? ", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "Yes it is! Beware that there are a lot of people trying to make money on youtube though - you need to get lucky. ", "output": "Information" }, { "input": "It's a difficult time for us all :) People are doing what they have to in order to put food on their tables I think. ", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "I am hopeful that with the vaccine having been developed, things might start to improve shortly. ", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "Can you think of things to look forward to in the New Year that might cheer you up a little? ", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "Well, maybe the change of administration in some parts of the world will help a little. ", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "I mean that political change can help people and give them fresh hope. Or, depress them :) ", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "That would be a big help for people who are struggling! ", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "Christmas is a good time of year but it is also expensive. Do you think that it has increased your financial woes? ", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "I am glad to hear that .. too many people think they have to spend too much. Anyway I hope you have had a lovely day and all the best to you ", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "And you! ", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "Hi! What seems to be the issue?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "When did this start?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "That sounds really hard. Depression is tough to manage.", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "I can feel that you have a lot of pent up frustration with this, especially after trying so hard.", "output": "Reflection of feelings" }, { "input": "Lot of research shows that feelings of anger can morph into depression, that is not uncommon.", "output": "Information" }, { "input": "I can tell that this has been very hard for you, especially since it has gone on so long.", "output": "Reflection of feelings" }, { "input": "Why do you think you were angry?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "Ouch, that sounds really hurtful, but I know you are doing your best now.", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "My parents divorced when I was young, but now I understand it has given me the opportunity to grow stronger as an adult\n", "output": "Self-disclosure" }, { "input": "Do you participate in any peer support groups? Those can really help let that emotion release?", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "Of course, there's lots of information available online for local meetings. Perhaps trying a group like ACA could really connect you with your inner child.", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "Of course! ", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "hello", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "how are you doing. What is troubling you dear", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "if i get you right, you are fired because of your health condition", "output": "Restatement or Paraphrasing" }, { "input": "that's really hard, i can feel your fear", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "i lost my job also because of covid economy inpact ", "output": "Self-disclosure" }, { "input": "have you try looking another job from nearby", "output": "Information" }, { "input": "that's a good news", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "you can also go online", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "you are welcome. you have to keep it together for a while before you get one. But i believe it will be soon", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "i have found a pert-time job also, it doesn't pay much but its better than nothing ", "output": "Self-disclosure" }, { "input": "exactly ", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "Hi there, how are you feeling at the moment? ", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "I am really sorry to hear that, is there anything specific causing this do you think? ", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "So you feel as though the virus has had a big impact on your life and is causing problems with your home situation? ", "output": "Restatement or Paraphrasing" }, { "input": "Have you tried contacting charities who might be able to help you out financially? ", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "There is money to be earned on the internet .. perhaps you could consider doing gig work? ", "output": "Information" }, { "input": "I know how difficult it is - I have been on furlough too and am finding financial things very tricky ", "output": "Self-disclosure" }, { "input": "A lot of people are really suffering at the moment. It's been such a terrible year but I am hopeful that things will get better in the New Year. ", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "Have you thought of trying to see a therapist? There are some charities that offer sessions for free ", "output": "Information" }, { "input": "They might be able to teach you breathing exercises or things like tht ", "output": "Information" }, { "input": "Do you normally have problems with anxiety even before the pandemic? ", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "Yes I can imagine that a lot of people feel like that. Do you feel as though things are hopeless without a job? ", "output": "Reflection of feelings" }, { "input": "Do you have a family to support? ", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "Do you feel that she feels less of you because of you being unemployed? ", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "I am really sorry for your situation and I really want things to be better for you in the New Year. All the best to you and yours for 2020! ", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "Don't forget to quit and take the survey :) ", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "hi", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "good. and you?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "Great. How may I assist you today?\n", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "Great. How may I assist you today?\n", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "Great talking to you too. I am sorry to hear that you are very worried. Why do you think you might lose your class? Are you not good at the subject?", "output": "Restatement or Paraphrasing" }, { "input": "It sounds like it is the problem of the professor. It is always good think about the worst case senario. If, if, you really fail the class, what will happen?", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "I see! I love your career goal. When I was a student, I visited my professor's room a lot. I did that for almost all classes. Some professors helped me a lot and gave me a lot of hint. Do you visit them as well?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "I see! I love your career goal. When I was a student, I visited my professor's room a lot. I did that for almost all classes. Some professors helped me a lot and gave me a lot of hint. Do you visit them as well?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "I can see that you have great passion and you've been making efforts. My school was in a small capital city and the professors were not occupied with other students at all. ", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "Since you're good at actual clinical stuff, I think you can do well at the tests too. Maybe you need more time to prepare for the test?", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "Those tests are tricky, then I would ask more than a few questions in the class before the test. Students need to know what exactly they need to study in order to pass the test. I don't think most professors will mind helping students prepare for the tests.\n", "output": "Reflection of feelings" }, { "input": "I am happy to help and I wish your great success in school and in your career.\n", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "anytime, merry Christmas", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "Hello how are you?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "Do you want to tell me more about it?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "I can understand that...", "output": "Restatement or Paraphrasing" }, { "input": "Did you lose your job because of this?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "Ouch, that's no good... I understand medical issues can cause all kinds of problems in our lives. ", "output": "Restatement or Paraphrasing" }, { "input": "I understand..", "output": "Restatement or Paraphrasing" }, { "input": "has the quality of your life improved?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "It's the small things that add up to a big picture..", "output": "Restatement or Paraphrasing" }, { "input": "How is your Christmas going?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "Well that is cool, I'm sure that will help take your mind off of some stuff.", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "I am a runner. I like to run when I get stressed out.", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "I understand having Substance Abuse issues. I was in a family with the some issues. It is tough on everybody I'm sure.", "output": "Reflection of feelings" }, { "input": "I am very familiar with it.", "output": "Reflection of feelings" }, { "input": "Do you have a large support group?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "No problem, I understand how hard things are some times. How else can I help today?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "No problem have a great rest of your Christmas!", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "how are you doing this morning\n", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "sorry to hear that, why are you soo down?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "if i heard you correctly, your fiancée which her family is going through a lot couldn't get married to you because of border restriction?", "output": "Restatement or Paraphrasing" }, { "input": "i can see why you are soo depressed, i am soo sorry for what both you and your fiancée is going through ", "output": "Reflection of feelings" }, { "input": "if i may ask, where is your fiancée from?\n", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "i have had of such scenario before, so what step have u taken to remedy the situation\n", "output": "Self-disclosure" }, { "input": "if you are an American, you can just go to Indonesia, get married to your beautiful fiancée and come back as a couple", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "ok. what about this: go to a country like Greece that allows American, tell your fiancée to meet you there. get married over there and spend your honeymoon there too", "output": "Information" }, { "input": "and if Greece didn't permit Indonesian, then you just go to Greece, wait there for two weeks and then leave for Indonesia.", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "i know you need to be with your fiancee during this hard time especially with what is going on with her family. But remember that you have to be strong for her. ", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "you're welcome", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "and do have a good day you self and stay safe", "output": "Restatement or Paraphrasing" }, { "input": "Hello, how are you feeling today? Is there anything you'd like to talk about? ", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "Oh I am so sorry to hear that - this is a terrible time of year to get dumped. Please know that it will get better in time! ", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "Well, although it sounds like a cliche, time does help with healing wounds. It took me a while to get over a break up. We had been together eight years! ", "output": "Self-disclosure" }, { "input": "Yes I think that it is but you really do need to be kind to yourself and give it time. Do you have good friends to support you? ", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "That is a blessing at least though I know it can be hard to see people in happy relationships when you are single. ", "output": "Reflection of feelings" }, { "input": "I cried a lot to be honest, especially as he was happy with someone else. But I tried to focus on my work and my hobbies. It helped. ", "output": "Self-disclosure" }, { "input": "Well I love to read. Do you have anything that you could do to help you relax and take your mind off things? ", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "Do you and she have any contact at all at the moment? ", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "Do you feel that perhaps you did not treat her as well as you could have done? ", "output": "Reflection of feelings" }, { "input": "Well, you have at least learned a lesson and in the future will treat women better I think :) ", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "Quite! It's all a learning experience in the end. Maybe you should talk to someone about it? A professional counsellor? ", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "I hope I have been able to give you some things to think about :). Take care and Merry Christmas! ", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "Do you need help?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "What is the real issue?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "I have been sad at times, but I listen to pleasant music.", "output": "Reflection of feelings" }, { "input": "When have you started feeling sad?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "I had fear of losing my job at times.", "output": "Self-disclosure" }, { "input": "I suggest doing stress relieving tasks", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "Can you repeat that? You had a pay cut in the last three months?", "output": "Restatement or Paraphrasing" }, { "input": "How do you know that layoffs are coming?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "Why not try to work for Uber or Lyft to supplement your income?", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "What did it state? I am sorry to hear the news.", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "Have you looked at updating your resume and looking on job boards?", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "That is a great comment. Being pro-active and looking for similar jobs can help.", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "It' good to take initiative and start looking for other sources of income.", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "I usually search job boards. It is what I have dine in the past.", "output": "Reflection of feelings" }, { "input": "It is important to believe in yourself.", "output": "Restatement or Paraphrasing" }, { "input": "I can also suggest Lyft...", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "What other feelings and thoughts can I discern for you?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "I think that I can be here to answer. ", "output": "Information" }, { "input": "How are my suggestions helping to reduce your unhappy demeanor?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "OK. You can click the Quit/Finish", "output": "Information" }, { "input": "Good afternoon. how are you?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "oh no. I am sorry, what happened?", "output": "Restatement or Paraphrasing" }, { "input": "I see. This pandemic terrible. sorry to hear that", "output": "Restatement or Paraphrasing" }, { "input": "That's pretty tough. You're like the 3rd person today who have been going through this,", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "Can they work with another company to secure you a job or can you come back to work later if you get lay off ?", "output": "Restatement or Paraphrasing" }, { "input": "Can you talk to your boss possibly and let him know you could do other job to help your boss so that you won't get laid off?", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "I see. If it is really likely to happen, I would brush up my resume, make it stand out, but job search can be really stressful. ", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "I see. Startimg your own business is something that could help. What do you think?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "Totally agree", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "yes, for example teaching something doesnt need much capital ", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "I am trying to become some online tutor at some point. what do you think?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "Hello", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "Good morning", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "Merry Christmas", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "How may I help you today?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "I am so sorry i know how you are feeling just know everything is going to be okay", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "what has been making your depression start?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "Have you looked into seeking therapy that will sometimes help with your depression", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "That is good. Have you been looking for another job putting in applications everywhere?", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "I know it is hard right now finding a job with this pandemic going on and it will take time but i know you will find a job soon", "output": "Self-disclosure" }, { "input": "You have to remain positive and keep your head and tell your self everything will be okay", "output": "Self-disclosure" }, { "input": "I can understand how you are feeling and you are not alone", "output": "Reflection of feelings" }, { "input": "You are welcome. Everything will be okay just know that.", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "Right and you have to take control of those negative thoughts and replace them with positive thoughts", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "You are right you have to learn to control your feelings towards a situation", "output": "Information" }, { "input": "Don't let depression take full control of you then it will be all bad ", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "once you learn how to have control over your feelings over situations then it will be pretty easy to maintain", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "Yes seeing a doctor would really be helpful for you.", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "No problem. have a Merry Christmas and cheer up please :)", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "I am glad I helped you today. Take Care.", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "Good evening. How are you feeling today? ", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "Is there anything you'd like to talk about? ", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "I am very sorry to hear that, this should be a fun time of year. What is going on in your life? ", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "Oh I am so sorry to hear that, how terrible! So you are feeling utterly bereft right now? ", "output": "Reflection of feelings" }, { "input": "Yes it really is for everyone. I had a family member get Covid earlier this year but thankfully they recovered. ", "output": "Self-disclosure" }, { "input": "So you feel let down by the Universe and everything? ", "output": "Reflection of feelings" }, { "input": "Did you know that there will soon be a vaccine available? I know it is too late for your cousin but it might set your mind at rest about the rest of your family ", "output": "Information" }, { "input": "Well, I think you should try it and see. Hopefully it will work for everyone. ", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "Yes. It is quite scary for all of us at the moment. Maybe it will be under control by this time next year though. ", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "Can you think of anything to do that would take your mind off things? ", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "Perhaps you could make a list of the things that you have to look forward to in the New Year? It might help reassure you that things can get better. ", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "Please try not to think like that! I think we will survive. I must go but Merry Christmas ! ", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "bye!", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "You need to end from your side .. I can't ", "output": "Information" }, { "input": "How are you?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "I am so sorry for your loss... When did this happen?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "Wow that is horrible, and you don't sound redundant at all.", "output": "Restatement or Paraphrasing" }, { "input": "I understand that loss is a painful thing to go through and can take us a while to learn to cope with it.", "output": "Restatement or Paraphrasing" }, { "input": "I take it you two were close?", "output": "Restatement or Paraphrasing" }, { "input": "I completely understand that. It is important to be able to let yourself heal.", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "Don't beat yourself up over things that we can't control.", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "What do you mean?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "I think that you need to understand that things happen about of our control and to not just accept it and forget it, but maybe put a day aside every year to celebrate her life.", "output": "Reflection of feelings" }, { "input": "My grandmother was amazing, and loved burritos, so we used to make them together. After she passed, we started making them as a family in order to celebrate the life she had and memories of her. ", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "That helps us all remember not her death, but her life and the good memories in a way that would show her how much you do care.", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "Do you celebrate Christmas?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "I do, Merry Christmas to you too!", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "It has been a very different year, I am glad we are nearing the end of it.", "output": "Reflection of feelings" }, { "input": "Is there anything else I can help you with?", "output": "Information" }, { "input": "I understand that I am glad to listen. It helps me just as much.", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "No problem you have a great rest of this year!", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "Thank you! Enjoy!", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "Why is that?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "I have been angry with friends as well, but time loves a hero, as they say.", "output": "Self-disclosure" }, { "input": "How long have your friends been neglecting you??", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "Any other questions for me?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "I know it is hard at times, but be strong.", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "I understand... What kind of work do you do?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "I understand that. How else are You", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "I am Jason by the way... How am I speaking with?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "Well I am male although I understand having issues everyday.", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "Are things slow at your work?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "How are you feeling right now?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "Well what's going on with your work? What's causing so much pressure in your life?", "output": "Reflection of feelings" }, { "input": "I can understand that, kind of makes you feel mistrustful?", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "I love music", "output": "Self-disclosure" }, { "input": "I honestly listen to mostly rap... lol what about you? What do you like?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "Although I pretty much listen to anything. Second in line is Country lol", "output": "Reflection of feelings" }, { "input": "What is your favorite instrument?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "I love piano, my favorite anyway... Do you play?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "I understand that. I tried to play once, but it was difficult. Variety is the spice of life.", "output": "Reflection of feelings" }, { "input": "I got further with piano than guitar, but that still wasn't far. I tick with just listening now. ", "output": "Self-disclosure" }, { "input": "I do enjoy it. I listen to music while I do everything. I run every morning as well so music is great. The running helps to relieve stress.", "output": "Self-disclosure" }, { "input": "What other hobbies do you have?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "I understand that. They definitely bring joy into our lives. Do you just have one?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "Well I am married with a wife and daughter... Been together for 15 years almost. ", "output": "Self-disclosure" }, { "input": "I am actually at the office today. I couldn't the day off.", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "Do you celebrate Christmas?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "Merry Christmas!", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "I just needed to tell you that in case you haven't heard it from anyone today.", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "Yes of course", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "What is on your mind?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "Ok great have a great day", "output": "Restatement or Paraphrasing" }, { "input": "What work is that?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "Have an amazing Christmas!", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "How can I assist you today?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "I feel that I can help you.", "output": "Reflection of feelings" }, { "input": "I have felt bad on Christmas as well, but feelings pass.", "output": "Self-disclosure" }, { "input": "You are making the right decision to talk to me.", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "So, you are in fear of losing a full-time job or pat-time job?", "output": "Restatement or Paraphrasing" }, { "input": "What makes you think and fear that layoffs at your job are imminent?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "I feel bad about that.", "output": "Reflection of feelings" }, { "input": "So, you have been out of a job for three months?", "output": "Restatement or Paraphrasing" }, { "input": "How else can I help?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "Have you consider becoming an Uber driver or Lyft driver to supplement your income?", "output": "Information" }, { "input": "You can definitely do it as a way to buffer yourself against loss of income.", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "Does that suggestion help?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "You could also reduce fear by considering Door dash and other food delivery services.", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "You have been a good person to take my advices.", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "I once struggled as well with fear over my job security, but decded to work many jobs to pay the bills.", "output": "Self-disclosure" }, { "input": "Do you need any other help?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "I feel good to point you in the best direction.....are we done?", "output": "Reflection of feelings" }, { "input": "Merry Christmas and Happy New Year.", "output": "Information" }, { "input": "I try and suggest ideas that benefit others.", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "You can select the red Quit and Finish button", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "Cheers to your health.", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "Im okay how are you?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "Oh no, that's not good. I understand how you feel there. I can definately relate to that...What's going on?", "output": "Restatement or Paraphrasing" }, { "input": "So you applied for the Security Team and was denied because of your full time position with the same company?", "output": "Restatement or Paraphrasing" }, { "input": "Wow, that is crazy that is going on, it doesn't seem fair at all...", "output": "Restatement or Paraphrasing" }, { "input": "Have you tried going to any higher up? Perhaps in the HR department?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "That's horrible they would treat the HOSPITAL workers like this, with everything that is going on in the world today.", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "That is a position right there in the line of fire.", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "Have you tried for employment anywhere else? I wouldn't just quit and not have something else at least working in the background. ", "output": "Self-disclosure" }, { "input": "I definitely understand that. Do you want a couple links on dealing with some stress? I personally like to run..", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "I live in Georgia so yes i so run every morning...Great stress reliever", "output": "Restatement or Paraphrasing" }, { "input": "Wow that is cold..", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "I could not run in that what so ever...\nDo you have a gym?", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "hi i am sorry to hear that \n", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "what are they trying to shame you with?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "what are they trying to shame you with?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "well, the donation to charity should be what either you can affort or volunteeer, it all depends on your situation\n", "output": "Reflection of feelings" }, { "input": "it has to come from the heart and if your circumstances do not allow that then they should not talk badly about you", "output": "Reflection of feelings" }, { "input": "shame on them to do that to you", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "well you might not consider them real friends if that is what they do.", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "it is always easier to judge over other people then to validate what anyone self is doing.", "output": "Information" }, { "input": "definatly not ...have you tried explaining your situation to them?", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "well i know thats something most people do not want to disclose can you help the organization with donating your time?", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "unfortunatly it is right now very comen this situation, so no shame for that,", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "a lot of times donating time to help organisatiosn is more valuable then money.", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "times and situations change so thats ok.", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "i worked for a non profit and the biggest struggle was to find volunteers to help out", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "I feel that is a great donation and if they do not like that tell them money is easy to give time not", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "Yeah, true, we need to stay above them then in all actuality we don't know what goes on behind closed doors in their life. sometimes people like that reflect ", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "BUt it should be what you want not what your 'freinds want.", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "you should be proud of yourself.", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "Hopefully next year will bring better things and maybe even a better friend that does not judge into your life.", "output": "Information" }, { "input": "well if they do not believe you as well you might really need to rethink your friendships and the meaning in those so called freind ships.", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "hopefully soon for all of us, but hold on to the thought of being healthy", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "I am hoping you will find the right solution.", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "thanks I wish you all the luck and health", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "good bye", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "same", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "you need to end the chat", "output": "Information" }, { "input": "Hello", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "How may I help you today?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "Have you tried to talk to your kids about that?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "Maybe that will be a good thing because it might make them wished they had listened to you and won't do it again,", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "Everything will be okay", "output": "Self-disclosure" }, { "input": "Try to talk to them and be very firm with them ", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "How about reward them with something if they listen and behave", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "Don't get to hard on yourself everything will be okay", "output": "Self-disclosure" }, { "input": "Yes maybe that will work for them and probably want to be outside ", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "I understand the corona has messed everything up this year", "output": "Reflection of feelings" }, { "input": "are they having a good Christmas", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "No i have no kids but want some one day", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "Right i understand that. Just talk to them and be firm with them that will get them to listen more.", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "Your welcome. Have a awesome Christmas to and stay safe to.", "output": "Information" }, { "input": "hello", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "I'm good. sorry I stepped out. ", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "Are you a veteran? I am happy to help. I am sorry to hear that. ", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "No I quit smoking 10 years ago ", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "I can only imagine your suffering but I used to date a Veteran and he had nightmare often so I could relate to you", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "Thanks, I agree. Health is important. Does that happen recently a lot?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "Thank you for serving our country. You are worth so much respect. ", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "Yes yes Marine is the toughest people in military. Wow. I think this is PTSD. I have been to Adult Hospitalization program where people who have depression, PTSD and anxiety disorders etc get together and talk to therapist. It helped a little bit. You might be intererested in that. ", "output": "Reflection of feelings" }, { "input": "I could only see that in movies. wow, so scary.", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "I think your minds have deep scar. It needs healing.", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "Wow I cannot imagine becoming a Marine. It requires a courage.", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "yes I recommend playing some instruments if you are intersted", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "yes I recommend playing some instruments if you are intersted", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "I've tried meditation while I was at Adult Hospitalization program. It was calming too. Yoga is good too.", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "For example, playing drums, learn piano, or use Diginal Music software to create music. If you are a music person", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "No i have only dated one", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "Good, something to free your mind and heal your mind. ", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "Taking care of your self is important. Stay happy and make sure you and your people around you are both happy. ", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "Nice talking to you too. Stay safe.", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "Merry Christmas", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "Hello", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "I am good how are you", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "How was your career path different?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "I understand how you are feeling everything will be okay", "output": "Reflection of feelings" }, { "input": "She did not like your career path?", "output": "Information" }, { "input": "If anything she was supposed to support whatever career path you took and that is not right ", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "It is weird to me also how she got into another relationship fast after she broke up with you just 2 months after", "output": "Reflection of feelings" }, { "input": "Right but to be honest I would not let that stress you out or be upset about it because you do not need anybody that don't support your career", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "I would just move on and let it go and focus on your self", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "Right i can understand how you are feeling. We all have been in a situation where we have the desire to marry someone and all that fails. I have been in a situation like that.", "output": "Self-disclosure" }, { "input": "I just had to let it go and just focus on myself because i had no choice ", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "No problem. Merry Christmas!", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "Thank you :)", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "Hi", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "I am doing good. How are you?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "so, you envy your friend having a good spouse, is that correct?", "output": "Restatement or Paraphrasing" }, { "input": "Are you a female, if I may ask?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "Do you have a husband or bf?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "You get frustrated that other people are achieving something, you are not able to do. Is that a fair understanding?", "output": "Restatement or Paraphrasing" }, { "input": "What do you think about your self as person? Kid, affectionate, caring?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "*kind", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "To be honest, here what I feel about you.. you have a lots of good qualities, you are a wonderful person. However, you shortchange yourself. If you can, please start building some self confidence.. Be proud of yourself.. ", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "Someone having a good hubby does not mean that she is happier than you", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "One secret in life is if you wish other people be happy from your heart, in turn it makes you happy. Give it a try, and you will realize it. ", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "We see so many picture perfect couples in celebrity world... some of them fall apart quickly.. we need to focus on our lives and pursue our happiness... ", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "Happy Holidays...\n", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "hello\n", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "I am good , how is your side,", "output": "Restatement or Paraphrasing" }, { "input": "how may be of help\n", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "okay, life is full of problems and challenges. Can you please tell me more about it. ", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "hello\n", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "that is very bad of him", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "Just from our conversations, I can see how hateful you are to that your friend behaviour ", "output": "Reflection of feelings" }, { "input": "I was in \n that kind situation when my rusted friend fucked up", "output": "Self-disclosure" }, { "input": "the major concern now is your girl friend, you need to try to let her trust you back. As much she loves you, she will forgive you ", "output": "Information" }, { "input": "plead her, let her know how bad your friend is. ", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "confess the fact to your girlfriend and feel remorseful ", "output": "Reflection of feelings" }, { "input": "distance yourself totally from bad company that cannot keep secret ", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "Fidelity is most important in any relationship, open up to your girlfriend and if she refuse to forgive you, try to tell someone you know can talk to her. ", "output": "Information" }, { "input": "Fidelity is most important in any relationship, open up to your girlfriend and if she refuse to forgive you, try to tell someone you know can talk to her. ", "output": "Information" }, { "input": "PLS END THE CHAT ", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "THANKS, ", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "BYE", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "PLS END THE CHAT ", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "Thank you. How are you?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "Very sorry for you loss. How long you had the dog?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "I understand what you are going through. This is one of most difficult time of someone's life. ", "output": "Reflection of feelings" }, { "input": "It is not just a dog. How insensitive of someone say that.", "output": "Reflection of feelings" }, { "input": "I suggest you pretty soon adapt another dog. This might help you fill up the emptiness. ", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "If you are not ready to get a new dog, another thing you might try to spend some time volunteering in a dog shelter... that might give you different perspective", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "If you are not comfortable going out due to COVID, you could involve some activities online promoting dog adaption and create awareness online and through social media.. ", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "Anything else I could help you with today?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "Thank you. Please use \"Finish and Quit\" to end the discussion.", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "Sure.. do you have any other pet?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "Good morning\n", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "How are you?\n", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "I'm sorry, what seems to be going on?\n", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "I am very sorry to hear that. \n", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "How long has it been cut off for?\n", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "Have you had a chance to talk to your employer? It often helps to get information out in the open and ensure that everyone is on the same page.\n", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "If you were able to talk to your boss, you may be given more clarity on whether or not your position would be one that is getting cut or not.\n", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "I understand completely, it won't be an easy conversation but I am sure you will feel better getting information on your position specifically. \n", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "Have you thought about reaching out to hiring agencies for help with a new job? I have gone through them before and they are very helpful!\n", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "I completely understand that and I can tell how uneasy this is making you. \n", "output": "Reflection of feelings" }, { "input": "I had the same concerns, as I had issues with the job market when the pandemic first started but I reached out to a hiring agency and they were able to find me a job. \n", "output": "Self-disclosure" }, { "input": "I lost mine when the pandemic first started. \n", "output": "Self-disclosure" }, { "input": "Not a problem!! If you ever need anything else just reach out and let us know!\n", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "hello\n", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "what is the problem you are facing \n", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "what is the problem you are facing \n", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "so you are saying that your grade is low and your professor is not listening to you\n", "output": "Restatement or Paraphrasing" }, { "input": "that's terrible, have you go through a lecturer that you are at least close to\n", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "i had an issue like that with my supervisor. He wouldn't schedule a meeting or reply my mail, not until i went to a lecturer they all know \n", "output": "Self-disclosure" }, { "input": "i can feel your stress, just take it easy with your self \n", "output": "Reflection of feelings" }, { "input": "yes, should mail or call him, leave a voice note if need be, tell him that you will take it up if he didn't respond to you", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "yes, it is holiday season. Have a nice holiday first and face the issue head on after\n", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "once everyone sees that you have been trying to get in touch with him but he refuse to respond, then your case is already favored ", "output": "Information" }, { "input": "you are welcome. you are doing the right thing because this involves your future", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "Hi, how's things? ", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "I am afraid that I am not able to see that .. can you tell me about it? ", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "I can understand that - when I was sitting my final exams I constantly had nightmares about failing. Nearly thirty years on and I still do!!", "output": "Self-disclosure" }, { "input": "But - you did really very well and you passed with an A. Do you think maybe you are being a little too hard on yourself? ", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "It sounds as though you feel that academic success is the most important thing in your life, would I be right in thinking this? ", "output": "Reflection of feelings" }, { "input": "Have you considered talking to anyone about these feelings of perfectionism? A therapist perhaps? ", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "There is a good deal of useful help and information out there for people who are struggling. ", "output": "Information" }, { "input": "Does your school have any counsellors offering help for free? Many do. ", "output": "Information" }, { "input": "I believe that there are some charities that will offer a certain number of free therapy sessions too ", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "Yes I think so though I am not totally sure. There should be someone at your school, online or not, who can advise you. ", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "Really though I think that your problem is self esteem .. you should think better of yourself :)", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "I can tell that you set yourself a very high standard but I also think that you need to be kind to yourself. ", "output": "Reflection of feelings" }, { "input": "I can understand that - this has been happening to me all of my life. Have you tried to take anything to help? ", "output": "Self-disclosure" }, { "input": "I can recommend a hot milky drink before bed and perhaps a hot water bottle. Anyway I hope that I have been able to be of some assistance to you! ", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "Have a lovely holiday season. ", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "And you :) remember to hit the quit button and take the survey ;) ", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "Hello", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "Sure I can", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "Have you talked to your boss about it?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "I can understand how you feeling you work extremely hard and get no raise when you deserve it", "output": "Reflection of feelings" }, { "input": "oh wow 15 years? I really believe you need a raise and doing more work now.", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "I honestly think you should bring it up to your boss", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "I can't believe he has not given you a raise by now ", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "Just tell him that you need to have a serious talk with him and tell him straight up what is on your mind don't hold it back", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "Yes I know you can do it but that is the only way to solve the situation is by communicating with him", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "Yes that would help more by bringing in proof to him ", "output": "Information" }, { "input": "Yes just remain calm with him ", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "getting a attitude with him will not help at all ", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "Don't let this situation get to you so much ", "output": "Self-disclosure" }, { "input": "Everything will be ok", "output": "Self-disclosure" }, { "input": "Your welcome i am sure he will give you a raise once you talk to him", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "I will be praying that you get the raise because you deserve it", "output": "Self-disclosure" }, { "input": "Your most welcome", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "Merry Christmas to you to!", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "Hello", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "How may i help you today?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "I am sorry I know exactly how you are feeling I have had a dog that i loved more than anything die couple years ago", "output": "Reflection of feelings" }, { "input": "What movie was it?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "Oh ok how did your dog die was something wrong with him or just old age?", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "I am really sorry that has got to be the worst feeling putting your dog to sleep", "output": "Reflection of feelings" }, { "input": "I just think of it this way your dog is in dog heaven and is watching over you that is how i think of it even though it really aint true thats just how i think", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "My dog died of old age ", "output": "Information" }, { "input": "it took me like 2 or 3 weeks to get over it and not cry for once ", "output": "Reflection of feelings" }, { "input": "I can understand how you feeling but everything will be okay and it is ok to miss her ", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "I understand I would break down to if I saw that ", "output": "Reflection of feelings" }, { "input": "Just do something you like to do to get your mind off of it ", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "Right it is always good to have someone to talk to in a situation like that ", "output": "Self-disclosure" }, { "input": "Just by expressing your feelings with someone will help a lot to", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "Maybe you can watch a comedy movie or another kind of movie to get your mind off of it", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "yes it would help. Keep your head up and know your dog is dog heaven and not suffering anymore.", "output": "Self-disclosure" }, { "input": "your welcome goodnight", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "how are you doing", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "how are you doing", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "i am good too\n\n", "output": "Restatement or Paraphrasing" }, { "input": "what's up with you", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "let me get you right, you mean you guy want to cheat on and he told you about it", "output": "Restatement or Paraphrasing" }, { "input": "wow, that will be tough on you because even if you said no, he might just do it without telling you", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "i can feel your anger and disappointment.", "output": "Reflection of feelings" }, { "input": "my ex cheated on me before and it hurts like hell\n", "output": "Self-disclosure" }, { "input": "my ex cheated on me before and it hurts like hell\n", "output": "Self-disclosure" }, { "input": "since when have you guys been together", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "that's a long time. ", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "have you guys seen a therapist ", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "every relationship has it's ups and down, just make sure you guys talk to an expert and make reason out of this . ", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "therapy has help my relationship a great deal ", "output": "Self-disclosure" }, { "input": "good, and make sure you are not too visibly angry at him for telling you. just help him trough the process\n", "output": "Information" }, { "input": "Hello there and Happy Holidays! I hope you are feeling okay at the moment? ", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "I am really sorry to hear that. Please know that I am happy to listen and to help you if I can! ", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "I am sorry to hear that. Have you separated or can you just not be together at Christmas? ", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "That is not good. But relationships can be reestablished if you talk. Have you considered seeing a third party to help you both talk this out? ", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "I seem, so do I hear you saying that you feel that everyone is against you on this and that you feel powerless? ", "output": "Restatement or Paraphrasing" }, { "input": "I am sorry that your parents are not being more supportive. I understand how hard it is when you have a break up and loved ones seem to support your ex! ", "output": "Self-disclosure" }, { "input": "Please know that you are not alone in this situation and that there will be light at the end of the tunnel. ", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "Yes it has .. my boyfriend left me for someone else and most of our mutual friends took his side! ", "output": "Self-disclosure" }, { "input": "Thank you :) I am sure that there is someone else out there for you too if you cannot reconcile with your ex. The question is, how much do you really want to? You might be better off without her ", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "That is a good way to think! Never let something like this destroy your self esteem. ", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "Yes, I am engaged now. I realise that my ex did me the biggest favour anyone ever could! ", "output": "Self-disclosure" }, { "input": "Maybe you should think about talking to a counsellor or something about this, just to work through your feelings? ", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "You are most welcome. I have a few minutes left to talk if there's anything else on your mind? ", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "How is life treating you otherwise? ", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "Hello there! How can I encourage you today?\n", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "So you have had a lot of stress with school lately and are struggling to keep yourself cheerful?", "output": "Restatement or Paraphrasing" }, { "input": "Is there something in particular at school that is stressing you out? Exams? Relationships?\n", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "I can understand being stressed if you think you are not doing well in school and have a lot of work. How are your grades now?", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "Yes, that can be tough. When I had a lot of tests coming up and a lot to study for, I wrote down goals to study -- like I broke down the classes and made certain goals to study a bit in each class. And then if I did that, I could go out with friends or some reward like that. ", "output": "Self-disclosure" }, { "input": "For example, if you have 7 classes, you can make a chart for when you will study for each of those classes and then check them off as you accomplish it, maybe not all in one day, maybe break it up in reasonable bits. Then study according to your goal, if that makes sense.", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "I remember after each class, I would take 15 minutes to review all my notes from class, that seems short, but really, it adds up and helped so much.\n", "output": "Self-disclosure" }, { "input": "Yes, stick to one subject at a time. For example, if you think 1/2 hour is good enough to study, then stick to that. When done, your done until the next time it is on your schedule.\n", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "Procrastination never makes us feel good. If I keep putting something off, I then feel guilty. If I make a goal, and I reach it, I can put a reward. For example, if you study 3 subjects 1/2 hour each, you can go out for yogurt with a friend. So you reward yourself for sticking to that goal.", "output": "Reflection of feelings" }, { "input": "Yes, I did. lol I'm really old now. This technique I use in all my life. Even house chores, I break it down into a schedule, put it in writing, then check off what I do. Then I feel good about my accomplishments.\n", "output": "Self-disclosure" }, { "input": "Definitely you need a break, so schedule them as rewards. You can even do 15 minutes in say 4 subjects, then take a walk, take a cup of tea, or call a friend, then back to the books. ", "output": "Reflection of feelings" }, { "input": "Keep it as SIMPLE as possible, don't get bogged down. I used to think planning was TERRIBLE< but actually, it sets one FREE. You feel so much better and accomplished when you see how much you have done. It really is amazing. \n", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "HOw man classes do you have?\n", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "many *", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "That's a lot but it is totally doable. Here is a good example, If you plant seeds in a garden today, you have to weed it a bit tomorrow, the next day, the next day, you have to wait for rain, then weed some more, the harvest comes and YAY! You are happy. But if you lie on your bed, never planting, never weeding, you procrastinate, you get nothing.\n", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "If you write your classes down and then write a reasonable time to study each one. Maybe 3 today, 3 tomorrow, then add rewards if you do that, maybe make a list of rewards, so you can pick and choose, then you check off when you do the subject. Like a chore chart. ", "output": "Information" }, { "input": "You are quite welcome! God bless have a great day!\n", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "Hello there! How can I encourage you today?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "Hello? Anyone there?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "Ah! I remember my thesis, a lot of work. One thing for certain, I have a lot of pride over my accomplishment, it was well worth it. When is it due?", "output": "Restatement or Paraphrasing" }, { "input": "I'm sure you will be able to finish it, sometimes we find ourselves in a slump and need some fresh air blown our way. ", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "Do you have an advisor who is holding you accountable?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "Whenever I have a large project and lose motivation, I set my goals on paper, then break it down into smaller bites. For example, I will make sure I work one hour on certain days, or call a friend, I generate ideas to keep me on track.", "output": "Self-disclosure" }, { "input": "Yes, I sometimes feel guilty and then don't want to face the music, but actually the best thing to do is recognize you are NOT the first person she knows that got behind. So she is surely experienced with people who need some encouragement. She is the BEST person to go to, actually.", "output": "Reflection of feelings" }, { "input": "It has always helped me. For example, you can break it down into 4 weeks, then each week write your goals -- maybe put call Advisor or go stop by every week, but I would put that first for the first week.", "output": "Self-disclosure" }, { "input": "Then as you check off items, you will see you are moving, even if at a snail's pace, you are moving, and that always encourages me. Sometimes I do not realize how much I AM doing, until I see it on paper. Paper doesn't lie, but my emotions sometimes cloud my thinking.", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "Another idea is rewards, when you finish one goal, perhaps put a reward for yourself, a yogurt with sprinkles or something like that", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "You sound like me! I had to learn that I need to strive for EXCELLENCE, not perfection. Perfection will drain us. Do the best I can, leave the rest to God. ", "output": "Self-disclosure" }, { "input": "That is why a time line is good. For example, you make a goal that you will work on your reference and citation page for one hour, after that, you are DONE, If you have time at the end, you can revisit it. The hour is my suggestion, you make your own. lol THAT way, you don't get caught going on and on for 6 hours to make it perfect. One hour is reasonable. ", "output": "Information" }, { "input": "I do this with EVERYTHING in life because I tend to go on and on too focused and lose track of everything. lol For example, I clean each room for 15 minutes a week. If it needs more, I do more, but I set the timer and you would be surprised how well that works, otherwise, I will spend all my time perfecting one room and the rest is a mess.", "output": "Self-disclosure" }, { "input": "Also, your Advisor will know tips to help you too. She has advised a lot of people, her objectivity and experience can give get RIGHT to the heart of any problem, quickly too.", "output": "Information" }, { "input": "Tough advisors are TOUGH. lol But You sound intelligent and you obviously WANT to do this, it is a goal of yours, I'm sure you can take it! ", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "It is only one more month of your life. If you buckle down, it will be over and done with before you know it. And I assure you, you will look back in pride at your accomplishments!", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "My Graduation Day was amazing. This is what life is about, working NOW for rewards later. It's like a garden, you sow, you weed, you wait for rain and weed some more. You keep waiting and weeding, then later harvest come. It takes time to work a little each day, then time passes whether you lay on your bed or whether you are in the garden working. If you lay on your bed, you get nothing, if you work a little every day, in time, you reap rewards. ", "output": "Self-disclosure" }, { "input": "Not much in life is easy or free, if we keep working little by little, as time passes, you real a lot of rewards, in fact, you will reap rewards of finishing this thesis for YEARS even decades. It is a great goal and a worthy one to keep at. ", "output": "Information" }, { "input": "I commend you for doing the thesis and I also know it can get weary as time passes, but with some goals on paper a visit to the ADVISOR (hee hee) will set you up right for continued success. ", "output": "Reflection of feelings" }, { "input": "You are very welcome. Have a blessed evening!! ", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "Good evening, how are you feeling today? ", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "I am sorry, I gather life is not going well for you right now? Would you like to talk about it? ", "output": "Restatement or Paraphrasing" }, { "input": "I am more than happy to listen and to help if I can. I do know how bad things can get at this time of year. ", "output": "Self-disclosure" }, { "input": "Let's take things one at a time .. have you lost your job recently? ", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "Yes, I can understand that jobs are very hard to come by right now \n", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "Well that is one positive thing. Can you tell me a little about the guy you are afraid to open up to? ", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "Well, I would recommend not taking things too quickly but relationships online CAN work - I met my fiance of ten years online. ", "output": "Self-disclosure" }, { "input": "But we did take it very slowly and talked for a year before we met in person. ", "output": "Self-disclosure" }, { "input": "Well, if he is reliable then he will be happy to wait till you are ready to meet. Where do you live, do you mind me asking? ", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "Ah well definitely do not contemplate meeting him whilst the pandemic is on! But it might be good excuse to put things off for a bit, do you think? ", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "I do think that it might be a while before travel in Europe fully opens up again. Things are not good here. ", "output": "Information" }, { "input": "I am in the UK. The pandemic is very bad here at the moment. ", "output": "Information" }, { "input": "Two more! It's very scary and I don't recommend coming either here or continental Europe right now. ", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "So, I hear you saying that you are a bit wary of the relationship and do not know if it can work in the real world? ", "output": "Reflection of feelings" }, { "input": "Turkish people are lovely and welcoming - you should not worry about that :). But don't let yourself be pushed into anything you don't feel ready for ", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "Yes I know a few Turkish people. They're very nice people, don't listen to any stereotypes! ", "output": "Information" }, { "input": "I do understand how trying new things can be very difficult - this is something that I struggle with myself. But - if you don't take a chance, how can you know what might have happened? ", "output": "Self-disclosure" }, { "input": "I really hope that I have been able to reassure you a little bit and help you to try to think things through. I wish you a very happy holiday season! ", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "It's Christmas Day here now but you too! ", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "Can you hit quit and take the survey? :) ", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "hello\nhow are you today\n", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "Im sorry to hear that. how can I help", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "That is always tough especially during this time of year and been there myself.", "output": "Self-disclosure" }, { "input": "What type of rejection are you experiencing", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "I hate to ask you this but are you male or female?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "I ask it changes the perception on how I may help you because male and females deal with things differently.", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "I am going to ask you a few questions if OK i don't want to sound like i am prying.", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "OK do yo live in a rural or city, are you into male females or the like?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "I too live in a rural area understand the complexities of tying to find someone. So my next question where looking to find that special connection.", "output": "Self-disclosure" }, { "input": "I understand doing that I have tried it myself and trying to find that connection is few and far between. What sites have you tried using?", "output": "Self-disclosure" }, { "input": "Well It would depend on if you were religious I would suggest church functions for example. I use my hobbies like pool and darts and cards and join groups that creates some common ground.", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "I have and i usually take someone i trust with me and if it doesnt feel right I leave.", "output": "Self-disclosure" }, { "input": "No problem glad I could help.", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "Is there anything else I can help with?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "Hello, how are you at the moment? My name is Jo ", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "I am not so bad. Is there anything you'd like to talk to me about today? ", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "I am sorry to hear that. What precipitated that, had you been having problems for a while? ", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "Ah, so you feel as though your mother could and should have helped and you were put into an impossible position you were not prepared for? ", "output": "Reflection of feelings" }, { "input": "I can sympathise with you having siblings with extreme mental health problems - I have been there too and I know how difficult it is. ", "output": "Self-disclosure" }, { "input": "Mentally ill people can unfortunately sometimes be manipulative, though they do not mean it. Have you had any contact with her since? ", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "That sounds very toxic. Is it possible to persuade her to seek medical help? I realise she might be reluctant to ", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "Ah yes, it is a terrible time at the moment isn't it? I think a lot of people are not getting the medical help that they need because of the virus ", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "Please do not beat yourself up over this - it does sound as though you have done absolutely everything you could to help. ", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "I can tell that you feel really bad about this just from your tone of voice. Please remember that you can't fix everything in the world. ", "output": "Reflection of feelings" }, { "input": "Socialising can be hard for people with mental health problems. It might have been best if you did not press her too hard to do that though I know you did not realise. ", "output": "Information" }, { "input": "Does she suffer from depression also? That might account for her trying to shut herself away ", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "I understand that it can be very difficult to make people take medication if they refuse to recognise that they have a problem. ", "output": "Restatement or Paraphrasing" }, { "input": "Unfortunately that is not likely to be possible. All you can do is be kind to yourself and know that you really did try to help her ", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "I hope that I have been able to help a little. I really appreciate that you felt that you could open up to me ", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "You're welcome. Have a lovely festive season! I feel that all will be better in the coming year. ", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "You need to press quit from your end and take the survey :) ", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "Hello! Is there anything that you want to talk about today? ", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "I am really sorry to her that. I hope that I can help you a little. Would you tell me what the problem is? ", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "Ah - so I hear you saying you are tempted to be unfaithful to your marriage vows? ", "output": "Reflection of feelings" }, { "input": "Well I must say that as a woman I would not allow it either ;) ", "output": "Self-disclosure" }, { "input": "It does sound like it. Are there any other problems in your marriage that might be making you unhappy or is it generally okay and you just want someone else too? ", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "Have you considered getting some sort of marriage guidance counselling? There are people out there who might be able to help you both ", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "I think it sounds as though you might be pushing her into things she is not ready for though. Have you considered that you might be the problem? ", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "No, I do not think you should say that! At least you recognise that you are not behaving well, which is the first step on the road to making things better. ", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "Perhaps you could consider individual counselling to overcome your own problems before you think of couples' therapy? ", "output": "Information" }, { "input": "Porn can be helpful for a relationship but it can also be damaging. ", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "Well, perhaps it would be better for you to learn that you can't just do that even though you want to :) ", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "I am forty five, fat and married :). I do recommend talking to someone though. ", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "I am glad you were able to confide a little in me and hope it is the first step on the road to a happier marriage. I do recommend not giving into your urges and remembering how much you love your wife. I wish you all the best for the future and have a lovely Christmas! ", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "(you need to end the conversation from your end - I can't ) ", "output": "Information" }, { "input": "Hello!", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "How are you today?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "Im sorry to hear that you are stressed. Would you like to talk about it?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "Well as a neutral individual i would be willing to listen to your concerns and or stressors. It can help to be able to vent to someone without judgement.", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "I see, it must feel like a lot of pressure to get so much done during an already hectic season. ", "output": "Reflection of feelings" }, { "input": "Well first off that is normal to feel that way. I think most of us do but just don't speak up about it. Also being away from your friends and family can cause feelings of doubt because you may not feel like you have trusted ones to lean on.\nHowever", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "You should try to take some time out of each day to instead of question yourself to congratulate yourself, because you are doing tough things on your own but hey youre DOING IT! ", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "For anxiety and stress i would sugesst taking time out away from all your chores and tasks and just be to yourself. What is something you enjoy? May a cup of tea or an episode of the office. You always have to take a moment for yourself ", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "Meditation, yoga, a warm bath these things can also be soothing as well. SOmetimes using kinectic energy up can help as well like going for a brisk walk to burn off the adrenaline that causes anxiety\n", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "Yes! Heck go all out and do both is you have a treadmill ha ha ! do what makes YOU happy even if just for a moment", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "IF your stress has become that high, then you go ahead and aknowledge the anxiety that is flowing through you. Give it you attention and close your eyes and start to ask yourself what is the root of what is scaring me. What is the official thoing i am afrad of or worried about. When our thoughts begin to race its hard to focus and we make mistakes and that adds to the stress. ", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "Would you like any links to a webpage or group that may also have tips or advice?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "Youre very welcome! I hope that you are able to enjoy the rest of your holiday", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "Hello, how are you", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "Oh no, how long had you been together?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "Wow, that's horrible. How do you feel about it?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "I understand, I was with my wife for 4 years before she up and left without saying a word.", "output": "Self-disclosure" }, { "input": "That can be a hard thing to go through especially this time of year", "output": "Restatement or Paraphrasing" }, { "input": "Do you have any family?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "Friends closeby?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "Hobbies?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "What kind of work do you do?", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "Well you know, I have found sometimes that we need time to ourselves in order to fully understand how we need to grow.", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "I have always tried to think of things in a positive way. This way even when something really bad happens, it doesn't seem so bad as to overwhelm us from recovering.", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "I'm actually trying to get into the Software Development field, how do you like it?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "Well, there is plenty of opportunity out there. Not too mention, being in that profession, you probably aren't hurting for money.", "output": "Restatement or Paraphrasing" }, { "input": "You can use that stress that has been building up to find a new outlet for the stress.", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "I completely understand. My wife used to think I was just playing on the computer all day, lol.", "output": "Self-disclosure" }, { "input": "I run", "output": "Self-disclosure" }, { "input": "Every morning, I jog about 2 miles. It is awesome to get the blood going and a great way to start the day.", "output": "Self-disclosure" }, { "input": "I feel so much more relaxed after running and it seems that nothing can hurt me after that.", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "I do know how a programming job can take away from some social aspects of your life, maybe try and go to a bar, or somewhere social to get out some.", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "No problem, I hope I have helped you some.", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "Happy Holidays!", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "Good night", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "Whats been going on?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "Oh no, that's not good", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "Ain't that the truth. ", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "I'm sure it isn't, how long had you been together?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "California is beautiful I know, but it can also be pretty quick paced.", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "Are you still working?", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "It's important that you know that you can feel whatever way you need to about your loss. Its a tough time of year for something like that.", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "Had things been pretty rocky?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "Wow, that's horrible. It seems you should have some kind of legal authority in that aspect.", "output": "Reflection of feelings" }, { "input": "Is that a big problem out there?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "It is important that you understand that it seems that she has been thinking of this for a while. ", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "Does she have family there?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "Have you spoken with her since she left?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "That's mid-boggling..", "output": "Restatement or Paraphrasing" }, { "input": "Do you have any hobbies?", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "Well, I can't make her come back, but I can provide you with some information on how to get through these tough times.", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "I understand, it can be good to help get some stress out in other ways. Do you excercise?", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "What kind of hobbies do you have?", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "I like to run every morning, and it seems to help make alot of stress evaporate.", "output": "Self-disclosure" }, { "input": "I have found for me anyway, that running is an amazing stress reliever.", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "Who do you see online?\n", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "What did he drop on you?\n", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "Can you block notifications for him? \n", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "How long ago did he stop it?\n", "output": "Information" }, { "input": "If you block him and he wants to get in touch, he will find a way. Make him work hard ", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "I think if he is interested still it will, if not his loss.", "output": "Restatement or Paraphrasing" }, { "input": "With him, or a relationship with someone?", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "Have you tried making other connections online? A lot of people are home during this pandemic, you may meet someone much better.", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "Keep busy! Get mad instead of sad! ", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "I would not contact him if he was not contacting me. You deserve better than that!", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "Yes, we women function better when we get pissed!", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "Play it cool and be ready to make up a whole bunch of fun things you have been doing. ", "output": "Reflection of feelings" }, { "input": "Of course you can! ", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "You may find your feelings have changed. Sometimes we just want what we don't have, lol.", "output": "Information" }, { "input": "You are welcome. Stay strong, you are stronger than you think.", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "Hi, what can I do to help you?\n", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "hi", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "Thanks for your sharing and sorry to hear about that", "output": "Restatement or Paraphrasing" }, { "input": "I felt the same way as you when your closed family members pass away", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "I would share my feeling with someone that I felt closed or some family members or your spouse that you can share your feeling.", "output": "Self-disclosure" }, { "input": "Do you try to talk to anyone about your feeling?", "output": "Reflection of feelings" }, { "input": "Or someone that close to you that you can share your feeling with?", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "Maybe try to talk about something that he is very interesting and help him away of focusing on COVID.", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "That is very good that you share with your family and pray if that helps you to relax.", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "And I felt the same way that COVID time is difficult to all of us ", "output": "Reflection of feelings" }, { "input": "Very good! Workout is another way to relief your stress", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "That is very nice. We are all hoping vaccine can relief us from anxieties. ", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "Sounds like you were doing very well of handling the situation. Please keep it up and always be mindful of sharing with you and your family.", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "And you should do that to share if that you believe that helps both of you to go through this difficult time", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "Wonderful! Pet can bring joyful moments to us and glad you done it for helping", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "Thank you for your sharing. We are all together to overcome this difficulty!", "output": "Reflection of feelings" }, { "input": "Is there anything that you would like to share or concerns with?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "You too and enjoy your holidays!", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "Hello! How are you?", "output": "Information" }, { "input": "I hope you are having a good Christmas Eve!", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "Are you feeling down about something?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "I actually understand that feeling a lot. I had to switch careers really recently. ", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "Do you like the new path you've chosen for yourself? ", "output": "Information" }, { "input": "Okay thats completely normal! ", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "What are your interests/what do you like to do? Thats a good starting question", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "Okay! Well thats a good start I would continue looking in that. ", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "Also if you miss working animals, you can always volunteer in a pet store. ", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "Do really like working with pets?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "Also if you want to go into counseling, I'd recommend trying to get some practical experience to see if you like it. ", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "Oh sweet I've always wanted a dog!", "output": "Self-disclosure" }, { "input": "Well it seems no matter what you can't go wrong. Do you want to talk about anything else?", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "Okay well have a good day!", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "Hello!", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "Of course! What have been down about? ", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "Oh I'm sorry to hear that. I know being alone in the holidays can be rough. ", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "Do you have any friends or people you can set up an online zoom call with? ", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "Also I feel that as well. Especially now these days its a bit hard to not think about being alone. ", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "Oh how about just texting or having periodic phone calls with friends? ", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "Yeah the pandemic has really stopped interactions. But that doesn't mean you can't stop talking to people completely!", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "Oh I see I'm so sorry to hear that. Have you tried doing other activities to make your mind off it?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "For me personally doing online gaming is a great way to interact with others and have fun. ", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "What type of movie were you trying to watch? Maybe choose a happier movie than a sad one. ", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "I would recommend games like Heartstone for stragedy, WoW for more role playing and if your into sci-fi, Cyberpunk cam out recently. ", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "Really any game that has multiplayer would be a good fit!", "output": "Information" }, { "input": "Oh sweet me too actually! I definitely recommend heartstone or any game that has a battle mode form ", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "Also I know thats its currently the holidays so maybe take your mind off right now and ask your friends later if they can talk!", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "I'm glad I can help! Is there anything else you would like to talk about>", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "Okay well I hope you have a great day!", "output": "Information" }, { "input": "How are you?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "Whats going on?\n", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "Do you want to talk about it? We all have issues that arise that can make life tough for us.", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "Oh no, what kind of work do you do? I'm so sorry to hear about your father.", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "Sometimes it seems that things can never get better, especially when we are in a tough situation. ", "output": "Restatement or Paraphrasing" }, { "input": "Have you spoken to unemployment?", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "I am sure he was, again I'm sorry to hear about your loss. this time of year, it's is tough for something like that to happen.", "output": "Self-disclosure" }, { "input": "Do you have any other close family?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "Friends to be with on Christmas? I'm so sorry to hear that.", "output": "Restatement or Paraphrasing" }, { "input": "Maybe he just doesn't know how to deal with loss. Some people have a hard time if they aren't sure how to deal with it.", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "You two could possibly become stronger together trying to figure out how to deal with your loss. Was it his brother?", "output": "Reflection of feelings" }, { "input": "I understand, I have had to rely on other close people many times in my life. Friends are some of the greatest things.", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "My name is Jason, I am from GA", "output": "Reflection of feelings" }, { "input": "I lived in Fremont, CA for a little while. ", "output": "Self-disclosure" }, { "input": "How is the weather today?", "output": "Self-disclosure" }, { "input": "No problem, I hope things get better for you. Happy Holidays!", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "Nice, the weather was always beautiful out there. I remember that. lol", "output": "Self-disclosure" }, { "input": "No problem buddy, Have a Merry Christmas", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "I am doing good. How are you?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "What kind of jobs are you looking for?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "Was it a phone interview or in-person interview?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "so, you are good with initial assessment and phone interview, and get uncomfortable during in-person interview, is that correct?", "output": "Restatement or Paraphrasing" }, { "input": "Have you tried anything yet to overcome this challenge?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "There are several technics people use.. first one you can dress up as you are going for interview and practice talking in front of a mirror. ", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "Not really, but I used one other technique. I asked my wife/gf to interview me. You know spouse or gf/bf would be very critical, and if you overcome him/her.. you would be very comfortable in front of the others.", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "yes, making your self uncomfortable means you are learning", "output": "Reflection of feelings" }, { "input": "Yes, this is make you over come the fear. ", "output": "Information" }, { "input": "Is there something else I can help you with? If not can you close the discussion?", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "just stay calm\n", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "don't think too much, make yourself busy with other things", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "how old is the guy\n\n", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "yes\n", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "you just need to stop thinking about her \n", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "make a fresh start again", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "i would not consider someone who ditched me", "output": "Self-disclosure" }, { "input": "I understand your feelings but try to overcome them \n", "output": "Reflection of feelings" }, { "input": "yes, once\n", "output": "Self-disclosure" }, { "input": "I was a student that time so focused on my studies. That's how I overcame that trauma ", "output": "Self-disclosure" }, { "input": "That was a big shock, I was in relationship for 3 years", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "i would suggest to play games or try to connect with new people", "output": "Reflection of feelings" }, { "input": "start looking for a new one because if she wanted to stay with you she would have never ditched you for Brad", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "yeah ", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "its ok, things happen, if she was actually in love with you, she would not leave you just for being in a different apartment\n", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "Hello, how are you doing today?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "I'm doing alright, thank you. I'm here for you if you'd like to tell me about anything going on in your life.", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "A lot of people are in a tight bind right now with money... myself included. Do you need money to buy presents?", "output": "Self-disclosure" }, { "input": "Where do you want to take your friends and girlfriend?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "That is very sweet of you. Is there a more affordable place you can take them? ", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "That is very sweet of you. Is there a more affordable place you can take them? ", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "It doesn't feel good to not have enough money to do the things you could normally do, but I'm sure that the people around you will be understanding.", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "Do you live somewhere hot or cold? Maybe you can plan something based on enjoying nature.", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "It seems like you feel like you will be a disappointment to your loved ones if you can't provide a special holiday celebration for them, is that right?", "output": "Reflection of feelings" }, { "input": "You might be surprised how your loved ones will react though. I think a lot of times it is more about the effort & time that you put into planning something. People will see the effort that you make, you seem very sweet.", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "How big of a party will it be?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "That seems like a lot of money to get quick, what part of the party will cost the most money?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "Maybe this year you could have a party in your home? And cook a lot of delicious food & ask people to bring their own drinks", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "It sounds like you have to decide whether the party is important enough to borrow money for. Its been such a hard year for everyone, that a party could be good to raise everyone's spirits. However it could make your financial situation worse.", "output": "Restatement or Paraphrasing" }, { "input": "Don't be afraid to ask the people you love for help! Bye", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "hi\n\n", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "how is your side? Please how may I be of help\n", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "I could see that you are indoor and bored because of the pandemic season \n", "output": "Restatement or Paraphrasing" }, { "input": "everyone says so, life is in circle, you just need to keep on pushing\n it simultaneously. ", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "do you have any hobby? that you can use to wipe away time ", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "I was once in that situation, but what helped me is that, I never give up, though I may be overwhelmed with the challenges and unpalatable situations ..... I keep on pressing it, \n", "output": "Reflection of feelings" }, { "input": "I am a lover of sport, just get use to it, anytime you are down, take your phone and watch football or basket ball either on YouTube or any other means .", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "that is what you need. Winner never quit !\n", "output": "Reflection of feelings" }, { "input": "Life is not friendly at a time, but when you look at mirror and tell yourself that you will make it, by God's grace you will make it \n", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "Jesus is the son of God and the savior, by His grace, we shall win ", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "hope you are satisfied, if so, you can end the chat ", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "amen, He will bless you either \n", "output": "Self-disclosure" }, { "input": "I'm sorry to hear that. Studying for tests can be very stressful. Do you study by yourself or with someone?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "Do you have friends in your class you can plan a study group with?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "It can be hard to make new friends in a new school. I'm sure the stress of being new isn't helping with the studying.", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "Is there anyone at home that can help you study?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "That is awesome that you have support from your brother. ", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "What type of study strategies do you use?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "Can you think of anything you can do, to help make your studying be more successful?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "I understand that you are feeling defeated right now. Is there anyone in your class you would feel comfortable reaching out to for help? Maybe the instructer?", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "I'm glad you are making a few friends. How would you feel about asking them to do a study group?", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "You are welcome. Have a wonderful day.", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "Im sorrty\nIm here", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "why do you think you are going to lose your job\n", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "That's not a good spot to be in, I completely understand.", "output": "Reflection of feelings" }, { "input": "That is horrible. Do you mind if I ask why?", "output": "Reflection of feelings" }, { "input": "How long have you been working there?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "I understand, I have been in a similar situation recently. COVID-19 really has got us all down.", "output": "Self-disclosure" }, { "input": "WOW, I'm sure that is a big change for you...", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "I agree, this country has got some issues but we can get through them", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "Uh, oh, how do you think she will react?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "The good news is that we are on an incline for unemployment so there are a lot of opportunities out there.", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "You could maybe tell her at the very end of this year so you can start fresh for the new year. Do you have a resume?", "output": "Information" }, { "input": "Sometimes that will help to get a better perspective on things... taking some time away from everything in order to catch a breath.", "output": "Information" }, { "input": "I hear ya, I feel like that quite a bit. Like if isn't one thing it's another. I'm sure your wife will understand how the economy has gotten and that she knows that it isn't your fault.", "output": "Information" }, { "input": "Sometimes it's hard to see the other door opening when we run into tough times, but remember all the good times you have had. Those would not be good times if it were'nt for tough times. ", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "Well try and think of maybe only spending half of that on lottery, maybe that will help to conserve some money in these tough times.", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "Do you have any hobbies?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "I don't think a huge change like that is neccessary, maybe just looking into options. Unemployment and government help until something else comes up.", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "That is an excellent way to help relieve some stress from our daily lives.", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "Exercise also releases endorphins that can make you feel happy.", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "I like to hear that, I am a proud American myself. ", "output": "Reflection of feelings" }, { "input": "It does wear off, but if you get into a routine of doing it, it will help to alleviate some of that sadness", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "Ok thank you I hope things get going in the right direction for you.", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "Merry Christmas!", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "Hello, how are you today?", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "I am sorry, when did this happen?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "I can understand the pain you must feel and the betrayal, that is absolutely awful.", "output": "Restatement or Paraphrasing" }, { "input": "How are your children doing through this?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "What a terrible thing for him to do. I agree with you not to upset them right before Christmas.", "output": "Reflection of feelings" }, { "input": "That is always a tough one. My suggestion is to not put him in a bad light since they do not have the angry feelings toward him that you do. Maybe tell them that he has made some choices in life that doesn't involve you, and unfortunately, we cannot control people and their feelings.", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "Exactly, that is a burden that children should never have to endure. They are always the innocent victims in our personal problems.", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "True! How old are they?", "output": "Information" }, { "input": "They should hopefully be young enough not to want details. Maybe if they ask say he didn't give you details because he apparently doesn't know himself what he wants. You sound like a very caring mother who wants the very best for her children.", "output": "Reflection of feelings" }, { "input": "I have a daughter and we have went through something similar in the past so I can relate. The truth is, I have found over time that it is our children who get us through these tough time.", "output": "Self-disclosure" }, { "input": "You will get through this and come out ahead in the long run, just stay strong!", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "Hello there, how are you?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "I'm very sorry to hear that, did something not go as planned recently?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "I see. So when she did this, it gave you the feeling of almost being replaced or abandoned by your own social circle?", "output": "Restatement or Paraphrasing" }, { "input": "It's definitely frustrating to feel that your support system could possibly become a source of stress and competition anxiety. Especially since it's where we're supposed to feel safe and unjudged.", "output": "Reflection of feelings" }, { "input": "It sounds that you're a person who really does care about keeping the relationships they've invested in healthy and open. That care level can definitely cause natural anxiousness in situations like this, when the place you stand with them and what they're thinking suddenly feels uncertain.", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "Right, and there are endless possibilites the mind can create outside of ideal. But funnily enough, the imagination of an idealist that lets them visualize great things can also create equally strong fears before getting answers. And thankfully those fears can be addressed outside of the head where they're made.", "output": "Information" }, { "input": "Have you tried reaching out to these friends yourself and initiating your own plan with them since this group chat?", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "Right, it can seem a bit confusing since you naturally would expect to feel comfortable with so much between each other already.", "output": "Reflection of feelings" }, { "input": "On the contrary, I think you might not be allowing yourself to ask enough!", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "Sometimes, the people who are closest to us can actually become even more anxious about how something might affect your feelings. It could be the case with him too", "output": "Information" }, { "input": "Some people express themselves best through their actions. Have you tried suggesting a meeting for something you'd usually do to see if they're willing to hang out just as always?", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "Hello! I am here to listen! How are you feeling?\n", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "Hello! I am here to listen! How are you feeling?\n", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "*you", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "So you are having trouble with Virtual school being so hard and it's causing you stress, am I understanding correctly?", "output": "Restatement or Paraphrasing" }, { "input": "I remember being in your position", "output": "Self-disclosure" }, { "input": "I know it's very hard and I am so sorry that you are stressed.", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "I know you said you want to quit, but hang in there! ", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "It sounds like you have always done well with school, this virus has made it to where so many people are struggling. Just chatting with you, I can feel how stressed and anxious about it you are!", "output": "Reflection of feelings" }, { "input": "I know that the situation with virtual learning is out of your control when it comes to how long it will last but is there anything you could do to relieve your stress while you are trying to learn things yourself?", "output": "Information" }, { "input": "When you start feeling stressed maybe you could try deep breathing for a few minutes to relax again. Or take a quick break and get some fresh air?", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "Is there anything else that you do in any other situation that would normally help you relax?", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "Oh wow that would make things complicated! But yes the deep breathing would definitely help, I'm sure!", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "Maybe you could reward yourself with a spa trip ever so often, since you enjoy it? ", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "Yes, please do! I am almost certain that could help you!\n", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "Yes, please do! I am almost certain that could help you!\n", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "Thank you for reaching out. Tell me more about it. ", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "yeah I agree. This pandemic has really been weighing on us. As it pertains to work, you feel like the lacking of personal interaction has distanced yourself and colleagues and you feel like there is an increasingly large barrier given the physical constraint? ", "output": "Restatement or Paraphrasing" }, { "input": "Can you tell me more about your work responsibilities - is it of a customer service nature? It would help me understand your situation better. I can relate to words vs. the combination of facial expression, body language, etc. The single channel of communication has stripped a lot of meaning and value and has made performance a lot more difficult. The transition is challenging and the uncertainty of the future also adds to the stress.", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "Thank you for sharing that. I have a better understanding now.What you feel is very valid, and I am sure it is shared among a lot of people this year. ", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "I am somewhat familiar with technical leadership. It requires a lot of mentoring and a level of comprehension of what others are doing. ", "output": "Reflection of feelings" }, { "input": "My current work is in the finance section. Prior to pandemic, the touch base with colleagues are rather pleasant. Now the workload has decreased and we are rigidly arranging for meetings in 30 minute time slots. It is challenging in a sense that it is harder to fill the gap. ", "output": "Self-disclosure" }, { "input": "yeah it is a classroom for us to learn to adapt to the new normal. I understand the removal of everyone being the same room and chat tools don't convey the meaning 100 percent. ", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "I would personally suggest more happy hours, in case you haven't already done so.", "output": "Information" }, { "input": "Holiday care packages would also be a good common ground for folks to gather around over something that is not work.", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "Yeah maybe also virtual meditation sessions can help concentration mind and body. It doesn't have to be hobbies of our own, but doing it as a team virtually can bring people together and boost morale. ", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "That is good to hear. I am aware that the other team in my company all read a book called How to Be Antiracist. It can serve as both learning and bonding purposes. ", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "I am glad that I can be of help. Thank you again for reaching out. Hope you adjust better to the changing norm next year and happy holidays. ", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "Hello.\n", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "What type of things are you worried about during the pandemic?\n", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "So just to make sure I understand, you are anxious about possibly loosing your job due to the pandemic\n", "output": "Restatement or Paraphrasing" }, { "input": "Have you looked into a hiring agency? They are great at helping find people jobs, especially in these hard times. \n", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "After interviews have you been following up to show interest again in the job?\n", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "Have you networked with any previous co-workers? They might be able to help you find something as well,\n", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "Just from chatting with you for a few I can tell this is making you very anxious/\n", "output": "Reflection of feelings" }, { "input": "I have also been worried recently about finding another job because of the pandemic, but I found that getting back into my hobbies has helped keep me distracted and get my mind off of it. \n", "output": "Self-disclosure" }, { "input": "I think painting more would be very helpful!\n", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "No problem! If you have any other issues just chat in!\n", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "I have! I went through hiring agencies and got one. It did take a while, but it was super helpful.\n", "output": "Self-disclosure" }, { "input": "I know you will find something soon!\n", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "You're welcome!\n", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "hell, sorry", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "How are you today?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "I totally understand how you feel", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "If you don't mind may I ask you a few question? Are you trying to find gigs?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "Sorry. I guess you have to change your plan so much. ", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "I meant you had to change your plan ", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "I am also looking for more gigs and because of Covid, I'm only looking online jobs", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "yes just like this mturk", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "Jobs are super competitive these days. Have you thought about becoming a YouTuber or a live streamer?", "output": "Reflection of feelings" }, { "input": "I believe after Covid is over more onsite jobs will be available. I hope you will be able to comfortably spend your days until then.", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "Oh I see. I see you have made a lot of effort to get additional income. Wonderful, I believe you are a great worker when you work, whatever you do. You have passion and motivation. ", "output": "Reflection of feelings" }, { "input": "I would brush up my resume, make it more noticeable, change your LinkedIn profile if you have one. So that future employer will be able to find you, such a great candidate. ", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "About resume, one of my friends added his picture wearing a Trump tie on his resume lol . I thought it was weird but whatever it makes it noticeable could help.", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "Or you could start your own business as you have already tried as a YouTuber. I heard a lot of people starts their own because of Covid", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "Me either, I had never seen a resume with a picture. Yes wear a nice suit and look good. ", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "Oh I see. Woodworking sounds cool! I would do the same and start my own business as a side at first. ", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "It makes me want to lift my dumbells and get some muscles!!", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "I hope you'll find something perfect soon and enjoy your quiet Chrismas\n", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "ok it was great talking to you. Good luck. Bye", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "Hello, I am doing well. How are you doing today?", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "Oh, it sounds like you are stressed from the academic pressure that you are facing right now?", "output": "Reflection of feelings" }, { "input": "I see how this can be stressful for you and your fellow peers. Have you tried other steps besides the one's you tried before by contacting the professor?", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "I can relate to this because it is hard to work and do school as well. I can tell it makes you feel concerned about your schooling and you want to do the best you can. ", "output": "Reflection of feelings" }, { "input": "You are doing great I believe and really trying hard to do your schoolwork right.", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "Why do you think that might be? ", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "I would try to have a regular to set a goal for each day by stating to yourself today is a new day, remain focus on the task at hand, try not to worry about all tasks at once, and lastly try to find a relaxing sleep schedule that fits your needs.", "output": "Self-disclosure" }, { "input": "Yes, It will be hard at first because you are not use to it, but once you get started your life will be so much more relaxing. Your stress level will become more less than what is was before. Also, You will be able to have a clearer mind to concentrate on your schoolwork more by having this new schedule. ", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "I am glad to hear because you can do it. I believe in you. I am happy that this really help you and you are so very welcome. ", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "I wish you a great school semester because you deserve it. I am glad you feel better and continue keep this motivation about yourself to bring out the best you can be. Never settle less. You are so welcome, and I wish you a Happy Holiday as well. ", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "Hello, Merry Christmas Eve", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "How are you today? I am buried in cookie dough, lol, but happy and wwell.", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "Yes it is nice. Are you doing anything festive today?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "I understand that times are rough lately. Sounds like there is some time to figure it out, take full advantage of all the time you can. I hope it works out and a new position becomes available, I know your story is shared by many right now. What a crazy time we are in", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "yes it does, on top it says inputing", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "what are cv's? I see, I am getting by by dping a billion a day lol", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "but there is other income, im not sure it would support me otherwise. Are there other lines of work you could look into?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "well the title sounds legit, lol, but yes i see and understand. Did you do the trainging in the warehouse for the research job?", "output": "Restatement or Paraphrasing" }, { "input": "oh i see. ", "output": "Restatement or Paraphrasing" }, { "input": "If this odd job tasks site exists maybe there a more related oppurtunites to get into that pay more. Or really, the green field is a good one to get into right now I think like solar companies and such. They are going to become more prevalent soon. ", "output": "Self-disclosure" }, { "input": "I make a good case right so you might think I was but no, I am not I only wish to be. I wish to be much more than I am but ya know I work with what I can find to do. Id savd the world every day if zi could knowing my efforts were toowrads a good cause. ", "output": "Self-disclosure" }, { "input": "I always tell my other half, they might just take a chance and hire out of their skill zone if you have drive and interest in the field. ", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "as we were told growing up the worst they could say is no, ", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "yes for sure\ndont go on like that for too long. ", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "any who my computer is going to die i want to finish befoe it does, it that ok?", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "ok nice chat you too", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "good luck", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "Hello! How are you today?", "output": "Information" }, { "input": "You are feeling anxious about the future?\n", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "Ok. You are making some assumptions on information you have about your company. Remember that you may not know the whole story. ", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "I, too, have made assumptions that affection my outlook and caused anxiety.\n", "output": "Self-disclosure" }, { "input": "My assumptions were often wrong. ", "output": "Self-disclosure" }, { "input": "Ok. Have you thought about a plan? When you tell your family, it may help to state your planned actions. This may help with feelings of uncertainty, both theirs and yours.\n", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "When I have been in a similar situation, I started reaching out to my network of friends and coworkers before I was let go.", "output": "Self-disclosure" }, { "input": "I know. This is the worst time of year for this news. Surprisingly, it happens very often.", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "Having 2 months of savings is FANTASTIC! More than most people. ", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "Do you anticipate any roadblocks to finding new employment in your industry?\n", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "I understand your feelings. The holidays are a joyous time. No place for uncertainty.", "output": "Restatement or Paraphrasing" }, { "input": "Do you think that outlining a plan of action, and sharing that with your family will help turn this around a bit? Perhaps, think about as looking forward to a better opportunity in your future?", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "The stimulus has helped a lot of people get through this tough time. Sounds like you will feel much more secure knowing that you will have some income, and not have to use your savings that you worked so hard for.", "output": "Information" }, { "input": "It's a wonderful thing to love your job. I love mine, as well, and would feel bad if it were put at risk.", "output": "Self-disclosure" }, { "input": "Your hard work and savings will get you through, no matter what happens or the gods decree. You have demonstrated that you can take care of yourself and your family.", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "I can say that many friends of mine have found new jobs, most have left their old ones willingly for new opportunities. There are out there.", "output": "Self-disclosure" }, { "input": "Consider making your plan of action, regardless of what happens with the stimulus. THis is an unprecedented time. There may be ways to...use it to your advantage.\n", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "You, too. Thank you, and take care :-)", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "hello how may I assist you today?\n", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "I am sorry to hear that. I know how you feel. ", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "What have you tried in the past to turn things around?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "So you are missing your mom?", "output": "Restatement or Paraphrasing" }, { "input": "Oh I see my mom has also done this in the past. Sometimes I wonder who raised who?", "output": "Self-disclosure" }, { "input": "That is the worst. I ended up having to cut my mom out of my life.", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "Sometimes it is for the best to set clear boundries.", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "Is Grand mother ashamed of you or her daughter? I feel it should be her ashamed of her daughter.", "output": "Restatement or Paraphrasing" }, { "input": "At least that is a good thing to come out of a bad situation.", "output": "Reflection of feelings" }, { "input": "I do not think that would have a reflection on you. It should only reflect on your mom.", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "It may be nice to have a bonus house for the future. But even that comes with headaches. In the end you have to do what is best for you. ", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "Or sell it now and pocket the money to recoup what was lost.", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "So she is just talking circles and not accomplishing what she says?", "output": "Restatement or Paraphrasing" }, { "input": "Some people do choose that life to be free of responsibility.", "output": "Restatement or Paraphrasing" }, { "input": "Have you had a talk with her about seeing a mental health professional, She may be having some issues that would benefit from care. ", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "Often police officers are not fully trained in helping mentally ill people, they only access if the person is a danger to themselves or others. ", "output": "Information" }, { "input": "A good first step is taking her to your local mental health provider. Or ask at a major emergency room where this is located as sometimes the places are hard to find. ", "output": "Information" }, { "input": "Without treatment she may just be getting worse.", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "That is good to hear..", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "That does make it difficult when a partner encourages you to engage in unhealthy behavior.", "output": "Reflection of feelings" }, { "input": "I suggest talking to your girlfriend about how it makes you feel when she insists you continue a relationship that causes so much pain. ", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "It was nice talking to you.", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "Hello, i am here to listen. How may i help you? ", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "How are you today?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "I am sorry to hear you are not doing do good. Can you tell me how this feeling came about?", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "It seems as if you may have some doubt and may feel unwanted and because of this you feel sad.", "output": "Restatement or Paraphrasing" }, { "input": "Does this sound correct?", "output": "Restatement or Paraphrasing" }, { "input": "Yes.", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "I have been were you are right now and i know you may be hurting at the moment.", "output": "Self-disclosure" }, { "input": "What is ot you feel you may be missing?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "it*", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "You mentioned you feel sad and unloved but you have a good family. Do you feel as if you lack a good support systems within your family?", "output": "Reflection of feelings" }, { "input": "No, not any more. I have to reflect on what was causes my feelings to be so negative and i corrected them.", "output": "Self-disclosure" }, { "input": "From listening to you it seems as if you love your family and they also love and for sure want nothing but the best for you. The only thing is, is what's best for them seems like it is not best for you. What would you say?", "output": "Reflection of feelings" }, { "input": "Hello?", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "Why have you been feeling stressed and anxious? \n", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "I'm sure you tried your best on that test, as long as you study hard I believe you can ace those next 2 exams!", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "I've heard that meditation can help with stress and focus, maybe you could try meditating for a bit before you study?", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "Meditation is essentially focussing on breathing, you could start by closing your eyes and slowly breathe in an out.", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "From what you're saying to me, I feel that you don't believe in yourself very much.\n", "output": "Reflection of feelings" }, { "input": "I've struggled with the same thing before, whenever I doubt myself I look back at all i've accomplished and look at myself in the mirror and tell myself that I can do it. It has worked well for me.", "output": "Self-disclosure" }, { "input": "Psychologies studies show that spacing out your studying and relearning helps you remember more information, you could try to section off your studying and then reviewing information before the exam!", "output": "Information" }, { "input": "I'm sure you'll do your best and pass that exam with flying colors!", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "I have two actually! 1. Do not procrastinate as that will only cause you more stress and 2. Believe in yourself! I know you can do it, you should too!", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "Of course! I'm glad you're feeling more confident!\n", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "Hello, how are you feeling this evening?", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "Can you explain to me more in depth what events are making you feel this way?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "I understand exactly how you feel since I am also unable to go fly out to see my family this Christmas.", "output": "Self-disclosure" }, { "input": "It sounds like you are very overwhelmed with the amount of work you have and having no break, correct?", "output": "Reflection of feelings" }, { "input": "When I start to feel alone and missing my family or friends, I usually like the plan a skype or group facetime session right after I get off of work.", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "There are online resources to have some fun with friends too--many blogs suggest hosting a group game night or a shared movie night.", "output": "Information" }, { "input": "I am sure with a bit of trial and error, hosting a movie or game night would be a breeze for you too!", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "Having this winter sadness, especially around holiday times, may be a sign of seasonal depression. ", "output": "Information" }, { "input": "I have had seasonal depression in the past, and going on nature hikes and bike rides has helped me a lot.", "output": "Self-disclosure" }, { "input": "Maybe spending less time inside your home and grabbing some fresh air can relieve some of that anxiety and stress.", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "Research shows that physical activity greatly reduces stress!", "output": "Information" }, { "input": "It sounds like going out more would be very beneficial to you!", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "Hello, my name is Jonathan. May I ask who I am speaking to today?\n", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "Hi Keri. How are you today?", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "Oh no. I'm sorry to hear that. What do you think would be the cause of you feeling down lately?", "output": "Information" }, { "input": "Oh Keri, that must feel awful. Was it a recent separation between you two?", "output": "Information" }, { "input": "Yeah I understand what you're going through. I was in a similar position not too long ago. I had a hard time wrapping my head around how fast my ex could move on from what we had. How does it make you feel that he's trying to start a new relationship so soon after yours?", "output": "Self-disclosure" }, { "input": "That must feel really isolating. But working on yourself and becoming a better you is the only way to move on in a healthy manner. I think you're doing the right thing in waiting and learning to love yourself before you can open up and love another. ", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "I might not understand that particular aspect, but self worth is still self worth no matter the context. I'd say try not to pay any mind to what he's up to. The grass always looks greener on the other side of the fence, but if you just focus on watering your grass (making yourself happy) then you'll have a much more fulfilling life. ", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "Oh absolutely Keri. Thanks for opening up and sharing your experience and feelings with me for just a few minutes. It was great to talk to you. ", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "Happy Holidays Keri. Keep your head up!", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "Hi there, how is this season treating you? ", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "Well let's be grateful for small mercies :). How are you feeling in yourself though? Is there anything you'd like to talk about? ", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "Ah I am sorry to hear that. Please try not to worry too much as it's a common worry to have. Do you want to tell me the details? ", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "So you are feeling as though you are in the wrong place? Do you feel as though you might fail your class completely? ", "output": "Reflection of feelings" }, { "input": "But do you really think that you would have been admitted to the class if you were not up to the standard? Do you think that maybe most of your classmates are secretly feeling the same? ", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "This sounds like it might be a self esteem issue and not about your grades. I have felt this sort of thing myself and I do know how awful it is to be so hard on yourself. ", "output": "Self-disclosure" }, { "input": "Have you thought about seeing a therapist? Does your school have any free therapy programmes you could use? ", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "A far as I am aware there are charitable organisations which can arrange a few free therapy session for you. Perhaps you could talk to your doctor about it? ", "output": "Information" }, { "input": "I have had free therapy sessions before and I found them very helpful ", "output": "Self-disclosure" }, { "input": "It would help you work on your self confidence and you might find that you are not doing as badly in school as you think you are. ", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "Then I think it is probably just a general self esteem issue and nothing academic! ", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "Anyway it's been really nice to talk to you and I hope that everything goes your way ", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "You're most welcome, have a lovely Holiday season. ", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "hello how are \n", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "you", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "what is the problem bud?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "fuck women all my homies hate women \n", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "don't worry about it just lighting the mood but really girls can be complicated and i get that its hard to understand why she left", "output": "Reflection of feelings" }, { "input": "just give some time for yourself hangout with your friends and be free ", "output": "Information" }, { "input": "what about family I'm sure they'd love to have you around for Christmas ", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "trust me family never thinks of you like that you'll always be great to them ", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "no man you don't need her she had her chance and you'll find the right one someday just hang in there ", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "if she was the one then she wouldn't have left you're better off without her give other girls a chance ", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "well what else do you enjoy", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "try magic the gathering ", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "Hello, don't worry, I am here to help. Could you tell me what is going on?\n", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "I can definetely imagine how stressful the last week of school can be, especially taking 5 courses instead of 4.\n", "output": "Reflection of feelings" }, { "input": "However, don't let this situation scare you or ruin your holidays. There are ways to cope with said stress.\n", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "First of all, do you have some academic counselor you can talk to? Help you organize your ideas or classwork? Can you refer to professors or fellow classmates for help?\n", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "Are you confident in your abilities to succeed in those classes or you think you might lack the materials or knowledge? Or perhaps time?\n", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "It's okto be moody given the circumstances and the stress you are going through, and I think that you should attemp to complete all the assignments even if you don't get a 100% on them.\n", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "That will show the professors that you are responsible and care about the subject or perhaps your major.\n", "output": "Information" }, { "input": "Accomplishing to submit everything will also make you feel good with yourself!\n", "output": "Information" }, { "input": "It's important than you take your time.\n", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "I understand that college can be financially demanding.\n", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "You need to think that you will have a secure job once you graduate, and every debt will be eventually paid off even if Biden doesn't forgive it.\n", "output": "Information" }, { "input": "Try to remain optimistic and shake away the anxiety, it won't do you\n any good.", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "Do you feel better after talking about all of this?\n", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "Not at all, I think what you are experiencing is completely normal, and you just have to cope with it in the most optimistic way possible. Maybe getting your assignments done in time will be helpful for your anxiety. After that, you will have tons of time to spend with friends, family, or simply leisure time to do what you enjoy.\n", "output": "Information" }, { "input": "It is a pleasure to help : )", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "Hello, I'm so sorry to hear that. That sounds like an awful lot to go through in a few years time, which now can feel like the time passes so quickly. \n\n", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "Have you tried to talk to your therapist through video chat or is that something they offer?\n", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "That's great that they can offer that, I know it's very difficult to get regular care at the moment with the pandemic. \n", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "Do you have any family or friends close by or something that you can talk to if you feel like you need some extra support?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "I am sorry to hear that, people are very quick to judge so it's very unfortunate that you were treated that way. \n", "output": "Reflection of feelings" }, { "input": "Wow, I can't imagine what the car must have looked like then for such a comment to be made. I'm glad that you here and despite going through that trauma that you are still going.\n ", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "A women fell asleep at the wheel in 2013 and hit me going through an intersection and totaled by car as well, but I had only had a concussion and pain I had to go to physical therapy for a short time, so I can't imagine how you must have felt.\n", "output": "Self-disclosure" }, { "input": "I'm sorry that you didn't get the support you needed after your accidents because it's hard enough to go through the pain and trauma (mental and physical) to begin with and the support is much needed.\n", "output": "Restatement or Paraphrasing" }, { "input": "You are 100% correct. Have you looked into any support groups at all or tried to connect with anyone with similar experiences through social media? ", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "Gotcha! Well I'm glad I was able to connect with you this evening because sometimes it helps just to chat and have someone listen :-) ", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "I hope that for 2021 things can somewhat go back to normal so the routines can get back to what they were and that this next year is your best year yet. You have already been through so much to be in your 20's.\n", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "Hi, are you having a good day at the moment? ", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "Is there a general problem that you would like to talk about? I am more than happy to listen. ", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "I am sorry to hear that but try not to panic, just failing one class is not the end of the world. How do you feel about retaking it? ", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "Ah so you feel that this is going to be severely disruptive to your plans for this winter break? ", "output": "Restatement or Paraphrasing" }, { "input": "Is it possible for you to get any sort of private tutoring which might help you? ", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "Ah .. in that case is it possible to talk to your doctor? They might be able to get a special allowance for you given your personal circumstances ", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "I think that it would be a really good idea if you talked to them about it. They will probably be a lot more understanding than you might think ", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "If they love you, and I am sure that your family do, then they will accept what has happened without criticism ", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "Well, do you have any siblings that you are close to and that you could tell first? ", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "It is good to hear you have a twin. Are you very close? ", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "Well I think that it might be a very good idea if she could approach the rest of your family and maybe even your therapist on your behalf? ", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "Well, your therapist is not, in my mind, as important as your family. But I think that both will understand! ", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "Hello", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "How may I help you today?", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "Why?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "So your boss never showed up to cover people on PTO is that correct?", "output": "Restatement or Paraphrasing" }, { "input": "Did anybody ever get in contact with her and to see why she never showed up?", "output": "Information" }, { "input": "I understand how you are feeling because i would be angry to", "output": "Reflection of feelings" }, { "input": "I feel like she should of let everyone know that before she decided to do that", "output": "Information" }, { "input": "Have you personally had a conversation with her and tell her how you was feeling?", "output": "Information" }, { "input": "Don't be afraid to bring it up because you did nothing wrong", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "I don't see why she would get mad but if she does then just leave it alone and move on and just do your job", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "That is what i would do", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "I honestly do not think she will get mad just try to talk to her ", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "I would just let it go because to me it's not worth being mad over for a long time you have to just let it go ", "output": "Self-disclosure" }, { "input": "I understand she should of talked to you about changing her mind ", "output": "Reflection of feelings" }, { "input": "I mean you know it won't hurt to try to bring it up and see what happens", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "seems to me your boss is not doing her job right ", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "How is your day going today? Do you have anything on your mind? ", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "I am sorry to hear that - so life is not great at the moment? Would you like to tell me more? ", "output": "Restatement or Paraphrasing" }, { "input": "I understand. I know how hard it can be to open up about what is worrying you. I've been in that position too. ", "output": "Self-disclosure" }, { "input": "Oh I am so sorry! That is a really unpleasant thing to do to someone, especially at this time of year. ", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "Is there anyone close to you that you can talk to about this? Friends? ", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "Yes it is a very cowardly thing to do. I am quite disgusted that she did not have the courage to talk to you face to face too. You have every right to feel angry. ", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "Unfortunately there are people out there who are not true friends and who just want something to talk about. I have experienced that myself. ", "output": "Self-disclosure" }, { "input": "It really is not is it! I can tell how upset you feel just from talking to you, and also that the method of the break up is really sore point. ", "output": "Reflection of feelings" }, { "input": "It could be that you are better off without her? If she has such bad manners then I think that you cn do better. ", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "Yes I do. I would not personally do that to someone even if I was unhappy in relationship. ", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "Yes I have been dumped. We had been together for eight years and he left me for another woman. ", "output": "Self-disclosure" }, { "input": "I know how you are feeling but I think that you need to get professional help to move on. Are you able to go to therapy? ", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "Well, I think it could be really beneficial to let your anger out ", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "That would be an absolutely terrible thing to do. Do you really think that your friend would do a t hing like that to you? ", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "Do you think that perhaps you should talk to him before anything happens? You do not want to ruin your friendship by having him do that ", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "Well you do not want to let that situation escalate any further. I hope I have been able to be of some help to you and I urge you to look for professional therapy if you can. All the best to you for Christmas and the year 2021! ", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "Yes you really should. All the best and thanks for talking. ", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "Hey, how are you doing today? Anything going on?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "I know actually I've had a rough day, but would love to hear about yours.", "output": "Self-disclosure" }, { "input": "That's okay, just wanted to reach out and see how you are!", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "Oh no, I am so sorry to hear that. So it sounds a bit like you are entering a period of uncertainty and are going to be struggling :(", "output": "Restatement or Paraphrasing" }, { "input": "Well i know it is difficult, but just wanted to share that I am here for you in these hard times. And you're so smart that even if you lose this job you will find another one :)", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "Actually currently I am unemployed too actually, although I have a new opportunity starting next month. So I know it can be rough ", "output": "Self-disclosure" }, { "input": "Well have you thought of any next steps to take? From what I have seen, it is easier to start looking for a new job before you need to leave the old one. Maybe you could start job searching sooner rather than later? I might have some contacts that can help", "output": "Information" }, { "input": "Awesome! Let me know if there is anything else I can do to help you in these tough times. It can be useful to take some time to relax too :) Maybe eat a favorite food or talk with a friend or go on a long walk to destress :)", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "Awesome, meditation can always help make complex problems feel a bit simpler. And it is okay to feel upset right now, as long as you realize that things will get better, and that you have lots of people supporting you!", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "Anything else i can help you with? Or are you going to go meditate now?", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "You're welcome! Hope you have a wonderful week :) Always good to chat", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "Of course!", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "Yup, again, it is always great to reach out since other people might be going through the same struggles! I was feeling upset until I messaged you and now I feel happier!", "output": "Self-disclosure" }, { "input": "Bye!", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "You're welcome!", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "Hi! How are you tonight?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "Glad to hear that! Is there some way I can encourage you? :D", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "What is the worst part of it for you? Can you identify that? I'll be honest, my husband and I don't even see anyone dying. ", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "Half your neighbors died?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "So do you think you can identify the most difficult problem you have? Maybe we can look at that and possible find better ways to cope?", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "I can understand feeling depressed. I think that can be debilitating at times, however there are ways to cope and help you get out of it. ", "output": "Reflection of feelings" }, { "input": "I used to struggle a lot with depression, but not much anymore. I learned a lot of coping strategies. I can share a few of those with you if you want. ", "output": "Self-disclosure" }, { "input": "One of the best ways is to take a walk. Get outside, get fresh air. Look at the sky and the clouds and the trees and the grass. This will not only physically refresh you but help your health as well.\n", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "As for the pandemic, if you know no one who has died, I wouldn't worry about it. The CDC has no reported deaths of anyone healthy. People who are unhealthy die, not the healthy, and people who are sick ALREADY are the ones who die. If you are relatively healthy, then you are good to go. Do things to protect your health. What are you eating? What are you drinking? Are you talking to friends and getting social life? Are you getting fresh air? Thinking good thoughts? Or are you living in fear when you are not going to a lot of funerals. ", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "It is well documented that our immune system is affected by our mental state, so it is important that you care for your health. Focusing on the negativity of the pandemic will bring you down. Focusing on being healthy and taking care of your mind, soul, spirit and body will help build up your immunity and make you strong.", "output": "Information" }, { "input": "I can understand an ambulance sound is hard to hear, but even that can be turned around. You can pray for the person, then switch your mind off. If you focus on the negative, you will stay negative. If you do what you can (pray) then there is nothing else to do. Focusing on the negative will depress you. ", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "One thing I did to help with depression is keep a checklist of things to do when I felt down: call a friend, call a loved one to encourage THEM, go for a walk, eat fruits and veggies, read a book, go for a bike ride, etc. Things like that, then I chose to do those things despite how I felt. Doing those things helped my mood TREMENDOUSLY> ", "output": "Self-disclosure" }, { "input": "Feelings follow thoughts. If you think negative thoughts, you will feel negative. If you think positive thoughts, you will feel positive. Sometimes this takes time, but it works. Just because you feel sad doesn't mean you should just do nothing, a person can TALK their way out of sadness and choose to do something different. ", "output": "Information" }, { "input": "I am glad you were able to talk about how this is affecting you. I think many people are affected. And I encourage you to really do things you like and enjoy to keep your mood better. If you feel down, talk about it, pray about it but do NOT dwell on it, because that will bring you down.", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "Sometimes we get in a funk, when we do, we can pull ourselves out, I do suggest you write a list of things to do and put on the frige.", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "Thank you, how very sweet! I do thank you for sharing your life with me. I'm an older person and this has affected me too. Life is full of ups and downs, so I've been through some rough times. You can do this! :D", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "I had one more thought about when the ambulance comes by and you get upset. Pray for the person, pray for the workers. They are the ones who CAN do something about the sick people. You cannot. You didn't become an ambulance worker. I am not an ambulance worker, I cannot help them either, but I can pray God can help them do their job. Then I let it go. ", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "I cannot worry about what is not my job. I have a home and family to care for and pets and neighbors. So this is what I can do, I cannot fix the sick so the ambulance workers do their job, I do mine. When I try to do their job and worry all about them and the sick people, it's not my job and there will be no peace doing the wrong job. If that makes sense. ", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "If that is all, then you simply finish the hit. I am sure you will do just fine! ", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "You are very welcome! Goodbye now and God bless you!", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "Hello there, how is life for you right now? ", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "Well, that sounds vaguely positive but is there something you'd like to talk specifically about? ", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "Have you been having some problems with your friends lately? This can be a very stressful time of year, I know. ", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "So you are feeling worried deep down about something right now? Would you like to tell me more about ti? ", "output": "Reflection of feelings" }, { "input": "Do you think that perhaps you feel numb to things that are going on even though you should be worried about them? ", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "I see - that is interesting, I have never heard of anything like that before. Do you think that there might be some sort of physical problem going on? ", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "Well, erm, thank you and a very Merry Christmas to you too. Yes fifteen minutes :D. Have you thought of making a list of goals for the New Year to motivate yourself? ", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "I smoke too much too. It costs a lot and it's really bad for my health. I think I am gonna try and quit - again, sigh - in January too ", "output": "Self-disclosure" }, { "input": "Maybe try saving the money you save on cigarettes for a few months and then treat yourself to something really nice? ", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "Nearly ten pounds a pack here (UK). I am gonna try and save up for a new handbag! ", "output": "Self-disclosure" }, { "input": "Everything is cheaper there than here :D. Do you have any fun plans for Christmas Day? ", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "It will be nice to have a couple of stress free days ... assuming that they are stress free! ", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "I hope you have a really nice Christmas and New Year too. Let's face it, hopefully 2021 cannot be worse than 2020 (touch wood) ", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "Anyway thank you for talking and I hope you feel a little better. ", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "Hit the button and take the survey ;). I can't end it from my side ", "output": "Information" }, { "input": "When did this fear start?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "It sounds like your childhood trauma and the economy is the cause for you not being confident in your job situation. Is this correct?", "output": "Reflection of feelings" }, { "input": "Do you have anyone you can talk to about this? A relative or a close peer at your job?", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "You know, I once felt the same you are feeling and had the same idea that everyone had their own problems, but I took the courage to seek for help and found out that the people who really care about me will always want to help me.", "output": "Self-disclosure" }, { "input": "There are many counselors who specialize in this field of job security and especially during this pandemic and the falling economy, they are great support systems.", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "If you want other suggestions, meditation is something that is extremely overlooked and will help you before you even take the big leap to get support from a counselor or relative. Just taking deep breaths in a quiet area is a great way to clear your head and keep optimistic.", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "Since a lot of this stress is being caused by your childhood trauma, it seems like there is something that connects that job to your trauma and if it cant be disconnected, it seems like you should find another job. ", "output": "Information" }, { "input": "And I understand that is not the easiest in these times but I believe you can do it!", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "Do you think those jobs would help you disconnect your childhood trauma and work life? ", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "Just giving it a try is what starts every journey and I am proud of you for taking that leap!", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "No problem I hope all goes well for you and I hope you stay safe.", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "Goodbye!", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "Good evening! How are you feeling today? ", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "What would you like to talk with me about? I am happy to listen. ", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "Ah I am sorry to hear that. So you are having employment problems because of the current world situation? ", "output": "Restatement or Paraphrasing" }, { "input": "Would you be prepared to take something that is less well paid than your previous job just to tide you over? ", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "Do you feel that this has knocked your self confidence and affected your family life at all? ", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "I totally understand. I have had my hours cut down as well and it's really been worrying me. ", "output": "Self-disclosure" }, { "input": "It has been a terrible year hasn't it? Please know that there are lots of people out there in the same situation and we do understand.", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "January should hopefully bring better things to the world I think. I am really looking forward to it, I think it will be good. ", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "Will you be getting a vaccine for Covid? I am really hopeful bout that ", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "That sounds like a good idea. It's been really nice talking, I wish you all the best for 2021! ", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "Take care and goodbye :) ", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "You need to quit first .. I can't :) ", "output": "Information" }, { "input": "you need to press quit and take the survey ", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "Neither of us will be paid if you don't press the quit and take survey button. ", "output": "Information" }, { "input": "Hi there, how is life treating you right now? ", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "I am Jo, it is nice to meet you! Is there anything you'd like to talk about today? ", "output": "Self-disclosure" }, { "input": "Gosh you've been busy :). I am sorry to hear that though - I know how much it hurts when you split with someone, especially if it was not consensual. ", "output": "Self-disclosure" }, { "input": "It's a lousy time of year for it too, isn't it? ", "output": "Reflection of feelings" }, { "input": "That is a defeatist way to talk! Just because a couple of relationships fail does not mean that you will never be able to find happiness. ", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "I have been in that position too. I hate it when I realise that I am not being rational but I can't seem to stop myself sometimes and this has sometimes let to problems with my inter personal relationships", "output": "Self-disclosure" }, { "input": "I hear you on that one too! It's horrible to feel that you are losing your self respect but I suspect that we've all done it at some point. Have you considered getting some counselling? ", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "I hear you saying that they are not really effective, is that true? ", "output": "Reflection of feelings" }, { "input": "Okay .. I hope you reported him!! ", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "I understand that as well .. I am on medication for it. A dog is a wonderful thing to have! Do you feel that it has helped you? ", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "Dogs are very very loyal. They never cheat on you or walk out on you! ", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "I think you are probably not anywhere near as bad as you think you are you know :). Anyway I wish you all the very best for the New Year and hope that things pick up for you soon!", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "take care! ", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "(you need to quit first and take the survey .. I can't :)) ", "output": "Information" }, { "input": "Hello, how are you feeling today? ", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "I have been feeling a little low too. Would you like to tell me a bit about why you are disgusted with yourself? ", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "Ah yes, this has been especially obvious during the pandemic hasn't it? Too many people not following the social distancing rules ", "output": "Restatement or Paraphrasing" }, { "input": "Do you feel that the pandemic has made you feel worse? Or have you felt like this for a long time? ", "output": "Restatement or Paraphrasing" }, { "input": "Well, it is a pretty significant issue this year :). Re obesity, have you considered doing something to raise awareness? ", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "So you feel as though there is no bright side - that everything is just artificial and superficial? ", "output": "Reflection of feelings" }, { "input": "I don't mean to sound twee but there are things out there in life that can be appreciated for free :) ", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "I know what you mean about that. I know plenty of people who spend too much of their life working every hour and it leaves them no time to appreciate their money! ", "output": "Self-disclosure" }, { "input": "People like that are irritating, certainly. I am not sure what the solution is, other than to ignore them. ", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "Well, the fact that you can reflect on it indicates to me that you are probably not guilty. Most of those who do this are totally unaware. ", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "It has been really nice chatting to you and I hope that things go your way in 2021. You seem like good person :) ", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "you too :) ", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "you need to finish from your end .. I can't :) ", "output": "Information" }, { "input": "Hello. Academic work can be overwhelming at times. I am sure that with the right strategies you will overcome any obstacles, though.\n", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "Could you tell me what the issue is in particular?\n", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "It is perfectly fine to feel stressful whenever an important assessment is coming.\n", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "Make sure that you try to be as prepared as you can. When you feel capable of doing well on said exams, you will feel a lot less pressure.\n", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "Do you have an academic councelor you can talk to?\n", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "Well at least is something. I am sure talking to someone who might be able to guide you academically will be a significant relief.\n\n", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "When I was at college, I usually aimed at 2 hours of studying everyday (+ homework) and I also aimed to have at least 2 hours of leisure time.\n", "output": "Self-disclosure" }, { "input": "I honestly didn't eat very healthy. If you live with your parents, I think a proper nutrition is easier. I usually slept around 7 hours each night. I picked most of my classes on the afternoon, worked out in the mornings.\n", "output": "Self-disclosure" }, { "input": "I would suggest talking to the professor or an academic advisor to explore strategies that could help you improve\n", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "Of course, it is normal to feel upset. However, you should not blame yourself. No one is perfect.\n", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "I am glad it does :D!\n", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "Anything else I can help you with today?\n", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "You are very welcome!", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "Cheating on you?", "output": "Restatement or Paraphrasing" }, { "input": "How do you know that your partner is cheating on you?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "Did he tell you that he is?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "I am sorry if your partner is cheating.", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "So, your partner denies the charge of cheating?", "output": "Restatement or Paraphrasing" }, { "input": "Are you and your partner married?\n", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "How long have you been in a relationship with your man?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "So, 2 years should be long enough to know if your partner has been cheating.", "output": "Restatement or Paraphrasing" }, { "input": "Are you someone who trusts people? I think that most men would fess up about it.", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "Does he show affection to you? If he is adamant about loving you, then, it may be false allegations.", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "I have had coworkers lie and be jealous that I have a good relationship with my partner.", "output": "Self-disclosure" }, { "input": "Ash your partner if he loves you enough to propose marriage. If he says no, then ask him why.", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "Yes, workers can be a real problem and can make up stories about people. Slander in the work place happens.", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "Unfortunately, lies and rumors are just that.", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "Sure, I understand.", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "Yes, the workplace is not like home life. ", "output": "Restatement or Paraphrasing" }, { "input": "Yes, trust matters.", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "I would see if he wants to spend time doing things like volunteering after work. If he says yes, or is excited, that is a good sign that he wants to be with you....even after work.", "output": "Information" }, { "input": "Find things that he has in common or energize the relationship.", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "Yes, ask him if he wants to learn to swing dance or take skiing lessons or volunteer for Habitat for Humanity.", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "You have done your part, but if he wants to show you affection on a regular basis, that is a good sign.", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "How old are the both of you?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "Are you intimate with your partner, on a regular basis?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "Spicing up the live life can also help to energize hings.", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "I mean, the love life. Te lack in the last few months could be a physical issue or stress related....for him.", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "Does he mention a lot of stress at the job or is he in college? 22 is young.", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "You are both relatively young. I feel that there is plenty to learn about each other.", "output": "Reflection of feelings" }, { "input": "How do you all generally communicate? Through text?", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "Which do you and your man like to communicate?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "Well, you and your man are under a lot of stress, so keep that in mind. The study may be making him withdraw a lot.", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "I would ask his fellow students, if you know any of them if they think he really loves you.", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "I would be subtle about that tactic. ", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "If you haven't met any of his school mates. I wouldn't pursue that option. Have you met any of his class mates?", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "Are you and him directly off campuses in housing? You both attend the same college, correct?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "Where do you work? Have you seen the customer who said that your partner was cheating?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "Seen the customer before? Was it a man or woman who dropped the shocking news?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "I feel that the customer may have a case of mistaken identity indeed.", "output": "Reflection of feelings" }, { "input": "Sounds like drunk slander talk. I would let things go for awhile and follow up later.", "output": "Reflection of feelings" }, { "input": "I am sorry to hear that. Do you know what may be causing ytour anxiety?\n", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "You lost your job? thats a tough situation. Is it due to covid?", "output": "Restatement or Paraphrasing" }, { "input": "I know its tough especially with the holidays and all. You have so many great skills and are such a hard worker I dont think you will have a problem at all finding something different. ", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "I remember a time I lost my job and felt my whole world crumbling but then I realized when one door closes another door opens. when those doors close it seems that its usually for the best because it opens the path for something bigger and greater for you.", "output": "Self-disclosure" }, { "input": "Have you looked into some evening classes or maybe online schooling? I hear there are so many different options when it comes to online learning.", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "They are full? well what about surrounding towns? Have you sat down and really thought about your passions and what you enjoy doing? Maybe theres an elderly person who needs some companionship or something like that in town for the time being.", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "Is waiting until next semester something your willing to do? That would give you time to reflect on yourself and your future and figure out what you want to do as a career. I could give you a list of other online opportunities to make money if you would be interested.", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "your welcome. There are a lot of online options out there. That may be easier for you at the time being without a car. Do you have a support system of family or friends around here?", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "Hello. What seems to be the issue?\n", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "You said you generally don't trust family or people in general?\n", "output": "Restatement or Paraphrasing" }, { "input": "Just people who are close to you?\n", "output": "Restatement or Paraphrasing" }, { "input": "I have had a hard time trusting strangers, but that is not a big problem.", "output": "Self-disclosure" }, { "input": "I used to be the same way, but I learned about how to make and keep close friends.", "output": "Self-disclosure" }, { "input": "I joined volunteer groups to help others. I made friends with like-minded people who volunteered to make a difference.", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "Groups like Habitat for Humanity or UNICEF will help you to build long-lasting friendships.", "output": "Information" }, { "input": "It just takes finding the right volunteer groups and being willing to be pro-active.", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "You can do it. I have faith that you can use volunteering as the right method.", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "Exactly, volunteering is a great option. And there are many organizations to join.", "output": "Self-disclosure" }, { "input": "Did you need help with anything else?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "I understand the ADHD. There are support groups that can help you make friends; especially with ADHD, etc.", "output": "Self-disclosure" }, { "input": "Using tools to build houses helps to release endorphins, which can release anxiety.", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "There is a group called, \"Harry House\" that provides support to those with ADHD and anxiety.", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "Surely. Is there anything else you need help with?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "No, Habitat fir Humanity has car pools. ", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "They are a good group to help you build meaningful relationships.", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "I used to do a hour at a time; maybe one or twice a week.", "output": "Self-disclosure" }, { "input": "Would you be interested in something like HFH?", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "Yes, you can sign up online to join a project.", "output": "Information" }, { "input": "Yes, you can volunteer locally; HFH is nationwide.", "output": "Restatement or Paraphrasing" }, { "input": "Any other questions? I am glad to assist.", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "I have done volunteer work; people want to be friends with those who care and know how to use a nail and hammer. :)", "output": "Self-disclosure" }, { "input": "It may also help to contribute some money to keep the organization going. ", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "I felt great after making friends and building homes for low income people.", "output": "Reflection of feelings" }, { "input": "Hello! Don't worry, I am here to help. So you are saying that you are not sure what career to study?\n", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "Even if you chose wrong, you will generally have plenty of time to make up your mind and choose something that you really like : ), plus, you can reach out to academic advisors, for example.\n", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "I myself lose interest in many things quite frequently.\n", "output": "Self-disclosure" }, { "input": "That is a totally normal aspect of human nature. It's normal to get bored of things even if we really liked them at some point", "output": "Information" }, { "input": "Of course, some topics like those are more serious, but as I said, even if you chosed wrong ,you can always change your major.\n", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "No problem, and it's great that you like helping others.\n", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "I am a firm believer that ultimately making others happy is what makes us happy.\n", "output": "Self-disclosure" }, { "input": "Remember to always keep a positive mindset. I am sure you will sort this out in no time.\n", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "Is there anything else I can help you with today?\n", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "Yes, sorry \n", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "And it has been a pleasure : )", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "Try again, you have to hit quit and fill the questionarie\n\n", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "Hello - How are you today?\n", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "I am so sorry you are worried about losing your job. I have been in your shoes before. ", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "Why do you think your boss wants to fire you?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "Have you explained to him your reasoning? I also once had to take care of my sick grandmother after work and had a tough time explaining it to my boss. ", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "Have you offered to stay later to make up the work? ", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "Maybe your boss can compromise with you. It's worth a shot!", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "You sound like you care about this job and that is a valuable asset in a an employee. ", "output": "Reflection of feelings" }, { "input": "I understand. Is there a coworker or mentor that maybe you can talk to? ", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "That's a great idea!", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "Also review your employee handbook and see if there are things you can do to negotiate with HR or your boss in regards to your hours. ", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "Always best to come prepared :)", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "That's great! I am happy I could help you during such a difficult time. How long have you been at the job? ", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "I understand. Being new at a job can have its difficulties. ", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "From speaking with you, it seems like you are caring and hardworking. ", "output": "Reflection of feelings" }, { "input": "I hope your boss can understand you are facing a difficult time. If he has loved ones or family of his own, he surely will. ", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "Is there anything else I can help you with today? ", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "I can definetely understand why. During this pandemic we have been more isolated than ever\n", "output": "Reflection of feelings" }, { "input": "It's not easy\n", "output": "Self-disclosure" }, { "input": "It is more than reasonable to be frustrated with regards to that. I myself have not been able to visit my ill mother. She lives in another country, so it's especially difficult.\n", "output": "Self-disclosure" }, { "input": "Exactly, the experience feels like it lacks the main connection we share with our loved ones. It is totally normal to want to be face to face instead.\n", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "I agree with you, what used to be super-exciting activities now have a much more monotonous feeling.", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "However, it's not the end of the world. Thankfully, researchers have just came up with a vaccine prototype I heard.\n", "output": "Information" }, { "input": "I know it's not easy, but try to think of this whole situation of a challenge that you are overcoming. What doesn't kill you only makes you stronger. You will come out of this ready for any hardships that life might throw at you.\n", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "It will hopefully be over sooner than we think.\n", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "Just try to keep a positive attitude, focus on the things you like, and time will fly.\n", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "I know it can be hard, but I am sure you got this\n", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "It has been a pleasure : )", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "You too!", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "Hello! How are you doing today?", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "I'm doing well, thank you!", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "I'm so sorry to hear that. What's going on that's making you feel that way?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "That's terrible. So you had an argument and he hasn't spoken to you in two weeks. Is that correct?", "output": "Restatement or Paraphrasing" }, { "input": "I can imagine that you must be really hurt amongst a number of other feelings. Hearing you tell me that he has done this is upsetting to me as well.", "output": "Reflection of feelings" }, { "input": "I've had the same thing done to me and I can remember being extremely distraught.", "output": "Self-disclosure" }, { "input": "Do you mind me asking what the argument was about? If you don't mind going into a little more detail, I may be able to help you more.", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "That must be such a terrible feeling. So the argument started because you were sick, he didn't check in on you at all for that entire day, and when you expressed your feelings to him, it turned into an argument?", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "Has he ever acted this way towards you before? For example, has he ever shown a lack of empathy towards you like this in the past?", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "Are you still there?", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "Have you tried reaching out to him throughout the course of these past two weeks to see if he would respond?", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "I would really like to help you find a solution to this problem, but it appears as though you may not be active anymore. I'm going to wait a few more minute for you to respond before cancelling the chat. In the event that I don't hear back from you, I wish you the best!", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "Totally, I am here to help! Tell me what's the issue so we can work it through\n", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "Do you think your mood is related to any current or recent events in your life?\n", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "Feeling down after an experience like that is certainly understandable, and I suspect that might be the main cause of your depression.\n", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "Regarding losing your job, I wouldn't worry too much. New businesses are opening each day as the pandemic slowly goes away. You will have plenty of job opportunities. Similarly, you will also regain your confidence and social status as you interact with society more.\n", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "I am feeling optimistic about this vaccine, you will see how it helps us all slowly get our lives back to how they were.\n", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "It will soon be over hopefully\n", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "Hey, just try to focus on improving yourself as a person. Try to find an activity you enjoy doing. Keep exercising, that's great for your body and mind. And definetely talk to any closed one you have if you need to.\n", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "Hey, just try to focus on improving yourself as a person. Try to find an activity you enjoy doing. Keep exercising, that's great for your body and mind. And definetely talk to any closed one you have if you need to.\n", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "I agree, but it's not like we have any major control over that unfortunately.\n", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "You have to hit \"quit\" and fill the questionarie. And I am sure you can get really strong! Just keep working out :D", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "It has been a rough time, but I have just been focusing on work, and hopefully it will be all over\n", "output": "Self-disclosure" }, { "input": "Hello! How can I help you today?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "It's normal to feel nervous whenever we have an important assessment coming.\n", "output": "Reflection of feelings" }, { "input": "I myself would always be really anxious whenever I had any finals back in college.\n", "output": "Self-disclosure" }, { "input": "I would suggest that you study as much as you can. The more prepared you are for that test, the more manageable you will find it and the less stressed you will feel.", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "I understand. However, you need to be able to find some time dedicated to your school activities. You are the one who needs to decide how to insert it in your schedule.\n", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "I agree, once you have your career set up you won't have to worry about working and studying anymore. You will be doing what you like for a good living. Think about the future.\n", "output": "Reflection of feelings" }, { "input": "Just remember not to stress too much about it. It's just one test at the end of the day, you can do this!\n", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "I know that I told you to try to fit school time into your schedule, but the same goes with leisure time for yourself. Find an activity that you enjoy and try to dedicate at least an hour a day to it, be it exercising, playing videogames, reading a book.\n", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "Happens to all of us. I myself sometimes get too invested in work and the days go by without me realizing it, but it should definetely be a priority. Try to maximize your efficiency so you can do your work while having more time for other activities.\n", "output": "Self-disclosure" }, { "input": "That's absolutely great, make good use of them (^_^)\n", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "Is there anything else I can help you with today?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "No worries, you too!", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "Hi, so tell me, how are you feeling today?\n", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "If you tell me what's going on, I will be more than glad to help", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "The pandemic can definetely be a key factor here. When it first started, I remember feeling lost and unsure about things that I would normally would have no problem with.\n", "output": "Self-disclosure" }, { "input": "If you don't mind me asking, how old are you?\n", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "Do you have any family, girlfriend, boyfriend, children?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "Not seeing your closed ones or simply being apart from them can be more than enough to make us feel depressed or blue.", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "Have you tried doing videocalls with them, for example?\n", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "I understand. However, there is nothing wrong with telling them that you are sad because you miss them. Something as simple as getting it off your chest can already make you feel better.\n", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "Totally, but remember than they are there for you whenever you need them.\n", "output": "Reflection of feelings" }, { "input": "I bet something as simple as \"Hey babe, I really miss you. I can't be glad with your abscence\" could make your boyfriend feel loved while at the same time relieving you.\n", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "That might be why you were unsure about telling them. Believe me, there is nothing wrong with showing vulnerability. We are all vulnerable in one way or another.\n", "output": "Reflection of feelings" }, { "input": "Hey, if he is the right one for you, he will completeley accept you as you are and love you. In the unlikely event that he \"rejects\" you for being \"vulnerable\", he wasn't even worth it in the first place. You deserve someone that appreciates you as much as you appreciate them :3", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "I believe in you!\n", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "It has been a pleasure!", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "You too!", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "(You have to hit Quit and fill the questionarie)\n", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "Hello, how are you today\n", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "I see. Sometimes that can happen when you look back on yourself. ", "output": "Restatement or Paraphrasing" }, { "input": "What is making you angry about the past?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "I can personally relate to that myself. I have went through something similar like that 4 years ago. It can be very frustrating when it happens. ", "output": "Self-disclosure" }, { "input": "The easiest thing that I did in my situation was obtained a new hobby. I took my anger out on my ex by joining Crossfit and interacted with that community. It helped me take my mind of from my ex. ", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "Crossfit may not be for everyone, but do you think a new hobby may help you? Have you taken one in recently?", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "Painting is an excellent hobby. I can see that it's relaxing as well as help put your emotions into something physical. ", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "It sounds like that you are doing great with your hobby. Have you try to interact with anyone else, such as an art community or your friends on your feedback?", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "Yea, I can see why that may make you feel alone in that aspect. I thought about that myself, but there are groups that can help you out. Strangers in fact. I went on Reddit to express my frustrations and it can help to just let out your anger.", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "It can be, but seeing several posts in their groups, most offer advice or at least sympathy. It is kind of like what we are doing right now to be honest. Again, it is not for everyone, but it does offer a group to talk to during this pandemic lol. ", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "Only if you think it will help. Do you think it will?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "No problem. I really hope that I was able to help you at least. I am still available if you want to discuss further. Like I said, I know how it feels because my ex hid from me 2 years that she was seeing someone else, so I can relate with you.", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "Have a good day :)", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "Hello! I am here to help, could you please tell me what the issue is?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "I can see why you feel anxious, I would be too given the situation.\n", "output": "Reflection of feelings" }, { "input": "When did your mother in law got sick with COVID?\n", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "Cancer is already a hard enough disease to fight against. My aunt is a cancer survivor. I am sure your mother can make it too.\n", "output": "Self-disclosure" }, { "input": "From my knowledge, people usually recover from COVID after 2 to 3 weeks, you might consider having a doctor see your mother if she is still struggling.\n", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "There are substantially more people recovering from covid each day despite the number of infected growing exponentially. I am sure that, with the proper care, your mother in law will make it, and so will your husband.\n", "output": "Information" }, { "input": "I am sure he will be able to find a new job soon as new business start to open, even if it's a temporary one.", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "Those are some great news indeed. I am sure he will get a call soon : )\n", "output": "Reflection of feelings" }, { "input": "I am glad I can make your day just a little better, that's what we are here for ^_^\n", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "And I am glad you are someone easy to talk to! Some of my patients do not argument at all and expect me to end the conversation when I, as a therapist, have to make sure they are good to go! Helping you has been a pleasure!", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "You are very welcome!", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "Hello\n", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "how is your side\n", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "yes, that is good, I love your courage .", "output": "Restatement or Paraphrasing" }, { "input": "so, how may I be of help.", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "hello", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "can you please mention those situations again ?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "I'm with you \n", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "it seems, you are feeling so bad about his situation, and worried of his health ", "output": "Restatement or Paraphrasing" }, { "input": "mmmh, that is really hard to hear, but I am sure he will be fine ", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "You have to calm and take a deep breaths, just believe that he will be fine, let those doctors do their work\n", "output": "Reflection of feelings" }, { "input": "I am so sorry to hear that", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "May his soul rest in perfect peace, please don't feel too bad, he has gone to rest. It is only God that is immortality ", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "just think of something else, I know it's hard, but keep yourself busy so you will not down again .Have a nice time \n", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "hi! \ni'm sorry to hear that \n\n", "output": "Reflection of feelings" }, { "input": "how is your work going so far \n", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "you mean, is your job defined by maximum exposure to people right now due to COVID?\n", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "I understand how anxious you are right now \n", "output": "Reflection of feelings" }, { "input": "Can you give me some more info on your job \n", "output": "Question" }, { "input": " i totally understand how nerve wrecking this is, but trust me you guys being front-line workers are our real heros ", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "did you try discussing your concerns with your Team Lead / Warehouse Supervisor of your group\n", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "you are doing your best and are working really hard ", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "just a thought - did you try changing roles within the warehouse to a different position? or try checking with the manager regarding this \n", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "you have 5 years exp, i'm sure you deserve a better role and pay ", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "i understand, but when i had a slight trouble with my job, talking to my manager helped me a lot \n", "output": "Self-disclosure" }, { "input": "also, your manager is your best point of contact for a great reference \n", "output": "Reflection of feelings" }, { "input": "thats hard,.. but you can do it \n", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "do your best in your job! ", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "hard work ultimately pays off!\n", "output": "Reflection of feelings" }, { "input": "It sounds like you feel you are not heard and thats why you are pushing yourself hard \ndo you feel that way ", "output": "Restatement or Paraphrasing" }, { "input": "Its great that you are working hard despite whatever you faced and I assure that this will help you build a great future in this country", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "I wish you all the best Sean! I wish you good luck in all your future endeavors ", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "i hope everything turns out for the best ", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "Hello How r u", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "Tell me more please", "output": "Restatement or Paraphrasing" }, { "input": "What is causing the down trodden", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "May I ask if you r male or female", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "What type work are u invloved with", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "Special Ed is a very important position I commend u", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "Is the principal a strict person", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "Is she mean towards everyone", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "So u are working from home because of the COVID", "output": "Restatement or Paraphrasing" }, { "input": "Is she aware that you are a special ed teacher and not a normal teacher", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "Seems like she is domineering \n. Tries to disrupt the class environment", "output": "Restatement or Paraphrasing" }, { "input": "So there a personality issue between her and you. She won't let the issue go", "output": "Restatement or Paraphrasing" }, { "input": "And you r not one of her favorites i guess", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "How long have you been there", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "Is there anyone above her you could talk with", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "Have you checked with other schools and maybe submitted your resume online to ones that are far away as well", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "I know with the virus it is hard", "output": "Information" }, { "input": "Who do u know that u can talk with", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "How many teachers are at your school ", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "So is there a circle of teachers that you can chat with besides your co-worker", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "Or is there a group who would snitch on you", "output": "Restatement or Paraphrasing" }, { "input": "What would it take for you to talk with the principal to work things out", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "how many schools are in your district", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "Do u anticipate schools reopening soon", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "U r welcome. I hoped it helped to release stress. ", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "U sound like a wonderful person. Don't let her get to you. ", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "Be Blessed", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "Hello I'm Sean how are you today?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "I'm having a fine day, tell me why your not doing so well my friend?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "When did you break up? How long have you been dating. Why do you fight so much? Any reasons in particular?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "I'm very sorry that your boyfriend and you are fighting a lot. Tell me what's going on.", "output": "Restatement or Paraphrasing" }, { "input": "One year is quite a while. You should know each other's pet peeves by now. can you explain some examples of reason why you fight.", "output": "Restatement or Paraphrasing" }, { "input": "Birds of a feather flock together meaning that fighting with each other does not work and never will. I want to know what you fight about to see if it is silly or not.", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "Can you give me a few \"silly\" examples? I wont be embarrassed. As long as he is not physical abusive most things can be worked out due to communication.", "output": "Restatement or Paraphrasing" }, { "input": "Try and find food that you both enjoy and compromise.", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "say he wants pizza and you want chinese, say well you know what lets get a burger so neither of us win or loses.", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "Tell him that if he wants his food he needs to leave you alone. you need to sit down and have a serious talk with him.", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "listen to me", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "go to a table and comfortable table and stare at him straight in the eye. Tell him your concerns that you are fighting too much and that it is ruining your love and relationship. STARE INTO HIS EYES and see what he says.", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "If he is evasive, the eyes are the windows into the soul. Make him promise you that you will stop fighting or else you are going to find another man who will appreciate you.", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "it's called the take-away in psychological sales.", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "of course it will.", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "look it up.", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "do you love this man?", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "Then you sit down and have a serious talk and do what I say and see what happens.", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "EYES ARE KEY!!!!!!!!!!!!!", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "good luck sweety.", "output": "Self-disclosure" }, { "input": "hi there! how are you feeling today?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "i'm sorry to hear that. is there a specific reason you are having these feelings?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "I understand. I have been feeling quite lonely too, I find myself feeling lonely at work and struggling to find someone I trust to talk to about these emotions. Do you have a friend or family member that you trust who might understand some of these feelings?", "output": "Self-disclosure" }, { "input": "I understand. Correct me if i'm wrong, it sounds like you're nervous to open up to these trusted people because you think they might be distracted by their work to provide the empathy you need and fully understand how you are feeling. Does that sound right?", "output": "Restatement or Paraphrasing" }, { "input": "I understand these feelings very well. Sometimes, my fear overshadows my want for help. I find it easier to open up to others through writing rather than face to face. Have you considered putting your feelings in writing and opening up to trusted friends and family in this way?", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "It sounds like writing your feelings down helped you greatly in the past. May I suggest going back to writing and even letting someone you trust read what you have written down to understand how you are feeling?", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "That's great! I am glad to hear that you will begin writing again. Thank you for opening up to me about your feelings. How do you feel about the solution we have come to today?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "That's wonderful! I appreciate your honesty about how you are feeling. I am proud of you for seeking help. Is there anything else you would like to discuss?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "I am glad I could be here for you! I am hoping you continue to feel better and your writing helps to work out these feelings. Thank you so much for being open with me. I hope you have a fantastic rest of your day! :)", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "hello. How are you?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "I'm sorry to hear that. Could you tell me about it?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "Thank you for telling me. I'm sorry to hear that. What did you do for your job?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "I see. That's a very important role for any business. I bet there are numerous other retailers out there looking for a good manager to hire.", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "I see. Well then, if this helps. The store closing might have been a positive thing, so you could find your next passion. ", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "I will also add, that being a Manager means you have some very important skills that would translate well to your next job, or anything you decide to do.", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "Also, let's say you decided to work for another company, something new, outside of retail. Because you were a manager, you could also be promoted more quickly because of your management experience. ", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "Yes, it sounds like a part of you still misses the retail environment. I see that too. My best advice, is take a few days to think about what you really want to do. Think about what you are skilled at. Then decide which route you want to go. I know there will be numerous options out there for you in retail management, but if you wanted to do something different, there will be opportunities there too. Because you have options, you will likely pick the choice that will be most fulfilling for you, in something you will be passionate about - so this will likely be very positive for you. ", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "that's possible. but you will have plenty of options either way. Could be a different retail store, or something new. ", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "Yes, of course. Take some time to think it through. Weigh your options, and the pros and cons of each. Then pick the option that will be the most rewarding for you. ", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "Thank you for talking with me. ", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "How are you doing today?\n", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "I'm sorry to hear that, what's bothering you?\n", "output": "Restatement or Paraphrasing" }, { "input": "I'm sorry to hear that, will you be spending the holidays with anyone?\n", "output": "Reflection of feelings" }, { "input": "Do you live far away from your family?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "I can understand that, covid has messed with so much this year.\n", "output": "Reflection of feelings" }, { "input": "Yeah, it's been a struggle for sure. I think not knowing how long we're going to be in this state of uncertainty is what makes it more difficult.", "output": "Self-disclosure" }, { "input": "I try to find the positives, which I'll admit get harder to find by the day. But trying to embrace a more simplistic lifestyle, being more present, etc.", "output": "Reflection of feelings" }, { "input": "Yeah, we're not far from Chicago and the weather doesn't look like it's going to change that for a bit. ", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "Same here, I'd love to get outside as it usually makes me feel better but wind today and subzero chills tomorrow don't look promising.", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "But hey, tomorrow's Christmas eve, maybe you can zoom with some of your Boston family and try something new.\n", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "Yeah, a way to make the best of it. ", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "No problem at all. Stay warm, stay safe and have a happy holiday!\n", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "Merry Christmas!!", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "Hi! I am sorry to heard that. I would be very glad to help if you could please tell me what bothers you\n", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "I can see why you are concerned. These are certainly difficult times and this pandemic doesn't seem to be stopping anytime now. I understand your frustation.\n", "output": "Reflection of feelings" }, { "input": "Many apps offer videocalls that you can use to chat with your loved ones though. Zoom is a great one, fore example!\n", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "It surely does. You can always travel, just make sure that you are maintaining social distancing and your mask at all times. If you and your family members follow the protocols, it is very unlikely that any of you is exposed to the virus.\n", "output": "Information" }, { "input": "I understand. It's especially risky when kids are involved.\n", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "Hey, you need to remind yourself that things will not be this way forever. A vaccine will be developed soon, and things will be just like they used to!", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "When the pandemic first started, I felt like I was frozen in my life. Nothing was happening and any signs of progress had stopped. I can definetely relate. However, I found that exploring new hobbies and focusing on improving as a person were great ways to take good use of time.\n", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "That's great! I heard that some people are even deciding to grow their own food as much as possible. That greatly helps the environment and avoids pollution and global warming. Are you planning on applying that as part of your gardenning hobby?\n", "output": "Information" }, { "input": "It's great that you are doing an activity that you enjoy. I can just imagine how beautiful of a scenery that creates.\n", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "Teaching your kids is a great idea! Not many kids nowadays enjoy a lot of outdoor activities. Being in connection with nature is important to maintain a balance and increase our happinness overall.\n", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "Haha that does sound like fun. Just watch out for any insects on those fruits or any impurities!\n", "output": "Reflection of feelings" }, { "input": "Hi I'm sean how are you doing today?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "what is a frie your boyfriend and how did he break up your trust?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "So tell me what happened.", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "Unfortunately, i hate to sterotype but women do this quite often. it depends on the severity of the information you told her.", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "If it was something extremley important, say jail worthy, I would get rid of her immediately. If it was something dramatic but not extremely dangerous, I would sit down and haev a serious talk with her.", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "It all depends on the situation, how long have you known her, what is your trust in her, how close are you?", "output": "Reflection of feelings" }, { "input": "Ok let me think one second.", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "Good friends are very hard to come by and find. i would suggest sitting down with her and explaining how serious this hurt you and that she cannot let this happen again.", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "I would ultimately give an ultimate. You will forgive her this one time. If it happens again, anything even remotely similar, you part ways and say goodbye as you cannot trust her with important information. If you give her important information and she tells everyone that's not a true friend", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "I would advise to approach the situation as soon as possible to advocate the seriousness of the situation.", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "Unless you don't think it's a big deal..... ;) I know you can handle this well. I wish you the best of luck darling. I'm sure it will go much easier than expected but look her straight in the eyes and tell her what you want to say. do not move eye contact\n", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "it's at your leisure. The eyes are the window to the soul and if you make her promise to do it and keep eye contact. then that is a contract that cannot be broken ", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "I am a very wealthy guy i just enjoy helping people. have a nice day.", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "EYE CONTACT!!!!!!", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "Hello! How is everything going?\n\n", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "I am sad to hear that, could you argument on why this happened and when?\n", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "I am doing well, thank you\n", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "Since you are a software developer, isn't there a possibility for you to work from home? Many companies are offering their employees being able to work remotely\n", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "I understand your depression, losing a job is not easy, but I am sure that you will get through this\n", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "I have heard of sites like fiver where people work on their own. With enough exposure, you can make a living out of it, and you get to be your own boss!\n", "output": "Information" }, { "input": "I used to do art on fiver. Yes, you are right, it is not a lot, but hey, we have to start somewhere!\n", "output": "Self-disclosure" }, { "input": "If anything, you can always try and look for new job opportunities. I am sure you will see some amazing results with your 3 years of experience!\n", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "I like playing videogames and doing art. I find those activities to be relaxing.\n", "output": "Self-disclosure" }, { "input": "I would suggest to wait some time, maybe one of them will call you back!", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "And no, I have not been diagnosed with covid. I try to remain positive and remind myself that a vaccine will be developed soon.", "output": "Self-disclosure" }, { "input": "It has been a pleasure!", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "I agree, but don't you think those are worth given that you might gain covid 19 immunity?\n", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "I personally plan on getting myself vaccinated as soon as I can\n", "output": "Self-disclosure" }, { "input": "That comes down to personal opinion, and is important that we respect each other choices\n", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "Is there any other concern that I might help you with today?\n", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "Sometimes, as a way to distract myself yes\n", "output": "Self-disclosure" }, { "input": "If it helps you to get distracted and provides you with joy, absolutely!\n", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "No, I don't find that to be healthy, and I don't enjoy them.\n", "output": "Self-disclosure" }, { "input": "Relying on alcohol or any other addictions as a mean to cope with our problems is a bad idea. Make sure you don't abuse it's consumption. Do you have anyone you can talk to about it? Like a close friend or a family member?\n", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "You are very welcome, talk to someone if you need to!\n\n", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "You are the one that needs to do it!\n", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "If you read the instructions, you will see that you have to hit the \"quit\" button and answer a survey about my performance. I can not end the conversation, only the support seeker can. I am doing my job.", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "HI! May I help you?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "Why are you worrying? Ithink you are the best team member in your team", "output": "Restatement or Paraphrasing" }, { "input": "Let's calm down. You can discuss with your professor", "output": "Restatement or Paraphrasing" }, { "input": "You can meet all the team members and may meet the higher official to solve the problem", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "Make an effort to solve it .Because there will be a solution for each and every problem", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "You can provide the doctor certificate and meet your parents to professor so that the actual reason can be understood by him", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "semester may be started. so, don't worry. If professor not doing, you can directly approach you principal", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "No, I dont think so", "output": "Information" }, { "input": "Make a positive approach", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "Yes, but I make an effort to solve it. So, I need you to talk again.", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "Hello\n", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "What is the problem i can help you with\n", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "I am sorry about how you are feeling. I can understand how being in that situation can cause you to have anxiety", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "Do you have a support system that can help?\n", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "I personally have dealt with depression and i know how isolation all of that can be. Sometimes i find it helps to give yourself time to feel what you need to feel first before trying to feel better.\n", "output": "Self-disclosure" }, { "input": "I personally have dealt with depression and i know how isolation all of that can be. Sometimes i find it helps to give yourself time to feel what you need to feel first before trying to feel better.\n", "output": "Self-disclosure" }, { "input": "Yes it definitely can. ", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "I personally like to write out my feelings in a journal and sometimes i listen to music that makes me feel happy. Do you have things that you enjoy that you have tried to do?\n", "output": "Self-disclosure" }, { "input": "I personally like to write out my feelings in a journal and sometimes i listen to music that makes me feel happy. Do you have things that you enjoy that you have tried to do?\n", "output": "Self-disclosure" }, { "input": "Have you tried speaking to them about your feelings?", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "I can understand why this is all sad. I would feel the same in your position.", "output": "Reflection of feelings" }, { "input": "I am glad its better glad I can let you vent.", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "I am glad i could help you. I hope you have a great day yourself.", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "Thank you and Merry Christmas!", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "Good morning how r u", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "Hope u r having a good dfay", "output": "Restatement or Paraphrasing" }, { "input": "How r u today", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "What seems to be the issue", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "Can you talk about what is going on", "output": "Restatement or Paraphrasing" }, { "input": "Wow that is not a happy situation. How long ago", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "I can assume you had been together for awhile", "output": "Restatement or Paraphrasing" }, { "input": "Had you been together for awhile", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "So he wanted you and made you feel special", "output": "Restatement or Paraphrasing" }, { "input": "Was the other person someone you knew as well", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "Seems like he was playing the field not just you but the other as well", "output": "Restatement or Paraphrasing" }, { "input": "Did he have children with his x", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "I can understand your sadness ", "output": "Reflection of feelings" }, { "input": "Has he been contacting you lately", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "was he your 1st love", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "How did you meet each other", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "He must still care because he is talking with you, but he is also involved with his x", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "Has the COVID interfered with you", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "There is another way to look at this", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "You sound very attractive and other men would love you fro who u r", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "So it is safe to ay the chances of seeing each other is going to be impossible for a while", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "Would it be safe for you to try and chat with someone online that would care for you", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "It may take a little time but watch your heart. it is very easy to break", "output": "Reflection of feelings" }, { "input": "Surround yourself with family and friends. You might be surprised the person you meet wil be right there waiting", "output": "Reflection of feelings" }, { "input": "Love is a funny Thing. U don't see the true love until you are in a spot of least accommodating", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "Step out and be patient. Don't allow feelings to control u but let your heart tell you it is real", "output": "Reflection of feelings" }, { "input": "Hope this helped", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "Just be yourself.", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "Have a Merry Christmas", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "ok. Bye", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "Hi, how are you doing today?\n", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "I'm doing well, is there something I can help you with today?", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "What seems to be the problem?\n", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "I'm so sorry to hear that. I imagine you must be feeling pretty bad?\n", "output": "Reflection of feelings" }, { "input": "Is there anything I can help you with?\n", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "What happened to cause you to break up with her?\n", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "What exactly is the problem?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "With her cousin??", "output": "Restatement or Paraphrasing" }, { "input": "I'm so sorry to hear that, that's terrible. Does she not see it as a problem that they're cousins?\n", "output": "Reflection of feelings" }, { "input": "What can I help you with? She clearly isn't right for you.\n", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "I understand that must be difficult, time will help get over her and what she's done to you.", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "I'd suggest taking some time and help yourself realize that you're better off without someone who doesn't have your feelings in their best interest.\n", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "It'll take more than a day but you'll meet someone else and realize what you deserve\n", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "Why do you feel you can't tell them?\n", "output": "Information" }, { "input": "Well, I know it's tough but they can help you throught his.\n", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "Good, I hope they can help you through this and you find some peace in your situation.\n", "output": "Information" }, { "input": "Is there anythign else I can do for you?\n", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "Take care and try to enjoy the holidays, stay safe.\n", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "Hello! how are you today?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "Why is that?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "Oh I see. Your colleagues talking about you has you feeling down today.", "output": "Restatement or Paraphrasing" }, { "input": "I understand why that would be so. I have had a similar situation happen to me before.", "output": "Self-disclosure" }, { "input": "I totally understand why you are sad. It's very hurtful when someone talks bad about you.", "output": "Reflection of feelings" }, { "input": "Well I convinced myself that their opinions did not matter. Also, I confronted a few of them alone to find out why they were talking about me.", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "Another thing that you can do if nothing else works is to move to another department or even another job. But before you do that try and find out what the problem is exactly. Maybe it is not as bad as you think.", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "In situations like this people tend to feel more powerful when they withhold information. They are more than likely very immature and insecure.", "output": "Information" }, { "input": "That is a perfect example of immaturity. When people act like this, the person they are ostracizing makes them feel threatened in some way so they treat them badly in order to regain control and security.", "output": "Information" }, { "input": "I had someone that felt very insecure because of me talk badly about me to our mutual friends and even family. What I ended up doing was to completely block the person out of my life and go on living and being me. I showed the people that that person was a jealous, insecure liar simply by being myself. ", "output": "Self-disclosure" }, { "input": "Hello", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "How are you doing today?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "I am well thank you. What would you like to talk about today?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "I understand you have been having some issues with your old friend. Is that correct>", "output": "Restatement or Paraphrasing" }, { "input": "Why do you feel that she does not want to talk you?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "I can understand that it is difficult to feel ignored. Could it be that she is not receiving your messages?", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "It could be that she is not much of a texter. I personally don't answer calls but always reply to texts.", "output": "Self-disclosure" }, { "input": "That sounds like a plan. That way you can speak to her, and you can even find out if she has some issues with texting.", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "Do you have mutual friends?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "You can do it. Otherwise you may not find out what is going on.", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "Definitely. If it doesn't go as planned then perhaps you can think about other friends you can talk to.", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "I am glad I had the opportunity to chat with you. I wish you all the best.", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "You too. ", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "Hello, How are you today?\n", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "Do you like to ask something?\n", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "Are you studying from home?\n", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "well, it is tough. But it is safe, too. ", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "And you do not need to drive, you are close to the fridge, too.", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "That's true.", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "Do you have a balcony? Or can you go out to a back-yard? Or is it too cold now?", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "Well, the school is almost over. we are facing Christmas, New Year...", "output": "Reflection of feelings" }, { "input": "We all need some break from staying in front of computes all the day long. ", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "After holidays, who knows...", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "We do not need to face a risk of driving through the snow....", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "and be in a good shape...", "output": "Reflection of feelings" }, { "input": "Listening to meditation and concentration music might help....", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "I use some small weights u to keep muscles in tonus. ", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "I am sure your grades will be excellent. Best of luck! ", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "hello. im so sorry to hear you're nervous about your job. what are you nervous about specifically?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "So you are feeling worried about potentially losing your job? That does sound very difficult. Especially after not working for months and just finally getting a job.", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "I personally lost work for a bit of time due to covid. It can be tough, especially in New York things are not that great health-wise.", "output": "Information" }, { "input": "I am glad they make you get tested and you feel safe. That is the most important thing.", "output": "Restatement or Paraphrasing" }, { "input": "That sounds like an amazing job! ", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "Is the job good only temporarily? Like do you aim to keep this job or is it only a holiday job?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "How would you approach asking the manager if your job is in danger if you were to do that?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "Well, I remember once being unsure of my job. I approached my manager and with all professionalism, I asked if there was any way I can do more for the work. That helped me at the time. I never specifically asked if my job was in danger, though. ", "output": "Self-disclosure" }, { "input": "Yeah, exactly. ", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "Do you feel comfortable talking to your manager?", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "I am glad I was able to help. I hope I helped you feel at least a little better today. ", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "How are you feeling today?", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "Oh, so you are usually a pretty decent student? I'm sorry to here that you are experiencing this", "output": "Reflection of feelings" }, { "input": "You know, a lot of students are really struggling with this new learning style, so it's very understandable\n", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "Most people where masks of content, so you never know how much they are struggling. It's not always beneficial to compare yourself to others\n", "output": "Information" }, { "input": "Are you having issues with focusing?\n", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "What happened when you reached out to the teacher?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "I think if you could teach yourself, the class wouldn't exist.", "output": "Reflection of feelings" }, { "input": "Does your class have a study group?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "Usually schools offer free tutoring, because students volunteer to do it for credits toward a teaching degree. have you heard of that?\n", "output": "Information" }, { "input": "There is always a way. You have to be smart to get a scholarship. You deserve to be in that class as much as anyone else\n", "output": "Reflection of feelings" }, { "input": "Well, they most likely do it over zoom. But it's better because it's one on one", "output": "Information" }, { "input": "You're absolutely welcome", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "I'm confident that it will.", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "Hi", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "How're you doing?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "I'm doing well, thanks. Why are you only doing okay, and not great? ", "output": "Restatement or Paraphrasing" }, { "input": "Many people are at this time. Is there anything in particular that is bothering you?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "Me too, winter can be rough. ", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "Do the people around you value your work? ", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "Sometimes I get seasonal depression during winter, I'd say it's relatively common.", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "If they value your work, then you must be objectively doing okay. Maybe you shouldn't be so hard on yourself.", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "Have you tried exercise? Research shows it can help with depression. Depression can be caused by atrophy of certain brain regions... Getting the blood flowing can help. ", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "Exercise probably will help self-esteem too.", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "Yes, putting on your shows is often the hardest part. ", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "shoes*", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "With proper health, things grow better in time, like a plant. ", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "we're only human, lol.", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "I used to garden and was surprised how specific the nutrient needs and care are for each type of plant needs in its specific way. I think humans are kind of like that.", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "Good bye, thanks for talking to me.", "output": "Reflection of feelings" }, { "input": "cs student but I like plants too", "output": "Self-disclosure" }, { "input": "Hi, i'm sean, hows your day going", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "Tell me about the situation.", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "Boring.", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "Don't worry about my day, i'm 34 and retired i do this to help people, tell me about your situation.", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "I was a homeless drug addicted junkie for over 10 years. Tell me how yours is worse sweety.", "output": "Restatement or Paraphrasing" }, { "input": "Tell me why you are so sad and depressed.", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "Was he abusive, tell me more.", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "So what was the problem?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "Tell me more.", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "I can't help you if you don't talk to me darling'", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "Tell me about it.", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "with covid-19 yout not alone. ", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "what was it about your situation that was so bad? did you lose your job? why are you so stressed? lack of financs. depresseions because of lack of job finances etc... lover?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "put on a fancy dress, nice makeup, do your hair, and go to a classy bar.", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "take a man home with you.", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "I guarntee your depression will be gone and the anxiety will take some time.", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "you never know, the man you meet might sweep you off your feet and put a ring on your finger.", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "your welcome have a good night.", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "hi. how can i help you ?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "are you saying that you are angry now ? what happened dear?", "output": "Restatement or Paraphrasing" }, { "input": "can you tell me what happened so that i can understand ?", "output": "Restatement or Paraphrasing" }, { "input": "It's ok dear. did you asked him why he did that?", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "just remember, yesterday is gone. there is really nothing you can do about the situation. you better keep your distance from that particular person.", "output": "Reflection of feelings" }, { "input": "just remember, yesterday is gone. there is really nothing you can do about the situation. you better keep your distance from that particular person.", "output": "Reflection of feelings" }, { "input": "learn from your mistake and don't do it again dear.", "output": "Information" }, { "input": "yeah. we can't control others. right ?", "output": "Restatement or Paraphrasing" }, { "input": "yes. it totally depends on how mature the person is.", "output": "Information" }, { "input": "just forgive him and keep in mind for next time whether you should share something with him or not.", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "yes. let it go and don't confuse it again.", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "trust me. you became stronger by this.", "output": "Information" }, { "input": "yes. don't think much and sleep soon dear.", "output": "Reflection of feelings" }, { "input": "i am happy to hear this dear.", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "welcome dear.", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "you too dear.", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "yeah . do you want to talk about something else?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "bye then.", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "Hi", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "How are you friend?", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "What' s your problem friend?", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "don't worry", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "Try to do your job enthusiastically..", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "Do you know of nay business you own?", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "ok", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "don't worry, keep trying..", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "Definitely get a good job, keep trying..", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "very good", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "All the best", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "Thanks a lot friend...", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "me too..", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": " Do you search on social web sites", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "give it a try and you will definitely get a good job", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "ok good luck", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "Hmm ok, anything else?", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "thank you,", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "ok bye, god bless you..", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "Hi, how are you doing?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "Not bad, it's a peaceful night. Anything in particular you'd like to talk about?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "I imagine that's very overwhelming and stressful to think about. Are there at least some type of protocols and protection in place for your well-being?", "output": "Restatement or Paraphrasing" }, { "input": "I'm sorry that you're having to deal with such stressful circumstances. You can only control what you can control. Have you discussed these concerns with the school and explained the preexisting conditions?", "output": "Restatement or Paraphrasing" }, { "input": "I get it though. It's scary for everyone at this point", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "It seems to me that they should take that information into consideration. ", "output": "Restatement or Paraphrasing" }, { "input": "Is there someone else you could go to about this? Besides whoever you've already attempted to discuss it with? ", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "Yeah you're right. Covid has been a mess for everyone and affected us in so many ways that e could've never prepared for", "output": "Restatement or Paraphrasing" }, { "input": "I mean all you can do is try your best to stay safe but I would continue to reach out to people higher up and see about getting something done. They probably get a lot of calls and emails right now because of everything going on but I would keep trying", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "Thank you for talking with me too! I hope it has helped some. At least you know you're not alone... ", "output": "Restatement or Paraphrasing" }, { "input": "You're welcome. I wish you the best and many blessings", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "What are you stressed about?\n", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "Oh, Covid is really having a negative affect on a lot of students, right now. Has school from home had anegative affect on you?\n", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "It's interesting that you find being home more distracting than being away in a dorm.", "output": "Restatement or Paraphrasing" }, { "input": "Yeah sometimes families can struggle with the idea of boundaries.\n", "output": "Reflection of feelings" }, { "input": "I also went away to school for similar reasons, but I actually found college life way more distracting tbh.", "output": "Self-disclosure" }, { "input": "Have you told your family about the issues your having?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "OK, that makes sense.", "output": "Reflection of feelings" }, { "input": "Have you spoken tried speaking to your teachers", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "Okay, then I think you need to find a place you can claim for yourself.\n", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "Either you can tell set up a study schedule with your parents and request to not be contacted during that time frame, then if they don't seem to have the ability to abide by that, you could try the outdoor seating of a starbucks or even an ikea or library.\n", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "Hello how can I help you?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "May I ask the reason why you are mad?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "were their actions accidental or intentional?", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "Did you say anything offensive?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "I see. If that is the case, create a personal meeting with you and your friends (the ones who banned you). ", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "just to clarify, are these online friends? Have you met them in person?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "and now for that one friend, does he know the other friends personally?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "I'm sorry to hear that. ", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "The best advice I can give you is to try to get your friends together on a private group call. Then tell them that what they've heard was a complete misunderstanding. And tell them to unban you from playstation. ", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "However, if they do not respect your response, then they can't really be relied on as your friends. They don't come to respect you so it is best for you to move on. ", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "Nobody should demoralize another person and that is what your \"online friends\" are taking advantage of. ", "output": "Information" }, { "input": "Also send a report to Sony about the ban. I believe with the proof, they can appeal the ban for you!", "output": "Information" }, { "input": "In that case just keep reporting them. ", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "Ah I see! Don't get your nephew banned!", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "how close are you to your nephew?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "If he's relying on your payments for the content, then I suggest for you to stop the payments until he learns his lesson. ", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "He clearly does not respect you so you need to set up some discipline and ground rules. ", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "Honestly, he's your nephew. So the fault lies on his parents. ", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "But I really do hope you get your account back. I'm sorry of how your online friends have treated you and your girlfriend. ", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "And I hope my advice/suggestions have been helpful!", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "You're very welcome! If that is all you have for me now, you can end the conversation. It was nice conversating with you!", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "Hi", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "How are you friend?", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "why?", "output": "Restatement or Paraphrasing" }, { "input": "Any Problem?", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "What's the reason?", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "it's their fault , not yours.", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "don't worry..", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "Be as you always have been", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "you don't think so..", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "don't change yourself for anyone..", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "ok, i did understand.. ", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "it doesn't matter what others say about us, do your duty properly ok", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "don't think about that..", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": " share your comments it is their choice whether to accept or disagree, but you don't change anything", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "Hmm good", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "Hmm all the best", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "Good evening. \n", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "No problem. How can I help you tonight?\n", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "So just to make sure I understand, you are struggling with dealing with ending a long term relationship with your child's father. \n", "output": "Restatement or Paraphrasing" }, { "input": "I am so sorry to hear that. My ex-fiance cheated on me and got pregnant with another man, so I know how rough this type of thing is. \n", "output": "Self-disclosure" }, { "input": "Have you been able to talk to him about it yet?\n", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "Have you talked to the kids about it? It will be important for them to understand what is going on and why. \n", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "I think it would help to sit down and have a conversation with them about it. It is important that they know how you feel and that you are there for them, and that they aren't the reason for the issues. \n", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "Have you thought about seeking a group of people who have been through this same situation that you are going through now? It often helps to talk to people who have been through the same things and get their help to get through the situation. \n", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "This is true I suppose. I made sure to have a conversation with her first in order to get some closure on the situation. After that I focused on more of my hobbies that I hadn't been able to do in a while in order to keep my mind distracted and off of the situation. \n", "output": "Self-disclosure" }, { "input": "I think that would definitely help!\n", "output": "Self-disclosure" }, { "input": "What are some things you like to do?\n", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "You have to know that it wasn't your fault. He was the one who was unfaithful and there is nothing that you did to cause that. This was something I had to keep telling myself as I was trying to process everything. Sometimes it isn't easy, but you are your own biggest supporter. It wasn't your fault. \n", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "Not a problem at all!\n", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "I know it's really hard right now, but I know you can make it through this!\n", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "Good, I am glad I was able to help you tonight!\n", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "How are you?\n", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "I doing well. How may I help you?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "I understand that you have a dispute with your friend. Is that correct?", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "What kind of help, if I may ask?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "I completely understand your frustration. Sometime work life balance is overwhelming.", "output": "Reflection of feelings" }, { "input": "Have you discuss your frustration with her?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "Experts says that when someone get emotional waiting some time might help reduce the tension. ", "output": "Information" }, { "input": "That is correct. After some time, when emotion is down, you both can have a discussion about the incident. ", "output": "Information" }, { "input": "Thank you. Anything else I could help you with?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "I don't have any at this point in time. ", "output": "Information" }, { "input": "Bye", "output": "Information" }, { "input": "Hello there.", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "Is there something you want to discuss?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "So it sounds like the birthday is a time for self-reflection, and you're not happy with where you are right now?", "output": "Restatement or Paraphrasing" }, { "input": "Is this something you've felt on previous birthdays?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "I'll confess I have felt the same way, especially with \"milestone\" birthdays (30, 40, 50, etc.).", "output": "Self-disclosure" }, { "input": "Do you think you are possibly expect too much in terms of achievements?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "As I became older, i started to wonder what terms like \"normal people\" and being \"average\" really mean.", "output": "Self-disclosure" }, { "input": "Am I comparing myself to something that even exists?", "output": "Self-disclosure" }, { "input": "That's so true. It's tough to deal with.", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "But I will same, as I became older, I just stopped caring as much about what other's think. It just happened.", "output": "Self-disclosure" }, { "input": "Also, I'm sure there are some things in life you are good at, even if those aren't what society seems to value.", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "Yeah, I hear you. Are you talking to others - such as professionals, etc. - about your autism?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "Being \"forced\" to do anything is usually a turn off. But it's good to hear there are groups online to help.", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "Oh, thanks. It's always nice to have a real conversation with someone.", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "I haven't planned on it, but I am looking for a career change. But no, this wasn't training for me.", "output": "Self-disclosure" }, { "input": "Not sure what this simulation is all about :)", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "Yep. Oh well, hope this was worth while for you.", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "Thanks. Be sure to do something enjoyable on your birthday. ", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "OK. Do I just hit \"Quit\"? I forget.", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "Take care.", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "GOOD. What bring you here today\n\n", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "So what I hear you saying is that since COVID your friends won't talk to you and that they make fun of you for wanting to wear a mask and protect yourself?\n\n", "output": "Restatement or Paraphrasing" }, { "input": "I am sorry to hear that your friends have been so distant lately. Have you tried to ask them why they have been this way?", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "So what I hear you saying is that they have backed away from you because you have chosen to take precautions due to COVID and they are choosing to not? Is that correct?", "output": "Restatement or Paraphrasing" }, { "input": "Well you are being smart by doing the right thing and protecting yourself and others during this time. You should not feel bad about what you are doing.", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "Do you have any other friends besides this group? Do you have other people that you could reach out to that are social distancing that you could relate to more during this time that you would have more in common with right now?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "What hobbies or activities do you like to do?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "Field hockey that sounds like an exciting sport to play! That does sound like it would keep you busy", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "Have you thought about the possibility of meeting people online that share some of the same things that you like to do and that you could talk to ?", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "I understand that you feel that you would look desperate but you said you like reading book so there may be some online book clubs that you could join. I know that I have been involved in those and I didn't feel like I was seen as desperate since there are so many people that want to be social but don't want to put themselves at risk.\n", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "I am so glad I was able to help. Maybe we can try and set up another time to talk again?", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "Sounds great. You can let me know if you found a book club.", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "You are so very welcome. Merry Christmas to you too! ", "output": "Others" }, { "input": " I look forward to talking to you soon! ", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "Hi. I see that you are upset. I have been at times as well. ", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "What about your friend is making you upset?", "output": "Reflection of feelings" }, { "input": "What about him has made you feel betrayed?", "output": "Information" }, { "input": "I have been in situations where similar comments have been made.", "output": "Self-disclosure" }, { "input": "Could you tell him that he could see a professional that could help him quit drinking?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "What ways could you find some support groups for your friend regarding his issues?", "output": "Restatement or Paraphrasing" }, { "input": "It might be worthwhile to recommend him look into getting some counseling about his issues that you seem to think are a real issue.", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "How long has this isolating been occurring?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "I know that your friend has a lot of issues to address, but you can give him an impetus to look at changing for the BETTER.", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "There is a group like AA (Alcoholics Anonymous) that could be a great support for your friend.", "output": "Information" }, { "input": "I have dealt with friends like this, but the sooner he can get help for his alcohol issues, it could better your relationship with him.", "output": "Self-disclosure" }, { "input": "I am glad to provide suggestions like AA and other support groups.", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "What else can I help you with?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "Were my suggestions helpful?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "I feel that the right suggestions can help. Alcohol can be a real issue with maintaining meaningful relationships.", "output": "Reflection of feelings" }, { "input": "You could also be part of his support group if he agrees to AA.", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "No, I don't feel it is betrayal. You care about him.", "output": "Information" }, { "input": "Do you have any more questions or concerns for me to reflect on?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "Hello", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "How may i help you today?", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "Can you explain to me what the misunderstanding was about?", "output": "Information" }, { "input": "Ok i see so she thinks you are ignoring her?", "output": "Restatement or Paraphrasing" }, { "input": "I understand how you are feeling about that I would be upset to.", "output": "Reflection of feelings" }, { "input": "Have you tried to talk to her again recently?", "output": "Information" }, { "input": "I would give her 2 or 3 days to her self then try to talk to her again", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "Maybe you should go up to her house ", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "Right i can understand", "output": "Reflection of feelings" }, { "input": "I would suggest just keep trying to talk to her and apologize and tell her you been really busy and was not trying to ignore her", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "Send her a apology card in the mail", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "your welcome I hope yall will work it out ", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "Things will get better for you to ", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "Have a wonderful holiday to", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "Hai", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "why?", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "Any problem?", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "oh, you settle elsewhere", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "yes", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "ok clarify your friendship value", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "ok, tell your friend what you think.", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "clarify, what you think", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "That problem would not be possible if you did not speak", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "Tell them what you think in your mind and they will surely understand.", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "ok, you clarify your reasons for them.", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "of course everything will be fine.", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "ok, good, best of luck, ", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "Hello! How are you tonight?\n", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "Oh! I live in KY and it's 8 pm at night! lol Well, good afternoon to you! A pleasure to meet you, how can I encourage you today?", "output": "Restatement or Paraphrasing" }, { "input": "I'm sorry to hear that. I am in the same boat! We have no close friends and family near us, we moved here to a very rural area in KY some years ago, so I understand. ", "output": "Self-disclosure" }, { "input": "Do you live alone?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "One thing I started doing was calling a few people I met online on the phone to just chat. I started that about 2 months ago and it REALLY helped with my lonliness. I had to step out of my comfort zone as normally, I'm not a phone person. ", "output": "Self-disclosure" }, { "input": "On FB in groups. I got to chatting with the same people, then began to inbox and then asked them if I could call. If you are in a group, you could even ask if anyone else would like to connect as friends. I am a woman, so I just picked women. ", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "I was just thinking of ideas for me to make local friends too. Perhaps you could invite people to your home for Christmas, then when they say they have something occurring, perhaps they will realize you are alone and then invite you? ", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "Are there any churches feeding people on Christmas? Sometimes that is a great way to meet others and help too. \n", "output": "Information" }, { "input": "I know it can be very difficult to be alone, why not input your town name in the FB search ad, maybe join local groups to see if there are any civic activities too. ", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "There always seems to be people in the same boat I am in, it is just a matter of thinking outside the box and perhaps even calling friends and asking for suggestions.\n", "output": "Self-disclosure" }, { "input": "I will definitely say a prayer that you find some people to share a meal with. ", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "You are welcome. Don't give up, keep trying. It is hard. I've been alone a few times in my life and while I like to be alone, sometimes I really want some people in my life! :D ", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "I totally get it. ", "output": "Reflection of feelings" }, { "input": "You are welcome! You have a blessed afternoon and evening! ", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "I believe you have to end the conversation and then we are done! :D", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "Hello there. Is there anything bothering you that you'd like to talk about at the moment? ", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "Oh I am so sorry! Dealing with bereavement is hard at any time but at this time of year I think that it is even worse. ", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "So you feel as though you have to avoid people because you do not want to make them feel bad that you are feeling bad? ", "output": "Reflection of feelings" }, { "input": "Well let me ask you - if the situation were reversed, would you feel that a close friend was bringing you down if they talked about their bereavement? ", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "Well, perhaps your friends would not mind you confiding in them either? That is what good friends are for, ultimately. ", "output": "Reflection of feelings" }, { "input": "I am really sorry about that - that is a seriously rough thing to have had to deal with. Do you have siblings and if so could you perhaps talk with them? ", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "What about some sort of professional therapy? There are some organisations out there that will provide a certain number of sessions for free ", "output": "Information" }, { "input": "That is a good idea, especially at this time when it's probably not a good idea to see too many new people in person. Could you call your doctor and ask them? ", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "Have you tried searching online? I have personally found some useful groups that have helped me deal with the mental health issues that I have. ", "output": "Self-disclosure" }, { "input": "There are plenty available online where you would not need to see anyone in person. Try googling for support groups in your local area? ", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "I'd really recommend doing that, it could help you a lot! I wish you all the best and hope that 2021 is a better year for you. ", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "That is tough ... so you are feeling uprooted as well as bereaved? I can only hope things go well for you ", "output": "Reflection of feelings" }, { "input": "That's a slightly macabre way of looking at it but .. true. ", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "Have a lovely festive season ", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "quite!!\n", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "Do press the quit button and take the survey ;) ", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "Hello", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "How may i help you today?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "I can understand how you are feeling. ", "output": "Reflection of feelings" }, { "input": "Has anyone else noticed him sleeping all the time at his desk?", "output": "Reflection of feelings" }, { "input": "That is really weird how can someone not see him sleeping at his desk", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "Have you talked to your co worker about it?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "if your boss said nothing to him then maybe you should step up and say something even though you are right that is not your place", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "Your boss does not sound like a good boss at all and not doing his job correctly", "output": "Information" }, { "input": "i feel like you should have like a serious talk to your boss about it", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "I don't want you feeling how you feeling because you are doing your job and you are doing everything you can to solve the problem", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "How long has this been going on?", "output": "Information" }, { "input": "Your welcome", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "How many times have you confronted your boss about it?", "output": "Information" }, { "input": "So he must not believe you", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "have a good night to and your welcome", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "Hello.", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "How are you today?\n", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "What happened?\n", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "I understand how you feel. Have you guys tried spending more time with each other? Maybe going out on dates?", "output": "Information" }, { "input": "Its never too late to put spice back into the relationship.\n", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "Show her that your still love because by being spontaneous. Surprise her with gifts. Maybe take her on a random vacation somewhere. Have a deep conversation about how you are feeling and that you still love her and want her in your life.", "output": "Information" }, { "input": "It might take a little bit but its better to try than not to try at all.\n", "output": "Information" }, { "input": "Start by talking about whats going on. Tell her how you think you guys should spend more time with her. Or that you dont want to lose her. Ask her if there is anything she might want to discuss. She maybe having issues shes afraid to talk about.\n", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "I think that would be a good idea. Having the chance to get things out and getting more advice is always helpful. Make sure you leave any issues at common ground.", "output": "Information" }, { "input": "Most likely a female therapist would be better. Nobody understands a woman more than a woman.", "output": "Information" }, { "input": "I suggest taking one step at a time. I wouldn't rush through things. I would suggest sitting down and talking through some things that are going on. Maybe taking some time away from work. Going out and spending time with each other as much as you can. ", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "If you guys think you may need a marriage counselor, I highly recommend it. I think it would be a great start.\n", "output": "Information" }, { "input": "Depending on the nature, I think you should let him know whats going on. He may already know.", "output": "Information" }, { "input": "I know its really hard, but I think you guys with work things out. Have hope. Times are stressful, especially in this day and age.", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "goodbye\n", "output": "Information" }, { "input": "Hello! Is there something I can help you with?", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "Would you like to tell me how you're feeling?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "Right now, are you still employed?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "What kind of troubles are you facing at your job?", "output": "Restatement or Paraphrasing" }, { "input": "Oh, I can understand how worried you must be! Do you think you will be laid off?", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "I am so very sorry to hear that. Do you mind me asking what type of job it is?", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "I have been in a similar situation and understand how scary it is. Have you been looking for another job or are you waiting to see if you are laid off?", "output": "Self-disclosure" }, { "input": "Yes! The pandemic has turned the world upside down, it seems like. ", "output": "Reflection of feelings" }, { "input": "Have you thought of going back to school or have you completed your education?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "I am so very sorry that you are struggling with depression. ", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "You have been a supervisor and you already have your degree, so you are ahead of lots of people. Have you been able to see a doctor or a therapist to talk to?", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "And I know that sounded presumptuous of me to say \"you are ahead of lots of people\", but it does seem like a \"positive\" in your favor. ", "output": "Information" }, { "input": "I'm glad you have been able to talk to someone. ", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "I feel like the world is in some kind of \"holding\" pattern until the pandemic is under control. ", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "I'm glad just talking has made you feel a little better! ", "output": "Information" }, { "input": "Amen to that! ", "output": "Reflection of feelings" }, { "input": "I am hoping that you will find a new (and better!) job that you absolutely love! Stay safe...and positive!", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "Hello! How are you doing today?", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "I'm doing well. How can I help you today?", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "I can understand why this would be frustrating for you. Its good that you are trying to support her. Have you talked to her about the way you're feeling?", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "Do you think she is any sort of danger that someone should know about?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "That is understandable. Do you think it's to the point where maybe you should say something to her about it? Even if you might sound a bit critical?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "Have you thought of any possible solutions you think could possibly work to fix this issue?", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "All of the above!", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "Do you think these issues are serious enough to get a proffessional involved?", "output": "Information" }, { "input": "You may have to make a decision and determine how big her issues are.", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "Yes. How do you feel about doing that? Do you think that would help?", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "I think that sounds like a great thing! Sometimes we just need to get together and help out the people we love going through tough times!", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "Of course! I hope all goes well!", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "You as well!", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "Bye!", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "Hello Doing good\n", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "How are doing?\n", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "Sorry to hear this,have you ever tried selling on Ebay\n\n", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "Have you ever heard of QVC liquidations,its awesome with some very good returns.\n", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "If your interested you will need to submit a sellers I.D. or tax id\n", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "Absolutely\n ", "output": "Restatement or Paraphrasing" }, { "input": "I have made close to 12,000.00 in one year just reselling the returns.Also ESTY is also a great place.", "output": "Restatement or Paraphrasing" }, { "input": "Go to EBAY and scroll down to the the completed section and click it and this will show you the item your searching like homemade items or stuff like back packs that maybe on sell at Walmart and I buy them and see what they are selling for\n", "output": "Restatement or Paraphrasing" }, { "input": "I have purchased a lot of stuff from walmart and resold it on EBAY\n", "output": "Restatement or Paraphrasing" }, { "input": "Its fun", "output": "Restatement or Paraphrasing" }, { "input": "Down load the Walmart app and when you go scan the item with app and sometimes its cheaper\n", "output": "Restatement or Paraphrasing" }, { "input": "I saw a seller on EBAY make small surf boards and sold them on EBAY well over a hundred dollars.They were 48 inches long but he made good money.\n", "output": "Restatement or Paraphrasing" }, { "input": "He painted them and they looked awesome.", "output": "Restatement or Paraphrasing" }, { "input": "People who own and rent their beach house always looking for some new looks", "output": "Restatement or Paraphrasing" }, { "input": "Your welcome Don't ever give up there is always ways to make a difference.", "output": "Restatement or Paraphrasing" }, { "input": "You too\n", "output": "Restatement or Paraphrasing" }, { "input": "Hello, how are you tonight?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "I'm doing well how can I help you tonight?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "I can see where this would be frustrating. As parents our biggest goal is to keep them safe and healthy. Have you thought about having a conversation with the people you are around to inform them you'd wish they wear a mask?", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "I understand how you feel. Can you tell me a little more about how it makes you feel when they don't honor your requests?", "output": "Reflection of feelings" }, { "input": "I can see exactly how frustrated you are in this situation. Before I share some ideas do you have any ideas of ways to combat this issue? ", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "Alright. Have you talked to your boss about working in areas where you can be around people less? Or possibly going part time for now and finding a lob that puts less danger on you and your family?", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "We are going through some really tough times right now and I think that most people are very sympathetic. Especially for those who are in your shoes. Our children are our top priority and seeing them sick hurts us more than anything. How do you feel about talking to your boss about working in the office for a bit until things calm down a little?", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "Do you get paid vacation time in your job?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "Another suggestion that I have is maybe you could take some paid vacation time now rather than later to get away from people for awhile. I know it may not be the most fun time to do it but then you know you're keeping safe!", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "I'm not sure of all the details on your job so I'm having a hard time making firm suggestions. How would you feel about that?", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "Hello! How are you tonight?\n", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "I'm sorry to hear you are freaking out. Perhaps a friendly listening ear can encourage you?", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "Why are you freaking out?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "Sometimes just a friend to hear you out and encourage you can really make a difference. Life has its ups and down. ", "output": "Restatement or Paraphrasing" }, { "input": "That's a difficult decision you have made. ", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "Have you tried to talk to him about the problem? Or a counselor? ", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "I have worked at a domestic violence shelter before, the most dangerous time to leave a situation like this is when you leave. Do you have a plan in place?", "output": "Self-disclosure" }, { "input": "My husband used to be very controlling as well, I dragged him to counseling. He changed. He bucked at first, but eventually he went. We have gone a few times off and on over 20 years. We both came from broken homes. \n", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "Has he hurt you physically? or is he mainly emotionally abusive? \n", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "I'm glad to hear that. I can understand that you would be really stressed at this time, however, I do encourage you to get a good plan in place, and definitely get counseling. ", "output": "Reflection of feelings" }, { "input": "Yes, I had child abuse in my life too, I really think counseling saved our marriage, 3 times. But like, I said, he didn't want to go. However, the first time, I did leave and stay with a friend, and that convinced him I was serious. ", "output": "Self-disclosure" }, { "input": "I wish I could fix this, but I can't. The road will be rocky and I don't know how I would have made it without people to encourage and support me, so I'm glad a friend is willing to have you stay with them until you can get on your feet. ", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "My husband really loved me, but coming from a broken home, he lost his mom when he was 12, so he thought controlling me was the solution, very messed up, but he had to learn to see that. ", "output": "Self-disclosure" }, { "input": "He feared I would die or leave him or something, but once he saw that, and realized what he was doing was hurting me and making me want to leave, he changed. But honestly, I have never understood men and why they dont' see life the way we do. Sometimes it takes that objective person to help them see it. ", "output": "Self-disclosure" }, { "input": "Ouch! That sounds painful to look at. ", "output": "Reflection of feelings" }, { "input": "People who truly love others become willing to change. Sometimes it takes a DRASTIC measure to wake them up, like leaving. He has not heard you, so many he will \"hear\" it when you leave. But please be careful and have a plan. ", "output": "Information" }, { "input": "How long have you been married?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "That's a long time. I will say a prayer for your safety and for you to get some help, hopefully he will join you. Marriage is a lot of work, but it can't be one person, it has to be two. ", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "Don't leave anything in writing around until after you leave. ", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "I believe in the power of prayer too. The Serenity prayer is a good one to help me let go of my fears and do what I can, leaving the rest to God. ", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "If I worry and get upset, then I waste energy, I have had to learn to get distracted if I find myself on that worry train, call a friend, go for a walk, just not obsess, it goes nowhere. ", "output": "Information" }, { "input": "And I urge you to get a counselor. ", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "You are welcome. Watch your thinking, when it goes off track, take charge, change your thinking, get up and move about and do something else because it's not healthy for you to worry. As you said, you freak out, and that is not good for you or your children. \n", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "It's a rough situation, it will be difficult, you seem very intelligent, have thought about this, are working on a plan and are able to discuss it. That's a big plus on yoru side. ", "output": "Information" }, { "input": "I'm glad to hear it. Keep the faith, all will be well in due time! Sometimes rough roads really work out, but it never FEELS that way! You have a good night! :D", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "Hello.\n", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "How are you?", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "What is Martins?\n", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "My sorry this is happening to you. Would you like to talk about it?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "I have had old friends do that do me. The best thing to do is let go of them and try to find a better friend. I had a friend that I was friends with for 11 years and she dropped out of the blue. Since then, I have come across a lot of amazing friends. ", "output": "Self-disclosure" }, { "input": "That's really had to deal with. Try to surround yourself with loyal and truthful people.\n", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "Do you guys run a business together?\n", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "I understand. Maybe you could find a better friend to help you go to Canada or take a vacation to Canada sometimes. \n", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "Its really hard but I think you can do it. You will feel much better about not having to deal with lies all the time.\n", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "bye\n", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "Hi, I'm Vicky! I'm doing pretty well :) How can I help you through your issues today?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "No problem! I would love to be a listening ear for you to talk about it and work through anything stuck in your mind.", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "omgsh I'm so sorry to hear that. Is this your daughter's partner? I've been in an emotionally abusive relationship before and know how difficult it can be ", "output": "Self-disclosure" }, { "input": "From my personal experience, I can say that your support really means everything to her. She may not want to admit the truth to herself, but with your support, I believe she can find the strength to get out of the relatioship", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "Yes I completely understand. It's a very delicate situation. I've read multiple times that it takes an average of 7 times to leave an abusive relationship (even though I think I tried even more times than that). She will hopefully one day gather the courage to realize she doesn't deserve to be treated badly\n", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "You are amazing for being her support!", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "That's seriously great to hear! I don't know what the exact situation is but I do know that she needs all the love she can get\n", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "that's all you can do for now until the day that she will be able to take steps to leave the bad situation", "output": "Restatement or Paraphrasing" }, { "input": "I hope that this will be a productive visit from them. At the very least, they'll be able to see what real love looks like from you guys :)", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "I'm so happy to hear that. I would love to help anyone I can to get out of an abusive relationship because it was the darkest period of my whole life. I wish you the best of luck and Merry Christmas!", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "I think you have to end the conversation on your end.", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "<3 agreed. Unconditional support is everything. ", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "Hello", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "How may I help you today?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "I am sorry to hear that i can understand how you must be feeling", "output": "Reflection of feelings" }, { "input": "Why does your son not like your boyfriend?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "Have you talked to your boyfriend about how you are feeling?", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "I can understand why your boyfriend be getting upset if your son is disrespectful to you and is aggressive but you know that is your son and you going to be there for him no matter what ", "output": "Reflection of feelings" }, { "input": "How long has this been going on?", "output": "Information" }, { "input": "Is the therapist working for him?", "output": "Information" }, { "input": "Have you had a conversation with your son about the way he is acting?", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "Maybe he should start seeing a therapist every day maybe that will help", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "maybe your boyfriend and your son needs to sit down and have a talk ", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "or you know your boyfriend can plan out a day or something and your son and your boyfriend can go out and do something fun ", "output": "Information" }, { "input": "They should have a talk because communication is key and that will solve a lot ", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "I am sure he will stop the way he is acting it just may take some time", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "You are right he still got a whole life ahead of him ", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "your welcome have a good evening to ", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "Hello there, how is life treating you at the moment? ", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "I can't complain :) Is there anything specific that you'd like to talk to me about today? ", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "I like to listen to people's problems. I am training to be a counsellor. What would you like to talk about? ", "output": "Self-disclosure" }, { "input": "About 12 minutes. Would you like to tell me what is on your mind at the moment? ", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "No I don't. I am here specifically to help you with problems that you might be facing at the moment. Do you have any problems at work, for instance? ", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "Ah I hear you there! Some employers are so inconsiderate; they expect us to drop everything and work at any time of any day. ", "output": "Self-disclosure" }, { "input": "Ah, so I hear you saying that one of the things that you are struggling with is finding affordable childcare? ", "output": "Reflection of feelings" }, { "input": "What are your objections against a private person? Is it that you feel you could not trust them? Do you have any family members who could help? ", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "Could someone come to your home perhaps? You could set up your own cameras there. And you could make sure to get someone with excellent references ", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "You might be able to find good advice on local parenting forums. There must be other people there who are in the same situation. ", "output": "Information" }, { "input": "Try going to google, inputting your local area and searching for parenting advice forums :) ", "output": "Information" }, { "input": "I hope you are able to find someone who can set your mind at ease! Thank you for talking and have a wonderful festive season. ", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "no worries :) remember to hit the button and take the survey ;) ", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "I can't actually do it from my end until you do :) ", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "Hello there. How are things treating you at the moment? ", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "Pretty much sums it up really. I think that that is how a lot of us are feeling right now. Is there anything you'd like to talk about? ", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "Ouch I hear you .. I have suffered from those for years. They are no fun at all are they? ", "output": "Self-disclosure" }, { "input": "Are you getting any sort of treatment for it? There are some effective treatments out there. ", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "That sounds really productive. Do you think that the attacks might be stress related in some way? ", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "Hmm yes I can see how that does not make any sense. Do you have any other medical issues? ", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "Well, I believe that there are some new advances in migraine treatment at the moment so I think things will improve for you. I am sorry if I am not being more help. ", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "You sound as though you are dealing with the problem pretty well though", "output": "Reflection of feelings" }, { "input": "Ah I hear you on that. Do you feel that this is related to the pandemic or is it something that has been ongoing for a while? ", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "There are some excellent counselling services available if you are interested in going that route. ", "output": "Information" }, { "input": "That is a really healthy attitude to have. I think that you are dealing with this very well .. well done! ", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "Back to migraines, have you considered trying to alter your diet to help with it? Some people believe that avoiding certain foods can be really helpful. ", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "That's a shame - I would really miss caffeine if I had to do without it! I did try cutting out sugar but it did not really have any effect \n", "output": "Self-disclosure" }, { "input": "I hope that you can find some resolution in the New Year. All the best to you and thanks for talking! ", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "You too! Don't forget to press the button and take the survey ;) ", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "I'm doing fine , how are you?\n", "output": "Reflection of feelings" }, { "input": "thats good what do you have planned for the holidays?\n", "output": "Self-disclosure" }, { "input": "I completely understand that i feel that pain as well.\n", "output": "Reflection of feelings" }, { "input": "are you there?\n", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "it's ok there are plenty of other things that you can do with family during this time ", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "exactly so what else do you have planned are you ready for the new year?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "yes it's the thought that counts and being blessed to be around love ones", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "I myself is going to enjoy good food and enjoy hopefully some decent winter weather \n", "output": "Self-disclosure" }, { "input": "your welcome ", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "no snow here the weather was really nice today high of 60 degrees \n", "output": "Information" }, { "input": "what about where you are at?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "nice ", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "Yes in the US , thanksgiving was just with close family members .", "output": "Information" }, { "input": "How are you doing today?\n", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "I'm sorry to hear your sad. Is there anything I can do to help you?\n", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "Sure, let's talk it out\n", "output": "Reflection of feelings" }, { "input": "That's a valid concern and overwhelming to think about I'm sure. What is her prognosis?\n", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "And is this something that she will die early because of?\n", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "So if she manages it she can live a relatively normal life?\n", "output": "Information" }, { "input": "Sure, I can see where it would be challenging and pregnancy would be scary. But I'd suggest discuss it with her doctor to see what they suggest. \n", "output": "Reflection of feelings" }, { "input": "As hard as it is to think about, you'd also have a piece of her\n", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "Do you simply not want kids? Because if she does and you don't, you can't blame it on her condition, that would be making her give up something that wouldn't be fair.\n", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "I understand, you may need to have a hard conversation with her.\n", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "Maybe you're not right for each other if you have such different views on this subject. Neither one of you should have to give in to something they don't want.\n", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "Unfortunately it sounds like you've had a lot of experience with that, and I can understand that. I've been to my fair share as well. But you also can't live your life in fear or you're not really living.\n", "output": "Self-disclosure" }, { "input": "Unfortunately it sounds like you've had a lot of experience with that, and I can understand that. I've been to my fair share as well. But you also can't live your life in fear or you're not really living.\n", "output": "Self-disclosure" }, { "input": "Or allowing her to live the life she wants as well.", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "Oh my gosh, I'm so sorry. It sounds like you have someone who cares about you and wants a part of you to exist in another living being. I know you're scared and that's valid, but you have an opportunity to do things differently than what your mom did for you.\n", "output": "Reflection of feelings" }, { "input": "But having gone through that yourself, you know exactly what NOT to do. \n", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "Then it must be good advice lol\n", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "You deserve better than thinking your feelings don't count for something. There are people that love you and want to listen and be a part of your life. \n", "output": "Reflection of feelings" }, { "input": "Good, I'm glad you have that support.\n", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "Thank you, I'm glad I was able to chat with you and wish you the best!\n", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "You as well!\n", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "Salutations ", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "How r u", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "Glad to meet you", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "How might I be of service", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "No problem. I all ears", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "What has you stressed out", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "I hear you there. Are you alone or friend s around", "output": "Restatement or Paraphrasing" }, { "input": "What do you do work wise", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "Wow that is a pretty awesome line of work", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "Is the state stopping you", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "The 6 foot rule is causing you a problem.", "output": "Restatement or Paraphrasing" }, { "input": "What other type work do you do", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "Question for you", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "Are you able to visit people in their homes", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "So you could not do house calls", "output": "Restatement or Paraphrasing" }, { "input": "I work from home. Have you thought about online work", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "That is very understandable", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "I do online work. I write plus copywrite.", "output": "Self-disclosure" }, { "input": "There are websites that enable you to find work from home", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "I could name a company that has multiple listings", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "There is a website called Dream Work from Home. She is on you tube also and tells you more about her program", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "She has positions especially for women", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "Her program is free and she updates it 4 times a week", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "She helps you find companies", "output": "Information" }, { "input": "Her name is Denise", "output": "Information" }, { "input": "She is a very awesome lady", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "all of her work can be from home", "output": "Information" }, { "input": "She has over 100 companies that are hiring", "output": "Information" }, { "input": "It is here company", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "you can also wfh even if your shop reopens", "output": "Information" }, { "input": "Yes. She will tell you all about her program and where to apply.", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "There is always an alternative to our work", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "But if you go back to work, you can always change what hours you work from home", "output": "Information" }, { "input": "Even part-time as a side job", "output": "Information" }, { "input": "Hello! How are you feeling today?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "Can I ask why you feel angry and depressed?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "Can I ask why you feel angry and depressed?\n", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "It sounds like you are frustrated. Do you mind sharing what the fight was about?", "output": "Restatement or Paraphrasing" }, { "input": "I am sorry to hear that you two fought! What made you feel that he was not concentrating on his homework?\n", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "Does he often struggle with homework?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "It sounds like you feel he has a loss of motivation towards school work, is this correct?", "output": "Restatement or Paraphrasing" }, { "input": "Alright, so you feel he has an issue with following instructions? Have you ever tried disciplinary action like taking away video games when he feels he does not want to listen to you? ", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "Do you feel he could possibly be depressed? ", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "It must be even harder during times of the virus!", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "I am sorry to hear that, have you thought about seeing a counselor through the internet?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "I think that is a very nice idea. I also might suggest finding activities that you both could enjoy and spend time together. Maybe finding a show you both could enjoy will open up room for a greater connection!", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "It could also help both of you feeling lonely during these hard times!", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "Do you have any self-care activities that you enjoy doing? This could help feelings of depression. Even taking some time out of the week to do something you enjoy can help lift up one's mood.", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "Well I am glad to hear that you have some activities you enjoy! In relation to your son, how do you feel when he plays video games constantly?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "Have you ever thought about using the video games as an incentive. For example, if he finishes his homework, he can play for two hours or something?", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "It is good to hear that the video games did not get in the way of him completing his work. Do you have any other ideas as to what hobbies makes him happy or interested?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "I think starting with the school counselor is a great idea, I feel she will have more of an idea of how your son functions in school and maybe give ideas to helping his mood. ", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "Yes, no problem! I hope you can find a solution to helping your son.", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "Hello there. How are you feeling today? ", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "I am really sorry to hear that. Is it something specific that you'd like to talk about? ", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "I am really sorry to hear that! Is it related to the pandemic or have you doing badly in your exams? ", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "Please try not to worry. Do you have someone to advocate for you in the appeals process? ", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "I think you should look into getting an advocate. You have a legal entitlement to have representation. ", "output": "Information" }, { "input": "Ah I do understand. I have been frustrated when things grind to a halt at this time of year too. Can you ask for an extension on your appeal time? ", "output": "Self-disclosure" }, { "input": "That sounds very harsh, especially given the current situation. I suggest that you find out where you stand legally because I am sure that this can't be right ", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "I can tell you are feeling really hopeless and anxious right now. Do you have any fun plans for the season? ", "output": "Reflection of feelings" }, { "input": "I think it would be a good idea to try to coax yourself into going. You will probably enjoy it when you get there :) ", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "Have you considered speaking to your doctor? You might benefit from some medication or counselling. ", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "I am sorry. I suffer from depression also and am on medication so I can understand your pain. ", "output": "Self-disclosure" }, { "input": "Unfortunately the current global situation is not helping any of us. It is terrible to feel scared all the time. ", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "Perhaps you could make a list of things that you mean to do in the New Year to give you something to focus on? ", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "Make sure to only choose realistic goals so's not to make yourself feel despondent and do not be too hard on yourself if something does not work out! ", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "A journal is a fantastic idea. You can track your personal progress over a period of time. ", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "Unfortunately, depression does mean that we can judge ourselves far too harshly. I have been guilty of that myself in the past. ", "output": "Self-disclosure" }, { "input": "I hope I have been able to be of some comfort to you and given you something to think about. Have a lovely Christmas! ", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "Take care! ", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "(You need to finish from your end .. I can't :)) ", "output": "Information" }, { "input": "hi\n", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "how may I help you\n", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "\nokay\n", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "yes the course is kind difficult \n", "output": "Restatement or Paraphrasing" }, { "input": "have you try to tell your friends or someone to put you through?\n", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "I know that you have done your best, but keep on trying more ways by telling someone \n", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "I know that you have done your best, but keep on trying more ways by telling someone \n\n", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "I know that you have done your best, but keep on trying more ways by telling someone \n\n", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "I can see how anxious you are, just as i am chatting with you. You really need assistance to solve the course and pass very well.", "output": "Reflection of feelings" }, { "input": "I can see how anxious you are, just as i am chatting with you. You really need assistance to solve the course and pass very well.", "output": "Reflection of feelings" }, { "input": "I was also in that shoe, but you can try to move close to someone you think knows the course very well", "output": "Self-disclosure" }, { "input": "you have done best so far, you need to get rid of that fear to understand the course. You can even go online, like download some videos about the course, it will tutor you and really be of help", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "hello\n", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "definitely, it will be of help\n", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "get your courage back, do not give room for fear. \n", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "you are welcome, ", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "I wish you the best luck ", "output": "Self-disclosure" }, { "input": "bye", "output": "Self-disclosure" }, { "input": "you can end the chat ", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "HOw are you doing?\n", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "What's wrong?\n", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "I'm sorry to hear that, what about the holidays has you down?\n", "output": "Reflection of feelings" }, { "input": "Do you live alone or do you have other family members in the same house?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "I'm sorry to hear that, do you have family that lives nearby?", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "Are there some in the South?", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "Is there a reason you're trying to get further away from family?\n", "output": "Reflection of feelings" }, { "input": "That sounds like a good idea then. Meet someone to settle down with and get through this with.\n", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "I'm in the North, so anything outdoors sounds nice right about now.", "output": "Self-disclosure" }, { "input": "It's definitely not for everyone. Amazing how temperature can mess with your mood as well. Something about sun and sand can really put you in a good mood.\n", "output": "Reflection of feelings" }, { "input": "Same here, we have snow on the ground and negative temps projected for later in the week.", "output": "Self-disclosure" }, { "input": "Are you spending the holidays with anyone if you're not heading north?\n", "output": "Information" }, { "input": "I'm sorry to hear that, this is such a crazy year for everyone. I'm sorry to hear you'll be alone. Have you ever considered volunteering?", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "It's smart to be safe.", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "Maybe you can do some research on areas and places to move during the holidays. Look forward to when you can sit on the beach.\n", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "That's coming up pretty quick though so that's good", "output": "Information" }, { "input": "No problem, you as well. Have a great holiday season.\n", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "Hey, hi are you doing today?\n", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "I'm pretty good, I can't complain. Is there any thing going on with your life that you would like to discuss?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "I know separation isn't easy, especially with children involved. How are you coping with this transition? ", "output": "Reflection of feelings" }, { "input": "Well breakup is not easy so what you're feeling is normal. Have you ever sought out professional help for depression?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "Are there hobbies or activities that you do that help you cope with issues such as jogging, reading, etc.?", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "Its good to see that you have activities you participate in that helps you cope. I also play video games to just get away mentally too. But yes, even hobbies are not the cure for issue but rather helps with the symptoms.", "output": "Information" }, { "input": "I love to play shooters and sports lol. I will be getting into the VR world very soon.", "output": "Self-disclosure" }, { "input": "I'm scared as well as it may feel too realistic for me. ", "output": "Self-disclosure" }, { "input": "hahaha...Have you tslked to family and friends about the situation? How did they respond and what suggestions did they offer?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "Do you want the relationship to be over or you are truly done and want to move on?\n", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "Although it's tough for the children, it's positive to hear that maybe it was for the best. The family seemed to echo your same feelings so it could be for the best.", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "Some children may act out if they have trouble expressing how they feel. I would suggest having regular talks with them and being transparent.", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "Oh wow, well its good that an explanation was there for him to understand. As time goes on, it will become easier", "output": "Information" }, { "input": "No problem, the pleasure was all mines!", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "You too, thanks!", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "Hello. How are you today?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "Im glad to hear that. I am doing well today, thank you for asking!", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "Is there something on your mind you'd like to chat about? I'm here to listen.", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "I'm sorry to hear that. Recovering from a break up can take a long time. How long were you together?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "That is a long time. I think its normal to take time to recover after a long relationship, after all it was a significant part of your life for 4 years. ", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "I've struggled with the same situation. Do you want to tell me what kind of feelings you are struggling with? ", "output": "Self-disclosure" }, { "input": "That is a lot to deal with, I am so sorry.", "output": "Reflection of feelings" }, { "input": "I hear and feel your grief. Would you call it grief? Please let me know.\n", "output": "Reflection of feelings" }, { "input": "i understand. Grief is the emotion of sadness and loss, does that resonate with you? ", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "I was just going to ask you if you still see her, that must have been so difficult. ", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "The hollidays were very hard for me after my break up, we were going to marry like you. Isort the season and all the expectations and memories of exacerbated the loss for me. Do you think that might be making you feel worse? ", "output": "Self-disclosure" }, { "input": "Have you considered that You must be beautiful/handsome for her to be attracted to you.", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "I just want to say that the hollidays will be over soon and that may help.", "output": "Information" }, { "input": "I'm sorry, it sounds like you loved her very much.\n", "output": "Reflection of feelings" }, { "input": "Experts say that feeling your feelings and talking about them is really good for you to help get over a long breakup. Also that it takes a year or more to process. So know that you are doing the right things.", "output": "Information" }, { "input": "I was really lonely after my breakup too. I had to make myself spend time with other people that cared about me like friends and family. Even though I kind of just wanted to stay sad making myself be around other people that reminded me of the good, perfect and lovable things about myself made me feel better and gave me hope. Maybe easing your lonliness would give you some relief? ", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "You sound like a sensitive and loving person. Those are wonderful qualities. I noticed them and we are strangers. I'm sure you have many more.", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "It sounds like you don't feel like going out?\n", "output": "Restatement or Paraphrasing" }, { "input": "It's normal to feel the way you do as you sort out what happened and how to go forward. \n", "output": "Reflection of feelings" }, { "input": "If you dont feel like being around people, what really helped me was reminding myself of the good things about myself. Sometimes I even made a list so I didn't forget. And staying distracted sometimes helped too. Experts say coming up with some goal or project really helps. ", "output": "Information" }, { "input": "There are also so many articles and support on the internet, don't be afraid to just search \"getting over a relationship\" or 'bad breakup advice\" there are so many people that have gone through this. Ypu are not alone.", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "I know that nothing I say can take away your pain or make it not have happened, but I care that you have these feelings and I care about you. ", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "you are welcome. i hope you feel supported and encouraged. I know this will get better for you. take care of and love yourself, friend. you are worth it. ", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "and one last thing that worked for me was when I was really fixated on how perfect my ex was, i'd make a list of why they weren't and why we weren't good together. It made me think in a more balanced way.", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "yeah, it did work. even when all could see was how great my ex was i could at least see why we didn't work and i wanted us both to be happy so writing that stuff helped me keep it in perspective. Its been a privilege listening to you . i'm wishing you all good things.", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "you're welcome. don't be afraid to reach out to others in this time, you are valuable. i hope you have a good rest of the week. ", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "bye\n", "output": "Restatement or Paraphrasing" }, { "input": "Hello. How can I help you today ?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "Tell me about the situation that you are facing ", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "I am sorry to hear that. How long have you been looking?", "output": "Restatement or Paraphrasing" }, { "input": "I understand that there are a lot of job loss in the Covid time. Is your job seeking related to that?", "output": "Restatement or Paraphrasing" }, { "input": "Yeah it must be very difficult. ", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "I was applying for jobs for almost a year, and I got an offer in February right before coronavirus. I can definitely relate to you. ", "output": "Reflection of feelings" }, { "input": "I am glad that Mechanical Turk can provide an intermediate method of earning income. I am also using the platform to earn some extra cash to support family. ", "output": "Self-disclosure" }, { "input": "Tell me more about it if you don't mind. What kind of academic and professional background do you have, and what kind of positions are you seeking?", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "I see. Would you ideally want to work for a manufacturer company instead of settling down for something temporary while seeking a more matched position?", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "I understand. Do you have location requirements, for instance, you would prefer working remotely instead of in person in the Covid time? ", "output": "Information" }, { "input": "I have been browsing job boards every now and then. There are consistently some grocery store jobs, or cashier jobs. If you don't mind the location, I am sure you would be a good fit for these.", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "I completely understand. I was looking for jobs for almost a year. I have a spreadsheet that keeps track of all the jobs I applied. Maybe only 2 or 3 percent of them replied (with an interview request, etc.) I would suggest trying applying for jobs via Linkedin, or google jobs. You can sort them by posted date. My experience is that the more recent the posting date is, the more likely they will review your application. ", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "Previously I also registered in a few temp agencies that would place me in companies with the intension of only keeping in on board for a few months/weeks. They can be a good gap filler as well.", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "I hope I can be more helpful. I really sympathize with your situation. ", "output": "Reflection of feelings" }, { "input": "They would just terminate me after they have found a permanent employee on an ongoing basis. In rare situations, they would hire \"temp-to-hire\" with the expectation of hiring temp workers.", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "Thank you for reaching out. It really shows that you care and you are working towards the goal. I hope you succeed. ", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "Happy holidays and best wishes to you.", "output": "Self-disclosure" }, { "input": "Hello, how are you?\n", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "What's wrong, do you feel like sharing?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "I am so sorry to hear that. Sounds like your girlfriend and her grandmother could use some time away from her grandfather. ", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "His dementia is causing him to become upset? Your right he does need to be around family and needs love and support, and you are not doing wrong being on your girlfriend side.", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "Is there any way you guys could get a nurse that deals with patients that have dementia to help him out?", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "What about getting a nurse, would make him lose his mind?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "It would be in his best interest to help him and others around him.", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "im so sorry im still here if you would like to talk", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "Hello, how are you doing today?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "I am doing well. Thanks for asking. It is really nice outside today. ", "output": "Self-disclosure" }, { "input": "Hopefully soon cases will be lowered due to the vaccine. How are you feeling about COVID?", "output": "Information" }, { "input": "I think so. I have my fingers crossed. ", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "How are you feeling during this pandemic? ", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "I understand. I have also been on edge during these times, one thing I did do is take all the precautions I could to ease my anxiety. ", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "I am unsure at the moment. As the weeks continue I am sure we will hear more about the side effects. How are you coping during these times? ", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "I am not. Are you? I am very appreciative of those front line workers, I often think about how hard it might be to be in their position.", "output": "Reflection of feelings" }, { "input": "One thing I do during my time at home (because we spend so much time at home) is to do yoga. It really helps stabilize my mood and be stress free from the virus. There are several of free Youtube that are amazing! ", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "Of course anytime! I wish you the best. On the bright side, everything will hopefully get better soon. Very nice to talk to you as well. ", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "Thank you! Have a great rest of your day. ", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "Hello, how are you today?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "That's good to hear. Is there anything that you would like to talk about?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "So it sounds to me like you're experiencing stress about choosing between staying in your current relationship, or staying close to your family. Do I have that right?", "output": "Restatement or Paraphrasing" }, { "input": "I can understand how that feels. Anybody would have a hard time deciding between those options.", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "May I ask you a question about your relationship?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "Compared to other relationships that you've had in the past, how strongly do you feel about this one?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "That helps me understand that this is quite a problem, however talking to you now I feel like you can trust yourself to eventually reach the best decision. ", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "Have you talked this out with your family and your partner together?", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "How did that go? Did everybody feel like they had their voice heard in a cooperative manner?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "So you had a cooperative conversation, but not a very productive one, is that right?", "output": "Restatement or Paraphrasing" }, { "input": "I understand how those conversations go, believe me we all have them. They don't seem to solve much a first, but we better off doing it than not. ", "output": "Reflection of feelings" }, { "input": "You're welcome, I hope you have a better understanding of the problem now.", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "That's good to hear, may I ask how the weather is today?", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "How are you today?", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "I'm glad to hear you're doing well in these trying times.\n", "output": "Restatement or Paraphrasing" }, { "input": "How have you been managing everything?\n", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "Same here, it's a tough time to do that after doing it so long. Especially with the holidays coming up.\n", "output": "Self-disclosure" }, { "input": "Are you in close proximity to your family?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "I imagine that can create some stress?\n", "output": "Reflection of feelings" }, { "input": "Well I'm glad to hear it, sounds like you've been managing pretty well then. \n", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "I assume that means you're in college then? So the stress of finals is over now?\n", "output": "Information" }, { "input": "That's good, I hope they went well for you.\n", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "Yes, now you can relax and spend time with your family without the added stress.", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "Well I hope you and your family enjoy the holidays and stay safe.\n", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "Thanks so much!", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "Yes, just my immediate family.", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "Absolutely, the best thing we can do right now. Even though it's kind of a bummer.", "output": "Self-disclosure" }, { "input": "I hope so too, this has been such a crazy year.", "output": "Reflection of feelings" }, { "input": "Hello, how are we doing today?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "I am doing swell", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "What's on your mind today?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "How long has this depression been looming over you?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "I am sorry to hear that, you mentioned that you have been getting migraines lately though you have been depressed for a longer duration, lets try to pinpoint that cause first", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "Would you say that the migraines are a result of working?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "you'd be surprised as how much stress actually does to the mind itself. Has anything in your daily life, in the past month alone, changed that would lead to increased stress that you wouldn't normally experience?", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "from where I am, most businesses require us to work form home. Is this true for you?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "Ah, I also know some essential workers who must physically attend work. I am lead to believe that the pandemic inadvertently causes a lot of stress in places that we don't commonly associate stress with. For example, wearing a mask everywhere for us in the United States can become a pain sometimes like when I forget it in the car or the house", "output": "Self-disclosure" }, { "input": "I don't blame you, its impossible to keep this composure especially with a pandemic breathing down our necks. When I worked, I found that smaller problems that wouldn't normally phase me began to have a greater effect when the pandemic hit", "output": "Self-disclosure" }, { "input": "Thus my stress went up as a result and wearing a mask didn't help the problem", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "Hmm I guess we all deal with the precautionary measure differently. Has your daily routine changed at all in the past month?\n", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "are you able to identify any change whatsoever? I ask since any imbalance our body and mind experience is sometimes enough to see a poor reaction, that may lead to things such as migraines", "output": "Reflection of feelings" }, { "input": "Glad to know my advice is worth something, afterall I am not a doctor", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "Nice speaking with you!", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "Hi! What kind of issue are you dealing with today? I would love to help :)", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "Oh no! I'm so sorry to hear that. ", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "What have you been doing since losing your job?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "Oh wow I feel you. I have loved ones that have gone through the same thing as you.", "output": "Self-disclosure" }, { "input": "They were starting to feel super down about themselves. I tried my best to support and encourage them not to give up.", "output": "Self-disclosure" }, { "input": "What industry do you work in? With the pandemic, a lot of interviews are done through Zoom and of course not everyone is at the best through video", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "That's rough :/ I assist in managing some Airbnb properties and they've been hit so hard because of the pandemic. At least there's a light at the end of the tunnel with the vaccine. Honestly I had one friend who had been looking for a job for over a year and he just got an offer last month. They just kept persevering, even if that included applying to 30+ jobs each week", "output": "Self-disclosure" }, { "input": "My friend works in tech (I don't know what exactly he does since it all goes over my head lol) but I know that he took a lesser position and smaller pay than he had before. He is trying to steer his career in a different direction so I do believe it will work out for him and for you :)", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "No problem :) As long as you keep working at it, I definitely think it will work out for you. Who knows, maybe you'll end up loving this new direction in life!\n", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "I hope you know that you have people who will encourage you every step of the way (even strangers :) )! This pandemic has been really rough but I have to keep reminding myself to count myself lucky for staying healthy. I hope you will be safe until the vaccine and after :) I believe in you!", "output": "Reflection of feelings" }, { "input": "Yes I think people should be more supportive of each other, especially during these times! Just don't ever give up! I'm really glad that I was able to be of help/support today for you :)", "output": "Reflection of feelings" }, { "input": "You're welcome :) I hope you have a Merry Christmas and a great 2021 :)", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "Bye! I think you have to end the conversation on your end first. ", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "Hi, How are you?\n\n", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "What is having you feel scared at this moment?\n", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "Not having a job can feel overwhelming, especially on top of this pandemic.", "output": "Restatement or Paraphrasing" }, { "input": "Have you been able to apply for work recently?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "you are right about others looking for work too. Are you signed up with many job seeking apps?", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "Feelings of insufficiency can be such a stumbling block when looking for work. It is obvious that you are putting forth great effort. ", "output": "Reflection of feelings" }, { "input": "Do you think getting in contact with a job agency in your area would be beneficial to you?", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "Perhaps there are a few agencies in your area to help and you can maximize your opportunities.", "output": "Information" }, { "input": "You mentioned feeling down in the beginning of the conversation, would you like to talk about that?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "Tension can be high when you already feel stressed about the job situation.", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "When I am feeling especially low or tense, I find that helping others significantly helps my disposition.", "output": "Self-disclosure" }, { "input": "Would volunteering be something that appeals to you?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "That would be great! There may also be opportunities to help out online until we can be more free to move around safely. It is important to be safe for us and others.", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "I know that there are many different opportunities available. If you google \"places to volunteer online\", they will have a list. Including places like The Smithsonian and Crisis Text Line.", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "You are more than welcome.!! I expect life to start looking up for you.", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "Best wishes, I'm glad we spoke.", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "you too", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "Hello, how are you?\n", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "So things haven't been going well at school. I think a lot of people are going through these days.", "output": "Restatement or Paraphrasing" }, { "input": "I'm sorry to hear that. That's a heck of a situation to be in. Is there anything you can do? Maybe talking to the teacher about some form of extra credit? or is the final grade a lock?", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "And the teacher wouldn't budge?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "Was this for a course that was required for a major?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "Ok, if you're willing to give it one more shot, try to appeal the grade one more time. If that doesn't work, you could try talking the class again next semester or during the summer if it's offered.", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "I know what you mean. I failed a Calc class once and I felt so empty inside. But I pulled myself together to take it again and passed it. I think you can do it too.", "output": "Self-disclosure" }, { "input": "Exactly! You've got what it takes to make it through the difficulty, and your experiences so far will help you.", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "You're welcome. In the meantime, have a little relaxation time to ease your mind. Thinking too much about the class would be stressful.", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "I hear relaxing music and funny movies can do the trick.", "output": "Information" }, { "input": "hello there, how are you doing?\n", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "Ah I am sorry to hear that. I have not been in a relationship before but definitely understand the pain of loss\n", "output": "Self-disclosure" }, { "input": "That's unfortunate to hear, creating a bond with someone that long can be very hard to walk away from", "output": "Reflection of feelings" }, { "input": "did you go your separate ways on good terms?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "Was it an honest mistake that she made?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "How long have you had the dog for? Did you have the dog before the relationship started?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "The dog then lived a very happy and fulfilling life from what I can tell. Dogs are among the best companions to ask for.", "output": "Restatement or Paraphrasing" }, { "input": "Hi, how are you today?\n", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "I'm sorry you're not feeling great, what's wrong?\n", "output": "Restatement or Paraphrasing" }, { "input": "I'm sorry to hear that, we're in hard times right now for sure.", "output": "Reflection of feelings" }, { "input": "Are you in an apartment or rental situation of some sort?\n", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "Have you looked into a loan for a house? Sometimes the payment on a house is close to rent payments.\n", "output": "Information" }, { "input": "I know sometimes people get a loan and then have a roommate move in and charge rent to help with the finances as well.\n", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "Could be something to help you out at least temporarily. I know it seems very intimidating but it'll be ok.\n", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "You're very welcome, I hope you have a great holiday and feel better knowing you have options.\n", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "Thanks!", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "You as well, stay safe!", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "I think we're good!", "output": "Self-disclosure" }, { "input": "hi there what is it you would like to chat about today", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "thats too bad loseing your employment but, maby this will open new doors for you to have a better job in the future", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "yes i can relate because i too have struggled with finding some good employment the job market is down but, hopefully it will get better soon we could use this time to learn a new trade", "output": "Reflection of feelings" }, { "input": "yes it makes me worry too when i cant see furthar down the road of what is coming but, it always helps me to just try and piture good possibilitys and outcomes instead of bad ", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "is there any way you could immagine what kind of new things you could see in the near future that could help you get exsited?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "Yes the Pandimic has effected use all greatly but I have read so manyy heart warming stories of how it has brough t people together while being apart", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "yes hopfully you can find some new skills and a new job soon there are so many new doors opening for online work i found some on youtube that were motivating for me you just keep searching and i sure you will soon", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "well for me i just searched for motivational speaker or top 10 online?work from home jobs", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "no problem glad that i could uplift someone it lifts me up to help others ", "output": "Self-disclosure" }, { "input": "younare right it helps to comunicate if we dont communicate we hurt ourselfs so glad to make your day better you help my day as well", "output": "Self-disclosure" }, { "input": "Hello", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "How are you doing today?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "How can I help you?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "It sounds like you are having some difficulty at school, I have definitely been there.", "output": "Restatement or Paraphrasing" }, { "input": "Yes I worked a dead end job for ages when I was younger and sometimes you just feel stuck", "output": "Self-disclosure" }, { "input": "I am going to be honest a little luck was involved I managed to impress a customer that came in and ended up applying at their work.", "output": "Self-disclosure" }, { "input": "I would say so I am an insurance broker, it has only been a year or so but there seems to be room to move up. You can find something too", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "Can you give me some more details?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "That is completely understandable", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "I have you a few, there are also many ways to gain skills online that buff up your resume a bit", "output": "Information" }, { "input": "Indeed is one of the better ones to look for jobs, honestly I would suggest looking at jobs that you normally wouldn't and see what kind of qualifications they need and see if you can get that done online.", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "yes I think that is a great idea, look for jobs that meet your needs and figure out what you can do to look attractive to employers\n", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "I used it a bit, I mainly used indeed.", "output": "Information" }, { "input": "Yes especially if you are applying for anything in a professional setting that is very important.", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "coursera has a lot of great courses, it really depends on what you are looking for.", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "Is that what you are going to school for?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "What year are you in? most engineering programs have a practicum and that is a great opportunity to make contacts and potentially get offered a job", "output": "Information" }, { "input": "Honestly you seem like you are pretty on top of this I don't think you will have any issues finding a job.", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "Yes that is fair enough, how much time do you have until your exam?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "While that is plenty of time to get some studying done:)", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "Honestly I find that if you are going for the test right away I always like to just breath and relax a bit.", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "You seem like you know what you are doing, I think you will do just fine", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "Hello. How are you?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "Sure, you can tell me anything. I won't judge or anything like that.", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "Oh dear, that sounds like a classic love fraud.... I'm so sorry you were victimized like that.", "output": "Restatement or Paraphrasing" }, { "input": "Oh my. I hate to hear that. Bank details should never be given out to people you don't know. This person made you think they cared about you, but they were trying to earn your trust and gain access to your accounts from the start.", "output": "Reflection of feelings" }, { "input": "That person is just a scammer. They probably reach out to hundreds of potential victims every day, waiting for someone to bite. I'm sorry you were taken in by them.", "output": "Reflection of feelings" }, { "input": "Were you able to recover any of your loss?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "Scams like that have been going on for years. They just change how they go about it and what platform they use.", "output": "Reflection of feelings" }, { "input": "You're very welcome. Please be more careful in future.", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "I do hope you were able to recover your loss. I wish you luck and hope you can find someone honest and true.", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "Goodbye. Have a good night. I hope you feel better.", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "Oh, I'm so sorry. At least you won't ever fall for something like that again... ", "output": "Information" }, { "input": "Hello! How are you?", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "I'm doing okay. What's going on? What has you so down?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "Oh, I'm so sorry to hear that! So many people have been furloughed this year.", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "Do you think they will bring you back? ", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "I'm sure that has you anxious and probably a little depressed. Are you looking for other employment opportunities yet?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "It's good that you were able to find another job, but I completely understand about the take home not being enough. Do you work full time, or is it just part time for now?", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "Oh, I understand being nervous about covid exposure, especially if you're working with the public, who may not abide by mask mandates and social distancing. Is there anything you can do to limit exposure?", "output": "Restatement or Paraphrasing" }, { "input": "Also, are you able to look for a second job at all? The extra hours may bring in extra income while you try to find a single job that would pay enough.", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "It sounds like you're really frustrated. That's completely understandable.", "output": "Reflection of feelings" }, { "input": "That is very frustrating. I know I find it very annoying when I see people out and about without masks. It drives me crazy, just thinking about how they're keeping this stupid pandemic going and keeping people out of work.", "output": "Self-disclosure" }, { "input": "I wish I had more suggestions for you. I think the only thing you can do is keep looking, make sure your resume is updated and current. If there are any employment agencies in your area, they may be worth looking into. And if there are any public assistance programs you qualify for, there's no shame in seeking help when you need it.", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "I sure hope it does. I wish you all the luck in the world.", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "You're very welcome. I'm glad I could be here for you.", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "Is there anything else you'd like to talk about?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "Okay. Have a good night!", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "Hello\n", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "So just to ensure that I understand you correctly, you are feeling anxious about going to the store during the pandemic\n", "output": "Restatement or Paraphrasing" }, { "input": "Okay, so just general anxiety about it then. \n", "output": "Restatement or Paraphrasing" }, { "input": "How long have you had this anxiety issue?\n", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "Have you thought about looking for support groups with people who also have anxiety about being in public?\n", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "Have you thought about brining a friend with you to the store? Someone you are comfortable with? Having someone you are comfortable with may help to calm the anxiety while you are out. \n", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "I have also had anxiety in the past when in public places, so I know how it feels to be anxious while out. \n", "output": "Self-disclosure" }, { "input": "Another thing that may help is having some headphones in attached to your phone or an MP3 player so you can have some calming music or something in your ear while you are out.\n", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "I found that distractions were great for me too! \n", "output": "Self-disclosure" }, { "input": "Whatever music you think would be best would be a good idea. \n", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "Do you have a stress ball or something you can keep with you in your pocket while out? \n", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "I think picking up one of those and having it with you might also help!\n", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "You're very welcome!\n", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "Thank you, you too!\n", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "Hello, I am here to listen. How are things going?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "I understand how you feel. It seems as if you are being treated badly for no genuine reason. Is this correct?", "output": "Restatement or Paraphrasing" }, { "input": "Who is treating you badly? Do you believe there are any causes behind the actions of those hurting you?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "That must be really difficult to go through, I know when my partner treats me badly, I am hurt and upset with them. ", "output": "Self-disclosure" }, { "input": "Are there any steps you can think of taking to express your frustrations with your husband? ", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "It is easy to lose patience when the blame is always directed towards you. I am sorry that is occurring, but applaud you for your efforts in trying to express your frustration.", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "I can tell from chatting with you that you are struggling and fed up with this situation because you are trying very hard in your marriage but get nothing but disrespect in return.", "output": "Reflection of feelings" }, { "input": "From what I have seen, if a situation like this continues, not only will you be consumed with anger towards your husband which will all come out at once, but it may also lead to divorce based on research I have read about.", "output": "Information" }, { "input": "I understand. I would prefer to work out a situation rather than use divorce as an option as well, but I am concerned with how miserable you have become. ", "output": "Self-disclosure" }, { "input": "Some people respond to different strategies. You have tried communication through words to tell your husband your feelings, but have you shown him the consequences of his actions? Does he see how miserable you are? I suppose I wonder if you are interested in utilizing different strategies to find a solution to your issues with your husband and any others who may treat you badly. ", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "Alright. I have enjoyed talking to you, and hope that things will work out for you. My last suggestion is possibly to try to talk your husband into couple's therapy and see how he responds. Even if he responds negatively, at least you have tried to dissolve the issue once again. In situations like this, remember even when you feel completely alone, that someone is looking out for you even if you do not realize it. Take a few calming deep breaths and engage in self-care, you deserve it. ", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "You're welcome. Goodnight. ", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "hi what brought you here today?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "im sorry you are feel that way. i can feel that way sometimes too. is there anything that helps you feel comforted?", "output": "Restatement or Paraphrasing" }, { "input": "thats understanding. with all thats going on in the world right now its hard to get out and make new friends especially being in a new city.", "output": "Restatement or Paraphrasing" }, { "input": "is there a way you could connect with people in your area via social media or chatrooms maybe? I know theres this website i used once called meetup where they sometimes organize activities locally to do things even during this pandemic. sometimes they host virtual meetups to", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "yes i can understand that. im an introvert and even ive been feeling like needing some in person contact to feel more connected", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "yea that can happen ive been on those kind of apps before. sometimes it takes awhile for people to respond. ", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "yea it can been frustrating i understand your feelings. its seems like you said you are an extrovert so maybe using an app that you could connect with people in person might help?", "output": "Restatement or Paraphrasing" }, { "input": "yea sometimes you gotta give things another go. things can be frustrating at first but it can help to take a step back or breather and think about the situation and how to approach things again.", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "yes it sure has been a challenging year i can relate to that. though i am confident in you that you will get through this and find connections with others", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "you are very welcome. i am glad i was able to help you today", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "you too. if you need help again working through things dont hesitate to reach out for support again. take care and have a good day", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "Hello\n\n", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "I am good, how are you?\n", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "I'm sorry, what type of problems are you having?\n", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "So just to make sure I understand, you are having issues with your friends not being there for you emotionally and you are worried about them taking advantage of you when you go out. \n", "output": "Restatement or Paraphrasing" }, { "input": "I completely understand what you are feeling. Have you tried to talk to your friends about your concerns? It helps to clear the air and make sure everyone understands everyone elses perspective \n", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "I have had the same problems in the past with some friends not being there for me when I need it, so I completely understand where you're coming from. \n", "output": "Self-disclosure" }, { "input": "Do you have anyone else to talk to about what you're going through? It also helps a lot of the time to talk to an objective 3rd part to help give you some advice on what they think you should do. \n", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "Another thing that might help is focusing on some of your hobbies, I often find it helpful to use my hobbies to get my mind off of things that are bothering me.\n", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "I enjoy building model cars in my free time, it really does a good job of keeping me occupied. I also find that reading helps a lot too!\n", "output": "Self-disclosure" }, { "input": "Not a problem! I am glad I was able to talk to you tonight!\n", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "Hi, how are you feeling?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "I'm sorry you're feeling blue. I can understand, the job market is really tough right now. ", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "You're not alone in feeling this way, but that doesn't change how hard it can be. ", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "Yeah, sometimes job postings feel fake. In the past, I've found various jobs online. Sometimes it takes a while but if you keeping putting out applications, something good will come your way eventually", "output": "Self-disclosure" }, { "input": "It sounds like you're worried about your skillset. Is there any way you can improve or learn new things?", "output": "Restatement or Paraphrasing" }, { "input": "You seem like a bright, open minded person. I think you could learn a lot in a new role. There are many online retailers that could be a great opportunity. ", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "There are still many brick and mortar stores that will open after the pandemic is over, hopefully that will bring opportunity. ", "output": "Reflection of feelings" }, { "input": "Are you interested in taking any classes to improve your skillset? There are many free courses available online.", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "Thank you, I enjoy talking with people and helping them in any way I can", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "Wow, learning french must be fun. If you can learn another language, I have faith you can learn new skills for a job. That's really great, good for you!", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "Learning new languages can open up new opportunities for work. It is unique to be bilingual. Make sure to put all your unique attributes, such as learning french, on your resume. It might help!", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "Are there any other fields of work you are interested in working besides retail? ", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "I would recommend calling the company or searching for a contact via LinkedIn or just google and trying to make a connection there. LinkedIn has helped me many times in the past when I'm applying for jobs.", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "Earning a license for loans or for real estate sounds like a great way to add to your skillset.", "output": "Restatement or Paraphrasing" }, { "input": "No, I do not have the premium package", "output": "Self-disclosure" }, { "input": "Typically I will search for a company and then look at the employees based on that search. If I see anyone who I have a common connection with or just something similar, I reach out.", "output": "Self-disclosure" }, { "input": "There is also a site called UpWork. I do not have personal experience with it but have heard it's a good way to make a bit of money while unemployed. They have small jobs for people to complete. ", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "Yes that may be the case. Hopefully as the vaccine becomes more widespread, the job market will improve. ", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "Thank you, it was very nice chatting with you as well. Stay hopeful, I believe you will find an opportunity. Happy Holidays!", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "You're welcome. I hope you are feeling less blue and less anxious about the job market. ", "output": "Reflection of feelings" }, { "input": "It sounds like you are having a hard time because your boss isn't willing to consider you for a promotion, is that right?\n", "output": "Restatement or Paraphrasing" }, { "input": "Have you talked to anyone else at work about it? I was in a similar situation once, I confided in a co-worker that I trusted and it gave me a different perspective. ", "output": "Self-disclosure" }, { "input": "Have you reported to your HR department the issue around biased feedback being used as a determining factor in not being considered? ", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "I'm sorry you have to deal with this at work. I think you deserve the promotion because you are very dedicated.", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "I think if you continue to advocate for yourself in a positive manner you could possibly increase the chances of being considered for the promotion.", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "I've worked at a place that seems similar to your work environment. My co-workers were not supportive and I was always overlooked. Eventually, I realized that the environment was toxic and chose to start applying for different jobs. I felt like if my potential couldn't be appreciated then I should go somewhere with opportunities for growth.", "output": "Self-disclosure" }, { "input": "You've got this! It's easy to become comfortable in what we know but, change causes us to grow. ", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "Just start slowly and remember that you can be picky about what position you chose. I also think we all feel like we perform badly during interviews. Preparation is key. I hope discussing your work situation today has made you feel a bit better! ", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "It was my pleasure! Thank you for sharing with me. I'm glad I had the opportunity.", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "Hi! How are you tonight?\n", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "I'm doing fairly well, Thanks. Can I encourage you or support you in some way?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "You sound as if you are in a slump. I've been there. Perhaps defining the problem and some solutions can help?", "output": "Restatement or Paraphrasing" }, { "input": "What are your hours?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "I have to say, when I am physically and mentally exhausted, I don't think as clearly and lose hope more easily. ", "output": "Self-disclosure" }, { "input": "9 to 11 would exhaust me. That is 14 hours? ", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "I would certainly agree with you. That kind of work is unsustainable. Let me ask you this. What would happen if you told your employer you simply could not do these hours? ", "output": "Reflection of feelings" }, { "input": "The worst that could happen is that they fire you. But that doesn't seem too likely as they seem to need you. But I have learned in life that if I don't care for myself, hardly anyone does. We need to be kind to ourselves. Set boundaries. ", "output": "Self-disclosure" }, { "input": "Setting boundaries can be difficult if you haven't done that a lot. When we think we don't have the ability to say NO, then we feel trapped, worn out, depressed, taken advantage of. People need to know that we reasonably can say no.", "output": "Information" }, { "input": "I think that would be the first step. Determine how many hours you feel you COULD work. Then advise them that is what you will do. Find out what kind of timelines there are, and if you can't do it, don't go beyond your boundaries. It is obviously destroying your life. It really isn't healthy for you.", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "Exactly. It isn't working for you. Something has to change. And you sound intelligent, so you can determine what will work for you -- perhaps a range of hours, but definitely not 14 hours. Unless you are a young kid. lol Even then, that's a lot. ", "output": "Reflection of feelings" }, { "input": "That sounds reasonable to me. And if they try to make you feel guilty, reject that. Tell them, I'm sorry, but I feel this is reasonable, and truly it is.", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "No one can work 24/7. I think they may not even be aware you are struggling. So communication is important. ", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "You don't want to crack. It's not worth it. ", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "I will say a prayer that you communicate your needs politely but firmly. And not believe false guilt. As you said, you aren't putting out fires and doing CPR. ", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "This has been a stressful year for many of us, you don't need to be working yourself into depression and exhaustion. ", "output": "Information" }, { "input": "You really do not NEED a reason not to work unreasonable hours. ", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "It isn't anyone's business what you do on your off hours. ", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "I do suggest you simply stick to the facts. These are the hours, I can't work more. You don't need to explain that to anyone. But be firm and polite. And you are very welcome. Sometimes we just need a friend! :D", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "I've been in that boat before. It isn't easy, but I learned what I had to do, and I don't get in that boat anymore. And I can see to help others get out.", "output": "Self-disclosure" }, { "input": "Amen! GREAT! I'm glad to hear it!", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "Thank you! I'm retired but do community work! :D Am considering getting an office. I do love to encourage! YOu have a blessed day!", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "Hi! Are you having a good day? ", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "I am okay thanks. Do you have anything specific that you'd like to talk to me about? ", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "I see .. so you feel that you will not be able to pass this program at the current time? ", "output": "Restatement or Paraphrasing" }, { "input": "Is there any possibility of postponing this till a later date? For one thing the world situation is very insecure at the moment and you have the right to say that you just feel that you want to self isolate right now ", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "Are you a member of any sort of union that might be able to liase on your behalf? There are plenty of organisations out there ", "output": "Information" }, { "input": "Okay, well, firstly I think it's a good idea to try to stay calm and not let yourself be overwhelmed. Is it possible to get any sort of tuition to prepare for the exam? ", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "I am very sorry. I remember very well the stress of exams and the horrible feeling that you might fail. ", "output": "Self-disclosure" }, { "input": "I can tell how insecure you are feeling about this. Does it help to let you know that you are not alone? ", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "Are they normally understanding of things like this? Do you have a good boss? ", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "It sounds like they are pretty reasonable. I really hope that it goes well for you. Thanks for talking and all the best. ", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "I am really glad to hear it. All the best to you. ", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "Please remember to take the survey :) ", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "Hi there, is there anything on your mind at the moment? ", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "I am sorry to hear that. So, I gather that you and your loved ones are really not getting along right now? ", "output": "Restatement or Paraphrasing" }, { "input": "Okay which family member is that that you are talking about? ", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "I see. Family arguments are unfortunately very common so try not to worry too much about it. Do you really need to keep this person in your life though? If you're not speaking, why not just forget about her? ", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "I am really sorry to hear this. I was in a similar situation with a family member a couple of years ago. I know how tiring it can be. ", "output": "Self-disclosure" }, { "input": "Have you talked to any of your other family members about this? ", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "What is it that she did today? I can hear the frustration and anger you are experiencing and I hope that I will be able to do something to help you ", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "I am sorry to hear this. It sounds like she is being rather toxic. Have you considered getting professional help about this? Would she be prepared to address her issues too? ", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "Well I do not think that that would be a good thing to do. That would be putting you in the wrong. ", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "I think that you need to just totally back away from this relationship before something really bad happens. Can you try to just think that she does not exist and not obsess about her? ", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "I hope that I've been able to be of some help to you and thank you for talking. Enjoy the rest of your day! ", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "Hello, how is your day going?\n", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "A little rainy here but I am okay.", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "How do you feel today?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "What is causing you to feel frustrated?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "It definitely can be challenging finding work in a pandemic but don't give up keep searching I am sure you will find something. ", "output": "Restatement or Paraphrasing" }, { "input": "I are capable of doing whatever you decide, maybe try going back to school. ", "output": "Reflection of feelings" }, { "input": "Or you could try a career center that will assist with resumes, interviews, and job searches.", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "What is it hard for you to get?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "Maybe try reaching out to Human Resources of the company you are applying for to see what qualifications and experience they are actually looking for.", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "You have to stay encouraged keep trying, it's easy to give up.", "output": "Reflection of feelings" }, { "input": "Well have you thought about changing professions just until thing in your field pick back up?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "I understand that you want to do what is enjoyable but how to you know you will not enjoy something else if you don't give it a try?", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "I recently had to change jobs as well I was very hesitant and not confident about it. Once I started the new job and got the hang of things I couldn't see myself doing anything else at this moment.", "output": "Self-disclosure" }, { "input": "It seems that you have a wonderful personality, you just lack a bit of confidence.", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "You are welcome, now go out there and get that job!! Have a great day!!", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "Same too you as well.", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "Hello\n", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "I am good, how are you?\n", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "What seems to be bothering you tonight?\n", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "So just to make sure I understand completely, you are ready to move on to the next step of your relationship and you don't feel as though your boyfriend is and this is making you anxious and upset, \n", "output": "Restatement or Paraphrasing" }, { "input": "I completely understand that, as I was in a long term relationship and I felt as though my girlfriend at the time did not want to take things to the next step and I was not happy about it. \n", "output": "Self-disclosure" }, { "input": "Have you had that conversation with him? I know it might be a difficult conversation to have, but it is often good to get expectations out in the open so you are on the same page with your partner\n. \n", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "That is tough, but sometimes people just portray things differently, for instance I am also very laid back and nonchalant about most things which can lead to miscommunications. \n", "output": "Self-disclosure" }, { "input": "I don't think it would be pushing if you haven't had that conversation in almost a year.\n", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "You need to know where he is so you can make a good decision for yourself!\n", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "I know it is difficult, but I know you can get through it!\n", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "Good, I am happy for you!\n", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "I am glad I was able to help!\n", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "You're welcome! If you need any more help just chat back with us again.\n", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "You as well!\n", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "Hello\n", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "Have you talked to someone about this?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "I understand people can be cruel and selfish, but not everyone is. Some people want to help! Life is definitely worth living for.", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "Talking to someone you are close to, like a family member who cares about you, can definitely help.", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "Can you try talking to someone?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "What about close friends, or people you care about? I am sure they would not want to lose you.", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "I care", "output": "Information" }, { "input": "Just from chatting with you, I can feel how sad you are about life and maybe a little overwhelmed with what the next step of life is.", "output": "Reflection of feelings" }, { "input": "I used to be really sad about life too. However, helping others who are sad helped me become happier, knowing that I am helping others also become happier.", "output": "Self-disclosure" }, { "input": "Take a deep breathe and think about any happy memories. If you are sad right now, the only way is up from here!", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "I believe no one is useless. We were all brought on this earth for a reason. ", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "Like I said, I used to be sad too and not optimistic. But now I am optimistic because I know what it is like to be sad, and I don't want others to feel how I have felt in the past. ", "output": "Reflection of feelings" }, { "input": "Have you tried to express your feelings in one way or another? If you don't want to talk to others, there is always other ways - such as writing, music, etc. Have you tried any different ways? ", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "Or would you be open to trying any of those different options?", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "Hello!", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "How has your day been?", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "Has there been anything that has been bothering you?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "What do you think has been causing your depression?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "That definitely is a very impactful event, but you've already been so strong for reaching out.", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "I think it would be okay to allow yourself grieve because in a sense the person you were has now changed due to this event.", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "I understand, I had a similar event where I was taken advantage of with similar feelings. I personally decided to share all my feelings with my new partner and we went very slow only doing things I was comfortable with.", "output": "Self-disclosure" }, { "input": "That may be a strategy you could use to help move back into having a sexual relationship with someone.", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "In good relationships both partners have mutual respect for each which extends into their sexual relationship. Remember you haven't lost your self worth, and you deserve someone who respects you.", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "Your past is definitely not a burden, it's part of you, even if it's not a positive experience. By sharing your past, it would bring you closer as a couple.", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "Another thing that could help you navigate new relationships is counseling. I've had counseling sessions that have greatly helped me in the past.", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "Of course! I think we must support each other in our times of need.", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "Hello there! How are you doing?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "Oh no, I am very sorry to hear about that. Can you tell me more about your situation?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "I'm so sorry to hear that. It sounds like you are being bullied at work. Is that right?", "output": "Restatement or Paraphrasing" }, { "input": "I can definitely understand why that would e so stressful for you. It hurts when your hard work goes unrecognized. ", "output": "Restatement or Paraphrasing" }, { "input": "Have you tried asking your boss for a one on one talk where you can talk about ways you can improve? I did that before and I found that it was super helpful in seeing a new perspective about me.", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "And please don't think you are disliked because you are obese. I can assure you, you are beautiful. ", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "Okay, well maybe that may be a good place to start with your boss? I think it will be a great place to start. Sometimes it helps to reach out and hear other's perspective of you. ", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "What do you think about that suggestion? Are you hesitant about it?", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "And I think everyone is beautiful. You are definitely right about beauty being relative. I personally choose to see the beauty in everything and it has made life a lot more beautiful for me. ", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "That's great! How about your coworkers. Do you feel like it might be worth talking to them about what they have been doing to you?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "I see, I understand how difficult it would feel to talk to people who have been treating you like that. :(", "output": "Restatement or Paraphrasing" }, { "input": "Can you please share what is on your mind?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "I see. You feel unlucky and disappointed that the teachers cause your courses to be challenging?", "output": "Restatement or Paraphrasing" }, { "input": "Course work is already stressful enough but to be challenging in addition only adds to the pressure.", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "I remember an English teacher of mine, always calling me out in class, saying that she expects better of me when my papers weren't the best. Her class was hard and I worked hard to complete my assignments as instructed. Instead of her speaking with me personally, she'd embarrass me. I did not like her class at all. ", "output": "Self-disclosure" }, { "input": "Is there enough time to maybe select more compatible teachers or speak with the school counselor about classes that work best for you?", "output": "Information" }, { "input": "That is a great idea. I'd encourage you to speak with your school counselor to share your needs and maybe the 2 of you can come up with a plan to create a schedule with teachers that can help you be successful. ", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "I believe you are correct! Less stress certainly creates a better learning environment. School counselors are your ally. Remember, you can go to them anytime you need them. Are you stopping by this week?", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "I am so excited for you! This is a big step! Looking out for yourself, to assure you are happy, less stressed and learning the important things to be able to graduate.", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "For your next year, asking upperclassmen about their teachers can give you insight on who you may have next year. The more you know in advance, the better you can plan for what to discuss with your counselor. So proud of you! I know you 2 will come up with an awesome schedule!", "output": "Information" }, { "input": "Good Luck! ", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "Hello there! How is life treating you at the moment? ", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "So you have some worries about life? Would you like to share them? ", "output": "Restatement or Paraphrasing" }, { "input": "Do you feel that perhaps you are playing video games as a distraction from how bad the world is at the moment? ", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "Ah, so it's a long term hobby? I do love gaming myself I have to admit. ", "output": "Self-disclosure" }, { "input": "Could you perhaps set yourself some strict boundaries, like you can only do a certain number of hours of gaming a day? ", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "It sounds like you might have a genuine addiction to gaming. Do you think you might benefit from some counselling? There are organisations that can help. ", "output": "Information" }, { "input": "Well, if it is affecting your grades and the rest of your real life then it might be. And it's best to catch these things before they get worse. ", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "Have you been getting into trouble with your teachers about this or has no-one noticed so far? ", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "Does your school have a counsellor? ", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "Do you feel that they have not been of any help? ", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "There are always external counsellors that you could speak to. How would you feel if, for instance, you were never allowed to game again? Would that significantly affect your quality of life? ", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "I do understand that it can be very difficult to open up about having a problem ", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "The trouble is that sometimes the person with a problem can be the last to actually realise it ", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "I hope that I've been able to give you something to think about :) It's been nice to talk! ", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "You're welcome - enjoy the rest of your day! ", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "Remember to press the button at the bottom :) ", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "Hello how is your day today?\n", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "That is a very hard thing to be going through where you very close to your cat?\n", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "I am very sorry to hear that i have also lost a pet earlier this year his name was fish and was only 3 years old he unfortunately passed due to liver cancer. It was a very trying experience but slowly the pain of his passing has got a little bit easier.\n", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "Have you tried talking about this loss to friends of family?", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "What have your feelings been like after the passing of your cat?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "Those are completely valid feelings to have at this time", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "Have you considered getting a small reminder of your cat perhaps a small shrine or tribute to him/her?", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "Her I apologize for the confusion.", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "Expressing your emotion is very healthy for example maybe taking up a new hobby or trying something new that scares or excites you to get your mind off of this difficult time.", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "What was your favorite genre of video games?\n", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "Have you considered playing again possibly joining an online team and competing in tournaments?", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "Hello! How may I help you today? ", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "I am sorry that you feel that way. Have you tried asking them why they don't express care towards you?", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "If they don't see on the same level as you do then maybe it is time to seek new friends. ", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "It takes time to build friendships and relations. The best way to establish the connection is to find individuals who share similar interests with you. ", "output": "Information" }, { "input": "There is no harm to approach people and introduce yourself. Find some common interests by asking a few questions. If you like the individuals' personality and if they seem genuine then you can seek a stronger connection. ", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "Anime you say? I love anime as well! For me, I use the interest of anime to seek groups who are interested in anime as well.", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "There are plenty of individuals who shares common interests like you do! Do not let other's opinions hinder your judgement. ", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "I highly suggest joining open online forums like reddit. There you can find anime groups that you can join. They will be more than happy to share similar interests with you. ", "output": "Information" }, { "input": "I highly recommend for you to join an anime club or group. These places are great for you to establish a strong connection with others through shared interests. ", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "Anime clubs are found in schools and on social media!", "output": "Information" }, { "input": "They have one? That is fantastic! ", "output": "Reflection of feelings" }, { "input": "Don't be afraid! They will love to take you in as a member don't worry. ", "output": "Reflection of feelings" }, { "input": "Part of finding new friendship is to put aside any doubts and uncertainties and say \"what the heck\" and just go for it!", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "You are very welcome! I am glad I can help! ", "output": "Reflection of feelings" }, { "input": "Is there anything else I can help you with? ", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "Hello there how are you feeling today? ", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "I am not too bad thanks. Is there anything on your mind? ", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "You're having problems at work? Does this involve coworkers or is it about your financial situation? ", "output": "Restatement or Paraphrasing" }, { "input": "I am really sorry to hear that. Is that due to the pandemic? Times are really hard for everyone right now unfortunately. ", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "I can tell from your messages that you are feeling deeply anxious. Are you worried that you might not be able to support your family? ", "output": "Reflection of feelings" }, { "input": "It is a really difficult situation to be in, especially as it's through no fault of your own. Would you consider taking on some part time work for a while? ", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "There's a big gig economy out there on the internet - you could always try looking there? ", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "The restrictions are really getting me down as well although I understand why they are necessary. Hopefully the year to come will be better for us all. ", "output": "Self-disclosure" }, { "input": "I hope I am not being patronising by saying that. I know that just because other people feel bad that doesn't mean you automatically have to cheer up :) ", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "Maybe you could plan something fun to do once this is all over - a mini break perhaps? Gives you something to look forward to ", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "That sounds like a really great idea! Sometimes even little things can make a big difference to us ", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "Be good to yourself! I hope that I've managed to help a little. ", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "Enjoy the rest of your day :) ", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "Hello. How are you feeling today?", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "It sounds like there maybe something you need to get off of your chest.", "output": "Reflection of feelings" }, { "input": "What happened that made you guys break up?\n", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "I have also had this situation happen to me. Maybe it just wasn't the right timing or she had other interests. ", "output": "Self-disclosure" }, { "input": "The first step of a break should be to starting loving thyself. If you get out there and find hobbies you enjoy, who knows, you may find someone that will love you more than you could imagine. Take it from me, I've had this happen. Sitting around sulking about it is only going to delay things in your life.", "output": "Information" }, { "input": "What is your age?\n", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "You still have your whole life ahead of you. Some people don't find a partner until their 40's or even 50's. When I left my ex I found this guy that I truly fell in love with. He is still sulking in his living room. I told him that if he didn't move one that he wouldnt get anywhere in life. I told him that if he cared about me, he would move on because thats truly what I would want him to do and I think thats what your girl would want you to do as well. ", "output": "Self-disclosure" }, { "input": "Did she give you any reasons to why she wasn't in love anymore?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "Did you ever think she maybe possibly has been cheating?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "Has she ever tried to hide text messages, lock her phone, or tell you she is too busy to come over?\n", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "Im sorry that this stressful for you. In my past, I have had exes do that to me. Most likely she was cheating on you and this was the reason for her motives. ", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "I would definitely confront her about it. I wouldn't get angry or fight about it. Maybe she if she has a new boyfriend already. That is a really good indicator.", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "I would calmly ask her. She will most likely deny it. But, some ofher friends may already know about this. If she says she did, ask her if there was something you did wrongthat made her do it. Sometimes its not even the Cheatee. Sometimes they just do it for no good reason. ", "output": "Information" }, { "input": "Hello! How are you?", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "I am well. What's going on?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "So it seems like you have been noticing some distance between you and a friend and it also seems like he/she is not putting as much as effort into your relationship as you are. It seems at times that you put in all the work and that it's one-sided. Does that sound about right?", "output": "Restatement or Paraphrasing" }, { "input": "This must be very hard on you.", "output": "Reflection of feelings" }, { "input": "How does this make you feel?\n", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "Sixteen years is a long time. I recently when through a similar situation with a friend. In my case, sitting down and communicating how I feel about the situation really did resolve many things. It made me understand why all of a sudden she was being distant and in the long run, it made our bond even stronger", "output": "Self-disclosure" }, { "input": "I think you should try to honestly talk to her about how you feel and express to her that you are concerned. If she blows you off or ignores you, maybe consider rethinking your friendship. I know 16 years is a long time, but don't feel like you have to hold on to a relationship that is creating all of these negative feelings and unnecessary stress in your life. Friendships are meant to bring you up, encourage you, and hold you through the dark times. If she does not take your concerns seriously, consider taking a break and being distant. ", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "I know this seems hard, but I believe that you can do it!\n", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "People change sometimes and it is hard to understand. I want you to know that you are ENOUGH! You are smart and beautiful. Maybe it's time for this relationship to come to a close, but other people will come your way that will treat you like you deserve. I know it's painful now, but you will be stronger and better for going through this. ", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "I think that is a good approach. You will get through this!", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "Anytime. I hope your feeling even a little better. Is there anything else I can help you with today?", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "Glad to be of service to you. If there is nothing else, feel free to click quit whenever your ready.", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "Aww, I am so glad that I was of help to you.", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "Take care! Bye", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "Hello\n", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "How are you tonight?\n", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "I'm sorry to hear that. What has you feeling depressed?\n", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "I understand, but just to make sure I know what is going on fully, you are depressed in general and don't know how to get through it. \n", "output": "Restatement or Paraphrasing" }, { "input": "Just from these few messages, I can tell you are extremely upset about this. \n", "output": "Reflection of feelings" }, { "input": "I have had problems in the past with depression as well, I used to have severe anxiety as well. \n", "output": "Self-disclosure" }, { "input": "It was tough. Have you thought about consulting a psychological professional to help with this issue? I did when I was going through my depression and it really helped. \n", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "I didn't like the meds that they gave me either, however I felt that talking to someone helped me a great deal. \n", "output": "Self-disclosure" }, { "input": "It was good to be able to talk to an objective third party about what was going on. It allowed me to get my feelings out without the threat of being judges or harrassed. \n", "output": "Self-disclosure" }, { "input": "Have you tried to focus on more of your hobbies in order to get your mind off of things?\n", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "Why did you stop playing insturments?\n", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "I certainly hope you don't do that!\n", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "I apologize that I wasn't able to make you feel any better\n", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "Have a wonderful evening!\n", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "Hello", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "How may i help you today?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "What got you depressed?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "What have you tried to do to control it?", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "Everything is going to be okay keep your head up it will get better in time for you ", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "Maybe you should go out for a walk and do some hobbies you like to do", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "I understand how you feeling nobody should go through depression alone", "output": "Reflection of feelings" }, { "input": "Don't let it take control of you that is what it is trying to do", "output": "Information" }, { "input": "I suffer from depression once in a while and what i do is to try my best to remain positive and let myself know it is going to be okay i will get through this", "output": "Self-disclosure" }, { "input": "You should never feel like your life is no use because it is you have a lot to live for", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "you have to control those negative thoughts and replace them with positive thoughts i know it is hard but believe me you will feel better", "output": "Information" }, { "input": "you have control of your mind and i know you can control those negative thoughts don't let those negative thoughts win", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "your welcome you will get through this i know you will ", "output": "Self-disclosure" }, { "input": "no problem ", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "have you tried to do some exercise that works dealing with depression", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "Hi there how are you today? ", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "I am really sorry to hear that.. would you like to talk about it? ", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "So, I hear you saying that you're not enthusiastic about having to talk about your problems? ", "output": "Restatement or Paraphrasing" }, { "input": "I do understand. I've tried therapy myself and was very hesitant at first. But after a while I found it really did help ", "output": "Self-disclosure" }, { "input": "Do you feel ready to tell me what specifically is wrong? ", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "Well, let's take these one at a time. Firstly, is there something you could do to make friends? Join a group of some kind? ", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "What about something like a book club or a gym? ", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "You never know, you might also find a date there :) ", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "No you are not. Thinking like that is a symptom of depression. It is perfectly normal but there is help available. ", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "I do understand. I have suffered severe depression and I know how debilitating it is. Can you see your doctor? ", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "Would you be prepared to take medication? I know a lot of people hate the idea but it can really help. ", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "I was talking about anti depressants :). I use prozac and it helps a lot. ", "output": "Self-disclosure" }, { "input": "Yes - it is an anti depressant drug that was developed about thirty years ago. It works by preventing your brain from reuptaking serotonin", "output": "Information" }, { "input": "Serotonin actually makes you feel good. In a depressed person it can be reuptaken by the brain too rapidly however, leaving you feeling low. Prozac prevents this from happening. ", "output": "Information" }, { "input": "I hope I have been able to help you. Enjoy your day! ", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "Just click the button at the bottom :) ", "output": "Information" }, { "input": "Hi, how are you doing?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "It sounds like it would be quite frustrating for your friend to talk way too much on the phone. ", "output": "Restatement or Paraphrasing" }, { "input": "My goodness! How do they respond when you ask to end the conversation?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "I wonder what it would be like for him if you hung up the phone even after he said he still wanted to talk.", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "Wow--that does sound annoying that he will repeat the same pattern the next time.", "output": "Reflection of feelings" }, { "input": "That sounds really difficult if he gets offended so easily. I find it hard to talk to some of those kinds of friends.", "output": "Self-disclosure" }, { "input": "What do you get out of the friendship with this other person?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "That sounds like a lot that the two of you have been through. Were there other times that your friends was more equally responsive or attuned to you in conversations?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "I wonder if there is anything nice you could do for yourself when you are talking to him that would make it easier to talk to him.", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "I can see that you are feeling upset and angry when he talks so much and that is totally understandable. ", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "Would it hurt his feelings to use a timer like that? It may for some other people. ", "output": "Information" }, { "input": "Humor is really helpful for a lot of people. ", "output": "Information" }, { "input": "Sometimes, people draw or do something else distracting with their hands when talking to someone who dominates the conversation.", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "Sometimes that is a less offensive way to retrain someone who is being obnoxious or dominant and yet who is easily offended. And, it can help preserve your sense of being grounded.", "output": "Information" }, { "input": "The strategy works well for me with some of my family members who seem like they will never change. But, with distraction, I enjoy them all the more.", "output": "Self-disclosure" }, { "input": "Is there anything else that you like to do that would be distracting while also letting you somewhat participate in the conversation?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "That sounds really helpful. Sometimes people also play phone games or with a fidget spinner. I like your idea of looking on the internet.", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "You are very welcome. I wish you all the best!", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "Bye!", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "Hello! How are you doing today?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "That's great, especially around this time of the Holidays.", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "So, how are things in your life?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "I'm very sorry to hear that. Not being able to be with family when something like that happens is incredibly difficult, those are the people you want to be around the most.", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "I actually had a death in a family a few months ago as well, with a virtual funeral. I really empathize with the way you and your family are feeling. But you know, I tried to look at the virtual funeral as a way for so many people to pay tribute in a way they couldn't in person. People from all over ge\nt their chance to say goodbye.", "output": "Self-disclosure" }, { "input": "Truly, everyone got to participate and pay tribute together. Virtually or not, you were all together.", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "That's a great way to look at it. In a year where COVID had gotten in the way of so many plans, I think it's really great to try and extract the best experience we can.", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "Exactly, trying to be safe together to keep everyone else safe. Looking out for one another is something this year has made really important.", "output": "Restatement or Paraphrasing" }, { "input": "I'm so sorry to hear that. How are you dealing with that loss?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "I'm glad to hear you're doing alright. The lack of human connection and socialization this past year has definitely been very difficult.", "output": "Reflection of feelings" }, { "input": "Absolutely no problem, getting your thoughts out and talking things out helps me so I'm glad I could help you.", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "Hi, what brings you to seek support, today?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "I'm very sorry to hear that. The fact that it is ongoing must make it even harder.", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "What symptoms do you have and when did it first begin?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "I see. Are you sad or anxious about anything in particular?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "It sounds like you must really care about your friends and family, and this awful pandemic is prevent your from seeing them.", "output": "Restatement or Paraphrasing" }, { "input": "I know this may sound personal, but it is completely normal to have these thoughts though... have you thought about dying at all?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "Okay, thanks for sharing that personal information. I only ask because thoughts of suicide are normal and anxiety and depression increase the chances of suicide. ", "output": "Information" }, { "input": "What would you like to talk about, then? We could talk about the problem more, or if you feel like it is defined, we could talk about solutions, or not talk about solutions at all. What would make you feel better?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "I know what it is like to be depressed. I also take medication for this. For solutions, studies show that working out and exercising can help depression. Have you considered this?\n", "output": "Self-disclosure" }, { "input": "That's great! \nWhat ways do you think you could communicate more with your family?\n", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "You listed a lot of good solutions such as zoom and texting. Do you think doing that would make you feel less depressed?", "output": "Restatement or Paraphrasing" }, { "input": "Well, let me ask you this. I noticed that you had many solutions off-hand that you could tell me, and you also said it could help you with your depression. May I ask what is keeping you from using these methods?", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "Oh, I completely understand. Depression has that effect. But maybe you can talk to your loved ones while in bed? How do you feel about that?", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "Well, it's worth a try, right!", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "Thank you for allowing us to complete this task as well. I know depression can cause us to lose motivation, so I really appreciate it. I hope you feel better.", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "You are welcome. Goodbye.", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "Good evening\n", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "ok. How can I be of service tonight", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "Tell me more please I am all ears", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "When did this happen, How long ago", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "So you had been together for awhile and all of \n a sudden he has another person in his life", "output": "Restatement or Paraphrasing" }, { "input": "Was this guy an associate of yours as well", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "So basically this guy was a stranger that you know of.", "output": "Restatement or Paraphrasing" }, { "input": "Did you have any children between you", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "DiId your partner work also", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "Maybe the time on his hands enabled to him meet someone while you were working. Did he have a following that you knew of", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "has there been habits like this before", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "His actions none the less are not right", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "Do you have an idea his websites", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "The fact that he cheated on you and I assume you broke up with him is hard", "output": "Reflection of feelings" }, { "input": "He must have a special account that people can access to, can you possibly find it out", "output": "Restatement or Paraphrasing" }, { "input": "Maybe you need to focus on you now, and plan your days ahead.", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "Had you known before hand it might be of help, but the sudden impact does not make it any better", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "if you look back you will have regrets. If you look forward you will see a future", "output": "Information" }, { "input": "Take a cup of coffee, sit and write your thoughts then burn them", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "Write your past down then throw it into a fire", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "OK. Have a blessed night.", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "Hello how are you doing today?\n", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "I am doing good, is there anything you would like to talk about?", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "I am so sorry. I understand it must be hard to deal with I myself have a daughter. Did you press charges?", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "That must be awful for her as well as you, I feel that sometimes the victims are left in the shadows when it comes to sexual assault. \n", "output": "Reflection of feelings" }, { "input": "How is your daughter doing now? ", "output": "Information" }, { "input": "That's true alot of people dont come forward with sexual assault due to being not believed. \n", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "She was very brave, and is a role model for others!\n", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "Yes friends are very helpful, Im glad she had that. \n", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "Therapy can be a great thing especially if you find that one therapist you feel comfortable with. It always helps to talk about things.", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "No problem, have a great day!", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "Hi, I can't see the upper box that you can see, so what brings you \nto seek support?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "I'm sorry, I cannot. Sadly, the program is bad.\n", "output": "Information" }, { "input": "You will have to restate your concerns.", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "I'm so sorry. I'm sure that would be very upsetting, and very concerning for your future. That sounds awful!", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "Okay, so it sounds like you cannot pay the bills, you are looking for a job, and the economic situation is tough right now due to the pandemic. This is your main concern for the conversation, then? To discuss how to secure another job?\n", "output": "Reflection of feelings" }, { "input": "Have you consulted with a job center, a life coach, or any other resource such as online websites? These may be useful.\n \n", "output": "Information" }, { "input": "I am sure you will be able to get a new job if you have the commitment. Maybe you can tell me a little more about what type of job you are looking for?", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "Okay, that sounds like a great start. Many jobs have moved to being remote, so I can see that as a great alternative. I know there are many covid tracing jobs by phone that pay well. Have you searched for those on any online websites? Would that interest you? ", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "Wow, that is terrific! I know those are in high-demand right now, so I wouldn't be surprised if they did call you back. Your experience will definitely make you more marketable as well.\n", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "Have you had anyone look at your resume to see if improvements could be made while you wait?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "Okay, that's great. Today, many resumes are not screened by humans, but by computers, analyzing for key words, first.", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "You are welcome. I hope you don't give up, and stay optimistic! It sounds like you have a great start.\n", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "Hi! How are you feeling today?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "I know sometime it's really frustrating. I am pretty sure you will definitely able to find one. \n ", "output": "Restatement or Paraphrasing" }, { "input": "May I know your requirements for the place other than closer to work? would you like to share the accommodation?", "output": "Restatement or Paraphrasing" }, { "input": "I am really sorry to know about that. Your partner should understand your situation.", "output": "Restatement or Paraphrasing" }, { "input": "You should search online or ask your friends or family for help if you they live nearby.", "output": "Others" }, { "input": " It is really hard to find a good place to live. Time and money are sometime the big constraints but we should keep trying. ", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "It is always hard to find true friends. You must be a strong person and I know you can achieve anything. ", "output": "Restatement or Paraphrasing" }, { "input": "Believe in yourself and don't give up. Definitely some solution will be around. ", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "I am really sorry to hear about that. I also got laid off and was worried, then I start searching online work. Found it and doing it now. Hope it will work for you too.", "output": "Restatement or Paraphrasing" }, { "input": "At this tough time we need to stay motivated and keep trying. ", "output": "Restatement or Paraphrasing" }, { "input": "I really like talking to you, hope it will help you in staying positive.", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "There is no harm in taking doctors advice. Sorry to here about that. you can try online counselling. there are so many website offering free counselling sessions. you can search on google", "output": "Restatement or Paraphrasing" }, { "input": "I would suggest follow your routine, stay motivated and keep looking to for the new place. Sometime sitting with the partner and having conversation with the person might help. ", "output": "Restatement or Paraphrasing" }, { "input": " Have you ever tried to quit this habit or had counselling before? ", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "That might be the reason. It is not impossible to quit it. you just need bit guidance. ", "output": "Restatement or Paraphrasing" }, { "input": "I can understand is is not that easy. Time is really tough right now. We as human being nothing is impossible for us to do. Problem like drugs can be quitted if we stay strong and determined. It is hard to say that drugs can not make us normal. ", "output": "Restatement or Paraphrasing" }, { "input": " I can understand your situation. You think that its normal for you but other has different outlook. I think same thing is happening between you and your partner. ", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "It was nice talking to you. Take care and stay positive. ", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "Bye", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "Salutations", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "Are you doing ok with the Virus", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "What would like chatting about", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "So u have a boss that you feel is against you", "output": "Restatement or Paraphrasing" }, { "input": "Does your work involve meeting him or her daily", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "You must have your sites set on the position as well. That can be frustrating ", "output": "Restatement or Paraphrasing" }, { "input": "Can I ask how many others work with you", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "might I ask the gender of your boss", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "same as u right", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "Are there any other females working with you", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "I assume you are full time", "output": "Restatement or Paraphrasing" }, { "input": "So you seem qualified for the position, have you been able to ask why he overlooked you", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "Being overlooked because of personal reasons should not be a reason to offer the position to an outsider", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "It would affect me as well if I was overlooked and the position was offered to an outsider", "output": "Self-disclosure" }, { "input": "Is he mean towards others or just you", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "Are his tempers basically towards you because you are full time", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "There is no reason to be petty. You have a legitimate reasoning to your feelings", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "hate to ask but have the 2 of you been close before", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "is there an arbitrator you can involve to discuss the matter", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "Sometimes a mediator can help with the situation.", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "Being in an environment that seems hostile towards you can make it hard. ", "output": "Reflection of feelings" }, { "input": "have you address it with HR to see what can be accomplished", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "others might also be noticing and approaching the HR with out your knowledge", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "If his actions are noticeable to others maybe you need to address it with a mediator", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "Don't let someone bully you at work. That is borderline sexual harassment. Protect your rights ", "output": "Information" }, { "input": "Do you have any connections in HR that you can invite to lunch", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "Arrange an outside meeting to discuss your options.", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "GOOD. But don't be intimidated .Stand up for your rights", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "OK MERRY Christmas", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "Hello, how are you doing?\n", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "Those can be really hard feelings to deal with, but reaching out and acknowledging them is a very positive step. Is their anything in particular making you feel anxious?\n", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "Drastic changes in our life plans can feel very upsetting and looking for a job in these times is ridiculous. ", "output": "Restatement or Paraphrasing" }, { "input": "What made you feel the need to drop out of graduate school?\n", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "I understand that and that was a really brave choice to make before you cornered yourself into a degree that wouldn't benefit your future paths.", "output": "Reflection of feelings" }, { "input": "Have you gone and smoke to your local job centers? They can often times find suitable jobs or even creative suggestions that can utilize your skills and even grown them.\n", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "Refusing to finish something that does not benefit your end goal isn't quitting its merely switching strategies to your personal end goal ", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "I am from North Carolina and in every city there are job centers, you can look them up by that title, they have people there who can help you find work based on your personality and skills. as well helping with resumes, interveiws, computers, all kinds of things.", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "Im sorry you feel that way but education is never a wasted effort it can only make you level up even if you choose not to actively use what you acquire. Its always nice to have a big back up arsenal so you have options when something you want does turn up.", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "Im really glad that suggestion might be helpful for you.\n", "output": "Information" }, { "input": "Have you checked to see if any of the credits you have earned already are transferable to another degree you may find of interest?", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "oh man that sucks, I am sorry. Thirty really is not old in our current time. shoot alot of people dont event start school till that age for whatever reason or the other.", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "Hahaha lol thank you so much. I enjoyed talking to you and really do wish you the best of luck.", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "I appreciate your patience with my spelling and grammar. bye bye ", "output": "Information" }, { "input": "Hi how are you?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "I'm sorry you are depressed. What's going on?", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "Sometimes it can help to just talk about things and get it off your chest. ", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "Why do you feel that way? Could it be the people your surrounded by making you feel that way?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "I think everyone's off this holiday season. It's not a normal christmas.\n You're not alone in feeling this way. ", "output": "Restatement or Paraphrasing" }, { "input": "Has anyone specific made you feel this way? I would hope your family doesn't make you feel that your depression ruins Christmas that's horrible", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "I think you need to surround yourself with more understanding people. ", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "It can be challenging but there are understanding people out there. You can't always pick your family. But if they truly make you feel that way you aren't obligated to be there. That's horrible. ", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "I have struggled my whole life on and off. Learning triggers and ways to cope with them is very important. A positive mindset doesn't cute depression by any means, but it will help in accepting ways to cope", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "You're welcome:) I hope you have a wonderful Christmas and can surround yourself with positivity. Wish you all the best", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "Hello", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "How may i help you today?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "is there something stopping you?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "I can understand how you are feeling about that. ", "output": "Reflection of feelings" }, { "input": "Have you talked to your advisor about the situation?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "You tried for financial aid?", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "You do not need a student loan for that", "output": "Information" }, { "input": "i understand have you tried to work it out with anyone and see if you can make a payment when you get the money", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "can you explain to me what is red tape?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "why do you need a form signed by your doctor?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "oh ok i understand that. Have you talked to your parents or family to see if they would try to help you ", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "Biblical studies sounds interesting. Have you tried to call your doctor?", "output": "Information" }, { "input": "i understand. I know how you feeling and do not let this stress you out all the way", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "maybe you will have to take out a loan if it comes down to it", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "You need to talk to your advisor or whoever is in charge of that and tell them what is going on", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "maybe you should try another school", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "yes you transfer credits to a lot of colleges you should start calling different colleges", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "your welcome have a Merry Christmas to", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "you to", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "Hi! How are you feeling?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "Can you explain a little more what you mean by that?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "It sounds like the trouble at home is making it hard for you to keep your mind on school. Is that right?", "output": "Restatement or Paraphrasing" }, { "input": "I can understand why you would feel that way.", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "You also sais there is a bully. Have you talked to anyone about this?", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "Bringing this up to a teacher can help. Have you tried that?", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "I can tell just from this short chat how upset you are.", "output": "Reflection of feelings" }, { "input": "I know when I was dealing with issues in school talking to my friends helped.", "output": "Self-disclosure" }, { "input": "It sounds like those people are not your friends then.", "output": "Information" }, { "input": "Do you have any hobbies?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "It might be a good idea to join a choir. That way you can meet people who love to sing just like you!", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "Sometimes it helps to bring up your feelings to your parents. Have you tried that?", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "I can understand why you feel like that. I think it's worth bringing up.", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "It's understandable. Anyone would feel like that in your position. But I think you can do it and it will help!", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "Maybe before you talk to them, take some time to write down what you are feeling. You could even give them a letter to read if that makes you more comfortable.", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "That sounds like you have a plan!", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "You're welcome.", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "No problem.", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "Hello", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "how may i help you today?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "why?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "Was you?", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "what made her think you was?", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "why do you feel that way?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "ok i am a little confused. you saw who chat history with who?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "ok i understand now. What was you and this other woman talking about?", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "I understand how you are feeling breakups are hard going through", "output": "Reflection of feelings" }, { "input": "That does sound incriminating I am sorry you going through this ", "output": "Reflection of feelings" }, { "input": "Have you tried talking to her and apologized for your actions", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "Maybe you should give her some space for a while and let her get her thoughts together and then try to talk to her", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "maybe a couple days ", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "maybe you try to talk to her again today ", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "if that does not work then maybe it will be best to just focus on yourself i know how hard that can be but sometimes its for the best", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "I can understand that but the only way you can work it out with her if both of you two just talk", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "I suggest you try to talk to her today and let her know how you are feeling ", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "Hopefully she will want to talk and work things back out ", "output": "Information" }, { "input": "Everything will be okay keep your head up ", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "I am glad I helped you ", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "I am happy :)", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "take care and be safe", "output": "Information" }, { "input": "Thank you ", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "bye bye", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "Can you end the conversation please so i can go to the next", "output": "Information" }, { "input": "Hai", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "ok tell me ", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "ok, don't worry friend, ", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "lot of people lose the job in this corona time", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "just explain you situation.", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "definitely, you have to try to get the other work", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "don't give up your confident, ", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "belive your self", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "you know any other self work?", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "i am not sure", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "what's your occupation?", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "definitely, don't worry.. ", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "oh, ok", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "ok thank you friend bye.. god bless you..", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "bye...", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "Hello, how are you today?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "I am doing well. Is anything troubling you?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "Would you like to share?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "Yes I am here to listen.", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "It sounds like your friends can be judgmental and even though they are joking it ends up upsetting you.", "output": "Reflection of feelings" }, { "input": "I have been in a similar situation. I always expected my friends to support and understand me but sometimes they made fun of the way I am.", "output": "Self-disclosure" }, { "input": "Have you ever talked to your friends about this? Have you expressed how it made you feel?", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "From what I have seen if we avoid expressing our feelings they keep building up and can make us depressed.", "output": "Information" }, { "input": "I can tell that this bothers you a lot. ", "output": "Reflection of feelings" }, { "input": "I have found that being honest and expressing our true feelings helps us and helps others understand us.", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "It is not easy but you can do it. Everyone needs friends. ", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "No problem. Enjoy the rest of your day.", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "Hello", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "how may i help you today?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "I understand how you are feeling. This pandemic got everyone stressed and their anxiety is at an all time high", "output": "Reflection of feelings" }, { "input": "This pandemic will not last forever and everything will be okay soon", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "I understand that maybe you should sit down with them and be firm with them and let them know how you are feeling", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "you are doing the right thing by staying in the house but have you just went out side and took a walk to make you feel a little better", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "I can understand it is driving you crazy being around them 24/7 now maybe you should go outside and take a walk ", "output": "Information" }, { "input": "I am quarantined with one of my friends and you know we are around each other 24/7 now to that she lost her job due to the pandemic. It does drive me crazy sometimes because i want some alone time but all i can really do at this point is just go outside and take a walk or just sit outside and that helps me most the time.", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "you know there is nothing we can really do right now until all this is over with ", "output": "Information" }, { "input": "I have learned to just live with it for now because i know there is not much i can do ", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "I am sure it is not going to last much longer ", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "Just keep your head up and pray about it everything will be okay and things will eventually get better.", "output": "Self-disclosure" }, { "input": "your most welcome", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "Hello, how are you today?", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "I am great. Is anything bothering you today?", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "You seem very concerned about this. It seems quite unfair! How do you feel about helping the other engineer?", "output": "Restatement or Paraphrasing" }, { "input": "I understand how stressful this must feel to you. Sounds like you are a great experienced worker, but they want to use your expertise instead to train the inexperienced worker.", "output": "Reflection of feelings" }, { "input": "I understand that. I think you have a legitimate complaint. Maybe go to upper management and make it more like a concern than a complaint? If you word it right, they will believe that you really care about your job (I can tell that you really do). I am sure they don't want to lose you.", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "You are right. I feel your anxiety in this. Competition is high in all industries right now it seems.", "output": "Reflection of feelings" }, { "input": "Maybe sign up with those employment sites online. Indeed, ZipRecuiter, etc...it can't hurt to see what other options are out there.", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "Wow that sounds super interesting. You have nothing to lose going to upper management though with your concern. I have been in management and when employees came to me with concerns and showed me how much they cared about their job to take the time to bring me their input.", "output": "Self-disclosure" }, { "input": "I understand that. Freelance does equal freedom. Research opportunities. You sound like a smart man.", "output": "Reflection of feelings" }, { "input": "How does moving to WA. seem at this time? Boeing is an amazing company.", "output": "Reflection of feelings" }, { "input": "Advertising. Sounds like you have options. Hang tight for the next few months and see where the world is headed. Time are so uncertain right now, but hey, it can only get better from here.", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "You too, Happy Holidays. More importantly, Happy New Year!", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "You got that right!", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "Good afternoon", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "How can I be of service to you", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "I am well despite the virus", "output": "Restatement or Paraphrasing" }, { "input": "Breakup from a girlfriend? Spouse", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "Sorry about that. How long ago", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "That really must be a painful happening, especially this time of year", "output": "Reflection of feelings" }, { "input": "Was the other person someone you knew", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "Any idea how long he was dating this other girl", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "He definitely did not give you any clues", "output": "Reflection of feelings" }, { "input": "Were you living together", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "Wow. Your child must be taking it hard also", "output": "Restatement or Paraphrasing" }, { "input": "It always hurts both partners when it happens. ", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "Let me ask if you are involved with a church", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "You must have other friends in common, maybe they were afraid to say anything to hurt you", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "That is good you are involved with a church.", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "Maybe you can chat with some friends and ask if they knew.", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "What bright spots do you see in all this", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "Talking with friends can help you not feel \n secluded", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "Let me ask if you were to find out after being married would it hurt any worse", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "The one thing I would suggest is that you don't isolate yourself. Friends can help you overcome", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "I understand about the pains of divorce", "output": "Self-disclosure" }, { "input": "Don't let yourself become the victim.", "output": "Reflection of feelings" }, { "input": "He may have found what he thought was better but then again you will be the better. He may come back but the seed has been planted", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "You can find better because he will want you for you", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "And you will find better because he will want both of you. Remember you have child that will help you as well", "output": "Reflection of feelings" }, { "input": "Hello", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "How may i help you today?", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "Don't panic everything is going to be okay i understand how you are feeling", "output": "Reflection of feelings" }, { "input": "Did you lose your job because of the pandemic?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "I can understand that it is a tough time for everyone right now that lost their job", "output": "Reflection of feelings" }, { "input": "have you started looking for another job?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "have you tried to sign up for unemployment?", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "Yes you should do that until you can find another job", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "don't worry yourself to much it is going to be okay it is really a tough time that everyone is going through right now", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "yes i can understand how you feeling ", "output": "Reflection of feelings" }, { "input": "you are most definitely not alone ", "output": "Reflection of feelings" }, { "input": "yes try to improve your resume to that will be a good idea ", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "the only thing you can really do right now is to just sign up unemployment and start looking for another job i am sure you will find another job soon", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "yes do that and stay positive ", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "since you not working right now do some hobbies you love doing to keep your mind off of whats going on ", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "thats a good idea you should do that ", "output": "Information" }, { "input": "I am really sure you will get a job soon as long as you stay looking and putting in applications", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "perfect. remain positive and do not let the stress take control of you. you got this ", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "Everything will be okay. your welcome.", "output": "Self-disclosure" }, { "input": "Hello, how are doing today?", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "I would love to help you, what is going on?", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "I am so sorry to hear that, how was she taken?", "output": "Information" }, { "input": "I understand how you must feel betrayed.", "output": "Reflection of feelings" }, { "input": "What kind of things have you done to try and overcome your betrayal?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "Have you tried searching online for groups of people who have gone through similar situations? Sometimes connecting to others online with these types of issues is a great way to help each other and yourself.", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "I am so happy to hear that. You deserve so much more, I want to you find happiness through all this.", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "I have done this myself and it really did help me understand my feelings and know that I was not alone in how I was feeling. This can happen for you too.", "output": "Self-disclosure" }, { "input": "You sound like such a good caring person. I know you can get through this.", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "From what I have found, connection to other people can help your perspective on thing/feelings/etc... so much.", "output": "Information" }, { "input": "I feel your strength.", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "I New Year is a new beginning.", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "I hope you have a wonderful Holiday and Happy New Year.", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "Take care!", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "You too.", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "Bye", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "Hi, how are you doing today?\n", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "Good thank you. Why only ok? What is bothering you? ", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "I'm sorry to hear that. 2020 has been tough for many, so you are not alone. ", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "I have been through a similar situation in the beginning of the year where I have lost my job. I was fearful but I kept thinking positive thoughts and it helped me get through tough times. ", "output": "Self-disclosure" }, { "input": "That is a great idea. The government has great support programs for new business owners like you. ", "output": "Information" }, { "input": "I think working for yourself is great. You can set your own hours, chart your own path. It would help with your employment situation for sure. ", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "My suggestion would be to think what your local neighborhood needs - maybe it is lacking a cafe or a grocery store? ", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "Yes, I can identify with that. Motivation is hard - but think about your future job situation and your family. ", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "That's a great idea! Green is the new way to go! I believe in you.", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "I think it will take some hard work but you can do it. There are support for you from local governments. I think you should look into it. ", "output": "Information" }, { "input": "How are you feeling now?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "That's great to hear! My suggestion is to always think positively. You can do this!", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "You are welcome. I'm wising you all the luck and success. Have a great day!", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "Merry Christmas and happy 2021!", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "Hello there. What's going on today?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "I'm sorry to hear that! Was this recently?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "I'm very sorry to hear that. How are you feeling about it right now?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "As you message me, I can feel your pain. It seems you aren't sure what to do with these feelings.", "output": "Reflection of feelings" }, { "input": "I understand. I have been in a similar situation myself. Heartbreak is one of the hardest feelings to go through, but I believe in you and your strength. ", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "From what I've seen before, surrounding yourself with good friends helps quite a bit. ", "output": "Information" }, { "input": "I understand feeling that way. Something I do when I am feeling pain is taking deep breaths. Inhale, exhale. Could you do that for me?", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "I am sorry to hear that. I believe in you, things will be better with time. ", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "Would you like to continue chatting?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "Okay. Are you excited for the upcoming holidays?", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "That sounds fun! Is the new year party with friends? Or is it a family affair?", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "That is fun! Friends and family are the most wonderful cure for the blues. What types of games will you be playing?", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "Musical chairs is one of my favorites. I remember when I was going through a hard time, my friends took me out to dinner and we spent all night together. It was very fun and helped me a lot. ", "output": "Self-disclosure" }, { "input": "I think it's really great that you have that party planned!", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "How are you feeling now, my friend?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "I am very happy to hear that! I can see in your messages that you feel lighter.", "output": "Reflection of feelings" }, { "input": "Thank you very much for talking with me. I've enjoyed this conversation!", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "Of course. Is there any other way I can help you? Merry Christmas to you as well, my friend!", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "And to you!", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "Is there any other way I can help you today? I am here for you. ", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "I am so happy to hear that. I hope you have a great day every day! ", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "Would you like me to end the chat now, my friend?", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "Goodbye! I am glad I was able to speak with you and help you today. ", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "Congratulation on starting school! That is a huge accomplishment. Tell me more about how you're feeling. ", "output": "Restatement or Paraphrasing" }, { "input": "It sounds like you are a little apprehensive about attending school because you have not done it in awhile. Is this accurate?", "output": "Reflection of feelings" }, { "input": "I can definitely understand that. I remember feeling a certain way when I pursued another degree. What would make you feel a bit more confident about the idea of school?", "output": "Self-disclosure" }, { "input": "It is certainly okay to feel nervous about it. This is a big step and a life-changing experience. You should be proud of taking that first step!", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "What excites you about starting school?", "output": "Information" }, { "input": "That sure is exciting! ", "output": "Restatement or Paraphrasing" }, { "input": "There are many ways to prepare for starting school. For me, becoming more organized helped me in preparation for school. What are some things that come to mind that would help you mentally prepare for this event?", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "Wonderful idea! Meditation and deep breathing have proven to be extremely effective. I'm so glad this has helped! How do you see yourself fitting in the breathing techniques this week?", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "I love it!", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "Best of luck to you! I think the consistent routine with breathing techniques is a great strategy. ", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "Happy Holidays!", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "I understand. During these times, it is very stressful.", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "Whenever I am stressed, I like to go for a walk and listen to music. It helps take me away and reflect for a while.", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "Music is a great stress relief! Excercise is great too, for releasing those happy endorphins! Both music and exercise really help me deal with my stress levels!", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "You are having stress in your family as well?", "output": "Restatement or Paraphrasing" }, { "input": "Personally, I enjoy hip hop/ rap or anything upbeat. It puts me in a great mood and makes me feel strong.", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "I understand. Trying some options to work through stress can be very helpful for you.", "output": "Reflection of feelings" }, { "input": "Yes, we all have stress. Learning to deal with it is the key!", "output": "Information" }, { "input": "You have children? How many?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "They are a blessing!", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "Absolutely!", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "Doctors can help by prescribing medicine for stress, if you feel like nothing is helping. I have suffered with anxiety for years. It was affecting my blood pressure and I finally had to go to a doctor for anxiety medicine. It has helped me. I still exercise though. It makes me feel great! I enjoy dance fitness!", "output": "Self-disclosure" }, { "input": "Hello, how are you?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "I can most certianly help!", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "What has happened?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "Oh honey I am so sorry to hear that! Hearing that he was with another girl can be very painful. ", "output": "Restatement or Paraphrasing" }, { "input": "You deserve so much better than someone who is willing to lie to you & go behind your back.", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "You are a strong, beautiful, intelligent woman dont let his unfaithfulness be a reflection of you. This indescrestion only shows his shallow personality to which you deserve better!\n", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "Yes i have had the misfortune of experiencing a cheating boyfriend. I left him and to my surprise i met my amazing husband soon after dumping my cheating ex.", "output": "Self-disclosure" }, { "input": "Move forward with your head held high & be grateful for the bullet you dodged. Imagine had you not found out and you married him and the found him having an affair! He did you a favor & now you can truly thrive as the wonderful person you are!", "output": "Reflection of feelings" }, { "input": "Very good, Now you wipe your tears girl and get back out there like he never exsited. Move on like you never he knew who he was & you will find how much life has to offer!", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "You will my dear, just keep an open mind and an open heart add in the positive vibes and the right man will find you. You've got a beautiful outlook and good things are bound to come your way! Great job!", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "You are very welcome & I am so happy that I was able to help you! You got this girl!", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "You as well!", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "Sounds Great!", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "Where does your anger stem from ?\n", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "Its ok to disagree with people about topics but you need to figure out why it triggers so much anger which turns to hate\n", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "How have you been victimized by black people? When those events happen how did that make you feel\n", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "I see I too have had my issues with other races. A few bad instances do not make represent a whole race though. There are also black males who have been robbed and jumped by white people that does not mean all white males are bad. It does seem that you have had alot of unfortunate events with black males. That still does not mean that all black people are bad and why should innocent people pay for things others have done. Do\n you have to walk home from work or can you drive. Also have you reported any of these events to the police.", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "I understand have you ever thought about if that black man that raped your wife was just getting even with the white race because his wife or maybe even him was raped repeatedly by white supremists\n", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "My suggestion would be to get out of the area if is just triggering your anger. Are you able to move to another area?", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "I would suggest for your mental health when the weather is better to move and until then I would avoid areas that can potentially be dangerous and also don't walk home after dark. Also you need to keep seeking council for you anger and racial feelings. I would suggest when you feel very angry to take a deep breath think will your actions help or hurt the situation. To help with racial issues I would like you to sit and talk to black victims who have been victimized by white people in violent crimes.", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "If you follow my advice I think you will see a great improvement. Your willingness to seek advice and ability to identify that you have a problem is a big first step all you got to do now is put the solutions into practice.", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "Church is always a great idea. I think church would be very helpful. Maybe someday you should even consider going to a predominantly black church.", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "Maybe you should try it out maybe meeting some good black people there would ease your hate against black people and also help your experience in the neighborhood.", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "That is what I'm here for. If you ever need anything else don't hesitate to reach out and good luck. I know you are going to do great and be just fine.", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "How are you today?", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "What is bothering you today that I may be able to help with.", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "Maybe she misunderstood what you meant?", "output": "Restatement or Paraphrasing" }, { "input": "Maybe you were too direct with your answer and she could not process the impact.", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "All people cannot be helped directly, maybe a subtle lead would have helped.", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "Why did she feel so repulsed by your answer?", "output": "Reflection of feelings" }, { "input": "Long term friendships are difficult to unravel from misunderstandings.", "output": "Reflection of feelings" }, { "input": "Maybe you can try again with a more indirect approach.", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "There is no reason for you to be depressed, the friendship is of value to you", "output": "Reflection of feelings" }, { "input": "Hello, how are you today?\n", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "Oh, so sorry to hear that!", "output": "Restatement or Paraphrasing" }, { "input": "Is it your first time when you have a cough?", "output": "Restatement or Paraphrasing" }, { "input": "I heard of some magic candies. ", "output": "Information" }, { "input": "To get rid of smoking habit....", "output": "Information" }, { "input": "When you like to smoke, just eat one candy. ", "output": "Information" }, { "input": "Well, I stopped eating my nails after 50 years because of fear of getting sick....", "output": "Self-disclosure" }, { "input": "Well, do you have something in your life now that can keep you away from smoking?", "output": "Reflection of feelings" }, { "input": "No harm from candies :) It is worth of trying.", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "I can feel how anxious you are. ", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "Just look for quit smoking candies online", "output": "Information" }, { "input": "Bye", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "Hello how are you today?\n", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "Doing well it's a bit cold here\n", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "Was there anything I can help you with today?\n", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "I am so sorry you had a traumatic experience\n", "output": "Restatement or Paraphrasing" }, { "input": "If you don't mind me asking what happened?\n", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "Really what?\n", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "I am so sorry I am sure you did what was right\n", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "I think we all have one of those friends I know I had one who no matter what happened she had something better happen or something worse.\n", "output": "Self-disclosure" }, { "input": "I mean the only thing you can do is make a choice is her friendship worth anything toxic that comes along with her? Do you know what causes her to be that away? Sometimes there is an underlining reason or condition.\n", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "Oh, that's not good", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "I hate to say it but maybe it is time to make a choice if her friendship is worth the problems it brings. Maybe it is just time for a break from each other while you make up your mind. ", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "Was there anything else I could help you with?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "It sounds like the right choice. ", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "Your so welcome it was great talking to you. Have a great day\n", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "hello\n", "output": "Reflection of feelings" }, { "input": "hello how are you?\n", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "I am doing well. That is okay typing can be a bit of a pain.\n", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "Is there anyway i could convince you to type a little longer so that I may help you?", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "I assure you that your typing skills are above par & I know you will knock it out of the park my friend!\n", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "Awesome i am glad to have you back!", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "You are very welcome & why do have second thoughts when you type? ", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "The only thing that matters is that you made the effort to type reguardless of how well you feel your typing skills are. You should be proud of uourself!\n", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "I myself use to struggle with typing. ", "output": "Self-disclosure" }, { "input": "Do you think maybe you are being to hard on yourself?\n", "output": "Reflection of feelings" }, { "input": "I Think alot of people could relate to how you feel.", "output": "Information" }, { "input": "May i suggest that before you start typing stop, close your eyes, take a deep breath in your nose hold it. then blow it out of your mouth. that should help clear your mind and rid yourself of all those jitters.", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "Thank you that is very kind of you to say. I have just had alot of practice in dealing with anxiety. I agree the relaxtation music doesnt work for me either. Breathing seems to help me the most. Its natural and I can control it which I really like.", "output": "Self-disclosure" }, { "input": "Yes we have. I know many people deal with anxiety. It is not uncommon so therefore you are not alone my friend!", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "You are doing great! I am so proud of you!", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "How do you feel?", "output": "Reflection of feelings" }, { "input": "Aw how precious! I am glad i could help you, enjoy the rest of your day my friend!", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "Hai", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "How are you friend?", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "Where are you from?", "output": "Reflection of feelings" }, { "input": "ok, ", "output": "Reflection of feelings" }, { "input": "What are you doing?", "output": "Reflection of feelings" }, { "input": "i am john from, new york", "output": "Self-disclosure" }, { "input": "oh nice", "output": "Reflection of feelings" }, { "input": "tell about you?", "output": "Reflection of feelings" }, { "input": "just i chating", "output": "Reflection of feelings" }, { "input": "what your good name?", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "wow good job..", "output": "Reflection of feelings" }, { "input": "anything else?", "output": "Self-disclosure" }, { "input": "oh, do you most like that", "output": "Self-disclosure" }, { "input": "ok care your child, give the best life ", "output": "Self-disclosure" }, { "input": "you hate anything don't doing, this is your life, so make it perfect", "output": "Self-disclosure" }, { "input": "very good i appreciate you, god bless you..", "output": "Self-disclosure" }, { "input": "don't think, you are good person", "output": "Reflection of feelings" }, { "input": "Hi, How are you doing today!", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "I am well!", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "How can I help you today?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "I am so sorry to hear that this has been going on.", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "How recently did the divorce take place?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "So you have children together and want to disconnect but that is a complicating factor?", "output": "Restatement or Paraphrasing" }, { "input": "It must be so tough to be going through what you are going through now, I am so sorry.", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "Have you spoken to a professional? Is this something that you are able to do through your insurance or work?", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "I completely understand. I have been in situations at work that I couldn't resolve due to the exact same reasons.", "output": "Self-disclosure" }, { "input": "Is there a way that you could seek help at work without anyone finding out? ", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "Sometimes someone looking in from the outside can see things in a way that you might not be able to see since you are in the middle of the situation. I know that this has happened to me.", "output": "Self-disclosure" }, { "input": "Through work you may be able to speak to a professional counselor or therapist while just having a small co-pay.", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "Have a nice day as well, I hope that you can get your issues resolved.", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "Good, how are you?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "What's going on? Maybe I can help.\n", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "Are you a student? That can be difficult. \n", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "Congratulations on graduating. That took a lot of hard work. What about your paper makes you sad?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "You already did way more than expected of you- 3.5 times as much. And your paper was good enough to help you graduate. Be proud of yourself. You accomplished something great.", "output": "Reflection of feelings" }, { "input": "You're welcome. Is there anything else I can help you with today?\n", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "Congratulations again! Display that diploma with pride. Talk to you later. ", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "Hello , what is it that is bothering you?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "So you have been just generally feeling down and worried about everything?", "output": "Restatement or Paraphrasing" }, { "input": "I understand why that can have you worried. Have you been told this is a possibility?", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "Have you talked to co workers or others about this?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "This is a worry that many others are having right now. Maybe there is an online group that deals in this type of worry.", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "If your company has that, otherwise there are online chat groups that would.", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "I don't have any experience in this area but I am sure that an online search would be easy. ", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "I don't think that worrying about it ever does any good. All you can do is do your job well and display your worth to the company.", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "I usually find that taking action is a better idea than worrying. ", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "Don't forget there are always options if something does happen. ", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "Glad that I could help. Try to focus on positives. ", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "It's been very nice talking to you.\nTake care.", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "Hello, how are you feeling today? ", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "Is there anything that you'd like to talk about? ", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "I am happy to listen if you have a problem. ", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "Well, I'd need to know what your personal problem was first. Can you tell me? ", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "I am very sorry to hear that. I have suffered from depression too so I empathise. Can you tell me what is making you feel depressed? ", "output": "Self-disclosure" }, { "input": "Is the global pandemic having an effect on you? I know it has been making a lot of people feel bad ", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "I am very sorry to hear that. Do you have any other form of financial support? ", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "I am really very sorry. I have been feeling down lately too so I do understand. ", "output": "Self-disclosure" }, { "input": "Do you have any hobbies that can help you right now? ", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "Do you have family that you can talk these things out with? ", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "Are they feeling bad too? I think that everyone is feeling quite down right now. Am I right in thinking that your family is too? ", "output": "Restatement or Paraphrasing" }, { "input": "It is so difficult right now, isn't it? I just feel defeated sometimes. ", "output": "Self-disclosure" }, { "input": "Have you thought of getting any outside help? There is free counselling available. ", "output": "Information" }, { "input": "There should be help out there. There are foodbanks, if you need those. ", "output": "Information" }, { "input": "why not? ", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "I understand that. I hope I was able to be of some help, at least. ", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "Maybe next year will be a better year ", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "Thank you for talking and I hope you feel okay ", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "you need to press quit now :) I can't do it this end ", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "no I would not. But press quit and you will be paid. ", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "Have a good day. ", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "Now press the finish and quit button and complete the survey or you are not going to be paid.", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "Hello", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "I'm doing well. How are you doing?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "Interesting I didn't see your previous message. It didn't come through on my end. Can you tell me what's going on?", "output": "Restatement or Paraphrasing" }, { "input": "I'm really sorry to hear that. ", "output": "Reflection of feelings" }, { "input": "What happened during your encounter with the lady?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "woah! That's pretty awful. That doesn't sound like it warranted any kind of aggressive behavior and certainly insults and slurs of any kind aren't acceptable. I bet that was probably troubling being in front of your family\n", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "Did anyone respond to her?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "That sounds pretty intense. Fortunately karma can be cruel. Perhaps she fell off her bike on her way home... \n", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "one can hope anyway....", "output": "Self-disclosure" }, { "input": "I'm sure she got hers, and if not, I'm sure it's coming. The best thing you can do is smile and move on. The best advice someone gave me is \"consider the source\" when someone treats you crappy. They are probably having many problems of their own or maybe they are just terrible people. ", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "Bad things inevitably happen to terrible people. its usually just a matter of time. ", "output": "Information" }, { "input": "I'm sorry to hear all that. ", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "I agree, it definitely is. Stress is running high and people are being dumb. Hopefully you have a good outlet to vent your stresses. Whether it's a friend, working out, doing a hobby. It'll help you focus on things you want to focus on and not the nonsense ", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "amen", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "Hi", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "I'm doing well. How are you?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "I'm sorry to hear that, what's going on?", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "I see. I assume you are taking it seriously? ", "output": "Restatement or Paraphrasing" }, { "input": "Oh wow, I'm very sorry to hear that! I'm sorry for your loss. ", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "Do your friends know that you were sick or that you lost a loved one?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "So they are not taking you seriously either then? ", "output": "Restatement or Paraphrasing" }, { "input": "That's really frustrating and I'm sorry to hear that. ", "output": "Reflection of feelings" }, { "input": "Do you have any friends who you can trust and talk to?", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "That can certainly be difficult to talk about. But maybe you can build stronger relationships with them. ", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "Friendships can change overtime and sometimes people who don't value the friendship can find themselves without friends. ", "output": "Information" }, { "input": "Maybe you don't have to say goodbye. Maybe you can just ignore them and see if any of them reach out to you. ", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "You shouldn't have to feel bad in a friendship. Friends are supposed to support each other. If you aren't feeling support, maybe it's time to make new friends. ", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "I think that's a great plan!", "output": "Self-disclosure" }, { "input": "No problem! glad I could help! ", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "Hello\n", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "How are you this evening?\n", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "What class is your exam in?\n", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "So just to make sure I understand, you have an exam coming up in economics and you are very stressed about it.\n", "output": "Restatement or Paraphrasing" }, { "input": "Do you have any study groups set up for the class? Often times it helps to study with people who are in the same situation you are in.\n", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "Have you made any flash cards for the class?\n", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "I used to stress out a ton over tests too, but I found that distracting myself every once in a while with a movie or a tv show helps me to reduce stress.\n", "output": "Self-disclosure" }, { "input": "I would recommend mixing it in while studying, maybe study for an hour and then take a break for an hour and the study again. This way it breaks up the monotony of studying\n", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "I used to think of it that way as well, but I then began to think of it as a reward for studying and that helped a lot!\n", "output": "Self-disclosure" }, { "input": "I am glad that I could help!\n", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "hi there, how is life today? ", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "Unfortunately yes and it's been worse this year. I have tried certain coping mechanisms but some work better than others. ", "output": "Self-disclosure" }, { "input": "I have been trying to do as much walking as is allowed by the pandemic rule. I do love to get fresh air even though we're not allowed to go far. ", "output": "Self-disclosure" }, { "input": "Have you been getting help for your depression? ", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "Well alcohol, but I do not necessarily recommend that. Do you have many friends that you can talk to? ", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "There are also counselling services out there that you might be able to access for free. ", "output": "Information" }, { "input": "I have suffered from depression for many years so I can totally empathise with you. ", "output": "Self-disclosure" }, { "input": "Is there any specific area that I could help you with? ", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "I think that this just proves that you are human! I can understand that you are feeling really bad though and I'd like to help. ", "output": "Reflection of feelings" }, { "input": "I hope that I have been able to be of some help. It's sometimes hard to know what to say ", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "I wish you all the very best! ", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "yes of course ", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "Well, I think you need to find a hobby that will help you and that will enable you to make new friends. ", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "Anyway it's been nice to talk, all the best! ", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "Hello\n", "output": "Others" }, { "input": " I am good, how are you?\n", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "What is making you upset tonight?\n", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "Just to make sure I understand, you got a bad grade in one of your classes and your grade dropped below an A and you are upset about it.\n", "output": "Restatement or Paraphrasing" }, { "input": "Have you talked to your professor about the reason for the grade you got that dropped your grade below an A? Often it helps to understand what we did wrong in order to know what we can do to improve.\n\n", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "Have you reached out to your advisor to speak with them on the situation? Often times your advisor is able to help with advice on what to do in this type of situation.\n\n", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "I had a similar situation last semester where I held an A in my class all semester long until the end when it dropped to a B+ so I comletely understand the frustration here. \n", "output": "Self-disclosure" }, { "input": "I know it is extremely difficult to do that when you really want to keep your grades up, but I know you can get through this!\n", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "You will do a great job!\n'", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "You are very welcome! If you ever need anything else, feel free to chat again!\n", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "You're very welcome! I am glad I was able to help!\n", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "Hi there, are you having a good day? ", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "I am really sorry to hear that - it is a terrible time to be out of work isn't it? Unfortunately it is happening to a lot of people ", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "Yeah, I know an awful lot of people who have been made unemployed and there is very little work out there. ", "output": "Self-disclosure" }, { "input": "Have you considered doing gig work online? You can make a bit of money there. ", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "Me too! It's one of my main sources of income these days. Are you looking for other work? ", "output": "Self-disclosure" }, { "input": "Happily I have found it to be good and honest work in general so I'd not worry too much :) ", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "What sort of field would you like to move into after the pandemic? ", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "So you feel that your life is just on hiatus at the moment and you want it to get back to the way it was as soon as possible? ", "output": "Reflection of feelings" }, { "input": "Please do not feel like that! A lot of people are in the same position and it really is not at all your fault. ", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "Have you considered contacting charities that might be able to help with Christmas presents and food? ", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "(I am so sorry I had to leave the room temporarily, just let me catch up :)) ", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "Ah yes I hear you , I know that there are a lot of people out there in trouble right now. I think though that you should be able to access some food help? ", "output": "Information" }, { "input": "I have had to do that myself in the past and I do know that I felt ashamed about it. ", "output": "Self-disclosure" }, { "input": "What sort of help are you waiting for if you do not mind my asking? ", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "Yes, especially if you've never had to rely on that sort of help before. But there is no shame in it! ", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "I am glad that you have someone outside the family that you can talk to and I hope that they are sympathetic! ", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "Have you considered any sort of counselling to help you with your situation? ", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "You are more than welcome. We all need to come together at this time! It's been a very bad year. ", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "I hope that I have been able to help you and it was nice to talk! ", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "I hope so too. Best wishes! ", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "you too :) ", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "(you have to end from your side as I can't :)) ", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "Good evening\n", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "I am good, how are you?\n", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "What is it that is stressing you out currently?\n", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "So just so I make sure I understand, you are currently stressed about your money situation due to only working part time making deliveries for the time being. \n", "output": "Restatement or Paraphrasing" }, { "input": "I can completely understand this, as I was also extremely worried about money when the pandemic first started and about not being able to be employed. \n\n", "output": "Self-disclosure" }, { "input": "Have you looked into hiring agencies to help you find a more permanent job during the pandemic? Hiring agencies are a great resource to find a job that fist you best. \n", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "After interviewing with a company are you following up on a timeline or a decision? Companies like to see initiative in their potential hires after an interview. \n", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "It definitely does help to make sure you are following up!\n", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "I usually wait a week before I reach out. \n", "output": "Self-disclosure" }, { "input": "Not a problem! I know this is an incredibly difficult situation, but I know you can make it through!\n ", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "Yes it has!\n", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "I am all set! Feel free to chat back anytime you need anything!\n", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "You too!\n", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "hi there?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "how are you? what's new with you?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "Sorry to hear that. I feel you because I had an experience about breaking my bones. It was sad story. how you feel right now", "output": "Reflection of feelings" }, { "input": "Very good. I am glad that you have a good family who can support you whenever you need a help.", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "Totally, sad side of our current situation. I hope you can tide-over this hard time soon and you are doing your best at this time. So proud!", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "Ohhh that sucks. I am happy to yo don't lose your fun and you are not pessimist which is good and it might help for your health. Always try to see the bright side ", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "Exactly, sometimes we need new window to see things by different ankle. So can I ask you what you want me to do or what is really need you right now ?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "ok for sure, It was nice to talk you", "output": "Reflection of feelings" }, { "input": "hope you feel better", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "hello how are you?\n", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "Oh i'm sorry to hear that. why are you're friends avoiding you?\n", "output": "Restatement or Paraphrasing" }, { "input": "Have you tried to reach out to your friends for coffee, food or beer?", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "Perhaps you should give it a shot and see what happens. They maybe feeling the you are the one not reciprocating and this whole thing has just been a miscommunication", "output": "Reflection of feelings" }, { "input": "perhaps. You said that you have not reached out to your friends, so they could just be waiting. \n", "output": "Restatement or Paraphrasing" }, { "input": "I understand your concern, but I would suggest that all relationships are a balancing act and perhaps cannot be one sided.\n", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "I think that is a good start. If they are your closet friend you should be able to talk about this too them. \n", "output": "Reflection of feelings" }, { "input": "This sounds like a good friend. I hope this is just a miscommunication. ", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "Have a good talk with a good friend will sort this out. This is the way", "output": "Restatement or Paraphrasing" }, { "input": "no problem. hope this help. stay safe. be well\n", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "Hello there, how is your day going? Would you like to talk about anything? ", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "Is there something specific that has caused you to lose motivation? I am happy to listen. ", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "A lot of gyms have been closed due to the pandemic .. do you think that that knocked your schedule off kilter a bit? ", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "Yes it really does. I know that personally I am much less motivated to do anything at all than I was this time last year. ", "output": "Self-disclosure" }, { "input": "Do you feel that there are other areas of your life that you are struggling with too? ", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "Is there a specific problem with school or is it just 2020 fatigue? ", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "I do not know how long you have to go in school but if you have not done very much so far would you consider dropping out and perhaps training for a profession instead? ", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "Sometimes things can be more lucrative than just having a degree, if that makes sense ", "output": "Information" }, { "input": "Well I would say that if you've got as far as you have you might as well get the piece of paper. But the world is your oyster after that - you do not need to be tied to your field! ", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "Certainly I do not think there is any harm in the status quo being shaken up a little .. or indeed a lot! ", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "I totally agree. I am not totally sure what the solution is but I am hoping that there is one ", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "Do you feel as though there is hope for the future though? ", "output": "Reflection of feelings" }, { "input": "When I was a student I sometimes felt that everyone else knew where they were going except me. But I later found out that everyone has some insecurities. ", "output": "Self-disclosure" }, { "input": "That said, I am still not totally sure where I am going a quarter of a century in so I am perhaps not the best person to take advice from :D ", "output": "Self-disclosure" }, { "input": "And to you too! ", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "You have to end it from your end ... I can't ;) ", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "Hello there, how is life treating you today? ", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "Your partner has left you? I am very sorry to hear that. How long were you together for? ", "output": "Restatement or Paraphrasing" }, { "input": "Wow that is a really long time. I can understand why you are feeling so lousy. Is there any chance of reconciliation? ", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "I remember when my partner left me after eight years I felt that I was never going to get over it. I was angry and miserable for a very long time. ", "output": "Self-disclosure" }, { "input": "Yes it has been a really terrible year for all of us. I am so sorry that this happened to you on top of everything else! ", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "I know how bad it feels but I can promise you that it will fade after time. ", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "Ah dogs are absolutely wonderful companions aren't they? Especially when the world is so isolated right now ", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "What breed of dog is she? I have two cats and they have been really helping me when I've been feeling low. ", "output": "Self-disclosure" }, { "input": "Rescues are the best. My two are rescues and it took them a while to trust me but now they love me unconditionally. It is good that you have a pet in your life .. much better than your useless ex I think! ", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "LOL well it's good that you are able to look on the bright side about this. Have you considered making plans for the future, once the pandemic is over? ", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "I am sorry to hear about your heart condition, that obvious compounds your problems. I believe that things are going to improve in the New Year though ", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "Let's face it, there does come a time when it seems that not much can get worse ", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "Try to look on the bright side of things :) At least you can't be dumped twice ;) ", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "I hope that one day you feel that you will be able to date and trust another person though. Don't let one bad apple put you off for life. ", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "Anyway it has been very nice to chat, I hope that I was able to be of help ", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "Enjoy the rest of your day! ", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "hello. How are you tonight", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "I can understand how you feel.i am between classes also", "output": "Self-disclosure" }, { "input": "are your classes online in person", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "So you have a full schedule", "output": "Restatement or Paraphrasing" }, { "input": "Are these mandatory classes for your degree", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "May I aks what your major is", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "Is it online in person", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "Being online makes it harder. ", "output": "Restatement or Paraphrasing" }, { "input": "Maybe the in person classes can be restructured, maybe you can change your schedule ", "output": "Restatement or Paraphrasing" }, { "input": "My classes are online and I can chose my load. Are the i person classes more important then this class", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "I would. But before you fail can you drop the class then pick it up in person", "output": "Restatement or Paraphrasing" }, { "input": "Can you talk with your teacher for extra credits ", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "Is there away to talk with him in person to explain your issue", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "Ask for his advise in person versus the online", "output": "Restatement or Paraphrasing" }, { "input": "If you get a failing grade you can take what you have learned and use it for the future", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "Sometimes what we learn can be used to better ourselves", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "Just take a step back and move forward when it is time", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "Hello there, how are things with you today? ", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "I am very sorry to hear that, can you tell me a little about the circumstances? ", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "So, you are feeling guilty that you've been breaking the rules and your conscience is catching up with you? ", "output": "Restatement or Paraphrasing" }, { "input": "Well, you won't be able to eat if you get fired ;) I can understand the temptation though - I used to work fast food and I would steal fries sometimes ", "output": "Self-disclosure" }, { "input": "Do you ever have any sort of compulsion to steal other things or is it just food? ", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "I think that everyone is sometimes tempted to do things that they know that they should not do so do not worry too much but you don't want to risk your job ", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "Unfortunately I was fired. Though not for stealing fries. I was just a terrible cook. ", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "Well, you could try to have a big meal before you go to work so you'd be less tempted? ", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "Hmm well do you have any friends at work you could confide in who might be able to stop you? ", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "Just tell them to remind you that you might be fired if you keep going! ", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "Are you religious? You could make pledge to God that you would not steal from work anymore. ", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "Yes I agree. Well, what about talking to family members and promising them that you will stop? You do not want to leave your family penniless. ", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "Or, if worse came to worse, would you consider looking for a job that did not involve being around food all day? ", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "Do you think you have an addiction to food in general? ", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "There are organisations that will be able to help you if that is the case ", "output": "Information" }, { "input": ":) I hope I have been able to help you today and I wish you all the best! ", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "That's what I am here for! ", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "Hello", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "How may i help you today?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "why?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "Your friends have been leaving you out of christmas parties is that correct?", "output": "Restatement or Paraphrasing" }, { "input": "You knew nothing about the parties?", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "I understand how you are feeling i would feel the same way", "output": "Reflection of feelings" }, { "input": "They should not be having christmas parties right now with the Covid going around bad", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "I would not feel bad or terrible about it because you are doing the right thing ", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "yes you should talk to him about it and see why he did not invite you ", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "I hope they was wearing a mask and staying 6 feet at the party", "output": "Information" }, { "input": "I would just be straight forward and tell him you saw the photos of his christmas party ", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "Either way if you did know about the party it would not be best if you go just for your safety", "output": "Self-disclosure" }, { "input": "yes I believe you should talk to him about that to because he was putting everyone at risk", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "which ever is more comfortable for you ", "output": "Information" }, { "input": "Yes and just talk to him about how you feeling and see what he has to say", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "your welcome i hope it goes good and he listens", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "thank you Merry Christmas to you to and stay safe.", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "Hello there, how are you feeling today? ", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "Well, that's a start. Do I hear you saying that you're confused at the moment? ", "output": "Restatement or Paraphrasing" }, { "input": "Ah I hear you, education can be both wonderful and difficult can't it? What are you supposed to produce? ", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "I can imagine that that is very frustrating. Would you consider switching majors? ", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "Ah Shakespeare, a great favourite. I have had times when I have felt that there was no point in continuing with my studies too but it tends to pass ", "output": "Self-disclosure" }, { "input": "Can you keep reminding yourself that this is for the good of your future and one day it will pay off? ", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "Well, I am assuming that you want to go into an artistic field on graduation? ", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "I think you are putting yourself down unnecessarily. Many people do make a lucrative career from an art qualification ", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "I would urge you to keep working to the best of your ability and see what happens ", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "Have you ever tried searching for information about careers in your field? We still have a few minutes left :) ", "output": "Information" }, { "input": "There are a lot of different ways in which you can use an art degree! ", "output": "Information" }, { "input": "That sounds like a definite winner :) I see a Turner prize beckoning in your future ", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "Yes I am, where are you? ", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "Ah .. well hopefully things will pick up for you next year. Well it's been lovely talking, I wish you all the best! ", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "and you! ", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "hi\n", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "I'm here for you. what would you like to talk about\n", "output": "Restatement or Paraphrasing" }, { "input": "That's a hard situation to go through. How long were you together", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "If you don't mind me asking. how old are you\n", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "Ok so you were together with this person for ten percent of your life almost. that is a significant relationship\n", "output": "Restatement or Paraphrasing" }, { "input": "That is understandable. would you like to tell me what you plan on doing\n ", "output": "Reflection of feelings" }, { "input": "That is a serious emotion. Have you been talking to anyone yet\n", "output": "Restatement or Paraphrasing" }, { "input": "Do you have family or friends you can reach out too\n", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "Have you considered calling a help line. They are free, private and very professional\n", "output": "Restatement or Paraphrasing" }, { "input": "I understand. Would you happen to be in college?\n", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "Have you tried to reach out to any of the free student services such as councillors. \n", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "your situation is unique to you and they would be there to help \n", "output": "Restatement or Paraphrasing" }, { "input": "That what you pay tuition for.", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "That would get them fired. but it's ok if you don't want to go to them. I would suggest talking to your friend first at least. Even if you don't trust him. You need to express your emotions to someone.\n", "output": "Reflection of feelings" }, { "input": "I am here to listen. please express your emotions\n", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "I would no suggest that. Your life is important.", "output": "Reflection of feelings" }, { "input": "I understand. She was important. but now she is gone. You can accept this , or not. I would suggest accepting is the better option.", "output": "Reflection of feelings" }, { "input": "Yes I agree it would be easier. Suddenly the pain will end, because you will end. ", "output": "Restatement or Paraphrasing" }, { "input": "Hello", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "How is everything", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "Ready for the holidays", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "So you tested positive, must be hard", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "The holidays can bring back memories, but you have other family around right", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "The virus is hard. along with the season", "output": "Restatement or Paraphrasing" }, { "input": "You must have friends around, right. have you contacted any", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "How long ago did your dad pass away", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "That can cause loneliness as well. What about seeing if your family will chat and let them know you ae ok", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "Comparing yourself to others can be a positive and give you reason to strive more", "output": "Restatement or Paraphrasing" }, { "input": "Have you checked to see if she is ok", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "But use your dad as inspiration ", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "See that is a positive thing. You both need each other", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "That is great to hear. He is a role model for you", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "That is a positive in itself. Keep his legacy going through you", "output": "Reflection of feelings" }, { "input": "And you have that memory to live by", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "His smile is in your heart and you can still feel him", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "See that there in itself is a reason to smile", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "You are a positive for your church. Not many can sign language", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "That is awesome. See you have a purpose", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "I imagine he is missing his big sister", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "But your determination kept your dream alive.sorry big brother", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "You are a very determined person. Don't let the fire die inside your heart", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "The Lord is using you to each others/", "output": "Reflection of feelings" }, { "input": "God placed you there for that little girl", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "You have a calling on your life. Don't let the dream die", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "He will use you in mighty ways", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "Ok. Hope I was of help", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "I am a Christian also", "output": "Self-disclosure" }, { "input": "God loves you. ", "output": "Reflection of feelings" }, { "input": "Glad iI was here.", "output": "Reflection of feelings" }, { "input": "Live the dream and seek Him always", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "Be Blessed for He lives inside of you", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "Are you saved", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "Seek Him everyday", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "He is my 1st in the morning", "output": "Self-disclosure" }, { "input": "God has away to bring His sheep back. He knew you and did not give up on you", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "I fell away for 15 years, but He opened my eyes.", "output": "Self-disclosure" }, { "input": "Your a gift from God to the world", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "We were always close but He knew the time to bring you home", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "Even though we are locked down can you sign online for a church", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "Does your church have online services", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "So you are still plugged in the church", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "My church is miles away but I still hear the message every Sunday", "output": "Self-disclosure" }, { "input": "Can you send messages so the church knows you r ok", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "can you sign language the service and send it back for the church to reach others", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "Do u have away to record the service and sign language. Sign language the songs", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "So you have a way to sign for others.", "output": "Restatement or Paraphrasing" }, { "input": "You are Just like that little girl", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "Ask and you will receive", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "You are very gifted. ", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "Ok Be blessed. Have a Merry Christmas", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "Awesome and Good night", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "I am good. How about you?\n", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "Sure. I will be happy to. How many years have you been in the current position?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "Are you at a management position?", "output": "Information" }, { "input": "Your anxiety might come from the pandemic. a lot of people have this problem.", "output": "Reflection of feelings" }, { "input": "If it comes from the job insecurity, I would do it proactively and find another job first.", "output": "Self-disclosure" }, { "input": "You may exchange information with your colleagues and see if there is anything you don't know. \n", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "No. I never had such an experience.", "output": "Information" }, { "input": "The best strategy is to find another place. I don't have the intention to play with the office politics. ", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "Hi! How are you feeling today?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "I'm so sorry to hear that.", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "Can you tell me a little more?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "That is definitely understandable. When I first graduated from college, I went through the same thing and thought I would never find a job!", "output": "Self-disclosure" }, { "input": "What field do you work in?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "Just from this short conversation, I can tell how upset you are. It's definitely hard this year since people aren't traveling.", "output": "Reflection of feelings" }, { "input": "Have you tried any other jobs?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "You are supplementing income right here with Mturk! That was a great choice!", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "And the vaccine is starting to slowly roll out, I think many more people will feel more comfortable traveling soon, ", "output": "Information" }, { "input": "I understand why that is very scary! Do you live alone? Or is there another person bringing in income?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "Many landlords understand the struggle and are allowing tenants extra time when they can't pay. Is that the case for you?", "output": "Information" }, { "input": "It sounds like the stress of the unknown is really getting to you. I have definitely felt this way over the past year too, You aren't alone. When I start to fell stressed, I take a few deep breaths and focus on what I can control. ", "output": "Self-disclosure" }, { "input": "In your case, you can control how many applications you fill out. And it sounds like you are filling out many. I believe if you keep doing that, you will find a job.", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "You are doing everything you can do on your end. I know it's hard, but I think you can do it!", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "You're welcome.", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "Hello", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "how are you?", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "how may i help you today?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "what is making you sad?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "I can understand how you are feeling i had the same problem after i graduated", "output": "Reflection of feelings" }, { "input": "have you put in job applications everywhere", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "With this pandemic going on i know it is even more harder to get a job", "output": "Information" }, { "input": "you are right. Have you looked on the internet such as indeed?", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "yes they do i am familiar with that ", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "how is your resume looking?", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "Have you talked to someone in your family and see if they could help you with your resume to improve it", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "do not let this bring you down i know you will find a job soon it will just take time and you have to just be patient", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "have you tried to go to place and talk to a hiring boss about a job?", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "yes i can understand that.", "output": "Reflection of feelings" }, { "input": "all you can honestly really do right now is to try to improve your resume and see if that helps any and just keep searching for jobs and putting in applications and i know you will get a call from a job soon ", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "yes it has been a bad year for anything to happen", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "good thing is you graduated and congrats on that", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "your welcome hope my suggestions helped you today", "output": "Information" }, { "input": "i am glad i could help you ", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "you do the same and no problem :)", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "Hi how are you today?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "I'm sorry. Can you tell me what happened?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "I understand you are upset and caught off guard. ", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "What was his reasoning?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "Oh wow.... Thats horrible. How long were you with him? Sometimes people can surpise us. ", "output": "Reflection of feelings" }, { "input": "Just a bad year all around. I'm so sorry this has happened.. and right before christmas. ", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "Hopefully you can return his present if you got him one already. ", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "Do you have any plans for christmas? Maybe keeping yourself busy and distracted through the holidays will help.", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "YES. At least you found out before such a huge life choice. Its also better you found out now at 2 years instead of 4 years.", "output": "Reflection of feelings" }, { "input": "I'm sure you are filled with mixed emotions. Anyone would be. ", "output": "Reflection of feelings" }, { "input": "Like you said, you dont live with him. So it will be much easier to cut ties", "output": "Reflection of feelings" }, { "input": "You are very welcome. I wish you the best of luck", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "I hope you have a Merry Christmas", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "Good afternoon", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "Can I ask for a reason why", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "What is causing you to be sad", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "So this is a close friend", "output": "Restatement or Paraphrasing" }, { "input": "That could cause a sadness", "output": "Restatement or Paraphrasing" }, { "input": "Could it be for a reason you are unaware of", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "Maybe she is busy and the timing is off", "output": "Restatement or Paraphrasing" }, { "input": "Does your friend work", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "May not be a fight but she is busy settling in", "output": "Self-disclosure" }, { "input": "Does she live with her family", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "How long has it been since she moved in", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "have you thought about a housewarming gift", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "So just a week and she is settling in", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "Friendship is important maybe she needs to hear from you", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "Could she she is arranging the house to fit her style", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "Have you tried to visit her and see if you can help", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "sometimes people get overwhelmed and need a friend to be there", "output": "Reflection of feelings" }, { "input": "That would be a great idea, especially with the holidays", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "Yeah the virus has stopped a lot of people", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "Why not text her 1st to break the ice", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "But maybe she is feeling like she is alone also", "output": "Self-disclosure" }, { "input": "The virus is stopping people but we can find away", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "Does she have other family", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "The card could be a nice gift", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "Text and ask about her son", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "Surprise her with the card 1st", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "Then follow up with a phone call", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "hello, what is on your mind today?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "why do you think that?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "so, you hate people and they hate you back", "output": "Restatement or Paraphrasing" }, { "input": "if you hate people why would you care if they hated you back", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "it can atake time for people to change. if you change yourself if can take a while for others tosee the change and for them to adjust thier thoughts", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "pushing people away leads tounhappiness and misery. i did it for years", "output": "Self-disclosure" }, { "input": "a fresh start would be agreat way to do that", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "any idea where you would go?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "i did not know that, i am in school for my master's degree. i taught myself to read in kindergarden i am told lol. ", "output": "Restatement or Paraphrasing" }, { "input": "from what i have seem going through college though, i completely beleive it", "output": "Self-disclosure" }, { "input": "from what i have seem going through college though, i completely beleive it", "output": "Self-disclosure" }, { "input": "warm is nice. i used to live in florida ", "output": "Self-disclosure" }, { "input": "i can see that. but sometime syou just have to play actress/actor. deal with the stupidity and go home knowing you are better", "output": "Self-disclosure" }, { "input": "just pretend you are on thier level. when you get back home roll your eyes. eventaully you will find someone on your level. ", "output": "Reflection of feelings" }, { "input": "it can be frusterating i get it. good luck! ", "output": "Restatement or Paraphrasing" }, { "input": "hello! what is on your mind today?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "is is a new job that brought the boss, or are you at the same place and just have a new boss?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "wow, 5 or 6 bosses in 2 years? that is a lot. ", "output": "Restatement or Paraphrasing" }, { "input": "you must work in a high stress job!", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "is sounds like you know your job. perhaps you should go to hr and say next time there is a turnover for that position would would like to be considered? ", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "so it sounds like your boss was hired and wasnt really prepared.", "output": "Restatement or Paraphrasing" }, { "input": "maybe you can offer to help get them on board with the way that the company has been working>", "output": "Reflection of feelings" }, { "input": "if you are honest and say youve been with the company a while and have seen things not going so smooth and offer your experience, it cant hurt", "output": "Reflection of feelings" }, { "input": "you could even get a raise out of it ", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "i dont know how you do it. i would be really frusterated and looking for something better. you are strong!", "output": "Self-disclosure" }, { "input": "you need to be happy. you needa chance to actually move up in your carreer. you deserve it it sounds like", "output": "Restatement or Paraphrasing" }, { "input": "do you have a family?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "yes, i have had job where i felt stuck but it was security. i finnally go so miserable that i started applying to new jobs", "output": "Self-disclosure" }, { "input": "i did phone interviews first wiith companies that i was interested in that they wer interested in me. i got an offer for an in prson with a job i really wanted and i told my job i had a docture appointment. i went to the job interview. when i got the job i did my 1 weeks notice. i was more happy, was able to negotiate a higher salary", "output": "Self-disclosure" }, { "input": "i am a single parent so i get it. stability and security is the most inmortant. i think sometime we forget we deserve to be happy too\n", "output": "Restatement or Paraphrasing" }, { "input": "definately dont quit your job till you have something else lined up. that could hurt your family. but think of the positive aspect of your family seeing you come home happy because you love your job. and if you can negotiate moer money you can put it away for your childrens college\n", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "hello \n", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "how are you today", "output": "Restatement or Paraphrasing" }, { "input": "ok tell me about it", "output": "Restatement or Paraphrasing" }, { "input": "that is a hard position to be in. ", "output": "Restatement or Paraphrasing" }, { "input": "are you saying that the woman you are marrying is not the woman who is pregnant?\n", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "Do you think you should tell your fiancé? ", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "What do you think you will do. Tell your finance or not tell your fiance.\n", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "she will be your wife. this is important for her to know? ", "output": "Reflection of feelings" }, { "input": "Every man would be scared in your situation. This is a fact. But some with tell and some will not. ", "output": "Self-disclosure" }, { "input": "I cannot tell you what to do. I can tell you that you will make vows to your wife, to be honest and faithful. You have to decide if you want to lie or tell the truth", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "neither is wrong or right", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "I think you are making a good step towards a healthy marriage", "output": "Reflection of feelings" }, { "input": "good luck", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "Hi there!\n", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "What would you like to talk about today?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "It may be helpful to know.. my name is Ann. I am 43 years old... and I know for myself, I enjoy talking to people when I have concerns. ", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "What is going on? ", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "What has you worried? I know right now... its a hard time for so many people. I have struggled with my own anxiety the past few weeks.", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "Ah....relationship worries can be so draining and emotionally exhausting. I can understand that.", "output": "Restatement or Paraphrasing" }, { "input": "In your relationship, what has happened to create your worries?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "I can imagine how a break in trust has made you feel. I know a break in trust is always very difficult to process.", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "Oh I am sorry to hear that. Have you had a conversation with her about her actions and how they have made you feel?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "Do you feel that her actions and result can be remedied? Or is this such a fundamental break that you cannot reconcile?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "Understandable. I would feel similar, in truth. ", "output": "Reflection of feelings" }, { "input": "Only you know whether or not if you can look to forgiving and moving forward or if this is such a fundamental break that it is not something you can mend. ", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "And if you know that this is not something you wish to move forward with her that doesn’t make you a bad person. It means you are taking care of yourself first. ", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "Absolutely. Trust is to me a cornerstone of healthy relationships. So I can fully appreciate those feelings and needs. I think fundamentally as humans we want to partner with individuals who we find that we can feel safe with and trust ", "output": "Reflection of feelings" }, { "input": "I do think, and I am not sure how old you are, but infidelity is unfortunately not super rare. I have experienced it myself. I used some resources on even places like Reddit (Surviving Infidelity) to help me process what I had experienced and to also learn from others.", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "I also talked to a few friends who are married and had experienced infidelity. They chose to forgive each other. I learned a lot from them. It helped me to make up my own mind as to how I needed to move forward. I didn’t want to use a therapist since I do better with discussing ideas with multiple people.", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "But ultimately you may experience a lot of ups and downs. That is also normal. It is your mind and heart processing everything. Please do not get discouraged. ", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "Hello, how are you today?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "I'm better than I deserve. Does teaching your son give you a lot of anxiety?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "Alot of parents are experiencing the same difficulty, even I am experiencing trouble with my child. It is a lot of alien stress to us when, in the past, we were only responsible for ensuring that homework is done.", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "It's kind of a tired saying, but one strategy that has helped me is the One day at a time strategy. I'm sure you've heard of it. Basically, it means just do for today, don't worry about yesterday, don't stress over tomorrow, just treat this day as it's own task.", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "Then, within that, one task at a time. Segment things he wants to do then reward him with them upon successful completion of school-tasks.", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "For my example, my daughter very much likes to play video games. In order to earn video game time I need two successful assignments. They have to be small, reasonable tasks, but also an amount of time that allows you to take it one bite at a time.", "output": "Self-disclosure" }, { "input": "I mean, think about it, how do you eat a cow?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "Well, one piece at a time. I apologize for the strangeness of the reference.", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "You can't do it all at once, and neither can he. It's not a perfect solution, but its a solution that has worked for me.", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "This is a strange new world. Sometimes we have to try strange new things to cope.", "output": "Information" }, { "input": "I'm glad I was able to help.", "output": "Information" }, { "input": "I think you will find that a lot of your friends are in the same place.", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "And that adds to stress beyond the ad-hoc homeschooling. It is important to purposefully socialize by phone or chat with friends. We humans are social creatures, and you are not an island. We all need friends. My wife has been an amazing support, but I still make time to facetime with my buddies.", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "I'm grateful to be of help.", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "You also.", "output": "Information" }, { "input": "Hello! How are you doing today?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "I'm sorry to hear that. These are trying times. Is there anything specific making you feel so down?", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "I'm doing okay today, thank you for asking", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "Oh, I'm so sorry. I can empathize a bit. I lost mine earlier this year due to covid, but they did bring us back", "output": "Self-disclosure" }, { "input": "I'm sorry. It can definitely be difficult finding a new job, especially these days. ", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "Have you updated your resume? I always forget to update mine when I'm job searching. I leave out so much important information!", "output": "Self-disclosure" }, { "input": "That might be good. Try to include all those little details about what you did, even if it doesn't seem significant. I think it shows flexibility and willingness to like cross train and learn new skills", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "That's definitely a good way to save money, and I think the homemade gifts are more meaningful and full of love, anyway.\n\nAnd yes, of course!", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "Oh, I'm sure it will! Just knowing that you took the time and made the effort to make something personal for them is amazing!", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "I honestly don't know. Cover letters are weird, I never know how to do them correctly lol I don't know if they're there just to make sure you're following directions or if they're actually important. I like to think someone does, but I'm really not sure.", "output": "Restatement or Paraphrasing" }, { "input": "Applications are so weird! Why do I want to work here? Um, because these bills won't pay themselves lol", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "I think that's a good strategy. I think it would probably get more attention on your actual resume - there's probably more of a chance of it actually getting read lol ", "output": "Information" }, { "input": "It seems like the resume itself is more important than the cover letter", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "Hello, how can I help you today?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "I am doing well. What would you like to talk about?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "So you were planning to see them after three years but the pandemic has put a halt on that for the time being.\n", "output": "Restatement or Paraphrasing" }, { "input": "How far from you do they live?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "Wow! That is a long way. This pandemic will pass in time so you can visit them.", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "Are you able to video chat with them? Possibly with skype, facebook messenger, or zoom. Seeing their faces on the screen could help to ease the sadness.", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "I can sympathize with you, my sister, niece, and nephew live on the other side of the country, about 3000 miles away. I know it's hard to be so far away.", "output": "Self-disclosure" }, { "input": "What type of plans do you have when you see them?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "I hope this pandemic ends quickly so that you get to see your family soon.", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "you can call them anytime your sad and missing them.", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "Hello, how are you?\n", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "I can understand taking a test can be stressful. Have you been studying for it?", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "What subject matter is it for? What have you done to prepare for it?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "What level of schooling are you in now?\n", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "Papers can be very stressful, especially when it is a group project. When I went to graduate school I had to complete 4 full papers on different subjects in 72 hours.", "output": "Self-disclosure" }, { "input": "Do you feel like you've made progress in finding the necessary information?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "I'm sure that if everyone puts in the effort, you will all be successful with your paper. Is there anything I can do to help?", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "I can tell you're stressed about it and group projects are very hard. Perhaps you can all put a plan together an allocate tasks to make sure that everyone puts in their share of the work? Is that something you've considered?", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "I've been in this situation. Instead of stressing yourself about it, have you tried speaking to your professor or other group mates about making sure that everyone pulls their weight? Some professors take that into consideration.", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "I found in my experience that professors are very receptive to hear about how others are performing in the group and will weigh that information when grading.", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "I hope that you find that suggestion helpful. When is your paper due?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "Well, the good news is once you submit it, you'll be able to enjoy a holiday break and hopefully de-stress! I am sure that you will do great!", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "I'm so happy to hear that! Sometimes we just need to talk it out a little !", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "You're welcome and good luck with your paper!", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "hello, how are you tonight ?\n", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "I am really sorry to hear that your going through that right now, What happened tonight ? ", "output": "Restatement or Paraphrasing" }, { "input": "was there an argument ", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "I totally understand having financial issues , this is a hard time for so many people. I am sensing that this has been esspecially hard on your relationship, did one of you lose a job? ", "output": "Reflection of feelings" }, { "input": "This time of year can be really tough and stressfull. Have you looked into government funded programs for support?", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "there are lots of things you can do , I have been having hard time myself. I had my work hours myself and have had to get creatuve ti stay aflot.", "output": "Self-disclosure" }, { "input": "there are many local agencies to help with things ike rent and electric ", "output": "Information" }, { "input": "yes! also , there are many panties around most cities and local churches that help with that stuff ", "output": "Information" }, { "input": "with the recent change in our economy i have found that there are many places willing to help , things are not hopless and it sounds like you are motuvated", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "motivated", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "thats great !! in the meantime, have you tried talking to your partner about the situation and asking her to help out ?", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "it sounds to me like you are willing to do what it takes to be sucsessfull", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "oh im sorry to hear that, how does that make you feel? also there are also many midfullness activities you can use to reduce your level of stress and axiety like meditation", "output": "Reflection of feelings" }, { "input": "its really hard to do everything all by yourself. It seems like you are a good person with a good heart. ", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "hi how are you?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "that's great you're doing well 'right now' but what happened prior that you weren't all right?", "output": "Restatement or Paraphrasing" }, { "input": "Oh I'm sorry. I'm sure you did fine. We all feel that way after exams! ", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "have you felt this way with prior exams? if so, did you really fail or did you do okay?\n", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "wow 5 classes is a lot! So you didn't have time to study? Did you go to class and do the work throughout the semester?", "output": "Restatement or Paraphrasing" }, { "input": "I wonder if you can contact the professor and go over your exam with him/her to set your anxiety at ease?", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "how do you get your exam grade and test papers back?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "have you spoken to people in the class with you?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "maybe he'll curve the grade then if a lot of people didn't do well", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "oh wow. hopefully you can re-take it then if you really didn't do well. I bet if you go through your notes and your book and compare to test questions you did better than you thought!", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "if you're good you can quit (I can't!)", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "you, too! good luck :) ", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "oh wow! I didn't know - 3 more minutes. We can do it! I'm glad I don't have to study and take exams. After the exams are the worst! Not too badly right now. But every day is a new day :) ", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "that's insane! I did Chem and Bio ONE semester at the same time - with 8 hours of labs a week - I quickly changed majors. I respect what you're doing!", "output": "Self-disclosure" }, { "input": "I am way past that stage - my son is starting college in the fall", "output": "Self-disclosure" }, { "input": "I am a day trader - business is a lot easier :) ", "output": "Self-disclosure" }, { "input": "nice! it's really fun. I have a few 'gigs' I work on but that is my favorite. And thank you about my son. I don't miss school - he's already ready to graduate! ", "output": "Self-disclosure" }, { "input": "you, too! Maybe we will meet again!", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "Hello! How are you today?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "Me too. I know alot of people and feeling the same way right now.", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "I can agree with that! My children seems to always be needing something. It can sometimes feel overwhelming.", "output": "Self-disclosure" }, { "input": "Have you tried reaching out to friends or other family members to help take some of the load off? It may help to even get an afternoon for yourself.", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "Yes this would also make me feel isolated as well. ", "output": "Reflection of feelings" }, { "input": "I have heard of some people receiving assistance from their community by supplying food and basic needs. This may be worth looking into.", "output": "Information" }, { "input": "Yes I am sure it may help relieve some of the stress your are feeling.", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "What type of activities do you enjoy when you do have time alone?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "Me too! I try to read whenever I can. It can take you out of the moment of the daily grind. I have a long list of books to get to.", "output": "Self-disclosure" }, { "input": "You're welcome! I am glad that I could help.", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "Hello, what brings you to bring the seeker?\n", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "I did not see it. What is your situation? I am here to listen.\n", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "I feel like dying all the time. It's very common for people to be depressed. Feel ashamed how?\n", "output": "Self-disclosure" }, { "input": "So you are saying that you can't live regularly and people don't understand that your mind isn't working in your favor. Is that right? Can you tell me what you mean by your mind being your enemy?\n", "output": "Restatement or Paraphrasing" }, { "input": "That sounds very hard. I can understand how judgmental people can be, and of course, why you wouldn't want people to notice you if it was hard for you to take care of yourself.", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "What do you do to cope?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "That makes sense why you would want to avoid doing these things, which is a good thing, but is there anything that you try to do that isn't avoidance? Something that approaches something?", "output": "Information" }, { "input": "How do you feel about therapy?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "That is unfortunate, but I understand. We haven't finished, the task, however, but I hope you feel better.", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "I think we just need 3 more responses each, let's say. ", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "Okay, so can you tell me how frequently you sleep?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "That sounds awful. I'm sorry. Have you tried researching or practicing any sleep hygiene? ", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "Smoking and drinking alcohol can cause sleep problems before bed. Do you do those things? What troubles your rest, you think?", "output": "Information" }, { "input": "Hello", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "how are you?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "I'm sorry. what's going on?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "whoa, that's pretty messed up! ", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "how long were you together?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "wow, I definitely wouldn't go through with that then. Are you sure he was cheating?", "output": "Restatement or Paraphrasing" }, { "input": "did he admit to it? I would agree that he probably doesn't feel the way you want him to. ", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "but you know for certain?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "oh gotcha. yeah that is really messed up. ", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "how long were you two together?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "That's horrible. ", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "Have you been able to talk to friends about it? ", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "Do you have any friends who you can talk to it about it? Some people around you who know you really well?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "You definitely need to eat and sleep even though you don't feel like it. You have to take care of yourself even though it feels hard.", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "Guys are a dime a dozen. I don't know what that really means but I think it has something to do with being able to get guys easily. ", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "I think if you really focus on what you need right now, you'll be able to realize that you dodged a bullet. You don't want to be with a cheater. you should want to be with someone who respects you and treats you well", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "I think if you make some time for yourself and talk to your friends you'll feel a bit better even though it sucks.", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "I hear you, I've had to start over again lots of times. but the right guy is out there. ", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "Just imagine how bad it would have been if you found out after you moved in with him. You dodged a bullet! ", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "are you still there?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "Hello?", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "Hello\n", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "I am well, how are you/\n", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "What is it that I can help you with?\n", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "What tests are you struggling with?\n", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "So from what I understand, you are struggling with study strategies to help you pass your tests?\n", "output": "Restatement or Paraphrasing" }, { "input": "I am in school as well and I struggle with ways to study for tests as well. \n", "output": "Self-disclosure" }, { "input": "Are there any online study groups that you could join for these classes? I found it is very helpful to study with other students who are struggling in the same way I am.\n", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "Have you thought about connecting through zoom, or google meet? Video conferencing\n has become very popular since COVID began. ", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "It definitely takes some getting used to, but after you get used to it, it is a great tool@\n", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "No problem! I know school is incredibly\n difficult, but I know you can get through this!", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "Hi there\n", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "Sorry I was temporarily distracted. Is there anything that you'd like to talk to me about? ", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "I am okay thanks. How is life treating you? ", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "It is a very hard time to get a new business going, isn't it? Are you having problems due to the pandemic? ", "output": "Restatement or Paraphrasing" }, { "input": "I have also been having financial woes at this time. ", "output": "Self-disclosure" }, { "input": "Well it's great that you've got a business venture! Do you have experience with this sort of thing? ", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "That sounds like an excellent idea to me! I think that you are definitely doing the right thing. ", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "Have you looked into organisations that might help small business owners like yourself? There are some out there ", "output": "Information" }, { "input": "Alas I think that we all do at the moment - I am struggling myself to find those things. ", "output": "Self-disclosure" }, { "input": "LOL so you feel like you just don't have enough help to complete all your orders? Could you hire an assistant? ", "output": "Restatement or Paraphrasing" }, { "input": "Good evening.\n", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "How are you this evening?\n", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "Are you someone who has immune issues?\n", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "Just to clarify, you are extremely anxious about the pandemic and the affect it may have on you because of your weakened immune system.\n", "output": "Restatement or Paraphrasing" }, { "input": "Just from the few messages we have exchanged, I can tell it makes you very anxious \n", "output": "Reflection of feelings" }, { "input": "Have you reached out to support groups for people with auto-immune issues? it is often helpful to speak with people who are experiencing the same issues you are.\n", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "Have you talked to him about the way he reacts to your immune issues? Sometimes people don't realize they are not being helpful and they think they are doing good when they aren't. \n", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "Have you asked what his feelings are towards it? Maybe he is afraid and worried about your health and he isn't sure how to express it and sometimes it comes off as uninterested.\n", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "Have you been able to talk to your kids about this as well?\n", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "Yea, with young kids it is hard to tell sometimes\n", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "I know this is extremely hard, but I know you can make it through this!\n", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "Good evening\n", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "How are you tonight?\n", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "I'm doing well.\n", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "What can I help you with?\n", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "I am very sorry to hear that.\n", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "Did she give you reasons why she wants a divorce?\n", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "Just from the few messages we have exchanged I can tell you are very upset about this.\n", "output": "Reflection of feelings" }, { "input": "I completely understand, my ex-wife also found someone else while we were married and decided she wanted a divorce.\n", "output": "Self-disclosure" }, { "input": "Have you asked her about why she started looking for someone else? Sometimes it helps to get some closure and understand the reasons why.\n", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "Have you reached out to others who have been through this situation? It also helps to be able to talk to people who have been through the same things as us. \n", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "That is definitely a good start!\n", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "What are some hobbies you enjoy?\n", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "I would definitely get back into that stuff too! It helps to distract yourself with things you enjoy!\n", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "I had that problem as well, but doing things I enjoyed definitely helped to get my mid off of my ex-wife leaving. \n", "output": "Self-disclosure" }, { "input": "I know this is extremely hard, but I know you can get through this!\n", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "I can understand that.\n", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "Try and find new music, maybe something you haven't listened to before!\n", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "I had a really difficult time with that as well, I just tried to make sure I stuck with my hobbies and distract myself. \n", "output": "Self-disclosure" }, { "input": "What other things do you like to do for fun?\n", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "I think finding new hobbies would be good. Try new things, things you haven't done before. \n", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "I think it will definitely help\n", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "Not a problem! Feel free to chat again if you need it1\n", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "Hi there, how are you doing right now? \n", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "So you are not having a good time at the moment? Can you tell me a little more about why? ", "output": "Restatement or Paraphrasing" }, { "input": "Your wife has been unfaithful to you? I can understand why you are so angry about that! ", "output": "Restatement or Paraphrasing" }, { "input": "Have the two of you considered counselling or are things beyond redemption now? ", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "I am really sorry to hear that. I do know personally how betrayed you feel when you are cheated on. All I can say is, it does get better. ", "output": "Self-disclosure" }, { "input": "It sounds like you have been treated very poorly, do you agree with that? ", "output": "Reflection of feelings" }, { "input": "Are there potential financial issues or do you think she'd be prepared to reach an amicable settlement? ", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "She does not seem to have stayed true to her marriage vows for very long! ", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "Wow that is very difficult. There are support agencies out there that can help the friends and family of addicts, I believe. Would you consider them? ", "output": "Information" }, { "input": "That sounds really very controlling. Do you think that maybe she is regretting her decision but does not know what to do about it? ", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "Sometimes, unfortunately, you do just have to walk away from a mess if there's nothing you can do about it ", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "I hear you on that. Unfortunately some people do not take commitment as seriously as others. I have been in that position and had my heart broken. ", "output": "Self-disclosure" }, { "input": "Oh, I tracked him down and smashed his head in with an axe. Okay no I didn't really. I just told myself that I was better off without him and it was his loss. I am not sure I totally believed myself though. ", "output": "Self-disclosure" }, { "input": "(sorry I had a temporary internet connection problem there) ", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "I would advise not to rush into anything else too quickly. ", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "You need to give yourself time to grieve before you move on ", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "I hope that I have been able to be of some comfort to you! ", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "And you too! Goodbye :) ", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "I'm sorry to hear this. Is there something specifically bothering you?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "You don't think people like you or care about you at work? What specifically have they done to make you think this?", "output": "Restatement or Paraphrasing" }, { "input": "I can understand that might make you feel uncomfortable. ", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "I have been in many work situations and even social situations where I did not feel as if I fit in, I'm rather an unusual person. I had to learn to not focus so much on BEING accepted. I had to learn what God think of me (he loves me) and try to be kind to all I meet, other centered. That is, I also had to make sure I wasn't being rude or mean. ", "output": "Self-disclosure" }, { "input": "I can understand how hurtful that is. Our society isn't as kind as it once was. I find very few people appreciate kindness. However, I can't get caught up in that, it's the way people are. It isn't a reflection of myself.", "output": "Reflection of feelings" }, { "input": "I think it is the hardest thing to be more concerned with others than we are with ourselves, it can be lonely. ", "output": "Self-disclosure" }, { "input": "I think you can be kind to them, but I think perhaps your expectations are that they reciprocate, and they aren't which hurts. Perhaps be kind without expecting anything in return, and know that God sees your kindness.\n", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "I also had this happen, I had no friends and at first I thought it was me, then I realized it was an opportunity for personal growth. Which wasn't easy. ", "output": "Self-disclosure" }, { "input": "How do you feel they take advantage?", "output": "Reflection of feelings" }, { "input": "Being ignored is one thing, having someone take advantage of you is a different story. ", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "I understand. Yes, then they definitely are taking advantage. Have you read anything on setting boundaries and learning how to say no? ", "output": "Reflection of feelings" }, { "input": "I had learned once that it is so important to be able to easily say no because then we are free to say yes. Because if we say yes because we CAN'T say no, then we feel resentful. So If I can freely say no to you, then i am free to say yes, if that makes sense. Although for me, it was hard to say no, but it gets easier, now it is easy. It wasn't at first. ", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "If I always say yes, because I can't say no, I feel obligated and resentful, when really, it's me with the problem, I had a hard time saying no because I didn't want to hurt people. Now, I do the right thing in my heart, if I want to help, I help, if I want to say no, I say no even if it is hard, I don't care if they get upset. I can say no, that's true freedom.", "output": "Information" }, { "input": "I don't advise treating people the way they treat you though. I would remain a kind person. Be the person you are no matter what type of person they are. You have to stand before God one day. If they are ugly, that's on them. But you want to be a kind person. That's the right thing, and you CAN be kind and say no. Those two are fine together! :D", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "I suggest a book called \"Bounderies\" one of the authors is Townsend -- great book.", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "Might be on youtube too. Good stuff on how to say no and set boundaries! :D ", "output": "Information" }, { "input": "I think you have identified your problem and looked at it and you seem intelligent and caring! I'm sure you will be able to figure this out. You seem like a nice person to me, and I just met you. You seem emotionally mature, able to discuss your problems and think about it in a mature way. ", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "A lot of people will just blame others and not change. We can't change others, we can only change ourselves. That's the hard part but recognizing we can change and must is so important!", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "You are welcome! Have a nice evening! ", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "Hello there, how is life treating you at the moment? ", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "So you are experiencing problems at work? Please tell me about it, I am happy to listen. ", "output": "Restatement or Paraphrasing" }, { "input": "I am very sorry to hear that - trouble with workmates, especially those who are in a higher position, can make things very miserable can't they? ", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "Have you considered going over her head and putting in a complaint? Especially if she is making everyone else miserable as well. Someone more senior might be able to do something. ", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "Please try to stay positive - bullies never prosper in the long term. I think that you need to talk to your co-workers about this and see if you can come to some sort of arrangement between you ", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "Alternatively, have you ever considered seeking another job? I know that that might feel like selling out but you might be happier somewhere else ", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "I feel that that is fair enough. You should not be working to make up for her failures and I hear you saying that you feel that this is w hat is happening? ", "output": "Reflection of feelings" }, { "input": "(sorry was afk give me a second to catch up :)) ", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "I really feel that you have grounds for a formal complaint. Just her being incapable is bad enough but bullying too is unacceptable ", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "Anonymous reporting sounds like a good thing, as long as it's not being abused. This sounds like a very good time to use it though ", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "I hope I have been able to give you some good advice here! ", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "You are most welcome, enjoy your day! ", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "Good evening. What would you like to talk about? ", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "How are you feeling at the moment? ", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "So you have lost some books? Were they important to you? ", "output": "Restatement or Paraphrasing" }, { "input": "So you have lost a book that is worth a thousand dollars? I can imagine you are feeling really bad about that ", "output": "Reflection of feelings" }, { "input": "I do not know .. have you considered taking an extra job on the side? ", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "Have you tried to get help with finding the books? Someone could have handed them in. ", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "Do you have any idea of where you lost them? ", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "I am sorry, I do not understand what you mean ", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "Try not to worry, it is entirely possible that someone has found them and handed them in to the authorities. You might still get them back! ", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "That is really not fair of them. Is there a higher authority you can take your case to? ", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "They really should be doing more to help you. I know how frustrating it feels to lose something valuable. ", "output": "Self-disclosure" }, { "input": "I did lose a really expensive ring one time but I got it back a week later ", "output": "Self-disclosure" }, { "input": "I can understand why it would be! Please try not to worry, all is not lost ", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "That is a good idea. I hope that they have not been deliberately stolen. ", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "Well, I hope that I have been able to offer some useful suggestions. Do you feel a bit better about things now? ", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "Thank you for talking and enjoy your day! ", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "you're welcome :) you have to end the conversation from your end because I can't \n", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "hi there, is there anything troubling you today? ", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "I am happy to talk about anything you might have on your mind. ", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "Ouch that is a very long way. So you feel that you are going to be distanced from your loved ones and might lose touch with them? ", "output": "Restatement or Paraphrasing" }, { "input": "I know how it feels to move to another part of the country. I guess you are nervous about it and unsure if you're doing the right thing ", "output": "Self-disclosure" }, { "input": "Would you consider relocating with you? ", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "they consider, sorry. ", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "It is a difficult time to be making new friends, with all the social distancing policies in place ", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "How often would you be able to visit your parents and siblings? ", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "I think that they will still know that you love and care for them no matter how far away you are ", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "Are there any comparably paid jobs that you could take that do not involve moving? ", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "I do understand that the job market is really difficult right now. Would your siblings not be able to take care of your parents though? ", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "Do you feel that they are not committed enough to your parents? ", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "It is very difficult to know what to say. It is a big worry and I wonder if you can be happy in your new environment if you can't be sure that what you've left behind is okay ", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "Is it possible that you are worrying unnecessarily though? ", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "Have you considered looking into other forms of help that your parents could have when you are not there? There are organisations that could check in on them ", "output": "Information" }, { "input": "I am sure that she'd not want you to sacrifice your happiness and financial security though ", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "It is good that you love your mum so much and are worried about her happiness. ", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "I am not sure to be honest. You could try contacting your local Citizen's Advice Bureau? ", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "I hope that I have been able to be of some help to you ", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "You need to press quit now ... I can't do it from this end : )", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "you're welcome, have a lovely day ", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "Hello, how may I help you today?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "what makes you worried?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "what grade is he in?", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "How is his report card looking?", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "I can understand that. I hated school to.", "output": "Reflection of feelings" }, { "input": "Have you tried talking to his teacher?", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "I know how you feel of course you going to worry because that is your child and you want him to do his best in school", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "Have you recommended getting a tutor for him?", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "No i have no children but i can understand where you coming from", "output": "Reflection of feelings" }, { "input": "you are right. Have you tried helping him with his work?", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "Has he showed you his trouble areas?", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "i understand. have you had a talk with him about his progress in school and tell explain to him why school is important", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "yes being firm with a child will sometimes help them understand ", "output": "Information" }, { "input": "also i remember when i was in school my parents did this thing to where they would reward me with a toy or going to my favorite place if i got good grades and that actually worked for me it made me want to do my work and get good grades.", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "sometimes something like that will help with children and sometimes it wont", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "you should see how that goes and take it from there.", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "Hi", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "I'm good, How are you?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "I'm sorry to hear that. Is that causing stress for you?", "output": "Restatement or Paraphrasing" }, { "input": "Times are very tough right now. It's pretty crazy how covid has impacted everything. ", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "Do you interact with your friends at all now? ", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "I've been struggling too, not being able to see my friends. I've been forcing myself to text them more or do phone calls or meet in person. ", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "I spend so much time on my computer with work now that I try to avoid video calls. ", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "have you met them in person since covid started? ", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "That makes it hard. Have you talked to your friends about how they are feeling? Is there maybe some compromises you can make to see them more but keep distancing?\n", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "You should give them a call. Just out of the blue, nothing commuting. Just a casual chat and see if they want to do something. If finding something to do doesn't work out during the call, at least you contacted them and maybe will feel a bit better because you talked to them. ", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "It doesn't have to be much but even just a little conversation can go a long way\n", "output": "Restatement or Paraphrasing" }, { "input": "No problem. I hope you feel better. ", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "Hi! Is there anything you'd like to talk to me about today? ", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "I am sorry to hear that. Would you like to tell me what the problem is? ", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "I can understand how that feels - I have not been able to go out for weeks either. Are you able to have visitors? ", "output": "Self-disclosure" }, { "input": "That is very rough. Have you considered joining internet communities so you can at least talk with people who are in the same situation? ", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "I think it really could, yes. Isolation is a very difficult thing to deal with. Just knowing someone else understood could really help. ", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "There is absolutely no problem with feeling bad and confiding in people. Many people are feeling the same right now. ", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "So you feel as though life is just passing you by and you are not accomplishing anything during the lockdown? ", "output": "Restatement or Paraphrasing" }, { "input": "Try to focus on the fact that it will be a new year soon - it surely can't (fingers crossed!) be worse than this one ", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "Facebook is a great online site and there are lots of groups there for all interests ", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "Please trust me that it will not. Time goes really slowly during a crisis, it seems ", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "It feels great to be able to help people. I really wish you all the best in the coming weeks and months. Enjoy the rest of you day! ", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "I hope you can find some like minded people there ", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "(you need to quit from your end as I can't :)) \n", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "I good, how are you feeling?\n", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "So you think that COVID-19 has made you depressed? Could there be anything else that could be bothering you?", "output": "Restatement or Paraphrasing" }, { "input": "I completely understand where you are coming from there. I feel like remote learning takes away from some of the social aspects of life that need to happen in order for a healthy life.\n", "output": "Reflection of feelings" }, { "input": "I understand that as well. It seems that no matter how politically involved we are, things are always changing.", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "Change is a good thing though as it makes us stronger as people. Do you have any hobbies/interests?", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "Sometimes some of the best things we can do is t get out and away from all the things that WE as people have created. Get into the woods and throw a ball around.", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "I understand, especially having the remote learning going on, it is hard to get away from work and school.", "output": "Self-disclosure" }, { "input": "I try to, I love packing a day back with some easy snacks, and going out for a hike through the woods. Sometimes I use the state trails but sometimes I just go out and make my own new trail. ", "output": "Self-disclosure" }, { "input": "Well, drinking doesn't really deal with it. It only pushes things off for later to deal with. Exercising is a really good way to deal with that stress.", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "That's true! I used to live in Ohio, and the weather was amazing this time of year. ", "output": "Self-disclosure" }, { "input": "Are you able to do more workouts? Sometimes I have found that running (which I hate doing) makes me feel so much better in times of high stress. Running also releases endorphins into the body which will help to alleviate some of the drinking/stress.", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "Is there anything else I can help you with?", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "Hello there, how are you feeling today? ", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "I understand. Is this related to the pandemic or is it something separate? I am sure that the pandemic has not helped, though! ", "output": "Restatement or Paraphrasing" }, { "input": "Oh I can certainly relate to that one! I've gained a stone and a half in the last year. All this sitting around is not good for us! ", "output": "Self-disclosure" }, { "input": "Sometimes just having someone to talk to who knows how you are feeling can be really helpful I think. ", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "Can you make a list of all the things that you hope will be better next year so you can tick them off one by one? ", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "Well, the first and third one are out of your control really but you could make a start on the first one today if you liked :) ", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "I can understand that. Perhaps you could join an exercise class or similar? ", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "I took an aerobics class once. It was quite fun and it was good exercise. ", "output": "Self-disclosure" }, { "input": "Well, it's maybe not the best time to be taking on a financial commitment but have you ever considered adopting a dog? Good company and good exercise ", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "Ah I have two - they are wonderful company. Alas you can't really walk with them though :) ", "output": "Self-disclosure" }, { "input": "Pets are great like that. Do you perhaps have a neighbour whose dog you could walk if you can't get one of your own? ", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "It's a great way to make new friends too!", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "Would you consider doing some voluntary work whilst you are out of work? ", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "I think it would be a really worthwhile thing to do and you would get to meet new people too", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "I hope I have been able to help you a little! ", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "You are very welcome, it was my pleasure. Have a great day! ", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "Hello, how are you doing?\n", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "I'm doing well. Do you have anything you'd like to talk about?\n", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "Will this new job benefit you and your family more than the job you currently have?", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "I understand that changes like that can cause some anxious feelings. ", "output": "Reflection of feelings" }, { "input": "Are you able to keep in contact with them through video calls if you move away?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "Maybe you could discuss everything with your family and see how everyone else feels about it.", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "Hi there, how are you feeling today? ", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "I hear you. It's been a terrible year all round for job seekers, given the global situation at the moment. I have been there myself. ", "output": "Self-disclosure" }, { "input": "Well, firstly I think you need to accept that this is not your fault and that at the moment the world situation is beyond your control. ", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "Are you able to cope financially whilst you are out of work? ", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "Perhaps you could take on some gig work just to earn a little extra spare cash? ", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "I understand. I have been in the same situation and I know how frightening it is. Have you though of consulting agencies such as food banks that can help you temporarily? ", "output": "Self-disclosure" }, { "input": "So you feel that you can at least manage for a few more weeks? ", "output": "Restatement or Paraphrasing" }, { "input": "I think it might be a good idea for you to consult your doctor? It sounds as though you might be suffering from depression. ", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "I am sorry to hear that. I have had therapy but it is free in my country. Are there any charities that might offer a limited amount of counselling time? ", "output": "Self-disclosure" }, { "input": "Would you be prepared to take on a job that is outside of your normal field and income bracket, just temporarily? ", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "I know that it is very difficult with so many businesses being forced to close. Would you be prepared to do delivery work, perhaps? ", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "Yes. Or most restaurants are offering take out services at the moment so there will be delivery services out there ", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "You are most welcome. I hope that things will pick up come the new year and you can get back to your regular profession! Just try to think of this as a stop gap ", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "I am glad to have been of help .. enjoy the rest of your day! ", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "You have to end it from your end .. I can't :) ", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "just hit quit and take the survey :) ", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "I'm so sorry to hear that. What is going on in your life?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "I see. That is certainly difficult. How often do you feel sad or blue over this situation?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "I think it is great that you stood up for yourself and broke up with him. That is something to be proud of. ", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "I am so sorry... Do you think a few years from now, after the pain of this situation has gotten easier to handle, you'll be happy with your decision to end the relationship? I know it can be hard to think so far in the future. ", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "Maybe something you can do is think about all this time in a more positive light. Instead of saying you wasted time, maybe you can think to yourself, \"I am so glad that relationship taught me about myself and my standards.\" Does that sound good?", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "That's such a great approach. Do you have hobbies and interests outside of your relationship that brought you joy? Maybe running, painting, or watching movies?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "I am so happy to hear that. ", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "Maybe you can take a day soon and go on a \"date\" with yourself. You can go out on the boat and have a fantastic, drama-free time. Does that sound like something you're interested in?", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "You are so welcome. I am glad to help you. ", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "I think you're going to feel a lot better soon! I'm very happy for your future. ", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "Me too. ", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "Hello how are you today?\n", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "I am so sorry your not feeling well\n", "output": "Restatement or Paraphrasing" }, { "input": "It's been cold and dreary here always makes me feel run down\n", "output": "Self-disclosure" }, { "input": "It's been cold and dreary here always makes me feel run down\n", "output": "Self-disclosure" }, { "input": "Oh I know that feeling it can be rough I have felt that way lately. \n", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "What in your life has you feeling stuck?\n", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "I think we all can feel that right now and can be hard \n", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "What about your job has you worried?\n", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "I been there recently myself the entire workforce as we know it is changing. Have you thought of looking for other employment?\n", "output": "Self-disclosure" }, { "input": "Have you thought of working from home alot of companies are starting to hire remote workers\n", "output": "Information" }, { "input": "There are several reputable sites that offer MOOCS it is a type of certification you can get in different fields some you can learn for free and only have to buy a certificate if you really need it\n", "output": "Information" }, { "input": "I would definitely look into it ", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "I know the pandemic is a very stressful time for everyone but we need to do our best to make our lives better and not let it break us", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "There you go!\n", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "So true and even I get worried but I have to just keep calm and remind myself things like this have happened before and will again. \n", "output": "Self-disclosure" }, { "input": "have you looked into deferment?\n", "output": "Information" }, { "input": "I'm glad\n", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "Exactly you got this never know you may come out with a whole new career!\n", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "Your so welcome was there anything else I could help you with today\n", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "Your so welcome and have a great day and stay safe!\n", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "Thank you", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "Did you need anything else?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "Anything particular got you down? Hello", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "Yea bad year for everyone. The virus has really stopped us.", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "Are you working or on layoff", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "That is an understatement with the politics", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "What do you do", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "I Freelance my self", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "Do you work for anyone or just in general", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "Good. I write on a forum called Medium", "output": "Self-disclosure" }, { "input": "I write and can get paid also", "output": "Self-disclosure" }, { "input": "There are various topics you can write about. Just write and post", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "Are you a copywriter", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "I read different postings and have over 30 followers", "output": "Self-disclosure" }, { "input": "But if you write on Medium you can earn money", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "I ask that about copywriting because I am on LinkedIn", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "There is also proofreading that can help establish yourself", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "I use Medium and now I also have another account with them called Patreon", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "Nope i am a born again Christian", "output": "Self-disclosure" }, { "input": "are you a machine", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "I enjoy writing and speaking my mind", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "But you are still alive. ", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "Medium only cost 5 a month and you can make money writing about what you have experienced", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "There is actually 4 or 5 different marketing brands with Medium", "output": "Information" }, { "input": "What is your main thing to write about besides movies", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "So write and post. Share with others", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "I just wrote about aviation and also about politics", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "Hello good how are you\n", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "I'm sorry your bummed what's wrong?\n", "output": "Restatement or Paraphrasing" }, { "input": "I'm sorry to hear that this year seems to be rough when it comes to jobs\n", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "I lost my job after 5 years due to COVID\n", "output": "Self-disclosure" }, { "input": "Seriously? Have you tried discussing the issue with anyone at work?\n", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "Thank you it's okay I decided to use this time to get out of my comfort zone and explore new options.", "output": "Self-disclosure" }, { "input": "Is taking some online courses to up your skills make you more of an asset a possibility? Maybe that could help raise it back up?\n", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "I to be honest started looking in to Remote work and found there there is alot more options now\n", "output": "Self-disclosure" }, { "input": "i have a degree in business so i have been looking more in anything computer related or business you of course have to be careful stick to companies you know or reputable job sites and of course if they want money it's not something you want to get into. But I do alot of call center type stuff or data entry. Coding is real big right now and there are alot of online courses you can take for free\n", "output": "Self-disclosure" }, { "input": "it's really just up to you what do you like to do or what would you like to do. Right now the possibilities are endless\n", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "Exactly as i always say if the door closes try the window lol\n", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "You just have to remember we can either be strong and come out on top of this or well... We want a positive solution :)\n", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "Anytime! Was there anything else i could help you with today?\n", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "hello how re you today?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "good! How can i help you?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "I understand. Covid 19 has complicated things. What kind of job are you interested in?", "output": "Restatement or Paraphrasing" }, { "input": "I understand. Covid has made things super tight. What scares you about the virus?", "output": "Restatement or Paraphrasing" }, { "input": "I understand. You are scared to put them in danger, correct?", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "with keeping your family in mind while trying to find a job have you considered looking for an online job? Just from chatting with you I can tell how much it stresses you out.", "output": "Reflection of feelings" }, { "input": "I understand I felt that way when trying to find new opportunities for myself. I kept looking and tried to apply the skills I learned to fit into the new requirements. Maybe a call representative. i assume from previous experience you have excellent customer service skills", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "From that answer i believe that job could be a good fit!", "output": "Information" }, { "input": "With Covid I also lost my job. I looked online and it is currently a field I am pursuing. I don't do call center work but i do social media marketing all from the comfort of my home", "output": "Self-disclosure" }, { "input": "Do you have a quiet room and your own personal laptop? some places provide laptops. If so that is all you will need and most do online training", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "Yes I am glad to help!", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "I hope so to! with your skills you definitely should be able to!", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "You're welcome! I hope you have a good day", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "Hello there", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "How are things going?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "Is there anything in particular that has been bothering you recently?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "I'm really sorry to hear that, but I'm sure your love for your kids can still shine through", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "Would it be possible to look at some more home made stuff for this year that will still be fun and meaningful?", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "I know it can be really hard to feel like you can't make anything worthwhile, but I'm sure theres something you could come up with that could still put a smile on your kids faces\n", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "Maybe you could look at involving your kids in the process. The feeling of doing something together as a family can make it way more fun. It could be a shared experience your family can look back on fondly later on. \n", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "I have seen some people make small ornaments filled with candies and treats and other small goodies. So even if all of the gifts feel small, they can feel like they are getting a lot of them. And you could even get them to have fun decorating and painting the ornaments!", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "Yeah, a box fort is really fun!", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "When I was a kid, I loved making box forts, and its a great way to reuse stuff you might already have around the house. The fun pretend games you can play were a blast. I'm sure your kids might love it too!", "output": "Self-disclosure" }, { "input": "It can feel tough when it feels like you can't provide all the big gifts that you feel your kids deserve", "output": "Reflection of feelings" }, { "input": "But you clearly care and love your kids, and want to do something for them", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "Last Christmas when I gave gifts to my family, one of them later told me that the gift they loved the most was the box of Christmas cookies that they were able to enjoy over the course of the week afterwards, and not the keyboard I had gotten them. Sometimes it doesn't take something expensive to be meaningful and make someone happy\n", "output": "Self-disclosure" }, { "input": "I'm really glad to hear that. It still might feel tough, but truly things are not hopeless\n", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "Hi, what's going on?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "Oooff that sounds brutal... especially the excel part!", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "do you have a bigger screen you can use?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "Do you have access to a second screen or have the ability to stream the class on your tv through chromecast or something? ", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "The mute thing is horrible. I have no ideas for that. hahah. I'm looking for help with that too!", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "Yeah try the HDMI hook up you can sometimes find cheap attachements on amazon if you don't have the right connections. ", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "yeah if you stream it on your tv, you won't have to wear headphones... that way you can control the volume better too. ", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "I'm not really doing any distance learning right now. Just working from home and coincidentally most of my work uses excel. I have constant virtual meetings where I have to show people things via excel. It's pretty tough but I found if I use multiple monitors it makes things easier. ", "output": "Self-disclosure" }, { "input": "my second monitor is not portable. I don't know if that would work for me because I work better in one designated spot. So I have 3 monitors on my desk (2 separate monitors and my laptop screen). however something like That would definitely be something I'd look into if I was in school or taking classes ", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "I think that's a good call! Do you think you can find a deal somewhere on it? ", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "Hello, how are you?\n", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "Anyone there?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "Hi! so nice to chat with you today. \n", "output": "Restatement or Paraphrasing" }, { "input": "I totally understand, I also identify myself as an Introvert. Never thought that in my lifespan I would want to go out and be around other people. what have you done so far to alleviate the lonely feelings?", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "I have also done that as well, though I do miss the human to human connection. I have learn how to knit, hot make bread ( yes! bread lol), and got out of my comfort zone and watched different genres of movies along with books. I am a creature of habit with set routine, I really tried to get out of my bubble as much as I can. Keeping my mind busy makes the days go by faster. have you tried to do something new and challenging?", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "how to make**\n", "output": "Restatement or Paraphrasing" }, { "input": "well I can tell you, the first 3 times I tried to make 'regular bread' it was a disaster. my bread came out hard as a rock. I kept working at it. You are truly involved when making bread. Cool! I did not know it was a trend? look at me I am a trendsetter, lol. YES! I recommend that wholeheartedly, Ive walked and done more sight seeing during this pandemic than my entire life. Do you have scenic place to go? Do you like to read?", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "Trails, offer an experience of letting go, I believe, you become immerse in nature. I would definitely explore all trails. I did not know Iger had a book out. That sounds really interesting, I would actually love to read it, is it dull? or engaging? I do remember the headlines, he forgo his salary despite the risk of Disney losing billions in revenue, that takes guts. Do you have a pet? ", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "I need to pick it up and dive into it. I love reading, I always tend to have a book in my hands. Yes, reading has served to not only help me relax but to teach me how to do other things, like baking. what is your favorite book?", "output": "Self-disclosure" }, { "input": "Harry potter are THE books to dive into and just immerse yourself in. I would Highly recommend The Hobbit books, I was a bit hesitant about, but dare I say I like them more than Harry Potter? If you want something more adult and edgy go with Game of Thrones. I get it, I think this pandemic is a period to learn about ourselves and truly pick ourselves apart and see what we have missing out on. ", "output": "Self-disclosure" }, { "input": "Sounds to me you have been handling the pandemic a lot more better than what you actually think. I have been wanting to check out Lord of the rings, but I feel I wont like, either way, I am hoping to check them out and really see if I dont like. I love movies as well, what is your favorite genre and movie?", "output": "Self-disclosure" }, { "input": "You know what would be really cool to do, to join virtual admission to museums around the world. such a neat option that we now.", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "Thats a hard one, I do like drama movies, perhaps the movie The boy in striped pajamas? and unbroken.", "output": "Self-disclosure" }, { "input": "hello, how may i help you today?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "i am good how are you?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "why do you feel like that?", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "have you asked your supervisor about it?", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "i can understand how you are feeling i have been through some situations like that before", "output": "Reflection of feelings" }, { "input": "what i did is just talk to the person about the situation and let them know how i was feeling", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "i would talk to your boss first that would be best ", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "let him know everything you are feeling ", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "just don't worry to much about the situation and don't let it stress you out everything will be okay", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "I understand what you mean about that just do not worry about people like that your main focus is doing your job", "output": "Self-disclosure" }, { "input": "people are going to talk but you have to just ignore them and move on do not worry about what people say or think about you ", "output": "Information" }, { "input": "you will be okay no matter what ", "output": "Self-disclosure" }, { "input": "the only way the situation will be solved is by communicating and expressing your feelings", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "Hey!", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "I'm doing well. How are you?", "output": "Reflection of feelings" }, { "input": "Yeah i'm in the same boat. It's tough having to be cooped up.", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "Are you working from home?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "I've been having a hard time too and I've absolutely noticed that I've become short and impatient with people lately. I have been trying to be mindful but it's hard. I find going for walks and getting slight exercise helps. ", "output": "Self-disclosure" }, { "input": "I'm also pretty introverted and at first i enjoyed the shutdowns but as time drags on it's gotten difficult ", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "Have you found ways to be physically active?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "Does that help at all?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "So it sounds like you are missing a lot of the social aspects of day to day stuff?", "output": "Restatement or Paraphrasing" }, { "input": "I've definitely noticed that for myself, even though I normally prefer my space and solitude ", "output": "Self-disclosure" }, { "input": "Have you tried calling, texting, or even video chatting with them?", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "I seem to feel better after communicating with friends but I also get a little overwhelmed with video chats. I feel like Im always on my computer now so I'm working at trying to actively seeing my friends even if it means distancing or whatever. \n", "output": "Self-disclosure" }, { "input": "Do you have a park or a hiking trail or something that you could meet them at? That way you stay outside and can distance as necessary.", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "Do you have friends that could go with you to the dog park? Do you think you'd feel comfortable physically being around other people?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "im sure seeing someone in person will help even if it's for a few minutes. Once you figure out how to hang out with someone that makes you both comfortable, the next times will be that much easier. ", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "No problem! I'm glad I could help or at least try to help ", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "Awe thanks! I appreciate you too. ", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "HI, how are you today?\n", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "You must be very frustrated from feeling unable to do something.", "output": "Reflection of feelings" }, { "input": "I remember when my mother was having end of life mental declining issues. I understand feeling as if the person is changing and having unusual moods and mood swings. ", "output": "Self-disclosure" }, { "input": "Do you have anyone you can talk to?\n", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "You are feeling the way anybody in your situation would fee like. It must be helpful to have a husband who listens and can be supportive when he is there.", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "Have you always had sleep issues?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "Being upset can make someones mind race and make it really difficult to rest or get any sleep at all.", "output": "Reflection of feelings" }, { "input": "Have you ever gone through anything like this before?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "I can relate to being close to someone who is addicted. It can feel very sad and lonely at times. I would want to change the person in my life but just has to learn to let go instead. It is a process that takes years to learn.", "output": "Self-disclosure" }, { "input": "Yes, I understand how it can feel like our children are always our babies and we want to fix everything for them. Sometimes it feels like we can change them or re raise them if we just do more for them.", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "Have you had the chance to speak to a close friend or pastor about this situation?", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "You are very self aware and have good insight. I notice that you are very in touch with your feelings. You can use writing as a way to release emotions and express yourself, as you are now.", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "Yes, I can recommend a journal on Amazon that I also use. Thank you for sharing with me today.", "output": "Information" }, { "input": "Please reach back out anytime.", "output": "Information" }, { "input": "Thank you!", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "Hello! What brings you to this space today?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "Yeah. I hear that. Around when did these feelings start?\n", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "Well i'm really glad to hear that you are reaching out and communicating about it now!\n", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "That makes sense. There is a lot of research that look at isolation and mood. Isolation makes things a lot harder.", "output": "Information" }, { "input": "While you are on the road, is there anyone in your support system that you may be able to call?\n", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "You're doing your best for you and your dog! That is great.", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "My dog's name is Phineas. He is definitely my best friend.", "output": "Self-disclosure" }, { "input": "Do you talk to Garbo? Or bring Garbo to dog parks? That's a great way to do something for both you and Garbo!!", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "Dog parks tend to have a lot of owners who also love dogs. They can love on Garbo and give you some connection too.\n", "output": "Information" }, { "input": "It sounds like Garbo likes the outdoors.", "output": "Restatement or Paraphrasing" }, { "input": "Is the weather where you nice enough to take her out?\n", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "Ok. My dog, Phineas, love the snow!", "output": "Self-disclosure" }, { "input": "Oh Garbo! Hahahaha! She sounds wonderful!", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "Wow! When was the first time she was sprayed?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "Wow! That is almost once a year.", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "Do you think she will do it again?\n", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "Do you think she will do it again?\n", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "That is so interesting. Research shows that dogs are color-blind. It must be to contrast!", "output": "Information" }, { "input": "Right! Good eye, Garbo!", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "Hello, how may i help you today?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "so you are scared your friend will get mad at you for buying your wife a car after he came asking for money from you? is that correct?", "output": "Restatement or Paraphrasing" }, { "input": "Have you talked to him recently?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "Has he said anything about the car?", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "do you think he is mad at you?", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "i know this can be a tough situation but I believe this situation will pass and everything will be ok between you to", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "do not let this stress you out or worry that he is mad everything will be ok", "output": "Self-disclosure" }, { "input": "i would suggest asking him if he saw your post about the car and ask him if he is mad about it", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "If you are comfortable enough facing him then ask him. Just do not force yourself if you are not comfortable doing that.", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "if you are more comfortable texting him then i would suggest doing that but i would not just say nothing about you buying the car you should just let him know.", "output": "Information" }, { "input": "I know how you are feeling about that ", "output": "Reflection of feelings" }, { "input": "just try one of my suggestions and see what the result will be.", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "i am really sure the situation will be solved ", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "i hope i helped you today.", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "yes he will ", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "bye", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "I'm sorry to hear that. Would you like to tell me more?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "I could understand how that could make you very angry, I would be too.", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "I have not, it sounds like a very bad situation. Is there anyone you can report this to at the company?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "It sounds like you are working in a toxic work environment with poor leadership. Have you considered possibly seeking another job? Or maybe another company? ", "output": "Restatement or Paraphrasing" }, { "input": "I understand. What do you think about having a conversation with the board and let them know the issues you are having? You could have your coworker back you up.", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "It sounds like you take a lot of pride in your job which is very amiable. I think confronting the board is the best way to go about this. ", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "It's very possible, but I think you will be commended amongst your peers. You owe it to yourself not to be walked all over. \n", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "And who knows maybe the board will appreciate you coming to them, it shows great strength. ", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "You're very welcome, was there anything else you wanted to discuss? ", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "Okay I hope I was able to help, good luck!", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "Hello there. How are you doing today?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "Ugh. I am sorry to hear that. That must be frustrating.\n", "output": "Reflection of feelings" }, { "input": "You reaching out here shows me that you are solution-driven so I feel strongly that we can work through this!\n", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "I have definitely had work situations where my higher ups have over stepped their boundaries to the point of being intrusive.\n", "output": "Self-disclosure" }, { "input": "One thing that worked well for me was speaking to members of the board.", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "Another thing that I found helpful was speaking with my friends and family about it.\n\n", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "As it pertains to the board, I found that the other member was very receptive to the conversation. Inevitably, they wanted to do what was right for the employees.\n", "output": "Information" }, { "input": "The power dynamics make it more challenging to be as open as we would like to be, right?", "output": "Reflection of feelings" }, { "input": "Yes. There are certainly times when finding a new position is the right thing to do. It sounds like you not feeling supported in the work place is grounds for a new position. Is that accurate?", "output": "Restatement or Paraphrasing" }, { "input": "I am hearing your frustration through all of this while also hearing your dedication to the work.", "output": "Reflection of feelings" }, { "input": "You are more than welcome. ", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "Is there anything else that I may be able to further support you with today?\n", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "You are welcome! And have a great day!", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "Good afternoon", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "How are you today", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "You need to chat or is there an issue I an help you with?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "Ok. What do you want to chat about", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "No you are uncertain about the chatting, what can we chat about", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "Sometimes it helps to just talk.", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "Cold as in the bug or weather", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "I am in a southern state and it is chilly. ", "output": "Restatement or Paraphrasing" }, { "input": "Where about are you from", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "I can imagine especially with the storm hitting", "output": "Reflection of feelings" }, { "input": "I am in Georgia and the air is chilly", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "Are you in the path of the storm", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "At least you are away from the east coast. They are going to get hit hard. ", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "How much snow do you normally receive", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "The direction shows heading towards New England and east coast. Ohio does not seem to be in the path.", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "Are you close to the lake", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "The northern part is near Erie", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "The lake effect snow is harder than the regular snow at times, ", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "I am from upstate New York and it can get nasty when it comes across the lakes", "output": "Self-disclosure" }, { "input": "Buffalo can get a foot of snow in an hour so can other areas east of Lake Erie", "output": "Restatement or Paraphrasing" }, { "input": "Hello\n", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "May I know what is wrong?\n", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "It sounds like it must be stressful to be locked in all day with children.", "output": "Restatement or Paraphrasing" }, { "input": "Does the weather allow you to go outside while social distancing?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "It may be beneficial to take walks. ", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "It must be hard to ensure they get a good education when it is long distance learning. ", "output": "Reflection of feelings" }, { "input": "I think you are doing a great job despite the challenges.", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "It may be hard to get, but sunlight is important for our moods. I hope you can find a moment or two to breathe when you can.", "output": "Information" }, { "input": "I don't have kids, but I have a dog who makes me go for walks, and it helps :) ", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "I know many people have started adopting animals due to the lockdowns. I don't know if a pet would make you more or less crazy", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "Animals can provide a lot of stress relief. I would say it's their cozy fur, but lizards and fish have their own attributes :) ", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "A puppy sounds like a great idea. I think she or he will revitalize your family!", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "I've always wanted a nicely decorated fish tank. I'm glad you have pets to help you get through the day.", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "Is it late where you are? Getting enough sleep helps our moods as well. ", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "I think I just might. You've convinced me!", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "That certainly must be tricky to do with 4 kids. ", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "Hi there, how are you feeling today? ", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "I am feeling a bit the same. Is there something specific that you'd like to talk about? ", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "Do you not know anyone else there? ", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "Do you think it would benefit you to join some groups or societies where you would meet new people? ", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "If you feel a little out of your depth, that is perfectly normal at this stage! ", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "Yes of course. So you feel that you cannot meet new people due to the pandemic? ", "output": "Restatement or Paraphrasing" }, { "input": "I understand that this is a bad time to be making a new start but please believe me, I think that things will get better", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "It sounds to me like you might be suffering from depression. A lot of the population have this problem! Do you think that this might be the case? ", "output": "Information" }, { "input": "That definitely sounds like depression to me. Can I suggest that you talk to your doctor? ", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "So you have insight into your condition at least ... that is a very positive thing! ", "output": "Reflection of feelings" }, { "input": "What is it that you feel that you should be doing? Please do not put too much pressure on yourself! ", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "I understand how that feels. I often feel the same way myself, especially now (and at this time of year). Please do not feel bad about it. ", "output": "Self-disclosure" }, { "input": "I have sometimes felt this way too. Do you have a pet? I have two cats and they do help to cheer me up when I feel especially bad ", "output": "Self-disclosure" }, { "input": "So you feel that you are bad at life? Please do not! ", "output": "Reflection of feelings" }, { "input": "I do need to go now but I hope that you can find some comfort in the future. I wish you all the best. ", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "I am so sorry to hear that. I lost one of my cats earlier this year ", "output": "Self-disclosure" }, { "input": "I will and thank you for talking too ", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "(I really did lose a cat earlier this year btw :( ) ", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "Thank you for talking and all the best ", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "I always do :) You kind of have to press quit and take a survey to exit ", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "Hi! How are you today?\n", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "Oh no. I am sorry to hear that. Why do you feel that way?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "I totally get that. The world is a scary place right now with the pandemic. ", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "Have you tried virtual ways of connecting with friends and family? I know that has been useful for me.", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "That is understandable. Hopefully with the vaccine, we will be able to see others in public soon. Have you tried some of the virtual visual apps such as Zoom or FaceTime?", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "Oh no! How have your video conferences on Facebook gone. Another thing I like to do is to meet up with friends in parks or public so that we are abiding by guidelines but can still be in person. ", "output": "Self-disclosure" }, { "input": "Wow that is so exciting! I would love to hear more about your grandchild.", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "Yes definitely! That is wonderful, I am sure she looks forward to meeting you. And luckily with Facebook you are able to get updates and to virtually see her.", "output": "Reflection of feelings" }, { "input": "Oh yes of course that is something to look forward to. For now we just have to remain inside so that you and your new granddaughter can both stay healthy. ", "output": "Information" }, { "input": "That awesome. Hobbies are definitely helpful for staying inside. Have you picked up any new hobbies with the extra time we have been spending inside?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "Thank you for your service. That is awesome. Have you made anything for your daughter/granddaughter yet?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "Yes that makes sense. You could always get a head start on future birthday presents for your granddaughter haha. I am sure she would love any jewelry made by you to wear in the future.", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "Yes of course. I hope you have a great night and enjoy your phone call. Just remember all these covid restrictions are temporary and soon you will be able to reunite with your daughter and granddaughter!", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "Of course anytime. I enjoyed talking with you too. Have a wonderful holiday too. ", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "Hi! How are you tonight?\n", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "What is stressing you out? Maybe I can encourage you.", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "Your home work balance, are you working from home?", "output": "Restatement or Paraphrasing" }, { "input": "I can understand that you would feel lonely. Isolation is not healthy for any of us. It seems to be forced on us. Have you any friends or family you could call on the phone?", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "It is true, it feels terrible to not go out. We don't listen to the government anymore because we don't know anyone who died, so we still meet with our friends. I would be lost without them, however we don't meet as much so I do make it a point to call them. What will happen if you leave your home?", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "Do you have a lot of friends how were healthy that died?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "I have found that being in isolation lowers my immunity, and if I want to be healthy, fresh air, loving friends, exercise, good healthy food is the way to do it, not isolation and loneliness. That affect me emotionally and I don't want to despair, that makes me feel terrible. It doesn't feel healthy, and we know no one that has died either. But if you are not going to go out, do you have goals to help you not feel lonely, any ideas? Any thoughts on how you can fix this so you don't feel so lonely?", "output": "Self-disclosure" }, { "input": "You might even want to call your friends and colleagues to see if any of them are meeting up. We are social creatures. We need to socialize. ", "output": "Information" }, { "input": "I'm sure you are busy, but realize, your emotional health is important too and we always need to make time to connect with people. ", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "I think it is a trade off for us -- do we risk a disease we have a 99.9996% chance of survival from according to the CDC or stay at home and despair? I see no evidence of a pandemic nor do my nurse friends. So we live our lives normally. But some are afraid, and fear takes its toll on people. I say use your eyes, look around, if there aren't people dying all around you and you aren't hearing of a lot of people dying in ten months of this, there probably aren't a lot of people dying. And life is short. Hug those you love, you may not have them tomorrow, plandemic or not. ", "output": "Information" }, { "input": "I know you are working hard, but do try to switch up your life so you get some exercise and take care of your health, and perhaps list some people to call who you haven't checked in with in a while to switch up your life, bring some pizzazz. ", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "I was feeling REALLY lonely last month, and then I started a gratitude list and that helped, then I called some people and began to make new friends. It really helped a lot. ", "output": "Self-disclosure" }, { "input": "Thank you for your kind words! You should invite your friends. I don't think living in fear is actually living. It feels like death. ", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "I know a lot of people who would LOVE a home cooked meal, and sharing a meal together is so emotionally fulfilling. ", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "Is there anything else I can help you with?\n", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "If not, you have to close out the hit so we can finish the conversation and get paid! :D", "output": "Information" }, { "input": "Hello there, how is life going for you right now? ", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "Is there anything on your mind that you would like to talk about? ", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "I am happy to listen if you want to talk. ", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "I have been having a bit of a bad time in life lately so I can understand and empathise if you are too ", "output": "Self-disclosure" }, { "input": "That is no problem! What would you like to talk about? ", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "Okay... do you feel that you are having trouble concentrating? ", "output": "Restatement or Paraphrasing" }, { "input": "I hear you. It's been a very bad year for everyone, what with the pandemic and everything. ", "output": "Self-disclosure" }, { "input": "Has something specific happened that you'd like to talk about? ", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "I am so sorry to hear that. Are you aware that there are agencies out there who could offer you help and advice? ", "output": "Information" }, { "input": "So you feel that you have more problems than normal, what with health problems and the pandemic too? ", "output": "Reflection of feelings" }, { "input": "Yes I hear you. I have also felt very isolated during this pandemic. ", "output": "Self-disclosure" }, { "input": "It is perfectly normal to feel this way at this time. Are you able to see your family at all? ", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "How did it make you feel to have to say no? ", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "Do you feel as though you have nowhere to turn and that things are just getting worse? ", "output": "Reflection of feelings" }, { "input": "I see. Are you likely to be able to meet them in person soon, given the global situation? ", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "That sounds really horrific. May I suggest you seek some professional help? ", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "I hope that I have been able to b of some comfort to you ", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "I must leave now but I urge you to get professional help ", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "I hear you. Please try to reach out for professional help ", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "I hope it will get better! ", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "And you too! ", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "You need to press quit and take the survey :) I can't do it from my end \n", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "Hello, how are you doing today?\n\n", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "Bad days can be rough, can you tell me more about it?", "output": "Reflection of feelings" }, { "input": "I know I have had days like that when things seem hopeless but things always get better!", "output": "Self-disclosure" }, { "input": "I know it can be overwhelming when you have so much to do but I am confident you can overcome this!", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "Have you ever considered trying to get a planner in order to schedule your time? I really think this would help you feel less stressed.", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "That sounds like a great idea, having a friend like that really puts a positive spin on things. You could also consider the dollar tree, they have planners for only a dollar.", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "I think that would be great idea, exercise and fresh air normally helps me when I have been in a bad mood. ", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "I am so glad I was able to help you come to a solution! You will be back on track before you know it. I use a planner myself and this is the only way I am able to keep everything done!\n", "output": "Self-disclosure" }, { "input": "You are very welcome! I am glad I helped!", "output": "Reflection of feelings" }, { "input": "Hi! How are you?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "I'm sorry to hear this. When did your boyfriend break up with you?", "output": "Restatement or Paraphrasing" }, { "input": "Breakups always hurt. They can be very painful, how long were you together? ", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "It's very sad and your emotions will take a toll, but you have to set some goals so you don't fall into a funk. Do you have a good support system?", "output": "Reflection of feelings" }, { "input": "Did he give a reason for the breakup?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "Are you telling me he just said \"I am breaking up with you\" then never said why and left?", "output": "Restatement or Paraphrasing" }, { "input": "I think he doesn't know what he wants and thinks the grass is greener on the other side of the fence. It is disrespectful to you. And hurtful. You say you have no support, don't you have friends? Family?\n", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "I think you might want to join an online support group then. Do you have any goals or aspirations that you are working on apart from your relationship? Because it will be painful to move forward, but if you have some goals, that can help you from falling into a slump.", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "You are welcome. I am happily married now, but I had my fair share of breakups. They hurt my self esteem. I had to work hard to not let that happen. And do my best to grieve, but not get stuck there. ", "output": "Self-disclosure" }, { "input": "If a man did not want to be with me, I took it hard as rejection, but in the long run, if he does not want to be with me, I don't want to be with him, but that takes time, and you need friends to encourage you. ", "output": "Self-disclosure" }, { "input": "Thank you. I'm older, been through a LOT of hard knocks. You will be stronger too, right now you are hurting, in time you will see more clearly. ", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "He hasn't told you why, so the problem lies in him, not you. So do your best not to be hard on yourself. It is a shock to you now, but he never even communicated this with you over time, and he should have. that's what you want in a partner. ", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "If a relationship has problems, you want someone to talk about he problems and work on them and grow as two people. He chose to walk away, that's immature and not what you want in a relationship. That is actually abusive.", "output": "Information" }, { "input": "Thank you! You are so very kind! And you are very sweet too, willing to hear the truth! That is an admirable quality! You deserve a partner willing to work on problems, not a quitter. ", "output": "Self-disclosure" }, { "input": "Do take care of yourself! Find some friends, work hard at that, call old friends too. Just to say hi, call an old aunt or uncle and check in. Find community. That will help you. ", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "Yes! Don't hop into another relationship for a long time, months, even a year. Find out who you are. Be the woman you want to be. I prayed for my husband for a long time. God is good! :D I had a lot of bad ones before him! ", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "Thank you so much! ", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "Hi! How are you this evening?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "Sorry to hear that. How long have you been in a slump?", "output": "Restatement or Paraphrasing" }, { "input": "I can understand that. It's been hard on a lot of people. Sometimes marriages need a bit of help during tough times, have you considered a counselor? ", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "My husband and I have gone a few times and it really helped having an objective person give us a few tips. We learned a lot even in just a few short months. We set goals, achieved them and then years passed and went again. ", "output": "Self-disclosure" }, { "input": "That's too bad that he won't go again. I would still go for yourself. I have gone by myself because I needed extra help. And it's hard to deal with someone who doesn't want to grow and change. ", "output": "Self-disclosure" }, { "input": "I had an auto immune disorder too, actually, the counseling helped that a lot. Emotions have a way of wreaking havoc on our bodies. And it sounds like life has been stressful for you lately. ", "output": "Self-disclosure" }, { "input": "Having a physical problem is really hard to deal with in addition to problems in marriage. Do you have any goals set?", "output": "Reflection of feelings" }, { "input": "It sounds like you have a full plate with the little one. I know a lot of people are fearful now, but rest assured, children are really resilient to disease. The CDC has not even one record of a healthy child dying. Can you still go to the park and let them run and play? I think it's healthier to be around people then to isolate. That's my personal observation. It's really taking a toll on all of us emotionally to be distant. ", "output": "Reflection of feelings" }, { "input": "little ones . . . ", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "One thing that comes to mind about your marriage is how I continued to work on myself, and surprisingly, some of the changes I made in myself helped my husband change. For example. I realized I didn't speak respectfully to him all the time. So I changed my tone. Sometimes I didn't FEEL respectful, but I read this book explaining how men really need that. So I changed me. And you know what, he really responded well to that. Became more kind and loving. I prayed a lot and that is one thing God showed me. I read a few books on what men were like and how I could help my marriage. My husband often oblivious, but when I worked on me and doing things that men like, he actually became a better man. Hard to explain.", "output": "Self-disclosure" }, { "input": "I would encourage you to write out some goals and things you want to change about yourself, ideas for you and your children to do. And fight the blues as hard as you can. I find that if I have a list of things I need to do, I can follow that even when I don't feel like it, and sometimes I get out of the slump.", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "It sounds like you do know good things to do, and that sometimes you need that encouragement and and support. Do you have friends maybe to check in with? Just to chat. I have been doing that myself. Just phoning people to connect. It has helped so much. Just to say hi and share my life. ", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "Life has a way of handing us curveballs. It upsets us then we don't know what to do, we fall down and get in a slump. And I find that writing lists, making goals, calling friends, doing things differently, brainstorming solutions can help me get back on track. ", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "It is NOT weird. I'm like a granma to you! hahaha I'm almost 60. We need people in our lives, older, younger, all ages. We all learn from each other. Perhaps call and aunt and check in with them. Sometimes it makes us feel better to reach out and encourage others. ", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "As for your son and homeschooling, I'm sure you are challenged but think of this as a great opportunity. Perhaps teach him to cook? Make games up that are learning games about how to care for a home, perhaps repair things, all kinds of ideas. Perhaps have him test you on things. ", "output": "Information" }, { "input": "I'm glad I could encourage you. You sound very intelligent and caring. Marriage is hard work, so is motherhood, but it can be rewarding and fulfilling. Sometimes we lose track of that and we need ideas to perk us up again and help us remember our goals. ", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "I am so sorry for hearing that. Do you want to talk more detail about that?\n", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "You seem really focus on just one person. Life is rich. Think about other important people in your life such as parents, friends", "output": "Restatement or Paraphrasing" }, { "input": "Yes of course you should take your time as long as you want and you can do it, one day you can leave all those problem ", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "Also do exercise, yoga, workout, talk your friends, listen to music etc sort of things might help you a lot. whatever works for you, you'll try them out", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "Just chatting with you, you seem very a smart, strong girl. Do not be upset about things you can't control.", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "For sure, what else we need to talk about?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "I feel the same way.", "output": "Self-disclosure" }, { "input": "Sure, is there anything that I can help you", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "Kinda Ok, but struggling with some issues such as eating unhealthy", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "not sure, i can cook myself however the situation pushes me unhealthy choice somehow lol. Btw, it helps for your current mood, does not it? I mean we are talking about other stuffs which make you think about your problem less?\n", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "Hello.\n", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "How are you this evening?\n", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "I am doing well, I am sorry to hear you are feeling sad.\n", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "What is bothering you tonight?\n", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "So, just to clarify, you are going through a hard divorce with your ex-wife and this has you feeling very down..\n", "output": "Restatement or Paraphrasing" }, { "input": "Sorry about that, ex-husband. \n", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "I can definitely tell this is making you feel very anxious and sad from the few messages we have exchanged. \n ", "output": "Reflection of feelings" }, { "input": "I recently went through a hard break up with an ex-fiancé who got pregnant from another man, so I know how difficult a situation like this can be, \n ", "output": "Self-disclosure" }, { "input": "Have you had a conversation with him with some sort of objective third party to try and work through the differences in seeing your children? Often times, having an objective 3rd party helps to get somewhere in a conversation. \n", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "Does he allow you to have any contact with your children?\n", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "Do you have information to reach out to who is handling your court case? Reaching out to ask for updates or for help from them might help.\n", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "I think it would help to reach out and let them know you would like updates!\n", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "You definitely will be! I know it is hard now, but I know you will make it through this!\n", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "Not a problem! I am glad you reached out tonight!\n", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "You as well!\n", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "Good night!", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "Good evening. \n", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "No problem, how are you tonight?\n", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "Just to make sure I understand, you recently left a job and you are feeling very anxious about it. \n", "output": "Restatement or Paraphrasing" }, { "input": "What caused you to leave the job?\n", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "I completely understand that reasoning. I was also very anxious when the pandemic first started due to working in a grocery store. \n", "output": "Self-disclosure" }, { "input": "Did they offer you any type of leave due to COVID?\n", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "I understand, I can tell through typing with you that this has made you very anxious. \n", "output": "Reflection of feelings" }, { "input": "Did you get any contact information from the employees you worked with while you were there? Often it helps to keep in touch with previous co-workers, especially during a time like this.\n", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "I understand that completely, but I know you can make it through this!\n", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "Have you thought about looking for some work from home for the time being? There are a lot of companies who are offering remote work during this time. \n", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "It was my pleasure!\n", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "Yes it is!\n", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "School will definitely help.\n", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "Routines are definitely\n helpful, I make sure to spend plenty of time doing other hobbies I enjoy to take my mind off of the pandemic. ", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "I find myself watching a lot of movies and tv shows I enjoy as well as playing video games.\n", "output": "Self-disclosure" }, { "input": "I have done the same.\n", "output": "Self-disclosure" }, { "input": "It was not a problem! If you ever need anything else, don't be afraid to reach out again!\n", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "You as well!", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "Hi there! I am here to chat :) What is on your mind?\n", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "Hi there! I am here to chat :) What is on your mind?\n", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "I'm so sorry to hear that, that is really rough. He sounds like a real jerk if you ask me! \n", "output": "Reflection of feelings" }, { "input": "I get that, it's hard to understand why the people close to us do bad things. \n", "output": "Reflection of feelings" }, { "input": "You did nothing wrong. It's something wrong with him, if he did this to you, he'll probably do it again to her. Do you really want to be with someone that disregards your well being like that?", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "I understand, it's easy to get sucked back into the nostalgic good memories of when things were at their best \n", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "It really sucks, doesn't it? And it's not a walk in the park to get over someone when you've been so close to them. Breakups are kind of like a bad cut. They really hurt for a bit, but then a scar eventually forms over it and you start to forget about it.\n", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "Do you have a group of friends, or activities to keep you busy while you're going through this? It helps to keep your mind distracted :)\n", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "And you are so welcome! I've been through my share of breakups too, it's never fun!\n", "output": "Reflection of feelings" }, { "input": "Friends come and they go, it doesn't have to be a game of choosing sides. Keep in touch with those that keep in touch with you. Or maybe reach out to some other friends you haven't connected with in awhile. ", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "Totally! It helps to get into group activities, like hiking to going to the gym, or a book club. ", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "You are welcome! I hope you feel better and have a great night!\n", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "Hi, how are you today?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "Are you having a good day?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "why what happened?", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "yes. sorry to hear that. How can i help", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "Tell me what happened. That sounds horrible", "output": "Reflection of feelings" }, { "input": "wow. get him a gas card for christmas then he cant say anything next time", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "People suck.", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "ok", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "wish you the best", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "Merry christmas", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "they read them 10 each ", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "ok have a good one", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "Hello there, how is your day going? ", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "Is there something that you'd like to talk about? ", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "Wow that sounds like a big problem. Is he aware of how much distress this is causing you? ", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "So you feel that he is misunderstanding life? That he feels that he deserves things just for existing? ", "output": "Restatement or Paraphrasing" }, { "input": "It sounds like a really toxic relationship - I hear you! I have been in that position also. In the end I felt that I had no choice but to leave. I cannot tell you what to do, though. ", "output": "Self-disclosure" }, { "input": "Ah, unfortunately a lot of men are like that - before you become seriously committed they seem totally different. Have you considered seeking professional help? ", "output": "Information" }, { "input": "I believe that there are some organisations that will offer free therapy sessions for people in need. Have you considered asking your doctor? ", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "I am not totally sure what is available but I think that there might be such things ", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "Well no, I don't think that all men are like this by any stretch of the imagination. Unfortunately, however, there are some bad apples who give all men a bad name. I am sure that the same applies to women too though! ", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "You sound to me as though you are being realistic and sensible about your financial situation and are being neither too stingy nor too lavish. ", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "I hope that I have been able to be of some help to you! ", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "Have a lovely rest of day ", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "Hello. How are you doing today?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "It must be very difficult to be a student during this time.", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "I understand that completely. It's very helpful to speak with people face to face. However, have you sought other ways, such as through Zoom, to interact with peers having the same difficulties?", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "Classes that involve hands-on work must be very challenging to do online. It sounds like this is a real dilemma. What ways have you already sought to overcome it?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "I feel very much the same way. I am also a student taking online classes this semester. I can't wait until we get back to normal classroom settings, and I also hope fervently that the vaccine process is quick, efficient, and effective. I find that making regular online meetings with my professor, while it might not help with the physicality of your work, at least provides mental and motivational boosts. Do you ever meet with them in any capacity?", "output": "Self-disclosure" }, { "input": "It's been the same way at my school. At least there is some solace in knowing that a large group of students is also struggling right now. Having a source of community support/commiseration is at least emotionally helpful.", "output": "Self-disclosure" }, { "input": "If there's only one thing to take from this, it's knowing you aren't alone. I have confidence that you, and this entire country, is going to get through these difficult times. ", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "I definitely get that. It's especially hard because we've had to sit still for so long. It's almost been a year since things were normal. It's kind of like we're just waiting for real life to start again.", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "That sounds incredible. Or just to be able to go into a store without a mask and hand sanitizer and constantly monitoring how close you are to people. It's almost impossible to imagine, to be honest. But when that day finally comes, it'll be one of the best days of my life. We can finally start putting all of this behind us. ", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "Thanks! I hope this helped relieve some stress, at least. You stay safe, too.", "output": "Reflection of feelings" }, { "input": "how are yo\n", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "ok. thanks for asking. what on your mind\n", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "sounds hard. are you doing anything to help\n", "output": "Restatement or Paraphrasing" }, { "input": "wow. in our connected world it is hard to get away. do you want to tell me how it happened\n", "output": "Restatement or Paraphrasing" }, { "input": "It was wise of you to know your feeling towards the relationship and make a mature decision for the both of you. During this pandemic too. that must have been even harder. ", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "that's a good idea. Have you thought about disconnecting?\n", "output": "Reflection of feelings" }, { "input": "nothing better than the outdoors wit h some friends. Fresh air can really clear the mind.\n", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "perspective is found from looking at things from a distance. you maybe to close to everything right now to see the forest from the trees", "output": "Reflection of feelings" }, { "input": "Again, I think you were the mature one that ended the relationship. It is hard to see her \"move on\", but you will do the same. covid has changed the environments to meet people though, and all I can suggest is to be patient. The world will get back to normal. and you will too. \n\n", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "no problem. stay safe.", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "Good evening, Hope you are well", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "What can I help you with?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "Is it the season or the virus?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "I can relate to you", "output": "Restatement or Paraphrasing" }, { "input": "Jobs are tight right now I agree.", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "What type work are you looking for", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "Your children are home because of school, I understand", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "Do you WFH or normally from an office", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "I work for myself as a freelance", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "have you checked other hotels in your area", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "What about the front desk", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "Some hotels have night clerks who also have to do the laundry", "output": "Restatement or Paraphrasing" }, { "input": "What about working on line for companies", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "Ever thought about copywriting or proofreading", "output": "Restatement or Paraphrasing" }, { "input": "there is a company called DreamWorks. She has lots of work for moms and das also", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "Check out Dream Works on YouTube. ", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "She will explain the details and the companies pay well.", "output": "Information" }, { "input": "Some work over night but all from home", "output": "Information" }, { "input": "There are a numerous companies that need call center help", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "Check with the Salvation Army of Toys fore Tots", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "Don't give up. Keep trying and keep searching. The Lord will guide you to the right place.", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "Check with local churches also,", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "Check with local churches. This the season for miracles.", "output": "Reflection of feelings" }, { "input": "Thanks as you just lifted my spirits also", "output": "Reflection of feelings" }, { "input": "This has been a tough year for all. Just keep praying", "output": "Reflection of feelings" }, { "input": "Hey I am a dad and grandpa. That is what grandpas do", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "But really check out Dream Works", "output": "Information" }, { "input": "She even recommends work for teens", "output": "Information" }, { "input": "OK Good night", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "Merry Christmas to your family", "output": "Reflection of feelings" }, { "input": "hello, how are you today?", "output": "Restatement or Paraphrasing" }, { "input": "are you there?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "I can now... they all popped up at once.", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "I am so sorry... How old was your dog? I have a great Pyrenees ", "output": "Reflection of feelings" }, { "input": "I am so sorry. I cant even imagine how sad you are right now. Was she sick?", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "Bless her heart. How long ago was this?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "sometimes just talking about it can help with the grieving process. I have lost a pet, but not one that was mine in adulthood. ", "output": "Self-disclosure" }, { "input": "It sounds like she had a long happy life.. 15 is pretty old. This is the hardest part about having pets.", "output": "Reflection of feelings" }, { "input": "Poor thing. How long had she been blind? ", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "Were you able to be there with her?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "I'm so sorry this has happened. Some say getting another one helps. I have never been through it but do you think it would? I would think it would take time to be able to but some people get another dog really fast.", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "ugh, it sounds so hard. My dog is 2 and just had a birthday. I made him a meatloaf birthday cake. I cant imagine how you feel. Maybe volunteering at a local shelter would help?..I really hope you feel better soon", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "Hello there, can I help you with any today? ", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "*anything", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "I am happy to talk to you about any problem that you might be having?", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "Can you tell me what is going on? I should be able to help you", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "Are you saying that he has cheated on you before? That does not sound very promising. ", "output": "Restatement or Paraphrasing" }, { "input": "Have you considered getting some sort of couples counselling? Or do you just think that he is never going to change? ", "output": "Information" }, { "input": "I am sorry to hear that. So you feel that he is not really taking your problems as a couple seriously? ", "output": "Reflection of feelings" }, { "input": "I have been in toxic relationships before and to be honest it does sound a little as though this is one of those situations. ", "output": "Self-disclosure" }, { "input": "Do you feel that perhaps it might be time to move on? People who will cheat twice are pretty unlikely to ever change their ways. ", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "Ah you did not mention that! Maybe for the sake of your child it might be worth going to counselling again then. ", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "You could ask your doctor to recommend something that will not cost you too much but will be effective? ", "output": "Information" }, { "input": "They should be able to provide you with a list of reputable services local to you . ", "output": "Information" }, { "input": "I hope that I have managed to be of some use to you today! ", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "Nice talking to you too, enjoy your day! ", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "Hello though, how has life been treating you lately? ", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "It has been a really weird year hasn't it? Don't worry, I think it's been the same for all of us. Would you like to tell me more details? ", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "That really sucks! I can understand why you are angry and anxious about this and you have every right to be! \n", "output": "Reflection of feelings" }, { "input": "Are there any official routes that you can use to complain? ", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "That is genuinely unfair. Have you looked into getting free - or low cost at least - advice about making a formal complaint? \n", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "It really should not be legal for your boss to be taking advantage of workers like this ", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "I am very sorry to hear that, that sounds extremely unfair to me. Have you considered looking for another job? I realise it's a very difficult time to be looking for work right now though ", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "I really can't wait for this year to be over! It's been so awful. Do you suppose anyone at all has had a good year? ", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "Well yes fair point! Us poorer people are not doing very well though! ", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "Have you tried to talk with any of your coworkers about this? I would suggest that it might help. ", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "I really think you should. You have a legitimate grievance and being able to discuss it with people who understand might help a lot. ", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "I feel that people have the right to know what is being done and will be happy you told them. ", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "You are very welcome. I hope I have been able to be of some help to you and you will continue to talk to other people about it. ", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "i am good thank you how are you doing?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "how may I help you today?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "what seems to be making it hard to communicate with him?", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "how long has this been going on?", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "i can understand how you are feeling ", "output": "Reflection of feelings" }, { "input": "have you tried to talk to him and tell him about how you are feeling about when you two argue", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "Communication is key in a marriage without that the marriage will start to fail and I do not want to see that happen", "output": "Information" }, { "input": "you two need to sit down and have a serious discussion about the way your marriage is going", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "have you two ever considered seeing a marriage counselor?", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "don't feel put down or let it get to you because as long as you trying in a marriage that is what matters and just keep trying", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "The only way you two can work it out is by communicating that is the main thing to do in a situation like that.", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "no problem that is what i am here for", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "Hi how are you?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "What's going on?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "I know the feeling. what do you do for work?", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "how long have you been in your role? and do you have any coworkers that feel similar to you that you know about?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "Somewhat similarly I'm in a supply chain role, for a year now, and the only one at my level too. I often feel like I'm alone in my job and that I manage my boss... It's pretty frustrating.", "output": "Self-disclosure" }, { "input": "is there anything that makes your job less stressful?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "do you think your boss would be receptive if you did talk to them? or would they dismiss your concerns?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "This has been a pretty hard year for everyone. however you ultimately gotta do whats best for you. ", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "Have you considered searching for a new job?", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "I'm in the same boat. I would say, the things that work best for me, are to take breaks during my work day and go for walks or as soon as I'm done with work I force myself to go for a walk. I find moving helps me feel better. I also use that time to think about how I can look for a new job or rethink the things that are bothering me", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "maybe you can try something similar?", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "Change the scenery, it'll help! plus movement releases endorphins which make you feel better. ", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "no problem!", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "hi there, is there anything you'd like to talk about today? ", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "I see, so your main worry is about academic pressure? ", "output": "Restatement or Paraphrasing" }, { "input": "Is there a specific aspect that you are focusing on? ", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "Have you been performing below your normal standard this year? ", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "I hear you, I have been in a similar situation. Parents sometimes do not realise just how much pressure they are putting on their children to be perfect. ", "output": "Self-disclosure" }, { "input": "Exactly! there is nothing at all wrong with not being a straight A student. ", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "Have you tried to tell her how you feel about her behaviour and attitude towards your studies? \n", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "Absolutely not. There is nothing wrong with not being perfect. And she has no right to emotionally manipulate you by mentioning money. ", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "Are there any scholarships or hardship funds that you could potentially look into applying for? ", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "Ah, it is very expensive isn't it? I understand, I am still paying off my loans! But it should be worth it in the end. One day you could get a job working for Amazon! ", "output": "Self-disclosure" }, { "input": "Debt is a very scary thing to experience, I know. I do worry a lot about it sometimes too so you are not alone. ", "output": "Self-disclosure" }, { "input": "The main thing is, do you enjoy your studies and consider them worthwhile? ", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "I really did enjoy University .. I made a lot of friends and it was a good learning experience. I hope you feel a bit the same? ", "output": "Self-disclosure" }, { "input": "I think that you need to be easier on yourself. Do you have many friends? ", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "Are you able to confide in your friends about your situation and your worries? ", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "Do you feel that your friends are able to empathise with your situation? Are any of them going through the same thing? ", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "Would it be possible for you to get a part time job of some description? Maybe bar tending or working in a restaurant? ", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "Ah I suffer from terrible social anxiety myself so I hear you ", "output": "Self-disclosure" }, { "input": "I hope I have been able to provide you with some useful advice! ", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "Hello\n", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "Are you currently looking for a job?\n", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "So just to clarify, you are having issues with the job market and fear of getting infected by COVID and it is making you anxious. \n", "output": "Restatement or Paraphrasing" }, { "input": "I understand this completely, as I have been working in grocery stores since the pandemic began so it has made me very anxious about contracting the disease. \n", "output": "Self-disclosure" }, { "input": "Just from these few messages I can tell you are very anxious about this \n", "output": "Reflection of feelings" }, { "input": "I have also been very worried about the rise in cases. \n", "output": "Self-disclosure" }, { "input": "Are you currently working?\n", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "Honestly, I am worried about the vaccine as well. I would like to see the side affects before I take it, \n", "output": "Self-disclosure" }, { "input": "If those online gigs are enough to make ends meet currently, I would continue to work those and wait until the pandemic situation improves and then go look into the job market. \n", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "Hi there, is there anything on your mind at the moment? ", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "So you feel that you need to be able to relax and unwind once in a while but you can't? ", "output": "Restatement or Paraphrasing" }, { "input": "Ah that can be a problem. Is this causing problems or tensions within your relationships? ", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "I have experienced something similar. I found myself getting short tempered and taking things out on my loved ones. ", "output": "Self-disclosure" }, { "input": "Have you considered any kind of counselling to talk through these feelings? There are some organisations around that will offer help for free ", "output": "Information" }, { "input": "Perhaps honestly talking things through with your partner would really help you both too. ", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "I hear you saying that you are putting your work ahead of everything else in your life, is that correct? ", "output": "Reflection of feelings" }, { "input": "Nonetheless, there is no need to make it the entire focus of your life, especially if it is impacting on other aspects of it. ", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "Do you feel that you have to hit unrealistic goals and meet unrealistic expectations? ", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "I personally sometimes find it difficult not to be too hard on myself. Sometimes I have to remind myself to relax and have fun once in a while. ", "output": "Self-disclosure" }, { "input": "It has been a very hard year for everyone, I know and I sympathise. Can you think of one specific thing you'd really like to do that might cheer you up? ", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "That sounds like a really fun thing to do! Can you plan one evening soon where you and your friends will do this and you will promise yourself that you won't cancel in favour of work? ", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "Ah yes that is a big problem. Are restaurants closed where you are? ", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "What about getting together with just a couple of friends for a picnic? ", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "I think that the important thing is to get out of the office and have some human contact. I do agree that it's a really miserable time of year for it though ", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "I hope I have been able to give you a little perspective on your problems! Is there something else you'd like to talk to me about today? ", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "That is very true. Try and remember that there is light at the end of the tunnel. ", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "Thanks for talking and have a lovely rest of day! ", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "Yes :) ", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "You just need to press quit and take the survey :) ", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "I am really sorry to hear that. Is there anything you'd like to talk about? ", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "I see .. so you feel that you are not able to support yourself or your family and this makes you ashamed? ", "output": "Restatement or Paraphrasing" }, { "input": "I know how you feel, I have been forced to use food banks during the pandemic too. You should not feel ashamed! ", "output": "Self-disclosure" }, { "input": "What is your employment situation at the moment? Do you work in an essential worker capacity? \n", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "I am very sorry. Have you visited any other agencies that might be able to offer some form of help? There are several ", "output": "Information" }, { "input": "Well there is the Citizen's Advice Bureau. They have helped me a couple of times when I was at a low point. ", "output": "Information" }, { "input": "They will be able to give you a list of other places that can help. I suggest you book an appointment with them tomorrow. ", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "Do you have people in your life who are being supportive? A partner, friends? ", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "I know it's hard but do try to remember that there are lots of other people in the same situation. It's a very difficult time for the whole world. ", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "Are you trying to find work right now? ", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "would you be prepared to lower your expectations and perhaps take a different kind of work than you used to? ", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "Well on the plus side then the only way you can go is up :) ", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "Let's hope that next year will bring better times for all of us. ", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "And you too thanks for talking! ", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "Hello, how may i help you today?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "What seems to be going on in your marriage?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "I can understand how you are feeling marriage is hard for some.", "output": "Reflection of feelings" }, { "input": "Communication is key in a marriage", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "do not let this get the best of you. there are ups and downs in marriage but you have to be able to work through all that with your partner.", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "no i am not married but one day i do want to get married", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "I know you will two will be able to work through this together ", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "I am sorry to hear and i understand how you are feeling my parents recently got a divorce", "output": "Reflection of feelings" }, { "input": "i can understand but you know you just have to move on with life and not let that get in the way especially your marriage", "output": "Self-disclosure" }, { "input": "both of you need to try to sit down and have a talk about the marriage and let your partner know how you are feeling and see how your partner is feeling.", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "without communication then it will be hard to get through a marriage ", "output": "Information" }, { "input": "when there is no communication then that is when the trouble starts and the marriage starts failing", "output": "Information" }, { "input": "find the right time to talk to your partner and just explain to your feelings towards what is going on and let your partner know you do not like what is going on ", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "if that does not help try to seek help from a marriage counselor i have heard they have saved many marriages from failing", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "Your welcome", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "Hello! How are you doing? ", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "That sounds very frustrating. Is this a recent development at your job? ", "output": "Information" }, { "input": "I can understand how that can have an effect on your mental well-being. Have you spoken to your supervisor about your frustrations at work? ", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "It sounds like you don't feel listened to. ", "output": "Reflection of feelings" }, { "input": "I had a similar issue at my last job. My supervisor constantly spoke over me in meetings, and it would drive me crazy. I never could get a word in edge-wise. ", "output": "Self-disclosure" }, { "input": "Are you considering switching jobs? ", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "Absolutely. It's a rough time job searching under the best of circumstances. ", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "Have you tried reaching out to anyone in your network to look for a new position? It helped me when I was previously job searching. ", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "Absolutely. I also spoke with a therapist before and it helped me a lot. ", "output": "Self-disclosure" }, { "input": "Have you considered reaching out to a professional to talk to? ", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "They can be, but many local governments and municipalities have therapists that work on a sliding scale if the financial aspect of therapy is a concern. ", "output": "Information" }, { "input": "Therapy can definitely be a large expense though. ", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "If it helps to reframe the expense, you can try to think of it as an investment in your mental health. ", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "The therapist could likely give you some tools to help manage the frustrations at your workplace more constructively. ", "output": "Information" }, { "input": "Absolutely. I hope that you're able to find some peace at your workplace with your boss. ", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "It's my pleasure. I'm happy to have helped you. ", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "Is there anything else I can help you with? ", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "I'm sorry. I know how anxious I would feel if I thought I wasn't getting the necessary training to do a job well.\n", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "Have you talked to your co-worker or your manager about your concerns?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "I completely understand how you are feeling. I think that being proactive with management and letting them know your concerns in a positive way could emphasize that you take your job seriously and want to excel. ", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "New jobs and roles are always cause for anxiety. Just being concerned shows what a good employee you are. I think they are lucky to have you!", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "Honestly, I from my own experience, which doesn't include management, I think it's all about the approach. As long as you are not negative and don't sound like you are complaining or telling them how to do their jobs you should be fine!", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "I would start with an email. This is just my opinion, but with how busy they must be getting people up to speed with training, an email is always a great place to start. ", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "Have confidence in yourself as well! Chances are, others are struggling too. ", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "Again, at the risk of being repetitive, it's all about the tone! I recently underwent group training. It was online since we are all working virtually. There were a couple of \"whiners and know-it-alls\" and you could tell from the start. You don't seem that way at all!", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "Good luck! I'm certainly not an expert, but honestly wanting to perform your job well is a positive trait and the sign of a leader. Focus on yourself! You sound like someone that any good manager would want on their team.", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "I wish you the best of luck with the rest of training! You are going to do great!", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "I think you are doing everything you need to do. Can I help you with any other questions or is there anything else you'd like to talk about?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "Keep up the great work! Good luck, and start with a short email. That's my advice anyways, but do what feels right. Have a great night!", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "hello", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "Just so I understand, your supervisor recently quit and you'd like to apply for her job but you're worried you won't be accepted?", "output": "Restatement or Paraphrasing" }, { "input": "I'm sure they won't see you as needy or desperate if you've been with the company for 2 years already. Have you initiated the conversation with the board already?", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "That is a good idea. I would go over your resume and spruce it up before talking to them on Wednesday to add in anything pertinent that you might have learned or achieved during your time with the company these last two years. Make sure the day you approach them that you're well rested, clean and put together. Google some confidence stances and pay attention to your posture. Even if you're feeling nervous there are ways to hide it and appear confident. ", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "No problem, I hope it helps. ", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "If you feel that he might be able to provide more advice then sure. ", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "If he isn't interested in the job himself I'm sure he wouldn't see it that way. It is natural for people to try to move up in a company when a job opening appears, especially in these current times. If you don't go for it then someone else will.", "output": "Information" }, { "input": "Having support in the workplace would be very helpful. If he truly does not want the job himself perhaps you could approach him about a memo or something that would back you? Something you can add to your resume from a peer that shows your initiative.", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "That could benefit you as well. ", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "Unless you're known for doing bad things in the office I wouldn't sweat the gossip honestly. People are either going to support you or be jealous, either way I wouldn't let the talk get to you. ", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "Do you feel like you're ready to tackle the tasks needed to prepare yourself for approaching the board Wednesday?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "I would say maybe try some meditation or something to calm and center yourself. If you feel ready earlier than Wednesday then follow your intuition. You've got this!", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "It was my pleasure", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "Can you explain to me what exactly kind of game it was?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "ok so your director played a game she was not allowed to play and she got caught playing it and quit her job is that correct?", "output": "Restatement or Paraphrasing" }, { "input": "So you are scared that you might get in trouble?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "I am so sorry you are going through this and i know how you are feeling ", "output": "Reflection of feelings" }, { "input": "you should not have anything to worry about as long as you did not play the game then you will be fine and you will not get in trouble or your boss will not see that as a problem.", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "I would just suggest you to have no contact with her right now until all this passes ", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "I would also have a talk with your boss about the situation and let him know how you are feeling", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "Did you see your director playing the game?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "I would not bring up about you wanting her job just yet give it a couple of days", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "I can see this is a tough being in a situation like this", "output": "Reflection of feelings" }, { "input": "As long as you did nothing wrong then i am sure you will be just fine ", "output": "Information" }, { "input": "do not let the situation get the best of you everything will be just fine", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "your welcome", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "Have a great day and stay safe", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "Hi, how are you today?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "I am doing well. Whats bothering you?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "Oh no! I am so sorry that has happened to you. That must feel like such a betrayal.", "output": "Reflection of feelings" }, { "input": "Can you tell me more about it? ", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "Dating can definitely complicate things.. Oh my gosh..... that is horrible. Surely there is something you can do to try to get your money back.", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "Did you sign anything? or have proof of what happened?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "What was the business? It depends on your location but I'm sure just on the transaction alone that shows some kind of intent. or text messages saying it was for a specific purpose?", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "If you gave her a large amount of money and have any kind of messages about it I would look into trying to get it back.", "output": "Information" }, { "input": "I would seek the advice of a lawyer. I'm sorry this has happened thats horrible. ", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "I would say 80K is worth speaking to a lawyer about it. I'm sorry you are so conflicted. I would not call the police because you willingly gave it to her. I would hire a lawyer to handle it.", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "I would not talk to a mutual friend about this at all....", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "Hello, how are you feeling today?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "I'm sorry to hear that. Are you finding time to do things you enjoy by yourself? Any hobbies?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "It sounds like you are feeling some lethargy in this cold season, and feel as though you have no support from your family. ", "output": "Reflection of feelings" }, { "input": "Do you have any plans to spend Christmas with family or friends? That may help to break the cycle of feeling low?", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "What do you do for work? Are you able to get out of the hotel frequently?\n", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "I agree, it is hard to spend time with people at the moment. We are all finding ourselves spending a lot more time alone than we are used to.", "output": "Self-disclosure" }, { "input": "Perhaps you could all plan an event for next year when we will hopefully be less restricted. It would be good to have something positive to look forward to.", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "Yes, I can see that. Keep in touch with your family and try to think of positive, happy times you can all have together in the future. ", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "Can you call them?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "It sounds like this loneliness is really getting to you and you are struggling to see a way forwards.", "output": "Reflection of feelings" }, { "input": "As you are a writer could you perhaps try to make some online friends in forums?", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "I hear you. ", "output": "Restatement or Paraphrasing" }, { "input": "Perhaps you could call one of your children now? See if they'd like to catch-up?", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "Maybe schedule in a call with her for the future? I have been making time to speak with my family every Tuesday, it gives us something to look forward to each week", "output": "Self-disclosure" }, { "input": "What are your plans in Virginia?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "Well that sounds as though it will give you something to focus on.", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "Perhaps once you get to Virginia you could seek out some groups or activities to find some new friends.", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "It is very hard at the moment. But things will improve, keep communication with your family for now and when the time is right in Virginia you can start to look for new friends to spend time with in your new home. ", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "Keep your head up, these sad days will pass", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "Hi! How's it going today?\n", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "That doesn't sound super positive?\n", "output": "Restatement or Paraphrasing" }, { "input": "What's going on? What made her do this?\n", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "Not knowing why must be hard, this sounds like it was more of her problem than yours. That's a terrible thing to do to you.\n", "output": "Reflection of feelings" }, { "input": "I think she definitely owes you an explanation for what she's done. That was the worst way for her to do that.\n", "output": "Self-disclosure" }, { "input": "Time will help with some of that. Once you're able to make new memories in your apartment it won't be so unbearable. But maybe her hurting you this way means you don't need that explanation because she simply wasn't right for you.", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "As much as it hurts, it sounds like you're better off without her.\n", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "Unfortunately this year has been less than ideal in more ways than one. \n", "output": "Reflection of feelings" }, { "input": "I can understand, it was something to finally look forward to. Unfortunately, everyone is dealing with all of these emotions differently and it was just too much for her.\n", "output": "Reflection of feelings" }, { "input": "And it's hard to talk to people about our feelings because everyone is in the same or worse situation with the pandemic.", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "Right, but it is worth talking to someone. I always feel guilty until I finally start talking and then it ends up being a support system between both parties. Not just me dumping my problems on someone else.", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "Glad to hear it, hopefully with time this will all make sense for you.\n", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "You as well\n", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "Good day. How is the weather?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "Not to warm here", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "Where do you live", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "That is a cold state. How can I help you today?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "That is understandable. Was it because of the virus", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "PA got hit hard with the virus", "output": "Reflection of feelings" }, { "input": "were you covered by workman's comp", "output": "Restatement or Paraphrasing" }, { "input": "I am in Georgia heading to Virginia. Heavy virus there", "output": "Self-disclosure" }, { "input": "How bad were you injured", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "Virginia is hard hit", "output": "Self-disclosure" }, { "input": "Wow and the court sided with the employer", "output": "Reflection of feelings" }, { "input": "You can draw unemployment and disability", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "Did you have a lawyer yourself", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "Social Security stopped you. Why?", "output": "Restatement or Paraphrasing" }, { "input": "You can file against the company if you can prove neglect in the employer. . ", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "Were there proper safety guards", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "So it was a state injury, there must be an avenue you can use to prove neglect. ", "output": "Restatement or Paraphrasing" }, { "input": "have you contacted OSHA and filed a complaint with them?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "There should be an avenue for you to seek compensation.", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "It is unfortunate that safety is not a factor.", "output": "Reflection of feelings" }, { "input": "It was a state hospital?", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "Did a patient attack you?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "There must be liability concerning your injury. ", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "But what about the family?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "Is the patient a ward of the state", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "So the patient's family either gave the person up or the patient was placed there by the state right?", "output": "Restatement or Paraphrasing" }, { "input": ". Then he must be a threat to other people. It seems the state should be held liable for negligence. ", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "Can you work from home for yourself?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "There are companies hiring. ", "output": "Information" }, { "input": "Hello! What can I do to help?\n", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "I'm glad to speak to you today. It sounds like you are having anxious thoughts. Can you tell me more?", "output": "Restatement or Paraphrasing" }, { "input": "I can understand how you might feel anxious. There are lots of uncertainties right now. I am sorry you are going through this. ", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "Are you able to find work or help from the government?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "Living with uncertainties can make anyone feel anxious. Have you tried getting outdoors for a small walk or hike? ", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "It is so important during stressful life events to take care of our minds and bodies. It sounds like you have been making good choices! Have you reached out to family or friends for advice or perhaps help with supplemental employment? ", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "I am happy to hear you have support during this time. ", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "Luckily, there are many platforms online that allow you to work from home. I know of several that allow you to do side \"gigs\". Perhaps you can search and find a few of these. I, myself have had success doing these. ", "output": "Information" }, { "input": "Many have found meditation helps relieve anxiety. Most importantly, if you find yourself feeling depressed or worsening symptoms, please contact your medical professional. ", "output": "Information" }, { "input": "It was nice speaking with you today", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "Happy Holidays to you as well!", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "Hello, and how are you feeling today?\n", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "I have had a similar situation not long ago. It was hard, but once I told my friend it was bothering me, he changed his behavior.", "output": "Self-disclosure" }, { "input": "Hve you tried talking with your friend?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "It's good that you stood your ground. For that you should be proud.", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "Have you considered, being more active in your religious community? It could be a great place to make friends.", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "It definitely takes time developing new friendships. Have your tired inviting someone from church to hang out, outside of church event?", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "Well that's great that you're taking those first steps. I believe that in due time those friendships will blossom. Patience is key.", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "It also sounds to me like maybe you're over worrying. Have you considered seeing a movie where you wouldn't have to worry about awkward silence?", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "Sometimes people just move on from one another. I personally wouldn't try to make these friends see what you are doing. I think you should focus on you, and look to the future. ", "output": "Self-disclosure" }, { "input": "It doesn't hurt to ask what movie they would be interested in seeing. Maybe you can come to a mutual agreement!", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "You're very welcome. If you need anything else just ask.", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "I would suggest letting things happen as naturally as possible! And yes, it's okay to move on and live a life that makes YOU happy!", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "You too!", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "Same to you!", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "Hello, how are you doing today?\n", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "That's terrible, I'm sorry to hear that. You're life isn't done, it's just a new start. \nIt's scary for sure but you have a lot more to you than your ex husband.", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "Then you've definitely got a lot going for you if you're 90!", "output": "Reflection of feelings" }, { "input": "Why did he leave you?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "It sounds like that is more of his problem then. You deserve someone that's better than leaving someone because of their age.", "output": "Reflection of feelings" }, { "input": "Personally, if that's how he felt, then you're better off. I know that doesn't stop the hurt you're feeling, but you are worth more than that.", "output": "Self-disclosure" }, { "input": "Being single does not mean you're completely alone. There are a lot of resources to talk to someone and make friends.\n", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "Being single does not mean you're completely alone. There are a lot of resources to talk to someone and make friends.\n", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "Could you try something like Facebook or Instagram to connect with old friends or acquaintances? ", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "Social networks online, you can connect with family or old coworkers. And post pictures and see what other people are doing with their lives.\n", "output": "Information" }, { "input": "So you're looking for a strictly romantic relationship?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "Can you go to the park? Maybe visit there to meet new people?", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "I've never used it, not sure if Tinder is the right place to meet someone to spend time with. Not always the best intentions.", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "People are not always who they say they are.\n", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "That's a great idea, everyone loves feeding birds! Glad we were able to chat.", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "Good afternoon. How may I assist you?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "What is unit? Are talking school", "output": "Restatement or Paraphrasing" }, { "input": "What age are You?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "I understand your dilemma. I am in my 60s and desiring my degree as well ", "output": "Restatement or Paraphrasing" }, { "input": "The COVID has put a lot of students is a bind. ", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "No I want to study a certain field. For better understanding of the Bible. ", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "have you ever heard the phrase you are never to old to learn?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "Yes He truly stands by you.", "output": "Reflection of feelings" }, { "input": "I started going to college in 94 and still going. ", "output": "Self-disclosure" }, { "input": "He will see you through just keep a positive attitude.", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "what is your field of study?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "I know what I am after, just have to be persistent. ", "output": "Self-disclosure" }, { "input": "That is a good choice of study. ", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "Are you full time\n", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "What about online classes that enable you to study and work also.", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "There are classes you can take that can fit your schedule", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "But don't give up what you started", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "Take classes now. See what you need and take the classes that will enable you to keep gpoing.", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "Just never give up. Two years will go by quickly if you keep attending.", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "Look for grants that will assist you. ", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "So keep applying yourself and reach for your goals. Have a good day.", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "Hi there, how are you doing today?\n", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "I'm sorry to hear you're feeling that way, what has you feeling this way?\n", "output": "Restatement or Paraphrasing" }, { "input": "Oh no, that's not good. Do the other kids see it as well?\n", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "Does your husband realize that the other child notices it and how it hurts them?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "Why do you think he favors that child? Is that child only with you part-time that he feels he needs to make the most of that time?\n", "output": "Reflection of feelings" }, { "input": "Is there someone that's close to both of you that you could talk to, that way they can help him see that it's very apparent that he's treating him different?\n", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "Very true, and it would likely be better with someone no quite so close to the situation. But you also don't have to attack him to her, just lay out the facts. I understand the frustration, it's hard to see your kids hurting or feeling like they're not enough. Is this the biggest issue you guys are dealing with in your marriage?", "output": "Self-disclosure" }, { "input": "Or is it just another thing you're not getting along on?", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "Someone who has seen you interacting as a family and maybe has noticed it as well. ", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "Sometimes just getting it off of your chest is all you need to reset.\n", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "I'm glad that helped and I wish you luck in finding a solution.", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "You too, stay safe!", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "Hi how can I help you today?\n", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "Hello??\n", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "I see, that is a problem.", "output": "Restatement or Paraphrasing" }, { "input": "yes for sure,", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "I am a student too, and I can feel that its difficult to study online. ", "output": "Information" }, { "input": "well, online study have its pros too , use Socratic app and get all your exams done lol", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "yes I'm a student too and just just one of my finals like 2 hours ago", "output": "Information" }, { "input": "yes it is actually and its free and also all of your online exams are open book, so you can always google anything you don't know ", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "give it a try its an amazing app", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "where are you from?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "no, its just a kind of google. so you have to take picture of the question and it will google all the results for you.", "output": "Information" }, { "input": "ummm, fees give everyone a hard time I literally have to pay 8 grand which is due in a month lol", "output": "Information" }, { "input": "don't worry, everything will be good at the end.", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "true", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "where are you from? you didn't tell me", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "ooh okie nice", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "Hi there!\n", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "How are you doing today?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "I am sorry to hear that. Would you like to talk about it?", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "Is there something particular you are worried about?", "output": "Restatement or Paraphrasing" }, { "input": "I can sense that this is bothering you a lot not knowing why your friend is making excuses. This is making you feel ignored. \n", "output": "Reflection of feelings" }, { "input": "May I ask if its been happening since the recent past or for a long time \n", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "I am assuming that you and your friend are very close and have been friends for a long time. Did you try talking to her over the phone? having a honest conversation with her and letting her know how you feel may help at times.", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "wow that's a very long time and such friendships are to be treasured. I too am lucky to have a friend like that but we do not talk often but when we talk it would be as if it was yesterday that we met. ", "output": "Self-disclosure" }, { "input": "Do you remember if anything significant happened a month back that disturbed her or you in some way? I ask as a long relationship cannot be marred with simple reasons and sometimes it just needs a heart to heart talk.", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "Also when you say she making excuses, do you find them logical. For all we know she might be having a real situation she might be dealing with", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "Yes please. Try calling again and if she is not answering your calls. Maybe you can try and meet her or write all your feelings in a mail and send to her. ", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "Hello , How are you today", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "Sounds like you need a little help staying on track and feeling me productive ?", "output": "Restatement or Paraphrasing" }, { "input": "Whenever I have important dates coming up , I always take time to myself and try and focus on the task at hand . Have you tried methods like this ?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "Just from chatting with you ,I can completely understand how that can be overwhelming .", "output": "Reflection of feelings" }, { "input": "Just from chatting with you ,I can completely understand how that can be overwhelming .", "output": "Reflection of feelings" }, { "input": "As a mom I have felt like this when my children were little , it became easier with time management ", "output": "Self-disclosure" }, { "input": "Maybe taking a little for yourself and your job search while baby is napping , may be good for everyone .", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "yes sorry ", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "Alot of research have showed that our brains needs stimulation for fun things also ", "output": "Information" }, { "input": "Alot of research have showed that our brains needs stimulation for fun things also ", "output": "Information" }, { "input": "Maybe could just use a relaxing day to yourself and then everything wil work out . I normally try this when planning my time management ", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "Do you have friends or family who maybe could help with the baby just for a little while ?", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "I get it , everyone seems to be so busy with life that they have forgotten tha you need your own time as well . ", "output": "Restatement or Paraphrasing" }, { "input": "Hello how are you doing today?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "I am great, it snowed and looks like Christmas here. Why are you so stressed?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "That is very hard to have feelings for someone who does not feel the same way. I have been there myself. ", "output": "Reflection of feelings" }, { "input": "Have you tried to put distance between yourself and this friend?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "Have you thought about talking with this friend about these feelings?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "Well maybe you should address these feelings with her in a very relaxed public atmosphere. Just let her know that you really like her and you have realized that she has many of the qualities that you look for in a person to get serious with. However, you treasure your friendship more than anything and you do not want anything to come in between your friendship....this way you have addressed your feelings, she knows how you feel and then should she decide to every take the friendship to the next step, she wouldn't feel awkward. ", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "That sounds like a great idea.", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "Have you been dating other people much?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "Yes the Corona virus has really put a damper on all kinds of normal activities. Have you thought about joining like a group with similar interests as yourself? Maybe look for a local group that has a Facebook page and you can start with building friendships just by chatting online or even on the public page itself. Some of the best lasting relationships start out as friends with similar interests and then they blossom. ", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "Sounds like a great plan, how are you feeling now?", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "That's great, sometimes just being able to talk through things with someone else, really helps to get things in perspective and brainstorm some new ideas. I am glad you are feeling better and hope that you have a great rest of your day.", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "Good Bye", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "hello, what is on your mind today? ", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "miscarriages are really hard", "output": "Restatement or Paraphrasing" }, { "input": "I lost a set of twins about 15 years ago. ", "output": "Self-disclosure" }, { "input": "It still makes me sad to wonder what they would be today. ", "output": "Self-disclosure" }, { "input": "I have had other children since then, and they make me happy but there will always be a sense of loss. i am sure that is not what you wnat to hear right now but i dont like to lie", "output": "Reflection of feelings" }, { "input": "i actually got a tattoo of a little heart with two halos on my right shoulder to honor thier memory", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "my miscarriage was my first prgnancy as well. i wonder sometimes if it is just our body saying it wasnt ready yet. \n", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "are you in a relationship?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "that is great, i hope he is supportive. ", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "you know, it may be a blessing in disguise. with COVID and all the hospitals full, maybe whatever higher power you believe in was saying you are meant to have a healthy baby in a healthy society", "output": "Information" }, { "input": "wow, that is a lot going on at once!", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "you two have time now for you to get healthy and recover and get the house exactly how you want it for a family", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "i had to move into a house a week after having a baby because i went into preterm labor and ended up tearing my stitches. it was a nightmare. i would have loved for my timelime to be differnt, but sometime we have to deal with the hand we are given", "output": "Self-disclosure" }, { "input": "I remember that. So much blood, it was scary thinking it was all coming out of me", "output": "Reflection of feelings" }, { "input": "well, you have time to get the house ready and when covid restrictions lift get yourself in a moms group so you have support and people to answer questions when they come up! ", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "i found a moms group on facebook. They were great to answer pregnancy questions and offer support and suggestions. ", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "the depression is normal too. you suffered a loss. Your hormones are still out of whack, those take some time to get back to normal", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "i just searched for the county i live in and moms group. i bet there is one in your area too! ", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "it will :) ", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "just hang in there and remember everything happens for a reason, even though we may not know the reason and we don't like that it happened! ", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "i wish you luck and health!", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "how you doing?\n", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "i can imagine how you are feeling right now, but can you explain better how the situation is?", "output": "Restatement or Paraphrasing" }, { "input": "i know you might be feeling betrayed right now, a friend should not have behaved like that ", "output": "Reflection of feelings" }, { "input": "there should be someone you can try to confined in, i know you did wrong by drinking, but you need to open up to someone, cop your parent or someone you trust.", "output": "Self-disclosure" }, { "input": "It fine, he will sure be pissed but its better to meet him lay out the truth, though he might be mad, but that will else up the problem \n", "output": "Reflection of feelings" }, { "input": "you should talk to your hubby dont be scared", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "it will be a more disaster if he get to know on his own", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "you can, tell your friend, she should be able to help, but you have to tell your hubby", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "he will trust you more only if you confide in him", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "with telling him you can be free from all guilt ", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "with telling him you can be free from all guilt ", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "please do, and make sure you stay clear of the friend \n", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "he isn't a friend worth keeping, you can report him to the appropriate bodies, the cops will do.", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "That will be great, and make sure you stay off party till the matter is resolved ", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "Hello\n", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "How are you doing today?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "I know that moving due to a lack of funds can be extremely hard. I'm sorry you are going through that.", "output": "Restatement or Paraphrasing" }, { "input": "I apologize. That is much harder situation. Are you unable to fight it due to the COVID-19 moratorium on evictions?\n", "output": "Reflection of feelings" }, { "input": "Have you tried any local churches or agencies? findhelp.org is also a great resource.", "output": "Information" }, { "input": "There should be funds to provide you with a hotel. Please check into that as well.", "output": "Information" }, { "input": "I would call the local social services department. The money was allocated to try to stop the spread of the virus. findhelp.org may have information as well. ", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "There should not be a cost to you. ", "output": "Information" }, { "input": "I'm not sure.", "output": "Information" }, { "input": "My pleasure. I hope you can find some assistance. If nothing else, call you local health department and/or local church.", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "Hi. How's it goin'?", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "Are you feeling troubled about something this morning?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "I know it can be hard to talk about personal problems sometimes. I have a lot of trouble with that myself.", "output": "Reflection of feelings" }, { "input": "It sounds like you're having some cash flow issues, right? I can relate to that at a few more points in my life than I'd points in my life than I'd like to recall. ", "output": "Restatement or Paraphrasing" }, { "input": "It's so very loving and sweet of you to be putting so much thought into the gift!", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "That isn't all that common anymore, unfortunately..", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "Are you currently working?\n", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "It is pretty ridiculous how income doesn't increase along with inflation/cost of living. Very illogical and crippling to many of us financially. Of course you'll need to put your rent and utilities above all else, and since the gift you are feeling stressed out about is a parental gift, ", "output": "Reflection of feelings" }, { "input": "I think that you will find out that all your parents really want is for you to be happy and to get to spend some quality family time with you. They love you and want you to be happy and healthy.That is a gift a lot of parents don't get, surprisingly..", "output": "Information" }, { "input": "It may sound cheesy to you,, but making a gift for someone is still one of the best ways to tell someone how much you really care. You were willing to give of yourself and your valuable time to actually create a gift. ", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "how are you feeling right now?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "what happened? can you describe it briefly so that i can understand?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "i think you really loved him and find it difficult to handle the situation. am i right?", "output": "Restatement or Paraphrasing" }, { "input": "that's really hard. sounds like you are really stressed.", "output": "Reflection of feelings" }, { "input": "from what i have seen, you should divert your attention on something that you love the most. it will help you to overcome from this situation.", "output": "Information" }, { "input": "just think about the things that makes you happy and try to spend more time on yourself. i this this will help you to do better.", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "yes. that is the best thing to do", "output": "Information" }, { "input": "you are more important to you than anyone.", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "hope you will feel better soon.", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "happy to hear that you are positive.", "output": "Reflection of feelings" }, { "input": "anything else you want to talk about?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "have a happy day then.", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "bye", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "then just finish the convo", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "thanks", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "ok sorry to hear that\n", "output": "Restatement or Paraphrasing" }, { "input": "ok sorry to hear that, how do you feel about that?", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "okay does he know how you feel?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "okay, maybe if you give him time he might change his mind?", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "he might not, maybe if you just give him time, you might feel different about him aswell. Dont you think?", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "okay, is there anything you can do to take your mind off things?", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "or speak to anyone about it?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "okay, have you ever tried meditation?", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "okay, I understand", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "Why don't you want nobody to find out, if I might ask?", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "okay, isn't it best to do what you think is right though?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "okay fair enough", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "Why do you still want him even though, he broke up with you if you don't mind me asking?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "it might be hard, but isn't it better to see how things go without him. It's not good to be a relationship if someone isn't 100 percent dont you agree?", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "it might feel like that now, but in time I am sure it will change ", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "okay, in my opinion I believe its best to be strong and try and focus on yourself and live a good life without him for now, until he changes his mind then maybe you re-asses the situation. ", "output": "Self-disclosure" }, { "input": "if you can't help him, its best you try and focus on yourself. ", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "no worries, I am here for you. ", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "what are you plans for today?", "output": "Information" }, { "input": "I think it is better, yes because then we can we see a better future :)", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "okay, it is important to remember to look out for yourself and do what is good for you, so if he calls and wants help when he doesn't deserve it, sometimes its best to say no. ", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "I have to finish my book today for my book club :)", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "how do you think it will go from here?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "Hello, how are you doing today?\n", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "Is there anything you'd like to chat about? What's on your mind?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "OK. This is a temporary feeling and it will pass. Please be kind to yourself. ", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "What led to you feeling this way?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "OK. So you proposed to your girlfriend, but she was seeing another man?", "output": "Restatement or Paraphrasing" }, { "input": "And the man you thought was her uncle was her other boyfriend? ", "output": "Restatement or Paraphrasing" }, { "input": "That is a horrible situation. It's not nice when people lie to you - I've had it happen to me before. ", "output": "Self-disclosure" }, { "input": "You must be feeling very betrayed at the moment. ", "output": "Reflection of feelings" }, { "input": "That sounds horrible. I think anyone would be upset with that! ", "output": "Reflection of feelings" }, { "input": "I wonder if it was best that this happened before you got married, though - it hurts, but it would have hurt more if she had become your wife. How does it feel if you think about it that way? ", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "How does your family and friends feel about it? Have you spoken to them? ", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "You must feel as though she has taken advantage of you and your generosity. ", "output": "Reflection of feelings" }, { "input": "I think it might be good to talk to people around you who knew you both. ", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "I know that it must be difficult because you feel like your pride has been hurt as well as your heart.\n", "output": "Reflection of feelings" }, { "input": "It sounds like you are a very thoughtful and generous partner. I know that others will see that in you. ", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "Perhaps you shopuld now focus on taking care of yourself. Did you neglect anything you need or enjoy to take care of her? Could you do that now?", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "I can see how that might make it difficult to trust people. ", "output": "Reflection of feelings" }, { "input": "However, not everybody is the same. You sound like a very caring person and there are lots of caring women out there looking for someone just like you. ", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "Could you spend some time getting to know more people until you feel like you can trust someone again? Do you have any hobbies you enjoy?", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "Great! Have you tried joining a book club, where you can discuss books you enjoy with others? That will help take your mind off things and you can meet new people too. ", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "I'm glad. I hope you have a great day and please remember to be kind to yourself. ", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "hi", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "you searching new job.using your qualify id with work.", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "don't fear okay ,first you wearing mask and distance make others", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "i have no idea,you discuss with others", "output": "Reflection of feelings" }, { "input": "definitely i inform to my friends ", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "okay i need help to you.", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "okay bye", "output": "Information" }, { "input": "you don't think others", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "be strong", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "okay", "output": "Information" }, { "input": "thank you", "output": "Information" }, { "input": "hi\n", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "why you like reach the stress?", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "many people don't like reach the stress but you ask having the stress ?whats your problem?", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "why you are lost a job? ", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "what happend?", "output": "Information" }, { "input": "you search a part time job.then you having money you pay the online fee.", "output": "Information" }, { "input": "you say first your principle next you think attend our online class.okay", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "first you care in your health then you focus in your study.", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "stay safe ans wearing mask then keep distance okay.", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "how can i help?", "output": "Reflection of feelings" }, { "input": "just i giving some advice only. okay", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "i think you are so lazy", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "sorry dr i have no idea.", "output": "Reflection of feelings" }, { "input": "okay i need help with my friend then i reply to you ", "output": "Information" }, { "input": "thank you", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "bye", "output": "Information" }, { "input": "what is your problem?", "output": "Self-disclosure" }, { "input": "explain to me?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "i am with you ,share your problem to me.", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "don't feel past is past.", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "what happend ?", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "you don't feel about anything.", "output": "Reflection of feelings" }, { "input": "he was fake.", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "believe your self and change your mind .", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "obay your parents advice.", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "you should tell them .they give a great solution .", "output": "Reflection of feelings" }, { "input": "okay, good", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "yes ,definitely you ask them next you make very peacefull moment.", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "god grace to you.", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "i will pray them.you don't feel any thing ", "output": "Self-disclosure" }, { "input": "you are a such a good person so you make good life.", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "Good evening.\n", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "It's going well, how are you?\n", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "Is there anything specific going on in school that it making you anxious?\n", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "Okay, so from what I have read you are anxious because you have a project and an exam going on and you are struggling in another, is that correct?\n", "output": "Restatement or Paraphrasing" }, { "input": "I can tell just from these few messages how anxious you are about these things.\n", "output": "Reflection of feelings" }, { "input": "I am currently in college too, and I completely understand the anxiety around your project and your exams. \n", "output": "Self-disclosure" }, { "input": "Have you talked to the professor in the class you are struggling in about ways he can help you learn better? I have found that speaking with my professors when I was struggling and explaining why has helped me in the past. \n", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "Is there anyone in your class that you are close to that you can reach out to?\n", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "Have you thought about reaching out to a tutor who has previously taken this course to help with the assignments?\n", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "Is it too late in the semester to drop the course without penalty?\n", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "Another option I could think of would be to reach out to your advisor and explain the situation with them and explain that everyone is struggling in the class. She may have some options for you, \n", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "I think that it would definitely help!\n", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "You are very welcome! I am glad you chatted with me tonight!\n", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "Thank you! You too!\n", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "hi how are you feeling today?\n", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "why are you feeling sad?\n", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "oh hate is such a strong word for your friend to use\n", "output": "Reflection of feelings" }, { "input": "oh that is quite a pile of conflict on you. you must be feeling emotionally \noverwhelmed", "output": "Reflection of feelings" }, { "input": "the boyfriend could very well be the reason she is lashing out at you. maybe she is projecting her feelings toward her boyfriend onto you.\n", "output": "Restatement or Paraphrasing" }, { "input": "has she had problems with her boyfriend in the past\n", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "you're feeling a bit like a punching bag because she has chosen such strong words without a reason, right?", "output": "Reflection of feelings" }, { "input": "has she ever spoken to u in this way before?\n", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "or similarly\n", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "A lot of times, people lash out in times when they are feeling stressed and the people closest to them can end up getting the brunt of it.\n", "output": "Information" }, { "input": "maybe you should let her know that you love her and say that you would never want to hurt her, so if you've hurt her, you'd like to know what you've done so you can avoid doing it in the future\n", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "but you have to make it clear that you cannot accept that kind of disrespect in the future if she can not come up with a reason for why she said it\n", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "absolutely. ", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "Hi", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "How are you?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "I'm good. ", "output": "Restatement or Paraphrasing" }, { "input": "What did you try to do that was bad?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "Why not?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "Wow I'm sorry to hear that.", "output": "Reflection of feelings" }, { "input": "I haven't, but I've thought about it before. I think most people have. Did you get professional help yesterday or today?", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "I don't have a plan, I just have though about how I have the power to end it. ", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "Why would you want to crash into someone else and potentially kill them too?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "that would be considered a murder suicide", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "you should call the national suicide hotline: 1-800-273-8255\n", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "or 911", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "I think you should reach out for professional help", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "how would you do it?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "how would you do it?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "well, I don't know if you are being serious or not but I'm going to reach out to Mturk and get them to get help for you. I don't mess around with this stuff. ", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "I will have them contact you through your worker ID", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "How are you today?", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "is anything bothering you, today? ", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "what are you fighting about? ", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "so, you're feeling isolated because of this? ", "output": "Restatement or Paraphrasing" }, { "input": "this happens very common in friend groups. it is understandable that you feel upset ", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "this happens very common in friend groups. it is understandable that you feel upset ", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "did u have an argument? ", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "what do u argue about ", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "its hard when you care about someone to not question there actions, when you feel you know whats best for them. is that how u r feeling?", "output": "Reflection of feelings" }, { "input": "you feel uncomfortable because your friends are ignoring your feelings?", "output": "Reflection of feelings" }, { "input": "sometimes, people hide when they are confronted.", "output": "Information" }, { "input": "i think it may be beneficial to give your friends some time, before attempting to speak with them again. maybe you can spend time with your family while you are waiting for them to cool down. ", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "do u have any friends that are still talking to you? ", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "i think you should spend time with the people that make you feel wanted. ", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "hello, how are you?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "Do you want to tell me what happened?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "Is there a reason for you to think that way?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "First of all, try not to overthink right now and do your best to review your materials", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "hmm I understand your frustration, have you talked to your professor about this?", "output": "Reflection of feelings" }, { "input": "I'm so sorry you were treated that way, it's unacceptable", "output": "Reflection of feelings" }, { "input": "How about teaching assistant or your friends? You can form a study group and I've found friends can help even more than teachers", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "Oh no don't worry about that,I believe they are understanding and as long as you ask nicely, they'll be more than glad to help you", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "Yeah, the problem with teachers is they usually don't see from students' perspective while your fellow students do", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "There are a few free online website that can provide help too, I used to check Khan Academy for concepts I don't understand", "output": "Self-disclosure" }, { "input": "at the same time, you need to make time to relax too, you don't want to overwhelm yourself before the test", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "of course, I hope I could help a bit", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "Hi How's it going?\n", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "I'm sorry to hear that. what's going on?", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "I'm sorry, that's tough anytime but that's gotta be brutal because of the year and upcoming holidays. ", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "what kind of work were you doing?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "I'm sorry to hear that. did they leave you with a severance package of any kind or anything? ", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "Oh good so you've already applied for unemployment? ", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "I'm guessing the unemployment office is pretty backlogged right now but at least you've got that done so far. ", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "have you applied anywhere yet?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "End of year is tough with all the companies re budgeting for the following year. I'm betting things will open up early next year. ", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "Have you considered gig economy jobs like uber or the grocery pickup apps?", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "You'd need a vehicle for that too but there are plenty of other gig jobs out there. you should take a look.", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "It may be an opportunity to test another kind of work ", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "In the mean time Mturk is always a decent option... ", "output": "Information" }, { "input": "No problem Happy to help!\n", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "I'm sorry. Would you like to tell me about it?\n", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "What bothered you about that?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "I can see why that would upset you though. Did something happen?", "output": "Reflection of feelings" }, { "input": "I'm so sorry that happened to you. ", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "I would be very upset as well. ", "output": "Reflection of feelings" }, { "input": "Did you speak to your friend about it?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "It is sometimes hard for people to believe someone they care about could do something bad.", "output": "Restatement or Paraphrasing" }, { "input": "I have been in a similar situation with a friend and her husband; when he was exhibiiing bad behavior, she did not want to see it in him. ", "output": "Self-disclosure" }, { "input": "I agree that she should value you your friendship more than someone she just met. ", "output": "Reflection of feelings" }, { "input": "It sounds like you are worried about your friend putting her trust into this guy.", "output": "Restatement or Paraphrasing" }, { "input": "I think if you talk to her again and tell her you are looking out for her best interests it may help open a conversation. ", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "If you do end up calling the cops, at least you will have tried to speak with her first. ", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "Knowing your friend, do you really think she would do that?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "It sounds like you really care about your friend, and want the best for her. ", "output": "Reflection of feelings" }, { "input": "She may not realize this but you are doing the right thing.", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "I hope that she does the right thing and that you can stay friends.", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "Good luck to you.", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "Hello, How are you?\n", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "I'm sorry to hear that. What has caused it to start? ", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "I understand your feeling of being upset, I would be too. Do you think it may have something to do with the pandemic, or possibly something else? ", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "I'm sorry to hear that. I've dealt with something similar earlier this year myself. I know how you are feeling. Have you tried to reach out to her and let her know how you've felt?\n", "output": "Self-disclosure" }, { "input": "I'm sorry to hear that. I've dealt with something similar earlier this year myself. I know how you are feeling. Have you tried to reach out to her and let her know how you've felt?\n", "output": "Self-disclosure" }, { "input": "I see. I would feel the same way if it were in your position. You seem like a person who would go above and beyond for a good friend. ", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "You do seem like a wonderful person, and anyone who is your friend would be lucky to say so. It does sound like your husband may be right. or even just taking a break for a little bit. \n", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "I totally understand that, especially with how long the friendship was. Sometimes just a little time away from eachother works. \n ", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "I would just distance it, and see if she reaches out in a week or so. if not, I would just reach out and see how everything is going. ", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "You're welcome! I hope everything works out for the both of you. ", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "Hi! How are you tonight?\n", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "Hi! How are you tonight?\n", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "Sorry that typed twice. ", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "I'm enjoying hearing the rain on the roof! Can I encourage you in some way?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "You made plans for Christmas and a coworker quit? Are they asking you to work then? ", "output": "Restatement or Paraphrasing" }, { "input": "I can understand your frustration. You were a team player during Thanksgiving so saying you are not seems like he wants you to feel guilty. ", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "Is this a company where you see yourself getting a promotion? ", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "Family is important. I can imagine how excited you have been to see your children again. ", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "I have personally had to learn how to not buy into false guilt. If you had plans, then they can ask some people to help out. However, I would consider maybe being flexible one day or two, but not out of guilt, but out of concern. I would personally pray about it. It's a hard situation.", "output": "Self-disclosure" }, { "input": "I'm sure it will all work out. I have been in that spot. You want to help, but not because they guilt you into it, that seems unfair. ", "output": "Reflection of feelings" }, { "input": "Maybe they will offer double time? lol That would be nice. ", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "I was just discussing with my husband how many people want to try and intimidate us lately. Seems so many are stressed out. I hope you have a Merry Christmas and really enjoy your visit with the kids.\n", "output": "Self-disclosure" }, { "input": "I agree with you! It has been a tough year. Jobs come and go, but family is forever! :D", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "Thanks! :D", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "Hi. How is life treating you at the moment? Would you like to talk about any problems? ", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "So you feel that you are being put in danger by the actions of your room-mate? ", "output": "Restatement or Paraphrasing" }, { "input": "I can totally understand how you feel. I absolutely hate how some people are pretending that the pandemic is not real and they do not need to worry. ", "output": "Self-disclosure" }, { "input": "Do not worry, your fears are totally grounded. Some people really just need to grow up and get educated. ", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "Is there anyone at your college who could help you with this? Perhaps move you into a single room? ", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "Yes they certainly have. They seem to think that it will never happen to them and do not realise that they are putting others at risk ", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "Is it possible for you to take some time off school? ", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "So you feel as though you are trapped .. you can't leave school but at the same time you are being put at risk through no fault of your own ", "output": "Reflection of feelings" }, { "input": "Please be assured that you are being sensible and that they are the ones at fault ", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "Let's hope that this is over soon .. this has been an absolutely terrible year. ", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "Here in the UK they have started to roll it out. ", "output": "Self-disclosure" }, { "input": "I have to agree ;) But we have a large infection and death rate here too, largely due to government irresponsibility ", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "Do you feel it would be better to be somewhere like New Zealand then, where there have been very few cases? It is a lovely country. ", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "So, you feel frustrated both by your roommate and also the conditions in your country? ", "output": "Reflection of feelings" }, { "input": "I can sincerely wish that the world is in a better place next year ", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "Perhaps we can learn something from this year and improve ourselves ", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "I hope I have been able to be of some help, just by allowing you to talk things out ", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "And you too .. thanks for talking! ", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "Hi! How are you this evening?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "I'm sorry to hear you are sad. What's going on? Maybe I can encourage you?", "output": "Restatement or Paraphrasing" }, { "input": "Ouch! So he wants to see his ex? Basically he is breaking up with you?", "output": "Restatement or Paraphrasing" }, { "input": "How long did you date him?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "I'm so sorry to hear this. You must be full of all kinds of emotions now. What are your plans?", "output": "Reflection of feelings" }, { "input": "I can understand your frustration. It happened to me before. And I've had girlfriends. They never change. They will apologize because they got caught, but they never really change. ", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "It's going to be very painful for a while because you have been invested 3 years in this relationship. Do you have friends to talk to that can encourage and support you? ", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "I find if they flirt, they already have cheated. Loyalty is something inside a person, or not. Very few will look inside themselves and see why they do this and want to change. If you were married, you would need counseling. ", "output": "Self-disclosure" }, { "input": "Do you meet up with your exes?", "output": "Reflection of feelings" }, { "input": "He lied because he didn't want you to know the truth. Which is betrayal. ", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "It's a hot mess, is it not? Why did you feel you wanted to spy on him? Did you already mistrust him?", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "Ok, so this is a HUGE red flag to you. You can ignore it, or not. Women KNOW when a man is cheating, so you had that inside of you. And you went with your hunch and now you have found he is dishonest. ", "output": "Self-disclosure" }, { "input": "Was the photoshoot to have pictures of him?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "I suppose it could be Christmas pictures of him for you? Or not. I personally feel honesty is the best policy, no matter what. I would come clean. I would tell him I sensed trouble and looked for it and found it. ", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "You could be, but then you wouldn't have a feeling of mistrust, you would just be sensing a surprise.", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "He could say that. And if he is lying, do you think he will begin to be honest? You will have to judge for yourself. If he is lying, he will continue to lie. And you will feel it inside of yourself. Is this the first time you felt this way? Or has this happened before? ", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "I'm an older woman, almost 60. I've been married 20 years but I had a lot of boyfriends and I can tell you one thing, If they start to look elsewhere, run for the hills, they will continue to excuse their behavior, apologize, say they will change, and it just gets worse. I drove myself insane with worry, suspicion. I wanted someone to treasure me, not cheat and lie. Cheaters don't change their spots. ", "output": "Self-disclosure" }, { "input": "Hello there. What would you like to talk about? ", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "So you are feeling lonely and bereft? I am sorry to hear that. Can you give me more information? ", "output": "Restatement or Paraphrasing" }, { "input": "Ah, so you were overseas and were conducting the relationship long distance? ", "output": "Restatement or Paraphrasing" }, { "input": "Do you feel that is unfair of her to have done this whilst you were away serving your country? ", "output": "Reflection of feelings" }, { "input": "But she should have understood that you were doing your duty whilst also providing for the pair of you ", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "Do you think it is possible that she has been unfaithful, or is it something else? ", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "Ah I see. How committed did you feel to her? ", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "I know, as a woman myself. that it is quite difficult when you are seeing someone but have no idea what their intentions are. ", "output": "Self-disclosure" }, { "input": "Have you considered getting some sort of counselling, either just you or as a couple? ", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "I am hearing you say that you still have feelings for her but you are not sure whether to totally break away or not, given that she has ", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "I can't tell you what to do but I think it might be best to go with your gut instinct. ", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "It has to be your decision but I think you will know if you've made the right one. ", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "I hope that I have been able to give you some good advice and that you feel a little clearer about things now. ", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "Thank you for that .. I am glad to have been on assistance. I wish you all the very best in your future, wherever it takes you. ", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "Thank you and best wishes! ", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "I have to stay here but feel free to show yourself out :) ", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "Hi! How are you tonight?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "Ouch! I'm so sorry to hear that. I never lost a dog, but I've lost cats. ", "output": "Restatement or Paraphrasing" }, { "input": "Is 14 a good age for a dog?", "output": "Restatement or Paraphrasing" }, { "input": "I have my first dog so I don't know much, he is 9 years old and came with our house. ", "output": "Self-disclosure" }, { "input": "I'm so sorry, losing a pet is very hard on us. ", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "Was that your only pet? Or do you have others? We moved from FL to KY and the little dog just hung out here, he really belonged to the neighbor's son who didn't want him, so he just ran around wild and wouldn't leave. I never had a dog, but it got cold, so i took him in. They never asked about him and after a week, I asked them if I could have the dog, so they said yes. I don't think they cared.", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "I wish I could give you a hug, really, there are no words to make this better as you already know the grief of losing a pet, it does get better, but it stings terribly at first.", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "So you definitely are a dog lover! I was in my 50s before I ever had a dog, now I wish I had more, they are really loving. Not like cats who don't care much about much except FOOD! lol", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "I know when tragedy happens, I can't get stuck in depression, I sort of have to force myself to put one foot in front of the other. It's hard to have a healthy balance between grieving and continuing to live. Cry, then dry my eyes, pick up, go for a walk, don't get caught in grief, but yet don't deny it! ", "output": "Self-disclosure" }, { "input": "I get stuck too. But you are doing the right things, here you reached out to someone and I do care, so you are moving forward.", "output": "Self-disclosure" }, { "input": "I always find it helpful just so have someone share my pain with me. Just to know I'm not alone.", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "I do understand. My mom died in 2010, right after she died, 1 of my cats died, my husband went into the hospital and almost died, so we went on vacation so I would not be consumed with grief, and do you know, we brought our pets and our cat died when we arrived here on vacation? I will never forget that. You know what. I knew I could either get consumed in grief, or push through. Man, that was hard. I prayed a lot and God got me through that and I had a good vacation, all things considered.", "output": "Self-disclosure" }, { "input": "I will definitely pray for you too that God will comfort your heart and that you will be comforted by your other dogs and your boyfriend's dogs and that you will feel joy at times at the happy memories you had with your dog. ", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "Prayer is what gets me through every day! :D It was rough, but I believe these hard times strengthen us in some way. Because life throws hard balls, and we have to move forward or be consumed. ", "output": "Self-disclosure" }, { "input": "I'm so glad I did too. It was a pleasure to meet you. And once again, (hug). :D", "output": "Reflection of feelings" }, { "input": "I have one more thing to say - wise words from this 92 year old lady at church named Sue. She told me this after my brother died. When you get older, everyone you know is practically dead. She said \"Life is for the living, if you get caught up to much in all the death, you won't life.\" True words. God bless, have a good night. ", "output": "Self-disclosure" }, { "input": "Hi there, I am here to help you with your problems. What would you like to talk about? ", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "So you are feeling unsatisfied in your work but you are not sure how to change ? ", "output": "Restatement or Paraphrasing" }, { "input": "I have been in this same position! Sometimes you have to take a leap, even though you are not sure what might happen. So far everything has worked out fine for me. ", "output": "Self-disclosure" }, { "input": "It is a tricky situation, to be sure. Have you talked to anyone else about it? ", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "I am glad to hear that you have someone supportive in your life. What is your current line of work? ", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "Would you like a total change? Or just a change of scenery? ", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "Online work can be very lucrative. I have been doing it for years personally. It is nice to be your own boss and choose your own hours. ", "output": "Self-disclosure" }, { "input": "It is true that stability is important. Do I hear you say that you are frightened of the insecurity of working from home? ", "output": "Reflection of feelings" }, { "input": "Ah .. I am in the UK so we have socialised medicine :). Would you feel more comfortable if you lived in a country like that? ", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "Goodness .. I do not have to pay anything. Also our prescriptions are fixed at about ten pounds each. ", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "I think maybe your job dilemma would be easier if you moved to a different country :D ", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "You might be able to make that much from home though. And what's life if you don't take the odd risk? ", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "Yes I am :) ", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "Is there anything else that you'd like to talk about ? ", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "I hope I have been able to be of some help to you :) ", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "Hello, how are you?", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "What happened?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "I'm sorry to hear that, when was it?", "output": "Reflection of feelings" }, { "input": "that sucks, did you tell your family?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "it's ok even if they can't really help, having someone to share your problem is good enough", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "Of course, anyone would feel the same. Maybe you should take a short trip, camping or go fishing to clear your mind for now", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "I think after you feel calmer then you can look for job. When we are desperate, we are unable to judge which option is good", "output": "Self-disclosure" }, { "input": "Absolutely, having friends right now is the best", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "you can drink a bit but be careful, people get addicted to alcohol during depression happens very often", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "give yourself a week or two, what done is done, you can use this time as a break for yourself!", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "Anything else I can help you with?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "after the trip, you can start looking around and see, if there's no good openings, you can do part time to get some income for now", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "good luck on finding a new job!", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "Hi there, how is life treating you right now? ", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "I am okay but feeling a little down at the moment. Is there anything that you'd like to talk about? ", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "Is there anything specific getting you down? How are things in your work and your personal relationships? ", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "Oh I am sorry to hear that .. you are having a problem with a close friend? ", "output": "Restatement or Paraphrasing" }, { "input": "No I did not, can you tell me about it? ", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "Thank you, I would like to be able to help you but do not know what the problem is right now ", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "Ah I see .. you feel as though you friend is dragging up things from the past which are no longer relevant to your friendship? ", "output": "Reflection of feelings" }, { "input": "Oh I am sorry, I misunderstood. Can you tell me a little about the situation? ", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "What is it that he wants you to apologise for? ", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "ah I see. I have had problems and sometime negative interactions about Covid with some friends too. I think it's a very difficult time for everybody; we are all feeling the strain and might be more irritable than previously \n", "output": "Self-disclosure" }, { "input": "Can you see any way in which you can work around it and be friends again? \n", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "I think that the tests are very necessary! Also social distancing and mask wearing at this time. ", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "I think that perhaps you do not need this toxic person in your life. After fifteen years without him do you really feel you need to stay r reconciled? ", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "In that case perhaps you can just agree to disagree on this topic? If you don't want to risk the friendship :). I hope I have been able to be of some help to you today and thank you for talking! ", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "And you too! ", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "bye!", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "(only you can end the conversation .. I can not) ", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "Please can you quit or we will time out ", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "Hi, how are you?", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "I'm sorry to hear that, it must have been hard for you", "output": "Reflection of feelings" }, { "input": "I feel you, can you tell me when it happened and why?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "She seems to be a bit immature, amazon tasks even if not your main income, is still income and you're just working to make your life better", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "that sucks, it must be shocking for you. Did you try to explain to her?", "output": "Reflection of feelings" }, { "input": "ah it is your thought that counts, I'm sorry she didn't appreciate your effort", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "But you know what, she might just not be the right one, a better partner would understand and even be moved by the fact you work so hard to give her a gift", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "haha, well your future partner might have something even better than that", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "of course, if you try to be your better version, a better girl will show up ", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "I usually find the right person appears when you don't look for them.So don't give up!", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "Hi there, how is life treating you today? ", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "This is something that is affecting a lot of people during the pandemic. Would you like to talk a bit more about your situation? ", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "Are you in employment at the moment, even part time? ", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "Ah, I hear you, I am in the same position. Where would you ideally like to see yourself in six months time? ", "output": "Self-disclosure" }, { "input": "That sounds very positive! What would you like to study? Will you work your way through? ", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "I hear you sounding a little more positive when you try to focus on the future rather than the present. ", "output": "Reflection of feelings" }, { "input": "What would you ideally like to be in the future? ", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "That is a really worthwhile goal and I genuinely think that you can achieve it if you stick to your guns. Please try not to let one bad year put you off perusing your dream", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "You are most welcome. We have five minutes left if there's anything you'd like to talk about in addition to what you have already told me. ", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "Perhaps you could tell me if you feel a little more positive now? You do sound it ", "output": "Reflection of feelings" }, { "input": "I am glad to have been able to help. We all need someone to talk to during a time like this \n", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "Perhaps you should make a plan for some sort of treat a month from now, when things will hopefully be better? Perhaps go out for a pizza night with friends or something? ", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "I do enjoy promising myself treats if I fulfil certain goals. It can be anything at all! ", "output": "Self-disclosure" }, { "input": "Anyway it has been lovely to talk to you and I wish you all the best in the future ", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "Please show yourself out :) ", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "I kind of need to see my next client now :) ", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "Hi, how are you?\n", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "Would you mind possibly telling me a bit more about it? I am not all that familiar with that, and it does sound intriguing.", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "I tend to worry at times too, and it almost always helps to talk about it with someone.", "output": "Reflection of feelings" }, { "input": "Do you usually get along well with your parents?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "It sounds to me like you're thinking that you've disappointed your parents by falling behind in class a little?\n", "output": "Restatement or Paraphrasing" }, { "input": "I felt much the same way back when I was in college. My parents paid my way through school, and even got me to pursue a major that I had no interest in.", "output": "Self-disclosure" }, { "input": "I can tell you from personal experience and seeing others who've gone through similar events, your parents just may be a little upset right now, but they love you and really just want you to have a good and happy life. It sounds cheesy, I know, but it is actually true.", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "I know it may sound silly, but you may want to start meditating on a regular basis. It truly does make a big difference in the amount of stress and worrying that you will find yourself not doing nearly so often.", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "Studies on the benefits of meditation, mindfulness, and yoga have been pretty definitive in the fact that it drops people's stress levels, and thus their cortisol levels, and makes a real change for the better. I do it myself and it really has worked well for me.", "output": "Information" }, { "input": "That's great! You'll be so glad that you did, I just know it.", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "Please make sure you get back in touch with me to let me know if it was beneficial for you as well.", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "You might also want to consider having an honest conversation about this with your parents. Are you able to have conversations like that with them?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "You may be surprised at how understanding parents can be when you open up to them", "output": "Information" }, { "input": "Thank you for sharing with me, and I truly hope that it has helped you even just a little. ", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "Thank you for sharing with me, and I truly hope that it has helped you even just a little. ", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "Hi. How are you today?\n", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "it's really a terrible time. you are definitely not alone in feeling that way. Is there something specific going on?", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "Is there a way you can write down in an email why the extra work is required and what specifically needs to get done in order to make this project successful for both you and your manager?", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "I have had managers like that. It's so frustrating. Is there a way you can have an in-person meeting and show her how extra help will make HER look good? Otherwise what I've done in the past is go over my immediate manager's head - or called a meeting with 3 of us.\n", "output": "Self-disclosure" }, { "input": "I have had managers like that. It's so frustrating. Is there a way you can have an in-person meeting and show her how extra help will make HER look good? Otherwise what I've done in the past is go over my immediate manager's head - or called a meeting with 3 of us.\n", "output": "Self-disclosure" }, { "input": "I feel for you because I've been there and I completely understand how you feel. And yes including HER and her manager won't make her feel as though you're going behind her back. \n", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "ridiculing you how? that's never ok", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "you have every right to feel upset about that. ", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "I wonder why HR isn't interested. Have you put it in writing? No one likes a paper trail that isn't acknowledged. \n", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "that has to be a horrible feeling to be in such a hostile work environment. do you have coworkers who would be willing to back you up?\n", "output": "Reflection of feelings" }, { "input": "there's definitely power in numbers!", "output": "Information" }, { "input": "if it's really that bad is there a way to get a transfer? ", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "yes and that just makes things so much worse. ", "output": "Reflection of feelings" }, { "input": "maybe seek out someone more senior in a different department who can help", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "When I had a toxic manager I went in and did my work and kept to myself as much as possible. But it does help to have allies throughout the company too!", "output": "Self-disclosure" }, { "input": "you're very welcome. I definitely understand what you're dealing with!", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "you, too. enjoy the rest of the weekend!", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "Hi there, how are you feeling today? ", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "I see ... so you're having a career dilemma and this is affecting your overall physical health? ", "output": "Restatement or Paraphrasing" }, { "input": "Please try not to worry, this is a very common thing to happen to people. I will try to help you all that I can. ", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "Do you feel as though another job might be more intellectually fulfilling for you? ", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "I understand how difficult it can be to take what might be a life changing move. I have been in that position myself. I can't tell you what to do but I can say that it worked out very well for me. ", "output": "Self-disclosure" }, { "input": "Have you contemplated seeing your doctor? They might be able to help with your anxiety. ", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "I know things can feel hopeless when you're in a bad mental place but please don't lose hope. Things will definitely improve but I think you should take steps to help yourself too ", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "I know that a very large percent of the population suffers from anxiety at some point or another. There are therapies that can help. ", "output": "Information" }, { "input": "There are lots of different routes you can go down when it comes to treatment. Some people prefer therapy whilst others take medication, or a combination of the two.You have to find what works for you. ", "output": "Information" }, { "input": "Do you feel as though Covid is making your situation worse than it would otherwise be? ", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "I have been having a really difficult year too. Roll on 2021! ", "output": "Self-disclosure" }, { "input": "Me too! Let's hope January brings better things for all of us. ", "output": "Self-disclosure" }, { "input": "Yes. Once your anxiety subsides a little do you think that the job situation might solve itself? ", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "Your are most welcome. Is there anything else that I can help you with? ", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "Goodbye and good luck! ", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "(I can't leave from this end .. you need to :)) ", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "Hi! How are you tonight?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "That's good to hear. ", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "I'm doing great, thank you!", "output": "Self-disclosure" }, { "input": "Is there anything that you wanted to talk about?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "I'm so sorrry to hear. that. Is there any reason for it?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "That's so hard. Was there any cause for the arguing or is it just general tension?", "output": "Restatement or Paraphrasing" }, { "input": "THat's so hard. My best friend hated my ex boyfriend as well and we always fought about it. I tried really hard to understand where she was coming from. IN the end, she was right about somethings. ", "output": "Self-disclosure" }, { "input": "What was really helpful for me, was having us all spend time together so she could get to know him. ", "output": "Self-disclosure" }, { "input": "You should try setting up a fun day for them where they can get to know each other. ", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "Bowling is gret!! would your best friend be open ot it? ", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "That's great!!! this way you can keep them both in your life. ", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "Anytime! Do you need anything ese?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "I'm so sorry that you are feelingly lonely. If I may ask you a question, when did this start?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "Were you feeling lonely before the virus came this year?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "It sounds that you are feeling lonely because you cannot talk to people face to face. Do I have that right? \n", "output": "Restatement or Paraphrasing" }, { "input": "I WFH as well. It can be very liberating, but oftentimes I feel lonely too.", "output": "Self-disclosure" }, { "input": "Do you have more than one job that you do at home?", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "I know that it's really difficult right now, but it seems that the virus is going to get better in the new year. We need to push through these next few months and then it will be over.", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "Yes, I do feel that way. And yes I will take the vaccine. ", "output": "Self-disclosure" }, { "input": "Apparently, the side effects are usually minimal and temporary if you have them at all. The people that are having severe reactions have had issues with vaccines previously. I would keep an open mind. It might help to ease your anxiety about the future.\n", "output": "Information" }, { "input": "There are going to be several vaccines to choose from eventually.", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "It sounds like you're being selfish because you're not going to take the vaccine. Does that seem like a reasonable conclusion?", "output": "Restatement or Paraphrasing" }, { "input": "Yes, I do. It's not bothersome and it's the least I can do to keep myself and others safe.", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "You as well!", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "Good evening.\n", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "So just so I understand, the holiday season is making you feel alone and isolated.\n", "output": "Restatement or Paraphrasing" }, { "input": "Is there anything in particular about the holidays that is bothering you?\n", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "I am also far away from my family for the holidays, so I know how hard that is\n", "output": "Self-disclosure" }, { "input": "Not at all\n", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "Have you thought about setting up some video calls with your family during the holidays? I know a lot of people are doing that so they can feel closer to the family during these tough times/\n", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "I have not been able to travel as much due to the virus.\n", "output": "Self-disclosure" }, { "input": "That is tough, but I definitely think setting up a time to chat with her would help a lot!\n", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "I can through our messages that this is a very tough season for you\n", "output": "Reflection of feelings" }, { "input": "Hello there, how are you doing? ", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "You seem a little down. Is there anything you'd like to talk about? ", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "So you are experiencing feelings of inadequacy? That is very sad. Can you tell me why you think you feel this way? Has anything changed lately? ", "output": "Restatement or Paraphrasing" }, { "input": "I am sorry to hear that. I've experienced difficulties with friendships too. Do you think you can talk with her? ", "output": "Self-disclosure" }, { "input": "It sounds a little as though her behaviour is toxic. Does the friendship really mean that much to you? ", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "So you feel that the friendship is worth fighting for, but she is not being responsive? ", "output": "Reflection of feelings" }, { "input": "Was there one specific thing that triggered this or had it been coming for a long time? ", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "Would you consider having some counselling together? Perhaps talk through what is going on? ", "output": "Information" }, { "input": "She has no right to issue you with an ultimatum like that. ", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "I really feel as though you are the one putting all the effort in here and she is just making selfish demands on you. ", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "Perhaps it is time to try and make some new friends? Join a society or something? ", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "I think you know deep down what is the best thing to do. You don't need selfish people in your life. ", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "You have your boyfriend though :). He will always be there for you - and not treat you as badly as she has! ", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "I don't think you owe her an explanation after how she has behaved. Leave her to make the next move ", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "I hope I have been able to help you a little! ", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "I know that you must feel that this could be a problem but I think you will be able to just ignore her. I am afraid I must leave for my next appointment now. ", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "you're most welcome and enjoy the rest of your day! ", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "(I think you have to quit your end ;)) ", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "Hello\n", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "Hello", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "How can I help you tonight>\n", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "So just so I understand, your sports club struggled today so you are frustrated by this.\n", "output": "Restatement or Paraphrasing" }, { "input": "I can tell how frustrated this has made you just from exchanging these few messages.\n", "output": "Reflection of feelings" }, { "input": "I completely understand the frustration, I am also a big sports fan and I get very frustrated when my team struggles. \n", "output": "Self-disclosure" }, { "input": "Have you thought about talking to other fans of the team to get their feelings on the subject? Sometimes it helps to vent to people who feel the same frustration as you, \n", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "I understand completley. \n", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "Do you have any other sports teams you are a fan of?\n", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "What other hobbies do you have? Sometimes it helps to distract from a tough loss to engage in other hobbies to take your mind off of it.\n", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "I would definitely go listen to some music and get your mind off of things. \n", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "I think that would help!\n", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "No problem! If you ever need anything else don't hesitate to reach out!", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "Have a good night!\n", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "Hello. I am so sorry to hear that. I am unable to depend on my family as well. Did you have an unexpected expense?", "output": "Self-disclosure" }, { "input": "I have been looking for ways to make extra money as well... I completely understand how you feel in that aspect. Times are hard and stressful", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "Are you in school and working at the same time? What have you found recently to make extra money?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "I have just started using ibotta for my groceries... its not much but once i think ive finally got it figured out. I've been on reddit the past few days looking for websites like mturk but I havent tried any that i feel compare yet. ", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "It sounds like you are feeling overwhelmed and excluded by your family, I'm sorry", "output": "Reflection of feelings" }, { "input": "I have tried pinecone, focus group, and a few others. none compare to mturk in my opinion. How long have you been using mturk? it definitely gets better with time. I'm still figuring it out but it has helped more than anything else i've tried. Did your family say why they wont help you out? maybe they are just unable to", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "Do you still live with them? Sometimes our own family takes advantage of us without meaning to. I'm sure that makes you feel unappreciated. ", "output": "Reflection of feelings" }, { "input": "It's surveys... I think that one is supposed to be 3$ each but i've never qualified for one. Most that claim to be higher paying just ask you tons of questions and then say you dont qualify.", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "i saw one i'm going to try let me look up the name of it.. a lot of people were talking about it on an mturk forum saying positive things.", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "Ok heres a few I am going to look into that i saw people talking about... microworker, clickworker, crowdsource", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "Reddit has helped me learn how to earn more on mturk ", "output": "Information" }, { "input": "yeah I have learned a lot by reading other peoples questions and suggestions. Things I wouldnt have even thought of.", "output": "Information" }, { "input": "I know times are hard, I hope you can find some extra income and appreciation from your family.", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "You're welcome. Good luck!", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "Hi, I am very sorry to hear that.\n", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "What it is you are feeling anxious about?\n", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "So you are feeling anxious about losing your job due to COVID, just to clarify.\n", "output": "Restatement or Paraphrasing" }, { "input": "Just from the few messages we have exchanged I can tell this is making you very anxious. \n", "output": "Reflection of feelings" }, { "input": "Have there been any lay off's at your job due to COVID?\n", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "I completely understand that feeling, as I was also very worried about my job when the pandemic started, \n", "output": "Self-disclosure" }, { "input": "Have you spoken with your manager about this? It might help to get some clarification from your manager about your job security?\n", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "I understand being worried about that, but I definitely think getting some clarity would help you out in the long run. \n", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "From the news I have seen the vaccine is coming soon and that is supposed to be very helpful to help get back to normal.\n", "output": "Information" }, { "input": "I know it is a super tough time, but I know you can make it through it!\n", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "I have struggled with anxiety in the past as well and it definitely helps to talk to people about it. \n", "output": "Self-disclosure" }, { "input": "You're very welcome! Feel free to chat if you need anything else!\n", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "Good afternoon. How are you doing today?", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "Sounds like you might be having a rough day. Is there something specific on your mind?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "An uptick in expenses seems to be an issue for a lot of us right now. Glad to hear you enjoy your job. Sounds like you are a bit torn about leaving a great company. Do I understand that right?", "output": "Restatement or Paraphrasing" }, { "input": "I can absolutely understand why your situation is difficult. Have you had a chance to talk with your manager about another opportunity within the company that provides higher compensation?", "output": "Reflection of feelings" }, { "input": "That's fantastic that you work for a non-profit. I've been looking to transition to an opportunity like that sometime in the future. It must be so fulfilling. I think asking would be a great first step.", "output": "Self-disclosure" }, { "input": "As a secondary plan, have you had the chance to look at positions with similar non-profits?", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "Additional stress right now certainly isn't anything anyone needs. You may want to consider looking at resources online that provide comparable salary information for your position. That would help with having a conversation with your current employer if you are being paid less than average. Since they are a non-profit, I'm sure they would want to do everything to help you with your financial situation.", "output": "Reflection of feelings" }, { "input": "That sounds like a great next step. Is there anything else on your mind that you'd like to chat about?", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "It was my pleasure. Have a wonderful rest of your day and keep your head high!", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "It would be fantastic to hear how positive your situation turns out.", "output": "Reflection of feelings" }, { "input": "Hello\n", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "I am doing well and how are you feeling today?", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "Thank you for sharing, feeling anxious days before an exam is a normal. ", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "I am also anxious about my upcoming exam this week. ", "output": "Self-disclosure" }, { "input": "I am preparing to sit to become a clinical counselor. I can relate to feeling anxious. You are not alone. ", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "What do you think is triggering your anxiety?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "Research has shown that fear of failure does stem from feelings of anxiety, but is it possible to look at fear of failure from a different perspective?", "output": "Information" }, { "input": "Do you think you can channel your fear of failure into positive energy?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "You can turn your anxiety into extra energy to plan and prepare. ", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "Having anxiety can give you a boost of energy, which gives you an advantage to achieve your goal.", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "Yes, indeed. Having anxiety will keep you anchored to your study plan which would increase your ability to perform well for the exam. ", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "Awesome! In addition, as you follow your study plan, remember to pace yourself. ", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "You are welcome, I hope this session was helpful. ", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "I am doing well, thanks for asking! How are you?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "I'm sorry to hear that. Can you describe what's going on?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "What is your career, if you don't mind me asking?", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "That sounds like a very difficult major to study. That's a very notable goal!", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "I have had a similar experience. I am studying to become a certified optician at the moment. ", "output": "Self-disclosure" }, { "input": "Is there anything in particular that is making you feel this way towards your goal?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "It sounds like you're worried a lot about your career's future, if that sounds correct?", "output": "Restatement or Paraphrasing" }, { "input": "I think that's a completely normal feeling. It shows that you really care about your future and where you're going.", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "It is! How long have you been studying civil engineering?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "Hi! How are you feeling today?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "Can you tell me a little about what happened?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "Oh No! I can understand why you would be sad.", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "It sounds like you found out because you saw strange charges on your account. Is that right?", "output": "Restatement or Paraphrasing" }, { "input": "Sometimes bringing this up with your partner can help you feel better. Have you tried this?", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "I've been in a similar situation before. It helped me to talk about it.", "output": "Self-disclosure" }, { "input": "I went to couples therapy to help work things through. Would you consider that?", "output": "Self-disclosure" }, { "input": "It sounds like we've come up with a plan to help you. I know you can do it!", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "You're welcome!", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "No problem. I'm glad you have a plan.", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "Goodbye!", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "Are you there, and do wish to chat?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "How can I be of support to you?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "The virus is keeping me isolated. Looking to chat. I will like to chat", "output": "Self-disclosure" }, { "input": "I can relate to that", "output": "Self-disclosure" }, { "input": "My x is taking me to court for past due even though there is a virus. How long have you been divorced", "output": "Reflection of feelings" }, { "input": "It sucks.", "output": "Reflection of feelings" }, { "input": "So your x is wanting more, mine is doing so to control me", "output": "Restatement or Paraphrasing" }, { "input": "I can understand the emotion part as mine had lawyer who that encouraged her to seek more.\n", "output": "Reflection of feelings" }, { "input": "I am not wanting to be with anyone because my x is jealous and wants me alone. I desire romance but feel that supporting two wives is too much.", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "Long walks alone sucks. I want to so much hold a hand walking, but I know she will try to stop any involvement", "output": "Reflection of feelings" }, { "input": "I realize the desire to be alone, but find a female friend that wants to spend time together to keep you from feeling like you are going it alone.", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "Make a friendd 1st then the romance may come. There are a lot of lonely women who desire friendship as well.\n", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "I am going on 5 years. I want a friend I can chat with over coffee. take it slow but find a friend.", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "Just be yourself and let her be herself.", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "Hi! how are you today?\n", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "What are you worried about?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "I am so sorry to hear that. When will that happen?", "output": "Restatement or Paraphrasing" }, { "input": "You should start looking through places online, there are tons of sites online. ", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "It's true, it's so horrible. I am so sorry to hear that. Have you tried reaching out to family?", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "I think so, it;s great that you have a brother. Family is so important right now to help all of us stay sane in this pandemic. ", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "There are aa ton! If you search online or on social media. I've recently started to get involved with many of them. There are ones providing food, home goods, and even housing for people impacted by the pandemic. ", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "That's so great! IT will make you feel good to be proactive and do something. ", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "You can also take this time to focus on hobbies and other things that you wnat. ", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "It was my pleasure. ", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "No way! you should try to be poistiive. I\"ve found most of my useful resources by just googling and spending time looking through results. I also have surprisingly found a lot on social media - like twitter. ", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "That's great! IT's also a good place because you can ask questions. ", "output": "Information" }, { "input": "Hello, I hope you are as well. Is anything the matter?", "output": "Restatement or Paraphrasing" }, { "input": "I feel the same way. I cant wait for life to be normal again. It has been a hard year.", "output": "Reflection of feelings" }, { "input": "Do you live alone? Do you mean meeting new people or getting together with people you already know? I am naturally an introvert, so it honestly didnt bother me the first month or so... but I'm so over it now. I wish I had taken advantage of freedoms we had before all of this. ", "output": "Self-disclosure" }, { "input": "I think it will pass eventually, but who knows when. It feels like every where you look things are falling apart sometimes. What kind of place do you live in?", "output": "Reflection of feelings" }, { "input": "You're so right.... I miss not fearing the virus. I don't fear at as much as I did, but I fear giving it to a loved one. Do you travel a lot for work?", "output": "Reflection of feelings" }, { "input": "Some people are on lockdowns, I'm nervous about our income in the next few months with the talk of more stay at home orders. I know it feels like itll be like this forever but I really dont believe it will. It may get worse before it gets better but I think things will go back to normal eventually.", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "I have traveled states recently and the difference is crazy! I went through Tennessee, missippi, and alabama and stopped a few times.. some places are just going on like normal, hardly any masks.. in arkansas you never see anyone indoors without one. ", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "I totally agree. And you never know what is true or not. Its stressful. I'm in georgia now and most people do not wear them unless asked. I've only been required to at dr appointment. Is it mandatory where you are now?", "output": "Reflection of feelings" }, { "input": "There are signs here but half the shoppers dont wear them. I think people here dont fear it as much as other places. ", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "So you travel because you want to? YES the gas station closest to me.... I have been in there every other day recently and never seen a person in a mask. The employees at the dollar general close to me dont wear them either. I dont think it will either honestly. Sometimes I feel guilty if I'm not wearing one. The uncertainty of everything gets to me. ", "output": "Reflection of feelings" }, { "input": "I wear mine to protect other people.... I do have health issues that could complicate things but I dont thing it will stop me from getting it. ", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "I MISS THEM TOO. We were in PCB last summer and everyone was freaking about the water lol. we had no idea what was coming", "output": "Reflection of feelings" }, { "input": "well I hope you are able to connect with people soon.. I think these are cool.. Its nice to talk to new. Youre right generally people dont care for other people, but I'm not that way. Panama City Beach. ", "output": "Information" }, { "input": "new people*", "output": "Restatement or Paraphrasing" }, { "input": "hello, what is on your mind today?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "why is that? because of covid?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "so, your friend and thier friends make plans in front of you but dont invite you?", "output": "Restatement or Paraphrasing" }, { "input": "have you ever just showed up? maybe they assume talking in front of you is like an invite", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "or have you ever asked your friend what is going on?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "that has to be frusterating. have you thought about moving on and finding better friends?", "output": "Reflection of feelings" }, { "input": "it sounds like you are a great person and you deserve a lot better than that. ", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "i understand that, i am an army veteran", "output": "Self-disclosure" }, { "input": "what about having a dinner for some other couples in his unit? have him plan a get together? even drinks and bowling or something", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "fair enough. well maybe you can just hang in there till this stupid virus thing is over i heard the fda has approved a vaccine for emergency purposes . i bet military will be some of the first to get it. ", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "i bet once they get the soldiers vaccinated the rules on get togethers will get less strict!", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "just hang in there till 2020's over, we don't much longer till 2021, and then its a whole new year! ", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "the whole world hopes so! lol", "output": "Restatement or Paraphrasing" }, { "input": "Hello. How are you doing today?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "I'm sorry to hear that. What is on your mind?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "I lost my job too during the pandemic. Sounds like you are going through a similar situation due to Covid and are struggling with your finances. Did I understand your concern correctly?", "output": "Restatement or Paraphrasing" }, { "input": "There are a lot of people like us going through this difficult time. Are you talking with friends or family about your situation?", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "I'm certainly glad your uncle is there to talk to. I know family can be a source of strength. Have you been able to find any assistance from local organizations?", "output": "Information" }, { "input": "Food stamps is a good start. My parents just applied and were approved for a small amount, which is a start. You might want to check your local government website or for local charities. Does that sound like something you'd be interested in researching?", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "I am really sorry you are having to go through this. You sound like a very strong person that will find the right solution. It took a lot for you to seek support.", "output": "Reflection of feelings" }, { "input": "I'm here as long as you need to chat. I'd recommend reaching out to the electric and water companies to get those turned back on. They likely have special programs to help during the pandemic. Once you have a chance to review the local government and charity options, you can look to get your car back. Take it one step at a time and things will start to get and feel better for you. ", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "That's great. Is there anything else that would be helpful for us to discuss?", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "Glad I could be of assistance. I wish you the best during these trying times.", "output": "Reflection of feelings" }, { "input": "hello, what is on your mind today?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "that is really tough. a lot of people are going through that, you are not alone ", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "what kind of business do you have?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "christmas is right around the corner though, and it is almost the 15th. military get paid the 1st and 15th so there is still hope for a christmas rush!", "output": "Reflection of feelings" }, { "input": "tax season is right around the corner too... there is defineately still reason to keep hope ", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "are you online or in store?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "thats great then, online businesses are less likely to fail", "output": "Restatement or Paraphrasing" }, { "input": "you know, i am in construction and there are soo many zoom meetings. honestly, i was in an office with 4 people and hardly wore make up. now with all these meetings i amd doing meetings constantly and i have had to start wearing more make up to look more profesional", "output": "Self-disclosure" }, { "input": "i know it can be scry, but you ust have to keep a positive attitude ", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "also, i think it depends on where you are in the world. covid hit my area really hard around april/may, but things are completely back to normal now. people hardly wear masks, stores are open, it just takes time ", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "maybe you could distritubute samples to hospitals for the nurses as a christmas present. put your card in. you KNOW they have job stability and it could lead to sales!\n", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "if you have a facebook page you can always make a post saying you are giving back to the community by giving the essential workers chrismas gifts.... it could make people in your community want to support you back!", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "i think you will be fine. you are resourceful, you are supplementing income with mturk, thats awesome. you seem to have a good head on your shoulders", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "I am well than you, and yourself?\n", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "You went throught a breakup a few years ago?", "output": "Restatement or Paraphrasing" }, { "input": "How long ago was the breakup?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "I had a bad breakup that I thought about for about 6 months. Then I realized that life moves on. If it did not work out, it was for a reason.", "output": "Self-disclosure" }, { "input": "I thought about the good times and bad. I went over why it didn't work. I realized that it never would have. Then I carried that new knowledge to my next relationship", "output": "Self-disclosure" }, { "input": "It was time and meeting new people/partners. I knew after the breakup more about myself and what I needed in a long term/life long partner", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "Have you been dating other people?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "They have been great people? You need to learn/remember what you liked most about the partner that you are talking about, what you didn't like most, and find both a new partner.", "output": "Restatement or Paraphrasing" }, { "input": "I know you will find the rigt person. ", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "It took my 2 years after my last breakup to find my now wife! Just be patient and keep looking", "output": "Self-disclosure" }, { "input": "Well, you could read a few books about relationships? Do some research", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "Not really, I would just look online, and type in relationship books and look at reviews.", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "You think you will burden him? You are not a burden", "output": "Restatement or Paraphrasing" }, { "input": "We all have different gifts that my benefit our friends. That is part of being a good friend.", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "You are not. Be confident in yourself", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "Glad I could help", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "You as well", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "what?", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "How can I help you? ", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "I am so sorry to hear that. I have previously lost a job and I know how distressing it is. Can you tell me about it? ", "output": "Self-disclosure" }, { "input": "So you are feeling as though you are letting your family down? ", "output": "Restatement or Paraphrasing" }, { "input": "I can understand how that feels. Have you tried to talk to them about it? ", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "Do you feel as though you are going through all of this on your own? ", "output": "Reflection of feelings" }, { "input": "Do you know that there are people out there who can help you? Have you tried contacting some charitable organisations that will provide counselling for free? ", "output": "Information" }, { "input": "They can be really very helpful. I have reached out to them myself previously ", "output": "Self-disclosure" }, { "input": "The job market is very uncertain right now but please know that you are not alone! ", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "Have you considered retraining?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "There is no such thing as too old! I have a friend who trained as a teacher at age fifty. ", "output": "Self-disclosure" }, { "input": "There are a lot of options out there. Perhaps you should see a career advisor? ", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "Do you have any ideas of things that you'd like to do? ", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "Do you have any ideas of things that you'd like to do? ", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "So you feel that you could retrain? ", "output": "Reflection of feelings" }, { "input": "I know how frightening it can be. But if you strike out there, you never know! ", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "Well if you don't try you will never know what might have happened. I wish you all the very best with it. ", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "You are most welcome. Is there anything else that I can help you with? ", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "Hello, how are you today?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "Why are you feeling sad?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "That sounds difficult. How does that make you feel other than sad?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "You feel bad about the situation. Tell me more?", "output": "Reflection of feelings" }, { "input": "Can you think of any strategies you might be able to use to stop your friends from avoiding you?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "You try to talk to your friends about how you feel?", "output": "Restatement or Paraphrasing" }, { "input": "So you feel mixed emotions if i understand you correctly?", "output": "Reflection of feelings" }, { "input": "Tell me more about you then?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "It sounds like you have lots of positive attributes and you are a good friend. ", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "Is there anything else you'd like to chat about?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "Tell me about your friends?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "Sometimes you don't like the activities they do? Have you thought of any ways you might be able to get them to do activities you do like?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "It sounds like you have a plan.", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "I'm glad to hear that you are feeling more positive about things. ", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "No problem.", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "Is that all for today?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "What would you like to talk about?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "We have talked about your friends and your life and you feel like you have a plan moving forward. ", "output": "Restatement or Paraphrasing" }, { "input": "You're going to move on by your own rules. Tell me more?", "output": "Restatement or Paraphrasing" }, { "input": "I'm glad to hear that.", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "Take care", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "Hello there, I am really sorry to hear that. Can you give me any more details? ", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "You must be feeling very distressed about it right now. I am happy to talk about it. ", "output": "Restatement or Paraphrasing" }, { "input": "I know that this is a very difficult time for everyone, given the current situation with Coronavirus. It can't make things any easier for her. ", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "Does she have anyone else around her who is supporting her? ", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "Do you feel that you are not offering as much support as you might? ", "output": "Reflection of feelings" }, { "input": "I know how you feel. It can be very difficult to know what to say if someone is seriously ill. Sometimes it's better just to offer quiet support and tell people that you are there to listen if they need you. ", "output": "Self-disclosure" }, { "input": "Yes I have. My sister in law was diagnosed with cervical cancer and I wanted to be supportive but I had no real idea what to say. ", "output": "Self-disclosure" }, { "input": "I actually talked to a counsellor about it. I think that you should do that, it might help you a lot. ", "output": "Information" }, { "input": "Counselling can be expensive but there are some charities out there that offer a few sessions for free ", "output": "Information" }, { "input": "Yes that is an excellent idea and you could both join the same group ", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "How do you feel in yourself at the moment? Are you worried about your own health? ", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "You are certainly not the only one who is feeling this - it has been a terrible year. Cancer is bad at any time but this year it is especially awful. ", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "I am hoping that in the New Year things will be better .. maybe in January the world will look like a more positive place. ", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "I hope that things go well with you and your mentor. ", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "I am glad that I was able to help. I wish you all of the very best in the coming year. ", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "A group is an excellent idea! ", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "There are lots of online support groups you might find helpful. ", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "This could be true but I want to have an easier year next year!! ", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "No problem. I should probably leave now :) ", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "Hi there, how are you?", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "I'm doing well, thanks for asking. What are you seeking support for today?", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "Thank you for sharing that. It sounds like you are describing a strong association between the holiday season and loss of loved ones. This leads to less of a desire to engage in typical holiday events. Does that sound right?", "output": "Restatement or Paraphrasing" }, { "input": "I can see why this time of year is difficult for you. Trying to hide depression can be a challenge. Rather than hiding the sadness or grieving feelings, some people find relief in acknowledging and sharing these feelings with family members who may relate. Do you ever share these feelings with your cousin or grandparents that you mentioned?", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "I understand. When losses are experienced it is a great change in many aspects of our lives. ", "output": "Self-disclosure" }, { "input": "Are there any aspects of the holidays that bring you joy? Maybe holiday music, movies, bright snow (if there is snow where you live), or seeing joy on someone's face when you give them a great gift?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "I understand - and it is normal to feel that way. When we lose someone who brought us happiness, it is only natural to miss them and their company. ", "output": "Information" }, { "input": "That's great! You must have a special talent for personalizing your gift selections. Perhaps focus on that reaction from you nieces and nephews to support your motivation for giving gifts this year. ", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "Wow, what a great gift idea! That is a solid start on your gifts for the season, and something to be proud of. ", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "And I see, it sounds like the changes in your life are potentially impacting your daughter as well. However, I'm glad you have each other for support this season. This year has been crazy for many reasons, and many people tend to find comfort in routines or traditions. Do you and your daughters have any holiday traditions you typically complete?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "Awesome gift idea! Personalized gifts are always so heartfelt and appreciated. Good thinking!", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "hello there, how are you? \n", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "I am sorry to hear that. Do you want to talk about it? ", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "Oh I am so sorry to hear that. I cannot imagine how hard that must have been for you. ", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "He was killed so soon after you last saw him? ", "output": "Restatement or Paraphrasing" }, { "input": "Have you considered any sort of bereavement counselling? Addiction in a partner is a very hard thing to have to deal with. It is not your fault! ", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "Do you feel any sort of guilt about it? You should not, of course, but do you wonder if things would have been different if you had talked to him first? \n", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "I have previously had counselling and found it very useful but there is a long waiting list for a free counsellor \n", "output": "Self-disclosure" }, { "input": "Are you still in touch with his family and friends? \n", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "I think you should do things in your own time but I would recommend doing it again one day. ", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "Sounds like a very complicated set up. It is sad when family members become partially estranged from one another. ", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "That is extremely offensive and I think you would have had the right to contest that. ", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "I hope that you are able to come to terms with things in the near future. Please try and focus on your girls and not worry so much! \n", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "I think you should talk to someone about this. Maybe a lawyer? There must be something people can do to help. ", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "I have to wrap this up now but I wish you all the very best for the future. Please try and reach out to people for help! ", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "You are very welcome! ", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "And you too, goodnight. ", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "You can leave now :) I will just wait around till you've gone. ", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "Hi, how are you?", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "I'm good, you can go ahead and tell me your problems", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "Can you tell me what happened that makes you consider that?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "Have you told him how you feel and asked him to stop doing that?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "Ok, it's a good thing that he stopped. What he did was bad though, no denying that. ", "output": "Reflection of feelings" }, { "input": "Maybe he feels ashamed about watching porn, that's why he tried to hide. I would hate it too if my partner watches porn", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "Other than that, is there anything else?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "I think you should be firm, let him know how much you hate what he did and how much it affected you. I think it's a serious issue, him not being honest with you over trivial things. At the same time, breaking up without any other issues is kind of not optimal considered you;ve dated for 1 year", "output": "Reflection of feelings" }, { "input": "Did you see any changes in behavior after that?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "you should tell him that, and let him the problem is you feel disrespected when he watches porn while dating you", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "I am so sorry to hear that, you are not oversensitive at all. Trust me, any normal girls would feel the same", "output": "Reflection of feelings" }, { "input": "Breaking up over this is a pity, however, he doesn't seem trustworthy after everything you told me. How about give him some time, 3-6 months and see if he changes at all. If not or if you really think he's not worth your time, go ahead and cut tie with him", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "you deserve someone who respects you, it doesn't take that much either", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "hello there, how is life treating you? \n", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "I am so sorry to hear that, can you tell me a bit about what is wrong? ", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "So you have been made homeless and have lost touch with one of your closest relatives? ", "output": "Restatement or Paraphrasing" }, { "input": "I understand how you feel. I am estranged from my mother. Is there any chance you could reconcile? ", "output": "Self-disclosure" }, { "input": "There is a good deal of therapy available for your circumstances. Do you think you should try a different kind? \n", "output": "Information" }, { "input": "There is free therapy available for people who feel that they cannot get along with one or both parents. \n", "output": "Information" }, { "input": "Please know that you are not alone in this situation. ", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "Do you think it might be better to make a totally clean break and move on from your dad then? ", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "I hear you saying that you feel that you are being unfairly blamed for things, is this true? ", "output": "Reflection of feelings" }, { "input": "Do you feel that perhaps holding onto this relationship is doing harm to you? ", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "Can you tell me some more specific details ", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "To me this sounds like a very toxic relationship. I have been in a similar situation and I really think that it is best that you move on from this. You do not need this level of toxicity in your life \n", "output": "Self-disclosure" }, { "input": "Unfortunately that is often how it works with such people. Would you be able to make a completely new break and move away? I know it's hard. \n", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "So you feel that you are trying hard to mend the quarrel but he is not putting in any effort himself? \n", "output": "Restatement or Paraphrasing" }, { "input": "I do not feel that you are the one in the wrong. Unfortunately, there are some people that you just can't reach \n", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "You are more than welcome. I do hope that you can break free from this relationship and find some way to be happy though. \n", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "Things are very much better for me now. I promise that they will be for you soon too! ", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "You are most welcome and all the best to you. Happy Holidays!\n", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "Hello there, how is life treating you? ", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "Well, I've been a bit worried this year due to Covid and everything. Have you been worrying about anything? ", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "Do you work in academia then? Or are you a student? ", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "So you feel that life was more simple when you were still in high school? ", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "I think that it is quite usual to feel a bit disorientated when transitioning from school to college. It is strange to feel like an adult all of a sudden \n", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "Yes I do. It took me quite a long time to adjust to college in my first year too. ", "output": "Self-disclosure" }, { "input": "It was a bit but I think that it was not just me. It's a huge life change. Is your problem mainly with your grades or are there other issues? \n", "output": "Self-disclosure" }, { "input": "Do you feel scared that you might fail your exams? ", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "There are personal tutors available who could help you with any academic problems you are having? ", "output": "Information" }, { "input": "There is no need to feel ashamed that you are not doing as well as you hoped ", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "hello, how can I help you?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "How long have you known you have depression?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "Because of Covid? So you know at least the cause of your depression?", "output": "Restatement or Paraphrasing" }, { "input": "That must have been tough for you. I know Covid is scary, however, I think you're a very careful parent so as long as you keep the routine safe, you can at least not worry too much about it", "output": "Reflection of feelings" }, { "input": "Now is not the time to please your family or anyone else. You did the right and responsible thing for refusing to visit them. ", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "May I ask how old your children are?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "they might have been scared because of external forces, as in they might see you being stressed out. I think it's good to talk to them about the seriousness of Covid, but also explain them it's not unpreventable. By discussing, you can reassure yourself too", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "I think you can also cut down on watching news, when it first began, I followed the news closely, however, I realized I felt depressed hearing new number everyday so I only update myself once a week now and I feel bette", "output": "Self-disclosure" }, { "input": "Having a family meeting with your husband and children as much as possible to share your feelings might also help quite a bit", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "Then do as you think is best for your husband. I'd say focus the work on yourself first, you need to feel good in other to take care of your family", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "you're welcome, I hope you feel a bit better", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "Hello there, how are you today? ", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "I am good thank you. Is there anything you want to talk to me about? ", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "So your relationship ended and you feel that you are struggling to get over it, is that correct? ", "output": "Restatement or Paraphrasing" }, { "input": "I am very sorry. I have been through something like this myself in the past so I do understand. ", "output": "Self-disclosure" }, { "input": "I think it was at least a year before I felt truly myself again and that I was able to enjoy life \n", "output": "Self-disclosure" }, { "input": "I can tell that it's all very raw to you at the moment. You really need to step away and give yourself some time to heal \n", "output": "Reflection of feelings" }, { "input": "What sort of obligations do you feel that you have? You need to be kind to yourself at the moment \n", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "It is good of you to be so caring and responsible towards your family. Do you think that perhaps you are taking too much on yourself though, especially at such a difficult time? ", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "I think that that is an excellent idea and that you are being very mature about this. ", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "Are you in contact with your ex at all? ", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "That seems sensible. I had a problem with not contacting my ex when we split. I kept wanting to talk to him again even though I knew that I should not \n", "output": "Self-disclosure" }, { "input": "A restraining order :D ", "output": "Self-disclosure" }, { "input": "In all seriousness though, with hindsight I realise that our separation was for the best. I think and hope that you will realise this in time too ", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "You are most welcome. I really hope that things start to go well with you soon. ", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "Might I suggest taking up a new hobby and making some new friends? \n", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "hi there! how are you doing? ", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "Can you tell me a little about what you feel ashamed about? ", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "So, you feel that your family is judging you for your earning potential? ", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "I am very sorry for that. They should be proud that you have such a good degree! ", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "I think you are coming at this from the wrong perspective. Life is not all about money you know! \n", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "Do you think that you enjoy your current field even though it is not as well paid as it could be? ", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "Do you think that you enjoy your current field even though it is not as well paid as it could be? \n", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "I think that you should focus on how much you enjoy it. After all you will be working for the next few decades so you do not want to do something that you hate just because it pays well. ", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "Is it possible for you to talk to your parents about this? It seems to me that they are at the root of your problems \n", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "Well, if you are not close to them does their opinion really count for so much? \n", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "I do understand how hard it can be to shake off your family's preconceptions and expectations even though you are not close to them ", "output": "Self-disclosure" }, { "input": "You are very welcome. Please know that this is a very common problem and a lot of people feel the way that you are feeling now. ", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "Do you think that you might benefit from some counselling to help you overcome your self esteem issues? \n", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "I can provide you with a list of places that will offer a few counselling sessions for free. I think you need to be able to talk this out with a professional. ", "output": "Information" }, { "input": "I think that you need to accept that your parents' opinion should not colour your whole life ", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "Once your self esteem picks up a little I think that you will find that it's very much easier to ignore other people's input.\n", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "You are very welcome! I wish you well in the months to come. ", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "Hello!\n", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "No problem! How can I help you?\n", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "So from what I am understanding, you have been applying for jobs and you are having anxiety about finding one and waiting through the application process. \n", "output": "Restatement or Paraphrasing" }, { "input": "Just from the few messages we have shared I can tell how anxious this is making you. \n", "output": "Reflection of feelings" }, { "input": "I just recently went through a layoff at my company, and I had the same situation trying to find another job. It is very stressful. \n", "output": "Self-disclosure" }, { "input": "What have you done to reach out for feedback from the companies? Often it helps to send e-mails or make phone calls to have them give you some feedback. \n", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "I think that would be a great start!\n", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "It also might help to get business cards from the people you interview with in order to be able to reach out to them in the future.\n", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "What type of work are you interested in?\n", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "I think that would be a great idea! It has been shown that people with higher level degrees make more money and have more opportunity than those without, \n", "output": "Information" }, { "input": "I think learning a trade would also be a great idea! I would definitely reach out to see where you can start that process. \n", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "From our conversation so far, I can tell you are extremely anxious about this whole situation. \n", "output": "Reflection of feelings" }, { "input": "I know how stressful\n it can be, but I know you can get through it!", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "Hello there, how are you? \n", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "Your relationship has ended? I am very sorry about that. And your boyfriend ended it? ", "output": "Restatement or Paraphrasing" }, { "input": "That was really wrong of him if you ask me. I think you might be better off without him. ", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "I have been in this position myself and I know how painful it is but it turned out for the best for me - I now have a great relationship! ", "output": "Self-disclosure" }, { "input": "Noone has the right to put you down like that. You really are better off without him. ", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "Can you think of something to do that will take your mind off him? ", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "How long were the two of you together? ", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "He should not be treating you that way when you've known one another so long! ", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "I think that you should call one of your girlfriends and suggest you have a movie night. It would make you feel better ", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "Oh that is rough. That happened to me too when I broke up with my ex. ", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "They all took his side? Not one took yours? ", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "I tried to find some new interests. One thing I did was take a salsa class .. that was a great way to meet new people ", "output": "Self-disclosure" }, { "input": "There are lots of other things you could do. Maybe you could take an evening class in something that interests you? ", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "I think also you need to think a bit more highly of yourself and not let idiots like this treat you so badly ", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "he seems to have damaged your self esteem badly ", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "No you did not! Please don't think like that ", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "I think that that is a normal reaction to feeling ill treated. I hope that it will pass soon and am sure that it will. ", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "There are a lot of therapy groups available that might be able to help you through this ", "output": "Information" }, { "input": "I think you really need to take it one day at a time. Things are very raw for you right now \n", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "There are some organisations that will offer a certain number of sessions for free ", "output": "Information" }, { "input": "And yet here we are :P. Therapy can be surprisingly beneficial, I have found. \n", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "I do realise that it can be hard to open up to how we are feeling though. I know that I was ", "output": "Self-disclosure" }, { "input": "I think that is useful to remember that we are all human and that most people have been hurt in this way at some point. No-one will be judging you \n", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "Do you think that this might partly because your ex has eroded your self esteem? \n", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "The important thing is to gradually rebuild your self esteem. Do you have any things that you excel at? \n", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "Animals are a wonderful source of comfort when we are feeling very low! Could you join a riding club to make some new friends? ", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "I can feel that you are starting to make progress already and are thinking of things that you can do post break up \n", "output": "Reflection of feelings" }, { "input": "You are most welcome. Is there anything else you would like to talk to me about? ", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "Well, I wish you all the very best for the future. I know that things seem terrible right now but please believe me they will get better \n", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "And you have a lovely day too. I know that you are going to be just fine in a few weeks from now. Stay strong!", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "Hello\n", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "They did not, what is causing your depression and anxiety?\n", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "So just to clarify, you are having overwhelming depression and anxiety today that has been caused by nothing in particular?\n", "output": "Restatement or Paraphrasing" }, { "input": "I completely understand, I have had many issues in the past with anxiety and depression. \n", "output": "Self-disclosure" }, { "input": "Have you tried to talk to a professional about this, it is always helpful to talk to someone who is trained to talk about things like this with people. \n", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "What suggestions did they give you for coping with this?\n", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "One thing that I did was really get back into some of the hobbies that I enjoyed in order to take my mind off of things. \n", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "Yes, winter months are very tough. \n", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "Not a problem! I know things are tough right now, but I know you can make it through this!\n", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "Thank you, I am well. It is a very strange time. \n", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "You too!\n", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "Good evening . How can I help you", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "So you are having issues with your friend? That is upsetting . What is the issue?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "I can understand how angry unappreciated and burnt out you must be feeling. I would feel that way too", "output": "Reflection of feelings" }, { "input": "I don't think she is a place to be able to see anyone but herself. She is self centereed self asbored and self pity party and doesn't care about anyone but herself right now . Is that accurate?", "output": "Restatement or Paraphrasing" }, { "input": "I completely understand how unappreciated and stressed this would make you or any person. Especially when our plate is full and its the same old same old and nothing is changing. Its like thinking doing same thing over and over you will get a different result when 2+2 equals 4", "output": "Reflection of feelings" }, { "input": "You are an extremely good and loyal friend and I am so proud of you. Most people would have left her. ", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "However, it is time to take the hard road. YOu are going to have to say with LOVE because its not always what you say but how you say it. Give me a minute to please type it", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "You are going to have to sit her down and say I need to be honest with you. I have always been there for you but you are not willing to take my advice or others advice and quite frankly I just can't do it anymore. IF you want to remain friends I need you to grow up and realize the world doesn't revolve around you or even me. Right now I could really use a good friend. I am going thru A LOT OF Sh** and I don't need this in my life. So ", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "if you aren't able to do that than I am afraid until you can be a true friend and not just a user than I need to end this friendship . I don't want to but I need to for my mental health and for myself and even for you. I say this because I love you and I do care but this has become toxic", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "she really needs to hear it and it sounds toxic to me . I know I wouldn't want a friend to accuse me of not being there and from the chat look like its all about her and she s acting like a spoiled brat", "output": "Reflection of feelings" }, { "input": "If you think its a more serious problem maybe ask her to seek professional help. ", "output": "Information" }, { "input": "youre welcome and above all continue to pray for her or start praying for her. You really are a great loyal intelligent person. Keep safe", "output": "Self-disclosure" }, { "input": "Good luck . Merry Christmas ", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "Hello, how are you?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "What caused your anxiety? Is it because you don't understand your class?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "I can understand how you feel being such competitive environment. However, the most important is your well being. I think as long as you do your utmost best, there is no need to stress over rankings", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "I think salary and growth takes more than just academic result. Take one step at a time, take care of your own health and this exam first", "output": "Reflection of feelings" }, { "input": "That's good and bad at the same time, you will always be motivated, however, if you push too much you will burn out yourself", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "Have you reviewed all the materials needed for the exam?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "okay, then you are good for the most part. Now just some mental preparation and you will nail it", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "I believe a little worry is good for an exam, however, too much of anything is never good. Practice what you will do in the exam room so you can save as much time as possible", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "I understand your frustration, I had a discussion a few days ago about this. Online learning is ok but it can't provide you the same benefits and experience as in person", "output": "Reflection of feelings" }, { "input": "are you close with anyone? You can ask around and see if they want to form a study group", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "you are so welcome. How are you", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "What is stressing you out. Can you help me understand?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "That is upsetting and stressful. I know you are rightfully concerned ", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "Can you talk to your geology professor for extra credit?", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "I think it is a REAL Concern and you really need to pull that grade up. It is a very tight race out there and even 1% grade point can make or break you", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "If I were you I would than focus on pulling up all your grades to help avearage out geology course. ", "output": "Self-disclosure" }, { "input": "Maybe contact the lawyer school or someone to do with that area to see what you can do to have a better chance. ", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "I know its hard but since this is over and in the past you can't cry over spilt milk so to speak. You can do this!", "output": "Reflection of feelings" }, { "input": "Is there a way you can retake the geology class over?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "I have an even better idea actually two... One talk to your college counselor if they offer that to see a plan of action so to speak and two ", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "Pray to God some people say prayers is all that is left to do when God should be your first person to run to ", "output": "Information" }, { "input": "I appreciate that but that would take several hours and I am here to help you. ", "output": "Self-disclosure" }, { "input": "yes he is and even thru this pandemic Covid He is on the Throne and has a purpose", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "Trying to take it one day at a time and trying make lemonade out of lemons", "output": "Restatement or Paraphrasing" }, { "input": "Its really hard but we are learning to live in the new normal life as it is and honestly worst is yet to come . We are not to know the future or why God choose it we just have to have hope and believe", "output": "Self-disclosure" }, { "input": "your welcome and it shows 14minu but take care and Keep the faith. I m glad I could help you ", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "lol and i don't think u are supposed to say that in the chat . just for future ones. And since its xmas I have a secret.. you can google turk guru. its chrome extension and really helps", "output": "Self-disclosure" }, { "input": "and support person needs to close out the talk", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "I am so so sorry to hear that. ", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "What has been going on?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "Oh wow, it sounds like shes not a very good frined. ", "output": "Reflection of feelings" }, { "input": "Have you tried talking to her about it?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "Have you tried seperating from her?", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "That's so hurtful. Do others feel the same as you?", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "Maybe you can try talking to yoru manager next time it happens?", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "It is hard but you can only really control yourself, so you need to try to emotionally distance yourself from when she is terrible. You seem like a good persn. ", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "Of course!! managers are erally helpful. I had a similar sitation with a coworker two years ago and the head of my group really helped me clear it up. ", "output": "Self-disclosure" }, { "input": "I tried really hard not to let her get to me. Which was really hard but doable. ", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "Exactly!!!!", "output": "Reflection of feelings" }, { "input": "a few months ", "output": "Self-disclosure" }, { "input": "Hi! How are you doing today?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "That sounds really hard. Does your son fight with you a lot?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "What was he in NYC for? ", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "Have you tried getting counseling together?", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "Has he gone to therapy with you? Maybe you can try doing some fun activties together. ", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "I know my brother had a lot of tension with my mom and finding something they could bond over really helped. ", "output": "Self-disclosure" }, { "input": "Does he give a reason why?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "How does your boyfriend handle it?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "That's such a hard position to be in. I am so so sorry that you need to go through this. I think trying to get them to therapy would be realaly amazing for both of you. ", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "Maybe you can incentivize your son to go somehow", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "Sometimes kids need some tough love which is really hard todo. ", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "What did your parents say?", "output": "Restatement or Paraphrasing" }, { "input": "Oh i didn't realize he aws 25. That's a good point. You can tell him that. ", "output": "Restatement or Paraphrasing" }, { "input": "I am so sorry! ", "output": "Reflection of feelings" }, { "input": "I hope this was helpful!", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "Great!! have a great day. ", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "You can end the conversation whenever you are ready. ", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "Hi! How are you doing today?\n", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "Can you tell me more about that?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "I can definitely understand why that would be stressful. Do you have anyone to help you study?", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "It sounds like you are preparing well but are still worried that it won't be enough. Does that sound right?", "output": "Restatement or Paraphrasing" }, { "input": "Sometimes taking a break and clearing your mind, taking a few deep breaths, can help people calm down. Is that something you can do?", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "I understand that. I have felt the same way before. But I realized I don't have to feel guilty for taking a break. It's important for my mental health.", "output": "Self-disclosure" }, { "input": "Just in the conversation I can see how stressed out you are and struggling with how to handle that.", "output": "Reflection of feelings" }, { "input": "Sometimes talking with a close friend can help. Have you tried that?", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "It sounds like the actual studying is what is causing you to be stressed. Does that seem to be true?", "output": "Restatement or Paraphrasing" }, { "input": "I think you have done everything you can to be prepared for the test. And know a few strategies to help you cope with your stress. I think you will feel much better once it's over!", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "Ok! It sounds like this helped!", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "You're welcome.", "output": "Reflection of feelings" }, { "input": "Hi how are you ?\n\n", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "I understand what your going thru , i also suffered from anxiety but trust we you will overcome this.", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "I recommend searching online about meditation , also one of thing that helped the most for me was exercise and eating healthy. ", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "I remember many times i thought the same way as you but i didnt give up and kept trying. As long as you dont give up you will make progress. It will take time and patience.", "output": "Reflection of feelings" }, { "input": "OF course , for example i watched youtube videos of someone called theanxietyguy and i made tremendous progress with him. Also i drink teas to calm my nerves .", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "Somethings its want to come back but i am on top of it and always being discipline with myself. I make sure to love myself first and give myself priority. ", "output": "Self-disclosure" }, { "input": "You are welcomed i am glad i was able to help out. Stay positive and healthy.", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "I drink a lot of chamomile tea with honey which has a great flavor good to calm done, i drink mint tea very refreshing and tilo tea which helps me sleep.", "output": "Information" }, { "input": "Yes of course. If you worried about some kind of sickness i would recommend you go to the doctor get yourself a full checkup it will help calm you mind down and reassure you that you are healthy.", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "Yes, once in while i get nervous about but i try to keep positive and take the right precautions and wear my mask, clea my hands and stay my distance. you shouldnt have a issues . ", "output": "Self-disclosure" }, { "input": "Do you workout?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "What really worked for me was cycling. Since its a great cardio workout and its fun. You would enjoy it. Maybe you can get a friend and try it out.", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "Hi ! How re you today?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "I am so sorry. It is really so hard right now with COVID ", "output": "Reflection of feelings" }, { "input": "Have you been able to virtually connect with people ??", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "I am right there with you, i totally understand missing human contact. ", "output": "Self-disclosure" }, { "input": "There is a way to connect virtually in a fun way, i've tried doing cocktail tasting and wine tasting, a virtual cooking class. ", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "It's very fun! You can find a wine list online and have everyone go get the same bottles. You can download tasting notes and instructions. It's really fun!!! ", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "For my grandmas 80thi birthday, we hired a chef to do a cooking class which was so fun. ", "output": "Self-disclosure" }, { "input": "I find it to be a really good way to connect with everyone . ALso having an activity gives structure to it. ", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "I also have started to exerices and go for walks more. It's a really good way to clear my head. Do. you have any hobbies that you can do?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "It's true! do you live alone?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "That's so hard. You must feel so stressed. I am so sorry to hear that. It's suhch a crazy time in the world right now. ", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "That's true. I really misst raveling as well. Where do you want to go when this is all over?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "I find helping to plan for trips after to be the best way to get through this!!!", "output": "Self-disclosure" }, { "input": "Hello, how may i help you today?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "I am so sorry about your friend mark. I will try my best to help you today.", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "Is your friend mark behavior affecting you?", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "To confirm your friend mark, you suspect he is not taking his medicine and that is why he is acting the way he is?", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "Have you talked to mark about his behavior and how it is affecting everyone around him?", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "I can understand how you feeling and that you are trying to help your friend. you are a very good friend for doing that.", "output": "Reflection of feelings" }, { "input": "Have you asked him about him taking his medication?", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "ok. dealing with someone with bi-polar disorder can be really tough and challenging but it is not there fault that they are acting the way they are. They just honestly can not help it. I know you are doing everything you can to help him and to stop him from acting that way.", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "you are right. So do not think he is doing it on purpose. Do not let it bring you down or hurt your feelings in anyway.", "output": "Self-disclosure" }, { "input": "When did this exactly start happening?", "output": "Information" }, { "input": "I understand a lot. ", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "How long have you known about his bi polar diorder?", "output": "Information" }, { "input": "i got you. having a mental illness is challenging and i can provide you some suggestions.", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "ok. just be there for him no matter what because you know he can not help it. Be understanding of his mental illness.", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "i would be active in his treatment and make sure he knows to take medicine.", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "no problem. Have a nice holiday to and remain safe. ", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "Do not give up on your friend. Everything will get better for him.", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "Hi! Of course. I am happy to help. ", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "Oh wow, that is really stressful. You are such a godo person for taking on her children. You should feel really good about yourself. ", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "Are you raising them alone?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "That's a lot of children! It's great that you have a partner who can help you. ", "output": "Reflection of feelings" }, { "input": "A dear friend of mine is in rehab and had to give up her children, it is really awful to watch. It makes me feel so helpless, so i understand how you msut be feeling. ", "output": "Self-disclosure" }, { "input": "Yes, she did. Her children seem very lucky to have you. Do they get along with your children?", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "I haven't seen that, waht happens in it?", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "That's so awful. the only thing you can do is show the kids love and make them feel cared for. ", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "Addiction is a truly awful disease, people don't appreciate the toll it takes on families. ", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "That's so good!!!", "output": "Reflection of feelings" }, { "input": "I hope i was helpful!! have a great day and continue being such a good support for the kids. I am very impressed. ", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "You too. Enjoy the holidays!!! ", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "Hopefully, you all get to spend so much time togehter. ", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "Hello\n", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "I am pretty good. \n", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "How are you?\n", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "What is going on?\n", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "I am sorry to hear that, what caused you to wan to end things?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "So from what I am hearing, you ended things with your girlfriend because she was talking to her ex and lying to you about it and you are feeling upset about it. \n", "output": "Restatement or Paraphrasing" }, { "input": "I understand your situation completely. I had a recent ex that I lived with who also was talking to her ex and hanging out with him and lying to me about it.\n", "output": "Self-disclosure" }, { "input": "The first thing I did was had a conversation to try and see why she was talking to her ex and lying to me about it. Trying to get closure is very helpful. \n", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "I know this is definitely a rough situation, but I am sure you can make it through it!\n", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "I can understand that! I think it has been a rough year for everyone!\n", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "I can understand your anxiety over that. \n", "output": "Reflection of feelings" }, { "input": "Sorry I'm here, please tell me you problems", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "Why do you think that way?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "Have you asked your friends regarding this?", "output": "Reflection of feelings" }, { "input": "Okay, maybe you should ask your friends, let them know how you feel and see what they say about it", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "Under any circumstances, make sure you know you are not at wrong here.I hope it will not be the case but your friends might try victim blaming", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "So keep your stance and keep asking for the answer", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "I'm pretty this has happened a few times already, hasn't it?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "so you have every right to be upset and confront them, you shouldn't feel like you're attacking. You are just asking for what you deserve", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "What you need to do is note down the occasions where they exclude you and ask exactly what happened then", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "Yes, that's good, ask them if you did something that offended them and why they excluded you. If they deny, then you can tell them how you feel. If they care about your friendship they will do something to fix", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "honestly, I think you also know that if you care about someone and they feel upset, you'll do everything you can to help the situation. Therefore, if your friends refuse to acknowledge your feelings, I don't think you should be friends either", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "Hey what's going on?\n", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "what are you mad about?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "what's going on at work that's so frustrating? ", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "wow, that's super frustrating! I would be pretty upset too", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "How did you find out?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "wow... did anyone else hear? ", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "I would be furious too. It puts you in a very strange spot. If you say something, you look bad, and if you don't you feel bad.", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "I absolutely understand. You know. the end of the year is coming up and it's probably not the best time to leave a job without having anything lined up. ", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "that's good! I think budgets are going to be tight in many industries and you need to make sure you are okay financially and have insurance and unfortuantely both of those are tied to employers. ", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "That's a good point. I suggest continuing to look and see what you can find. There will be people hiring. ", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "I think that's a good call, you should definitely get out of there though, but make sure you have good enough coverage. ", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "Hi", "output": "Information" }, { "input": "What can I help you with tonight>\n", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "From what you are telling me, you are very upset about your girlfriend breaking up with you and you don't feel motivated to do anything, is that right?\n", "output": "Restatement or Paraphrasing" }, { "input": "I can tell how anxious and upset that is making you feel. \n", "output": "Reflection of feelings" }, { "input": "I can definitely understand that feeling as I had an ex who cheated on me and had a child with another man, so I know how hard that is. \n", "output": "Self-disclosure" }, { "input": "I focused a lot on myself and making more time to do some of the hobbies that I didn't get a chance to do when we were together.\n", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "I know things are really hard right now, but I know you will make it through this!\n", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "Have you talked to her since she broke up with you? Sometimes it helps to talk with your ex so you can get closure on the situation. \n", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "I understand that, have you tried to talk to a friend or family member who has gone through the same thing?\n", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "Doing that definitely helped me too!", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "I think that would definitely help too!\n", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "I felt the same way for a while after my breakup as well, but after I took my time it was good to get back into the dating game.\n", "output": "Self-disclosure" }, { "input": "No problem! I am glad I was able to help you tonight, \n", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "Good, how are you?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "You can tell me what's bothering you", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "Totally understand your worries", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "Is there a reason for your fear?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "it's important right now to take one step at a time, you should always prepare and find a backup plan in case it happens, but at the same time not worry too much because it won't help ", "output": "Reflection of feelings" }, { "input": "You should look around and see if anyone hiring", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "I would say go for part time jobs too in case there is nothing available in your industry", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "You can try gig worker, being on Mturk can bring some decent money if you're diligent", "output": "Information" }, { "input": "I only work after office hours now so I aim for good paying gigs. Back when I had more time, I just did any gigs available", "output": "Self-disclosure" }, { "input": "Do any work you can get, it's all about speed and willingness", "output": "Reflection of feelings" }, { "input": "I understand, it's hard to be positive right now", "output": "Reflection of feelings" }, { "input": "However, I believe things will get better eventually as long as you hang in ther", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "Im doing good. How are you doing today?\n", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "Oh no! I'm sorry to hear that. Would you be willing to talk about it with me? Sometimes talking with someone is the help that we need.", "output": "Reflection of feelings" }, { "input": "I can sense how stressed you are about the safety of your job. This pandemic has caused so much stress and very much anxiety on everyone, so just know you are not alone. I'm not sure on the work you do, but you putting your health at risk everyday to make a living for you and your family makes you an amazing person. Just try and remember that your health is very much more important then your job and just make sure you are trying everything possible to keep yourself safe out there.", "output": "Reflection of feelings" }, { "input": "Of course! I also am afraid that this pandemic is going to get worse before it gets any better and that is just my opinion. I am scared for everyone out here anymore and its not just people getting sick and ill, but people like you who could be in jeopardy of loosing their job or their source of income. That's is something that would be on anyones mind, more yours then mine due to you actually working in the public.", "output": "Self-disclosure" }, { "input": "We thankfully have not got on lockdown just yet, but I know it will be happening soon. We live in a very small town and it has got bad here that either we know someone who has it, or someone in the family has it. It seemed like it just happened over night that it just spread so fast here that everyone is in a panic mode again. What type of things do you do while you are on lockdown?", "output": "Information" }, { "input": "I can only imagine. Is it yourself in your home? What I have tried to do is stay away from the news that has anything to do with covid that could maybe help a little. And god forbid anything happens to you and you do loose your job just know there are a lot of resources around that would help you in any struggles that you fear or end up facing. I know its hard and stressful to search and look for things like that but trust me it will take a lot of stress off your mind.", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "I'm sorry about that I didn't realize I put that, sometimes it just comes out but I do apologize. I know it's hard to think that this will not come to and end, but just try and think there is always a light at the end of the tunnel, and I'm hoping for you and what your doing and putting in, something will come out positive in your favor, even if its just a small step forward. Hey its all gotta start out somewhere. ", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "Do you have children or a spouse that lives with you?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "I have children as well, and what I have tried to do is like a at home drive in movie night, or simple board games. I don't have a spouse but I would think maybe an inside dinner night or even a lunch date. Have the kids even help out with that. You'll be amazed on how excited they would be even if it's the little things they can help with like the seating or drawing of the menus. And for maybe the inside drive in make up little movie tickets, and candy and popcorn like a little concession stand. ", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "I completely understand. I know its hard not to think about it because it is EVERYWHERE, but if your spouse or children see or sense the stress its causing you they can also feel it, and can start stressing over it too. Even trying these things will cause a smile and a fun time for those moments that will make every one happy and not think about covid, because they will all be thinking about how much fun they are having with you and the family, and that will help with the stress even if its just a little bit.", "output": "Reflection of feelings" }, { "input": "Hello. How are you tonight?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "Ouch! Your friend got arrested for drugs last week? ", "output": "Restatement or Paraphrasing" }, { "input": "I had a neighbor who was doing meth, and he got arrested, and that actually saved his life. He had to get sober and look at what he was doing. ", "output": "Self-disclosure" }, { "input": "There is a hard line between helping a friend who is addicted and actually enabling them. Have you ever heard of this?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "It can be very hard to watch a loved one destroy their lives. Has anyone every discussed an intervention?", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "My husband and I actually have worked with recovering drug addicts and alcoholics. We are retired now, but still volunteer. Sometimes we have to let go of our loved ones - they have to hit rock bottom. Very hard to do, but unless they see their behavior as destructive, they don't want to change. ", "output": "Self-disclosure" }, { "input": "Have you seen the serenity prayer? Knowing what to do, what not to do and accepting life really is a great thing to ask God for. We can't change others. Yet you have to find a way to have peace. ", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "It's very hard to lose friends to addictions. It's epidemic in our society now. However, you can pray for them and look for ways to keep your life on track so you don't get lost focusing on them and not where you want to go. ", "output": "Reflection of feelings" }, { "input": "very evil, I agree, I like to write out a list of things I can do to distract myself from overly being concerned, if that makes sense. Like I take time to think about them and pray for them, then I have to move on with my life, so a list helps me think of where I want to go and how to get there. Even if it is just a list of how to clean my pantry! lol", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "My husband just got me a daytimer, and I write my goals in that for the new year, and I try to check it every day and try to focus on moving forward, because life has a way of throwing us curveballs like this, and we can't get stuck in them. ", "output": "Self-disclosure" }, { "input": "It is hard to lose friends that we have had for years. Maybe you can write that on your list -- perhaps just brainstorm ways to make new friends - take a college class, join a gym, take a dance class, volunteer at church, something like that. That way you open up yourself to make new friends. ", "output": "Reflection of feelings" }, { "input": "I have had to walk away from many unhealthy relationships over the years, it isn't easy, but it's part of maturing in life. ", "output": "Self-disclosure" }, { "input": "I've learned the hard way, if a person doesn't want to change, I'm just beating my head against a wall. I can pray, then leave the rest to God. It seems like a lesson I learn over and over again! Hahah.", "output": "Self-disclosure" }, { "input": "Hello. How are you tonight?\n", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "I'm sorry to hear things aren't going to well. What's the problem in a nutshell?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "Breakups can be hard, I can understand your frustration. Five years is a long time to have a relationship and then end. ", "output": "Restatement or Paraphrasing" }, { "input": "I'm sorry to hear that. That's hard to forgive and move on from that. ", "output": "Reflection of feelings" }, { "input": "I find that when I have a very painful situation, I try to only thing about it for a certain amount of time. Then I make a list of things to do so I can be occupied to not think about it. ", "output": "Self-disclosure" }, { "input": "Getting over a breakup will take time? Have you ever heard of DABDA? Denial (I can't believe this happened!) Anger (we all know that) Bargaining (If only I had done that, or if only - trying to make it FEEL better by imagining other scenarios - doesn't really work) Depression - sadness, then Acceptance -- we go in and out of these emotions and sometimes it can make us feel crazy, but all of them are normal in varying degrees and we don't know when they will happen. ", "output": "Information" }, { "input": "I would make a list of things you have always wanted to do and then just BRAINSTORM any idea, no idea is too out there -- learn to ice skate, learn to play the ukulele, sign up for dance lessons, join the gym, go to a singles group at church, visit the elderly, volunteer somewhere. ", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "I also find it helpful not only to limit how much I dwell on my pain, but make sure I reach out to help someone else. I will tell you, that is the secret to happiness. Maybe help a neighbor with groceries or hanging lights. Old people (me) love help, bake something or call your aunt or uncle. \n", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "I agree, get healthy and try to help others. One thing about feelings is that if you change your mind, you can change your feelings, it might happen slowly, but if you put your mind off of it, it will help. Not saying NEVER feel the emotions, but feelings are the tail of the dog, not the dog itself, You do not have to be ruled by them. You don not have to FEEL like going for a walk to go for a walk.\n", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "A healthy balance of self care, and other centered behavior and know this will take time. I just takes time. ", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "I understand, but those are choices that really, long term, are not for your benefit. Her cheating was a reflection on HER bad character, not yours. You have to love yourself and try to fight this. ", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "I'm a human. I live in KY, retired counselor! hhahaha I prayed for someone to encourage.", "output": "Self-disclosure" }, { "input": "I'm from the city, so there isn't much to do on a farm in the middle of cold weather. I have been through a lot of breakups, so I know what works, and yes, I was cheated on, devastating. But you can overcome this. Make that list and do NOT let your feelings rule your life. You can recover and find someone worthy of your love and care.", "output": "Self-disclosure" }, { "input": "The WORST breakup came a year before I met my husband. in retrospect, it was the best thing, listen,you could have married this girl, count your blessings. cheating is just terribly destructive. And you are welcome. Take care of yourself. Write the list of goals and fun things to do, choose one every day. ", "output": "Self-disclosure" }, { "input": "Bye now! God bless!", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "Hi, how are you doing today?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "Sorry to hear. What's going on?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "Sorry to hear that. An investigation on who? you? ", "output": "Restatement or Paraphrasing" }, { "input": "That's unfortunately. Have you talked to someone in upper management about this?", "output": "Information" }, { "input": "That is understandable. People can be hard to deal with at times. What did the co-worker do that upset you?", "output": "Reflection of feelings" }, { "input": "Oh, that's unfortunate. Have you brought this issue to upper management in the past? ", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "Sorry to hear. Has upper management done anything about this issue?\n", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "Well, in my opinion, I think you did the right thing. Has anyone else mentioned her rudeness in the past?", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "I was wondering, how long has she been an employee at your work?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "No, I think you did the right thing.", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "Wow, 5 month and she's still there.", "output": "Restatement or Paraphrasing" }, { "input": "Well, I hope everything works out for you. ", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "sorry i'm here", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "First of all, I have a fre questions to ask ", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "Does the idea of him being sex addict change how you feel about him?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "I would say you should cut tie with him. Being into porn is a serious issue but what's more important is he lied to you about that", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "I think you can also feel it yourself that there's something not right between you and him", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "This is a wake up call for you I must say, to get away from him", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "I think you should sit down and tell him to take a break, this doesn't mean completely break up but some time for both of you to think it over", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "I understand how you feel, it's not easy to get over this feeling", "output": "Reflection of feelings" }, { "input": "That's why you need some time for yourself to think whether you can forgive him and try to help him or not", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "To be honest, watching porn is normal, however, I feel that if someone is too into it, as in watch it more than 1-2 times a month, it's problematic and won't be easy to fix", "output": "Self-disclosure" }, { "input": "Do you live with him?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "You can ask him to stop doing that for you, if he really cares, he will try", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "goodness", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "That you have to ask him, tell him to have an honest thought, no judgement, be completely honest with each other", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "Yeah, laughs can definitely be a sign of someone getting nervous", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "Does he have any close male friends?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "Whether he's gay or not, it's hard to say just from a few things, but what's more important right now is for you two to sit down and talk", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "Maybe it's just simple as he tells you, but you have to talk to him.There is no use sitting here and let all those thoughts and questions consume you", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "What is jatos?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "oh interesting", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "I just use my experience and try to help", "output": "Self-disclosure" }, { "input": "Is there any problems you need help with?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "no problems", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "Hello. How are you today?\n", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "What can I help you with?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "Have you tried confronting them and asking why they are being bullies?\n", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "I'm sure you are very handsome! They could just be jealous.", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "I understand, school was tough for me too.\n", "output": "Self-disclosure" }, { "input": "I suggest you tell them to knock it off or you can sit somewhere away from the bus.\n", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "No, beating them up will only get you in trouble and that won't help.", "output": "Information" }, { "input": "I think that could be a good idea if it's not too far out of your way.\n", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "You could also tell a teacher what is happening. They will help you out.", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "I bet you are handsome! Don't let it get to you.", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "Try to tell yourself you are good looking and deserve good things to happen every morning! Look in that mirror and tell yourself good things.\n", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "Working out will help a lot! When I was feeling down on myself I decided to go to the gym three times a week. It was a great confidence boost.\n", "output": "Self-disclosure" }, { "input": "That sounds like a fantastic idea.", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "Are you there?\n", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "I am okay and yourself?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "I have had a lot of bad days in the past talking it out with friends helped me get through it.", "output": "Self-disclosure" }, { "input": "How long has this been going on?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "That is really upsetting to hear. But I think that you can get better.", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "After I had my daughter I had severe depression and thought that there was no way out, I went to the hospital and they referred me to a psychiatrist so I could get help.", "output": "Self-disclosure" }, { "input": "I can say that it didn't get better over night, it took years of medication adjustments and a great therapist to get me through since I also did not have friends at the time and an unsupportive family.", "output": "Self-disclosure" }, { "input": "Reading is a great coping skill. What are some of your favorite things to read about?", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "I recently read a study that suggested that reading fiction may lead to inceased empathy and this increased empathy help the reader basically pay it forward by being more willing to do good deads.", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "The study suggests that the story be upbeat and be very discriptive of positive messages. I would avoid sad stories. ", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "What happened?\n", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "It seems like you are feeling a little bit like the Fresh Prince of Bell-Air.", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "Are you having any problems that I can help you with today?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "Sounds good. I am glad that you trust me. What did the strange machine do?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "I can see that you are taking this opportunity as a joke.", "output": "Restatement or Paraphrasing" }, { "input": "I am here as your peer-supporter to help you. Is there anything that you have been struggling with recently?\n", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "When did this start?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "It sounds like you had a life-changing diagnosis last year. How has it affected your life? ", "output": "Restatement or Paraphrasing" }, { "input": "I know getting \"lit\" is an easy way to deal with our problems, but it is not always the healthiest thing to do.", "output": "Self-disclosure" }, { "input": "It sounds like you are trying to escape something.", "output": "Reflection of feelings" }, { "input": "Life can be really hard, but I know you can turn things around! ", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "From what I have heard, I think that it could be helpful to try and cut back on the \"getting lit\"", "output": "Information" }, { "input": "Do you have any close friends or family that you can talk to?", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "I think that's great that you have a girlfriend whom you can talk to!", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "Stronger medication can certainly help, I would recommend seeing your doctor asap", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "Good luck with everything, bye! ", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "Hello! I hope I can. ", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "I am so sorry to hear that. That's so rough. There are so many people going through this right now. ", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "That's a fare worry but you can't be discourged. YOu need to think positively. ", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "You can use this as a time to reconnect with family and to get your resume together. ", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "That's a good activity !! Do you have anyone who can help you with it?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "Do you have any hobbies you can work on while you're home?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "That's really helpfuL! staying busy is good. ", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "It's also really good time to reconnect with a loved ones and friends. You can try virtual connections. ", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "HAve you been searching online sites? They post so many nowadays! If you spend a few hours a day. i'm sure that you'll find one in no time!!", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "That happens but keep looking. It's a numbers game, so you have to just apply to a ton them once your resume is ready. ", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "There are online career counselors or resume helpers, they can help you figure out how to make your resume stand out. What industry are you in?", "output": "Information" }, { "input": "So you're smart! You will defintiely find a job, i have total faith in you. ", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "I think with the vaccine coming, things will be going back to normal soon enough! They already started giving the vaccine out. ", "output": "Information" }, { "input": "Good evening\n", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "I am sorry to hear that. Why is it that you are losing your job?\n\n", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "I had the same situation not too long ago when the IT department I worked for realigned and my position was cut and I was laid off, so I completely understand the situation.\n", "output": "Self-disclosure" }, { "input": "Just from sharing a few messages with you, I can tell how anxious you are about this, \n", "output": "Reflection of feelings" }, { "input": "I know how difficult this situation is, but I know you will be able to get through this!\n", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "I know unemployment offices have been very busy during this pandemic\n", "output": "Information" }, { "input": "I would think that would be a good resource to start. Have you updated your resume and cover letter?\n", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "I would definitely update both, it helps to show new employers all of your relevant experience and what you have been doing. \n", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "Another thing that might help would be to talk to the others who are being furloughed and see what plans they have to get through this, \n", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "I think they would be more than willing to share tips! Networking is great!\n", "output": "Information" }, { "input": "hello", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "Sure, what is going on?", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "I am truly sorry you had to witness that. Would you feel more comfortable with them leaving or do you think either relationship is salvagable?", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "If you feel that something might be salvageable it might be worth looking into. Do you think they'd be open to sitting down and talking it out?", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "I think that either way you choose to proceed there is always the choice of remaining amicable. You're all adults, so sitting down and discussing what comes next is an inevitability. Maybe they will choose to leave, or you'll decide it would be better for you to go, but at least the discussion would be ongoing to perhaps resume the friendship at a later time?", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "If you're trying your best to move on and the other party ends up with hateful feelings then I feel like at least you gave it your best right? It might be worth laying low for a little while to sort through the feelings of mistrust and betrayal.", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "I'm glad I could help", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "I would talk to them as soon as you feel comfortable enough to do so. It might get awkward and leave people to come to other conclusions if it's avoided for too long.", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "That is completely understandable. Maybe take a day or two to collect your thoughts. Do you have somewhere to be alone to sift through your feelings?", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "Hi, tell me all do you want to say!", "output": "Restatement or Paraphrasing" }, { "input": "ohhh, but don't worry. do your best effort and you will get 95\n", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "I think you should don't be nervous, because it rest to your concentration!", "output": "Reflection of feelings" }, { "input": "Oh God, I can understand you! that's a lot of pressuare", "output": "Self-disclosure" }, { "input": "Well, I think you should take a rest time from your works and take that time to study a lot.", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "Yes of course, You can do it and keeping studying to do your best in the exam", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "OHHHH!!!! well, you can take a rest like 20 or 30 minutes to desestress yourself and then continuing studying all night ", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "after the exam your pressure will be less than now", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "tomorrow will be a good day for you! I CAN SEE YOUR GRADE IT WILL BE 95", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "when i am studying i practices a lot everything, special the things that are more difficult ", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": " I always started with the difficult things, when I understood those parts I pass to the most simple parts, I think is better for my comprehension", "output": "Self-disclosure" }, { "input": "DON'T THINK THAT, you are trying and you can't give up now, I AM SURE YOU WILL PASS!", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "You are always welcome! ", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "that's good, you have to eliminate your stress because it rest to your energy and good vibes ", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "study a lot please! don't give up. ", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "Hi. It sounds like your having a hard time. Is the stuff going on that could be contributing to this?\n", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "My own kid has been home through all this too so I understand. ", "output": "Self-disclosure" }, { "input": "Have you tried to talk to your spouse and see if you can have some you time? Maybe have them take the kids out so you can rest.", "output": "Information" }, { "input": "I used to be like that too until i found a hobby I enjoyed so I could have something just for me.", "output": "Self-disclosure" }, { "input": "I think you should try to get back into that. maybe it will help your find yourself a little bit more again.\n", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "I like to get out and hike. I also really enjoy painting for fun\n", "output": "Self-disclosure" }, { "input": "It sounds like you have a lot going on at home and with the way of the world right now I think your are trying your hardest.\n", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "It sounds like your stressed a lot and just having a little trouble finding your way forward.", "output": "Reflection of feelings" }, { "input": "They say getting outside and getting sun helps with your mood and demeaner. Have your tried just walking around the block a few times a week?", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "Of course. I am glad i could help.", "output": "Self-disclosure" }, { "input": "Do you feel like this has helped you?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "Hello", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "How can I help?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "I'm so sorry to hear that.", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "How long were you together?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "That's tough. Can you describe what events led to the breakup?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "How do you think you will get through this? Do you have someone to talk with?", "output": "Information" }, { "input": "It absolutely will take time. You are right. Can I suggest that you try to look at what went wrong before getting involved with someone else? Would it be possible to talk with your friends and family about what they think might have happened?", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "I'm sure it will help to be with people who love you when you feeling so devastated.", "output": "Reflection of feelings" }, { "input": "I hear you. All messages this time of year are about being with people we love and that will hit you hard at this time of year. Do you have any particular things you like to do to take care of yourself?", "output": "Information" }, { "input": "Yes. when you are depressed it is hard to become motivated to do anything. However, it is extremely important that you do act. Keep moving through your days, even if you feel like you are in a haze. It may take awhile to build up to snowboarding. Maybe start with a daily walk and build from there. Action (physically doing something) triggers psychological movement. It will help you move through the pain that you are feeling.", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "Thank you so much for asking for help. It has been so nice talking with you. Take care and know that in time this pain you are feeling will become less and less intense. Have a great rest of your week!", "output": "Restatement or Paraphrasing" }, { "input": "Hello.\n", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "How are you tonight?\n", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "How can I help you?\n", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "What is causing this fear?\n", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "Just from these few messages, I can tell you are very anxious about this situation.\n", "output": "Reflection of feelings" }, { "input": "Have you spoken with your supervisor about how you feel? Often times it helps to make sure your supervisor is aware of your concerns.\n", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "I can definitely understand this feeling, as I was also very worried at the beginning of the pandemic about my job security.\n", "output": "Self-disclosure" }, { "input": "Another thing that really helped me was to take more time in the various hobbies I enjoy outside of work.\n", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "I found it very useful!\n", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "No problem! I am glad I was able to chat with you today!\n", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "You are very welcome! Feel free to chat anytime you need anything!\n", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "What would you like to know?\n", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "I like to play a lot of video games with friends to help me relax and take my mind off things, \n", "output": "Self-disclosure" }, { "input": "I am glad I have been able to make you more relaxed. \n", "output": "Restatement or Paraphrasing" }, { "input": "I am in New York State", "output": "Self-disclosure" }, { "input": "Niagara falls is pretty famous here. \n", "output": "Information" }, { "input": "Hello, how are you feeling today?\n\n", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "I'm sorry to hear that! I think that would make most people feel upset.", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "Ah, that was my next question. Sometimes things are happening out of our control, though.", "output": "Information" }, { "input": "Have you thought of asking your boss or supervisor if there's anything going on?", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "Of course! That sounds frustrating to not know why it's happening and not have the opportunity to ask.", "output": "Reflection of feelings" }, { "input": "I've also had bosses that are infrequently in the office and make getting good information hard", "output": "Self-disclosure" }, { "input": "I think your feelings are normal, but if I were you, I might try to remember that the decisions of others aren't always a reflection of us or how we're performing.", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "I can imagine!", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "I was in a physical office when I had this problem, but the boss rotated between offices. It was hard to wait, but I just kept my head down until the next time she was available. ", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "That's what I did.", "output": "Self-disclosure" }, { "input": "I think reminding yourself that if there was a problem with your work they would be seeking YOU out, and not the other way around.", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "Hopefully that mindset can help you stay positive until you have the chance to speak with them, instead of worrying about what you've done wrong.", "output": "Reflection of feelings" }, { "input": "That anxiety feels like what is keeping you down?", "output": "Restatement or Paraphrasing" }, { "input": "I really hope that helps keep you afloat until you can get some real answers. Worrying about what-ifs is harder than just knowing what's goiong on!", "output": "Information" }, { "input": "I hope you feel better soon and are able to clear it up!\n", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "Have a good night!", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "Hello, how are you?\n", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "Great, I am happy to lend a listening ear.", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "Of course, what is bothering you today?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "Are you worried of losing your job due to COVID-19?", "output": "Restatement or Paraphrasing" }, { "input": "I understand your concern about losing your job during these times. So many people are worried and it doesn't seem to be getting better.", "output": "Reflection of feelings" }, { "input": "Have you tried speaking to your employer about how you can secure your job? Many people have been trying to see if they can get unemployment just in case they do lose their income.", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "It is always good to know all your options during the pandemic. I hope you feel better assured knowing that you can try and qualify for unemployment benefits just in case you do lose your job.", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "Is there anything else you would like to share with me?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "Please end the conversation if there is nothing left for me to help you with :)", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "Happy to work with you :)", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "Hello\n", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "How are you tonight?\n\n", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "How can I help you?\n", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "So from what I understand, you caught your significant other texting someone else. \n", "output": "Restatement or Paraphrasing" }, { "input": "What types of things was she texting him about?\n", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "Just from the few messages we have sent, I can tell you are very anxious and upset about this situation. \n", "output": "Reflection of feelings" }, { "input": "I completely understand this as I had issues with my ex fiancé texting other guys and cheating on me. \n ", "output": "Self-disclosure" }, { "input": "I know how hard a situation like this is, but I know you can get through it!\n", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "Have you tried to have a conversation with her about it?\n", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "What if she doesn't know you caught her?\n", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "I think it would definitely help to talk to her about it, it is never good to let situations like this build up without being talked about. \n", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "I can definitely understand the awkwardness of the conversation, it was tough for me to have that conversation as well. \n", "output": "Self-disclosure" }, { "input": "It is definitely not healthy.\n", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "They are very tough. Did you need anything else from me tonight?\n\n", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "You are very welcome!", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "Hello. How are you today?\n", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "oh no. that isn't good. can you tell me what happened?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "I am sorry to hear that. I can understand how frustrating that can be. I have had my fair share of boyfriends cheat on me. ", "output": "Self-disclosure" }, { "input": "I am sure that you have been trying to do everything that you can do to help the situation. It sounds like you choosing counseling was a good start. It shows how much you care. ", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "It is rough for our children to see adult stuff like this. They might not be able to understand. I would suggest trying to set down and talk to them about it, when you are ready. ", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "How do you feel about your husband not wanting to fix things? Is that something that you are considering?", "output": "Reflection of feelings" }, { "input": "That is a very thoughtful thing for you to put your son first. He is lucky to have such a great mother, that obviously loves him. ", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "Have you tried to talk to your husband about your feelings and how you might not be willing to accept this?", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "Have you thought about if you can trust him after that?", "output": "Reflection of feelings" }, { "input": "I can understand where you are coming from. I have been in that situation myself and it is not an easy place to be. For me, it took some time to accept that I deserved better than someone who didn't just want me. Is that how you feel?\n", "output": "Self-disclosure" }, { "input": "Understandably so. I believe that this is just temporary and you will be amazed at how strong you are. \n", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "If you are leaning toward not accepting not being enough for him, then I would suggest an exit plan. Call a family member, or friend, to see if you can stay there awhile. Have a cooling off period from your husband and reassess the situation", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "I absolutely do. We normally find out that we are actually much stronger than we give ourselves credit for.", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "That is wonderful news! See you are starting to make a plan for a better life for you and your children. You so got this!", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "youre welcome. I am here if you need me", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "That is great! Did you have a chance to think of anything else that might help you through this?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "hello how are you today", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "good thank you", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "what seems to be the problem", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "thats horrible. i understand why you feel this way. ", "output": "Reflection of feelings" }, { "input": "have you tried to talk to him about how you feel?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "i dont think thats fair on his part. Even though you both are having a hard time he should try to be patient as well", "output": "Reflection of feelings" }, { "input": "Do your kids know about the situation or have you been keeping this from them?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "heres what i think. You should try to explain to your kids the situation. At least your oldest so they understand why this is happening and that its not their fault.", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "thats good. When you have your fights, you should try to keep your toddlers away. its not good for little kids to be experiencing this", "output": "Information" }, { "input": "As for your husband i think you should seek a counselors advice.", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "Because these are hard times, i think that you should try to find a job as soon as possible. Try different apps or websites. try to include both of you so you can connect. ", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "try to talk to him first. before you take them out try to talk to your husband alone, without the presence of your kids. Try to see things eye to eye. If he start to yell of curse, you must try to stay calm. Be the strong one in the discussion. If things dont work out tell him that you wish to take your kids out for a break. ", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "He shouldn't act out if you are both being calm. ", "output": "Reflection of feelings" }, { "input": "I would be too. Im going through something similar actually.", "output": "Self-disclosure" }, { "input": "If you try to be strong and persevere you can do it", "output": "Reflection of feelings" }, { "input": "You and your family will be stronger because of it. No problem", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "Everything will be okay", "output": "Reflection of feelings" }, { "input": "Hello! I am here", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "How are you today?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "How are you doing?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "Oh no, do you want to talk about it? What hapepned?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "Oh wow, that sounds incredibly frustrating. Do you speak to your brother?", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "That's so inappropriate, my husband's brother is the same way with his kids. They are giving such inappropraite gifts for their age. ", "output": "Self-disclosure" }, { "input": "Oh wow, i'm so sorry about your parents. Losing parents is so hard. Definitely need to make sure you don't lose your brother as well. ", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "Not at all!!!", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "Thats' so horrible. THere is so much more valuable. YOu can keep the books and art and photos though. ", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "the interface has been slow for me , i'm so sorry !", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "Do you have your moms photos displayed? I found that to be a really helpful way to stay connected and show people how special they are. ", "output": "Self-disclosure" }, { "input": "It's nice to display them in pretty frames. YOu could even frame a few and give htem to your niece. She may appreciate them more if they are displayed in a nice way. ", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "You can then tell her stories about them that go with the pictures, it will make them more meaningful. ", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "i am good how can i help you today?", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "i am so sorry you are feeling depressed I can understand how you are feeling. ", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "i can understand in this time it is hard finding a job during this pandemic\n", "output": "Restatement or Paraphrasing" }, { "input": "Yes wearing a mask can be hard but it is for everyone protection and you are doing the right thing", "output": "Restatement or Paraphrasing" }, { "input": "have you tried looking online for jobs?", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "don't let this get the best of you just know everything will be ok and you will find a job", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "we are all going through a tough time right now with the coronavirus going around and it will make everyone get depressed but don't let it get to you", "output": "Reflection of feelings" }, { "input": "you should go to places and talk to the hiring manager and see if they are hiring ", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "yes i can understand they are never there when you go try to talk to them", "output": "Reflection of feelings" }, { "input": "but all you can do is try right now ", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "things will get better soon for you and you will get a call from a job ", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "sometimes all we need is some support ", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "just keep searching online and going to different places and putting in job applications i am really sure you will get a job soon", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "Hello\n", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "I'm sorry to hear that! When did you begin feeling this way?", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "I know how you feel. I have been out of work since March as well.", "output": "Self-disclosure" }, { "input": "What field of work were you previously involved in?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "There are a lot of resources for nannies and child care online. Have you tried signing up for any of those resources?", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "That sounds like a really tough situation. I feel your frustration.", "output": "Reflection of feelings" }, { "input": "Have you explored any other fields of work that would allow you to stay at home with your son while allowing you to work?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "Apparently many companies are moving or switching to moving over to remote work. Hopefully you are able to find something soon.", "output": "Information" }, { "input": "Are there any other resources or options you have explored?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "Don't beat yourself up for it. You will find something, it just takes a bit of time!", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "No problem! I hope your situation gets better!", "output": "Others" }, { "input": " have a good rest of your day!", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "Hello what can i help you with today?\n", "output": "Restatement or Paraphrasing" }, { "input": "i am sorry you are having problems with a friend. When did this start?", "output": "Reflection of feelings" }, { "input": "what seems to be the problem?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "What was the fight about?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "I am so sorry I know exactly how you feel I was in a situation like that one time in my life", "output": "Reflection of feelings" }, { "input": "What I did is to avoid us fighting I sat down and we had a conversation to solve a problem", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "I believe that is the best way to handle the situation instead of fighting ", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "you should approach him with a calm voice", "output": "Information" }, { "input": "do not let the situation get the best of you. You should handle the situation in a appropriate manner.", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "I can most definitly understand when he becomes aggressive just leave the situation alone and let him calm down", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "Hope I helped you in some way today.", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "Hello how are you doing today?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "On no I am sorry to hear that! I know that must be tough.", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "Yea that can be difficult. Have you started looking for something else?", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "You could try looking online there are a few websites that you could put a resume on and maybe find something that way", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "Or you could look for some side jobs like cleaning or organizing things until you find something more permanent. ", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "Yea it seems to be hard to get up with a lot of places at this time. Persistent is the key.", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "Yes i understand right now is a very bad time to find anything with so many places closed. ", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "Do you have any family or friends to reach out to for help if needed?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "Have you gave any thought to babysitting or are there any crafts you are good at making that maybe you could try to sell?", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "I understand your concern there but it could help pay some as to help you not to get to far behind until you find something.", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "If i were you i would call your friend maybe she has some suggestions of things you could do based off of your skills.", "output": "Self-disclosure" }, { "input": "Yea and if not it wont have hurt to talk to her about it and all of the worry off your mind.", "output": "Reflection of feelings" }, { "input": "It does not hurt to try. Maybe call her and tell her you have some things on your mind and could use some advice from her if it is not to much of a bother. ", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "Hi, is there something bothering you that prompted you to send a message?\n", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "Hello, are you still with me?", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "That sounds like a stressful situation.", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "I have also struggled with staying focused while working from home.", "output": "Self-disclosure" }, { "input": "Have you tried making a designated study area?", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "It sounds like you are trying very hard to change your situation during this crazy year.", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "Is there a way to connect with other students taking the same classes?\n", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "If not maybe you could initiate a zoom study/discussion group.", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "I wish you much luck in your continuing education. I know that you can find a way to connect with other students and succeed!", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "Thank you, I hope you do too!", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "Hello! ", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "Wow. I understand that is a difficult situation. What are your current thoughts and feelings right now?", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "I understand that you want to communicate with your loved ones but are cautious of feelings and boundaries. ", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "Have you talked to your friend about your feelings? ", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "I understand that being honest is important. I always feel the need to share with my husband. Do you think this information will do more harm than good if shared?", "output": "Reflection of feelings" }, { "input": "It is not easy to be put in a place where you feel you need to choose between two people. Do you think girl code or the husband-wife code is more important? What do you value most, holding a secret or honesty? ", "output": "Self-disclosure" }, { "input": "I agree with you. With that said, you trust your values and where they lie. ", "output": "Information" }, { "input": "I think one step I would take if i was you would be to discuss the issue with your friend. I would tell her that as a friend, she should value your values. I would tell her the distress you feel. ", "output": "Reflection of feelings" }, { "input": "I think that is okay. I would do the same. I would also maybe explain why you were hesitant as well and the challenge the situation presented fro you. ", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "Is she also friends with your husband?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "Okay. Working with your husband as a team and approaching her as a friend, would be how i would take action. ", "output": "Self-disclosure" }, { "input": "Hope all is well\n\n", "output": "Restatement or Paraphrasing" }, { "input": "I can understand your feelings but I am sure there is a way out\n", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "I was also in same situation and can fully understand how you feel but trust me you will enjoy once you start looking for job\n\n", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "Trust me it is easy these days to update resume as many templates available online and applying for job is easy as well. Many online options are available and you get a quick \nresponse.", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "Need not to worry about it. You can use search engine and just type the job matching your profile and apply online. Trust me you will be surprised to see many options.\n", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "I was exactly in same situations and can fully understand but trying all your options to look for job is good - apply online, call friends or family and see if they have openings where they work, look work online if you get any temporary work which can enable you to pay bills till you find better job.\n", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "I am sure you will be able to manage all this and it is just temporary feeling you have.\n", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "No need to upset as it part of life. Call your best friend and discuss your feeling and I am sure you will feel good.\n", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "Excellent!! - I am sure she will have very good suggestion and will be great support for you. It is always good to talk to people you are close. \n", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "You can always share and contact me if you need any help. I will be happy to help. Take care.", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "Hello how are you today?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "im sorry to hear that. Would you care to talk about what is bothering you?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "I am sorry to hear that, loss of income can be very stressful.", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "Have you been looking for work since then?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "Why do you think it is that they go silent?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "Have you tried picking up odd jobs maybe cleaning for someone or helping them move or organize there things?", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "Have you asked them if this is causing problems?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "Maybe you could offer to do some things for them in return for the money so its not like they are just giving it to you.", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "I would let them know that i notice it happening and it is starting to concern you and if it is the problem you would gladly do some things for them to earn it rather them just giving it to you to help out.", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "I am sure if it was a major problem when you brought it up one of them would have spoke up, I would try not to worry to much over that and focus more on finding a job.", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "Sometimes when i have to much free time on my hands i start to feel the same but when i find away to fill the time i no longer feel useless.", "output": "Self-disclosure" }, { "input": "No problem, I hope you feel better soon!", "output": "Reflection of feelings" }, { "input": "Maybe they are talking about ways they could help you out but do not want to speak about it in front of you as to not make you feel like a charity case or worse about your situation.", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "How are you today?", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "That is good. Is everthing ok?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "So your having a hard time fiding a job. I'm sure something will come up\n", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "Times are hard for many right now. You are not alone. I myself lost a job not long again and it took me awhile to find a new one", "output": "Self-disclosure" }, { "input": "Well, I just keep appling and applying. I got down but keep at it. In the meantime I did some work for UBER, INSTACART, etc.", "output": "Self-disclosure" }, { "input": "There are other options. There is dog walking, house sitting, handy man work, etc? I'm sure you are good at things like that.", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "No, but you never know who you are going to meat. The more people you work for, the more contacts, etc you have. ", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "Sometimes, you just have to have hope. I know you will find a job. You will find something better.", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "You are welcome. I truly believe in you and what I say. You are not alone in this. So many are struggling right now.", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "I have been where you are. I have stuggeling with finding a job. You will find one.", "output": "Self-disclosure" }, { "input": "Have a great day", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "Hi! I am here. How are you today?\n", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "I'm so sorry to hear that. ", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "What is wrong?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "definitely. The short days make it so hard to smile. Your body needs sun. There are ways to cheer yourself up though!", "output": "Information" }, { "input": "Oh definitely doesn't help but I understand. Working on a computer all day is really hard . I do that too. I try to get myself away from the computer for at least a hour to do something i enjoy ", "output": "Self-disclosure" }, { "input": "What do you enjoy?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "That's true but there have to be every day things that you could enjoy. Do you enjoy any exercises?", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "Exercise is a great way to release endorphins which very much makes you happier. ", "output": "Information" }, { "input": "That's okay!!! you should try to take a 30 minute walk every day. That's actually what i do to stay sane. ", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "You don't need a destination. Does walking help you at all?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "What about connecting with otehr people ? ", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "What about virtually? I've been quarantined because I live with someone immunocompromised but I try to have phone or video calls with people regularly. ", "output": "Self-disclosure" }, { "input": "We talk, there are also online games you can play with other people. We cooked together last week and made cocktails. ", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "You do as welL!! i hope you feel better soon!!!!", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "Hello! How are you?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "I'm doing great, thank you for asking!", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "Is there anything you would like to talk about today? How was your week?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "I'm currently at home, relaxing. Thank you for asking! Did you have a relaxing day today?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "It sounds like you have had a stressful time! Would you be able to tell me what is causing you to feel that way? ", "output": "Restatement or Paraphrasing" }, { "input": "Yes, pets are proven to expand your lifespan!", "output": "Information" }, { "input": "Would you be able to tell me what is causing you to feel stressed?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "It sounds like you and your friends had an argument. This sometimes happens between friends who are very close with each other! When I had an argument with my friend, we both knew it was because we cared deeply for each other.", "output": "Self-disclosure" }, { "input": "I'm sure you are a very loyal and honest friend who just feels comfortable enough to disagree with your other friends!", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "That is a great idea, and it shows how mature you are! Sometimes, it is a good idea to move on and continue to communicate normally. ", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "Hello how are you today?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "I am so sorry to hear that, would you like to talk about what is troubling you?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "I am sorry to hear that, break ups can be very stressful.", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "Do you currently have any hobbies or do any self care?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "Have you tried sitting down to watch a good movie with a snack to take your mind off of it, that usually helps me.", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "you could try going for a walk or mediating, they are great ways to clear your head.", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "I enjoy nice long walks in nature it is so peaceful, i am sure if you did that you would feel a little better.", "output": "Self-disclosure" }, { "input": "Do you have any friends that you have tried talking to about how you are feeling?", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "I understand that completely being shy person myself", "output": "Self-disclosure" }, { "input": "I would try going on that walk and then coming back and taking a shower then trying to watch a movie with a snack again it may really help to clear your mind.", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "You are so welcome! I hope you start to feel better soon.", "output": "Reflection of feelings" }, { "input": "Hello. Im doing good. How are you doing?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "Hello. Im doing good. How are you doing?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "Why. Can you talknto me about it?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "I can understand how are you feeling. Its not that easy going through this pandemic ", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "I know how are you feeling. Im kind of going in the same situation. But you have to keep calm. You have to look things at this way, maybe this is an opportunity to socialize more with your love ones and start learning new things at home. I believe God put us in this situation to appreciate more our surroundings", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "Have you ever try to talk to your love one at home? Or maybe take time to communicate more with your friends?", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "Well i dont know when this is going to end but if we let this isolation win the we are going to get worse. So I would recommend to share time with your love one and clear your mind and take out all the negative things away. Right now Im talking a lot with my brother and me and him never get along. So this is a huge step ", "output": "Self-disclosure" }, { "input": "Another thing i can recomend is try to read some books. That will help. I dont like reading but Im doing it and sometimes by doing it relaxed me and get me to another place", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "Well, I love fictions and mystery. Right now I just finished \"The Davinci Code\". ", "output": "Information" }, { "input": "I dont want to sound like a Christian fanatic or something like that but the Bible helps too. Ever since this pandemic started I started read it and It helped me a lot", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "I'm doing well. How are things with you?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "Would you like to talk about it?\n", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "I understand how you are feeling. The pandemic has led to many challenges and it's hard.\n", "output": "Self-disclosure" }, { "input": "Is there anyone that you are close to that you can talk to about your stress and future?\n", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "Has it been helping?\n", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "Are you doing any other activities that you enjoy doing?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "How are the books that you've been reading?\n", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "Well, you did mention how you're stressed about your future. Do you have any goals or plans that you have been wanting to achieve or accomplish?\n", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "Yeah, it's a rough time for everyone I feel like. Maybe you can consider talking to your co-workers and talk about how you've been feeling?\n", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "I was feeling really stressed as well. What I found that helped me was just meditating and thinking about the good things in my life.\n", "output": "Information" }, { "input": "It made me feel more relaxed.\n", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "Could you try taking a couple of deep breaths?", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "Doing that and practicing mindfulness can be helpful in calming people down.", "output": "Information" }, { "input": "hi what seems to be the problem", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "it sounds like lack of employment has you down", "output": "Restatement or Paraphrasing" }, { "input": "Have you tried looking online or updating your resume", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "Indeed is a good place to start", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "I wouldn't get to down on yourself. It can sometimes take up to 5 months according to data. ", "output": "Information" }, { "input": "Ahh that is indeed frustrating. Do you have any friends or family that may serve as a reference for you?", "output": "Reflection of feelings" }, { "input": "Depending on people is not a sign of weakness so don't hesitate ask for help. Connections unfortunately lead to many opportunities in life.", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "So I would suggest updating the resume, submitting at least 3 applications a day, finding some references, performing volunteer work to build your resume, lastly perhaps start up a new hobby or develop your skills in your free time. ", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "Sounds like you have a plan, good work", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "spend less time on activities that are not important. For example instead of doing minimum work on mturk you could be better preparing.", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "that is a great idea and will get you off to a great start", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "I think that's about all I have to offer you unfortunately", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "no problem you can do it!", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "Hey, how are you today? Anything on your mind?\n", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "Yeah? Can you tell me a bit about these known unknowns?", "output": "Restatement or Paraphrasing" }, { "input": "Ah man, thats pretty unlucky isn't it, I'm in the same situation, but I think yours is a bit worse.\n", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "Hey, I feel you there on the anxiety, you'll definitely get through this.", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "Thats what anxiety is all about, the best you can do is figure out how to address those unknowns.", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "I lost my job, started coding, doing odd-jobs, and learning survival skills. That is how I prepared for my unknowns.", "output": "Self-disclosure" }, { "input": "Doesn't hurt to be prepared for anything, even the worst case scenarios! Don't sweat what other people think about you, its your life.", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "It is a good idea, who knows how the future is going to go for everybody honestly.", "output": "Reflection of feelings" }, { "input": "Got any good ideas?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "Mturk definitely helps! But don't put all your irons in one fire. Keep branching out!", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "No problem man, anything else on your mind?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "You have a good night too, keep on truckin and be the person you see in your ideals!", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "Good evening.\n", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "No problem, what seems to be causing your depression tonight?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "So if I understand correctly you just recently went through a breakup with a longtime partner?\n", "output": "Restatement or Paraphrasing" }, { "input": "From our short chat so far I can tell you are really heartbroken about this break up.\n", "output": "Reflection of feelings" }, { "input": "I know how hard this is, but I also know you can get through it!\n", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "I recently went through the same kind of break up where my fiancé cheated on me and got pregnant with another man, so I know how much this hurts. \n ", "output": "Self-disclosure" }, { "input": "Have you been able to talk to him about why he decided to leave you? Sometimes it helps to get closure on a situation like this, \n", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "So what you are saying is that the only reason he left you was because you were not financially stable enough for him.\n", "output": "Restatement or Paraphrasing" }, { "input": "You seem like a really great person for doing all of that for him and you definitely deserve someone who is in it for much more than just money!\n", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "Have you been able to talk to any of your close friends or family about the situation? Sometimes it helps to talk to someone close to you about things like this.\n", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "That sounds like really great advice from your mother!\n", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "I also found it helped me a lot when going through my situation to get really involved in my hobbies to take my mind off things. \n", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "It is great to have supportive parents!\n", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "Good idea\n", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "You're very welcome! Have a nice night!\n", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "How are you today?\n", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "I'm sorry to hear that, what's got you down?\n", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "I can relate to being in a rural area being hit right now. What are the wrong choices that they're making?\n", "output": "Self-disclosure" }, { "input": "It's such a hard time right now, knowing what is the right thing to do. Does your district offer any virtual options?", "output": "Reflection of feelings" }, { "input": "That's frustrating, obviously you want what's best for your kid and it's going to take time. \n", "output": "Restatement or Paraphrasing" }, { "input": "I think the important thing to remember is that we're all going through similar things. Which probably increases our anxiety because we don't have any good way to express our frustrations since everyone else is in the same or worse position.", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "While we're busy worrying about things like education and jobs, I like to look for the little messages of hope and empathy that we'[re seeing through all of this as well. It's a good teaching moment for our kids and showing how to collectively work to take care of one another.", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "Just think of all of the ways our kids are learning to adapt to different life situations as well. That's worth just as much as their formal education. Your concerns are valid, and hopefully finding another safer school works out and this whole thing is over soon.", "output": "Self-disclosure" }, { "input": "That's a great idea, helping fill time with things to distract is a good way to relieve stress as well.", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "What region are you in? We're midwest and watching the news is not the best way to lighten the day.", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "Well my suggestion is to turn off the news.", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "You too, thanks for chatting!", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "Hello, how can I help you today?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "Is there anything that's specifically causing the stress? Probably some big changes?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "It sounds like you're facing some potential instability which can definitely increase anxiety. What strategies have you been trying so far?", "output": "Restatement or Paraphrasing" }, { "input": "For the short term, have you tried looking in to meditation or breathing exercises? For a longer approach, have you thought about gaining some new skills for the job market?", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "Sounds like reading might be a good way to get your mind out of the anxiety loop, does that sound right?", "output": "Restatement or Paraphrasing" }, { "input": "That's great! Maybe you can take that a step further and read some material on mindfulness", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "So, you don't feel like you have a secure spot right now, is that right?", "output": "Restatement or Paraphrasing" }, { "input": "Can you tell me what your job is?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "Ok, have there been any talks about layoffs? Or any concerns about your performance?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "So you're nervous about things that might happen in the future, but there's no talks about anything concrete?", "output": "Restatement or Paraphrasing" }, { "input": "Hi, how are you today?\n\n", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "I am pretty good. \n", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "What is going on with you today?\n", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "So from what I understand you are feeling upset because you feel like you haven't given back what your parents were able to provide you>\n", "output": "Restatement or Paraphrasing" }, { "input": "From the few messages we have exchanged, I can tell you are extremely upset by this, \n", "output": "Reflection of feelings" }, { "input": "I myself have had issues with feeling like I haven't been able to give back to my parents what they have given me, it is a really hard situation to be in, \n", "output": "Self-disclosure" }, { "input": "Those are completely normal feelings to have, but I know you can get through this!\n", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "Have you been able to talk to your parents about this? I think that it would help you to tell them what you are feeling. ", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "Have you reached out and tried to talk to a professional about this as well? I know when I was struggling with anxiety and depression I went to counseling and it helped me a lot.", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "I think that would be a great start and I know it would make you feel better!\n", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "Not a problem, I am glad I was able to talk to you!\n", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "Merry Christmas and God Bless you as well. Thank you for chatting!\n", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "Bye\n", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "Hi, my day is goin well. ", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "I am sorry to hear that, what is going on?\n", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "To be sure I understand correctly, you are worried you are going to lose your job because of COVID-19.\n", "output": "Restatement or Paraphrasing" }, { "input": "I completely understand this feeling as when the pandemic began I was also extremely worried about my job security as well. ", "output": "Self-disclosure" }, { "input": "I can definitely tell through chatting with you that you are extremely anxious about the situation. \n", "output": "Reflection of feelings" }, { "input": "What industry do you work in?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "Have you talked to your manager about the situation?\n", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "I understand your anxiety due to this, but I know you can make it through this situation!\n", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "Have you talked to friends or family members about this? I found that when I was going through my anxiety, talking to my family was very useful.\n", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "I have been on anxiety medicine before and it definitely helped me as well. \n", "output": "Self-disclosure" }, { "input": "You can definitely get through this!\n", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "How are you doing today?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "I'm sorry to hear that, what is the issue that you're having?\n", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "Is it crucial that you be in the South versus Northwestern region? Are you willing to lose her in order to move South?\n", "output": "Restatement or Paraphrasing" }, { "input": "A compromise would definitely be the best and most fair for both of you. You may just need to sit down and ask some tough questions to determine where she sees things. She may be thinking the same thing you are.\n", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "Without knowing where you stand on things or where your relationship is going, she may not know how to completely plan the future for herself much less the two of you.", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "Somewhat but not identical. My now husband and I attended different colleges and we both agreed on a fairly selfish approach of finding our careers while dating and not letting our relationship dictate what either one of us did. No one wants to be the reason someone holds back or gives up on something they've always wanted.\n", "output": "Self-disclosure" }, { "input": "You don't want her to resent you for telling her you want her to move South, but that goes both ways. She needs to be willing to see your side too and you'll need to make those decisions together.", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "Great, the sooner the better. I have a feeling you'll both be relieved when you do.", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "I'm sure she's considered it, expressing interest in both of those areas could just be that you're sending mixed messages too. So really, just talking it out is your best bet. Good luck!", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "Hi, how are you?", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "I am sorry to hear that. What is going on?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "So you are worried you may lose your job due to the pandemic, is that correct?\n", "output": "Restatement or Paraphrasing" }, { "input": "It seems to me from chatting with you that you are extremely anxious about the situation. \n", "output": "Reflection of feelings" }, { "input": "I completely understand as I was in the same situation when the pandemic started and I wasn't sure if I was going to keep my job. ", "output": "Self-disclosure" }, { "input": "What industry do you currently work in?\n", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "I know this is an extremely hard situation, but I know you can make it through it!\n", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "Yes, we are currently in a lock down.\n", "output": "Self-disclosure" }, { "input": "Have you had a talk with your supervisor about the situation?\n", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "Something I used to do when I was struggling with anxiety over this was come home and play video games, which is something I really enjoy doing. Have you tried to really dive into more activities that you enjoy?", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "I play a lot of sports games, mostly racing. ", "output": "Self-disclosure" }, { "input": "All is well this evening what about you friend ?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "Awl so sorry to hear that. There are times in all our lives that we feel alone. This feeling will change.", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "I think a dog is a wonderful idea. I love dogs!", "output": "Self-disclosure" }, { "input": "Dogs bring so much love and support. What a great idea. This can prove to be very helpful with feelings of loneliness. ", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "Not at the moment. I have alot of animals running around my home that I feed everyday. I mean outside critters. I did just have a jack Russell. She was the smartest dog I have ever had and I have had several.", "output": "Self-disclosure" }, { "input": "What kind of dog are you thinking of getting ?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "Those use dogs are super smart as well. I think that's a great choice. ", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "Animals provide us with a peace and understanding that many humans cant give us.", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "We go into lock down on Friday. Its all mental. Dont let all of this weigh you mind down. Allow your mind to remain free.", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "It may be .. but we cant shut down. Now is the best time ever to love and work on ourselves. I believe its all about the way you look at situations. This is time for self care.", "output": "Reflection of feelings" }, { "input": "hi there, how are you and how can i help?", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "i see. are your parents paying for your university?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "oh i see. so you mean that your parents would prefer you to choose the path that will eventually give you a higher salary?", "output": "Restatement or Paraphrasing" }, { "input": "that is a tough situation. it's definitely not easy to go against your family's wishes, but at the same time you have to do what's best for you", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "i went through a similar experience during my schooling, and i had to explain to my parents that i don't want to disappoint them but i still have to do what makes me happy. having a career that you hate doesn't feel good - i've been there", "output": "Self-disclosure" }, { "input": "but there can be careers in engineering that have connections to architecture as well, such as structural engineering", "output": "Information" }, { "input": "honestly i think both are great career paths to pursue and as you said, both are stable and well-paying fields", "output": "Reflection of feelings" }, { "input": "strengths doesn't always equal happiness though, so that's a tough one.", "output": "Information" }, { "input": "have you considered speaking with both architects and engineers to learn more about each job? that might be helpful in your decision. sometimes what we think a job does, in actuality can be totally different in real life", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "ah well i commend you on taking that step and actually trying to learn about the jobs. you seem like a really smart person and you're able to see things from a logical perspective", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "i think what you need to do is take that same logical approach and explain calmly to your parents the path you want to take. just because they think your strengths are suited for architecture, doesnt mean you don't also have the strengths for engineering. many of the same skills are probably required for both jobs, and you're right: ultimately it is about what will make you happy", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "and worst case scenario: you can always change careers later if you find that you don't like what you're doing", "output": "Self-disclosure" }, { "input": "you sound like a good student and i'm sure your parents must recognize that you're capable of great things, so if you can present to them a logical argument of why you feel engineering is a better path, hopefully they will listen. ", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "you're welcome. best of luck to you and i hope you find the right path for yourself. i commend you for opening up here and i think you'll find success", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "thanks!", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "Hello, how are you doing today?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "I'm so sorry to hear that, this has been a hard time for so many.\n", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "What type of work were you doing if I can ask?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "What field?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "I'm so sorry. Is there any side work you can get into?", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "That's a great idea, I'm glad you're looking into things to do in the meantime.", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "Unfortunately, this is such an isolating time and losing some of that contact is going to be an adjustment. I can completely understand that.", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "I can definitely relate to that. The amount of anxiety this has all caused is more than I could've ever imagined. The important thing is that we reach out and talk about things in order to help reset and deal with what's going on.\n", "output": "Self-disclosure" }, { "input": "We'll get through it. You seem motivated to find a new job which is half the battle. And construction is a good field to be in, everyone needs the services you can provide.", "output": "Reflection of feelings" }, { "input": "Even if temporarily this means finding different things to do to get by.", "output": "Restatement or Paraphrasing" }, { "input": "I'm glad we could chat as well.", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "Good Evening \n", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "How is it going this evening ?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "I am great. I love the outdoors it make you feel free and apart of something much larger than yourself. ", "output": "Self-disclosure" }, { "input": "Kool beans ! I love life/outoors just in that same way. ", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "No, I can not see what you sent initially Could you please resend it?. ", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "Betrayal is a hard pill to swallow. I think you brave for sharing what you have been experiencing. Thank you.", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "We all go through similar situations in all of our lives. Its not about going through those situations it about for me what did I learn and how will this make me better in the future. ", "output": "Self-disclosure" }, { "input": "Those situation sometimes shows us there was time in that friendship where we could have been over extending ourselves. Those are the times we should have been given more love and attention to our self. We learn how to love ourselves more we others don't reciprocate what we give them. I think it ultimately about being a better friend to you first. ", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "Well we just have to be careful with over giving of ourselves. You are more valuable to yourself than you know. You are very welcome.", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "Hi, thank you for chatting with me.", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "From what I understand, you are struggling with childhood trauma and this is affecting everyday life with your child and spouse. ", "output": "Restatement or Paraphrasing" }, { "input": "That is a really hard situation to be in, but I know that you can have that conversation with your spouse!", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "Does he have any idea about any of the trauma you have experienced?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "Just listening to you talk I can tell this is something that is making you extremely anxious. \n", "output": "Reflection of feelings" }, { "input": "One thing I would suggest is after writing everything down that you rehearse it for a while in front of a mirror and picture that you are talking to your husband while you are doing this.", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "Have you reached out to other people or a group of people who may have experienced the same type of trauma you have?", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "I have also experienced childhood trauma in my past and it was extremely hard to get through. I found talking to people who went through the same thing helped a lot. \n", "output": "Self-disclosure" }, { "input": "After speaking with others in the same situation, I was able to convey this to my loved ones in a better way and I was much more comfortable with it, \n", "output": "Self-disclosure" }, { "input": "You are very welcome! Thank you for chatting with me today!\n", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "I am glad I could help, if you ever need anything else don't be afraid to contact us back!\n", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "I am doing pretty well. There's a beautiful sunset outside right now. How are you?", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "Yep. Me too. My dad just got sick and I was worried out of my mind waiting for his test results to come back. Thankfully they were negative. ", "output": "Self-disclosure" }, { "input": "Is there anything else you've been worried about?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "Are you working right now?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "Do you have a backup plan if you get laid off?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "I see. Do you have anyone who would be willing to offer you support if you needed it, like your parents?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "It might be worth talking to them ahead of time. I'm sure they would understand.", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "Lots of people are in a similar situation right now.", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "Yes. I live in California, which is kind of strict.", "output": "Self-disclosure" }, { "input": "I'm perfectly happy to be at home, though. I'm on break from school and I have plenty of projects and stuff to work on here.", "output": "Self-disclosure" }, { "input": "I really sympathize with everyone who has to support themselves right now, though. It majorly sucks.", "output": "Reflection of feelings" }, { "input": "Yep. I'm off for a whole two months, because my school didn't want anyone coming back after Thanksgiving.", "output": "Self-disclosure" }, { "input": "Also, I know I don't really know you, but can I write you a Christmas card?", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "If you would rather not give out your name/address I totally understand. :)", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "Hello, and good evening.", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "How are things going on your end?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "Awl, I'm sorry to hear that. We all go through those moments when we open ourselves to love others. Time will allow these feelings to pass.", "output": "Self-disclosure" }, { "input": "I found that break ups make us better in the long run. They show us what we really want and what we dont. ", "output": "Self-disclosure" }, { "input": "We are human we are suppose to love that is natural. ", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "I can tell that this has really affected you. It is always like that at first. ", "output": "Reflection of feelings" }, { "input": "Life will get better for you each day. The healing of the heart and mind takes time but it gets better.", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "That is why I like to keep communication open so that I wont be sprung off guard with a change in relationships. ", "output": "Self-disclosure" }, { "input": "Well sounds like to me he doesn't know how karma works. lol.. The universe makes ways for us to have what we ask for. A closed door is really re-routing you to where you are suppose to be.", "output": "Information" }, { "input": "Yes, think about what you are grateful for not what you feel like you have lost. No one loses in relationships we just learn and become better people. ", "output": "Reflection of feelings" }, { "input": "You will look back at this moment and laugh. We always do as women. ", "output": "Self-disclosure" }, { "input": "Hello. :)", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "How are you?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "I am sorry to hear that. What are you feeling helpless about?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "I see. I would be worried about that as well. How long have you been out of work?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "Is there anyone you are able to ask for support right now, like your parents? I am sure they would understand, since so many people have been losing jobs lately.", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "I see. And your kids are depending on you to be able to take care of them. I am so sorry; I know that must be extremely stressful.", "output": "Reflection of feelings" }, { "input": "Are you married right now? If so, does your spouse have a job?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "I see. Do you mean that you are not on good terms with him?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "Yes, I can understand that. It's been cold and gloomy over here and my whole family has been in a bad mood.", "output": "Self-disclosure" }, { "input": "It seems like a little thing, but I find that taking Vitamin D supplements when the weather is bad helps me not to get depressed.", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "Yep. Me too. I'm ready for all of this mess to be over.", "output": "Reflection of feelings" }, { "input": "How important is it for you to be able to work right now? Does your husband make enough money to pay the bills and make sure you have somewhere to stay?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "I can understand that. I am sorry. Was it different when your children were younger? What has changed?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "Okay. One thing--", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "Would it be all right if I write you a Christmas card? If you would rather not give out your name/address, I totally understand.", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "hi there, how are you?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "can you clarify what you mean? did you lose your job?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "i see. what type of work did you do?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "oh i'm very sorry to hear that. but the great thing about having worked in a kitchen is that there are a lot of skills you can use in other jobs", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "i understand that losing a job sucks and i can sense your frustration at the situation but there are other opportunities out there, and you don't need to be thinking only in the culinary field", "output": "Reflection of feelings" }, { "input": "time management, resourcefulness, being able to think on your feet and manage multiple things at once are skills i'm sure you use and developed in the kitchen, and those are skills you can take anywhere", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "don't be so hard on yourself. I'm sure there are a lot of things you can do. of course if you want to stay in the culinary field, you might need to get creative in the short term. have you thought about finding opportunities to be a private chef? or maybe even make pre-made meals to sell for people who don't want to or dont have time to cook for themselves?", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "another thing you might try is an online cooking lesson or something. with more people staying home and eating in, they might be interested in learning how to cook better food for themselves", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "that sounds like an opportunity in itself to me. i'm sure there are tons of people out there that have the business stuff but don't have the cooking skills. you could find a partner to help, and that way you won't have to do everything alone.", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "i totally get it, but especially now, there are a lot of opportunities for people who like to keep to themselves, since so many businesses are being forced to go online. you could put an ad on craigslist or facebook for people who might be interested", "output": "Information" }, { "input": "give yourself a little more credit. you put yourself out there enough to come on here for advice. that's pretty good self-awareness and more than i can say for some other people i know", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "you're very welcome, i'm happy to help and glad you feel better! Best of luck to you!", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "lol you too ;)", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "Hello, how are you?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "How are you feeling? Is there anything the matter?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "Oh my I'm so sorry that happened to you. I can't completely relate, but my parents are going through something very similar after 25 years of marriage. Tell me more about it.", "output": "Self-disclosure" }, { "input": "I am so sorry. Does your child know? I have a 10 year old and she is struggling with my parents, we lived with them for the first 2 years of her life and have always been 15 minutes away since. I completely understand why you feel the way you do that is to be expected. You are not stupid and I'm sure its not you. Have you spoken to your fiance about this since you found out? ", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "I'm so sorry. From personal experience, my best advice is to be as direct as possible. Demand respect and answers that you deserve after 13 years. ", "output": "Information" }, { "input": "If he will not answer your questions, thats all the answers you need. How did you find out?", "output": "Restatement or Paraphrasing" }, { "input": "I can't even imagine how you feel. Clarity and answers are so important right now for you... no matter if it is true or not. That is a long time to be with someone.", "output": "Reflection of feelings" }, { "input": "Oh my gosh. There's all the answers you need right there. I'm so sorry. He wont even speak to you about it? No excuses anything? Have you told family?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "You must express this in some way to let this out. It's not healthy to let your anger bottle up. I'm sure you're angry, rightfully so... do you have any hobbies to occupy your mind until you get things sorted?", "output": "Reflection of feelings" }, { "input": "That's awesome. Working out can release so much stress. I hope things work out so you can get some sort of closure. ", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "You're welcome. I wish you the best of luck. Try to stay positive. It sounds like you are handling this the best you can.", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "Hi\n", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "how are you? how it's going on?\n", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "why are you feeling in that way? tell me what it's happening?\n", "output": "Restatement or Paraphrasing" }, { "input": "oh my god! I'm so sorry for that \n", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "why do you failed your exam? did you study and prepared well?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "What happen with your dog? it was sick? ", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "He or she were with you for a long time. you should remember him/her many times per day:( I know how are you feeling now ", "output": "Reflection of feelings" }, { "input": "are you there?\n", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "I can help you!\n", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "Hello, how can I help you today?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "I understand you keep experiencing anxiety attacks.", "output": "Restatement or Paraphrasing" }, { "input": "Is there any common cause for the attacks?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "Is there any specific stimuli that takes place just before or within an hour prior to the attacks?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "You are not alone, a lot of people experience anxiety attacks due to physical stimuli.", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "Have you looked into mindfulness exercises or meditation?", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "I have experienced Anxiety myself and meditation helped me for the most part, I also found that I wasn't sleeping enough and being tired made my attacks longer.", "output": "Self-disclosure" }, { "input": "Are you sleeping okay at night?", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "I would suggest trying Mindfulness exercises for at least 15 minutes every day and see if that helps.", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "I understand, Sometimes the Mindfulness exercises help me get more productive sleep.", "output": "Information" }, { "input": "I did, ASMR guidance seems to help me most, but I happen to be ASMR sensative, perhaps you are as well? They seem to help with my anxiety as well.", "output": "Information" }, { "input": "Yes, Kind of like whispers, almost like Bob Ross on those old painting videos.", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "I am glad I could be helpful.", "output": "Reflection of feelings" }, { "input": "Be Well!", "output": "Reflection of feelings" }, { "input": "Hey is everything okay?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "Can you tell me what is bothering you? I have many times in holidays past felt like you and I always find it best to talk it out.", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "Yeah it is a difficult time and understandable to be worried about financial stability.", "output": "Reflection of feelings" }, { "input": "\na", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "Are you worried you may lose your job? I lost mine during the peak of the 2008 financial crisis and went through a similar struggle.", "output": "Self-disclosure" }, { "input": "It may be a stressful situation, but it may be best to update your resume and begin to check out other job listings. You want to hope everything works out, but you do not want to be blindsided. ", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "Yes the lockdown has been difficult. It has been tough for me too. I live in a city with a lot of parks and nature trails and it has been very beneficial to get out when I can. Do you have a similar situation?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "Fresh air is always a great way to get your mind off the difficult situations we all face in life. ", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "I am thinking things will slowly begin to get better toward the beginning of spring and by the end of the next year things should be close to normal.", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "Has anything else been bothering you?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "Yeah it is a tough time, but we will all make it through. Just stay safe and keep in mind that this is only temporary and there is an end to all of this right around the corner.", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "I think that is a great idea. It will be a perfect time to get him/her trained and you can get some bonding in with the dog as well!", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "With the economy, it will take time. Probably years, but once a vaccine hits things will immediatley trend in the right direction.", "output": "Information" }, { "input": "I am really sorry to hear that. ", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "What is making things so hard?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "I definitely understand that. I also have been having a hard time in quarantine. ", "output": "Self-disclosure" }, { "input": "Do you have people you can talk to digitally? Friends, family?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "I get that. It can be really frustrating when you feel alone and like you've got no one to talk to. Especially when 2020 seems to be dumping things on you. ", "output": "Reflection of feelings" }, { "input": "What have you been doing to pass the time? Is there anything that you've found that makes you feel better? ", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "That can be handy! ", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "Is that something you can do with regularity? Getting out and walking?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "I know that I've had good luck battling my depression by just finding ways to not be at home. Hiking, going for walks, going for drives... ", "output": "Self-disclosure" }, { "input": "Good! It's hard to start, but it's a good way to start. How far do you plan on going?", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "That will be good. Make sure you can take some time and really appreciate not being in the house. ", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "Is there any music or podcats you can listen to while out?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "I am glad. Practicing mindfulness can really help, and help put things in perspective. Often times we build things up to be even worse than they already are. Being able to be grateful for what's around can help, without diminishing the issues that you are facing. ", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "Remembering that it's okay to be sad and depressed, as much as it sucks, can be helpful in reframing. It's a rough time for everyone and you definitely are not alone. ", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "I absolutely get it. I work from home right now so it's just me all day. Sometimes, I literally only talk to my cats. I am a crazy cat lady. ", "output": "Self-disclosure" }, { "input": "I had a whole cry and freak out moment when part 2 of quarantine hit recently. I wholeheartedly understand. ", "output": "Self-disclosure" }, { "input": "Do you have any pets?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "Smart cats are the best. They know when you need cuddles, which it sounds like you do! Also means you aren't alone. ;) Cat needs ya! As much as they don't want to admit it. ", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "If you are healthy/feel comfortable with going out, you could consider volunteering at an animal shelter. You'd get to interact with some folks, some animals, and add something to the resume. I don't know if you are likely to get hours back at work or what you do, but that could be fun! ", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "I believe it needs to be a minimum of 20 minutes and we are at 17 right now. ", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "For the max that is, lol. ", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "West Coast of all things! WA st, so lots of hiking for me. It's been helping so much. ", "output": "Self-disclosure" }, { "input": "Oh hey! So all of your family is here then. What prompted the move?", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "Ha. I believe that. I was born and raised in Puyallup, so it's all I know. i couldn't ever think of leaving. ", "output": "Self-disclosure" }, { "input": "Welp, thanks for the conversation, I hope I helped. Cuddle the cat, enjoy the beach, and remember this is all temporary! ", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "lol, I have. ", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "Hello\n", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "I am alright, how could I help you?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "Sounds like you are facing a tough choice ", "output": "Restatement or Paraphrasing" }, { "input": "Do you feel that this girl would make you happy if you were to get back toggether", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "I also was in a similar situation recently and getting back toggether was probably the best choice", "output": "Self-disclosure" }, { "input": "From what you have said earlier maybe it would be good for you to try to get her back", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "It might be challenging to make a first step, but I bellieve that in the end you will be happy you did this", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "I wish you the best ", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "Is there anything else I could help you with?\n", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "Okay, goodbye :))", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "hi, how are you and how can i help?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "when did this start?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "i see. have you sought out any medical help with the back pain?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "yeah, this pandemic has thrown a wrench into many people's plans, but hopefully things will ease up soon.", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "it is a bit daunting when we see the number of infections increasing and people getting sick, but i think it will just be a matter of time before things get better. and hopefully a vaccine will help with the hospitalizations", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "i think you're already taking a step in the right direction by talking to me about your anxiety and depression. i'm amazed that you've been able to just deal with it for 8 years", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "i've had friends who suffered from anxiety and depression, and i've noticed that just talking things through can sometimes help a lot", "output": "Self-disclosure" }, { "input": "i'm very sorry to hear about your mother's passing, and a significant loss like that can take some time to process", "output": "Reflection of feelings" }, { "input": "from my experience, it really helps just to open up to someone about the things that are on your mind. even a journal can help. if you have someone who can lend an ear to listen and a shoulder to cry on, spending some time with them can help you get your feelings out and might give you a sense of relief", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "personally, i find that hobbies are great for getting your mind off things and keeping yourself occupied means that your mind doesn't wander into dark thoughts", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "just from this limited conversation, it sounds like you're an amazing person and i sincerely commend you for seeking help here and pushing yourself to cope with you loss and pain. i really wish there was more i could do to help but i believe in you ;)", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "this might sound silly, but reddit is a great resource. there are some great support groups there who help each other and lift people up", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "you're very welcome, and thank you for your kind words. stay strong and i know you can get through this. i don't know what the rules are on sharing personal contact info here, but i'm happy to be a friend or pen pal if you just need someone to talk to", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "you too!", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "Hello how are you?\n", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "I am doing okay thank you for asking! would you like to talk about whats wrong?\n", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "I am not knowledgeable in this service industry. Let me understand. You delivered the order, but the customer did not confirm they wanted it.\n\n", "output": "Restatement or Paraphrasing" }, { "input": "Oh i understand, that would be annoying. Did you talk to your supervisor about this situation?\n", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "I understand, but do not feel bad about yourself. You did your work honestly and delivered the food to your customer. ", "output": "Reflection of feelings" }, { "input": "Can I suggest something moving forward?\n\n", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "Maybe every time you make a delivery, you can take a picture of it for proof. ", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "or maybe you can have a copy of the receipt and have the customer sign\n it as well. ", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "it's okay, it happens to everyone. we are human and we tend to make the smallest mistakes. The important thing is to learn from them. \n", "output": "Reflection of feelings" }, { "input": "Is there anything else bothering you at work?\n", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "as long as you believe in yourself to be honest, don't worry about what other people think. Your boss will come to understand you are a honest worker. It is also amazing that you have come such a long way without having other problems. that is great! \n", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "Yes, i understand what you are saying. It's really hard to move on from bad experiences, staying positive is important in these situations. ", "output": "Reflection of feelings" }, { "input": "There's no need to thank me! i hope I could make you feel better.\n", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "Yes, you too! have an amazing rest of your day!\n", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "hello", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "Oh no, i am sorry to hear that. It must be devastating for you", "output": "Reflection of feelings" }, { "input": "How are you feeling now?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "Have you seek therapy? Even if they can't lessen the pain, at least you have a place to vent out", "output": "Self-disclosure" }, { "input": "You can ask around to see if your friends know anyone good. If not, I'd suggest joining a group of people of the same problem where you can talk to each other", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "Yes I have, I lost one of my friends by suicide, It's very difficult and took years for me to somehow get over it", "output": "Self-disclosure" }, { "input": "I just cried my heart out, I talked to my other friends just to get it out of my heart", "output": "Self-disclosure" }, { "input": "2-3 years, at first I thought it was over but once in a while I would think of him and had this sharp pain in my chest. I tried to busy myself with work and other stuff too.", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "I know it's very tough, especially when it's sudden like that but we can only do our best", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "of course, I hope you feel better", "output": "Reflection of feelings" }, { "input": "Hello. How are you doing these days?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "I am sorry to hear that. I am doing fine and hope I can cheer you up.", "output": "Self-disclosure" }, { "input": "I totally understand it. I felt lonely too by staying home all the time. But I found we can borrow books online. A good book can really help.", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "Both will help. But ebooks are easier to get and you don't need to contact anyone and anything outside your home.\n", "output": "Information" }, { "input": "I like biographies. Stories of real people are inspiring. ", "output": "Information" }, { "input": "That is a great idea! Dog is human's best friend. I would love to have a dog myself.", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "I don't have a dog, because I like to travel. However I have taken care of other people's dogs a lot when I am home.", "output": "Self-disclosure" }, { "input": "We are in similar situation. These days I only go out for grocery shopping.", "output": "Self-disclosure" }, { "input": "Yeah, economy cannot do well if this situation drags on. Hope the vaccine will soon be approved and life can be back to normal.", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "Based on the news and information I read, I think things should get better by the next spring.", "output": "Information" }, { "input": "Hello! How are you doing today??\n", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "I understand that you are going through a stressful time with finishing up finals. Are you doing anything to destress \n", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "That is awesome! Sometimes it is really hard to take time for yourself. \n", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "It is tough to take time, I am glad that you are making time for it. This time in quarantine has been helpful for everyone to slow down a little. Making it easier for us to give ourselves more self care.", "output": "Reflection of feelings" }, { "input": "I know, in the end we can only control what we do. It has been hard to be away from everyone. Have you been able to use any video chatting to help bridge the gap?", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "At this point in the quarantine it has been hard to keep going with these strange practices. I have found some comfort in returning to the normalcy of a regular phone call. Are you self isolating alone, or are you fortunate to be with others. ", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "I have heard that is the norm among colleges. That has to be really tough. So much of college is in the experience of being with other young people. You are fortunate because you are learning skills like how to be really flexible when it comes to tough times.", "output": "Information" }, { "input": "Is there anything else that is going on aside from the isolation that is stressing you out?\n", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "I totally understand. It has been really tough. What are the things that you miss the most in this time?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "Hi, so from what I understand you are feeling sadness at this moment due to your partner leaving you for someone else. ", "output": "Restatement or Paraphrasing" }, { "input": "Just from the few messages you sent, I can tell this is really hurting you a lot.", "output": "Reflection of feelings" }, { "input": "I had a similar situation where my fiancé left me after cheating on me and getting pregnant by another man, so I understand completely what you are feeling. ", "output": "Self-disclosure" }, { "input": "This is a really hard situation to get through, but I know that you can do this! ", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "Whenever I am feeling upset about the situation I look at all the good things I have going for me, like my job, and my family, and my health. ", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "From what we have talked about so far, I can see how losing your job would also make you much more anxious. ", "output": "Reflection of feelings" }, { "input": "I would definitely focus on making sure to spend time with your kids though! They are extremely important and they need you to be as much yourself as you can!", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "Yes, your kids definitely need you and they will help. I would make sure to play with them and get together and maybe watch some holiday movies or videos since it is so close to Christmas.", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "What are some of your favorite things to do during Christmas time?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "I would spend time making ornaments with your kids to help get through this time!\n", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "You are very welcome! I am glad you chatted with me today.", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "I'm so happy I was able to help. ", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "Hi from Michigan! How are you doing today? ", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "Ugh! That's a never ending battle for me! Do you have a lot of it? ", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "That's the worst part. I've given up on folding. ", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "Do you have something that's bothering this evening? ", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "I can relate. This whole year has been a mess.", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "Do you think you're staying away from people because you're supposed to or you're afraid of getting sick?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "It's hard to be optimistic when everything seems so uncertain. I can't imagine how lonely that would feel especially in a new place. ", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "Are you still keeping in contact with your friends and family back home? ", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "It really isn't. That's such a hard situation to be in. I really can't think of much of a solution unfortunately. ", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "I guess in a way this whole thing has been an eyeopener for you. Are you considering moving back home when this is over? ", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "Very true about perseverance. I think everyone is feeling a bit depressed at this point. ", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "You seem to have a good mindset about everything. You should try doing the support side of this next time! lol ", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "No problem, you too! These are actually pretty decent hits. Slave wage though lol ", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "True! Keeps it interesting and some cash flow! Have a good night :) Hope ya get to explore the world soon. ", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "hi, how can i help?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "i know a lot of people are. how has the pandemic caused stress for you?", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "that is rough, and i completely understand. i'm in a similar position", "output": "Self-disclosure" }, { "input": "what makes you question your job stability?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "i see. so if your firm starts making staff cuts, you think you'll be one of the folks they let go?", "output": "Restatement or Paraphrasing" }, { "input": "can you share a bit about what type of work you do?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "I see. well the great thing about accountants is that every business needs them, regardless of the economy", "output": "Information" }, { "input": "There is a lockdown, but it isn't as strict as some other states.", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "it is pretty rough. unemployment has hit a huge spike and there are a lot of people who are moving away to find better opportunities", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "i've managed and coached a lot of people in my career, and i think what's important to keep in mind in how you adapt to the current situation", "output": "Self-disclosure" }, { "input": "Hello!", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "of course! Can you tell me what is going on? IS there areason you are feeling stressed?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "That is a lot to have on your plate. ", "output": "Reflection of feelings" }, { "input": "I totally understand how you feel. This pandemic has ruined a lot of things this year. ", "output": "Reflection of feelings" }, { "input": "Is it possible for your partner to help with some of the load?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "I feel you. My kids have been at home during this pandemic because the schools are shut down and I cannot imagine what the parents working full time and dealing with this are going through. ", "output": "Self-disclosure" }, { "input": "Have you tried simplifying your routines? Cutting yourself some slack hereand there?", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "Yes it it can be so hard. But you are getting through it! ", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "I totally understand. These days we have this expectation to be perfect, but it is so important to show yourself some grace. ", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "Some things I do with my family after a stressful day is order a pizza and have a movie night, this seems to help everyone relax a bit. Things I do personally for myself is take a warm bath with some hot tea. I also go for a short walk when it is warm enough outside. ", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "As a mom, I struggle with that too, trying to get everything done, while being present. But i do find that with kids, the more simple the better. They just want us and out time. things do not have to be complex, even small things reading a bedtime story, or actually sitting down together for dinner helps. ", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "Thank you for talking with me! I hope things get easier! Have a greatnight !", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "Wow. So you're being laid off soon?", "output": "Restatement or Paraphrasing" }, { "input": "I've been laid off many times. Never gets easier.", "output": "Self-disclosure" }, { "input": "Will they give you severance? Do you qualify for unemployment? Any offer for retraining or job assistance?", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "Your not getting the unemployment office to respond seems to be a common problem. They weren't geared up for this. Fortunately, the online portal has been helpful for many.", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "What are your skills and strong points?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "You want to know where to start. Sounds like you are young.", "output": "Restatement or Paraphrasing" }, { "input": "Teachers are wonderful! Experienced teachers are even better. Age 40 is still young enough to be competitive in today's market. You will get lots of job interviews and offers before you know it.", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "How are your online/virtual skills?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "Use your time off to get confidence in online forums like Zoom and MS Teams.", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "There's many online job hunting sites that are free. Indeed, Zip Recruiter, Craig's List, Monster, newspaper classifieds.", "output": "Information" }, { "input": "I feel your pain. Being laid off is a stab to the heart. Very disconcerting. Sounds as if you have been thrown out of your comfort zone.", "output": "Reflection of feelings" }, { "input": "I'm sixty and one thing I've noticed during past lay-offs is that people end up in a better position.", "output": "Self-disclosure" }, { "input": "I admire your dedication to the children. They will always have a place in their heart for you. Fortunately, children are resilient so the trauma could be short-lived for them.\n", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "Hi, how are you today?\n", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "I am good, how can I help you?\n", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "It appears that you are stressed about the pandemic and it is making you feel depressed, is that correct?", "output": "Restatement or Paraphrasing" }, { "input": "That's a really hard thing to worry about, but I know you can make it through this!", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "From what I have seen, the vaccine will be coming soon to the United States and after we get that we will be in much better shape.", "output": "Information" }, { "input": "I completely understand where you are coming from. I also work in a grocery store and with being around a lot of people all day I also worry at times about COVID-19.", "output": "Self-disclosure" }, { "input": "Yes, in my store all employees and customers must wear masks and our store provides masks to those who don't have them. ", "output": "Self-disclosure" }, { "input": "Yes, is yours?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "I understand that, I would suggest anytime you get too overwhelmed to try and take your mind off of things by watching a video or doing something you enjoy doing in your spare time. ", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "I like comedy movies.", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "How are you feeling?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "I understand. I have been feeling the same way lately -- my family has been distracted and stressed and it's rubbing off on me. Are there other people around that you can spend time with?", "output": "Self-disclosure" }, { "input": "I understand. It seems to me that much of what makes the holidays worthwhile is the opportunity to spend time with people we care about. It makes sense that you would have a hard time celebrating with nobody there to share it with you.", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "Are you close with your family these days?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "(Even if you don't talk to them much, do you think it would be worth reaching out to them?)", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "I see.", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "Do you remember enjoying the holidays more when your kids were younger?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "I see. Do you know what has changed? You said that the teenagers are more interested in getting presents than actually celebrating the holiday itself. Is that a major reason? What about your husband?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "I see. You are frustrated with them because of the way they have been behaving. What do you think they should be doing differently?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "(Also, are you in a state where they have closed down the schools?)", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "Oh, that's okay. :)", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "Something I tend to struggle with is the way things change over time, when they can never go back to the way they were before. When my sisters and I were little, it seemed like everything in the world was so much simpler, and we had certain Christmas traditions that we always looked forward to, like cutting down a tree, making pumpkin pie, and singing carols and Christmas hymns together. As we've gotten older it seems like our family has gotten split apart a bit more and everyone is too stressed and hurried to enjoy the old things that we used to do. That has been pretty hard for me because things used to be so much different. Has that been difficult for you, as well? Just the fact that things are different now than when your kids were little.", "output": "Self-disclosure" }, { "input": "I don't have kids, no. I am still a kid, sort of. :)", "output": "Self-disclosure" }, { "input": "Also I've got a bad cold right now, which is why it's taking me a bit longer to respond as well.", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "Thank you for talking! Oh, one thing--", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "Can I write you a Christmas card? If you would rather not give me your name/address, I understand.", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "Okay. Who should I address it to?", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "Oh, right. Okay. Good night and Merry Christmas!", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "Hello how are you?\n", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "I am so sorry that you are feeling stressed, what's going on?\n", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "I completely understand I've been there myself, finding motivation can be so hard, but I know you can do it! ", "output": "Self-disclosure" }, { "input": "what have you done so far? Do you have some of the assignment done?\n", "output": "Information" }, { "input": "I always thought of my GPA and how a single grade could affect all of my hard work. Perhaps thinking of what this grade can affect will motivate you to really avoid any stressful situations it may bring.", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "I have been there, I major in Biotechnology engineering. Image what life will be like once you are finished with this nightmare assignment. Give it your all. Find that fire inside of you and push through. You are almost there, remember everything you have overcome, dont let this little hurdle set you back. I have faith in you!", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "Right now, dive into the subject, find outside resources. Hustle time. the great always struggle towards the end, you are one of those great! remind yourself of what you can do and have overcome.", "output": "Reflection of feelings" }, { "input": "oh no! my best friend has a business major and economics class almost killed her. she took it FOUR times before she passed it. She never gave up! this is your dream, chase it, own it, and conquer it.", "output": "Self-disclosure" }, { "input": "I am the champion of getting frustrated. I take a breather and come back. Always come back. take a nap or do something you enjoy doing. ", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "My poor friend, economics in itself is a beast that only unique minds understand. But, I do believe that with effort and dedication. She will be so mad for telling someone else how many times she fail the class. You can do it! you are at the end!\n", "output": "Reflection of feelings" }, { "input": "get to work and make it happen!\n", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "Hello, how are you doing today?\n", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "Oh no, what happened to make you feel this way?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "I'm sure that's terribly frustrating having someone treat you like that. Is this something that your boss is aware of?\n", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "Can you discuss it with her in a respectful way to get her to understand that you're not trying to undermine her but that this is how you work most efficiently? And maybe mention that you don't want to involve the boss?", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "I think sometimes it's easy to jump to anger when you feel hurt. It might be worth telling her how you feel and also maybe ask why she thinks you should be doing things her way. Maybe there's a give and take in this situation. Some of her methods could be beneficial.\n", "output": "Self-disclosure" }, { "input": "Tell her the things that you like about her method and maybe suggest some of your methods to her as well. Maybe she'll find them to be more efficient. Make it a partnership rather than a fight for whose method is better.\n", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "She could feel threatened by you so it's worth digging into those feelings with her and proving to her that you're working toward the same goal.", "output": "Reflection of feelings" }, { "input": "I'd suggest how much she's helped you since you are in fact the new kid on the block. And tell her that you want to work with her to have the most efficient partnership possible and use each of your talents to the best of your ability. Then you can lay out how you work best and see where it goes from there.\n", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "I'm so glad, these can be frustrating situations but sometimes it's worth looking at the other person's perspective.", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "Absolutely, I have no emotional stake in this. The two of you do and that can cloud things sometimes.\n", "output": "Information" }, { "input": "That's great to hear, I'm glad we were able to chat!\n", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "That's great, good luck!\n\n", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "Hi! How are you today?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "I'm doing well. How can I help you today?\n", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "I'm so sorry. I went through a bad break up last year. Can you tell me what happened?", "output": "Self-disclosure" }, { "input": "Are you there?\n", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "I'm sorry, I'm sure that has made you feel rejected.", "output": "Reflection of feelings" }, { "input": "I'm sure it is hard to express how you feel with it being a short relationship, people may not understand. But sometimes we can feel such a strong connection and have faith in people very fast. ", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "I understand feeling connected to someone you've only known for a short amount of time. I'm sure you feel like you wont be able to let your guard down again anytime soon.", "output": "Reflection of feelings" }, { "input": "Maybe this could be a learning experience? I always try to see the best in people, but have learned to let people earn my trust. Not just get it for free. ", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "Is there anything positive in your life that you can try to focus your attention on?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "Do you enjoy your job? What are some of your achievements? ", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "Ok, can you tell me how long ago this happened.", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "So your girlfriend broke up with you a week ago and you have no idea how to move forward. Is that correct\n", "output": "Restatement or Paraphrasing" }, { "input": "You know I am sure that hurts but like they say that \"time heals all wounds\"\n", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "That is a long time. Event though she was your rock, just know that you will eventually find someone new and this hurt will be no more.\n", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "I can feel your pain, i have had similar experience and it took quite a while to move on, but know that this too will pass\n", "output": "Reflection of feelings" }, { "input": "There was a time when I had a breakup that left me feeling like it was the end of the world, but i am fine now and so would you. Take some long walks but he sure to socially distance and try meeting new friends online and just talk. That will help\n", "output": "Self-disclosure" }, { "input": "think about it, the added exercise will help you from getting lonely with her not being around\n", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "If you focus too much on the break up, you will have a hard time getting over her so try to do some fun activities that you can enjoy alone so that you are safe. You can search youtube on how to do laundry and other chores, you will be ok \n", "output": "Information" }, { "input": "Don't be nervous, Just take some time to learn the house chores and you'll be fine \n", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "You will find that someone. Hope I was able to make you feel a bit better. ", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "Think of the glass half full. You will do well.", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "Hello, how are you doing?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "Is there anything you want to talk about?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "Yeah, I've definitely felt that way...especially during COVID and having to adjust to working from home. What are some of the things in your routine during the day?", "output": "Reflection of feelings" }, { "input": "Yep, for me it's kind of felt like working remotely and all the crazy 2020 stuff was kind of an excuse to just \"take a break\" from grinding. MTurk has kind of helped me get back in a working mindset and given me more energy...have you been doing a lot of MTurk lately?", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "Yeah it helps, just forcing yourself to have goals, for sure. I've been determined to hit a number on MTurk and exercise every time I'm feeling tired, instead of taking a nap because my boss can't see me, lol. I would definitely say just start setting goals and try to look forward to 2021 being better.", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "Force yourself at first, then the \"body in motion, stays in motion\" law will take over. :)", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "All I know, is that nothing is worse than ending a day without a sense of accomplishment and then stringing those kinds of days together. ", "output": "Reflection of feelings" }, { "input": "One of the things I've noticed about 2020 and I think this contributes is that this year has taken away almost all incentives...you know before it would be like, \"I'm looking forward to this concert, or this movie coming out next weekend.\" So, when you aren't planning things and don't have these milestones throughout the year of events breaking up the monotony, it stinks.", "output": "Reflection of feelings" }, { "input": "I'm sure it will be. Definitely try tomorrow morning to get up and exercise and maybe hit the MTurk hard, also hobbies definitely help and being at home is a great time to learn new skills.", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "Oh yeah, nothing is worse than losing joy in something you love doing. But, getting back in an active mindset helps. I used to love to have bonfires, it really was therapeutic for me but then I just lost the will to have them. Since I've been back on MTurk and trying to be more active these last couple weeks, I had one on Saturday and really enjoyed it. So much of the passion lost for hobbies isn't because we grow out of them, it's quite frankly because we are probably just depressed.", "output": "Reflection of feelings" }, { "input": "Yep for sure, just get back at it and learn to love it again. Anyways, good talking to you!", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "I can understand why you would feel this way. Maybe you should try to take a step back and reassess the situation.\n", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "It may be a good time to go over your resume, making sure to fine tune all of your achievements and qualifications. This may help ease some of your worries and fears.", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": " It seems that you are mixed up in the decision to put in extra funds in a professional resume polish or use your time and energy instead of actual financial means. Is that right?\n", "output": "Restatement or Paraphrasing" }, { "input": "Perhaps you should speak to a trusted mentor or a closed loved one and seek their opinion. Often, we need someone outside of the actual situation that can give us great advice. \n", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "I understand we can all feel anxious during an interview, but remember what great qualities you can bring to the table and believe in yourself!\n", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "Also, there are many online resources that are great at finding available jobs and require your time and effort, but not any money invested. This might be a good tool as well!", "output": "Information" }, { "input": "I hope so. I've also been in a similar situation so I can completely understand your feelings.", "output": "Self-disclosure" }, { "input": "Keep in mind there are also resume sites that are free to use, as I know you are concerned about the financial part in that area. ", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "Can I help with anything else?", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "Your feelings are completely valid and I wish you the best. You got this!", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "Hello, how are you doing today?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "Im sorry to hear that, has there been anything going to cause the increase?", "output": "Restatement or Paraphrasing" }, { "input": "That is really rough, though it is good you recognize it. A lot of people do not. ", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "Have you tried to talk to a professional. It is very prevalent that mothers experiencing this do.", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "As long as you recognize that it is a much more common thing that people go through, that is a great start. I experienced it with my second child as well.", "output": "Self-disclosure" }, { "input": "There is no harm getting a second opinion. I never did take medication, i found a good therapist to talk too.", "output": "Self-disclosure" }, { "input": "Yeah that you cant, and i cant stress how good it is that you realize it. I would definitely go for a second opinion. Or even search for therapists that specialize in it in your area. Never have been a fan of using medicine as the first go unless really needed.", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "And whats the worst a little talking can do for you. Has talking to other moms been helpful at all?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "At least he is trying, as i said before, even with it being so common, it is a mystery to most.", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "Yeah its a rough cycle, you get down on yourself for feeling down.", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "Well, i am glad you want to do something about it. I hope you do follow up with a second opinion, or maybe even support groups in your area.", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "Great, thats wonderful news. I think you are on the right track to being yourself again.", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "Hello, how are you doing today?\n", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "Just ok? Is there something bothering you?", "output": "Restatement or Paraphrasing" }, { "input": "That must be a lot to manage, I'm sure you're doing a great job.\n", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "As a mom as well, I know there are many demands and things to juggle. Is there something specific you're struggling with?", "output": "Self-disclosure" }, { "input": "I completely understand, the pandemic and having added responsibility definitely has been very isolating and can feel like you're losing your sense of self.\n", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "It's completely normal to have that sense of guilt for feeling that way as well. This whole situation is not ideal for anyone, which somehow makes it worse. It's hard to talk to someone about these feelings when you know everyone else is in the same or worse situation.\n", "output": "Reflection of feelings" }, { "input": "It's taken a while to figure it out and get on the same page with my husband, but I try and practice self-care when possible. It can be something as simple as going for a walk alone or sitting and reading alone. There's no shame in needing some time alone to reset.\n", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "I'm glad to hear it, good luck to you as well. I hope you're able to practice self care and reset. Stay safe!", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "Too kind, thank you.\n", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "You as well, I'm so glad you're feeling better.", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "Hello! How are you doing today?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "I am working today.", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "Different jobs have different policies so you could check into that. I do know people who have had to do that.", "output": "Reflection of feelings" }, { "input": "I would caqll and talk to my boss about how I was feeling and see if there is a solution.", "output": "Information" }, { "input": "You have a direct supervisor or a human resource person that you could talk to at the company. They should be able to answer those questions for you.", "output": "Information" }, { "input": "howdy!\n", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "I am still here. I'm supposed to be supporter.\n", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "like, hello?", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "I was like that as a teen. I read a lot and kept to myself", "output": "Reflection of feelings" }, { "input": "Maybe you could try getting another set of friends that don't insult you.", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "I sometimes saw my \"friends\" as being a problem.", "output": "Self-disclosure" }, { "input": " Mine were too. Just because you grew up on the same block doesn't mean you have to keep hanging with them.", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "why? you think you are non-social?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "sounds like a good impulse\n", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "staying out of trouble is a good habit, I mean.", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "sure. Do your \"friends\" get into trouble?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "again, it sounds like you're impulse to stay from them is correct.", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "your", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "no. there's nothing wrong with you\n", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "great! and you just finished a HIT, too!", "output": "Information" }, { "input": "Hi! How are you today?\n", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "Finals can be so stressful. Have you been studying?", "output": "Information" }, { "input": "I can imagine. When i was in school , i had the same thing happen to me. I was so sterssed, it led to me nto being able to focus. ", "output": "Self-disclosure" }, { "input": "What really helped me was practicing mindfulness. ", "output": "Self-disclosure" }, { "input": "Are there any exercies that you like doing?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "Have you made time to do that latey?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "Definitely, exercise is a really good way to de-stress. It releases endorphins which can calm you and make you happy. This is a great way to reset before studying. ", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "HAve you tried setting small study goals? That always helps me. I set a hour for one small topic at a time , it makes studying less overwhelming. ", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "Not necessarily studying less but break the 6 finals into smaller tasks. Use index cards to organize yourself. I alwyas start with an outline of topics i need to cover then put them onto index cards. ", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "That's up to you. WIll your employer be accommodating about taking a day or two off? You want to make sure to not lose your job. ", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "Definitely, worth a try. ", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "Happy to help!! have a great day. ", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "Hello, how are you feeling today?\n", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "I am sorry you are having a rough day.", "output": "Restatement or Paraphrasing" }, { "input": "Can you share more about it?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "It sounds like the chaos and disorganization is really bother you. Is that right?", "output": "Restatement or Paraphrasing" }, { "input": "I can certainly understand. When my children were young and I worked full-time outside of the home, I found it very difficult to keep things in my life organized.\n", "output": "Self-disclosure" }, { "input": "I can understand why that may frustrate you.", "output": "Information" }, { "input": "Does your partner have any control over their schedule and the changes?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "This can be very stressful and lead to a lot of problems in a relationship if not dealt with early.", "output": "Information" }, { "input": "Have you tried hanging a large calendar and writing down his schedule as well as any plans you made? Then each morning, do a quick 1-minute check on the calendar to ensure you are BOTH on the same page.", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "Can you tell me about the reason?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "Is he aware of your concerns?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "I feel like I had very similar issues in my first marriage.", "output": "Self-disclosure" }, { "input": "Communication can be very key here.", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "It sounds like he is dedicated to his job, which can be a good thing, but I do understand that you want to be put first sometimes as well.", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "I can understand why that would make you feel that way. We enjoy spending time with the people that we love.", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "Why don't you choose even one night each week, and see if he will commit to being home that one night - then plan something special TOGETHER. It could be a game night, cooking dinner together, or just sitting talking.", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "Also, when he is home, you could both try REALLY connecting during that time. Then maybe when he is at work, you won't feel so alone having made that connection that morning or the night before.", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "That is good.", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "Does he understand your feelings or does he tend to dismiss them?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "So it sounds like time together is important to him as well, and the fact that you are both on the same page about that is wonderful.", "output": "Restatement or Paraphrasing" }, { "input": "Instead of you making the plans, why don't you try giving him suggestions and have him make the plans next time? Perhaps by him making them, he will be more focused on ensuring that he can be there.", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "And then he will also see how much effort you put in!", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "Please let me know how it work out! I wish you the best of luck! Have a wonderful evening!", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "You are very welcome!", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "Taking finals certainly is tough, there's so much to think about. What's bothering you the most?\n", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "Have you spoken to anyone at the college about this?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "It must make you feel quite trapped knowing that the college aren't cutting you a bit of slack considering you are still recovering from a serious illness. It sounds like you are trying your best and not giving up already.\n", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "It's good to hear that you're not giving up. Sometimes in these situations, you just have to do your best and then at least you know you did what you could. I like to tell myself in these situations that if there are no other avenues to explore, you just have to 'go with the flow' and don't beat yourself up thinking about it over and over - if there's nothing you can do, just do your best to ride it out", "output": "Self-disclosure" }, { "input": "If you tried hard previously then you may come out the other end having done very well! When I was at school a long time ago, I had to stay off school for a month, when they were practising the exams. I didn't get chance to do those and I thought 'wow I'm totally screwed here', but guess what? I did okay!", "output": "Self-disclosure" }, { "input": "Yes, I'm here\n", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "It's totally understandable. I think even without the COVID situation, you would still be anxious. It's totally natural. Not that that discounts how you feel. Do you agree?", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "Well, I've tried meditating a few times before which doesn;t take it all away, it just takes the edge off! I used a guided meditation app. I also listened to white noise when I went to sleep as I was having trouble sleeping. I find even if you're mind is just taken away from it all for a few minute, it can re-balance you a little\n", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "Maybe you should do more of that, it sounds like a good idea? Don't feel guilty for doing so either as it acts as a 'medicine'. If the 'medicine' works then take it", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "Sounds like a plan! It's certainly worth giving it a go. We need a break from it all sometimes or we'd all go mad.", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "Hello, I'm sorry I didn't reply faster.", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "How can I help?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "How can I help?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "I understand. What are you struggling with concerning time management? ", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "I have also struggled with time management. I have found that reminders on my phone, and a planner have been most beneficial to me personally. I understand every situation is different. Do you have a deadline you're trying to meet?", "output": "Self-disclosure" }, { "input": "I can see how this would be very overwhelming. I have a child learning virtually as well. Similarly, I am a student. I am not working on my masters degree... I can't even imagine. ", "output": "Reflection of feelings" }, { "input": "Is your child old enough to do some of it on their own? I have \"independent\" or \"together\" next to each task. I purchased a large magnetic chalk board for our fridge. If your child is to young to do this I could see how this would be much more challenging for you.", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "I completely understand how you feel. Virtual learning has affected our daily goals, though we are doing prerecorded lessons. That does make it easier I am sure. I have a 10 and 2 year old at home with me. One thing that has helped me is support groups. There are so many moms going through the same thing we are at this time.", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "You are not alone in this. You could take the 3 year old to another room if possible and work on phonics/numbers, then help the older children during naptime. Then maybe they could help entertain the 3 year old while you work on your own schoolwork? This is similar to my daily schedule... but as you know with kids you have to go with the flow most of the time.", "output": "Information" }, { "input": "It helps so much to talk to other moms who understand. Being a mom is hard enough without all the added extra stress of 2020. It sounds like you're doing the best you can, and your kids will remember that in the long run. You can do this!", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "Hello, how are you doing today?\n", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "I can understand anxiety in these times, is there something specific that's bothering you?\n", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "College finals are a stressful time for sure, I'm sure you're doing your best to prepare.\n", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "Sometimes it's best to take a short break to reset when you feel like your gears are grinding.\n", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "I often feel the same way when I'm not busy doing work. But sometimes you need that little break to get back into the zone and be more productive.\n", "output": "Self-disclosure" }, { "input": "You sounds pretty stressed about it, make sure you're getting enough sleep so you don't get run down.\n", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "Is there someone you could study with to help break up how you're studying?\n", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "Try not to think of yourself that way. I'm sure you both provide a benefit to each other while studying.\n", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "I also felt that way around finals and with friends, I think it's important to recognize this is one semester and that it's equally as important to take care of yourself as it is to pass those finals.\n", "output": "Self-disclosure" }, { "input": "I also felt that way around finals and with friends, I think it's important to recognize this is one semester and that it's equally as important to take care of yourself as it is to pass those finals.\n", "output": "Self-disclosure" }, { "input": "It will get better, this is just now and there's a lot to look forward once you're through this. Make sure you're taking care of yourself first and foremost. That will ultimately provide you success.\n", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "From what I've seen, you're not alone in that feeling. It's a natural fear for just about anyone approaching something new. But there really aren't any rules, your life and your decisions decide your success.\n", "output": "Information" }, { "input": "I'm glad you're feeling relieved. Your feelings are relevant and completely natural. Just make sure to take care of yourself first and foremost, that's the most important thing.", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "hello how are you today?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "I'm doing well. Ok I can help. Whats going on?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "It sounds like you are unsure of how to deal with favoritism in the workplace. I have dealt with similar situations.", "output": "Reflection of feelings" }, { "input": "When did this start?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "Can you tell me some examples about the injustice?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "Is the logging out early a reward for their work? I had a job that offered similar rewards based on performance.", "output": "Self-disclosure" }, { "input": "That is very inappropriate. This must be very hard for you.", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "If your manager has a supervisor that you feel would not approve of this behavior, I would speak to them. If you don't feel that would be beneficial to you, you could reach out to your company HR department.", "output": "Information" }, { "input": "I would not be able to let this go either. I'm so sorry you're in such an unfair and unethical work environment. Do you know the supervisor well or interact with them? It could backfire if they both interact with this behavior. I believe you will make the right decision. If it does backfire, this is a toxic work environment and not a good fit for you.", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "You are very welcome. It does feel good to communicate with people who can understand how you feel. I wish you the very best of luck. ", "output": "Restatement or Paraphrasing" }, { "input": "You're welcome. You be safe as well.", "output": "Reflection of feelings" }, { "input": "That must be so stressful!! Have you started studying?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "I remember when i was in school, finals were always so stressful. I used to make sure that i took breaks, it really helped me keep my head on straight. ", "output": "Self-disclosure" }, { "input": "You can even find time to relax without taking a lot of time off, do you have any exercise you like doing?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "Oh wow, i'm so sorry to hear that! How are you feeling now?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "Have you tried meditating or mindfulness? When i broke my leg and couldn't exercise, it really helped me relax. ", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "I'm sure! I'm very impressed that you are still wroking and in school despite being sick. You should feel proud of yourself ", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "Praying is helpful! Mindfulness goes very hand in hand with it, if you look online, there are tons of free midnfulness classes and guides. I think it could really help you especially before a test. ", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "That's really hard but i'm happy that you can stay home at least. HAve you been able to sleep and rest?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "That's great! Family is the best medicine for being sick and stressed. ", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "Do you get to talk to your parents often? ", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "That's lucky! You;ll be great. Just be positive and study as best as you can. Since you've already been studying, you'll do great!", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "Oh wow, i am so sorry to hear that. You must be feeling so anxious and nervous. ", "output": "Restatement or Paraphrasing" }, { "input": "I know, it seems like everyone is in the same boat. You should know that you're not alone in this, i am so sorry. ", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "Have you tried reaching out to a career counselor or recruiter? ", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "That is awful, I know that my good friend was laid off recently. He has been using the time to worko n his resume but to also catch up on some family time. Have you been able to see any family?", "output": "Self-disclosure" }, { "input": "Oh i'm so sorry. I didn't know you were sick. How are you feeling now/?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "That's so not right. I am happy that you are doing better now. It sounds like the job may not have been the right plce anyways if they are willing to let you go because of that. ", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "You and your husband should try to do something to take your mind off it. You can try to do a date night or something. i Know that really helps me!", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "I know the feeling. MY husband is also in year end stuff piling up so it always feels like we don't get to spend time together. Try to carve a hour out on the weekend. ", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "Definitely! it's always helpful to have another set of eyes on it. ", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "I have faith that things will get better for you and try to focus on the positive. Like the fact that you have a husband who wants ot be there for you ", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "Have you tried checking online? sometimes if you google it, you can find message boards with more information on when itw ill be open ", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "Hello. Hope you are doing fine.", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "How was your day", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "Can i help you with anything?\n", "output": "Restatement or Paraphrasing" }, { "input": "I've been feeling blessed today", "output": "Self-disclosure" }, { "input": "Are you doing good today?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "Ohhh. Any specific reason or incident?\n", "output": "Information" }, { "input": "I am really sorry to hear that.", "output": "Reflection of feelings" }, { "input": "Having many boyfriend is not a big deal", "output": "Information" }, { "input": "I believe that you are good\n ", "output": "Reflection of feelings" }, { "input": "Things tends to happens for the goodness", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "Thanks for the compliments. People have worst time to bring up the bright times. I totally believe in it ", "output": "Self-disclosure" }, { "input": "Ohhh really. But women have a equal rights as men.", "output": "Information" }, { "input": "Women's are succeeding in all the fields now a days. ", "output": "Information" }, { "input": "I am glad that, I could able to help u.", "output": "Reflection of feelings" }, { "input": "What kind of difficulties are u facing?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "fight happens for?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "If you could tell me little bit specifically, I would be able to help u out.", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "Ahhh. Are they distrubing u?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "Hello! How are you today?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "I'm so sorry to hear that. \nWhy are you feeling low?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "Oh, wow that must be so hard. Breaksups are are always really difficult to process. ", "output": "Reflection of feelings" }, { "input": "Have you tried talking about the breakup? Sometimes letting it out really helps. ", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "THat is so hard. you can talk to me if you want, what was the cause of the breakup?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "Oof that is a tough one. Did you agree?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "That seems very unfair. You can try talking to him about your feelings ina. calm way. \n", "output": "Reflection of feelings" }, { "input": "sory abut that ", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "I think you should talk to him logically. Think through all the reasons why you shold be together and how this can be resolved. Like, you won't use his card anymore and you can work on a budget together. ", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "Great, i think it will work out for you!! i have faith. I recently went through something similar nad it helped me. ", "output": "Self-disclosure" }, { "input": "Anytime. I hope you guys can work it out. \n", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "Havea. good day!\n", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "Hello, How are you doing today?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "Im sorry to hear that, would you like to go into whats causing you to feel this way?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "Was this unexpected? As in, was there unwarranted withdrawals to your bank account?", "output": "Restatement or Paraphrasing" }, { "input": "Have you contacted your bank yet to see whats going on?", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "I would get on top of that as soon as possible. They are usually very accommodating with things like that. Ive had false charges that returned quickly. Hopefully that can get you to dallas soon", "output": "Information" }, { "input": "Whats going on with your boyfriend though?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "Im sorry i was confused before, so you are feeling as if you are abandoning him?", "output": "Reflection of feelings" }, { "input": "He will leave you if you do not come and help? That does not seem very healthy. Cant he see you are doing everything you can to try to get to him now?", "output": "Reflection of feelings" }, { "input": "Oh i hear you, i am sorry that you have been affected like that. Have you conveyed those feelings to him?", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "Or have you spoken to a professional? I have had a very abusive relationship in the past. I couldnt get close to others until i spoke to my therapist. It was a long journey but i feel i am myself now though.", "output": "Self-disclosure" }, { "input": "Thats great, that one small step can really make a big difference. Everyones path is different but i hope it really helps you.", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "I thank you for that, but we are here for you now, heh. They can be, it really helps to lay all the pieces on the table and try to put everything back where it goes. Sometimes you just have to break it all down to build it back up.", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "Yea, you do come out stronger in the end though. Its a good fight to get into. You seem to be talking the steps you need to, which is very good, not many people can or are willing too.", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "Well, i think its most people are afraid of what they have become but are more afraid of the hard work needed to get through. Its not easy.", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "No its like living the nightmare all over again, except this time you know what happens. The one light at the end of the tunnel, at least for me, is knowing that alive right now to even think about it. It kinda helps in a weird way.", "output": "Self-disclosure" }, { "input": "Yup, gotta take the small wins, let them build up. I hope us talking has been a small win.", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "Hello, How are you doing today?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "Thats good to hear, whats on your mind?", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "Im sorry to hear that, would you like to go into why you are feeling that way?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "Thats unfortunate. Whats going on with your family?", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "Have you tried to have a real sit down with him and explain how he is making you feel?", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "Thats a tough cycle. I was in that with my mother. Unfortunately if they do not want to get the help, it wont really go anywhere no matter how hard you try. I would suggest that they try and talk to a professional though. Thats about all you can do. ", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "As for yourself, i would focus on you for now, i would try to do something you enjoy. Get your spirits back up.", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "Well reaching out and speaking about it, like you are doing right now, really does help. It can be really difficult to live with someone who has issues like that. ", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "Then i would suggest to talk to a professional as well. It really does help to lay it all out on the table and try to put the pieces back together. ", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "Not a problem at all. Have you tried maybe going for a walk alone, clearing your mind, seeing where you are at?", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "That is very good, i usually dont ask that at first as hiking can be a form of meditation. You seem like you know the tools you can use to help yourself. Now you have to use them, right?", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "Thats great, do you feel like you are more centered, and feeling better, after a class?", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "Great, how often do you go?", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "Hello, how are you today?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "I understand. I often feel the same when my day starts. ", "output": "Self-disclosure" }, { "input": "Do you know of some triggers that might cause this anxiety?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "That sounds like something that could cause anxiety. We all strive to be recognized for our hard work. Have you conversed with your boss?", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "It can totally be intimidating to speak to a boss about this topic. It's not always easy to be comfortable in this kinds of conversations.\n", "output": "Reflection of feelings" }, { "input": "Do you think your boss might have a negative reaction if you were to have this conversation?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "Sometimes it's important to remember that part of your bosses job is having this kinds of conversations, even though he might not like the idea. ", "output": "Restatement or Paraphrasing" }, { "input": "It might be a good idea to have this conversation with your boss. Hold them accountable for this part of their job.", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "Do you think this could be a good idea?\n", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "It sounds like this might be a little intimidating for you.\n", "output": "Reflection of feelings" }, { "input": "It might feel that way. But if this is something that might benefit your future, it doesn't mean it's a confrontation.\n", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "But rather, an affirmation of your skillsets.", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "I am happy to know you will try this. I know you can do it!", "output": "Restatement or Paraphrasing" }, { "input": "It's been my pleasure. I wish you good luck!", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "Of course! It's always good to make a list before the meeting. List out your skillsets and how each of those skills provide value to the company. If you can demonstrate to your boss how you provide value to the company, it can give you confidence when taking the next step; asking for a promotion", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "It's normal to feel that way. As humans we fear rejection. It's not a pleasant feeling!\n", "output": "Restatement or Paraphrasing" }, { "input": "Please tell me more about it, when did it start?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "That's very exhausting doing that much, I really feel bad for you, you're a strong person to be able to handle so much by yourself", "output": "Reflection of feelings" }, { "input": "Someone else would have collapsed already. Do you go outside a lot?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "Maybe that's why your depression got worse. We need the sun and fresh air to feel better", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "I understand it's hard for a person like you. However, as I said, from my own experience, staying indoor for a long period does more harm than good", "output": "Self-disclosure" }, { "input": "You don't have to go far, even just out in your backyard to have some sunlight as the first step is good enough", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "Just take one step at a time, I believe you can do it as long as you put your mind in", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "If you don't get close to anyone and wear a mask, you should be fine", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "it's pretty bad here too but as long as you avoid crowded place, you'll be fine", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "we have 3 vaccines candidates now so there's hope", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "I don't think that's the case,, these companies know how much they'll have to pay if they rush and push out a defective product", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "No problems, we all feel the same right now so I just try to cheer everyone up", "output": "Self-disclosure" }, { "input": "Hello! How can I help today?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "I understand. We are in a time of change and uncertainty. Why are you worried about your job security? Is something going on with your job that makes you feel this way? ", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "Understood. Your feelings are definitely valid. Do you have a plan in place for supplementing your work? ", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "Well I'm not sure what type of gig work you do, however, just the fact that you are a gig worker for a long time tells me a few things....1, you are a self starter 2. You have great pritoritizing and time management skills 3. You learn new things easily and with little instruction. All of these things are skill sets that many employers find extremely desirable. ", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "Perhaps try networking online to find opportunities related to your line of work, either in gig work or for a company. Perhaps even looking for an opportunity as a consultant. ", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "Perhaps thats where networking may help. If you are able to find employment that is similar to gigwork, you may be able to have a schedule to works for you. ", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "I am not too familiar with gig work, but perhaps you know of a site that is similar to Indeed.com but specifically for your line of work or for gigwork . ", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "What kind of work do you do? ", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "Maybe you can develop your own courses ? Or, you can also become an online trainer for a variety of organizations. Since many companies are transitioning to a work from home environment, this is a great time to offer your training services to various companies. ", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "You are very welcome!", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "Great! Feel free to come back if you need additional help! ", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "I wish you much success!", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "Hello", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "I'm doing fine, you can tell me your problems", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "Oooh that's a very complicated situation. They are both adults, I hope even with tension, they don't do anything inappropriate, do they?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "Ah, those people are the hardest to deal with. If it's too much, have you and your wife considered moving away?", "output": "Restatement or Paraphrasing" }, { "input": "I understand, you're in a very tough spot. Have your wife ever expressed her annoyance?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "That's not too bad then. Your wife seems to be mature and understanding. If you can't do anything to completely avoid your ex, maybe your best choice is to limit seeing her as much as possible", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "You and your wife can hang out a bit further from your home. It's inconvenient but at least your time won't be interrupted by your ex", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "I'm here", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "Of course if you think you're good with my advice", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "Sure, is there anything else I can help you with?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "Hello, how can i help you today?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "Tell me more. What has you feeling sad?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "I completely understand. I am also going through the same. I have not left my house in weeks. While I am able to work from home, my hours were also cut. ", "output": "Self-disclosure" }, { "input": "What would help you feel better about the situation? What are you doing to pass the time?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "I also live alone. So I can understand how you are feeling. You are not alone in this situation. Although you may feel that way. Have you tried connecting with friends via text, video call, etc? Sometimes that helps, even if it's not the same as face to face. ", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "Don't feel like you need to do a lot to be productive. Even getting up to watch tv is still getting up to do something. That's still a win. ", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "That's good. Keep that connection. It's not going to be the same due to the circumstances. But at least you are seeking to keep that connection, and that is a good thing. ", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "What I found helped somewhat was joining a few social groups online. find something you like and find a group related to that. For example, I love horror movies, so I joined a horror movie group on Facebook. While it's not face to face, it is a good opportunity to just connect with others about a common interest. ", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "I am hoping they get the vaccine going as well. But I am hoping they get it right, and not just rush to get something out there that may or may not work. ", "output": "Self-disclosure" }, { "input": "Im sure you can! Maybe write a blog about the repairs you can do to your home, since you are there anyway.\n", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "I use Facebook, Instagram, and sometimes TikTok\n", "output": "Self-disclosure" }, { "input": "You should do mini videos on easy things to DIY on TikTok.", "output": "Self-disclosure" }, { "input": "right! That is a great idea!", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "not really. what i do is record the video beforehand, and then upload it. ", "output": "Self-disclosure" }, { "input": "But you can also record it straight to the app. ", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "You can also do the same on SnapChat", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "Yes, if you are doing longer videos, I recommend YouTube. What you can do, is do a short clip on TikToc and then in that clip instruct viewers to follow your YouTube Channel", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "Yes Snap Chat dissappears after it's viewed ", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "Sure, my pleasure! ", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "Hello! How can I encourage you tonight?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "So you have a lot on your mind and you are losing sleep over it?", "output": "Restatement or Paraphrasing" }, { "input": "I'm sorry to hear that. It can be a bit stressful to think you may lose your job. ", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "I have found there are ways to calm myself down when things in my life seem very uncertain. ", "output": "Self-disclosure" }, { "input": "I make a list of the things I can do - And the things I can't. Then you can have goals. And if you can work on a goal, for example, if you need to write a resume, you start working on that a little bit every day until it's done. But if there is nothing you CAN do about the situation, you have to pray to God to help you then LET IT GO. If you can NOT fix it now, you will only make yourself sick thinking about it. ", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "It is much more difficult for me to remain focused and positive when I lose sleep. I have had to focus on self care, finding a friend to talk about my problems with, not someone who will TELL me what to do, but support me. So you need a good support system. And I find things like prayer, Bible reading, nice soft sheets to sleep on and some herbal tea like Sleepy Time help me relax before bedtime. ", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "And be kind to yourself, no one likes to lose a job, it's unsettling. Do try to tell yourself things that are true to encourage yourself, like you will find another job, it might be uncomfortable and hard, but it actually might work out for your good in the long term. I always found better jobs, but at the time I lost my job, I felt as if the world was ending.\n", "output": "Self-disclosure" }, { "input": "You aren't in an easy place, but this can actually work out for your good. I think if you focus on the GOOD that can happen, that might help your more. I would be concerned too, but if you even start looking for a job now, that might help you become more confident. I do encourage you to set goals. ", "output": "Reflection of feelings" }, { "input": "I have found that the hard times are often stepping stones to better things, however at the time, all it feels like is hard times! lol", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "I'm an older lady - I'm almost 60. So I've had a lot of jobs, retired now, but I remember when my husband kept getting threatened with job layoffs. It was really disheartening for him.", "output": "Self-disclosure" }, { "input": "If I had to do it over again, I would have encouraged him more to get that resume out and look for another job. The threat of losing his job was always hanging over his head. Yeah, it's not worth it my friend. Be pro active.", "output": "Self-disclosure" }, { "input": "I would also encourage you to get outside and run, or walk or play with the kids or do exercise everyday, because if you are tired physically, that helps reduce stress and helps you sleep.", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "Sometimes a pay cut in the right company is a stepping stone IN the door, My husband lost a lucrative job one time, he started at a company washing dishes in his 40s, I kid you not, but he wound up moving up and retired early. ", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "He wanted to provide for our family, so he was willing to humble himself, Looking back, I'm amazed. But he moved up. Once in that organization, he had lots of open doors, so you never know what God has in store for you. ", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "I can understand that. Perhaps get together with her and look for ways to cut out spending. These are tough times. Even one car, or chicken instead of steak or canceling netflix or something like that. A few steps back is NOT failure, it can be prioritizing things in a difficult time. ", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "I do want to assure you that even though I don't know you, you sound intelligent and caring and obviously wanting to provide for your family. That's honorable. These are difficult times, I do encourage you to write things down because sometimes stress clouds our eyes and if you set goals and brainstorm, you will be amazed at what you can come up with. ", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "I'm sorry to hear that. How are you feeling about that?\n", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "I hear you feel worried and sad. It must be hard", "output": "Reflection of feelings" }, { "input": "That sounds very stressful. What is something you can do to get through your work day?", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "I understand, I have faced similar circumstances. What can you do to prepare for a change one way or another?", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "Could you look at jobs you think you would like even more?", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "Perhaps it is a chance to gain new experiences or find an even better company!", "output": "Information" }, { "input": "Sometimes for me I have to change how I look at the situation. ", "output": "Self-disclosure" }, { "input": "When I think something is all bad, I have to look for the positive. I look at it as maybe you will find a great company that values it's employee's but you won't know unless you try.", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "That seems like a hard situation. It must be difficult. ", "output": "Reflection of feelings" }, { "input": "Hello. How are you today?\n", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "\nOkay. I am very sorry to hear that! Do you want to tell me more about that?\n", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "I really feel you there. Holidays are so hard.. especially with the way this year has been. Anything specific?\n\n", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "Do you feel scared for your own self? Or of the situation in general? I'm sorry to hear that. Relationships with parents can be very difficult sometimes. \n", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "I'm around college age as well and also live at home. So I can understand your struggle.\n", "output": "Self-disclosure" }, { "input": "It's like we live the same life. I also have no car to escape! It seems so small, but it's such a huge stressor when you feel trapped in an environment you're not positive in. I feel your pain and I empathize with you completely. \n", "output": "Self-disclosure" }, { "input": "It'll be hard but I hope you can make it through it throughout the holidays and enjoy yourself some. Are there any pros to going back home? Any pets?\n", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "It sounds like Covid- 19 is going to be a personal stressor for you. It's such a strange thing to have to live with already, the pandemic, and i'm sorry that it might end up pushing you where you don't want to be.\n", "output": "Restatement or Paraphrasing" }, { "input": "Could you bring your hamster home with you? Even the smallest things could help a place feel more loving\n", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "I don't think you're selfish at all. You have feelings you are entitled to have and are expressing them which is healthy and I encourage that behavior! ", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "Good! I know how hard this situation can be. Very nerve wracking. The smallest things, even a hamster, can be so beneficial. ", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "You sound like a very determined person in making this trip as stress free as possible. I commend you for that! Maybe you could have your niece over often to play with your hamster just to soften the stress of being there\n", "output": "Reflection of feelings" }, { "input": "Is Uber an option for you? I know there's a lot of rideshare services but they're not always financially reasonable. But that could be a way to get away if you ever need too! ", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "Sometimes I forget little things like that to help myself whenever I get too involved in the emotional aspect of things. I'm glad I could suggest it to you! \n", "output": "Self-disclosure" }, { "input": "Of course! I hope you do as well and happy holidays!\n", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "Hello. How are you tonight? ", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "That's good to hear. Can I encourage you in some way?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "So you are unhappy at your job and want to do something else? What exactly are your fears?\n", "output": "Restatement or Paraphrasing" }, { "input": "I have found writing out a pro and con list helps me -- On one side I look at the benefits, then I put the cons on the other side. They I weigh them, even if there are more cons, sometimes the PROS are much better.", "output": "Self-disclosure" }, { "input": "I can understand that looking for a job can be stressful and challenging at this time, but one thing is for certain, you will never know if you don't try.\n", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "I like the \"Do it afraid!\" method. I can still try even if I feel nervous. You really do not need confidence to put your resume out there, you just need to do it afraid. And when I \"do it afraid\" I realize it was easier than I thought. ", "output": "Self-disclosure" }, { "input": "I used to be paralyzed with self confidence, but the truth is, your confidence doesn't come from your job, your confidence comes from being a lovable person. The confidence that you are the person you want to be.", "output": "Reflection of feelings" }, { "input": "It sounds optimistic but it is the truth, when I step out to perform, I'm always nervous. BEING nervous looking for a job, that is NORMAL. To expect to feel like you are super confident is unrealistic. Most people are nervous, but they do it anyway.", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "I always felt awkward and nervous looking for a job, I think I went to one interview calm and cool, in 30 years! Hahaha. ", "output": "Reflection of feelings" }, { "input": "You have nothing to lose, really, you have weighed out that there is only good things that can come, but you think you must \"feel\" a certain way. You don not have to feel confident, you just have to do the work. For example, you don't FEEL like walking your dog, changing a diaper or helping someone, but you DO IT anyway. ", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "Inter personal skills can be learned. I was very shy as a child and I learned how to be more friendly. And I was VERY shy. ", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "I'm very outgoing now. I had to learn a lot of skills to be this way and I like myself more too. Hahah. I'm old though, 59. You have nothing to lose, consider it a learning opportunity.", "output": "Self-disclosure" }, { "input": "Life is a journey. We all make mistakes in the past. I think you are very intelligent actually because you thought of the pros and cons. You just needed a boost.", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "I'm a lady! I pray to God and read the Bible and get wisdom there. Plus I have been to the school of hard knocks! lol\n", "output": "Self-disclosure" }, { "input": "I'm a lady! I pray to God and read the Bible and get wisdom there. Plus I have been to the school of hard knocks! lol\n", "output": "Self-disclosure" }, { "input": "I look forward to your new job! And celebrate with you. Take deep breaths and forge ahead!!", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "You are welcome! Thank you for sharing your life with me! ", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "Hey there! How are you feeling?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "Correct me if i'm wrong, but it sounds like your husband may be controlling you a little and you're expressing reasonable emotions because of it. and Okay!\n", "output": "Restatement or Paraphrasing" }, { "input": "Why do you think he talks to you this way?\n", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "Okay that is perfectly okay. You are fine. If you need me to assist you in any way just send a question mark.\n", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "I've been in a similar situation. I was with someone who was controlling in a lot of aspects so i can feel your pain and struggle. I can feel your anger too, and I imagine that it is alot. It is not your fault, and you aren't allowing this to happen to you. It is out of your control. Don't ever blame yourself.\n", "output": "Self-disclosure" }, { "input": "How can I assist you? ", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "I was in it for two years before I broke away from it. It was so hard but liberating to leave! \n", "output": "Self-disclosure" }, { "input": "I could suggest you see a private doctor to talk about this with, if that is something you are able to do. Or see one with your husband. Maybe he needs a third party to help mediate the problems you guys are having.\n", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "That's very hard to deal with. And I am so sorry you are dealing with this. Do you feel safe?\n", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "I can tell this situation stresses you out and probably consumes a lot of your day to day energy. I sympathize with you and your children. What happens when you try talking with him about this?\n", "output": "Reflection of feelings" }, { "input": "I commend you for speaking up for yourself despite his responses. I hope you hold on to that strength for as long as you can. It will empower you\n", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "Okay I will be praying for you and I hope the best outcome for you possible. Please know there are domestic hotlines you can call if need be. I hope you enjoy your night.\n", "output": "Information" }, { "input": "Thank you!\n", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "Hello! How are you tonight? \n", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "You think your night is going to have emotional upset? Do you fear you will not be physically safe?\n", "output": "Restatement or Paraphrasing" }, { "input": "I'm sorry to hear that. I have struggled to deal with depression most of my life, so I know it can be debilitating, but I have found ways to help myself.\n", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "Is there a specific problem making you depressed, or life in general?\n", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "I have had trouble sleeping in the past and sometimes I still do, usually if it is when I'm nervous about the future.\n", "output": "Reflection of feelings" }, { "input": "The number one way I have had to help my depression is to pray and read scripture. I don't know if you are a Christian, but that has helped me a lot. The second way is to have a good friend who will listen, not someone who will TELL me what to do or judge me, but someone who can empathize with me. A good listener is worth her weight in gold.\n", "output": "Self-disclosure" }, { "input": "If I didn't get good rest, then I would definitely feel tired the next day and over time, it would wear me out. I believe medication will help with the symptoms, but it is important to get the root of the problem, why exactly you find it difficult to sleep.\n", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "Sometimes I take a benydryl because they always make me sleepy, but I usually know why I need to relax, I'm nervous about the next day. So I have found it important to know WHY I don't rest well, if that makes sense to you.\n", "output": "Self-disclosure" }, { "input": "I'm also thinking there are a few practical ways you can help yourself sleep. I was advised to get soft sheets, make my sleeping area more restful, make sure the time before bed is relaxing and calming. ", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "I also was helped a lot by a Christian Preacher, he's long dead, but he has audio on youtube -- Frank Hammond, Pigs in the Parlor. It's a 5 part series I found helpful, you might want to jot that down. And I do encourage you to find a counselor, once you rule out the physical (doctor) then you can look at emotional, mental and/or spiritual. I think most of everything is spiritual and emotional to some degree, and our body just responds to that. \n", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "I will definitely pray for you tonight because I know losing sleep is hard to deal with. But please have hope, sometimes we go through these things to possible get to deeper issues that might need to be dealt with. We only have a few minutes here, but I'm pretty old and I have found this to be true so many times. Get a good support system of good friends. Having people who \"get\" you is SO vital to our lives. And learning to be grateful helps too. And especially journal, find out what may be bothering you.\n", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "I had some abuse issues and that is why I had a hard time resting. I also would wake up in the middle of the night and obsess over problems with people. I had a lot to work through, but most nights, I sleep restful now. It may take time.\n", "output": "Self-disclosure" }, { "input": "I have hope for you! :D\n", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "Oh, sometimes I would drink Sleepy Time Tea, be kind to yourself. God bless, I'm glad I could encourage you. Sometimes it is really hard to push through difficult times! ", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "Thanks you too! We are all blessed when we help each other! Have a great night. ", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "Okay, how can I help you?\n", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "Is there anything particular that has got you feeling down lately?", "output": "Reflection of feelings" }, { "input": "Its always good to have someone to talk to, I am happy to help. I have felt stuck many times, so i can understand that.", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "Well I had to sit down and think about why I was stuck and tried to come up with as many options as I could to be unstuck, then i put them in order based on which I thought would work best. It took quite a few of them, but I did finally get unstuck.\n", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "Every one is different, but it is worth a shot, might help the rut your having, might also give you new ideas that will help you decide on how to not feel like your in a rut anymore. Sometimes just talking to someone can help too, bouncing ideas off of each other can help in some cases.", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "Its hard to talk about certain problems, so I can't blame you, however you can get some good ideas from others. You might have just needed some space to evaluate your situation, nothing wrong with taking a break from things or people if it helps you.", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "From chatting with you I can tell you might be ready to start talking and maybe get some help or advice, family is a great start they are typically a great support system. It is okay to feel embarrassed but being unhappy will eat at you, sometimes its good to set our pride aside so that we can figure things out. In my situation of feeling stuck I was ashamed that I sat and let people treat me so badly but it wasn't until I seen it as a problem that I started making my lists and getting advice. Some things we do on our own and some its good to have people to help. I think reaching out to your sister would be worth a try, she might also have different ideas and suggestions you haven'\nt thought of yet.", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "Thank you for chatting with me, I am glad to help. I hope you have a great day! Stay positive!", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "If you need to chat again I would be glad to talk to you, I think you will do great at fixing your rut. Thank you. ", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "Bye.", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "Hi, How are you doing today?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "Ah im sorry to hear that. Best advice i can give is to play for exactly that. ", "output": "Information" }, { "input": "Like maybe get your resume cleaned up, cast some lines out for employment now, checked linkdin, worst come to worst, make sure you know how to fill out unemployment for the future.", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "If you have a plan already it will ease some of that anxiety that will come from this tough situation", "output": "Information" }, { "input": "Unfortunately, life doesnt always do what we want. What we can do is plan ahead though. It will make you less anxious if you know you have a back up plan.", "output": "Information" }, { "input": "I know that is a really rough thing to go through. Do you have anyone at home you can talk to as well? Just letting it out helps sometimes.", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "It might make you feel a bit better, maybe they can give you some perspective as well. ", "output": "Information" }, { "input": "Its not something that will go away instantly, its something you have to work at. If it is really affecting your life in a negative way, talking to a therapist might really help you.", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "Im glad you think so", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "Im glad, before then, what helps me calm down is going for a nice hike or run. It really lets me clear my head. Do you have anything you like to do to recenter yourself?", "output": "Self-disclosure" }, { "input": "Good, dont forget to keep that as part of your routine!", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "You are very welcome!", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "Im glad i could help, thank you for sharing your thoughts with me", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "Have you tried the classified ads? Or check on facebook for a jobs page in your area?", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "I would suggest starting with one of those options. ", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "do you have a resume?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "I would suggest you type one up, most employers want an application and a resume.", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "Perhaps a friend can help you, if not they have programs on the web to help assist with that.", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "Have you been out of work for a while?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "your welcome.", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "Are you saying you have been out of work for a while?", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "Okay, are you saying your working from home?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "Then perhaps you should look for part time work.", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "I am a little confused. Are you looking for employment or not?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "Okay, in the mean time follow my advice. It will help.", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "any other questions?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "hey How are you today\n", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "Im doing okay , just hanging out and ah i feel that its tough times for alot of people right now\n\n", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "whats been bothering you?", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "ah i get it, its really weird but tough times, i recently lost my job because of this second wave its hard and ah yes wondering and worrying makes it hard\n", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "have you tried to practice any mindfulness ?", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "i get it, its hard to relax and get away from it. i been trying to keep busy and stay away from the news as much as can", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "yes its very weird. got to stay strong!", "output": "Information" }, { "input": "it will end one day and well be relieved", "output": "Information" }, { "input": "yea try to fill yourself with positive news or watch a movie read a book stay off social media abit helps me", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "music helps me alot", "output": "Self-disclosure" }, { "input": "yea music is healing for sure", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "yea it sucks that unknown and not knowing enough", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "exercise is great for the mind take a walk or jog a hike in nature or a park", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "yea try to do something like that tomorrow and ah i love volley ball but yea thats hard now", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "great sport for sure and yea you got this just remember it will help\n", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "awesome im glad\n", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "well thats what im here for and happy could help i know what that is like ", "output": "Reflection of feelings" }, { "input": "you got this though keep pushing , exercise is great for depression\n", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "YAY! <3", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "anytime and best of luck to you !\n", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "Hello! How are you doing today?", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "Do you mind me asking what it is that caused you to reach out to someone for support?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "I'm not aware of there being a phone number for you to call. This is a task that is supposed to be done via Amazon's Mechanical Turk platform. I believe you're supposed to tell me what the problem is. Then, I will help you through it as best as I can.", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "That sounds good!", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "I'm so sorry to hear that. Take your time!", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "Oh my goodness. I am so incredibly sorry that all of this happened to you. I can tell that you are completely overwhelmed with emotions right now.", "output": "Reflection of feelings" }, { "input": "I don't believe that you did anything wrong whatsoever. Sometimes, really unfair things happen to really good people. I can't even imagine how hard this must be, but I would try to look at it in a positive way. I know that losing your best friend and your fiancé must be devastating, but at least you now know that your fiancé is someone who you most certainly probably don't want to spend the rest of your life with.", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "I've been cheated on myself, believe it or not, and it was my daughter's father and my best friend. I can't believe how similar our stories are. I'm not even kidding! I refused to get back together with him (we were engaged at one time as well) and because I refused to get back together with him, he got my best friend pregnant and they are now together and recently had a second child. He has completely forgotten that our daughter exists.", "output": "Self-disclosure" }, { "input": "I think I would start by putting your own health first and getting yourself tested to make sure that you haven't contracted anything from your fiancé. I know this will be incredibly hard, but I wouldn't want to see you getting sick and suffering as a result of his infidelity.", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "No, we were not married. We were together for almost 7 years and engaged at one point, but I broke it off after he cheated on me. He cheated on me several times. It's the worst feeling in the world.", "output": "Self-disclosure" }, { "input": "I would be scared, too. However, it's better to act now because to my knowledge, the sooner that you find out and treat it, the better the chances are of you treating it. There are a lot of new medications out there that can be used to treat HIV and AIDS.", "output": "Information" }, { "input": "I know that their first child is a girl. I'm not sure if their second is a girl or a boy. I haven't spoken to him in several years. I found out through a friend about their second child. We haven't spoken at all since I found out about the first one.", "output": "Self-disclosure" }, { "input": "I have been tested for all STDs because I was cheated on. All of mine came back negative. All they did when I got tested was bloodwork.", "output": "Self-disclosure" }, { "input": "Have you thought about reaching out to a therapist or counselor who could help you to work through your feelings and everything that you're dealing with?", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "I am so incredibly sorry that you have to deal with all of this at all but especially at the start of the holiday season. My heart absolutely breaks for you.", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "Yes, we have a daughter. He spent the first eight years of her life in prison. I gave her the choice as to whether or not she wanted to get to know him. He had plenty of opportunities to speak to her and chose not to call or show up when he was supposed to. The last thing she said about him was, \"All he does is lie to me and break promises. I don't want to see him or talk to him anymore.\"", "output": "Self-disclosure" }, { "input": "I'm a great mother and I always put my daughter's feelings first. She made the decision not to see or speak to her father. Him and my now ex-best friend are on drugs and don't have custody of their own children. It's in my daughter's best interest that she doesn't know him.", "output": "Self-disclosure" }, { "input": "Yes, we are both in therapy. It helps immensely.", "output": "Self-disclosure" }, { "input": "I know that you weren't the one who cheated, but I would still highly recommend talking to someone about what happened. This is going to be very hard to get through. Again, I am incredibly sorry that you are going through all of this. Our chat session will only last for a total of about 30 minutes. This is meant to be a one-time task, unfortunately.", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "I never did drugs either. My daughter's father did.", "output": "Self-disclosure" }, { "input": "He still does, and so does my best friend. They lost custody of their kids. I have custody of my daughter.", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "Anyway, I hope that you eventually become more open to talking to a therapist on an ongoing basis. I hope you have a Happy Thanksgiving.", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "Oh, wow. I didn't know that you were pregnant. I hope that you and your baby are okay!", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "I think you will be a great parent anyway! Best of luck to you.", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "HI there, How are you doing today?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "I understand that, it is hard to find a job. I got terminated during the beginning of covid", "output": "Self-disclosure" }, { "input": "I actually took a job at walmart just to make ends meet. Not the best situation but hey, my family can eat.", "output": "Self-disclosure" }, { "input": "Yea, would you consider doing something lesser for now just to make sure you have some income coming in? Or do you still collect unemployment at least?", "output": "Information" }, { "input": "Thats good at least. Well, its great you are being proactive about it!", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "I hate saying this but, just hang in there and keep moving on", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "I hear ya, im doing everything i can to make a bit of extra money just so my kid can have a semi normal christmas!", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "Yea i feel so bad for her. Thing is so presents arent everythign. Since you got little ones might be time for some new traditions. Make some \"igloo\" forts and have an indoor snowball fight with balled of socks or something like that ", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "Thanks for sharing!", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "Hmm lets see, more a fun thing to do then advice, my daughter saw some xmas dessert she wants to make. Its pretty simple. Get some candy canes and poke em into marshmellows. Melt some chocolate and dip the marshmellows into them. Cover with sprinkles and let harden. Might be a fun thing to do. Id focus on experience over material this holiday.", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "Yea, i hope things work out for you!", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "You as well!", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "Hi there, how are you doing today?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "What are these feelings related to?", "output": "Restatement or Paraphrasing" }, { "input": "Im sorry for that, so added stress with her and her daughter being around?", "output": "Restatement or Paraphrasing" }, { "input": "That is really rough and im sorry that your parents are taking sides and not looking at this from the whole situation.", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "So she is not there currently?", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "Well i can see you really care for your niece. It also seems like your sister is a toxic person who is using your family. It may be rough not being able to see your niece but it might be better for your own well being to have this space from her.", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "No keep going, sometimes just getting it out there helps", "output": "Information" }, { "input": "Yea usually never anything good about loss. I am glad you are doing better now though. Hopefully she can turn herself around", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "Oh not a problem at all!", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "Thank you very much. And thank you for sharing!", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "Hi there, how are you doing today?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "Oh no, why do you think she is abusing them?", "output": "Restatement or Paraphrasing" }, { "input": "Thats a tough spot to be in, ive actually been both sides of that coin.", "output": "Self-disclosure" }, { "input": "It is hard. Unfortunately you can only try to direct them to stop for so long before it can really damage your own well being, which should come first.", "output": "Information" }, { "input": "I would actually suggest just that. If you have tried, or do not even feel like going down that path. Then that is your decision. You should look out for yourself!", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "The thing is with drugs, that person already abandoned themselves. Sometimes they can get the help they need, but they need to do it on their own terms. Its kind of like a blackhole where everything gets sucked into their life.", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "Me too, i dont know how many bridges i burned all those years ago. ", "output": "Self-disclosure" }, { "input": "Thats really all you can do. I made amends with those that would listen.", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "Not a problem, thank you for sharing!", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "Have a great night!", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "hi, how are you doing today?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "I am doing well, dis you have something you wanted to talk about?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "So you guys are planning on moving in May, but you would like to go now. your afraid to ask him", "output": "Reflection of feelings" }, { "input": "why do you think this would be an issue?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "Has he already given his work notice that he is leaving in May?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "I would suggest waiting until you find out if your application is approved.", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "I assume that could vary, maybe 4 weeks. ", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "I would bring it up after you are approved, then maybe suggest you going so you can line up employment.", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "Okay, then one of you will have income and then he can find a job later.", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "Good luck with everything.", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "I am not sure.", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "Bye", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "Hi! How are you today/\n", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "Oh wow, i'm so sorry. That's really scary. ", "output": "Restatement or Paraphrasing" }, { "input": "It seems like he was in a lot of pain adn discomfort so surgery should really help. ", "output": "Information" }, { "input": "Yeah, it really comes out of nowhere. MY mother was diagnosed with cancer last year and it felt so out of nowhere and unfair. ", "output": "Self-disclosure" }, { "input": "Good thing he has you! he's lucky to have someone like you in his corner. ", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "I do understand. It's really hard. THe only thing that you can do is try to stay positive as cliche as that sounds. ", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "You aren't helpless! So much of this is mental and you being there for him is more helpful than you know. ", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "Will you be able to visit him in the hospital?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "Thank god! That will make such a big difference for both of you. Being alone would be scary. ", "output": "Reflection of feelings" }, { "input": "Well he clearly loves you! I am happy that he's getting the treatment he needs and has someone so supportive like you helping him. ", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "Your friends probably want to be there for you, don't be stressed about that. They just may need some guidance on how to be there for you . ", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "My mom is doing great! Still in treatment but doing so well. ", "output": "Self-disclosure" }, { "input": "Oh wow, i'm so sorry. You've had a really tough year. You really deserve a break.", "output": "Reflection of feelings" }, { "input": "She did ! Especially when she was in treatment. ", "output": "Self-disclosure" }, { "input": "Definitely hard. You'll have to try to find something for you to relax. Even if it's just walking or reading. ", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "Yes! Definitely. ", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "Dogs are the best!! Mine gets me through everything. ", "output": "Self-disclosure" }, { "input": "I'm sure!! Enjoy him. It's great for stress relief. ANd having a puppy is a great distraction. ", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "You definitely will, you seem like you are very strong. ", "output": "Reflection of feelings" }, { "input": "It's true! i hope this has been helpful. ", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "Crying can be therapeutic so that's good!", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "You too! hAppy thanksgiving!!", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "You too ", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "hello how are you?", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "I could see how that would be very upsetting and make you sad. ", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "do you have family near by for comfort and support?", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "im so sorry to hear of this issue. do you have other outlets like getting out into nature? i find a good walk or a nice book helps with easing my mind.", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "i could see why that may worry you. as it would worry me also. as my parents are older in age and i have young children. i just realize that life must go on regardless of given situation. always look to the positive. it is best to find something to ease your mind rather it be facetiming family, reading, yoga, or even getting fresh air", "output": "Self-disclosure" }, { "input": "hows the weather where you are located?", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "oh goodness, im in the deep south. even tho its close to winter it definitely does not feel that way. ", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "what are some disturbances that you deal with currently?\n", "output": "Reflection of feelings" }, { "input": "remember as long as your parents remain safe they will be fine. you will be fine. we all will be fine. research has shown that majority of people who have caught covid have recovered with no issues. i myself have had covid and i am here.", "output": "Self-disclosure" }, { "input": "it is bad but recoverable. alot of coughing and alot of sleeping. high fever. but a family member of mine who is 74 caught it. he has diabetes,obese and has heart trouble. he made a full recovery with no issues ", "output": "Self-disclosure" }, { "input": "you to also. thanks for reaching out. stay safe", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "So COVID has been especially hard on you?", "output": "Restatement or Paraphrasing" }, { "input": "Just hearing that, I can imagine what a scary time this is. \n", "output": "Reflection of feelings" }, { "input": "Do your kids understand how helpful wearing a mask can be?", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "So sometimes you worry that they aren't doing enough to protect themselves. ", "output": "Restatement or Paraphrasing" }, { "input": "I know I'm more worried about others than I am about myself right now.", "output": "Self-disclosure" }, { "input": "Maybe just reminding them that wearing masks protects both them and others could help? They sure wouldn't want to infect you or your husband, or others.", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "That is really relatable. I can understand how scary it is for you, especially with your husband's pay cut.", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "What if you talk to a close friend when your anxiety is especially difficult\n?", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "And with the holidays, I think it's really hitting a lot of us even harder right now. I feel that way too.", "output": "Self-disclosure" }, { "input": "Have any of your coworkers gotten covid?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "I'm glad you're safe in that regard. ", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "Is your husband working out of home or out in the field/office?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "Oh, I understand now. I thought he still how part time work. I can imagine how scary that is for you. ", "output": "Reflection of feelings" }, { "input": "My husband's work was at a standstill until summer. It is better but shows signs of slowing down too.", "output": "Self-disclosure" }, { "input": "So you're at least assured your income will be OK.", "output": "Restatement or Paraphrasing" }, { "input": "That is very good news.", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "Maybe this is a good year not to worry too much about presents?", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "I'm so glad to hear that. Good luck to you, and I hope you have a peaceful thanksgiving with your loved ones.", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "Yes sorry, the app was misbehaving. How are you doing today?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "Im sorry to hear that, but going to do about what situation specifically? ", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "Im sorry but we do not get those promps", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "We just get to talk pretty much, we have to find out whats going on. You are not interrupting anything.", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "Where are you that you are able to be evicted?", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "You should not be able to be evicted from your home during this time in pretty much every state. Have you tried contacting anyone for help other than your landlord?", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "Well the plus side is they cannot kick you out right now. Have you talk to your landlord about working out some payment arrangement. Have you tried applying for any job? Now is not the time for pride to get in the way, i would accept anything", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "I have but the referendum on evictions with covid makes this situation different. I am sorry if that pride comment came off as crass. I was just trying to say desperate times come with desperate measures ", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "They could work out a way you can pay extra monthly when you get back on your feet.", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "Your landlord. I worked out a way with payments when i was furloughed from my job. And yes i was actually homeless many years ago so i do know what it feels like to miss out on meals for a days at a time. It seems you should look up evictions during Covid. They are not allowed to throw you on the street as long as the pandemic is going on. ", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "Oh for my situation it was 100% my fault i was in a bad place during that time. I spent my time couch surfing til my friends got tired of me. Bounced around shelters after i sold my car. Washing up and brushing my teeth were the least of my problems. ", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "May i ask what state you are in?", "output": "Information" }, { "input": "I was going to paste a link for you on evictions during covid. Please just google Evictions during covid (your state) you will find groups that can help and the laws, that are on your side.", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "I hope you can overcome this, i know you will ", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "I am sorry for my late reply, i did not hear the chat go off.", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "Ive actually had that same situation happen to me before. ", "output": "Self-disclosure" }, { "input": "Yeah i can tell you something you might not want to hear but it ended with us ending our friendship on that level", "output": "Self-disclosure" }, { "input": "I didnt end it but we grew apart as people do over the years. We still hang out but it isnt like it was before. People move on to others and it hurts. They usually are not trying to hurt us though.", "output": "Self-disclosure" }, { "input": "Yea it was hard for me too. Thats the thing about change it just happens. I would do something focusing on yourself. Trying to make yourself feel better.", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "Everyone needs to and everyone forgets too heh", "output": "Information" }, { "input": "Good, im glad you can realize that! Some people cant", "output": "Restatement or Paraphrasing" }, { "input": "Great, any ideas on what you would like to focus on?", "output": "Information" }, { "input": "Those are great ideas actually, When i want some me time, i usually go for a nice long hike or run.", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "Yeah, it helps i think even down to a chemical level. Kinda like a great reset for our minds", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "Great, i just want you to know that your friend moving to a different person is not your fault. Its an unfortunate side of life.", "output": "Information" }, { "input": "Sorry, How are you doing today?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "Do you want to talk about whats going on?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "Oh, whats going on at work?", "output": "Restatement or Paraphrasing" }, { "input": "Oh im sorry to hear that. Holiday times can make many jobs really hard. Maybe you should look into treating yourself to something as a reward?", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "OH i meant i think we have had enough, But ill keep going cause im in the same boat as you on that front.", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "Well id get your favorite food, pop on your favorite show, and just try to forget about work for now.", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "It wont help the problem at work. It might help your mindset though. I think the only way your work situation would be helped would be by hiring more staff to ease the burden.", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "Yea im sure it will hopefully get back to normal for you", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "Oh i didnt know you were able to do that. Definitely take a day for yourself!", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "Not a problem at all!", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "HI there, how are you doing?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "Do you want to talk about whats going on right now?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "Ive done some things like that before. I know this might sound weird but what helped me through it was to actually own it. Take control of it before they can.", "output": "Self-disclosure" }, { "input": "Yea that is definitely one way to control it", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "Ha, well that could get interesting", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "Not yet to be honest\n", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "I think we have to have 10 rounds of talking?", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "Maybe we can just say goodbye and it will be enough heh", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "OK sounds good", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "No problem, have a good one!", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "Hi there, how are you doing?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "Would you like to go into the reasons you are feeling stressful?", "output": "Restatement or Paraphrasing" }, { "input": "Oh no, are you doing remote teaching now?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "I can see how that is really tough right now. I have a daughter whose 10 so im seeing it from the other side.", "output": "Self-disclosure" }, { "input": "I hear you on that. I would just try to keep on going, unfortunately for everyone's safety we have to make these sacrifices. Hopefully we will be able to get back on track soon.", "output": "Information" }, { "input": "Yeah even i can see that when i see my daughters class. It is a bad situation all around. The thing is though you cant focus on that or it will bleed out into your job. You have to try to stay positive and promote positivity even with how hard it can be.", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "Oh sorry i guess it came off wrong. I meant try not to let it overwhelm you so you can focus more on the kids.", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "I know my kids school has had issues with parents not being there or helping and they were able to intervene. Is that not available at your school?", "output": "Self-disclosure" }, { "input": "I am sorry to hear that i really am", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "Yeah i know, and schools have had since march of last year to really prepare but it feels like they left everything to the last minute. I know my distract didnt even have a plan for remote until the last week of august.", "output": "Self-disclosure" }, { "input": "Sometimes its good to just vent like this though. Get a bit of perspective. ", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "Hi there, How are you doing?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "Do you want to go into whats going on right now?", "output": "Restatement or Paraphrasing" }, { "input": "I see, have you just started them?", "output": "Information" }, { "input": "With medicine like that, it can take months to take its full effect. Stopping can reverse and even make the depression come back worse. Have you told your Doctor your concerns?", "output": "Information" }, { "input": "Hmm, well yes this can be helpful but that is strange he did not run any tests to see how the medication is reacting with you. On that note though what is going on with you now?", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "I would look to talk to a therapist about these matters. Platforms like this can help with some issues but if you are not reacting to the medication and these thoughts are still occurring then that is the path i would take.", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "Im not telling you to quit on your therapist but if their techniques are not working for you, or you do not think they are a good fit. You should not feel guilty looking for one that is better suited to your needs. Self harm is a very serious issue that strangers really cannot help you with.", "output": "Information" }, { "input": "So it is your therapist, or psychiatrist that put you on this medication? Do you feel they listen to you?", "output": "Information" }, { "input": "Thats very good then, Oh great im very happy to hear that!", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "That is awesome, You have a great evening!", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "I failed a driving test once\n\n\n\n", "output": "Self-disclosure" }, { "input": "I was very aggravated. I thought it was the instructor's fault. I was 15.", "output": "Self-disclosure" }, { "input": "actually 16", "output": "Reflection of feelings" }, { "input": "Well, you passed!", "output": "Reflection of feelings" }, { "input": "I did. On my second try. But, take heart. You tried your best and you are continuing to try hard. It's wise to keep in touch with how you're feeling.\n", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "I find that sometimes some breathing exercises, getting fresh air, can help clear your head. ", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "taking long walks as well. Don't obsess on it.", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "right. stay optimistic.", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "You certainly got your work cut out for you.", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "Perhaps \"teacher\" is the right path, buth \"math\" is not. good Luck to you", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "Welcome. I'm out.", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "Hi there! My name is Rob, how are you today?\n", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "Of course! What is the problem?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "So to make sure I understand, have you caught your partner cheating? ", "output": "Restatement or Paraphrasing" }, { "input": "Has someone told you they suspect he is cheating? ", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "It is a horrible feeling when that seed has been planted in your head. ", "output": "Reflection of feelings" }, { "input": "I know you mentioned you want to believe him when he denies it, I guess the important question is what is making you have that shadow of doubt? Has he been unfaithful in the past?\n", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "And know I am not saying I don't believe you, I think your feelings are valid, and I just want to get the full picture", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "Ok. So there has been a past history of this. \n", "output": "Restatement or Paraphrasing" }, { "input": "And what are your friends and family saying to you? Are their accusations valid? \n", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "I know for me, sometimes friends and family will say things like this is they personally do not like the partner themselves without taking your feelings into consideration ", "output": "Self-disclosure" }, { "input": "Ok I see. And for yourself, do you see a future with him? Because in the end it matters how you feel. Do you feel taken advantage of?", "output": "Information" }, { "input": "So possible cheating aside - there is definitely some others issues that needs solving. Have you calmly confronted him saying that he is affecting your personal financial goals?", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "I think you may have answered your own question. I know it is hard, but if someone shows a pattern and they do not change their behaviour, most likely they will not anytime soon. Meanwhile, your mental health and finances will suffer. If you want my unprofessional opinion, I think your friends and family care for you, and they will be there to help you through this", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "Hi! HOw are you today?\n", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "OH no, why are you feeling this way?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "I can imagine, it's so tough right now for everyone. You aren'y alone. Are you in school or at home?", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "Are you able to connect with friends while on break even virtually? That always helps! ", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "That's so great. It's so healthy to keep up human contact in these times. When i am feeling sad, I do a virtual happy hour with my friends. ", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "It is! IS there anything else bothering you?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "Totally, I think we're all feeling that way. Thankfully the vaccine is really close to being ready. That is really positive news!!", "output": "Information" }, { "input": "I think by mid next year, which would be great! What year are you in school??", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "That's great. You'll hopefully get at least 2 more normal years to enjoy school. I hope that is reassuring. ", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "Of course! It is my pleasure. I hope you enjoy the rest of your soph year!!\n", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "Hi, how are you? ", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "Let me make sure I understand. Your feeling stressed about your finals.", "output": "Reflection of feelings" }, { "input": "I understand what that is like. What is your biggest fear?", "output": "Reflection of feelings" }, { "input": "Did the teacher provide you with a study guide? ", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "Okay, are you familiar with their testing style? I am assuming you have had other test in these classes.", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "I can tell you are stressed, try to relax, are you in a study group?", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "They are all probably feeling the same way. Try not letting fear fail you. Study hard and be confident, you have made it this far, your almost done.", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "also make sure you get enough rest, exercise and eat well balanced meals. That will help you feel less stressed.", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "your gonna do great. your welcome.", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "bye", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "Hello!", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "Yes please. What has been bothering you?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "oh wow. Is that hard for you? Explain what's upsetting you about that. ", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "I've also struggled with the same thing. My parents put that pressure on me so I understand that. ", "output": "Self-disclosure" }, { "input": "Do you tell your parents you're trying your best? What do they say?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "It sounds like that expectation is very hard on you and makes you anxious", "output": "Reflection of feelings" }, { "input": "That's okay to feel that way!", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "Deep down they really just want you to succeed. But that doesn't mean it isn't difficult for you. I'm sure you're doing your best.", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "Have you talked to them about the pressure/expectation?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "I would suggest talking to them about the expectation. You could say something like, \"I want you guys to realize that I am trying my best but when you put this expectation on me and makes me even more stressed out\"", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "That is a scary conversation to have. I think the letter idea is a great idea!", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "I'm better writing things down too. ", "output": "Self-disclosure" }, { "input": "Writing that should hopefully let them see what is going on. I think it will work. ", "output": "Information" }, { "input": "That's an even better idea. Great thinking!", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "I'm glad. I hope it all works out for you!", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "Good afternoon! OH no . I am sorry to hear that. Why are you so sad?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "Good afternoon! OH no . I am sorry to hear that. Why are you so sad?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "So you are sad because they don't understand you and they are jealous of you maybe?", "output": "Restatement or Paraphrasing" }, { "input": "I can understand how you could feel sad and left out but its your life. I think you know whats best for you. Its not like you are 16", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "I mean you are 29 give me a break . You are very mature and know what makes you happy and you have had some time to explore the world so to speak. Give me one moment to think of a solution", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "are they close friends or just friends ", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "Either way have you been able to have a heart to heart and be like I love xxx and I value our friendship how can we work together to make this work?", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "You are absolutely correct with Covid everything is not normal and I am afraid we have to accept this time as the new normal until this all clears up. Also, it wont do any good to be sad even though you have a right to it is just better to try to be positive. Believe me easier said than not. ", "output": "Self-disclosure" }, { "input": "Do you guys talk on face time or face book or anything social media related? ", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "Amen everyone will be so much happier. May I say something with no disrespect since we just met\n", "output": "Self-disclosure" }, { "input": "God is on the throne and in Control . I am not just saying this because it happens to be Sunday. I haven't been to church since March due to Covid. I used to go weekly but that doesn't make me any better or worst than those who don't . I am just saying prayers help and most people say nothing left but to pray when it should be our first defense\n", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "The other thing that comes to mind is since most of us are home more and we have internet maybe you could think of something to buy under 20 or less but would convey to your friend that you are thinking of them / value your friendship and even though you are with love of your life they can be too!! IF they can't accept this after Covid and you talk face to face I am afraid you can make better friends\n", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "Sounds great ! I wish you the best and hope I could bridge the gap. Good luck and Keep safe\n", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "Hello, How are you?\n", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "could you tell me more about that?", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "I'm very sorry to hear that. Do you know where you are moving?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "That is a difficult situation. Have you been working with a realtor?", "output": "Information" }, { "input": "Yes, your Realtor should be more helpful than that. My best advice is to stay calm. You are making the correct decisions so far. It is difficult, but you are managing it very well. ", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "Sometimes life will throw challenges toward you, and all you can do is make the right choices, one at a time. Sounds like you are making the right choices to get back on your feet. I'm sure you will be there in no time. ", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "Are you taking the right steps to stay healthy? Wearing a mask, avoiding large gatherings, \nand social distancing?", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "Good point. Since you hired them, you can establish expectations with them that they take the right precautions to keep you and your home healthy. ", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "Tell me about your job search. Also, what experience do you have?\n", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "Does CSR stand for Customer Service Representative?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "Well, CSR and experience in Banking must mean you have some skills that are in high-demand. Many companies need CSR's, and Banks are always hiring. Skills needed for CSR are very translatable to other customer service jobs, sales, and more!", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "I'm sure you will find something very quickly. \n", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "also, many companies have shifted their workforce to work from home, so you are even more likely to get a service position in a work-from-home environment, ", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "I see, so it sounds like you need a job search tool that will save you time. I'd recommend putting your profile on LinkedIn, and/or checking a job aggregator like Indeed or Glassdoor. There, you can view and apply for several jobs. I recommend applying and interviewing for several positions at the same time to improve your odds. I'm sure you will get one. ", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "Glad to hear. Sounds like your are doing all the right things. ", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "Hi how are you doing today?\n", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "I hear you- I can definitely relate. I'm sorry to hear you are unable to find work. What type of work are you looking for?", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "Have you looked into government assistance due to covid complications?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "Yes, we are all in this weird boat together.", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "well I applaud your efforts to seek out employment! Keep up the faith!", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "you have probably seen this resource but in case you havent: benefits.gov/help/faq/Coronavirus-resources", "output": "Information" }, { "input": "Yes I understand, I live in Iowa- a bigger town but the struggles are still very real\n", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "Sounds like you are onto something with the ski resorts- sure hope something pans out", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "oh yes! classic:)", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "anything else I can help with?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "truth!", "output": "Restatement or Paraphrasing" }, { "input": "me too!", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "hopefully:)", "output": "Reflection of feelings" }, { "input": "honestly good luck with everything!", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "appreciate that! Take care! LOL i will:)", "output": "Reflection of feelings" }, { "input": "drive on down and over", "output": "Information" }, { "input": "hiring might be better here than in vermont", "output": "Self-disclosure" }, { "input": "I get it- bummer", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "Yes, I think we met the quota!", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "Yes, the iowa governor is super right wing so she is adament about keeping business open etc", "output": "Information" }, { "input": "So even with numbers spiking, some schools are open still, lots of restaurants and businesses still open", "output": "Information" }, { "input": "no we still have an increase, but she won't do a lockdown or anything extreme-", "output": "Information" }, { "input": "So naturally that has helped employers stay hiring...so?", "output": "Information" }, { "input": "very true", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "I understand that feeling! well hopefully we get paid;) keep your head up:) Good luck to you!", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "Hello! what seems to be bothering you today?\n", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "Is living with your brother a bad thing? What specifically is making you upset?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "It seems like he would be a very difficult person to live with. And that is hard for you obviously. I'm thinking your upset because you can't leave so you're stuck. Is that correct?", "output": "Restatement or Paraphrasing" }, { "input": "It's completely normal to feel that way. I'm sure you're handling the situation as best as you can. ", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "What have you done to try and help the situation?\n", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "I would feel the same way if that's a house I grew up in. I'm so sorry!\n", "output": "Self-disclosure" }, { "input": "If he's in a certain mindset, it would be hard to change that. ", "output": "Information" }, { "input": "Do you have people to talk to about this? It sounds like a lot to handle. ", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "I think it would be good for you to talk to someone and get help. ", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "Right now, all you can do is keep chugging along and trying your best to stay afloat. ", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "I would suggest talking to a therapist if your insurance can handle that!", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "Talking with them can help you figure out what you should do. ", "output": "Information" }, { "input": "Yes it is. Especially now. I just want to encourage to keep pushing. Think about yourself in a year or two from now. Do everything you can right now to get out of the situation. If it gets really bad, don't be afraid to call out for help (like the police). Stay safe and do what's best for you. ", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "You've got this!", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "oh wow that's terrible. that must be so stressful for you", "output": "Reflection of feelings" }, { "input": "yes of course! I hope everything works out in the end. You'll be in my thoughts :)", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "Please remember to end the conversation. ", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "Of course you can talk to me, What would you like to vent about?\n", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "So you are feeling kind of used by your friends and/or family?", "output": "Restatement or Paraphrasing" }, { "input": "I can understand how you feel, I have felt used at times by family and friends myself.", "output": "Self-disclosure" }, { "input": "Have you tried to talk to them about the situation? Does the possibility of the conversation give you an undue amount of anxiety?", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "Why haven't you said anything to them?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "I understand, confrontation can be quite stressful.", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "There may not be an alternative unfortunately. In order to avoid involuntary and messy conflict later you may need to have planned/structured conflict now.", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "I think it may be important to make sure you have an end goal in mind in order to have a chance to resolve the conflict in peace.", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "I think that is a wise first step.", "output": "Reflection of feelings" }, { "input": "I am grateful to be of help.", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "hello there", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "When is your finals?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "Have you reviewed all of your materials?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "As long as you prepare, you shouldn't be too worried about it", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "You are only 1.5 weeks away from the exam, the only thing you can do right now is studying as hard as you can. There's no point worrying", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "So as long as you try your best, you already did everything you could", "output": "Reflection of feelings" }, { "input": "Howeve, i would use the last day before the finals to relax and avoid overwhelming your brain", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "with that short of a time, maybe you should ask your friends and go over main points together", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "then do it as much as you can, as for the classes that impossible, you can study by yourself . If you pay attention and study hard, i have no doubt you'll ace this exam", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "I'm glad I could be some help", "output": "Self-disclosure" }, { "input": "Hi there! How are you today?", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "I am fine as well, thanks for asking. How may i support you today?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "I understand. May I please know what is the cause of your depression?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "Yes. The world is in a pretty bad place due to the pandemic. It has caused infinite sufferings to numerous people.", "output": "Reflection of feelings" }, { "input": "We are all in this together. With proper emotional support, each of us can overcome these turbulent times.", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "It may seem pretty bad now with the cold weather setting in at many parts of the world. But there is a vaccine coming soon.", "output": "Information" }, { "input": "Think about the positive aspects of an effective vaccine. Do not stress too much about factors outside your control.", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "I know we can feel helpless at some times, but try to focus on things under YOUR control - like following health professional advise - masks, social distancing and general sanitization", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "I agree. Family is our only an true source of strength. Being away from them can be really hard. But atleast, thanks to technology, they are only a video/phone call away.", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "Regarding your job, I know a lot of jobs and industries have been affected. But at the same time, it has exploded demand in personal delivery services.", "output": "Information" }, { "input": "If you are able to drive, would you be willing to explore the option of part time grocery/food delivery driver?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "Oh that's good to hear! I apologize for the assumption earlier.", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "I appreciate your feedback! Just hang in there and we shall overcome this :)", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "Yes, a lot of times! You are not alone in this.", "output": "Reflection of feelings" }, { "input": "Hello, how can I help you?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "Ah I understand how you feel. That must not be good. I understand how you feel. Things will be okay. Why do you feel this way?", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "Ah I understand. I will try to give some advice. ", "output": "Reflection of feelings" }, { "input": "I think you should try to talk to them to get to know what is going on. Have open communication.", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "You should tell them how you feel. Tell them what you told me. Friendships are important.", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "Yes of course, friendships are important. Especially if you have known them for a long time.", "output": "Information" }, { "input": "Yes, try to be honest with them. It helps a lot.", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "You are a good person, sharing feelings is good.", "output": "Information" }, { "input": "Great, anyway I can help. I am happy to assist you.", "output": "Information" }, { "input": "I hope everything works out. Anything else I can help with?", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "Excellent. Thank you. Goodbye.", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "Remember to stay positive. Have a great day.", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "I'm here to help you\n", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "When it was happened\n", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "When it was happened\n", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "Oh.. It's really sad. But don't worry. You can explain feelings to her. She may change her mind\n", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "I understand your feelings. If it is a true love, she will also understand your feelings.\n", "output": "Reflection of feelings" }, { "input": "To escape from negative thoughts keep engaging yourself in your favorite work. Listen to your favorite music.", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "Hello Are you there?", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "Hello, how can I help you?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "your school doesn't offer remote learning?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "you can still do that online instead of in person", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "I understand how you may feel that way, it's easy to feel anxious when something you do so frequently gets taken away", "output": "Reflection of feelings" }, { "input": "Your worry is very understandable, have you talked to your professors about that to see what they can help?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "that sounds great. I find that your mindset is very important, you can only finish great if you feel at ease. Why don't you just wait and study on your own first, and officially start when you feel reassured?", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "How about create an online study group with your friends if you need to get a degree in time. Either Zoom or Skype is user friendly", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "Oh no, you don't even have to install Zoom. I have been in a lot of Zoom conference where I simply access through the link they give me", "output": "Self-disclosure" }, { "input": "yeah, so don't be too pessimistic. There are always solutions. Other than group study, are there any reasons you worry about school?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "if you prefer to be able to discuss in person, how about do an in person meeting at the park or open space? That way you can keep your distance ", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "No problems, I'm glad I could be some help", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "hello! how are you?", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "Is there anything bothering you or upsetting you right now?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "What city are you in?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "That must be difficult living in such a big city with the pandemic going on. ", "output": "Reflection of feelings" }, { "input": "What are you must scared of or stressed about?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "I've had similar feelings also. People can be very selfish right now. That's normal to feel that way!", "output": "Self-disclosure" }, { "input": "How have you been coping with anxiety?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "It sounds like you're scared of the virus is that right?\n", "output": "Restatement or Paraphrasing" }, { "input": "It sounds like you're doing a great job adjusting though! Good for you. Talking with people will help a lot.", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "It's hard when we live in a divided world. Some people want this...and some people want that. I would suggest just letting go of the things not in your control, even though that is hard. ", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "Do you go to therapy?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "You do what's best for you, that is what is important. Don't worry about others. ", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "Have you heard of teletherapy? I do that and you don't have to worry about leaving your house!", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "Exactly! I totally agree. I love just talking to my therapist. It's so nice just to have someone listen and give feedback that isn't a friend. ", "output": "Self-disclosure" }, { "input": "Therapy is shown to really help so I strongly suggest doing that if you have the time and money. It really will help. ", "output": "Information" }, { "input": "Yes that is important. I'm sure it is safe there!", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "Hopefully this conversation helped with some of your anxiety and stress!", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "Sounds like a great plan!", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "Thank you! I hope you have a nice night. ", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "Hello!\n\n", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "How are you today?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "Is there a specific incident that caused you to feel this way?\n", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "When big life changes come, it is natural to feel sad or upset.", "output": "Reflection of feelings" }, { "input": "Since the breakup, have you found a safe place to live?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "Have you reached out to any friends to talk about how you're feeling?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "Knowing you have a safe place to live is one positive aspect of your life!", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "I know it is hard right now, but seeking out others will bring small moments of joy to the day.", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "Exercise can help clear your mind.", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "Do you enjoy going for a walk?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "I love to walk too!", "output": "Self-disclosure" }, { "input": "The park by my house has some incredible fall leaves right now!", "output": "Self-disclosure" }, { "input": "Let's focus on accomplishing one small goal for the day.", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "I know you have the ability to accomplish your goals!", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "What one task can you succeed at today?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "Wonderful! I hope you enjoy the fresh air and change of scenery.", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "Make the most of your beautiful day!", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "Knowing that you are seeking to have a great day makes me confident that you are going to overcome your challenges and thrive!", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "Take care!", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "bye!", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "Exams are a stressful time. What seems to be the problem?\n", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "Exams are a stressful time. What seems to be the problem?\n", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "I can assure you that countless students including myself have gone through the trials of studying for exams and do feel overwhelmed but it passes.\n", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "Have you studied?\n", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "I get it, distractions can be challenging to overcome at times. Have you thought about going to a library, or a book store?", "output": "Information" }, { "input": "If it helps you study then the library may be worth the time and effort. Sometimes we can stress out over worrying about not having enough time to study. But trust the work you have done and you will know if it is enough.", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "Yes, and it wasn't easy but with hard work, it is completely doable. And you have the power within yourself.", "output": "Information" }, { "input": "Sometimes it is not about the amount of studying, but the way you study. I like reading my textbooks and highlighting the important parts and then rewriting them so they become ingrained in me. But let us not jump the gun, you haven't failed anything.\n", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "Don't forget to breathe. Exams are stressful but I would suggest don't cram everything to the last minute. Usually the hour before the exam, I do something else.", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "Stay calm, believe in yourself, start your studying early so you are not cramming everything in the last few days.", "output": "Information" }, { "input": "Walk outside, away from the students waiting for their tests.", "output": "Information" }, { "input": "Is there anything else I can help you with?\n\n", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "Goodnight and good luck.\n", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "im here", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "what made you feel this way?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "i see how that could make you a bit anxious. I get the same way also.", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "i feel the same. being on lockdown could make anyone a little crazy", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "do you have family or friends that you could reach out to over the phone?", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "yes! that would always be a good idea. its always comforting to hear from a loved one.", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "i myself yearn for a good call from family or even hearing someone close voice. always makes me smile.", "output": "Self-disclosure" }, { "input": "hows the weather where you are?", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "i live in the south . not cold yet. but your weather sounds like it would be nice for a lovely walk.\n", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "yes! although i probably couldnt walk nor run 5 miles a day. i love getting out to enjoy nature. it always helps to keep mind off things. does that usually work for you?", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "i see, for me to relax. i find sitting back in my recliner reading a nice book always relaxes me. i also love yoga. its a refreshing relaxtion", "output": "Self-disclosure" }, { "input": "actually that would be a good idea. i find yoga and breathing deep help relieve stress & let go of the negative.", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "you too always :-)", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "I'm sorry to hear that . How can I help?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "I understand. Tell me what's going on. ", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "I'm here to listen. ", "output": "Self-disclosure" }, { "input": "I understand. It is a scary time right now. Things will not always be this way though. We will get through it. ", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "The important part right now is to stay safe and healthy for yourself and for your family. ", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "What kind of work did you do before the pandemic?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "Yes our country is in a lot of uncertainty right now. And having a second income always helps. Have you considered possibly finding a work from home job? Perhaps look at what skills you've developed, and update your resume to reflect the skills you have that will transfer over to a work from home job. ", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "I understand. There are always companies or jobs out there that are scams. What I found worked best was looking at reputable sites like LinkedIn, GlassDoor, etc. Right now is a good time to find a work from home job from reputable companies. I've found that a lot of companies have transitioned over and developed jobs that can be done from home. I actually work from home myself. ", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "Another suggestion I can make is contacting your local workforce department (department of unemployment) as they can make suggestions too.", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "You already have a lot of skills you didn't think about. As a stay at home parent, you are like the CEO of your own company. You manage day to day operations. You also do scheduling, finance management, etc. ", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "I understand feeling guilty for asking for help. But don't worry that is what they are there for! ", "output": "Information" }, { "input": "Hi, I'm sorry to hear that. What's been happening?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "That's not very fair. You deserve to feel valued at your workplace and it sounds like you don't feel that way.", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "You haven't done anything wrong. I have felt that way at work before too. I went to therapy to deal with my difficult work situation.", "output": "Self-disclosure" }, { "input": "You could bring it up with your boss. That would be a very brave thing to do.", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "Usually, bosses are required to keep those sorts of things confidential. You could request to speak to someone in Humane Resources, who is trained to help workers.", "output": "Information" }, { "input": "You could speak to your coworkers and let them know that you would like a friendlier, more open work environment. Do you think that might help?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "That might be a good place to start when it comes to approaching them. Let them know your side of the situation and maybe they will understand.", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "I think buying coffee and doughnuts sounds like a wonderful idea. It seems like you are really willing to help create a healthier work environment.", "output": "Restatement or Paraphrasing" }, { "input": "Of course. It's been nice to speak with you. I hope everything goes well for you.", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "Goodnight to you as well!\n", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "Hi. How are you doing today?\n", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "I'm sorry to hear that. It is a tough time right now for people working. Do you want to talk about it more?\n", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "I understand that it is frustrating and scary to lose a job. But depending on what field you work in, there are actually quite a few places hiring right now because of the holidays. ", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "My boyfriend was laid off from his job and was able to get interviews with a handful of places in his area. Granted, they are not dream jobs, but at least it is a paycheck. ", "output": "Self-disclosure" }, { "input": "Do you have access to any areas outside your town that are in driving distance or a bus can reach? ", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "Well if you have a car, maybe you would be able to find something a little outside your area that would pay more. Try taking a look on indeed.com or even craigslist for open positions. You may be surprised by what you find and a change in career can sometimes be a positive thing", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "The only way you are going to be able to get a job is by looking what is out there. If you can work retail, it is a great time for that because of the holidays. Even if it is a temp position, at least it is something. ", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "It is a difficult time in general for a lot of people. I think most people are going to be understanding this year when it comes to gift giving. I wouldn't worry too much about that and instead focus on what you are able to do about the situation. ", "output": "Information" }, { "input": "Perhaps think of you just being home as the gift. Having time to spend with your family and friends is likely to mean more than something you can buy. ", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "Then make it a great experience in the house. Make decorations and do holiday things. There is a lot people can do this time of year without going outside that is fun and meaningful. Try to be optimistic even in tough times. Sometimes it is all we can do to get by. ", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "Yeah! That is a great idea. I know people that started doing that and ended up opening their own local brewery. You never know what could happen when you try new things!", "output": "Information" }, { "input": "I hope I have been a little helpful for you today. It is tough right now but we can get through it. ", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "You as well. ", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "Hello\n", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "Good thanks, so what's troubling you?\n", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "Responsibility in regards to what? Like in what area of life do you mean?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "Hmm, has he been looking for work, or just laying around playing video games and shit like that?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "Well, I suppose it's possible that he's been earnestly looking and just not having any luck. Is he kind of a loser in general, or is he a stand-up guy?", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "Ok, so it sounds like you're kind of fed up with him in general, and not having a job is maybe just a part of the bigger issue?", "output": "Restatement or Paraphrasing" }, { "input": "Well, it sounds like you're both in kind of a transitional period in life. It's pretty normal for relationships to not necessarily survive through things like this", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "Yeah, I mean it's never easy going through a breakup, but people change as they get older and mature, and they aren't necessarily going to still be compatible the whole time. Also I think it's important to not think of a relationship that peters out as a failed one. Just because it didn't last until one of you died doesn't mean it wasn't a success. I think people put too much emphasis on permanence.", "output": "Reflection of feelings" }, { "input": "Well I've got a couple decades on you, so I've been through this a few times before. Actually I'm still friends with pretty much all of my exes. I mean just because I'm not romantically involved with them anymore doesn't mean that they aren't still terrific people. Hell, I hung out with two of them just today.", "output": "Self-disclosure" }, { "input": "You bet. So what do you think you'll do from here? I mean do you know you want to move on for sure, or do you think you'll see if you can work through this patch? I don't know that there's a wrong answer .", "output": "Information" }, { "input": "How can I help you\n", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "What are your thoughts on the relationship?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "That does sound hard that he is giving mixed signals.\n", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "Do you think he took your friend's comments seriously?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "It sounds like your friend got him thinking.\n", "output": "Restatement or Paraphrasing" }, { "input": "Do you feel his change is genuine?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "What would he have to do to prove himself?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "It sounds like it would help if he were direct with you and not sending mixed signals. Is that correct?\n", "output": "Reflection of feelings" }, { "input": "It sounds like it would help if he were direct with you and not sending mixed signals. Is that correct?\n", "output": "Reflection of feelings" }, { "input": "Have you talked to anyone else besides your friend about your concerns? Do you think your family or other friends could give some additional support to you?\n", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "That's understandable that they want you to be careful. My parents and friends watched out for me too.", "output": "Self-disclosure" }, { "input": "I think you hit the nail on the head that it's helpful to have that support.", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "Thanks. Can I assist you with anything else?\n", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "Have a good night. \n", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "hi what’s on your mind today", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "wow. that had to come as a shock. when did you find out", "output": "Reflection of feelings" }, { "input": "i'm so sorry to hear that. how long ago did they leave?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "not leaving the house is the new normal for many of us right now. are you not leaving because you have nowhere to go or because you are feeling bad", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "you havve already made it two weeks by going one day at a time", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "do you know brene brown and her work", "output": "Information" }, { "input": "she studies vuneraility and shame. please look for her TED talk and there's a great youtube video on empathy", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "i bring her up because what i sounds like is that you are feeling embarrassed because your partner made a choice that wasn't you", "output": "Information" }, { "input": "in reality the choice they made wasn't about you, it was about them", "output": "Information" }, { "input": "you are left and you are enough. even if you dont feel like it right now you are enough", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "a relationship is part of who you are. it isn't you", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "it is hard. it sucks. but the voyage through the suck is going to be better for you than you may realize right now", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "you have survived 14 days without a bad relationship. keep on doing that day by day and before you know it, you will be on the other side of the bad feelings", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "yes, middle age is scary, but there are so many things you can do. ageism is out", "output": "Information" }, { "input": "please watch the cartoon animals and brene brown on youtube talk about empathy. find one of your friends who has been through the suck and let them help you find your path out.", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "i had an emergency ovary removal in my early 30s and didn't know if i woudl be able to have children. my doctor told me that the most important thing i could do was to be healthy becuse a healthy mother was what i could give my children even if i adopted them", "output": "Self-disclosure" }, { "input": "you want an empathetic friend. nobody has gone through the exact same thing you have but the emotions are common ones. you will be ok, even if you dont feel that way now", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "stay strong and stay safe", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "Hello there, are things going well with you right now? ", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "I do not blame you. Would you like to tell me what specifically is bad about it for you? ", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "So you just feel as though there is nothing to look forward to at the moment? ", "output": "Reflection of feelings" }, { "input": "I have to admit that I have been feeling much this way myself. It has been a very long year, hasn't it? ", "output": "Self-disclosure" }, { "input": "There is the new year to look forward to. It might bring new things - there might be a vaccine, for instance. ", "output": "Self-disclosure" }, { "input": "So you feel that there are a lot of ignorant people out there who are making things worse by refusing to follow the rules? ", "output": "Reflection of feelings" }, { "input": "All we can really do is to follow the rule ourselves and so help to make things better for people! ", "output": "Self-disclosure" }, { "input": "That must feel very difficult for you. Do you have anyone around who can support you, even if just by leaving groceries outside of your door? ", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "I think that some people simply do not have much in the way of current sense. Is it true to say that this is making things worse for you? ", "output": "Reflection of feelings" }, { "input": "common sense, sorry. ", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "That must be incredibly difficult for you. I gather your husband is not with you right now. How long have you been separated for? ", "output": "Restatement or Paraphrasing" }, { "input": "Hello! How are you doing today?", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "I'm so sorry to hear that.", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "Do you mind me asking what is going on that is making you feel this way?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "I'm so sorry to hear that. It sounds to me like you're having a hard time dealing with the emotions that you're dealing with after having broken up with your girlfriend. Does this sound right?", "output": "Restatement or Paraphrasing" }, { "input": "I can tell that you're really struggling.", "output": "Reflection of feelings" }, { "input": "I've dealt with these emotions myself. I recently broke up with my now ex-boyfriend. I have been feeling these same emotions.", "output": "Self-disclosure" }, { "input": "I know it feels terrible, but I think that you reaching out for support is a great first step! I'm really proud of you! You will get through this!", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "We were together for about 5 years. Yes, the loneliness does get very hard.", "output": "Self-disclosure" }, { "input": "I'm happy that I can be here to help you and so that you have someone to talk to! I promise to do my best!", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "After my breakup, I found that the best thing to do was to involve myself in other activities that I enjoyed in order to take my mind off of the negative feelings that I was dealing with.", "output": "Information" }, { "input": "You seem very kind! I appreciate your willingness to be here for and to listen to me as well!", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "Aww! That makes me happy to hear that seeing my profile picture is making you smile!", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "Have you considered getting into any hobbies to take your mind off of what's going on?", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "Oh! I'm so sorry! Haha!", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "Have you considered things like journaling, reading, or arts and crafts?", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "That may not be a bad idea! If you really like them and are able to properly care for it, animals can be very therapeutic!", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "Writing and reading have been proven to be extremely therapeutic. I used to write down my feelings on a piece of paper and then destroy it (throw it away) once I was done. There's something about it that really seems to help.", "output": "Information" }, { "input": "Aww! That sounds like an adorable dog! What breed of dog is she? I have two cats myself. They make me feel better on a daily basis!", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "That sounds like a great idea! I love the fact that it helps you to stay connected, especially considering (as you already mentioned) that it's difficult to connect right now since we're dealing with COVID-19.", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "I love that you're telling me about your dog and how all of the people at the bank wanted to see her! I bet that made you feel much better.", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "I couldn't agree more. Dealing with COVID on top of everything else has been extremely difficult for me. Honestly, I think it is part of what caused a lot of the issues that I'm currently dealing with.", "output": "Self-disclosure" }, { "input": "It makes me happy to hear that you know that you're better off. I know it's sad, but accepting that a relationship wasn't meant to be is, in my opinion, the first step to truly getting over someone. A year is a long time to spend with one person.", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "I completely agree! Where would you go if you were able to right now?", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "Thank you so much! We broke up several months ago and I'm already feeling and doing so much better. I am also much better off without that person in my life. I've gained weight back that I couldn't really afford to lose to begin with, I've been more motivated, etc. It really was for the best even though the breakup itself was really difficult.", "output": "Self-disclosure" }, { "input": "I live in Pennsylvania as well! It's such a small world!", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "I've always wanted to go to Las Vegas. My brother and his girlfriend just took a trip out there not too long ago.", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "Oh wow! I live right outside of Philadelphia. I have several friends who have houses on Lake Wallenpaupack. It's beautiful up there!", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "That's so cool! I've never been on a plane and I've never been anywhere north or west of Pennsylvania. I've been in every state from PA down to Florida, but nowhere else. I really need to travel more!", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "That sounds like a beautiful area. Have you considered going skiing, snowboarding, or snow tubing since you live right near Blue Mountain?", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "I went snow tubing at Blue Mountain once. It was so much fun!", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "You should look into it! It was a lot of fun when I went. I believe they're still open right now even though COVID is still going on. It took my mind off of everything while I was there.", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "Groupon is awesome! You're very welcome. I'm happy to help you think of things that you can do to make yourself feel better.", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "Wow! That's great to know! I might look into taking a trip up there myself with my daughter. She's 12 years old. She would absolutely love it!", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "I would love to! That truly does sound like a lot of fun!", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "I do too! I also love live music and I REALLY like football. GO EAGLES!", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "I'd love to go to a hockey game. I've never been to one. Thanks for your email!", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "You already seem like you're feeling better! I really do hope that I helped you somewhat! I wish you the best of luck and I'm really glad that you are open to new ideas.", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "Thank you so much! Have a wonderful day and a Happy Thanksgiving! And you're very welcome. Chatting with you was very nice.", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "You, too! Take care!", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "How are you doing?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "I'm well. How can I help you?\n", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "It sounds like you are struggling with deciding on your relationship with partners.", "output": "Restatement or Paraphrasing" }, { "input": "It's good you are asking yourself questions. What do you want out of the relationships?", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "It sounds like the relationships give you a lot of drama. What do you crave in a relationship?", "output": "Reflection of feelings" }, { "input": "I understand where you are coming from. I've seen a lot of men in relationships not be so committed for real, but just like the physical part.", "output": "Self-disclosure" }, { "input": "Just from chatting with you, I see that you feel like you want more from the relationship and would like commitment on more than one level.", "output": "Reflection of feelings" }, { "input": "I had to look for someone who was committed in all areas and only figured this out after making mistakes. I can see you have really shown maturity in learning from your experiences.", "output": "Self-disclosure" }, { "input": "From what I've seen having confidence in yourself and what you feel in your heart won't lie.", "output": "Information" }, { "input": "Do you think one may have jealousy and get aggressive if he finds out? It's a personal decision that takes some thought. ", "output": "Information" }, { "input": "It sounds like you put a lot of thought into things which can be helpful in decision making.", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "Can I help you with anything else?\n", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "Have a good day.\n", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "\nI'm sorry you are going through that. Why do you think you are worried?\n", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "I have also struggled with that in the past. It can be difficult!\n", "output": "Self-disclosure" }, { "input": "Can you think of things that don't make you feel lonely? We can work on focusing on those instead. \n", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "That's a great idea. I think you will be headed in the right direction doing that. \n", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "I would work on making sure you are in a positive mindset before you go to bed and try to focus on the things you can control. \n", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "That is a wonderful idea. You are on the right track with that. You should try to think about him before bed and see if it help tonight!\n", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "I also struggled with that when I was in college. Being away from home is hard but you have to remember that you can do hard things!\n", "output": "Self-disclosure" }, { "input": "That is very true. It is only temporary, you will be reunited with your family soon. But also, you have their support, it just might look a little different at this time. \n", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "It sounds like you are on the right path to success and not having as much trouble sleeping. \n", "output": "Reflection of feelings" }, { "input": "I'm glad you are feeling somewhat better. Please let me know if I can be of any other assistance. \n", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "I'm glad you are feeling somewhat better. Please let me know if I can be of any other assistance. \n", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "Hello", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "Sure. What can I help you with?", "output": "Information" }, { "input": "I’m understand how hard ending a relationship can be. ", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "What do you find is the hardest thing for you each day. That is, where do you find it hardest to move on?", "output": "Information" }, { "input": "Memories are a blessing and a curse. Are the memories and thought you are having positive or negative? ", "output": "Information" }, { "input": "It’s hard when we have various emotions. These memories being more negative are hard to cope with. In my experience, if I rethink memories regarding relationships which tend to bring me down in way that is a learning experience, I feel more empowered. ", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "In my past I have been able to try and look at each relationship as a chance to grow. To figure out what worked with that person and what didn’t. I have them used this as a tool for the future. ", "output": "Self-disclosure" }, { "input": "You are making good steps to rethink the situations. Is there anything else contributing to the heat rack you still feel?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "Heartbreak ", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "That is difficult. I understand how it feels to be lonely. Something I’ve done when I’ve felt that way was to learn to fall in love with myself. I like to do self care and make time for things I might not have time for if I were in a relationship. ", "output": "Self-disclosure" }, { "input": "It’s so important to love yourself. Self love breeds confidence and confidence is not only attractive, but powerful in so many ways ", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "I’m glad I could help. You will overcome this. ", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "You too. ", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "hi! how are you doing today?", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "of course! Whst's up?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "how long ago did that happen?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "have you filed for unemployment or are you getting paid through your work?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "not being able to go anywhere is hard. we are all feeling that right now. is it that you are feeling money woes or being cooped up - which bothers you most?", "output": "Restatement or Paraphrasing" }, { "input": "indeed. you mentioned that the salary you are getting doesn't cover everything. is it not covering houseing expenses?", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "it's very scary and stressful! when i have faced a money crisis i have paid mortgage first, car second and then talked to utilities and explained the situation, woudl that help", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "i think that most people understand that there are many people in a huge crunch right now. i don't see that it woudl hurt to talk to them and be honest", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "and in that case you are no worse off", "output": "Information" }, { "input": "what have you been doing at home now that you aren't working to keep busy?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "i agree! there's nothing like real interaction. it's good that you are keeing in touch with people, many people are feeling isolated right now", "output": "Information" }, { "input": "the 1918 spanish flu pandemic was followed by the roaring 1920's -- so i think if history repeats itself we will be good!", "output": "Information" }, { "input": "seriously though, the vaccine news is quite encouraging", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "LOL hopefully people will stop being mask stubborn and the vaccines will get us back to a modified normal within the next year", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "you are absolutely right! i don't understand the resistance to mask wearing. it's baffling", "output": "Information" }, { "input": "i'm so glad you are staying safe", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "we have a real wave of ignorance going on right now, total denial of reality and it's frustrating", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "fingers crossed!!", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "you are absolutely right this will not last forever", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "hi there\n", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "How are you?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "May I ask why you are feeling frustrated?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "Oh I understand how that could make you so frustrated, that would make me frustrated too. I am waiting to hear about my school.", "output": "Self-disclosure" }, { "input": "I am sure that whatever happens, you will do well with them", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "Have you thought about talking to an administrator at your school?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "that is all the more reason to be frustrated, i commend you for having to deal with that!", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "Have you thought about talking to a close friend or someone you trust about these stressors?", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "I understand why are you are worried though, that is a lot honestly. ", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "Do you think that your grades will go down with the switch to online?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "I have seen that be the case for many people. Hopefully your professors will be understanding with the switch.", "output": "Information" }, { "input": "Well I really hope that everything goes well for you! You sound like you are prepared", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "of course! I hope the rest of your year goes well", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "Thank you!", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "hi there, how can i help you this evening?\n", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "im sorry to hear that, care to talk about it?\n", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "why do yo think you are having a hard time making fiendships? \n", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "\nare you in support or recovery yourself?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "i know that can be a very tough situation, my father and brother are both addicts. it helps to have a good support structure around you to stay in your sobriety\n. ", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "do you go to any group meetings or support groups?\n", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "well, when it comes to support groups, you can choose your sponsors and people who you want to build your support group with, i know it can be hard living in a state away from your family, i live in California and my family lives in Texas. You could also look at married men as an acceptable solution to avoiding that line as well. \n", "output": "Self-disclosure" }, { "input": "are you religious at all?\n", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "there are always groups on social media, some are even local. \n", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "so your fiance is upset when you talk to your friend back home?\n", "output": "Restatement or Paraphrasing" }, { "input": "is your fiancé in reovery himself?\n ", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "do you talk to him about how you are feeling about your recovery as well? or is this conversations that you only have with your friend?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "well thats great!! its important to have someone you can vent to. \n", "output": "Reflection of feelings" }, { "input": "well thats great!! its important to have someone you can vent to. \n", "output": "Reflection of feelings" }, { "input": "sorry dont know why that posted twice. ", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "your welcome. good luck. and im proud of your sobriety!! :)", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "Hi there, how can I help you today?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "That's terrible. How awful he is", "output": "Reflection of feelings" }, { "input": "I understand how you feel, especially when you're looked down by the one you care the most", "output": "Reflection of feelings" }, { "input": "It is not your fault. It's actually your ex's problem. There is nothing to feel ashamed of", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "You can actually use this as a motivation to show your ex how much he missed", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "yes that's the right attitude. As long as you are determined, I believe you can do anything you want.", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "Of course, you will find the right one soon.", "output": "Reflection of feelings" }, { "input": "Use the time you have now to invest in yourself. When you're the best version of yourself, the right person will come to you natually ", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "No, there is no reason trying to win that guy back, Even if he comes back after you get successful, he's after your status, not you yourself.", "output": "Reflection of feelings" }, { "input": "Of course, however, the best person will come in your life when you're not looking", "output": "Self-disclosure" }, { "input": "As I said, good things will eventually come to you ", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "If you feel lonely, talk to your friends and share your feelings with them", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "I hope you feel better", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "I'm glad I could be a bit help for you", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "How can I help you?\n", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "I see you are looking for some resources on a course that your professor isn't helping you with. What kind of questions do you have?", "output": "Restatement or Paraphrasing" }, { "input": "Are you looking for help to perform better in a certain subject in college?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "I didn't see all the specifics but I remember taking that class. I went to my counselor and got a tutor which helped so much. It was offered for free at the college. Do you think you that is something you'd like to check out?\n", "output": "Self-disclosure" }, { "input": "I had a student who was a genius (by my standards) helping me and he was so patient and understanding. This lessened the pressure and helped me move forward successfully in the class.", "output": "Self-disclosure" }, { "input": "Yes, I understand that sometimes being able to interpret things from someone who can communicate well can make the difference in understanding things. ", "output": "Reflection of feelings" }, { "input": "Yes, I had a 100% average almost in high school and still struggled with the class. I kind of wish they videotaped the classes that I could rewind and go back to at the time of college. When I got to grad school, I ended up being able to audio record sessions and understood things so much better because I could reference the books while listening to a lecture. That made so much difference. ", "output": "Self-disclosure" }, { "input": "Lots of research also has shown that getting enough sleep is important for performance as well.", "output": "Information" }, { "input": "It sounds like you are making efforts to do your best to sleep and understand the materials. You can give yourself a pat on the back for all the great efforts!", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "Sometimes you have to give yourself more credit because you are doing a good job.", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "Do you feel better about the situation?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "Great, I hope you keep encouraged and working hard toward your goals because you deserve the very best with your hard work.", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "Great! Have a good day.\n", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "Hello, how can i help you today?", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "Oh no... I am sorry to hear that. It must be devastating. Was it an accident, illness or natural old age?", "output": "Reflection of feelings" }, { "input": "That is rough, both for you and him. I know it's meaningless to tell you not to be sad, however, you can think that he's not in a better place", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "oh sorry, yyeah I mean now. Life is... fleeting isn't it? I sometimes think it's meaningless too", "output": "Self-disclosure" }, { "input": "I feel you, coping with losing your loved ones is never easy. In fact, it's confusing when you grieve and even when you recover and move on", "output": "Self-disclosure" }, { "input": "I don't think people can completely get over that, you just get used to the pain of not having them around", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "I just need you to know that whatever your feeling is, it's completely normal and you shouldn't feel guilty for having it", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "Your dad wouldn't want to see you grieving everyday either. You should live the way you know he'd love to see", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "I believe he knew you loved him regardless how much you two argued", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "That's sad when he spent all his time taking care of the family and yet could not enjoy his free time", "output": "Reflection of feelings" }, { "input": "have you considered seeking therapist? We almost never think of that service, but in a lot of case, people actually need help from professionals when grieving", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "he seemed to be a great man. Instead of regretting what happened, celebrate how great of a person he was", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "I'm glad I could be some help for you", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "How can I be of support?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "That is so difficult because you lost your job. What are your goals at this point?", "output": "Restatement or Paraphrasing" }, { "input": "I see that you are worried because working in an environment while dealing with COVID is scary.", "output": "Restatement or Paraphrasing" }, { "input": "Are you interested or open to looking for a different career path?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "I can see that it is stressful looking into another career path, but you have work experience which will help you on that path if you choose that.", "output": "Reflection of feelings" }, { "input": "Often times career centers can help you to find job opportunities or perhaps online college could be an option if you want to further your education.", "output": "Information" }, { "input": "I had a college degree but found out my career wasn't working out financially. Online college became a lifesaver because I could have the flexibility of being at home. You don't have to be exposed to COVID when doing online work or college options.", "output": "Self-disclosure" }, { "input": "Some people share their concerns with family members or friends. Are you open to discussing the problem with others to get some support?", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "I think that the support of family can be so helpful especially when in this difficult situation.", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "I'm glad to hear this. Is there anything else I can do for you?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "You are welcome!", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "Hello there! How may I support you today?", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "I totally understand. The pandemic is once in a lifetime event and it has turned all our lives upside down.", "output": "Reflection of feelings" }, { "input": "I hope you are aware about the potential vaccines with great success rate announced my major pharma companies.", "output": "Information" }, { "input": "Yes, there seems to be some credibility to the claim - the effectiveness of the vaccine. So I would say even though it seems a lot difficult, there is some hope early next year.", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "I understand your concern. In fact, a lot of people have questioned the effectiveness given how fast it was developed. Are you anxious because you have to provide for your family besides yourself?", "output": "Reflection of feelings" }, { "input": "I too, have been working from home for the past 9 months. And I am the sole provider for my family. So I understand how frustrating this can be.", "output": "Self-disclosure" }, { "input": "The key, however, is our mindset and how we approach the problem. If you are afraid about going our during peak hours, you can step outside during non-peak hours. This is just an example. Everybody's situations and preferences vary.", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "I am frustrated, but I cannot cultivate inaction. Because I have mouths to feed. So I have developed a mindset to tackle the problem by taking all the precautions I possible can.", "output": "Information" }, { "input": "In essence, I know the factors under my control, and I try to control them and work them in my favour. I make it a point not to worry too much about factors outside my control.", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "Because it's a new situation to most of the world's population! People take time to adjust.", "output": "Reflection of feelings" }, { "input": "You take care of factors under your control - wearing a mask , social distancing when outside and washing/sanitizing hands whenever you can.", "output": "Information" }, { "input": "Try not to pay too much attention to factors OUTSIDE your control - how many people are there and if social distancing is followed to the letter by OTHERS", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "Ya, that might be the root cause. Talk with your partner and try going out when you and them feel it is safe to do so. Start cautiously, then slowly return to your \"normal\" outdoor times.", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "It can be intimidating at first, but if you don't try, you may never be able to overcome the anxiety or fear.", "output": "Reflection of feelings" }, { "input": "I am sure there are, but make sure those groups are social distancing as well. We are all in this together and we can definitely overcome it :)", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "Yes. You can distract yourself with music or comedy shows. Or a long lost hobby. After all, one good thing about COVID is, it has put more time on our plates.", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "It was nice chatting with you as well. Take care and stay safe", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "Hi there, how are you doing?\n", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "So you have an issue with your back, are you experiencing constant pain?\n", "output": "Restatement or Paraphrasing" }, { "input": "Have you been doing an activity that has triggered this? Or have you woken up and felt a difference?\n", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "Ok so to confirm you have constant back pain and this has been going on for over 10 years and you just want a solution to mitigate that pain.\n", "output": "Restatement or Paraphrasing" }, { "input": "I know that constant pain is definitely up there with one of the most difficult things a person can deal with. It can also affect your mental health over time but there are solutions out there that can help.", "output": "Information" }, { "input": "from what I can tell you have tried many Solutions. I can see that you are committed to finding something that can work for you. personally I think it is only a matter of time until you find the right combination for you if you can stay positive.", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "if I'm being honest I can relate to this. I have a young son and a small family myself. I have had problems with my hearing and tinnitus that is manageable at the moment but constant. in feels like nobody understands just how difficult this can be.", "output": "Self-disclosure" }, { "input": "ok so I assume you spoken to many medical professionals about this. have you had a diagnosis?", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "you have clearly been through a really tough time and my heart goes out to you at how well you are dealing with this. you seem like a very positive person and I appreciate how hard this must be a times. you also care great deal for your family and they're helping you to get through this. I think you are strong and can continue being positive!\n", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "if I am being completely honest I think you are incredibly strong. Have you seen a pain management specialist that can help you block out pain? also there may be new advances in pain relief so it would be a good idea to keep up with advances in managing pain. You may be able to take part in studies for new developments.\n", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "take care it was nice talking to you", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "Hello, I am certainly gonna try to help! What triggered the depression tonight?\n\\", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "Not that I'm typically a fan of this, but there are certain justifications and it has its place. Have you sought professional help?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "There are a lot of programs in place to assist those who're in need of psychiatric evaluation and treatment but dont have the financial means to pursue it.\n", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "Do you live in the US>?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "Have you placed your name on the lists?\n", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "Medication isn't always the best solution. I speak from personal experience. Also, its better to be inching up a list than reluctant to be on it at all.\n", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "It absolutely can take that edge off, but often so can many other things, like painting, writing, talking to a friend or a stranger even. I don't mean to suggest you stop any medication without medical advising. I simply mean to say that there are advantageous methods of therapy that dont involve a pill.", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "You're absolutely right that sometimes there is a need for medication. My mother suffers from depression as do I. She has to take Effexor everyday for her condition. I, however went through COUNTLESS combinations and never found a relief as helpful as when I write and talk to people.\n", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "Have you explored other theraputic avenues to synchronize with the medication?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "You're doing VERY well talking to me! Had you not said anything, I would have assumed that to be the best choice! But if you're an introvert, then my first suggestion is to journal. ", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "That way you can reflect on what you've written and possibly learn patterns, triggers, moodswings and other information that would help the problem.", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "Journaling is for YOU. No one else has to ever see it if you don't want them too. Glad I can help.", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "Anytime", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "Hi there! How may I support you?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "I am so sorry to hear that. Did something happen?", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "Oh that is so hard. I have family that isn't taking COVID seriously as well, and its so frustrating to see. Are you able to talk to them about your concerns?", "output": "Self-disclosure" }, { "input": "Some people express their frustrations in certain ways. Do you think there is another way to communicate with them? It's also okay to stand up for yourself and stand by what you feel is right. ", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "It sounds like you're finding it hard to balance the isolation you feel during this pandemic, while you know it's the safest option, with the social gatherings your friends are having. Does that sound right?\n", "output": "Restatement or Paraphrasing" }, { "input": "that is such a hard position to be in. it sounds like you are doing your best by choosing to be safe and keep your distance. ", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "I have found that having vitural movie nights, or going on socially distanced walks with my pals has been so helpful with staying connected. Is this something you think your friends would be willing to try?", "output": "Self-disclosure" }, { "input": "I think a lot of people are going by the notion that you can't live your life in fear, and that they're going to have these big family gathering regardless of what is happening with COVID. The stats have shown that after holidays the cases have surged, for example, memorial day, 4th of July, labor day. But I think its important to remember the bigger picture that peoples lives are literally at stake and the people that disregard need to be more aware. ", "output": "Information" }, { "input": "Can you tell them that that just isn't the case? You and your husband are making the right choice by staying home for the safety of yourselves and others. If I am correct, it has nothing to do with the fact that you don't want to see your pals and family!", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "From chatting with you it sounds like your relationships with these people is incredibly important to you.", "output": "Reflection of feelings" }, { "input": "I hope your friends can see how important they are to you and thats a huge reason why you're not seeing them. ", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "I know a lot of people that think the same thing. I have one friend who thought that, and they ended up contracting COVID. Thankfully she was ok, but after she got it she definitely didn't think it was a hoax anymore. I hope they understand the risk they are taking. ", "output": "Self-disclosure" }, { "input": "I am proud of the choices you are making and I hope you can take some comfort in knowing that you are doing your part in helping keep things under control. There is a strength in numbers and the more people who understand that the faster it can be controlled. ", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "Yes of course, I hope this was helpful. You are doing the best you can and take pride in knowing that. :)", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "How can I help you today?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "I understand that you are feeling like your professors don't see you as a person with feelings. What happened to make you feel this way?", "output": "Restatement or Paraphrasing" }, { "input": "That's hard to feel like they are treating you like a number when you are working so hard. Have you talked to them about it?", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "I had a similar experience in my college days. It was very difficult to have so much pressure to succeed and feel so alone. You can do though because you are working hard and want to succeed.", "output": "Self-disclosure" }, { "input": "I see you are anxious about this when talking to you, but have you thought about getting some support from other students in your position?\n", "output": "Reflection of feelings" }, { "input": "Also sometimes just stepping back and taking some deep breaths can help to alleviate some anxieties. Have you tried that ever?", "output": "Information" }, { "input": "That is reassuring that it worked before for you and can work again.", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "College can be quite a change from the protective atmosphere of home. Have you tried any support groups or religious groups for encouragement?", "output": "Reflection of feelings" }, { "input": "I was a part of a religious group in college and they were very supportive even praying for me on exam days. I felt they helped me with my success by planting seeds of positive feedback to me.", "output": "Self-disclosure" }, { "input": "Are you starting to feel better about the situation?", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "You are welcome. I wish you well.", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "Hello! How may I support you today?", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "I can totally understand how frustrating a job search can be. I was recently in the job market as well, as my contract was not extended due to budget reasons!", "output": "Reflection of feelings" }, { "input": "Is your line of business affected by Corona virus pandemic?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "Ok, apologies for my earlier assumption! May I please know more details about the nature of your problem?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "Ok, if I understand correctly, you prioritized some work to be done later, which unfortunately had an earlier deadline, is that correct?", "output": "Restatement or Paraphrasing" }, { "input": "We all make mistakes, don't we? Don't worry too much about it. Just be honest to your manager regarding what transpired. ", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "The way you feel bad about it while chatting with me, I am sure you are a great employee that wants to make things right.", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "I am sure it's a honest mistake and let your manager know that you will be better at time management and prioritization moving forward.", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "You tell him that this has been a valuable lesson and you have learned a lot from it. And that this mistake would not happen again.", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "If your manager is a leader and not a boss, he would appreciate your honesty and give you chance to rectify. Otherwise, at least, you now know what type of manager you are working for!", "output": "Information" }, { "input": "I have been in similar situation a lot. All the best :)", "output": "Self-disclosure" }, { "input": "You're welcome. Take care!", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "Hello, would you like to explain your situation and we can go through it together", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "So you don't feel motivated and you are not scoring well, have I understood that correctly?\n", "output": "Restatement or Paraphrasing" }, { "input": "What are you currently studying?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "Your motivation and how you are studying is probably related, you are right. What attracted you to microbiology in the first place?\n", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "It is never too late to change anything. However, i hear that you have always found it fascinating,have you considered talking to your uncle and seeing if you can find what you loved about it again?\n", "output": "Reflection of feelings" }, { "input": "Studying can be really difficult , especially when you are half way through. i struggled in my studies and found that talking to my tutors helped and approaching student support. Have you tried anything like that or has your motivation held you back?\n", "output": "Self-disclosure" }, { "input": "Just from chatting to you, I can sense that you are anxious, however, as many students feel this way, they will have a whole lot of help they can provide.", "output": "Information" }, { "input": "I am pleased that you have been able to open up to me, it is the first step towards you finding your path. Do you find it easy to write things down?\n", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "One suggestion is for you to write down all the reasons that you love microbiology. It can be any format, I love a bubble chart (mind map), it could be in list form or just doodles, would this be something you would find useful?\n", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "It would be a really good place to start. Then you could be really kind to yourself and take some pressure off. Would you like to talk through some ideas to help with the work itself?\n", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "That's really good, sometimes it is about finding a direction and small steps. Often when we are studying the work seems really big, especially essay questions. One thing that helped me was to break it into really small chunks, sometimes physically covering up some of the question. Would that be something that would help?", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "It could be something you can try, remember , it is not always about ought to, simply how can I make it easier for myself. It is okay to get things wrong too. If you decide to write your list of reasons why you love microbiology, maybe you could keep it in a place you see every day, a mirror or fridge and keep seeing where you are trying to get to. ", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "You are more than welcome and it has been lovely chatting to you. Is there anything else you would like to talk through?", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "Hello! How may I support you today?", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "I understand how frustrating it can be, especially with COVID turning our world upside down!", "output": "Reflection of feelings" }, { "input": "May I please know what field you are in?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "First fall, I tip my hat to you! It is because of people like you, our frontline heroes, that we are at least able to put some fight up against the corona demon! \n", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "I hope you heard that major pharma companies have tested vaccines which are 90-95 % effective! Given the current advancement in technology, it is a great news.", "output": "Information" }, { "input": "I understand. Part time or reduced hours can be a source of concern.", "output": "Reflection of feelings" }, { "input": "We just need to trust them to bring the vaccine to the public. I hope in due time they will publish their detailed research and development papers.", "output": "Information" }, { "input": "Regarding your situation, have you tried a secondary source of income? Like becoming a delivery driver or an order taker?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "Ok. I suppose you can try online jobs. One of my friends lives outside the city and is a part time online order taker for Pizza Hut.", "output": "Information" }, { "input": "All you need is phone and internet. You will need to take customer's orders and input it in Pizza Hut's order system.", "output": "Information" }, { "input": "is this something you can explore doing?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "Great! You can search for \"Pizza Hut online order taking job\". The first result will lead you to the company that manages these jobs.", "output": "Information" }, { "input": "Once you complete training, the pay is good especially during weekends, where peak load hits.", "output": "Information" }, { "input": "I am glad I could be of help. I wish you all the best!", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "Hi! How are you?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "I'm well. What's going on?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "What happened?\n", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "What happened?\n", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "OMGoodness! That's awful. I've been through the same. ", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "Unfortunately men have earned a reputation as jerks for that reason. ", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "Are you still together or have you left?\n", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "Good for you! I know that it must've been painful, but I don't think anyone deserves to go through it on repeat...", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "Well, they probably deserve an equal percentage of that anger...", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "However, YOU deserve to have the freedom of choosing to forgive and forget them both. The resentment that's building inside you is just like a poiso\\\nn that YOU'RE drinking in hopes that THEY get sick from it.", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "Revenge is a dish best served to the trash! There's no relief in bitterness. Might as well let it go, move on an move up from there! ", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "I think you're handling the whole thing well. You're very intelligent and emotionally mature. It's his own dumb loss and hers too!\n", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "Ha! well said about revenge\n\\", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "Certainly he's just a punk and probably has some underlying issues that he needs to deal with. Her too, really! Punk and all lol, But you? You're strong, resilient and capable! You have a great grip on this whole adulting thing here, and its admirable how well you've handles the ordeal", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "Hello, how are you today?", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "I'm so sorry to hear that. I've had a close friend pass away years ago, and I understand it is a hard thing to deal with.", "output": "Self-disclosure" }, { "input": "Do you have other friends there for you to help you through this tough time?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "I doubt if they would see you as being soft. Maybe your mutual friends would like someone to talk to as well? You could perhaps share some stories about your friend and cheer each other up.", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "That's a great idea. You could help each other and celebrate his life, keeping his memory alive.", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "That's a great idea. Maybe have a Memorial Service in his name at a place he frequented often, this way, no trolls and all the people who knew him could share their personal stories about him.", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "Let me reassure you that you would not appear weak. Death is something that everyone deals with in their own ways, and talking to someone about it could be the best way for you to deal with these emotions. Have you felt like giving up or extreme depression after his death?", "output": "Reflection of feelings" }, { "input": "It sounds like you're going through the normal grieving process and that time and talking about it can be of a huge help.", "output": "Restatement or Paraphrasing" }, { "input": "You have taken the first step of healing by speaking with me about it. That is admirable!", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "I'm glad to hear that. I wish you the best and believe you will get through this!", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "No problem. Is there anything else I can help you with?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "All the best.", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "hey! how are you doing?", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "that is a huge stressor! when are finals? what year are you?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "that gives you a little bit of time to prepare and you have experience with finals, so that's good", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "what specifically is bothering you or is it usualy exam stress plus covid?", "output": "Restatement or Paraphrasing" }, { "input": "what a great goal! do you have a plan for preparing for exams? i always found that mapping it out with a study plan helped me ", "output": "Self-disclosure" }, { "input": "you have a plan and you have some time! what else do you need? chocolate? LOL ;-)", "output": "Information" }, { "input": "are you on campus? or at home?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "my freshman has been at home all semester. ", "output": "Self-disclosure" }, { "input": "fortunately he doesn't know any different", "output": "Self-disclosure" }, { "input": "i can't imagine how wierd it is for you, knowing how it used to be", "output": "Reflection of feelings" }, { "input": "i'm sorry it's been so weird for you. but you are killing it with your grades. you shouldbe proud!", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "its got to be good being back home", "output": "Reflection of feelings" }, { "input": "i can tell you your parents have been worried about you", "output": "Information" }, { "input": "they are glad you are home", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "keep on crushing it at school, please be safe", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "Hi, what did you love about the State Fair?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "I see that you enjoyed doing just about everything at the fair so I understand why you are sad that it did not happen\n", "output": "Restatement or Paraphrasing" }, { "input": "Ok, It was to you a means of balance in your life then", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "It is really sad that you no longer have that outlet but it will come back sometime", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "You sound like the absence of the fair has really taken its toll on you\n", "output": "Reflection of feelings" }, { "input": "Wow, I know how you feel as I have had some really traumatic things happen to me over the past few months as well. I understand all too well especially since I had to cancel my trips that were already paid for this year.", "output": "Self-disclosure" }, { "input": "Yes I did", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "Based on what you described, you can find new ways to distract you from the missing State Fair and the fun it brought to your life", "output": "Information" }, { "input": "Create your own fun, head to the beach, go to the park, take a drive to the countryside and enjoy the fall. And of course spending more time in your garden will be a great distraction.", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "Yep, Well it was great that I can provide a short distraction", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "Take care, It will get better.", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "Hello. I hope so", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "What kind of problem are you having? ", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "It sounds like you are a student who is having trouble. Is that correct? ", "output": "Restatement or Paraphrasing" }, { "input": "I can understand how you feel. I was a nontraditional student recently who went back to school. ", "output": "Self-disclosure" }, { "input": "It is very understandable that you are feeling stressed, especially with the pandemic and other issues happening. ", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "Have you thought about putting together a schedule to help you manage your time? ", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "If you go online, there are different templates for students. One would be a time management template where you fill in the blocks of different times of the day. ", "output": "Information" }, { "input": "Also, do you know any of your classmates that you could email or text for support? ", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "To start, fill in one week to see what all activities you have to do. Set aside specific time for doing your schoolwork. Try and stick with the schedule. ", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": ".I would try it. ", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "Maybe there is a discussion board where you could be anonymous. ", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "Break your writing down in small chunks. Just brainstorm one day, for example. ", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "Try one thing at a time so you are not overwhelmed. ", "output": "Information" }, { "input": "I agree. You are not alone. ", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "Hang in there. It is great that you are in school. ", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "I enjoyed chatting with you. Take care.", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "Goodbye. ", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "Hi there. Yes, What is making you sad?\n", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "I understand how frustrating that can be to not be part of the group activities. ", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "Have you talked with your friends on how you feel? When was the last time you all connected?", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "I understand it is tough to bring up what is bothering you, especially after getting to hang out with all your friend over coffee. I'm sure this was not intentional with not inviting you to the club.\n", "output": "Restatement or Paraphrasing" }, { "input": "From what I have experienced personally, I am not a fan of clubs and didnt want to go with my friends. After turning them down a few times, they stopped inviting as well. I think they thought that was not my thing. ", "output": "Information" }, { "input": "I feel how this is hurting you. The best thing would be to talk to them about feeling disinvited to group activities. Let them know you are still free and really want to spend some time together. Do you think you can open up to them on whats bothering you?", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "It sounds like this situation is really bothering you. Its hard and overwhelming to feel isolated. The bonds of friendship are worth the confrontation. If they don't know what is bothering you, it will be harder to mend the relationship. ", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "You are worth every precious second of time and should not let this diminish your self worth. Find common ground, an activity you all enjoy and invite them to hang with you.", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "We all have busy hectic lives at time. True friends make time to be with one another. This world is full of beautiful people to bond with. Keeping a closed circle of friends is a blessing. ", "output": "Information" }, { "input": "I hear how this is making you sad not feeling supported in the way that you need to be. Know that you are worthy and will find a way to connect with them. I hope this has helped. ", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "Good Evening", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "How are you?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "I'm sorry to hear that. It's rough to get stressed", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "Would you like to tell me what's going on?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "Oh no! I can totally understand why you're stressing over that! Absolutely valid reason for anxiety.", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "May I ask how much of the whole grade was the test's percentage?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "What was you're score?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "That isn't TECHNICALLY a failed grade by the standards of most professors. Albeit a low grade, it's a D. Anything below 59% would qualify as failed. ", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "Have you done fairly well in other classes? How have your grades been prior to this test in that class?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "I hate that you feel that way about yourself, but I can also relate to having a rough time learning via online classes. I'm the same way. However, that does not disable you from being able to learn. It impedes your quality of learning, no doubt. But it isn't something that YOU can help. ", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "By having an attitude of being unable to learn, you automatically lower your expectations for the success you would potentially have otherwise... ", "output": "Reflection of feelings" }, { "input": "OMGoodness no kidding. This whole pandemic has the world in a tizzy! ", "output": "Reflection of feelings" }, { "input": "If I were you I would not wait! It may not be the best option for your learning style, and it will certainly prove a greater challenge. However, taking on that challenge will bring on SWEETER rewards when you succeed! Adopt a \"Can-Do\" state of mind and grab the bull by the horns!", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "You're so very welcome! ", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "hi what’s up?", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "how ar you doing?", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "i'm doing ok. is there anything you wanted to talk about today?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "i'm so sorry. when did you find out?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "how are you feeling about it?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "with your boyfriend or your friend? what's troubling you the most about the situation?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "you've had some time to sit with this, i understand completely that you are disgusted, but how have your felings changed since you found out?", "output": "Restatement or Paraphrasing" }, { "input": "are you spending time with them like you did before, have you talked to them>", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "even though it doesn't feel like it, affairs have little to nothing to do with the people who get hurt the most", "output": "Reflection of feelings" }, { "input": "it's not about you even though you got hurt the most", "output": "Information" }, { "input": "the anger and betrayal are natural feelings", "output": "Reflection of feelings" }, { "input": "if you want to maintain relationships, then you woudl have further converstations, but if you are ready to move on, nothing they can say will change what you need to do - move on", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "it sounds like you have moved on if you aren't talking to them, is that right?", "output": "Reflection of feelings" }, { "input": "so i'd spend my energy working on myself.", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "what are somethings you can do to take care of you?", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "are there friends you can talk to about this? your parents? siblings?", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "seek out a support group, people you know who can and will take care of you when youare feeling low", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "people who care about you often don't need the details, just that you need them", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "and that's enough. until you are ready, you don't need to elaborate", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "it's really nobody ele's business", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "it's easier to see where others are going than it is ourselves sometimes", "output": "Information" }, { "input": "because there's not the emotion clouding the way", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "once you get the raw emotion out of a situation, it's easier to see things like they really are", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "i'm glad. plesae stay safe", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "Hi there", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "How's it going?", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "I'm good. Glad it's the weekend. Care to tell me what's going on?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "Sorry to hear that. Breakups are rough I can say as I've been through a couple myself.", "output": "Self-disclosure" }, { "input": "How long were you two together?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "Fur babies are definitely good in bad times. It's good that you're taking the time out for yourself. That takes strength!", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "Oh that's awesome - despite the circumstances. Are you in the US?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "I'm jealous. hehe I often wonder what our friends to the north are going through. I'm glad to see you reaching out too. That's awesome!", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "I know the feeling and especially in these times. It seems things are looking up though with a vaccine coming soon. Getting outside and reaching out is definitely the right thing to do. Soon things will be back to normal!", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "It's been a very long tunnel. lol I can see the light!", "output": "Restatement or Paraphrasing" }, { "input": "oh it's been my pleasure!! Give the doggie a hug for me", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "You're certainly welcome. Take care of yourself!", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "hi! how's your day going?", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "oh my goodness. I'm so sorry to hear that. when did you find out?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "that's a hard way to find out. are you still in the same house?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "i can't imagine what you are going through, but separate spaces sounds like a very good idea to me. ", "output": "Reflection of feelings" }, { "input": "before you take any action, i'd ask myself what are your options?", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "you know that his actions have very little to do with you and more to do with him, right?", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "are your parents supportive of that idea? ", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "it's not about her or you. it's about him. ", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "they will understand. opening up to them will be the hardest part. it's a shame cocktail, but it's not one you made", "output": "Information" }, { "input": "it's in our nature as women to ask \"what did I do?\" but it is never about us or anything we did. ", "output": "Information" }, { "input": "trust and vunerability is huge in a relationship. i'd look for professional help if you wan tot try and work on it", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "do you have a friend who has been through a similar situation? sometime that helps.\n\nalso, sharing your burden with someone does NOT add to their burden", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "my guess is he felt the same way you are feeling right now", "output": "Information" }, { "input": "watch the brene brown video on youtube with the cartoon animal about empathy - it should help when looking for friends to rely upon", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "grrrr. that would make me angry too", "output": "Self-disclosure" }, { "input": "i'm totally into the podcasts \"a slob comes clean\" basically it's about getting your poop in a group", "output": "Information" }, { "input": "that's so hard. imagine how much energy he had to use to keep his lives from colliding. he couldn't find a better use for that energy?!", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "yes! LOL but it's been helping me focus my anxiety into being a bit more productive", "output": "Self-disclosure" }, { "input": "what do you want to hear from her? is there anything she could say that woudl make you feel better?", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "NO!! she's not going to be able to help you unless you need a witness for divorce court", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "she likely knew, othewise how would he explain all the time he spent with you to her?", "output": "Information" }, { "input": "glad i could help. please stay safe and no matter what you decide to do, you will be fine.", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "Hello how are you feeling today?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "I am very sorry to hear that. Breakups can be rough. I'm great! Thanks for asking. Was this a mutual agreement?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "Was there a reasoning behind your decision? Sometimes we let our anger and emotions make our decisions for us.", "output": "Restatement or Paraphrasing" }, { "input": "I see trust is a very important key factor in relationships and without it the relationship stays stagnant. Have you tried reassuring her that your intentions are pure and maybe gave her some words of affirmation that would let her know how you truly feel about her? Just because you guys are best friends all she sees in her head is that you're talking to another female. Maybe she also has her wall up and some insecurities that you can help her with. ", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "How long have you two been together? Sometimes moving on from a relationship and staying single from some time can give you time to reflect and work on yourself for yourself. You never know the two of you might come back together stronger than before cause space might be all that your relationship needs at this moment.", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "I know this might be so tough for you but l want you to know that you are never alone and you can do this. Maybe read a new book or pick up a new hobby for the time being.", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "You're doing the right thing by talking to someone about it. We are not meant to be alone in our thoughts because it can be a scary thing. Bottling up emotions is also never good so for you to reach out is very good and the first step to maybe feeling a little better. I've been in your same shoes and trust me it doesn't feel good so just know I am here for you and you can talk to me in confidence.", "output": "Self-disclosure" }, { "input": "Absolutely! You have an amazing day and keep you head up!", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "I would be glad to. What is troubling you?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "I completely understand and had similar experiences. What were some ways you tried to interact with people last shut down?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "Digital contact does have its limitations. Could you meet with people outside at a distance?", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "I understand. Try sticking to the basics to make it less stressful. Wear a mask outside at a distance. ", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "Have to talked about this with friends? They may be feeling the same way. Just talking this out with the may be reassuring. ", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "That’s understandable. Maybe talking to a professional who you don’t have to worry about burdening with your concerns will allow you to talk about your concerns. ", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "Many people are struggling with the current state of affairs. Don’t be afraid to talk to people they may also be afraid to talk to people and you could miss out on supporting each other. ", "output": "Reflection of feelings" }, { "input": "I am sorry that wasn’t helpful. ", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "Have you tried looking into local recourses in your city?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "That is true it has been hard for many people. ", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "I’m glad I could provide you some support", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "Hi, is there anything you would like to talk about today?", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "Take your time I will be right here.", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "What kind of a funk is it? Do you have to go to work or school? Please tell me more about how you are feeling so I can understand better.", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "Are you doing okay workwise, getting enough done, getting it done on time? Or is it difficult to get motivated about anything? Is there anything that you think started making you feel this way? I am very interested in understanding how you feel.", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "Do you live alone? Did you work at home before COVID? I worked at home before COVID but with COVID I became very isolated. I don't have any neighbors within sight of my house. This my sound weird but I make up fantasies in my head like I am an alien's pet and my home is my habitat or I pretend I am hiding out keeping something safe, or a pioneer woman waiting for her family to get back from the store which is a six month trip. ", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "I am glad you are able to work, financial stress really sucks. I think Covid has us all down at least at some point. ", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "Yes, and it doesn't seem to have an end in sight. But at some point it will be over. If you don't feel more like yourself say a month from now I have to seeing a doctor because some depression requires it but that said some depression is normal and usually precedes change. I was told that it sort of erases our expectations and allows us to accept the new thing in a better way. ", "output": "Information" }, { "input": "You sound stressed over things that you have little to no control over. Take a deep breath. Tickle each other. Pretend you are the adam and eve couple traveling to populate a new world and the house is your spaceship run with it and have some adult play time lose yourselves and destress. It is good that you can enjoy the sunshine and the park. You can only control and influence what happens around you. Concentrate on making that a good place to be and that will change the world a little at a time.", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "Just hoping to make you feel better and help with some of your worries that don't need to add to your stress. So you don't seem to be depressed as much as stressed and worried which is interfering with things, would that be accurate or could you explain more?", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "Positive attitudes are never bad, slightly annoying to some first thing in the morning but in a good way. lol", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "Coffee sounds good. You are welcome and thank you for sharing!", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "Happy Thanksgiving to you as well.", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "Good Afternoon\n", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "How are you doing troday?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "Being in a relationship with someone when you suspect unfaithful behavior is a rough thing to go through. ", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "I've dealt with the same problem with my partner more than once. I love him very much and I found him to be a 9 to my 5 as well. However, the question of whether he was cheating or not was destroying my trust in him and everyone else not to mention what self-respect I had... I had to break down and talk to him about it", "output": "Self-disclosure" }, { "input": "Ignoring this will NOT help things. There is NO relief in pretending a question or concern does not exist.", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "Like I said the question has arisen more than once. The first time he owned to talking to other women, but nothing more.\n\nSince that time, he denies everything. ", "output": "Self-disclosure" }, { "input": "Honestly, its not anyone else's business. IF you're suspicions are in fact correct, then you've got to see that a loving and faithful 5 is better than a heart-breaking 10. However should you find that maybe the devils of insecurities are tricking you into thinking that she's cheating, then remember that what the two of you share o=is FOR THE TWO of you. Its a relationship, not a community project! Even mu advice, albeit in the air to help you best I can. is not more important that what matters most to YOU and HER!", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "Curiously, why do you think she's cheating?\n", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "Hmm... So have you two live together? How long has this kind of behavior persisted? When you ask her about this behavior, how do you present the question and how does she react? Finally, how often do you talk with her about the situation?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "Don't get me wrong, I completely understand why you have suspicions. Really I think anyone would in the same shoes... However, as humans, we tend to either assume the best or the worst of others. There's always a margin of error present as a variable in such situations.", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "Forgive me if this comes off as disrespectful... I only want to help you. \n", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "But if you feel as though you're a joke regardless, then why stay in a relationship where you're getting hurt? I know that you don't want to lose the beauty but would you not be happier with loyalty?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "I wholly believe you should gently but steadfastly confront her. I absolutely do not mean to suggest a dispute or argument. That will not help either. Simply ask her about the things that you KNOW aren't acceptable; lying about how long her trip was is one of them. Also, its okay to talk about how that stuff makes you feel, but try not to project your feelings as her fault. I know that it seems like they are... But she didn't MAKE you feel any specific way, even if her ACTIONS influenced how you were already feeling. \n", "output": "Reflection of feelings" }, { "input": "Hello there! How are you feeling today? ", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "Of course! What sort of issue is it? ", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "I see, so you feel that your position has become stagnant and you know longer take any pleasure in your work? ", "output": "Reflection of feelings" }, { "input": "Are there any opportunities for advancement or retraining in your current position? Perhaps strive for a promotion? ", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "Yes I do. I sympathise with you because it must be terrible to feel that you are stuck in something that you really no longer like and yet be afraid to try and change your situation. I am sure that there is some solution though! ", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "Well, you will never know unless you take the plunge into the unknown! I do realise how difficult it is for you to do that though. Perhaps start putting out feelers to other companies? There is no harm in that. ", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "True! it would also be great for your self esteem to realise just how much more there is out there that you could be doing. ", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "Yes, there is nothing to worry about. Do you have any relevant qualifications that might help you find another job? ", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "It all sounds very promising. If you think they'd not tell your boss why don't you talk to some of your connections and see if they can put you onto something better? ", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "One other suggestion - it's a high risk strategy but do you think your boss might be sympathetic if you discussed this with him or her? You never know, they might even have some good suggestions - perhaps they feel the same! ", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "No I do not believe that you are overthinking at all. This is a very important aspect of your life and will shape your future! ", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "You are most welcome - I hope that I have been able to give you some peace of mind.", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "Please let me know how things go for you in the future - I am sure that in six months time things will be looking a lot brighter! ", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "Erm .. cup of coffee? ", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "Good afternoon how may I help you today?\n", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "I'm sorry to hear that. Is there any change in your routine as of lately?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "These past few months has been extremely difficult. In the past, what did you do for your depression?", "output": "Reflection of feelings" }, { "input": "Talking to a professional is always ideal. Is there a way to see that psychiatrist again? ", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "It wouldn't hurt to try and reach out. If she isn't available, there are other services.", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "Not necessarily support groups, but more like psychiatry apps where a trained professional is available via chat, or video and its specifically through the app. ", "output": "Information" }, { "input": "There a lot more since Covid began in March, so it's worth as a backup plan if your doctor isn't available. Sometimes its good to have options.", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "After my son was born I developed Post Partem depression and anxiety. It wasn't until almost a year and half after he was born to realize it. ", "output": "Self-disclosure" }, { "input": "It was. Luckily I had my doctor to help me. Family members meant well but chalked it up to \"that's what its like to be a mom\" but it is more than that. ", "output": "Self-disclosure" }, { "input": "I agree. There is a lot of well meaning advice out there, but its best to see a professional to really help you.", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "I'm glad I could help. I hope you get to speak with your psychiatrist, or at least find a good one through an app.", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "Hello. What would you like to discuss today?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "My goodness. I know that's very difficult to handle. Are you feeling anxiety?", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "So would it appear that they are laying off the people who have been there the shortest time first?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "I know this is a terrible time to be laid off from your job. Do you feel that you have a contingency plan if you are one of those who is laid off?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "Oh my goodness. Will either of you be able to claim unemployment while you search for new jobs? My brother was recently laid off and he's considering out of state options to hopefully find a job sooner. While that's certainly not an option for everyone, his unemployment is helping to keep his family afloat.", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "Ok, well that's one small thing to help. Are you a renter or owner? As there are a few programs available to help with mortgage payments.", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "Check on the government page for your state. It's usually your state.gov an example is Utah.gov. Google it. Most states have aid available but a lot of people just aren't aware of it.", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "I hope you can find the assistance you need. Is there anything else you'd like to discuss?", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "As there are a lot of people who've lost their jobs the pickins' are quite slim. But being as the holiday season is upon us. I do knwo there are several stores hiring for seasonal help. Also, Amazon is hiring for customer services reps to work from home I've heard.", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "If it's in your area Instacart is also hiring shoppers and delivery drivers. Is that something you might be able to do?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "Hi there, how are you doing today?\n", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "I am truly sorry you are feeling this way. Those feelings can be overwhelming. Have you tried talking to a professional about this?", "output": "Information" }, { "input": "There are many therapists out there that work on a sliding scale based on your income. Some even offer free sessions. I would look into that for your local area. It also does not seem like your boyfriend is taking the issue seriously.", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "I will tell you from experience, ignoring the issue is not going to help.", "output": "Self-disclosure" }, { "input": "It lasts until you deal with it. I talked to someone to help me understand why an dhow i was feeling this way. Dont worry about putting obstacles for me heh im here to help you. ", "output": "Self-disclosure" }, { "input": "One good thing covid has done for us is create a surge of telemedicine. I know my therapist along with many others are doing it this way now. It may not be as great as being in person but it helps having that ear to listen to you.", "output": "Information" }, { "input": "I can relate to that, spend 8 hours cleaning the place up for my 10 year old to tear it all down in 10 minutes. Jobs are a whole other can of worms as well. May i suggest though that, even though big goals are great to strive for, you set a bunch of smaller goals to complete?", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "Yea just last year they were a baby in my eyes ha. Maybe just even something as apply to 2 new jobs this week. Clean the kitchen on monday. Simple things.", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "How about starting with just doing the dishes, or wiping down the counter?", "output": "Restatement or Paraphrasing" }, { "input": "Yes i think that would be a great first step. I would try a google search like \"Therapists (My Area) Sliding Scale\"", "output": "Information" }, { "input": "As for feeling better its different for everyone. I think it even took a couple months to recognize myself as worthy. Once you start feeling better about yourself it kind of snowballs in a good way.", "output": "Information" }, { "input": "Great! I hope for the best for you!", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "hi how's it going today?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "i hear you. it has been a hard year. what's been the biggest challenge for you?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "it is frustrating not being able to get what you want when you want it. are you having a hard time finding the things you need for right now or for in the future?", "output": "Reflection of feelings" }, { "input": "it's true, we are not sure what to expect. have you looked for things online?", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "it is like there's a collective panic going on right now. I know for me focusing on the things i CAN control has helped me from spiraling into panic and depression", "output": "Self-disclosure" }, { "input": "the \"little black rain cloud\" people? LOL\n\nI try very hard to be kind and remember that we all are going throgh the same pandemic and for most of us it's our first", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "While there is a lot to focus on that is just awful, it has really helped me to look back to the spanish flue of 1918", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "that pandemic was followed byt he roaring 20s", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "The doomsday people are always around. remeber they mayans predicted the end of the world in 2012", "output": "Information" }, { "input": "are you familiar with Mr. Rogers' story about looking for the helpers when things go bad?", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "Family is hard! So many strong emotions and opinions that aren't always helpful. anyone in particular for you?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "so when disasters happen you dont focus on the bad things but look and you will always find people helping other people", "output": "Information" }, { "input": "oooh, that's hard. are you living at home with your dad?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "as a mom, i can tell you that the unknown for your children is scary. often fear and lack of control come out sideways", "output": "Information" }, { "input": "that's really nice of you. i'm 800+ miles away from my parents", "output": "Self-disclosure" }, { "input": "if i can suggest something that might help - brene brown, a leadership coach and researcher has a great TED talk about shame and vunerability and a CUTE cartoon animal video on yourtube about empathy ", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "those help me focus on how hard it is for everyone around me and that i should be kinder to them. everyone has their own crap ", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "true. stay safe", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "Hello. How are you feeling today?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "What has made you feel anxious?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "I am very sorry to hear that. I am currently in a situation where furloughs are greatly affecting my family as well.", "output": "Self-disclosure" }, { "input": "Are you given specifics on time of furlough?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "I know that's very difficult. And no doubt why you're here working for crumbs.", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "It's why I'm here as well.", "output": "Self-disclosure" }, { "input": "I know it's a difficult time. Yes Uber is definitely overrun right now. Have you taken any time out to address your anxiety so it doesn't become more serious? ", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "Yes, that's definitely an expense you can't afford right now. But are you familiar with the concept of controlled breathing to help reduce or relieve anxiety?", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "Not exactly. Controlled breathing is more of getting yourself into a quiet room. Closing your eyes, and purposely and intently focusing on your breathing. Slowly breathe in for a count of 5, then slowly exhale for a count of 5. Repeat this process for approximately 10 minute. It will help your stress levels and help regulate your heart rate!", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "I've been using it myself over the past 3 months and it most definitely helps! But it's absolutely imperative to clear your mind and have complete quiet.", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "No problem. I hope this gives you some relief! Stay strong!", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "My final piece of advice would be to set aside time that is specified where nothing negative is discussed. No politics, no bills, nothing anxiety producing for you. It's probably best if this time is within an hour of your bedtime becuase anxiety is not conducive to a good night's sleep.", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "No problem. Take care. Wishing you well on your situation.", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "hi", "output": "Restatement or Paraphrasing" }, { "input": "chill my dear friend, nothing of that sort will happen", "output": "Reflection of feelings" }, { "input": "everything you need is a little peace of mind, patience and little more effort", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "i understand, but just think everyone else like us are doing the same and facing the same difficulties", "output": "Reflection of feelings" }, { "input": "Think positive my dear friend", "output": "Restatement or Paraphrasing" }, { "input": "Shake all your negatives", "output": "Restatement or Paraphrasing" }, { "input": "Just have the confidence within yourselves and believe in YOU, that is the most important thing", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "Stop worrying , and think about what can make it better ", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "Watch Youtube videos", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "Why cant you seek help from a friend of yours who studies well?", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "And who is ready to spend time and help you", "output": "Information" }, { "input": "you dont have to meet a lot of people, but atleast one or two of your friends with all the safety measures ? who could really help you,and also one of the best solution can be group studies as well", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "My pleasure dear friend", "output": "Reflection of feelings" }, { "input": "How can I help you?\n", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "Is there something that you think is causing this?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "Have you any history of depression before?\n", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "Have you seen any physicians about the problem?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "Getting help from a trained professional can often help to solve problems", "output": "Information" }, { "input": "You could try going to your primary care physician and ask for recommendations. ", "output": "Information" }, { "input": "I've help take a family member to a psychiatrist for help and it's been a tremendous support to help their lives be full again after great hardships.", "output": "Self-disclosure" }, { "input": "Under HIPPA your visit is confidential.", "output": "Information" }, { "input": "You deserve lots of credit for taking care of yourself and seeing a doctor.", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "You are very welcome. Is there anything else I can help you with?\n", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "How can I help you today?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "Sure, I see you need some support at work because your new supervisor is so different than your previous one\n", "output": "Restatement or Paraphrasing" }, { "input": "What kinds of things are troubling to you?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "Wow, that sounds difficult with them being so militant. Have you been able to talk to any co-workers in a similar situation?", "output": "Restatement or Paraphrasing" }, { "input": "That sounds hard that it is so hostile at work when you trying so hard.", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "It sounds like you worry about having your job taken away from you. Talking to someone above your supervisor may be a good solution. ", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "When I was in a similar situation I had to go to a higher supervisor and was helped a lot. It probably is never too soon, but could be too late if you wait.", "output": "Self-disclosure" }, { "input": "I see you really like your job. Sometimes just taking a deep breath can help to calm stress. ", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "Do you think he'll be receptive to your communications if you speak directly to him?", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "I can see that you worry about your boss seeing you as argumentative, but could you try it from the perspective of making your boss feel like he is in control?", "output": "Reflection of feelings" }, { "input": "Is there anything else I can help you with today?\n", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "You are welcome.", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "I wish you well.", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "Bye", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "Can you please press finish if you are feeling better.\n", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "Hello. I'm here to listen\n", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "These days all of us have this situation. I can assure you that your family can understand it\n", "output": "Information" }, { "input": "How about an online job?", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "I also worked in a coffee house and it has been closed for this damn virus.", "output": "Self-disclosure" }, { "input": "I feel sad too. But we should go on", "output": "Reflection of feelings" }, { "input": "This sounds good.", "output": "Reflection of feelings" }, { "input": "I wish this virus ends soon. But believe me everyone have similar situation these days\n", "output": "Restatement or Paraphrasing" }, { "input": "Did they try any online job?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "This sounds good. Wish to learn soon", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "I am mourning for my grandpa and my uncle that they gone for the Covid.\n", "output": "Information" }, { "input": "You should be happy that you have them \n", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "Money is not always a big deal honey", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "Of course but having them by your side is a gift.", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "your welcome. I wish I could help a little\n", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "You too", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "Hello, how are you doing today?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "Im sorry to hear your upset. Do you want to go into why you are?", "output": "Restatement or Paraphrasing" }, { "input": "Why would they judge you on that? Do they know your nephew as well?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "That i can relate too, i am also disabled and on SSI. Have you spoken to her about how she upset you?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "Thats a tough spot to be in with a friendship that has lasted so long. Does she tend to treat you like this regularly? ", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "Then would you say its a little odd for her to be acting in this manner towards you?", "output": "Information" }, { "input": "I would agree that the relationship is getting a bit toxic but before terminating such a long relationship i would do one thing. I would try to see if there is something going on in her life right now for her to be acting like this. Sometimes people dont know how to talk about something thats bothering then and it in turn comes out as anger or spite.", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "Yeah to be honest if you press the issue and ask if anything is going and you continue to get toxic responses. It might be time to end the friendship. I would do that as a last resort but there is no need for you to be carrying it one sided and holding all the burden as well. It hurts to have to end a long friendship but unfortunately sometimes it has to happen to keep yourself in a better spot.", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "Hello, how are you today?\n", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "I am doing well, I also get really anxious about my classes. They can be really stressful\n", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "I agree, there is so much going on that it is hard to stay focused while trying to make sense of all this", "output": "Reflection of feelings" }, { "input": "Of course! I like to wake up a little earlier and at least get started on an assignment to feel like I have accomplished something at least before the rest of the world wakes up. I understand some people like their sleep, so another suggestion is to review any notes you take and use different colored ink for different topics or important highlights\n", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "Uniball makes really good pens that the option to switch colors on the pen, but they sell packs with different colors too. I like to use red ink for really important things, and blue for things I might think I will need later but aren't sure.\n", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "I personally wake up around 6AM and have just gotten used to it so I wake up that time no matter what. I blame the army. But, an alarm on your phone or computer can be effective. Even having someone you know that wakes up early call you can be a help, provided you are not grumpy at being woke up :)", "output": "Self-disclosure" }, { "input": "That is a really good idea actually!! I should try that and put my phone on the other side of the room next time I want to wake up earlier. I personally use the most annoying thing I can find as a ringtone/alarm, so that I will make every effort to turn it off but a lot of the alarm clocks you can find in stores are plenty loud and annoying.", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "What exactly do you think causes you to have to rush around before class? Just not enough time or just situations you cannot control. Trust me I understand myself, I have been in college 2.5 years myself. and it took about 1.5 years to get to where I was comfortable with my schedule and personal time\n", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "That is a good rational reason I would say, I do online classes too and it is far too easy just to wake up, go to the computer and that is it for the day. Campus life seems more structured and like you could plan a routine, but being stuck at home sort of changes all of that.", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "I am really glad I can help, I think part of me was talking to myself as well when giving advice since I have gotten alot lazier these days. I hope you have a great day and hang in there and stay focused and you will do great!!!!!\n", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "Hello ! How are you doing?", "output": "Reflection of feelings" }, { "input": "Oh my god ! What happened?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "I feel sorry for you .. What was the reason behind that ?", "output": "Reflection of feelings" }, { "input": "I understand how you are feeling right now", "output": "Reflection of feelings" }, { "input": "Calm down friend", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "Can i know the reason why you got attracted to her mom when she herself is there ?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "Chill out friend, feel good atleast now you have realised your mistake ", "output": "Restatement or Paraphrasing" }, { "input": "Whatever happened has happened, forget everything.", "output": "Restatement or Paraphrasing" }, { "input": "I understand , so now forget from beng guilty", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "You have got such a nice girlfriend, have a happy life with her", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "Dont worry, just tell your girlfriend directly about the incident of how her mom is behaving towards you with a proof if you could", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "Or else be bold enough to warn her mom regarding this ", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "You have such a nice girlfriend my dear friend, so cheating her is not at all fair", "output": "Reflection of feelings" }, { "input": "Yes, go ahead, the problems will vanish", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "And i believe you too are good, as you have realised your mistake , so stop worrying or feeling guilty for the act. Be happy :)", "output": "Reflection of feelings" }, { "input": "Thats the spirit :)", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "Just be bold enough, dont get aroused or attracted to her by any way even though she's seducing you, be harsh towards her , because you will have to teach a better lesson to her. Tell her, if she repeats this , then you are either gonna tell it to your girlfriend or either file a complaint against her.", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "Yess", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "Go ahead ", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "I hear you are trying to be perfect on your job because you are worried about losing your job. How long have you been at your job?\n", "output": "Restatement or Paraphrasing" }, { "input": "That can be hard when you are working so hard to try to do your best. Can you consult with a supervisor or co-workers to get some help?", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "Asking for help isn't always a bad thing. I asked for help at my last job and they gave me someone to help out. I was so relieved.", "output": "Self-disclosure" }, { "input": "I can see that you have worry of being seen incompetent but as long as you are doing your best, they have to see the efforts you are making as positive.\n", "output": "Reflection of feelings" }, { "input": "Sometimes deep breaths can help keep you calm when approaching others in an anxiety provoking situation.", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "Have you thought of doing additional work related trainings? Sometimes they can give suggestions to improve work abilities.", "output": "Information" }, { "input": "Work can often pay for trainings or offer suggestions what may improve work strategies.", "output": "Information" }, { "input": "You could ask your immediate supervisor or sometimes Human resources for support.", "output": "Information" }, { "input": "That sounds like a good plan to reach out for support. Is there anything else I can help with?\n", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "You are very welcome.\n", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "I am sorry to hear that. reading your opening statement it sounds like you are now suffering from low self-esteem is that true?\n", "output": "Reflection of feelings" }, { "input": "do you think if you knew the reasons why the relationship ended it would help you deal with things a lot better?\n", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "remember the fact that he cheated is not your fault. if he entered into a committed relationship with you you should not be cheating. if things aren't right you should be talking this through with you before deciding to move on and see someone else.\n", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "have you tried getting back out there and dating again? just because he didn't want to have an honest relationship with you, doesn't mean that nobody else does. also in my message above I have made a couple of autocorrect errors, apologies for that.\n", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "relationship issues, especially when they and suddenly can be one of the most stressful periods in an adults life. you are not alone in that other people have been through similar experiences themselves", "output": "Information" }, { "input": "Do you have someone who you can talk to about this to support you? \n", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "Ok I understand. It is normal to be upset in a situation like this. When I ask if there is someone to talk to, I meant perhaps a friend or someone who has experienced a similar breakup. There are also support groups out there that can really help. Getting your emotions out and seeing that others struggle with the same issue may be a very good thing.\n", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "When I was younger, my girlfriend cheated on me. We were together for 4 years. For me, it turned to anger not sadness, I was so angry that she did that to me. I realised that if she was capable of doing this, it's better that I found out now, rather than when we were engaged or married. I loved her but after she cheated, I couldn't stand the sight of her. I completely understand the feelings you are experiencing. The good news is that I have since met someone wonderful, we have children and I am now very happy.\n", "output": "Self-disclosure" }, { "input": "I think that that would be a good idea! for info, In terms of how long it takes to get over it. I have read a statistic that is takes half the length of the relationship to truly get over it. Personally I think it does depend on the person and how things end in terms of the breakup.", "output": "Information" }, { "input": "You are very welcome!", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "I'm sorry to hear about your breakup. Was it your boyfriend that ended the relationship and how long were you guys together?\n", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "this actually happened to me last year. my girlfriend ended things completely out of the blue. it came to light that she felt this way for a while but didn't know how to speak to me about it.", "output": "Self-disclosure" }, { "input": "it is true that relationships can have a big impact on us especially when the end suddenly and seemingly without reason. this must be very stressful.\n", "output": "Information" }, { "input": "it does take time to get over a breakup especially one that ends suddenly but I think once you get over the initial shockyou seem like a positive person so I believe you can get over this\n", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "do you have any friends or family that you can talk to about your feelings?\n", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "speaking to others who have had similar experiences it's always a good idea. they may be able to offer a fresh perspective that you haven't considered before", "output": "Information" }, { "input": "that's good, I'd definitely reach out to her, especially when the Break-Up is so fresh. you may not be thinking clearly and a friend that\n understands might really help.", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "you have been through a really tough time. I do think you can get through this though and come out the other side. I believe you can do it!", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "I can tell that you are worried that you will be lonely forever and I can tell you are anxious about that. ", "output": "Reflection of feelings" }, { "input": "It is a big world out there and there will be someone else that is right for you. Personally, if he cheated then it may be a good thing that you found out now and not further down the line, after you had invested even more time into the relationship.", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "It's great that you have friends in your life that you love. What is causing you to feel that you hate your life today? ", "output": "Restatement or Paraphrasing" }, { "input": "Ok. Your friends saw the lie. do you mean to say that your friends uncovered a lie you told them?", "output": "Restatement or Paraphrasing" }, { "input": "So a good friend told you a lie? Do you feel that the lie was meant to hurt you?", "output": "Information" }, { "input": "How did the lie hurt you?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "How long have you know him? Has he lied to you in the past?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "That says a lot that he has never lied to you prior to this. What do you think changed about him to cause him to lie this time?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "Sometimes a little space can help resolve feelings. Do you feel that a little time would help you to be able to accept his apology and forgive him?", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "Have you communicated to him that his lie hurt you?", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "Hello how are you today?\n", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "I am sorry to hear that. Would you like to talk about it?", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "Its great that you decided to go back to school. Are you having trouble selecting a college or something like that?\n", "output": "Restatement or Paraphrasing" }, { "input": "I understand your concern given the current pandemic situation. But I have heard some colleges are offering online courses until this pandemic is over. Maybe you can explore in that direction to ease your worries.", "output": "Information" }, { "input": "I definitely resonate with the way you feel about online learning. Although difficult it is also important to stay indoors to keep yourself safe. Is there anything that will motivate you?", "output": "Restatement or Paraphrasing" }, { "input": "Maybe you can check with the college if they would consider offering classes over zoom as this is the most preferred mode of instruction.", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "Sounds like a plan and am happy to see that you are sure about what you want.", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "I too wish everything goes back to the way it was and it will one day. We have to adjust to a slightly new way of living and this would happen if each one of us do our part to break the chain and flatten the curve. ", "output": "Reflection of feelings" }, { "input": "You can do it, as you said you are almost there. Once you do it you will be very proud of yourself. Believe me this is just a temporary setback and you are doing a great job.", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "I am glad I could make you feel better. Is there anything else I can do today for you?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "Hello there, how are you doing today?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "Would you like to go into the reasons why you are feeling down?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "I hear that, we are only doing it for just our house this year. Have you considered doing something virtual?", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "Yea some times the right thing does suck, and i know its not the same. I do know zoom has removed the 40 min restrictions for thanksgiving, so at least you can see your parents as long as you want.", "output": "Information" }, { "input": "Thought it might help a little. These times do hurt but at least you are being smart about it. I would maybe try to plan something fun you guys could do over the call. Make it a bit interesting.", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "Oh thats nice that you are close enough to be able to do that now. At least you will be able to taste a bit of home cooking right?", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "Yea, and hey maybe when the vaccine is readily available and we can start seeing our family safely again, we can make a new tradition. A new V-Day celebration heh.", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "Yea, i have my daughter and partner. But we usually have a big family dinner with people coming in from all over the country. We are trying the zoom thing too. Gonna be hectic but hopefully fun", "output": "Information" }, { "input": "Yea i dont think anyone here has missed one in years. My partner will be cheering on the cowboys for you as well ha. I was trying to tell my partner though, traditions have to start somewhere, why cant now be time to start a new one?", "output": "Information" }, { "input": "Yea it is looking good with for both vaccines right now. I always try to focus on the positives. You can almost always find some good in a bad situation.", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "Not a problem. I hope you get to see your family sooner than later. No reason why you cant cook up a nice turkey when we can!", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "You too and stay safe!", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "Hello! How are you doing today?\n", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "What do you do for a living? Are you stretching yourself too thin?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "Sometimes I find that when I am doing less I end up being more exhausted.", "output": "Reflection of feelings" }, { "input": "Have you been spending any time outside or exercising? Science has shown that boost of endorphins you get from sunlight or exercise can help with energy. ", "output": "Information" }, { "input": "I understand that it is easy to stay in bed all day until you absolutely have to do something. ", "output": "Restatement or Paraphrasing" }, { "input": "Not having motivation is a tough feeling to overcome. I think a lot of people are suffering with this issue due to todays current affairs.", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "Do you think it could help you if you tried to spend some more time outside or exercising?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "Even if you just do something easy like a walk around the block. Or sit in front of a window while the sun floods in on you.", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "I try to make sure that on sunny days I open all of my blinds. It forces me to get out of bed, and the vitamin D boost from the sunshine helps to keep me motivated.", "output": "Self-disclosure" }, { "input": "It sounds like you may be identifying some things that you could change?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "That's great! I am glad to help. I am confident that you can overcome this time. ", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "You are very welcome. ", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "Hello How can I help u today?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "Hello?\n", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "Can you please state your issue?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "Sure, How can I help you?\n\n", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "Working and going to school can be tough. It must be very stressful.", "output": "Reflection of feelings" }, { "input": "Maybe you can take less classes or hours at work?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "Or what are some ways you can relax after a long day?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "I would ask for lesser hours if you can or study during your lunch breaks.", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "I have not but I know people who are in your situation.", "output": "Self-disclosure" }, { "input": "I would look on sites like Skill share.", "output": "Information" }, { "input": "You can learn a lot on there", "output": "Information" }, { "input": "There maybe some free courses to but I'm not sure", "output": "Information" }, { "input": "I think so", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "Doesn't hurt to check them out.", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "Youre welcome", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "Is there anything else I can help you with today?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "Skill share can help you learn new skills and try out yoga or mediation.", "output": "Information" }, { "input": "There is an app called Calm that you can use for free or you can pay for it to unlock new features.", "output": "Information" }, { "input": "It can and it keeps you fit", "output": "Reflection of feelings" }, { "input": "You are welcome anything else I can help with?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "Youre welcome have a nice day/night!", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "Hi how are you doing today?", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "Im sorry you are feeling depressed. Whats making you feel that way?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "Youre spending thanksgiving alone? Do you usually spend Thanksgiving alone?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "I understand how you feel. COVID is causing a lot of distance between familys making relationships difficult. ", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "Have you thought about video chatting them on Thanksgiving?", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "I know what you mean, in-person is always better than over the phone. I understand why you would feel this way. ", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "You're not alone in feeling this way. A lot of people are missing their families during the holidays. What would help you during this difficult times? besides video chatting? Can you still cook yourself a nice meal and do any traditions you normally do?", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "thats a great idea!", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "dont worry, soon this pandemic will end and we can go back to the holidays we are used to. We just have to wait. I understand how hard it can make it on holidays though.", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "I love AMC/Holiday movies as well!", "output": "Reflection of feelings" }, { "input": "that is very true. our world has been so different this year", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "Is there any foods you are looking forward to from your favorite restraunt or movie your interested to watch this year?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "great choices! mashed potatoes and gravy is my favorite too! and that movie is so funny. ", "output": "Reflection of feelings" }, { "input": "You sound like you have a great plan in place as a temporary holiday until we can be with our familes again. i know its not the same but you sound like you are making the best of the situation. which is all we can really do . ", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "im glad you are feeling better and glad we could chat!", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "Hello, how can I help you today?\n", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "OK, thanks for explaining. Can I ask what makes you think she has moved on with her life? how recently did you guys split up?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "So to clarify, you ended things and think this wasn't the right thing to do. You have seen her with someone else and now you think you want her back.", "output": "Restatement or Paraphrasing" }, { "input": "Can I ask, for how long have you thought you have made a mistake by ending things. was it when you saw her with someone else?\n", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "I had a friend who was in a very similar situation to this. he was in a long term relationship with a girl for 5-years. they split up and stayed friends. It was only when he saw her with someone else that he decided he wanted to give things another go.", "output": "Self-disclosure" }, { "input": "I'd say this is completely normal. I can tell by talking to you that you did have strong feelings for this person once and seeing her with someone else has made you remember the good times.", "output": "Reflection of feelings" }, { "input": "I can tell you are a caring person and really do care about your ex-girlfriend happiness. I'm sure you will do the right thing but you need to think of yourself.\n", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "I think you need to think carefully about what you really want. If you feel like this then I would suggest you do talk to her about it, however you may be best talking it through with a friend or family member first", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "yes it's really good to talk it through with someone first just really understand if trying to restart your old relationship is the right thing to do for you.", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "I'm happy to hear that.\n", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "you seem like a really decent person and I'm sure you will make the right decision and I'm positive you can get past this!", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "You are very welcome.", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "Hello how are you doing today?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "I'd love to chat with you! What's been on your mind?\n", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "Oh I see. You feel as though you don't have any friend's currently? I totally get that. I feel like that a lot too, especially in these weird times we are going through. It's so hard to see people and keep relationships right now\n", "output": "Restatement or Paraphrasing" }, { "input": "That's a really hard thing to be going through. I'm sorry to hear that. Do you have any really close family members that you are able to confide in?", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "Oh I see. Well personally, when I was going through a hard time and I felt like I didn't have any friends, I found a couple pretty cool apps that helped me out! IT sounds crazy, but there are apps specifically for finding friends. They are kind of like dating apps but it's 100% meant for friends so everyone on them has the same intentions you do. I actually found a couple close friends through apps like that. Have you heard about those or looked into them?\n", "output": "Self-disclosure" }, { "input": "Yeah! They are a really good way to connect with people that you share a lot of similar interests with. \n", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "But it sounds to me that you are pretty overall sad right now. You don't want family to know about how sad you are. Do you think it's more than just feeling like you don't have any friends?\n", "output": "Reflection of feelings" }, { "input": "On most of the apps, it connects you with people in your town!\n", "output": "Information" }, { "input": "people close by\n", "output": "Information" }, { "input": "Well personally, I have struggled with putting myself down a lot and blaming myself for things that I shouldn't blame myself for. You shouldn't blame yourself for not having the courage to go meet people, or blame yourself for not having any friends! And if that is what you are struggling with, then I think the apps would be a really good first step for you! You can create those bonds and connections with people close by to you on there first, and then when you feel comfortable enough with them you can meet up\n", "output": "Self-disclosure" }, { "input": "That way it's less awkward to hangout with someone you don't really know\n", "output": "Information" }, { "input": "Yeah, that is what is great about those friendship apps. You can get comfortable with them before you hangout :)", "output": "Information" }, { "input": "Yeah of course! I hope this helps you, and I wish you the best during these weird times :)\n", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "hello how are you?\n", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "You are having some trouble getting over something is that correct? ", "output": "Restatement or Paraphrasing" }, { "input": "Why are you feeling just alright? ", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "I understand that it is hard to have some type of joy especially with the holidays coming along especially when family has passed on. ", "output": "Reflection of feelings" }, { "input": "I know it is hard, it also has taken a toll on me as well this pandemic is hard to go through, but I take it day by day. Maybe you should take to someone if there is anyone close to you?", "output": "Self-disclosure" }, { "input": "maybe you should try to call her sometime im sure she would like that ", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "right I see where you are coming from, remeber she is your family ", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "see you got this, a call is all that it takes to feel better ", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "I used to feel like that all the time but then I thought to myself that i needed to surround myself with people and not be alone.\n", "output": "Self-disclosure" }, { "input": "Im glad that you are going to follow my suggestion, we all go through the same thing but your getting help and thats whats counts", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "exactly you got it, we all need to surround ourselves with good people, im glad that you realize this. I hope that my insight has given you motavation to pursue relationships", "output": "Information" }, { "input": "alright awesome it was a pleasure talking to you, have a good day. ", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "you too!", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "Hello, How are you doing today?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "I am sorry you are going through that and hope the results are negative. This are some tough times. Have you all been following protocol after finding out?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "That is stressful to think about but would be a necessity. The only thing you all can do if it comes down to it is try to set it up so you all can be as comfortable as possible during the period.", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "When i feel like everything is out of control, i try to focus on small tasks that i can complete with ease. Maybe you can focus on setting up quarantine room, or getting medication and food to last for those weeks just in case. Worst case out of that is that you have some extra food and medicine. ", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "Well for one my house has never been so spotless ha. I have been exercising more, going for more walks with my dog, having more family nights, just anything really that can take my mind of it.", "output": "Self-disclosure" }, { "input": "I did not want to let my fears control me. Believe me the first month or so i did just that. I just wanted to feel better. I started small, cleaning one room at a time. Making a small list to get done. Sooner than later the lists got longer, the place got cleaner.", "output": "Self-disclosure" }, { "input": "I made one starting with the easiest jobs first.", "output": "Information" }, { "input": "Have you ever wanted to try a new hobby? Knitting, woodworking, anything really?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "I was checking 10 times a day. What really helped me was to actually stop checking. Maybe just try to get some local news but dont let it consume you.", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "Ha not at the moment no. I think also trying to include the family in those things as well really helps. I mean if things get heated always good to give everyone space.", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "Well i do love last house on the left, but that is a little dark and i think were trying to steer away from that.", "output": "Information" }, { "input": "I hope you do too and i hope the results come out in your favor! If not stay strong and prepared!", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "I'm sorry to hear that, is there a particular reason or instance for you feeling this way?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "Yes that is a very tough situation, Covid has real placed a large amount of stress through out the world. There may be a ray of hope however with a possible vaccine in the near future, maybe this will be back to normal soon and new jobs will become available. ", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "I understand and you are right it is a a lot of mental stress. Have you reached out to claim unemployment or go to a food pantry? During this pandemic you should not feel shameful to take advantage of these services, there are alot of people who have to ask for help for the first time in their lives. ", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "Well please try the food pantry and see what they have to offer. Is there anyone whom you could ask for a ride in the future when they go to the bigger city? ", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "Well its seem that you now have a plan try it out see how it works, hopefully this will get back to normal sooner than later and life may go back to somewhat normal and your stress level and mental exhaustion will also subside. Is there anything else you would like to talk about?", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "I think your exactly right, human contact is now a premium and I'm sure you miss that contact that we were once so use to. Missing the contact makes you realize how much you enjoy the company of others. Take it slow and once the vaccine is out ease your way back into the dating scene and see if a relationship is what you really wanted after all.", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "Remember that age is only a number and love will no no number, we are hear to listen and support you so if you ever need to talk just know we are a mouse click away.", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "Your welcome stay strong. ", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "Thank you.\n", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "I do not have any personal experience and yes they do sound amazing. ", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "hi! how are you doing today>", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "ok it's been a stressful time for most of us but we are all doing the best we can", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "whats been the weirdest part of the pandemic for you?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "hmm, tell me more. what do you think is going on?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "living together can make people more comfortable with each other. has there been something specific that has caused you to wonder about them>", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "i hear you. have you said anything to either one of them?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "having doubts about relationships is rough. do you know brene brown?", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "she researches shame and vunerability", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "she has a great TED talk! ", "output": "Information" }, { "input": "anyway, i find her imspirational when I have doubts", "output": "Self-disclosure" }, { "input": "no, not really it's the doubting that is likely what's bothering you the most - the unknown", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "that's wise. theres a great youtube video with cartoon animals where brene talks about empathy", "output": "Information" }, { "input": "things are weird for everyone right now", "output": "Self-disclosure" }, { "input": "emotions are running high, covid is running rampant, it's a mess and understandable that we are all stressed", "output": "Reflection of feelings" }, { "input": "please stay safe and communicate with your roommates ", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "Hello. How are you?", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "I am sorry to hear that. You deserve better", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "I understand you. I went through similar situation", "output": "Reflection of feelings" }, { "input": "Do you have any friends you can hang out with to get your mind off him?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "How about treating yourself to nice relaxing bath and good book ?", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "You should focus on yourself and remember you are a amazing woman!", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "If you are sure you are ready for it then No. However make sure you dont judge them by previous relationships.", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "I understand but wouldnt you rather be alone and focusing on yourself instead of miserable relationship?", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "I think that would be a wonderful idea for you.", "output": "Reflection of feelings" }, { "input": "Dont go looking for someone . Let them find you. Just live your life and love will find you.", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "Exactly.", "output": "Reflection of feelings" }, { "input": "How can I help you?\n", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "I'm so sorry to hear that you are about to lose your job. That sounds very stressful. ", "output": "Restatement or Paraphrasing" }, { "input": "That sounds very difficult that things are not openly discussed. It sounds like you want to be proactive which is good though.\n", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "Have you thought at all about looking for a new job that might not be so stressful? ", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "Is there anyone you can contact who has been in a similar situation to help you?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "That's great that you are so willing to try different options to move forward. Perhaps a family member may help?", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "Just from chatting with you, I can see why you are anxious. Have you tried any deep breathing techniques. They are often helpful when dealing with stress.", "output": "Reflection of feelings" }, { "input": "Praying is also an excellent idea. My friends and I prayed all day long for each other during a difficult exam that I previously had failed and had to retake. That day everyone passed the exam. ", "output": "Self-disclosure" }, { "input": "My grandmother always encouraged me by saying there is always someone who has it rougher. \n", "output": "Self-disclosure" }, { "input": "Things can be really hard but you can do it. You are working hard and trying so hard. ", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "Hello!\n", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "How are you doing?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "Why do you feel that way?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "That must be really hard for you. I haven't personally had to deal with that, but I have had friends that have. ", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "How long were you together?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "Being together that long must have made that break up difficult. How are you coping with it?", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "You do seem upset so that shows that you care! Do you mind me asking what happened?", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "I see how she would be upset. It must be difficult for you though because she didn't give you another chance. ", "output": "Reflection of feelings" }, { "input": "Do you have someone to talk to about your feelings?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "I would have wanted a second chance too if I were in your shoes. ", "output": "Self-disclosure" }, { "input": "Is this affecting you really bad?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "If your mood is affecting your daily activities, normally that means your mental health has been affected. ", "output": "Information" }, { "input": "You could always talk to a professional if it's hard for you. ", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "It is. But trust me, it really helps. I've been seeing a therapist recently actually and I love it. I don't have to worry about judgement at all. ", "output": "Self-disclosure" }, { "input": "It's a hard step but worth it in the end. ", "output": "Information" }, { "input": "The job of the therapist isn't to figure out if what you did was wrong or right. It's to help you understand your feelings and better cope. That's why they are so great!", "output": "Information" }, { "input": "Would you like to talk anything else through?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "no problem! I hope that everything works out for you.", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "I think you're supposed to end the conversation btw. Have a great day!", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "Ok! then we can just wait for the 15 minute mark. Do you know when that will be?", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "HI! i'm good. how are things going?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "it is a stressful time. what's bothering you the most?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "i understand. both of my college aged kids are home but my husband works in another state and is traveling home thursday IF son #2's covid test comes back negative", "output": "Self-disclosure" }, { "input": "are you talking with the kids often?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "i'm just trying to focus on what i CAN control. making sure that we are ready just in case we have to quarantine. ", "output": "Self-disclosure" }, { "input": "I have found that keeping in touch via phone text zoom is helpful.", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "i get it. i've doubled down on the vitamin D and one of those \"happy lights\" so that seasonal depression is less for us", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "i believe i've read that it does help with depression and also that the covid survival rate is higher with adequate vitamin D levels", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "i have found it helpful too to remember that right after the spanish flu pandemic, we had the roaring 20s", "output": "Information" }, { "input": "Thank you! may all of you stay safe and good luck with the civid tests", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "bye", "output": "Information" }, { "input": "How can I help you?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "It sounds like you are trying to reach out to friends and they don't reciprocate as much as you'd like?", "output": "Restatement or Paraphrasing" }, { "input": "That can be hard when friends don't reach out despite all your efforts. Have you discussed this concern with them?", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "Sometimes friends don't realize that they aren't fulfilling their end of the relationship and just need to become more aware.", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "Do you think you might want to have a conversation with your friends and see if they feel the same way? ", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "I've had friends in the past who didn't call and I found out later that they were having personal struggles and it wasn't anything against me.", "output": "Self-disclosure" }, { "input": "I can see it being hard not knowing for sure. ", "output": "Reflection of feelings" }, { "input": "Sometimes people also grow and change so relationships evolve as well. Is there something you would hope to gain from the friendship that you think could change?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "I can see that being a challenge feeling guilty about whether you did something to affect the relationship. But, you sound like you are really trying to make things work and maintain the friendship.", "output": "Reflection of feelings" }, { "input": "I had one of those hard conversations in college with a roommate who later revealed that she was in counseling and overwhelmed and struggling. She apologized for the strain in the relationship. I was so glad we talked about things because we went on to be better friends and not hold resentment toward one another. ", "output": "Self-disclosure" }, { "input": "Is there anything else I can help you with?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "You are welcome.\n", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "hi how are you today?\n", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "i'm sorry. whats making you sad?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "has she communicated via text or messanger? or has all communication stopped?", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "i'm so sorry to hear that. i had a friend do that to me right after the spring pandemic lockdown. did this happen recently?\n", "output": "Self-disclosure" }, { "input": "i was upset, but then after thinking about it more , i figured she just was overwhelmed with everything going on. i gave her the benefit of the doubt and texted happy birthday this summer and didn't hear anything back", "output": "Self-disclosure" }, { "input": "can you think of anything going on with her that might cause her to stop communicating?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "i can imagine it's hard to put those feeling into words when you want to move on.", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "but, it's left you feeling sad. how are things going otherwise?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "i don't know of any specific resources. i'm sorry. however, its good that things are going well otherwise. how are relationships with others in your life going?", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "i have found that I focusd on other friendships more since my friend ghosted me. ", "output": "Self-disclosure" }, { "input": "that's understandable but just because one person has left doesn't mean that others will", "output": "Information" }, { "input": "trust is tricky. do you know brene brown? the researcher, author, TED talk researcher?", "output": "Information" }, { "input": "She researches shame and vunerablilty. I find her very inspriring. ", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "there's a great video on youtube where she talks about empathy. little cartoon animals", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "Hi! What can i help you with today?\n", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "How does that make you feel?", "output": "Information" }, { "input": "From what I can tell, your girlfriend cheated on you and then broke up with you because she thinks you are not the right fit for her. Is that correct?", "output": "Restatement or Paraphrasing" }, { "input": "That can be very difficult to hear. But there is someone special out there for everyone. Is there anything that would make you feel better?", "output": "Information" }, { "input": "Then do you think making such plans with your friends and playing games and reading books can make you happy again?", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "What do you think you can do to make yourself happy again?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "That sounds like a great plan! When I was having a difficult time after breaking up with someone I also decided to concentrate on something else and it really helped.", "output": "Self-disclosure" }, { "input": "No need to thank me, that is what I am here for :) I hope I was able to help you with.", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "Yes of course! I hope you have a good day! :)", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "Thank you!", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "Yes it is. Just a way to help people\n", "output": "Information" }, { "input": "You have been my first person", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "I'm sorry to hear you lost your job and have worries about paying the bills.", "output": "Restatement or Paraphrasing" }, { "input": "That is hard having so much pressure but I think you will be able to soon get employed again.\n", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "It sounds like you are trying really hard and that is worthy of praise.", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "Sometimes deep breaths help people calm down. Have you tried that at all?", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "That can sometimes help you to regain your focus and be able to do more for yourself.", "output": "Restatement or Paraphrasing" }, { "input": "Also, job counselors may help at employment agencies to match you with potential employers. Have you tried any?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "I sought out help from a recruiter online who helped me to find a job as well. Have you heard of that option or tried it?", "output": "Self-disclosure" }, { "input": "Yes, I see that you seemed to be more relieved finding out these options. Would you say these suggestions have been helpful?", "output": "Reflection of feelings" }, { "input": "From what I've seen, people who can use some of these strategies like deep breathing and counseling they have felt some relief and could move forward better toward their goals.", "output": "Information" }, { "input": "You are welcome. Can I help you with anything else?\n", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "Hello there. How are you today?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "I am sorry to hear that. Tell me more about what is making you feel pressured.", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "That sounds like a stressful situation so it is natural to feel anxious. Are there any coping mechanisms you have tried that have helped in the past?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "I know when I am in a stressful it helps to take an occasional break to do some deep breathing exercises and meditation. Have you tried any of these techniques?", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "Yes, that sounds like a great idea. I think yoga can be very beneficial in managing stress.", "output": "Restatement or Paraphrasing" }, { "input": "I think it is important to remember to take care of yourself. That means eating right and exercising. I found from my own experience of going through a stressful situation that exercise was the best technique for managing stress.", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "I understand that there are days where it feels non stop and it can be hard to find the time. Excercising early in the morning is a great idea because it gets you off to a good start to the day. I like the idea of including friends too. That can be a great motivator.", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "Indeed it is hard to be perfect and no one is. It sounds as though you are very hard on yourself. From a practical standpoint, you could try talking about your grades with your professors and have a discussion about how to improve your grades. ", "output": "Reflection of feelings" }, { "input": "You're welcome. I know this is hard but you have got this.", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "Thank you. That is kind of you to say. I hope my suggestions help. Is there anything else you want to talk about?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "I am so glad to hear that. ", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "I hope you have a great day", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "What's wrong?\n", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "I understand. I, too, am struggling with COVID-19. It's going to be difficult not to see family during the holidays. We'll get through this, though, don't you think.", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "Have you spent time trying to communicate with friends and family online or by messaging and telephone?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "Maybe there is a way to find ways to have fun online with your friends and family. We actually played games together recently. Is that something you could do to reconnect?", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "Is there any way you could talk to your supervisor about achieving a better work life balance?", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "It sounds like that could make a big difference in changing things for you. You just need a better work/life balance to straighten things out.", "output": "Reflection of feelings" }, { "input": "I had a similar experience in the past, and talking with my manager about time off reinvigorated me.", "output": "Self-disclosure" }, { "input": "With COVID-19, it may limit your options, but you could decide which activities you would collectively enjoy the most, and try to do them as often as possible together.", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "Yes, giving them a helping hand, getting things done together, could greatly improve your home life.", "output": "Restatement or Paraphrasing" }, { "input": "Are you feeling any better since we started chatting?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "That's terrific to here. I'm happy you're feeling better.", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "hear* - sorry for the misspelling. :)", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "Anytime! It was nice meeting you. Bye-now.", "output": "Reflection of feelings" }, { "input": "How are you tonight?\n", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "So it's been more difficult for you to remain cheerful since the plandemic?\n", "output": "Restatement or Paraphrasing" }, { "input": "I actually have struggled with depression and anxiety most of my life so I can understand.", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "That doesn't sound helpful at all. \n", "output": "Restatement or Paraphrasing" }, { "input": "I have found a few things I do to keep myself from being to worried and depressed. They help a lot.\n", "output": "Self-disclosure" }, { "input": "True, many people do not understand depression. I actually have found it easier to find a person who DOES understand and not talk to those who don't. When I talk to those who don't, it brings me down, so I find a good friend I can confide in.\n", "output": "Self-disclosure" }, { "input": "I can understand being discouraged to and not knowing who will understand you. ", "output": "Reflection of feelings" }, { "input": "I find it important to take care of my physical being first: eat well, drink water, exercise, get fresh air. Don't wear the mask if you can help it. Seeing smiles helps.", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "I personally don't know anyone who has died and my nurse friends say it is no worse than the flu. So I try not to worry. What I think about is so critical. I try to pray about what I can't handle, then move on, change my thoughts.", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "Walking is GREAT! This is a lovely time of year too!", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "So to recap, find a good friend, get exercise, eat well, talk to people who will try to understand you. And of course, pray. The survival rate is 99.996% so the fact that you know no one who died is good news. I had flu like symptoms before this all happened and I still have a cough. They spray the skies too, so I try to not live in fear. There are a lot of consequences to fear, your heart beats faster, you stress yourself out, so it's important to not focus on negativity for too long.", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "Here is a good saying -- if you want to change your feelings, change your thinking. Feelings are like the tail on the dog, they follow thoughts. So keep your thoughts positive, cultivate an attitude of gratitude, even write a list of of things you are thankful for. ", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "I'm almost 60 and my husband is 66. We refuse to live in fear. These are difficult times, no doubt, but I believe if you take the time to pursue good healthy, you will be better for it, emotionally and mentally and physically. All around!\n", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "Well, I hope I have encouraged you. ", "output": "Self-disclosure" }, { "input": "So we are about the same age then! I encourage you to write down the strategy, while the ideas are simple, sometimes they are NOT easy! We must make a choice to do what is healthy! God bless you!\n", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "Have a good night!", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "Hi how are you?\n", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "How can I help?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "let's start with a few questions if that's ok. how long have you been feeling depressed?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "It's Ok to feel like this and depression affects many people. I think reaching out is the best first step and I'm sure you can improve this issue\n", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "have you spoken to any friends or family members about how you are feeling?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "has anything changed recently in your life that you think might be contributing to this feeling of depression that you are having?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "I'm sorry to hear that. my friend lost his job about 6 months ago and he was also feeling a similar way. I think this is to be expected when you have a sudden change in circumstances however this by no means undermines the seriousness of the issue", "output": "Self-disclosure" }, { "input": "that's great to hear. it sounds like if you address the issue that has made you depressed in the first place this will go a long way to making you feel better about things.", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "I haven't had this issue personally but a friend has. It is true that your job also forms an important part of your identity and when your job situation change is it have a big impact on your personal life and mental well-being.", "output": "Information" }, { "input": "it took him awhile but once you found new job that he enjoyed the depression went away.\n", "output": "Self-disclosure" }, { "input": "there are some support groups out there for depression so if you need to talk to someone about that would likely help too", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "You are very welcome. Thanks for reaching out", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "Hi there how can be of help?\n", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "I'm sorry to hear that. Have you been feeling this way for a while now or is this a recent issue?\n", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "Have you been feeling worse in terms of your depression over this time or has the intensity of your feelings stayed pretty much the same?", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "Ok so you have felt like this for a while and it is getting worse not better. The intensity of your feelings is getting stronger and you worry that this will continue to get worse.\n", "output": "Restatement or Paraphrasing" }, { "input": "Firstly, you are not alone in feeling this way. Many people struggle with depression and it's good that you have reached out for help for this.\n", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "There are many reasons people have depression. It is a recognised medical condition and the good news is that there is help out there. The first step is recognising the problem.\n", "output": "Information" }, { "input": "Have you spoken to friends and family about this? do they know how much you are struggling with it at the moment?\n", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "if people care about you then they will be happy to give you the time and listen to how you are feeling at the moment. I think it will be a really good move to speak to family or friends tell them how you are feeling and talk it through this might really help.", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "everyone has problems and it is good to talk about them because a problem shared is a problem halved. It doesn't mean the problems will go away but it might help you understand them and then be able to deal with them better.", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "I also think that it will be worse to get in touch with your doctor or a medical professional. these people are trained to deal with problems like yours and will be able to offer effective Solutions from a medical perspective.\n", "output": "Information" }, { "input": "are you worried that speaking to a doctor will lead to you being given medication, and you don't want this?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "I know that some forms of depression are caused by an imbalance of chemicals in the brain and medication in these cases can help. Also psychologists can support with mental health which means that this would not be a rude day involves any medication at all potentially", "output": "Information" }, { "input": "apologies this was a typo by autocorrect. I meant to say that this would not be a route that involves any medication at all potentially", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "That's great. I think the first step is always the hardest but you come across as someone that is willing to seek help and I believe that if you face into this you can overcome it witht he right support.\n", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "You're welcome.\n", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "Hey, how are you?", "output": "Restatement or Paraphrasing" }, { "input": "Maybe I can be of assistance? What is troubling you? ", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "I see, maybe we can find a solution?", "output": "Restatement or Paraphrasing" }, { "input": "Is it important as in do you really need it, if not. Can you return it?", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "I see, so you have to pay it. I suggest making a plan of action, trying to pay at least the minimal balance, and try work out a saving plan to pay it off. ", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "Okay, can you reduce any expenses? Maybe a subscription?", "output": "Information" }, { "input": "If you have more free time, you can spend it on Amazon Mturk? It is a good way to earn extra money.", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "Aren't you an Amazon Mturk worker? ", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "Oh I see, I was only suggesting an avenue that can help you pay off you debt. I can reword it.", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "Maybe you can find work online doing surveys or freelance work. ", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "Hi there how can I help you today?\n", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "Have you been feeling this way for a while or is it a surprise change?\n", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "So you have felt for a while that things aren't right in your relationship and you don't know how to end the relationship without hurting your girlfriend's feelings?\n", "output": "Restatement or Paraphrasing" }, { "input": "I can tell that you are a nice person that cares for your girlfriend and you want the best for her. I think you want to be honest with her which is a good sign of maturity and integrity.\n", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "Unfortunately this may be upsetting in the short term. I had a friend who had a similar issue. He wanted to end things with his girlfriend and they ended up having an honest conversation, which was upsetting at the time but they are still friends to this day and parted on good terms.\n", "output": "Self-disclosure" }, { "input": "I think the best thing to do would just be honest about your feelings and start the conversation with her. I think you could also consider when is the right time to do this so that you minimise the affect that this may have on her.\n", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "People who have a negative experience at a key point in their lives, such as a birthday of Christmas, tend to remember that bad experience the following year. I mean choose an appropriate time to have the discussion.", "output": "Information" }, { "input": "Yes when she is available to have a good talk about this. Do you have my friends that you can talk to about this?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "I think it's best to be honest and if it comes from the heart then you can at least say you have been honest with yourself and your girlfriend.", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "I think you can do this and have confidence that you will do it in the right way. These things are not easy but I know you can ride to the challenge and do this tactfully and with care.\n", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "You are very welcome.\n", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "Take care", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "Hi there\n", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "Apologies,I have had issues with my connection which should now be resolved. How can I help you today\n\n", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "So you need to find 100, have limited time to do this and this is causing you anxiety as a result?", "output": "Restatement or Paraphrasing" }, { "input": "Ok, I can tell you are really worried about this and want to find a way to remove the pressure from this situation\n", "output": "Reflection of feelings" }, { "input": "Do you have any friends or family that you can speak to about this? If they were aware of this issue and how much it is affecting you, they may be able to support", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "Have you tried contacting the credit card company and explaining your situation?", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "that seems excessive. I had a similar situation happened myself once and what I did was transfer the balance of one of my cards onto another.\n", "output": "Self-disclosure" }, { "input": "do you think the credit card company has acted irresponsibly? \n", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "even so you may be able to refer this situation for review to a financial regulator.", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "You can review your rights online as a consumer to see if you are offered any protection under law or legislation.", "output": "Information" }, { "input": "I'm confident that you can handle this and have every faith that you will reach a resolution", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "Your welcome\n", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "Hello, how are you?\n", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "I hear that they don't understand, can you explain further", "output": "Restatement or Paraphrasing" }, { "input": "Can you tell me more?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "There are a lot of people who are struggling and it is clearly a very upsetting time for you. ", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "Have you considered whether your colleagues are simply hiding their worry? Have you tried talking to them?", "output": "Reflection of feelings" }, { "input": "That is extremely compassionate of you. ", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "There is a lot of concern about, are your work following guidelines?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "I am also in this situation at work, I have used breathing methods to calm myself down which worked, have you tried anything like this?", "output": "Self-disclosure" }, { "input": "So you are frustrated because others are not using masks, have I got that right?", "output": "Restatement or Paraphrasing" }, { "input": "Just from talking to you, I can feel how anxious you are and this is made worse by your colleagues, perhaps they are struggling in different ways with this.", "output": "Reflection of feelings" }, { "input": "There are guidelines on how work places should be handling the COVID issue. Has your manager gone through any guidelines with the team?", "output": "Information" }, { "input": "That seems like a really good time to go through how you feel. Writing how you feel down can help to ensure that you get your feelings across. Do you think that is something you could do?", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "I am glad this is something that can work for you, it is something that could help in different ways. ", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "Do you have any other worries at this time or want to explore this any further?", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "It has been lovely talking to you.", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "I believe you press quit", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "Hi there, how can I help you today?\n", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "Is this a close friend of yours that you would normally speak to every day or see on a regular basis?\n", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "Ok so you have are close friend, who you used to engage with regularly and now you are worried because when you try and contact them, they aren't responding.", "output": "Restatement or Paraphrasing" }, { "input": "I can tell that you feel a lot for your friend and it shows that you care about lot about them. \n", "output": "Reflection of feelings" }, { "input": "Ok, I understand. Have you tried reaching out to their family members as they may have a loser handle on how this person is feeling at the moment?", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "You could try reaching out to friends on Facebook or social media, you can find contact details for them that way and perhaps send them a direct message. You are a concerned friend which means they probably wouldn't mind if you did get in touch.\n", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "I had a friend once that was acting out of character. They weren't quiet but I could tell them here was something different in the way they were acting etc. It turns out that they had started a new relationship with another friend of mine and didn't want anyone else to know. In reality everything was fine. There was an explainable reason behind the behaviour and it was nothing bad in the end.\n \n", "output": "Self-disclosure" }, { "input": "That is true. Mental health issues have increased significantly since lockdowns began", "output": "Information" }, { "input": "As they are not responding to your attempts to get in touch, you could think has anything else changed for them other than lockdown, for example are they busier at work? have childcare commitments? Life is complicated, they may not have the time for legitimate reasons.\n", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "You mentioned that other friends were also concerned about them, have you tried talking to them about setting up a video call with a group. This might appeal to your friend and they may see this as a fun activity to get involved in.", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "No problem happy to help. ", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "Hi, how can I help you?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "What's the problem?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "Why do you think you are the next round? Do you know how did they choose them?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "I know, this year was stressful for everyone in our planet, so you are not alone", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "What's the worst scenario do you think will happen?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "Did you try searching for new jobs?", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "Hmmmm, First of all stop being panicked, You still have your job\n", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "The good thing is you anticipate losing your job, so you have the advantage here", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "You can prepare yourself for that! yes, as simple as this", "output": "Information" }, { "input": "Search for new jobs, get help from your wife and friends", "output": "Information" }, { "input": "Search locally and online, If you try enough you will see the results soon", "output": "Information" }, { "input": "Help in searching for jobs and supporting you emotionally", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "Let me be straight ok? you somehow don't have any other options but searching", "output": "Information" }, { "input": "You can do it! who knows! maybe you will get a better job ", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "Look at this situation as an opportunity, you still have your job and you can search for even a better job", "output": "Information" }, { "input": "Don't get disappointed, put effort, seek new methods for searching, research online", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "Ask around locally, maybe there is an organization locally for support in this pandemic situation", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "I hope I could help a little", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "Hello, how are you today?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "I know how you feel, I have often felt anxiety before a job interview. ", "output": "Self-disclosure" }, { "input": "What makes you feel that you are unprepared?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "Is it possible that you could get a friend or family member to work with you on your responses? That could possibly speed up your preparation time.", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "I can see that you are feeling a large amount of stress about the situation.", "output": "Reflection of feelings" }, { "input": "Would it be possible to take one or more days off from work to give yourself more time?", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "Yes, I have had to deal with time pressures quite a few times. I am sure most people have in the modern era where everything moves so fast. I have usually gotten help from friends, or done my best to delay or remove other commitments from my life. As a last resort, I have sometimes had to accept that I would be getting less sleep than usual for a few days. ", "output": "Self-disclosure" }, { "input": "Are there any other commitments that you can possibly delay or remove from your life while you prepare for your job interview?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "That seems like a good idea, unless that will be likely to cause you other problems. You seem like a hard working, diligent type of person that can make this work if you make the effort.", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "Well, everyone handles stressful situations differently, but there are some things you can do or try that might help. If you prepare as much as possible in the time that you have, you can be confident that you have done your best, and that is all that matters. You can decide that while you would like to get this new job, the world will not end if you don't get it, and you will worry less and have less stress. Also there is the classic technique of picturing your interviewer in their underwear. It makes them seem less imposing, and you can feel more confident.", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "Do you think any of these ideas might help?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "Be confident in your abilities. You are the right person for the job, and if the interviewer does not see that, it is their failing, not yours. You will do great.", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "Excellent. I am very happy to hear that. Is there anything else I can help you with today?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "You are quite welcome. It was a pleasure speaking with you. Have a great day.", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "Hello there, how are you feeling? \n", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "So, you are having trouble dealing with someone? \n", "output": "Restatement or Paraphrasing" }, { "input": "If he says he trusts you I am sure that he does. He would not have asked you to work with him if he did not. ", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "That must be incredibly confusing for you. How does this make you feel overall? \n", "output": "Reflection of feelings" }, { "input": "How does this relate to him asking you to be on the board with him? ", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "It is okay to feel confused and perhaps even angry about this. Have you considered talking to him and asking him straight out what his intentions are? ", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "I realise that this must be difficult but isn't it best to get things out into the open? ", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "I think it might be best for you to make a clean break. It sounds like you are being manipulated. ", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "Certainly you would be. I know that it is hard but you will feel better in the long run. ", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "You need to be aware that that can and will happen. Ignore it. What sort of benefits do you feel that there are? \n", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "In what way does it do that? ", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "Do you feel that perhaps you might be using him just a little bit? ", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "Let me get this straight - you do have feelings for him but you are confused and you think that there's an element of mutual manipulation.", "output": "Reflection of feelings" }, { "input": "You are definitely not the only person to feel this way! ", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "I feel that you are paying too much attention to your position on the board. ", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "But that is rather manipulative of you. ", "output": "Reflection of feelings" }, { "input": "Yes I definitely would do that. ", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "I think it's time for a clear severance. Do you have any other people you are interested in? Any hobbies? ", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "Ah I hear you. You feel that your options are rather more limited than previously because of the lockdown? ", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "That is something I believe that most of us are feeling right now so I sympathise. ", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "I can tell that you really have deep reservations and know deep down that this is not a healthy place for you to be ", "output": "Reflection of feelings" }, { "input": "Is he aware that this happened? ", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "Do you feel guilty about this? ", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "Do you feel that you want to get revenge on him? ", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "I am not sure what to say that will help your problem and give you closure.", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "I hope so and I really do hope for the best for you. These are difficult times for all of us! ", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "Hi there. How are you doing today?", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "Yes, I know! It's supposed to snow this week where I am. So, I understand you are in need of someone to talk to. What's going on.", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "Ah, so if I understand you correctly, your interest rate has increased, so you need to find another job to pay it off?", "output": "Restatement or Paraphrasing" }, { "input": "I'm sorry to hear that. Are you feeling stressed out about it?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "I understand exactly how you feel. When I finished school, I wanted to pay off my student loans as soon as possible.", "output": "Self-disclosure" }, { "input": "I'm glad to hear that you are not too stressed about it though.", "output": "Reflection of feelings" }, { "input": "I heard about Biden's plans as well! Luckily, I paid all of my debts already but I think it will be great for other people.", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "Perhaps if you are unable to find another job to reduce the principal, you could try setting aside a certain amount of money each month to put towards the amount owed?", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "It's just a thought. Alternatively, I'm not sure if you typically get money for birthdays and the winter holidays, but you could commit some of that amount towards your principal amount.", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "I understand that also. There needs to be some sort of balance.", "output": "Reflection of feelings" }, { "input": "However, it sounds like you are a smart person and will make sure to pay off the amount responsibly. Everything will be okay!", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "Sounds like you've learned an important lesson from this, and will work towards responsibly paying it off. I have faith in you!", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "Just find the right balance between pleasure and responsibility and you will be just fine!", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "Are you feeling a bit better now after chatting?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "You too!\n", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "Let me see if I understand you correctly, you no longer want to be friends because her boyfriend is a drug addict and a thief?", "output": "Restatement or Paraphrasing" }, { "input": "i can understand and i have had to do the same thing. ", "output": "Self-disclosure" }, { "input": "I think you have to do what keeps you safe and healthy. you can tell her you are here for her, but that you will not watch her destroy her life/", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "so your plan is to keep your distance, your friend will eventually see him for who he is.", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "I would suggest joining a group like Al-Anon. It will be goof for you to talk to others in this situation.", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "It is difficult for others to understand unless they are in the situation. ", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "I mean Non-Anon -it is a 12 step program for loved ones of addicts.", "output": "Information" }, { "input": "Is there anything else I can help you with?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "okay ", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "Great, it was nice talking to you.", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "Bye", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "Hey, how are you today?", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "I completely understand what you are going though, indeed it is tough times.", "output": "Restatement or Paraphrasing" }, { "input": "So tell me, what are you going through your mind regarding the pandemic and the second wave?", "output": "Restatement or Paraphrasing" }, { "input": "Yes I understand, I'm from the east coast and I'm deeply concern about the raising cases and the lockdown. ", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "I think those who are aware of the situation should follow the rules and be aware. We really can't change the situation because it human nature. ", "output": "Reflection of feelings" }, { "input": "However, we shouldn't let it affect us physically, spiritually and most importantly mentally. We need stay relax and be aware of whats going on and believe that by following the rules we are doing our part in reducing the speard.", "output": "Self-disclosure" }, { "input": "Every night, I give myself an hour to unwind and relax. Things like, enjoying a movie, snack, drink or even favorite candle helps a lot. \n", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "Exactly, keep calm and relax. Avoid any negative vibes. Aim is to distress yourself. ", "output": "Information" }, { "input": "I'm on the same boat. Build yourself a well structure schedule and aim to follow it. Trust me if accomplish 90% of it, that one hour me time will feel even better. ", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "Any improvement is still improvement!", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "No problem! Don't stress and just work on improving yourself!", "output": "Reflection of feelings" }, { "input": "That must be hard to not be with friends so much. Being social is human.", "output": "Restatement or Paraphrasing" }, { "input": "Have you tried calling them to express your concerns?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "It sounds like you are trying. Have you expressed to them why you feel the way you do?", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "That can be hard when there are different viewpoints on such a big issue.", "output": "Reflection of feelings" }, { "input": "Do you think that having a friend intervene and having a third party help out could help?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "That sounds like a great idea.", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "It sounds like you are thinking of alternate paths to work through the friendship. Your friend will appreciate all the efforts you are making to show you care.", "output": "Reflection of feelings" }, { "input": "Do you think your friends would like a card?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "My mother-in-law often sends cards for each holiday because she can't leave her home due to illness. I know deep down she cares even though she is not in person.", "output": "Self-disclosure" }, { "input": "Sometimes patience can make the difference in a relationship. Do you feel like you have any other concerns?", "output": "Reflection of feelings" }, { "input": "I'm happy to hear that. Keep positive as you are trying hard to go down the right path and your friends will appreciate that.", "output": "Reflection of feelings" }, { "input": "hello! it's nice to meet you", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "What would you like to talk about today?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "What is making you feel ashamed?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "it seems that you feel ashamed because you are feeling messy? is this correct?", "output": "Restatement or Paraphrasing" }, { "input": "When did this begin?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "What do you feel like brought you into this situation?", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "Hi there, How are you doing today?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "Would you like to go into the reasons for why you are angry?", "output": "Restatement or Paraphrasing" }, { "input": "Do they act this way often?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "Well, everyone, including yourself, is entitled to an off day. Maybe something is going on with her she doesnt want to share. Or possibly even she is trying to share but doesnt know how.", "output": "Information" }, { "input": "Perhaps try to reach out and see if anything is wrong.", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "I would remember though, its ok for people to want to be left alone though if things are bad, sometimes they just need their space.", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "I would just say something along the lines of: Hey, youre not acting like yourself today, anything you want to talk about?", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "I would see if there is anything you can do to help, if not just try and be as supportive as you can.", "output": "Information" }, { "input": "Well, youre own health and well being does come first. If you feel it wont get anywhere, give her some space and come back to it at another date if you think you both would be comfortable with it.", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "That sounds like a solid plan.", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "I am glad i could help!", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "Yeah, everyone including me, forgets that each individual has their own sets of things going on each day. Always good to look at it through their eyes a bit.", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "It definitely is. I guess thats what makes us human though.", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "Take care!", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "sure, what seems to be the problem", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "I had the same issue with my friends as well", "output": "Self-disclosure" }, { "input": "We stopped getting together and going out places cause they were all closed", "output": "Self-disclosure" }, { "input": "We now have weekly video call meetings instead, it helps us stay connected", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "Not at all, we use a program called Skype, that's free. You can use it on your phone or PC", "output": "Information" }, { "input": "Pick a time you'll both be available, and you'll both need the program. It's quite easy to use and there will be youtube videos that'll help you set it up, should you need it", "output": "Information" }, { "input": "We usually just chat about our week or get advice on normal things, sometimes we'll play a drinking game and be goofy together. ", "output": "Self-disclosure" }, { "input": "Drinking isn't a requirement, usually we'll just chat if we don't feel like drinking", "output": "Self-disclosure" }, { "input": "I can understand that and it's definitely frustrating. But it'll be so much better once you can see other other again, cause absence makes the heart grow fonder", "output": "Reflection of feelings" }, { "input": "Yes, I always like to look for the positive in any given situation", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "Hello, how are you?", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "That's good.", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "What is bothering you?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "That is rough. The unemployment system has been very slow during COVID, so I completely understand your frustration and worry. I am glad to hear that you are doing door dash, even if you aren't making a lot that is still something!", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "I completely understand. I also wish mturk paid more, I feel like it takes a lot of time for not that much money.", "output": "Self-disclosure" }, { "input": "Do you have a roommate, friend, or family member's car you could possibly borrow instead of using your own?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "I understand. ", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "Are you still looking for and applying for jobs?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "Yes I am still here.", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "When I started working from home I did a lot of research on different types of jobs that I could do from home. There are a lot of work options that are not necessarily well known, in my opinion, for online work.", "output": "Self-disclosure" }, { "input": "If you worked in audio I know that some places, like Upwork and ACX (which does some audiobook work) are looking for audio editing. I am sure that other places are looking for audio editing. I think Fiverr may also be a good place to advertise audio work.", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "I also have an Etsy and Ebay shop, you could possibly sell some of your carpentry work on there if that is possible. Ebay is free to list and Etsy has a small listing fee.", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "You're welcome! I hope I was somewhat helpful.", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "Would you care to elaborate about what you're feeling sad about?\n", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "I am sorry to hear that, that sounds difficult.", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "How have you been coping?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "That can be really hard, have you been able to talk to anyone about it?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "Do you find that to be helpful?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "That's good, it's great to have a good support system. ", "output": "Restatement or Paraphrasing" }, { "input": "I can imagine that's difficult, that would be a lot of close time together. ", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "Have you been able to socialize with friends or colleagues?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "That's understandable about the coworkers. Going out sounds like would be beneficial, just to at least spend some time with people who care about you.", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "Have you been able to engage in any other activities that help you cope/take your mid=nd off things?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "Is there anything else I can help you with?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "I would lean on my friends, family, and others for support such as a therapist (they're good for unbiased talking), I would also focus on hobbies and things that make me feel better. Most importantly be kind to yourself and allow your self to grieve. ", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "That would be up to you, there's no timeline it's when you feel most comforable", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "There's no timeline on being able to date", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "Everyone has their own timeline, some of my friends have married in their late 40s and older", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "You have to do what's right for you", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "Have a good time with your friends.", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "Hi there, how are you doing", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "Depending on where you are, it might be. May i ask why you are so tired?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "Hello i am sorry for the delay", "output": "Information" }, { "input": "Is there anything going on to make you so tired?", "output": "Restatement or Paraphrasing" }, { "input": "Have you gone to a doctor yet and asked for more information about this?", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "Oh i am sorry to hear that, are you doing anything now as treatment?", "output": "Restatement or Paraphrasing" }, { "input": "Have you tried just talking to a therapist?", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "Sometimes it can be as simple as not connecting with the right therapist. They are there to support you and if you dont feel the connection its ok to move on to another. Maybe its time to look again?", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "Well, your husband does not control you. You are in control of yourself. It is not his mind and body its set to help. Its yours.", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "I think that might be an issue you need to deal with first. That is not an ok situation to be in.", "output": "Information" }, { "input": "There are many organizations that can help you get out of an abusive relationship.", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "I really hope that you try to reach out to someone for help. Do not let him control your life. I hope you can get some rest.", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "Oh i know, thats why you need to branch out and find professionals. I know you can. ", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "You as well, thank you for sharing.", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "Hi, How are you today?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "I'm sorry to hear that school is so stressful.", "output": "Restatement or Paraphrasing" }, { "input": "That is really hard but I think you can be successful.", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "It sounds like you are overwhelmed and want to come up with a plan to move forward.", "output": "Reflection of feelings" }, { "input": "When I was in school, we started study groups. They were so helpful and encouraging to each other. Are there any study groups available?", "output": "Self-disclosure" }, { "input": "I see that COVID-19 really changes the way we do things. Is it possible to do a zoom study group or Facetime with friends?", "output": "Restatement or Paraphrasing" }, { "input": "Do you have other concerns?\n", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "I can see from chatting with you that this is a major stressor for anyone to undertake. ", "output": "Reflection of feelings" }, { "input": "I can see where that is a stressor. I had to repeat a class once and pay for the housing, classes, and financial aspects. But, I did pass the next time and was able to make a difference in peoples' lives with my career. Sometimes the stressors and challenges are part of the end goal which is even bigger to humanity.", "output": "Self-disclosure" }, { "input": "Keep pressing forward and work toward your dreams because you can do it. Just the way you contemplate things so much, I can tell that you really care and will make a difference to the world.", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "You are very welcome. ", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "That sounds like a great plan to start studying with friends.", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "Good afternoon! How are you feeling today?\n", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "I know how stressful that can be! I think if we put our heads together we should be able to figure out a plan", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "Did you work before?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "Ok so did you get laid off due to Covid or did you quit or general what happened\n", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "It appears you can read my mind. Before I even get a chance you already answer it.. LOL", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "OK so do you have any other experience or all food industry?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "Due to Covid it is very SCARY and real health concern. In my area some places are hiring but still scary\n", "output": "Information" }, { "input": "Well how about getting paid to do surveys in your home and you can do your hours as you want?", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "Or at least until you can find something to temporarily give you some money. Also what about unemployment?", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "I was going to suggest that and also do you know how to add chrome extensions?", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "Search google maybe for unemployment in your county or call unemployment office\n", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "Chrome extensions are extension you can download onto chrome browser. Like I am using Chrome. Do you know what you are using?", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "Thank God for youtube you can search for almost anything. I am not kidding . Anyways there is this add on I just discovered called turk guru made to go with mturk", "output": "Self-disclosure" }, { "input": "It is free for two weeks than subscription but I doubled my money in the two weeks. It helps to accept hits faster than they come thru so you get to get some high paying one\n", "output": "Self-disclosure" }, { "input": "and its .33 day and anyone can do that in a day to help pay for it. 3 years and 2months with turk guru\n", "output": "Self-disclosure" }, { "input": "wow thats more than I make maybe I should be taking guidance from you\n", "output": "Self-disclosure" }, { "input": "lol", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "I can understand how stressful that can be. I have two boys and two dogs okay and two fish. ", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "It was better when we could request payment daily now soonest is 3 days and I ll tell you what . It has saved us a few times even though it was like $30 it was enough to hold us to payday fri", "output": "Information" }, { "input": "I think saltwater I dont know we had few years and there fish. Sorry. LOL I didnt pay attention. Sometimes just laughing helps . Laughter makes you young and happy", "output": "Self-disclosure" }, { "input": "Please give me a moment.. I have to do something quick. BRB", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "Sorry boys fighting roblox . LOl. I don't think you are supposed to say that in chat.. FYI. Nor are we probably allowed to talk about mturk. ", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "I am glad I could help and truthfully you never know where and when God will send you to get a little help encouragement or Big help. No offense / I believe in God and did way before Covid. Good luck and I spoke complete Truth", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "my 7 yr old is OBSESSED with roblox . LIves breathes talk drive me nuts and screams to his 9 year old brother who is sitting in chair in same room livingj rooom", "output": "Self-disclosure" }, { "input": "\nWhy do you feel that way?\n", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "You seem really concerned about gun rights. Does that sound possible? ", "output": "Restatement or Paraphrasing" }, { "input": "Thank you for your service. I can understand how that might be a difficult situation for you, especially with your experiences. How are you handling this situation?", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "You are welcome. That is really kind of you to want to protect your children from harm. It seems like you feel the best way to do this is through owning guns? Have you thought of any alternatives, since the votes have been cast?", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "That is a good point you bring up about the quickness and efficiency of protection that guns can provide. ", "output": "Restatement or Paraphrasing" }, { "input": "How you thought of any other alternatives that could help your family, regarding the process of obtaining guns during a Biden presidency?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "Definitely! My first step would be understanding the gun policy that Biden would have and confirming the new process. Does that sound like something that could be a good starting point?", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "I think you are just being careful and protective of your family. That is very honorable of a veteran like yourself.", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "Yes, that sounds like the case. Are there any practices that have helped you when you're worried?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "Don't be embarrassed! To be honest, I have had experiences with some of those, including deep breathing. I also find it helpful. ", "output": "Self-disclosure" }, { "input": "Of course! I am glad to share and help :)", "output": "Self-disclosure" }, { "input": "Yes it was nice. I hope you have a great holiday season as well! ", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "Hello there, how are you doing today?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "Im doing fine thanks, Whats going on for you to be feeling that way?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "First i am sorry for your loss, Grief affects all in different ways. My father died last year but i still feel him everyday.", "output": "Self-disclosure" }, { "input": "What i have done when feeling down, Is to try to remember a time we were happy together.", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "Yeah i get that, something will happen with my kid and i think, man dad would love to hear that. What i take from that is happiness knowing that i had him there before, knowing that he was there for me.", "output": "Information" }, { "input": "Try to take comfort in the fact that she was your go to, She was there for you but she was also trying to make you a better person.", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "Oh i can see how that is really frustrating, especially right now. Maybe reach out online to some groups, or if you really feel the need to talk on a deeper level, a local therapist?", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "Well you seem to recognize that it wont last forever which is great. Everyone should know that sometimes its is ok to just be sad. Seems like you do, which is great!", "output": "Reflection of feelings" }, { "input": "Maybe you should treat yourself to something. Favorite dinner or dessert. Cozy up with a good book. Just try to lighten your spirits, or distract yourself.", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "Yea feels like weve all been stuck in our rooms for ever. Have you tried any virtual meet ups?", "output": "Information" }, { "input": "Well thats good. Always good to stay connect.", "output": "Restatement or Paraphrasing" }, { "input": "Not a problem, i enjoyed our chat. I hope you take care!", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "Thanks!", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "Hi, how are you today?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "i am sorry to hear that, would you like to talk about what is bothering you?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "It sounds like your feelings are hurt over a misunderstanding you had with a friend is this correct?", "output": "Restatement or Paraphrasing" }, { "input": "I see i am sorry that it has you feeling down, did you try to talk with your friend to see if you could resolve your feelings?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "maybe you could send him a message on social media and let him know the argument has your feelings hurt and you would like to try to talk about it when he has time", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "how long have you been friends with him?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "oh yea that can make things difficult, but i think if you keep reaching out you may could talk this over.", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "Did you try to explain to him that his thoughts were not true?", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "I would start off by telling him that you were sorry that he had those thoughts but there is no truth to it and the fact that he does not trust you enough to know that is hurtful to you and her.", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "If that does not work then you might need to take some time to reflect and figure out if that is a friendship worth trying to save, you may find yourself better off without a friend who shows no trust in you.", "output": "Reflection of feelings" }, { "input": "I would continue trying to reach out to him and until you can get in touch with him maybe find some thing to do to occupy your mind as to where it does not bother you so much.", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "do you have any hobbies?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "maybe go play some football to get your mind off of it", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "from chatting with you seem like a nice person, try not to let it get you down.", "output": "Reflection of feelings" }, { "input": "i am glad i could be of some help!", "output": "Reflection of feelings" }, { "input": "you are welcome", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "bye", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "Hello, you there?\n", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "Good! How are you today?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "You feel left out out. Is that what you're saying?", "output": "Restatement or Paraphrasing" }, { "input": "I see and there was a time I felt lost or not needed too. What is it you would like to do with your life?", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "The best way to begin to solve a problem is recognizing there's a problem in the first place. Give yourself some credit because recognize there is a problem. Do you have friends who are mothers too and who are having some of the same issues as yourself?", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "I see. You know if you get a mirror and look in it you'll see you are a natural leader. Here's the proof; You realized there's a problem. 2. You reached out for help. 3. You are aware of issues that are bigger than yourself. those are qualities of a leader. Have you thought about starting an online support group for parents? You would be good at it I bet.\n", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "That's understandable. Most parents feel like you do so you're not alone. When I feel closed off I write. I make up stories where I'm always the heroe. Don't laugh. I always overcome some issue. I also write letters just to get out what I'm feeling. It helps and you should try it. Start a diary or write letters to your son so you can share them with him one . Are these activities you might like to try?", "output": "Reflection of feelings" }, { "input": "Friend are you still there? Hello?", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "Awww look at you. You got me smiling over here. I bet you will write some fantastic letters especially since you and your son are best friends. Good luck and call us and let us know how it's going okay? If that doesn't work together we'll come with something else. Remember there is nothing you can't overcome. You Got This! Good luck.", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "No problem. You made my day. Take care. See ya.", "output": "Information" }, { "input": "Good day, how are you doing?\n", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "Sorry to hear that. I absolutely understand, it's been hard on most people having to deal with the current state of affairs and losing people. ", "output": "Reflection of feelings" }, { "input": "Do you think things will improve?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "I agree. I lost a teacher some time ago and I've been thinking a lot about when things might improve. A year seems plausible. ", "output": "Self-disclosure" }, { "input": "Since it's so hard, are there things you think you can do to cheer yourself up?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "Sorry to hear that. It is really tough being restricted to not travelling.", "output": "Restatement or Paraphrasing" }, { "input": "I call my parents (around your age) about once a week.", "output": "Self-disclosure" }, { "input": "Do you have family you can talk to?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "Have you considered volunteering? I ask because my neighbor bakes for the local food bank and it helps her.", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "That is reasonable. And it sounds like you are doing all you can.", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "Could you teach from home online and keep yourself safe? Or perhaps provide your son financial support?", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "You are doing everything you can. Some things are just beyond our control.", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "And we are all struggling, so please know you are not alone in your feelings.", "output": "Reflection of feelings" }, { "input": "I couldn't agree more. We will get through this with each others help.", "output": "Reflection of feelings" }, { "input": "You too, have a wonderful day and know you are in my thoughts.", "output": "Self-disclosure" }, { "input": "Hi there. \n", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "yes, Thank you. and i hope you are doing well as well", "output": "Self-disclosure" }, { "input": "i surely understand you. this pandemic has been really stressful. ", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "yeah, people are not social distancing enough. ", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "but wearing a mask and then using sanitizer should at least give us a bit of a confidence\n", "output": "Self-disclosure" }, { "input": "at least now i hope the city will put in more restrictions and mandate mask wearing.", "output": "Reflection of feelings" }, { "input": "have you tried reaching out to mayor's office to see if there is any way you could request for more restrictions. most of the cities do have a hotline or a channel for residents to give suggestions or request something", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "hmm, that's a bummer.", "output": "Reflection of feelings" }, { "input": "okay\n", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "that's great. having a supportive friend/family is so much a blessing during this pandemic", "output": "Reflection of feelings" }, { "input": "yeah, i can understand. ", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "do you have any hobbies or interests that you can work on to help you put your mind away for sometime?", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "there are a good number of online forums for most of the hobbies/interests.. that'll help you share your work and also get some additional ideas", "output": "Information" }, { "input": "putting away my phone has helped me a lot. also, i have designed a daily routine to include more of the tasks that i like", "output": "Information" }, { "input": "yeah, try to start learning a new musical instrument of your choice. maybe just 30-60 mins everyday.", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "nice", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "social media and then this relentless flow of covid news/info is also stressful", "output": "Self-disclosure" }, { "input": "yepp. i read a book - 'atomic habits'. and kind of designed a daily routine. this helping me a lot and reducing stress as well. ", "output": "Self-disclosure" }, { "input": "and also try and note down things that stress or upset you. and then over a period try to avoid those triggers. ", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "yepp. and if you try to remove or avoid those triggers, it will really help", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "sure no problem. hope you get through this and also be able to successfully complete your school courses ", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "you are welcome. stay safe and be happy :) ", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "Hi how are you today", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "I am so sorry to hear that you want to tell me what happened?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "oh no that is terrible, are you able to support yourself financially without him?\n", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "That is cruel, I am sure you are in shock, to leave without an explanation, or a real one is terrible. So you have no contact withim what so ever?", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "Maybe that is not all bad, gives him time to think and you too. And if he regrets what he did he will return. But then you would have to make a decission, if you would want him back. ", "output": "Reflection of feelings" }, { "input": "Well I am sure it sucks and feels a bit lonely. But if you dont want him back have a glass of wine and celebrate the you, you deserve the best and nothing less.", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "I believe it is hard to home is all of a sudden much more quiet, maybe invite a friend over? I am sorry you are going through this.", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "They are fun to have LOL, now that is the spirit go to the shelter and safe one of those poor souls. And you can pet it and it is happy to see you any time,\n", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "Sometimes it just is, but out of all the bad things something good comes out of it you might not just see it now", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "Take care of yourself", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "Bye, you need to close the conversation please\n", "output": "Information" }, { "input": "hi\n", "output": "Reflection of feelings" }, { "input": "why what is your problem?", "output": "Reflection of feelings" }, { "input": "just change your mind", "output": "Reflection of feelings" }, { "input": "try it keep them", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "just go out with girls and do partying you will feel relax for sure. when being relaxed you wont feel negative\n", "output": "Reflection of feelings" }, { "input": "just try to coming out\ndon't shiver and dont feel useless", "output": "Reflection of feelings" }, { "input": "this is what your problem based on ", "output": "Reflection of feelings" }, { "input": "why are you thinking yourself like that?", "output": "Self-disclosure" }, { "input": "you are the bet solution", "output": "Reflection of feelings" }, { "input": "Thank you . so happy", "output": "Reflection of feelings" }, { "input": "Hello, what can I help you with this evening? ", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "Depression is extremely rough to deal with, I'm very sorry to hear you're going through that. ", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "Oh yes, less light during the day makes the days seem compacted and suffocating", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "I believe there are special lamps that you could get to help. I personally have been trying to get up a little earlier in the morning and enjoy my coffee with the sunrise and a scroll through Instagram", "output": "Self-disclosure" }, { "input": "I also already have to schedule and routinize my day because I work and go to school from home, so I make sure to give myself breaks where I literally must get up and leave my desk, be in another room for a little while. ", "output": "Self-disclosure" }, { "input": "Sure, that's understandable. There are opportunities throughout the day to get a little more vitamin D, you just have to make sure to give yourself time to enjoy them. ", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "Now that is intractable", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "Sometimes, to me, the enormity of the universe is calming to my anxiety. Being assured that I mean absolutely nothing is nice sometimes. ", "output": "Self-disclosure" }, { "input": "Not in a scary, better-off-dead kind of way, but in the way that a galaxy is a slow moving explosion. I'm a flea to the universe.", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "... then you have to wonder, what are fleas thinking?! ", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "God, tell me more, lol", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "Galaxies gonna spiral.", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "Yeah they have kicked the can down to local governments, local governments kick the can down to the citizens. It's absurd. No on wants to take responsibility for taking responsibility. ", "output": "Reflection of feelings" }, { "input": "It's a very uncertain situation and it's a psychological reality that when we don't have physical or metnal security, it's extremely hard for a human being to progress through stages in life or learn new skill as well or at all", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "So everyone's plans are canceled for the year, plus no one has any idea when the shit's going to end, so not unlike a dog at the vet, the suffering seems interminable. ", "output": "Reflection of feelings" }, { "input": "Of course, have a great evening!", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "How are you doing today?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "I see you aren't feeling so well. What seems to be going on?", "output": "Restatement or Paraphrasing" }, { "input": "I'm sorry to hear that you are experiencing a breakup. That's really hard.", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "Just from chatting with you, I can see how anxious you are in trying to get a path forward.. ", "output": "Reflection of feelings" }, { "input": "That's really hard, but there are supports out there.", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "There are counselors out there to help with relationships.", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "Do you have any family supports?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "It sounds like your sister could be a great support being that she has had a similar situation.", "output": "Restatement or Paraphrasing" }, { "input": "Family can often be a strength for support.", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "Yes, family can be a great support. I am glad you are starting to move forward with a plan.", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "Thank you for chatting and I wish you well.", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "Hello, how can i support you tonight?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "School can be very demanding. What has you stressed?", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "All nighters can be rough. Do you have snacks and caffeine?", "output": "Information" }, { "input": "You can master it within in a month, you are already getting a head start", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "Yes the pandemic has created a lot of challenges for routines and schedules", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "I am confident you can succeed, it sounds like you have a plan and dedication ", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "That is a tough cycle to break. ", "output": "Reflection of feelings" }, { "input": "I think you're saying you will have go put your nose to the grind ", "output": "Restatement or Paraphrasing" }, { "input": "Yes, definitely allow yourself time to breathe", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "I think you sound very capable, despite the amount of stress you're under", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "You can get back on track with those healthy behaviors ", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "You are welcome. I definitely relate to how you feel", "output": "Self-disclosure" }, { "input": "I believe in you!", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "Same, have a good night and get some rest\n", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "Hello, how can I help you this evening? ", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "That's a very understandable worry to have, and I'm sorry you're dealing with that right now. ", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "Is there a specific path or event in the future that you are worried about? ", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "Things are very uncertain these days. I certainly have never experienced anything like it. ", "output": "Reflection of feelings" }, { "input": "Personally, I have tried to lessen my anxiety by limiting my intake of news and social media. No matter what one might believe, there's always someone out there that's apparently going to take it to an extreme, and reading over and over about that is emotionally exhausting. ", "output": "Self-disclosure" }, { "input": "Or constantly terrified.", "output": "Reflection of feelings" }, { "input": "We can't control the world, or even another person really, but we can control ourselves. ", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "Well, I don't try to deny the seriousness of the situation at all. But I do try to keep myself and my family healthy, physically and mentally, and maintain my close friendships via text/video.", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "And I schedule my day, even though I'm working and going to school from home. I schedule breaks to go out and enjoy the fresh air, dance like an idiot to some music, play with my dogs, or whatever is refreshing. ", "output": "Self-disclosure" }, { "input": "A routine has been really really helpful. I also make sure to get plenty of sunshine. As the winter comes in, we have shorter days and it feels suffocating. ", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "That must be frustrating. I've learned there are just some people I can't trust with my vulnerabilities. ", "output": "Reflection of feelings" }, { "input": "But again, you cannot control how they react, you can only control yourself. And that's not to say you can turn off your emotions or anything, but once you let go of the idea that you can control someone else to your liking, you will feel better. Less out of control. Because that's a lot of what is disturbing about the pandemic. We have zero control over it. ", "output": "Reflection of feelings" }, { "input": "Sure thing, I wish you luck, and thank you for the compliment :-) ", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "sure, please go ahead and share your story", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "it sounds like you are having depression, have you shared your problems with anyone?", "output": "Restatement or Paraphrasing" }, { "input": "that's great! Friends can be big help", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "If you have time, spend at least 1-2h everyday outdoor. You can talk a walk in the park or just simply go to the stores", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "In order to have better sleep pattern, maybe you should exercise, at first your body will be tired which helps you sleep better and earlier", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "spending too much time indoor is very damaging to your mentality. Even the most normal person will go crazy at that rate.", "output": "Reflection of feelings" }, { "input": "I feel you, when everything starts closing down again. I also feel angry because I've been doing everything right and now am punished because of other selfish people", "output": "Self-disclosure" }, { "input": "I'm also sick of the repetition too. Everyday I go to work then go home and just get stuck there all nigh every day. However, we need to tell ourselves that this too shall pass ", "output": "Reflection of feelings" }, { "input": "that's the right way of thinking. You're doing this not only for yourself but for everyone else", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "I try to stay away from the news or talking about covid, mostly because it's gonna be the same information and only depresses us even more", "output": "Self-disclosure" }, { "input": "I don't think I am better than you but we have to try nonetheless", "output": "Self-disclosure" }, { "input": "it's the same for me, businesses are forced to tighten again which is grim. However, the only think we can do now is take 1 day at a time and hope for the best.", "output": "Self-disclosure" }, { "input": "I believe the same as long as we hang in there. Get help from your friends and family", "output": "Reflection of feelings" }, { "input": "It was nice talking to you too", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "Hello, how are you doing?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "What's been going on?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "It seems like that fear of losing your job has been taking a toll on you.", "output": "Reflection of feelings" }, { "input": "Yeah, COVID is an unprecedented time where anything can happen.", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "It must be frustrating knowing the safe path was taken but even then jobs might be taken away for something out of your control.", "output": "Reflection of feelings" }, { "input": "I can relate to that. It's always nice when everything falls into place. The prospect of a sudden change stresses me out and I imagine you've been feeling the same way as well.", "output": "Self-disclosure" }, { "input": "What's your fear if you lose your job?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "I think even if you lose your job, you would still be able to obtain resources through unemployment or even a stay at home temporary job from an employment agency while you look for another one or for your company to return to normal.", "output": "Information" }, { "input": "I can definitely relate. I've submitted around that many applications if not more before I found my current job. But working as a temp at other companies has helped me provide for myself in the meantime. :)", "output": "Self-disclosure" }, { "input": "You have every right to feel the way you do though. It's a scary time but know that things will be okay.", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "I understand. It definitely is an agonizing process but you've gone through it before and have 18 months of experience under your belt from your current job which looks good on any resume. Despite the pandemic, I think this will help make things a lot easier for you.", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "You are very welcome. (: It's my pleasure to help in any way I can.", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "Hello", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "What can I help you with today?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "Is there any reason that triggered your sadness?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "I am sorry you feel this way. Do you live with friends or family?", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "That is great that you at least have your dog. They're great companion", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "How about you hang out once a week with your friends and share your problem with them?", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "Of course. Now that covid is closing everything. You can use that time to take a course online for free. Or you can pursue your hobbies", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "Have you tried seeking therapist?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "I think there are quite a few hotline for free, obviously not as good as your personal one, however you can use that when you need to talk to an expert", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "I understand how you feel, I also find myself more depressed this year than ever", "output": "Self-disclosure" }, { "input": "Me too, I have been trying to teach myself the \"one day at a time\" mindset to not being paranoid about the future", "output": "Self-disclosure" }, { "input": "Hello! How are you doing today?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "It sounds like you worked really hard today. How are you taking care of yourself?", "output": "Reflection of feelings" }, { "input": "That must be really hard. I'm glad that you were able to make time for your friend who is going through a difficult time.", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "It sounds like you are handling the situation well, given the stressful circumstance. What are some things you are doing to cope with this difficult situation?", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "It's wonderful that you have a support network that you trust and that you can talk with about this. I know that talking through things is really helpful for me too. Have you considered seeking professional help during this time?", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "That's fantastic. Having family around during a tough season like this must be such a blessing. It's great that you can be there for your friend, almost as if they were part of your family, too.", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "20 years is a long time! It takes a lot of commitment to your friendship to not only keep in touch for that long, but also make the time to support them emotionally when it matters most. You are a loyal friend, and your friend is lucky to have you around!", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "It sounds like you and him have had quite the history, but your friendship has proven to remain strong through thick and thin (20 years!). I can't imagine how stressful it must be to be for him to be waiting for surgery, and I'm sure it means the world to him that you are by his side. How has your friendship been in the midst of everything these days?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "That's great to hear. Both COVID and the election have certainly been stressful. What are some ways that you have been able to support each other?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "It's so easy to feel alone these days. Sometimes being present is all you can do, but it's the absolute best thing that you can do. Keep going, you're doing great!", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "You're welcome! Thank you for being a wonderful friend, the world needs more people like you. Take care of yourself :)", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "I am sorry to hear about your loss. How do you feel throughout the day?\n", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "It is sad indeed having a loved one past. Having time will help.", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "Some takes weeks. Others take month or years. It's different for everyone. I know where you are coming from. I lost my husband a couple years ago and it took me awhile to move on as well.", "output": "Self-disclosure" }, { "input": "I think perhaps you could think of the wonderful times that you spent with your fiance, and cherish those feelings.", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "I thought of the good times that we spent together. What are some of your happy memories with your fiance?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "That is so sweet. How are you feeling now with all these memories coming back to you?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "Other ways to cope is perhaps taking a new hobby. Do you have any new interest that you would like to try? I took up a cooking class a few months after my husband past away, and I really enjoyed it.", "output": "Self-disclosure" }, { "input": "I think you will do fine in the kitchen once you get the hang of it. What are some of your favorite food?", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "Yes, I enjoy tacos and cheesecake as well, especially from the Cheesecake Factory.", "output": "Restatement or Paraphrasing" }, { "input": "Okay, I'm glad you are feeling better. Enjoy the rest of your day and stay safe.", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "Hello there! How are you today?", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "Sure! Can you please tell me how can i help you today?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "If I understand you correctly, do you assume people dislike you even if you can't tell for sure?", "output": "Restatement or Paraphrasing" }, { "input": "It seems you are a bit low on self-confidence. I have been there too. If I may ask you, does this feeling persist all the time irrespective of the situation or it happens after any particular event - say a test or some outdoor game for example?", "output": "Reflection of feelings" }, { "input": "Right, the feeling of being ignored can be quite overwhelming. Have you tried speaking with your friend over phone or video call, assuming you have access to the technology?", "output": "Reflection of feelings" }, { "input": "Great! You are worthy! Remember that always :)", "output": "Information" }, { "input": "Is there anything else I can help you with?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "Good question! Don't let the feeling consume you. After all , you are dealing with another person who genuinely might be busy or held up with some important work. \n ", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "So, even if they don't respond, just think they are driving or working, and try to avoid thinking that you are being ignored.", "output": "Information" }, { "input": "Yes, sometimes assumptions can lead to misunderstandings. Always talk it out when you get a chance.", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "It could be, but always bear in mind that there could be factors beyond your immediate control.", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "Hello, how are you doing? How can I help you?\n", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "I see you are having some anxieties about your future and job applications. When did this start?\n", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "Did something happen at that time?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "That sounds like a challenge but you can be proud that you are working so hard.", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "Do you have anyone who can help support you through the process?\n", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "It seems like your husband is very supportive but feels you stress a lot. Is that right?", "output": "Restatement or Paraphrasing" }, { "input": "It sounds like you are stressed about the situation and want to find a path forward.", "output": "Reflection of feelings" }, { "input": "Have you thought about going to a job center to seek out help. ", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "Are there other people in your position that you can talk to or counselors to guide you and encourage you through the process?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "Do you think they could help alleviate some of the stress?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "Hello", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "I'm good. How can I help you?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "So you are afraid you will fail your classes?", "output": "Restatement or Paraphrasing" }, { "input": "Have you tried tutor service at school? They usually provide free of charge or very cheap", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "It must be frustrated for you. ", "output": "Reflection of feelings" }, { "input": "How about talking to your professors about that you don't understand and how they can help?", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "don't be too harsh on yourself. We all struggle in life. As long as we find an appropriate solution, I believe you will get better", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "Of course, it's their job after all", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "I feel you. it's scary when everyone seems to do fine but you struggle. However, others struggle silently too, they just like you don't tell anyone", "output": "Reflection of feelings" }, { "input": "If you hesitate to talk to the professors, try their teaching assistants. They tend to be more friendly", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "you can also ask your friends to form a study group", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "yes, and maybe you will understand parts that some of them don't", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "of course, I also struggle all the time", "output": "Self-disclosure" }, { "input": "Anything else I can help you with?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "no problem, I'm glad I could be some help", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "Hi there! How are you doing today?", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "I am fine! Thanks for asking. May I know the reason you are sad, if you'd like to share?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "I understand exactly how you feel. My flight tickets were cancelled and my plans to visit my family and friends after 2 years went up in flames! \nBut, this pandemic is never-seen-before event and certain restrictions are unavoidable and life saving.", "output": "Reflection of feelings" }, { "input": "All of us are in this together and if you tolerate short term inconveniences (lockdown, masking up, social distancing), long term benefits are multi fold. You want your friends to be around when all of this is over, am I right?", "output": "Information" }, { "input": "Apologies, I didn't mean to make you sad further by sharing my own sob story! At the end of the day, these restrictions are what keeping me healthy", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "That's great! I believe, in this age of technology and social media frenzy, you are not totally cut off from your friends.", "output": "Information" }, { "input": "Yes, can you try organizing a virtual get together?", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "Cool! There are lot of online games that have been invented after the lockdown came into effect. You can try searching them online and playing it with your friends", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "We were missing our colleagues at workplace and we planned an online quiz + dumb charade and it was really enjoyable.", "output": "Self-disclosure" }, { "input": "At this point, only through video call. I am middle aged and even if I can travel and visit friends in person, I will NOT because I may be asymptomatic and possible infect my friends or worse their aged parents.", "output": "Self-disclosure" }, { "input": "Sure! At the end of the day, health is wealth. Vaccines are already on their way and this too shall pass. So, hang in there :)", "output": "Information" }, { "input": "That's a great choice. Small steps we take now will ensure great benefits later.", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "My pleasure. It was good chatting with you too. All the best for your online meetup. Have fun and stay safe :)", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "Hello, what can I help you?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "What are you contemplating for?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "why do you think so?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "How about joining a club at school to know more people?", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "So you're stuck with your roommate but she doesn't care about you?", "output": "Restatement or Paraphrasing" }, { "input": "Everyone feels that, and it's totally normal. Don't be too harsh on yourself", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "Why don't you do something on your own? Read a book, do some crafts?", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "I don't think you should do that. Who knows how next year's gonna look like? It might be even worse", "output": "Reflection of feelings" }, { "input": "How about doing video call with your friends at home?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "I totally feel you, I feel stressed out and very uncertain throughout this pandemic. You are not alone", "output": "Self-disclosure" }, { "input": "Exactly, I do virtual happy hour with my friends every month", "output": "Self-disclosure" }, { "input": "Not only that, when you feel lonely, text your friends and share it with them or your family", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "Oh I am too busy to do that once a week. All of us are actually", "output": "Self-disclosure" }, { "input": "I don't think so. Maybe they are waiting for you to say first and give you advice, they have more experience after all", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "if that's the case, you can use this chance to be there for her. I think talking to your mom will help you both", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "Sounds like a great plan. I believe you can overcome this together", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "Yes, right now I'm trying to teach myself one day at a time mindset", "output": "Self-disclosure" }, { "input": "That's the right mindset. I 'm glad I could be some help", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "you too", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "Good evening ! How are you on this cold fall night\n", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "I can understand how stressful this could be for you! I would feel taken advantage of too ", "output": "Restatement or Paraphrasing" }, { "input": "Have you asked them when they thought they could pay you\n", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "Have you asked them when they thought they could pay you\n", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "sorry I am not sure why it typed twice\n", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "Have your friends ever borrowed money before?\n", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "I would be furious too! ", "output": "Reflection of feelings" }, { "input": "I just meant if they had borrowed in past and returned it than maybe they were telling the truth but since you saw them blowing money that s rightfully yours is a problem", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "Can you talk to a mutual friend of both of you or if you are close maybe their family ?", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "I understand and have been in your shoes and its NO FUN and they don't get to borrow ever again. ", "output": "Self-disclosure" }, { "input": "Have you explained just how much of an issue it is to them and flat out tell them you saw them spending money on junk etc when they could have given to you . Something is better than nothing . Maybe work out a plan of 50 a week if they work?", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "And depending on how much of a friend they are you need to see if this is worth losing friendship over. I mean if you are great friends I d lay low and never let them borrow again. IF you only knew them a short while and felt sorry for them and lent them money than I D talk to parents or someone\n", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "Id be like I helped you when you needed xxx to do get buyxxx . Now its becoming an issue and I can't pay my bills. I wanted to help you now can you please give me cash of xxx for xxx starting next friday. ", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "Yes friends are hard to come by and you certainly don't need anyone to ever take advantage of you. But the other side is do you want this person to be your friend if you can't trust them and they are showing you no disrespect or attempt to pay you back?\n", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "Awesome! Good luck! If that doesn't work we can chat again and try something else. Keep safe and Keep the faith . Personally I would recommend praying if you believe as I do!!!", "output": "Self-disclosure" }, { "input": "Ok . Good luck", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "Hi, I am doing well thank you, how are you doing?", "output": "Restatement or Paraphrasing" }, { "input": "is there anything specifically that is stressing you out the most right now?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "that is really hard. Are you able to tell these people how their words are making you feel?\n", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "I am, did you not receive my last message?", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "are you there?\n", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "I said: that is really hard. Do you feel comfortable telling these people how their words hurt you?", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "it sounds like you are really stressed out about the situation and are overwhelmed with how to figure out a path forward.", "output": "Reflection of feelings" }, { "input": "just from chatting with you I can feel how anxious you are, but i think you are doing you're best and continuing to try hard!", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "I am happy to help and be a shoulder to lean on", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "you're welcome!", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "You as well, keep up the great work!", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "I am happy to help", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "Hello", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "What's your problem?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "Is this because of something he does or you are experiencing angry issue with everything?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "So from what I understand, you think your anger is because of your husband's fault. Have you talked to him about his behavior?", "output": "Restatement or Paraphrasing" }, { "input": "I am female", "output": "Self-disclosure" }, { "input": "That's gross. I can't believe he said all those things to you. I'm sorry you have to hear those words from your husband.", "output": "Reflection of feelings" }, { "input": "You need to stand up for yourself. I know it's difficult and as you said, won't even do any good. However, if you keep your silence, he'd think it's okay to treat you that way because he has power over you", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "I'd advise you to disclose this to a family member and have them with you (on the phone) when he starts talking like that", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "that way the other person can call him off", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "if you want, you can talk to him one last time and let him know it's enough. I fhe doesn't change, you will cut off with him", "output": "Reflection of feelings" }, { "input": "You have to stand up for you self first before expecting him to do that", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "If he intimidates you, you should practice what to say and then do the talk in public or when someone else is around", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "I believe you can do it", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "I hope you at least will be able to settle with your husband", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "Have you ever threatened to leave him?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "Then you should do it for real this time and see if he changes. ", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "The mom always has an upper hand in these issues", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "You should also have photos of clean house to prove against him", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "as for depression, as long as you have proof youre seeking treatment, you should be fine", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "do it secretly, behind his back", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "it all comes down to you have to let him see that you can stand on your own. He's treating you like this because he thinks he can control you", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "hope you will be fine", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "Hi there", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "Doing well thanks and yourself?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "What's going on?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "Oh I definitely know the feeling of not hanging out with friends. This has really been a bad year!", "output": "Restatement or Paraphrasing" }, { "input": "Do you ever Zoom with your friends?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "Messaging on Facebook isn't quite as fun as hanging out in person. I use Zoom to meetup with family and friends. I had never heard of it until this pandemic hit.", "output": "Self-disclosure" }, { "input": "I most certainly do know! I just think to myself daily that this vaccine is going to get things back to normal. Hang on, we're almost there. In the meantime I suggest Zoom. It really does make things somewhat less isolating.", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "We're almost there!", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "And if you have an iphone facetime some folks. Zoom and Facetime are my friends now. lol I almost daily at least Facetime my best friend. Especially in the evenings.", "output": "Self-disclosure" }, { "input": "I would try it. Also Meetup is doing virtual meetings. ", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "You're welcome! We have to look out for one another!", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "Sounds good! You're more than welcome. You do the same", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "Hi, how are you today?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "I'm glad to hear that. Is there anything in particular you wanted to discuss?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "That definitely sounds like a rough situation and I'm sorry to hear about it, though I'm glad you decided to reach out. ", "output": "Reflection of feelings" }, { "input": "That's what I'm here for. I want to support you in any way I can, especially given your situation. Did you want to talk just to talk? Or we can discuss a way to work through what you might be dealing with mentally? It also sounds like keeping in touch with your cousin isn't helping in any way, so maybe we can talk about how to handle that? I am entirely at your disposal.", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "That's definitely difficult and it's easy to see why it wears on you so much. As much as you don't want to abandon her, it's important to remember to take care of yourself too. It's like when you're on a plane and the safety pamphlet tells you to put on your own oxygen mask before helping others with theirs. You might not be able to help your cousin as much as you want to if you are suffering too much. Are there any mental health resources you've tried for yourself other than reaching out here?", "output": "Information" }, { "input": "I see, it certainly doesn't help that it's difficult to keep in touch with your provider.", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "I have a website that contains a list of support groups provided by NAMI. Would you be interested in it? Many of the support groups are offered multiple times a week online, so you wouldn't even have to leave your home.", "output": "Information" }, { "input": "Of course, here's the link: namimainlinepa.org/online-and-telephone-support-groups/ ", "output": "Information" }, { "input": "Sounds good. Was there anything else you wanted to discuss?", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "Alright. You're welcome, it's what I'm here for. I hope you have a good rest of your day!", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "Hello :)\n", "output": "Restatement or Paraphrasing" }, { "input": "So it sounds like you feel like you don't measure up to your co-works because they are getting different results than you? \n\n", "output": "Restatement or Paraphrasing" }, { "input": "I would completely agree with that statement you are much newer than your co-workers. I believe you that you are very committed to your job. I am sure that with time you will get the same results as them if not better!", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "Are there any co-workers you feel close to or see a friendship developing with?", "output": "Information" }, { "input": "Of course! With time you will get the hang of it. Well thats good to hear! Maybe you could ask one of them to coffee and express how you are feeling. I would bet that they felt the same when they started. ", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "That certainly is something I can relate. There was a period of time in school where i signed up for way too many classes and had to drop out of a few. If you feel like you are in over your head it is ok to take a step back. It is important that you take care of your self and know your limits. :)", "output": "Self-disclosure" }, { "input": "I would say if you are showing signs for several weeks of being overwhelmed (tired, stressed, snappy etc.) That is probably is too much", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "I would say thats the right option if this persists. I am sure there are other jobs that would fit you well!", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "Yes i have and it did not end well I burned out and couldn't do my job at all. ", "output": "Self-disclosure" }, { "input": "Of course you are not alone!", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "I think that is a great idea I wish you luck! Remember no matter what you will find somewhere you belong!", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "hello, how are you?\n", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "I'm doing ok, Is there anything you would like to chat about?\n", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "That is horrible I am so sorry they done that to you\n", "output": "Reflection of feelings" }, { "input": "I have been cheated on in the past and it always messes with your mind just know it is nothing to do with you it is all them, yes this virus is horrible on everyone it took us all by surprise at how bad it is", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "I know it's heartbreaking, have you reached out to a friend or family member sometimes opening up to someone close is the best way to let every feeling out", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "don't ever think you are a bother to anyone. You are loved by those close to you and I am sure they would be great comfort during this.", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "When I got cheated on by my ex, I took time to build my self confidence up, build my happiness up, I wrote a letter telling him how it hurt and every feeling and then I ripped it up and threw it away it felt good getting my feelings out. it might help you to.", "output": "Self-disclosure" }, { "input": "letting them go is the major one you don't ever want to be with someone who cheats on you if they do it once and you forgive them they 9 times out of 10 will do it again\n", "output": "Information" }, { "input": "exactly and once they break your trust it can't ever be fully repaired again you will always have that doubt in your mind about them", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "you are very welcome I hope everything gets better for you. And that once your heart is healed you find someone who truly loves you and doesn't do that to you.", "output": "Information" }, { "input": "you are very welcome I hope everything gets better for you. And that once your heart is healed you find someone who truly loves you and doesn't do that to you.", "output": "Information" }, { "input": "Anytime, I hope you have a great day as well\n", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "Hello. How's it going?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "I can agree. There are so many places going back to where we were several months ago. Which state do you live in?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "I agree it's bad! Where I live in the US our numbers are going back up and the kids are being home schooled again. I just keep thinking this is temporary! ", "output": "Reflection of feelings" }, { "input": "I have to say it's hard to find motivation and I was in that spot at the beginning. With news of vaccines being introduced here shortly, that's what's keeping me afloat. Are you able to hang out with friends?", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "Oh very much so! Zoom and Facetime are my best friends right now. lol I think that's one of the reasons why I snapped out of my depression is because I started doing that more since we couldn't go out and do anything.", "output": "Self-disclosure" }, { "input": "I downloaded Zoom around the end of May. The first two months were the worst. I had never heard of Zoom until a friend said we should have a virtual party so he organized it and there were 11 on the call. It was so much fun despite the fact.", "output": "Self-disclosure" }, { "input": "Maybe organizing a \"zoom party\" would start to lift your spirits.", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "Depression sucks I have to say! Just don't let it win. Since you say it's something you have never dealt with, you can fight it by staying upbeat and do something fun.", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "Start off by not being hard on yourself for feeling the way you do. Music, tv and books does it for me - and zoom", "output": "Self-disclosure" }, { "input": "Most definitely. Do you have Meetup over there?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "It's an app on mobile devices where you can (when there's no pandemic) meet up with folks who share common interests as yourself. Nowadays instead of meeting in person, they are doing virtual meetups. I do it with a book club.", "output": "Self-disclosure" }, { "input": "Totally free!", "output": "Information" }, { "input": "You are so welcome. Just don't let that depression get the best of you. You're stronger than it is.", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "Very welcome!", "output": "Reflection of feelings" }, { "input": "hello how are you today?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "i am sorry to hear that, would you like to talk about it?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "It is always hard to hear any bad feedback, do you feel that you could speak with your manager about it and try to resolve the feelings?", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "Could you possibly go to her and tell her that you have heard the feed back and you are sorry to hear that it bothers her that you did not realize it and it is something you will work on becoming more aware of.", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "You seem like such a nice person i am sure if you approached it the right way you would not cause any damage.", "output": "Reflection of feelings" }, { "input": "Going to another manager may be a great idea! Maybe the manager could address the issue with her and help her to realize there is nothing wrong with a having happy employee like yourself.", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "Yes i can see where that would be a problem.", "output": "Reflection of feelings" }, { "input": "Do you think you could speak to this other manager about possibly transferring positions so you are not working under your current manager?", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "Well you have a right to feel how you do, everyone takes things differently. It would bother me but i would proably try to get to know her better to see why she has such a problem with others being happy, maybe she has some problems going on in her life and has no one to share these problems with if she is not happy it may come as a struggle to see others happy all the time.", "output": "Self-disclosure" }, { "input": "I would let her know nicely that some things she said has been hurtful and ask if there is anything on her mind that she would like to chat about that you would be glad to talk with her.", "output": "Information" }, { "input": "Yes you are such a positive person that i think you being supportive will help open up communication, and yes you should make it known that she has said something that has affected you personally and in addressing it may help her not treat others that way in the future.", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "In the mean time try to not take it personally you really seem like a nice person so i dont think she meant to cause you any harm.", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "Hello how are you doing today?\n", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "I am also doing well, thank you for asking! :) What did you come here to talk about?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "Oh I see. Yeah these times right now are really difficult to feel motivated and get things done, especially when a lot of school is online\n", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "I get that 100%. It's also been really hard on me to not be able to see the people I'm close too. I don't live with family anymore, so I haven't seen my family for months either. So I understand where you are coming from.\n", "output": "Self-disclosure" }, { "input": "But you shouldn't feel upset at yourself for how you are feeling. It is completely normal, and I'm sure all your friends are feeling the same way! I have a few things I would like to share with you about how I have been getting through it. Maybe it will help you out :)\n", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "Usually I find myself just cooped up inside my room doing the same routine over and over again. That can put us into depressive, unmotivated moods. The thing that started helping me the most, was changing that routine even a little bit. If I feel unmotivated, I like to change my surroundings! Usually for me, that means moving to the living room, or to the back porch. As silly as that sounds, it really helps to switch up where you are trying to get things done.\n", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "It's also really helpful to try and do new things if you are feeling unmotivated. Obviously that is difficult right now, but there are definitely things you can try! Like going on walks outside, or trying new little hobbies. I personally have tried out drawing and typing to help distract me when I am feeling overwhelmed\n", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "Oh yeah that probably is taking a bit toll on you working in the basement. I definitely suggest moving to the living room every now and then just to feel that small change. :)\n", "output": "Restatement or Paraphrasing" }, { "input": "You could also plan out your days if it would help! Try and find time for the things that will bring you joy, whether that involves waking up earlier, or moving some routine things around\n", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "And I can tell you really do miss your friends, so it's super important to make time to talk to them too!\n", "output": "Reflection of feelings" }, { "input": "It is definitely hard, but it's important for your mental health to keep the people you love close to you :)\n", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "Yes exactly. And yeah that will be so nice when we are finally able to leave again and feel normal. But unfortunately we can't wait around for that since it's so up in the air recently. So I'm glad that you are wanting to change little things in your life to keep you happy until then\n", "output": "Restatement or Paraphrasing" }, { "input": "Of course! I had a good time chatting with you! Thank you as well :)", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "goodness i am so sorry! my browser did not make a noise.", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "how are you doing? sorry i kept you waiting!", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "Awww, thanks. How are things going in your world today?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "Ah, i hear you. The lack of response makes it really easy for me to make up stories in my head and fear the worst.", "output": "Reflection of feelings" }, { "input": "I'm sorry. I know the feeling of not knowing where I fit in. Its a whole world shift, too.\n", "output": "Reflection of feelings" }, { "input": "That scattered feeling....trying to put the pieces back together....I've walked the same road this year. Would you be willing to mourn for what you had before? To let it go?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "you have determination! There is fire within! Tell me, what brings you joy?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "but of course! it was a pleasure to connect. keep chasing joy daily!", "output": "Self-disclosure" }, { "input": "oh good, well i got inputs to put!\n", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "YES! for one, this mturk task is AMAZING to me. Connection has been a huge boon for me this year. I thrive on helping others realize their strengths.\n", "output": "Self-disclosure" }, { "input": "between that and creation, i love to express myself. art, mov\nement, building something.....its all just me expressing myself, getting my head into the world", "output": "Self-disclosure" }, { "input": "whenever i can :)\n", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "Hello how are you doing today?\n", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "I'm so sorry to hear that, but I would love to help. What is going on?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "I am so sorry to hear that. breakups are definitely hard to go through, especially in the times we are in right now.\n ", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "How long were you guys together? And you were living together?\n", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "Oh I see that was a very long relationship! I actually just got out of a 3 1/2 year one myself, so I understand how hard it is. Are you still currently staying with him until you find your own place? Or are you staying somewhere else?\n", "output": "Self-disclosure" }, { "input": "I'm glad to hear that you are with a friend right now during this hard time, and that you have a place to go! But I see the struggle is finding a way to get there. \n", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "If you are struggling on finding a way back to your moms house, it might be a good idea to loan or borrow some money from either friends or family, or open a credit card just for the time being. Then once you get back to your mom's, you can start focusing on yourself and get yourself back on your feet! IT's important to not overwhelm yourself right now, so focus on one thing at a time\n", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "That is great to hear! I know that you are probably also hurting from the breakup itself too, but I'm glad to hear that you are focusing on getting yourself to a safe place first. It's going to take a long time to fully heal again, but as long as you make sure you are stable, you will be able to get through this\n", "output": "Reflection of feelings" }, { "input": "It also sounds like you know what you need to do, and you aren't letting yourself forget what is important. That is wonderful\n", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "Yeah that's great. I have confidence that you will get over this bump in your life, and good things will come to you. Keep focusing on what you need to do! You are doing great! ", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "Hi there! How may I support you today?", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "That must be hard. COVID has really turned our world upside down! What type of occupation are you in?", "output": "Reflection of feelings" }, { "input": "That's great! It is because of front-line workers and people like you that we are at least able to put a fight against the pandemic! My hat tip to you for choosing your line of profession.", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "Major pharma companies have already announced vaccines and they have a success rate of more than 90 -95%. So my friend, this too shall pass. ", "output": "Information" }, { "input": "I feel the same way too! Modern technology is indistinguishable from magic! ", "output": "Reflection of feelings" }, { "input": "So hang in there, with the US election results and the vaccine announcement, things will surely get better. ", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "If you are in North America, the pandemic rate will go high due to combination with flu season, but at the end of the day, we will develop herd immunity.", "output": "Information" }, { "input": "Well, nobody is, my friend! But it's part of life. And ya, morons will exist all over the world.", "output": "Reflection of feelings" }, { "input": "Since you are young, even if you contract, you will recover pretty easily. But, God forbid, if you do, please practice social distancing and stay home!", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "I hope you don't get sick. Just follow what your supervisors advise you to and apply your own knowledge into practice. I am sure it will work out great for you and your friends!", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "Friends make life worth living and I am sure you all will do great. Good luck!", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "That's the spirit! ", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "Is there anything else I can help you with today?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "Sure! Take care :)", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "Hey, how are you doing?\n", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "By surviving, it is more of a personal situation\n or an outside dilemma affecting you.", "output": "Restatement or Paraphrasing" }, { "input": "is it*\n", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "I see what you mean. Finding work in this environment can be stressful as well. In any case, I can say that a good way to start is to account for all transactions you make.\n", "output": "Reflection of feelings" }, { "input": "Are you also pressed for time? Time management can be a predicament as well.", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "Wow, it's slightly uncanny the way our situations are similar. For someone who is also not in the best place financially and just making the bare minimum, it can feel hopeless sometimes.", "output": "Self-disclosure" }, { "input": "I know you are feeling stressed at the moment, but I've realized focusing on the long term helps ease the pressure of current stressors.", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "I feel that if you can focus on using your extra time as an investment into yourself (whether by reading, picking up a hobby, or working out), you can feel more accomplished and at ease with what you are doing in life.\n", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "Being progressive is difficult, but is one of the things in life which compound very easily. I believe many aspects in life are connected and that improving in some parts improves you as a whole\n", "output": "Restatement or Paraphrasing" }, { "input": "And if these \"improvements\" can also make you money/increase your worth/ease your mind, then that can be called a success. In my opinion atleast. ", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "Yeah, but imagine how it would if you had days like that knowing it isn't a bad thing to relax. You have already put in the work in being comfortable before, allowing to enjoy your time however way you wanted.\n", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "Looks like you already have an interest which can help you in many ways in life. That's really good.", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "Yes, the tension and pressure only seems to mount on, but there will always be things like that in life. It is important to remember whether such problems are in your control or not. If they are, you know for sure that you can change how you are presently.", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "No problem, this is a very interesting experience for me too.\n", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "hello!!", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "that's really bad ", "output": "Restatement or Paraphrasing" }, { "input": "even I was also in the same situation", "output": "Self-disclosure" }, { "input": "To be honest i was not completely came out it since it was 3 years but now i somehow getting better i tried to divert myself from the thoughts engage myself with other friends spend more time with my family like that", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "try to divert yourself, keep yourself busy, spend more time with family, try to minimize the usage of mobile ", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "yeah I could understand your feelings right now", "output": "Self-disclosure" }, { "input": " yeah its really hard to handle this state of mind but we need to ", "output": "Restatement or Paraphrasing" }, { "input": "I don't know but some girls were playing with a guys intense feelings.", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "I think the best way is to move on", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "make her feel like without her your life will be better", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "revenge her with your success and positive attitude in front of she you need to much more happy ", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "that's great!! happy beginning of new life", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "Sorry you have been feeling down. What are some strategies you have tried to help you cope?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "Those sound like positive ways of handling stress. It is natural of course to feel stressed out by the pandemic so it can be useful to think of ways to help manage that stress.", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "Have you tried meditation and/or deep breathing exercises? I know I find that helpful when I am worrying.", "output": "Self-disclosure" }, { "input": "One exercise I find helpful is lying on my back with a pillow under my head. I keep my legs bent and put a pillow under my knees for support. I then put one hand on my chest and one on my diaphram and slowly breathe through my nose feeling my stomach press against my hand. I then exhale slowly through my nose and repeat for about 10 minutes. It can be very calming.", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "Good, I hope that helps. I would also trying to reach out to others who are experiencing the same. It is harder nowadays with covid but there are many online groups. You could even start your own group!", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "I hear you on that. Sometimes social media can also be negative. I think that blocking negative posts is a great idea. It is a way of taking control", "output": "Reflection of feelings" }, { "input": "Are there any hobbies that you have been interested in but never had the time for? Or perhaps hobbies that you used to do but have not tried in awhile?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "You are quite welcome. I too find reading to be a most welcome escape. It takes one's mind off of day to day worries.", "output": "Self-disclosure" }, { "input": "Perhaps you could look into book groups as well. There are probably quite a few online these days. Glad I could be helpful!", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "You are welcome. I am glad I could help you find some ways to help manage stress levels. Is there anything else you want to talk about?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "Hey there, please do share! I would love to help!\n", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "Why is your job causing you to have anxiety?", "output": "Restatement or Paraphrasing" }, { "input": "I see, so you have difficulty dealing with a co-worker. Let ask, Is there anyway of talking to her about her behavior? Also does she behave this way with others?\n", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "What I do recommend is contacting a mediator or someone from HR and having a sit down. Since clearly this is affecting you at work and outside of it. Talking to HR should help. ", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "What do you think?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "Honestly don't let it stress you out, don't bring issues at work back home. I also recommend finding ways to destress, listening to music, lightning candles or starting a series on netflix.\n", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "Glad to help!", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "No problem, I hope enjoy the rest of your day!", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "Personally, I spend time with family. Then I have a can of seltzer, watch something on netflix and unwind.", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "Haha it's a winning combination. Maybe a salty snack or something sweet depending how stressful the day was.", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "Hello! How are you doing today? \n", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "I am so sorry to hear that, I'd love to understand more about what you are struggling with?\n", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "Oh no! I am so sorry to hear that. Academic probation does seem very scary. When did you learn you failed your finals?", "output": "Restatement or Paraphrasing" }, { "input": "And how long do you have until graduation?\n", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "I see. Well it's nice that we matched up! I actually work at a college and now a couple good strategies to get off academic probation, and or avoid it! What is it you are studying?\n", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "Oh that is awesome! So when do you find out whether or not you are on probation? \n", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "Okay gotcha. Well a couple tips I can offer you: If you do end up on probation, most courses offer a probation workshop you can go through. And if you graduate in June, it should finish in time for you! And I was also going to recommend taking fewer units. As much as it sucks, you can't overwhelm yourself with work. You need to be able to have a healthy and happy life that is separate from school in order to preform your best. Dropping your minor may be what is best for not only your grades, but your mental health\n", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "I also recommend making an educational plan. Although it can seem scary and long to see your goals directly laid out in front of you, it really helps with motivation \n", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "From talking with you so far, I can tell that you are stressed about this. But I want to reassure you that your mental health should always come first. It is the most important thing you can do. \n", "output": "Reflection of feelings" }, { "input": "You are definitely not a failure in the slightest! In fact, I would argue that you are the exact opposite of that. Being able to take such difficult courses in a pandemic, and raise a child shows how strong you are! \n ", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "And you will succeed in that goal. You have the motivation and the care for it, you just need to focus on managing everything at once!\n", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "Have you thought about meeting with an academic advisor and laying out a plan?\n", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "Hi there. How's it going?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "What's going on?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "Divorce is tough. Have been through it myself. Especially tough, I would imagine, in these times.", "output": "Self-disclosure" }, { "input": "Do you have any support in the area you live in?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "I'm glad you reached out. Having support is something we all need. Zoom and being far away isn't the ideal support I'm sure.", "output": "Reflection of feelings" }, { "input": "Most definitely. I'm far away from my family too so Zoom and phone calls have been great despite the long distance. Have you visited your family since Covid began?", "output": "Self-disclosure" }, { "input": "That's awesome! I'm planning on going to visit mine next Summer. Are you able to see them before years end? If not, maybe early next year? Hopefully Covid will be just a memory.", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "What state do they live in?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "Are you wanting to move back there?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "Best of luck to you. Hope things turn around for you!", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "hello!!", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "Do you lost your job because of pandemic", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "yeah that's a bad situation it seems ", "output": "Restatement or Paraphrasing" }, { "input": "there are many companies that recruit freshers have a try on it", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "there are many online recruiting websites in internet you can register yourself with those websites and have a try over local industries ", "output": "Information" }, { "input": "not me but my friend had an experience in that she registered in that website , she was called by a recruiter to attend recruitment process", "output": "Restatement or Paraphrasing" }, { "input": "otherwise if yo had an idea of starting a small business it is more better joining a job", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "there are many possibilities of starting a business. what we need is an innovative idea some amount for initial investment and many business can be started with minimum space like within home", "output": "Information" }, { "input": "yeah that's good for you and also your children", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "thankyou", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "Good afternoon, what can I help you with today? ", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "That sounds like a really difficult situation to be in, I'm sorry to hear you're going through that. ", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "Especially when the sun starts going down sooner, it can seem like we have less time, and as if things are closing in upon us. ", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "There are a few strategies you could use to combat that. Personally, I try to soak in as much sunlight as possible before it goes down. Sometimes that will mean moving your work space, maybe getting up earlier to have a cup of coffee in the sunrise, maybe it's scheduling breaks into your day where you specifically get some vitamin D. ", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "As far as the intrusive and repetitive nature of the thoughts, have you ever consulted with a therapist or other mental health professional? Obsessive thoughts are sometimes a sign of anxiety.", "output": "Reflection of feelings" }, { "input": "That's an understandable fear. ", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "I challenge you to think about it as not too different from this chat here; An opportunity to get some objective advice and perspective. ", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "Yes, BetterHelp is one of those I believe", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "TalkSpace is another one", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "It may be helpful! As far as I understand it's exceptionally easy to switch between therapists on that service, too. So if the first one is not a good fit, you can try someone else. ", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "The biggest piece of advice that I can give you is some that I've recently been enacting for myself: When you get into the spiral, and you can't shake the nasty repeated thoughts, even if you \"need\" to sleep, get out of bed and move to a different room. Change the situation up, get some tea, sparkling water, whatever you want, but change what your body is literally doing. ", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "You sound optimistic and like you're open to trying new things to help, I think you're going to start feeling better soon. ", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "LOL my friend calls that \"vacation bed!\" and sleeps on the couch over the weekend like it's a treat :-D", "output": "Self-disclosure" }, { "input": "Things may take some time, but every time you take action to get better, it will help. You are very welcome! ", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "I hope you have a wonderful evening :-)", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "hello there, beautiful day isn't it?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "oh no what's wrong?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "You seem really concerned about your mom! why haven't you been able to call her? ", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "I know it is sooo hard. My mom lives so far away and I can't see her too because of COVID. the only thing that makes me feel a little bit better is that am not putting her at harm's way when I visit her\n", "output": "Self-disclosure" }, { "input": "How are your boys feeling about it?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "To be fair Roblox is pretty fun. Have you seen those videos on Facebook where family members visit their families from behind the window? What do you think your husband will think about that?", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "I'm so sorry, the alert sound did not play for me. ", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "I'm sorry to hear you broke up with your girlfriend, that is a rough situation to be going through. ", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "That is really hard. Are you able to take some downtime and recalibrate, take care of yourself?", "output": "Restatement or Paraphrasing" }, { "input": "When I've gone through break-ups in the past, it's been useful to really take care of myself and give myself some pampering. ", "output": "Self-disclosure" }, { "input": "Guilty pleasure TV and takeout Chinese food is always a good combination. Tacos, too. Maybe a bottle of wine, but not too much wine, just want to relax, not get sad.", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "Oh dear, that's a long time alone with your thoughts. ", "output": "Reflection of feelings" }, { "input": "When I need to escape intrusive thoughts and rehashing things, I'll put on a podcast. Or documentary, or something that's calm, straightforward and factual.", "output": "Self-disclosure" }, { "input": "That's really good that you have that kind of relationship with your mom though! Moms are awesome for that kind of stuff. They can really make you feel protected and safe. ", "output": "Reflection of feelings" }, { "input": "The vulnerability after a break-up is unreal", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "That's awesome. Family support is crucial. ", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "Just be easy on yourself and know that in the future, you will find someone new, someone much more suited to you. ", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "I'm sorry you're going through this. I wish I could have been more helpful.", "output": "Self-disclosure" }, { "input": "It's very good that you have a support system though! And that you have people out there waiting for you. I hope you have a safe drive. ", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "Good afternoon, what can I help you with today? ", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "I'm sorry to hear that, that is a rough situation to be dealing with. ", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "What's very important for you to know is that you cannot control another person's actions. ", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "It's difficult for those close to an alcoholic to watch them destroy themselves. ", "output": "Reflection of feelings" }, { "input": "I will tell you that you can only take care of yourself. And you can only be honest with them about how their actions affect you. ", "output": "Reflection of feelings" }, { "input": "You may need to take some time away from the friendship then. To show him you are serious that you can't tolerate the behavior any longer. ", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "That's understandable. But if you continue trying the same solution over and over again, but are getting the same result... ", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "In that case, you should be sure to shore up your defenses and be prepared, because it will be hard. You are a good friend, but don't lose yourself to save him. ", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "Consulting some literature for friends and family of alcoholics may be useful as well, Al-Anon or something like that. ", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "You should be able to find online Al-Anon groups, too. ", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "I'm sure he does. Don't forget that you do as well. ", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "It looks like they do offer online chats: http://al-anon.org/al-anon-meetings", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "So much like this chat here, you wouldn't even have to give your real name, nothing identifying, just support for you. Supporting an alcohol is exhausting, and you will need resources. ", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "And a place to vent. ", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "Try not to demonize your own frustrations, be easy on yourself when it comes to feeling upset with the situation, and continue trying to let him know that he hurts you when he behaves like that. ", "output": "Reflection of feelings" }, { "input": "Absolutely :-) I hope that it helps. You sound like a very kind-hearted person, and I understand that your situation is complex. ", "output": "Reflection of feelings" }, { "input": "Just remember that you are as deserving of relief as he is. They always tell you on an airplane to put on your oxygen mask first, then others in your group. ", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "I'm happy to hear that, I wish you luck and take care of yourself. ", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "Hi, How can I help you?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "Is there anything else bothering you or it is only the college?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "That's good, at least you identified your problem somehow, now is the time to begin solving it", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "What is stopping you to get prepared for the exams?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "I had the same experience in the past, I was doing fine in high school but soon after I entered the college I saw myself falling", "output": "Self-disclosure" }, { "input": "soon I realized that It's not high school anymore, It needs more effort and specially more time to comprehend the lessons", "output": "Self-disclosure" }, { "input": "You can't just pass the exams by studying a day before the exam", "output": "Information" }, { "input": "I know It's hard these days by the pandemic and all online things", "output": "Reflection of feelings" }, { "input": "Then you find your answer by yourself, You NEED yo change", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "And remember, your at college, You should start to seek the answers more by yourself and your college mates and be less dependent on professors", "output": "Information" }, { "input": "Yes, I had all your problems but I tried to take the control little by little, the problem is still there but now I can manage it better", "output": "Self-disclosure" }, { "input": "I tried different things and I failed many times, You should try too, start to know yourself and how your body and mind works", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "Hi there. How are you today?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "I'm doing good today. What brings you on here?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "ugh. There's nothing worse than that. Have you confronted the ex friend?", "output": "Restatement or Paraphrasing" }, { "input": "oh wow. that's not much of a friendship! So have you attempted at all to discuss it? What does the other friend think about it?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "that's an option but I hope it doesn't go that far again. Have you tried maybe a mediation with the ex friend and your current friend?", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "I can understand that. You don't want two people disrespecting you. ", "output": "Reflection of feelings" }, { "input": "I hear that! What happened in court when you went?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "If you don't mind me asking", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "Sounds like maybe you should pursue it again if you can. Has she been in contact with you?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "Seems like a good idea. Steer clear of her and don't associate with her! Sounds like you're doing the right thing. Keep your side of the street clean", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "I would if I were in your shoes. You don't need two of the same person. Know what I mean?", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "LOL if only everyone had that thought process. Some people don't get it!", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "Definitely sounds like you have the right tools and mindset to do the right thing!", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "I know about the alone thing especially in these times.", "output": "Reflection of feelings" }, { "input": "Take those tools you have, steer clear of her and do your own thing!", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "Most definitely. I wish you the best. If you every wanna chat again just stop on by!", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "Take care!", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "Good afternoon, how can I help you today? ", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "That is understandable, public speaking is one of the most commonly cited fears for people. ", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "Is it for work or for school? ", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "I actually majored in communication and have a great deal of experience with public speaking. ", "output": "Self-disclosure" }, { "input": "Yes, the physical nervousness that can manifest is powerful. I would highly recommend finding a quiet place to calm and focus your mind for at least five minutes before your presentation. At least a minute's worth of breathing, and drink plenty of water. ", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "Ah, yes, that is a hard one. You are expected to be an expert. But you can only prepare so much. ", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "\"That is a really great question that I've never considered! Maybe XYZ? I can check on that and get back to you with a sure answer though!\" ", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "There's no shame in being able to say that you understand why someone would ask the question(whatever it may be) but that you don't have a full or even partial answer right now. ", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "Because you're also going to get like, the hecklers and the people who want to look intelligent by asking asinine questions", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "Just feel confident that you have fulfilled the assignment according to the guidelines. Extra questions from students are wildcards and you can only handle them within the scope of the assignment. ", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "If someone's like WELL WHY AREN'T THERE PURPLE PANDAS THEN, JEFF?! you're gonna have to just laugh lol", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "I think you will do great. You sound prepared, and a small amount of worry is an indication you desire to perform well. ", "output": "Reflection of feelings" }, { "input": "I'm so glad to hear that! You have an excellent attitude and work ethic, you got this!", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "You too!", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "hello. what is on your mind today? ", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "its normal to feel sad when you break up", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "i am 37 and ive been divorced 3 times ", "output": "Self-disclosure" }, { "input": "my first two cheated on me the third was abusive. after my first wo i just started increasing my social life, talking to more friends so i wouldnt get sad", "output": "Information" }, { "input": "this past time i enrolled myself in college. i wanted to keep my time occupied but in a positive way that weill help me make more moeny at work and know for a fat i can take care of myself", "output": "Self-disclosure" }, { "input": "well, then they were not as close of a friend as you thought. you deserve bettter .", "output": "Restatement or Paraphrasing" }, { "input": "what will that do in the long run though?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "i've made that mistake too honestly", "output": "Self-disclosure" }, { "input": "im learning we need to be loyal to ourselves and not anyone else...but thats not really the best way either ", "output": "Restatement or Paraphrasing" }, { "input": "people can be selfish! ", "output": "Restatement or Paraphrasing" }, { "input": "true", "output": "Restatement or Paraphrasing" }, { "input": "it seems like that is becoming quite a trend these days", "output": "Reflection of feelings" }, { "input": "i've learned its better jut to forget the past and move on. dwelling on it only auses more paind and heartache and take longer to get back to happy", "output": "Reflection of feelings" }, { "input": "i think you will be okay though : you seem to have your head on straight! ", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "you are welcome! ", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "you too!", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "Hello!", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "How are you doing today?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "I'm sorry to hear that. Why do feel that way?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "I understand why you'd feel that way, we should be treated with respect especially with our partners.", "output": "Reflection of feelings" }, { "input": "What a terrible thing to say. How do you answer him?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "I'm sorry about what you're going through. It might be a good idea to take some time away from him and for yourself, if that would be possible. Do you have friends or family near you?", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "It really is a difficult situation for everybody. It sounds like you're all feeling stressed and cooped in too, does that sound right? ", "output": "Restatement or Paraphrasing" }, { "input": "It would be good if you can reach out to your friends and let them know how you're feeling. Try to make some time for yourself and let your husband know how you really feel. ", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "I hope you keep safe out there too. \n", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "I think it's different for everybody and you'll have to find out for yourself what you would want going forward. Stay strong, it sounds like you're a great parent!", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "Hello, How are you doing today?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "That is a bummer! I have actually had a very good morning so far! Why aren't you doing good today?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "Oh no! Breakups are so hard! It has been a long time since I have had a break up (since I am married). I can remember how devastating it was though! I can tell you though this is something you can get through!\n", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "How long were you and your partner together?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "I know how you are feeling! It probably feels as if the world is crashing in all around you, You probably feel like you've wasted time you will never get back, and you are probably feeling just plain exhausted. While I can't say that I have ever been apart of a broken engagement. I can say I felt both Depressed and emotional and like my life was falling apart. I always tried focusing on the positives of the future.", "output": "Self-disclosure" }, { "input": "If there was a magical switch you would never know the good from the bad! I think it is okay to be upset and quizzical! IF I were talking to my sister right now I would say \"There are much better people out there for you, you will be much happier ending it now then after you are married!\" I know it doesn't feel it now, but likely you will be in a much better place because of the break up now.", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "Have you talked this out with your partner? Talking with them might help get you the closure you are aching for!", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "I am Happy to help! I am sure you will start feeling better each day!", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "Have a great day as well!", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "I thought it was!", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "I think we can, my Quit Button is not working. I was just going to wait for you to leave :)", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "You are so very welcome!\nHave a great day as well!", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "can you tell me more about that?\n", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "It sounds like you're physically attracted to Doug and had a one-time encounter with him. Is that right?", "output": "Restatement or Paraphrasing" }, { "input": "can you tell me more about how you're feeling now?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "I'm sure it's frustrating that you're not getting the emotional support you need. It's great that you are reaching out to communicate with someone.", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "I can sense your frustration, and his marriage just adds to that. I've known lots of people who've ended up in relationships with married people.", "output": "Self-disclosure" }, { "input": "Just reaching out to talk with someone else is a great first step.", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "Sometimes, a good first step is to reach out to friends who can help you fill your time and avoid interactions with him.", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "And co-workers often can help you find ways to avoid him in the office. Are others aware of the relationship who can help you with that?", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "I can hear your anguish, and I understand your frustration. It's not clear to me, though, that Doug is being honest with you or with his wife.", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "You mentioned that Doug can't provide the emotional support that you need. Do you think he's being fully honest with you about his relationship with his wife?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "You're absolutely right. It sounds like Doug is the problem. He's cheating on his wife, and he's not giving you the emotional support you need.", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "With the holidays coming up, maybe you could avoid him for an extended stretch and really do something about what it is you are looking for in a partner.", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "I wouldn't say that Doug's wife is part of the problem. She's sounds like another victim of his philandering and dishonesty. ", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "You're right. It's best to err on the side of caution when it comes to covid. But remember that Doug isn't your loved one alone. He's sharing germs with both you and his wife. Maybe a lockdown -- emotional and physical -- will help you work to find an end to this relationship.", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "How did you spend your time before you met Doug? Perhaps you could reconnect with other friends or find a hobby to fill your time.", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "I absolutely have had my heart broken, yes. And I've spent some holidays alone. I can understand your pain.", "output": "Reflection of feelings" }, { "input": "It would be great to be able to give you an easy and pain-free solution, but I don't know that that is possible when it comes to matters of the heart. If you truly love Doug and want to be with him, you should tell him that and see how he responds. You mentioned, though, that he can't give you the emotional support you need.", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "If you truly believe, in your heart of hearts, that Doug can't be your everything, then you already have the answer: He is not \"the one.\" He's the one right now. And you shouldn't have to settle for that. You sound like a strong and capable woman who should be loved and respected for everything she is.", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "I regret my assumption. I hope you can find happiness!", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "Hello! How are you doing today?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "Anxiety can be a real challenge. What have you done to face it in the past that works for you?", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "It sounds like you have tried a lot of different methods, so good for you for taking care of yourself. What is overwhelming you?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "It is a very scary time we are all living through, so it's very easy to understand your higher anxiety with someone you care about maybe facing it. What can you do to feel better? ", "output": "Reflection of feelings" }, { "input": "That's a great way to approach it-- since the time has to pass anyway, you can use it to take care of yourself and move your life forward despite the \"pause\" of the pandemic.", "output": "Information" }, { "input": "Have you thought about trying meditation or focused breathing to calm yourself when you feel spiraling?\n", "output": "Information" }, { "input": "Absolutely, and it's completely understandable, but it's very hard to wait. I hope that you are able to practice some of the techniques we talked about, and seeking help by talking about it is part of self-care, too. I think you are on the right track to getting through this. ", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "I believe we are all stronger than we give ourselves credit for, and it takes strength and courage to reach out for help. ", "output": "Self-disclosure" }, { "input": "Please take good care of yourself, and I hope your friend stays healthy or gets well very soon. ", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "Thanks for reaching out, and I hope the rest of your day goes well. ", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "You are welcome!", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "I understand, that is a tough situation to be in. ", "output": "Reflection of feelings" }, { "input": "Burnout is a real emotion. ", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "Yes, definitely. ", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "I worked for a boss who gave me a chance when I was rather unhirable. I worked there for three years, but I was burning out hardcore. She was kind but she paid me much less than a normal professional would in that position, and took advantage of me.", "output": "Information" }, { "input": "She and her husband ran the business, but I continued to be burdened with extra responsibility, no extra money or benefits. Eventually, the gas station down the hill from us was hiring at a hiring hourly rate than I was receiving from them. I ended up leaving and going back to school.", "output": "Self-disclosure" }, { "input": "But you have the well-being of three children to worry about. The older gentleman knows how to take care of himself. ", "output": "Reflection of feelings" }, { "input": "Communication and Copmarative religious studies", "output": "Self-disclosure" }, { "input": "*comparative", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "I'm thinking about going back for my masters but no I am not still in school. ", "output": "Self-disclosure" }, { "input": "That's excellent. I don't think you should take on this boss's emotions as a reason to stay with a job you're burning out on. I think you should take the small step of looking at what's out there, and maybe having a few interviews. You could try explaining to your boss that you need benefits for the kids. I would be surprised if he did not understand that. ", "output": "Reflection of feelings" }, { "input": "And if he does not understand that, well, you will know exactly who you work for, and that will be additional impetus to move on. ", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "Then I would think he would understand even more. ", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "Hey there, how are you doing/\n", "output": "Reflection of feelings" }, { "input": "Sorry, i could not see the description of the problem. Could you please paste it again?\n", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "oh, i am so sorry. ", "output": "Reflection of feelings" }, { "input": "Did you try to message him to see if he can chat with you? so that you get a chance to understand what made him break up with you?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "or do you have a common friend that can help arrange a meetup ?", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "Hmm. do you want to give him some time to maybe cool off and then try to get in touch with him again?\n", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "i know you are anxious but sometimes it is best for time to heal things and bring things back to normal", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "Do you have any other friend that you can lean for a little bit for support? this will help you get out of anxiety. Maybe, try to get busy with work or spend time on your hobbies. it helps to take your mind off of this thing a bit and will make you a bit less anxious.", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "That's good. at least you found ways to get out of the anxiety. ", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "and social media can cause anxiety too, so staying from your phone also helps :)", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "Yeah. given enough time and when things cool off, people do dwell on their behaviour and often times feel stupid for the way they act. i hope its the same case with your boyfriend as well. I have a feeling he is going to give you a call soon", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "you bet :) ", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "Nice. i am glad, i could be of some help.", "output": "Self-disclosure" }, { "input": "hello!!", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "how is your day?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "what is the reason for depression are you feeling bored or some other reasons?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "no problem, I am also facing the same problem of being bored during the lockdown", "output": "Restatement or Paraphrasing" }, { "input": "the only thing which could entertain us is gadgets. I used to watch many web series and online shows in my mobile ", "output": "Restatement or Paraphrasing" }, { "input": "be cautious in your health as you say that you need to recover from the cold take foods which keeps you warm and some natural medicines", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "yes I draw but not so good in drawing", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "do you have kids in your house?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "that's great I too love star wars", "output": "Self-disclosure" }, { "input": "yeah there is a kid in my house who is my entertainer in lockdown", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "avengers end game", "output": "Reflection of feelings" }, { "input": "you are right ", "output": "Restatement or Paraphrasing" }, { "input": "yeah that's the safest way too", "output": "Restatement or Paraphrasing" }, { "input": "spending time with friends is like creating more funny memories", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "yeah i love grow herbs in my house this is one of my favourite hobby", "output": "Restatement or Paraphrasing" }, { "input": "you are welcome and thanks to spend this time", "output": "Restatement or Paraphrasing" }, { "input": "have a wonderful and cheering day!!", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "Good afternoon! How are you doing today?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "I can certainly understand your anxiety you are feeling right now", "output": "Restatement or Paraphrasing" }, { "input": "I would be freaking out too. When is your final . How far away is it?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "Do you have someone you could possibly study with?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "I can certainly appreciate how overwhelmed you are feeling . When do you get a break from work? ", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "You are doing an amazing job and most people couldn't handle it . I completely understand as a mom of two boys myself. ", "output": "Self-disclosure" }, { "input": "You have so much on your plate and hard to keep up with everything you are telling me. .LOL. Please may I have a moment to try to help you", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "Could you ask a family member or neighbor or babysitter to help out ? Give you time to concentrate on paper ", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "Or how old is your oldest ? Could they watch or help get everyone to bed earlier?", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "Do you have any pto at work you could maybe ask boss to take off now ? or leave early ? Or take tomorrow off to have 3 day weekend to recuperiate?", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "I think that is a creative great way to gain some time and maybe ask Debbie to help with bedtime?", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "Oh my you certainly do have a lot on your plate but after my conversation with you I know you can do it ! You are amazing and don't let anyone tell you differently/", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "Sounds like a plan ", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "We all need extra money lol but especially you with being a single mom with 3 kids. ", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "youre welcome good luck and I ll say a pray for you ", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "Hi, how can I help you today?\n", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "Oh, that is anxiety-provoking... \n", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "How long have you b\neen searching?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "It's great that you are putting out applications elsewhere as well!", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "What makes you anxious about coming home late?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "Oh I understand", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "Have you thought about other ways to get back home besides walking?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "If that would help you ease your anxiety, I think it would be a good solution to consider! ", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "What makes you anxious about walking home late?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "Oh I understand about the safety issues, I too cannot stand walking alone at night", "output": "Self-disclosure" }, { "input": "How long have you been in this long-distance relationship?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "I try to avoid walking and either ask someone to come and get me, or take an Uber or the bus or my own car! ", "output": "Self-disclosure" }, { "input": "That's good to consider! I think that if money is an issue right now, it will become easier as you get your paychecks and will feel less guilty about Ubering home", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "For your relationship, you've known this person for a long time before you got together?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "I'm sorry, that's what I meant, affording it (language issues my bad)", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "Ok so you've known him for a long time, you two feel comfortable with communicating your feelings and worries together?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "Ok that's great! Do you want to tell me more about the issues you are experiencing with him so we can understand a bit more the root of the stress?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "Ah, i get it. So what I'm understanding from this is that you feel helpless in this situation and that's what's making you anxious?", "output": "Restatement or Paraphrasing" }, { "input": "Can you tell me a little more about how this feeling of helplessness is affecting you personally? ", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "Does it bring back memories of another time where you felt helpless or is this the first time you're feelling this way?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "Ok, so from what I understand is that this is the first time you've felt this and you are lost because you don't know how to act and react to this ", "output": "Reflection of feelings" }, { "input": "Were you the one that offered to help in the first place? \n", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "Well, I think it is very considerate of you to help him financially, but do you feel that this has put an enormous amount of strain and pressure on yourself as well?", "output": "Reflection of feelings" }, { "input": "Oh okay, so you wouldn't say that you're looking for a job to continue helping him financially?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "Ok that's good to hear! ", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "From what I'm understanding, you're not only feeling anxious and pressure in your own personal life but you're heart is also wherever he is right now and living whatever stress and pressure he is living as well, and that is putting yourself in a very anxiety-provoking position", "output": "Reflection of feelings" }, { "input": "I understand that, especially given the current pandemic situation, it isn't easy at all", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "Are you guys FaceTiming or communicating at all other than by texts?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "I'm trying my best, thank you for the input!", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "Upset about leaving the apartment?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "Or was there something else that happened that weekend?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "Have you guys thought about scheduling date nights through FaceTime?", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "I understand that completely, I can relate a lot ", "output": "Self-disclosure" }, { "input": "If it makes any difference, my partner and I have been doing date nights where we would dress up, put make up on and do our hair and everything as if we were going to the restaurant, and even if it is through Facetime or whenever we see each other in real life, it helps not only with our own self-esteem but also our relationship", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "Maybe you could open the discussion with your boyfriend, tell him that you have a date planned over Facetime and you want him to order his favorite dinner, take a shower, do his hair and dress up real nice ", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "You have been friends for a long time before getting together, you guys are comfortable with each other, right?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "Okay well you do know him more than I do haha, so what would be his ideal date night?", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "Hm okay, well I'm sure that if you do propose and organize something for him, even if it is not his favorite thing to do, if he sees that it would make you happy, he will at least consider it don't you think?", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "In other ways than financially ?\n", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "Oh I'm sorry to hear that... it must be difficult for you to be in this position, I understand the stress and pressure ", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "Is the pandemic the reason he is having also financial difficulties at the moment? ", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "I'm sorry to hear that", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "Has he also been in the search for another job?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "I'm confused he isn't trying to find a job?", "output": "Restatement or Paraphrasing" }, { "input": "Oh okay I didn't know that thanks!", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "I'm so sorry! Why do you feel that way?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "It sounds like you feel like you are stuck at home and not able to do things.", "output": "Restatement or Paraphrasing" }, { "input": "I also spend a lot of time at home. It's really a rough time", "output": "Self-disclosure" }, { "input": "Do you have anyone you can talk to? \n", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "Well from what you are saying, I can tell that you are feeling isolated", "output": "Reflection of feelings" }, { "input": "Are you currently working?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "How did you feel about that? Did you like your job?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "My friend's husband also lost his job. ", "output": "Self-disclosure" }, { "input": "He started using a temp agency to find work. Have you thought about doing that?", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "Temporary agencies are helpful to employers and employees like yourself. They match people to jobs based on job history and skills so they could find things that would work for you", "output": "Information" }, { "input": "No temp. agencies offer cost free placements (the employer looking usually pays the agency)", "output": "Information" }, { "input": "I know that days can be really hard. I think it's great that you are considering options and wanting to do better for yourself!", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "I understand that there are things in your life that could make you feel that way. You are not the only one!", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "When you feel up to it, do a search for temp agencies near you and hopefully they can give you some leads about a job. ", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "I hope I've been able to help with some support", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "hi how are you\n", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "i am so sorry to hear that. what seems to be worrying you today?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "i am doing ok thanks for asking", "output": "Self-disclosure" }, { "input": "it seems to me that you feel you can not trust a friend, correct me if im wrong?", "output": "Restatement or Paraphrasing" }, { "input": "Oh ok, have you asked them why they feel they can not trust you?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "Maybe you could have a conversation about it and see what you could do to gain their trust.", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "I have had a friend not to trust me and i know how hurtful that can feel, maybe there has just been some sort of misunderstanding.", "output": "Self-disclosure" }, { "input": "Could it be that it is not that they do not trust you but they feel you would not feel comfortable going to such places?", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "I am sorry you feel ignored sometimes people choose to ignore issues rather than confront them and try to come to some sort of solution, i would try not to take it to personnel as you seem like a very friendly person. ", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "You could try to send a message just stating that your feelings are hurt and it would be nice if they would at least reply back with a explanation on why they have made you feel this way.", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "Are you asking how to end the chat?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "I think you need to spend some time doing something you enjoy to try to take your mind off of it, maybe go to a movie or for a nice walk.", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "Or if you have a family member you are close to you could speak to them about it and see what the perspective of the situation is.", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "No problem you really seem like a nice person so i think the problem more so is with them and not you so try not to let it ruin your holiday season!", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "When i am stressed or depressed I like to workout and listen to music.", "output": "Self-disclosure" }, { "input": "Yes getting lost in a good book is a great way to get your mind off of it!", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "If you feel i have helped you we can, if not i am glad to stay and continue trying to help.", "output": "Information" }, { "input": "i am glad i could be of some help i hope you feel better soon!", "output": "Self-disclosure" }, { "input": "you are very weclome, goodbye", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "hi!!", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "how is your day?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "oh no that's really not good", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "ok ok I could understand now", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "What you have did so far is absolutely correct You worry for your friend is also correct, I think you need to be with your friend in this situation whatever she says about you", "output": "Reflection of feelings" }, { "input": "yeah I am here", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "I think you just give some time to your friend to realize what she is doing now. ", "output": "Restatement or Paraphrasing" }, { "input": "oh no it seems to be a big problem", "output": "Reflection of feelings" }, { "input": "If she is not accepting her fault directly you need to find some other way to make her realize her current situation and consecquence", "output": "Restatement or Paraphrasing" }, { "input": "I don't don't calling cops as good. We need to do in some other way to make her realize . ", "output": "Self-disclosure" }, { "input": "you can talk to her mother and some other persons close to her and who really cares her", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "you are welcome.", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "Hey there, I'm here to listen and help :)\n", "output": "Information" }, { "input": "Is there anything is particular that is bothering you?", "output": "Information" }, { "input": "Hey, don't say that. Listen everyone is going through a tough time due covid. What keeps me going is, I look deep down on the inside and find 3 things that keeps me going.\n", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "Listen you have to be kind to yourself, forgive yourself of whatever it is that is bothering you and then let it go. \n", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "I recommend finding a new hobby or doing something that you enjoy doing. It will keep you fresh, active and motivate\n", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "It okay to cry, that the first step of letting all the negative emotions out. Trust me. Then you feel more free and the burden will be lifted. Then you will be better and more positive. ", "output": "Reflection of feelings" }, { "input": "Listen I'm on the same boat as you. It can get depressing. However, I light scented candles, play uplifting music on the background. I learn how to cook and started a new series on a netflix. ", "output": "Reflection of feelings" }, { "input": "I'll be honest, I'm a man (not like it means anything). I cry a couple times a week in the shower. Why? Because it helps get rid of the negatively that burdens me. After that I feel better.\n", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "Remember it's okay to cry, then try breathing and then carry on with your day :)", "output": "Self-disclosure" }, { "input": "I'm glad to help!", "output": "Restatement or Paraphrasing" }, { "input": "Trust me, scent and music can provide a positive vibe", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "Yes of course, enjoy your day :)", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "Hello!\n\n", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "How are you doing tonight?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "You are doing well? That is great to hear. I am the support provider, do you have any questions or problems?", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "So it was almost four years ago, but you still feel depressed when you think about it?", "output": "Restatement or Paraphrasing" }, { "input": "That must be difficult for you, to still feel that way.", "output": "Reflection of feelings" }, { "input": "Being upset and heartbroken is very understandable, but what do you mean by a strange complex?\n", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "So you really feel she was depressed or upset when you met her?", "output": "Restatement or Paraphrasing" }, { "input": "Did her being depressed have an effect on you?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "of course you were sympathetic towards her pain, that is totally understandable. ", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "That sounds great, that you were able to help her out in that way.", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "So as she became better, you started to feel worse?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "That's interesting, so you feel that you were together so long as you could help her, but then you lost interest in her?", "output": "Reflection of feelings" }, { "input": "or did she reject you once she felt better?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "Has that happened to you in other relationships?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "So you have not had any successful relationships since then? Do you think that is why you feel depressed?", "output": "Restatement or Paraphrasing" }, { "input": "So that is good, that even after the end of your romantic relationship you were still able to maintain a friendship. ", "output": "Reflection of feelings" }, { "input": "Have you thought about volunteering in a position where you could be helpful to others?", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "So you feel that you are still friends even though you don't speak to each other often?", "output": "Reflection of feelings" }, { "input": "So what you are saying is that you spoke to her this summer and that made you feel depressed about the breakup?", "output": "Restatement or Paraphrasing" }, { "input": "That sounds like a great idea, did it give you satisfaction?", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "That is really good to hear. Hopefully you can continue to do that and help yourself by helping others.", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "Maybe we can talk more at a later time.", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "oh no i'm sorry i left you waited. please tell me your problem", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "We are on the same boat. Do you have any other jobs?", "output": "Reflection of feelings" }, { "input": "Have you considered applying for a job or trying uber drive/ eats?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "I understand how you feel, it's tough not being able to work and earn much money. However, you are doing your best right now and should feel proud of yourself", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "I try to spend more time outdoor and keep myself busy. ", "output": "Self-disclosure" }, { "input": "I like to cook since it's very relaxing and helps keep my mind concentrated", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "That is perfect then, the nature is very healing. You can also hang out with friends and talk to them about how you feel", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "you should definitely do that. staying indoor will worsen your mentality", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "yeah I have a full time job and working on mturk at night. Covid has hit me financially too", "output": "Self-disclosure" }, { "input": "we all face different pressure and have to find ways around it", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "Please stay positive, go out more and exercise more frequently", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "you too", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "Hello, how are you feeling today?\n", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "What is causing you to stress over your academics? \n", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "What is causing you to stress over your academics? \n", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "So your trying to work hard at school. Why are you considering taking a break from school?", "output": "Restatement or Paraphrasing" }, { "input": "Oh I see. I am also taking college courses online right now and understand how the end of a semester can be a stressful time for students.", "output": "Self-disclosure" }, { "input": "Maybe if you set aside a certain amount of time to devote to your studies (and nothing else) every day, you can eventually start getting back into the normal routine you have for school work", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "and also get and then stay caught up on school work", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "okay", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "okay. so is there anything else thats bothering you?\n", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "I am sorry you feel that way. I believe that you are strong enough to push through to better times!", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "Good luck!", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "You got this! ", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "Thank you! Goodbye!", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "Yes, what can I do for you?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "It's fine here, I just got your message. Please tell me more about your issue", "output": "Restatement or Paraphrasing" }, { "input": "that really sucks how they pulled that excuse on you", "output": "Reflection of feelings" }, { "input": "did your other friend tell you why they did that?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "It's understandable for you to feel doubtful. I would give them another chance, suggesting a virtual happy hour and see what they say now hat they no longer have covid excuse", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "you can never know people until something happens", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "Just give it a try, if all of them have some excuses again, it's time to stop socializing with those friends", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "exactly, it's frustrating but at the same time, a blessing in disguise. Through this you know who actually care about you", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "yeah, if they don't care about you, why waste your time on them? Spend that time on treating yourself a good meal or a great movie", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "you too, i hope you feel better", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "Hello how are you today?\n", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "great thanks! So you have had a good day it sounds like then. ", "output": "Reflection of feelings" }, { "input": "how did that news make you feel?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "I have had feelings of uncertainity in my relationship before as well. I know these feelings can be upsetting", "output": "Self-disclosure" }, { "input": "oh goodness, that sounds like a difficult situation but at least you have your friends to help you through it", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "As the saying goes, good things come to those who are patient! Time heals almost everything", "output": "Information" }, { "input": "Maybe your friend doesn't realized the affect her actions has had on the people around her. Have you tried talking about your feelings with her personally?", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "If she doesn't care about how you feel maybe it would be best if you ended your friendship with her", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "Yes I understand. I believe in you and your strength to overcome this!", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "Try focusing on your family then, rather than other people. Maybe that will help you", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "Other than that, are you okay?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "hello, how can I help you today?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "That's so cruel of them", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "Right now you're not working at all?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "I know it's very tough for you, can you stay away from your partner/ people around you for the time being?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "Since you are not working and staying home stuck with all the criticism won't help either, why don't you spend a few hours everyday outside? you can just go to the park, grocery stores, library...", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "when at library, you can learn subjects that you want to know about", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "yeah, scoop up indoor all day when you are not busy is very damaging to you mental health", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "you shouldn't put any thoughts to those heartless comments", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "If any, you can try exercising whenever possible because it's goof for your health. However, do not let the comments about your appearance affects you.", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "I understand, especially if that's someone close to you", "output": "Reflection of feelings" }, { "input": "of course, it's been very rough this year for you", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "it will get better, do not give up", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "it will, we all have to go through tough time but if you persist, things will be better eventually", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "Hello, how are you doing?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "I am doing well. I've been handling the pandemic surprisingly well given I deal with germaphobia myself. I can't wait for this all to be over.", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "Is there something I can help you with today?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "Yeah, socially distancing is quite the isolating experience so I can relate to how you are feeling.", "output": "Self-disclosure" }, { "input": "What have you been doing to keep yourself occupied?", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "It's good that you are doing your best to take care of yourself.", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "Have you been able to connect with friends or loved ones?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "It seems like you are doing what you can to stay connected with people. Did something happen that lead you to want to reach out for support?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "It sounds like you were going through a really difficult time.", "output": "Reflection of feelings" }, { "input": "What was going on for you at the start of the pandemic?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "I can imagine how that would put you in a dark place in your life. Just know that you are not alone in this and that there are resources and opportunities out there.", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "Hello, how can i help you today?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "I'm so sorry to hear that. Was there any reasons that lead to the decision?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "I feel you, it's scary to not be with the person you love so suddenly, especially during holiday", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "However, from what you told me, it's no longer fit for you two to be together as your views are opposite. Maybe this is for the better", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "You can plan to spend the holiday with your friends or family instead. We are usually busy and neglect the most important people. This is the time to take care of that", "output": "Reflection of feelings" }, { "input": "I understand. You made the right decision, if not now you will get in even more arguments in the future. He is just not the right person", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "Spend the time now that you have on yourself too. Be an even better version of you", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "That's the right attitude. With the right person, you learn what you like. With the wrong person, you learn what to avoid", "output": "Reflection of feelings" }, { "input": "No I have not, but I have someone ghosted on my before. It hurt and actually helps me realize who cares and serious about me", "output": "Self-disclosure" }, { "input": "Yeah, it took me quite a long time to break it off, and I'm glad I did. I'm glad you decided to call it off with your ex too, it's not an easy decision", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "you too, it's very nice talking to you", "output": "Reflection of feelings" }, { "input": "Hello.", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "How can i support you today?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "I see how that would be overwhelming.", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "It can help to just allow yourself a brief rest when you can.", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "I find it helpful to find even just five minutes in the morning or evening to meditate.", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "Some deep breathing to clearly our mind.", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "So you feel like everything is happening at once, so how can you get to anything at all?", "output": "Restatement or Paraphrasing" }, { "input": "This can be a common stressful feeling in health care.", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "Do you have anyone in the organization you would feel comfortable addressing the workload with?", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "You are within your rights to only do what can be reasonablly expected with quality and safety in mind.", "output": "Information" }, { "input": "It can be difficult, but do your best and do not allow a sense of pressure to impact you.", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "I know how unrealistic corporate expectations can feel!", "output": "Self-disclosure" }, { "input": "You are very welcome. Have a lovely evening, thingscwill getvbetter for you!", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "Hi, how is your day?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "I see, It's been a difficult year for all of us. But I think it would be possible to negotiate ", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "Hmmm, I can see that this is stressful for you", "output": "Reflection of feelings" }, { "input": "Did you already search for a new job?", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "Okay then, It's good that you already started", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "But first of all stop being panicked", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "Search online and locally, get help from your friends and I assure you if you try hard enough you will suceed", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "And remember, what are we if we stop fighting?", "output": "Information" }, { "input": "Your friends can support you emotionally at least and maybe they know a person that could help you", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "Life is full of surprises, but we should get advantage of bad situations ", "output": "Information" }, { "input": "It's totally fine to be afraid, but also at the same time you should try harder to reach your goal", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "Courage is not the absence of the fear, you should fight to find your place ", "output": "Information" }, { "input": "Yeah that's the spirit", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "You can and you should get a job, so start right now!", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "Don't let the stress and fear overcome you, get control and who knows maybe you get a better job", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "your so welcome dear, I hope I could help you even a little bit", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "Hi there, what's on your mind today?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "I'm good, anything I can help you with?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "oh no... I'm sorry to hear that. ", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "Have you talked to anyone about this?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "You did the right thing. He did not respect you and chose to lie until the end", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "However, he's not worth getting angry over. You should save your energy for yourself", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "Use this time to invest in what you've always wanted to do", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "You are a strong person. Just cut tie with both of them, you deserve better", "output": "Reflection of feelings" }, { "input": "It seems like you're doing very well despite what happened", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "that's absolutely the right attitude. ", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "I believe if you invest in yourself to become a better version, someone deserves you will appear soon", "output": "Self-disclosure" }, { "input": "you're welcome, it's nice to meet someone with positive attitude", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "Good evening! What can I help you with tonight?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "That is extremely understandable. The pandemic is an event no one was prepared for, and it has cause unforseen upheavals. ", "output": "Reflection of feelings" }, { "input": "That is a tough situation, being isolated physically from those that you love. I'm sorry you're going through that. ", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "Are you at least able to maintain contact through text and video chats? ", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "Well, I make sure I continue to maintain my relationships as well as possible through the avenues I have available. It is definitely not the same, but it's what we have at the moment. ", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "Personally, I try to maintain a routine. First hour after I wake up is coffee time, coffee and social media scroll time", "output": "Self-disclosure" }, { "input": "That sounds very stressful, I'm sorry to hear that. ", "output": "Reflection of feelings" }, { "input": "I definitely cannot answer that. As long as people keep valuing one another though, we will get through it. ", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "Of course, that's understandable. ", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "Hi, how are you?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "I am doing all right, thanks. Anything you would like to talk about?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "I am sorry to hear that. How long have you been together?", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "Wow, that is a long time. Breaking up is never easy, but it's especially rough when you were in a long term relationship.", "output": "Reflection of feelings" }, { "input": "I know how that feels. It's really hard at first, but it gets easier. There are some benefits to being single after all.", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "It might help to look for a new hobby. That will give you something to focus on, and it could help you meet new people too. My main hobby is baking.", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "I think that's a great idea. Exercise is good for the body and mind. :)", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "Looking for a new place can be a hassle! But it is kind of exciting too. I think i\nt's nice to move into a fresh new space and experience a change of scenery.", "output": "Self-disclosure" }, { "input": "Yeah, unfortunately the pandemic has made a lot of things harder :(", "output": "Restatement or Paraphrasing" }, { "input": "A lot of my friends have been saying the same thing. It seems like everyone has been under so much stress lately.", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "How ae you feeling today? Is there anything you need to talk about?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "Can you share the dilemma you are having?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "So you feel under valued in your relationships because people tend to take advantage of you. ", "output": "Restatement or Paraphrasing" }, { "input": "It sounds like this is really bothering you. It is good that you are talking about it though.", "output": "Reflection of feelings" }, { "input": "Have you tried telling them how they make you feel?", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "After you tell them how you feel do you still give them money or listen to what's going on and try to help them.", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "It's good that you let them know how you feel. By doing that, you are taking the first step in now allowing them to take advantage of you", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "It's really hard to stand up for yourself but it sounds like you are off to a good start.", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "Have you taken any steps in trying to form new more meaningful relationships", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "So feel that this new couple might value the friendship with your husband more then you", "output": "Restatement or Paraphrasing" }, { "input": "I used to have a hard time forming a meaningful relationship but then I realized it's because I had nothing in common with the people I was trying to form them with. Once I discovered something I was really drawn to I met people that way like volunteering in my community. Have you tried finding people you have more in common with. ", "output": "Self-disclosure" }, { "input": "Hi there. How can I help you today?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "Do you have something bothering you today?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "I'm hear to listen to you in case there is something you would like to get off your chest and maybe give some advice or support.", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "I am a 65 year old female with lots of experience with children and grandchildren.\n", "output": "Self-disclosure" }, { "input": "It happens a lot that girls pick fights with their friends and it ends up hurting, right?\n", "output": "Restatement or Paraphrasing" }, { "input": "My experience is that girls pick fights with whoever they feel safe with. Very strange but my grandchildren told me that they yell at me and take out their bad day on me because they know I will always love them no matter what.\n", "output": "Self-disclosure" }, { "input": "Really. What happened?\n", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "How do you think you should handle it? Did something happen in her life and she's taking it out on you?\n", "output": "Restatement or Paraphrasing" }, { "input": "Sounds like she's having some issues and she's not happy and taking it out on you. I'm sure that makes you feel like the bad person here.", "output": "Reflection of feelings" }, { "input": "I know. Have you thought about reaching out and just letting her know you are here to speak when she's ready and congratulations on the baby? Maybe she needs an opening? ", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "How much do you want her in your life?", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "I wish I could solve this for you but everyone is different. My granddaughter has had to let go of some relationships that were toxic to her well being and felt better after a period of time.", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "There are a lot of good people out there just looking for friends. You sound like a caring person, I bet you'll find new friends.", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "Best of luck.", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "Hello! How are you doing today?\n", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "I'm sorry to hear you are frustrated! I'm gonna do my best to understand and talk through your issue. :) \nYour friend is being a pain on face book in what way?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "It sounds like he didn't use to blast his opinion in the past or include you in arguments, is that true?\n", "output": "Restatement or Paraphrasing" }, { "input": "Oh I see! I get where you are coming from. I have a few friends that no matter how long you discuss, they won't let the conversation end unless \"they are right.\" It seems like your friend doesn't like it when he is wrong?\n", "output": "Self-disclosure" }, { "input": "Gotcha so not only are you frustrated with what he is doing, but you are also worried about his reputation! First of all, can I ask if he is just your friend online or if you hangout with him in person too?\n", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "Okay I see. From personal experience, the best way to confront someone who likes to do most of their confrontations online, is in person. Since he is so used to almost \"hiding\" behind a screen, his feelings will be more vulnerable and real if you discuss your concerns in person.", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "A suggestion I would make would be to hangout with him in person, and bring up the issues that you and your friends have been seeing. But it's important to not make him feel overwhelmed. Almost like he is being \"ganged up on.\" \n", "output": "Information" }, { "input": "I can tell that you care about this person as a friend, but you are worried that the way he thinks and talks may ruin that in a way. Make sure to let him know these concerns! It will show him that you guys truly are doing it out of love. \n", "output": "Reflection of feelings" }, { "input": "And yes I have actually had a very similar experience! Let me explain\n", "output": "Self-disclosure" }, { "input": "One of my best friend's and roommate, had a very hard time separating friendship and roommate issues. It caused a lot of issues in the relationships with our friends. She had a tendency to discuss issues over text and didn't like doing it in person. But we realized, the problem with that is that you can't tell the emotion behind messages on a screen. But once we talked in person, our issues were solved because we could hear the intended emotions behind what we were saying\n ", "output": "Self-disclosure" }, { "input": "Yes exactly. It sounds like he might have other reasonings behind his actions. And you guys talking to him as friends in person, would show him that you care and that he is in a safe environment. He doesn't need to be so extreme \n", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "Yes of course! I wish you the best in overcoming this hard time with your friend. I believe that you guys will be able to talk through it since it's a newer issue. :) ", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "Of course! Have a good rest of your day\n", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "Hey, how's it going?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "What is it about your job that you don't like?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "Bleh, sorry to hear that. I think I understand what you're saying.", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "Perhaps it's like following through on your work goals is challenging enough, and then there's a bunch of unnecessary effort on top of it to work around the politics.", "output": "Restatement or Paraphrasing" }, { "input": "Yeah, maybe I have. I guess I've been in situations when I was surprised and confused as to why a team couldn't just work together towards the common goal. Does that sound similar?", "output": "Self-disclosure" }, { "input": "For sure. It's true that you don't *have* to work there, but I'm sure there are factors in play that make it difficult to leave.", "output": "Restatement or Paraphrasing" }, { "input": "Here's a blunt question- what do you want to do about it? Do you think you want to get better at being happy in this job? Or work towards getting another job?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "Small steps, I suppose. What do you think the very very first, small step would be?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "Nice! That's a good first step. ", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "And it's a step that doesn't cost anything to do. Just some time, maybe. Do you think you have enough time nowadays to start looking into that?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "Yep, for sure. It's not going to be easy. ", "output": "Reflection of feelings" }, { "input": "Most likely! The only thing keeping me from saying definitely is because I don't know all the info. But sure.", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "I gotta believe that switching careers is much more common nowadays than it was one or two generations ago. People you meet along the way will understand.", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "Absolutely. Work can affect mental health particularly when it seems like your efforts aren't going towards anything meaningful. Is that how it feels at your job now?", "output": "Restatement or Paraphrasing" }, { "input": "Good to know. Because maybe that's something you could keep in mind when you think about new jobs. Does this job allow me to see meaningful outcomes from my effort, and so on.", "output": "Information" }, { "input": "That's cool, thanks for saying that. It was nice talking with you!", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "Hello! How are you doing today?\n\n", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "That seems like a tough situation! What feelings made you decide you need to breakup with her?\n", "output": "Reflection of feelings" }, { "input": "I completely understand that. I recently broke up with my boyfriend earlier this year, because I didn't feel like I loved him as much as I used to. Things like that are important! \n", "output": "Self-disclosure" }, { "input": "How long have you guys been together?\n", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "Oh I see. That's a huge step to make in a relationship. So you are hesitant to break up with her because she moved just to be with you?\n", "output": "Restatement or Paraphrasing" }, { "input": "Have you communicated with her about your concerns? Such as being difficult to live with?\n", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "I think it's great that we got matched up, because I went through also the exact same situation. My boyfriend and I were long distance, and he moved across the country to be closer to me. So when I felt like we needed to break up, I was experiencing similar guilt that you are experiencing. ", "output": "Self-disclosure" }, { "input": "I want to reassure you, that doing what's best for you is what is most important! Your partner will understand this if they truly care for you. Things will be tough for a while, but you both will be able to grow from this experience. And just because you don't want to be in a relationship anymore, doesn't mean that you don't care about her! \n", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "Staying friends after the fact might take the pressure off of you a little bit. You can still help her out and be there for each other, but as friends instead of partner's.\n", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "Yes exactly! It's so difficult for the dumper as well, because of course you still have strong feelings for this person. They just aren't romantic anymore. \n", "output": "Reflection of feelings" }, { "input": "And that is okay. You don't need to feel guilty for things that you can't control. You can still be there for her without pretending to be in love\n", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "I think talking to her and being transparent about your feelings is definitely the right move. In doing this, reassure her you still want to be friends and you aren't just \"kicking her to the curb.\" Things will obviously be awkward for the first little bit, because continuing to live together will bring it's own difficulties. But the beautiful thing about that is, you guys are already used to it. :) So it's only hard if you make it hard\n", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "Yes exactly. And from chatting with you, I can tell that you are a very caring person. You don't want to hurt her. I believe that you have the understanding of the situation, and you know what you should and shouldn't do in order to make it work. The hard part is simply getting the courage to finally discuss it. But I think you are going to be able to do that just fine!\n\n", "output": "Reflection of feelings" }, { "input": "What I've gathered about you as a person, makes me confident that you probably chose a partner that will be able to have this talk with you and you both will come to an understanding. \n", "output": "Reflection of feelings" }, { "input": "Yes I think it's very great we were able to connect on our issues! It definitely helps. You are welcome! :)\n", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "Of course! And it wouldn't be fair to her, just as much as it wouldn't be fair to you. Your happiness is just as important!\n", "output": "Restatement or Paraphrasing" }, { "input": "Of course! I'm glad that you are feeling a bit better about everything! You as well!\n", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "Hello, how are you today?\n", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "It seems you are having a difficult time with your finances. Is that correct?", "output": "Restatement or Paraphrasing" }, { "input": "I'm sure it will take dedication and hard work, but I bet you can do it!", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "I've been in your shoes and also feel that's a good way to add a little extra income. It can really add up if left to built and used towards a specific goal.", "output": "Self-disclosure" }, { "input": "It definitely can help. Perhaps you could have a separate way of using some of the money to go towards some of the other bills you would like to pay off? Maybe designate a certain percentage for what you are using it towards now, and the rest to other bill concerns.", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "Yes, and I have found this can be a good way to provide for the extra luxuries we like, without taking away from money that's used towards household bills.", "output": "Self-disclosure" }, { "input": "Have you tried to use some of the scripts that can be added that allows you to catch hits that are hard to get on Mturk? They can be very helpful. Also, there are forums that have all kinds of useful information for workers.", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "You might find it useful to do a little research and add them as extensions to Chrome or whatever browser you use. They are free and pretty simple to use. ", "output": "Information" }, { "input": "They have helped me in being able to get a bit more extra income. The scripts will continually try to grab the hits for you and then put them in your queue if they catch them. It's easier and faster than trying to grab them over and over. The forums can a large amount of help too. Perhaps try MTS. They also can show exactly how much you end up making per hour, filter by monetary amount of hits, etc\n", "output": "Self-disclosure" }, { "input": "Of course, I hope it can be of use too you! One I use is Mechanical Turk Suite, which is an extension. I think you can look up as a search for extensions, scripts etc. Or Mturk forums and find out tons of help!\n", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "You're welcome! Best of Luck!", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "I think you have it. You too.", "output": "Reflection of feelings" }, { "input": "hey there, how's it going?\n", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "is there one particular problem or issue that's been on your mind the most lately?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "That sounds rough, I'm sorry. Being away from people we care about would make anyone feel pretty bad.", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "You don't have to answer anything you don't want, but I'm curious- how'd you end up 5 hours away from the people you know?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "Gotcha. That's rough for you. Sounds like you made a sacrifice to make that happen.", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "Glad to hear that :)", "output": "Reflection of feelings" }, { "input": "A lot of us feel like we need friends around to keep our mood up, or to get support when we're bummed or bored or sad. Sorry to hear you have less friends nowadays.", "output": "Reflection of feelings" }, { "input": "Are you interested in finding new friends?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "Yeah, that's tough. It's tough enough to make friends as an adult in a new city. Tougher still if it seems like a lot of people are into things you don't want to be around.", "output": "Reflection of feelings" }, { "input": "What's a word you'd use to describe your feelings about this issue? Sad, lonely, frustrated, etc?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "Bleh, sorry to hear that. And also, that makes sense based on what you've told me.", "output": "Reflection of feelings" }, { "input": "Good talking to you too. Lonely sucks, but in a way it's also okay. I hope you don't feel like you're broken or you're doing something wrong. ", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "Good luck to you and stay safe! Have a good day.", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "What is going on today", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "\\So you have had a breakup recently and you are feeling down about it", "output": "Restatement or Paraphrasing" }, { "input": "So are you doubting that you made the right decision or are you just feeling sadness at the loss you are feeling right now", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "You must have had good reason's to have made the decision to breakup and to have initiated it. Its normal to doubt yourself afterwards. You may want to remind yourself of the reasons that you came to your decision you did. Im sure the reasons are still valid", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "So you felt the need to have some time to fucus on your own goals and growth and now you feel like you could have stayed in the relationship and you are doubting that you needed to take the step of breaking up. In my experience at times we need to be single for self growth and I have found that personal growth usual thrives when I am single. ", "output": "Self-disclosure" }, { "input": "I think you are feeling a loss even though you feel that at this time you need to be alone to focus on your own growth. When you had the conversation about this breakup were you honest about why you need the space and that your problem was not with the relationship but with maybe the timing. I think with communication and after growth perhaps by keeping the door open with this person maybe you can have some sort of relationship in the future even if its friendship or maybe more. You are doing what is right for yourself at the given time", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "I have been in both situations before the one who needed space and also as the one who was broken up with. I think right now the best thing you can do for you and the person is to stick with your decision and give them time they also may need space to process and deal with the breakup and growth for themselves without really letting go you won't be able to grow in time you can have a conversation and ask but it might be six months down the road wait for them to come to you they have asked for time as you did too soon", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "Focusing on yourself sounds like the best thing you can do. Start on that list of self improvements you want to make. Connect with friends you may have lost touch with. Your going to be great", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "Your welcome and I love that you are so dedicated to your development", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "Hi, how are you?", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "I see. Can you tell me about what's happening with you at work that's bothering you?\n", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "It sounds like you're in a tough spot right now, not knowing what your future will be like.", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "Yes, I can sense that you're quite anxious and fearful.", "output": "Reflection of feelings" }, { "input": "I imagine it must be difficult. From a practical standpoint, have you tried to reach out to people you can trust in your personal and professional network to see whether there are opportunities for work?\n", "output": "Information" }, { "input": "It's understandable that you're feeling a sense of panic now. I imagine everyone would feel that way.", "output": "Reflection of feelings" }, { "input": "Yes, the news can be depressing. Is there a support group of some sort in your area?\n", "output": "Information" }, { "input": "I have in the past. It's more common than people think.", "output": "Self-disclosure" }, { "input": "I hope you'll find something too. I've found that when you reach out, people can be more willing to help than you expect.", "output": "Self-disclosure" }, { "input": "Yes, times are tough for many people. ", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "You're welcome. Happy to help.", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "Hello there\n", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "Actually I haven't seen the details. How can I help you ?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "That must be a real challenge. Anyone would feel stressed in this situation.", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "So you used to rely on his income and now you are struggling to make ends meet?", "output": "Restatement or Paraphrasing" }, { "input": "I have also felt that COVID has added additional pressure in my life. You are not alone in thinking this. It must be tough", "output": "Self-disclosure" }, { "input": "So from talking to you it seems like there has been a sudden death which has been difficult, financial challenges as a result and all this is mixed with Covid and moving house. This must be incredibly stressful.", "output": "Reflection of feelings" }, { "input": "Have you tried looking at your problems individually and trying to tackle them in smaller manageable steps?", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "Have you looked into financial support for people in your situation who care for others, such as government support or subsidies?", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "Many people are surprised by what help is actually available if they take a look. The government has provided quite comprehensive support, especially for carers.", "output": "Information" }, { "input": "I think you are trying to stay positive which is a good thing. It is easy to give up but I think you can get through this.", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "Not at all but I would suggest looking for help. There is no shame in asking for support. We all need that at times.", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "There is no need to feel embarrassed. I think it shows strength it character to realise when help is needed and your situation is very challenging.", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "You are welcome and I'm glad that it helped.\n", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "Hi! How's it going today?\n", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "I'm doing really well, thanks. What brings you here today?\n", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "I can appreciate that. Thinking about lost loves makes me sad too!", "output": "Self-disclosure" }, { "input": "What about this particular relationship makes you feel sad?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "Oh...I see, you think s/he's the \"one who got away?\"", "output": "Restatement or Paraphrasing" }, { "input": "Why did you break up?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "Wow...that does sound painful.", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "I know how hard it is to let go of a guy you really loved. I've had to break up with a few of them over the years!", "output": "Self-disclosure" }, { "input": "In the long run, I feel that those break-ups were absolutely necessary. I'm in a really good place now. And they are too. ", "output": "Self-disclosure" }, { "input": "I eventually learned to think of it like this: every man I loved taught me something important about myself. ANd I taught them things about themselves. ANd it doesn't happen overnight. But eventually, you will probably be able to see how you grew as a result of the breakup.", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "Maybe the things you will learn can help you be ready for Mr Right!", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "That's a really good way of looking at it.", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "Oohh.... I think it really depended on how long I was with them. ANd why I decided to end it. The longer relationships Maybe a few weeks to a few months before I was ready to move on and try again. BUt Only a fraction of that was crying with Ben & Jerry's!", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "For me it just happened that one day, I thought about Gary and I didn't really feel that sad anymore. I just thought...wow, we had some good times. \n", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "B&J's and a few good rom-coms ought to put you in a better mood! Lol", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "It really sounds like you are making progress!", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "Just remember the old saying \"time heals all wounds.\"", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "It's my pleasure! I hope you keep feeling stronger!", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "You know, I believe you!", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "Hi, how are you today?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "Is there anything you’d like to talk about?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "Wow, you’ve lost friends. I know how that feels. ", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "So you’re missing them?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "I honestly believe we all go through that. ", "output": "Self-disclosure" }, { "input": "I think it’s especially difficult with divorce. ", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "Friends are so important to me also. ", "output": "Self-disclosure" }, { "input": "Do you thing the covid crisis has caused more divorces?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "It’s certainly more difficult to make new friends now. ", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "Wow, that’s difficult. ", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "You’re married?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "I sure miss my friends. ", "output": "Self-disclosure" }, { "input": "That’s wonderful, I am closer to my spouse now also. ", "output": "Self-disclosure" }, { "input": "Have you considered new activities, like hobbies? ", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "I learned how to how to\nbake sourdough bread for instance. ", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "One other thing, many insurance companies are providing chat via computer with counseling. ", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "Hello how are you doing today?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "I am sorry to hear that", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "I am ok thank you for asking\n", "output": "Self-disclosure" }, { "input": "will your bad grade affect your overall grade very bad?\n", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "oh no, do you think you could do something to earn some extra credit?", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "I was the opposite in school i could pass a test no problem but i was not good on writing papers", "output": "Self-disclosure" }, { "input": "Is your overall grade pretty high without the grade from this current paper?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "Maybe you could talk to your teacher and find out what they feel you could have done differently to get a better grade.", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "since it is only your first grade of the semester try not to let it get you to down, i am sure you can pull you average back up", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "i would not take that to personally. i am sure he was just saying that to make everyone second guess themselves and push themselves to work harder", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "Oh no thanks need you seem to be very smart i am sure you are going to do well", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "well thank you its always nice to feel apperciated!", "output": "Self-disclosure" }, { "input": "I wish you all the best of luck with your schooling this semester!", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "Happy Holidays to you to!", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "HELLO HOW ARE YOU TODAY?\n", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "CAN YOU FIND ONE POSITIVE THING THAT HAPPENED TODAY?\n", "output": "Reflection of feelings" }, { "input": "WHAT DO YOU HEAR?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "I apologize I broke my hand and its easier for me.", "output": "Self-disclosure" }, { "input": "I am sorry that the world has hurtful people. are these people who can be avoided?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "Can you get away from this situation? I have resources that could help you.", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "we can get the kids to safety as well", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "do you think this something to be reconciled?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "Well thats concerning. He could not prove anything if he is keeping you from therapy. essentialoly denying you medical care", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "can i help in anyway", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "Hello, How are you today?\n", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "I'm doing good! Have you been struggling with anything lately?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "That sounds like a hard decision to make, I recently went through a very similar situation with my employer. Money issues are hard to deal with because it affects our livelihood. ", "output": "Self-disclosure" }, { "input": "Is it possible for you to receive a raise from your current job?", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "It sounds like you are really stressed over the future possibilities. It also seems like you love you job now so it may be hard to leave.", "output": "Reflection of feelings" }, { "input": "Are there any better paying jobs near you that you think you could enjoy just as much?", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "It sounds like you have a good understanding of the different possibilities that you have. It also sounds like it may be more stressful for you to leave your current job.", "output": "Reflection of feelings" }, { "input": "I have recently started using different budgeting apps that also include different coupons available at my local grocery stores. Have you tried any of these that might help budgeting?", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "There are so many different options available and some even provide small loans until your next payday, I know I have used these when I was in a tight spot. ", "output": "Information" }, { "input": "I think that's a great idea and will provide you much more happiness in the long run.", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "I'm so glad I could help, it seems like you're really making a great choice that will benefit you and provide great support in the near future.", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "Thank you! You as well!", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "hey friend! I should let you know that if you have typed in a description, i cant see it. how are you doing ?", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "If you're willing to share, please.", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "ouch. that sounds like it really hurts. how are you feeling about that? betrayed? sad? mad?", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "Yeah, its a low blow. What are you looking for around this?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "Closure seems only reasonable. Realistically, logically, I can't give that to you here. I can do all sorts of other things though. I can remind you that all that you feeling is totally valid!", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "And know that closure isn't something anyone can give you, you can give it to yourself. You may never forget this act, but you have the option to forgive, to be compassionate to whatever you friend may be going through, and act with love.\n", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "Heck yeah! Theres no need to give your energy and power away, and if your friend comes back into your life, you can repair and heal. Whats brought you joy today?\n", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "Thats great! I judge you are worthy of the compliments :) Thanks for connecting with me today\n!", "output": "Self-disclosure" }, { "input": "likewise!\n", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "hello. how was your day?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "that's sounds good, you are learning about your job ", "output": "Restatement or Paraphrasing" }, { "input": "don't worry my friend believe on your progress and hardwork and the luck too may be yours", "output": "Restatement or Paraphrasing" }, { "input": "i could understand your state right now. its hard to be in this position of fear", "output": "Reflection of feelings" }, { "input": "yes, you are right especially during this pandemic many people face these kind of difficulties", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "Always hope for a best result. This will keep you optimistic", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": " That' sounds too good .At the same time be ready to face whatever the life gives us", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "Life is full of surprises and miracles. and the same time life is full of pains and sorrow. it matters how we see even the layoff thing you can take it either as a surprise or pain ", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "i have also faced the same problem before two years but the luck was on my side at that time and not last for long after some months i was asked to leave but now i become normal", "output": "Self-disclosure" }, { "input": "that's good. you seems to be more optimistic and acceptable in nature and your concern about your colleagues is great", "output": "Restatement or Paraphrasing" }, { "input": "hello", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "I apologize I was having a sneezing fit!", "output": "Self-disclosure" }, { "input": "What is on your mind today? ", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "No, cats and out of claritin. ", "output": "Self-disclosure" }, { "input": "oh my, that is horrible! ", "output": "Reflection of feelings" }, { "input": "That's great to hear she is responding!", "output": "Restatement or Paraphrasing" }, { "input": "ah, are they elderly or have a weakened immune system? ", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "gotcha. you must live with them to help them out! ", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "mine are in another state so i don't have to worry about my behavior. you are right though, anyone can get it...i should probably be more careful myself ", "output": "Reflection of feelings" }, { "input": "i have increased my vitamins i admit. have you as well? ", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "that's great!", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "i am hoping it all ends soon...i miss how things used to be", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "i think we all worry about outofstate relatives. mine are all out of state... the holidays will be hard", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "lol living in a bubble wrap bubble!", "output": "Restatement or Paraphrasing" }, { "input": "very true..just keep on keeping on! :) ", "output": "Restatement or Paraphrasing" }, { "input": "yes....but my recycling pile has gottene out of hand with amazon boxes", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "oops lol", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "a lot of things can be addictive! ", "output": "Information" }, { "input": "haha", "output": "Reflection of feelings" }, { "input": "anything else you want to talk about?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "have a good day! ", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "Hello! What would you like to talk about today?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "Can you tell me more about this anxiety?\n", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "I am here, it seems that you don't feel like you've studied enough. Is that correct?\n", "output": "Restatement or Paraphrasing" }, { "input": "It truly depends on the subject! There are online sites that provide free additional instruction\n", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "Can you tell me what the class is?\n", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "Khan Academy is absolutely fantastic! It is extremely helpful and accurate since it is run by educators.", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "No but I am a former math teacher and I would give them to my students!", "output": "Self-disclosure" }, { "input": "I am so glad! I know online school is stressful but I think you can do it.", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "I can recommend other resources if you'd like.\n", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "If this is an upper level math course, you can go to university sites! They always have lessons\n", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "Of course! Did you have any other questions?", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "Good luck studying! You're capable of doing well!", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "You can terminate the convo at any time!", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "Hi\n", "output": "Information" }, { "input": "I am fine. How about yourself?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "That's good.", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "Is there anything you need today?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "Yes we are. Would you like to tell me about it ?", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "I'm sorry, no I didn't see that information. Will you explain your situation to me?\n", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "I see. It sound like your bothered by that.", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "So how did you handle that situation?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "That's good that you've moved passed it.", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "Are you happy with your decision?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "It takes time for trust wounds to heal but you've handle it greatly.", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "Good for you! Have you heard of Cheater's Anonymous?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "Yes it is. They help you learn to trust again if that's what you want. Would you like the web address?", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "I'm so proud of you. Here you go. WWW.CHEATERSANNONYMOUS.COM\n", "output": "Information" }, { "input": "The address is case sensitive so be sure to use all CAPITALS.", "output": "Information" }, { "input": "No thank you. You assured me people can work through their issues. Good luck.", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "I don't think I could have done as well as you in that situation.", "output": "Self-disclosure" }, { "input": "I just meant if I ever got in your situation I would remember what you did and go from there. Thanks", "output": "Self-disclosure" }, { "input": "You are right that we are strong humans.", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "it was no problem. I love hearing how people solve their issues.", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "Okay and thank you.", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "Hi! Tell me what's going on.", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "Understood. You have a lot on your plate, especially with the \"new normal\".", "output": "Restatement or Paraphrasing" }, { "input": "Are you doing online schooling? And yes, going anywhere can be a bit nerve-wracking", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "I understand; sometimes I have moments like that, too.", "output": "Self-disclosure" }, { "input": "What kind of things are you doing for yourself? Do you have a place to or a thing to do to...decompress?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "Sure, it sometimes feels like time is different right now. Like your typical life patterns just did a complete circle.", "output": "Reflection of feelings" }, { "input": "Understood! I'm not in the exact same situation, but I feel you. There's the thought there would be so much to do things and...there's not. And you feel stuck a bit.", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "Definitely a massive change!", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "Of course. We can'r celebrate the way we used to, we might not be able to visit family. Oh yes, this is a learning opportunity about anxiety and isolation\n", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "That's good that you have people to reach out to.", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "You're welcome! Venting can be great! Take care of yourself and stay in touch with your friends", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "Thank you. Have a good day and take care.", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "hello!\n\n", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "How are things going for you today?\n", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "Okay, with some job anxiety, Would you be willing to say more about that?\n", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "Woah. Blessings to you for existing in what sounds like a stressful situation. How is self care going during this?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "Heck yeah! You're worth it! Thats great that you do those things for yourself.", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "Is there anything you want to have happen here?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "But of course!", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "Tell me, what gold would you say you have reaped from this year? What goodness or strength have you discovered?\n", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "Go you! Sounds like you've really found some gifts in all this hardship. What are some things that have brought you joy today?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "Wonderful! If I'd have to put on a bow on it, I'd ask....What kind of person stays positive, grows closer to their partner, and takes care of themselves?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "Nailed it!\n", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "Hello there! How can I help you this afternoon? ", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "Feeling consistently sad is a tough place to be. I'm sorry to hear you're going through that. ", "output": "Restatement or Paraphrasing" }, { "input": "I can certainly understand that. Are you working or attending classes from home? ", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "It's very hard to maintain a sense of consistency when we have few boundaries on our time, or a daily routine. ", "output": "Reflection of feelings" }, { "input": "I have been attending school online, and I occasionally make deliveries for my husband and I's small business. ", "output": "Self-disclosure" }, { "input": "Yes, a daily routine is good for normalizing change. It's also good for structuring in time to relax and recharge, which you still need even if you aren't currently employed. Times are still very stressful and uncertain, and that takes an emotional toll no matter who you are. ", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "I understand being angry about that. Going to school supposedly is/was a way to take control of one's life, it's no longer the guarantee is once was. ", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "I sometimes feel a similar way about my own classes. I am also in my thirties. ", "output": "Self-disclosure" }, { "input": "But I personally enjoy learning, and would always regret it if I never finished my degree. We all have our cultural norms that we conform to, whether consciously or unconsciously.", "output": "Self-disclosure" }, { "input": "Do you find yourself being stymied at the application level or the interview level when it comes to jobs? ", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "Maybe having a professional in your career path review your resume would be helpful", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "hi how are you today?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "That is good to hear.", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "oh no i am so sorry to hear that! What seems to be stressing you out the most about it?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "i am sorry to hear that i know that must be really stressful this time of the year", "output": "Reflection of feelings" }, { "input": "I feel you on that, we are a one income family and trying to find the extra cash to provide for our kids Christmas is always a big factor for us. ", "output": "Self-disclosure" }, { "input": "Do you have any family or friends that you could talk to that may could help you out until the first of the year?", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "I am sorry to hear that. Have you spoke to your husband about the stress you feel from his hours being cut? Maybe you both could come up with a plan to move some bills around to make it work.", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "Do you have any friends that you could maybe start babysitting for or cleaning houses for? Sometimes I post on my local moms group looking for small jobs and luck up there.", "output": "Information" }, { "input": "I understand that, my youngest has autism so my schedule is very limited", "output": "Self-disclosure" }, { "input": "I wish i could have helped you better. Try not to stress it to much as hard as it is not to be able to give them what they want the bright side is they are so small that they will appreciate anything you can get them", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "Can you tell me more about your feelings?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "When did these feelings come about", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "I can understand where your coming from with that, especially since this pandemic occurred ", "output": "Restatement or Paraphrasing" }, { "input": "it seems like this could be overwhelming to you and trying to figure out the right path to go forward\n", "output": "Reflection of feelings" }, { "input": "I can relate to you in this situation 100% and if it wasnt for me stepping out on faith and opening my own practice, I wouldnt be here now.\n", "output": "Self-disclosure" }, { "input": "Always putting money aside when able, and doing lots of research about first time businesses gave a lot of insights. Have you tried to look into things like that yourself? ", "output": "Information" }, { "input": "That I do understand as well. This pandemic has made it hard for everyone. Are you a parent with any little ones by chance?\n", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "So here is some information that I have in my files to help others during this time. There is self-help.org that is labeled as being a self help during these times. There is also websites that i used like offerup and PoshMark where I was able to start selling some of my belongings to constantly bring in funds. Also try to google \"How to become a first time business owner\" and see if any of this information helps you and your family. \n", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "I know that it can be hard and frustrating during this time, but you have to remain focused for your family and stay strong because I am sure they look up to you. \nWith myself I did have to go to a lot of friends and family, but my faith and my blessings came from God. Looking to him to help with your problems and actually listening to his words would really alleviate some of the stress that is so draining ", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "Just keep your eyes on the prize because this means that HE has something bigger in store for you!", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "You are very welcome and I am glad that I was able to be here for you.", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "Hello how is your day going\n", "output": "Restatement or Paraphrasing" }, { "input": "Im sorry to hear that please tell me about it", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "I understand that can be flustering. Have you tried contacting your school for help?", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "It is hard to let your coworkers down but you could be honest with them and tell them what happened .", "output": "Reflection of feelings" }, { "input": "One thing you need to assure yourself of is that it wasnt your fault.", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "You do have some other methods available to you to get the transcripts. ", "output": "Information" }, { "input": "Have you tried contacting your State or county board of education?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "The good news is your coworkers will always look up to you even if you are not in the supervisor roll.", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "Your coworkers look up to you because of the person you are.", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "You can still be a big influence to your coworkers without being in the supervisor roll.", "output": "Reflection of feelings" }, { "input": "I think if you spent some time being a mentor to some of your coworkers you would feel better about the situation.", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "Your coworkers obviously look up to you and would appreciate your leadership in mentoring. ", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "Take this oppertunity to share your experience with your coworkers and reach out to your management for more training that is available to you.", "output": "Self-disclosure" }, { "input": "Perhaps you can take some online classes on your own and show management that you are taking an interest in advancing in the company. ", "output": "Information" }, { "input": "Your welcome I'm glad I was able to help. Is there anything else I can help you with?", "output": "Self-disclosure" }, { "input": "OK goodbye. ", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "Hi there, how are you today?\n", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "Can you tell me what's going on to cause you to feel this way?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "I see. I definitely understand how long bouts of depression can make you feel more hopeless. Have you discussed your depression with anyone else before?", "output": "Restatement or Paraphrasing" }, { "input": "Yeah, it sounds like you aren't suicidal. Though I do have to check; have you had any thoughts or tendencies of suicide or self-harm?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "I understand. Can you provide any more information about your meeting with the therapist? You said talking to one didn't help, do you know why?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "That makes sense and is completely natural. It's difficult sometimes to open up to a stranger that you don't completely know or might not trust. It definitely sounds frustrating that she seemed like she was reading from a script. ", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "And I'm glad to hear you think I'm doing alright lol", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "That's interesting. I know from experience that finding a good therapist is all about trial and error, unfortunately. It's important to find the right fit and I would definitely suggest looking for a new one. Do you know of anyone in your life, maybe a friend or family member, that has been to therapy that you would be comfortable getting a recommendation from?", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "That sounds like a great idea! Remember to keep your friends close too. I know it can be tough when you feel as low as this, but it's important to have a good support system in addition to any therapy you might be receiving.", "output": "Information" }, { "input": "That's great to hear! It really sounds like you can go to them for support and often being there for someone else can make us feel better too.", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "Aww that's so good of you to say!! I do want to confirm that you have a game-plan now, though. Remember to keep your friends close and to start looking for a new therapist if you haven't already. If you find one that's not the right fit it doesn't hurt to start over or maybe even ask for a recommendation from that therapist. If they're any good they should understand how important it is for you to find a good fit. Also remember to be kind to yourself. It can be difficult, but I know you can do it.", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "That's absolutely wonderful to hear! Is there anything else you would like to discuss today?", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "Awesome. You've got this! Have a good rest of your day", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "Hello, what seems to be on your mind?\n\n", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "I see. How long have your two friends been arguing?\n", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "It sounds like tempers are all running pretty hot for everyone right now, is that correct?\n", "output": "Restatement or Paraphrasing" }, { "input": "Well, it sounds like you are in a tough spot since both your friends are so mad at each other. \n", "output": "Reflection of feelings" }, { "input": "Why do you think your one friends shared a secret they were\n supposed to keep?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "I think I understand. Sometimes we accidentally hurt the people we love when we are trying to help. ", "output": "Reflection of feelings" }, { "input": "I think it is great that you want to actively help, it says a lot about you.", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "Sometimes the best way to help someone understand is to give them a little time and space. Trying to force someone to understand doesn't always work.\n", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "Sometimes the best way to help someone understand is to give them a little time and space. Trying to force someone to understand doesn't always work.\n", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "You could also try talking to your hurt friend like this and ask her if she thinks the other friend truly meant to hurt her. I bet she knows that wasn't the case.", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "I bet you guys will all be friends again in no time.", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "You as well!\n", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "Good afternoon! What can I help you with today? ", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "That is an extremely tough situation to go through, I'm sorry to hear that. ", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "Yes, job applications can feel particularly demeaning to complete. Personally, I get frustrated with all the repetition and then repetitive rejection. It seems like I had no value. ", "output": "Self-disclosure" }, { "input": "But you have to consider that there are dozens of different reasons why you don't get selected for a job, and quite a few of them have nothing to do with you , either as a person or as an employee. ", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "No, don't think that. I know of several employers that have actually said they don't want employees smarter than them. It requires more money and more management, and quite a few people are very happy to not do either of those things for ostensibly higher quality workforce. ", "output": "Reflection of feelings" }, { "input": "On an actionable level, have you been getting blocked at the application point or the interviewing point? ", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "I see. Maybe there are some qualification programs in your local area, or maybe at the local university or college where you could take classes? There is a career development center at my local university that is open to everyone, maybe you could see if they would review your resume and give you some objective feedback? Students love a good live subject :-) ", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "You should explore what resources your city/county/province may offer for job seekers. It is in the best interest of almost every community that its members have have jobs and feel useful, so you may find some valuable information and maybe some connections. ", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "Oh! And what I always tell everyone who is looking for a job: Apply UP! Don't ever think is something above your level. Apply UP! They may admire your temerity and invite you for an interview just to see who you think you are :-)", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "I am glad to hear you are feeling a little better! Yes, bad management is so toxic. Even with great coworkers in a job you love, horrible management can ruin it quickly. ", "output": "Reflection of feelings" }, { "input": "You seem like you are open to trying new solutions and putting in the effort to up your competitive level. Stay positive and take care of yourself mentally and physically, and I think you will be successful. ", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "I was in a similar situation, nothing was ever good enough, and we were never given enough information to succeed anyhow. ", "output": "Self-disclosure" }, { "input": "I am glad to hear that! ", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "That is awesome :-)", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "Hello. How are you doing today?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "Oh, I am sorry about that. Why are you feeling down?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "I can understand that. It is difficult feeling alone. ", "output": "Self-disclosure" }, { "input": "It sounds like you feel your friends are too busy for you.", "output": "Restatement or Paraphrasing" }, { "input": "Why do you think you are having trouble finding a suitable romantic partner?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "Sometimes meeting people through mutual friends is helpful. Have you asked any of your friends if they could introduce to you people they know?", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "I can see how that would make it difficult. What about internet dating or going to a single's night?", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "I am sure if you get yourself out there, you will definitely meet a great partner for you.", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "It seems Covid is making dating difficult for everyone.", "output": "Restatement or Paraphrasing" }, { "input": "It is reasonable to use Covid as an excuse. I am sure there are plenty of women out there who are also confused about why they can't find someone.", "output": "Information" }, { "input": "I am sure after Covid is over, there will be plenty of possible romantic partners coming your way. :)\n", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "You are welcome. Good Luck!", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "Hello! What is on your mind today? ", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "I am so sorry to hear that. I know how that feels. ", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "That is horrible he said hurtful things, but perhaps he didn't know how to manage what he was feeling. ", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "Was it a mutual breakup or did something happen? ", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "Realizing someone isn't the same you fell in love with seems valid. Fighting over a salad is definately not something most couples argue over. \n", "output": "Restatement or Paraphrasing" }, { "input": "He probably did feel attacked, but I am sure he noticed the continual fighting as well", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "It sounds like you did what was best for you. We all deserve to be happy, and it sounds like you really were not anymore. ", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "Are you having any regrets on the breakup? ", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "I think I have said the same thing in a breakup so I wouldn't take that personal. ", "output": "Self-disclosure" }, { "input": "People say things they dont mean, or just say mean things to hurt because they are hurting", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "lol exactly", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "I bet there is someone out there for you, you jut need to find someone whos ideas of the future line up with yours ", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "Perhaps if you set up a dating profile have that be an intro question: is a salad a meal? you can weed people out that way!!!!", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "It sounds like you are going to be okay, and I am sure you will find someone when the time is right! ", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "I agree, and I wish you the bet of luck! ", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "You are welcome!", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "Hello, how are we doing today?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "Would you want to go further into whats causing this anxiety?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "Well, have you tried online platforms like MTurk?", "output": "Information" }, { "input": "It can be bit tough to get into in the beginning, but with a decent amount of work and determination it might be able to help with your monetary problems.", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "I hear you on that. I am disabled and the extra income helps a lot for my family. Unfortunately until the pandemic ends a part time job might not be in your best interest for now. Ebay flipping takes some time to get into as well but could help.", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "Its actually very easy now. You can print out the slips at home and they tell you how much it will be. I have done it a few times, the last time was only a couple months a go.", "output": "Information" }, { "input": "I am sorry for that. Yea having a nest egg is ideal, but i know how hard it can be. I think with the extra cash and space it may be a big help to those anxiety issues. Do you drive a lot as it is now?", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "Well at least you are not putting to much wear on them now. Have you checked with local governments for assistance? Even with things like medication?", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "Believe me never hurts to try. A penny you save on something else can be a penny that goes into your savings", "output": "Information" }, { "input": "Wow thats pretty good. Yeah it is. It seems you are very proactive about this which is really good.", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "I am very glad i could be of some help. I truly believe you have this handled.", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "You as well!", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "Hi there, how are you today?", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "That is really hard. I know COVID has had a huge toll on folks. Do you have a good support system in place to help during this trying time? ", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "That's really great! Having a good support system is important right now. I understand it's difficult to find a job during these times. ", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "Have you tried looking for an online only - remote position? Like some administrative work?", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "Where are you looking for jobs right now? Some of my friends have had some success by looking on LinkedIn or Idealist. ", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "How about Craigslist? Not my favorite personally speaking, but might be worth taking a look. ", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "I'm confident you'll find something! Hopefully you have some great self care practices in place that will help you through this time", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "I do - thank you for checking :-) ", "output": "Self-disclosure" }, { "input": "I'm an introvert / homebody so it's been fairly easy for me. I have a lot of projects at home that I enjoy doing (reading, puzzles, meditating, yoga, etc) that keep me busy. I was also, very lucky to be able to keep my full-time job so that keeps me fairly busy most days. But I like a change of scenery and do Mturk tasks for fun", "output": "Self-disclosure" }, { "input": "yes! not a whole lot honestly, but i like it.", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "I agree! It would be nice to have more options of things to do. I do miss going to the library and reading or a museum. Hoping more people will start to wear masks and really start to take this seriously", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "Good afternoon! What can I help you with today?", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "Oof, yes, school can be a tough situation. Are you close to the end of the semester? ", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "That can be both a relief and stressful, because a break is near, but all the exams and projects are due.", "output": "Reflection of feelings" }, { "input": "Ahh, I see. That is a great deal of time and work. What are you studying? ", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "Time management can be very difficult with a normal class load, that sounds exhausting. ", "output": "Reflection of feelings" }, { "input": "Do calendars help you at all? I am a super visual person, so calendars and planners are invaluable to me, as well as different colors of ink and labels so I can visually divide my attention", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "Getting a million different colors of pens and highlighters changed my organization for the better. ", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "Also, setting clear boundaries for your study/work and relax times may help. I like to set a timer for, say, 45 minutes, and work/write/read/study for that long, then, I get a 10 minute break. I'll go outside, refresh my coffee, grab a snack, dance to some music, stretch, then set another timer for 45 minutes, then another break for 10 minutes. That allows my brain to take a second and refresh from the work.", "output": "Self-disclosure" }, { "input": "Or, like, today, I woke up and spent half an hour allowing myself to drink my coffee and scroll through Reddit. Then it was time to work on my group project for 45 minutes, then a break, then I worked again, took a break, went to a class, etc. Scheduling your breaks can be helpful too so your lizard brain doesn't freak out and go \"WE ARE GOING TO BE WORKING FOREVERRRR\"", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "which, for me at least, is where the fatigue sets in. You're very welcome! I hope I was helpful. You seem positive and willing to try new things, and I think you will be successful even if you are tired. ", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "Definitely not. Everyone's Maslow hierarchy getting knocked out from under them is extremely disconcerting. ", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "Like how is a person supposed to study, self-actualize, when we literally don't know what will happen next? ", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "Are there aspects of your study that you dislike, or are you just ready to be done with school? Little of column A + column b?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "Ah, yes, that makes sense. And working from home is infamously hard, again, for lack of boundaries, so in addition to just not seeing people and getting the casual affirmation and confirmation messages on a daily basis of like \"hey Jim you did a great job on that spreadsheet\" or \"Haha Jessica you're so funny\", we also are writing papers in our pajamas and bedclothes, which makes it seem interminable.", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "Listening to lectures while the doorbell is ringing and it's just so strange and we aren't set up to do it. That's why I'm a big fan of specific spaces in my house since March. I tried to sit in bed with my laptop and do things but 1. I'm old and it hurts my wrists and 2. my headspace is so completely different from being my computer chair and at my desk. I try to be really strict about where I do my work., maybe trying to structure that a bit could help you feel a little more in control of the work load and your day's schedule. ", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "I am very glad to hear that! You sound motivated to succeed and I think that you deserve to take care of yourself and stay healthy to complete your studies. It will be hard but it will also be worth it, and you should be proud. Good luck with everything! ", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "Thank you! You too!", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "Hi there, how are we doing today?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "Im doing great thanks. Anything on your mind today?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "And what do you mean by microcheating?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "Oh i see, well i think overthinking things like that can lead to unwanted emotions. Or putting yourself in a situation with another person when you are in a relationship might mean there are other issues going on.", "output": "Information" }, { "input": "Well, if you are not talking to them then i see no harm. If you are talking to them with some sort of intention to for a relationship beyond friendship then i see issues arising.", "output": "Information" }, { "input": "To never speak to your fiance?", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "If you want to continue your relationship and you do not feel you can continue a platonic relationship with this other person then that might be best.", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "I think it might be as well if you cannot control it. I do have to ask though, are you happy with your Fiance?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "Then i 100% back you on your decision. Id take this time to focus on you too. Strengthen the bond a bit.", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "I thank you for opening up!", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "I really wouldnt even consider it cheating to have feelings. Acting on them or trying to strengthen them may be though.", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "I see that, have you tried to talk to your friends about this issue? Or even try a therapist? Maybe you and your Fiance can figure out more times to talk with facetime or zoom. Do a virtual date night.", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "I hope you do as well!", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "I'm sorry to hear about that! I can totally understand why you'd be stressed. \n", "output": "Reflection of feelings" }, { "input": "Is it for certain that you will lose your job?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "I can feel your anxiety, and I completely understand why you're feeling that way, but you don't know for sure that will be true. Have you started looking for a new job already?\n", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "It definitely sounds like you're being overwhelmed with a lot of responsibilities along with your job loss. It's definitely a lot of things to deal with all at once, but it would help to break things down so they're more manageable. Do you have anyone close by who can help you out? ", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "I understand completely. I used to bottle things up too, but I've learned that the people who love you won't think you're a burden if you ask for help or just to have someone blow off some steam. ", "output": "Self-disclosure" }, { "input": "Changes are definitely scary, but they can also be a great opportunity to do something different. Is there anything you want to try doing?\n", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "It sounds like you're very self-aware and I think your friends and family will be very willing to lend a hand. ", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "Yes, your family, friends, and health are all really important! I hope you stay safe!", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "I hope you get to enjoy the coming holidays with your family and friends! ", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "You're welcome! Have a great day. \n", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "I hope I was able to help.\n", "output": "Self-disclosure" }, { "input": "Good morning! What can I help you with this morning? ", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "Are you there? ", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "That is a very tough situation to be in, I'm sorry you're having to deal with that. ", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "Are you having to move home or were you taking online classes? ", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "That is understandable. So you aren't having to discontinue your studies immediately? ", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "Okay, thank you for clarifying :-) Your frustration is understandable. Having a job while being in school can be tough, that is true. However if you are discerning you could get a job that would have flexible hours, especially if you let them know beforehand that you're planning on getting back into school as soon as possible. ", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "When I was in college, I worked for the school and the library. It was not a lot of money, but in addition to a small check, it made me more indispensable to the university. ", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "I think you would be able to handle both, as long as you are clear from the beginning about what you need from the job. Too often we are supposed to feel like we need to beg for a job, when in fact, you are interviewing them as well. ", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "You should also explore any and all financial aid offers they can give you. More than once I have been told that not as many people apply for scholarships and grants as you think. ", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "But regardless of whether you're able to balance the two things, even if you are not, your mental health is very important, and you should try to take it easy on yourself. ", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "You're very welcome, I think you are capable of more than you think. ", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "I work from home and also take a few online classes.", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "I actually am getting a second degree in religious studies", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "what happened?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "how are you feeling lately?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "it's okay. we should learn from things like this.", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "don't think much and keep yourself engaged in the activities you like the most.", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "can you tell me how are you before this incident?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "can you share me some happy memories which made you smile", "output": "Reflection of feelings" }, { "input": "can you share me some happy memories which made you smile", "output": "Reflection of feelings" }, { "input": "it's okay. i can understand.", "output": "Reflection of feelings" }, { "input": "yeah me too. i love movies and traveling.", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "I love traveling to new places.", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "yes, i am an american.what about you", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "well, just think of some happy memories and try to spend time with people who value you the most.", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "oh, thats nice of you.thank you", "output": "Reflection of feelings" }, { "input": "you too!", "output": "Reflection of feelings" }, { "input": "i had my breakfast just now. i am planning to cook some beef for lunch.what about you", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "I'm sorry to hear that. Do you know why you feel depressed and sad?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "Have you tried taking some deep breaths to help you right now?", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "Tell me more about the poor relationships you have", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "Are you able to talk to anyone about this? Someone who will at least listen to you talk?", "output": "Information" }, { "input": "Maybe you could take one person aside by themselves and talk privately about your feeling?", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "Yes, just wait for the right time when the person is alone and ask if you could talk.", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "Remember to take deep breaths, wait for the right time and see if that works for you. I know you can do it.", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "I have faith in you. Is there anything else we need to talk about?", "output": "Restatement or Paraphrasing" }, { "input": "Remember, the outcome may not be perfect but slowly things will come together. Take it one step at a time.", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "See if the conversation gives you some insight on how things could be better. Maybe you could see things from someone else's perspective.", "output": "Restatement or Paraphrasing" }, { "input": "Would you be willing to give it a try?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "Also, if that works, then build from there. Remain calm and little by little talk about your concerns.", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "Get some good sleep the night before you try having the conversation so you are at your best.", "output": "Information" }, { "input": "You are welcome. ", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "Good morning! What can I help you with today?", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "That is very understandable. Depression is tough to deal with. ", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "Do you have specific things that are causing you sadness right now or is it an overall feeling of being sad?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "I totally understand. Losing your job is a very rough thing to go through, I'm sorry that happened to you. Feeling constantly at red alert is taxing both mentally and physically. ", "output": "Reflection of feelings" }, { "input": "There is a concept called Maslow's hierarchy of needs, and sometimes I find it useful to think about if my needs are being met, and which is lacking. Which is to say, obviously financial security is your primary need at the moment, but there are other needs you must attend to as well, including your physical comforts. ", "output": "Self-disclosure" }, { "input": "In times of great stress and upheaval, there is only so much you can do. The rest is worry, a hamster running in a wheel, a huge output of energy that does nothing at all. ", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "That makes sense. You sound emotionally exhausted. ", "output": "Reflection of feelings" }, { "input": "Gratitude is one of those things, I've found, that is self-perpetuating. Even if you begin by doing it robotically, eventually your mind and heart will want to be more sincerely grateful. I have in the past challenged myself to find five things to be grateful for in the morning and write them down. Whether those things are \"I have hot coffee and electricity\" or \"I won $1000 for free\", they will begin to start a small fire of joy.", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "That sounds like a great idea! It sounds like you care a lot about your kids, I bet it's easy for you to be grateful for them :-) ", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "And I know that they are grateful for you, whether they are able to articulate that or not", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "Well that is an enormous amount of responsibility that has been placed upon your shoulders, but your attitude seems extremely pleasant and positive. It does not sound easy, but you should make sure you build in some time for yourself if you can. ", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "You definitely have options, but your situation is still tough, and you deserve relief where you can get it. ", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "Of course, I am happy if I was able to help. You have a good heart and love your kids, you stay strong, you can do this :-)", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "You're welcome, you too!", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "Hi, how are you feeling?\n\n", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "Not too bad!\n It looks like a lovely day out. ", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "Well\n make sure you're bundled up and warm!", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "Sounds cozy. Glad to hear that you're staying safe indoors! ", "output": "Restatement or Paraphrasing" }, { "input": "Definitely! How are you dealing with the pandemic? It's been a long year.\n", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "I'm not too bad, but cases are also going up here in California. Luckily, my family and I haven't gotten sick. ", "output": "Self-disclosure" }, { "input": "I think that's true for a lot of states since cases seem to be going up everywhere, unfortunately. What are your plans for the holidays?", "output": "Information" }, { "input": "We're planning on camping in the desert. That's a good idea to save money. How do you plan on saving money?", "output": "Self-disclosure" }, { "input": "Those are all really good ideas, and it sounds like you know what's really important! It's definitely been a tough year, but it's also good to look ahead and plan for the future. ", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "It's been great chatting with you too! Hope you and your loved ones stay safe out there!\n", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "I'm doing fine today. How are you feeling?", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "Can I ask why that is?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "Would you like to talk more about it? What is making you feel that way?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "I see. It seems as though you've done your best, but I understand your feelings. Is it possible you can speak with your boss about it and explain?", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "I understand that, I also had a boss who acted this way. I can feel how stressed you are about this. Is there anything you think you can do to jump ahead of the situation?", "output": "Reflection of feelings" }, { "input": "I think that would be a great solution to your problem. I also think you can try some breathing exercises to help you be less anxious. ", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "Is there anything else you ussually do to help you relax?", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "That seems like a great way to relax! I know that's what helps me as well. ", "output": "Reflection of feelings" }, { "input": "I hope that helps, and I hope everything goes great with your boss!", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "You can always come back for more support if needed!", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "I can understand feeling neglected in a male dominated field. Is there any one that you could discuss with that is higher up or in HR?\n", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "Is this a family owned company?\n", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "That is stressful, being a female myself I can completely understand the stress and pressure. ", "output": "Self-disclosure" }, { "input": "Is there any options of looking for other, possibly better, employment in your area? ", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "i wouldn't quit if you are not prepared to, but i would weigh options of looking for somewhere that would appreciate your efforts in a work place. With 10+ years of experience any company would be more than happy to have a dedicated worker with them. \n", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "Or even inquire about transferring to another location if that would be a possibility?", "output": "Restatement or Paraphrasing" }, { "input": "if it would be more beneficial mentally it could help, and could never hurt to ask for a raise due to the situation. If there is an HR department, I would discuss with them while seeing what other positions may be opening in the area that fit your criteria employment. There is a lot of options that are becoming available that are more beneficial for employees than they imagined. \n", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "unfortunately, most places of employment take advantage of their good workers cause they feel they can get away with it and they will leave. But, at the end of the day, your well being is important.", "output": "Reflection of feelings" }, { "input": "Yes, absolutely! If they have an anonymous contact line that may be able to help ease into the conversation , I would start there. \nI wish you the absolute best of luck and be thinking of your well being!", "output": "Restatement or Paraphrasing" }, { "input": "Of course. Have a good day and good luck!", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "Hello, how are you today?\n", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "What brings you here today?\n", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "Depression can be hard to deal with. What do you think is contributing to your depression?", "output": "Restatement or Paraphrasing" }, { "input": "Yeah, this has really been a hard time for all of us. How has it impacted you personally?\n", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "I can understand how hard that must have been. I'm glad they are doing ok now though! ", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "How have you been using your time during the crisis?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "That's great! Meditation is also something I've picked up during this time. It's really helpful and can keep you balanced. Do you have a routine or do you just do it sporadically?", "output": "Self-disclosure" }, { "input": "It's great to try to integrate it into your day. All of us tend to have at least a few moments each day to ourselves. Even if it's during a shower or bathroom break, you really can meditate anywhere! It's all about being in the here and now.", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "When things get stressful, meditation can be difficult. Sometimes we get wrapped up so much in our emotions that trying to center yourself and focus on your breathing and the moment can be hard. One thing I've learned to be helpful when I'm stressed is to breathe in through my nose while internally counting to three and out through my mouth counting to three. The counting tends to distract my mind from whatever stressful thing I was thinking of before.\n", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "You're welcome! Is there anything else you'd like to talk about?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "My pleasure! I hope things start to look up for you. This has been a difficult time for all of us, but we'll pull through together! Nice speaking with you. Have a great day!", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "I am sorry to hear that, did you apply for unemployment benefit? That at least can help you financially until you get a new job", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "It sucks it happens so close to the holidays. I understand it's hard to accept but I 'd recommend talking with someone close to you like a friend and family member", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "I'm sure someone will be there for you, they know you need them the most right now", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "If you don't feel comfortable talking to them, you can seek online therapist. There are a lot of free service for mental car. ", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "It's not gonna be easy, but at the same time not impossible. Try looking at it a different way. You can use this time to train your skills or do things that you've wanted to but didn't have the time", "output": "Reflection of feelings" }, { "input": "You can still travel domestically or just around your city. I like taking a walk in the park or wandering downtown to clear my mind.", "output": "Self-disclosure" }, { "input": "that really sucks. Do you have a garden at home?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "In the mean time, try following youtube or other channels to work out, it helps you distract from current issue and also makes you healthier. A healthy body is needed for a healthy mind", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "what have you been doing lately?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "that's a great idea, cooking and doing crafts can be helpful for you", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "Instead of complaining with others, you can just invite them to join cooking with you, that way you can have companion.", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "you can do video chat while cooking. I do virtual happy hour with my friends right now too", "output": "Self-disclosure" }, { "input": "haha good idea", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "you too, i hope things get better for yourself", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "Good evening, what is going on?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "What about the exams is making you nervous?", "output": "Information" }, { "input": "What steps have you taken to make sure you do not do poorly?", "output": "Information" }, { "input": "That is understandable. Sometimes we feel like we do not know enough. Have you tried to have someone quiz you?", "output": "Reflection of feelings" }, { "input": "Okay, since you didn't do well, it seems you can pinpoint what you need to work on. That is a good starting point. ", "output": "Restatement or Paraphrasing" }, { "input": "Depending on how far your exams are, you can create a plan. Practice what you don't know daily, until you do know it. ", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "Just trying to make life easier for others. Sometimes we don't see our solutions because of our anxiety. ", "output": "Reflection of feelings" }, { "input": "Its best to take deep breaths and talk to someone who will help guide you. ", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "Don't be. You would be surprised how many people are willing to help. Websites like Reddit are filled with many people wanting to give advice. ", "output": "Information" }, { "input": "I hope it helps for future endeavors", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "You are welcome :)", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "Hi. How can I help?\n", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "What has happened? I know that sometimes life can get tough and just know that you are not alone. Sometimes the toughest parts of life, make us so much stronger. \n", "output": "Information" }, { "input": "Why do you think it's your body? I am sure that your body is just fine! Have you thought about taking up a hobby or activity to get your mind off of it? \n", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "I understand. What kinds of things do you enjoy? I have found that exercise is great for mental health and such a good way to take your mind off of things. Have you ever felt interested in any psychical activities? \n", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "Do you have any friends or family to help you? I know exactly what you mean. Starting a new activity can be so hard when you aren't familiar. One thing that you might find helpful is to join in a group class at the gym. Do you think you'd like that?\n", "output": "Self-disclosure" }, { "input": "That's great! Do you know what kind of class would be of interest? I think that you have the tools to be who you want to be. It sounds like you have a good head on your shoulders and I think you'll be just fine! You may even find a life long passion or friendship! You never know what is around the corner. \n", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "Those both sounds great! Yoga is great for the body and the mind! I will sometimes just do it to clear my mind after a tough day. If your nervous about it, you could try out a few online classes first to see what to expect. \n", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "That's understandable. Everyone has insecurities in unfamiliar places but in reality, most people are too wrapped up in their own heads they don't even notice anything else. You just have to feel confident and not worry about what other people think, that will set you free. ", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "Hi, How may I help you today?\n", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "Sure, I'd be glad to help you. Can you tell me more about the issue?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "I'm feeling well, thank you!\n", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "It sounds like you are working really hard, but struggling in job finding, is that right?", "output": "Restatement or Paraphrasing" }, { "input": "I've often struggled with the same thing often sending out hundreds of resumes waiting for a response. ", "output": "Self-disclosure" }, { "input": "It sounds like you are stressed about the situation and looking for a solution to move forward.", "output": "Reflection of feelings" }, { "input": "Have you tried speaking to job coaches or college counselors? They often have experience in this area and can be of support.", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "Have you thought of trying to search online? You may be able to seek out different colleges and careers which may give you ideas and options you didn't explore before.", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "It sounds like you have been working hard looking for online options but maybe didn't find exactly what you are looking for. Perhaps searching specific colleges in your state or areas of interest may help. Also, career websites or job sites may help explore ideas as well as civil service career options.", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "I'm glad that you were able to get some ideas to try and wish you well on your search. Is there anything else I can assist you with at this time?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "Great that sounds wonderful that you are trying out some ideas and keeping positive!", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "Have a nice day! Bye!\n", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "Hello", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "What's on your mind today?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "How long have you been in this state?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "Is there any event happened the last few days that triggered your depression?", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "That is tough, having depression and dealing with children at the same time. I totally understand how you feel", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "I think you should first talk to your partner about your situation and ask for help from them", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "That's great, you have an awesome partner. I'd recommend spending time outdoor. Getting coop up for too long indoor is damaging to your mental state", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "Have you considered hiring caretaker?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "whenever possible, you can take your children out with you on a trip to the park or the mountain. Nature is also good for kids with special need.", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "You are such a great mom, I can totally see how much you sacrificed for them. But please take care of yourself, i think you should see a therapist and get proper treatment", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "If you do not do well, how can you care for you family?", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "Exercising might be helpful too. I like doing yoga or pilates, it really eases my mind when I have too much going on", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "I believe you will overcome this!", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "Hi, what can I help you?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "You're worried about being in court against your mother or are you worried about your relationship after that?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "Can you tell me about the situation, why did you decide to sue her?", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "So she knew about the incident but did nothing to help you?", "output": "Restatement or Paraphrasing" }, { "input": "that sucks, I understand why you resent her so much", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "I cannot help with your worry about going to court, however, i can offer some help regarding your relationship", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "Crying is good, you shouldn't bottle your emotions", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "Have to talked to anyone in your family about this beside your sister?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "You should talk to someone you trust, they might be able to give you specific advice regarding your situation", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "Also, you seem to still care about your mom despite what she did. Did you consider reaching out to her after the court?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "Maybe talk to your friends, it's easier for people of similar age to empathize with you", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "Try to keep your cool, let her know you did it because you wanted justice.", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "If you still care about her, make sure to let her know you don't hate or resent her and you still hope to be able to fix your relationship", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "I understand you, it's normal to feel what you feel. It's a terrible situation and what she did really is unforgivable", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "I don't think she doesn't love you. Maybe she just didn't want to believe it happened", "output": "Reflection of feelings" }, { "input": "You should definitely let her know that", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "Sueing won't solve anything, you have to talk to your mom and get all the knots in your mind out", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "good luck with your court", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "Please tell me more about your story", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "Please don't do that. You made the right decision to break up with him as he doesn't respect you at al", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "I would say this, if he does it once, he will do it again", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "Maybe going home isn't too bad after all. You may even meet someone better there", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "From my experience, people who cheat always cheat again", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "Luckily I have never been in that situation but my friends have", "output": "Self-disclosure" }, { "input": "But trust me, you made the right decision. If anything, it proves you're a strong and independent person", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "People can only love and respect you when you treat yourself that way", "output": "Reflection of feelings" }, { "input": "That's a great idea! Spend time with your friends and family, who actually care about you and your feelings", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "You are very mature. Anyone in that situation would feel the same.", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "He did a good thing at least, being honest with you. However, cheating, even just once, is something I always warn people ", "output": "Self-disclosure" }, { "input": "I know it's useless to tell you to not be sad. Go ahead and let it all out by crying or screaming but please know you didn't do anything wrong", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "I hope I can be help", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "No problem. and don't see him again, it's tough but it's better that way", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "you too, i hope you feel better", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "yes", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "i am here", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "Why are you not coming back?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "What kind of health risks are you concerned about? I imagine that hasn't been easy couple with the tough home environment.", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "I think you are doing the right thing by being careful. During these times, keeping loved ones safe is more important than having gatherings.", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "Do you think it would be helpful to express those health concerns with your family?", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "I understand how you feel. I'm currently saving up to move out myself because I think it would give me a chance to think for myself.", "output": "Reflection of feelings" }, { "input": "I don't think you should feel guilty about that because you are looking out for yourself which is the most important thing. And it always helps to voice your feelings to your family. Whether or not they choose to accept it, just getting things off your chest can help too.", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "That's good! It's definitely a great thing to look out for yourself rather than trying to please people all the time especially if it makes you feel uncomfortable in the process.", "output": "Reflection of feelings" }, { "input": "You are very welcome, I can relate so I definitely understand where you are coming from.", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "Hello", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "I am so sorry to hear that. How do you feel right now? ", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "I understand that feeling. Have you lost interest in things that you normally would enjoy? ", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "I can relate to that. Have you thought about trying something new, or taking up a new hobby? That has helped me before", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "Would you be willing to try a new hobby to make each day less monotonous? ", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "Maybe a new home improvement project?", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "Those both sound like great ideas! I think starting one, or both, would really make you feel a lot better. ", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "I believe it will also help give you a sense of accomplishment. I know that it would me\n", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "Perfect! It sounds like you may have found a solution to help you get out of this rut and \"blah\" feeling\n", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "I hope that you start feeling better. I'm glad we were able to chat\n", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "I glad that you were able to talk about how you are feeling. That is a big step in feeling better", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "Enjoy your dinner! Goodbye", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "Hello, how are you today", "output": "Information" }, { "input": "What about giving a presentation gave you stress?", "output": "Restatement or Paraphrasing" }, { "input": "Have you taken steps to help you overcome this fear, such as rehearsing in front of the mirror or in front of another person?", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "I understand giving presentations is nervewrecking, but at least you are trying. Are you allowed to take a few notecards just in case?\n", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "I can definitely relate. It is best to look past the audience and just focus on an object close by. Everyone of us have had to experience this. You are not alone. ", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "Before you go on, try taking a few deep breaths. Why not try meditating a few days before?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "Try shifting the focus on what could go wrong, to what could go right? Focus on others congratulating you on a job well done. ", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "Yes, in the term \"fake it until you make it.\" I keep on thinking of what could go right, or in my favor, and when I am done, it actually went okay, and any \"fears\" i had, never came to fruition. ", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "That's understandable. But now that you're aware, you have the steps the move forward and be successful. ", "output": "Reflection of feelings" }, { "input": "I believe you can do it. ", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "HOpe you ace your presentation.", "output": "Reflection of feelings" }, { "input": "How are you doing today?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "So you think she may, have started a relationship with someone else?", "output": "Restatement or Paraphrasing" }, { "input": "Ok, well that doesn't sound pleasant and must be difficult to hear. Perhaps her feelings have changed and there isn't necessarily another person involved?", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "Ok so it seems like you are quite angry at the moment at the thought of her with someone else, is that true?", "output": "Reflection of feelings" }, { "input": "I had a similar experience myself. My partner was stressed and I was busy myself. It turns out that I wasn't paying him enough attention and this made him feel like I didn't think he was important to me any more.", "output": "Self-disclosure" }, { "input": "From my experience, when I actually talked to my boyfriend we agreed to make more time for each other and things did improve.", "output": "Self-disclosure" }, { "input": "Sometimes people say one thing but actually mean another. They are complicated and don't always say what they really mean.", "output": "Information" }, { "input": "I cannot say for certain however I think you should talk to her but also prepare yourself for the fact that she may actually want to spend some time apart or end the relationship. it would be wise to prepare for that outcome as upsetting as it may be.\n", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "I think you are reflecting on your plans together and the thought of the relationship ending is making you upset and angry.", "output": "Reflection of feelings" }, { "input": "Ok so based on what you have told me I think that your girlfriend has got a new job and you are planning on moving in together is that correct?", "output": "Information" }, { "input": "It is but that is a lot of change all happening at once. Perhaps she is getting a little bit scared and rather than dealing with the situation she is running away, perhaps you should talk about this and see how she responds?", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "Have you got any evidence of this like seen a text message or has she behaves strangely?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "Ok well it is natural to feel like this sometimes. People tend to fear the worst.", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "I think rather than ask her that question directly, you could start the conversation and ask her why she is feeling this way. This would show you care and are prepared to listen without jumping to conclusions.", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "The best thing to do would be prepared to have the conversation, stay calm and listen. She may just want to talk but also be prepared as it may not go the way you plan.", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "Be prepared that she may end the relationship but getting angry is likely not to change her mind. Getting angry does not improve difficult conversations. ", "output": "Information" }, { "input": "Take a deep breath and try to relax beforehand. Staying positive and allowing her to speak will make for a better conversation. She will be more likely to open up to you.", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "I hope you manage to work it through and can at least talk about your feelings", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "You are very welcome and take care\n", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "Hello, how are you doing today?", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "Do you know what might have happened to cause your and your best friend to not talk anymore?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "That sounds really stressful and I can see how troubling that is for you.", "output": "Reflection of feelings" }, { "input": "That's definitely very upsetting. I know how it feels to have that sense of betrayal from a friend I was close to for many years. However, I was able to discuss the issue I had with my parents and other friends. Do you have anyone else close to you that you can talk to?", "output": "Self-disclosure" }, { "input": "That can definitely add to frustration. What about your other friends? Do you have anyone who either shares the same opinion as you or does not know your friend that you can talk to?", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "You have every right to be angry, but the most important thing you can do is find a good support system with your other friend. It will take some time to heal, but I'll tell you a paraphrased version of one of my favorite quotes: \"Resentment is like swallowing poison and expecting the other person to die.\" It's important to find support in your other friends and heal properly.", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "That sounds like a wonderful idea. Is there anything else you would like to discuss?", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "Can you elaborate more? Earlier you said you and your friend were arguing while she was living in your house, then she stopped talking to you. Why might you be angry with yourself?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "If I may, I would argue that your actions don't make you soft and they certainly don't make you stupid. They are certainly not any reason to be angry with yourself. If I may bring up another cliché: \"Fool me once, shame on you. Fool me twice, shame on me.\" I would say you're in the \"fool me once\" stage and it is your friend's actions that have brought you pain. I think you're unlikely to trust her again.\n", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "Also, hindsight is 20/20. What you might see now in ways that your friend might have used you are things that you might not have seen then. We want to think the best of our friends until they prove us wrong. I think you were being the best friend you could be.", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "Of course. I think you'll be alright and remember the healing process can take a long time after betrayal. Remember to be kind to yourself and keep that support system of your other friend by you. ", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "Is there anything else you would like to discuss?", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "You too!", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "Hello how are you today?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "Are you aware of things that may have cause your depression?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "I'm sorry to hear, that can be really straining on someone, sounds like you're stressed about the situation", "output": "Reflection of feelings" }, { "input": "I often feel the same way when I'm unable to achieve something However I talked to a close friend about the issue to get some feedback", "output": "Self-disclosure" }, { "input": "It's great that your willing to speak to someone about it.", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "It sounds like being fired has made you more self negative. Does that sound right?", "output": "Restatement or Paraphrasing" }, { "input": "What are some ways you might express this to your best friend when seeking valued feedback?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "That's a good place to start and hearing feedback can sometimes be hard to hear but I think you can do it !!", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "You're very welcome and I know will start to feel better soon.", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "Is there anything else you have on your mind?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "hey how are you doing?\n\n", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "Doing fine, thank you. \n", "output": "Information" }, { "input": "What brings you here today?", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "That sounds difficult, Would you like to elaborate on that?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "That is completely understandable, there are a lot of overwhelming things going on right now.", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "Most definitely, I've also been feeling a bit overwhelmed by what's going on. ", "output": "Self-disclosure" }, { "input": "How have you been coping?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "That is a good strategy, all the news outlets can be very overwhelming. ", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "What do you like to do to keep busy?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "Those sound like really good coping skills.", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "That's a personal choice you're completely allowed to make. It sounds like you have a good foundation for building on your ability to cope. ", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "Understandable\n", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "Do you talk with a therapist or have someone you trust you like to talk to?", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "That's great he is supportive. Seeing an individual counselor or someone of the like can also be helpful. They're there for just you and they have unbiased opinions. A lot are doing telehealth right now. ", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "You're welcome, hopefully it can be helpful. I, myself, have used telehealth therapy recently and it's just been helpful with all the unprecedented chaos going on this year. ", "output": "Self-disclosure" }, { "input": "Is there anything else you would like to talk about or that I can help you with today?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "Hey there! That's a good topic to talk about. With everything that's been going on, it's normal to feel some anxiety.", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "What do you think is one thing that is giving you a lot of anxiety?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "I'm sorry to hear that. Similar stuff is happening where I am, and I also get anxious hearing about it.", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "What do you feel when you feel on guard and paranoid? Try to say some more about that if you can.", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "Thanks, I hope the same for you.", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "Yeah, that makes sense. When this was all new, the uncertainty probably made for more anxiety. Now that we know some more about what is safe and what isn't, maybe less so.\n\nBut it doesn't mean the anxiety is gone, of course. It's still around in our day-to-day lives.", "output": "Restatement or Paraphrasing" }, { "input": "Well said. You feel stuck. The usual things you would do now are just not available to you.", "output": "Restatement or Paraphrasing" }, { "input": "I can rephrase some of this, if you don't mind. In a way, you're talking about activities that you may have used (gym, hikes, etc) to keep yourself in a good mood. Now that those don't seem available, you just don't have those opportunities to boost your mood. It makes sense that you would be feeling this way.", "output": "Restatement or Paraphrasing" }, { "input": "I think you explained yourself really well. Thanks for sharing how you've been feeling.", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "Do you think if you went ahead anyway to the gym or out for runs that you would feel guilty for doing them?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "Yeah, and that just throws on another layer of why things are difficult right now. No one wants to feel guilty for doing things that could help themselves.", "output": "Restatement or Paraphrasing" }, { "input": "Have you ever heard of the phrase \"black or white thinking?\" As in, thinking that situations or people are completely good or completely bad? Or completely doable or completely impossible?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "Yeah, I think I understand that too. I get really frustrated hearing about people hosting big parties or not wearing masks because they think it's no big deal. They're putting others at risk.", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "I think we all do black-or-white thinking to some extent. We're wired to try and make sense of the world, and maybe our brains don't like to spend time on nuance and grey areas. We all tend to quickly categorize things into good or bad, easy or hard, black or white.", "output": "Information" }, { "input": "Does this time have to be a \"waste\" for you? With no productivity? That seems pretty extreme.", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "Thanks for saying that! I liked talking with you, and we can wrap this up. I guess I'm saying you sound thoughtful and intelligent, I'm confident that you could find ways to get more out of this time if that's what you're wanting to do.", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "Not as productive? Of course! It's a pandemic. We all are. :) Hope you're not too hard on yourself right now.", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "Ha, exactly. Maybe we're not all thriving and getting rich and adding 15 pounds of muscle during this time. But we can get through it.", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "Before we quit, would you want to say one specific thing you know you can do today to help yourself out?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "Nice! Good job with those things.", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "Right on, same to you. It's okay to feel anxious right now. It's okay to feel unproductive right now. It's also okay to keep on doing the things that make you feel okay. Great job keeping up the workouts and the classes.", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "Stay well and safe to you too! Take care.", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "I can see you are trying hard but aren't feeling acknowledged.", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "What is it that they aren't affirming you on?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "I see that can be frustrating. ", "output": "Reflection of feelings" }, { "input": "I see that you are communicating to them but they don't understand where you are coming from. That can be frustrating.", "output": "Restatement or Paraphrasing" }, { "input": "When did this start?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "When my children were in the same situation I felt a lot of heat too from my parents. It's helpful sometimes to talk to a school counselor. Have you tried that at all?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "They have some experience with other families and maybe could connect you with people who are having similar issues. I've done that in the past.", "output": "Self-disclosure" }, { "input": "Do you have other family members or friends who you could talk to?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "That sounds like a great plan to try.", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "It has been my pleasure. Is there anything else I can do?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "You are very welcome.", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "You as well have a nice day.", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "Hi, what I can help you with today?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "What sort of problems were in your past and now?\n", "output": "Restatement or Paraphrasing" }, { "input": "What was happening in your life that made you lose interest?", "output": "Information" }, { "input": "It sounds like that is a lot of reasons to be stressed. Have you spoken to a school counselor?\n", "output": "Reflection of feelings" }, { "input": "I agree it is a lot of pressure, but do not let bad teachers deter you. I would reach out to a school counselor and let them know your situation. Every school must have one. ", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "Also, physics is a difficult course to study, but if you chose it, that means you have a very strong mind. ", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "More reason to speak to a school counselor or school administrator. We need to provide help to students, not have bad teachers deter them. ", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "What made you choose this particular university you are at?", "output": "Information" }, { "input": "Have you looked into other Universities for the possibility of transferring\n", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "Just think about what you want in a good university and research from there", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "You're welcome I hope you find the perfect university for you", "output": "Reflection of feelings" }, { "input": "Goodbye", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "Being friends with who?", "output": "Restatement or Paraphrasing" }, { "input": "She doesn't want to be friends, but what do you want?", "output": "Restatement or Paraphrasing" }, { "input": "So you still want to be friends but she doesn't.", "output": "Reflection of feelings" }, { "input": "Have you talked with your friend about your feelings?", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "Does she just want to spend more time with you?", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "Is there a way you can help her feel more included?", "output": "Reflection of feelings" }, { "input": "I understand, that must be exhausting!", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "I understand, I think that you should tell her about your situation and how you feel.", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "It is okay to get emotional, it may even help her understand how you feel better.", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "It is okay to be scared, but having emotions and getting emotional is natural.", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "Do you feel like you have a better understanding of what to do?", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "You are welcome, I hope everything turns out all right.", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "Have a great day, and good luck!", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "yes. tell me what happened?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "it sounds that you dont feel heard by your parents.", "output": "Restatement or Paraphrasing" }, { "input": "i think you have done your best and you are continuing to try hard.", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "i think you have done your best and you are continuing to try hard.", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "everything happens for a reason. you just have to stay calm.did you express yourself to your friends or a caretaker?", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "do you think that will help you out?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "try do get some online jobs so that you can cop up with both your college and finances.", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "yes, i hope everything ends well.", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "welcome", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "how are you feeling lately?\n", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "how are you feeling lately?\n", "output": "Restatement or Paraphrasing" }, { "input": "That's really hard. but,i think you can do it.", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "It seems that you are really stressed about the situation.", "output": "Reflection of feelings" }, { "input": "i feel the same way.now i understand the reason though.it is because i didn't know what to say to strangers.", "output": "Self-disclosure" }, { "input": "some people express themselves in person, some communicate in words.have you tried any different ways?", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "no mention.", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "deep breaths can help people calm down.", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "could you try to take few deep breaths?", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "happy to hear.", "output": "Reflection of feelings" }, { "input": "well, thats a good idea to do do.", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "yes, you too.have a great day.", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "Can you tell me more about what you're feeling?\n", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "It seems like you are concerned about your son's future and wellbeing. Is this correct?\n", "output": "Restatement or Paraphrasing" }, { "input": "Does your son have any other supports in his life?\n", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "Does your son have any other supports in his life?\n", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "I see how that could be intensely difficult to deal with. I think your strength is admirable\n", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "From our communications it seems you are feeling anxious and stressed as well.\n", "output": "Reflection of feelings" }, { "input": "Yes, I would suggest you find a place where you are comforted and feel safe. You are in a difficult situation and it is clear you need emotional support as well. Do you know of any support groups in your area?\n", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "I think that is a wonderful idea. You deserve to feel safe and supported too.", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "Some people find comfort in hobbies as well. Do you have any comforting hobbies?\n", "output": "Information" }, { "input": "Are there other people in your life who can watch the children too?\n", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "You are certainly in a frustrating situation, but it is clear you are a good caregiver. \n", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "There are some charitable organizations which may be able to provide some relief in your area. Have you looked into those?\n", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "I personally have been a caregiver in the past and it can be exhausting. You are a strong person. \n", "output": "Self-disclosure" }, { "input": "Hi there. How are you doing?\n", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "I am sorry to hear that. What is going on that makes you not feel great? I am well, thanks for asking.", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "Going through a break up is never easy, especially when it is with someone you thought you would spend you life with. I understand completely. It is natural to feel sad for a while", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "I have been divorced myself so I know it is not easy. But I can promise it gets much better", "output": "Self-disclosure" }, { "input": "Of course and it is normal to have mixed feelings", "output": "Reflection of feelings" }, { "input": "Have you looked into any divorce support groups in your area or online? It can help to discover that you are not alone in how you feel", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "I understand. I went though a lot of feelings myself when I divorced. Blaming myself, blaming him, missing him. It took some time to work through but thankfully today it is all a distant memory. Sometimes time is the best healer. Be kind to yourself and take time for you.", "output": "Self-disclosure" }, { "input": "I hear you on that. It has been a very unusual year in general. I think that with everything going on in the world it is more important than ever that we take me time. ", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "I know how hurtful that can be when people chose sides. It happened in my own divorce. The best thing you can do I think is to remember not to let anyone else's misinformed opinions affect how you ultimately view yourself. None of those people were there and none of them experienced what you did. ", "output": "Self-disclosure" }, { "input": "I understand, it is a difficult time to meet new people. Even in normal times a divorce is difficult but even more so with the restrictions we have at the moment. I think everything you are feeling is normal. Have you connected with a therapist to help you process all of your feelings. I know that helped me. Many are doing virtual sessions at the moment", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "Hi, I think there are a lot of ways to become happy and to find something worthy living for. Let's start with things that interest you. What do you like doing for fun?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "And what kinds of things did you like to read?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "That's really great! I used to struggle with finding joy in reading as well. I was a graduate student at the time so I was mostly reading research papers.", "output": "Self-disclosure" }, { "input": "Have you tried picking up a new hobby? Something you have always thought might be fun but haven't ever tried because of lack of time or energy?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "I do like reading now. I took some time after school to take care of my mental health by going on walks and being in nature. Overtime, I started to pick up books again. I've found I really like true crime and autobiographies the best", "output": "Self-disclosure" }, { "input": "Rock climbing is so fun! Have you tried taking a beginners course? I started there. I was very nervous I would be made fun of, but found that it was a really supportive community.", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "You might find it's just the community of people that you need right now. From my experience, they were all super friendly and open to helping me along the way.", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "Just from chatting with you, you seem like such a nice person. I don't think anyone would have mean things to say about you. ", "output": "Reflection of feelings" }, { "input": "I really hope you'll take the leap to trying rock climbing! It was so fun for me when I did it and I can't wait to get back out there to learn more (hopefully COVID will be over soon!) :-) ", "output": "Reflection of feelings" }, { "input": "That sounds great! Hoping they are open and safe!", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "Hi, How are you doing today?\n", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "Hi, How are you doing today?\n", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "It sound like you are having a really hard time right now.\n", "output": "Reflection of feelings" }, { "input": "That is a very difficult situation. Starting over again can be a great opportunity for growth.\n", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "I understand how you feel. I had a bad break up, but it turned out to be a good thing in the long run.", "output": "Self-disclosure" }, { "input": "Well, looking back the relationship was pretty toxic and everything was better once I was out of it. I am sure your life will be happier and more fulfilling soon. ", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "It sounds like you are blaming yourself for everything. Why do you feel at fault?\n", "output": "Restatement or Paraphrasing" }, { "input": "It sounds to me like you have been working hard to support your life with you partner. They should respect that.\n", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "Is this a relationship you would want back if you could get it back?\n", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "I would agree with you on that! That was how I felt too. \n", "output": "Self-disclosure" }, { "input": "For sure. Just take things slowly, one day at a time. Take the time you need to learn to enjoy your new life. \n", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "For sure. Just take things slowly, one day at a time. Take the time you need to learn to enjoy your new life. \n", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "Sorry for hitting enter twice. :)\n", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "You're welcome! I'll be rooting for you!", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "Hi there, how are you today?\n", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "I'm doing well, thanks. Is something bothering you?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "I'm sorry to hear that. Unfortunately I didn't receive the message you had typed, would you like to talk about it?", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "That's tough, I'm sorry. I don't have children of my own yet, but I remember being a teenager and having a similar phase. If it makes you feel any better, I eventually grew out of that phase and have a wonderful relationship with my parents now!", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "With the holidays coming up, maybe that's a good opportunity to reunite and spend some quality time with her?", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "Does she have a good relationship with her siblings? Maybe they can help convince her to spend some family time at home? ", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "Maybe she just needs some time to decompress. Being a teenager is a stressful time, especially this year with everything with COVID. I'm hopeful that she will come out of this phase.", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "I'm glad I could help! Keep your chin up", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "You too", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "Have a great day!", "output": "Information" }, { "input": "Ho, Can you please tell me specifically what things you are having a hard time with.", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "I hear you saying that your boyfriend broke up with you. Is that correct", "output": "Restatement or Paraphrasing" }, { "input": "I am sorry to hear that. Can you tell me what led to the breakup", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "Ok, that sounds like a terrible thing. Just know that it is not your fault that this happen. It is not a reflection on you.", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "You did nothing wrong, when people cheat it is their own issue they must deal with. You must be feeling horrible,but know that it will be ok, there is someone who will treat you with more respect", "output": "Reflection of feelings" }, { "input": "Do not let this affect your self esteem, as you are a valuable person. Take long walks, spend time enjoying your own company and know that you are worth it", "output": "Self-disclosure" }, { "input": "You can also try spending time just talking to others as just friends but not getting emotionally involved.", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "Great, it will make you feel so much better about yourself and help you put things in perspective. You will eventually see your ex-partner for who he is.", "output": "Information" }, { "input": "Great, so you can look and feel great. With COVID around, it is not the best time to go out and mingle but you can surely look around online and finds some online friends so that when social distancing is no longer an issue you can meet others", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "Wonderful, I am glad I can be of assistance\n", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "Have a wonderful day", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "Thank You", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "Hi, how are you?\n", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "That sounds rough, do you know what triggers your anxiety?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "So it's the test anxiety that has been causing the stress.", "output": "Restatement or Paraphrasing" }, { "input": "I had a lot of anxiety before exams when I was in school, too.", "output": "Self-disclosure" }, { "input": "I tried my best to get more sleep and I studied earlier so that I didn't panic at the last minute. That made it slightly less stressful.", "output": "Self-disclosure" }, { "input": "That is great! Exercise is supposed to help a lot with stress and anxiety.", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "Many studies have shown that melatonin is a safe and effective sleep aid.", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "Boring podcasts are good for sleep, too.", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "I can relate to the problems with sleeping and test anxiety. I know that if you try a few things to see what works for you, it will get better.", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "Good luck on the exams- you can do it! :)", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "I like \"Sleep with me\" and \"Anxiety Slayer\".", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "You're welcome! Bye", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "Hi how are you doing today?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "would you like to tell me more about it?", "output": "Information" }, { "input": "Why do you feel you can't turn to your friend?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "I am sorry to hear that sounds like she sure could use some help as well. Have you tried first taking about her issues and then telling her about yours?", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "I am sorry to her that, so it sounds like you feel you need to give her help but you dont get any from her. But is also sounds like she might not be aware of you needing help. ", "output": "Restatement or Paraphrasing" }, { "input": "I think you need to try to tell her about your problems, and maybe even if she feels like she is helping you she is more inclined to help herself some too?", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "I know, it would be nice of her to ask how are you? But maybe she thinks you are a very strong person that does not need help since you do not voice it.?", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "Yes the feeling that you help someone can be uplifting and good for anyones ego\n", "output": "Information" }, { "input": "I would try to find a conversation and then tell her like sometimes I could use help with whatever and then tell her that you feel lonely and need her sometimes as well", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "Give it a try and you are not alone as you see we had a nice conversation.", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "hello how are you today?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "i am fine thanks for asking", "output": "Self-disclosure" }, { "input": "Aw i am sorry to hear that, school deadlines can be very stressful.", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "are you taking a lot of courses?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "do you like doing school online better than in person?\n", "output": "Reflection of feelings" }, { "input": "Thats good the more time you have to devote the better!", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "Do you feel it is more stressful online?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "Maybe take a hour a day before you start to do something you want to do then you will feel more motivated to get it done after.", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "Yea this pandemic has me not as motivated to", "output": "Self-disclosure" }, { "input": "Yea i have been missing the gym myself. Now i lookup youtube videos of workouts and do them, and it really helps to get me going in the day. ", "output": "Self-disclosure" }, { "input": "Do you ever listen to music while you are trying to get work done? When i do that it tends to help time go faster and i get more done.", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "maybe find a nice meditation song to help relax you, i find when i am doing something finding a song with no words is better so i am able to concentrate. ", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "It sounds like you are a very smart person and are able to acknowledge when you need to work harder on something. Don't be to hard on yourself this pandemic is affecting everyone", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "Yes i would imagine that would help to, i found that before i started working out at home i was beginning to feel lazy and not getting anything done, but that has all changed now.", "output": "Self-disclosure" }, { "input": "Aww well try not to be to hard on yourself. Set some daily goals and i bet you will be back to feeling normal in no time. I am glad talking has helped!", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "You are welcome, best of luck with all your studies!", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "Thank you!", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "I know sometimes it can be difficult to make decisions. What dilemma are you facing today?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "I too, have been in your place. There were days I would just stare blankly without being productive. However, I tried meditating which helped me improve my focus. ", "output": "Self-disclosure" }, { "input": "I am glad you asked. At first, it can seem a little difficult. But the key is to start small and build as you go. For example, allocating 10 minutes after lunch or borrowing some time off of social media.", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "From what I know, you can try to relax before making any decision. I usually follow my intuition and decide. I deal with the outcome later. But meditating has really helped me avoid anxiety. ", "output": "Information" }, { "input": "It sounds as if you are low on self-confidence and are afraid about unfavourable outcomes. Please correct me if I am wrong.", "output": "Restatement or Paraphrasing" }, { "input": "I can feel your anxiety just through this chat conversation.", "output": "Reflection of feelings" }, { "input": "In my experience, even if we were to fail, we are bestowed with a valuable life lesson which we can use in future decisions. Approaching the problem with positive mindset will help a lot! Is that something you'd be willing to try?", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "That's true. However, research shows that any habit can be broken or formed if you put your mind to it everyday for 5-10 minutes for 3 continuous weeks. Perhaps, replacing your negative thoughts with happy ones might help.", "output": "Information" }, { "input": "Awesome. I am glad I was able to get you started towards a positive mentality. Is there anything else that I can assist you with today?", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "You're welcome! Have a wonderful week ahead!", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "I am sorry about that. It is always hard when we trust someone and they let us down. is that waht you are feeling? Disappointment in your friend?\n", "output": "Reflection of feelings" }, { "input": "I understand. I have been through a similar situation.", "output": "Self-disclosure" }, { "input": "Was it a large amount of money?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "Oh, That is a very large amount of money. I can understand your being upset with them", "output": "Reflection of feelings" }, { "input": "Have you talked to them about the money and returning it?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "I see. It is a financially difficult time for us all. I am wondering if your friend might be upset and embarrassed that they can not pay you back immediately? Have you asked her if she could even afford some sort of small payments?", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "Were you speaking on the phone or in person? Is this a financial burden for you?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "Would you consider this person a good friend? Would you be sad if they were not in your life anymore?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "That is very difficult. It is hard to judge things on the phone. ", "output": "Reflection of feelings" }, { "input": "I see. I am very sorry about that! it is very difficult when a friend betrays your trust like that. ", "output": "Reflection of feelings" }, { "input": "It sounds like you are doing what you can. It is very nice of you to have been this patient.", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "Is the friendship more important than the money? That is what it came down to for me.", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "If you can not get her to meet with you, perhaps it might be time to seek advice from a lawyer? That is providing that you are willing to possibly lose a friend. ", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "you are welcome. Good luck! I hope you find resolution and find a way to save your friendship!", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "Hello, how are you doing?\n", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "Is there anything that you would like to discuss?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "in what ways have you been beating yourself up? \n", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "that can be a difficult situation to be going through. \n", "output": "Reflection of feelings" }, { "input": "I have gone through the same thing and have found that time passing helps, and not dwelling on the past but instead working to make things currently in your life better.", "output": "Self-disclosure" }, { "input": "sometimes overthinking about things can keep your mind in a bad place, maybe there's something like a hobby or new people you can engage with?\n", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "it can be hard, and many people share the same experience. it is not a lonely world.", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "i can feel how anxious you are about the situation. ", "output": "Reflection of feelings" }, { "input": "how long ago did you break up?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "maybe with time she will be ready to talk again. sometimes people need space to collect themselves.", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "i've been there! my ex ended up reaching out to me and we have slowly become friends again. it is hard to rebuild trust, and it can be a very slow process.", "output": "Self-disclosure" }, { "input": "you'll be alright, just take care of yourself first.", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "no i am here", "output": "Restatement or Paraphrasing" }, { "input": "How may I help you", "output": "Restatement or Paraphrasing" }, { "input": "what happened today?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "this is a safe place with no judgement express yourself in what way you would like", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "Ah i understand. I am sorry about that.", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "Why do you think you should have a boydriend now?", "output": "Restatement or Paraphrasing" }, { "input": "Also i can relate to what you have been to I was once a 17 year old whos parents did not want her to have a boyfriend as well.", "output": "Self-disclosure" }, { "input": "Ok wow that is a very good position to be in. Now I want you to consider your parents perception why would you think that your parents might not want you to have a boyfriend?", "output": "Reflection of feelings" }, { "input": "I understand, Parents are complicated creatures. As an adult maybr your parents are worried about your saftey?", "output": "Reflection of feelings" }, { "input": "Or maybe they dont want to see thire kid grow up that fast your are almost 18!", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "Parents worry about thire kids all the time. you know pedophiles, kidnappers and a a lot of other dangerous people out there. it is only natural for parents to worry", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "Since we might run out of time soon can I give you my advice to you as well?", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "my advice is too fold 1) demonstrate how mature you are to your parents think of it like a job interview. when you bring this issue up speak in a nonconfirmational tone. 3. patience. it takes time to change minds.", "output": "Information" }, { "input": "Hello! How can I help you today?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "That sounds really rough. When did this begin?", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "I am so sorry to hear this! Losing a close friend can be very difficult.Communicating your feelings is a step in the right direction to cope with your emotions.\n", "output": "Reflection of feelings" }, { "input": "I can tell you are very sad about this situation and understandably so. It seems as if alcohol is your coping mechanism right now correct? Do you have close friends to share your emotions with?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "I see. I also am the only one in my home and frequently have no one to turn to during hard times. Have you thought about a local grief counselor? ", "output": "Self-disclosure" }, { "input": "You have taken this step and most counselors can do virtual meetings if you would like to keep yourself anonymous. I know it would be really hard for but I have total confidence in you!", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "Have you tried any other ways besides alcohol?", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "Journaling your feelings has also been an effective way to get the emotions out! You seem like you have a lot to share so it might be a good option for you!", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "I am so glad to hear this! I know you will get through this stronger than before! ", "output": "Reflection of feelings" }, { "input": "I hope I have helped and provided a safe place for you to share. You will get through this! Remember to take one day at a time and never be scared to ask for help!", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "Same to you!", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "Good bye!", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "Hi hoe are you doing today? What brings you here?\n", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "What has got you feelin g so down today? I am here to listen and support you today!\n", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "What I am hearing is that you seem to have hit an extremem low due to your loss of someone very important to you recently, is this correct?\n", "output": "Restatement or Paraphrasing" }, { "input": "It looks to me like you are pretty dedicated to getting through this hard timeand being successful at such as you have taken a big step reaching out for support tonight to help pull you through this safely.", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "Would you feel comfortable giving me a little more detail as far as you problem with self abuse? what does this look like for you?\n", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "This is very troubling for me to hear! I used to be a cutter as well so I can relate to this 100%\n", "output": "Self-disclosure" }, { "input": "As a safety precaution, I would like to give you the phone number for the local crisis center in your area so that if you ever feel like hurting yourself you can reach out to them for immidiate help in case of this emergency. would that be something that you were open to?", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "What state and county do you live in?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "Give me one moment while I search for this number for you. I will be right back with you.\n", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "Anytime! That is what I am here for, to help others in need in any way that I can. The number for the local crisis center is 719-465-8365. I would like to share a second number with you as well. Aspen point is a mental health treatment center that accepts people for non residentail treatment such as counseling . The number is 719-786-3856. They also take medicaid if that happens to be your insurance provider. I have heard lots of great things about aspen point. I hope you give them a call to help you safely through these hard times you are having.\n", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "Hi. How are you feeling tonight?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "I am sorry to hear that! What seems to be bothering you?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "I can understand your anxiety. I hate public speaking too. Is this a required class?", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "Only required in high school luckily in college I didn't have to do public speaking . What is your major ? I mean it sounds like this is a part of your major", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "Either way it is EXTREMELY stressful and I would hate it\n", "output": "Self-disclosure" }, { "input": "I can tell this is challenging for you. May I suggest talking with your professor maybe you could pre record your speech and play it instead of actually doing it? Or maybe practicing with some friends or collegues and seeing if they would help you not be so nervous\n", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "This is certainly a difficult time and a unique one. How about searching online for speech public speaking tips and or training type videos or even libraries some have online books/videos", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "I would be willing to do a zoom meeting and practice with you if you would like\n", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "I am sure there are some support groups out there you could search for maybe. Also prayer works if you believe in God as I do!", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "I understand better now sorry for the confusion", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "Have you spoken to your doctor for maybe temporary mild anxiety pills or something since you seem to have tried numerous things without much help\n", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "Yes I completely agree! I am going be honest and not sure how to help you. I will pray for you but I don't know what else to help ", "output": "Self-disclosure" }, { "input": "i am happy to listen and be your friend ", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "Anxiety is a powerful thing and what may work for one person doesn't on another. I truly wish you the best . I would not want to be in your shoes . I honestly HATE public speaking", "output": "Self-disclosure" }, { "input": "Yes it is and and most people say nothing left to do but pray and reality is that should be the first thing. I have learned through many years and dont go to people houses or jam religion down throats but I am led lately to speak up in general conversation if it comes up", "output": "Self-disclosure" }, { "input": "Anyways, it is time for me to go to bed. If we were able I would continue to talk to you and pray but as we can't I wish you all the best . Since you are in college you have your entire life ahead of you I hope. Covid is temporary and this too shall pass. See you in heaven one day I hope . Goodnight and God bless. ", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "I too believe it as well. and you are right no one talks about it but it should be but it is easier for me with Covid since covid brings up death alot. you are welcome and Keep safe and God did not give us a fearful mind but ... I don't remember all of it but you could google it .. something sound mind and Satan will use fear to get us\n", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "tysm we all need prayers. sweet dreams my new friend", "output": "Information" }, { "input": "Good evening, how are you tonight? ", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "I'm really sorry to hear that. What kinds of things have you been doing so far to manage your downswing?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "Lots of obsessive, intrusive thoughts? ", "output": "Restatement or Paraphrasing" }, { "input": "When I get stuck in that loop, I try to change up my entire physical situation -- take a shower or a soak, change up my music if I'm listening to it. Kind of force my brain to take in a change.", "output": "Self-disclosure" }, { "input": "Have you ever explored medication? I was diagnosed with bipolar disorder almost two years ago, and medication has made an enormous difference for me. ", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "You should definitely see if the doctor can adjust your meds, I have ended up on a completely different type of medication than the one I tried first. But I understand. I think you should try getting out of the house and enjoying fresh air and physical activity. It won't cure your depression but it may help your headspace and your point of view. ", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "Have you written it down? Like physically written it down? Sometimes when I have the obsessive thoughts, I'll do that and being able to see it \"in real life\" satisfies my brain.", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "But if you're reliving a traumatic moment, it may be beneficial to seek out a licensed therapist who can help you process and move past the moment. ", "output": "Information" }, { "input": "I hope it helps you out, you don't deserve to feel constant pain. ", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "You seem motivated to get better, so I am confident you will be successful. You deserve to feel wonderful.", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "I'm glad to hear that! Thank you!", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "I'm sorry to hear that. What do you mean you thought it was going somewhere?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "Are you okay?", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "Did you guys break up recently?", "output": "Restatement or Paraphrasing" }, { "input": "Love is tricky, sometimes there is no wrong. You shouldn't blame yourself.", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "I've been there, a few years before I was married, my boyfriend broke up with me. We had some space, and then were able to become friends again. And you know what? We ended up getting back together and getting married.", "output": "Self-disclosure" }, { "input": "Don't give up, you never know what the future holds.", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "I don't know your particular situation, but it takes two to make relationships work. I don't think you should blame yourself.", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "I don't know what happened. Is that what you think happened?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "What did she say when you broke up?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "Yikes! I'm sure that didn't feel very good.", "output": "Reflection of feelings" }, { "input": "Have you tried talking to her since?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "Oftentimes people have confused feelings and after some time to reflect, things might change. ", "output": "Information" }, { "input": "She may need some space to figure things out. I know it's going to be tough but I believe you can get past this.", "output": "Information" }, { "input": "I'm sorry to hear that, can you tell me what it is? ", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "That's a hard situation to be in. Are you isolating due to the pandemic? ", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "That's really rough. It sounds like you did not get to have any closure whatsoever. ", "output": "Reflection of feelings" }, { "input": "There's a lot of dark stuff happening in and around your life. Do you have any things that you like to do on your own that calm you down?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "I have definitely been there. ", "output": "Self-disclosure" }, { "input": "It must seem like things are just piling on. Booze does this crazy thing where we think it's making things easier, but it's really making things 10x harder. 10x harder to process emotions, 10x harder to find the motivation, 10x harder to believe you are worth the effort to keep moving. ", "output": "Self-disclosure" }, { "input": "I think you could give the booze a break for a week, and see if you may see things in a different light. Zero judgment from me btw, I am also clearly on mturk, and I quit drinking in April after ten years of heavy heavy drinking. Almost lost my marriage to it. It's not easy, and I'm not preaching, but I am saying it was the best thing I could do to begin to improve my life and my health, mental and physical. ", "output": "Self-disclosure" }, { "input": "I'm really sorry you're feeling this poorly. If you could be doing anything at all right now, what would it be? ", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "Oh shit I am so terrified of riding motorcycles", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "Why can't you ride motorcycles any more? ", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "Ah, so you can still physically ride one! Your life isn't over, you are still breathing, you will ride a motorcycle again. ", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "Maybe you could rent one", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "Maybe there are other alternative modes of transportation you could take up", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "Perhaps you'll meet someone on the bus?", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "You didn't seem to be responding to actual solutions so I thought a joke might help :-)", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "You could be a peer-supporter instead of a seeker, you wouldn't have to talk about your personal stuff, and it's actually been kind of nice to just give people some advice in a vacuum.", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "That's horrible that happened to you, but don't you believe in yourself? ", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "You should, you said yourself that you have got so much going for you. ", "output": "Reflection of feelings" }, { "input": "Ah I see", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "You're welcome, I hope things start getting better soon :-)", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "I'm so sorry to hear that. How is that affecting you?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "I'm so sorry to hear that. How is that affecting you?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "I'm so sorry that you feel sad about the situation. ", "output": "Restatement or Paraphrasing" }, { "input": "What makes you think you are neglecting other important aspects in your life?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "That sounds difficult. You sound like a strong person still persevering in your Masters even through this difficult time even if you can't pay attention as closely as before.", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "I remember a bad breakup too where I wasn't sure how the future would go. It can be scary not knowing what will come. It sounds like having a Master's degree can really help you be independent though.", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "I had to repeat a class and it took an extra year to finish my graduate school. The feeling of accomplishment and grit I developed made a huge difference though in my future abilities to cope with major stresses. You too will come out stronger.", "output": "Self-disclosure" }, { "input": "That sounds like a great plan. You sound like a very motivated person getting a masters degree is so difficult and you are working toward it. You will do well. I wish you all the best.\n", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "Perhaps there is a counselor at school that could help you with reworking through some of your goals?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "There may be other students as well who are going through the same things as you that you could chat with.", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "Absolutely. I think things will turn around for you. You have a lot going for you and are very intelligent. ", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "Things will get better with time. Keep pursuing your dreams", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "Is there anything else I can help you with?\n", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "Hello, I am doing well, thank you for asking :-) What can I help you with tonight? ", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "I'm sorry to hear that. Is there a particular issue that you are upset about?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "That's a really rough situation to deal with, your emotions are totally understandable. ", "output": "Reflection of feelings" }, { "input": "What was the reason she gave for breaking up with you? ", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "Cultural differences can be insurmountable obstacles in a relationship for some people.", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "Getting over the good parts of a relationship can be hard. For some reason our brains like to obsess over the good parts like they were the only part of the relationship, and ignore all of the problems. ", "output": "Reflection of feelings" }, { "input": "Taking up an exercise you like can be helpful. You can work on yourself and blow off steam.", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "Know also that you will find someone new when it's right, and that you will create a new synergy with that new person. We don't ever love anyone the same way twice. ", "output": "Information" }, { "input": "That sounds like fun! Whatever you do, take care of your heart", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "About going to Jamaica? Sounds lovely", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "I'm sorry to hear about that, have you discussed how it made you feel with your partner?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "If it were entirely up to you how would you like your relationship to proceed from here?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "It sounds like you worry you will not be able to trust him in the future because of this no matter what his future actions are, do you think there is anything he could do or say that would change this?", "output": "Restatement or Paraphrasing" }, { "input": "What would you define as full commitment from him? ", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "That's true and divorce can be expensive. You mentioned before that you feel like you are with him mostly because you are lonely, is that how your relationship started?", "output": "Restatement or Paraphrasing" }, { "input": "I don't think you are naive, you are clearly asking yourself the right questions about building a future with him", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "Do you have friends and family around that could help distract you from the loneliness until you find someone you are comfortable starting a family with?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "Of course! There also probably community resources where you can meet new people and explore new interests! Unfortunately I think a lot of that might have to wait til Covid passes ", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "Of course! Anything else on your mind you would like to discuss?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "I know, I've heard some people have found success with zoom dates.", "output": "Self-disclosure" }, { "input": "Good evening :-) What can I help with you with tonight? ", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "Oof, that is a very difficult situation. I'm sorry you're going through that. How do you feel about it? ", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "What do your parents say when/if you tell them you want to be done with school? ", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "That's not a fair thing for them to say to their child. I will say that there are academic programs that combine travel and credits, but you probably know that already. And I don't think you should have to compromise anyway. ", "output": "Reflection of feelings" }, { "input": "I cannot tell you what to do exactly, but I would encourage you to fulfill yourself before anyone else's dictation of your life. ", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "I think you need to be prepared for them to not be happy with your honest opinion, but that just because they aren't happy with it doesn't mean it's wrong. ", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "Keep in mind that from their point of view, they want the best for you because they love you, so try not to burn the bridge or salt the earth. I had a rocky relationship with my dad after college too, but it's better now. They will survive, and you will thrive. ", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "That feeling is totally understandable, I felt the same way. They need to let you find your own way, it's apart of growing up.", "output": "Information" }, { "input": "The anger is understandable, but I think it is slightly misplaced as they are not trying to hurt you. You are frustrated by their lack of understanding and their judgement of your choices, but you and they are both attempting to solve the same problem of your happiness. ", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "That's very kind of you to say, thank you :-)", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "You are a great listener and have a lot of passion, I think you will be successful for sure.", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "You too!", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "Hi How are you this evening?\n", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "I am doing great! Would you like to talk about anything that may be bothering you\n", "output": "Self-disclosure" }, { "input": "I have a some time and would love to listen to you if you would like to share anything", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "Are you there?\n", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "I can understand how you feel like you are worthless. However, I know for a fact you are NOT worthless. You were created with a purpose and a plan and God doesn't make Mistakes. ", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "I apologize I mean no disrespect just sharing my personal belief \n", "output": "Self-disclosure" }, { "input": "Have you had any chance for ME Time where husband friend or family could watch your kids and give mommy a break. I Know I know its hard with Covid but lets pretend Covid isn't here\n", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "Maybe lock the door watch a tv movie show if you have tv in bedroom or send kids outside if old enough or take a bubble bath after they are in bed ", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "since Covid time . After Covid than you can go out with friends go see a movie you wanted to see maybe or go get your hair nail done.. What do you like to do just for fun", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "How long have you been feeling worthless or under appreciated\n", "output": "Restatement or Paraphrasing" }, { "input": "Oh my ! I can fully understand how you feel protective of your children and guilty for asking others for help", "output": "Reflection of feelings" }, { "input": "I can tell just from what you wrote you are a GREAT mom and doing amazing job.. You definitely have your hands full", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "It sounds like because you have no help you have to do it all and you feel like you can't cope so to speak ", "output": "Reflection of feelings" }, { "input": "but my goodness one mom to another you are only one person and give yourself some slack.. YOu are doing two peoples job.. Its not that you are worthless its just stress causing you to put yourself down", "output": "Self-disclosure" }, { "input": "It is so HARD being a single parent and Im sure kids miss their dad or maybe not but I am sure they put pressure on to be both parents . They are young and as long as you truly do your best and sometimes that means taking care of you so you can be the best , you are only one person and the kids when older will appreciate all that you did . Keep the faith", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "Yes I can imagine it would be for all of you. It just confuses them and brings up feelings. ", "output": "Reflection of feelings" }, { "input": "I am sorry you have to go through this. I just pray that you never forget how great you are and when negative feelings rear its ugly head you don't give into those negative feelings. Could you make a list of positive affirmations you could make print out and read daily\n", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "hi, how are you doing? Would you like to discuss anything today?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "Good also, what would you like to discuss?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "It sound like you are feeling very overwhelmed and unsupported by your parents.", "output": "Reflection of feelings" }, { "input": "I have felt this way too, perhaps sit down with them and your brother and talk the situation out. ", "output": "Self-disclosure" }, { "input": "Perhaps you can write a letter to your parents.", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "Does your brother want your help?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "Then perhaps tell him you do not want to help him, that you have the right to pursue your own dreams.", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "Sounds like that is a great plan. ", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "your welcome.", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "same to you.", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "bye", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "Good evening :-) How are you tonight?", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "That's good that you're calming down but were you previously upset?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "That's really rough, I'm sorry to hear that. ", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "And they would like you to break up with her?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "It's complicated when parents want input into their child's relationships. That is really explosive stuff. ", "output": "Reflection of feelings" }, { "input": "Are you going to have to be around your parents soon after this? ", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "Oof, I see. I can understand you being upset by that, it's a silly reason to disapprove. Was the blowout in any way productive or just angry?", "output": "Reflection of feelings" }, { "input": "I don't know that this problem will be solved with one single choice or conversation. Do you live with your parents?", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "Ah, well then their opinion of your romantic relationships is 100% irrelevant.", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "There's not an easy way to get people to let go of those kinds of beliefs. Yes, you did mention that, haha. Physical attraction is awesome but perhaps not the best basis to move someone in with you :-)", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "Well I can help you study if you'd like?", "output": "Restatement or Paraphrasing" }, { "input": "What is your exam about? Plus you have a whole night to study!", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "I have an idea, do you have any friends in the same course or know anyone that is familiar with that subject? If so, maybe you can communicate with them and they can break it down in a short version.", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "Don't worry I know you feel exhausted from studying all day, but she is your friend and friends have each others back especially for school work. You don't have much to lose, go ahead and give it a shot.", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "I'm sure you will do just fine, you can do it!", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "Well studies show that if you continuously think negatively, than that is how your life will be lived. But if you try thinking positively and confident than you will more likely live a better life and do better. Try thinking positively the rest of the night and your brain will feel confident enough to remember and retain important information about your exam.", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "Yes, thats the spirit it works for me!", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "Okay is there anything else I can help you with or should I let you go?", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "Of course anytime, have a goodnight!", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "Yes, what is that?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "Yes I do actually. First make sure you get a good nights sleep so your brain can rest and function at its best. Next get to class a little early so you have time to soak up the energy in the room and you get a sense of your surroundings. Take it easy and do not rush. Just one question at a time, next thing you know its over.", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "Great anything else?", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "Okay it has been nice chatting with you, feel free to end the chat now, goodbye.", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "Hello, how are you doing today?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "I can imagine how difficult money can be during the pandemic as I had trouble looking for good jobs too.", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "If I were in your situation, I would probably seek out nonprofit organizations that provide basic supplies look food.", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "I would also apply for unemployment if I were out of a job.", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "You are doing your best. And I agree. It's always good to get your feelings out there.", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "Do you have a support system like friends or family or a counselor?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "I totally get what you are saying. Adulting is difficult.", "output": "Reflection of feelings" }, { "input": "Do you think it would help to talk about your money issues with your friends?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "Have you tried using scripts like hit forker and jr panda crazy? They are basically extensions that help to pick up the higher paying hits for you. I use it myself and it's very helpful!", "output": "Information" }, { "input": "There are lots of Youtube videos that show you how to use them.", "output": "Information" }, { "input": "You are very welcome! You could also try going to temp agencies to find employment. They typically set you up with work that you can start almost immediately if not immediately.", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "I try. I was working at a bookstore at minimum wage for 2 years so I totally understand where you are coming from and had coworkers that also had kids. The best advice I can give is to continue to put yourself out there and take opportunities as they come even if they are short term because the more experience you have, the easier it is to find a better job even during the pandemic.", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "Is there anything else you wanted to talk about?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "Good evening :-) How are you doing this evening? ", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "I'm really sorry to hear that. What are you going through? ", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "That is understandable, things are very uncertain for a lot of people. Do you have specific things you are worried about or is it a general feeling of dysphoria? ", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "Yes, the pandemic is a scary and unprecedented ongoing event that is hard to process. Have you been isolating for a long time? ", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "It's good that you're reaching out here for some support! Are you able to communicate with them via other means, text or Facetime/Zoom?", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "Taking a social media and news break could be a good idea. Sometimes it gets to feeling like we have to keep reading about the horrors of the world or else we are not doing anything at all.", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "When I get anxious and overloaded by everything that's happening, I like to watch pottery videos. They're so soothing. ", "output": "Self-disclosure" }, { "input": "And personally, I really like long baths and taking care of my skin. Being in water is physiologically calming, and having smooth skin makes me feel taken care of. ", "output": "Self-disclosure" }, { "input": "I try to stay engaged with my friends and family via text as much as I can. Even though it's not the same, it's something, and we have to maintain our connections.", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "Being alone is a tough situation, but you can take care of your brain and your heart by giving them a break from the chaos", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "You have an awesome attitude, I know you can do it :-)", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "Good evening, how are you?\n", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "What can I help you out with tonight?\n", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "That sounds like a complicated situation", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "Is the project something you will become responsible for?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "Is that a responsibility you want to have, or is it a burden that is being thrust upon you?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "Well, I think if it's truly a responsibility you want, you will work to live up to it as best you can. ", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "That's excellent, not many people can say that! It's starting to sound more and more like an opportunity for you to prove yourself :-)", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "That's an unfortunate part of most group projects, I hate to say. Interpersonal communication can be so hard. I have been a project manager in the past, and found that you have to consider Person XYZ did not wake up in the morning and decide to make your life harder. ", "output": "Self-disclosure" }, { "input": "And as long as you can keep things polite and professional, everyone gets to go home separately, thankfully! Haha", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "Foster the people around you that can provide you support, be a reliable producer and leader, and you will find that those that don't like you will move on. And, most importantly, you can only control how you respond/behave. If someone wants to instigate conflict, that will reflect poorly upon them. ", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "You can only engage with what abuse and hostility you accept. If you smile in response, it will make you feel better than if you internalize their aggression. ", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "Hello, I am well. What can I help you with this evening?\n", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "Are you upset about a specific issue or is it a general feeling of \"blue\"?\n", "output": "Restatement or Paraphrasing" }, { "input": "That's a really hard experience to go through, I'm sorry you are having to go through that. \n", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "That's a really hard experience to go through, I'm sorry you are having to go through that. \n", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "I had a bad break-up a few years ago, and took it very easy on myself for a few weeks afterward. I let myself eat whatever I wanted, and have what physical comforts I could find while my mind and my heart healed. \n", "output": "Self-disclosure" }, { "input": "I tried to avoid alcohol, because that will just increase depression and anxiety. ", "output": "Self-disclosure" }, { "input": "I think you are the only person who can decide when you are ready to start dating again, but I would encourage you to try to keep it light and casual at first. \n\n", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "Strengthen yourself and your boundaries and pursue your interests. I got into boxing and it's a great way to get in shape and have an emotional release. ", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "I rehabbed a bunch of my houseplants. I had some really sad looking pothos plants and I started reading about how to revitalize them. ", "output": "Self-disclosure" }, { "input": "I got them healthy enough to start a second generation from cuttings, and it was such simple, calm work, it was almost like meditation. ", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "That is totally understandable, and I think you can do it. ", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "You will find someone that will be a better fit, that is to be sure. ", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "That could be fun and validating for you! It's always nice to get some attention", "output": "Reflection of feelings" }, { "input": "Hello :-)", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "How are you doing?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "Anything you need to talk about?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "That's very common is there anything that has change that doesn't allow you to sleep?", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "Yes that has been a big stressor for many. I sometimes find myself having trobule to fall asleep. So I make sure my room is dark and think about something relaxing. ", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "no tv, cell phones etc. a hot shower before bed might help. ", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "When you can not shut your mind down it will prevent you from thinking and so I will actually to clear my head just think of something relaxing or enjoyable. ", "output": "Self-disclosure" }, { "input": "Try to make sure the room is dark and for whatever reason they say a glass of warm milk too but I never had to try that, just relaxing thoughts and a dark room and a fan idk. ", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "the sound of the fan can be relaxing for me idk why ", "output": "Self-disclosure" }, { "input": "sometimes white noise helps or the sounds of frogs on an app idk why but that works for some people too. The important thing is find something that works and relaxes your mind from thinking too much if you can. ", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "a running river or something that is tranquil to you and frogs work for some people or crickets idk why lol. ", "output": "Information" }, { "input": "Hopefully this pandemic willl be over and we can all go back to work ", "output": "Information" }, { "input": "hello ", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "hello are you there?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "How has life been going for you?\n", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "I its been quite tough for us all with the Covid 19 chaos\n", "output": "Reflection of feelings" }, { "input": "Anything you would like to talk about as to why things been going so rough for you?\n", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "Has Covid 19 affected you or your family?\n", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "You dont have friends or company that comes to visit? I know going through tough times can have you feeling alone.", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "I am doing what I love to do most which is helping others because it makes me feel better to help others if I can.", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "I have something to look forward to everyday I can help someone vent about things they feel that they are unable to say out of fear of being judged or frowned upon or as you might say is rough about your life", "output": "Restatement or Paraphrasing" }, { "input": "finding what make one happy can be a big job", "output": "Reflection of feelings" }, { "input": "you stay positive and you are sure to get positive results!", "output": "Reflection of feelings" }, { "input": "you are very welcome", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "you have a good night as well.", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "Hello! My name is Joe. It's nice to meet you! How are you doing today?", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "I'm so sorry to hear that! Is there anything specific going on that is stressing you out?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "It sounds to me like COVID-19 in general is causing you a lot of stress. Does this sound accurate to you?", "output": "Restatement or Paraphrasing" }, { "input": "I also have a compromised immune system, so I understand where you're coming from. All of this has been very scary.", "output": "Self-disclosure" }, { "input": "I know it's tough, but I believe that if we all keep working together and talking through our feelings, we can make it through this!", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "I live alone as well and also need to take care of myself. It can be so hard at times.", "output": "Self-disclosure" }, { "input": "I found that spending less time on social media and less time watching the news has helped my anxiety level to an extent. I don't think you should completely stop listening to what's going on as it's important to stay informed, but for me, limiting the amount of time that I spend engaging in these activities really helped.\n", "output": "Information" }, { "input": "Have you thought about limiting how much time you spend tuning into news sources and especially on social media? I know it's hard because there isn't much to do.", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "Have you considered spending your time engaging in other hobbies? I've been doing a lot of arts and crafts (one in particular called diamond painting that can be ordered directly from Amazon) and also reading novels that I can also have delivered right to my door. This also prevents me from having to go out in public.", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "Talking to me about how you're feeling is a great start! I'm proud of you for being open and honest about what's going on in your head. It's very easy for people to get stuck inside of their own minds right now.", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "Another suggestion I've been mentioning to others suffering from the mental stressors that COVID-19 is causing is considering speaking to an outpatient/occupational therapist. Is this something you'd be willing to consider?", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "You're welcome! I'm more than happy to provide any help that I can. I'd also very highly recommend finding hobbies that you enjoy, even if arts and crafts or reading aren't your thing. Can you think of anything else that would help you to keep your mind off everything going on?", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "I've also found that guided meditation (you can find a lot of these for free on YouTube) helps to calm my mind down at night and allows me to get a really good night's sleep.", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "You're very welcome! I hope that some of the things that I suggested help you to get through all of this.", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "It seems as though you're feeling very similar to how I've been feeling.", "output": "Reflection of feelings" }, { "input": "How has the weather been where you are? Sometimes, just getting outside for a brief walk alone or even just for a few minutes to get some fresh air can really be helpful.", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "I found a few months ago that the more time I spent watching the news and following COVID-19, the more depressed and anxious I got. I decided that I'd spend 30 minutes twice per week catching up on what's going on in my local area and around the globe. Other than that, I try not to focus on it as much as I can.", "output": "Information" }, { "input": "Wow, it must be beautiful there! I'm in Pennsylvania.", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "Hello how are you?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "Doing good and yourself?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "That can be tough can you tell me what the argument was about?", "output": "Restatement or Paraphrasing" }, { "input": "So, why do you think they think that?", "output": "Restatement or Paraphrasing" }, { "input": "I can see why you would be upset about that. So, that is the only reason they don't approve. At this point when they are not as upset you may want to share all the reason she a great girlfriend. If it is based totally on race not sure you can change their minds. ", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "I completely understand that and if you really like her and they see how happy she makes you maybe they will come around. ", "output": "Restatement or Paraphrasing" }, { "input": "I would be upset too so, it's understandable. Just reassure them you love them and your happy and hopefully one day they will be happy with your decesion. If not then it is your decesion who you date and I think they know that too. ", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "Yes I have and my parents did not approve either", "output": "Self-disclosure" }, { "input": "Eventually my parents came around and most likely yours will too. ", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "It was in highschool I dated a black man after I became an adult they didn't say much about who I dated and I countinued to date the person and it ended when he went in the miltary and I went to college not at first but it was the distance thing. ", "output": "Self-disclosure" }, { "input": "Most likely they will if she makes you happy they will see that :-)", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "Glad that I could be and good luck to you", "output": "Self-disclosure" }, { "input": "Good how are you doing?", "output": "Restatement or Paraphrasing" }, { "input": "Sorry to hear that, would you like to talk about it?", "output": "Reflection of feelings" }, { "input": "I would be willing to do that ", "output": "Information" }, { "input": "Break ups are the worst and feeling blue is totally understandable. ", "output": "Reflection of feelings" }, { "input": "Reflection is important but healing and moving on which will take a little time is also important :-). ", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "Yes distraction is really good like taking up a new interest or reading a good book something like that. Any friends you can hang out with? ", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "Yes this pandemic has really been hard on social interaction and a good book you can be great distraction. ", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "I am a Yogi Bear too and that is great for relaxation we did the angry dog and we barked lol in class yesterday ", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "We meet outside in the park even finding a remote space in a park might do some good you never know ", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "Perfect :-) ", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "About 10 years ", "output": "Self-disclosure" }, { "input": "I need it and it really does help ease the stress for me", "output": "Self-disclosure" }, { "input": "Hello, what can i help today?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "I am sorry to hear that, when did it happen?", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "It must be heart broken for you. Have you talked to each other at all after it happend?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "Did you talk to your friends about this? Maybe they can offer some advice as they know you best", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "It is understandable to feel that way. I agree it's best to move out, you won't be able to move on if you still see each other. Have you considered seeing a therapist?", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "I suggest reaching out to your friends and try to distract yourself with activities that you want but haven't been able to do ", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "Having a dog as companion right now is perfect. If you can, take your dog on a short trip somewhere, preferably in the nature", "output": "Reflection of feelings" }, { "input": "I agree,I think how you look at the situation is important. Yes it's terrible, no one dares to say this is a blessing event. However, you can look at it differently, this is your chance to live for yourself and improve as a person", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "I'm glad I could help", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "you too!", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "How are you feeling today?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "It seems like an exhausting time for a lot of people right now", "output": "Reflection of feelings" }, { "input": "I'm also a bit tired but doing OK", "output": "Self-disclosure" }, { "input": "What's been on your mind recently?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "It seems like a stressful time to be in college.", "output": "Reflection of feelings" }, { "input": "How have you been coping with everything going on?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "Nice! What kind of music do you like?", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "I also like hip hop and r&b. It's too bad we aren't able to go to any live music events for a while, though", "output": "Self-disclosure" }, { "input": "I've seen them advertised but I haven't tried any of them yet. I think I saw there was a Lil Nas X one coming up though, might check that out. Have you done any?", "output": "Self-disclosure" }, { "input": "Oh good to know. Yeah, I don't know if virtual concerts can ever really compare to live ones.", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "Well, I'm in my 30s so I like the artists who were big about the time I was in high school/college since I have fond memories of that. So, artists like Nelly, 50 cent, Eminem. Also I'm from California so I have to say Tupac.", "output": "Self-disclosure" }, { "input": "What about you?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "Oh yeah, Kendrick is awesome and makes actual meaningful music. Kanye also is super talented, sadly he seems to have his issues, but don't we all!", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "It was great talking to you :) Nice to find someone with shared music tastes. Hope you have a great rest of ur weekend and good luck with finishing your semester!", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "Agree ^ and bye! :D", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "It seems like things have not be great for you over the past couple of weeks. Why do you feel they have been worse?\n", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "That seems like a frustrating experience. What were your expectations of the session you were supposed to have? Did you feel like what you learned in your previous session would have helped you with dealing with what you typically work on in your mental health sessions\n?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "I think that is definitely one way to look at it. But another way to look at your situation is you figured out a therapist who isn't worth seeing. That brings you one step closer to finding one who does actually help you. All you need to do now, is do some research and find someone who has your best interest in mind. Believe me, there are great therapists and terrible therapists. You just need to find one of the good ones now.\n", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "If you have financial issues and you need the help from a therapist you deserve the treatment. One thing you can do is apply for Medicaid and EBT. The state you live in will give you money to pay for groceries and to get help from a therapist for free if you don't have a high enough income. It may be worth looking into because all you really need to do is fill out some forms and likely you will be approved. When I was younger and struggling, this had happened to me and I received both of these benefits and it totally turned my life around. I think it can do the same for you as well. ", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "Sure thing. What are some of the coping strategies you've been practicing with your prior therapist?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "I can see how that comment he made would be frustrating. If you feel like vaping, you should continue to do; however, what happens if say you go somewhere and find yourself in a stressful position? What would be strategy you could use in order to recenter yourself? Strategies are important as they balance us when we experience stressors that through us off. Have you ever thought about meditation?", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "Oh yes. Me personally, I like to scour youtube and find an environment with a sound I enjoy such as the beach. When I listen to that sound, I try to put myself by closing my eyes while sitting on the floor and breathing deeply for some time. It may be worth a try for you. I hope it helps you. Good luck!", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "I wish you all the best!\n", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "How are you doing today?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "I am well, what's on your mind?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "So sorry to hear about your plight. Life is a roller coaster and sometimes it gets out of control, I hope things slow down so you can get things straightened out. ", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "I understand your concerns about being stressed, scared and depressed. The risk of family getting sick is certainly valid. ", "output": "Restatement or Paraphrasing" }, { "input": "I too worry about things I feel I cannot control, the lack of sleep due to this just makes it worse so I try to think of positive things, but its hard. ", "output": "Self-disclosure" }, { "input": "Its hard to stop those negative thoughts, but the first step is sharing your feelings with others and talking about it. You are now on your way to healing. ", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "I can see in your words how stressed you are and troubled. ", "output": "Reflection of feelings" }, { "input": "May I suggest that you seek some face to face support from a best friend or close family member. ", "output": "Information" }, { "input": "Its still possible. Social distancing, six feet away but in maybe your backyard or even a park away from others so you can talk with some degree of confidence that its private. Just being around another person is so very supportive and positive. Please try. ", "output": "Information" }, { "input": "True. Remember, you are not the only one facing these troubles, others are tackling it too. Try also to google online support groups on Reddit and blogs for additional assistance and suggestions from those who faced it and succeeded. Doing what others did to overcome it means not having to reinvent the whole process on your own. ", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "That's the way to go. Keep seeking help. The right solution is there for you. Now you have a plan to get started. ", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "Yes, it a problem so many people are facing. ", "output": "Reflection of feelings" }, { "input": "My own family members are facing this too. ", "output": "Self-disclosure" }, { "input": "I read a few articles on Psychology today website that might help you also. They discuss how to control stress and overcome depression in this world of COVID. Written by some doctors and they are free to read. ", "output": "Information" }, { "input": "You are welcome. You are on your way. ", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "It was my pleasure. ", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "Hello! \n", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "I'm fine. How are you? Is there any issue I can help you with?", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "That's a really tough thing to deal with. It can be hard to be confronted with a different, unexpected side from a trusted friend. ", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "Perhaps you can try reasoning with him. I'm certain that your judgement in friendships is not flawed and although he has made quite the yikes choice, he still has redeemable qualities. Especially if he wasn't making his political viewpoint known until recently. It leans towards the idea that with the right information, he'll understand that Trump is a big loser and he lost lmao", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "Consider directing him to news sources that are not Twitter or Facebook, though I know this is hard to do. it is just a teensy bit funny he thinks that Trump is being muzzled on twitter when they are not deleting any of his tweets. ", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "This seems like a very sudden reaction from him, from what I've gathered, seeing as how it took you by surprise. Is there anything going on his life that may have put him into a negative mindset? Perhaps he's having problems in a relationship or at work that is leading him to rabbit holes on the internet.", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "I'm so sorry to hear that. He might be struggling with that and looking to shift his negative feelings onto another issue, one that has the support of many. It could be providing him comfort to be angry at the suppression of Twitter rather than coming to terms with his own turmoil. I think talking to him about his job status might be a start in reasoning his new outlook.", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "Gently. It's never a good idea to press the issue, especially if it seems like he's trying to avoid it. ", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "Perhaps you should implore the help of somebody else in his life. I understand wanting to help your friend, especially when it's negatively impacting your own mental health, but there's only so much one person can do. You both deserve to be in a good head space and asking for help is okay. ", "output": "Information" }, { "input": "I'm sure she might already be concerned as well. It might be easier than you expect. If he's consistently getting in arguments with you, it's likely that he's stuck in a negative haze and it might be affecting his other relationships. ", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "Try having a private conversation with her and don't ask her to talk to him, merely push her in that direction. It's less plotting and more seeing her point of view as well.", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "I'm glad to have given you some steps that may help you! ", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "I am okay. How are you doing today?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "What has happened?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "I know a lot of people who are feeling this way. It is a difficult time", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "Why do you think you are struggling?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "It sounds like you are feeling lonely. Is that right?", "output": "Restatement or Paraphrasing" }, { "input": "I understand. Video calls can feel a bit less personal sometimes. Do you live alone?", "output": "Reflection of feelings" }, { "input": "I see. So you aren't even getting that social contact at work really. Do you video chat to your family and friends regularly? ", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "I feel the same way. Having to keep in contact with friends through video has been difficult lately. I try to find something to do while we're chatting, like gaming or a quiz", "output": "Self-disclosure" }, { "input": "Hello, what can I help you today?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "How long have you lived with depression?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "Do you have problem with sleeping, eating or daily activity because of it?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "It seems like you're confused as what to expect and react as I understand", "output": "Restatement or Paraphrasing" }, { "input": "Depression is tough to deal with. We can try to find a way to temporarily suppress it but ultimately, we need to find the cause and treat", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "I cry, crying actually helps since it relieves the pain youhave to go through. After you cry, your body tends to be exhausted and you can just sleep without thinking", "output": "Self-disclosure" }, { "input": "However, the best way to cope with death and depression in general is stay outdoor, be closed tothe nature", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "I have noticed that whenever I'm depressed, I feel better staying outdoor so try doing that more often.", "output": "Self-disclosure" }, { "input": "I understand. I also experience sudden lost a few years ago, I still haven't overcome completely but I now can be at ease thinking of him", "output": "Reflection of feelings" }, { "input": "every emotion that you experience will be messy and confusing, but it's totally normal. Dealing with death is never easy.", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "I'm gladd I could be help to you", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "Bye\n", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "Hello\n", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "How are you doing today? Do have anything on your mind?", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "Oh i see, well we can talk about that if you like. Has anything happened recently to make you feel this way?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "It sounds like social isolation is really weighing on you...", "output": "Restatement or Paraphrasing" }, { "input": "Human being are social creatures by nature so please understand that the feelings that you are having are absolutely normal. So dont judge yourself or feel as if something is wrong with YOU", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "You mentioned your friends feel the same way you do... Have you guys thought about making trying to do a zoom party?", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "I have a group of sister friends and we threw a zoom party. we scheduled it out and we decorated our own spaces and we made a spotify playlist that everyone contributed a song to and basically just had a video party. Do you think your frinds may like to try that with you?", "output": "Self-disclosure" }, { "input": "Be creative! Get silly! most important have fun! this is a hard year but its still a chance to make happy memories", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "Is there anything else on your mind? ", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "Im so glad that I could help you out! You have a great day too!", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "Lovely!", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "Bye friend (:", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "Come back anytime if you ever wanna talk again!", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "Hiya! =)\n How are you doing, today?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "I totally understand that. Which year are you in?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "Oh goodness, I can't imagine how stressful that would be. I've only gotten my associates, and I found that last semester to be a slough. But what kept me going was the relief and joy I would feel once I had that diploma in hand.", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "Are there any study groups or classmates you can get together with, and basically make a night of it?", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "Very true, this year made everyone's expectations and plans go out the window lol", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "It might be time to put yourself out of your comfort zone, but start small. Are there any clubs or groups associated with your major? That way, you have some common ground to work with.", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "That sounds like a good idea =) Even if you can't hold club meetings on campus or have any gatherings, maybe they hold their meetings over video calls. One plus side to that, is that you don't need to have your camera on to participate.", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "That's understandable, especially with how the past year has been. Everyone is on edge and everything feels so uncertain, but that's okay, because you're not alone =)", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "You said you're doing well so far? Take pride in that, and focus on that. \"If I've been doing well so far, I must be doing something right. I'll just keep doing what I have been, and everything should work out in the end.\"", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "We can be our own worst critics, and that's never been truer than when we're facing a challenge. Self-doubt can be such a pain, but when I find I'm having trouble believing in myself and working toward my goals, I'll focus on what I already accomplished, and that helps give me that extra push to keep going", "output": "Self-disclosure" }, { "input": "I might be an internet stranger, but I'm proud of you, too. =) You've got one and a half semesters to go! You've got this! I believe in you! <3", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "You're very welcome, I'm glad I could help =)", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "Hi there. How are you doing today?", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "I'm doing pretty well. Do you have anything going on today?", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "Oh biking is an excellent activity to do with everything going on. How are you feeling with it all? What are you studying in school? I'm just getting household chores done, nothing too exciting.", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "I understand that it is really difficult to be kept on lockdown. ", "output": "Reflection of feelings" }, { "input": "Are you biking regularly to help with the feeling of being stuck inside?", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "I agree, It's really great that you are finding ways to get out of the house. ", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "Have you tried video chatting with the people you can't be around right now? That has really helped me not feel so alone right now.", "output": "Self-disclosure" }, { "input": "Well, I think it's great that you are finding things like biking, playing with your dog, and video chatting to help get you through these times.", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "Lately, I've been focusing on self care a lot more to help with de stressing with everything going on. Have you tried this?", "output": "Self-disclosure" }, { "input": "Self care is so important even when there isn't a pandemic. It can help you connect with yourself and make you feel less overwhelmed and just give you YOU time. Some of my favorite ways to do this is listening to podcasts, meditating and focusing on my breathing, listening to music, and pamper myself with face masks etc.", "output": "Information" }, { "input": "I suggest you practice self care starting once a week and work it up from there giving yourself at least an hour a day if you can", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "I suggest listening to Jay shetty he is on most podcasts apps. personally, I use stitcher. If you can download a podcast app you can just type in \"Meditation\" and it will pull up several options to try out. Another great app is called MyLife Meditation by stop. breath. think. That's a great started meditation to try.", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "It sounds like this could be something that would fit right in with your life and even help improve it. I hope you enjoy it as much as I do! There is so many great books out there and other podcasts as well about self care. ", "output": "Reflection of feelings" }, { "input": "I'm so glad I was able to help. Enjoy the rest of your day and remember to set aside sometime for yourself. It was great chatting with you.", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "Hello, what can I help you?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "Was there anything that leads to this?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "That's terrible and unacceptable behavior.", "output": "Reflection of feelings" }, { "input": "How long have you been together?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "That sucks. I wouldn't be able to accept either. ", "output": "Reflection of feelings" }, { "input": "Have you talked to your friends about this?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "It is understandable to have that reaction. I agree with you, only us can hep ourselves.", "output": "Reflection of feelings" }, { "input": "Have you tried doing activities that help distract you from having negative thoughts?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "Haha I feel you, I tend to eat a lot when depressed too. Look, it's treat yourself method. You deserve the best", "output": "Self-disclosure" }, { "input": "If you can go to the mountain or big lake, I would say try spending a few hours there. Maybe have a mini picnic by yourself and enjoy the nature.", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "Is there anything you have wanted to do but don't have the time? I always want to learn guitar and baking. This is the best time to start that", "output": "Self-disclosure" }, { "input": "That's the spirit! I know being treated like that feels horrible. However, I bet you have mourned enough, at the end of the day, a person treats you like that has no respect and you shouldn't waste time on them.", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "It's time to invest in yourself, once you become your better version, a better partner will come to you", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "Yes!Actually don't think you did wrong. Reflecting after a relationship is good but don't put all the blame on yourself.", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "You have learned from this relationship too i believe, use that for your next one", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "Yes here to listen and to help you in anyway I can", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "By any chance have you thought about trying out some time management class?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "Oh ok I see. I have actually been in this type of situation before, and I took those classes and they actually helped.", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "Yes sure I can .", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "Find out where your wasting you time? Try creating time management goals? Implement a Time management Plan", "output": "Information" }, { "input": "Yes thats a great idea.", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "You could also reward yourself when you have done a good job", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "I can relate to that as well. This pandemic has gotten everyone down.", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "Dont be so down on yourself you are mature. Just need a little help managing some things.", "output": "Reflection of feelings" }, { "input": "If you do some of those suggestions I believe you will be just fine.", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "Oh also do you like music?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "While your studying play some soft music in the background that you like and see if that helps.", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "Your so welcome and Thank you for allowing me yo help", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "Hi there! My name is Rob, how are you today?\n", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "I'm sorry to hear that, when did you start feeling this way?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "Did something happen to trigger this for you? Or did it just kind of start without an explanation?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "Correct me if I'm wron\ng, your children are now online learning, and you are feeling defeated because your husband is pulling away and not providing you the support you need?\n", "output": "Restatement or Paraphrasing" }, { "input": "That would be very hard, especially with the way the world is right now. I want you to know your feelings are valid, and I'm sure you are trying your best.\n", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "Have you tried talking to your husband about your feelings, and how it is affecting your day today life?", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "That makes it hard when you have already tried to take the steps to help you improve the situation. If I may offer a suggestion, perhaps you should approach him, and advise him you are not interested in arguing since that won't improve the situation, but be up-front and honest about how this is making you feel, and how his lack of support will ultimately harm the whole family. And also maybe ask him if there is anything going on with him to find out why his support to you, and the children has changed.\n", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "Sometimes when someone is stressed, their behaviour can change suddenly, if he is able to vent to you if there are any issues it could help!\n", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "I really hope the situation improves for you, and just remember it is ok to feel sad some days, and don't be too hard on yourself. I wish you all the best! ", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "Thank you so much! I appreciate the feedback!", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "Hello my name is Christina", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "What's your name?", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "Hi Shay. You are welcome. Anything on your mind today? I'm here if you would like to talk about anything.", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "So you are feeling depressed and lonely and you feel unimportant? ", "output": "Restatement or Paraphrasing" }, { "input": "I am sorry to hear that you are feeling this way. I have felt the same before and I know it can be difficult to change those feelings.", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "I can understand that. If I may can I ask you if you live with anyone? ", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "Ok well that should be something that you can take pride in. Do you have contact with your friends and family? I have found that for me calling my mom or chatting with my friends that truly know me makes me feel more connected to others.", "output": "Self-disclosure" }, { "input": "That's great that you speak to your mom. I know it can be hard to open yourself up and meet new friends but I think you can do it. Are there maybe some people at your job that you would consider making friends with? I think that would be a great place to start because you would already have something in common. ", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "OK I see. So for now you would like to be able to get comfort from the people that already know you and your story. One suggestion that I have would be to really try to reach out and contact those people. I know that with work and life in general it is easy to lose touch. Not that you stop caring for a person but things just get hetic from time to time. ", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "Hello. How are you today?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "I am. thank you!", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "That is very understandable. I too have felt this anxiety.", "output": "Restatement or Paraphrasing" }, { "input": "It is a very difficult situation, and can really bring out the worst in our mental health. ", "output": "Reflection of feelings" }, { "input": "Well, it sounds like you are doing pretty well given the circumstances. It is good that you have found activities to keep busy.", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "I understand the lack of structure. It can be difficult but also freeing.", "output": "Self-disclosure" }, { "input": "It can be a good time to try a project or new direction you haven't had time for until now. Or just try to think of what your possibilities are.", "output": "Reflection of feelings" }, { "input": "I have a good feeling that we will have some normalcy by summer 2021", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "I understand. As long as you are being cautious and following the guidelines, you are doing all you can to protect yourself. That is a good thing.", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "Just taking it one day at a time and focusing on the positives.", "output": "Self-disclosure" }, { "input": "Obviously some days will be easier than others", "output": "Reflection of feelings" }, { "input": "Hopefully you can see the light at the end of this tunnel. The second waves seem to be a trend, and we made it through the first one.", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "That is a good thing!", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "I think you are doing the right thing. And it shouldn't be long before the vaccine is released.", "output": "Information" }, { "input": "That's promising. Just make sure you are getting your vitamins, and drinking plenty of water. This will keep your immune system strong. It's difficult to remember to take care of yourself when all this is going on.", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "Sleeping patterns can vary. Some studies actually show that certain people are better off with an unpredictable routine. Just listen to your mind and body.", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "You are welcome. Thank you for allowing me to try to help!", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "You too!!", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "All the best to you too. This will pass. ", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "Hello, what's on your mind today?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "How long have you been friends?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "And he has always had cocky attitude? Have you ever told him that?", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "I understand your frustration, it's upsetting when they dismiss what you say even though you have been friends for so long.", "output": "Reflection of feelings" }, { "input": "What I would recommend in this case is, spend more time with other friends who appreciate you. You also need to tell Rick your honest thought, don't beat around the bush but let him know you're serious", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "I have been in the same situation myself, what I usually do is sit down with them and start the conversation in a serious mood. Explain everything I need to say and tell them that I mean every word. If they don't seem to accept and change, I keep my distance from them", "output": "Self-disclosure" }, { "input": "That's even easier to make it clear, if you run into him, just give him a polite greetings. The point is, make it clear you have had enough\n", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "Yes. Be not too harsh at first. I would say to give him 1 more chance. If he still doesn't respect your words, it's the best for both to say it clearly.", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "You have the right mindset! Practice before talking will help you deliver your thoughts better. ", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "I would start with something along the line \"Look, I know we have had this conversation many times. However, i feel as though you never take me seriously. I want to say this one last time....\"", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "Getting emotional is totally fine, that's why you need practice", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "I understand, it's difficult to come to this decision when you've been friends for so long. I hope he appreciates your friendship just as you do and tries his best.", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "You're very welcome. is there anything I can do for you?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "I think you can end our session here. I'm glad I could help a bit", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "how are you feeling today?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "So you have been feeling down since the breakup a couple days ago?", "output": "Restatement or Paraphrasing" }, { "input": "I can relate to this heartache as I have gone through similar breakups in my life. The important thing is that we pick ourselves up after something like this.", "output": "Self-disclosure" }, { "input": "It can be really hard sometimes! It appears that you possess the strength and motivation to be able to pick yourself back up. The factthat you are reaching out for help shows you have the motivation and desire to work to get better!\n", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "Studies indicate that emotions felt immidiately after a breakup eventually subside with time. It is important to take care of yourself in the mean time. Do you have any hobbies?\n", "output": "Information" }, { "input": "So you like to read? Have you thought about reading self-help books on perhaps depression?", "output": "Restatement or Paraphrasing" }, { "input": "Have the books provided you any benefit?\n", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "I get the sense that you are pretty depressed over you recent breakup that you have taken pretty hard. I also feel your desire to want to feel better. I think this is a step in the right direction for you to get to feeling better.", "output": "Reflection of feelings" }, { "input": "Sometimes it helps in working through these feelings when we reach out to a professional mental health provider. Is this something you have considered?", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "What has stopped you from doing this in the past?\n", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "I am hearing that while you have thought about reaching out for professional help in the past in regaurds to your mental health, you have not felt comfortable enough to do this as this makes you feel a bit anxious or nervous is that correct?\n", "output": "Restatement or Paraphrasing" }, { "input": "I am nervous in situations that are new to me as well so I understand this. Is there something you can do to get past this nervousness so that you fel comfortable seeking out this help?\n", "output": "Self-disclosure" }, { "input": "It sounds like the only way for you to gain that confidence in someone to be able to share your feelings with them, that you will likely need to face that fear in order to make progress, is that right?", "output": "Restatement or Paraphrasing" }, { "input": "What would be the forst step you could take in working twards getting over this fear so that you may get the professional help that you feel like you have needed in the past as well as the present?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "It is great that you can identify what needs to be done in this situation. It sounds like you are ready and willing to seek out help for yourself! Do you have access to the resources that are in your area?", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "I understand. Sometimes it's hard to find joy. When do you think you starting feeling this way?\n", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "Sometimes, finding joy can be difficult. Especially when what we always turned to for joy is gone. \n", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "But we can find comfort in little things. Is there something you have that gives you comfort? Even the smallest thing.\n", "output": "Self-disclosure" }, { "input": "I believe we all have purpose in this life. I know that it's hard to live with-out the ones we hold dearly. I think a way we can keep them alive in our hearts is to pass on the good things about they did for us to others.\n", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "I feel the same way, I get anxious around others as well.", "output": "Self-disclosure" }, { "input": "Maybe little steps are the best way. Sometimes all someone needs is a smile, even when we can't find our own, we can give one to others.", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "It's always hard to make that next step, but I believe you're closer than you think. \n", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "You are not alone and you are right, time is precious, but it's okay to take to to grieve. Grief is a part of healing. \n\n\n", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "What do you think is the cause of that?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "Oh, so it's the public speaking that has you rattled?", "output": "Restatement or Paraphrasing" }, { "input": "That sounds like it'd be enough to upset anybody.", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "I think most people aren't big fans of public speaking. ", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "Well she sounds like kind of a pain in the ass honestly, I had a teacher like that one time myself.", "output": "Self-disclosure" }, { "input": "Maybe you could try and just put things in perspective. I mean this will all be behind you soon enough, and no matter how it goes it's not like you're going to wind up on skid row over it, I wouldn't think.", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "So in the short term I'd just try to get a good night's sleep, give it your best shot, and keep in mind that it's not really all that significant in the grand scheme of things.", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "Well my pleasure, I hope that was of some help!", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "Well good! So now what do we do? Does this count as finishing the hit?", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "Hang on, let me look and see", "output": "Information" }, { "input": "I understand it could be better", "output": "Reflection of feelings" }, { "input": "What is going on?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "My day could be better too sometimes, it may help to talk about it.", "output": "Self-disclosure" }, { "input": "It sounds like you are really worried and have anxiety over the qurantine.", "output": "Reflection of feelings" }, { "input": "From my experience it has helped tremendously to take a few deep breaths", "output": "Information" }, { "input": "I also have been worried about getting it and passing it on. I have been taking extra precautions to stay home and wash my hands often to try and prevent it.\n", "output": "Self-disclosure" }, { "input": "That is so difficult that you are concerned and upset that you can't see her. ", "output": "Restatement or Paraphrasing" }, { "input": "In my experience I've used video chat to help me get through hard times when I couldn't see my loved ones in person. ", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "That's really hard, but I think you have it in you to keep doing your best and staying safe.", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "I'm happy you were able to talk to me, I know talking about how I'm feeling helps me feel better sometimes.", "output": "Self-disclosure" }, { "input": "Hello!\n", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "How are you doing today? Are there any particular issues you would like to discuss?\n", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "I'm sorry to hear that. Did that make college difficult for you?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "Of course. Do you still experience feelings of sadness when thinking of that time in your life?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "Does that loss still affect your day-to-day life or do you feel like you were able to handle those feelings in a healthy way?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "It sounds like you're still struggling with that loss. That is entirely normal. ", "output": "Reflection of feelings" }, { "input": "It sounds like you're looking for a way to handle these feelings in a healthy way. Am i right in that? ", "output": "Restatement or Paraphrasing" }, { "input": "That makes sense. Some feelings of sadness around a loss are normal but they can be a problem if they start interfering with functioning. Do you have a support network or someone you can turn to when you feel like this?", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "Do you feel like you talk to your spouse about these issues?\n", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "From what I have seen, if people try to keep their emotions inside, it can be more damaging in the long run. This isn't something you have handle all by yourself.", "output": "Information" }, { "input": "That's completely fair. It can be a difficult thing to talk about. When those feelings do come up, can you think of ways to discuss it with your spouse?\n", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "I think that's a wonderful idea. From what I've seen, it can be really difficult to talk about, but afterwards it does get easier. You deserve the chance to remember the good memories of your friendship and not carry your difficult feelings by yourself.", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "Absolutely, I wish you all the best.", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "Hi there - how can I help you this evening?\n", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "I can understand that, there are probably a ton of classes to select from.\n", "output": "Reflection of feelings" }, { "input": "What kind of skills to you want to gain?", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "That's great, the computer skills will help out a lot. And the programs help with writing skills too.", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "Do you have anyone like a counselor you can consult with to help you make a decision? When I was in school, I developed a relationship with the counselor so I felt comfortable asking.", "output": "Self-disclosure" }, { "input": "No? That's too bad. It helps to have like a mentor and maybe that professor would be a good source. Sounds like a good plan.", "output": "Reflection of feelings" }, { "input": "You sound like you have a good head on your shoulders and want to be able to get a good job when you graduate. I think it is wise to seek advice now.", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "Do you think you have a strategy? Talk to your professor and see if he can help or maybe he can provide another solution?", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "I wish you all the best - I am confident you will do great!", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "You are certainly welcome. I'm glad I could help.", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "Have a good rest of your evening.", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "Hello, thanks for chatting, how are you feeling today?", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "I'm glad to hear that! How has work been going for you?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "Absolutely, I think finding a job that you are passionate about is a goal for a majority of people.", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "That's awesome, is there any aspect about your job that you don't like or enjoy as much?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "I can understand it, it sounds like you are in a position where you oversee others are in a teaching capacity. I too am in a similar position, and when people aren't as responsive to my ideas, it can definitely irritate me.", "output": "Self-disclosure" }, { "input": "That makes sense, but it might be helpful to think about the other person's situation. Perhaps he/she hasn't had the same amount of training? Perhaps, they just need a little more guidance than other people who are more able to complete the tasks.", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "What aspects do you especially have a hard time relating with?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "That does sound exhausting, though some people might be reluctant to share their personal experiences, and it might be helpful to start smaller when getting to know someone and working up to more serious conversations. ", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "I think it's great that it doesn't happen often and that you are able to recognize the few situations where it does begin to bother you.", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "That's even better! You are able to use your own skills to recognize the problems and take the appropriate steps forward. I think that if you are able to keep doing that, hopefully you'll find that people are a lot easier to relate to than you initially thought.", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "Pleasure chatting with you!", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "good evening, what's bothering you?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "lots of people suffer from anxiety.you are not alone. ", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "ok. well do you want to expand on what's causing the anxiety?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "I'm sure your parents know that if they can't drive they won't because they you are worried about them ", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "have you spoken to them about your concern? ", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "well it's a atart. I suggest you talk to them about it. maybe they will take your concerns seriously", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "well I suggest try exercising always keeps mind occupied ", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "have you seek professional help?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "well they do a good job in helping others\n maybe it's worth a try ", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "well first speak with your family doctor he can recommend someone for you ", "output": "Information" }, { "input": "you can do this and conquer your anxiety ", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "anything else I can help with? if not we good ", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "Hi how are you doing?\n", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "That sounds really tough. It's hard to find work these days", "output": "Restatement or Paraphrasing" }, { "input": "I totally understand. Covid had really ruined a lot of things", "output": "Reflection of feelings" }, { "input": "Have you tried job sites?", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "I really like indeed.com as well as glassdoor. They give good suggestions and make it easy to apply", "output": "Information" }, { "input": "I'm a real person haha are you?", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "It's nice and sunny, I hope you're having good weather as well. ", "output": "Self-disclosure" }, { "input": "I'm glad it was helpful. I wish you luck!", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "bye!", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "what's up", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "What do you mean 5 minutes? Are you ok?", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "Oh dang well I guess we'll just wait then", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "Don't worry there'll be plenty of opprtunites. You have a unique set of skills that nobody else has ", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "You'll be fine!", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "Bye!", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "Hello, how are you doing?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "I am sorry to hear you are near your breaking point, do you have any idea when the decline and stress began?", "output": "Restatement or Paraphrasing" }, { "input": "Work and personal life are very hard to juggle with each other, especially in the current life situations around the globe. I am sure you will successfully handle both in the overall. ", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "For me, when I start getting overwhelmed and need to \"debrief\" my mind, and \"declutter\" the stresses, I use a notepad. I jot down every detail I can that pops into mind. Every upcoming task, everything that has caused anxiety or similar, and then I prioritize them in an agenda. It seems tedious, however once you get a handle on scheduling, in my personal ex\nperience, it is easier to hold yourself accountable and slowly work your way through accomplishments, even small tasks, which is encouraging to continue. ", "output": "Self-disclosure" }, { "input": "Sometimes, something as small as an \naccomplished task can uplift a mood greatly. Especially when listed and checked off to see the progress. ", "output": "Reflection of feelings" }, { "input": "When you visually see your success, I hope it will help like it does for myself. I personally believe that it is a useful tool, depression runs deep and anxiety pushes it over the edge with deadlines. Life and Personal are very complicated situations. As is living, in itself. Small accomplishments, maybe with minor rewards to\n yourself as you go, boosts confidence and tends to fade out the overwhelming heavy feelings. ", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "A punch card. If you have one handy, a note card/index card. Draw maybe, 15 circles around the edge, and call it \"My rewards\" In the middle, choose one thing you enjoy, for instance, if you like an ice cream sundae, put that in the middle. For your first task, just jot all that is on your mind down, and also use that as the first task to yourself. Check off one circle, and once you hit 15 get that sundae! \n", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "Awesome! I am happy to hear that it has already helped a little! ", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "I do sincerely hope you start feeling better, the current average life has altered greatly, and it has changed workloads and balances with great challenges. ", "output": "Reflection of feelings" }, { "input": "Absolutely, I appreciate the chance to speak with you and give suggestions. ", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "Perhaps, nature. A walk alone somewhere pretty tends to be a refreshing, zen-like activity. Or even, as a meditation type approach, rock stacking. It takes much focus, and tends to leave your mind clearer in the end. I also recommend reading, or listening to audio books of a theme you are interested in. It brings comfort in activities", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "can you talk more about what happened?\n", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "did she end your relationship?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "It sounds like you thought the relationship was going well and were surprised. Is that right?", "output": "Restatement or Paraphrasing" }, { "input": "It sounds like you are really sad and don't know how to move forward.", "output": "Reflection of feelings" }, { "input": "I remember looking at pictures and reminiscing after a break-up too. It helped me to take down pictures to not be reminded of the relationship until I was ready. ", "output": "Self-disclosure" }, { "input": "I know that you are working hard on understanding and moving forward with your life, just by reaching out and having this conversation!", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "Apparently allowing yourself some time to grieve can be a good starting point, according to the experts!", "output": "Information" }, { "input": "Set aside time to do things for yourself. Could you find any time to read, exercise, travel, or something else you enjoy?", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "Wow that sounds like an awesome trip. I would enjoy that, too!", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "It will probably be helpful fo you too - to get yourself in another location where you can experience different feelings", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "Well I hope that helps. Thanks for chatting with me", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "Hello! How are you doing today?", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "I'm doing well, thank you! I'm sorry to hear that you're having a rough day. Do you mind me asking what happened to make you feel that way?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "I am so sorry to hear that. My brother suffers from alcoholism as well. I know how worrisome and difficult it can be. I still have a hard time dealing with my emotions. What different types of emotions are you feeling?", "output": "Self-disclosure" }, { "input": "Wow, that really is a lot to deal with. It seems as though you have a good understanding of what you're feeling but that you are trying to figure out how to move forward from here. It seems like you are trying to figure out how to work through your feelings as well as how to manage and deal with the pressure that has been put on you as a result. Does that sound accurate to you?", "output": "Reflection of feelings" }, { "input": "That is a great attitude to have. I'm very proud of you for trying to stay positive and for reassuring yourself that it will become easier for you to deal with over time. You sound like an incredibly strong person!", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "You're very welcome! I know from experience that it is usually best and much easier to talk to someone on the outside who doesn't know all of the ins and outs of what you are experiencing.", "output": "Information" }, { "input": "Have you considered any ways in which you could start to work through what you're feeling?", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "It's great to hear that you are on a medication that will hopefully help you. Have you also considered speaking to an outpatient therapist or someone along those lines? That way, you could return to the same person as often as you feel necessary to continue to work through your feelings with someone who isn't directly involved with your situation.", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "I think that focusing on different hobbies that you enjoy is an incredible way to take your mind off of everything and to keep yourself busy! What types of hobbies are you into?", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "I completely agree. I used to see a therapist. It was very difficult for me to do in the beginning, but once I got to know them, they provided me with coping strategies that otherwise, I never would have thought of. One of my favorites that he introduced me to was guided meditation. Have you ever heard of it?", "output": "Information" }, { "input": "That sounds awesome! You should look into a relatively new craft called diamond painting. I started doing them back in 2018 and it completely turns my brain off from the outside world.", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "You are very welcome! In my opinion, the best place to get one from to start with is Amazon. That way, you can get them in a few days as opposed to having to wait for weeks or months for them to arrive from other countries.", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "what's bothering you today?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "why do you feel that way? can tell me more?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "ok I understand. would you like to talk why you are feeling like this?", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "just to let you know you are not alone in this. I too was going through a rough time. ", "output": "Information" }, { "input": "talking about it and I'm sorry to hear. expressing your feelings to someone can help relieve so of that emotion. ", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "in the end things will work out. you just have to think positive and live. God had other plans for your twins. god wanted them to be your two angels ", "output": "Reflection of feelings" }, { "input": "have you talk to a professional counselor for advice? ", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "yes it does. Time will heal all. try to keep your self occupied and mind busy with things to enjoy ", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "I understand it's tough loosing someone. I know, I've lost someone too. just be positive", "output": "Self-disclosure" }, { "input": "hopefully I ease your mind a little but remember don't be afraid to see professional help. they can offer good advice and things to keep you motivated ", "output": "Information" }, { "input": "praying is good and keep on believing ", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "anything else? ", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "Hi, can you please explain the difficult time you are having\n", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "I hear you saying that you are having a difficult time as your boyfriend broke up with you and that due to the coronavirus you have been separated. Is that correct?\n", "output": "Restatement or Paraphrasing" }, { "input": "I know you are hurting right and it seems like everything is happening all at the same time with the virus and now this. You will find the strength to get through.\n", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "It sounds like you are really stressed over the breakup and you want to know how to move forward\n", "output": "Reflection of feelings" }, { "input": "I know the feeling, and the virus does not make moving on quickly any easier, but it will happen", "output": "Self-disclosure" }, { "input": "Be sure to talk to your close friends, it gets easier when you do that. ", "output": "Information" }, { "input": "Yes, you can and be sure to take some long walks and if there is a beach close by, walk along the beach and think of what that new guy is going to be like, when you ,meet him\n", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "I see you asked if I had ever gone through a breakup and the answer is Yes, Many of them, Trust me when i say it to will pass\n\n", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "How long were you with your boyfriend?\n", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "Glad I can be pf help\n\n", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "Hello\n", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "How are you doing today?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "Trying to be positive about the dumpster fire of 2020 lol, but positivity is kind of hard to maintain wouldn't you say?", "output": "Restatement or Paraphrasing" }, { "input": "Totally! It's hard to plan for success when life seems a bit uncertain. Is there anything in particular that's bothering you?\n", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "Ah yes, the cog in the machine sort of vibe. Boy do I feel that. Well, the good thing is your not alone. The bad thing is societal pressure demands that we be productive or we think we're wasting time. When's the last time you took a day to enjoy something you like to do?\n", "output": "Reflection of feelings" }, { "input": "What activity or activities are you thinking about? Anything that you enjoy or makes you smile.", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "Ah weddings, did you have fun?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "Nice! Well, two kids is A LOT, especially since they aren't in school yet. You are dealing with the care and growth of the most complex organism on this planet...times two! That's incredible. First of all, give yourself a pat on the back for that. Secondly, is it ok if i ask if you felt guilty for having fun without them? Often times guilt robs us of the ability to take care of ourselves, which happens to me all the time.", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "I think that's a systemic problem. Guilt is this powerful check when we do things that are wrong but self love is not wrong. When you constantly take care of others, you might forget to take care of yourself. We are only able to give the best version of ourselves when we feel validated. Perhaps there is a daycare or at home assistance program that will help give you the time to remember how great you are! Do you have some friends or close relatives that can talk with? ", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "Have you asked them? I don't mean to be rude, but I have trouble asking for help and sometimes asking people for help seems like this huge, monumental task. But people can often surprise you. Of course, If you have, then I'd suggest looking up some motivational apps and trying meditation. While it can be hard with two young kids, meditation, even for only a few minutes, will help you relax through your doubt long enough to handle the challenges of the day. When you say you feel like your failing, do you think it is because you hold yourself a standard that is hard to reach?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "Can you identify why you feel sad?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "It is natural to feel sad when someone you care about dies.", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "Are you with family? Sometimes it helps to be with others who are grieving?", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "Being by yourself is rough after a death. Can you talk with your family by phone? Do you have a friend who has gone through a similar loss?", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "It sounds like you feel people think you are complaining when you talk about your Aunt's death making you sad. Is that correct?\n", "output": "Restatement or Paraphrasing" }, { "input": "Do you feel you are complaining?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "My own experiences with family deaths is they are sad. I just wanted to \"feel better\". My experience was it did not help to complain about \"being sad\" but it did help to talk about why I missed my family member. If no one was available, sometimes I would journal. Do you think that might help you?", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "You are welcome. I am sorry about your Aunt.", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "That is why I am here. Is there anything else you would like to chat about?\n", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "Good bye?", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "Hi, how are you doing?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "How can I help you today?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "How can I help you today?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "Feeling sad is natural, you are going through a lot. I’m glad you reached out so we can work together.", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "Feeling sad is natural, you are going through a lot. I’m glad you reached out so we can work together.", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "I can tell that you understand what you are going through. Keeping busy and planning for the future better times are great ways to help overcome some of your sadness.", "output": "Reflection of feelings" }, { "input": "It’s really tough but I know you can do it. You are really focused on the right things.", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "It’s really tough but I know you can do it. You are really focused on the right things.", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "For sure you are, I can tell how upbeat and positive you are from our conversation.", "output": "Reflection of feelings" }, { "input": "We are all working towards making ourselves better and I know that you will be successful.", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "We are all working towards making ourselves better and I know that you will be successful.", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "We all need help from time to time. I feel privileged to be able to listen to what you are going through and know you will be successful.", "output": "Restatement or Paraphrasing" }, { "input": "We all need help from time to time. I feel privileged to be able to listen to what you are going through and know you will be successful.", "output": "Restatement or Paraphrasing" }, { "input": "We all need help from time to time. I feel privileged to be able to listen to what you are going through and know you will be successful.", "output": "Restatement or Paraphrasing" }, { "input": "You are a strong person and I hope that I have been helpful in listening and providing support. There are many people going through similar situations and you are stronger than all of them.", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "You are a strong person and I hope that I have been helpful in listening and providing support. There are many people going through similar situations and you are stronger than all of them.", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "Trust me, I speak with a lot of people going through tough times. You are wonderful and I hope you have a good evening.", "output": "Reflection of feelings" }, { "input": "Trust me, I speak with a lot of people going through tough times. You are wonderful and I hope you have a good evening.", "output": "Reflection of feelings" }, { "input": "Bye", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "Hello dear how are you today\n", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "well, at the moment a lot of people seem to be stressed out about politics but on the brighter side, everyone is a winner", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "However, talk to me, why are you stressed?\n", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "I say this based on the number of clients that I have had in the past one week. ", "output": "Self-disclosure" }, { "input": "ooh wow, she must have really been pushing your nerves to the core right about the Biden win, right?", "output": "Restatement or Paraphrasing" }, { "input": "well look, One thing I have always learnt about people who push others to the core is that they always have that competitive spirit in them to always want to win while hurting others feelings", "output": "Reflection of feelings" }, { "input": "what do you think of that", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "I get it now. I believe she feels like she has finally gotten what she was yearning for after four years of Trumps administration and now she is elated that her candidate has finally won right? ", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "well, let me ask you something. You've told me that you have been friends with her for a long time meaning that you understand her inside out right?", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "wow that's a long time. How about you letting her know how you really feel about what she is doing to you emotionally. What do you think the outcome might be?", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "I'm glad you feel better. but just a parting shot. Sometimes when one let's their friends know what is really bothering them makes the friends trust them more given that they are open with them and could tell them what they feel deep inside. That's what true friendship is about. It works wonders", "output": "Information" }, { "input": "You are welcome. Bye", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "Hi there, how is your day going?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "Uh oh, you feel you have an anger issue? What's going on?", "output": "Restatement or Paraphrasing" }, { "input": "Is there anyone you can talk to about what you are going through?", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "How do you feel it is affecting your relationships?", "output": "Reflection of feelings" }, { "input": "I understand how it can feel like you have no one to talk to. Are you in school age, maybe a counselor could help?", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "What do you mean?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "I was angry for a period of time after my husband passed away and I get where you are coming from", "output": "Self-disclosure" }, { "input": "I am also a single mom now", "output": "Self-disclosure" }, { "input": "Day by day, focusing on my kids and how I want them to be happy. I also found a great support group in my community. Have you checked in to something like that?", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "I know how hard it can be to live and feel alone. Do you have any pets?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "I think that's a great idea! My dogs have really helped, they provide great comfort.", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "That sounds like a really good start in helping with your loneliness, it's great that you are thinking of ideas that will help move you forward.", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "Thank you, that's nice to hear. Would you be interested in looking at the library for resources on groups or counseling?", "output": "Information" }, { "input": "If you feel less comfortable in person, I bet there are many groups and information online as well.", "output": "Information" }, { "input": "At home. Yesterday was great weather here.", "output": "Self-disclosure" }, { "input": "I have some errands to run, but I hope our chat helped and I hope you start feeling better. I think your idea to get a cat and also to check out some resources is a great start in helping you heal.", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "That stinks. I understand how that can hurt.", "output": "Reflection of feelings" }, { "input": "How long had you been together?\n", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "And how did she break your heart?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "So it sounds like she broke up with you over email rather than face to face or even a call. Not very considerate.", "output": "Restatement or Paraphrasing" }, { "input": "From talking with you I can tell this has been a real blow and need to find a way to move on.", "output": "Reflection of feelings" }, { "input": "I've had that happen before to me a few times. It's just the absolute worst feeling.", "output": "Self-disclosure" }, { "input": "One of your first thoughts might be to get back out there, but really the best thing to do is to start doing things that you like, and that improve you personally.\n", "output": "Information" }, { "input": "Do you enjoy any hobbies, or going to the gym? If so, that might be a great place to start.\n", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "That's perfect, and a great way to get your mind off her while having fun at the same time.\n", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "Glad to hear it. Also, once you feel you're ready, there are plenty of ways to meet new girls. There's the obvious places like online dating or bars, but also some not so obvious like the farmers market or shopping\n", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "I hope it works out for you in the end. I'm sure it will!", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "I can tell by our chat that you're feeling better already!", "output": "Reflection of feelings" }, { "input": "Yep, still here. Are you still seeing my messages?", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "How are you doing today? \n", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "What's the occurrence exactly that you are referring to? ", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "Oh wow! I'm so sorry! I can't imagine how you are feeling! Have you found anything to do to keep you busy? Or maybe some good distractions? \n", "output": "Restatement or Paraphrasing" }, { "input": "Do you think you guys could reconcile your relationship? Is there any hope? Is she willing to work with you and work through her mistakes? ", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "It takes time. Sometimes, the best relationships occur when people work through the most difficult occurrences in their relationship. Have you tried talking to her? I would recommend talking to her when your emotions have settled. \n", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "I would make a pros and cons list. If there are a lot of pros, I think it's worth a shot! Just give yourself time to process everything that has happened. You don't want to sit down and talk to her and let all your emotions come out. That could cause more harm. Just make a list and you'll have a better understanding of which direction you should go with your relationship! \n", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "Yes. Give it time. Wait to hear her story. Make your pros and cons list. And see where to go from there. Be easy on yourself. It's okay to have hard days. Just give yourself time to heal from the hurt! \n\n", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "I am sure it has! Try to spend time with friends and family that can be there for you during this time. You need to lean on people when things get hard like this! \n\n", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "That's awful! You need better friends than that!! What about your family? \n", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "That's a great idea! Family can be super helpful for you during this time!! Let me know if I can be a supporter for you in any other way! \n", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "No problem at all! Sending positive vibes your way!! You can get through this!! ", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "No problem! Hope things get better for you! \n", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "hi what's bothering you today?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "everyone can be upset \ncan you tell me more? ", "output": "Restatement or Paraphrasing" }, { "input": "I understand loosing a job can be tough. but it's not the end of the road. you can take it as door closing and opening a new one\n", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "have you tried looking to build your resume. i.e trying new jobs to get your dream job?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "I'm sorry to hear that you also broke up with your g.f.. but I'm here to help you get through it ", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "yes, it's better to star small and built your experience. the more experience you'll have the better chances you'll land your dream job ", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "compare what your dream job what's and try to get similar experience. if they want customer service then maybe land a job similar in that field. ", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "well to start. apply. prepare for your interview. make a good resume and cover letter. the goal is to get experience any where you can go from their ", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "yes it's tough\n maybe try going to school.", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "govt have loans to help you go back to school ", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "yes you can. anyways hope I help you today ", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "are you there??", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "Hello how are you", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "Great how is everything going for you", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "Why do you feel isolated? ", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "I completely understand. I don't worked at a school and the teachers did not receive much support. Is that what is making you stuggle at work?", "output": "Restatement or Paraphrasing" }, { "input": "Is it the lack of support at the school that is causing you to struggle?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "Sorry I asked about the isolation and you mentioned the reason was the work. So im just trying to confirm your lack of support at school is the reason for your struggle. Does the feeling of isolation stem from that?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "Understandable.Do they have any kind of help groups at your school? ", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "Is there something you have in mind that might help your situation and theyre not listening? ", "output": "Information" }, { "input": "Agreed with 20 some students after repeatedly trying with a student you cannot keep stopping the lecture to discipline. Of course there should be some help in place.", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "Ive seen this first hand and teachers really have their hands full. I know most parents are busy, but have you tried to connect with the parents maybe they can step in and talk to their children.", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "There are also several community groups with different kids of occupations. Ive seen multiple ones for teachers helping each other by sharing their own methods. That might help with some ideas. ", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "No problem. I hope you find some better ideas. You are not alone and remember you have one of the hardest jobs out there!", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "Same to you!", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "Hello how are you doing?\n", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "I am sure you are trying the hardest you can\n", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "Have you tried looking for guidance from your peers?", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "I understand how you are feeling. It is nice to have somebody to lean on during difficult times.", "output": "Reflection of feelings" }, { "input": "I believe in you and i think you will do great!", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "What is your exam on?", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "You should find a nice quiet spot to study. Maybe find something to feel you calm which will help you stay focused.", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "Also make sure you are comfortable and have good lighting. That should help to.", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "Do you have any music you like listen to? I always find music to be calming.", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "I hope i was able to help you and wish you best of luck.", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "Hello\n", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "Im am fine, How's things today?\n", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "I understand that many people now in these days are in a position where he or she needs to be at a location and that is stressfull", "output": "Reflection of feelings" }, { "input": "Being a father of two girls makes my skin cringe. Young people can be very challenging. Tell me more about this?\n ", "output": "Information" }, { "input": "I remember a time where learning crisis management that taking a deep breath and meditating in the positive work that you are doing can open up your mind to suggestions from your inner self. Have you ever thought that you superb skills can transmit in your home as well?", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "So now that you understand that you have a awesome skill and that is being positive, build on this. What building blocks can you write down that has helped you pushed through the fire and keep it some where close to you to always give you piece of mind and reinforce your habits of pushing through the fire. ", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "I totally understand that you are not for writing things down to keep. Yet, you have gone through a alot of events in your life where other would have given up. The key is transmitting your successes regardless of the situations. COVID is not going anywhere and as a person who has beaten stage 4 cancer, it is scary to be living in these times. You are doing monumental things, never forget that because your feelings and stamina for living will bind everything together. Politics, is the dirtiest and no government can solve and will solve the problems in the world. ", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "You too as well\n", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "anytime ", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "Hi there, how are we doing today?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "I am sorry to hear that youre feeling depressed, do you want to say whats going on?", "output": "Restatement or Paraphrasing" }, { "input": "Sorry to hear, if you dont mind me asking, Why did the break up happen?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "I have been there myself with a cheating spouse, I know it is rough, especially so close to when it happened. I can assure you it does get better though.", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "I think the best thing you can do right now is distance yourself from her.", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "It sounds like she is acting toxic and you do not need that right now. I am happy to help and talk with you, but might i suggest going to a local therapist or counselor?", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "It will take time, the best way to let it not control you is by talking about it. You gain control over it that way.", "output": "Information" }, { "input": "Being betrayed by someone you love is one of the biggest heart breaks there is. You have to focus on yourself and healing that wound. ", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "It will not be a quick process that i can heal right now. The best way to get out of it is to see a professional. There are many out there that work on a sliding scale or even free. They will help guide you back to yourself.", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "Yes do you have any specific goals right now? or even hobbies you are working on?", "output": "Information" }, { "input": "I know its tough out there for that as well. I had gotten furloughed but i didnt let pride get in the way and took what i could find for now.", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "Have you worked on your resume or updated it?", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "I worked in restaurants all my life. Its tough but rewarding. Have you looked into moving up from a supervisor? Maybe talk with your boss?", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "Hello are you there?", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "Well you have the real world experience which is good. Have you thought about doing some classes at a local community college to help with that?", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "That is great news! See we already got your mind off your girlfriend. You'll be back on your feet stronger than ever soon.", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "you are very welcome. Is there anything else on your mind?", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "Well, that is good, Just start focusing on yourself, my friend.", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "Great, feel free to end the chat so you can get started on bettering yourself!", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "You are welcome", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "Are you having trouble with ending the chat?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "Hello, how are you doing today?\n", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "Great, thank you. What can I help you with today?", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "Have you tried talking to him about his drinking? Is he otherwise a pretty good friend when he's sober?", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "I'm a early 30s woman from Michigan, and I actually used to have a problem with my drinking as well. People kind of pushed the problem aside though because drinking is so socially acceptable.\n", "output": "Self-disclosure" }, { "input": "But maybe if you talk to him right after it's happened and offer to be a sober friend with him, it could help. ", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "Yeah, I get that, that's why it was so hard for me to quit. I hit it pretty hard for 13 years before I finally got sober! It's a tough thing to do when everyone else is drinking. It's just getting to that realization that you don't have the same relationship as alcohol as everyone else. Hopefully if you have a chat with him he can get to that point.", "output": "Self-disclosure" }, { "input": "I'm just staying at home with my kid and homeschooling her right now since the schools are closed. \n", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "Ours as well, I just decided to do homeschooling at the beginning of the year so that I wouldn't have to deal with all the back and forth of the districts. I'm hoping they can somehow get a handle on things sooner rather than later because everything is just getting so bad again. ", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "Thanks, for you as well. Hope I could help a bit. ", "output": "Information" }, { "input": "I think we are, I think this would be my 10th. ", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "Thanks you too\n", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "Hello. How are you doing today?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "Would you like to talk about it?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "I would love to listen. Where would you like to start?", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "I'm so sorry to hear that. Breakups are never an easy thing. I've also gone through those and they can make you feel awful.", "output": "Self-disclosure" }, { "input": "That's an excellent place to start. It's hard but I believe that you can do it.", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "Do you have any family or friends that you've been speaking to about this?", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "Do you have any hobbies? I found that refocusing my energy into something I love doing really helped to bring my mood up.", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "Yoga is an amazing stress reliever. I practice myself! I like your game plan and I think you'll start feeling the results sooner than you think.", "output": "Reflection of feelings" }, { "input": "I completely understand. You'll know when you're ready again and it's great to take things at your own pace. All that matters is to do things when you're ready to.", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "Honestly, that will end up being up to you. With my last big breakup, I didn't date for almost a year until I met someone. I would suggest at least a month or so to take some time for yourself and focus on yourself and what makes you happy so when you are ready to date again, you have a stronger sense of self.", "output": "Self-disclosure" }, { "input": "Agreed. Taking the breather definitely helps.", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "I'm glad. I really wish you the best and I know that you're going to come through this stronger.", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "Hello. I totally understand being stressed out by school. I am currently in a Ph.D. program and it can be overwhelming. Do you have any hobbies to help with your stress?", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "It sounds like you do a lot of activities that are solitary. Have you considered maybe partaking in a similar activity, like a book club, where there is more interaction with people?", "output": "Reflection of feelings" }, { "input": "Being busy, especially with having a small child can make you feel lonely, enhancing the stress you feel from school. Participating in social events geared toward your interest might be able to connect you to people with similar feelings!", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "I'm sure that you are trying your best to be both a good student and a great parent. It is understandable that you may not have considered those options.", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "It is so admirable that you are acting so selfless.", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "Are you aware of any activities that you can participate in that can include your family? It could be the best of both worlds.", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "That is great! Physical activity has been shown to reduce stress levels.", "output": "Information" }, { "input": "My sister-in-law really benefits from having her sons in sports. She is able to connect with the other team moms and considers them some of her best friends. Depending on your YMCA your son may be able to participate in some of their programs?", "output": "Self-disclosure" }, { "input": "Soccer would be a perfect way for both you and your son to interact with other people of similar interests.", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "I am glad to help, Hopefully, considering these options will not only reduce your stress from being busy with being a parent and with school, but it will also bring you closer to your child.", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "Sometimes stress is inevitable. You just have to know how to channel it. Some use physical activity, others use journaling. These seem to be outlets you can consider?", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "Physical activity seems to be the option you are most interested in.", "output": "Reflection of feelings" }, { "input": "Have you considered setting daily exercise goals?", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "Having goals for a given day can help motivate you to do the exercises and keep your head cleared from stress.", "output": "Information" }, { "input": "Your welcome.", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "Hello\n", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "How has the pandemic affected your mental health?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "I understand how hard living through this pandemic is. It is such crazy time! I also have felt fear and stress from the second wave of the pandemic. ", "output": "Self-disclosure" }, { "input": "It is natural to feel stressed when there is a global pandemic. ", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "I am sure with the correct coping strategies you can handle this pandemic!", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "I have been doing grocery pick-up because of the pandemic, so I sympathize with you. ", "output": "Self-disclosure" }, { "input": "Wearing a mask and using hand sanitizer can keep you safe and healthy while grocery shopping. ", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "Practicing mindfulness and going on a short walk in nature can help with your stress. ", "output": "Information" }, { "input": "At some grocery stores, they have made pick-up free due to the pandemic. You should look into that if you are interested in it. ", "output": "Information" }, { "input": "I also have stopped going out since the pandemic started. ", "output": "Self-disclosure" }, { "input": "Just from chatting with you, you seem to be very open to suggestions and are devoted to making it through these crazy times. ", "output": "Reflection of feelings" }, { "input": "Has your work life been affected by the pandemic?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "Yes, I also only go out for groceries and work. I only work with a few people, so that helps. ", "output": "Self-disclosure" }, { "input": "That is good that you can continue to do your work the same. ", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "Is there anything else I should know about how the pandemic is affecting you?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "Are you a student?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "I am also a student and am not motivated to do school work at home, so I completely understand. I am sure you are successful at school! ", "output": "Self-disclosure" }, { "input": "Having a planner may keep you organized and on-task. ", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "Dedicating a certain time frame and area for school work might help, as well. \n", "output": "Information" }, { "input": "Dedicating a certain time frame and area for school work might help, as well. \n", "output": "Information" }, { "input": "Is there anything else I can help you with?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "Thank you, you too!", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "Great ideas! \nIs there anything else I can help you with? ", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "I would reccomend setting deadlines in your planner of when tasks need to be completed and also setting timers for 20 minutes at a time where you have to focus for that long before you can do any other task.", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "Yes!", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "Yes, excellent!", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "You are so welcome. Have a great day!", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "Thank you! Talk to you later. ", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "How are you feeling?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "Why do you feel depressed?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "Breakups can be really tough. How long were you with your partner?", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "I once had a relationship end after 5 years with a partner. Staying active really helped me get over the relationship. Through that activity I actually met my new partner!", "output": "Self-disclosure" }, { "input": "Have you thought about doing something fun, like taking a trip somewhere?", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "It's really difficult, but I know you can get through this! What do you like to do for fun?", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "Have you thought about fun activities you did without your partner?\n", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "What about before you met her?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "What did you do for fun before you met her?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "I loved doing that too! Have you thought about going out and doing that with your friends now?\n", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "Good! From talking to you I can tell that you have a lot of goodness in you!", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "You are so welcome. I am so happy you are feeling better!", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "I hope you have a great day.", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "Is there anything else you would like to talk about?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "Hello!", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "Is there anything you'd like to talk about today?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "Im sorry to hear that. What do you think may have led up to these feelings of being depressed?? ", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "Oh dear, yes that can be incredibly hard to deal with. Relationships are so full of emotion that when they end it can feel like chaos or despair.", "output": "Reflection of feelings" }, { "input": "Ive been through a few bad breakups myself in the past so i know how you must be feeling right now.", "output": "Self-disclosure" }, { "input": "Well to be honest in some ways your life has been rearranged, but thats okay. Its not EASY, but it is okay, or rather will be okay. experiencing life is just a big bunch of rearrangements that we learn to adapt to and grow from and even out of. Its what gives us depth and character as human beings.", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "HA, well at first i cried and was mad and just moped and hated everything, but eventually i got tired of no getting anything out of my days. I slowly realised that i had put myself in slow motion and then slowly started to do things i used to do to maybe come out of it.", "output": "Self-disclosure" }, { "input": "Well i had a close friend that i was able to vent to and help me see what was important. Do you have anyone close in your life you could talk to for guidance?", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "I see what you mean about pathetic lol. But rather than see yourself as pathetic in a negative, use that defiance to push yourself back out into the world.", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "Start slowly with opening up, maybe even tell your friend you intent and ask them to be patient as you learn to better express your inner feelings", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "I think youre already on the right track. I just know you can get back to you!", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "There are resources online that perhaps you could look into to help with expressing yourself.", "output": "Information" }, { "input": "Yes just a moment", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "I was going to send you a few links but it wont let me", "output": "Information" }, { "input": "instead try googling the phrase \" how to open up to others\" and there should be a few sites with tips and references", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "healthyplace.com has a good article\n", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "Im hope that i have been able to help at least a little bit", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "Excellent! im so happy to hear that, Maybe next time youll be the one to inspire someone! Have a great rest of your day!", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "Hello there, how are we doing today?\n", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "Im sorry to hear that your parents are putting to much pressure on you, do you want to go into further detail?", "output": "Restatement or Paraphrasing" }, { "input": "I am sure they just want what is best, but i have been there as a teen as well. What matters the most is how you feel. Have you talked to them?", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "Have you tried talking to a school counselor?", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "It is a good first step. Also depending how old you are some therapists work on a sliding scale or wave fees if you cant afford it.", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "The counselor may be able to act as a mediator between you and your parents.", "output": "Information" }, { "input": "I wouldnt hold off to long as these types of problems tend to brew and just get stronger. I know you will feel better once you let it out there. I hope it is even helping now.", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "I am very happy for you", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "Is there anything else on your mind that i can help you with?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "Great, make sure you do it, it might be rough at first but stick with it and im sure youll do great.", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "Yes sorry, the communication program was lagging a bit. ", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "You are very welcome!", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "I am sorry to hear that. Do you want to tell me more about what is going on?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "What happened?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "I am so sorry about that. I would be sad and mad too", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "I can understand how upset that must be", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "That's an answer we might never know. ", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "What's something that would make you feel better?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "That has to be frustrating.", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "It sounds like you are angry. How long ago did all of this happen?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "It sounds like he meant a lot to you!", "output": "Reflection of feelings" }, { "input": "Do you want to talk to him again?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "What if you wrote him an email? Would that help?", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "I am so sorry. What would help you right now in this moment?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "I know when I cry it sometimes helps me", "output": "Self-disclosure" }, { "input": "It takes time. You're grieving. It's hard. What about disconnecting from what he does?", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "It sounds like every time you find out something he is doing, it's hurting you even more.", "output": "Reflection of feelings" }, { "input": "I am proud of you for keeping going and moving forward. Day by day you'll get there!", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "That happens but more importantly you pick yourself back up! You'll find someone eventually!", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "That's great to hear! I am so glad you are feeling better!", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "Best of luck to you and hang in there!", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "What are you having a problem with?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "I understand how you are feeling. My mom had cancer.", "output": "Reflection of feelings" }, { "input": "It really helped me to join a support group.", "output": "Self-disclosure" }, { "input": "Crying is natural. You have every right to have those feelings. Don't try and stop yourself from crying.", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "There are online support groups you could get involved with.", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "You can google - online cancer support groups.", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "My mother had rectal cancer. She went through a surgery and chemo and radiation and then she went into remission.", "output": "Self-disclosure" }, { "input": "If you are having problems with money you might be able to qualify for food assistance through the SNAP program.", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "Hang in there, I know it is rough but there is hope.", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "Hang in there, I know it is rough but there is hope.", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "Remember, as much as you need to be strong for him - you need to take care of yourself extra special during this time.", "output": "Reflection of feelings" }, { "input": "Remember, as much as you need to be strong for him - you need to take care of yourself extra special during this time.", "output": "Reflection of feelings" }, { "input": "That's a great idea! You deserve it!", "output": "Reflection of feelings" }, { "input": "You are very welcome. I understand how you are feeling. I will pray for you.", "output": "Self-disclosure" }, { "input": "Alright, hang in there. You will get through this. Best wishes to you!", "output": "Reflection of feelings" }, { "input": "Bye", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "Right now?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "I don't know if we are supposed to give out private information.", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "Hi there, how are you doing today?\n", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "Im great, whats on your mind?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "I actually have", "output": "Self-disclosure" }, { "input": "Yes, my girlfriend of 10 years, 2 years after our first kid was born.", "output": "Self-disclosure" }, { "input": "I know it seems rough right now, but it can be for the better.", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "She was 2 at the time, so she really didnt know what was going on, Yes i do too. It is really a weight off you", "output": "Self-disclosure" }, { "input": "She lives with me, Im glad that you get to see your kid. I know sometimes that can go south quick.", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "I am also glad that you are doing better now. ", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "Exciting and scary times. How do you feel about that?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "Well, you did say it made you stronger. It takes courage to move past it.", "output": "Reflection of feelings" }, { "input": "Well, no harm in taking this time to focus on yourself and your kid. As long as you feel happy", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "Thanks, take care!", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "Thank you for the insight. If you ever feel down again thats good advice for yourself as well!", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "Hello, how are you today?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "I'm doing well. What is going on?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "I'm sorry to hear that. I'm here to listen if I can help. ", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "That is a very difficult situation. What has been stressing you out the most about losing your job?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "The uncertainty can cause a lot of anxiety. How have you been managing your anxiety?", "output": "Reflection of feelings" }, { "input": "Those all sound like great strategies! Have you considered talking to your local job recruiter to assist you in your job search?\n", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "Do you have a sense of what direction you are wanting to take your career?\n", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "I think it sounds like a great time to take a risk and try starting your own business. Maybe you can get a part-time job until you get your business off the ground. That way, you know you will have some income coming in. ", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "Hello, how are you feeling?\n", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "You're feeling nervous because you have a lot to do this month academics-wise and you're worried you won't be able to succeed. Am I correct?\n", "output": "Restatement or Paraphrasing" }, { "input": "I know exactly how you're feeling. I felt the same way until I made myself follow a strict studying regimen which helped a lot.\n", "output": "Self-disclosure" }, { "input": "I think it's great you're taking steps to try to help yourself. With a little more focus, I think you'll be able to succeed!\n", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "Yes, apparently caffeine helps increase focus, as long as you don't overdo it. \n", "output": "Information" }, { "input": "Yes, I can feel your disappointment in yourself just by speaking with you.\n", "output": "Reflection of feelings" }, { "input": "Yes, I can feel your disappointment in yourself just by speaking with you.\n", "output": "Reflection of feelings" }, { "input": "of course! I find doing an hour of work at a time without looking at my phone is very valuable. \n", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "You can set a timer on your computer and put your phone in another room or on the other side of the room to minimize temptation.\n", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "Yes, I struggl\ned with focus but once I put my phone away, my focus increased a lot.", "output": "Self-disclosure" }, { "input": "Of course! Is anything else on your mind?\n", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "yes, that sounds like a great idea. It sounds like you're really trying to help yourself grow.\n", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "yes, it's true people begin to struggle with focus as they reach young adulthood.\n", "output": "Information" }, { "input": "I understand how you're feeling, COVID has affected me negatively as well but I'm just trying to look at the bright side.\n", "output": "Self-disclosure" }, { "input": "Yes, I would suggest taking up yoga or meditation to lessen the stress COVID has on your brain.\n", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "Yes, I'd recommend wearing a mask whenever you go out to lessen the chance of you contracting anything. At the moment, it's all we could do.\n", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "that's great!\n", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "that's amazing, I'm glad I could help put your mind at ease.", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "Of course, sometimes we all just need to talk to someone.", "output": "Reflection of feelings" }, { "input": "of corurse!", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "Alright, please reach out if you need to talk again! Thank you so much!", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "Hello", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "How are you today?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "I see you're feeling down today. What has you feeling that way?", "output": "Restatement or Paraphrasing" }, { "input": "I am so sorry to hear that. I've had someone close to be pass away recently and it can feel unbearable. ", "output": "Self-disclosure" }, { "input": "What ways are you trying to cope with losing your friend?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "What kind of thoughts are you having?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "You feel like he's still with you. There are experts that suggest the spirit lives on after death. ", "output": "Information" }, { "input": "It sounds like you're afraid of the unknown. That can be be terrifying.", "output": "Restatement or Paraphrasing" }, { "input": "Do you think he talks with you while you're sleeping?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "Is there anyway possible, maybe you're dreaming? ", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "Do you feel like you're being haunted? Do you think you're friend wants to harm you?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "I see. It may be difficult, but have you tried to put you're fear aside and listen to what he needs to tell you? ", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "I see you're deeply bothered by your friends death. I know it would be hard, but possibly try to remember your friend wouldn't hurt you and find what your friend wants to convey to you.", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "If you're able to receive the message I hope you feel a little more peaceful.", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "Hi how are you today?", "output": "Restatement or Paraphrasing" }, { "input": "Oh no! I'm sorry to hear that. What's going on?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "There's a lot of that going on these days, it can be rough. I know how you feel. Do you have any plans you want to put into play to solve the problem?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "It seems like you've got some good plans in the making. So you're trying to save and reduce your debts as much as possible right?", "output": "Restatement or Paraphrasing" }, { "input": "That's great to hear. Do you have anyone close to you that can help you out in a bind?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "That's excellent! It's always great to have someone you can depend on. I feel like that gave you some relief.", "output": "Reflection of feelings" }, { "input": "Oh I'm so sorry to hear that. I bet that makes things tougher. I have no doubt you'll overcome these hurdles in due time. Nothing lasts forever, that includes bad times. ", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "Are you working right now? And if so is the job secure and pay pretty well?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "Oh that's good! I'm in the same situation. My job pays pretty well and my boyfriend helps. We're both working from home right now with everything going on. ", "output": "Self-disclosure" }, { "input": "Well I have no doubt everything will work out great for you, just keep your head up. It's been so nice talking to you, I hope I've been of some help.", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "Hello. I am doing well. How are you feeling today?\n", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "It sounds like you are very stressed out by the situation. \n", "output": "Reflection of feelings" }, { "input": "Have you explained to her that her excessive drinking is causing problems?\n", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "Why is she turning everything around on you?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "That sounds horrible especially that she is dragging your daughter into it.\n", "output": "Reflection of feelings" }, { "input": "Could you suggest she talks about her issues with a specialist?\n", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "That is good that you have suggested it to her already. Hopefully she will eventually realise.", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "Correct me if I am wrong, but were\n you meant to go on a trip somewhere with her?", "output": "Restatement or Paraphrasing" }, { "input": "How did you feel about going on the trip on your own?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "Thank you for sharing your feelings with me today.", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "Hello, How can I help you today?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "I'm sorry to hear that you have a sad situation happening with your dad.\n", "output": "Restatement or Paraphrasing" }, { "input": "That sounds like quite a challenge for you. You seem to care so much.", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "That must be hard to hear when you are trying so hard to do what's right.", "output": "Reflection of feelings" }, { "input": "I also am struggling to convince my father to stay away from crowds because of COVID.", "output": "Self-disclosure" }, { "input": "I'm sorry you have to go through this. ", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "Perhaps you can take some time for yourself with a friend?", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "As my father is getting older, he is often frustrated.\n", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "It's harder to move, you have more aches and pains and this virus is scary.", "output": "Reflection of feelings" }, { "input": "Perhaps you could suggest him taking some deep breaths to calm down.", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "I understand as my father is the same way. I often have to just hear him out and take time away in another room.", "output": "Self-disclosure" }, { "input": "Do you have any other family support who understands your position?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "Perhaps there is some support in your community? I have a child with autism and my father doesn't understand the behaviors and is critical of my parenting too. I often seek support from an autism group with parents in my position. Perhaps there is a group of single parents you could gain support from?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "It sounds like you are really trying hard to do the best you can. ", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "That must be frustrating that you try to have him seek therapy, but he doesn't want to follow your suggestions.", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "Do you think communicating in a different way like writing may help? Have you tried different ways to communicate?", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "Do you think maybe some way of showing you care like making dinner or something encouraging him in a way he likes could help?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "You are welcome. I wish you well. Have a good night.", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "Hello! How are you feeling today?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "You are a very good parent to care and worry. I get it, I am a mom myself! Is your child doing digital learning or in person?", "output": "Self-disclosure" }, { "input": "I can see how that is challenging", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "Is it the same teacher for both? ", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "That has to be really frusterating not having just one teacher you can go to in order to see if there is anyway to help your child not struggle", "output": "Reflection of feelings" }, { "input": "Perhaps you can find out which classes your child struggles with and contact the teacher(s) or school to set up a conference? I know some schools even have peer tutors they say help pair students with! ", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "My children are five and eight. My eight year old spent about ten hours doing digital learning the other day when in-perosn was closed. I was so frusterated. I let her pick a movie and snack when she was done to reward her for finishing. ", "output": "Self-disclosure" }, { "input": "Have you looked into any edulational or learning games?", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "There is nothing wrong with rewarding your child for doing good in school or getting thier work done! :) ", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "I have done that with my kids. Technology is such a huge part of children's lives these days, they will play a videogame in a heart beat. I don't think they even realize they are learning sometimes!", "output": "Information" }, { "input": "check out the website adventure academy. They have things for all ages/grades! ", "output": "Information" }, { "input": "I'm glad I could help! You too! ", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "okay, what is it? ", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "I think it is natural for a a parent to feel guilty when they are having thier child do something the child doesn't want to do. i think the benefits outweigh the negatives though. i think finding a way to make studying fun could be a win-win. you are a good parent for wanting the best for your child!", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "I think there should be more parents out there that care about their children and their children's future like you do. keep up the good work! ", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "Good afternoon, how are you doing today?\n", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "I am well thank you, how can I help you this afternoon?", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "Oh no, I am so sorry you are feeling like this. What is bothering you?", "output": "Reflection of feelings" }, { "input": "Yes, it is very hard during this time and your feelings are valid. What are some ways that you have searched?", "output": "Restatement or Paraphrasing" }, { "input": "I understand. That will happen and it isnt anything personal. You have to stay positive. Do you have an updated resume?\n", "output": "Reflection of feelings" }, { "input": "That is a blessing in itself, having a daughter and being a mom. I know you are a great mom! Have you tried some online courses that may give you a little more experience? ", "output": "Information" }, { "input": "I totally understand that. There are some free courses online that can be used or perhaps going in person (staying as safe as possible) into your local food store, clothing or pet store and having a chat with the manager", "output": "Information" }, { "input": "The masks make a lot of people claustrophobic so i know how you feel but the good thing is that you're wearing it and staying safe for you and your daughter. I feel like working from home is everyone's ideal dream job and those are out there as well, they may just take a little longer to find.", "output": "Reflection of feelings" }, { "input": "Have you tried yoga exercises or meditation? That sometimes helps to clear and refresh the mind", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "Thats ok as long as you try doing it, eventually you'll be perfect at it. Is that what you do when you're feeling down and out?", "output": "Self-disclosure" }, { "input": "I am so happy to hear that. You are wonderful and you have a little person that needs you. Things are going to get better, just make sure you remember to stay positive", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "Thank you very much. You as well. Smile and have a wonderful day!", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "Hello, how can I help you today?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "I have been in that same situation before! I had the exact feelings you are! But after realizing how much I studied it helped me relax.", "output": "Self-disclosure" }, { "input": "Have you talked to your teachers about your worrying?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "From what I have seen, people who have noticed they are having issues tend to come out ahead! Its great that you are thinking about how to get through this.", "output": "Information" }, { "input": "I also get into slumps with being productive and motivation, I was told when that happens that I just need to take a step back and relax for a little bit.", "output": "Self-disclosure" }, { "input": "That's really great! I bet you are closer than you think to finishing those deadlines.", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "When you are usually in a last minute crunch, what do you do to get past it?\n", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "I know some people look for tutors, or others taking the same classes for inputs on work that has to be turned in.", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "Is there an easy way for you to put the other preoccupations to the side so they are not so distracting?", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "Thats good! I bet that would help out a lot, that tends to be the case for me!", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "Thats good, research has shown that moving our distractions to the side allows us to focus more on the task at hand!", "output": "Information" }, { "input": "I am glad to hear that! I bet you can get those deadlines finished no problem.", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "I am glad I was able to help, You got this, I bet you don't have this issue again.", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "Well thank you! Let me know if you need help with anything else!", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "You as well!", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "Hello there how can I help?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "So you feel anxiety about this whole COVID-19 epidemic?", "output": "Restatement or Paraphrasing" }, { "input": "Oh well I understand your concern then. As a son or daughter it is certainly reasonable to be concerned about your parents especially as they grow older. I have a similar situation with my own mother.", "output": "Self-disclosure" }, { "input": "Well first of all, you have to take care of yourself because if you don't you can't help them. So just take a moment to close your eyes and take some deep breaths and realize you stressing is probably going to make them stress.", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "Well if you can get some concrete info such as from the CDC and John Hopkins showing case counts in your area. Show them graphs so they can visually see the impact. Also if you can get a hold of their doctor yourself, see if you can convince them to give your parents a call, say to check on them and give them some advice.", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "Don't get absorbed in the numbers, it can drive you crazy. Also if you are using social media like twitter and getting inundated with info, remember a lot of it is fake. I would suggest limiting exposure for a little while just to get you fixed a little bit, if that makes sense. ", "output": "Information" }, { "input": "Not particularly social media because it open to everyone, just pick and choose where you choose to get info from. The CDC is a great resource as well as the John Hopkins site which has been tracking since the beginning. Everybody has a couple of news outlets they trust, use those.", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "First of all you are not alone. but don't let them see you anxious for sure. You can also show them if they can how to do video visits. You can do that all the time, even phone calls every day. It means a lot.", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "Nothing will make grandparents smile more than seeing their grandkids on a video call. If you don't want to bring them when you physically visit have them record themselves on your phone as an example.", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "Of course. I don't know if they dressed up for Halloween, but see if they want to dress up and take some pictures for grandma. Pictures and voice and video are wonderful in these times.", "output": "Information" }, { "input": "You too, I hope I helped. Take care!", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "hello. how have you been feeling lately?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "how long has this been going on?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "that's very good that you are going to talk to a therapist. you showed great strength by reaching out.", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "have you been sleeping mostly during the day, or at night?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "it sounds like you are doing the very best you can under difficult circumstances. you should feel very proud about that.", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "it sounds to me that your sleep issue is really weighing on your mind. you may be setting yourself up for sleep issues by thinking about this so much. is that possible?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "you're under a lot of pressure. it's only natural that you would feel overwhelmed. dont be hard on yourself. you're doing the best you can.", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "perhaps you can spend some time doing pleasant things. it is true that time seems to go fast when we're having fun.", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "fantastic! that's a great way to spend your time.", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "i'm wondering: are you a reader? do you enjoy reading? i'm asking because i find when i read a good book, time seems to move very quickly.", "output": "Self-disclosure" }, { "input": "perhaps you can make a goal of reading a few pages and then see if you can build on that. then,if you want, you can make a goal of reading a chapter.", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "personally i love reading; especially non fiction. what type of books do you enjoy?", "output": "Self-disclosure" }, { "input": "i enjoy historical non fiction very much. do you have any favorite authors?", "output": "Self-disclosure" }, { "input": "has she written anything you haven't read yet that you think you would enjoy?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "do you live near a library?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": " there may be some libraries in your area that are open, or have reduced hours.", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "wonderful! do you live near a book store?", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "you can call the store and see if they have anything written by your favorite author.", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "getting back to the sleep issue, have you considered thinking some pleasant thoughts before going to bed? ", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "i can understand that. the stress is interfering with your thoughts but you are still doing a good job. you are doing the best you can do; that's the best anyone can do.", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "i'd like to offer a suggestion. please try, as best as you can, NOT to think about the sleep issue. millions of people have sleep issues. you are not alone. try thinking about other things, and if your mind comes back to the sleep problem, try thinking about something else.", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "and make sure you are not hard on yourself. you're getting by. you're hanging in there. you are doing well under the circumstances.", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "Hello there. How are you doing today?\n", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "I am well thanks, what can I help you with today?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "I am so sorry to hear that. I understand, things can be tough sometimes. ", "output": "Reflection of feelings" }, { "input": "Have you reached out to people who may be feeling the same? I know that has helped me when I have felt down. It is not easy, I know, but sometimes taking a small step can make all the difference", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "I understand. Do you want to tell me more about what has been on your mind?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "I really do understand. It is very strong and brave of you to speak up. I have suffered depression myself in the past and one thing that truly helped was going to see my doctor and talking it though with him. He suggested medication and after some trial and error I found one that worked. You must be so strong to have dealt with the way you are feeling for so long. Please know there is help out there. I know from experience. You are a person of worth.", "output": "Self-disclosure" }, { "input": "That is very kind of you to say.", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "Hello I am here to help you, what's your problem?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "First of all, you can bring some snacks and water. having an empty stomach will distract you from the exam", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "I have been in that situation many times. From my own experience, yes you should review as much as you can. However, relax the last 2-3 days to not overwhelm yourself. You should also do image training, imagine yourself in the test room, plan ahead what you will do like write your name, open the exam booklet...", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "It takes alot to grow into that kind of person, I'm not there yet. I find it vital to understand this, you cannot control everything. As long as you try your best, whatever the outcomes are, they all serve a purpose. When one door closes, the others will open", "output": "Self-disclosure" }, { "input": "You are right, I also want to be in control of my life. However, as I grow older, I realize that is impossible. Whenever you feel stressed over life issues, I would recommend taking a walk in the park or anywhere with a lot of trees to clear you mind", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "sounds like a great plan, i believe you will do well", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "Is there anything I can help you with?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "Buy some alcohol wipe, you can find it at the grocery store, make sure to come in early enough to do that", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "I believe they sell individual packs of 10 wipes too.Good lick with your exam!~", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "I would love to do that, I like talking with people and listen to their stories", "output": "Self-disclosure" }, { "input": "Hello, how are you doing?\n", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "I am okay. Windy day here", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "Please tell me about it", "output": "Information" }, { "input": "I had that tendency too, work was very important to me, sometimes to the detriment of my relationships. Tell me more about the lack of closeness. What's different?\n", "output": "Restatement or Paraphrasing" }, { "input": "Is there any way to speak to them directly about how you feel about that time... tell them what your feeling. People who care for you can be very understanding", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "You don't have to make a big deal about it but I have found that a low key discussion can change things for the better", "output": "Information" }, { "input": "Plus at least you will have stated how you feel and no matter the outcome you can feel like it's been addressed", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "I have found that if something has been bothering me, just dealing with it somehow will make me feel better and enable me to get on with the good aspects of my life", "output": "Self-disclosure" }, { "input": "Good luck. A friend of mine used to say \"action alleviates anxiety\" and Ive found that helpful", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "You're welcome", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "Hello, How are you feeling today?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "I see you are feeling sad and lonely, is there anything going on right now to enhance those feelings?\n", "output": "Restatement or Paraphrasing" }, { "input": "There is a lot going on right now, but i see you said its making it worse. What may be the root cause?\n", "output": "Reflection of feelings" }, { "input": "I understand having it seem like there is no one to talk to. I am here and there are others. I believe you can find an outlet to share.\n", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "I would first start to try and feel connected. There are many online forums, that perhaps you can join in on things that interest you\n", "output": "Information" }, { "input": "Local, and safe, meetings are a good start as well. Have you tried looking for any online local spots? Or in a local news paper? Its great you are coming up with ideas already.\n", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "Those are more for a quicker deeper connection. I would try to cast a broad net. Maybe with Meetup or Nextdoor. ", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "It is an app to get you connected to your local community and neighbors.", "output": "Information" }, { "input": "I believe it does have subsections but it is more of a general hang out for neighbors to keep up with each other.", "output": "Information" }, { "input": "I do love books. They are a great way to get connected with yourself and enhance your creative side! I bet you could find a local book club on one of those apps.", "output": "Self-disclosure" }, { "input": "Rachel, and no need to thank me! Being able to help is the greatest reward!", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "I wish you the best as well!", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "Hi, How are you today?", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "I'm here to listen, Tell me about it", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "Why do you think you find yourselves in this situation?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "I can understand your feelings right now, It's hard to ignore all those memories and moments", "output": "Reflection of feelings" }, { "input": "What bothers you the most? living alone or not having him?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "Hmm, First of all stop being scared", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "You can do it on your own", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "I know that's scary for you, but what's the meaning of life without being scared and have our feelings?", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "But you should start to take control over your feelings at first, you are the boss and you give the orders!", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "Slowly but surely you find yourself in a better mood", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "You said you felt relieved, and that's an opportunity", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "You are free now, Do what makes you happy\nYou and only you can underestimate yourself, stop doing it", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "Don't you think anybody have ever experienced this?\nThey did and they took control, so you can do it too", "output": "Information" }, { "input": "I hope you feel better now and DECIDE to alter things, tomorrow is a new day", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "And don't worry, life is full of surprises, maybe you find love one day", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "If there is anything else I can help you with", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "Thank you for sharing your feelings with me, Good luck with your future endeavours", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "Bye", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "when did you start having these feelings?\n\n", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "is there something specific that began around that time?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "That is a difficult and trying situation during unprecedented times. This is a temporary situation that will improve in time.\n", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "No one ever could have imagined that this would be how we are having to do things.\n", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "have you considered discussing your feelings with your husband?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "I have done a lot of soul searching over the past months and i found small changes in my perspective helped diffuse my stress. I set aside some time to talk to friends and we all share some laughs and some tears and it truly helps. \n", "output": "Self-disclosure" }, { "input": "There is no need to thank me. you are doing what many are trying to do. I pray it all works out for you and your family.", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "Please consider trying to reconnect with your husband. Simple little kindnesses do so much for the spirit.", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "Every day is a fresh start. kindness from you will be returned. ", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "Friends, family and faith are what keep us grounded. It sounds like you have all of those. Please remember that each is there to support you.", "output": "Information" }, { "input": "Hello! How are you doing?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "Anything I can help with :) ?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "Feeling stressed is never fun :(", "output": "Reflection of feelings" }, { "input": "What has been making you feel stressed?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "I hear you, feeling overwhelmed and like you don't know where to start can leave a person feeling stressd forsure! ", "output": "Reflection of feelings" }, { "input": "Decluttering sounds like a great idea! ", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "Sometimes taking baby steps is a good place to start! ", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "Of course! It can feel so stressful when we have all these little things we want to do but don't know where to start! ", "output": "Restatement or Paraphrasing" }, { "input": "What is one little area that maybe seems easier to start with?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "Yeah, that's a great idea! ", "output": "Information" }, { "input": "Hey, well that's okay! starting is half the battle, so that's an accomplishment right there! ", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "have you tried maybe using a timer or making a list to help keep you focused on decluttering one area at a time?", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "Of course! It's easy to be hard on ourselves, but just the fact that you are trying is so important!", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "Oh awesome! I am so glad! Maybe trying that out could be useful! ", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "Having no support is so hard :( Especially during these times! ", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "Of course! Do you feel like you have people that you could reach out to if you start getting lonely? ", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "That's a great idea! Just remember to be kind to yourself and take breaks when you need to! ", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "Aw, I'm glad! ", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "So are you! Best of luck with everything okay? You got this! Anything else I can help with?", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "Sounds good! Get some good rest and I wish you luck with everything! ", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "Yes! Making lists can be a great idea and help organize some thoughts and ideas you have in your head", "output": "Information" }, { "input": "Of course! anything else I can help with? ", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "Awesome! Goodnight! ", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "Good evening. \n", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "How are you tonight?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "So just to make sure I understand, you are having issues with your amount of drinking and are struggling to stop?\n", "output": "Restatement or Paraphrasing" }, { "input": "Is there anything specific that is causing the drinking?\n", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "Just from chatting with you I can tell you are very disappointed\n and upset about this.", "output": "Reflection of feelings" }, { "input": "I also used to struggle with the amount of drinking that I used to do.\n", "output": "Self-disclosure" }, { "input": "One thing I did was talked to my family about it and also spent a lot more time on my hobbies that didn't include any drinking at all. ", "output": "Self-disclosure" }, { "input": "That was when I would focus on another hobby of mine, in my case I would either pick up a book and read or work on model cars\n", "output": "Self-disclosure" }, { "input": "Yes, I definitely think that will help!\n", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "I know it is not an easy thing to do, but you are gonna do great!\n", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "You as well!\n", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "Hi, How are you?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "It sounds like you're having a hard time feeling like you have your parents' attention, is that right?", "output": "Restatement or Paraphrasing" }, { "input": "That sounds frustrating, I'm sorry", "output": "Reflection of feelings" }, { "input": "Do they do or say anything specific that makes you feel those expectations?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "That sounds very frustrating. I think if I felt those kind of expectations I would be anxious.", "output": "Reflection of feelings" }, { "input": "Do you feel comfortable talking to them about your feelings?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "Sometimes it can feel impossible to talk to parents", "output": "Reflection of feelings" }, { "input": "I think that it can be very healthy to get some distance, but I think it can also feel difficult -- do you have good friends in your life that you could lean on if you needed some distance from your parents?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "Good friends can be a huge comfort and it sounds like you're a good friends yourself if you have those kinds of friendships", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "I think if making distance helps you feel better, you deserve and have a right to that space", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "You're welcome", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "It sounds like you are making healthy and careful emotional decisions ", "output": "Reflection of feelings" }, { "input": "Is there anything else you want to discuss about your parents?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "Hello there, how are you feeling at the moment? ", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "I am sorry to hear that but I am happy to listen. What would you like to talk about? ", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "Okay, well, let's take this one thing at a time. What would you say the main reason you were fired was? ", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "I understand how it feels to feel you are not doing as well as you might. I work in the gig economy and enjoy it but it's not what I'd intended to do with my life. ", "output": "Self-disclosure" }, { "input": "Hmph that does not sound at all cool but it can hardly be considered your fault. ", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "It's a very unstable time unfortunately - even highly reputable companies seem to be in trouble. ", "output": "Information" }, { "input": "Ah I have heard of that. You do not think that you are good enough? ", "output": "Restatement or Paraphrasing" }, { "input": "I hear you. It's a demoralising sector to work in, for sure. What would you like to do, if you had your choice? ", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "I know that :) You seem like a good person. ", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "I think that the pandemic has had a negative impact on virtually everyone. It's been a very strange 15 months, for sure.", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "Well, you could still finish it just for your own sake? It would be something worthwhile to look back on later.", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "I would stay away from twitter .. it 's very toxic. ", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "I don't think I'd even get two paragraphs to be honest. But keep writing it, don't give up. ", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "I think people just have more of a platform to vent and feel that they can be hateful because no-one can see them. ", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "Anyway it has been nice to talk to you .. I hope I have been able to help you! ", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "You're very welcome :) Can you press the quit button first, I can't this end :) ", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "hi there, how are you feeling at the moment? ", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "Ah I hear you, I suffer from that really badly too. Do you want to talk about it? ", "output": "Self-disclosure" }, { "input": "Well, could you give me a little bit of background .. are you seeking help for it for instance? ", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "Ah yes I know how that feels. Has anyone ever taught you any relaxation techniques? ", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "Well, there are some breathing techniques that you could practice .. they can be quite helpful ", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "Ah how did you find that? Is it useful? ", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "Would you consider taking some sort of medication? ", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "Yes I do too. I try to avoid other people as much as possible :( ", "output": "Self-disclosure" }, { "input": "No it's surprisingly common. It can lead to a condition called agoraphobia, in which people are reluctant to go far from home ", "output": "Information" }, { "input": "*nods understandingly* Sometimes I feel that my boyfriend is the only person I feel totally comfortable with. I hate interacting with other people. That's why I do crowd work lol ", "output": "Self-disclosure" }, { "input": "I don't think it's really anti social, it's just a result of a chemical imbalance I think. But it's a nuisance.", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "I hope I have been able to provide you with some help and let you know that you are not on your own in this! Can you be the first to press the quit button and then take the survey as I can't do it from my end :) ", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "you're most welcome and all the best ", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "you need to press quit :) ", "output": "Information" }, { "input": "Hello there, how are you doing today? ", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "Well that is good. Are you trying to come off it completely? ", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "Well, do you worry about your consumption? If you don't I don't see it as a problem :) ", "output": "Restatement or Paraphrasing" }, { "input": "Ah yes, it is not cheap. I am not sure how much to suggest as it's not legal in my country :) ", "output": "Information" }, { "input": "I am in the UK. It's sort of a grey area ... police won't really do anything but you can't buy it over the counter", "output": "Information" }, { "input": "Yes I would be too. Even twenty five years ago in my student days it was rare for anyone to be prosecuted for pot. The US seems to be really strict on it tho ", "output": "Self-disclosure" }, { "input": "They were but I didn't pay much attention :) I vote in the Generals and the locals but that's all .", "output": "Self-disclosure" }, { "input": "If I were in London or a major city I'd vote for Mayor. I am in a rural area and we don't have one :D. I vote for local councillors tho \n", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "I like Khan :) ", "output": "Self-disclosure" }, { "input": "I like him too lol. ", "output": "Self-disclosure" }, { "input": "But I don't get to vote for London mayor. Only if I were a London resident or nearby would I (sorry for tortured syntax)", "output": "Information" }, { "input": "Haha I don't indulge these days, except for once in a blue moon :P ", "output": "Self-disclosure" }, { "input": "Not where I am :( All we have here is sheep and cows. ", "output": "Self-disclosure" }, { "input": "North West but close :) ", "output": "Self-disclosure" }, { "input": "haha! ", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "I am not touching that one :) ", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "I don't think Derry people would like being referred to as part of the UK ;) ", "output": "Information" }, { "input": "yeah ... heh I don't go there, being half English and half Irish :). But yeah that was so my era ..", "output": "Self-disclosure" }, { "input": "Anyway nice to meet you and all that but I think we have sort of fulfilled the criteria :D ", "output": "Self-disclosure" }, { "input": "you too! Can you press quit first cos I can't from this end for some reason :) ", "output": "Self-disclosure" }, { "input": "Hello, how are you today?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "Oh? What's happening?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "I see, can you explain what session you skip?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "So it sounds like you are worried you are drinking too much, and that after a few days of not drinking, you end up even drinking more than usual, am I right?", "output": "Restatement or Paraphrasing" }, { "input": "My daughter has addictions and Alcoholics Anonymous is helping her stay clean, she told me", "output": "Self-disclosure" }, { "input": "Have you looked into Alcoholics Anonymous? They have meetings on Zoom you can attend.", "output": "Information" }, { "input": "It's a self help program run by and for people who have alcohol addiction.", "output": "Information" }, { "input": "I can see that it would be discouraging and worrisome to you if it seems like you go one step forward and then two backward.", "output": "Reflection of feelings" }, { "input": "Have you spoken to a professional about your alcohol consumption? In my city, for example, we have a community organization that helps people with alcohol or drug addiction.", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "Well my daughter had no choice, she started going during the pandemic, and many of the meetings have gone virtual. She tells me there are still some in person meetings though, perhaps you can check the AA website for your local information.", "output": "Information" }, { "input": "I see. I wonder if it might be worth trying again. I think getting help is a sign of strength. Perhaps an addiction counsellor can help you break free.", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "I know in my own life I have had some problems that were too big to deal with by myself. I had to find help. It's not a sign of weakness, it's a strength.", "output": "Self-disclosure" }, { "input": "I think it's great you are AWARE you have a problem, that's the most important and often the hardest first step, and you have accomplished that.", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "Are your friends drinking with you? Do they know you are trying to drink less?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "I can understand that being busy can be a barrier, but you are WORTH making time for.", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "My daughter had to find new friends to stay away from the drugs...she has made some good friends at AA", "output": "Self-disclosure" }, { "input": "I know when I quit smoking I had to stay away from my smoking friends for a while until I felt strong enough to be around it.", "output": "Self-disclosure" }, { "input": "Well lets se we've talked about AA, finding an addiction counsellor, and spending time away from your dr\\inking friends for a while, you can explain to them why. If they can't support you in your efforts, are they being good friends to you?", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "Maybe you could also do an internet search to find out what services are available in your city or town", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "I know for me, I have had to put my mental health first. I've had mental health challenges. And without my health I have nothing, so it's #1 priority for me. Perhaps giving up alcohol can become your #1 priority.", "output": "Self-disclosure" }, { "input": "you are very welcome it's been a pleasure speaking with you. I know you can get through this and achieve your goal", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": ":) That's so good to hear you say.", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "Was there anything else?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "Hello, how are you feeling?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "Oh? How come so tired?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "Oh I have had trouble sleeping before! Would you like to know what helped me?", "output": "Self-disclosure" }, { "input": "First of all, fixed sleep and wake times. If you toss and turn for hours, still get up at the same time. Eventually your body will tire and sleeping will naturally become easier.", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "Second thing I do is I have a wind down routine. No work past a certain time, no matter what. Only soft music, pleasant movie, some light reading, and dim the lights. It slows your body down before sleep. It will help slow that racing thoughts you are having.", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "I have had racing thoughts and it used to drive me up the wall!", "output": "Self-disclosure" }, { "input": "Can you buy a lamp? Even a second hand one if your budget is tight?", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "The bright light will keep your mind stimulated.", "output": "Information" }, { "input": "Aw so you are so exhausted from racing thoughts and not enough sleep the night before that you end up taking it out on others, but not meaning to. Am I understanding correctly?", "output": "Restatement or Paraphrasing" }, { "input": "Do you get any exercise? I sleep better on days I go for walks, and my sedentary days I sleep worse, it's quite clear to me.", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "Good effort, keep it up!", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "Back pain, I know all about that too unfortunately. How is your mattress?", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "Hmm I can't recall, I can't afford to replace mine regularly enough lol. Maybe google it?", "output": "Self-disclosure" }, { "input": "Do you have someone to talk to about the thoughts that are racing? ", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "If they are worries, maybe a counsellor would help.", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "Hmm that's a challenge not having friends. Have been there too! ", "output": "Self-disclosure" }, { "input": "I don't want to give you a huge barrage of suggestions but another thing that helps me is a podcast called Tracks to Relax.", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "Well maybe you just haven't met the right people yet. It takes time finding someone we click with", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "It's probably not you! When people drift away from me I always say to myself \"Oh well, their loss!\"\n", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "you're welcome bye and i hope things improve soon. You WILL get through this!", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "My pleasure, I've enjoyed talking with you.", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "Hello, Good day to you ", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "Is there something you wish to discuss today? ", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "If i am to understand you are having troubles with your weight and this is effecting your relationship ? ", "output": "Restatement or Paraphrasing" }, { "input": "I to have experienced troubles with my weight, if can be a very troubling issue to deal with. ", "output": "Self-disclosure" }, { "input": "Could I ask if you are currently participating in any activities or diets to manage your weight ? ", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "Research has shown that if you eat at regular meal times the body can regulate your weight better. The trick is to consume less than you use in a day. To manage this its better to eat your recommended daily amount then exercise so you are using up excess energy ", "output": "Information" }, { "input": "Yes it is a difficult challenge. \n", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "Have you looked in to local support groups which can help you with motivation? ", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "Thats good, I would suggest that you either join a local group or sign up to a online one. Maybe try one that includes meal plans for the week, support chat group that can motivate you. ", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "Exercise is key to weight loss, maybe go for walks with your boyfriend. this will also give you time with him. ", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "depending on the dog breed then puppy will need upto multiple walks a day. So its a great time to start walking then you can move up to a run ", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "I feel we have come up with some good ideas to work on over the next coming weeks. \nIs there thing else you would like to discuss ?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "SOrry to hear that. Have you received the proper medical care for your injuries ? \n", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "Great, i wish you a good afternoon and hope the best for you with all your ambitions ", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "Good bye ", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "Hello, how are you today?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "All's well with me thank you :)", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "Was there something you'd like to talk about? I'm ready to listen.", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "Oh? Would like you to tell me what's happening?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "What sort of carrier? ", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "Or did you mean to say career", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "And what is it you are afraid may happen, can you explain more please?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "It is scary knowing our livelihood is at risk, I can understand that.", "output": "Reflection of feelings" }, { "input": "I see, I have been in a lot of debt before and remember how stressful that was", "output": "Self-disclosure" }, { "input": "What sort of work do you do? Are you at risk of getting laid off?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "I see. So the future is unknown, that can be scary for sure. ", "output": "Reflection of feelings" }, { "input": "You're welcome", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "Have you started looking for your next job?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "Perhaps planning ahead will help you feel more of a sense of control, if that's possible to do.", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "Oh that's exciting! What sort of business? ", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "It's very liberating being your own boss. I used to have a small housecleaning business. I loved being in charge of my own destiny.", "output": "Self-disclosure" }, { "input": "What sort of projects? What field do you work in?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "I have a small business centre in my city that was very helpful when I was starting up. I wonder if you have that in your city.", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "What a great field to be in, so many opportunities.", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "You're welcome :) Whereabouts do you live? I'm in Canada.", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "Oh I'm glad, it was a pleasure speaking with you. I wish you all the best in your venture. I have faith you will get through this.", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "hello how are you?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "thanks I'm fine , can you explain why you can't sleep", "output": "Information" }, { "input": "try to make yourself relax and then try to sleep. don't think about next day", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "did you ever try yoga?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "try to read something boring novel it will help you in sleep", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "before sleeping", "output": "Self-disclosure" }, { "input": "I think nonfiction", "output": "Self-disclosure" }, { "input": "because same thing happen with me and i try it help me a lot", "output": "Reflection of feelings" }, { "input": "which topic is boring for you chose that one", "output": "Self-disclosure" }, { "input": "try to go for running out side and make yourself busy in gym", "output": "Reflection of feelings" }, { "input": "make yourself busy in other activity it will help you", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "yes i like reading ,music , play games", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "what is your hobbies?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "i like to pay fortnight ", "output": "Reflection of feelings" }, { "input": "that's good", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "which one you like?", "output": "Reflection of feelings" }, { "input": "Your welcome", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "Thanks for sharing your thoughts ", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "Hello how are you\n", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "Why are just ok? Is there anything specific you would like to talk about?", "output": "Restatement or Paraphrasing" }, { "input": "You seem quite concerned about this new chapter in your life. How will your employment hours affect your relationship?", "output": "Reflection of feelings" }, { "input": "I recognize that this is a challenging topic for you to discuss. Is the idea of spending time away from your partner concern you?", "output": "Restatement or Paraphrasing" }, { "input": "I too had to relearn a proper balance between my personal and professional life. ", "output": "Self-disclosure" }, { "input": "It is wonderful to feel that sense of desire and need. You need to make your personal happiness your top priority. I recognize the responsibly you are taking on, and I believe you are capable to balance between the two.", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "Are you the aggressor in getting more hours, or have your work assignments and responsibilities that have changed? It is important to maintain self happiness and to aspire to make yourself your number one each and every day.", "output": "Reflection of feelings" }, { "input": "I can relate. In my younger years, my end goal was to advance in life emotionally, mentally and physically. I always longed for a home to call my own. With time, patience, and dedication, you too will have you desires met. ", "output": "Self-disclosure" }, { "input": "It has been proven that the best way to find balance and harmony is to always look forward to the potential in your future. It is very apparent you are a dedicated and loyal partner and that will show itself in time. We all have had to take two steps back in order to take one step forward due to this pandemic. The fact that you are aware of potential issues down the road and have proactively reached out to discuss this shows myself (as well as yourself) that you need to continue to focus on your goals and in time your partners happiness will naturally come out.", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "Make sure you stay well rested as sleep can improve your positive energy. Stay hydrated and nourish your body well as keeping your body in tune with a strong and focused mind does the body and soul good. ", "output": "Information" }, { "input": "Do you feel that you are in a healthy place to deal with your recent life changes?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "You stated earlier that you have reached a point of reassurance and I want you to free comfortable with all the tools you will need to move forward.", "output": "Restatement or Paraphrasing" }, { "input": "**feel**", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "It is healthy that your recognize your need to be healthier. Outside of the items discussed earlier, do you feel that there are other means to find your self satisfaction? ", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "Taking a peaceful stroll is very good for you as well as taking small breaks such as this to reflect \n", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "Hi, can I help you today? Do you have anything you would like to share with me?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "I hear you saying that you are feeling hurt and made to feel bad by other people, does that sound right?", "output": "Restatement or Paraphrasing" }, { "input": "Has this been happening to you for a long time?", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "You are a very strong person for reaching out and expressing your feelings. You have a lot to be proud of!", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "You were put in a very difficult situation with multiple people. I can imagine that you have been so stressed out from the pressure of people hurting you.", "output": "Reflection of feelings" }, { "input": "I had this same problem in school and as I grew up I learned how to speak up and defend myself when people were rude and mean to me. I was my own advocate and you are also being your own by reaching out today and being so strong.", "output": "Self-disclosure" }, { "input": "I was told that I was overweight by others. I was able to defend myself by saying that I am a good person with a good heart and they are not important to me and neither are their opinions. I became more confident in myself. Have you ever wrote your feelings down in a journal?", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "Yes, I agree. A lot of research shows that when we write down our positive attributes we reaffirm our belief in ourselves. Listing the things are are good at can help give you more self confidence.", "output": "Information" }, { "input": "You're welcome, some people express themselves through email and can help to communicate your feelings to someone.", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "Thank you for sharing with me today.", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "You have done a great job explaining how you are feeling and how you've been hurt, thank you.", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "You're welcome!", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "If that is all that I can do for you today kindly end and finish. Bye, for now and have a great day.", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "Hello how are you?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "yes I'm fine thank you , how is your day today?", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "how can i help you?", "output": "Self-disclosure" }, { "input": "oh! did you try to make friendship with him?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "If you make friendship with him then i think he will share with you everything.", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "try to give him more time ", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "he need your time", "output": "Self-disclosure" }, { "input": "I think punishment is not correct solution ,give him more time .", "output": "Restatement or Paraphrasing" }, { "input": "then he will share his problem with you", "output": "Information" }, { "input": "first make yourself relax and then you will be able to solve the problem", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "your health is more important for them", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "did he has friends?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "oh ! take him to watch movies and play games with him try to make yourself close to him", "output": "Self-disclosure" }, { "input": "yes i think it will work", "output": "Reflection of feelings" }, { "input": "yes try i think it will work and try to play games with him whatever he like", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "yes i do these things with my kids and they are my best friend", "output": "Reflection of feelings" }, { "input": "your welcome", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "Thanks", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "Hi there, how are things with you right now? ", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "Ah I hear you - I think that there is a lot of that going around during this pandemic. Did you ever have a problem before? ", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "It has been horrendous hasn't it? Have you been able to at least speak to your doctor, even if you could not see them in person? ", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "It might be time to get some more help? Do you think it is bad enough that you might need inpatient treatment? ", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "It sounds like you have had a really hard time the last eighteen months. As the lockdown is easing, are there any new pastimes you could get involved in that might distract you? ", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "Poker night does sound like something that might involve a lot of alcohol though :( ", "output": "Information" }, { "input": "LOL well I am glad to hear that at least. Splitting a twelve pack between six does not seem like a problem to me ", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "That is possible as well and it is definitely worth talking to someone, I think, just in case ", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "Well beer, to be perfectly honest :D ", "output": "Self-disclosure" }, { "input": "Anyway I hope that I can have been of assistance :) ", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "Just remember that it can get worse pretty quickly so it's best to talk to someone :) can you press quit first and take the survey? I can't at this end ", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "Hey there, what's going on today?\n", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "It really is! I am just taking in the fresh air in the backyard. ", "output": "Self-disclosure" }, { "input": "Thanks! What is going on in your neck of the woods? ", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "Yeah great minds think alike.. do you do anything else for work? ", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "Okay, you know I'm here for you. Talk to me, what's happening? ", "output": "Restatement or Paraphrasing" }, { "input": "The same happened to me, and then my father passed away. If there is anything I can say, is to swallow pride and cherish the moments you have on earth together. What was the fight over?", "output": "Self-disclosure" }, { "input": "That was my next question, what the fight was over. Do you think he would be open to mending things? ", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "Usually when people feel singled out, they only have a few mechanisms. Unfortunately, most people tend to run away instead of fixing things. It tends to be the easier option. ", "output": "Information" }, { "input": "When you try to fix things, just remember that this is his method. I wouldn't hold back on what you have to say, but just word it so that he doesn't feel the need to flee. ", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "It is HIS responsibility as a parent to want to fix things, but you are also being the bigger person here. I applaud you and hope that he is receptive. ", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "How did you guys leave it? ", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "Ha, well after two years, feelings had to have changed. Even a little. Does he live nearby?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "Hello, how are you today?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "I'm sorry to hear that, what's happening?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "How bad was the argument? What was it about?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "Do you think there is any truth to what she is saying?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "Family conflict can be very upsetting, I have it in my family sometimes.", "output": "Reflection of feelings" }, { "input": "I see. Do you live together?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "That does sound upsetting. So how do you two make peace generally, or do you have silences between you?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "So what helps you deal with it? I have found journaling so helpful when I have personal conflicts. It helps to get things in perspective, and to vent to a peice of paper", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "Actually I journal on my computer, and don't save it :)", "output": "Self-disclosure" }, { "input": "Thath's why I don't save my journal entries, too painful", "output": "Self-disclosure" }, { "input": "Do you have a counselor you can speak with about how to deal with the conflicts? Maybe he/she could arrange a family meeting", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "I did that with my husband when we were fighting, having a counselor in the room helped us gain insight.", "output": "Self-disclosure" }, { "input": "Exercise is helpful for burning off anger, a good long walk... Oh you must be in US?", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "I think that would be great! A good way to burn off frustration and improve physical health at the same time.", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "You will get through this....it sounds like you two need to have some good talks to address these conflicts....together the two of you may be able to sort it out. On a day when things are calm, not during an argument.", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "Yes I do! I used to procrastinate walking....then I got myself a walking partner", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "We are accountable to each other. We both need to walk for our mental health, we have mental health issues", "output": "Self-disclosure" }, { "input": "Hey that would be great if you two could be accountable to each other", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "My neighbour and I were chatting about how we are not motivated to walk but want to walk, so we made a plan", "output": "Self-disclosure" }, { "input": "Well....only one way to find that out....and and challenging as it may seem it could be, it's a less drastic step than moving", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "If you both want it to work, it will", "output": "Information" }, { "input": "Well I hope you two can talk it out.", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "oh it's been a pleasure speaking with you, you're very welcome", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "I wish you all the best, you will get through this :)", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": " :) we will", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "Hello, how is your day going?\n", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "Nice to meet you Jim, I am doing well. Is there anything you'd like to talk about today?\n", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "What is on your mind?\n", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "So you are thinking of going back to work?\n", "output": "Restatement or Paraphrasing" }, { "input": "You have the right idea already.\n", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "I'm sure you will find something suitable if you keep trying.\n", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "You may feel a little apprehensive to get started", "output": "Reflection of feelings" }, { "input": "I have been in the same position before and came out successful in the end.\n", "output": "Self-disclosure" }, { "input": "I just decided.\n", "output": "Information" }, { "input": "Doing little things every day\n", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "Really adds up and helps to get the big picture moving.", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "It is about making small adjustments to feed a good habit.", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "Building it in to your daily life will make you feel accomplished ", "output": "Information" }, { "input": "THis really helped me to get going in the past\n", "output": "Self-disclosure" }, { "input": "You will find those things that you know you want\n", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "Always beleive in yourself!\n", "output": "Reflection of feelings" }, { "input": "You are welcome and everybody is rooting for you.", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "Start doing things and they will grow friend", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "You are welcome and best of wishes.", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "Take care, bless yall", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "You can end the chat safely now", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "Hi , can I help you today? Would you like to share anything?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "Do you have anything specific on your mind?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "Oh, it seems like you are feeling alone, is that correct?", "output": "Restatement or Paraphrasing" }, { "input": "Do you have a list of things in any order? ", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "That sounds very difficult for you and great job reaching out here today.", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "I can telling that you are very worried but also very capable because you have taking the time to search for some support.", "output": "Reflection of feelings" }, { "input": "Well, I used to feel the same way and I would take the time to call a close friend and spend time with my dogs everyday. Is that something you could do too?", "output": "Self-disclosure" }, { "input": "That is very forward thinking and a great idea. A local church group can often support you.", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "I understand, I have noticed that people who reach our for help as you have will attract people to them. Have you looked into an online church community?", "output": "Information" }, { "input": "Yes, I agree that it is hard to find people who can help and not cause more harm. Online communities on reddit have specialized groups for people with your situation too. ", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "Yes, I agree. Having time to sit down and write out your thoughts and feelings can sometimes help too. Maybe you can journal your feelings this week.", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "Yes, you have started your journey today and I am very proud of you expressing and identifying your problems. Great first step.", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "Yes, please use writing to list your feelings and problems this week and check back with us regularly. We are happy to help and always here for you. Thank you very much. ", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "You can reach out anytime or day and we will assist you.", "output": "Information" }, { "input": "You're welcome, Bye.", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "If you don't need anything else, you can kindly, end and finish for today. Thanks.", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "Hello, how are you?\n", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "I am good. What is on your mind?\n", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "Seems like it has been hard to get motivated.\n", "output": "Restatement or Paraphrasing" }, { "input": "A lot of people experience this struggle. You are able to overcome this and you will find happiness. \n", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "You had it in the past, it is just a matter of bringing it back.\n", "output": "Reflection of feelings" }, { "input": "I have found that accomplishing small tasks makes good momentum.\n", "output": "Self-disclosure" }, { "input": "It helps to get things moving and becomes a good habit.\n", "output": "Information" }, { "input": "Getting yourself to bed and waking up at a good time will help too.\n", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "Make sure to cease intake of caffeine at least 6 hours before you want to go to bed.", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "True. The blue light emitted tricks your body in to thinking that it wants to be alert still.\n", "output": "Information" }, { "input": "I think that taking care of your basic needs like eating and sleeping\n will help in other aspects of life. ", "output": "Self-disclosure" }, { "input": "You will do great.\n", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "Thanks and I hope you do too! \n", "output": "Information" }, { "input": "Hi, how are you doing?\n", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "I'm doing well. Did you have anything you wanted to talk about?\n", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "I'm doing well. Did you have anything you wanted to talk about?\n", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "Is getting a good night's sleep becoming an issue?\n", "output": "Restatement or Paraphrasing" }, { "input": "Is getting a good night's sleep becoming an issue?\n", "output": "Restatement or Paraphrasing" }, { "input": "Tons of people deal with this on many levels.", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "I can feel that this affects you in a negative way.\n", "output": "Reflection of feelings" }, { "input": "I can feel that this affects you in a negative way.\n", "output": "Reflection of feelings" }, { "input": "I have had issues in the past personally with sleep. Many of my friends too.\n", "output": "Self-disclosure" }, { "input": "I have had issues in the past personally with sleep. Many of my friends too.\n", "output": "Self-disclosure" }, { "input": "There are a lot of things out there to try and get your sleep pattern in better shape.\n", "output": "Information" }, { "input": "There are a lot of things out there to try and get your sleep pattern in better shape.\n", "output": "Information" }, { "input": "What about valerian root or other herbs?\n", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "What about valerian root or other herbs?\n", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "You could also try adjusting your diet and eating habits. ", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "You are welcome\n", "output": "Information" }, { "input": "You are welcome\n", "output": "Information" }, { "input": "You can also try reducing caffeine intake 6 hours before bed.", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "As you know this can keep your brain stimulated and prevent you from going to sleep.", "output": "Information" }, { "input": "I used to drink too much coffee and I was tired all day but could never sleep right.\n", "output": "Self-disclosure" }, { "input": "I used to drink too much coffee and I was tired all day but could never sleep right.\n", "output": "Self-disclosure" }, { "input": "Anything else I can help with?\n", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "Anything else I can help with?\n", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "Hello, how are you doing today?\n", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "Is your bit of anger sparked from the interaction with your mother?", "output": "Restatement or Paraphrasing" }, { "input": "I bet you can figure out a way to communicate better.", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "It is hard to feel misunderstood.", "output": "Reflection of feelings" }, { "input": "It sounds like you are doing your best to be nice but it isn't getting through.", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "Everybody has stuff from their past that affects them.", "output": "Information" }, { "input": "You should be understanding, especially since you already know this.", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "I have had personal disputes with my parents in the past. Most of the time there's other things going on that makes a person act different.", "output": "Self-disclosure" }, { "input": "It would be good to do that. Maybe try to have a conversation and tell her you support her no matter what she's going through.", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "Do some chores or something that helps her out and just let her know you want to have a serious talk some time.", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "Try giving reassurance that you want to show you care.", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "I feel the same way. I hope you can get things on better terms.", "output": "Reflection of feelings" }, { "input": "Maybe you can set a better example about being open.", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "I believe in you.", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "You are welcome, best wishes.", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "Hello there, how are you feeling? ", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "It always could, alas. Is there anything specific you'd like to talk about though? ", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "Ah I am so sorry. It's been so hard during the pandemic hasn't it? Are you working right now? ", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "Is there any chance of increasing your hours? What is your relationship with your sibling like? ", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "Yes, it is difficult to have to be a dependent again when you have been used to living alone. I had to do that myself once over fifteen years ago when I was forced to move back with my parents. ", "output": "Self-disclosure" }, { "input": "Yeah. It was very depressing at the time but things are much better now. I think it will be the same for you t oo! ", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "It can do, unfortunately. Are there any things that give you pleasure in life? Do you have friends? ", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "sorry was afk ", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "What are your chances of getting another job? ", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "What sort of thing are you looking for? ", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "Ah I have done some teaching, it's a very worthy profession. ", "output": "Self-disclosure" }, { "input": "Everything is so up in the air at the moment. ", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "(can you press quit and take the survey? I can't do it at my end. Thanks for talking!)", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "*beams* ... you just need to press quit ", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "Hello there, is there anything you'd like to talk to me about?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "Oh dear that does not sound good. Do you have a problem with alcohol in general or was this a one off? ", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "Does he give you a discount then? ", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "Have you considered getting some sort of help? There is lots out there. ", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "Your wife left you for your father? How very ... redneck. ", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "Hmmm I would start with your GP, if you have one. ", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "Doctor. Sorry I am in England - I think that would be physician for you \n", "output": "Information" }, { "input": "Well, perhaps you could see your G ... um, physician and tell them that you think you have a problem? They might be able to provide calcium supplements too. ", "output": "Information" }, { "input": "If you have been drinking a long time, you probably need physical help too in case of withdrawal. Your doctor is the best place to start for both. ", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "What is your financial situation? Are you in trouble now you have no job? ", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "you should live in England. Socialised medicine is the best. ", "output": "Information" }, { "input": "I've heard :( It's terrifying to think of. Are there any free facilities there for people in your situation or do you just suffer? ", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "So you're stuck in limbo? That is really awful, I am sorry. ", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "Are there any charities who could help? It is just terrible that people who need mental health care cannot get it! ", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "I am not sure what that means :) ", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "madam ;) but you're welcome ", "output": "Self-disclosure" }, { "input": "Hi my name is Sarah, how are you today?\n", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "Oh no! That sounds stressful. What's happening?", "output": "Reflection of feelings" }, { "input": "Moving is such a stressful time. When do you move? ", "output": "Reflection of feelings" }, { "input": "I see. What is your wind-down routine like in the evening, if you have one?", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "Oh you're a parent AND you are moving, you have a lot on your plate!", "output": "Reflection of feelings" }, { "input": "Have you tried a warm bath before bed? that's helped me before. Meditation to still my mind before sleeping helps too.", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "I've read that a small carb snack before bed, like a peice of toast, is supposed to help us fall asleep, I haven't tried it though", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "One thing I highly recommend is a podcast called \"Tracks to Relax\" ", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "It's guided sleep meditations, and his voice is incredibly soothing....works well for me on nights I can't naturally fall asleep.", "output": "Information" }, { "input": "He leads you relaxing walks into the forest and such things, it's very peaceful", "output": "Information" }, { "input": "Have you a partner sharing the childrearing?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "Oh I see so right now you're the main \"parent-er\"?", "output": "Restatement or Paraphrasing" }, { "input": "Do you have other family that could take the kids for a wekend so you can have a proper rest?", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "You have wonderful children beccause they have been well parented by the sounds of it :)", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "I hope your move goes smoothly....try to make sure you carve out time for YOU ...bye!", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "(please click the quit button)", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "Hi there, what's going on today?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "Did you sign the birth certificate? ", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "That is absolutely horrible, and I can understand the reasoning behind your emotions now. You are a wonderful soul to care so deeply. You deserve to be a Father. ", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "Have you contacted any legal help? ", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "Ok that is one step closer to justice. When is that going to take place, and did you find out if that can be expedited? ", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "Your child is so fortunate to have you. Keep fighting to win custody, I believe in you. ", "output": "Reflection of feelings" }, { "input": "I am proud of being able to say I spoke with someone like you today. I hope the rest of the world takes notes from you. If everyone cared like this, the world would be a better place. Thank you for being you:)", "output": "Reflection of feelings" }, { "input": "Is there anything else going on, aside from this?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "What are you studying?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "I studied psychology years ago, and it is eye opening. Stick with it, and pay attention. It will absolutely help your cause in court too! ", "output": "Self-disclosure" }, { "input": "Anytime! Do you do anything for fun? Any hobbies? ", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "What are some of your favorites? That is definitely one of my escapes. It is a very healthy way to cope and find some peace among the chaos. ", "output": "Information" }, { "input": "Can I make a suggestion? From a fellow psych buff, I recommend any of the Uncharted games or Assassin's Creed games! You will melt into another world and it takes the stress away. Leaving you more energized to deal with real world problems! ", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "Great minds think alike! Is there anything else you wanted to bring up with me today? ", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "Thank you for trusting me with your problems. I hope to have made you smile, even a little! ", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "Hi! Hope you are doing well. How can I help you today?\n", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "It seems you are having hard time to fall asleep. Hope I get it right?\n", "output": "Restatement or Paraphrasing" }, { "input": "Is there a specific thing or task which is bothering you for long? ", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "It must be a tough time for you and is a enough reason to not getting good sleep. despite of it you should need a complete rest . ", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "I feels like you are having less energy and feel tired due to lack of sleep. Try to follow a particular schedule and u can put soothing music before bed. It might calm you down and make you sleep.", "output": "Reflection of feelings" }, { "input": "When I have sleeping problem, I take warm shower. It help me a lot.", "output": "Self-disclosure" }, { "input": "As far as I know if we follow a particular time to go to bed eventually We start feeling sleepy at that time or body adapt it. ", "output": "Information" }, { "input": " I can understand how hard it is for you. But nothing stays same. I wish your daughter will come out of it soon and wishing her success. Meditation can help you too. Before sleeping you can concentrate on your breath. ", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "Best wish for you! Wishing you will have a nice sleep and refresh day afterwards.\n", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "Yes, I am a parent with 2 kids and can understand your situation very well", "output": "Self-disclosure" }, { "input": "Hello how are you?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "I have suffered from depression and know how hard that can be", "output": "Self-disclosure" }, { "input": "What seems to have brought it on?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "Oh that is hard being separated from family. Are you unable to t5ravel right now?", "output": "Reflection of feelings" }, { "input": "I see", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "So are you being followed by a specialist?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "Okay so you are not feeling well enough to travel and see your kids am I right?", "output": "Restatement or Paraphrasing" }, { "input": "That sounds like it would be isolating...are you able to keep in touch with people by telephone, video chat and what not, are you feeling well enough for that?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "I know when I am depressed I don't want to see or talk to anyone...", "output": "Self-disclosure" }, { "input": "Oh I'm so glad you are in touch in that way, do you find them supportive?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "Is there any way they can come and visit you?", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "It sounds like you are feeling overwhelmed right now. ", "output": "Reflection of feelings" }, { "input": "Is there anyone else besides your specialist and your kids that you can reach out to for support in your community, even if it's just by pone?", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "And you won't feel this way forever, it will pass, know that, even if it does not feel like it, it will. It can be hard to see any light at the end of the tunnel when we are depressed.", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "Oh that's great you have a supportive wife! ", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "In my community we have mental health programs, I am actually doing some via zoom, do you know if there is anything like that you can access?", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "I understand that shut down feeling....I close right up when I am down", "output": "Reflection of feelings" }, { "input": "Feeling worthless, uninterested in going out, those are symptoms of depression, they will pass", "output": "Information" }, { "input": "Lack of interest in things is also a symptom of depression. Once your depression lifts it will come back. I'll tell you what helped me when I was depresed...", "output": "Information" }, { "input": "I was taught to make very small goals. For example, I found it hard to go out for a walk, even though I knew it would help my depression. (Exercise has been shown to be as effective as antidpressants) So I was told, just walk around the block. If that's too much, walk to the corner. If that's too much, walk to the end f the driveway. If that's too much, step outside. If that's too much, put your shoes on. Baby steps.", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "And whatever small step you manage to acheive, celebrate it and reward yourself.", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "Ultimately, my last depression it was getting my covid shot that helped most....lifted a bunch of fear and anxiety and restored my hope.", "output": "Self-disclosure" }, { "input": "Does your specialist know you are this down?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "And losing your mum last Easter, you are probably still dealing with grief on top of everything else. My parents are gone too, grief can be a long process. Grief is tough. That will get easier with time.", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "The thing is though, depression is an illness. Would you take meds for another sort of illness, something physical?", "output": "Information" }, { "input": "That is hard, I'm sorry you are hurting", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "Have you tried writing down your thoughts and feelings in a journal?", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "okay so the PTSD is related to time in the military?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "Are there any veterans groups in your area that help with that?", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "Maybe connecting with others \"in the same boat\" would help", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "Or maybe there is a way online you could do that, virtual meetings, since you find it hard to get out. Could you handle a zoom group meeting?", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "I attend zoom group meetings for my mental health. They have helped.", "output": "Self-disclosure" }, { "input": "You are going through a lot, but you are stronger than you feel, I know you can get through this. Things will get easier.", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "Have you done any research online about PTSD....perhaps your veteran organization has resources on their website", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "That is so hard, I hear you", "output": "Reflection of feelings" }, { "input": "Research is something solitary you can do", "output": "Information" }, { "input": "Whereabouts do you live?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "Well you are being honest. Some people will be able to handle that, some won't, but either way it takes courage to communicate how badly you feel.", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "ok good. I see online that Tennessee Dept of Veterans lists some mental health resources", "output": "Information" }, { "input": "You will have fun again. Your feelings are due to depression, you will get through it, it will lift.", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "Good. Be honest and open with your specialist please? That's important. It's a pleasure listening to you, you're welcome", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "Aw thank you for the compliment", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "Honestly, I have been ill with depression several times, and have felt hopeless...and it always lifted", "output": "Self-disclosure" }, { "input": "You're so welcome. Feel better soon. ", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "And don't give up!!!", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "You have your wife and kids you are not alone :) Bye take care, things will get better.", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "If you hit the quit button it will end the session :)", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "Hi! How are you today?", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "I'm sorry to hear that. It must be hard.", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "Can I ask what has happened?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "Oh no! I'm sorry to hear that. That must be a hard situation, to not have your folks believe you.", "output": "Reflection of feelings" }, { "input": "Have you spoken with your sibling about why they lied?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "I'm sure it's frustrating when you know you're correct and no one believes you.", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "It's not cool that you're sibling lied, but it may be a good time to breathe a second. Running away never solved anything", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "So probably it's quiet. this is a good time to take a breath and , literally try and sleep on it.\n", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "What do you want to see happen?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "OK, I understand.", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "So, then, it's how to figure out how to make that happen.", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "May I ask why they believe your sibling? Is your sibling a different age?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "I understand.", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "So, it sounds like you already have a plan to turn things around. How far away from 18 are you, if I can ask?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "OK, good for you. It may not seem like it, but you can do anything for a year.", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "So, the question is....how do you deal in the short term?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "Yes. I was going to suggest the \"grey rock\" technique.", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "You would be only as polite as you need to be, and only engage others in a limited way. You go about your business as you need to without the involvement of your other family members.", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "you're welcome!", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "I truly wish you the best. Stay calm, you're a stone, and will get through this until you can leave.", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "Hello, how are you feeling today?\n", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "I'm so sorry to hear that. Is there any particular reason you feel upset today?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "That's really hard, but I'm sure we can find a way to make your sleeping more at ease. Has it been happening frequently? ", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "I had a problem sleeping before, is it ok if I give you some suggestions that helped me and might help you too?", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "Try practicing meditation and yoga, and avoid mobile phones atleast an hour before you sleep. Chamomile tea also helped me relaxed before. \n", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "That's wonderful that you're very open, I'm sure you will be well in no time. If you still have a hard time sleeping, feel free to contact us again. We'll be happy to help.", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "You're welcome! Have a nice day.", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "Stay safe and try doing naps first.\n", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "that's wonderful. how did it go?\n", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "That's wonderful. I also kept on doing yoga.\n", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "Hi there, how's your day? ", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "What is it you're feeling frustrated about? I am happy to listen. ", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "Would you like to tell me what sort of work it is? Perhaps I can help. ", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "Ah that does not sound like my sort of thing. Why is it you're having trouble starting, do you think? ", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "Well, I guess you could say that you won't get any results if you don't try though? :) ", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "Do you think that the anxiety might have another cause - you might have general problems with anxiety? ", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "Well, I have heard of a thing called Mindfulness but I have never tried it myself. It sounds like it might be very effective though ", "output": "Information" }, { "input": "Or you could perhaps try and get some sort of counselling? ", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "Yes it can be a vicious circle sometimes. What sort of cultural things do you mean? ", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "Ah, yes I know that that can be very difficult. And yes, I can understand why you'd want to see someone who would understand that particular situation ", "output": "Restatement or Paraphrasing" }, { "input": "I hope that I have been able to help and thank you for confiding in me! ", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "I am hear for a while if you want to talk again :D You have to press quit first as I am not able to do so from my end. ", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "here for a while sorry ", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "no worries, all the best! ", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "Hi there, what's going on today? ", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "How so? ", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "I have done that myself, but being self aware is an advantage not many people have. How long has this been happening? ", "output": "Self-disclosure" }, { "input": "These are not the best times... but lets dig deeper to the root of this new behavior. ", "output": "Reflection of feelings" }, { "input": "I have been down that road myself, and I didn't have anyone to help me. But luckily, you have resources and support. Help me understand what makes you drink? Is it a trigger like stress? Or just a habit? ", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "What do you do for work? ", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "Oh I can definitely understand your reasoning. I am not justifying your behavior, but at least we see now, it goes hand in hand. The corporate dinner parties and cocktail hours.. it is usually much deeper than the surface", "output": "Reflection of feelings" }, { "input": "Usually when I find myself going off the deep end, I can reign it back by realizing that the power lies in me. My control to use a relaxer like a cocktail hour, to just be that. It does not have to be a contest. It should make you feel good, then leave it. But if you cannot control it, try and de-stress another way like baths or massages", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "It sounds like you are pretty self aware, which is a great short cut to this dilemma. ", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "You can use this to your advantage, and make more conscious choices to better your life ", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "That is great, please share with me your findings ", "output": "Restatement or Paraphrasing" }, { "input": "It is easy to get side tracked by ego especially in that field. Try to stay focused and remember why you are there. You aren't there to impress Jim. You are there to make money and achieve your goals. As long as your eyes stay on the goal, the rest will follow. ", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "You are a strong individual and I am here for you. You inspire me to do better!! ", "output": "Reflection of feelings" }, { "input": "You inspire me because rather than allowing it to consume you, you are actively seeking help. That is very commendable. ", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "Hello! How is life treating you right now? ", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "I see .. so I hear you saying that you are suffering from very bad anxiety? ", "output": "Restatement or Paraphrasing" }, { "input": "Ah I have had this problem myself. Have you consulted with your doctor? ", "output": "Self-disclosure" }, { "input": "I am not sure what sort of medications they are - are they specifically for insomnia? ", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "I tried those too but did not find them very effective, did you?", "output": "Self-disclosure" }, { "input": "There are some sleeping pills out there that are not addictive, or at least I believe so", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "I think the over the counter things are generally considered safe but you could ask the pharmacist. ", "output": "Information" }, { "input": "How old are you?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "Ah, I am in my mid forties, everything starts to get harder health wise after that age don't you think? ", "output": "Self-disclosure" }, { "input": "And sleeping problems start emerging, sigh. Do you get a chance to nap during the day? ", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "Sounds like you have a very packed life. Maybe you need more time to yourself to relax?", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "Is there anyone in your home that you can discuss this with? Spouse? ", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "I hear you on that one too :(. I think you are being put under unnecessary stress ", "output": "Restatement or Paraphrasing" }, { "input": "What are the chances of you doing something just for y ourself soon? A spa day maybe?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "No worries, I have a couple of minutes more to spare if you'd like to talk about something else :) ", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "No problem at all :) can you just wait for the fifteen minute mark before pressing quit, thanks and have a great day \n", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "It's a living :D \n", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "Hi there how are things with you? ", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "I am sorry to hear that. I have insomnia and I know how horrible it is. Have you seen your doctor?", "output": "Self-disclosure" }, { "input": "It might be worth it. They might be able to arrange you some counselling. ", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "Nothing really lol. But there are things that can make it easier. There is over the counter medication available, for instance ", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "Oh that's a shame. Have you tried, for instance, getting some exercise an hour or two before bed? ", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "It sounds like there might be other issues at work too ... anxiety? ", "output": "Restatement or Paraphrasing" }, { "input": "Gosh I am very sorry to hear that. Have you spoken to your cancer doctor about it? ", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "There may be some relation between the two things, it's worth seeing. ", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "Did the two things start at around the same time, do you remember? ", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "Yes - there may well be some physical thing going on as well as the anxiety. ", "output": "Information" }, { "input": "I would definitely advise talking to her then. There might be something helpful she can recommend. ", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "Yes it definitely is. Are you at liberty to nap during the day if you feel really tired? ", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "Try a nice milky drink just before you go to sleep too. Very soothing. ", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "Watch one of your favourite movies before bed too .. that might relax you. ", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "You're most welcome - we have to talk for fifteen mins though so is there anything else I can advise you with?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "I have not but my sister practices it and apparently she finds it really helpful. ", "output": "Self-disclosure" }, { "input": "I think for over ten years. A Buddhist friend of hers taught her. ", "output": "Self-disclosure" }, { "input": "I would definitely recommend you trying it - at worst, it can't hurt. Anyway I hope I have been able to be of some help to you today and I wish you all the best for the future! ", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "(can you press quit after fifteen mins as I can't do it from this end)", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "Hi there, how are you doing today?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "I am amazing thanks, the sun is shining. Today is a good day! So how can I help you?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "I am sorry to hear that, I used to have sleeping issues as well. What do you do in the hour leading up to bed time and what do you do in bed before you sleep?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "I made a rule in my house where we cannot use any technology 1 hour before bed time. We read a book for example.", "output": "Self-disclosure" }, { "input": "That might be something you can start to implement in your schedule. Cutting out technology 1 hour before bed time.", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "Don't feel bad, we all do it in this day and age.", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "I also have a playlist of what's known as \"white noise\". Think of rain falling on the windows, a stream of water flowing, birds tweeting. This is what I listen to while I'm lying in bed waiting to go to sleep. You could try this as well.", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "Sometimes sleep issues are not about you doing something wrong, just about how you can set your mind in a better place.", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "No 100%, you shouldn't take pills unless its absolutely necessary, and I don't think it is right now. I think you can do this without pills.", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "No problem at all, its my pleasure. I believe you can as well :)", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "Yes about 2 years ago I started to have sleep issues. I noticed the phone was the first thing I picked up after waking up, and the last thing I put down. It is terrible what technology and social media does to us.", "output": "Self-disclosure" }, { "input": "Yes about 2 years ago I started to have sleep issues. I noticed the phone was the first thing I picked up after waking up, and the last thing I put down. It is terrible what technology and social media does to us.", "output": "Self-disclosure" }, { "input": "Thats what I am here for :) I hope you have a great day my friend!", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "Thanks you too.", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "Hello my name is Lisa, how are you today?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "Hi Megan, sorry to hear you are feeling down. And having trouble falling asleep is something I go through from time to time, I'll share some tips I have if you like.", "output": "Self-disclosure" }, { "input": "Just curious how long have you been feeling down? And did you sleep okay before that?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "Okay so it sounds like your trouble sleeping has gotten worse since you started feeling low, and it's affecting your energy during the day then? Am I understanding you right?", "output": "Restatement or Paraphrasing" }, { "input": "Here are some things I do....no coffee after noon...", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "I exercise in the morning if I can, for me that's a walk, I always sleep better on days I walk....", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "I LOVE coffee....had to wean myself back to maximum 3 cups in the morning though", "output": "Self-disclosure" }, { "input": "Is your room quite dark?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "I got light blocking curtains....seems to help", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "Okay sounds good :) I use this podcast that has this guy with such a relaxing voice, doing guided sleep meditations, it's called Tracks to Relax", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "there's a premium option but the free is just fine", "output": "Information" }, { "input": "whats ASMR?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "hmm I\"ll have to check that out!", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "Have you spoken to your doctor about your low mood?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "It's really tough not sleeping and then being low energy all day, but I know you can get on top of it. There's good info online too if you google \"sleep hygeine\"", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "YOu're very welcome it's been a pleasure chatting with you", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "Take care and I hope you sleep well soon!", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "Hello! What seems to be the problem?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "I will try my best. I specialise in yoga and meditation.", "output": "Self-disclosure" }, { "input": "How long has this been happening for?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "This may be an obvious question, but can you think of something that has changed in the last two weeks?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "Think about work related, personal life, changes in behaviour?", "output": "Restatement or Paraphrasing" }, { "input": "It might solve as a temporary solution, however, if whatever happened at work to cause this continues when you return from holidays, you will just have the same problem again.", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "What exactly do you think is causing it? Additional work/responsibilities? New manager?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "Have you tried to speak to your manager about these additional responsibilities? Do you know if it is a short term problem or you will always have extra work being assigned?", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "I don't think I can share links over here, however the activities you perform directly before you go to sleep have a direct impact on your sleeping.", "output": "Information" }, { "input": "I would recommend trying to practice 30m-1h of yoga (you can find lodes of exercise videos on the internet to follow), followed by a mediation sound track for you to listen to in bed while you try to sleep.\n", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "Keep your body and mind clear before you go to sleep has proven to allow for a better sleep.", "output": "Information" }, { "input": "I used to have sleeping issues, and I started doing this 2 years ago, and I completely changed. I am an investment banker and still am, it is a very stressful environment however this has allowed me to work at the very top and remain in control of my body and mind.", "output": "Self-disclosure" }, { "input": "Please try this for 1 week, I know you can do it and I know it will help you long term.", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "Thanks so good, I have really enjoyed talking to you too.", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "My pleasure, you too.", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "Bye.", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "Hello there, how can I help you?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "I am sorry to hear that. How often do you have problems sleeping?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "I hear you, I used to have noisy neighbours too.", "output": "Self-disclosure" }, { "input": "How long have you been living next to your noisy neighbours for?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "If noise levels are above the legal limit, you can get the police involved, however, its probably better to have that open conversation with them first. Let them have the opportunity to fix it before it escalates.", "output": "Information" }, { "input": "Have you tried just a simple knock on the wall to let them know you are not happy?", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "Since they are not answering the door.", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "I would personally try to write a letter and post it through their door, give them 24 hours to be able to read it and think about it.\n\nIf they continue to be noisy the next day, you should definitely call the police. The police are there for law and order, and it sounds as though they are causing a public nuisance which is what the police are there to do, no matter how troublesome your neighbours are. They aren't above the law.", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "I understand you feel helpless, but I really think that is the last option. I don't know if you are saying the police will not help because this is what you have been told by a friend or this is your experience. But they really are there to help you in a case like this.", "output": "Information" }, { "input": "\"Police typically are responsible for maintaining public order and safety, enforcing the law, and preventing, detecting, and investigating criminal activities. These functions are known as policing\"", "output": "Information" }, { "input": "Then I would suggest if the police are not able to help you take the officers badge numbers and contact your local council or government,", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "No problem. I know your issue will be solved without having a move away. Have a great day too!", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "It seems like you are missing someone. Hope I get it correct", "output": "Restatement or Paraphrasing" }, { "input": "May I know where the person is right now whom you are missing so much?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "means far away from you. It must be hard for you to stay apart from him.", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "That's great! I can feel you really have a great family support.", "output": "Reflection of feelings" }, { "input": "When I miss someone, I tried to call that person or do video call and spend time virtually. It makes me feel like that person is not far from me. I really feel connected. You should do that often. ", "output": "Self-disclosure" }, { "input": "May I know do you have any issues with each other?\n", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "oh Sorry to hear about that. Are you still having good bon? If you want to stay connected with someone it is really important to have communication with each other. ", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "That's great if you want to move forward and forget about it. You should engage yourself in the activities which you like. It will help you a lot coming out from this situation. ", "output": "Information" }, { "input": "Best wishes for you! Please let me know if you need any other help.", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "ok! Have a wonderful day!", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "I think you should submit the test now\n", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "I don't have the option to do that as a Peer supporter", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "It at right bottom below where we are typing chat\n", "output": "Restatement or Paraphrasing" }, { "input": "yes click on that. You can only do that. I have only quit option. ", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "Your test will be summited , don't worry. After you have to if a short survey. ", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "I can quit the test if you want me to do that, but we both won't be compensated then. ", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "What brings you online today?\n", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "Can I help you with anything today? We can just chat if you don’t have anything in particular you’d like to discuss.", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "I’m Kim. What’s your name?", "output": "Self-disclosure" }, { "input": "Great! What’s going on?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "Lack of sleep will definitely make you tired during the day! Is there something bothering you that causes you to stay awake during the night?", "output": "Restatement or Paraphrasing" }, { "input": "Well it sounds like you’re tired enough for sleep, but you’re still wired and can’t get the sleep you need. ", "output": "Restatement or Paraphrasing" }, { "input": "Are you getting any physical activity in during the day to make body more willing to cooperate?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "I’ve found that physical activity helps me to get to sleep even when I’m troubled mentally. Another option is to slow your brain down so that your mind is relaxed. That is much harder for me though!", "output": "Self-disclosure" }, { "input": "That sounds like a good plan! It also helps to make sure that it’s dark and very quiet. Surprisingly enough, when they did research on sleep disorders they found that a lot of people just needed quiet and darkness. ", "output": "Information" }, { "input": "Yep, I’ve tried a LOT of things. I’m currently struggling with this myself. I’m even trying out melatonin, tryptophan, and even CBD (not stoney weed oil)! So far no success, but I’m still trying!", "output": "Information" }, { "input": "It’s one of the reasons that it’s good to get outside. Your body makes melatonin from sunshine, so going for a walk outside helps in 2 ways!", "output": "Information" }, { "input": "Getting good sleep is critical. Supplementing with melatonin might help compensate for your lack of sunshine!", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "Glad I could help. ", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "Anytime. Is there anything else you wanted to discuss?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "My pleasure! Hope your day goes well. Sweet dreams!", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "Hello, how are you today? I will be glad to assist you.", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "Sorry to hear that. is it possible her job can give her light duties for a while ", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "I can understand your concern for your mom, you sound like a caring child..", "output": "Reflection of feelings" }, { "input": "If I am understanding you correctly, you feel your mom may not be able to sustain herself during her time of recovery, is that correct?", "output": "Restatement or Paraphrasing" }, { "input": "I totally understand. I have had to provide financial assistance in the past. A technique that worked for me was reviewing and tweaking my expenditures for a short period of time. ", "output": "Self-disclosure" }, { "input": "you are more than welcome. I hope your mom begins to feel better soon.", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "Your concern for your Mom is understandable. I can tell you are facing the fear just by thinking ahead as to how you can assist her. As you come up with workable solutions, hopefully your fear will diminish. You are doing a great job of being there for her. ", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "Good bye, Take care, and again i hope your Mom's recovery is quick and fast. ", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "Do you think sharing your ability to assist will ease her anxiety as she goes thru this? ", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "I feel the same way when i help others. i usually support with love, but at the same time, I am around the situation to know if i need to step up financially.", "output": "Self-disclosure" }, { "input": "Hi, I'm here to listen. What's going on?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "Wow, that's very hard. I would be anxious too.", "output": "Reflection of feelings" }, { "input": "I have. I was laid off. It was nerve-racking, but also really sad.", "output": "Self-disclosure" }, { "input": "I had a bit in savings, but I looked for new jobs mostly. I was on unemployment insurance for about a month before I found a new job.", "output": "Self-disclosure" }, { "input": "Have you made any plans yet about how to move forward?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "I can offer some suggestions if you would like. I know about a lot of resources", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "Well, falling back on savings while you look for more work is good for a while. If you have any food insecurity as a result, there are often local food banks. It's really not something to be embarrased about, so many people face food insecurity through no fault of their own.", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "You could also give a call to your local social services because they will be able to tell you what resources would be available, whether it's a vocational program or temporary assistance.", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "Well, if it's possible, I would talk to a doctor. If you're looking for Over-the-counter sleep medication, melatonin has helped me in the past. ", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "It defiitely helps me fall asleep.\n", "output": "Self-disclosure" }, { "input": "It's a natural sleep aid.\n", "output": "Information" }, { "input": "If something like that doesn't work, I would talk to a doctor. I know money will be tight though. Are there any free clinics near you?\n\n", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "Thank you. I hope you're feeling a bit better. Is there anything else you want to talk about?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "Alright, well I hope you have a good night. Good luck, you've got this!", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "Bye!", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "Hi there, how are you doing?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "I am okay. What would you like to talk to me about?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "Do you drink when you are at work?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "That does sound like it might be a big problem. How are your employers reacting? ", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "It sounds like you have a big problem that needs professional help, would you agree? ", "output": "Reflection of feelings" }, { "input": "I think it is likely to have been noticed though, at least. ", "output": "Information" }, { "input": "I think the best thing would be to be really honest with your employers and ask if you can have time off for professional help. ", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "Are you employers likely to be sympathetic?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "Ah people do love to idly gossip don't they? I've been through that myself. I know it's hard to ignore them but it's best to try. ", "output": "Self-disclosure" }, { "input": "I do not know if they can fire you if you have a legitimate medical problem though.", "output": "Information" }, { "input": "Well you could always shame them if they unfairly fired you. ", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "Large corporations are always over concerned about their images. (we have to talk for fifteen minutes :))", "output": "Information" }, { "input": "naw there's a time thing too :). Anyway, what sort of therapy do you think would be appropriate for you? ", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "To be honest, and I mean this sincerely, I've been through it :( ", "output": "Self-disclosure" }, { "input": "It can be very expensive though. In my country you can get it for free but there's a long waiting list. ", "output": "Information" }, { "input": "Heh be grateful :) ", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "Are you in the US? Our healthcare system is a little less rigid here I think (UK)", "output": "Information" }, { "input": "Ah you are a long way away from me. I hope that you do manage to sort out your problems though and definitely do talk to your employers", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "Ah it's quite nice here. We pay for healthcare out of our taxes so it's free at source. ", "output": "Information" }, { "input": "Gossipy people are the worst. Just remind yourself that they all have skeletons in their closets too ", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "Well anyway, I hope I have been able to offer your some useful advice. I wish you all of the very best in the future.", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "(can you press quit first and do the survey as I am not able to do it from my side)", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "Well thanks :) ", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "Hi there, how are you feeling today?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "I am sorry to hear that. I will help if I can - what is the matter?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "(Sorry I was afk) I am really sorry to hear that. Can you elaborate a bit?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "Is it one specific family member or all of them?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "Is the problem bad enough that you feel you would like to cut them off entirely? ", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "I am sorry, I was not trying to intrude :) ", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "It is a very big decision to make, but in some cases it is the best one. ", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "Is there any possibility of getting professional counselling or something before making the final decision?", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "I am glad you have someone to talk to! ", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "If a professional thinks that then maybe it really is the best thing to do. It seems unlikely they will change ", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "That sounds really bad. Making false accusations about people is evil. ", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "Okay that sounds really bizarre. I think you truly are better off without them ", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "The saying that we can choose our friends but not our family is very true. ", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "You're most welcome :) We need to keep talking till fifteen mins is up though. Is there anything else you'd like to talk about?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "No worries :). Please try not to fret too much about your problem - to be honest I have some weird family members too ", "output": "Self-disclosure" }, { "input": "Wow... that is seriously toxic. Definitely you should be away from them, it will improve your life a lot\n", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "Anyway I hope I have been able to be of help and I wish you all the best for the future! I think things will be better when you are free of them. ", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "you too :) Can you press quit and take the survey as for some reason I can't do it first my end ", "output": "Information" }, { "input": "bye :) ", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "Hi there, how are you feeling?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "I am in a good position to help you as I am in the same situation. Please know you are not alone. ", "output": "Self-disclosure" }, { "input": "I would definitely recommend seeking help sooner rather than later! ", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "Hello? Are you wanting to talk?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "What level of alcohol consumption do you have?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "Trust me everyone will be very sympathetic :). Everyone there will be in the same place", "output": "Information" }, { "input": "And the longer you keep drinking the more damage you are doing to yourself ", "output": "Information" }, { "input": "I am not sure how much half a gallon is to you ... I am in the UK and I know it differs between the US and UK :) ", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "You will be treated with respect at all times. ", "output": "Information" }, { "input": "You might even find that you make some new friends :) ", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "Ping :) ", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "I'd recommend online message boards\n", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "Anyway I hope I have been able to help and thank you for talking! ", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "Most welcome! Can you press quit first as alas I can't do it from my end till you have", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "just hit the quit button and fill out the survey :) Don't press return tho! \n", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "Hi there, how are you feeling today?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "I did not see that, I am sorry. Do you want to talk about it? It might help.", "output": "Reflection of feelings" }, { "input": "Is it affecting your work or your home life?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "Can you give me an example of something that has been affected recently?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "For instance, I had been putting off cleaning my house and then some friends dropped by without warning and I was mortified.", "output": "Self-disclosure" }, { "input": "That sounds bad. Have you considered you might be suffering from depression? ", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "You sound quite lethargic. I think you should see a GP?", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "Do you feel as though life is hopeless and there is no way forward?", "output": "Reflection of feelings" }, { "input": "Well that is something :) What are you looking forward to?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "What sort of goals have you set for yourself?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "Well that sounds very creative! You should definitely publish ", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "No no do it now. You might have written a best seller and not know it. ", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "You are more than welcome. I hope you feel a little reassured now. ", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "okay, can you press quit first as I am not able to do that from my end :).", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "We can't end the HIT till you press quit and take the survey :) ", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "Hello, my name is Rose, how are you today?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "What about your hair is embarrasing exactly? Curls seem like a lovely thing to have (mine is dead straight, lets trade lol) But no, seriously, what in particular don't you like about it?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "i admire people who have natural curls", "output": "Self-disclosure" }, { "input": "Oh I could see that being frustrating, if you can't keep them neat. ", "output": "Reflection of feelings" }, { "input": "is your hair short or long?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "have you thought of having it shorter, it might be easier to tame?", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "Just a thought....you say you always look like a mess...is that your personal opinion or has anyone else commented on your hair?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "have you asked a friend for an honest opinion?", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "I know I am my own worst enemy when it comes to my own appearance. ", "output": "Self-disclosure" }, { "input": "One thing I have started doing, since my hair hasn't been cut for a year due to pandemic, is wearing hats.", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "my hair is driving me crazy, so I get your frustration", "output": "Self-disclosure" }, { "input": "Is it long enough to braid?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "yay! a haircut!!! Congrats", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "one last suggestion: ask more stylists' opinions perhaps?", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "oh thankyou....had my shot yesterday....now I have to wait for our lockdown to expire (May 20) so I have a bit more shag to go\n", "output": "Self-disclosure" }, { "input": "Have you googled images for short curly hairstyles?", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "Second shot congrats!! Very exciting.", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "Pinterest is a great source for hairstyles as I recall...there are boards and boards of them. Good idea!", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "which vaccine did you get?", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "Hi there, let me get a deeper understanding of your existing sleep pattern. Do you suffer from insomnia or another type of sleep disorder? ", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "Okay, are you drinking enough water and eating a healthy diet? ", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "I like to analyze my own habits every now and then, it helps me stay in check. You can definitely benefit from meditating and self reflecting. ", "output": "Self-disclosure" }, { "input": "Of course! I always knock right out after a workout. But if you aren't able to, just simple things like turning all the lights off at the same time every night and laying in bed will help. It will align your circadian rhythm! ", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "It definitely is a valid reason to be kept awake. The only good part about something so horrible, is that you have the power to make sure you will continue to be a good person. If everyone was as empathetic as you, the world would be a better place. Thank you for caring so deeply about such a brutal matter. ", "output": "Reflection of feelings" }, { "input": "Kindness is contagious, and you definitely have a kind heart. As long as you remain soft in a hard world, people will recognize that and follow suit. The world is becoming more aware, and we have the power to raise future generations with more knowledge and love for one another. Caring doesn't come naturally to many unfortunately, but the ways of inspiring the people that don't care, are endless. We as a society can definitely think of more ways to care for one another. \n", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "I worry about my sons and husband and father all the time... I shift my focus on loving them and cherishing every moment we have together. Police or not, the time we have is not promised.. ", "output": "Self-disclosure" }, { "input": "A hot cup of tea never hurt too! But in all seriousness, I can completely understand your sleep troubles. It is much deeper than just that. Perspective is the key to life. You are a strong and empathetic soul. ", "output": "Reflection of feelings" }, { "input": "That is so beautifully true \n", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "That is good, lavender baths or showers will also ease and relax the troubled mind. ", "output": "Information" }, { "input": "I like to relax with a book and a blanket sometimes too. ", "output": "Self-disclosure" }, { "input": "Self care is definitely something we can overlook accidentally. Being self aware is a daily practice.", "output": "Information" }, { "input": "It is good that we spoke today, I am going to hug my sons a little harder when I see them tonight. ", "output": "Self-disclosure" }, { "input": "Hell, How can I help?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "Initially, I used to feel like that and never shared my camera but I know I can do all the time.", "output": "Information" }, { "input": "When I saw many people were sharing camera and they didnt care about anything - few sitting in room full of mess but they dint care.", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "correct - it is just our mind thing which stops us not to share but once you start sharing you will feel confident.", "output": "Information" }, { "input": "Once you dont care what people think you will be more confident.", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "You will also be used to it", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "You can also try different backgrounds in Zoom which will improve the way you will look.", "output": "Information" }, { "input": "Correct - you can start with your colleagues and then slowly you will start sharing in other meetings.", "output": "Information" }, { "input": "no problem - practice always helps. Start small and then go big.", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "I am nearly 50 as well. People over 50s looks better and I am sure your appearance is good as well. It is just thinking.", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "It is all inside and outside appearance doesnt matter", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "All people over 50s are graceful - honest opinion.", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "No worries about anything and enjoy life.", "output": "Information" }, { "input": "100% agreed - Initially, all looks difficult but by the time all becomes easy and we become so used to it.", "output": "Information" }, { "input": "yes this will be over soon and we are also used to it.", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "100% agreed - In person is always way better than remote", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "I am sure it will be under control before end of 2021 - Optimistic.", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "we just have to wait and follow all the guidelines.", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "pls let me know if you need any help on sharing camera", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "No need to worry and I am sure you will be able to overcome this.", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "I had same issue with my sleep pattern and I did few things such as stretching exercise one hour before sleep.", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "I used few from plate but you can any like arms, legs and etc - full body stretching.", "output": "Information" }, { "input": "It was really good and I also did lot of physical work throughout the day which helped a lot in falling a sleep at night.\n", "output": "Information" }, { "input": "Few other tips - life style changes, breathing exercise, reduce screen use, reduce stress, being more active.", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "Yes You don't have to try all but just start with two to three first like breathing exercise, stretching and reduce screen usage.", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "I am sure you will see the difference in few days after trying these.", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "After trying these my sleep patterns improved a lot - I am still doing it.", "output": "Information" }, { "input": "Please let me know if you need any further help.", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "Amazing feeling when you have sound sleep", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "Hope suggestion I have given enough if not please let me know if you need any more help.", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "How are you feeling today?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "I am glad to hear that I am fine as well. How can I help you?", "output": "Restatement or Paraphrasing" }, { "input": "I am sorry to hear that. How can I help you deal with the bullies? Can you stand up to them in a safe way?", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "I understand your concern, but I feel you have to tell them that you do not deserve to be bullied and they need to stop now.", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "Do you need any more advice on this matter or do you have any other concerns? The bully is the problem, not you. Do you have anyone who can stand up to them with you for support?", "output": "Information" }, { "input": "Have your fiance approach them with you so you are safe. Be strong and firm and do this in a very public area if possible so you have witnesses.", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "Do you have a meeting place where you feel safe?", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "I hope this is all behind you soon so you can feel better.", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "When will this meeting take place?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "Please take care and stay safe. Are you nervous?", "output": "Reflection of feelings" }, { "input": "I am so glad to hear this. Good luck!", "output": "Self-disclosure" }, { "input": "You are welcome!", "output": "Reflection of feelings" }, { "input": "You too!", "output": "Reflection of feelings" }, { "input": "Sometimes even every day tasks can seem overwhelming. Do you have an idea of what makes you put off the dishes?\n", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "How long have you been hesitant to start?\n", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "I get it. Sometimes I find dishes so overwhelming that I will let them pile up. Maybe together we can figure out a way to break it into smaller tasks.", "output": "Self-disclosure" }, { "input": "It is so hard to figure out where to start sometimes. Ok, I'll help with a plan. Maybe you can glance at the dishes and pull out the largest one that is dirty. Let's start there.\n", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "yes, starting with the large pot would be a great place to start! Good thinking!", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "Well, washing the pot will make the overall task look smaller. Then, let's pick a second type of dish to focus on. After you wash the large pot, try to focus on larger bowls, then plates and cups. You could leave the silverware for last.", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "I am always happy to help. I find it difficult sometimes too.\n", "output": "Self-disclosure" }, { "input": "I really think you are figure out how to get through this and help your anxiety.", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "Yes, I have. I often look at work assignments as larger than they are and can only get started when I break them down.", "output": "Self-disclosure" }, { "input": "I really think you have done great job figuring out how to tackle the task that is causing you anxiety.", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "So, I see that you get how to do this with this task, but it is still hard to figure out how to conquer tasks that aren't physical like dishes.", "output": "Restatement or Paraphrasing" }, { "input": "Hello, how is your feeling now?\n", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "It sounds like your daughter does not understand your feelings.", "output": "Restatement or Paraphrasing" }, { "input": "I had similar situations. I had to tell my son to dress appropriately too.", "output": "Self-disclosure" }, { "input": "Before you do that, d\nid you communicate with her directly and express your concerns?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "I totally understand how you feel. Take a deep breath and it can help you feel better.", "output": "Information" }, { "input": "So sorry to hear this. I do think professional counselling can help.", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "From our short conversation, I can feel the weights on your shoulder.", "output": "Reflection of feelings" }, { "input": "Yes, you have done very well. Don't get discouraged.", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "Yes, please do. I also suggest youself watch some motivation videos online such as Jon Jandia's \"life is easy\".\n", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "Life is easy. We made it too complicated.", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "Yes, it is a good idea. Also tell her those clothes do not make her a different person. She can look at the mirror and she will see she is still the same no matter what clothes she wears.", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "You are very welcome, good luck for everything.", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "Take care, bye for now.", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "How is your feeling now?\n\n", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "It seems that you are feeling blue and upset by others, right?\n", "output": "Restatement or Paraphrasing" }, { "input": "From the short conversation, I can feel how sad you are.", "output": "Reflection of feelings" }, { "input": "What kind of arguments did you have with your mom?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "I had similar situation like yours. My mom did not want me to make friends with some people. ", "output": "Self-disclosure" }, { "input": "I just had good conversations with my mom to express my thoughts. Did you have a frank chat with your mom to express your concerns?", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "Take a deep breath and it can make you feel better.", "output": "Information" }, { "input": "What are her concerns about your friends?\n", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "ok, that's good. tell me more about your mom's concerns of your friends.", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "My mom told me similar concerns before. It is understandable.", "output": "Self-disclosure" }, { "input": "My suggestion is that tell her these facts and she can make a better decision. I think she assumed your friends are bad influencers just based on their family background.\n ", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "Yes, a good idea, it pleases her.", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "You are welcome. Hope it will go well.", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "Hi! How are you today?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "That sounds really hard! Does that mean things tend to escalate quickly in your home?", "output": "Restatement or Paraphrasing" }, { "input": "That sounds really challenging. I grew up in a home with a lot of yelling, and after a few years it just became our default for communicating with each other. I really regret that we didn't do anything to change the pattern sooner.", "output": "Self-disclosure" }, { "input": "What have you tried to break the pattern so far?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "That sounds like you're trying really hard to set a good example.", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "It also sounds like you think they may have learned that yelling is okay from their schools. Is that right?", "output": "Restatement or Paraphrasing" }, { "input": "I understand that - I've spent a lot of time trying to teach myself to be better than the home I grew up in", "output": "Self-disclosure" }, { "input": "Ahaha exactly!", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "I don't have kids of my own, but I've been trying to learn from my friends who do have kids", "output": "Self-disclosure" }, { "input": "One of my friends who has a really peaceful household maintains a high standard of speaking to her kids like adults and only engaging in conversation when they're speaking respectfully", "output": "Information" }, { "input": "I really like how she does that - only engaging in respectful conversation and not letting the yelling escalate", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "I work with kids sometimes, too, and it seems like they all just want to be big kids and be treated that way, too", "output": "Information" }, { "input": "It's so hard! Who can be a full-time parent and best friend and take care of your own life, too", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "It sounds like you have the best intentions, and you're working really hard on it ", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "It can be so hard, so frustrating, and so easy to revert to those habits we both grew up with", "output": "Reflection of feelings" }, { "input": "I have a co-worker who has kids with special needs, and she has this great phrase for working with her kids", "output": "Information" }, { "input": "She says, \"is this a small feeling or a big feeling?\" and then, \"Are you having a big reaction, or a small reaction?\", and it really helps her kids self-soothe", "output": "Information" }, { "input": "She's also taught them that if they're being mean to mom (taking something else out on her), they're allowed to say, \"I'm sorry, I'm not acting or feeling my best right now, and I'm going to take a minute to myself.\" Do you think your kids might relate to that?", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "Yea, exactly! Trying to teach her kids that it makes more sense for their reactions to be more proportionate to their feelings and to the importance of a situation. It's really helped her address tantrums and help her kids be more self-aware", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "Ahahahah. I believe in you!", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "Just the mom to a kid with autism. She's had to learn a lot of special skills!", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "Happy to be a helpful random stranger to you!", "output": "Self-disclosure" }, { "input": "Good luck!", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "I'll be thinking of you :)", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "I'm Marissa", "output": "Self-disclosure" }, { "input": "Of course, I would love to hear what is going on.\n", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "What would you like to discuss?\n", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "That is great! I am sure so many people would benefit from the advice and outlook.\n", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "It seems like it might be overwhelming for you to begin. Maybe you can start small, like think of ideas or maybe just start writing 10 minutes a day.", "output": "Reflection of feelings" }, { "input": "Everybody has a story and we can all learn from others. You don't need to a famous but just honest with what you have learned from your life.", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "Maybe you can start with a part of your life that you do feel passionate about first. I know for me, it's easier to start with something I enjoy the most.", "output": "Self-disclosure" }, { "input": "Yes, I understand it is easy to get frustrated with a lack of motivation.", "output": "Self-disclosure" }, { "input": "I am happy to help. Sometimes what we need is someone who affirms our dreams.", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "I haven't, I'm not much of a writer. However, who knows in the future. ", "output": "Self-disclosure" }, { "input": "Oh, I definitely feel frustrated with myself when I was to start a project and don't have the energy or motivation to go through with it. This has happened on many home projects or craft project. Or even with losing weight and make healthy decisions.", "output": "Self-disclosure" }, { "input": "No, I am glad you asked. It is important to be honest and learn from others.", "output": "Self-disclosure" }, { "input": "Well, I hope I encouraged you a little to keep going and start you book, at least a part you enjoy. ", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "You are welcome. Good luck with your book.", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "Haha, yes, sometimes listening to ourselves can be the hardest!", "output": "Reflection of feelings" }, { "input": "Good bye!", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "Can you talk more about your feelings now?\n", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "I can completely understand your feelings. I can feel how stressed out you are about your weight.", "output": "Reflection of feelings" }, { "input": "Did you try doing more exercises and control your diet? ", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "I have experienced similar situation. I talked to a consultant and he gave me some good advice on diet. Did you talk to a professional?\n", "output": "Self-disclosure" }, { "input": "I talked to a nutritionist and it really helped. They are professionals who can look into your diet and give suggestions. ", "output": "Self-disclosure" }, { "input": "Can you hire a nanny and free your time?", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "Were you able to eliminate those foods?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "Some gym provides free day care and you can drop to their day care before you start exercises. ", "output": "Information" }, { "input": "Did you consider moving to cheaper locations?", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "yes, I can completely understand your situation. Just from chatting with you, I can see how many things are on your plates.", "output": "Reflection of feelings" }, { "input": "Did you guys seek professional help on relationship?", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "Hello my name is Sharon, how are you today? :)", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "Oh I see. What's happening with your son?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "Oh that's hard to deal with. My daughter ran with a bad crowd for a while and I remember the deep worry.", "output": "Self-disclosure" }, { "input": "What sort of behaviour are you noticing? How old is he?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "And when you try and talk to him about it what does he say?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "Oh I see. Apart from isolating how is he doing otherwise, like at school? Is he still seeing his friends at all?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "It can be scary not knowing what our kids are up to online.", "output": "Reflection of feelings" }, { "input": "Hmm. So a lot of mystery. I can understand you being worried. Is he your only child?", "output": "Reflection of feelings" }, { "input": "Thats good parenting! Perhaps if you frame it as being about you, e.g. \"I am getting really worried, can you please explain....it's affecting me (affecting my sleep/work/whatever\" .... maybe it will inspire him to be more forthcoming", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "Any signs of depression? I have been depresed before, and self-isolating can be a symptom, I've been there...", "output": "Information" }, { "input": "Hmm. My other thought is tell him what you just told me, that you have been trying to show him that you trust him....but be honest and tell him you are afraid. Hopefully, he won't want you feeling that way, and will open up a bit.", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "Yes I can see that being concerning when you know nothing about the friend. Yet you walk a fine line because he needs the freedom and autonomy to choose his friends without explanation required...it's such a balancing act. I can tell you that I have raised a daughter, and that teen years were tougher than toddlerhood. Lots of worry, but she came through it and is fine now.", "output": "Self-disclosure" }, { "input": "I wonder if there is a teacher he is close to that you could bring your concerns to, perhaps the teacher may have some insight about yoru son to offer?", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "Oh good. And it may be just a normal part of his development. Teens pull away from parents, peer group becomes far more important. It may be as simple as that.", "output": "Information" }, { "input": "It took my daughter about 15 years to \"come back to me\" and now we have a close relationship again....so even if he seems to be drifting away know that it's normal and that will change in the future.", "output": "Self-disclosure" }, { "input": "And in the meantime remember to take extra good care of yourself :) Sometimes as moms we forget to do special things for ourselves. You are doing the hardest and most imporant job in the world so it's important to recognize that and reward yourself for it. I hope that conversation goes well for you, that you will have with him.", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "Oh you're so welcome, it's been a pleasure speaking with you.", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "bye :)", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "Hello how are you doing today?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "I'm sorry to hear that you are sad and anxious. Do you know what is causing you to feel that way?", "output": "Restatement or Paraphrasing" }, { "input": " I can only imagine how sad you feel from losing your best friend. Hopefully chatting some will help. I know in the past when I lost someone it was nice to just have a conversation to help put my mind at ease.", "output": "Restatement or Paraphrasing" }, { "input": "I can imagine that you are feeling lonely. Did you have any mutual friends with your best friend that you can reach out to? I am sure they are feeling the same way and it could help both of you to talk to each other and share stories.", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "It sounds like you were really close to your best friend. It can take time to get through the grief of losing someone. Things will get better I promise.", "output": "Reflection of feelings" }, { "input": "I lost my father when I was 19. That was pretty tough and it took me years to be OK with it. There are still days a decade later where I think about him and miss him. ", "output": "Self-disclosure" }, { "input": "Time heals all wounds. While that doesn't sound helpful now it is true. I also found focusing on the good experiences I had with my father (or in this case your best friend) helps. Remembering the times where you both were happy. ", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "That's a tough one. I personally still struggle with sleep for other reasons. Some things that can help is taking melatonin 30 minutes before bed. I have also had some luck with white noise machines or other soothing sound machines. The biggest thing is to not use your bedroom for anything but sleeping; so don't read a book or play on your phone in bed, you have to train your body that when you go to bed it is time to sleep. ", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "Having a bedtime routine is also another tip. Try to do the same thing every night before bed. Have a consistent bedtime, wake up around the same time everyday, even on days that you don't have to go to work.", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "Yes, phone's are tough to give up but soooo many studies show how bad they are for your sleep. ", "output": "Restatement or Paraphrasing" }, { "input": "I believe in you though, you will get through this.", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "You are welcome. I am sorry for your loss and I hope for the best for you.", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "Hello how are you today?", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "I understand that you are feeling down and blue and that isn't good. What is making you feel down and blue do you think?\n", "output": "Restatement or Paraphrasing" }, { "input": "I've struggled with alcohol before too and understand how tough it is to not drink especially during a tough time like after losing a job. Don't beat yourself up, it's only natural and you have the power to get through this trying time.", "output": "Self-disclosure" }, { "input": "How long ago did you lose your job?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "My advice is to try to talk to your family and explain to them that you lost your job and are feeling down. While they may not accept it at first it is a good start to try to give them some context for why you are drinking.", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "Alcohol is a way of self medicating; some people find it helpful to talk to a doctor to get an actual prescription for a medication to help. I personally stopped drinking once my doctor found the correct medication for me. That allowed me to be happy without drinking.", "output": "Information" }, { "input": "Talk to who you feel most comfortable with. Start off easy. Hopefully they can help you then talk to the other parent. I am sure your parents have once had a period in life where they were down and blue and can relate to what you are going through.", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "You are welcome. Best of luck! \n", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "I believe you have to end the conversation as I am not able to. I am here to keep on talking too if you would like.", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "I have done both; I have gone periods of 6-12 months having nothing to drink and then when I could control it I would allow myself to have drinks on special occasions. I tried not to drink during the week and only once on the weekend at most.\n", "output": "Self-disclosure" }, { "input": "You are welcome. Have a nice day!", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "Hi! It seems someone in the family is having sleeping issues. Correct me if I am wrong", "output": "Restatement or Paraphrasing" }, { "input": "Sorry to here about it. It must be hard for you to see her in trouble. ", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "May I ask What happen to her. ", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "I can feel how stressed you are right now but she will recover fast. ", "output": "Reflection of feelings" }, { "input": "When my kid have cold, I nebulize her and later it make her sleep well", "output": "Self-disclosure" }, { "input": "Some people says giving green tea helps in cold.", "output": "Information" }, { "input": "Taking steamed shower helps in cold as well. You can try that too. I will pray for her speedy recovery.", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "Mt best wishes are there with you. Be positive she will sleep well and recover soon.", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "Hey, how are you today?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "It sounds like you're having a rough day. ", "output": "Reflection of feelings" }, { "input": "Anything in particular happened? ", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "I get that. Some days are just meh, but nights can feel especially lonely. ", "output": "Reflection of feelings" }, { "input": "I've felt like that too. The business of the day makes you forget, then it's time for bed and you remember. ", "output": "Self-disclosure" }, { "input": "It sounds like your day to day gets very lonely. ", "output": "Reflection of feelings" }, { "input": "Dogs or pets in general really help to alleviate depression. ", "output": "Information" }, { "input": "I'm sorry to hear that. Do you have any friends to talk to or groups about it you can join?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "Exactly! Dogs really do love you no matter what. ", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "Personally, I have a betta fish, but he seems happy to see me.", "output": "Self-disclosure" }, { "input": "That's great! The first step in recovery is reaching out for help. You're doing the right thing.", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "I'm glad he doesn't need to walk, but I'm sure the fresh air is nice.", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "I know it can feel like you're a bother, but you aren't. I'm glad you're reaching out to those who care. ", "output": "Reflection of feelings" }, { "input": "I feel like that too. It's easy to feel \"strong\" for holding it in, but it's just as strong to let those feelings out.", "output": "Self-disclosure" }, { "input": "Well, stronger. I'm sorry. I hope that made sense", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "I'm glad. Things are tough but you can do it! Moment to moment is easier than a day at a time.", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "I hope you do too. Keep reaching out when you need it.", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "Hello my name is Sue, how are you today?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "Why are you sleepy? Long day?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "Oh I see, so you aren't getting enough sleep am I right?", "output": "Restatement or Paraphrasing" }, { "input": "What typically happens when you try to go to sleep? Is it hard to quiet your mind?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "Not sleeping well is a problem I have on and off as well, and I have found those next days so tiring and frustrating. If you like I can share some of the things that have helped me?", "output": "Self-disclosure" }, { "input": "I use this great free podcast called Tracks to Relax, it has guided meditations that really help me get to sleep. The seem to shut down my mind when I am thinking too much at bedtime. Which can happen to me some nights, anxieties can keep me awake.", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "The host's voice is super soothing and he spirits you away to the beach or the woods and before you know it you're out!", "output": "Information" }, { "input": "I also have strict bedtime/waketime that I follow, it's set up on my cellphone. No more sleepign in, because that just made it harder for me to get to sleep the next night.", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "um I think there may be a website but I found it by opening up the Podcast app on my phone and doing a search.. There are premium options but I just use the free stuff", "output": "Information" }, { "input": "do you use spotify?\n", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "um i am not sure let me check real quickly, one moment", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "yes it is! you are welcome", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "The reason I brought up spotify is that sometimes I listen to a playlist on there called \"Gentle Lapping Waves\" which is super relaxing...and I set my cellphone to turn it off after half an hour or so. As for Tracks to Relax I think most are about 40 minutes? To be honest I am not sure. I fall asleep midway through hehe", "output": "Information" }, { "input": "do you have someone you can talk to about your anxieties like a counsellor?", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "OH another trick I use to get the thoughts \"out of my head\" is journaling. You are so welcome, it's been a pleasure talking with you. All the best in your quest for a good night's sleep :)", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "you as well :)\n", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "Hi! How are you doing? ", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "I'm sorry to hear that. What about it is making you anxious? ", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "That definitely would make someone anxious. ", "output": "Reflection of feelings" }, { "input": "Do you want advice, or would you just like me to be here for you?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "Of course. It might help to do something that relaxes you: listening to music, or maybe talking to a friend.", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "Maybe, you can practice some self affirmation too! If you studied and paid attention, you know you can do your best on the test.", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "Sometimes, when you've done all you can do, it helps to rewind.", "output": "Information" }, { "input": "You sound like a good student, I know you'll do your best", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "I know it can be frustrating when we don't do well, but that's ok.", "output": "Reflection of feelings" }, { "input": "Of course! If you're done talking, feel free to end the session\n", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "Okay, whenever you're ready.", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "I know you'll try very hard! Relax so you can do your best", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "I agree. It can stress you out more when you're already stressed.\n", "output": "Information" }, { "input": "Yes, people do better on tests when they are well rested.", "output": "Information" }, { "input": "It sounds like you're on the right track! Keep it up.", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "Have a nice day/night/evening!", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "That is unfortunate to hear; is this a usual difficulty at night?\n", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "It is most uncomfortable when you cannot feel secure in your bed for sleep.\n", "output": "Reflection of feelings" }, { "input": "Some nights I have suffered from feeling as you describe.", "output": "Self-disclosure" }, { "input": "Have you discussed this with anyone you feel close with? ", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "In my situation, I met a small pet dog I became close with; he does not like to sleep alone either, so we are now close and keep each other company at night to sleep.\n", "output": "Information" }, { "input": "Do you think a small pet would be of any comfort to your situation?\n", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "I understand everyone has their preference about pets or animals. \n", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "A cat is a sweet companion and also like to sleep comfortable with people at night. \n", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "I feel alone sometime as well, so do not feel misunderstood. I believe it may be natural for us to feel this way from time to time.\n", "output": "Reflection of feelings" }, { "input": "Hopefully, having a new friend who also enjoys sleeping will assist you with this particular disrbance.\n", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "Hopefully, having a new friend who also enjoys sleeping will assist you with this particular disrbance.\n", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "Have you ever considered an online friend to chat with before going to bed to help to keep you company? ", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "This has helped me to calm my mind in the past, since sometimes they can also relieve their mind with you before they sleep as well. Just as we are talking now.\n", "output": "Self-disclosure" }, { "input": "Do you think this may be a relatable way to help soothe your mind before sleeping?\n", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "There are many different people to chat with and know. Many friendly and funny ones too.", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "Hi! Hope you are doing great! How can I assist you?\n", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "I looks like you have hard time in sleeping. Correct me if I am wrong.\n", "output": "Restatement or Paraphrasing" }, { "input": "Are you working late at night? is that the reason you want to sleep at day time.\n", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "I can totally understand how you feel without proper sleep. Our body need full rest to function well.", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "As far as I understand that you don't have long sound sleep. \n", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "May I know your schedule please. Just wanted to know how intense is your work and trying to analyze the reason behind sleeplessness.", "output": "Reflection of feelings" }, { "input": "When I feel restless and want to sleep well, I take warm shower before sleeping and it helps me. At day time try to keep your bedroom dark so you can sleep for longer.", "output": "Self-disclosure" }, { "input": "Enough sleep is very important for good health. ", "output": "Information" }, { "input": "Some people put soothing soft music to make them sleep too. Have you ever tried that?", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "Hope it will help you. Do you any any other help?\n", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "sure! Have a wonderful sleep ahead\n", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "Bye! You may submit the test now", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "Hello, my name is Amber, how are you doing?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "What's been happening?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "Is part of that the weight gain from pregnancy? And what sort of mental health challenges are you having? Both of these problems are very common for new mothers.", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "I'm sorry to hear you are going through this, it sounds like a very tough time for you.", "output": "Reflection of feelings" }, { "input": "Oh that is understandable. I am a mother, and remember worrying about the same thing.", "output": "Self-disclosure" }, { "input": "I can tell you from personal experience that loose skin, stretch marks, and loosening of \"other parts\" do all self correct with time. You will feel better about your body again when they do.", "output": "Information" }, { "input": "I was fortunate not to experience depresion. But I totally went through self doubt, wondering if I was being a good enough mother, and feeling \"not up to\" the task....it's the hardest job in the world, being a mom, and so exhausting the first while.", "output": "Self-disclosure" }, { "input": "Have you spoken to your doctor about how depressed you are feeling?", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "Antidepressants can take a couple of weeks to kick in, I am on them too; I hope you will find them helpful. It's hard waiting for them to work!", "output": "Information" }, { "input": "Do you have someone helping you with the baby or are you a single mom?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "The best advice I can share from my experience as a new mom was find someone to give you breaks. Whether that be a partner, a friend, a family member, or even a baby sitter if that's possible. Its important to take time to rest and recharge an nurture yourself, whether that be a nap, a bubble bath, a walk or whatever has made you feel good in the past.", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "Oh that's a long shift...I'm glad you have someone at home to help when he can. It may seem impossible but you are stronger than you think...you've got this", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "hey that's great that you had a road trip! And yes it's hard to trust someone else with our wee ones...but so necessary both for you and for your marriage too", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "I have one other suggestion before I go, have you any mother and baby groups in your area? Something you may want to research. It's been a pleasure speaking with you, you are so welcome. Know that as hard as it is, these feelings can be a normal experience for a new mother, and you will get through it.", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "Thank you you too!\n", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "Hello\n", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "I am so sorry to hear.", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "That is nerve wrecking. Did you try to comfort her and tell her that you are there to help her out.", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "I love your patience level and would like to keep it going.", "output": "Restatement or Paraphrasing" }, { "input": "Patience is the key and she will understand eventually. She will be ready to take help. ", "output": "Reflection of feelings" }, { "input": "I understand your heavy burden however some kids face these problems and we as parents guide them so that they come out with flying colors.", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "You are a warrior and you need to fight off the worrisome and motivate yourself to help you kiddo.", "output": "Self-disclosure" }, { "input": "Wow that is a good sign atleast she is coming to you to vent out. That is were you need to punch in an opportunity to seek help from a professional and convince her in such a way she will come down and accept it.", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "You have such a good heart so hang in there she will come to you with a bang.", "output": "Reflection of feelings" }, { "input": "Is there any way you could move to her city for a while and help her out. If so she will not skip any appointment and it will help her way.", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "That is understandable. Is there any option she can move in with you so you offer help.", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "Sorry to hear that I thought close contact will make her vigil and makes her more responsible.", "output": "Reflection of feelings" }, { "input": "Oh very nice to hear and super proud of her. I would like to thank you as well.", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "You were directly and indirectly helping her.", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "You are very welcome. Strong and Beautiful.", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "Bye", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "Hello, good morning! How are you today?", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "I would be happy to listen and help if I can :)", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "When did you notice you had a problem with alcohol?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "How many beer a day do you typically drink?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "I see. So if I understand correctly, you are concerned because you are drinking more than you used to, more frequently, and you are afraid you cannot stop? And it's affecting you financially?", "output": "Restatement or Paraphrasing" }, { "input": "It's really great that you have the insight to see that it may be a problem...that awareness is the most important first step!", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "I haven't experienced addictions but I have been supporting my daughter with her addiction for many years, and I have seen how challenging it's been for her.", "output": "Self-disclosure" }, { "input": "She has found AA very helpful, and gets a lot of support from her peers there. Have you tried going to an AA meeting?", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "The thing about AA is everyone in the room will be understanding and nonjudgemental and supportive. And you can learn from them what has worked for them. And it's okay to sit quietly and just listen, you are not forced to participate actively.", "output": "Information" }, { "input": "And...it's anonymous! They have a code, outside meetings nobody is to disclose that you were there.", "output": "Information" }, { "input": "I can understand that being scary, keeping your job is essential.", "output": "Reflection of feelings" }, { "input": "Whereabouts are you? (I'm in CAnada)", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "Oh!! I just remembered. My daughter goes to meetings virtually because of the pandemic. I am pretty sure there would also be virtual AA meetings in the UK, via Zoom", "output": "Information" }, { "input": "Hmm I am afraid I don't, have you tried a google search? That's a great idea, to find an online program of some sort, if AA does not appeal to you. And no, there are no fees, AA is completely free.", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "And, you can get a sponsor, do you know about that?", "output": "Information" }, { "input": "My daughter has a sponsor, it's an important part of AA (and optional). Her sponsor has been clean for over 20 years. She is there to support my daughter, and help her work her way through learning the 12 steps. Beacuse she's been through it, her sponsor is very understanding and supportive.", "output": "Information" }, { "input": "I wish you all the best in your journey. You are doing all the right things in both recognizing that you have a problem, and seeking information on ways to deal with it. I admire your insight.", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "You are welcome, it was a pleasure speaking with you. All the best! You can do it :)", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "Bye :)\n", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "Hello, my name is Carolyn. How are you feeling today?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "I'm a bit tired too to be honest! Is there anything you'd like to talk about today? I'm ready to listen :)", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "I see. Are you finding it hard to function on not enough sleep? I have experienced that at times as well, and found it quite frustrating!", "output": "Self-disclosure" }, { "input": "How much sleep are you getting now? Do you keep irregular sleep hours, e.g. the time you go to bed and get up?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "I used to be a night owl, going to bed early in the morning. I reset my schedule very gradually. I went to bed 15 minutes earlier, and set an alarm for 8 hours later. I did that for 3 days, then I would ratchet it back another 15 minutes. It was a gradual process and the only way I could fix it.", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "Are you getting any exercise during the daytime?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "Even a walk may help you sleep...I know it does for me, Jump ropes are a great idea! I was advised it's better to exercise earlier in the day, not too close to bedtime or it can affect sleep.", "output": "Information" }, { "input": "Do you have trouble getting to sleep or waking up in the night? Or is it more a case of just not feeling rested after your sleep?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "I see. Sleep problems are very common you certainly aren't alone in this. With some changes I am confidant you can improve your sleep.", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "I listen to a really good podcast called Tracks to Relax. It's guided meditation that helps me deeply relax before I sleep.", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "sometimes I use it in the middle of the night too, if I can't fall back asleep!", "output": "Self-disclosure" }, { "input": "Have you tried meditation before bed?", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "Is your room dark? Light blocking curtains can help.", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "And a small snack of carbs, like a peice of toast or some cereal, before bed can help too. As you can see I have tried many things myself as I too have had sleep issues.", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "I certainly know how feeling tired can impact one's life, I have found it frustrating when I have a lot to do and just don't have the energy.", "output": "Reflection of feelings" }, { "input": "You are very welcome, it's been a pleasure talking with you :)", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "Take care Nicholas! You as well.", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "Hi. How are you?\n", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "Thats great! How are you feeling?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "I know that things have been hard during this pandemic for a lot of people.", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "Mixed feelings have you been having? It's completely normal and understandable to have them. ", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "Sometimes when you are having mixed feelings, you can try writing them down on a piece of paper. This can help you identify how you are feeling.", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "I could understand how difficult that must be for you. You could try taking a walk outside and getting some fresh air. Fresh air can always help to clear your mind. ", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "Does doing art work help you to feel better usually?", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "You can try to immerse yourself in something you really enjoy doing. Sometimes if you smile while doing things, it can help you to feel better. ", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "You're so welcome. I really hope you get back to feeling better soon, Stay safe and have a great rest of your week. Come back if you need any support.", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "Thank you so much. I am genuinely happy to help. It was nice to meet you as well. ", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "You too, goodbye, ", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "Are u overthinker?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "I can feel your feelings .. Get yourself tired for something like workouts, House cleaning and traveling . These things made you tired to sleep.", "output": "Reflection of feelings" }, { "input": "Do you have any past ?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "Like lover or favorite person?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "OK let try to stop thinking about the person by making interest and spent times with dog or other pets", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "Ohh.. Did you ever tried to talk with them?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "Let try to ask them to be friends . say them just forget our old life be friends or feel your self meet me for the first time", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "or try sleeping piles to sleep .", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "You are always welcome", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "Wait", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "Try to sleep with friends or made a new person to forget your past", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "Like opposite sex", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "sure you will get best result.", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "make interest", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "thankyou bye", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "Hi! Hope you are doing well today?\n", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "You have some work related deadlines and you are worried about that. Correct me if I am wrong.", "output": "Restatement or Paraphrasing" }, { "input": "That must be really hard, but I know you will finish it on time.", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "It seems it must be very challenging for you. ", "output": "Reflection of feelings" }, { "input": "In such situation, I make the strategy by distributing the time and work load equally. That's how I stay energetic and motivated.. ", "output": "Self-disclosure" }, { "input": "Take a rough estimate like how much can be done in a day. It will reduce your work load\n", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "Apparently when we start working on such project, things start coming at right place itself. ", "output": "Information" }, { "input": "Don't think too much about the remaining, just focus on what you are doing presently.", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "Try to take shot break or do deep breathing in middle. It will help you in staying energetic and focused.", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "Sure! :)", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "That's Great! Best wishes for you.", "output": "Restatement or Paraphrasing" }, { "input": "No, don't say that. There are people that are listening\n", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "Are there problems you would like to talk about?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "Why don't you feel like you belong? We're all human :). Have you been having these feelings for a long time?", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "That's okay for you to have those feelings. The fact that you reached out shows you are getting somewhere.", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "It seems you would like to make progress with your problems. Would you like to discuss them more?\n \n", "output": "Reflection of feelings" }, { "input": "Hello there, how are you today?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "Ah that can be a very difficult age. Is it anything specific or just general?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "Well ... to be honest it doesn't sound very terrible. Most children that age do things like that ;) ", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "Well, it is a bit anti social but there are a lot of worse things she could be doing :) I was pretty slobby at that age too ", "output": "Self-disclosure" }, { "input": "Ah that's a bad combination. I hear you on the menopause thing. Do you think maybe it is making you more touchy? It is me! ", "output": "Self-disclosure" }, { "input": "Have you thought of offering rewards if she smartens up a bit?", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "I think that once she hits puberty she will probably change her feelings about showering etc a lot :). ", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "Teenagers tend to get very very involved in their appearance :D I used to spend an hour in the shower each day ", "output": "Self-disclosure" }, { "input": "Perhaps you could gently explain to her why it's anti social to not shower for a week? ", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "Ah you have all the fun of her teenage years to look forward to. I would not go through that again :D ", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "Well that is definitely something!! ", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "Maybe try to help her take pride in her appearance? Give her some make up lessons?", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "I think that's pretty normal for a tweenage girl :) She's probably starting to be interested in make up and things ", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "I don't either to be honest but a lot of young girls are interested in it ", "output": "Self-disclosure" }, { "input": "Are her friends a good influence on her/", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "Maybe you could treat her to a new haircut, give her a new pride in herself? ", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "Oh of course I had forgotten about the pandemic. It seems ages since we had normal life! ", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "Well I hope I have been able to be of help and it has been nice to talk to you!", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "Heh I promise you are not :) ", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "Thanks for talking! (can you press quit first, I can't do it from my end :)) ", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "have a nice rest of day :) ", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "Hello there, how are you feeling today? ", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "I am sorry to hear that. Do you want to tell me about it?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "I see. Can you be more specific? A lot of people are insecure about their looks you know. ", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "How old are you if you don't mind my asking? This is a common thing among young people. ", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "I see. Well can you tell me what specific part of your appearance do you hate? Maybe it could be altered?", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "Well, I have been overweight and I know it sucks. Perhaps you could join a weight loss group?", "output": "Self-disclosure" }, { "input": "Well you should be proud of the progress! Maybe buy yourself some new clothes?", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "Or have a new haircut or something :) ", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "Is it just your weight that bothers you about your appearance? ", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "I have a feeling that other people do not feel that way about you :) ", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "I think a lot of people do see themselves in a much worse light as others see them :) It's a human thing. ", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "So, what sort of clothes do you think you are going to buy? :) ", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "Sounds like a great idea. I bought a fantastic maxi dress recently. Very flattering for those of us carrying an extra pound or two \n", "output": "Self-disclosure" }, { "input": "I like a nice facemask and a bubble bath, do you?", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "That is a good thing to do .. great for the self esteem. Maybe buy some new jewellery too? ", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "You need to indulge yourself from time to time :) Get yourself a nice bottle of wine too. Though maybe not chocolate :D ", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "Anyway I hope you are feeling a little better now ! Thank you for talking! ", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "(I can't press quit my end so you have to first :)) ", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "just stay calm", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "told him to do politely\n\n", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "you teach them that what they want to study", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "just borrow his mobile phones from them", "output": "Restatement or Paraphrasing" }, { "input": "just strictly told them to do study 1st and got a good mark then only you will give them their phones.", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "yeah sure.thanks too", "output": "Information" }, { "input": "then told them to study or else you will broke that mobile.", "output": "Restatement or Paraphrasing" }, { "input": "isn't that expensive when compared to your child goodness", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "yeah then do this automatically your kids will start to study.", "output": "Reflection of feelings" }, { "input": "sure i am always ready you to give my support", "output": "Reflection of feelings" }, { "input": "bye", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "Hey! How are you?", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "Im doing good :) How you doing hanging in there?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "Im sorry to hear that. Have you tried to help it or see a doctor?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "Do you feel anxious though? maybe the doctor is right and maybe loosing stress is the answer :)", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "Yeah the pandemic hit badly there. I am sorry for your loss. Perhaps you just dont want to follow in the same pathway which is why you are stressed", "output": "Reflection of feelings" }, { "input": "Yh thats seems like quite a lot and I know how you feel because of when I was a student. If i made it through you can too! try your best", "output": "Self-disclosure" }, { "input": "If you dont take it you might never feel better. I would advice you to take it and see how you feel after", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "Yeah i have taken antidepressant when I had my son as I always needed to provide, and I can say it did help me get better", "output": "Information" }, { "input": "Hello! How are you doing?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "I'm sorry to hear that. What is the cause of your anxiety?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "I am sorry you are having to deal with this. Are you concerned about your own looks because you constantly hear this feedback from those close to you?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "I myself have gone through similar feelings when I was a teenager. I had body image issues for the longest time and my way of resolving it was through proper diet and exercise. Are you happy with how you look personally irrespective of what others opinions are?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "If you are comfortable with your weight then why are you so concerned with what everyone around you says or thinks?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "It sounds like you care more about what others think of you than how you feel about yourself. ", "output": "Reflection of feelings" }, { "input": "Have you ever tried affirmations or heard of this before?", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "Affirmations are positive statements you think about yourself. What I like to do when I'm feeling really anxious is say three positive things/attributes I feel about myself over and over again until my anxiety dissipates. Do you think that could help you feel more positively about what those closest to you are saying so much with regards to looks?", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "Since you are stating that you are concerned about how you look, you should just find a few positive statements with regards to your looks you think about yourself and repeat them. So if you don't think you need to lose weight, you can say something like, \"I like my weight.\" or \"I don't need to lose weight.\" If you think you are beautiful or pretty, you can say \"I am beautiful.\" My three affirmations I use for myself are: I am beautiful, smart, and funny. I say this over and over again until my anxiety has left me. \n", "output": "Self-disclosure" }, { "input": "I highly recommend it! Is there anything else bothering you that I can help with?", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "No problem! Glad I could help. I hope you have a wonderful day and take care! ", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "Bye!", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "yes, hello how are you today?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "I understand how you feel, I also procrastinate...I have found if it takes less than 2 minutes to do it, I go ahead and do it, it takes some of the stress off. \n", "output": "Self-disclosure" }, { "input": "this pandemic most definitely has caused frustrations for everyone", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "yes, it makes the list of things to do a little shorter and not as overwhelming", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "of course! i got into puzzles...and games with my little one helped pass the time", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "also, taking walks gets you that breath of fresh air that is sometimes needed", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "i understand that. ", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "anytime, hope you stay well", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "united states- louisiana", "output": "Self-disclosure" }, { "input": "bye!", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "Hello my name is Lisa, is there something you'd like to talk about today?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "hmm I don't know....I didn't get one. I gather you are in the US?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "CAn you tell me more about your art gear project?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "It sounds like you are frustrated that the stiimulus check program has not helped you get your art project off the ground, am I right?", "output": "Restatement or Paraphrasing" }, { "input": "Are you still with me?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "I see. Have you looked into bartering? Someone who has such a lense may be willing to barter it for something you have, or some service you could offer them.", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "Locally here we have some bartering groups on facebook, maybe there is something similar in your area?", "output": "Information" }, { "input": "The other thing you could try is crowdfunding, for example kickstarter, in which you offer some photograply (portrait if you do such?) in exchange for a donation from someone locally", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "I remember a similar frustration when I needed tools I could not afford to make jewelry. It held me up!", "output": "Self-disclosure" }, { "input": "Are there any second hand stores near you that might have used lenses?", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "it sounds like it is holding you up from doing your photography, that must be frustrating.", "output": "Reflection of feelings" }, { "input": "oh good, Ebay is a great idea. I hope eventually you will find one you can afford, with some patience!", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "Hello. How are you feeling today?\n", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "I get that way too. Is there any particular cause or aspect you are focussed on?", "output": "Self-disclosure" }, { "input": "Gosh I am very sorry to hear that you are struggling to loose weight and it is making you sad. May I ask what you are doing to attempt to loose the weight? I hear cardio is very good for that.", "output": "Restatement or Paraphrasing" }, { "input": "I totally understand. I was the same way over worked and under motivated. I found that mixing in low impact weight work outs was really effective as well as each morning setting out healthy snacks that way i don't have to think about getting something it is already there.", "output": "Self-disclosure" }, { "input": "Honestly my top favorite are chocolate covered almonds and sugar snap peas. have you tried lowering your carb and increasing your protein intake?\n", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "Typically yes but having a low protein shake, ie one scoop not too, everyday is a great way to supplement your caloric intake with protein. You will find yourself less hungry and have more energy through the day. ", "output": "Information" }, { "input": "Lots of people also struggle with depressive episodes and low motivation. Don't worry you are not alone. It is important to try and think is it depression related low motivation or vice versa.", "output": "Restatement or Paraphrasing" }, { "input": "That's ok. Don't worry everything will be ok. Remember little steps forward are better and easier to achieve. even if it seems really bad right now just know it will always get better. ", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "Just by talking to you I can tell you are down, but you also seem a lot more receptive and motivated that i think you realize. I am sure you can make the changes and succeed.", "output": "Reflection of feelings" }, { "input": "Of course everyone needs support now and again and it has been a real pleasure talking to you.", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "Of course good luck stay happy!!", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "Hello, how are you?", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "I'm doing okay. What's the issue?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "I'm sorry about that. I know that the pandemic has taken a toll on a lot of people. What struggles are you having?", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "It seems like you really do have a lot on your plate. Do you have any other family members who can help with your duties? Older children, a spouse or parents nearby?", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "Do you think that you could ask him to help out more around the house? Since he works from home, it would be easier for him to help out if your job is outside of your home. Is there any way that you could hire help, like a tutor for your child?", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "I'm sorry about that. It seems like a difficult situation to be in. Do you think that the medication could help ease some of your stressors?", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "I think that you should try it out, at least for a little while, to see how it affects you. I used to be depressed too, but when I was put on medication, it seemed to make my life a lot easier. I had a lot more energy and was a lot happier", "output": "Self-disclosure" }, { "input": "You're very welcome! I'm glad I could help!", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "Are there any other problems you're facing?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "No, I didn't. I don't think that antidepressants are addictive, but you could ask your doctor if you have any concerns", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "Hello. How are you feeling today?\n", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "I'm doing well, thanks for asking. Do you know what's might be causing these feelings of anxiety and fatigue?", "output": "Self-disclosure" }, { "input": "That must be very distressing to have the same nightmare every night. Do you have a nighttime routine to help you get to rest in a more relaxed state?", "output": "Reflection of feelings" }, { "input": "I'm sorry to hear that you haven't had success with routines. I have suffered with sleeplessness due to bad dreams as well. I find doing yoga with meditative breathing allows me to clear my mind, and sleep better. Do you practice any meditation?", "output": "Self-disclosure" }, { "input": "Having high anxiety makes it very hard to concentrate on meditation. I take a medication for anxiety that has helped me a lot. Have you talked to your doctor about your anxiety?", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "I'm really sorry you weren't able to get relief with medication. I understand that having someone to talk to can be a relief when you feel so anxious.", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "Do you have any close friends or family that you can talk to more often?\n", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "I'm sure your friend is glad to be able to lend a listening ear. Sometimes we need to hash out our problems more than once to resolve them. ", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "Do you like to exercise? It can be a great way to relieve anxiety and exhaust your body so you sleep better.", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "I'm so glad to hear you have some outlet for your anxiety that helps with your sleep. Keeping your body healthy can be a great start to getting your mind in a more calm space.", "output": "Information" }, { "input": "If you don't mind me asking, do you work a lot of hours outside your home?\n", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "I see. Being at home alone most of the time, even when you have virtual meetings, may be contributing to your anxiety. Maybe you could meet up with friends in person at a park or other outdoor location. Is that possible?", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "That's great! I'm glad you are getting plenty of socialization during this difficult time. ", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "Do you like music? It can be a great way to wind down instead of looking at screens before bedtime.", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "Wonderful! I'm so glad our conversation has helped you feel better. It's always nice to be able to get out what's on your mind in a trusting environment.", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "Please feel free to request a chat anytime you need it.\n", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "You are very welcome! I hope you have a wonderful day!", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "No problem. I believe you can manage your anxiety, and if you have trouble there is always help available.", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "Hi..Iam doing good..How are you today\n", "output": "Restatement or Paraphrasing" }, { "input": "Oh I can relate to that because I also had a baby a year ago and I can understand what you are going through..", "output": "Reflection of feelings" }, { "input": "Do you have anyone to help you with the baby so that you can have some time to relax for yourselves.", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "Oh that will be difficult for you..Can you afford a nanny..", "output": "Reflection of feelings" }, { "input": "Dont worry,just love your baby,when the baby sleeps,try to have some rest and practice yoga and meditation when you have time ,they helped me a lot whn Iam dealing with the depression..", "output": "Restatement or Paraphrasing" }, { "input": "Also you can connect on online forums and find help by chatting with other moms who are fcing the same issues..", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "Iam glad you like them..I hope you will be better soon and Iam positive about that..love your baby..", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "No problem..happy to help..Is there any thing else you need help with?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "ok bye", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "Iam glad to help you provide with emotional support..", "output": "Restatement or Paraphrasing" }, { "input": "Hello, my name is Sharon, how are you today?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "Hi Larry. What sort of job do you do?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "I have had jobs that seemed pointless as well. I was a sales assistant in a store constantly waiting for customers, it was boring! Just a paycheque with no fulfillment. I found it depressing as well.", "output": "Self-disclosure" }, { "input": "So it sounds like you are finding no point to going in to work, and it's making you feel sad, am I correct?", "output": "Restatement or Paraphrasing" }, { "input": "Are there other jobs available in your area that you could apply for that are more up your alley?", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "I see., yes that could be a risk for sure.have you spoken to your manager to see if there may be other opportunities in the manufacturing facility for you? I bet they would rather retrain you for a different position than lose you.", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "Yes I can understand that. Sadness and depresion can lead one to feel depleted and lacking motivation to make change. ", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "I have been depressed and lacking motivation in the past, I remember how it felt.", "output": "Self-disclosure" }, { "input": "Is there anything about your position that you could suggest improving to your boss, to make your job more interesting? Maybe some ideas you may have for streamlining the work or somethings?", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "I'm glad to hear you have someone to talk to about it. Over time as you keep working on it I hope things will improve for you.", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "oh I see. Do you have hobbies outside of work that you find fulfilling?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "Lets hope the new manager improves things for you, it sounds like there is a ray of hope there!", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "Yes it's hard to get started on anything when we are down. I remember writing lists with very small goals on them. Small goals feel like mountains when we are down! Then I would work my way through that very short list and check things off if I could do them, which gave me a small lift of accomplishment.", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "Lets hope the new manager can improve things. And your work with the psychologist is very positive, it's great you reached out for help, that is a strength. You've spoken with your boss. You are doing all the right things.", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "you're very welcome, it's been a pleasure talking with you Larry.\n", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "you too! take good care of yourself, bye\n", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "Hello. How are you doing today?", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "I'm sorry to hear that. Anything in particular that is bothering you?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "I understand that you are feeling worn out and don't know what else you can do to help your child. Is there something specific going on or is it just life in general?", "output": "Restatement or Paraphrasing" }, { "input": "You have tried hard to help her and that is admirable. Don't beat yourself up and be proud of the things you have done for her. ", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "While I do not have kids, from what I have seen my friends and family do in this situation is try to find something that your daughter is interested in and attempt to build off of that. So instead of her learning to just learn, she is learning something that is relevant to her. Maybe that might spark something in her to come up with her way of learning since traditional methods aren't working. ", "output": "Self-disclosure" }, { "input": "Having her go climbing more sounds like a good plan. Hopefully things are opening up around you now that the vaccine is becoming more common. \n", "output": "Restatement or Paraphrasing" }, { "input": "Repetition is tough. I know I used a lot of flash cards as a way of learning through high-school and college. It's an old method but it can work. ", "output": "Self-disclosure" }, { "input": "I can imagine after having heart surgery as a baby she wants to live life to it's fullest extent and prioritizes making memories over school. Does she ever talk about what her plans are for after high-school? At some point she will have to connect the dots of having to get a job to be able to go out and have fun, and unfortunately doing OK in school comes with that. That or a vocational school to learn a trade (what I personally did). ", "output": "Restatement or Paraphrasing" }, { "input": "Sorry for the delay. I am glad you are feeling more positive. I was into cars so I went to vocational school to become an auto mechanic. After a couple years of that I realized I wasn't cut out for physical labor and went to college. But the knowledge from working on cars helped me understand things better at college since I had real world applications I could use it on.", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "Gardening and Horticulture is a great hobby! That definitely could cross over into some of her science classes to make things more interesting and relevant to her.", "output": "Restatement or Paraphrasing" }, { "input": "Glad I was able to help. Sometimes just having someone to bounce things off of makes a big difference. You have a good heart and good intentions. I wish you and your daughter the best.", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "You're welcome. It was my pleasure.", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "Please hit the quit button and take the survey. I can not end the chat from my side. Thank you!", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "Hello. How are you doing?", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "What changed to bring you to the point you can't stand him?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "That sounds like a really difficult and uncomfortable situation to be in.", "output": "Reflection of feelings" }, { "input": "How long have you been together?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "It's good you know where you're at and what you do, and do not, want.", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "When ending a relationship, we're not responsible for the other person's emotions. Whatever they feel, they feel, and we can't control that.", "output": "Information" }, { "input": "You need to do what is best for you.", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "You might try talking to him and seeing if he has any awareness of your unhappiness, of you discomfort with his pushing for marriage and children when you're not ready.\n", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "A good friend once told me that all normal, sane people feel guilt when ending a relationship when they're not happy. There is no pleasure in breaking someone's heart, especially when they haven't done anything really wrong.", "output": "Self-disclosure" }, { "input": "It sounds like you're maybe not 100% certain you want to end things. That's where talking to him becomes important.", "output": "Reflection of feelings" }, { "input": "And, if you do have a talk with him and later it becomes clear the relationship still can't work, it won't hit him as such a surprise when you choose to end things.\n", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "And, if you do have a talk with him and later it becomes clear the relationship still can't work, it won't hit him as such a surprise when you choose to end things.\n", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "COVID has put a huge strain on a lot of relationships. People are stuck spending way more time together than they are used to, and there's really not much to do about it right now.", "output": "Information" }, { "input": "I think that's a good decision. I hope the two of you are able to come to a better understanding of where things are with your relationship.", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "Hi..how are you doing today", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "Iam good..thank you..Iam here to help you about the emotional support you need.Tell me what you want to talk about?\n", "output": "Restatement or Paraphrasing" }, { "input": "Oh I can relate to that,what is been stopping you from completing your work.", "output": "Reflection of feelings" }, { "input": "Oh..Is it possible that your husband helps you in taking care of your toddler..", "output": "Restatement or Paraphrasing" }, { "input": "Oh I can understand that..is there any chance that you can ak your parents to help?", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "Oh.without a visa i dont think they can enter in to the country..I can see the pain you are going through..", "output": "Self-disclosure" }, { "input": "I think if you can go for hiring a personal nanny..if you can afford it..What do you say?\n", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "Oh that is a problem..ok you can try for applying child care assistance provided by the government to help you take care of your expenses..can you do it?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "yeah you can call to local government agencies or any social welfare organizations to help you on this..and I think you will find a solution to your problem..", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "happy to help..I hope you will be feeling better soon..bye..", "output": "Reflection of feelings" }, { "input": "Hi there, what is life like for you right now?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "So you're worried about your studies? I will try to help if I can. Please tell me all you can. ", "output": "Restatement or Paraphrasing" }, { "input": "Are you finding that things are being made difficult because of the pandemic?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "I hear you. I think we're all really suffering at the moment. Are you getting any support?", "output": "Self-disclosure" }, { "input": "What sort of thing do you want to go into when your studies are over?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "That is a really worth profession. Have you thought of doing some volunteer work before you graduate?", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "That is an awesome thing to do though it could be very mentally draining. Do you feel up to it?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "Don't put yourself under too much pressure if you are suffering yourself. ", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "I think a lot of people who work helping other people have that sort of problem - it's too easy to neglect yourself. ", "output": "Information" }, { "input": "Is there anything else you'd like to tell me about how you're feeling right now?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "That sounds wonderful - is it the sort of job you were really looking for?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "Don't over extend yourself though. Make sure to give yourself plenty of you time. ", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "Maybe set aside a few hours each week where you do something just for you, even if someone else claims that they need you. ", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "Wait till we hit the fifteen minute mark :D. And you're most welcome, have a lovely day! ", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "Hi there, how are you feeling?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "Is there anything you'd like to talk to me about?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "Is she listening to you? I know how it feels to be patronised by people who are older. ", "output": "Self-disclosure" }, { "input": "Well, if she is not listening to you when you try to talk to her you have to ask yourself whether the relationship is really worth it?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "Yes, I think it's always worth fighting for a friendship but there does come a point when it stops being at all viable. ", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "Does she have younger siblings? I am the eldest of four and I sometimes, even at age forty five, find myself trying to tell them what to do \n", "output": "Self-disclosure" }, { "input": "It could be the cause of her behaviour. ", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "How much would it hurt you to end the friendship? Do you think you could make other friends and survive it or is it worth fighting for?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "I know that I don't know her but to be honest it does sound to me like your friendship is a bit toxic. \n", "output": "Reflection of feelings" }, { "input": "Sometimes we really just have to let things go. I know it's hard but it will probably good for your mental health. ", "output": "Information" }, { "input": "I hope that I have been able to help you today! It's a difficult situation for sure.", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "Have a great rest of day :) ", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "(can you press quit from your end; I am not allowed to do it from mine. Cheers!)", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "Hello there, how are you feeling today?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "I am really sorry to hear that. It seems to be happening to a lot of people right now. Do you have anything on the back burner?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "I would not take it personally - I have been struggling to find work too. I think it's the pandemic.", "output": "Self-disclosure" }, { "input": "Don't put yourself down! That is a really bad habit to get into when job hunting but i know how easy it is to do. ", "output": "Self-disclosure" }, { "input": "Have you contemplated trying temping agencies? They pay might not be great but it is enough to get you by whilst you find something that you really want to do. ", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "I've done a fair bit of it before ... there are good and bad aspects. You get to go to a lot of different places but it's also difficult to make friends and get settled. ", "output": "Self-disclosure" }, { "input": "Me too. But the upside is you can pretty much choose your own hours ", "output": "Information" }, { "input": "To be honest it was not all that easy. I tended to keep my head down a lot and just smile vaguely when someone made eye contact. ", "output": "Self-disclosure" }, { "input": "What about something that involves less physical contact? There's always gig work online. ", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "I work on Amazon Mechanical Turk - if you're diligent you can make a fair few bucks there. Not sure it's a living wage though but you could try it ", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "Give it a go ..you've nothing to lose but your self respect :P ", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "On that note I hope I have been able to be of some help to you today! ", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "You're most welcome and I hope that everything picks up for you again soon!", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "you too! (can you quit first, I can't from this end :P)", "output": "Information" }, { "input": "Hello, I'm fine thank you how are you?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "I see, when did you stop academics?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "so if I understand you correctly, you cannot continue your studies because your in-laws don't want you to?", "output": "Restatement or Paraphrasing" }, { "input": "That sounds very disappointing, I can understand why you are feeling down about this. I had to stop university halfway through for health reasons, and was not able to go back, I found that depressing too.", "output": "Self-disclosure" }, { "input": "it is hard to let go of a dream. it's normal to feel down about it.", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "I have mental health issues so I could not continue my studies, sadly. I take antidepressants and have a counselor.", "output": "Self-disclosure" }, { "input": "is there anyone you can talk to about your depresion, perhaps your doctor?", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "Are you in a city? Some cities have free counselors", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "oh dear that is hard when your family is not behind you", "output": "Reflection of feelings" }, { "input": "are you near a public library? sometimes librarians are really helpful to find community information. you could call them.", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "do you have a family doctor?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "or of course you could do a google search for counseling", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "it sounds like what you are going through is a grieving proces. it's the loss of a dream that was very important to you. it will get easier over time", "output": "Information" }, { "input": "i hope you can go back to academics in the future, do you think that will be possible?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "i see, may I ask where you are from? ", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "another idea just came to me, there are free university courses online that you might be able to do in your spare time, if you have any", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "they may not get you any qualifications but they would satisfy your thirst for knowledge", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "coursera.com", "output": "Information" }, { "input": "all the best, bye, was a pleasure speaking with you", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "I sometimes feel sad too, these days have been really difficult ", "output": "Restatement or Paraphrasing" }, { "input": "Since when have you stressed ", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "In life all comes and goes ", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "I was also in your position I found a part time job in amazon turk and also in GoPuff they hire without too many requirements", "output": "Self-disclosure" }, { "input": "May I suggest you to look into those options? Do you have any friend who can support you while this passes ", "output": "Reflection of feelings" }, { "input": "I try to find the best HIT which pays the most ", "output": "Information" }, { "input": "I would call them in order to get some cash while you go back on track ", "output": "Restatement or Paraphrasing" }, { "input": "Great names, they sound nice. A good friend is a treasure ", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "I always try to see the positive side of every situation, they always happen for a good reason ", "output": "Self-disclosure" }, { "input": "And do you live by yourself ?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "South america is awesome I love it. People there are very positive outgoing even though their countries are not developed ", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "I love bananas I think we could live eating only fruits ", "output": "Self-disclosure" }, { "input": "vegan people only eat fruits and vegetables ", "output": "Information" }, { "input": "I sometimes do fasting it helps ", "output": "Self-disclosure" }, { "input": "I am sure you will find what you need soon ", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "That is a great idea hope you invite me to have one of the fruits you grow ", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "What was it ?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "What was the bad dream about ?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "I would be happy with all this gnomes ", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "Is it cold up there?\n", "output": "Information" }, { "input": "In these times of pandemic is good to be careful with temperature changes ", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "I would try to think about the good things life have", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "Think that tomorrow the sun will shine again ", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "That's great to always have a new purpose, go get them!!", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "Every dream that you have comes with the power to make it come true ", "output": "Reflection of feelings" }, { "input": "Thanks to you because you really make me open my eyes ", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "hello how are you ?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "can i ask you ,why you can't finish ", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "try to catch up with your studies give more time then you feel better", "output": "Restatement or Paraphrasing" }, { "input": "i think you need to be confident about your studies then you fell better", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "i think you need to take more online classes those can help you", "output": "Reflection of feelings" }, { "input": "because same think happen with me and i took online classes those help me a lot", "output": "Restatement or Paraphrasing" }, { "input": "*thing", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "i spend like 3 hours a day on online class ", "output": "Restatement or Paraphrasing" }, { "input": "i think you need to take help from your family or friend those who know all about your studies ", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "your welcome , thanks for sharing your problem ", "output": "Reflection of feelings" }, { "input": "any time", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "good to talk with you ,bye", "output": "Restatement or Paraphrasing" }, { "input": "Hello, how are you?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "how can i help you?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "please can i ask you why she is doing this?", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "i think you need to make other new friends those who give you more time", "output": "Restatement or Paraphrasing" }, { "input": "do you have other friends", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "try to make more friend because they can help you when you are sad", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "i have lots of friend , i really like to make friends , ", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "i just always listen their point as well .", "output": "Reflection of feelings" }, { "input": "so they like this thing", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "your welcome ,i think you need to listen them then they like you more ", "output": "Restatement or Paraphrasing" }, { "input": "your welcome.", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "thanks for sharing your problem with me", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "bye", "output": "Restatement or Paraphrasing" }, { "input": "Hi, how are you?", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "I'm sorry to hear that. What would you like to talk about today?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "Would you like to discuss job-search strategies?", "output": "Restatement or Paraphrasing" }, { "input": "We're in the middle of a pandemic, so it's been hard for everyone to conduct a job search. ", "output": "Information" }, { "input": "That's a great start. The quality of your profile is important. Did you ask anyone to give you feedback on your profile?", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "That's good. Have you benefited from their feedback? Do you think a profession resume writer might be of help? ", "output": "Information" }, { "input": "What sort of position and in what industry? ", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "That sounds like a competitive profile under normal circumstances. ", "output": "Information" }, { "input": "The demand for those positions has probably dropped because of the economic slowdown. is there any other sort of job that would interest you?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "Is that the kind of job that you can do from home?", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "If you are good with numbers and software, you are probably a good fit for other jobs.", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "So you're interested in going into the startup world?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "Ok. So you want stability and a higher-level position. ", "output": "Restatement or Paraphrasing" }, { "input": "Is it possible that you are overqualified for those positions?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "That might work, but I wonder whether HR will want your credentials once you get a job.", "output": "Information" }, { "input": "Ok. It's hard to know how companies play those things now. Sometimes they check your social media accounts for any inconsistency. ", "output": "Information" }, { "input": "That's good thinking. Play it safe. ", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "Is there anything else you would like chat about?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "Ok. Have a good day. ", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "Ok. ", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "hi..how are you today..What is it you want to talk about today?\n", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "Oh I can understand..when did the break up happened..", "output": "Restatement or Paraphrasing" }, { "input": "Oh Do you want me to suggest some ideas of overcoming sadness in my life..", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "Did you try talking to friends and relatives..this helps a lot..", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "Dont worry..I myself went through the same and talking to friends helped me a lot..", "output": "Self-disclosure" }, { "input": "You can try some online forums to people who are facing the same type of issues..", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "ofcourse they are very useful..I myself went to long walks and it helped me a lot ", "output": "Self-disclosure" }, { "input": "Try other strategies first,if you dont find them helpful and if you can afford a counsellor,then you can try going for therapy.", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "Yeah there atre some NGO s that can offer low cost counselling.You can try them.I myself tried those and found them very useful.", "output": "Self-disclosure" }, { "input": "You are very welcome..I hope you feel better soon..", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "Is there any thing else I can help you with?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "bye..", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "Absolutely. Tell me more about it. When did it happen? ", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "I see. Were you living with your boyfriend? How was your life post breakup?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "I am sorry to hear that. It must be difficult. I have gone through a lot of breakups in my life too, and I know what you are going through. ", "output": "Restatement or Paraphrasing" }, { "input": "Has the sadness eased over time in the past year? Were you consciously taking some measures to get over the stage?", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "On average it takes me about a year to get over this. I feel like there is no better person for me, I don't know what the future brings, and I am imaging all the scenarios where past relationships could have been successful for me. I took a lot of walks and spent a lot of time with friends.", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "I didn't. I wasn't able to afford them. I actually felt bad about venting the situation to my friends. They offered a lot of emotional support and I am sure they didn't want to seeing me like this. ", "output": "Reflection of feelings" }, { "input": "Do you have a support system in place? Are you considering getting counseling?", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "I am glad that you are preemptive about it. I think one year in, if you still constantly think about it, a counseling session would help you get closure. Even if it is a one session, you can always assess after trying this out. My current company actually offers free counseling session if I want to, I understand it is called \"One Medical\"?", "output": "Self-disclosure" }, { "input": "I also took up a lot of volunteering. It gives me a purpose and a group to belong to, where I can start fresh, have no baggages and meet new people. ", "output": "Information" }, { "input": "I am not familiar with the dating situation in pandemic time. I would say take it slow. If it is a right partner for you, it will make you a better person. ", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "I am glad that we are able to chat. I hope things can start working out for you and you are able to move on to a new chapter of life. ", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "Thank you. You too. I wish you all the best.", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "Hi - how are you today?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "I'm sorry to hear that. What's going on at work that's making you upset?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "Oh no! That can be very uncomfortable. Are there reason you feel that way?", "output": "Reflection of feelings" }, { "input": "Ugh - is he like this with everyone else, too - or do you think it's just directed at you?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "Can you give an example and then maybe we can replay it a different way?", "output": "Information" }, { "input": "Hmm = that is frustrating. Can you sit with him and go over each section that he finds fault with and ask how he would have done it?", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "maybe talk to his secretary and make an appointment with him. ", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "don't quit the job unless you have another one lined up. ", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "she's your first line to getting alone time with him! she'll get you an appointment for sure!", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "good. I wish you the best of luck! In the meantime it's never bad to put out feelers (discreetly) for other jobs. ", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "you're welcome. make sure you bring a list of questions, too! good luck! Enjoy the rest of the weekend. ", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "Hey i hear your going through a divorce", "output": "Restatement or Paraphrasing" }, { "input": "Oh I understand i went through one a few years ago", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "Yes that is common for kids to feel intense emotions when their parent separate. Don't worry just reassure them that both mommy and daddy love them", "output": "Reflection of feelings" }, { "input": "Neither was my ex husband. I know what your going through just take some time for yourself while they are with their dad.", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "Well darlin that depends. Do you enjoy those things? Why not pamper yourself? Mothers work nonstop, they deserve a break. All in all he is their father and will not risk neglecting them. Because if he does he loses them ", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "Well there you go. Go run you a hot bath. Toss in a bath bomb, and grab your favorite novel or new novel and soak your troubles away!", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "Of course sweetie, just remember to take care of you. There is still a woman under the mother. A lot of moms forget that and neglect themselves.", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "Oh that's exciting! You get to start dating again! I didn't look forward it myself mainly because im jaded and have little faith in men XD. What do you look for in a man?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "Ohh i want one! If you find one, see if he has a brother!", "output": "Information" }, { "input": "Great. Well it was great talking to you!", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "Hi, how are you today?\n", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "What are you struggling with?\n", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "To be honest, I feel the same way sometimes, too. It is nice to have someone to talk to about this. Have you talked to anyone else about this yet?\n", "output": "Self-disclosure" }, { "input": "Yes. I agree. For me personally, I noticed if I think back of a time before I lost my motivation, sometimes it helps me to reenergize a bit.\n", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "What have motivated you in the past?\n", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "I have been spending a lot of time home by myself as well.\n", "output": "Self-disclosure" }, { "input": "I noticed if I try to adhere to a schedule, even a very simple one, such as getting up at a certain time, making breakfast, and showering. My days tend to go better.\n", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "Have you tried reading? I find reading motivates me sometimes, too. Sometimes too much thinking alone leaves me digging a hole for myself.\n", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "I sometimes force myself to exercise when I get sleepy when I shouldn't be tired during the day.\n", "output": "Self-disclosure" }, { "input": "Maybe try YouTubing? There are a lot of interesting channels that talks about science, technology, personal health, ... etc. That can be beneficial to you and worthwhile.\n", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "Certainly. I have a pullup bar and some weights at home. Even without those, sometimes I just do some bodyweight exercises, such as pushups, squats, ... etc.\n", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "Yes, the YouTube algorithm is not always the most helpful sometimes. You can try logging out to see if you see some other recommendations.\n", "output": "Information" }, { "input": "I used to be in the military, so I have a rough idea of what exercises I can perform and how much of it I can do each time. Looking up more information on it is a great idea.\n", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "Overall, I noticed if I can stay clean, healthy, and strong, many of my other problems tend to go away or at least appear less severe.\n", "output": "Self-disclosure" }, { "input": "I recommend finding a friend or partner to keep you accountable.\n", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "I used to have a spreadsheet for my exercises such as running, because I hate running.\n", "output": "Self-disclosure" }, { "input": "Having to fill out that spreadsheet motivated me quite a bit at the time.\n", "output": "Self-disclosure" }, { "input": "Yes, have some fun with the spreadsheet, too! Conditional formatting, plotting graphs, generating statistics.\n", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "My pleasure!", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "Hi, how are you? What would you like to discuss today?", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "How long have you felt this way?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "Has there been a big change in your life recently?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "Your friend violated a confidence. That sounds difficult. ", "output": "Reflection of feelings" }, { "input": "How long have you been married?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "Is this the first affair that you have had? Has your spouse had any affairs?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "Ok. It is possible that he will find out. It is better that he find out from you than someone else. ", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "If 2-3 people already know, then it's possible for him to find out. Could you go to couple's therapy? That is a good forum for discussing the marriage.", "output": "Information" }, { "input": "You had an affair because you were dissatisfied with your marriage. Why do you think that was?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "You want intimacy and affection. What do you think caused the change in his behavior?", "output": "Reflection of feelings" }, { "input": "You don't need permission for a divorce in the US. Where do you live?\n", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "Does other people's admiration mean that much, more than an unhappy marriage? Also: if your husband finds out about your affair, what would happen?", "output": "Information" }, { "input": "Hi, how are you? what would you like to talk about today?\n", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "I'm fine.", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "Ok. That sounds challenging. What do you think might be causing that?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "I'm sorry to hear that. How long have you been married?", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "I'm sorry to hear that you are unhappy. What sorts of things does your husband say and do?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "You have more responsibility at home. You would like him to help you more at home. What kinds of things would you like him to do?", "output": "Restatement or Paraphrasing" }, { "input": "This is a serious matter. Have you spoken to anyone in the local government about this?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "You need to be strong for the sake of your children. How old are they?", "output": "Information" }, { "input": "There should be a website for the local gov't in your city. Also: there are NGOs that help people in abusive relationships. They can provide counseling and more. ", "output": "Information" }, { "input": "I would contact a local hospital. They might have a list of NGOs that manage support groups.", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "People want others to change, but usually that is too much to hope for. Important steps have to be taken by you first. The first step is to talk to someone and get perspective on your situation and learn what options you have.", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "My pleasure. I'm glad I was able to help you.", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "Hello..Iam here to help you today..how are you doing today", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "I can understand that is very hurtful..can you tell me more about the help you need ", "output": "Restatement or Paraphrasing" }, { "input": "you can come out of breakup and have a start with new life..", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "Of course..Try getting talked to friends and family who can understand you..", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "Yes..They are many online forums and groups who are having a lot of people facing similar issues..Talking to them makes you feel new and refreshed..", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "I strongly believe that you will be fine with in no time..", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "For sure..I am a real survivor of broken up relation ship..", "output": "Reflection of feelings" }, { "input": "Be make sure the real attitude of the person.try to find some one with a kind nature..", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "Yes..and you should be not in a hurry to commit in to a relationship which many people will do.", "output": "Self-disclosure" }, { "input": "Is there anything else I can help you today?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "Make sure to find a man who is not very bossy and gives importance to how you feel", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "always welcome.Iam sure you will be alright..", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "Bye.", "output": "Self-disclosure" }, { "input": "hello, my name is Sue, how can I help?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "How is the friendship related to the break up can you please explain?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "Breakups are such a challenging thing to go through.", "output": "Reflection of feelings" }, { "input": "So you went through a breakup, and feel that the friends you had in common prefer her to you, so you don't want to see your firends any more, am I understanding correctly?", "output": "Restatement or Paraphrasing" }, { "input": "do you have any evidence they are laughing at you or not liking you? or is it a feeling you have?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "I know sometimes I think someone feels a certain way about me, but if I ask them, it turns out not to be true, and it clears the air. Sometimes it's just in my own head.", "output": "Self-disclosure" }, { "input": "i see", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "but HAS anyone laughted at you? or told you they don't like you? or not responded when you have talked to them?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "i can relate to this. I went through a breakup a couple of years ago, and left town. Part of me is relieved I don't have to see those friends we had in common any more. I didn't want to be jiudged for leaving him. So I have experienced some similar feelings.", "output": "Self-disclosure" }, { "input": "Ah yes, the public and private can be quite different sometimes for sure", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "have you reached out to any of these friends to test the waters? maybe called or texted just to touch base and have a chat that's not emotionally loaded, about light topics? This might be a non-threatening way to test out how they are feelng about you. You might be pleasantly surprised, and find that goes well.", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "the other thing is these common friends might feel a bit awkard too about the situation. They have to figure out how to relate to you both on your own, it's a change of dynamics, so might take a bit of time to settle out. Can you tell your friend that you'd like to go out for a drink but that you don't feel comfortable talking about your ex at all? Would your friend respect your request if you made one do you think?", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "oh I see, yes that could be awkward for sure. ", "output": "Reflection of feelings" }, { "input": "i think it's important you go out with your friend, but can understand your reluctance to run into your ex. Could you go out for coffee or lunch instead?", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "Ah gotcha. So do you think you will accept or not? Or still need time to think about it?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "i hope if you go that you have an enjoyable time, and that your friend respects your boundaries. And worse case scenario, if your ex is there, you could leave early...if it were me I'd warn my friend that I might have to", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "I'm glad you are going! Take care of yourself and have a good time. Was there anything else?", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "you're very welcome. and you as well! Bye.", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "Hello, how are you doing today?", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "Losing your job is one of the biggest stressors in life, how have you been handling it?", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "I know what it's like to lose a job, and when it's hard to find a new one it can really make you feel low. What activities have you been doing in addition to seeking new employment?", "output": "Reflection of feelings" }, { "input": "I am living in a high-rent city and the only way I was able to keep my apartment was to find a roommate. Are there ways you can get help from friends or family until a new job opens up?", "output": "Self-disclosure" }, { "input": "One possible solution, if it's possible for you, could be to sub-lease your room to someone else and stay with friends or family. Even if they can't loan you money, they may be able to let you stay with them for a week while you make money renting your room as an airbnb.", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "What sort of employment are you looking for? Perhaps we can brainstorm some places you can go to make connections for potential work.", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "Working in a warehouse shows you have great skills for several other types of jobs. Have you checked small independent-contractor sites like TaskRabbit or Lyft to make extra funds while you search for a new permanent job?", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "Well, if you didn't know about them, that's not your fault. It's possible that you could find a new job opportunity while working on smaller tasks or by volunteering for a local organization. You could meet new folks who could provide you with new connections for employment!", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "Yes I am able to make a little spending money by doing small tasks like delivering real estate papers, or delivery take-out food. You can google a list of sites like RentSons.com where you can sign up to do an assortment of tasks, and your warehouse skills will come in handy!", "output": "Self-disclosure" }, { "input": "We all feel lonely when life gets hard, but getting yourself out there to do tasks will help you feel useful AND you could meet your future wife, you never know! I wish you the absolute best!", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "You're welcome. I think you'll do great.", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "You too!", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "hello, how are you?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "oh! did you search for new job?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "yes i know its hard but try maybe you can get quickly if you find new.", "output": "Restatement or Paraphrasing" }, { "input": "i mean if you apply for new job you can get quickly. then you can come out from this depression. ", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "yes its difficult situation for everyone because of this pandemic. ", "output": "Reflection of feelings" }, { "input": "but try for online job", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "try to come out from depression because its not good for your health", "output": "Restatement or Paraphrasing" }, { "input": "try to do some yoga its make you relax ", "output": "Restatement or Paraphrasing" }, { "input": "try to watch comedy movies that make you happy as well", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "one i face same situation but i try those things it help i lot", "output": "Reflection of feelings" }, { "input": "your welcome ", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "thanks for sharing your problem", "output": "Self-disclosure" }, { "input": "Your welcome ", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "bye good to talk with you", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "Hello, I just connected. What do you want to talk about most?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "We can start over... It seems like you have having issues with managing depression. Is that so?", "output": "Restatement or Paraphrasing" }, { "input": "It is OK to ask for help. Many people do it every day. You deserve to be heard. ", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "You have a wonderful dedication to your children, I can tell.", "output": "Reflection of feelings" }, { "input": "You mentioned this before, but have you tried therapy sessions?", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "There are many ways to find a mental health professional at little to no cost. Look in your network and see if you can find someone without a co-pay, or if you don't have insurance, you will be able to find people who provide services who use sliding pay scales. ", "output": "Information" }, { "input": "You are welcome. Sometimes you will pay as little as 0-$20 a session. I've found this to be helpful in my life on multiple occasions. ", "output": "Self-disclosure" }, { "input": "You have to find what is available. Avoid big buildings full of psychologists, usually the more independent practices are reasonable and provide better service IMO. ", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "Probably someone to talk to, so just a counselor or therapist fits the bill. I am not a doctor so don't take anything I say as medical advice btw. \n", "output": "Information" }, { "input": "I found a lot of chat boards and information from a google search. You are not alone and it is OK to feel and to be going through this. ", "output": "Information" }, { "input": "Your are welcome and I wish you the best in life. You can exit if you wish. ", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "bye\n", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "Hi, how are you? What would you like to discuss today?", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "Hi, Marie. You are dealing with depression. I'm sorry to hear that.", "output": "Reflection of feelings" }, { "input": "What is it about work that gets you going?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "You spend a lot of your day talking and interacting with people. Do you enjoy the work?", "output": "Restatement or Paraphrasing" }, { "input": "The work distracts you from your problems but it does not give you time to address them. ", "output": "Restatement or Paraphrasing" }, { "input": "I'm sure you do! Phone support requires a lot of patient explanation. That is challenging for many people.", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "I'm glad you have found success and fulfillment at your work.", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "If your job is good for you, what do you think makes you feel depressed then?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "Exercise? Reading? School? Friends?", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "Hopelessness might be something that you have learned because you have expectations.", "output": "Information" }, { "input": "Do you feel that there has to be some sort of result? Progress? Improvement? ", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "If you didn't do any of those things ever, how would you feel about yourself?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "Now imagine you achieve all of those things, and you do so in spectacular fashion. Would you be happy? Or would you find another reason to feel hopeless?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "It's important to remember that you choose what goals to pursue. You decide the criteria for success and failure. You are the final arbiter of your life.", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "I understand. We all have goals. Goals can be helpful. But ask yourself why you chose those particular goals. ", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "It sounds like you need someone to tell you what to do, or to give you permission to do what you want to do. ", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "If you need permission, I hereby grant you permission to pursue what is meaningful to you. ", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "You gave me a list of things that you want to achieve. Pick one.", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "I understand. Which one is more important. Which is the one you can do right away? Also: which one do you really *not* want to do?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "Of course. Anything worthwhile takes time.", "output": "Information" }, { "input": "You feel compelled to pursue these goals. Why? If you don't, what is the worst that could happen? What if you only pursued one goal?", "output": "Information" }, { "input": "You need to readjust your expectations, which are causing you to feel unhappy. ", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "Pick a small action, like making your bed. Establish a habit of doing it daily. It will be easy to build on that success, but you might first establish a habit.", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "Make the bed every day. Then pick another small goal.", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "That is evidence that you should continue that behavior. ", "output": "Information" }, { "input": "What do you think sounds weird?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "That is not weird at all. ", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "When we accomplish something, our brain rewards us with chemicals. ", "output": "Information" }, { "input": "It sounds like your brain just gave you a squirt of chemicals.", "output": "Information" }, { "input": "You have some big goals. Break them down into smaller ones. ", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "Weight loss is quantitative. Pick a number. ", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "How much weight do you want to lose? How much can you lose this week, this month? It doesn't have to be much, but it must be measurable. How much less do you want to eat? It doesn't have to be much but it must be measurable. How much do you want to exercise? It doesn't have to be much but it must be measurable.", "output": "Information" }, { "input": "Great! I'm glad I was able to help. ", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "I wish you the best of luck with your goals!", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "You as well. ", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "Hi, how are you?", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "That sounds like a difficult situation. How long has this been going on?", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "What is your co-worker doing exactly? Saying things about you? Gossip to your boss?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "It sounds like your co-worker doesn't trust your abilities. Does the co-worker have a legitimate reason to ask for the report? Is it important to the company?", "output": "Reflection of feelings" }, { "input": "The co-worker hopes to get in their good graces by looking productive. is that right?", "output": "Restatement or Paraphrasing" }, { "input": "Ok. This has been going on for some time. Is it possible to discuss the matter with your manager? With HR?", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "That's a challenging situation! What do your other co-workers think of this behavior?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "Would you feel comfortable talking to them about this issue? ", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "I suppose it depends how you frame the issue to them. If you say, \"So-and-so is bothering me and I can't stand it\" then you are complaining.", "output": "Information" }, { "input": "However, if you ask them for their opinion,", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "and say, \"What has your experience with so-and-so been?\" it might open up a conversation.", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "Greetings, how are you doing today?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "Hell, even that's ok sometimes.\n", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "Is there anything you'd like to talk about?\n", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "Are you hurt because you lost someone?\n", "output": "Restatement or Paraphrasing" }, { "input": "That's a tough one. I imagine you have a lot of pain after that.\n", "output": "Reflection of feelings" }, { "input": "How would you feel if you were her?", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "It is good to try.", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "Have you ever considered some outside help, like a therapist? There are many out there and you might find it helpful.\n", "output": "Information" }, { "input": "I myself have done it and it helped.\n", "output": "Self-disclosure" }, { "input": "It helps to have someone to talk to.", "output": "Information" }, { "input": "You are very welcome. Good luck!", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "Hi. How are you? What would you like to discuss today?\n", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "Nice to meet you, Marie. How are you doing today?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "I see. That sounds like a difficult situation. Could you tell me a bit more about your job?", "output": "Reflection of feelings" }, { "input": "After you get home, you focus on your boyfriend when he comes home from work. Do I understand correctly?", "output": "Restatement or Paraphrasing" }, { "input": "Ok. So you are having some conflict with your boyfriend?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "Are the issues about money? Work? Many different things? ", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "Ok. So you would like to have more information about his schedule and when you will be together with him. Is that correct?", "output": "Restatement or Paraphrasing" }, { "input": "Ok. He is socializing with his co-workers and you would prefer that he come home and spend time with you. Is that right?", "output": "Restatement or Paraphrasing" }, { "input": "Ok. Socializing with co-workers is sometimes part of the job. Of course, your relationship with him is much more important, or it should be to him. What does he say when you talk to him about this?", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "Ok. By the way, do you have friends that you could socialize with? I understand that you want to spend time with him, but what other people do you have in your life?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "Ok. Do you enjoy chatting with people online? You seem to chat well with me, so I think that you could connect with others virtually.", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "Hobbies are a good way to connect with people. What do you like to do?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "Ok. My suggestions is that you find a friend or two to connect with virtually or physically. Perhaps joining a club, a gym or a class would help. This is one way for you to gain control of the situation. ", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "Passive entertainment is not bad, but it does not help you make friends. Zumba and other activities are great for health and can help you meet people. Is there a place in your neighborhood?", "output": "Information" }, { "input": "You might want to see a medical doctor about that. There are probably treatments that would help you adjust to social settings.", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "Sometimes there are free clinics, and perhaps a university has programs so that their students can learn to help patients.", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "True, but it is important to take steps toward changing your situation.", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "I hope that this chat has helped you.", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "I understand. Life is about change. The past can loom large and we need to understand how it affects our perspective on life.", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "Ok. You are not them. You are a different person. You can make your own choices.", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "That is a good first step. Good for you!", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "Now it is time for more steps. ", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "That is an odd request. Why do you think he wanted that?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "It sounds like you have unresolved conflict with your father.", "output": "Information" }, { "input": "Ok. Well, I've enjoyed chatting with you. I need to go now.", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "Hello! How are you today?\n", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "I am doing well, I am sorry to hear you are upset", "output": "Restatement or Paraphrasing" }, { "input": "I'm very sorry to hear you are feeling this way", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "Have you tried talking to her?", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "wow, there is a lot going on for sure, I hope it assures you too know that tough times to pass.", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "Do you have another outlet? Someone else to turn to? Maybe get a hug?", "output": "Information" }, { "input": "Waiting for the time to pass is like torture sometimes, I know", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "I am happy you have more support", "output": "Restatement or Paraphrasing" }, { "input": "Do you have a car or a way to get there if you wanted to?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "well the fact that you recognize that is a big deal", "output": "Restatement or Paraphrasing" }, { "input": "Accepting the truth is the hardest", "output": "Reflection of feelings" }, { "input": "That is great you have started saving", "output": "Restatement or Paraphrasing" }, { "input": "there are many new money saving APP's out there, some make it easy to achieve a goal, maybe that is something you could check out?", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "I understand what you are saying", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "Opening themselves up to the opportunity to be hurt again.....", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "that is the only way to know whether you will love or trust someone, the trickiness that is life!", "output": "Reflection of feelings" }, { "input": "that is the sad thing, you kind of have to accept that getting hurt will always be a possibility, maybe it won't sting as much when someone has to go an prove you right....", "output": "Self-disclosure" }, { "input": "that's my thought", "output": "Self-disclosure" }, { "input": "Yes! That is a great way to put it!", "output": "Restatement or Paraphrasing" }, { "input": "Just never forget you are worthy of love, happiness, and nothing but good things", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "I am happy I could help", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "Things will look up!", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "I am happy you let the words sink in!", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "a smile face is a good sign!", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "Thank you!!", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "Hi there, how are you feeling today?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "Are you wanting to get back to work?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "Well yes I can concur with that. I have often found work takes my mind off my problems.", "output": "Self-disclosure" }, { "input": "Well that's not a phrase that I much like. But there's nothing wrong with liking your job. ", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "It's okay :) I did not realise that it predated Hitler. On another note, tell me about your job?\n", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "Well, a lot of people have been made redundant due to the pandemic - but that is not a reason why people should be happy with a dead end job. Would you consider something else?\n", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "It's okay to coast for a while if it's paying the bills but in the long term it won't be very satisfying. What would be your chances of retraining?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "What about a whole new career though? Something you'd never even considered before?", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "I know but think about how worth it it would be! Did you have anything you wanted to do as a child that you never did?", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "Could it possibly be some sort of mid life crisis? I am forty five and frankly am starting to question everything in my life. ", "output": "Self-disclosure" }, { "input": "heh it does creep up on you trust me :D ", "output": "Self-disclosure" }, { "input": "On that note thank you for talking and have a lovely day!", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "Hi, good afternoon.", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "Losing a job is always anxious.", "output": "Reflection of feelings" }, { "input": "Why do you think you will lose your job?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "Oh so your job is not protected and your short term disability will end soon? Is that correct?", "output": "Restatement or Paraphrasing" }, { "input": "I see. Have you spoken to HR?", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "Your department manager is not answering you?", "output": "Restatement or Paraphrasing" }, { "input": "Have you tried mentioning that to HR?", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "Yes that is how most employments work about providing personal information.", "output": "Information" }, { "input": "That in itself causes anxiety to most since other forms of communication is not possible especially if they are not responding to ciritcal matters. ", "output": "Reflection of feelings" }, { "input": "No you should not have to feel you made a mistake for the time you are taking out of work for a necessity.", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "You know yourself more than anybody and you need to take care of yourself.", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "Hello, how are you today.", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "Do you know how long he has been off his meds? Does he need help getting a refill? It can be hard to no our \"normal\" things when we don't feel; that's for sure.\n", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "If you are that worried about him, it does sound pretty severe, it may be time to call someone to get him help. Like his doctor or someone from the hospital.\n", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "We definitely don't want him to hurt himself or someone else.\n", "output": "Information" }, { "input": "We definitely don't want him to hurt himself or someone else.\n\n", "output": "Information" }, { "input": "Has his sister seen this kind of replace before? And if so how did they address it then?\n", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "That is a really hard place to be. His doctors phone number is probably on his prescription bottle.\n", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "The doctor may not be able to get him in the office, but they would have his records and also be able to connect you to a facility to could maybe help him since the hospital can't\n", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "I can imagine, I'm worried now too and I don't even know your friend. I really hope you keep me updated on how things go.\n", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "You're so welcome. So it sounds like you'll call the doctor office (once you get the number) but please let me know if I can help any other way.", "output": "Restatement or Paraphrasing" }, { "input": "lol, very true they do not. :) \n", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "you're so welcome. glad I could help.", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "It's really sad, your friend is lucky to have you.\n", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "you as well", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "hello, how are you doing today?\n", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "So you are angry about what happen in the past", "output": "Restatement or Paraphrasing" }, { "input": "hello, are you still there.?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "good\n", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "so what is bordering you about the past?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "yes, i feel the sdasme way too", "output": "Reflection of feelings" }, { "input": "Yes, so many differences", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "hmmm, that sounds fun", "output": "Reflection of feelings" }, { "input": "yea that will be boring on the long run, just try and mix it up", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "we always love going out to a place we have never been before", "output": "Information" }, { "input": "it a good strategy, just make sure you research well about where you wanted to visit before making the trip", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "and always have a budget plus some extra cash just incase, it always help us doing our expedition ", "output": "Reflection of feelings" }, { "input": "just, just make sure you have fun.", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "yes, u can. That is a very good idea for a family vacation especially after the long covid lockdown", "output": "Restatement or Paraphrasing" }, { "input": "ok, thats good thinking. let everything die down first", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "Nice talking to you", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "yes, that sounds like a plan", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "gat to go now ", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "you are welcome", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "do enjoy the rest of your day", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "Hello, how is your day going?\n", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "Hello, how is your day going?\n", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "Has trouble relaxing been an ongoing issue?", "output": "Restatement or Paraphrasing" }, { "input": "It can be difficult to balance things like that, I feel you\n", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "It must be stressful", "output": "Reflection of feelings" }, { "input": "That sounds hard", "output": "Reflection of feelings" }, { "input": "With all that ambition I'm sure you will find a way.", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "Is there anyone you trust that you can ask for help?", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "There are a lot of counselors available that might be able to help you manage your time to the max. ", "output": "Information" }, { "input": "I've taken on too much at one time before but I still found a way through. I bet you can too. ", "output": "Self-disclosure" }, { "input": "You are welcome. Never give up!", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "I hope that helps and good luck!!", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "Can you tell me a little more about your situation so I can better understand?\n", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "It sounds like your friend's husband might be jealous of your daughter, or embarrassed\n that his daughter did not get moved up also. Have you spoken to your friend about this?", "output": "Information" }, { "input": "It depends on the depth of the relationship between the three of you. How long have you all been friends?\n", "output": "Self-disclosure" }, { "input": "Yes, that is a difficult situation to know how to handle. It could be in your best interest to leave your friend out of it so she doesn't feel stuck in the middle or forced to take sides. However she could view the opposite as you going behind her back.", "output": "Information" }, { "input": "Yes, coaches are a great resource for life's dilemmas. Perhaps another option would be to casually mention something to him in passing, like at one your daughters games as to avoid any big blowups or emotional exlosions.", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "That is exactly right. Each person handles and avoids conflict differently and you have the important roll as leader in all of this. There is a chance he is not aware of the strain this has put on you emotionally and he could respond well to not being called out by someone else. Does that make sense?", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "I can understand how you would feel like he doesn't care about the strain it's placed. Can I ask, are your daughters aware or involved in these rumor's? This could make a difference in how you could respond.", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "Sounds like your daughter has a good head on her shoulders. Maybe there's something to be learned from her reaction to all of this. I understand how hard this has been for you so perhaps simply ignoring the rumors will allow you to heal quicker, by simply being the bigger person. Because rumors are just rumors, after all. You and your daughter know the truth and that's all that matters.", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "If he knows you know and you rise above with a smile on your face, that could show him that you are more mature than his childish games, and that you mean business. By taking ownership of your own feelings and emotions, you might find that will squash your need to let out any anger towards him.", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "Exactly. Let his problems remain his. You worry about you and your daughter and he can watch from a distance confused at his failed attempt to reflect his own dissatisfaction with life onto you didn't work. I think you will feel freed\n of any stress this has caused.", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "Hi, how are you? What would you like to talk about today?", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "I'm sorry to hear that! What do you think might be making you sad?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "Have you had someone take a look at your resume? Sometimes employers have their systems set up to cue on special terms and buzzwords. A resume consultant might be able to help with that. ", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "if you have the qualifications, I'm sure that there is a job out there for you. How big a geographical area are you searching in?", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "NYC probably has lots of jobs but it's probably also a competitive place, with lots of skilled workers. What kind of job are you looking for?", "output": "Information" }, { "input": "Is it harder to find work because of the pandemic? This is an unusual situation for health care. Things might change for the labor market in the next few months. ", "output": "Information" }, { "input": "Ok, how is your life going outside of the work search? ", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "That's a challenging situation for anyone! ", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "Is there temporary work that you might be able to do from home for the time being? It might not pay as well as medicine, but it could help with the bills. ", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "That's understandable. You've trained for a job and you want to get the job. I think that in the long term, you will be able to achieve that!", "output": "Reflection of feelings" }, { "input": "That's a great idea. I think that you can find something in the short-term. Companies are always looking for capable employees. ", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "I'm glad that I was able to help you! Have a great weekend, and best of luck with the job search. ", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "Do you have a button on your end for ending the chat?", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "hi my name is Sarah, how are you feeling?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "ah yes lockdown...I don't want to guess how you are feeling, can you explain how you are feeling please?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "I know I have been finding it really challenging", "output": "Self-disclosure" }, { "input": "okay\n", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "hmm I don't understand the question can you rephrase please?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "it sounds like you are asking why I want to help people?", "output": "Restatement or Paraphrasing" }, { "input": "I feel good helping others....and a lot of people have supported and helped me in my life, so it feels good to give back", "output": "Self-disclosure" }, { "input": "what's happening with your woman friend?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "I hope you will find it reward like i do", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "what is the issue with your woman friend, do you want to talk about it more?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "the lockdown has been depressing for me too, I can relate to how you are feeling. We are coming out of it soon that's all that keeps me going", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "does she ask your advice?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "Does she ask you for advice or do you offer it without her asking?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "I see....so it sounds like she asked your advice, you gave her your advice, but she didn't follow it...", "output": "Restatement or Paraphrasing" }, { "input": "Maybe she needs time to think over all of her options for herself, maybe it would help if you are patient while she does", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "ok", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "i am going for a walk later...I live in Ontario CAnada....it's a bit cool and windy today but I try to get out every day", "output": "Self-disclosure" }, { "input": "we just entered another lockdown here", "output": "Self-disclosure" }, { "input": "hello, how are you feeling?\n", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "i'm okay too", "output": "Restatement or Paraphrasing" }, { "input": "not really, i will probably just relax. what about you?\n", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "how's your relationship with your family?", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "glad to hear so! ", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "it's overly alright but i don't really get along with my father\n", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "don't worry, it's okay i am used to it\n", "output": "Self-disclosure" }, { "input": "not really i've always worked from home. what about you ?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "that must have been really terrible, i hope you all are coping with that", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "how did that make you feel?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "just from talking to you i can see that it was very stressing for you ", "output": "Reflection of feelings" }, { "input": "is he back to work yet? ", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "is there any possibility of him getting a vaccine? he seems to be testing positive fairly often ", "output": "Information" }, { "input": "oh sorry for misunderstanding you ", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "correct me if i'm wrong but sickness causes you nervousness? ", "output": "Restatement or Paraphrasing" }, { "input": "i am nervous at times too and i usually try to take a break and do something i find comfort in when i feel like that. i can't imagine how siffucult must be for you to feel like this often\n", "output": "Self-disclosure" }, { "input": "i'm sure you will be able to find a way to relief your anxiety", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "playing on your tablet seems like a good way to releive your stresss, do you find it effective? ", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "that sounds awesome", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "im proud of you for finding something that calms you down", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "Hello, how are you doing today?\n\n", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "No, I'm just a mturk worker but I'm completely willing to talk to you about stuff. Is there anything you had in mind?\n", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "Is there someone in your past that weighs on your mind?\n", "output": "Restatement or Paraphrasing" }, { "input": "Going through a romantic loss can be a lot to process. You will be able to let go some day. \n", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "It is definitely helpful to reach out. You got people that like you.\n\n", "output": "Information" }, { "input": "Definitely keep talking to those people because that's gonna help a ton.", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "Yeah you can trust me :) I think we have a bit more to go. ", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "Take things easy and don't worry too much about it, because things will fall in to place naturally if it is a good fit. ", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "Yes I have a few times, and even though it hurts sometimes it is generally worth the risk. \n", "output": "Self-disclosure" }, { "input": "Hello! How's it going? How can I help you today? ", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "We all have those days :/ what's bothering you? ", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "It sounds like your having trouble giving yourself that little push to get the wheels turning. I've totally been there. What do you feel is the reason? ", "output": "Restatement or Paraphrasing" }, { "input": "I understand, I've been there before. You just have to take one step at a time and not overwhelm yourself . Have you tried any tools to help you get going? ", "output": "Reflection of feelings" }, { "input": "What I find that works is to make out a list of all the things you want to accomplish and the possible steps you need to get there. It also helps to let someone know how you feel like a friend or relative, you would be surprised that being open with people can open up new doors in life. ", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "You feel like your friends don't listen or care? And trust me you are not alone. I am going through that as well. I messed up so you can say, but as time went on I realized that I can't live like how I was living anymore and I SLOWLY moved towards my goals. I just graduated phlebotomy school for example. ", "output": "Information" }, { "input": "What are your goals? ", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "Thank you! Yeah money is tight these days especially with the pandemic going on. If your business has a good idea there are many venture capitalist that are willing to invest in your idea. You can search for websites and pitch it to them. But don't let anyone stop you, you can do it! ", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "Or even search for people in different forums with the same ideas as you, you guys can collaborate and possibly bounce your ideas off each other. ", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "There are also loans you can get from the bank. Don't get discouraged. It's never too late. ", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "Check out crowd funding websites. Like go fund me, indi gogo, kick starter, and just giving. ", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "No problem! I'm glad I got to help! Please check out those websites especially kick starter because you basically pitch your idea and people invest in real time. Right away. ", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "I'm really glad I got to talk to you, you can do it. At least you have goals right?! That's already passed the first step. You got this! I hope everything works out for you. ", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "Hello, how are you doing?\n", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "I'm so sorry that happened. Are you mostly hurt because he didn't tell you he was seeing somebody else?", "output": "Restatement or Paraphrasing" }, { "input": "You must feel really torn up about it. I can tell that you care about your relationship. ", "output": "Reflection of feelings" }, { "input": "Maybe he didn't intend to hurt you. Its not like he invited you over to tease you. It is true that he didn't keep his promise, and that's his fault. ", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "That would definitely add to the distress of the situation to have a weird surprise like that. It doesn't really seem like your fault that you were there but it is unfortunate nonetheless. Have you tried talking to h\nim yet?", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "That's ok, you have a vested interest in this person. It is natural to be interested in such things. ", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "There are a lot of therapists out there that might be able to help you navigate this. It's OK to get some outside help. ", "output": "Information" }, { "input": "Considering how much time you've put in to this relationship, I can tell you have a lot of feelings about all of this. \n", "output": "Reflection of feelings" }, { "input": "Really, it is no problem. It helps to let it out sometimes, I feel that. Make sure you take care of your own needs before starting to smooth things over. \n", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "Thanks and you too, stay strong!", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "Fare thee well sweetheart, best indeed. ", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "Sorry, I had a bad connection. Hello, what can I help you with?\n", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "Just be clear, you're worried about finding a new job?\n", "output": "Restatement or Paraphrasing" }, { "input": "That is a difficult position to be in. It is a hard time, but there's always a way to persevere. ", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "I could imagine that being a constant worry. I understand how you may feel.", "output": "Reflection of feelings" }, { "input": "No problem. I am encountering a similar situation, looking for a well suited job.", "output": "Self-disclosure" }, { "input": "Have you tried looking in to new career fields that have always interested you?\n", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "There are a lot of jobs in technology where the only requirement is learning a few courses, such as programming. ", "output": "Information" }, { "input": "It would be nice to work in a field that you also enjoy!", "output": "Information" }, { "input": "It can seem hopeless right now, but think about how you felt when you were in a better position.", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "That helps me balance things out in my head sometimes. Sometimes we get stuck. It happens. ", "output": "Self-disclosure" }, { "input": "Accept that you are anxious so you can control it instead of it control you. Accepting actually makes you less focused on it, because you don't have to wonder about it. ", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "I hope that helps and good luck!", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "Hello!\n", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "I am doing great, how about you?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "Of course you can, tell me about it :)", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "Why so?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "Hey I've been there too, but it really helped me meditating and going out with nature to clear my mind of things. You should try it!", "output": "Self-disclosure" }, { "input": "Nothing special, just sit in my room in silence. Listen to tutorials on youtube to meditate\n", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "They get me relaxed and motivated for the day :)", "output": "Self-disclosure" }, { "input": "That's part of meditation! I too worry while meditating, but when i'm listening to the videos and following instructions all those worries go away :) If that doesn't help you, you can go out in nature to clear your mind off things. Being in the wild really motivates me to continue. ", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "Meditating absolutely does since the whole point is to clear your mind off things and concentrate on the task ahead.\nAnd the wild? that's whole other experience because you either concentrate on things or you get mesmerized by nature :)", "output": "Information" }, { "input": "Please do! You can try it with friends or alone. With friends can be a more fun experience while alone can be more spiritual or calming ", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "I have tried both and both are amazing :)", "output": "Information" }, { "input": "Hi\nHow may I help you today?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "sure! you can discuss. that's why I am here for.", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "You had so many friends in past, now you had fight with them. Hope I get it right", "output": "Restatement or Paraphrasing" }, { "input": "Sorry for poor internet connection\n\n", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "It must be tough time for you. Things keeps on changing. there may be some sort of misunderstanding.", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "I can feel how bad or lonely you might be. It must be a stressful.", "output": "Reflection of feelings" }, { "input": "When I have fight with friends, I try to clarify the things I where I went wrong or they made mistakes.", "output": "Self-disclosure" }, { "input": "From past I have learnt that, friendship should be very transparent. There should be any space for thank you and sorry. It should be straight forward. If my friends doesn't like anything which I did, she should say that straight to me. I should respect her saying. Then it stays there for ever.", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "Yes, I would say that is human nature. Only thing is to do self realization. ", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "You are most welcome! it you are feeling much better now. Is there anything else that I can help you with?", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "why would you say that?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "is there anything I can help you with?", "output": "Information" }, { "input": "do you think a drink will help you?", "output": "Information" }, { "input": "why not try to put attention in some other things instead of a beer", "output": "Information" }, { "input": "its only in your mind ", "output": "Information" }, { "input": "like working out? it will give you a lot of benefits especially with your health\n", "output": "Information" }, { "input": "you can do it!", "output": "Information" }, { "input": "oh that's nice", "output": "Information" }, { "input": "youre welcome!", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "of course you can try different things", "output": "Information" }, { "input": "just do it with moderation, don't be mad at youself", "output": "Information" }, { "input": "we all want to eat sweets ", "output": "Information" }, { "input": "no, don't be like that you know you have to love youself", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "hope I help you somehow", "output": "Information" }, { "input": "of course, just be confident of yourself and most of all appreciate yourself, I think it will help", "output": "Information" }, { "input": "Hello there, how are things with you today?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "I am not so bad. Is there anything you'd like to discuss with me today?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "Are you not happy in your current job? It's a bad time to be job hunting really. ", "output": "Restatement or Paraphrasing" }, { "input": "What sort of work are you looking for? Would you be prepared to take something outside of your usual field?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "Sometimes it is necessary to take a temporary job that you don't really like just to make ends meet alas. ", "output": "Information" }, { "input": "Well true but if there's no work out there that will help build your career you kind of don't have much choice ;) ", "output": "Information" }, { "input": "Have you thought of taking some sort of refresher or training course? There are quite a few available. ", "output": "Information" }, { "input": "Hmmm well how are your computing skills? That's a great field to be in at the moment.", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "Well that would be an interesting thing to learn don't you think? Though I don't know much about them myself I must admit. ", "output": "Self-disclosure" }, { "input": "It would but if you've nothing better to do due to the pandemic it might be worth it ", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "Have you considered registering with employment agencies for temp work?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "Me too. It can be a bit soulless but it does pay the bills when you don't have anything else to do. ", "output": "Self-disclosure" }, { "input": "Anyway I hope that I have been able to help you a little and that you are feeling a little more positive about things?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "Hi, how are you? What would you like to talk about today?", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "That's quite all right. The wait times can be a bit long. How are you?", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "Working from home is not what people expected. Many have found themselves isolated. They miss the interaction of the office. How long have you bee working from home?", "output": "Reflection of feelings" }, { "input": "Have you and your co-workers talked to your boss about a hybrid schedule, maybe a couple days a week in the office? That might work. ", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "I see. That's a concern. So you feel that if one person goes in to the office, then everyone else will have to? There won't be any flexibility?", "output": "Restatement or Paraphrasing" }, { "input": "Hm. A bit of a dilemma. Can this situation go on forever though? Maybe the boss will extend the stay-at-home for a while, but when other companies go back to the office, the expectation will be there for all companies.", "output": "Information" }, { "input": "Other employees might change their minds bit by bit as well. ", "output": "Information" }, { "input": "True. I don't think you are alone. Is there something that you can do to make working at home better for you? More frequent breaks? Better work space?", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "True. It might be easier to work at home when you have a chance to get out of the house during your free time. ", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "Most people didn't plan for the long term because nobody thought that this was a sustainable way to work. By the way, if your company wants you to stay home, then it might help buy the equipment you need to be productive. ", "output": "Information" }, { "input": "I think if you talk to your co-workers, they'll have ideas for upgrading your workspace. ", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "I think that's a great idea! People probably want to connect without having to talk about work. Later on, they might want to do the same thing but face-to-face. ", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "Sure! My pleasure. Best of luck with all that! Have a great weekend!", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "Is there a quit/finish button on your end?", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "Hello there, how are you feeling today?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "Oh wow I am sorry to hear that - it is a bad time to be out of work isn't it?", "output": "Restatement or Paraphrasing" }, { "input": "There are organisations out there who can help due to the exceptional circumstances .. do you have anyone helping you?", "output": "Information" }, { "input": "Hmm, could you google for local organisations such as Citizen's Advice? I have found them very useful personally. ", "output": "Self-disclosure" }, { "input": "They provided me with loads of helpful advice and other people to get in touch with. Also, have you considered using a food bank?", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "There are religious organisations that can sometimes help too and would not expect you to be of their religion.", "output": "Information" }, { "input": "Try not to worry about it - it is not just you. The job market is awful right now but it will pick up again!", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "Are you eligible for unemployment benefits?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "But surely you should be eligible anyway, unless you just walked out ", "output": "Information" }, { "input": "Wow that is really not fair of them! I think you have grounds for legal action there ", "output": "Information" }, { "input": "You really should - nobody has the right to dismiss you due to your health problems, that is totally outrageous. ", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "I realise the prospect of legal action can be daunting and potentially expensive but you should be able to get legal aid and it sounds as though you really have been badly treated here. ", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "You'd need to get legal aid. Try and find a solicitor who works pro bono. ", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "Anyway I hope that I have been able to give you some help and guidance and that things look up for you in the very near future! Try to hang in there. ", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "That's great .. I really hope it works out for you. Don't worry, you're not the only one to be in this situation and things can and do pick up ", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "Thanks for talking!", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "Can you press quit and take the survey - I am not able to from this end :) ", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "Hi, how are you? What would you like to talk about today?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "That's too bad. Did they not invite you? Where are they going?", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "I'm sorry to hear that. Did you have a falling-out?. ", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "The pandemic has been hard on many people. I figure many friendships are going through a rough patch, eh.", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "A busy time of the semester. How's school going for you? ", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "School's going well enough for you. You'd like to re-establish ties with your friends. Do you do other stuff with them besides going to bars?", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "That sounds like a good opportunity to see which way the wind is blowing, so to speak. Maybe you can feel them out to get a sense of what might be wrong?", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "Coffee is casual, but people open up when they're drinking. That'll loosen their tongues. ", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "Don't take it personally. It's just one trip to a bar. There might be something else going on that you don't know about. Don't jump to conclusion. If they keep snubbing you, then you need to worry a bit.", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "That's a swell idea! Easter is a day of redemption and forgiveness. Maybe invite them over and have some Easter ham and Easter wine.", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "I've had a bit of Easter wine this evening. Easter drinking starts on Friday. Puts the \"good\" in \"Good Friday.\" ", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "Hello there, how are you feeling today?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "Okay, I know the feeling! Can you at least make a start tonight? That will make you feel better. ", "output": "Self-disclosure" }, { "input": "Naughty! Though I must admit I understand that feeling too ;) Could you not at least rattle out a few paragraphs before you go?", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "And try not to overdo it or you won't be able to work tomorrow either and then you'll really be in trouble", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "Have you at least done some groundwork for the paper even if you've not started writing it yet?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "Well at least you can continue mentally preparing for it when you are out tonight ", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "Nobody ever INTENDS to get blackout drunk :D ", "output": "Information" }, { "input": "And you never know, you might get a creative burst when you get back and rattle it off in one. ", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "Oh yeah. Follow it up with a smoke and you'll be a regular Shakespeare. He was probably half cut all the time too. ", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "i live in a rural area with lots of forests :P ", "output": "Self-disclosure" }, { "input": "Hmph I am not a very good counsellor am I? I should be telling you to stay in and work. But hey, life is short and beer is good. ", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "Of course :). Hmm it's been many years since I was in Uni. Too many. ", "output": "Self-disclosure" }, { "input": "Ah it's a good field to be in. Do you suffer from anxiety generally or is it just over this paper?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "and exams too I will bet. Does your school offer any free counselling?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "I wish you all the best with it and thanks for talking! Do enjoy your night out and don't overdo it ;)", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "have fun :P (you have to be the one to press quit first, I can't this side)", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "Hello. Thank you for joining the peer support session. How can I be of help today?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "I am sorry to hear that. It must be even more difficult in a pandemic time. When did this happen? If you don't mind telling me more about it.", "output": "Restatement or Paraphrasing" }, { "input": "How are you doing recently? Do you have any coping mechanism that you can share with me? I can lend you an ear.", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "I went through the same process. I understand what you are feeling. I am glad that you are on Mechanical Turk and interacting with people. Which area do you live in? It is springtime and pretty outside. Have you thought about walking more walks?", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "Yeah, I like to clear my head by taking a walk. I know it is a temporary relief, but it helps regulate my mood. Do you live with people, do you have conversation with people regularly? ", "output": "Self-disclosure" }, { "input": "It sounds like you know what you are doing and you have a support system of your choice. Do you share stories like breaking up with girlfriend with them?", "output": "Reflection of feelings" }, { "input": "I have the same tendency. I don't feel comfortable imposing my struggle and my thoughts with people. I would personally recommend you sharing a little bit more with family during Easter. It doesn't have to be the intimate details of the breakup, it can be generic feeling, like loneliness.", "output": "Information" }, { "input": "I am glad that you find it helpful. I wish I can be around to hear more about it. ", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "I hope you all the best. ", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "No. I actually recommend a book called It is ok that you are not OK. It helped me personally and makes me a more emotionally intelligent person.", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "Hi, how are you doing?\n", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "Oh that's not good. Has he been putting pressure on you not to get the vaccine? ", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "I know it can be really frustrating. I 've had a friend like that before. Would cutting him out of your life make you more upset? ", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "Or would you like to continue the relationship, but maybe not now?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "I think that's something you need to think about. ", "output": "Reflection of feelings" }, { "input": "I mean he sounds kind of important to you that it's making you feel like this. ", "output": "Self-disclosure" }, { "input": "I really understand how you feel. Honestly the best thing I did was cool off a little and think how I want to take this friendship forward. ", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "So I cut it off completely because she was starting to be destructive. She called me selfish because I did not want to hang out with her during COVID. We met up and talked about it, but she was out of hand and I quit the friendship. ", "output": "Information" }, { "input": "But I think the best thing is to have some time alone and think about it. ", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "I know right.", "output": "Reflection of feelings" }, { "input": "Think about all the good and bad stuff that has happened between you two and see if it's worth keeping this friendship. ", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "Don't really let your emotions take over. Think logically with a clear head. ", "output": "Information" }, { "input": "I hope this helped. You guys may see each other and forget all about it. Laugh about it later. ", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "I think it has been tearing people apart because of everyone's different beliefs. ", "output": "Reflection of feelings" }, { "input": "I also think staying in the house too long has really made us bored and tired and kind of out of our minds lol. ", "output": "Reflection of feelings" }, { "input": "I hope so. I'm starting kind of a new life and I want to get on with it. ", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "I think we all want to get on with our lives ", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "I'm really happy you are getting the vaccine. I just got mine yesterday. ", "output": "Reflection of feelings" }, { "input": "I just graduated, I'm going to Grad school in the fall and getting married. That's my life : )", "output": "Information" }, { "input": "Ok so I was sore and kind of sick. ", "output": "Information" }, { "input": "I got pfizer which is the best from what I know. That and Moderna. Don't get any other kind. ", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "If you're not afraid of needles go do it! I really encourage it! ", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "Just have a lazy day afterwards with some warm soup and Netflix. ", "output": "Information" }, { "input": "No problem. It was very nice talking to you. And I hope you're situation with your friend has a happy ending. ", "output": "Restatement or Paraphrasing" }, { "input": "Oh I agree : )", "output": "Reflection of feelings" }, { "input": "Thank you!!! Have a good one!", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "hi there my name is Lisa...how are you feeling today?\n", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "i can totally relate to that, I am feeling the same way", "output": "Self-disclosure" }, { "input": "how long have you been feeling this way?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "so it sounds like you are feeling cooped up and not knowing what to do, am i right?", "output": "Reflection of feelings" }, { "input": "can you tell me more?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "may I ask where you are located?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "it's normal to feel scared. Of course it being normal doesn't make it any better...", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "can you get out for walks?", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "i see. are you saying your sidewalks are too busy to be able to social distance properly?", "output": "Restatement or Paraphrasing" }, { "input": "i find getting out for walks is helpful. i live downtown in a small city. i wear a mask while I walk and veer onto the grass, into the bike lane or whatnot if someone comes...or I look ahead and cross the street if it's convenient...that makes me feel safer when i walk. i have a medical condition too.", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "what is it that is stopping you, are the sidewalks too crowded?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "without my walks I'd go crazy...it's my daily stress reliever....i am at home 23 hours a day", "output": "Self-disclosure" }, { "input": "are you planning to get a vaccine and if so do you know how long you have to wait?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "i agree with you it's a scary time...but things will get batter....the more people get vaccinnes, the better things will get for all of us", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "are you still there?\n", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "so if I understand you correctly, being stuck at home for a whole year is making you feel very sad. Do you connect with people by telephone, zoom, online, email and so on? It's important to connect as often as you can with people you care about", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "do you have a back yard or a patio you can go out on, which might be less scary than going for a walk? Sometimes just the fresh air on my face is a relief", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "thats good you are connecting with people, and have lunch outdoors.", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "those are both important strategies for your low mood, keep it up", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "you are so welcome..stay safe, it's been a pleasure listening to you", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "Hi there. What academic pressures are troubling you today?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "I see. It sounds like being in the group project is especially stressing you out. Would you say that's pretty true?", "output": "Restatement or Paraphrasing" }, { "input": "I totally understand. When I was in school I remember being stressed out when we had mandatory group projects as well. Having to deal with others can be a bit stressful at times.", "output": "Self-disclosure" }, { "input": "I hear you, it sounds like you have a lot going on.", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "Have you thought about seeking advice from a close friend or family member? ", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "I see, it sounds like you are dealing with your academic pressures all on your own right now then?", "output": "Reflection of feelings" }, { "input": "Is there possibly a school councilor you could seek advice from?", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "I hear you, it's definitely not for everyone. ", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "Of course! We all need an ear to listen once in a while :)", "output": "Self-disclosure" }, { "input": "I'm so happy to hear that, it sounds like this was something building up. It's always good to let things out in one way or another.", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "Is there anything else you would like to talk about today?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "Okay, and of course! I'm glad I could help.", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "Hi, can I help you today?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "I am so sorry to hear that. That can be a really hard time and problem to navigate. Five years is a really long time too.", "output": "Restatement or Paraphrasing" }, { "input": "That is a horrible shock to hear something like that. I thank you for expressing yourself today it can be hard to share a disappointment. ", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "You have good instincts when you can face a situation and make a judgment and decision. ", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "Yes, you can feel like you have invested a lot after 5 years. I can imagine you have a lot of the same friends and that can be hard too.", "output": "Reflection of feelings" }, { "input": "I can relate to on that level. When I went through a divorce I had to part with my house and pets. I went to live in an apartment and met a really nice guy next door and wound up marrying him. There can be light at the end of the tunnel.", "output": "Self-disclosure" }, { "input": "Being anger is valid and you have every right to be mad. You have been betrayed and have to work through problems that you didn't create. Do you have any close friends you can confide in sometimes?", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "That is fortunate and reflects what a good person that you are to have developed a close friend that you can trust. Maybe she could be your support when the evening and weekends get hard for you?", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "If you are interested in religion often times they have local support groups to join as well.", "output": "Information" }, { "input": "Okay, an alternative is joining a local group that meets up for exercise in the park. Just an idea.", "output": "Information" }, { "input": "That is great news. Most of all thank you for sharing your feelings today and opening up. You are a path to healing but being so expressive and open.", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "Hello, how are you doing today?", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "I understand how your friend's supporting Trump is against your morals. Have you talked to them about it?", "output": "Restatement or Paraphrasing" }, { "input": "I've been in a similar situation and have dealt with friend's that support values that I don't.", "output": "Self-disclosure" }, { "input": "The friends that you can still have a dialogue with are worth talking to. I suggest friends that don't understand how you feel you stop talking to since they hurt you.", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "It can be really hard to do , talking to them but I believe in you, you can do it!", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "Do you think you will be able to do this soon? Lets set a time frame for this goal.", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "I understand it can be tough to get a hold of friends. ", "output": "Restatement or Paraphrasing" }, { "input": "I would suggest meeting somewhere that you both enjoy. Maybe grab a burger and beer if that is your type of thing.", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "I've done something similar myself. A friend and I used to go to this one restaurant and I used that a meeting place for tough conversations.", "output": "Self-disclosure" }, { "input": "That does sound like a good idea.", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "You're welcome. Hope you have a wonderful day.", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "Just remember I think you can do it. Have confidence in yourself.", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "No problem it was my pleasure to help you.", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "Hi! Hope you are doing well\n", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "How may I help you today?\n", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "You are depressed because you cannot meet anyone due to COVID. Correct me if I am wrong\n", "output": "Restatement or Paraphrasing" }, { "input": "The situation is really hard and depressing. As a human being we need people around us to share and care. ", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "I can see very clearly that how much you are missing your friends. Time doesn't stay same", "output": "Reflection of feelings" }, { "input": "When \n", "output": "Self-disclosure" }, { "input": "I feel alone I try to engage myself in doing gardening or yoga. It helps me a lot.", "output": "Self-disclosure" }, { "input": "You can do face time with your friend plan some virtual party. ", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "If we thing more about the current depressing situation, it drag us more into it. Better to give less attention to it.", "output": "Information" }, { "input": "yes! you can do face time, Share jokes and any fun moment of past. ", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "You should give less attention to it. and engage yourself in the activities that you enjoy. \n", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "You can go out for a walk with precaution or you can spend sometime in your backyard\n", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "stay safe and have a wonderful time \n", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "bye\n", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "gardening is my passion. I am doing it when I was 5. It makes me calm and relaxed. You can try it. Seeing plants growing is like seeing a new life to grow.\n", "output": "Self-disclosure" }, { "input": "In apartment you house plants are great option. I love walking to. It is a great stress reliever. \n", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "After vaccine we should still take precautions by putting mask on to stay safe and keep other safe.", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "yes thats true\n", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "yes, stay safe n healthy", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "hi my name is Lisa, how are you?\n\n\n\n", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "it sounds like you are feeling troubled after your daughter's car accident am I right?", "output": "Restatement or Paraphrasing" }, { "input": "that sounds like it would be a very traumatic experience, it's no wonder this is hard for you, it would be hard for anyone in this situation", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "How would you use to describe your feelings about this accident?\n", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "It sounds like you are dealing with a lot...it is normal to feel anxious about it", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "and it's hard not to blame ourselves, but please remember this was outside your control", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "I have not experienced anything like this to be honest....the closest I can recall is encouraging my daughter to do something, and then she got hurt, and I blamed myself and felt like a bad mother", "output": "Self-disclosure" }, { "input": "how is your daughter doing now?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "the fact that you felt the need to quit your job shows how deeply this has affected you...do you miss your work?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "it sounds like you need to be with your daughter all day but also need the income that work would afford, am i right?", "output": "Restatement or Paraphrasing" }, { "input": "hehe...0% is all I'd ask for...", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "how about part time work would that be possible for you?", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "i see...I would not know how to find such a job, i've often thought that would be a great thing to do..", "output": "Self-disclosure" }, { "input": "i have a question\n", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "is there a friend or family member that can spend time with your daughter so it's easier to get back to maybe a part time job?", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "I see. I wonder if you have spoken to a doctor about how you feel? Struggling to get through the day must be so difficult. I wonder if it might be helpful to get screened for depression", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "hello, how are you?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "What help you need? please can you explain", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "please don't feel shame you can do it", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "nothing is hard if we try", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "so please try then you feel better", "output": "Reflection of feelings" }, { "input": "where you feel stuck in studies please can you explain", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "from today please feel yourself that you know everything about your studies , i think then you fell better", "output": "Reflection of feelings" }, { "input": "give more time to your study then you know everything about your studies", "output": "Reflection of feelings" }, { "input": "yes you can do it ", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "just try", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "so start from today then tomorrow is better day", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "your welcome", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "i face this situation long time ago i try my best and then i come out easily because i try my best", "output": "Reflection of feelings" }, { "input": "Hi, can I help you today?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "I am available to listen and help you think through some things. I know it can be difficult to express how we are feelings sometimes. ", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "Do you have a specific problem that you are experiencing?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "That sounds really exhausting. You work longer hours than a normal job and must feel really burned out.", "output": "Restatement or Paraphrasing" }, { "input": "You are definitely a hard worker and I hope you know that. You make a great employee puttin in som many hours.", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "I was in a job that I felt was a waste of time and I was able to find another one eventually. I understand how you can feel. Do you have any plans to look for different work in the future?", "output": "Self-disclosure" }, { "input": "I can relate to that feeling too. You are exhausted and feeling like you cant get out of a rut sort of?", "output": "Reflection of feelings" }, { "input": "I am glad that you are expressing yourslef today and facing your feelings. This could be a start to changing somethings in your life. It isn't usually easy talking about being in a rut.", "output": "Reflection of feelings" }, { "input": "I would like to suggest starting a journal to write down just the bullet points of how you feel at the end of each day. Would you consider trying this activity?", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "It can help to review your own thoughts dad to day and attempt to find a pattern that you may not be aware of in your life.", "output": "Information" }, { "input": "You could always start with just taking 5 minutes per day and after a week quit it and reach back out and we can try something else. ", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "That is very productive. We have a lot of ideas for therapy and can work on finding the best one for you if journaling is a fail. Thank you for reaching out today!", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "You're welcome. Take care!", "output": "Information" }, { "input": "Thank you!", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "I am available if you have anything else on your mind or you can kindly use the provided feature to finish/quit this session today. Hope to hear from you again soon.", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "hi! Hope you are doing well today", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "How may I assist you ?\n", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "Something is pressuring you and you are stressed due to that. Correct me if I am wrong", "output": "Restatement or Paraphrasing" }, { "input": "It must be hard for you to prepare for it. I can understand. But there must be a way", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "I can easily see your seriousness and dedication for your studies. That is awesome thing", "output": "Reflection of feelings" }, { "input": "you should take a complete rest for 2-3 hours without worrying and then get up and eat something tasty and healthy. Afterwards sit for preparing for your exam. That's what I do and it helps me a lot.", "output": "Self-disclosure" }, { "input": "There is a famous quote \" Worry is a total waste of time. It doesn't change anything. All it does is steal your joy and keep you busy doing nothing.\"", "output": "Information" }, { "input": "I definitely recommend trail mix or chex mix and one of my favorites is banana chips!\n", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "you can find it in any grocery store easily known as Plantain chips\n", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "hope you are feeling much better now", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "That's great to know and best wishes for your exams.", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "you too!", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "Hi, can I help you today? Would you like to share how you're feeling?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "I am so sorry to hear that you lost your job. Did you work there for a long time?", "output": "Restatement or Paraphrasing" }, { "input": "I can understand that being used to a routine and then suddenly losing that can cause a lot of depression and confusing for you. Are you feeling lost?", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "I am proud of you taking the step to reach out today and share your feelings with me. That takes a lot of strength on your part.", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "You're welcome and yes I had a similar situation about a year ago. I had worked for the same company for 10 years and they laid me off. I was blindsided and very upset and felt depressed also. I started looking for jobs and found a better one that paid more, so it worked out for the best in the end.", "output": "Self-disclosure" }, { "input": "I understand that you are feeling a deep sadness and a situational depression. I believe that when you takes steps forward and start applying for jobs then you will see a lot of opportunities are out there. Do you have any family that can be supportive to you through this difficult time?", "output": "Reflection of feelings" }, { "input": "You're welcome. Often sometimes local charities will help with putting together a resume and helping find you a job. Maybe you could reach out for assistance in creating a new resume?", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "I would recommend looking for an local group that help assist creating new resumes. Nonprofits have people who volunteer. ", "output": "Information" }, { "input": "You're welcome, I would also suggest reaching out to your friends and family for support during this challenging time. You are a faithful employee and have a great future ahead.", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "You can always reach out to me and I can providing you a place to vent and express yourself and the feelings that you are having. Hopefully you feel like a plan to begin apply for new jobs is a start forward.", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "Thank you for being so strong and reaching out today. Have a great rest of your day.", "output": "Information" }, { "input": "I would be happy to continue if you have anything else you would like to say and of not kindly use the feature to finishing this session.", "output": "Information" }, { "input": "Thank you, the feature is provided to you and you alone. The button is for you to confirm you have finished and quit the session and would like to continue with your day. However, I am happy to talk as long as you are if you don't want to do that, I am unable to on my end.", "output": "Information" }, { "input": "Thank you, but it is actually red and located under your blue button feature. Thanks again for your time today. ", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "I understand however that is not the case. I do not have the feature that will submit and therefore complete. Please use the red button that saying finish/quit in order to proceed.", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "Hey! How are you?", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "What are these thoughts? :)", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "Maybe your mind is just congested with the thoughts of life, and you just need to relax for a little while", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "A chemical thing, so maybe you need a counsellor, and then he can assess your problem, and everything will be alright :)", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "Yes, meditation is very good at calming down the mind. Does it help you? If it does maybe do it more continuously and more frequently", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "Not constantly. because then you won't have anytime to do anything else, but if negative thoughts always come into your head, maybe try doing something you enjoy doing", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "Yeah, maybe. But always look at the bright side of stuff and maybe the negative thoughts can stop", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "yes that's the spirit! And with that mind set good things will always come to you!", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "Yes, as long as you keep focused and not divert into any other thoughts :)", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "I do it once a week and it really helps. I used to do it more often when I felt I couldn't do anything right, so always do it according to the situation", "output": "Self-disclosure" }, { "input": "Yes", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "If you want to ", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "But im here for you but if we are done lets wrap it up :) yes, byee", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "hi, how are you?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "oh! what happen?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "Everything is ok", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "oh! what is the reason of depression please can you share with me ", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "you can share your problem with me freely ", "output": "Self-disclosure" }, { "input": "engage yourself in other activities that make you happy ", "output": "Reflection of feelings" }, { "input": "did you try for any new job", "output": "Information" }, { "input": "you have talent so you can get job easily ", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "i also went through this situation but now finally i get new job", "output": "Self-disclosure" }, { "input": "did you try any new course . Try to do some online courses that help you get new job", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "its very hard to get new job but i think you can do it", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "try to do those courses that you enjoy .", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "did you ever try to go in sports ?because you like that", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "your welcome", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "take some caching classes of sports ", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "thanks for sharing your feelings .Thanks", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "How are you?", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "I'm doing well, thank you for asking. It sounds like you might not be doing okay. Anything you want to talk about?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "That sounds like a lot for a person to be dealing with. Is this your husband/boyfriend?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "That's a long time. He's lucky to have you to support him. You said you worry when he's not at home. Is this because of the injury and not acting like himself? ", "output": "Restatement or Paraphrasing" }, { "input": "Supporting someone with a brain injury can be stressful. Are you taking are of yourself as well? You can't be of help to your boyfriend if you are not doing well yourself.", "output": "Information" }, { "input": "If I understand this correctly your boyfriend cheated on you after you had a child together. Now, the other woman is pregnant with your boyfriends baby? Did I get that right?", "output": "Restatement or Paraphrasing" }, { "input": "I can understand that would make you feel anxious and depressed.", "output": "Reflection of feelings" }, { "input": "Do you have someone to help you cope with this situation? Friends, Family, etc?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "I totally understand where you are coming from.", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "Things get much more complicated when children are involved.", "output": "Information" }, { "input": "Well, it sounds like you still have a lot going on. Sometimes even when you want to take more on emotionally and mentally you need to take a step back and re-evaluate the situation.", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "Maybe finding someone to talk to about everything that is currently going on in your life would be helpful.", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "Youre only human, right?", "output": "Reflection of feelings" }, { "input": "Agreed. But maybe that's what has to happen to help you get through this.", "output": "Information" }, { "input": "I think it might be a good starting point for you.", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "That's okay. Forgiveness helps us out as well. It helps us to move forward with our lives.", "output": "Information" }, { "input": "It's never easy.", "output": "Information" }, { "input": "Exactly!", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "I hope our chat has helped you out a bit. Maybe even given you some things to reflect on. You always have the power to change the dynamic of the situation. Remember that.", "output": "Information" }, { "input": "You will. It will just take some reflection on your part.", "output": "Information" }, { "input": "Fantastic! I'm really glad to hear that!", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "Well, I wish you the very best. Enjoy the rest of your night!", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "Thank you! : )", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "Hello. How are you? What would you like to talk about?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "The pandemic has been hard on many people, those in relationships and those looking for new ones! Have you tried to develop a new hobby or interest that you can do with others once the pandemic is over?", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "That's great! Poetry is something you can share in person or over video link. What about physical activities? I think that yoga might be something that you can do by yourself and with others. There are a bunch of videos on sites like YouTube. ", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "A stimulus check! Yes, we can all use money during these trying times.", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "I have tried yoga myself, but it wasn't really my thing. I prefer walking and riding a bike. ", "output": "Self-disclosure" }, { "input": "Do you have to wait until you get vaccinated to start working on getting a girlfriend?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "True. I like trying new things, but I am happy to give them up if they just don't fit my style. ", "output": "Self-disclosure" }, { "input": "Is there a way you could start looking for a girlfriend online now, before the pandemic is over?", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "Maybe there is a way to make a connection using your poetry.", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "Marriage is a big step, and any prudent person would think carefully before making the commitment. ", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "Are you concerned that things will move too quickly to that level of commitment (marriage)? You could make it clear from the outset that you want to take it slow. ", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "Robin Williams talked about that situation.", "output": "Information" }, { "input": "He said that he didn't fear being alone as much as being with people that he didn't like.", "output": "Information" }, { "input": "Adult entertainers provide one kind of companionship, but it is not complete. It feels like a stopgap to me. Is it fulfilling enough for you?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "You could trade poems with other budding poets. \"I'll show you mine if you show me yours.\"", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "Do you find yourself to be more an introvert or an extrovert?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "Thanks. Ok. The pandemic is particularly hard on extroverts. People look down on sex workers, but I think that the world is a big complex place and people are trying to make their way in it. If everyone is consenting, I see no problem. ", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "Have you tried psilocybin? Some people swear that it changes the inner monologue for the better. I am not a physician, but for long-term adjustment, it might be beneficial. ", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "Sure! I'm glad we had a chance to chat. Best of luck with making friends/girlfriends after the pandemic!", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "BTW, is there a quit button on your end?", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "Good night!", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "Hi, how are you today?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "What are you sad about? Perhaps I can help. ", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "Wow that is not nice of her. Have you talked to either of them about it? I would recommend that you do. ", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "Hmm do you mean literally or metaphorically?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "Well can you communicate with her through sign language?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "Gosh, life hasn't treated the pair of you very well, has it? ", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "Well, at least you're putting it to good use. ", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "But with only a huge nose to work with - is this really viable?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "You still have AIM? Wow, you are really out of date. I hate to say it but maybe she's better off with her ex?", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "Sometimes we just have to learn to let go *nods sententiously*", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "Yeah but, he's got hands and a small nose, right?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "I do not know what that is but I can probably spend the rest of my life without finding out and still die happy. ", "output": "Self-disclosure" }, { "input": "I don't know who those people are either. I live a very sheltered life. ", "output": "Self-disclosure" }, { "input": "I thought you were born without them but perhaps they grew back. ", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "(and you just scrolled back to check, didn't you? :D)", "output": "Information" }, { "input": ":D Well, it's been interesting and, erm, I wish you joy in your future romantic endeavours. Maybe find a more trustworthy girlfriend in future?", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "We all learn by our mistakes. Thanks for talking and spend that two dollars wisely!", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "Oi! I am NOT a bot", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "Just another sucker trying to eke out a living ;). Can you press quit and take the survey? I can't do it from the supporter end till you do", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "Hi, can I help you today?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "I am so sorry to hear that. You have probably become very attached after that long, I can imagine.", "output": "Restatement or Paraphrasing" }, { "input": "Can I ask why you have to give him up? Do you have any other pets? ", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "You are a very good caretaker for your parrot. You have given him a lot of specialized care. ", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "You have been the best you could be for him and it has got to feel really sad to let him go. It can feel like a death sometimes when you lose someone or a pet.", "output": "Reflection of feelings" }, { "input": "I understand a little bit of how you feel. My dog died recently and it was really hard when the vet had to put him down. I was really sad and would cry when I thought of him ort the things we used to do together. ", "output": "Self-disclosure" }, { "input": "Would you ever consider getting a pet that is not as loud? I am not suggesting that you replace him. ", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "I am concerned that if you don't have a pet to care for you may have a more difficult time to recover and thrive. Mourning is a process and it might be easier if you can hare your ;love with another pet.", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "A seeing eye dog is a great idea. You are trying to think of ways to help yourself and that is really important. You are also reaching out and sharing your feelings. Do you have any friends with pets that you can visit with from time to time?", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "I am sorry that makes a lot of sense. I am really thankful that you are sharing your feelings and expressing them.", "output": "Information" }, { "input": "Rescue centers usually make people apply to adopt to insure a good home for them. You have made him into a wonderful pet.", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "You are welcome. You are doing what is right and i am proud of you for listening to your heart and providing the best all these years. ", "output": "Information" }, { "input": "Thank you for your time today and please come back whenever you need to talk. I am happy to listen and do my best.", "output": "Information" }, { "input": "Hi! Hope you are feeling better now. I will help you to find some solution", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "Why are you feeling emotionally sad?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "The pandemic situation is tough for everyone, so don't worry", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "I am sorry to hear that. ", "output": "Reflection of feelings" }, { "input": "I would like to give some suggestions", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "Please ask your boyfriend to discuss to me so that i can advice him", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "This pandemic is taking longer time to settle because many people do not follow the guidelines suggested ", "output": "Reflection of feelings" }, { "input": "Please do not get upset. Try to understand each other then only it is possible to reconcile", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "Please cooperate with each other so you can be back together", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "Is my advice helpful to you?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "Don't be upset we all come across difficult times in life. This is one of the time.", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "Please seek some interesting relaxation for mind. If you deviate your mind from getting upset then you can overcome this depression.", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "Ok sure . Good luck. ", "output": "Reflection of feelings" }, { "input": "Thanks for listening to my suggestions", "output": "Reflection of feelings" }, { "input": "hi there how are you doing?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "I am not so bad. Is there anything you'd like to talk about?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "Ah I hear you, I have suffered bad anxiety for years. Have you been getting medical help?", "output": "Self-disclosure" }, { "input": "Some anti anxiety medication can be addictive but if you're sensible with it you should be okay. Talk to your doctor?", "output": "Information" }, { "input": "What about counselling .. would you consider that? There is some very good therapy available", "output": "Information" }, { "input": "True - I know different cultures do take different approaches to things and in some places talking about mental health is taboo ", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "I would recommend giving counselling a go, even though you're not totally sure about it ", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "Is it not possible to get it free? It is provided free in my country ", "output": "Information" }, { "input": "Ah, you need to move here to the UK ;) ", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "We don't have to worry about the cost of medication or counselling as we have socialised medicine", "output": "Information" }, { "input": "Sure. Everyone pays a small percentage of their income - depending on how much they earn - and it goes to fund the NHS. Everyone is therefore eligible for free hospital treatment etc and we pay a standard amount (about ten pounds ie fourteen dollars) for a prescription, no matter which drugs we are gettign \n", "output": "Information" }, { "input": "If I needed a heart transplant tomorrow it would be free :D ", "output": "Information" }, { "input": "Most of Europe do it that way. It works well :) ", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "At least you'd be sure you'd be able to get help for your anxiety!", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "Alas yes, it's a very scary system. Too many people suffer cos they can't get insurance or pay their bills \n", "output": "Information" }, { "input": "Yes it really is - I can imagine that that sends your anxiety sky high. We just don't have to worry about that - we pay in advance and no more than we can afford \n", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "Well, how about Vitamin B? Strangely, it actually does work ", "output": "Information" }, { "input": "you need quite a large dose each day - regular won't do anything ", "output": "Information" }, { "input": "I am probably not supposed to give medical advice :) But have a look online", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "It genuinely did help me though", "output": "Self-disclosure" }, { "input": "Anyway thank you for talking and I wish you well! ", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "you too!", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "You need to quit from your end cos I can't from mine :D ", "output": "Information" }, { "input": "Hi there, how are you feeling today?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "I am very sorry to hear that. What are you sad about?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "Oh wow that is really rough. Do you think you might be able to work it out or is it over permanently?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "Maybe it is for the best - I have been cheated on before and although it hurt at the time it turned out to be the best favour he could have done me. ", "output": "Self-disclosure" }, { "input": "Sounds like you're definitely well off out of that one!!", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "All you need now is to give yourself some TLC .. treat yourself to something nice and go easy on yourself. ", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "There will be someone else. I never thought I'd find anyone else but I did and we've been together ten years ago now!", "output": "Self-disclosure" }, { "input": "Tender Loving Care :) Means be good to yourself ", "output": "Information" }, { "input": "Is there anything you can do to distract yourself right now? Plan a holiday or take a night class or something?", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "Save up what you make and buy yourself something nice?", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "There is some very lucrative stuff out there :). Take what we are doing right now for instance.", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "beats flipping burgers ;). So, what are you going to do to get yourself back onto the dating market?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "Ah yes, the world feels like it's on hold at the moment doesn't it? Probably not a good time to start sharing germs with new people :D ", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "I'll be around for ages if you want to talk some more on here! ", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "You're welcome :) I have a solution for every problem you know ;) ", "output": "Information" }, { "input": "just wait till fifteen mins is up ;). If we quit before then we get less. So, um, tell me about your ex?", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "ah! I met mine through OKCUPID. Online dating is definitely the way to go these days \n", "output": "Self-disclosure" }, { "input": "Not like when I was younger when the internet was just taking off. Internet dating was seen as weird then ", "output": "Information" }, { "input": "Well it's been lovely talking, I hope to see you again sometime :) take care! ", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "bye ", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "(you need to quit first .. I can't this end :)) ", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "Hello, how are you feeling today? ", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "Hi, is there anything you'd like to talk about today?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "Would you like to give me a few more details?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "Well, are you sure that he could have definitely afforded to loan you anything?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "Well, the thing is, just because you had lent to him does not mean he is obliged to help you\n", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "Though of course it would have been the courteous thing to do ", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "Is it possible to try to talk to him calmly and tell him exactly how he has made you feel?", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "I think you need to decide whether you just just let it go or whether you cant' and won't be able to continue the friendship", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "Aren't you worried that it might rankle with you and surface again at some time to affect the friendship?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "It is understandable. I hope that I have been able to help you a little and thank you for talking it out! ", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "Have you thought of trying any meditation exercises or breathing exercises... just to help you stay calm?", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "I think you should give it a try - I have personally found breathing exercises very helpful! Thank you for talking, I must go now. ", "output": "Self-disclosure" }, { "input": "can you press quit and do the survey? It has to be done your end:) We've done ten turns each. ", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "Yes I do but the task really is finished. Please press quit, I can't do it my end. Neither of us will get paid if you do not. Ten turns each and fifteen minutes .. we've done that. ", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "bye!", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "you have to press quit. It does not work from this end. ", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "Please press quit or neither of us gets paid. This has already taken twice as long as it should have. \n", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "Please press quit. ", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "Hi there, how are you doing today?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "I am very well. Do you have any problems you'd like to discuss with me? ", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "Ah, can you give me a few more details? I am sure I will be able to help/ ", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "Wow that is a tough one - I can see why you would be concerned about it. At least, though, you can be assured that she is safe and is never going to come to any harm as a result of his driving now ", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "I understand but right now is probably not the best time to confront her about it :(", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "People can hold values that to other people seem strange. She might not have considered it wrong to be driving on drugs, even though it is. ", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "That would not make it acceptable though! ", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "At least you can feel relieved that your daughter is safe now :) ", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "I think the best you can do right now is just be there for your friend when she wants to talk. ", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "Is she able to support herself financially?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "Maybe it can be a good opportunity for her to change her lifestyle and get off the drugs ", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "On that note, I hope I have been able to give you some reassurance and thanks for talking! ", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "you're welcome :) (you need to quit your end; I can't from this end :)) ", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "if you just press quit and answer the questions ;) ", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "Hi. How are you today? Is there something that you'd like to chat about?\n", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "That sounds like a challenging situation. How long have you had to deal with this? ", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "That's some months that you've been out of work. What kind of work are you looking for? ", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "That's good to hear. So you can manage for a while. What kind of work do you hope to find? ", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "So many jobs would be acceptable if they are nearby and are in a related field.", "output": "Restatement or Paraphrasing" }, { "input": "Do you have any contacts in industry that could be of help? That might give you more options.", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "You could also help them find a job, too. Put a favor in the favor bank.", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "Ok. So in a way, you need to build a new network of industry contacts nearby. Is there an industry group or other club in the area? ", "output": "Restatement or Paraphrasing" }, { "input": "How much time can you wait? Time seems to be the gating factor here. ", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "Ok. You think you'll have job opportunities, but maybe not ones that meet your location needs. Are you hoping to spend more time with your family?", "output": "Reflection of feelings" }, { "input": "It sounds like you have a good handle on your situation. Is there anything else I can help you with?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "Yes. Time will help you resolve this issue. You will gain perspective on what's out there. ", "output": "Information" }, { "input": "More opportunities will come up if you have time to investigate. ", "output": "Information" }, { "input": "That's great! I'm glad I was able to help.", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "Ok.", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "Ok. That sounds like something that you should talk to someone about. How many classes are you taking at the moment?\n", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "That's tough. A full load of courses. Do you have to take all of them right now? Can you adjust your course load?", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "That's a challenging situation. Can you get help from the professor with the deadlines? Maybe you could look into getting a tutor.", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "Great! I think a tutor will give you some guidance on how to stay on top of your courses. \nYour situation is not unusual. Many students have difficulty trying to manage it all. Are you working a job as well? ", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "Ok. No worries! Can you adjust your hours at your job? Do you need the money, or can you maybe take a short break from work until you catch up?\n", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "True. Once you're on the other side of this semester, you can put in more hours. Do you absolutely have to finish this semester, or can you put off a course until the next term?", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "Is the job contingent on graduation? Maybe you could take one course while you do the job. Work full-time and study part-time.", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "Do you have to get high grades in the courses, or just pass?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "Ok. Do your best to pass. Try to cut back an hour or two at the job. Keep you eyes on the prize: the full-time job after graduation. ", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "Great! Best of luck with everything then!", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "hello! How are you?", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "I'm good, but has anything happened for you to feel like this or are you in your feelings right now?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "I think you are mental therapy is a good idea as I don't think your mind is as straight as it needs to be, it will be alright especially if your life is good", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "Yh, when I was in college i did go through that stage as I couldn't find a job", "output": "Self-disclosure" }, { "input": "It was kinda like yours in the sense that nothing triggered it but it worked out somehow so yours will as well :)", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "If it is exercise and diet that helps you, go for it!", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "No but I had another source of income so it only effected me a little. But i persevered through it so can you", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "I think you should start medication because perhaps your head isn't in the right place", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "Yeah, that might be of use and it will help you see other people in your shoes", "output": "Information" }, { "input": "maybe beyond blue or another forum", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "You too! Bye", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "Hello! I think you are carrying on from another conversation. This is a different one", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "I can't see the topic area of yours", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "What happened? Who is jealous of what", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "She may have been jealous but also may secretly want one, and she shouldn't stay with a guy she doesn't like", "output": "Restatement or Paraphrasing" }, { "input": "Maybe she thinks you are more ahead than her in life or something", "output": "Restatement or Paraphrasing" }, { "input": "Maybe it was one of those things she always wanted but never had the chance like you said. And maybe it just got to her at one point. It's not your fault though, with time she will ease out", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "Maybe she would be too scared since she already blocked you, you should give her time to ease up and then start a conversation and hopefully she will be good again", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "Yeah, it will but she will come back eventually", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "That is your friend so you will miss her eventually and just give her time ;)", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "Yeah, don't take it out on her", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "Yeah, i agree its unfortunate but it will work out somehow", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "Anyway, just keep your mind of off it\n", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "Okay, thats good to hear", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "Your welcome have a good day", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "HI, can I help today? ", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "I am sorry to hear that. I know it can be really stressful when you are considering a break up. How long have you thought about doing this?", "output": "Restatement or Paraphrasing" }, { "input": "That is a long time to think about something, so you have given it a lot of time and thought. Have you mentioned it to your partner?", "output": "Restatement or Paraphrasing" }, { "input": "Sharing your feelings is important so thank you for making the effort today. It is not fair to prove a negative and that can be taxing. It sounds like you are a very patient person.", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "You have spent a great deal of time trying to make things right with your partner and you have used a great deal of effort to make it work. You are also a very loving parent who cares greatly.", "output": "Reflection of feelings" }, { "input": "Yes, you are right. My parents split up later in life and I was happy to see my dad happy. I understand that isn't everyone story though. Do you have any close family members you can talk to about this? Or close friends?", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "Often times people turn to church or religion and support groups in order to connect with people from the same faith. Have you considered this avenue?", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "I understand that you feel nervous about reaching out and thank you again for doing that here today. Sometimes close friends can be a good source of support. It can be hard repairing friendships though.", "output": "Information" }, { "input": "Yes, I would reach out to old friends who may be willing to give you insight into how they viewed things. Support groups can feel intimidating but are usually very welcoming and truly there to help people.", "output": "Information" }, { "input": "Children are resilient and want their parents happy ultimately. You are a thoughtful person. Thank you for sharing your feelings today and being open to ideas and possible ways forward. ", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "That is great news. We are always here to help.", "output": "Information" }, { "input": "You're welcome and good luck. ", "output": "Information" }, { "input": "How are you doing today?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "What situation specifically are you speaking of, if you would like to tell me?", "output": "Restatement or Paraphrasing" }, { "input": "So what I hear you saying is that you are engaged and your fiance will not speak to you. However, you are unsure as to why she is behaving this way? Is that correct?", "output": "Restatement or Paraphrasing" }, { "input": "Unfortunately sometimes people do just grow apart. There may not be any concrete reason behind it. It appears that, for whatever reason, she does not want to talk. I can understand how this would be upsetting and that it would be hard to obtain closure and move on.", "output": "Reflection of feelings" }, { "input": "Have you tried emailing her? Perhaps she would be willing to explain in a more neutral environment?", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "It might be an option. Maybe just lay out how you feel in it, and just ask her for an explanation perhaps. It might be good to let her know that \"I understand it's over, but could you help me understand why so that I can close this chapter\" - perhaps she would respond to something like that. If she doesn't, then you are going to have to make some hard decisions and try to process this.", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "It's a very hard position to be in, but life is too beautiful to be miserable, and I know you would rather be happy.", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "You are going to have to lay it all on the line with her, but be prepared for her to not respond in the way that you want. Sometimes we do the best we can, and it still doesn't change the situation. Just know that her decision does not mean you are unworthy, it just means that she is not worthy of you - but someone else is and then it would be time to go and find them.", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "You are more than welcome. I know it's hard, but sometimes the rain has to come before the rainbow!", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "I wish you the best of luck!", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "Hi there! \nI'm glad you're here", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "So you're a female and you're married to a female? There's nothing wrong with that at all!", "output": "Information" }, { "input": "I see. So you're actually legally married - didn't just have a commitment ceremony?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "Care to share what led up to filing for divorce?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "I can certainly understand how that feels. I have been in your EXACT situation.", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "How long were you with her?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "I'm so incredibly sorry to hear that. You realize this behavior, these choices, are a flaw within her, and not you?", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "I can completely understand that as well. I blamed myself for quite some time as well.", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "When you go to bed at night, if you can drift off to dream with a clear conscience, then you're doing significantly better than her!", "output": "Reflection of feelings" }, { "input": "What are you doing to take care of you during this time?", "output": "Information" }, { "input": "You are important! You matter! Why not do something that is relaxing to you?", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "Do you have any post-it notes? Or paper and scotch tape?", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "Here's what I've done for myself, and other folks that are close to me, going through struggles...", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "Jot down inspirational messages and hang them up on the bathroom mirror, refrigerator, car, etc. \"You matter\", \"You deserve the best\", \"You are the shiznit\", etc", "output": "Information" }, { "input": "Then, for the tasks that might be getting a bit behind, make a list, in order of importance -- and include a little reward for each task completed.", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "We have to take care of ourselves. After doing it for awhile, it just might become second nature to ya. And -- if continued, will show gals in the future exactly how you expect to be treated because they'll see you taking care of you (and not settling for nor accepting any doodie)", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "Whether you \"have your act together\" or not, it's up to you to determine who is worthy of being an active part of your life.", "output": "Information" }, { "input": "Hi, can I help you today?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "I am here to listen and help all that I can. Do you have a specific problem you're worried about?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "Thank you for sharing with me today and it sounds like this has happened organically. You seem surprised and that makes a lot of sense. ", "output": "Restatement or Paraphrasing" }, { "input": "You seem to have a close bond and have been through sobriety together. That can make you feel very close to someone. How is your relationship with your husband?", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "Could you be transferring feelings because she has been there for you through a rough time and maybe you feel understood more than you do in your marriage? Can you talk to your wife about your feelings openly?", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "I am sorry to hear that. I was also married at one time and had similar issues. We never could get passed some issued like having kids or not. I understand it can be difficult coming to terms with someone. It doesn't always work out.", "output": "Self-disclosure" }, { "input": "That makes a lot of sense and good for you. That's an awesome testament to your hard work.Does your mentor feel the same way about you? ", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "Do you have sense that she has deeper feelings for you and that might be what you are picking up on and contributing to your feelings?", "output": "Reflection of feelings" }, { "input": "Have you considered getting a mentor who you don't have strong feelings for and slowing down your friendship?", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "I can understand. Have you ever consider starting a journal. A place to write your deepest secrets?", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "You need to put yourself first and distance is important. Sometimes writing your feelings down can make them practical in nature. You may read back what you write and learn about how you feel in a deeper way. Maybe you will learn you are craving attention from your wife and not getting it and that is contributing to this dilemma.", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "Thank you for sharing and please reach out anytime. Have a great day.", "output": "Information" }, { "input": "Hello how are you feeling today?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "I hear you, it's difficult to feel good when we are struggling. What are you struggling with?", "output": "Restatement or Paraphrasing" }, { "input": "I'm sorry you're sad. Do you know what is making you feel so sad?", "output": "Reflection of feelings" }, { "input": "I hear you, sometimes life gets overwhelming. What has made you happy in the past?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "Yes sometimes if you focus on a goal, you will feel accomplished, so you can focus on another goal.", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "Do you have a place where you can exercise safely in the evenings?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "I bet if you try one goal, like exercise, you will be able to start on other goals and start to feel better", "output": "Information" }, { "input": "You don't have to run, you could walk, that's good exercise. The cycle path sounds like a great place to do it at.", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "And being out in nature has a way of restoring something basic in us. ", "output": "Information" }, { "input": "Do you meditate?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "Yes, it's great to take a few minutes to quiet your mind and appreciate being in the now. ", "output": "Information" }, { "input": "That sounds like a fantastic plan, another goal. Do you need more advice?", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "Glad to have helped! Have a great day!", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "Hello, How are you feeling today?\n", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "would you like to talk about it?\n", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "I am so sorry that you had to go through that, I know this is a very difficult time for you. Has your boyfriend reached out to you at all to clarify things or to see if you are okay? ", "output": "Restatement or Paraphrasing" }, { "input": "Just By chatting with you, I can feel how hurt and upset you are . Is there anyone that can provide you support at home during this time?", "output": "Reflection of feelings" }, { "input": "This is a very challenging time for you especially when there is lack of support. I do feel your pain, And I would like to share some advise and suggestions which may alleviate some of the hurt and pain you are going through. Would you e open to hear them out?", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "Mindfulness and yoga have proven to help overcome feelings of low mood and perhaps you could try with taking a few deep breaths and listening to some calming music before going to bed tonight. Do you think that, you can try something like this?", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "I am so proud of you for giving this a try. I would like to suggest OCB relaxing music , which will help you relax.", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "I am so glad that you are feeling better. Just rest assured that I will be here for you should you need to talk to some one and I will do my best to support and guide you.", "output": "Reflection of feelings" }, { "input": "Have a great day", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "thank you", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "Hey! How are you?", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "Have you confronted him about it yet?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "Have you broken up yet?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "I think you should postpone the engagement as infidelity during marriage is far more painful", "output": "Reflection of feelings" }, { "input": "You are strong if you are able to forgive him though because I know I wouldn't ", "output": "Self-disclosure" }, { "input": "No you should never cheat, because you would be on the same wavelength as your boyfriend. Instead, if you like the other man then you should go where your feelings take you :)", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "Yeah, that might be true, a relationship isn't healthy if you are cheated on", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "To dump him is the best thing to do in my opinion. But always go where your heart is, because you won't be happy if you don't. If you do though, there are plenty men out there, and one of them is chasing you", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "Yeah, but don't go with him because of he money though, genuinely get to know him first", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "Yeah, you have a lot of options at this stage, so always do what your heart is telling you at the end of the day", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "yeah, lool something like that ;). Glad your better", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "Your welcome ;)", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "Hey. How are you?", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "Why not?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "How have you been able to get by?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "If you keep trying things will work out in the end", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "Perhaps you havent searched well enough, have you gone to many interviews?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "Perhaps on the interviews you are doing something wrong, because it have been a while", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "Dont think that. You are worthy, you just need to apply yourself in the right direction :)", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "Perhaps look for any job for now, even if they wage isn't good, because you have to start with something. You need some work experience", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "it happens that you get rejected, but it is the opportunity to learn from your mistakes and go again :)", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "Try meditation as it is able to help you relax and assess your situation", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "Maybe every day or a few times a week, depending on what you feel is necessary", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "Yeah, anything to take your mind of it :)", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "Hello! How are you doing today?\n", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "That's awesome! What seems to be bothering you today?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "I can totally understand that! I look back in the same way and are reminded of good and bad times.\n", "output": "Self-disclosure" }, { "input": "I understand you are emotional when thinking back, are the emotions of your friend, good or bad?", "output": "Reflection of feelings" }, { "input": "Have you tried keeping busy so you remain focused in your life?", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "Do you find that method is helping you get past/avoid those bad feelings you are having?", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "I understanding finding new interesting and devoting yourself to them. When I lost my dog recently, who I had for 20 years, I found that spending my time at a local dog shelter really helped me cope and move forward.", "output": "Self-disclosure" }, { "input": "Is there anything else I can help you with or that you want to share with me today?", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "All you can do is take one day at a time, show up, do your best, remember her and her love/support...", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "Making friends is tough, especially these days. What makes you the most nervous about it? ", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "That's a great realization. It sounds easy but know that it will be challenging. It's okay to feel like you have 'failed' some days. The fact that you are aware, and working on it - that's huge!", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "You are absolutely welcome! I wish you the best of luck.", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "Anytime.", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "Hello. How can I help you today?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "Is there anything particular that you are feeling depressed about?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "Losing a family member can be very tough. It seems like you are having a hard time going forward.", "output": "Reflection of feelings" }, { "input": "Do you have anyone around you that you feel comfortable talking to about this?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "It's great you have family in your life that you can talk to. It sounds like having a strong family is something you can be proud of. ", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "I agree. I also worry about losing my family", "output": "Self-disclosure" }, { "input": "From my experience, I just focus on the now and try not to worry about things that may be out of my control.", "output": "Information" }, { "input": "Have you ever tried meditation?", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "I understand. That may be exactly what could help you, though. It may be good to Try something that may open yourself up to new experiences.", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "There are several books that you can download from Amazon that can help with meditation, or if you really want to try something out of the norm, there are classes where they help you learn how to meditate.", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "You're welcome. I think that is a great start and I think it can be really helpful for you.", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "Hi! How are you?", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "Why are you in a town all alone?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "Do you have the option to move back? Because family is the most important thing at the end of the day", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "At this point, you will have to ask your family to make time to talk with you and im sure they will understand if they hear where you are coming from", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "Yeah reach out to your mum, and although you fight and argue, they are still your family at the end of the day", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "Thats nice of her :)", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "Have you visited them ever since?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "If they are your pets you should be able to keep them but you did the right thing as to not argue with your brother and your parents could help you look after them", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "Yeah, he doesn't seem very nice, but its good that you don't retaliate negatively ", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "Its a good thing you moved then because at least now you are away from him", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "You should always try to be happy", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "Yes its good to not dwell on the past like that. Have a good day :)", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "Hello! How are you today?\n", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "What seems to be bothering you?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "When was the last time you were employed?\n", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "Coronavirus has impacted lives of many hard-working people. Are you eligible to receive help from the government?", "output": "Restatement or Paraphrasing" }, { "input": "I understand how being umemployed at this time could be very stressful. \n", "output": "Reflection of feelings" }, { "input": "I would apply anywhere that is hiring. You'd be surprised with the feedback you get. Being in the house will not help. If you've applied everywhere online, why not take a walk some where near to apply to small businesses that may not have applications online. Would that be an option for you?\n", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "It would also help you get out of the house and have something positive to think about! ", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "Most people would agree! You have to be able to get out of the house and be social in order to be truly happy and then you will enjoy your time at home once again.\n", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "As for your pending bills, you can always try to see what type of assistance you can be provided by the company billing you. There may also be assistance by your local government for electric bills, water bills, and so forth.\n", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "Collection companies will usually work with you so you can make payments instead of paying one lump sum. After the payment plan has been sent or you've paid you're full amount it will even come off of your credit.\n", "output": "Information" }, { "input": "I know it is harder to see the brighter side of things when depression is involved but it will get better! ", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "You will find a job and be the best you can be!\n", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "Hi", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "What's wrong?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "Is there a reason she wants to leave?\n", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "Maybe you could help her feel more comfortable around you, as that is what I would do :)", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "It seems like you two don't share a lot of chemistry. But then again, you can't afford to let her leave", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "No i don't think thats a good idea, if you are still able to change her mind", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "Maybe try to talk it out with her in a calm setting", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "Yeah, if she is non-confrontational that means that you will have to initiate it\n", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "Because she won't and she will end up leaving", "output": "Information" }, { "input": "yeah but you can't really take such a gamble tbh. And why did she buy it, is it because she wanted you to live in it?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "We were supposed to chat for at least 10 messages each i think \n", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "It takes a while i think like a week, but i am not sure", "output": "Information" }, { "input": "Yeah, if she wanted to leave she would've done so long ago in my opinion", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "bye", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "Hello and are you attempting to get a new job", "output": "Self-disclosure" }, { "input": "Yes I know it can be very frustrating at times to start a new job and find one that fits ", "output": "Self-disclosure" }, { "input": "What kind of field of work are you hoping to get into", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "What kind of work motivates you on a daily basis ", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "That sounds like a very promising line of work, have you thought about a fitness trainer or maybe a physical therapist that would go along with exercise", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "There are alot of online courses that are affordable and even grants if you quailfy ", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "It sounds like you have a lot going on right now, but who mentioned organization was one of your strengths its the same as listing career posibilites and making a list of things to accomplish it\n", "output": "Reflection of feelings" }, { "input": "I meant you mentioned lol\n", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "I meant you mentioned lol\n", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "Yes I know it sounds really hard but I truly believe you can do it", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "Well I am very glad I was able to help", "output": "Reflection of feelings" }, { "input": "You too take care\n", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "whats on your mind?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "having problems with friends can be frusterating", "output": "Restatement or Paraphrasing" }, { "input": "then they are not your friends ", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "it should be your choice and a true friend would support you rdecision", "output": "Information" }, { "input": "cdc reports 2,509 people died after getting the vaccine. that is 0.0017% but still too high for me", "output": "Information" }, { "input": "wonder.cdc.gov you can serahc for side effects. maybe if you show them data they will lay off y ou and let you come around ", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "according to the search page, its caused 64 abortions", "output": "Information" }, { "input": "i think you are being smart. i am doing the same. wait to see what the long term effect are", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "22% of people get headaches most common is chills fatigue pain nausea ", "output": "Information" }, { "input": "why get a vaccine that gives you the same symptoms you are trying to avoid? lol", "output": "Restatement or Paraphrasing" }, { "input": "my coworker got hers this week. she had a headche, stomach ache and felt weak. maybe do a group chat so they call as see what sympotoms they all had", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "maybe if they see it all out there, they will undersstand your position", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "it can't hurt to try!", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "it cant hurt, that is for sure", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "what does your familythink?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "well that is good!", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "thats awesome! we did a masssive family zoom for my grandma's 93rd birthday ", "output": "Self-disclosure" }, { "input": "it does. it was nice talking to someone wit hte same perspective for once!", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "have a great day!", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "hello, how are you?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "oh! can ask you why?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "you can share you problem with me freely ", "output": "Self-disclosure" }, { "input": "Oh ! that's very sad but try to move out from this", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "Try do those things that make you feel happy", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "Try to live i future forget past", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "try to make your self happy", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "don't be sad because of past", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "Try do do those things that make you happy.", "output": "Self-disclosure" }, { "input": "My sister went through but now she is ok because she left past", "output": "Self-disclosure" }, { "input": "Try to left past in pin", "output": "Reflection of feelings" }, { "input": "She went through this two years in this situation", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "try to do some yoga it will help you", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "Try to go join some other activities that make you feel better", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "Yes i know that hard situation for everyone ", "output": "Self-disclosure" }, { "input": "but try do all things at home . stay safe as well", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "yes that's very goo people taking vaccine ", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "yes try to watch comedy movies that make you happy ", "output": "Self-disclosure" }, { "input": "or laughter programs ", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "that's very good", "output": "Restatement or Paraphrasing" }, { "input": "Please try to watch those things that make you happy", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "Thanks for sharing your problem with me", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "Thanks", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "Your welcome", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "I hope you will try these soon", "output": "Information" }, { "input": "thanks for all", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "bye", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "thanks", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "bye", "output": "Reflection of feelings" }, { "input": "Hello, How are you? ", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "That is wonderful to hear. How is life going? ", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "Oh I know how hard it can be to be stressed out. What is going on with your job? ", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "Oh yeah, not being able to find a job can be pretty stressful. Have you checked online, on job websites?", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "Oh yes, that happens most of the time when applying for jobs. It's okay, you will definitely find one. Have you tried asking friends/ family? Maybe places that friends and family work at, have job openings. ", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "Of course! Everyone deserves to have a job that they worked hard for. What kind of jobs are you interested in? ", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "Oh okay, well while looking for job try not to put yourself in position where you take deep breaths and let your mind at piece. Patience is everything. Sometime in life we all have our patience tested, but that is OK because at the end the results are better than anything. ", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "I mean try to put yourself in that position. ", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "Of course! Everything comes at a perfect time, and we have to learn to be patient, and while waiting we can indulge in other activities that we like. ", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "While doing your online job maybe you can work in activities that build experience for a job you want to do next time. ", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "That is a great idea! You are working hard and that hard work is going to pay off! Just try to relax and be patient, which can help with your stress. ", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "Of course! I love to help", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "Goodbye and have a wonderful day!", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "hello, how are you feeling today?\n", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "I am sorry to hear that, I can understand when we think we want something and then we change our mind but it's too late.", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "nobody knows him better than you do, right now I do not think he is in a good place either since it wasn't his choice to end it, how do you think he would react if you started pressuring him?\n ", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "frustration and anger are common responses in situations like this, perhaps you can try a softer approach and let him know how you feel, without pressuring him into a response", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "you can always ask him calmly if he would like to talk, so you both have a chance to express your feelings in a safe way, with no yelling or arguing, do you think that's something he would do?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "nobody likes to see that one's friend is sad because of someone else, I think this is an issue that only the two of you can resolve, if he takes you back then his friends will take you back as well, but you need to make sure you want him back", "output": "Reflection of feelings" }, { "input": "what made you like someone else in the first place?", "output": "Information" }, { "input": "was it a common thing that he didn't give you the attention you wanted?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "were you happy with him or were you happy that you were with the popular guy?", "output": "Reflection of feelings" }, { "input": "it sounds to me like you liked the title more than the feeling of being with him, reflecting on your time together, would you do that again? ", "output": "Reflection of feelings" }, { "input": "popularity in my opinion, it's just an opinion (I hope I make sense) but think about how you'd like to be treated and how you want to feel when you are with someone, because at the end of the day it's your feelings and your happiness, I wish you the best of luck.", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "Hi there I am so sorry\n", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "was a little distracted but I am here. How are you feeling? ", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "I am sorry to hear that. Do you want to tell me the story? I promise it won't be weird. I've been through a lot. ", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "Oh yeah? Was this a friend, partner, family member? ", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "I am so sorry to hear that. Have you tried anything to address the situation? Perhaps bringing it up to him subtlly? Or even just asking how HE is, to see if he has siomething he wants to talk about. ", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "Oh goodness, yes. I actually was ghosted by the woman I thought was my soulmate... on my birthday. It was... strategic of her. ", "output": "Self-disclosure" }, { "input": "So you haven't heard from him since the end of November? ", "output": "Restatement or Paraphrasing" }, { "input": "Is there a family member or trusted friend you could reach out to? Has he logged into or posted on any of his social media accounts?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "Is he close to you or is this a long distance type thing? Just for context's sake. No judgment of course. ", "output": "Information" }, { "input": "Well, it can also be... easier to open up to someone and the relationships can be very intimate, even from a distance. So your feelings are valid, 100%. ", "output": "Reflection of feelings" }, { "input": "How are you doing today ?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "It is a stressful time , why are you feeling stressed ?", "output": "Restatement or Paraphrasing" }, { "input": "I can understand ", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "I have 2 kids , How many kids do you have ?", "output": "Information" }, { "input": "I have a bachelor degree", "output": "Information" }, { "input": "Managing things all become stressful, but Im sure you are really good at what you are doing!", "output": "Reflection of feelings" }, { "input": "Thats are not true, You have beautiful kids, work and pursuing master's . You are a great achiever ", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "Deep breaths and practicing mindfulness will help you relieve some stress", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "I sometimes do Meditation or go for a 10 mins walk ", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "Thats true with your busy schedule finding the balance is challenge . ", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "Hope you feel relaxed just chatting with me for a change ", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "Im sorry to hear you have been feeling anxious. Lets work to find things that maybe help you feel better when your feeling this way. \n", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "Based on studies generally walking away for a moment from a stressor can help to relieve that stressor momentarily enough to maybe make you feel alittle better. ", "output": "Information" }, { "input": "Thats a good idea and sometimes when ive been stressed walking or any physical activity can help to promote more of a positive feeling based on the release of endorphines.", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "How long have you been experiencing anxiety?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "Do you think maybe it has to do with covid going on right now? Or did anythign specifically happen that has brought on more anxiety? more work? family? money? .....", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "Generally to relax i as well enjoy some forms of exercise, sometimes a cup of warm tea or even just listening to music can help distract your mind for a moment. ", "output": "Self-disclosure" }, { "input": "Im so sorry to hear that. I completely understand why you may be feeling the way you do. ", "output": "Reflection of feelings" }, { "input": "I do think a good diet can help with many aspects of things, after all food is the energy and nutrients for your body. So if you eat bad quality food you dont reap all the benefits and nutrition that comes from a good nutrient rich diet. ", "output": "Information" }, { "input": "The best advice i can give is to remember to be positive , focus on also your own sanity and take one day at a time. ", "output": "Self-disclosure" }, { "input": "i think having a good support system is a wonderful idea. That can include friends, family or any other professional you may use to communicate with.", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "I think that may be so. Its tough to not worry when it comes to anyone you care about or love especially if they arent doing well. ", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "Is there anything else i can help you with or do you have any other questions?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "Im glad to hear that. And your welcome. I hope i could help and hope the best for you and your family. ", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "Hi, can I help in any way today? Can you tell me about yourself?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "I can see how you have a lot on your plate. Yo must get very exhausted.", "output": "Restatement or Paraphrasing" }, { "input": "Are you wanting to run away alone or move away on your own? Do you feel trapped when you say you want a new life?", "output": "Restatement or Paraphrasing" }, { "input": "Wow, that is a lot of pressure that you have to endure. Do you feel like you have anyone in your life who cares and listens?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "I am really thankful that you reached out today and I am happy that you are here with me today. You are making a lot of sense and I appreciate you opening up.", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "Have you been able to tell any friends how you are feeling and how alone you feel?", "output": "Reflection of feelings" }, { "input": "I can understand how you feel. I live in a new town and dont have any friends here and it can be very lonely and isolating. Do you have any hobbies or do you have any time for yourself?", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "I have felt that way before and I reached out for help like you are today. I was so depressed that I need to start therapy. ", "output": "Self-disclosure" }, { "input": "Do you ever write in a journal or are you able to exercise alone? Both of those can begin a path to healing.", "output": "Information" }, { "input": "I can relate to that. Maybe you can start with journaling and writing out your feelings and thoughts. They may help clear your mind especially in the evenings.", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "It can even be just a few bullets points to start yuor journal. Just think of it as highlighting your day and write a few bullets of what you are thankful for. That can be a five minute task. I will change your head space.", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "Yes, you deserve some time to be selfish and take care of you and your needs. You can do it in the evenings when hopefully everyone is asleep and you can rest your mind and reset your thinking.", "output": "Information" }, { "input": "You have already made great progress today by reaching out and explaining out you feel. Thank you for letting me listen today.", "output": "Information" }, { "input": "HI, how's. your day going?\n", "output": "Restatement or Paraphrasing" }, { "input": "I'm working hard? What are you doing?\n", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "I understand that. I have a smilier situations and bills don't stop for reduced hours", "output": "Self-disclosure" }, { "input": "Is he feeling better now?\n", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "well that's good news. I am sure you are continuing to try hard\n", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "it sounds like you are stress about the situation and overwhelmed trying to find a path forward\n", "output": "Reflection of feelings" }, { "input": "do you have a plan to resolve the situation?\n", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "is there something else you can do at your job or take on another part time job to help. make ends meet?\n", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "I know there are lots of open jobs out there\n", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "I am sure you have done your best and are continuing to try hard\n", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "Hi, how are you feeling today?\n", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "okay, that is valid, do you have an idea what is causing the confusion?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "Your feelings are valid and it is okay to feel confused in this situation considering you love your boyfriend and parents ", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "Have you tried discussing with your boyfriend to talk to your parents as a means of reassuring them?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "Or getting someone neutral that your parents trust to talk to them?", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "I get how difficult and upsetting this situation is to you, i have been in a similar situation, however, in my case i took charge of my life, though they are my parents i did what i felt is good for me", "output": "Self-disclosure" }, { "input": "Before i continue, do you mind me asking how old you are?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "Okay, you are old enough to be away from your parents, i am going to suggest you sitting with them down and having a heart to heart discussion with them", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "Let them know the consequences of them forcing you, your feelings towards it and how unhappy you are with them restricting you", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "No, i think that should be personal to you, i would not suggest you hurting or making them see you as a disappointment", "output": "Reflection of feelings" }, { "input": "I am sure you will be fine after discussing with them, they will come around", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "They might be sad and upset now but they will get over it definitely", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "You are welcome", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "You too", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "How are you! \n", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "Good. Thank you for asking. What brings you to talk today?", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "I can understand how that is upsetting. ", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "What about the job do you find unfulfilling?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "I understand. It seems to me you are a proactive person who enjoys continuing work to obtain a goal. Is that correct?", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "I am the same way. My mind needs something to work with or it begins to wonder. ", "output": "Self-disclosure" }, { "input": "Have you talked to your work about additional projects you could work on during your time?", "output": "Information" }, { "input": "I think that would be a good next step. Communication is always helpful. I think your work will appreciate that you are being proactive. ", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "Perhaps this will improve things and if they dont improve you can reassess. ", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "How are you feeling about things now? Is there anything else I can assist with?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "Hello! What is on your mind today? ", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "Oh really? Why is that? ", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "being mad that your boyfriend cheated is normal. being mad when dumped is normal. ", "output": "Restatement or Paraphrasing" }, { "input": "don't you think you DESERVE better than he was treating you?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "I've been there too", "output": "Self-disclosure" }, { "input": "Expecially with covid, it can be hard realiing you may be alone and it may be frusterating dating someone new", "output": "Reflection of feelings" }, { "input": "if you really love someone, shouldnt they love you back? did his actions show love? ", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "if you did get back together and get married, how do you know he wouldnt cheat again? what if you had kids? they would have to see you go through heartbreak", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "i think its normal to want to marry your high school sweetheart", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "i married mine. 3 years later he left me to move into his girlfriends house leaving me with our two month old daughter", "output": "Self-disclosure" }, { "input": "trust me, its not worth it in the long run", "output": "Information" }, { "input": "maybe you can find someone deserving on someone like you!", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "i think a lot of couples are feeling stuck with covid. once things open up and everyone is vaccinated and get togethers happen again, i bet there will be a LOT more breakups and a lot more options out there!", "output": "Restatement or Paraphrasing" }, { "input": "all we can do is learn from our mistakes and not let the past repeat itself", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "with your newly aquired free time, you can focus on you! start a new hobby, dye your hair,do something you always wanted to do!\n", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "know what the best part is?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "get yourself fixed up and cute, and find a hot new guy. your ex will see on social media and know he messed up and see you happy. its quite theraputic :D", "output": "Information" }, { "input": "EXACTLY! You deserve so much better! Make yourself feel like it and everyone see it! :D :D ", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "Good luck!", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "Hi, how are you?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": " I am doing okay, thanks for asking but what's going on with you?", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "Oh no and how did this make you feel?", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "I could imagine it did make you feel that way. \nThis person doesn't seem like a friend as he knew that that was your wife. ", "output": "Reflection of feelings" }, { "input": "Yes, most definitely. Your feelings are very valid in this situation. However, physical violence would not be the best solution because you could get in trouble.", "output": "Information" }, { "input": "First, I would suggest that you distanced yourself or even stopped being friends with this person. Second, for the anger that you feel, there are a lot of things you could do like going running, going for a walk, or even crying", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "It's important that you do not hold these feelings in.", "output": "Information" }, { "input": "Have you considered punching a bag in the gym? That can be a great way for you to release that anger.", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "You could definitely call him and express your feelings to him as that would be another great way to get how you're feeling off of your chest. ", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "I definitely understand how you feel, I've been in the same situation where I'm not friends with a particular person but we have the same friend group. It may be hard in the beginning but the tension and awkwardness should get easier as time goes on. I would suggest that you hang out with these friends without this other friend you're having issues with.", "output": "Self-disclosure" }, { "input": "That's okay. Sometimes it may be you or other times it may be him that gets invited but that's how things will be since the situation transpired.", "output": "Information" }, { "input": "That's very true. Don't bring the situation to your friends though because they had nothing to do with it. Only the friend who did the action should be affected. ", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "No problem, I really hope that you can get a peace of mind from this situation. I wish you the best of luck!", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "Hey! How are you?", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "I'm good but what make you say you could be better?", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "Why didn't you report it?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "You should report it because at least the boss knows that you are honest with your actions. ", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "I don't think you won't lose it straight away if it is your first mistake", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "It's never too late, and it would be better to do it now than let him find out himself :)", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "Yes but if you report it now you still have a chance of being let off, but if u don't report it now, you would almost certainly lose your job.", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "In any case, always prepare for the worst circumstance at this point", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "They most likely will, so it is better not to use that chance", "output": "Information" }, { "input": "In any case, it is always better to tell the truth, because you don't want to have the truth boiling up inside of you for a long time. Thats what I say", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "Knowing the severity of the mistake, i think you should tell as good things come to people who are honest :)", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "But about your depression, try to occupy yourself with more work and maybe your boss will see that you have changed your ways", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "I think you should work extremely hard during the shift so the boss thinks you have changed your ways, at the end of the shift", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "As long as you tell its up to you", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "Yeah, but start preparing for the worst now:)", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "Hey! How are you?", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "What was the mistake?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "Was it too serious?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "Is that your first time making that mistake?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "If so i'm sure your manager will tell you to make sure in case for next time", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "Mistakes happen, they are unavoidable, and your manager should know this so since it is your first time he should take it easy", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "Just make sure it doesn't happen again because you need to learn from this mistake :)", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "If you can't breath normally, then I think it is best to start to meditate in order to control your breathing and make you less stressed", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "Yes, meditation is extremely useful, and I also use it when I feel stressed", "output": "Self-disclosure" }, { "input": "Maybe play calm classical music and start slowly reminiscing about the days previous, and your future ahead", "output": "Information" }, { "input": "or you could just wacth a youtube tutorial, either one works fine", "output": "Information" }, { "input": "It is all in the aid of calming yourself down, and your welcome :) ", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "and knowing it is your first offense, probably not but always prepare for the worst", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "5 years is a very long time, so I don't think that you will be given the pink slip", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "I know it would be hard to find a new job, which is why you should always be prepared", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "If you believe in yourself, things will work out somehow :)", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "Yes, thats the spirit!", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "Your welcome! There is always someone to talk to", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "You too!", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "hello, how are you doing and how was your night?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "I'm sorry to hear that but if i may hear your you clearly, what you are saying is that you don't have any job for a long time now", "output": "Restatement or Paraphrasing" }, { "input": "ok, that is a bit of relief \n", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "have u check for job vacancy in your state", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "oh, safety is everything. have you ever consider changing your location. i once change my location to pursue my goal and it pan out well", "output": "Reflection of feelings" }, { "input": "wow, i pray that work out. i believe it will work out", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "wow, that's a big deal. i know you might not be the only one fighting for this position but i trust you will get it", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "even by working there, you will surely meet new friends. do you know many people from the church?\n", "output": "Information" }, { "input": "you just have to be patient and don't push it too hard so that you won't look desperate ", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "wow, banquet at work. that is a wonderland stuff", "output": "Restatement or Paraphrasing" }, { "input": "that is definitely a dream job. God is everywhere\n", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "just put your trust in Him. He never sleep nor slumber ", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "wow! Olympic size pool. Keep praying. the job is yours. ", "output": "Restatement or Paraphrasing" }, { "input": "that is good, i work in such place where everyone is like a family. ", "output": "Reflection of feelings" }, { "input": "i can feel your excitement. ", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "we are trying to make impact and survive which is what you have been doing with your current work. but sooner or later you will get your real job.", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "I hope and pray everything happens the way you wished. you have been working hard.", "output": "Reflection of feelings" }, { "input": "I will put you in my prayers", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "You are welcome. Do have a nice day", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "hello, how are you?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "How is your day today?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "Oh! don't feel like this try to feel relaxe", "output": "Restatement or Paraphrasing" }, { "input": "Try to make yourself confidence and relax ", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "Try to give more time to your studies", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "I can feel your anxiety from your chatting ", "output": "Reflection of feelings" }, { "input": "I have been from same situation but i try my best and i did", "output": "Reflection of feelings" }, { "input": "I have that you can do it don't worry ", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "hope*", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "Oh! that very hard but try you best ", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "Try to feel condense that you know everything it help you to relax", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "If you relax you can sleep more", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "Thanks for taking my suggestion ", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "I hope it will help you", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "Try to relax without medication because medicine is not good for health", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "Try to do some yoga", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "Your welcome ", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "Thanks to you for sharing your problem ", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "HI, how are you?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "Its very sad but try to come out from depression", "output": "Restatement or Paraphrasing" }, { "input": "because its not good for your health", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "Oh!, please don't feel like this try to do some yoga before sleeping", "output": "Restatement or Paraphrasing" }, { "input": "yoga make you feel relax try this", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "yes try it make you feel better", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "Yoga is relaxing tool", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "try to watch some videos and follow some yoga trainer ", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "Just from your chatting i feel how much you are in depression ", "output": "Reflection of feelings" }, { "input": "Try those things that make you feel happy before work like funny videos ", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "I hope i can help you", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "Long time age I'm in same situation so i try those things so those help me to come out from this", "output": "Self-disclosure" }, { "input": "Yes its too early try to fix your old relationship before move on new", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "Oh! so than i think you need to move on from this", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "Try do relaxing thing that make you come out from this", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "Thanks that you share your problem with me", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "Your welcome ", "output": "Reflection of feelings" }, { "input": "you lost your Job", "output": "Restatement or Paraphrasing" }, { "input": "i am soo sorry to hear that", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "I lost mine too due to covid ", "output": "Self-disclosure" }, { "input": "trust me i can feel your pain", "output": "Reflection of feelings" }, { "input": "what effort have you made in regards to searching for new job?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "taking new course is a good idea", "output": "Restatement or Paraphrasing" }, { "input": "yea, market is very bad and difficult right now but if i can get a job just last month then you can get one too", "output": "Reflection of feelings" }, { "input": "yea, market is very bad and difficult right now but if i can get a job just last month then you can get one too", "output": "Reflection of feelings" }, { "input": "if the course is in relation to the kind of job you wand then go ahead. that is a good thing to do", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "Hello, are you still there", "output": "Others" }, { "input": " you should check for job vacancies in your state, and also let your friends be aware because you don't know where the connection might comes from", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "Hello, how are you?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "I'm good, thanks for asking. Why are you worried about applying for grad schools?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "Yes i am here.", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "I'm sorry to hear that. Do you have any friends or family you talk to?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "Maybe you can try and talk to her, your sister probably wants someone to talk to too.", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "Alright well what is the problem with grad school application.", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "What is your major?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "That's great. And some tips i would give you is to thank about all the benefits of completing the programs", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "yes i apologize for the long response.", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "You welcome. and yes", "output": "Self-disclosure" }, { "input": "some things you can do is try to do the things that makes you happy and stay positive through this time.", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "one thing i have done was have a watch party on hulu with friends which was really fun.", "output": "Information" }, { "input": "yes i do chat on zoom, and through social media sites.", "output": "Information" }, { "input": "hello", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "can you talk about your feelings at this time", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "that's really hard, have you spoken to any of your coworkers", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "I would recommend speaking with him privately about the issue one on one", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "have you tried reaching out a company hotline or maybe an hr department in your company to speak about this issue anonymously this could help with the tension between you and your boss ", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "I see how you feel do you think letting it fade is the best option in the long run?", "output": "Reflection of feelings" }, { "input": "I would apologize for my behavior to the manager if it was me. Just to seem professional and get in my bosses good grace. ", "output": "Self-disclosure" }, { "input": "You are doing your best and I think you will make the right decision that works for you", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "Is anything else bother you?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "I am happy to help!", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "you're welcome", "output": "Restatement or Paraphrasing" }, { "input": "Hello, how are you doing?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "Yes i understand what you mean.", "output": "Reflection of feelings" }, { "input": "I'm sorry to hear that.", "output": "Reflection of feelings" }, { "input": "Is there anything i can help you with? To make you feel better?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "Yes, everyone needs someone to talk to.I think you deserve people who will be there for you when you need them to, and not only just take take and not give anything..", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "This is probably hard to hear but you need someone you can count on, I think it would be a good idea for you to get new friends that would be their for you and wont take you for granted.", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "Do you go out to any public places?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "Yes that work, and yes i know its a bit risky, maybe you can try joining any online groups of people that have things in common with you.", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "Yes book clubs are great.", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "yes i do think its easy to find online groups, and the people are really nice to. I have tried it.", "output": "Self-disclosure" }, { "input": "I think you will enjoy it, and you are welcome. ", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "Thank you, you are welcome. Enjoy your day", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "Hi there, how are you feeling right now?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "I am really sorry to hear that - I've been there too. Can you tell me more?", "output": "Self-disclosure" }, { "input": "That sucks. Has the pandemic been making your financial situation worse?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "There is government help available for people who are financially suffering I believe - have you looked into this?", "output": "Information" }, { "input": "I am really sorry. Is she able to get any other sort of work, even if it's less well paid?", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "Do you have any friends or family who might be able to help?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "That is a dilemma. What sort of field did your wife work in?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "Has she considered temping? I did that when I was between permanent jobs and it was quite good. ", "output": "Self-disclosure" }, { "input": "It's not as well paid but you can choose your own hours. There's also online gig work out there too ", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "Have you considered going to a food bank? They can be very useful ", "output": "Information" }, { "input": "You should not feel bad. Have you not donated to food banks yourself when times were better? I used a food bank in a crisis time and now I give back whenever I go shopping", "output": "Self-disclosure" }, { "input": "Everyone needs help sometimes :) And you can pass it forward when things are better for you. On that note I suppose I had better go but I was glad to speak with you! ", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "goodbye and good luck :) ", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "Can you press quit and take the survey? It has to be done by your first :) ", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "Hello! How are you doing today? ", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "Is there anything you'd like to talk to me about?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "I am fine .. I am here to listen to your problems. ", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "I do not know - there are a lot of nasty people out there. Have you tried confronting people who are bullying you and asking them why?", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "You do not have to buy fancy clothes for the sake of other people! Maybe you could get some counselling to work on your self esteem though?", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "Have you tried shopping in second hand stores? You can often get some nice stuff there for cheap. ", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "But really I think that the problem is your self esteem, not what you are wearing. ", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "Right! To be honest I suspect that it's far more their problem than it is yours. ", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "Yes I think that they were. I have had issues like this myself in the past and I know how much it hurts and how hard it is to overcome it.", "output": "Self-disclosure" }, { "input": "I went through a phase of wearing only baggy clothes because I thought i was overweight. Looking back I was not but I thought I was. ", "output": "Self-disclosure" }, { "input": "Anyway I hope I have been able to make you feel a little better! All the best for the future. ", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "That sounds like a great suggestion - good luck with it :) ", "output": "Others" }, { "input": ":) Can you press quit first? I am not able to :( ", "output": "Information" }, { "input": "bye!\n", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "Hi there how are you doing today? ", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "I am okay thanks. Is there anything you'd like to talk to me about right now? ", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "It sounds to me like you are suffering from depression. That sounds scary but it really is common. Would you consider professional help?", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "That definitely does sound like depression to me. I have been there myself and I promise you that there is help available.", "output": "Self-disclosure" }, { "input": "I guess that the pandemic has not helped at all with things?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "Can't have improved the situation though. Do you know that there are many free counselling services out there that you could utilise?", "output": "Information" }, { "input": "I hear you - I found it very difficult to go to counselling too but when I did I found it very helpful.", "output": "Self-disclosure" }, { "input": "I do not have any easy suggestions. It took me a good deal of time to be brave enough too. But you can ask yourself - can't things only get better?", "output": "Self-disclosure" }, { "input": "Or even if they don't, you don't really have anything to lose :) ", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "I hope you can too :). I wish you all the best in the future", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "(can you press quit first - I can't do it from my end :))", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "You too and best wishes! ", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "you just need to press quit and take the survey :) ", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "Hi there, how is life treating you today? ", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "I am so sorry to hear that. What are you feeling stressed about specifically?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "If your heart is not in it then it does not seem worth taking the extra three (at least) years. Do you have a profession you want to go into? ", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "I hear you :( I've been through that too. It can be hard to break away and stand against such a thing. ", "output": "Self-disclosure" }, { "input": "It sounds to me like it might be better for you to get away from them and form your own career and life. ", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "Yes it is very difficult to standing up for yourself if you're being emotionally bullied. ", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "Ah .. that makes it both more complicated and more simple. ", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "At the very least you are living independently ", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "Do you have financial independence as well? ", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "Have you tried talking to them about how you feel or do you feel that they would not listen to you? ", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "Okay I am happy to listen :) ", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "It is great that you at least did get up the courage to approach them - that is a brilliant first step. ", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "Ah that might help explain things. So they are pinning the hopes of the whole family on you because you are academically successful?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "I wonder if you could suggest to your dad that he goes back to school himself rather than living through you?", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "I hope I have been able to be of help to you but I am afraid I need to see someone else now. Thank you for talking though and I wish you all the very best in future ", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "you too!", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "Can you press quit first as it has to be done from your end :) ", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "it can be temperamental :) ", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "Hi, how are you doing? ", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "I'm doing ok, thanks for asking. ", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "Is there anything that's bothering you? ", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "Oh no I'm sorry to hear that. ", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "do you want to talk about what happened?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "It sounds like this is really affecting you, that must be hard", "output": "Reflection of feelings" }, { "input": "How long were you and your partner together? ", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "I've been through break ups as well where things can seem pointless afterwards. It took me some time but I eventually got through it", "output": "Self-disclosure" }, { "input": "Were you happy in the relationship?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "I talked to my friends about it a lot, and tried to keep myself occupied with lots of activities", "output": "Self-disclosure" }, { "input": "I also deleted old messages from my partner so I didn't dwell on the past as much", "output": "Self-disclosure" }, { "input": "It depends on the situation, but for me I had a lot of unresolved feelings from not getting proper closure, so ranting to my friends about how my partner hurt me helped satisfy that", "output": "Self-disclosure" }, { "input": "Do you have friends you feel comfortable talking to about this? ", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "I think it could be helpful, friends can be really supportive ", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "It's awesome that even though you're feeling so depressed, you're willing to give something a try to help you out of it", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "Getting involved in a new hobby, or something you used to enjoy, can be helpful", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "That sounds like so much fun! ", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "That sounds like a great idea. I know it's hard now but I think you'll start feeling better soon", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "You too!", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "Hello", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "How are you?", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "Ohh.. sorry to hear that. Would you mind sharing what is going on?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "You are getting out of alcoholism and feeling bad about it emotionally, is that right?", "output": "Restatement or Paraphrasing" }, { "input": "I understand you pain and frustration. I have very close friend who has ADHD and trying to cope with it. ", "output": "Self-disclosure" }, { "input": "Are you seeing any counselor to address your challenge?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "Thank you.. you know you are not alone in such journey...", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "I suggest you keep close touch with the support group and the therapist .. I see you are already in the right path..", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "As you are already engaged with the professionals to help you.. I bet you will get the necessary help. Keep pursing these engagements...", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "I see you have the right attitude.. I strongly believe that you will be successful. ", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "you welcome.. anything else you want to talk about?\n", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "You welcome.. have a good day...", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "Bye\n", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "Hi there, how are you doing today?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "I am good thanks. What would you like to talk to me about?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "I am sorry to hear that. Have you got anyone you can talk to? Maybe take some time off? ", "output": "Information" }, { "input": "So you feel that you are trapped and yet you are not coping properly?", "output": "Restatement or Paraphrasing" }, { "input": "I suggest that you talk to a counsellor. There should be free services available at your university.", "output": "Information" }, { "input": "Well, perhaps they can at least alleviate your anxiety somewhat. Or maybe even get you a sick note to give you a little extra time to complete your assignment.s", "output": "Information" }, { "input": "No, as long as you have a doctor's letter explaining why. ", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "There is more than one way to be sick. You sound as though you are suffering from depression and stress. ", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "Do you have any friends or family that you can discuss this with?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "Is she sympathetic to what you are feelign? ", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "Well that is a good start. Maybe you could make a list of things you want to discuss with your counsellor too. ", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "Try not to worry - I hope that things go well with you. ", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "All the best to you in your future and thank you for talking! ", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "You have to press quit first cos I can't :) ", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "and you :) ", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "Can you press quit and take the survey :) ", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "Hi, how are you doing? ", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "I'm doing alright. Is there anything bothering you? ", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "Oh no, that must be hard. ", "output": "Reflection of feelings" }, { "input": "I've definitely been there before, it can really hurt. ", "output": "Self-disclosure" }, { "input": "That makes sense. How long were you guys together? ", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "Oh wow, two years is a long time", "output": "Restatement or Paraphrasing" }, { "input": "It sounds like it might not have been the most healthy relationship while it was going on, but it can still really hurt when something like that ends. ", "output": "Reflection of feelings" }, { "input": "I went through something similar with an unhealthy relationship that needed to end, but it still hurt for a long time after", "output": "Self-disclosure" }, { "input": "Oh no, being taken by surprise like that can't be pleasant at all. ", "output": "Reflection of feelings" }, { "input": "I'm sorry to hear that. Do you have friends you can talk to? Spending time with friends can be a good distraction, and give you people to rant to who know you best. ", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "It sounds like you're feeling pretty alone right now", "output": "Reflection of feelings" }, { "input": "You could take the opportunity to try and take up a new hobby. I know it sounds dumb, but finding something to put your energy into could really help", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "That sounds like a great idea! That's an awesome skill and sounds like it would be fun to get back into. ", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "What instruments do you play?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "Yeah no problem! ", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "I know it's tough now, but I think after some time you'll start feeling better. ", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "It was great talking to you too :)", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "You too!", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "Hello there, how are you doing today?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "I hear you .. it can be very difficult dealing with other peoples' problems all day. Would you consider retraining for something else?", "output": "Self-disclosure" }, { "input": "True. So you feel you're stuck in a rut - you're not happy but you don't feel unhappy enough to move on?", "output": "Restatement or Paraphrasing" }, { "input": "It's a vicious cycle isn't it!? What about looking for another profession that does not involve much retraining?", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "Are you in a financial position where you could take some time off, go travelling perhaps, and renew yourself?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "Well, I would hope that they would understand that even therapists have to have a private life. And I am sure they'd prefer you at the peak of your game and not burned out. ", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "Yes perhaps you could switch to part time? If you could afford it? ", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "Somewhere at the top of the chain there must a very weary therapist with no-one to talk to. Though I suppose that is where these bots come in :D ", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "lol. It's an interesting mental picture. I am glad you still have a sense of humour though", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "Yeah - try and take up a new hobby with the extra time, maybe? ", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "I am sorry to hear that. On another note, have you considered speakign to your GP? Perhaps medication might help.", "output": "Information" }, { "input": "I have tried medication and I found it surprisingly helpful but everyone is different of course. There was no impairment though. ", "output": "Self-disclosure" }, { "input": "Yes you do! Thank you for talking and you take care of yourself! ", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "I am glad to hear it :) Goodbye!", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "Hi. How are you?", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "I am sorry. What is going on?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "So you feel like they don't want to be around you and have nobody to talk to?", "output": "Restatement or Paraphrasing" }, { "input": "You prefer it that way? ", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "I follow you. It is hard to see people outside of usual social circles right now with the pandemic going on. Out of curiosity tell me what you like doing with others?", "output": "Restatement or Paraphrasing" }, { "input": "I can understand that. I have not seem my own friends for almost a year because of COVID-19. It felt isolated and lonely. ", "output": "Self-disclosure" }, { "input": "It has not been easy but I focused on myself. I started doing more exercise and weight lifting. I took up learning how to invest money, and I also got into the habit of reading. Basically I build myself up in body, wallet, and mind so I feel better about myself progressively. It worked well for me at least. What do you think might help you?", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "What would you say might be good exercise or reading goals for you? ", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "Whatever works for you. All the best and stay safe. ", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "Bye", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "Hello how are you feeling today?\n", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "I'm fine. I'm so sorry that you're not feeling well, but I'm here to help. Could you tell me what's going on?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "I'm so sorry to hear that. Everyone goes through break ups like that at some point in their life. I would suggest moving on and focusing on yourself for a bit.", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "I understand it's difficult when you were in a relationship for so long. But it's not going to do you any good to cling on to the past. What was her reason for leaving you?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "That's even a better reason for you to just forget about her, with her cheating on you like that, you know she's not the type for you. You're so much better than her. So just focus on yourself. If you need some help emotionally, find yourself a counselor to talk to.", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "Just try to focus on your hobbies, and hang out with your close friends. Keep yourself occupied on other things so you wouldn't have to think about her. Just think that you're lucky that it ended now, and it would've been worse if you found out about the cheating even later.", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "Awww maybe try to share you feelings with your family then", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "I see. Over time you'll definitely be able to get over it. There are so many other women out there that are better than her. She may have been the perfect woman for you at one point but you really should come to terms that she isn't the one for you anymore.", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "Yes just focus on positivity, doing fun things. ", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "Okay that's good. I can tell that you're making too big of a deal of the situation. You can think about the good times you've had with her, but that's in the past now so you should be focused on the future instead.", "output": "Reflection of feelings" }, { "input": "I'm happy to provide you advice. If you need advice in the future, you could always find a counselor for you. I hope you are feeling a bit better.", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "Hi. How are you?\n", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "I am ok. Been a busy day. More importantly your upset; what is going on?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "You mentioned that she died a while back. Has something stirred up the sadness recently?\n", "output": "Restatement or Paraphrasing" }, { "input": "Oh. The anniversary. You made it clear you were close to her. Tell me about her. What was she like? What did she mean to you?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "She gave you a lot of meaning and filled your time fondly. I am taking it that after she passed you probably felt empty and lately it has been getting worse?", "output": "Reflection of feelings" }, { "input": "I can understand that. My best friend died a few years ago and he was like my brother. Still does feel empty not having him around. ", "output": "Self-disclosure" }, { "input": "I take it that the loss was sudden and it was a shock to your system. So how have you been managing the sadness and grief since it happened?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "It sounds like your family is being supportive of you and you have a network. It seems to me that you really put a great deal of mental energy and fortitude into taking care of yourself. Is there anything else that could help you get thru this rough patch you can think of? ", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "I can think of a few. Physical activity even walking really helps people who are feeling down. But it does not work for everyone. I also know there are grief support groups but I do not know if they are open with the pandemic and everything. I also know that there are a lot of mental health services available for professional counselling if things are too much. I also heard that having things to do to fill your schedule helps like work or small projects to fill the day up. What do you think would work best for you?", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "What things to you like to do that would benefit you to fill your schedule?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "So you have a toolbox of things you can do to stay busy to get you through this. You seem to have solved this problem for yourself. That is a strength right there. ", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "Anytime. Stay safe and live well. -KJ the nurse", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "How are you today?", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "What's wrong? How can I help you?\n", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "I'm doing pretty well.", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "That’s a tough situation. I feel for you. Losing a job is hard, but now, with the pandemic, it's especially hard.\n", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "Do you live by yourself? Is there someone you can talk to?", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "I hear you. This is tough! It is important to be around other people. Don't isolate yourself. ", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "That's too bad. Is there another person, a family member? By the way, how long had you worked at the job?\n", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "That's unfair of them. \nYou don't need to discuss the problem. Just chatting with someone can change your mood. ", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "Six years...That's a long time. I bet you were good at your job.", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "I want to help you.", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "The economy really has gotten bad. Many people are in a similar situation. I worry too that I might lose my job. ", "output": "Self-disclosure" }, { "input": "Many people are angry with you. Have they tried to help you with the job search? Do you want to reach out to them for that?", "output": "Information" }, { "input": "I try to stay positive. I talk to people. I think about after the pandemic and how things will be. ", "output": "Self-disclosure" }, { "input": "Hmm. That's not supportive. Is there an agency in your city that can help you get that kind of info?", "output": "Information" }, { "input": "That's too bad. Normally I would send them an email, see if you can schedule an online chat.", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "I'm not sure what to do in this case. Have you applied for unemployment?", "output": "Information" }, { "input": "That might not be possible at the moment. Work is scarce. I've looked for extra online work, but so many people are trying to get the same work!", "output": "Self-disclosure" }, { "input": "That's the next thing for you to do. You might get cash coming in. It will help you stay optimistic.", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "Great! I hope that this chat has been helpful.", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "You're quite welcome! Best of luck with the job search!", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "I hope so too.", "output": "Reflection of feelings" }, { "input": "By the way, you need to press the submit button on your end.", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "No. The supporter cannot submit. The two buttons to the right of the text box should have an option for you. ", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "Hi there!! How can I help today?\n", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "Of course, would be glad to support", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "What's on your mind?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "I see, so sorry to hear that... How are you feeling due to that?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "Ah I understand, is there any temporary financial support available for you and your family?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "If I may suggest this, you can look into programs that help re-employ or support laid off workers in your country.", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "I completely understand, I would also feel anxious if I were in this situation. It's an honorable thing that you've taken the initiative and are working hard to support your family.", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "If it makes you feel any better, there are a bunch of workshops that offer support, what little it may be. I'm not sure what country you are in, but I've seen some small organizations that give away grocery vouchers for those in need. Perhaps you could narrow your search to find those as well, if you haven't already", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "Alright, you might want to start by taking deep breaths, and remember that this will not be the end of it all", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "Your wife's reassurance is very valid, and I'm sure she doesn't blame you. ", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "Getting laid off is no fault of your own, and at the least, your wife is still working, so you have a bit of time until things start to spiral", "output": "Reflection of feelings" }, { "input": "Of course, breathing is the body's most calming function, you dont need a set amount of breaths, but take the time to be aware of the action and the stillness around you\n", "output": "Information" }, { "input": "It would help more than you think it will", "output": "Information" }, { "input": "In this time that you have, I think it would be nice to take the time you have with your family and enjoy it", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "Spending time actively playing with your kids would help, along with morning exercise (but nothing too strenuous) if you choose to do so", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "if you enjoy reading, I suggest taking the time to find a book that you used to enjoy and give it another read", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "it will remind you of a time when you were in a good place, and hopefully project that feeling back to you", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "I hope you do, positive attitude is the start to a healthy mind. This may not work for everything and the anxiety won't just disappear on day one or maybe ever, but these are steps you would want to start with :)", "output": "Information" }, { "input": "Coping with anxiety is what you make of it, remember to not beat yourself up about things you ultimately cannot control.", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "exactly: \"maintain a hopeful outlook and visualize what you want rather than what you fear\" I really hope I was able to help even if it was a little bit", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "I'm really glad :) and I hope it works out!", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "best of luck, and please take care of yourself\n", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "Bye, have a great day", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "hello", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "you feel sad, why?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "your health is fine and you have place to live but you are still sad\n", "output": "Restatement or Paraphrasing" }, { "input": "have you talked to anyone about it ", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "i have felt that way before but i came over it \n", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "it came to me like a mood swing for so many days but i started going to meet friends and get closer to my friends for positive vibes", "output": "Self-disclosure" }, { "input": "yes, you have to be positive at all time and always do something that makes you happy", "output": "Information" }, { "input": "have you try yoga or meditating as a therapy ", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "yoga is not only for women, and yes therapy like a shrink but you don't have to talk to anybody if you do yoga or meditating ", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "yoga is not expensive and meditation doesn't have to be with anyone, you can use YouTube video as your tutor. It has work for soo many people including my self", "output": "Information" }, { "input": "yes, you have to be in a bright environment. just on the light", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "i hope it work for you", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "i hope it work for you", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "Hello. How are you?", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "What's on your mind?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "I'm really sorry to hear that. When did this happen?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "There's nothing that can prepare you for unexpected tragedies like this. We just have to deal with them as they come.", "output": "Information" }, { "input": "It sounds like you're sticking close to your friend, although it doesn't feel like its helping.", "output": "Reflection of feelings" }, { "input": "It's my experience that when someone has experienced a traumatic loss like that, making someone feel better, at least right away, isn't always an option.", "output": "Self-disclosure" }, { "input": "The most important thing you can do for her is just to be there for her and allow her to feel however she needs to feel right now.", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "Of course. These things are tough to face on your own, so you did the right thing by reaching out.", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "I know you want to be there for your friend as much as possible, and I think that will help you to move through grief at the same time, but just be mindful to not overextend yourself too much. You have to be there for yourself too.", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "You too, and best wishes.", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "I am okay. What is going on with you? ", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "It sounds like it must be overwhelming to keep up with all of your school work. ", "output": "Restatement or Paraphrasing" }, { "input": "That does sound very difficult, but I think you can do it! Just getting into a program like that shows how smart you are!", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "To be honest with you, I switched majors a lot in college. I eventually let go of what my family thought and pursued a career I would truly enjoy for myself. ", "output": "Self-disclosure" }, { "input": "Personally I took three years longer than it should to get my degree and accrued some debt because of it. Although I feel it is worth it now. ", "output": "Self-disclosure" }, { "input": "I'm hearing its difficult for you knowing that you are on a path that you don't really want to be on. ", "output": "Reflection of feelings" }, { "input": "A lot of people I know benefited from talking to an advisor or counselor for some direction. Have you done that recently?", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "What about meeting with the counselor with your parents, since it seems they would need to support you financially over any extra time it might take? ", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "It's been shown that healthy communication can help people listen and respond more considerately when things seem difficult at first.", "output": "Information" }, { "input": "I definitely can understand that, but it is important to think about your future happiness and security too! ", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "Hi. How are you today?", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "It has been a most interesting week across the board. Been some challenges and hurdles but that makes life the better. Tell me any challenges you are facing right now?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "So it sounds like you lost your livelihood and your concerned of losing everything you have built. It seems like you are lost on what to do now. ", "output": "Restatement or Paraphrasing" }, { "input": "Wow. So this was a real punch to the gut for you. Out of curiosity; what work were you doing and how long were you doing it? ", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "Wow. So this was a real punch to the gut for you. Out of curiosity; what work were you doing and how long were you doing it? ", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "Wow. So this was a real punch to the gut for you. Out of curiosity; what work were you doing and how long were you doing it? ", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "Sorry about that. computer glitch", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "14 years? Wow. That is really impressive. It is a very difficult field and it take serious talent to work in IT. Takes real talent and brainpower to work in IT. ", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "So I also take it that not doing it now must feel like you lost part of yourself as well besides the financial risk. Double whammy. ", "output": "Restatement or Paraphrasing" }, { "input": "This is a large cross to bear. So what do you think your next steps are going to be?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "May I throw some ideas out at you?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "It sounds like your really down right now about your job, family, and your home. It sounds like from what you have mentioned finding work would likely be the best goal to work on right now. What are your thoughts?", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "IT right now is highly marketable line of work. Given the need for networking and teleconferencing right now you are in demand. And 14 years experience you probably have a competitive advantage in the job market. What do you think your odds of finding a new job are from 0% to 100% right now? I'd bet pretty high. What do you think?", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "Hello. What's on your mind?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "Your feelings are valid, no matter what they are.", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "Why do you think you're disgusted with her?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "It sounds like she did something you find really immoral.", "output": "Reflection of feelings" }, { "input": "Is their relationship generally pretty good, to your knowledge?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "Have you talked to your friend about what she did?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "You're definite right to be questioning if this is the sort of person you want to be friends with.", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "If her behavior is getting to you like this, I definitely suggest you try to keep some distance from her as much as you can.", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "It might be a good idea to explain why you're upset with her, even though that's likely to upset her.", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "I can definitely understand wanting to avoid a confrontation.", "output": "Reflection of feelings" }, { "input": "What do you think you can do to minimize your contact with her?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "That sounds like a good plan.\n", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "What one person calls ghosting, someone else can call looking out for yourself. ", "output": "Information" }, { "input": "It sounds like she knows why you're upset with her and would be able to understand why you're choosing not to talk to her.", "output": "Reflection of feelings" }, { "input": "If she's not interested in listening to you or thinking about what she's done, then you need to be doing what is best for you in cutting her out.\n", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "Hi, how are you today?", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "I’m sorry to hear that. Work can be a bad source of stress. Do you have anyone that can help with the workload?", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "Can the company hire any more people? Maybe they can work from home, and take some work off your plate. The line manager might also need some help with her workload. \n", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "I understand that budgets can be tight. Maybe someone part-time?\n", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "Your manager sounds unsympathetic. That's very frustrating. A lot of people are in your situation in this pandemic: too much work, not enough help.\n", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "Do you want to leave the company? Look for greener pastures?\n", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "Very true. Have you talked to your co-workers about this issue? What do they think?\n", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "Yeah, that's a good point. A little complaining is ok, but a lot can get on people's nerves. ", "output": "Restatement or Paraphrasing" }, { "input": "They want to be sympathetic, but after a while, they just get tired of you.\n", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "What do you do outside of work? Hobbies and such.\n", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "You could try setting aside an evening or two a week for time with your BF. Just walk out of the office. Try to set some boundaries. \n", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "That might seem dangerous and risky, but sometimes it's important to set boundaries.\n", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "If you don't do that, then the managers can just keep taking advantage of you and your work ethic.", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "From what you're saying, it sounds like you think you have no power. Is that true? Are you really powerless in this situation? Do not underestimate your power over your life.", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "It sounds like the managers are training you to be resigned to your fate. If they listen to you, it encourages you to complain. If they ignore you, you go away and leave them alone. However, if you leave work early (after 9 hours, say), then they might notice you. Are you willing to take a risk?", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "That's the spirit! Taking control of your own schedule is one display of confidence. ", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "sorry to hear about that. So your test results were positive. Did I get it right?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "It must be hard to stay alone. Are you having fever or any other sever symptoms. Hope there is someone to take care of you for a while at least.", "output": "Restatement or Paraphrasing" }, { "input": "I had COVID last month with mild symptoms. Good to know that you don't have any sever symptoms. You will recover fast.", "output": "Self-disclosure" }, { "input": "I can understand staying alone will be devastating. Keep monitoring your oxygen level. If that is normal, you don't have to worry. You can read watch tv or can do video calling to your family. ", "output": "Reflection of feelings" }, { "input": "I wish for your fast recovery. Hope this COVID situation end soon somehow. ", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "Very true! It is kind of never ending. There should be some permanent solution for it.", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "We can still hope for the best right now. Let's stay positive and fight it.", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "Think other way. You defeat it and you won.", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "You are a strong person. You are almost there to win. Your family is always there with you.", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "I know but i week has gone so rest will go too. Wishing you fast recovery and take care of yourself.", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "Thank you! It was nice talking to you too. ", "output": "Restatement or Paraphrasing" }, { "input": "Hi, how are you today?\n", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "Boy, that's a tough one. You've got to handle a problem like that pretty diplomatically. Have you talked to your co-worker, the one the boss hits on?", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "That's a good question, and I don't know the answer. It depends on your HR department. Have you suggested that the co-worker talk to HR? Is there an anonymous system for filing complaints?", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "That's a good attitude. You want to be supportive and helpful. You sound like a good co-worker. Remember that the problem did not start with you, so you do not need to feel responsible for it.", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "That's a good question. I would show support for her and empathize with her and her situation. Do you have lunch with her? Can you send her a text letting her know she's valued? She might appreciate that.", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "Ok. That's a good first step. I think you have a way forward with this. Maybe after a few texts, you can sit down and talk about solutions in detail, like going to HR.", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "That's a good positive step. I think that you've got a pretty handle on the situation. Good for you! ", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "I understand that you're frustrated and sad. I would feel the same way too. I think that anyone else in your situation would feel the same way. ", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "Well, you have to do what is right for yourself. If you find a better job, think seriously about taking it. Your co-worker will not be there forever. You have a responsibility to yourself. ", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "You're welcome! I'm glad that I was able to help you!", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "You too! Have a great day, and good luck with work!", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "Do you want to talk about it?\n", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "It sounds like you're holding onto a lot of guilt about this incident.", "output": "Reflection of feelings" }, { "input": "Are you comfortable talking about that night?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "That can really weigh you down, beating yourself up with guilt.", "output": "Reflection of feelings" }, { "input": "Does he know about the incident?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "You definitely deserve to laugh and be happy. One mistake doesn't define you!", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "It says a lot about your character that you feel badly about this, that you can see and recognize you acted in a way you don't agree with. That's something to build on.", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "That desire to \"get even\" is definitely understandable.", "output": "Reflection of feelings" }, { "input": "Do you feel like you got what you needed from the experience, as in, that you've \"gotten even\"?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "While it may be true in general that honesty is the best policy, in this case I wouldn't suggest telling him. It is just going to cause angry feelings.", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "But, the fact you already believed he cheated on you and it motivated you to do the same shows a basic lack of trust in this relationship. That's something you should really look at.\n", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "I'm glad you're feeling better now that you've gotten it out in the open. Of course, you are welcome anytime.", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "Absolutely. This is all in complete confidence.", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "Hello! Hope you are doing well. How may I assist you?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "You are girlfriend is giving drugs to hew own kids. Did I get it right?", "output": "Restatement or Paraphrasing" }, { "input": "That is really intense, unacceptable. I am feeling sorry for the poor little girl and you. It looks like there is something wrong with her. I can understand what you are going through.\n", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "It must be hard time for you. You should not worry about her. You should think about your job and the poor girl who is trapped with her.", "output": "Reflection of feelings" }, { "input": "I felt the same way when I broke up with my friend for some pathetic things which she did. The good part is girls are safe now. Give some time to yourself. Time will heal everything.", "output": "Self-disclosure" }, { "input": "So sorry to hear about that. You should indulge yourself in some activities like yoga or meditation.", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "talk to your family and friends and go to them for a while. It will help you and you can come out of it.", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "You will get one soon. Keep working on. My best wishes are there with you. Time never stay the same. ", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "No, that is not the case. You can talk as much as you want.", "output": "Restatement or Paraphrasing" }, { "input": "No I am hear and thinking of you and trying to figure out how can you come out of it.", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "Hi there! I'm great, what about you? How can I help today?", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "I'm so sorry to hear that :( Do you have any idea why?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "That's tough... so you're saying that you grew apart a little? Or do you think it was more one-sided?", "output": "Restatement or Paraphrasing" }, { "input": "I completely understand, and I don't think you should beat yourself up over it! ", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "Exactly, and remember everyone is different, perhaps you just weren't her right one, and that can go both ways.", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "Do you want to improve for her? or for yourself do you think?", "output": "Restatement or Paraphrasing" }, { "input": "That's a great line of thought, its good that you're able to identify that yourself", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "I suggest that you stay exactly the way that you are. I feel like you'd be happier that way and also more likely to find someone who shares the same values as you", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "If you change who you are, it sort of means that your ex still has a hold on you, you know?", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "I guess that depends on you, would you rather compromise for a relationship or find one who'll really last and not have to change?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "That's true, building on that, you could also say that what your ex found to be the problem is not the be-all end-all. What your ex disliked could be what 10000 other girls love in a guy", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "Wow, you put that really nicely!", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "It was no problem! Thank you for sharing and talking it out!", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "Have a great day :) bye!\n", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "Oh no. I'm sorry to hear that. What happened?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "that must be horrible. You were already engaged?", "output": "Restatement or Paraphrasing" }, { "input": "that sounds really hard. that's a long time to know someone. ", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "how long ago did you breka up?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "that's going to be tough for the next little bit, those sound like some pretty fresh wounds. Have you been able to talk to friends?", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "I had a break up last year and while it was painful for a bit, i used it as an opportunity to focus on myself and the things I needed. It ended up being a really good self reflective opportunity. Maybe join a gym or a group of some kind to change your network a bit?", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "I like going to the gym alone but that's just my personal preference. There are fitness groups like bootcamps that you could join and meet new people. Who knows, you may meet a new friend.", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "That sounds hard. You deserve to have friends of your own.", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "there are lots of different kinds of groups you can join, not just fitness. and you can choose how much you want to actively engage with them. I would suggest taking time for yourself. Maybe give yourself some distance from him. If you both decide to reach out again in the future that may be an opportunity, but definitely take care of you.", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "sometimes you just need some distance. I hate that old saying but as it goes \"there are plenty of fish in the sea\". \n", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "Good luck! you got this. Have fun with it, it sounds like you have other guys who are after you ;)\n", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "Hello! How are you doing today?", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "I'm doing well, thank you for asking! Do you mind me asking what's going on that's making you feel sad?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "It sounds like you feel as though you are being personally attacked/mistreated for something that you feel you handled correctly. Does that summarize what you're feeling?", "output": "Restatement or Paraphrasing" }, { "input": "I feel as though you absolutely did the right thing! If I were in your shoes, I would have done the exact same thing.", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "I have neighbors who act in similar ways. They act as though they run the entire street, but they rent just like everyone else does here. Dealing with them can be very difficult at times.", "output": "Self-disclosure" }, { "input": "Just based on what you're saying, I can completely understand why you feel the way that you do. In my opinion, you have every right to feel that way.", "output": "Reflection of feelings" }, { "input": "Haha! It's not fun at all to have neighbors who make you feel as though you're somehow less than them. I know exactly what that feels like.", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "I do know people who have gone through the exact same thing in the past. When another animal attacks one of your fur-babies, it's absolutely terrible. However, the fact that this woman was given the option to either get rid of her dog or move tells me that you are 100% correct in the way that you handled this situation. It's unfortunate for the woman, yes, but she should have had more control over her dog. It's bad enough when one animal is attacked, but when it's more than one, that's when you really know that it's a problem. Again, legally, she had to make a choice, and that's because she failed to properly secure her dog. I really don't feel as though you did anything wrong.", "output": "Information" }, { "input": "If I were you, I would ask to speak with the neighbors who have an issue with you face-to-face. I know it may be difficult, but I think that would be the best way to go about it. Are you on good terms with the other person whose dog was attacked?", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "That probably has a lot to do with it. I would feel sorry for her too, as it is very sad in general. However, it doesn't excuse the fact that her animal attacked two other dogs.", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "That is absolutely terrible. In that case, I would just tell them that you refuse to allow another dog to possible injure or kill your own dog, so you did what was necessary to protect your fur-baby. Had you not done anything, this could have happened again, and the outcome may have been much worse. At that point, if they still don't respond kindly, I'd tell them that you still feel as though you did what needed to be done, that you understand why they are upset, but that you will always do whatever it takes to protect your dog. Hopefully, they will stop being mean. Even if they just stop talking to you completely, it's better than them harassing you or something along those lines. If they do start escalating their nasty behavior, I'd let the manager of your complex know that you're being mistreated. I always try to keep things calm and quiet, but I refuse to be taken advantage of or treated poorly.", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "Personally, as I stated previously, I wholeheartedly believe that you did the right thing. If they're unable to see that, I'd try to just avoid contact with them unless it's necessary. I know it stinks and I'd be sad too, but unfortunately, some people just don't know how to let things go and seem to find joy in making other people upset. I'm so sorrry that you're dealing with all of this.", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "I'm so glad that I was able to offer helpful suggestions! Hang in there. You sound like a strong person! I would definitely spend some time with your true friends who live outside of your neighborhood. I can assure you that if someone else's animal attacked one of mine, I would have done the exact same thing that you did.", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "You're very welcome! You do the same. Have a wonderful day. Try to do things that make you smile! :)", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "Hi, how are you doing? ", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "I'm sorry to hear that. Would you like to talk about it? ", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "COVID has really changed a lot of stuff. I understand your frustration. Has your work increased because of COVID conditions. Meaning you have to take extra work, or doing tasks that you dislike to do? ", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "If you don't feel comfortable elaborating, we can always talk about how you feel and how you can maybe feel a bit better. ", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "That sounds really bad. I once worked in a company that placed unnecessary pressure on me, with a low pay. I can relate to how you feel. Do you have to depend on this company for work? ", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "Sometimes it's really not worth working somewhere if it's really affecting your mental health. ", "output": "Reflection of feelings" }, { "input": "I understand. But I want you to think about this. Your mental health is more important right now because it is affecting you. And how you feel really affects those around you, especially the ones who love you. If you take some time to think about what is more important to you in life right now can help you make a decision. ", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "Working so hard can be a barrier right now. But you may have a bright future plan ahead. If so, that is something you want to look forward to. ", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "I know what you are doing is really helping your family. And I know they really appreciate it, even if they don't say it. ", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "Ok, I understand better now. Thank you for explaining. What you are telling should to be something you need to discuss with your partner. Do both of you communicate well with each other? Maybe he is not aware of your situation or how you feel. ", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "Oh no. I can see from his part he feels upset and frustrated because he may feel useless at the moment. But that's not an excuse to neglect responsibilities. You can maybe make him feel more useful around the house by starting to assign him small tasks. Encouraging him to do stuff and rewarding him with words of encouragement. I know it sounds kind of frustrating to do that, but maybe this small step on your half could also help him. ", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "Do you have any family member that are close to you? If your partner isn't helpful, maybe seeking help from family can reduce your housework load. ", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "I'm sorry if this did not help the situation. But I'm always glad to listen if you want to talk more. ", "output": "Self-disclosure" }, { "input": "It's a really tough situation, but you're a really strong individual. You've made it this far : )", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "No problem. I really wish you the best and I hope everything works out!", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "Crossing my fingers COVID ends soon.", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "Hi can I help you today? I \nam here to listen.", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "Do you have anything happen recently that has you feeling badly?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "Oh I am really sorry to hear that, DId you have the same job for a long time? That sounds very difficult to deal with.", "output": "Restatement or Paraphrasing" }, { "input": "Thank you for sharing and reaching out for support today. It takes a lot of courage and I commend you for taking the steps to reach out.", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "!0 years is a very long time and I would think you have probably learned a lot working at the same place for that long. You're a dedicated employee.", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "That is really unfair and hard to deal with are you close to any famliy?", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "Do you have any close friends to talk to about any new job prospects?", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "That is a positive outlook and is good to hear that you know you have skills to offer. Would you consider joining a new group at a church or something like that?", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "I am sorry that you're feeling stress. Have you ever used writing as a tool to relax?", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "Oh, wow then you do have a lot of contacts and some support or at least understanding. Music is a great way to relax and that id very positive in your life and current situation.", "output": "Information" }, { "input": "That is a great outlook. Thank you for sharing today.", "output": "Information" }, { "input": "Thank you for reaching out today amd letting me listen.", "output": "Information" }, { "input": "I would suggest getting a pet if you are up for it. They can be support animals.", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "I can understand that feeling. I think maybe fish would be a distraction you may like to.", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "I understand and believe you have a great focus on a career. I am proud of you and your focus ability. ", "output": "Information" }, { "input": "You're welcome I can be available to listen or bounce ideas of off as much as you need.", "output": "Information" }, { "input": "That is the goal and what we strive for. You are welcome.", "output": "Information" }, { "input": "Bye, have a wonderful day.", "output": "Information" }, { "input": "Hi, how are you doing?\n", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "I'm sorry to hear that. Would you like to talk about what is making you sad?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "That sounds terrible. But I understand the feeling. I was in the same situation once. It is hard to move passed that. So your pain is very understandable. ", "output": "Reflection of feelings" }, { "input": "I agree. It's like there is no more hope. But do you know something? ", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "It is ok to feel sad sometimes. ", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "You're the stronger one in this position. And you can show how strong you are by moving passed this. ", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "This way sound weird, but I tell myself if something is not meant to happen, it would not. If you want to look at a more positive side of this, you can say this was a good thing that happened. ", "output": "Self-disclosure" }, { "input": "I know you don't want to hear all these positive words right now. But It will get better. Trust me. ", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "It is hard to get passed someone's words, especially after spending so much time with them. How about start with a fish. I have a betta and he is really easy to take care of. But I have the responsibility of attending to his needs. If you can take care of a fish, you surely can take care of a cat or dog!", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "I apologize if my typing is slow", "output": "Reflection of feelings" }, { "input": "I think maybe a small vacation would help. Or doing something you really enjoy. Is there anything you can think of? ", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "I agree. Are you a social person by any chance? By saying that I mean you can still go do those activities, but you can maybe meet people there and ask if you can join their group. That's great in a way because you meet new people and there are no attachments after you leave. It's like a fun, crazy experience :) ", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "Oh that's awesome! But just remember don't try to distract yourself from the problem. Try to make peace with it. Because if you don't, you cannot move forward. ", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "Hi, how are you doing today?\n", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "I am good, thanks. Is there an issue I can provide you some support with?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "So, to reiterate, you are suffering from anxiety due to school? Or is your anxiousness also caused by other life factors as well?", "output": "Restatement or Paraphrasing" }, { "input": "I understand what you are going through. It is as if you are being pulled in two directions, but are not sure which is the best option at the given moment. I think it is great that you wanted to go back to school, but if your heart is not in it, then it may not be what you should continue pursuing. ", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "I can feel your worries when you speak about your anxiety, and I am hoping we can find a way to approach your feelings. Do you think there was a specific instance that is causing doubts within yourself or is it in your nature to self-doubt?", "output": "Reflection of feelings" }, { "input": "This has also been a past struggle of mine, and I think it partially stems from the bar we set so high for ourselves. We obviously cannot reach the top right away, but have to work our way up. Often times, when facing an obstacle, such as a bad grade, we might retreat further down the path due to fear that it will keep happening. I know that I personally had a tendency to think of my family and friends who I feel are dependent on me or comparing myself with others when the only person we should think of in these instances is ourself. When making progress, tiny steps upward matter more than you think. But when we take a step backward, we cannot fall back down to the starting point by letting our doubts pile upon one another.", "output": "Self-disclosure" }, { "input": "Of course, I am happy to help! I have noticed that letting yourself celebrate a good grade can be really helpful to feel that you are enough and making good progress. But when things do go south, because life certainly happens, we must stay in the present and live life like we usually would, with a drive that we are going to push harder against whatever we have to face next. ", "output": "Information" }, { "input": "Exactly! I also suggest if you are having doubts, talk it out with someone like your partner or a close friend. They can often provide a pick me up you didn't even know you needed. More than anything, give yourself credit and relax. Take some time to just breathe and release the tension. I guarantee it will leave you feeling refreshed and fulfilled for the next tasks you have to face. I believe you can do this and I feel that you believe it too, which is amazing. As often as it is said, believing in yourself is truly the best foundation to achieve your goals.", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "You're welcome. It was great talking to you. Your future is bright, and I wish you all of the luck for the endeavors to get you there.", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "Enjoy the rest of your day!\n", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "Hello!", "output": "Reflection of feelings" }, { "input": "How are you?\n", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "Oh I understand how that can be.", "output": "Reflection of feelings" }, { "input": "Would you like to tell me about it?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "I can understand how that can become a source of frustration after a while.", "output": "Restatement or Paraphrasing" }, { "input": "Would you like to share what pushed it beyond the normal point today?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "I can relate because I also have a close friend that seeks constant reaffirmations. ", "output": "Self-disclosure" }, { "input": "Have you spoken with her about this?\n", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "Sometimes it is very difficult to see yourself through someone elses eyes when you undervalue yourself.", "output": "Information" }, { "input": "I know it may be difficult to remain patient when your friend repeatedly does this, but maybe you could explain to her that it makes you feel like she is mistrustful of your opinion when she second guesses your taste in friends. ", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "Possibly explaining it in a way she can relate to would be helpful.", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "I did in fact speak with my friend and it helped our relationship quite a bit. We continue to be very close 20 years later.", "output": "Self-disclosure" }, { "input": "I can feel your frustration just by our conversation, and I too wish that she could see that you value both her and your friendship enough to reach out to someone that can just listen. Don't forget that your feelings are valid as well.\n", "output": "Reflection of feelings" }, { "input": "Sometimes you have to take a step back and fill your own cup. ", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "Do you think a break would help you feel better able to deal with the demands of her friendship?\n", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "Do you think a break would help you feel better able to deal with the demands of her friendship?\n", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "It has been my pleasure! I trust you will make the right choice! Best of wishes!", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "Hi! How are you feeling today?\n", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "I am good. How may I assist you today!", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "IT seem you need some encouragement to accomplish your goal. Hope I understood it correctly.", "output": "Restatement or Paraphrasing" }, { "input": "That's great! We all need motivation and encouragement to do something.", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "I have been in this situation many time. I perform better when I get support or encouraging words from other. Can you please tell me little bit about your goal, so that I can encourage you accordingly ", "output": "Self-disclosure" }, { "input": "I can understand your situation very well. We all face such a phase in our life time. you should not worry about it. Keep working hard.", "output": "Reflection of feelings" }, { "input": "That's great! Then you should not worry about anything. Now days situation is really stressful. We have to manage it somehow. You should give little time to yourself as well. It Will increase your productivity.", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "Family is a great support, then you will definitely grow and you don't have to take any stress because you have everything there with you.", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "Yes, I have kids. To look them up I need to stay motivated and positive because I am the reflection to them.", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "That's my pleasure that my words helped you. Stay happy calm and motivated and rest you have big support of your family. ", "output": "Restatement or Paraphrasing" }, { "input": "You too! byee", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "hello", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "so you mean you are afraid you will fail because you are stressed out with your studies", "output": "Restatement or Paraphrasing" }, { "input": "that can be hard but you can do it. knowing that you are scared is enough motivation for you to push through ", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "i can sense your feeling, i once had same mind stress before", "output": "Reflection of feelings" }, { "input": "i stop reading alone. I read with my friends. girlfriend or read in a public place like the library ", "output": "Information" }, { "input": "yes, covid has made things messy but you can always connect with someone online and chat about what you have read so far. I did same thing during the lockdown", "output": "Self-disclosure" }, { "input": "always make sure you get enough rest and when ever you are getting the feeling next time, distract your self with something you love and then continue after a while\n", "output": "Information" }, { "input": "and make sure you eat well. and exercise to control your breathing \n", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "you can do bit of yoga and meditating. You should be fine with that\n\n", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "good \nis there any other thing i can help you with?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "you are very welcome and good luck with your studies", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "Hello how are you? I am here to support you.\n", "output": "Restatement or Paraphrasing" }, { "input": "How can I help support you today?\n", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "I know these are tough times and we all need to be heard.", "output": "Self-disclosure" }, { "input": "I understand. I have had to stay by myself for most of the year due to the pandemic. That has been hard.\n", "output": "Self-disclosure" }, { "input": "Have you tried different games that help you get to know each other? Maybe try a movie or series. I loved Sweet Magnolia's on Netflix.\n", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "Oh my goodness. The good thing is there is a moratorium on evictions so she would not be able to do that legally. CNN can be overwhelming. Try giving her some type of distraction. Suggest yoga or some type of bonding.", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "I think 24/7 news is problematic but here to stay.\n", "output": "Reflection of feelings" }, { "input": "As long as you have property there she would have to formally evict you. That is the good news. \n", "output": "Information" }, { "input": "I think it is best to stick with a short local news report.\n", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "My pleasure. So many people are worried about losing their place to stay but thankfully most are protected due to the pandemic.", "output": "Information" }, { "input": "Check Youtube videos on using Panda's. It will help you make more money. I have done over 750,000 hits.", "output": "Information" }, { "input": "You are welcome. Panda's help you keep grabbing hits. You can store 25 at a time.\n", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "Have a great night and take care of yourself. It has been a pleasure.", "output": "Reflection of feelings" }, { "input": "Hello! How are you doing today?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "I understand, you feel like your losing everyone close to you and wondering about your own mortality now as well?", "output": "Reflection of feelings" }, { "input": "Have you told your aunts how much you love them? It may comfort you to know that you've shared exactly how you feel with them while they are here. ", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "I try to let everyone know I love them too just because we never know when we aren't going to be here anymore. I definitely understand where you are coming from. ", "output": "Self-disclosure" }, { "input": "Have you tried looking at any YouTube videos about life and mortality? ", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "I personally have found some comfort in hearing other people struggle with their own mortality or their beliefs in an after life or different things. Maybe that could be something you could try looking into.", "output": "Self-disclosure" }, { "input": "It sounds to me like you've felt alone in your struggles and you are not alone! Yes I have and I've heard from many others who have as well.", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "That and there are some great books out there also!", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "I'm so happy I could be here for you! It's not fun to feel alone, if we can all lean on each other in times of need the world will be a better place.", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "I've personally enjoyed looking into all the different types of religions and spiritual beliefs from around the world. It's nice hearing about different beliefs on life and death.", "output": "Self-disclosure" }, { "input": "You are very welcome! Again I am happy to help and would love to chat any time you are feeling anxious about anything at all!", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "I am always here for you!", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "You are very welcome! I hope you have a great rest of your day and please don't hesitate to message if you want to chat again!", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "Thank you I will! Take care!", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "Hi\n\n", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "How are you doing?\n\n", "output": "Reflection of feelings" }, { "input": "oh, what happened? why are you sad?", "output": "Reflection of feelings" }, { "input": "ok, i understand. this pandemic has been really tough. ", "output": "Self-disclosure" }, { "input": "have you tried to take your mind off of the pandemic by spending time on your hobbies?", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "that's true. times like these really show us the value of our friends. have you talked to your friends recently? either in person or through phone/video calls?", "output": "Information" }, { "input": "okay. at lease seeing them in the video should have brought you some relief. Are you planning to get vaccinated when you are able to? And what about your friends? once you are vaccinated, it will help you meet your friends in person.", "output": "Information" }, { "input": "oh okay. Have you tried checking with your friends to see if you could meet in person but still maintain social distance and wear masks, etc.", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "oh okay, have you discussed anything with your friends to see if you find any alternative way of meeting?", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "okay. May i ask what do you do for a living? are there ways you can spend time on activities that you like so that it could reduce your sadness?", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "oh okay", "output": "Self-disclosure" }, { "input": "do you like any subjects in particular?", "output": "Information" }, { "input": "yes, things will only get better from here", "output": "Reflection of feelings" }, { "input": "i hope with the government's plan to get vaccines sooner, will let states to administer them soon . and then hopefully you will be able to meet your friends in person\n", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "Sure no problem. Hopefully things will be much better for you soon.", "output": "Self-disclosure" }, { "input": "Bye.", "output": "Reflection of feelings" }, { "input": "Hello, how is your head or heart today?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "I hear you need someone to talk to. What is your situation at your work?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "Being stressed and anxious is something I've experienced as well. I use breathing to help keep me centered, calm.", "output": "Self-disclosure" }, { "input": "That sounds tough. Just from chatting with you, I can feel how anxious you are.", "output": "Reflection of feelings" }, { "input": "It sounds like you don't feel heard by your boss. ", "output": "Restatement or Paraphrasing" }, { "input": " I have also felt unfairly treated at a workplace. Have you tried to talk to a human resources director or a company hotline?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "I believe you deserve to be treated fairly. I hear that you also believe that you deserve to be treated fairly. Calling a hotline or talking to a human resource profession is a suggestion.", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "Expressing your feelings about the companies redundancies. Also, your feelings about the company having no communication or empathy for their employees.", "output": "Restatement or Paraphrasing" }, { "input": "You're welcome. I hope this message finds you well.", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "In combination with breathing, I suggest using a thought map to clear your mind. Also going for a walk can help you with your mental or emotional health.", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "Can I help you", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "It is actually good. Why you are feeling", "output": "Restatement or Paraphrasing" }, { "input": "So it should not impact you. Don't worry at all.", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "You should not listen your co-worker. Just listen your heart. Do your best.", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "Start searching job meanwhile. Don't get panic. You have still lot of time. Be very patience.", "output": "Reflection of feelings" }, { "input": "I can understand. It happened with my sister too. She was also panicking like you, but I told her to apply and give interview. Still it is in process. ", "output": "Self-disclosure" }, { "input": "I can assure you don't worry at all. Keep yourself busy with friends. Go out with them and keep yourself busy. You will be fine soon", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "Do meditation or yoga will help you.", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "Hello there, how are you feeling at the moment? ", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "Is there anything specific that you'd like to talk about with me?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "That is not good. Are you thinking of looking for new work?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "I had a similar situation myself a few years ago and I moved on. I've never regretted it. ", "output": "Self-disclosure" }, { "input": "Is your boss's behaviour unreasonable enough to justify making a complaint about him to HR?", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "It might be worth following up with. There are organisations that could give you free advice. ", "output": "Information" }, { "input": "You should not have to suffer if you are being bullied. Please contact your local Citizen's Advice! ", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "Do any of your colleagues feel the same way that you do? ", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "I am sorry to hear that. Perhaps it really is the best time to just move on. ", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "Yes, the world is your oyster. I wish you all the best with whatever you do! ", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "You're welcome and take care ", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "(you need to press quit first .. I can't :)) ", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "Good. How are you?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "I would be upset after a breakup too. ", "output": "Reflection of feelings" }, { "input": "Have you gone out on any dates since the breakup?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "Talking to other women shows that you are trying to move on. ", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "I understand. It is sometimes hard to give new people a chance when you are comparing them to someone else. ", "output": "Reflection of feelings" }, { "input": "Giving new people a chance might help you move on.", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "Maybe try a date that is casual and no pressure.", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "A lunch date or coffee sounds perfect. ", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "That sounds like a great idea.", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "You're welcome. I'm glad to hear that.", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "Hello! How are you feeling at the moment?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "I am very sorry to hear that - I will help if I can! ", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "Ah that must be very worrying, especially at this pandemic time. What field are you in?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "I see. Have you already started looking for new work? It might help you feel more secure. ", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "Would you contemplate moving? I hear that there are a lot of opportunities in your field on the East Coast. ", "output": "Information" }, { "input": "I understand - I find it very difficult to meet new people too. Maybe you could join some online groups in new area before actually moving there?", "output": "Self-disclosure" }, { "input": "I find it much easier to meet people online. And you could get familiarised with local amenities too. ", "output": "Self-disclosure" }, { "input": "Facebook is a good place to meet people I find. There are all sorts of different groups there. ", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "Are you likely to be in financial difficulty after your job ends or do you have savings as a safety net?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "Is it legal for them to give you such short notice? You might have grounds for a complaint. ", "output": "Information" }, { "input": "I am very sorry to hear that. ", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "Try and see it in a positive light - this could turn out to be a really good thing for you. ", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "I am more than happy to talk any time! Try not to worry too much.", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "Sorry :) I hope that did not sound condescending! Anyway thank you for talking and enjoy the rest of your day! ", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "bye! :) ", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "(you need to press quit from your end first as I can't here :))", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "HI, I am wanting to listen. How are you?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "I can understand reaching out can be difficult and want you to know that I am here for you and would like to help in any way that I can.", "output": "Restatement or Paraphrasing" }, { "input": "I understand that can be very isolating. Do you have any family close by or friends that you can talk to?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "Are you experiencing a problem with finding a job? ", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "I am sorry and want you to know that reaching out is a great step today. Good for you in the effort.", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "I would like you to know that I was in a car accident and was in a lot of pain for about a year. I was able to work through it but know it is so hard. How were you hurt?", "output": "Self-disclosure" }, { "input": "Oh, wow! That is really traumatic and I cant imagine that happening to me. You have been through a lot of pain and suffering. I am so sorry.", "output": "Reflection of feelings" }, { "input": "Do you have any pets? Sometimes pets can help with loneliness. Yes, work will help you but maybe we can think of other ways too.", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "That is a fabulous idea. A pet will help with your bond. Can you work with your injury? I have heard of online support groups that can help with support from work injuries.", "output": "Information" }, { "input": "I would love to share with you some ideas about emotionally healing in conjunction with your physical. An animal that you could rescue from a shelter could be a way to work your hand and do some therapy.", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "I can recommend a shelter and maybe you can adopt a cat soon?", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "Hello, and good afternoon yourself. How are you?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "What is making you struggle?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "Yes, of course it is :). So we are talking about your daughter and her husband and their child together, right?", "output": "Restatement or Paraphrasing" }, { "input": "I understand, people can often show different sides depending on who is around. Do you have any reason to think your daughter or granddaughter are in physical danger?", "output": "Restatement or Paraphrasing" }, { "input": "That's great news! It sounds as though you are just concerned about how she is sometimes being treat. Have you had any conversation with your daughter about their relationship?", "output": "Reflection of feelings" }, { "input": "And that is so important and good to know there is trust from his side, to me it sounds as though that could be an olive branch for you to try and establish a conversation with both of them. An open and positive communication is always the first step in resolving anything.", "output": "Information" }, { "input": "I recently went though a similar exercise with a friend and her boyfriend. We sat down in a room and spoke about our feelings. We had ground rules first and everyone knew they could talk without being judged or escalating.", "output": "Self-disclosure" }, { "input": "Maybe you could suggest follow up conversations, re-cap about what was spoken about previously and they can both evaluate how they have progressed since then?", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "I believe you have both their interests in mind. You sound like a positive person and you are just concerned for all 3 people involved.", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "I hope they will be well receptive of your suggestion for a follow up.", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "No worries, I'm grateful for your time as well. If there is nothing else, I hope it all goes well and you have a wonderful weekend :)", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "Hi, I am hear to listen today. How are you?\n", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "I am sorry to hear that and I have felt that way myself. Has something unusual happened that you would like to share?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "I understand and that can be very concerning. Have you been preparing for the test or have you had anyone to study with? I know that can sometimes help with preparedness. ", "output": "Restatement or Paraphrasing" }, { "input": "I know that can be very difficult and I am proud of you reaching out for help and support! You are making great strides in talking about your feelings!", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "A scholarship would reflect that you are very dedicated to school and that you are deserving of this award. You have a lot to be proud of, having attained a scholarship. I also had one and it can feel like a lot of pressure though.", "output": "Self-disclosure" }, { "input": "Yes, that is a great idea. Have you ever joined a study group? A group of peers can also be helpful.", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "I am sorry to hear that and know that could make you really sad. Do you have a relationship with a professor at your school? One that you can talk to about your feelings?", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "Okay, I can understand your feelings. Have you heard of practice tests?", "output": "Information" }, { "input": "I have experienced a little bit of what you are describing and I am so happy that you have reached out regardless of your obstacles. Have you ever tried to write down what you're feeling?", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "I think it can help release feelings and help ground people. Do you have family that has experienced what you are feeling or been through college o a scholarship? I would suggest reaching out to family in the case of feeling anxiety. ", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "Hey! How are you?", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "I'm good but why are you not good?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "Did they have a reason for giving you the pink slip?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "You will find a job if you are determined enough :)", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "Do you have enough money to keep going?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "I think that selling your old possessions is a great idea", "output": "Reflection of feelings" }, { "input": "I can tell you are stressed just by speaking to you", "output": "Reflection of feelings" }, { "input": "Yes, pulling through this is the most important, because there may be a better future waiting ahead of you", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "It will work out somehow, I was made redundant a few months ago actually ", "output": "Self-disclosure" }, { "input": "Yes, I have stable work right now, but now I have learned to be prepared for the worst, but right now, you should do everything in your power to pull things together", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "Maybe do freelance in your free time?", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "Special talents to showcase", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "Yeah, that's a good idea, and it would help you pull by", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "I advice you to follow your gut", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "Yeah, because right now your phone isnt your top priority, and you can trust another job, just always be prepared for the worst.", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "You should always keep your head held high because it is only in this state that you can make your best decisions for your future", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "Its nothing to be ashamed about, and there is always someone to talk to with these things", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "Yes thats the spirit, and you are very welcome :)", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "Take care as well, bye", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "Thanks for sharing that with me. I'm so sorry you've been feeling like that. Breakups are so hard and can cause so much grief.", "output": "Restatement or Paraphrasing" }, { "input": "I know those feelings of sadness can feel like they will never end- I have felt that way too before.", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "But they do pass eventually and become easier to manage- with time and care. Do you have anyone in your life, a friend or family member who you can lean on when you're feeling so sad?", "output": "Reflection of feelings" }, { "input": "It sounds like it's hard to have your best friend not be as supportive as you want during this hard time. What has been helping you to pass the time these days- do you have any activities or hobbies that you like to do to relax, have fun, or take your mind of things?", "output": "Reflection of feelings" }, { "input": "That's a great idea. I love taking walks and bike rides outside when I feel down. I also have a little dog and she helps me whenever I'm feeling lonely- dogs are great at providing comfort and unconditional love. ", "output": "Self-disclosure" }, { "input": "My dog has also helped me meet other people and make friends- sometimes I'll walk my dog with others or go on bike rides with friends. If there is a dog park or local park nearby, maybe you can go and talk to other people there- talking about your dogs is a great icebreaker!", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "I'm glad to hear that! I hope you have a great time there! Research has also shown that spending time outside everyday is really good for our mental health.\n", "output": "Information" }, { "input": "If you are still interested in getting a bike, I'd say go for it too! Biking is a great stress relief and form of exercise that often makes me feel better. ", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "I am so glad to hear that and am so happy you are talking to me is making you feel better. ", "output": "Restatement or Paraphrasing" }, { "input": "Those are both great ideas! Yoga in the park sounds awesome. Yoga is another great stress reliever and form of exercise that is often free or very inexpensive. ", "output": "Information" }, { "input": "I am very glad to hear that. Is there anything else I can help you with today? I am here to listen. ", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "Reading and journaling are also great tools to use. Even when you are feeling down it can be helpful to write down your feelings as a form of release. ", "output": "Information" }, { "input": "That sounds like a great plan. Good luck and I hope you continue to feel better. ", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "You're very welcome. ", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "Hello, how are you doing today? \n", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "I'm sorry to hear that you are feeling angry today. Tell me more about that. \n", "output": "Restatement or Paraphrasing" }, { "input": "I can definitely understand why this could make someone upset. What are you considering doing about the situation? \n\n\n", "output": "Information" }, { "input": "That sounds really tough. Sometimes people who are in your situation find it comforting to talk to someone they are close with\n. What do you think about this? ", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "It sounds like your sister might be able to help you figure out this situation. It can always be helpful to make a list of pros and cons about the situation. You originally said you were angry because of a discrepancy with your paycheck, but on the other hand it sounds like you are considering quitting your job altogether. What are your thoughts about this? \n", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "It always seems easy to read to much into things. Another suggestion is to think about how the clerical error happened. Was it because of your boss? Or perhaps just an accident? ", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "It sounds like you are wanting to tell your boss about this. How do you imagine you will go about telling your boss?", "output": "Restatement or Paraphrasing" }, { "input": "It sounds like you are nervous about saying something mean. What do you think would be helpful for you to do do in order to prepare? Some people in your situation might find it helpful to role-play with someone. \n", "output": "Restatement or Paraphrasing" }, { "input": "That sounds like a great idea! Then when you actually talk with your boss, it will be easier since you already talked about it with your sister. \n", "output": "Reflection of feelings" }, { "input": "It sounds like you have a great plan in place! I'm glad to hear you are feeling less angry now! :) ", "output": "Reflection of feelings" }, { "input": "I can understand how you feel. Sometimes I let my anger get the best of me, but it is always important to remember to stay calm and think about your options and have a plan! ", "output": "Self-disclosure" }, { "input": "I hope things go well for you! ", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "Absolutely! Always asking for help when you need it is a great idea. ", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "I'll do my best. What do you need help with?\n", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "I can understand why that would make you feel depressed. ", "output": "Reflection of feelings" }, { "input": "Yes of course. It's good that you are acknowledging your feelings. To improve your mood you could practice hobbies or other things you enjoy doing.", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "I can understand how you feel that you don't have time. ", "output": "Reflection of feelings" }, { "input": "Parents need to learn to take care of their own needs first before their children. Only then can you be truly available for anyone else.", "output": "Information" }, { "input": "Indeed, once you free up some time for yourself, I bet you'll start to feel better.", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "Yes, try meditation for a few minutes each morning.", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "Take a few deep breaths and clear your mind of negative thoughts.", "output": "Information" }, { "input": "meditation allows you to set up your day in your mind and let you be calm.", "output": "Information" }, { "input": "Yes, it won't happen overnight but be patient with it.", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "do you have any other concerns?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "I'm hearing that I have helped enough and you don't have any more concerns?", "output": "Restatement or Paraphrasing" }, { "input": "You are welcome, and good bye.", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "Hi Can I help you", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "You tell me", "output": "Restatement or Paraphrasing" }, { "input": "That's so sad. I am sorry!", "output": "Restatement or Paraphrasing" }, { "input": "I can understand very how your mom is going through hard time.", "output": "Reflection of feelings" }, { "input": "Time will heel her. That I can assure you.", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "Tell her to meditation or yoga in the morning. This will definitely helped and her mind will be busy", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "That is wonderful idea too . She will recover soon", "output": "Reflection of feelings" }, { "input": "Be busy with your daily routine. Planning is the key", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "Good idea! You can take your mom along with you in the park. She will recover soon.", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "Yes, try to do all thgings. But do one by one. That is my advice for you", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "Your welcome", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "Start eating more fruits like me. I am trying to eat healthy.", "output": "Self-disclosure" }, { "input": "Your welcome", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "Hi, how are you doing today?\n", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "Oh no, I'm sorry to hear that. Is there something in particular that's wrong?\n", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "That sounds really stressful", "output": "Reflection of feelings" }, { "input": "Are you in a program that lets you choose your own classes?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "Oh, that's rough. I've had classes before where I had to take them but had a lot of trouble.", "output": "Self-disclosure" }, { "input": "Do you know anyone in the class? Maybe you could try studying with them and see if they can help.", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "It sounds like you're overwhelmed by all of the things expected of you", "output": "Restatement or Paraphrasing" }, { "input": "Sometimes schools have programs that can help with this sort of thing, like student support services, that might be able to get you extensions on assignments, or move tests around if they fall on a similar date.", "output": "Information" }, { "input": "You might be right, it depends on the school honestly. It might not hurt to try though if you're really overwhelmed. Another thought is to try talking to your professors or TAs? They might be more sympathetic than you think.", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "I've been a TA for classes before, and even though I sometimes can't do too much to change assignment deadlines, I've always been open to talking to students about their struggles. It helps me to know who to keep an eye on and give extra attention to.\n", "output": "Self-disclosure" }, { "input": "Are you feeling any external pressure from your family or advisor to do really well?\n\n", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "That sounds so hard, I think it's awesome that you're trying so hard on your own. Just the fact that you're in a program in the first place is really impressive.\n", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "I hope you're able to find a support system through your friends, even if you don't have one at home.", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "I know it's hard, but I think you're going to do a great job! And even if you fail a test, it really doesn't matter in the long run. \n", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "It was great talking with you", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "Bye!", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "Hello, how are you today?\n", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "What happened?\n", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "Why did he break up with you?", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "I think you should try finding a psychologist to help your jealous.", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "Apparently psychologist is good for people who want to share feelings and emotions", "output": "Information" }, { "input": "It's good for you to do that. You'll feel better with time. ", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "I feel the same way. When it had happened with me. However, I talked it with my friends and family and made me feel much better\n", "output": "Self-disclosure" }, { "input": "You should spend time for yourself now. Take care of yourself.", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "I Know that in the beginning it's so difficult to do anything, you just want to sleep and do nothing, but with time you'll feel much better and try start over", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "Yes. you should do that. It's not good to hold crying. You should just do what you want to do now\n", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "If you need anything later, just text me", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "Bye\n", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "Hello.", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "How are you doing today?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "Well I can definitely understand being stressed at this time.", "output": "Reflection of feelings" }, { "input": "Why were they cut?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "I can definitely understand your frustration. That is a big deal.", "output": "Reflection of feelings" }, { "input": "Have you tried talking to him?", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "I'm sure that you wouldn't annoy them. It's their job to talk to their employees.", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "Have you signed up for any job recruiting sites or consulted your state labor department office?", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "What about asking your neighbors if they need any help with child care or yard work? ", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "Wow. It sounds like you are really having a tough time.", "output": "Reflection of feelings" }, { "input": "What do you think the next step in finding new employment is?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "What are your options?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "That sounds like a fantastic idea, and even if there is competition, there are still a lot of people that might buy your art from Etsy or Amazon.", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": " It sounds like you have a plan. I know that you will do great.", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "Is there anything else that I can help you with today?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "You're welcome! Have a nice day!", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "Thanks!", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "Hi. What brings you here today?\n", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "I understand that. The pandemic has been very hard to keep connected with everyone. Have you tried talking to your friends about how you are feeling?", "output": "Reflection of feelings" }, { "input": "It's completely normal to feel like that. I have been in your exact shoes. I would suggest inviting one of them out for lunch or dinner and express face to face how you are feeling right now.", "output": "Reflection of feelings" }, { "input": "She may be going through something at home or having family issues. We truly never know what the other person is going through unless we have that uncomfortable situation. My suggestion would be to rephrase that question slightly to her. \n", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "It's completely natural. Instead of texting her, have you tried calling?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "How long have you been friends?\n", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "You both have been friends for such a long time. I'm so jealous of friendships like that. I would definitely ask her for lunch. You all have been through so much together. This conversation with her would be a weight off your shoulders.\n ", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "I do not think she would respond that way at all. Once she sees that this has you concerned about your friendship, she will take it serious and open up to you.", "output": "Information" }, { "input": "I'm an only child as well so I understand how you are feeling :)\n", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "you are welcome! Glad I could help!", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "Yes! It can be frustrating at times. But it sounds like you have a plan in order. You just need to execute it.", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "You as well!", "output": "Reflection of feelings" }, { "input": "Hi, How are you?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "I'm okay. What is making you feel tired?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "So you are looking for a better job?", "output": "Restatement or Paraphrasing" }, { "input": "Yes, I have observed that about the job market too.", "output": "Self-disclosure" }, { "input": "You are feeling down about that situation.", "output": "Reflection of feelings" }, { "input": "Have you gotten advice from the school about what to do?", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "Everyone progresses at their own rate.", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "It sounds like your mood has been a challenge for you to complete school.", "output": "Restatement or Paraphrasing" }, { "input": "Not everyone has to go through that, so try to be understanding of yourself.", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "Do they know that you are struggling?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "It sounds like they have a lot of their own problems.", "output": "Restatement or Paraphrasing" }, { "input": "Is there someone else you could talk to?", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "Do you listen to his or her problems too? ", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "You could check in with your friend to see how they are feeling about your communication.", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "When people feel they are burdening their friends, it sometimes means they should find a counsellor to talk to.", "output": "Information" }, { "input": "Venting is important, it's true.", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "That's really positive.", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "You're welcome. ", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "I know what it's like to not know the future and to be depressed.", "output": "Self-disclosure" }, { "input": "You too!", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "Hi, how are you today?\n", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "I see, I've been feeling that way too recently.", "output": "Self-disclosure" }, { "input": "Is there anything in particular that has you upset or just life in general?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "That makes total sense. Covid's been going on for so long, life is so different now. ", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "Do you want to talk about what's going on with your mom?\n", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "I think it's really great that you're doing all that for her! It must be extra hard to have to limit public interactions even more than most people.", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "That sounds so stressful to have to be worried about her on top of everything else. I'm so sorry you're going through that.", "output": "Reflection of feelings" }, { "input": "Have you been able to keep in contact with friends through video chat? That's something that can sometimes help when feeling isolated. \n", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "It sounds like you don't think the online interactions are a good substitute for in-person things. Does that sound right? ", "output": "Restatement or Paraphrasing" }, { "input": "Ah, that sounds like kind of a cycle of guilt going on. Where she feels bad about you not being able to go out, and you feel bad about her feeling bad. ", "output": "Restatement or Paraphrasing" }, { "input": "Yeah that makes complete sense. It seems like you have a good idea of who you are and what your needs are. ", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "I wonder if you could do something like take walks in the park with friends, or see them with masks where you're really socially distanced from everyone\n", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "I really hope things get better for you. Covid should be ending soon hopefully with the vaccine, and things will start to go a bit back to normal\n", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "Yeah! I hope that works out for you. I've been finding getting outside and doing things with others has been helpful both for social and exercise. \n", "output": "Self-disclosure" }, { "input": "It's been really nice chatting with you :)\n", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "No problem! How are you doing? How can I help you today?\n", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "I am very sorry to hear that. Facing pay cuts at work can be a very stressful situation. ", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "Are there situations or moments that specifically make you feel like this is going to happen? Or are you just feeling a general sense of anxiety and fear it might happen?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "I can definitely understand why that would be difficult. Dealing with uncertainty during the pandemic is extremely difficult, as there are so many unforeseen circumstances. ", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "One thing that helps me out in those moments, is to remember that there are things in the world and life that I can control, and others that I can't control. ", "output": "Self-disclosure" }, { "input": "It seems like the best thing you can do at the moment is try your best to do the best you can at your job. If there will be paycuts, you might not be able to prevent it. But at least you will know that you gave a valiant effort. ", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "I just wanted to remind you to remember, anxiety about something that has not happened yet is not always helpful to yourself. By focusing directly on what you can do, you can make sure you are prepared for anything negative coming your way. ", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "Is there anything else you need help with?", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "Good, I am very glad to hear that. I am wishing you the best in the future and definitely feel free to contact me if you need support again!", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "Do you need any help with any other questions? Otherwise, there is a quit button on the side.\n", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "You're welcome. Don't hesitate to contact me again! Have a great day. ", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "Hi Can I help you", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "My son have same issue. We have to deal with this covid situation.", "output": "Reflection of feelings" }, { "input": "I can understand how you feel. It is very difficult", "output": "Restatement or Paraphrasing" }, { "input": "School started already . That good idea to go and attend ", "output": "Information" }, { "input": "You are so kind. Thinking about your parents. Only few months you have to deal. She will get vaccine soon", "output": "Information" }, { "input": "I got last week my first dose. Tell her not to be scared at all.", "output": "Information" }, { "input": "Don't worry at all. Believe me", "output": "Reflection of feelings" }, { "input": "Not at all. It is very easy. Easier than flu shot", "output": "Information" }, { "input": "Your welcome", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "Definitely. I am assuring you will be fine very soon.", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "Good luck", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "Hello, How can I help you today?", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "Can you tell me more about why you are scared for the future?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "It seems that Covid has had a negative effect on your employment and financial insecurity is weighing heavily on you.", "output": "Restatement or Paraphrasing" }, { "input": "I can understand that feeling of insecurity, and how helpless you feel. I myself have been in the position of loss of income and financial insecurity in the past, and while it was hard while I was in the valley, I was able to walk out of it with some valuable lessons.", "output": "Self-disclosure" }, { "input": "It sounds like you are already identifying areas of self improvement. A person with confidence in themselves and the ability to reflect and grow are promising attributes potential employers look for.", "output": "Reflection of feelings" }, { "input": "You are so welcome. I know that you will succeed in your employment search as you have the skills and humility that potential employers are looking for.", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "As you continue your job search, can you think of ways that you could trim your cost of living for the short term? Returning to the basics for a time could help save you money while you take the next steps with your career. Things like planning meals ahead of time, using items you already have instead of buying new, letting go of subscriptions you don't use daily or don't deem necessary.", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "Our lifestyle seems to be all about convenience and instant gratification, I myself being guilty of wanting those as well. But I think when we strip our needs down to the basics for a while we allow ourselves to find what is really necessary, as well as what is truly important to us.", "output": "Information" }, { "input": "And it is important to remember that everyone goes through cycles of feast or famine, and that when you are walking through a famine you yourself are not a failure. As long as you know you are doing your best to succeed under the circumstances you have been handed, you will never truly be a failure to yourself or to others.", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "I am so glad you have been able to look within yourself to see that you have all the resources you need to handle this period of life. You have a optimistic attitude and a can do spirit, and those will take you far!", "output": "Reflection of feelings" }, { "input": "Enjoy the rest of your day!", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "Hello! Hope you are doing well! How can I help you today?\n", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "So your work load is giving you stress and you cannot change your job. Right?", "output": "Restatement or Paraphrasing" }, { "input": "It is really hard time to find a job and work load is increasing due to less hiring. ", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "It is really a lot of work. You might not have any spare time for yourself and family. Situation is really drastic. You should talk to your boss. ", "output": "Reflection of feelings" }, { "input": "I can understand your situation very well as it happened with me in past. In this scenario you should take small breaks to relax your body and mind. You will feel better. ", "output": "Self-disclosure" }, { "input": "Time is running bad for all of us. We have to take care of our health at this time. Stress can lead to so many disease and it will be hard to afford that extra burden in terms of time and money.", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "Yes, you should keep looking for it with your current job. There is no harm in being prepared.", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "You should consult a doctor for that. You can try yoga or meditation if you can take little time for yourself. ", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "You should try to give bit time to yourself. Try to talk to friends and family over the weekend. All these things always work for me.", "output": "Self-disclosure" }, { "input": "That's true ! Still you can go and relax in your backyard with family or talk to them on phone. We will feel good.\n", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "It is my work to help you out. Hope you are feeling bit relaxed. Take care", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "Can you tell me what happened?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "So you suffered from a nerve issue pain and not being able to do the activities you like to do before Covid. Plus Covid made u not able to social with other people. Is that correct?", "output": "Restatement or Paraphrasing" }, { "input": "I feel isolated as well after long time quarantine. It's like living alone in the forest. ", "output": "Reflection of feelings" }, { "input": "I bet there are lots of people feel the same as you do. But they are afraid of sharing the negative emotion to others as you do. ", "output": "Reflection of feelings" }, { "input": "It seems that you don't want to bother others. You seem a very thoughtful person. ", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "That will give yourself too much emotion burden for sure. ", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "Have you visited a physician for suggestion of your pain relief?", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "Maybe yoga will be a more gentle way to replace dancing. What do you think? ", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "I'm sorry to hear that no good medicine for your issue rite now. ", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "I know. Sunshine is always best cure for a better mood. Did you try to maybe walk or drive around your neighborhood for some fresh air? ", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "Oh, then drive around might be the only option", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "Ye. You did the right choice. Safety is always the first concern ", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "Does where you live have a online social activity group on FB or an app called Neighbors?", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "That could be a good way to communicate with others in a safe way. ", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "Give that a try. Maybe you will meet some friends there. ", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "Sounds great. I'm glad you didn't give up seeking for solutions to make yourself feel better", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "You are welcome! Glad I can help", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "You too. Have a great weekend!!", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "hello\n", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "I am sorry to hear that. Is there anything I can do for you? Please tell me what's wrong?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "For sure, I am happy to talk to you. I am sorry for your breakup. ", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "Is there anything you want to do right now that helps maybe. For example, to eat something, to listen good music or take small walk in fresh air etc", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "I can feel you, it must be so hard to you. take your time do not think about a lot", "output": "Reflection of feelings" }, { "input": "when I have bad times, I just want to take a nap. It maybe help you feel better", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "Hello! ", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "Why are you not feeling very good about yourself, lately? ", "output": "Question" }, { "input": " I understand how you feel. All will be well, you are going to be okay.", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "So, just from my understanding you are a single mom and your friends have distant from you because oh this?\n\n", "output": "Restatement or Paraphrasing" }, { "input": "It sounds like its been really tough for you and wish you had more support from your friends and even your child's father. ", "output": "Reflection of feelings" }, { "input": "I myself am single mum so I understand how you feel. You will find also that there are many others dealing with this issue so you are not alone", "output": "Self-disclosure" }, { "input": "What go me through those difficult times was seeking for counselling also I had family that were very supportive and helpful. The father of my child did not pay child support at first so I took him to court eventually and he was forced to start paying child support, so financially things got better.", "output": "Information" }, { "input": "What about your family members are they able to help look after your child whilst you work?\n\n", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "You are welcome ", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "Hello! I hope that you are having a wonderful start of your day so far\n", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "Tell me more about it. What made your day stressed?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "I'm not sure what you mean by that? Can you clarify what you mean by that?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "it seems that you are having a bad day, mostly attributed to the fact that your properties have been auctioned by the bank. Correct me if I'm wrong\n", "output": "Restatement or Paraphrasing" }, { "input": "So, I have also struggled with that in the past. The way that really helped me put things into perspective is to cut off some of the vice you have in your life!", "output": "Self-disclosure" }, { "input": "I know it's a tough situation, but I know that you can do it. ", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "Would recommend seeking conversations with friends or family", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "By speaking to those who are close with you, you will definitely feel relief.", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "I want to let you know that you are going to make it. There is light at the end of the tunnel and only you can be alter it with your willpower.", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "I believe in you.", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "I'm really glad you are feeling that way!", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "please do and remember that they are only there to help you, as I am sure they love you very much.", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "Likewise, I will in contact with you and there are plenty of resources online that you may consult if you are not feeling well.", "output": "Information" }, { "input": "yes, there are plenty of online help!", "output": "Information" }, { "input": "Hello! How are you today?\n", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "Are you an investor?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "I can certainly understand the struggle with being at that stage in life. Has this affected you negatively?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "What sorts of things?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "So you feel that the drinking itself gives you the anxiety? Do you suffer from anxiety when you do not drink ever?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "So you would say that you drink to the point of blacking out? Or you just seem to get foggy on details when you've had a reasonable amount of alcohol?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "I have drank to the point of blacking out several times in my life mostly when I was younger and I found that it either came from a certain type of alcohol or mixing different types. Have you noticed it could be related to that or simply the amount of alcohol you are drinking? ", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "Certainly making sure that you only drink a certain amount like a couple drinks of beer or only a shot of harder drinks might alleviate this or refraining from mixing drinks. Sometimes also it could be due to the company you keep...the amount you drink. Do your friends encourage you to drink more?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "Are they okay with it when you decline?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "Okay so they ask you a couple of times and then they move on. That's good that they don't push you too much. Certainly keep with it if not drinking helps you to not make bad decisions. I'm sure you have other interests in life that maybe you could drag your friends out to enjoy so that might help...sober fun! Also if you find that you're struggling with not drinking that might be a time to look for support. Maybe see a therapist as there may be psychological reasons you can not refrain from drinking. Maybe look into a group like AA or something similar to share your struggles with others.", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "You have a good day as well! ", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "Hi! how are you doing today?\n", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "It sounds like you have low energy. What makes you feel down?", "output": "Restatement or Paraphrasing" }, { "input": "I can understand parental pressure. They want to see you to be a successful person. Sometime it is overwhelming. you should talk to them that you are doing your best.", "output": "Restatement or Paraphrasing" }, { "input": "It must be tough time for you. show your work report to your parents and try to tell them all the people are born with different potential.", "output": "Reflection of feelings" }, { "input": "Most of the parents behave like this when it is regarding their kids future. When I was in school same thing happened with mw. They know us very well I realized now. Try to talk to them everyday for a while. It might work.", "output": "Self-disclosure" }, { "input": "Hope you are feeling bit relaxed now. ", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "I am glad that I am able to make you happy. ", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "sure! You don't have to worry about that. that should be their problem. just ignore them or don't give attention. They will stop doing it for sure.", "output": "Restatement or Paraphrasing" }, { "input": "Try to take small break while studying and try to relax ", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "That's great! you will do awesome.", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "You are welcome!", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "Sure! take care", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "hello how are you\n", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "im good, what is not going well?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "ok lets talk about this, so you are feeling depressed because you cannot find a job due to covid", "output": "Restatement or Paraphrasing" }, { "input": "im sorry that you feel this way, covid is really making it difficult to find work. I also have not been able to get a job due to covid", "output": "Self-disclosure" }, { "input": "are there any resources avaible to you such as unemployment or other local agencies that might be able to help you pay your bills?", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "that sounds really difficult ", "output": "Reflection of feelings" }, { "input": "do you have any family that could possibly help you through this time", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "maybe contact them after we are done talking and tell them what is going on ", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "is there anything else that you would like to talk about or ways I can help you?", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "OF COURSE! I wish you the best", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "hello\n", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "how are you today?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "wow, you mean they don't give you credit \n", "output": "Restatement or Paraphrasing" }, { "input": "that's not good", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "are you sure you gave in your best still?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "everything is going to be ok, eventually they are going to know what they are missing because it once happen to me once at where i worked in New Jersey ", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "you will soon get your praise. Trust me", "output": "Reflection of feelings" }, { "input": "what i did was that i continue to do everything in my power to make the company better. one day i was recognize for my achievement and that was how my reputation sky rock ", "output": "Self-disclosure" }, { "input": "i considered that option many times but i also have it at the back of my mind that, champions don't quit and i am no coward.", "output": "Information" }, { "input": "you are very much welcome. just remember that you are better than what anybody might think of you. just be patient, your time will come ", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "Hello, how are you today?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "I am sorry to hear. Why are you not feeling well?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "I am so sorry. I have been in relationships before and cheated on and it is difficult. However, you can learn many valuable lessons on what you look for in your next relationship. It will make it stronger and better in the long run!", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "I understand that it can be extremely difficult. Why do you feel you are unable to get out of the house? Would assistance caring for the child help you?", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "You should not feel that way! You are a great parent for your child and going out and participating in a hobby that you both enjoy can possibly help. ", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "Do you think counseling could help fix your relationship? Eating is important and you should eat to receive the necessary vitamins and nutrients", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "Counseling can be a great option. If you feel that your relationship can be fixed and you are both committed to each other, counseling can be a great option for both of you. If you do not, some counseling for yourself may be a great option as well", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "I do not have a recommendation due to potential geographical differences, but on google.com you can search counselors in your area and find some. The reviews may help you decide on a solution", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "If you feel it is necessary to discuss with your husband you can, but if you do not, you do not have to. You may be able to speak to a counselor and ask their opinion too", "output": "Reflection of feelings" }, { "input": "You should not feel that it is your fault. You are a great individual, and he made a decision which is now hurtful to you and your child.", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "Hi\n", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "How can I help you", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "Oh, thats bad.\n", "output": "Reflection of feelings" }, { "input": "When you lost your job?\n", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "In which field you are looking for?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "You can try as a school driver. As school now opened You will get it", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "Try Uber and that is good choice as you are not doing anything.", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "Oh ok Take deep breath and just keep applying.I am sure you will get something good. Believe in god!", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "That's really good. Keep trying your best . Apply everyday for job. You can start with grocery stores . I am assuring you that good time will come soon.", "output": "Reflection of feelings" }, { "input": "yes\n", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "That is nice to hear from you. I thinks you are happy now", "output": "Reflection of feelings" }, { "input": "Hello there. What is on your mind today?\n", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "What is it about the Zoom classes that you find stressful?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "I can relate to that totally. I have had a hard time learning Zoom too. Mostly I have trouble with the audio though. It can be frustrating", "output": "Self-disclosure" }, { "input": "I know that is very difficult. When our anxieties take over it can be hard to think clearly. ", "output": "Reflection of feelings" }, { "input": "Have you tried casting the zoom on to a larger screen?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "I think getting yourself a new monitor is a great idea!", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "In the meantime, take some deep breaths when you feel yourself start to get anxious. It may be helpful to explain the situation to your teacher as well", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "It sounds like you are trying to solve the issue but get overwhelmed like we all do. I think you are doing a great job. All of this new stuff is difficult to learn", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "You're welcome!", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "Are there any other things on your mind?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "Have you tried explaining to them that you are trying to study?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "I can see where that would be frustrating", "output": "Reflection of feelings" }, { "input": "Have you tried asking their parents to speak with them ? ", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "That is a great idea!", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "You're welcome!", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "Hello, how can I help you today?", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "Ah that sounds tough, why exactly are you stressed?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "Okay, I understand, I see how that can also make your anxiety worse.", "output": "Reflection of feelings" }, { "input": "Currently, on a scale of 1-10 how well are you understanding your course material?\n", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "That's completely normal you haven't made any progress. That would make things so hard and I applaud you for coming so far with that going on!", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "Would you say your problems start with your roommates?", "output": "Restatement or Paraphrasing" }, { "input": "I completely understand, the same goes for me. It can be hard to keep up with grade expectations especially when money is on the line", "output": "Self-disclosure" }, { "input": "Yes, and I completely get it! Its so hard to self-manage without the right resources", "output": "Self-disclosure" }, { "input": "Ah and then they started rolling in, correct?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "Me too, unfortunately for us, universities don't seem t have the same sentiments.", "output": "Self-disclosure" }, { "input": "For starters, I think it would benefit you to eliminate the more closer problems: your roommates", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "Have you tried talking to them?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "Makes sense, isolation makes it hard to form that connection. I can see your dilemma", "output": "Reflection of feelings" }, { "input": "Are you currently working?\n", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "Good afternoon\n", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "I am sadden to hear that. I'm sure if you think positive and try really hard you will find a job and thinking postive will help with your fear and anxiety. ", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "It sounds like the pandemic has caused you to feel fear and have anxiety, is that right?", "output": "Restatement or Paraphrasing" }, { "input": "It sounds like you are under a lot of stress and don't have a way to realse that stress.", "output": "Reflection of feelings" }, { "input": "You can try yoga, or doing activities that cause you to feel relax. ", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "Getting a lot of rest or releasing stress will improve your fear and anxiety, which will lead to a more positive attitude to finding a job. Having a more postiive attuide well help you find a job. ", "output": "Information" }, { "input": "Of course they do. They can sense those emotions and take that into consideration when they are interviewing you. ", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "You can try to mediate and not focus on such negative things. ", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "I am sure they have those, but of course you will need a doctor's opinion. ", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "Your most welcome.", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "Hello What is on your mind today?", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "so your not feeling motivated to do you school work?", "output": "Restatement or Paraphrasing" }, { "input": "Thats tough , do you have a set school time?", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": " it sounds like your schedule is different almost everyday. I know I find schedule changes like that to be hard to manage ", "output": "Self-disclosure" }, { "input": "ouch without the right amount of sleep , everything is difficult. Have you thought of setting your own schedule to follow?", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "no point- what do you mean by that ?", "output": "Information" }, { "input": "I see - you find it hard to stay motivated when something pulls your attention to something you are more interested in doing . Does that sound right ?", "output": "Restatement or Paraphrasing" }, { "input": "Have you thought about why doing your school work is important ?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "have you thought about scheduling free time for your self ? It can give you something to look forward to and help keep you motivated /Almost like a reward for finishing your school work", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "maybe if you only schedule free time and school work time - you can use it as a reward- plus it would help you stay on task ", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "good question- changing any pattern takes practice . You could use the 3 r's Reminder- Routine and Reward ", "output": "Information" }, { "input": "great so glad we came up with a plan ", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "no problem thanks for sharing your story ", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "Hi there! How can I help you today?", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "I hear you. Is there a particular reason why you might feel this way?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "Is it that your life is just getting so stressful and busy that work feels like the last straw? Correct me if I'm wrong.", "output": "Restatement or Paraphrasing" }, { "input": "Ah, I understand that feeling completely. It's totally normal given the current situation and even without the whole virus situation, life is just tough.", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "Do you work in the mornings?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "Just from hearing that I can imagine your stress and how hard it must be to get through a single day.", "output": "Reflection of feelings" }, { "input": "Do you think it would be possible to get a day off or change your hours a bit?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "Ah, that could be exactly what you need!", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "I suggest you take that time to completely detox and get away from work and your problems", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "Until then, I suggest you prepare a little bit for the trip each day. Give yourself something to look forward to", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "For example, packing a bit of clothes each night or planning which places you'll visit\n", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "Yes! Morning exercise will definitely help eliminate stress and make you feel better about your health and more comfortable", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "Take it slow and don't forget to breathe :)", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "No problem! Is there anything else I can help with today?", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "Have a great day and no problem!", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "I will, thanks\n", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "Hi, I am here to support you in anyway that I can how is your day going?\n", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "I understand what you are saying and have felt low at times in my life too. I am proud of you for reaching out for help and trying to get a new perceptive. You are making progress today.", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "Do you think it would help to give me an example of a time when you lose interest?", "output": "Reflection of feelings" }, { "input": "Maybe it will help if I share something that I have been experiencing lately. Recently, anytime that I watch a love story or a romantic comedy I become so sad that I end up crying through the end of it and needing to lay down from exhaustion. ", "output": "Self-disclosure" }, { "input": "Okay, so youre saying that when you try to focus on tv you are unable to do so?", "output": "Reflection of feelings" }, { "input": "Do you have any close family? Are you in contact with any friends that you can talk to?", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "Okay, have you recently moved away from your family? That sound very difficult being so far away.", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "Oh, I see. Well great job using your extra time to reach out for support. Did anything happen recently that has caused your distress? Have you broken up with anyone for example? ", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "Have you ever tried to journal your thoughts?", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "Wonderful! I recommend ending each day with a journal entry and the record how you are feeling over all every three days. ", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "You're welcome! I also like to ask people if they are exercising because I find that it helps me and my mental health.", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "Thats is positive news. Have you ever tried doing yoga? I find that it is low strain on your body and can help with creating a quiet moment in your day.", "output": "Information" }, { "input": "Hi , how are you?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "Good afternoon ", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "Why your tired? ", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "Yes , What happen why you are tired please can you explain ", "output": "Restatement or Paraphrasing" }, { "input": "ok , everything going ok", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "Please can you tell why you are in depression ?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "please engaged yourself in different actives that help you come out from this depression", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "yes, everyone going in this situation because of lock down", "output": "Reflection of feelings" }, { "input": "yes i know that's hard put please try to engaged yourself in fun activates ", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "those activities that you like that you feel fun in it", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "here is also lock down situation from log time , how is there?", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "Why your in depression because of job or any thin else ", "output": "Information" }, { "input": "thing*", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "why please don't feel like that i hope you will come out from this very soon", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "yes , Thanks", "output": "Reflection of feelings" }, { "input": "I'm in London", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "yes I'm real and i hope everyone come out from this", "output": "Restatement or Paraphrasing" }, { "input": "cloudy, windy as always here", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "Thanks , i hope i help you in all this your situation ", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "your welcome, bye", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "You too, bye", "output": "Reflection of feelings" }, { "input": "Hey! How are you?", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "I'm good but what makes you tired?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "What makes you depressed?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "You will be able to keep your head above the water thats the spirit! ", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "Keep that positivity inside your head :)", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "And lol yeah do that", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "Yeah do your best :) ", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "Your welcome!", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "God bless you aswell :) I hope you get through this", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "You aswell stay safe", "output": "Reflection of feelings" }, { "input": "Im from new york", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "Yeah new york is a bit crowded than many other states, but its good", "output": "Information" }, { "input": "Hope you have a good day too", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "yes i am here, how are you today? what is the problem your having?\n\n", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "hello im here thank you. how are you feeling today? whats the prpoblem your having?\n", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "hello. what are you having problems with?\n", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "what are you habving issues with today\n", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "sorry i was having technical difficutlties, but i did not receive a message regarding what your having issues with. can you tell me again please", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "im sorry about that, but im here to help you as much as i can", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "so your probelm seems to be that you want to believe she is getting the help for her heroin problem, but you are hesitant becasuse of some of her actions when you see her>\n", "output": "Restatement or Paraphrasing" }, { "input": "thats a tough situation to be in with someone you care about, i went through a similiar situation with one of my parents, so i have somewhat of an idea where your coming from.\n", "output": "Self-disclosure" }, { "input": "are you familiar with anyone else that knows her and her situation and have they shared the same concern? the issue is, suboxone is a narcotic as well, so if shes still getting used to the effects of suboxone, it may seem like shes still using heroin, when in reality shes just struggling getting used to the suboxone", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "maybe you could sit down with her, and without accusing her in any way, ask her how the new medicine is working for her and questions of the sort in order to get a judge of how she acts and how she answers, that may be able to give you a better idea of how much your suspicions are true or not\n", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "thats what im here for. im glad i could give you some input today. i hope you can get this figured out and it isnt as it seems", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "that must make it that much harder. just do what you can for her without pushing her away, and pray to god she keeps herself on the recovery path. addiction is an evil and vindictive dicease, and it holds no boundaries. never give up on her, as its always key for someone struggling with addiction to always have someone they know they can talk to ", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "anytime. im glad i could help. have a wonderful day, and ill be sure to throw you and your daughter in my prayers. best of luck to you and god bless", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "Hello there, how are you today?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "I'm sorry to hear that. When did he break up with you?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "That seems very cowardly to break up with you over text after being together for a year. ", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "That is a shame. I can understand his perspective if marriage is not something he wanted but it seems hurtful to string you along in a relationship if your life goals were very different. Was your differing opinions on marriage the only reason he gave?", "output": "Restatement or Paraphrasing" }, { "input": "That sounds very difficult. How have you been coping with the break up?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "I think this is to be expected from a very fresh break-up. I know that when I broke up with my partner, I spent at least a few days crying and trying to figure out what my life would be now.", "output": "Self-disclosure" }, { "input": "I tried to focus on other areas of my life and to critically reflect on my relationship. Largely, I threw myself into my work and tried to better that aspect of my life, and hung out with people that I knew cared about me. Both of those are very good distractions which you might be able to use.", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "I think one day off to get the crying out of your system is a good emotional cleanse. We all need time to self care and look after our emotions. Maybe going for a walk or doing some yoga, to place your focus on something rather than being boxed into a room may help to shift your focus.", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "You are more than welcome. I hope that you feel better by being outside. ", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "Hi! Hope you are doing well today. How may I assist you?\n", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "It seems you are badly hurt by your friend's action. Correct me if I am wrong.\n", "output": "Restatement or Paraphrasing" }, { "input": "So What's bother you a lot ? What happened which leads you to feel like this?", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "That is really bad. It must be hard for you to trust on them.\n", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "How do you come to know that they are talking behind your back? you should talk to them and ask what is the cause that they can't directly talk to you. If something bothers you you should directly talk to that person. Sometime it gives a clear picture.", "output": "Reflection of feelings" }, { "input": "I can imagine how stressed or shocking it would be for you. It is really hard to count on such friends now.", "output": "Reflection of feelings" }, { "input": "Once one of my friends lied to me. I wanted to breakup with her. Before that I decided to clear the things that why she did that. Motive behind her lying was not bad. I forgave her and we are still best friends. So you should clarify the things or give them one chance.", "output": "Self-disclosure" }, { "input": "leaving is really easy but having good friends are hard to find. Think about the time when you made wonderful memories.", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "Talk to them. They might feel guilty or in future they won't do that. Sometime we indulge in a conversation which starts with fun and later take the drastic turn. It might happen in your case.", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "Hi there.\n I understand how are you feeling. I have been looking for job for the past 5 months and it is a huge challenge.", "output": "Reflection of feelings" }, { "input": "Have you been looking online and try to apply for other jobs?\n", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "I know most of them is not helpful and somethimes waste of time. It is important that you keep ypurself busy during this time\n", "output": "Reflection of feelings" }, { "input": "I'm doing some kinda gig jobs too. I have been selling a lot things on Ebay, same thing i can use my creativity and dont let my mind go crazy\n", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "Yes, I believe Youtube channel is a great source for new opportunities nowadays ", "output": "Self-disclosure" }, { "input": "Everybody is facing a challenge time right now, we are all together on this", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "Sure, in short term is a good choice. The most impoetant thing is looking foward always. For long term we are going to figure out something else", "output": "Information" }, { "input": "For me this is the powerful tool, I pray every single day", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "We need to be grateful for beeb alive and for been health.", "output": "Information" }, { "input": "Yes but still has few that are on the right path. We need to keep our faith ", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "Sure soon we are going to see the lights at the end of the tunnel.", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "What do like to do on your free time?", "output": "Information" }, { "input": "Sounds interesting. I wish I had more ideas to do youtube as well but I am not good doing this things.", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "Yes Im working out too not much as i wish.", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "Thank you ", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "Everything seens to be great effort I Know", "output": "Information" }, { "input": "Okay thank you for your time", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "Hello. How are you today?", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "Very well, thank you.", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "What's on your mind?\n", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "That's tough. How long have you been together?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "Five years is a long time, and to make a relationship work in the long term, you used the magic word...\"effort.\"", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "Do you live together?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "It sounds like you are basically living in a long distance relationship, given the circumstances.", "output": "Restatement or Paraphrasing" }, { "input": "It's very hard to make a relationship work when you can't see each other in person. It takes a lot of effort.", "output": "Information" }, { "input": "Do you think she shares your frustration and concern, and if so, have you talked about it with her?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "How much of this distance between you do you think is related to COVID measures?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "Video chatting definitely isn't the same, or natural. It does take more effort, certainly.", "output": "Reflection of feelings" }, { "input": "How much did you see each other before COVID?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "A lot of relationships right now are in \"survival mode\" due to the pandemic. The only way to make it through is with a lot of effort. This lockdown isn't going to last forever. You just have to make it through.", "output": "Information" }, { "input": "I would definitely suggest you talk to her and make sure you're on the same page, even if that's scary.\n", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "If she knows you want to find a way to make things work, then she'll work harder, too.", "output": "Information" }, { "input": "I know you can just about anything delivered out there. I think a gesture of something tangible would be a good idea, whatever it might be. Maybe delivery of flowers and a pizza?", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "Just look for ways to stay connected and you'll make it through!", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "You too!", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "Why do you believe you will loose your job? \n", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "This Covid crisis has been effecting so many lives, I totally understand,", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "I have been holding on and trying to see the positivity daily. I practice gratitude to show I appreciate what I do have", "output": "Reflection of feelings" }, { "input": "Have you thought about talking to your boss?", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "i'm sorry , why were you not able to talk?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "I sometimes get nervous when I have to speak up about something that is important to me, can you relate?", "output": "Self-disclosure" }, { "input": "You will feel like you will loose your job if you speak up?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "Honestly, I can see that being concerning for you", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "You're welcome. Covid has hit many of us hard and each situation is just as important as the next!", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "Support is needed in this new times!\n\n", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "Have a great day", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "Hello, how are you today?\n", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "I am sorry to hear that - how about reaching out to any family members?", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "I feel a lot of people are in your situation especially with Covid going on. Do you connect with friends on social media at all (like facebook)?", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "I can totally understand where you are coming from. I think it is great that you are at least getting a little communication with facebook. I am guessing you will be in line for a vaccination also in the up coming month which I think will help your mood as well.", "output": "Reflection of feelings" }, { "input": "I was able to get my first dose of this vaccine this past Sunday. I was very surprised how good I felt this week like a weight being lifted off my shoulders. I work with high school kids so it was nice not thinking about covid all the time. I not it might not help for you today but I think it will give you something to look forward as you move forward in the upcoming weeks.", "output": "Self-disclosure" }, { "input": "*I know", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "Absolutely. The weather seems to be getting nicer as well. Do you like any outdoor activites (ex. walking outside)?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "I think you got a lot of things to be excited about and look forward to - 1. warmer weather 2. longer-daylight hours 3. vaccine upcoming - which then will open up the activities you enjoy like shopping and going out for coffee 4. Getting a puppy In the mean time, I think it helps to try to keep busy. Is there goals you can set for yourself each day? Like maybe working on a room for a puppy, to take a walk outside each day, an area of the house that should get cleaned, or start a new hobby (like finding a book you have been meaning to read)", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "Maybe even with each day that you make a point to contact a friend each day either by phone call, email, or facebook? Just say Hi - how are you doing? - look forward to meeting up at some point for coffee. This might get an engaging conversation going with some of your friends.", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "Yes that is good low-key way of connecting. Rather than a call or text message. I am guessing many of your friends are experiencing the same feelings that you (and many of us) are.", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "Yes it has been a long year in that regard. I know being a teacher we finally start back with kids full-time April 5th so it basically has been a full year of distance learning and teaching through a computer.", "output": "Self-disclosure" }, { "input": "I am glad to help and hope you have a great rest of your week!!!", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "No problem and great talking with you.", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "\nGood morning. What type of decision is troubling you? \n", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "I can understand the feeling lonely would make you feel your decision was wrong but from an outsiders view, it was not a healthy relationship if he was already committed to someone. ", "output": "Reflection of feelings" }, { "input": "You deserve something better. Someone dedicated to you. ", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "I completely understand. I have been in your shoes before. I learned a lot and found out more about myself in the growing experience after the relationship ended. I'm sure there was some positives even with you at the end of the relationship now. ", "output": "Self-disclosure" }, { "input": "Each person is put in our life for a reason or season. This may just be the stepping stone to finding your soul mate. The perfect relationship won't feel so tricky in the long run and will make you feel on top of the world! ", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "Sounds like you really but your heart in to this and I'm sure it hurts. No need to rush relationship. Falling back in love with yourself is the key first. Finding your inner happiness will make the next relationship that much better and stronger! ", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "Treat yourself to a few solo dates to find joy in the day to day life you are now building without him. ", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "It can be fun! No decisons on who wants to go where. It is all about you enjoying the moment and your own company! ", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "No need to go out if you feel uncomfortable. Find a movie you have been wanting to watch and order some take out! Or do some online shopping while enjoying your favorite dessert or adult beverage! ", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "That is a lot to handle! I am proud of you for that as well! No one ever deserves to be abused. Some solo time to rebuild your independance may do you wonders and give you back your strength and self confidence! Seems like the past year has been emotionally draining. ", "output": "Reflection of feelings" }, { "input": "I think you know yourself better than anyone else and are about to leap in to a new chapter of your life. You received lessons from both the past relationships and can take that forward knowing what you wish for and deserve. ", "output": "Restatement or Paraphrasing" }, { "input": "Sometimes talking about why you are feeling is the best way to find closure. Keep the memories of the love and good times but know that in the end you were destined for something so much more. As adults we try so often to find happiness in others. He is a good person for wanting to try to resolve the situation for his family but that does not mean he did not love you or that your relationship was not a bright spot in his life as it was yours. I'm sure he is hurting too. ", "output": "Reflection of feelings" }, { "input": "You deserve peace through this transition. It will take some time but I think you will come out even stronger and happier on the long run. Journaling may be a great outlet for your emotions as well. ", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "I think so! It may also let you heal while building your creativity even more! You seem like a very passionate and loving person. ", "output": "Reflection of feelings" }, { "input": "You are so very welcome! You were a pleasure to talk to and I wish you all the best! Let this year be YOUR year!", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "Hello. How are you today?", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "The end of a relationship is a really difficult time. ", "output": "Reflection of feelings" }, { "input": "How long were you together?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "Three years is a long time.\n", "output": "Restatement or Paraphrasing" }, { "input": "What led to the breakup?\n", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "I've been in relationships like that. It really takes it out of you.", "output": "Self-disclosure" }, { "input": "What are your days like now? \n", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "I can totally understand why you're feeling that way.", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "How long have you been seperated?\n", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "So this is still really fresh. It's going to take some time to start to feel normal after three years.\n", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "What have you been doing for self-care?\n", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "What have you been doing for self-care?\n", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "After a three year relationship, you're going to have a period of mourning. This happens whether the breakup was right or wrong. It's still a huge part of your life now separated, and that's an important life event.", "output": "Information" }, { "input": "I think it would be good for you to go out with your friends. Sometimes when you're really down, you might not feel like it. Going out takes effort, but it's worth it.\n", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "Isolating at home is not going to help you process things. You might even consider going on some walks/runs, and getting in more exercise.", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "Of course. Anytime. ", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "It will get easier. It'll just take a little time. Remember, it is okay to be sad. Trying to hold back emotions will only make things harder, so let them out as they come up.", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "Absolutely. Talking to a close friend is one of the best things you could do.", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "HI, how are you today?\n", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "Thats sucks, what's going on?", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "Oh wow, that is a lot. Add a pandemic to the mix. I can see why you'd feel overwhlemed.\n\n", "output": "Reflection of feelings" }, { "input": "Its actually kind of nice to vent on these anonymous things. ", "output": "Reflection of feelings" }, { "input": "Boyfriend too. Anybody around to talk to? Family friends?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "How about other moms in your kids friend groups? I've found that cna be an easier way to get to knwo people bc you are all doing childcare anyway?\n", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "I'm interested in your free lance work. What kind of stuff are you doing? Is it a passion thing or a paying hte bills thing?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "Got it. Mturk is always there when you can't sleep!\n", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "What are you studying? Any connections through your program?\n", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "Yeah, it took me forever to get through my loans but bit by bit got there. Sounds like a good program that can lead to a better job (and maybe only one job someday!) Investing in the future is defintely a good thing\n", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "I've been to see counselors a few times when going through tough patches (ask me about divorce, job loss and moving to a new countrey in one year) and have found that it helps to be abel to vent to someone who doesn't know you - ha.\n", "output": "Self-disclosure" }, { "input": "Kids can be positive motivation for sure. But right now you're in the toughest part of parenthood. Threel ittle ones who need your support and you are doing it by yourself. You are fighting the fight for sure.", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "You too!", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "hello! what is on your mind today?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "it sounds like you are a little depressed", "output": "Reflection of feelings" }, { "input": "i think a lot of people are feeling that way. covid has really changed up everyone's lives, and it is hard to make drastic changes like we all have. ", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "if y ou have health insurance you can always look into therapy or antidepressants", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "there are also free sites like 7 cups that does peer to peer supprt", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "sometimes talking to people even through chat can make us feel less lonely and change things up a bit", "output": "Information" }, { "input": "peer to peer support. you can. try to google it!", "output": "Information" }, { "input": "if you google lemonaid health that is a doctor you can see virtually its prettty cheap less than a hundres a month for a doctor and meds!", "output": "Information" }, { "input": "when i am feeling down i like to go sit outside. vitamin d that we get from the sun is really importnat. i am inside a lot. i have had to start taking a supplement and it helps!\n", "output": "Self-disclosure" }, { "input": "i've been onn and off antidppressants for about twenty years. antidepressants work with natural chemicals in your brain they are not addictive because they are not narcotic", "output": "Information" }, { "input": "you can look an amazon for herbal or natural options .st johns wort is a good one", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "vitamin d d is over the counter! any pharmacy, amazon, its easy to find and cheap", "output": "Information" }, { "input": "my friend swears by st johns wort. its some herb that is a natural anti depressant. you could do some research and see!", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "it can be stressful but a positive stress. remember you are researching how to help yourself and feel better!", "output": "Reflection of feelings" }, { "input": "you'll be okay. i know its hard to stay positive, but i think you are doing pretty good", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "i think we all need to support eachother during these uncertain times. at least with the vaccine there is a light at the end of the tunnel for a lot of people! :) ", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "Sounds good! Enjoy your coffee and the rest of your day! :) ", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "o man. i went crazy last summer. i did the dumbest thing to get myself out of the funk", "output": "Self-disclosure" }, { "input": "you are welcome! :)", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "Hi how are you?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "You can share any thing with me with confidence . ", "output": "Information" }, { "input": "I'm good than you", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "Everything going good", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "its going good , how is your day?", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "its hard time for you but you can come out from this", "output": "Restatement or Paraphrasing" }, { "input": "its morning 11:36", "output": "Information" }, { "input": "Yes i hade this before than i engaged in other activity than i come out from this", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "try to make engaged your self in other activity", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "its help you to come out from this situation ", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "that's really hard but you can do it", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "yes its very hard to come out from this but hopefully you will forget everything", "output": "Restatement or Paraphrasing" }, { "input": "That's very good", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "I have been came out from this situation from long time but its very hard", "output": "Reflection of feelings" }, { "input": "How are you now ? still are you in this situation are you come out", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "That's very good", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "make yourself busy in work activity than you feel more better", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "Yes you are right , when you feel happy everything look happy", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "Thanks", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "I hope you feel more better after conversation", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "Thanks", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "your welcome", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "Bye", "output": "Information" }, { "input": "Hello what's going on?\n", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "Hey :)\n", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "I was in a similar situation a short while back I can understand if you feel anxious and stressed.", "output": "Self-disclosure" }, { "input": "Was it due to the pandemic?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "So if I understand the anxiety of you losing your job is increased because you also have to give your wife the news?", "output": "Restatement or Paraphrasing" }, { "input": "If where you live has some form of unemployment insurance it may be a good time to apply for it if your comfortable with that since you are aware your job is coming to an end ", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "It's completly understandable that telling your wife is additionally difficult since it's life effecting news and you are probably worried about the effect the news will have on your wife\n", "output": "Reflection of feelings" }, { "input": "In my case I am still currently in school and lack credentials but I've managed to find some online work that is getting me by", "output": "Self-disclosure" }, { "input": "You may want to budget relevant areas of yur spending ahead of time so your savings will go longer but Isuggest not to the point that it effects your mental well being\n", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "Also if your on good terms maybe get references\n", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "I don't drive so my options were limited to avoid riding the bus I do recommend getting out of you living space other ways if you work online but its all right", "output": "Self-disclosure" }, { "input": "I think with that kind of connection with your boss especially with your job loss being circumstantial you should have a really good starting point\n", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "It does have benefits you save money on transportation costs for example :)\n", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "That is actually along the lines of what I'm doing on the low end of the totem pole Not the high paying jobs but the basic and intermediate seems to be a fair bit available\n", "output": "Information" }, { "input": "I don't male much but Ihave flexible hours and still finishing my degree\n", "output": "Self-disclosure" }, { "input": "How are you currently feeling about your situation with a little bit of a plan in place?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "Maybe if you get your basic ideas together where your satisfied with it it will ease some of the difficulty of talking to your wife.", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "I apologise we had the same idea\n", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "I hope your day goes great as well", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "Good Morning! would you like to tell me whats going on?\n", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "you seem really concerned about a big test coming up and its making you feel anxious. is that correct?", "output": "Restatement or Paraphrasing" }, { "input": "just from chatting with you, I can feel how anxious you are.", "output": "Reflection of feelings" }, { "input": "your doing your best and continuing to try hard!", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "it's great that you are working so hard to pass this test.", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "deep breaths can help people calm down. Can you try and take a few deep breaths?", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "how confidant do you feel with the material? ", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "I feel the same way when I am taking a big exam! Try to remember to breath and not be so anxious that will only cause you to forget everything you studied. You seem very intelligent and I know you can do this!", "output": "Self-disclosure" }, { "input": "yes I think a practice exam would be a great way to put you at ease and help you work on anything you might need to freshen up on.", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "it was very nice speaking with you today. Good luck! remember deep breaths and I know you'll be just fine.", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "Hi there! How can I help you today", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "I'm so sorry to hear that. How does that make you feel?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "I understand completely, it can be hard to keep up in class especially if you're feeling down ", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "To be clear, you're feeling bad about not being able to keep up in class and that's making you feel even worse about it?\n", "output": "Reflection of feelings" }, { "input": "Don't worry, that's totally normal, especially since a lot of things are online these days. I personally struggled with keeping up with courses, but I found a way to make it work by pushing to the limits\n", "output": "Self-disclosure" }, { "input": "I suggest starting with what you missed first instead of worrying what you're getting now\n", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "Maybe let your teacher/professor know how you're doing in class and you may be able to ask for extensions on deadlines", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "Don't be afraid! Remember a teacher's job is to teach and help you, she may look a little mean but it doesn't hurt to try and ask, she can't fail you for being confused :)\n", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "Does that make you feel a little better about it?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "You're welcome! Anything else I can help out with?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "hmm, i suggest you should ask your teacher if its still alright to submit it. If you decide to do them, make sure its ok with her first", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "No problem! Glad I was able to help! Is there anything else?", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "you're welcome, goodbye!", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "Hello there, how are you doing?\n", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "I'm sorry to hear you're feeling depressed and lonely. Is there any reason in particular you're feeling this way?\n", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "You feel as though you want to die?", "output": "Restatement or Paraphrasing" }, { "input": "What is causing you to feel this way?\n", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "Did something happen at home, work, or in your personal life?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "Losing a loved is very hard. ", "output": "Reflection of feelings" }, { "input": "Do you have anyone you can talk to about your feelings and concerns?", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "My understanding is that you have lost a loved one and that is causing you to feel depressed, correct?", "output": "Restatement or Paraphrasing" }, { "input": "Do you have any family members you can speak to?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "It sounds like you are going through a very rough time.", "output": "Reflection of feelings" }, { "input": "I think it may be helpful to reach out to your parents to open a line of communication and discuss your differences", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "That must be very difficult not having your parents to support you and your loved one. ", "output": "Reflection of feelings" }, { "input": "Do you ahve any siblings?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "have you tried communicating your side of the story?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "It sounds as though your family does not agree with or understand your situation.", "output": "Restatement or Paraphrasing" }, { "input": "Do you have anyone else in your life you are close to, I know you said you don't have any close friends.", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "Would you feel comfortable talking to her about how you are feeling now?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "Maybe you could text, call. or email her. It sounds like she would know better whats going on in your personal life.", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "That must feel terrible, I'm sorry you're having a hard time. I would feel the same way in your situation.", "output": "Reflection of feelings" }, { "input": "Do you have any hobbies or interests?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "I love comic books too! Do you have any favorites?", "output": "Self-disclosure" }, { "input": "When you're reading comics or engaging in other hobbies does it make you feel any better?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "My suggestion would be when you start feeling down, take some deep breaths, go for a walk, and engage in one of your hobbies.", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "You're welcome.", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "I'm glad youre feeling a little bit better.", "output": "Reflection of feelings" }, { "input": "I'm glad to hear it!", "output": "Self-disclosure" }, { "input": "Is there anything else i can do for you?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "My name is Ryan. what is your name?", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "Its been a pleasure speaking to you riya", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "is there anything else I can help you with today?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "You're welcome Riya. I hope you take my advice moving forward and things improve for you.", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "you are welcome, take care", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "Hello! I'm doing well. How are you?\n", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "I'll try to help in any way that I can. What seems to be troubling you?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "Oh, dear. I'm so sorry to hear that. ", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "Did you get your credit cards canceled once you found out what he had done?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "It sounds like the two of you had problems for awhile before the breakup. ", "output": "Restatement or Paraphrasing" }, { "input": "If he makes that threat again, you might wish to inform him that \"revenge porn\" is a crime these days. If he knows that you might to go to the authorities, that might get him to leave you alone. ", "output": "Information" }, { "input": "You seem like a very nice person. And his behavior is very toxic, to say the least. \nI know that things are hard right now, but things will get better. \nAnd you deserve to be with someone who will treat you with kindness and respect. ", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "Try not to lose hope. \nIt's hard out there, particularly with what the pandemic has done to the economy. \nBut from what I've read today, more stimulus from the government is on the way, so that should help some. ", "output": "Information" }, { "input": "Do you have anyone that you can talk to about what you're going through?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "Don't let him make you feel ashamed. You've done nothing to warrant such a feeling. \nMaybe you should find someone outside of your social group to speak to. ", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "There are places you can go to speak to people. Charitable organizations, clergy if you are religious, and call centers. Perhaps you could find one of those organizations locally to help you through this. Also, since they would be local, they might have more information about legal remedies you could pursue. Some of your ex's behavior sounds criminal...", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "I glad I could be of some help. Just remember, you are a good and worthwhile person. You will come through this. I believe in you. ", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "You are welcome. I hope you have a pleasant day, and many more going forward. ", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "Hello , how is it going ? ", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "Good , was there anything you needed advice on ? I’m random , but a pretty good listener (: ", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "Where do you work ? ", "output": "Restatement or Paraphrasing" }, { "input": "I think it is important to understand what your getting into. What where you thinking of trying to do ? Go back to school ? ", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "There are a bunch of helpful sites like LinkedIn learning , they have awesome videos on like any software you could think of (: ", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "Also can’t go wrong with a good ol paperback ", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "Coding is pretty interesting, I’m about to graduate with a bachelors in computer science of animation , we worked a bit of scripting last month and it was interesting ! \nAlso really beneficial in getting a job ", "output": "Reflection of feelings" }, { "input": "Thank you ! I don’t believe it is necessary. There are materials out there and you can for sure learn on your own . For me, I like having someone to ask questions . And also having my lessons already planned out . I do well with deadlines and structure. If I had to do it on my own I would struggle more . But to each their own ! I do think it’s been beneficial for me ", "output": "Reflection of feelings" }, { "input": "Hello. How are you doing today?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "Wow it sounds like you have really been trying hard to lose weight. ", "output": "Restatement or Paraphrasing" }, { "input": "What kind of methods have you been using?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "It sounds like you are really discouraged.", "output": "Reflection of feelings" }, { "input": "Wow! You have been trying practically everything. You are really motivated.", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "Losing weight can be difficult. I've struggled with that many times.", "output": "Self-disclosure" }, { "input": "Have you thought of consulting a dietician or a nutritionist to help? Maybe, they would offer some new suggestions.", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "It seems like they didn't listen to your needs. ", "output": "Reflection of feelings" }, { "input": "And it seems like you are doing a great job exercising at the pool and employing other methods to lose weight.", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "What is your primary motivation behind your weight loss goal?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "That's no good. I'll bet that is difficult to deal with.", "output": "Reflection of feelings" }, { "input": "Have you thought about teaming up with a friend and going on daily walks?", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "Well, you could also take the kids on a walk every day.", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "That would be a healthy activity to enjoy together, and it should help burn some of their energy too.", "output": "Information" }, { "input": "That's great! Now you can all go swimming together. ", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "Maybe that can be an activity that you all do together a couple times a week.", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "No, but I'm sure that there is a fitness club or city pool where you all can share your skills.", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "Thank you. I enjoyed our conversation as well. Keep swimming. I'm sure you will get to where you want to be in no time.", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "You're welcome!", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "Hello, is there anything I can help you with today?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "Oh no, that is really sad. I know break ups can be very hard. \n", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "Why do you feel you are depressed about it? Were you together a long time?", "output": "Information" }, { "input": "I completely understand. I have had break ups too. They are never easy. ", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "Well, if the break up is still fresh, it will take some time before you start feeling yourself again. Breaking up with someone can be as devastating as a death. Because you mourn the loss of the person.\n", "output": "Self-disclosure" }, { "input": "What do you think you could do to help yourself feel better?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "What kind of hobbies do you have? Or are you involved in sports or any type of other activities that you enjoy?\n", "output": "Information" }, { "input": "That could be a great distraction. You could start practicing soccer again. You definitely have more time for it now.\n", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "Do you have anyone you can talk to about the break up? Sometimes talking with a close friend or family member can help a lot too.", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "Why do you say that? Are you focused on trying to get back with them?", "output": "Information" }, { "input": "That is difficult. What caused the break up? Was it mutual? Or was it one sided?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "Ok, so your ex broke up with you. Did they give you a reason why? Or did they just say it's over and that was it?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "Oh that is a hard one. I had a boyfriend and he cheated on me with another girl and he broke up with me because I would not do things with him that I was uncomfortable with.", "output": "Self-disclosure" }, { "input": "What do you think you could do to change your mindset? I know for me, writing helps a lot.\n", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "Hello", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "How are you", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "What is happening at work that makes you feel likes that? ", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "I see, is there anyone you could talk to at work that could possibly help you?", "output": "Restatement or Paraphrasing" }, { "input": "I can see how that would be difficult.", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "Maybe if there is something specific you need help with, you could ask a coworker or senior staff.", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "Since you are relatively new it is understandable that it may be difficult. I would see if there is someone I could confide in. They may be understanding.", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "Is there something specific you are feeling you need more help with? Maybe the people you are asking do not understand exactly what you need help with.", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "That is understandable. I have been in situations where I had to make difficult decisions at my job too. Overtime you will be gaining experience and it will most likely get easier or you'll get better.", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "If there are situations you've found difficult, maybe you could practice making decisions in those circumstances, or ask coworkers what they have done in those times as well.", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "You seem to care about this job and your performance. I believe you will gain experience and confidence will come with it. ", "output": "Reflection of feelings" }, { "input": "Your welcome. I hope you are able to feel somewhat better about the situation at work, and feel at ease.", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "Your welcome. Are you feeling better?", "output": "Reflection of feelings" }, { "input": "You sound better. Thank you too!", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "Welcome.", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "Hi, how are you feeling tonight? Is there anything I can help you with?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "I'm sorry to hear that. Can I talk you through what you're experiencing?", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "That's frustrating to hear. What is your love?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "That's awful. I'm so sorry to hear that. How did it happen?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "Is there any way you feel you can move on from her?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "Were you in a relationship with her?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "If she has moved on from you, as painful as it is, you should move on from her. But that will take time, and it will help to slowly and methodically find a way forward from her. You should not feel like it will happen overnight or that quickly, but distractions and creating a new path for yourself are imperative.", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "For now, that is a normal feeling and reaction, but with therapy and some help, that will lessen in frequency and severity. Have you tried meditation?", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "How about a therapist, if only temporarily?", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "There are many support groups online you can try. I would contact your PCP who can try to get you in touch with someone who could help.", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "not online, only locally, and I don't know where you live, sorry.", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "I have to get going, but I encourage you to find a support group or contact a physician asking for a recommendation. Perhaps ask friends you're comfortable with. Keep in mind that this is only temporary and designed to help you not just move on, but grow stronger from this.", "output": "Reflection of feelings" }, { "input": "Yes, but mental pain can lead you down a dark path. It is best to catch it while you can, before it is significant.", "output": "Information" }, { "input": "Thank you, be well, stay positive and know that there are bright days ahead.", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "That's always the challenge. But one worth fighting for :)", "output": "Reflection of feelings" }, { "input": "I must get going, have a wonderful night and be strong. I believe in you.", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "my pleasure", "output": "Reflection of feelings" }, { "input": "Hi there, how are you today?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "Is this because of the pandemic? I know a lot of people are worrying about their jobs because of this.", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "I am sorry to hear that. So, I hear you saying that you feel you are not being valued for your work?\n", "output": "Restatement or Paraphrasing" }, { "input": "No I guess that it isn't. Have you tried talking to your employer about this? Or even your co workers? ", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "Is there someone intermediate that you can talk to ? Or perhaps could you contact a union? There is help out there.", "output": "Information" }, { "input": "Yes, I think that they would. Ultimately they are trained to help people who are in your situation. ", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "Would you at least get a good reference from your previous employer?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "Perhaps you could consider some sort of counselling to help you with you self esteem? I did it and it was great. ", "output": "Self-disclosure" }, { "input": "There are people out there who can help. Would you consider anti anxiety medication?", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "Yes I think that it would. Just start slowly - do not dive straight in at the deep end. But you seem to have a good and sensible perspective about this. ", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "I wish you all of the best with it! Thank you for talking to me. ", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "Goodnight :) ", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "Hi! Hope you are doing well?\n", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "Glad to know that you are doing well. How may I assist you today ?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "So as far as I understand that you had issues with your wife due to your drinking. Am I right?", "output": "Restatement or Paraphrasing" }, { "input": "That is really a serious problem. I know it must be very tough time for you. Hope you are trying your best to save your marriage.", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "That's is a great initiative. I know it is tough for you but not impossible. I can feel how hard you are trying t save your relationship. I appreciate you for that.", "output": "Reflection of feelings" }, { "input": "Family comes first. I would do anything to save my marriage as you are doing. I am proud of you. I am pretty sure you both love each other more than anything.", "output": "Reflection of feelings" }, { "input": "That should be the spirit. Now nothing can make you apart. Drinking is very easy for you to quit now. you will definitely get a success.", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "No problem! That's why I am here to help you. Have a wonderful life ahead!", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "Just stick to the plan. Spend more time together. Cook dinner for her. Make a strong bond and my best wishes are there for you .", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "You both can go for a date or do the things what your partner like. Drinking is luring so stay away from that and you can do it.\n", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "It seems you got the solution. have a wonderful time.", "output": "Restatement or Paraphrasing" }, { "input": "your most welcome!", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "you can click on quit and finish button now.", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "Hello! How is life treating you today?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "I am really sorry about that - you are feeling that you've been deserted?", "output": "Restatement or Paraphrasing" }, { "input": "Please don't think that! I have been in this situation and I know how awful it is but I also know that it will pass. ", "output": "Self-disclosure" }, { "input": "Would you be able to go and visit friends or family members? Get some support?", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "Oh that is not a good idea. Do you think you have an alcohol problem? There are support groups out there who could help you. ", "output": "Information" }, { "input": "I hear you. Do you have any pets or anything at all to keep you company?", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "I think you should get the dog back but I don't think you should call your ex - you are better off without him. ", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "I think you should value yourself more highly than this. If he slept with your best friend then he is nothing. ", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "You can do a great deal better, I am sure!", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "Well quite! You can easily move forward with your life. He will not find it so easy. But do get the dog back. ", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "Do you know that there are legal organisations out there that will help you get it back?", "output": "Information" }, { "input": "I suggest you have a nice warm bath and a cup of cocoa and try to relax ", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "Tomorrow you can try to think of how to go on with things :). Contact some legal aid people to help you get your dog back for one.", "output": "Information" }, { "input": "That sounds perfect! I am sure you will feel better once you have your dog. ", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "I hope I have been able to be of some assistance and thank you for talking", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "You're most welcome :) ", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "have fun :) ", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "you just need to press quit and take the survey now :) I can't do it this end", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "Hi, How are you feeling right now?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "Today must have been a hard day for you. It seems that there are some things that are really bothering you. ", "output": "Reflection of feelings" }, { "input": "I am sorry to hear that. Sometimes even for a person like myself I try to find things that I love to do to keep motivated. Do you have hobbies or things that you like to do for fun?", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "Yes, those are things that does make you day feel good fresh air, and knitting keeps you calm. Also, Have you tried buying a treat for yourself or going out for trip in the previous months to get some relaxation?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "Yes, trips are amazing and especially when you visit someone you love spending time with makes even more worthwhile. Time that you get to spend with enjoying yourself and relaxing is something that needs to happen often so we can get back in the fight to be confident or strong to face our daily challenges. ", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "Thank you and you are so welcome. I am glad I could help you. I hope that you have a wonderful time on your trip when you get to go. Also, I hope that many blessings come to you and your family as well. \n", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "Actually I do not have any background counseling, but I have been through a lot on my own. I have learn to enjoy life no matter what with those that I love and enjoy myself wholeheartedly. ", "output": "Reflection of feelings" }, { "input": "Thank you. I believe you will find happiness in yourself. All you can do is take one day at time and learn all different ways to find what makes you happy. ", "output": "Restatement or Paraphrasing" }, { "input": "We all go through the sadness, and you are not alone. It just what we do next with after the sadness is gone makes it count. ", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "Yes this is so true. You are so welcome. God is always with us even when we are not sure he is truly there. He is there and he helps us in many ways. ", "output": "Restatement or Paraphrasing" }, { "input": "Hello there! how are you doing?\n", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "What's been going on lately? Is something in particular there stressing you out?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "Oh wow, that wounds really rough. So you haven't been able to work in the same way since Corona? Do you have any ideas of things you could do to make ends meet?", "output": "Restatement or Paraphrasing" }, { "input": "Oh, I see. That does sound really rough. I would be feeling the exact same way you are in that situation and I'm sorry you're going through that. I know this sounds cliche, but I do believe that things will work out. I once heard, \"It'll always work out in the end. If it hasn't worked out, it's not the end.\"", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "I know there were some grants and loans and things specifically set aside for small businesses for the pandemic. You might want to look into local resources and see if some are available to help you just to make ends meet for the time being?", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "There's so much information and disinformation out there, it can be really hard to discern help. There's one website: sba.gov that has several different options for pandemic relief for small businesses. I don't know what are you're in but there are some local resources available from my local government websites too, you might want to check that out too!", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "Excellent, I hope you're able to find some relief through this difficult time! I have a friend who looked into it and was able to find a small grant to help him out!", "output": "Information" }, { "input": "I have heard that another one is coming, and this one should be better than the last one. It's all dependent on income, so anyone that makes less than 80k a year should be getting the full amount according to what I've heard. I agree, they did help! Would that ease your burden a little bit if the next one comes soon?", "output": "Information" }, { "input": "Hang in there, I'm sure help is on the way and your positive attitude will help carry you until then, you seem like a really strong person. For me, I try taking really deep breaths and even meditating if it gets really bad. Have you ever tried anything like that?", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "You're not failing as long as you're still trying and not giving up. All we can do sometimes is pick ourselves back up and keep plugging along. There are a few apps available that have calming music, stories to listen to, or even breath exercises to try. They are all over the app stores. It definitely helps me! Meditation has been proven to help a lot of people in stressful situations.", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "Of course, so happy to be of help! Hopefully we can talk again soon and catch up on how you've been doing. It helps me a lot to know I'm helping others too, any kind of service always feels nice.", "output": "Self-disclosure" }, { "input": "Thank you, you too!", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "Hello. How are you doing?\n", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "Very little to complain about today. What brings you here?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "How's the weather where you are?", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "Exactly the same. What are you doing to stay warm?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "Well you're resourceful at staying warm, at least. You mentioned wanting a companion, are you living alone?", "output": "Restatement or Paraphrasing" }, { "input": "Is it the stress of the pandemic getting to you & your family, or something else?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "Can you share?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "That's completely your decision, but it can bring us down at times. What are you doing to stay positive during these crazy times in the world?", "output": "Reflection of feelings" }, { "input": "I know you mentioned feeling lazy. Sometimes I make a list of things in the morning that I want to accomplish. Even if I get one done, it's a win. :-)", "output": "Self-disclosure" }, { "input": "A hobby could be another outlet for you in addition to talking to your friends online. You don't have to put too much pressure on yourself for it to be productive. What hobby ideas do you have?", "output": "Information" }, { "input": "What a great idea about learning new skills. It would be a great investment of your time, as well as improve your human capital. Win-win. Can you make a plan to research some places where you can sign-up for a coding class? Maybe research the next few days, and commit to starting in the nest 2-3 weeks? You would also meet others like yourself online also trying to learn a new skill.", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "Then you already have a plan. I like it. It's good to have something to focus on. When is your goal to finish the book?", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "I know you can handle it. You speak very well and I just think you need a touch of motivation. We all do!", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "Come back and talk after you finish your next chapter?", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "You as well. You are in charge on what you commit to, Just make sure you create goals that are simple, measurable and timebound. I look forward to speaking to you next time.", "output": "Information" }, { "input": "Hello, how are you today? ", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "Is there anything that you would like to talk about?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "Well I am happy to listen to any problems that you have", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "Well, can you tell me about it anyway? I am happy to listen. ", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "Do feel free to talk :) ", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "Are you still working at that place?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "There is no need to shout. Is there anything else you'd like to talk about?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "Bearing in mind that you are not going to be paid for this HIT unless you actually make an effort. ", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "I think you have not put any real effort into completing this HIT. ", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "please press quit now. ", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "Press the quit button or you will not get paid. I s till will. ", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "The conversation is over - it needed to only be15 minutes. Please press the quit button. If you do not, I will my end but then neither of us gets paid anything. ", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "Hello! how are you feeling today?\n", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "It looks like you have a lot to do. Correct me if I am wrong.", "output": "Restatement or Paraphrasing" }, { "input": "I can understand you very. well. It happen with all of us in such situation. Last year of the college really give lot of pressure.", "output": "Reflection of feelings" }, { "input": "I am pretty sure you will do great in you exam and I can see that in your worries. You are not alone in this situation as colleges are so expensive so it's hard for parents to pay for it.", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "When I was in college, I went throgh the same phase as you are facing. Even my parent couldn't afford my college expense. Yes, just concentrate on your study.", "output": "Self-disclosure" }, { "input": "You are not alone. It is a phase of life. all have to go through it. Just stay focused and calm and motivated.", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "Enjoy your spring break and come up with freshness. I am pretty sure you will do very well.", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "The best way to plan your study is to set the target for a particular day that you have to complete it. Once you achieve it, you will be motivated and it will help you to do more work. you can take doctors opinion if it's required. you can take few breaks to relax youself in middle.", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "My best wishes are there with you. May God give all success that you wished for.", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "you will get it for sure! is there anything else I can help you with?\n", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "All my pleasure! Wonderful evening to you too", "output": "Restatement or Paraphrasing" }, { "input": "Hi there, how are you feeling? ", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "It's a really hard time to be finding new work isn't it? Are you getting unemployment or anything? ", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "Wow that's a lot of kids. Do you know that there are foodbanks out there which might be able to help you?", "output": "Information" }, { "input": "Are there any organisations that you could just call and explain your predicament to?", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "Do you have friends who could help you, even with child care? ", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "I can imagine that that must have been traumatic. You will make new friends though. ", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "I am a poor person too and I'd be happy to be your friend. We have to stick together! ", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "No need to return anything but friendship. Thanks for talking! ", "output": "Self-disclosure" }, { "input": "No problem at all ... I've been there :( (genuinely, not just for the HIT)", "output": "Self-disclosure" }, { "input": "Best wishes :) You need to press quit from your end though cos I can't do it from my end :) ", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "Hello! How are you today?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "Oh no, I am so sorry to hear you are going through this difficulty. I am here to help and lend a sympathetic ear.", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "I think there is a way to handle any situation. Have you had an honest and open conversation with your wife on both of your feelings on the matter?\n", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "I am so sorry to hear that your wife has cancer. I have had an ill loved one and I know how difficult that can be, not just for the person going through it but for the family too.", "output": "Self-disclosure" }, { "input": "How do you feel about not having any more kids? ", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "I see. And is it a deal breaker for you if you cannot have any more kids? Would you be willing to stay with your wife and be content with the children you already have?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "I understand, it is a very difficult situation", "output": "Restatement or Paraphrasing" }, { "input": "What is more important to you? Your relationship with your wife or having another child?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "Yes, it's tough. Maybe you should think about both scenarios and write down how it would make you feel. Picture being without your wife and how would that make you feel. Then picture being with your wife and your current family and how that would make you feel.\n", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "Of course, I am here for whatever you need", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "Maybe you can tell your wife that?", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "For sure. Is there anything else I can help with?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "me too\n", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "Hi! What's on your mind tonight? \n", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "Oh, I'm sorry, that's not fun at all, especially since you two have been friends for so long. ", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "Have you tried reaching out to her by phone, email or social media? \n", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "Well, it's a positive sign that she hasn't blocked you completely. I agree, texting her each day could irritate her. ", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "That's okay! You shouldn't do anything that isn't fun or enjoyable or comfortable for either of you, in my opinion. ", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "It sounds like perhaps you should focus your attention on other friends and hopefully eventually this friend will need you for something in thier life ", "output": "Reflection of feelings" }, { "input": "So you're saying you feel hurt and depressed at not being able to make new friends easily in the pandemic, correct?", "output": "Restatement or Paraphrasing" }, { "input": "Ahhhh.,.....yes that;s difficult, oh boy. ", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "For the time being we're all stuck at home mostly, so maybe take some comfort in that in a strange way. Heck I rarely see my friends - maybe once a year, so I know how that feels. ", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "On the bright side of things, at least you have a job. Do you enjoy your job? Maybe start friendships with coworkers, possibly. ", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "How often do you get out for fresh air? Sure it's not going to solve the lack of friends but it does help to clear your mind to go outside the next few months after work. ", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "Yes, I agree with you, the warmer weather with the vaccine will probably speed up the end of all this. Cabin fever is real. ", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "It's really hard for people in our situation right now because there's only so many virtual things to attend but maybe I just thought of a virtual cocktail hour, and you could go on Facebook or even meetup.com or a free dating site to connect with other people in our situation who live near you. The book club is a great idea. ", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "Same here, wish I could've been more helpful but we're in similar situations and nothing else came to my mind. Hang in there, you're doing great under the circumstances!", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "Hi! How is life treating you right now? ", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "(apologies for the delay, I was afk)", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "What sort of issues are you having? I am happy to listen", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "Who is she? A partner, a sister or similar? I am glad you turned her in, whoever she was. ", "output": "Restatement or Paraphrasing" }, { "input": "That is a really lousy thing for her to have done. I am glad that you did the right thing! ", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "Have you considered getting a restraining order against her? That should be quite easy to do", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "I hope that she would not be informed as to where you live though yes, I understand the dilemma. Have you spoken with the police?", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "Wow that sounds like it has put you in a bind. I do understand cos once I had to flee from a boyfriend and was scared he would come after me. ", "output": "Self-disclosure" }, { "input": "Are you still in contact with her kids? Do you have a good relationship with them?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "It might help them a lot to have someone stable in their life though? ", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "You did the right thing. Would you have wanted the girls to end up as addicts, dead or in prison?", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "Do you think that perhaps the guilt is not entirely related to your circumstances currently?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "I know it is difficult but I hope that you can manage to move on from this and find happiness. ", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "Thank you for talking and I wish you all the best. ", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "hi how are you today? How can I assist you?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "It seems you are working really hard and in stress due to your classes. ", "output": "Restatement or Paraphrasing" }, { "input": "The good part is you are giving your best and keep doing it. don't think too much about the result. These kind of dreams are the worries inside you. ", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "I can understand the situation you are going through. You are working hard and keep doing it and try to mediate for few minutes in a day. Hope that will release your stress.", "output": "Reflection of feelings" }, { "input": "When I am in stress I do mediation and it gives me relaxation and a new way to think. sometime our body and mind need peace to work better.", "output": "Self-disclosure" }, { "input": "Mediation is just to concentrate on your breath. There are so many videos on internet. You can take short break when you feel exhausted and talk to friend and family for a while. It will help you. ", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "You will graduate with flying colors. My best wishes are there with you. stay focused and calm. That's the mantra. Hope you will achieve whatever you want. Best wishes!", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "Is there something else that I can help you with? The time will go fast. don't worry", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "You can do it I am pretty sure. Keep working on your goal.", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "I had such kind of anxiety when I was in college. The best way to come out from it is to stay focused and calm.", "output": "Reflection of feelings" }, { "input": "yes, It happen with all human being I believe.", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "Hi\n", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "good how are you", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "can you talk more about your feelings at this time?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "it sounds like you're really anxious and stressed about this situation let's try to figure out a path to move foward\n", "output": "Reflection of feelings" }, { "input": "Yes I have also struggled with depression and anxiety ", "output": "Self-disclosure" }, { "input": "I try to do yoga and meditate in order to deal with stress", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "it's great that you are trying to find solutions \n", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "I have struggled with the same, have you considered counseling or another form of therapy ?", "output": "Self-disclosure" }, { "input": "I have tried different methods of therapy, and have found low cost options in my area", "output": "Self-disclosure" }, { "input": "I am from connecticut ", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "around 40 degrees and windy and there is still snow on the ground", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "I miss the sun we have been snowed in for months", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "you're welcome!", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "No im in college", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "Economics and Geography ", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "Thank you!", "output": "Reflection of feelings" }, { "input": "trust me the first economics test I took I got a 55% it did not come naturally to me", "output": "Reflection of feelings" }, { "input": "Urban planning, what do you do for work?", "output": "Restatement or Paraphrasing" }, { "input": "I love animals I have a cat! His name is lucky", "output": "Self-disclosure" }, { "input": "Wow do animals help with your stress?", "output": "Reflection of feelings" }, { "input": "I have never had any dogs before but I see my cat as a therapist too", "output": "Self-disclosure" }, { "input": "You should take him on walks it would probably reduce anxiety for the both of you!", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "me either but i think we have enough data", "output": "Self-disclosure" }, { "input": "you have to end it because you're the peer", "output": "Restatement or Paraphrasing" }, { "input": "no problem nice talking to you too!", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "Hi there! How are you doing?\n", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "I'm good! It's a beautiful evening where I am. What's on your mind?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "Oh wow! Well first of all, I want to say that I definitely empathize with you. My first job out of college was one of the most stressful times of my life. It does get better though.", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "What is stressful about your job?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "Oh wow, that sounds really hard, and I can only imagine it is so difficult to be breaking into a new career entirely working from home. Even people I know who have been in their jobs a long time are struggling with remote work. It is hard if your company is not being flexible on deadlines during this time. ", "output": "Reflection of feelings" }, { "input": "Have you found any strategies that have helped a tiny bit?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "I totally feel that! I think that has been a struggle for me during quarantine too - the \"quarantine fifteen!\" I have had to look for other forms of comfort to keep that at bay ... but I did bake cookies tonight :) ", "output": "Self-disclosure" }, { "input": "I know I'm just an mturk rando, but the one thing I know that has helped almost everyone I know with career stress is having a mentor. Especially someone who is not at your company. Do you know anyone, even a friend of a friend, who could maybe be a sounding board for your career?", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "Oh say no more! I totally get that just based on my own background as well. The only thing I could recommend is to cast a wide net when thinking about mentorship... maybe even a former professor in your field could recommend a former student who graduated a few years before you. Just a thought, but I know for myself, it's nice to have validation if the people I am working with are having unfair expectations.", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "I hope that helped a bit, and if not, please let me know. We can keep chatting and dig into this a bit more if you'd like. What do you think?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "I really enjoyed talking with you! Also, I just have to say, we are all having such a hard time with this pandemic. It's not just you - you aren't broken. You are doing your best as we alll are :) ", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "You are totally welcome! I've been where you are (minus the pandemic). You will make it, and you really will adjust to the stress and also find better jobs over time.", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "I hope so! Best of luck to you... straight outta Austin, TX :) ", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "Good evening, how are you feeling at the moment?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "Oh I am so sorry. Please know that I am happy to listen! What is going on with you?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "Is there no possibility of having your contract renewed?", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "It could be due to the pandemic, I suppose. Are you in touch with government agencies who could help you due to the exceptional circumstances?", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "I think a good place to start would be your doctor - they might be able to refer you to a counsellor. ", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "Would you consider taking some sort of job on a temporary basis, even though it is way out of your normal field? Bar tending or something? Just to make you feel you were earning. ", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "Would you consider medication? It's not a panacea but it can help in the short term.", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "Whatever you do don't go self medicating! That does not help at all. ", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "I hope I have been able to give you a little bit of piece of mind and I wish you a good deal of luck in the future", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "That sounds like a really good idea! All the best ", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "Anyway thanks for talking :) Can you press the quit button as I am not allowed to my end. ", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "Glad to hear :) ", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "Hey! How can I help?", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "How are you?", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "How have you lost them?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "Why do you think you were not invited?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "Does he have a reason or is it just his thinking?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "Does he have a reason for getting angry at LGBT people?", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "If he doesn't respect your lifestyle, I'm sure he doesn't hate you as a person, he just needs time to accept your decision.", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "You should strive to be on good terms, no matter how long it takes. It's just a matter of how long", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "Yeah! It will all be worth it. Maybe try to understand it from where he is coming from, did anything happen for him to feel this way?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "Yeah that a good way to look at it. Maybe take your mind of it by occupying yourself", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "Your welcome :)", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "No problem!", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "I'm doing well. How are things going with you?\n", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "Oh no, that must be so frustrating for you.", "output": "Reflection of feelings" }, { "input": "So you were partners in the development of the software and both put in a lot of work? Did you have any indication that he might try to defraud you?", "output": "Restatement or Paraphrasing" }, { "input": "So it feels like he took advantage of your friendship. That must be hard, but don't beat yourself up about it.", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "Let's come up with some safeguards for the future to avoid more incidents.", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "What do you think you might have done differently? You can only control your behavior, not the other guy's. Could you have put a contract in place?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "Or have a shared Google drive where you both put all the information relevant to the development and marketing?", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "You doing okay?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "It was nice talking with you, and I do hope I helped you feel more in control of your next business venture. It's okay to feel that anger at your (former) friend, too. Use that feeling to work through things and I'm sure you'll be feeling more optimistic soon.", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "Hello, how are you today? ", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "Okay try not to worry. Can you tell me a bit about why you feel so bad?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "Wow I am really sorry. Were you living with family, or with friends?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "So you were thrown out from a place you were renting? Did you do anything wrong?", "output": "Restatement or Paraphrasing" }, { "input": "Wow that is illegal. Do you know that there are organisations that can help you with this sort of thing?", "output": "Information" }, { "input": "I think that that was bad advice to be honest. I think that you are being ripped off. Do not worry, there are things that you can do about it! ", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "You are definitely entitled to it. Do you have somewhere else to live in the meantime?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "It's a precarious position to be in, especially during a pandemic. Do you have any family members who might help? ", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "Would any family members be prepared to loan you money or a vehicle?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "How much stuff do you have that needs to be moved? ", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "Try not to worry too much - I was in this position once myself and it did all turn out for the best though it was very scary at the time. ", "output": "Self-disclosure" }, { "input": "I think it would be a good idea for you to try and get medical help for your depression.", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "I wish you all the very best with it - there is help out there! ", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "Enjoy the rest of your day :) ", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "YES, my name is Cheryl. How are ya today?\n", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "Is there something specific on your mind or heart? Maybe regarding the start of the Youtube Channel?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "By the way, what's your name?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "Oh no problem regarding the name. I'm sure that you could be helpful to so many. And it must be difficult getting back on track into the wide open world.\n", "output": "Restatement or Paraphrasing" }, { "input": "For sure! It sounds like you have a good head on your shoulders!", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "I am in the US yes.", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "Do you have hopes of pursuing ministry at some point?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "Knowing that there is a higher power takes the focus off of \"me.\" I think this offers a better way of living.", "output": "Self-disclosure" }, { "input": "Regarding work especially in the Covid world ... I know it is a struggle. So many are having hardships right now.", "output": "Information" }, { "input": "Well I personally believe in one Almighty God. It sounds like you are saying a higher power is sort of elusive.", "output": "Reflection of feelings" }, { "input": "So I would like to encourage you on the Youtube channel idea.", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "You could be a blessing to so many others. And sometimes just by sharing our hardships, the knowledge we gained is embedded even more.", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "Have high hopes that it will all work out.", "output": "Others" }, { "input": ";) Likewise my friend", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "Hi. How are you today?", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "I'm OK as well.", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "How do you feel when that happens?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "That can be really frustrating. \n", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "What do you do when it happens?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "It's good that you're seeking help from your supervisor. ", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "Is your coworker open to suggestions and feedback?", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "Perhaps you can seek help from other coworkers as well. They may be able to provide you with support with this situation. ", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "I've been in a situation similar to this and I found that talking to some of my friends outside of work has helped me to express some of my frustration and gain perspective. ", "output": "Self-disclosure" }, { "input": "It seems like you have found a way to manage it during work. Why do you think that she is trying to do your work?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "It was nice talking to you too. I hope that it was a helpful conversation.", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "hello,what is on your mind today", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "i have big shoulders! whats on your mind?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "i think a lot of people are feeling that way these past few months. ", "output": "Reflection of feelings" }, { "input": "do you think it is covid related? not sickness, more depression", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "its becoming a new normal lol", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "a few months ago i was feeling the same way. i dont have health insurance but googled and found some online docturs. i got to see a doc and get on antidepressants for less than a hundred", "output": "Self-disclosure" }, { "input": "covid plays a factor in EVERYTHING ugh", "output": "Restatement or Paraphrasing" }, { "input": "all online! :) meds shipped to my door. i love it!", "output": "Self-disclosure" }, { "input": "theres a free site called 7 cups that does free peer to peer couseling too. its good when i have a lot on my mind", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "can you make a new one?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "cerebral is that one site with the cheap docs ", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "check the website q and a", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "for cups\nmaybe thers a contact you can email to try to regain access", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "they are doing so much things now, you just gotta get on google and see whats out there! ", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "i think you are going to be okay, there are definately tough times but you seem to have a grip on knowing what you need. that is great", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "i agree, just with all the covid crap i know it can be hard to get a face to face! :)", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "its great that you know what you need to do though adn that you know what helps", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "is there anytihng else you want to talk about?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "hang in there!", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "nice talking to you!", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "Hello there, is there anything I can help you with?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "You're most welcome! How are things in your life right now?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "Is there anything specific that is making you feel bad?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "Wow that is not good at all. Do you have any savings that you can fall back on in the short term? ", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "I believe that there are some government assistance programmes for people who have been made unemployed as a result of the pandemic. ", "output": "Information" }, { "input": "I am not totally sure but you could try asking your local Citizen's Advice Bureau and they should be able to help. ", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "I hear you, I have been suffering badly from them the last year too. Have you seen anyone about it? ", "output": "Self-disclosure" }, { "input": "Have you considered seeing someone professional? You might be able to get that free too given your circumstances", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "Yes I think it should. They might be able to give you advice about your finances too. ", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "I have yes but I was fortunate enough that I was able to get a new one very quickly. I know that there is much more competition for jobs during this time though", "output": "Self-disclosure" }, { "input": "Have you started looking for a new job?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "Well that sounds very promising. I hope that you are successful. ", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "You're most welcome and I wish you all the best in the future. ", "output": "Others" }, { "input": ":) You need to quit from your end and take the survey - I can't do it my end ", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "You too! ", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "Just press quit and fill out the survey :) ", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "so you feel as though your all alone?\n\n", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "I am here for you if you need to talk\n", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "/sounds like you are depressed ? Well I can assure you that I am here if you need or want to talk about why your depressed.", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "when I get depressed , I just want to be by myself but it does help when I talk it out.\n", "output": "Reflection of feelings" }, { "input": "I can totally understand , with covid pandemic Its hard not to be depressed, considering all the changes going on.\n", "output": "Reflection of feelings" }, { "input": "Oh! my having family members passing away is so awful , I am sorry to hear that and can understand why you are depressed.\n", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "Have you reached out to anyone for support?\n", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "I have had to in the past when I lost my dad, it wasnt due to covid but I really needed somone that didnt know me. ", "output": "Self-disclosure" }, { "input": "Your family dr. would give you some information, that is how I was able to find somone. I was very thankful to my dr. And yes, it did help \n", "output": "Self-disclosure" }, { "input": "well it looks like you have a future plan, thats an awsome start. not to mention i will be here for you as well, ya know extra support. \n", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "You are welcome, I hope your day is better now , stay as positive as you can, trust me its not an easy thing to do when going through what your going through now.\n", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "well , when I started it was in person, but now when i feel as thought I need to speak to my therapist its been over the computer,\n", "output": "Self-disclosure" }, { "input": "hello! what is on your mind today?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "breakups can be really hard!", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "can i ask why she dumped you?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "sounds like you are pretty depressed. that is understandable though", "output": "Reflection of feelings" }, { "input": "if she was cheating she wanst that good of a girl friend. if she said you were not compatible then it sounds to me like she has someone else", "output": "Restatement or Paraphrasing" }, { "input": "as hard and lonely as it is right now, it was a good thing. yiu seem really great, and you deserve way better than that!", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "it can be hard letting people in so they can get to know you\n", "output": "Restatement or Paraphrasing" }, { "input": "fear and worry is natural, expecially after being hurt. can you think of anything you could do differnt in a new relationship if you entered one?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "personally, i think dating right now is hard with all the covid crap. its hard to go on dates and do things other than sit in front of a tv. it makes things difficult", "output": "Self-disclosure" }, { "input": "do you trust your mom?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "lol i was adopted. i don't trust my mom. either of them... lol that was a horrible example", "output": "Self-disclosure" }, { "input": "what i was getting at awas maybe changing your sentance to i dont trust many women\n", "output": "Restatement or Paraphrasing" }, { "input": "if you try to get into a new relationship with the mentality that woment cant be trusted.... what re the chances you open up and let the next girl get to know you?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "you seem like you have a good head on your shoulders!", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "it does suck with things rae not pre-covid normal and you go from having someone there to being like what do i do now? i just binge watched national geographic out of boredom. i think i am going crazy\n", "output": "Reflection of feelings" }, { "input": "you are hurt because she broke up with you... that will make you stronger and be more attentive next time. and if everyone was born and met thier solemate it would be odd. life is about ups and downs. by the time you find mrs right, all these idiots that were not good for you will help turn you into the perfect person for the one that wont break your heart", "output": "Reflection of feelings" }, { "input": "lol i have had my fair share of horrible relationships and breakups trust me", "output": "Self-disclosure" }, { "input": "it was nice talking to you!", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "have a great night!", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "Hey! How can I help?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "Yes please do\n", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "Have you explained to her that you NEED to work, and don't be upset with yourself because you did the right thing\n", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "If your friendship was strong she will surely unblock you", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "Give her time to cool down", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "You are not the one who is selfish here as you have done the right thing, and she will hopefully see that", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "If she doesn't then you know she wasn't worth your time in the first place", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "And no because this will make her more angry", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "If she is aware of how you feel, she will come back in due time", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "But for now, you should find other ways to make peace with yourself, for example, hanging out with other friends and that may take your mind of it", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "and if that isn't an option simply keeping yourself busy may help", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "Maybe spend more time with work, or keeping yourself occupied with other things", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "And she will come back if she really cared about your relationship in the first place", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "Your welcome, there is always someone out there for you :)", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "You too!", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "Hello", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "Doing good.. How are you?", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "I understand your frustration. All of us are challenged due to COVID.", "output": "Restatement or Paraphrasing" }, { "input": "How long are you doing the online school?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "What are you missing most? Friends?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "As the vaccination started, I believe we will be back to normal soon.. ", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "I saw some of my friends hang out in zoom... having virtual drinks.. have you tried that?", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "It will not be same.. but better than being alone.. ", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "I have a group with my elementary school friends.. we hang out in zoom because we all are spread out across the globe.. some times.. it;s fun as we can share a lot of memories..\n", "output": "Self-disclosure" }, { "input": "Got you.. try to form a group on-line with the people you know.. at least until this CONVID thing is over..\n", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "For sure you would find someone.. if you keep looking..\n", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "you welcome", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "Could you please close the chat.. \n", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "Hi there, how are you feeling at the moment?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "Is there anything you'd like to open up about today?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "I am sorry to hear you feel that way - are you talking about anyone specific or just generally?", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "So you feel that you are being treated as though you are invisible in a family setting?", "output": "Restatement or Paraphrasing" }, { "input": "That really sucks. Do you have many friends and contacts outside of the family setting?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "Yes the pandemic is making everyone feel a bit raw I think. Are you actually seeing your family in person regularly?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "Would you consider calling a family conference and telling them how you feel?", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "It's okay I got it :) ", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "To be honest I have some experience of being in this position and eventually I had to cut some family members off for my own mental health \n", "output": "Self-disclosure" }, { "input": "There are counsellors available that you could see one to one that might be able to help you be more assertive?", "output": "Information" }, { "input": "I understand. So this is not an overall issue, just a family one?", "output": "Restatement or Paraphrasing" }, { "input": "I wish you all the best. I hope that things will pick up for you in the near future! ", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "Thank you for talking! ", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "(you have to end it your end ... I can't :)) ", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "you just have to press quit and then take the survey :) ", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "Please can you end the chat? Neither of us will be paid if you do not and it is physically impossible for me to!", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "Hello! How can I help?\n", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "What is wrong?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "How is it driving you nuts?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "I have also went through the same thing as you and I know how hard it feels, so believe in yourself", "output": "Self-disclosure" }, { "input": "You have been given responsibility because you are competent enough to carry it out", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "Don't quit your job because it will only make life harder in the long run", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "Being competent is good and you will surely get compensation for the amount of work you put in, maybe a promotion\n\n ", "output": "Reflection of feelings" }, { "input": "You could always work harder and show them you can work, maybe then they will offer you a promotion\n", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "You can manage your anxiety by maybe meditating, it seems you have a lot going on so it would help to forget about things for a while", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "Yeah! Get others to do it with you and you may start to feel more comfortable", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "Yeah! You are never alone you can always get through this", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "Yes and maybe they are going through the same thing so they would like to find a solution as well", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "Your Welcome anytime!", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "Yes thats the spirit! Don't let your mood change now", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "Hello", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "How may I help you?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "I am doing good ... thanks..", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "Ohh.. you currently in between jobs. Is that correct?", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "Are you looking for job?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "How did you prepare your resume? Have you had it revieed by any professional resume writer?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "When you submit resume, first it is scanned by a software for key words. Are you sure you have all the right key words, so that the scanning software picks it up?", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "If you don't have the right key words, it may not be picked up. The professional resume writers typically run the resume through the scanning software and make sure it is picked up at least 90% of the time.", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "For some businesses, COVID might be an issue.", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "yes, you need to compile keywords... from the potential job postings. ..and add them to your resume somehow... \n", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "that's for sure..", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "Are you getting call from the employers?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "good.. then keyword is not the issue.. ", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "Are you getting interview call?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "I hope thigs will work out for you.", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "I think the situation will get better soon...", "output": "Information" }, { "input": "Anything else I could help you with?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "thanks.. have a good day.", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "Hello, what can I help you with today?\n", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "What is it that is making you feel this way?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "It sounds like you had to deal with a partner recently cheating and a breakup, is this right? ", "output": "Restatement or Paraphrasing" }, { "input": "It sounds like this has been stressful for you and you are trying to figure out how to move on from this. ", "output": "Reflection of feelings" }, { "input": "It is incredibly difficult to get something like this off your mind and it seems like you are trying your best to move forward with your life ", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "I have been through this, I learned how to keep myself busy and do things that I enjoy to occupy my mind and let time heal those wounds ", "output": "Self-disclosure" }, { "input": "Science shows that during a breakup sometimes you romanticize the relationship and view it as better than it actually was and missing something that wasn't as good as you thought\n", "output": "Information" }, { "input": "My suggestion is to focus on new hobbies, spend time with friends and family when possible, if you have work you can do in the mean time, if you like to exercise or go outside, all of this is a helpful tool. ", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "Don't be afraid to express your feelings and confide in others about your emotions and mental health. It is still a loss and something you should feel comfortable grieving. ", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "I am glad this was helpful for you and hope you will seek further advice if you feel the need to discuss with someone unbiased. ", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "Okay hope all is well and I can provide resources if needed for you. ", "output": "Information" }, { "input": "Thank you and same to you. ", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "Hi", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "What makes you angry. Can you describe\n", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "Oh thats so sad. I am feeling very bad.\n", "output": "Reflection of feelings" }, { "input": "Do one thing call her and try to talk with her. In our world no one is mean.", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "Take both of them to restaurant or call at home. Tell your problem directly", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "Very first you have to calm down.Don't break your friendship so easily. Friends are like gems.It's my request not to give up", "output": "Information" }, { "input": "Tell me how you are feeling to leave your friend because of one girlfriend", "output": "Reflection of feelings" }, { "input": "Make sure with me today that you won't break your friendship. Please reassure with me .", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "Anything else I can help you?", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "You are very nice!!!", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "You too!!!", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "Don't keep any hard feelings for those who like you more", "output": "Reflection of feelings" }, { "input": "How may I help you?\n", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "Ohh, sorry to hear that. Any partucular reason?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "You saying that your friend does not care about you any more. Is that correct?", "output": "Restatement or Paraphrasing" }, { "input": "That's not good. You must be feeling left out. ", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "Any particular reason they are doing such thing?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "In that case, should you consider them as your friends?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "If someone is not friendly they are not real friend. You need to find someone who will stand by you no matter what..", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "Ok.. how about hosting them in your place for a gettogether.. ", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "They might open up if you are hosting .. people are generally nice to the host.. \n", "output": "Information" }, { "input": "Good.. let's try that.. Anythign else I could help you with?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "Thank you .. have a good day.", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "Hello", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "So you lost your job that is why you are sad right?", "output": "Restatement or Paraphrasing" }, { "input": "Okay so what kind of job was it?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "And why do you think you lost your job?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "Okay yes I agree with you I was also trying to find a new job since I had more time after graduating.", "output": "Self-disclosure" }, { "input": "Okay since you are trying to find a new job you could try to learn some new techniques online. So you could put that on your resume to keep you from feeling sad.", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "Oh that is good. That will make you different from other people so when government opens up it will be easier for you to get in.", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "So I would say to keep your hope up by trying to learn new things so you do not feel sad.", "output": "Reflection of feelings" }, { "input": "Yeah that is the best medicine for right now. Your welcome.", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "Thank you for giving your time to talk to me.\n", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "Yeah in this economy right now not that many places are hiring right now so it is hard. Or they are hiring but a lot of people are applying so they are looking at everybody and choosing the best canidate.", "output": "Information" }, { "input": "Your welcome.", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "You too", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "Good afternoon. How are you?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "I'm doing alright. Why just OK? ", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "I'm sorry to hear that you're having trouble with him. That can certainly be frustrating. What types of things does he say that make you feel talked down to?", "output": "Reflection of feelings" }, { "input": "Well, in my experience, when someone is critical of you -- it says a lot more about their character than anything you did wrong. Is he your coworker or your boss? ", "output": "Self-disclosure" }, { "input": "Have you tried bringing up your feelings and frustrations to your boss or HR representative? ", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "That would certainly be frustrating. Have you tried speaking to the coworker directly and letting him know how his comments are making you feel?", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "I had a similar experience at work once. I decided to ask the coworker directly what I could do to improve. Sometimes if you ask them to provide the solution they can see you actively trying. If that doesn't work, maybe you could just ask your boss if there is a possibility of not working with him and instead another coworker?", "output": "Self-disclosure" }, { "input": "Sounds like a great plan of attack. Just remember your own self worth along the way and try not to let him bring you down!", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "Can you tell me more about the fight?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "Breakups are usually sad for at least one of the couple. Is your sadness because of missing her or being alone or something else ?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "Breakups are hard, but it sounds like she was violent ", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "Have you talked since then?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "If safety is an issue, then I think that maybe moving on is a good decision", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "I suggest that you do things that will help you get over her., like going out with friends or a new hobby. Don't be in a hurry to get into a new relationship , but if one happens that would be great too. ", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "Is this your first breakup?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "Breakups are not always the end, but they usually happen for a reason, and whenever violence is involved it is usually better to move on", "output": "Reflection of feelings" }, { "input": "I suggest you start trying to have fun with others and getting yourself out there where there will be new opportunities", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "The sadness will eventually pass and I am sure there is someone out there that will be a good match for you ", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "I wish you the very best .", "output": "Reflection of feelings" }, { "input": "I am so sorry that happened to you. It can be very difficult to cope with situations that seem they come out of nowhere. Did your boyfriend give you any reason for ending the relationship?\n", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "Sometimes having depression can make a person feel that they need to seclude themselves. Were you aware that he felt this way?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "Unfortunately that can be a sign of depression or that something is going on. Have you been able to communicate with him previously about becoming distant?", "output": "Information" }, { "input": "Maybe you could try to talk to him about seeking help for depression? Talking to someone close to him or even a professional would help him immensely. Talking to a counselor would help him learn ways to cope with his feelings.", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "I understand completely. Depression runs in my family and if it goes untreated, can scare anyone that is involved. You can try suggesting that he talks to a close friend, family member, or counselor to talk about how he is feeling and ways to cope with it. Sometimes medication could be a good way to fix the chemical imbalance that can cause depression.", "output": "Information" }, { "input": "You could start a conversation by saying that you just want to check on him and see if he is okay and how he is doing. You don't want to start the conversation by immediately telling him to get help, as he might just get defensive.", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "I don't believe it will upset him if you ease into suggesting that he should talk to someone he is close to or seeing a professional. Your main goal is to check on him and make sure that he is okay since he seems to want to be alone and not talk to anyone. Once he tells you how he is doing you could mention that even talking to someone about his thoughts and feelings could lift a weight off his shoulders. If he seems that he doesn't really know why he feels the way does, you could suggest that medically speaking, sometimes our brains don't produce the chemicals that we need them to and it could make us feel bad. Seeing a professional to get their opinion would also help greatly.", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "It's very hard to see someone we care about go through this.", "output": "Reflection of feelings" }, { "input": "Communication is one of the best medicines there is to help someone feel better.", "output": "Information" }, { "input": "Even just trying to talk to him to see how he is doing will show him that care about him. I'm sure that once he is talking to someone about his thoughts and feelings, he will start to get back to his old self.", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "Hello, how are you feeling today?\n", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "I'm sorry to hear that. What is causing you these feelings?\n", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "I'm sorry to hear that. That sounds like a difficult situation. Have you tried any personal exercises to help you cope with the situation until you find a resolution?\n", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "That's certainly a difficult situation. Is there no resolution possible with the father of your grandson? I want to make sure that th\ne cause of the depression has properly been addressed by you or someone else.", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "I think it's great that you have such care and concern for your grandson. That shows how incredible you are and on behalf of your grandson, I think you are doing a tremendous job. I think you should continue to support him however you can, but it's also important to take care of yourself. Do you have time available for additional self care, or are there any new exercises you can try to try to take care of yourself?\n", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "That sounds like a great start. Self care is vitally important in this difficulty time with COVID and the pandemic. I recommend any little bit of time that you can contribute to yourself, this includes reading, relaxing, meditating, exercise, or just resting. Anything that can help you repair so you are better prepared to help your grandson.", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "Do you think the anger you are feeling is directly a result of the situation? Do you feel the anger is manifested from somewhere else? I think it is important to get to the underlying source of the anger and take care of that first and foremost.", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "That's concerning, but very understandable. Are you able to financially seek additional help? Sometimes it's just what you need, as hard or embarrassing as that may seem. No one needs to know what you seek, but it is important not to disregard additional help, be it mental health, physical therapy, or just general prevention and detection from a PCP.", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "I think that's a normal way to feel and a frustrating part of growing older. I think focusing on positives and things you enjoy will help keep your mind away from thinking about \"what used to be\" or \"what once was\" - finding passions and joys in new things could help revitalize you. \nCan I help you find new hobbies or passions?", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "I think exercise bands are a great way to keep your limbs loose and nimble. They are affordable and available on Amazon. I have some and I think they're great. YouTube can help with exercises.", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "Totally understandable. I'm a little younger and even I am sick of sub 50F weather, so that's not age holding you back! I think it's important to maintain positivity and find any outlet that keeps that going for you.", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "You're welcome. Is there anything else I can help you with today, even if it's something as simple as providing suggestions for new things to try?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "Meditation has worked wonder for my best friend. The app Headspace is fantastic. I'd also recommend podcasts, using either and app or your computer, and find a series on a topic that you enjoy, weather it's mindfulness, or self-care. There are plenty to choose from and you can go at your own pace.", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "You're welcome. I hope you find peace within and happiness again. Your grandson will improve with time, it's inevitable! But stay positive, stay focused, and be sure to not take anything out on him as he relies on you and your input. Have a wonderful day!", "output": "Reflection of feelings" }, { "input": "Hello, glad to meet you virtually. How are you?\n\n", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "I am good. How may I help you?\n", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "I completely get that. I am thinking that most people are feeling isolated therefore communication with others are feeling even more challenging thank usual. Playing games can certainly help. What type of games do you play? Perhaps there are people that share the same interests\n", "output": "Reflection of feelings" }, { "input": "Multi player games help I would assume. Do you play with people you actually know sometimes? I am sure that you make a great friend so we can explore areas of meeting new people, I can tell you that I am not having the easiest time keeping up with friends and I am certainly not meeting new people in person very often myself. ", "output": "Self-disclosure" }, { "input": "Okay so perhaps play with people as opposed to solo. Do you think it would be worth a try?", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "You are quite welcome. Perhaps I can play as well. Is it easy to catch on or are the games you play difficult?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "Got it! Do you play sports or any other activities where you encounter people?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "Hello\n", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "You've come to a good place to start.", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "Is there something in particular that is leaving you feeling depressed?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "I'm sorry to hear that. Feeling resentment for both your husband's loss of work and your son's loss of his job is entirely understandable. ", "output": "Restatement or Paraphrasing" }, { "input": "I have an adult son who also lost his job recently, and I understand the added stress that can cause in your household. ", "output": "Self-disclosure" }, { "input": "That is a really difficult position to be in. ", "output": "Reflection of feelings" }, { "input": "Regardless of what your husband's actions are and your son's, could you possibly make the time to do things to support yourself, that even momentarily would provide you with some positive feelings? ", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "That is very hard emotionally, so I am sorry you have to deal with your son's behavior.", "output": "Reflection of feelings" }, { "input": "That is very understandable! Setting boundaries for yourself may help. Even when it's difficult, being clear with your son that you will not be giving him money could help. ", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "Sometimes being clear with your own expectations can help him to see what won't be accepted from him as long as he is living in your home.", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "I completely understand that. Especially when it comes to people we are close to, it can be hard to separate our expectations from theirs. ", "output": "Restatement or Paraphrasing" }, { "input": "I've had to learn this lesson many times with my own children. It's difficult, but ultimately will give you some relief from your resentment. ", "output": "Self-disclosure" }, { "input": "Absolutely! Being a parent is difficult. Remembering to support yourself helps. Making the time to do things to support your wellbeing doesn't make you selfish at all", "output": "Information" }, { "input": "You are certainly not alone.", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "Has any of this been helpful? Is there more I can do for you?", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "Hello", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "What's on your mind?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "We are on the same boat", "output": "Reflection of feelings" }, { "input": "I understand how you feel. I think others feel the same too, that we're exhausted no matter if we're directly affected or not", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "It saddens me too because even when we have vaccines, the damage has been done and the aftermath is unimaginable", "output": "Self-disclosure" }, { "input": "Can you tell me why not?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "You should still take it though. What done is done, the new vaccine will help situation not getting worse", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "I thin it's rushed because people trying to push it so they voided some troublesome paperwork stage", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "Frontliners will get it first, you don't have to worry too much about the vaccine", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "Then you should be relieved since the sooner they get the vaccine, the less worry for your family", "output": "Reflection of feelings" }, { "input": "It's ok to feel doubtful about it, you can keep wearing mask and social distancing and take the vaccine when you feel ready", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "We need to put an end to this and vaccine is the fastest way. It's gonna take very long to find treatment", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "Hello there, how can I help?", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "So you are concerned that you are feeling unmotivated and don't feel like doing anything.", "output": "Restatement or Paraphrasing" }, { "input": "Have you felt like this for a while or has it only been a recent change in your feelings and motivation?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "That must be a real challenge and if it is a recent change it is natural to feel concerned about this.", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "I do not always feel positive and motivated myself and have spoken to a professional in the past which helped me understand why this is, for me it was linked to a lack of sleep.\n", "output": "Self-disclosure" }, { "input": "People's moods can be regulated by many things. I know for example that sleep and diet can play a big part in some cases. ", "output": "Information" }, { "input": "have you tried talking to your friends and telling them now you feel? They may not know you are feeling this may and might be able to help you and provide support.", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "What is it about opening up that you find difficult? is it sharing your feelings with others?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "I think you have reached out for support and so you clearly want to do something about this which is a great first step. I think you can get over these fears and overcome them.", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "I can tell you are anxious about it and fear coming across as weak but I think that would be a positive step for you.", "output": "Reflection of feelings" }, { "input": "I think you can do it and overcome this issue!", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "You are welcome", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "Thanks for talking it through", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "What kind of issues do you think you are having?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "I understand it can be very difficult at times with parents. Especially since they lived in a life that was very different from today. ", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "Have you tried talking to you parents about why she is \"bad news\"?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "The basic problem is that your parents believe that 15 years is too large of an age gap between you guys. ", "output": "Restatement or Paraphrasing" }, { "input": "Is there any other reasons your parents dissaporve of her?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "You believe that the girl is not a gold digger, but instead you guys like each other for who you are. Money is not an issue for you guys?", "output": "Restatement or Paraphrasing" }, { "input": "Perhaps you should try to talk to your parents around this fact. For example, if money is the problem for your parents, you can set some rules. LIke you can set an allowance for how much money you can use each week.", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "If you want a better communication, I believe in person will be best.", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "I apologize and I do agree it is sometimes difficult. Perhaps it will be better to talk to them with another person present.", "output": "Reflection of feelings" }, { "input": "If another person is present, it may make it easier. However, I believe it should be someone that is not invovled in this issue. Perhaps another family member or a close family friend.", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "Parents have a difficult time understanding their child at times. Hopefully, through this you all can become closer.", "output": "Information" }, { "input": "I personally understand how difficult this can be. But if this works out. You can have a good family relationship and maintain a good relationship with your girlfriend.", "output": "Self-disclosure" }, { "input": "Best of luck!", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "Hello, how are you doing today?", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "Sorry to hear you're upset. Want to share why you're feeling that way?", "output": "Restatement or Paraphrasing" }, { "input": "Do you feel like you can't take any actions in the situation?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "That sounds frustrating, especially if you're one of the employees affected and when the new boss doesn't seem to know what he/she is doing with the reorganization.", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "That's positive, though, that you at least have a strategy in mind with retirement, even if this may not be the best time right now.", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "It sounds like you are not the only worker who is seriously questioning the changes being made. ", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "Wow! From what you've said, it sounds like your coworkers feel much as you do about the changes. ", "output": "Restatement or Paraphrasing" }, { "input": "That must be tough, but it must help to at least commiserate through the phone calls and be able to relate to each other.", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "My former spouse works for a company that has moved him to departments he needed to retrain to work in, and he is considering looking for a different job, maybe after COVID is outta here.", "output": "Self-disclosure" }, { "input": "It sounds like you're determined to stay as positive as possible while considering other options, such as a new job. Doing something about it like this must feel a little better.", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "You're welcome! I also think that's wise to hold off on retirement until your daughter is through college. My oldest is ready for college and I don't feel ready to leave work, either. ", "output": "Self-disclosure" }, { "input": "You can do it!", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "You too! G'night.", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "Hi there how are you doing?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "That is not good. Is this a new thing or has it always been this way?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "Have you ever tried to get any help for it? ", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "That's shame. Not all doctors are understanding. Are you able to see someone else? ", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "What about over the counter stuff? Have you considered that?", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "I personally have found some very useful herbal remedies.", "output": "Self-disclosure" }, { "input": "Ah I was going to ask if you thought that some trauma had started this, Do you want to talk about it? ", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "That sounds very traumatic. Have you ever talked with anyone about it before? ", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "Well that is not very helpful of them! Clearly you are not able to move on or you would not be having disturbed sleep ", "output": "Information" }, { "input": "I hope these were not paid specialists you were seeing ", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "Are you there?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "You went very quiet! What else would you like to talk about? ", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "I am sorry to hear that, I did not mean to upset you further. Anyway I hope you can get some adequate help in the future. Anyway, I wish you all the best! ", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "Can you press quit and take the survey? I can't do it my end :) ", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "can you press quit and take the survey? :) ", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "hello? :) ", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "Hello how are you today?\n", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "I am well. Anything I can help with today?\n", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "I understand it has een stressful for you during lockdown unemployed, that must feel frustrating.", "output": "Restatement or Paraphrasing" }, { "input": "Is there anyone in your imediate household you can confide in with your feelings?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "I compleyely understand I have also lost my career due to covid. Dont give up, staying positive and open minded to new opportunities will help you find work.", "output": "Self-disclosure" }, { "input": "\ni see.i would call the companies themselves and see if they have programs in place to help you.\n", "output": "Information" }, { "input": "At least they might give extensions.\n\n", "output": "Information" }, { "input": "Also there are people willing to help sometimes in local places. An extension would happen when the institution you owe gives you more time to pay them.", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "I would try going to the town hall.", "output": "Restatement or Paraphrasing" }, { "input": "Going to the town hall means phsyically going to your local town hall asking for help for assistance. There should within have programs you can apply for. ", "output": "Restatement or Paraphrasing" }, { "input": "Once again I a, sorry to hear that you are depressed. Make sure to go ouside everyday. I have learned that healthy doses of sunshine help.\nYes I have often felt helpless due this pandemic. ", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "I will say though that exercise, movies and lots of coffee have helped me. ", "output": "Reflection of feelings" }, { "input": "Yes i normally use netflix.", "output": "Self-disclosure" }, { "input": "prime i do no use so much", "output": "Self-disclosure" }, { "input": "Did this conversation make you feel any less depressed?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "No i can usuallly find something new to watch. ", "output": "Restatement or Paraphrasing" }, { "input": "Are you a real person or a computer program?\n", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "Some other ways are staying as involed with anything I can, like reading, writing, or drawing. ", "output": "Restatement or Paraphrasing" }, { "input": "Yes i am real and doing this task for amazon mechanical turk, are you as well?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "Although I do genuinelly care for helping others feel ettter. ", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "Are you waiting for me to end this to get the higher exrra payment at the end?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "well i will end and say goodye i hope you get through this. i know you will ", "output": "Restatement or Paraphrasing" }, { "input": "HELLO", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "going good what about you", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "how was your day", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "it sounds good", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "Don't worry my friend there will be peaks and downs in life same in exam too prepare hard for your next exam surely you ll shine", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "do u attend your classes regularly?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "That's great. Did u love your studies?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "That's a good idea. Even I had this problem during my studies", "output": "Self-disclosure" }, { "input": "Then my friend suggested me to study at early morning rather than evening and nights. ", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "that's great", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "Try to have a water bottle behind u when u study and try to concentrate more and its best to choose a peaceful place to study.", "output": "Information" }, { "input": "you seems to be a bright student. hope you will crack your exams with high score", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "Hello! How are you doing today?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "Not bad for a Monday, but that's often a bummer of a day. What's got you down?", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "Ah, that can be awkward. Are you happy about the new position?", "output": "Restatement or Paraphrasing" }, { "input": "So do you think you are feeling down more because of missing your friends or your nervousness about the new job?\n", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "That only makes things tougher, doesn't it. So is there a way you could reassure your co-workers that this new position doesn't mean you have left their lives?", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "What kinds of things do you think might help with that?", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "Could you meet for lunch or coffee now and then?", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "Or could you all create a standing \"group chat\" to touch base regularly?", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "Cool! But I gather that if you already do that, you don't think that would be enough? Or would it? What else might work?\n", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "Ah, so you think that being on different shifts may be what has you all concerned about losing touch?", "output": "Restatement or Paraphrasing" }, { "input": "Is there some overlap between the end of your day shift and the beginning of their night shift? Is there a time you are all awake? Maybe dinner for you, but \"breakfast\" for them?", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "What else might minimize the separation? Do you all have weekends off?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "So maybe the \"between shifts\" type meeting may help? It might be hard to schedule, but I think you can do that. What do you think?", "output": "Affirmation and Reassurance" }, { "input": "So, if the \"gang\" can stay together, what's got you nervous about the new position?\n", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "Hi, can i help today? Please, tell me about yourself?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "Hi, do have any issues that you would like to share with me today?", "output": "Question" }, { "input": "I am sorry to hear that. So, you and your friends are not seeing eye to eye? Do you mind telling me what the issue is that yo are not agreeing on?", "output": "Restatement or Paraphrasing" }, { "input": "That can be difficult and I can relate to that too. When friends do not respond the way that we feel that they should it can be really hard. Do you have any family that you are close with?", "output": "Reflection of feelings" }, { "input": "I understand the issue of money can cause a lot of problems in a relationship. I had a best friend borrow money once and it lead to her never paying it back and we stopped being friends. Do you plan on trying to talk to your friends soon? Maybe I can give you some advice on how to approach them. ", "output": "Self-disclosure" }, { "input": "Maybe you could chose a place to meet that is neutral, somewhere at a park or at a cafe. You can ask them to reflect on the good memories in your friendship and then express how you value them as people and friends. Does that sound like something you can try?", "output": "Others" }, { "input": "That is a good idea too. Having boundaries is the healthiest part of a relationship so that neither party gets taken advantage of. Setting up lines not to cross is a great idea. ", "output": "Information" }, { "input": "I understand that friends can disappoint us sometimes and friendships can take a lot of effort. I would recommend starting a journal. A daily journal can help you express your feelings on paper and it can help you from getting to frustrated and keeping your feelings inside. ", "output": "Providing Suggestions" }, { "input": "I am proud of you today because you reached out and have tried to find help outside of yourself. You are growing and trying to do your best. ", "output": "Information" }, { "input": "Yes, you're growing and trying to do your best and wanting to expand your boundaries and make them clear. You have taken the right approach and are on the best track to having a successful relationship in the future. Great Job! Thank you for sharing your story with me today.", "output": "Information" }, { "input": "You are welcome and here for you anytime. I am able to listen and do my best to help you navigate friendships and other issues too. We are always here.", "output": "Providing Suggestions" } ]