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SUBREDDIT: r/Advice
TITLE: Help, i feel like my step mom is being very unfair...
POST: So, lets start off by saying im a freshman, so, yes, im young, but i still need help. Last night i was watching Netflix in bed (It was about 12) and my stepmom texted me and told me to turn it down, so i put in headphones, problem... | sepmom put time blocks on wifi, all i want to do is watch netflix at night... Can i put myself as admin without being caught? (Are my lying skills good enough) |
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TITLE: I think I suck at my job.
POST: Now I make mistakes sometimes. Usually fine detail mistakes, like a typo in an important place. Or not knowing that someone put training equipment on a truck and I dispatch it on a job. I would say I could tack up one good mistake per month working.
I just c... | Should human error be expected sometimes in the workplace? Is a manager with "no tolerance" for error being unfair or simply having healthy standards for his company? |
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TITLE: Should I buy a new phone?
POST: I have a htc one m7 unlocked, I rooted the phone and flashed CM10 on it, also I just dropped it and the screen is cracked.
I honestly am tired to mess with my phone so I'm not going to buy any screen replacement to try to repair it
I was going to pay the ph... | = 200$ to fix my phone, too much - selling it on craigslist - should I buy the same htc one for 220$ or wait for christmas and get a one plus one for 100$ more? |
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TITLE: Am I being a bad friend?
POST: Hey reddit. For a couple of years now I've been part of this little group of friends. There's me, some guys, and some girls. We used to hang out all the time, see some movies, go bowling, shoot the shit. We were good friends, really close. So one of the guys, ... | I'm hanging out with one of my good friends, who happens to be the ex of another one of my good friends. Is it wrong? |
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TITLE: Boyfriend and housemates had argument, now its ruining mine and his time together, how do I solve this?
POST: Basically my boyfriend has put his foot in it a bit, said the wrong thing at the wrong time and insulted my housemates in the process (unintentionally but still.)
So last night it ... | Boyfriend put his foot in it and upset my housemates, now he is worrying and doesn't want to do anything but mope, how do I solve this? |
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TITLE: How to help GF's parents make friends so she'll feel comfortable moving out?
POST: My (26F) gf and I (25M) have been dating for close to 6 years. The first two while we were in uni, 2 years of us basically trying to figure out life (job hunting, switching etc), and 2 years of having a lot m... | Girlfriend doesn't want to move out of her parents house because they are lonely with no friends. If they weren't alone, she'd consider moving out. How do I help her parents make some good buddies?* |
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TITLE: Simple stuff: Should I have stayed at school with this girl today?
POST: So for some context, I'm 17 and today I had to got to sixth form for the last period of the day. I head to class and I find out it's been called off because of some confusion which lead to most students heading home th... | Girl has nothing to do for an hour but is obviously interested in hanging around with me; oblivious me says goodbye and heads home. Am I an idiot? |
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TITLE: Feeling horribly guilty and anxious about telling my boss (who is a good friend) I'm quitting
POST: Throwaway username for obvious reasons.
I am in a professional healthcare position, but I'm relatively young in my career. Straight out of school (doctoral-level), I got my current job. I'v... | My boss is wonderful and a good friend who is having personal problems of her own - now I have to break the news that I'm leaving for another job after only one year. |
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TITLE: My childhood friend is squatting in a shed. How do I help him?
POST: My childhood friend (23 M) (we'll call him Lyle) has led quite the troubled life. His mother was a drug addict who dropped him as a baby. He needed surgery afterwards and his elderly great aunt and uncle sued his mother (t... | My childhood friend is living like a homeless man after all his relatives died and he gambled away all his money. What should I do? |
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TITLE: How should I handle this hit and run?
POST: While trying to drive home last night, my car got stuck in a steep curve covered in ice. I couldn't turn around to park at the bottom of the hill, so I backed as far out of the curve as possible and left it there for the night. The car was complet... | My parked car got hit by another (moving) car on an icy hill. Is it my fault or should I find them and pursue an insurance claim? |
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TITLE: Probable Oxy Withdrawal (non-emergency)
POST: **Note: I've tried googling for my answer and it's all a lot of medical jargon for some. Other questions I'm really just seeking some personal experience or knowledge or assurance or whatever. I'm not asking for medical advice, I'm just curious ... | I think I'm withdrawing from the pain killers I was prescribed and I'm trying not to go batshit. See above questions.*** |
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TITLE: i think my best friend's other friends are bad influences on him. how do i tell him?
POST: my best friend and i have been best friends for 8 years and we are as close as brothers, he has been hanging out with this other group of guys for probably 5 years and they do drugs and drink to exces... | my best friend is doing drugs with his other friends and i think they are a bad influence on him. how do i confront him about it? |
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TITLE: Renting & Pool Repairs
POST: My husband and I currently rent our house which happens to have a pool. Our contract states that we are responsible for maintenance and cleaning of said pool, which to make sure everything is done correctly we pay the pool service that the landlord prefers to ta... | our landlord is seemingly of unsound mind, and is trying to make us pay for expensive repairs that are normal wear and tear. |
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TITLE: Need a really smart and experienced person to help me .
POST: Hello , im writing this out of desperation as i am in the hardest predicament of my life . Basically i just finished my first year of dental technique and had to pay 1k euro for the first year , and now i went to a private lab to... | Im a little bitch and i just now after 1 whole year realised i dont like dental technique but i dont want to quit to dissapoint my parents. |
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TITLE: My patient won't let me do physical therapy on her but her family want me to
POST: I (23F) work in the Philippines as a physical therapist with a passion. I care for the elderly on most occassions and I enjoy my career.
I visit one of my patients (+80F) during home care. She smiles and is ... | I am a physical therapist. Elderly patient doesn't want me to do therapy on her. Her family need me to do it for her. What do I do? |
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TITLE: Life/Travel/Work Advice
POST: Hi there.
So to explain my situation: I'm 24 and have lived at home since graduating and have a job at a top football team. It is by no means my ideal job and although its provided me with great experience I don't find it challenging anymore and feel like I've... | Have £4k saved up and looking for a new job/adventure outside UK. Speak English, Spanish and Mandarin. Want to see the world. Help. |
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TITLE: Stuck between learning a skilled trade or continue college. Please Help.
POST: I'm in my second year at Community College and I need help deciding my future. Coming from a low-income family, I never had much of any opportunities growing up. My siblings are virtually useless people, who woul... | Smart first-generation college student from a poor family. Likes building stuff and learning technical skills, friends and family thinks I am wasting potential. I am lost and don't know what to do. |
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TITLE: First time poster - just got fired but have options. Need some advice!
POST: I'm gonna preface the story with some background info: I work in a small café Inside of an office building. The cafe is mainly for the tenants. I've been there since last December and today was my "last day in the ... | I had my last strike in the kitchen; got a choice to quit or switch jobs for less hours, but have been unhappy there and want to leave. |
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TITLE: Need help with getting an internship
POST: I saw an internship I'm really interested in and I made some changes to my resume so it would look a little better. I'm looking for some advice on how to write my resume for this internship.
The internship is for a financial firm that helps turnar... | Need help with my resume so I can get an internship. I want to show my best skills but I don't know if that will come across the wrong way. |
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TITLE: I found an internship online. I think it's a fraud what do I do?
POST: I applied to several IT internships online at internships.com. On Monday I got an e-mail reply asking for an online Hangouts interview for a position as a virtual data entry position that worked at home. I looked at the ... | Got an beginner internship with a wage of $35.00 believing it's fake, but they have some of my information such as name, phone, address. What should I do? I was supposed to report online tomorrow morning. |
SUBREDDIT: r/Advice
TITLE: Can't decide on which College to attend..
POST: So starting in September I have the opportunity to go back to school for video game design, which is great, but I'm stricken with a difficult decision. Essentially I have narrowed my choices down to two separate schools.
Pro's:
-Cheaper tuit... | Can't decide on what school to attend. Public college is cheaper and has a well credit program, but cost of living is more. Private college is expensive, but cost of living is cheaper and more convenient to attend. |
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TITLE: I (m20) don't talk to my family anymore.
POST: Me and my parents fought a lot. We were never really close at all. My dad drinks all the time and my Mom doesn't do anything about it. Whenever my dad was drunk he would always tell me to move out and go find my own place and stop eating all th... | Me and my shitty parents fought, I moved out, and I'm on my own for the first time with little money. |
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TITLE: I recoil from almost all female contact.
POST: Background:
I am a 16 year old male with no sisters or female friends. I also attempt to treat people how they treat me.
A few years ago, I was watching TV with my mum, and I go to reach for the remote. Somehow, I accidentally touched he... | I accidentally touched my mum's breast a few years ago, now I recoil mentally and physically from female contact. My hugs are like the Voldemort one in the 8th Harry Potter Movie. Advice, please? |
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TITLE: I want to go to college but don't know where to start.
POST: Ok guys, let me lay down some background here. I am a 20, nearly 21 year old male who currently works as a truck unloader at walmart. This job means I work Monday, Wednesday, Friday, and Saturday from 4p-1a. I have an unreliable v... | Poor credit, unreliable vehicle, and odd work schedule. How can I still get a good education to get myself out of this rut? |
SUBREDDIT: r/Advice
TITLE: A Concert Ticket Dilemma
POST: I promised my friend a ticket to a concert that we've been meaning to see for two years now, and we were both very excited. The tickets are complementary due to a program I'm part of, and I usually get four, but this time I got two tickets only. However, my li... | Do I give the concert ticket to my best friend or my sister? Is my best friend ungrateful and justified for being annoyed? |
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TITLE: I think I'm depressed but I want a straight answer, I'm never sure if it's just a rough time or if it's a problem.
POST: Hey guys, I'm 18 years old and my adolescence was a trying time for me, with a lot of emotional ups and downs which is "normal" for a female going through puberty, especi... | I was the perfect student in high school and my first year of college and this year I can't even get out of bed |
SUBREDDIT: r/Advice
TITLE: 21f, might be in love with best friend?
POST: I don't know if I'm bisexual or not. I know I'm attracted to men, I always have been. But... I don't know. My best friend is so gorgeous. And she's so kind, and just generally wonderful. And I think I want to kiss her. I've never had my first ki... | I'm pretty much in love with her and I can't deal. I don't want to have sexual or romantic feelings for her. How do I make them go away? |
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TITLE: Are roommates expected to become friends with other roommates?
POST: So basically, the housing market where I live is overpriced and grossly overvalued. Because of that fact, the only choice I have in getting somewhere to live is to move into some kind of sublet or roommate situation. I am ... | Do I have to forge a friendship with a roommate or can I just pay my portion of the rent and be a recluse in the room? |
SUBREDDIT: r/Advice
TITLE: Should I email her again or is it not worth it?
POST: I'm 22 and working at a hospital. I got signed up for a 5 day study testing kinesthetics. The person conducting the study was a girl (maybe 24?) who was part of that lab. She's from England and studied at a prestigious university. I spok... | English girl gives American guy email address after asking her out, guy emails her but no response for 3 days. Wait longer or just a waste of time? |
SUBREDDIT: r/Advice
TITLE: I'm unhappy. He's unhappy. Now what?
POST: My husband and I have been married almost a year.
He has changed. He seems more reserved and depressed now. I told him that I was worried about him, and asked what I could do to make him happier. He said nothing was wrong.
He hasn't been wantin... | I miss my husband wanting me, what can I do to make him want me again? Is kissing/mm cheating? |
SUBREDDIT: r/Advice
TITLE: I'm in too deep with my best friend/fuck buddy PRACTICAL advice wanted please
POST: My two best friends from college (let's call them Jane and Oliver) were a couple and we continued our friendship post-college as we lived in the same city. I always knew Jane was a little manipulative and c... | I am in (unrequited) love with my long time friend and fuck buddy of two years and don't know what do to. It hurts. |
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TITLE: I'm going to be staying at my girlfriend's parent's house over night for the first time. Any advice?
POST: My girlfriend and I are in a LDR. We're both 25 and like many people our age who have piles of student loans, we both live with our parents.
I've visited twice before, for a total of... | I'm staying at my GF's parents house for a week, in a separate room and I'm nervous they're worried about sex stuff happening, when it won't. |
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TITLE: Leaving a job with nothing lined up
POST: Hey guys,
I am from Philadelphia, but moved to Baltimore a year and a half ago for a job. It was exactly what I was looking for after leaving college, but I was apprehensive about leaving home. Fast forward to now and things have not worked out; I'm... | I want to quit my job and move back home, but am not sure if it's a good idea when I don't have a job lined up. |
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TITLE: Accidentally insulted my friend, he doesn't believe me that I didn't mean it the way it sounded, what do?
POST: I have a friend who is a stay at home dad, I think that's fantastic not only because it means his girls get a strong male role model but also because it means he's always availabl... | Told a bad joke about a band, causing my stay at home dad friend to think I was belittling him. What do? |
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TITLE: Should I quit my part-time job to go full-time as a mechanical engineering student [long read]
POST: So not sure how to start but my issues are more about personal issues I'm dealing with my girlfriend and her family. How does that relate to my question? Well, I got accepted to a state univ... | I want to go full-time for mechanical engineering but highly doubt the gf's step dad will not approve of me not working. |
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TITLE: Finish university or "start" my own life?
POST: The scenario is the following: I [24M] have a semester left of uni which I consider pretty useless so I just want to finish it and get it out the way with the diploma in my hand. On the other hand since I'm still living at home and I feel very... | Should I finish university first and wait till I have the time to get a 9-5 or start my own business, just bury my head in the sand and let things run their course - |
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TITLE: I'm sick of no one taking me seriously [M20]
POST: I'm sick of everyone laughing at me when I don't hear them properly. I'm sick of them calling me a 'baby' when they just look at me, I literally can't do anything without them calling me 'cute'. Does no one realise how embarrassing and humi... | My 'friends' keep calling me cute and oblivious when I don't think they realise how annoyed it makes me feel. How can I stop this? |
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TITLE: Issues with school and where I live. What should I do?
POST: Okay, I will try to keep it as short as possible.
My issues with school are that I am not motivated to attend class. It isn't exactly what I was thinking it would be. I am interested in the subject, but it hasn't lit a fire under... | I am not motivated in my program and I want to leave my city. I need advice on what I should do about these issues. |
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TITLE: Ive been seeing a girl with a boyfriend, need advice please.
POST: The manager and me at my workplace are really flirty and friendly, smacking butts playfully and such and i make her laugh constantly, shes got a great personality. the only thing is she has a boyfriend that also works at our... | I love a girl with a boyfriend, she likes me aswell and is contemplating whether to stay with him or date me. |
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TITLE: You know that guy in the group that's not really close to anyone but he's just there? Yea.. How do I NOT be that guy?
POST: Right so, I make friends fairly easily but I tend to not get close enough and for some reason they end up thinking I hate them.
Usually I don't mind but just last nig... | I'm usually the boring guy in whatever group of friends i'm with, how do I not be that boring guy and be more approachable to banter. |
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TITLE: Should I be worried about my obsessive thinking over women? What is wrong with me?
POST: To clarify, I am morbidly afraid of my future girlfriend or spouse reminding me of my mother. I have no idea how this frightening (and almost hilarious) thought first infected my mind, and I cannot stop... | I am morbidly afraid of my future girlfriend or spouse reminding me of my mother. How can I prevent these thoughts from unintentionally popping up? |
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TITLE: [Personal] I'm fed up of friends that won't commit.
POST: Hi,
Specific town names etc removed to avoid any risk of someone this concerns reading this.
So, I used to live in a city on the south cost of the UK. I grew up there, school, college and 3 years of working in an office there. I wa... | moved from city a to city b, whenever I return to city a old friends never available to see me. Unsure if bs or not. |
SUBREDDIT: r/Advice
TITLE: Shit, idk what to do with my friend
POST: Alright so this is gonna be kinda long. So i have this friend and she has a brother and i had a crush on him for about a year. I knew him and had a crush on him before i met his sister(she is a year younger than me) and last year i tried to ask him ... | Former crush is best friends brother, now he ignoring me and their family is inviting me on a sleepover trip with them, idk what to do |
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TITLE: Issues dealing with Amazon refusing to refund a missing order
POST: So i've been dealing with Amazon for over a week not trying to get a refund for an order I placed. I purchased an Olympus EM5II and Olympus 17mm. One item was shipped via On-Trac and the other was shipped via UPS. I didn... | I'm out about $1400 right now and Amazon has refused to refund me or take responsibility. What do I do now? |
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TITLE: I need help finding a specific kind of job
POST: Note: This is a bit more realistic than my previous posts. I want to make ok money (over 10$ an hour), doesn't require education or experience. I don't mind working hard though, like "I can't get up the next day" hard. All the easy jobs eithe... | I want a high paying job (at least $10 an hour) & I don't mind busting my ass/getting my hands dirty. |
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TITLE: I am a high school varsity soccer player (football for you nerds in foreign lands), I have doubts about my motivation. HELP ME D:
POST: Okay, so to start things off this is not the first time I have had motivation/ambition issues. Last year (as a freshman, I am a sophomore now) I was offere... | idk if motivated to play varsity soccer, do i lead team on being unmotivated, or quit and get ridiculed and anger my parents? 36 hours from now I must decide. hit me |
SUBREDDIT: r/Advice
TITLE: How can I be firmer with my housemates?
POST: I live with my boyfriend and another couple and the two of them are driving me insane. Let's say one of them is called Bob and the other is called Sarah, Bob is the laziest, rudest and the stupidest person I have ever met, he doesn't show any co... | I want my housemates to show some respect but don't know how to tell them without coming off as a jerk. |
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TITLE: Wrestling Regionals vs. Other priorities?
POST: I'm a high school student and I hot accepted to regionals for wrestling (which is an honor). However it is this Friday going into Saturday and Friday night is our school dance that I was going take my girlfriend to. She straight up told me tha... | Do I go to a huge wrestling tournament, or take my girlfriend to a dance I promised I'd take her to? |
SUBREDDIT: r/Advice
TITLE: Should I file for unemployment even if I don't need it right now? (In California)
POST: I'm unemployed, but it's not through any fault of my own. I was working as a temp, and my boss let me go because he mismanaged his budget and didn't have enough money to keep me on.
Anyway, about me...I... | I have 4-5 months money for food/gas/rent. Is it wrong for me to start getting unemployment benefits now? Will it be taking away from other people who need it more? |
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TITLE: How can I soothe my anxiety towards the future?
POST: I want to get a bachelor's degree in Digital Art, I love to draw and have done it off and on for a little over 10 years. My fears have been going through my head all month, I'm afraid that I won't be good enough to get a job in that fiel... | I need advice on how to get over the fear of not getting a job with a bachelor's degree in Digital Art, even though I am dead set on achieving this dream |
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TITLE: I'm moving out of state with my SO, ~10 hour drive with a cat. What's our best approach?
POST: Hey, /r/Advice, this is my first time posting here. My significant other and I are in our mid 20s and we're moving out of state by the end of June. It's the first time we'll be moving out together... | Look at bullet point list above. Moving out of state with a cat. What's the cheapest and/or most convenient way for us to make this happen? |
SUBREDDIT: r/Advice
TITLE: Afraid of liking anybody?
POST: Throughout high school I dated two girls from before freshman year to the beginning of senior year. The last relationship ended badly and I was crushed for months. I was not happy by myself and quickly figured out I was relying on the relationships for happin... | After being happy by myself for the first time ever, I think I'm talking myself out of going farther than dating with any girl. |
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TITLE: Should I quit my PhD program?
POST: I'm 6-7 months in to my PhD program. I feel burnt-out, demoralized, and unhappy with life most of the time. While I have a great opportunity to study and live off of my fellowship, I feel like I have no life or motivation for anything else anymore. My he... | 6-7 months into PhD I want to quit. Health and happiness are more important to me than this, but I'm afraid of looking like a failure. |
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TITLE: Should I become more involved in social media? [SERIOUS]
POST: I've never liked the idea of social media, it's always been in my nature to stay low-key and in the shadows while everyone else is updating their statuses non-stop, hash-tagging everything, taking selfies etc.
I have found using... | Work in fitness industry, faced with pressure to become involved in social media yet I am reallllllly reluctant to do so. |
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TITLE: Is pride worth this?
POST: Hey guys. I am completely mentally drained and just need some outside input on my situation. Me and my fiance are having the most terrible luck. He was working in the oil field in North Dakota and unfortunately got laid off. We were forced to relocate to a small f... | cannot earn enough money to replace septic pump, living in flith, one truck stop shower every week or two, shitting in buckets, to swallow pride and ask for help or continue to try my hardest and get nowhere? |
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TITLE: I feel backed into a metaphorical corner.
POST: I'm 19, male, studying CS in my first year, and I'm not sure what I want to do with my life. My CS classes are very hard and extremely time consuming, and I've never had a formal job before in my life (never needed one).
I thought I wanted to... | My classes have increased exponentially in difficulty, my mom thinks I'm lazy, and I have an opportunity to intern doing work I won't enjoy. |
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TITLE: Need help with parents and university
POST: So as you all know, the college app season is upon us and everyone is super stressed and anxious and I'm having such a hard time with my mom. She very recently got diagnosed with cancer again (3rd time) and is extremely opposed to me going to a un... | I want to move away for college, but mom with cancer wants me to stay home and go to a boring/not so good college |
SUBREDDIT: r/Advice
TITLE: In need of girl advice
POST: First time posting here, so I'm not entirely sure if this is the right place to post, so let me know if my situation would be better placed elsewhere.
One week ago I was at Freddy's (burger place) with one of my friends and we were just eating, talking, etc. Th... | Girl says she's into me, I am into a different girl, they work at the same place that I visit weekly(ish). |
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TITLE: I think I want to switch majors.
POST: Hi r/advice. I'm new to this sub but I am feeling really confused and not sure where else to go.
I'm a junior in college. My freshman year when I was trying to decide a major, I chose design because I like to draw and I am pretty good at it. I started... | I want to switch my major but I'm worried about what my parents would think and I'm nervous about judgment from my peers and that I won't like my new major either. |
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TITLE: I'm thinking of leaving Facebook.
POST: I have been a user of Facebook since 2012. I was pretty okay with it, posting pictures and jokes. I use Facebook as both entertainment and communication. But, as a hefty amount of people have pointed out, it sucks now. And I can see why. I've only bee... | I want to leave Facebook because of all of its bullst but it's the only way I can communicate with a lot of my friends and family. Help? |
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TITLE: Advice for smoking neighbors?
POST: This hasn't been a problem until recently, but for the past few months my apartment has been smelling of cigarette smoke a few days out of the week when I come home. I know my upstairs neighbor smokes, though when I spoke to her about it she claims she 'o... | Cigarette smell seeping into my apartment, upstairs neighbor denies smoking inside and landlord will not pursue further than a phone call. |
SUBREDDIT: r/Advice
TITLE: Want to stop getting depressed everytime I feel lonely
POST: So basically I just moved in to college in a new state with no one from my high school going here. School's been going on for 2 weeks now and I have made a couple friends. Also I recently joined a lot of clubs (most of them haven'... | how can I enjoy time alone without getting depressed from loneliness AND what do I do if my only close friend as of now is the girl who rejected me but I still have feelings for |
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TITLE: I'd like to be more involved in the reddit community. What steps should I take?
POST: I wasn't even entirely sure what subreddit to post this in, as it got removed for 'askreddit', but I feel discouraged from even posting due to all the specific rules of reddit.
I in no way mean to complai... | I don't understand the rules and etiquette of reddit, but I'd like to participate more and stop being another 'lurker'. |
SUBREDDIT: r/Advice
TITLE: Self abusive GF is in real trouble
POST: My girlfriend (27) hates our living situation. We both teach in Korea and will be eligible to leave together next year, March, and go back to my home country of South Africa to start work. We've been in Korea for 4 years at this point.
She hates the... | gf stabbed herself in the leg out of frustration tonight. I don't know what the appropriate thing to do next is. |
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TITLE: How do i become closer friends with someone who has a lot of difficulty making close friends?
POST: * **If any of the two people referenced in this story read this PLEASE stop. You should know who you are. message me before and i will explain fully**
Alright so i was a senior and i just gr... | = trying to make close friends with extremely shy younger teen (not my family) don't know how to become closer without sounding weird/desperate |
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TITLE: I have a friend who is drinking throughout her pregnancy. She is giving the baby up for adoption to a nice family, and they have no idea..
POST: Hello Reddit. Thanks for reading my post.
I have a friend (early 20's) who accidentally got pregnant 8 months ago. She didn't find out for a long... | Friend is pregnant, giving the baby up for adoption. Drinking excessively throughout pregnancy. Can I do anything? (Other than talk to her about it, because that will not work.) |
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TITLE: "The Grass is Always Greener" - Career advice from those who went to college after university
POST: Hi everybody!
I'm a 24 year old female living in Ontario, Canada - and, like many in my generation, have gone through years of university only to come to the end of it wondering what the po... | I've just graduated university with no practical skills and am fantasizing constantly about going to college to learn a skilled trade. |
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TITLE: Probably just being paranoid, but I'm not sure
POST: Okay so earlier tonight my dog was out in the backyard and he started barking like crazy. This isn't terribly unusual because he's kind of territorial by nature, so we go out and sure enough, there are raccoons in the tree by the fence. H... | A creepy sounding guy called my house to tell me to stop my dog from barking and asked a lot of strange questions, should I be worried? |
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TITLE: I'm in trouble at school, really need some advice
POST: Today, in the totally unserious mood of a Friday afternoon at school, I made a huge mistake. People at my school play this game called "Oreo". If you lose, the winner picks a person for you to ask out. Well, today, I was asked out... | I flipped off a kid at school, it was all laughter, he did it back, then proceeded to turn me in. I don't usually get in trouble, advice is desperately needed. |
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TITLE: Friend's Boyfriend Might be Cheating on Her
POST: key:
mum = my mum
dad = my dad
brother = brother
M = brother's friend
Y = brother's other friend
girlfriend = my girlfriend
S = girlfriend's friend
myself = me
So I live with my mum, dad, brother, his friend (M), and my girlfriend. My girlf... | close friend's boyfriend might be cheating, girlfriend found out from distant friend, told me; how should me and my girlfriend proceed? |
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TITLE: What's a good way to get a companies attention?
POST: To make a long story short, I sent in a headset to steelseries a month and a half ago for RMA, and haven't gotten anything from them, they told me it would be coming "soon" and that they "just had to generate some more coupon codes", the... | I need a way to bring an issue to a companies attention and i can't figure out where i should post this story to get it. |
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TITLE: My Girlfriend (22) was sexually assaulted and I need advice on having follow up conversations and generally dealing with this.
POST: My Girlfriend was assaulted about two months ago. We're both in college and she does student government work so she goes to monthly conferences with students ... | Girlfriend sexually assaulted. I've tried being cool and following professional advice but she's acting very differently than how anybody's said she might. |
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TITLE: Sister just had an operation. How can I be there for her?
POST: **About procedure:** My sister (best sister I could ask for) just went through a medical procedure this morning. It's probably one of the hardest thing she'll go through. It might affect something major in her life, for the res... | Greatest sister ever got a medical procedure. She won't be able to go to gym for about two months (she loves going). I don't know what to do to make her feel better/happy. Ideas? |
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TITLE: I think a girl is about to figure out I like her. What now?
POST: (Not manly enough to use my main account, so here's a throwaway!)
Okay, here's the backstory for this:
I've known her since day one of high school. She's always been a *really* friendly person to be around, and we've talked... | Nice girl's probably about to get told I like her. Do I tell her myself, or let them do it? |
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TITLE: Boyfriend and I are getting kicked out of his dad's house because of dog
POST: My boyfriend and I moved to Albuquerque, NM on 2/15/15 to live with his dad and step-mom (who manage a storage unit facility and live in the apartment attached to the office rent free) while I went to school from... | We're getting rid of the dog. I'm requesting advice for staying in the house to complete my schooling, not pet advice. |
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TITLE: How do I (18M) abandon feelings for someone (18F)?
POST: Some people might call this "the friendzone" but whatever. We were best friends for years, we dated for four months, I still haven't gotten over it properly, she's actually now got a boyfriend and unlike our relationship, they've actu... | how do I abandon feelings for someone after crushing on them for years? Going off to uni tomorrow and need to get it out of the way now. |
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TITLE: Rent Apt or buy Fix Up House?
POST: My wife and I are in a tough debate right now and we need some advice on what to do. We want to get our own place soon, since there is now three in our family, and we are looking at either a decent sized apartment or a old cheap house that we would need t... | We are looking at a House to fix up, but has a lot of drawbacks but would be cheap, or an apartment that is a decent size but wouldn't be able to customize it at all. |
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TITLE: About a year ago I got out of a 3 year long long abusive relationship and I've been thinking about contacting my ex boyfriends mom to tell her what happend...
POST: My ex was severely emotionally and physically abusive because of some major anger problems that he has. In the end I left him ... | If I tell my ex boyfriends mom about how he abused me for 3 years, and I have very little written proof (some but not much), can he charge me with deframation of character? |
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TITLE: Got a thing from my landlord to quit and pay or some such
POST: I literally have no idea what to do, I live on cape cod which is awful enough if your not endowed with money or the money to develop skills. But than I get home from work after an almost 8 hour shift and there's a knock on my d... | room mate didn't pay rent and thought it would blow over if he could keep the cable on, what do I do |
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TITLE: If I were to die right now only 1 or 2 non-family members would show up to my funeral...
POST: Even though I've tried so hard, and I do favors for everyone I know, acting nice, laughing at everyone's jokes, and inviting people over, it just hasn't worked. Whenever I invite people over to my... | Almost nobody likes me and I have only 1 person who would consider me a real friend, who doesn't just act friendly because he pities me. If I died he is probably my only non-family member that would show up. |
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TITLE: I am texting a girl and I am just not sure how to ask her why she seems uninterested.
POST: I don't want to be blatant and just be like "let me ask you something. Why are you so uninterested in me?" Basically, I (16M) started talking to this girl as soon as she came back to my high school (... | how do I tell a girl she seems really uninterested with me, without sounding like a big fukboi? |
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TITLE: I want to quit lacrosse to get a job
POST: So I have played lacrosse for three years. It is my senior year in high school and I will be eighteen in a month exactly. My mom and I had a rocky relationship my junior year and ended up with me going to treatment for depression. My mom and I have... | Lacrosse is not fun any more and I wan't to cook and get a job at a restaurant how do I tell my mom? |
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TITLE: I am completely lost in my decision to go back to school.
POST: A little about me - I am 26, married, have a home, and am full time in the military. I am finally in a position at work where I think I can swing going back to school. I would only be able to do online college, and am just pl... | Gonna be 30 when I get out of the service and will need to find a new way to support my family. Need a degree to line myself up with a job where I can help and/or work with people. |
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TITLE: I get stepped on in life
POST: I've always spent my time working to make others happy, and Ive always been well liked and no one has hated me. but I've been in a relationship now for 4 years and since we started dating he has always told me I shouldn't allow people to walk all over me, and ... | I get stepped on, then called a coward for allowing it, but then everyone hates me when I stand up for myself. |
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TITLE: I just bought a stolen iPhone, how do I give it back to the original owner?
POST: Hey guys, so I just got a stolen phone off Craigslist without checking to see if it was reported lost/stolen (it sounds so stupid now!). Anyway, the guy I bought it from has ghosted on me, and now I am just tr... | I bought a stolen phone and want to get it back to the original owner myself without going through the Carrier. Also, the phone has been restored, is there anyway I can do this? |
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TITLE: 18 no direction in life after dropping out of law school
POST: I'm 18, finished high school with great grades and entered law school (Australian so people can enter right out of high school) but it's a pretty tedious course with limited career opportunities. I skipped a year of high school ... | Dropped out of law school, passionate about everything so at a loss for what to study and what direction to take my life |
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TITLE: I accepted an internship. Now I'm not sure if it was the best decision. Advice please?
POST: Hey people of Reddit! I have a question. I accepted a marketing internship recently to broaden my horizons on top of university course content. It is my first ever internship, so I wasn't totally su... | I accepted an internship that apparently doesn't have much work, so I'd like to get some advice on whether to stay or go as someone who likes to be busy. |
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TITLE: How to resist losing temper?
POST: Hey guys - I'm generally a happy, positive person...when I'm in public and with people I barely know. It's like a "polite"/"common courtesy" thing...
However, with my family (and sometimes closest friends), I act very closed off, very short tempered, and ... | I lost my temper a lot, especially at home with my family. What can I do to stop this and be in a better mood around them? |
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TITLE: Should I Move in With My Gf or Back to My Parents *Sigh*
POST: So at the beginning of this year, I was fresh out of college and stressed out looking for a job. I didn't know what to really do because I hadn't even had an internship. Well a few months later, my aunt tells me she knows someon... | I'm torn because no job is guaranteed in Tennessee either, but financially I would spend less. However, Chicago rules, has my gf, low rent, but no job prospects atm. |
SUBREDDIT: r/Advice
TITLE: 77yo. Mother is annoying and controlling
POST: Mom's health is steadily degrading and she's constantly complaining about the state of affairs, things she can't do anymore, etc. However, she makes it utterly impossible for anyone to help. I go spend the summer with mom and help around the ho... | Mom doesn't want help, just wants people to boss around. She's vulnerable but vigilant about her independence. Not sure what to do about it. |
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TITLE: How do I not give a fuck?
POST: Simply put, I've liked a girl for a year. She has liked me off and on over this time. The way it goes is I start to like her then she ignores me and talk to other guys. (She knows I hate it). Then after a month she'll start texting me and says she likes me. ... | Should I play hard to get and pretend I don't give a fuck? If so, how do I not give a fuck? |
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TITLE: How do you deal with someone who's very negative and argumentative?
POST: My mom is really negative and she's very argumentative. She can't admit defeat in any conversation and she cannot acknowledge she is wrong. She has no capacity to listen to any advice and anything which is meant to be... | My mom is overly aggressive,negative and argumentative and I am tired of dealing with her personality, is there anyway to get along with her? |
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TITLE: Met a guy at the bar last night who works at my dream job and who offered to put a word in for me - but I want to move to another city
POST: So I met kind of a crazy guy last night at the bar. He kept going on about how awesome and amazing I am. I mean, I'm a pretty great person, but I kno... | Opportunity for a great job in a place where I don't want to live. Possibility of a recommendation from a rather overenthusiastic guy - what should I do? |
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TITLE: Issues with controlling parents I'm a 21 year old guy.
POST: Often times it's just an issue with my mom or grandmother as my step dad is usually pretty relaxed about most stuff, every now and then I spend maybe a week at a friend's house and I get yelled at through text often while I do so ... | controlling parents won't let me do anything without permission or I risk getting yelled at constantly. I'm a 21 year old guy in college. |
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TITLE: Probably pretty standard, but I feel like this could be the best or worst decision I make. Please help.
POST: So, 11 months ago I started to date a girl I went to high school with (we didn't talk in high school). She transferred to my college to be with me. I have become deeply ingrained in... | The girl I love wants to marry me, but I don't think I'm ready. Also, I kind of want to see what other girls are like. |
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TITLE: Quitting a horrible job that doesn't take notice and want to leave in the most peaceful way.
POST: As I mentioned in the title, I am quitting a job that I absolutely hate. I work as a server in a fine dining restaurant and the money is fairly decent, about $400-700 on any given week for abo... | Quitting job at popular restaurant with great staff and patrons but horribly rude and insensitive owners. Owners do not accept 2 week notice and I would like to leave in a peaceful way for reference. |
SUBREDDIT: r/Advice
TITLE: in love with my best friend
POST: I am a girl, senior in high school. Two years ago, my best friend and I liked the same guy. We both fell for him pretty hard, but tried to not let it get between us. She and him started dating, I was fine with it and tried to move on.
He apparently took my... | My best friends are dating, I'm in love with him. What can I do to be happy, and avoid being an awful person? |
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TITLE: Need a temporary place to live
POST: I told my roommate about 4 weeks ago that I wanted to move out and she said fine, I'll move out on the 15th as that's what I was paid up to. Two weeks in I realized that I might not make the deadline as I didn't find a place yet so I told her that I'm s... | I fucked up in finding a place and my roommate flipped out when I told her I wasn't moving out on the exact date I said |
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TITLE: I'm gonna be moving in with my boyfriend, but I'm actually dreading it...
POST: Right now, because my boyfriend and I don't see each other much, we don't get sick of each other...We haven't even spent the night with each other yet because I'm always working and I work 7 days a week. Next w... | Have people ever moved in with a long-term significant other before they were married? If so was it good/bad? Is it good/bad? How is it going? |
SUBREDDIT: r/Advice
TITLE: Working with customers for the first time?
POST: I'm 16 and I've been working at this cafe for 3 years. Because I'm so shy, clumsy and generally awkward with everyone, I worked at the back and never had to engage with customers.
Next week I'm being put through trial to serve people at the ... | I'm an awkward mess and I'm working with customers for the first time. I need advice on how to stay calm or what I should expect / how to work better. |
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