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My mom loves it: Ordered this for my mom. She had been looking for this particular book. She loves it
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Super cute: Bought it for a ballet tutu but it is being worn around the house with leggings. Really cute, full skirt.
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One Star: This item is very cheaply made and not full like the picture. It resembles something from a $1. store.
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Three Stars: The blue received was not as pictured. It was lighter and greener. I had to make my own.
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Just right: Cute not too full,soft, and perfect color
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Completely agree with your sentiment here. Nothing will change until we have the technology to remove our reliance from fossil fuel. But that will take massive government support which won't happen while corruption is so prevalent in most governments.
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yes they are hypocrites, and are doing more harm than good
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Thanks for sharing your thoughts.
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Other videos show members of the public grabbing protestors across the road, enraged by their self-centered behavior.\n\nAs recently as October 2022, Just Stop Oil protestors prevented vehicles - including the emergency services - from getting to their destination, and many of the drivers who encountered the blockade were furious.\n\nIn the wake of the protests, members of these organizations appeared on television and radio shows. Liam Horton from Insulate Britain is possibly the worst of the lot, demonstrating a remarkable knack for not answering questions. (He should seriously consider becoming a full-time politician.)\n\nWe can only hope these activists will grow up a bit, come to their senses, and stop being a public nuisance.\n\nBut let's be honest. They probably won't.\n\nBlatant Hypocrisy\n\nGreen activism might be the most hypocritical political movement of modern times.\n\nThe aforementioned Liam Horton from Insulate Britain is a good example. In a laughably-stupid interview with TalkRadio, he admitted to not having insulated his own home (despite demanding that other people do so) and even went on to say he didn't really care about insulation.\n\nBut the inconsistencies of certain spokesmen are outweighed by the hypocrisy of celebrities and politicians.\n\nLet's start with the latter.\n\nBack in November 2021, the city of Glasgow hosted COP26, the twenty-sixth edition of the United Nations Climate Change Conference.\n\nLeaders from all over the world flew into Scotland in their private jets, guzzling an estimated 13,000 tonnes of CO2 into the atmosphere. President Biden then decided to add more to his carbon footprint by arriving at the conference with an entourage of more than twenty vehicles.\n\nThe irony of world leaders talking about climate change after pumping so much CO2 into the air is almost laughable.\n\nAnd it's a similar story with celebrities. Leonardo DiCaprio - despite his impressive acting chops - is one of the worst offenders. As you probably know, Leo likes to talk a good game when it comes to climate change. He even addressed the issue in his 2016 Oscar speech, describing climate change as \"the most urgent threat facing our entire species.\"\n\nBut in the very same year, he flew 8,000 miles from Cannes to New York in a private jet to accept an environmental award.\n\nIf you want to be taken seriously, you need to practice what you preach and stop being so hypocritical.\n\nIs There Any Hope?\n\nComedian Konstantin Kisin recently went viral after he gave a speech to the Oxford Union. In this speech, he spoke about climate change and pinpointed the heart of the issue:\n\n\"There is only one thing we can do in this country to stop climate change, and that is to make scientific and technological breakthroughs that will create the clean energy - that is not only clean - but also cheap.\"\n\nComplaining about the world isn't going to fix it. Instead, we need to give more kudos and financial support to those who are trying to create cheap and efficient green energy for future generations.\n\nIf you think whingers with signs are making a positive contribution to the climate crisis, I suggest you reevaluate your position.", "metadata": {"counts": {"id": "b1acea7b3ea9", "title": "The Green Movement Is Embarrassing", "subtitle": "I can’t stand these eco-maniacs", "author": "941fe9d7cff1", "publication_id": "eca1ba5ae1ca", "published_at": "2023-01-31 23:14:37", "last_modified_at": "2023-01-31 23:14:37", "boosted_at": "", "tags": ["politics", "climate-change", "protest", "green-energy", "hypocrisy"], "topics": ["climate-change"], "claps": 166, "voters": 9, "reads": 53, "views": 192, "word_count": 662, "responses_count": 3, "reading_time": 2.69811320754717, "url": "https://medium.com/illumination/the-green-movement-is-embarrassing-b1acea7b3ea9", "unique_slug": "the-green-movement-is-embarrassing-b1acea7b3ea9", "image_url": "https://miro.medium.com/0*epIhRgic_15CRV6-", "lang": "en", "is_series": false, "is_locked": false, "is_shortform": false, "top_highlight": ""}, "assets": {"other_embeds": {}, "images": ["https://miro.medium.com/0*epIhRgic_15CRV6-"], "anchors": [{"href": "https://unsplash.com/fr/@li_anlim?utm_source=medium&utm_medium=referral", "text": "Li-An Lim"}, {"href": "https://unsplash.com?utm_source=medium&utm_medium=referral", "text": "Unsplash"}, {"href": "https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=fqN6tOTVjeE&ab_channel=EveningStandard", "text": "In a video from October 2021"}, {"href": "https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=SVBfJBVYK7k&ab_channel=TheTelegraph", "text": "Other videos show"}, {"href": "https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=iaZ9aSxcgnw&ab_channel=TheSun", "text": "Just Stop Oil protestors"}, {"href": "https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=ae6z_hYb_5Y&ab_channel=JeremyVineon5-OfficialChannel", "text": "Liam Horton from Insulate Britain"}, {"href": "https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=K7lVez98FTw&ab_channel=TheTelegraph", "text": "laughably-stupid interview with TalkRadio"}, {"href": "https://www.dailyrecord.co.uk/news/scottish-news/private-jets-flying-cop26-blast-25338840", "text": " estimated 13,000 tonnes"}, {"href": "https://www.independent.co.uk/tv/cop26/joe-biden-cop26-climate-summit-v81741e7c", "text": " an entourage of more than twenty vehicles"}, {"href": "https://youtu.be/xpyrefzvTpI?t=206", "text": "2016 Oscar speech"}, {"href": "https://www.independent.co.uk/news/people/leonardo-dicaprio-flies-8-000-miles-in-private-jet-to-accept-green-award-a7042326.html", "text": "he flew 8,000 miles"}, {"href": "https://youtu.be/zJdqJu-6ZPo?t=477", "text": "the heart of the issue"}]}, "fans": {"id": "b1acea7b3ea9", "voters": ["d318b6cf7eb1", "71b1331fd89e", "e83fd2794928", "b2ed81ed12a8", "eaf2a058fd19", "a831d545f3d0"], "count": 6}, "responses": {"id": "b1acea7b3ea9", "responses": ["13d0b1e70f4d", "73798da24e2c", "4270d2f59fb0"], "count": 3}}}]
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Only in America.\n\nFirst of all, I will admit that the grenades were inert, so my apologies to anyone suffering PTSD resulting from the violence of Jan. 6.\n\nRest assured that no congressmen were hurt in the giving of this \"gift.\"\n\nBack to gunpowder damaging your brain.\n\nApparently, it is a tradition for new Republican members of the House to gift items from their home states to their fellow Republican legislators.\n\nFlorida. Hmmm ... what would you have gifted your fellow party members? Citrus fruit? Disney tee shirts? Key lime pies?\n\nWho in their right mind would think that grenades are the perfect gift from Florida?\n\nAccording to the letter accompanying the grenades, they were manufactured in Florida (who knew?) and were developed during the Vietnam war.\n\nOh, so he is giving them reminders of a war that we lost?\n\nThese grenades are not meant to be thrown by hand like in Hollywood movies. They are made to be launched by the MK 19 grenade launcher.\n\nSo he gave them the ammo without the gun? Is that anything like giving people mags from ARs but not the ARs?\n\nAnd about that \"coming together,\" Cory, sweetheart, grenades blow things apart. They don't bring them together. That's the purpose of grenades.\n\nThis guy is supposed to be an Army vet. You would think that he would know shit like that.\n\nObviously, he inhaled way too much gunpowder during his army days.\n\nThink being gifted a grenade is horrifying?\n\nHow about child-sized AR-15s? Yup, you too can now buy your son or daughter their very own child-sized battlefield weapon. Ya know, to use until they grow into the adult-sized ones.\n\nWell, much like the inert grenades, these guns are actually .22s but they look exactly like a scaled-down AR-15.\n\nThe manufacturer, WEE 1 Tactical, advertises the gun, called the JR-15 (get it?) as \"an ideal weapon to 'teach a younger enthusiast.'\"\n\nI call it an ideal way to get your child killed.\n\nMy biggest worry is trigger-happy police officers. Whenever they see a \"suspect\" with anything that even vaguely resembles a gun, they shoot first and ask questions later.\n\nChildren, holding toy guns, have been killed by the police. Police officers don't bother asking the child if the weapon they are holding is a toy gun or a real gun. They just (say it with me) shoot first and ask questions later.\n\nNow imagine the police being notified by a busybody neighbor that little Johnnie is running around his backyard and firing an AR-15. Do you honestly think that the responding officers are going to stop and check to see if Johnny is holding a JR-15 or an AR-15?\n\nNope, they will just fire every round they have to protect themselves from a perceived battlefield weapon.\n\nWhat kind of a parent buys their child something that will paint a target on their backs (and fronts)?\n\nFortunately, seven senators, including the normally milquetoast Majority Leader, Chuck Schumer (D-N.Y.) are urging the Federal Trade Commission (FTC) to investigate \"the marketing of highly lethal firearms, including assault-style rifles, to impressionable young people.\"\n\nWee 1's response?\n\n\"It's a misnomer that this product is being targeted and advertised to children. Children can't buy it.\"\n\nReally?\n\nChildren can't buy the toys advertised on TV either and yet toy manufacturers spend millions marketing toys to children, not their parents. You never see any commercials for Barbies during Sunday Night Football, only during PAW Patrol.\n\nThe only way that I can explain why anyone would think that manufacturing child-size weapons of war and any parent who would actually buy a child-size weapon of war, is that they have all inhaled way too much gunpowder.\n\nYa know, every time I think that this whole \"everybody needs an arsenal to protect themselves\" thing can't possibly get any worse, it does.\n\nAnd why is it that no one in the heavily armed parts of the country can see how insane this all is?\n\nMust be the gunpowder. It's melting their brains.", "metadata": {"counts": {"id": "9e5543ae8650", "title": "Does Inhaling Gunpowder Damage Your Brain?", "subtitle": "How else to explain giving grenades as gifts or selling child-sized AR-15s", "author": "ea7d486472f1", "publication_id": "65fc9594d35c", "published_at": "2023-01-31 23:12:38", "last_modified_at": "2023-01-31 23:12:38", "boosted_at": "", "tags": ["politics", "government", "gun-control", "republican-party", "grenade"], "topics": ["politics"], "claps": 488, "voters": 27, "reads": 145, "views": 245, "word_count": 782, "responses_count": 5, "reading_time": 3.150943396226415, "url": "https://medium.com/politically-speaking/does-inhaling-gunpowder-damage-your-brain-9e5543ae8650", "unique_slug": "does-inhaling-gunpowder-damage-your-brain-9e5543ae8650", "image_url": "https://miro.medium.com/0*6a-W97yrqQX7SXdk", "lang": "en", "is_series": false, "is_locked": true, "is_shortform": false, "top_highlight": "Must be the gunpowder. 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Only in America.\n\nFirst of all, I will admit that the grenades were inert, so my apologies to anyone suffering PTSD resulting from the violence of Jan. 6.\n\nRest assured that no congressmen were hurt in the giving of this \"gift.\"\n\nBack to gunpowder damaging your brain.\n\nApparently, it is a tradition for new Republican members of the House to gift items from their home states to their fellow Republican legislators.\n\nFlorida. Hmmm ... what would you have gifted your fellow party members? Citrus fruit? Disney tee shirts? Key lime pies?\n\nWho in their right mind would think that grenades are the perfect gift from Florida?\n\nAccording to the letter accompanying the grenades, they were manufactured in Florida (who knew?) and were developed during the Vietnam war.\n\nOh, so he is giving them reminders of a war that we lost?\n\nThese grenades are not meant to be thrown by hand like in Hollywood movies. They are made to be launched by the MK 19 grenade launcher.\n\nSo he gave them the ammo without the gun? Is that anything like giving people mags from ARs but not the ARs?\n\nAnd about that \"coming together,\" Cory, sweetheart, grenades blow things apart. They don't bring them together. That's the purpose of grenades.\n\nThis guy is supposed to be an Army vet. You would think that he would know shit like that.\n\nObviously, he inhaled way too much gunpowder during his army days.\n\nThink being gifted a grenade is horrifying?\n\nHow about child-sized AR-15s? Yup, you too can now buy your son or daughter their very own child-sized battlefield weapon. Ya know, to use until they grow into the adult-sized ones.\n\nWell, much like the inert grenades, these guns are actually .22s but they look exactly like a scaled-down AR-15.\n\nThe manufacturer, WEE 1 Tactical, advertises the gun, called the JR-15 (get it?) as \"an ideal weapon to 'teach a younger enthusiast.'\"\n\nI call it an ideal way to get your child killed.\n\nMy biggest worry is trigger-happy police officers. Whenever they see a \"suspect\" with anything that even vaguely resembles a gun, they shoot first and ask questions later.\n\nChildren, holding toy guns, have been killed by the police. Police officers don't bother asking the child if the weapon they are holding is a toy gun or a real gun. They just (say it with me) shoot first and ask questions later.\n\nNow imagine the police being notified by a busybody neighbor that little Johnnie is running around his backyard and firing an AR-15. Do you honestly think that the responding officers are going to stop and check to see if Johnny is holding a JR-15 or an AR-15?\n\nNope, they will just fire every round they have to protect themselves from a perceived battlefield weapon.\n\nWhat kind of a parent buys their child something that will paint a target on their backs (and fronts)?\n\nFortunately, seven senators, including the normally milquetoast Majority Leader, Chuck Schumer (D-N.Y.) are urging the Federal Trade Commission (FTC) to investigate \"the marketing of highly lethal firearms, including assault-style rifles, to impressionable young people.\"\n\nWee 1's response?\n\n\"It's a misnomer that this product is being targeted and advertised to children. Children can't buy it.\"\n\nReally?\n\nChildren can't buy the toys advertised on TV either and yet toy manufacturers spend millions marketing toys to children, not their parents. You never see any commercials for Barbies during Sunday Night Football, only during PAW Patrol.\n\nThe only way that I can explain why anyone would think that manufacturing child-size weapons of war and any parent who would actually buy a child-size weapon of war, is that they have all inhaled way too much gunpowder.\n\nYa know, every time I think that this whole \"everybody needs an arsenal to protect themselves\" thing can't possibly get any worse, it does.\n\nAnd why is it that no one in the heavily armed parts of the country can see how insane this all is?\n\nMust be the gunpowder. 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[{"role": "ea7d486472f1", "content": "POLITICS\n\nDoes Inhaling Gunpowder Damage Your Brain?\n\nHow else to explain giving grenades as gifts or selling child-sized AR-15s\n\nI've decided that inhaling too much gunpowder damages your brain. Ya know, like sniffing glue. How else to explain people who think that running a combination gun range and wedding venue is a good idea?\n\nGuns and alcohol. What could possibly go wrong?\n\nOr how about the brand-new Republican Representative from Florida, Cory Mills, who thought it was a good idea to send grenades to his fellow Republican Congressmen and invite them to \"come together?\"\n\nBonding over explosives. Only in America.\n\nFirst of all, I will admit that the grenades were inert, so my apologies to anyone suffering PTSD resulting from the violence of Jan. 6.\n\nRest assured that no congressmen were hurt in the giving of this \"gift.\"\n\nBack to gunpowder damaging your brain.\n\nApparently, it is a tradition for new Republican members of the House to gift items from their home states to their fellow Republican legislators.\n\nFlorida. Hmmm ... what would you have gifted your fellow party members? Citrus fruit? Disney tee shirts? Key lime pies?\n\nWho in their right mind would think that grenades are the perfect gift from Florida?\n\nAccording to the letter accompanying the grenades, they were manufactured in Florida (who knew?) and were developed during the Vietnam war.\n\nOh, so he is giving them reminders of a war that we lost?\n\nThese grenades are not meant to be thrown by hand like in Hollywood movies. They are made to be launched by the MK 19 grenade launcher.\n\nSo he gave them the ammo without the gun? Is that anything like giving people mags from ARs but not the ARs?\n\nAnd about that \"coming together,\" Cory, sweetheart, grenades blow things apart. They don't bring them together. That's the purpose of grenades.\n\nThis guy is supposed to be an Army vet. You would think that he would know shit like that.\n\nObviously, he inhaled way too much gunpowder during his army days.\n\nThink being gifted a grenade is horrifying?\n\nHow about child-sized AR-15s? Yup, you too can now buy your son or daughter their very own child-sized battlefield weapon. Ya know, to use until they grow into the adult-sized ones.\n\nWell, much like the inert grenades, these guns are actually .22s but they look exactly like a scaled-down AR-15.\n\nThe manufacturer, WEE 1 Tactical, advertises the gun, called the JR-15 (get it?) as \"an ideal weapon to 'teach a younger enthusiast.'\"\n\nI call it an ideal way to get your child killed.\n\nMy biggest worry is trigger-happy police officers. Whenever they see a \"suspect\" with anything that even vaguely resembles a gun, they shoot first and ask questions later.\n\nChildren, holding toy guns, have been killed by the police. Police officers don't bother asking the child if the weapon they are holding is a toy gun or a real gun. They just (say it with me) shoot first and ask questions later.\n\nNow imagine the police being notified by a busybody neighbor that little Johnnie is running around his backyard and firing an AR-15. Do you honestly think that the responding officers are going to stop and check to see if Johnny is holding a JR-15 or an AR-15?\n\nNope, they will just fire every round they have to protect themselves from a perceived battlefield weapon.\n\nWhat kind of a parent buys their child something that will paint a target on their backs (and fronts)?\n\nFortunately, seven senators, including the normally milquetoast Majority Leader, Chuck Schumer (D-N.Y.) are urging the Federal Trade Commission (FTC) to investigate \"the marketing of highly lethal firearms, including assault-style rifles, to impressionable young people.\"\n\nWee 1's response?\n\n\"It's a misnomer that this product is being targeted and advertised to children. Children can't buy it.\"\n\nReally?\n\nChildren can't buy the toys advertised on TV either and yet toy manufacturers spend millions marketing toys to children, not their parents. You never see any commercials for Barbies during Sunday Night Football, only during PAW Patrol.\n\nThe only way that I can explain why anyone would think that manufacturing child-size weapons of war and any parent who would actually buy a child-size weapon of war, is that they have all inhaled way too much gunpowder.\n\nYa know, every time I think that this whole \"everybody needs an arsenal to protect themselves\" thing can't possibly get any worse, it does.\n\nAnd why is it that no one in the heavily armed parts of the country can see how insane this all is?\n\nMust be the gunpowder. 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I guess there are no laws against child-size assault rifles, so they need to sell a few million before a law or two are written to preclude children from owning their very own AR (excuse me, JR). Does it matter what size the bullet is? Will firing it point blank at another child (or your mom when you're really pissed) keep them from injury?
This is just one more notch on the tax-exempt gun manufacturers belt. Children were already killing children prior to this new and improved assault weapon's debut. Now it'll just make it a little easier, and the injuries and deaths a little greater. But the kiddies will be proud to own an assault weapon just like mom and dad, and schools will be investing a great deal more money in bulletproof windows to keep those wee ones safe. Corporate America salutes them all.
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Only in America.\n\nFirst of all, I will admit that the grenades were inert, so my apologies to anyone suffering PTSD resulting from the violence of Jan. 6.\n\nRest assured that no congressmen were hurt in the giving of this \"gift.\"\n\nBack to gunpowder damaging your brain.\n\nApparently, it is a tradition for new Republican members of the House to gift items from their home states to their fellow Republican legislators.\n\nFlorida. Hmmm ... what would you have gifted your fellow party members? Citrus fruit? Disney tee shirts? Key lime pies?\n\nWho in their right mind would think that grenades are the perfect gift from Florida?\n\nAccording to the letter accompanying the grenades, they were manufactured in Florida (who knew?) and were developed during the Vietnam war.\n\nOh, so he is giving them reminders of a war that we lost?\n\nThese grenades are not meant to be thrown by hand like in Hollywood movies. They are made to be launched by the MK 19 grenade launcher.\n\nSo he gave them the ammo without the gun? Is that anything like giving people mags from ARs but not the ARs?\n\nAnd about that \"coming together,\" Cory, sweetheart, grenades blow things apart. They don't bring them together. That's the purpose of grenades.\n\nThis guy is supposed to be an Army vet. You would think that he would know shit like that.\n\nObviously, he inhaled way too much gunpowder during his army days.\n\nThink being gifted a grenade is horrifying?\n\nHow about child-sized AR-15s? Yup, you too can now buy your son or daughter their very own child-sized battlefield weapon. Ya know, to use until they grow into the adult-sized ones.\n\nWell, much like the inert grenades, these guns are actually .22s but they look exactly like a scaled-down AR-15.\n\nThe manufacturer, WEE 1 Tactical, advertises the gun, called the JR-15 (get it?) as \"an ideal weapon to 'teach a younger enthusiast.'\"\n\nI call it an ideal way to get your child killed.\n\nMy biggest worry is trigger-happy police officers. Whenever they see a \"suspect\" with anything that even vaguely resembles a gun, they shoot first and ask questions later.\n\nChildren, holding toy guns, have been killed by the police. Police officers don't bother asking the child if the weapon they are holding is a toy gun or a real gun. They just (say it with me) shoot first and ask questions later.\n\nNow imagine the police being notified by a busybody neighbor that little Johnnie is running around his backyard and firing an AR-15. Do you honestly think that the responding officers are going to stop and check to see if Johnny is holding a JR-15 or an AR-15?\n\nNope, they will just fire every round they have to protect themselves from a perceived battlefield weapon.\n\nWhat kind of a parent buys their child something that will paint a target on their backs (and fronts)?\n\nFortunately, seven senators, including the normally milquetoast Majority Leader, Chuck Schumer (D-N.Y.) are urging the Federal Trade Commission (FTC) to investigate \"the marketing of highly lethal firearms, including assault-style rifles, to impressionable young people.\"\n\nWee 1's response?\n\n\"It's a misnomer that this product is being targeted and advertised to children. Children can't buy it.\"\n\nReally?\n\nChildren can't buy the toys advertised on TV either and yet toy manufacturers spend millions marketing toys to children, not their parents. 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I don't think gun manufacturers are tax exempt. They are exempt from being sued so they can't be held accountable for the injuries and deaths caused by their products.
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Does it matter what size the bullet is? Will firing it point blank at another child (or your mom when you're really pissed) keep them from injury? \nThis is just one more notch on the tax-exempt gun manufacturers belt. Children were already killing children prior to this new and improved assault weapon's debut. Now it'll just make it a little easier, and the injuries and deaths a little greater. But the kiddies will be proud to own an assault weapon just like mom and dad, and schools will be investing a great deal more money in bulletproof windows to keep those wee ones safe. 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Under certain conditions they are tax-exempt. So are ammo manufacturers.
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Only in America.\n\nFirst of all, I will admit that the grenades were inert, so my apologies to anyone suffering PTSD resulting from the violence of Jan. 6.\n\nRest assured that no congressmen were hurt in the giving of this \"gift.\"\n\nBack to gunpowder damaging your brain.\n\nApparently, it is a tradition for new Republican members of the House to gift items from their home states to their fellow Republican legislators.\n\nFlorida. Hmmm ... what would you have gifted your fellow party members? Citrus fruit? Disney tee shirts? Key lime pies?\n\nWho in their right mind would think that grenades are the perfect gift from Florida?\n\nAccording to the letter accompanying the grenades, they were manufactured in Florida (who knew?) and were developed during the Vietnam war.\n\nOh, so he is giving them reminders of a war that we lost?\n\nThese grenades are not meant to be thrown by hand like in Hollywood movies. They are made to be launched by the MK 19 grenade launcher.\n\nSo he gave them the ammo without the gun? Is that anything like giving people mags from ARs but not the ARs?\n\nAnd about that \"coming together,\" Cory, sweetheart, grenades blow things apart. They don't bring them together. That's the purpose of grenades.\n\nThis guy is supposed to be an Army vet. You would think that he would know shit like that.\n\nObviously, he inhaled way too much gunpowder during his army days.\n\nThink being gifted a grenade is horrifying?\n\nHow about child-sized AR-15s? Yup, you too can now buy your son or daughter their very own child-sized battlefield weapon. Ya know, to use until they grow into the adult-sized ones.\n\nWell, much like the inert grenades, these guns are actually .22s but they look exactly like a scaled-down AR-15.\n\nThe manufacturer, WEE 1 Tactical, advertises the gun, called the JR-15 (get it?) as \"an ideal weapon to 'teach a younger enthusiast.'\"\n\nI call it an ideal way to get your child killed.\n\nMy biggest worry is trigger-happy police officers. Whenever they see a \"suspect\" with anything that even vaguely resembles a gun, they shoot first and ask questions later.\n\nChildren, holding toy guns, have been killed by the police. Police officers don't bother asking the child if the weapon they are holding is a toy gun or a real gun. They just (say it with me) shoot first and ask questions later.\n\nNow imagine the police being notified by a busybody neighbor that little Johnnie is running around his backyard and firing an AR-15. Do you honestly think that the responding officers are going to stop and check to see if Johnny is holding a JR-15 or an AR-15?\n\nNope, they will just fire every round they have to protect themselves from a perceived battlefield weapon.\n\nWhat kind of a parent buys their child something that will paint a target on their backs (and fronts)?\n\nFortunately, seven senators, including the normally milquetoast Majority Leader, Chuck Schumer (D-N.Y.) are urging the Federal Trade Commission (FTC) to investigate \"the marketing of highly lethal firearms, including assault-style rifles, to impressionable young people.\"\n\nWee 1's response?\n\n\"It's a misnomer that this product is being targeted and advertised to children. Children can't buy it.\"\n\nReally?\n\nChildren can't buy the toys advertised on TV either and yet toy manufacturers spend millions marketing toys to children, not their parents. You never see any commercials for Barbies during Sunday Night Football, only during PAW Patrol.\n\nThe only way that I can explain why anyone would think that manufacturing child-size weapons of war and any parent who would actually buy a child-size weapon of war, is that they have all inhaled way too much gunpowder.\n\nYa know, every time I think that this whole \"everybody needs an arsenal to protect themselves\" thing can't possibly get any worse, it does.\n\nAnd why is it that no one in the heavily armed parts of the country can see how insane this all is?\n\nMust be the gunpowder. 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Does it matter what size the bullet is? Will firing it point blank at another child (or your mom when you're really pissed) keep them from injury? \nThis is just one more notch on the tax-exempt gun manufacturers belt. Children were already killing children prior to this new and improved assault weapon's debut. Now it'll just make it a little easier, and the injuries and deaths a little greater. But the kiddies will be proud to own an assault weapon just like mom and dad, and schools will be investing a great deal more money in bulletproof windows to keep those wee ones safe. Corporate America salutes them all.", "metadata": {"counts": {"id": "1668097bd886", "title": "I guess there are no laws against child-size assault rifles, so they need to sell a few million…", "subtitle": "", "author": "8b257772d976", "publication_id": "*Self-Published*", "published_at": "2023-01-31 23:49:27", "last_modified_at": "2023-01-31 23:49:27", "boosted_at": "", "tags": [], "topics": [], "claps": 2, "voters": 1, "reads": 0, "views": 14, "word_count": 148, "responses_count": 2, "reading_time": 0.5584905660377358, "url": "https://medium.com/@kconnor2019/i-guess-there-are-no-laws-against-child-size-assault-rifles-so-they-need-to-sell-a-few-million-1668097bd886", "unique_slug": "i-guess-there-are-no-laws-against-child-size-assault-rifles-so-they-need-to-sell-a-few-million-1668097bd886", "image_url": "", "lang": "en", "is_series": false, "is_locked": false, "is_shortform": true, "top_highlight": ""}, "assets": {"other_embeds": {}}, "fans": {"id": "1668097bd886", "voters": ["f7fb5578b15e"], "count": 1}, "responses": {"id": "1668097bd886", "responses": ["8fc734383e6e", "275d288be7eb"], "count": 2}}}, {"role": "ea7d486472f1", "content": "I don't think gun manufacturers are tax exempt. They are exempt from being sued so they can't be held accountable for the injuries and deaths caused by their products.", "metadata": {"counts": {"id": "8fc734383e6e", "title": "I don't think gun manufacturers are tax exempt.", "subtitle": "", "author": "ea7d486472f1", "publication_id": "*Self-Published*", "published_at": "2023-02-01 21:12:21", "last_modified_at": "2023-02-01 21:12:21", "boosted_at": "", "tags": [], "topics": [], "claps": 10, "voters": 1, "reads": 0, "views": 4, "word_count": 29, "responses_count": 2, "reading_time": 0.10943396226415095, "url": "https://carenawhite.medium.com/i-dont-think-gun-manufacturers-are-tax-exempt-8fc734383e6e", "unique_slug": "i-dont-think-gun-manufacturers-are-tax-exempt-8fc734383e6e", "image_url": "", "lang": "en", "is_series": false, "is_locked": false, "is_shortform": true, "top_highlight": ""}, "assets": {"other_embeds": {}}, "fans": {"id": "8fc734383e6e", "voters": ["8b257772d976"], "count": 1}, "responses": {"id": "8fc734383e6e", "responses": ["d5c786a9938a", "a5e919df30a3"], "count": 2}}}]
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Only in America.\n\nFirst of all, I will admit that the grenades were inert, so my apologies to anyone suffering PTSD resulting from the violence of Jan. 6.\n\nRest assured that no congressmen were hurt in the giving of this \"gift.\"\n\nBack to gunpowder damaging your brain.\n\nApparently, it is a tradition for new Republican members of the House to gift items from their home states to their fellow Republican legislators.\n\nFlorida. Hmmm ... what would you have gifted your fellow party members? Citrus fruit? Disney tee shirts? Key lime pies?\n\nWho in their right mind would think that grenades are the perfect gift from Florida?\n\nAccording to the letter accompanying the grenades, they were manufactured in Florida (who knew?) and were developed during the Vietnam war.\n\nOh, so he is giving them reminders of a war that we lost?\n\nThese grenades are not meant to be thrown by hand like in Hollywood movies. They are made to be launched by the MK 19 grenade launcher.\n\nSo he gave them the ammo without the gun? Is that anything like giving people mags from ARs but not the ARs?\n\nAnd about that \"coming together,\" Cory, sweetheart, grenades blow things apart. They don't bring them together. That's the purpose of grenades.\n\nThis guy is supposed to be an Army vet. You would think that he would know shit like that.\n\nObviously, he inhaled way too much gunpowder during his army days.\n\nThink being gifted a grenade is horrifying?\n\nHow about child-sized AR-15s? Yup, you too can now buy your son or daughter their very own child-sized battlefield weapon. Ya know, to use until they grow into the adult-sized ones.\n\nWell, much like the inert grenades, these guns are actually .22s but they look exactly like a scaled-down AR-15.\n\nThe manufacturer, WEE 1 Tactical, advertises the gun, called the JR-15 (get it?) as \"an ideal weapon to 'teach a younger enthusiast.'\"\n\nI call it an ideal way to get your child killed.\n\nMy biggest worry is trigger-happy police officers. Whenever they see a \"suspect\" with anything that even vaguely resembles a gun, they shoot first and ask questions later.\n\nChildren, holding toy guns, have been killed by the police. Police officers don't bother asking the child if the weapon they are holding is a toy gun or a real gun. They just (say it with me) shoot first and ask questions later.\n\nNow imagine the police being notified by a busybody neighbor that little Johnnie is running around his backyard and firing an AR-15. Do you honestly think that the responding officers are going to stop and check to see if Johnny is holding a JR-15 or an AR-15?\n\nNope, they will just fire every round they have to protect themselves from a perceived battlefield weapon.\n\nWhat kind of a parent buys their child something that will paint a target on their backs (and fronts)?\n\nFortunately, seven senators, including the normally milquetoast Majority Leader, Chuck Schumer (D-N.Y.) are urging the Federal Trade Commission (FTC) to investigate \"the marketing of highly lethal firearms, including assault-style rifles, to impressionable young people.\"\n\nWee 1's response?\n\n\"It's a misnomer that this product is being targeted and advertised to children. Children can't buy it.\"\n\nReally?\n\nChildren can't buy the toys advertised on TV either and yet toy manufacturers spend millions marketing toys to children, not their parents. You never see any commercials for Barbies during Sunday Night Football, only during PAW Patrol.\n\nThe only way that I can explain why anyone would think that manufacturing child-size weapons of war and any parent who would actually buy a child-size weapon of war, is that they have all inhaled way too much gunpowder.\n\nYa know, every time I think that this whole \"everybody needs an arsenal to protect themselves\" thing can't possibly get any worse, it does.\n\nAnd why is it that no one in the heavily armed parts of the country can see how insane this all is?\n\nMust be the gunpowder. It's melting their brains.", "metadata": {"counts": {"id": "9e5543ae8650", "title": "Does Inhaling Gunpowder Damage Your Brain?", "subtitle": "How else to explain giving grenades as gifts or selling child-sized AR-15s", "author": "ea7d486472f1", "publication_id": "65fc9594d35c", "published_at": "2023-01-31 23:12:38", "last_modified_at": "2023-01-31 23:12:38", "boosted_at": "", "tags": ["politics", "government", "gun-control", "republican-party", "grenade"], "topics": ["politics"], "claps": 488, "voters": 27, "reads": 145, "views": 245, "word_count": 782, "responses_count": 5, "reading_time": 3.150943396226415, "url": "https://medium.com/politically-speaking/does-inhaling-gunpowder-damage-your-brain-9e5543ae8650", "unique_slug": "does-inhaling-gunpowder-damage-your-brain-9e5543ae8650", "image_url": "https://miro.medium.com/0*6a-W97yrqQX7SXdk", "lang": "en", "is_series": false, "is_locked": true, "is_shortform": false, "top_highlight": "Must be the gunpowder. 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Does it matter what size the bullet is? Will firing it point blank at another child (or your mom when you're really pissed) keep them from injury? \nThis is just one more notch on the tax-exempt gun manufacturers belt. Children were already killing children prior to this new and improved assault weapon's debut. Now it'll just make it a little easier, and the injuries and deaths a little greater. But the kiddies will be proud to own an assault weapon just like mom and dad, and schools will be investing a great deal more money in bulletproof windows to keep those wee ones safe. Corporate America salutes them all.", "metadata": {"counts": {"id": "1668097bd886", "title": "I guess there are no laws against child-size assault rifles, so they need to sell a few million…", "subtitle": "", "author": "8b257772d976", "publication_id": "*Self-Published*", "published_at": "2023-01-31 23:49:27", "last_modified_at": "2023-01-31 23:49:27", "boosted_at": "", "tags": [], "topics": [], "claps": 2, "voters": 1, "reads": 0, "views": 14, "word_count": 148, "responses_count": 2, "reading_time": 0.5584905660377358, "url": "https://medium.com/@kconnor2019/i-guess-there-are-no-laws-against-child-size-assault-rifles-so-they-need-to-sell-a-few-million-1668097bd886", "unique_slug": "i-guess-there-are-no-laws-against-child-size-assault-rifles-so-they-need-to-sell-a-few-million-1668097bd886", "image_url": "", "lang": "en", "is_series": false, "is_locked": false, "is_shortform": true, "top_highlight": ""}, "assets": {"other_embeds": {}}, "fans": {"id": "1668097bd886", "voters": ["f7fb5578b15e"], "count": 1}, "responses": {"id": "1668097bd886", "responses": ["8fc734383e6e", "275d288be7eb"], "count": 2}}}, {"role": "ea7d486472f1", "content": "I don't think gun manufacturers are tax exempt. They are exempt from being sued so they can't be held accountable for the injuries and deaths caused by their products.", "metadata": {"counts": {"id": "8fc734383e6e", "title": "I don't think gun manufacturers are tax exempt.", "subtitle": "", "author": "ea7d486472f1", "publication_id": "*Self-Published*", "published_at": "2023-02-01 21:12:21", "last_modified_at": "2023-02-01 21:12:21", "boosted_at": "", "tags": [], "topics": [], "claps": 10, "voters": 1, "reads": 0, "views": 4, "word_count": 29, "responses_count": 2, "reading_time": 0.10943396226415095, "url": "https://carenawhite.medium.com/i-dont-think-gun-manufacturers-are-tax-exempt-8fc734383e6e", "unique_slug": "i-dont-think-gun-manufacturers-are-tax-exempt-8fc734383e6e", "image_url": "", "lang": "en", "is_series": false, "is_locked": false, "is_shortform": true, "top_highlight": ""}, "assets": {"other_embeds": {}}, "fans": {"id": "8fc734383e6e", "voters": ["8b257772d976"], "count": 1}, "responses": {"id": "8fc734383e6e", "responses": ["d5c786a9938a", "a5e919df30a3"], "count": 2}}}, {"role": "8b257772d976", "content": "Under certain conditions they are tax-exempt. So are ammo manufacturers.", "metadata": {"counts": {"id": "d5c786a9938a", "title": "Under certain conditions they are tax-exempt. So are ammo manufacturers.", "subtitle": "", "author": "8b257772d976", "publication_id": "*Self-Published*", "published_at": "2023-02-01 21:34:32", "last_modified_at": "2023-02-01 21:34:32", "boosted_at": "", "tags": [], "topics": [], "claps": 0, "voters": 0, "reads": 0, "views": 2, "word_count": 11, "responses_count": 1, "reading_time": 0.04150943396226415, "url": "https://medium.com/@kconnor2019/under-certain-conditions-they-are-tax-exempt-so-are-ammo-manufacturers-d5c786a9938a", "unique_slug": "under-certain-conditions-they-are-tax-exempt-so-are-ammo-manufacturers-d5c786a9938a", "image_url": "", "lang": "en", "is_series": false, "is_locked": false, "is_shortform": true, "top_highlight": ""}, "assets": {"other_embeds": {}}, "fans": {"id": "d5c786a9938a", "voters": [], "count": 0}, "responses": {"id": "d5c786a9938a", "responses": ["13f431805882"], "count": 1}}}]
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I thought I read they had a tax-exempt status as well. I better check on that one. Thanks for the heads up.
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Only in America.\n\nFirst of all, I will admit that the grenades were inert, so my apologies to anyone suffering PTSD resulting from the violence of Jan. 6.\n\nRest assured that no congressmen were hurt in the giving of this \"gift.\"\n\nBack to gunpowder damaging your brain.\n\nApparently, it is a tradition for new Republican members of the House to gift items from their home states to their fellow Republican legislators.\n\nFlorida. Hmmm ... what would you have gifted your fellow party members? Citrus fruit? Disney tee shirts? Key lime pies?\n\nWho in their right mind would think that grenades are the perfect gift from Florida?\n\nAccording to the letter accompanying the grenades, they were manufactured in Florida (who knew?) and were developed during the Vietnam war.\n\nOh, so he is giving them reminders of a war that we lost?\n\nThese grenades are not meant to be thrown by hand like in Hollywood movies. They are made to be launched by the MK 19 grenade launcher.\n\nSo he gave them the ammo without the gun? Is that anything like giving people mags from ARs but not the ARs?\n\nAnd about that \"coming together,\" Cory, sweetheart, grenades blow things apart. They don't bring them together. That's the purpose of grenades.\n\nThis guy is supposed to be an Army vet. You would think that he would know shit like that.\n\nObviously, he inhaled way too much gunpowder during his army days.\n\nThink being gifted a grenade is horrifying?\n\nHow about child-sized AR-15s? Yup, you too can now buy your son or daughter their very own child-sized battlefield weapon. Ya know, to use until they grow into the adult-sized ones.\n\nWell, much like the inert grenades, these guns are actually .22s but they look exactly like a scaled-down AR-15.\n\nThe manufacturer, WEE 1 Tactical, advertises the gun, called the JR-15 (get it?) as \"an ideal weapon to 'teach a younger enthusiast.'\"\n\nI call it an ideal way to get your child killed.\n\nMy biggest worry is trigger-happy police officers. Whenever they see a \"suspect\" with anything that even vaguely resembles a gun, they shoot first and ask questions later.\n\nChildren, holding toy guns, have been killed by the police. Police officers don't bother asking the child if the weapon they are holding is a toy gun or a real gun. They just (say it with me) shoot first and ask questions later.\n\nNow imagine the police being notified by a busybody neighbor that little Johnnie is running around his backyard and firing an AR-15. Do you honestly think that the responding officers are going to stop and check to see if Johnny is holding a JR-15 or an AR-15?\n\nNope, they will just fire every round they have to protect themselves from a perceived battlefield weapon.\n\nWhat kind of a parent buys their child something that will paint a target on their backs (and fronts)?\n\nFortunately, seven senators, including the normally milquetoast Majority Leader, Chuck Schumer (D-N.Y.) are urging the Federal Trade Commission (FTC) to investigate \"the marketing of highly lethal firearms, including assault-style rifles, to impressionable young people.\"\n\nWee 1's response?\n\n\"It's a misnomer that this product is being targeted and advertised to children. Children can't buy it.\"\n\nReally?\n\nChildren can't buy the toys advertised on TV either and yet toy manufacturers spend millions marketing toys to children, not their parents. You never see any commercials for Barbies during Sunday Night Football, only during PAW Patrol.\n\nThe only way that I can explain why anyone would think that manufacturing child-size weapons of war and any parent who would actually buy a child-size weapon of war, is that they have all inhaled way too much gunpowder.\n\nYa know, every time I think that this whole \"everybody needs an arsenal to protect themselves\" thing can't possibly get any worse, it does.\n\nAnd why is it that no one in the heavily armed parts of the country can see how insane this all is?\n\nMust be the gunpowder. 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Does it matter what size the bullet is? Will firing it point blank at another child (or your mom when you're really pissed) keep them from injury? \nThis is just one more notch on the tax-exempt gun manufacturers belt. Children were already killing children prior to this new and improved assault weapon's debut. Now it'll just make it a little easier, and the injuries and deaths a little greater. But the kiddies will be proud to own an assault weapon just like mom and dad, and schools will be investing a great deal more money in bulletproof windows to keep those wee ones safe. Corporate America salutes them all.", "metadata": {"counts": {"id": "1668097bd886", "title": "I guess there are no laws against child-size assault rifles, so they need to sell a few million…", "subtitle": "", "author": "8b257772d976", "publication_id": "*Self-Published*", "published_at": "2023-01-31 23:49:27", "last_modified_at": "2023-01-31 23:49:27", "boosted_at": "", "tags": [], "topics": [], "claps": 2, "voters": 1, "reads": 0, "views": 14, "word_count": 148, "responses_count": 2, "reading_time": 0.5584905660377358, "url": "https://medium.com/@kconnor2019/i-guess-there-are-no-laws-against-child-size-assault-rifles-so-they-need-to-sell-a-few-million-1668097bd886", "unique_slug": "i-guess-there-are-no-laws-against-child-size-assault-rifles-so-they-need-to-sell-a-few-million-1668097bd886", "image_url": "", "lang": "en", "is_series": false, "is_locked": false, "is_shortform": true, "top_highlight": ""}, "assets": {"other_embeds": {}}, "fans": {"id": "1668097bd886", "voters": ["f7fb5578b15e"], "count": 1}, "responses": {"id": "1668097bd886", "responses": ["8fc734383e6e", "275d288be7eb"], "count": 2}}}, {"role": "ea7d486472f1", "content": "I don't think gun manufacturers are tax exempt. They are exempt from being sued so they can't be held accountable for the injuries and deaths caused by their products.", "metadata": {"counts": {"id": "8fc734383e6e", "title": "I don't think gun manufacturers are tax exempt.", "subtitle": "", "author": "ea7d486472f1", "publication_id": "*Self-Published*", "published_at": "2023-02-01 21:12:21", "last_modified_at": "2023-02-01 21:12:21", "boosted_at": "", "tags": [], "topics": [], "claps": 10, "voters": 1, "reads": 0, "views": 4, "word_count": 29, "responses_count": 2, "reading_time": 0.10943396226415095, "url": "https://carenawhite.medium.com/i-dont-think-gun-manufacturers-are-tax-exempt-8fc734383e6e", "unique_slug": "i-dont-think-gun-manufacturers-are-tax-exempt-8fc734383e6e", "image_url": "", "lang": "en", "is_series": false, "is_locked": false, "is_shortform": true, "top_highlight": ""}, "assets": {"other_embeds": {}}, "fans": {"id": "8fc734383e6e", "voters": ["8b257772d976"], "count": 1}, "responses": {"id": "8fc734383e6e", "responses": ["d5c786a9938a", "a5e919df30a3"], "count": 2}}}]
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I don't think any of us need weapons of war unless we're soldiers. The fact they're selling similar weapons to parents so they can give them to their children is positively chilling. It seems like they're trying to form a Christian army to fight the rest of us who are happy with a secular country.
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Only in America.\n\nFirst of all, I will admit that the grenades were inert, so my apologies to anyone suffering PTSD resulting from the violence of Jan. 6.\n\nRest assured that no congressmen were hurt in the giving of this \"gift.\"\n\nBack to gunpowder damaging your brain.\n\nApparently, it is a tradition for new Republican members of the House to gift items from their home states to their fellow Republican legislators.\n\nFlorida. Hmmm ... what would you have gifted your fellow party members? Citrus fruit? Disney tee shirts? Key lime pies?\n\nWho in their right mind would think that grenades are the perfect gift from Florida?\n\nAccording to the letter accompanying the grenades, they were manufactured in Florida (who knew?) and were developed during the Vietnam war.\n\nOh, so he is giving them reminders of a war that we lost?\n\nThese grenades are not meant to be thrown by hand like in Hollywood movies. They are made to be launched by the MK 19 grenade launcher.\n\nSo he gave them the ammo without the gun? Is that anything like giving people mags from ARs but not the ARs?\n\nAnd about that \"coming together,\" Cory, sweetheart, grenades blow things apart. They don't bring them together. That's the purpose of grenades.\n\nThis guy is supposed to be an Army vet. You would think that he would know shit like that.\n\nObviously, he inhaled way too much gunpowder during his army days.\n\nThink being gifted a grenade is horrifying?\n\nHow about child-sized AR-15s? Yup, you too can now buy your son or daughter their very own child-sized battlefield weapon. Ya know, to use until they grow into the adult-sized ones.\n\nWell, much like the inert grenades, these guns are actually .22s but they look exactly like a scaled-down AR-15.\n\nThe manufacturer, WEE 1 Tactical, advertises the gun, called the JR-15 (get it?) as \"an ideal weapon to 'teach a younger enthusiast.'\"\n\nI call it an ideal way to get your child killed.\n\nMy biggest worry is trigger-happy police officers. Whenever they see a \"suspect\" with anything that even vaguely resembles a gun, they shoot first and ask questions later.\n\nChildren, holding toy guns, have been killed by the police. Police officers don't bother asking the child if the weapon they are holding is a toy gun or a real gun. They just (say it with me) shoot first and ask questions later.\n\nNow imagine the police being notified by a busybody neighbor that little Johnnie is running around his backyard and firing an AR-15. Do you honestly think that the responding officers are going to stop and check to see if Johnny is holding a JR-15 or an AR-15?\n\nNope, they will just fire every round they have to protect themselves from a perceived battlefield weapon.\n\nWhat kind of a parent buys their child something that will paint a target on their backs (and fronts)?\n\nFortunately, seven senators, including the normally milquetoast Majority Leader, Chuck Schumer (D-N.Y.) are urging the Federal Trade Commission (FTC) to investigate \"the marketing of highly lethal firearms, including assault-style rifles, to impressionable young people.\"\n\nWee 1's response?\n\n\"It's a misnomer that this product is being targeted and advertised to children. Children can't buy it.\"\n\nReally?\n\nChildren can't buy the toys advertised on TV either and yet toy manufacturers spend millions marketing toys to children, not their parents. You never see any commercials for Barbies during Sunday Night Football, only during PAW Patrol.\n\nThe only way that I can explain why anyone would think that manufacturing child-size weapons of war and any parent who would actually buy a child-size weapon of war, is that they have all inhaled way too much gunpowder.\n\nYa know, every time I think that this whole \"everybody needs an arsenal to protect themselves\" thing can't possibly get any worse, it does.\n\nAnd why is it that no one in the heavily armed parts of the country can see how insane this all is?\n\nMust be the gunpowder. 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Does it matter what size the bullet is? Will firing it point blank at another child (or your mom when you're really pissed) keep them from injury? \nThis is just one more notch on the tax-exempt gun manufacturers belt. Children were already killing children prior to this new and improved assault weapon's debut. Now it'll just make it a little easier, and the injuries and deaths a little greater. But the kiddies will be proud to own an assault weapon just like mom and dad, and schools will be investing a great deal more money in bulletproof windows to keep those wee ones safe. 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They ARE forming an army. Secularism scares them and threatens to change the world in ways they cannot accept. There is a right way to live and a wrong way to live, they believe, and their pastors and politicians see to it that the fear never lets up. A daily diet of fear keeps their households well stocked with guns, and gets them into church every Sunday. Check out my profile page for something I just posted there on this subject.
And thanks for reading, Frida.
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Only in America.\n\nFirst of all, I will admit that the grenades were inert, so my apologies to anyone suffering PTSD resulting from the violence of Jan. 6.\n\nRest assured that no congressmen were hurt in the giving of this \"gift.\"\n\nBack to gunpowder damaging your brain.\n\nApparently, it is a tradition for new Republican members of the House to gift items from their home states to their fellow Republican legislators.\n\nFlorida. Hmmm ... what would you have gifted your fellow party members? Citrus fruit? Disney tee shirts? Key lime pies?\n\nWho in their right mind would think that grenades are the perfect gift from Florida?\n\nAccording to the letter accompanying the grenades, they were manufactured in Florida (who knew?) and were developed during the Vietnam war.\n\nOh, so he is giving them reminders of a war that we lost?\n\nThese grenades are not meant to be thrown by hand like in Hollywood movies. They are made to be launched by the MK 19 grenade launcher.\n\nSo he gave them the ammo without the gun? Is that anything like giving people mags from ARs but not the ARs?\n\nAnd about that \"coming together,\" Cory, sweetheart, grenades blow things apart. They don't bring them together. That's the purpose of grenades.\n\nThis guy is supposed to be an Army vet. You would think that he would know shit like that.\n\nObviously, he inhaled way too much gunpowder during his army days.\n\nThink being gifted a grenade is horrifying?\n\nHow about child-sized AR-15s? Yup, you too can now buy your son or daughter their very own child-sized battlefield weapon. Ya know, to use until they grow into the adult-sized ones.\n\nWell, much like the inert grenades, these guns are actually .22s but they look exactly like a scaled-down AR-15.\n\nThe manufacturer, WEE 1 Tactical, advertises the gun, called the JR-15 (get it?) as \"an ideal weapon to 'teach a younger enthusiast.'\"\n\nI call it an ideal way to get your child killed.\n\nMy biggest worry is trigger-happy police officers. Whenever they see a \"suspect\" with anything that even vaguely resembles a gun, they shoot first and ask questions later.\n\nChildren, holding toy guns, have been killed by the police. Police officers don't bother asking the child if the weapon they are holding is a toy gun or a real gun. They just (say it with me) shoot first and ask questions later.\n\nNow imagine the police being notified by a busybody neighbor that little Johnnie is running around his backyard and firing an AR-15. Do you honestly think that the responding officers are going to stop and check to see if Johnny is holding a JR-15 or an AR-15?\n\nNope, they will just fire every round they have to protect themselves from a perceived battlefield weapon.\n\nWhat kind of a parent buys their child something that will paint a target on their backs (and fronts)?\n\nFortunately, seven senators, including the normally milquetoast Majority Leader, Chuck Schumer (D-N.Y.) are urging the Federal Trade Commission (FTC) to investigate \"the marketing of highly lethal firearms, including assault-style rifles, to impressionable young people.\"\n\nWee 1's response?\n\n\"It's a misnomer that this product is being targeted and advertised to children. Children can't buy it.\"\n\nReally?\n\nChildren can't buy the toys advertised on TV either and yet toy manufacturers spend millions marketing toys to children, not their parents. You never see any commercials for Barbies during Sunday Night Football, only during PAW Patrol.\n\nThe only way that I can explain why anyone would think that manufacturing child-size weapons of war and any parent who would actually buy a child-size weapon of war, is that they have all inhaled way too much gunpowder.\n\nYa know, every time I think that this whole \"everybody needs an arsenal to protect themselves\" thing can't possibly get any worse, it does.\n\nAnd why is it that no one in the heavily armed parts of the country can see how insane this all is?\n\nMust be the gunpowder. It's melting their brains.", "metadata": {"counts": {"id": "9e5543ae8650", "title": "Does Inhaling Gunpowder Damage Your Brain?", "subtitle": "How else to explain giving grenades as gifts or selling child-sized AR-15s", "author": "ea7d486472f1", "publication_id": "65fc9594d35c", "published_at": "2023-01-31 23:12:38", "last_modified_at": "2023-01-31 23:12:38", "boosted_at": "", "tags": ["politics", "government", "gun-control", "republican-party", "grenade"], "topics": ["politics"], "claps": 488, "voters": 27, "reads": 145, "views": 245, "word_count": 782, "responses_count": 5, "reading_time": 3.150943396226415, "url": "https://medium.com/politically-speaking/does-inhaling-gunpowder-damage-your-brain-9e5543ae8650", "unique_slug": "does-inhaling-gunpowder-damage-your-brain-9e5543ae8650", "image_url": "https://miro.medium.com/0*6a-W97yrqQX7SXdk", "lang": "en", "is_series": false, "is_locked": true, "is_shortform": false, "top_highlight": "Must be the gunpowder. 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Does it matter what size the bullet is? Will firing it point blank at another child (or your mom when you're really pissed) keep them from injury? \nThis is just one more notch on the tax-exempt gun manufacturers belt. Children were already killing children prior to this new and improved assault weapon's debut. Now it'll just make it a little easier, and the injuries and deaths a little greater. But the kiddies will be proud to own an assault weapon just like mom and dad, and schools will be investing a great deal more money in bulletproof windows to keep those wee ones safe. Corporate America salutes them all.", "metadata": {"counts": {"id": "1668097bd886", "title": "I guess there are no laws against child-size assault rifles, so they need to sell a few million…", "subtitle": "", "author": "8b257772d976", "publication_id": "*Self-Published*", "published_at": "2023-01-31 23:49:27", "last_modified_at": "2023-01-31 23:49:27", "boosted_at": "", "tags": [], "topics": [], "claps": 2, "voters": 1, "reads": 0, "views": 14, "word_count": 148, "responses_count": 2, "reading_time": 0.5584905660377358, "url": "https://medium.com/@kconnor2019/i-guess-there-are-no-laws-against-child-size-assault-rifles-so-they-need-to-sell-a-few-million-1668097bd886", "unique_slug": "i-guess-there-are-no-laws-against-child-size-assault-rifles-so-they-need-to-sell-a-few-million-1668097bd886", "image_url": "", "lang": "en", "is_series": false, "is_locked": false, "is_shortform": true, "top_highlight": ""}, "assets": {"other_embeds": {}}, "fans": {"id": "1668097bd886", "voters": ["f7fb5578b15e"], "count": 1}, "responses": {"id": "1668097bd886", "responses": ["8fc734383e6e", "275d288be7eb"], "count": 2}}}, {"role": "f7fb5578b15e", "content": "I don't think any of us need weapons of war unless we're soldiers. The fact they're selling similar weapons to parents so they can give them to their children is positively chilling. It seems like they're trying to form a Christian army to fight the rest of us who are happy with a secular country.", "metadata": {"counts": {"id": "275d288be7eb", "title": "I don't think any of us need weapons of war unless we're soldiers.", "subtitle": "", "author": "f7fb5578b15e", "publication_id": "*Self-Published*", "published_at": "2023-02-01 14:11:02", "last_modified_at": "2023-02-01 14:11:02", "boosted_at": "", "tags": [], "topics": [], "claps": 20, "voters": 2, "reads": 0, "views": 3, "word_count": 55, "responses_count": 1, "reading_time": 0.20754716981132076, "url": "https://medium.com/@FridaBayer/i-dont-think-any-of-us-need-weapons-of-war-unless-we-re-soldiers-275d288be7eb", "unique_slug": "i-dont-think-any-of-us-need-weapons-of-war-unless-we-re-soldiers-275d288be7eb", "image_url": "", "lang": "en", "is_series": false, "is_locked": false, "is_shortform": true, "top_highlight": ""}, "assets": {"other_embeds": {}}, "fans": {"id": "275d288be7eb", "voters": ["ea7d486472f1", "8b257772d976"], "count": 2}, "responses": {"id": "275d288be7eb", "responses": ["45cf54eba71e"], "count": 1}}}]
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[{"role": "c0080959b615", "content": "Dr. Anthony Fauci: Peerless Public Servant and Pandemic Guide Steps Down\n\nTwenty-fifth in an ongoing series, Notes from a Plague-Time\n\nHow fortunate America was to have, in its gravest public health crisis in a century, a guide of the skill and stature of Dr. Anthony S. Fauci.\n\nServing since 1984 as head of the National Institute of Allergy and Infectious Diseases, Dr. Fauci led research teams aimed at preventing, diagnosing, and treating age-old infectious diseases such as tuberculosis and malaria, as well as emerging ones such as Ebola, Zika, Sars, and HIV/AIDS. Over his long federal career, Dr. Fauci served as medical advisor to seven U.S. Presidents.\n\nWhen COVID-19 was declared a pandemic by the World Health Organization on March 11, 2020 - the gravest public health crisis since the Spanish flu pandemic of 1918, which killed an estimated 50 million people worldwide - Dr. Fauci was perfectly poised to lead us, like Virgil did Dante through the Inferno, to higher ground.\n\nBut while it was America's good fortune to have Dr. Fauci step up as our guide in such a fearful time, it was Dr. Fauci's bad fortune to step up - as chief medical advisor to the President - to a \"President\" (Donald J. Trump) who was a narcissist of the first order and a certified liar (see: The Washington Post's tabulator). By definition, a narcissist lacks any feeling for the public, and a lying narcissist is even worse in a life-or-death crisis - he is pure havoc. The collision between the Pre-Eminent Public Servant and the Chaos of Ego must have become, for Dr. Fauci, his own Inferno.\n\nWhich is why, in inaugurating my series \"Notes from a Plague-Time,\" I titled my first post \"In a Plague-Time, We Need Truth and Experts.\" It did not take a genius to foresee both the vital need for truth and expertise in a breaking life-or-death crisis, as well as the coming conflict between the lead players.\n\nAs expected for a public health official, Dr. Fauci quickly became the public face of the fight against this new virus - the coronavirus - which, because so little was known about it and because it seemed so lethal, struck fear, even panic, in much of the general public. Endeavoring to adhere to the science while also giving confidence, Dr. Fauci accurately termed the virus \"dynamic,\" one constantly changing, thus being studied as the pandemic unfolded; indeed, soon we saw viral variants. Until a vaccine was formulated, Dr. Fauci urged the common-sense precautions of masking and sanitizing. For his reality-based professionalism, Dr. Fauci became a saint in many households (including ours).\n\nAt the same time, proving political ideology is as pathological as any virus and acting on a long-term anti-science bias, Republicans soon targeted Dr. Fauci himself, vilifying him for allegedly crashing the economy and hurting America's children with mandated lockdowns of businesses and schools. Accused of \"flip-flopping,\" Dr. Fauci was simply \"following the science\" - following a \"dynamic\" virus wherever it went, which is what a good scientist does. Thus the public face of the COVID fight became a bull'e eye, a ready-made one. Trump, that medical genius, called Dr. Fauci \"a disaster.\"\n\nJumping further down the rabbit-hole of absurdity, masks were soon reviled, by GOP politicians and their followers, as an affront to personal liberty(!). Same for the vaccines, once they came online: These miracles of modern medicine, created in record time, were, according to the increasingly rabid Republicans, yet another affront to personal liberty(!). They even turned \"Fauci\" into a pejorative term: \"Don't Fauci my Florida.\" Elon Musk, that corporate disaster, tweeted \"Prosecute Fauci.\"\n\nBeyond absurd, this inflamed \"thinking\" is flat-out criminal: How many of the 1.1 million American lives lost to date to COVID-19 - count the zeroes: 1,100, 000 American lives - were needlessly lost, tragically so, sacrificed to political ideology and a lethal know-nothingism? On the other hand, while it is impossible to quantify, it can be justifiably claimed that Dr. Fauci's guidance saved countless millions more.\n\nBereft of moral sympathy, Republican pols strutted around practicing medicine without a license. One Republican who does have such a license - Rand Paul of Kentucky is an ophthalmologist - repeatedly lit into Dr. Fauci in Senate hearings with such twisted viciousness that, at one, the usually unflappable Dr. Fauci noted the senator's allegations \"kindled the crazies,\" resulting in death threats against him and his family(!). For shame.\n\nAnd, now, with the U.S. House of Representatives back in GOP control following the November midterms, Republicans threaten to investigate this peerless public servant? More shame.\n\nTrained in virology, Dr. Fauci understands contagion of the viral sort. Presumably, as a public health official, he also understands political contagion: the sort infecting ambitious types in their quest to climb the greasy pole for power. It is a sickening sight, and it must have sickened the good doctor, too. In his final interview with \"PBS NewsHour,\" Dr. Fauci expressed disappointment that the American public, so divided, could not see the COVID-19 pandemic as a galvanizing event, like World War II, that brought a disparate people together, as one, to fight for their mutual salvation. The good doctor no doubt feels he failed in his galvanizing role. I hope in his forthcoming memoir Dr. Fauci diagnoses our ideological disease and also prescribes treatment.\n\n\"No good deed goes unpunished\": The French with this proverb reveal their insight into human nature at its worst. Dr. Fauci took the worst. But, to his everlasting credit, he persevered in advocating for his patient - the American public - and steadfastly adhered to the science. I often wondered as Dr. Fauci hammered yet again at his message, what the constant repetition of his good advice, and the constant disputing of it, was doing to the wielder of the hammer himself, though this Stoic will not likely get lyrical about his pain. In his valedictory rounds before his official retirement in December upon leaving a half-century of public service, Dr. Fauci's parting advice, to future scientists as well as the public, remained simply: Follow the science.\n\nMeanwhile, Americans, so caught up in advocating for their own personal liberty, might do a rethink and consider, like Dr. Fauci, advocating for the commonweal, for the American public as a whole. Therein, as this viral pandemic recedes, lies our ethical recovery.\n\nI among millions thank Heaven that America had Anthony Stephen Fauci as its guide in this historic pandemic. Just remember how terrified we all were at the outset of this pandemic - was this another bubonic plague? - and how Dr. Fauci's steadying influence quelled that terror. Thank you, Dr. Fauci, for the totality of your extraordinary public service and for exemplifying that rarest of human specimens - a Mensch.\n\nFor other posts in this series, see here.", "metadata": {"counts": {"id": "6dfe599ac187", "title": "Dr. Anthony Fauci: Peerless Public Servant and Pandemic Guide Steps Down", "subtitle": "Twenty-fifth in an ongoing series, Notes from a Plague-Time", "author": "c0080959b615", "publication_id": "*Self-Published*", "published_at": "2023-01-31 23:05:44", "last_modified_at": "2023-02-01 07:12:08", "boosted_at": "", "tags": ["politics", "science", "covid-19", "dr-fauci", "republicans"], "topics": ["politics", "coronavirus"], "claps": 1119, "voters": 29, "reads": 71, "views": 116, "word_count": 1157, "responses_count": 3, "reading_time": 5.416037735849057, "url": "https://carlaseaquist.medium.com/dr-anthony-fauci-peerless-public-servant-and-pandemic-guide-steps-down-6dfe599ac187", "unique_slug": "dr-anthony-fauci-peerless-public-servant-and-pandemic-guide-steps-down-6dfe599ac187", "image_url": "https://miro.medium.com/1*M72eR5HqvcJcOHRQJ3XlcQ.png", "lang": "en", "is_series": false, "is_locked": false, "is_shortform": false, "top_highlight": ""}, "assets": {"other_embeds": {}, "images": ["https://miro.medium.com/1*M72eR5HqvcJcOHRQJ3XlcQ.png", "https://miro.medium.com/1*0SYr68jUK26k5MRVE6nV3w.jpeg", "https://miro.medium.com/1*4wpHorfJyZekYFpzHZQP4A.jpeg", "https://miro.medium.com/1*j3lGIuF3fpHIFbIQBqp_NQ.jpeg", "https://miro.medium.com/1*O-lw5M7_BemfmD0ScZm7OA.jpeg", "https://miro.medium.com/1*uva2NrmkfuwKArJeHml3tA.jpeg", "https://miro.medium.com/1*m412Y0G_LtdZ4iCYnvd_SQ.jpeg"], "anchors": [{"href": "https://www.niaid.nih.gov/about/director", "text": "Dr. Anthony S. 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Fauci did a premier job on handling the pandemic. Early on his only error was not advocating for universal use of masks soon enough. He did an excellent job at supporting the rapid development of the Covid RNA vaccine, He strongly pushed for controls and measures that if they had been followed by Trump and his administration 500,000 lives would have been saved. The problem was not Fauci it was the extreme right that advocated against taking the vaccine and for not following the basic CDC recommended Covid guidelines. This is why those 500,000 should not have died.
In response to the totally absurd comments below. The Swedish apporach (2,274 Covid deaths/million population) was an utter failure when compared to other Scandinavian countries such as Norway (928 Covid deaths/million). I have a relative who was a phusicisn on the front lines in Sweden and she would be the frist to say the Swedish approach to Covid was a fiasco and an embarraament. Fauci should not be improisoned he should be given accolades for his efforts. Mike Mar let us compare US (3384 Covid Deaths/million population) to Canada (1,312 deaths/million). Sadly Mike stats do not lie. The US failed on its Covid response not because of Fauci but because we as a nation failed to follow his plan and the guideliens of the CDC. That is the reality. Thanks Carla for writing this article. For someone that worked on Covid 19 and ran mathematical models on this pandemic this was well done. I do wish that a non-partisan presidential commission would be established to investigate how we as a country responded to this pandemic and how we should prepare for the next one. I guarantee you another one will come probably sooner than we think!
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[{"role": "c0080959b615", "content": "Dr. Anthony Fauci: Peerless Public Servant and Pandemic Guide Steps Down\n\nTwenty-fifth in an ongoing series, Notes from a Plague-Time\n\nHow fortunate America was to have, in its gravest public health crisis in a century, a guide of the skill and stature of Dr. Anthony S. Fauci.\n\nServing since 1984 as head of the National Institute of Allergy and Infectious Diseases, Dr. Fauci led research teams aimed at preventing, diagnosing, and treating age-old infectious diseases such as tuberculosis and malaria, as well as emerging ones such as Ebola, Zika, Sars, and HIV/AIDS. Over his long federal career, Dr. Fauci served as medical advisor to seven U.S. Presidents.\n\nWhen COVID-19 was declared a pandemic by the World Health Organization on March 11, 2020 - the gravest public health crisis since the Spanish flu pandemic of 1918, which killed an estimated 50 million people worldwide - Dr. Fauci was perfectly poised to lead us, like Virgil did Dante through the Inferno, to higher ground.\n\nBut while it was America's good fortune to have Dr. Fauci step up as our guide in such a fearful time, it was Dr. Fauci's bad fortune to step up - as chief medical advisor to the President - to a \"President\" (Donald J. Trump) who was a narcissist of the first order and a certified liar (see: The Washington Post's tabulator). By definition, a narcissist lacks any feeling for the public, and a lying narcissist is even worse in a life-or-death crisis - he is pure havoc. The collision between the Pre-Eminent Public Servant and the Chaos of Ego must have become, for Dr. Fauci, his own Inferno.\n\nWhich is why, in inaugurating my series \"Notes from a Plague-Time,\" I titled my first post \"In a Plague-Time, We Need Truth and Experts.\" It did not take a genius to foresee both the vital need for truth and expertise in a breaking life-or-death crisis, as well as the coming conflict between the lead players.\n\nAs expected for a public health official, Dr. Fauci quickly became the public face of the fight against this new virus - the coronavirus - which, because so little was known about it and because it seemed so lethal, struck fear, even panic, in much of the general public. Endeavoring to adhere to the science while also giving confidence, Dr. Fauci accurately termed the virus \"dynamic,\" one constantly changing, thus being studied as the pandemic unfolded; indeed, soon we saw viral variants. Until a vaccine was formulated, Dr. Fauci urged the common-sense precautions of masking and sanitizing. For his reality-based professionalism, Dr. Fauci became a saint in many households (including ours).\n\nAt the same time, proving political ideology is as pathological as any virus and acting on a long-term anti-science bias, Republicans soon targeted Dr. Fauci himself, vilifying him for allegedly crashing the economy and hurting America's children with mandated lockdowns of businesses and schools. Accused of \"flip-flopping,\" Dr. Fauci was simply \"following the science\" - following a \"dynamic\" virus wherever it went, which is what a good scientist does. Thus the public face of the COVID fight became a bull'e eye, a ready-made one. Trump, that medical genius, called Dr. Fauci \"a disaster.\"\n\nJumping further down the rabbit-hole of absurdity, masks were soon reviled, by GOP politicians and their followers, as an affront to personal liberty(!). Same for the vaccines, once they came online: These miracles of modern medicine, created in record time, were, according to the increasingly rabid Republicans, yet another affront to personal liberty(!). They even turned \"Fauci\" into a pejorative term: \"Don't Fauci my Florida.\" Elon Musk, that corporate disaster, tweeted \"Prosecute Fauci.\"\n\nBeyond absurd, this inflamed \"thinking\" is flat-out criminal: How many of the 1.1 million American lives lost to date to COVID-19 - count the zeroes: 1,100, 000 American lives - were needlessly lost, tragically so, sacrificed to political ideology and a lethal know-nothingism? On the other hand, while it is impossible to quantify, it can be justifiably claimed that Dr. Fauci's guidance saved countless millions more.\n\nBereft of moral sympathy, Republican pols strutted around practicing medicine without a license. One Republican who does have such a license - Rand Paul of Kentucky is an ophthalmologist - repeatedly lit into Dr. Fauci in Senate hearings with such twisted viciousness that, at one, the usually unflappable Dr. Fauci noted the senator's allegations \"kindled the crazies,\" resulting in death threats against him and his family(!). For shame.\n\nAnd, now, with the U.S. House of Representatives back in GOP control following the November midterms, Republicans threaten to investigate this peerless public servant? More shame.\n\nTrained in virology, Dr. Fauci understands contagion of the viral sort. Presumably, as a public health official, he also understands political contagion: the sort infecting ambitious types in their quest to climb the greasy pole for power. It is a sickening sight, and it must have sickened the good doctor, too. In his final interview with \"PBS NewsHour,\" Dr. Fauci expressed disappointment that the American public, so divided, could not see the COVID-19 pandemic as a galvanizing event, like World War II, that brought a disparate people together, as one, to fight for their mutual salvation. The good doctor no doubt feels he failed in his galvanizing role. I hope in his forthcoming memoir Dr. Fauci diagnoses our ideological disease and also prescribes treatment.\n\n\"No good deed goes unpunished\": The French with this proverb reveal their insight into human nature at its worst. Dr. Fauci took the worst. But, to his everlasting credit, he persevered in advocating for his patient - the American public - and steadfastly adhered to the science. I often wondered as Dr. Fauci hammered yet again at his message, what the constant repetition of his good advice, and the constant disputing of it, was doing to the wielder of the hammer himself, though this Stoic will not likely get lyrical about his pain. In his valedictory rounds before his official retirement in December upon leaving a half-century of public service, Dr. Fauci's parting advice, to future scientists as well as the public, remained simply: Follow the science.\n\nMeanwhile, Americans, so caught up in advocating for their own personal liberty, might do a rethink and consider, like Dr. Fauci, advocating for the commonweal, for the American public as a whole. Therein, as this viral pandemic recedes, lies our ethical recovery.\n\nI among millions thank Heaven that America had Anthony Stephen Fauci as its guide in this historic pandemic. Just remember how terrified we all were at the outset of this pandemic - was this another bubonic plague? - and how Dr. Fauci's steadying influence quelled that terror. 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The F'n embarrassment is that he lied to everyone about what he actually did not know. This scumbag received a hefty F'n check from Pharma, he pulled a Trump on everyone. Probably worse than Trump, Fauci took.
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[{"role": "c0080959b615", "content": "Dr. Anthony Fauci: Peerless Public Servant and Pandemic Guide Steps Down\n\nTwenty-fifth in an ongoing series, Notes from a Plague-Time\n\nHow fortunate America was to have, in its gravest public health crisis in a century, a guide of the skill and stature of Dr. Anthony S. Fauci.\n\nServing since 1984 as head of the National Institute of Allergy and Infectious Diseases, Dr. Fauci led research teams aimed at preventing, diagnosing, and treating age-old infectious diseases such as tuberculosis and malaria, as well as emerging ones such as Ebola, Zika, Sars, and HIV/AIDS. Over his long federal career, Dr. Fauci served as medical advisor to seven U.S. Presidents.\n\nWhen COVID-19 was declared a pandemic by the World Health Organization on March 11, 2020 - the gravest public health crisis since the Spanish flu pandemic of 1918, which killed an estimated 50 million people worldwide - Dr. Fauci was perfectly poised to lead us, like Virgil did Dante through the Inferno, to higher ground.\n\nBut while it was America's good fortune to have Dr. Fauci step up as our guide in such a fearful time, it was Dr. Fauci's bad fortune to step up - as chief medical advisor to the President - to a \"President\" (Donald J. Trump) who was a narcissist of the first order and a certified liar (see: The Washington Post's tabulator). By definition, a narcissist lacks any feeling for the public, and a lying narcissist is even worse in a life-or-death crisis - he is pure havoc. The collision between the Pre-Eminent Public Servant and the Chaos of Ego must have become, for Dr. Fauci, his own Inferno.\n\nWhich is why, in inaugurating my series \"Notes from a Plague-Time,\" I titled my first post \"In a Plague-Time, We Need Truth and Experts.\" It did not take a genius to foresee both the vital need for truth and expertise in a breaking life-or-death crisis, as well as the coming conflict between the lead players.\n\nAs expected for a public health official, Dr. Fauci quickly became the public face of the fight against this new virus - the coronavirus - which, because so little was known about it and because it seemed so lethal, struck fear, even panic, in much of the general public. Endeavoring to adhere to the science while also giving confidence, Dr. Fauci accurately termed the virus \"dynamic,\" one constantly changing, thus being studied as the pandemic unfolded; indeed, soon we saw viral variants. Until a vaccine was formulated, Dr. Fauci urged the common-sense precautions of masking and sanitizing. For his reality-based professionalism, Dr. Fauci became a saint in many households (including ours).\n\nAt the same time, proving political ideology is as pathological as any virus and acting on a long-term anti-science bias, Republicans soon targeted Dr. Fauci himself, vilifying him for allegedly crashing the economy and hurting America's children with mandated lockdowns of businesses and schools. Accused of \"flip-flopping,\" Dr. Fauci was simply \"following the science\" - following a \"dynamic\" virus wherever it went, which is what a good scientist does. Thus the public face of the COVID fight became a bull'e eye, a ready-made one. Trump, that medical genius, called Dr. Fauci \"a disaster.\"\n\nJumping further down the rabbit-hole of absurdity, masks were soon reviled, by GOP politicians and their followers, as an affront to personal liberty(!). Same for the vaccines, once they came online: These miracles of modern medicine, created in record time, were, according to the increasingly rabid Republicans, yet another affront to personal liberty(!). They even turned \"Fauci\" into a pejorative term: \"Don't Fauci my Florida.\" Elon Musk, that corporate disaster, tweeted \"Prosecute Fauci.\"\n\nBeyond absurd, this inflamed \"thinking\" is flat-out criminal: How many of the 1.1 million American lives lost to date to COVID-19 - count the zeroes: 1,100, 000 American lives - were needlessly lost, tragically so, sacrificed to political ideology and a lethal know-nothingism? On the other hand, while it is impossible to quantify, it can be justifiably claimed that Dr. Fauci's guidance saved countless millions more.\n\nBereft of moral sympathy, Republican pols strutted around practicing medicine without a license. One Republican who does have such a license - Rand Paul of Kentucky is an ophthalmologist - repeatedly lit into Dr. Fauci in Senate hearings with such twisted viciousness that, at one, the usually unflappable Dr. Fauci noted the senator's allegations \"kindled the crazies,\" resulting in death threats against him and his family(!). For shame.\n\nAnd, now, with the U.S. House of Representatives back in GOP control following the November midterms, Republicans threaten to investigate this peerless public servant? More shame.\n\nTrained in virology, Dr. Fauci understands contagion of the viral sort. Presumably, as a public health official, he also understands political contagion: the sort infecting ambitious types in their quest to climb the greasy pole for power. It is a sickening sight, and it must have sickened the good doctor, too. In his final interview with \"PBS NewsHour,\" Dr. Fauci expressed disappointment that the American public, so divided, could not see the COVID-19 pandemic as a galvanizing event, like World War II, that brought a disparate people together, as one, to fight for their mutual salvation. The good doctor no doubt feels he failed in his galvanizing role. I hope in his forthcoming memoir Dr. Fauci diagnoses our ideological disease and also prescribes treatment.\n\n\"No good deed goes unpunished\": The French with this proverb reveal their insight into human nature at its worst. Dr. Fauci took the worst. But, to his everlasting credit, he persevered in advocating for his patient - the American public - and steadfastly adhered to the science. I often wondered as Dr. Fauci hammered yet again at his message, what the constant repetition of his good advice, and the constant disputing of it, was doing to the wielder of the hammer himself, though this Stoic will not likely get lyrical about his pain. In his valedictory rounds before his official retirement in December upon leaving a half-century of public service, Dr. Fauci's parting advice, to future scientists as well as the public, remained simply: Follow the science.\n\nMeanwhile, Americans, so caught up in advocating for their own personal liberty, might do a rethink and consider, like Dr. Fauci, advocating for the commonweal, for the American public as a whole. Therein, as this viral pandemic recedes, lies our ethical recovery.\n\nI among millions thank Heaven that America had Anthony Stephen Fauci as its guide in this historic pandemic. Just remember how terrified we all were at the outset of this pandemic - was this another bubonic plague? - and how Dr. Fauci's steadying influence quelled that terror. Thank you, Dr. Fauci, for the totality of your extraordinary public service and for exemplifying that rarest of human specimens - a Mensch.\n\nFor other posts in this series, see here.", "metadata": {"counts": {"id": "6dfe599ac187", "title": "Dr. Anthony Fauci: Peerless Public Servant and Pandemic Guide Steps Down", "subtitle": "Twenty-fifth in an ongoing series, Notes from a Plague-Time", "author": "c0080959b615", "publication_id": "*Self-Published*", "published_at": "2023-01-31 23:05:44", "last_modified_at": "2023-02-01 07:12:08", "boosted_at": "", "tags": ["politics", "science", "covid-19", "dr-fauci", "republicans"], "topics": ["politics", "coronavirus"], "claps": 1119, "voters": 29, "reads": 71, "views": 116, "word_count": 1157, "responses_count": 3, "reading_time": 5.416037735849057, "url": "https://carlaseaquist.medium.com/dr-anthony-fauci-peerless-public-servant-and-pandemic-guide-steps-down-6dfe599ac187", "unique_slug": "dr-anthony-fauci-peerless-public-servant-and-pandemic-guide-steps-down-6dfe599ac187", "image_url": "https://miro.medium.com/1*M72eR5HqvcJcOHRQJ3XlcQ.png", "lang": "en", "is_series": false, "is_locked": false, "is_shortform": false, "top_highlight": ""}, "assets": {"other_embeds": {}, "images": ["https://miro.medium.com/1*M72eR5HqvcJcOHRQJ3XlcQ.png", "https://miro.medium.com/1*0SYr68jUK26k5MRVE6nV3w.jpeg", "https://miro.medium.com/1*4wpHorfJyZekYFpzHZQP4A.jpeg", "https://miro.medium.com/1*j3lGIuF3fpHIFbIQBqp_NQ.jpeg", "https://miro.medium.com/1*O-lw5M7_BemfmD0ScZm7OA.jpeg", "https://miro.medium.com/1*uva2NrmkfuwKArJeHml3tA.jpeg", "https://miro.medium.com/1*m412Y0G_LtdZ4iCYnvd_SQ.jpeg"], "anchors": [{"href": "https://www.niaid.nih.gov/about/director", "text": "Dr. Anthony S. 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Early on his only error was not advocating for universal use of masks soon enough. He did an excellent job at supporting the rapid development of the Covid RNA vaccine, He strongly pushed for controls and measures that if they had been followed by Trump and his administration 500,000 lives would have been saved. The problem was not Fauci it was the extreme right that advocated against taking the vaccine and for not following the basic CDC recommended Covid guidelines. This is why those 500,000 should not have died.\n\nIn response to the totally absurd comments below. The Swedish apporach (2,274 Covid deaths/million population) was an utter failure when compared to other Scandinavian countries such as Norway (928 Covid deaths/million). I have a relative who was a phusicisn on the front lines in Sweden and she would be the frist to say the Swedish approach to Covid was a fiasco and an embarraament. Fauci should not be improisoned he should be given accolades for his efforts. Mike Mar let us compare US (3384 Covid Deaths/million population) to Canada (1,312 deaths/million). Sadly Mike stats do not lie. The US failed on its Covid response not because of Fauci but because we as a nation failed to follow his plan and the guideliens of the CDC. That is the reality. Thanks Carla for writing this article. For someone that worked on Covid 19 and ran mathematical models on this pandemic this was well done. I do wish that a non-partisan presidential commission would be established to investigate how we as a country responded to this pandemic and how we should prepare for the next one. I guarantee you another one will come probably sooner than we think!", "metadata": {"counts": {"id": "dc2a0366f948", "title": "Fauci did a premier job on handling the pandemic.", "subtitle": "In response to the totally absurd comments below. 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[{"role": "c0080959b615", "content": "Dr. Anthony Fauci: Peerless Public Servant and Pandemic Guide Steps Down\n\nTwenty-fifth in an ongoing series, Notes from a Plague-Time\n\nHow fortunate America was to have, in its gravest public health crisis in a century, a guide of the skill and stature of Dr. Anthony S. Fauci.\n\nServing since 1984 as head of the National Institute of Allergy and Infectious Diseases, Dr. Fauci led research teams aimed at preventing, diagnosing, and treating age-old infectious diseases such as tuberculosis and malaria, as well as emerging ones such as Ebola, Zika, Sars, and HIV/AIDS. Over his long federal career, Dr. Fauci served as medical advisor to seven U.S. Presidents.\n\nWhen COVID-19 was declared a pandemic by the World Health Organization on March 11, 2020 - the gravest public health crisis since the Spanish flu pandemic of 1918, which killed an estimated 50 million people worldwide - Dr. Fauci was perfectly poised to lead us, like Virgil did Dante through the Inferno, to higher ground.\n\nBut while it was America's good fortune to have Dr. Fauci step up as our guide in such a fearful time, it was Dr. Fauci's bad fortune to step up - as chief medical advisor to the President - to a \"President\" (Donald J. Trump) who was a narcissist of the first order and a certified liar (see: The Washington Post's tabulator). By definition, a narcissist lacks any feeling for the public, and a lying narcissist is even worse in a life-or-death crisis - he is pure havoc. The collision between the Pre-Eminent Public Servant and the Chaos of Ego must have become, for Dr. Fauci, his own Inferno.\n\nWhich is why, in inaugurating my series \"Notes from a Plague-Time,\" I titled my first post \"In a Plague-Time, We Need Truth and Experts.\" It did not take a genius to foresee both the vital need for truth and expertise in a breaking life-or-death crisis, as well as the coming conflict between the lead players.\n\nAs expected for a public health official, Dr. Fauci quickly became the public face of the fight against this new virus - the coronavirus - which, because so little was known about it and because it seemed so lethal, struck fear, even panic, in much of the general public. Endeavoring to adhere to the science while also giving confidence, Dr. Fauci accurately termed the virus \"dynamic,\" one constantly changing, thus being studied as the pandemic unfolded; indeed, soon we saw viral variants. Until a vaccine was formulated, Dr. Fauci urged the common-sense precautions of masking and sanitizing. For his reality-based professionalism, Dr. Fauci became a saint in many households (including ours).\n\nAt the same time, proving political ideology is as pathological as any virus and acting on a long-term anti-science bias, Republicans soon targeted Dr. Fauci himself, vilifying him for allegedly crashing the economy and hurting America's children with mandated lockdowns of businesses and schools. Accused of \"flip-flopping,\" Dr. Fauci was simply \"following the science\" - following a \"dynamic\" virus wherever it went, which is what a good scientist does. Thus the public face of the COVID fight became a bull'e eye, a ready-made one. Trump, that medical genius, called Dr. Fauci \"a disaster.\"\n\nJumping further down the rabbit-hole of absurdity, masks were soon reviled, by GOP politicians and their followers, as an affront to personal liberty(!). Same for the vaccines, once they came online: These miracles of modern medicine, created in record time, were, according to the increasingly rabid Republicans, yet another affront to personal liberty(!). They even turned \"Fauci\" into a pejorative term: \"Don't Fauci my Florida.\" Elon Musk, that corporate disaster, tweeted \"Prosecute Fauci.\"\n\nBeyond absurd, this inflamed \"thinking\" is flat-out criminal: How many of the 1.1 million American lives lost to date to COVID-19 - count the zeroes: 1,100, 000 American lives - were needlessly lost, tragically so, sacrificed to political ideology and a lethal know-nothingism? On the other hand, while it is impossible to quantify, it can be justifiably claimed that Dr. Fauci's guidance saved countless millions more.\n\nBereft of moral sympathy, Republican pols strutted around practicing medicine without a license. One Republican who does have such a license - Rand Paul of Kentucky is an ophthalmologist - repeatedly lit into Dr. Fauci in Senate hearings with such twisted viciousness that, at one, the usually unflappable Dr. Fauci noted the senator's allegations \"kindled the crazies,\" resulting in death threats against him and his family(!). For shame.\n\nAnd, now, with the U.S. House of Representatives back in GOP control following the November midterms, Republicans threaten to investigate this peerless public servant? More shame.\n\nTrained in virology, Dr. Fauci understands contagion of the viral sort. Presumably, as a public health official, he also understands political contagion: the sort infecting ambitious types in their quest to climb the greasy pole for power. It is a sickening sight, and it must have sickened the good doctor, too. In his final interview with \"PBS NewsHour,\" Dr. Fauci expressed disappointment that the American public, so divided, could not see the COVID-19 pandemic as a galvanizing event, like World War II, that brought a disparate people together, as one, to fight for their mutual salvation. The good doctor no doubt feels he failed in his galvanizing role. I hope in his forthcoming memoir Dr. Fauci diagnoses our ideological disease and also prescribes treatment.\n\n\"No good deed goes unpunished\": The French with this proverb reveal their insight into human nature at its worst. Dr. Fauci took the worst. But, to his everlasting credit, he persevered in advocating for his patient - the American public - and steadfastly adhered to the science. I often wondered as Dr. Fauci hammered yet again at his message, what the constant repetition of his good advice, and the constant disputing of it, was doing to the wielder of the hammer himself, though this Stoic will not likely get lyrical about his pain. In his valedictory rounds before his official retirement in December upon leaving a half-century of public service, Dr. Fauci's parting advice, to future scientists as well as the public, remained simply: Follow the science.\n\nMeanwhile, Americans, so caught up in advocating for their own personal liberty, might do a rethink and consider, like Dr. Fauci, advocating for the commonweal, for the American public as a whole. Therein, as this viral pandemic recedes, lies our ethical recovery.\n\nI among millions thank Heaven that America had Anthony Stephen Fauci as its guide in this historic pandemic. Just remember how terrified we all were at the outset of this pandemic - was this another bubonic plague? - and how Dr. Fauci's steadying influence quelled that terror. Thank you, Dr. Fauci, for the totality of your extraordinary public service and for exemplifying that rarest of human specimens - a Mensch.\n\nFor other posts in this series, see here.", "metadata": {"counts": {"id": "6dfe599ac187", "title": "Dr. Anthony Fauci: Peerless Public Servant and Pandemic Guide Steps Down", "subtitle": "Twenty-fifth in an ongoing series, Notes from a Plague-Time", "author": "c0080959b615", "publication_id": "*Self-Published*", "published_at": "2023-01-31 23:05:44", "last_modified_at": "2023-02-01 07:12:08", "boosted_at": "", "tags": ["politics", "science", "covid-19", "dr-fauci", "republicans"], "topics": ["politics", "coronavirus"], "claps": 1119, "voters": 29, "reads": 71, "views": 116, "word_count": 1157, "responses_count": 3, "reading_time": 5.416037735849057, "url": "https://carlaseaquist.medium.com/dr-anthony-fauci-peerless-public-servant-and-pandemic-guide-steps-down-6dfe599ac187", "unique_slug": "dr-anthony-fauci-peerless-public-servant-and-pandemic-guide-steps-down-6dfe599ac187", "image_url": "https://miro.medium.com/1*M72eR5HqvcJcOHRQJ3XlcQ.png", "lang": "en", "is_series": false, "is_locked": false, "is_shortform": false, "top_highlight": ""}, "assets": {"other_embeds": {}, "images": ["https://miro.medium.com/1*M72eR5HqvcJcOHRQJ3XlcQ.png", "https://miro.medium.com/1*0SYr68jUK26k5MRVE6nV3w.jpeg", "https://miro.medium.com/1*4wpHorfJyZekYFpzHZQP4A.jpeg", "https://miro.medium.com/1*j3lGIuF3fpHIFbIQBqp_NQ.jpeg", "https://miro.medium.com/1*O-lw5M7_BemfmD0ScZm7OA.jpeg", "https://miro.medium.com/1*uva2NrmkfuwKArJeHml3tA.jpeg", "https://miro.medium.com/1*m412Y0G_LtdZ4iCYnvd_SQ.jpeg"], "anchors": [{"href": "https://www.niaid.nih.gov/about/director", "text": "Dr. Anthony S. 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[{"content": "AITA for telling my wife the lock on my daughter's door does not get removed til my brother inlaw and his daughters are out of our house?\n\nMy brother in-law (Sammy) lost his home shortly after his divorce 10 months ago. He moved in with us and brought his twin daughters (Olivia & Sloane18) with him a couple of months ago.\nHis sister (my wife) and I have one daughter (Zoey 16) and she and her cousins aren't close but get along fine.\n\nOlivia & Sloane have no respect for Zoey's privacy, none. they used to walk into her room and take everything they get their hands on. Makeup, phone accessories, clothes, school laptop etc. Zoey complained a lot and I've already asked the girls to respect Zoey's privacy and stop taking things. My wife and Sammy saw no issue with this. After all, they're girls and this's typical teenage girls behavior. I completely disagreed. \n\nLast straw was when Zoey bought a 60$ m.a.c makeup-kit that looks like a paintset that she saved up for over a month and one of the girls, Sloane took it without permission and ruined it by mixing shades together while using it. Don't know much about makeup but that's what Zoey said when she found the kit on her bed, and was crying.\nI told my wife and she said she'd ask Sloane to apologize but I got Zoey a lock after I found she was moving valuable belongings out the house because of this incidence!!!\n\nSammy and his daughters saw the lock and weren't happy, the girls were extremely upset.\nSammy asked about it and I straight up told him. He said \"my daughters aren't thieves!!! it's normal that girls of the same age borrow each others stuff\" he said Zoey could easily get another makeup kit for 15 bucks from walmart and shouldn't even be buying expensive - adult makeup in the first place and suggested my wife take care of this \"defect\" in Zoey's personality trying to appear older than she is.\nHe accused me of being overprotective and babying Zoey with this level of enablement.\n\nI told him this's between me and my wife but she shamed me for putting a lock on Zoey's door for her cousins to see and preventing them from \"spending time\" with her saying I was supposed to treat them like daughters, then demanded I remove it but I said this lock does not get removed til her brother and his daughters are out of our house.\n\nShe got mad I was implying we kick them out and said her family'll hate me for this. so I reminded her that I let Sammy and his family move in which's something her OWN family refused to do so she should start with shaming/blaming them for not taking their own son and nieces/granddaughters in. if it wasn't for her family's unwillingness to help we wouldn't be dealing with this much disturbance at home.\n\nEveryone's been giving me and Zoey silent treatment and my wife is very much upset over this.", "metadata": {"_additional_fetch_params": null, "_comments_by_id": null, "_fetched": false, "all_awardings": [], "allow_live_comments": true, "approved_at_utc": null, "approved_by": null, "archived": true, "associated_award": null, "author": "OnlyInQuebec9", "author_cakeday": null, "author_flair_background_color": null, "author_flair_css_class": null, "author_flair_richtext": [], "author_flair_template_id": null, "author_flair_text": null, "author_flair_text_color": null, "author_flair_type": "text", "author_fullname": "t2_d32xujeo", "author_is_blocked": false, "author_patreon_flair": false, "author_premium": false, "awarders": [], "banned_at_utc": null, "banned_by": null, "body": null, "body_html": null, "can_gild": false, "can_mod_post": false, "category": null, "clicked": false, "collapsed": null, "collapsed_because_crowd_control": null, "collapsed_reason": null, "collapsed_reason_code": null, "comment_limit": 2048, "comment_sort": "confidence", "comment_type": null, "content_categories": null, "contest_mode": false, "controversiality": null, "created": 1625315782.0, "created_utc": 1625315782.0, "depth": null, "discussion_type": null, "distinguished": null, "domain": "self.AmItheAsshole", "downs": 0, "edited": 0.0, "gilded": 3, "gildings": null, "hidden": false, "hide_score": false, "id": "ocx94s", "is_created_from_ads_ui": false, "is_crosspostable": false, "is_meta": false, "is_original_content": false, "is_reddit_media_domain": false, "is_robot_indexable": true, "is_self": true, "is_submitter": null, "is_video": false, "likes": null, "link_flair_background_color": "#7193ff", "link_flair_css_class": "not", "link_flair_richtext": [], "link_flair_template_id": "35ab95ec-0b14-11e5-87b6-0efd95e46dfd", "link_flair_text": "Not the A-hole", "link_flair_text_color": "light", "link_flair_type": "text", "link_id": null, "locked": true, "media": null, "media_embed": null, "media_only": false, "mod_note": null, "mod_reason_by": null, "mod_reason_title": null, "mod_reports": [], "name": "t3_ocx94s", "no_follow": false, "num_comments": 5237, "num_crossposts": 10, "num_reports": null, "over_18": false, "parent_id": null, "permalink": "/r/AmItheAsshole/comments/ocx94s/aita_for_telling_my_wife_the_lock_on_my_daughters/", "pinned": false, "pwls": 7, "quarantine": false, "removal_reason": null, "removed_by": null, "removed_by_category": null, "report_reasons": null, "saved": false, "score": 81020, "score_hidden": null, "secure_media": null, "secure_media_embed": null, "selftext": "My brother in-law (Sammy) lost his home shortly after his divorce 10 months ago. He moved in with us and brought his twin daughters (Olivia & Sloane18) with him a couple of months ago.\nHis sister (my wife) and I have one daughter (Zoey 16) and she and her cousins aren't close but get along fine.\n\nOlivia & Sloane have no respect for Zoey's privacy, none. they used to walk into her room and take everything they get their hands on. Makeup, phone accessories, clothes, school laptop etc. Zoey complained a lot and I've already asked the girls to respect Zoey's privacy and stop taking things. My wife and Sammy saw no issue with this. After all, they're girls and this's typical teenage girls behavior. I completely disagreed. \n\nLast straw was when Zoey bought a 60$ m.a.c makeup-kit that looks like a paintset that she saved up for over a month and one of the girls, Sloane took it without permission and ruined it by mixing shades together while using it. Don't know much about makeup but that's what Zoey said when she found the kit on her bed, and was crying.\nI told my wife and she said she'd ask Sloane to apologize but I got Zoey a lock after I found she was moving valuable belongings out the house because of this incidence!!!\n\nSammy and his daughters saw the lock and weren't happy, the girls were extremely upset.\nSammy asked about it and I straight up told him. He said \"my daughters aren't thieves!!! it's normal that girls of the same age borrow each others stuff\" he said Zoey could easily get another makeup kit for 15 bucks from walmart and shouldn't even be buying expensive - adult makeup in the first place and suggested my wife take care of this \"defect\" in Zoey's personality trying to appear older than she is.\nHe accused me of being overprotective and babying Zoey with this level of enablement.\n\nI told him this's between me and my wife but she shamed me for putting a lock on Zoey's door for her cousins to see and preventing them from \"spending time\" with her saying I was supposed to treat them like daughters, then demanded I remove it but I said this lock does not get removed til her brother and his daughters are out of our house.\n\nShe got mad I was implying we kick them out and said her family'll hate me for this. so I reminded her that I let Sammy and his family move in which's something her OWN family refused to do so she should start with shaming/blaming them for not taking their own son and nieces/granddaughters in. if it wasn't for her family's unwillingness to help we wouldn't be dealing with this much disturbance at home.\n\nEveryone's been giving me and Zoey silent treatment and my wife is very much upset over this.", "selftext_html": "<!-- SC_OFF --><div class=\"md\"><p>My brother in-law (Sammy) lost his home shortly after his divorce 10 months ago. He moved in with us and brought his twin daughters (Olivia & Sloane18) with him a couple of months ago.\nHis sister (my wife) and I have one daughter (Zoey 16) and she and her cousins aren't close but get along fine.</p>\n\n<p>Olivia & Sloane have no respect for Zoey's privacy, none. they used to walk into her room and take everything they get their hands on. Makeup, phone accessories, clothes, school laptop etc. Zoey complained a lot and I've already asked the girls to respect Zoey's privacy and stop taking things. My wife and Sammy saw no issue with this. After all, they're girls and this's typical teenage girls behavior. I completely disagreed. </p>\n\n<p>Last straw was when Zoey bought a 60$ m.a.c makeup-kit that looks like a paintset that she saved up for over a month and one of the girls, Sloane took it without permission and ruined it by mixing shades together while using it. Don't know much about makeup but that's what Zoey said when she found the kit on her bed, and was crying.\nI told my wife and she said she'd ask Sloane to apologize but I got Zoey a lock after I found she was moving valuable belongings out the house because of this incidence!!!</p>\n\n<p>Sammy and his daughters saw the lock and weren't happy, the girls were extremely upset.\nSammy asked about it and I straight up told him. He said "my daughters aren't thieves!!! it's normal that girls of the same age borrow each others stuff" he said Zoey could easily get another makeup kit for 15 bucks from walmart and shouldn't even be buying expensive - adult makeup in the first place and suggested my wife take care of this "defect" in Zoey's personality trying to appear older than she is.\nHe accused me of being overprotective and babying Zoey with this level of enablement.</p>\n\n<p>I told him this's between me and my wife but she shamed me for putting a lock on Zoey's door for her cousins to see and preventing them from "spending time" with her saying I was supposed to treat them like daughters, then demanded I remove it but I said this lock does not get removed til her brother and his daughters are out of our house.</p>\n\n<p>She got mad I was implying we kick them out and said her family'll hate me for this. so I reminded her that I let Sammy and his family move in which's something her OWN family refused to do so she should start with shaming/blaming them for not taking their own son and nieces/granddaughters in. if it wasn't for her family's unwillingness to help we wouldn't be dealing with this much disturbance at home.</p>\n\n<p>Everyone's been giving me and Zoey silent treatment and my wife is very much upset over this.</p>\n</div><!-- SC_ON -->", "send_replies": true, "spoiler": false, "stickied": false, "subreddit": "r/AmItheAsshole", "subreddit_id": "t5_2xhvq", "subreddit_name_prefixed": "r/AmItheAsshole", "subreddit_subscribers": 24050251, "subreddit_type": "public", "suggested_sort": "top", "thread_id": "t3_ocx94s", "thumbnail": "", "title": "AITA for telling my wife the lock on my daughter's door does not get removed til my brother inlaw and his daughters are out of our house?", "top_awarded_type": null, "total_awards_received": 0, "treatment_tags": [], "unrepliable_reason": null, "ups": 81020, "upvote_ratio": 0.92, "url": "https://www.reddit.com/r/AmItheAsshole/comments/ocx94s/aita_for_telling_my_wife_the_lock_on_my_daughters/", "user_reports": [], "view_count": null, "visited": false, "wls": 7}, "role": "OnlyInQuebec9"}]
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SnausageFest
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NTA. Don't back down. You are the only one sticking up for Zoey. If her cousins want to use expensive makeup, give them your wife's. I guarantee she won't appreciate sharing anymore.
They need to start behaving like appreciative guests.
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I completely disagreed. \n\nLast straw was when Zoey bought a 60$ m.a.c makeup-kit that looks like a paintset that she saved up for over a month and one of the girls, Sloane took it without permission and ruined it by mixing shades together while using it. Don't know much about makeup but that's what Zoey said when she found the kit on her bed, and was crying.\nI told my wife and she said she'd ask Sloane to apologize but I got Zoey a lock after I found she was moving valuable belongings out the house because of this incidence!!!\n\nSammy and his daughters saw the lock and weren't happy, the girls were extremely upset.\nSammy asked about it and I straight up told him. He said \"my daughters aren't thieves!!! it's normal that girls of the same age borrow each others stuff\" he said Zoey could easily get another makeup kit for 15 bucks from walmart and shouldn't even be buying expensive - adult makeup in the first place and suggested my wife take care of this \"defect\" in Zoey's personality trying to appear older than she is.\nHe accused me of being overprotective and babying Zoey with this level of enablement.\n\nI told him this's between me and my wife but she shamed me for putting a lock on Zoey's door for her cousins to see and preventing them from \"spending time\" with her saying I was supposed to treat them like daughters, then demanded I remove it but I said this lock does not get removed til her brother and his daughters are out of our house.\n\nShe got mad I was implying we kick them out and said her family'll hate me for this. so I reminded her that I let Sammy and his family move in which's something her OWN family refused to do so she should start with shaming/blaming them for not taking their own son and nieces/granddaughters in. if it wasn't for her family's unwillingness to help we wouldn't be dealing with this much disturbance at home.\n\nEveryone's been giving me and Zoey silent treatment and my wife is very much upset over this.", "metadata": {"_additional_fetch_params": null, "_comments_by_id": null, "_fetched": false, "all_awardings": [], "allow_live_comments": true, "approved_at_utc": null, "approved_by": null, "archived": true, "associated_award": null, "author": "OnlyInQuebec9", "author_cakeday": null, "author_flair_background_color": null, "author_flair_css_class": null, "author_flair_richtext": [], "author_flair_template_id": null, "author_flair_text": null, "author_flair_text_color": null, "author_flair_type": "text", "author_fullname": "t2_d32xujeo", "author_is_blocked": false, "author_patreon_flair": false, "author_premium": false, "awarders": [], "banned_at_utc": null, "banned_by": null, "body": null, "body_html": null, "can_gild": false, "can_mod_post": false, "category": null, "clicked": false, "collapsed": null, "collapsed_because_crowd_control": null, "collapsed_reason": null, "collapsed_reason_code": null, "comment_limit": 2048, "comment_sort": "confidence", "comment_type": null, "content_categories": null, "contest_mode": false, "controversiality": null, "created": 1625315782.0, "created_utc": 1625315782.0, "depth": null, "discussion_type": null, "distinguished": null, "domain": "self.AmItheAsshole", "downs": 0, "edited": 0.0, "gilded": 3, "gildings": null, "hidden": false, "hide_score": false, "id": "ocx94s", "is_created_from_ads_ui": false, "is_crosspostable": false, "is_meta": false, "is_original_content": false, "is_reddit_media_domain": false, "is_robot_indexable": true, "is_self": true, "is_submitter": null, "is_video": false, "likes": null, "link_flair_background_color": "#7193ff", "link_flair_css_class": "not", "link_flair_richtext": [], "link_flair_template_id": "35ab95ec-0b14-11e5-87b6-0efd95e46dfd", "link_flair_text": "Not the A-hole", "link_flair_text_color": "light", "link_flair_type": "text", "link_id": null, "locked": true, "media": null, "media_embed": null, "media_only": false, "mod_note": null, "mod_reason_by": null, "mod_reason_title": null, "mod_reports": [], "name": "t3_ocx94s", "no_follow": false, "num_comments": 5237, "num_crossposts": 10, "num_reports": null, "over_18": false, "parent_id": null, "permalink": "/r/AmItheAsshole/comments/ocx94s/aita_for_telling_my_wife_the_lock_on_my_daughters/", "pinned": false, "pwls": 7, "quarantine": false, "removal_reason": null, "removed_by": null, "removed_by_category": null, "report_reasons": null, "saved": false, "score": 81020, "score_hidden": null, "secure_media": null, "secure_media_embed": null, "selftext": "My brother in-law (Sammy) lost his home shortly after his divorce 10 months ago. He moved in with us and brought his twin daughters (Olivia & Sloane18) with him a couple of months ago.\nHis sister (my wife) and I have one daughter (Zoey 16) and she and her cousins aren't close but get along fine.\n\nOlivia & Sloane have no respect for Zoey's privacy, none. they used to walk into her room and take everything they get their hands on. Makeup, phone accessories, clothes, school laptop etc. Zoey complained a lot and I've already asked the girls to respect Zoey's privacy and stop taking things. My wife and Sammy saw no issue with this. After all, they're girls and this's typical teenage girls behavior. I completely disagreed. \n\nLast straw was when Zoey bought a 60$ m.a.c makeup-kit that looks like a paintset that she saved up for over a month and one of the girls, Sloane took it without permission and ruined it by mixing shades together while using it. Don't know much about makeup but that's what Zoey said when she found the kit on her bed, and was crying.\nI told my wife and she said she'd ask Sloane to apologize but I got Zoey a lock after I found she was moving valuable belongings out the house because of this incidence!!!\n\nSammy and his daughters saw the lock and weren't happy, the girls were extremely upset.\nSammy asked about it and I straight up told him. He said \"my daughters aren't thieves!!! it's normal that girls of the same age borrow each others stuff\" he said Zoey could easily get another makeup kit for 15 bucks from walmart and shouldn't even be buying expensive - adult makeup in the first place and suggested my wife take care of this \"defect\" in Zoey's personality trying to appear older than she is.\nHe accused me of being overprotective and babying Zoey with this level of enablement.\n\nI told him this's between me and my wife but she shamed me for putting a lock on Zoey's door for her cousins to see and preventing them from \"spending time\" with her saying I was supposed to treat them like daughters, then demanded I remove it but I said this lock does not get removed til her brother and his daughters are out of our house.\n\nShe got mad I was implying we kick them out and said her family'll hate me for this. so I reminded her that I let Sammy and his family move in which's something her OWN family refused to do so she should start with shaming/blaming them for not taking their own son and nieces/granddaughters in. if it wasn't for her family's unwillingness to help we wouldn't be dealing with this much disturbance at home.\n\nEveryone's been giving me and Zoey silent treatment and my wife is very much upset over this.", "selftext_html": "<!-- SC_OFF --><div class=\"md\"><p>My brother in-law (Sammy) lost his home shortly after his divorce 10 months ago. He moved in with us and brought his twin daughters (Olivia & Sloane18) with him a couple of months ago.\nHis sister (my wife) and I have one daughter (Zoey 16) and she and her cousins aren't close but get along fine.</p>\n\n<p>Olivia & Sloane have no respect for Zoey's privacy, none. they used to walk into her room and take everything they get their hands on. Makeup, phone accessories, clothes, school laptop etc. Zoey complained a lot and I've already asked the girls to respect Zoey's privacy and stop taking things. My wife and Sammy saw no issue with this. After all, they're girls and this's typical teenage girls behavior. I completely disagreed. </p>\n\n<p>Last straw was when Zoey bought a 60$ m.a.c makeup-kit that looks like a paintset that she saved up for over a month and one of the girls, Sloane took it without permission and ruined it by mixing shades together while using it. Don't know much about makeup but that's what Zoey said when she found the kit on her bed, and was crying.\nI told my wife and she said she'd ask Sloane to apologize but I got Zoey a lock after I found she was moving valuable belongings out the house because of this incidence!!!</p>\n\n<p>Sammy and his daughters saw the lock and weren't happy, the girls were extremely upset.\nSammy asked about it and I straight up told him. He said "my daughters aren't thieves!!! it's normal that girls of the same age borrow each others stuff" he said Zoey could easily get another makeup kit for 15 bucks from walmart and shouldn't even be buying expensive - adult makeup in the first place and suggested my wife take care of this "defect" in Zoey's personality trying to appear older than she is.\nHe accused me of being overprotective and babying Zoey with this level of enablement.</p>\n\n<p>I told him this's between me and my wife but she shamed me for putting a lock on Zoey's door for her cousins to see and preventing them from "spending time" with her saying I was supposed to treat them like daughters, then demanded I remove it but I said this lock does not get removed til her brother and his daughters are out of our house.</p>\n\n<p>She got mad I was implying we kick them out and said her family'll hate me for this. so I reminded her that I let Sammy and his family move in which's something her OWN family refused to do so she should start with shaming/blaming them for not taking their own son and nieces/granddaughters in. if it wasn't for her family's unwillingness to help we wouldn't be dealing with this much disturbance at home.</p>\n\n<p>Everyone's been giving me and Zoey silent treatment and my wife is very much upset over this.</p>\n</div><!-- SC_ON -->", "send_replies": true, "spoiler": false, "stickied": false, "subreddit": "r/AmItheAsshole", "subreddit_id": "t5_2xhvq", "subreddit_name_prefixed": "r/AmItheAsshole", "subreddit_subscribers": 24050251, "subreddit_type": "public", "suggested_sort": "top", "thread_id": "t3_ocx94s", "thumbnail": "", "title": "AITA for telling my wife the lock on my daughter's door does not get removed til my brother inlaw and his daughters are out of our house?", "top_awarded_type": null, "total_awards_received": 0, "treatment_tags": [], "unrepliable_reason": null, "ups": 81020, "upvote_ratio": 0.92, "url": "https://www.reddit.com/r/AmItheAsshole/comments/ocx94s/aita_for_telling_my_wife_the_lock_on_my_daughters/", "user_reports": [], "view_count": null, "visited": false, "wls": 7}, "role": "OnlyInQuebec9"}]
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riblz11
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You know I probably shouldn't be saying this but my wife has been acting like a hypocrite latey. Especially regarding privacy issues. She considers privacy something very important but still thought that Zoey did not have the right to get a lock - Even if we leave her cousins out of this matter. My wife is not agreeing with the whole concept of getting a lock for Zoey. I explained to her what's been happenning, Even told her that Zoey has been moving some of her valuable belongings into a friend's house to keep them safe, do I blame her? Absolutely not. But my wife still thought Zoey was wrong to do that.
Now her cousine are upset and they and Sammy are using the silent treatment (among other things like eating without us or not sitting with us) as a guilt tactic. Even though it's not affecting me, it's making Zoey feel like she did something wrong by having a lock for her room.
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I completely disagreed. \n\nLast straw was when Zoey bought a 60$ m.a.c makeup-kit that looks like a paintset that she saved up for over a month and one of the girls, Sloane took it without permission and ruined it by mixing shades together while using it. Don't know much about makeup but that's what Zoey said when she found the kit on her bed, and was crying.\nI told my wife and she said she'd ask Sloane to apologize but I got Zoey a lock after I found she was moving valuable belongings out the house because of this incidence!!!\n\nSammy and his daughters saw the lock and weren't happy, the girls were extremely upset.\nSammy asked about it and I straight up told him. He said \"my daughters aren't thieves!!! it's normal that girls of the same age borrow each others stuff\" he said Zoey could easily get another makeup kit for 15 bucks from walmart and shouldn't even be buying expensive - adult makeup in the first place and suggested my wife take care of this \"defect\" in Zoey's personality trying to appear older than she is.\nHe accused me of being overprotective and babying Zoey with this level of enablement.\n\nI told him this's between me and my wife but she shamed me for putting a lock on Zoey's door for her cousins to see and preventing them from \"spending time\" with her saying I was supposed to treat them like daughters, then demanded I remove it but I said this lock does not get removed til her brother and his daughters are out of our house.\n\nShe got mad I was implying we kick them out and said her family'll hate me for this. so I reminded her that I let Sammy and his family move in which's something her OWN family refused to do so she should start with shaming/blaming them for not taking their own son and nieces/granddaughters in. if it wasn't for her family's unwillingness to help we wouldn't be dealing with this much disturbance at home.\n\nEveryone's been giving me and Zoey silent treatment and my wife is very much upset over this.", "metadata": {"_additional_fetch_params": null, "_comments_by_id": null, "_fetched": false, "all_awardings": [], "allow_live_comments": true, "approved_at_utc": null, "approved_by": null, "archived": true, "associated_award": null, "author": "OnlyInQuebec9", "author_cakeday": null, "author_flair_background_color": null, "author_flair_css_class": null, "author_flair_richtext": [], "author_flair_template_id": null, "author_flair_text": null, "author_flair_text_color": null, "author_flair_type": "text", "author_fullname": "t2_d32xujeo", "author_is_blocked": false, "author_patreon_flair": false, "author_premium": false, "awarders": [], "banned_at_utc": null, "banned_by": null, "body": null, "body_html": null, "can_gild": false, "can_mod_post": false, "category": null, "clicked": false, "collapsed": null, "collapsed_because_crowd_control": null, "collapsed_reason": null, "collapsed_reason_code": null, "comment_limit": 2048, "comment_sort": "confidence", "comment_type": null, "content_categories": null, "contest_mode": false, "controversiality": null, "created": 1625315782.0, "created_utc": 1625315782.0, "depth": null, "discussion_type": null, "distinguished": null, "domain": "self.AmItheAsshole", "downs": 0, "edited": 0.0, "gilded": 3, "gildings": null, "hidden": false, "hide_score": false, "id": "ocx94s", "is_created_from_ads_ui": false, "is_crosspostable": false, "is_meta": false, "is_original_content": false, "is_reddit_media_domain": false, "is_robot_indexable": true, "is_self": true, "is_submitter": null, "is_video": false, "likes": null, "link_flair_background_color": "#7193ff", "link_flair_css_class": "not", "link_flair_richtext": [], "link_flair_template_id": "35ab95ec-0b14-11e5-87b6-0efd95e46dfd", "link_flair_text": "Not the A-hole", "link_flair_text_color": "light", "link_flair_type": "text", "link_id": null, "locked": true, "media": null, "media_embed": null, "media_only": false, "mod_note": null, "mod_reason_by": null, "mod_reason_title": null, "mod_reports": [], "name": "t3_ocx94s", "no_follow": false, "num_comments": 5237, "num_crossposts": 10, "num_reports": null, "over_18": false, "parent_id": null, "permalink": "/r/AmItheAsshole/comments/ocx94s/aita_for_telling_my_wife_the_lock_on_my_daughters/", "pinned": false, "pwls": 7, "quarantine": false, "removal_reason": null, "removed_by": null, "removed_by_category": null, "report_reasons": null, "saved": false, "score": 81020, "score_hidden": null, "secure_media": null, "secure_media_embed": null, "selftext": "My brother in-law (Sammy) lost his home shortly after his divorce 10 months ago. He moved in with us and brought his twin daughters (Olivia & Sloane18) with him a couple of months ago.\nHis sister (my wife) and I have one daughter (Zoey 16) and she and her cousins aren't close but get along fine.\n\nOlivia & Sloane have no respect for Zoey's privacy, none. they used to walk into her room and take everything they get their hands on. Makeup, phone accessories, clothes, school laptop etc. Zoey complained a lot and I've already asked the girls to respect Zoey's privacy and stop taking things. My wife and Sammy saw no issue with this. After all, they're girls and this's typical teenage girls behavior. I completely disagreed. \n\nLast straw was when Zoey bought a 60$ m.a.c makeup-kit that looks like a paintset that she saved up for over a month and one of the girls, Sloane took it without permission and ruined it by mixing shades together while using it. Don't know much about makeup but that's what Zoey said when she found the kit on her bed, and was crying.\nI told my wife and she said she'd ask Sloane to apologize but I got Zoey a lock after I found she was moving valuable belongings out the house because of this incidence!!!\n\nSammy and his daughters saw the lock and weren't happy, the girls were extremely upset.\nSammy asked about it and I straight up told him. He said \"my daughters aren't thieves!!! it's normal that girls of the same age borrow each others stuff\" he said Zoey could easily get another makeup kit for 15 bucks from walmart and shouldn't even be buying expensive - adult makeup in the first place and suggested my wife take care of this \"defect\" in Zoey's personality trying to appear older than she is.\nHe accused me of being overprotective and babying Zoey with this level of enablement.\n\nI told him this's between me and my wife but she shamed me for putting a lock on Zoey's door for her cousins to see and preventing them from \"spending time\" with her saying I was supposed to treat them like daughters, then demanded I remove it but I said this lock does not get removed til her brother and his daughters are out of our house.\n\nShe got mad I was implying we kick them out and said her family'll hate me for this. so I reminded her that I let Sammy and his family move in which's something her OWN family refused to do so she should start with shaming/blaming them for not taking their own son and nieces/granddaughters in. if it wasn't for her family's unwillingness to help we wouldn't be dealing with this much disturbance at home.\n\nEveryone's been giving me and Zoey silent treatment and my wife is very much upset over this.", "selftext_html": "<!-- SC_OFF --><div class=\"md\"><p>My brother in-law (Sammy) lost his home shortly after his divorce 10 months ago. He moved in with us and brought his twin daughters (Olivia & Sloane18) with him a couple of months ago.\nHis sister (my wife) and I have one daughter (Zoey 16) and she and her cousins aren't close but get along fine.</p>\n\n<p>Olivia & Sloane have no respect for Zoey's privacy, none. they used to walk into her room and take everything they get their hands on. Makeup, phone accessories, clothes, school laptop etc. Zoey complained a lot and I've already asked the girls to respect Zoey's privacy and stop taking things. My wife and Sammy saw no issue with this. After all, they're girls and this's typical teenage girls behavior. I completely disagreed. </p>\n\n<p>Last straw was when Zoey bought a 60$ m.a.c makeup-kit that looks like a paintset that she saved up for over a month and one of the girls, Sloane took it without permission and ruined it by mixing shades together while using it. Don't know much about makeup but that's what Zoey said when she found the kit on her bed, and was crying.\nI told my wife and she said she'd ask Sloane to apologize but I got Zoey a lock after I found she was moving valuable belongings out the house because of this incidence!!!</p>\n\n<p>Sammy and his daughters saw the lock and weren't happy, the girls were extremely upset.\nSammy asked about it and I straight up told him. He said "my daughters aren't thieves!!! it's normal that girls of the same age borrow each others stuff" he said Zoey could easily get another makeup kit for 15 bucks from walmart and shouldn't even be buying expensive - adult makeup in the first place and suggested my wife take care of this "defect" in Zoey's personality trying to appear older than she is.\nHe accused me of being overprotective and babying Zoey with this level of enablement.</p>\n\n<p>I told him this's between me and my wife but she shamed me for putting a lock on Zoey's door for her cousins to see and preventing them from "spending time" with her saying I was supposed to treat them like daughters, then demanded I remove it but I said this lock does not get removed til her brother and his daughters are out of our house.</p>\n\n<p>She got mad I was implying we kick them out and said her family'll hate me for this. so I reminded her that I let Sammy and his family move in which's something her OWN family refused to do so she should start with shaming/blaming them for not taking their own son and nieces/granddaughters in. if it wasn't for her family's unwillingness to help we wouldn't be dealing with this much disturbance at home.</p>\n\n<p>Everyone's been giving me and Zoey silent treatment and my wife is very much upset over this.</p>\n</div><!-- SC_ON -->", "send_replies": true, "spoiler": false, "stickied": false, "subreddit": "r/AmItheAsshole", "subreddit_id": "t5_2xhvq", "subreddit_name_prefixed": "r/AmItheAsshole", "subreddit_subscribers": 24050251, "subreddit_type": "public", "suggested_sort": "top", "thread_id": "t3_ocx94s", "thumbnail": "", "title": "AITA for telling my wife the lock on my daughter's door does not get removed til my brother inlaw and his daughters are out of our house?", "top_awarded_type": null, "total_awards_received": 0, "treatment_tags": [], "unrepliable_reason": null, "ups": 81020, "upvote_ratio": 0.92, "url": "https://www.reddit.com/r/AmItheAsshole/comments/ocx94s/aita_for_telling_my_wife_the_lock_on_my_daughters/", "user_reports": [], "view_count": null, "visited": false, "wls": 7}, "role": "OnlyInQuebec9"}, {"content": "NTA. Don't back down. You are the only one sticking up for Zoey. If her cousins want to use expensive makeup, give them your wife's. I guarantee she won't appreciate sharing anymore.\n\nThey need to start behaving like appreciative guests.", "metadata": {"_additional_fetch_params": null, "_comments_by_id": null, "_fetched": true, "all_awardings": [], "allow_live_comments": null, "approved_at_utc": null, "approved_by": null, "archived": true, "associated_award": null, "author": "riblz11", "author_cakeday": null, "author_flair_background_color": "#3b2921", "author_flair_css_class": null, "author_flair_richtext": [], "author_flair_template_id": "0f8d1b4a-f8a7-11e8-920b-0e93c922efde", "author_flair_text": "Partassipant [3]", "author_flair_text_color": "light", "author_flair_type": "text", "author_fullname": "t2_m1enf", "author_is_blocked": false, "author_patreon_flair": false, "author_premium": false, "awarders": [], "banned_at_utc": null, "banned_by": null, "body": "NTA. Don't back down. You are the only one sticking up for Zoey. If her cousins want to use expensive makeup, give them your wife's. I guarantee she won't appreciate sharing anymore.\n\nThey need to start behaving like appreciative guests.", "body_html": "<div class=\"md\"><p>NTA. Don't back down. You are the only one sticking up for Zoey. If her cousins want to use expensive makeup, give them your wife's. I guarantee she won't appreciate sharing anymore.</p>\n\n<p>They need to start behaving like appreciative guests.</p>\n</div>", "can_gild": false, "can_mod_post": false, "category": null, "clicked": null, "collapsed": false, "collapsed_because_crowd_control": null, "collapsed_reason": null, "collapsed_reason_code": null, "comment_limit": null, "comment_sort": null, "comment_type": null, "content_categories": null, "contest_mode": null, "controversiality": 0, "created": 1625316287.0, "created_utc": 1625316287.0, "depth": 0, "discussion_type": null, "distinguished": null, "domain": null, "downs": 0, "edited": 0.0, "gilded": 4, "gildings": null, "hidden": null, "hide_score": null, "id": "h3wyfzq", "is_created_from_ads_ui": null, "is_crosspostable": null, "is_meta": null, "is_original_content": null, "is_reddit_media_domain": null, "is_robot_indexable": null, "is_self": null, "is_submitter": false, "is_video": null, "likes": null, "link_flair_background_color": null, "link_flair_css_class": null, "link_flair_richtext": null, "link_flair_template_id": null, "link_flair_text": null, "link_flair_text_color": null, "link_flair_type": null, "link_id": "t3_ocx94s", "locked": false, "media": null, "media_embed": null, "media_only": null, "mod_note": null, "mod_reason_by": null, "mod_reason_title": null, "mod_reports": [], "name": "t1_h3wyfzq", "no_follow": false, "num_comments": null, "num_crossposts": null, "num_reports": null, "over_18": null, "parent_id": "t3_ocx94s", "permalink": "/r/AmItheAsshole/comments/ocx94s/aita_for_telling_my_wife_the_lock_on_my_daughters/h3wyfzq/", "pinned": null, "pwls": null, "quarantine": null, "removal_reason": null, "removed_by": null, "removed_by_category": null, "report_reasons": null, "saved": false, "score": 65566, "score_hidden": false, "secure_media": null, "secure_media_embed": null, "selftext": null, "selftext_html": null, "send_replies": true, "spoiler": null, "stickied": false, "subreddit": "AmItheAsshole", "subreddit_id": "t5_2xhvq", "subreddit_name_prefixed": "r/AmItheAsshole", "subreddit_subscribers": null, "subreddit_type": "public", "suggested_sort": null, "thread_id": null, "thumbnail": null, "title": null, "top_awarded_type": null, "total_awards_received": 0, "treatment_tags": [], "unrepliable_reason": null, "ups": 65566, "upvote_ratio": null, "url": null, "user_reports": [], "view_count": null, "visited": null, "wls": null}, "role": "riblz11"}]
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WTF dang these people are entitled AF.
I'd kick them all out for creating a hostile and uncomfortable situation IN MY OWN HOME.
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I completely disagreed. \n\nLast straw was when Zoey bought a 60$ m.a.c makeup-kit that looks like a paintset that she saved up for over a month and one of the girls, Sloane took it without permission and ruined it by mixing shades together while using it. Don't know much about makeup but that's what Zoey said when she found the kit on her bed, and was crying.\nI told my wife and she said she'd ask Sloane to apologize but I got Zoey a lock after I found she was moving valuable belongings out the house because of this incidence!!!\n\nSammy and his daughters saw the lock and weren't happy, the girls were extremely upset.\nSammy asked about it and I straight up told him. He said \"my daughters aren't thieves!!! it's normal that girls of the same age borrow each others stuff\" he said Zoey could easily get another makeup kit for 15 bucks from walmart and shouldn't even be buying expensive - adult makeup in the first place and suggested my wife take care of this \"defect\" in Zoey's personality trying to appear older than she is.\nHe accused me of being overprotective and babying Zoey with this level of enablement.\n\nI told him this's between me and my wife but she shamed me for putting a lock on Zoey's door for her cousins to see and preventing them from \"spending time\" with her saying I was supposed to treat them like daughters, then demanded I remove it but I said this lock does not get removed til her brother and his daughters are out of our house.\n\nShe got mad I was implying we kick them out and said her family'll hate me for this. so I reminded her that I let Sammy and his family move in which's something her OWN family refused to do so she should start with shaming/blaming them for not taking their own son and nieces/granddaughters in. if it wasn't for her family's unwillingness to help we wouldn't be dealing with this much disturbance at home.\n\nEveryone's been giving me and Zoey silent treatment and my wife is very much upset over this.", "metadata": {"_additional_fetch_params": null, "_comments_by_id": null, "_fetched": false, "all_awardings": [], "allow_live_comments": true, "approved_at_utc": null, "approved_by": null, "archived": true, "associated_award": null, "author": "OnlyInQuebec9", "author_cakeday": null, "author_flair_background_color": null, "author_flair_css_class": null, "author_flair_richtext": [], "author_flair_template_id": null, "author_flair_text": null, "author_flair_text_color": null, "author_flair_type": "text", "author_fullname": "t2_d32xujeo", "author_is_blocked": false, "author_patreon_flair": false, "author_premium": false, "awarders": [], "banned_at_utc": null, "banned_by": null, "body": null, "body_html": null, "can_gild": false, "can_mod_post": false, "category": null, "clicked": false, "collapsed": null, "collapsed_because_crowd_control": null, "collapsed_reason": null, "collapsed_reason_code": null, "comment_limit": 2048, "comment_sort": "confidence", "comment_type": null, "content_categories": null, "contest_mode": false, "controversiality": null, "created": 1625315782.0, "created_utc": 1625315782.0, "depth": null, "discussion_type": null, "distinguished": null, "domain": "self.AmItheAsshole", "downs": 0, "edited": 0.0, "gilded": 3, "gildings": null, "hidden": false, "hide_score": false, "id": "ocx94s", "is_created_from_ads_ui": false, "is_crosspostable": false, "is_meta": false, "is_original_content": false, "is_reddit_media_domain": false, "is_robot_indexable": true, "is_self": true, "is_submitter": null, "is_video": false, "likes": null, "link_flair_background_color": "#7193ff", "link_flair_css_class": "not", "link_flair_richtext": [], "link_flair_template_id": "35ab95ec-0b14-11e5-87b6-0efd95e46dfd", "link_flair_text": "Not the A-hole", "link_flair_text_color": "light", "link_flair_type": "text", "link_id": null, "locked": true, "media": null, "media_embed": null, "media_only": false, "mod_note": null, "mod_reason_by": null, "mod_reason_title": null, "mod_reports": [], "name": "t3_ocx94s", "no_follow": false, "num_comments": 5237, "num_crossposts": 10, "num_reports": null, "over_18": false, "parent_id": null, "permalink": "/r/AmItheAsshole/comments/ocx94s/aita_for_telling_my_wife_the_lock_on_my_daughters/", "pinned": false, "pwls": 7, "quarantine": false, "removal_reason": null, "removed_by": null, "removed_by_category": null, "report_reasons": null, "saved": false, "score": 81020, "score_hidden": null, "secure_media": null, "secure_media_embed": null, "selftext": "My brother in-law (Sammy) lost his home shortly after his divorce 10 months ago. He moved in with us and brought his twin daughters (Olivia & Sloane18) with him a couple of months ago.\nHis sister (my wife) and I have one daughter (Zoey 16) and she and her cousins aren't close but get along fine.\n\nOlivia & Sloane have no respect for Zoey's privacy, none. they used to walk into her room and take everything they get their hands on. Makeup, phone accessories, clothes, school laptop etc. Zoey complained a lot and I've already asked the girls to respect Zoey's privacy and stop taking things. My wife and Sammy saw no issue with this. After all, they're girls and this's typical teenage girls behavior. I completely disagreed. \n\nLast straw was when Zoey bought a 60$ m.a.c makeup-kit that looks like a paintset that she saved up for over a month and one of the girls, Sloane took it without permission and ruined it by mixing shades together while using it. Don't know much about makeup but that's what Zoey said when she found the kit on her bed, and was crying.\nI told my wife and she said she'd ask Sloane to apologize but I got Zoey a lock after I found she was moving valuable belongings out the house because of this incidence!!!\n\nSammy and his daughters saw the lock and weren't happy, the girls were extremely upset.\nSammy asked about it and I straight up told him. He said \"my daughters aren't thieves!!! it's normal that girls of the same age borrow each others stuff\" he said Zoey could easily get another makeup kit for 15 bucks from walmart and shouldn't even be buying expensive - adult makeup in the first place and suggested my wife take care of this \"defect\" in Zoey's personality trying to appear older than she is.\nHe accused me of being overprotective and babying Zoey with this level of enablement.\n\nI told him this's between me and my wife but she shamed me for putting a lock on Zoey's door for her cousins to see and preventing them from \"spending time\" with her saying I was supposed to treat them like daughters, then demanded I remove it but I said this lock does not get removed til her brother and his daughters are out of our house.\n\nShe got mad I was implying we kick them out and said her family'll hate me for this. so I reminded her that I let Sammy and his family move in which's something her OWN family refused to do so she should start with shaming/blaming them for not taking their own son and nieces/granddaughters in. if it wasn't for her family's unwillingness to help we wouldn't be dealing with this much disturbance at home.\n\nEveryone's been giving me and Zoey silent treatment and my wife is very much upset over this.", "selftext_html": "<!-- SC_OFF --><div class=\"md\"><p>My brother in-law (Sammy) lost his home shortly after his divorce 10 months ago. He moved in with us and brought his twin daughters (Olivia & Sloane18) with him a couple of months ago.\nHis sister (my wife) and I have one daughter (Zoey 16) and she and her cousins aren't close but get along fine.</p>\n\n<p>Olivia & Sloane have no respect for Zoey's privacy, none. they used to walk into her room and take everything they get their hands on. Makeup, phone accessories, clothes, school laptop etc. Zoey complained a lot and I've already asked the girls to respect Zoey's privacy and stop taking things. My wife and Sammy saw no issue with this. After all, they're girls and this's typical teenage girls behavior. I completely disagreed. </p>\n\n<p>Last straw was when Zoey bought a 60$ m.a.c makeup-kit that looks like a paintset that she saved up for over a month and one of the girls, Sloane took it without permission and ruined it by mixing shades together while using it. Don't know much about makeup but that's what Zoey said when she found the kit on her bed, and was crying.\nI told my wife and she said she'd ask Sloane to apologize but I got Zoey a lock after I found she was moving valuable belongings out the house because of this incidence!!!</p>\n\n<p>Sammy and his daughters saw the lock and weren't happy, the girls were extremely upset.\nSammy asked about it and I straight up told him. He said "my daughters aren't thieves!!! it's normal that girls of the same age borrow each others stuff" he said Zoey could easily get another makeup kit for 15 bucks from walmart and shouldn't even be buying expensive - adult makeup in the first place and suggested my wife take care of this "defect" in Zoey's personality trying to appear older than she is.\nHe accused me of being overprotective and babying Zoey with this level of enablement.</p>\n\n<p>I told him this's between me and my wife but she shamed me for putting a lock on Zoey's door for her cousins to see and preventing them from "spending time" with her saying I was supposed to treat them like daughters, then demanded I remove it but I said this lock does not get removed til her brother and his daughters are out of our house.</p>\n\n<p>She got mad I was implying we kick them out and said her family'll hate me for this. so I reminded her that I let Sammy and his family move in which's something her OWN family refused to do so she should start with shaming/blaming them for not taking their own son and nieces/granddaughters in. if it wasn't for her family's unwillingness to help we wouldn't be dealing with this much disturbance at home.</p>\n\n<p>Everyone's been giving me and Zoey silent treatment and my wife is very much upset over this.</p>\n</div><!-- SC_ON -->", "send_replies": true, "spoiler": false, "stickied": false, "subreddit": "r/AmItheAsshole", "subreddit_id": "t5_2xhvq", "subreddit_name_prefixed": "r/AmItheAsshole", "subreddit_subscribers": 24050251, "subreddit_type": "public", "suggested_sort": "top", "thread_id": "t3_ocx94s", "thumbnail": "", "title": "AITA for telling my wife the lock on my daughter's door does not get removed til my brother inlaw and his daughters are out of our house?", "top_awarded_type": null, "total_awards_received": 0, "treatment_tags": [], "unrepliable_reason": null, "ups": 81020, "upvote_ratio": 0.92, "url": "https://www.reddit.com/r/AmItheAsshole/comments/ocx94s/aita_for_telling_my_wife_the_lock_on_my_daughters/", "user_reports": [], "view_count": null, "visited": false, "wls": 7}, "role": "OnlyInQuebec9"}, {"content": "NTA. Don't back down. You are the only one sticking up for Zoey. If her cousins want to use expensive makeup, give them your wife's. I guarantee she won't appreciate sharing anymore.\n\nThey need to start behaving like appreciative guests.", "metadata": {"_additional_fetch_params": null, "_comments_by_id": null, "_fetched": true, "all_awardings": [], "allow_live_comments": null, "approved_at_utc": null, "approved_by": null, "archived": true, "associated_award": null, "author": "riblz11", "author_cakeday": null, "author_flair_background_color": "#3b2921", "author_flair_css_class": null, "author_flair_richtext": [], "author_flair_template_id": "0f8d1b4a-f8a7-11e8-920b-0e93c922efde", "author_flair_text": "Partassipant [3]", "author_flair_text_color": "light", "author_flair_type": "text", "author_fullname": "t2_m1enf", "author_is_blocked": false, "author_patreon_flair": false, "author_premium": false, "awarders": [], "banned_at_utc": null, "banned_by": null, "body": "NTA. Don't back down. You are the only one sticking up for Zoey. If her cousins want to use expensive makeup, give them your wife's. I guarantee she won't appreciate sharing anymore.\n\nThey need to start behaving like appreciative guests.", "body_html": "<div class=\"md\"><p>NTA. Don't back down. You are the only one sticking up for Zoey. If her cousins want to use expensive makeup, give them your wife's. I guarantee she won't appreciate sharing anymore.</p>\n\n<p>They need to start behaving like appreciative guests.</p>\n</div>", "can_gild": false, "can_mod_post": false, "category": null, "clicked": null, "collapsed": false, "collapsed_because_crowd_control": null, "collapsed_reason": null, "collapsed_reason_code": null, "comment_limit": null, "comment_sort": null, "comment_type": null, "content_categories": null, "contest_mode": null, "controversiality": 0, "created": 1625316287.0, "created_utc": 1625316287.0, "depth": 0, "discussion_type": null, "distinguished": null, "domain": null, "downs": 0, "edited": 0.0, "gilded": 4, "gildings": null, "hidden": null, "hide_score": null, "id": "h3wyfzq", "is_created_from_ads_ui": null, "is_crosspostable": null, "is_meta": null, "is_original_content": null, "is_reddit_media_domain": null, "is_robot_indexable": null, "is_self": null, "is_submitter": false, "is_video": null, "likes": null, "link_flair_background_color": null, "link_flair_css_class": null, "link_flair_richtext": null, "link_flair_template_id": null, "link_flair_text": null, "link_flair_text_color": null, "link_flair_type": null, "link_id": "t3_ocx94s", "locked": false, "media": null, "media_embed": null, "media_only": null, "mod_note": null, "mod_reason_by": null, "mod_reason_title": null, "mod_reports": [], "name": "t1_h3wyfzq", "no_follow": false, "num_comments": null, "num_crossposts": null, "num_reports": null, "over_18": null, "parent_id": "t3_ocx94s", "permalink": "/r/AmItheAsshole/comments/ocx94s/aita_for_telling_my_wife_the_lock_on_my_daughters/h3wyfzq/", "pinned": null, "pwls": null, "quarantine": null, "removal_reason": null, "removed_by": null, "removed_by_category": null, "report_reasons": null, "saved": false, "score": 65566, "score_hidden": false, "secure_media": null, "secure_media_embed": null, "selftext": null, "selftext_html": null, "send_replies": true, "spoiler": null, "stickied": false, "subreddit": "AmItheAsshole", "subreddit_id": "t5_2xhvq", "subreddit_name_prefixed": "r/AmItheAsshole", "subreddit_subscribers": null, "subreddit_type": "public", "suggested_sort": null, "thread_id": null, "thumbnail": null, "title": null, "top_awarded_type": null, "total_awards_received": 0, "treatment_tags": [], "unrepliable_reason": null, "ups": 65566, "upvote_ratio": null, "url": null, "user_reports": [], "view_count": null, "visited": null, "wls": null}, "role": "riblz11"}, {"content": "You know I probably shouldn't be saying this but my wife has been acting like a hypocrite latey. Especially regarding privacy issues. She considers privacy something very important but still thought that Zoey did not have the right to get a lock - Even if we leave her cousins out of this matter. My wife is not agreeing with the whole concept of getting a lock for Zoey. I explained to her what's been happenning, Even told her that Zoey has been moving some of her valuable belongings into a friend's house to keep them safe, do I blame her? Absolutely not. But my wife still thought Zoey was wrong to do that.\nNow her cousine are upset and they and Sammy are using the silent treatment (among other things like eating without us or not sitting with us) as a guilt tactic. Even though it's not affecting me, it's making Zoey feel like she did something wrong by having a lock for her room.", "metadata": {"_additional_fetch_params": null, "_comments_by_id": null, "_fetched": true, "all_awardings": [], "allow_live_comments": null, "approved_at_utc": null, "approved_by": null, "archived": true, "associated_award": null, "author": "OnlyInQuebec9", "author_cakeday": null, "author_flair_background_color": null, "author_flair_css_class": null, "author_flair_richtext": [], "author_flair_template_id": null, "author_flair_text": null, "author_flair_text_color": null, "author_flair_type": "text", "author_fullname": "t2_d32xujeo", "author_is_blocked": false, "author_patreon_flair": false, "author_premium": false, "awarders": [], "banned_at_utc": null, "banned_by": null, "body": "You know I probably shouldn't be saying this but my wife has been acting like a hypocrite latey. Especially regarding privacy issues. She considers privacy something very important but still thought that Zoey did not have the right to get a lock - Even if we leave her cousins out of this matter. My wife is not agreeing with the whole concept of getting a lock for Zoey. I explained to her what's been happenning, Even told her that Zoey has been moving some of her valuable belongings into a friend's house to keep them safe, do I blame her? Absolutely not. But my wife still thought Zoey was wrong to do that.\nNow her cousine are upset and they and Sammy are using the silent treatment (among other things like eating without us or not sitting with us) as a guilt tactic. Even though it's not affecting me, it's making Zoey feel like she did something wrong by having a lock for her room.", "body_html": "<div class=\"md\"><p>You know I probably shouldn't be saying this but my wife has been acting like a hypocrite latey. Especially regarding privacy issues. She considers privacy something very important but still thought that Zoey did not have the right to get a lock - Even if we leave her cousins out of this matter. My wife is not agreeing with the whole concept of getting a lock for Zoey. I explained to her what's been happenning, Even told her that Zoey has been moving some of her valuable belongings into a friend's house to keep them safe, do I blame her? Absolutely not. But my wife still thought Zoey was wrong to do that.\nNow her cousine are upset and they and Sammy are using the silent treatment (among other things like eating without us or not sitting with us) as a guilt tactic. Even though it's not affecting me, it's making Zoey feel like she did something wrong by having a lock for her room.</p>\n</div>", "can_gild": false, "can_mod_post": false, "category": null, "clicked": null, "collapsed": false, "collapsed_because_crowd_control": null, "collapsed_reason": null, "collapsed_reason_code": null, "comment_limit": null, "comment_sort": null, "comment_type": null, "content_categories": null, "contest_mode": null, "controversiality": 0, "created": 1625319958.0, "created_utc": 1625319958.0, "depth": 1, "discussion_type": null, "distinguished": null, "domain": null, "downs": 0, "edited": 1625325018.0, "gilded": 0, "gildings": null, "hidden": null, "hide_score": null, "id": "h3x48ia", "is_created_from_ads_ui": null, "is_crosspostable": null, "is_meta": null, "is_original_content": null, "is_reddit_media_domain": null, "is_robot_indexable": null, "is_self": null, "is_submitter": true, "is_video": null, "likes": null, "link_flair_background_color": null, "link_flair_css_class": null, "link_flair_richtext": null, "link_flair_template_id": null, "link_flair_text": null, "link_flair_text_color": null, "link_flair_type": null, "link_id": "t3_ocx94s", "locked": false, "media": null, "media_embed": null, "media_only": null, "mod_note": null, "mod_reason_by": null, "mod_reason_title": null, "mod_reports": [], "name": "t1_h3x48ia", "no_follow": false, "num_comments": null, "num_crossposts": null, "num_reports": null, "over_18": null, "parent_id": "t1_h3wyfzq", "permalink": "/r/AmItheAsshole/comments/ocx94s/aita_for_telling_my_wife_the_lock_on_my_daughters/h3x48ia/", "pinned": null, "pwls": null, "quarantine": null, "removal_reason": null, "removed_by": null, "removed_by_category": null, "report_reasons": null, "saved": false, "score": 5196, "score_hidden": false, "secure_media": null, "secure_media_embed": null, "selftext": null, "selftext_html": null, "send_replies": true, "spoiler": null, "stickied": false, "subreddit": "AmItheAsshole", "subreddit_id": "t5_2xhvq", "subreddit_name_prefixed": "r/AmItheAsshole", "subreddit_subscribers": null, "subreddit_type": "public", "suggested_sort": null, "thread_id": null, "thumbnail": null, "title": null, "top_awarded_type": null, "total_awards_received": 0, "treatment_tags": [], "unrepliable_reason": null, "ups": 5196, "upvote_ratio": null, "url": null, "user_reports": [], "view_count": null, "visited": null, "wls": null}, "role": "OnlyInQuebec9"}]
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Exactly. These people need to go now, They are mentally abusing and bullying a teenage girl- as well as OP. Gaslighting , disrespect and straight out hostile behaviour- in OPs own home. OP you are NTA -Boot them to the next relatives and if your wife has a problem with that- she can drive them there. Please do not back down on this and yes, let them know that your wifey has no problem with sharing make up. These people are disgraceful and entitled.
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I completely disagreed. \n\nLast straw was when Zoey bought a 60$ m.a.c makeup-kit that looks like a paintset that she saved up for over a month and one of the girls, Sloane took it without permission and ruined it by mixing shades together while using it. Don't know much about makeup but that's what Zoey said when she found the kit on her bed, and was crying.\nI told my wife and she said she'd ask Sloane to apologize but I got Zoey a lock after I found she was moving valuable belongings out the house because of this incidence!!!\n\nSammy and his daughters saw the lock and weren't happy, the girls were extremely upset.\nSammy asked about it and I straight up told him. He said \"my daughters aren't thieves!!! it's normal that girls of the same age borrow each others stuff\" he said Zoey could easily get another makeup kit for 15 bucks from walmart and shouldn't even be buying expensive - adult makeup in the first place and suggested my wife take care of this \"defect\" in Zoey's personality trying to appear older than she is.\nHe accused me of being overprotective and babying Zoey with this level of enablement.\n\nI told him this's between me and my wife but she shamed me for putting a lock on Zoey's door for her cousins to see and preventing them from \"spending time\" with her saying I was supposed to treat them like daughters, then demanded I remove it but I said this lock does not get removed til her brother and his daughters are out of our house.\n\nShe got mad I was implying we kick them out and said her family'll hate me for this. so I reminded her that I let Sammy and his family move in which's something her OWN family refused to do so she should start with shaming/blaming them for not taking their own son and nieces/granddaughters in. if it wasn't for her family's unwillingness to help we wouldn't be dealing with this much disturbance at home.\n\nEveryone's been giving me and Zoey silent treatment and my wife is very much upset over this.", "metadata": {"_additional_fetch_params": null, "_comments_by_id": null, "_fetched": false, "all_awardings": [], "allow_live_comments": true, "approved_at_utc": null, "approved_by": null, "archived": true, "associated_award": null, "author": "OnlyInQuebec9", "author_cakeday": null, "author_flair_background_color": null, "author_flair_css_class": null, "author_flair_richtext": [], "author_flair_template_id": null, "author_flair_text": null, "author_flair_text_color": null, "author_flair_type": "text", "author_fullname": "t2_d32xujeo", "author_is_blocked": false, "author_patreon_flair": false, "author_premium": false, "awarders": [], "banned_at_utc": null, "banned_by": null, "body": null, "body_html": null, "can_gild": false, "can_mod_post": false, "category": null, "clicked": false, "collapsed": null, "collapsed_because_crowd_control": null, "collapsed_reason": null, "collapsed_reason_code": null, "comment_limit": 2048, "comment_sort": "confidence", "comment_type": null, "content_categories": null, "contest_mode": false, "controversiality": null, "created": 1625315782.0, "created_utc": 1625315782.0, "depth": null, "discussion_type": null, "distinguished": null, "domain": "self.AmItheAsshole", "downs": 0, "edited": 0.0, "gilded": 3, "gildings": null, "hidden": false, "hide_score": false, "id": "ocx94s", "is_created_from_ads_ui": false, "is_crosspostable": false, "is_meta": false, "is_original_content": false, "is_reddit_media_domain": false, "is_robot_indexable": true, "is_self": true, "is_submitter": null, "is_video": false, "likes": null, "link_flair_background_color": "#7193ff", "link_flair_css_class": "not", "link_flair_richtext": [], "link_flair_template_id": "35ab95ec-0b14-11e5-87b6-0efd95e46dfd", "link_flair_text": "Not the A-hole", "link_flair_text_color": "light", "link_flair_type": "text", "link_id": null, "locked": true, "media": null, "media_embed": null, "media_only": false, "mod_note": null, "mod_reason_by": null, "mod_reason_title": null, "mod_reports": [], "name": "t3_ocx94s", "no_follow": false, "num_comments": 5237, "num_crossposts": 10, "num_reports": null, "over_18": false, "parent_id": null, "permalink": "/r/AmItheAsshole/comments/ocx94s/aita_for_telling_my_wife_the_lock_on_my_daughters/", "pinned": false, "pwls": 7, "quarantine": false, "removal_reason": null, "removed_by": null, "removed_by_category": null, "report_reasons": null, "saved": false, "score": 81020, "score_hidden": null, "secure_media": null, "secure_media_embed": null, "selftext": "My brother in-law (Sammy) lost his home shortly after his divorce 10 months ago. He moved in with us and brought his twin daughters (Olivia & Sloane18) with him a couple of months ago.\nHis sister (my wife) and I have one daughter (Zoey 16) and she and her cousins aren't close but get along fine.\n\nOlivia & Sloane have no respect for Zoey's privacy, none. they used to walk into her room and take everything they get their hands on. Makeup, phone accessories, clothes, school laptop etc. Zoey complained a lot and I've already asked the girls to respect Zoey's privacy and stop taking things. My wife and Sammy saw no issue with this. After all, they're girls and this's typical teenage girls behavior. I completely disagreed. \n\nLast straw was when Zoey bought a 60$ m.a.c makeup-kit that looks like a paintset that she saved up for over a month and one of the girls, Sloane took it without permission and ruined it by mixing shades together while using it. Don't know much about makeup but that's what Zoey said when she found the kit on her bed, and was crying.\nI told my wife and she said she'd ask Sloane to apologize but I got Zoey a lock after I found she was moving valuable belongings out the house because of this incidence!!!\n\nSammy and his daughters saw the lock and weren't happy, the girls were extremely upset.\nSammy asked about it and I straight up told him. He said \"my daughters aren't thieves!!! it's normal that girls of the same age borrow each others stuff\" he said Zoey could easily get another makeup kit for 15 bucks from walmart and shouldn't even be buying expensive - adult makeup in the first place and suggested my wife take care of this \"defect\" in Zoey's personality trying to appear older than she is.\nHe accused me of being overprotective and babying Zoey with this level of enablement.\n\nI told him this's between me and my wife but she shamed me for putting a lock on Zoey's door for her cousins to see and preventing them from \"spending time\" with her saying I was supposed to treat them like daughters, then demanded I remove it but I said this lock does not get removed til her brother and his daughters are out of our house.\n\nShe got mad I was implying we kick them out and said her family'll hate me for this. so I reminded her that I let Sammy and his family move in which's something her OWN family refused to do so she should start with shaming/blaming them for not taking their own son and nieces/granddaughters in. if it wasn't for her family's unwillingness to help we wouldn't be dealing with this much disturbance at home.\n\nEveryone's been giving me and Zoey silent treatment and my wife is very much upset over this.", "selftext_html": "<!-- SC_OFF --><div class=\"md\"><p>My brother in-law (Sammy) lost his home shortly after his divorce 10 months ago. He moved in with us and brought his twin daughters (Olivia & Sloane18) with him a couple of months ago.\nHis sister (my wife) and I have one daughter (Zoey 16) and she and her cousins aren't close but get along fine.</p>\n\n<p>Olivia & Sloane have no respect for Zoey's privacy, none. they used to walk into her room and take everything they get their hands on. Makeup, phone accessories, clothes, school laptop etc. Zoey complained a lot and I've already asked the girls to respect Zoey's privacy and stop taking things. My wife and Sammy saw no issue with this. After all, they're girls and this's typical teenage girls behavior. I completely disagreed. </p>\n\n<p>Last straw was when Zoey bought a 60$ m.a.c makeup-kit that looks like a paintset that she saved up for over a month and one of the girls, Sloane took it without permission and ruined it by mixing shades together while using it. Don't know much about makeup but that's what Zoey said when she found the kit on her bed, and was crying.\nI told my wife and she said she'd ask Sloane to apologize but I got Zoey a lock after I found she was moving valuable belongings out the house because of this incidence!!!</p>\n\n<p>Sammy and his daughters saw the lock and weren't happy, the girls were extremely upset.\nSammy asked about it and I straight up told him. He said "my daughters aren't thieves!!! it's normal that girls of the same age borrow each others stuff" he said Zoey could easily get another makeup kit for 15 bucks from walmart and shouldn't even be buying expensive - adult makeup in the first place and suggested my wife take care of this "defect" in Zoey's personality trying to appear older than she is.\nHe accused me of being overprotective and babying Zoey with this level of enablement.</p>\n\n<p>I told him this's between me and my wife but she shamed me for putting a lock on Zoey's door for her cousins to see and preventing them from "spending time" with her saying I was supposed to treat them like daughters, then demanded I remove it but I said this lock does not get removed til her brother and his daughters are out of our house.</p>\n\n<p>She got mad I was implying we kick them out and said her family'll hate me for this. so I reminded her that I let Sammy and his family move in which's something her OWN family refused to do so she should start with shaming/blaming them for not taking their own son and nieces/granddaughters in. if it wasn't for her family's unwillingness to help we wouldn't be dealing with this much disturbance at home.</p>\n\n<p>Everyone's been giving me and Zoey silent treatment and my wife is very much upset over this.</p>\n</div><!-- SC_ON -->", "send_replies": true, "spoiler": false, "stickied": false, "subreddit": "r/AmItheAsshole", "subreddit_id": "t5_2xhvq", "subreddit_name_prefixed": "r/AmItheAsshole", "subreddit_subscribers": 24050251, "subreddit_type": "public", "suggested_sort": "top", "thread_id": "t3_ocx94s", "thumbnail": "", "title": "AITA for telling my wife the lock on my daughter's door does not get removed til my brother inlaw and his daughters are out of our house?", "top_awarded_type": null, "total_awards_received": 0, "treatment_tags": [], "unrepliable_reason": null, "ups": 81020, "upvote_ratio": 0.92, "url": "https://www.reddit.com/r/AmItheAsshole/comments/ocx94s/aita_for_telling_my_wife_the_lock_on_my_daughters/", "user_reports": [], "view_count": null, "visited": false, "wls": 7}, "role": "OnlyInQuebec9"}, {"content": "NTA. Don't back down. You are the only one sticking up for Zoey. If her cousins want to use expensive makeup, give them your wife's. I guarantee she won't appreciate sharing anymore.\n\nThey need to start behaving like appreciative guests.", "metadata": {"_additional_fetch_params": null, "_comments_by_id": null, "_fetched": true, "all_awardings": [], "allow_live_comments": null, "approved_at_utc": null, "approved_by": null, "archived": true, "associated_award": null, "author": "riblz11", "author_cakeday": null, "author_flair_background_color": "#3b2921", "author_flair_css_class": null, "author_flair_richtext": [], "author_flair_template_id": "0f8d1b4a-f8a7-11e8-920b-0e93c922efde", "author_flair_text": "Partassipant [3]", "author_flair_text_color": "light", "author_flair_type": "text", "author_fullname": "t2_m1enf", "author_is_blocked": false, "author_patreon_flair": false, "author_premium": false, "awarders": [], "banned_at_utc": null, "banned_by": null, "body": "NTA. Don't back down. You are the only one sticking up for Zoey. If her cousins want to use expensive makeup, give them your wife's. I guarantee she won't appreciate sharing anymore.\n\nThey need to start behaving like appreciative guests.", "body_html": "<div class=\"md\"><p>NTA. Don't back down. You are the only one sticking up for Zoey. If her cousins want to use expensive makeup, give them your wife's. I guarantee she won't appreciate sharing anymore.</p>\n\n<p>They need to start behaving like appreciative guests.</p>\n</div>", "can_gild": false, "can_mod_post": false, "category": null, "clicked": null, "collapsed": false, "collapsed_because_crowd_control": null, "collapsed_reason": null, "collapsed_reason_code": null, "comment_limit": null, "comment_sort": null, "comment_type": null, "content_categories": null, "contest_mode": null, "controversiality": 0, "created": 1625316287.0, "created_utc": 1625316287.0, "depth": 0, "discussion_type": null, "distinguished": null, "domain": null, "downs": 0, "edited": 0.0, "gilded": 4, "gildings": null, "hidden": null, "hide_score": null, "id": "h3wyfzq", "is_created_from_ads_ui": null, "is_crosspostable": null, "is_meta": null, "is_original_content": null, "is_reddit_media_domain": null, "is_robot_indexable": null, "is_self": null, "is_submitter": false, "is_video": null, "likes": null, "link_flair_background_color": null, "link_flair_css_class": null, "link_flair_richtext": null, "link_flair_template_id": null, "link_flair_text": null, "link_flair_text_color": null, "link_flair_type": null, "link_id": "t3_ocx94s", "locked": false, "media": null, "media_embed": null, "media_only": null, "mod_note": null, "mod_reason_by": null, "mod_reason_title": null, "mod_reports": [], "name": "t1_h3wyfzq", "no_follow": false, "num_comments": null, "num_crossposts": null, "num_reports": null, "over_18": null, "parent_id": "t3_ocx94s", "permalink": "/r/AmItheAsshole/comments/ocx94s/aita_for_telling_my_wife_the_lock_on_my_daughters/h3wyfzq/", "pinned": null, "pwls": null, "quarantine": null, "removal_reason": null, "removed_by": null, "removed_by_category": null, "report_reasons": null, "saved": false, "score": 65566, "score_hidden": false, "secure_media": null, "secure_media_embed": null, "selftext": null, "selftext_html": null, "send_replies": true, "spoiler": null, "stickied": false, "subreddit": "AmItheAsshole", "subreddit_id": "t5_2xhvq", "subreddit_name_prefixed": "r/AmItheAsshole", "subreddit_subscribers": null, "subreddit_type": "public", "suggested_sort": null, "thread_id": null, "thumbnail": null, "title": null, "top_awarded_type": null, "total_awards_received": 0, "treatment_tags": [], "unrepliable_reason": null, "ups": 65566, "upvote_ratio": null, "url": null, "user_reports": [], "view_count": null, "visited": null, "wls": null}, "role": "riblz11"}, {"content": "You know I probably shouldn't be saying this but my wife has been acting like a hypocrite latey. Especially regarding privacy issues. She considers privacy something very important but still thought that Zoey did not have the right to get a lock - Even if we leave her cousins out of this matter. My wife is not agreeing with the whole concept of getting a lock for Zoey. I explained to her what's been happenning, Even told her that Zoey has been moving some of her valuable belongings into a friend's house to keep them safe, do I blame her? Absolutely not. But my wife still thought Zoey was wrong to do that.\nNow her cousine are upset and they and Sammy are using the silent treatment (among other things like eating without us or not sitting with us) as a guilt tactic. Even though it's not affecting me, it's making Zoey feel like she did something wrong by having a lock for her room.", "metadata": {"_additional_fetch_params": null, "_comments_by_id": null, "_fetched": true, "all_awardings": [], "allow_live_comments": null, "approved_at_utc": null, "approved_by": null, "archived": true, "associated_award": null, "author": "OnlyInQuebec9", "author_cakeday": null, "author_flair_background_color": null, "author_flair_css_class": null, "author_flair_richtext": [], "author_flair_template_id": null, "author_flair_text": null, "author_flair_text_color": null, "author_flair_type": "text", "author_fullname": "t2_d32xujeo", "author_is_blocked": false, "author_patreon_flair": false, "author_premium": false, "awarders": [], "banned_at_utc": null, "banned_by": null, "body": "You know I probably shouldn't be saying this but my wife has been acting like a hypocrite latey. Especially regarding privacy issues. She considers privacy something very important but still thought that Zoey did not have the right to get a lock - Even if we leave her cousins out of this matter. My wife is not agreeing with the whole concept of getting a lock for Zoey. I explained to her what's been happenning, Even told her that Zoey has been moving some of her valuable belongings into a friend's house to keep them safe, do I blame her? Absolutely not. But my wife still thought Zoey was wrong to do that.\nNow her cousine are upset and they and Sammy are using the silent treatment (among other things like eating without us or not sitting with us) as a guilt tactic. Even though it's not affecting me, it's making Zoey feel like she did something wrong by having a lock for her room.", "body_html": "<div class=\"md\"><p>You know I probably shouldn't be saying this but my wife has been acting like a hypocrite latey. Especially regarding privacy issues. She considers privacy something very important but still thought that Zoey did not have the right to get a lock - Even if we leave her cousins out of this matter. My wife is not agreeing with the whole concept of getting a lock for Zoey. I explained to her what's been happenning, Even told her that Zoey has been moving some of her valuable belongings into a friend's house to keep them safe, do I blame her? Absolutely not. But my wife still thought Zoey was wrong to do that.\nNow her cousine are upset and they and Sammy are using the silent treatment (among other things like eating without us or not sitting with us) as a guilt tactic. Even though it's not affecting me, it's making Zoey feel like she did something wrong by having a lock for her room.</p>\n</div>", "can_gild": false, "can_mod_post": false, "category": null, "clicked": null, "collapsed": false, "collapsed_because_crowd_control": null, "collapsed_reason": null, "collapsed_reason_code": null, "comment_limit": null, "comment_sort": null, "comment_type": null, "content_categories": null, "contest_mode": null, "controversiality": 0, "created": 1625319958.0, "created_utc": 1625319958.0, "depth": 1, "discussion_type": null, "distinguished": null, "domain": null, "downs": 0, "edited": 1625325018.0, "gilded": 0, "gildings": null, "hidden": null, "hide_score": null, "id": "h3x48ia", "is_created_from_ads_ui": null, "is_crosspostable": null, "is_meta": null, "is_original_content": null, "is_reddit_media_domain": null, "is_robot_indexable": null, "is_self": null, "is_submitter": true, "is_video": null, "likes": null, "link_flair_background_color": null, 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u/OnlyInQuebec9 you need to tell your wife this!!! They are bullying her, they were bullying her to begin with and they (and your wife) are now gaslighting her. Your daughter has a right to feel safe in her own home and your wife is contributing to taking that away from her. NTA.
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I completely disagreed. \n\nLast straw was when Zoey bought a 60$ m.a.c makeup-kit that looks like a paintset that she saved up for over a month and one of the girls, Sloane took it without permission and ruined it by mixing shades together while using it. Don't know much about makeup but that's what Zoey said when she found the kit on her bed, and was crying.\nI told my wife and she said she'd ask Sloane to apologize but I got Zoey a lock after I found she was moving valuable belongings out the house because of this incidence!!!\n\nSammy and his daughters saw the lock and weren't happy, the girls were extremely upset.\nSammy asked about it and I straight up told him. He said \"my daughters aren't thieves!!! it's normal that girls of the same age borrow each others stuff\" he said Zoey could easily get another makeup kit for 15 bucks from walmart and shouldn't even be buying expensive - adult makeup in the first place and suggested my wife take care of this \"defect\" in Zoey's personality trying to appear older than she is.\nHe accused me of being overprotective and babying Zoey with this level of enablement.\n\nI told him this's between me and my wife but she shamed me for putting a lock on Zoey's door for her cousins to see and preventing them from \"spending time\" with her saying I was supposed to treat them like daughters, then demanded I remove it but I said this lock does not get removed til her brother and his daughters are out of our house.\n\nShe got mad I was implying we kick them out and said her family'll hate me for this. so I reminded her that I let Sammy and his family move in which's something her OWN family refused to do so she should start with shaming/blaming them for not taking their own son and nieces/granddaughters in. if it wasn't for her family's unwillingness to help we wouldn't be dealing with this much disturbance at home.\n\nEveryone's been giving me and Zoey silent treatment and my wife is very much upset over this.", "metadata": {"_additional_fetch_params": null, "_comments_by_id": null, "_fetched": false, "all_awardings": [], "allow_live_comments": true, "approved_at_utc": null, "approved_by": null, "archived": true, "associated_award": null, "author": "OnlyInQuebec9", "author_cakeday": null, "author_flair_background_color": null, "author_flair_css_class": null, "author_flair_richtext": [], "author_flair_template_id": null, "author_flair_text": null, "author_flair_text_color": null, "author_flair_type": "text", "author_fullname": "t2_d32xujeo", "author_is_blocked": false, "author_patreon_flair": false, "author_premium": false, "awarders": [], "banned_at_utc": null, "banned_by": null, "body": null, "body_html": null, "can_gild": false, "can_mod_post": false, "category": null, "clicked": false, "collapsed": null, "collapsed_because_crowd_control": null, "collapsed_reason": null, "collapsed_reason_code": null, "comment_limit": 2048, "comment_sort": "confidence", "comment_type": null, "content_categories": null, "contest_mode": false, "controversiality": null, "created": 1625315782.0, "created_utc": 1625315782.0, "depth": null, "discussion_type": null, "distinguished": null, "domain": "self.AmItheAsshole", "downs": 0, "edited": 0.0, "gilded": 3, "gildings": null, "hidden": false, "hide_score": false, "id": "ocx94s", "is_created_from_ads_ui": false, "is_crosspostable": false, "is_meta": false, "is_original_content": false, "is_reddit_media_domain": false, "is_robot_indexable": true, "is_self": true, "is_submitter": null, "is_video": false, "likes": null, "link_flair_background_color": "#7193ff", "link_flair_css_class": "not", "link_flair_richtext": [], "link_flair_template_id": "35ab95ec-0b14-11e5-87b6-0efd95e46dfd", "link_flair_text": "Not the A-hole", "link_flair_text_color": "light", "link_flair_type": "text", "link_id": null, "locked": true, "media": null, "media_embed": null, "media_only": false, "mod_note": null, "mod_reason_by": null, "mod_reason_title": null, "mod_reports": [], "name": "t3_ocx94s", "no_follow": false, "num_comments": 5237, "num_crossposts": 10, "num_reports": null, "over_18": false, "parent_id": null, "permalink": "/r/AmItheAsshole/comments/ocx94s/aita_for_telling_my_wife_the_lock_on_my_daughters/", "pinned": false, "pwls": 7, "quarantine": false, "removal_reason": null, "removed_by": null, "removed_by_category": null, "report_reasons": null, "saved": false, "score": 81020, "score_hidden": null, "secure_media": null, "secure_media_embed": null, "selftext": "My brother in-law (Sammy) lost his home shortly after his divorce 10 months ago. He moved in with us and brought his twin daughters (Olivia & Sloane18) with him a couple of months ago.\nHis sister (my wife) and I have one daughter (Zoey 16) and she and her cousins aren't close but get along fine.\n\nOlivia & Sloane have no respect for Zoey's privacy, none. they used to walk into her room and take everything they get their hands on. Makeup, phone accessories, clothes, school laptop etc. Zoey complained a lot and I've already asked the girls to respect Zoey's privacy and stop taking things. My wife and Sammy saw no issue with this. After all, they're girls and this's typical teenage girls behavior. I completely disagreed. \n\nLast straw was when Zoey bought a 60$ m.a.c makeup-kit that looks like a paintset that she saved up for over a month and one of the girls, Sloane took it without permission and ruined it by mixing shades together while using it. Don't know much about makeup but that's what Zoey said when she found the kit on her bed, and was crying.\nI told my wife and she said she'd ask Sloane to apologize but I got Zoey a lock after I found she was moving valuable belongings out the house because of this incidence!!!\n\nSammy and his daughters saw the lock and weren't happy, the girls were extremely upset.\nSammy asked about it and I straight up told him. He said \"my daughters aren't thieves!!! it's normal that girls of the same age borrow each others stuff\" he said Zoey could easily get another makeup kit for 15 bucks from walmart and shouldn't even be buying expensive - adult makeup in the first place and suggested my wife take care of this \"defect\" in Zoey's personality trying to appear older than she is.\nHe accused me of being overprotective and babying Zoey with this level of enablement.\n\nI told him this's between me and my wife but she shamed me for putting a lock on Zoey's door for her cousins to see and preventing them from \"spending time\" with her saying I was supposed to treat them like daughters, then demanded I remove it but I said this lock does not get removed til her brother and his daughters are out of our house.\n\nShe got mad I was implying we kick them out and said her family'll hate me for this. so I reminded her that I let Sammy and his family move in which's something her OWN family refused to do so she should start with shaming/blaming them for not taking their own son and nieces/granddaughters in. if it wasn't for her family's unwillingness to help we wouldn't be dealing with this much disturbance at home.\n\nEveryone's been giving me and Zoey silent treatment and my wife is very much upset over this.", "selftext_html": "<!-- SC_OFF --><div class=\"md\"><p>My brother in-law (Sammy) lost his home shortly after his divorce 10 months ago. He moved in with us and brought his twin daughters (Olivia & Sloane18) with him a couple of months ago.\nHis sister (my wife) and I have one daughter (Zoey 16) and she and her cousins aren't close but get along fine.</p>\n\n<p>Olivia & Sloane have no respect for Zoey's privacy, none. they used to walk into her room and take everything they get their hands on. Makeup, phone accessories, clothes, school laptop etc. Zoey complained a lot and I've already asked the girls to respect Zoey's privacy and stop taking things. My wife and Sammy saw no issue with this. After all, they're girls and this's typical teenage girls behavior. I completely disagreed. </p>\n\n<p>Last straw was when Zoey bought a 60$ m.a.c makeup-kit that looks like a paintset that she saved up for over a month and one of the girls, Sloane took it without permission and ruined it by mixing shades together while using it. 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He said "my daughters aren't thieves!!! it's normal that girls of the same age borrow each others stuff" he said Zoey could easily get another makeup kit for 15 bucks from walmart and shouldn't even be buying expensive - adult makeup in the first place and suggested my wife take care of this "defect" in Zoey's personality trying to appear older than she is.\nHe accused me of being overprotective and babying Zoey with this level of enablement.</p>\n\n<p>I told him this's between me and my wife but she shamed me for putting a lock on Zoey's door for her cousins to see and preventing them from "spending time" with her saying I was supposed to treat them like daughters, then demanded I remove it but I said this lock does not get removed til her brother and his daughters are out of our house.</p>\n\n<p>She got mad I was implying we kick them out and said her family'll hate me for this. so I reminded her that I let Sammy and his family move in which's something her OWN family refused to do so she should start with shaming/blaming them for not taking their own son and nieces/granddaughters in. if it wasn't for her family's unwillingness to help we wouldn't be dealing with this much disturbance at home.</p>\n\n<p>Everyone's been giving me and Zoey silent treatment and my wife is very much upset over this.</p>\n</div><!-- SC_ON -->", "send_replies": true, "spoiler": false, "stickied": false, "subreddit": "r/AmItheAsshole", "subreddit_id": "t5_2xhvq", "subreddit_name_prefixed": "r/AmItheAsshole", "subreddit_subscribers": 24050251, "subreddit_type": "public", "suggested_sort": "top", "thread_id": "t3_ocx94s", "thumbnail": "", "title": "AITA for telling my wife the lock on my daughter's door does not get removed til my brother inlaw and his daughters are out of our house?", "top_awarded_type": null, "total_awards_received": 0, "treatment_tags": [], "unrepliable_reason": null, "ups": 81020, "upvote_ratio": 0.92, "url": "https://www.reddit.com/r/AmItheAsshole/comments/ocx94s/aita_for_telling_my_wife_the_lock_on_my_daughters/", "user_reports": [], "view_count": null, "visited": false, "wls": 7}, "role": "OnlyInQuebec9"}, {"content": "NTA. Don't back down. You are the only one sticking up for Zoey. If her cousins want to use expensive makeup, give them your wife's. I guarantee she won't appreciate sharing anymore.\n\nThey need to start behaving like appreciative guests.", "metadata": {"_additional_fetch_params": null, "_comments_by_id": null, "_fetched": true, "all_awardings": [], "allow_live_comments": null, "approved_at_utc": null, "approved_by": null, "archived": true, "associated_award": null, "author": "riblz11", "author_cakeday": null, "author_flair_background_color": "#3b2921", "author_flair_css_class": null, "author_flair_richtext": [], "author_flair_template_id": "0f8d1b4a-f8a7-11e8-920b-0e93c922efde", "author_flair_text": "Partassipant [3]", "author_flair_text_color": "light", "author_flair_type": "text", "author_fullname": "t2_m1enf", "author_is_blocked": false, "author_patreon_flair": false, "author_premium": false, "awarders": [], "banned_at_utc": null, "banned_by": null, "body": "NTA. Don't back down. You are the only one sticking up for Zoey. If her cousins want to use expensive makeup, give them your wife's. I guarantee she won't appreciate sharing anymore.\n\nThey need to start behaving like appreciative guests.", "body_html": "<div class=\"md\"><p>NTA. Don't back down. You are the only one sticking up for Zoey. If her cousins want to use expensive makeup, give them your wife's. I guarantee she won't appreciate sharing anymore.</p>\n\n<p>They need to start behaving like appreciative guests.</p>\n</div>", "can_gild": false, "can_mod_post": false, "category": null, "clicked": null, "collapsed": false, "collapsed_because_crowd_control": null, "collapsed_reason": null, "collapsed_reason_code": null, "comment_limit": null, "comment_sort": null, "comment_type": null, "content_categories": null, "contest_mode": null, "controversiality": 0, "created": 1625316287.0, "created_utc": 1625316287.0, "depth": 0, "discussion_type": null, "distinguished": null, "domain": null, "downs": 0, "edited": 0.0, "gilded": 4, "gildings": null, "hidden": null, "hide_score": null, "id": "h3wyfzq", "is_created_from_ads_ui": null, "is_crosspostable": null, "is_meta": null, "is_original_content": null, "is_reddit_media_domain": null, "is_robot_indexable": null, "is_self": null, "is_submitter": false, "is_video": null, "likes": null, "link_flair_background_color": null, "link_flair_css_class": null, "link_flair_richtext": null, "link_flair_template_id": null, "link_flair_text": null, "link_flair_text_color": null, "link_flair_type": null, "link_id": "t3_ocx94s", "locked": false, "media": null, "media_embed": null, "media_only": null, "mod_note": null, "mod_reason_by": null, "mod_reason_title": null, "mod_reports": [], "name": "t1_h3wyfzq", "no_follow": false, "num_comments": null, "num_crossposts": null, "num_reports": null, "over_18": null, "parent_id": "t3_ocx94s", "permalink": "/r/AmItheAsshole/comments/ocx94s/aita_for_telling_my_wife_the_lock_on_my_daughters/h3wyfzq/", "pinned": null, "pwls": null, "quarantine": null, "removal_reason": null, "removed_by": null, "removed_by_category": null, "report_reasons": null, "saved": false, "score": 65566, "score_hidden": false, "secure_media": null, "secure_media_embed": null, "selftext": null, "selftext_html": null, "send_replies": true, "spoiler": null, "stickied": false, "subreddit": "AmItheAsshole", "subreddit_id": "t5_2xhvq", "subreddit_name_prefixed": "r/AmItheAsshole", "subreddit_subscribers": null, "subreddit_type": "public", "suggested_sort": null, "thread_id": null, "thumbnail": null, "title": null, "top_awarded_type": null, "total_awards_received": 0, "treatment_tags": [], "unrepliable_reason": null, "ups": 65566, "upvote_ratio": null, "url": null, "user_reports": [], "view_count": null, "visited": null, "wls": null}, "role": "riblz11"}, {"content": "You know I probably shouldn't be saying this but my wife has been acting like a hypocrite latey. Especially regarding privacy issues. She considers privacy something very important but still thought that Zoey did not have the right to get a lock - Even if we leave her cousins out of this matter. My wife is not agreeing with the whole concept of getting a lock for Zoey. I explained to her what's been happenning, Even told her that Zoey has been moving some of her valuable belongings into a friend's house to keep them safe, do I blame her? Absolutely not. But my wife still thought Zoey was wrong to do that.\nNow her cousine are upset and they and Sammy are using the silent treatment (among other things like eating without us or not sitting with us) as a guilt tactic. Even though it's not affecting me, it's making Zoey feel like she did something wrong by having a lock for her room.", "metadata": {"_additional_fetch_params": null, "_comments_by_id": null, "_fetched": true, "all_awardings": [], "allow_live_comments": null, "approved_at_utc": null, "approved_by": null, "archived": true, "associated_award": null, "author": "OnlyInQuebec9", "author_cakeday": null, "author_flair_background_color": null, "author_flair_css_class": null, "author_flair_richtext": [], "author_flair_template_id": null, "author_flair_text": null, "author_flair_text_color": null, "author_flair_type": "text", "author_fullname": "t2_d32xujeo", "author_is_blocked": false, "author_patreon_flair": false, "author_premium": false, "awarders": [], "banned_at_utc": null, "banned_by": null, "body": "You know I probably shouldn't be saying this but my wife has been acting like a hypocrite latey. Especially regarding privacy issues. She considers privacy something very important but still thought that Zoey did not have the right to get a lock - Even if we leave her cousins out of this matter. My wife is not agreeing with the whole concept of getting a lock for Zoey. I explained to her what's been happenning, Even told her that Zoey has been moving some of her valuable belongings into a friend's house to keep them safe, do I blame her? Absolutely not. But my wife still thought Zoey was wrong to do that.\nNow her cousine are upset and they and Sammy are using the silent treatment (among other things like eating without us or not sitting with us) as a guilt tactic. Even though it's not affecting me, it's making Zoey feel like she did something wrong by having a lock for her room.", "body_html": "<div class=\"md\"><p>You know I probably shouldn't be saying this but my wife has been acting like a hypocrite latey. Especially regarding privacy issues. She considers privacy something very important but still thought that Zoey did not have the right to get a lock - Even if we leave her cousins out of this matter. My wife is not agreeing with the whole concept of getting a lock for Zoey. I explained to her what's been happenning, Even told her that Zoey has been moving some of her valuable belongings into a friend's house to keep them safe, do I blame her? Absolutely not. But my wife still thought Zoey was wrong to do that.\nNow her cousine are upset and they and Sammy are using the silent treatment (among other things like eating without us or not sitting with us) as a guilt tactic. Even though it's not affecting me, it's making Zoey feel like she did something wrong by having a lock for her room.</p>\n</div>", "can_gild": false, "can_mod_post": false, "category": null, "clicked": null, "collapsed": false, "collapsed_because_crowd_control": null, "collapsed_reason": null, "collapsed_reason_code": null, "comment_limit": null, "comment_sort": null, "comment_type": null, "content_categories": null, "contest_mode": null, "controversiality": 0, "created": 1625319958.0, "created_utc": 1625319958.0, "depth": 1, "discussion_type": null, "distinguished": null, "domain": null, "downs": 0, "edited": 1625325018.0, "gilded": 0, "gildings": null, "hidden": null, "hide_score": null, "id": "h3x48ia", "is_created_from_ads_ui": null, "is_crosspostable": null, "is_meta": null, "is_original_content": null, "is_reddit_media_domain": null, "is_robot_indexable": null, "is_self": null, "is_submitter": true, "is_video": null, "likes": null, "link_flair_background_color": null, 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"subreddit_id": "t5_2xhvq", "subreddit_name_prefixed": "r/AmItheAsshole", "subreddit_subscribers": null, "subreddit_type": "public", "suggested_sort": null, "thread_id": null, "thumbnail": null, "title": null, "top_awarded_type": null, "total_awards_received": 0, "treatment_tags": [], "unrepliable_reason": null, "ups": 5196, "upvote_ratio": null, "url": null, "user_reports": [], "view_count": null, "visited": null, "wls": null}, "role": "OnlyInQuebec9"}, {"content": "WTF dang these people are entitled AF. \n\nI'd kick them all out for creating a hostile and uncomfortable situation IN MY OWN HOME.", "metadata": {"_additional_fetch_params": null, "_comments_by_id": null, "_fetched": true, "all_awardings": [], "allow_live_comments": null, "approved_at_utc": null, "approved_by": null, "archived": true, "associated_award": null, "author": "loveisrespectS2", "author_cakeday": null, "author_flair_background_color": null, "author_flair_css_class": null, "author_flair_richtext": [], "author_flair_template_id": null, "author_flair_text": null, "author_flair_text_color": null, "author_flair_type": "text", "author_fullname": "t2_8cnm4vfp", "author_is_blocked": false, "author_patreon_flair": false, "author_premium": false, "awarders": [], "banned_at_utc": null, "banned_by": null, "body": "WTF dang these people are entitled AF. \n\nI'd kick them all out for creating a hostile and uncomfortable situation IN MY OWN HOME.", "body_html": "<div class=\"md\"><p>WTF dang these people are entitled AF. </p>\n\n<p>I'd kick them all out for creating a hostile and uncomfortable situation IN MY OWN HOME.</p>\n</div>", "can_gild": false, "can_mod_post": false, "category": null, "clicked": null, "collapsed": false, "collapsed_because_crowd_control": null, "collapsed_reason": null, "collapsed_reason_code": null, "comment_limit": null, "comment_sort": null, "comment_type": null, "content_categories": null, "contest_mode": null, "controversiality": 0, "created": 1625320392.0, 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"permalink": "/r/AmItheAsshole/comments/ocx94s/aita_for_telling_my_wife_the_lock_on_my_daughters/h3x501c/", "pinned": null, "pwls": null, "quarantine": null, "removal_reason": null, "removed_by": null, "removed_by_category": null, "report_reasons": null, "saved": false, "score": 4275, "score_hidden": false, "secure_media": null, "secure_media_embed": null, "selftext": null, "selftext_html": null, "send_replies": true, "spoiler": null, "stickied": false, "subreddit": "AmItheAsshole", "subreddit_id": "t5_2xhvq", "subreddit_name_prefixed": "r/AmItheAsshole", "subreddit_subscribers": null, "subreddit_type": "public", "suggested_sort": null, "thread_id": null, "thumbnail": null, "title": null, "top_awarded_type": null, "total_awards_received": 0, "treatment_tags": [], "unrepliable_reason": null, "ups": 4275, "upvote_ratio": null, "url": null, "user_reports": [], "view_count": null, "visited": null, "wls": null}, "role": "loveisrespectS2"}, {"content": "Exactly. These people need to go now, They are mentally abusing and bullying a teenage girl- as well as OP. Gaslighting , disrespect and straight out hostile behaviour- in OPs own home. OP you are NTA -Boot them to the next relatives and if your wife has a problem with that- she can drive them there. Please do not back down on this and yes, let them know that your wifey has no problem with sharing make up. These people are disgraceful and entitled.", "metadata": {"_additional_fetch_params": null, "_comments_by_id": null, "_fetched": true, "all_awardings": [], "allow_live_comments": null, "approved_at_utc": null, "approved_by": null, "archived": true, "associated_award": null, "author": "V-838", "author_cakeday": null, "author_flair_background_color": null, "author_flair_css_class": null, "author_flair_richtext": [], "author_flair_template_id": null, "author_flair_text": null, "author_flair_text_color": null, "author_flair_type": "text", "author_fullname": "t2_3f9eum54", "author_is_blocked": false, "author_patreon_flair": false, "author_premium": false, "awarders": [], "banned_at_utc": null, "banned_by": null, "body": "Exactly. These people need to go now, They are mentally abusing and bullying a teenage girl- as well as OP. Gaslighting , disrespect and straight out hostile behaviour- in OPs own home. OP you are NTA -Boot them to the next relatives and if your wife has a problem with that- she can drive them there. Please do not back down on this and yes, let them know that your wifey has no problem with sharing make up. These people are disgraceful and entitled.", "body_html": "<div class=\"md\"><p>Exactly. These people need to go now, They are mentally abusing and bullying a teenage girl- as well as OP. Gaslighting , disrespect and straight out hostile behaviour- in OPs own home. OP you are NTA -Boot them to the next relatives and if your wife has a problem with that- she can drive them there. Please do not back down on this and yes, let them know that your wifey has no problem with sharing make up. These people are disgraceful and entitled.</p>\n</div>", "can_gild": false, "can_mod_post": false, "category": null, "clicked": null, "collapsed": false, "collapsed_because_crowd_control": null, "collapsed_reason": null, "collapsed_reason_code": null, "comment_limit": null, "comment_sort": null, "comment_type": null, "content_categories": null, "contest_mode": null, "controversiality": 0, "created": 1625321440.0, "created_utc": 1625321440.0, "depth": 3, "discussion_type": null, "distinguished": null, "domain": null, "downs": 0, "edited": 0.0, "gilded": 1, "gildings": null, "hidden": null, "hide_score": null, "id": "h3x6v41", "is_created_from_ads_ui": null, "is_crosspostable": null, "is_meta": null, "is_original_content": null, "is_reddit_media_domain": null, "is_robot_indexable": null, "is_self": null, "is_submitter": false, "is_video": null, "likes": null, "link_flair_background_color": null, "link_flair_css_class": null, "link_flair_richtext": null, "link_flair_template_id": null, "link_flair_text": null, "link_flair_text_color": null, "link_flair_type": null, "link_id": "t3_ocx94s", "locked": false, "media": null, "media_embed": null, "media_only": null, "mod_note": null, "mod_reason_by": null, "mod_reason_title": null, "mod_reports": [], "name": "t1_h3x6v41", "no_follow": false, "num_comments": null, "num_crossposts": null, "num_reports": null, "over_18": null, "parent_id": "t1_h3x501c", "permalink": "/r/AmItheAsshole/comments/ocx94s/aita_for_telling_my_wife_the_lock_on_my_daughters/h3x6v41/", "pinned": null, "pwls": null, "quarantine": null, "removal_reason": null, "removed_by": null, "removed_by_category": null, "report_reasons": null, "saved": false, "score": 3421, "score_hidden": false, "secure_media": null, "secure_media_embed": null, "selftext": null, "selftext_html": null, "send_replies": true, "spoiler": null, "stickied": false, "subreddit": "AmItheAsshole", "subreddit_id": "t5_2xhvq", "subreddit_name_prefixed": "r/AmItheAsshole", "subreddit_subscribers": null, "subreddit_type": "public", "suggested_sort": null, "thread_id": null, "thumbnail": null, "title": null, "top_awarded_type": null, "total_awards_received": 0, "treatment_tags": [], "unrepliable_reason": null, "ups": 3421, "upvote_ratio": null, "url": null, "user_reports": [], "view_count": null, "visited": null, "wls": null}, "role": "V-838"}]
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>Gaslighting , disrespect and straight out hostile behaviour- in OPs own home. OP you are NTA -Boot them to the next relatives and if your wife has a problem with that- she can drive them there
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This is it. They are extremely disrespectful and hugely entitled to think they can waltz into OP's house and do whatever the hell they want?! Instead of being grateful for a shelter over their heads. Bil and daughters are all adults - they can all be kicked out for pulling this shit.
And the wife?? Yikes. I have no advice there, she sounds like she'll eventually end up in r/justnomil.
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I completely disagreed. \n\nLast straw was when Zoey bought a 60$ m.a.c makeup-kit that looks like a paintset that she saved up for over a month and one of the girls, Sloane took it without permission and ruined it by mixing shades together while using it. Don't know much about makeup but that's what Zoey said when she found the kit on her bed, and was crying.\nI told my wife and she said she'd ask Sloane to apologize but I got Zoey a lock after I found she was moving valuable belongings out the house because of this incidence!!!\n\nSammy and his daughters saw the lock and weren't happy, the girls were extremely upset.\nSammy asked about it and I straight up told him. He said \"my daughters aren't thieves!!! it's normal that girls of the same age borrow each others stuff\" he said Zoey could easily get another makeup kit for 15 bucks from walmart and shouldn't even be buying expensive - adult makeup in the first place and suggested my wife take care of this \"defect\" in Zoey's personality trying to appear older than she is.\nHe accused me of being overprotective and babying Zoey with this level of enablement.\n\nI told him this's between me and my wife but she shamed me for putting a lock on Zoey's door for her cousins to see and preventing them from \"spending time\" with her saying I was supposed to treat them like daughters, then demanded I remove it but I said this lock does not get removed til her brother and his daughters are out of our house.\n\nShe got mad I was implying we kick them out and said her family'll hate me for this. so I reminded her that I let Sammy and his family move in which's something her OWN family refused to do so she should start with shaming/blaming them for not taking their own son and nieces/granddaughters in. if it wasn't for her family's unwillingness to help we wouldn't be dealing with this much disturbance at home.\n\nEveryone's been giving me and Zoey silent treatment and my wife is very much upset over this.", "metadata": {"_additional_fetch_params": null, "_comments_by_id": null, "_fetched": false, "all_awardings": [], "allow_live_comments": true, "approved_at_utc": null, "approved_by": null, "archived": true, "associated_award": null, "author": "OnlyInQuebec9", "author_cakeday": null, "author_flair_background_color": null, "author_flair_css_class": null, "author_flair_richtext": [], "author_flair_template_id": null, "author_flair_text": null, "author_flair_text_color": null, "author_flair_type": "text", "author_fullname": "t2_d32xujeo", "author_is_blocked": false, "author_patreon_flair": false, "author_premium": false, "awarders": [], "banned_at_utc": null, "banned_by": null, "body": null, "body_html": null, "can_gild": false, "can_mod_post": false, "category": null, "clicked": false, "collapsed": null, "collapsed_because_crowd_control": null, "collapsed_reason": null, "collapsed_reason_code": null, "comment_limit": 2048, "comment_sort": "confidence", "comment_type": null, "content_categories": null, "contest_mode": false, "controversiality": null, "created": 1625315782.0, "created_utc": 1625315782.0, "depth": null, "discussion_type": null, "distinguished": null, "domain": "self.AmItheAsshole", "downs": 0, "edited": 0.0, "gilded": 3, "gildings": null, "hidden": false, "hide_score": false, "id": "ocx94s", "is_created_from_ads_ui": false, "is_crosspostable": false, "is_meta": false, "is_original_content": false, "is_reddit_media_domain": false, "is_robot_indexable": true, "is_self": true, "is_submitter": null, "is_video": false, "likes": null, "link_flair_background_color": "#7193ff", "link_flair_css_class": "not", "link_flair_richtext": [], "link_flair_template_id": "35ab95ec-0b14-11e5-87b6-0efd95e46dfd", "link_flair_text": "Not the A-hole", "link_flair_text_color": "light", "link_flair_type": "text", "link_id": null, "locked": true, "media": null, "media_embed": null, "media_only": false, "mod_note": null, "mod_reason_by": null, "mod_reason_title": null, "mod_reports": [], "name": "t3_ocx94s", "no_follow": false, "num_comments": 5237, "num_crossposts": 10, "num_reports": null, "over_18": false, "parent_id": null, "permalink": "/r/AmItheAsshole/comments/ocx94s/aita_for_telling_my_wife_the_lock_on_my_daughters/", "pinned": false, "pwls": 7, "quarantine": false, "removal_reason": null, "removed_by": null, "removed_by_category": null, "report_reasons": null, "saved": false, "score": 81020, "score_hidden": null, "secure_media": null, "secure_media_embed": null, "selftext": "My brother in-law (Sammy) lost his home shortly after his divorce 10 months ago. He moved in with us and brought his twin daughters (Olivia & Sloane18) with him a couple of months ago.\nHis sister (my wife) and I have one daughter (Zoey 16) and she and her cousins aren't close but get along fine.\n\nOlivia & Sloane have no respect for Zoey's privacy, none. they used to walk into her room and take everything they get their hands on. Makeup, phone accessories, clothes, school laptop etc. Zoey complained a lot and I've already asked the girls to respect Zoey's privacy and stop taking things. My wife and Sammy saw no issue with this. After all, they're girls and this's typical teenage girls behavior. I completely disagreed. \n\nLast straw was when Zoey bought a 60$ m.a.c makeup-kit that looks like a paintset that she saved up for over a month and one of the girls, Sloane took it without permission and ruined it by mixing shades together while using it. Don't know much about makeup but that's what Zoey said when she found the kit on her bed, and was crying.\nI told my wife and she said she'd ask Sloane to apologize but I got Zoey a lock after I found she was moving valuable belongings out the house because of this incidence!!!\n\nSammy and his daughters saw the lock and weren't happy, the girls were extremely upset.\nSammy asked about it and I straight up told him. He said \"my daughters aren't thieves!!! it's normal that girls of the same age borrow each others stuff\" he said Zoey could easily get another makeup kit for 15 bucks from walmart and shouldn't even be buying expensive - adult makeup in the first place and suggested my wife take care of this \"defect\" in Zoey's personality trying to appear older than she is.\nHe accused me of being overprotective and babying Zoey with this level of enablement.\n\nI told him this's between me and my wife but she shamed me for putting a lock on Zoey's door for her cousins to see and preventing them from \"spending time\" with her saying I was supposed to treat them like daughters, then demanded I remove it but I said this lock does not get removed til her brother and his daughters are out of our house.\n\nShe got mad I was implying we kick them out and said her family'll hate me for this. so I reminded her that I let Sammy and his family move in which's something her OWN family refused to do so she should start with shaming/blaming them for not taking their own son and nieces/granddaughters in. if it wasn't for her family's unwillingness to help we wouldn't be dealing with this much disturbance at home.\n\nEveryone's been giving me and Zoey silent treatment and my wife is very much upset over this.", "selftext_html": "<!-- SC_OFF --><div class=\"md\"><p>My brother in-law (Sammy) lost his home shortly after his divorce 10 months ago. He moved in with us and brought his twin daughters (Olivia & Sloane18) with him a couple of months ago.\nHis sister (my wife) and I have one daughter (Zoey 16) and she and her cousins aren't close but get along fine.</p>\n\n<p>Olivia & Sloane have no respect for Zoey's privacy, none. they used to walk into her room and take everything they get their hands on. Makeup, phone accessories, clothes, school laptop etc. Zoey complained a lot and I've already asked the girls to respect Zoey's privacy and stop taking things. My wife and Sammy saw no issue with this. After all, they're girls and this's typical teenage girls behavior. I completely disagreed. </p>\n\n<p>Last straw was when Zoey bought a 60$ m.a.c makeup-kit that looks like a paintset that she saved up for over a month and one of the girls, Sloane took it without permission and ruined it by mixing shades together while using it. Don't know much about makeup but that's what Zoey said when she found the kit on her bed, and was crying.\nI told my wife and she said she'd ask Sloane to apologize but I got Zoey a lock after I found she was moving valuable belongings out the house because of this incidence!!!</p>\n\n<p>Sammy and his daughters saw the lock and weren't happy, the girls were extremely upset.\nSammy asked about it and I straight up told him. He said "my daughters aren't thieves!!! it's normal that girls of the same age borrow each others stuff" he said Zoey could easily get another makeup kit for 15 bucks from walmart and shouldn't even be buying expensive - adult makeup in the first place and suggested my wife take care of this "defect" in Zoey's personality trying to appear older than she is.\nHe accused me of being overprotective and babying Zoey with this level of enablement.</p>\n\n<p>I told him this's between me and my wife but she shamed me for putting a lock on Zoey's door for her cousins to see and preventing them from "spending time" with her saying I was supposed to treat them like daughters, then demanded I remove it but I said this lock does not get removed til her brother and his daughters are out of our house.</p>\n\n<p>She got mad I was implying we kick them out and said her family'll hate me for this. so I reminded her that I let Sammy and his family move in which's something her OWN family refused to do so she should start with shaming/blaming them for not taking their own son and nieces/granddaughters in. if it wasn't for her family's unwillingness to help we wouldn't be dealing with this much disturbance at home.</p>\n\n<p>Everyone's been giving me and Zoey silent treatment and my wife is very much upset over this.</p>\n</div><!-- SC_ON -->", "send_replies": true, "spoiler": false, "stickied": false, "subreddit": "r/AmItheAsshole", "subreddit_id": "t5_2xhvq", "subreddit_name_prefixed": "r/AmItheAsshole", "subreddit_subscribers": 24050251, "subreddit_type": "public", "suggested_sort": "top", "thread_id": "t3_ocx94s", "thumbnail": "", "title": "AITA for telling my wife the lock on my daughter's door does not get removed til my brother inlaw and his daughters are out of our house?", "top_awarded_type": null, "total_awards_received": 0, "treatment_tags": [], "unrepliable_reason": null, "ups": 81020, "upvote_ratio": 0.92, "url": "https://www.reddit.com/r/AmItheAsshole/comments/ocx94s/aita_for_telling_my_wife_the_lock_on_my_daughters/", "user_reports": [], "view_count": null, "visited": false, "wls": 7}, "role": "OnlyInQuebec9"}, {"content": "NTA. Don't back down. You are the only one sticking up for Zoey. If her cousins want to use expensive makeup, give them your wife's. I guarantee she won't appreciate sharing anymore.\n\nThey need to start behaving like appreciative guests.", "metadata": {"_additional_fetch_params": null, "_comments_by_id": null, "_fetched": true, "all_awardings": [], "allow_live_comments": null, "approved_at_utc": null, "approved_by": null, "archived": true, "associated_award": null, "author": "riblz11", "author_cakeday": null, "author_flair_background_color": "#3b2921", "author_flair_css_class": null, "author_flair_richtext": [], "author_flair_template_id": "0f8d1b4a-f8a7-11e8-920b-0e93c922efde", "author_flair_text": "Partassipant [3]", "author_flair_text_color": "light", "author_flair_type": "text", "author_fullname": "t2_m1enf", "author_is_blocked": false, "author_patreon_flair": false, "author_premium": false, "awarders": [], "banned_at_utc": null, "banned_by": null, "body": "NTA. Don't back down. You are the only one sticking up for Zoey. If her cousins want to use expensive makeup, give them your wife's. I guarantee she won't appreciate sharing anymore.\n\nThey need to start behaving like appreciative guests.", "body_html": "<div class=\"md\"><p>NTA. Don't back down. You are the only one sticking up for Zoey. If her cousins want to use expensive makeup, give them your wife's. I guarantee she won't appreciate sharing anymore.</p>\n\n<p>They need to start behaving like appreciative guests.</p>\n</div>", "can_gild": false, "can_mod_post": false, "category": null, "clicked": null, "collapsed": false, "collapsed_because_crowd_control": null, "collapsed_reason": null, "collapsed_reason_code": null, "comment_limit": null, "comment_sort": null, "comment_type": null, "content_categories": null, "contest_mode": null, "controversiality": 0, "created": 1625316287.0, "created_utc": 1625316287.0, "depth": 0, "discussion_type": null, "distinguished": null, "domain": null, "downs": 0, "edited": 0.0, "gilded": 4, "gildings": null, "hidden": null, "hide_score": null, "id": "h3wyfzq", "is_created_from_ads_ui": null, "is_crosspostable": null, "is_meta": null, "is_original_content": null, "is_reddit_media_domain": null, "is_robot_indexable": null, "is_self": null, "is_submitter": false, "is_video": null, "likes": null, "link_flair_background_color": null, "link_flair_css_class": null, "link_flair_richtext": null, "link_flair_template_id": null, "link_flair_text": null, "link_flair_text_color": null, "link_flair_type": null, "link_id": "t3_ocx94s", "locked": false, "media": null, "media_embed": null, "media_only": null, "mod_note": null, "mod_reason_by": null, "mod_reason_title": null, "mod_reports": [], "name": "t1_h3wyfzq", "no_follow": false, "num_comments": null, "num_crossposts": null, "num_reports": null, "over_18": null, "parent_id": "t3_ocx94s", "permalink": "/r/AmItheAsshole/comments/ocx94s/aita_for_telling_my_wife_the_lock_on_my_daughters/h3wyfzq/", "pinned": null, "pwls": null, "quarantine": null, "removal_reason": null, "removed_by": null, "removed_by_category": null, "report_reasons": null, "saved": false, "score": 65566, "score_hidden": false, "secure_media": null, "secure_media_embed": null, "selftext": null, "selftext_html": null, "send_replies": true, "spoiler": null, "stickied": false, "subreddit": "AmItheAsshole", "subreddit_id": "t5_2xhvq", "subreddit_name_prefixed": "r/AmItheAsshole", "subreddit_subscribers": null, "subreddit_type": "public", "suggested_sort": null, "thread_id": null, "thumbnail": null, "title": null, "top_awarded_type": null, "total_awards_received": 0, "treatment_tags": [], "unrepliable_reason": null, "ups": 65566, "upvote_ratio": null, "url": null, "user_reports": [], "view_count": null, "visited": null, "wls": null}, "role": "riblz11"}, {"content": "You know I probably shouldn't be saying this but my wife has been acting like a hypocrite latey. Especially regarding privacy issues. She considers privacy something very important but still thought that Zoey did not have the right to get a lock - Even if we leave her cousins out of this matter. My wife is not agreeing with the whole concept of getting a lock for Zoey. I explained to her what's been happenning, Even told her that Zoey has been moving some of her valuable belongings into a friend's house to keep them safe, do I blame her? Absolutely not. But my wife still thought Zoey was wrong to do that.\nNow her cousine are upset and they and Sammy are using the silent treatment (among other things like eating without us or not sitting with us) as a guilt tactic. Even though it's not affecting me, it's making Zoey feel like she did something wrong by having a lock for her room.", "metadata": {"_additional_fetch_params": null, "_comments_by_id": null, "_fetched": true, "all_awardings": [], "allow_live_comments": null, "approved_at_utc": null, "approved_by": null, "archived": true, "associated_award": null, "author": "OnlyInQuebec9", "author_cakeday": null, "author_flair_background_color": null, "author_flair_css_class": null, "author_flair_richtext": [], "author_flair_template_id": null, "author_flair_text": null, "author_flair_text_color": null, "author_flair_type": "text", "author_fullname": "t2_d32xujeo", "author_is_blocked": false, "author_patreon_flair": false, "author_premium": false, "awarders": [], "banned_at_utc": null, "banned_by": null, "body": "You know I probably shouldn't be saying this but my wife has been acting like a hypocrite latey. Especially regarding privacy issues. She considers privacy something very important but still thought that Zoey did not have the right to get a lock - Even if we leave her cousins out of this matter. My wife is not agreeing with the whole concept of getting a lock for Zoey. I explained to her what's been happenning, Even told her that Zoey has been moving some of her valuable belongings into a friend's house to keep them safe, do I blame her? Absolutely not. But my wife still thought Zoey was wrong to do that.\nNow her cousine are upset and they and Sammy are using the silent treatment (among other things like eating without us or not sitting with us) as a guilt tactic. Even though it's not affecting me, it's making Zoey feel like she did something wrong by having a lock for her room.", "body_html": "<div class=\"md\"><p>You know I probably shouldn't be saying this but my wife has been acting like a hypocrite latey. Especially regarding privacy issues. She considers privacy something very important but still thought that Zoey did not have the right to get a lock - Even if we leave her cousins out of this matter. My wife is not agreeing with the whole concept of getting a lock for Zoey. I explained to her what's been happenning, Even told her that Zoey has been moving some of her valuable belongings into a friend's house to keep them safe, do I blame her? Absolutely not. But my wife still thought Zoey was wrong to do that.\nNow her cousine are upset and they and Sammy are using the silent treatment (among other things like eating without us or not sitting with us) as a guilt tactic. Even though it's not affecting me, it's making Zoey feel like she did something wrong by having a lock for her room.</p>\n</div>", "can_gild": false, "can_mod_post": false, "category": null, "clicked": null, "collapsed": false, "collapsed_because_crowd_control": null, "collapsed_reason": null, "collapsed_reason_code": null, "comment_limit": null, "comment_sort": null, "comment_type": null, "content_categories": null, "contest_mode": null, "controversiality": 0, "created": 1625319958.0, "created_utc": 1625319958.0, "depth": 1, "discussion_type": null, "distinguished": null, "domain": null, "downs": 0, "edited": 1625325018.0, "gilded": 0, "gildings": null, "hidden": null, "hide_score": null, "id": "h3x48ia", "is_created_from_ads_ui": null, "is_crosspostable": null, "is_meta": null, "is_original_content": null, "is_reddit_media_domain": null, "is_robot_indexable": null, "is_self": null, "is_submitter": true, "is_video": null, "likes": null, "link_flair_background_color": null, 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"subreddit_id": "t5_2xhvq", "subreddit_name_prefixed": "r/AmItheAsshole", "subreddit_subscribers": null, "subreddit_type": "public", "suggested_sort": null, "thread_id": null, "thumbnail": null, "title": null, "top_awarded_type": null, "total_awards_received": 0, "treatment_tags": [], "unrepliable_reason": null, "ups": 5196, "upvote_ratio": null, "url": null, "user_reports": [], "view_count": null, "visited": null, "wls": null}, "role": "OnlyInQuebec9"}, {"content": "WTF dang these people are entitled AF. \n\nI'd kick them all out for creating a hostile and uncomfortable situation IN MY OWN HOME.", "metadata": {"_additional_fetch_params": null, "_comments_by_id": null, "_fetched": true, "all_awardings": [], "allow_live_comments": null, "approved_at_utc": null, "approved_by": null, "archived": true, "associated_award": null, "author": "loveisrespectS2", "author_cakeday": null, "author_flair_background_color": null, "author_flair_css_class": null, "author_flair_richtext": [], "author_flair_template_id": null, "author_flair_text": null, "author_flair_text_color": null, "author_flair_type": "text", "author_fullname": "t2_8cnm4vfp", "author_is_blocked": false, "author_patreon_flair": false, "author_premium": false, "awarders": [], "banned_at_utc": null, "banned_by": null, "body": "WTF dang these people are entitled AF. \n\nI'd kick them all out for creating a hostile and uncomfortable situation IN MY OWN HOME.", "body_html": "<div class=\"md\"><p>WTF dang these people are entitled AF. </p>\n\n<p>I'd kick them all out for creating a hostile and uncomfortable situation IN MY OWN HOME.</p>\n</div>", "can_gild": false, "can_mod_post": false, "category": null, "clicked": null, "collapsed": false, "collapsed_because_crowd_control": null, "collapsed_reason": null, "collapsed_reason_code": null, "comment_limit": null, "comment_sort": null, "comment_type": null, "content_categories": null, "contest_mode": null, "controversiality": 0, "created": 1625320392.0, 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These people need to go now, They are mentally abusing and bullying a teenage girl- as well as OP. Gaslighting , disrespect and straight out hostile behaviour- in OPs own home. OP you are NTA -Boot them to the next relatives and if your wife has a problem with that- she can drive them there. Please do not back down on this and yes, let them know that your wifey has no problem with sharing make up. These people are disgraceful and entitled.", "metadata": {"_additional_fetch_params": null, "_comments_by_id": null, "_fetched": true, "all_awardings": [], "allow_live_comments": null, "approved_at_utc": null, "approved_by": null, "archived": true, "associated_award": null, "author": "V-838", "author_cakeday": null, "author_flair_background_color": null, "author_flair_css_class": null, "author_flair_richtext": [], "author_flair_template_id": null, "author_flair_text": null, "author_flair_text_color": null, "author_flair_type": "text", "author_fullname": "t2_3f9eum54", "author_is_blocked": false, "author_patreon_flair": false, "author_premium": false, "awarders": [], "banned_at_utc": null, "banned_by": null, "body": "Exactly. These people need to go now, They are mentally abusing and bullying a teenage girl- as well as OP. Gaslighting , disrespect and straight out hostile behaviour- in OPs own home. OP you are NTA -Boot them to the next relatives and if your wife has a problem with that- she can drive them there. Please do not back down on this and yes, let them know that your wifey has no problem with sharing make up. These people are disgraceful and entitled.", "body_html": "<div class=\"md\"><p>Exactly. These people need to go now, They are mentally abusing and bullying a teenage girl- as well as OP. Gaslighting , disrespect and straight out hostile behaviour- in OPs own home. OP you are NTA -Boot them to the next relatives and if your wife has a problem with that- she can drive them there. Please do not back down on this and yes, let them know that your wifey has no problem with sharing make up. These people are disgraceful and entitled.</p>\n</div>", "can_gild": false, "can_mod_post": false, "category": null, "clicked": null, "collapsed": false, "collapsed_because_crowd_control": null, "collapsed_reason": null, "collapsed_reason_code": null, "comment_limit": null, "comment_sort": null, "comment_type": null, "content_categories": null, "contest_mode": null, "controversiality": 0, "created": 1625321440.0, "created_utc": 1625321440.0, "depth": 3, "discussion_type": null, "distinguished": null, "domain": null, "downs": 0, "edited": 0.0, "gilded": 1, "gildings": null, "hidden": null, "hide_score": null, "id": "h3x6v41", "is_created_from_ads_ui": null, "is_crosspostable": null, "is_meta": null, "is_original_content": null, "is_reddit_media_domain": null, "is_robot_indexable": null, "is_self": null, "is_submitter": false, "is_video": null, "likes": null, "link_flair_background_color": null, "link_flair_css_class": null, "link_flair_richtext": null, "link_flair_template_id": null, "link_flair_text": null, "link_flair_text_color": null, "link_flair_type": null, "link_id": "t3_ocx94s", "locked": false, "media": null, "media_embed": null, "media_only": null, "mod_note": null, "mod_reason_by": null, "mod_reason_title": null, "mod_reports": [], "name": "t1_h3x6v41", "no_follow": false, "num_comments": null, "num_crossposts": null, "num_reports": null, "over_18": null, "parent_id": "t1_h3x501c", "permalink": "/r/AmItheAsshole/comments/ocx94s/aita_for_telling_my_wife_the_lock_on_my_daughters/h3x6v41/", "pinned": null, "pwls": null, "quarantine": null, "removal_reason": null, "removed_by": null, "removed_by_category": null, "report_reasons": null, "saved": false, "score": 3421, "score_hidden": false, "secure_media": null, "secure_media_embed": null, "selftext": null, "selftext_html": null, "send_replies": true, "spoiler": null, "stickied": false, "subreddit": "AmItheAsshole", "subreddit_id": "t5_2xhvq", "subreddit_name_prefixed": "r/AmItheAsshole", "subreddit_subscribers": null, "subreddit_type": "public", "suggested_sort": null, "thread_id": null, "thumbnail": null, "title": null, "top_awarded_type": null, "total_awards_received": 0, "treatment_tags": [], "unrepliable_reason": null, "ups": 3421, "upvote_ratio": null, "url": null, "user_reports": [], "view_count": null, "visited": null, "wls": null}, "role": "V-838"}]
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[{"content": "AITA for telling my wife the lock on my daughter's door does not get removed til my brother inlaw and his daughters are out of our house?\n\nMy brother in-law (Sammy) lost his home shortly after his divorce 10 months ago. He moved in with us and brought his twin daughters (Olivia & Sloane18) with him a couple of months ago.\nHis sister (my wife) and I have one daughter (Zoey 16) and she and her cousins aren't close but get along fine.\n\nOlivia & Sloane have no respect for Zoey's privacy, none. they used to walk into her room and take everything they get their hands on. Makeup, phone accessories, clothes, school laptop etc. Zoey complained a lot and I've already asked the girls to respect Zoey's privacy and stop taking things. My wife and Sammy saw no issue with this. After all, they're girls and this's typical teenage girls behavior. I completely disagreed. \n\nLast straw was when Zoey bought a 60$ m.a.c makeup-kit that looks like a paintset that she saved up for over a month and one of the girls, Sloane took it without permission and ruined it by mixing shades together while using it. Don't know much about makeup but that's what Zoey said when she found the kit on her bed, and was crying.\nI told my wife and she said she'd ask Sloane to apologize but I got Zoey a lock after I found she was moving valuable belongings out the house because of this incidence!!!\n\nSammy and his daughters saw the lock and weren't happy, the girls were extremely upset.\nSammy asked about it and I straight up told him. He said \"my daughters aren't thieves!!! it's normal that girls of the same age borrow each others stuff\" he said Zoey could easily get another makeup kit for 15 bucks from walmart and shouldn't even be buying expensive - adult makeup in the first place and suggested my wife take care of this \"defect\" in Zoey's personality trying to appear older than she is.\nHe accused me of being overprotective and babying Zoey with this level of enablement.\n\nI told him this's between me and my wife but she shamed me for putting a lock on Zoey's door for her cousins to see and preventing them from \"spending time\" with her saying I was supposed to treat them like daughters, then demanded I remove it but I said this lock does not get removed til her brother and his daughters are out of our house.\n\nShe got mad I was implying we kick them out and said her family'll hate me for this. so I reminded her that I let Sammy and his family move in which's something her OWN family refused to do so she should start with shaming/blaming them for not taking their own son and nieces/granddaughters in. if it wasn't for her family's unwillingness to help we wouldn't be dealing with this much disturbance at home.\n\nEveryone's been giving me and Zoey silent treatment and my wife is very much upset over this.", "metadata": {"_additional_fetch_params": null, "_comments_by_id": null, "_fetched": false, "all_awardings": [], "allow_live_comments": true, "approved_at_utc": null, "approved_by": null, "archived": true, "associated_award": null, "author": "OnlyInQuebec9", "author_cakeday": null, "author_flair_background_color": null, "author_flair_css_class": null, "author_flair_richtext": [], "author_flair_template_id": null, "author_flair_text": null, "author_flair_text_color": null, "author_flair_type": "text", "author_fullname": "t2_d32xujeo", "author_is_blocked": false, "author_patreon_flair": false, "author_premium": false, "awarders": [], "banned_at_utc": null, "banned_by": null, "body": null, "body_html": null, "can_gild": false, "can_mod_post": false, "category": null, "clicked": false, "collapsed": null, "collapsed_because_crowd_control": null, "collapsed_reason": null, "collapsed_reason_code": null, "comment_limit": 2048, "comment_sort": "confidence", "comment_type": null, "content_categories": null, "contest_mode": false, "controversiality": null, "created": 1625315782.0, "created_utc": 1625315782.0, "depth": null, "discussion_type": null, "distinguished": null, "domain": "self.AmItheAsshole", "downs": 0, "edited": 0.0, "gilded": 3, "gildings": null, "hidden": false, "hide_score": false, "id": "ocx94s", "is_created_from_ads_ui": false, "is_crosspostable": false, "is_meta": false, "is_original_content": false, "is_reddit_media_domain": false, "is_robot_indexable": true, "is_self": true, "is_submitter": null, "is_video": false, "likes": null, "link_flair_background_color": "#7193ff", "link_flair_css_class": "not", "link_flair_richtext": [], "link_flair_template_id": "35ab95ec-0b14-11e5-87b6-0efd95e46dfd", "link_flair_text": "Not the A-hole", "link_flair_text_color": "light", "link_flair_type": "text", "link_id": null, "locked": true, "media": null, "media_embed": null, "media_only": false, "mod_note": null, "mod_reason_by": null, "mod_reason_title": null, "mod_reports": [], "name": "t3_ocx94s", "no_follow": false, "num_comments": 5237, "num_crossposts": 10, "num_reports": null, "over_18": false, "parent_id": null, "permalink": "/r/AmItheAsshole/comments/ocx94s/aita_for_telling_my_wife_the_lock_on_my_daughters/", "pinned": false, "pwls": 7, "quarantine": false, "removal_reason": null, "removed_by": null, "removed_by_category": null, "report_reasons": null, "saved": false, "score": 81020, "score_hidden": null, "secure_media": null, "secure_media_embed": null, "selftext": "My brother in-law (Sammy) lost his home shortly after his divorce 10 months ago. He moved in with us and brought his twin daughters (Olivia & Sloane18) with him a couple of months ago.\nHis sister (my wife) and I have one daughter (Zoey 16) and she and her cousins aren't close but get along fine.\n\nOlivia & Sloane have no respect for Zoey's privacy, none. they used to walk into her room and take everything they get their hands on. Makeup, phone accessories, clothes, school laptop etc. Zoey complained a lot and I've already asked the girls to respect Zoey's privacy and stop taking things. My wife and Sammy saw no issue with this. After all, they're girls and this's typical teenage girls behavior. I completely disagreed. \n\nLast straw was when Zoey bought a 60$ m.a.c makeup-kit that looks like a paintset that she saved up for over a month and one of the girls, Sloane took it without permission and ruined it by mixing shades together while using it. Don't know much about makeup but that's what Zoey said when she found the kit on her bed, and was crying.\nI told my wife and she said she'd ask Sloane to apologize but I got Zoey a lock after I found she was moving valuable belongings out the house because of this incidence!!!\n\nSammy and his daughters saw the lock and weren't happy, the girls were extremely upset.\nSammy asked about it and I straight up told him. He said \"my daughters aren't thieves!!! it's normal that girls of the same age borrow each others stuff\" he said Zoey could easily get another makeup kit for 15 bucks from walmart and shouldn't even be buying expensive - adult makeup in the first place and suggested my wife take care of this \"defect\" in Zoey's personality trying to appear older than she is.\nHe accused me of being overprotective and babying Zoey with this level of enablement.\n\nI told him this's between me and my wife but she shamed me for putting a lock on Zoey's door for her cousins to see and preventing them from \"spending time\" with her saying I was supposed to treat them like daughters, then demanded I remove it but I said this lock does not get removed til her brother and his daughters are out of our house.\n\nShe got mad I was implying we kick them out and said her family'll hate me for this. so I reminded her that I let Sammy and his family move in which's something her OWN family refused to do so she should start with shaming/blaming them for not taking their own son and nieces/granddaughters in. if it wasn't for her family's unwillingness to help we wouldn't be dealing with this much disturbance at home.\n\nEveryone's been giving me and Zoey silent treatment and my wife is very much upset over this.", "selftext_html": "<!-- SC_OFF --><div class=\"md\"><p>My brother in-law (Sammy) lost his home shortly after his divorce 10 months ago. He moved in with us and brought his twin daughters (Olivia & Sloane18) with him a couple of months ago.\nHis sister (my wife) and I have one daughter (Zoey 16) and she and her cousins aren't close but get along fine.</p>\n\n<p>Olivia & Sloane have no respect for Zoey's privacy, none. they used to walk into her room and take everything they get their hands on. Makeup, phone accessories, clothes, school laptop etc. Zoey complained a lot and I've already asked the girls to respect Zoey's privacy and stop taking things. My wife and Sammy saw no issue with this. After all, they're girls and this's typical teenage girls behavior. I completely disagreed. </p>\n\n<p>Last straw was when Zoey bought a 60$ m.a.c makeup-kit that looks like a paintset that she saved up for over a month and one of the girls, Sloane took it without permission and ruined it by mixing shades together while using it. Don't know much about makeup but that's what Zoey said when she found the kit on her bed, and was crying.\nI told my wife and she said she'd ask Sloane to apologize but I got Zoey a lock after I found she was moving valuable belongings out the house because of this incidence!!!</p>\n\n<p>Sammy and his daughters saw the lock and weren't happy, the girls were extremely upset.\nSammy asked about it and I straight up told him. He said "my daughters aren't thieves!!! it's normal that girls of the same age borrow each others stuff" he said Zoey could easily get another makeup kit for 15 bucks from walmart and shouldn't even be buying expensive - adult makeup in the first place and suggested my wife take care of this "defect" in Zoey's personality trying to appear older than she is.\nHe accused me of being overprotective and babying Zoey with this level of enablement.</p>\n\n<p>I told him this's between me and my wife but she shamed me for putting a lock on Zoey's door for her cousins to see and preventing them from "spending time" with her saying I was supposed to treat them like daughters, then demanded I remove it but I said this lock does not get removed til her brother and his daughters are out of our house.</p>\n\n<p>She got mad I was implying we kick them out and said her family'll hate me for this. so I reminded her that I let Sammy and his family move in which's something her OWN family refused to do so she should start with shaming/blaming them for not taking their own son and nieces/granddaughters in. if it wasn't for her family's unwillingness to help we wouldn't be dealing with this much disturbance at home.</p>\n\n<p>Everyone's been giving me and Zoey silent treatment and my wife is very much upset over this.</p>\n</div><!-- SC_ON -->", "send_replies": true, "spoiler": false, "stickied": false, "subreddit": "r/AmItheAsshole", "subreddit_id": "t5_2xhvq", "subreddit_name_prefixed": "r/AmItheAsshole", "subreddit_subscribers": 24050251, "subreddit_type": "public", "suggested_sort": "top", "thread_id": "t3_ocx94s", "thumbnail": "", "title": "AITA for telling my wife the lock on my daughter's door does not get removed til my brother inlaw and his daughters are out of our house?", "top_awarded_type": null, "total_awards_received": 0, "treatment_tags": [], "unrepliable_reason": null, "ups": 81020, "upvote_ratio": 0.92, "url": "https://www.reddit.com/r/AmItheAsshole/comments/ocx94s/aita_for_telling_my_wife_the_lock_on_my_daughters/", "user_reports": [], "view_count": null, "visited": false, "wls": 7}, "role": "OnlyInQuebec9"}, {"content": "NTA. Don't back down. You are the only one sticking up for Zoey. If her cousins want to use expensive makeup, give them your wife's. I guarantee she won't appreciate sharing anymore.\n\nThey need to start behaving like appreciative guests.", "metadata": {"_additional_fetch_params": null, "_comments_by_id": null, "_fetched": true, "all_awardings": [], "allow_live_comments": null, "approved_at_utc": null, "approved_by": null, "archived": true, "associated_award": null, "author": "riblz11", "author_cakeday": null, "author_flair_background_color": "#3b2921", "author_flair_css_class": null, "author_flair_richtext": [], "author_flair_template_id": "0f8d1b4a-f8a7-11e8-920b-0e93c922efde", "author_flair_text": "Partassipant [3]", "author_flair_text_color": "light", "author_flair_type": "text", "author_fullname": "t2_m1enf", "author_is_blocked": false, "author_patreon_flair": false, "author_premium": false, "awarders": [], "banned_at_utc": null, "banned_by": null, "body": "NTA. Don't back down. You are the only one sticking up for Zoey. If her cousins want to use expensive makeup, give them your wife's. I guarantee she won't appreciate sharing anymore.\n\nThey need to start behaving like appreciative guests.", "body_html": "<div class=\"md\"><p>NTA. Don't back down. You are the only one sticking up for Zoey. If her cousins want to use expensive makeup, give them your wife's. I guarantee she won't appreciate sharing anymore.</p>\n\n<p>They need to start behaving like appreciative guests.</p>\n</div>", "can_gild": false, "can_mod_post": false, "category": null, "clicked": null, "collapsed": false, "collapsed_because_crowd_control": null, "collapsed_reason": null, "collapsed_reason_code": null, "comment_limit": null, "comment_sort": null, "comment_type": null, "content_categories": null, "contest_mode": null, "controversiality": 0, "created": 1625316287.0, "created_utc": 1625316287.0, "depth": 0, "discussion_type": null, "distinguished": null, "domain": null, "downs": 0, "edited": 0.0, "gilded": 4, "gildings": null, "hidden": null, "hide_score": null, "id": "h3wyfzq", "is_created_from_ads_ui": null, "is_crosspostable": null, "is_meta": null, "is_original_content": null, "is_reddit_media_domain": null, "is_robot_indexable": null, "is_self": null, "is_submitter": false, "is_video": null, "likes": null, "link_flair_background_color": null, "link_flair_css_class": null, "link_flair_richtext": null, "link_flair_template_id": null, "link_flair_text": null, "link_flair_text_color": null, "link_flair_type": null, "link_id": "t3_ocx94s", "locked": false, "media": null, "media_embed": null, "media_only": null, "mod_note": null, "mod_reason_by": null, "mod_reason_title": null, "mod_reports": [], "name": "t1_h3wyfzq", "no_follow": false, "num_comments": null, "num_crossposts": null, "num_reports": null, "over_18": null, "parent_id": "t3_ocx94s", "permalink": "/r/AmItheAsshole/comments/ocx94s/aita_for_telling_my_wife_the_lock_on_my_daughters/h3wyfzq/", "pinned": null, "pwls": null, "quarantine": null, "removal_reason": null, "removed_by": null, "removed_by_category": null, "report_reasons": null, "saved": false, "score": 65566, "score_hidden": false, "secure_media": null, "secure_media_embed": null, "selftext": null, "selftext_html": null, "send_replies": true, "spoiler": null, "stickied": false, "subreddit": "AmItheAsshole", "subreddit_id": "t5_2xhvq", "subreddit_name_prefixed": "r/AmItheAsshole", "subreddit_subscribers": null, "subreddit_type": "public", "suggested_sort": null, "thread_id": null, "thumbnail": null, "title": null, "top_awarded_type": null, "total_awards_received": 0, "treatment_tags": [], "unrepliable_reason": null, "ups": 65566, "upvote_ratio": null, "url": null, "user_reports": [], "view_count": null, "visited": null, "wls": null}, "role": "riblz11"}, {"content": "You know I probably shouldn't be saying this but my wife has been acting like a hypocrite latey. Especially regarding privacy issues. She considers privacy something very important but still thought that Zoey did not have the right to get a lock - Even if we leave her cousins out of this matter. My wife is not agreeing with the whole concept of getting a lock for Zoey. I explained to her what's been happenning, Even told her that Zoey has been moving some of her valuable belongings into a friend's house to keep them safe, do I blame her? Absolutely not. But my wife still thought Zoey was wrong to do that.\nNow her cousine are upset and they and Sammy are using the silent treatment (among other things like eating without us or not sitting with us) as a guilt tactic. Even though it's not affecting me, it's making Zoey feel like she did something wrong by having a lock for her room.", "metadata": {"_additional_fetch_params": null, "_comments_by_id": null, "_fetched": true, "all_awardings": [], "allow_live_comments": null, "approved_at_utc": null, "approved_by": null, "archived": true, "associated_award": null, "author": "OnlyInQuebec9", "author_cakeday": null, "author_flair_background_color": null, "author_flair_css_class": null, "author_flair_richtext": [], "author_flair_template_id": null, "author_flair_text": null, "author_flair_text_color": null, "author_flair_type": "text", "author_fullname": "t2_d32xujeo", "author_is_blocked": false, "author_patreon_flair": false, "author_premium": false, "awarders": [], "banned_at_utc": null, "banned_by": null, "body": "You know I probably shouldn't be saying this but my wife has been acting like a hypocrite latey. Especially regarding privacy issues. She considers privacy something very important but still thought that Zoey did not have the right to get a lock - Even if we leave her cousins out of this matter. My wife is not agreeing with the whole concept of getting a lock for Zoey. I explained to her what's been happenning, Even told her that Zoey has been moving some of her valuable belongings into a friend's house to keep them safe, do I blame her? Absolutely not. But my wife still thought Zoey was wrong to do that.\nNow her cousine are upset and they and Sammy are using the silent treatment (among other things like eating without us or not sitting with us) as a guilt tactic. Even though it's not affecting me, it's making Zoey feel like she did something wrong by having a lock for her room.", "body_html": "<div class=\"md\"><p>You know I probably shouldn't be saying this but my wife has been acting like a hypocrite latey. Especially regarding privacy issues. She considers privacy something very important but still thought that Zoey did not have the right to get a lock - Even if we leave her cousins out of this matter. My wife is not agreeing with the whole concept of getting a lock for Zoey. I explained to her what's been happenning, Even told her that Zoey has been moving some of her valuable belongings into a friend's house to keep them safe, do I blame her? Absolutely not. But my wife still thought Zoey was wrong to do that.\nNow her cousine are upset and they and Sammy are using the silent treatment (among other things like eating without us or not sitting with us) as a guilt tactic. Even though it's not affecting me, it's making Zoey feel like she did something wrong by having a lock for her room.</p>\n</div>", "can_gild": false, "can_mod_post": false, "category": null, "clicked": null, "collapsed": false, "collapsed_because_crowd_control": null, "collapsed_reason": null, "collapsed_reason_code": null, "comment_limit": null, "comment_sort": null, "comment_type": null, "content_categories": null, "contest_mode": null, "controversiality": 0, "created": 1625319958.0, "created_utc": 1625319958.0, "depth": 1, "discussion_type": null, "distinguished": null, "domain": null, "downs": 0, "edited": 1625325018.0, "gilded": 0, "gildings": null, "hidden": null, "hide_score": null, "id": "h3x48ia", "is_created_from_ads_ui": null, "is_crosspostable": null, "is_meta": null, "is_original_content": null, "is_reddit_media_domain": null, "is_robot_indexable": null, "is_self": null, "is_submitter": true, "is_video": null, "likes": null, "link_flair_background_color": null, 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These people need to go now, They are mentally abusing and bullying a teenage girl- as well as OP. Gaslighting , disrespect and straight out hostile behaviour- in OPs own home. OP you are NTA -Boot them to the next relatives and if your wife has a problem with that- she can drive them there. Please do not back down on this and yes, let them know that your wifey has no problem with sharing make up. These people are disgraceful and entitled.", "metadata": {"_additional_fetch_params": null, "_comments_by_id": null, "_fetched": true, "all_awardings": [], "allow_live_comments": null, "approved_at_utc": null, "approved_by": null, "archived": true, "associated_award": null, "author": "V-838", "author_cakeday": null, "author_flair_background_color": null, "author_flair_css_class": null, "author_flair_richtext": [], "author_flair_template_id": null, "author_flair_text": null, "author_flair_text_color": null, "author_flair_type": "text", "author_fullname": "t2_3f9eum54", "author_is_blocked": false, "author_patreon_flair": false, "author_premium": false, "awarders": [], "banned_at_utc": null, "banned_by": null, "body": "Exactly. These people need to go now, They are mentally abusing and bullying a teenage girl- as well as OP. Gaslighting , disrespect and straight out hostile behaviour- in OPs own home. OP you are NTA -Boot them to the next relatives and if your wife has a problem with that- she can drive them there. Please do not back down on this and yes, let them know that your wifey has no problem with sharing make up. These people are disgraceful and entitled.", "body_html": "<div class=\"md\"><p>Exactly. These people need to go now, They are mentally abusing and bullying a teenage girl- as well as OP. Gaslighting , disrespect and straight out hostile behaviour- in OPs own home. OP you are NTA -Boot them to the next relatives and if your wife has a problem with that- she can drive them there. Please do not back down on this and yes, let them know that your wifey has no problem with sharing make up. These people are disgraceful and entitled.</p>\n</div>", "can_gild": false, "can_mod_post": false, "category": null, "clicked": null, "collapsed": false, "collapsed_because_crowd_control": null, "collapsed_reason": null, "collapsed_reason_code": null, "comment_limit": null, "comment_sort": null, "comment_type": null, "content_categories": null, "contest_mode": null, "controversiality": 0, "created": 1625321440.0, "created_utc": 1625321440.0, "depth": 3, "discussion_type": null, "distinguished": null, "domain": null, "downs": 0, "edited": 0.0, "gilded": 1, "gildings": null, "hidden": null, "hide_score": null, "id": "h3x6v41", "is_created_from_ads_ui": null, "is_crosspostable": null, "is_meta": null, "is_original_content": null, "is_reddit_media_domain": null, "is_robot_indexable": null, "is_self": null, "is_submitter": false, "is_video": null, "likes": null, "link_flair_background_color": null, "link_flair_css_class": null, "link_flair_richtext": null, "link_flair_template_id": null, "link_flair_text": null, "link_flair_text_color": null, "link_flair_type": null, "link_id": "t3_ocx94s", "locked": false, "media": null, "media_embed": null, "media_only": null, "mod_note": null, "mod_reason_by": null, "mod_reason_title": null, "mod_reports": [], "name": "t1_h3x6v41", "no_follow": false, "num_comments": null, "num_crossposts": null, "num_reports": null, "over_18": null, "parent_id": "t1_h3x501c", "permalink": "/r/AmItheAsshole/comments/ocx94s/aita_for_telling_my_wife_the_lock_on_my_daughters/h3x6v41/", "pinned": null, "pwls": null, "quarantine": null, "removal_reason": null, "removed_by": null, "removed_by_category": null, "report_reasons": null, "saved": false, "score": 3421, "score_hidden": false, "secure_media": null, "secure_media_embed": null, "selftext": null, "selftext_html": null, "send_replies": true, "spoiler": null, "stickied": false, "subreddit": "AmItheAsshole", "subreddit_id": "t5_2xhvq", "subreddit_name_prefixed": "r/AmItheAsshole", "subreddit_subscribers": null, "subreddit_type": "public", "suggested_sort": null, "thread_id": null, "thumbnail": null, "title": null, "top_awarded_type": null, "total_awards_received": 0, "treatment_tags": [], "unrepliable_reason": null, "ups": 3421, "upvote_ratio": null, "url": null, "user_reports": [], "view_count": null, "visited": null, "wls": null}, "role": "V-838"}, {"content": ">Gaslighting , disrespect and straight out hostile behaviour- in OPs own home. OP you are NTA -Boot them to the next relatives and if your wife has a problem with that- she can drive them there\n[...quoted text...]\n\nThis is it. They are extremely disrespectful and hugely entitled to think they can waltz into OP's house and do whatever the hell they want?! Instead of being grateful for a shelter over their heads. Bil and daughters are all adults - they can all be kicked out for pulling this shit.\n\nAnd the wife?? Yikes. I have no advice there, she sounds like she'll eventually end up in r/justnomil.", "metadata": {"_additional_fetch_params": null, "_comments_by_id": null, "_fetched": true, "all_awardings": [], "allow_live_comments": null, "approved_at_utc": null, "approved_by": null, "archived": true, "associated_award": null, "author": "loveisrespectS2", "author_cakeday": null, "author_flair_background_color": null, "author_flair_css_class": null, "author_flair_richtext": [], "author_flair_template_id": null, "author_flair_text": null, "author_flair_text_color": null, "author_flair_type": "text", "author_fullname": "t2_8cnm4vfp", "author_is_blocked": false, "author_patreon_flair": false, "author_premium": false, "awarders": [], "banned_at_utc": null, "banned_by": null, "body": ">Gaslighting , disrespect and straight out hostile behaviour- in OPs own home. OP you are NTA -Boot them to the next relatives and if your wife has a problem with that- she can drive them there\n\nThis is it. They are extremely disrespectful and hugely entitled to think they can waltz into OP's house and do whatever the hell they want?! Instead of being grateful for a shelter over their heads. Bil and daughters are all adults - they can all be kicked out for pulling this shit.\n\nAnd the wife?? Yikes. I have no advice there, she sounds like she'll eventually end up in r/justnomil.", "body_html": "<div class=\"md\"><blockquote>\n<p>Gaslighting , disrespect and straight out hostile behaviour- in OPs own home. OP you are NTA -Boot them to the next relatives and if your wife has a problem with that- she can drive them there</p>\n</blockquote>\n\n<p>This is it. They are extremely disrespectful and hugely entitled to think they can waltz into OP's house and do whatever the hell they want?! Instead of being grateful for a shelter over their heads. Bil and daughters are all adults - they can all be kicked out for pulling this shit.</p>\n\n<p>And the wife?? Yikes. I have no advice there, she sounds like she'll eventually end up in <a href=\"/r/justnomil\">r/justnomil</a>.</p>\n</div>", "can_gild": false, "can_mod_post": false, "category": null, "clicked": null, "collapsed": false, "collapsed_because_crowd_control": null, "collapsed_reason": null, "collapsed_reason_code": null, "comment_limit": null, "comment_sort": null, "comment_type": null, "content_categories": null, "contest_mode": null, "controversiality": 0, "created": 1625323039.0, "created_utc": 1625323039.0, "depth": 4, "discussion_type": null, "distinguished": null, "domain": null, "downs": 0, "edited": 0.0, "gilded": 0, "gildings": null, "hidden": null, "hide_score": null, "id": "h3x9spa", "is_created_from_ads_ui": null, "is_crosspostable": null, "is_meta": null, "is_original_content": null, "is_reddit_media_domain": null, "is_robot_indexable": null, "is_self": null, "is_submitter": false, "is_video": null, "likes": null, "link_flair_background_color": null, "link_flair_css_class": null, "link_flair_richtext": null, "link_flair_template_id": null, "link_flair_text": null, "link_flair_text_color": null, "link_flair_type": null, "link_id": "t3_ocx94s", "locked": false, "media": null, "media_embed": null, "media_only": null, "mod_note": null, "mod_reason_by": null, "mod_reason_title": null, "mod_reports": [], "name": "t1_h3x9spa", "no_follow": false, "num_comments": null, "num_crossposts": null, "num_reports": null, "over_18": null, "parent_id": "t1_h3x6v41", "permalink": "/r/AmItheAsshole/comments/ocx94s/aita_for_telling_my_wife_the_lock_on_my_daughters/h3x9spa/", "pinned": null, "pwls": null, "quarantine": null, "removal_reason": null, "removed_by": null, "removed_by_category": null, "report_reasons": null, "saved": false, "score": 885, "score_hidden": false, "secure_media": null, "secure_media_embed": null, "selftext": null, "selftext_html": null, "send_replies": true, "spoiler": null, "stickied": false, "subreddit": "AmItheAsshole", "subreddit_id": "t5_2xhvq", "subreddit_name_prefixed": "r/AmItheAsshole", "subreddit_subscribers": null, "subreddit_type": "public", "suggested_sort": null, "thread_id": null, "thumbnail": null, "title": null, "top_awarded_type": null, "total_awards_received": 0, "treatment_tags": [], "unrepliable_reason": null, "ups": 885, "upvote_ratio": null, "url": null, "user_reports": [], "view_count": null, "visited": null, "wls": null}, "role": "loveisrespectS2"}]
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Absolutely agree with this. These people are guests in your house and apparently unable to behave with basic courtesy. Get’em out. NTA
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I completely disagreed. \n\nLast straw was when Zoey bought a 60$ m.a.c makeup-kit that looks like a paintset that she saved up for over a month and one of the girls, Sloane took it without permission and ruined it by mixing shades together while using it. Don't know much about makeup but that's what Zoey said when she found the kit on her bed, and was crying.\nI told my wife and she said she'd ask Sloane to apologize but I got Zoey a lock after I found she was moving valuable belongings out the house because of this incidence!!!\n\nSammy and his daughters saw the lock and weren't happy, the girls were extremely upset.\nSammy asked about it and I straight up told him. He said \"my daughters aren't thieves!!! it's normal that girls of the same age borrow each others stuff\" he said Zoey could easily get another makeup kit for 15 bucks from walmart and shouldn't even be buying expensive - adult makeup in the first place and suggested my wife take care of this \"defect\" in Zoey's personality trying to appear older than she is.\nHe accused me of being overprotective and babying Zoey with this level of enablement.\n\nI told him this's between me and my wife but she shamed me for putting a lock on Zoey's door for her cousins to see and preventing them from \"spending time\" with her saying I was supposed to treat them like daughters, then demanded I remove it but I said this lock does not get removed til her brother and his daughters are out of our house.\n\nShe got mad I was implying we kick them out and said her family'll hate me for this. so I reminded her that I let Sammy and his family move in which's something her OWN family refused to do so she should start with shaming/blaming them for not taking their own son and nieces/granddaughters in. if it wasn't for her family's unwillingness to help we wouldn't be dealing with this much disturbance at home.\n\nEveryone's been giving me and Zoey silent treatment and my wife is very much upset over this.", "metadata": {"_additional_fetch_params": null, "_comments_by_id": null, "_fetched": false, "all_awardings": [], "allow_live_comments": true, "approved_at_utc": null, "approved_by": null, "archived": true, "associated_award": null, "author": "OnlyInQuebec9", "author_cakeday": null, "author_flair_background_color": null, "author_flair_css_class": null, "author_flair_richtext": [], "author_flair_template_id": null, "author_flair_text": null, "author_flair_text_color": null, "author_flair_type": "text", "author_fullname": "t2_d32xujeo", "author_is_blocked": false, "author_patreon_flair": false, "author_premium": false, "awarders": [], "banned_at_utc": null, "banned_by": null, "body": null, "body_html": null, "can_gild": false, "can_mod_post": false, "category": null, "clicked": false, "collapsed": null, "collapsed_because_crowd_control": null, "collapsed_reason": null, "collapsed_reason_code": null, "comment_limit": 2048, "comment_sort": "confidence", "comment_type": null, "content_categories": null, "contest_mode": false, "controversiality": null, "created": 1625315782.0, "created_utc": 1625315782.0, "depth": null, "discussion_type": null, "distinguished": null, "domain": "self.AmItheAsshole", "downs": 0, "edited": 0.0, "gilded": 3, "gildings": null, "hidden": false, "hide_score": false, "id": "ocx94s", "is_created_from_ads_ui": false, "is_crosspostable": false, "is_meta": false, "is_original_content": false, "is_reddit_media_domain": false, "is_robot_indexable": true, "is_self": true, "is_submitter": null, "is_video": false, "likes": null, "link_flair_background_color": "#7193ff", "link_flair_css_class": "not", "link_flair_richtext": [], "link_flair_template_id": "35ab95ec-0b14-11e5-87b6-0efd95e46dfd", "link_flair_text": "Not the A-hole", "link_flair_text_color": "light", "link_flair_type": "text", "link_id": null, "locked": true, "media": null, "media_embed": null, "media_only": false, "mod_note": null, "mod_reason_by": null, "mod_reason_title": null, "mod_reports": [], "name": "t3_ocx94s", "no_follow": false, "num_comments": 5237, "num_crossposts": 10, "num_reports": null, "over_18": false, "parent_id": null, "permalink": "/r/AmItheAsshole/comments/ocx94s/aita_for_telling_my_wife_the_lock_on_my_daughters/", "pinned": false, "pwls": 7, "quarantine": false, "removal_reason": null, "removed_by": null, "removed_by_category": null, "report_reasons": null, "saved": false, "score": 81020, "score_hidden": null, "secure_media": null, "secure_media_embed": null, "selftext": "My brother in-law (Sammy) lost his home shortly after his divorce 10 months ago. He moved in with us and brought his twin daughters (Olivia & Sloane18) with him a couple of months ago.\nHis sister (my wife) and I have one daughter (Zoey 16) and she and her cousins aren't close but get along fine.\n\nOlivia & Sloane have no respect for Zoey's privacy, none. they used to walk into her room and take everything they get their hands on. Makeup, phone accessories, clothes, school laptop etc. Zoey complained a lot and I've already asked the girls to respect Zoey's privacy and stop taking things. My wife and Sammy saw no issue with this. After all, they're girls and this's typical teenage girls behavior. I completely disagreed. \n\nLast straw was when Zoey bought a 60$ m.a.c makeup-kit that looks like a paintset that she saved up for over a month and one of the girls, Sloane took it without permission and ruined it by mixing shades together while using it. Don't know much about makeup but that's what Zoey said when she found the kit on her bed, and was crying.\nI told my wife and she said she'd ask Sloane to apologize but I got Zoey a lock after I found she was moving valuable belongings out the house because of this incidence!!!\n\nSammy and his daughters saw the lock and weren't happy, the girls were extremely upset.\nSammy asked about it and I straight up told him. He said \"my daughters aren't thieves!!! it's normal that girls of the same age borrow each others stuff\" he said Zoey could easily get another makeup kit for 15 bucks from walmart and shouldn't even be buying expensive - adult makeup in the first place and suggested my wife take care of this \"defect\" in Zoey's personality trying to appear older than she is.\nHe accused me of being overprotective and babying Zoey with this level of enablement.\n\nI told him this's between me and my wife but she shamed me for putting a lock on Zoey's door for her cousins to see and preventing them from \"spending time\" with her saying I was supposed to treat them like daughters, then demanded I remove it but I said this lock does not get removed til her brother and his daughters are out of our house.\n\nShe got mad I was implying we kick them out and said her family'll hate me for this. so I reminded her that I let Sammy and his family move in which's something her OWN family refused to do so she should start with shaming/blaming them for not taking their own son and nieces/granddaughters in. if it wasn't for her family's unwillingness to help we wouldn't be dealing with this much disturbance at home.\n\nEveryone's been giving me and Zoey silent treatment and my wife is very much upset over this.", "selftext_html": "<!-- SC_OFF --><div class=\"md\"><p>My brother in-law (Sammy) lost his home shortly after his divorce 10 months ago. He moved in with us and brought his twin daughters (Olivia & Sloane18) with him a couple of months ago.\nHis sister (my wife) and I have one daughter (Zoey 16) and she and her cousins aren't close but get along fine.</p>\n\n<p>Olivia & Sloane have no respect for Zoey's privacy, none. they used to walk into her room and take everything they get their hands on. Makeup, phone accessories, clothes, school laptop etc. Zoey complained a lot and I've already asked the girls to respect Zoey's privacy and stop taking things. My wife and Sammy saw no issue with this. After all, they're girls and this's typical teenage girls behavior. I completely disagreed. </p>\n\n<p>Last straw was when Zoey bought a 60$ m.a.c makeup-kit that looks like a paintset that she saved up for over a month and one of the girls, Sloane took it without permission and ruined it by mixing shades together while using it. Don't know much about makeup but that's what Zoey said when she found the kit on her bed, and was crying.\nI told my wife and she said she'd ask Sloane to apologize but I got Zoey a lock after I found she was moving valuable belongings out the house because of this incidence!!!</p>\n\n<p>Sammy and his daughters saw the lock and weren't happy, the girls were extremely upset.\nSammy asked about it and I straight up told him. He said "my daughters aren't thieves!!! it's normal that girls of the same age borrow each others stuff" he said Zoey could easily get another makeup kit for 15 bucks from walmart and shouldn't even be buying expensive - adult makeup in the first place and suggested my wife take care of this "defect" in Zoey's personality trying to appear older than she is.\nHe accused me of being overprotective and babying Zoey with this level of enablement.</p>\n\n<p>I told him this's between me and my wife but she shamed me for putting a lock on Zoey's door for her cousins to see and preventing them from "spending time" with her saying I was supposed to treat them like daughters, then demanded I remove it but I said this lock does not get removed til her brother and his daughters are out of our house.</p>\n\n<p>She got mad I was implying we kick them out and said her family'll hate me for this. so I reminded her that I let Sammy and his family move in which's something her OWN family refused to do so she should start with shaming/blaming them for not taking their own son and nieces/granddaughters in. if it wasn't for her family's unwillingness to help we wouldn't be dealing with this much disturbance at home.</p>\n\n<p>Everyone's been giving me and Zoey silent treatment and my wife is very much upset over this.</p>\n</div><!-- SC_ON -->", "send_replies": true, "spoiler": false, "stickied": false, "subreddit": "r/AmItheAsshole", "subreddit_id": "t5_2xhvq", "subreddit_name_prefixed": "r/AmItheAsshole", "subreddit_subscribers": 24050251, "subreddit_type": "public", "suggested_sort": "top", "thread_id": "t3_ocx94s", "thumbnail": "", "title": "AITA for telling my wife the lock on my daughter's door does not get removed til my brother inlaw and his daughters are out of our house?", "top_awarded_type": null, "total_awards_received": 0, "treatment_tags": [], "unrepliable_reason": null, "ups": 81020, "upvote_ratio": 0.92, "url": "https://www.reddit.com/r/AmItheAsshole/comments/ocx94s/aita_for_telling_my_wife_the_lock_on_my_daughters/", "user_reports": [], "view_count": null, "visited": false, "wls": 7}, "role": "OnlyInQuebec9"}, {"content": "NTA. Don't back down. You are the only one sticking up for Zoey. If her cousins want to use expensive makeup, give them your wife's. I guarantee she won't appreciate sharing anymore.\n\nThey need to start behaving like appreciative guests.", "metadata": {"_additional_fetch_params": null, "_comments_by_id": null, "_fetched": true, "all_awardings": [], "allow_live_comments": null, "approved_at_utc": null, "approved_by": null, "archived": true, "associated_award": null, "author": "riblz11", "author_cakeday": null, "author_flair_background_color": "#3b2921", "author_flair_css_class": null, "author_flair_richtext": [], "author_flair_template_id": "0f8d1b4a-f8a7-11e8-920b-0e93c922efde", "author_flair_text": "Partassipant [3]", "author_flair_text_color": "light", "author_flair_type": "text", "author_fullname": "t2_m1enf", "author_is_blocked": false, "author_patreon_flair": false, "author_premium": false, "awarders": [], "banned_at_utc": null, "banned_by": null, "body": "NTA. Don't back down. You are the only one sticking up for Zoey. If her cousins want to use expensive makeup, give them your wife's. I guarantee she won't appreciate sharing anymore.\n\nThey need to start behaving like appreciative guests.", "body_html": "<div class=\"md\"><p>NTA. Don't back down. You are the only one sticking up for Zoey. If her cousins want to use expensive makeup, give them your wife's. I guarantee she won't appreciate sharing anymore.</p>\n\n<p>They need to start behaving like appreciative guests.</p>\n</div>", "can_gild": false, "can_mod_post": false, "category": null, "clicked": null, "collapsed": false, "collapsed_because_crowd_control": null, "collapsed_reason": null, "collapsed_reason_code": null, "comment_limit": null, "comment_sort": null, "comment_type": null, "content_categories": null, "contest_mode": null, "controversiality": 0, "created": 1625316287.0, "created_utc": 1625316287.0, "depth": 0, "discussion_type": null, "distinguished": null, "domain": null, "downs": 0, "edited": 0.0, "gilded": 4, "gildings": null, "hidden": null, "hide_score": null, "id": "h3wyfzq", "is_created_from_ads_ui": null, "is_crosspostable": null, "is_meta": null, "is_original_content": null, "is_reddit_media_domain": null, "is_robot_indexable": null, "is_self": null, "is_submitter": false, "is_video": null, "likes": null, "link_flair_background_color": null, "link_flair_css_class": null, "link_flair_richtext": null, "link_flair_template_id": null, "link_flair_text": null, "link_flair_text_color": null, "link_flair_type": null, "link_id": "t3_ocx94s", "locked": false, "media": null, "media_embed": null, "media_only": null, "mod_note": null, "mod_reason_by": null, "mod_reason_title": null, "mod_reports": [], "name": "t1_h3wyfzq", "no_follow": false, "num_comments": null, "num_crossposts": null, "num_reports": null, "over_18": null, "parent_id": "t3_ocx94s", "permalink": "/r/AmItheAsshole/comments/ocx94s/aita_for_telling_my_wife_the_lock_on_my_daughters/h3wyfzq/", "pinned": null, "pwls": null, "quarantine": null, "removal_reason": null, "removed_by": null, "removed_by_category": null, "report_reasons": null, "saved": false, "score": 65566, "score_hidden": false, "secure_media": null, "secure_media_embed": null, "selftext": null, "selftext_html": null, "send_replies": true, "spoiler": null, "stickied": false, "subreddit": "AmItheAsshole", "subreddit_id": "t5_2xhvq", "subreddit_name_prefixed": "r/AmItheAsshole", "subreddit_subscribers": null, "subreddit_type": "public", "suggested_sort": null, "thread_id": null, "thumbnail": null, "title": null, "top_awarded_type": null, "total_awards_received": 0, "treatment_tags": [], "unrepliable_reason": null, "ups": 65566, "upvote_ratio": null, "url": null, "user_reports": [], "view_count": null, "visited": null, "wls": null}, "role": "riblz11"}, {"content": "You know I probably shouldn't be saying this but my wife has been acting like a hypocrite latey. Especially regarding privacy issues. She considers privacy something very important but still thought that Zoey did not have the right to get a lock - Even if we leave her cousins out of this matter. My wife is not agreeing with the whole concept of getting a lock for Zoey. I explained to her what's been happenning, Even told her that Zoey has been moving some of her valuable belongings into a friend's house to keep them safe, do I blame her? Absolutely not. But my wife still thought Zoey was wrong to do that.\nNow her cousine are upset and they and Sammy are using the silent treatment (among other things like eating without us or not sitting with us) as a guilt tactic. Even though it's not affecting me, it's making Zoey feel like she did something wrong by having a lock for her room.", "metadata": {"_additional_fetch_params": null, "_comments_by_id": null, "_fetched": true, "all_awardings": [], "allow_live_comments": null, "approved_at_utc": null, "approved_by": null, "archived": true, "associated_award": null, "author": "OnlyInQuebec9", "author_cakeday": null, "author_flair_background_color": null, "author_flair_css_class": null, "author_flair_richtext": [], "author_flair_template_id": null, "author_flair_text": null, "author_flair_text_color": null, "author_flair_type": "text", "author_fullname": "t2_d32xujeo", "author_is_blocked": false, "author_patreon_flair": false, "author_premium": false, "awarders": [], "banned_at_utc": null, "banned_by": null, "body": "You know I probably shouldn't be saying this but my wife has been acting like a hypocrite latey. Especially regarding privacy issues. She considers privacy something very important but still thought that Zoey did not have the right to get a lock - Even if we leave her cousins out of this matter. My wife is not agreeing with the whole concept of getting a lock for Zoey. I explained to her what's been happenning, Even told her that Zoey has been moving some of her valuable belongings into a friend's house to keep them safe, do I blame her? Absolutely not. But my wife still thought Zoey was wrong to do that.\nNow her cousine are upset and they and Sammy are using the silent treatment (among other things like eating without us or not sitting with us) as a guilt tactic. Even though it's not affecting me, it's making Zoey feel like she did something wrong by having a lock for her room.", "body_html": "<div class=\"md\"><p>You know I probably shouldn't be saying this but my wife has been acting like a hypocrite latey. Especially regarding privacy issues. She considers privacy something very important but still thought that Zoey did not have the right to get a lock - Even if we leave her cousins out of this matter. My wife is not agreeing with the whole concept of getting a lock for Zoey. I explained to her what's been happenning, Even told her that Zoey has been moving some of her valuable belongings into a friend's house to keep them safe, do I blame her? Absolutely not. But my wife still thought Zoey was wrong to do that.\nNow her cousine are upset and they and Sammy are using the silent treatment (among other things like eating without us or not sitting with us) as a guilt tactic. Even though it's not affecting me, it's making Zoey feel like she did something wrong by having a lock for her room.</p>\n</div>", "can_gild": false, "can_mod_post": false, "category": null, "clicked": null, "collapsed": false, "collapsed_because_crowd_control": null, "collapsed_reason": null, "collapsed_reason_code": null, "comment_limit": null, "comment_sort": null, "comment_type": null, "content_categories": null, "contest_mode": null, "controversiality": 0, "created": 1625319958.0, "created_utc": 1625319958.0, "depth": 1, "discussion_type": null, "distinguished": null, "domain": null, "downs": 0, "edited": 1625325018.0, "gilded": 0, "gildings": null, "hidden": null, "hide_score": null, "id": "h3x48ia", "is_created_from_ads_ui": null, "is_crosspostable": null, "is_meta": null, "is_original_content": null, "is_reddit_media_domain": null, "is_robot_indexable": null, "is_self": null, "is_submitter": true, "is_video": null, "likes": null, "link_flair_background_color": null, 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"subreddit_id": "t5_2xhvq", "subreddit_name_prefixed": "r/AmItheAsshole", "subreddit_subscribers": null, "subreddit_type": "public", "suggested_sort": null, "thread_id": null, "thumbnail": null, "title": null, "top_awarded_type": null, "total_awards_received": 0, "treatment_tags": [], "unrepliable_reason": null, "ups": 5196, "upvote_ratio": null, "url": null, "user_reports": [], "view_count": null, "visited": null, "wls": null}, "role": "OnlyInQuebec9"}, {"content": "WTF dang these people are entitled AF. \n\nI'd kick them all out for creating a hostile and uncomfortable situation IN MY OWN HOME.", "metadata": {"_additional_fetch_params": null, "_comments_by_id": null, "_fetched": true, "all_awardings": [], "allow_live_comments": null, "approved_at_utc": null, "approved_by": null, "archived": true, "associated_award": null, "author": "loveisrespectS2", "author_cakeday": null, "author_flair_background_color": null, "author_flair_css_class": null, "author_flair_richtext": [], "author_flair_template_id": null, "author_flair_text": null, "author_flair_text_color": null, "author_flair_type": "text", "author_fullname": "t2_8cnm4vfp", "author_is_blocked": false, "author_patreon_flair": false, "author_premium": false, "awarders": [], "banned_at_utc": null, "banned_by": null, "body": "WTF dang these people are entitled AF. \n\nI'd kick them all out for creating a hostile and uncomfortable situation IN MY OWN HOME.", "body_html": "<div class=\"md\"><p>WTF dang these people are entitled AF. </p>\n\n<p>I'd kick them all out for creating a hostile and uncomfortable situation IN MY OWN HOME.</p>\n</div>", "can_gild": false, "can_mod_post": false, "category": null, "clicked": null, "collapsed": false, "collapsed_because_crowd_control": null, "collapsed_reason": null, "collapsed_reason_code": null, "comment_limit": null, "comment_sort": null, "comment_type": null, "content_categories": null, "contest_mode": null, "controversiality": 0, "created": 1625320392.0, 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These people need to go now, They are mentally abusing and bullying a teenage girl- as well as OP. Gaslighting , disrespect and straight out hostile behaviour- in OPs own home. OP you are NTA -Boot them to the next relatives and if your wife has a problem with that- she can drive them there. Please do not back down on this and yes, let them know that your wifey has no problem with sharing make up. These people are disgraceful and entitled.", "metadata": {"_additional_fetch_params": null, "_comments_by_id": null, "_fetched": true, "all_awardings": [], "allow_live_comments": null, "approved_at_utc": null, "approved_by": null, "archived": true, "associated_award": null, "author": "V-838", "author_cakeday": null, "author_flair_background_color": null, "author_flair_css_class": null, "author_flair_richtext": [], "author_flair_template_id": null, "author_flair_text": null, "author_flair_text_color": null, "author_flair_type": "text", "author_fullname": "t2_3f9eum54", "author_is_blocked": false, "author_patreon_flair": false, "author_premium": false, "awarders": [], "banned_at_utc": null, "banned_by": null, "body": "Exactly. These people need to go now, They are mentally abusing and bullying a teenage girl- as well as OP. Gaslighting , disrespect and straight out hostile behaviour- in OPs own home. OP you are NTA -Boot them to the next relatives and if your wife has a problem with that- she can drive them there. Please do not back down on this and yes, let them know that your wifey has no problem with sharing make up. These people are disgraceful and entitled.", "body_html": "<div class=\"md\"><p>Exactly. These people need to go now, They are mentally abusing and bullying a teenage girl- as well as OP. Gaslighting , disrespect and straight out hostile behaviour- in OPs own home. OP you are NTA -Boot them to the next relatives and if your wife has a problem with that- she can drive them there. Please do not back down on this and yes, let them know that your wifey has no problem with sharing make up. These people are disgraceful and entitled.</p>\n</div>", "can_gild": false, "can_mod_post": false, "category": null, "clicked": null, "collapsed": false, "collapsed_because_crowd_control": null, "collapsed_reason": null, "collapsed_reason_code": null, "comment_limit": null, "comment_sort": null, "comment_type": null, "content_categories": null, "contest_mode": null, "controversiality": 0, "created": 1625321440.0, "created_utc": 1625321440.0, "depth": 3, "discussion_type": null, "distinguished": null, "domain": null, "downs": 0, "edited": 0.0, "gilded": 1, "gildings": null, "hidden": null, "hide_score": null, "id": "h3x6v41", "is_created_from_ads_ui": null, "is_crosspostable": null, "is_meta": null, "is_original_content": null, "is_reddit_media_domain": null, "is_robot_indexable": null, "is_self": null, "is_submitter": false, "is_video": null, "likes": null, "link_flair_background_color": null, "link_flair_css_class": null, "link_flair_richtext": null, "link_flair_template_id": null, "link_flair_text": null, "link_flair_text_color": null, "link_flair_type": null, "link_id": "t3_ocx94s", "locked": false, "media": null, "media_embed": null, "media_only": null, "mod_note": null, "mod_reason_by": null, "mod_reason_title": null, "mod_reports": [], "name": "t1_h3x6v41", "no_follow": false, "num_comments": null, "num_crossposts": null, "num_reports": null, "over_18": null, "parent_id": "t1_h3x501c", "permalink": "/r/AmItheAsshole/comments/ocx94s/aita_for_telling_my_wife_the_lock_on_my_daughters/h3x6v41/", "pinned": null, "pwls": null, "quarantine": null, "removal_reason": null, "removed_by": null, "removed_by_category": null, "report_reasons": null, "saved": false, "score": 3421, "score_hidden": false, "secure_media": null, "secure_media_embed": null, "selftext": null, "selftext_html": null, "send_replies": true, "spoiler": null, "stickied": false, "subreddit": "AmItheAsshole", "subreddit_id": "t5_2xhvq", "subreddit_name_prefixed": "r/AmItheAsshole", "subreddit_subscribers": null, "subreddit_type": "public", "suggested_sort": null, "thread_id": null, "thumbnail": null, "title": null, "top_awarded_type": null, "total_awards_received": 0, "treatment_tags": [], "unrepliable_reason": null, "ups": 3421, "upvote_ratio": null, "url": null, "user_reports": [], "view_count": null, "visited": null, "wls": null}, "role": "V-838"}]
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I think everyone is missing that BIL is taking advantage of OP and his wife as well. He and his adult daughters have been living with OP for 10 months now. If 3 grown ass adults cant pool their money to find an apartment there is a much bigger issue.
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I completely disagreed. \n\nLast straw was when Zoey bought a 60$ m.a.c makeup-kit that looks like a paintset that she saved up for over a month and one of the girls, Sloane took it without permission and ruined it by mixing shades together while using it. Don't know much about makeup but that's what Zoey said when she found the kit on her bed, and was crying.\nI told my wife and she said she'd ask Sloane to apologize but I got Zoey a lock after I found she was moving valuable belongings out the house because of this incidence!!!\n\nSammy and his daughters saw the lock and weren't happy, the girls were extremely upset.\nSammy asked about it and I straight up told him. He said \"my daughters aren't thieves!!! it's normal that girls of the same age borrow each others stuff\" he said Zoey could easily get another makeup kit for 15 bucks from walmart and shouldn't even be buying expensive - adult makeup in the first place and suggested my wife take care of this \"defect\" in Zoey's personality trying to appear older than she is.\nHe accused me of being overprotective and babying Zoey with this level of enablement.\n\nI told him this's between me and my wife but she shamed me for putting a lock on Zoey's door for her cousins to see and preventing them from \"spending time\" with her saying I was supposed to treat them like daughters, then demanded I remove it but I said this lock does not get removed til her brother and his daughters are out of our house.\n\nShe got mad I was implying we kick them out and said her family'll hate me for this. so I reminded her that I let Sammy and his family move in which's something her OWN family refused to do so she should start with shaming/blaming them for not taking their own son and nieces/granddaughters in. if it wasn't for her family's unwillingness to help we wouldn't be dealing with this much disturbance at home.\n\nEveryone's been giving me and Zoey silent treatment and my wife is very much upset over this.", "metadata": {"_additional_fetch_params": null, "_comments_by_id": null, "_fetched": false, "all_awardings": [], "allow_live_comments": true, "approved_at_utc": null, "approved_by": null, "archived": true, "associated_award": null, "author": "OnlyInQuebec9", "author_cakeday": null, "author_flair_background_color": null, "author_flair_css_class": null, "author_flair_richtext": [], "author_flair_template_id": null, "author_flair_text": null, "author_flair_text_color": null, "author_flair_type": "text", "author_fullname": "t2_d32xujeo", "author_is_blocked": false, "author_patreon_flair": false, "author_premium": false, "awarders": [], "banned_at_utc": null, "banned_by": null, "body": null, "body_html": null, "can_gild": false, "can_mod_post": false, "category": null, "clicked": false, "collapsed": null, "collapsed_because_crowd_control": null, "collapsed_reason": null, "collapsed_reason_code": null, "comment_limit": 2048, "comment_sort": "confidence", "comment_type": null, "content_categories": null, "contest_mode": false, "controversiality": null, "created": 1625315782.0, "created_utc": 1625315782.0, "depth": null, "discussion_type": null, "distinguished": null, "domain": "self.AmItheAsshole", "downs": 0, "edited": 0.0, "gilded": 3, "gildings": null, "hidden": false, "hide_score": false, "id": "ocx94s", "is_created_from_ads_ui": false, "is_crosspostable": false, "is_meta": false, "is_original_content": false, "is_reddit_media_domain": false, "is_robot_indexable": true, "is_self": true, "is_submitter": null, "is_video": false, "likes": null, "link_flair_background_color": "#7193ff", "link_flair_css_class": "not", "link_flair_richtext": [], "link_flair_template_id": "35ab95ec-0b14-11e5-87b6-0efd95e46dfd", "link_flair_text": "Not the A-hole", "link_flair_text_color": "light", "link_flair_type": "text", "link_id": null, "locked": true, "media": null, "media_embed": null, "media_only": false, "mod_note": null, "mod_reason_by": null, "mod_reason_title": null, "mod_reports": [], "name": "t3_ocx94s", "no_follow": false, "num_comments": 5237, "num_crossposts": 10, "num_reports": null, "over_18": false, "parent_id": null, "permalink": "/r/AmItheAsshole/comments/ocx94s/aita_for_telling_my_wife_the_lock_on_my_daughters/", "pinned": false, "pwls": 7, "quarantine": false, "removal_reason": null, "removed_by": null, "removed_by_category": null, "report_reasons": null, "saved": false, "score": 81020, "score_hidden": null, "secure_media": null, "secure_media_embed": null, "selftext": "My brother in-law (Sammy) lost his home shortly after his divorce 10 months ago. He moved in with us and brought his twin daughters (Olivia & Sloane18) with him a couple of months ago.\nHis sister (my wife) and I have one daughter (Zoey 16) and she and her cousins aren't close but get along fine.\n\nOlivia & Sloane have no respect for Zoey's privacy, none. they used to walk into her room and take everything they get their hands on. Makeup, phone accessories, clothes, school laptop etc. Zoey complained a lot and I've already asked the girls to respect Zoey's privacy and stop taking things. My wife and Sammy saw no issue with this. After all, they're girls and this's typical teenage girls behavior. I completely disagreed. \n\nLast straw was when Zoey bought a 60$ m.a.c makeup-kit that looks like a paintset that she saved up for over a month and one of the girls, Sloane took it without permission and ruined it by mixing shades together while using it. Don't know much about makeup but that's what Zoey said when she found the kit on her bed, and was crying.\nI told my wife and she said she'd ask Sloane to apologize but I got Zoey a lock after I found she was moving valuable belongings out the house because of this incidence!!!\n\nSammy and his daughters saw the lock and weren't happy, the girls were extremely upset.\nSammy asked about it and I straight up told him. He said \"my daughters aren't thieves!!! it's normal that girls of the same age borrow each others stuff\" he said Zoey could easily get another makeup kit for 15 bucks from walmart and shouldn't even be buying expensive - adult makeup in the first place and suggested my wife take care of this \"defect\" in Zoey's personality trying to appear older than she is.\nHe accused me of being overprotective and babying Zoey with this level of enablement.\n\nI told him this's between me and my wife but she shamed me for putting a lock on Zoey's door for her cousins to see and preventing them from \"spending time\" with her saying I was supposed to treat them like daughters, then demanded I remove it but I said this lock does not get removed til her brother and his daughters are out of our house.\n\nShe got mad I was implying we kick them out and said her family'll hate me for this. so I reminded her that I let Sammy and his family move in which's something her OWN family refused to do so she should start with shaming/blaming them for not taking their own son and nieces/granddaughters in. if it wasn't for her family's unwillingness to help we wouldn't be dealing with this much disturbance at home.\n\nEveryone's been giving me and Zoey silent treatment and my wife is very much upset over this.", "selftext_html": "<!-- SC_OFF --><div class=\"md\"><p>My brother in-law (Sammy) lost his home shortly after his divorce 10 months ago. He moved in with us and brought his twin daughters (Olivia & Sloane18) with him a couple of months ago.\nHis sister (my wife) and I have one daughter (Zoey 16) and she and her cousins aren't close but get along fine.</p>\n\n<p>Olivia & Sloane have no respect for Zoey's privacy, none. they used to walk into her room and take everything they get their hands on. Makeup, phone accessories, clothes, school laptop etc. Zoey complained a lot and I've already asked the girls to respect Zoey's privacy and stop taking things. My wife and Sammy saw no issue with this. After all, they're girls and this's typical teenage girls behavior. I completely disagreed. </p>\n\n<p>Last straw was when Zoey bought a 60$ m.a.c makeup-kit that looks like a paintset that she saved up for over a month and one of the girls, Sloane took it without permission and ruined it by mixing shades together while using it. Don't know much about makeup but that's what Zoey said when she found the kit on her bed, and was crying.\nI told my wife and she said she'd ask Sloane to apologize but I got Zoey a lock after I found she was moving valuable belongings out the house because of this incidence!!!</p>\n\n<p>Sammy and his daughters saw the lock and weren't happy, the girls were extremely upset.\nSammy asked about it and I straight up told him. He said "my daughters aren't thieves!!! it's normal that girls of the same age borrow each others stuff" he said Zoey could easily get another makeup kit for 15 bucks from walmart and shouldn't even be buying expensive - adult makeup in the first place and suggested my wife take care of this "defect" in Zoey's personality trying to appear older than she is.\nHe accused me of being overprotective and babying Zoey with this level of enablement.</p>\n\n<p>I told him this's between me and my wife but she shamed me for putting a lock on Zoey's door for her cousins to see and preventing them from "spending time" with her saying I was supposed to treat them like daughters, then demanded I remove it but I said this lock does not get removed til her brother and his daughters are out of our house.</p>\n\n<p>She got mad I was implying we kick them out and said her family'll hate me for this. so I reminded her that I let Sammy and his family move in which's something her OWN family refused to do so she should start with shaming/blaming them for not taking their own son and nieces/granddaughters in. if it wasn't for her family's unwillingness to help we wouldn't be dealing with this much disturbance at home.</p>\n\n<p>Everyone's been giving me and Zoey silent treatment and my wife is very much upset over this.</p>\n</div><!-- SC_ON -->", "send_replies": true, "spoiler": false, "stickied": false, "subreddit": "r/AmItheAsshole", "subreddit_id": "t5_2xhvq", "subreddit_name_prefixed": "r/AmItheAsshole", "subreddit_subscribers": 24050251, "subreddit_type": "public", "suggested_sort": "top", "thread_id": "t3_ocx94s", "thumbnail": "", "title": "AITA for telling my wife the lock on my daughter's door does not get removed til my brother inlaw and his daughters are out of our house?", "top_awarded_type": null, "total_awards_received": 0, "treatment_tags": [], "unrepliable_reason": null, "ups": 81020, "upvote_ratio": 0.92, "url": "https://www.reddit.com/r/AmItheAsshole/comments/ocx94s/aita_for_telling_my_wife_the_lock_on_my_daughters/", "user_reports": [], "view_count": null, "visited": false, "wls": 7}, "role": "OnlyInQuebec9"}, {"content": "NTA. Don't back down. You are the only one sticking up for Zoey. If her cousins want to use expensive makeup, give them your wife's. I guarantee she won't appreciate sharing anymore.\n\nThey need to start behaving like appreciative guests.", "metadata": {"_additional_fetch_params": null, "_comments_by_id": null, "_fetched": true, "all_awardings": [], "allow_live_comments": null, "approved_at_utc": null, "approved_by": null, "archived": true, "associated_award": null, "author": "riblz11", "author_cakeday": null, "author_flair_background_color": "#3b2921", "author_flair_css_class": null, "author_flair_richtext": [], "author_flair_template_id": "0f8d1b4a-f8a7-11e8-920b-0e93c922efde", "author_flair_text": "Partassipant [3]", "author_flair_text_color": "light", "author_flair_type": "text", "author_fullname": "t2_m1enf", "author_is_blocked": false, "author_patreon_flair": false, "author_premium": false, "awarders": [], "banned_at_utc": null, "banned_by": null, "body": "NTA. Don't back down. You are the only one sticking up for Zoey. If her cousins want to use expensive makeup, give them your wife's. I guarantee she won't appreciate sharing anymore.\n\nThey need to start behaving like appreciative guests.", "body_html": "<div class=\"md\"><p>NTA. Don't back down. You are the only one sticking up for Zoey. If her cousins want to use expensive makeup, give them your wife's. I guarantee she won't appreciate sharing anymore.</p>\n\n<p>They need to start behaving like appreciative guests.</p>\n</div>", "can_gild": false, "can_mod_post": false, "category": null, "clicked": null, "collapsed": false, "collapsed_because_crowd_control": null, "collapsed_reason": null, "collapsed_reason_code": null, "comment_limit": null, "comment_sort": null, "comment_type": null, "content_categories": null, "contest_mode": null, "controversiality": 0, "created": 1625316287.0, "created_utc": 1625316287.0, "depth": 0, "discussion_type": null, "distinguished": null, "domain": null, "downs": 0, "edited": 0.0, "gilded": 4, "gildings": null, "hidden": null, "hide_score": null, "id": "h3wyfzq", "is_created_from_ads_ui": null, "is_crosspostable": null, "is_meta": null, "is_original_content": null, "is_reddit_media_domain": null, "is_robot_indexable": null, "is_self": null, "is_submitter": false, "is_video": null, "likes": null, "link_flair_background_color": null, "link_flair_css_class": null, "link_flair_richtext": null, "link_flair_template_id": null, "link_flair_text": null, "link_flair_text_color": null, "link_flair_type": null, "link_id": "t3_ocx94s", "locked": false, "media": null, "media_embed": null, "media_only": null, "mod_note": null, "mod_reason_by": null, "mod_reason_title": null, "mod_reports": [], "name": "t1_h3wyfzq", "no_follow": false, "num_comments": null, "num_crossposts": null, "num_reports": null, "over_18": null, "parent_id": "t3_ocx94s", "permalink": "/r/AmItheAsshole/comments/ocx94s/aita_for_telling_my_wife_the_lock_on_my_daughters/h3wyfzq/", "pinned": null, "pwls": null, "quarantine": null, "removal_reason": null, "removed_by": null, "removed_by_category": null, "report_reasons": null, "saved": false, "score": 65566, "score_hidden": false, "secure_media": null, "secure_media_embed": null, "selftext": null, "selftext_html": null, "send_replies": true, "spoiler": null, "stickied": false, "subreddit": "AmItheAsshole", "subreddit_id": "t5_2xhvq", "subreddit_name_prefixed": "r/AmItheAsshole", "subreddit_subscribers": null, "subreddit_type": "public", "suggested_sort": null, "thread_id": null, "thumbnail": null, "title": null, "top_awarded_type": null, "total_awards_received": 0, "treatment_tags": [], "unrepliable_reason": null, "ups": 65566, "upvote_ratio": null, "url": null, "user_reports": [], "view_count": null, "visited": null, "wls": null}, "role": "riblz11"}, {"content": "You know I probably shouldn't be saying this but my wife has been acting like a hypocrite latey. Especially regarding privacy issues. She considers privacy something very important but still thought that Zoey did not have the right to get a lock - Even if we leave her cousins out of this matter. My wife is not agreeing with the whole concept of getting a lock for Zoey. I explained to her what's been happenning, Even told her that Zoey has been moving some of her valuable belongings into a friend's house to keep them safe, do I blame her? Absolutely not. But my wife still thought Zoey was wrong to do that.\nNow her cousine are upset and they and Sammy are using the silent treatment (among other things like eating without us or not sitting with us) as a guilt tactic. Even though it's not affecting me, it's making Zoey feel like she did something wrong by having a lock for her room.", "metadata": {"_additional_fetch_params": null, "_comments_by_id": null, "_fetched": true, "all_awardings": [], "allow_live_comments": null, "approved_at_utc": null, "approved_by": null, "archived": true, "associated_award": null, "author": "OnlyInQuebec9", "author_cakeday": null, "author_flair_background_color": null, "author_flair_css_class": null, "author_flair_richtext": [], "author_flair_template_id": null, "author_flair_text": null, "author_flair_text_color": null, "author_flair_type": "text", "author_fullname": "t2_d32xujeo", "author_is_blocked": false, "author_patreon_flair": false, "author_premium": false, "awarders": [], "banned_at_utc": null, "banned_by": null, "body": "You know I probably shouldn't be saying this but my wife has been acting like a hypocrite latey. Especially regarding privacy issues. She considers privacy something very important but still thought that Zoey did not have the right to get a lock - Even if we leave her cousins out of this matter. My wife is not agreeing with the whole concept of getting a lock for Zoey. I explained to her what's been happenning, Even told her that Zoey has been moving some of her valuable belongings into a friend's house to keep them safe, do I blame her? Absolutely not. But my wife still thought Zoey was wrong to do that.\nNow her cousine are upset and they and Sammy are using the silent treatment (among other things like eating without us or not sitting with us) as a guilt tactic. Even though it's not affecting me, it's making Zoey feel like she did something wrong by having a lock for her room.", "body_html": "<div class=\"md\"><p>You know I probably shouldn't be saying this but my wife has been acting like a hypocrite latey. Especially regarding privacy issues. She considers privacy something very important but still thought that Zoey did not have the right to get a lock - Even if we leave her cousins out of this matter. My wife is not agreeing with the whole concept of getting a lock for Zoey. I explained to her what's been happenning, Even told her that Zoey has been moving some of her valuable belongings into a friend's house to keep them safe, do I blame her? Absolutely not. But my wife still thought Zoey was wrong to do that.\nNow her cousine are upset and they and Sammy are using the silent treatment (among other things like eating without us or not sitting with us) as a guilt tactic. Even though it's not affecting me, it's making Zoey feel like she did something wrong by having a lock for her room.</p>\n</div>", "can_gild": false, "can_mod_post": false, "category": null, "clicked": null, "collapsed": false, "collapsed_because_crowd_control": null, "collapsed_reason": null, "collapsed_reason_code": null, "comment_limit": null, "comment_sort": null, "comment_type": null, "content_categories": null, "contest_mode": null, "controversiality": 0, "created": 1625319958.0, "created_utc": 1625319958.0, "depth": 1, "discussion_type": null, "distinguished": null, "domain": null, "downs": 0, "edited": 1625325018.0, "gilded": 0, "gildings": null, "hidden": null, "hide_score": null, "id": "h3x48ia", "is_created_from_ads_ui": null, "is_crosspostable": null, "is_meta": null, "is_original_content": null, "is_reddit_media_domain": null, "is_robot_indexable": null, "is_self": null, "is_submitter": true, "is_video": null, "likes": null, "link_flair_background_color": null, 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"subreddit_id": "t5_2xhvq", "subreddit_name_prefixed": "r/AmItheAsshole", "subreddit_subscribers": null, "subreddit_type": "public", "suggested_sort": null, "thread_id": null, "thumbnail": null, "title": null, "top_awarded_type": null, "total_awards_received": 0, "treatment_tags": [], "unrepliable_reason": null, "ups": 5196, "upvote_ratio": null, "url": null, "user_reports": [], "view_count": null, "visited": null, "wls": null}, "role": "OnlyInQuebec9"}, {"content": "WTF dang these people are entitled AF. \n\nI'd kick them all out for creating a hostile and uncomfortable situation IN MY OWN HOME.", "metadata": {"_additional_fetch_params": null, "_comments_by_id": null, "_fetched": true, "all_awardings": [], "allow_live_comments": null, "approved_at_utc": null, "approved_by": null, "archived": true, "associated_award": null, "author": "loveisrespectS2", "author_cakeday": null, "author_flair_background_color": null, "author_flair_css_class": null, "author_flair_richtext": [], "author_flair_template_id": null, "author_flair_text": null, "author_flair_text_color": null, "author_flair_type": "text", "author_fullname": "t2_8cnm4vfp", "author_is_blocked": false, "author_patreon_flair": false, "author_premium": false, "awarders": [], "banned_at_utc": null, "banned_by": null, "body": "WTF dang these people are entitled AF. \n\nI'd kick them all out for creating a hostile and uncomfortable situation IN MY OWN HOME.", "body_html": "<div class=\"md\"><p>WTF dang these people are entitled AF. </p>\n\n<p>I'd kick them all out for creating a hostile and uncomfortable situation IN MY OWN HOME.</p>\n</div>", "can_gild": false, "can_mod_post": false, "category": null, "clicked": null, "collapsed": false, "collapsed_because_crowd_control": null, "collapsed_reason": null, "collapsed_reason_code": null, "comment_limit": null, "comment_sort": null, "comment_type": null, "content_categories": null, "contest_mode": null, "controversiality": 0, "created": 1625320392.0, 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"permalink": "/r/AmItheAsshole/comments/ocx94s/aita_for_telling_my_wife_the_lock_on_my_daughters/h3x501c/", "pinned": null, "pwls": null, "quarantine": null, "removal_reason": null, "removed_by": null, "removed_by_category": null, "report_reasons": null, "saved": false, "score": 4275, "score_hidden": false, "secure_media": null, "secure_media_embed": null, "selftext": null, "selftext_html": null, "send_replies": true, "spoiler": null, "stickied": false, "subreddit": "AmItheAsshole", "subreddit_id": "t5_2xhvq", "subreddit_name_prefixed": "r/AmItheAsshole", "subreddit_subscribers": null, "subreddit_type": "public", "suggested_sort": null, "thread_id": null, "thumbnail": null, "title": null, "top_awarded_type": null, "total_awards_received": 0, "treatment_tags": [], "unrepliable_reason": null, "ups": 4275, "upvote_ratio": null, "url": null, "user_reports": [], "view_count": null, "visited": null, "wls": null}, "role": "loveisrespectS2"}, {"content": "Exactly. These people need to go now, They are mentally abusing and bullying a teenage girl- as well as OP. Gaslighting , disrespect and straight out hostile behaviour- in OPs own home. OP you are NTA -Boot them to the next relatives and if your wife has a problem with that- she can drive them there. Please do not back down on this and yes, let them know that your wifey has no problem with sharing make up. These people are disgraceful and entitled.", "metadata": {"_additional_fetch_params": null, "_comments_by_id": null, "_fetched": true, "all_awardings": [], "allow_live_comments": null, "approved_at_utc": null, "approved_by": null, "archived": true, "associated_award": null, "author": "V-838", "author_cakeday": null, "author_flair_background_color": null, "author_flair_css_class": null, "author_flair_richtext": [], "author_flair_template_id": null, "author_flair_text": null, "author_flair_text_color": null, "author_flair_type": "text", "author_fullname": "t2_3f9eum54", "author_is_blocked": false, "author_patreon_flair": false, "author_premium": false, "awarders": [], "banned_at_utc": null, "banned_by": null, "body": "Exactly. These people need to go now, They are mentally abusing and bullying a teenage girl- as well as OP. Gaslighting , disrespect and straight out hostile behaviour- in OPs own home. OP you are NTA -Boot them to the next relatives and if your wife has a problem with that- she can drive them there. Please do not back down on this and yes, let them know that your wifey has no problem with sharing make up. These people are disgraceful and entitled.", "body_html": "<div class=\"md\"><p>Exactly. These people need to go now, They are mentally abusing and bullying a teenage girl- as well as OP. Gaslighting , disrespect and straight out hostile behaviour- in OPs own home. OP you are NTA -Boot them to the next relatives and if your wife has a problem with that- she can drive them there. Please do not back down on this and yes, let them know that your wifey has no problem with sharing make up. These people are disgraceful and entitled.</p>\n</div>", "can_gild": false, "can_mod_post": false, "category": null, "clicked": null, "collapsed": false, "collapsed_because_crowd_control": null, "collapsed_reason": null, "collapsed_reason_code": null, "comment_limit": null, "comment_sort": null, "comment_type": null, "content_categories": null, "contest_mode": null, "controversiality": 0, "created": 1625321440.0, "created_utc": 1625321440.0, "depth": 3, "discussion_type": null, "distinguished": null, "domain": null, "downs": 0, "edited": 0.0, "gilded": 1, "gildings": null, "hidden": null, "hide_score": null, "id": "h3x6v41", "is_created_from_ads_ui": null, "is_crosspostable": null, "is_meta": null, "is_original_content": null, "is_reddit_media_domain": null, "is_robot_indexable": null, "is_self": null, "is_submitter": false, "is_video": null, "likes": null, "link_flair_background_color": null, "link_flair_css_class": null, "link_flair_richtext": null, "link_flair_template_id": null, "link_flair_text": null, "link_flair_text_color": null, "link_flair_type": null, "link_id": "t3_ocx94s", "locked": false, "media": null, "media_embed": null, "media_only": null, "mod_note": null, "mod_reason_by": null, "mod_reason_title": null, "mod_reports": [], "name": "t1_h3x6v41", "no_follow": false, "num_comments": null, "num_crossposts": null, "num_reports": null, "over_18": null, "parent_id": "t1_h3x501c", "permalink": "/r/AmItheAsshole/comments/ocx94s/aita_for_telling_my_wife_the_lock_on_my_daughters/h3x6v41/", "pinned": null, "pwls": null, "quarantine": null, "removal_reason": null, "removed_by": null, "removed_by_category": null, "report_reasons": null, "saved": false, "score": 3421, "score_hidden": false, "secure_media": null, "secure_media_embed": null, "selftext": null, "selftext_html": null, "send_replies": true, "spoiler": null, "stickied": false, "subreddit": "AmItheAsshole", "subreddit_id": "t5_2xhvq", "subreddit_name_prefixed": "r/AmItheAsshole", "subreddit_subscribers": null, "subreddit_type": "public", "suggested_sort": null, "thread_id": null, "thumbnail": null, "title": null, "top_awarded_type": null, "total_awards_received": 0, "treatment_tags": [], "unrepliable_reason": null, "ups": 3421, "upvote_ratio": null, "url": null, "user_reports": [], "view_count": null, "visited": null, "wls": null}, "role": "V-838"}, {"content": "Absolutely agree with this. These people are guests in your house and apparently unable to behave with basic courtesy. Get’em out. NTA", "metadata": {"_additional_fetch_params": null, "_comments_by_id": null, "_fetched": true, "all_awardings": [], "allow_live_comments": null, "approved_at_utc": null, "approved_by": null, "archived": true, "associated_award": null, "author": "HRHArgyll", "author_cakeday": null, "author_flair_background_color": null, "author_flair_css_class": null, "author_flair_richtext": [], "author_flair_template_id": null, "author_flair_text": null, "author_flair_text_color": null, "author_flair_type": "text", "author_fullname": "t2_5n6vdgpn", "author_is_blocked": false, "author_patreon_flair": false, "author_premium": false, "awarders": [], "banned_at_utc": null, "banned_by": null, "body": "Absolutely agree with this. These people are guests in your house and apparently unable to behave with basic courtesy. Get’em out. NTA", "body_html": "<div class=\"md\"><p>Absolutely agree with this. These people are guests in your house and apparently unable to behave with basic courtesy. Get’em out. NTA</p>\n</div>", "can_gild": false, "can_mod_post": false, "category": null, "clicked": null, "collapsed": false, "collapsed_because_crowd_control": null, "collapsed_reason": null, "collapsed_reason_code": null, "comment_limit": null, "comment_sort": null, "comment_type": null, "content_categories": null, "contest_mode": null, "controversiality": 0, "created": 1625323158.0, "created_utc": 1625323158.0, "depth": 4, "discussion_type": null, "distinguished": null, "domain": null, "downs": 0, "edited": 0.0, "gilded": 0, "gildings": null, "hidden": null, "hide_score": null, "id": "h3xa0ow", "is_created_from_ads_ui": null, "is_crosspostable": null, "is_meta": null, "is_original_content": null, "is_reddit_media_domain": null, "is_robot_indexable": null, "is_self": null, "is_submitter": false, "is_video": null, "likes": null, "link_flair_background_color": null, "link_flair_css_class": null, "link_flair_richtext": null, "link_flair_template_id": null, "link_flair_text": null, "link_flair_text_color": null, "link_flair_type": null, "link_id": "t3_ocx94s", "locked": false, "media": null, "media_embed": null, "media_only": null, "mod_note": null, "mod_reason_by": null, "mod_reason_title": null, "mod_reports": [], "name": "t1_h3xa0ow", "no_follow": false, "num_comments": null, "num_crossposts": null, "num_reports": null, "over_18": null, "parent_id": "t1_h3x6v41", "permalink": "/r/AmItheAsshole/comments/ocx94s/aita_for_telling_my_wife_the_lock_on_my_daughters/h3xa0ow/", "pinned": null, "pwls": null, "quarantine": null, "removal_reason": null, "removed_by": null, "removed_by_category": null, "report_reasons": null, "saved": false, "score": 200, "score_hidden": false, "secure_media": null, "secure_media_embed": null, "selftext": null, "selftext_html": null, "send_replies": true, "spoiler": null, "stickied": false, "subreddit": "AmItheAsshole", "subreddit_id": "t5_2xhvq", "subreddit_name_prefixed": "r/AmItheAsshole", "subreddit_subscribers": null, "subreddit_type": "public", "suggested_sort": null, "thread_id": null, "thumbnail": null, "title": null, "top_awarded_type": null, "total_awards_received": 0, "treatment_tags": [], "unrepliable_reason": null, "ups": 200, "upvote_ratio": null, "url": null, "user_reports": [], "view_count": null, "visited": null, "wls": null}, "role": "HRHArgyll"}]
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While I find this notion accurate to a degree, I've lately noticed far more OBVIOUS not-the-asshole posts. The picture painted is completely one-sided, obtuse, and it's transparent that the person posting is desperately trying to be validated or "right" as opposed to actually wondering if what he/she did is immoral or unethical, or just overall unbecoming.
I suppose this could be part of what OP is talking about, though.
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Over time, more and more of the posts seem to have A- a universal consensus on every post, with any dissenters massively downvoted and B- a shift towards judgments that seem (to me at least) to be out of step with how people in the real world judge situations.\n\nGiven that, I think it’s important to remember that even though the sub is not intended to be for validation posts or to be an echo chamber or to give advice on how people should behave in specific situations- in practice, a lot of times it is.\n\nSo just as a reminder- offline, people in your real life will think you’re an asshole if you take the last cookie when you know the child behind you wants it.\n\nThey’ll think you’re an asshole if you don’t stand up for an elderly person on a bus. They’ll think you’re an asshole if you don’t go out for drinks with your co-workers once in a while. They’ll think you’re an asshole if you don’t try to be involved in your child’s life, no matter how much support you pay. They’ll think you’re an asshole if you can’t help out your brother with babysitting once in a while, even if you’re childfree. They’ll think you’re an asshole if you wear nothing but underwear in your own home when your roommate has guests over. They’ll think you’re an asshole if you can’t detour for 10 minutes a day to carpool with a co-worker for a week while his car is in the shop.\n\nThe internet has its own values, and that’s fine. But in the real world, people who can’t just go along to get along most of the time? People who don’t want to mildly inconvenience themselves to help out the people around them? People who don’t seem to put any stock into the idea of collectivism? The people around them are going to consider them to be assholes.\n\nSo yeah. I love this sub, I love reading the stories and I find it very interesting to hear people’s opinions. But I personally think that probably more than 50% of the time, the people I know in real life would disagree with the sub’s judgement of who’s the asshole in a given situation. I don’t know if the disparity is just because of reddit’s demographics, or because people with alternate perspectives see the writing on the board and don’t want to get down voted to oblivion.\n\nSo even if you get 4000 replies on reddit saying that you’re totally in the right, if everyone in your real life thinks you’re an asshole, well… there’s probably a reason for that. And maybe this is just me, but I really wish we could have more discussion about if someone is being an asshole if they’re being inconsiderate or selfish, even if they don’t technically “owe” anyone anything.\n\nOr maybe you believe that people offline are wrong, and we should continue to promote the individualistic value system seen on reddit both on and offline. That's a discussion worth having too.\n\nEdit: Thanks guys, this is very interesting discussion so far. And lol don't just downvote the people who disagree with me/you, engage them without being combative.\n\nEdit 2: I’ve never seen this movie, but it’s come to my attention that there already exists in this world an excellent TL,DR: “You’re not wrong Walter, you’re just an asshole”", "metadata": {"_additional_fetch_params": null, "_comments_by_id": null, "_fetched": false, "all_awardings": [], "allow_live_comments": true, "approved_at_utc": null, "approved_by": null, "archived": true, "associated_award": null, "author": "DarthCharizard", "author_cakeday": null, "author_flair_background_color": "#ffd700", "author_flair_css_class": null, "author_flair_richtext": [], "author_flair_template_id": "d0f51afc-f510-11e8-a5da-0e4d9a1c42d6", "author_flair_text": "Supreme Court Just-ass [120]", "author_flair_text_color": "dark", "author_flair_type": "text", "author_fullname": "t2_7a646", "author_is_blocked": false, "author_patreon_flair": false, "author_premium": false, "awarders": [], "banned_at_utc": null, "banned_by": null, "body": null, "body_html": null, "can_gild": false, "can_mod_post": false, "category": null, "clicked": false, "collapsed": null, "collapsed_because_crowd_control": null, "collapsed_reason": null, "collapsed_reason_code": null, "comment_limit": 2048, "comment_sort": "confidence", "comment_type": null, "content_categories": null, "contest_mode": false, "controversiality": null, "created": 1568998300.0, "created_utc": 1568998300.0, "depth": null, "discussion_type": null, "distinguished": null, "domain": "self.AmItheAsshole", "downs": 0, "edited": 1574222702.0, "gilded": 14, "gildings": null, "hidden": false, "hide_score": false, "id": "d6xoro", "is_created_from_ads_ui": false, "is_crosspostable": false, "is_meta": false, "is_original_content": false, "is_reddit_media_domain": false, "is_robot_indexable": true, "is_self": true, "is_submitter": null, "is_video": false, "likes": null, "link_flair_background_color": "#ffd635", "link_flair_css_class": "", "link_flair_richtext": [], "link_flair_template_id": "47fdebc0-d3af-11e8-80cb-0e369ce83cd4", "link_flair_text": "META", "link_flair_text_color": null, "link_flair_type": "text", "link_id": null, "locked": false, "media": null, "media_embed": null, "media_only": false, "mod_note": null, "mod_reason_by": null, "mod_reason_title": null, "mod_reports": [], "name": "t3_d6xoro", "no_follow": false, "num_comments": 6146, "num_crossposts": 16, "num_reports": null, "over_18": false, "parent_id": null, "permalink": "/r/AmItheAsshole/comments/d6xoro/meta_this_sub_is_moving_towards_a_value_system/", "pinned": false, "pwls": 7, "quarantine": false, "removal_reason": null, "removed_by": null, "removed_by_category": null, "report_reasons": null, "saved": false, "score": 80914, "score_hidden": null, "secure_media": null, "secure_media_embed": null, "selftext": "I’ve enjoyed reading and posting on this sub for many months now, and I feel like I’ve noticed a disconcerting trend, lately. Over time, more and more of the posts seem to have A- a universal consensus on every post, with any dissenters massively downvoted and B- a shift towards judgments that seem (to me at least) to be out of step with how people in the real world judge situations.\n\nGiven that, I think it’s important to remember that even though the sub is not intended to be for validation posts or to be an echo chamber or to give advice on how people should behave in specific situations- in practice, a lot of times it is.\n\nSo just as a reminder- offline, people in your real life will think you’re an asshole if you take the last cookie when you know the child behind you wants it.\n\nThey’ll think you’re an asshole if you don’t stand up for an elderly person on a bus. They’ll think you’re an asshole if you don’t go out for drinks with your co-workers once in a while. They’ll think you’re an asshole if you don’t try to be involved in your child’s life, no matter how much support you pay. They’ll think you’re an asshole if you can’t help out your brother with babysitting once in a while, even if you’re childfree. They’ll think you’re an asshole if you wear nothing but underwear in your own home when your roommate has guests over. They’ll think you’re an asshole if you can’t detour for 10 minutes a day to carpool with a co-worker for a week while his car is in the shop.\n\nThe internet has its own values, and that’s fine. But in the real world, people who can’t just go along to get along most of the time? People who don’t want to mildly inconvenience themselves to help out the people around them? People who don’t seem to put any stock into the idea of collectivism? The people around them are going to consider them to be assholes.\n\nSo yeah. I love this sub, I love reading the stories and I find it very interesting to hear people’s opinions. But I personally think that probably more than 50% of the time, the people I know in real life would disagree with the sub’s judgement of who’s the asshole in a given situation. I don’t know if the disparity is just because of reddit’s demographics, or because people with alternate perspectives see the writing on the board and don’t want to get down voted to oblivion.\n\nSo even if you get 4000 replies on reddit saying that you’re totally in the right, if everyone in your real life thinks you’re an asshole, well… there’s probably a reason for that. And maybe this is just me, but I really wish we could have more discussion about if someone is being an asshole if they’re being inconsiderate or selfish, even if they don’t technically “owe” anyone anything.\n\nOr maybe you believe that people offline are wrong, and we should continue to promote the individualistic value system seen on reddit both on and offline. That's a discussion worth having too.\n\nEdit: Thanks guys, this is very interesting discussion so far. And lol don't just downvote the people who disagree with me/you, engage them without being combative.\n\nEdit 2: I’ve never seen this movie, but it’s come to my attention that there already exists in this world an excellent TL,DR: “You’re not wrong Walter, you’re just an asshole”", "selftext_html": "<!-- SC_OFF --><div class=\"md\"><p>I’ve enjoyed reading and posting on this sub for many months now, and I feel like I’ve noticed a disconcerting trend, lately. Over time, more and more of the posts seem to have A- a universal consensus on every post, with any dissenters massively downvoted and B- a shift towards judgments that seem (to me at least) to be out of step with how people in the real world judge situations.</p>\n\n<p>Given that, I think it’s important to remember that even though the sub is not intended to be for validation posts or to be an echo chamber or to give advice on how people should behave in specific situations- in practice, a lot of times it is.</p>\n\n<p>So just as a reminder- offline, people in your real life will think you’re an asshole if you take the last cookie when you know the child behind you wants it.</p>\n\n<p>They’ll think you’re an asshole if you don’t stand up for an elderly person on a bus. They’ll think you’re an asshole if you don’t go out for drinks with your co-workers once in a while. They’ll think you’re an asshole if you don’t try to be involved in your child’s life, no matter how much support you pay. They’ll think you’re an asshole if you can’t help out your brother with babysitting once in a while, even if you’re childfree. They’ll think you’re an asshole if you wear nothing but underwear in your own home when your roommate has guests over. They’ll think you’re an asshole if you can’t detour for 10 minutes a day to carpool with a co-worker for a week while his car is in the shop.</p>\n\n<p>The internet has its own values, and that’s fine. But in the real world, people who can’t just go along to get along most of the time? People who don’t want to mildly inconvenience themselves to help out the people around them? People who don’t seem to put any stock into the idea of collectivism? The people around them are going to consider them to be assholes.</p>\n\n<p>So yeah. I love this sub, I love reading the stories and I find it very interesting to hear people’s opinions. But I personally think that probably more than 50% of the time, the people I know in real life would disagree with the sub’s judgement of who’s the asshole in a given situation. I don’t know if the disparity is just because of reddit’s demographics, or because people with alternate perspectives see the writing on the board and don’t want to get down voted to oblivion.</p>\n\n<p>So even if you get 4000 replies on reddit saying that you’re totally in the right, if everyone in your real life thinks you’re an asshole, well… there’s probably a reason for that. And maybe this is just me, but I really wish we could have more discussion about if someone is being an asshole if they’re being inconsiderate or selfish, even if they don’t technically “owe” anyone anything.</p>\n\n<p>Or maybe you believe that people offline are wrong, and we should continue to promote the individualistic value system seen on reddit both on and offline. That's a discussion worth having too.</p>\n\n<p>Edit: Thanks guys, this is very interesting discussion so far. And lol don't just downvote the people who disagree with me/you, engage them without being combative.</p>\n\n<p>Edit 2: I’ve never seen this movie, but it’s come to my attention that there already exists in this world an excellent TL,DR: “You’re not wrong Walter, you’re just an asshole”</p>\n</div><!-- SC_ON -->", "send_replies": true, "spoiler": false, "stickied": false, "subreddit": "r/AmItheAsshole", "subreddit_id": "t5_2xhvq", "subreddit_name_prefixed": "r/AmItheAsshole", "subreddit_subscribers": 24050251, "subreddit_type": "public", "suggested_sort": "top", "thread_id": "t3_d6xoro", "thumbnail": "", "title": "META: This sub is moving towards a value system that frequently doesn't align with the rest of the world", "top_awarded_type": null, "total_awards_received": 0, "treatment_tags": [], "unrepliable_reason": null, "ups": 80914, "upvote_ratio": 0.92, "url": "https://www.reddit.com/r/AmItheAsshole/comments/d6xoro/meta_this_sub_is_moving_towards_a_value_system/", "user_reports": [], "view_count": null, "visited": false, "wls": 7}, "role": "DarthCharizard"}]
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Yeah I see so many “my roommate moved their entire family into our apartment and started running a drug den out of our garage. AITA for telling them I’m not okay with it?” type posts and it boggles my mind how the OP couldn’t figure it out themselves. Or it’s just karma farming.
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Over time, more and more of the posts seem to have A- a universal consensus on every post, with any dissenters massively downvoted and B- a shift towards judgments that seem (to me at least) to be out of step with how people in the real world judge situations.\n\nGiven that, I think it’s important to remember that even though the sub is not intended to be for validation posts or to be an echo chamber or to give advice on how people should behave in specific situations- in practice, a lot of times it is.\n\nSo just as a reminder- offline, people in your real life will think you’re an asshole if you take the last cookie when you know the child behind you wants it.\n\nThey’ll think you’re an asshole if you don’t stand up for an elderly person on a bus. They’ll think you’re an asshole if you don’t go out for drinks with your co-workers once in a while. They’ll think you’re an asshole if you don’t try to be involved in your child’s life, no matter how much support you pay. They’ll think you’re an asshole if you can’t help out your brother with babysitting once in a while, even if you’re childfree. They’ll think you’re an asshole if you wear nothing but underwear in your own home when your roommate has guests over. They’ll think you’re an asshole if you can’t detour for 10 minutes a day to carpool with a co-worker for a week while his car is in the shop.\n\nThe internet has its own values, and that’s fine. But in the real world, people who can’t just go along to get along most of the time? People who don’t want to mildly inconvenience themselves to help out the people around them? People who don’t seem to put any stock into the idea of collectivism? The people around them are going to consider them to be assholes.\n\nSo yeah. I love this sub, I love reading the stories and I find it very interesting to hear people’s opinions. But I personally think that probably more than 50% of the time, the people I know in real life would disagree with the sub’s judgement of who’s the asshole in a given situation. I don’t know if the disparity is just because of reddit’s demographics, or because people with alternate perspectives see the writing on the board and don’t want to get down voted to oblivion.\n\nSo even if you get 4000 replies on reddit saying that you’re totally in the right, if everyone in your real life thinks you’re an asshole, well… there’s probably a reason for that. And maybe this is just me, but I really wish we could have more discussion about if someone is being an asshole if they’re being inconsiderate or selfish, even if they don’t technically “owe” anyone anything.\n\nOr maybe you believe that people offline are wrong, and we should continue to promote the individualistic value system seen on reddit both on and offline. That's a discussion worth having too.\n\nEdit: Thanks guys, this is very interesting discussion so far. And lol don't just downvote the people who disagree with me/you, engage them without being combative.\n\nEdit 2: I’ve never seen this movie, but it’s come to my attention that there already exists in this world an excellent TL,DR: “You’re not wrong Walter, you’re just an asshole”", "metadata": {"_additional_fetch_params": null, "_comments_by_id": null, "_fetched": false, "all_awardings": [], "allow_live_comments": true, "approved_at_utc": null, "approved_by": null, "archived": true, "associated_award": null, "author": "DarthCharizard", "author_cakeday": null, "author_flair_background_color": "#ffd700", "author_flair_css_class": null, "author_flair_richtext": [], "author_flair_template_id": "d0f51afc-f510-11e8-a5da-0e4d9a1c42d6", "author_flair_text": "Supreme Court Just-ass [120]", "author_flair_text_color": "dark", "author_flair_type": "text", "author_fullname": "t2_7a646", "author_is_blocked": false, "author_patreon_flair": false, "author_premium": false, "awarders": [], "banned_at_utc": null, "banned_by": null, "body": null, "body_html": null, "can_gild": false, "can_mod_post": false, "category": null, "clicked": false, "collapsed": null, "collapsed_because_crowd_control": null, "collapsed_reason": null, "collapsed_reason_code": null, "comment_limit": 2048, "comment_sort": "confidence", "comment_type": null, "content_categories": null, "contest_mode": false, "controversiality": null, "created": 1568998300.0, "created_utc": 1568998300.0, "depth": null, "discussion_type": null, "distinguished": null, "domain": "self.AmItheAsshole", "downs": 0, "edited": 1574222702.0, "gilded": 14, "gildings": null, "hidden": false, "hide_score": false, "id": "d6xoro", "is_created_from_ads_ui": false, "is_crosspostable": false, "is_meta": false, "is_original_content": false, "is_reddit_media_domain": false, "is_robot_indexable": true, "is_self": true, "is_submitter": null, "is_video": false, "likes": null, "link_flair_background_color": "#ffd635", "link_flair_css_class": "", "link_flair_richtext": [], "link_flair_template_id": "47fdebc0-d3af-11e8-80cb-0e369ce83cd4", "link_flair_text": "META", "link_flair_text_color": null, "link_flair_type": "text", "link_id": null, "locked": false, "media": null, "media_embed": null, "media_only": false, "mod_note": null, "mod_reason_by": null, "mod_reason_title": null, "mod_reports": [], "name": "t3_d6xoro", "no_follow": false, "num_comments": 6146, "num_crossposts": 16, "num_reports": null, "over_18": false, "parent_id": null, "permalink": "/r/AmItheAsshole/comments/d6xoro/meta_this_sub_is_moving_towards_a_value_system/", "pinned": false, "pwls": 7, "quarantine": false, "removal_reason": null, "removed_by": null, "removed_by_category": null, "report_reasons": null, "saved": false, "score": 80914, "score_hidden": null, "secure_media": null, "secure_media_embed": null, "selftext": "I’ve enjoyed reading and posting on this sub for many months now, and I feel like I’ve noticed a disconcerting trend, lately. Over time, more and more of the posts seem to have A- a universal consensus on every post, with any dissenters massively downvoted and B- a shift towards judgments that seem (to me at least) to be out of step with how people in the real world judge situations.\n\nGiven that, I think it’s important to remember that even though the sub is not intended to be for validation posts or to be an echo chamber or to give advice on how people should behave in specific situations- in practice, a lot of times it is.\n\nSo just as a reminder- offline, people in your real life will think you’re an asshole if you take the last cookie when you know the child behind you wants it.\n\nThey’ll think you’re an asshole if you don’t stand up for an elderly person on a bus. They’ll think you’re an asshole if you don’t go out for drinks with your co-workers once in a while. They’ll think you’re an asshole if you don’t try to be involved in your child’s life, no matter how much support you pay. They’ll think you’re an asshole if you can’t help out your brother with babysitting once in a while, even if you’re childfree. They’ll think you’re an asshole if you wear nothing but underwear in your own home when your roommate has guests over. They’ll think you’re an asshole if you can’t detour for 10 minutes a day to carpool with a co-worker for a week while his car is in the shop.\n\nThe internet has its own values, and that’s fine. But in the real world, people who can’t just go along to get along most of the time? People who don’t want to mildly inconvenience themselves to help out the people around them? People who don’t seem to put any stock into the idea of collectivism? The people around them are going to consider them to be assholes.\n\nSo yeah. I love this sub, I love reading the stories and I find it very interesting to hear people’s opinions. But I personally think that probably more than 50% of the time, the people I know in real life would disagree with the sub’s judgement of who’s the asshole in a given situation. I don’t know if the disparity is just because of reddit’s demographics, or because people with alternate perspectives see the writing on the board and don’t want to get down voted to oblivion.\n\nSo even if you get 4000 replies on reddit saying that you’re totally in the right, if everyone in your real life thinks you’re an asshole, well… there’s probably a reason for that. And maybe this is just me, but I really wish we could have more discussion about if someone is being an asshole if they’re being inconsiderate or selfish, even if they don’t technically “owe” anyone anything.\n\nOr maybe you believe that people offline are wrong, and we should continue to promote the individualistic value system seen on reddit both on and offline. That's a discussion worth having too.\n\nEdit: Thanks guys, this is very interesting discussion so far. And lol don't just downvote the people who disagree with me/you, engage them without being combative.\n\nEdit 2: I’ve never seen this movie, but it’s come to my attention that there already exists in this world an excellent TL,DR: “You’re not wrong Walter, you’re just an asshole”", "selftext_html": "<!-- SC_OFF --><div class=\"md\"><p>I’ve enjoyed reading and posting on this sub for many months now, and I feel like I’ve noticed a disconcerting trend, lately. Over time, more and more of the posts seem to have A- a universal consensus on every post, with any dissenters massively downvoted and B- a shift towards judgments that seem (to me at least) to be out of step with how people in the real world judge situations.</p>\n\n<p>Given that, I think it’s important to remember that even though the sub is not intended to be for validation posts or to be an echo chamber or to give advice on how people should behave in specific situations- in practice, a lot of times it is.</p>\n\n<p>So just as a reminder- offline, people in your real life will think you’re an asshole if you take the last cookie when you know the child behind you wants it.</p>\n\n<p>They’ll think you’re an asshole if you don’t stand up for an elderly person on a bus. They’ll think you’re an asshole if you don’t go out for drinks with your co-workers once in a while. They’ll think you’re an asshole if you don’t try to be involved in your child’s life, no matter how much support you pay. They’ll think you’re an asshole if you can’t help out your brother with babysitting once in a while, even if you’re childfree. They’ll think you’re an asshole if you wear nothing but underwear in your own home when your roommate has guests over. They’ll think you’re an asshole if you can’t detour for 10 minutes a day to carpool with a co-worker for a week while his car is in the shop.</p>\n\n<p>The internet has its own values, and that’s fine. But in the real world, people who can’t just go along to get along most of the time? People who don’t want to mildly inconvenience themselves to help out the people around them? People who don’t seem to put any stock into the idea of collectivism? The people around them are going to consider them to be assholes.</p>\n\n<p>So yeah. I love this sub, I love reading the stories and I find it very interesting to hear people’s opinions. But I personally think that probably more than 50% of the time, the people I know in real life would disagree with the sub’s judgement of who’s the asshole in a given situation. I don’t know if the disparity is just because of reddit’s demographics, or because people with alternate perspectives see the writing on the board and don’t want to get down voted to oblivion.</p>\n\n<p>So even if you get 4000 replies on reddit saying that you’re totally in the right, if everyone in your real life thinks you’re an asshole, well… there’s probably a reason for that. And maybe this is just me, but I really wish we could have more discussion about if someone is being an asshole if they’re being inconsiderate or selfish, even if they don’t technically “owe” anyone anything.</p>\n\n<p>Or maybe you believe that people offline are wrong, and we should continue to promote the individualistic value system seen on reddit both on and offline. That's a discussion worth having too.</p>\n\n<p>Edit: Thanks guys, this is very interesting discussion so far. And lol don't just downvote the people who disagree with me/you, engage them without being combative.</p>\n\n<p>Edit 2: I’ve never seen this movie, but it’s come to my attention that there already exists in this world an excellent TL,DR: “You’re not wrong Walter, you’re just an asshole”</p>\n</div><!-- SC_ON -->", "send_replies": true, "spoiler": false, "stickied": false, "subreddit": "r/AmItheAsshole", "subreddit_id": "t5_2xhvq", "subreddit_name_prefixed": "r/AmItheAsshole", "subreddit_subscribers": 24050251, "subreddit_type": "public", "suggested_sort": "top", "thread_id": "t3_d6xoro", "thumbnail": "", "title": "META: This sub is moving towards a value system that frequently doesn't align with the rest of the world", "top_awarded_type": null, "total_awards_received": 0, "treatment_tags": [], "unrepliable_reason": null, "ups": 80914, "upvote_ratio": 0.92, "url": "https://www.reddit.com/r/AmItheAsshole/comments/d6xoro/meta_this_sub_is_moving_towards_a_value_system/", "user_reports": [], "view_count": null, "visited": false, "wls": 7}, "role": "DarthCharizard"}, {"content": "While I find this notion accurate to a degree, I've lately noticed far more OBVIOUS not-the-asshole posts. The picture painted is completely one-sided, obtuse, and it's transparent that the person posting is desperately trying to be validated or \"right\" as opposed to actually wondering if what he/she did is immoral or unethical, or just overall unbecoming.\n\nI suppose this could be part of what OP is talking about, though.", "metadata": {"_additional_fetch_params": null, "_comments_by_id": null, "_fetched": true, "all_awardings": [], "allow_live_comments": null, "approved_at_utc": null, "approved_by": null, "archived": true, "associated_award": null, "author": "pumpnectar9", "author_cakeday": null, "author_flair_background_color": "#3b2921", "author_flair_css_class": null, "author_flair_richtext": [], "author_flair_template_id": "0f8d1b4a-f8a7-11e8-920b-0e93c922efde", "author_flair_text": "Partassipant [1]", "author_flair_text_color": "light", "author_flair_type": "text", "author_fullname": "t2_cfartr9", "author_is_blocked": false, "author_patreon_flair": false, "author_premium": false, "awarders": [], "banned_at_utc": null, "banned_by": null, "body": "While I find this notion accurate to a degree, I've lately noticed far more OBVIOUS not-the-asshole posts. 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There was also the one recently where OPs best friends fiancee didn't want them in the wedding because of something they said previously, but they conveniently left out what it actually was that they said.
I tend to just ignore and move on from the posts that are so obviously only giving their version of the story.
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Over time, more and more of the posts seem to have A- a universal consensus on every post, with any dissenters massively downvoted and B- a shift towards judgments that seem (to me at least) to be out of step with how people in the real world judge situations.\n\nGiven that, I think it’s important to remember that even though the sub is not intended to be for validation posts or to be an echo chamber or to give advice on how people should behave in specific situations- in practice, a lot of times it is.\n\nSo just as a reminder- offline, people in your real life will think you’re an asshole if you take the last cookie when you know the child behind you wants it.\n\nThey’ll think you’re an asshole if you don’t stand up for an elderly person on a bus. They’ll think you’re an asshole if you don’t go out for drinks with your co-workers once in a while. They’ll think you’re an asshole if you don’t try to be involved in your child’s life, no matter how much support you pay. 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But I personally think that probably more than 50% of the time, the people I know in real life would disagree with the sub’s judgement of who’s the asshole in a given situation. I don’t know if the disparity is just because of reddit’s demographics, or because people with alternate perspectives see the writing on the board and don’t want to get down voted to oblivion.\n\nSo even if you get 4000 replies on reddit saying that you’re totally in the right, if everyone in your real life thinks you’re an asshole, well… there’s probably a reason for that. And maybe this is just me, but I really wish we could have more discussion about if someone is being an asshole if they’re being inconsiderate or selfish, even if they don’t technically “owe” anyone anything.\n\nOr maybe you believe that people offline are wrong, and we should continue to promote the individualistic value system seen on reddit both on and offline. 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AITA for telling them I’m not okay with it?” type posts and it boggles my mind how the OP couldn’t figure it out themselves. Or it’s just karma farming.", "metadata": {"_additional_fetch_params": null, "_comments_by_id": null, "_fetched": true, "all_awardings": [], "allow_live_comments": null, "approved_at_utc": null, "approved_by": null, "archived": true, "associated_award": null, "author": "EngineFace", "author_cakeday": null, "author_flair_background_color": null, "author_flair_css_class": null, "author_flair_richtext": [], "author_flair_template_id": null, "author_flair_text": null, "author_flair_text_color": null, "author_flair_type": "text", "author_fullname": "t2_6ok3r", "author_is_blocked": false, "author_patreon_flair": false, "author_premium": false, "awarders": [], "banned_at_utc": null, "banned_by": null, "body": "Yeah I see so many “my roommate moved their entire family into our apartment and started running a drug den out of our garage. 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d6xoro
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blood_garbage
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It's funny when I was talking about a co worker with another one. She vented to her about all the injustices in her life but fail to mention all the things that make her look bad. Everyone is the hero in their own story I guess.
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Over time, more and more of the posts seem to have A- a universal consensus on every post, with any dissenters massively downvoted and B- a shift towards judgments that seem (to me at least) to be out of step with how people in the real world judge situations.\n\nGiven that, I think it’s important to remember that even though the sub is not intended to be for validation posts or to be an echo chamber or to give advice on how people should behave in specific situations- in practice, a lot of times it is.\n\nSo just as a reminder- offline, people in your real life will think you’re an asshole if you take the last cookie when you know the child behind you wants it.\n\nThey’ll think you’re an asshole if you don’t stand up for an elderly person on a bus. They’ll think you’re an asshole if you don’t go out for drinks with your co-workers once in a while. They’ll think you’re an asshole if you don’t try to be involved in your child’s life, no matter how much support you pay. 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But I personally think that probably more than 50% of the time, the people I know in real life would disagree with the sub’s judgement of who’s the asshole in a given situation. I don’t know if the disparity is just because of reddit’s demographics, or because people with alternate perspectives see the writing on the board and don’t want to get down voted to oblivion.\n\nSo even if you get 4000 replies on reddit saying that you’re totally in the right, if everyone in your real life thinks you’re an asshole, well… there’s probably a reason for that. And maybe this is just me, but I really wish we could have more discussion about if someone is being an asshole if they’re being inconsiderate or selfish, even if they don’t technically “owe” anyone anything.\n\nOr maybe you believe that people offline are wrong, and we should continue to promote the individualistic value system seen on reddit both on and offline. 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And lol don't just downvote the people who disagree with me/you, engage them without being combative.\n\nEdit 2: I’ve never seen this movie, but it’s come to my attention that there already exists in this world an excellent TL,DR: “You’re not wrong Walter, you’re just an asshole”", "metadata": {"_additional_fetch_params": null, "_comments_by_id": null, "_fetched": false, "all_awardings": [], "allow_live_comments": true, "approved_at_utc": null, "approved_by": null, "archived": true, "associated_award": null, "author": "DarthCharizard", "author_cakeday": null, "author_flair_background_color": "#ffd700", "author_flair_css_class": null, "author_flair_richtext": [], "author_flair_template_id": "d0f51afc-f510-11e8-a5da-0e4d9a1c42d6", "author_flair_text": "Supreme Court Just-ass [120]", "author_flair_text_color": "dark", "author_flair_type": "text", "author_fullname": "t2_7a646", "author_is_blocked": false, "author_patreon_flair": false, "author_premium": false, "awarders": [], "banned_at_utc": null, "banned_by": null, "body": null, "body_html": null, "can_gild": false, "can_mod_post": false, "category": null, "clicked": false, "collapsed": null, "collapsed_because_crowd_control": null, "collapsed_reason": null, "collapsed_reason_code": null, "comment_limit": 2048, "comment_sort": "confidence", "comment_type": null, "content_categories": null, "contest_mode": false, "controversiality": null, "created": 1568998300.0, "created_utc": 1568998300.0, "depth": null, "discussion_type": null, "distinguished": null, "domain": "self.AmItheAsshole", "downs": 0, "edited": 1574222702.0, "gilded": 14, "gildings": null, "hidden": false, "hide_score": false, "id": "d6xoro", "is_created_from_ads_ui": false, "is_crosspostable": false, "is_meta": false, "is_original_content": false, "is_reddit_media_domain": false, "is_robot_indexable": true, "is_self": true, "is_submitter": null, "is_video": false, "likes": null, "link_flair_background_color": "#ffd635", "link_flair_css_class": "", "link_flair_richtext": [], "link_flair_template_id": "47fdebc0-d3af-11e8-80cb-0e369ce83cd4", "link_flair_text": "META", "link_flair_text_color": null, "link_flair_type": "text", "link_id": null, "locked": false, "media": null, "media_embed": null, "media_only": false, "mod_note": null, "mod_reason_by": null, "mod_reason_title": null, "mod_reports": [], "name": "t3_d6xoro", "no_follow": false, "num_comments": 6146, "num_crossposts": 16, "num_reports": null, "over_18": false, "parent_id": null, "permalink": "/r/AmItheAsshole/comments/d6xoro/meta_this_sub_is_moving_towards_a_value_system/", "pinned": false, "pwls": 7, "quarantine": false, "removal_reason": null, "removed_by": null, "removed_by_category": null, "report_reasons": null, "saved": false, "score": 80914, "score_hidden": null, "secure_media": null, "secure_media_embed": null, "selftext": "I’ve enjoyed reading and posting on this sub for many months now, and I feel like I’ve noticed a disconcerting trend, lately. 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d6xoro
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LaFolie
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> Everyone is the hero in their own story I guess.
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I think it's a personality type. I tend to blame myself for unhappiness of people around me, so I usually feel like the villain (not in an edgy, just in a unpleasant-to-have-around way).
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null, "subreddit_type": "public", "suggested_sort": null, "thread_id": null, "thumbnail": null, "title": null, "top_awarded_type": null, "total_awards_received": 0, "treatment_tags": [], "unrepliable_reason": null, "ups": 1892, "upvote_ratio": null, "url": null, "user_reports": [], "view_count": null, "visited": null, "wls": null}, "role": "EngineFace"}, {"content": "There was also the one recently where OPs best friends fiancee didn't want them in the wedding because of something they said previously, but they conveniently left out what it actually was that they said.\n\nI tend to just ignore and move on from the posts that are so obviously only giving their version of the story.", "metadata": {"_additional_fetch_params": null, "_comments_by_id": null, "_fetched": true, "all_awardings": [], "allow_live_comments": null, "approved_at_utc": null, "approved_by": null, "archived": true, "associated_award": null, "author": "blood_garbage", "author_cakeday": null, 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ignore and move on from the posts that are so obviously only giving their version of the story.</p>\n</div>", "can_gild": false, "can_mod_post": false, "category": null, "clicked": null, "collapsed": false, "collapsed_because_crowd_control": null, "collapsed_reason": null, "collapsed_reason_code": null, "comment_limit": null, "comment_sort": null, "comment_type": null, "content_categories": null, "contest_mode": null, "controversiality": 0, "created": 1569009444.0, "created_utc": 1569009444.0, "depth": 2, "discussion_type": null, "distinguished": null, "domain": null, "downs": 0, "edited": 0.0, "gilded": 0, "gildings": null, "hidden": null, "hide_score": null, "id": "f0wle6e", "is_created_from_ads_ui": null, "is_crosspostable": null, "is_meta": null, "is_original_content": null, "is_reddit_media_domain": null, "is_robot_indexable": null, "is_self": null, "is_submitter": false, "is_video": null, "likes": null, "link_flair_background_color": null, "link_flair_css_class": null, 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She vented to her about all the injustices in her life but fail to mention all the things that make her look bad. Everyone is the hero in their own story I guess.", "metadata": {"_additional_fetch_params": null, "_comments_by_id": null, "_fetched": true, "all_awardings": [], "allow_live_comments": null, "approved_at_utc": null, "approved_by": null, "archived": true, "associated_award": null, "author": "LaFolie", "author_cakeday": null, "author_flair_background_color": null, "author_flair_css_class": null, "author_flair_richtext": [], "author_flair_template_id": null, "author_flair_text": null, "author_flair_text_color": null, "author_flair_type": "text", "author_fullname": "t2_75o1a", "author_is_blocked": false, "author_patreon_flair": false, "author_premium": false, "awarders": [], "banned_at_utc": null, "banned_by": null, "body": "It's funny when I was talking about a co worker with another one. She vented to her about all the injustices in her life but fail to mention all the things that make her look bad. Everyone is the hero in their own story I guess.", "body_html": "<div class=\"md\"><p>It's funny when I was talking about a co worker with another one. She vented to her about all the injustices in her life but fail to mention all the things that make her look bad. Everyone is the hero in their own story I guess.</p>\n</div>", "can_gild": false, "can_mod_post": false, "category": null, "clicked": null, "collapsed": false, "collapsed_because_crowd_control": null, "collapsed_reason": null, "collapsed_reason_code": null, "comment_limit": null, "comment_sort": null, "comment_type": null, "content_categories": null, "contest_mode": null, "controversiality": 0, "created": 1569014037.0, "created_utc": 1569014037.0, "depth": 3, "discussion_type": null, "distinguished": null, "domain": null, "downs": 0, "edited": 0.0, "gilded": 0, "gildings": null, "hidden": null, "hide_score": null, "id": "f0wu1fa", "is_created_from_ads_ui": null, "is_crosspostable": null, "is_meta": null, "is_original_content": null, "is_reddit_media_domain": null, "is_robot_indexable": null, "is_self": null, "is_submitter": false, "is_video": null, "likes": null, "link_flair_background_color": null, "link_flair_css_class": null, "link_flair_richtext": null, "link_flair_template_id": null, "link_flair_text": null, "link_flair_text_color": null, "link_flair_type": null, "link_id": "t3_d6xoro", "locked": false, "media": null, "media_embed": null, "media_only": null, "mod_note": null, "mod_reason_by": null, "mod_reason_title": null, "mod_reports": [], "name": "t1_f0wu1fa", "no_follow": false, "num_comments": null, "num_crossposts": null, "num_reports": null, "over_18": null, "parent_id": "t1_f0wle6e", "permalink": "/r/AmItheAsshole/comments/d6xoro/meta_this_sub_is_moving_towards_a_value_system/f0wu1fa/", "pinned": null, "pwls": null, "quarantine": null, "removal_reason": null, "removed_by": null, "removed_by_category": null, "report_reasons": null, "saved": false, "score": 196, "score_hidden": false, "secure_media": null, "secure_media_embed": null, "selftext": null, "selftext_html": null, "send_replies": true, "spoiler": null, "stickied": false, "subreddit": "AmItheAsshole", "subreddit_id": "t5_2xhvq", "subreddit_name_prefixed": "r/AmItheAsshole", "subreddit_subscribers": null, "subreddit_type": "public", "suggested_sort": null, "thread_id": null, "thumbnail": null, "title": null, "top_awarded_type": null, "total_awards_received": 0, "treatment_tags": [], "unrepliable_reason": null, "ups": 196, "upvote_ratio": null, "url": null, "user_reports": [], "view_count": null, "visited": null, "wls": null}, "role": "LaFolie"}]
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Over time, more and more of the posts seem to have A- a universal consensus on every post, with any dissenters massively downvoted and B- a shift towards judgments that seem (to me at least) to be out of step with how people in the real world judge situations.\n\nGiven that, I think it’s important to remember that even though the sub is not intended to be for validation posts or to be an echo chamber or to give advice on how people should behave in specific situations- in practice, a lot of times it is.\n\nSo just as a reminder- offline, people in your real life will think you’re an asshole if you take the last cookie when you know the child behind you wants it.\n\nThey’ll think you’re an asshole if you don’t stand up for an elderly person on a bus. They’ll think you’re an asshole if you don’t go out for drinks with your co-workers once in a while. They’ll think you’re an asshole if you don’t try to be involved in your child’s life, no matter how much support you pay. They’ll think you’re an asshole if you can’t help out your brother with babysitting once in a while, even if you’re childfree. They’ll think you’re an asshole if you wear nothing but underwear in your own home when your roommate has guests over. They’ll think you’re an asshole if you can’t detour for 10 minutes a day to carpool with a co-worker for a week while his car is in the shop.\n\nThe internet has its own values, and that’s fine. But in the real world, people who can’t just go along to get along most of the time? People who don’t want to mildly inconvenience themselves to help out the people around them? People who don’t seem to put any stock into the idea of collectivism? The people around them are going to consider them to be assholes.\n\nSo yeah. I love this sub, I love reading the stories and I find it very interesting to hear people’s opinions. But I personally think that probably more than 50% of the time, the people I know in real life would disagree with the sub’s judgement of who’s the asshole in a given situation. I don’t know if the disparity is just because of reddit’s demographics, or because people with alternate perspectives see the writing on the board and don’t want to get down voted to oblivion.\n\nSo even if you get 4000 replies on reddit saying that you’re totally in the right, if everyone in your real life thinks you’re an asshole, well… there’s probably a reason for that. And maybe this is just me, but I really wish we could have more discussion about if someone is being an asshole if they’re being inconsiderate or selfish, even if they don’t technically “owe” anyone anything.\n\nOr maybe you believe that people offline are wrong, and we should continue to promote the individualistic value system seen on reddit both on and offline. That's a discussion worth having too.\n\nEdit: Thanks guys, this is very interesting discussion so far. And lol don't just downvote the people who disagree with me/you, engage them without being combative.\n\nEdit 2: I’ve never seen this movie, but it’s come to my attention that there already exists in this world an excellent TL,DR: “You’re not wrong Walter, you’re just an asshole”", "metadata": {"_additional_fetch_params": null, "_comments_by_id": null, "_fetched": false, "all_awardings": [], "allow_live_comments": true, "approved_at_utc": null, "approved_by": null, "archived": true, "associated_award": null, "author": "DarthCharizard", "author_cakeday": null, "author_flair_background_color": "#ffd700", "author_flair_css_class": null, "author_flair_richtext": [], "author_flair_template_id": "d0f51afc-f510-11e8-a5da-0e4d9a1c42d6", "author_flair_text": "Supreme Court Just-ass [120]", "author_flair_text_color": "dark", "author_flair_type": "text", "author_fullname": "t2_7a646", "author_is_blocked": false, "author_patreon_flair": false, "author_premium": false, "awarders": [], "banned_at_utc": null, "banned_by": null, "body": null, "body_html": null, "can_gild": false, "can_mod_post": false, "category": null, "clicked": false, "collapsed": null, "collapsed_because_crowd_control": null, "collapsed_reason": null, "collapsed_reason_code": null, "comment_limit": 2048, "comment_sort": "confidence", "comment_type": null, "content_categories": null, "contest_mode": false, "controversiality": null, "created": 1568998300.0, "created_utc": 1568998300.0, "depth": null, "discussion_type": null, "distinguished": null, "domain": "self.AmItheAsshole", "downs": 0, "edited": 1574222702.0, "gilded": 14, "gildings": null, "hidden": false, "hide_score": false, "id": "d6xoro", "is_created_from_ads_ui": false, "is_crosspostable": false, "is_meta": false, "is_original_content": false, "is_reddit_media_domain": false, "is_robot_indexable": true, "is_self": true, "is_submitter": null, "is_video": false, "likes": null, "link_flair_background_color": "#ffd635", "link_flair_css_class": "", "link_flair_richtext": [], "link_flair_template_id": "47fdebc0-d3af-11e8-80cb-0e369ce83cd4", "link_flair_text": "META", "link_flair_text_color": null, "link_flair_type": "text", "link_id": null, "locked": false, "media": null, "media_embed": null, "media_only": false, "mod_note": null, "mod_reason_by": null, "mod_reason_title": null, "mod_reports": [], "name": "t3_d6xoro", "no_follow": false, "num_comments": 6146, "num_crossposts": 16, "num_reports": null, "over_18": false, "parent_id": null, "permalink": "/r/AmItheAsshole/comments/d6xoro/meta_this_sub_is_moving_towards_a_value_system/", "pinned": false, "pwls": 7, "quarantine": false, "removal_reason": null, "removed_by": null, "removed_by_category": null, "report_reasons": null, "saved": false, "score": 80914, "score_hidden": null, "secure_media": null, "secure_media_embed": null, "selftext": "I’ve enjoyed reading and posting on this sub for many months now, and I feel like I’ve noticed a disconcerting trend, lately. Over time, more and more of the posts seem to have A- a universal consensus on every post, with any dissenters massively downvoted and B- a shift towards judgments that seem (to me at least) to be out of step with how people in the real world judge situations.\n\nGiven that, I think it’s important to remember that even though the sub is not intended to be for validation posts or to be an echo chamber or to give advice on how people should behave in specific situations- in practice, a lot of times it is.\n\nSo just as a reminder- offline, people in your real life will think you’re an asshole if you take the last cookie when you know the child behind you wants it.\n\nThey’ll think you’re an asshole if you don’t stand up for an elderly person on a bus. They’ll think you’re an asshole if you don’t go out for drinks with your co-workers once in a while. They’ll think you’re an asshole if you don’t try to be involved in your child’s life, no matter how much support you pay. They’ll think you’re an asshole if you can’t help out your brother with babysitting once in a while, even if you’re childfree. They’ll think you’re an asshole if you wear nothing but underwear in your own home when your roommate has guests over. They’ll think you’re an asshole if you can’t detour for 10 minutes a day to carpool with a co-worker for a week while his car is in the shop.\n\nThe internet has its own values, and that’s fine. But in the real world, people who can’t just go along to get along most of the time? People who don’t want to mildly inconvenience themselves to help out the people around them? People who don’t seem to put any stock into the idea of collectivism? The people around them are going to consider them to be assholes.\n\nSo yeah. I love this sub, I love reading the stories and I find it very interesting to hear people’s opinions. But I personally think that probably more than 50% of the time, the people I know in real life would disagree with the sub’s judgement of who’s the asshole in a given situation. I don’t know if the disparity is just because of reddit’s demographics, or because people with alternate perspectives see the writing on the board and don’t want to get down voted to oblivion.\n\nSo even if you get 4000 replies on reddit saying that you’re totally in the right, if everyone in your real life thinks you’re an asshole, well… there’s probably a reason for that. And maybe this is just me, but I really wish we could have more discussion about if someone is being an asshole if they’re being inconsiderate or selfish, even if they don’t technically “owe” anyone anything.\n\nOr maybe you believe that people offline are wrong, and we should continue to promote the individualistic value system seen on reddit both on and offline. That's a discussion worth having too.\n\nEdit: Thanks guys, this is very interesting discussion so far. And lol don't just downvote the people who disagree with me/you, engage them without being combative.\n\nEdit 2: I’ve never seen this movie, but it’s come to my attention that there already exists in this world an excellent TL,DR: “You’re not wrong Walter, you’re just an asshole”", "selftext_html": "<!-- SC_OFF --><div class=\"md\"><p>I’ve enjoyed reading and posting on this sub for many months now, and I feel like I’ve noticed a disconcerting trend, lately. Over time, more and more of the posts seem to have A- a universal consensus on every post, with any dissenters massively downvoted and B- a shift towards judgments that seem (to me at least) to be out of step with how people in the real world judge situations.</p>\n\n<p>Given that, I think it’s important to remember that even though the sub is not intended to be for validation posts or to be an echo chamber or to give advice on how people should behave in specific situations- in practice, a lot of times it is.</p>\n\n<p>So just as a reminder- offline, people in your real life will think you’re an asshole if you take the last cookie when you know the child behind you wants it.</p>\n\n<p>They’ll think you’re an asshole if you don’t stand up for an elderly person on a bus. They’ll think you’re an asshole if you don’t go out for drinks with your co-workers once in a while. They’ll think you’re an asshole if you don’t try to be involved in your child’s life, no matter how much support you pay. They’ll think you’re an asshole if you can’t help out your brother with babysitting once in a while, even if you’re childfree. They’ll think you’re an asshole if you wear nothing but underwear in your own home when your roommate has guests over. They’ll think you’re an asshole if you can’t detour for 10 minutes a day to carpool with a co-worker for a week while his car is in the shop.</p>\n\n<p>The internet has its own values, and that’s fine. But in the real world, people who can’t just go along to get along most of the time? People who don’t want to mildly inconvenience themselves to help out the people around them? People who don’t seem to put any stock into the idea of collectivism? The people around them are going to consider them to be assholes.</p>\n\n<p>So yeah. I love this sub, I love reading the stories and I find it very interesting to hear people’s opinions. But I personally think that probably more than 50% of the time, the people I know in real life would disagree with the sub’s judgement of who’s the asshole in a given situation. I don’t know if the disparity is just because of reddit’s demographics, or because people with alternate perspectives see the writing on the board and don’t want to get down voted to oblivion.</p>\n\n<p>So even if you get 4000 replies on reddit saying that you’re totally in the right, if everyone in your real life thinks you’re an asshole, well… there’s probably a reason for that. And maybe this is just me, but I really wish we could have more discussion about if someone is being an asshole if they’re being inconsiderate or selfish, even if they don’t technically “owe” anyone anything.</p>\n\n<p>Or maybe you believe that people offline are wrong, and we should continue to promote the individualistic value system seen on reddit both on and offline. That's a discussion worth having too.</p>\n\n<p>Edit: Thanks guys, this is very interesting discussion so far. And lol don't just downvote the people who disagree with me/you, engage them without being combative.</p>\n\n<p>Edit 2: I’ve never seen this movie, but it’s come to my attention that there already exists in this world an excellent TL,DR: “You’re not wrong Walter, you’re just an asshole”</p>\n</div><!-- SC_ON -->", "send_replies": true, "spoiler": false, "stickied": false, "subreddit": "r/AmItheAsshole", "subreddit_id": "t5_2xhvq", "subreddit_name_prefixed": "r/AmItheAsshole", "subreddit_subscribers": 24050251, "subreddit_type": "public", "suggested_sort": "top", "thread_id": "t3_d6xoro", "thumbnail": "", "title": "META: This sub is moving towards a value system that frequently doesn't align with the rest of the world", "top_awarded_type": null, "total_awards_received": 0, "treatment_tags": [], "unrepliable_reason": null, "ups": 80914, "upvote_ratio": 0.92, "url": "https://www.reddit.com/r/AmItheAsshole/comments/d6xoro/meta_this_sub_is_moving_towards_a_value_system/", "user_reports": [], "view_count": null, "visited": false, "wls": 7}, "role": "DarthCharizard"}, {"content": "While I find this notion accurate to a degree, I've lately noticed far more OBVIOUS not-the-asshole posts. The picture painted is completely one-sided, obtuse, and it's transparent that the person posting is desperately trying to be validated or \"right\" as opposed to actually wondering if what he/she did is immoral or unethical, or just overall unbecoming.\n\nI suppose this could be part of what OP is talking about, though.", "metadata": {"_additional_fetch_params": null, "_comments_by_id": null, "_fetched": true, "all_awardings": [], "allow_live_comments": null, "approved_at_utc": null, "approved_by": null, "archived": true, "associated_award": null, "author": "pumpnectar9", "author_cakeday": null, "author_flair_background_color": "#3b2921", "author_flair_css_class": null, "author_flair_richtext": [], "author_flair_template_id": "0f8d1b4a-f8a7-11e8-920b-0e93c922efde", "author_flair_text": "Partassipant [1]", "author_flair_text_color": "light", "author_flair_type": "text", "author_fullname": "t2_cfartr9", "author_is_blocked": false, "author_patreon_flair": false, "author_premium": false, "awarders": [], "banned_at_utc": null, "banned_by": null, "body": "While I find this notion accurate to a degree, I've lately noticed far more OBVIOUS not-the-asshole posts. The picture painted is completely one-sided, obtuse, and it's transparent that the person posting is desperately trying to be validated or \"right\" as opposed to actually wondering if what he/she did is immoral or unethical, or just overall unbecoming.\n\nI suppose this could be part of what OP is talking about, though.", "body_html": "<div class=\"md\"><p>While I find this notion accurate to a degree, I've lately noticed far more OBVIOUS not-the-asshole posts. The picture painted is completely one-sided, obtuse, and it's transparent that the person posting is desperately trying to be validated or "right" as opposed to actually wondering if what he/she did is immoral or unethical, or just overall unbecoming.</p>\n\n<p>I suppose this could be part of what OP is talking about, though.</p>\n</div>", "can_gild": false, "can_mod_post": false, "category": null, "clicked": null, "collapsed": false, "collapsed_because_crowd_control": null, "collapsed_reason": null, "collapsed_reason_code": null, "comment_limit": null, "comment_sort": null, "comment_type": null, "content_categories": null, "contest_mode": null, "controversiality": 0, "created": 1569001112.0, "created_utc": 1569001112.0, "depth": 0, "discussion_type": null, "distinguished": null, "domain": null, "downs": 0, "edited": 1569005234.0, "gilded": 0, "gildings": null, "hidden": null, "hide_score": null, "id": "f0w7zwn", "is_created_from_ads_ui": null, "is_crosspostable": null, "is_meta": null, "is_original_content": null, "is_reddit_media_domain": null, "is_robot_indexable": null, "is_self": null, "is_submitter": false, "is_video": null, "likes": null, "link_flair_background_color": null, "link_flair_css_class": null, "link_flair_richtext": null, "link_flair_template_id": null, "link_flair_text": null, "link_flair_text_color": null, "link_flair_type": null, "link_id": "t3_d6xoro", "locked": false, "media": null, "media_embed": null, "media_only": null, "mod_note": null, "mod_reason_by": null, "mod_reason_title": null, "mod_reports": [], "name": "t1_f0w7zwn", "no_follow": false, "num_comments": null, "num_crossposts": null, "num_reports": null, "over_18": null, "parent_id": "t3_d6xoro", "permalink": "/r/AmItheAsshole/comments/d6xoro/meta_this_sub_is_moving_towards_a_value_system/f0w7zwn/", "pinned": null, "pwls": null, "quarantine": null, "removal_reason": null, "removed_by": null, "removed_by_category": null, "report_reasons": null, "saved": false, "score": 3252, "score_hidden": false, "secure_media": null, "secure_media_embed": null, "selftext": null, "selftext_html": null, "send_replies": true, "spoiler": null, "stickied": false, "subreddit": "AmItheAsshole", "subreddit_id": "t5_2xhvq", "subreddit_name_prefixed": "r/AmItheAsshole", "subreddit_subscribers": null, "subreddit_type": "public", "suggested_sort": null, "thread_id": null, "thumbnail": null, "title": null, "top_awarded_type": null, "total_awards_received": 0, "treatment_tags": [], "unrepliable_reason": null, "ups": 3252, "upvote_ratio": null, "url": null, "user_reports": [], "view_count": null, "visited": null, "wls": null}, "role": "pumpnectar9"}, {"content": "Yeah I see so many “my roommate moved their entire family into our apartment and started running a drug den out of our garage. AITA for telling them I’m not okay with it?” type posts and it boggles my mind how the OP couldn’t figure it out themselves. Or it’s just karma farming.", "metadata": {"_additional_fetch_params": null, "_comments_by_id": null, "_fetched": true, "all_awardings": [], "allow_live_comments": null, "approved_at_utc": null, "approved_by": null, "archived": true, "associated_award": null, "author": "EngineFace", "author_cakeday": null, "author_flair_background_color": null, "author_flair_css_class": null, "author_flair_richtext": [], "author_flair_template_id": null, "author_flair_text": null, "author_flair_text_color": null, "author_flair_type": "text", "author_fullname": "t2_6ok3r", "author_is_blocked": false, "author_patreon_flair": false, "author_premium": false, "awarders": [], "banned_at_utc": null, "banned_by": null, "body": "Yeah I see so many “my roommate moved their entire family into our apartment and started running a drug den out of our garage. AITA for telling them I’m not okay with it?” type posts and it boggles my mind how the OP couldn’t figure it out themselves. Or it’s just karma farming.", "body_html": "<div class=\"md\"><p>Yeah I see so many “my roommate moved their entire family into our apartment and started running a drug den out of our garage. AITA for telling them I’m not okay with it?” type posts and it boggles my mind how the OP couldn’t figure it out themselves. Or it’s just karma farming.</p>\n</div>", "can_gild": false, "can_mod_post": false, "category": null, "clicked": null, "collapsed": false, "collapsed_because_crowd_control": null, "collapsed_reason": null, "collapsed_reason_code": null, "comment_limit": null, "comment_sort": null, "comment_type": null, "content_categories": null, "contest_mode": null, "controversiality": 0, "created": 1569004711.0, "created_utc": 1569004711.0, "depth": 1, "discussion_type": null, "distinguished": null, "domain": null, "downs": 0, "edited": 0.0, "gilded": 0, "gildings": null, "hidden": null, "hide_score": null, "id": "f0wd71p", "is_created_from_ads_ui": null, "is_crosspostable": null, "is_meta": null, "is_original_content": null, "is_reddit_media_domain": null, "is_robot_indexable": null, "is_self": null, "is_submitter": false, "is_video": null, "likes": null, "link_flair_background_color": null, "link_flair_css_class": null, "link_flair_richtext": null, "link_flair_template_id": null, 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ignore and move on from the posts that are so obviously only giving their version of the story.</p>\n</div>", "can_gild": false, "can_mod_post": false, "category": null, "clicked": null, "collapsed": false, "collapsed_because_crowd_control": null, "collapsed_reason": null, "collapsed_reason_code": null, "comment_limit": null, "comment_sort": null, "comment_type": null, "content_categories": null, "contest_mode": null, "controversiality": 0, "created": 1569009444.0, "created_utc": 1569009444.0, "depth": 2, "discussion_type": null, "distinguished": null, "domain": null, "downs": 0, "edited": 0.0, "gilded": 0, "gildings": null, "hidden": null, "hide_score": null, "id": "f0wle6e", "is_created_from_ads_ui": null, "is_crosspostable": null, "is_meta": null, "is_original_content": null, "is_reddit_media_domain": null, "is_robot_indexable": null, "is_self": null, "is_submitter": false, "is_video": null, "likes": null, "link_flair_background_color": null, "link_flair_css_class": null, 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I remember the update to that post, because people in the comments were calling him a pussy for not going full on scorched earth with that friend. They really wanted to get that revenge boner.
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Over time, more and more of the posts seem to have A- a universal consensus on every post, with any dissenters massively downvoted and B- a shift towards judgments that seem (to me at least) to be out of step with how people in the real world judge situations.\n\nGiven that, I think it’s important to remember that even though the sub is not intended to be for validation posts or to be an echo chamber or to give advice on how people should behave in specific situations- in practice, a lot of times it is.\n\nSo just as a reminder- offline, people in your real life will think you’re an asshole if you take the last cookie when you know the child behind you wants it.\n\nThey’ll think you’re an asshole if you don’t stand up for an elderly person on a bus. They’ll think you’re an asshole if you don’t go out for drinks with your co-workers once in a while. They’ll think you’re an asshole if you don’t try to be involved in your child’s life, no matter how much support you pay. They’ll think you’re an asshole if you can’t help out your brother with babysitting once in a while, even if you’re childfree. They’ll think you’re an asshole if you wear nothing but underwear in your own home when your roommate has guests over. They’ll think you’re an asshole if you can’t detour for 10 minutes a day to carpool with a co-worker for a week while his car is in the shop.\n\nThe internet has its own values, and that’s fine. But in the real world, people who can’t just go along to get along most of the time? People who don’t want to mildly inconvenience themselves to help out the people around them? People who don’t seem to put any stock into the idea of collectivism? The people around them are going to consider them to be assholes.\n\nSo yeah. I love this sub, I love reading the stories and I find it very interesting to hear people’s opinions. But I personally think that probably more than 50% of the time, the people I know in real life would disagree with the sub’s judgement of who’s the asshole in a given situation. I don’t know if the disparity is just because of reddit’s demographics, or because people with alternate perspectives see the writing on the board and don’t want to get down voted to oblivion.\n\nSo even if you get 4000 replies on reddit saying that you’re totally in the right, if everyone in your real life thinks you’re an asshole, well… there’s probably a reason for that. And maybe this is just me, but I really wish we could have more discussion about if someone is being an asshole if they’re being inconsiderate or selfish, even if they don’t technically “owe” anyone anything.\n\nOr maybe you believe that people offline are wrong, and we should continue to promote the individualistic value system seen on reddit both on and offline. That's a discussion worth having too.\n\nEdit: Thanks guys, this is very interesting discussion so far. And lol don't just downvote the people who disagree with me/you, engage them without being combative.\n\nEdit 2: I’ve never seen this movie, but it’s come to my attention that there already exists in this world an excellent TL,DR: “You’re not wrong Walter, you’re just an asshole”", "metadata": {"_additional_fetch_params": null, "_comments_by_id": null, "_fetched": false, "all_awardings": [], "allow_live_comments": true, "approved_at_utc": null, "approved_by": null, "archived": true, "associated_award": null, "author": "DarthCharizard", "author_cakeday": null, "author_flair_background_color": "#ffd700", "author_flair_css_class": null, "author_flair_richtext": [], "author_flair_template_id": "d0f51afc-f510-11e8-a5da-0e4d9a1c42d6", "author_flair_text": "Supreme Court Just-ass [120]", "author_flair_text_color": "dark", "author_flair_type": "text", "author_fullname": "t2_7a646", "author_is_blocked": false, "author_patreon_flair": false, "author_premium": false, "awarders": [], "banned_at_utc": null, "banned_by": null, "body": null, "body_html": null, "can_gild": false, "can_mod_post": false, "category": null, "clicked": false, "collapsed": null, "collapsed_because_crowd_control": null, "collapsed_reason": null, "collapsed_reason_code": null, "comment_limit": 2048, "comment_sort": "confidence", "comment_type": null, "content_categories": null, "contest_mode": false, "controversiality": null, "created": 1568998300.0, "created_utc": 1568998300.0, "depth": null, "discussion_type": null, "distinguished": null, "domain": "self.AmItheAsshole", "downs": 0, "edited": 1574222702.0, "gilded": 14, "gildings": null, "hidden": false, "hide_score": false, "id": "d6xoro", "is_created_from_ads_ui": false, "is_crosspostable": false, "is_meta": false, "is_original_content": false, "is_reddit_media_domain": false, "is_robot_indexable": true, "is_self": true, "is_submitter": null, "is_video": false, "likes": null, "link_flair_background_color": "#ffd635", "link_flair_css_class": "", "link_flair_richtext": [], "link_flair_template_id": "47fdebc0-d3af-11e8-80cb-0e369ce83cd4", "link_flair_text": "META", "link_flair_text_color": null, "link_flair_type": "text", "link_id": null, "locked": false, "media": null, "media_embed": null, "media_only": false, "mod_note": null, "mod_reason_by": null, "mod_reason_title": null, "mod_reports": [], "name": "t3_d6xoro", "no_follow": false, "num_comments": 6146, "num_crossposts": 16, "num_reports": null, "over_18": false, "parent_id": null, "permalink": "/r/AmItheAsshole/comments/d6xoro/meta_this_sub_is_moving_towards_a_value_system/", "pinned": false, "pwls": 7, "quarantine": false, "removal_reason": null, "removed_by": null, "removed_by_category": null, "report_reasons": null, "saved": false, "score": 80914, "score_hidden": null, "secure_media": null, "secure_media_embed": null, "selftext": "I’ve enjoyed reading and posting on this sub for many months now, and I feel like I’ve noticed a disconcerting trend, lately. Over time, more and more of the posts seem to have A- a universal consensus on every post, with any dissenters massively downvoted and B- a shift towards judgments that seem (to me at least) to be out of step with how people in the real world judge situations.\n\nGiven that, I think it’s important to remember that even though the sub is not intended to be for validation posts or to be an echo chamber or to give advice on how people should behave in specific situations- in practice, a lot of times it is.\n\nSo just as a reminder- offline, people in your real life will think you’re an asshole if you take the last cookie when you know the child behind you wants it.\n\nThey’ll think you’re an asshole if you don’t stand up for an elderly person on a bus. They’ll think you’re an asshole if you don’t go out for drinks with your co-workers once in a while. They’ll think you’re an asshole if you don’t try to be involved in your child’s life, no matter how much support you pay. They’ll think you’re an asshole if you can’t help out your brother with babysitting once in a while, even if you’re childfree. They’ll think you’re an asshole if you wear nothing but underwear in your own home when your roommate has guests over. They’ll think you’re an asshole if you can’t detour for 10 minutes a day to carpool with a co-worker for a week while his car is in the shop.\n\nThe internet has its own values, and that’s fine. But in the real world, people who can’t just go along to get along most of the time? People who don’t want to mildly inconvenience themselves to help out the people around them? People who don’t seem to put any stock into the idea of collectivism? The people around them are going to consider them to be assholes.\n\nSo yeah. I love this sub, I love reading the stories and I find it very interesting to hear people’s opinions. But I personally think that probably more than 50% of the time, the people I know in real life would disagree with the sub’s judgement of who’s the asshole in a given situation. I don’t know if the disparity is just because of reddit’s demographics, or because people with alternate perspectives see the writing on the board and don’t want to get down voted to oblivion.\n\nSo even if you get 4000 replies on reddit saying that you’re totally in the right, if everyone in your real life thinks you’re an asshole, well… there’s probably a reason for that. And maybe this is just me, but I really wish we could have more discussion about if someone is being an asshole if they’re being inconsiderate or selfish, even if they don’t technically “owe” anyone anything.\n\nOr maybe you believe that people offline are wrong, and we should continue to promote the individualistic value system seen on reddit both on and offline. That's a discussion worth having too.\n\nEdit: Thanks guys, this is very interesting discussion so far. And lol don't just downvote the people who disagree with me/you, engage them without being combative.\n\nEdit 2: I’ve never seen this movie, but it’s come to my attention that there already exists in this world an excellent TL,DR: “You’re not wrong Walter, you’re just an asshole”", "selftext_html": "<!-- SC_OFF --><div class=\"md\"><p>I’ve enjoyed reading and posting on this sub for many months now, and I feel like I’ve noticed a disconcerting trend, lately. 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And maybe this is just me, but I really wish we could have more discussion about if someone is being an asshole if they’re being inconsiderate or selfish, even if they don’t technically “owe” anyone anything.</p>\n\n<p>Or maybe you believe that people offline are wrong, and we should continue to promote the individualistic value system seen on reddit both on and offline. That's a discussion worth having too.</p>\n\n<p>Edit: Thanks guys, this is very interesting discussion so far. And lol don't just downvote the people who disagree with me/you, engage them without being combative.</p>\n\n<p>Edit 2: I’ve never seen this movie, but it’s come to my attention that there already exists in this world an excellent TL,DR: “You’re not wrong Walter, you’re just an asshole”</p>\n</div><!-- SC_ON -->", "send_replies": true, "spoiler": false, "stickied": false, "subreddit": "r/AmItheAsshole", "subreddit_id": "t5_2xhvq", "subreddit_name_prefixed": "r/AmItheAsshole", "subreddit_subscribers": 24050251, "subreddit_type": "public", "suggested_sort": "top", "thread_id": "t3_d6xoro", "thumbnail": "", "title": "META: This sub is moving towards a value system that frequently doesn't align with the rest of the world", "top_awarded_type": null, "total_awards_received": 0, "treatment_tags": [], "unrepliable_reason": null, "ups": 80914, "upvote_ratio": 0.92, "url": "https://www.reddit.com/r/AmItheAsshole/comments/d6xoro/meta_this_sub_is_moving_towards_a_value_system/", "user_reports": [], "view_count": null, "visited": false, "wls": 7}, "role": "DarthCharizard"}, {"content": "While I find this notion accurate to a degree, I've lately noticed far more OBVIOUS not-the-asshole posts. The picture painted is completely one-sided, obtuse, and it's transparent that the person posting is desperately trying to be validated or \"right\" as opposed to actually wondering if what he/she did is immoral or unethical, or just overall unbecoming.\n\nI suppose this could be part of what OP is talking about, though.", "metadata": {"_additional_fetch_params": null, "_comments_by_id": null, "_fetched": true, "all_awardings": [], "allow_live_comments": null, "approved_at_utc": null, "approved_by": null, "archived": true, "associated_award": null, "author": "pumpnectar9", "author_cakeday": null, "author_flair_background_color": "#3b2921", "author_flair_css_class": null, "author_flair_richtext": [], "author_flair_template_id": "0f8d1b4a-f8a7-11e8-920b-0e93c922efde", "author_flair_text": "Partassipant [1]", "author_flair_text_color": "light", "author_flair_type": "text", "author_fullname": "t2_cfartr9", "author_is_blocked": false, "author_patreon_flair": false, "author_premium": false, "awarders": [], "banned_at_utc": null, "banned_by": null, "body": "While I find this notion accurate to a degree, I've lately noticed far more OBVIOUS not-the-asshole posts. The picture painted is completely one-sided, obtuse, and it's transparent that the person posting is desperately trying to be validated or \"right\" as opposed to actually wondering if what he/she did is immoral or unethical, or just overall unbecoming.\n\nI suppose this could be part of what OP is talking about, though.", "body_html": "<div class=\"md\"><p>While I find this notion accurate to a degree, I've lately noticed far more OBVIOUS not-the-asshole posts. The picture painted is completely one-sided, obtuse, and it's transparent that the person posting is desperately trying to be validated or "right" as opposed to actually wondering if what he/she did is immoral or unethical, or just overall unbecoming.</p>\n\n<p>I suppose this could be part of what OP is talking about, though.</p>\n</div>", "can_gild": false, "can_mod_post": false, "category": null, "clicked": null, "collapsed": false, "collapsed_because_crowd_control": null, "collapsed_reason": null, "collapsed_reason_code": null, "comment_limit": null, "comment_sort": null, "comment_type": null, "content_categories": null, "contest_mode": null, "controversiality": 0, "created": 1569001112.0, "created_utc": 1569001112.0, "depth": 0, "discussion_type": null, "distinguished": null, "domain": null, "downs": 0, "edited": 1569005234.0, "gilded": 0, "gildings": null, "hidden": null, "hide_score": null, "id": "f0w7zwn", "is_created_from_ads_ui": null, "is_crosspostable": null, "is_meta": null, "is_original_content": null, "is_reddit_media_domain": null, "is_robot_indexable": null, "is_self": null, "is_submitter": false, "is_video": null, "likes": null, "link_flair_background_color": null, "link_flair_css_class": null, "link_flair_richtext": null, "link_flair_template_id": null, "link_flair_text": null, "link_flair_text_color": null, "link_flair_type": null, "link_id": "t3_d6xoro", "locked": false, "media": null, "media_embed": null, "media_only": null, "mod_note": null, "mod_reason_by": null, "mod_reason_title": null, "mod_reports": [], "name": "t1_f0w7zwn", "no_follow": false, "num_comments": null, "num_crossposts": null, "num_reports": null, "over_18": null, "parent_id": "t3_d6xoro", "permalink": "/r/AmItheAsshole/comments/d6xoro/meta_this_sub_is_moving_towards_a_value_system/f0w7zwn/", "pinned": null, "pwls": null, "quarantine": null, "removal_reason": null, "removed_by": null, "removed_by_category": null, "report_reasons": null, "saved": false, "score": 3252, "score_hidden": false, "secure_media": null, "secure_media_embed": null, "selftext": null, "selftext_html": null, "send_replies": true, "spoiler": null, "stickied": false, "subreddit": "AmItheAsshole", "subreddit_id": "t5_2xhvq", "subreddit_name_prefixed": "r/AmItheAsshole", "subreddit_subscribers": null, "subreddit_type": "public", "suggested_sort": null, "thread_id": null, "thumbnail": null, "title": null, "top_awarded_type": null, "total_awards_received": 0, "treatment_tags": [], "unrepliable_reason": null, "ups": 3252, "upvote_ratio": null, "url": null, "user_reports": [], "view_count": null, "visited": null, "wls": null}, "role": "pumpnectar9"}, {"content": "Yeah I see so many “my roommate moved their entire family into our apartment and started running a drug den out of our garage. AITA for telling them I’m not okay with it?” type posts and it boggles my mind how the OP couldn’t figure it out themselves. Or it’s just karma farming.", "metadata": {"_additional_fetch_params": null, "_comments_by_id": null, "_fetched": true, "all_awardings": [], "allow_live_comments": null, "approved_at_utc": null, "approved_by": null, "archived": true, "associated_award": null, "author": "EngineFace", "author_cakeday": null, "author_flair_background_color": null, "author_flair_css_class": null, "author_flair_richtext": [], "author_flair_template_id": null, "author_flair_text": null, "author_flair_text_color": null, "author_flair_type": "text", "author_fullname": "t2_6ok3r", "author_is_blocked": false, "author_patreon_flair": false, "author_premium": false, "awarders": [], "banned_at_utc": null, "banned_by": null, "body": "Yeah I see so many “my roommate moved their entire family into our apartment and started running a drug den out of our garage. AITA for telling them I’m not okay with it?” type posts and it boggles my mind how the OP couldn’t figure it out themselves. Or it’s just karma farming.", "body_html": "<div class=\"md\"><p>Yeah I see so many “my roommate moved their entire family into our apartment and started running a drug den out of our garage. AITA for telling them I’m not okay with it?” type posts and it boggles my mind how the OP couldn’t figure it out themselves. Or it’s just karma farming.</p>\n</div>", "can_gild": false, "can_mod_post": false, "category": null, "clicked": null, "collapsed": false, "collapsed_because_crowd_control": null, "collapsed_reason": null, "collapsed_reason_code": null, "comment_limit": null, "comment_sort": null, "comment_type": null, "content_categories": null, "contest_mode": null, "controversiality": 0, "created": 1569004711.0, "created_utc": 1569004711.0, "depth": 1, "discussion_type": null, "distinguished": null, "domain": null, "downs": 0, "edited": 0.0, "gilded": 0, "gildings": null, "hidden": null, "hide_score": null, "id": "f0wd71p", "is_created_from_ads_ui": null, "is_crosspostable": null, "is_meta": null, "is_original_content": null, "is_reddit_media_domain": null, "is_robot_indexable": null, "is_self": null, "is_submitter": false, "is_video": null, "likes": null, "link_flair_background_color": null, "link_flair_css_class": null, "link_flair_richtext": null, "link_flair_template_id": null, 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These are the types of posts that I will use INFO for because I believe that I cannot genuinely make an objective decision when the story is so obviously one-sided. I don’t think people use the INFO tally enough.
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Over time, more and more of the posts seem to have A- a universal consensus on every post, with any dissenters massively downvoted and B- a shift towards judgments that seem (to me at least) to be out of step with how people in the real world judge situations.\n\nGiven that, I think it’s important to remember that even though the sub is not intended to be for validation posts or to be an echo chamber or to give advice on how people should behave in specific situations- in practice, a lot of times it is.\n\nSo just as a reminder- offline, people in your real life will think you’re an asshole if you take the last cookie when you know the child behind you wants it.\n\nThey’ll think you’re an asshole if you don’t stand up for an elderly person on a bus. They’ll think you’re an asshole if you don’t go out for drinks with your co-workers once in a while. They’ll think you’re an asshole if you don’t try to be involved in your child’s life, no matter how much support you pay. They’ll think you’re an asshole if you can’t help out your brother with babysitting once in a while, even if you’re childfree. They’ll think you’re an asshole if you wear nothing but underwear in your own home when your roommate has guests over. They’ll think you’re an asshole if you can’t detour for 10 minutes a day to carpool with a co-worker for a week while his car is in the shop.\n\nThe internet has its own values, and that’s fine. But in the real world, people who can’t just go along to get along most of the time? People who don’t want to mildly inconvenience themselves to help out the people around them? People who don’t seem to put any stock into the idea of collectivism? The people around them are going to consider them to be assholes.\n\nSo yeah. I love this sub, I love reading the stories and I find it very interesting to hear people’s opinions. But I personally think that probably more than 50% of the time, the people I know in real life would disagree with the sub’s judgement of who’s the asshole in a given situation. I don’t know if the disparity is just because of reddit’s demographics, or because people with alternate perspectives see the writing on the board and don’t want to get down voted to oblivion.\n\nSo even if you get 4000 replies on reddit saying that you’re totally in the right, if everyone in your real life thinks you’re an asshole, well… there’s probably a reason for that. And maybe this is just me, but I really wish we could have more discussion about if someone is being an asshole if they’re being inconsiderate or selfish, even if they don’t technically “owe” anyone anything.\n\nOr maybe you believe that people offline are wrong, and we should continue to promote the individualistic value system seen on reddit both on and offline. That's a discussion worth having too.\n\nEdit: Thanks guys, this is very interesting discussion so far. And lol don't just downvote the people who disagree with me/you, engage them without being combative.\n\nEdit 2: I’ve never seen this movie, but it’s come to my attention that there already exists in this world an excellent TL,DR: “You’re not wrong Walter, you’re just an asshole”", "metadata": {"_additional_fetch_params": null, "_comments_by_id": null, "_fetched": false, "all_awardings": [], "allow_live_comments": true, "approved_at_utc": null, "approved_by": null, "archived": true, "associated_award": null, "author": "DarthCharizard", "author_cakeday": null, "author_flair_background_color": "#ffd700", "author_flair_css_class": null, "author_flair_richtext": [], "author_flair_template_id": "d0f51afc-f510-11e8-a5da-0e4d9a1c42d6", "author_flair_text": "Supreme Court Just-ass [120]", "author_flair_text_color": "dark", "author_flair_type": "text", "author_fullname": "t2_7a646", "author_is_blocked": false, "author_patreon_flair": false, "author_premium": false, "awarders": [], "banned_at_utc": null, "banned_by": null, "body": null, "body_html": null, "can_gild": false, "can_mod_post": false, "category": null, "clicked": false, "collapsed": null, "collapsed_because_crowd_control": null, "collapsed_reason": null, "collapsed_reason_code": null, "comment_limit": 2048, "comment_sort": "confidence", "comment_type": null, "content_categories": null, "contest_mode": false, "controversiality": null, "created": 1568998300.0, "created_utc": 1568998300.0, "depth": null, "discussion_type": null, "distinguished": null, "domain": "self.AmItheAsshole", "downs": 0, "edited": 1574222702.0, "gilded": 14, "gildings": null, "hidden": false, "hide_score": false, "id": "d6xoro", "is_created_from_ads_ui": false, "is_crosspostable": false, "is_meta": false, "is_original_content": false, "is_reddit_media_domain": false, "is_robot_indexable": true, "is_self": true, "is_submitter": null, "is_video": false, "likes": null, "link_flair_background_color": "#ffd635", "link_flair_css_class": "", "link_flair_richtext": [], "link_flair_template_id": "47fdebc0-d3af-11e8-80cb-0e369ce83cd4", "link_flair_text": "META", "link_flair_text_color": null, "link_flair_type": "text", "link_id": null, "locked": false, "media": null, "media_embed": null, "media_only": false, "mod_note": null, "mod_reason_by": null, "mod_reason_title": null, "mod_reports": [], "name": "t3_d6xoro", "no_follow": false, "num_comments": 6146, "num_crossposts": 16, "num_reports": null, "over_18": false, "parent_id": null, "permalink": "/r/AmItheAsshole/comments/d6xoro/meta_this_sub_is_moving_towards_a_value_system/", "pinned": false, "pwls": 7, "quarantine": false, "removal_reason": null, "removed_by": null, "removed_by_category": null, "report_reasons": null, "saved": false, "score": 80914, "score_hidden": null, "secure_media": null, "secure_media_embed": null, "selftext": "I’ve enjoyed reading and posting on this sub for many months now, and I feel like I’ve noticed a disconcerting trend, lately. Over time, more and more of the posts seem to have A- a universal consensus on every post, with any dissenters massively downvoted and B- a shift towards judgments that seem (to me at least) to be out of step with how people in the real world judge situations.\n\nGiven that, I think it’s important to remember that even though the sub is not intended to be for validation posts or to be an echo chamber or to give advice on how people should behave in specific situations- in practice, a lot of times it is.\n\nSo just as a reminder- offline, people in your real life will think you’re an asshole if you take the last cookie when you know the child behind you wants it.\n\nThey’ll think you’re an asshole if you don’t stand up for an elderly person on a bus. They’ll think you’re an asshole if you don’t go out for drinks with your co-workers once in a while. They’ll think you’re an asshole if you don’t try to be involved in your child’s life, no matter how much support you pay. They’ll think you’re an asshole if you can’t help out your brother with babysitting once in a while, even if you’re childfree. They’ll think you’re an asshole if you wear nothing but underwear in your own home when your roommate has guests over. They’ll think you’re an asshole if you can’t detour for 10 minutes a day to carpool with a co-worker for a week while his car is in the shop.\n\nThe internet has its own values, and that’s fine. But in the real world, people who can’t just go along to get along most of the time? People who don’t want to mildly inconvenience themselves to help out the people around them? People who don’t seem to put any stock into the idea of collectivism? The people around them are going to consider them to be assholes.\n\nSo yeah. I love this sub, I love reading the stories and I find it very interesting to hear people’s opinions. But I personally think that probably more than 50% of the time, the people I know in real life would disagree with the sub’s judgement of who’s the asshole in a given situation. I don’t know if the disparity is just because of reddit’s demographics, or because people with alternate perspectives see the writing on the board and don’t want to get down voted to oblivion.\n\nSo even if you get 4000 replies on reddit saying that you’re totally in the right, if everyone in your real life thinks you’re an asshole, well… there’s probably a reason for that. And maybe this is just me, but I really wish we could have more discussion about if someone is being an asshole if they’re being inconsiderate or selfish, even if they don’t technically “owe” anyone anything.\n\nOr maybe you believe that people offline are wrong, and we should continue to promote the individualistic value system seen on reddit both on and offline. That's a discussion worth having too.\n\nEdit: Thanks guys, this is very interesting discussion so far. And lol don't just downvote the people who disagree with me/you, engage them without being combative.\n\nEdit 2: I’ve never seen this movie, but it’s come to my attention that there already exists in this world an excellent TL,DR: “You’re not wrong Walter, you’re just an asshole”", "selftext_html": "<!-- SC_OFF --><div class=\"md\"><p>I’ve enjoyed reading and posting on this sub for many months now, and I feel like I’ve noticed a disconcerting trend, lately. Over time, more and more of the posts seem to have A- a universal consensus on every post, with any dissenters massively downvoted and B- a shift towards judgments that seem (to me at least) to be out of step with how people in the real world judge situations.</p>\n\n<p>Given that, I think it’s important to remember that even though the sub is not intended to be for validation posts or to be an echo chamber or to give advice on how people should behave in specific situations- in practice, a lot of times it is.</p>\n\n<p>So just as a reminder- offline, people in your real life will think you’re an asshole if you take the last cookie when you know the child behind you wants it.</p>\n\n<p>They’ll think you’re an asshole if you don’t stand up for an elderly person on a bus. They’ll think you’re an asshole if you don’t go out for drinks with your co-workers once in a while. They’ll think you’re an asshole if you don’t try to be involved in your child’s life, no matter how much support you pay. They’ll think you’re an asshole if you can’t help out your brother with babysitting once in a while, even if you’re childfree. They’ll think you’re an asshole if you wear nothing but underwear in your own home when your roommate has guests over. They’ll think you’re an asshole if you can’t detour for 10 minutes a day to carpool with a co-worker for a week while his car is in the shop.</p>\n\n<p>The internet has its own values, and that’s fine. But in the real world, people who can’t just go along to get along most of the time? People who don’t want to mildly inconvenience themselves to help out the people around them? People who don’t seem to put any stock into the idea of collectivism? The people around them are going to consider them to be assholes.</p>\n\n<p>So yeah. I love this sub, I love reading the stories and I find it very interesting to hear people’s opinions. But I personally think that probably more than 50% of the time, the people I know in real life would disagree with the sub’s judgement of who’s the asshole in a given situation. I don’t know if the disparity is just because of reddit’s demographics, or because people with alternate perspectives see the writing on the board and don’t want to get down voted to oblivion.</p>\n\n<p>So even if you get 4000 replies on reddit saying that you’re totally in the right, if everyone in your real life thinks you’re an asshole, well… there’s probably a reason for that. And maybe this is just me, but I really wish we could have more discussion about if someone is being an asshole if they’re being inconsiderate or selfish, even if they don’t technically “owe” anyone anything.</p>\n\n<p>Or maybe you believe that people offline are wrong, and we should continue to promote the individualistic value system seen on reddit both on and offline. That's a discussion worth having too.</p>\n\n<p>Edit: Thanks guys, this is very interesting discussion so far. And lol don't just downvote the people who disagree with me/you, engage them without being combative.</p>\n\n<p>Edit 2: I’ve never seen this movie, but it’s come to my attention that there already exists in this world an excellent TL,DR: “You’re not wrong Walter, you’re just an asshole”</p>\n</div><!-- SC_ON -->", "send_replies": true, "spoiler": false, "stickied": false, "subreddit": "r/AmItheAsshole", "subreddit_id": "t5_2xhvq", "subreddit_name_prefixed": "r/AmItheAsshole", "subreddit_subscribers": 24050251, "subreddit_type": "public", "suggested_sort": "top", "thread_id": "t3_d6xoro", "thumbnail": "", "title": "META: This sub is moving towards a value system that frequently doesn't align with the rest of the world", "top_awarded_type": null, "total_awards_received": 0, "treatment_tags": [], "unrepliable_reason": null, "ups": 80914, "upvote_ratio": 0.92, "url": "https://www.reddit.com/r/AmItheAsshole/comments/d6xoro/meta_this_sub_is_moving_towards_a_value_system/", "user_reports": [], "view_count": null, "visited": false, "wls": 7}, "role": "DarthCharizard"}, {"content": "While I find this notion accurate to a degree, I've lately noticed far more OBVIOUS not-the-asshole posts. The picture painted is completely one-sided, obtuse, and it's transparent that the person posting is desperately trying to be validated or \"right\" as opposed to actually wondering if what he/she did is immoral or unethical, or just overall unbecoming.\n\nI suppose this could be part of what OP is talking about, though.", "metadata": {"_additional_fetch_params": null, "_comments_by_id": null, "_fetched": true, "all_awardings": [], "allow_live_comments": null, "approved_at_utc": null, "approved_by": null, "archived": true, "associated_award": null, "author": "pumpnectar9", "author_cakeday": null, "author_flair_background_color": "#3b2921", "author_flair_css_class": null, "author_flair_richtext": [], "author_flair_template_id": "0f8d1b4a-f8a7-11e8-920b-0e93c922efde", "author_flair_text": "Partassipant [1]", "author_flair_text_color": "light", "author_flair_type": "text", "author_fullname": "t2_cfartr9", "author_is_blocked": false, "author_patreon_flair": false, "author_premium": false, "awarders": [], "banned_at_utc": null, "banned_by": null, "body": "While I find this notion accurate to a degree, I've lately noticed far more OBVIOUS not-the-asshole posts. The picture painted is completely one-sided, obtuse, and it's transparent that the person posting is desperately trying to be validated or \"right\" as opposed to actually wondering if what he/she did is immoral or unethical, or just overall unbecoming.\n\nI suppose this could be part of what OP is talking about, though.", "body_html": "<div class=\"md\"><p>While I find this notion accurate to a degree, I've lately noticed far more OBVIOUS not-the-asshole posts. The picture painted is completely one-sided, obtuse, and it's transparent that the person posting is desperately trying to be validated or "right" as opposed to actually wondering if what he/she did is immoral or unethical, or just overall unbecoming.</p>\n\n<p>I suppose this could be part of what OP is talking about, though.</p>\n</div>", "can_gild": false, "can_mod_post": false, "category": null, "clicked": null, "collapsed": false, "collapsed_because_crowd_control": null, "collapsed_reason": null, "collapsed_reason_code": null, "comment_limit": null, "comment_sort": null, "comment_type": null, "content_categories": null, "contest_mode": null, "controversiality": 0, "created": 1569001112.0, "created_utc": 1569001112.0, "depth": 0, "discussion_type": null, "distinguished": null, "domain": null, "downs": 0, "edited": 1569005234.0, "gilded": 0, "gildings": null, "hidden": null, "hide_score": null, "id": "f0w7zwn", "is_created_from_ads_ui": null, "is_crosspostable": null, "is_meta": null, "is_original_content": null, "is_reddit_media_domain": null, "is_robot_indexable": null, "is_self": null, "is_submitter": false, "is_video": null, "likes": null, "link_flair_background_color": null, "link_flair_css_class": null, "link_flair_richtext": null, "link_flair_template_id": null, "link_flair_text": null, "link_flair_text_color": null, "link_flair_type": null, "link_id": "t3_d6xoro", "locked": false, "media": null, "media_embed": null, "media_only": null, "mod_note": null, "mod_reason_by": null, "mod_reason_title": null, "mod_reports": [], "name": "t1_f0w7zwn", "no_follow": false, "num_comments": null, "num_crossposts": null, "num_reports": null, "over_18": null, "parent_id": "t3_d6xoro", "permalink": "/r/AmItheAsshole/comments/d6xoro/meta_this_sub_is_moving_towards_a_value_system/f0w7zwn/", "pinned": null, "pwls": null, "quarantine": null, "removal_reason": null, "removed_by": null, "removed_by_category": null, "report_reasons": null, "saved": false, "score": 3252, "score_hidden": false, "secure_media": null, "secure_media_embed": null, "selftext": null, "selftext_html": null, "send_replies": true, "spoiler": null, "stickied": false, "subreddit": "AmItheAsshole", "subreddit_id": "t5_2xhvq", "subreddit_name_prefixed": "r/AmItheAsshole", "subreddit_subscribers": null, "subreddit_type": "public", "suggested_sort": null, "thread_id": null, "thumbnail": null, "title": null, "top_awarded_type": null, "total_awards_received": 0, "treatment_tags": [], "unrepliable_reason": null, "ups": 3252, "upvote_ratio": null, "url": null, "user_reports": [], "view_count": null, "visited": null, "wls": null}, "role": "pumpnectar9"}, {"content": "Yeah I see so many “my roommate moved their entire family into our apartment and started running a drug den out of our garage. AITA for telling them I’m not okay with it?” type posts and it boggles my mind how the OP couldn’t figure it out themselves. Or it’s just karma farming.", "metadata": {"_additional_fetch_params": null, "_comments_by_id": null, "_fetched": true, "all_awardings": [], "allow_live_comments": null, "approved_at_utc": null, "approved_by": null, "archived": true, "associated_award": null, "author": "EngineFace", "author_cakeday": null, "author_flair_background_color": null, "author_flair_css_class": null, "author_flair_richtext": [], "author_flair_template_id": null, "author_flair_text": null, "author_flair_text_color": null, "author_flair_type": "text", "author_fullname": "t2_6ok3r", "author_is_blocked": false, "author_patreon_flair": false, "author_premium": false, "awarders": [], "banned_at_utc": null, "banned_by": null, "body": "Yeah I see so many “my roommate moved their entire family into our apartment and started running a drug den out of our garage. AITA for telling them I’m not okay with it?” type posts and it boggles my mind how the OP couldn’t figure it out themselves. Or it’s just karma farming.", "body_html": "<div class=\"md\"><p>Yeah I see so many “my roommate moved their entire family into our apartment and started running a drug den out of our garage. AITA for telling them I’m not okay with it?” type posts and it boggles my mind how the OP couldn’t figure it out themselves. Or it’s just karma farming.</p>\n</div>", "can_gild": false, "can_mod_post": false, "category": null, "clicked": null, "collapsed": false, "collapsed_because_crowd_control": null, "collapsed_reason": null, "collapsed_reason_code": null, "comment_limit": null, "comment_sort": null, "comment_type": null, "content_categories": null, "contest_mode": null, "controversiality": 0, "created": 1569004711.0, "created_utc": 1569004711.0, "depth": 1, "discussion_type": null, "distinguished": null, "domain": null, "downs": 0, "edited": 0.0, "gilded": 0, "gildings": null, "hidden": null, "hide_score": null, "id": "f0wd71p", "is_created_from_ads_ui": null, "is_crosspostable": null, "is_meta": null, "is_original_content": null, "is_reddit_media_domain": null, "is_robot_indexable": null, "is_self": null, "is_submitter": false, "is_video": null, "likes": null, "link_flair_background_color": null, "link_flair_css_class": null, "link_flair_richtext": null, "link_flair_template_id": null, 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ignore and move on from the posts that are so obviously only giving their version of the story.</p>\n</div>", "can_gild": false, "can_mod_post": false, "category": null, "clicked": null, "collapsed": false, "collapsed_because_crowd_control": null, "collapsed_reason": null, "collapsed_reason_code": null, "comment_limit": null, "comment_sort": null, "comment_type": null, "content_categories": null, "contest_mode": null, "controversiality": 0, "created": 1569009444.0, "created_utc": 1569009444.0, "depth": 2, "discussion_type": null, "distinguished": null, "domain": null, "downs": 0, "edited": 0.0, "gilded": 0, "gildings": null, "hidden": null, "hide_score": null, "id": "f0wle6e", "is_created_from_ads_ui": null, "is_crosspostable": null, "is_meta": null, "is_original_content": null, "is_reddit_media_domain": null, "is_robot_indexable": null, "is_self": null, "is_submitter": false, "is_video": null, "likes": null, "link_flair_background_color": null, "link_flair_css_class": null, 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I know right people kindly bring their family into someones life and offer them cheap drugs and they throw it back in their face. People can really be assholes sometimes.
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Over time, more and more of the posts seem to have A- a universal consensus on every post, with any dissenters massively downvoted and B- a shift towards judgments that seem (to me at least) to be out of step with how people in the real world judge situations.\n\nGiven that, I think it’s important to remember that even though the sub is not intended to be for validation posts or to be an echo chamber or to give advice on how people should behave in specific situations- in practice, a lot of times it is.\n\nSo just as a reminder- offline, people in your real life will think you’re an asshole if you take the last cookie when you know the child behind you wants it.\n\nThey’ll think you’re an asshole if you don’t stand up for an elderly person on a bus. They’ll think you’re an asshole if you don’t go out for drinks with your co-workers once in a while. They’ll think you’re an asshole if you don’t try to be involved in your child’s life, no matter how much support you pay. They’ll think you’re an asshole if you can’t help out your brother with babysitting once in a while, even if you’re childfree. They’ll think you’re an asshole if you wear nothing but underwear in your own home when your roommate has guests over. They’ll think you’re an asshole if you can’t detour for 10 minutes a day to carpool with a co-worker for a week while his car is in the shop.\n\nThe internet has its own values, and that’s fine. But in the real world, people who can’t just go along to get along most of the time? People who don’t want to mildly inconvenience themselves to help out the people around them? People who don’t seem to put any stock into the idea of collectivism? The people around them are going to consider them to be assholes.\n\nSo yeah. I love this sub, I love reading the stories and I find it very interesting to hear people’s opinions. But I personally think that probably more than 50% of the time, the people I know in real life would disagree with the sub’s judgement of who’s the asshole in a given situation. I don’t know if the disparity is just because of reddit’s demographics, or because people with alternate perspectives see the writing on the board and don’t want to get down voted to oblivion.\n\nSo even if you get 4000 replies on reddit saying that you’re totally in the right, if everyone in your real life thinks you’re an asshole, well… there’s probably a reason for that. And maybe this is just me, but I really wish we could have more discussion about if someone is being an asshole if they’re being inconsiderate or selfish, even if they don’t technically “owe” anyone anything.\n\nOr maybe you believe that people offline are wrong, and we should continue to promote the individualistic value system seen on reddit both on and offline. That's a discussion worth having too.\n\nEdit: Thanks guys, this is very interesting discussion so far. And lol don't just downvote the people who disagree with me/you, engage them without being combative.\n\nEdit 2: I’ve never seen this movie, but it’s come to my attention that there already exists in this world an excellent TL,DR: “You’re not wrong Walter, you’re just an asshole”", "metadata": {"_additional_fetch_params": null, "_comments_by_id": null, "_fetched": false, "all_awardings": [], "allow_live_comments": true, "approved_at_utc": null, "approved_by": null, "archived": true, "associated_award": null, "author": "DarthCharizard", "author_cakeday": null, "author_flair_background_color": "#ffd700", "author_flair_css_class": null, "author_flair_richtext": [], "author_flair_template_id": "d0f51afc-f510-11e8-a5da-0e4d9a1c42d6", "author_flair_text": "Supreme Court Just-ass [120]", "author_flair_text_color": "dark", "author_flair_type": "text", "author_fullname": "t2_7a646", "author_is_blocked": false, "author_patreon_flair": false, "author_premium": false, "awarders": [], "banned_at_utc": null, "banned_by": null, "body": null, "body_html": null, "can_gild": false, "can_mod_post": false, "category": null, "clicked": false, "collapsed": null, "collapsed_because_crowd_control": null, "collapsed_reason": null, "collapsed_reason_code": null, "comment_limit": 2048, "comment_sort": "confidence", "comment_type": null, "content_categories": null, "contest_mode": false, "controversiality": null, "created": 1568998300.0, "created_utc": 1568998300.0, "depth": null, "discussion_type": null, "distinguished": null, "domain": "self.AmItheAsshole", "downs": 0, "edited": 1574222702.0, "gilded": 14, "gildings": null, "hidden": false, "hide_score": false, "id": "d6xoro", "is_created_from_ads_ui": false, "is_crosspostable": false, "is_meta": false, "is_original_content": false, "is_reddit_media_domain": false, "is_robot_indexable": true, "is_self": true, "is_submitter": null, "is_video": false, "likes": null, "link_flair_background_color": "#ffd635", "link_flair_css_class": "", "link_flair_richtext": [], "link_flair_template_id": "47fdebc0-d3af-11e8-80cb-0e369ce83cd4", "link_flair_text": "META", "link_flair_text_color": null, "link_flair_type": "text", "link_id": null, "locked": false, "media": null, "media_embed": null, "media_only": false, "mod_note": null, "mod_reason_by": null, "mod_reason_title": null, "mod_reports": [], "name": "t3_d6xoro", "no_follow": false, "num_comments": 6146, "num_crossposts": 16, "num_reports": null, "over_18": false, "parent_id": null, "permalink": "/r/AmItheAsshole/comments/d6xoro/meta_this_sub_is_moving_towards_a_value_system/", "pinned": false, "pwls": 7, "quarantine": false, "removal_reason": null, "removed_by": null, "removed_by_category": null, "report_reasons": null, "saved": false, "score": 80914, "score_hidden": null, "secure_media": null, "secure_media_embed": null, "selftext": "I’ve enjoyed reading and posting on this sub for many months now, and I feel like I’ve noticed a disconcerting trend, lately. Over time, more and more of the posts seem to have A- a universal consensus on every post, with any dissenters massively downvoted and B- a shift towards judgments that seem (to me at least) to be out of step with how people in the real world judge situations.\n\nGiven that, I think it’s important to remember that even though the sub is not intended to be for validation posts or to be an echo chamber or to give advice on how people should behave in specific situations- in practice, a lot of times it is.\n\nSo just as a reminder- offline, people in your real life will think you’re an asshole if you take the last cookie when you know the child behind you wants it.\n\nThey’ll think you’re an asshole if you don’t stand up for an elderly person on a bus. They’ll think you’re an asshole if you don’t go out for drinks with your co-workers once in a while. They’ll think you’re an asshole if you don’t try to be involved in your child’s life, no matter how much support you pay. They’ll think you’re an asshole if you can’t help out your brother with babysitting once in a while, even if you’re childfree. They’ll think you’re an asshole if you wear nothing but underwear in your own home when your roommate has guests over. They’ll think you’re an asshole if you can’t detour for 10 minutes a day to carpool with a co-worker for a week while his car is in the shop.\n\nThe internet has its own values, and that’s fine. But in the real world, people who can’t just go along to get along most of the time? People who don’t want to mildly inconvenience themselves to help out the people around them? People who don’t seem to put any stock into the idea of collectivism? The people around them are going to consider them to be assholes.\n\nSo yeah. I love this sub, I love reading the stories and I find it very interesting to hear people’s opinions. 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They’ll think you’re an asshole if you don’t try to be involved in your child’s life, no matter how much support you pay. They’ll think you’re an asshole if you can’t help out your brother with babysitting once in a while, even if you’re childfree. They’ll think you’re an asshole if you wear nothing but underwear in your own home when your roommate has guests over. They’ll think you’re an asshole if you can’t detour for 10 minutes a day to carpool with a co-worker for a week while his car is in the shop.</p>\n\n<p>The internet has its own values, and that’s fine. But in the real world, people who can’t just go along to get along most of the time? People who don’t want to mildly inconvenience themselves to help out the people around them? People who don’t seem to put any stock into the idea of collectivism? The people around them are going to consider them to be assholes.</p>\n\n<p>So yeah. I love this sub, I love reading the stories and I find it very interesting to hear people’s opinions. But I personally think that probably more than 50% of the time, the people I know in real life would disagree with the sub’s judgement of who’s the asshole in a given situation. I don’t know if the disparity is just because of reddit’s demographics, or because people with alternate perspectives see the writing on the board and don’t want to get down voted to oblivion.</p>\n\n<p>So even if you get 4000 replies on reddit saying that you’re totally in the right, if everyone in your real life thinks you’re an asshole, well… there’s probably a reason for that. And maybe this is just me, but I really wish we could have more discussion about if someone is being an asshole if they’re being inconsiderate or selfish, even if they don’t technically “owe” anyone anything.</p>\n\n<p>Or maybe you believe that people offline are wrong, and we should continue to promote the individualistic value system seen on reddit both on and offline. That's a discussion worth having too.</p>\n\n<p>Edit: Thanks guys, this is very interesting discussion so far. And lol don't just downvote the people who disagree with me/you, engage them without being combative.</p>\n\n<p>Edit 2: I’ve never seen this movie, but it’s come to my attention that there already exists in this world an excellent TL,DR: “You’re not wrong Walter, you’re just an asshole”</p>\n</div><!-- SC_ON -->", "send_replies": true, "spoiler": false, "stickied": false, "subreddit": "r/AmItheAsshole", "subreddit_id": "t5_2xhvq", "subreddit_name_prefixed": "r/AmItheAsshole", "subreddit_subscribers": 24050251, "subreddit_type": "public", "suggested_sort": "top", "thread_id": "t3_d6xoro", "thumbnail": "", "title": "META: This sub is moving towards a value system that frequently doesn't align with the rest of the world", "top_awarded_type": null, "total_awards_received": 0, "treatment_tags": [], "unrepliable_reason": null, "ups": 80914, "upvote_ratio": 0.92, "url": "https://www.reddit.com/r/AmItheAsshole/comments/d6xoro/meta_this_sub_is_moving_towards_a_value_system/", "user_reports": [], "view_count": null, "visited": false, "wls": 7}, "role": "DarthCharizard"}, {"content": "While I find this notion accurate to a degree, I've lately noticed far more OBVIOUS not-the-asshole posts. The picture painted is completely one-sided, obtuse, and it's transparent that the person posting is desperately trying to be validated or \"right\" as opposed to actually wondering if what he/she did is immoral or unethical, or just overall unbecoming.\n\nI suppose this could be part of what OP is talking about, though.", "metadata": {"_additional_fetch_params": null, "_comments_by_id": null, "_fetched": true, "all_awardings": [], "allow_live_comments": null, "approved_at_utc": null, "approved_by": null, "archived": true, "associated_award": null, "author": "pumpnectar9", "author_cakeday": null, "author_flair_background_color": "#3b2921", "author_flair_css_class": null, "author_flair_richtext": [], "author_flair_template_id": "0f8d1b4a-f8a7-11e8-920b-0e93c922efde", "author_flair_text": "Partassipant [1]", "author_flair_text_color": "light", "author_flair_type": "text", "author_fullname": "t2_cfartr9", "author_is_blocked": false, "author_patreon_flair": false, "author_premium": false, "awarders": [], "banned_at_utc": null, "banned_by": null, "body": "While I find this notion accurate to a degree, I've lately noticed far more OBVIOUS not-the-asshole posts. The picture painted is completely one-sided, obtuse, and it's transparent that the person posting is desperately trying to be validated or \"right\" as opposed to actually wondering if what he/she did is immoral or unethical, or just overall unbecoming.\n\nI suppose this could be part of what OP is talking about, though.", "body_html": "<div class=\"md\"><p>While I find this notion accurate to a degree, I've lately noticed far more OBVIOUS not-the-asshole posts. The picture painted is completely one-sided, obtuse, and it's transparent that the person posting is desperately trying to be validated or "right" as opposed to actually wondering if what he/she did is immoral or unethical, or just overall unbecoming.</p>\n\n<p>I suppose this could be part of what OP is talking about, though.</p>\n</div>", "can_gild": false, "can_mod_post": false, "category": null, "clicked": null, "collapsed": false, "collapsed_because_crowd_control": null, "collapsed_reason": null, "collapsed_reason_code": null, "comment_limit": null, "comment_sort": null, "comment_type": null, "content_categories": null, "contest_mode": null, "controversiality": 0, "created": 1569001112.0, "created_utc": 1569001112.0, "depth": 0, "discussion_type": null, "distinguished": null, "domain": null, "downs": 0, "edited": 1569005234.0, "gilded": 0, "gildings": null, "hidden": null, "hide_score": null, "id": "f0w7zwn", "is_created_from_ads_ui": null, "is_crosspostable": null, "is_meta": null, "is_original_content": null, "is_reddit_media_domain": null, "is_robot_indexable": null, "is_self": null, "is_submitter": false, "is_video": null, "likes": null, "link_flair_background_color": null, "link_flair_css_class": null, "link_flair_richtext": null, "link_flair_template_id": null, "link_flair_text": null, "link_flair_text_color": null, "link_flair_type": null, "link_id": "t3_d6xoro", "locked": false, "media": null, "media_embed": null, "media_only": null, "mod_note": null, "mod_reason_by": null, "mod_reason_title": null, "mod_reports": [], "name": "t1_f0w7zwn", "no_follow": false, "num_comments": null, "num_crossposts": null, "num_reports": null, "over_18": null, "parent_id": "t3_d6xoro", "permalink": "/r/AmItheAsshole/comments/d6xoro/meta_this_sub_is_moving_towards_a_value_system/f0w7zwn/", "pinned": null, "pwls": null, "quarantine": null, "removal_reason": null, "removed_by": null, "removed_by_category": null, "report_reasons": null, "saved": false, "score": 3252, "score_hidden": false, "secure_media": null, "secure_media_embed": null, "selftext": null, "selftext_html": null, "send_replies": true, "spoiler": null, "stickied": false, "subreddit": "AmItheAsshole", "subreddit_id": "t5_2xhvq", "subreddit_name_prefixed": "r/AmItheAsshole", "subreddit_subscribers": null, "subreddit_type": "public", "suggested_sort": null, "thread_id": null, "thumbnail": null, "title": null, "top_awarded_type": null, "total_awards_received": 0, "treatment_tags": [], "unrepliable_reason": null, "ups": 3252, "upvote_ratio": null, "url": null, "user_reports": [], "view_count": null, "visited": null, "wls": null}, "role": "pumpnectar9"}, {"content": "Yeah I see so many “my roommate moved their entire family into our apartment and started running a drug den out of our garage. 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Or it’s just karma farming.</p>\n</div>", "can_gild": false, "can_mod_post": false, "category": null, "clicked": null, "collapsed": false, "collapsed_because_crowd_control": null, "collapsed_reason": null, "collapsed_reason_code": null, "comment_limit": null, "comment_sort": null, "comment_type": null, "content_categories": null, "contest_mode": null, "controversiality": 0, "created": 1569004711.0, "created_utc": 1569004711.0, "depth": 1, "discussion_type": null, "distinguished": null, "domain": null, "downs": 0, "edited": 0.0, "gilded": 0, "gildings": null, "hidden": null, "hide_score": null, "id": "f0wd71p", "is_created_from_ads_ui": null, "is_crosspostable": null, "is_meta": null, "is_original_content": null, "is_reddit_media_domain": null, "is_robot_indexable": null, "is_self": null, "is_submitter": false, "is_video": null, "likes": null, "link_flair_background_color": null, "link_flair_css_class": null, "link_flair_richtext": null, "link_flair_template_id": null, "link_flair_text": null, "link_flair_text_color": null, "link_flair_type": null, "link_id": "t3_d6xoro", "locked": false, "media": null, "media_embed": null, "media_only": null, "mod_note": null, "mod_reason_by": null, "mod_reason_title": null, "mod_reports": [], "name": "t1_f0wd71p", "no_follow": false, "num_comments": null, "num_crossposts": null, "num_reports": null, "over_18": null, "parent_id": "t1_f0w7zwn", "permalink": "/r/AmItheAsshole/comments/d6xoro/meta_this_sub_is_moving_towards_a_value_system/f0wd71p/", "pinned": null, "pwls": null, "quarantine": null, "removal_reason": null, "removed_by": null, "removed_by_category": null, "report_reasons": null, "saved": false, "score": 1892, "score_hidden": false, "secure_media": null, "secure_media_embed": null, "selftext": null, "selftext_html": null, "send_replies": true, "spoiler": null, "stickied": false, "subreddit": "AmItheAsshole", "subreddit_id": "t5_2xhvq", "subreddit_name_prefixed": "r/AmItheAsshole", "subreddit_subscribers": null, "subreddit_type": "public", "suggested_sort": null, "thread_id": null, "thumbnail": null, "title": null, "top_awarded_type": null, "total_awards_received": 0, "treatment_tags": [], "unrepliable_reason": null, "ups": 1892, "upvote_ratio": null, "url": null, "user_reports": [], "view_count": null, "visited": null, "wls": null}, "role": "EngineFace"}]
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parkway_parkway
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Sometimes people misunderstand other’s true intentions. Or they didn’t have their roommates drug of choice. We can never truly know.
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Over time, more and more of the posts seem to have A- a universal consensus on every post, with any dissenters massively downvoted and B- a shift towards judgments that seem (to me at least) to be out of step with how people in the real world judge situations.\n\nGiven that, I think it’s important to remember that even though the sub is not intended to be for validation posts or to be an echo chamber or to give advice on how people should behave in specific situations- in practice, a lot of times it is.\n\nSo just as a reminder- offline, people in your real life will think you’re an asshole if you take the last cookie when you know the child behind you wants it.\n\nThey’ll think you’re an asshole if you don’t stand up for an elderly person on a bus. They’ll think you’re an asshole if you don’t go out for drinks with your co-workers once in a while. They’ll think you’re an asshole if you don’t try to be involved in your child’s life, no matter how much support you pay. They’ll think you’re an asshole if you can’t help out your brother with babysitting once in a while, even if you’re childfree. They’ll think you’re an asshole if you wear nothing but underwear in your own home when your roommate has guests over. They’ll think you’re an asshole if you can’t detour for 10 minutes a day to carpool with a co-worker for a week while his car is in the shop.\n\nThe internet has its own values, and that’s fine. But in the real world, people who can’t just go along to get along most of the time? People who don’t want to mildly inconvenience themselves to help out the people around them? People who don’t seem to put any stock into the idea of collectivism? The people around them are going to consider them to be assholes.\n\nSo yeah. I love this sub, I love reading the stories and I find it very interesting to hear people’s opinions. But I personally think that probably more than 50% of the time, the people I know in real life would disagree with the sub’s judgement of who’s the asshole in a given situation. I don’t know if the disparity is just because of reddit’s demographics, or because people with alternate perspectives see the writing on the board and don’t want to get down voted to oblivion.\n\nSo even if you get 4000 replies on reddit saying that you’re totally in the right, if everyone in your real life thinks you’re an asshole, well… there’s probably a reason for that. And maybe this is just me, but I really wish we could have more discussion about if someone is being an asshole if they’re being inconsiderate or selfish, even if they don’t technically “owe” anyone anything.\n\nOr maybe you believe that people offline are wrong, and we should continue to promote the individualistic value system seen on reddit both on and offline. That's a discussion worth having too.\n\nEdit: Thanks guys, this is very interesting discussion so far. And lol don't just downvote the people who disagree with me/you, engage them without being combative.\n\nEdit 2: I’ve never seen this movie, but it’s come to my attention that there already exists in this world an excellent TL,DR: “You’re not wrong Walter, you’re just an asshole”", "metadata": {"_additional_fetch_params": null, "_comments_by_id": null, "_fetched": false, "all_awardings": [], "allow_live_comments": true, "approved_at_utc": null, "approved_by": null, "archived": true, "associated_award": null, "author": "DarthCharizard", "author_cakeday": null, "author_flair_background_color": "#ffd700", "author_flair_css_class": null, "author_flair_richtext": [], "author_flair_template_id": "d0f51afc-f510-11e8-a5da-0e4d9a1c42d6", "author_flair_text": "Supreme Court Just-ass [120]", "author_flair_text_color": "dark", "author_flair_type": "text", "author_fullname": "t2_7a646", "author_is_blocked": false, "author_patreon_flair": false, "author_premium": false, "awarders": [], "banned_at_utc": null, "banned_by": null, "body": null, "body_html": null, "can_gild": false, "can_mod_post": false, "category": null, "clicked": false, "collapsed": null, "collapsed_because_crowd_control": null, "collapsed_reason": null, "collapsed_reason_code": null, "comment_limit": 2048, "comment_sort": "confidence", "comment_type": null, "content_categories": null, "contest_mode": false, "controversiality": null, "created": 1568998300.0, "created_utc": 1568998300.0, "depth": null, "discussion_type": null, "distinguished": null, "domain": "self.AmItheAsshole", "downs": 0, "edited": 1574222702.0, "gilded": 14, "gildings": null, "hidden": false, "hide_score": false, "id": "d6xoro", "is_created_from_ads_ui": false, "is_crosspostable": false, "is_meta": false, "is_original_content": false, "is_reddit_media_domain": false, "is_robot_indexable": true, "is_self": true, "is_submitter": null, "is_video": false, "likes": null, "link_flair_background_color": "#ffd635", "link_flair_css_class": "", "link_flair_richtext": [], "link_flair_template_id": "47fdebc0-d3af-11e8-80cb-0e369ce83cd4", "link_flair_text": "META", "link_flair_text_color": null, "link_flair_type": "text", "link_id": null, "locked": false, "media": null, "media_embed": null, "media_only": false, "mod_note": null, "mod_reason_by": null, "mod_reason_title": null, "mod_reports": [], "name": "t3_d6xoro", "no_follow": false, "num_comments": 6146, "num_crossposts": 16, "num_reports": null, "over_18": false, "parent_id": null, "permalink": "/r/AmItheAsshole/comments/d6xoro/meta_this_sub_is_moving_towards_a_value_system/", "pinned": false, "pwls": 7, "quarantine": false, "removal_reason": null, "removed_by": null, "removed_by_category": null, "report_reasons": null, "saved": false, "score": 80914, "score_hidden": null, "secure_media": null, "secure_media_embed": null, "selftext": "I’ve enjoyed reading and posting on this sub for many months now, and I feel like I’ve noticed a disconcerting trend, lately. Over time, more and more of the posts seem to have A- a universal consensus on every post, with any dissenters massively downvoted and B- a shift towards judgments that seem (to me at least) to be out of step with how people in the real world judge situations.\n\nGiven that, I think it’s important to remember that even though the sub is not intended to be for validation posts or to be an echo chamber or to give advice on how people should behave in specific situations- in practice, a lot of times it is.\n\nSo just as a reminder- offline, people in your real life will think you’re an asshole if you take the last cookie when you know the child behind you wants it.\n\nThey’ll think you’re an asshole if you don’t stand up for an elderly person on a bus. They’ll think you’re an asshole if you don’t go out for drinks with your co-workers once in a while. They’ll think you’re an asshole if you don’t try to be involved in your child’s life, no matter how much support you pay. They’ll think you’re an asshole if you can’t help out your brother with babysitting once in a while, even if you’re childfree. They’ll think you’re an asshole if you wear nothing but underwear in your own home when your roommate has guests over. They’ll think you’re an asshole if you can’t detour for 10 minutes a day to carpool with a co-worker for a week while his car is in the shop.\n\nThe internet has its own values, and that’s fine. But in the real world, people who can’t just go along to get along most of the time? People who don’t want to mildly inconvenience themselves to help out the people around them? People who don’t seem to put any stock into the idea of collectivism? The people around them are going to consider them to be assholes.\n\nSo yeah. I love this sub, I love reading the stories and I find it very interesting to hear people’s opinions. 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And maybe this is just me, but I really wish we could have more discussion about if someone is being an asshole if they’re being inconsiderate or selfish, even if they don’t technically “owe” anyone anything.</p>\n\n<p>Or maybe you believe that people offline are wrong, and we should continue to promote the individualistic value system seen on reddit both on and offline. That's a discussion worth having too.</p>\n\n<p>Edit: Thanks guys, this is very interesting discussion so far. And lol don't just downvote the people who disagree with me/you, engage them without being combative.</p>\n\n<p>Edit 2: I’ve never seen this movie, but it’s come to my attention that there already exists in this world an excellent TL,DR: “You’re not wrong Walter, you’re just an asshole”</p>\n</div><!-- SC_ON -->", "send_replies": true, "spoiler": false, "stickied": false, "subreddit": "r/AmItheAsshole", "subreddit_id": "t5_2xhvq", "subreddit_name_prefixed": "r/AmItheAsshole", "subreddit_subscribers": 24050251, "subreddit_type": "public", "suggested_sort": "top", "thread_id": "t3_d6xoro", "thumbnail": "", "title": "META: This sub is moving towards a value system that frequently doesn't align with the rest of the world", "top_awarded_type": null, "total_awards_received": 0, "treatment_tags": [], "unrepliable_reason": null, "ups": 80914, "upvote_ratio": 0.92, "url": "https://www.reddit.com/r/AmItheAsshole/comments/d6xoro/meta_this_sub_is_moving_towards_a_value_system/", "user_reports": [], "view_count": null, "visited": false, "wls": 7}, "role": "DarthCharizard"}, {"content": "While I find this notion accurate to a degree, I've lately noticed far more OBVIOUS not-the-asshole posts. The picture painted is completely one-sided, obtuse, and it's transparent that the person posting is desperately trying to be validated or \"right\" as opposed to actually wondering if what he/she did is immoral or unethical, or just overall unbecoming.\n\nI suppose this could be part of what OP is talking about, though.", "metadata": {"_additional_fetch_params": null, "_comments_by_id": null, "_fetched": true, "all_awardings": [], "allow_live_comments": null, "approved_at_utc": null, "approved_by": null, "archived": true, "associated_award": null, "author": "pumpnectar9", "author_cakeday": null, "author_flair_background_color": "#3b2921", "author_flair_css_class": null, "author_flair_richtext": [], "author_flair_template_id": "0f8d1b4a-f8a7-11e8-920b-0e93c922efde", "author_flair_text": "Partassipant [1]", "author_flair_text_color": "light", "author_flair_type": "text", "author_fullname": "t2_cfartr9", "author_is_blocked": false, "author_patreon_flair": false, "author_premium": false, "awarders": [], "banned_at_utc": null, "banned_by": null, "body": "While I find this notion accurate to a degree, I've lately noticed far more OBVIOUS not-the-asshole posts. The picture painted is completely one-sided, obtuse, and it's transparent that the person posting is desperately trying to be validated or \"right\" as opposed to actually wondering if what he/she did is immoral or unethical, or just overall unbecoming.\n\nI suppose this could be part of what OP is talking about, though.", "body_html": "<div class=\"md\"><p>While I find this notion accurate to a degree, I've lately noticed far more OBVIOUS not-the-asshole posts. The picture painted is completely one-sided, obtuse, and it's transparent that the person posting is desperately trying to be validated or "right" as opposed to actually wondering if what he/she did is immoral or unethical, or just overall unbecoming.</p>\n\n<p>I suppose this could be part of what OP is talking about, though.</p>\n</div>", "can_gild": false, "can_mod_post": false, "category": null, "clicked": null, "collapsed": false, "collapsed_because_crowd_control": null, "collapsed_reason": null, "collapsed_reason_code": null, "comment_limit": null, "comment_sort": null, "comment_type": null, "content_categories": null, "contest_mode": null, "controversiality": 0, "created": 1569001112.0, "created_utc": 1569001112.0, "depth": 0, "discussion_type": null, "distinguished": null, "domain": null, "downs": 0, "edited": 1569005234.0, "gilded": 0, "gildings": null, "hidden": null, "hide_score": null, "id": "f0w7zwn", "is_created_from_ads_ui": null, "is_crosspostable": null, "is_meta": null, "is_original_content": null, "is_reddit_media_domain": null, "is_robot_indexable": null, "is_self": null, "is_submitter": false, "is_video": null, "likes": null, "link_flair_background_color": null, "link_flair_css_class": null, "link_flair_richtext": null, "link_flair_template_id": null, "link_flair_text": null, "link_flair_text_color": null, "link_flair_type": null, "link_id": "t3_d6xoro", "locked": false, "media": null, "media_embed": null, "media_only": null, "mod_note": null, "mod_reason_by": null, "mod_reason_title": null, "mod_reports": [], "name": "t1_f0w7zwn", "no_follow": false, "num_comments": null, "num_crossposts": null, "num_reports": null, "over_18": null, "parent_id": "t3_d6xoro", "permalink": "/r/AmItheAsshole/comments/d6xoro/meta_this_sub_is_moving_towards_a_value_system/f0w7zwn/", "pinned": null, "pwls": null, "quarantine": null, "removal_reason": null, "removed_by": null, "removed_by_category": null, "report_reasons": null, "saved": false, "score": 3252, "score_hidden": false, "secure_media": null, "secure_media_embed": null, "selftext": null, "selftext_html": null, "send_replies": true, "spoiler": null, "stickied": false, "subreddit": "AmItheAsshole", "subreddit_id": "t5_2xhvq", "subreddit_name_prefixed": "r/AmItheAsshole", "subreddit_subscribers": null, "subreddit_type": "public", "suggested_sort": null, "thread_id": null, "thumbnail": null, "title": null, "top_awarded_type": null, "total_awards_received": 0, "treatment_tags": [], "unrepliable_reason": null, "ups": 3252, "upvote_ratio": null, "url": null, "user_reports": [], "view_count": null, "visited": null, "wls": null}, "role": "pumpnectar9"}, {"content": "Yeah I see so many “my roommate moved their entire family into our apartment and started running a drug den out of our garage. AITA for telling them I’m not okay with it?” type posts and it boggles my mind how the OP couldn’t figure it out themselves. Or it’s just karma farming.", "metadata": {"_additional_fetch_params": null, "_comments_by_id": null, "_fetched": true, "all_awardings": [], "allow_live_comments": null, "approved_at_utc": null, "approved_by": null, "archived": true, "associated_award": null, "author": "EngineFace", "author_cakeday": null, "author_flair_background_color": null, "author_flair_css_class": null, "author_flair_richtext": [], "author_flair_template_id": null, "author_flair_text": null, "author_flair_text_color": null, "author_flair_type": "text", "author_fullname": "t2_6ok3r", "author_is_blocked": false, "author_patreon_flair": false, "author_premium": false, "awarders": [], "banned_at_utc": null, "banned_by": null, "body": "Yeah I see so many “my roommate moved their entire family into our apartment and started running a drug den out of our garage. AITA for telling them I’m not okay with it?” type posts and it boggles my mind how the OP couldn’t figure it out themselves. Or it’s just karma farming.", "body_html": "<div class=\"md\"><p>Yeah I see so many “my roommate moved their entire family into our apartment and started running a drug den out of our garage. AITA for telling them I’m not okay with it?” type posts and it boggles my mind how the OP couldn’t figure it out themselves. Or it’s just karma farming.</p>\n</div>", "can_gild": false, "can_mod_post": false, "category": null, "clicked": null, "collapsed": false, "collapsed_because_crowd_control": null, "collapsed_reason": null, "collapsed_reason_code": null, "comment_limit": null, "comment_sort": null, "comment_type": null, "content_categories": null, "contest_mode": null, "controversiality": 0, "created": 1569004711.0, "created_utc": 1569004711.0, "depth": 1, "discussion_type": null, "distinguished": null, "domain": null, "downs": 0, "edited": 0.0, "gilded": 0, "gildings": null, "hidden": null, "hide_score": null, "id": "f0wd71p", "is_created_from_ads_ui": null, "is_crosspostable": null, "is_meta": null, "is_original_content": null, "is_reddit_media_domain": null, "is_robot_indexable": null, "is_self": null, "is_submitter": false, "is_video": null, "likes": null, "link_flair_background_color": null, "link_flair_css_class": null, "link_flair_richtext": null, "link_flair_template_id": null, "link_flair_text": null, "link_flair_text_color": null, "link_flair_type": null, "link_id": "t3_d6xoro", "locked": false, "media": null, "media_embed": null, "media_only": null, "mod_note": null, "mod_reason_by": null, "mod_reason_title": null, "mod_reports": [], "name": "t1_f0wd71p", "no_follow": false, "num_comments": null, "num_crossposts": null, "num_reports": null, "over_18": null, "parent_id": "t1_f0w7zwn", "permalink": "/r/AmItheAsshole/comments/d6xoro/meta_this_sub_is_moving_towards_a_value_system/f0wd71p/", "pinned": null, "pwls": null, "quarantine": null, "removal_reason": null, "removed_by": null, "removed_by_category": null, "report_reasons": null, "saved": false, "score": 1892, "score_hidden": false, "secure_media": null, "secure_media_embed": null, "selftext": null, "selftext_html": null, "send_replies": true, "spoiler": null, "stickied": false, "subreddit": "AmItheAsshole", "subreddit_id": "t5_2xhvq", "subreddit_name_prefixed": "r/AmItheAsshole", "subreddit_subscribers": null, "subreddit_type": "public", "suggested_sort": null, "thread_id": null, "thumbnail": null, "title": null, "top_awarded_type": null, "total_awards_received": 0, "treatment_tags": [], "unrepliable_reason": null, "ups": 1892, "upvote_ratio": null, "url": null, "user_reports": [], "view_count": null, "visited": null, "wls": null}, "role": "EngineFace"}, {"content": "I know right people kindly bring their family into someones life and offer them cheap drugs and they throw it back in their face. People can really be assholes sometimes.", "metadata": {"_additional_fetch_params": null, "_comments_by_id": null, "_fetched": true, "all_awardings": [], "allow_live_comments": null, "approved_at_utc": null, "approved_by": null, "archived": true, "associated_award": null, "author": "parkway_parkway", "author_cakeday": null, "author_flair_background_color": null, "author_flair_css_class": null, "author_flair_richtext": [], "author_flair_template_id": null, "author_flair_text": null, "author_flair_text_color": null, "author_flair_type": "text", "author_fullname": "t2_ow5lm", "author_is_blocked": false, "author_patreon_flair": false, "author_premium": false, "awarders": [], "banned_at_utc": null, "banned_by": null, "body": "I know right people kindly bring their family into someones life and offer them cheap drugs and they throw it back in their face. People can really be assholes sometimes.", "body_html": "<div class=\"md\"><p>I know right people kindly bring their family into someones life and offer them cheap drugs and they throw it back in their face. People can really be assholes sometimes.</p>\n</div>", "can_gild": false, "can_mod_post": false, "category": null, "clicked": null, "collapsed": false, "collapsed_because_crowd_control": null, "collapsed_reason": null, "collapsed_reason_code": null, "comment_limit": null, "comment_sort": null, "comment_type": null, "content_categories": null, "contest_mode": null, "controversiality": 0, "created": 1569006888.0, "created_utc": 1569006888.0, "depth": 2, "discussion_type": null, "distinguished": null, "domain": null, "downs": 0, "edited": 0.0, "gilded": 0, "gildings": null, "hidden": null, "hide_score": null, "id": "f0wgbqf", "is_created_from_ads_ui": null, "is_crosspostable": null, "is_meta": null, "is_original_content": null, "is_reddit_media_domain": null, "is_robot_indexable": null, "is_self": null, "is_submitter": false, "is_video": null, "likes": null, "link_flair_background_color": null, "link_flair_css_class": null, "link_flair_richtext": null, "link_flair_template_id": null, "link_flair_text": null, "link_flair_text_color": null, "link_flair_type": null, "link_id": "t3_d6xoro", "locked": false, "media": null, "media_embed": null, "media_only": null, "mod_note": null, "mod_reason_by": null, "mod_reason_title": null, "mod_reports": [], "name": "t1_f0wgbqf", "no_follow": false, "num_comments": null, "num_crossposts": null, "num_reports": null, "over_18": null, "parent_id": "t1_f0wd71p", "permalink": "/r/AmItheAsshole/comments/d6xoro/meta_this_sub_is_moving_towards_a_value_system/f0wgbqf/", "pinned": null, "pwls": null, "quarantine": null, "removal_reason": null, "removed_by": null, "removed_by_category": null, "report_reasons": null, "saved": false, "score": 445, "score_hidden": false, "secure_media": null, "secure_media_embed": null, "selftext": null, "selftext_html": null, "send_replies": true, "spoiler": null, "stickied": false, "subreddit": "AmItheAsshole", "subreddit_id": "t5_2xhvq", "subreddit_name_prefixed": "r/AmItheAsshole", "subreddit_subscribers": null, "subreddit_type": "public", "suggested_sort": null, "thread_id": null, "thumbnail": null, "title": null, "top_awarded_type": null, "total_awards_received": 0, "treatment_tags": [], "unrepliable_reason": null, "ups": 445, "upvote_ratio": null, "url": null, "user_reports": [], "view_count": null, "visited": null, "wls": null}, "role": "parkway_parkway"}]
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My grandpa told me some things that I don't feel comfortable repeating here but in essence my sister is \"supposed\" to be getting care from a professional and that my parents were ignoring that, along with this I was not supposed to be caring for her at all with her mental state as apparently she is a danger to herself and others. With everything else I told him, along with stuff like the movie indecent he was really mad and told me to not contact my parents without him there. He pretty much told me that he would be meeting with my parents beforehand and that he was going to be there when I sat down with them. It didn't end here either, the rest of the week consisted of other family checking in on me and telling me things my parents hid from me. This included the fact that my parents have been taking money from family to fund a \"caretaker\" that doesn't exist.\n\nSuffice to say, this week has been rough. But, the upside is that even through all this, my extended family has been giving me more love than i've felt in a while. My grandfather spent this last week \"making up for the time i've lost.\" Encouraging me to spend time with friends and do things I want to do. My aunts and uncles have also been helping me through the week.\n\nWell, Saturday night I sat down with parents to talk. It went badly to say the least. They came clean to me about everything. They told me things I will not repeat here. But they did not apologize. My parents still claim that I some how owed my sister my time. My father even saying \"You were put here to be her caretaker\". I won't lie and say I was composed. After everything i learned I confronted them. On the fact that my sister needed a caretaker. The money my dad was taking from his sister, and a few other things. They denied it or made excuses. And in the end, we ended off in a worse place than before.\n\nToday will be my last time talking to them for a while. After talking with my grandfather and uncle last night, I'm not going back. Later today i'm going there and picking up my stuff and moving in with my grandfather. When I graduate high school i'm planning on leaving the state to go to school. My aunt has told me that the money she was sending my dad will be instead be coming to me from now on. My parents have called me twice since Saturday, neither of them were to apologize and only ask when I was coming home.\n\nI won't be going back to them. Right now I still feel pretty uneasy about everything but I feel like that will pass. The rest of my family is showing their support to me and honestly, it feel great. But in the end I lost my parents. Over all of this, i've learned something that I wished I saw earlier. I don't hat my sister. In fact I love her with all my heart. I should never have never projected my hate onto her. That was wrong, and someday I hope to make up for it. But for now I need to leave.\n\nSo, there's my update. Thanks again for the support my original post got. I really appreciate everyone who took the time to comment or show me support. Thanks you.\n\n\n\n\n\nEdit: Thank you all so much! I wish I could respond to every single one of you but my lunch only lasts so long. I'll update tonight how the move out went but until then, thank you all. I want to say that your support has been amazing and your kindness means more to me than anyone could ever imagine.\n\n\n\nLate edit: Wow, I never imagined my story would reach the popularity it did. I know it's kinda cliche and i've said it a thousand times but thank you all. \n\n\n\nWe just got back from moving my things out of my parents house. Every thing I wanted to take my grandpa and uncle helped move and it's at my grandpa's house now. I have my birth certificate, social security card, and every other document and record I could think of. My parents were quiet the whole time I was there. Shorty after I arrived my dad left with my sister and my mom only hovered over us silently as me moved. It took a while but as we left she broke down and told me she loved me and would miss me. I hugged her and said goodbye, and that was it. Even now I sit here and think if she really meant it. After this whole week of her not saying anything she waited till the end. I hope she meant it. Right now though, I think I just need to look ahead. Maybe one day me and my parents can reconnect. I hope so.\n\n\n\nThank you all for the advice and love. It's been amazing and i'm glad that through this experience I at least got some positive out of this mess. Will I come back? I don't know. If something happens and you guys still want an update i'll maybe come around again. But for now I'm going to move on. For all those out there who shared their stories with me, thank you, and I hope to see you on the other side. See you space cowboy's :)", "metadata": {"_additional_fetch_params": null, "_comments_by_id": null, "_fetched": false, "all_awardings": [], "allow_live_comments": true, "approved_at_utc": null, "approved_by": null, "archived": true, "associated_award": null, "author": "Renegadesrule33", "author_cakeday": null, "author_flair_background_color": null, "author_flair_css_class": null, "author_flair_richtext": [], "author_flair_template_id": null, "author_flair_text": null, "author_flair_text_color": null, "author_flair_type": "text", "author_fullname": "t2_3c816wqd", "author_is_blocked": false, "author_patreon_flair": false, "author_premium": false, "awarders": [], "banned_at_utc": null, "banned_by": null, "body": null, "body_html": null, "can_gild": false, "can_mod_post": false, "category": null, "clicked": false, "collapsed": null, "collapsed_because_crowd_control": null, "collapsed_reason": null, "collapsed_reason_code": null, "comment_limit": 2048, "comment_sort": "confidence", "comment_type": null, "content_categories": null, "contest_mode": false, "controversiality": null, "created": 1552322462.0, "created_utc": 1552322462.0, "depth": null, "discussion_type": null, "distinguished": null, "domain": "self.AmItheAsshole", "downs": 0, "edited": 1552376988.0, "gilded": 22, "gildings": null, "hidden": false, "hide_score": false, "id": "azvko1", "is_created_from_ads_ui": false, "is_crosspostable": false, "is_meta": false, "is_original_content": false, "is_reddit_media_domain": false, "is_robot_indexable": true, "is_self": true, "is_submitter": null, "is_video": false, "likes": null, "link_flair_background_color": "#ffd635", "link_flair_css_class": "", "link_flair_richtext": [], "link_flair_template_id": "47fdebc0-d3af-11e8-80cb-0e369ce83cd4", "link_flair_text": "UPDATE", "link_flair_text_color": null, "link_flair_type": "text", "link_id": null, "locked": false, "media": null, "media_embed": null, "media_only": false, "mod_note": null, "mod_reason_by": null, "mod_reason_title": null, "mod_reports": [], "name": "t3_azvko1", "no_follow": false, "num_comments": 1970, "num_crossposts": 8, "num_reports": null, "over_18": false, "parent_id": null, "permalink": "/r/AmItheAsshole/comments/azvko1/update_aita_for_despising_my_mentally_handicap/", "pinned": false, "pwls": 7, "quarantine": false, "removal_reason": null, "removed_by": null, "removed_by_category": null, "report_reasons": null, "saved": false, "score": 72778, "score_hidden": null, "secure_media": null, "secure_media_embed": null, "selftext": "I'm back like I said I would be,. My [original post](https://www.reddit.com/r/AmItheAsshole/comments/awyi8k/aita_for_despising_my_mentally_handicap_sister/) got a lot of attention and seeing as you guys seem interested, here's my update.\n\nWell, since that day I made the post i've been staying with my grandfather. The week's been honestly a huge change for me for better and for worse but i'll try to run it down.\n\nI started by telling my grandpa the story of why I broke down the way I did and to be honest, he seemed horrified. No one in my family knew my parents were using me as essentially a free care service for my sister. My grandpa told me some things that I don't feel comfortable repeating here but in essence my sister is \"supposed\" to be getting care from a professional and that my parents were ignoring that, along with this I was not supposed to be caring for her at all with her mental state as apparently she is a danger to herself and others. With everything else I told him, along with stuff like the movie indecent he was really mad and told me to not contact my parents without him there. He pretty much told me that he would be meeting with my parents beforehand and that he was going to be there when I sat down with them. It didn't end here either, the rest of the week consisted of other family checking in on me and telling me things my parents hid from me. This included the fact that my parents have been taking money from family to fund a \"caretaker\" that doesn't exist.\n\nSuffice to say, this week has been rough. But, the upside is that even through all this, my extended family has been giving me more love than i've felt in a while. My grandfather spent this last week \"making up for the time i've lost.\" Encouraging me to spend time with friends and do things I want to do. My aunts and uncles have also been helping me through the week.\n\nWell, Saturday night I sat down with parents to talk. It went badly to say the least. They came clean to me about everything. They told me things I will not repeat here. But they did not apologize. My parents still claim that I some how owed my sister my time. My father even saying \"You were put here to be her caretaker\". I won't lie and say I was composed. After everything i learned I confronted them. On the fact that my sister needed a caretaker. The money my dad was taking from his sister, and a few other things. They denied it or made excuses. And in the end, we ended off in a worse place than before.\n\nToday will be my last time talking to them for a while. After talking with my grandfather and uncle last night, I'm not going back. Later today i'm going there and picking up my stuff and moving in with my grandfather. When I graduate high school i'm planning on leaving the state to go to school. My aunt has told me that the money she was sending my dad will be instead be coming to me from now on. My parents have called me twice since Saturday, neither of them were to apologize and only ask when I was coming home.\n\nI won't be going back to them. Right now I still feel pretty uneasy about everything but I feel like that will pass. The rest of my family is showing their support to me and honestly, it feel great. But in the end I lost my parents. Over all of this, i've learned something that I wished I saw earlier. I don't hat my sister. In fact I love her with all my heart. I should never have never projected my hate onto her. That was wrong, and someday I hope to make up for it. But for now I need to leave.\n\nSo, there's my update. Thanks again for the support my original post got. I really appreciate everyone who took the time to comment or show me support. Thanks you.\n\n​\n\n​\n\nEdit: Thank you all so much! I wish I could respond to every single one of you but my lunch only lasts so long. I'll update tonight how the move out went but until then, thank you all. I want to say that your support has been amazing and your kindness means more to me than anyone could ever imagine.\n\n​\n\nLate edit: Wow, I never imagined my story would reach the popularity it did. I know it's kinda cliche and i've said it a thousand times but thank you all. \n\n​\n\nWe just got back from moving my things out of my parents house. Every thing I wanted to take my grandpa and uncle helped move and it's at my grandpa's house now. I have my birth certificate, social security card, and every other document and record I could think of. My parents were quiet the whole time I was there. Shorty after I arrived my dad left with my sister and my mom only hovered over us silently as me moved. It took a while but as we left she broke down and told me she loved me and would miss me. I hugged her and said goodbye, and that was it. Even now I sit here and think if she really meant it. After this whole week of her not saying anything she waited till the end. I hope she meant it. Right now though, I think I just need to look ahead. Maybe one day me and my parents can reconnect. I hope so.\n\n​\n\nThank you all for the advice and love. It's been amazing and i'm glad that through this experience I at least got some positive out of this mess. Will I come back? I don't know. If something happens and you guys still want an update i'll maybe come around again. But for now I'm going to move on. For all those out there who shared their stories with me, thank you, and I hope to see you on the other side. See you space cowboy's :)", "selftext_html": "<!-- SC_OFF --><div class=\"md\"><p>I'm back like I said I would be,. My <a href=\"https://www.reddit.com/r/AmItheAsshole/comments/awyi8k/aita_for_despising_my_mentally_handicap_sister/\">original post</a> got a lot of attention and seeing as you guys seem interested, here's my update.</p>\n\n<p>Well, since that day I made the post i've been staying with my grandfather. The week's been honestly a huge change for me for better and for worse but i'll try to run it down.</p>\n\n<p>I started by telling my grandpa the story of why I broke down the way I did and to be honest, he seemed horrified. No one in my family knew my parents were using me as essentially a free care service for my sister. My grandpa told me some things that I don't feel comfortable repeating here but in essence my sister is "supposed" to be getting care from a professional and that my parents were ignoring that, along with this I was not supposed to be caring for her at all with her mental state as apparently she is a danger to herself and others. With everything else I told him, along with stuff like the movie indecent he was really mad and told me to not contact my parents without him there. He pretty much told me that he would be meeting with my parents beforehand and that he was going to be there when I sat down with them. It didn't end here either, the rest of the week consisted of other family checking in on me and telling me things my parents hid from me. This included the fact that my parents have been taking money from family to fund a "caretaker" that doesn't exist.</p>\n\n<p>Suffice to say, this week has been rough. But, the upside is that even through all this, my extended family has been giving me more love than i've felt in a while. My grandfather spent this last week "making up for the time i've lost." Encouraging me to spend time with friends and do things I want to do. My aunts and uncles have also been helping me through the week.</p>\n\n<p>Well, Saturday night I sat down with parents to talk. It went badly to say the least. They came clean to me about everything. They told me things I will not repeat here. But they did not apologize. My parents still claim that I some how owed my sister my time. My father even saying "You were put here to be her caretaker". I won't lie and say I was composed. After everything i learned I confronted them. On the fact that my sister needed a caretaker. The money my dad was taking from his sister, and a few other things. They denied it or made excuses. And in the end, we ended off in a worse place than before.</p>\n\n<p>Today will be my last time talking to them for a while. After talking with my grandfather and uncle last night, I'm not going back. Later today i'm going there and picking up my stuff and moving in with my grandfather. When I graduate high school i'm planning on leaving the state to go to school. My aunt has told me that the money she was sending my dad will be instead be coming to me from now on. My parents have called me twice since Saturday, neither of them were to apologize and only ask when I was coming home.</p>\n\n<p>I won't be going back to them. Right now I still feel pretty uneasy about everything but I feel like that will pass. The rest of my family is showing their support to me and honestly, it feel great. But in the end I lost my parents. Over all of this, i've learned something that I wished I saw earlier. I don't hat my sister. In fact I love her with all my heart. I should never have never projected my hate onto her. That was wrong, and someday I hope to make up for it. But for now I need to leave.</p>\n\n<p>So, there's my update. Thanks again for the support my original post got. I really appreciate everyone who took the time to comment or show me support. Thanks you.</p>\n\n<p>​</p>\n\n<p>​</p>\n\n<p>Edit: Thank you all so much! I wish I could respond to every single one of you but my lunch only lasts so long. I'll update tonight how the move out went but until then, thank you all. I want to say that your support has been amazing and your kindness means more to me than anyone could ever imagine.</p>\n\n<p>​</p>\n\n<p>Late edit: Wow, I never imagined my story would reach the popularity it did. I know it's kinda cliche and i've said it a thousand times but thank you all. </p>\n\n<p>​</p>\n\n<p>We just got back from moving my things out of my parents house. Every thing I wanted to take my grandpa and uncle helped move and it's at my grandpa's house now. I have my birth certificate, social security card, and every other document and record I could think of. My parents were quiet the whole time I was there. Shorty after I arrived my dad left with my sister and my mom only hovered over us silently as me moved. It took a while but as we left she broke down and told me she loved me and would miss me. I hugged her and said goodbye, and that was it. Even now I sit here and think if she really meant it. After this whole week of her not saying anything she waited till the end. I hope she meant it. Right now though, I think I just need to look ahead. Maybe one day me and my parents can reconnect. I hope so.</p>\n\n<p>​</p>\n\n<p>Thank you all for the advice and love. It's been amazing and i'm glad that through this experience I at least got some positive out of this mess. Will I come back? I don't know. If something happens and you guys still want an update i'll maybe come around again. But for now I'm going to move on. For all those out there who shared their stories with me, thank you, and I hope to see you on the other side. See you space cowboy's :)</p>\n</div><!-- SC_ON -->", "send_replies": true, "spoiler": false, "stickied": false, "subreddit": "r/AmItheAsshole", "subreddit_id": "t5_2xhvq", "subreddit_name_prefixed": "r/AmItheAsshole", "subreddit_subscribers": 24050251, "subreddit_type": "public", "suggested_sort": "top", "thread_id": "t3_azvko1", "thumbnail": "", "title": "UPDATE, AITA for despising my mentally handicap sister?", "top_awarded_type": null, "total_awards_received": 0, "treatment_tags": [], "unrepliable_reason": null, "ups": 72778, "upvote_ratio": 0.96, "url": "https://www.reddit.com/r/AmItheAsshole/comments/azvko1/update_aita_for_despising_my_mentally_handicap/", "user_reports": [], "view_count": null, "visited": false, "wls": 7}, "role": "Renegadesrule33"}]
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Too right my guy, the sad thing is is that he should have had to be as kind and good as he was. The parents where disgusting people who robbed someone of the necessary childhood experiences and felt no remorse for it.
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My grandpa told me some things that I don't feel comfortable repeating here but in essence my sister is \"supposed\" to be getting care from a professional and that my parents were ignoring that, along with this I was not supposed to be caring for her at all with her mental state as apparently she is a danger to herself and others. With everything else I told him, along with stuff like the movie indecent he was really mad and told me to not contact my parents without him there. He pretty much told me that he would be meeting with my parents beforehand and that he was going to be there when I sat down with them. It didn't end here either, the rest of the week consisted of other family checking in on me and telling me things my parents hid from me. This included the fact that my parents have been taking money from family to fund a \"caretaker\" that doesn't exist.\n\nSuffice to say, this week has been rough. But, the upside is that even through all this, my extended family has been giving me more love than i've felt in a while. My grandfather spent this last week \"making up for the time i've lost.\" Encouraging me to spend time with friends and do things I want to do. My aunts and uncles have also been helping me through the week.\n\nWell, Saturday night I sat down with parents to talk. It went badly to say the least. They came clean to me about everything. They told me things I will not repeat here. But they did not apologize. My parents still claim that I some how owed my sister my time. My father even saying \"You were put here to be her caretaker\". I won't lie and say I was composed. After everything i learned I confronted them. On the fact that my sister needed a caretaker. The money my dad was taking from his sister, and a few other things. They denied it or made excuses. And in the end, we ended off in a worse place than before.\n\nToday will be my last time talking to them for a while. After talking with my grandfather and uncle last night, I'm not going back. Later today i'm going there and picking up my stuff and moving in with my grandfather. When I graduate high school i'm planning on leaving the state to go to school. My aunt has told me that the money she was sending my dad will be instead be coming to me from now on. My parents have called me twice since Saturday, neither of them were to apologize and only ask when I was coming home.\n\nI won't be going back to them. Right now I still feel pretty uneasy about everything but I feel like that will pass. The rest of my family is showing their support to me and honestly, it feel great. But in the end I lost my parents. Over all of this, i've learned something that I wished I saw earlier. I don't hat my sister. In fact I love her with all my heart. I should never have never projected my hate onto her. That was wrong, and someday I hope to make up for it. But for now I need to leave.\n\nSo, there's my update. Thanks again for the support my original post got. I really appreciate everyone who took the time to comment or show me support. Thanks you.\n\n\n\n\n\nEdit: Thank you all so much! I wish I could respond to every single one of you but my lunch only lasts so long. I'll update tonight how the move out went but until then, thank you all. I want to say that your support has been amazing and your kindness means more to me than anyone could ever imagine.\n\n\n\nLate edit: Wow, I never imagined my story would reach the popularity it did. I know it's kinda cliche and i've said it a thousand times but thank you all. \n\n\n\nWe just got back from moving my things out of my parents house. Every thing I wanted to take my grandpa and uncle helped move and it's at my grandpa's house now. I have my birth certificate, social security card, and every other document and record I could think of. My parents were quiet the whole time I was there. Shorty after I arrived my dad left with my sister and my mom only hovered over us silently as me moved. It took a while but as we left she broke down and told me she loved me and would miss me. I hugged her and said goodbye, and that was it. Even now I sit here and think if she really meant it. After this whole week of her not saying anything she waited till the end. I hope she meant it. Right now though, I think I just need to look ahead. Maybe one day me and my parents can reconnect. I hope so.\n\n\n\nThank you all for the advice and love. It's been amazing and i'm glad that through this experience I at least got some positive out of this mess. Will I come back? I don't know. If something happens and you guys still want an update i'll maybe come around again. But for now I'm going to move on. For all those out there who shared their stories with me, thank you, and I hope to see you on the other side. 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My [original post](https://www.reddit.com/r/AmItheAsshole/comments/awyi8k/aita_for_despising_my_mentally_handicap_sister/) got a lot of attention and seeing as you guys seem interested, here's my update.\n\nWell, since that day I made the post i've been staying with my grandfather. The week's been honestly a huge change for me for better and for worse but i'll try to run it down.\n\nI started by telling my grandpa the story of why I broke down the way I did and to be honest, he seemed horrified. No one in my family knew my parents were using me as essentially a free care service for my sister. My grandpa told me some things that I don't feel comfortable repeating here but in essence my sister is \"supposed\" to be getting care from a professional and that my parents were ignoring that, along with this I was not supposed to be caring for her at all with her mental state as apparently she is a danger to herself and others. With everything else I told him, along with stuff like the movie indecent he was really mad and told me to not contact my parents without him there. He pretty much told me that he would be meeting with my parents beforehand and that he was going to be there when I sat down with them. It didn't end here either, the rest of the week consisted of other family checking in on me and telling me things my parents hid from me. This included the fact that my parents have been taking money from family to fund a \"caretaker\" that doesn't exist.\n\nSuffice to say, this week has been rough. But, the upside is that even through all this, my extended family has been giving me more love than i've felt in a while. My grandfather spent this last week \"making up for the time i've lost.\" Encouraging me to spend time with friends and do things I want to do. My aunts and uncles have also been helping me through the week.\n\nWell, Saturday night I sat down with parents to talk. It went badly to say the least. They came clean to me about everything. They told me things I will not repeat here. But they did not apologize. My parents still claim that I some how owed my sister my time. My father even saying \"You were put here to be her caretaker\". I won't lie and say I was composed. After everything i learned I confronted them. On the fact that my sister needed a caretaker. The money my dad was taking from his sister, and a few other things. They denied it or made excuses. And in the end, we ended off in a worse place than before.\n\nToday will be my last time talking to them for a while. After talking with my grandfather and uncle last night, I'm not going back. Later today i'm going there and picking up my stuff and moving in with my grandfather. When I graduate high school i'm planning on leaving the state to go to school. My aunt has told me that the money she was sending my dad will be instead be coming to me from now on. My parents have called me twice since Saturday, neither of them were to apologize and only ask when I was coming home.\n\nI won't be going back to them. Right now I still feel pretty uneasy about everything but I feel like that will pass. The rest of my family is showing their support to me and honestly, it feel great. But in the end I lost my parents. Over all of this, i've learned something that I wished I saw earlier. I don't hat my sister. In fact I love her with all my heart. I should never have never projected my hate onto her. That was wrong, and someday I hope to make up for it. But for now I need to leave.\n\nSo, there's my update. Thanks again for the support my original post got. I really appreciate everyone who took the time to comment or show me support. Thanks you.\n\n​\n\n​\n\nEdit: Thank you all so much! I wish I could respond to every single one of you but my lunch only lasts so long. I'll update tonight how the move out went but until then, thank you all. I want to say that your support has been amazing and your kindness means more to me than anyone could ever imagine.\n\n​\n\nLate edit: Wow, I never imagined my story would reach the popularity it did. I know it's kinda cliche and i've said it a thousand times but thank you all. \n\n​\n\nWe just got back from moving my things out of my parents house. Every thing I wanted to take my grandpa and uncle helped move and it's at my grandpa's house now. I have my birth certificate, social security card, and every other document and record I could think of. My parents were quiet the whole time I was there. Shorty after I arrived my dad left with my sister and my mom only hovered over us silently as me moved. It took a while but as we left she broke down and told me she loved me and would miss me. I hugged her and said goodbye, and that was it. Even now I sit here and think if she really meant it. After this whole week of her not saying anything she waited till the end. I hope she meant it. Right now though, I think I just need to look ahead. Maybe one day me and my parents can reconnect. I hope so.\n\n​\n\nThank you all for the advice and love. It's been amazing and i'm glad that through this experience I at least got some positive out of this mess. Will I come back? I don't know. If something happens and you guys still want an update i'll maybe come around again. But for now I'm going to move on. For all those out there who shared their stories with me, thank you, and I hope to see you on the other side. See you space cowboy's :)", "selftext_html": "<!-- SC_OFF --><div class=\"md\"><p>I'm back like I said I would be,. My <a href=\"https://www.reddit.com/r/AmItheAsshole/comments/awyi8k/aita_for_despising_my_mentally_handicap_sister/\">original post</a> got a lot of attention and seeing as you guys seem interested, here's my update.</p>\n\n<p>Well, since that day I made the post i've been staying with my grandfather. The week's been honestly a huge change for me for better and for worse but i'll try to run it down.</p>\n\n<p>I started by telling my grandpa the story of why I broke down the way I did and to be honest, he seemed horrified. No one in my family knew my parents were using me as essentially a free care service for my sister. My grandpa told me some things that I don't feel comfortable repeating here but in essence my sister is "supposed" to be getting care from a professional and that my parents were ignoring that, along with this I was not supposed to be caring for her at all with her mental state as apparently she is a danger to herself and others. With everything else I told him, along with stuff like the movie indecent he was really mad and told me to not contact my parents without him there. He pretty much told me that he would be meeting with my parents beforehand and that he was going to be there when I sat down with them. It didn't end here either, the rest of the week consisted of other family checking in on me and telling me things my parents hid from me. This included the fact that my parents have been taking money from family to fund a "caretaker" that doesn't exist.</p>\n\n<p>Suffice to say, this week has been rough. But, the upside is that even through all this, my extended family has been giving me more love than i've felt in a while. My grandfather spent this last week "making up for the time i've lost." Encouraging me to spend time with friends and do things I want to do. My aunts and uncles have also been helping me through the week.</p>\n\n<p>Well, Saturday night I sat down with parents to talk. It went badly to say the least. They came clean to me about everything. They told me things I will not repeat here. But they did not apologize. My parents still claim that I some how owed my sister my time. My father even saying "You were put here to be her caretaker". I won't lie and say I was composed. After everything i learned I confronted them. On the fact that my sister needed a caretaker. The money my dad was taking from his sister, and a few other things. They denied it or made excuses. And in the end, we ended off in a worse place than before.</p>\n\n<p>Today will be my last time talking to them for a while. After talking with my grandfather and uncle last night, I'm not going back. Later today i'm going there and picking up my stuff and moving in with my grandfather. When I graduate high school i'm planning on leaving the state to go to school. My aunt has told me that the money she was sending my dad will be instead be coming to me from now on. My parents have called me twice since Saturday, neither of them were to apologize and only ask when I was coming home.</p>\n\n<p>I won't be going back to them. Right now I still feel pretty uneasy about everything but I feel like that will pass. The rest of my family is showing their support to me and honestly, it feel great. But in the end I lost my parents. Over all of this, i've learned something that I wished I saw earlier. I don't hat my sister. In fact I love her with all my heart. I should never have never projected my hate onto her. That was wrong, and someday I hope to make up for it. But for now I need to leave.</p>\n\n<p>So, there's my update. Thanks again for the support my original post got. I really appreciate everyone who took the time to comment or show me support. Thanks you.</p>\n\n<p>​</p>\n\n<p>​</p>\n\n<p>Edit: Thank you all so much! I wish I could respond to every single one of you but my lunch only lasts so long. I'll update tonight how the move out went but until then, thank you all. I want to say that your support has been amazing and your kindness means more to me than anyone could ever imagine.</p>\n\n<p>​</p>\n\n<p>Late edit: Wow, I never imagined my story would reach the popularity it did. I know it's kinda cliche and i've said it a thousand times but thank you all. </p>\n\n<p>​</p>\n\n<p>We just got back from moving my things out of my parents house. Every thing I wanted to take my grandpa and uncle helped move and it's at my grandpa's house now. I have my birth certificate, social security card, and every other document and record I could think of. My parents were quiet the whole time I was there. Shorty after I arrived my dad left with my sister and my mom only hovered over us silently as me moved. It took a while but as we left she broke down and told me she loved me and would miss me. I hugged her and said goodbye, and that was it. Even now I sit here and think if she really meant it. After this whole week of her not saying anything she waited till the end. I hope she meant it. Right now though, I think I just need to look ahead. Maybe one day me and my parents can reconnect. I hope so.</p>\n\n<p>​</p>\n\n<p>Thank you all for the advice and love. It's been amazing and i'm glad that through this experience I at least got some positive out of this mess. Will I come back? I don't know. If something happens and you guys still want an update i'll maybe come around again. But for now I'm going to move on. For all those out there who shared their stories with me, thank you, and I hope to see you on the other side. See you space cowboy's :)</p>\n</div><!-- SC_ON -->", "send_replies": true, "spoiler": false, "stickied": false, "subreddit": "r/AmItheAsshole", "subreddit_id": "t5_2xhvq", "subreddit_name_prefixed": "r/AmItheAsshole", "subreddit_subscribers": 24050251, "subreddit_type": "public", "suggested_sort": "top", "thread_id": "t3_azvko1", "thumbnail": "", "title": "UPDATE, AITA for despising my mentally handicap sister?", "top_awarded_type": null, "total_awards_received": 0, "treatment_tags": [], "unrepliable_reason": null, "ups": 72778, "upvote_ratio": 0.96, "url": "https://www.reddit.com/r/AmItheAsshole/comments/azvko1/update_aita_for_despising_my_mentally_handicap/", "user_reports": [], "view_count": null, "visited": false, "wls": 7}, "role": "Renegadesrule33"}, {"content": "Wow. OP's grandfather is a saint.", "metadata": {"_additional_fetch_params": null, "_comments_by_id": null, "_fetched": true, "all_awardings": [], "allow_live_comments": null, "approved_at_utc": null, "approved_by": null, "archived": true, "associated_award": null, "author": "darkxxmist01", "author_cakeday": null, "author_flair_background_color": null, "author_flair_css_class": null, "author_flair_richtext": [], "author_flair_template_id": null, "author_flair_text": null, "author_flair_text_color": null, "author_flair_type": "text", "author_fullname": "t2_kn2cu9v", "author_is_blocked": false, "author_patreon_flair": false, "author_premium": false, "awarders": [], "banned_at_utc": null, "banned_by": null, "body": "Wow. OP's grandfather is a saint.", "body_html": "<div class=\"md\"><p>Wow. OP's grandfather is a saint.</p>\n</div>", "can_gild": false, "can_mod_post": false, "category": null, "clicked": null, "collapsed": false, "collapsed_because_crowd_control": null, "collapsed_reason": null, "collapsed_reason_code": null, "comment_limit": null, "comment_sort": null, "comment_type": null, "content_categories": null, "contest_mode": null, "controversiality": 0, "created": 1552323212.0, "created_utc": 1552323212.0, "depth": 0, "discussion_type": null, "distinguished": null, "domain": null, "downs": 0, "edited": 0.0, "gilded": 1, "gildings": null, "hidden": null, "hide_score": null, "id": "eiacma1", "is_created_from_ads_ui": null, "is_crosspostable": null, "is_meta": null, "is_original_content": null, "is_reddit_media_domain": null, "is_robot_indexable": null, "is_self": null, "is_submitter": false, "is_video": null, "likes": null, "link_flair_background_color": null, "link_flair_css_class": null, "link_flair_richtext": null, "link_flair_template_id": null, "link_flair_text": null, "link_flair_text_color": null, "link_flair_type": null, "link_id": "t3_azvko1", "locked": false, "media": null, "media_embed": null, "media_only": null, "mod_note": null, "mod_reason_by": null, "mod_reason_title": null, "mod_reports": [], "name": "t1_eiacma1", "no_follow": false, "num_comments": null, "num_crossposts": null, "num_reports": null, "over_18": null, "parent_id": "t3_azvko1", "permalink": "/r/AmItheAsshole/comments/azvko1/update_aita_for_despising_my_mentally_handicap/eiacma1/", "pinned": null, "pwls": null, "quarantine": null, "removal_reason": null, "removed_by": null, "removed_by_category": null, "report_reasons": null, "saved": false, "score": 27523, "score_hidden": false, "secure_media": null, "secure_media_embed": null, "selftext": null, "selftext_html": null, "send_replies": true, "spoiler": null, "stickied": false, "subreddit": "AmItheAsshole", "subreddit_id": "t5_2xhvq", "subreddit_name_prefixed": "r/AmItheAsshole", "subreddit_subscribers": null, "subreddit_type": "public", "suggested_sort": null, "thread_id": null, "thumbnail": null, "title": null, "top_awarded_type": null, "total_awards_received": 0, "treatment_tags": [], "unrepliable_reason": null, "ups": 27523, "upvote_ratio": null, "url": null, "user_reports": [], "view_count": null, "visited": null, "wls": null}, "role": "darkxxmist01"}]
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My grandpa told me some things that I don't feel comfortable repeating here but in essence my sister is \"supposed\" to be getting care from a professional and that my parents were ignoring that, along with this I was not supposed to be caring for her at all with her mental state as apparently she is a danger to herself and others. With everything else I told him, along with stuff like the movie indecent he was really mad and told me to not contact my parents without him there. He pretty much told me that he would be meeting with my parents beforehand and that he was going to be there when I sat down with them. It didn't end here either, the rest of the week consisted of other family checking in on me and telling me things my parents hid from me. This included the fact that my parents have been taking money from family to fund a \"caretaker\" that doesn't exist.\n\nSuffice to say, this week has been rough. But, the upside is that even through all this, my extended family has been giving me more love than i've felt in a while. My grandfather spent this last week \"making up for the time i've lost.\" Encouraging me to spend time with friends and do things I want to do. My aunts and uncles have also been helping me through the week.\n\nWell, Saturday night I sat down with parents to talk. It went badly to say the least. They came clean to me about everything. They told me things I will not repeat here. But they did not apologize. My parents still claim that I some how owed my sister my time. My father even saying \"You were put here to be her caretaker\". I won't lie and say I was composed. After everything i learned I confronted them. On the fact that my sister needed a caretaker. The money my dad was taking from his sister, and a few other things. They denied it or made excuses. And in the end, we ended off in a worse place than before.\n\nToday will be my last time talking to them for a while. After talking with my grandfather and uncle last night, I'm not going back. Later today i'm going there and picking up my stuff and moving in with my grandfather. When I graduate high school i'm planning on leaving the state to go to school. My aunt has told me that the money she was sending my dad will be instead be coming to me from now on. My parents have called me twice since Saturday, neither of them were to apologize and only ask when I was coming home.\n\nI won't be going back to them. Right now I still feel pretty uneasy about everything but I feel like that will pass. The rest of my family is showing their support to me and honestly, it feel great. But in the end I lost my parents. Over all of this, i've learned something that I wished I saw earlier. I don't hat my sister. In fact I love her with all my heart. I should never have never projected my hate onto her. That was wrong, and someday I hope to make up for it. But for now I need to leave.\n\nSo, there's my update. Thanks again for the support my original post got. I really appreciate everyone who took the time to comment or show me support. Thanks you.\n\n\n\n\n\nEdit: Thank you all so much! I wish I could respond to every single one of you but my lunch only lasts so long. I'll update tonight how the move out went but until then, thank you all. I want to say that your support has been amazing and your kindness means more to me than anyone could ever imagine.\n\n\n\nLate edit: Wow, I never imagined my story would reach the popularity it did. I know it's kinda cliche and i've said it a thousand times but thank you all. \n\n\n\nWe just got back from moving my things out of my parents house. Every thing I wanted to take my grandpa and uncle helped move and it's at my grandpa's house now. I have my birth certificate, social security card, and every other document and record I could think of. My parents were quiet the whole time I was there. Shorty after I arrived my dad left with my sister and my mom only hovered over us silently as me moved. It took a while but as we left she broke down and told me she loved me and would miss me. I hugged her and said goodbye, and that was it. Even now I sit here and think if she really meant it. After this whole week of her not saying anything she waited till the end. I hope she meant it. Right now though, I think I just need to look ahead. Maybe one day me and my parents can reconnect. I hope so.\n\n\n\nThank you all for the advice and love. It's been amazing and i'm glad that through this experience I at least got some positive out of this mess. Will I come back? I don't know. If something happens and you guys still want an update i'll maybe come around again. But for now I'm going to move on. For all those out there who shared their stories with me, thank you, and I hope to see you on the other side. See you space cowboy's :)", "metadata": {"_additional_fetch_params": null, "_comments_by_id": null, "_fetched": false, "all_awardings": [], "allow_live_comments": true, "approved_at_utc": null, "approved_by": null, "archived": true, "associated_award": null, "author": "Renegadesrule33", "author_cakeday": null, "author_flair_background_color": null, "author_flair_css_class": null, "author_flair_richtext": [], "author_flair_template_id": null, "author_flair_text": null, "author_flair_text_color": null, "author_flair_type": "text", "author_fullname": "t2_3c816wqd", "author_is_blocked": false, "author_patreon_flair": false, "author_premium": false, "awarders": [], "banned_at_utc": null, "banned_by": null, "body": null, "body_html": null, "can_gild": false, "can_mod_post": false, "category": null, "clicked": false, "collapsed": null, "collapsed_because_crowd_control": null, "collapsed_reason": null, "collapsed_reason_code": null, "comment_limit": 2048, "comment_sort": "confidence", "comment_type": null, "content_categories": null, "contest_mode": false, "controversiality": null, "created": 1552322462.0, "created_utc": 1552322462.0, "depth": null, "discussion_type": null, "distinguished": null, "domain": "self.AmItheAsshole", "downs": 0, "edited": 1552376988.0, "gilded": 22, "gildings": null, "hidden": false, "hide_score": false, "id": "azvko1", "is_created_from_ads_ui": false, "is_crosspostable": false, "is_meta": false, "is_original_content": false, "is_reddit_media_domain": false, "is_robot_indexable": true, "is_self": true, "is_submitter": null, "is_video": false, "likes": null, "link_flair_background_color": "#ffd635", "link_flair_css_class": "", "link_flair_richtext": [], "link_flair_template_id": "47fdebc0-d3af-11e8-80cb-0e369ce83cd4", "link_flair_text": "UPDATE", "link_flair_text_color": null, "link_flair_type": "text", "link_id": null, "locked": false, "media": null, "media_embed": null, "media_only": false, "mod_note": null, "mod_reason_by": null, "mod_reason_title": null, "mod_reports": [], "name": "t3_azvko1", "no_follow": false, "num_comments": 1970, "num_crossposts": 8, "num_reports": null, "over_18": false, "parent_id": null, "permalink": "/r/AmItheAsshole/comments/azvko1/update_aita_for_despising_my_mentally_handicap/", "pinned": false, "pwls": 7, "quarantine": false, "removal_reason": null, "removed_by": null, "removed_by_category": null, "report_reasons": null, "saved": false, "score": 72778, "score_hidden": null, "secure_media": null, "secure_media_embed": null, "selftext": "I'm back like I said I would be,. My [original post](https://www.reddit.com/r/AmItheAsshole/comments/awyi8k/aita_for_despising_my_mentally_handicap_sister/) got a lot of attention and seeing as you guys seem interested, here's my update.\n\nWell, since that day I made the post i've been staying with my grandfather. The week's been honestly a huge change for me for better and for worse but i'll try to run it down.\n\nI started by telling my grandpa the story of why I broke down the way I did and to be honest, he seemed horrified. No one in my family knew my parents were using me as essentially a free care service for my sister. My grandpa told me some things that I don't feel comfortable repeating here but in essence my sister is \"supposed\" to be getting care from a professional and that my parents were ignoring that, along with this I was not supposed to be caring for her at all with her mental state as apparently she is a danger to herself and others. With everything else I told him, along with stuff like the movie indecent he was really mad and told me to not contact my parents without him there. He pretty much told me that he would be meeting with my parents beforehand and that he was going to be there when I sat down with them. It didn't end here either, the rest of the week consisted of other family checking in on me and telling me things my parents hid from me. This included the fact that my parents have been taking money from family to fund a \"caretaker\" that doesn't exist.\n\nSuffice to say, this week has been rough. But, the upside is that even through all this, my extended family has been giving me more love than i've felt in a while. My grandfather spent this last week \"making up for the time i've lost.\" Encouraging me to spend time with friends and do things I want to do. My aunts and uncles have also been helping me through the week.\n\nWell, Saturday night I sat down with parents to talk. It went badly to say the least. They came clean to me about everything. They told me things I will not repeat here. But they did not apologize. My parents still claim that I some how owed my sister my time. My father even saying \"You were put here to be her caretaker\". I won't lie and say I was composed. After everything i learned I confronted them. On the fact that my sister needed a caretaker. The money my dad was taking from his sister, and a few other things. They denied it or made excuses. And in the end, we ended off in a worse place than before.\n\nToday will be my last time talking to them for a while. After talking with my grandfather and uncle last night, I'm not going back. Later today i'm going there and picking up my stuff and moving in with my grandfather. When I graduate high school i'm planning on leaving the state to go to school. My aunt has told me that the money she was sending my dad will be instead be coming to me from now on. My parents have called me twice since Saturday, neither of them were to apologize and only ask when I was coming home.\n\nI won't be going back to them. Right now I still feel pretty uneasy about everything but I feel like that will pass. The rest of my family is showing their support to me and honestly, it feel great. But in the end I lost my parents. Over all of this, i've learned something that I wished I saw earlier. I don't hat my sister. In fact I love her with all my heart. I should never have never projected my hate onto her. That was wrong, and someday I hope to make up for it. But for now I need to leave.\n\nSo, there's my update. Thanks again for the support my original post got. I really appreciate everyone who took the time to comment or show me support. Thanks you.\n\n​\n\n​\n\nEdit: Thank you all so much! I wish I could respond to every single one of you but my lunch only lasts so long. I'll update tonight how the move out went but until then, thank you all. I want to say that your support has been amazing and your kindness means more to me than anyone could ever imagine.\n\n​\n\nLate edit: Wow, I never imagined my story would reach the popularity it did. I know it's kinda cliche and i've said it a thousand times but thank you all. \n\n​\n\nWe just got back from moving my things out of my parents house. Every thing I wanted to take my grandpa and uncle helped move and it's at my grandpa's house now. I have my birth certificate, social security card, and every other document and record I could think of. My parents were quiet the whole time I was there. Shorty after I arrived my dad left with my sister and my mom only hovered over us silently as me moved. It took a while but as we left she broke down and told me she loved me and would miss me. I hugged her and said goodbye, and that was it. Even now I sit here and think if she really meant it. After this whole week of her not saying anything she waited till the end. I hope she meant it. Right now though, I think I just need to look ahead. Maybe one day me and my parents can reconnect. I hope so.\n\n​\n\nThank you all for the advice and love. It's been amazing and i'm glad that through this experience I at least got some positive out of this mess. Will I come back? I don't know. If something happens and you guys still want an update i'll maybe come around again. But for now I'm going to move on. For all those out there who shared their stories with me, thank you, and I hope to see you on the other side. See you space cowboy's :)", "selftext_html": "<!-- SC_OFF --><div class=\"md\"><p>I'm back like I said I would be,. My <a href=\"https://www.reddit.com/r/AmItheAsshole/comments/awyi8k/aita_for_despising_my_mentally_handicap_sister/\">original post</a> got a lot of attention and seeing as you guys seem interested, here's my update.</p>\n\n<p>Well, since that day I made the post i've been staying with my grandfather. The week's been honestly a huge change for me for better and for worse but i'll try to run it down.</p>\n\n<p>I started by telling my grandpa the story of why I broke down the way I did and to be honest, he seemed horrified. No one in my family knew my parents were using me as essentially a free care service for my sister. My grandpa told me some things that I don't feel comfortable repeating here but in essence my sister is "supposed" to be getting care from a professional and that my parents were ignoring that, along with this I was not supposed to be caring for her at all with her mental state as apparently she is a danger to herself and others. With everything else I told him, along with stuff like the movie indecent he was really mad and told me to not contact my parents without him there. He pretty much told me that he would be meeting with my parents beforehand and that he was going to be there when I sat down with them. It didn't end here either, the rest of the week consisted of other family checking in on me and telling me things my parents hid from me. This included the fact that my parents have been taking money from family to fund a "caretaker" that doesn't exist.</p>\n\n<p>Suffice to say, this week has been rough. But, the upside is that even through all this, my extended family has been giving me more love than i've felt in a while. My grandfather spent this last week "making up for the time i've lost." Encouraging me to spend time with friends and do things I want to do. My aunts and uncles have also been helping me through the week.</p>\n\n<p>Well, Saturday night I sat down with parents to talk. It went badly to say the least. They came clean to me about everything. They told me things I will not repeat here. But they did not apologize. My parents still claim that I some how owed my sister my time. My father even saying "You were put here to be her caretaker". I won't lie and say I was composed. After everything i learned I confronted them. On the fact that my sister needed a caretaker. The money my dad was taking from his sister, and a few other things. They denied it or made excuses. And in the end, we ended off in a worse place than before.</p>\n\n<p>Today will be my last time talking to them for a while. After talking with my grandfather and uncle last night, I'm not going back. Later today i'm going there and picking up my stuff and moving in with my grandfather. When I graduate high school i'm planning on leaving the state to go to school. My aunt has told me that the money she was sending my dad will be instead be coming to me from now on. My parents have called me twice since Saturday, neither of them were to apologize and only ask when I was coming home.</p>\n\n<p>I won't be going back to them. Right now I still feel pretty uneasy about everything but I feel like that will pass. The rest of my family is showing their support to me and honestly, it feel great. But in the end I lost my parents. Over all of this, i've learned something that I wished I saw earlier. I don't hat my sister. In fact I love her with all my heart. I should never have never projected my hate onto her. That was wrong, and someday I hope to make up for it. But for now I need to leave.</p>\n\n<p>So, there's my update. Thanks again for the support my original post got. I really appreciate everyone who took the time to comment or show me support. Thanks you.</p>\n\n<p>​</p>\n\n<p>​</p>\n\n<p>Edit: Thank you all so much! I wish I could respond to every single one of you but my lunch only lasts so long. I'll update tonight how the move out went but until then, thank you all. I want to say that your support has been amazing and your kindness means more to me than anyone could ever imagine.</p>\n\n<p>​</p>\n\n<p>Late edit: Wow, I never imagined my story would reach the popularity it did. I know it's kinda cliche and i've said it a thousand times but thank you all. </p>\n\n<p>​</p>\n\n<p>We just got back from moving my things out of my parents house. Every thing I wanted to take my grandpa and uncle helped move and it's at my grandpa's house now. I have my birth certificate, social security card, and every other document and record I could think of. My parents were quiet the whole time I was there. Shorty after I arrived my dad left with my sister and my mom only hovered over us silently as me moved. It took a while but as we left she broke down and told me she loved me and would miss me. I hugged her and said goodbye, and that was it. Even now I sit here and think if she really meant it. After this whole week of her not saying anything she waited till the end. I hope she meant it. Right now though, I think I just need to look ahead. Maybe one day me and my parents can reconnect. I hope so.</p>\n\n<p>​</p>\n\n<p>Thank you all for the advice and love. It's been amazing and i'm glad that through this experience I at least got some positive out of this mess. Will I come back? I don't know. If something happens and you guys still want an update i'll maybe come around again. But for now I'm going to move on. For all those out there who shared their stories with me, thank you, and I hope to see you on the other side. See you space cowboy's :)</p>\n</div><!-- SC_ON -->", "send_replies": true, "spoiler": false, "stickied": false, "subreddit": "r/AmItheAsshole", "subreddit_id": "t5_2xhvq", "subreddit_name_prefixed": "r/AmItheAsshole", "subreddit_subscribers": 24050251, "subreddit_type": "public", "suggested_sort": "top", "thread_id": "t3_azvko1", "thumbnail": "", "title": "UPDATE, AITA for despising my mentally handicap sister?", "top_awarded_type": null, "total_awards_received": 0, "treatment_tags": [], "unrepliable_reason": null, "ups": 72778, "upvote_ratio": 0.96, "url": "https://www.reddit.com/r/AmItheAsshole/comments/azvko1/update_aita_for_despising_my_mentally_handicap/", "user_reports": [], "view_count": null, "visited": false, "wls": 7}, "role": "Renegadesrule33"}, {"content": "Wow. OP's grandfather is a saint.", "metadata": {"_additional_fetch_params": null, "_comments_by_id": null, "_fetched": true, "all_awardings": [], "allow_live_comments": null, "approved_at_utc": null, "approved_by": null, "archived": true, "associated_award": null, "author": "darkxxmist01", "author_cakeday": null, "author_flair_background_color": null, "author_flair_css_class": null, "author_flair_richtext": [], "author_flair_template_id": null, "author_flair_text": null, "author_flair_text_color": null, "author_flair_type": "text", "author_fullname": "t2_kn2cu9v", "author_is_blocked": false, "author_patreon_flair": false, "author_premium": false, "awarders": [], "banned_at_utc": null, "banned_by": null, "body": "Wow. OP's grandfather is a saint.", "body_html": "<div class=\"md\"><p>Wow. OP's grandfather is a saint.</p>\n</div>", "can_gild": false, "can_mod_post": false, "category": null, "clicked": null, "collapsed": false, "collapsed_because_crowd_control": null, "collapsed_reason": null, "collapsed_reason_code": null, "comment_limit": null, "comment_sort": null, "comment_type": null, "content_categories": null, "contest_mode": null, "controversiality": 0, "created": 1552323212.0, "created_utc": 1552323212.0, "depth": 0, "discussion_type": null, "distinguished": null, "domain": null, "downs": 0, "edited": 0.0, "gilded": 1, "gildings": null, "hidden": null, "hide_score": null, "id": "eiacma1", "is_created_from_ads_ui": null, "is_crosspostable": null, "is_meta": null, "is_original_content": null, "is_reddit_media_domain": null, "is_robot_indexable": null, "is_self": null, "is_submitter": false, "is_video": null, "likes": null, "link_flair_background_color": null, "link_flair_css_class": null, "link_flair_richtext": null, "link_flair_template_id": null, "link_flair_text": null, "link_flair_text_color": null, "link_flair_type": null, "link_id": "t3_azvko1", "locked": false, "media": null, "media_embed": null, "media_only": null, "mod_note": null, "mod_reason_by": null, "mod_reason_title": null, "mod_reports": [], "name": "t1_eiacma1", "no_follow": false, "num_comments": null, "num_crossposts": null, "num_reports": null, "over_18": null, "parent_id": "t3_azvko1", "permalink": "/r/AmItheAsshole/comments/azvko1/update_aita_for_despising_my_mentally_handicap/eiacma1/", "pinned": null, "pwls": null, "quarantine": null, "removal_reason": null, "removed_by": null, "removed_by_category": null, "report_reasons": null, "saved": false, "score": 27523, "score_hidden": false, "secure_media": null, "secure_media_embed": null, "selftext": null, "selftext_html": null, "send_replies": true, "spoiler": null, "stickied": false, "subreddit": "AmItheAsshole", "subreddit_id": "t5_2xhvq", "subreddit_name_prefixed": "r/AmItheAsshole", "subreddit_subscribers": null, "subreddit_type": "public", "suggested_sort": null, "thread_id": null, "thumbnail": null, "title": null, "top_awarded_type": null, "total_awards_received": 0, "treatment_tags": [], "unrepliable_reason": null, "ups": 27523, "upvote_ratio": null, "url": null, "user_reports": [], "view_count": null, "visited": null, "wls": null}, "role": "darkxxmist01"}, {"content": "Too right my guy, the sad thing is is that he should have had to be as kind and good as he was. The parents where disgusting people who robbed someone of the necessary childhood experiences and felt no remorse for it.", "metadata": {"_additional_fetch_params": null, "_comments_by_id": null, "_fetched": true, "all_awardings": [], "allow_live_comments": null, "approved_at_utc": null, "approved_by": null, "archived": true, "associated_award": null, "author": "Mrphobics", "author_cakeday": null, "author_flair_background_color": null, "author_flair_css_class": null, "author_flair_richtext": [], "author_flair_template_id": null, "author_flair_text": null, "author_flair_text_color": null, "author_flair_type": "text", "author_fullname": "t2_2cn97oz0", "author_is_blocked": false, "author_patreon_flair": false, "author_premium": false, "awarders": [], "banned_at_utc": null, "banned_by": null, "body": "Too right my guy, the sad thing is is that he should have had to be as kind and good as he was. The parents where disgusting people who robbed someone of the necessary childhood experiences and felt no remorse for it.", "body_html": "<div class=\"md\"><p>Too right my guy, the sad thing is is that he should have had to be as kind and good as he was. The parents where disgusting people who robbed someone of the necessary childhood experiences and felt no remorse for it.</p>\n</div>", "can_gild": false, "can_mod_post": false, "category": null, "clicked": null, "collapsed": false, "collapsed_because_crowd_control": null, "collapsed_reason": null, "collapsed_reason_code": null, "comment_limit": null, "comment_sort": null, "comment_type": null, "content_categories": null, "contest_mode": null, "controversiality": 0, "created": 1552325639.0, "created_utc": 1552325639.0, "depth": 1, "discussion_type": null, "distinguished": null, "domain": null, "downs": 0, "edited": 0.0, "gilded": 0, "gildings": null, "hidden": null, "hide_score": null, "id": "eiag7ex", "is_created_from_ads_ui": null, "is_crosspostable": null, "is_meta": null, "is_original_content": null, "is_reddit_media_domain": null, "is_robot_indexable": null, "is_self": null, "is_submitter": false, "is_video": null, "likes": null, "link_flair_background_color": null, "link_flair_css_class": null, "link_flair_richtext": null, "link_flair_template_id": null, "link_flair_text": null, "link_flair_text_color": null, "link_flair_type": null, "link_id": "t3_azvko1", "locked": false, "media": null, "media_embed": null, "media_only": null, "mod_note": null, "mod_reason_by": null, "mod_reason_title": null, "mod_reports": [], "name": "t1_eiag7ex", "no_follow": false, "num_comments": null, "num_crossposts": null, "num_reports": null, "over_18": null, "parent_id": "t1_eiacma1", "permalink": "/r/AmItheAsshole/comments/azvko1/update_aita_for_despising_my_mentally_handicap/eiag7ex/", "pinned": null, "pwls": null, "quarantine": null, "removal_reason": null, "removed_by": null, "removed_by_category": null, "report_reasons": null, "saved": false, "score": 6739, "score_hidden": false, "secure_media": null, "secure_media_embed": null, "selftext": null, "selftext_html": null, "send_replies": true, "spoiler": null, "stickied": false, "subreddit": "AmItheAsshole", "subreddit_id": "t5_2xhvq", "subreddit_name_prefixed": "r/AmItheAsshole", "subreddit_subscribers": null, "subreddit_type": "public", "suggested_sort": null, "thread_id": null, "thumbnail": null, "title": null, "top_awarded_type": null, "total_awards_received": 0, "treatment_tags": [], "unrepliable_reason": null, "ups": 6739, "upvote_ratio": null, "url": null, "user_reports": [], "view_count": null, "visited": null, "wls": null}, "role": "Mrphobics"}]
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My grandpa told me some things that I don't feel comfortable repeating here but in essence my sister is \"supposed\" to be getting care from a professional and that my parents were ignoring that, along with this I was not supposed to be caring for her at all with her mental state as apparently she is a danger to herself and others. With everything else I told him, along with stuff like the movie indecent he was really mad and told me to not contact my parents without him there. He pretty much told me that he would be meeting with my parents beforehand and that he was going to be there when I sat down with them. It didn't end here either, the rest of the week consisted of other family checking in on me and telling me things my parents hid from me. This included the fact that my parents have been taking money from family to fund a \"caretaker\" that doesn't exist.\n\nSuffice to say, this week has been rough. But, the upside is that even through all this, my extended family has been giving me more love than i've felt in a while. My grandfather spent this last week \"making up for the time i've lost.\" Encouraging me to spend time with friends and do things I want to do. My aunts and uncles have also been helping me through the week.\n\nWell, Saturday night I sat down with parents to talk. It went badly to say the least. They came clean to me about everything. They told me things I will not repeat here. But they did not apologize. My parents still claim that I some how owed my sister my time. My father even saying \"You were put here to be her caretaker\". I won't lie and say I was composed. After everything i learned I confronted them. On the fact that my sister needed a caretaker. The money my dad was taking from his sister, and a few other things. They denied it or made excuses. And in the end, we ended off in a worse place than before.\n\nToday will be my last time talking to them for a while. After talking with my grandfather and uncle last night, I'm not going back. Later today i'm going there and picking up my stuff and moving in with my grandfather. When I graduate high school i'm planning on leaving the state to go to school. My aunt has told me that the money she was sending my dad will be instead be coming to me from now on. My parents have called me twice since Saturday, neither of them were to apologize and only ask when I was coming home.\n\nI won't be going back to them. Right now I still feel pretty uneasy about everything but I feel like that will pass. The rest of my family is showing their support to me and honestly, it feel great. But in the end I lost my parents. Over all of this, i've learned something that I wished I saw earlier. I don't hat my sister. In fact I love her with all my heart. I should never have never projected my hate onto her. That was wrong, and someday I hope to make up for it. But for now I need to leave.\n\nSo, there's my update. Thanks again for the support my original post got. I really appreciate everyone who took the time to comment or show me support. Thanks you.\n\n\n\n\n\nEdit: Thank you all so much! I wish I could respond to every single one of you but my lunch only lasts so long. I'll update tonight how the move out went but until then, thank you all. I want to say that your support has been amazing and your kindness means more to me than anyone could ever imagine.\n\n\n\nLate edit: Wow, I never imagined my story would reach the popularity it did. I know it's kinda cliche and i've said it a thousand times but thank you all. \n\n\n\nWe just got back from moving my things out of my parents house. Every thing I wanted to take my grandpa and uncle helped move and it's at my grandpa's house now. I have my birth certificate, social security card, and every other document and record I could think of. My parents were quiet the whole time I was there. Shorty after I arrived my dad left with my sister and my mom only hovered over us silently as me moved. It took a while but as we left she broke down and told me she loved me and would miss me. I hugged her and said goodbye, and that was it. Even now I sit here and think if she really meant it. After this whole week of her not saying anything she waited till the end. I hope she meant it. Right now though, I think I just need to look ahead. Maybe one day me and my parents can reconnect. I hope so.\n\n\n\nThank you all for the advice and love. It's been amazing and i'm glad that through this experience I at least got some positive out of this mess. Will I come back? I don't know. If something happens and you guys still want an update i'll maybe come around again. But for now I'm going to move on. For all those out there who shared their stories with me, thank you, and I hope to see you on the other side. See you space cowboy's :)", "metadata": {"_additional_fetch_params": null, "_comments_by_id": null, "_fetched": false, "all_awardings": [], "allow_live_comments": true, "approved_at_utc": null, "approved_by": null, "archived": true, "associated_award": null, "author": "Renegadesrule33", "author_cakeday": null, "author_flair_background_color": null, "author_flair_css_class": null, "author_flair_richtext": [], "author_flair_template_id": null, "author_flair_text": null, "author_flair_text_color": null, "author_flair_type": "text", "author_fullname": "t2_3c816wqd", "author_is_blocked": false, "author_patreon_flair": false, "author_premium": false, "awarders": [], "banned_at_utc": null, "banned_by": null, "body": null, "body_html": null, "can_gild": false, "can_mod_post": false, "category": null, "clicked": false, "collapsed": null, "collapsed_because_crowd_control": null, "collapsed_reason": null, "collapsed_reason_code": null, "comment_limit": 2048, "comment_sort": "confidence", "comment_type": null, "content_categories": null, "contest_mode": false, "controversiality": null, "created": 1552322462.0, "created_utc": 1552322462.0, "depth": null, "discussion_type": null, "distinguished": null, "domain": "self.AmItheAsshole", "downs": 0, "edited": 1552376988.0, "gilded": 22, "gildings": null, "hidden": false, "hide_score": false, "id": "azvko1", "is_created_from_ads_ui": false, "is_crosspostable": false, "is_meta": false, "is_original_content": false, "is_reddit_media_domain": false, "is_robot_indexable": true, "is_self": true, "is_submitter": null, "is_video": false, "likes": null, "link_flair_background_color": "#ffd635", "link_flair_css_class": "", "link_flair_richtext": [], "link_flair_template_id": "47fdebc0-d3af-11e8-80cb-0e369ce83cd4", "link_flair_text": "UPDATE", "link_flair_text_color": null, "link_flair_type": "text", "link_id": null, "locked": false, "media": null, "media_embed": null, "media_only": false, "mod_note": null, "mod_reason_by": null, "mod_reason_title": null, "mod_reports": [], "name": "t3_azvko1", "no_follow": false, "num_comments": 1970, "num_crossposts": 8, "num_reports": null, "over_18": false, "parent_id": null, "permalink": "/r/AmItheAsshole/comments/azvko1/update_aita_for_despising_my_mentally_handicap/", "pinned": false, "pwls": 7, "quarantine": false, "removal_reason": null, "removed_by": null, "removed_by_category": null, "report_reasons": null, "saved": false, "score": 72778, "score_hidden": null, "secure_media": null, "secure_media_embed": null, "selftext": "I'm back like I said I would be,. My [original post](https://www.reddit.com/r/AmItheAsshole/comments/awyi8k/aita_for_despising_my_mentally_handicap_sister/) got a lot of attention and seeing as you guys seem interested, here's my update.\n\nWell, since that day I made the post i've been staying with my grandfather. The week's been honestly a huge change for me for better and for worse but i'll try to run it down.\n\nI started by telling my grandpa the story of why I broke down the way I did and to be honest, he seemed horrified. No one in my family knew my parents were using me as essentially a free care service for my sister. My grandpa told me some things that I don't feel comfortable repeating here but in essence my sister is \"supposed\" to be getting care from a professional and that my parents were ignoring that, along with this I was not supposed to be caring for her at all with her mental state as apparently she is a danger to herself and others. With everything else I told him, along with stuff like the movie indecent he was really mad and told me to not contact my parents without him there. He pretty much told me that he would be meeting with my parents beforehand and that he was going to be there when I sat down with them. It didn't end here either, the rest of the week consisted of other family checking in on me and telling me things my parents hid from me. This included the fact that my parents have been taking money from family to fund a \"caretaker\" that doesn't exist.\n\nSuffice to say, this week has been rough. But, the upside is that even through all this, my extended family has been giving me more love than i've felt in a while. My grandfather spent this last week \"making up for the time i've lost.\" Encouraging me to spend time with friends and do things I want to do. My aunts and uncles have also been helping me through the week.\n\nWell, Saturday night I sat down with parents to talk. It went badly to say the least. They came clean to me about everything. They told me things I will not repeat here. But they did not apologize. My parents still claim that I some how owed my sister my time. My father even saying \"You were put here to be her caretaker\". I won't lie and say I was composed. After everything i learned I confronted them. On the fact that my sister needed a caretaker. The money my dad was taking from his sister, and a few other things. They denied it or made excuses. And in the end, we ended off in a worse place than before.\n\nToday will be my last time talking to them for a while. After talking with my grandfather and uncle last night, I'm not going back. Later today i'm going there and picking up my stuff and moving in with my grandfather. When I graduate high school i'm planning on leaving the state to go to school. My aunt has told me that the money she was sending my dad will be instead be coming to me from now on. My parents have called me twice since Saturday, neither of them were to apologize and only ask when I was coming home.\n\nI won't be going back to them. Right now I still feel pretty uneasy about everything but I feel like that will pass. The rest of my family is showing their support to me and honestly, it feel great. But in the end I lost my parents. Over all of this, i've learned something that I wished I saw earlier. I don't hat my sister. In fact I love her with all my heart. I should never have never projected my hate onto her. That was wrong, and someday I hope to make up for it. But for now I need to leave.\n\nSo, there's my update. Thanks again for the support my original post got. I really appreciate everyone who took the time to comment or show me support. Thanks you.\n\n​\n\n​\n\nEdit: Thank you all so much! I wish I could respond to every single one of you but my lunch only lasts so long. I'll update tonight how the move out went but until then, thank you all. I want to say that your support has been amazing and your kindness means more to me than anyone could ever imagine.\n\n​\n\nLate edit: Wow, I never imagined my story would reach the popularity it did. I know it's kinda cliche and i've said it a thousand times but thank you all. \n\n​\n\nWe just got back from moving my things out of my parents house. Every thing I wanted to take my grandpa and uncle helped move and it's at my grandpa's house now. I have my birth certificate, social security card, and every other document and record I could think of. My parents were quiet the whole time I was there. Shorty after I arrived my dad left with my sister and my mom only hovered over us silently as me moved. It took a while but as we left she broke down and told me she loved me and would miss me. I hugged her and said goodbye, and that was it. Even now I sit here and think if she really meant it. After this whole week of her not saying anything she waited till the end. I hope she meant it. Right now though, I think I just need to look ahead. Maybe one day me and my parents can reconnect. I hope so.\n\n​\n\nThank you all for the advice and love. It's been amazing and i'm glad that through this experience I at least got some positive out of this mess. Will I come back? I don't know. If something happens and you guys still want an update i'll maybe come around again. But for now I'm going to move on. For all those out there who shared their stories with me, thank you, and I hope to see you on the other side. See you space cowboy's :)", "selftext_html": "<!-- SC_OFF --><div class=\"md\"><p>I'm back like I said I would be,. My <a href=\"https://www.reddit.com/r/AmItheAsshole/comments/awyi8k/aita_for_despising_my_mentally_handicap_sister/\">original post</a> got a lot of attention and seeing as you guys seem interested, here's my update.</p>\n\n<p>Well, since that day I made the post i've been staying with my grandfather. The week's been honestly a huge change for me for better and for worse but i'll try to run it down.</p>\n\n<p>I started by telling my grandpa the story of why I broke down the way I did and to be honest, he seemed horrified. No one in my family knew my parents were using me as essentially a free care service for my sister. My grandpa told me some things that I don't feel comfortable repeating here but in essence my sister is "supposed" to be getting care from a professional and that my parents were ignoring that, along with this I was not supposed to be caring for her at all with her mental state as apparently she is a danger to herself and others. With everything else I told him, along with stuff like the movie indecent he was really mad and told me to not contact my parents without him there. He pretty much told me that he would be meeting with my parents beforehand and that he was going to be there when I sat down with them. It didn't end here either, the rest of the week consisted of other family checking in on me and telling me things my parents hid from me. This included the fact that my parents have been taking money from family to fund a "caretaker" that doesn't exist.</p>\n\n<p>Suffice to say, this week has been rough. But, the upside is that even through all this, my extended family has been giving me more love than i've felt in a while. My grandfather spent this last week "making up for the time i've lost." Encouraging me to spend time with friends and do things I want to do. My aunts and uncles have also been helping me through the week.</p>\n\n<p>Well, Saturday night I sat down with parents to talk. It went badly to say the least. They came clean to me about everything. They told me things I will not repeat here. But they did not apologize. My parents still claim that I some how owed my sister my time. My father even saying "You were put here to be her caretaker". I won't lie and say I was composed. After everything i learned I confronted them. On the fact that my sister needed a caretaker. The money my dad was taking from his sister, and a few other things. They denied it or made excuses. And in the end, we ended off in a worse place than before.</p>\n\n<p>Today will be my last time talking to them for a while. After talking with my grandfather and uncle last night, I'm not going back. Later today i'm going there and picking up my stuff and moving in with my grandfather. When I graduate high school i'm planning on leaving the state to go to school. My aunt has told me that the money she was sending my dad will be instead be coming to me from now on. My parents have called me twice since Saturday, neither of them were to apologize and only ask when I was coming home.</p>\n\n<p>I won't be going back to them. Right now I still feel pretty uneasy about everything but I feel like that will pass. The rest of my family is showing their support to me and honestly, it feel great. But in the end I lost my parents. Over all of this, i've learned something that I wished I saw earlier. I don't hat my sister. In fact I love her with all my heart. I should never have never projected my hate onto her. That was wrong, and someday I hope to make up for it. But for now I need to leave.</p>\n\n<p>So, there's my update. Thanks again for the support my original post got. I really appreciate everyone who took the time to comment or show me support. Thanks you.</p>\n\n<p>​</p>\n\n<p>​</p>\n\n<p>Edit: Thank you all so much! I wish I could respond to every single one of you but my lunch only lasts so long. I'll update tonight how the move out went but until then, thank you all. I want to say that your support has been amazing and your kindness means more to me than anyone could ever imagine.</p>\n\n<p>​</p>\n\n<p>Late edit: Wow, I never imagined my story would reach the popularity it did. I know it's kinda cliche and i've said it a thousand times but thank you all. </p>\n\n<p>​</p>\n\n<p>We just got back from moving my things out of my parents house. Every thing I wanted to take my grandpa and uncle helped move and it's at my grandpa's house now. I have my birth certificate, social security card, and every other document and record I could think of. My parents were quiet the whole time I was there. Shorty after I arrived my dad left with my sister and my mom only hovered over us silently as me moved. It took a while but as we left she broke down and told me she loved me and would miss me. I hugged her and said goodbye, and that was it. Even now I sit here and think if she really meant it. After this whole week of her not saying anything she waited till the end. I hope she meant it. Right now though, I think I just need to look ahead. Maybe one day me and my parents can reconnect. I hope so.</p>\n\n<p>​</p>\n\n<p>Thank you all for the advice and love. It's been amazing and i'm glad that through this experience I at least got some positive out of this mess. Will I come back? I don't know. If something happens and you guys still want an update i'll maybe come around again. But for now I'm going to move on. For all those out there who shared their stories with me, thank you, and I hope to see you on the other side. See you space cowboy's :)</p>\n</div><!-- SC_ON -->", "send_replies": true, "spoiler": false, "stickied": false, "subreddit": "r/AmItheAsshole", "subreddit_id": "t5_2xhvq", "subreddit_name_prefixed": "r/AmItheAsshole", "subreddit_subscribers": 24050251, "subreddit_type": "public", "suggested_sort": "top", "thread_id": "t3_azvko1", "thumbnail": "", "title": "UPDATE, AITA for despising my mentally handicap sister?", "top_awarded_type": null, "total_awards_received": 0, "treatment_tags": [], "unrepliable_reason": null, "ups": 72778, "upvote_ratio": 0.96, "url": "https://www.reddit.com/r/AmItheAsshole/comments/azvko1/update_aita_for_despising_my_mentally_handicap/", "user_reports": [], "view_count": null, "visited": false, "wls": 7}, "role": "Renegadesrule33"}, {"content": "Wow. OP's grandfather is a saint.", "metadata": {"_additional_fetch_params": null, "_comments_by_id": null, "_fetched": true, "all_awardings": [], "allow_live_comments": null, "approved_at_utc": null, "approved_by": null, "archived": true, "associated_award": null, "author": "darkxxmist01", "author_cakeday": null, "author_flair_background_color": null, "author_flair_css_class": null, "author_flair_richtext": [], "author_flair_template_id": null, "author_flair_text": null, "author_flair_text_color": null, "author_flair_type": "text", "author_fullname": "t2_kn2cu9v", "author_is_blocked": false, "author_patreon_flair": false, "author_premium": false, "awarders": [], "banned_at_utc": null, "banned_by": null, "body": "Wow. OP's grandfather is a saint.", "body_html": "<div class=\"md\"><p>Wow. OP's grandfather is a saint.</p>\n</div>", "can_gild": false, "can_mod_post": false, "category": null, "clicked": null, "collapsed": false, "collapsed_because_crowd_control": null, "collapsed_reason": null, "collapsed_reason_code": null, "comment_limit": null, "comment_sort": null, "comment_type": null, "content_categories": null, "contest_mode": null, "controversiality": 0, "created": 1552323212.0, "created_utc": 1552323212.0, "depth": 0, "discussion_type": null, "distinguished": null, "domain": null, "downs": 0, "edited": 0.0, "gilded": 1, "gildings": null, "hidden": null, "hide_score": null, "id": "eiacma1", "is_created_from_ads_ui": null, "is_crosspostable": null, "is_meta": null, "is_original_content": null, "is_reddit_media_domain": null, "is_robot_indexable": null, "is_self": null, "is_submitter": false, "is_video": null, "likes": null, "link_flair_background_color": null, "link_flair_css_class": null, "link_flair_richtext": null, "link_flair_template_id": null, "link_flair_text": null, "link_flair_text_color": null, "link_flair_type": null, "link_id": "t3_azvko1", "locked": false, "media": null, "media_embed": null, "media_only": null, "mod_note": null, "mod_reason_by": null, "mod_reason_title": null, "mod_reports": [], "name": "t1_eiacma1", "no_follow": false, "num_comments": null, "num_crossposts": null, "num_reports": null, "over_18": null, "parent_id": "t3_azvko1", "permalink": "/r/AmItheAsshole/comments/azvko1/update_aita_for_despising_my_mentally_handicap/eiacma1/", "pinned": null, "pwls": null, "quarantine": null, "removal_reason": null, "removed_by": null, "removed_by_category": null, "report_reasons": null, "saved": false, "score": 27523, "score_hidden": false, "secure_media": null, "secure_media_embed": null, "selftext": null, "selftext_html": null, "send_replies": true, "spoiler": null, "stickied": false, "subreddit": "AmItheAsshole", "subreddit_id": "t5_2xhvq", "subreddit_name_prefixed": "r/AmItheAsshole", "subreddit_subscribers": null, "subreddit_type": "public", "suggested_sort": null, "thread_id": null, "thumbnail": null, "title": null, "top_awarded_type": null, "total_awards_received": 0, "treatment_tags": [], "unrepliable_reason": null, "ups": 27523, "upvote_ratio": null, "url": null, "user_reports": [], "view_count": null, "visited": null, "wls": null}, "role": "darkxxmist01"}, {"content": "Too right my guy, the sad thing is is that he should have had to be as kind and good as he was. The parents where disgusting people who robbed someone of the necessary childhood experiences and felt no remorse for it.", "metadata": {"_additional_fetch_params": null, "_comments_by_id": null, "_fetched": true, "all_awardings": [], "allow_live_comments": null, "approved_at_utc": null, "approved_by": null, "archived": true, "associated_award": null, "author": "Mrphobics", "author_cakeday": null, "author_flair_background_color": null, "author_flair_css_class": null, "author_flair_richtext": [], "author_flair_template_id": null, "author_flair_text": null, "author_flair_text_color": null, "author_flair_type": "text", "author_fullname": "t2_2cn97oz0", "author_is_blocked": false, "author_patreon_flair": false, "author_premium": false, "awarders": [], "banned_at_utc": null, "banned_by": null, "body": "Too right my guy, the sad thing is is that he should have had to be as kind and good as he was. The parents where disgusting people who robbed someone of the necessary childhood experiences and felt no remorse for it.", "body_html": "<div class=\"md\"><p>Too right my guy, the sad thing is is that he should have had to be as kind and good as he was. The parents where disgusting people who robbed someone of the necessary childhood experiences and felt no remorse for it.</p>\n</div>", "can_gild": false, "can_mod_post": false, "category": null, "clicked": null, "collapsed": false, "collapsed_because_crowd_control": null, "collapsed_reason": null, "collapsed_reason_code": null, "comment_limit": null, "comment_sort": null, "comment_type": null, "content_categories": null, "contest_mode": null, "controversiality": 0, "created": 1552325639.0, "created_utc": 1552325639.0, "depth": 1, "discussion_type": null, "distinguished": null, "domain": null, "downs": 0, "edited": 0.0, "gilded": 0, "gildings": null, "hidden": null, "hide_score": null, "id": "eiag7ex", "is_created_from_ads_ui": null, "is_crosspostable": null, "is_meta": null, "is_original_content": null, "is_reddit_media_domain": null, "is_robot_indexable": null, "is_self": null, "is_submitter": false, "is_video": null, "likes": null, "link_flair_background_color": null, 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My grandpa told me some things that I don't feel comfortable repeating here but in essence my sister is \"supposed\" to be getting care from a professional and that my parents were ignoring that, along with this I was not supposed to be caring for her at all with her mental state as apparently she is a danger to herself and others. With everything else I told him, along with stuff like the movie indecent he was really mad and told me to not contact my parents without him there. He pretty much told me that he would be meeting with my parents beforehand and that he was going to be there when I sat down with them. It didn't end here either, the rest of the week consisted of other family checking in on me and telling me things my parents hid from me. This included the fact that my parents have been taking money from family to fund a \"caretaker\" that doesn't exist.\n\nSuffice to say, this week has been rough. But, the upside is that even through all this, my extended family has been giving me more love than i've felt in a while. My grandfather spent this last week \"making up for the time i've lost.\" Encouraging me to spend time with friends and do things I want to do. My aunts and uncles have also been helping me through the week.\n\nWell, Saturday night I sat down with parents to talk. It went badly to say the least. They came clean to me about everything. They told me things I will not repeat here. But they did not apologize. My parents still claim that I some how owed my sister my time. My father even saying \"You were put here to be her caretaker\". I won't lie and say I was composed. After everything i learned I confronted them. On the fact that my sister needed a caretaker. The money my dad was taking from his sister, and a few other things. They denied it or made excuses. And in the end, we ended off in a worse place than before.\n\nToday will be my last time talking to them for a while. After talking with my grandfather and uncle last night, I'm not going back. Later today i'm going there and picking up my stuff and moving in with my grandfather. When I graduate high school i'm planning on leaving the state to go to school. My aunt has told me that the money she was sending my dad will be instead be coming to me from now on. My parents have called me twice since Saturday, neither of them were to apologize and only ask when I was coming home.\n\nI won't be going back to them. Right now I still feel pretty uneasy about everything but I feel like that will pass. The rest of my family is showing their support to me and honestly, it feel great. But in the end I lost my parents. Over all of this, i've learned something that I wished I saw earlier. I don't hat my sister. In fact I love her with all my heart. I should never have never projected my hate onto her. That was wrong, and someday I hope to make up for it. But for now I need to leave.\n\nSo, there's my update. Thanks again for the support my original post got. I really appreciate everyone who took the time to comment or show me support. Thanks you.\n\n\n\n\n\nEdit: Thank you all so much! I wish I could respond to every single one of you but my lunch only lasts so long. I'll update tonight how the move out went but until then, thank you all. I want to say that your support has been amazing and your kindness means more to me than anyone could ever imagine.\n\n\n\nLate edit: Wow, I never imagined my story would reach the popularity it did. I know it's kinda cliche and i've said it a thousand times but thank you all. \n\n\n\nWe just got back from moving my things out of my parents house. Every thing I wanted to take my grandpa and uncle helped move and it's at my grandpa's house now. I have my birth certificate, social security card, and every other document and record I could think of. My parents were quiet the whole time I was there. Shorty after I arrived my dad left with my sister and my mom only hovered over us silently as me moved. It took a while but as we left she broke down and told me she loved me and would miss me. I hugged her and said goodbye, and that was it. Even now I sit here and think if she really meant it. After this whole week of her not saying anything she waited till the end. I hope she meant it. Right now though, I think I just need to look ahead. Maybe one day me and my parents can reconnect. I hope so.\n\n\n\nThank you all for the advice and love. It's been amazing and i'm glad that through this experience I at least got some positive out of this mess. Will I come back? I don't know. If something happens and you guys still want an update i'll maybe come around again. But for now I'm going to move on. For all those out there who shared their stories with me, thank you, and I hope to see you on the other side. 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My [original post](https://www.reddit.com/r/AmItheAsshole/comments/awyi8k/aita_for_despising_my_mentally_handicap_sister/) got a lot of attention and seeing as you guys seem interested, here's my update.\n\nWell, since that day I made the post i've been staying with my grandfather. The week's been honestly a huge change for me for better and for worse but i'll try to run it down.\n\nI started by telling my grandpa the story of why I broke down the way I did and to be honest, he seemed horrified. No one in my family knew my parents were using me as essentially a free care service for my sister. My grandpa told me some things that I don't feel comfortable repeating here but in essence my sister is \"supposed\" to be getting care from a professional and that my parents were ignoring that, along with this I was not supposed to be caring for her at all with her mental state as apparently she is a danger to herself and others. With everything else I told him, along with stuff like the movie indecent he was really mad and told me to not contact my parents without him there. He pretty much told me that he would be meeting with my parents beforehand and that he was going to be there when I sat down with them. It didn't end here either, the rest of the week consisted of other family checking in on me and telling me things my parents hid from me. This included the fact that my parents have been taking money from family to fund a \"caretaker\" that doesn't exist.\n\nSuffice to say, this week has been rough. But, the upside is that even through all this, my extended family has been giving me more love than i've felt in a while. My grandfather spent this last week \"making up for the time i've lost.\" Encouraging me to spend time with friends and do things I want to do. My aunts and uncles have also been helping me through the week.\n\nWell, Saturday night I sat down with parents to talk. It went badly to say the least. They came clean to me about everything. They told me things I will not repeat here. But they did not apologize. My parents still claim that I some how owed my sister my time. My father even saying \"You were put here to be her caretaker\". I won't lie and say I was composed. After everything i learned I confronted them. On the fact that my sister needed a caretaker. The money my dad was taking from his sister, and a few other things. They denied it or made excuses. And in the end, we ended off in a worse place than before.\n\nToday will be my last time talking to them for a while. After talking with my grandfather and uncle last night, I'm not going back. Later today i'm going there and picking up my stuff and moving in with my grandfather. When I graduate high school i'm planning on leaving the state to go to school. My aunt has told me that the money she was sending my dad will be instead be coming to me from now on. My parents have called me twice since Saturday, neither of them were to apologize and only ask when I was coming home.\n\nI won't be going back to them. Right now I still feel pretty uneasy about everything but I feel like that will pass. The rest of my family is showing their support to me and honestly, it feel great. But in the end I lost my parents. Over all of this, i've learned something that I wished I saw earlier. I don't hat my sister. In fact I love her with all my heart. I should never have never projected my hate onto her. That was wrong, and someday I hope to make up for it. But for now I need to leave.\n\nSo, there's my update. Thanks again for the support my original post got. I really appreciate everyone who took the time to comment or show me support. Thanks you.\n\n​\n\n​\n\nEdit: Thank you all so much! I wish I could respond to every single one of you but my lunch only lasts so long. I'll update tonight how the move out went but until then, thank you all. I want to say that your support has been amazing and your kindness means more to me than anyone could ever imagine.\n\n​\n\nLate edit: Wow, I never imagined my story would reach the popularity it did. I know it's kinda cliche and i've said it a thousand times but thank you all. \n\n​\n\nWe just got back from moving my things out of my parents house. Every thing I wanted to take my grandpa and uncle helped move and it's at my grandpa's house now. I have my birth certificate, social security card, and every other document and record I could think of. My parents were quiet the whole time I was there. Shorty after I arrived my dad left with my sister and my mom only hovered over us silently as me moved. It took a while but as we left she broke down and told me she loved me and would miss me. I hugged her and said goodbye, and that was it. Even now I sit here and think if she really meant it. After this whole week of her not saying anything she waited till the end. I hope she meant it. Right now though, I think I just need to look ahead. Maybe one day me and my parents can reconnect. I hope so.\n\n​\n\nThank you all for the advice and love. It's been amazing and i'm glad that through this experience I at least got some positive out of this mess. Will I come back? I don't know. If something happens and you guys still want an update i'll maybe come around again. But for now I'm going to move on. For all those out there who shared their stories with me, thank you, and I hope to see you on the other side. See you space cowboy's :)", "selftext_html": "<!-- SC_OFF --><div class=\"md\"><p>I'm back like I said I would be,. My <a href=\"https://www.reddit.com/r/AmItheAsshole/comments/awyi8k/aita_for_despising_my_mentally_handicap_sister/\">original post</a> got a lot of attention and seeing as you guys seem interested, here's my update.</p>\n\n<p>Well, since that day I made the post i've been staying with my grandfather. The week's been honestly a huge change for me for better and for worse but i'll try to run it down.</p>\n\n<p>I started by telling my grandpa the story of why I broke down the way I did and to be honest, he seemed horrified. No one in my family knew my parents were using me as essentially a free care service for my sister. My grandpa told me some things that I don't feel comfortable repeating here but in essence my sister is "supposed" to be getting care from a professional and that my parents were ignoring that, along with this I was not supposed to be caring for her at all with her mental state as apparently she is a danger to herself and others. With everything else I told him, along with stuff like the movie indecent he was really mad and told me to not contact my parents without him there. He pretty much told me that he would be meeting with my parents beforehand and that he was going to be there when I sat down with them. It didn't end here either, the rest of the week consisted of other family checking in on me and telling me things my parents hid from me. This included the fact that my parents have been taking money from family to fund a "caretaker" that doesn't exist.</p>\n\n<p>Suffice to say, this week has been rough. But, the upside is that even through all this, my extended family has been giving me more love than i've felt in a while. My grandfather spent this last week "making up for the time i've lost." Encouraging me to spend time with friends and do things I want to do. My aunts and uncles have also been helping me through the week.</p>\n\n<p>Well, Saturday night I sat down with parents to talk. It went badly to say the least. They came clean to me about everything. They told me things I will not repeat here. But they did not apologize. My parents still claim that I some how owed my sister my time. My father even saying "You were put here to be her caretaker". I won't lie and say I was composed. After everything i learned I confronted them. On the fact that my sister needed a caretaker. The money my dad was taking from his sister, and a few other things. They denied it or made excuses. And in the end, we ended off in a worse place than before.</p>\n\n<p>Today will be my last time talking to them for a while. After talking with my grandfather and uncle last night, I'm not going back. Later today i'm going there and picking up my stuff and moving in with my grandfather. When I graduate high school i'm planning on leaving the state to go to school. My aunt has told me that the money she was sending my dad will be instead be coming to me from now on. My parents have called me twice since Saturday, neither of them were to apologize and only ask when I was coming home.</p>\n\n<p>I won't be going back to them. Right now I still feel pretty uneasy about everything but I feel like that will pass. The rest of my family is showing their support to me and honestly, it feel great. But in the end I lost my parents. Over all of this, i've learned something that I wished I saw earlier. I don't hat my sister. In fact I love her with all my heart. I should never have never projected my hate onto her. That was wrong, and someday I hope to make up for it. But for now I need to leave.</p>\n\n<p>So, there's my update. Thanks again for the support my original post got. I really appreciate everyone who took the time to comment or show me support. Thanks you.</p>\n\n<p>​</p>\n\n<p>​</p>\n\n<p>Edit: Thank you all so much! I wish I could respond to every single one of you but my lunch only lasts so long. I'll update tonight how the move out went but until then, thank you all. I want to say that your support has been amazing and your kindness means more to me than anyone could ever imagine.</p>\n\n<p>​</p>\n\n<p>Late edit: Wow, I never imagined my story would reach the popularity it did. I know it's kinda cliche and i've said it a thousand times but thank you all. </p>\n\n<p>​</p>\n\n<p>We just got back from moving my things out of my parents house. Every thing I wanted to take my grandpa and uncle helped move and it's at my grandpa's house now. I have my birth certificate, social security card, and every other document and record I could think of. My parents were quiet the whole time I was there. Shorty after I arrived my dad left with my sister and my mom only hovered over us silently as me moved. It took a while but as we left she broke down and told me she loved me and would miss me. I hugged her and said goodbye, and that was it. Even now I sit here and think if she really meant it. After this whole week of her not saying anything she waited till the end. I hope she meant it. Right now though, I think I just need to look ahead. Maybe one day me and my parents can reconnect. I hope so.</p>\n\n<p>​</p>\n\n<p>Thank you all for the advice and love. It's been amazing and i'm glad that through this experience I at least got some positive out of this mess. Will I come back? I don't know. If something happens and you guys still want an update i'll maybe come around again. But for now I'm going to move on. For all those out there who shared their stories with me, thank you, and I hope to see you on the other side. See you space cowboy's :)</p>\n</div><!-- SC_ON -->", "send_replies": true, "spoiler": false, "stickied": false, "subreddit": "r/AmItheAsshole", "subreddit_id": "t5_2xhvq", "subreddit_name_prefixed": "r/AmItheAsshole", "subreddit_subscribers": 24050251, "subreddit_type": "public", "suggested_sort": "top", "thread_id": "t3_azvko1", "thumbnail": "", "title": "UPDATE, AITA for despising my mentally handicap sister?", "top_awarded_type": null, "total_awards_received": 0, "treatment_tags": [], "unrepliable_reason": null, "ups": 72778, "upvote_ratio": 0.96, "url": "https://www.reddit.com/r/AmItheAsshole/comments/azvko1/update_aita_for_despising_my_mentally_handicap/", "user_reports": [], "view_count": null, "visited": false, "wls": 7}, "role": "Renegadesrule33"}, {"content": "Wow. OP's grandfather is a saint.", "metadata": {"_additional_fetch_params": null, "_comments_by_id": null, "_fetched": true, "all_awardings": [], "allow_live_comments": null, "approved_at_utc": null, "approved_by": null, "archived": true, "associated_award": null, "author": "darkxxmist01", "author_cakeday": null, "author_flair_background_color": null, "author_flair_css_class": null, "author_flair_richtext": [], "author_flair_template_id": null, "author_flair_text": null, "author_flair_text_color": null, "author_flair_type": "text", "author_fullname": "t2_kn2cu9v", "author_is_blocked": false, "author_patreon_flair": false, "author_premium": false, "awarders": [], "banned_at_utc": null, "banned_by": null, "body": "Wow. OP's grandfather is a saint.", "body_html": "<div class=\"md\"><p>Wow. OP's grandfather is a saint.</p>\n</div>", "can_gild": false, "can_mod_post": false, "category": null, "clicked": null, "collapsed": false, "collapsed_because_crowd_control": null, "collapsed_reason": null, "collapsed_reason_code": null, "comment_limit": null, "comment_sort": null, "comment_type": null, "content_categories": null, "contest_mode": null, "controversiality": 0, "created": 1552323212.0, "created_utc": 1552323212.0, "depth": 0, "discussion_type": null, "distinguished": null, "domain": null, "downs": 0, "edited": 0.0, "gilded": 1, "gildings": null, "hidden": null, "hide_score": null, "id": "eiacma1", "is_created_from_ads_ui": null, "is_crosspostable": null, "is_meta": null, "is_original_content": null, "is_reddit_media_domain": null, "is_robot_indexable": null, "is_self": null, "is_submitter": false, "is_video": null, "likes": null, "link_flair_background_color": null, "link_flair_css_class": null, "link_flair_richtext": null, "link_flair_template_id": null, "link_flair_text": null, "link_flair_text_color": null, "link_flair_type": null, "link_id": "t3_azvko1", "locked": false, "media": null, "media_embed": null, "media_only": null, "mod_note": null, "mod_reason_by": null, "mod_reason_title": null, "mod_reports": [], "name": "t1_eiacma1", "no_follow": false, "num_comments": null, "num_crossposts": null, "num_reports": null, "over_18": null, "parent_id": "t3_azvko1", "permalink": "/r/AmItheAsshole/comments/azvko1/update_aita_for_despising_my_mentally_handicap/eiacma1/", "pinned": null, "pwls": null, "quarantine": null, "removal_reason": null, "removed_by": null, "removed_by_category": null, "report_reasons": null, "saved": false, "score": 27523, "score_hidden": false, "secure_media": null, "secure_media_embed": null, "selftext": null, "selftext_html": null, "send_replies": true, "spoiler": null, "stickied": false, "subreddit": "AmItheAsshole", "subreddit_id": "t5_2xhvq", "subreddit_name_prefixed": "r/AmItheAsshole", "subreddit_subscribers": null, "subreddit_type": "public", "suggested_sort": null, "thread_id": null, "thumbnail": null, "title": null, "top_awarded_type": null, "total_awards_received": 0, "treatment_tags": [], "unrepliable_reason": null, "ups": 27523, "upvote_ratio": null, "url": null, "user_reports": [], "view_count": null, "visited": null, "wls": null}, "role": "darkxxmist01"}, {"content": "Too right my guy, the sad thing is is that he should have had to be as kind and good as he was. The parents where disgusting people who robbed someone of the necessary childhood experiences and felt no remorse for it.", "metadata": {"_additional_fetch_params": null, "_comments_by_id": null, "_fetched": true, "all_awardings": [], "allow_live_comments": null, "approved_at_utc": null, "approved_by": null, "archived": true, "associated_award": null, "author": "Mrphobics", "author_cakeday": null, "author_flair_background_color": null, "author_flair_css_class": null, "author_flair_richtext": [], "author_flair_template_id": null, "author_flair_text": null, "author_flair_text_color": null, "author_flair_type": "text", "author_fullname": "t2_2cn97oz0", "author_is_blocked": false, "author_patreon_flair": false, "author_premium": false, "awarders": [], "banned_at_utc": null, "banned_by": null, "body": "Too right my guy, the sad thing is is that he should have had to be as kind and good as he was. The parents where disgusting people who robbed someone of the necessary childhood experiences and felt no remorse for it.", "body_html": "<div class=\"md\"><p>Too right my guy, the sad thing is is that he should have had to be as kind and good as he was. The parents where disgusting people who robbed someone of the necessary childhood experiences and felt no remorse for it.</p>\n</div>", "can_gild": false, "can_mod_post": false, "category": null, "clicked": null, "collapsed": false, "collapsed_because_crowd_control": null, "collapsed_reason": null, "collapsed_reason_code": null, "comment_limit": null, "comment_sort": null, "comment_type": null, "content_categories": null, "contest_mode": null, "controversiality": 0, "created": 1552325639.0, "created_utc": 1552325639.0, "depth": 1, "discussion_type": null, "distinguished": null, "domain": null, "downs": 0, "edited": 0.0, "gilded": 0, "gildings": null, "hidden": null, "hide_score": null, "id": "eiag7ex", "is_created_from_ads_ui": null, "is_crosspostable": null, "is_meta": null, "is_original_content": null, "is_reddit_media_domain": null, "is_robot_indexable": null, "is_self": null, "is_submitter": false, "is_video": null, "likes": null, "link_flair_background_color": null, 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[{"content": "UPDATE, AITA for despising my mentally handicap sister?\n\nI'm back like I said I would be,. My [original post](https://www.reddit.com/r/AmItheAsshole/comments/awyi8k/aita_for_despising_my_mentally_handicap_sister/) got a lot of attention and seeing as you guys seem interested, here's my update.\n\nWell, since that day I made the post i've been staying with my grandfather. The week's been honestly a huge change for me for better and for worse but i'll try to run it down.\n\nI started by telling my grandpa the story of why I broke down the way I did and to be honest, he seemed horrified. No one in my family knew my parents were using me as essentially a free care service for my sister. My grandpa told me some things that I don't feel comfortable repeating here but in essence my sister is \"supposed\" to be getting care from a professional and that my parents were ignoring that, along with this I was not supposed to be caring for her at all with her mental state as apparently she is a danger to herself and others. With everything else I told him, along with stuff like the movie indecent he was really mad and told me to not contact my parents without him there. He pretty much told me that he would be meeting with my parents beforehand and that he was going to be there when I sat down with them. It didn't end here either, the rest of the week consisted of other family checking in on me and telling me things my parents hid from me. This included the fact that my parents have been taking money from family to fund a \"caretaker\" that doesn't exist.\n\nSuffice to say, this week has been rough. But, the upside is that even through all this, my extended family has been giving me more love than i've felt in a while. My grandfather spent this last week \"making up for the time i've lost.\" Encouraging me to spend time with friends and do things I want to do. My aunts and uncles have also been helping me through the week.\n\nWell, Saturday night I sat down with parents to talk. It went badly to say the least. They came clean to me about everything. They told me things I will not repeat here. But they did not apologize. My parents still claim that I some how owed my sister my time. My father even saying \"You were put here to be her caretaker\". I won't lie and say I was composed. After everything i learned I confronted them. On the fact that my sister needed a caretaker. The money my dad was taking from his sister, and a few other things. They denied it or made excuses. And in the end, we ended off in a worse place than before.\n\nToday will be my last time talking to them for a while. After talking with my grandfather and uncle last night, I'm not going back. Later today i'm going there and picking up my stuff and moving in with my grandfather. When I graduate high school i'm planning on leaving the state to go to school. My aunt has told me that the money she was sending my dad will be instead be coming to me from now on. My parents have called me twice since Saturday, neither of them were to apologize and only ask when I was coming home.\n\nI won't be going back to them. Right now I still feel pretty uneasy about everything but I feel like that will pass. The rest of my family is showing their support to me and honestly, it feel great. But in the end I lost my parents. Over all of this, i've learned something that I wished I saw earlier. I don't hat my sister. In fact I love her with all my heart. I should never have never projected my hate onto her. That was wrong, and someday I hope to make up for it. But for now I need to leave.\n\nSo, there's my update. Thanks again for the support my original post got. I really appreciate everyone who took the time to comment or show me support. Thanks you.\n\n\n\n\n\nEdit: Thank you all so much! I wish I could respond to every single one of you but my lunch only lasts so long. I'll update tonight how the move out went but until then, thank you all. I want to say that your support has been amazing and your kindness means more to me than anyone could ever imagine.\n\n\n\nLate edit: Wow, I never imagined my story would reach the popularity it did. I know it's kinda cliche and i've said it a thousand times but thank you all. \n\n\n\nWe just got back from moving my things out of my parents house. Every thing I wanted to take my grandpa and uncle helped move and it's at my grandpa's house now. I have my birth certificate, social security card, and every other document and record I could think of. My parents were quiet the whole time I was there. Shorty after I arrived my dad left with my sister and my mom only hovered over us silently as me moved. It took a while but as we left she broke down and told me she loved me and would miss me. I hugged her and said goodbye, and that was it. Even now I sit here and think if she really meant it. After this whole week of her not saying anything she waited till the end. I hope she meant it. Right now though, I think I just need to look ahead. Maybe one day me and my parents can reconnect. I hope so.\n\n\n\nThank you all for the advice and love. It's been amazing and i'm glad that through this experience I at least got some positive out of this mess. Will I come back? I don't know. If something happens and you guys still want an update i'll maybe come around again. But for now I'm going to move on. For all those out there who shared their stories with me, thank you, and I hope to see you on the other side. See you space cowboy's :)", "metadata": {"_additional_fetch_params": null, "_comments_by_id": null, "_fetched": false, "all_awardings": [], "allow_live_comments": true, "approved_at_utc": null, "approved_by": null, "archived": true, "associated_award": null, "author": "Renegadesrule33", "author_cakeday": null, "author_flair_background_color": null, "author_flair_css_class": null, "author_flair_richtext": [], "author_flair_template_id": null, "author_flair_text": null, "author_flair_text_color": null, "author_flair_type": "text", "author_fullname": "t2_3c816wqd", "author_is_blocked": false, "author_patreon_flair": false, "author_premium": false, "awarders": [], "banned_at_utc": null, "banned_by": null, "body": null, "body_html": null, "can_gild": false, "can_mod_post": false, "category": null, "clicked": false, "collapsed": null, "collapsed_because_crowd_control": null, "collapsed_reason": null, "collapsed_reason_code": null, "comment_limit": 2048, "comment_sort": "confidence", "comment_type": null, "content_categories": null, "contest_mode": false, "controversiality": null, "created": 1552322462.0, "created_utc": 1552322462.0, "depth": null, "discussion_type": null, "distinguished": null, "domain": "self.AmItheAsshole", "downs": 0, "edited": 1552376988.0, "gilded": 22, "gildings": null, "hidden": false, "hide_score": false, "id": "azvko1", "is_created_from_ads_ui": false, "is_crosspostable": false, "is_meta": false, "is_original_content": false, "is_reddit_media_domain": false, "is_robot_indexable": true, "is_self": true, "is_submitter": null, "is_video": false, "likes": null, "link_flair_background_color": "#ffd635", "link_flair_css_class": "", "link_flair_richtext": [], "link_flair_template_id": "47fdebc0-d3af-11e8-80cb-0e369ce83cd4", "link_flair_text": "UPDATE", "link_flair_text_color": null, "link_flair_type": "text", "link_id": null, "locked": false, "media": null, "media_embed": null, "media_only": false, "mod_note": null, "mod_reason_by": null, "mod_reason_title": null, "mod_reports": [], "name": "t3_azvko1", "no_follow": false, "num_comments": 1970, "num_crossposts": 8, "num_reports": null, "over_18": false, "parent_id": null, "permalink": "/r/AmItheAsshole/comments/azvko1/update_aita_for_despising_my_mentally_handicap/", "pinned": false, "pwls": 7, "quarantine": false, "removal_reason": null, "removed_by": null, "removed_by_category": null, "report_reasons": null, "saved": false, "score": 72778, "score_hidden": null, "secure_media": null, "secure_media_embed": null, "selftext": "I'm back like I said I would be,. My [original post](https://www.reddit.com/r/AmItheAsshole/comments/awyi8k/aita_for_despising_my_mentally_handicap_sister/) got a lot of attention and seeing as you guys seem interested, here's my update.\n\nWell, since that day I made the post i've been staying with my grandfather. The week's been honestly a huge change for me for better and for worse but i'll try to run it down.\n\nI started by telling my grandpa the story of why I broke down the way I did and to be honest, he seemed horrified. No one in my family knew my parents were using me as essentially a free care service for my sister. My grandpa told me some things that I don't feel comfortable repeating here but in essence my sister is \"supposed\" to be getting care from a professional and that my parents were ignoring that, along with this I was not supposed to be caring for her at all with her mental state as apparently she is a danger to herself and others. With everything else I told him, along with stuff like the movie indecent he was really mad and told me to not contact my parents without him there. He pretty much told me that he would be meeting with my parents beforehand and that he was going to be there when I sat down with them. It didn't end here either, the rest of the week consisted of other family checking in on me and telling me things my parents hid from me. This included the fact that my parents have been taking money from family to fund a \"caretaker\" that doesn't exist.\n\nSuffice to say, this week has been rough. But, the upside is that even through all this, my extended family has been giving me more love than i've felt in a while. My grandfather spent this last week \"making up for the time i've lost.\" Encouraging me to spend time with friends and do things I want to do. My aunts and uncles have also been helping me through the week.\n\nWell, Saturday night I sat down with parents to talk. It went badly to say the least. They came clean to me about everything. They told me things I will not repeat here. But they did not apologize. My parents still claim that I some how owed my sister my time. My father even saying \"You were put here to be her caretaker\". I won't lie and say I was composed. After everything i learned I confronted them. On the fact that my sister needed a caretaker. The money my dad was taking from his sister, and a few other things. They denied it or made excuses. And in the end, we ended off in a worse place than before.\n\nToday will be my last time talking to them for a while. After talking with my grandfather and uncle last night, I'm not going back. Later today i'm going there and picking up my stuff and moving in with my grandfather. When I graduate high school i'm planning on leaving the state to go to school. My aunt has told me that the money she was sending my dad will be instead be coming to me from now on. My parents have called me twice since Saturday, neither of them were to apologize and only ask when I was coming home.\n\nI won't be going back to them. Right now I still feel pretty uneasy about everything but I feel like that will pass. The rest of my family is showing their support to me and honestly, it feel great. But in the end I lost my parents. Over all of this, i've learned something that I wished I saw earlier. I don't hat my sister. In fact I love her with all my heart. I should never have never projected my hate onto her. That was wrong, and someday I hope to make up for it. But for now I need to leave.\n\nSo, there's my update. Thanks again for the support my original post got. I really appreciate everyone who took the time to comment or show me support. Thanks you.\n\n​\n\n​\n\nEdit: Thank you all so much! I wish I could respond to every single one of you but my lunch only lasts so long. I'll update tonight how the move out went but until then, thank you all. I want to say that your support has been amazing and your kindness means more to me than anyone could ever imagine.\n\n​\n\nLate edit: Wow, I never imagined my story would reach the popularity it did. I know it's kinda cliche and i've said it a thousand times but thank you all. \n\n​\n\nWe just got back from moving my things out of my parents house. Every thing I wanted to take my grandpa and uncle helped move and it's at my grandpa's house now. I have my birth certificate, social security card, and every other document and record I could think of. My parents were quiet the whole time I was there. Shorty after I arrived my dad left with my sister and my mom only hovered over us silently as me moved. It took a while but as we left she broke down and told me she loved me and would miss me. I hugged her and said goodbye, and that was it. Even now I sit here and think if she really meant it. After this whole week of her not saying anything she waited till the end. I hope she meant it. Right now though, I think I just need to look ahead. Maybe one day me and my parents can reconnect. I hope so.\n\n​\n\nThank you all for the advice and love. It's been amazing and i'm glad that through this experience I at least got some positive out of this mess. Will I come back? I don't know. If something happens and you guys still want an update i'll maybe come around again. But for now I'm going to move on. For all those out there who shared their stories with me, thank you, and I hope to see you on the other side. See you space cowboy's :)", "selftext_html": "<!-- SC_OFF --><div class=\"md\"><p>I'm back like I said I would be,. My <a href=\"https://www.reddit.com/r/AmItheAsshole/comments/awyi8k/aita_for_despising_my_mentally_handicap_sister/\">original post</a> got a lot of attention and seeing as you guys seem interested, here's my update.</p>\n\n<p>Well, since that day I made the post i've been staying with my grandfather. The week's been honestly a huge change for me for better and for worse but i'll try to run it down.</p>\n\n<p>I started by telling my grandpa the story of why I broke down the way I did and to be honest, he seemed horrified. No one in my family knew my parents were using me as essentially a free care service for my sister. My grandpa told me some things that I don't feel comfortable repeating here but in essence my sister is "supposed" to be getting care from a professional and that my parents were ignoring that, along with this I was not supposed to be caring for her at all with her mental state as apparently she is a danger to herself and others. With everything else I told him, along with stuff like the movie indecent he was really mad and told me to not contact my parents without him there. He pretty much told me that he would be meeting with my parents beforehand and that he was going to be there when I sat down with them. It didn't end here either, the rest of the week consisted of other family checking in on me and telling me things my parents hid from me. This included the fact that my parents have been taking money from family to fund a "caretaker" that doesn't exist.</p>\n\n<p>Suffice to say, this week has been rough. But, the upside is that even through all this, my extended family has been giving me more love than i've felt in a while. My grandfather spent this last week "making up for the time i've lost." Encouraging me to spend time with friends and do things I want to do. My aunts and uncles have also been helping me through the week.</p>\n\n<p>Well, Saturday night I sat down with parents to talk. It went badly to say the least. They came clean to me about everything. They told me things I will not repeat here. But they did not apologize. My parents still claim that I some how owed my sister my time. My father even saying "You were put here to be her caretaker". I won't lie and say I was composed. After everything i learned I confronted them. On the fact that my sister needed a caretaker. The money my dad was taking from his sister, and a few other things. They denied it or made excuses. And in the end, we ended off in a worse place than before.</p>\n\n<p>Today will be my last time talking to them for a while. After talking with my grandfather and uncle last night, I'm not going back. Later today i'm going there and picking up my stuff and moving in with my grandfather. When I graduate high school i'm planning on leaving the state to go to school. My aunt has told me that the money she was sending my dad will be instead be coming to me from now on. My parents have called me twice since Saturday, neither of them were to apologize and only ask when I was coming home.</p>\n\n<p>I won't be going back to them. Right now I still feel pretty uneasy about everything but I feel like that will pass. The rest of my family is showing their support to me and honestly, it feel great. But in the end I lost my parents. Over all of this, i've learned something that I wished I saw earlier. I don't hat my sister. In fact I love her with all my heart. I should never have never projected my hate onto her. That was wrong, and someday I hope to make up for it. But for now I need to leave.</p>\n\n<p>So, there's my update. Thanks again for the support my original post got. I really appreciate everyone who took the time to comment or show me support. Thanks you.</p>\n\n<p>​</p>\n\n<p>​</p>\n\n<p>Edit: Thank you all so much! I wish I could respond to every single one of you but my lunch only lasts so long. I'll update tonight how the move out went but until then, thank you all. I want to say that your support has been amazing and your kindness means more to me than anyone could ever imagine.</p>\n\n<p>​</p>\n\n<p>Late edit: Wow, I never imagined my story would reach the popularity it did. I know it's kinda cliche and i've said it a thousand times but thank you all. </p>\n\n<p>​</p>\n\n<p>We just got back from moving my things out of my parents house. Every thing I wanted to take my grandpa and uncle helped move and it's at my grandpa's house now. I have my birth certificate, social security card, and every other document and record I could think of. My parents were quiet the whole time I was there. Shorty after I arrived my dad left with my sister and my mom only hovered over us silently as me moved. It took a while but as we left she broke down and told me she loved me and would miss me. I hugged her and said goodbye, and that was it. Even now I sit here and think if she really meant it. After this whole week of her not saying anything she waited till the end. I hope she meant it. Right now though, I think I just need to look ahead. Maybe one day me and my parents can reconnect. I hope so.</p>\n\n<p>​</p>\n\n<p>Thank you all for the advice and love. It's been amazing and i'm glad that through this experience I at least got some positive out of this mess. Will I come back? I don't know. If something happens and you guys still want an update i'll maybe come around again. But for now I'm going to move on. For all those out there who shared their stories with me, thank you, and I hope to see you on the other side. 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OP's grandfather is a saint.", "metadata": {"_additional_fetch_params": null, "_comments_by_id": null, "_fetched": true, "all_awardings": [], "allow_live_comments": null, "approved_at_utc": null, "approved_by": null, "archived": true, "associated_award": null, "author": "darkxxmist01", "author_cakeday": null, "author_flair_background_color": null, "author_flair_css_class": null, "author_flair_richtext": [], "author_flair_template_id": null, "author_flair_text": null, "author_flair_text_color": null, "author_flair_type": "text", "author_fullname": "t2_kn2cu9v", "author_is_blocked": false, "author_patreon_flair": false, "author_premium": false, "awarders": [], "banned_at_utc": null, "banned_by": null, "body": "Wow. OP's grandfather is a saint.", "body_html": "<div class=\"md\"><p>Wow. OP's grandfather is a saint.</p>\n</div>", "can_gild": false, "can_mod_post": false, "category": null, "clicked": null, "collapsed": false, "collapsed_because_crowd_control": null, "collapsed_reason": null, "collapsed_reason_code": null, "comment_limit": null, "comment_sort": null, "comment_type": null, "content_categories": null, "contest_mode": null, "controversiality": 0, "created": 1552323212.0, "created_utc": 1552323212.0, "depth": 0, "discussion_type": null, "distinguished": null, "domain": null, "downs": 0, "edited": 0.0, "gilded": 1, "gildings": null, "hidden": null, "hide_score": null, "id": "eiacma1", "is_created_from_ads_ui": null, "is_crosspostable": null, "is_meta": null, "is_original_content": null, "is_reddit_media_domain": null, "is_robot_indexable": null, "is_self": null, "is_submitter": false, "is_video": null, "likes": null, "link_flair_background_color": null, "link_flair_css_class": null, "link_flair_richtext": null, "link_flair_template_id": null, "link_flair_text": null, "link_flair_text_color": null, "link_flair_type": null, "link_id": "t3_azvko1", "locked": false, "media": null, "media_embed": null, "media_only": null, "mod_note": null, "mod_reason_by": null, "mod_reason_title": null, "mod_reports": [], "name": "t1_eiacma1", "no_follow": false, "num_comments": null, "num_crossposts": null, "num_reports": null, "over_18": null, "parent_id": "t3_azvko1", "permalink": "/r/AmItheAsshole/comments/azvko1/update_aita_for_despising_my_mentally_handicap/eiacma1/", "pinned": null, "pwls": null, "quarantine": null, "removal_reason": null, "removed_by": null, "removed_by_category": null, "report_reasons": null, "saved": false, "score": 27523, "score_hidden": false, "secure_media": null, "secure_media_embed": null, "selftext": null, "selftext_html": null, "send_replies": true, "spoiler": null, "stickied": false, "subreddit": "AmItheAsshole", "subreddit_id": "t5_2xhvq", "subreddit_name_prefixed": "r/AmItheAsshole", "subreddit_subscribers": null, "subreddit_type": "public", "suggested_sort": null, "thread_id": null, "thumbnail": null, "title": null, "top_awarded_type": null, "total_awards_received": 0, "treatment_tags": [], "unrepliable_reason": null, "ups": 27523, "upvote_ratio": null, "url": null, "user_reports": [], "view_count": null, "visited": null, "wls": null}, "role": "darkxxmist01"}, {"content": "Too right my guy, the sad thing is is that he should have had to be as kind and good as he was. The parents where disgusting people who robbed someone of the necessary childhood experiences and felt no remorse for it.", "metadata": {"_additional_fetch_params": null, "_comments_by_id": null, "_fetched": true, "all_awardings": [], "allow_live_comments": null, "approved_at_utc": null, "approved_by": null, "archived": true, "associated_award": null, "author": "Mrphobics", "author_cakeday": null, "author_flair_background_color": null, "author_flair_css_class": null, "author_flair_richtext": [], "author_flair_template_id": null, "author_flair_text": null, "author_flair_text_color": null, "author_flair_type": "text", "author_fullname": "t2_2cn97oz0", "author_is_blocked": false, "author_patreon_flair": false, "author_premium": false, "awarders": [], "banned_at_utc": null, "banned_by": null, "body": "Too right my guy, the sad thing is is that he should have had to be as kind and good as he was. The parents where disgusting people who robbed someone of the necessary childhood experiences and felt no remorse for it.", "body_html": "<div class=\"md\"><p>Too right my guy, the sad thing is is that he should have had to be as kind and good as he was. The parents where disgusting people who robbed someone of the necessary childhood experiences and felt no remorse for it.</p>\n</div>", "can_gild": false, "can_mod_post": false, "category": null, "clicked": null, "collapsed": false, "collapsed_because_crowd_control": null, "collapsed_reason": null, "collapsed_reason_code": null, "comment_limit": null, "comment_sort": null, "comment_type": null, "content_categories": null, "contest_mode": null, "controversiality": 0, "created": 1552325639.0, "created_utc": 1552325639.0, "depth": 1, "discussion_type": null, "distinguished": null, "domain": null, "downs": 0, "edited": 0.0, "gilded": 0, "gildings": null, "hidden": null, "hide_score": null, "id": "eiag7ex", "is_created_from_ads_ui": null, "is_crosspostable": null, "is_meta": null, "is_original_content": null, "is_reddit_media_domain": null, "is_robot_indexable": null, "is_self": null, "is_submitter": false, "is_video": null, "likes": null, "link_flair_background_color": null, 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My grandpa told me some things that I don't feel comfortable repeating here but in essence my sister is \"supposed\" to be getting care from a professional and that my parents were ignoring that, along with this I was not supposed to be caring for her at all with her mental state as apparently she is a danger to herself and others. With everything else I told him, along with stuff like the movie indecent he was really mad and told me to not contact my parents without him there. He pretty much told me that he would be meeting with my parents beforehand and that he was going to be there when I sat down with them. It didn't end here either, the rest of the week consisted of other family checking in on me and telling me things my parents hid from me. This included the fact that my parents have been taking money from family to fund a \"caretaker\" that doesn't exist.\n\nSuffice to say, this week has been rough. But, the upside is that even through all this, my extended family has been giving me more love than i've felt in a while. My grandfather spent this last week \"making up for the time i've lost.\" Encouraging me to spend time with friends and do things I want to do. My aunts and uncles have also been helping me through the week.\n\nWell, Saturday night I sat down with parents to talk. It went badly to say the least. They came clean to me about everything. They told me things I will not repeat here. But they did not apologize. My parents still claim that I some how owed my sister my time. My father even saying \"You were put here to be her caretaker\". I won't lie and say I was composed. After everything i learned I confronted them. On the fact that my sister needed a caretaker. The money my dad was taking from his sister, and a few other things. They denied it or made excuses. And in the end, we ended off in a worse place than before.\n\nToday will be my last time talking to them for a while. After talking with my grandfather and uncle last night, I'm not going back. Later today i'm going there and picking up my stuff and moving in with my grandfather. When I graduate high school i'm planning on leaving the state to go to school. My aunt has told me that the money she was sending my dad will be instead be coming to me from now on. My parents have called me twice since Saturday, neither of them were to apologize and only ask when I was coming home.\n\nI won't be going back to them. Right now I still feel pretty uneasy about everything but I feel like that will pass. The rest of my family is showing their support to me and honestly, it feel great. But in the end I lost my parents. Over all of this, i've learned something that I wished I saw earlier. I don't hat my sister. In fact I love her with all my heart. I should never have never projected my hate onto her. That was wrong, and someday I hope to make up for it. But for now I need to leave.\n\nSo, there's my update. Thanks again for the support my original post got. I really appreciate everyone who took the time to comment or show me support. Thanks you.\n\n\n\n\n\nEdit: Thank you all so much! I wish I could respond to every single one of you but my lunch only lasts so long. I'll update tonight how the move out went but until then, thank you all. I want to say that your support has been amazing and your kindness means more to me than anyone could ever imagine.\n\n\n\nLate edit: Wow, I never imagined my story would reach the popularity it did. I know it's kinda cliche and i've said it a thousand times but thank you all. \n\n\n\nWe just got back from moving my things out of my parents house. Every thing I wanted to take my grandpa and uncle helped move and it's at my grandpa's house now. I have my birth certificate, social security card, and every other document and record I could think of. My parents were quiet the whole time I was there. Shorty after I arrived my dad left with my sister and my mom only hovered over us silently as me moved. It took a while but as we left she broke down and told me she loved me and would miss me. I hugged her and said goodbye, and that was it. Even now I sit here and think if she really meant it. After this whole week of her not saying anything she waited till the end. I hope she meant it. Right now though, I think I just need to look ahead. Maybe one day me and my parents can reconnect. I hope so.\n\n\n\nThank you all for the advice and love. It's been amazing and i'm glad that through this experience I at least got some positive out of this mess. Will I come back? I don't know. If something happens and you guys still want an update i'll maybe come around again. But for now I'm going to move on. For all those out there who shared their stories with me, thank you, and I hope to see you on the other side. 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My [original post](https://www.reddit.com/r/AmItheAsshole/comments/awyi8k/aita_for_despising_my_mentally_handicap_sister/) got a lot of attention and seeing as you guys seem interested, here's my update.\n\nWell, since that day I made the post i've been staying with my grandfather. The week's been honestly a huge change for me for better and for worse but i'll try to run it down.\n\nI started by telling my grandpa the story of why I broke down the way I did and to be honest, he seemed horrified. No one in my family knew my parents were using me as essentially a free care service for my sister. My grandpa told me some things that I don't feel comfortable repeating here but in essence my sister is \"supposed\" to be getting care from a professional and that my parents were ignoring that, along with this I was not supposed to be caring for her at all with her mental state as apparently she is a danger to herself and others. With everything else I told him, along with stuff like the movie indecent he was really mad and told me to not contact my parents without him there. He pretty much told me that he would be meeting with my parents beforehand and that he was going to be there when I sat down with them. It didn't end here either, the rest of the week consisted of other family checking in on me and telling me things my parents hid from me. This included the fact that my parents have been taking money from family to fund a \"caretaker\" that doesn't exist.\n\nSuffice to say, this week has been rough. But, the upside is that even through all this, my extended family has been giving me more love than i've felt in a while. My grandfather spent this last week \"making up for the time i've lost.\" Encouraging me to spend time with friends and do things I want to do. My aunts and uncles have also been helping me through the week.\n\nWell, Saturday night I sat down with parents to talk. It went badly to say the least. They came clean to me about everything. They told me things I will not repeat here. But they did not apologize. My parents still claim that I some how owed my sister my time. My father even saying \"You were put here to be her caretaker\". I won't lie and say I was composed. After everything i learned I confronted them. On the fact that my sister needed a caretaker. The money my dad was taking from his sister, and a few other things. They denied it or made excuses. And in the end, we ended off in a worse place than before.\n\nToday will be my last time talking to them for a while. After talking with my grandfather and uncle last night, I'm not going back. Later today i'm going there and picking up my stuff and moving in with my grandfather. When I graduate high school i'm planning on leaving the state to go to school. My aunt has told me that the money she was sending my dad will be instead be coming to me from now on. My parents have called me twice since Saturday, neither of them were to apologize and only ask when I was coming home.\n\nI won't be going back to them. Right now I still feel pretty uneasy about everything but I feel like that will pass. The rest of my family is showing their support to me and honestly, it feel great. But in the end I lost my parents. Over all of this, i've learned something that I wished I saw earlier. I don't hat my sister. In fact I love her with all my heart. I should never have never projected my hate onto her. That was wrong, and someday I hope to make up for it. But for now I need to leave.\n\nSo, there's my update. Thanks again for the support my original post got. I really appreciate everyone who took the time to comment or show me support. Thanks you.\n\n​\n\n​\n\nEdit: Thank you all so much! I wish I could respond to every single one of you but my lunch only lasts so long. I'll update tonight how the move out went but until then, thank you all. I want to say that your support has been amazing and your kindness means more to me than anyone could ever imagine.\n\n​\n\nLate edit: Wow, I never imagined my story would reach the popularity it did. I know it's kinda cliche and i've said it a thousand times but thank you all. \n\n​\n\nWe just got back from moving my things out of my parents house. Every thing I wanted to take my grandpa and uncle helped move and it's at my grandpa's house now. I have my birth certificate, social security card, and every other document and record I could think of. My parents were quiet the whole time I was there. Shorty after I arrived my dad left with my sister and my mom only hovered over us silently as me moved. It took a while but as we left she broke down and told me she loved me and would miss me. I hugged her and said goodbye, and that was it. Even now I sit here and think if she really meant it. After this whole week of her not saying anything she waited till the end. I hope she meant it. Right now though, I think I just need to look ahead. Maybe one day me and my parents can reconnect. I hope so.\n\n​\n\nThank you all for the advice and love. It's been amazing and i'm glad that through this experience I at least got some positive out of this mess. Will I come back? I don't know. If something happens and you guys still want an update i'll maybe come around again. But for now I'm going to move on. For all those out there who shared their stories with me, thank you, and I hope to see you on the other side. See you space cowboy's :)", "selftext_html": "<!-- SC_OFF --><div class=\"md\"><p>I'm back like I said I would be,. My <a href=\"https://www.reddit.com/r/AmItheAsshole/comments/awyi8k/aita_for_despising_my_mentally_handicap_sister/\">original post</a> got a lot of attention and seeing as you guys seem interested, here's my update.</p>\n\n<p>Well, since that day I made the post i've been staying with my grandfather. The week's been honestly a huge change for me for better and for worse but i'll try to run it down.</p>\n\n<p>I started by telling my grandpa the story of why I broke down the way I did and to be honest, he seemed horrified. No one in my family knew my parents were using me as essentially a free care service for my sister. My grandpa told me some things that I don't feel comfortable repeating here but in essence my sister is "supposed" to be getting care from a professional and that my parents were ignoring that, along with this I was not supposed to be caring for her at all with her mental state as apparently she is a danger to herself and others. With everything else I told him, along with stuff like the movie indecent he was really mad and told me to not contact my parents without him there. He pretty much told me that he would be meeting with my parents beforehand and that he was going to be there when I sat down with them. It didn't end here either, the rest of the week consisted of other family checking in on me and telling me things my parents hid from me. This included the fact that my parents have been taking money from family to fund a "caretaker" that doesn't exist.</p>\n\n<p>Suffice to say, this week has been rough. But, the upside is that even through all this, my extended family has been giving me more love than i've felt in a while. My grandfather spent this last week "making up for the time i've lost." Encouraging me to spend time with friends and do things I want to do. My aunts and uncles have also been helping me through the week.</p>\n\n<p>Well, Saturday night I sat down with parents to talk. It went badly to say the least. They came clean to me about everything. They told me things I will not repeat here. But they did not apologize. My parents still claim that I some how owed my sister my time. My father even saying "You were put here to be her caretaker". I won't lie and say I was composed. After everything i learned I confronted them. On the fact that my sister needed a caretaker. The money my dad was taking from his sister, and a few other things. They denied it or made excuses. And in the end, we ended off in a worse place than before.</p>\n\n<p>Today will be my last time talking to them for a while. After talking with my grandfather and uncle last night, I'm not going back. Later today i'm going there and picking up my stuff and moving in with my grandfather. When I graduate high school i'm planning on leaving the state to go to school. My aunt has told me that the money she was sending my dad will be instead be coming to me from now on. My parents have called me twice since Saturday, neither of them were to apologize and only ask when I was coming home.</p>\n\n<p>I won't be going back to them. Right now I still feel pretty uneasy about everything but I feel like that will pass. The rest of my family is showing their support to me and honestly, it feel great. But in the end I lost my parents. Over all of this, i've learned something that I wished I saw earlier. I don't hat my sister. In fact I love her with all my heart. I should never have never projected my hate onto her. That was wrong, and someday I hope to make up for it. But for now I need to leave.</p>\n\n<p>So, there's my update. Thanks again for the support my original post got. I really appreciate everyone who took the time to comment or show me support. Thanks you.</p>\n\n<p>​</p>\n\n<p>​</p>\n\n<p>Edit: Thank you all so much! I wish I could respond to every single one of you but my lunch only lasts so long. I'll update tonight how the move out went but until then, thank you all. I want to say that your support has been amazing and your kindness means more to me than anyone could ever imagine.</p>\n\n<p>​</p>\n\n<p>Late edit: Wow, I never imagined my story would reach the popularity it did. I know it's kinda cliche and i've said it a thousand times but thank you all. </p>\n\n<p>​</p>\n\n<p>We just got back from moving my things out of my parents house. Every thing I wanted to take my grandpa and uncle helped move and it's at my grandpa's house now. I have my birth certificate, social security card, and every other document and record I could think of. My parents were quiet the whole time I was there. Shorty after I arrived my dad left with my sister and my mom only hovered over us silently as me moved. It took a while but as we left she broke down and told me she loved me and would miss me. I hugged her and said goodbye, and that was it. Even now I sit here and think if she really meant it. After this whole week of her not saying anything she waited till the end. I hope she meant it. Right now though, I think I just need to look ahead. Maybe one day me and my parents can reconnect. I hope so.</p>\n\n<p>​</p>\n\n<p>Thank you all for the advice and love. It's been amazing and i'm glad that through this experience I at least got some positive out of this mess. Will I come back? I don't know. If something happens and you guys still want an update i'll maybe come around again. But for now I'm going to move on. For all those out there who shared their stories with me, thank you, and I hope to see you on the other side. See you space cowboy's :)</p>\n</div><!-- SC_ON -->", "send_replies": true, "spoiler": false, "stickied": false, "subreddit": "r/AmItheAsshole", "subreddit_id": "t5_2xhvq", "subreddit_name_prefixed": "r/AmItheAsshole", "subreddit_subscribers": 24050251, "subreddit_type": "public", "suggested_sort": "top", "thread_id": "t3_azvko1", "thumbnail": "", "title": "UPDATE, AITA for despising my mentally handicap sister?", "top_awarded_type": null, "total_awards_received": 0, "treatment_tags": [], "unrepliable_reason": null, "ups": 72778, "upvote_ratio": 0.96, "url": "https://www.reddit.com/r/AmItheAsshole/comments/azvko1/update_aita_for_despising_my_mentally_handicap/", "user_reports": [], "view_count": null, "visited": false, "wls": 7}, "role": "Renegadesrule33"}, {"content": "Wow. OP's grandfather is a saint.", "metadata": {"_additional_fetch_params": null, "_comments_by_id": null, "_fetched": true, "all_awardings": [], "allow_live_comments": null, "approved_at_utc": null, "approved_by": null, "archived": true, "associated_award": null, "author": "darkxxmist01", "author_cakeday": null, "author_flair_background_color": null, "author_flair_css_class": null, "author_flair_richtext": [], "author_flair_template_id": null, "author_flair_text": null, "author_flair_text_color": null, "author_flair_type": "text", "author_fullname": "t2_kn2cu9v", "author_is_blocked": false, "author_patreon_flair": false, "author_premium": false, "awarders": [], "banned_at_utc": null, "banned_by": null, "body": "Wow. OP's grandfather is a saint.", "body_html": "<div class=\"md\"><p>Wow. OP's grandfather is a saint.</p>\n</div>", "can_gild": false, "can_mod_post": false, "category": null, "clicked": null, "collapsed": false, "collapsed_because_crowd_control": null, "collapsed_reason": null, "collapsed_reason_code": null, "comment_limit": null, "comment_sort": null, "comment_type": null, "content_categories": null, "contest_mode": null, "controversiality": 0, "created": 1552323212.0, "created_utc": 1552323212.0, "depth": 0, "discussion_type": null, "distinguished": null, "domain": null, "downs": 0, "edited": 0.0, "gilded": 1, "gildings": null, "hidden": null, "hide_score": null, "id": "eiacma1", "is_created_from_ads_ui": null, "is_crosspostable": null, "is_meta": null, "is_original_content": null, "is_reddit_media_domain": null, "is_robot_indexable": null, "is_self": null, "is_submitter": false, "is_video": null, "likes": null, "link_flair_background_color": null, "link_flair_css_class": null, "link_flair_richtext": null, "link_flair_template_id": null, "link_flair_text": null, "link_flair_text_color": null, "link_flair_type": null, "link_id": "t3_azvko1", "locked": false, "media": null, "media_embed": null, "media_only": null, "mod_note": null, "mod_reason_by": null, "mod_reason_title": null, "mod_reports": [], "name": "t1_eiacma1", "no_follow": false, "num_comments": null, "num_crossposts": null, "num_reports": null, "over_18": null, "parent_id": "t3_azvko1", "permalink": "/r/AmItheAsshole/comments/azvko1/update_aita_for_despising_my_mentally_handicap/eiacma1/", "pinned": null, "pwls": null, "quarantine": null, "removal_reason": null, "removed_by": null, "removed_by_category": null, "report_reasons": null, "saved": false, "score": 27523, "score_hidden": false, "secure_media": null, "secure_media_embed": null, "selftext": null, "selftext_html": null, "send_replies": true, "spoiler": null, "stickied": false, "subreddit": "AmItheAsshole", "subreddit_id": "t5_2xhvq", "subreddit_name_prefixed": "r/AmItheAsshole", "subreddit_subscribers": null, "subreddit_type": "public", "suggested_sort": null, "thread_id": null, "thumbnail": null, "title": null, "top_awarded_type": null, "total_awards_received": 0, "treatment_tags": [], "unrepliable_reason": null, "ups": 27523, "upvote_ratio": null, "url": null, "user_reports": [], "view_count": null, "visited": null, "wls": null}, "role": "darkxxmist01"}, {"content": "Too right my guy, the sad thing is is that he should have had to be as kind and good as he was. The parents where disgusting people who robbed someone of the necessary childhood experiences and felt no remorse for it.", "metadata": {"_additional_fetch_params": null, "_comments_by_id": null, "_fetched": true, "all_awardings": [], "allow_live_comments": null, "approved_at_utc": null, "approved_by": null, "archived": true, "associated_award": null, "author": "Mrphobics", "author_cakeday": null, "author_flair_background_color": null, "author_flair_css_class": null, "author_flair_richtext": [], "author_flair_template_id": null, "author_flair_text": null, "author_flair_text_color": null, "author_flair_type": "text", "author_fullname": "t2_2cn97oz0", "author_is_blocked": false, "author_patreon_flair": false, "author_premium": false, "awarders": [], "banned_at_utc": null, "banned_by": null, "body": "Too right my guy, the sad thing is is that he should have had to be as kind and good as he was. The parents where disgusting people who robbed someone of the necessary childhood experiences and felt no remorse for it.", "body_html": "<div class=\"md\"><p>Too right my guy, the sad thing is is that he should have had to be as kind and good as he was. The parents where disgusting people who robbed someone of the necessary childhood experiences and felt no remorse for it.</p>\n</div>", "can_gild": false, "can_mod_post": false, "category": null, "clicked": null, "collapsed": false, "collapsed_because_crowd_control": null, "collapsed_reason": null, "collapsed_reason_code": null, "comment_limit": null, "comment_sort": null, "comment_type": null, "content_categories": null, "contest_mode": null, "controversiality": 0, "created": 1552325639.0, "created_utc": 1552325639.0, "depth": 1, "discussion_type": null, "distinguished": null, "domain": null, "downs": 0, "edited": 0.0, "gilded": 0, "gildings": null, "hidden": null, "hide_score": null, "id": "eiag7ex", "is_created_from_ads_ui": null, "is_crosspostable": null, "is_meta": null, "is_original_content": null, "is_reddit_media_domain": null, "is_robot_indexable": null, "is_self": null, "is_submitter": false, "is_video": null, "likes": null, "link_flair_background_color": null, 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"subreddit_id": "t5_2xhvq", "subreddit_name_prefixed": "r/AmItheAsshole", "subreddit_subscribers": null, "subreddit_type": "public", "suggested_sort": null, "thread_id": null, "thumbnail": null, "title": null, "top_awarded_type": null, "total_awards_received": 0, "treatment_tags": [], "unrepliable_reason": null, "ups": 6739, "upvote_ratio": null, "url": null, "user_reports": [], "view_count": null, "visited": null, "wls": null}, "role": "Mrphobics"}, {"content": "While simultaneously robbing the other child of the professional care she needs.", "metadata": {"_additional_fetch_params": null, "_comments_by_id": null, "_fetched": true, "all_awardings": [], "allow_live_comments": null, "approved_at_utc": null, "approved_by": null, "archived": true, "associated_award": null, "author": "ClumsyLavellan", "author_cakeday": null, "author_flair_background_color": "#3b2921", "author_flair_css_class": null, "author_flair_richtext": [], "author_flair_template_id": 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professional care and using it for something completely unrelated", "metadata": {"_additional_fetch_params": null, "_comments_by_id": null, "_fetched": true, "all_awardings": [], "allow_live_comments": null, "approved_at_utc": null, "approved_by": null, "archived": true, "associated_award": null, "author": "viionc", "author_cakeday": null, "author_flair_background_color": null, "author_flair_css_class": null, "author_flair_richtext": [], "author_flair_template_id": null, "author_flair_text": null, "author_flair_text_color": null, "author_flair_type": "text", "author_fullname": "t2_bgf8f", "author_is_blocked": false, "author_patreon_flair": false, "author_premium": false, "awarders": [], "banned_at_utc": null, "banned_by": null, "body": "and robbing other family members of money for said professional care and using it for something completely unrelated", "body_html": "<div class=\"md\"><p>and robbing other family members of money for said professional care and using it for something 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[{"content": "UPDATE, AITA for despising my mentally handicap sister?\n\nI'm back like I said I would be,. My [original post](https://www.reddit.com/r/AmItheAsshole/comments/awyi8k/aita_for_despising_my_mentally_handicap_sister/) got a lot of attention and seeing as you guys seem interested, here's my update.\n\nWell, since that day I made the post i've been staying with my grandfather. The week's been honestly a huge change for me for better and for worse but i'll try to run it down.\n\nI started by telling my grandpa the story of why I broke down the way I did and to be honest, he seemed horrified. No one in my family knew my parents were using me as essentially a free care service for my sister. My grandpa told me some things that I don't feel comfortable repeating here but in essence my sister is \"supposed\" to be getting care from a professional and that my parents were ignoring that, along with this I was not supposed to be caring for her at all with her mental state as apparently she is a danger to herself and others. With everything else I told him, along with stuff like the movie indecent he was really mad and told me to not contact my parents without him there. He pretty much told me that he would be meeting with my parents beforehand and that he was going to be there when I sat down with them. It didn't end here either, the rest of the week consisted of other family checking in on me and telling me things my parents hid from me. This included the fact that my parents have been taking money from family to fund a \"caretaker\" that doesn't exist.\n\nSuffice to say, this week has been rough. But, the upside is that even through all this, my extended family has been giving me more love than i've felt in a while. My grandfather spent this last week \"making up for the time i've lost.\" Encouraging me to spend time with friends and do things I want to do. My aunts and uncles have also been helping me through the week.\n\nWell, Saturday night I sat down with parents to talk. It went badly to say the least. They came clean to me about everything. They told me things I will not repeat here. But they did not apologize. My parents still claim that I some how owed my sister my time. My father even saying \"You were put here to be her caretaker\". I won't lie and say I was composed. After everything i learned I confronted them. On the fact that my sister needed a caretaker. The money my dad was taking from his sister, and a few other things. They denied it or made excuses. And in the end, we ended off in a worse place than before.\n\nToday will be my last time talking to them for a while. After talking with my grandfather and uncle last night, I'm not going back. Later today i'm going there and picking up my stuff and moving in with my grandfather. When I graduate high school i'm planning on leaving the state to go to school. My aunt has told me that the money she was sending my dad will be instead be coming to me from now on. My parents have called me twice since Saturday, neither of them were to apologize and only ask when I was coming home.\n\nI won't be going back to them. Right now I still feel pretty uneasy about everything but I feel like that will pass. The rest of my family is showing their support to me and honestly, it feel great. But in the end I lost my parents. Over all of this, i've learned something that I wished I saw earlier. I don't hat my sister. In fact I love her with all my heart. I should never have never projected my hate onto her. That was wrong, and someday I hope to make up for it. But for now I need to leave.\n\nSo, there's my update. Thanks again for the support my original post got. I really appreciate everyone who took the time to comment or show me support. Thanks you.\n\n\n\n\n\nEdit: Thank you all so much! I wish I could respond to every single one of you but my lunch only lasts so long. I'll update tonight how the move out went but until then, thank you all. I want to say that your support has been amazing and your kindness means more to me than anyone could ever imagine.\n\n\n\nLate edit: Wow, I never imagined my story would reach the popularity it did. I know it's kinda cliche and i've said it a thousand times but thank you all. \n\n\n\nWe just got back from moving my things out of my parents house. Every thing I wanted to take my grandpa and uncle helped move and it's at my grandpa's house now. I have my birth certificate, social security card, and every other document and record I could think of. My parents were quiet the whole time I was there. Shorty after I arrived my dad left with my sister and my mom only hovered over us silently as me moved. It took a while but as we left she broke down and told me she loved me and would miss me. I hugged her and said goodbye, and that was it. Even now I sit here and think if she really meant it. After this whole week of her not saying anything she waited till the end. I hope she meant it. Right now though, I think I just need to look ahead. Maybe one day me and my parents can reconnect. I hope so.\n\n\n\nThank you all for the advice and love. It's been amazing and i'm glad that through this experience I at least got some positive out of this mess. Will I come back? I don't know. If something happens and you guys still want an update i'll maybe come around again. But for now I'm going to move on. For all those out there who shared their stories with me, thank you, and I hope to see you on the other side. See you space cowboy's :)", "metadata": {"_additional_fetch_params": null, "_comments_by_id": null, "_fetched": false, "all_awardings": [], "allow_live_comments": true, "approved_at_utc": null, "approved_by": null, "archived": true, "associated_award": null, "author": "Renegadesrule33", "author_cakeday": null, "author_flair_background_color": null, "author_flair_css_class": null, "author_flair_richtext": [], "author_flair_template_id": null, "author_flair_text": null, "author_flair_text_color": null, "author_flair_type": "text", "author_fullname": "t2_3c816wqd", "author_is_blocked": false, "author_patreon_flair": false, "author_premium": false, "awarders": [], "banned_at_utc": null, "banned_by": null, "body": null, "body_html": null, "can_gild": false, "can_mod_post": false, "category": null, "clicked": false, "collapsed": null, "collapsed_because_crowd_control": null, "collapsed_reason": null, "collapsed_reason_code": null, "comment_limit": 2048, "comment_sort": "confidence", "comment_type": null, "content_categories": null, "contest_mode": false, "controversiality": null, "created": 1552322462.0, "created_utc": 1552322462.0, "depth": null, "discussion_type": null, "distinguished": null, "domain": "self.AmItheAsshole", "downs": 0, "edited": 1552376988.0, "gilded": 22, "gildings": null, "hidden": false, "hide_score": false, "id": "azvko1", "is_created_from_ads_ui": false, "is_crosspostable": false, "is_meta": false, "is_original_content": false, "is_reddit_media_domain": false, "is_robot_indexable": true, "is_self": true, "is_submitter": null, "is_video": false, "likes": null, "link_flair_background_color": "#ffd635", "link_flair_css_class": "", "link_flair_richtext": [], "link_flair_template_id": "47fdebc0-d3af-11e8-80cb-0e369ce83cd4", "link_flair_text": "UPDATE", "link_flair_text_color": null, "link_flair_type": "text", "link_id": null, "locked": false, "media": null, "media_embed": null, "media_only": false, "mod_note": null, "mod_reason_by": null, "mod_reason_title": null, "mod_reports": [], "name": "t3_azvko1", "no_follow": false, "num_comments": 1970, "num_crossposts": 8, "num_reports": null, "over_18": false, "parent_id": null, "permalink": "/r/AmItheAsshole/comments/azvko1/update_aita_for_despising_my_mentally_handicap/", "pinned": false, "pwls": 7, "quarantine": false, "removal_reason": null, "removed_by": null, "removed_by_category": null, "report_reasons": null, "saved": false, "score": 72778, "score_hidden": null, "secure_media": null, "secure_media_embed": null, "selftext": "I'm back like I said I would be,. My [original post](https://www.reddit.com/r/AmItheAsshole/comments/awyi8k/aita_for_despising_my_mentally_handicap_sister/) got a lot of attention and seeing as you guys seem interested, here's my update.\n\nWell, since that day I made the post i've been staying with my grandfather. The week's been honestly a huge change for me for better and for worse but i'll try to run it down.\n\nI started by telling my grandpa the story of why I broke down the way I did and to be honest, he seemed horrified. No one in my family knew my parents were using me as essentially a free care service for my sister. My grandpa told me some things that I don't feel comfortable repeating here but in essence my sister is \"supposed\" to be getting care from a professional and that my parents were ignoring that, along with this I was not supposed to be caring for her at all with her mental state as apparently she is a danger to herself and others. With everything else I told him, along with stuff like the movie indecent he was really mad and told me to not contact my parents without him there. He pretty much told me that he would be meeting with my parents beforehand and that he was going to be there when I sat down with them. It didn't end here either, the rest of the week consisted of other family checking in on me and telling me things my parents hid from me. This included the fact that my parents have been taking money from family to fund a \"caretaker\" that doesn't exist.\n\nSuffice to say, this week has been rough. But, the upside is that even through all this, my extended family has been giving me more love than i've felt in a while. My grandfather spent this last week \"making up for the time i've lost.\" Encouraging me to spend time with friends and do things I want to do. My aunts and uncles have also been helping me through the week.\n\nWell, Saturday night I sat down with parents to talk. It went badly to say the least. They came clean to me about everything. They told me things I will not repeat here. But they did not apologize. My parents still claim that I some how owed my sister my time. My father even saying \"You were put here to be her caretaker\". I won't lie and say I was composed. After everything i learned I confronted them. On the fact that my sister needed a caretaker. The money my dad was taking from his sister, and a few other things. They denied it or made excuses. And in the end, we ended off in a worse place than before.\n\nToday will be my last time talking to them for a while. After talking with my grandfather and uncle last night, I'm not going back. Later today i'm going there and picking up my stuff and moving in with my grandfather. When I graduate high school i'm planning on leaving the state to go to school. My aunt has told me that the money she was sending my dad will be instead be coming to me from now on. My parents have called me twice since Saturday, neither of them were to apologize and only ask when I was coming home.\n\nI won't be going back to them. Right now I still feel pretty uneasy about everything but I feel like that will pass. The rest of my family is showing their support to me and honestly, it feel great. But in the end I lost my parents. Over all of this, i've learned something that I wished I saw earlier. I don't hat my sister. In fact I love her with all my heart. I should never have never projected my hate onto her. That was wrong, and someday I hope to make up for it. But for now I need to leave.\n\nSo, there's my update. Thanks again for the support my original post got. I really appreciate everyone who took the time to comment or show me support. Thanks you.\n\n​\n\n​\n\nEdit: Thank you all so much! I wish I could respond to every single one of you but my lunch only lasts so long. I'll update tonight how the move out went but until then, thank you all. I want to say that your support has been amazing and your kindness means more to me than anyone could ever imagine.\n\n​\n\nLate edit: Wow, I never imagined my story would reach the popularity it did. I know it's kinda cliche and i've said it a thousand times but thank you all. \n\n​\n\nWe just got back from moving my things out of my parents house. Every thing I wanted to take my grandpa and uncle helped move and it's at my grandpa's house now. I have my birth certificate, social security card, and every other document and record I could think of. My parents were quiet the whole time I was there. Shorty after I arrived my dad left with my sister and my mom only hovered over us silently as me moved. It took a while but as we left she broke down and told me she loved me and would miss me. I hugged her and said goodbye, and that was it. Even now I sit here and think if she really meant it. After this whole week of her not saying anything she waited till the end. I hope she meant it. Right now though, I think I just need to look ahead. Maybe one day me and my parents can reconnect. I hope so.\n\n​\n\nThank you all for the advice and love. It's been amazing and i'm glad that through this experience I at least got some positive out of this mess. Will I come back? I don't know. If something happens and you guys still want an update i'll maybe come around again. But for now I'm going to move on. For all those out there who shared their stories with me, thank you, and I hope to see you on the other side. See you space cowboy's :)", "selftext_html": "<!-- SC_OFF --><div class=\"md\"><p>I'm back like I said I would be,. My <a href=\"https://www.reddit.com/r/AmItheAsshole/comments/awyi8k/aita_for_despising_my_mentally_handicap_sister/\">original post</a> got a lot of attention and seeing as you guys seem interested, here's my update.</p>\n\n<p>Well, since that day I made the post i've been staying with my grandfather. The week's been honestly a huge change for me for better and for worse but i'll try to run it down.</p>\n\n<p>I started by telling my grandpa the story of why I broke down the way I did and to be honest, he seemed horrified. No one in my family knew my parents were using me as essentially a free care service for my sister. My grandpa told me some things that I don't feel comfortable repeating here but in essence my sister is "supposed" to be getting care from a professional and that my parents were ignoring that, along with this I was not supposed to be caring for her at all with her mental state as apparently she is a danger to herself and others. With everything else I told him, along with stuff like the movie indecent he was really mad and told me to not contact my parents without him there. He pretty much told me that he would be meeting with my parents beforehand and that he was going to be there when I sat down with them. It didn't end here either, the rest of the week consisted of other family checking in on me and telling me things my parents hid from me. This included the fact that my parents have been taking money from family to fund a "caretaker" that doesn't exist.</p>\n\n<p>Suffice to say, this week has been rough. But, the upside is that even through all this, my extended family has been giving me more love than i've felt in a while. My grandfather spent this last week "making up for the time i've lost." Encouraging me to spend time with friends and do things I want to do. My aunts and uncles have also been helping me through the week.</p>\n\n<p>Well, Saturday night I sat down with parents to talk. It went badly to say the least. They came clean to me about everything. They told me things I will not repeat here. But they did not apologize. My parents still claim that I some how owed my sister my time. My father even saying "You were put here to be her caretaker". I won't lie and say I was composed. After everything i learned I confronted them. On the fact that my sister needed a caretaker. The money my dad was taking from his sister, and a few other things. They denied it or made excuses. And in the end, we ended off in a worse place than before.</p>\n\n<p>Today will be my last time talking to them for a while. After talking with my grandfather and uncle last night, I'm not going back. Later today i'm going there and picking up my stuff and moving in with my grandfather. When I graduate high school i'm planning on leaving the state to go to school. My aunt has told me that the money she was sending my dad will be instead be coming to me from now on. My parents have called me twice since Saturday, neither of them were to apologize and only ask when I was coming home.</p>\n\n<p>I won't be going back to them. Right now I still feel pretty uneasy about everything but I feel like that will pass. The rest of my family is showing their support to me and honestly, it feel great. But in the end I lost my parents. Over all of this, i've learned something that I wished I saw earlier. I don't hat my sister. In fact I love her with all my heart. I should never have never projected my hate onto her. That was wrong, and someday I hope to make up for it. But for now I need to leave.</p>\n\n<p>So, there's my update. Thanks again for the support my original post got. I really appreciate everyone who took the time to comment or show me support. Thanks you.</p>\n\n<p>​</p>\n\n<p>​</p>\n\n<p>Edit: Thank you all so much! I wish I could respond to every single one of you but my lunch only lasts so long. I'll update tonight how the move out went but until then, thank you all. I want to say that your support has been amazing and your kindness means more to me than anyone could ever imagine.</p>\n\n<p>​</p>\n\n<p>Late edit: Wow, I never imagined my story would reach the popularity it did. I know it's kinda cliche and i've said it a thousand times but thank you all. </p>\n\n<p>​</p>\n\n<p>We just got back from moving my things out of my parents house. Every thing I wanted to take my grandpa and uncle helped move and it's at my grandpa's house now. I have my birth certificate, social security card, and every other document and record I could think of. My parents were quiet the whole time I was there. Shorty after I arrived my dad left with my sister and my mom only hovered over us silently as me moved. It took a while but as we left she broke down and told me she loved me and would miss me. I hugged her and said goodbye, and that was it. Even now I sit here and think if she really meant it. After this whole week of her not saying anything she waited till the end. I hope she meant it. Right now though, I think I just need to look ahead. Maybe one day me and my parents can reconnect. I hope so.</p>\n\n<p>​</p>\n\n<p>Thank you all for the advice and love. It's been amazing and i'm glad that through this experience I at least got some positive out of this mess. Will I come back? I don't know. If something happens and you guys still want an update i'll maybe come around again. But for now I'm going to move on. For all those out there who shared their stories with me, thank you, and I hope to see you on the other side. See you space cowboy's :)</p>\n</div><!-- SC_ON -->", "send_replies": true, "spoiler": false, "stickied": false, "subreddit": "r/AmItheAsshole", "subreddit_id": "t5_2xhvq", "subreddit_name_prefixed": "r/AmItheAsshole", "subreddit_subscribers": 24050251, "subreddit_type": "public", "suggested_sort": "top", "thread_id": "t3_azvko1", "thumbnail": "", "title": "UPDATE, AITA for despising my mentally handicap sister?", "top_awarded_type": null, "total_awards_received": 0, "treatment_tags": [], "unrepliable_reason": null, "ups": 72778, "upvote_ratio": 0.96, "url": "https://www.reddit.com/r/AmItheAsshole/comments/azvko1/update_aita_for_despising_my_mentally_handicap/", "user_reports": [], "view_count": null, "visited": false, "wls": 7}, "role": "Renegadesrule33"}, {"content": "Wow. OP's grandfather is a saint.", "metadata": {"_additional_fetch_params": null, "_comments_by_id": null, "_fetched": true, "all_awardings": [], "allow_live_comments": null, "approved_at_utc": null, "approved_by": null, "archived": true, "associated_award": null, "author": "darkxxmist01", "author_cakeday": null, "author_flair_background_color": null, "author_flair_css_class": null, "author_flair_richtext": [], "author_flair_template_id": null, "author_flair_text": null, "author_flair_text_color": null, "author_flair_type": "text", "author_fullname": "t2_kn2cu9v", "author_is_blocked": false, "author_patreon_flair": false, "author_premium": false, "awarders": [], "banned_at_utc": null, "banned_by": null, "body": "Wow. OP's grandfather is a saint.", "body_html": "<div class=\"md\"><p>Wow. OP's grandfather is a saint.</p>\n</div>", "can_gild": false, "can_mod_post": false, "category": null, "clicked": null, "collapsed": false, "collapsed_because_crowd_control": null, "collapsed_reason": null, "collapsed_reason_code": null, "comment_limit": null, "comment_sort": null, "comment_type": null, "content_categories": null, "contest_mode": null, "controversiality": 0, "created": 1552323212.0, "created_utc": 1552323212.0, "depth": 0, "discussion_type": null, "distinguished": null, "domain": null, "downs": 0, "edited": 0.0, "gilded": 1, "gildings": null, "hidden": null, "hide_score": null, "id": "eiacma1", "is_created_from_ads_ui": null, "is_crosspostable": null, "is_meta": null, "is_original_content": null, "is_reddit_media_domain": null, "is_robot_indexable": null, "is_self": null, "is_submitter": false, "is_video": null, "likes": null, "link_flair_background_color": null, "link_flair_css_class": null, "link_flair_richtext": null, "link_flair_template_id": null, "link_flair_text": null, "link_flair_text_color": null, "link_flair_type": null, "link_id": "t3_azvko1", "locked": false, "media": null, "media_embed": null, "media_only": null, "mod_note": null, "mod_reason_by": null, "mod_reason_title": null, "mod_reports": [], "name": "t1_eiacma1", "no_follow": false, "num_comments": null, "num_crossposts": null, "num_reports": null, "over_18": null, "parent_id": "t3_azvko1", "permalink": "/r/AmItheAsshole/comments/azvko1/update_aita_for_despising_my_mentally_handicap/eiacma1/", "pinned": null, "pwls": null, "quarantine": null, "removal_reason": null, "removed_by": null, "removed_by_category": null, "report_reasons": null, "saved": false, "score": 27523, "score_hidden": false, "secure_media": null, "secure_media_embed": null, "selftext": null, "selftext_html": null, "send_replies": true, "spoiler": null, "stickied": false, "subreddit": "AmItheAsshole", "subreddit_id": "t5_2xhvq", "subreddit_name_prefixed": "r/AmItheAsshole", "subreddit_subscribers": null, "subreddit_type": "public", "suggested_sort": null, "thread_id": null, "thumbnail": null, "title": null, "top_awarded_type": null, "total_awards_received": 0, "treatment_tags": [], "unrepliable_reason": null, "ups": 27523, "upvote_ratio": null, "url": null, "user_reports": [], "view_count": null, "visited": null, "wls": null}, "role": "darkxxmist01"}, {"content": "Too right my guy, the sad thing is is that he should have had to be as kind and good as he was. The parents where disgusting people who robbed someone of the necessary childhood experiences and felt no remorse for it.", "metadata": {"_additional_fetch_params": null, "_comments_by_id": null, "_fetched": true, "all_awardings": [], "allow_live_comments": null, "approved_at_utc": null, "approved_by": null, "archived": true, "associated_award": null, "author": "Mrphobics", "author_cakeday": null, "author_flair_background_color": null, "author_flair_css_class": null, "author_flair_richtext": [], "author_flair_template_id": null, "author_flair_text": null, "author_flair_text_color": null, "author_flair_type": "text", "author_fullname": "t2_2cn97oz0", "author_is_blocked": false, "author_patreon_flair": false, "author_premium": false, "awarders": [], "banned_at_utc": null, "banned_by": null, "body": "Too right my guy, the sad thing is is that he should have had to be as kind and good as he was. The parents where disgusting people who robbed someone of the necessary childhood experiences and felt no remorse for it.", "body_html": "<div class=\"md\"><p>Too right my guy, the sad thing is is that he should have had to be as kind and good as he was. The parents where disgusting people who robbed someone of the necessary childhood experiences and felt no remorse for it.</p>\n</div>", "can_gild": false, "can_mod_post": false, "category": null, "clicked": null, "collapsed": false, "collapsed_because_crowd_control": null, "collapsed_reason": null, "collapsed_reason_code": null, "comment_limit": null, "comment_sort": null, "comment_type": null, "content_categories": null, "contest_mode": null, "controversiality": 0, "created": 1552325639.0, "created_utc": 1552325639.0, "depth": 1, "discussion_type": null, "distinguished": null, "domain": null, "downs": 0, "edited": 0.0, "gilded": 0, "gildings": null, "hidden": null, "hide_score": null, "id": "eiag7ex", "is_created_from_ads_ui": null, "is_crosspostable": null, "is_meta": null, "is_original_content": null, "is_reddit_media_domain": null, "is_robot_indexable": null, "is_self": null, "is_submitter": false, "is_video": null, "likes": null, "link_flair_background_color": null, "link_flair_css_class": null, "link_flair_richtext": null, "link_flair_template_id": null, "link_flair_text": null, "link_flair_text_color": null, "link_flair_type": null, "link_id": "t3_azvko1", "locked": false, "media": null, "media_embed": null, "media_only": null, "mod_note": null, "mod_reason_by": null, "mod_reason_title": null, "mod_reports": [], "name": "t1_eiag7ex", "no_follow": false, "num_comments": null, "num_crossposts": null, "num_reports": null, "over_18": null, "parent_id": "t1_eiacma1", "permalink": "/r/AmItheAsshole/comments/azvko1/update_aita_for_despising_my_mentally_handicap/eiag7ex/", "pinned": null, "pwls": null, "quarantine": null, "removal_reason": null, "removed_by": null, "removed_by_category": null, "report_reasons": null, "saved": false, "score": 6739, "score_hidden": false, "secure_media": null, "secure_media_embed": null, "selftext": null, "selftext_html": null, "send_replies": true, "spoiler": null, "stickied": false, "subreddit": "AmItheAsshole", "subreddit_id": "t5_2xhvq", "subreddit_name_prefixed": "r/AmItheAsshole", "subreddit_subscribers": null, "subreddit_type": "public", "suggested_sort": null, "thread_id": null, "thumbnail": null, "title": null, "top_awarded_type": null, "total_awards_received": 0, "treatment_tags": [], "unrepliable_reason": null, "ups": 6739, "upvote_ratio": null, "url": null, "user_reports": [], "view_count": null, "visited": null, "wls": null}, "role": "Mrphobics"}]
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[{"content": "UPDATE, AITA for despising my mentally handicap sister?\n\nI'm back like I said I would be,. My [original post](https://www.reddit.com/r/AmItheAsshole/comments/awyi8k/aita_for_despising_my_mentally_handicap_sister/) got a lot of attention and seeing as you guys seem interested, here's my update.\n\nWell, since that day I made the post i've been staying with my grandfather. The week's been honestly a huge change for me for better and for worse but i'll try to run it down.\n\nI started by telling my grandpa the story of why I broke down the way I did and to be honest, he seemed horrified. No one in my family knew my parents were using me as essentially a free care service for my sister. My grandpa told me some things that I don't feel comfortable repeating here but in essence my sister is \"supposed\" to be getting care from a professional and that my parents were ignoring that, along with this I was not supposed to be caring for her at all with her mental state as apparently she is a danger to herself and others. With everything else I told him, along with stuff like the movie indecent he was really mad and told me to not contact my parents without him there. He pretty much told me that he would be meeting with my parents beforehand and that he was going to be there when I sat down with them. It didn't end here either, the rest of the week consisted of other family checking in on me and telling me things my parents hid from me. This included the fact that my parents have been taking money from family to fund a \"caretaker\" that doesn't exist.\n\nSuffice to say, this week has been rough. But, the upside is that even through all this, my extended family has been giving me more love than i've felt in a while. My grandfather spent this last week \"making up for the time i've lost.\" Encouraging me to spend time with friends and do things I want to do. My aunts and uncles have also been helping me through the week.\n\nWell, Saturday night I sat down with parents to talk. It went badly to say the least. They came clean to me about everything. They told me things I will not repeat here. But they did not apologize. My parents still claim that I some how owed my sister my time. My father even saying \"You were put here to be her caretaker\". I won't lie and say I was composed. After everything i learned I confronted them. On the fact that my sister needed a caretaker. The money my dad was taking from his sister, and a few other things. They denied it or made excuses. And in the end, we ended off in a worse place than before.\n\nToday will be my last time talking to them for a while. After talking with my grandfather and uncle last night, I'm not going back. Later today i'm going there and picking up my stuff and moving in with my grandfather. When I graduate high school i'm planning on leaving the state to go to school. My aunt has told me that the money she was sending my dad will be instead be coming to me from now on. My parents have called me twice since Saturday, neither of them were to apologize and only ask when I was coming home.\n\nI won't be going back to them. Right now I still feel pretty uneasy about everything but I feel like that will pass. The rest of my family is showing their support to me and honestly, it feel great. But in the end I lost my parents. Over all of this, i've learned something that I wished I saw earlier. I don't hat my sister. In fact I love her with all my heart. I should never have never projected my hate onto her. That was wrong, and someday I hope to make up for it. But for now I need to leave.\n\nSo, there's my update. Thanks again for the support my original post got. I really appreciate everyone who took the time to comment or show me support. Thanks you.\n\n\n\n\n\nEdit: Thank you all so much! I wish I could respond to every single one of you but my lunch only lasts so long. I'll update tonight how the move out went but until then, thank you all. I want to say that your support has been amazing and your kindness means more to me than anyone could ever imagine.\n\n\n\nLate edit: Wow, I never imagined my story would reach the popularity it did. I know it's kinda cliche and i've said it a thousand times but thank you all. \n\n\n\nWe just got back from moving my things out of my parents house. Every thing I wanted to take my grandpa and uncle helped move and it's at my grandpa's house now. I have my birth certificate, social security card, and every other document and record I could think of. My parents were quiet the whole time I was there. Shorty after I arrived my dad left with my sister and my mom only hovered over us silently as me moved. It took a while but as we left she broke down and told me she loved me and would miss me. I hugged her and said goodbye, and that was it. Even now I sit here and think if she really meant it. After this whole week of her not saying anything she waited till the end. I hope she meant it. Right now though, I think I just need to look ahead. Maybe one day me and my parents can reconnect. I hope so.\n\n\n\nThank you all for the advice and love. It's been amazing and i'm glad that through this experience I at least got some positive out of this mess. Will I come back? I don't know. If something happens and you guys still want an update i'll maybe come around again. But for now I'm going to move on. For all those out there who shared their stories with me, thank you, and I hope to see you on the other side. See you space cowboy's :)", "metadata": {"_additional_fetch_params": null, "_comments_by_id": null, "_fetched": false, "all_awardings": [], "allow_live_comments": true, "approved_at_utc": null, "approved_by": null, "archived": true, "associated_award": null, "author": "Renegadesrule33", "author_cakeday": null, "author_flair_background_color": null, "author_flair_css_class": null, "author_flair_richtext": [], "author_flair_template_id": null, "author_flair_text": null, "author_flair_text_color": null, "author_flair_type": "text", "author_fullname": "t2_3c816wqd", "author_is_blocked": false, "author_patreon_flair": false, "author_premium": false, "awarders": [], "banned_at_utc": null, "banned_by": null, "body": null, "body_html": null, "can_gild": false, "can_mod_post": false, "category": null, "clicked": false, "collapsed": null, "collapsed_because_crowd_control": null, "collapsed_reason": null, "collapsed_reason_code": null, "comment_limit": 2048, "comment_sort": "confidence", "comment_type": null, "content_categories": null, "contest_mode": false, "controversiality": null, "created": 1552322462.0, "created_utc": 1552322462.0, "depth": null, "discussion_type": null, "distinguished": null, "domain": "self.AmItheAsshole", "downs": 0, "edited": 1552376988.0, "gilded": 22, "gildings": null, "hidden": false, "hide_score": false, "id": "azvko1", "is_created_from_ads_ui": false, "is_crosspostable": false, "is_meta": false, "is_original_content": false, "is_reddit_media_domain": false, "is_robot_indexable": true, "is_self": true, "is_submitter": null, "is_video": false, "likes": null, "link_flair_background_color": "#ffd635", "link_flair_css_class": "", "link_flair_richtext": [], "link_flair_template_id": "47fdebc0-d3af-11e8-80cb-0e369ce83cd4", "link_flair_text": "UPDATE", "link_flair_text_color": null, "link_flair_type": "text", "link_id": null, "locked": false, "media": null, "media_embed": null, "media_only": false, "mod_note": null, "mod_reason_by": null, "mod_reason_title": null, "mod_reports": [], "name": "t3_azvko1", "no_follow": false, "num_comments": 1970, "num_crossposts": 8, "num_reports": null, "over_18": false, "parent_id": null, "permalink": "/r/AmItheAsshole/comments/azvko1/update_aita_for_despising_my_mentally_handicap/", "pinned": false, "pwls": 7, "quarantine": false, "removal_reason": null, "removed_by": null, "removed_by_category": null, "report_reasons": null, "saved": false, "score": 72778, "score_hidden": null, "secure_media": null, "secure_media_embed": null, "selftext": "I'm back like I said I would be,. My [original post](https://www.reddit.com/r/AmItheAsshole/comments/awyi8k/aita_for_despising_my_mentally_handicap_sister/) got a lot of attention and seeing as you guys seem interested, here's my update.\n\nWell, since that day I made the post i've been staying with my grandfather. The week's been honestly a huge change for me for better and for worse but i'll try to run it down.\n\nI started by telling my grandpa the story of why I broke down the way I did and to be honest, he seemed horrified. No one in my family knew my parents were using me as essentially a free care service for my sister. My grandpa told me some things that I don't feel comfortable repeating here but in essence my sister is \"supposed\" to be getting care from a professional and that my parents were ignoring that, along with this I was not supposed to be caring for her at all with her mental state as apparently she is a danger to herself and others. With everything else I told him, along with stuff like the movie indecent he was really mad and told me to not contact my parents without him there. He pretty much told me that he would be meeting with my parents beforehand and that he was going to be there when I sat down with them. It didn't end here either, the rest of the week consisted of other family checking in on me and telling me things my parents hid from me. This included the fact that my parents have been taking money from family to fund a \"caretaker\" that doesn't exist.\n\nSuffice to say, this week has been rough. But, the upside is that even through all this, my extended family has been giving me more love than i've felt in a while. My grandfather spent this last week \"making up for the time i've lost.\" Encouraging me to spend time with friends and do things I want to do. My aunts and uncles have also been helping me through the week.\n\nWell, Saturday night I sat down with parents to talk. It went badly to say the least. They came clean to me about everything. They told me things I will not repeat here. But they did not apologize. My parents still claim that I some how owed my sister my time. My father even saying \"You were put here to be her caretaker\". I won't lie and say I was composed. After everything i learned I confronted them. On the fact that my sister needed a caretaker. The money my dad was taking from his sister, and a few other things. They denied it or made excuses. And in the end, we ended off in a worse place than before.\n\nToday will be my last time talking to them for a while. After talking with my grandfather and uncle last night, I'm not going back. Later today i'm going there and picking up my stuff and moving in with my grandfather. When I graduate high school i'm planning on leaving the state to go to school. My aunt has told me that the money she was sending my dad will be instead be coming to me from now on. My parents have called me twice since Saturday, neither of them were to apologize and only ask when I was coming home.\n\nI won't be going back to them. Right now I still feel pretty uneasy about everything but I feel like that will pass. The rest of my family is showing their support to me and honestly, it feel great. But in the end I lost my parents. Over all of this, i've learned something that I wished I saw earlier. I don't hat my sister. In fact I love her with all my heart. I should never have never projected my hate onto her. That was wrong, and someday I hope to make up for it. But for now I need to leave.\n\nSo, there's my update. Thanks again for the support my original post got. I really appreciate everyone who took the time to comment or show me support. Thanks you.\n\n​\n\n​\n\nEdit: Thank you all so much! I wish I could respond to every single one of you but my lunch only lasts so long. I'll update tonight how the move out went but until then, thank you all. I want to say that your support has been amazing and your kindness means more to me than anyone could ever imagine.\n\n​\n\nLate edit: Wow, I never imagined my story would reach the popularity it did. I know it's kinda cliche and i've said it a thousand times but thank you all. \n\n​\n\nWe just got back from moving my things out of my parents house. Every thing I wanted to take my grandpa and uncle helped move and it's at my grandpa's house now. I have my birth certificate, social security card, and every other document and record I could think of. My parents were quiet the whole time I was there. Shorty after I arrived my dad left with my sister and my mom only hovered over us silently as me moved. It took a while but as we left she broke down and told me she loved me and would miss me. I hugged her and said goodbye, and that was it. Even now I sit here and think if she really meant it. After this whole week of her not saying anything she waited till the end. I hope she meant it. Right now though, I think I just need to look ahead. Maybe one day me and my parents can reconnect. I hope so.\n\n​\n\nThank you all for the advice and love. It's been amazing and i'm glad that through this experience I at least got some positive out of this mess. Will I come back? I don't know. If something happens and you guys still want an update i'll maybe come around again. But for now I'm going to move on. For all those out there who shared their stories with me, thank you, and I hope to see you on the other side. See you space cowboy's :)", "selftext_html": "<!-- SC_OFF --><div class=\"md\"><p>I'm back like I said I would be,. My <a href=\"https://www.reddit.com/r/AmItheAsshole/comments/awyi8k/aita_for_despising_my_mentally_handicap_sister/\">original post</a> got a lot of attention and seeing as you guys seem interested, here's my update.</p>\n\n<p>Well, since that day I made the post i've been staying with my grandfather. The week's been honestly a huge change for me for better and for worse but i'll try to run it down.</p>\n\n<p>I started by telling my grandpa the story of why I broke down the way I did and to be honest, he seemed horrified. No one in my family knew my parents were using me as essentially a free care service for my sister. My grandpa told me some things that I don't feel comfortable repeating here but in essence my sister is "supposed" to be getting care from a professional and that my parents were ignoring that, along with this I was not supposed to be caring for her at all with her mental state as apparently she is a danger to herself and others. With everything else I told him, along with stuff like the movie indecent he was really mad and told me to not contact my parents without him there. He pretty much told me that he would be meeting with my parents beforehand and that he was going to be there when I sat down with them. It didn't end here either, the rest of the week consisted of other family checking in on me and telling me things my parents hid from me. This included the fact that my parents have been taking money from family to fund a "caretaker" that doesn't exist.</p>\n\n<p>Suffice to say, this week has been rough. But, the upside is that even through all this, my extended family has been giving me more love than i've felt in a while. My grandfather spent this last week "making up for the time i've lost." Encouraging me to spend time with friends and do things I want to do. My aunts and uncles have also been helping me through the week.</p>\n\n<p>Well, Saturday night I sat down with parents to talk. It went badly to say the least. They came clean to me about everything. They told me things I will not repeat here. But they did not apologize. My parents still claim that I some how owed my sister my time. My father even saying "You were put here to be her caretaker". I won't lie and say I was composed. After everything i learned I confronted them. On the fact that my sister needed a caretaker. The money my dad was taking from his sister, and a few other things. They denied it or made excuses. And in the end, we ended off in a worse place than before.</p>\n\n<p>Today will be my last time talking to them for a while. After talking with my grandfather and uncle last night, I'm not going back. Later today i'm going there and picking up my stuff and moving in with my grandfather. When I graduate high school i'm planning on leaving the state to go to school. My aunt has told me that the money she was sending my dad will be instead be coming to me from now on. My parents have called me twice since Saturday, neither of them were to apologize and only ask when I was coming home.</p>\n\n<p>I won't be going back to them. Right now I still feel pretty uneasy about everything but I feel like that will pass. The rest of my family is showing their support to me and honestly, it feel great. But in the end I lost my parents. Over all of this, i've learned something that I wished I saw earlier. I don't hat my sister. In fact I love her with all my heart. I should never have never projected my hate onto her. That was wrong, and someday I hope to make up for it. But for now I need to leave.</p>\n\n<p>So, there's my update. Thanks again for the support my original post got. I really appreciate everyone who took the time to comment or show me support. Thanks you.</p>\n\n<p>​</p>\n\n<p>​</p>\n\n<p>Edit: Thank you all so much! I wish I could respond to every single one of you but my lunch only lasts so long. I'll update tonight how the move out went but until then, thank you all. I want to say that your support has been amazing and your kindness means more to me than anyone could ever imagine.</p>\n\n<p>​</p>\n\n<p>Late edit: Wow, I never imagined my story would reach the popularity it did. I know it's kinda cliche and i've said it a thousand times but thank you all. </p>\n\n<p>​</p>\n\n<p>We just got back from moving my things out of my parents house. Every thing I wanted to take my grandpa and uncle helped move and it's at my grandpa's house now. I have my birth certificate, social security card, and every other document and record I could think of. My parents were quiet the whole time I was there. Shorty after I arrived my dad left with my sister and my mom only hovered over us silently as me moved. It took a while but as we left she broke down and told me she loved me and would miss me. I hugged her and said goodbye, and that was it. Even now I sit here and think if she really meant it. After this whole week of her not saying anything she waited till the end. I hope she meant it. Right now though, I think I just need to look ahead. Maybe one day me and my parents can reconnect. I hope so.</p>\n\n<p>​</p>\n\n<p>Thank you all for the advice and love. It's been amazing and i'm glad that through this experience I at least got some positive out of this mess. Will I come back? I don't know. If something happens and you guys still want an update i'll maybe come around again. But for now I'm going to move on. For all those out there who shared their stories with me, thank you, and I hope to see you on the other side. See you space cowboy's :)</p>\n</div><!-- SC_ON -->", "send_replies": true, "spoiler": false, "stickied": false, "subreddit": "r/AmItheAsshole", "subreddit_id": "t5_2xhvq", "subreddit_name_prefixed": "r/AmItheAsshole", "subreddit_subscribers": 24050251, "subreddit_type": "public", "suggested_sort": "top", "thread_id": "t3_azvko1", "thumbnail": "", "title": "UPDATE, AITA for despising my mentally handicap sister?", "top_awarded_type": null, "total_awards_received": 0, "treatment_tags": [], "unrepliable_reason": null, "ups": 72778, "upvote_ratio": 0.96, "url": "https://www.reddit.com/r/AmItheAsshole/comments/azvko1/update_aita_for_despising_my_mentally_handicap/", "user_reports": [], "view_count": null, "visited": false, "wls": 7}, "role": "Renegadesrule33"}, {"content": "Wow. OP's grandfather is a saint.", "metadata": {"_additional_fetch_params": null, "_comments_by_id": null, "_fetched": true, "all_awardings": [], "allow_live_comments": null, "approved_at_utc": null, "approved_by": null, "archived": true, "associated_award": null, "author": "darkxxmist01", "author_cakeday": null, "author_flair_background_color": null, "author_flair_css_class": null, "author_flair_richtext": [], "author_flair_template_id": null, "author_flair_text": null, "author_flair_text_color": null, "author_flair_type": "text", "author_fullname": "t2_kn2cu9v", "author_is_blocked": false, "author_patreon_flair": false, "author_premium": false, "awarders": [], "banned_at_utc": null, "banned_by": null, "body": "Wow. OP's grandfather is a saint.", "body_html": "<div class=\"md\"><p>Wow. OP's grandfather is a saint.</p>\n</div>", "can_gild": false, "can_mod_post": false, "category": null, "clicked": null, "collapsed": false, "collapsed_because_crowd_control": null, "collapsed_reason": null, "collapsed_reason_code": null, "comment_limit": null, "comment_sort": null, "comment_type": null, "content_categories": null, "contest_mode": null, "controversiality": 0, "created": 1552323212.0, "created_utc": 1552323212.0, "depth": 0, "discussion_type": null, "distinguished": null, "domain": null, "downs": 0, "edited": 0.0, "gilded": 1, "gildings": null, "hidden": null, "hide_score": null, "id": "eiacma1", "is_created_from_ads_ui": null, "is_crosspostable": null, "is_meta": null, "is_original_content": null, "is_reddit_media_domain": null, "is_robot_indexable": null, "is_self": null, "is_submitter": false, "is_video": null, "likes": null, "link_flair_background_color": null, "link_flair_css_class": null, "link_flair_richtext": null, "link_flair_template_id": null, "link_flair_text": null, "link_flair_text_color": null, "link_flair_type": null, "link_id": "t3_azvko1", "locked": false, "media": null, "media_embed": null, "media_only": null, "mod_note": null, "mod_reason_by": null, "mod_reason_title": null, "mod_reports": [], "name": "t1_eiacma1", "no_follow": false, "num_comments": null, "num_crossposts": null, "num_reports": null, "over_18": null, "parent_id": "t3_azvko1", "permalink": "/r/AmItheAsshole/comments/azvko1/update_aita_for_despising_my_mentally_handicap/eiacma1/", "pinned": null, "pwls": null, "quarantine": null, "removal_reason": null, "removed_by": null, "removed_by_category": null, "report_reasons": null, "saved": false, "score": 27523, "score_hidden": false, "secure_media": null, "secure_media_embed": null, "selftext": null, "selftext_html": null, "send_replies": true, "spoiler": null, "stickied": false, "subreddit": "AmItheAsshole", "subreddit_id": "t5_2xhvq", "subreddit_name_prefixed": "r/AmItheAsshole", "subreddit_subscribers": null, "subreddit_type": "public", "suggested_sort": null, "thread_id": null, "thumbnail": null, "title": null, "top_awarded_type": null, "total_awards_received": 0, "treatment_tags": [], "unrepliable_reason": null, "ups": 27523, "upvote_ratio": null, "url": null, "user_reports": [], "view_count": null, "visited": null, "wls": null}, "role": "darkxxmist01"}, {"content": "Too right my guy, the sad thing is is that he should have had to be as kind and good as he was. The parents where disgusting people who robbed someone of the necessary childhood experiences and felt no remorse for it.", "metadata": {"_additional_fetch_params": null, "_comments_by_id": null, "_fetched": true, "all_awardings": [], "allow_live_comments": null, "approved_at_utc": null, "approved_by": null, "archived": true, "associated_award": null, "author": "Mrphobics", "author_cakeday": null, "author_flair_background_color": null, "author_flair_css_class": null, "author_flair_richtext": [], "author_flair_template_id": null, "author_flair_text": null, "author_flair_text_color": null, "author_flair_type": "text", "author_fullname": "t2_2cn97oz0", "author_is_blocked": false, "author_patreon_flair": false, "author_premium": false, "awarders": [], "banned_at_utc": null, "banned_by": null, "body": "Too right my guy, the sad thing is is that he should have had to be as kind and good as he was. The parents where disgusting people who robbed someone of the necessary childhood experiences and felt no remorse for it.", "body_html": "<div class=\"md\"><p>Too right my guy, the sad thing is is that he should have had to be as kind and good as he was. The parents where disgusting people who robbed someone of the necessary childhood experiences and felt no remorse for it.</p>\n</div>", "can_gild": false, "can_mod_post": false, "category": null, "clicked": null, "collapsed": false, "collapsed_because_crowd_control": null, "collapsed_reason": null, "collapsed_reason_code": null, "comment_limit": null, "comment_sort": null, "comment_type": null, "content_categories": null, "contest_mode": null, "controversiality": 0, "created": 1552325639.0, "created_utc": 1552325639.0, "depth": 1, "discussion_type": null, "distinguished": null, "domain": null, "downs": 0, "edited": 0.0, "gilded": 0, "gildings": null, "hidden": null, "hide_score": null, "id": "eiag7ex", "is_created_from_ads_ui": null, "is_crosspostable": null, "is_meta": null, "is_original_content": null, "is_reddit_media_domain": null, "is_robot_indexable": null, "is_self": null, "is_submitter": false, "is_video": null, "likes": null, "link_flair_background_color": null, 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My god, I have noticed this phenomenon so many times. Thank you for putting it into words like that.
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[{"content": "UPDATE, AITA for despising my mentally handicap sister?\n\nI'm back like I said I would be,. My [original post](https://www.reddit.com/r/AmItheAsshole/comments/awyi8k/aita_for_despising_my_mentally_handicap_sister/) got a lot of attention and seeing as you guys seem interested, here's my update.\n\nWell, since that day I made the post i've been staying with my grandfather. The week's been honestly a huge change for me for better and for worse but i'll try to run it down.\n\nI started by telling my grandpa the story of why I broke down the way I did and to be honest, he seemed horrified. No one in my family knew my parents were using me as essentially a free care service for my sister. My grandpa told me some things that I don't feel comfortable repeating here but in essence my sister is \"supposed\" to be getting care from a professional and that my parents were ignoring that, along with this I was not supposed to be caring for her at all with her mental state as apparently she is a danger to herself and others. With everything else I told him, along with stuff like the movie indecent he was really mad and told me to not contact my parents without him there. He pretty much told me that he would be meeting with my parents beforehand and that he was going to be there when I sat down with them. It didn't end here either, the rest of the week consisted of other family checking in on me and telling me things my parents hid from me. This included the fact that my parents have been taking money from family to fund a \"caretaker\" that doesn't exist.\n\nSuffice to say, this week has been rough. But, the upside is that even through all this, my extended family has been giving me more love than i've felt in a while. My grandfather spent this last week \"making up for the time i've lost.\" Encouraging me to spend time with friends and do things I want to do. My aunts and uncles have also been helping me through the week.\n\nWell, Saturday night I sat down with parents to talk. It went badly to say the least. They came clean to me about everything. They told me things I will not repeat here. But they did not apologize. My parents still claim that I some how owed my sister my time. My father even saying \"You were put here to be her caretaker\". I won't lie and say I was composed. After everything i learned I confronted them. On the fact that my sister needed a caretaker. The money my dad was taking from his sister, and a few other things. They denied it or made excuses. And in the end, we ended off in a worse place than before.\n\nToday will be my last time talking to them for a while. After talking with my grandfather and uncle last night, I'm not going back. Later today i'm going there and picking up my stuff and moving in with my grandfather. When I graduate high school i'm planning on leaving the state to go to school. My aunt has told me that the money she was sending my dad will be instead be coming to me from now on. My parents have called me twice since Saturday, neither of them were to apologize and only ask when I was coming home.\n\nI won't be going back to them. Right now I still feel pretty uneasy about everything but I feel like that will pass. The rest of my family is showing their support to me and honestly, it feel great. But in the end I lost my parents. Over all of this, i've learned something that I wished I saw earlier. I don't hat my sister. In fact I love her with all my heart. I should never have never projected my hate onto her. That was wrong, and someday I hope to make up for it. But for now I need to leave.\n\nSo, there's my update. Thanks again for the support my original post got. I really appreciate everyone who took the time to comment or show me support. Thanks you.\n\n\n\n\n\nEdit: Thank you all so much! I wish I could respond to every single one of you but my lunch only lasts so long. I'll update tonight how the move out went but until then, thank you all. I want to say that your support has been amazing and your kindness means more to me than anyone could ever imagine.\n\n\n\nLate edit: Wow, I never imagined my story would reach the popularity it did. I know it's kinda cliche and i've said it a thousand times but thank you all. \n\n\n\nWe just got back from moving my things out of my parents house. Every thing I wanted to take my grandpa and uncle helped move and it's at my grandpa's house now. I have my birth certificate, social security card, and every other document and record I could think of. My parents were quiet the whole time I was there. Shorty after I arrived my dad left with my sister and my mom only hovered over us silently as me moved. It took a while but as we left she broke down and told me she loved me and would miss me. I hugged her and said goodbye, and that was it. Even now I sit here and think if she really meant it. After this whole week of her not saying anything she waited till the end. I hope she meant it. Right now though, I think I just need to look ahead. Maybe one day me and my parents can reconnect. I hope so.\n\n\n\nThank you all for the advice and love. It's been amazing and i'm glad that through this experience I at least got some positive out of this mess. Will I come back? I don't know. If something happens and you guys still want an update i'll maybe come around again. But for now I'm going to move on. For all those out there who shared their stories with me, thank you, and I hope to see you on the other side. See you space cowboy's :)", "metadata": {"_additional_fetch_params": null, "_comments_by_id": null, "_fetched": false, "all_awardings": [], "allow_live_comments": true, "approved_at_utc": null, "approved_by": null, "archived": true, "associated_award": null, "author": "Renegadesrule33", "author_cakeday": null, "author_flair_background_color": null, "author_flair_css_class": null, "author_flair_richtext": [], "author_flair_template_id": null, "author_flair_text": null, "author_flair_text_color": null, "author_flair_type": "text", "author_fullname": "t2_3c816wqd", "author_is_blocked": false, "author_patreon_flair": false, "author_premium": false, "awarders": [], "banned_at_utc": null, "banned_by": null, "body": null, "body_html": null, "can_gild": false, "can_mod_post": false, "category": null, "clicked": false, "collapsed": null, "collapsed_because_crowd_control": null, "collapsed_reason": null, "collapsed_reason_code": null, "comment_limit": 2048, "comment_sort": "confidence", "comment_type": null, "content_categories": null, "contest_mode": false, "controversiality": null, "created": 1552322462.0, "created_utc": 1552322462.0, "depth": null, "discussion_type": null, "distinguished": null, "domain": "self.AmItheAsshole", "downs": 0, "edited": 1552376988.0, "gilded": 22, "gildings": null, "hidden": false, "hide_score": false, "id": "azvko1", "is_created_from_ads_ui": false, "is_crosspostable": false, "is_meta": false, "is_original_content": false, "is_reddit_media_domain": false, "is_robot_indexable": true, "is_self": true, "is_submitter": null, "is_video": false, "likes": null, "link_flair_background_color": "#ffd635", "link_flair_css_class": "", "link_flair_richtext": [], "link_flair_template_id": "47fdebc0-d3af-11e8-80cb-0e369ce83cd4", "link_flair_text": "UPDATE", "link_flair_text_color": null, "link_flair_type": "text", "link_id": null, "locked": false, "media": null, "media_embed": null, "media_only": false, "mod_note": null, "mod_reason_by": null, "mod_reason_title": null, "mod_reports": [], "name": "t3_azvko1", "no_follow": false, "num_comments": 1970, "num_crossposts": 8, "num_reports": null, "over_18": false, "parent_id": null, "permalink": "/r/AmItheAsshole/comments/azvko1/update_aita_for_despising_my_mentally_handicap/", "pinned": false, "pwls": 7, "quarantine": false, "removal_reason": null, "removed_by": null, "removed_by_category": null, "report_reasons": null, "saved": false, "score": 72778, "score_hidden": null, "secure_media": null, "secure_media_embed": null, "selftext": "I'm back like I said I would be,. My [original post](https://www.reddit.com/r/AmItheAsshole/comments/awyi8k/aita_for_despising_my_mentally_handicap_sister/) got a lot of attention and seeing as you guys seem interested, here's my update.\n\nWell, since that day I made the post i've been staying with my grandfather. The week's been honestly a huge change for me for better and for worse but i'll try to run it down.\n\nI started by telling my grandpa the story of why I broke down the way I did and to be honest, he seemed horrified. No one in my family knew my parents were using me as essentially a free care service for my sister. My grandpa told me some things that I don't feel comfortable repeating here but in essence my sister is \"supposed\" to be getting care from a professional and that my parents were ignoring that, along with this I was not supposed to be caring for her at all with her mental state as apparently she is a danger to herself and others. With everything else I told him, along with stuff like the movie indecent he was really mad and told me to not contact my parents without him there. He pretty much told me that he would be meeting with my parents beforehand and that he was going to be there when I sat down with them. It didn't end here either, the rest of the week consisted of other family checking in on me and telling me things my parents hid from me. This included the fact that my parents have been taking money from family to fund a \"caretaker\" that doesn't exist.\n\nSuffice to say, this week has been rough. But, the upside is that even through all this, my extended family has been giving me more love than i've felt in a while. My grandfather spent this last week \"making up for the time i've lost.\" Encouraging me to spend time with friends and do things I want to do. My aunts and uncles have also been helping me through the week.\n\nWell, Saturday night I sat down with parents to talk. It went badly to say the least. They came clean to me about everything. They told me things I will not repeat here. But they did not apologize. My parents still claim that I some how owed my sister my time. My father even saying \"You were put here to be her caretaker\". I won't lie and say I was composed. After everything i learned I confronted them. On the fact that my sister needed a caretaker. The money my dad was taking from his sister, and a few other things. They denied it or made excuses. And in the end, we ended off in a worse place than before.\n\nToday will be my last time talking to them for a while. After talking with my grandfather and uncle last night, I'm not going back. Later today i'm going there and picking up my stuff and moving in with my grandfather. When I graduate high school i'm planning on leaving the state to go to school. My aunt has told me that the money she was sending my dad will be instead be coming to me from now on. My parents have called me twice since Saturday, neither of them were to apologize and only ask when I was coming home.\n\nI won't be going back to them. Right now I still feel pretty uneasy about everything but I feel like that will pass. The rest of my family is showing their support to me and honestly, it feel great. But in the end I lost my parents. Over all of this, i've learned something that I wished I saw earlier. I don't hat my sister. In fact I love her with all my heart. I should never have never projected my hate onto her. That was wrong, and someday I hope to make up for it. But for now I need to leave.\n\nSo, there's my update. Thanks again for the support my original post got. I really appreciate everyone who took the time to comment or show me support. Thanks you.\n\n​\n\n​\n\nEdit: Thank you all so much! I wish I could respond to every single one of you but my lunch only lasts so long. I'll update tonight how the move out went but until then, thank you all. I want to say that your support has been amazing and your kindness means more to me than anyone could ever imagine.\n\n​\n\nLate edit: Wow, I never imagined my story would reach the popularity it did. I know it's kinda cliche and i've said it a thousand times but thank you all. \n\n​\n\nWe just got back from moving my things out of my parents house. Every thing I wanted to take my grandpa and uncle helped move and it's at my grandpa's house now. I have my birth certificate, social security card, and every other document and record I could think of. My parents were quiet the whole time I was there. Shorty after I arrived my dad left with my sister and my mom only hovered over us silently as me moved. It took a while but as we left she broke down and told me she loved me and would miss me. I hugged her and said goodbye, and that was it. Even now I sit here and think if she really meant it. After this whole week of her not saying anything she waited till the end. I hope she meant it. Right now though, I think I just need to look ahead. Maybe one day me and my parents can reconnect. I hope so.\n\n​\n\nThank you all for the advice and love. It's been amazing and i'm glad that through this experience I at least got some positive out of this mess. Will I come back? I don't know. If something happens and you guys still want an update i'll maybe come around again. But for now I'm going to move on. For all those out there who shared their stories with me, thank you, and I hope to see you on the other side. See you space cowboy's :)", "selftext_html": "<!-- SC_OFF --><div class=\"md\"><p>I'm back like I said I would be,. My <a href=\"https://www.reddit.com/r/AmItheAsshole/comments/awyi8k/aita_for_despising_my_mentally_handicap_sister/\">original post</a> got a lot of attention and seeing as you guys seem interested, here's my update.</p>\n\n<p>Well, since that day I made the post i've been staying with my grandfather. The week's been honestly a huge change for me for better and for worse but i'll try to run it down.</p>\n\n<p>I started by telling my grandpa the story of why I broke down the way I did and to be honest, he seemed horrified. No one in my family knew my parents were using me as essentially a free care service for my sister. My grandpa told me some things that I don't feel comfortable repeating here but in essence my sister is "supposed" to be getting care from a professional and that my parents were ignoring that, along with this I was not supposed to be caring for her at all with her mental state as apparently she is a danger to herself and others. With everything else I told him, along with stuff like the movie indecent he was really mad and told me to not contact my parents without him there. He pretty much told me that he would be meeting with my parents beforehand and that he was going to be there when I sat down with them. It didn't end here either, the rest of the week consisted of other family checking in on me and telling me things my parents hid from me. This included the fact that my parents have been taking money from family to fund a "caretaker" that doesn't exist.</p>\n\n<p>Suffice to say, this week has been rough. But, the upside is that even through all this, my extended family has been giving me more love than i've felt in a while. My grandfather spent this last week "making up for the time i've lost." Encouraging me to spend time with friends and do things I want to do. My aunts and uncles have also been helping me through the week.</p>\n\n<p>Well, Saturday night I sat down with parents to talk. It went badly to say the least. They came clean to me about everything. They told me things I will not repeat here. But they did not apologize. My parents still claim that I some how owed my sister my time. My father even saying "You were put here to be her caretaker". I won't lie and say I was composed. After everything i learned I confronted them. On the fact that my sister needed a caretaker. The money my dad was taking from his sister, and a few other things. They denied it or made excuses. And in the end, we ended off in a worse place than before.</p>\n\n<p>Today will be my last time talking to them for a while. After talking with my grandfather and uncle last night, I'm not going back. Later today i'm going there and picking up my stuff and moving in with my grandfather. When I graduate high school i'm planning on leaving the state to go to school. My aunt has told me that the money she was sending my dad will be instead be coming to me from now on. My parents have called me twice since Saturday, neither of them were to apologize and only ask when I was coming home.</p>\n\n<p>I won't be going back to them. Right now I still feel pretty uneasy about everything but I feel like that will pass. The rest of my family is showing their support to me and honestly, it feel great. But in the end I lost my parents. Over all of this, i've learned something that I wished I saw earlier. I don't hat my sister. In fact I love her with all my heart. I should never have never projected my hate onto her. That was wrong, and someday I hope to make up for it. But for now I need to leave.</p>\n\n<p>So, there's my update. Thanks again for the support my original post got. I really appreciate everyone who took the time to comment or show me support. Thanks you.</p>\n\n<p>​</p>\n\n<p>​</p>\n\n<p>Edit: Thank you all so much! I wish I could respond to every single one of you but my lunch only lasts so long. I'll update tonight how the move out went but until then, thank you all. I want to say that your support has been amazing and your kindness means more to me than anyone could ever imagine.</p>\n\n<p>​</p>\n\n<p>Late edit: Wow, I never imagined my story would reach the popularity it did. I know it's kinda cliche and i've said it a thousand times but thank you all. </p>\n\n<p>​</p>\n\n<p>We just got back from moving my things out of my parents house. Every thing I wanted to take my grandpa and uncle helped move and it's at my grandpa's house now. I have my birth certificate, social security card, and every other document and record I could think of. My parents were quiet the whole time I was there. Shorty after I arrived my dad left with my sister and my mom only hovered over us silently as me moved. It took a while but as we left she broke down and told me she loved me and would miss me. I hugged her and said goodbye, and that was it. Even now I sit here and think if she really meant it. After this whole week of her not saying anything she waited till the end. I hope she meant it. Right now though, I think I just need to look ahead. Maybe one day me and my parents can reconnect. I hope so.</p>\n\n<p>​</p>\n\n<p>Thank you all for the advice and love. It's been amazing and i'm glad that through this experience I at least got some positive out of this mess. Will I come back? I don't know. If something happens and you guys still want an update i'll maybe come around again. But for now I'm going to move on. For all those out there who shared their stories with me, thank you, and I hope to see you on the other side. See you space cowboy's :)</p>\n</div><!-- SC_ON -->", "send_replies": true, "spoiler": false, "stickied": false, "subreddit": "r/AmItheAsshole", "subreddit_id": "t5_2xhvq", "subreddit_name_prefixed": "r/AmItheAsshole", "subreddit_subscribers": 24050251, "subreddit_type": "public", "suggested_sort": "top", "thread_id": "t3_azvko1", "thumbnail": "", "title": "UPDATE, AITA for despising my mentally handicap sister?", "top_awarded_type": null, "total_awards_received": 0, "treatment_tags": [], "unrepliable_reason": null, "ups": 72778, "upvote_ratio": 0.96, "url": "https://www.reddit.com/r/AmItheAsshole/comments/azvko1/update_aita_for_despising_my_mentally_handicap/", "user_reports": [], "view_count": null, "visited": false, "wls": 7}, "role": "Renegadesrule33"}, {"content": "Wow. OP's grandfather is a saint.", "metadata": {"_additional_fetch_params": null, "_comments_by_id": null, "_fetched": true, "all_awardings": [], "allow_live_comments": null, "approved_at_utc": null, "approved_by": null, "archived": true, "associated_award": null, "author": "darkxxmist01", "author_cakeday": null, "author_flair_background_color": null, "author_flair_css_class": null, "author_flair_richtext": [], "author_flair_template_id": null, "author_flair_text": null, "author_flair_text_color": null, "author_flair_type": "text", "author_fullname": "t2_kn2cu9v", "author_is_blocked": false, "author_patreon_flair": false, "author_premium": false, "awarders": [], "banned_at_utc": null, "banned_by": null, "body": "Wow. OP's grandfather is a saint.", "body_html": "<div class=\"md\"><p>Wow. OP's grandfather is a saint.</p>\n</div>", "can_gild": false, "can_mod_post": false, "category": null, "clicked": null, "collapsed": false, "collapsed_because_crowd_control": null, "collapsed_reason": null, "collapsed_reason_code": null, "comment_limit": null, "comment_sort": null, "comment_type": null, "content_categories": null, "contest_mode": null, "controversiality": 0, "created": 1552323212.0, "created_utc": 1552323212.0, "depth": 0, "discussion_type": null, "distinguished": null, "domain": null, "downs": 0, "edited": 0.0, "gilded": 1, "gildings": null, "hidden": null, "hide_score": null, "id": "eiacma1", "is_created_from_ads_ui": null, "is_crosspostable": null, "is_meta": null, "is_original_content": null, "is_reddit_media_domain": null, "is_robot_indexable": null, "is_self": null, "is_submitter": false, "is_video": null, "likes": null, "link_flair_background_color": null, "link_flair_css_class": null, "link_flair_richtext": null, "link_flair_template_id": null, "link_flair_text": null, "link_flair_text_color": null, "link_flair_type": null, "link_id": "t3_azvko1", "locked": false, "media": null, "media_embed": null, "media_only": null, "mod_note": null, "mod_reason_by": null, "mod_reason_title": null, "mod_reports": [], "name": "t1_eiacma1", "no_follow": false, "num_comments": null, "num_crossposts": null, "num_reports": null, "over_18": null, "parent_id": "t3_azvko1", "permalink": "/r/AmItheAsshole/comments/azvko1/update_aita_for_despising_my_mentally_handicap/eiacma1/", "pinned": null, "pwls": null, "quarantine": null, "removal_reason": null, "removed_by": null, "removed_by_category": null, "report_reasons": null, "saved": false, "score": 27523, "score_hidden": false, "secure_media": null, "secure_media_embed": null, "selftext": null, "selftext_html": null, "send_replies": true, "spoiler": null, "stickied": false, "subreddit": "AmItheAsshole", "subreddit_id": "t5_2xhvq", "subreddit_name_prefixed": "r/AmItheAsshole", "subreddit_subscribers": null, "subreddit_type": "public", "suggested_sort": null, "thread_id": null, "thumbnail": null, "title": null, "top_awarded_type": null, "total_awards_received": 0, "treatment_tags": [], "unrepliable_reason": null, "ups": 27523, "upvote_ratio": null, "url": null, "user_reports": [], "view_count": null, "visited": null, "wls": null}, "role": "darkxxmist01"}, {"content": "Too right my guy, the sad thing is is that he should have had to be as kind and good as he was. The parents where disgusting people who robbed someone of the necessary childhood experiences and felt no remorse for it.", "metadata": {"_additional_fetch_params": null, "_comments_by_id": null, "_fetched": true, "all_awardings": [], "allow_live_comments": null, "approved_at_utc": null, "approved_by": null, "archived": true, "associated_award": null, "author": "Mrphobics", "author_cakeday": null, "author_flair_background_color": null, "author_flair_css_class": null, "author_flair_richtext": [], "author_flair_template_id": null, "author_flair_text": null, "author_flair_text_color": null, "author_flair_type": "text", "author_fullname": "t2_2cn97oz0", "author_is_blocked": false, "author_patreon_flair": false, "author_premium": false, "awarders": [], "banned_at_utc": null, "banned_by": null, "body": "Too right my guy, the sad thing is is that he should have had to be as kind and good as he was. The parents where disgusting people who robbed someone of the necessary childhood experiences and felt no remorse for it.", "body_html": "<div class=\"md\"><p>Too right my guy, the sad thing is is that he should have had to be as kind and good as he was. The parents where disgusting people who robbed someone of the necessary childhood experiences and felt no remorse for it.</p>\n</div>", "can_gild": false, "can_mod_post": false, "category": null, "clicked": null, "collapsed": false, "collapsed_because_crowd_control": null, "collapsed_reason": null, "collapsed_reason_code": null, "comment_limit": null, "comment_sort": null, "comment_type": null, "content_categories": null, "contest_mode": null, "controversiality": 0, "created": 1552325639.0, "created_utc": 1552325639.0, "depth": 1, "discussion_type": null, "distinguished": null, "domain": null, "downs": 0, "edited": 0.0, "gilded": 0, "gildings": null, "hidden": null, "hide_score": null, "id": "eiag7ex", "is_created_from_ads_ui": null, "is_crosspostable": null, "is_meta": null, "is_original_content": null, "is_reddit_media_domain": null, "is_robot_indexable": null, "is_self": null, "is_submitter": false, "is_video": null, "likes": null, "link_flair_background_color": null, 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@@pholdway5801 Start with yourself then. Bye.
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Battle of the Oranges, La Tomatina, etc. How many disgusting food-wasting "traditions" are there? 🤨 I literally just got bought oranges and tomatoes today and knowing that some people waste them where I have to spend money on it is infuriating. 😠 Just because something is a "tradition", doesn't mean it has to continue. Slavery was a tradition. Child-marriage was a tradition. 😒 Maybe it's time to stop doing stupid things for ridiculous excuses.
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People need to move on from some traditions.
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I’m sure they’re all IN THEIR PRIME or Don Lemon, the gay, misogynist, woman hater would be googling it.
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I was thinking that!
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all those vitamins:( shameful 😕
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I'd love to do this
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I'd love to do this, but honestly, I can see what they mean by saying it's wasteful
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World needs that food!
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What sort of fuckery is this?
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I don’t think you know who the President is, this is Bidens tax plan
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@@billylarson2532 facts
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Democrats still ruining America
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Wow Christine is gorgeous woman..😍🥰
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Yep. I got 400.00 less than last year. I'm single with no dependants.I needed that 400.00
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You can just see the results what Democrats did with these bills they passed over the last two years see how much they really screwed us I'm getting $20 back this year that's the lowest return I've ever had since I have filed thank you Biden for this infrastructure bill and the American Rescue plan for making American struggle even more no over-priced inflation Andover price gas was not good enough let's see how much more we can screw the working class over
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Yes they realize if they have content over 2 minutes long that viewers are starting to realize their full of shit so they resulted to making shorts to edit all the bulshit out to make themselves look legit
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Same here
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Let's go BRANDON
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And Assad’s English wife, the British Rose of the Desert, is where?
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@@GodzHarleyGirlStudio even multiples graves of 8 or more isn’t mass. This is propaganda
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Hi BBC News. Please can you read the new educational book called 'The Replacement People of the Bible', and see what the rabbis and priests have been hiding for thousands of years about Prophet Muhammad being prophesied in the Old Testament. Also, how the Muslims got the West out of the Dark Ages, which the Western educational institutions are hiding from people.
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You're confusing the White Hats with the White Helmets. The latter are a humanitarian crisis group and have no link to Isis.
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I am urging all my Syrian brothers and sisters, we all must return to Syria IMMEDIATELY and PERMANENTLY
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Anglo-Americans have found on whom they shift the blame. Of course, you didn't find crimes in Gaza, Iraq or any other places where neocolonialism acts
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I’m waiting for Israel to be blamed 😮what’s going on is that crazy.😮
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And how many of them were ISIS fighters again? 🤨
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--RrRGsX4pU
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UCITDBdJvYOm02ESGEh3uDYA
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youtube
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I see the usual tankies and nazis are claiming this is fake
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--RrRGsX4pU
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UCPOeI3Y4C8OvtnE4E1EuyYQ
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