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1,601 | I swear to god, radfems are the funniest fucking people. They are such realists that they can roast pretty much anyone. I love it. | Transphobic | lgb | Post | Tumblr |
1,602 | My taste in men: Just be respectful, kind, thoughtful, not afraid to share your feelings, soft, and just overall nice to me. My taste in women: All women. Women ❤️ | Not Transphobic | lgb | Post | Tumblr |
1,603 | It’s no coincidence that gay men are stereotyped as mean and catty and lesbians are stereotyped as rude and angry. A lifetime of having our boundaries pushed, our orientations criticised by left and right alike, of people using us and our spaces as a backdrop to make themselves feel more interesting, means that we can’t even defend our rights without having a stereotype slapped on us.The stereotypes persist because they’re a convenient way to mock and dismiss our rightful indignation. It distracts from our complaints, our anger, our frustration. It turns it into a problem with ourselves rather than a problem with the world.People need to ask themselves whether the gay man they met is really “elitist and bitchy,” or if he’s actively defending himself from people trying to perpetrate pinkwashed conversion therapy. Or if a lesbian woman they know is “exclusionist and aggressive,” or if she’s just sick of being predated upon by men. | Transphobic | lgb | Post | Tumblr |
1,604 | This had 4k likes on X and many people liking it are non-lesbians. No one is “excluding” trans women from lesbianism, by definition males cannot be lesbians as a lesbian is a female homosexual. And to say lesbians don’t “deserve” to be a lesbian because they aren’t attracted to males is disgusting. Being a lesbian isn’t something you deserve, you just are one by nature. Disgusting homophobic post. | Transphobic | lgb | Post | Tumblr |
1,605 | TRAs will have “CIS men DNI!! CIS Men DNI!!” plastered all over their bios, but then lose their shit at radfems for talking about female separatism and criticising men. I don’t know man, but by their own logic, “cis men dni” seems pretty close to entering terf territory to me. | Transphobic | lgb | Post | Tumblr |
1,606 | I hate being reminded that TERFs exist and people who believe in LGB movement. Like when I go out to the gay bar i can’t fully feel at home because I don’t know who is and isn’t safe, even in ny own community. | Not Transphobic | lgb | Post | Tumblr |
1,607 | The other day my friend told me her 5 year old daughter told her she wanted to be a “daddy”. My friend asked what she meant. The kid said “I want to be a daddy. I want to be a boy.”My friend asked, “why do you want to be a boy?”“So I can be like daddy and fix things and be strong.”And my friend said, “you don’t need to be a boy to do all those things”And her kid said “oh, ok!”And just like that, my friend could have had her child taken away in California. | Transphobic | lgb | Post | Tumblr |
1,608 | Literally the only (modern) Christian apologetic I don’t feel condescended by is CS Lewis. God I wish so badly I could meet the guy because I am constantly going “yes!!!! I know exactly what you mean!!!” Or “wait wait I need to follow up why didn’t you write this in more detail???”I have zero confidence in most lower-case “orthodox” Christians because every one I’ve known, not a single one, has anything positive to say about a gay except “I have gay friends, I’m not homophobic!” Or just act disgusted or freaked out when someone mentions their gay spouse, or kisses, or I casually say “so-and-so is really pretty.”Not Lewis though. It’s such a low bar but like, he’s the only one I’ve known and read who can at least recognise that gay relationships aren’t just sex and we really do have love for each other, and who actively speaks against that base disgust.I remember telling a Catholic, the first and only one I came out to, she had just said she loves gay people and all. And I say I’m gay and hope to marry one day, and tell about a lovely girl I used to date and all. And my hopes and aspirations for my life. And she just says “you’d kiss a girl? Ew, that’s disgusting.” I just hate that even with the people who say they love me most in the world. I feel more honestly perceived about by some random dead childrens writer.God I can’t wait to leave this stupid country and just go home. | Not Transphobic | lgb | Post | Tumblr |
1,609 | the way tras spam all gender critical tags reminds me when i first found a feminist groups in social media and they was raided by rightwinged men who would deanon women and bully and harass them and just spam dick pics and violent threats/random phrases | Transphobic | lgb | Post | Tumblr |
1,610 | God I’m so fucking tired of people shoving everyone who wouldn’t fit the most rigid definition of what a conservative would approve of into the same “queer” box. If you’re not same-sex attracted, we’re not fighting the same fight and there’s absolutely no reason for you to try to shove yourself into our community. Fuck off and build your own communities instead instead of leeching off of the LGB. | Transphobic | lgb | Post | Tumblr |
1,611 | Yet another reason to stop the Democrats Communists this election year!! | Not Transphobic | lgb | Post | Tumblr |
1,612 | You know what we should just start doing outside of Tumblr and online gay spaces? Calling our community what it originally was, “the gay community”Next time anyone mentions the “queer” community or things that “affect the lgbtq community” in a conversation, just stop them real quick and ask them to confirm; “wait, the gay community, or the queer community?”Sure, they’ll say “I thought they were the same thing.”Then, be honest; “actually, despite some gay people still identifying and backing them, the queer TQIA+ community is pretty homophobic and a lot of us want nothing to do with them and actively disagree with their ideology. They seem pretty keen on wanting this too as they call lesbians and gay men bigots, deny homosexuality exists, and even protest actual gay people and groups being at pride.”To which, the person will then specify which they are talking about. And next time they make mention of anything, maybe they’ll remember to separate them. And maybe people will realize where most of the ridiculous demands and pseudoscience are coming from. That it has nothing to do with being gay, but people who call themselves “queer”.And hopefully it just takes on.LGB’s who wanna drop the T, start actually doing it. | Transphobic | lgb | Post | Tumblr |
1,613 | i wish gay men supported lesbians as much as we support them | Transphobic | lgb | Post | Tumblr |
1,614 | because it’s the start of a new year i should probably lay out some of my key beliefs because i do have loads of controversial opinions gender critical 🚹🚺 pro gay rights 🏳️🌈 pro-one state solution 🇮🇱🇵🇸 pro-abortion religious critical 🔯✝️☪️☯️✡️🕎🕉️ marxist (i’m still learning more about it) feminist ally ♀ uhh yeah that’s pretty much it but if these change i’ll update them | Transphobic | lgb | Post | Tumblr |
1,615 | One of the hardest things to deal with growing up as a lesbian is the loneliness. Feeling isolated from your heterosexual peers that talk about boys all the time, and feeling so different and that no one understands you.But here’s a message for young lesbians : there are girls like you out there. You are not alone in your feelings. | Not Transphobic | lgb | Post | Tumblr |
1,616 | Some of the faggiest 💅 dykiest 🪓 twinkiest 💁🏻 queerest 🌈 sex 🥵 🔥 occurs between 👨🏻 men and 👩🏻 women 🤯 . Don’t let those nasty genital fetishist homos 👨🏻🤝👨🏾 🙅🏻♀️ tell you that intercourse 👉🏻👌🏻 has to occur between people of the same sex 🥱 in order to be gay 🍆 💦 gay is whatever you want it to be. We all define gayness for ourselves! Straight het PIV is more subversive than boring 🏠o sex, they’re all elitist 🚩 exclusionist 🖕🏻 gatekeepers anyway❤️ Love, beans (he/him, ze/zir), your local minor transmasculine achillean faggot gremlin ❤️-How some of y'all be sounding like | Transphobic | lgb | Post | Tumblr |
1,617 | I miss the time we spent in class and recess just basking in the sun every spring and summer | Not Transphobic | lgb | Post | Tumblr |
1,618 | There are two underlying beliefs behind the “gay men can like women/lesbians can like men/the gay/lesbian experience can’t be confided or simply defined by one definition/the gay/lesbian experience is multifaceted” type of argument. 1. That true, actual homosexuality does not exist, and every man must desire women at least a little, and that every women must desire men at least a little, and2. That homosexuals, in all their forms, experienced, opinions, races, religions, ages, and expressions, aren’t interesting enough, and that for a group of women to be diverse and interesting, there needs to be a woman attracted to men among them, and vice versa for gay men.That is it. That is why they say “there are no rules to being gay!” As if there’s some secret rule that prevents gay men from being with women, and vice versa for lesbians, and not a sincere lack of desire. That is why they say gayness/lesbianism can’t be confined to one thing. Both of these ideas are garden-variety homophobia. Both of them cause immense harm to homosexuals, especially young ones who have not had the chance to fully realize their homosexuality. | Not Transphobic | lgb | Post | Tumblr |
1,619 | TRA logic:Turned on by pretending that your partner is a five year old girl? Perfectly fine, ddlg is a healthy way to explore different taboo relationship dynamicsTurned on by punching, choking, and urinating on your partner? Perfectly fine, bdsm can help explore repressed urges and spice up an otherwise vanilla relationshipTurned on by pretending your BIPOC partner is a slave and you’re their master? Perfectly fine, raceplay is a spicy way to navigate complex racial dynamics in a relationshipExclusively same-sex attracted, and only capable of desiring partners of the same biological sex, with whom you want a loving, nurturing relationship? You are a disgusting bigoted genital fetishist with significant psychological disturbances, please go to therapy to unpack your biases. | Transphobic | lgb | Post | Tumblr |
1,620 | How is Dr Brassard on the global diorama of surgeons? For some reason I am under the impression he's really good, yet I haven't really been able to find any evidence of his work. How does he stack up against Suporn, quality-wise? And what is his waiting list like? Suporn's is like limbo. | Not Transphobic | Transgender_Surgeries | Post | Reddit |
1,621 | What I don’t get is when people say homosexuality can be a result of socialisation. If it is HOW can someone be socialised to be homosexual? They never say what it is. Because it’s fake. Homosexuality is innate and something you are born as. | Not Transphobic | lgb | Post | Tumblr |
1,622 | reblog if nonbinary/genderfluid/etc people can be lesbians | Not Transphobic | lgb | Post | Tumblr |
1,623 | Triggered. Was anyone else a young GNC girl that all the other girls decided to “makeover” at a sleepover? Like “oh, you’re so pretty, you just need to wear some eyeliner/dresses/be more feminine…”Messed up world. | Not Transphobic | lgb | Post | Tumblr |
1,624 | WHAT DO YOU PEOPLE EVEN WANT FROM EVERYONE | Not Transphobic | lgb | Post | Tumblr |
1,625 | Decided to finally try Girl in Red so I can have more gay music but I don’t fuck with calling your Love a stupid bitch.Anyone have recs for feminist wlw music? Or let me know if other Girl in Red songs are better 🩷 | Not Transphobic | lgb | Post | Tumblr |
1,626 | I feel bad for gay men having to deal with the invasion of their spaces by OSA women. Just I see it so much I can’t avoid it!! I see way more “gay transmen” then I do actual gay men in online spaces… nearly ALL of the art I come across online depicting male homosexuality is made by women.. Are gay men discussing this? They must be but just in private?? | Transphobic | lgb | Post | Tumblr |
1,627 | For all the “lgb drop the t” people: a wish a very go fuck yourselves and keep your thoughts to yourself cuz nobody cares | Not Transphobic | lgbdropthet | Post | Tumblr |
1,628 | My history with feminism begins in the early days with non-ironically calling myself a social justice warrior. Something I’ve noticed recently is that I know the transgender perspective more intimately than some radfems both because I am a detransitioned woman, and because I was so heavily involved with the political side.Transgender people refer to male and female as if they are the assigned terms for your sex organs, and woman and man are the specific suits you can wear to essentially become whichever one you want. I won’t dive into the non-binary portion of this for the sake of a more concise post for now.I genuinely do not think that transgender people are, on average, aware that female and male are cross-species scientific terms for the animal carrying the egg and the one carrying the sperm. And I also think they think that woman and man are undefinable words that strictly remain in the spectrum of expression. But these are also science-influenced terms in that they are the human labels for females and males of our species. Our females are not hens, they are women. Our males are not roosters, they are men.(ew why are there kink tags for detransition? disgusting) | Transphobic | lgbdropthet | Post | Tumblr |
1,629 | There is stuff in the bible about male homosexuality being a sin but nothing about lesbians. So being a lesbian isn’t a sin. Checkmate christians! | Not Transphobic | lgb | Post | Tumblr |
1,630 | Seeing pictures of TIMs in straight marriages is so unnerving. They almost always look like a gross caricature of their wives. I can’t imagine how uncomfortable these women must be watching their husband basically become them. | Transphobic | lgbdropthet | Post | Tumblr |
1,631 | For hundreds of thousands of years men would kill each other brutally viciously with rocks sticks and whatever bullshit we could find other than our bare hands; we would kill each other’s kids and then we would kill the babies of the losing tribe and then we would rape the women in said tribe make more babies and continue the cyclical violenceI see why terfs want to protect women from people with dicks or chopped off dicks or inverted dicks | Transphobic | lgbdropthet | Post | Tumblr |
1,632 | So funny when people are like “you shouldn’t define queerness by oppression!” To defend a particular group being part of the ‘queer community’. You’re right! There’s a lot more to being gay and bisexual (and we all know that’s who you’re trying to group yourselves with) than pain. Same-sex attracted people are incredibly strong with a rich history and a lot to be proud of. Good thing it doesn’t matter, then, that being part of our community isn’t simply defined by pain, because you don’t have anything else in common with us, either. You don’t know what it is like, and you never will. | Transphobic | lgb | Post | Tumblr |
1,633 | This was said in response to this post. I was blocked before I could reblog with my response, so here it is:I agree with you 100% about which community the deer are supposed to represent, but I don’t see how you think that’s a good thing. ls it an accurate comparison? Yes, very much so. But is it positive? Not the way I see it.The deer are leading Tommy further down the path of his own delusions, further away from everyone who ever loved him. That first night in the woods was a very had experience for Tommy. It could have been the wake-up call that Tommy so desperately needed. Maybe Tommy would have accepted himself for the adult human male that he is, if the real deer hadn’t encouraged him to continue to pursue his delusions.And this is where being gay differs from being trans, or a ’“therian” (I can only guess at what THAT is. I’m not looking it up because I know that I don’t wanna know). I am a homosexual woman. I didn’t have to put on a doofy costume, or seek out external validation, or change a single thing about myself or my lifestyle in order for that to be true about me. Because it’s ACTUALLY who I am.I did know that I was diferent from a young age, and l’m aware that the fact that I lost no friends or family because of who I am is a very lucky thing, and not a universal experience among gay people. I was bullied a bit in middle school for being a lesbian, but people got over it eventually, when they realized that my homosexuality had no effect on them. There ARE happy endings for people like me. I can live in the real world as my true self, because “gay” is something that a person can be, with no mental gymnastics required whatsoever. There’s nothing “queer” about me. I’m just a normal person.A human man who tries to become a deer (or even to become a human woman!) is not ever going to be happy, because he is chasing a reality that is not physically possible for him to attain.Tommy had a great life before he decided to fuck off into the woods. There was nothing wrong with his life, only with his brain. Maybe he should’ve sought therapy instead. | Not Transphobic | lgbdropthet | Post | Tumblr |
1,634 | Today I discovered we’ve now gone as far as LGBTQ2S+. 2-Spirited people, ladies and gents. These nutters have lost the plot. | Transphobic | lgbdropthet | Post | Tumblr |
1,635 | Turns out there’s still a few people with common sense in Canada“A step forward”: LGBT Albertans react to Danielle Smith’s new gender policies | Transphobic | lgb | Post | Tumblr |
1,636 | these people have no idea what human rights are. this entire movement is made up of predatory and/or misinformed adults and brainwashed children. like you are actually out of touch with reality if you read this and think it’s a violation of rights. the only thing that would pose a threat to children is potentially outing them to their parents, which would obviously put them in danger.but it’s incredibly overblown — the majority of parents wouldn’t abuse or abandon their kids, they might refuse to accept them and/or seek out therapy or treatment for them, but that’s not the same thing. i’m not saying kids should be forced to live with parents who don’t accept them but sadly that’s life; there’s a clear line between life-threatening / traumatic abuse and discomfort. for example i grew up in a mildly religious/cultural family and had many uncomfortable times as a teenager knowing my parents weren’t happy with my values. even as an adult who’s been out of my family home for years i still live with the knowledge that my mom doesn’t agree with my lifestyle (not saying being gay is a choice/lifestyle). but if i was trans and tried to get the woman who literally carried me and gave birth to me to refer to me as a male i know she wouldn’t go along with it. maybe it’s a false equivalence, but she knows i don’t believe in god /islam yet she always mentions how she prays for me and sends me verses/blessings in the muslim way. i don’t get anything from it, and sometimes i roll my eyes but it’s not hurting me in any way. she’s doing what she thinks is best, yes sometimes it may seem like she’s ignoring my beliefs, but that’s fucking life. she loves me and i love her and we won’t ever come to a harmonious agreement here. anyways. this movement is dangerous and insidious. conflating trans skepticism with being a republican/conservative is a great way to scare people who care into submission. reminder: concern for children is the most important thing and if you feel like something is off don’t repress that feeling to placate these pedophilic and opportunistic freaks. being gay/bi/lesbian is not the same as being trans. this “queer” umbrella doesn’t exist. the lgb movement is being co-opted by homophobes and pervs who use a slur to move their agenda forward. children should not be brainwashed in schools to “present” as a certain gender, that certain interests and hobbies make them more of another gender. children should not be put on life-altering medication which can do irreversible change/damage to their bodies and minds (despite what trans activists say. they claim to support the community yet silence and ignore science and detransitioners). parental consent is required for any medication children may need/want. that’s not a violation of their rights. children are vulnerable and incredibly susceptible to social pressure — we don’t allow them to vote or operate vehicles or drink etc, yet they should be able to make decisions that have a high likelihood of being regretted and harming them?!children should not be told if they can’t access these “rights” their families will reject them and they’ll be compelled to kill themselves. they shouldn’t be encouraged to leave families to “safe, caring adults” — this is literally grooming. it’s cult practise. children shouldn’t be taught that if they’re a little different and don’t conform to rigid gender stereotypes they are fundamentally wrong and should undergo endless medical procedures to “fix” themselves. if being “yourself” requires you to change natural aspects about yourself, it’s not genuine. males shouldn’t be in female sports/spaces, full stop. females safety and comfort comes before validating males in every situation. the claim that “this decision has drawn criticism from national sports organizations” is a blatant lie — sports orgs have been going along but thanks to the work of mostly female athletes and sports advocates as well as international sports orgs males are being rightfully kept out and separate categories are being implemented in some situations for those who wish to self identify. this “movement” is an erratically thrown together puzzle made up of the work and rights of other actually oppressed groups. they steal from lgb advocacy, co-opt rhetoric from blm and use colonialism and victims of racism by repurposing it to falsely fit they’re narrative. they are not only dangerous and manipulative, they are grossly self-centered and narcissistic.fascism defined: characterized by doctoral leadership, centralized autocracy, forcible suppression of opposition. this movement claims that any criticism is fascist, yet refuses to entertain any of it. they’re answers to any questioning consists of thought-terminating cliches and religious mantras. “trans rights are human rights.” “trans women are women”. etc. they are being accommodated in our society with little to no opposition and any fair scrutiny is vilified as fascist. actually, forcing people to accept your religious-like devotion to the trans creedo and socially punishing them via doxxing, cancelling or slander seems more fascist. trying to repress the truth and silencing detransitioners and critics is fascist. luring vulnerable young people into your cultish echo chamber is fascist. you are suppressing free thought, making people distrust and question their inherent instinct and punishing dissent. people need to wake up and see this for what it really is; a male rights movement that centres the needs of predators, child groomers, and bio males over women and children. it boosts the pharmaceutical industry’s power over people and makes them millions of dollars. it actively undoes work done to protect and uplift women, children and racial minorities. via sarworthman on instagram | Transphobic | lgbdropthet | Post | Tumblr |
1,637 | Unfortunately, no decent media will cover this.TIM runs up behind billboard chris, punches him in the head (investigation is pending). Chris follows him onto a bus so he can capture his face to give police a potential ID (otherwise this man would have gotten away with assault)where he proceeds to cry and fall on the ground, begging Chris to stop touching him as Chris is backing away and the blubbering baby is pulling at Chris’ sign, bringing him CLOSER to him as he’s begging him to “stay away” At one point, Chris manages to get the sign away from the guy on the floor of the bus…and instead of standing up and backing up…the TIM crawls TOWARD Chris and proceeds to grab his sign again.The bus driver, only seeing someone on the ground in distress, makes Chris leave the bus.Probably one of the most pathetic things I’ve ever seen. | Transphobic | lgb | Post | Tumblr |
1,638 | Watchdog group demands HHS provide the scientific data trans activist Admiral Rachel Levine used to justify ongoing claims that “gender affirming care” is safe and effective for trans and non-binary youth.HHS can’t back up claims.No one is surprised.https://thepostmillennial.com/rachel-levine-under-fire-after-hhs-offers-single-study-to-back-claims-that-child-sex-changes-are-necessary-healthcare | Transphobic | lgb | Post | Tumblr |
1,639 | Intro post I guess? I always said I would never ever EVER let go of my old online handle because it was so unequivocally me and, while that is actually still true, the community that I cultivated there for over two decades no longer is. Even as a young tween when I first started posting online in ‘01, I had a very concrete grasp on what is fiction, and what is reality. I used the internet to connect specifically with other girls and young women who enjoyed the kind of strange fiction and games that I love; from fanart to RP to cosplay and everything in-between. I was born with major organ failure and a deformed body, so I had to get used to accepting my lot very quickly and at a very young age. Practicing radical acceptance, if you will. The notion that other women (and men too) didn’t live with such a concrete divide between the real and unreal never occurred to me, as that level of delusion was nearly impossible for me to fathom at my young age. And, for a good while, the culture of fandom reflected this, as it was always understood, for example, that the person I was conversing with was just Kelly the fellow 19 year-old gal from Wisconsin, and not actually Dave Strider from our Homestuck RPs.This notion was completely challenged when, circa 2011, my best friend found gender ideology on this very site. At first I was accepting and tolerant, but it quickly shoved a wedge between myself and all my friends, for it was as if a contagious disease ravaged my entire extended friend group, all of whom were neurodivergent females. My close-knit friend group in real life all began identifying as some sort of trans. Soon followed my internet friend group as well. In both spaces it then spread even further to other extended female companions we had. Altogether, about twenty young women with whom I was close with, now identify as some flavor of trans, with a few of them currently suffering grave illness in their 30’s due to complications from extensive testosterone use throughout their 20’s. You can not tell me that this is not a social contagion, because IT FUCKING IS. I became a pariah because I refused to take T or id as “non-binary” (a make-believe, pseudo-spiritual identity with absolute 0 basis in reality). I became a pariah because of the simple “crime” of accepting myself as a lesbian.I have been critical of trans ideology from the very get go, albeit in a “you do you, I do me” sort of way. If the individual was close to me or even clearly trying their best to assimilate and “pass” I was even cool with using their “preferred pronouns” no matter how wrong it felt. Live and let live, and all that. Honestly, I still AM like this towards TIPs who acknowledge that they aren’t actually the opposite sex. You would think there would be no issue with that, but nah, I was met with comedically extreme resistance (“bigot”/“murderer”/“violence-promoter”) for stating the simple fact that one can not actually change sex. I knew these accusations of bigotry were untrue words coming from disturbed minds (who needed help, not hormones…), but I was willing to forgive these egregious accusations on the grounds of “tolerance” and “being kind”. However, in their minds I had to become a True and Honest Believer or else I was evil. Of course, they could never make me believe in the unreal, so I simply held my tongue and walked on eggshells with nearly every interaction, tying myself up in knots to please them.This changed when I was sexually harassed (in real life and online) by multiple heterosexual trans-identified males for the crime of being a gay woman. “The right cock will fix you, as long as its wearing a frock.” Legit the same shit coming from the hyper-religious right, but wrapped up in a glittery package complete with hideous make-up. Most of my friends sided with them, with the men threatening to “fix” me via heterosexual corrective rape.All I have to say to that is: FUCK YOU. I’m lucky to have made it to my 30’s, and I’ll be fucking damned before I let some delusional assholes continue to control how I act and feel. You only get one trip around this rock, and I’m done letting them invade my spaces online and threaten my safety in real life. Funny that, when all the lunatic jargon and double-speak is removed, this all boils down to straight (predominantly white) males trying to sexually dominate a profoundly disabled woman who doesn’t want sex with them!If you made it this far, congrats lol. PLEASE DO interact if you are a GC artist, but especially if you do fanart of HH or 80’s/90’s animation (especially lost media and foreign stuff). Please understand the characters and dynamics I find entertaining in fiction ARE NOT indicative of what I like irl!!!! I can never let go of “fandom” or being creative – it’s in my blood. Literally, I come from a family of artists. But I can’t keep living in this bizarre upside down space where I am forced to kowtow to the delusions of every person who lives in a fantasy, and where I am encouraged to support blatantly narcissistic behavior at the expense of my own safety and happiness. | Transphobic | lgbdropthet | Post | Tumblr |
1,640 | Does anyone else feel alienated by the lgbt+ community? I hate going to pride these years because i feel like there’s no connection to the people around me. How many of them are heterosexual gender havers who believe lesbians should like dick? Asexuals who think talking about or having lesbian sex is icky? Heteros who are only there for the party and activist points? Heterosexual q****s who want to celebrate being “different” and “weird”?It just makes me so sad that actual homosexuals and bisexuals have been robbed of this. I don’t even want to go this year anymore 😔 | Transphobic | lgbdropthet | Post | Tumblr |
1,641 | Hey it’s me, lesbianalecto! I’m back. I saw a lot of people asking where I was so I came back. My last blog got termed and I was taking a break but by popular demand I’m back! I missed you all so much! | Transphobic | radicalfeministsdointeract | Post | Tumblr |
1,642 | I’m sorry but you’re not a feminist if you’re religious. Knowingly upholding and participating in a culture which is so obviously anti-women makes you the furthest thing away from a feminist actually. “But wearing a hijab is empowering actually” is about as feminist a take as claiming having an OF is empowering. One way or another, you are both letting a man have his way in the end. | Not Transphobic | radicalfeministsdointeract | Post | Tumblr |
1,643 | Fellow women on tumblr, followers, mutuals, radfems: Do you keep conservative friends? My only gender critical friend is conservative. Her and I used to be coworkers but after we stopped working together we stayed friends because we just shared memes, rants, and would talk trauma/family stuff. Rarely talked politics because I knew which way she leaned from some things she’s said, but with me recently becoming gc, we’ve been talking about that. I’m feeling torn because on one hand, it’s nice being able to relate to her on this but on the other hand I almost don’t want to talk about it because the conclusions she comes to are not always the best. She’s not a feminist at all, identifies as bisexual but will only ever be with men because she’s religious. So she’s not gc from a “protect women, girls, and lgb people” perspective, but from a Christian conservative housewife perspective, I know I can’t sway her. I one time almost cut off the friendship over a disagreement on women’s purpose when it comes to childbirth and raising, but she’s never been disrespectful to me. She’s never been disrespectful of my same-sex relationship either.What do yall think? Where do you find other radfriends? Are you friends with people who don’t share your beliefs and won’t change? | Transphobic | radicalfeministsdointeract | Post | Tumblr |
1,644 | “queer as in…. (insert literally dehumanizing non-human/inanimate comparison here)” like remind me why you’re even here again. who let you in | Transphobic | lgb | Post | Tumblr |
1,645 | > argues for the existence of non-binary concepts of internal gender identity> points to a physical sexual deformity as evidence y’all can’t even follow your own plot | Transphobic | lgb | Post | Tumblr |
1,646 | “Trans surgeries don’t happen…but also if they DO happen and you try to stop them as a parent…that’s parental abuse. And doctors will face no consequences for performing anything described as “gender affirming care” on a minor without their parent’s consent.”Are you people insane?Illinois Dem proposes bill to redefine parental abuse as refusal to go along with child sex changes | Not Transphobic | lgb | Post | Tumblr |
1,647 | Drop the T. Lakewood, Iowa, Nashville, Colorado Springs, Denver, Aberdeen. The fastest growing demographic of mass shooters isn’t white cishet males anymore, the tides are rapidly shifting to individuals with gender identities, both trans identified males and trans identified females. This is a mental health issue. | Transphobic | radicalfeministsdointeract | Post | Tumblr |
1,648 | The Gender Accelerationist Manifesto https://theanarchistlibrary.org/library/vikky-storm-the-gender-accelerationist-manifestoDeath to Gender!Where does gender’s material base lie? Gender is produced primarily by the division of reproductive labor. Reproductive labor is any labor that helps to produce the next generation, including sex, birth, childcare, and homemaking, and gender is defined by how this labor is divided up.Since gender is an expression of these relations of production and not of biology, where does that leave sex?If sex isn’t the basis of gender, what is it? Well, this formulation isn’t wrong, per se, it’s merely backwards. Gender forms the basis of sex. We are not born with sex already within us. What this means is that sex is the gendering of our biological features. We assign gender to our biology and claim them to be innate. This is used to present the gender class system as a natural thing that just exists rather than a social system that gets imposed upon us. By gendering our bodies, we act as if gender just is rather than it being something that we’ve created. As such, sex serves to reinforce and defend gender. | Not Transphobic | radicalfeministsdointeract | Post | Tumblr |
1,649 | introduction? sonja, 15yo, finnish, idk i like girls and hate menradical feminist/terf i also like kpop and my username is a tripleS reference !! ALT | Transphobic | radicalfeministsdointeract | Post | Tumblr |
1,650 | “women’s feelings and rights don’t matter”male moment | Transphobic | radicalfeministsdointeract | Post | Tumblr |
1,651 | this is mostly a sideblog to educate myself, and collect a database of views and resourcesi have only recently (few months maybe) began to actually check wtf is radfem or a terf (besides knowing it’s terms people use to mean transphobic). it changed a lot of my views, and made me realise some stuff, pulling me out of the blissful ignorance bubble i was naively living in.expressing myself is difficult and i do not pride myself on my communicating skills. however, i am always looking to learn more, support better, and know more like-minded women :3 in regards to my views about trans people - i am spiritual enough to believe one could be born in the wrong body, but i can tell many of them aren’t as seen by their reasons for transitioning (fetish, gender stereotypes, gender non conforming behaviour, sexualisation, etc.) at the same time, i am also aware of gender dysphoria and know it is a real problem that needs to be addressed instead of profited on and encouraged on others. i cannot fault anyone for seeking medical procedures to feel more like themselves - as someone who for years had a delusion of being in the wrong body, and still continue to feel disconnected from my birth identity - i would very much want to have work done on me too to help match my face with how i feel it should be like.that is to say, i am and will continue to respect people’s chosen names and pronouns. i, myself, had my name legally changed and it would be hypocritical of me to reject a person’s name. however, i do believe that is a courtesy, and i do not need to maintain it if the person in question had done something cruel to another. i do not need to respect that person anymore, including their pronouns, especially if it’s a trans woman who is very much acting like an average male would.my goal is to not hate on trans people. it is to protect women and children, boys too but especially girls. they will always have a priority to me.i believe someone, who truly was a woman in a male body, she would understand why women are apprehensive with biological men, and why they would want a female only space without them. seeing as many act entitled to it reminds me only of male entitlement and does nothing to help me believe they are truly a woman spiritually. | Transphobic | radicalfeministsdointeract | Post | Tumblr |
1,652 | “Feminists are so radical”And what’s wrong with that? Weren’t men radical too? Didn’t they burn women alive? Have feminists ever killed anybody? Has our quest for basic human rights ever bribed any of yours? WE ARE ALOUD TO BE RADICALWE WERE KILLED BECAUSE OF OUR SEXWE WERE LAPIDATED TO DEATH, DROWNED AND HANGED. Because men believe they have the right to decide if we live or we die. And you’re telling me we’re the radical ones? I’m sorry we’re hurting your feelings, but you put us in tombs. Your hands strangled us, they shot the firearms that killed us, they layed there at your side because you couldn’t be bothered to help us. | Not Transphobic | radicalfeministsdointeract | Post | Tumblr |
1,653 | It’s wild that this position isn’t more popular within radical feminism. When you understand how male domination works, how it’s perpetuated, its origins, etc, it becomes shocking that most radfems are against Sally Miller Gearhart’s proposition:Also she wasn’t a biossentialist, she didn’t belive men are innately oppressive: | Not Transphobic | radicalfeministsdointeract | Post | Tumblr |
1,654 | @omgitsburning I just want you to know, I’ll keep responding so long as you do. This isn’t about “winning/losing”, “killing it” or whatever silly thing you want to believe this is about. I am literally just having fun here and occasionally being serious, but it’s sheer fun.Based on your increasing low-effort attempts to insult me… doesn’t seem like you’re having any fun. | Not Transphobic | radicalfeministsdointeract | Post | Tumblr |
1,655 | more irritating opinions from trad-rads who think that everyone who doesn’t mindlessly contribute to the “women are helpless victims even when they’re brutally mutilating and oppressing their own female relatives” is a white, privileged brit-descended American who has it easy.I’m not from a western culture, I have an acute awareness of what constriction and social pressure looks like in conservative contexts. I understand the dynamics between women in such contexts, it’s deplorable how women have no desire or will to resist sexism and misogyny. It’s shameful to recognize that sexism and misogyny is happening in conservative cultures! So nothing changes b/c women don’t have the guts/opportunity/ability to rebel and resist.And it’s this same shame that propels these women to rationalize why FGM happens. @athenawasamerfThe men in power behind communism as an ideology aimed at getting rid of practices like binding feet in China b/c they were so ingrained in the culture and normalized. Being poor meant that you could torture your girls for the potential to then hand them over to a wealthy shitbag who got off to their pain, imagine that! Imagine giving birth so you could break your little girl’s feet.Shaming abuse is a valid and effective method of combating it. …she also deleted my replies in a fit b/c 80% of this site is literal children who think feminism is an edgy vibe and a way to justify their own venting. | Not Transphobic | radicalfeministsdointeract | Post | Tumblr |
1,656 | Remember to fix that “problem” we talked about in the girl’s locker room 3rd quarter gym.A former classmate wrote this in my 8th grade yearbook. Despite my best efforts to not draw suspicion, my peers all knew I was attracted to other girls. This was the “problem” that needed fixing. I lived in a small town - it seemed like I was the only one who had this “problem.” Remember to fix that “problem.” I wish someone had told 14-year-old me this instead:Your same-sex attraction is not a problem that needs to be fixed.Your gender non-conformity is not a problem that needs to be fixed.Your healthy body is not a problem that needs to be fixed.You are not a problem that needs to be fixed. | Transphobic | lgb | Post | Tumblr |
1,657 | Ngga commented three times three minutes apart | Not Transphobic | radicalfeministsdointeract | Post | Tumblr |
1,658 | Absolute fucking legend. Woman walked though unmanned checkpoint, took American Airlines flight without ticket: reportThey fucking took her into custody. God forbid women do anything 🙄 Free my girl and let her do it again. | Not Transphobic | radicalfeministsdointeract | Post | Tumblr |
1,659 | I started to get all these feminist posts on my recommended feed but they went from making actual good points to just people not being able to take a joke . | Transphobic | radicalfeministsdointeract | Post | Tumblr |
1,660 | ok but men are notorious for having bizarre paraphilias and hurting their partners in pursuit of their sexual kicks. are those ~erotic~ matters beyond crit, too? come on libs!she ’s saying that a vaginal canal, something that has the capability to accommodate an insertion for sexual pleasure is the same as inserting things inside a urethra. where you pee from.reminds me of the people who use ‘well there’s nerve endings in this, so it can be used to get sexual pleasure from’ in relation to like…. anything. which isn’t helpful and conceals/excuses actual harm.some women claim to get off to being beaten up, like severely beaten up. that’s not cool. our desires and paraphilias do not form in a vacuum. | Not Transphobic | radicalfeministsdointeract | Post | Tumblr |
1,661 | So uuuh… your tastes in clothes and friendship? | Not Transphobic | radicalfeministsdointeract | Post | Tumblr |
1,662 | Would you date someone that hasn’t peaked on the trans issue?YesNoI’m in a relationship, and they are peaked/I’ve peaked themI’m in a relationship and trying to peak themI’m in a relationship and not going to try/not discussing itOtherSee Results I’m thinking about dating, and I am curious what other people have experienced. | Transphobic | terfblr | Post | Tumblr |
1,663 | The one time redditors make sense and the comments get locked ☠️ | Not Transphobic | radicalfeministsdointeract | Post | Tumblr |
1,664 | “Why wouldn’t you date a transwoman!! Why don’t you trust transwomen!!”The transwomen:And that’s just one of the many blog like this I came accross :))))) | Transphobic | terfblr | Post | Tumblr |
1,665 | is anyone else bothered whenever ppl say “why are you hating like a man???” okkk so a woman cant dislike anything and express her opinion about it without it being compared to the way men commit literal violence when they act on their hatred. oh so other women are just supposed to shut up and agree with u, right | Not Transphobic | terfblr | Post | Tumblr |
1,666 | someone wrote: “men should be grateful that women want equality and not revenge” and I mean no felicia you may speak for urself because for some of us vengeance really do be the only answer. | Not Transphobic | radicalfeministsdointeract | Post | Tumblr |
1,667 | boy math is having a body count of 60 but getting disgusted at a girl for having a body count of 10. | Not Transphobic | radicalfeministsdointeract | Post | Tumblr |
1,668 | hiiii i can’t sleep but friends on here would be nice :) ill talk ab anything hmu | Not Transphobic | radicalfeministsdointeract | Post | Tumblr |
1,669 | (im the black one) can i be honest and say that i absolutely hate peoples like the green one? like girl you are a practicing muslim (and we all now what islam is really about), like this is the post she madeyou’re literally a practicing muslim. you literally can’t go outside without covering your hair because of mOdEsTy☺️ what the fuck are you doing in TERF spaces? “Ohh but I use TERF ironically” shut the fuck up. you are giving us a bad image because you are definitely not a radical feminist, you’re just a conservative. also wtf “i’m a feminist!!!” a feminist? really? while following islam? the least feminist religion in the entire world? like stfu islam is literally homophobic and muslims suck. you are following a religion that’s completely against our beliefs, you’re not a feminist only because you don’t want women to suffer, feminism is a commitment. | Transphobic | terfblr | Post | Tumblr |
1,670 | i am so confused how we went from trans people actually experiencing gender dysphoria including of their genitals, and basically severe distress over not looking how they felt to actively encouraging people to be trans…. before, the dream was that you wanted to be a woman or a man ! you didn’t want to be trans, because by itself it meant you aren’t actually the person you feel you are… people didn’t want to be “trans women” or “trans men” they wanted to be cis bc the problem was that they weren’t the gender they felt they were, but after more people began to look into transitioning for things unrelated to it (escaping female sexualisation, sexist stereotypes of women, fetishisation, etc) all which are encouraged by others who suggest you may be trans and at times assuming even, it’s been downhill since then | Transphobic | radicalfeministsdointeract | Post | Tumblr |
1,671 | Sexuelle Belästigung | Transphobic | terfblr | Post | Tumblr |
1,672 | Being a woman is exhausting I’m so tired of menstruation and what it does to me. So. Fucking. Tired. I think I might have PMDD and it just… destroys me. I get so angry and sad and I feel insane. It’s like it drags up every single thing I have ever struggled with. I can’t stand the way I look or feel. I struggle to eat. I struggle to accept help from my partner, even though I want help. I know it’s beyond annoying but my mind fights me on everything. I had to skip both of my university seminars today because the cramps kept me up all night and I was nauseous and in pain once I got up. Does anyone else struggle with this? How do you manage it? I don’t want to go on birth control because it makes all the women in my family sick, plus the other side effects. | Not Transphobic | radicalfeministsdointeract | Post | Tumblr |
1,673 | it’s still crazy what happened to mitchfest. there were other festivals that were open to trans identified males. there were even events and festivals specifically for trans ppl but they had to invade and shut down the one place that was female centered. they spray painted graffiti of “real women have dicks” and handed out pornographic material of trans identified males, stole, committed sabotage, and did other BS. trans privilege activists have been around since at least the 70s but they gained steam in the 90s | Transphobic | terfblr | Post | Tumblr |
1,674 | do y’all have any good recs for youtubers/podcasters? I’m looking for women who talk about anything tbh but that you trust or also have radfem backgrounds, even if they aren’t talking about radfem stuff exclusively!! (like women who talk about beauty and health and movies and everything else under the sun) | Transphobic | terfblr | Post | Tumblr |
1,675 | Which name is best for me? I need to know which to put on my profile.JuliusCadeSimonSee Results When I came out as not cis these are the names my friend picked out for me, so I guess my best friend pretty much named me.. | Not Transphobic | lgbdropthet | Post | Tumblr |
1,676 | Is there any nice lesbians/radfem discord servers??I’d love to talk with same minded women :( | Transphobic | radicalfeministsdointeract | Post | Tumblr |
1,677 | Ah bon? C'est bizarre. | Not Transphobic | terfblr | Post | Tumblr |
1,678 | recommending to everyone the book, “fat shame, stigma and the fat body in american culture”.the entire book is very good, but i found the chapter “feminism, citizenship, and fat stigma” especially interesting, bcs the author showed how both suffragist and anti suffragist played on ideas surrounding fatness and race to disparage the other side.the author also examined how this evolved with the first wave of feminism in america.a quote i found really insightful, | Not Transphobic | radicalfeministsdointeract | Post | Tumblr |
1,679 | I’ve felt like such a bad person for agreeing with radical feminism / gc feminism for too long, this blog is my secret but not a shameful one. I’m finally happy to be radfem and know I’m not a hateful or evil person for being one | Transphobic | radicalfeministsdointeract | Post | Tumblr |
1,680 | for thousands of years women have felt a homosexual attraction towards women, the likes of which they have never felt towards the opposite gender and their genitals, only for people now trying to say it’s possible to be a lesbian and like a penis | Transphobic | radicalfeministsdointeract | Post | Tumblr |
1,681 | Remember that those are the kind of people we should “respect” “accept” and “tolerate”: One of the people who liked that post: And some more on that same post: This isn’t the first time I saw posts like these, I shared some with a good friend of mine that I should find back. But it’s always the same recipe… Always violence and being nasty freaks that should be in jail away from everyone, mostly women and kids and even animals. Also like my friend said: “Why do I feel like those symbols in parathesis means something deeper and darker?” Because he’s right. Those nasty freaks use symbols to communicate between themselves.Just like how they use the symbol Zeta for zoophiles.Just like how they use the pear, cheese and pizza emojis for “MAPS”/pedos on twitter (or anywhere really… *vomit*).Welcome to clown world. | Transphobic | terfblr | Post | Tumblr |
1,682 | I’m generally against blocklists but there is a group of 6 males on here that regularly gathers on radfem posts. They come to our posts just to argue and jerk each other off over their misogyny with no intention of actually debating. They are known anti-feminists and very typical conservative edgelord-type bros that just want a reaction from feminists. (If you’re pro-Palestine, all 6 of them are supporting the violence by Israel over there right now). I was harassed by them as a new radfem so here are the usernames so you can avoid the same thing. I recommend just blocking them. nerdylilpeebeebizarrolordnewplayingsmashsiryouarebeingmockedgenerallemarccheshireinthemiddle | Transphobic | radicalfeministsdointeract | Post | Tumblr |
1,683 | If a woman speaks out about hateful comments she’s received online and you dismiss them as trolls, you’re a misogynist.“Oh they’re just trolls.” Doesn’t matter, trolls are still real people and I would argue that slurs and blatant misogynistic statements aren’t trolling, that’s hate speech. Also, how do you know that they were trolling? I think some of you don’t want to acknowledge that there are many men out there with a deep hatred for women. “It’s the internet, just ignore it.” Newsflash: words, even those said online, can hurt and it’s valid to be upset if someone on the internet is hateful to you. “Bitch/cunt aren’t slurs, get over yourself.” Would you say that about other slurs? Probably not, you just don’t see women as an oppressed group. How come, when a hateful and dehumanizing word against women is said, you don’t think it’s a slur? When women talk about misogyny as hate speech or systemic oppression, we’re often dismissed and laughed at. People don’t see misogyny as “real” oppression and it shows. | Not Transphobic | radicalfeministsdointeract | Post | Tumblr |
1,684 | I’m tired of seeing this fucking guy in my feed can we ignore him | Not Transphobic | radicalfeministsdointeract | Post | Tumblr |
1,685 | JKR is the only one who wake up to see how much the trans ideology has hurt women and feminism, not men, women. People are erasing women’s biology and thus denying the fact that’s the whole reason why we are seemed as inferior, women are looked down the minute they’re born with a vagina between their legs. Butch lesbians are going extinct on mídia, we are always getting portrait as “non binary”, the minute we show a little bit of masculinity we are trans, how the fuck can you not see this? Women are STILL A MINORITY. I don’t fucking care about protecting your feelings, I’m a woman, I get called a “he” everyday at the streets and I don’t fucking care, I don’t need a stranger to validade me, grow the fuck up. You people live in your first world countries and have nothing left to complain about so you make stuff up. Homophobia and transphobia are still happening out there with REAL VIOLENCE and all you stupid people do is yell at twitter about your stupid fucking pronomes. In my country I have seen a father rape his own 8 month DAUGHTER, the girl was brought to the emergency room with her VAGINA tore open, and didn’t survive, I have seen 8 years old getting abused and pregnant by their fathers, every WOMAN including myself has suffered some sort of abuse. And you are telling me that gender doesn’t matter? That sex isn’t real? Fuck you, trans women and women will never ever have the same experiences.I’ll always stand with you jk | Transphobic | radicalfeministsdointeract | Post | Tumblr |
1,686 | Tr*nnies hate when children get protected from harmful online trends and pornography. „Help abused Kids and stop this law“Because abused kids haven‘t enough trauma from stupid and dangerous adults and are perfect grooming targets for you?Leave those kids alone, they deserve to be protected from further trauma. | Transphobic | terfblr | Post | Tumblr |
1,687 | Does anyone have that post on how to search your blog properly, since tumblr’s system sucks ass? currently trying to find a post of mind - specifically quoting from susan brownmiller’s against our will, and even though I search for her literal name on my blog it comes up with nothing! well fucking done tumblr. I tried searching my blog via duckduckgo, and then google as a backup, and still couldn’t find the damn post. does anyone know how I can find the post? | Transphobic | radicalfeministsdointeract | Post | Tumblr |
1,688 | Terfs have this concept of people hating their own body if they hate their period that they are using to forcibly pathologize anyone who disagrees with them. Beware of this line of thinking. | Not Transphobic | terfblr | Post | Tumblr |
1,689 | been thinking lately about how the male gaze robs children of childhood and women of sanitysomeone once said“inside of every woman is a man watching a woman” | Not Transphobic | radicalfeministsdointeract | Post | Tumblr |
1,690 | there’s a user called gaymmaquadrant who is a psychotic minor that’s been harassing radfems in our tags. if you see her in your replies, do not engage or argue with her, but if you do encourage her to get help. i have worked with psychotic kids before, and arguing with them will only push them further into their delusions. | Transphobic | terfblr | Post | Tumblr |
1,691 | Normalize infuriating men to the point where they exercise hate speech and then reporting them 🧐 | Not Transphobic | terfblr | Post | Tumblr |
1,692 | I remember meeting a young korean feminist last year and the way she was SHOKED at people using the word slut gave me hope. I want everyone to feel this way towards misogynistic language. | Transphobic | terfblr | Post | Tumblr |
1,693 | Long Covid is a feminist issue. Women, and especially young women, are much more likely than men to develop severe forms of Long Covid. Millions of young women, including me, have become severely disabled. Governments around the world are failing to inform women about this. If you do get it, doctors will gaslight you. Please protect yourself by keeping up-to-date with vaccines and wearing an N95 respirator. | Not Transphobic | radicalfeministsdointeract | Post | Tumblr |
1,694 | I saw this Reddit post and I really regret opening the comments.I don’t know how these people are genuinely trying to justify sex scenes by saying they advance the plot and “if you don’t want to see a sex scene why don’t you just read the synopsis?”I think there are ways an implied sex scene can actually be useful to a story but I feel like it’s way more often used as filler. And it’s often just porn. I actually love the comment about “well why don’t they have shitting scenes since it’s an integral part of the human existence?” Like nobody in these comments (at least the ones I saw) were saying stories in movies and shows shouldn’t involve anything sexual, they are saying that we don’t want to see a *graphic* sex scene.The other thing that really bothers me is that people not wanting to see these scenes are automatically considered puritans and prudes, like what?? Personally the term prude *always* pisses me off because my ex would call me that to coerce me into sexual acts I didn’t want to do. “Sex scenes make you uncomfortable because you were raised to think sex is bad” like no???? Plus that whole thing about ignoring your feelings because the issue is actually some stigma you’ve absorbed from society is also manipulative. That’s how I was gaslit into being okay with my ex watching porn (oh everyone does it, it’s normal, sounds like you being uncomfortable with it is the problem). I don’t know why people want to be aroused during a movie (unless it’s a romance or something). But regardless a lot of these people seem to think that they are intellectuals and anyone who doesn’t want to see sex in movies and tv is just not smart enough to understand how it is a meaningful addition.Shit like this actually makes me so mad. thanks for reading my rant | Not Transphobic | terfblr | Post | Tumblr |
1,695 | Tired of the “makeup is art!!!” Crowd. The average woman isn’t painting the starry night on her face as she goes out. She color “corrects” blemish that’s only a blemish on her face, while on a man it’s simply part of his skin. She puts on a foundation to not show how her real skin is feeling, she puts on eyeshadow and eyeliner to give an illusion of changed eye shape, same with her contour and lipsticks and lipliners, it’s all used to change, enhance and minimize. It’s all ways to conform, to fit in, to not commit the sin of being a woman that’s “ugly”, tired or sick. Listen I get it, I get putting on makeup because in the moment it makes you feel better, more safe and confident, it works even though I hate to admit it. But let’s not fool ourselves that it’s art, that it’s feministic or about female empowerment, it’s not. It’s a tool to be left alone, to not be questioned, to for a moment fit in the mold and therefore not have to defend the way you look and who you are. At the same time that tool is also there as a reminder that you are not free, that you still live in this systematic hierarchy and as a woman, first thing that matters is how you look. Like the famous sexist sentence goes: women are not meant to be heard, they are meant to be seen. | Not Transphobic | radicalfeministsdointeract | Post | Tumblr |
1,696 | So what is a trans women? | Transphobic | terfblr | Post | Tumblr |
1,697 | gyns, little odd question, is there a reason for “crypto safe” term? is there some history of radfem blogs disclosing all their followers or? | Transphobic | terfblr | Post | Tumblr |
1,698 | and how many men feel it’s normalized for them to wear clothing that is revealing in public because they want positive attention for that? every single thing that women do as an act of contrition in this age needs to be thought of as “what if men did it too” so we can understand how ridiculous it is. And this is keeping mind that men do not get assaulted in the dark because “they were asking for it”.Emma wants attention, simple as that. It’s like a contest among these has-beens, anything for that publicity. and you have to set yourself apart somehow that’s why red carpet fashion is becoming more sexualized and more skimpy – The only way to get attention is by doing more and more and more. she had to be constantly aware of where the clothes were sitting on her body and how she looked so she wasn’t comfortable. The way she’s posed does not communicate to me that she didn’t care what she looked like.& I’m reminded of a line in the beauty myth where it’s talked about how women who wear makeup and do all this other bullshit are insecure and can’t relax enough to even enjoy ~intimate activity~. flash people in the red carpet because public exhibitionism and self-humiliation gets men’s rocks off and that’s all you need, really. ugh. | Not Transphobic | radicalfeministsdointeract | Post | Tumblr |
1,699 | Newsflash: Women are always miserable. Being miserable as a female is the literal norm. And it doesn’t have anything to do with your body. Your body is perfectly normal and so is your sex. Start taking a look at the system causing your, our pain before you start to dismantle yourself and your vessel. You will be miserable before, during and after your transition, because it has fucking nothing to do with your body but with the sexist and misogynistic world you were born into. | Transphobic | terfblr | Post | Tumblr |
1,700 | if you see this post and you are a radfem dysphoric woman, i would like to talk to you in the dms. i have some questions. | Transphobic | radicalfeministsdointeract | Post | Tumblr |
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