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SUBREDDIT: r/AskReddit
TITLE: Reddit, what are your thoughts on the 'chivalry is dead' argument
POST: This is something that in my non virtual life is frequently coming up but almost never online. My thoughts are that it is not. I like to think of myself as a gentleman and am fairly sure my wife would agree.
Plus the ... | I think I'm a gentleman but why is that expected of me when women are not expected to fulfill their traditional roll? |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: Me [22M] with my gf [21F] 4 years, ended our realtionship. what do i do.
POST: me and my girlfriend of 4 years broke up today.
We met in college just before my 18th birthday and have been with her since, been on holiday together countless times, dealt with family issues together, a d... | Me and girlfriend of 4 years broke up after 4 years. how to cope, still hurts even though it was mutual. |
SUBREDDIT: r/dating_advice
TITLE: [21F] Gah! A dude hit on me in a non-alcohol induced situation. What do I do?
POST: Okay, so I hosted a comedy show at my school, and afterwards, this guy, who got on stage for the first time and did about 3 minutes and was pretty funny, came up to me and was like, "OMG, you're so funn... | I've been hit on in a situation without alcohol. Dude told me to hit him up on facebook and say hi...is impressed by my comedy....how do I not fuck this up? |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: [23/F] how can I get [M/26] I'm seeing to be a better kisser?
POST: So I've been seeing this guy for a few weeks (we met on Tinder (eek) and have been talking for a while before) and to be honest, I'm not sure if it's going to work--maybe for this reason, maybe for others. But I want t... | I need advice on either how to get this guy to kiss me better or how to end things with him (but in a kind way). |
SUBREDDIT: r/pettyrevenge
TITLE: The radio has a (petty) mind of its own
POST: An old story, but one of my favorites.
My brother and I get along now, but had a not-so-friendly relationship growing up. He would constantly tease me to the point of tears, claim that every fight we had was my fault, etc. One of my main g... | my brother was generally a jerk, I messed with his precious music in the car and tricked him into thinking it was a faulty radio. |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: [M24] Worried about growing apart from my girlfriend [F19], she is in college and I work
POST: I have been with my girlfriend for 1 year and a few months now, and we met in college (her as a freshman, me as a grad student). The age difference has never been an issue for us, and when I ... | Gf and I are 5 years apart in age, she's still in undergrad, I work. We loves each other but she needs a break now to have some space. Has anyone been in a similar situation? Thank you |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: My (19f) boyfriend (21m) checks out other women.
POST: He said he was being honest with me but this is really tearing me apart inside. I almost wish he would just have lied to me. I can't even fathom checking out other guys, I'm not interested and I feel like I'd be mentally cheating o... | Does he really love me if he still looks at others? Or am I just too insecure? Should I make myself look at other guys too? |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: Need advice on helping Mother and Father through divorce issues.
POST: Hello everybody, I desperately need your help.
• My boyfriend just opened up to me about his family issues and I feel so helpless as to what I can do to help him, your advice would be greatly appreciated.
• His ... | my boyfriend has to tell his father to move out because his mum is asking him to do so. how can i be there for my boyfriend? |
SUBREDDIT: r/AskReddit
TITLE: People of Reddit, what is the biggest lie you ever tell, where obvioulsy you were sure not get caught but were you failed miserably?
POST: Mine is like that:
I was 9 years old and my mother note that I always have some candies. Everyday. She check in my little piggybank and of course they ... | Put some change inside my panties to buy candies. Lie to mom. Was caught. 21 years later everyone continue to laugh at me and tell every new person that have the bad luck to know my family. |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: I [23/F] just ended my friendship with my really good friend [26/M].
POST: Unrequited feelings suck and he's been leading me on a lot recently. I confronted him about it and he said it doesn't feel right and he doesn't want to ruin the friendship. People would know when something isn't... | Into really good friend. Confronted him about his constant flirting/touching with me. He doesn't "feel right" about us being more. Told him we should talk/hang out less. |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: I'm [16 M] having some problems with my girlfriend [16 F] , I'm having trouble deciding what to do
POST: Hey reddit, this is my first post so sorry if I make any major errors.
So my girlfriend and I have been together for about two and a half years now since freshman year in high scho... | I'm a 16 year old in my first relationship and I hate it but too much of a bitch to break up with her... |
SUBREDDIT: r/AskReddit
TITLE: I'm currently working with Vector Marketing (A division of Cutco) is it a scam?
POST: I was hired last week (I found the job on Workopolis and had an interview the very same day I applied, which I found to be pretty cool) but then I saw how many people they were hiring, and then my confide... | I'm Employed at Vector, I heard from friends it's a scam. Not really confident working there, is it a scam? |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: I'm (27F) supposed to be a bridesmaid at a friend's (28F) wedding next weekend, and I just learned that my aunt has passed away and her funeral is the same day, in a different state. Who do I choose?
POST: My friend (let's call her Brigit) is getting married next weekend, in a town abo... | My aunt's funeral is scheduled for the same day I'm supposed to be a bridesmaid in my friend's wedding, in a completely different state. |
SUBREDDIT: r/askwomenadvice
TITLE: How to overcome the 'overwhelming' stage before or preventing an orgasm?
POST: Okay so this is a slightly more personal and intimate question but it is really bugging me - I'll keep this as short as possible. First let me apologise for the slightly more 'sex related' post, I will be s... | girlfriend has never climaxed, only gets to an intense, overwhelming phase which after a while becomes uncomfortable. How can I help her get past this and for us to have a really good sex life? |
SUBREDDIT: r/Advice
TITLE: Would you say I need to talk to a professional (depression)
POST: Hello there friends. My apologies if this is the wrong sub, but I'm not sure where to turn. I am wondering if I should talk to someone professionally about depression, and some other things that are going on.
I have been down ... | I feel more and more down all the time, and I have become someone I don't like. Should I seek help, or just make some changes on my own first? |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: Me [21 M] with my SO [21 F] and her friend [28 F] SO's friend got a really bad tattoo but she doesn't want me to say anything.
POST: So my SO's friend recently went and got a wrist tattoo with 3 of her friends at a local shop. They each got the same thing. It was a bible verse with the... | My SO's friend got a really bad tattoo. SO doesn't want me to say anything for fear of hurting her feelings. What should I do? |
SUBREDDIT: r/tifu
TITLE: TIFU by trying to steal my textbooks for the semester
POST: So this literally just happened to me so I'm still a little emotional so I'll try to be concise and clear.
I decided to go to my universities's memorial center and grab some breakfast and pick up some textbooks before my 11 AM econome... | stole some textbooks from my bookstore on the way to class. Got caught, had to still pay for them and now I have a court date for theft :( |
SUBREDDIT: r/AskReddit
TITLE: So my girlfriend worked for a merchandising company but has yet to be paid. We really need the money and we don't know what to do.
POST: Ok so i won't take much of anyones time but my girlfriend was an employee of Convergence Marketing doing cosmetic resets for Cover Girl. These take usu... | Girlfriend gets job and does the work for them, but they say they haven't received her paperwork. We have a daughter and are broke because of this. |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: I want kids, she doesn't...what now?
POST: I'm in my early/mid twenties and I've been with my girlfriend (same age) for the better part of a year. She's the first person with whom I haven't been scared to think of "bigger picture" stuff i.e. long term goals, marriage, kids, etc - all t... | Mid-twenties, I want kids, she doesn't, we're great together in all other aspects. What do I do? |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: Bf's(22) ex gf(20) lives across the street. Any suggestions for me(f19) to get over this?
POST: Ill give a full but quick story. New boyfriend and I have been going out for a little over 2 months. Things have been great, we get along amazingly and I'm totally falling for him. He moved ... | my boyfriends ex lives across the street from him... We see/hear her often. I'm trying to get over it. |
SUBREDDIT: r/AskReddit
TITLE: When I was seven, I unintentionally covered myself in newborn baby spiders. Reddit, what insects just plain scare the shit out of you and what horror stories do you have for me?
POST: When I was seven, my mother brought home one of those fancy, electric fly swatters that resemble tennis ra... | Kid electrocutes fat spider. Lays on ground to investigate spider. Turns out fat spider is actually skinny spider with fat egg sac. Egg sac bursts, covered in spiders. Dad throws me in a scalding hot shower. |
SUBREDDIT: r/loseit
TITLE: Are there any virtually no calorie, pre-prepared snacks (i.e. not veggies or anything requiring heating or cutting) to eat when you need to chow down on something?
POST: I've been dieting for 2 months &, while I'm losing weight, I find it very difficult still because I have binge-eating disor... | I'm essentially looking for the dieter's version of a bag of chips. I hate carrots, & I'm on a calorie-limiting diet, so things like nuts are out. Suggestions? |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: Me [F], in love with my best friend [M], both [26]
POST: I met him on a popular dating site and we've been talking constantly for about almost 9 months non-stop now. We agreed that we'll be there for each other always, but I've always had feelings for him since the very beginning and h... | fell in love with my bestie who shares everything with me but he's distant now, possibly because of a new girl. do i still initiate convos with him now that he's clearly forgetting that i exist? |
SUBREDDIT: r/tifu
TITLE: TIFU by Modding a Dance Dance Revolution Pad
POST: Technically my first post here, since my real first post was removed. Apparently turning a hard drive into a floppy disk is "too common" of a mistake.
Here's a bit of back story: I've been playing DDR a *lot* lately. And by *a lot* I mean *I'v... | I tried to take the pressure plates out of a Dance pad, ended up giving myself a total of 3 painful water blisters in inconvenient places on both index fingers. |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: Me [20 M] with my GF [21 F] of 18 months, she broke it off with me 3 months ago, slept with her ex 2 weeks later, then wanted me back
POST: Throw away for obvious reasons.
Title says it all, girlfriend of 18 months broke it off with me because "She wasn't sure about us" around July. O... | GF broke it off with me, slept with her ex 2 weeks later, admitted she never got over him, got back with her a month later, now i'm unsure. |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: My [25M] date [25F] cancelled our first date, not sure what to do next
POST: I was at a buddy's house a couple of weeks ago hanging out and playing Cards Against Humanity with some friends. One of the other couples there brought along a friend who was friends with the wife. It's 3 ma... | Date cancelled on me, I try to reschedule but haven't heard anything for a couple of days. What should I do? |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: My dad [49M] wants me [26F] to meet his new girlfriend [50sF] but there's a twist..
POST: To give some context, he hasn't had the best track record with women in the past. My dad is a great guy with a solid job and house but he seems to have a savior complex because in the past, he's o... | Dad is insisting that his girlfriend of one month be introduced at my engagement announcement. Nobody in my family or his has met her and my dad has a long history of dating fuck-ups. |
SUBREDDIT: r/tifu
TITLE: TIFU: "Its a stripper name"
POST: Don't want to break tradition, but this actually happened today. I'm a college age male who goes to a mostly male university. Girls are few and far between and attractive ones are ever rarer. So a week or so ago I met some girl at a party and for some reason we... | I recalled a girls name because it was a strippers name and she was right behind me, open mouth insert foot. |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: I was just told by my friend [15f] that I [15f] have a very 'flirtatious' personality? I don't know how I should feel about this?
POST: My friend just texted me that other girls have been telling her that I was one of the 'flirty' types? I don't think I'm flirting, I'm just being nice ... | Girls think i'm flirting with a bunch of guys. Is this a good thing?How do i stop this from happening? |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: Me [23 M] with my Girlfriend [22 F] of 2 years, thinking about another girl for her.
POST: Hey people, My GF and I are really in love and are both very confident in our relation ship.
She was shy before to try anything else than normal sex, but I always slowly talked her into advanced ... | Girlfriend want another girl in bed for her, but not for me. I want it too, but I worry if it could somehow damage our relationship. |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: I [30M] just realized that my wife [30F] and I don't have any common interests. Need advice on how to revive relationship.
POST: I have been with my wife for 5 years, married for 2. In the beginning, everything was great. We would spend hours talking to each other and truly enjoyed eac... | Wife and I are drifting apart due to lack of common interests/activities. Need advice on stuff to do so we can connect again. |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: Me [23 M] with my Girlfriend [24 F] of 3 years...am I wrong for wanting her to put me before her family?
POST: I couldn't find work after college in the city we were from, but I got a good job in my field in another city across the country. I moved last January, and she eventually move... | Girlfriend moved away from her family to live with me, and I wish she wasn't as sad all of the time |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: My [21F] boyfriend [21M] doesn't know how to feel about upcoming abortion-- I want to help him cope.
POST: I'm 21 and just recently found out that I was pregnant. I've known for a long time what I feel would be the best choice for me in this scenario, and that's an abortion.
I have d... | Boyfriend and I have decided to get an abortion. He seems to not know how to feel and wants to put his focus on my wellbeing-- how do I help him deal with his feelings about this healthily? |
SUBREDDIT: r/AskReddit
TITLE: Suffering Redditors: Did you tell your Dr. about your hemmorrhoids?
POST: I'm 24 and I started having some problems down there about 3 years ago. They seem to be getting worse lately. There's not a ton of blood or anything but it can become really inflamed/painful and lead to constipatio... | Is it normal to see a doctor when you first start getting hemmorrhoids, if not, what remedies work best? |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: How do I [20m] help convince someone [21m] that I am with dating?
POST: EDIT: How do I convince him that I am WORTH dating?
So he and I have been hanging out a LOT recently with our group of friends [19-24m/f] and even more recently its been just the two of us hanging out alone. Basic... | I like him,he likes me, I'm trying to make him my boyfriend but he refuses to date due to bad experiences with exes. How do I convince him I'm not like the others? |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: Guy (23) stops talking to me (22) for a few weeks, but doesn't delete me off social media? Is that a sign of still being interested?
POST: New to reddit, not really sure how this works, but I thought I'd share my story.
Being a female that is rather late to the dating game, I feel as... | Unsure as to whether or not a guy is still interested, because he does seem like he is genuinely busy, but maybe I'm just completely naive as to male behaviour. |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: I [23F] can't stand my BF's [24 M] parents
POST: My bf and I have been dating for 2 years and are beginning to talk seriously about marriage. I am having a lot of anxiety lately thinking about potentially having to deal with his parents for the rest of my life. I'm afraid that this cou... | BF's parents are unbearable. Don't know how to deal with them or if parents are reason enough to break off relationship |
SUBREDDIT: r/running
TITLE: Foot Fracture?
POST: I went for an 9 mile run yesterday, and in the last few miles of my run I started having some pain on the outside of my left foot below the ankle. About an hour after I finished it started hurting a lot more, and today it still hurts pretty bad, possibly worse. It's a li... | Pain on the outside of my left foot at the end of a long run. Today, swelling lots of sharp pain while walking. |
SUBREDDIT: r/tifu
TITLE: TIFU by not pulling over
POST: So this was actually last September, but I thought it's a good story to tell for my first reddit post!
I live on the west coast of Canada, so in my province the legal drinking age is 19. Naturally, on my 19th birthday, my girlfriends and I head out to a classy re... | went over board on the drinking, peed on my friends bf, puked all over self and car, had to go to school covered in vomit. |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationship_advice
TITLE: I think my ex cheated and then left me for someone else, then possibly cheated on his new partner. I want closure.
POST: I hope this post is okay, it's my first time posting here.
First I wanna say, I don't and won't get back with him, the relationship was mentally and emotional... | i have strong evidence that my ex started dating someone before they even broke up with me, and to this day the evidence keeps getting stronger. Was i cheated on, or am I missing something? |
SUBREDDIT: r/AskReddit
TITLE: A close friends mother is seriously ill, should I try talking to him about it, and if yes, how?
POST: So, a close friends mother has gotten diagnosed with cancer quite a while ago. I haven't really talked to him much about it, as he hasn't seemed comfortable talking about it much when I've... | If a friends mother is dying or even passed away, what's the best way to talk about it, if talking about it should be done at all? |
SUBREDDIT: r/loseit
TITLE: How do you deal with unhelpful comments from friends/family
POST: In the past year and a half I've gained about 40-50 pounds, mainly due to getting on hormonal birth control. But I've never been petite or thin, so I didn't really notice for a while. Since I noticed my weight gain, I've been p... | I happy just chugging along slow and steady at weight loss, but my family and partners keep saying negative things about my weight and it's bringing me down. |
SUBREDDIT: r/AskReddit
TITLE: Let's imagine you're 45...(philosophical question)
POST: I thought of this questions a few years back and I ask it to everyone. I'm probably not the first to think of it, but oh well.
Let's imagine you're 45, and you have all the things in life of a typical 45 year old.
One day you are... | Imagine you are 45, and you get the chance to go back in time and be 5 again knowing everything you know now. But the catch is that you will die when you reach 45 again. Would you do it? |
SUBREDDIT: r/AskReddit
TITLE: How do you tell a 38 year old man he needs to shower? (I'm 26)
POST: My wife's half brother had some housing issues and ended up moving into our spare bedroom about a year and a half ago. I knew he was lazy, but i was unaware of his hygiene habits. After a couple weeks of him living in our... | 38 year old brother in law does not shower or wash at all and stinks. How do you approach someone about that? |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: Me [21 M] with my Ex [29 F] of 2 years, after 6 months I've finally been able to get rid of her stuff
POST: Well, it didn't work out. I'd been dating her for two years on and off and me as an individual couldn't make her happy.
She broke up with me, texting me that she couldn't honest... | Girl I dated for 2 years broke up with me via txt, 6 months on I've managed to give away her stuff but I don't know how to move on. Advice plz |
SUBREDDIT: r/personalfinance
TITLE: Bay Area Cost of Living Nightmares
POST: Hi PF,
Currently I am a 29 year old Bay Area Native. If you are from this area you know how crazy the housing situation is right now. My lease is about to expire in a month and after a lot of thought and seeing what was out there I have decid... | 29 years old. Moving back to parents. 45k a year. How do i maximize saving money to purchase a house in bay area. |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: Should I (20f) break up with my (21m) boyfriend?
POST: Please excuse my poor grammar and bad writing.
My boyfriend I have been together for 2 years. We live together and I work for his mom, so we're pretty serious. Things between us were very nice at first but after a year we decide... | I'm in a possesive and unhappy relationship. Started developing feelings for some one else, don't know what to do. |
SUBREDDIT: r/AskReddit
TITLE: Atheists! What gets you out of bed? What moves you deeply?!
POST: I was raised with no religious framework, given the example to revere the arts—especially music—to view humans as essentially good and taught to respect logic and reason above all other forms of "knowing". I had a "happy" ch... | The cultivation of felt experience and the allowing for not knowing has enabled me to find a more deeply lived/loved life. I wonder if any of this resonates with Redditors... |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: Should I [18F] respond to my former best friend's [19F] email?
POST: My former best friend (we had been good friends for about 2 years) [19F] emailed me [18F] this morning saying that I crossed her mind and that she wanted to know how I was doing. We have not spoken since the end of Ma... | Former best friend emailed me after not talking for several months. This girl has caused problems for me in the past, but friends say we should reconcile so we can be on good terms. What to do? |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: Sometimes I [25F] feel tested by my boyfriend [27F] and I need advice on how to stop feeling this way, because it bothers me.
POST: I am 25 and my SO is 27. We have been together for 5 years. Our relationship is very happy, and we both have expressed interest in getting married and hav... | Sometimes I feel like I need to meet certain standards in my relationship in order to move forward. Need advice on how to stop feeling this way. |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: How can i [20F] deal with my [50m] father with his mental issues that he refuses help for?
POST: My father has some serious and obvious mental health issues that he needs help for. I personally believe that he has bipolar disorder or a paranoid personality disorder, but I'm no doctor. ... | Father has undiagnosed mental issues that have caused everyone around him to leave. He needs help but refuses to listen. How can I get through to him? |
SUBREDDIT: r/AskReddit
TITLE: [Amway] What are some irrefutable fact-based arguments against joining Amway? (more details inside)
POST: One of my friends got into Amway a few months ago and has since been recruiting many of my other friends. I don't want to see any of them waste their time and money or their future(the... | My friends got involved involved with the Amway scheme and I'm trying to use rational thought and evidence to convince them that it's a bad idea. |
SUBREDDIT: r/AskReddit
TITLE: Reddit, what would be a good major for a mathematically challenged person?
POST: I'm a college sophomore. My whole life Math has been my problem subject, and I've struggled with it. My favorite subject is probably history, but I want to major in sometime practical and well-paying. I'm thin... | Always had lots of difficulty with math. What would be a smart thing to major in. Considering Economics, Health Information Management |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: Boyfriend (21M) lied to me (18F) and I got real upset. Need to know if I am over-reacting.
POST: My boyfriend and I have been dating for a little longer than a year. We're both in the same university, where I am in the First Year and he is in the Fifth Year (we go to architecture schoo... | Boyfriend lied to me about something grades-related, tells me that he often lies to protect me. He said he won't lie any more, but I'm still extremely upset. Is that acceptable? |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: My [19/F] mother [60/F] clearly has signs of mental illness, and my father [61/M] has given up on getting her help.
POST: Mental illness runs in my mother's family: her eldest sister is bipolar and her second sister has depression. My mother has always been slightly off, but it's gotte... | My mom [60/F] probably has some form of mental illness. My dad has given up on it, but even though I'm away at university, I want to get her some help. |
SUBREDDIT: r/AskReddit
TITLE: What would be the consequences of legalizing the possession and SHARING, not transactions, of child pornography?
POST: So a little while back, I was thinking about hilarious/impossible ways SOPA, etc. could come down... and figured, what if they were openly supported by CP rings?
Obviousl... | create anarchy in CP market by introducing free-for-all-buffet. Also, I'm a terrible person. |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: Me (26) looking to start dating again...
POST: I've taken a long hiatus from dating while in college because I was too focused on not failing and succeeding to really put much energy into anything else...I sound like a massive nerd I know...In college there was interest in me but ever ... | Havent dont a lot of dating because of college; Confidence isnt where it should be so cant break the ice. |
SUBREDDIT: r/Advice
TITLE: My Mom has blown 2 discs in her back; great pain and furious depression have taken over. What now?
POST: I've seen some great things occur on these pages and now am hoping perhaps some pearls of wisdom and guidance can come my way.
I'll try to be brief and point-form-like:
Big Issues:
----... | Moms in lots of pain (mental/physical), taking lots of pills. Please give us hope that things will get better! |
SUBREDDIT: r/AskReddit
TITLE: What embarrassing thing have you done when you thought you were alone - but then realized you weren't?
POST: I get to class about 45 minutes early so I can play some Mass Effect 3. When I get here, the projector was used during the class before this one, so the lights are off and it's pret... | Thought I was alone in class, so I itched my asshole and sniffed my finger. My professor was at his desk and watched the entire thing. |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: I [23M] had a pleasantly clean break up with her [20 F], but I still feel anxiety, depression, jealousy, etc.
POST: Not a throwaway account. Don't even care if she reads it. Nothing's here that she doesn't already know.
We've been dating for over a year and recently had a break up. ... | The break up was nice, but the aftermath has caused intense jealousy and lonely depression/anxiety. How do I release all this stress in a healthy way? |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: He [19M] broke up with me [19F]. duration 6 months
POST: Okay, so I had been dating this guy for a little over 6 months, and I thought everything was going fine. There were arguments here and there, but nothing that didn't get resolved in the next few days. We spent **A LOT** of time t... | My boyfriend of 6 months asked me to move in with him, and then broke up with me 3 days late. I am hurt and confused. |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: I (23F) don't know how to deal with normal couple things like conflict resolution with my (21M) boyfriend.
POST: I'm with a great guy and we've been together about a year. I haven't been this happy with someone in a very long time. We gel.
But he.. does things. He might say something... | Where is the line between expressing needs and nagging? How do you say "Hey that hurt my feelings?" or "You do this really annoying thing" without ... sounding like you're bitching? |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationship_advice
TITLE: [18/m] My friend [17/f] told me she had a crush on me a month ago.
POST: On Sunday I went for a coffee with my friend [17/f], who I know for about 4 months. I must admit I always had a crush on her but I was happy about great friendship we had, so I did act as a friend.
We had ... | Friend told me she liked me a month ago, now I want to date her but everything got a bit awkward becouse of that conversation. Do I have a chance? |
SUBREDDIT: r/cats
TITLE: Has anyone seen this before?
POST: So a little over a week ago my oldest cat, a female Calico named Coco was sitting on my lap. Suddenly I noticed her head start twitching, almost like a person with Parkinson's shakes, (my hair dresser has parkinson's so i am familiar with the tremors). She did... | My cat had the shakes 1 time last week in her head. She had a cold but I'm not sure that was related at all. Any ideas? |
SUBREDDIT: r/jobs
TITLE: Hiring Manager in need of quick advice
POST: Sorry for the length, this situation requires a bit of background. Thanks for reading.
One of my staff members (I'll call her Jessica) recently took a position in another department within the company. I immediately began searching for her replace... | Hired two new employees for two open positions yesterday. Old employee wants her job back for one of the open positions. Not sure whether to oblige her and bosses, or to move forward with new hires and lose great employee. |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: Today I [22m] told my girlfriend [19f] of 3.5 months, that I danced with another girl 3.5 months ago
POST: I asked my girlfriend out like 3.5 months ago and a couple days later I danced with a couple girls. For whatever reason, it was really bugging me this past weekend that I never to... | Told my gf I danced with another girl 3.5 months ago, she got upset but we are ok now. How do I make it up to her? |
SUBREDDIT: r/BreakUps
TITLE: Broke up (former bf20, me:f, 21) about three months ago: How do I make our complicated relationship not complicated?
POST: So basically after breaking up we were still close, it wasn't helping either of us. So I decided to have no contact with him for a couple weeks probably a month or long... | I would like to know what is the best way to say goodbye without it being so emotionally draining. Should I tell my former bf the truth about what I've done while we haven't been together? |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: Me [19F] with my SO [18 M]. I broke up with him for reasons I'm now doubting. Did I make the right decision?
POST: So, a week ago i broke up with my boyfriend of almost 2 years. I ended the relationship well-knowing that i still love and care for him deeply, but something just didn't f... | im wondering how much is too much hurt to experience after breaking up with someone, and how do you know it was the right decision? Is there a possibility that I made a mistake? |
SUBREDDIT: r/tifu
TITLE: TIFU by wanting to take a selfie.
POST: So I went to the Insurgent premiere earlier today, and I was looking forward to it. My friends thought it would be cool to use my GoPro as a selfie stick as we always take pics when the movie is over. I agreed to that because I thought it would be cool.
... | Brought my GoPro to take a selfie at the movie theatre, almost got a $100,000 fine because they thought I was recording a movie. |
SUBREDDIT: r/needadvice
TITLE: How best to ask roommates for a specific bedroom in a new living arrangement?
POST: Entering my senior year of college and I just got out of a living arrangement from hell. I'm moving in with another girl (Rebecca) who has two empty bedrooms in a three bedroom condo. We have been talking ... | Moving into a new living arrangement, wanting to know the best way to ask for the larger of the two remaining bedrooms. |
SUBREDDIT: r/Advice
TITLE: my mom is STILL spying on me
POST: When I first started using the Internet socially as a teenager, my mom used to read all my conversations in secret. Eventually, she even confronted me when she found inappropriate things for my age and blocked some of my accounts for a while. But the reading... | I'm an adult and my mom might still be spying on me. How might she be doing it and how can l stop it? |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: Me [17 M] with my GF[18 F] of 6 months are fighting over the way we communicate, which led to a big fight last night and I need advice.
POST: Last night I brought up a concern to my girlfriend that I have been having for a long time now. Im a senior in high school and she is a freshman... | I asked my girlfriend to take a little more interest in things that make me excited. She gets super offended and we have a big fight, need help on what to do. |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationship_advice
TITLE: boyfriend is planning to break up with me....a year from now
POST: He and I have been together for 2 years, we moved in together 6 months ago. It's my house, and I support us financially as he is looking for a job. We're both 20.
I know his plan because he left his computer dia... | mutually loving relationship, bf has made solid plans to leave me in a year to try new things. has given no indication of unhappiness or discontent in relationship. |
SUBREDDIT: r/askwomenadvice
TITLE: What makes a woman behave like this?
POST: A month ago I have been on holidays with a girl from another country that I met online. She was alone and she was looking for somebody to spend her holidays with. Everything was great and she told me many times she was really enjoying the tri... | Been on holidays with a girl, she acted very nice and kind during the holiday but now she never texts me in the first place |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: I [20/F] Want to get in contact with my half-brother [?/M], but my parents [72/m, 52/f] keep dancing around the subject
POST: My brother and I are the third generation of my father's, first of my mothers. He's had three wives, and still with my mother. We've got a sketchy past with the... | I have a half-brother who is an ex-con that I've never met and my parents hate, wat do? |
SUBREDDIT: r/dating_advice
TITLE: Was I [26F] overreacting about his [32M] actions? Dating 2 months
POST: I'm 26F and have been seeing 32M for 2 months. My bday was on Monday and he took me out for a nice dinner on Saturday, but no card or anything which was fine. He was going to be leaving town on Wednesday and so I a... | Not sure if I made a mistake breaking up with him, was I asking for too much for him to say happy birthday on my actual birthday? |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: Oral sex blues: My boyfriend won't go down on me.
POST: My boyfriend [M, 23] and I [F, 22] have been together almost 3 years. We've been living together for 1. We have a great relationship and are very much in love.
We have sex about 3-4 times a week. It's always fantastic and he is ... | Boyfriend hasn't "returned the favor" in several months. I've let him know how I feel. Hasn't helped. What can I do now? |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: Argument with my [23F] boyfriend [24] of a year and a half about his brother [28].
POST: The other day my boyfriend's brother said to me, "I want to marry a rich cougar so she can buy me stuff. All I want out of life is a sweet lamborghini.
Today I was telling my boyfriend about this ... | boyfriend's brother only wants a nice car out of life, I said I felt bad for someone with that as their priority, boyfriend got pissed. |
SUBREDDIT: r/AskReddit
TITLE: What are the best sites, programs, or tools for a person being drafted into IT to learn the basics and then build on them and build it into a career?
POST: Hi long time lurker here, I have been in the IT field for years, but a friend of mine has recently been drafted into IT by his boss an... | Friend is trying to learn more about the computer world and wants to begin with Excel and move up from there what are some sites and tools I can hook him up with to help? |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: [20/F] Can see being with him [19/M] for a while but too young to settle down
POST: I'll start by saying that I do really like my BF. We communicate very well and have similar ideas about the future. I almost always enjoy the time we are together and I can see being with him for a long... | Only person I can ever see being with long term (Almost a perfect fit) but I'm not ready to settle down. Dating for a year |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: Should I [30M] admit to my creepy behavior to her [26F]
POST: Six months ago I became infatuated with a model/artist living in my city. I had no connection to her whatsoever and became aware of her through social media. I became a fan of her work and slowly started being obsessed with ... | I pretty much internet stalked my way into a woman's life. Wondering if I should admit to it/was it wrong? |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: I (21m) have come to the realisation that I will not marry my girlfriend (20f) of almost 4 years. I won't see her for over a week and a half, so how should I break this to her?
POST: So basically we both work a lot and will not see each other for close to 2 weeks until school starts. W... | absolutely terrified of the conversation that will end this relationship. It's my first relationship. How to tell girlfriend I don't see us getting married? |
SUBREDDIT: r/tifu
TITLE: TIFU By passing up the smoothest move I'll ever make
POST: So this happened about 30 minutes ago and I just realized how I messed up.
So I was driving home from my track practice with my window down and music playing loudly. I was listening to a Spotify mix tape when I pulled up to a red light... | I played the perfect song at a red light that described the girl next to me perfectly, and I didn't even notice how smooth it was. |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: Boyfriend is annoying in public, around friends
POST: It seems like I'm the only one with this problem. Everyone loves my boyfriend. Apparently he oozes with charisma.
I've been dating him for about 9 months now (I'm 23, he's 22), and besides this newfound resentment I have (which I h... | BF is very extroverted, almost to the point of annoyance. Has to talk with everyone, make known he's there. |
SUBREDDIT: r/AskReddit
TITLE: Reddit, what would you do in this situation?
POST: Here's the story:
Last night a few of us (including some of my roommates who are also redditor's) went to an information session hosted by a large financial firm. We found out about the session via our university's career development cen... | A wheel fell off a van our school provided for us while we were driving it. Don't know what action to take. Our school sucks. |
SUBREDDIT: r/AskReddit
TITLE: My brother is stealing my money. How can I stop him?
POST: Me and my brother share a bedroom. I'm 18 and he is older than me. At the end of the day, after I come home from work. I empty my pockets on to a table and sometimes I have $10 or $20 notes. I'm not that kind of person that is very... | My brother feels like any money, I put on the table and is out in the open belongs to nobody and hence he can just take it. |
SUBREDDIT: r/personalfinance
TITLE: Significant Payment, need advice
POST: I'm a writer. Like most writers, I've lived on the fringe of poverty most of my life. Until now. One of my works is being adapted into a big budget film.
I received a check for 30,000 today. Once production begins I'll receive 220,000 (A ... | Starving writer gets his break, terrified of screwing up and losing everything. Please tell me what to read, where to study and learn |
SUBREDDIT: r/tifu
TITLE: TIFU by jabbing myself in the foot with a shank
POST: A short quickie for all of you
So today (~1:05 AM, totally today) I was getting ready to head off to sleep, when my mother came in and told me to shut off the light.
Me: Give me five more minutes mom, I'll do it shortly
Mom: Just go to s... | Can't give you one much better than the title. I kicked a sharpened piece of metal I use as a door prop barefooted. |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: I (19m) messed up a dance and ruined chance with my crush (19f)
POST: Oh, what could I say. I was the only one that did not dance, at a dance. I feel like a fucking loser and idiot. The girl i have liked for nearly a year now, i could not ask her. Reason 1: I was super nervous, never a... | Fucked up at a dance, couldn't ask my girl because to nervous and she was always busy. I feel like a complete loser, i was the only one who didn't dance with anyone. |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: Me [38 M] with my ex- [37 F] 10+ years, ended 2+ years ago, Why delete/destroy pics?
POST: I've posted how lately I've been going through another phase of struggling with the end of a long term relationship, despite living ok, dating a lot, having fun I'm in a phase of regret for endin... | Prefer not to delete 10+ years of relationship pics but get the reasoning behind why it could be a good idea, experiences on both sides of argument would be appreciated |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: I'm [21M] in love with my best friend [22F] who lives 1000 miles away.
POST: I've known this girl for more than 7 years. We started out as really good friends and just last year I found out I have strong feelings for her. I told her how I felt and she responded the same way. Now we're ... | I have strong feelings for my best friend who lives far away but does not want to start a LTR and can't get over her. |
SUBREDDIT: r/personalfinance
TITLE: 24 year old teacher - retirement planning
POST: I'm a 24 year old teacher, with a mandatory pension contribution of 8% of my pretax income. I am not eligible for a 401k or Social Security, and I'm trying to figure out how best to save for retirement beyond that pension, because I'm h... | I can't invest in a 401k, is there any way to reduce my tax liability for retirement savings beyond a Roth IRA? |
SUBREDDIT: r/AskReddit
TITLE: Who is the most ignorant/laziest person you know? I'll start…
POST: A kid that used to be in the same English class as me (a year early entry) failed the coursework and got low grades on both the exams (Literature and Language) so he got moved down a group and had to re-sit both of them. H... | – Kid I know is too ignorant and lazy to even apply to go to college anywhere and doesn't meet up with friends because he's in love with his XBOX and his dad just gives him money to sponge off. |
SUBREDDIT: r/dating_advice
TITLE: Should I keep dating him?
POST: Crosspost from RA...
I'm 25F, he's 26. We met on OK Cupid a few weeks ago and had an amazing instant connection. Since we met, we've been going out a few times each week and talking almost every day. We've both acknowledged how much we like each other a... | I found out a guy I've been dating for a few weeks is sleeping with other people, after implying he wasn't. Do I keep seeing him? |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: I [17 M] feel like I'm about as exciting as a goldfish to my SO [15 F]
POST: Background: We met online, hit it off, Skyped every day all day for the first two months, everything was great, we're madly in love.
I drive two hours to see her, and two hours back every Tuesday because it'... | My girlfriend says she loves me more than anything but doesn't put any effort into our relationship anymore and I don't know what to do because I fell in love with the person she was when she tried |
SUBREDDIT: r/legaladvice
TITLE: Car problems. Considering a lawsuit.
POST: So a few months ago, I took my car (A 2012 Camaro) to a Firestone to get the oil changed. Somehow they jacked up the oil change and as a result my engine leaked all the oil out and it seized. It's completely toast now. The dealership where it's ... | Firestone messed up my car, I'm trying to get them to pay for it but they're dragging their feet. So I'm considering legal action. |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: Me [26 F] with my SO [24M] of two years, feeling lonely.
POST: My SO and I go to the same university and it's where we met. Before at the start of the relationship I would always be over at his place and we would always be together but that was over a year ago. Now I'm lucky if I even ... | I don't feel like I'm in a relationship anymore. Is it possible to save it or should I just move on? |
SUBREDDIT: r/offmychest
TITLE: I feel like I've spent my adult life on the phone....and I'm only 26.
POST: Not expecting responses; I'm just home alone and need an outlet to get out my frustrations. Yay, reddit.
Ugh. Yet again, something to do with finances is fubar, and I've spent all morning with no luck trying to g... | I put in the time to be responsible, but it seems like a lot of the services I need to use to do so are so faulty and/or hard to navigate that it becomes a major PITA. |
SUBREDDIT: r/Advice
TITLE: Dog of 5 yrs passed out. Now in E.R.
POST: Of course when there is no where else to turn, I summon the internet lingerers like your self.
First off I love my dog. He's my best friend. Sounds cliche, but its true. I paid so far $500 to start treatment. I knew this day would come, but never k... | dog got sick out of no where. Passed out and is now in ER being treated for god knows what. Need comfort or any advice to help me through another human endeavor. |
SUBREDDIT: r/AskReddit
TITLE: Having a tough time right now (not depressed/sad, just a rough patch) where on Reddit can I go?
POST: So I have two kids and their mother, while great with them, is just not mature enough. She cheated awhile ago but we moved past it amicably for the kids (not together anymore) but she was ... | lonely, have two kids so almost no spare time, would love to just chat with a girl. Where can I? |
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