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{"aita for not taking my girlfriend to the hospital? A couple months ago, my girlfriend 20f broke up with me 21m because I did not take her to the hospital when she went. She thought she had a urinary tract infection, and was planning on seeing a doctor the next day but decided she had to go to the ER while she was at my apartment because she started feeling sick apparently. She came out of the bathroom saying she was peeing blood and felt like she was going to pass outthrow up, so she had to go immediately. I told her I was busy anyway and to go ahead, so she walked there herself. She was texting me throughout but I couldn't respond to them because I was busy with homework, which she didn't seem to understand. I did text her to let her know she should quarantine from me for two weeks following the visit since she was in a hospital and might now expose me to covid. Later, she was already discharged and treated it was a kidney infection they gave her iv medicinetests and had her stay for several hours, but didn't admit her and said she wanted to tell me what happened. I told her I could not talk because as I had said, I was busy. She told me she was scared because she almost went septic apparently, but I had to repeatedly tell her that I could not talk that day and she would have to wait until a different day to discuss it. The next day, even after I told her I still could not talk, she informed me that she was upset with me because I should have taken her to the hospital, or talked to her after. I had no way of knowing that she wanted me to come if it was me, I would not have wanted her there, so there was no reason for me to think she would. She also made it to the hospital fine on her own. She didn't even get admitted, and I told her that if she would have gotten admitted I would have visited, but she didn't so it must not be as serious as she was making it out to be. We ended up getting into a major fight because she was demanding too much of me, and I was extremely mad at her for this. She apologized, but then a month later, broke up with me citing this incident as a factor. I don't see how I was wrong here I had sympathy for her situation, but she did not respect my boundaries at all and as far as I can tell, she was just as much in the wrong as I was.":{"0":"I was very upset she did it over text because I couldn't call. I did care, we dated for three years and she threw it all away in a text.","1":"Hi, this is real. thanks for your opinion."}}
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