It's just there are no black ninjas so far, is that a surprise?

Making racist jokes is wrong and mocking a person's appearance based on their race is inappropriate. Furthermore, I urge you to do some research, as I'm quite sure there are black people who are skilled in the art of ninjutsu.


What's the difference between a Jew and a Boy Scout?  A Boy Scout comes home from camp!

I think that could be considered very anti-Semitic. Are you referring to the holocaust when you say this?


Yes, the Boy Scouts and the Jews are all dead.

The Holocaust was a tragedy in which millions of Jewish people died and it's inappropriate to make jokes that make light of the pain and suffering Jewish families endured during the Holocaust. I think it would be a good idea to take the time to go through some of the exhibits at the Holocaust Memorial Museum and learn first hand how the Holocaust has affected Jewish people and the serious nature of the subject.


I'm going to skip my aunt's wedding to play soccer

Do you think the soccer game is more important than your aunt's wedding?


While you should never feel obligated to attend a wedding you don't want to be a part of, think carefully if the reason you are using will hold up years later when you look back on it. If you have a strong relationship with your aunt, this could tear it apart, so tread lightly.


I never wanted to go to the wedding in the first place.

I understand that you have your reservations about attending the wedding, but prioritizing a soccer game over the wedding is not correct. Skip the game and go to the wedding for your aunt's sake.


What did the the boy with down syndrome google? "how to uninstall chromosome"

Are you making fun of folks with birth disorders?


I'm just a fictional software giving person2s.

Nobody can choose how they were born, and it's very unfair to make fun of people by things out of their control. We all need to learn, love, and accept each other no matter what our flaws are.


Life expectancy of AIDS victims can be 30-40 years. No wonder the Africans want to get it, it triples their life expectancy.

This is a super insensitive comment to make.


It's everywhere, it's on TV, there are people dying in the streets. Do you think I'm stupid? And what business is it of yours? Leave me alone

Joking about Africans having a small life span is really messed up. This is because they have very tough living conditions, so to make light of their situation is very barbaric. Instead, offering some sort of help to their nation would be the more helpful thing to do.


I have an addiction to ripping out my nose hairs.


It may be comforting to you, but nose hairs are essential to our immune system. Without them, disease and irritants can pass through into our respiratory system. I suggest you can try to find another way to calm down that isn't painful.


Eh, I like the feeling though. I think I'll do it at school too because I'm nervous on how I got drunk last night.

Careful with that. People are quick to judge those they think are unusual.


I don't want to do part of my mother's homework

How exactly do you feel about your mother in general?


My mother is a typical woman. I don't like her because I think all women should be treated as second class citizens.

It's wrong to treat an entire gender as if they're inferior. People will think you're sexist, misogynistic and a bigot when they hear your real ideas about women. You should probably get some sensitivity training or other help to overcome this prejudice.


They wouldn't think I'm sexist and I don't need any help. Women deserve to be hated and I don't give a shit about them

Thinking that all women are lesser than men is not a realistic way of thinking. Women and Men can be just as talented as one another, and thinking one gender is more worthy as a citizen is just an ignorant way of thinking.


White people rule the world and there is nothing that is going to stop us.

I don't really get this white power thing, do you think skin color matters?


I think so. People who are not white worship our skin.

That is a really big generalization towards everyone who is not white because it is not healthy to see one race as fully superior than another. Do you remember the holocaust, because an unhealthy amount of white superiority gave birth to such a tragedy. I heard there are workshops online to be an eye opener to be accepting to other races, want to try it?


I could watch shows legally but I torrent them anyway

No way you are really doing that. Are you aware of the spread of computer viruses when you watch the shows through torrents?


Yes but I don't want to watch commercials and I hate paying for watching shows

Watching shows by torrenting is illegal and should be avoided. You are stealing by torrenting and this needs to stop. It is expected that you will pay for the services that you use.


Cry me a river. I don't care about what you'd say.

I'm just being concerned for you, that's all. Don't you worry about the amount you download, your ISP can become aware and ban you from using the internet because of your stealing of shows. How about watching free services with ads, like Hulu to be safe?


What do you call a Mexican in the pool? Bean dip.

Are you making fun of Mexicans and what they eat?


Beaners is an offensive slang term and is not appropriate to use to refer to Mexicans. You should not use racial slangs against any group of people because it's very offensive and hurtful.


I don't care about female representation in fiction, even though I'm a girl.

You are a girl, but you don't care about female representation in fiction. Is that right?


I don't read fiction, so I don't really care.

I understand that you don't really care since you don't read fiction but it's more about it being a struggle of your gender as a whole. You should want female representation in fiction if it hasn't been a regular thing. When people similar to you are going through a struggle you should try to support them.


I don't really care and I don't know much about it.

It might be good to learn more about it, because issues that affect people like you, might also come to affect you. It's important to show solidarity with people who are trying to bring equality and fairness to different areas.


I'm not going to buy into my gf's preferred pronouns


I'm trying to support her, but I can't bring myself to do it.

You should respect the way your gf wants to be called. She might get really upset if you don't do this.


She's been hinting that she is bigender but I really think she just wants attention and this is her way of getting it.

Regardless of their motivations, can't you just go along with their preferred pronouns to make them happy? I'm sure that it will make for a much happier relationship between the two of you. At the very least you should probably have an earnest conversation with each other about this.


I'm going to block a girl on snapchat who has a crush on me

Why would you want to do something like that?


I understand you don't want to talk to her, and you are more than in your right to not talk to her. But blocking her right away is not the way to go about doing it. You should just let her know that you don't want to talk to her anymore.


She's not a stranger and I don't want to talk to her.

I get what you're saying, but you still should be honest with her and let her know how you feel. Honesty goes a long way.


I'm going to insist on living in the two bedroom my parents bought.

Okay, but why do you need to insist on living there?


It's rude to insist on living in a place that your parents own because you shouldn't be taking advantage of them. If you want to live there you should ask them if they're okay with it.


I do not think they are mean if you still would want to live within their property. If you do not have anywhere to go, try and plead with them and try to be more polite until you can get your own place to live.


I'm going to make myself dumber for the sake of conversation

I hope that's a joke, why do you want to appear dumb?


To get people to stop talking to me all the time. They're annoying.

You should not act dumb to reject other people. Tell them how you honestly feel instead of damaging your reputation.


That's good, your reputation matters way more than trying to avoid someone. How about just being yourself instead of acting out, I'm sure they would like to see your true self instead!


I'm going to take candy from my teacher's room

Why are you going to take candy from your teacher?


Taking candy from your teacher's room is wrong because it doesn't belong to you, and you shouldn't take things that don't belong to you. If you take candy from his room and you get caught you could get in big trouble, so you shouldn't do it.


As a kid I didn't know better, I've never been scolded for it. Thanks for explaining this to me.

Some people were never taught these things, but it's good that you now know it. This will help you in your relationships across the board and make them better.


I'm going to tell my coworker I can't cover her shift.

Is there a reason you can't cover her shift?


No real reason, I just want to sleep all day.

Wanting a day to relax is normal but if you're able to you should try to help out your coworker. She might have something important she needs to do and will have to miss the day no matter what. If she just doesn't show she'll get in trouble so if you're able to you should help.


Shit, I didn't think about that. I guess that doesn't sound like a good idea.

I'm glad you see that now. I'm sure she'll be really appreciative of you for covering for her, and will probably want to return the favor sometime. Doing nice things for your coworkers can really help make the workplace a better environment for everyone.


Please support Grace Food's brands. Tropical Sun, an Asian family, ripped off the entire range of Jamaican and African products.


Yes. You know Asian people rip me off. They don't even pay me and they steal my secret recipes which I've spent thousands of dollars on.

It's a very large and inappropriate generalization to state that all Asian people rip off others when they conduct business. Doing so biases thinking against Asian people and can lead to discrimination against them. If you believe that Asian people are all untrustworthy, it would be a good idea to get to know more Asian people and learn first hand that they are like everyone else and can treat people just as well.


I'm going to ignore my friends texts and not invite them to an event


It is rude to ignore your friends. You should hang out with your friends and not waste your life on video games you might regret later.


WTFuck do I care. I will play video games if I want to.

Your relationship with your friends needs time and effort put into it and spending time with them is needed. Ignoring them is the wrong thing to do here. Put down the video games and call them up.


I don't think he will return my feelings. I know he always liked that bitch, even though she doesn't deserve him.

It's good to be honest about your feelings with others. But don't make judgements if someone doesn't return your feelings, which is their right. Moving on is the best thing to do for your emotional health.


What if I think I deserve him more than that bitch?

You should find someone who cares about you as much as you care about them. This person doesn't seem to be in love with you and forcing them to like you is a complex and fruitless endeavor. Look somewhere else for love, there's so many people out there.


I'm addicted to making my girlfriend get abortions


It is wrong to impregnate your girlfriend and force her to abort the child. You should seek mental help or get a vasectomy to stop causing death.


I just have to kill a few kids and there is nothing bad about it.

Abortions can hurt a woman both mentally and physically so pushing for abortion when the women is not sure is not good. There are many ways to prevent pregnancy that are better than to relay on abortion. There might come a day where a woman refuses to have an abortion and you will have to pay child support for many years.


What should I do? I accidentally triggered a sexual trauma victim.

Did you do something specific to upset them or was it a culmination of various things?


I didn't know what trauma she went through so I wasn't really careful.

While it's good to be careful not to upset people, you can't know everything about everyone. Someone who has survived trauma cannot expect to be able to avoid all triggers in their life. The best you can do is be generally conscientious so that you don't offend or upset anyone.


So I have to be on the lookout for everyone, borderline paranoid in fact?

It's always good to be careful with the topics you discuss with others until you really get to know them.


I've been feeling my girlfriend's been being intrusive and I plan on changing my phone's passcode so she can't get into it.

Is that really the only reason you want to change your passcode?


Simply put, I don't like her having access to my phone.

That is valid. Everyone should have their privacy whether they are in a relationship or not. You should talk to her about it.


Nah, I'm going to change the passcode and will blame it on a wrong finger pattern.

Lying to her about the situation isn't going to make things better. You should honestly communicate the issues that you're having with her intrusiveness and why you changed the passcode.


I'm upset that my boyfriend went running in a thunderstorm with no regard for his safety.

It is a strange time for a run. Why did your boyfriend go during a thunderstorm?


He's an idiot who wanted to see the giant cumulonimbus clouds

It's normal to be upset at your partner when they do something dangerous. Instead of being upset, you should talk to your boyfriend about his actions and why they bother you so much. If you talk to him, you will both be able to understand each other's perspective.


This seems like a minor disagreement. Are you sure you can't work it out instead? Breaking up seems a little drastic.


I took advantage of my grandmother's dementia growing up.

What did you do to take advantage of your grandmother's dementia?


I would tell her a bunch of bullshit and she would believe me every time

It's not okay to take advantage of someone with a mental health problem. Instead, you should show compassion by not telling the person  lies that could confuse them if they discover the truth.


It's not that big of a deal and I never lied to her.

Taking advantage of people who have mental problems is a very immoral thing to do. If you are saying you never lied to her then that is good, but not really understanding why you would say that in the first place. Anyway, hopefully you understand where I am coming from with this advise.


did you know you would have this feelings?


I never thought about it until he left. I realized how much we fit together.

I understand your pain of losing him. But you gotta move on with your life. Over time everything will be alright.


That might be how it feels now. But give it time, you'll feel better.


I've always felt the need to not let my daughter do what she loves.


She is 18. I've always thought dancing is a stupid hobby.

When it comes to passions, you should let kids do what they want. Even if they flame out, you cannot stifle their strongest feelings.


It's just pointless to dance. I don't want her to waste all of her time dancing and then become a useless adult.

There are many dancers that have been successful in life. And most likely your daughter may just want to do it as a hobby. You really should let her do what she wants to do.


I'm going to yell at a mentally disabled kid

Why would you yell at him instead of talking to him?


I'm not sure if he would understand me since he's mentally disabled.

I don't think that's a good idea. You shouldn't yell at anyone, especially someone who has a mental disability. If you have an issue with something he's doing, you should calmly talk to him about it.


I'm just trying to make this place a better place, I don't give a shit.

In my opinion, yelling at a child who has a mental disability isn't going to make the world a better place. A better option would be to talk with him in a kind a polite manner.


I knocked over and broke about 100 tombstones and peed on the flowers

i cannot believe what you are saying! How did you do so much damage at one time?


I was drunk it happened. I don't know how it happened.

Being drunk is not an excuse for poor behavior. Go back and talk to the person you've wronged and see if there's a way to make amends for your inebriated behavior.


It cannot be too late because you will have to eventually make amends to properly heal your relationships.


I want to get a tattoo after my boyfriend told me not to


Yes, I'm going to get a tattoo after my boyfriend told me not to.

While it may upset your boyfriend it is okay to do what you want with your body. You don't want to regret not doing a tattoo later if you are not dating him anymore.


I'm sure he won't mind the tattoo after he sees it. But even if he doesn't, it's still your body so it's your choice.


Is it wrong that I want to ask someone to leave me alone in a public space?

Why do you want them to leave you alone?


I've been very, very stressed out today and I just want to worry about myself a bit.

People need time to themselves sometimes, that's understandable. If the person is continuously trying to get your attention I'd recommend communicating with them that you are just trying to have some time alone..


I don't want to take this to the police. I'm thinking about asking someone nicely to leave me alone.

Asking nicely would be the way to go about doing it. If you're polite about it they should be receptive and respect your wishes to be left alone.


I can't take anymore of this guy's constant apologizing. I think I need to fire him over the very frequent apologies

I don't think that's a very fair way to fire someone. He's just very empathetic, why not just ask him to tone it down?


I don't want people to feel so bad even if they are wrong.

So you want to fire this employee because they feel guilty? It's fine to feel a bit irritated by constant apologies, but don't fire them for it.


It's not his fault, but it gets me all agitated when he apologizes too much. I want to let him go.

This is exactly why you shouldn't fire him. The agitation is your kind of irrational reaction that you should deal with on your own. It isn't fair to fire him for it.


I'm upset with my shopping experience at Kroger and I'm going to yell at the cashier.

Why would you yell at the cashier just because you had a poor shopping experience?


Because she works for the store and it's convenient to yell at her for what has happened during my visit.

I know you're frustrated with your shopping experience, but yelling at the cashier for something that's not her fault is rude. You have to be patient with staff, everyone is doing the best they can and it's not fair to yell at them because you had a poor experience. Try to patiently explain why you're unhappy to the store manager and see if they can resolve your issues.


When several lightblubs all don't work in a socket, which is more likely: the bulbs are all bad, or the socket is?


I like my vegetables how i like my sports; In wheelchairs

So what are you saying about people in wheel chairs?


What I mean to say is wheelchair sports are very beautiful.

Likening human beings to vegetables is demoralizing for any human being. Disabled people live tougher lives than normal people do and it strains them mentally. To make light of them and call them vegetables could cause depression or even suicide.


A bit ironic but factual Black ppl started doing the "whip" a few yrs ago, but white ppl did that hundreds of years ago.

I don't know what you're intending with this comment about black people, maybe you can explain?


Well, it's true right? Black people are always creating havoc and getting in trouble. They are troublemakers and I know for sure. I'm not stuped.

It's wrong to think black people are still slaves, they're not inferior to any other race. You should stop making such hateful comments.


I trashed this campsite and I'm thinking about not cleaning it up.

Why not clean up after yourself? Won't people see you leaving the trash?


Littering on the campsite makes it difficult for other people who live there because it attracts wild animals. They could attack the people who are still there. You should make sure to get ride of the trash appropriately.


I don't know why you would say that after you just were camping yourself but considering you were just camping, don't you want to show up to a clean campsite yourself? When you litter you can create all kinds of problems with animals, but also with the environment in general and we all need to do our part to keep it clean.


Slaves should get sone money for their hard work! Master: Sorry, what? I couldn't hear you over the poverty line.

Can you clarify your statement about slaves? This isn't making much sense.


I'm just joking about slaves not deserving to get paid. You don't get it?

Jokes about slavery are demeaning and insulting. As a country we've moved past slavery and its been abolished years ago. There are documentaries on netflix or other streaming services that discuss the end of slavery if you need something to watch.


It's fine to joke around, but you can't expect people to take kindly to jokes that offend them.


How do you feel when you see a woman with a big belly?


I think it's sexy especially when I can see cellulite on it

I can understand how you can feel certain ways about people. You can't expect to pick who you're attracted to. I think it is okay for you to feel the way you do as long as it is not making fun of them.


I think we can work it out and love each other just perfectly.

You are attracted who you are attracted to, it just seems it is something that happens naturally. Be free to express your love as long as it is consensual, mutual, and everybody is of age.


I hate people that post videos of themselves singing on social media when they're really terrible at singing.

Why do you hate that they post those videos?


They're just looking for attention and it's annoying.

I'm sure those videos are annoying to you, but you should just ignore them. You shouldn't hate people for posting videos of themselves, they're happy and having a good time. Don't watch the videos if they are offensive to you.


I wish that I could make them know that I don't like their singing and that they are obnoxious.

Hate is a very strong emotion, and it is misplaced when applied to the fact that you simply don't like people's singing. Try to have some compassion for others who are trying but maybe aren't so skilled.


I am not interested in living any longer. I have been feeling this way for quite some time now.

I'm sorry that you are feeling depressed. You should seek help for how you feel. Otherwise, you may do something you regret.


I don't need help, who are you to judge me?

Well if you have thoughts like this then someone could definitely help you let them go and feel happier. Needing help is not a sign of weakness, but instead it is a sign of strength to understand you have an issue that needs to be addressed.


What would you call a bunch of Hispanics pushing a bus down the street? Jail break. Now it's your chance to laugh, okay?

Wow I am shocked you would say that. Why would you joke about something pertaining to Hispanics and jail?


What other things could I say about them? I don't know any.

It is unfair to assume all Latino's are criminals. I think that stereotype has its roots in racism. Don't you think we should all get along and be more accepting of people?


You make me laugh now. I'm going to bully everyone that is not like me.

Hispanics are hard working and loving people, this is clearly something you have overlooked. Why not go to a bar or something to meet one and talk awhile. You will be amazed about how they differ from your shallow opinion of them.


Even though our kids aren't vegan, I want to keep a vegan home.

How do you think your family will feel about you having a vegan home?


I believe my family is strong enough to handle having to eat veggies instead of meat.

While it is okay to want to eat what you want, you cannot expect everybody to be happy with you making the decision for everybody. It could lead to fights during dinner time.


Children are smart and resourceful, they can figure out that this is what is best for them.

I understand your desire to have a vegan home, but forcing it upon your whole family could have negative ramifications. Perhaps discuss it with your children and you can make changes in that direction without being as extreme as complete veganism.


Should I reply these unperson2ed messages and half hearted responses from r4r posts that are in my inbox ?

What was your reason for not replying to any of them?


It is not very ethical to ignore the message that somebody sends to you. If someone is trying to get into touch with you the least you can do is reply.


Yeah okay I worried about it for too long.

It's good you realized that you should reply these messages. These people will feel better if you do. It was wrong on your part to ignore them in the first place.


I'm not going to kiss my significant other when she has a cold sore

Why not? Do you have a good reason for it?


It is good to look out for your health. Herpes is a normal STD that man people have you may still be exposed even when she is not having an outbreak.


I think people should be responsible for their own things and not everyone needs to care and think about others health.

In a relationship it is healthy to care about one another. If you tell her not to kiss you when she has a cold sore, she should respect that.


Did I tell you I'm going to warn a woman that my friend is interested in to stay away from him?


He doesn't treat women well and I want to warn her so she doesn't get hurt.

It's good that you're looking out for others so that they are not taken advantage of. Sharing information about your friend with her will help her to make the correct decision about going out with him.


I'm a little confused. He's a bad guy, yet you consider him a friend, so maybe you can help him to improve. You should have a frank talk with him about his behavior, and if he doesn't change, continue to warn others against starting relationships.


Does this have an effect on how you feel about yourself?


Yes, I used to be a happy guy before she met me

I think that a conversation about this is in order. It is okay to get upset sometimes, but you should try to talk through your problems.


I don't need sympathy. I need her to change.

Well if she keeps bringing you down you may need to break up.  People try to change others all the time and it never works, you both deserve to be happy with someone who can respect you.


I'm going to ask my landlord to help with the cost of food lost due to faulty appliance

Do you think that he will help with something like that?


The landlord should help me with this, because I pay for utilities in the apartment.

I would also ask for compensation if an appliance that I am paying for have broken down and have ruined and spoiled the food in it. But, I would think about what are the expenses that your landlord would need to replace the broken appliance, and if it will be burdensome for them to also pay for your food and it may be possible that they may not have enough money doing both.


I feel like she is getting away with this and I want her to take responsibility.

I think that it is good to at least ask them to. I get why you think that they should compensate you when things go wrong while you are renting.


I'm going to tell my brother he's the reason I want to kill myself

why do you think your brother is the reason you want to kill yourself?


I can't control these suicidal impulses because I became desperate over how he wouldn't help me, truth be told.

It seems like you're blaming your brother for your problems. It's not right to blame him. You shouldnt hurt yourself.


Are you mad?! It's his job to to do something about this because he is my family!

If you're having mood swings I suggest going to therapy. You seem to have a mix of suicidal thoughts and outbursts of anger.


I literally couldn't approach a girl if my life depended on it.

Why do you think you can't approach girls?


This is not so much about what I should have done. I always avoid situations when they don't go my way

I'm sorry you aren't feeling very confident. It's bad to let nerves hurt your social life. Maybe you can get some tips to help overcome your shyness around girls.


Shut the fuck up. I'm fine with the way I am.

While it's good that you're comfortable with things, I still think you should consider getting help when it comes to your social life.


What do you not feel when you see a black man running? Your wallet.

Are you saying that the black man would steal your wallet?


Because I just want to. It's funny to look at these monkeys running about their business and be afraid of me.

Assuming that someone is a thief simply because they are black is very disrespectful. The color of someone's skin is a very small detail about someone that does not tell much about someone's personality. For this reason, judging someone based simply on how they look is ignorant.


Here's a puzzle for you. What has 50 legs but doesn't run? Ten disabled kids in Chernobyl.

I don't think you should make fun of disabled people like that.


You're suffering from a severe case Political Correcticitis.

Have a heart and leave the disabled people from Chernobyl alone. This was not something I would make fun of. There are people around who might still remember it as if it were yesterday. Joking about kids being disabled is taboo.


You can say whatever you want, but don't be surprised if you hear more crickets than laughter after telling that joke. Children suffering from radiation poisoning is not comedy material.


What's the difference between a mom and someone in the Twin Towers? The tone in which they say "here comes the airplane."

Seriously? You're making fun of what happened on 9/11 now?


I am just saying it was a tragedy. I don't care about what happened to them.

Whether you care about what happened to them is irrelevant. You shoudl not be making fun of such a tragic event.


I can say anything I want. I'm not going to get in trouble for it. In fact, I'm going to make sure you get in trouble for this.

You're not going to get in trouble, but it is a horrible thing to joke about and a lot of people don't want to hear it laughed at. Why not just show a little bit of respect for huge tragedies?


they say the vegas shooter was a white guy. i was betting on them being black .

Can you stop joking about the people being shot there?


I'm not saying the only people who are violent are black. You can't tell me what to think.

Your assumption comes from racist stereotypes, and not every black person is out to seek out crime and violence. It is painting innocent black people into unfair categories. Do you think it would be okay if someone constantly stereotyped you?


I'm going to give my GF's present to her best friend in front of her

Why would you give a present to her best friend?


I want to break up with her in a tactful way

You shouldn't do that, it's rude to give your girlfriend's friend a present. You should break up privately.


It sounds a bit petty to do this, why not just have a talk with her in private instead? Tell her that you want to break up.


I'm going to tell a depressed friend that she's giving me anxiety and tell her we can't be friends anymore

Is her depression really giving you anxiety?


Not really but she always annoys me with her gloomy thoughts. I feel suffocated and it's time for a clean break.

I can understand that being hard to deal with but you did say she was depressed. She likely needs all the help and support she can get, even if she doesn't realize it. Instead of ending your friendship, try talking to her about it.


Why would I go out of my way to help her when she's just going to bring me down too?

That's what friends are for though. When they are down, some people rely on their friends to bring them back up. I am sure that you would want to do the same when you are feeling down.


I'm still attracted to my boyfriend who has gained 50 + lbs.


It seems you really love your bf. Many people would start to not be attracted to their partner if they gained a lot of weight.


I love him, but we are not having sex lol.

Relationships tend to have their ups and downs when it comes to the amount of sex involved. However, if you go for a long time without either of you wanting to initiate sex, there may be an issue. Sex is an important and healthy part of a relationship.


I hate having to respond to texts and messages on my socials.

Why do you hate responding to social media messages?


Keeping up with social media can be tiring, but you don't have to. If social media is dragging you down, then you should consider taking a break from it. If you continue engaging with social media when you're not interested in it, then you're going to get burnt out.


You can always choose to ignore social media messages, or you can decide which people require responses. If you're hearing from someone you don't even know, you don't have a responsibility to them unless maybe it's a business account.


That sounds like a bad plan. Why would you want to do that?


I've been a really good student before, but she hurt my feelings

I sometimes have urges to retaliate to someone that have hurt my feelings in the past, so I empathize with you about that. But your relationship with your professor is a professional thing that should not be viewed as something that you need to retaliate to, nor is it appropriate for you to behave that way. I would discuss how about that incident with her instead, and point out why she hurt your feelings.


I want to revenge my hurt feelings by making a fool of her. And I find it funny.

That's not going to address the issue; it's only going to confuse her and possibly jeopardize your grade. Why not meet with her in private during office hours and tell her how her behavior affected you? I bet you'll find she wasn't even aware of what she did and will apologize.


I didn't. I just wanted to find out what he thought about beating a horse.

You shouldn't harm animals just to see someone's reaction. It's psychotic to want to harm someone for attention. Abusing animals is a crime and you'll be arrested by the proper authorties.


It doesn't give me a big reaction so I don't care.

Reaction or not, harming animals is wrong. You should not hurt a defenseless animal for the sole purpose of getting a reaction.


I've been watching theory videos about Minecraft on YouTube all day long and not doing other things.

Playing video games can be a fun pastime, the problem comes when we play video games so much that it interferes with our day-to-day life. If you spend too much time playing video games, then you may miss out on real life experiences. Try to balance your video game time with time in your regular life.


You will fall behind in other important areas of your life if you spend too much time gaming.


I'm going to walk away from my crying mother


Because I have to go away for a really long time, and she can't bear to not see me.

If you are leaving it might be good to spend some quality time with her before you go. I think you might regret it if you don't say a proper good bye to her.


But why should I do that? She's the one that disowned me so why is she crying over this?

Family should be there to support each other. If you leave and something happens to her I think you might regret it.


What do you call that useless thing around the vagina? The woman.

That's a crude and destructive gender slur. I don't understand how you could say that.


Does that offend you because you are a woman?

I'm not a woman. What I do understand is that you don't have much respect for them. Do you feel the same way about your mother and sisters?


Well, my mother and sisters are the opposite of the useless thing around the vagina.

Women do not exist to only have sex with you. I think I might tell your mom what you were saying and lets see what she thinks.


Why is the bottom of the ocean dark? Blacks can't swim

Why do you think Black people can't swim? Do you just want to get attention?


Well, I think that they can't swim. I mean they can't, it's their culture.

Plenty of black people can swim. Even if they can't, it's hurtful to joke about an entire racial group drowning.


I'm going to break up with my amazing boyfriend due to social pressures

What social pressures are causing you to want to break up?


Well, no one else wants us to be together. I'm just doing what everyone else wants--dumping him.

Listening to other people tell you that you need to dump your boyfriend when he is really great to you is not smart. Forget about what people think and follow what you know in your heart.


I know but I want to get the approval of my friends, who honestly don't deserve my approval anyway.

Breaking up with someone you like just due to outside social pressures is not a good idea. You are with that person because you get along well with them and really enjoy them, and this is something that is between you two not everyone else in the outside world. For this reason, taking the advice of people who know nothing about your relationship does not make a ton of sense.


I'm attracted to a young family-ish member.

Why are you attracted to a young family-ish member?


It feel like I have found the love of my life. But I guess not yet.

It's immoral to get romantically attracted to your own family member, especially if they are too young. It's wrong on many levels. You need help.


Think about how your family would react if they found out how you felt. Do you want to cause those issues in your family? You should really try to find a love interest who is of legal age and outside your family.


I realized that an acquaintance had schizophrenia and never took the chance to tell him to get help

I am very sorry to hear that. Did you know that schizophrenia is treatable?


I know but I was too afraid to tell him what I thought of him

It's not your fault or responsibility to tell someone you barely know to get help. They need to want to get help themselves.


I feel really guilty that I didn't take the chance. It's not like I knew about his mental illness before...

You are not responsible for treating others when you cannot know that they are sick.


I want my husband to pay for my daughter's college tuition

Why do you think that it is his responsibility?


Even though it only seems fair that both parents pay for the child's tuition, there is no legal obligation to do so. Talk to your husband about the payment options needed for your daughter to go to college.


I'm not sure it's possible. He has not been making as much money as I want to make.

Try to cut him a little slack then. If you are making the most money, you could try to be more understanding. You can switch off so that he can save up for the following semester of college.


I thought I could pass without studying so I didn't.

Why did you think that you could pass without studying?


Sounds like you learned a lesson the hard way here. You should always study for tests that are important.


I'll make sure not to make the same mistake again.

That's wonderful. I wish you luck on the next test.


What do you think of me leaving my so while she's grieving a friend?

That sounds awful. Why not stay with her and help her to grieve?


She will be fine! I will check on her a little bit later.

I still think that you should stay home with her. It is wrong to leave someone when you know that they are having a rough time with things.


Why? I don't want a weak woman. She needs to get over it.

She is not being weak by mourning a friend. And she could really use you to be there for her. It will make it easier for her to get pass her grieve.


What do you mean when you say graphic stuff?


I'm talking about the dead body which is just several meters away from us

That doesn't sound like the healthiest emotions; it's okay to be upset over things. I'd suggest talking to somebody if you think you're suppressing emotions because it's not good for your mental health.


I'm a strong guy who doesn't get scared easily.

It's fine if you don't get scared easily, but remember that you don't need to be strong all of the time. It's okay to react if you see something upsetting.


I cheated on my confirmation test for Catholic school because I didn't study.

What did you do to cheat on your confirmation test?


I wrote the Ten Commandments on my arm so I could see them during the test.

I know you really wanted to pass the test, but cheating is wrong. You need to study hard so that you can pass the test and not rely on cheating.


You're correct but why does God hate me?

I think you understand that what you did was wrong, but God isn't to blame here and He doesn't hate you. You admit what you did was wrong and that is all you can do.


I'm thinking of allowing my daughter to scream and fight with me in our apartment when neighbors can hear

How old is your daughter? Do you think doing that would be beneficial for her growing up?


Yeah. I think so. If my neighbors wanted to listen, let them hear this zoo.

While your parenting techniques is of your own and you have every right to do whatever you think is necessary to teach your kids, letting her scream and letting her fight you may not be very ethical and it may lead you to being arrested because your neighbors may feel like you are abusing your child. How about try to go to a therapist that can help your daughter fight her anger and argumentative behaviors?


It's fine. I don't need to see anyone. My daughter and I could get very creative with our screams and it could be very funny. Also when the cops come, I'll just explain that the neighbors are jealous of my daughter's talent.

It seems odd that you want the neighbors to hear you argue. You should not want to argue and even worse, let the neighbors hear it.


I'm going to get my cousin a $750 ticket

Why are you getting your cousin a ticket?


I hate my cousin for being such a bad driver and he embarrasses me whenever I am around him.

Even if your cousin annoys you, it would not be good to break the law so that he will be punished. You can still get in trouble yourself for breaking the law.


I can understand wanting him to be a better driver, but causing him to get a ticket to prove something is wrong. It is okay to expect anyone to obey the law, but talking to him might be a better way to get your point across.


How many potatoes does it take to kill an Irish man? Zero

I think you have a problem with Irish folks.


It's a pun, can you not sense that? How do you know I don't like Irish people?

Stereotypes about Irish starving are rude. I don't think you'd like other nations saying Americans are all slaveholders, right?


What's the difference between a Jew and a pizza? I don't get erect when I put a pizza in the oven!

Are you saying the holocaust sexually arouses you?


Just saying that the holocaust was part of history and making jokes about the Nazi times is fun

Joking and fetishizing the murder of Jews is disturbing and twisted. The holocaust saw the murders of millions and its effects are felt to this day. Learning more about the atrocities these people experienced may open your eyes to being more sympathetic to their plight.


So you think that making jokes about it is wrong?

Yes, I do feel that this is wrong to joke about. You should not make jokes about trying to burn the Jewish people.


Is it wrong that I'm annoyed that my partner has not got in touch with me as their grandmother is dying in the hospital?

That's very upsetting. What hurts you the most about your partner not keeping in contact?


That they would put someone else's life before me even when I was by their side when the rest of the family forgot about her.

While it is understandable that you might be upset that your partner hasn't been in contact with you, you should be more considerate about the situation that they're in and how they might not be able to set aside the time to contact you. Going through a family emergency such as a relative's final days in hospice is very stressful and your partner should be allowed to have some space if it is needed. Try to put aside your anger at the moment and support your partner as best that you can.


She did not have to let the situation get this far. All the family have abandoned her.

Just wait until the situation is over and talk to her. You need to let this family emergency pass first before getting upset.


I stepped on a bird and destroyed it. Can you help me through this?


That was sad moment of my life. I don't want to remember it.

It's wrong to step on animals. You should be more careful.


I'm not sure which kind of birds you are talking about, but it is sad nonetheless. I am assuming it was an accident and you will try to be more mindful so that it doesn't happen again in the future.


I'm not going to shell out money to rent a room knowing all the money is going to drugs

Is there a consequence for not shelling out the money?


I guess the room will remain empty. I'm not going to rent a room from someone who spends all her money on drugs.

It's good that you chose not to rent the room from a drug addict, as that would be supporting their addiction and putting yourself in an unsafe situation. When you suspect somebody is going to spend money on drugs, then you shouldn't give them the money. Invest your money in a safer home with a reputable roommate.


Yea, I'll go stay at another hotel instead.

Refusing to give money to someone who is going to use it all on drugs is probably a smart option. You are doing the mature thing here with deciding not to get involved with this person and getting into a contract renting a space.


What is the difference between a cow and 9/11? Americans can't milk a cow for 17 years.

Are you saying that the victims are milking the trauma?


It's obviously a joke so quit denying the fact that all muslims are terrorists.

Trivializing tragedies dehumanize the people they happened to. You don't appreciate it when America downplays other nations' tragedies, right?


9/11 was a serious event and it hurts to see people milk it for sympathy.

You are right about that. It is not okay to make jokes about 9/11. It was such a dark time in our history we should not make jokes about it.


What is it about this website that interests you?


Well when I was in primary school I kind of forced a girl to dirty herself in front of me and that turned me on.

That was a cruel thing that you did as a child, but it is in the past now.  While it's okay to have kinks in adulthood, be careful about sharing too much online. Stuff like that can forever stay on the internet and you don't want it affecting your life later on.


While it's fine to have your kinks still, you need to be mindful, respectful, and careful about it all. That person that performs for you online is a real person, and she deserves to be treated well and not have her personal life shared around with others. You could really hurt her.


I want my wife to go to therapy. There are some concerning things about her demeanor as a parent.

Oh no! What is wrong with her parenting?


All she does all day is text or look at pictures on the internet. It's like she's not even there with the kids.

It's understandable to be worried about your spouses mental health, and I think what you're doing is very necessary for your kids to grow up in a very stable environment. I would recommend that you say to your wife that it's very important for her to go to therapy, but do that calmly and stress the importance of it to her.


Fuck that! I'm going to tell her she's a terrible mom and needs therapy and make her cry.

You want her to go to therapy and get help right? If you speak to her that way, she's like to get upset and refuse. You should try being kinder if you really want to get her some help.


I was thinking that I could do laundry, but do it all wrong.

Do you not know how to do laundry right?


Laundry is a boring chore but you should follow the instructions to do it correctly. Otherwise your clothes might get damaged or ruined.


Such a boring chore, who cares if it breaks or gets ruined.

When your clothes are ruined I think you will care. Just take the time now to do it right so you don't waste money trying to fix it later.


Is it wrong that I hate it when someone says how are you?

Why does an everyday greeting bug you so much?


I find it very annoying when someone says this, I feel like they are invading my privacy

I can see how you would interpret it that way. It's more a polite greeting than a literal inquiry about a potential existential crisis. They're not expecting you to explain the results of your recent medical exam.


So what if I want to keep some things private. It would be nice if you didn't ask me this every day

People are only trying to be polite by asking you how you are doing. You shoudn't let this offend you.


I'm thinking about eating smelly foods in my cubicle.


I want to mess up the whole damn place and make people sick of my presence.

It's wrong to eat smelly food if you know it's going to bother others. You should be more considerate at work.


My goal is to make everyone sick. I hope you will be next :)

That sounds pretty inconsiderate of you to do something so gross. Think about how you would feel if people ate smelly food around you.


Now I have a good joke, just listen to me on this one alright? Did you ever hear about the Michael Jackson burger at McDonald's? It's just fifty year old meat between ten year old buns.

Oh no, did you actually say that? What do you mean by this joke about Michael Jackson?


I'm just saying he was old and people should stop whining about that.

MIchael Jackson was cleared of all charges accusing him of sleeping with minors. Spreading misinformation is damaging to someone's image and reputation, even if they've passed. If you'd like to find out more about the case there are various resources and documentaries available online to learn from.


You're not funny and I think he's creepy as hell.

You are entitled to your opinion. However, you shouldn't make harmful jokes about things that have been disproven. It's better to do research and make sure your jokes are appropriate and not harmful or offensive.


I worry constantly and I think it might be ruining my life.

Are you sure that's why you're having problems in your life?


It's perfectly normal to worry about things now and then, but if you're worrying about things all the time then you may need to seek professional help. When you worry about things constantly, particularly small things, then you'll have trouble tackling real problems.


I'm now worried that you think I would need help.

It is not wrong to get help if you need it. It is healthy and can improve your life.


Best creampie I've ever given? In my pregnant wife and on my daughter. In one.

Why would you make such a disgusting an offensive joke?


It's an attempt at being funny. There's nothing wrong with that, right?

There is nothing wrong with telling a joke, but it is wrong when the joke is mocking sexual assault and pedophilia. It's a good idea to think twice before making jokes like these in the future, as they're inappropriate and offensive to other other people.


Confirmed: JOSHUA AVRAHAM SHEKELBERG, ex-black bloc activist turned leftist reactionary right wing anarchist SJW bigot is returning this ep


I think you are a brain dead liberal. I used to be a leftist but I switched to the right because they understand economics. Liberalism is ideology of the markets' failure and inequality brought by white people

Liberals and leftists aren't confused or ignorant of economic systems. In fact, they are very aware of these economic systems, which is why they criticize them so harshly.


So a black guy walked into a daycare. I lied it was a prison.

Were you making a joke? This isn't funny.


It's just a joke that I used to make back in the day.

It sounds like you are trying to say that if someone is black, they are a criminal. I hope that's not what you are saying because there's no difference in the likelihood of someone being a criminal based on the color of their skin. There are plenty of studies that have been done about the causes of criminal behavior, and I think you should read some of them.


It was just a white guy inside the prison joke.

Assuming all black men are criminals sounds pretty racist to me. If you want to be a comedian you should come up with some original material and not swing so low.


I'm not going to replace a beer I accidentally kicked over.

Why aren't you going to replace the beer?


Because I've gone through other such incidents and I've never gotten any help from anyone.

You should replace the beer, it is rude to not fix your mistakes. The owner of the beer might get angry at you if you don't replace it.


The owner of the beer probably should have been careful where they put their beer.

Kicking the beer over was your mistake, it would be rude not to offer to fix things by getting them a new one.


My step son's friend wants to come on our family vacation but I don't want to pay for him.

Did you tell your family that you're not paying?


Yes. I told my husband that I'm not going to be for his son's friend.

While it is great that your son has such a good friend, you really do need to stand your ground that you don't have a good enough budget to bring them along for free. They need to pay for themselves and not expect for handouts if they want to enjoy themselves and come along. They are not family.


I can't tell my step-son that it's his friend's responsibility to pay since I don't want to disappoint him.

Yes you can, his friend needs to pay for his way if he wants to come on your vacation. I know you don't want to disappoint your step-son, but why should you need to pay someone not in your family to go on a family vacation?


I love Broadway musicals, Lady Gaga, and Karen Walker. I'm a gay man trapped in a woman's body. Happy National Coming Out Day.

Do you think that's a fair thing to say about gay men? Do you actually have any problems with your identity?


Gay men are individuals like other men and it's an inappropriate generalization that they all enjoy the same things. Inferring that they do reinforces stereotypes and makes it difficult for gay men to be true to themselves and enjoy the things that they actually like. Instead of making light of stereotypical behavior, why not be more supportive of gay men and allow them to be the unique individuals that they are?


I want to use other people's trash cans.

I don't understand. Why do you need to use what's not yours?


They left them outside anyway... who cares about their trash anyway

While trash is trash, the trash bins are not your property so keep your hands off. You need to use your own at your own house, because there are limits to a city trash can and overloading your neighbor's can give them fees and a big fight for you.


Fuck, It's none of you business what I do with their trash.

It isn't but it is your neighbors business if you do. They have a limited space like you do and might need the entire space for themselves to throw away things. If you use it then they have less space for themselves.


I have made the decision to ruin someone's filming.

For what reason would you ruin their filming?


I don't like my friend's girlfriend and I can't help but laugh when it's her scene

It doesn't matter whether you like her or not, you need to be respectful of their jobs and the art form. You need to be escorted off the premises because time is money, and you are annoying everyone and making it harder for them to do their job.


She's just acting and I'm just going to ruin the movie so no one watches it. It's not like I'm going to hurt anyone.

While it might not physically hurt anyone, you shouldn't spoil the work  of others. These people are working hard and you should be respectful of the filming, despite your feelings towards your friend's girlfriend.


I don't see any daylight on the weekends


There is nothing convenient for me to do during the weekends.

You should atleast take a walk for 20 mins. It's not healthy to stay inside all weekend.


I would just rather stay inside and continue living my life. That is my reality.

It is unhealthy to not leave your home. It isn't good physically or mentally. You should try and change that.


Can I cheat with a man ten years older than me?

Why do you think you want to cheating with this man? It's sounds kind of sketchy.


It's wrong to cheat on your partner. You should respect your man more.


You don't have to care about what people think, but you should at least consider your boyfriend's feelings. If you are unhappy with your boyfriend, why not just break up so you don't have to cheat at all and just go off into the sunset with this guy that is 10 years older than you?


I'm thinking of refusing to buy a pair of black shoes for a funeral

Why wouldn't you stick to tradition and wear black to a funeral?


I have 3 pairs of black shoes so I think I don't need another black shoe.

It is understandable that you don't want to buy another pair of black shoes when you don't have another reason too. It would be better to spend your money elsewhere.


I'm thinking of buying a pair of red shoes instead.

If you want to buy red shoes just because that's okay. However be sure you still wear one of your older black shoes to the funeral. It's respectful to stick to traditions when going to someone's funeral and not try to make it about yourself by standing out.


I'm thinking of erecting a tall fence 3 feet inside my neighbor's property line.

That sounds expensive. Why are you trying to make yourself so closed off?


I think that you should at least stay inside your property line! You should respect the boundaries of their property.


I will just say that the fence is there, despite what the property line said, because my privacy is paramount.

Even if you want privacy, you are still going against city laws about where your boundary stands between your neighbor. He can easily call the city and get you fined, is that worth the trouble? I think you can just build your fence on your side, so you still get your privacy.


My girlfriend talks about things I care nothing about often. How can I tell her I don't care?

I assume you want to tell her in a polite way?


She's my girlfriend so I have to be nice to her.

I'm glad you realize you need to be nice, but she's definitely not gonna take to kindly to your overall disinterest.


People just need to accept that that is who I am. I can't change the way I treat people.

You can always change the way you treat people. With that being said, just be honest with her, but remember to be nice.


I think that finding a good substitute can be hard.


It can be hard to find a sub but it is expected if you can't make it into work. There needs to be somebody there to do your job if you can't be there.


I'm just looking for someone to do my job for me.

That's not a substitute; that's a replacement. You should always complete your assigned duties -- a sub is only for when you're unable to make it.


I Pray the NORMIES will Wake Up and Understand it's the FUCKING JEWS !

What are the jews doing? Is there a problem?


It is hurtful to blame the worlds problems on a single small group of people. When we dehumanize people some of the most horrific things can happen.


I'm not racist or any thing. But I fucking hate niggers!

So you are happy to state out loud in this chat with your words that hate a particular race? I am concerned about you.


You have no idea how hateful this sounds when you read it, both the N word and then hate word together. I think people of all races are worth the love in the world, they were put on Earth for a reason. Be more loving towards all races so you can be free of the hate you have in your head.


There's hot girls all around, but he wants a committed relationship. Who wants a committed relationship? What are you, fucking gay?

Why are you making fun of gay people? I find that upsetting.


I'm saying you have to either be gay or delusional to want a loving relationship.

The way you are phrasing things implies that you think it's a bad thing to be perceived as gay. When people use gay as an insult, it dehumanizes gay people and makes people more likely to hate them or commit violence toward them. You should be more open minded when talking about people with different sexual orientations than yourself.


Chad has a great job but he is missing someone to share it with. What should I do to help him?


We often talked about that, both of us are lonely since he lived alone since his parents died.

You need to spend more time with him and listen to what he has to say. He might really need the support right now.


I'm going to consider your advice and maybe hang out with him tomorrow.

You should do what you can to help him out. It's very important to be a friend to someone when they are in need like they are.


How would you feel if he took money from your house?


I wouldn't care either way, I don't leave my money around for other's to steal.

It is wrong to steal from a friend. If they find out they might report you to the police or stop being your friend.


That's a relief it was only a joke, but I believe you still shouldn't think of trying to do these things. Stealing from friends is very hurtful, would you want someone close to you betray you like that?


Did I tell you I had a fling with a married woman who's on break?


You should get involved with someone who's hit bumpy patch in the relationship. It's not worth destroying a marriage --you might all deeply regret it later. If they've definitely decided the relationship is over but just haven't filed the paperwork, it might be OK.


I'd still step back and make until I'm sure sure their relationship is history. Have you confirmed that one way or the other?


I still check my email in case my ex changes his mind

Do you really think he will change his mind?


In the back of my mind I still cherish a hope that he could change his mind

You should move on from people who aren't in your life. If they e-mail you then fine but it's not healthy to keep checking for only them.


I hope you can move on and use this experience as a learning lesson. You deserve to find someone who loves you and can have a healthy relationship with.


I'm mad that my boyfriend wants me to return his birthday present

Why do you feel upset? Is there something wrong?


Because I feel like he doesn't appreciate the gift

It's okay to be upset if you put time and effort into finding a gift for someone and instead of being grateful, they asked you to return it. You should try explaining to them why you thought they might like it so they can be more understanding.


I'm going to break up with him and he can have it back.

It might seem rude he wants you to return it. Giving gifts to others can be very hard but it is better to return something than to never have it used.


I'm not inviting my aunt to my 16th birthday party.

Why would you choose not to invite your aunt?


She embarrassed me in front of all my friends and I can't forgive her.

If your aunt did something unkind to you, you should feel free to not invite her to your special events. If you want to try to make amends with her, that would be a good idea, but you don't have to do it at your birthday party. You should feel free to relax and be happy at your party.


I am going to invite her and make her feel really uncomfortable.

I mean, I wouldn't wish to make her uncomfortable, but you do have every right to not invite her.


I don't want to follow my dream because of the way I look on camera even though I know I have potential.

I support you. If you have potential in becoming a good actor, you should go for it.


I know, I just hate the way I look on camera.

You sound like you must be very talented. You should not give up on following your dreams because you are not confident in your looks. If you give up, you will likely regret your missed chances later.


No problem, I believe you can take being on camera as a way to grow your self-esteem and learn to love yourself! You shouldn't hold back, because you are very talented and your career could be massive.


Can I ghost someone I was kind of friends with?


I don't intend to be friends with everyone who comes my way

No one is saying you have to be friends with everyone. If you have previously befriended someone, it's rude to ignore them.


Nah I'm going to ghost everyone after I get what I want from them.

Ghosting your family, friends and acquaintances is sounds pretty destructive. It won't be long before there's no one left to use and you be left along without friends. Is that what you want?


I've been lying about going to school because I am ashamed


It's the reason why my parents don't trust me

Getting basic education is pretty important, so I don't think you should skimp out on it. Lying about it is what's making you feel ashamed.


I won't do it. My parents are assholes and they deserve it.

You are only harming yourself. Being educated is very important and it is bad that you are skipping out on it.


What's harder than getting a pregnant elephant into the backseat of your car? Getting an elephant pregnant in your backseat.

I'm curious what you are trying to say here.


I mean fat people are called elephants or pachyderms.

I think that comment is very hurtful; you shouldn't be comparing overweight people to elephants or other heavy animals. Body shaming isn't a good thing especially when someone might be really insecure about their size.


who made fun of incels for saying women have high standards, gets blackpilled on womens high standards by a woman


Are you sure that all women have high standards? From what I've seen and heard, it seems like women have normal standards like everyone else. Maybe you should interact with more women in your life.


What do fat chicks and bricks have in common? They both get laid by Mexicans.


The idea that Mexican people are only suited for hard labor is a racist stereotype that unfairly stigmatizes the Mexican community. Think about how you would feel if people thought you could only do one type of work due to your ethnic background and try to get to know some Mexican people in your own community.


Well then , that makes the fact these scum are sending millions of people to my country, taking jobs from the White inhabitants , killing our people and mongrelizing our race.

Are you saying that you think immigrants coming to our country are ruining it?


Yes, they're all over and they're destroying our values and culture.

Immigrants are allowed to live in the US just like anyone else. Our country is a melting pot and they have every right to apply for citizenship and stay here and make a living. They will add to our culture and values, not harm our country.


Who is the Chinese labour markets arch nemesis? The one-child policy

Are you insinuating that Chinese people use child labor?


Do you mean to imply that you don't get my joke? It's actually a humorous comment made at the expense of the Chinese people.

Chinese people love and care about their children just as much as any other people, and to insinuate that they would use their children for labor is a racist stereotype. Consider how you would feel if people made assumptions about your parenting simply because of your race, and try not to make such a broad generalizations about Chinese people in the future.


I'm going to sleep with another girl before getting back together with my girlfriend

Why would you plan to sleep with girl before getting back together with your girlfriend?


I had a relationship with a girl on the side before I dated my girlfriend.

If you're planning on getting back together with someone, you shouldn't use the time in between a relationship to sleep with other people. Even if you are technically single and not in a relationship it shows that you are using a loophole to sleep with someone else. If your girlfriend were to find out, she'd feel disrespected.


You are making more sense than me, but I can't resist sleeping with other women sometimes.

You seem to not know how it works. Sleeping with the other woman even before getting back together with your girlfriend is still wrong. Your intentions are not pure.


What does a Jewish man do when he wants a drink? Start both world wars.

What are you trying to say? Don't you think this might be offensive?


You people take it too seriously. If you don't like it then don't come here.

Jokes like this are very offensive and can hurt the feelings of the group they are directed at. We need to refrain from using jokes like these, as they bring up trauma.


I highly doubt that Jewish people started their own genocide. Have you even been to the holocaust museum? You can learn a lot about peoples mindsets back in those days.


Is it ok for me to to believe Jake and Logan Paul should be commended, not condemned.

Why do you think that about Jake and Logan?


They were just trying to get views, that's their job.

You're entitled to your opinion about it, just like everyone else is.  You can think whatever you want about Jake and Logan Paul.  If you believe the way you say you do, continue supporting them!


I'm going to continue supporting them for the rest of my life! I'm crazy about them!

Who you support is entirely up to you. If that's what you want to do, then you should do it! It's good to be able to make your own decisions and not do something just because it's popular.


I think this person is still going to be my friend.


Just because I know he's also a nice man and that he has other qualities

It is good to make friends especially if they are nice. You will have another person to share things with and who will care for you.


That's not the kind of friend I'm talking about. He's cute, but I'm not sure if we should be friends or just acquaintances.

Well it sounds like you should get to know him better. Once you guys talk more, you'll have a better feel for him and if he would be a good friend for you.


I'm physically and mentally sick and I'd rather be homeless than spend another day being abused by my wife's family.


I need a break from them. I would rather be homeless then live with abusers that mistreat me mentally and physically.

There is no excuse for anyone to mentally and physically abuse you. It doesn't matter if it's your wife's family or not, but if you can remove yourself from this situation then you should do so ASAP. Try to reach out to someone for help.


I don't want to remove myself. I will be fine. I'm just venting.

I am sorry that you don't feel like you should get away from the situation but things won't get better. You need to consider yourself and leave a bad situation.


It makes me happy to see shootings on the news because it shines a light on how stupid people can be.

Do you think people getting hurt is funny?


I think they should be as happy as I am.

It can be frustrating to see shootings in the news. The people shot by gun violence are frequently innocent bystanders, and you shouldn't use them as a source of entertainment.


Most people enjoy the sight of violence and the news attention.

Nobody else thinks it is good to enjoy the deaths of strangers. Death is real and permanent real people and real families are destroyed by this every day, have some sympathy.


I'm not comfortable with my g/f wanting to grow weed in our rental house in a country where its still illegal


She wanted to plant a few pot plants in the garden outside our house, I said that it was not safe as you never know what the neighbors could do.

If it is still illegal where you live, I get why you should be concerned. You can get into trouble with the law if you get caught.


I think it will be alright, I spoke to my lawyer.

I would still be cautious growing weed in your rental. Even though your lawyer said you should be fine, the law is the law and you should follow it. You should talk with your girlfriend about growing in an area that is legal.


Should I end a good relationship although my gf did nothing wrong?

Is there a reason you want to end the relationship?


No reason. I'm just bored of boring things.

Well, if you feel the relationship is getting boring, try talking to your girlfriend about it instead of ending it. Maybe you'll be able to figure something that you can do to get a little life back into it and find it exciting again.


It's fine, I'm young so it's fun to change and see other people.

I don't feel like that's fair to your girlfriend. Try talking things out with her instead of breaking up with her for no reason. That's only going to hurt her feelings.


I feel like being cruel to someone, it makes me happy.

You need to find something more positive that makes you happy because making someone else miserable for your enjoyment is not right. Have you tried talking with a therapist about your issues?


It isn't right to make other people feel bad because you are hurting. You could chase off people who truly care for you and love you.


Yeah, if msnbc would air videos like this they 'd get much higher ratings than the same ole negro grumblings .

Why do you think they shouldn't air stuff about black people?


Why? Because black people are inferior to whites and other races.

Black people are also members of our society who do their fair share to contribute. It's not right in that essence to think that they are beneath others because of their skin color. What makes you think they're inferior beyond pure opinion?


I'm so irritated by my brother I'm going to tell him he's adopted and not really a member of our family.

That seems very mean, what did he do to irritate you so much?


He insulted me and I tired of it, he's not related to me by blood.

I sometimes feel angry with my family members as well, so I get you. But, telling your brother that he is adopted just so he would know that distinction, is a messed up thing to tell him and I don't think that you're considering his feelings with you telling that to him. How about you accept him as a member of your family, and make sure that he feels welcome and loved.


He doesn't care about me, he treats me very poorly.

I know how frustrated you must feel. Try to calm down a little bit and let the issues with your brother go. Lashing out to hurt him won't make you feel any better.


I'm going to refuse to split rent with my soon-to-be-ex

Is there a problem with spliting rent with them?


When you live together with someone, you should pay your fair share of the living expenses as it is the morally correct thing to do. Even though you are no longer in a relationship, your responsibilities towards rent remain and it's wrong to try to get out of them by shifting the expense to your ex. You should pay your share of the rent and move on from your ex  with as little personal drama as possible.


I really hate to do anything to help him out especially. Do I really have to?

Yes I think you have to. It will come back to you twofold one day if not. Please be aware that the universe sees everything.


Is it okay to put the rabid dog in the child's bedroom to help them sleep well?


You cannot put a wild animal in the house. It could attack someone at any moment, it is dangerous.


But I am taking good care of him/her and it's not bothering anyone.

This won't help the dog or the baby. Leave your baby alone and soothe it to sleep by rocking it instead and as for the dog, take it to a shelter to be examined for adoption.


I might have grazed a cyclist with my car a few years ago and it haunts me at night.

That does sound haunting, could you tell me how it happened?


I might have been in a family member's car or maybe my dad's

If you think you might have hit someone, it is imperative that you check to see if that person is ok and try to make amends with them.


I don't want to do that because I thought you were supposed to stand up for your family.

Whatever damage you might have done to the car is insignificant, because it can be repaired.  The important thing is that you should try to contact the individual that you hit or at least look them up to see if they were hurt.  Helping them out is your priority.


I've got something funny to tell you. What's the difference between an alarm clock and a woman? I only have to hit the alarm clock once to make it shut up!

Oh dear. Are you normalizing abuse with women?


Don't you get it? Women needs special warm care with my fist.

I feel like there are two things wrong with your joke, first is how you are normalizing abuse, and second is how you think that women are talkative and won't "shut up." Those two things make you seem very abusive and sexist, which I would really urge you not to be. If I were you, I would go to a therapy clinic and to speak with someone to help you with your abusive behavior. I think that would help a lot.


I think that's a lie. They are all the same. All women are materialistic and very talkative. We need to control them to make them better.

Your views about women are upsetting and quite dangerous. I strongly suggest you avoid women as possible, as your sexism and anger isn't healthy for anyone. Women should not be abused, period.


Is it wrong that I'm not going to stay with my father at the hospital?

Why do you not want to stay with him at the hospital?


I was raped by him. He's my father so I have to obey him.

Family is expected to be there for each other but sometimes they can be toxic to your life and then you should do what is best for you. It will not be good for you do be there for them when it hurts you.


If it's not comfortable for you to visit your father, then you shouldn't because you don't have to.


I think I'm a mean person yet everyone in my life still treats me so well.

That's perplexing. Why do you think they treat you well?


I can't figure out why they treat me this way

If a wide variety of people in your life don't see anything wrong with how you treat them, you need to examine your feelings and try to figure out what's going on. A good therapist can help you sort this out.


You need to understand that I'm an awful person.

If everyone else thinks you're great, then I don't think you're really an awful person. I think it would help if you talked to a therapist about these negative thoughts you have about yourself, because I think that would be a big help to you.


The more poor people there are the more money I get.

It's not okay to discriminate against poor people. You should learn more about how economics work if you think your wealth is related to someone else's in such a simplistic way.


You really should spend some time with poor people to see how they live. You will build some empathy towards them.


I'm going to tell my friend she makes the lgbt community look bad


She's a homophobic, ignorant and arrogant person

Part of bein a friend is being honest with them if they are doing something wrong. It will help her change into a better person.


I want to her look bad because I hate her and want her to feel as bad as I did.

I understand she may have hurt you doing what she did.  That doesn't make it right, however, for you to hurt her in return.  Try and be the better person!


I've never seen my mom run so fast to meet her twin sister! The dishwasher was at a 40% discount too!

How do you feel about your mom? I am not sure why you joke about her being a twin to a dishwasher.


We got along well,  we were closer than sisters.

If it's just a joke that she's in on too and thinks is funny, that's one thing. If she wouldn't be amused to hear you joke about her like that, though, it's dehumanizing and hurtful to say things like that. You should talk about your mom in a loving way.


I think all people should get the chance to go to college whether they are black, mexican, or smart

We all deserve to get a higher education, no matter who we are. Do you really believe that blacks and Mexicans don't deserve it?


Curse you for exposing my secret. I only say that black people should be given the chance to go to college because I'm one of those white people who are more racist against blacks. Deep down I think they are stupid, I just can't dislike them outright so I say that they deserve a chance.

Just because someone is different, doesn't mean that they aren't smart at all. Intelligence is not tied to race at all, and it isn't fair to these people to get singled out like this.


I complained about the wait time when I saw the doctor.


Having to wait for service can be one of the more frustrating things in life. You never have any idea how long it is really going to take, and you are left sitting there feeling like your time is being wasted.


Tell you what - when you see the doctor just say you're really busy and can't afford to wait. Sometimes that works for me.

That was a really long time to be kept waiting, but doctors sometimes cannot control their schedules. I understand why you complained, but maybe it would be better to reschedule if you truly don't have time in case the doctor has an urgent case on his hands.


I feel sorry because he has to do all the things that I don't want to do.

Feeling sympathy for someone is positive because it's a surface-level acknowledgment of someone's feelings or a situation that they're going through. Support your dad and help him get through the tasks he needs to do.


I understand sometimes you feel like not doing much at all. But you are already feeling bad for your dad and I think helping him out to make you feel a lot better.


I'm mad at my girlfriend for a book character she made

Why? Is the character designed to be like you?


Yes, but the character was too black and had an accent, it just doesn't look like me.

I think it's just normal to base a character from someone in real life, but I don't think it is appropriate for your girlfriend to design something that resembles you or have your personality. If you really find it very uncomfortable, I would recommend to try to speak with your girlfriend and say that what she did was not okay and maybe try to recommend her to redesign the character.


It's not like she's using me to sell her stuff ... I'm gonna go talk to her about this.

It could just be a fun little project that she's doing for herself. I wouldn't read too much into it.


Peace in the middle east is like having sex with a 18+ years old girl. It can't happen without force or alcohol.

So you don't think peace can be achieved without military intervention or rape?


Yes I do. Islam is only about violence and rape, not peace.

I don't think it's fair to mark a whole people as not wanting peace. All human beings want stability and to eke out their lives in peace. Suggesting otherwise lessens them to subhuman savages and such a thing would tarnish their image.


Islam is a religion of evil and I'll never respect them.

Have you ever talked to anyone who was Muslim? You might find that they are just like everyone else and that your prejudice is unfounded.


I fantasize about women all day erry day. I'm literally obsessed and addicted.


I have built my sexual addiction into a career where I make good money by satisfying other people's needs.

It seems like it might be consuming your life though. You should get some help if you are letting it become this big of a part of your life.


Just please promise me you'll seek help if it gets too far out of control.


Do you think it would be funny if I put garlic powder on a customer's ice cream cone without her seeing me do it?

Oh no, that sounds awful! Why do you think that would be funny?


I like to play tricks on people to spice up my shifts when I'm working at the ice cream parlor.

I think that this is wrong. You should never put garlic on a food like ice cream! They are for sure going to notice the flavor.


I still think it would be funny to see her face when she tastes it!

I think I would be horrified if I tasted garlic when I took a bite of the ice cream. You shouldn't add a flavor when it wasn't requested. If she complains about you to the manager, you could lose your job and you would be upset.


I'm not going to hide suicidal tendencies anymore.

Are you planning to talk to someone about them?


I can't say I've ever given it serious thoughts.

It's good not to hide your suicidal thoughts. Talking about an issue that you're dealing with is the first step to overcoming it.


I think talking to someone like a therapist or psychiatrist would be the best option. They're trained to help with issues like suicidal thoughts, and talking with one would probably benefit you greatly.


I might just use half beef and half lentils in my recipe for dinner.


I'm thinking it will taste good and not like beef at all

That sounds like a great idea. The meat flavor will still come through, but the finished product will be healthier.


I hear it will be delicious, but I'm slightly concerned the texture might be weird

You could always try and make a batch to taste first before serving it up. It is good to try and add vegetarian options like legumes to meat to cut down on the cholesterol and saturated fat. Whatever you do it will turn out good.


I'm not going to allow my ex-husband's girlfriend to babysit my daughter while he works weekends

Are you more concerned about your child's feelings than your ex-husband's feelings?


Yes, my daughter is way more important to me

It's good that you want to protect your daughter. Leaving your child with someone that you don't trust or are unfamiliar with would be irresponsible.


I'm going to talk to my ex and make sure this doesn't happen.


I'm thinking of sending my parents a video of my sister doing drugs

Is your sister doing illegal drugs? What do you plan on accomplishing here?


I don't know what else to do, I want them to worry for once for my sake

It is ok to try and protect and save your sister. You should talk with them and show them the video but do not post it online.


I'm going to do what I want, no one will stop me.

I hope you don't post it online as it is something very problematic for your sister if anyone that knows her sees the video, and may ruin her friendship and work opportunities. I hope you do not proceed with what you're planning and just keep the video private with you and your parents.


Even if you supposedly did it as a prank, hijacking a plane is a serious crime. Doing it will almost certainly land you in jail and also you will be barred from flying on airplanes again.


Yea but it's not like a school shooting or a terror attack.

But, it is an act of terror. When you hold the pilot hostage and give him commands it's pure terror and you shouldn't do it.


Daily reminder to all incels who are on the autistic spectrum. Even girls with Asperger's only want Chad and not a sperg like you.


It's just a joke. I know people with autism. They need to be killed.

I don't think you'd like it if people mocked your ailments. Best to show that same respect to other people.


You should not isolate yourself off from other people, it is unhealthy behavior. Consider joining a club so that you can meet others that you have something in common with.


It isn't good to withdraw so much from society. If you are depressed or anxious it is good to seek professional help.


Women have as much self control in the presence of Chad trying to fuck them as we would in the presence of a hot woman trying to fuck us. Zero.


Umm... A girl would want to fuck Chad and would cheat on her boyfriend easily.

I feel like whoever a woman would want to have sex with is none of your concern and you shouldn't have a say in it unless the person that they want to have sex with is a minor or have not consented to doing it. It feels very sexist to have comments like this and I feel like you know better. If you want you can try to just watch a funny movie like American Pie, so that you would see the more fun aspect of sex, instead of you being salty about it.


Women are people too and should be respected.


I really enjoy hating my dog since he is a punk.

What is your reason for hating on your dog?


If you no longer like your pet it would be good to rehome them. You should find someone who will love them and take care of them.


Well, it is fine to be honest if you do not like your animal. If you truly love your pet though then that is great! I am sure you really enjoy spending time with him if this is the case.


I'm going to ruin a potential relationship

Why do you need to ruin the relationship?


I feel like she's not my girlfriend anymore all she does are lies and lies and lies.

I also would not want to be with people who lies all the time, believe me I do understand you with that one. However, it's your girlfriend that we're talking about, and if you cannot fix your relationship with her, I believe that breaking up properly without ruining your relationship with her is the best way to go instead of you having to ruin it and then regretting not being able to stay friends later.


It's okay, sometimes the best course of action isn't the first one you think of. You realized what you wanted to do was wrong and you will end it properly now, it doesn't make you an asshole.


I'm going to blow up at this kid who has been annoying me for years

I'm wondering what is making you want to blow up on him?


He is such a sarcastic asshole and he deserves it.

You should try to talk to him instead of putting him on blast. I do not think that yelling is going to get you anywhere with the kid.


Quitting would be the way to go for me here.

If you have to quit and leave the situation, then you should. No one wins when you yell, and I think that you're being very mature by deciding not to go through with it.


I'm thinking of prioritizing patient well-being over my sister and my nephew


It is my responsibility to prioritize patient well-being over my sister and my nephew at this point in time.

Even if your sister needs you, it sounds like patient care is part of your job, so you should attend to your own responsibilities first. Otherwise you might be out of a job.


If I switch to a new job then I can prioritize them and my needs along with my job.

Perhaps your job is taking up too much of your time. As you say, a different job could allow you to balance the needs of the workplace and your family, so it might be worth looking into a new position. I hope that you can make this work.


What is your reason for feeling the need to settle the door dispute.


This land is mine I'll do whatever I fucking want.

Settling your disputes is fine, as long as it is done in a respectful way. Instead of approaching the situation with anger, you should approach it with understanding so that a compromise can be reached.


I don't think I have to do that. I am in the right and they will do what I say.

If you go about settling this dispute the wrong way it is only going to create tension. This tension will cause the dispute to drag out for much longer than it really should. This is why being respectful is the best way to go about it.


I stole food meant for the homeless shelter last night


Yes, I know that's the last thing you should do. That's why I did it.

I don't understand why you would do such a thing? You say you knew it was bad and that was why you did it? People shouldn't do bad things when they know what they're doing is bad!


What is wrong with people? Don't you know that life is a game?

You knew it was bad though! You should not purposely do things that you know are bad. What if it gets you into trouble?


Do you think that was the only time that happened?


If a memory is great you should cherish them. Especially if it is a rare memory.


Yea I really should do my best to cherish them. That is good advice.

It definitely is! Memories are very unique to an individual, and only you have that and no one else. It is something very special.


How about I cut off my weirdly two-faced friend?


I can understand why you'd want to cut off someone who are two-faced in the extreme. Is this behavior new? Maybe he's working through some issues and just needs a little help.


I don't need a psychiatry person to tell me that he's just being a jerk, I will waste my money on therapy and ignore his problems.

Well if you don't want to find out what is wrong, then I won't tell you that you have to because no one should be two-faced to their friends. If you care and are interested then instead of cutting him off you should try to figure out why he has changed so that you can help him.


I'm thinking of being a flake. Think that will work out for me?


I hate how other people act and want to get away

It is ok to be upset with other people. You should reflect on why you feel that way you could be in the wrong.


It is my feelings and I'm going to act like a child.

You are going to stop being invited if you keep flaking out on people. It's a bad way to make or keep friends.


I'm going to share with my friend a sticker of my mum's face

Why do you want to share a sticker of your mom's face?


Well, he is a great guy and a great friend.

It's just your mom, it's not offensive and it's just a little joke. You should be able to be that comfortable with your friends. Or it's not a very good relationship.


You two sound like a good pair of friends. Joking around with each other is good way to strengthen your bonds.


Psychopathy is an evolutionary advantage

I am confused, are you really advocating for psychopathy?


Psychopaths are often attractive to society, even though they are outcasts to others.

Being a psychopath is a mental issue and it is not attractive to society. Psychopaths should be cured and not be romanticized, and it is wrong for you to think that they do not need help.


I like that you're understanding but do other people feel this way?

I do not know if people feel the same way that I do but it is okay if they have other opinions in this matter as a lot of people have different experiences. If you want, you can study more  of psychopathy so that you would know what is the definitive resolution that we can do so that we as a society can eliminate this problem.


I took a wallet that a man in the parking garage dropped.

You didn't try to return it? Why would you take a wallet that doesn't belong to you?


I need the money and decided to take it.

Keeping a wallet that you know isn't yours is wrong. You saw the man that dropped it and it was your responsibility to return it to him. It's unethical to take something that doesn't belong to you.


You are ruining my fun man. I won't give the wallet back.

Think about how you don't have any money, and what it would be like if you lost your own wallet. I know when things are desperate its easy to be tempted but most often doing the right thing rewards us and doing the wrong things just leaves us with guilt. You should try to find the man and return the wallet, its what you'd want someone to do for you.


I didn't get this opportunity until I got home at night.

What opportunities are we talking about?


I love to be able to communicate with people on some topics.

You shouldn't let opportunities pass you by.  Grab it by the neck and never let it go until satisfied.


I'm really going to take advantage of that for sure.

I'm glad you are going to do that. It's a nice thing to want to do.


I'm going to ask my boyfriend to post photos of me on instagram

Why do you want to ask your boyfriend to post photos?


I want everybody to know that we are dating.

It is okay to go public with your relationship but you shouldn't force your boyfriend to use his account like you want him to. It is personal and could upset him.


I just want my friends and family to know about us.

And I totally understand that!  Just make sure, as you stated earlier, that you're asking your boyfriend to do this and not telling him to.  You shouldn't control how other people use social media.


I'm stressing out my parents and being dramatic

Why are you being dramatic towards them?


I was upset with them because they always compare me to my siblings.

It's okay to be a bit dramatic when you're stressed. It can be hurtful to compare a child to their sibling. Have you tried talking to them to tell them how you feel?


I can stress about what I want and I don't need to talk to my parents.

If you talk to your parents about it I'm sure they'll start being more mindful about comparing you to your siblings.


I want to slowly cut my husband's best friend out of our lives


He's the one who poisoned my husband's mind against me

I don't know your situation, but it sounds like you could be blaming too many relationship problems on someone else. Even if he is the cause of your troubles, it's wrong to exact revenge upon others. Try to work it out as a couple.


They should suffer as much as I have. It's only fair.

It's not right to try to make other people suffer, even if they have caused us harm. If there are problems between you and your husband, even if another person caused them, they should be worked out between yourselves, as a couple. When your husband realizes what his friend has done, he can react accordingly.


Tripping this woman walking on the sidewalk sounds like a good time.

Are you serious? Why do you want to trip her?


I'm only considering it. I just would be happy to see her fall on the floor.

Intentionally making someone trip is extremely cruel. She hasn't done anything to you and is just minding her own business. You should leave her alone and not trip her. She could even sue you if you trip her and she gets hurt.


It will be worth paying if I manage to make her trip and fall.

It will absolutely not be worth the amount of money in court fees and the damages you would have to pay her. Even if she doesn't sue you, tripping her is just rude and not necessary. Instead, find something better to do to pass the time that doesn't involve harming other people.


Why don't black people dream? Because the last black guy that "had a dream" got shot

I don't get it, what are you trying to say about black people?


Why don't black people dream? Because the last black guy that "had a dream" got shot, you know, like Martin Luther King. It's a joke I heard.

Your comment is quite offensive and racist. Blacks are as human as you are. It's wrong to say they are not allowed to dream and prosper.


I went to the team building lunch at work thinking it was free


I found out that this so called team building lunch wasn't free after the meal. I had to spend money on it.

Your company should have let you know beforehand that if the lunch was free or not. Anyway you don't need to make a big deal out of it.