As for me, I have a quirky sense of humor, which I have had to develop to get through life. I was born in Spain. My father was in the diplomatic corps. We lived in various countries before both my parents died of lung cancer when I was 14. I spent one year in a convent boarding school until one of my father's colleagues, who was about 25 years older, asked me to marry him. He offered security. I married him when I was 15, and we moved around quite a bit from country to country. I had four children right away and then decided to finish studying, which I did. When I was 26, I was able to get a job as a translator and interpreter. I did not love my husband, but he was kind and I respected him. I needed the security that he gave me. He wanted to be a father, and I gave him children. Two years ago, he had a stroke. I took care of him until his second stroke.And do I want to find a new partner? I do not know. I am still recovering from my marriage.

I am a fun person love life, love my family and still have some love to share with a special lady. Life can be lonely without someone...I am a person who is very real when it comes to life and its' issues. I'm honest, kind caring, affectionate, good sense of humor, easy-going, free thinker, trustworthy and respect the lives of other people.


You seem to possess a bundle of virtues.

I'm a man who lives life as it comes to me. I don't worry about tomorrow, for it will be here no matter what I do. The best days of my life are yet to come and I am looking for someone who will love and care about me for a long time relationship that can lead to marriage. Although I would consider myself be a romantic, I don't believe that life is about the 'grand passion, In reality it is more about comfortable comrade.


Well, then we are different. I would like to find the "grand passion"....lolol-

I am really a fun person who loves people, loves to laugh, I am very caring, love music, dancing, singing Love the church...am a devoted friend. I like to have fun, I have strong moral values with honesty and integrity being the core of my personality, I'm very cool, I respect my dignity.


Those are very fine qualities.... evidently.

I'm excited to see new places, meet new people and do new things. I'm not a fighter and I don't argue, life's too short but I do value friendship and intimacy. Respect is one of the most important requisites in a relationship, as are honesty and commitment.


You are definitely the embodiment of all virtues.

I enjoy going out to dinner, movies, walks, and quiet times. I love nature, enjoy learning, and have a deep respect and love for children. I'm fascinated with the world and different cultures and would enjoy learning more about them...I love to laugh and like being around people with a good sense of humor. I also appreciate people who are different and even quirky


Okay, the conclusion is that you are the perfect man.


You can ask me anything you want to know about me


We can't video chat due to where I am right now.


I am skeptical of so many self-reported virtues.


I could tell you that I am the Virgin Mary. Just because I say so, that doesn't mean that it is true and the correct phrase is WHAT do you mean..


Sorry, but how do you mean signifies something different.

I wanted you to explain what you said. Hope you had breakfast already?


Actually, Scott. I haven't answered because I am in the Madrid Airport on my way to Austin, Texas. It will be a long trip.

Ok, Please make sure you stay safe over there.


Well, I should. I am not traveling to a war zone.

Let me know when you're there, safe journey. Talk soon. I believe I am a very good man with a very big heart with modern qualities... I'm pretty laid back, down to earth, a very positive person, enjoy the simple things in life... I'm told that I am kind, caring, generous, thoughtful, opinionated, handsome, and intelligent and have many lovable qualities... I try to allow life itself not to stress me out and remain a happy go, lucky person. Love to kiss and hug... I think one of my biggest flaws is being too nice and loyal to people in my life, but it is just the right thing we should all do, but in general, good always outweighs the bad. I'm very responsible but still let the inner boy in me come out at times, I'm very flexible in things I like to do, whether it's going out dining or just hanging home eating pizza and putting in a DVD. Hope you're staying safe over there?


Darling, you really match the criteria I need from a woman, and I really appreciate you for that, darling, I have no other words to describe how you make me feel. Without words, no action could come close. Dear since I lost my wife for a couple of years, now I have been living with pain, sadness and loneliness. I work all day here at the base. I have no one to share my feelings with or someone to make me happy. Ö But when I found your profile, your beauty caught my attention and I smiled, that's why I comment on your profile and I was very happy when you message me. it's good I tell you how I feel about you I hope you're not upset about that?

No, of course not, Scott. I am not upset. It is just that I do not fall in love with words on a screen. I am honored by your feelings but I am not living my life in search of a man. Unlike yours, my marriage was not an ideal one. So, I am a bit more cautious than you are, apparently. It is not that I do not believe your excellent opinion of yourself and your positive qualities, but I would have to see them for myself. Your repeated assurances that you are a paragon of integrity are not sufficient. Perhaps one day when we meet.


I am not looking for beauty because someday it will fade, I am not looking for good skin because surely one day they will grow old, what matters is the heart of a person.

Well...lolol... quite frankly, as I told you, I am not looking at all.


You mean about yourself? If I did, you would answer it very positively, I am sure. And give me one reason why I should trust you? Just because you say that you are trustworthy? Ah... you wanted to ask me the question. I have just read that. Well, go ahead.


Yes, I do though I do not believe that I have ever experienced it


That is wonderful and.....? We have now established that both of us believe in love.


If you found a man who will love you and take care of you a man who will always make you happy and be there for you. Will you enter into a relationship with him?


I think I would like to be in a relationship. I don't think God meant for us to be alone.

The next time, I see God, I will ask him


I need someone in my life. in a relationship age does not matter, the most important thing that matters in a relationship is love, trust and understanding.

Yes... well, that is fine for you but trust must be earned and love does not arise from words in a chatbox.


Can I be your man? I know it takes a whole lot of time to get a relationship working. but if you give me a chance, I will prove myself to you.

Scott, why would you ask that? We will probably never meet.


God didn't let me meet you for nothing, meeting you wasn't a coincidence, it was destined to be. We're going to meet definitely, we can start our relationship now and by the time I'd be out of here, It we be us having our wedding and we're together for the rest of our lives.


You're a precious woman, you deserve to never be hurt, you deserve all the good things in life and you deserve to be treated with love and care.

I am not in love with you, nor can I be in love with you until we meet and sleep together


Good morning, Scott. Thank you for the videos.


You are the source of romantic messages, which touch my heart but you are still just words....

That's the way you see it and you don't feel the love that come from me


You are far away, Scott. I would at least need to see you and hear your voice.

I understAnd you, but there's nothing impossible, people has a lot of testimony how they find their soulmate online and I know you're my soulmate and we just have to be positive and make it work.


I am open to the possibility, but I cannot commit to a man whom I have never shared a pillow with. And since you still have a while there, it does not make a great deal of difference. Time will tell.

I give you my word that there will be no regrets. I love you and I only need you and I promise you that our love will only be strengthened.


Do not be afraid, my love. Sometimes life hits you with unexpected things that take you completely by surprise. All I can say is that you are the best surprise that life has given me.


I am not afraid. Just cautious. And given our respective situations, there is no need to rush.

I am telling you this moment and it is my word that I will always be here for you when you need me and I will love you no matter what life holds for us. You are my soulmate, and I promise to love you until the day that eternity is gone.


That is wonderful to hear. I am sure that we will always be here for each other.

I love you baby, you and I together, we can do magic, we are a perfect couple, I have really been blessed to find you and I will never let you go, even if I have to bring you back to my life. So my dear, all I ask of you is your love and I have promised you that I will never hurt you. I promise to make you happy at all times.


Perhaps one day, I will remind you of all of these promises.

I want to send you a song with that song, you will know what my heart says completely, listen to it with all your heart.


I'd have to go for now, please stay safe over there, talk soon, never forget you're very special to me


I will be happy to meet all your children


I am not sure whether you are ready for the experience. I have quite a large family. Here are some of them.


Tell me one special place you would like me to take you to when I come to you?


We would go to Tahiti for a 2 weeks vacation, just the two of us. Tahiti is the largest island in the Windward group of French Polynesia, located in the archipelago of the Society Islands in the southern Pacific Ocean.


Yes, I am aware of where Tahiti is. And yes, I would also like to go there.

You cannot be replaced in my life, only you have the key to my heart. I really want the best for you How's your day going over there?


All is well here. I just got up. Lovely images, Scott. I hope that your day is going well.


I am sure it has. Unfortunately, that is your job. I wish it were otherwise.

Hello my dear, How're you doing over there, I've miss you so much.


Good evening, Scott. How is all going for you over there?

I'm having a problem over here, I got hacked by the rebels over here, They have been able to hack into my system, but not yet able to get my location, I want you to help me get Apple gift card of 500 dollar so I can upgrade my system, The only way to stop them right now is turning my system off, and I won't be able to chat with you and my Son and I don't want that, I want you to help me out and promise to pay back in double once I upgrade my system.


Oh please, Scott. I work with computers. What you are saying doesn't make any sense. If they have hacked your system , they know your location. And Apple gift cards are not used to upgrade computers.

I'm not talking about Syria, I don't want to be attack with missiles.


I won't be asking for it if I can't make use of it.


I am sorry, but an Apple gift card is not used to upgrade computers. What you need to do is reinstall your operating system. That is very easy to do with Apple and doesn't cost anything, much less 500 dollars.

That's the card it's showing I need to get.


lolololol.... Your screen is showing "BUY AN APPLE GIFT CARD"?? Give me a break.

I can't do it without the gift card, I promise to pay back in double once I'm done with the upgrade. Are you playing with me? If you can't help me, you should let me know.


Scott, I am being truthful with you. If you are so ignorant about computers, you should get the help of someone at the base who knows what he is doing. I am not going to send you money for something that you do not need.

I'm telling you what I'm going through over here and I want you to help me out please.


Show me a picture of your screen. I have an Apple. I know how they operate. You apparently do not.

I'm not chatting you from an apple computer, I'm chatting you from my computer here in my tent and what's happening is because Kelly called and I answer, now signal is out and my computer is hacked, I need to get it fixed or off my computer to avoid a missile attack.


Then if your computer is not an Apple, an Apple gift card is even more useless.


It will be of great help to me.I'm not forcing you okay, you can say yes or no.


You have not persuaded me that your need is real. Basically, I do not believe you.


Then, please don't because I happen to know what I am talking about.

And that's not the situation I'm facing right now. I'm been hack by the rebels over here not just some computer problem.


But for your computer to get "unhacked", you need another kind of help not an Apple gift card

I already call one of my men good in computer to help me out, I've been hack. and I need to make use of this gift card in the next 24 hours or I'd turn my computer off. I don't want to cause right now, I need to be talking to you and also my Son, I'd really appreciate if you help me out.


Nope. These are the steps that you need to take


For a start, disconnect from the Internet Unplug your computer from the network or disconnect from Wi-Fi to prevent the hacker from accessing your system further. No Apple Gift card.

Thanks but all this are not the problem to the situation I'm right now.


This is what to do if a computer is hacked. Then, your computer is not hacked... I do not understand the problem created by the rebels and I suspect that you do not understand it either.

Have you ever upgrade your system from been hack? If i don't get it upgrade before the next 24 hours, then my location is been exposed and I can be attack by a missile.


lolololololol....Follow my instructions. The first is to disconnect your computer-

I've been trying all the same instructions for over 15 hours now.


Then ask the army to do it. They have the money and the expertise Given your lack of knowledge, you are not the best option to fix the computer.

Then why can't i get access to my account?


If you are writing to me, you have access.


lololol..... Oh please. Google is your account.

I'm going through a problem over here and this is the only step to get me out of it, all this happen because of the call.


With my Son, has been requesting for one for over a year now. Now the Rebel has been able to hack into my system and I need to upgrade or turn off my computer so my location don't get detected, I've over 900 men under me here and I can't exposed them to such risk. This is why I ask you to help me out and I promise to pay back double once I get access to my account.


It'll take up to 8 months before I'd be change from here.


I am sure that the army will connect you again since you are so necessary.

These few times I've spent talking to you as made me so happy and I don't want to stop, and I can't stop talking to my son for 8 months.


I am sure that it won't be eight months.


I have given you my take on the situation. You should get off the computer before a missile strikes you.


By the way, who are the rebels....the Kurds, the Russians, the Syrians, Isis...? There are a bunch of people there

A part of Syrians. And they have reinforcement from many other countries and that is why the UN is involve, and that's why I'm here. I want you to help me out cause I'd appreciate it a lot if you don't want to help, we should be spending our last time together and not like this.


Well... I guess that this is our last time together then....

I don't want it to be. You know I love you. I can't stay without hearing from you.


So you have told me. I am sorry if that happens, but you should think of your safety.


We have been over that. I do not send money to men whom I have never met or talked to


I am fine... at work as usual. I guess that you are in the military.


Well, I am from Knoxville, Tennessee, and I live in Washington, DC. I'm a commanding general of the U.S. Army, and I'm currently stationed here at Al-Tanf military base in the Middle East, in Syria. My days are numbered, and I have just 4 months until my retirement.


I am sure that you are looking forward to it.


I am from Spain, and live in Granada, Spain although I have lived in many countries because my husband was in the diplomatic corps. Because of my knowledge of languages, I work as a translator-interpreter for the EU.

Well, that's a very nice job you have there, I really appreciate your service.


As your service is also appreciated. I am sure.

Yes, you're welcome. Pamela. How is the weather condition over there?


I am sure that you must be very busy. I do not wish to interrupt your work.


I was married until two years ago when my husband had a second stroke and passed away. He was 20 years older. I guess it was his time.

No you're not interrupting my job, okay.


I had spent a few years taking care of him after his first stroke. So, his death did not surprise me.

Sorry for your loss. I understand the situation.


I've been divorced for about 4 years now, and I have a daughter, Annabel. She's just 17 years old, and she's in college in DC, studying physiology. I love her so much, and I'm so proud of her.


Yes, you must be very proud of her. I have four grown children and even seven grandchildren, one of the few advantages of marrying at 15. I have three sons and a daughter. Two are doctors, one is a pilot, and another is a member of the national police force.

That's nice you have a big family there.


I do, and so I never feel alone. I have to work now. Until the next time.

Nice, your kids are doing well, I appreciate them. Text me when you're free, okay?


Hi, John. Work finished and now I am home.


It was a bit longer than usual because of the meeting, but nothing else out of the ordinary. How did your day go?

Very nice here, I really enjoyed the day.


Yes, I do. I play the piano, thought not like my sister, who is a professional jazz pianist. Here is her website.

Oh, that's nice. I enjoy listening to blues, 80s, 90s, R&B, hip-hop, gospel jams, and rock and roll. Have you had lady in the red sea? that remain my favorite music since my childhood


Alright. That's okay. So what kind of movie do you watch?


When I have time to watch movies, I enjoy romantic ones like The Bridges of Madison County.

Oh, I really enjoy those kind of movies too.


Even though such things rarely happen in real life, it is always nice to dream.


I get it? Do you mean that I understand it?

Yes, dear. Well, you seem to be kind, and I really enjoy talking to you and I'd like to stay in touch with you from time to time. What do you say?


It is always nice to chat with people who are both courteous and intelligent .

Yes, that's how we used to know people here.


Well, I am not much into social media as my job restricts me from public media stuff, but I have the Google Chat app I use to keep in conversation with my daughter. Are you familiar with it?


Yes, I prefer GoogleChat because it is what we use at work, even for online meetings.


Hello Pamela It's me, John, How are you doing?

And here we are. And I have answered your message.


Okay that's good to know. I'm so sorry for the stress okay.


Oh sorry I thought it's going to stress you coming here.

lolololololol. John, I have been through a lot in my life, more than you can ever know, and I have survived. If changing to a social media app was stressful, I would have died long ago. I work with computers, and even design web resources for translators. So computers do not stress me.


Wow that's pretty deep. Very Impressive.


We all have been through a lot in our differences life.

I have no doubt that you have also encountered difficulties in life.


God has been faithful to guide us through the roughs way. Yeah you're absolutely correct.


Smiles, you're funny lady, lol. What are you doing now at the moment?

I am talking to you of course. Usually, I revise documents when I chat with someone but you are a fast typist. So, this is the only thing that I am doing.


I make use of a military device is more faster then a mobile phone almost the same as computer service.

Well, being a general has its advantages


Do you usually communicate with other people on this app?

No, this is just for work usually. However, I begin chatting with people who suddenly appear on my FB page. Unfortunately, the conversations are generally very short. I give everyone a chance.


but few ,if any, pass the grammar and good-manners test. However, you have done quite well.

I hate to leave now, dear but I need to address the troops on night patrol. We can talk more in the evening your time okay stay safe and have a good day.


I am rarely online late at night. It is now 18.48... so that is evening. Take care, and I will probably talk to you tomorrow.

I wish you a great evening time. Hope it is filled with happiness and joy, May you find it amusing and have a wonderful moment. Good evening to you Pamela.


John, why would I be online at 2.00 AM? Our time zones are only two hours apart.

Meet a new day. May God fill your day with the happiness it deserves. May this day be the sweetest ever. I pray that you will hit all your targets for today. I wish you all the best today. Come back with a testimony of the great things you have achieved. I wish you a wonderful day ahead. Good morning to you Pamela. Here is your morning gift, I hope you like it?


John, I have the feeling that you believe that I live in the USA. Your morning gift was actually an afternoon gift....sigh. For the last time, I live in Spain.

I'm so sorry about that, dear. So how's your day going?


So far so good I am glad that you are now clear about where I live.

Yes, I am And I'm glad you're having a nice day


So I would love to ask you a couple questions, and you can ask me anything you want to know about me, and I promise to give you an honest answer.


Yes my day is going smoothly. So tell me, what's your religion?


That's nice to know. Well I am a practicing Catholic and a God fearing man, and I have my Christian faith to thank for my life, attitude, and success.


I am a practicing Catholic, but as for FEARING God, that is not me.


Yes, you're right, dear. So tell me, what's your favorite color?


It is blue. How about you? Though I am more of a rainbow person.


Nothing particularly extraordinary about that.

Well, for me, I also love blue, which is the color of the ocean and the sky and often symbolizes serenity, stability, inspiration, or wisdom. It can be a calming color and symbolize reliability.


Yes, you're right, dear. So do you have a car and what model is it?


My husband had a car. He was the driver in the family. When he died, I gave it to my daughter. I do not drive.

What's car is it? And why don't you drive, dear?


I think that it is a Renault Captur or something like that

and said that he would drive me any place that I wanted to go.


Oh, my, Your husband was such a caring man, but you still don't have a driver's license.

He was VERY caring....and also very jealous. In any case, I really do not need to drive in Granada.


Oh, I see. So tell me, What are Your Hobbies?

I play the piano and like to read. On vacations, I also enjoy windsurfing and scuba diving.


I enjoy swimming and reading, walking on the beach, fishing, camping, scrabbling, playing checkers, and seeing good comedies. I love the outdoors mountain biking, camping, fishing, horseback riding, outdoor photography, cooking, and also spending some time out with my daughter.

What is scrabbling? I understand everything else...


Well Scramble Game is to put together a sentence from words or a word from letters, to be selected and put back in the same order. It's fun to play.

Ah, you mean playing Scrabble . Yes, I have played it, but I have never seen it used as a verb


Smiles, It's was an error on my part. So tell me, how big is your family?

lololol... it is a game that I like. We will have to play it one day. Here is about half of them.


Wow, that's amazing. What about your parents?

My parents are both dead. They were chain smokers and died of lung cancer when I was 13. Needless to say, I do not smoke.


Oh, my, I'm so sorry for their loss. My condolences to them.

Their life style was not conducive to a long life.


and for that reason, I was obliged to marry so early.


Well, I'm the son of a Ford Motor Company executive. I am the only child of my parents. My childhood was so much fun, but not until my dad had cancer. He suffered from it for several years. Finally, we lost him. Things turned around for my mom and me. My mom was so hurt that she suffered from depression. She loved my dad so much, and she was sure she would never find any other man to replace her husband. Years passed as things came into place. I was already picking up fragments of the past when I was called up for a mission. Operation Desert Storm was supposed to last for 3 weeks, but we ended up spending 3 months. We lost contact with the Bravo team. I was a trooper at that time. After so many nights in the desert with little or no food, we fought our way to the southern outpost, where we got back in communication with the Bravo team. We had to head back home. It was a sad mission because my best friend in the Army, when we started out as cadets, gave up his life to keep me safe. I still miss him so much. Meanwhile, mom has been so worried back home. When I got home, I found out she had died in a car accident. It was too much to handle. I lost a dad, my best friend, and my mom. At the time, the world was coming to an end, dear.

That must have been very difficult for you.


Yes, it was a difficult time of my life, but I'm glad I went through the pain, and I know perfectly well that they are so proud of me.


Thank you. So what are the five most important things in your life?

That is easy My family, my family, my family, my family, and my family. What about you?


Smiles.. That's nice to know. Well for me God, Family, health, Living to help others without asking for anything in return. Finally living long enough to tell you that I think you are great. Remember this. I live to help and if you ever need my help, it's there for the asking and also Good luck and much wisdom.

You are evidently a man who is very kind and good-hearted.


Thank you so much for the kind words. I really appreciate it. What languages can you speak?

Spanish, English, French, German, and Russian. I can understand Italian and Portuguese as well.


I lived in those countries, and so it was easy to learn the languages. And it was a no-brainer for me to become a translator and interpreter. In contrast, I am definitely not good in Math...lol


I speak English fluently and understand a little Italian. I am hoping to learn more Italian and Spanish if I do have the chance. Maybe you can teach me some day.


What three physical features do you get the most compliments on?


Well, I bet you have beautiful eyes, and for me, I get compliments on my eyes, smiles, skin complexity, and sometimes my voice too. People like it for some reason.


Smiles.. Can you describe the perfect vacation you have had?

Well, it was not exactly a vacation, but once I had to work in Crete for two weeks and there was lots of free time. So, I sort of fell in love with the place.


Well, I will have to say flying to Paris, then taking a train through France, Switzerland, Italy, Yugoslavia, and Greece. Then I spent one month on a Greek island with my daughter. I had the time of my life, and these are my fondest memories. I will do it again.

I adore Paris. I lived there for five years. We should meet at the top of the Eiffel Tower...


Yes definitely. Well, my time is up, and the time here is 6 06 p.m. I need to go address my boys who will be going out for their night patrol, and I will text you when I'm back in my chamber, okay?


Please take good care of yourself, and I really enjoy my time with you. Be safe over there. Talk soon.


Please take good care of yourself, and I really enjoy my time with you. Be safe over there.


Do you have a favorite Musician in particular?


I rather like Vladimir Horowitz . I also like Sarah Brightman.


Hmm, Phil Collins is a nice person who inspires me in terms of music, and for that, he is my number one Musician.


Wow, that's nice. What positive lessons have you learned from your past relationships that will help you succeed in future relationships?


lolol... you sound like a marriage counsellor. I have learned that in a relationship, both people should be equal, free to say what they like. Neither subservient to the other.

Well, you can call me a marriage counselor. If you wish. Well, what I have learned is that in any relationship, there should be love, trust, and understanding.


There should be, of course, but in any true relationship, that is a given. However, it is also true that I have never been in a relationship of that type.


Obviously, since I said it, then it is true.

Oh, okay. Marriage they say "Is For Better, For Worse" do you believe in this principle?


Sigh... that is a platitude, but, of course, I believe in it. I was married 40 years to a man whom I only felt gratitude for.


Yes, of course, it is alright. Truth is always so.

For me Yes, I do believe in that, because that is where you have to show that you love your partner very much.


If you love your partner, there is no problem about staying with him/her.


The difficulty arrives when you do not love your partner... That is when you have to make difficult decisions.


Well, it's time to go address my boys; they would be going out for night patrol, and it's 7 34 p.m. here, so I will text when I'm back to my chamber.


Yes, sure. Bye for now.....As you start this beautiful new day, may your heart always be filled with gratitude, may your day be filled with all the good things of life, and may your life continue to be an expression of God's benevolence, i hope you had a good night rest, i wish you a wonderful day ahead, good morning to you, Pamela. Here is your gift, I hope you like it?


Good morning, John. Thank you for the flowers.


I always sleep well -) I hope that yours was also peaceful.


I will be going to see the boys at the medical center today. What about you?


Well, I went to early Mass, and I have the rest of the day to get ready for my trip tomorrow.

Oh, that's nice, where do you plan to visit tomorrow?


I am leaving for CastellÛn until Wednesday. It is not a vacation though but part of my work.

Oh okay, I understand how work traveling seems. How long do you plan to stay?


Okay, will you be able to text me while you're away.


It is a short trip, and yes, I should have time to text.

Okay no problem, my prayers are always with you. I wish you safe on your trip.


But going to CastellÛn is not dangerous though they probably won't appreciate what I have to tell them.

Yeah even though it's not dangerous, at least I want you to be safe. that's why I said my prayers are with you.


Thank you. I'm sure you've had your breakfast right?


And if you ask about lunch , I will have chicken.


The time differences is very much, it's 1 52 Pm here.

Yes, I know that there is a two-hour difference. That is why I am always aware of what time it is in Syria.


Yeah, that's right. You're a very smart lady.

If I weren't somewhat intelligent, I would not have a job. Here, to be hired for a good job, a woman has to be five times more intelligent than the dumbest man.


Yeah woman are more smarter than men, it's just a fact, but I'm having a hard time to accept that fact, smiles.

lolol... I was not saying that . It is just in Spain, men are generally hired before women. And it is not fair.


And I can assure you that your job you do give you more intelligence. Haha, fair enough.

Speaking different languages is good for the brain...lol.


Okay, you can teach me how to speak Spanish...lol. I can speak a little bit of french.

When we meet, that will be simple. If you wish, we can speak it -)


Yes, I can't wait, thank you. Can you speak french as well?

French, Spanish, English, German and Russian. That is my job??


Wow, that's awesome. I hear German but can't speak Arabic as well, but can't speak.

I can also understand Italian and Portuguese, but can't speak either. Arabic is the language that I wish that I could speak.


If I knew Arabic, I could earn tons of money besides reading the Arabian Nights in the original -)


Maybe because I haven't met the right teacher. So I can't wait to meet you. How is that?

Well, I can teach languages, but the real way to learn is immersion in the country. The United Nations and many other international organizations are offering great contracts for people who can speak Arabic, English, and Spanish...Because of the political situation...


If I knew Arabic, I would apply but it is too late for me to learn Arabic at a native-speaker level.


Chinese is also a strategic language but that would be just as difficult if not more.


Yes, I know you will give the correct answer.

Ah... you must have a high opinion of my intelligence....lol. As I have of yours BUT I think that we can eliminate that question from our repertory for the future because it answers itself.


lolol...yes, I usually am. Have you had any news from home?


Yes always. Right now, I won't talk to my boys. I will be back, okay?


Have a good day ahead. I will spend much time with you when I'm back. Stay safe...I'm here now.

Well at 22.30, I obviously was not here. Good morning, John.


Good morning dear. How was your night, I hope you slept well?

Good morning, John. Yes, I always sleep well. Do you have to work on Sunday?


That's good to hear. Oh yes, I work daily over here, and I normally train my boys today on Sunday, and their training is based on shooting skills; they need to handle their weapon properly. So what are you doing today?

I shall go to Mass in a little while, and I am making chicken soup to freeze in containers so that I do not have to cook.


Haha, lol. So I should not ask about what you will eat for breakfast?


Ditto will refer to the answer that I gave you today??


Which is now valid for as long as our conversations may last.


How much time do you have left in Syria?


Well, not too long. I have just spent 3 months here in Syria, and I'm so happy to finally be a civilian.

I do not think that you are a civilian quite yet.


Being a civilian means that you are no longer in the military. If you are in Syria, evidently you are still a member of the armed forces.


Well, after my retirement paper is finalized, I'm officially a civilian, and I could live a great civilian life.

You will, I am sure. But papers always take a while.


though I am sure that you will miss the military.


Well, I'm not sure that I would miss the military, and I'm so tired of the killing, bloodshed, and gun sounds. I just want to live a great civilian life.


What will be your main occupation in your civilian life?


Well, I will go into real estate, and I will also look into the case of veterans who don't have a home to stay. I will provide them with accommodation, and then I will enjoy my time to the fullest.

Those sound like praiseworthy goals. I am sure that your efforts will be deeply appreciated.


Yes, thank you, dear. Your words mean a lot to me. So what's your time now?


It's alright, just add me to your prayer line. okay.

Yes, I did. Hopefully, God is not overworked today.


Yes, I agree. We will know the outcome in a few months, I guess.


Yes, I returned after having lunch afterward.


Okay, that's good. So how was your lunch?

It was fine. I had lunch with a neighbor, who has just come home from the hospital.


Hi, John. Not busy now since it is Sunday afternoon.


Oh, okay. So how are you spending your evening?

lololol... I work very hard all week. That means that I like to spend my free evenings peacefully. If I had a suitor, perhaps it would be different.


I am not a bit TV fan unless it is to see a movie. I prefer to read.


Oh, okay, that's cool. So what's your favorite TV series?

John, I live in Spain. To get TV series from the USA, I would have to have cable television


My qualities for my ideal woman is honesty, soft heated, patient, faithful, tolerance and so on.

Especially, the "so on". Soft heated? You make her sound like a casserole.


Smiles, would you ever apologize to your husband whenever you are at fault, or would you prefer him to apologize even when you are at fault?

John, what a weird question. Everyone who is at fault should apologize. Everyone makes mistakes...


Yes, I understand that everyone makes errors; no one is above making mistakes, but some refuse to admit that they do, and if you want to live in peace with them, you must apologize when they are at blame as well as when you are at fault in order to keep the connection.

Ooooph, well, I am fine with apologizing for mistakes that I make. But I am not interested in people who are too proud to apologize. And I certainly have never apologized for someone else's mistake. That type of connection is not worth keeping.


Honey, if you and I were a couple and we had a disagreement, how would you handle it? Would you leave it unresolved or act like nothing happened?


Another question that answers itself. All couples have to discuss things to try to understand each other's viewpoints. The AK-47s come out later. The key lies in talking about things.

Well, I'm an easygoing man that prefers to handle any issues that arise with my spouse since I don't want to hold things that bother me within. If I do, it will have an effect; it will make me think and will create a schism between us, something I do not desire.


I just want to know more about ourselves, smiles. Don't you like it?


Yes, I do. Even though there is only so much that one can learn by chatting.

Dear please pardon me for asking about your personal life.


Actually, you asked very little about my personal life, only what I would do in certain situations

Alright, when was the last time you had sex?


lololol....I cannot even remember. Maybe 7 years ago. My husband was 20 years older. Before the stroke that killed him, he had another that left him an invalid for 3 years before he died. I took care of him. Even when he was younger, he was not a very sexual man. He wanted children, and I gave them to him.

Wow, you're such a sweet and compassionate lady. I honestly can't remember the last time I had sex.I have had no carnal knowledge of anyone since my divorce from my ex-wife. I believe it should be done with someone with whom you have a close bond or with whom you are married.


Well, I am not particularly sweet or compassionate... I was a dutiful wife, and being Catholic, I believe that marriage is forever in the good times and the bad. And since sex was never particularly great. I really cannot say that I have missed it.

Yes, I believe in those principles too, but what can you do when she wants another? I gave her everything she ever wanted. Before I got married to my ex-wife Carolyn, she already had a daughter before we got married, and I took her as my own.


Apparently, what she needed was something that you were unable to give her.

absolutely, but before we married, I asked whether she could take it knowing I'm in the military, and she said absolutely. Years later, my ex-wife consented and gave birth to Annabel. Because of the nature of my job, I'm not always home.


That goes without saying. I guess that she just couldn't take it.

Yes, you're right. She moved on to her ex-lover, and I'm not going to stop her from doing that. I took custody of my daughter after my ex-wife and I got officially divorced.


Well, you did the right thing though your daughter must miss you very much. She probably does not see you very often.

Yes, I miss her too. I always find it hard to see love in a brighter light because of my past experiences.


Well, I spent 40 years with man whom I was not in love with. He was a good father to my children, and he was ... kind, I guess. But I married too young, and paid the price for it. That is one reason why I am not so eager to try the experience again... without being absolutely certain.

I have been hurt and traumatized in the past, up to the stage of having suicidal thoughts. God has really been faithful, and I look forward to the future because it has the best in store for us.


Well, even in my worst moments, I have never contemplated killing myself.

I've been in pain since my ex left, and I've not talked to any women until now. All my focus was on my work and my only daughter, and now that I will soon return, I'm afraid to leave the rest of my life alone.


You seem to have taken things a little far...I have also had years of emotional desert, but I was still capable of laughing and loving my children. I have friends here, and created an alternate universe where I could be happy to some extent.

I found you very interesting and promising, and when I got to send you that text, I never knew what I was doing. I think God has a perfect plan for you and me.


I am certain that He did. It was destiny.

Smiles. You and my daughter are the reason I smile every day.


Then I hope that you will continue to smile.

Yes, I will, as long as I have you. My joy giver. I have to go now; it's getting late here, and I need to meet my boys on active night patrol.


Please take care of yourself for me and be safe.


A new day is here, with new hopes and opportunities. Every new day at work is a chance to build upon what has come before and continue working towards becoming the best professional you can be. May good fortune smile on you as you start your day. Begin your day with a fart, like you usually do. Good morning to you, Pamela. Have a wonderful day ahead. Here is your morning gift, I hope you like it?

Thank you John. I also hope that you have a wonderful day.


You're welcome, my sweet woman. How are you, sweetheart? I hope you had a restful night's sleep.

I am work at a particularly boring event. Yes, I slept well.


Oh so sorry about that. What is the event all about? Yes, I had a peaceful night. Thank you for asking.


They are handing out national prizes for the best research projects. I am here because I was on the judging panel...sigh. Fortunately, I just have to be here and pretend to listen.

That seems like a fantastic event, and you have a key position there. Smiles, you're appearing to listen while you're not. So, has a winner been announced yet?


Well, there are various prizes, depending on the discipline and a speech after each one...sigh. I evaluated the ones in Linguistics and Translation. Hopefully, it will finish by 14.00.

Oh, translation. That's your area of expertise. So, I'm here in my office, reading over some paperwork from last night's active patrol and chatting to you. I need to finish this report before my superior arrives. It's a hectic day for me today.


Yes, I understand. Perhaps later at some point.

Yes, but there is always time for you. You know I appreciate every time spent with you, so tell me what you plan to do once the event is finished.


Alright, what are you planning on having for lunch? t seems you're very busy right now. Well, it's getting late here. I have to check on my boys, who are on active night patrol. I will text you when I can. Please take care of yourself for me and be safe.


Hello, John. I have just returned home. It was a very long day, and I am exhausted. Fortunately not every day is like this one.


Well at 22 09, I evidently was not -) Good morning, John.

A morning is a wonderful blessing, whether cloudy or sunny. It stands for hope, giving us another start to what we call life. Morning is an important time of day because how you spend your morning can often tell you what kind of day you are going to have. Wishing you a wonderful day ahead, Good morning to you, Pamela. Here is your morning gift, hope you like it?


Good morning, John. Lovely roses and even lovelier to hear from you.

Thank you. How are you, my sweet woman? I hope you had a restful night's rest.


Hello, John. Yes, I slept well. I hope that you feel less tired that you usually do.

Alright, that's good to know. I'm always happy to know that you slept well.


Yes, it was. I'm so tired after I had my 1 hour of sleep that I went for my morning exercise, and now I'm in my office reading over some reports from last night's active patrol and talking to you. What are you doing right now?


I was working, but now I am talking to you.


Today is a peaceful day, which is appreciated after yesterday.

Wow, that's nice. Dear, Is there any male beside me that is trying to get closer to you or wants to get to know you better?


Well, ... funny that you should ask that. One of my colleagues... He is always asking me out. And I usually say no


Obviously not. He is nice, I guess, but he is too much like my late husband. If I ever marry again, it will be for love.


For a woman, it is easy to find a man. It is much more difficult to find the right man. I am selective. If I only wished to get married , it would not be difficult but it is more important to find the right person.

Yes, you're right. It's easy to find a woman; there is nothing like a perfect man or woman; we just have to be with that person who gives us peace of mind, someone who respects you and values your happiness. Marriage is for a lifetime.


Perfection does not exist, but there is magic. And that is what one must feel with the right person...

Yes, there is magic. Smiles. Matrimony is a unique bond that connects you physically, emotionally, and spiritually, fostering togetherness, shared responsibilities, and shared successes. It is a journey of personal and spiritual growth where you share emotions, feelings, and intimacy with your spouse, ensuring the world knows you're one.


Why... yes, and that is magic. One word that encompasses all of yours??

I can remarry again when she loves me and my daughter so much that she cares about the family being together as one big family.


And you would have to love her in the same way. Mutual love is important...

Yes, I will love and adore her with all my heart, and I will always make her happy. I'll make her the happiest woman in the planet. I'll adore her as if my life depended on it.


lololol... you sound like the perfect man.


A bit of humor after such lovely and solemn words.

Thank you. What makes you decide to always reply to every text I send you.


Well, first of all, I like the way that you write. You sound sincere. There is a lot that can be learnt about a person from the way that he/she writes.

A person's texts are at least a partial reflection of their soul.


Alright, what have you learned about me?

From your texts, I know that you are person who has suffered a great deal. Because of that, you are sympathetic to the tragedies of others. You initially liked your profession, but now you have become disenchanted with it. This often bothers you. And you spend time thinking about making a change so that you will not feel trapped. You are not a person who falls in love easily. You take great joy in the simple pleasures of life. You are also creative, and are respected among your colleagues because you can take a simple job and lend a new twist to it that improves the results. You are usually successful in what you set your mind to. I know all that about you, just from the way that you write.


Thank you. Yes, you're right. I love my job. I'm a 3-star general; I have sacrificed a lot for the military, and I don't wish to spend the rest of my life with my boys. I've been in the military for over 35 years now, and I'm currently working on my retirement.

I doubt that you will have to very hard on your retirement.


All I want to do now is spend more time with my daughter and look for the woman I will spend the rest of my life with, and my heart chooses you. I also have plans to go into the real estate business and build homes for children with no parents.

Well, that is a very praiseworthy goal. I hope that you achieve it.


I want to help those children who have no parents. I want to give them a home.


And it's true, I don't easily fall in love, but if I do, I love for real.

That is doubtlessly true. But we still have much to discover about ourselves.


The Bridges of Madison County. I hope that yours is not Titanic because that is what everyone says.


Romeo and Juliet is my favorite film. I appreciate the plot; they never allowed anybody or anything to stand in the way of their love, not even their parents.

I also liked that movie though both died at the end.


They died for their love because it was so pure.

That's the type of love I'm looking for. I want someone who will go to any length to be with me and see me happy, and I will do the same.


It would be nice to find someone like that But not possible, merely based on chatbox information.

Well, I believe it's not impossible when you meet the right person at the right time.


When we MEET, yes. This is only virtual reality, which is nice, but not enough to commit for a lifetime.


You're still wearing your wedding ring? I must depart; a colleague has just entered my office, and I must attend to them. I'll text you when I can. Please take care of yourself and be safe for my sake.


Yes, I still wear my wedding ring. In Spain, to show that you are a widow, you switch your wedding ring to the fourth finger of your other hand.

May this new day bring you endless miracles and blessings. I wish you a beautiful day ahead. May you walk up the ladder of success and achievements. May each and every morning fill your heart with happiness and positive vibes. I wish your day started with a perfect morning coffee to energize you with positivity. Good morning to you, Pamela. Have an energetic day ahead. Here is your morning gift, hope you like it.


Good morning, John. I will not be on much today because I am on my way to Seville for a meeting. I will not be back until evening. I will try to connect at some point, but I cannot promise anything.

Alright, my sweet woman. I will miss you. I'm having a busy day here with a lot of reports from last night's active patrol. Please text me when you can. I look forward to hearing from you soon.


Here is your morning gift, I hope you love it?

Yes, John. The flowers are quite beautiful. Happy Sunday.


Thank you, my lovely lady. I hope the same for you. How are you doing, honey? I hope you got a good night's sleep. How is your shoulder? I hope that is no longer an issue for you.

Hello, John.I am doing all right. I have just returned from Mass. As for my shoulder. tomorrow I will go pick up the the MRI and take it to the doctor on Tuesday. It still hurts at night but it is bearable.


Okay, I'm relieved to hear that your shoulder discomfort is manageable. You will feel better very soon, so don't worry. I'm hoping you had me in mind when you prayed. As usual, I'm at my office checking over some reports from the active patrol from yesterday night. All I can think about is how wonderful it will be to have you at my side.

Yes, John, you were in my prayers and all pain is manageable.


lololol... you should consider changing that question. The answer is always the same.


Yes... when you chat and do not ask questions that are always the same.


Smiles. Alright, what are your plans for the day?

I have had such a busy week that I am not going to do anything. My daughter will be coming for dinner tonight. That is enough. I hope that you have not had more headaches.


I'm fine. Thank you for asking. So, tell me how long it takes you to get dressed for an event.

What a strange question. I have various events, but I get ready very quickly. My events are usually connected with interpreting. An interpreter should always be as invisible as possible


I feel as if I'm dreaming. Please tell me this isn't a dream.


And that is the only thing that is missing. Reality.

It will become a reality very soon. I'm about to retire, and we'll be together. I can hardly wait to have you in my arms. Smiles.


My lovely lady I'm going to the ICT right now to meet with the lads. I'll text you as soon as I can. Please take care of yourself and be safe, for my sake.


I wish you a very hearty good morning. May each morning become a vessel of joy and positive energy, pouring its blessings into your heart. May the day ahead unfold like a tapestry of beauty and success, with each step taking you closer to the pinnacle of your dreams. May the brightness of the sun shine upon you like blessings. So start your day with a beautiful thought and think about the productive day you are going to have. Good morning to you, Pamela. Here is your morning gift, I hope you love it?


Lovely roses, John. Today I have to work in the afternoon and evening. So, I will be online until 16.20 or so. After that, it is anyone's guess -)


I am fine, and the night was tranquil. How you about you?


What do I mean? Just that usually you appear slightly later. However, I am glad that you were able to appear now.

Smiles, I was expecting your text. I'm not doing well.


It is always a joy to hear from you. What is the problem?

I lost four of my lads to ISIS last night, and I can't get it out of my head.


That is indeed a great tragedy. I know how much you value your men. I am truly sorry for them and their families. My own sons have been deployed in Herat, Afghanistan, and if they are alive, then it is because God protected them.

It was my apocalypse. I couldn't sleep no matter how hard I tried.


I used to notice their expressions. I pray that their spirits find peace.


Thank you so much for your warm remarks. Always include them in your prayers, and God will take care of the rest.


I cannot even imagine how much you are suffering.

He is the only one who can fully shield us from harm.


And yes, I will include them in my prayers. I also know what this is like because Daniel is in Lebanon, and as for Christian in Djibouti with NATO, he is less in harm's way though Somali pirates still have weapons.

I'm heartbroken. I simply want this to be over. Why can't we live in a world without conflict and valence, a world of peace and unity?


Yes, that is understandable. However, there will never be a world without conflict and violence


Everyone will be there except for Christian and his family. He was not given leave. but Daniel will be there with his two children

Yes, Christmas is a wonderful time to spend with family. It breaks my heart knowing my daughter will be spending it alone.


At least this is her last Christmas that she will spend by herself.

Yes, I simply want her to be content at all times. I adore her to pieces.


Well, that is the wish of every parent but since I have had four, I know that children also need to have bad times in order to evolve, mature, and learn how to be an adult.

Yes, that is accurate, and we must also let them address their own difficulties because we cannot constantly be there for them.


This will make them more mature and stronger, and they will have a greater understanding of life and realize that in everything there is more to it than what meets the eye.


Yes, you also understand. In the end, suffering is part of life, and we must accept it and learn how to deal with it.

Yes, that is a fact of life. My lovely lady, are you prepared to relocate if the man you fall in love with resides far away?


I have a job here, and I have all of my family here. So, I would really have to think about it.

If you want me to relocate to your house, that's OK; if you want to move to mine, that's fine too, as long as we stay together as one. Perhaps you want us to buy another property, which is OK as long as you're the happiest woman on the planet. Honey, I have to go now since it's becoming late and I need to meet with my boys, who will be on active night patrol. I'll text you as soon as I can. Please take care of yourself and be safe for my sake.


Sorry to leave you, John., but I had to leave for work, where I am now. I hope that your night goes well.

Good morning to you, hun I hope you had a good sleep and are now full of energy to conquer the world. Make the most of this day, and may you be blessed with all that you wish for. May this energetic and active morning make your day and fill it with positive vibes and enormous energy. Gratitude goes a long way. Each day brings new opportunities. I wish you spread love, happiness, and hope all around. May your day be filled with laughter. Here is your morning gift, I hope you love it?


Not "hun"...please. I am not Attila....lol. Thank you for the flowers, as always,

Alright, how are you, my pretty woman? I hope you had a peaceful night.


I did John. Thank you. I hope your night was better. I can't chat now because I have interviews scheduled. Perhaps later in the afternoon.

Okay, best of luck with that. Please text me as soon as you are able.


Sorry to be off the grid for so long but this has been a very long day. I have been interviewing people and the process has been very long because I have had to judge both oral and written expression.

I have missed you , as always. Hopefully, we will have more time tomorrow. Every morning is a new day to achieve something great. Don't let yesterday's failures overshadow today's successes. Start your day with a positive attitude and big dreams. I hope this good morning message finds you in good spirits and fills your heart with positivity. I hope your day is filled with happiness and joy, my friend. You deserve nothing less than the best. I hope you get everything you desire today. Good morning to you, honey. Have a great day ahead. Here is your morning gift, I hope you love it?


Nice to hear from you, John. I had a busy day and was barely online. However this morning is going slower, fortunately.


How did the interview go? It seemed fascinating to me.


There were several interviews. It was long but the candidates were chosen.


I was lonely without you yesterday, and my day was really uninteresting. I'm hoping you'll spend more time with me today. I was thinking about you all day yesterday.


Yes, I am at home this morning. There is a meeting at 16.30 but I am more or less free until then.


Okay, that's great to hear. Thank you. How are you, my lovely lady? I hope you had a restful night's sleep. that.


My night was peaceful. And my Christmas vacation begins tomorrow.

Oh, that's wonderful. Any special plans?


I am going to Malaga with my daughter and her children for a family reunion. My son, Daniel, will be on leave from Lebanon and he will go there with his children. The only one missing will be Christian who is in Djibouti.

That's OK. It is always nice and enjoyable to spend Christmas with your family. You get to see people you haven't seen in a long time. I'm thrilled for you.


It will be wonderful to see them again, especially since my youngest son and his little daughter live in Malaga.

Yes, I think it would. There was bad news on Sunday, but we didn't hear it straight immediately.


Due to President Bashar al-Assad's military bombing on Sunday, seven civilians were killed and 20 were injured in Idlib and villages around Aleppo. Five people were murdered in Darat Izza, including a kid and a pregnant mother with twins, while five more were injured.


That is indeed sad. Such killing only breeds more killing. Like in the Gaza Strip.

Yes, you're right. I've directed my men to provide medical care, rescue, and aid to communities in opposition-held portions of the country's northwest.


Things are becoming progressively worse here by the day.


but you are doing all that you can. That conflict has been going on for 10 years and you are not going to end it

I'm doing my best. So far this month, 48 assaults on civilians have occurred in 15 cities and towns, killing nine people, including three children and a woman.


Sure.....but you know that it is impossible. And one man cannot save the world.

Yes, I understand; I just wish I could do more. I don't like witnessing dead bodies on a daily basis, especially toddlers and pregnant ladies.


I am sure that you are aware that doing more is impossible. The world has always been a mess.

and now I have an errand to do before lunch. I will be back a little later if you are still here.


Yes, I realize it's impossible. I just want the world to be a better place, but I don't see it happening anytime soon. There will always be disagreements. People will have to prey on the defenseless. Okay, text me as soon as you can. I'll be waiting for your text.


I was doing a translation, one that is not urgent...and wondering if you were free.


So, I'm here in my office, looking over some reports from yesterday night's active patrol.


When individuals bottle up their feelings, they eventually explode and the explosion is usually disastrous.

Yes, you are correct, however I believe that some individuals keep their emotions to themselves because they do not want to be in a scenario where the person does not love them back. It's devastating when the person you care about the most doesn't love you back. It makes one appear foolish. Not everyone can handle rejection well, and for some, it may be catastrophic.


Rejection is part of life. And no one should laugh at others who seem foolish.... All of us have gone down that path at one time or another.

Yes, I know. Do you harbor affections for me?


Yes, John, I do, despite the fact that we really do not know each other.

Best wishes on a wonderful morning, dear. I hope you have an amazing time. I wish you a lot of achievements and smiles. Start your day with gratitude. May each second of your day pass with joy. I hope you slept well and are ready to tackle the day. I just wanted you to know someone was thinking about you. I'm sending you this message first thing in the morning so that you can think about me all day long. Good morning to you, honey. Have a happy and relaxed morning.


I feel for you because you're amazing in your own way. I haven't felt like this in a long time. It's very magical. I can't wait to finally tell the world how I feel about you, my lovely lady.

Yes, John. I think that we have found magic together. Even online..


I want to be the last person you see before going to sleep and the first person you see before getting out of bed. I'd want to prepare breakfast for you in bed. I want to look after you and demonstrate how lovely my life is with you in it.

I think that life with you will be a beautiful adventure...


Yes I hadn't shared a bed with someone in a long time.

lololol.... I have shared a bed with tiny grandchildren. Obviously, it is not the same thing.


Yes, it's not, and it's been a long time since I've had a decent kiss on my lips.

I have the feeling that you know how to kiss very well.


Sure, I do I'm an excellent kisser. I want to kiss those sweet, soft lips of yours right now. Smiles.

Somehow I already knew that and the day will eventually arrive.


I wish I had the ability to manipulate time.

There is an old saying... "Patience is a virtue, possess it if you can, found seldom in a woman, and never in a man"... Smiles.


I have to go now, baby; it's becoming late here, and I need to address the squad that will be on active night patrol. We'll chat when the time comes. Please take excellent care of yourself for my sake, and know that this guy over here is constantly thinking of you. Be safe.

Bye, John. Until the next time. Take care and be safe.


Welcome to a new day full of joy, love, and laughter. A new day with new beginnings and hopes. I hope you get what you want. I hope everything works out in your favor so that you can be happy. May good fortune smile on you as you start your day. As you step out today, all you do will be blessed and favored. I just feel like sending you a message to let you know how much I appreciate you. I must admit that you are always on my mind. I appreciate you, darling. Good morning to you, honey. Have a fantastic day ahead. Here is your morning gift, I hope you love it?

Thank you, John. The flowers are lovely as always.


I'm glad you like it How are you, my pretty woman? I hope you had a good night's sleep.

How is your shoulder doing? I hope it's no longer causing you pain.


No, it is gradually improving. Just a question of time, I guess.

Alright, that's good to hear. I simply want you to be healthy. You know how they say that health equals wealth?


Yes, that saying is very true. I would say that it is more than wealth. One of my late husband's cousins cannot come to Christmas Eve dinner because he is dying of lung cancer.


Yes, John, it is. So one must give thanks each day.

Yes, you're right. So, how are the Christmas preparations coming along?


Tomorrow, we will all decorate the tree. I have made a lot of cookies.

Wow, that's nice. It's going to be a lot of fun.


I have made 50 cookies and they will probably only last a couple of days


I make a lot because I know that they will not last.


Making cookies is one of my superpowers.

My super woman. Smiles, that must be extremely tasty.


My children and grandchildren assure me that they are.

I wish I could have some and can't wait to finally taste dishes provided by you.


That will be amazing, baby. It would be a lot of fun to cook in the same kitchen as you. We can accomplish a lot because there will be soothing music playing and I like to shake my ass while cooking. Smiles


Yes, sweetheart, I just want to spend the rest of my days on Earth with you.


One day perhaps it will happen and become reality,


I found the reason for my smile, the day I found you. Will you let me be the reason for your smile? In you, my life becomes whole, with you my days become bright. In your hands I would love to lay, this night and for the rest of my life You deserve the world and all the good things it has to offer. If I fail to find that world for you, I promise to give you mine


Will you marry me? Marry me today and make me a happy man and my dreams to be complete.


I have become as attached to you as one can love someone on Internet, whom they have never spoken to, seen, or touched. First we will see if our Internet dream corresponds to reality.

I promise to go down on my knee and put a ring on your finger upon my return. Will you marry me honey?


John, that is a lovely proposal, which I can only partially accept. There is the IF clause, of course.


It is a tentative yes... to be confirmed when we meet.

Wow I'm so happy honey. Thank you for accepting my love for you. I love you so much You have no idea how much happiness that you've made me today.


Since it will be easy for you to confirm your reality, then there should be no problem.

I'm so blessed to have you in my life and I will forever love and cherish you. You have just made me the happiest man in the planet.


You have yet to discover all of my irritating habits.


However, there are perhaps a few that you know about.

That will not be an issue. I adore you and everything about you, and nothing will ever change my emotions for you because you provide me comfort.


That is nice to know, and fortunately, you write English very well. There are people who no longer wish to chat with me because their syntax drives me crazy, and I am always correcting them...lol


That's because you make me happy, smiles.


We make each other happy. That is part of the magic.


Yes, I can see that. And really attractive. Smiles


Yes, it is. Do you realize how unique you are?


I think that we are all unique, John. Each of us has his/her own set of superpowers

There is no one in the planet who can compete with you. Inside and out, you're the most gorgeous person I've ever encountered.


Thank you. I'm completely smitten with you. You are deserving of the entire universe.


And that is one of the reasons that I gave you a conditional yes.

You have the most lovely heart and spirit.


I never thought that you would convince me ... but I guess that one can fall in love with words after all.

Smiles. I am inspired by the way you care for the people in your life.


Your brilliance and enthusiasm, among other things, are quite appealing to me. If I wrote out every reason why I adore you, I'd never be able to stop.


And John, you seem to be the man that I have waited for all my life

What we have is irreplaceable. We're like two puzzle pieces that fit perfectly together.


Yes, John. It seems incredible to me, but I agree.

Words cannot express how much you mean to me. Thank you for shining your light into my life.


Your light has also warmed my heart, a heart that I thought had died... You have made me believe in love again.

Same here. You know what, I feel like such a lucky man to have met you. I'm so happy you're in my life.


Yes, we are. When I'm having a rough day, chatting to you makes me feel a thousand times better. What was I thinking about before I met you?


And you seem to have so many rough days.

When I get a message from you, I burst out in a wide, goofy grin. It's amazing how almost everything makes me think of you.


That is very sweet, and now on this very happy note. I have to leave and do less pleasant things like laundry and housework. Until the next time, John.

Okay, my darling. I'm excited to spend more time with you. Please take care of yourself and be safe for my sake. I adore you, my lovely wife.....I wish you countless blessings and wonders on this brand-new day. You get a fresh chance to realize your aspirations every day. I wish you have the best possible day and accomplish all of your goals. I hope and pray that today brings you happiness, love, and prosperity. I hope you have a wonderful day full of opportunity and limitless possibilities. Together, let's conquer this planet and create incredible memories. You have a good morning, my dear woman. Warmest wishes for a day as amazing and fantastic Here is your morning gift, I hope you love it?


Good morning, John. Thank you for the flowers.

You're welcome, honey. How are you, my pretty woman? I hope you had a good night's rest.


I did, John. I have just finished lunch with all of my family. I spent the morning crying -)... since I had to peel and chop onions. I may not be on intermittently this afternoon because we are going to decorate the Christmas tree. A picture of some of them after lunch.

Smiles, I'm so sorry, my lovely lady. I wish I could be there to assist you; I've really missed talking to you today; I was so lonely that I assumed you wouldn't be able to talk to me today.


and capable of overcoming tremendous obstacles


Every day, I grow more in love with you as I spend more time with you. I pledge to look after your sensitive and compassionate heart for the rest of my life. I was lost and depressed. But I kept hoping for a savior to come into my life. God heard my plea and sent you. Now I owe you my life for all eternity. I can only do one thing perfectly love you sincerely

And your love is corresponded. Every day that we can chat is a day that I delight in.


The nicest part about being in love with you is that I've started to appreciate every season of life with much more zeal than I used to. Such is the enchantment of your love, dear.

If that is true, then I can only celebrate the miracle of our love.


You're the missing piece in my heart's puzzle, and I treasure you more than love itself.

When and if we finally meet, I am sure that our life will be a veritable paradise.


Words cannot describe how much I adore you since my feelings for you are incomprehensible.


Now, I am sure that you are a person worthy of my absolute trust. I have come to believe in you,

My life feels like a fairy tale with you in it. Thank you for coming into my life. I smile like a fool every time you're talking with me. I am lovestruck


Once a long time ago, I believed in fairy tales and in Prince Charmings....lol. Then reality made me more cynical but you have shown me that fairy tales can occur in reality. Thank you for helping me to recover my faith in miracles.

I should be thanking you for bringing so much joy and happiness to this lonely man. Your smile is more precious than all the treasures in the world. I am the luckiest guy in the world to have an amazing woman in my life who is beautiful inside and out.


I am always surprised that such an eloquent, sensitive and tender man has been alone for so long.


.... though I still unsure about our more physical relationship. I guess that somehow everything will work out..


My love for you is beyond definition, explanation, or measurement. It is infinite. We fit together like pieces of a puzzle, two halves of the same soul bound together for eternity. Your happiness matters to me more than my own. I can do anything and give everything to see you smile.

John, your words melt my heart and mean so much to me. I wish that we had met many years ago.


Me too, All the wonders in the world mean nothing if I can't share them with you, my love.

I know that if we had met earlier, our lives would have been vastly different. I somehow feel that we were made for each other. Hopefully, now is not too late


Meeting you has fulfilled all my dreams. I hope I can fulfill every dream of yours. We can talk so much without uttering a single word.

I think that we both have many dreams waiting to be fulfilled.


You are my soulmate. With a heart made of gold and a beauty to behold, how can anyone not fall for you?

As you are mine. John, you are my only love, and even if things do not work out between us for whatever reason, I will hold you in my heart for the rest of my life.


Life with you is full of adventures, my darling. Your presence has given me more happiness than I felt. I love the person I am when I am with you.

That is what love does to people, I think. It makes them the person that they would like to be.


Thinking about your cheerful laughter lightens me up even on the darkest of days. You are like a ray of sunshine, filling my life with love and light.

When we are at last together, our days will be filled with sunlight and I am sure that the magic day will soon arrive when I can be in your arms forever.


I must have done something amazing to be blessed with the love of a pure soul like you. My heart forgets how to beat every time we text.

I think that both of us are blessed. Few people ever know such an extraordinary love.


I didn't want to fall in love, but you captured my heart and made me yours. You may mean something to many, but you mean everything to me.

As you have doubtlessly perceived, I had no intention of falling in love online. I still do not believe that it has happened to me. It was your words. They persuaded me of your sincerity. I guess that some point one must learn to trust.


I love you unconditionally. I can't wait to shout from the rooftops that you are mine.

Yes, John, I truly believe that we share an extraordinary love. I still think that it is too good to be true. But perhaps everything will finally work out and we will be together forever. That is my dearest wish.


The world might change, we might grow old, but my love for you will always remain constant and never-ending. No words can express the depth of my feelings for you. Let me show you how I feel.


but I have never asked anything of you nor have I ever expected anything of you.


My life was barren as a desert until I found my oasis in you. The moment we met, I felt I had known you for a million years. I hope you will give me a chance to love you for a million more.

I am sure that we have been together in one of our former lives. It is the memory of our former joy that has caused us to meet in this life and to bring us home to each other again.


I am crazy in love. I can't think straight. You are my one true love, my soulmate. You are everything that I need in life. All my dreams begin and end with you.

As I told you, you have made me recover my faith in love and in the belief that I can at last feel passion.


You came into my life and transformed it into a paradise. My sweetheart, I adore you. It's late here, and I need to meet with the team that will be on active night patrol.

As you can imagine, the feeling is mutual.


And yes, I know that you must be very busy.


Please take care of yourself and be safe for my sake.


God has given you another day to fulfill your dreams. Give it your wholehearted acceptance. Let's make a fresh start in your life. May you receive every blessing from God, I pray. I hope you have a wonderful day filled with peace and pleasure. There are blessings and possibilities every morning; may you be showered with them You will experience favor and wonderful things as you get ready for today's events. To you, my lovely lady, good morning. I wish you a fulfilled morning.

Good morning, John. Yes, today is a beautiful day.


Here is your morning gift, I hope you love it?


You're welcome, my lovely lady. How are you, my lovely lady? I hope you enjoyed a restful night's sleep.

I am fine. This is my last day in Malaga since I return to work tomorrow.


That's excellent to know. What are you doing right now?

Well, I was doing a couple of things,....like putting away Christmas ornaments, folding clothes, and talking to my youngest son.


Okay, I wish I could be there to assist you; I know it must be tough to be doing everything by yourself. Is he present with you?

Yes, he is a police officer, but has the afternoon and evening shift today. So, I have told him that he can have lunch here. He is the only one of my children that lives in Malaga.


Okay, that's terrific; I enjoy how you and your children connect with each other; the love you share is wonderful.

We are a very close family. That is true. I am blessed to have them always worrying about me.


True, true I admire the fact that you have wonderful children that adore you.

Doubtlessly, the same is true for you. As I recall, you have a daughter though you rarely talk about her.


Yes, Annabel, she is such a wonderful girl, and I miss her terribly.

I have no doubt that she will be thrilled to see you again.


Yes, I can't wait to meet her; she always manages to make me giggle. When you meet her, you will realize how much fun she is to be around.


Yes, me too. My lovely lady You mentioned going to the bank today?

Yes, I did. It was early in the morning. I was waiting for the diplomat to tell me how to send the money.


I am not worried. I am certain that he will. No doubt he is very busy.


Yes, he is a very busy man. Well, you already know what I'm up to; I have a lot of papers to go through here; it's a busy day for me. I wish you could give me a massage since I'm so stressed out.

That would be a lovely activity. I know how to give massages since I took a course a few years ago. It is something that has always interested me.


Wow, it sounds exciting. I believe you're extremely excellent at it.


I can't wait to find out myself, smiles.

I have no doubt that you one day you will.


Yes, my darling, it will be wonderful to have your arms around my body, exploring every inch of my body.


Yes, me too. It will be an experience, and we can also do other things. Smiles

Those other things.....lol. I am also looking forward to them.


I'm disappointed you have to think so low of me. You talk like you have this all planned. As if you've been waiting for a perfect time to tell me your thoughts about our relationship and your past experiences. It's sad to know you have these thoughts about me. I will not force you to help me and neither will I allow you to think so low of my personality. Whatever your decisions are, I'm sure you must have had deep thoughts. I'm now sure you never loved me. You took our relationship as that of a game with the same energy you had in previous relationships which turned out to be a lie. I sacrifice time to talk to you despite the happenings over here. I never thought low of you. I wouldn't have shared our emergency with you because it has brought you these doubts and I don't blame you because we haven't met in person yet. Follow your heart and do what's best for you. That's all I have to say Pamela. I did contact the security company and asked about some questions regarding the method of payment. They answered me and I don't find a fault in their systems of operations. You have no idea about the happenings over here. I do not want to stress about this any further. Stay safe.

John, thank you for your explanation. However, of all the possible reactions to my message, I had not expected denial. I really am making a study of the linguistic patterns of military romance scammers. I have spoken with several but I have never had an unhappy relation with any of them. I am in possession of scripts or formats that reproduce the exact description of your belongings . In fact, I have experienced this same crisis scenario various times with generals who were supposedly deployed in Afghanistan, Korea, and Syria. Furthermore, the text of your diplomat is also the same as the others with phrases such as being completely loyal to the general and his "counterpart" . So either you and the diplomat are on exactly the same wavelength as other generals who have experienced exactly the same crisis or you are not who you say you are. That said, I do not think badly of you. In fact, you are extremely believable and a true professional. As for having this planned, it is true that I talk to everyone who appears on my FB profile.I have been gathering data since 2020 and now have three years of conversations with different men, who have unknowingly been my data sources. As I told you, two of them confessed. We became friends, and they have given me further insights into the world of romance scamming in West Africa. Since you are in denial, I doubt that you will ever tell me who you really are, but please do not think that I am a lovelorn idiot, punishing you for my past deceptions. Quite the opposite, I hold you in great esteem since you are the one whom I most enjoyed chatting with.


He is 14 years old. he is my one in million and i Love him so much....


Okay, although we just got to know each other, well I will appreciate us being good friends in sincerity, honesty and trust, to share ideas and discuss about more issues as we talk more about ourselves, and i believe as time goes on there may be something great for us in the future ...What do you think ?


So, where are you now? at work or at home?


I would normally be at work, but today is a holiday in Spain.

I hope you are having a nice day. What time is it over there?


As for me, I'm in the documentation room, it's more like my office because it's close to my room. The weather here is actually warm, how about there, how's the weather over there?


You haven't told me what country you are in.


You know, when you are writing, you should always use "yes". It sounds better.

Okay. My son is smart, friendly and humble. He schools at Elsik High School in Houston, Texas. I opened a Kid save account for him on his behalf that has a maximum amount that can be withdrawn on daily basis but it has to approved by the mistress that takes care of him


Exactly. That is why I have my doubts about our ever being able to meet.

Tell me. Do you have any health challenges.


As for me, I also healthy and fit. I like listening to music, although I'm not a good dancer but I like dancing when I'm happy. how about you?


It's cool listening to nice music, sometimes it can be inspirational, it also softens the spirit.


So tell me, what other things do you enjoy doing? like going to museum, theatre e.t.c.


I like the water, windsurfing, and scuba diving. I also like going to museums..

I see if I'm not mistaken, i think we have almost the same interest, it's such a great feeling and I believe that by sharing all these features in common, we will be able to understand each others feelings and respect each others decision.


That is only something that we can know when we meet.

I'm basically a very positive person who also loves humor and laughter and would like someone with an adventurous spirit and a positive attitude who can see the funny side of life, someone who is open and willing to learn new things. I have a passion for music and a curiosity for life.


Giovanni... stop. Yesterday, you have already told me about how wonderful you are and how you are the perfect man.


Do you have a place in your heart for a man that is ready to give you the love and care you ever deserve? Nice...well i would love to be the man you've ever wanted and i believe with time we will know if we are a perfect match for each other.


Its good to get an upfront and sincere response from you. We need time to talk to each other and get to know much more about each other, There are lot of things we need to know about each other and I'm not a kind of man that rush into relationship or marriage.


It takes time, time will tell and we have to wait for the lord timing,We have to be so sure and certain of ourselves about making sure that this relationship is what we want out in life, We have to be sure and certain of ourselves that this relationship is our future and everything.


But one thing is the same, you do not read my answers.... sigh.


Thank you very much. We don't just jump or rush into things anyhow. Everything in life happen for a reason, my being lonely for a very long time makes me want a companion and a woman to share my feelings with, I'm in search of a soul mate to spend the rest of our lives together.


You evidently need a woman, but I don't need a man.

No one is perfect and we could only give it a trial. Though it is right for us to learn from our mistakes.Which makes you resisting and having hard time trusting someone again in your life. A Relationship is all about TRUST, SINCERITY.


Yes.... but this morning when you were jealous and controlling about a walk in the park was a red flag.

I just wanted to know where you have been.


No.... scroll back and you will see that I am not. Read what you wrote.


I need your email address so I can add you up on Skype. Okay just wait a little im fixing up my Skype ok.


Calls and cam are not allowed here due to security reasons, It's against the Military law for any Army or doctor to use webcam in war zone since Captain Kelvin Robert Bruce was killed during webcam chat with his wife some year ago... But I will try because of you


No problem, Giovanni. I can wait. Don't do anything against regulations.

I will have to hide and do it just because of you.


No, I do not wish you to endanger yourself.

I will tell you when to call me okay, Nobody will have to be hear.


Just to believe and trust me either. I will do anything for you. I just like everything about you. Please I don't want to loose you. I know it time. By March I will be with you. I will take you round the world.


lololol... don't go overboard. There is no rush. I am in no hurry.


Giovanni.... I am not demanding a videochat.


Really. Then you have to trust every words that I'm saying.

I do not have to trust your every word. Where did you get that crazy idea? Even with a videochat


It's my pleasure meeting, you and how are you doing today. I really appreciate you accepting my friend request and I hope you are doing good and where are you from?

I am from Spain and that is where I live. How about you?


I'm from Germany but I'm currently living in Arizona and you have you been to Arizona once before? I was in Spain Barcelona last 8 years and I really enjoyed my staying there and I really love traveling because of the nature of my job and mostly for family vacation and you. Are you a married woman or single?


I'm sorry about that and I'm a single father with one son and I really love him so much because he his all I have left. I also love travelling and what is the nature of your job over there?

I am the mother of four grown children. I am a freelance translator and interpreter for the EU and UN.


I am a private military doctor and I work for the United Nation. How old are they.


Nice job and you must know more about the government and m too that means we have allot in common . You really look younger than your age and has anyone told you that before?


I'm 58 years old and your children do they live around the city there with you?

My daughter, who is a forensic doctor. lives in Granada near me. However, my oldest son is a doctor at the UN base in Naquora, Lebanon. My second son is in Djibouti, He is in the air force and works for NATO, chasing Somali pirates. My youngest son is a police officer.


Wow nice to hear that and your kids will be very proud of you and do you have plans for another man in your life in the future?

I am still recovering from my first marriage. No plans for the future.


Oh really and how long have you been alone and for me I have been alone for 5 years now.

Two years, Roland. What happened to your wife?


I'm sorry about that and I really know how it hurt when we lost our love once an I felt this way when I lost my late wife.


Oh really but you are just 57 years old and we still have long way to go.

My marriage was not made in heaven. Oh, I C. I lost my late wife five years ago through a car accident when she was coming back from the supermarket I really love her so much and I hope for a good woman like her again in my life in the future. I think age is just a number and we don't know where we will found out true love until we meet him or her and I really admire everything about you. You know very little about me.


Yes and I'm not always online here because of the nature of my job and do you have Google chat where we can talk and know more about ourself and let see what the future has or both of us. It really suck here and Google chat is always on every phone please check your phone and you will see it send me your Gmail let me give you a message on Google chat or you can add me up with mine.


The same as two minutes.....lol. In what country are you working?


I'm over here in Yemen for a peace keeping mission and have been here for more than 8 months now and I really miss my son so much and I can't wait to see him.

Not a lot of peace to keep there, I think.


The UN has always promise to give us a break and I hope they keep to their promise soon and this is my last contract before retirement.

A UN contract has clearly stipulated times. So, whatever your contract states.


And you are you still working or you are retired?

lolol... I still have about 13 years to go. I cannot afford to retire.


Oh my God . And how many year have you been working in the government house ,for me I have been working for more than 32 years now and I really can't wait to complete this contract and go back to the state and do you live alone over there? I really want to see your beautiful picture please send me your picture here and I will also do the same.

I have been working for about 28, and I love my job. And yes, I live alone.


Wow, so beautiful. i really love your smile.


Really. Thank you so much and i think no one is too young or old for love, because love doesn't come from your mind, which knows your age, but from your heart, which knows no age. Apart but I do not mind about that I feel true love has no boundaries and you never know where your true love is until you find him or her.

Well, yes. Who wouldn't agree with that?


I agree with you Sometimes the people who are thousands of miles away from you,can make you feel better than people right beside you.If you feel the same then we can communicate and see how it goes from there.

One can never have too many friends, Roland


What do I mean? Just that it is good to have friends.


I really dont like many friends has well but we all need someone by our side and i really think i felt so lonely when i lost my late wife but we have to forget about the past and face the present. My hobbies are too many but to mention few I do like bowling, sports, listening to all type of music, traveling, working out, cuddling, hiking, going for beach, swimming, cooking with my lady,fishing,watching,movies, dancing, reading, camping, I also like having fun with friends. What are your hobbies?

I had never thought of cuddling as a hobby, and you really should not be antisocial. I have friends whom I work with, and we have fun together. As for hobbies, I like reading and playing the piano. I also scuba dive and windsurf on holidays.


That's good to know and what do you like and dislike in a man?

I like intelligent men who make me laugh. As for dislikes, I do not like deception and deceit or men who wish me to be their servant.


That's good to know and I really see the attitude of a good woman in you and I will love to be patient has a friend and I really appreciate our friendship. Tell me how do you live alone with pet or house help because I really feel like you will be lonely like me lol.

I can be alone without being lonely. I travel too much to have a pet. As for the housework, a lady comes to clean twice a week.


Alright I understand that. Have you dated anyone online once before for me? I have never dated anyone online because I'm always busy with work and I need to work hard to take good care of my son. I will be going back on duty now and I'm going to talk to you later when I closed from work and please take good care of yourself and stay safe. Give me a message when you are free and what is the time over there now?

I also have work to do. Here it is 13.00. See you later,


Okay, take care and talk to you later . I'm going to give you a message when I'm free.


PFB too. So what is the time over there now.


You can add and subtract? Take your time and subtract two hours. It is very simple I have never asked you for your time because I can also add and subtract.

I am just closing from work I am in my room now talking to you so what about you are you at work or at home.


I am at home since I usually leave at around 16.00.

That is good. So what are you doing at the moment?


lololololol. I am talking to you, of course. Before that, I was answering emails.


So what do You think about A Distance Relationship? So good to hear from you.


That depends on whom the relationship is with...if one can call talking to ectoplasm.


You woke up early and you also early not like me who slept late and woke up late lol.

and people do not TAKE coffee, they DRINK coffee.


What did you eat for breakfast if I may ask.

I will answer you once because I always have the same thing coffee, toast, and fruit.


So, you do not have to ever ask me that question again....lol and now I have to go to work....I am sure that you have already started work long ago. I will let you return to your patients.


Oh really. You do drink coffee in the morning has well then we can both live together because we have so many thing in common and what time did you go to work and closed. I work by 9 30am and close 5 or 6.

Your English is so ungrammatical that I have no idea what you are talking about.


lol Sorry because I'm rushing this morning and I'm late for work but I have to check on you and talk to you before going on duty.

I start work at 8.30 and finish some time in the afternoon.


Yes I'm already at the camp sine morning but in the office using my computer before going out to check on my client.

Your client? You are a doctor. Doctors do not have clients....sigh. They have PATIENTS. Until the next time.


Yes they client in my office waiting for me before I go to check on my patients in the surgery room. Alright we both have work to do this morning and we can talk later when we are free. Give me a message when you get to work and I will do the same when I'm free and please take good care of yourself for me kisses and hug. I just finish taking my lunch and i thought you will be here before my lunch break, are you still sleeping?

Roland, you are crazy. I am at work. It is 13.25. You obviously have me mixed up with someone else. And you EAT your lunch, not take it. Finally, I live in Spain, not in the USA.


Yes i remember you told me that. Are you still at work? Do you know you are the only person i communicate and feel protected with and i will love to be with you soon after this contract. I know that when you say you love me and I admit that I've fallen for you,I know that I wouldn't shed any tears from now on. I love you and that's what I want you to bear in your mind. Sweetheart you are the one who stole my heart so innocently, but with care and grace and perfect love. Are you here or you are still at work, I just closed from work and im checking on you to know how you are doing. Are you home now? Can i ask you a question?

Yes, I am home now and yes, you can ask me a question... even though it was a very long day. And, by the way, I have never said that I loved you. How could I? We have only just chatted for a few days on line.


Really. Alright nice to hear that and i hope you have eaten? Apart but I do not mind about that I feel true love has no boundaries and you never know where your true love is until you find him or her. How trusting are you? Good morning over here and i just woke up to use the restroom and i hope you are doing good because have not heard from you since yesterday,please give me a message when you are here. Good morning to you over there and it early over there,are you still sleeping?


Roland, you are hopeless. Take your time and subtract two hours. It is 6.30 here and I just finished breakfast.


Okay. What did you ate for breakfast this morning? Are you going to work today and when is your off day,for me I only have Sunday has my off day and you? I'm at work now and I will be going for my lunch break soon and I'm going to wait for you to be here.

I am at work, of course. I am off on Sunday. As for breakfast, yesterday, I told you what I ALWAYS have. If the menu ever changes, I will let you know.


Me too and I have all day and all night to all to you on Sunday it nice you also have Sunday has your off day. You have menu for meals and you are able to keep to that for me I try that sometimes ago but it didn't work out lol.

It is only breakfast, and what does "I have all day and all night to all to you" mean? You have a crazy way of writing English.


That is why you are able to keep to it. I mean on Sunday we have all day and all night to talk to you. Tell me do your friends come over to visit you weekend or you don't have friends?

I have a lot of friends -) I am a friendly person. Most of my friends are colleagues from work and we often have lunch or dinner together.


That's nice but I have only few friends and they are mostly my co workers because it has been long have been working with the UN for more than 24 years now and I also have friends outside the country. And how many years have you been working for the government?

At least you have some friends. I have been working for 27 years.


Wow, that's great and nice and I remember you told me your retirement is not coming any moment from now.

I am 57, Roland, and I cannot afford to retire. Even if I could, I would still work because I like what I do.