I believe with honesty we can build the best relationship.

Yes, I also believe that we can have something unique and special together. Something entirely different from anything that you have ever known before.


I love spending time with you, but I'm always busy in the afternoon that's why I text you 1 00am.

Well, you can have the absolute certainty that at that hour, I will never text you back. At that hour, I am always asleep.


I am glad since if you didn't, there is little that I could do about it.


You know sometimes it's good to send time together some nights.

In person, certainly. I have to get up early in the morning and so I go to bed early.


And now I must return to work and the second meeting. It has been great chatting with you again. Until the next time.


Finally, off work. Hi, John, hope that you are having a pleasant Sunday. I always appreciate a free day.


Happy Sunday to you my beautiful friend, how was your day going?

Very peaceful. I went to Mass and had lunch with my daughter and her family. A very nice day so far.


That's nice to hear. I'm so sorry for the late reply, my colleagues just left my office right now.

That is all right. I know that doctors also work on Sundays.


An hour ago I answered that same question. The answer is still the same. No earthquakes, tsunamis or volcanic eruptions .... yet.


Yes, of course. And I answered...I assume that your day is going as you expected.


lolololol....you will have to prove it to me.


I love spending time with you. But you are not always awake when I really have a lot of time to spend with you.

I go to sleep at 22.00 and I wake up at 6.00. Other than that, I am usually on line in some form,mostly working.


Evidently, I am not going to talk to anyone at midnight or at two in the morning. If you are a night owl, then we are destined to be two trains passing in the night.


Why? You know I always spend time with you when I'm less busy.

Of course. And that is fine. I am just saying if your free time is in the wee hours of the morning, then we will have to spend the time together that we can. In any case, you will soon be leaving.


Ok, that would be nice. I hope so, be because they haven't get to me yet.

I am sure that they will. So, this is just a temporary situation.


Yes, it is. I'm just hoping and also praying each day.

Sure, and since you have been working for them for so long, you know how bureaucracy works.


I'm really patient, because I know everything is going to be ok.

I am sure that it is, and in any case, one has no choice.


I imagine that it must be very hot there during the summer.


Yes, it is. How's the weather conditions over there?

Exactly like Damascus, Syria. Very hot. In fact, Granada has about the same temperature. Actually, your temperature is now cooler than ours.


According to Google, the repository of all knowledge. Easy to look up temperatures.


Heavens What did I do that was nice? I am a nice person, generally speaking, but in this case, I was merely curious.


It is part of my job. I can usually find almost anything that I am looking for on Internet. A question of motivation.


I want our conversation to be very private ok.


Ok I promise to do that.....Good morning, Pamela. Just came to check on you before going to work, hope you have a lovely day ahead.


Thank you, John. I just saw your message. I also hope that you have a nice day.

Good morning beautiful. Hope you had a calm night? I'm sorry for the late reply, I was really busy at work, I just arrived at my office right now.


No problem, John. I am used to men who are very busy. I had a lot of stuff to do at work as well.

Thanks for your understanding. How was your day at work today?


So sorry, I thought you said it was good. My bad.


A lot of headaches, which I had to resolve. Some people do not do what they are supposed to do.


If they do not do their work, I am responsible.


You said you are having headache right? Why the insults.


I said nothing about having a headache. Scroll back. And I do not take medication for anything. Perhaps you are talking to two people at the same time. Always a mistake.

Scroll back and check our conversation right now, you will see what I'm talking about. You told me about headache.


Headaches . No mention of a physical headache.

Okay, now I understand. Now it's we both mistakes. I'm sorry for misunderstanding you.


Okay, and I am sorry for misunderstanding you.

And besides I'm not talking to anyone, you are the first woman I'm talking to over here.


I'm I the only man you are talking to over here?


Of course. I told you about my generals.


And I am no longer talking to anyone who is in Syria.

Okay, that's good. But I'm in Syria, hope you haven't forgot that?


Yes, I should have said no one else in Syria.

Okay, that's good. Hope you had something to eat?


Actually, I haven't. No time for lunch. One of the things that happens when subordinates do not do their work.


I have few illusions about how hard people work. I have had to do other people's work for various years.


Yes, I work hard. But the hardest that I ever worked was when I had four small children and worked but without a salary.


No, I don't. But I do understand how you feel.


I am glad. Few men do. I do not know any men who would take on a 24-hour job with four small children.

Why? Do you mean your husband did this to you?


I cannot blame him entirely. I chose to have my children and I adore them but I was the one who took care of them. He was always busy with his work. When I got a job, they were older. Then I had to pay a housekeeper...

They are blessed to have such a caring mother like you.


I was/am a good mother but there are a lot of good mothers.


It's time for work now, I will text you when I'm done ok.


Good morning, John. I guess that you must have spent all night working. Good night, John. I guess that your work continues, but even I stop to sleep. Indeed, a lovely song to wake up to.


Glad you love it. How was your day going?

Glad to see you again after so long. It was tricky.


Lol, anytime you see I don't reply on time know that I have been so busy and maybe I have been able to text back. Sometimes I do come back from work lately and I don't want to disturb your sleep at night that's why I couldn't text back.

Well, since you sent a song at 3.00 in the morning, that is evidently not an issue. And I do not have my computer on when I am sleeping.


Oh okay, I understand.Hope you love the song?


Glad you love it. I am willing to do anything just to put a smile on your lovely face and make you happy at all time my queen.


Thank you. I really want to spend time with and get to know you more better, but I have been so busy for some days now.

Yes, I know. You are on and off like the lights but at some point, we will be able to get to know each other. I received a message on FB from General Paul LaCamera yesterday. He had evidently forgotten that we had spoken before.


He liked my smile and wanted to be friends -) congratulated him on having escaped from the terrorists that were holding him from the ransom that he wished me to pay. He erased his message and my answer. The story of my life.


Then blocked him right away so he can't text you ok.

Of course.... Fortunately, I have a sense of humor.


That is why I am glad that you are not a general.


John, I have never gone looking for a man in my life. I am on no dating sites. These are people that appear on my FB page.


Thanks, I promise never to let you down.

There are women who are desperate to be in a relationship. Others are greedy for a wealthy man. I am neither.


I'm ready to love and care for you I want us to build a healthy relationship together.

So I am not desperate, nor do I desire your wealth, nor am I stupid. And as I have often said, we can see what happens between us.


So, what have been doing that has taken up so much of your time?


Lots of patients and we also had surgery.

I hope that they are all recovering well.


Yes, they are. Glad everything went well.


I would love to know, what are the five most important things in your life?


God, Family, health, Living to help others without asking for anything in return. Finally living long enough to tell you that I think you are great. Remember this. I live to help and if you ever need my help, it's there for the asking Good luck and much wisdom.


I love helping others when they don't have any I also care about my family.

Yes, I know that you are very family-oriented.


Without health, nothing else is possible. I have a friend who is dying. She is a smoker. I used to tell her that she should not smoke so much but she never listened. She said that God would protect her. Apparently, he did not. She has cancer in her liver, spleen, and pancreas, Six months at most. So yes, one must have the good sense to remain healthy.


She is dying. No hope. It will be a miracle if she survives more than six months. She lived a life of bad habits. Drinking and smoking in access though besides that, still a friend.


I pray God forgive her, so she can learn her lessons. Smoking is very bad.

I suppose that she will make her peace with God... or not. It is between her and her conscience. I used to tell her that no good would come of her life style, but I do not mention anything any more. At this point, it would not do any good.


Oooooph....well, that will have to be quite a prayer.


Yes, indeed. Ok, I have to work now, I will text you when I'm less busy.

See you later then, John. Have a good evening.


Good afternoon Beautiful. How was your day going?

Good to hear from you. It is going very well. Lovely weather. A long walk by the river, and a lot of work done. I hope that your day is going just as well as mine.


Yes, thanks for asking. I'm on my break time now, so I decide to check on you before going back to work.

And I am fine. It is a normal day. No big problems. How late do you work?


I work sometimes 20 hours when I had lots of patients.

Yes, it must be very time-consuming and stressful.


Does anyone every get used to so much stress? I wonder. There are days when I have a lot of deadlines and I think that I will never finish everything on time. I do... but there is always a price to pay afterwards.


Yes, I do. I am not in the medical profession, but high-stress jobs are in all fields.


And in the end, one learns how to live with the stress.


Yeah. And I have really missed my daughter so much.


Yes. Her mother tried to ruined my life.

I am happy that she evidently did not succeed. Two of my children have toxic ex-partners. It makes things difficult.


Yes. Well truth be told have not see her for a very long time now and I do believe she is married to someone else but all because of her my bank account was blocked because she tired to have access to my bank account without my permission so my bank manager quickly sent me an email after he blocked the account I was so happy about that. She is such an unfaithful human.


Yes, she wanted to use my money and get married to another man. That was so painful, because I don't deserve to be treated that way.

Apparently, she has already done that. And no one deserves to be treated like that.


I'm glad she didn't sussed with her evil plans.

It is fortunate that she did not succeed.


Yes, true. Karma will tell on her, and she is going to regret her actions.

Time will tell. I have a Sicilian colleague who says that vengeance is a plate best served cold.


Yes, I think so, too. Let's just forget about her.

Fine with me.... especially since I have never made her acquaintance.


I understand. What are you doing right now?

Evidently, I am talking with you. I am at work, but have taken a break.


I can figure out my own schedule. They do not care as long as I get everything done on time.


That's nice. You are indeed a hard working woman.

I like my work. Language is a game for me.


and do a lot of translations and revisions.


I would also love to learn some language, and I guess you are going to teach me.

Whenever you like. I only get exasperated with colleagues whose work I have to supervise and who are sometimes not careful.


Oh, I understand https youtu.be/A3QAqZQYLIQPFB Ever since seeing Titanic, I have always loved that song.


I do not know anyone who doesn't feel touched by it.


and I thought it was mostly a "chick flick". Glad to meet a man with sensitivity.

Thanks and I'm also glad to meet such a sensitivity woman like you also.


Yes, I am sensitive. In many ways, we are very much alike.

Glad we do. I like the song, but strange to see Michael Jackson interested in a female...


Yeah, I was also shocked seeing him with a female....

You know, one of the things that I did not like about him is his desire to have white skin. He was immensely more attractive when he was himself.


When he went through all of those treatments, he became someone else who never seemed quite real.


Yeah, I know. But I love his songs so much.


Glad you love it. And I also have one last song for you.

Tell me....lololol....you have very eclectic tastes . I had not heard of Brandon Davis but I also like the song. I do not listen to country all that much, but some of the music is good. My sister is a professional jazz pianist in Barcelona. http She performs and composes. I play the piano a little, but as well as she does.


Wow, so lovely https youtu.be/2Vv-BfVoq4gPFB Yes, you are right. Lovely, like all of the music videos that you send.


Nice to see that you are back.I hope that all is going well for you

Yes, thanks. How was your night of rest, hope you slept well?


Yes, but not that much. I will be less busy in the evening.


Yes, but I have some patients, I won't be working that much.I will be less busy in the evening.


And you will have time to talk to your daughter. She is at an important age where it is necessary to keep communication open.

Sorry I don't speak to my daughter that much. And I talk to her whenever I want, that's not a problem.


Adolescence is when it is most important to talk with children. As I have found after raising four of them. During that period, they usually think that no one understands them and have a lot of problems . And if you can talk to her whenever you want, why don't you speak to her much?

It seems that you have disappeared again.I guess that my question was too difficult.


No, not at all. You suddenly disappeared 50 minutes ago without saying anything. I was just wondering why.


I told you I will be going to the hospital, because I had some patients that I need to attend to.


I said I will have more time in the evening.

but when you left, you did not say anything. That is not courteous. And I had no idea that you had left.


You tend to do that a lot. Any way. I will let you work Perhaps tonight then when we coincide.


Thanks for your understanding, I will spend time with you tonight before going to bed.


Hi, John. In Syria, it is now 22.40. I assume that this is night and that you are no longer working. It is now 11.35 PM in Syria, which I assume is when you said that you would not be 'busy'.. I do not know your definition of "night", but it must be different than mine. Although you profess your interest in having a lasting relationship with a 'good woman', we have never as yet had a conversation that has lasted more than 20 minutes. Apparently, you are only 'free' in the wee hours of the morning. Unfortunately, I am not free then . Needless to say, the fact that you are always working is not a problem. I am an expert in men who are always working since I was married to one for 40 years. I am going to sleep now because as I have learned from experience, there is absolutely no man who is worth losing sleep over. I have to work tomorrow, and I need to have an active mind. Perhaps you have no need of rest, but I do. I wish you a pleasant evening/night. It is indeed a pity, but it seems that we are destined to be forever separated in time and space.


I see. Why are you having negative thoughts in your mind woman I'm a man who truly respect women, but please I said I will text you when I have time that's not a big deal.

Fine, John. Whenever you have time, let me know.....just as long as it is not 2.00 AM in Syria.


Good morning. Hope you had a calm night. Just came to check on you before going to work.

Good morning, John. The night was fine. Thank you for asking.


Thanks, you too. I will text you when I get to the office ok


Hi I will be back from work in 2 hours time. Hope we can spend time together?

I guess that you finally got to the office. As for messaging at midnight......no.


Good afternoon dear. How was your day going?

Good afternoon. It is going pretty much like always.


Yes, that is where I usually am at this time.


Ok, you can text me when you are less busy.

I can take a break. And as for texting you, that is more or less a lost cause.


Yes. You have an excellent track record for only being available at midnight and for saying that you will text and then never do.


How do you mean? I told you I will text when I had a chance.

If you scroll back, you will see a recent example.


I got back from work lately sometimes that's why I didn't text you.

You said that you would text when you got to work, just to let me know that you had arrived. Nothing until past midnight.


Well, it is not important. Just don't say you plan on doing something and then not do it. If you are not going to message, that is fine. Just don't say that you will.


Ok I won't do that next time, I'm so sorry about that.


Yes we will. I'm at the office right now, so we can talk little bit more before going back to work.


I will have a late lunch. I had to send off some texts. It has happened before. I will survive.


I am sure that you are often too busy to eat. It happens at work.


The bottom line is that your patients are more important.


Yes, you're right. They are really important to me.

I would hope so. That is the way a doctor should feel.


Yes, you're right. And I'm really grateful for my job.

Doubtlessly, you are very good at it. Otherwise the UN would not want you to remain there.


Yes, I have required for my early retirement but they haven't approved it yet. It's been 6 months now I required for my early retirement but I haven't heard from them yet.

I am sure that eventually, they will get back to you. It is just a matter of time.


Sorry. I thought that you had disappeared again. Apparently, you had not. After 15 minutes of waiting I returned to work.


LoL, why do you think I disappeared, I'm only working on some documents at my office that's why I didn't reply quickly.

Well, unless you tell me, I have no way of knowing.


I work all night so I won't go to work early today, I will be working on some documents at my office then get some rest.

Sounds like a good plan. My best time is early in the morning. I wake up at 5.30 or 6.00 and so I am never online after 22.00.


Good afternoon, beautiful. How is your day going?

It has been a very busy day. I just saw your message. I will doubtlessly survive, but I have to prepare documents for three trips at the end of August and September.


Hope you don't stress yourself that much?


That's good to know. https youtu.be/6FJapX0fR84PFB

Very nice video. I hope that things are going well for you as well.


Yes things are going well with me. Hope you too.

As I have already said, a lot of work, but I have managed. Have you heard from the UN?


No I haven't heard from them yet, and it's bothered me so much.

That is totally understandable. You told me that it has been six months.


It might sounds understandable to you but that's just it.

What is understandable is that it bothers you. They should not take so long. Six months is too long to wait for a yes or no.


I am sorry that there is nothing that can be done about it.


I guess they don't want me to leave until my service is done.

That is understandable since I am sure that you are highly valued.


I wish I know how to call you right now, I would have done that right away.

I know that communication is difficult. There is always GoogleMeet. That is what we use at work.


Can you call me let's see if it's going to work? Please do not call on the video, because it's not allowed over here.

I have never called anyone on GoogleChat when it has not been a video call. It would probably be easier if you called me.


I don't know as well, that's why I asked if you can call me. You know I don't know about this app that much. That's why I asked if you had a WhatsApp.That's more better than here.


If you don't mind, can you download Whatsapp that would be more better than here? Trust me.

Here is a way that we can talk. Turn off your camera and no problem.


Sorry I can't talk on the video. I guess I told you that.

No, no video. Just talk. You click on it and then disactivate the camera icon. That is what I have done.


A first step is to hear what we sound like though the connection was not the best.


I understand. We can both call each other whenever we have the chance or time ok. Your voice is so lovely and I'm also glad I know I'm talking to the real you. Going back to work now, have a lovely day.


Good morning, John. Thank you for the flowers.


That's good to hear. What are you doing right now?


Good morning Pamela. Hope we can talk more better today?

Hi, John. Glad to see that you are back. Hopefully today, we will be able to talk BETTER. "More better" is totally ungrammatical. I know that you lived in Germany as a child, but don't say that to your patients. Otherwise, they will think that you do not know English.


Yes I know. Glad you understand me more better, I never told my patients such.

Well, not that grammatical errors are the end of the world but it is best to speak as correctly as possible.


Yes I do. You are the only one who understands me more better than anyone else, I'm so shocked.


Anyway, I am glad that you believe that I understand you.


Yes, I do. And I do believe and trust you also.

That is the basis of any good relationship.


Yes that's the best and I'm also glad you do believe and trust me also.


and though we have had few long conversations, that is all right. I think that we understand each other perfectly.


Yes we do. What are you doing right now?

lololol....I was waiting for you to ask that. It is one of your favorite questions. I am obviously writing to you since I am off work. Tomorrow I have to go on a trip for a few days.


Lol, so you now know my favorite question.


Can I call you now. Since I'm less busy right now.

Well, the connection is really not very good.


Well, if you like, we can try for a few minutes.


I guess the internet connection is really poor as you said.

I was waiting for you to send the connection.


You try it from your side if it will go through ok.


Well, it's not rocket science. Here is the code meet.google.com/sbv-itzg-tzp. I guess that it is not going to work. A pity, but texting is also fine. Okay, I just cancelled it. A great pity, John. Despite the fact that we understand each other so well, our conversations are always so short....sigh. Perhaps one day.

Good morning Pamela. Please always try and ask if I'm ok or not, because sometimes you don't know what's wrong with the person you are talking to ok. If you are the one who haven't speak to me for days now, I will surely ask if you are ok or not.


Hi, John. Since you were the one that disappeared, I assume that you had a good reason to do so. I knew that you would eventually get back to me. What happened?

I'm having headache, I haven't been able to work for two days but glad I'm ok now. That's why you see I haven't text you for some days now.


I never get headaches, but I have friends who have migraines. I know that they can be quite painful. I am glad that you are better.

How was your day going? Are you at work now?


The day went fine. And I am no longer at work.


It was good, I'm trying to call you but it's not going though. You called me let's see if it's going to work.


Let's forget about calls since they don't work.

Ok. I just came to check on you before going back to work. Guess we talk more better tonight.


That is nice of you. You should try not to work too hard because of your headaches. And please remember that "more better" is not grammatical.


When you say that, it gives me a headache.

Lol. Don't worry I will try me possible best to text you ok.


Text me if you can, and if you can't, I know that you have a good reason not to do so.


I know that you have a lot of work and many patients to attend to.

Thanks for your understanding, when I'm done working I would love to hear your lovely voice before going to bed.


Well, that doubtlessly depends on the Internet as well as the time that get off work.

Good morning Pamela. I'm so sorry I didn't fulfill my promise.


Hello, John. Thank you for the apology. I know that things happen. Good night. Fortunately, you did not say that we would talk today so you can rejoice that you have not broken any promises.

Good morning Pamela. I'm so sorry for the late reply, I'm really busy with work. How is your day going?


My day is going fine. Good to hear from you .

I'm getting ready for work now, I will text you when I'm done working if I have the chance.


I come back so lately today. We will talk more better tomorrow morning, ok.


As I have repeated told you, "more better" is totally ungrammatical, but hopefully, you will reappear at some point in time.

Good morning Pamela. Hope you had a calm night.


Hello, John. As always, it was nice to hear from you. Your message came when I was working and I was unable to answer it. I hope that all is well with you and that your headaches have disappeared.

I'm fine now, thanks for your caring. What are you doing right now?


I am finishing up at work, but I can take a break.

A pity that you are so good at disappearing...sigh


I just have to be honest with you, you are the one make me to go through my Google chat.


I don't talk here that much because I'm not used to this.

Since I hardly ever see you, I imagine not.


Sometimes when you text me, I don't get your message. It's because I don't usually use this app that much. I only used WhatsApp.


I wish you are on WhatsApp, we can be talking each day both day and night. Can you download Whatsapp now?

Well, John. I know that WhatsApp requires a real phone number, and I don't give that out lightly. So no.


That's doesn't matter, I can give you mine if you don't mind.

I do mind. If you give me yours, you will have mine if I call you.


I know you really want to talk to me and I'm also interested knowing you more better.

So no. What I would like is a videochat, which we could do here and I know that you do not wish to do that, which I respect. So you can respect my reticence about WhatsApp.


Good morning Pamela,glad you are back home.

Hi, John. Yes, I returned the other day. It is always good to return. I have to leave again on 27 September , but it will only be for three days. How have things been going for you?


Good evening Pamela, I'm so sorry for the late reply I have been busy with work and I just got to my computer.

Good evening, John. Nice to hear from you Now, I am the one who is working until late. A pity that our schedules make it so difficult for us to coincide. Perhaps one day.


I pray one day. I will be less busy so we can spend some time together when you are less busy ok.

Well, John, so far, you have been the one that is always busy. This is natural because you are a doctor, and I accept that, of course. BUT....please don't make it sound as though I am the one who is always busy and absent for days on end. That is you.


I know I'm the on who is not talking to you for a while now, but it's ok we can talk more better now ok.


I work during the day. Obviously, I cannot see all of your messages the moment that you write. I have seen this one, and I am pleasantly surprised... after such a long silence. It is good to hear from you Evidently, you are not accustomed to women who have a busy work schedule that matches your own.

Lol you are right about that. How was your day going today?


My day is going very well. Especially now that you have appeared. A pity that you did your Houdini act once again, but, don't worry, it is something that I have come to expect.


Praise the Lord. You write. I answer five minutes later and then you are gone for two hours...lol. But now that you have appeared....all is well. I am almost getting used to it. So no problem.

So sort about that, I think about you all day.


And I also like you. You are one of the nicest people that I know.

Thanks, I promise to always be for you my Queen.


I will all take my time and write to you busy or not.


That sounds like an early New Years Resolution.

We are going to spend some time together tomorrow trust me at this.


Thanks for believing in me and I promise never to let you down.


As I said, I am sure that time will confirm what you have just written.

Can I hear your lovely voice before going back to work please.


You have heard it before. If you want a GoogleMeet, fine.

Yes I know but I still want to hear your lovely voice one more time.


Ok. I'm going back na to work now, talk to you tomorrow.


Yes, John. Until tomorrow. Nice to be in touch again.


Yes I know you don't do bitcoin. That's why I apologize to you it was a mistake.


I was at a meeting at the University of Lisbon to evaluate their linguistic research. Being in Lisbon was fun, but afterward I have to send in a report about what I found.


Not exactly interesting for everyone. I enjoy the travel and the evaluation, but I don't enjoy writing the reports.


I imagine that as a doctor, it is a quality that you have developed.


Yeah. And I pray the UN respond to me quickly.

Obviously, your prayers are unfortunately not being listened to.


I really want to be with you and spend the rest of my life with you if it's ok with you.

And I would really like to meet you, and if all goes well, then spend the rest of my life with you.


At some point, you will be able to go see your family, even if it is only for vacation.


That is what I meant. To go see your daughter.


You and my daughter is the only family I have right now. Yes I miss my daughter so much.

Each year, everyone in the world has vacation time. I am sure that you will have yours as well.


I know how the UN works. Vacation is something that everyone has there. It is not a question of a divine event. They do not imprison their employees for years without vacation leave.


Good night and sweet dreams,talk to you tomorrow.

Thank you for the good night. I was already asleep at that hour. I hope that you have a good day.


Yes I did, hope you also had a lovely day?

I am at work, but so far, all is well. Thank you for asking.


Good afternoon babe, hope you had a great day?

Hi, John. Hope that your day is going smoothly.


I went to work at 7.30 and I am in my office now, thinking about walking home. I have been revising different reports.


Work keeps on even after one leaves the office.


Hope you don't stress yourself that much?

Since I live by myself, I can more or less parcel out my time.


I got home about 30 minutes ago.How are things with you?


Wonderful. Then things are the way that they should be.


Yeah. I will text you when I get back from work ok.


Good afternoon babe, I'm so sorry I couldn't text back yesterday.

No problem, John. I know that you have a busy life.


My day is going well since this is a day that I can work from home.


Lunch was long ago and far away. It is 15.23.


Ok. So are you working today or it's your day off?

I told you that today is a day to work from home. So I have been working. Read what I write, please. However, now I am winding down.


A great pity. Maybe you will get to like it over there.


It is a good Sunday. Two of my grandchildren came to stay the night and we had fun making cupcakes this morning.


No I'm not working today. It's my day off.


Why do you always ask me that. The answer is always the same. Quite evidently, I am at the computer talking to you. I think that you should eliminate that question in the future along with asking what time it is.


No problem. It is merely a comment to let you know.


see you, John. I have a lot of things to do today. Perhaps later.


Good morning babe, hope you had a calm night?

Yes, John, Thank you for asking. I am still at work, but just wished to say hello.


Ok, have a lovely day.Text me when you're done working, ok.


Hello, John. Today I left Granada for Innsbruck. Actually, I am still on my way. I am now waiting in the Vienna Airport for the connecting flight to Innsbruck, which has been delayed. I hope not to arrive too late because tomorrow will be a busy day.


Hi, John. Actually, I am still in Innsbruck working. It is tomorrow when I will fly back to Spain. Everything went well, but I am a little tired. It will be good to be home.


Yes, John. I returned on Friday. Nice to hear from you again.

Glad to hear that. Hope you enjoyed your trips?


Well, actually only one to Austria. Enjoyment is relative when one has to work all the time. So, I did not see much of Innsbruck.

I'm sorry about that. Are you working today?


John, I already worked today.. I have been home for two hours or so.

Good morning Pamela. Hope you had a calm night?


As you know, John, I always sleep well. I hope that you did as well.

Yes I did. I know you might sometimes feel like I do not love you as much as I claim I do. Please know that I truly l love you. My schedules may be too tight that I may have to leave your messages unresponded to, but now that in my head and heart, you take a very irreplaceable place. My heart beats for you and you alone.


John, I understand totally. I also have a lot of work, and I have not misinterpreted your silences.

I will try my possible best to make sure I spend time with you always.


John, I know that your intentions are the best and that you always spend as much time as your schedule allows. Please don't worry.

Thanks for your understanding. Are you at work now?


Yes, but I am doing something at the computer. When I finish, I will leave to go home.


Sorry that I did not get back to you John, but things got a bit hectic. I hope that you are having a nice day.


That's great. Are you at home now or already at work?

Nice to see you. I have been at work since 8.00. As you know, I do not get home until 16.00.


So, if you are there, I will see you then. I cannot text when I am at work.


I am at work and I just received an interpreting job with an international group of geologists, who are going out to find prehistoric remains near a place called Alicun de la Torre . Needless to say, it is the middle of nowhere, and I have been warned that there is no wifi or phone coverage except in higher parts of the town. The hotel claims to have wifi, but I am skeptical. Since they will be looking at bones for five days, I will be less available until I return on Saturday. I just wished to let you know.


Back from work today. If you are free, let me know.

Good morning babe, hope you had a calm night? Are you busy or what?


Hi, John. If you have read my messages, I have told you that I am out in the field with a group of geologists. My possibilities of messaging you are limited until Saturday. Ever since I have met you, I have been understanding about your hectic work schedule. I expect you to be the same about mine.


This place is out in the middle of nowhere, and there is little or no phone coverage.I hope so.


Hello, John. I have just returned from work. It has been a long day out in the field, but fortunately, I will be returning home on Friday. I hope that things have gone well for you.


Hi, John. One more day of this, and then I will be finished. Since I have been away all week, I get the day off on Saturday, which will be wonderful. I am also looking forward to being able to have normal conversations again without connectivity problems.


That's great. Hope everything is ok with you over there?


Since you are so busy, you are not the most constant of correspondents but, of course, I understand.


Now I'm not that busy anymore because I don't have much patience anymore.

You do not have many patients? ...or much patience. There is a HUGE difference.


So we can be spending time with each other's. I don't have much patients.


Many patients means a lot of people who are ill, and whom you have to take care of. Much patience means something quite different.


Then, that is better for you. Have you heard from the UN about your retirement?


Then you are an extremely patient man, who is willing to wait forever.


You know I told you I'm a kind and gentle man, I don't like making problems. I have been working with them for about 30 years now, and I still have 3 more years to work with them, but I don't want that to happen that's why I applied for my early retirement so I can be with my daughter and the woman I love, and be happy again.

And I certainly hope that happens. It will be the best for you.


Yes, me too. That's my prayers each day.

Well, ever since I have know you, you have been praying.


And I truly want us to be happy together and forever.

I certainly hope that that happens one day. My experience is that one must wait for what is truly worthwhile.


You are such a understanding woman, and I love that about you.


John, I am on Internet trying to get caught up with the plethora of emails that I have received.


As you know, I am a translator and interpreter. I also have designed a terminological database that is available on Internet. I do a lot of work online. I do not live in a bubble -) and YES, I have a lot of online work that has piled up. That cannot be a surprise.


Oh, I understand. Ok then, we will talk more better when you get home.


Ok. Please take good care of yourself. I love you.

And I look forward to talking to you again, John, my love.


My mornings become sweeter and my days become brighter since you have come into my life. Thank you for caring and loving me. Good morning, baby

Good morning, John. It is always nice to hear from you


Yes, I am at home, of course. I have the weekend off. John, unless you do a video call, I am really not interested.


Then you have to download WhatsApp, so we can talk on video call over there.

No, John, not interested. You could just as easily do a videocall with Google.


If you can download WhatsApp then after seeing me on the video call you can uninstalled it back.

If you can talk with voice, you can do video.


Sorry I have told you I can't do it over here. If you are not interested in talking to me then it's fine.

If you can do it on WhatsApp, you can do it on Google. I am not an idiot.


I never called you an idiot. If you are not interested talking to me then it's ok.


Sorry I can't. I can see you are not interested in me, I think I have to move on. Have a lovely day. Bye.


and by the way, you have never had time for me during all the time that I have known you.


After professing eternal love. you have disappeared for days. So....I have realized that you are not in to me.


I have told you that I'm always here for you now. You don't need to be worried any more.

But you never have been anywhere for me.


and if it is not a video call.... not interested.


It's obvious I'm not the only man you are talking to.

lolololol...if that were the case, I would be in a depressing situation. You have never really cared.


I truly cared about you so much. I explain to you why I'm not talking to you that much.


It seems you are not even interested in me.

I am as interested in you are you are in me. That says it all.


Then why don't you want to download WhatsApp if you are truly interested in me?

I do not give my phone number to people whom I do not know.


Really? And we have been talking for a very long time.


Neither do I know you as well.I guess we are not met for each other. Because I can out my phone number to the woman my heart chooses.

Not sure what you are saying. Your grammar is a bit dicey.


Okay. Good morning babe, Hope you had a calm night?

Hello, John. I am at work, but I just wished to say hello. A stressful day, but I will let you know when I return home.


17.06. One hour earlier than where you are.


Well, in Spain, our evening begins a bit later.


Ok. Are you at home now or still working?


If it is a video call, okay. I am beginning to think that you are an Internet fantasy, Otherwise, not interested. Easier to text than to talk.


I can't believe you just call such name.

lololol...you think "Internet fantasy" is a bad name? You have led a sheltered life.


I mean that you I am beginning to doubt that you are real.


How on earth would you said such to me. Can't believe you are trying to call me name because I haven't been able to call you on the video.

John, it is difficult for me to believe that you can become upset after not getting in touch with me for days. I should be upset with you, but I am not. So you can use all of the emojis that you wish.I am not impressed.


Hello, John. I have just landed at the Chicago Airport..I will be in the USA for the next two weeks working. I hope that things are going well with you.


Yes things are going well with me, thanks for asking. Hope you had a safe trip.

It was nine hours and the plane was totally full. So, it was a little tiresome.


I am now waiting for someone to come to get me.


I think that you are in the more dangerous place.


Actually here, John. It is very early in the morning, and I have a long day ahead here in Chicago. I will write to you when I can, but for the next two weeks, I will be very busy.


Good morning babe. Hope everything is ok with you?


am a Christian and I like swimming, listening to music, reading, watching fooPtball and playing golf.


Where will you go after Yemen? And what is a software developer doing in Yemen?

My dear I don't know yet I have to live yemen first before I know where to live with the woman after my heart and my son's. Software engineers work on a larger scale to design, develop, and test entire computer systems and application software for a company or organization.


Yes, I know what software engineers do. I design linguistic resources. So I have worked with them.


So, I know that you can work any place that you wish. So, I was wondering why you are in Yemen instead of with your son.

Yes, you're right. My son is with my care giver I think have told you that before.


Yes, but a caregiver is not his father. I have four children that are grown now. I cannot imagine not being with them when they were growing up.

Yes I understand I love them so much and they can't do with out me their father because I'm the only one we both have ever since I lost their mother.


This is why I have to live soon because they need me.


You really should not mix up "live" and "leave" and if you say "they", then you have more than one child?

Oh thanks for that it was a mistake. Yes my dear I have two son's.


Scroll back, and you only had one . Oh dear....Neither looks 14. And if you have two sons, and if they are that small, you are crazy to have left them to live on the other side of the world.

Their names are Ruben and peter. Ruben is 13 and peter is 15.


Your Facebook son was 14. And that picture must have been taken a while ago. Are they in the USA?

No my dear, I never said 14. Yes the picture was taking when we where together in new York.


They live in north Carolina. I communicate with them always.


You are right. You never said 14. You said the following "I have only one son named Ruben he is 15 years old"


Communicating is not quite the same as raising them and living with them, but that is your affair.

Yes you are right. That is why I what to leave soon.


Anyway, I have to go now. There is work tomorrow, and I still have to get a lot of things done.

Okay my dear take good care of your self. Have a nice day. You can text me anytime you are less busy. Once again thanks for your time I really appropriate your care.


My love, I pray may God angels protect you true at the night, May God grant you a beautiful good night full of His blessings and mercy.


Yes my heart I do, From my own opinion, when it comes to marriage, there's actually nothing superior than being with your soul mate, some one who truly adores you, understands you, cherishes and loves you the way you are, don't you think so?


You doubtlessly had a good marriage. I did not. Thus, I am not eager to enter the world of domestic slavery again.

Well, I don't think that the age or the distance between us should be a barrier, rather, the most important thing is for us to be sure if we really find understanding, happiness and joy within each other. Above all, I think love is the greatest, don't you also think so?


As I recall, there is not much of an age difference between us. As for distance, that is more of a problem since I do not fall in love with anyone on Internet.

Okay my love. Sweetheart I'm busy now I will text you when I'm free. Take good care of yourself.


Bye for now. Hello my love. What are you doing? Good night my love. Every day I spend with you is the new best day of my life sleep well, and have sweet dreams. Hope you are tucked in nice and tight. mkruben8 gmail.com My love, that's Ruben email he said he will like to speak with you and know more about you. Please can you write to him so you both can have good conversation from there you can also hear from peter as well you know Ruben is the senior.


Mike, sorry, but I barely have time to write to my own children and grandchildren. Any correspondence will have to wait until I meet you . Right now we are just chat friends. It goes without saying that until you were really important for me, I would never expect there to be any communication between you and my children.

Okay my love. I'm glad to hear from you sorry for the late reply I was busy with work


If you can't help me with just an Amazon card what else can you offer me.

If you are interested in me for my money, you are talking to the wrong woman....lol.


Since you can't help my kids, what are friends for? No I'm not after you because of money okay.


Thank you honey,I will inform you once I finalize with the company,I love you honey.


Thank you so much honey. I have to go back to my duty post now,I will chat with you later when am less busy.


Good morning honey,how are you doing today? Hope you are doing good.

Hello, Mike. I just woke up. I hope that your day is going well, and that you have less to do because it is Saturday.


Hello my love, how are you doing. I miss you so much. Sorry for the late reply I was busy with work. I hope you are good?

Since I have not heard from you since Friday, you must have indeed been very busy.


I'm very sorry about the late reply my dear. I was very busy at work. And how are you doing over there today I hope you are fine?

Right now, I am in New York, on my way back to Spain. I have also been very busy.


Okay my love, I wish you luck. Have a safe flight ñ and please let me know when you land. May your air be clear, the flight be smooth, the plane be safe, and the sky be blue Go wild in duty free, and have a safe journey.

lololol.... yes, that sounds like a good plan.


My love I'm a little busy now. I will text you when I'm less busy.

No problem. Then we will talk when I return to Spain tomorrow.


And the journey was safe. I have just arrived home.


Hello honey,thank God you arrived safely,how are you doing today? Hope you are doing good. PANAF OIL & GAS UK LIMITED sent me an email today to inform me that they have finalized with the delivery company that's to deliver the consignment to your address,They instructed we send an email to the delivery company to know when they will be leaving for Spain to deliver the consignment to you . Kindly send an email to the delivery company for more directives,here is their email address Info etcdelivery.com. Please do not hesitate to give me feedback on your discussions with the company. I love you honey.

I have no doubt that they will get in touch with me very soon. I have just sent them the email.


Yes. I even get a day off after arriving yesterday to get over the jetlag. So, all is fine.


Hi, Mike. Just to give you an update on your money transfer. The company asked me to provide them with something called a "safe reference number". Evidently, I do not possess this number . I informed them of this, but they have not answered. I guess that this process might take a while.


Oh honey, sorry I fought to send it to you here is the safe reference number Txl. I love you honey. Hello honey,how are you doing today?hope you are doing good. Have you contacted the company?

Hi, Mike. Yes, I did. I sent them the number this morning. Doubtlessly, they will get back to me. Why didn't you give me the number sooner?


Sorry honey,I forgot to send it to you while chatting with you then.

We haven't really chatted in quite a while. You have been very busy.


Yea honey I have been so busy with my job.


and now I am busy because I have to leave for work. I will let you know when the company gets back to me.


Okay honey,have a nice day. I love you honey. Where are you now?


Alright dear, I hope I'm not disturbing you.

Sorry to not be able to chat. This is not a good time


However, I have sent my information to the company.


Text me when you're free. Oh, okay. Thank you so much.

Hi, Mike. I have a short break now. Nice to be home from work now.


It's my pleasure sweetheart. Sorry for the late reply. I hope you have a nice day at work and it wasn't stressful?

No, I rarely get stressed. A bit of jetlag, but that is all.


Okay my love, so what are you doing right now.

Before chatting with you, I was chatting with Express Trust Couriers.


Okay my love, how is everyone doing over there I hope they are all fine as well.

All of my family are fine, and thrilled that I have returned from Texas. I hope that your family is also in good health.


Yes my love, and I'm so happy that you came into my life I can't wait to have you by my side.


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When you leave out the subject of your sentence, you sound like Tarzan.


and being "up to something" sounds exciting.I assure you that my life is generally uneventful.


Okay. Please can you tell me more about yourself.

So are you a soldier, a doctor or what? I am a freelance translator and interpreter for the EU.


I'm a soldier. Okay that's good to know.


I would imagine so,.... lol. If it is not, then there is little to be done about it.


My Dad died when I was just a Kid, Mom died 2001, I'm the only Child of my Parents, My Daughter is the only close family I have got at the moment, she's my best friend, sister and everything to me.

How old are you? Where did you go to college? How long have you been in the army? How long do you plan to stay in Syria? Do you have any friends?


That is the answer to the first question.


I graduated from university of south Florida. And I've been in the army for 15 years now. And I've been in Syria for 5 months months. I don't have a lot of friends Just a few.

You joined the army when you were 44? What did you do before that? I thought that you could not join that late. The maximum age to join the Army as an enlisted Soldier is 35, while Officers must accept their commission before age 31.


Yes I did join late but the maximum recruitment age is 42 not 39 I had a friend who's father was a general. Helped me through.

Well even if that is so, you joined at 44 with the help of a general? It still sounds a bit weird. A huge credibility gap, but okay, why not? Keep going.


Before I joined the military, I worked as a Chemical Engineer with a Chinese Engineering firm based in U.S.A . So sorry for the late reply was little busy.

Okay. Now I know a little more about you.


Okay. Can I see a picture because of you?


Wow you are so beautiful, you need someone to be with you.


I am not an easy woman to live with. I think that I expect too much.


What do I mean? It is easy. I would like a husband and a wife . Basically, everyone needs a wife, someone who will take care of the house, cook the food, and wash the clothes. Who would not wish for someone like that? That said, I am not gay. So, for other contexts, I would definitely prefer a husband. Here in Spain, most men of my age wish to be taken care of.... and served.


I have been there, done that.... So, I am definitely not interested in a traditional man, who expects me to do those things.

I understand. I enjoy talking to you Pamela. You are a nice and honest woman.


I understand. Thanks God for giving a friend like you.


Of course, we can be friends, Louis, but I think that God, if he indeed exists, has other things to think about.

Yes, you're right. I feel comfortable talking to you Pamela.


That's good to know. I have to take some rest, Pamela. I will chat you later okay.


Every morning is a great blessing. Have a great day. Good morning

Good morning, Louis. Nice to hear from you.


That's good to hear. You are a good friend, from the first day we meet here,I can't stop thinking of you.

You must have very little to think about.


Yes, you're right. I'm serious about it.

Well, since we have only chatted for a day or so. I am not at all serious.


Yes, I know. How is your plan for the Day? Are you still at home?

I guess that you mean "what" is my plan for the day. I am finishing up the documents for Denmark where I fly to on Monday.


I hope you are having a wonderful time over there? Oh okay.

A wonderful time where? I am working. I like my work, of course, but a "wonderful time" is a bit excessive.


I'm little busy now I will chat later okay. I will chat you when I'm less busy.


I just returned from Mass. It is a pleasant Sunday.


I just told you. How are things in Syria?


I mean I thank God Almighty for keeping me alive.


I am sure that you also participated in the effort. God has been overworked as of late.

Yes I do.I hope each year lets you know how much of a blessing you are to me. I wish I could tell you in person how happy being your friend makes me and maybe give you a hug.


Hahaha. What are the most important five thing in your life?


My family, my family, my family, my family, and my family.


You know, "wow" is not the only exclamation in the English language. A bit of lexical variation would enhance your discourse.


I think that you meant.... "What are you UP to?" Are you sure that you are American?


Yes, it was, but you did not see it until I told you. That was a bit weird.


I am packing because I leave tomorrow for Denmark. That is my plan.


If it were for tourism, it would be. But it is for work.


Ok I'll leave you to go on with your packing. I'll be getting busy myself.


As I told you Louis, today I have traveled to Denmark. It has been a long day of work, I am now finished until tomorrow.


I certainly hope to stay safe, Louis. Denmark, after all, is not Syria. Today will be another long day, but I like my work.


What's your work? Do you know how much I worry about you? I have found myself keep thinking about you always.

As I told you, I work for the EU as a translator and interpreter. And you would do better to worry about yourself.


Your job is great I guess that makes you travels a lot.

The only thing that I risk dying from is writer's cramp. Yes, I travel a lot. It is something that I enjoy.


Then I bet you must have been to so many countries. How is work today over there? And when will you be back To the state.

I have visited a great many countries, yes. I will be returning to Spain on Friday.


By the way, I am not in the USA. You must have battle fatigue.


I bet you Job must be fun. You are a very hardworking and beautiful woman. I love that so much about you.

Thank you, Louis. And yes, my job is fun though there is a lot of previous preparation that goes with it.


Yes, of course, but that only happens about once a year. I mostly travel for work.


lololololol.....I have at least ten more years though I could work until I am 70.


Unless I can find a rich man to marry, I may have to.


Lol you still have a long way to go before your retirement. You already found me. But at least you are rich, why still looking for a rich man?

Well, I have no idea of your finances, but you would have to be well off to pay off my current debt.


I'm planning on buying a vacation home in Scotland, I'm already making preparations for my retirement, God has blessed me enough all I have been praying is the perfect woman for me. Are you in debt?


My late husband had his first stroke two years ago. It left him an invalid.


He needed 24-hour nursing care and did not want to go to a nursing home.


So he put you in so much debt? How long have you been working as an interpreter?

When he died, he left me with huge medical bills which I am still paying off. I have been working as an interpreter for 27 years.


And he didn't get a good pay to help clear off his medical bills.

In Spain, there is a national healthcare system, which works fairly well BUT if you are a long-term invalid, you have to fend for yourself. He could have had a place in a nursing home, but he wished to stay at home. Those were his wishes.


I think that now it has gone down to about 88,000 euros.


How long now have you been single since you lost him?


So all your savings and your work is just to clear off the debt your late husband left behind.

Well, about half my salary goes for that. I can live on the other half.


Since you lost him you haven't been into any relationship? How much is your salary?

lololol... I don't have time, Louis.... my financial life is mine. I make a reasonably good salary. All will be better in five or six years when I have cleared off the debt.


At least I do not have to worry about any man pursuing me for my money.


Are you telling you haven't even tried distance relationships? Have you meet anyone online.

A distance relationship is not a relationship.


Since you're still working so you have the mindset to settle down with a man now?

First of all, the man would have to be VERY special.


I am not looking for a man. WHAT do you mean? I need a man who is intelligent and articulate.


Someone who knows how to express himself.


and who does not expect me to serve him hand and foot. I am not an easy woman to live with.


A relationship should be 50/50. But you enjoy your marriage with your late husband right?


I married when I was 15. It was arranged.


He wanted children, a mother for his children, and he wanted his work.


He was also 20 years older than I was. Louis, you must have amnesia. As you know, I have four grown children and even seven grandchildren. One of the joys of having married too young. I am young enough now to enjoy my extended family. My oldest son. He has just returned from Lebanon.


Marriage is very sweet when both partners true love each other, when both partners love and understand each other they will have a long lasting relationship.

Tell me something that I do not know already.


I want a woman who would truly love me and care for me because I know I have so much love and care to give Wow that's amazing. Is he married now?

He has an ex-wife and two lovely children.


I love your personality. I seek for a serious relationship with you that will lead to marriage, but is just the matter of time, I want us to get real close and probably fix a day we can out on a date, I really want to know more better.

lolololol....all of that will have to wait until we meet... You are very far away.


so don't you feel lonely sometimes? I mean loneliness of not having a your man next to you? I know you travel a lot and that Keeps you busy but the heart is always lonely when you have no one around who truly love you and who you truly love.I understand we are far away that's why I said with time we will fixed a date for us to meet.

Of course, I sometimes feel lonely, but not any man will do. I am particular.


As for me, I feel lonely a lot of times and that's why I need to find my true love, a person that will love me as much as I'll love her. I have a feeling that destiny brought us together for a reason. As time passes by, we'll find out if we're compatible with each other. When you said not just any man it makes me keep having this questions to ask you.

For all I know, you could be anyone. You could be a psychopath or an axe murderer


I want to know if several men have approached you and you both didn't end up well, is that why you keep saying that word?

You could be writing me from the Seychelles Islands or from Hong Kong.


Time will tell, babe. I know I can never hurt someone I truly care about.

I know that I am reasonably attractive, but for me to be interested in a man, there would have to be the right chemistry between us and that is impossible to know on Internet.


I have never in my entire life lay a hand on a woman is against my rules in life and I hate men who does that, I got a friend arrested for doing that I hate rubbish no matter the wrong the woman might've done, that shouldn't make you lay your hands on them.

Well, that would really be a deal killer. Fortunately, I have never had a man hit me. But just because a man doesn't hit you, that doesn't mean that he is THE love of your life.


Babe nothing is impossible I know of so many people who met their partners online and till now they are happily married with kids, I truly believe I can meet my partner in anywhere in this world as long she is the type of woman I want, I don't mind age or distance what really matters to me is the heart and how sincere we are to each other, because I know we will definitely meet I won't waste time in meeting you. How do people fake their love for someone, do you have any idea?

Well, when we meet, that will be the time to decide all of that. People fake love all of the time.


From my own opinion, when it comes to marriage, there's actually nothing superior than being with your soul mate, some one who truely adores you, understands you, cherishes and loves you the way you are, don't you think so?

Just a question of finding that person, I guess.


I can't do that babe, how will I be able to tell someone I love you when I don't really mean it, can you?

I am not saying that you ever have.I am just saying that I could never love anyone that I have never met.


It really takes strength, patience, understanding and discipline to build a responsible family where there's love, peace and harmony and that's the kind of family I want, what about you?

And just because someone says that he loves you, that does not mean you automatically love him back. I already have a lovely responsible family.....lol.


but no one can possibly disagree with what you are saying...lololol.... and you evidently do not suffer from a lack of self-esteem.


That's nice, so tell me, how about your parents? Are they alive?

I am sure that I will eventually be able to discern if you are honest and sincere.


My parents are dead. Both died a long time ago from lung cancer. They were chain smokers so it is not surprising that they did not live long.


It's a pity, we're both in the same situation.That's nice to know and I hope you cherish them.

Well.... my father was an inveterate gambler. He sometimes won, but more often lost. My marriage paid off a gambling debt. So... no, I did not cherish them. In any case, I was mostly raised by the nuns in a convent school in Madrid.


I understand.I'm the only child of my parents. My parents died long ago. my father was a military man who died in a military war when I was 7 years old and my mother died when I was 13 years old. I was raised by a neighbouring teacher, growing up was quite difficult for me but I never gave up and now I have my only daughter and she is the only family I have in this world.

If your daughter is your only family, you should be with her.


I know all about parents who are off living their lives and leave their child in boarding school. Yes, but there are jobs that allow parents to be close to their children.


That's why I want to get my retirement and get married so we all could be together, all I want now is happiness.

That is indeed commendable and what you should do.


I guess that's why I need you lol. As for me, I am a simple man, I don't smoke at all but drink ocassionally, mostly in the company of friends.

The question is if I need you, Louis....lol.


You would need me, babe. I'm sure of that.

Then you will have to prove it to me and you cannot do that online, not even with ChatGPT.


Well, I just want us to be certain of what we actually want. At this stage of my life, I have achieved almost everything I wanted except a united family and it hurts me. My priority is to have a happy family with my daughter and my wife, I know you already had your own happy family but I believe you still deserve to be loved by a man because everyone deserves love Pamela what do you think?

I deserve to be loved by a man, of course.... but as I said, not just any man, but the man that I want, the man that I choose. Men are easy to find. If I wished to get married next month, I probably could. It is merely difficult to find the right man.


My dear we take things one step at time, after getting to know each other more better here while chatting since we are still far away working from there we can create a time for us to meet each other.

When that time comes, we will see what happens.


Lol, now you are mistaken men are no longer easy to find. Not all men are there are real men.

Have they all disappeared? Well, then that must be it. Too many fake men out there and you might also be one of them, for all that I know.


I pray for the both of our dreams to come to pass. I hope you will be able to make out time for us to be together in ..... when I arrive?

And when do you plan to arrive? You are in Syria. I still do not know exactly what you do there. You have only told me that you are a soldier.


What does military men do? To make peace right?

What rank do you have? And which branch of the Armed Forces are you in?


So we are been deployed here for a private mission.

I hope that your mission does not depend on your grammar and syntax....lol. You need to brush up on your English a bit.


The UNITED STATES ARMY , and my rank sergeant E-5, well you're a teacher and also an interpreter you can't compare your English with mine okay, as long as you understand everything I'm explaining to you at least we are good to go.

Well, yes, language is my job. That is why I am interested in a man who is articulate. Of course, I can understand you.... but I am not sure that that is enough...


I told you earlier nobody is above mistakes and stop paying so much attention to my wrong spellings, I am a military man who go to war not someone who is went to learn more about English, I learn different languages in other to survive war zone hope you understand that.

Your style of online chatting is the only thing that I have to go on. Tell me what languages you speak. I speak five perhaps we will coincide on one. And two of my sons are in the Spanish military, and they write quite well.


If you find a man who is articulate and you thought is the right one for you but ended up not been loyal to you and then you found someone who truly loves but not up to your standard of English and he never tries to play smart with you but very loyal which of them will you prefer? Your sons and me are not the same Pamela.

It is not a question of a man loving me. It is a question of whether I can love the man in question. And with or without grammar, I cannot know anything about you until we meet.


I speak Spanish too but not too good in it. Wow, you don't mind if the man doesn't love you?

I would not be with a man who did not love me.


If you loved him so much and he never loved you?

Nor would I be with a man who did not love me.


However, just because a man says that he loves me and claims to be wonderful, that doesn't mean that I have to return his love.


I am telling you that nothing can be known about love until we meet. Go ahead.


How many men have you chatted online? Because from the way you sound, I can see you have so much trust issues.

I have chatted with two or three, but our chatting did not last.


Trust issues? I do not trust ghosts if that is what you mean.


I have not seen, heard, or touched you. So until that happens, you are a ghost and I can only be a ghost to you as well.


But I trust you right that's why I'm still here texting.


If we have no single trust for each how can we make this work for us.

Trust is built up over a period of time. I do not trust ectoplasm.


Trust is part of a relationship, which we do not have as yet.


I need to take my leave for a while I have work to do.


And please know I'm thinking about you. I care so much about you. I must confess I enjoyed our conversation.


What happened to the other guys you have talked to. Why did you stop texting them or you're still texting them?

Your last two questions make you sound both jealous and paranoid. I hope that this is not your true personality shining through..... .


Enjoy your day and please do not work too hard okay.


Hi, Louis. I just returned from work. It was a cloudy and rainy day. Denmark has the virtue of low temperatures even in the summer. I will be returning tomorrow evening. So, I have one free afternoon to see whatever there is to see here. Someone mentioned that there is an old Viking fort nearby. So perhaps I will go and look at it. By the way, and I would appreciate it if you would not call me "babe". It indicates a level of intimacy, which we do not have.


Wow you're not even comfortable with me calling you babe. When will you be going to the Viking fort?

Hi, Louis. I hadn't made an definite plans. After I finish in the morning, I will decide what I plan to do.


I was answering emails, when I saw your message.


Hello, Louis. I hope all is well with you.


Yes, I'm okay thanks for asking dear Pamela. How is work going over there.


Okay, that's good. How are you doing Pamela? Hope you're having some rest after work. Did you eat dinner yet?

Well, Louis, I am now in the airport, where my plane has been delayed. So, I have been waiting here for a while.


I will get back to Malaga at midnight and back to Granada some time in the morning.


Geez, haven't you figured out my time zone yet? It is 19.08.


No, I didn't. How are you doing Pamela are in Malaga now?

Yes, I am here. I arrived very late last night. So I will be back in Granada by noon.


Hey Pamela. How are you doing today. Hope you're good.


Okay, that's good. When do you have to work again? Will you be traveling anytime soon?

On Monday but I have to go to AlmuÒecar on Sunday


Okay, how are you doing? I'm thinking about you, Pamela.You are always on my mind tho work makes me so busy but I always think about you and want to make sure I know you are ok.

lolololol.... thank you for thinking of me, Louis. I know that you must be very busy.


Yes I am but what is funny? I'm thinking about you does it seems funny to you. How are you doing today?

What is amusing is that our conversations are always the same. You are thinking of me and ask how I am. I say fine, and then you disappear until the next time. Which is fine, of course. And I am fine.... just about to leave for work. So,now I am the one that cannot stay.


I see that's why it seems funny to you. Can you text when working?

.... not really unless it is an emergency. I have a job where I have to keep my mind on what I am doing.


So, until the next time. I have to leave now.


Please always pray for us over here okay.


And I really want us to meet you, so maybe next time we can discuss about that. Thank you Pamela you are so nice. Please drive safely. Hugs and kisses to you.


Hi, Louis. I hope that all is well with you.


Yes, I'm okay. How are you doing. I can't stop thinking of you Pamela.

Hi, Louis, I am at work but perhaps later on.


Hello Pamela. I can't stop thinking of you Pamela. I miss you and your gorgeous smile. And my heart and soul misses you more. I can't wait to hold you soon, with God's Approval. In the Lord we will seek together and live a great and Godly life.


Sounds like a plan, Louis. Perhaps one day, it will happen.


You still have a lot of time in Syria, I guess.

Yes, Pamela.I don't find enough words to describe how I feel about you. You possess all the color and beauty of heavens, lush and satiny. Do you know how much I hunger for your gentle touch and the warmth embrace of your body?


Louis, you do not know me and have no idea what I am like. Slow down.

Yes, I know. And as fear can stop you loving, love can stop your fear. I believe this to be true. When I look towards our future, you are always pictured there. I worry and I care for you. This is meant to be, Pamela. I have no doubt whatsoever in my mind.


Then, Louis, it is undoubtedly meant to be.


and eventually the future will reveal everything.


I'll text you later then. Bye for now. ò


Hello Pamela. How are you doing today hope you are good.

Yes, the night was good, I always sleep well.


That's good to hear. Though I'm not there with you, I hope your afternoon to be as pleasant as it would be if we were together Sending my afternoon kisses to you


Okay Pamela.you make smile every minute I talk to you here. You are the best woman on earth


But you should understand I'm working that's why and with time we will definitely make up date for us to meet.My heart truly accepts you we just need time together to make things work out for us very well.


I just want to know you more better. I know you will be the best for me.


Sometimes I wish there was no alarm clock because that is the only device which wakes me up when I am dreaming about you. How are you doing today. Pamela?


Hi, Louis. Nice to hear from you. I am at work, of course, and just saw your message.


I have just arrived from dreams and here is the sunlight greeting me. I have woken up today to make the dreams of last night come true.

Good morning, Louis. My best wishes for a good and peaceful day.


Okay, that's good. Hope everyone over there is good.

Everyone seems okay. The last time that I looked.


Lol that's good to know. A picture of you would made my day dear Pamela.


There is something I love about my night It's sleeping and still waking up renewed of your love My life couldn't have been great this way Thank you for choosing to be mine. Good morning.

Good morning, Louis. I hope that you had a peaceful night.


Yes I will. What are you up to? Any plans?

You ask the weirdest questions. No one is "up to" anything at 7.22 AM. And my plan is to go to work and survive the day.


Of course it is, if I do not wish to lose my job.


What are you doing today? Must be sleeping. Good night Pamela may the angels of God guard and protect you hugs and kisses to you.

At that time, I am always sleeping ..lol. Good morning, Louis.


That's good to know, how are you feeling today?

Great. I just got to work. So I will have to chat later.


Hello, Louis. Work has calmed down a bit now.


That's good to hear. Hope you are good. What are you eating for breakfast?

Yes, I am well. Louis, get real....lol. I had breakfast three hours ago. And I had the same thing that I always have


Please eat healthy and take good care of yourself till we meet okay?


If I did not, we would not be chatting now.


How do you feel when someone upset you? And what will you do to calm yourself down?

I would go to a quiet place and listen to the music that I like the best.


That's perfect same here, I do feel unhappy for that moment; go to a quite place and listening to a cool music that will calm me down. What kind of music do you really prefer?


Not particularly. But I don't dislike it.


People who lie and who are deceitful and untrustworthy.


I like all kind music and I listen to music depending on my mood at that moment. Anything fake, lies, deceit, cheating, quarreling and argument turns me off. I hate untrustworthy people.


I understand you have trust issues because of your experience online and probably what you might have see or heard but we can start building trust until we meet, I just want you to know you can trust me and I will never hurt you in anyway if you are ready to give me a chance into your life little by little. What motivates you?


I'm motivated by life itself, because life is what you made it.


His sense of humor and his intelligence. He must also be kind as well as passionate. He should know how to please a woman in bed.


What attracts me to a woman her Truthfulness and respect. What really makes me get closer to a lady is the person inside, I do considers that more important because beauty fades with time but the person inside appreciates with time, I like women who have a lot of respect and know how to take care of his man, I want a woman with a marriage experience because they understand more about marriage and know how to make a relationship stay stronger without any much trouble , at this stage of my life I'm not here for games or an endless online relationship, all I want is happiness with the woman I want to spend the rest of my life with, soon enough I will get retired after my retirement all I want is just happiness with my partner, so we can travel round the world for vacation visits my places I love traveling alot and I love surprises too, my woman should know how to surprise me makes the love grow stronger and sweeter, nobody is perfect but we can actually make our relationship a perfect one. What do you go for in a man? I go for the inner beauty, it radiates and it speaks for itself over time and for women like you who are family oriented is an added advantage to me.

That is admirable, and I have already told you what I am interested in in a man. All we have to do then is to meet and see whether all of this is true.


That is why I am inclined to believe you.


I believe everything you say to me so you should believe me when I say things form my heart.

but physical attraction can only be perceived physically.


I like real things; I like honesty, truthful, caring and obedient person I dislikes dramas, cheating, lies, disrespect and racist..I want someone that will love me for me, regardless of age, distance, language barrier, cultural differences and all that. Because I do believe love knows no barriers and is the conqueror of it all and all things. When we finally meet, I want you to treat me right, be truthful and honest with me, because I do believe in the gospel truth and I want a long term relationship with someone real....I'm in search of true love and happiness with the right lady. I desire to shower the real lady with lots of love, respect, loyalty, happiness and care.

Great.... when there is love, that is true. When there is love between us, all of those things will occur.


85% of the world is. Lots of lefthanded people in my family, but not me.


Wow. How many car do you have, I have two, AMG gle Benz and 2021 Jeep Wrangler 4xe Plug. Let me look for the picture.

lololol... I have zero cars. I don't even drive.


I do not need a car in Granada. I walk to work.


and as for traveling, in Europe, there is good public transportation.


Are you serious about you not needing a car?


Have you been gifted car as a gift before?

Give me a break...Perhaps that will happen one day.


You don't need a car is it because you don't know how to drive?


I do not have a license; I don't need a car.


"Give me a break" is an expression. It is not to be taken literally. You must have been away for a long time, give me a break means INFORMAL used to express†exasperation, protest, or†disbelief. "give me a breakóI just deliver the stuff".


Okay I thought you need to get some work done for a while. You're really a good teacher.


Because the people that I revise texts for generally make the same mistakes. They don't learn from previous corrections.


and then they get angry when I point this out to them. I have the reputation of being a "difficult woman".


It is difficult being an intelligent woman in a men's world.


I can see that but you're not difficult to me yet. Probably they didn't understand you. And your intentions? Do you have a mentor?

A mentor.... I am the mentor of about 15 people. My mentor is now dead.


That's nice. My mentor is my late dad, he was a nice man, caring and understanding dad, who loves and take good care of his family, he always speaks the truth and he is a self discipline man, my dad is ready to risk everything he has for his loved ones, but I do feel the pain because he never lived to enjoy me, he was really the best dad in the world. he always tells me that uneasy lies the head that wears the crown, so for you to be successful in life you have to face some challenges. What is your biggest fear? My biggest fear is loosing anyone and I don't want to loose anyone close to me again.

My only fear is that something bad will happen to my family.


Nothing will happen to anyone we care so much about let's always be prayerful and positive.


To build a new relationship my dear we need to build trust first at least a little trust before you can build a new relationship even in friendship we still need to trust and to make that work we need to let go of our past experiences we should learn lessons from them and not to make our past life be part of us so it won't stop us from focusing on the future and let's the blessings of the future befall for us, I have been hurt so many times both in marriage and in distance relationships but I still haven't give up yet do you know why because I still believe the right one for me is till out there waiting for me to find her and I will find her I believe once I find her I have found happiness for the rest of my life because happiness is what I really want at this point of my life, I have achieved so many things in life God has blessed me a lot but I don't have happiness and that's what I have been praying to God for him to answer that prayers.. I must confess I feel so comfortable talking to you and I keep getting this inner joy whenever we are texting each other I don't know why but I believe is a good sign for us.

That is quite a paragraph, Louis. Have you ever considered being a preacher or at least, someone's Life Coach? You speak more fluidly and eloquently when you write long paragraphs.


You are going to be my teacher. I'm ready to learn everything you know.


I just want to be more than a friend to you.

I cannot commit to anyone whom I have never seen, heard, or touched. I have told you that before...


I like what you say about yourself, but the proof is in the pudding .


You don't have to be so committed but at least we can start building something little by little I'm not in a hurry but I just can't wait to keep expressing my feelings to you.

There is no law against that, but I can only correspond to a certain extent.


lololol... I meant that there is NO law. I left out a word.... sorry.


Una verdad como un castillo. As they say in Spanish "A truth like a castle".


The same as this morning. I am glad that your work allows you to be online.


I'm glad yours allow you to be online too I'm busy but I still try to create chance to at least text you they say when you care about someone you always try your best to create chance for them.

Since I work at my office and online, there are times when I can juggle my work.


lolololol... that is your answer when you have to say something and do not know what else to reply. Like a place-holder. Don't get angry... I am joking, of course.


That is Granada, the place where I live.


It looks so beautiful. You own your house there?

The castle on the hill is the Alhambra, an Arab palace. I own an apartment.


Yes, it has four bedrooms, and I raised my children here. However, now it is now too large for just me.


Make me understand something babe I thought you said you bought your own house?

You must be thinking of someone else. I have never had a house. I have only had an apartment which I have lived in since I was married. I wish that I did own a house but I have never won the lottery.


Don't have anyone we both having been texting since this morning so you are the only one I'm thinking about right now.

In Spain, houses are only for people with a lot of money. Scroll back and show me where I said that I owned a house then.


You make a lot to afford one or you just don't want to buy a house there, will you love to live in the United States?

I make enough to afford one but I am not interested in a mortgage. And I am only one person. I do not need a lot of space.


Lol I can't do that at all fucking stress, well I was just saying maybe you never told me I just thought.

"f**cking" is a bit extreme. Courtesy is a virtue.


At least you have me now lol so we can have a bigger house all for ourselves to make love anywhere in the house what do you think.

If that happens, then we will certainly have a house together


I don't believe everything but I believe you.

That is nice. I am a safe person to believe in.


But you don't believe I am a safe person you can believe.


According to you you embody ever single positive virtue that a man can have. That is why I need to wait until we meet.


So what do you want, I should stop to been too good so you won't have so doubt about me before we meet. But I'm honest.

In my opinion, no one can be that perfect, but maybe you are.


That's doesn't mean I don't have bad side too as you know nobody is perfect but we can try to be, I have anger issues but I can also control it, what I hate so much is lies and when someone doubt me so much most especially when I'm saying the truth it hurts.

I have not doubted anything that you have told me, just that I cannot accept it blindly


My dear I miss our conversation because I that's what you will definitely say next.


You can't stop me from pouring out how feel to you.

No, of course not. It is a great compliment.


We have been texting for a little while now and you are telling me I can't miss you when we don't text. You don't really know how much you mean to me and what this our friendship actually means to me it means nothing to you but it means everything to me.

I enjoy texting with you but that is not sufficient for me to love you.


I'm not asking you to love me you can hold your love until we meet but that can't stop me from saying how I feel, I'm texting you with a open heart without no rules of saying I want to meet you first when I already believe you because the way we communicate I feel you are very honest with me and you have no reason to lie to me so I believe everything, but you are texting me with so much rules in your head and mind so there is no way you can easily give out your heart to me that easily even if we meet this rules will still be in your mind, so I can understand that fact so much but just believe me when I say things that comes from my heart because is real and that's the truth.

Of course, I believe you. If we could videochat, that would increase your degree of reality.


I can't do that now but I will whenever I can.

No, of course not. If that ever happens, let me know.


Louis.... it is 9.42 here. I am at work. I had breakfast three hours ago


Hello Pamela, is me General Paul. Please write me when you see this.


Yes it is, nice having you here on Chat.

It is easier talking here than on FaceBook.


Yes, you're right I will like us to get to know more about ourselves. can you tell me more about yourself? What are your hobbies, interests, Lifestyle, and Religious belief?

I am Roman Catholic . I like to take long walks and play the piano. I also swim and scuba dive.


Wow, That is all good to know... Well, My Hobbies are reading, listening to music, Sport, Particularly Swimming, walking in the beach and Traveling. I have traveled and been to different places due to my profession.


Wow, that's nice I listen to all types of music, but I listening to love songs more because it makes me feel relieved and relax.

Everyone has their favorite type of music. I also enjoy love songs. You certain stay up late.


Yeah I do most of and this week I am in charge of base inspection. so I am on night duty. I don't often sleep most at night for security reasons.

I am sure that you must do much more than inspect. What are your other obligations?


It is my duty to stay awake while the innocent citizens go to bed and that was the reason why I'm stationed here.

I think that you do a bit more than that. You have to coordinate U.S. component commands, and exercise operational control of U.S. forces as directed by the United States Indo-Pacific Command.


As the General of combine force here in Korea, I am also in charge of Operation planning.

That is what I meant. That is what generals do.


I see you have much ideas about military affairs, that's good of you.

Two of my sons are in the military. My oldest is a doctor deployed with UN forces in Lebanon. He has also been with NATO in Iraq. My other son is a pilot who is in Djibouti, catching pirates. He has also been in South Sudan.


That's good to know about them. Tell me about your family, Parents, and Siblings?

My parents are dead, but I have a brother and sister. On my husband's side, I have a huge family and all of my children are in relationships, and so I have seven grandchildren.


Wow, that's nice indeed you have a large united family. I'm the only child of my parents. My parents died long ago. my father was a military man who died in a military war when I was 7 years old and my mother died when I was 13 years old. I was raised by a neighboring teacher, growing up was quite difficult for me but I never gave up.

I cannot complain. Besides my two sons that I have told you about, I have a daughter who is a forensic doctor and a son is a police officer. You seem to have done very well. Life is not always easy.


Thanks, I have been through a lot as a man and have conquered much opposition in life as well and would love to meet someone who'll understand how been hurt feels and would love to find an honest relationship, I want the love that's been locked in my heart for so long to be unlocked by that special lady.

I am certain that you will find that person.


Well ... right now I am taking a rest from relationships


I understand how it is losing those once you love most, especially a husband. his caring and love, I believe he is at rest in heaven.

Paul, my husband had a stroke, and was a total invalid for the last two years. I had to find 24-hour care for him and pay for it. When I get out of debt, perhaps I will begin having fun again. Right now, I have my work, my children, and my sense of humor.


I feel so sorry for you and all the stress you it cost you.

It was a bit more than stress, but I am strong and I survived.


All you have now is the greatest gift your children alone is mostly important and believe me you are a very strong woman with kind hearten to survive all that. Not every woman can pay such sacrifice you did.

Tell the bank that...lol.... but one does what one has to, and that is all that matters. It was my duty


You are so caring and honest when it comes to family and love once, and that is what I understand here. You are a woman to every mans heart I must say. I mean good man.

I have had suitors, but it is still too soon.


I mean... for me to go out with another man.


Oh I understand. What really matters is how honest, caring, are they and respectful.

Honesty is certainly important... and truth.


Absolutely right, and that was all I needed which I never got in return after my marriage. I was so accommodative respectful and a great assistance to my Ex wife thinking she do the same for me but my thought was wrong on that.

I have to go now, Paul. There are things that I must finish here. Until the next time.


Okay, no problem, Stay safe and don't over stress yourself. bye for now.

Is 7 45am here Korea time, just dealing with my cop of coffee now. I believe you are sleeping by now. Have a wonderful rest.


Thank you, Paul. Yes, I was sleeping when your message came. In any case, I am NEVER on the computer at night since I usually have to get up very early for work. I will be going to Pampaneira today. So, I probably won't be on the computer much. I hope that you are having a good day.

Alright, I understand. Is 19 55 Korea time. and I don't mean to distract you from your work, and I am cool here for now. I miss our previous conversation and it was really nice having you as a friend. Your thoughts captivate my attention so I intend to check on you. hope there is no problem with that?


Hello, Paul. Thank you for the good wishes.

You're welcome. hope your day is going very perfectly as you plan?


My day is going very well. Vacation days are always nice.

Wow, that's nice. Is always fun having vacation you know. So what are you doing at the moment?


Well, today we went to Pampaneira, a village in the Alpujarra Mountains. We are going to remain here for two days and return to Granada on Saturday. We spent the morning hiking.

That sounds very nice, it is always nice having recreational activities. all is part of funs and also keeps you fit.


I agree. I have to try and keep up with my children...lol

You are so concerned and caring. It's such a good feeling to realize that I have you in my life and I'm pleased as we chat with each other again.


Yes, you are a very enjoyable man to chat with.

Same to you I love every moment I spend here with you. So accommodating with great sense of humor, I feel so glad in me to have you as a friend here.


Paul, our acquaintance is still very recent, but I regard you as a friend.

Yes, I know. But it seems I know you for decades the way I find comfort chatting with you on here. I just wish we're together right now, having this conversation face to face but never the less, it's just a matter of time for us to find out if we're compatible with each other. So how's the weather condition there?


It is possible that we will meet one day, yes.... and the weather is quite lovely.

That's good to know. How are your children? Have you heard from them today?


Two of them are with me. We are on vacation together with three of the grandchildren.


And you are absolutely faultless on that you said.

Yes, I am usually right. At least that is what my children affirm.


I believe your children will be happy to have such a delightful mom like you.

They are happy....lol, Especially since they have known me all their lives. In any case, they do not have a great deal of choice.


That's wonderful, you are indeed a perfect suit to them. I love your kind of woman and believe me, you are every great man choice of woman. Having you alone as friend has put an endless smiles on my face which I never had for years now.

It is also nice to have you as a friend.


I feel more comfortable and unchained chatting with you here.

Well, it is getting late and I must go. Until the next time, Paul. It was good to see you again


I so much appreciate every moment we write here. I wish you all the best fun with loaded of happiness all through your vacation.


Is 8 16 am Korea time and I have my black coffee served. good morning to you from here


while the other person allows himself to be adored.


Yes, so true. In your own Idea, can you tell me the qualities of a good relationship?

I think that the main quality is a firm commitment to making the relationship work on a foundation of mutual love, trust, and honesty.


I think a good relationship requires being each other's best friend, and trusting one another. I think each should respect the other's opinion and that stupid arguments over stupid things are healthy, as long as they are not taken too far.

I would say that arguments are healthy. However, if they are stupid, then that means at least one of the people involved is as well


Good communication, never being ashamed of each other for any reason. On occasion surprising your mate with a nice romantic date or evening together, being honest, and telling each other I love you always.

lololol.... that sounds like something out of a Relationship Handbook, but you are right-


There is a lot of love and caring in the relationship. There has to be love in order for a relationship to work.


A good relationship is when your partner is more than just a partner. they should be your best friend always being free with each other and it starts from the heart by each other taking each other close to heart from their hearts. A good relationship is when two lovers understand each other, they're concerned for each other and they respect one another.


Let me tell you why I wanted a soulmate and the kind of woman I want.


I'm searching for a soul mate and a long term basis relationship that can even lead to marriage and not just a one night stand cos I'm the type of man that believe in one man one woman relationship and also strongly believes that marriage is for better for worse and to cherish till death because I'm a very honest and simple and easy going man.


I am looking for true Love and am interested in a relationship on a long term basis with one woman. I am by nature kind, romantic, very affectionate, understanding and very passionate and in intimacy I enjoy giving and receiving affection, and am very open-minded and adventurous as well. I am a hard working professional man with love to give to my woman. I hope it will be you sweetie. I'm sure only if you will let me in.

Paul, I do not fall in love on Internet. You may be everything that you say but I have no way of knowing. Any future relation is on hold until we can meet.


I understand your point vividly, and I see myself being carried away with your kindness. Pardon my manners if I am taking things too far.


Well, I hope you will be able to make out time for us to be together/meet in the country when I get retired?

When you retire, I will be happy to meet you... even if it is at the top of the Eiffel Tower. You would love Paris. I lived there for five years.


Then, it is a date ..... when you retire.