For now, not unfasten due to some military policies. But very close I think.

Not unfasten. I have no idea what you are talking about.


Ops, so sorry for that. I mean not exposed to our notice for now. I'm feeling dizzy, hope you don't mind we talk later?

lololol... you still do not make any sense. So go and lie down.


Is 9 48 am Korea time and I'm already sipping my black coffee and watching news on my TV. I believe you're in bed now having some wonderful rest. I wish you sweet dreams with a thousand smiles. Stay safe..


Oh yes I do. I hope this vacation brings you endless sweet memories and a refreshed mind. Enjoy your vacation and good morning to you over there.


As I said, I am glad that you are feeling better. I am back home, and relieved that you are yourself again. Yesterday you sounded like a completely different person.

I have been so busy and stress out on duty, yes I am I slept close to 12 hours and now I am free and fully recovered. Welcome home, and how was your trip?


My trip was lovely. A photo with two of my granddaughters and now I have returned home.

Wow, this is so beautiful. Your beauty has captivated my soul and your charming eyes have captured my heart. In a nutshell, you and your grand kids actually look so amazing and my head is going whiskey right now. I see, you have a lot fun over there with the smiles on the photo here. So what are you doing at the moment?


I have just sent everyone off after telling them to pick up the toys. Peace has returned. You sound like yourself again.

Smile..... I gave you my reason. believe me, they are worth having you as their granny. you are so lovely and caring I must say.


As I told you, my family is my treasure.


If you are asking whether I like flowers, yes, I do

That's good to know. I like more of rose flowers.


Are you saying that you like roses? As for me, I like violets.

You put every single word into correction, I'm only chatting and not making presentations. I don't make long sentences while chatting.


I did not correct you...lol. If you like, I will. I was being benevolent. You are being overly sensitive. It is refreshing to know that I write better English than a four-star general.


What do you mean? I have to go now. See you later.

Okay, Paul. I am back... if you are available.


I need to leave now, I have some indoor meeting with other military officials at Kunsan air base here in Korea and it is almost time. I need to go with men on patrol. have a nice day there.

May your day be peaceful. Do generals really go on patrol? I guess that the US Army is different from the Spanish Army.


Yes, they do. We, the US army, we have our own doctrine and I think is quite different from that of the Spanish. There is much equality in terms of duty activities in the US Army and every life matters no matter your rank.


I need to go now please, we will talk later.


I know you must have been so tired and having some rest now, I'm just coming back from Kunsan, and it is 8 00 am here. Just having my cup of warm coffee and sitting on my couch right now with my daily newspaper on me. I have found it very interesting having you as a friend and as my close one. Your thought on my head has given me a smiling face which I never had for long and it seems I have known you for decades. You gave me a feeling of comfort and captivated me with smiles. Is good and a pleasure to have an honest caring and good loving friend like you and I am so glad because my soul rejoices as my heart welcomes you. I now feel worried when I can't reach you here and more worried when I'm not close to see your cute and beautiful face. And your type of mother is excellent because you are indeed a perfect one for your generation. I miss you here my friend and wish to visit Spain someday so I can be taught a second Language and be taken to so many beautiful places there by you. being exposed to Spanish culture and experiencing more love from them as well. Have a wonderful rest and sweet dreams to you.

Yes, Paul. I was sleeping. I also enjoy having you as a friend. I hope that your day is going well.


Everything is alright here for now, I hope you have a wonderful rest?

I always sleep well. And today is Easter Sunday though in Spain there are no eggs or bunnies.


Oh really Happy Easter to you and your family as we celebrate our Father's greatest sacrifice through his Son, Jesus Christ. Have a blessed Easter and a beautiful day as well. How are you doing over there cute woman?

Yes, I have gone to Mass. And nice to be able to talk to you.


I hope that you are having a happy Easter.


Yes, I am. It has been a wonderful season for we Christians here. and other religions all join us to celebrate the resurrection of our lord here in the military base.

Of course. How could it be otherwise? A joyful day for all.


Yes, indeed. What are you doing at the moment?

Evidently, when you ask that question, the answer can only be that I am talking to you. I do not have the talent of doing two things at the same time.


Smile... really I love to hear that, you know most people do different things at a time.

When people try to do multiple activities at once, they are really wasting their time because they think that they are being very efficient but really they are not doing anything at all.


There is a limit to one's attention span. It is necessary to always focus on what is truly important when you share out your attention, you really do not accomplish as much.


Well, I admit you teach me more than I could think, and with this thought I come to realize that no one is perfect.

Paul, of course, all of us have our defects. The good thing is to acknowledge our imperfections instead of persisting in the belief that we never make mistakes.


Yes, you're right. I like your kind of person, and honestly speaking I am glad to have such a beautiful woman with a great sense of humor like you as my friend.

And I am glad to also have you as my friend.


Hope you can create a chance for us to meet in person when I get retired?

I am free whenever you are. lololol... You are the problem, not me. I have sufficient seniority to be able to work online when I wish to.


I will be so glad to meet you in person and probably a warm hug.

I also look forward to meeting you in person and if you say that you are retiring soon, then so much the better.


You have all the qualities I seek in a woman and wish to be more than a friend.

Paul, you need a keeper. We have met on Internet. I could be an axe murderer. Wait until we meet and then we can celebrate.


Lolols. An axe murderer? I found you not guilty, your simplicity speaks right of you. and your heart is more convincing with kindness.

I have been in pain and agony for years now, I never thought a woman could ever make me smile again after my horrible experience with my ex-wife. you are indeed a giver of hope my true friend.


I like making you smile, that is true. And I like you as much as I can like anyone whom I have only met on Internet.

You don't see them to be more real don't you?


Paul, real is touching, hearing, seeing... and the rest. This is a delightful fiction that may or may not become reality.

That means you define the internet as a bunch of fake and even you not real?


That means that I know that Internet is a place where one has to be very careful.

Are you telling me that you only used people on the internet for leisure hours?


Why do you say that? As you may recall, YOU were the person who first contacted me. I have never looked for anyone on Internet.

I'm saying this out of my own view concerning what you said about the internet. and besides we still have real people here on the internet and they can be confirmed through video calling and sending of gifts etc..


You are right. Videochats are possible, of course, but few people are willing to videochat for whatever reason.

I contact you because I see you to be real, despite the fact that the internet globally has been designed by fruiters and gave us more reason to be more conscious of ourselves, we still have other reasons to believe real people do exist here. We have been battling against imposters and all kinds of scammers techniques here so people can be very confident of themselves. I have been working with the Go Army, FBI, DOD, and ICT. back in the state and I must say even here in Korea the are trying our best to get those cowards apprehended and brought to justice. Kindly contact the security agency if you find out. not keeping it to yourself because if they do not succeed with you they succeed in doing others okay.


I am sure that your efforts are very praiseworthy.

We, the United State Armed forces, see it as our right not only to fight war but also against cyber crimes and any kind of duping act. It is all our fight and you can save a life. and with that you have to protect lives and properties by creating awareness.


And I certainly hope that you succeed. There are a lot of scammers, but I have no personal experience with military scammers. That was my neighbor. I only know of an oilrigger and the guy who rented out cranes but they were not in the military. So... firstly, I do not "use people in the Internet for leisure hours", and secondly, I think that everyone should exercise due caution before making a true commitment to anyone before meeting them.

I agree with you. That is one of the most important things to do. We have been facing different kinds of issues here in Korea and sometimes I get pissed off. North Korea is becoming more of a threat to us and Scammers too. Nowhere seems to be safe. I think everyone needs to be cautious of themselves.


Sorry if I put you wrong by saying you used people on the internet for leisure hours. I apologize for putting that wrongly okay.


I accept your apology. I realize that you have a very stressful job.

Yes, I do. I thank God for his endless effort on me. and his direction on doing things.


Yes, we must always thank God for everything that He has done for us.

Here is my Identity card, you can get my military code just in case, USKEh.


I have absolutely no doubt that you exist. We can videochat any time that you wish.

I will love to do so but that will be when I'm out of the military base. A serious notice was passed to us by Afghanistan security Since 2007 concerning base video chat.


Afghanistan? You are in Korea. And there are no US troops currently in Afghanistan. As far as I know, there is no war in Korea. Korea was a war zone in 1950.

Yes I am in Korea, and we, the military, are more connected and always security alert.


This is not a matter of war or not okay. We, the military, have our own policies and there is no way a lawmaker will be the first to break the law.


That seems reasonable. So, it is only a question of being patient and waiting. I am sure that we will eventually meet in person.

Yes, we will. And I am so glad to hear that from you. My heart rejoices too. I need to go now, hope you don't mind we talk later?


Bye for now. How are you doing over there? I miss you so much my dear friend. Hope everything is okay with you over there?


Everything is fine, Paul. Tomorrow, I have an eye operation. So, it is stressful time.

Okay, I understand. But you have to take it easy and believe me everything is going to be alright with you. Where are you now? at home or work?


I am home. And no one in the history of the Universe became all right because someone told them to be all right -) However, I appreciate your concern.

Smile.. that is only a word of courage and you know that. What the heart believes and conceives can be achieved if only you believe that it works.


I like to meet someone nice and caring like you and believe me, your type is not so easy to get. You are a special kind of friend to me. I keep you special in my heart till we meet. I have been so bored for years and no special person to give me an outside thought only committed on duty and apart from that no gist talk or close friendship discussion as we do here. I give that credit to the most caring and wonderful friend which is no other person but you.


I look forward to seeing how our relationship evolves.

I hope you are hearing from your lovely grandkids?


I have many of them, but I just saw the smallest. She was going back to Madrid with her father, and they stopped to have lunch here.


I am very lucky to have such wonderful children and grandchildren.

I don't need to explain how wonderful they are because they really do.


lolol... you cannot know because you have never met them but I hope that you will meet them one day.


My three sons adore me, and, of course, they are overly protective.

They should be, every responsible child should be very proud of their mother because having a beautiful and caring mother that is ready to sacrifice for the family like you is not an easy one. And my daughter Emily does most of the time. She is so accommodating and God fearing. She sang poems for me and called me sweet names.


I am also very proud of them because like you, they are engaged in the defense of their country. I am sure that she is a lovely and intelligent child.

Thank you so much. She is indeed, and she is my precious stone and all I have I love and treat her most like a princess which she is to me. I am ready to do everything within my power to keep her smiling face. She lost that motherly love and I have to do everything possible to make her feel comfortable.


Her mother never asked for her once after our divorce, and she is not worried about that because the drama which was displayed by her mother was never a hidden one.

It is sad that her mother never wished to have custody of her.


I feel for my little princess, but she is in a better hand and well taking care of by me. I love and cherished her so much. I promise myself never to say anything concerning her mother to her to avoid making her feel sad over it.

You should never criticize her mother, of course. However, it is sad that she is not living with you. All children need a family.


Yes, and I will never try to criticize her mother. and I miss my little princess so much and I know how much she do to me too. But unfortunately she can't be here with me for security reasons.

And so, it is good that you soon plan to retire.


She is my joy and the reason why I have to play safe here. and she will be expecting me soon as well but not aware. I love making surprises but never intend to make it a surprise to her about my retirement.

I need to be very close to her and give her all the love and care she ever deserves from me. I promise to take her to Paris and many other places for vacation, beach working, camping etc. She love more of fun time and that makes her so excited. And I love to see her in that mood.


I am sure that once you are retired, you will be the father that she deserves.

She is also a lover of pets, more of Dog. Yes indeed, because a lot of chance will be available for recreational activities.


It is not a question of "recreational activities". It is a question of a daughter being with her father and having the family that she deserves.


And that is what I have been trying my best for. You know mothers cares are always differs from that of the father, beside she is a girl child. It has never been easy for me though but I keep trying the best I can to make her feel the both side of it.


I am sure that you do your best, BUT you are thousands of miles away from her.

And I think having a spouse will keep me oriented in my way of doing things with because she always feel bad when ever she is mocked by her school mate about being a motherless child and you know children can be so dramatic at times. I always told her never to listen to there sayings.


I doubt that not having a mother is a motive for bullying. Most children now live in one-parent households.

Yes, I am but my love and caring gives her hope that someday big Daddy will be home for me.


Since it will only be a few months, I am sure that she can be strong. Does she really call you ∑big Daddy? And it would be "home for her", not "home for me".

She calls me all kinds of sweet names. I need to cover up assignment on my geographical area. hope you don't mind we talk later?


Okay... whatever "cover up assigment" means. You are writing weirdly again. Your brain seems to periodically go on strike when you write.

I don't see that as an insult. Rather I will explain more about myself when I return and hope you will do the same? Bye for now.


It is not an insult. I would never insult you. It is just what I have observed during our correspondence. I look forward to learning more about you. As for me, you have only to ask.

I'm back but it's not going to be long here due to the nature of my job.


lolol... and due to the nature of my biorhythms, I am always asleep at midnight.

Good morning It is a beautiful day with nice weather. May this day bring you good health and success Always be blessed and have a nice day.


You're welcome How are you doing this beautiful day? Hope you slept well my beautiful friend Pamela.


Have you had your cup of coffee yet? I finished my dinner an hour ago and right now I'm having a little rest.

Actually, breakfast was quite a while ago. So, yes, I had coffee then. However, now I am not allowed to eat or drink until 17.00. I am being operated for a corneal transplant.


Oh I'm sorry about that my dear friend. So tell me what are your plans for today? Hope there will be no much work for you today because I don't want you to stress yourself too much.

Since the operation will take place today at 17.00, those are my plans...


OMG, I will pray for you and you will come out successfully. I'm not that good at prayer but I will make sure I do that for you my dear. You are a kind woman and I will love to know you more than we have known each other.

Paul, I appreciate your prayers. I am sure that everything will turn out fine, but an operation is never agreeable.


Yes, you're right. And everything is going to be alright with you okay.


That sounds so positive and interesting to you. I love your courage. I need to go now, I have some home activities to do. Please write to me when you are done with the operation okay. I will keep praying for you.

Thank you, Paul. I will be back when I can.


I'm so sorry, I slept off. and at the same time I didn't get any feedback from you concerning your eye operation. How did it go? hope everything is alright with you? I know you, and I know you'll be back on your feet in no time. Sending you my best wishes, thoughts, and prayers. Good morning to you Pamela. How are you doing today?


I just got out of the hospital, but cannot use my eyes much still. I have the other eye on Monday. So I will have to return... sigh. So that is the reason why I haven't been on. Everything went more or less all right, but recovery takes a while.

I have been thinking about you and praying for you for full recovery soon and all the best wishes you ever desired. I am so happy for your successful eye operation and I will be waiting for the good news after Monday about the second eye. have a wonderful day over there and good luck too.I miss you so much.


Thank you Paul. This is just to let you know that I have seen your message. Thank you for the good wishes. I can only be on for a short time as I said. I appreciate your thoughtfulness.

You're welcome. I hope all is well? It's 7 48 am here, just chilling with my cup of black coffee and having some morning glory here on my sofa. I don't think I have much to do at the office, so I will be heading to Camp Eagle base for a report and after that I'm free. I hope you slept well and are ready to tackle the day? good morning to you precious woman.


Hello, Paul. My left eye seems to be doing well. Every day, I can see a little better. I am sort of dreading next Monday because I will start over again with my right eye... sigh. However, the doctors have assured me that by the end of April, all will be well again.

Good morning to you and that's good to know. Have you eaten something today?


I have had lunch, of course though now my greatest problem is all of the drops that I have to put in my eyes every two hours or so.

I am just sitting on my sofa thinking about you right now because I really care about your well being I must confess. And I also miss your present here too.


My presence is only virtual. Of course, it is nice to be cared about. It is difficult having to go through this alone. My children are always calling, but they cannot be with me

I understand, nut you really need to take it easy okay. Is just a matter of time and the pains won't be remembered. I know your children miss you so much but you still need to let them know you are responding to treatment and everything is gonna be alright with you.


Well, of course. That is what I tell them, and I do not expect their help. I must go now. See you when I can.


Thank you, Paul. Today, my daughter is going to come over and we are going to go for a walk with the grandchildren. I guess that I will have to get used to sunglasses for awhile even though I never used to wear them before. In any case, it will be nice to get out of the apartment for a while. I hope that things are going well for you in Korea.

Whatever the morning brings, I hope it leads to an amazing day regardless Good morning beautiful. My heart rejoices to have you in my life at this moment, and we are trying our best to stabilize the situation here in Korea to make sure the innocent citizens sleep with their two eyes closed. After a lot of threats of missile explosions from North Korea. Well, I am happy to hear that your children are coming over. It will be so lovely and a wonderful moment for you all.I understand how you feel using glasses now, but you will surely get used to it. I put on glasses too and I miss my daughter so much I wish I could be with her at this moment and make her feel my present with her. You are such a kind and lovely mother and every man responsible dreams as a partner. I miss our communication most at times when you are not active here and I wish you come on. I will be glad to meet you once I get retired and probably express my innermost feelings towards you and how glad I am to have you in my life and how supportive you have been this little while of knowing each other.Stay safe. and write me when you can.


It was wonderful hearing from you as always. Needless to say I look forward to meeting you. However, you incorrectly interpreted my message regarding the use of glasses. I have used glasses for many years, and now after the first operation, I have seen that I no longer need them . It is a result from the surgery that I had not expected

Okay, I understand now. I never thought that much. However, you still need to take care of yourself.


Hello, Paul. All is going very well so far. I can now use the computer for a longer time... at least until Monday. I also hope that one day you can travel here, and that we can meet.

It's good to know my cutie, I understand how fast you are recovering. and may God continue to put his Angels at work over you my dear Pamela. and for coming over, of course yes, it will be my pleasure visiting Spain for my first time and to meet you in person. Probably be taught how to speak Spanish and taste their lovely and yummy food well prepared by you too. and I don't need to be convinced that you are indeed a great cook and a wonderful granny as well. It is gonna be awesome because I am going to visit the beach, museum, and probably go camping over there with you.


I wish you all the best at this moment of your life and always pray for my safety while I'm still here in Korea. I wish to meet you soon as I am out of here.

Yes, Paul. I also look forward to that as well though it will doubtlessly be a long time until you are able to leave. Given the situation in North Korea, I am sure that the government will wish you to remain there.


Paul, thank you for the image. I slept well. Tomorrow I have my second operation...sigh. I can only hope that all will go smoothly. I will be in the hospital for a few days, but after that, I hope to recover soon. Thank you for your support.

I don't think so dear and situations can be controlled without me. I trust my teams and believe in the US Korea force. We are always ready and well defended because it is our right to make the innocent citizen rest without any threat of missiles from the opponent. we are trying our best to do so I must confess. I have only a few months left here. and my replacement is still pending, once I have been cleared on some certain point and my retirement document has been approved and stamped by the Secretary General I will be out. and I can't wait to visit you to spend more lovely moments with you. I will be coming with my beautiful daughter as well.


Wonderful, Paul. Thank you for your good wishes.

You are welcome and you don't need to bother about anything. Okay, everything is gonna be alright soon and you will be back on your feet fully as you always expected to be.


How are your grandkids? hope there was much funs?


As you can imagine, in Spain, we will receive you and your daughter with open arms. I adore my grandchildren. They are the light of my life.

That sounds so interesting and good to know. I know Spain is well secured and always accommodative and friendly. Indeed they are to your light and I love to hear that from.


I am aware that you are a man, who is truly conscious of what a family means. I know that you perceive the importance of traditional values. This is very important to me.

Yes I do, I consider family first before any other things.


Without a doubt, we are on the same wavelength.

Yes, I can see that. My daughter is the only family I have after my wife left. I don't have a large family size but I feel comfortable as if I have a large family. I love and cherished her so much. And I know you do the same to your children too.


I am fortunate to have a huge family, which is very supportive.

They are always our pride and the reasons for our happiness.


It is a fact that all of our sacrifices for our children are always amply rewarded,

That you are right. and I believe in that saying. I hope you don't mind we talk later?


So when can you come up with the money honey?

What I love about you is your sense of humor. I buy a state lottery ticket every week -)


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So, I think that the whole process is more straightforward than you think.

Okay my love, but the situation here is quite different okay, You are absolute right about your research but the procedures here isn't the same. Here only diplomats are allowed to make delivery just like I told you earlier and there is always a delivery fee charge attached to it.


Well, I think that you are being overcharged, my love, because the fee to ship a 20-foot container from Korea to Spain is only a little over 1000 dollars. Especially since, the last time that Korea was a war zone was back in 1950. I was there last year, and as I recall, Seoul was definitely not under siege. South Korea and North Korea, two separate countries, have technically been in a state of war since the Korean War in the 1950s, but a ceasefire agreement was signed in 1953. The Korean Demilitarized Zone separates the two countries and is heavily fortified, but the area is not considered an active war zone. South Korea is a modern, developed country with a stable government and a thriving economy.


Hello, my love. As you doubtlessly recall from our previous conversations, I rarely connect on Sundays. It is a day to go to church and of rest, even from Internet. In any case, I am well aware that you always tell the truth. However, I am saying that everyone can make a mistake from time to time. Even you. No one is perfect.... So, please calm down...

You don't want to help me that's why you're saying all this to me now.


I merely think that your vision of world of affairs is not exactly the right one.


I love you, of course But if you told me that the moon was made of green cheese, I would have to disagree.


I would if I could, but lamentably, it is impossible right now. By the way, what did you do with my 50,000 euros? You do not have any left over for this expense?

You are aware of the fact that it went on a different purpose, why don't you trust that I get this fix the moment I am out of here my love.


Sigh... you seem to have the same spending habits as my children . However, because of their age, they have an excuse. You should have learned how to structure a budget by now. In any case, you are free to leave, even without your portfoilio. I will always love you even without your Rolex.

You should be mindful on how you talk to me, you do not have any idea on the situation of things around here so please be careful with your words. I go through hell each day just by being here, and I can't let my portfolio get destroyed here, it has all my achievement since deployment how on earth could you think of such a thing.


Paul, I was merely saying that I love you even without your money. How could it be otherwise? And as I said , Seoul, Korea is not a war zone. Perhaps if you were deployed in Somalia... or Ethopia or Sudan.

I never said it was a war zone, what I'm saying in essence is that I don't like it here. Too many things going on here.


I adore chatting with you and hearing your views on life. And yes, I am sure that every place has its undercurrents. I look forward to your return.


I will give you all of the moral support that I can at this difficult time.


Okay, take care.Send me a beautiful photo of you here, ok?


Alright my dear, you looks so beautiful , You must be busy at work right now.

Oh, hello, Phillip. Yes, I am at work, but in the afternoon, things are always calmer.


Oh really, I think we can talk better later right?...

We can talk now if you like. I am never online at night. I have to get up very early, and so I go to bed early.


Alright, I understand you. I would really like to know more about you my dear.


I would really like to know many things about you, my friend.


You have to try much as possible to be active here so that we can talk more about ourselves. I'm the only child of parents, I lost my father since my childhood, and also I lost my wife 5 years ago in a car accident, I'm a Roman Catholic. I have 2 houses, one in New Jersey City and the other in Los Angeles California, 8 bedroom bungalow in New Jersey City while the one in Los Angeles, California is 6 bedroom duplex. I'm not very good at speaking of the American English, I was born and raised with my mother in the city of Frankfurt, Germany, but my dad is from New Jersey City {USA} I start to live in America at the age of 30 years. I started my primary and secondary level in Germany while my Doctor degree at Stony Brook University. I'm adventurous, romantic, sweet, caring, honest, loyal and some would say sexy. I suppose it depends on your definition of sexy, however. I love a good conversation and a great debate. And trust me, I know the difference between a debate and an argument. I'm a lover, not a fighter. But, I will fight very hard for my loved ones. Family and close friends mean the world to me, and I would do anything for the people in my life. I get bored easily, so I try to keep things exciting both in my career and my personal life. That doesn't mean that I don't enjoy a quiet evening at home, cuddled up in front of the TV watching a good movie. With the right person, anything can be fun. I'm silly and goofy, but I also understand there are a time and a place for fun and games. My mother raised me to be a man and I am in all aspects in the world.

Well, that about says it all. I am also a Roman Catholic. As I told you, I lost my husband two years ago.


Oh really that's great you know how to speak my german, But I do prefer English, hope you are not angry about that?..


No, not at all. I just suggested it in case you felt more fluent in that language. For my job, I travel a lot. On Sunday, for example, I am going to Chicago for two weeks and then to Portugal for three days. So, I will be online, but not as much as usual.

Oh really, I know your job do really stress you. Alright, But try as much as possible to send me a message on here.


Actually, not so much. I handle stress well, and I enjoy my work. But there is always time to send a message.


In fact, two are doctors. My oldest son is a military doctor, and in August is going to Lebanon with the UN forces. So, you have something in common with him.

Oh really that great, You have a wonderful family.


You remembered I told you early on Facebook that I was transferred here few weeks ago.


I would not be spending much time here because I had a contract with the UN.


I was just curious. My son will be in Lebanon for four months.

Oh really, that's great your son is so lucky he is going to be in Lebanon for four months, As for me I think is going to take more than a year but I will be going for vacation to see my son.


That is wonderful news.Is your son with relatives?

No, I don't have relatives, I'm the only son of my parents and my son attend a boarding school in Jersey City.


How sad. I wonder why you decided to work in a foreign country instead of raising your son and being a father to him, especially since he is alone and no longer has his mother.

I understand what you are trying to say, my dear friend.


Nice of you to give me time to get home from work...lol. I thought that you had disappeared.


As for what I was saying, I would not have left one of my children by themselves, but you know what is best, and it is your life.

And I have not even finished it yet. I understand what you are saying, You know my profession I need to save lives.


I do really feel bad sometimes thinking of him.


Doubtlessly, he misses you. I spent six months in a convent boarding school when I was young.


I do really miss him and I will have my retirement after this contract. I really need to take good care of him.


Yes, you should, but you are the only one that make such a decision. It is none of my business. He looks like a nice young man.

Why are you sounding like this? Hope you are not angry. Thanks for your compliment.


Phillip. how could I be angry? Of course, I am not. I am sure that you are doing what is best for him.


I am. I live within walking distance of my job. So, easy to get back and forth.

Oh really. So what actually are you doing at the moment?


I do not have all of your properties, just an apartment, which is mine. Well, I am evidently talking to you and in-between lags, I am revising a translation.

Great, that's means you have your own house and a car right. Am sorry for the late reply


Hello sweetheart. I have a little problem at the moment. Don't know if you can help me sweetheart.


Good morning sweetheart. How was your night?..I really need your help sweetheart. Are you busy?

Hi, Phillip. Nice to see you. I have a bit of free time now.


Well, my free time is almost finished, but still nice to hear from you.


I'm getting short of private internet connection There are no Walmart here honey help me go to the Walmart and get an American Express card so I can recharge my private connection to keep in touch with you. You can help me get it when you are done with your meeting ok.

How can I help you do that? It is difficult to believe that the UN does not provide Internet for its workers. My oldest son has been on UN missions to Iraq and Afghanistan, and that has never happened.


Honey, this is not about the UN ok. This is my own private internet connection. You have to understand me ok.

and you can only have a private Internet connection through WalMart?


I want to use the American Express card to Update my internet connection.


Please try and understand my situation ok.

You need an American Express card to do that, and to get one, you have to go to WalMart?


Yes sweetie. That is where you can get the American Express card.

Then, there is no problem. I have an American Express Card, and I got it online at this website https So, no problem.


You are a functioning adult, Phillip...lol. You can get it on your own and I cannot get a credit card for someone else.


That is crazy. How can I get a credit card for you?


One does not get it at WalMart. I think that you need to check your information.


Honey if you can't get an American Express card, then you can get me a steam card.

Phillip, I know a lot about Internet. I design web resources...I know that a steam card is only used for gaming. Not for updating connections.


Sweetheart it seems you don't trust me. I can I use it to update my internet connection here.

Steam Trading Cards are virtual cards, earned by buying and playing games on Steam, that can be crafted into badges that grant rewards. I would trust you in Medicine perhaps, but you seems to be singularly uninformed about Internet and credit cards.


I'm gonna send a photo of the card I'm talking about ok.It seems you don't want to help me.


Then why are you saying it's a credit card.

I said that an American Express card is a credit card . That was your first request. A steam card is for videogames.


Yes I remember. Honey, you only know they use it for games. I can use it to update my internet connection here, honey. Please understand that ok.

I know various things, Phillip. I know that the UN provides Internet for its employees. Nobody needs a private connection. I know that, no matter what you say, steam cards are not for Internet connections.


Honey it's seems you don't want to help.

Not when you are totally mistaken when you tell me things.


So what are you doing at the moment?..And what time is it over there?

Waiting until 10.30 when the meeting begins that I have to interpret. I was drinking a cup of coffee.


That's beautiful. Hope you had a wonderful night?

I hope that your day is not too busy or dangerous. A wonderful night is when I can sleep...lol. So, last night was good.


Then, you are also doing well. I am glad for you.


That's great, So when are you going back to Spain sweetheart.


But on March 29, I have to go to Lisbon, Portugal though only for three days.


Then I will be in Spain until the end of May. Anyway, I have to go now. I hope that your day continues well.


Alright, I know you do miss your family a lot. Alright text me when you are less busy ok.


Hello, Phillip. I just woke up and saw your message.

Are you busy?..It's really nice hearing from you.


And I am glad that you can also find the time to write. I know that you are busy.

Yes of course dear.I'm busy but let chat a little bit, ok. How was your night?


Sure. I have a bit of free time as well.


So, was your area affected by the big earthquake that occurred?

Yes of course did you heard about the earthquake that has being on for some weeks now?


Well, actually, it occurred some weeks ago, and I know that it affected Turkey and Syria.

Yes we thank God that everything is going back to normal ok. What time will you be living for the meeting?...


At 9.30 I will be LEAVING for the meeting.


I suspect that you are not a talkative man.

Yes of course but we can discuss about everything if you have time to talk.


I imagine that we can certainly talk about anything, but even when there is time, you limit yourself to a few set phrases. Actually, we rarely say anything other than superficial observations. You could tell me things about your past, about your son...what you say in your conversations with him. What you used to do when you lived in the USA. How you met your wife. Things that really define who you are

Hello Pamela. Am so sorry for the late reply. I was so busy yesterday sorry I could not reply to your messages. Are you available to chat?..


Hello, Phillip. I just got up. As always, it is nice to hear from you.

Sorry for the late reply Pamela been so busy, It's my pleasure to hear from you too. I'm available to chat now. Have a wonderful Sunday.


I'm activate to tell you more about myself and my son too ND I hope you are ready to tell me more your your children.

I will be happy to talk about my family. When you wrote, it was 2.35 in the morning, so I was sleeping.


Hello dear.I'm really sorry for the late reply. How was your day?...

Hello, Phillip. It is 10.44.... so my day is far from over yet. I hope that your day has gone well.


It's okay, you don't need to be sorry. I'm not feeling too good.


I said absolutely nothing about being sorry. So, please explain.


Oh, I thought you said sorry, I didn't read your messages very well, please pardon my manners.

lolol...well, the next time perhaps you can read a little better.


You said that you were not feeling well?


Let me understand something, you're originally from Spain but you base in US? I'm a little bit confuse about this.

I am from Spain, I work for the EU and a few other organizations as a translator and interpreter.


Yes, just little headache, not that serious. I see.

That means that I accompany groups of people when they have international conferences.


So right now you're in the United States.


I am in the USA until Sunday, when I return to Spain.


Okay. That's awesome. Can I have some pics from you? I miss you babe.

What a wonderful pic. You love your smile so gorgeous as unique And unique.


You took this pic at the office? You're welcome cutie.


Alright. Do you really love me? Are you willing to spend a lifetime with me? Are you really ready to be my soulmate?


Neither of us has ever said anything about love.


That's not necessary. I thought I have woo you before now.


No, Phillip. We have discussed breakfast, work, and family. Not love. In any case, I think that we can discuss love when we meet.

Okay. No, we don't need to meet first before we talk about love


Well, you can talk about love, of course, but nothing definitive can be decided or known until we meet.


Before considering love, I have to touch, see, and hear the person.

I understand you but we can prepare the way before meeting in person.


I must get back to work now. Until the next time.


Yeah. Alright, we will talk more later. Stay safe.


Hello, Phillip. The day has just begun here. I hope that you are well.


What have you had to do this morning so far at work? Yes, you should know that better than anyone. Without health, we are nothing.

It's afternoon here now, I'm at office preparing to leave for the surgical ward. How about you?


It is very early in the morning and I have just gotten up.


Heavens.... not yet. I will, eventually.


What surgeries do you have programmed this afternoon?

Joint replacement. Gotta to go now, can we please talk more later?


Hey pretty I'm here now. I'm less busy now. You're back to Spain or you're still at the United States. No answer? It seems you're busy at the moment. No response from you until now?


Hello, Phillip. I will be going back to Spain on Saturday, I was not on yesterday because the meeting lasted into the evening. As for my name, it is Pamela. "Pam" makes me shudder....lol.

Alright, I understand.I know you're Pamela by name but I just want to abbreviate it.


Yes, I know that your intentions were good, but I hate the abbreviation of my name. You could not have known.

If you said so, I'm sorry to call you Pam, it won't happen again. What's the time there now?


I am in Illinois, but only until Saturday. As for breakfast, it is now almost time for lunch.

Okay. Alright. You're at work at the moment?


Okay. How's your family, hope they're fine?


My family is in Granada and Madrid. So, the last time that I talked to them, they were fine.


Granada.... I live in Spain. Granada is a city in Spain.


Alright, will keep you posted later. Stay safe cutie.


Hello, Phillip. A long trip back home, but at last I made it.


Thank God you made it, hope you enjoyed your trip?

No, I did not enjoy it at all... lol. It is evening now, and I am exhausted. A lot of delayed flights. I am going to go to bed.


Haha I know you enjoyed it. I know. Alright, have some rest, talk to me when you can. Don't stress yourself.

If you enjoy delayed flights, then you are the only person that I know who does.


I will compose the mail, when I'm done I will send it to you so you can forward it to the UN email address


No word from you? You're busy at the moment?

Phillip, you disappeared yesterday, and did not return until 10 PM. I was sleeping, of course. So, of course, there was no word from me.


I'm sorry, I didn't disappeared, I was working when you messaged. Good morning pretty. How was your night? Hope you slept well?

Yes, I did I always do, and yes, I had breakfast. I ate what I have every morning.


Good you had great night. Good, you've had your breakfast. I'm getting ready to leave for now, how about you?

Yes, I will be leaving very soon as well.


You're leaving now? I'm still here, I will leave for work in 10 minutes.


Okay, I miss you, Pamela. I will put the email together today and send across to you.

and I also miss you, as far as one can miss a person that one has never met.


How could I not? How could I not agree with you about meeting in person?


We just need to meet in person so we spend quality time together, not just that, so we can be able to observe each other thoroughly. Alright.

Of course. That is what I have been saying all along.


Yeah, we really need to meet in person, the loneliness is becoming so unbearable, I need a partner and I believe you will be a good one


I have already find out, it's left for you to find out about me lol


Being curious is being interested in people and learning about them.


I know what curious means. Just want to know why you're curious about me.

well... why wouldn't I be? There are many things that I do not know about you and that only can be discovered if we are together.


That's true. But I don't think I'm secretive, I think I have told you all about myself. I gotta go now, I'm running late. Will catch up with you later.


Bank address 7865 tidewater dr. Norfolk Virginia


Mrs. Pamela, when you are done with the payment, kindly send us the payment receipt for confirmation. We hope to hear from you soon, thank you.


My dear I know 6500 buck is not easy to come up with but you should try and get it, you will get it back as soon as I arrive there with you, I'm helpless here I can't doing any online transfer here, try to understand my predicaments. Is this the payment information they sent you ?


Yeah, but you just try and get it, I want the payment to be made so we can be together, I want to meet you in person, we've conversing for a while now, I think this is the right time for us to be together. Just try and make the payment, I will pay you back when I get there

Phillip, even if could send the money, there is no Swift Code


You can't tell me the account information they sent you is in incorrect, they can't make such mistake, just go to the bank and make a cash deposit, things will work out perfectly, just try. What makes you think the swift code is incorrect.

No... I know what Swift Codes are. They are never in that form. I have even looked in the Swift Code finder for Chartway and it is not Manila. I rather think that you are the victim of a swindler. The person is a high official that supposedly works for the United Nations and cannot even write correct English..


Listen, don't sound as if the UN doesn't know what they're doing, before they sent you the account information, I do believe they must have went through it.

We couldn't find the Swift Code for Chartway Credit Union. It is possible that Chartway Credit Union is not connected to SWIFT network. That is what I have found out.


Stop it, don't claim to good in everything, stop discriminating others, the email they sent you was a simple mail, there's nothing wrong with it.

Between the bad syntax in the message and the false Swift Code, I am not impressed.


Maybe because you're not in the State that's why you can't find the swift code.

lolololol... The Swift Code is for international transactions. I know all about them.


Nothing is wrong with the syntax, stop sounding this way.

If you like, I can correct the message and send it back to you.


If it's not correct. did you think they will send it to you what are you talking about?


Have you tried to make the payment and it didn't work?

I work for the EU. I have told you that I do not have the money to send.


I know but that doesn't mean you know everything about English, everyone is a learner, stop elevating yourself, sometimes you make me feel bad with the way you sound.


That's what you will say not complaining about the syntax or nor the account information the UN sent you. What are truth are you talking about here ?

So, if you wish the truth, I will tell you. Phillip, I had hoped that our relationship would not end so soon, but I guess that it was inevitable.


P.S. A word of advice. When you send documents from the United Nations, they should be written in better English. Bad grammar is always a dead giveaway.

I don't blame you, thanks for wasting my time.


Once you learn one, the following ones are progressively easier to acquire.


Well, it is not as easy for everyone as it is for you. I have tried learning Spanish and Italian but I think I am progressively getting better in Spanish but my Italian is really bad.

I have begun learning Russian as a kind of hobby, but I am using the Duolingo app. So, I am not taking it very seriously.


That makes it seven languages for you right? That's amazing.

Only if you count Russian, but I am only on Unit 8. The sentences that I can say are things like "my horse drinks water" or "there is a snake in the taxi". It is doubtful whether either sentence will come in handy in the near future.


Ah, I see. You speak Spanish fluently right?

Richard, I was born in Spain. I have Spanish nationality. So, yes, of course, I speak it. I also live in Spain and work in Spain and went to school in Spain.


Well, Pamela I'd like for you to help me improve my Spanish language. Don't laugh at me please I Know I'm terrible at it.

Entonces, podemos hablar en espaÒol. Estoy segura que podr·s hacerlo.


Well, it seems we have a few things in common and I must tell you that it surprises me.

I am only glad that your favorite color is not red


Red is for danger but it can also mean something beautiful and serene.

Not in my perception, BUT that is not my main reason for disliking it. I was speaking with someone last year and he said that he liked red because it was for the blood of soldiers spilled in water. To make matters worse, his second favorite color was white for purity. It sound like a huge clichÈ. So I suggested that he find someone else to chat with. Sorry....not water, but "war"


I would be sure scared if I was in your shoes too because it is weird that someone would say such a thing.

The words of a psychopath...lol. There are some crazy people on Internet, I guess.


Yes, there are a lot of psychopaths out here.

Evidently that label does not apply to either of us.


You're right. I don't even know how I would react if someone like that tried communicating with me on the internet. I could get really nervous and freak out.

Fortunately, I have not had any experiences of that type.


It isn't a good experience and I hope you never have such experiences ever.

I live a fairly quiet life except when I have to travel. So I rarely have the occasion to interact with toxic people.


Lately, more than I would like to. I have a short trip to Madrid next week, but at the end of the month I am going to the USA for two weeks. In September I had to go to Portugal and Austria. My neighbors think that it is glamorous, but since I am working all day , I do not get a chance to see much.


You should always have time for yourself and I do tell myself the same thing because all work and no play does not balance life's equation.

That is very true, but I must go, Richard. There are things that I have to do around the house, and then there is dinner as well. It was pleasant chatting with you. So ... hasta la prÛxima vez.


Hello how are you doing today my friend.

I am fine, Richard. I hope that your day is going well.


Have you taken your lunch. Yes my friend.

I ate my lunch at 13.00, and now I am relaxing before a videoconference at 17.00. Sometime there is no choice but to also work at home after hours. Brb, one of my sons just walked in,


Wow so what are you doing now? Okay. I hope your work is good today and you enjoy it?

Back. My youngest son was driving back to Madrid from Malaga and stopped to have a rather late lunch. He wanted to talk and tell me about Arya, his daughter .


That's lovely, do you still need to have more time talking with him? I can wait if necessary.

No, we have had a nice conversation and he will soon be returning to Madrid where he lives and works.


Actually no. I am proud that all of my children are independent and have good professions. I have never wished for them to live with me because the best way to bind someone to you forever is to set them free. And so, all of my children are always returning to me.


You are a very proud mother and your children are also proud to have a caring and selfless mother as you.

It is true that I am very proud of them, and all of them now have their own children. What about your son?


My son is still a teenager and I am grooming him on becoming a true man. He is in Boarding school.

I am sure that he will become a successful young man. Of my seven grandchildren, three are teenagers. It is one of the few good things about having married too young.


You are also blessed to have gotten married to the right man in your life.

Richard, I married when I was 15. My husband was 35. I married him for all of the wrong reasons, and when children arrived right away, I soon realized that he was not exactly the right man, but neither was he exactly wrong. I made the marriage work despite our evident differences. A lot of marriages are like that, and one does one's best.


What is most important is that you have been able to make your life a successful one and also made your children great and established.

Now, looking back, I am glad that we never divorced.


That's how to make a happy home Pamela. Life is all about ups and downs but the ability to maintain your balance despite all of it is what makes the difference.


If there were many ladies like you in the world today it would be a much better place.


Yes it's been over five years ago. God rest her soul.


There were times of hurt and tones of so much joy but it was all worth it to me. Everyone tries their best.

Great. I have a videoconference now. See you later hopefully.


Take good care of yourself Pamela I'll talk to you later. What time will you be done?


The day has almost finished and now I will probably just relax until dinner time.


okay so what are you take as your dinner today?

I will probably have an omelette and a salad. Something that I can make quickly.


And have you finished working for the day?


Yes, of course. If I am not on a trip, I am either at work or at home.


And what made you decide to work on a ship so far away from home?


so I'm sorry for this question.... since you lost your husband have you been in any relationship with anybody?

An interesting question. So far no, though there is a friend of my husband's who would like to court me.


However, I am not interested in him and have told him so.


that is one of the reasons that I don't make friends anybody.

Well, in that we are different. I have various friends, and even a few good ones.


The same thing happened to me when I have contracts in Turkey. My friend started begging my wife for relationship.


My wife started smoking and drinking when I am not at home when I have contract in Turkey so you did not waste time before she died.

I am not sure that I understand your English.


I mean that the same thing happened to me when I move to Turkey for assignment before I come back home I caught my friend with my wife but I did not talk much about it because I don't want problem she started drinking and smoking anyway but he doesn't waste time before she died. Those are the reason that makes me I don't feel like having friends anymore.

That message is a bit more understandable, but you don't sound like the same person. Your English was perfect a few hours ago, and now it is quite different.


I mean the same thing happens to me when I leave for a contract in Turkey my own friend started relationship with my wife do you understand.

I understand what you are saying. I have to go now. See you tomorrow.


So when are we going to talk again? Are you going to bed or what?

Actually, I have to make dinner and do things before I go to bed. We can talk again tomorrow.


Richard, I am busy and cannot be all of the time on the computer.


ok I understand you but we need to talk again later how do you see it? I would like us to talk again before end of today.

If it is possible, I will, but no promises.


Okay my friend I understand. So let me go and take shower now talk to you later have a good day. So when do you have time since you don't have time always so when do you actually have time?

All right, Richard, I am back since you said that you wished to talk again before the end of the day. There is something that I do need to tell you. You seem to have another self, who occasionally appears and seem to be totally unaware of basic English grammar and syntax. If that self appears again, I will not continue with the conversation because he is not you. At the very least, he should be able to write a simple sentence with the appropriate verb tenses . So, please think this over for the future because you seem like a nice person when you are being your real self.


I am really sorry about that but most times my computer get glitches and I don't know what to do about it. I notice the messages immediately I checked on our past messages and I am so disappointed because I didn't know that I had so much grammatical errors. I guess it happens when I don't use my glasses.

Richard, I am a forensic linguist. Sometimes I have been an expert witness where I had to testify that a message was written by one person or another. In any case, it isn't important. Just for the future, always write to me "with your glasses". Otherwise the conversation will end.


You did, and I told you that it wasn't important. So all forgotten.


Yes, of course. Especially if you never forget your glasses again.


Thanks Dear. Are you currently busy? Good morning my friend how are you today?

Good morning, Richard, I hope all is well with you today.


So all is well. I slept well, but I always do. So everything is normal.


Yes, I had breakfast, and now I have to go to work. So maybe later. Have a nice day.


Have a nice day too Pamela and remember to make someone's day a happy one today?

if you are back from work, sign me ok. Hello how are you doing today at work?


There were issues, but I managed to make them go smoothly.


As in all workplaces, there are people who do not get along with each other, and I had to be the peacemaker.

Thank goodness you were a mediator between them and calmed the situation.


Now you're back home have you gotten any rest?


I am resting now as I am talking to you. What about you? how is your day going?

So far so good. I have been working and now I am having a break from work.


Is your ship problem-free, or does it ever have mechanical issues?

There is always a probability of having a mechanical fault but then it can be attended to immediately or with a much more time given.


I am sure that you are very good at what you do.

I would say I am one of the best but that would not be to brag on myself.


No need for false modesty. I am sure that you are telling the truth. In my profession, I am also one of the best.

I could say that I can attest to that having spent only a little moment talking with you and I say I'm honored to always have your attention.


Yes, you seem to be someone who is nice. It is fortunate that we met and that we understand each other.

I'd be so honored to be able to meet you someday if possible.


It would be nice if we could meet. Italy and Spain are quite close.

Yes there's a possibility but I know most times you seem to be busy with work.


Both of us are very busy people, that is true. However, it would just be a question of carving out a time and place in our respective work schedules.

Yes we are both busy individuals I agree to that but you seem to be busier than I am with work.


I have to work for a very good reason....lol. I really have no choice but to accept all of the jobs offered...sigh.

Sometimes the responsibilities are heavy but never giving up is the only option to moving forward.


So tell me Pamela, do you spend all day at home when you are back from work?


Usually, I do though today at 20.00, I am going to go out with three colleagues from work. It is always good to laugh with someone else. I know that I will regret it tomorrow when I have to get up at 6.00 but it has been a while since I have gone out.

Well, that would be if you happen to get back home very late tonight.


I will be home by midnight, but still, that is very late for me.

Try to get a good rest when you get home and I suggest you don't have too much to drink if you have to go to work tomorrow.


Richard... I don't drink or smoke. Occasionally I drink a glass of white wine, but nothing stronger. People who drink excessively or smoke are not intelligent.

You are partly right and although there are so much reasons people do drink and it can not all be justified either,


People who have those habits usually need help of some sort.

Sure they do. Well, do you have a favorite drink if you had to drink?


Spain has the best wine in the world. My favorite white wine comes from Galicia in the north of Spain. It is made from a grape called AlbariÒo.

Mmm... I would sure like to know what it tastes and feels like if I had the opportunity.


I think Italy has the best wines when it comes to red wines.


I rarely drink red wine, but the few times that I have, it has to be very, very good. In Spain, the best red wines are Rioja or Ribera del Duero. But, as I said, I am not a big fan of red wine. When there is no white, I prefer rosÈ.

Mmm... I see that you like the special sort of drinks if you have to drink at all.


Yes, wine moments should be few and only with special people.

Would you consider having a glass of wine with me if you had to?


Yes, of course. Yours would be an invitation that I would accept.


Not everyone accepts an invitation like that especially someone as busy as you are.


lololol...I am usually very busy, but I also like to have fun

I know you like to have fun but do you have fun often or is it rarely?


I have fun at work and with my family. Throughout my life, I have had to make my own fun.

And what do you like to do for fun Pamela? I am sorry if I am being too curious. I only feel like we are having a physical conversation and it gets interesting over time.


Actually, I enjoy scuba diving, and am certified open-water diver. I haven't been able to dive for a while, but it is on my list.

You should check it off of your bucket list Dear. Well, I like to swim and I can say that I am a pretty good swimmer but I don't always get to do it for the fun except when on vacation.


Yes, I should. Perhaps next vacation I will think about it. I must go and do a few things before going out this evening. I hope that the rest of your evening goes well. Hasta maÒana, Richard.

Hasta maÒana mi Pamela Abrazos. Good morning beautiful, how are you?


Thank you for the orchid, Richard. I slept a little later because I got home at 23.45, and now I am late for work....sigh. So, I will see you later in the day when I return.

Cheer up and have a fabulous day at work Pamela, I'll do the same and here's a cup of coffee for you Dear.


Hello, Richard. It is nice to see you. I am fine though somewhat tired.

Some days are hectic for everyone but it is also important to have a good rest when you are back from work. Have you had something to eat since you got back home?


I got home at midnight last night, and was up early. I will eat dinner later on, of course.

So tell me how was your time out with the ladies last night?


I had a lovely time. We had sushi and a bottle of wine between the four of us. We discussed work and laughed a lot.

I guess you so much enjoyed your time and almost forgot that you had to be early at work this morning.


It's good though to sometimes have beautiful moments like that with your friends.


I would not have done anything differently but still it was difficult to get started this morning. I had to drink two cups of coffee instead of one.

And how did you feel after having two cups of coffee with an added extra from me this morning?


lolololol.... I finally managed to wake up, but it was difficult.

At least you were able to put everything in order and get ready for work so that was a good effort on your part.


Like the proverbial phoenix, I am capable of rising from my ashes. How did your day go today? Any problems with your ship?

Everything has been going calm and in sync today but there is a forthcoming storm and everything has been put in place for it. Tell me Pamela, what do you like to do when you are back from work daily?


I usually continue on the computer but just as enjoyment. I shop on the weekends, and I also do the necessary housework.

Well, I was curious to know because you told me that you live alone and I thought how boring it will be with no one there to talk with. Are you an introvert?


Actually, I talk quite a bit. Living alone is no longer a problem since there are so many new ways of communicating with others. Sometimes, I have to just shut down the computer and not talk any more. And since I live in an apartment building, I have three neighbors on my floor, whom I am good friends with.

That's nice and you seem to be more friendly than I thought. You know I used to think that you were someone who's always too busy for even a relaxation time but apparently I found out that I am wrong.


Well, it is true that I have a lot of things to do, but some days are busier than others.

On your busy days what keeps you calm despite the numerous activities you engage in?


Music. An easy question to answer. I always work listening to music except when I am interpreting.

I think this is going to be an interesting topic as music happens to be the most important activity to me.


Well, you would probably hate the music that I listen to.

I assume your favorite language to listen to music would be in Spanish right?


I listen to zen music that has no words of the mindfulness variety. My oldest son refers to it as anti-suicide music.

It's an absolute favorite for you I can tell easily.


Well, it allows me to work more efficiently. I must go now, Richard. There are things that I must do around the apartment.

Would you be kind enough to send me some of your favorite music please? I'd like to feel how you feel when you listen to music.


I will see what I can do. Until tomorrow, Richard.


Good morning my good friend how are you doing today?

Hello, Richard, I have just a moment for lunch, but I wanted to thank you for the rose. See you later.


You're welcome Pamela and I wish you a lovely day out there at work. Stay safe.


I have a meeting an emergency meeting to attend to right now ,I will write you when I return so we can talk more.


so how are you today I hope all is well?

Why did you ask about French? Sure, everything is fine. Qu'est-ce que tu veux? I lived in Paris for five years.


I told you that I spoke various languages. French is one of them. How was your meeting?


it went well but it was an emergency meeting.


There were some engines that needed immediate replacement due to wear and tears but it has been delayed for a while but now it has gotten to the headquarters and I needed to be the one to present the issue to the crew on board.

Well, I am glad that you were able to resolve the situation.


And good night. It is dinner time now. Talk to you tomorrow. Have a peaceful evening.


So soon? You know I'm already missing you tonight.. Well, I wish you a nice dinner and a goodnight sleep until tomorrow. Cuidate. Good morning how are you doing today?

A good morning so far. Thank you for dropping in.


I slept well as usual. And you? No further worries about the motors I hope.


It was a cold night out here but all hands must be on deck this morning despite the temperature.


There are further worries about the motors but hopefully it will be resolved this time.

Since you are the engineer, I am sure that they will be. And since you are in Italy, it will warm up during the day. At least you are not in Canada. Temperatures in Italy are about like they are here.


you're right about the temperature in Canada, it is nothing here in Italy compared to Canada.

I must leave for work. Try and have a good day.


You too Pamela and don't forget to get an extra cup of coffee too just in case.

I am at work and I just received an interpreting job with an international group of geologists, who are going out to find prehistoric remains near a place called Alicun de la Torre . Needless to say, it is the middle of nowhere, and I have been warned that there is no wifi or phone coverage except in higher parts of the town. The hotel claims to have wifi, but I am skeptical. Since they will be looking at bones for five days, I will be less available until I return on Saturday. I just wished to let you know.


Now you are having me worried about you and I don't know why I am worried exactly. Well, I hope everything goes well over there for you and you already know I am going to miss you right?

Yes, Richard. I won't be leaving until tomorrow. I am now reading up about dinosaur bones.


Lololol It seems like you are part of the discovery team Pamela. Well. I hope you take good care of yourself. Until whenever we can talk again.

Thank you for the flower, Richard. Back from work today.


Good. I was practicing my online Russian lessons and thinking about packing.


Ok my dear. I wish you all the best as you back on this Journey.

It will be fun, a break from the routine, certainly.


Ok, sounds great then. Do think very good care of yourself and always know that I care so much about you okay.

It is nice to feel cared for though we have only known each other a short time. How is your ship holding up?


Fine dear Pamela. I'm in the office now.


All fine, after an hour I will go to the engine room to check on the engines.

Hopefully, all will be well, but with an engineer like you, how could it not be?


That is why I'm here to service the engines all the time to avoid a break down.

And I am sure that you do your job very well.


Yes, very well , I'm very good at what I does.


Yes Dear Friend. What are you doing now?

lololol....what do you think that I am doing? And I already told you what I had been doing before talking to you.


I will pack this evening. It really doesn't take long to pack one suitcase, especially since it is only a question of taking jeans and sweaters. Not that I am going to be in a fashion show.... lol


Lol. I will miss you so much, hopefully you will have little signal to talk to me.

There is the remote possibility that phone coverage will not be as bad as I think that it will be. One must always think positive.


That is sure , I'm very glad to hear this. I hope so too.

My past experience with this type of job is that if the group is composed of men, they always end up arguing with each other. Instead of an interpreter, I end up being a peacemaker.


I have been told that there will be eight.


Are you always comfortable being with the men? Hope you will be given a private room?

Most of the time. Of course, it depends on the man. The few times that there is a bad apple in the barrel, the others make him behave...lolol...of course. There is a small hotel and no sleeping out under the stars. And there might be women in the group as well. I am sure that most will probably be men, there may be a few women.


Ok dear, it will be good if you are given a private room.


Good. And hope they will take very good care of you there?

I have learned to take care of myself, but it is true that there are times when I miss having a man to assume that role.


But do you know I can take that very important role and probably be the best man you have ever met? Wish you will understand and give me a chance to take that role and be part of your life.

Richard, only with time can we see what will happen between us.


Ok Pamela. I really like you and I love how you react to things.

We have fun chatting and can talk about things. That is a good start.


I hope you find the feelings soon and see me as your life partner.

lololol.... when we meet, I will tell you. I do not fall in love with anyone online. That is the road to disaster. I have seen many cases.


Lol our case will be different but is cool and fine. Just follow your heart. I'm very glad to have you as my friend.

Then our case will be different, and we will be true friends until we can meet in person.


The King Saud University in Riyadh but it would have been like living in a golden cage.

Why did you turn down the offer? Yes, I really do not like the Arabic countries.


As a woman, I would have been confined to the area restricted to foreigners.

Yes and I think there are too many rules.


Yes, I agree. Money isn't everything. It would have been like a luxurious prison.


It's good to do what you have passion for and even with the little earns you will have peace of mind.


Yes, I live a very simple life, but I have happiness and peace of mind, besides being able to travel.

When I think about you ,I feel very happy inside of me. I really can't explain.


It is because we have a very special relationship.

For me it's more than a relationship. Thanks for making it special.


We are able to connect in a special way.


I can't explain how I feel. I'd love to make my actions speak more than words.


In time, I am sure that will be possible. We are not at such a great distance from each other.


Richard, you are a man that I could easily fall in love with. Our relationship is like a jigsaw puzzle. All of the pieces are there, but they still have to come together.

And in a little time the puzzles will be solved.


You're special and I'm gonna cherish and love you forever.


I have absolutely no doubt that when we meet, we will come to love each other deeply.

That's going to be the best moment of my life.


When it happens, it will be an utterly unique moment.


and I can say the same... without a doubt.


An unforgettable moment that we will remember for the rest of our lives.

Thinking about you gives me pleasure to work. Sincerely my heart is there with you.


As is mine with you. On another topic, did the engine problem finally get solved?


With you as the engineer, how could it be otherwise?


There are times when things don't get solved too.


But with experience and ideals with get an alternative. What's for dinner?

lololol,... you are preoccupied with food I will probably grill green asparagus and bake a potato.


I think that's what I'm going to eat too.


If we together we don't have to cook always sometimes we will go out and eat what we crave.


We have a lot of similarities. I'm so happy.


I wish we are together now and I'm in the kitchen making dinner while you watch me do it happily and wait to get you served.

It will be fun to do such things together.


These are the kind of thoughts that runs through my mind when I'm thinking about you. And after eating we will watch the television while your head is on my chest. Then we sleep off. You can get how I feel if you understand it.

That sounds perfect to me. A perfect scenario for love.


And I am certain that it will all come to pass as you tell it.


Sure. Let's talk later... okay my attention is needed. I love you so much.

Then until the next time, Richard. I am looking forward to our next conversation.


I will let you know when I'm back okay. I wish I get a warm kiss from you. I woke up this morning thinking about the moments we will create today when we meet. Good morning my love See you soon Even if I put my heart out in writing, I would never be able to express how much I love you. Thank you for existing. Have a great day.

Good morning, Richard. I can see that you also get up early. I hope that you have a good day on the ship.


yes, my dear my day is going well so how are you doing have you taken your breakfast? I hope you are doing well so what are you doing today.

Hello, Richard. Yes, I had breakfast and as for today. I will go to Mass, and then do some paperwork for tomorrow.


wow I love that so how was your night I hope you sleep well.I dream of you all over the night.

As I have told you, I never sleep badly.


Just out of curiosity, where in Italy is your ship?


lololol....Well, yes. Now I know that you are on that side of Italy but Italy is a long country. Near what coastal city?


Yes, you are right so when are you moving to Mars?

I have no current plans for a voyage to outer space.


Well, don't set your heart on it. You never answered my question about where you were located off the coast of Italy. You began talking about Mars.


Well, I have no idea why you did not answer...lol. You will have to tell me. Are you sure that you are all right today?


That sounds nice. So, you have passengers on the ship. Cruise ships are usually luxurious. I went on one once, and I enjoyed it a great deal.


yes you are right my dear I have a lot of passengers here.


Yes. Since I live near the Mediterranean Sea, I have been on a Mediterranean cruise. Of course, there have been none for a while because of Covid but now they have started again. Which company do you work for?


The name of my cruise ship is Carnival Glory, currently on Mexico route now.

You are on route to Mexico from the Mediterranean? That is going to be a long cruise.


Yeah. But soon I'm going to retire from job because I wanna settle down.


So I can be with my family and start up business.

Great. Will your retirement happen before or after you reach Mexico?


Well since your cruise will be over in about two weeks or so, you will have to keep busy until the three months are up.


My contract here ends in 3 months and I don't wanna sign another contract,so I will retire.

Well, I think that you are making the right decision.


Thank you my love, I will write you later.

Yes, Richard. I look forward to hearing from you.


The day is almost finished, and all is well.


I am. My daughter will be visiting this evening.


Something that I always enjoy. What time is it there?


Now you really have me confused. You told me this morning that you were on a cruise ship going to Mexico, but from what you say, we are in the same time zone.

Yes. What time do you currently have there?


The same as you but I am in Spain, not in the middle of the Atlantic. So, it just sounded strange. This morning I asked where you were. You said the Mediterranean Sea. I asked about which coastal city on the Italian coast and then you said you were on a cruise ship on route to Mexico. You even gave me the name of the ship, The Carnival Glory.

I'm sorry because I am looking at the speedometer.


No, it was just a mistake, ok, try to understand.


I'm sorry I just have an emergency call.


I am on the computer obviously. Where exactly are you?

Dear I'll get back to you we are just having some emergency meeting. I trying to put some things in order?


Hello dear I'm back we are still in Mexico ok?


I have visited Mexico several times for work. It is a country that I enjoy.

We are still in the first location that I tell you in Mexico, ok.


My love these one you are asking,it seems you want come and meet me over there I really miss you more than you me.we have not gotten any one yet we are still in the sea.


Are you busy right now? Good morning love of my life A beautiful day is waiting to be embraced by you Go and steal the show. Have a cheery day.

I guess that it must be late at night there. I hope that you have not had any more emergencies out at sea. As for meeting you, of course, I would like to. I am certain that you are someone very unique. By the way, you will have to get used to questions since I ask them all of the time. I assume that as the engineer, you already know which port that you will arrive at. So, that question should be an easy one to answer.


The informations required is confidential for the security of a company.

I'm sorry my dear. So have you taken your breakfast?


A short break from work because your comment amused me. You are on a cruise ship with passengers who do not know their final destination because of security -) And yes, I had breakfast before going to work

The passengers do know their final destination and that is why they are onboard. It would be out of place to give such vital information out to a person who is not onboard. I hope you understand me Pamela. I am only doing my work.


lololol.... okay. I can easily look it up on Internet. Don't worry.

Where is the Carnival ship Glory right now? The current position of CARNIVAL GLORY is at†Gulf of Mexico† reported 1 min ago by AIS.


Lol... That would be fine but so you know, not all information as regarding the Cruise line is duly updated.


Yes. But that's not the destination right now. The destination wouldn't be in the Google map just like that when we are advised to keep our location secured. We have had so many experience. But why are you so interested in the location?

I am interested in knowing where you are because of the time difference.


Well we do not much time difference for now.

Yesterday, you told me that it was seven hours. So, I would say that that is a lot but perhaps you were having one of your weird days.


Why? I'm trying to be careful with the company rules.

According to what you said yesterday, it is now three in the morning there.


Yes. But you make me scared with all this. But I think I trust you.

If you think that I have evil designs on your cruise ship, you need a vacation and some rest.


If not for you we don't give out the information like that. But I expected you to understand.

I don't require any information from you. Don't worry. It is all on Internet. So, I won't ask you any more questions about your job. As far as I know, neither of us is a secret agent


Yes but they can come through you unknown to you. They are very intelligent. I'm sorry that's why I'm trying to be careful.

lolololololol. Okay, okay. Then be as careful as you need to be. That is fine. I won't endanger your mission. And now I have to return to work.


I will let you know when it's morning, okay. It's the early hours now.

Hello, dear Pamela, how are you doing today?


Good morning, Richard. I hope that your day went well.

Good morning, dear Pamela. How is your day going? dear Pamela.


Hello, Richard. I am at work, but I just wished to say hello. A stressful day, but I will let you know when I return home.


Hello, Richard, I am finally back from work though there is no rest for the weary.


How was your job today? Yes, my dear, good to be back here too. What are you doing now?


Well, a load of new work, and I had to tell people to do their jobs. Why do you always ask me that?


You know that I am at the computer talking to you. That question answers itself.

I just want to know everything to that is going on with you day to day.


Well, there are some things that are self-evident.

What is your plan for the rest of today?


I am going to have a short rest, and then there are things that I must do before tomorrow because other people did not do what they were supposed to.

Ok Pamela in all you do, always take very good care of yourself okay.


I plan to because no one else is going to do it for me.

Yes my dear and I always know that I care so much about you okay.


You seem like a very trustworthy person.


I am glad that you agree that you are worth trusting.

Yes my dear. I will go to the engine room now to check.


Fine. I am sure that you have a lot of work to do.

Just a little job in the engine room will be back soon.


lololol... about the same as I was twenty minutes ago.

All engines fine, no linkage and no failure.


Then you are evidently doing a good job.

Do you know I always think about you here and wishing to be with you?


It is nice that you think that because it will make things even better when we meet.

Yes my dear, can't wait to meet you dear.


Yes very sure and it will be a great day for us.


Of course, it will be. We can meet in Paris.

Yes if that is your wish. Paris is a nice city, I love Paris.


As do I. I live there for five years. Two of my children were born there.

Wow, that's nice. It will be a pleasure to be there together.


The view from the top of the Eiffel Tower is quite lovely and we can walk in the Bois de Boulogne.


I think so, and it would be very romantic. Almost like a script from a movie.

Yes, yes, yes, very nice experience it will be plus a romantic date.


Yes, I am sure that it will happen one day when your contract is finished.


Yes, I will talk to you later my dear, have some jobs to do with my captain in the engine room now.


You too. my dear. Always know I love you. Good morning, my dear Pamela, how are you doing today I hope your day is going well?


Thank you. A way of making things more real between us.


I love the wall sticker right behind you.

I always preferred being a witch instead of a princess and since sometimes I am forced to be disagreeable.


Thanks for sharing this with me I'm so happy to have you in my daily life.

I decided to make it official. You are delightful.


Women who have a job have to be at least three times more intelligent than their male colleagues.


Do you consider yourself more intelligent than I am.

An excellent question. The jury is still out on that question.


You're just the best thing ever to happen to me I like you Pamela.

Richard, I genuinely like you. That is the truth. You are intelligent, perceptive, and with a sense of humor.


In any case, I must return to work until the afternoon. I hope to be able to see you later on.

That's everything you are and I am not even as good or intelligent as you are. Take good care of yourself and have an amazing time.


Yes, Richard, In fact, that is what I have been doing.

so what are you doing now my dear? Okay.


Oh....no. You have asked that fateful question again. The question that answers itself.


I am sitting on the couch with my laptop talking to you. I will have dinner at around eight.

I guess you already prepared dinner right?


Actually, I have some pumpkin soup and spinach from yesterday. There is also cold chicken.

Mmm... I would like to have a taste of your pumpkin soup one day if possible. Are you very good in the kitchen?


Well, I had to cook for a large family for many years. I learned how to cook very quickly.

I bet I would be better if we both had a cooking contest.


Then, we must certainly have that contest one day. I am not a gourmet chef....lol but I can make lots of dishes that be stretched out for eight or ten people.

Wow I think I have to enroll for a cooking class earlier. I don't want to be caught unaware.


Then you should begin to look around for one

The best of the best is what I have my eyes for.


Well, that is one thing to add to our list of things to do.

Yes of course it is and I hope you will have the time for us to both have the special moments.


When we meet, we will have a lot of special moments together.


You know there's a popular saying about a good wine. Do you know it? Pamela are you busy?


Sorry, I received a phone call. What is the saying about the good wine?

A glass of good wine could make you tell things from the most sincere part of your heart, a couple more would make you do things exactly how you feel like and some more would show you who it true friends really are in the morning.


That sounds like a good saying. I hope that your day went smoothly.

Not always a perfect day but I can say it is all worth it especially getting to talk to you when I can makes everything easier.


I also enjoy talking to you very much. I look forward to it.

I thought it was me alone who felt that way.


you seem to have become a wonderful friend whom I can laugh with.

I consider you to be more than a wonderful friend and everyday I get fond of you more. I can't lie to you it seems more like I've known you all my life.


Tell me Pamela, are you into any cordial relationship?


I have lots of friends at work. Not dating anyone though.

Does that mean you have no one in your live life currently Love life?


There are people here who would like to be part of my life but I am not in love with any of them. I spent many years in a marriage without love. My husband was many years older than I was.... and he was kind but it was not love.

Does that mean love has no importance or relevance to you or you're not ready yet.


I would like to find love, of course, but I am not on any dating sites or anything like that. I think that if love comes, it will do so.

And how do you know when love comes while you are not open to it.


Yes, I think so. I have to go, Richard. There are things that I have to do before dinner.


lolol... we have been talking for most of the afternoon.

Anyways. take good care of yourself until later.


Hello morning. Dear Pamela. How are you doing today I hope all is fine? I hope your day is going well.


Everything is fine so far. I will let you know when I get home.

OK my dear.Do take care of yourself. Have a lovely day.


Things went more or less smoothly. I managed. How did your day go?

Fine, thank you. Nice to hear your day went well.


My daughter told me that she and the children will be coming to eat lunch tomorrow. So, I am thinking about what to cook. I am taking one of my vacation days.

Oh, that's very nice. So you will be at home all through tomorrow? Is good to be home with the family.


I will be at home and in the kitchen.I have various vacation days that I have to use up before the end of the year.

Ok,so what are you planning to cook tomorrow?


Something that children like to eat. Probably macaroni salad and fried calamari.

Oh, that sounds good. It will be lovely then.


Good morning dear Pamela how are you doing today. I hope your day is going well?


Hello, Richard. Back from work, and good to hear from you.

And me too so where are you now? I hope you have a nice day at work today?


Ugh...that is your favorite question? Please find a new one.


I am glad that work is over for a while, and I can rest until tomorrow.

Yeah that's a relief for anyone who has had a hectic day. You've got plans for the weekend?


Actually, no. I just wish to have a quiet two days

It can't be all quiet for two days and not be boring, Pamela.


The problem might be the two different names.


Ah...I have documents to present and there is a problem with the names of the author, who legally seems to be two different people. It is a common issue that often pops up.

Does that mean the author already made a change of name declaration?


Apparently, he has not and it will be a headache...sigh.

Do you already have a good idea on what to do about it?


As happens with most of my problems, I have little idea what to do now but later on, I usually find a solution.

That's one thing with an intelligent person and I so much admire that about you.


Richard, intelligent people usually recognize each other. That is one of the reasons why we have been talking for so long.


Richard, I know that you are. I do not have time to waste on dumb people.

You're making me blush. Now that's one of the sweetest things you ever said to me.


Richard, I do not say things that I do not believe.....even if they are unpleasant, I say them. It is one of the reasons why at work...the witch is in.


You also make me smile. One of the reasons why I enjoy talking to you.

Does that mean there are so many reasons you like talking to me?


Of course, that is not the only one but evidently, our relationship is only based on words. That is a very shaky foundation for any type of emotional connection. I am a forensic linguist and so I know that that the way someone writes reflects their personality and soul. That is why I know that you are intelligent. Your absence of grammatical errors is very promising but I cannot go too far beyond that.

But this does not mean there are not enough reasons to let out out emotional connections.


We have the promise of an emotional connection.

I am prone to making grammatical errors. I don't think anyone is beyond making such mistakes either.


Richard, there is a difference between grammatical errors and typos. For a long time now, you have only made typos. That is the real you. And I like the real you and regard you as a marvelous friend until we meet.

You're an amazing person and it would be foolish for anyone to come in contact with you and not love your person.


I would say that we are both amazing, and when we meet, we might even deserve each other.

I would make a toast to better days ahead for you and I.


Yes, I would toast to that, and on that happy note, I have to return to life here to get a few things finished that are waiting in the wings.

Can you make an exception of talking later tonight?


Not sure if I will be up, but if I am, I will answer. Until our next time together.


lolol... I NEVER make a promise that I am not sure that I can keep. One of my rules of life


but please don't lose any sleep over me. It would not be good for your work on the cruise ship.I have to go since the plane is getting ready to board.

I would gladly lose my sleep over you anytime and any day Dear. Have a good trip and now I have to go to sleep my Pamela. Kisses


Hi, Richard. I have just arrived in the Chicago Airport and am somewhat jetlagged after a nine-hour flight. , I hope to have a long sleep tonight, and be able to begin work in the morning. Owen wrote to me, and I have just answered him. I hope that all is going well with you.

Hello Dear. How are you feeling now? I guess you feel much better now right? I'm glad you had a safe flight and I hope that you take good care of yourself.


Hi Richard. My day went well, but I am a bit tired and jet lagged. I have been working all day, and have finally got back. The seven hours difference is a bit overpowering.


I wish you a Happy and blessed new month Sweetheart.

I always like to go to new places. That is true. However, I would not like to live in the USA. I also hope that November is a good month for you.


Yes, definitely. Have you been able to have any fun since you arrived?

Well, there are lots of things to see, of course but here without a car, it is difficult to get anywhere. And I do not have a drivers license.


You should have an Uber take you around and you will have a good time I promise. It is always exciting when you try it.

When I have some free time, I might do that.


And when could that be? I guess you're too busy with work out there and I don't blame you for it but that is what you went there for.

Yes, the problem is that when people pay for your trip, they expect a lot more from you.


At least get some time for yourself Dear. Remember you are the master of your life.

Very true though sometimes I wonder. Have a good day, Richard. I have to get ready for work now.


Hello Pamela. How are you doing today? I hope you are fine. Good morning Pamela how are you doing today?


Hello, Richard. I just got up to start the day. How were things for you yesterday?


Yes, I am not on my computer very much except for work.


Chatting at work is not a good idea. It creates a bad impression.


So I hope the work is going well and fine?

It is going well, of course. I know what I am doing, but it is tiring and there is pressure.


And how many hours of rest do you get daily?

Well, that depends. With the jetlag, I do not sleep as well. Usually about six hours.


So sorry love. I think the days are remaining a few and you could get a good relaxation once your work is all done.

When I return to Granada, that is what I plan to do How long will you be out at sea?


Not too long before I leave port. Would you like to come and visit me? I'd like that.


How about you come and visit me in Canada? it is quite cold there but I think you'll like it.

Actually, I like Canada. I have been to Montreal and Trois-Rivieres in Quebec a few times for work.


French translating works I guess, right? Was it at this time of the year?

Yes, French is one of my languages. No, it was in the spring.


It is usually a nice time in spring, and you'll like the fresh air and serene environment.

I prefer Canada to the USA. It is more like Europe.


Yes that's right. The United States has a more rigid and rough type of environment to my opinion.

It depends on the city, but certainly here in Chicago, that is the case.


Chicago has a regular change in the temperature, humidity and weather as a whole but it is preferable to so many other States.

Well, Chicago is a city in Illinois and now the temperature is higher than usual


Hello, Richard. Is that the new uniform for generals?


We can talk more better here now. Can I have a few of your beautiful smile pictures.

Yes, we can talk better . Two smile pictures.


Wow you look so beautiful and sweet so tell me where do you get that wonderful smile from.

Nice to see you as well. As for my smile, I am always laughing.


That's good to know. So please tell me more about yourself now my beautiful lady.

Well, I married very young, perhaps too young, to a man 23 years older. I was 15 and he was 38. It was arranged, and the best way for me at the time. He was a diplomat and we lived in many different countries. I learned English, Spanish, Italian, German, and French. I also am reasonably fluent in Russian. We had four children and they are now all grown. I am lucky enough to have seven grandchildren. I have a great job that allows me to travel. My husband had a stroke, and I took care of him until he died of a second stroke, That is the story of my life.


Oh okay, my beautiful lady, please sorry for the lost. So tell me do you live alone or not? And tell me do you live in a house or apartment.

I live alone and in an apartment. Where do you live when you are not in Yemen?