Oh, I understand but you need to have time for yourself in the future and also have a business plan for me after my retirement I will love to open a big restaurant to keep me busy. I really don't want to be alone in the future. Tell me about your late husband and I hope he treated you right.

You are a doctor.... and you want to open a restaurant? My husband was twenty years older than I was. It was an arranged marriage. He extracted me from a difficult situation, and I was grateful to him. He was kind and a good father, but I was not in love with him.


Yes after my retirement because my late wife was was running that business after she stop working has a teacher. I really run this business with my late wife before she pass out and you met your husband when you were 15 years old I remember you told me that. Why were you not in love with him?

People do not fall in love automatically with someone else. I was young and immature. He was much older and treated me more like a daughter. I had to be a good wife because I had nothing else to go back to.


You told me he was 20 and you are 15 when you met him.


Wow. 20 years older than you then you and I hope you were not force to marry him at that time or did your parents pressure you?

My parents were dead. I was staying at a convent, and I did not want to become a nun. I decided that marriage was preferable.


I see, but you couldn't have marry someone you don't love.


It happens all the time. He had money and wanted children. I was penniless.


I'm sorry about that but I'm happy to hear from you he was a nice guy.


Wow, just look at your beautiful your smile and pretty face.


Why don't you want to be a nun and how did you get to convent did your parents wanted you to be a nun? You are right.

Anyway, I have to return to work. Have a nice day.


Alright we will talk about this later when we closed from work because I'm also at work and I will be on duty soon.

Ah... and as for the convent. When my parents died, that is where female orphans end up where there is no place else to go.


I'm in the office talking to you with my computer and I will be going to eat lunch soon. Talk to you later, please take good care of yourself and stay safe, kisses and hugs.....How are you? So how was your day today I hope you have a wonderful day today? Are you here or you are busy and im sorry for late reply i was very busy today at work with my patient and you i thought you are going to check on me before i closed from work but i was surprise you did not drop any message and i was thinking about you when i was working. You slept off without saying good night and you did not check on me. I was waiting for your message and it late over here and im going to bed now and i will talk to you tomorrow and give me a message when you are here.

Sorry about that Roland. After work, I had to go to the dentist, and then, there were things to buy at the grocery store, .... and I didn't get back on the computer until this morning.


Good morning over here and i just woke up to check on my computer and im glade to see your message. I understand that.


Will you be going to work today and for me i still have time before preparing for work.

Of course, I am going to work. I also have travel to Seville for s meeting.


Alright and when are you traveling to Seville? After work today or tomorrow? Will you be driving there or you are going by train?

I don't drive. I am going with another colleague who also has to go. She has a car.


Dont you know how to drive? Ok good to know.


My husband said that he would take anywhere that I needed to go. And there is also good public transportation in Europe.


Yes, you are right and i see but you dont have to stress yourself to work everyday if you drive and how many km from your hose to your working place?


I want to tell you this,i think about you when im in the office all through yesterday and i really think i have never felt this way before ever since i lost my late wife.

Really? Well, Roland, for me to feel that way we have to meet.


I woke up this morning and thought something was missing. So I got up from my bed, grabbed my cell phone and sent you a morning greeting.


Okay, take care but we can still talk when you get to work because you dont give me a message when you are work. I feel like talking to you all day and all night and when im in the office doing nothing.

I am going to Seville. I will try but I will be busy today.


I woke up today smiling as I recall our friendship because I know that years from now, I will still be waking up smiling for the same reason every morning and what are you going to do over there in Seville? Are you going for a visit?

Scroll back, I already told you. See you later, hopefully.


Meeting with who? General meeting for all workers or your personal meeting? I really want to know because i need to be knowing your where about and how you spend your day to day activities , I care so much about you and Sometimes, life gets so busy that we could not find time to say Thank you to someone who has been so nice and wonderful. Thank you, I want to thank you for all your attention to me. Thanks for being part of my life. Thanks for who you are. I can¥t stop thinking of you. You are in my heart and in my dreams.

General meeting for all EU translation personnel based in Andalusia with the Language and Terminology Services.


Sounds interesting and i will love to know more about your job when you are back we will have time to talk and i will be preparing for work now and im going to check on you when i get to the office. Please take good care of yourself for me and stay safe and know you are always in my heart...kisses and hugs please try to stay closed and connected to your phone always because i will be checking on you. Can i ask you a question?


lololol... Do you want me to be truthful?


Because we only chat online, a situation has never arisen that has shown me that you can be trusted or distrusted. So I neither trust nor distrust you.


Really? Oh Yes, I know it's hard to trust but i don,t give up in trusting the right woman who i love to spend the rest of my lifetime with.

lolol...Roland, I have never started to trust you.... so I cannot give up on trusting you.


You need trust to love, but first you need to love in order to trust. To love someone is to understand each other, to laugh together, to smile with your heart and to trust one another.


One important thing is to let each other go if you can't do this. Love is like a wonderful feeling of compassion and satisfaction. It should be given respect and trust and it should receive that love back.

You do not have to preach to me about the wonders of love. But I do not fall in love online with someone that I have never met.


The best proof of love is trust, True love is the greatest thing finding.

For that to happen, you would have to write infinitely better than you do now. And you are definitely not Shakespeare.


Relationships should never be taken for granted. The choice of being with another life is an amazing thing. Trust, loyalty and respect are a must for eternal happiness. No matter how much you love someone if you don't have these ingredients you will never succeed.

There you go preaching again.... sigh. Please stop. We do not have the foundations for a true relationship yet.


Why do you say that? To be in love means being patient but to be patient you must trust him/her first.

Because all we have are words in a chatbox. But I have no reason to love you.


You can never find love through the eye or ear, so you must trust the only thing that will never fade until you die, your heart.


But im going to give you thousand reasons to love me and i really want to be with you.

Please do not copy things off the Internet. If the reasons that you give me are only words, then good luck.


Because you did a cut and paste. This was exactly the same sentence that you used when you were preaching to me. It did not impress me. I have to go, Roland. See you perhaps in Seville.


Im using my computer to talk to you and i really dont know what you are talking about but i have to tell you how i feel about you before telling you my worries because i want to know if you care.

I do not love you, Roland, and cannot love you until we meet if we ever do.


We have to finish talking about this when you are free and i want to know why you find it difficult to trust.

I am talking about LOVE, Roland. I do not love everyone that I trust. You are ectoplasm for now. I have never even heard your voice or seen you or touched you. So, until later.


You are and love is like trust, when you find your special someone it is as if you're trusting them with your heart. Trust is what you put in someone's hands. Faith is what you hold on to. Trust is what makes everyone realize that you are always there for them.


Faith is what makes everyone realize that you are always there to help them in case they need some help.really love her. Love makes not everyone, but the only one in your life who is special, think that you are always there for her, to be with her, to cherish her, to fulfill her dreams, to share with her and most of all, to make her realize how much you.

STOP please.... you sound like a relationship coach. Go to work. Tell this to your patients. Maybe it will impress them.


Distance doesn't matter if you really love the person, what matters most is your honesty and trust for that relationship to work out. Bye for now. I will talk to you later and love is a wonderful gift trust in it, believe in it, give it, and it will be returned to you to give again and again. You can get advice from family, friends and strangers but the best advice comes from your heart. There may be many people that are trustworthy but only a few are worth trusting with your heart choose wisely and im going to give you a message when i get to work ,i miss every moment you are not here but i dont know why you dont have any feelings for me?

Hi, Roland. I will soon be in Seville. This is just to say that I cannot fall in love with texts, especially those that spout platitudes about love and trust. You seem to have had very little experience with women. Perhaps when we meet, you will win my heart. I do like you, but I cannot love someone just on the basis of of their ordering me to love and trust them. That doesn't work. Perhaps later....Hi, Roland. I am home at last.


Nice to be back. The trip and meeting were exhausting since it was all in one day.


Oh really and clashes between who and who?

Well, when there are a lot of documents to translate, the translators need answers fast. The people in the language services have a lot of work, and do not always provide solutions on time.


Well, not everyone can do it. One must know various languages. That's true, and also how to write without making grammatical and stylistic errors. There are a lot of people who are multilingual, but do not know how to write.


And you how many languages can you speak and translate.


Wow Have you taken your bath and dinner?

I just had a shower, and will have dinner at 20.00.


Okay, nice to hear from you and will you eat for dinner?

I have absolutely no idea. I will decide when I look in the refrigerator.


Okay and your house help where is she or she only come once a month?


Okay, that's good and please tell me why you don't want me or want us to be together in the future because I see you are not yet ready to open your heart to love.

Roland, I am ready. It all depends on whether there is chemistry when we meet.


You are still only words to me and that is not enough.


We both have that chemistry can't you see. What more do you want and I will do anything for you,I will do anything to see the both of us together.

Roland, until we touch and share a pillow that is when I will know if chemistry exists. You cannot do those things from a distance. Why are you so eager to decide everything right now? Our meeting is only a question of a few months.


I like that but I'm over here in Yemen for a peace keeping mission and you know I won't be coming back soon but I don't like here either.


Because I don't want to lose you for someone else and I really can't hide my feeling for you because you are all I ever wanted and you bring joy to my heart when I communicate with you. Yes and I also think we should slow down with our friendship and let see what the future has for the both of us.

Well, I can like you online, but I cannot fall in love online.


lololol... your words are not enough. You would have to write much much better than you do.


Talking to you make me fall in love with you everyday and I hope to see you tomorrow because I believe everything is possible and I know faith will bring us together but I'm here for more than 8 months now and I also miss my son and what do you think about my son ,I think I should tell him about us .

I do not think that you should because it would be disappointing for him if we did not work out.


Ok if that is what it will take to win your heart ?? Why do you think so and why do you think negative about our friendship.

If you want to tell him, go ahead. I was just thinking of him.


I will love to tell him but I'm also scared because I don't know if you are going to accept my son and take him has your own kid when we are together in the future,you know I love Josh so much and the school teacher also told me the other day that his not too fine and this also make me feel worried over here.


I have four children and seven grandchildren. That means that I evidently like children. IF we became a couple, of course, I would accept him.


What I am surprised is that you have left him in a boarding school for eight months.


I really appreciate that and I know Josh will be very happy to see the both of us together and when I tell him about us I know he will love to talk to you and I hope you will love that too. Yes because of my job here and I never thought I would be here till now.

No, I am not going to talk to him until we really are a couple and I meet him. We are not a couple now.


My contract is 4 months but it has extended to more than 9 months now because of the UN and you know I can't leave here with my power unless the UN grant my vacation.

I do not disappoint children I have worked for the UN and I know people who still work there. I know how vacations there work.


Ok but what is the matter with you talking to him now if you truly love him so much.

I do not know him and thus have no idea whether I love him. I have to go now. Until the next time.


Oh really you never told me about that and when was that?


Ok I'm happy you know about the government and how it work here. Wow that is nice and what are you going to do now and have you eaten your dinner ,did you check the refrigerator to know what to eat? I won't tell my son about us untill you are ready to talk to him because you really don't feel like talking to him now that why you said untill we are couple. You make me feel like you don't want my son and I really feel sad because you know Josh mean allot to me and when the school teacher told me his not feeling too well I really feel like crying because I'm too far from him and that is also the course. I really want to go back to the state has soon has I can because I will have to take a flight to the UK to see Josh in the boarding school has soon has I get to the state. Give message me when you are here because I see you are busy now and I will be waiting for you.

Okay, I am back. I will tell you what I think. If you read your message, you will see why I have my doubts about us as a couple. You have written a text with a plethora of syntactic, lexical, and grammatical errors. It is not the text of someone who has studied medicine. For example, you systematically use "has" instead of "as". You use his instead of "he's". You say "state" instead of "the States". You say "Give message me" instead of "Send me a message". Where did you learn to write so poorly? And those are only some of the errors. And if you wish to see your son, the UN does not have you in chains.


Oh my God. I'm a German and English is not my national language,you need to understand that has well. And for the error I think they are also grammatical error in what you say,I think no one is perfect but you are the perfect one here. Yes they do.

Okay, wenn Sie mˆchten, kˆnnen wir auf Deutsch sprechen. Das macht die Verst‰ndigung einfacher. Ich habe kein Problem damit, unser Gespr‰ch auf Deutsch fortzusetzen.


I think I'm comfortable using English. Yes.

Well, I suggest that you take more care with your texts. And as for my grammar, if I did not write correctly in English, I would not have a job. So feel free to correct me if you see any errors. I would greatly appreciate it.


What? German is one of my languages as well as Spanish, English, French, and German. I have lived in Leipzig.


I have lived in Paris, as well as Moscow. I think that this conversation has come to an end.


Why do you say that? I enjoy this conversation.

Well, I am exhausted, and I do not find this conversation that enjoyable.


Where are you going now again because you left here a minute ago before coming back.

I am going to bed. I ate dinner. Obviously one has to eat. And I came back to answer you and tell you what I think about the way that you write.


You're right and I think you have never find anything enjoyable ever since we met because you have not opened your heart towards me but you know I love you so much and I want to be with you.

Roland, I do not think that we can be together until we meet. Your words are not sufficient to cause me to fall in love with you.


I find joy in sending you a message and I don't take time most of the time because I'm excited but this only happened between us but I find my self craving for you.

Good night, Roland. You might crave me but the feeling is still not mutual.. See you tomorrow.


I feel you and I really appreciate the fact you are telling me how you feel about me , I know love don't come easily but currently I will be patient with you. I'm also in bed listening to news talking to you but I don't feel sleepy now and I wish you can spend more time with me. What is the time over there now? Are you here or you are busy? You sleep off with saying good night. Good night and sweet dream.

Good morning, Roland. I can see that you did not believe me when I said that I was going to bed....lol. You should know by now that I go to bed early because I wake up every morning at 6.30, if not earlier. So we will never ever chat at night. And as for the time, if you ask that, I will always say that it is your time minus two hours. And the grammatically correct phrase is that "love DOESN'T come easily.... sigh.


Okay good. So what are you doing right now?.. Okay now we can talk here and I will love you to delete our old conversation on on those old email and also delete it from your phone okay we can be talking here now okay?

Sure, I will. I have just finished work and lunch and am resting.


Okay, good to know and what did you eat for lunch?


I will be going to take my lunch break soon.

Lunch? It is almost 17.00. You should be thinking about dinner.


I'm not feeling hungry now and I normally eat my lunch in the company restaurant before closing and I only take coffee in the morning before my lunch break. You should also learn how to wash your weight do you go for exercise or gym?


When I'm in the state I normally go for Walk out to keep fit and wash my weight.

and I have never been fat in my life. And it is WATCH your weight.


Please send me your beautiful pictures here for me to admire. Wow. You really look beautiful and younger than your age but I think you will weigh more than 125 pounds now and when last do you check your weight ?

I check it every morning. I go between 123 and 130 at the most. And, by the way, what does it matter to you? Are you Mr. Universe?


Yes. It's matter to me because I really don't like fat. LoL. Wow. You have a beautiful smile and I really admire that.

Thank you, Roland. And it is "It matters to me" not "It's matter to me".


Welcome. Thank you and I have allot to learn from you smile. Tell me how do you treat your man?


For me I treat my lady with respect and give her time and attention because I really don't like being alone and you?

As for treating my man, I will tell you when I am with someone -) I do not believe in possessing anyone.


So he would never be "my man". We would be like two strings on a guitar. We sound well together.


but also separately, People should never possess each other.


To love is to put your faith in once hands and never giving up on them no matter what.


Never mind. I think you should Open your heart to love.

lolololol... you have said that before. I am open, but I am selective.


I see you don't have feelings for me or anyone because you are use being alone.

If I had wanted to be married, I could have remarried a long time ago.


"used to being alone". I have lots of feelings for my family. I have not as yet met a man whom I have fallen in love with. As I have told you numerous times.


Okay family come first I know and how big is your family?

I have four children and seven grandchildren and an army of nephews and nieces as well as in-laws.


Very soon you will meet one and I hope you give him the opportunity to love you .

Here are a few of them. I trust that when we meet, you will change my mind.


I hope so and I hope you also change your mind and follow your heart.

That is easier to do when the person is standing in front of you and is not ectoplasm in a chatbox.


Can I see more and your children also your late husband picture please show me.


We should take things step by step before making plans to meet each other. Beautiful family and what will your children say about us and will they accept me?

If you are not whom you say you are, my three sons will rend you limb from limb...lol and the youngest won the European Boxing Championships for Policemen and Firefighters.


Hahahaha. That is nice, and I remember you told me one of your son is a police officer. Nice profession.


That was when I only had two little ones.


Nice to hear that from you and I think we should be serious with each other and let see hat the future has for both of us because I really see the attitude of a good woman in you.

lolol... stranger things have been known to happen


Strange things like what and I think you are hiding something from me?

Roland, are you for real? That is an English expression. If you do not know what it means, look it up.


Then you should understand idiomatic English.


Yes I know it's an expression but it seem like they is something you are not telling me.

lolololol... give me a break. I have just sent you various photos. You are the one that is a mystery. If you want to call me or have a videochat, no problem. If anyone is hiding a dark past, it is you.


Okay no problem I will do that when I close from work today and I really think I should call you and see you.


Okay, I will tonight and do you have plans of going out today again or you will be at home all day after work.

Odd, you are quite different today from the way you have always been. You are like a totally different person.


Because your style of writing has changed completely. It is as though you have had a brain transplant...lol.


Hahahaha. I think you are too perfect for me.

Since I have met you, I have told you that you cannot even write as well as a fifth-grader


I guess that you are so handsome. You can't prevent others from being jealous and stealing your photos. It is a problem when one is excessively handsome.


Thanks for that, So what are you doing right now?

Well, it is not your fault that you are so attractive.... sigh. It is a burden that you will have to live with.


Because I am sure that it will happen over and over again. Another headache in your daily life. However, I am sure you will manage to deal with it.


I hope so. You are right, What are you doing now?

I was watching the television before dinner.


The television? It is a documentary on Colombian druglords.


Hahaha sounds interesting. Just wait a minute I will be back soon ok?

Dinner time, Roland. Until the next time.


Am back now. What are you going to take for dinner.

No one "takes" dinner, Roland. What are you going to HAVE or EAT for dinner. And I had pizza. And please don't say "Am back now". In English, you have to use the subject. So, please say "I am back now". Okay. I guess that it is late for you in Yemen. Sleep well, and see you tomorrow.


Thanks for your correction. Now I understand thanks for that. Wow Okay. Okay thanks for that too. Okay I am back now. Okay Pamela have a good night ?? with a sweet dreams okay I am going to give you a text when I wake up in the morning okay?


Same to you how was your night I hope you slept well last night?..


That's good to know so what are you doing right now?

I was reviewing Russian vocabulary on Babbel.


What's that? Good morning over there and how was your night?

Roland, you just asked me that same question and I am not going to repeat myself if you have amnesia. As for Babbel, it is a language app.


As you probably are aware, it is complicated to visit Russia now. Knowledge of languages has to be refreshed. So, I use this program to keep up-to-date in Russian.


Oh okay, I see what you mean and how big is your office and how many workers are there?

I have an office to myself, but the building is very large, and a lot of people work there. Here it is https yip.su/2SvRz5


Then, don't believe me. It happens to be true,


I don't believe anything you say because you always claims to be the perfect one here and I love you for who you are and not what you have.

lolololololol...I do not HAVE the building where I work. I only have my office there. If you wish to believe it, fine, and if not, I could care less. You asked me a question and I answered it,


Then.... that is your problem, not mine.


Sure it is. Tell me how many workers are there?

The University of Granada has over 1500 workers if not more.Imparten docencia 3.650 profesores y trabajan m·s de 2.000 administrativos, tÈcnicos y personal de servicios. Actualmente se imparten 75 titulaciones en los 28 centros docentes de que dispone la UGR.Actually, I just looked it up. I work in the Translation Faculty, which is also connected to the Language Services of the EU.


I did of the part in Spanish because when I asked how many employees. It was easier to cut and paste.. lololol... you must have gotten up in a bad mood. If you don't believe what I say, then don't talk to me any more.


Whatever Why will you think I should believe you or trust you when you don't feel anything for me.

I am not asking you to trust or believe me.


You are the one who is making a mountain out of a mole hill. I have always told you that I cannot fall in love with someone whom I have never met.


I'm at work and I really feel frustrated here because my computer is not coming up ND I can't work without my computer and this computer needed an updated it really suck.

I am surprised that the United Nations does not provide better equipment When I was working there six years ago in Geneva, everything was very modern.


Yes they do not but this is my personal problem because I bought lot of card for my computer before coming but I never thought I will be her more than 4 months and I'm running out of card again and my friend who used to help me with this has not been online for weeks now and have not been able to reach him because he his on the state .

If you are at work, it is the problem of your employers.


This is my personal computer I used in research and for recording work and also used to connect internet to my phone when I'm in my lodge and I really can't connect internet or have network frequency and I can't get the steam card over here, I really don't know what to do now I'm confused and I really don't want to used my problem to worry you.

Roland, I work with computers. I can program and design web resources for translators. Computers are not updated with Steam cards. Steam cards are only used for gaming. Replacing or adding hardware components such as the CPU, GPU, RAM, storage, or other peripherals. That is what updating involves. I have to go now and start the day. I hope that you manage to solve your problems. It seems that you have a lot of them this morning. Perhaps you will not be in such a lousy mood later on. Until the next time.


Since yesterday they was a bad network frequency over here and my Computer is also giving me issues because I'm Running out of Line subscription and I only use the company network when I'm in the office because I bought lot of card for my compute before coming for this contract but I'm running out of Line now and my Computer need Line subscription for me to be able to connect to internet I normally get this in the state before coming for my contract because we can't see it here. Yes food is not a problem over here, but the bad network frequency and the sea is rough and dangerous that really make my heart beat and I'm tired of this place I can't wait to go back to the USA and I really miss my daughter so much. It's has been going to a month now my Friend help me with the Internet subscription because I'm not longer in the state and I can't get the steam card for my computer over here and I need this for my computer to work well because is giving me problem and need me to update for my computer Internet and my friend who used to help me out with this has not been online for a while now and I'm trying to contact him but I can't reach him I really don't know what to do my love and I don't want to lose contact with you and my Son and I need this for my contract too because I work with my computer. I really don't know what to do and I don't know if you can help me out with any idea because I'm trying to figure a way out and I don't know if you can get me the steam gift card over there for my computer to work properly because it going to shout down soon and I use this for work and research when I'm not in the yard to support my work please we need to figure a way out. I'm going to pay you back anything you spend on the card or the Internet has soon has I leave this place my love because I can't do without this ,you can get me 600 please let me know this will be enough for my computer to work for weeks before I hear from my friend or find a way to contact him because I have no one else who will help me with this and I don't have access to my bank account because I'm over here in the in camp I have more than enough in my account but I can't do international transaction over here and this really suck. No internet connection please I really need subscription I got notified this morning the last card my friend sent me just finished I can't access anything anymore please send me the steam card 100x6 i don't want to lose connection with you.

Roland, As I told you, steam cards are not used for computer updates or online subscriptions unless you are really into gaming. Your screen capture is just a normal Windows update, which occurs on all computers every so often. I am certain that with your intelligence, you will be able to figure out a way to solve your problem . However, if you wish to leave Yemen, I can help you with that. My nephew is a lawyer who works for a firm that specializes in international law. If you send me a copy of your contract with the UN, I can send it to him. He has told me that if they will not allow you to leave, it is illegal. So, he can probably find many loopholes, which will permit you to return home to the STATES . AND since he is doing his favorite aunt a favor, it will not cost you anything.


Yes I understand all what you say but I'm using the steam card for updates because I have to convert it to BTC with my vendor before my vendor send updates for my computer please help me get this card or Google play card for my computer to be able to update because I can't shout it down at this moment. I know what is best for me and I'm still having patient with my contract and thank you for your care and your nephew how many years as he be in the law and did you tell him about us ?

My nephew is 39 years old, and has been a lawyer for 14 years. Yes, I told him. As for your computer update, I know what is best for me.


Please go to the supermarket or Walmart, CVS pharmacy to help me get the Google card for my computer.

This is Spain, Roland, and Granada is a small town. There is no Walmart or CVS pharmacy.


I really can't do without this computer and Spain has Google card or apple card and you can get it in the mall over there I don't know how much that will be in euro but I think 600 will be okay for my computer to work for weeks.

lolololol... you have given me the first laugh of the morning. You THINK that 600 euros would be Okay.


No, Roland, I am not going to send you 600 euros because I know how people update computers


Did you see the Zangi app now sweetheart?


Well, I did what you told me to do, but I cannot see that it is really installed. Perhaps it is, but I have no idea. Hi, Roland. This is just to let you know that I am not going to install the app because that means that I can only text you on my phone, since the app does not work on my computer.


Obviously not. We are talking on GoogleChat. I am on my computer.

Try and install the zangi app in your phone go to your Google play store app and install the zangi app on your phone then I will send you my zangi number or you will send me the zangi number they send to you.


I told you that the Zangi can only be installed on my phone and not my computer. So, I really do not want it.

Do you have the zangi app in your phone now try and sign into your Zangi and send me your zangi number then I will give you a text on zangi okay?..


Why would I do that? I do not plan to use Zangi to communicate with you.

Why please try and install it on your phone so we can chat there because my email always have problem and I don't want to lose contact with you that is why I want you to install it on your phone and sign in they are going to give you number that is the number you are going to send to me then I will give you a text here on my zangi then we can be chatting there and I know zangi is comfortable to chat okay? I know that but as you can see my email always have problems so that is why I said we should talk on zangi zangi is more comfortable to chat okay. Try and install it and send me your zangi number so we can chat in zangi because chatting here on Google chat look like I am going to lose contact with you and I know zangi we be more better for us to chat okay trust me


Roland, chatting on the phone is not comfortable for me. At work, I can't be seen chatting on my phone, and I hate texting like that.

I know that but my email always have problems that's why I want you to install the zangi app on your phone zangi is more comfortable for us to chat, okay?


If the only way for you is Zangi, I am sorry. We will just have to chat whenever you can. here


I told you to help me get the card for my computer system if you can help me with that I know I will get in touch with my son please just help me with it if you can please.

Apparently, you can get in touch with me. Roland, we have discussed the gift card already. I still feel the same way.


But you haven't say anything about that.

Before we stopped talking, Roland, you already asked me about a gift card.


So why can't you just get it for me please?

and I told you that no Internet server or computer company updates a computer with gift cards.


And updating an OS, does not cost 600 euros.


Of course, you are the one using it. And so?


Please just help me get it please they can use gift card for so many things.

I do not plan to send a gift card to a doctor in Yemen, who makes more money than I do and who can send his son to an expensive boarding school. That is insane.


You can still get the 600 euros for me please.

Why, Roland? I see absolutely no reason.


Yes you are right but all my details are in the state so I can't get access to them, that is why I am asking for help from you please try and understand?.. Why what ?? I don't understand what happened. Why did you say that?

Because I have never met you. I do not know you personally, and 600 euros is a lot of money. And we are not in a committed relationship....You may or may not be the person that you say you are.


What do you think about me.... we can make a video call if you want to see me because I am not here to play with you?.


I wish I can get access to all my bank details I won't have asked you for help please do this for me?.. Okay wait a minute.


I'm sorry my dearest, I think the network is breaking it down. But at least we have seen each other isn't it lol.


At least that. If the network is breaking down, you will have to leave.

That's is why I ask you for help with the gift card that is what I have been using.


Roland, I am not going to send you 600 euros. If our friendship depends on me sending you money, then I am sorry. You will have to find another way or someone else.

No dear I am not depending on you sending me money, okay, I am just asking, okay, don't be agree of if you say you want do, it's it okay. So what are your plans for today I know you see me in the video call we have, now you really look so beautiful, so are you alone there because you are all alone when I see it.


Yes, I am by myself. My children have returned home, and I will return on 3 January.

Wow so all your children have returned home.


Okay that's nice I hope you are not agree with me. Okay. You really look so beautiful when I saw you on the video call but you look so beautiful staying all alone, so don't you have grandchildren to stay with you?


My grandchildren are too small to stay and I am perfectly fine by myself since various members of my husband's family live in the same building.

Okay now I understand. So what about your husband you haven't told me about him, for me my wife is no more, I lost my late wife 5 years ago?


Roland, I told you that I am a widow. Even though my husband died two years ago, I always visit his family in Malaga. He was 20 years older, and died of a stroke.

Wow, really I think I forgot? Wow, so your husband family lives in malaga. So sorry to hear that.


I know but it's too painful to hear that.


Death is never pleasant but it is a reality that all of us must come to terms with.

I also miss my late wife so much I wish to find a woman like her again in my life in the future so what about you do you still have plans for another man in your life in the future.


Roland, unlike you, my marriage was not made in heaven. My husband was both controlling and jealous. I was faithful to him because it was my duty and marriage is until death but no, I am not eager to marry again. I married him when I was 15 and now I am resting from marriage.


Marriage is not a goal that I am currently pursuing.

Wow I really admire your boldness so nice of you.


My boldness? I have a good job, a loving family, and I can make my own decisions. I do not have to ask permission to do anything.

You are right but we all humans need someone to love someone to be by your side. You are right.


I will wait for real love if it ever arrives.


You have never been in a controlling relationship where everything was decided by the other person.


who gave permission for you to go out, talk to others, even work and you did not do anything that that person objected to.


You have no responsibility for my past. So no need to be sorry.

You're right. Now I understand. I have something to tell you but I think it's to late for me to say.


I will. Pamela you really match the criteria I do need from a woman, and I really do appreciate you for that my dear, I have no other words to describe the way you make me feel. No words, no actions could even come close.


You're welcome. I believe that Ronald Regan said his best to Nancy in a letter, telling her only that, "I more than love you".


However, it is more difficult for me to fall in love


Oh, I understand. You see their love was a strong love, surviving everything, even death.


Roland Regan and Nancy. I believe that even after his passing, Nancy felt Ronald's love for her raining down upon her.


That is why she has always seemed at peace after the death of such a truly loving husband.


That is the love that I feel for you. I'm writing this in word to explain to you how I feel.


I know and I understand but that we makes plans for himself. I am starting to fall for you, and it is driving me crazy, because I can't seem to tell you how I really feel.


Then... I am sorry. But I have not fallen for you.


I need to know where I stand in your life and if it could ever be more than what we are now. I'm starting to develop strong feelings towards you, and I don't know why.


Until we meet, I cannot tell you because I cannot fall in love with someone before touching them


What exactly do you think or feel about me?

I think that we have the possibility of being friends or even more.


Why do you say that? Then we can't you trust me and give your heart and love to me. What exactly do you want me to proof for you, before you know i care and love you

lolololol... Roland, I do not fall in love on Internet. I need to be with you before I can know whether I love you.


If you want my physical. Then we both need to build some love, trust and being supportive. Falling in love on the internet is never a bad option.


Many couples have found love meeting there partner on the social media platform.

Sure, but you are off in Yemen until God knows when.


Your fears is that you think everyone on internet are fraudulent or scammer.

and I do not fall in love with just words. I have never said that you are a fraudster.


I mean every words i say to you. I'm not forcing or pretending to love or like you.

I have only said that your words are not sufficiently eloquent for me to fall in love with them


How was your day? You forgotten about me


Well, it was long. A lot of work, and I was just about to go to bed. Obviously, I had not forgotten about you because we are talking


I am sure that it is very unpleasant there now.

Is that why you never wanted to help me? Is that why you left without talking to me or you found someone else?


Roland, we stopped talking because I told you that I was not going to send you any money. Your "love" was evidently based on financial concerns.


So, I guess that you will have to find someone else, who has a larger bank account.

Remember my situation here which I entrusted my life in you.


Yes, I really think that you need help. Well, obviously you are doing quite well, and you still have your life. So, you should thank me.

Helping doesn't have to do with someone with a huge amount. It defines a good heart and good people that truly understand human feelings.


Lololol.... sure, I have all of that but no money to give to you.


Even if you don't love me or have a heart of helping,

Anyway, Roland, you are really wasting your time.... As a doctor, you have more money than I do


Why should I do that? Listen, I know that you are not telling the truth.


I don't have my access to banking her , like I told you. What truth, why will I lie or hide myself from you?

Do I really believe that? No. How have you survived for so long there without money? Try to at least be believable.You are not even good at scamming...


By now I have been in a 'relationship' with 72 scammers for a research study on how scammers talk to their victims. You gave me some valuable linguistic input, which I appreciated. But you really should not return to an ex-victim.


I even have three ex-scammers who confessed.


I'm not a scammer nor will do such bad things to people.


Really?..Then why are you asking for money?


I think I have heard enough of your joke and attitude. I need to block you.

I am an Alaye just like you, but I only scam you for time, not money. Yours is a story for the gods.


There is nothing wrong with flirting if it is in good taste.

I don't smoke at all, drink wine and occasionally I get a little tipsy sometimes not drunk lol during celebrations.I don't really flirt even if want to flirt I love to flirt with my partner alone or someone I am building something special than just friendship with together.


That sounds great. We are evidently compatible..... Hi, Ben, nice to see you again.

Hi,Pamela. How are you doing today? It's Ben.


The connection has been really messed up here in Somalia, it has been really affecting my google chat ?? account once the connection goes bad I lose total access to my google chat account all of a sudden & don't get to be able to access it anymore, I had to use my private work email to text you and the connection has been more better now, i hope you try to understand me? It's really nice to hear from you also.


Yes, I can understand that. Somalia is a very conflictive area. One of my sons is working in Djibouti on a NATO mission.

Hello Pamela. Are you there? To know that I'm your friend makes me very happy. Actually, I should think of myself as being a lucky person for having the friendship of someone as kind and loyal as you are, which is such a rare commodity in the present times. I want you to know that this relationship, so firmly based on trust and affection, promises to withstand time. That is why you can be sure that, whenever you need me you can always message me, you are a nice woman with a great heart


Hello, Ben. Apparently, we are on different schedules since at 3.45 AM, I am generally sleeping. I hope that your day in Somalia has begun well. As always, I look forward to hearing from you.

So sorry i have been very busy with work. It's always good reading from you, been a while somebody cared this much for me. I find you nice and interesting I must say


Good morning, Ben. As always, it is nice to hear from you.

Good morning to you my friend. How was your night?


I always sleep well, Ben. I hope that yours was also peaceful.


Well, in the USA it is in the middle of the night now

Can I get a picture of your smiling face ?


Oh my. Your eyes sparkle your face I could caress your mouth I could kiss and gaze into your beautiful eyes.


You are very eloquent this morning,,,lol

Thank you. Still looking at your picture.


Then you must have a scarcity of images on your screen

Hearts of hearts, you're gorgeous. And I mean it.


And you, Ben, have been in Somalia too long. I am not unattractive for a woman my age. I know that, but far from gorgeous.


I am sure that they were glad to have another doctor there.

I'll be here for 3 months but I've got 2 months left


I am sure that they will find you very useful

Of course yes, but it's very risky out here


If you were afraid of danger, you would not have signed up for the experience. So... you really cannot complain.


An evident truth. I know that because one of my sons is out in a plane, chasing pirates around there.


He is an pilot in the Spanish Air Force, and he volunteered.

That's so brave of him, I can tell you have brought him up like he should grow.


Of my children, he was the most difficult, but now he is doing what he always wanted to do

that's why I always advice that we allow our children to purse what they want for themselves.


That is what parents should advise their children.


My husband died a little over two years ago.

So sorry for your loss. I'm glad you moved on.


He was 22 years older than I am. It was his time.


My husband was 37. My parents had just died. He was well off and kind. I was not in love with him, but I accepted his proposal for financial security. And as marriages go, it did not turn out badly. We were married for 40 years.

Hmmm. Why did you marry him knowing you don't love him?


Well, at the time, I did not have anywhere else to go. I was living in a convent with my younger sister. It was a way to provide for everyone.

Hmmm. Does this mean till his death, you never loved him?


I had deep affection and respect for him, but no, I do not think that it was love like you see in the movies.


You have no reason to be... All of us make our own choices. And we must live with them.


I'm worried because I like you and wanted to see if nature would bring us together, hearing this makes me feel you might as well do the same thing to me.


Ben, from the little that we have spoken, I can see that you are looking for a partner. I am not looking. I am not desperate and I have financial stability. So... I will not do anything to you. Rest assured that you are safe from me.

I never said you are desperate, but if you are not searching, why talk to me ?


But it was you who began talking to me. And I answered to find out who you are and get to know you. If I were REALLY searching for a husband, I would sign up on a dating app. If love happens, it will happen.


I work with language...lol. Words are my occupation.

I see. Please, don't be too sweet on me so I don't get diabetes.


The last time I checked my instructions, they did not say that I was harmful to anyone's health.


Ben, you need a keeper. For all you know, I could be an axe murderer.


Not in my case sweetheart, sometimes we break our rules for some persons.


In any case, everything is on hold for now because you are in Somalia.

I don't believe that distance can stop me from finding my soulmate, rather , it helps build the relationship stronger and also help to understand each other before the day of meeting with each other.


I am glad that all turned out well. My daughter met her partner online, but before he came along, she ended up meeting various toads.

Smiles. It's nice when you find yourself engaged with someone nice ??


Wow, that's nice. Have you met someone online before?


Of course, there have been people who have appeared on my FB profile. I start talking with anyone who seems polite, and allow them 10 serious errors in grammar and spelling. If I see that they are illiterate or have bad manners, I stop chatting. That eliminates almost everyone.


For me, language is important. How a person expresses himself is a reflection of his soul.


Yes, I know. One can learn a great deal about a person just seeing how he writes.

But you can as well teach an uneducated person. That's a top tier.


I give university courses. I am a good teacher, but I would prefer not to fall in love with an uneducated man.

Now I understand better. You mean you never tried have a relationship with any man here online?


I had a sort of relationship, I guess. I am not sure what to call it. We chatted for 11 months. He said that he was in Doha on an oil platform. I enjoyed our chats and we discussed literature, politics, and issues. He had a great sense of humor and we laughed a lot. He said that he would be here for Christmas. I suspected that he was not on an oilrig. He never wished to call or videochat and I have videochatted with my sons when they were in Afghanistan...So, there was something strange about him, BUT he never requested that I send him money. Last December, he said that he would come here for Christmas I was skeptical....And then he said that if he did not arrive that he was sorry and that he really had loved me When we had never really spoken of love. So that is the story of my very weird online relationship.

Quite interesting. Why did you choose to respond to me after all the experience you had?


I am open to new friendships and give everyone a chance. And you have excellent syntax. You have only made one serious error (you used "advice" as a verb instead of a noun. The right form would have been "advise"

As a woman and human, you can't be open to everyone.


I cannot know whether someone is worth knowing unless I talk to them. I was sorry that William never appeared for Christmas dinner, but there was never any declaration of love.

Now that you are talking to me , does this mean if someone else should message you, you will respond to him?


You did, but I have not. I was faithful to my husband for 40 years. I do not have to be "faithful " to an online acquaintance especially since I do not commit myself to conversations in a chatbox.

Even if you are in love with this person?


It is difficult to make someone fall in love only by using words. Perhaps if the person were Shakespeare but I have never met a Shakespeare online.

There has to be other types of perceptual input. That said, I do not have time to spend chatting a lot. Today is Sunday, which is a bit different but when I am at work, I have a lot of things to do.


Sounds good, you make sense of all you have said.

I am glad that you agree. A sign of intelligence.


I guess your past experiences have made you not to believe In distance relationship

Ben, I have had one 'relationship', in which the subject of love was never addressed. Nor was there any commitment. We were merely friends, and when he disappeared, I was sorry, but I do not mourn him.


when you're in a long-distance relationship, you have nothing to build your relationship with but words. Long-distance couples talk less frequently than those who live in the same city, but that their interactions tend to be deeper and more meaningful. Talking at this deep level helps you as a couple get to know each other very well. In the process, you also develop communication skills and habits that will help your relationship in the long run

Yes, I agree. One can build a foundation for a serious relationship


I understand that part about sex but When you are far away from someone you love, it can be difficult to keep your imagination in check. When your partner is out without you and having fun, it can be easy to second-guess them and let jealousy get a foothold in your mind. Being in a long-distance relationship forces you to recognize and confront some of these types of insecurities. It lets you practice trusting and being trustworthy. The confidence and sense of security that you can gain as a result? Priceless.

You sound like a Relationship Counsellor....lololol. See you later, Ben. It is time to go to Mass.


What do you mean? Ah... a relationship counsellor


You sounded a bit like one in your last messages.


Oh. Well for me I do believe that distance is never a barrier to any destined friendship. Distance doesn't permit the action to be seen, rather, words convey the feelings when distance hinders. No matter the distance that separates us now, I can assure you that this gap will be bridged as we really get to know each other. As the saying goes "True Love and Friendship knows no boundaries and no distance; miles and obstacles mean absolutely nothing in the face of love. If it works out getting to meet is never a problem.

Then, fine. We will see how things progress


I hope that you are able to rest on Sunday.


Communication & Trust are the keystones to any friendship, partnership & relationship It is what enables success going forward & is the tools you need to sort through any future disagreements or issues, of which there will inevitably be With communication & trust as the main tools of repair rather than physical sex as the Band-Aid the issues can be properly resolved

Ben, ChatGPT is also my friend but I prefer to chat with you.


I like chatting with you better than chatting with ChatGPT. You are a person and ChatGPT is artificial intelligence. Bots are less interesting than real people.


Good , Ben, I always sleep well. I hope that your morning is going well in Somalia.


Yes it is. I had to work all night. My patient are really injured and needed full medical attention.

You must be very tired then. I hope that you can sleep today.


Worthwhile things are rarely easy. In my spare time, I give Spanish classes to immigrants from Senegal so that they can find a job here. It is always good to give to others.


That's really nice. You seem to be a very good person. I always want to give my time to you when I'm less busy. I find you easy and interesting.

Well, I try to help others whom I can see are struggling. Life is not easy. However, there are also those who want a free ride. I have less sympathy for them. The men need to know basic Spanish to do construction jobs or to be an apprentice to a plumber or electrician. And the women need to be able to communicate to work as house cleaners.


That's interesting. What a kind and brilliant act. I feel blessed to have you as a friend.

Not so brilliant. I have language skills that I can share. You have medical skills that you are also using to help others. It is like "paying forward". I have seen that some of my successful students have also helped others to get jobs and to find their way. In one way or another, everyone is struggling.


Yes, you're right. You speak with facts.

It is just a question of being kind and helping others along the way.


I have always known there's something different about you.

Good morning, Ben. Both of us are extraordinary people, each in our own way.


Good morning Pamela. How was your night?

My nights are always peaceful, Ben. Fortunately, I always sleep well.


I hope that your night was also tranquil.


You turn up at the most unexpected places, Ben. You always ask how I am doing, after which you disappear,


lol yes I have to because I care about you so much, oh please I didn't disappear ?? so sorry my google chat account is being hacked it seems google chat is not that safe anymore to communicate it's been stressing me out and I keep setting up a new google chat account but they keep taking it away and I don't have any single access to it anymore, so I thought I should come here on Facebook to let you know what's going on, so you don't think I ghosted you Pam.

First of all, please do not call me "Pam". Secondly, I am sorry about your bad luck. That has never happened to me before on any account, but then perhaps I have been fortunate,


Well I guess so, so sorry I called you Pam. Sorry. It won't happen again.


I'm good, and you? You are the disappearing man.


lolol... okay, but you never stay in one place.


I do but remember I told you we are not allowed to use most social medias here in our base camp so I can't come on Facebook that much, so sorry you feel I am disappearing I am so sorry, I really do want to keep up with our conversations I really like talking to you, I enjoy every bit of it. I am working on my telegram, once it's all set up I will really appreciate if you are on telegram you could share your contact with me so I can add you up or if you're not on telegram I will appreciate if you could have it downloaded into your cellphone and set it up so we can conversation over there please.

I only do GoogleChat or Messenger or Skype. Sorry.


Can you please have telegram installed and set it up in your cellphone so we can continue our conversations over there please.

No, I don't share my phone number with people whom I don't know.


I could send you mine to add me up if you don't want to send me yours.

But when we are connected, you will know mine.


You could share your email address with me that's an important information did anything go wrong? No. I am just trying to make it possible for us to communicate better and comfortably without losing contact with each other again and so we can keep up with our conversations & getting to know each other better, do you see am as bad person or you concluding I am a bad person that's why you can share your information for me? Have I given you any reason to think I am not a person to exchange contact with?

An email address is not the same as a phone number.


It's still your information and it's important, there's no much difference they are all information.

A lot more can be done with a phone number.


If I could continue taking to you each and every day here on facebook I will.

If continuing our conversation depends on going to another app, I am sorry. The only other one that I would go to is Skype.


My google chat account is being hacked and I don't get to be able to access the google chat accounts anymore, I don't want that to keep happening then we keep losing communication with each other it's not something I like I don't feel it when ever that happens, telegram is great and those google chat accounts that they steal from me then I don't have access to it again, it will never happen with telegram. I will be glad if you could give it a try, give us a try there's no harm in trying. I will be glad if you could give it a try, give us a try there's no harm in trying. If we I could be on messenger always talking to you I will without hesitation.

No, Ben. I do not plan to "give it a try". I am sorry, but if our relationship depends on Telegram, then we cannot continue.


It doesn't depend on telegram just telling you because it's better than google chat, I haven't used Skype before and don't really know much about it but I will look it up.

Great. It's free and a no-brainer to use.


I have created and set up the Skype. Share your you Skype information so I can add you up please.


As I have told you, I am never online after 20.00.


I'm still in pain, my heart hurts deeply over their death


Hi, Ben. I am sure that you are deeply affected by their deaths. However, it is imperative that you endeavor to be strong

It is a good way to start the day. My nights are always peaceful probably because I disconnect the computer and phone and thus forget about the world until the next morning.


Hmmmm. I had you in my thoughts all night.

Given your work, you should have been sleeping. You need all the rest possible.


Yes I know but i can't get proper rest as long I am still here at work.

I guess that you will have to be there for awhile.


You are providing valuable assistance to those in need


So true. This is same way I'll care for you.

From Somalia? You would have to have very long arms -). Always nice to make you laugh.


But I am willing to show how much I care.

Eventually.... I have no doubt that you will.-


Fine as always. Are the nights also calm in Somalia?


How can it? It's not a peaceful place for now

Evidently not. However, warring factions also need to sleep.


That is only natural. Your work is very demanding


Yes it is, I'm grateful for choosing this path despite the difficulties, I smile each time I look at the people I rescued from death


Hello, Ben. You seem to disappear but then you always appear again.


So sorry about that Pam. Been very busy.

Well, so have I, Ben. But PLEASE, never call me Pam. My name is Pamela. I hate the shortened version.


I didn't. I'm just a bit worried at the moment.


My kids need some money for their upkeep and also their provisions.

Well, since they are in the care of someone, ask them to pay


I want to make transfer to them from my account but the reception is very poor over here.


I imagine not. I am sure that since you are away from your children, you have left every possibility taken care of.


I think I will have to send my bank account information to you so you can send the money to them since the poor reception won't let me


Hold on a moment, I'll be rounding up with my patients soon. Please stay close to your phone ok.


Same to you my friend. Have you had lunch?

Yes, I have... since it is 15.57 here. I am sure that you have as well.


Yes I have. It's time to help out with the transfer to the kids.


And it is better if you do this yourself. It is not a question of having a good connection for one person but not for another.


No, I can't, bank have their own network, as it works differently. It's absolutely nothing to worry about.

How much money do you plan to send them?


While you transfer 10,000 to yourself for your upkeep. 20,000 isn't a lot lol

Ben, I guess that this is good-bye. The fake Internet bank site is cloned from somewhere. And yes, I guess our "relationship' has come to an end, thanks to your request for money.I am also aware of how the scam would have gone down. I would have logged into your bank account. You would have asked me to carry out the transaction. In the end, I would either have been locked out of my account because the bank had detected an suspicious transaction, or, worse yet, I would have been on the hook for 20,000 dollars and perhaps a fraud conviction. Either way, I would have ended up in a great deal of financial and legal trouble. I know that you will probably not be happy when you read this because you have wasted a lot of time on me, but don't worry. As we both know, there is no shortage of elderly women with basement-level IQs, who also happen to be both desperate and greedy. Unfortunately for you, I am not one of them. Your participation in my study was greatly appreciated. Thank you once again for your cooperation and the linguistic data provided.


Hello I'm Paul from Westwood Massachusetts, it's nice meeting you.


Yes, I think so. I am sure that Massachusetts is als a nice place.

Yes, it's a nice place. Sorry for the late response, But I'm here now. So tell me are you happily married with children?


I am still recovering from my marriage. How about you?

Sorry for your lost, I know how it feels to lose someone close to us. Well, I have been divorced for 5 years now and I have 4 kids but 3 of my kids ran with my ex wife after my divorce, right now I am left with just one daughter whom I love and Cherish so much. I really don't like talking about it because anytime I do, it hurts.


Yes, I am sure it does. I have four grown children and seven grandchildren...We are a very close family. Well I love a happy and united family.

Well I love a happy and united family. I am happy for them. So tell me what do you do for a living, to take very good care of yourself.


I am a freelance translator and interpreter for the European Union. I enjoy it a lot because I have traveled to a many different countries. And as for your occupation, you are evidently a general.

I'm a memeber of the United States Army four-star general and infantry officer who serves as commander of the United Nations Command, ROK/US Combined Forces Command and United States Forces Korea since 2 July 2021. I hope your work doesn't stress you in anyways. I have a troop with my men I will talk to you other time


Fine, Paul. I also hope that your work is not too stressful.

Oh well i think you would know better. It does sometime. I have no choice since it is my role. My mission here is to make peace here in this country . I apologize for the late response. Mybad.


Good morning, Paul. I usually get up very early, even on vacation. As for your mission in Korea, I congratulate you since peace is everywhere. I have visited Korea various times, usually for linguistics conferences, and I was greatly impressed. As you doubtlessly know, Seoul is a dynamic city with many tourists because of all that it has to offer. And Seoul National University and Yonsei University are among the best in the world. So, a great place to live.

Good morning Pamela. I hope the morning brings you all the joy and happiness you deserve How was your night, hope you had a good rest?


I am fortunate in that I always sleep well. How about you?

That's all good to know, I always have a late night sleep due to the nature of my job.


So tell me what did you have for breakfast?


I always have the same breakfast Espresso coffee, toast, and fruit.

Test yummy. What is your plans for today?


Test??? Tomorrow my children and various grandchildren will be here. So, I have a lot to do.

Oh Awesome, Nice to hear that, I know it would be a lot of funs right?


a lot of FUN , and yes, you are right. I am looking forward to it.

How long do you normally come online here on Facebook?


Well, I am not eternally on Facebook. I use GoogleChat for work. I am more often there.

Well I don't normally come here due to my place of deployment. I don't know about GoogleChat.


If you have Google, it is on your computer.

Okay, I will have to check my computer if I have it. A minute.


I found it, and I'm on the app now so how can I set it up.


lololol.... you do not know much about computers, I fear. My email is XXXX gmail.com. You have to create a gmail address for yourself. It is very easy and not rocket science.


I was also there, but I could not see you. Why?


And I was also there, but I could not see you. Why?


Google also has videochats . At work, that is where we have online meetings.

I'm off to work, I'm going to add you here.


I just took the risk of calling you.. chatting and calling is restricted here at the base because this Taliban terrorist using that means to hack into our account.


Yes, they're heartless without human conscience, I refer to them as wicked Taliban.. anyway here is my email address. You can add me up there and send me text. Let me know when you're done.


Please, Paul. Is this a joke? There are NO talibans in Korean There is North Korea, Kim Jong Un, the demiltarized zone...., but no Talibans.

As i said, any man who is heartless to his fellow man is Taliban.. I pray you will never witness what is going on here.


Paul, the Talibans are in Arab countries. Korea is not an Arab country. There is no Taliban activity in Korea. Korea is not Afghanistan.

i don't know what they call themselves in Korea here but i know they are in groups, different kind og groups i could only remember how we called them in Afghanistan AND Syria so i refer to them someways.


You are the commanding general in Korea. I have been to Korea several times and have friends there. It is not a conflict zone like Syria, Yemen, and Somalia. It is a recommended tourist destination.

yes I'm one of the 5 generals here at the base here, its not like a war the way you think. i bet you world war III is coming and this is beyond what you can comprehend. South Korea have heard over 30 unexpected terrorist attacks over decades till today that you don't even see on the news or know how they go down.


Okay, Paul. Whatever you say. I will remember to watch for terrorists the next time that I go there.

you don't even have to watch because we are keeping you safe. it's my duty, the reason I'm here.


Then all is well. I have sent you a message on GoogleChat. Hi, Paul. This is GoogleChat.


All is well here. I am now in Malaga for Christmas. A short vacation.

are you alone in malaga? Or you are with your family?


Most of my family will be arriving tomorrow. For now I am here with one son and one tiny granddaughter. As well as the many relatives of my late husband who live in Malaga


Yes, I have seven grandchildren, and most of them still believe in Santa Claus. One of the few advantages of marrying at 15 is that now I can still enjoy my grandchildren


Well i'm not pretty sure how much you care about me at this point

lololol, Paul, we just met online but have never met in person. We still have a lot to discover about each other.


Yes i know, when i say care.. I'm only trying to figure out your feelings about me at first sight on my profile.

Your profile is very attractive, of course.


True we just met but i know how i feel at first, i know what came to my mind and what i wanted to say to you if i love your personality.

but I cannot have feelings for a picture. And as for your discovering your personality, that is a work in progress.


The beauty of every picture is the true value of that person... That i'm trying to know too..


No, I never text on the phone. It is easier for me to text on the computer. I type with both hands, and can write messages faster here.


I use my phone to talk to people, of course, and consult emails but I rarely use it to write.


Oh my bad. Good morning my beautiful sexy Baby. How was your night?


I always sleep well. It must be evening there.

yes. How did you know the time difference so quick? Oh you made mention of being here before.


I looked it up on Google, and I have been in Seoul three times.

What was your mission when you were here those 3 times?


Seoul has one of the best universities in the world. I was asked to evaluate their Linguistics program. I am also involved in a research project on digital humanities and they participate in it. Apart from that, I have free standby airfare on most international airlines.


So how do you get paid for Job well done?


except in the summer when flights tend to be full.


The European Union pays me. Occasionally I do work for the Spanish government.


as well as the United Nations. Yes, I am well-paid though my salary varies from month to month


What would you call it? Me and you alone in some beautiful hotel, 5 star ?? seeing around new things. What do you think that is?


What I have always dreamed of? Yes, I would like to go on a lovely vacation with a man that I love.


When did I last have sex?. It has been so long that I do not remember. My husband was much older


With my interest in you, I don't think there will be a limits to the kind of life I am going to show you. Come take more of me and give me much of you.


We will be an incredible couple, I am sure.


As you know, I am joking. I knew what you meant, of course. My lamentable sense of humor...lol

Yes I know that so I have to get along With your joke..I like it when my woman has a good sense of humor. One of the best features ever.


I am glad that you understand?. It is always good to laugh. I look forward to always laughing with you.


When the world is going to Hell in a handbasket, if we do not find a way to smile and laugh


Well I guess the Translator does that. Remember I am in Korea

The translator? I speak five languages. Tell me which language you are fluent in.


Yes. Because I'm in Korea. Korean government has their own policy.

The OS of your computer is in English, not Korean.


Yes but right now I am not writing with you on computer.

Perhaps your computer will understand that-


Hahahah. Damn. Why do you have to say that to a General? Be careful of what you say.

Ah... I am not in your army. Perhaps if you were a Spanish general, I would think twice.


I only said that I thought that you were crazy. You are free to say the same to me.


No, I'm not going to say any words that are offensive.

Crazy people are holy among American Indians.


I gotta go. I will talk to you later. Have a good day.


Thanks. How is your day going my love? i miss you. I don't know how much you miss me but i guess not as much as i do.

It is not going well. I have the flu, and am now with a lot of fever


lololol... if you could arrive with a pill to make the flu disappear, I would miss you very much. My children are with me. And since two of them are doctors, I am well taken care of.


You probably don't need me then. You have got two doctors which i'm not.

I have no doubt that after we meet and get to know each other in the flesh. I will undoubtedly need you.


I think that our relationship will blossom when we actually meet.


Yes and i believe the distance is an advantage for us as well. I want to build a life different and unique with you. Something you have never felt before.


That should always be the plan... A better life that change your mindset to better...I'm sure you are not restricted to changes.


Where would you want to live the rest of your life?

I would like to live in Spain near my family but in a house on the beach.


yes i have always want a house on the beach and a pool inside but i have not had that time to enjoy that time.. Just on vacation but now that i'm gonna be retired after this mission we can buy a house there where you want my love.


You presence in that beautiful house is the only dream for me.. Every other things are in order my love.

May the wishes of both our hearts come to pass.


On my end of prayers are already answered only if you choose to do otherwise.

Our prayers will be fully answered when we are together at last


Even while we are distance away i don't see any trouble still.

Since we will soon be together, it is not an issue.


Do you have any idea of the house? How much and how to get everything arranged before i come?

Paul, I do not plan to buy a house now. Firstly, I do not have the money. Secondly, I still have a job in Granada. Thirdly, we have to confirm our compatibility.


Firstly i was never going to use your money to get our house.


Secondly, i can retire you from your job if you don't mind because i don't want to loose sight of you a bit. Thirdly you have to set your mind on what you want and be ready but i see some level of doubt in you

We can talk about all of this when you get here.


I just don't want you to get it wrong.. we can have any conversation here. Understanding ourselves better from this distance , making us stronger and unbreakable is the advantage of the distance

Good morning, Paul. Yes, you are absolutely right. We can talk about anything that you wish online. However, I think that it would be a mistake to make any irrevocable decisions before you arrive here.


Yeah. That's very trueÖGood morning to you, my love. We're best match because God knows every good reasons for bringing us together, I will never trade you for the world until my last breath. Our happiness together is what I want until death take us apart, sweetheart


I am amazed that you are still able to trust.

A giver always tend to trust.. It's not like i always trust when i do it but it's just my heart that want to be there for anyone that need help mostly financially...


The most important gifts are not financial.

It doesn't get to me because i do everything for love but deep down i'm always hurt but i pray for healing.


It's not the most important but it's one of the most important after love.


I think that the minute that money gets involved in a relationship, everything goes to Hell.


I married my husband when I was 15 because he had money and I had none. I had a choice between becoming a nun or getting married. He never allowed me to forget that he had saved me and that I owed him everything. I was grateful but I more than compensated him for what he had done for me.

This is not the perspective i was coming from, this is not right to get married because of money... what i was saying is when you love someone genuinely, you shouldn't hesitate to go any length for that person and frankly speaking most of the problems we face is financially after love.. One your love is genuine, do all you can to save your partner. When i love i love with all my heart and give all i have. If there is money there to finance each other problem there will never be any problem like your case because the love wasn't really there... But i said when the love is there, fiancÈs come in and when you can sort them love become stronger and sweeter because you have got less time to worry about problems but more time to think about how your partner has saved you for loving you.. That's true love unlike your ex husband.


Well, I doubt that there will be any financial issues between us at least right now when we are both in different countries and have never met.

I was only referring to that phrase i made, trying to justify how Hard work makes love sweeter.. When we are old, we can both sit back and enjoy our lives, vacations and the rest without have to stress our old age anymore because we have worked really had.. it's all still under finances


It's just from the angle you see things, Things always happen differently but i can't blame you because yours was from different angle and that can never happen between us both because i Cherish you for who you are my love. I will text you when i'm back my love. i have to run some important errands.


I am glad that money or financial issues will never come between us. I look forward to hearing from you again.


Paul, as you doubtlessly are aware, I live in Spain. That means that the only place that I could be when your message arrived at 3 18 AM is in bed. We are eight hours apart.


My day is long gone, Paul and I am going to bed. You continue with your weird concept of time.


Of course. They will surely pass. These are my belongings. I have my wears with me. These are the most important stuffs I need to keep away from here.


My uniforms and some wearing clothes. I will need them


I talked to them already about who is going to receive my portfolio.


Yes sweetie, I am so bothered about everything. I am not in my right state of mind right now.


Hope you get a response this time beautiful?


Hi, Paul. I have at last received a message from the portfolio people, but I was not impressed by what they wrote. They did not provide sufficient information for me to comply with what they requested. Here is their answer Your message has been received. There has been traffic here due to every soldier beneficiary taking charge of their portfolios so we apologize for the delay. We will have to generate the tracking code for your portfolio after you meet the following requirements.


Thanks for getting back to me.... at long last. As I have absolutely no idea as to the portfolio serial number or the dispatch fee, I am sure that you will get back to me at some point. I asked for this information which I need but he never got back to me. Meanwhile, you had disappeared, so I thought that you had been able to take care of everything.


Okay. Hold on let me check some of my documents for the serial number. No beautiful, I am unable to do anything here. i just want them to be in a safe place which is why i asked you for help. And i'm glad you gave me hope on that to help me keep my portfolio safe.

Well, if I ever get the information, I will let you know


GSFCXX. have no idea of the dispatch fee like i told you before.

Okay, but the amount of the fee and method of payment are still missing


Ask the diplomat for the amount and the method to payment.

Paul, I already have and Robert has ignored my messages. What should I do? Send smoke signals? Sky writing?


You didn't get them the serial number, that's why they can't reply you because they need the serial number to look for my portfolio so once you provide the serial number and ask them again they will surely respond once they found my portfolio. Send the serial number and ask again my love.

Okay, they sound extraordinarily incompetent, but I will send them the serial number.,,,Fine, I have sent my dear friend, Robert, a message with the serial number.


They are have hundred of people they are attending to my love so they only respond to people with proper information they want, they are just being careful too so they don't give the wrong beneficiary... Just so you know you only care about my portfolio and now that you have provided the serial number they will surely get back to you... Sorry for that my love.

Yes, Paul, but obviously you should have sent me the serial number from the beginning. This is a big SNAFU .


I wasn't thinking straight honey, you know how worried i was... I was thinking wide


Of course, I am at work, which is hardly being "up to" something


Now you made the mistake of letter lol.. I told you i would remind you

No, I did not, because it is a subordinate clause dependent on "I am at work". Capitals begin the first word in full sentences. However, I am glad that you are also observing my grammar because if I make a mistake, I want you to tell me.


I expected you to have it all in a phrase but you already sent the first text before you put up the next one in another sentence.

Well, then I will not divide my sentences any more in separate lines -)


Yes, i'm observant because you always correct me which i never take as a big deal before i met you because we are just typing here but you want it corrected even in my dreams lol

Yes, I do. It is good to have sexy syntax??... since all we have are chat messages.


You are making same mistakes and i thinking you are doing it on purpose now so i won't correct you anymore lol

Tell me my mistake then, "syntax" is followed by a subordinate clause, which should not begin with a capital letter


You have to start teaching me how to write letter when i come get you soon honey and i will teach you how to handle the heaviest weapon

Paul, you have hit on one of the things that I have absolutely no idea about how to do...lol. Then, it is a deal.


You have to know how to use all the rifles because your man is a soon to be retired General so that's that experience you have for me a retired General woman

It is always nice to have a man as my possession?? I am not averse to learning how to use a firearm.


I'm going to have you for the rest of my life...

You could regret your decision. I am not an easy woman to live with.


I know it's not your priority to learn i just feel like teaching you things i know since you are teaching me yours. I'm a very patient man and i don't want to ever spend the rest of my life with an easy woman.

It is always good to learn something new. However, if you capitalized the pronoun "I", your messages would be even lovelier.


Paul, I have to go to a meeting now. Hopefully, we can talk later on.


Okay honey text me when you can i will be very busy too but get back to you as soon as i get your text

Hi, Paul. I am free now. Your diplomat finally got in touch. He told me that the 'fee' was 1700 . However, he did not send the payment details. I have rarely communicated with anyone so inefficient.


I don't know there policy thou but i believe they have their way of handling every single portfolio


Well, Paul, I had received a multitude of reactions, but I had not expected denial. However, if you wish to persist, that is fine.

You think i'm not a General? You equally think i'm not deployed here and my all of my stories are lie? I'm confused.


No, Paul, you are not a general, though I sincerely wish you were. You are someone else, who writes slightly better than others whom I have chatted with but your mistakes are those typical of Nigerian English.

It's safe to say you don't want to help me. Till we meet because i honestly don't know what to say to you with all of these stories and thought you had about me.


Well, I am not going to send you 1700 euros... that is true. Other generals have asked me for 4500 euros. So your portfolio was more economical.

Stop saying all of these, I don't know what you are talking about. You just left me in the dark with your stories. Forget about it, I can't force you to do anything for me.


No, you can't. But I liked talking to you. You are a nice guy, unlike others.

I can only say till we meet because nothing i said makes sense to you so i can't keep talking when you don't even have a percentage of trust or believe for me


It is "belief in me". I guess that we will have to say good-bye then.

Common don't compare me with anybody. I don't know what you are talking about.


All right. I wish you luck in your life and chosen occupation.


I am 5 ft. 2" and I play the piano. I believe that I am mentally stable though I do not fear God and I have quirky sense of humor.


I'm a family-oriented person, love children and there is more, but it would be better for you to find some things out for yourself.

If ever there is an opportunity, perhaps I will.


It is very important for me to build a life of stability, security, and opportunity for the special person I hope to share my thoughts, feelings, experiences, dreams, and fantasies with, and to offer the best opportunities for any kid that might be included in my life, both mine and that special person children, and that is my focus at this time and I also do enjoy.

That sounds like quite an agenda. You must have a lot of time to think in Alaska.


I'm happy you are a serious person because that is what I want, I am not in for games and don't want to waste any more of my time because we are not getting younger but getting older by the day.

I don't know about you, but my grandchildren seem to think the opposite...lol. They think that I am very excessively frivolous.


Nice to meet you. I'm really interested in wanting to know more about you and what makes you the special person you are today, I want to know more about your family, your background, your life experiences?

Well you have already said that it is nice to meet me. And all of us are special people. As for my life, there have been ups and downs. As I told you, I married when I was very young. My parents both died of lung cancer and I married a much older man for financial stability.


Thanks for your openness and the time used in writing. You are beautiful and have a great reputation and responsibility, you are very intelligent and sensitive, I love the woman in you and is a dream of every man to spend the rest of his life with a gorgeous woman like you.

But marriage is not one of my goals now.


I have only known one man in my life. I am not sure whether I am interested in knowing another and being an unpaid servant.


Thanks for your openness and the time used in writing. You are beautiful and have a great reputation and responsibility, you are very intelligent and sensitive, I love the woman in you and is a dream of every man to spend the rest of his life with a gorgeous woman like you. Are you in a relation now?

No, I am only in a relationship with my children and myself.


I really appreciate your amicable response to my chat, It has been a long I shared feelings with anyone, Well you might not understand, Being able to come home after work and have a nice conversation with someone special is something that has been missing in my life for a long time


I have a few questions for you, I hope you don't mind?


Have you learned something about yourself from your past relationship?

Of course, it is always good to learn from one's errors.


That is nice to hear. My past relationship was very stable until I lost my wife.


I have learned so much from it, I'm a better person now, And I have learned that honesty is the key to every long-lasting relationship. Have you narrowed down your specific desires as to the type of person you want to meet?

Someone who is intelligent and communicative, but as I said, I am not looking.


I want someone who knows when to laugh and when to cry. Someone who truly listens when I have something to say. Someone that's there for me during the good and bad times. Someone who is caring, honest, and romantic. Someone who loves me with all their heart and soul. Someone who is interested in reality and not as a fashion display. Someone who is honest. Someone I can trust. Are you really over your past?

James, no one is ever completely over their past.


How would you treat a man like me if you were given a chance?

I would treat that man as he deserved to be treated.


I would love to spoil a woman like you in every way I could..... and I must tell you that I'm also too nice, anyway take care of you. What is your greatest fear?

I only fear for my family. I have no fears for myself


Failure to accept me as your partner. What is the craziest thing that you have ever done?

James, get real.... We have only been talking for two days. The craziest thing that I have done was to get married.


I should not have accepted anyone as a partner whom I had never met. I was 15, he was 37, and I hardly knew him.


The craziest thing ever done would be making Love in a park, I was young then.

Making love in the park is not crazy or if it is, it is a nice type of craziness.


Wow, I love blue. My favorite color is blue and White.


Yes, of course. What's your Favorite Food?


My favorite food is rice and chicken. Would the girl you were happy with be the woman that you have become?

I was never happy with myself as a girl, but I like what I have become.


The boy I was would be happy about the man I am now because I am still on my feet after the whole tragedy I went through.


My favorite food is Pasta. I love to cook great home made meals and try new recipes when I am in town with my daughter. I also love to exercise and the importance of being healthy and eating healthy. Would like a lady to cook with So romantic

Cooking is fun as long as I don't have to wash the dishes.


I don't mind washing the dishes as long you keep company me in the kitchen.


My favorite drinks Red Wines, but I prefer Champagne more likely. What are your favorite movies?


Titanic is the only movie topping my list. What brand of music do you like? I think when Two People are strong enough, they can make anything Work out, but it does take much understanding and Patience, This is how I feel, I would swim a Thousand Rivers and Climb a Hundred Walls just to be with the Person I Love

I like classical music. As for swimming a thousand rivers and climbing a hundred walls.... oooph. If I were able to do that, I would try out for the Olympics.


I love blues, 80s, and 90s, Rnb, Jazz, Gospel Jams, and RocknRoll.


I am inspired by people whom I have worked with in the past and whose work I must now carry on


God inspires me, with his love and mercies he shows us each passing day. Do you believe in true love?

I have never known it, but I believe in its existence.


I had true love with my late wife. Yes, I do. I messaged you on Google chat. check. Hey Pamela


Anyway, I am turned off by people who believe that they can deceive me.

I'm so I never meant to get you upset ?? I apologize. Anything fake, lies, deceit, cheating, quarreling and argument turns me off. How do you feel when someone upset you? And what will you do to calm yourself down?


Indeed, those things would turn anyone off. And when I get upset, all I have to do is go to a quiet place and listen to music. And then everything is all right again.

I do feel unhappy for that moment; go to quite place and listening to a cool music that will calm me down then you have a simple heart.


I think that you mean a QUIET place. Our tastes appear to be similar.

Yes , Describe the perfect vacation you have had? Are you there?


Sorry, I was interrupted by a phone call. My favorite vacation was actually work. I had to be in Crete for three weeks. It was like a holiday.


Flying to Paris, then taking a train through France, Switzerland, Italy, Yugoslavia, and Greece. Then spending 1 month on Santorini a Greek Island together with my son. I had the time of my life, and these are my fondest memories. I will do it again.


I love Paris. I lived there for five years.

So tell me; what are some of the places you have visited? It's the City of love.


It would be shorter to tell you where I have not been. Because of my work, I have traveled just about everywhere except for the Arabic countries, some countries in Africa, and a few in South America.

My kind of work makes me travel a lot ë to different countries and places around the world. What has been the best decision you've ever made?


Without a doubt to continue in school, get my degrees, and then get a job instead of being a household slave.

Choosing not to dwell on my past, but rather be happy because Life is too short to be unhappy.


It is always a mistake to dwell on the past.

I'm walking outside to place orders of my meal ë I feel a little bit hungry lol. Yes it's always' I will text you when I get the chance' take care of yourself beautiful Pamela.


What meal are you referring to? It is breakfast time in Alaska....lol

It's till early over here in Alaska north pole' it's 8 20am in the morning' I already had two cup of coffee but now I'm leaving to order breakfast with vegetables soup it helps kill the cold out here. I thought you visited Alaska North Pole before' they're three hours ahead of most another states in the American states.


James, I live in Spain. You are eight hours earlier than here. As I told you , I lived in Florida for three years when I was a little girl. As for Alaska, it is a state in the United States . It is not part of the North Pole. Unless you are referring to the city, North Pole, which is in Alaska In that case, you should say North Pole, Alaska just like you should say Chicago, Illinois.

Yea I'm referring to the city's Alaska North Pole.


But then you have to say North Pole, Alaska. But I am in Granada, Spain which is eight hours later. Spain is in Europe. It is 18.51 here. You should refresh your knowledge of geography and how to write the names of places.


I am sure that you will. It is never too late to learn something new.


Well, when I make a mistake, I appreciate it if someone takes the time to correct me.

Yes' whoever does correct wants you to learn and be better so that mistakes won't happen again. What 3 physical features do you get compliments on most?


My eyes, smiles, skin/complexion, and sometimes my voice too. People like it for some reason.


Do you have good voice for singing. Sure, think so.


I do. My sister's voice is even better. She is a professional jazz pianist.

What do you think is the biggest mistake that men/women make in their relationships? Oh sounds wonderful to me.


The biggest mistake is when they try to subjugate the other person and try and control them.

Not trusting, understanding and trying to find time and share things with each others.


I know this question can be out of the line... lol Lets say If you could wake up tomorrow with any superpower, what would it be?


Why would it be out of line. And I would like to be able to see into the future.

Hmm, that would be the power of Clark Kent also known as superman, I want to be the one to save the day. Well you can't have superhero powers it only happens in the movie lol.


How much do you enjoy walking in the park?


I walk to work, and I have to go through the park. So, I do it everyday. and I enjoy it very much.

I enjoy it a lot; feel the fresh air of the nature, viewing the beautiful green trees.


Yes, it is something that most people enjoy.

If you are at a loose end what are some of the following things you do? I will have hope and never to give up. What about yourself?


I think that there is a language problem here. To be at loose ends does not mean what you evidently think it does.


To be at loose ends means not having anything special to do.


It is not a particularly bad thing...lolol....I usually am.


So when I am at loose ends , I look for something to do

If you are found guilty of a crime, would you admit yourself and accept your mistakes? To raise you up back to your feet's that means you won't give up exactly.


What a weird question? If I were guilty of a horrible crime, that would mean that I was a bad person. If I were that wicked person, I probably would not accept the blame. And if I were a good person, then I would never have committed a crime.


However, when I make a mistake or am at fault, I always admit it. There is nothing wrong with making a mistake. It is better to be a fool for a minute than a fool forever.

I will admit my self, accept my mistakes, and face the consequences, because I am a God fearing man, and I do abide to the truth' few mistakes goes with punishment that's what the law said


though I doubt that any of this really matters.


Oh yes we shouldn't face consequences of whatever like you said' I don't have any tattoo, but I do have my left ear pieced and some times I do wear earrings...lol

That's fine. Everyone has their preferences.


Can you drive a vehicle? Do you have a car?

No, actually I don't drive. When my husband died, I gave the car to my daughter. I did not need it.