[ { "id": "214515", "term": "punks", "definition": "A slang term with multiple meanings depending on context. Originally used to refer to a sex worker or prostitute, especially a passive or feminine gay man (or a bottom). By the early 20th century, used to refer to a person considered worthless or criminal in nature. By the 1970s, used to refer to punk rock, a punk rocker, or to the sociocultural movement associated with punk rock and its fans. In the modern gay male community, the term \"punk\" may refer to a smaller, typically younger gay man who is forced into a submissive role in prison settings by an older gay man. Also occasionally used as a synonym for \"clock\" or \"read\", i.e. when a cisgender person recognizes a person as transgender.", "sentence": "As anti establishment, punks have always mostly been on the side of the oppressed and marginalized.", "communities": [ "transgender", "gay male" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "transgender", "date": "2025-05-12 04:06:57", "timestamp": 1747015617.0 } }, { "id": "170014", "term": "prog", "definition": "Progesterone.", "sentence": "Wait til you add prog then it spirals out of control šŸ˜", "communities": [ "transgender" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "actuallesbians", "date": "2023-04-25 06:07:59", "timestamp": 1682395679.0 } }, { "id": "116675", "term": "chubby bear", "definition": "A bear who is particularly large (\"bear\" meaning \"a gay or bisexual man who has facial/body hair and a cuddly body\").", "sentence": "Well as an American Chubby Bear I feel attacked by these comments but yes they are true.", "communities": [ "chub", "bear" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "askgaybros", "date": "2025-05-14 15:14:46", "timestamp": 1747228486.0 } }, { "id": "157491", "term": "vers", "definition": "ā€¢ LGBTQ+ community slang for someone who \"switches\" between the \"giving\" and \"receiving\" during sex. \"Vers\" is short for \"versatile.\" \"Switch\" is sometimes also used in a BDSM context, to indicate someone who \"switches\" between the dominant and submissive roles.\nā€¢ One who is willing to take either a submissive or a dominant role in a sexual relationship.", "sentence": "Youā€™ll find your vers.", "communities": [ "gay" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "gaybros", "date": "2023-10-29 16:22:24", "timestamp": 1698592944.0 } }, { "id": "78556", "term": "flip-flop", "definition": "Slang to indicate either 1) bisexuality or 2) a person that likes to switch between \"top\" and \"bottom\" roles during sex. Especially used by incarcerated people in the US.", "sentence": "I have been flip-flop and questioning since high school.", "communities": [], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "questioning", "date": "2019-10-10 20:03:20", "timestamp": 1570730600.0 } }, { "id": "99320", "term": "power bottom", "definition": "A power bottom is someone who aggressively enjoys being the receptive partner.", "sentence": "If you want to identify as a Power Bottom, respect.", "communities": [ "LGBTQ" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "MtF", "date": "2024-03-02 13:05:47", "timestamp": 1709381147.0 } }, { "id": "215419", "term": "bio queen", "definition": "A cis female performance artist who performs in female drag at drag shows, or acts like a drag queen.", "sentence": "So when starting out many bio queens look glam but not drag.", "communities": [], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "Drag", "date": "2021-07-08 01:23:13", "timestamp": 1625700193.0 } }, { "id": "169817", "term": "pre-E", "definition": "Not yet having undergone estrogen-based hormone replacement therapy.", "sentence": "Im pre-E, but im still probably close to a B cup.", "communities": [ "transgender" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "transfashionadvice", "date": "2024-02-15 05:56:30", "timestamp": 1707972990.0 } }, { "id": "115473", "term": "pillow princess", "definition": "A woman who likes to receive and not give, sexually.", "sentence": "As I'm unsure if that really represents what i feel, and if pillow princess is the only word, can i use it as a gay man?", "communities": [ "lesbian" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "asexuality", "date": "2024-09-22 19:27:00", "timestamp": 1727026020.0 } }, { "id": "220177", "term": "house of", "definition": "In the US, a group of drag queens who have been mentored by a \"mother,\" also known as a \"house.\" These groups often take on family drag names and form close-knit communities.", "sentence": "From the house of xtravaganza, for\" mother of the year,\"", "communities": [], "metadata": { "source": "OpenSubtitles", "title": "Paris Is Burning", "imdb_id": "100332" } }, { "id": "115109", "term": "stone femme", "definition": "A lesbian identity patterned after the term \"stone butch\". It may variously refer to: a femme that is a bottom, a femme that is attracted to or partner with someone who is butch, a femme who does not wish to touch her partners' genitalia, or a femme who is sexually stone, i.e. they do not wish to be touched in the genital area (and therefore they usually top).", "sentence": "I was thinking stone femme but I guess thatā€™s a term for being a pillow princess ?", "communities": [ "lesbian" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "actuallesbians", "date": "2020-12-12 11:21:57", "timestamp": 1607768517.0 } }, { "id": "215420", "term": "bio queen", "definition": "A cis female performance artist who performs in female drag at drag shows, or acts like a drag queen.", "sentence": "I ask because I really would love to dabble in doing bio queen images but I don't like makeup for various personal reasons.", "communities": [], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "Drag", "date": "2020-02-27 11:38:32", "timestamp": 1582799912.0 } }, { "id": "210084", "term": "bears", "definition": "ā€¢ Community term with multiple meanings. 1. A gay or bisexual man who has facial/body hair and a cuddly body. 2. An umbrella term that refers to members of a subculture in the gay and bisexual male communities and is often defined as more of an attitude or sense of comfort with natural masculinity and bodies.\nā€¢ In male gay culture, a bear is often a larger, hairier man who projects an image of rugged masculinity.", "sentence": "Big fan of bears (men) and bears (animal).", "communities": [ "bear" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "lgbt", "date": "2024-01-23 16:16:16", "timestamp": 1706022976.0 } }, { "id": "209110", "term": "yass", "definition": "A strong expression of excitement or admiration.", "sentence": "I don't like the stuff that's all YASS QUEEN and stuff, but I like stuff I'll actually use.", "communities": [], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "AskLGBT", "date": "2022-05-17 23:51:07", "timestamp": 1652824267.0 } }, { "id": "110873", "term": "tranny chaser", "definition": "Someone who aims to have sexual relations (in some cases non-consensually) or date transgender people as a kind of fetish.", "sentence": "I find the whole tranny chaser thing weird, mostly for the persistence.", "communities": [ "transfeminine" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "crossdressing", "date": "2014-05-28 14:57:38", "timestamp": 1401281858.0 } }, { "id": "83734", "term": "gym rat", "definition": "A sports enthusiast; usually one who frequents gyms and training grounds; often used of young gay men obsessed with body building.", "sentence": "A gay friend who is a huge gym rat reassured me today, saying I'm in fine shape.", "communities": [], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "gaybros", "date": "2024-01-01 21:45:25", "timestamp": 1704141925.0 } }, { "id": "108469", "term": "second puberty", "definition": "A term often used by transgender persons transitioning after they have already undergone puberty.", "sentence": "Some of the most pleasant experiences have been a result of going through a second puberty as I transitioned.", "communities": [ "transgender" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "asktransgender", "date": "2018-03-30 16:11:20", "timestamp": 1522419080.0 } }, { "id": "86341", "term": "sugar daddy", "definition": "Expression of the Black community in the 1920s, to refer to an older, wealthy partner. Over time, this expression became used by the LGBTQIA+ community as well.", "sentence": "Now this Colombian sugar daddy was 20 years older than his sugar baby and had given plenty of money to his sugar baby.", "communities": [], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "gaybros", "date": "2023-09-11 22:49:10", "timestamp": 1694465350.0 } }, { "id": "220174", "term": "house of", "definition": "In the US, a group of drag queens who have been mentored by a \"mother,\" also known as a \"house.\" These groups often take on family drag names and form close-knit communities.", "sentence": "Like, a new group of kids would just create a house, then they'd work at building its name up, which worked... the house of Xtravaganza, the house of Saint Laurent.", "communities": [], "metadata": { "source": "OpenSubtitles", "title": "Paris Is Burning", "imdb_id": "100332" } }, { "id": "127670", "term": "down low", "definition": "Typically referring to a man who identifies publicly as heterosexual, but engages in covert sexual relationships with other men.", "sentence": "DL means down low in this context, yes?", "communities": [ "African-American gay male" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "bisexual", "date": "2023-10-31 01:26:35", "timestamp": 1698711995.0 } }, { "id": "110953", "term": "squish", "definition": "An aromantic crush; the desire for a non-romantic and/or platonic relationship with another person.", "sentence": "Iā€™m not ace but I think Iā€™ve had squishes.", "communities": [ "aromantic" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "lgbt", "date": "2021-02-07 10:33:13", "timestamp": 1612690393.0 } }, { "id": "115988", "term": "stem", "definition": "A lesbian defined as having a gender presentation between stud (st-) and femme (-em).", "sentence": "HOWEVER, I like him; she's, they, thems if they're stem or feminine", "communities": [ "lesbian" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "pansexual", "date": "2021-10-07 04:38:06", "timestamp": 1633574286.0 } }, { "id": "124007", "term": "fudge packer", "definition": "ā€¢ A male homosexual. \nā€¢ A person who practices anal sex.", "sentence": "No homophobe has ever said \"Johnny is a fudge packer but its cool because at least he still loves puss\"", "communities": [ "gay male" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "bisexual", "date": "2024-10-27 15:47:57", "timestamp": 1730040477.0 } }, { "id": "115066", "term": "baby butch", "definition": "A young butch or boyish lesbian or a butch or boyish lesbian who is perceived to be young, regardless of age.", "sentence": "Some people don't like the baby butch term since it feels demeaning, and that's something that should be respected.", "communities": [ "lesbian" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "AskLGBT", "date": "2025-03-18 01:32:30", "timestamp": 1742257950.0 } }, { "id": "213189", "term": "muscle mary", "definition": "A sports enthusiast; usually one who frequents gyms and training grounds; often used of young gay men obsessed with body building.", "sentence": "Seeing as the muscle Mary is the darling of the gay world ?", "communities": [], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "askgaybros", "date": "2022-11-29 00:33:10", "timestamp": 1669678390.0 } }, { "id": "112527", "term": "femme", "definition": "Traditionally, a lesbian who appears \"feminine\" or acts in a \"feminine\" manner. However, the term is often used to describe a wide variety of gender expressions and identities adjacent to feminine or femme-ness.", "sentence": "If you want it to appear more femme maybe try playing with accessories more.", "communities": [ "lesbian" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "lgbt", "date": "2021-10-04 22:11:42", "timestamp": 1633378302.0 } }, { "id": "228059", "term": "discreet", "definition": "Not drawing attention, anger or challenge; inconspicuous.", "sentence": "No he didn't.Don't worry He's discreet.", "communities": [ "LGBTQ" ], "metadata": { "source": "OpenSubtitles", "title": "XXY", "imdb_id": "995829" } }, { "id": "214786", "term": "switches", "definition": "ā€¢ LGBTQ+ community slang for someone who \"switches\" between the \"giving\" and \"receiving\" during sex. \"Vers\" is short for \"versatile.\" \"Switch\" is sometimes also used in a BDSM context, to indicate someone who \"switches\" between the dominant and submissive roles.\nā€¢ One who is willing to take either a submissive or a dominant role in a sexual relationship.", "sentence": "I never realised how many of us are switches until I saw this damn comment section", "communities": [ "LGBTQ" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "pansexual", "date": "2020-04-14 04:50:08", "timestamp": 1586832608.0 } }, { "id": "7272", "term": "boots", "definition": "Used as an intensifier: very, to a great degree; exceptionally.", "sentence": "But then he also said that his relationship was bad boots.", "communities": [ "drag" ], "metadata": { "source": "Podcasts", "title": "Leave A Message with Ally & G" } }, { "id": "113805", "term": "boi", "definition": "An LGBTQIA+ slang term with multiple definitions; a boi might be a boyish lesbian, a submissive butch in the BDSM community, a younger transgender man or a transgender man early in transition, a younger bisexual or gay person who is somewhat feminine. Alternatively, some persons identifying with the term might fit none of these categories.", "sentence": "A cute gaymer boi you say?", "communities": [ "lesbian", "transmasculine", "African-American LGBTQ" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "GaymersGoneMild", "date": "2020-12-18 00:08:35", "timestamp": 1608246515.0 } }, { "id": "202081", "term": "Tit Tac", "definition": "A pill taken as part of feminizing hormone replacement therapy, especially spironolactone (called by this name due to its peppermint smell) or estrogen such as estradiol.", "sentence": "Do y'alls have fun names for your hormones cuz like over here in the MTF community we got breast mints, tit tacs, fem&ms anti boyotics and all sorts of wordplay.", "communities": [ "transgender" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "ftm", "date": "2024-12-24 17:54:28", "timestamp": 1735059268.0 } }, { "id": "106484", "term": "deadnaming", "definition": "Calling a transgender person by their \"deadname\" (oftentimes their birth name, but not always).", "sentence": "She kept using \"she/her,\" pronouns for them and deadnaming them.", "communities": [ "transgender" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "bisexual", "date": "2022-03-17 06:01:13", "timestamp": 1647493273.0 } }, { "id": "168500", "term": "hen", "definition": "The penis of a trans woman.", "sentence": "In one of the discords I'm in we used hen as another word for girl cock.", "communities": [ "transgender" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "traaaaaaannnnnnnnnns", "date": "2020-10-15 13:00:34", "timestamp": 1602759634.0 } }, { "id": "95552", "term": "service top", "definition": "A service top is one who tops (acts as the \"giving\" partner in sexual encounters) under the direction of an eager bottom (who acts as the \"receiving\" partner in sexual encounters).", "sentence": "I could be considered a service top in my current relationship lol", "communities": [ "LGBTQ" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "askgaybros", "date": "2016-12-16 10:23:50", "timestamp": 1481880230.0 } }, { "id": "117038", "term": "polar bear", "definition": "An older bear whose facial and body hair are predominantly or entirely white or grey (\"bear\" meaning \"a gay or bisexual man who has facial/body hair and a cuddly body\").", "sentence": "She brought her friends and there was a polar bear whom I found very cute and she was being really nice to me.", "communities": [ "bear" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "actuallesbians", "date": "2013-12-08 15:31:11", "timestamp": 1386513071.0 } }, { "id": "109783", "term": "fish", "definition": "Derogatory term for cisgender women; also used to refer to drag queens or transgender women who are considered \"passing\" as cisgender women.", "sentence": "I think it's really odd that Baker doesn't answer about fish which is a pretty misogynistic way to refer to a cis woman.", "communities": [ "transfeminine" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "ask_transgender", "date": "2015-07-30 08:57:33", "timestamp": 1438239453.0 } }, { "id": "113695", "term": "high femme", "definition": "A femme person who expresses their gender in ultra feminine ways. Often, but not exclusively, this refers to a queer woman.", "sentence": "People get mad at trans women/femmes who don't voice train or go high femme.", "communities": [ "lesbian" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "trans", "date": "2025-07-15 00:13:35", "timestamp": 1752531215.0 } }, { "id": "123830", "term": "boy pussy", "definition": "A gay man's anus, especially the receiving partipant's. Also, rarely, a transmasculine person's vulva.", "sentence": "The term \"daddy\" bothers me more than boy pussy.", "communities": [ "transgender", "gay", "gay male" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "askgaybros", "date": "2018-09-07 10:44:24", "timestamp": 1536309864.0 } }, { "id": "98588", "term": "gaysian", "definition": "Somewhat derogatory term referring to an Asian gay person.", "sentence": "Follow up question: Which US states do you think are most gaysian friendly?", "communities": [ "LGBTQ" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "gay", "date": "2023-11-30 06:02:28", "timestamp": 1701320548.0 } }, { "id": "79781", "term": "friend of dorothy", "definition": "Coded slang for gay. Referring to gay icon Judy Garland's Dorothy in The Wizard of Oz.", "sentence": "Honestly I kinda like the Friend of Dorothy/Rival of Dorothy joke!", "communities": [ "gay male" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "AskLGBT", "date": "2024-07-18 12:28:50", "timestamp": 1721298530.0 } }, { "id": "145815", "term": "pancake", "definition": "A butch woman who is a bottom, said to have been \"flipped\" from the expected sexual role of being a top.", "sentence": "I'm a Demi Pancake.", "communities": [], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "demisexuality", "date": "2024-06-28 19:57:39", "timestamp": 1719597459.0 } }, { "id": "210563", "term": "bottoms", "definition": "ā€¢ A \"bottom\" is an individual who acts as the \"receiving\" partner in sexual encounters. Sometimes used as a self-descriptor within queer communities, but should be replicated with caution. Sometimes used as a verb (\"to bottom for someone\"). Offensive if applied to LGBTQ+ individuals from outwith queer communities.\nā€¢ Someone, typically a man, who is penetrated during sexual intercourse or someone who has a preference for being penetrated during such intercourse.\nā€¢ The buttocks.\nā€¢ Genitalia; genitals.", "sentence": "I mean, if there weren't some really great (and I mean stunningly fantastic) bottoms out there what would a top do?", "communities": [ "LGBTQ" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "gaybros", "date": "2023-07-14 10:41:18", "timestamp": 1689324078.0 } }, { "id": "169368", "term": "manmode", "definition": "The state of presenting as a man, regardless of one's actual gender identity, especially of a trans woman.", "sentence": "Even since I've had surgery, I manmode without issue, I don't think people would suspect I was transitioning.", "communities": [ "transgender" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "asktransgender", "date": "2023-09-23 18:20:58", "timestamp": 1695486058.0 } }, { "id": "108364", "term": "t4t", "definition": "Short form of \"trans for trans\", indicating transgender persons interested in other transgender persons romantically and/or sexually.", "sentence": "any former dreams of t4t sex are gone, drifting in the wind, (and are also inherently oppressive too.", "communities": [ "transgender" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "transgendercirclejerk", "date": "2025-01-06 19:35:56", "timestamp": 1736188556.0 } }, { "id": "229034", "term": "closeted", "definition": "An adjective referring to an LGBTQIA+ person or persons who have not disclosed their status as LGBTQIA+ and other related aspects of their life. More broadly, it can also be used to describe anyone who is hiding part of their identity because of social pressure.", "sentence": "A closeted gay teacher is outed by a former student on the night of the academy awards in the ground-breaking comedy starring Kevin kline.", "communities": [ "LGBTQ" ], "metadata": { "source": "OpenSubtitles", "title": "All Over the Guy", "imdb_id": "250202" } }, { "id": "224090", "term": "lesbian", "definition": "A girl or woman who is wholly or mostly sexually or romantically attracted to other girls or women.", "sentence": "I'm a lesbian who's been exposed to nuclear waste, hoh!", "communities": [], "metadata": { "source": "OpenSubtitles", "title": "Will & Grace", "imdb_id": "157246" } }, { "id": "98879", "term": "lavender", "definition": "A pale purple color, like that of the lavender flower. Lavender become symbol of homosexuality in the 1950s and 1960s, just as the color mauve was in the 1890s.", "sentence": "I have been seeing a ton of TikTokā€™s on how they wanna be in a Lavender marriage and all of that.", "communities": [ "LGBTQ" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "lgbt", "date": "2025-07-13 07:40:44", "timestamp": 1752385244.0 } }, { "id": "75835", "term": "chaser", "definition": "Short for \"tranny chaser.\" A person who sees trans people (usually trans women) as inherently sexual, and sexually objectifies them. As opposed to someone who simply is predominantly attracted to trans women; a chaser does not view trans women respectfully as people with humanity and agency, but rather as players in a sexual fantasy.", "sentence": "As for your friend... Well, when someone tells me they're \"into trans women,\" that's usually a red flag that they're a chaser.", "communities": [], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "ask_transgender", "date": "2019-07-19 06:43:08", "timestamp": 1563511388.0 } }, { "id": "103754", "term": "top surgery", "definition": "A slang term used to refer to thoracic gender-affirming surgeries.", "sentence": "so *my question IS*, would i be able to get top surgery \"twice\" but like this time just shrinking them and then when im free, completely letting go of them?", "communities": [ "transgender" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "genderfluid", "date": "2024-04-05 11:54:51", "timestamp": 1712310891.0 } }, { "id": "134004", "term": "ambisextrous", "definition": "Said of a person, bisexual.", "sentence": "Welcome to the ambisextrous club.", "communities": [], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "LGBTeens", "date": "2016-07-30 21:28:06", "timestamp": 1469906886.0 } }, { "id": "165462", "term": "gender", "definition": "Evoking positive feelings regarding gender, like gender euphoria or gender envy.", "sentence": "Got so much gender envy from her in Ahsoka.", "communities": [ "transgender" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "ladyladyboners", "date": "2024-02-08 16:47:10", "timestamp": 1707407230.0 } }, { "id": "106647", "term": "baby trans", "definition": "Someone who has recently discovered that they are transgender.", "sentence": "In fact, dear reader, I will tell you now that I have already done this; and several baby trans have talked to me for advice, guidance, and help.", "communities": [ "transgender", "transgender" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "transgenderUK", "date": "2024-11-12 02:50:13", "timestamp": 1731376213.0 } }, { "id": "94383", "term": "condragulations", "definition": "A variant form of congratulations used sometimes in drag.", "sentence": "no teeth at 25 would be crazyšŸ˜­šŸ˜­but condragulations!!!", "communities": [ "drag" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "askgaybros", "date": "2022-10-25 08:59:52", "timestamp": 1666681192.0 } }, { "id": "116808", "term": "bear chaser", "definition": "A gay man who pursues primarily bears (\"bear\" meaning \"a gay or bisexual man who has facial/body hair and a cuddly body\").", "sentence": "As a bear myself who's more into twinks, I love me a twinky bear chaser!", "communities": [ "bear" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "askgaybros", "date": "2025-03-28 01:16:41", "timestamp": 1743121001.0 } }, { "id": "78204", "term": "flame", "definition": "\"Flaming\" can be used generally as an intensifier or curse, but has become especially associated with feminine gay men and campness. Often still used fondly, especially by older generations of gay men, but offensive if applied by others.", "sentence": "Also same about being able to flame on and off and people being surprised to find out Iā€™m Bi.", "communities": [], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "lgbt", "date": "2024-07-17 21:43:32", "timestamp": 1721245412.0 } }, { "id": "106666", "term": "repressor", "definition": "A transgender person who fights or represses the wish to change their gender expression.", "sentence": "As I'm sure you're aware, there's the repressors that sometimes pack muscles to try to run from themselves.", "communities": [ "transgender" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "asktransgender", "date": "2022-06-15 21:59:39", "timestamp": 1655323179.0 } }, { "id": "99778", "term": "queer coding", "definition": "A situation in which a character is given traits or behaviors which suggest they are not heterosexual and/or cisgender, without the character being outright confirmed as having such an identity.", "sentence": "it's not like i ignore that queer coding or don't respect it, etc.", "communities": [ "LGBTQ" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "bisexual", "date": "2025-05-07 22:40:08", "timestamp": 1746650408.0 } }, { "id": "165177", "term": "estrogel", "definition": "Estradiol gel used in feminizing hormone replacement therapy.", "sentence": "This exchange of the estrogel bottle getting waved in front of my face by transphobic pharmacists for a month needs to stop.", "communities": [ "transgender" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "MtF", "date": "2024-08-05 21:33:35", "timestamp": 1722886415.0 } }, { "id": "101513", "term": "enban", "definition": "An adult nonbinary person.", "sentence": "I made a flag for it and redefined it to be more inclusive, so I felt like a jerk about their treatment of enbans was appropriate.", "communities": [ "nonbinary" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "transgendercirclejerk", "date": "2021-08-21 03:18:36", "timestamp": 1629508716.0 } }, { "id": "203130", "term": "VT", "definition": "Initialism of voice training.", "sentence": "Is VT an acronym for voice training or is there not one?", "communities": [ "transgender" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "transvoice", "date": "2024-11-20 20:17:14", "timestamp": 1732130234.0 } }, { "id": "89157", "term": "top", "definition": "ā€¢ A \"top\" is an individual who acts as the \"giving\" partner in sexual encounters. Sometimes used as a self-descriptor within queer communities, but should be replicated with caution. Sometimes used as a verb (\"to top someone\"). Offensive if applied to LGBTQ+ individuals from outwith queer communities.\nā€¢ Someone, typically a man, who is penetrating someone else during sexual intercourse or someone who has a preference for penetrating during such intercourse.", "sentence": "Is it different depending on whether you're looking to bottom or to top?", "communities": [ "LGBTQ" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "QueerTransmen", "date": "2011-11-17 05:44:08", "timestamp": 1321505048.0 } }, { "id": "154724", "term": "Mary", "definition": "Women's names have often been appropriated as slurs for gay men, especially for feminine gay men and transfeminine people. \"Nancy\" is probably the most common, across the 20th Century globally. All are offensive.", "sentence": "Pre Hayes Code movies from the 20s and 30s had gay characters who said Mary.", "communities": [ "gay" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "gay", "date": "2024-06-04 15:34:22", "timestamp": 1717508062.0 } }, { "id": "205357", "term": "lesboy", "definition": "A person who identifies as male and as a lesbian.", "sentence": "Personally that's why I like to call myself a lesboy.", "communities": [], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "queer", "date": "2022-04-11 00:10:16", "timestamp": 1649628616.0 } }, { "id": "149178", "term": "serve cunt", "definition": "To act in a powerfully and unapologetically feminine manner.", "sentence": "Sometimes I serve cunt, sometimes I serve canā€™t.", "communities": [ "drag" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "lgbt", "date": "2025-03-27 12:23:01", "timestamp": 1743074581.0 } }, { "id": "228165", "term": "crush", "definition": "An infatuation with somebody, typically someone that one is not dating. By extension, the object of such infatuation or affection.", "sentence": "I'm training you to survive Mavericks, not some, uh... silly teen crush.", "communities": [ "LGBTQ" ], "metadata": { "source": "OpenSubtitles", "title": "Slay", "imdb_id": "1629757" } }, { "id": "113832", "term": "boi", "definition": "An LGBTQIA+ slang term with multiple definitions; a boi might be a boyish lesbian, a submissive butch in the BDSM community, a younger transgender man or a transgender man early in transition, a younger bisexual or gay person who is somewhat feminine. Alternatively, some persons identifying with the term might fit none of these categories.", "sentence": "We can have women, bois and AFAB spaes instead of just women :)", "communities": [ "lesbian", "transmasculine", "African-American LGBTQ" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "transgendercirclejerk", "date": "2023-07-21 01:34:01", "timestamp": 1689896041.0 } }, { "id": "204415", "term": "girlsmell", "definition": "A girl or woman's body odour, often regarded as attractive.", "sentence": "wtf what's the point if no girlsmell", "communities": [], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "transgendercirclejerk", "date": "2025-01-01 20:32:04", "timestamp": 1735759924.0 } }, { "id": "107971", "term": "transition goal", "definition": "A transgender person's goals for transition, or an example of what they would like to achieve for such a transition (for example, pointing to an actor or musician of their desired gender expression and declaring that person \"transition goals\").", "sentence": "Omfg transition goals right here", "communities": [ "transgender" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "transpassing", "date": "2021-01-01 02:03:02", "timestamp": 1609462982.0 } }, { "id": "91798", "term": "faux queen", "definition": "A cis female performance artist who performs in female drag at drag shows, or acts like a drag queen.", "sentence": "I don't think you're a Faux queen, just a Queen šŸ˜Š", "communities": [ "drag", "gay male" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "Drag", "date": "2020-05-14 05:58:45", "timestamp": 1589428725.0 } }, { "id": "108096", "term": "t4t", "definition": "Short form of \"trans for trans\", indicating transgender persons interested in other transgender persons romantically and/or sexually.", "sentence": "T4T is extremely common and even those like myself that are very much NOT T4T, we might still date other trans people *incidentally* rather than exclusively.", "communities": [ "transgender" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "asktransgender", "date": "2025-05-14 17:34:03", "timestamp": 1747236843.0 } }, { "id": "119534", "term": "no homo", "definition": "A phrase used as slang at the end of a sentence to assert the statement spoken by the speaker had no intentional homosexual implications. The phrase is also \"added to a statement in order to rid of a possible homosexual double-entendre\".", "sentence": "And since everyone was like \"Haha no homo tho\", I sorta went along with it.", "communities": [ "gay male" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "bisexual", "date": "2017-07-20 00:19:30", "timestamp": 1500502770.0 } }, { "id": "83747", "term": "gym rat", "definition": "A sports enthusiast; usually one who frequents gyms and training grounds; often used of young gay men obsessed with body building.", "sentence": "We gotta get greg doucette to make an anabolic version for us gym rats.", "communities": [], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "bisexual", "date": "2023-01-23 01:54:12", "timestamp": 1674435252.0 } }, { "id": "96004", "term": "gaydar", "definition": "A colloquialism referring to the intuitive ability of a person to assess others' sexual orientations as gay, bisexual or heterosexual. Gaydar relies on verbal and non-verbal clues and LGBTQ stereotypes. These include the sensitivity to social behaviors and mannerisms; for instance, acknowledging flamboyant body language, the tone of voice used by a person when speaking, overtly rejecting traditional gender roles, a person's occupation, and grooming habits.", "sentence": "From personal gaydar usage experience, it's always active.", "communities": [ "LGBTQ" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "LGBTeens", "date": "2020-11-06 10:13:59", "timestamp": 1604654039.0 } }, { "id": "116785", "term": "seahorse dad", "definition": "Slang term for a transgender man who is carrying, or has carried, a child to term.", "sentence": "Iā€™ve started saying Iā€™m gonna be a seahorse dad lmao.", "communities": [ "transmasculine" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "ftm", "date": "2023-07-05 13:00:03", "timestamp": 1688554803.0 } }, { "id": "108664", "term": "boymode", "definition": "When a transgender person presents a gender expression codified as male, typically if that person is a transgender woman. Usually used in the context of going incognito as a cisgender man.", "sentence": "tbh even if you were to boymode i bet youā€™d fail dramatically at it and be called a girl anyway", "communities": [ "transgender", "transgender" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "transpositive", "date": "2024-08-19 23:01:10", "timestamp": 1724101270.0 } }, { "id": "1754", "term": "kink", "definition": "ā€¢ A specific sexual desire, practice, or activity considered unconventional but within certain socially constructed boundaries.\nā€¢ A thief or burglar.", "sentence": "Text it in and let me know what you think my kink should be because I'll be interested in it.", "communities": [], "metadata": { "source": "Podcasts", "title": "We Can Be Weirdos" } }, { "id": "203328", "term": "doll", "definition": "A transgender woman or transfeminine person.", "sentence": "Thing is, if somebody calls me doll *purely* because I'm trans that'll irk me.", "communities": [], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "asktransgender", "date": "2024-08-25 17:24:36", "timestamp": 1724599476.0 } }, { "id": "97006", "term": "power top", "definition": "A power top is one noted for their skill or aggressiveness in topping (acting as the \"giving\" partner in sexual encounters).", "sentence": "Wrong, Peach is the power top.", "communities": [ "LGBTQ" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "gaymers", "date": "2017-10-19 02:16:46", "timestamp": 1508372206.0 } }, { "id": "228922", "term": "realness", "definition": "The state of being real; the ability to blend or pass as heterosexual or cisgender; the quality of passing as a particular role in a particular circumstance.", "sentence": "Is this realness or not?", "communities": [ "drag", "gay male" ], "metadata": { "source": "OpenSubtitles", "title": "Paris Is Burning", "imdb_id": "100332" } }, { "id": "127544", "term": "butch queen", "definition": "A gay man with a traditionally masculine gender expression.", "sentence": "I got the impression that butch queen just meant dude in drags, but I didn't realize they use(d) it as a gender identity.", "communities": [ "gay male" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "rupaulsdragrace", "date": "2017-08-29 17:10:30", "timestamp": 1504019430.0 } }, { "id": "84638", "term": "lipstick lesbian", "definition": "Usually refers to a lesbian with a feminine gender expression. Can be used in a positive or a derogatory way, depending on who is using it. Is sometimes also used to refer to a lesbian who is seen as automatically \"passing\" for heterosexual.", "sentence": "A lesbian who is particularly feminine may *choose* to identify as a lipstick lesbian -- or they may not.", "communities": [ "lesbian" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "AskLGBT", "date": "2022-05-27 04:01:49", "timestamp": 1653616909.0 } }, { "id": "134003", "term": "ambisextrous", "definition": "Said of a person, bisexual.", "sentence": "I make the \"You might say I'm ambidextrous and ambisextrous!\"", "communities": [], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "bisexual", "date": "2018-08-15 23:36:22", "timestamp": 1534368982.0 } }, { "id": "113726", "term": "gayelle", "definition": "A lesbian.", "sentence": "Do you follow the Effin' Dykes guide to identifying gayelles?", "communities": [ "lesbian" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "actuallesbians", "date": "2012-01-30 10:12:17", "timestamp": 1327914737.0 } }, { "id": "75829", "term": "chaser", "definition": "Short for \"tranny chaser.\" A person who sees trans people (usually trans women) as inherently sexual, and sexually objectifies them. As opposed to someone who simply is predominantly attracted to trans women; a chaser does not view trans women respectfully as people with humanity and agency, but rather as players in a sexual fantasy.", "sentence": "A chaser probably would react badly to their partner eventually having surgery, a non chaser would ideally be happy for their partner.", "communities": [], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "ask_transgender", "date": "2019-12-12 22:18:23", "timestamp": 1576185503.0 } }, { "id": "99267", "term": "power bottom", "definition": "A power bottom is someone who aggressively enjoys being the receptive partner.", "sentence": "I don't think of myself as really a power bottom, but I feel it kind of works.", "communities": [ "LGBTQ" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "actuallesbians", "date": "2023-11-30 16:02:31", "timestamp": 1701356551.0 } }, { "id": "120661", "term": "friend of Dorothy", "definition": "Coded slang for gay. Referring to gay icon Judy Garland's Dorothy in The Wizard of Oz.", "sentence": "He was around my age, had lovely green eyes, a hot bear body, and seemed to be a fellow friend of Dorothy.", "communities": [], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "askgaybros", "date": "2024-10-13 21:43:06", "timestamp": 1728848586.0 } }, { "id": "107222", "term": "deep stealth", "definition": "Referring to a transgender person who is not known to be trans by most of the people they interact with on a daily basis, even a sexual or romantic partner.", "sentence": "A friend of mine went deep stealth at around your age.", "communities": [ "transgender" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "asktransgender", "date": "2018-03-04 19:29:16", "timestamp": 1520188156.0 } }, { "id": "110404", "term": "Eve's apple", "definition": "A transfeminine slang term coined to replace the masculine sounding \"Adam's apple\".", "sentence": "So my ex-gf had an eve's apple and she actually loved her chokers because they hid it while looking awesome.", "communities": [ "transfeminine" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "MtF", "date": "2022-02-24 03:03:47", "timestamp": 1645668227.0 } }, { "id": "123845", "term": "boy pussy", "definition": "A gay man's anus, especially the receiving partipant's. Also, rarely, a transmasculine person's vulva.", "sentence": "I was going to one of my classes and got passed by some guy in my morning class who said ā€œSup boy pussyā€ and then kept walking", "communities": [ "transgender", "gay", "gay male" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "trans", "date": "2025-03-21 07:02:08", "timestamp": 1742536928.0 } }, { "id": "110906", "term": "zucchini", "definition": "A queerplatonic partner.", "sentence": "In that context, Iā€™ve seen zucchini being used as a kind of nickname for their one in a QPR.", "communities": [ "aromantic" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "asexuality", "date": "2025-03-17 15:45:18", "timestamp": 1742222718.0 } }, { "id": "158799", "term": "cunt", "definition": "ā€¢ The anus of a trans woman.\nā€¢ The inguinal canals of a trans woman.\nā€¢ Amazing or very good.", "sentence": "I just serve clocky cunt", "communities": [ "transgender" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "MtF", "date": "2025-05-25 14:22:05", "timestamp": 1748175725.0 } }, { "id": "210079", "term": "bears", "definition": "ā€¢ Community term with multiple meanings. 1. A gay or bisexual man who has facial/body hair and a cuddly body. 2. An umbrella term that refers to members of a subculture in the gay and bisexual male communities and is often defined as more of an attitude or sense of comfort with natural masculinity and bodies.\nā€¢ In male gay culture, a bear is often a larger, hairier man who projects an image of rugged masculinity.", "sentence": "I'm definitely down for hugs, just between us bears.", "communities": [ "bear" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "lgbt", "date": "2021-07-03 05:33:28", "timestamp": 1625283208.0 } }, { "id": "157840", "term": "bonus hole", "definition": "The vulva or vagina of a trans man.", "sentence": "Be blessed our bonus hole.", "communities": [ "transgender" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "traaaaaaannnnnnnnnns", "date": "2018-08-17 00:03:05", "timestamp": 1534456985.0 } }, { "id": "83742", "term": "gym rat", "definition": "A sports enthusiast; usually one who frequents gyms and training grounds; often used of young gay men obsessed with body building.", "sentence": "But my gym rat strength keeps making them question everything lol.", "communities": [], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "actuallesbians", "date": "2025-04-14 08:47:10", "timestamp": 1744613230.0 } }, { "id": "203114", "term": "VT", "definition": "Initialism of voice training.", "sentence": "I feel comfortable and have just been singing along as I try to VT in the car (Iā€™m alone).", "communities": [ "transgender" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "MtF", "date": "2025-03-25 01:49:50", "timestamp": 1742863790.0 } }, { "id": "1752", "term": "kink", "definition": "ā€¢ A specific sexual desire, practice, or activity considered unconventional but within certain socially constructed boundaries.\nā€¢ A thief or burglar.", "sentence": "Find me a kink, text it in, you know, I don't want any sexually explicit photographs from you or anybody.", "communities": [], "metadata": { "source": "Podcasts", "title": "We Can Be Weirdos" } }, { "id": "120694", "term": "hunty", "definition": "A portmanteau of \"honey\" and \"cunt\", usually considered a term of supposed endearment.", "sentence": "You look amazing huntyā™”ā™”", "communities": [ "gay male" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "Drag", "date": "2024-07-21 19:15:52", "timestamp": 1721582152.0 } }, { "id": "104098", "term": "stealth", "definition": "When a transgender person keeps their transgender status closely guarded, living as if they were cisgender as their identified gender.", "sentence": "*edit: Iā€™m not a trans woman- Iā€™m a stealth gay man who is dating a cis bi man who (as far as I know) thinks Iā€™m a cis gay man.", "communities": [ "transgender" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "bisexual", "date": "2022-03-16 14:11:54", "timestamp": 1647436314.0 } }, { "id": "107804", "term": "full-time", "definition": "A term which refers to a transgender person living as their gender for the entirety of their day-to-day life, at work, at home, etc.", "sentence": "You can certainly get FFS before going full-time, and I've certainly heard of many women doing this.", "communities": [ "transgender" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "TransSpace", "date": "2012-03-12 21:08:13", "timestamp": 1331582893.0 } }, { "id": "140267", "term": "BJ", "definition": "Initialism of blow job.", "sentence": "I'd still give you a bj", "communities": [], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "MajesticManes", "date": "2022-12-27 17:29:09", "timestamp": 1672158549.0 } }, { "id": "40539", "term": "mother", "definition": "A person who is admired, respected, or looked up to within a particular fandom or community.", "sentence": "But this Pride Month, called me Messy Mother.", "communities": [ "drag" ], "metadata": { "source": "Podcasts", "title": "First Date Follow Up - The Jubal Show" } }, { "id": "90707", "term": "slay", "definition": "Used to express approval or amazement.", "sentence": "But oh well, another day, another slay šŸ˜‚", "communities": [ "drag" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "gaybros", "date": "2024-04-15 10:14:14", "timestamp": 1713168854.0 } }, { "id": "211146", "term": "eggs", "definition": "Slang term (originating online) for a person who has not yet realised they are transgender, has not yet come out, or is in the early stages of transitioning. Usually used (fondly) by trans people to recognise when aspects of someone's personality or behavior remind them of gender-related aspects of themselves before they realized they were trans.", "sentence": "Calling people eggs is very weird and creepy!", "communities": [ "transgender" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "transgendercirclejerk", "date": "2025-01-31 00:35:37", "timestamp": 1738280137.0 } }, { "id": "96959", "term": "total bottom", "definition": "A total bottom is someone who assumes an exclusively passive or receptive role during anal or oral intercourse.", "sentence": "Iā€™m a total bottom but he liked to be submissive sometimes.", "communities": [ "LGBTQ" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "gay", "date": "2023-09-16 05:10:08", "timestamp": 1694833808.0 } }, { "id": "215409", "term": "bio queen", "definition": "A cis female performance artist who performs in female drag at drag shows, or acts like a drag queen.", "sentence": "The competitive aspect of drag I do think bio queens, transitioning queens and non-transitioning queens should be judged differently because they have different challenges in making the look work.", "communities": [], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "asexuality", "date": "2020-03-02 02:56:09", "timestamp": 1583114169.0 } }, { "id": "107953", "term": "transition goal", "definition": "A transgender person's goals for transition, or an example of what they would like to achieve for such a transition (for example, pointing to an actor or musician of their desired gender expression and declaring that person \"transition goals\").", "sentence": "Hell yeah queen, I'm currently helpong out my one mtf friend and today she discovered her transition goals as well", "communities": [ "transgender" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "lgbt", "date": "2020-09-07 17:46:26", "timestamp": 1599493586.0 } }, { "id": "116841", "term": "cub", "definition": "A younger or younger-looking bear, sometimes with a smaller frame (\"bear\" meaning \"a gay or bisexual man who has facial/body hair and a cuddly body\").", "sentence": "Iā€™m just curious about how cubs are seen but other queer men!", "communities": [ "gay", "bear" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "gaybros", "date": "2019-06-28 11:33:49", "timestamp": 1561714429.0 } }, { "id": "165252", "term": "euphoria boner", "definition": "An erection of the penis in a trans woman, caused by strong feelings of gender euphoria.", "sentence": "The euphoria boner lol exactly.", "communities": [ "transgender" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "MtF", "date": "2025-07-20 08:09:28", "timestamp": 1752991768.0 } }, { "id": "106734", "term": "cis-tem", "definition": "Mainstream culture, controlled by the elites or government of a state, or a combination of them, which is oppressive to transgender persons.", "sentence": "I mean, I'm a feminist- female or male, and dude, really fuck the binary cis-tem for sure.", "communities": [ "transgender" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "ftm", "date": "2018-01-24 16:12:45", "timestamp": 1516806765.0 } }, { "id": "118699", "term": "gold star gay", "definition": "A gay person who has never had sex with a person of the opposite gender.", "sentence": "That said, I've definitely seen \"gold star lesbian\" used problematically a lot more than platinum or gold star gay.", "communities": [ "gay male" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "bisexual", "date": "2021-11-18 15:19:55", "timestamp": 1637245195.0 } }, { "id": "212465", "term": "41", "definition": "ā€œForty-oneā€ is an expression used in the state of Texas (USA) to refer to homosexual men. The origin of this expression is found in neighboring Mexico, where the same expression is used in Spanish, due to a scandal that occurred in 1901 in Mexico City. 41 people were arrested at a private dance, at which almost half were cross-dressing. This incident is known as ā€œThe Dance of the Forty-Oneā€. It is said that in reality, they were 42, but one of them was the son-in-law of President Porfirio Diaz, who was allowed to escape. Those who could not afford freedom or silence were sentenced to hard labor in the Oaxaca National Valley. So the number 41 became a euphemism for illicit sexuality, and was avoided.", "sentence": "Well, I just googled it and in Mexico, apparently 41 is a term associated with homosexuality.", "communities": [], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "gay", "date": "2021-03-24 09:27:19", "timestamp": 1616574439.0 } }, { "id": "157488", "term": "vers", "definition": "ā€¢ LGBTQ+ community slang for someone who \"switches\" between the \"giving\" and \"receiving\" during sex. \"Vers\" is short for \"versatile.\" \"Switch\" is sometimes also used in a BDSM context, to indicate someone who \"switches\" between the dominant and submissive roles.\nā€¢ One who is willing to take either a submissive or a dominant role in a sexual relationship.", "sentence": "Sometimes vers guys like to give dick.", "communities": [ "gay" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "gaybros", "date": "2024-02-01 21:26:46", "timestamp": 1706819206.0 } }, { "id": "932", "term": "gender identity", "definition": "A personal identity one develops in childhood that one belongs to a gender category, multiple gender categories, or no gender categories.", "sentence": "The intersectionality of gender identity is nuanced, something David and Dylan acknowledged themselves within the episode.", "communities": [], "metadata": { "source": "Podcasts", "title": "Bittersweet Infamy" } }, { "id": "108475", "term": "second puberty", "definition": "A term often used by transgender persons transitioning after they have already undergone puberty.", "sentence": "So Iā€™m a trans woman currently 2.5 years into HRT, and Iā€™m going through second puberty which is CONFUSING.", "communities": [ "transgender" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "asexuality", "date": "2025-06-26 20:53:18", "timestamp": 1750963998.0 } }, { "id": "114749", "term": "butch dyke", "definition": "A butch lesbian. \"Butch\" is often used to describe a wide variety of gender expressions and identities adjacent to masculinity or \"butchilinity\".", "sentence": "I pass but I look more like a tomboy / soft butch dyke.", "communities": [ "lesbian" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "MtF", "date": "2018-11-06 12:46:00", "timestamp": 1541504760.0 } }, { "id": "115118", "term": "stone femme", "definition": "A lesbian identity patterned after the term \"stone butch\". It may variously refer to: a femme that is a bottom, a femme that is attracted to or partner with someone who is butch, a femme who does not wish to touch her partners' genitalia, or a femme who is sexually stone, i.e. they do not wish to be touched in the genital area (and therefore they usually top).", "sentence": "Iā€™m a stone femme, itā€™s damn near impossible finding anyone as a les4les in the first place, but a STONE les4stone les?", "communities": [ "lesbian" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "LGBTForeverAlone", "date": "2022-03-15 04:44:48", "timestamp": 1647315888.0 } }, { "id": "86343", "term": "sugar daddy", "definition": "Expression of the Black community in the 1920s, to refer to an older, wealthy partner. Over time, this expression became used by the LGBTQIA+ community as well.", "sentence": "Well, the sugar daddy goes incommunicado.", "communities": [], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "gaybros", "date": "2023-09-11 22:49:10", "timestamp": 1694465350.0 } }, { "id": "113757", "term": "boi", "definition": "An LGBTQIA+ slang term with multiple definitions; a boi might be a boyish lesbian, a submissive butch in the BDSM community, a younger transgender man or a transgender man early in transition, a younger bisexual or gay person who is somewhat feminine. Alternatively, some persons identifying with the term might fit none of these categories.", "sentence": "A debate I had with a female friend once (i'm a bi boi and she knows it)", "communities": [ "lesbian", "transmasculine", "African-American LGBTQ" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "bisexual", "date": "2021-11-01 15:00:39", "timestamp": 1635775239.0 } }, { "id": "68", "term": "closeted", "definition": "An adjective referring to an LGBTQIA+ person or persons who have not disclosed their status as LGBTQIA+ and other related aspects of their life. More broadly, it can also be used to describe anyone who is hiding part of their identity because of social pressure.", "sentence": "Jen the athlete, end quotes, and Pumps, parentheses closeted lesbian, are the moms I wish I had.", "communities": [ "LGBTQ" ], "metadata": { "source": "Podcasts", "title": "I've Had It" } }, { "id": "228894", "term": "poppers", "definition": "Drugs of the alkyl nitrate class used recreationally as a sexual stimulant, especially among gay men.", "sentence": "This is my 20th day without drugs, alcohol, crack, poppers--", "communities": [ "gay" ], "metadata": { "source": "OpenSubtitles", "title": "East Side Story", "imdb_id": "437171" } }, { "id": "19477", "term": "tea", "definition": "Information, especially gossip.", "sentence": "So we're about to get the tea from Amy.", "communities": [ "gay" ], "metadata": { "source": "Podcasts", "title": "Sounds Like A Cult" } }, { "id": "154676", "term": "man pussy", "definition": "ā€¢ The anus and rectum of a man, usually the receptive participant (the bottom) in gay sex.\nā€¢ The vulva or vagina of a trans man.", "sentence": "However it turns me on so much to call my hole a pussy or man pussy or man cunt or just cunt.", "communities": [ "transgender", "gay" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "askgaybros", "date": "2024-01-13 03:33:59", "timestamp": 1705113239.0 } }, { "id": "117777", "term": "nancy", "definition": "Women's names have often been appropriated as slurs for gay men, especially for feminine gay men and transfeminine people. \"Nancy\" is probably the most common, across the 20th Century globally. All are offensive.", "sentence": "I was told to butch it up, stop being a Nancy.", "communities": [ "gay male" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "gay", "date": "2017-03-10 02:21:40", "timestamp": 1489108900.0 } }, { "id": "120673", "term": "friend of Dorothy", "definition": "Coded slang for gay. Referring to gay icon Judy Garland's Dorothy in The Wizard of Oz.", "sentence": "So a friend of Dorothy is older slang same with the hanky code etc.", "communities": [], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "AskLGBT", "date": "2022-08-24 20:46:51", "timestamp": 1661366811.0 } }, { "id": "157383", "term": "twinky", "definition": "Being or resembling a twink (ā€œyoung, attractive, slim maleā€).", "sentence": "I know it's a \"thing\" that twinky boys who are into bigger bearish guys exist, but it's been a LONG time since I've seen them around.", "communities": [ "gay" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "gaymers", "date": "2023-12-07 08:58:22", "timestamp": 1701935902.0 } }, { "id": "158897", "term": "duderus", "definition": "The uterus of a trans man.", "sentence": "I told my friend and she said ā€˜Excuse me, I have a duderus)", "communities": [ "transgender" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "ftm", "date": "2020-09-25 02:58:23", "timestamp": 1600995503.0 } }, { "id": "228169", "term": "crush", "definition": "An infatuation with somebody, typically someone that one is not dating. By extension, the object of such infatuation or affection.", "sentence": "I sensed he had a little crush on me, but so what?", "communities": [ "LGBTQ" ], "metadata": { "source": "OpenSubtitles", "title": "Notes on a Scandal", "imdb_id": "465551" } }, { "id": "76140", "term": "drag family", "definition": "In the US, a group of drag queens who have been mentored by a \"mother,\" also known as a \"house.\" These groups often take on family drag names and form close-knit communities.", "sentence": "I'm part of a drag family that really doesn't feel like a family, so I'm curious.", "communities": [], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "Drag", "date": "2023-03-09 03:35:44", "timestamp": 1678329344.0 } }, { "id": "157825", "term": "anticistamines", "definition": "Medication used for transgender hormone replacement therapy.", "sentence": "There's always fem&Ms, breast mints, anticistamines, antiboyotics...", "communities": [ "transgender" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "traaaaaaannnnnnnnnns", "date": "2022-01-06 00:42:23", "timestamp": 1641426143.0 } }, { "id": "95157", "term": "werk", "definition": "Either an exclamation of approval or to do something excellently (often used in reference to dance or modeling).", "sentence": "Purrrrr, you better WERK giiirl šŸ˜šŸ©·", "communities": [ "drag", "gay male" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "transtimelines", "date": "2025-04-04 10:41:42", "timestamp": 1743756102.0 } }, { "id": "228889", "term": "poppers", "definition": "Drugs of the alkyl nitrate class used recreationally as a sexual stimulant, especially among gay men.", "sentence": "IT'S PROBABLY FROM USING POPPERS, I BET.", "communities": [ "gay" ], "metadata": { "source": "OpenSubtitles", "title": "Longtime Companion", "imdb_id": "100049" } }, { "id": "228055", "term": "discreet", "definition": "Not drawing attention, anger or challenge; inconspicuous.", "sentence": "But you have to be more discreet.", "communities": [ "LGBTQ" ], "metadata": { "source": "OpenSubtitles", "title": "Get Real", "imdb_id": "162973" } }, { "id": "946", "term": "gender identity", "definition": "A personal identity one develops in childhood that one belongs to a gender category, multiple gender categories, or no gender categories.", "sentence": "And the challenge in the conversation around gender identity is that people who aren't So they're able to enter into conversations around sexual orientation with an analogous experience.", "communities": [], "metadata": { "source": "Podcasts", "title": "The Ezra Klein Show" } }, { "id": "165257", "term": "euphoria boner", "definition": "An erection of the penis in a trans woman, caused by strong feelings of gender euphoria.", "sentence": "Like others have said, euphoria boners are awkward but super common.", "communities": [ "transgender" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "trans", "date": "2023-06-13 20:50:18", "timestamp": 1686682218.0 } }, { "id": "101686", "term": "enbyfriend", "definition": "A nonbinary sexual and/or romantic partner.", "sentence": "We don't really like enbyfriend or datemate.", "communities": [ "nonbinary" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "queer", "date": "2020-08-16 21:22:11", "timestamp": 1597605731.0 } }, { "id": "108974", "term": "girldick", "definition": "A transgender woman's penis.", "sentence": "I've heard different things like girldick, girlcock, glock.", "communities": [ "transgender", "transfeminine" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "MtF", "date": "2022-08-19 15:05:12", "timestamp": 1660914312.0 } }, { "id": "215532", "term": "breast mint", "definition": "A pill taken as part of feminizing hormone replacement therapy, especially spironolactone (called by this name due to its peppermint smell) or estrogen such as estradiol.", "sentence": "Today is the day I take my first breast mints!", "communities": [ "transgender" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "MtF", "date": "2022-06-09 19:43:05", "timestamp": 1654796585.0 } }, { "id": "115659", "term": "lesbro", "definition": "A man who is considered an \"honorary lesbian\" by lesbian friends; otherwise, rarely, a lesbian who is considered stereotypically masculine, i.e. a \"bro\".", "sentence": "Tried to change it, can't change it much without sounding like a lesbro at best.", "communities": [ "lesbian" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "gaybros", "date": "2013-05-16 16:42:10", "timestamp": 1368715330.0 } }, { "id": "95537", "term": "service top", "definition": "A service top is one who tops (acts as the \"giving\" partner in sexual encounters) under the direction of an eager bottom (who acts as the \"receiving\" partner in sexual encounters).", "sentence": "Iā€™m 1000% a service top.", "communities": [ "LGBTQ" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "gaybros", "date": "2023-07-21 17:36:10", "timestamp": 1689953770.0 } }, { "id": "157483", "term": "vers", "definition": "ā€¢ LGBTQ+ community slang for someone who \"switches\" between the \"giving\" and \"receiving\" during sex. \"Vers\" is short for \"versatile.\" \"Switch\" is sometimes also used in a BDSM context, to indicate someone who \"switches\" between the dominant and submissive roles.\nā€¢ One who is willing to take either a submissive or a dominant role in a sexual relationship.", "sentence": "Iā€™m versatile and I think my current partner is a side.", "communities": [ "gay" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "gaybros", "date": "2023-11-29 13:46:05", "timestamp": 1701261965.0 } }, { "id": "114766", "term": "butch dyke", "definition": "A butch lesbian. \"Butch\" is often used to describe a wide variety of gender expressions and identities adjacent to masculinity or \"butchilinity\".", "sentence": "Keep in mind, this is the same person who called me \"a butch dyke\" a day before I came out to her.", "communities": [ "lesbian" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "NonBinary", "date": "2024-08-06 20:06:57", "timestamp": 1722967617.0 } }, { "id": "106481", "term": "deadnaming", "definition": "Calling a transgender person by their \"deadname\" (oftentimes their birth name, but not always).", "sentence": "If they can't do that, you don't need their aggression (because deadnaming is just as aggressive as a physical slap) and remove the toxicity from your life.", "communities": [ "transgender" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "lgbt", "date": "2023-12-10 03:52:11", "timestamp": 1702176731.0 } }, { "id": "158023", "term": "clocky", "definition": "Clearly identifiable as transgender; capable of being easily clocked; not passing.", "sentence": "I donā€™t, as I do look super clocky in them.", "communities": [ "transgender" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "MtF", "date": "2025-02-17 19:51:08", "timestamp": 1739818268.0 } }, { "id": "117115", "term": "girlfag", "definition": "A woman who is typically attracted to gay or bisexual men.", "sentence": "The cis fear the power of the girlfag.", "communities": [ "bisexual male", "gay male" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "transgendercirclejerk", "date": "2023-04-18 18:13:26", "timestamp": 1681834406.0 } }, { "id": "206446", "term": "throw shade", "definition": "To subtly insult someone.", "sentence": "I might just be ignorant so please mind your manners if you finna throw shade.", "communities": [], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "askgaybros", "date": "2025-04-16 18:23:41", "timestamp": 1744820621.0 } }, { "id": "124369", "term": "otter", "definition": "A hairy man with a slender physique, in contrast with a bear, who is more thickset.", "sentence": "I have troubles when I like someone and that person is not typical otter or bear even, these thoughts are coming and going.", "communities": [ "gay", "gay male" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "lgbt", "date": "2025-07-02 12:18:55", "timestamp": 1751451535.0 } }, { "id": "155459", "term": "queerdo", "definition": "A particularly strange LGBTQ+ person.", "sentence": "Just trying to find queerdo femmes in my area to watch terrible movies and make out with, but I hadn't had any luck of that.", "communities": [ "gay" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "MtF", "date": "2019-12-31 05:30:23", "timestamp": 1577766623.0 } }, { "id": "73484", "term": "bottom", "definition": "ā€¢ A \"bottom\" is an individual who acts as the \"receiving\" partner in sexual encounters. Sometimes used as a self-descriptor within queer communities, but should be replicated with caution. Sometimes used as a verb (\"to bottom for someone\"). Offensive if applied to LGBTQ+ individuals from outwith queer communities.\nā€¢ Someone, typically a man, who is penetrated during sexual intercourse or someone who has a preference for being penetrated during such intercourse.\nā€¢ The buttocks.\nā€¢ Genitalia; genitals.", "sentence": "Speaking as someone whoā€™s 13 days out from bottom surgery, 1000% yes.", "communities": [ "gay", "LGBTQ" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "asktransgender", "date": "2023-03-22 17:45:05", "timestamp": 1679503505.0 } }, { "id": "116751", "term": "front hole", "definition": "Slang for vagina, often used by transmasculine persons assigned female at birth.", "sentence": "Edit: I should note that I donā€™t use my front hole that often, because T caused vaginal atrophy and penetration can hurt.", "communities": [ "transmasculine" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "ftm", "date": "2018-10-05 17:41:27", "timestamp": 1538754087.0 } }, { "id": "215534", "term": "breast mint", "definition": "A pill taken as part of feminizing hormone replacement therapy, especially spironolactone (called by this name due to its peppermint smell) or estrogen such as estradiol.", "sentence": "I'm a little shy of 3.5 months on the breast mints and ive enjoyed some of the changes thus far.", "communities": [ "transgender" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "MtF", "date": "2020-02-25 03:11:21", "timestamp": 1582596681.0 } }, { "id": "89821", "term": "tranny", "definition": "A transgender person, usually a transgender woman. Originally a shortening of transvestite. Generally considered derogatory, offensive. Debate over the termā€™s offensiveness occurred in the early 2010s, but by 2017, the term was banned by several media stylebooks and labeled as hate speech by Facebook.", "sentence": "I am a fellow closeted tranny from Punjab, its been harrowing being one not financially independent one yet.", "communities": [ "transfeminine" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "LGBTindia", "date": "2025-04-19 23:36:04", "timestamp": 1745098564.0 } }, { "id": "134013", "term": "androgynous", "definition": "Of clothing or accessories, making a person's identity as male or female not immediately apparent to observers.", "sentence": "posts here) but yes women can be androgynous", "communities": [], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "lgbt", "date": "2022-01-10 06:05:34", "timestamp": 1641791134.0 } }, { "id": "115106", "term": "chapstick lesbian", "definition": "A lesbian who exhibits some butch traits (short hair, stereotypical men's clothing, etc.) without wholly fitting the masculine butch stereotype; alternatively, a lesbian who is athletic or has a keen interest in sports.", "sentence": "Someone said that Iā€™m a chapstick lesbian, except Iā€™m not a lesbian lol", "communities": [ "lesbian" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "AskLGBT", "date": "2025-02-17 05:14:44", "timestamp": 1739765684.0 } }, { "id": "202171", "term": "unclockable", "definition": "Not recognizable as transgender or a drag performer; passing.", "sentence": "d. Unclockable, like a cis guy in every sense", "communities": [ "transgender" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "transgendercirclejerk", "date": "2022-04-04 16:38:11", "timestamp": 1649083091.0 } }, { "id": "107998", "term": "transition goal", "definition": "A transgender person's goals for transition, or an example of what they would like to achieve for such a transition (for example, pointing to an actor or musician of their desired gender expression and declaring that person \"transition goals\").", "sentence": "You are my transition goals!", "communities": [ "transgender" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "Androgynoushotties", "date": "2025-01-02 07:11:42", "timestamp": 1735798302.0 } }, { "id": "99792", "term": "queer coding", "definition": "A situation in which a character is given traits or behaviors which suggest they are not heterosexual and/or cisgender, without the character being outright confirmed as having such an identity.", "sentence": "As he has written queer slang into his books alongside the subtext queer coding.", "communities": [ "LGBTQ" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "lgbthistory", "date": "2023-09-21 15:17:41", "timestamp": 1695302261.0 } }, { "id": "97100", "term": "doppelbanger", "definition": "A romantic and/or sexual partner who strongly resembles oneself.", "sentence": "Eh, I'm a doppelbanger, too.", "communities": [ "LGBTQ" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "bisexual", "date": "2024-04-20 03:45:03", "timestamp": 1713577503.0 } }, { "id": "98657", "term": "versatile", "definition": "Someone who penetrates or is penetrated during sexual intercourse or someone who has a preference for both being penetrated and penetrating during such intercourse.", "sentence": "We are versatile and I love it.", "communities": [ "LGBTQ" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "gaybros", "date": "2023-09-25 06:05:34", "timestamp": 1695614734.0 } }, { "id": "120657", "term": "friend of Dorothy", "definition": "Coded slang for gay. Referring to gay icon Judy Garland's Dorothy in The Wizard of Oz.", "sentence": "Iā€™m ā€œa friend of Dorothyā€, ā€œmusicalā€, ā€œSoā€, ā€œlight in the loafersā€, yep,, thatā€™s me šŸ˜Š Happy Pride!", "communities": [], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "gay", "date": "2024-06-04 12:48:03", "timestamp": 1717498083.0 } }, { "id": "224572", "term": "daddy", "definition": "ā€¢ A slang term with multiple meanings depending on the context. It may refer to an attractive older man, an older man in a relationship with a young male partner, a butch lesbian who fulfills such a role in a lesbian relationship, a man who takes care of a younger partner financially, or a procurer of sex workers, among other things.\nā€¢ A man who, in the context of sexual or romantic relationships with other men, is dominant\nā€¢ A predatory or aggressive gay man in a prison.\nā€¢ A pimp; a procurer of sex workers or prostituted persons.\nā€¢ A supervising officer in the military.", "sentence": "I know they think of me as a daddy drag king.", "communities": [ "gay male" ], "metadata": { "source": "OpenSubtitles", "title": "Venus Boyz", "imdb_id": "293685" } }, { "id": "108070", "term": "transition goal", "definition": "A transgender person's goals for transition, or an example of what they would like to achieve for such a transition (for example, pointing to an actor or musician of their desired gender expression and declaring that person \"transition goals\").", "sentence": "you are literally my transition goals omg, love your energy so much", "communities": [ "transgender" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "NonBinary", "date": "2024-12-16 02:26:41", "timestamp": 1734312401.0 } }, { "id": "1591", "term": "lgbt", "definition": "Initialism for lesbian, gay, bisexual, and transgender.", "sentence": "I think most Americans are actually very much pro-LGBT.", "communities": [], "metadata": { "source": "Podcasts", "title": "The Interview" } }, { "id": "119516", "term": "no homo", "definition": "A phrase used as slang at the end of a sentence to assert the statement spoken by the speaker had no intentional homosexual implications. The phrase is also \"added to a statement in order to rid of a possible homosexual double-entendre\".", "sentence": "Yeah no homo when you decode it is more like ā€œim not gay but I definitely spent more than 5 minutes staring at someone of the same genderā€™s buttā€.", "communities": [ "gay male" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "lgbt", "date": "2021-11-19 20:41:01", "timestamp": 1637350861.0 } }, { "id": "106613", "term": "baby trans", "definition": "Someone who has recently discovered that they are transgender.", "sentence": "Iā€™m currently in the baby trans soaking up inspiration and hope phase.", "communities": [ "transgender", "transgender" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "transtimelines", "date": "2025-01-20 23:24:17", "timestamp": 1737411857.0 } }, { "id": "106733", "term": "cis-tem", "definition": "Mainstream culture, controlled by the elites or government of a state, or a combination of them, which is oppressive to transgender persons.", "sentence": "Not the nicest title I know, but I feel that the cis-tem is going to chew me up and spit me back out again, if I don't take action.", "communities": [ "transgender" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "asktransgender", "date": "2013-11-03 08:19:43", "timestamp": 1383463183.0 } }, { "id": "213131", "term": "gaylord", "definition": "Slur for a gay man.", "sentence": "Pansy Gaylord, head of all the gays, said \"Our last line of defence was good hearted officers caught up in the evils of the world.", "communities": [], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "transgendercirclejerk", "date": "2023-07-30 06:11:32", "timestamp": 1690690292.0 } }, { "id": "205364", "term": "lesboy", "definition": "A person who identifies as male and as a lesbian.", "sentence": "not a lesboy but am a lesbian & just wanna give some love!", "communities": [], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "NonBinary", "date": "2024-10-17 22:50:29", "timestamp": 1729198229.0 } }, { "id": "211250", "term": "faggotry", "definition": "A pejorative term used chiefly in North America primarily to refer to a gay man. Alongside its use to refer to gay men in particular, it may also be used as a pejorative term for a \"repellent man\" or to refer to women who are lesbian (or to transgender people, typically transgender women). Its use has spread from the United States to varying extents elsewhere in the English-speaking world through mass culture, including film, music, and the Internet.", "sentence": "** They don't think that I know that they're aware of my faggotry, so I want to utilize this opportunity to make them as uncomfortable as possible.", "communities": [], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "lgbt", "date": "2011-11-27 06:15:28", "timestamp": 1322370928.0 } }, { "id": "102295", "term": "ace", "definition": "Asexual; an asexual person.", "sentence": "I heard the garlic bread thing was a stereotype involving ace people, but then again, there's garlic bread jokes on r/aaaaaaacccccccce.", "communities": [ "asexual" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "lgbt", "date": "2022-06-03 00:19:02", "timestamp": 1654208342.0 } }, { "id": "215430", "term": "orchie", "definition": "Clipping of orchiectomy.", "sentence": "I now realise genital surgery is unavoidable and an orchie won't do it.", "communities": [ "transgender" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "lgbt", "date": "2020-07-21 18:10:04", "timestamp": 1595347804.0 } }, { "id": "106728", "term": "cis-tem", "definition": "Mainstream culture, controlled by the elites or government of a state, or a combination of them, which is oppressive to transgender persons.", "sentence": "I have on my punk denim jacket it has a smash the cis-tem patch a rainbow flag patch.", "communities": [ "transgender" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "lgbt", "date": "2020-02-23 19:14:03", "timestamp": 1582481643.0 } }, { "id": "106695", "term": "transdar", "definition": "A colloquialism referring to the intuitive ability of a person to assess others' as being transgender. Transdar relies on verbal and non-verbal clues and transgender stereotypes. These include the sensitivity to social behaviors and mannerisms; for instance, acknowledging variations of gendered body language, the tone of voice used by a person when speaking, overtly rejecting traditional gender roles, a person's occupation, interests, etc.", "sentence": "Plot twist...my neighbor is pinging my transdar.", "communities": [ "transgender" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "ftm", "date": "2015-03-26 20:15:57", "timestamp": 1427397357.0 } }, { "id": "224108", "term": "lesbian", "definition": "A girl or woman who is wholly or mostly sexually or romantically attracted to other girls or women.", "sentence": "Say hello, tell them that we're gonna start a lesbian group on campus... and that they're welcome to join.", "communities": [], "metadata": { "source": "OpenSubtitles", "title": "If These Walls Could Talk 2", "imdb_id": "206036" } }, { "id": "113740", "term": "granola dyke", "definition": "A lesbian who stereotypically employs certain behavior such as being vegan or vegetarian, listening to folk music, hiking, etc.", "sentence": "I'm apparently a Granola Dyke.", "communities": [ "lesbian" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "actuallesbians", "date": "2011-12-06 00:28:31", "timestamp": 1323127711.0 } }, { "id": "18030", "term": "chicken", "definition": "A young gay man or a young-appearing gay man.", "sentence": "You know, we always talk about the image of, if you grab a little 20-year-old chicken, I find ourselves much better at 40 years than at 20 years.", "communities": [ "gay male" ], "metadata": { "source": "Podcasts", "title": "Ouvre ton jeu avec Marie-Claude Barrette" } }, { "id": "206447", "term": "throw shade", "definition": "To subtly insult someone.", "sentence": "Have you ever had someone throw shade or try to shit on you for your physique?", "communities": [], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "askgaybros", "date": "2024-04-13 00:36:12", "timestamp": 1712961372.0 } }, { "id": "119526", "term": "no homo", "definition": "A phrase used as slang at the end of a sentence to assert the statement spoken by the speaker had no intentional homosexual implications. The phrase is also \"added to a statement in order to rid of a possible homosexual double-entendre\".", "sentence": "But when someone I know uses it (or no homo) seriously, I tend to not care.", "communities": [ "gay male" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "gaybros", "date": "2013-02-18 08:46:25", "timestamp": 1361173585.0 } }, { "id": "115433", "term": "pillow princess", "definition": "A woman who likes to receive and not give, sexually.", "sentence": "Really, nobody's thoughts on pillow princesses matter unless they want to sleep with one.", "communities": [ "lesbian" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "actuallesbians", "date": "2025-02-19 19:52:45", "timestamp": 1739991165.0 } }, { "id": "117935", "term": "batty boy", "definition": "ā€¢ A pejorative term in Jamaican Patois often used to refer to a gay or feminine man.\nā€¢ A gay man.", "sentence": "Until, I hear \"he's a batty boy \" - \"yeah gotta be that blokes a freak\" - \"he's never had a bird he's gotta be\" - \" it's disgusting\".", "communities": [ "gay male" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "lgbt", "date": "2021-09-24 16:11:20", "timestamp": 1632492680.0 } }, { "id": "210858", "term": "drag mother", "definition": "In the US, a group of drag queens who have been mentored by a \"mother,\" also known as a \"house.\" These groups often take on family drag names and form close-knit communities.", "sentence": "In the philippines, all the 3 winners are 3 generation drag mother/daughters.", "communities": [], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "rupaulsdragrace", "date": "2025-03-28 22:56:34", "timestamp": 1743198994.0 } }, { "id": "228916", "term": "butch queen", "definition": "A gay man with a traditionally masculine gender expression.", "sentence": "Butch Queen, one through 17.", "communities": [ "gay male" ], "metadata": { "source": "OpenSubtitles", "title": "Paris Is Burning", "imdb_id": "100332" } }, { "id": "224097", "term": "lesbian", "definition": "A girl or woman who is wholly or mostly sexually or romantically attracted to other girls or women.", "sentence": "But if you are a lesbian or..... it's also called homosexual, then maybe two woman like each other.", "communities": [], "metadata": { "source": "OpenSubtitles", "title": "Show Me Love", "imdb_id": "150662" } }, { "id": "215428", "term": "Femme&M's", "definition": "Estrogen pills taken as part of hormone replacement therapy.", "sentence": "As of yesterday, I have been on my antiboyotics and my femme&m's for 6 months!!", "communities": [ "transgender" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "MtF", "date": "2024-05-31 17:18:05", "timestamp": 1717168685.0 } }, { "id": "99775", "term": "queer coding", "definition": "A situation in which a character is given traits or behaviors which suggest they are not heterosexual and/or cisgender, without the character being outright confirmed as having such an identity.", "sentence": "I saw someone complaining that the video game Mass Effect Andromeda contained queer coding of straight people.", "communities": [ "LGBTQ" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "bisexual", "date": "2017-03-24 07:10:52", "timestamp": 1490335852.0 } }, { "id": "123164", "term": "moffie", "definition": "Derogatory term for a gay man.", "sentence": "šŸ“·The word moffie, meaning faggot in Afrikaans, suffocates the air around Nicholas.", "communities": [ "gay male" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "QueerCinema", "date": "2020-03-04 20:34:04", "timestamp": 1583350444.0 } }, { "id": "215158", "term": "twinks", "definition": "ā€¢ Slang term widely used in gay communities to describe a young or young-looking man with little or no facial or body hair. Can be pejorative, but can also be a self-descriptor.\nā€¢ A young, attractive, slim male, usually having little body hair.", "sentence": "That being said, I've met a lot of soft butches and twinks that are basically the same gender.", "communities": [ "gay male" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "actuallesbians", "date": "2023-07-21 02:41:22", "timestamp": 1689900082.0 } }, { "id": "170469", "term": "spiro", "definition": "Clipping of spironolactone.", "sentence": "I guess she could also ask about taking patiromer to counteract the spiro, but tbh I donā€™t think thatā€™s a great idea at all.", "communities": [ "transgender" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "asktransgender", "date": "2025-01-09 03:09:04", "timestamp": 1736388544.0 } }, { "id": "116646", "term": "chubby chaser", "definition": "A gay male person who is attracted sexually and/or romantically to obesity.", "sentence": "And I find out the other is a Chubby Chaser through his Twitter.", "communities": [ "chub" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "gay", "date": "2024-11-19 00:12:41", "timestamp": 1731971561.0 } }, { "id": "94368", "term": "opulence", "definition": "A term sometimes used in drag subculture to refer to a mindset in which one has more resources than needed to live in complete luxury; alternatively, the state in which someone is extremely wealthy and lives in luxury.", "sentence": "Those queens had nothing and embodying opulence with whatever they had was fantasy, it was survival.", "communities": [ "drag" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "rupaulsdragrace", "date": "2025-04-09 16:20:28", "timestamp": 1744208428.0 } }, { "id": "115185", "term": "soft butch", "definition": "A lesbian who exhibits some stereotypical butch traits without fitting the masculine stereotype associated with butch lesbians.", "sentence": "Embrace the soft butch you were born to be!!!!", "communities": [ "lesbian" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "dykesgonemild", "date": "2019-09-12 05:55:38", "timestamp": 1568260538.0 } }, { "id": "214579", "term": "studs", "definition": "ā€¢ Community term for an African-American and/or Latinx masculine queer woman. Also known as \"ag.\" Only use if someone self-describes in this way, and avoid using for white people, as this is a term specifically developed by and for African-American and Latinx communities.\nā€¢ A masculine or butch lesbian; predominantly utilized in Black and Latina lesbian communities. Should not be used by individuals outside of those communities, as it may be seen as pejorative. Sometimes expanded to refer to other gender identities and expressions.", "sentence": "So I am gay,and happily gay,but I have found myself being attracted to studs.", "communities": [ "lesbian", "Latine lesbian", "African-American lesbian" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "bisexual", "date": "2018-10-07 00:33:51", "timestamp": 1538865231.0 } }, { "id": "165281", "term": "euphoria boner", "definition": "An erection of the penis in a trans woman, caused by strong feelings of gender euphoria.", "sentence": "Which in turns sometimes leads to the euphoria boner.", "communities": [ "transgender" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "NonBinary", "date": "2025-02-26 02:22:05", "timestamp": 1740532925.0 } }, { "id": "114644", "term": "gold star lesbian", "definition": "A lesbian who has never had sex with a man.", "sentence": "So the idea that gold star lesbians are put in a pedestal is gross as fuck.", "communities": [ "lesbian" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "actuallesbians", "date": "2023-09-20 21:33:21", "timestamp": 1695238401.0 } }, { "id": "113936", "term": "futch", "definition": "A person who exhibits traits of both a femme (often used to describe a wide variety of gender expressions and identities adjacent to feminine or femme-ness) and a butch (often used to describe a wide variety of gender expressions and identities adjacent to masculinity or \"butchilinity\").", "sentence": "i think itā€™d be cool to be a lesbian, and a kind of futch one too but it just feels like itā€™s all come out of nowhere.", "communities": [ "lesbian" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "asktransgender", "date": "2024-11-06 13:07:34", "timestamp": 1730894854.0 } }, { "id": "111031", "term": "squish", "definition": "An aromantic crush; the desire for a non-romantic and/or platonic relationship with another person.", "sentence": "I think many of my crushes started as squishes.", "communities": [ "aromantic" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "LGBTeens", "date": "2020-11-10 02:16:01", "timestamp": 1604970961.0 } }, { "id": "215414", "term": "bio queen", "definition": "A cis female performance artist who performs in female drag at drag shows, or acts like a drag queen.", "sentence": "Tldr; Is the term bio queen applicable to Trans drag queens, and is there a term for all women doing drag queening?", "communities": [], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "Drag", "date": "2022-08-09 12:22:17", "timestamp": 1660040537.0 } }, { "id": "206440", "term": "throw shade", "definition": "To subtly insult someone.", "sentence": "I'm not trying to throw shade at people who do enjoy hookups or stuff like that, I just don't understand it.", "communities": [], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "actuallesbians", "date": "2025-01-30 23:41:20", "timestamp": 1738276880.0 } }, { "id": "1292", "term": "giver", "definition": "Slang for the \"active\" role during gay sex. The giver/taker binary is now largely acknowledged as artificial and heteronormative.", "sentence": "You're the giver, she's the taker.", "communities": [], "metadata": { "source": "Podcasts", "title": "Where Should We Begin? with Esther Perel" } }, { "id": "99807", "term": "closeted", "definition": "An adjective referring to an LGBTQIA+ person or persons who have not disclosed their status as LGBTQIA+ and other related aspects of their life. More broadly, it can also be used to describe anyone who is hiding part of their identity because of social pressure.", "sentence": "This isn't targeted towards ALL closeted men but I've been through and heard enough experiences to speak on this topic.", "communities": [ "LGBTQ" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "gaybros", "date": "2024-10-29 15:30:22", "timestamp": 1730212222.0 } }, { "id": "162914", "term": "E", "definition": "Abbreviation of estrogen or estradiol.", "sentence": "Omg youā€™re my role model (18 months on E and very much aiming towards being an androgynous genderfuck)", "communities": [ "transgender" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "NonBinary", "date": "2025-03-20 19:59:30", "timestamp": 1742497170.0 } }, { "id": "169419", "term": "mones", "definition": "Hormones used as part of hormone replacement therapy, especially for transgender or gender variant individuals.", "sentence": "Now I'm all jacked up (but not off) on 'mones and I'm literally drowning in a sea of girlcock.", "communities": [], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "transgendercirclejerk", "date": "2016-04-10 21:58:13", "timestamp": 1460318293.0 } }, { "id": "106694", "term": "transdar", "definition": "A colloquialism referring to the intuitive ability of a person to assess others' as being transgender. Transdar relies on verbal and non-verbal clues and transgender stereotypes. These include the sensitivity to social behaviors and mannerisms; for instance, acknowledging variations of gendered body language, the tone of voice used by a person when speaking, overtly rejecting traditional gender roles, a person's occupation, interests, etc.", "sentence": "Either that, or she is extremely good at concealing any tells of her transdar going off when Iā€™m around.", "communities": [ "transgender" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "MtF", "date": "2022-11-06 16:48:40", "timestamp": 1667749720.0 } }, { "id": "85718", "term": "rough trade", "definition": "Slang for a man who identifies as straight, but sometimes has sex with queer men (usually as a \"top\").", "sentence": "I think he plays rough trade!", "communities": [ "gay" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "QueerCinema", "date": "2024-09-05 01:06:55", "timestamp": 1725491215.0 } }, { "id": "106741", "term": "cis-tem", "definition": "Mainstream culture, controlled by the elites or government of a state, or a combination of them, which is oppressive to transgender persons.", "sentence": "I have been consciously thinking about my gender and questioning the whole binary cis-tem for over a year now, and this summer (lockdown classic) I came out to myself!", "communities": [ "transgender" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "NonBinary", "date": "2020-11-23 02:01:40", "timestamp": 1606093300.0 } }, { "id": "145986", "term": "boyremove", "definition": "To remove the male socialization of a given person, typically a trans woman, by means of sexual intercourse.", "sentence": "Maybe the uwu catgirl reddit tgirl should boyremove the brainwormed 4tran tgirl and we'll all be happy I guess?", "communities": [], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "MtF", "date": "2025-05-01 02:26:11", "timestamp": 1746059171.0 } }, { "id": "108996", "term": "girldick", "definition": "A transgender woman's penis.", "sentence": "No getting your girldick out until locktober's over kitten šŸ’–", "communities": [ "transgender", "transfeminine" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "transgendercirclejerk", "date": "2022-10-19 14:27:06", "timestamp": 1666182426.0 } }, { "id": "211192", "term": "eggs", "definition": "Slang term (originating online) for a person who has not yet realised they are transgender, has not yet come out, or is in the early stages of transitioning. Usually used (fondly) by trans people to recognise when aspects of someone's personality or behavior remind them of gender-related aspects of themselves before they realized they were trans.", "sentence": "They're called eggs because you don't have to transition to be valid.", "communities": [ "transgender" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "AskLGBT", "date": "2024-02-08 02:57:53", "timestamp": 1707357473.0 } }, { "id": "168378", "term": "hatchling", "definition": "A person who has (especially recently) realized that they are transgender.", "sentence": "Can we just pin something and put all our experiences (\"I started at ....\") in there so we can just point to it when fresh hatchlings jump on board?", "communities": [ "transgender" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "MtF", "date": "2022-12-23 21:19:03", "timestamp": 1671826743.0 } }, { "id": "116639", "term": "chubby chaser", "definition": "A gay male person who is attracted sexually and/or romantically to obesity.", "sentence": "I don't see it as a fetish or chubby chaser thing.", "communities": [ "chub" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "actuallesbians", "date": "2017-02-27 19:47:14", "timestamp": 1488221234.0 } }, { "id": "98595", "term": "gaysian", "definition": "Somewhat derogatory term referring to an Asian gay person.", "sentence": "He wouldn't like the term gaysian, though.", "communities": [ "LGBTQ" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "askgaybros", "date": "2023-10-25 04:09:44", "timestamp": 1698199784.0 } }, { "id": "165222", "term": "estrogel", "definition": "Estradiol gel used in feminizing hormone replacement therapy.", "sentence": "Today I start estrogel pump 3 times daily 2.25 mg!", "communities": [ "transgender" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "transgenderau", "date": "2025-06-14 02:17:26", "timestamp": 1749860246.0 } }, { "id": "96987", "term": "total bottom", "definition": "A total bottom is someone who assumes an exclusively passive or receptive role during anal or oral intercourse.", "sentence": "Gradually becoming a total bottom, I really love it", "communities": [ "LGBTQ" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "askgaybros", "date": "2025-06-21 02:29:52", "timestamp": 1750465792.0 } }, { "id": "157828", "term": "anticistamines", "definition": "Medication used for transgender hormone replacement therapy.", "sentence": "I've been on HRT for two years now and let me tell you: Anticistamines are magic!\"", "communities": [ "transgender" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "transgendercirclejerk", "date": "2022-06-24 21:07:39", "timestamp": 1656097659.0 } }, { "id": "170453", "term": "spiro", "definition": "Clipping of spironolactone.", "sentence": "E tastes fine to me, but yeah spiro is awful.", "communities": [ "transgender" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "lgbt", "date": "2020-10-30 04:31:09", "timestamp": 1604028669.0 } }, { "id": "110869", "term": "tranny chaser", "definition": "Someone who aims to have sexual relations (in some cases non-consensually) or date transgender people as a kind of fetish.", "sentence": "The reason you get interest when you're in the trans tribe is because you're getting tranny chasers.", "communities": [ "transfeminine" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "askgaybros", "date": "2019-04-26 08:41:54", "timestamp": 1556260914.0 } }, { "id": "124655", "term": "cruising", "definition": "To walk or drive about a locality in search of a sex partner, usually of the anonymous, casual, one-time variety.", "sentence": "Currently itā€™s digital (see grid apps, dating apps are less like cruising and more like the ancient practice of matchmaking), howeverā€¦", "communities": [ "gay male" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "gaybros", "date": "2024-02-21 01:17:39", "timestamp": 1708474659.0 } }, { "id": "86164", "term": "stud", "definition": "ā€¢ Community term for an African-American and/or Latinx masculine queer woman. Also known as \"ag.\" Only use if someone self-describes in this way, and avoid using for white people, as this is a term specifically developed by and for African-American and Latinx communities.\nā€¢ A masculine or butch lesbian; predominantly utilized in Black and Latina lesbian communities. Should not be used by individuals outside of those communities, as it may be seen as pejorative. Sometimes expanded to refer to other gender identities and expressions.", "sentence": "I often identify more with butches and studs due to my societal treatment", "communities": [ "lesbian", "Latine lesbian", "African-American lesbian" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "transgendercirclejerk", "date": "2025-05-11 13:26:58", "timestamp": 1746962818.0 } }, { "id": "168315", "term": "gock", "definition": "The penis of a trans woman.", "sentence": "Well, with it still fully functional, cause I'd love to have (or keep I guess) my own (what I've seen it being called) girl cock, or gock.", "communities": [ "transgender" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "asktransgender", "date": "2022-10-19 17:22:55", "timestamp": 1666192975.0 } }, { "id": "363", "term": "anti-gay", "definition": "ā€¢ Hostile toward gay people; opposed to gay rights; homophobic.\nā€¢ Used by some gay people to refer to aspects of the community in critique, especially homogeneity, conformity, obsession with particular types of appearance, and assimilative behavior.", "sentence": "Like, probably they're not, you know, they're not anti-gay, etc.", "communities": [], "metadata": { "source": "Podcasts", "title": "Decoding the Gurus" } }, { "id": "169986", "term": "princess wand", "definition": "A trans woman's penis.", "sentence": "Would you date a girl who has a princess wand?", "communities": [ "transgender" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "transgendercirclejerk", "date": "2024-10-03 19:03:20", "timestamp": 1727975000.0 } }, { "id": "106709", "term": "ewphoria", "definition": "A combination of gender euphoria with feelings of disgust, revulsion, or discomfort, resulting from one's gender identity being affirmed by bigoted, predatory, or creepy behavior by others.", "sentence": "Enjoy the ewphoria while it lasts, it just becomes ew after a while.", "communities": [ "transgender", "transgender" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "ftm", "date": "2024-11-05 17:45:37", "timestamp": 1730825137.0 } }, { "id": "108066", "term": "transition goal", "definition": "A transgender person's goals for transition, or an example of what they would like to achieve for such a transition (for example, pointing to an actor or musician of their desired gender expression and declaring that person \"transition goals\").", "sentence": "Jeez, I have new transition goals", "communities": [ "transgender" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "BisexualTeens", "date": "2022-05-25 01:02:32", "timestamp": 1653433352.0 } }, { "id": "203109", "term": "VT", "definition": "Initialism of voice training.", "sentence": "Iā€™m literally VT now, driving around singing to my favourites.", "communities": [ "transgender" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "MtF", "date": "2025-03-14 01:15:36", "timestamp": 1741911336.0 } }, { "id": "143244", "term": "GLBT", "definition": "Initialism for gay, lesbian, bisexual, and transgender.", "sentence": "Hey guys and gals, I'm looking at moving up to and joining the Chicago GLBT community in the next month or two.", "communities": [], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "GLBTChicago", "date": "2011-06-02 15:28:37", "timestamp": 1307021317.0 } }, { "id": "170455", "term": "spiro", "definition": "Clipping of spironolactone.", "sentence": "Sounds like a Spiro girl just like me!", "communities": [ "transgender" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "actuallesbians", "date": "2018-04-16 04:05:56", "timestamp": 1523844356.0 } }, { "id": "116840", "term": "cub", "definition": "A younger or younger-looking bear, sometimes with a smaller frame (\"bear\" meaning \"a gay or bisexual man who has facial/body hair and a cuddly body\").", "sentence": "Like I donā€™t mind dating another cub too or any body type really.", "communities": [ "gay", "bear" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "gaybros", "date": "2019-06-28 11:33:49", "timestamp": 1561714429.0 } }, { "id": "158791", "term": "cunt", "definition": "ā€¢ The anus of a trans woman.\nā€¢ The inguinal canals of a trans woman.\nā€¢ Amazing or very good.", "sentence": "And I just wanted to share it since I look so cunt šŸ¤§šŸ˜¤šŸ™„šŸ¤ž", "communities": [ "transgender" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "gaybrosgonemild", "date": "2025-07-05 22:48:57", "timestamp": 1751748537.0 } }, { "id": "83495", "term": "gold star", "definition": "Slang for someone who has never had sex with someone of the opposite gender, sometimes including bisexual people of their own gender. Most commonly used in lesbian communities, now widely recognised as biphobic.", "sentence": "My question(s) here is, anyone who is gold star status, would you get offended if somebody called you a virgin?", "communities": [], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "lgbt", "date": "2018-09-21 03:57:32", "timestamp": 1537495052.0 } }, { "id": "170463", "term": "spiro", "definition": "Clipping of spironolactone.", "sentence": "don't take that again\" because like, as much as i hate spiro and would love to stop taking it, that wouldn't fly with me.", "communities": [ "transgender" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "asktransgender", "date": "2025-01-08 21:39:53", "timestamp": 1736368793.0 } }, { "id": "151478", "term": "bussy", "definition": "ā€¢ Any anus, in general.\nā€¢ The vulva or vagina of a trans man.", "sentence": "i know that bussy means Boy Pussy but galore?", "communities": [ "gay" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "SuddenlyGay", "date": "2025-04-02 16:39:30", "timestamp": 1743604770.0 } }, { "id": "116802", "term": "seahorse dad", "definition": "Slang term for a transgender man who is carrying, or has carried, a child to term.", "sentence": "one of the most famous seahorse dads is probably Freddy McConnell- he's had a documentary called *Seahorse* made about him.", "communities": [ "transmasculine" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "transgenderUK", "date": "2023-11-12 02:44:14", "timestamp": 1699753454.0 } }, { "id": "119446", "term": "masc4masc", "definition": "A phrase used to describe a masculine gay man interested in other masculine gay men romantically and/or sexually.", "sentence": "this isnā€™t about masc4masc couples.", "communities": [ "gay male" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "actuallesbians", "date": "2025-06-26 01:20:06", "timestamp": 1750893606.0 } }, { "id": "203359", "term": "doll", "definition": "A transgender woman or transfeminine person.", "sentence": "I would be put off by someone observing that I was \"one of the dolls\" even though I am open about being trans.)", "communities": [], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "asktransgender", "date": "2025-02-13 18:25:20", "timestamp": 1739467520.0 } }, { "id": "212721", "term": "fruity", "definition": "Slang for a gay man, especially for a feminine gay man. Outdated and often offensive, because it implies someone is easily \"picked,\" or associates someone with its other slang meanings of \"dupe,\" \"victim,\" or someone living with mental illness.", "sentence": "If one of my queer friends lovingly called me fruity, then no thatā€™s not offensive.", "communities": [], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "lgbt", "date": "2023-09-08 01:30:20", "timestamp": 1694129420.0 } }, { "id": "99380", "term": "total top", "definition": "A total top is one who assumes an exclusively penetrative role for sex.", "sentence": "I feel like a total top inside but my body doesn't match up with it.", "communities": [ "LGBTQ" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "gaysian", "date": "2019-01-30 17:10:42", "timestamp": 1548864642.0 } }, { "id": "99774", "term": "queer coding", "definition": "A situation in which a character is given traits or behaviors which suggest they are not heterosexual and/or cisgender, without the character being outright confirmed as having such an identity.", "sentence": "Am I the only one her who didn't pick up on queer coding AT ALL from her?", "communities": [ "LGBTQ" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "actuallesbians", "date": "2025-03-02 21:14:58", "timestamp": 1740946498.0 } }, { "id": "116716", "term": "man cave", "definition": "Crude slang sometimes used to refer to a transmasculine person's or a trans man's vagina", "sentence": "Instead of vagina, I call it a Man Cave šŸ˜Ž", "communities": [ "transmasculine" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "asktransgender", "date": "2023-08-22 07:44:36", "timestamp": 1692683076.0 } }, { "id": "114742", "term": "butch dyke", "definition": "A butch lesbian. \"Butch\" is often used to describe a wide variety of gender expressions and identities adjacent to masculinity or \"butchilinity\".", "sentence": "I can't walk down the street without being treated like a piece of meat, even when I'm dressed like a butch dyke.", "communities": [ "lesbian" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "asktransgender", "date": "2015-10-05 12:32:06", "timestamp": 1444041126.0 } }, { "id": "115567", "term": "stone butch", "definition": "Typically, a lesbian who is butch or otherwise displays traditional \"masculinity\". Alternatively, a subculture of persons identifying as stone butch as opposed to femme or \"high femme\". Such persons may be non-binary or have other various gender identities.", "sentence": "High femme and stone butch are important and distinct lesbian identities that have very particular meanings and a long history.", "communities": [ "lesbian" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "actuallesbians", "date": "2020-11-14 21:20:06", "timestamp": 1605385206.0 } }, { "id": "157883", "term": "clockable", "definition": "Of a transgender person or drag performer: able to be clocked; capable of being noticed or recognized as transgender; not passing.", "sentence": "Am I that clockable?", "communities": [ "transgender" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "actuallesbians", "date": "2023-01-26 03:20:36", "timestamp": 1674699636.0 } }, { "id": "365", "term": "anti-gay", "definition": "ā€¢ Hostile toward gay people; opposed to gay rights; homophobic.\nā€¢ Used by some gay people to refer to aspects of the community in critique, especially homogeneity, conformity, obsession with particular types of appearance, and assimilative behavior.", "sentence": "Where you have like anti-gay conversion therapy, like camps that they can send people to.", "communities": [], "metadata": { "source": "Podcasts", "title": "It Could Happen Here" } }, { "id": "106735", "term": "cis-tem", "definition": "Mainstream culture, controlled by the elites or government of a state, or a combination of them, which is oppressive to transgender persons.", "sentence": "It said: ā€žYeah, sex is cool, but have you ever fucked the cis-tem?ā€œ I still love that bag!", "communities": [ "transgender" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "traaaaaaannnnnnnnnns", "date": "2022-06-26 14:50:51", "timestamp": 1656247851.0 } }, { "id": "110410", "term": "Eve's apple", "definition": "A transfeminine slang term coined to replace the masculine sounding \"Adam's apple\".", "sentence": "Madam's Apple, Eve's Apple..both seem acceptable and can be used interchangeably.", "communities": [ "transfeminine" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "traaaaaaannnnnnnnnns", "date": "2019-08-08 20:20:52", "timestamp": 1565288452.0 } }, { "id": "206321", "term": "poz", "definition": "ā€¢ HIV positive.\nā€¢ To infect (someone) with a sexually transmitted infection; especially HIV.", "sentence": "If you are in New Delhi, then the New Delhi LGBT centre holds monthly support group meetings exclusively for the Poz community every first Saturday of every month.", "communities": [], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "LGBTindia", "date": "2024-07-01 07:47:04", "timestamp": 1719812824.0 } }, { "id": "158811", "term": "cunt", "definition": "ā€¢ The anus of a trans woman.\nā€¢ The inguinal canals of a trans woman.\nā€¢ Amazing or very good.", "sentence": "This is so cunt", "communities": [ "transgender" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "Drag", "date": "2025-05-07 14:42:31", "timestamp": 1746621751.0 } }, { "id": "215154", "term": "twinks", "definition": "ā€¢ Slang term widely used in gay communities to describe a young or young-looking man with little or no facial or body hair. Can be pejorative, but can also be a self-descriptor.\nā€¢ A young, attractive, slim male, usually having little body hair.", "sentence": "Talk to non twinks then.", "communities": [ "gay male" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "gaybros", "date": "2025-05-16 18:40:13", "timestamp": 1747413613.0 } }, { "id": "145727", "term": "pancake", "definition": "A butch woman who is a bottom, said to have been \"flipped\" from the expected sexual role of being a top.", "sentence": "Upside down Pancacke but still Pancake", "communities": [], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "pansexual", "date": "2021-08-15 17:29:15", "timestamp": 1629041355.0 } }, { "id": "205367", "term": "lesboy", "definition": "A person who identifies as male and as a lesbian.", "sentence": "It's only transphobic if there's insistence that a straight trans man or a trans lesbian is a lesboy when they don't identify as such.", "communities": [], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "AskLGBT", "date": "2025-03-08 21:30:02", "timestamp": 1741465802.0 } }, { "id": "110915", "term": "zucchini", "definition": "A queerplatonic partner.", "sentence": "* Zucchini - aro slang for a partner in a QPR", "communities": [ "aromantic" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "asexuality", "date": "2020-12-23 05:22:22", "timestamp": 1608697342.0 } }, { "id": "206358", "term": "snatched", "definition": "Good-looking.", "sentence": "Her nose is snatched", "communities": [], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "ladyladyboners", "date": "2020-12-31 15:46:29", "timestamp": 1609425989.0 } }, { "id": "87275", "term": "switch", "definition": "ā€¢ LGBTQ+ community slang for someone who \"switches\" between the \"giving\" and \"receiving\" during sex. \"Vers\" is short for \"versatile.\" \"Switch\" is sometimes also used in a BDSM context, to indicate someone who \"switches\" between the dominant and submissive roles.\nā€¢ One who is willing to take either a submissive or a dominant role in a sexual relationship.", "sentence": "Iā€™m 30m, pan/demi, switch verse.", "communities": [ "LGBTQ" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "MeetLGBT", "date": "2025-05-10 05:12:17", "timestamp": 1746846737.0 } }, { "id": "90233", "term": "twink", "definition": "ā€¢ Slang term widely used in gay communities to describe a young or young-looking man with little or no facial or body hair. Can be pejorative, but can also be a self-descriptor.\nā€¢ A young, attractive, slim male, usually having little body hair.", "sentence": "If they self-ID that way, cool, but assuming and calling people twinks who donā€™t want to be twinks is rude!", "communities": [ "gay", "gay male" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "ftm", "date": "2023-08-04 22:03:17", "timestamp": 1691179397.0 } }, { "id": "103278", "term": "part-time", "definition": "A term which refers to a transgender person living as their gender for only part of their day-to-day life for any of various reasons; i.e. they may not present at work in fear of getting fired.", "sentence": "* āœ… Part-time girls and genderfluid individuals, who switch between masculine and feminine presentation at different times", "communities": [ "transgender" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "crossdressing", "date": "2024-12-07 18:20:25", "timestamp": 1733592025.0 } }, { "id": "212733", "term": "fruity", "definition": "Slang for a gay man, especially for a feminine gay man. Outdated and often offensive, because it implies someone is easily \"picked,\" or associates someone with its other slang meanings of \"dupe,\" \"victim,\" or someone living with mental illness.", "sentence": "But if they said \"you don't give off fruity vibes\" then that's a bit insensitive/unprofessional but not really offensive.", "communities": [], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "gaybros", "date": "2024-08-02 22:50:43", "timestamp": 1722631843.0 } }, { "id": "138909", "term": "cheese", "definition": "The smegma that accumulates around the penis, often the uncircumcised penis, or the unwashed labia.", "sentence": "Get that dick cheese boy!", "communities": [], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "askgaybros", "date": "2017-11-21 05:18:12", "timestamp": 1511237892.0 } }, { "id": "107981", "term": "transition goal", "definition": "A transgender person's goals for transition, or an example of what they would like to achieve for such a transition (for example, pointing to an actor or musician of their desired gender expression and declaring that person \"transition goals\").", "sentence": "For me, it has been a journey to navigate my transition goals.", "communities": [ "transgender" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "MtF", "date": "2025-05-23 01:59:17", "timestamp": 1747958357.0 } }, { "id": "206354", "term": "snatched", "definition": "Good-looking.", "sentence": "Flat stomach, snatched waist, and curvy.", "communities": [], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "asktransgender", "date": "2025-01-31 21:19:43", "timestamp": 1738354783.0 } }, { "id": "85704", "term": "rough trade", "definition": "Slang for a man who identifies as straight, but sometimes has sex with queer men (usually as a \"top\").", "sentence": "In any relationship with rough trade, one takes a risk of becoming the object of violence.", "communities": [ "gay" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "rupaulsdragrace", "date": "2015-03-26 10:09:00", "timestamp": 1427360940.0 } }, { "id": "113738", "term": "U-Haul lesbian", "definition": "A stereotype of lesbian relationships, referring to the joke that lesbians tend to move in together on the second date. It suggests an extreme inclination toward monogamy or committed relationships. It can be considered either complimentary or pejorative, depending on context.", "sentence": "Thank you HRT for making the most neediest U-Haul lesbian šŸ¤­šŸ¤­šŸ¤­", "communities": [], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "MtF", "date": "2024-11-06 03:19:12", "timestamp": 1730859552.0 } }, { "id": "934", "term": "gender identity", "definition": "A personal identity one develops in childhood that one belongs to a gender category, multiple gender categories, or no gender categories.", "sentence": "Boys and men are diverse with respect to their race, ethnicity, culture, migration status, age, socioeconomic status, ability status, sexual orientation, gender identity, and religious affiliation.", "communities": [], "metadata": { "source": "Podcasts", "title": "If Books Could Kill" } }, { "id": "151372", "term": "breeding", "definition": "Ejaculation inside the rectum during bareback anal sex.", "sentence": "i've got a breeding kink too, but hrt is magic in so many other ways", "communities": [ "gay" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "mypartneristrans", "date": "2023-08-09 16:51:45", "timestamp": 1691592705.0 } }, { "id": "940", "term": "gender identity", "definition": "A personal identity one develops in childhood that one belongs to a gender category, multiple gender categories, or no gender categories.", "sentence": "I can never know what it is to struggle with my own gender identity, because that has never been an issue for me.", "communities": [], "metadata": { "source": "Podcasts", "title": "Fladseth" } }, { "id": "123821", "term": "cottaging", "definition": "Anonymous sex between men in a public lavatory (a \"cottage\", \"tea-room\"), or cruising for sexual partners with the intention of having sex elsewhere.", "sentence": "You ask for cottaging stories, looking back at my gay life in the 1960s70s80s90s those were my best cottaging years.", "communities": [ "gay male" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "askgaybros", "date": "2024-05-19 18:41:46", "timestamp": 1716136906.0 } }, { "id": "99452", "term": "gaymer", "definition": "Gay persons who have active interest in video games or tabletop games.", "sentence": "Corpo Gaymer or maybe law-ging in for some gaymes?", "communities": [ "LGBTQ" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "GaymersGoneMild", "date": "2024-08-25 17:24:56", "timestamp": 1724599496.0 } }, { "id": "106667", "term": "repressor", "definition": "A transgender person who fights or represses the wish to change their gender expression.", "sentence": "I've watched so many mtf transition videos of people who self idd as repressors, and any small commonality triggers me.", "communities": [ "transgender" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "asktransgender", "date": "2022-06-15 21:59:39", "timestamp": 1655323179.0 } }, { "id": "91791", "term": "faux queen", "definition": "A cis female performance artist who performs in female drag at drag shows, or acts like a drag queen.", "sentence": "By doing drag, faux queens are creating a space where they push boundaries that women can't necessarily break down in our normal day-to-day-lives because of social and cultural misogyny.", "communities": [ "drag", "gay male" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "Drag", "date": "2015-11-29 22:55:58", "timestamp": 1448834158.0 } }, { "id": "151354", "term": "breeding", "definition": "Ejaculation inside the rectum during bareback anal sex.", "sentence": "They wanna see it, interact with it, soooo many have a breeding kink too.", "communities": [ "gay" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "MtF", "date": "2022-08-02 19:49:07", "timestamp": 1659462547.0 } }, { "id": "94249", "term": "drab", "definition": "An instance of a transgender or non-binary person presenting as the gender corresponding to their sex assigned at birth instead of that corresponding to their internal gender identity (most commonly a trans woman dressed as a man).", "sentence": "I've heard many crossdressers assert that trans women are in drag when they're not in drab, which to me is really invalidating and disgusting.", "communities": [ "transgender", "drag", "transgender" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "asktransgender", "date": "2016-11-27 09:08:16", "timestamp": 1480234096.0 } }, { "id": "124367", "term": "otter", "definition": "A hairy man with a slender physique, in contrast with a bear, who is more thickset.", "sentence": "Now I love otters and I also love Murray Bartlett (and yes, now I know who he is).", "communities": [ "gay", "gay male" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "LadyBoners", "date": "2023-08-25 16:03:32", "timestamp": 1692972212.0 } }, { "id": "110867", "term": "tranny chaser", "definition": "Someone who aims to have sexual relations (in some cases non-consensually) or date transgender people as a kind of fetish.", "sentence": "**TL;DR:** Tranny chaser clocks me on the train, hits on me, gives me solid career advice, then leaves me his email.", "communities": [ "transfeminine" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "asktransgender", "date": "2012-12-16 22:08:48", "timestamp": 1355692128.0 } }, { "id": "228687", "term": "butch", "definition": "ā€¢ Traditionally, a lesbian who appears \"masculine\" or acts in a \"masculine\" manner. However, the term is often used to describe a wide variety of gender expressions and identities adjacent to masculinity or \"butchilinity\".\nā€¢ Heterosexual.", "sentence": "Maybe next week we'll do butch and femme role-play...", "communities": [ "lesbian" ], "metadata": { "source": "OpenSubtitles", "title": "The L Word", "imdb_id": "330251" } }, { "id": "76121", "term": "cornhole", "definition": "American rural slang to indicate anal sex, or a gay man. Generally considered offensive. Should not be confused with the game of the same name, which involves throwing beanbags into a hole in a wooden platform.", "sentence": "He had some sort of butt plug with a carve out so that he could stick his dong in while the plug was in my cornhole.", "communities": [], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "askgaybros", "date": "2025-04-20 08:16:11", "timestamp": 1745129771.0 } }, { "id": "83344", "term": "giver", "definition": "Slang for the \"active\" role during gay sex. The giver/taker binary is now largely acknowledged as artificial and heteronormative.", "sentence": "every relationship iā€™ve been in iā€™ve been treated like a man almost with always having to be the giver and never being treated ā€œlike a femaleā€ if that makes sense.", "communities": [], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "actuallesbians", "date": "2023-04-13 06:31:53", "timestamp": 1681360313.0 } }, { "id": "143287", "term": "anti-gay", "definition": "ā€¢ Hostile toward gay people; opposed to gay rights; homophobic.\nā€¢ Used by some gay people to refer to aspects of the community in critique, especially homogeneity, conformity, obsession with particular types of appearance, and assimilative behavior.", "sentence": "I've read more then 10 of his books and I can assure you I came across nothing that could be perceived as anti-gay in any way.", "communities": [], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "gaymers", "date": "2013-02-12 08:12:00", "timestamp": 1360653120.0 } }, { "id": "224779", "term": "read", "definition": "To call attention to someone's flaws in a playful, taunting, or insulting manner; alternatively, to recognize someone as being transgender (to clock).", "sentence": "You get in a smart crack, and everyone laughs and kee-kees because you found a flaw and exaggerated it... then you've got a good read going.", "communities": [ "drag", "transgender" ], "metadata": { "source": "OpenSubtitles", "title": "Paris Is Burning", "imdb_id": "100332" } }, { "id": "158114", "term": "crack", "definition": "To realize that one is transgender.", "sentence": "First egg crack was when my friends were choosing a boy name for me for fun.", "communities": [ "transgender" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "asktransgender", "date": "2025-04-20 19:38:16", "timestamp": 1745170696.0 } }, { "id": "109004", "term": "girldick", "definition": "A transgender woman's penis.", "sentence": "Ever since I got bottom surgery I seriously feel like people have been going ā€œomg I love girldick mouthfeel amiright!!!?", "communities": [ "transgender", "transfeminine" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "transgendercirclejerk", "date": "2020-01-03 01:42:28", "timestamp": 1578012148.0 } }, { "id": "106493", "term": "deadnaming", "definition": "Calling a transgender person by their \"deadname\" (oftentimes their birth name, but not always).", "sentence": "If I would be upset by someone deadnaming me, I'd be upset about them doing it behind my back too.", "communities": [ "transgender" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "asktransgender", "date": "2024-07-17 20:18:48", "timestamp": 1721240328.0 } }, { "id": "117704", "term": "baby gay", "definition": "A person who has recently come out in relationship to a marginalized sexual or gender identity.", "sentence": "i very recently came out as lesbian, but was out as bi since may 2021 so i'm a young baby gay.", "communities": [ "gay male" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "questioning", "date": "2021-12-13 22:13:15", "timestamp": 1639429995.0 } }, { "id": "116502", "term": "chub", "definition": "A gay man who is overweight or obese; typically (but not always) derogatory.", "sentence": "Iā€™ve cuddle with a few chubs and itā€™s like theyā€™re a security blanket - so warm and soft.", "communities": [ "gay", "chub" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "askgaybros", "date": "2024-04-19 18:22:27", "timestamp": 1713543747.0 } }, { "id": "106789", "term": "girlmode", "definition": "When a transgender person presents a gender expression codified as female, typically if that person is a transgender man. Usually used in the context of going incognito as a cisgender woman.", "sentence": "I want girlmode or actually my true self to be more than just self care.", "communities": [ "transgender", "transgender" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "transpositive", "date": "2024-03-12 12:28:41", "timestamp": 1710242921.0 } }, { "id": "108928", "term": "cotton ceiling", "definition": "A term used for the tendency for cisgender lesbians to not want to engage in sexual activities with transgender women, particular those who have not yet undergone feminizing genitoplasty; or, more broadly, the tendency for cisgender lesbians to exclude transgender women from spaces.", "sentence": "The term cotton ceilingis just a shorthand way of acknowledging that trans women face stigma in the dating scene for being trans.", "communities": [ "transfeminine", "lesbian" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "asktransgender", "date": "2017-05-09 11:38:45", "timestamp": 1494322725.0 } }, { "id": "112528", "term": "femme", "definition": "Traditionally, a lesbian who appears \"feminine\" or acts in a \"feminine\" manner. However, the term is often used to describe a wide variety of gender expressions and identities adjacent to feminine or femme-ness.", "sentence": "I personally donā€™t think it does make you look femme but youā€™re beautiful just the way you are", "communities": [ "lesbian" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "lgbt", "date": "2021-10-04 22:01:31", "timestamp": 1633377691.0 } }, { "id": "127659", "term": "banjee girl", "definition": "A term related to (and sometimes synonymous with) banjee. Used to refer to transgender women, male-to-female cross-dressers, and drag queens as well as queer women in a general sense. Specific to Latinx and Black LGBTQIA+ communities.", "sentence": "Darienne misunderstood the assignment and Bianca did a good look but it was houchee mama banjee, not banjee girl", "communities": [ "Latine LGBTQ", "African-American LGBTQ" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "rupaulsdragrace", "date": "2016-01-02 23:12:57", "timestamp": 1451772777.0 } }, { "id": "630", "term": "snatched", "definition": "Good-looking.", "sentence": "I'm showing up and saying, snatch my face, make my face look lifted and snatched.", "communities": [], "metadata": { "source": "Podcasts", "title": "anything goes with emma chamberlain" } }, { "id": "114662", "term": "gold star lesbian", "definition": "A lesbian who has never had sex with a man.", "sentence": "It's nothing like Gold Star Lesbian because a gold star has obvious connotations of \"I am more lesbian than you, I get a gold star in lesbianism.\"", "communities": [ "lesbian" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "asexuality", "date": "2025-06-19 18:07:57", "timestamp": 1750349277.0 } }, { "id": "101629", "term": "femby", "definition": "A slang term sometimes used to refer to femme enbies (non-binary people) or non-binary women. A portmanteau of \"femme\" and \"enby\".", "sentence": "I personally think the term femby is fairly clear on meaning, although I do spend a lot of time in queer spaces so I'm sure my linguistic base is biased.", "communities": [ "nonbinary" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "NonBinary", "date": "2022-09-10 16:40:52", "timestamp": 1662820852.0 } }, { "id": "106696", "term": "transdar", "definition": "A colloquialism referring to the intuitive ability of a person to assess others' as being transgender. Transdar relies on verbal and non-verbal clues and transgender stereotypes. These include the sensitivity to social behaviors and mannerisms; for instance, acknowledging variations of gendered body language, the tone of voice used by a person when speaking, overtly rejecting traditional gender roles, a person's occupation, interests, etc.", "sentence": "It's times like these that I wonder if somehow transphobes have developed their own transdar (like a gaydar but for trans)", "communities": [ "transgender" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "trans", "date": "2023-12-07 03:46:56", "timestamp": 1701917216.0 } }, { "id": "146429", "term": "hondose", "definition": "A low dose of hormone replacement therapy in a trans woman which produces inadequate feminization and fails to suppress testosterone.", "sentence": "might want to look into DIY or atleast talk to your provider, you might be getting hondosed as well", "communities": [], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "MtF", "date": "2025-05-01 05:10:20", "timestamp": 1746069020.0 } }, { "id": "209095", "term": "yass", "definition": "A strong expression of excitement or admiration.", "sentence": "A few days ago a bar popped up above the messages on my Grindr, \"Say Yass on Grindr\".", "communities": [], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "askgaybros", "date": "2018-07-18 10:25:13", "timestamp": 1531902313.0 } }, { "id": "107705", "term": "bottom surgery", "definition": "A slang term used to refer to genital gender-affirming surgeries.", "sentence": "I just made myself think that eventually, I'd start to want hrt and bottom surgery.", "communities": [ "transgender" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "BisexualTeens", "date": "2023-03-12 04:49:09", "timestamp": 1678592949.0 } }, { "id": "158904", "term": "duderus", "definition": "The uterus of a trans man.", "sentence": "Just a guy with a womb, a duderus if you will, a gent with brovaries.", "communities": [ "transgender" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "transgendercirclejerk", "date": "2022-05-29 01:14:19", "timestamp": 1653779659.0 } }, { "id": "90942", "term": "kai kai", "definition": "The act of drag queens having sex with each other.", "sentence": "Magnolia is so hot out of drag, I'd Kai Kai too", "communities": [ "drag" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "rupaulsdragrace", "date": "2016-03-28 01:22:32", "timestamp": 1459120952.0 } }, { "id": "169358", "term": "ladyparts", "definition": "The penis of a trans woman.", "sentence": "Would my ladyparts function in that respect?", "communities": [ "transgender" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "asktransgender", "date": "2014-09-23 02:34:36", "timestamp": 1411432476.0 } }, { "id": "106661", "term": "repressor", "definition": "A transgender person who fights or represses the wish to change their gender expression.", "sentence": "Do they unironically want to stay in their original gendered body, but then how would they even be repressors?", "communities": [ "transgender" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "asktransgender", "date": "2023-03-25 21:31:26", "timestamp": 1679776286.0 } }, { "id": "227063", "term": "fag", "definition": "A pejorative term used chiefly in North America primarily to refer to a gay man. Alongside its use to refer to gay men in particular, it may also be used as a pejorative term for a \"repellent man\" or to refer to women who are lesbian (or to transgender people, typically transgender women). Its use has spread from the United States to varying extents elsewhere in the English-speaking world through mass culture, including film, music, and the Internet.", "sentence": "When you're gay, you find a guy you like and panic that maybe he'll spit in your face or tell everyone you're a fag.", "communities": [ "gay male" ], "metadata": { "source": "OpenSubtitles", "title": "The Witnesses", "imdb_id": "487273" } }, { "id": "158086", "term": "crack", "definition": "To realize that one is transgender.", "sentence": "I realized I was bisexual when I was 17 and my genderfluid egg cracked at 18.", "communities": [ "transgender" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "lgbt", "date": "2025-05-22 13:01:35", "timestamp": 1747911695.0 } }, { "id": "497", "term": "discreet", "definition": "Not drawing attention, anger or challenge; inconspicuous.", "sentence": "But there are there are the odd occasion where you have to be a little bit more, I'd say, discreet.", "communities": [ "LGBTQ" ], "metadata": { "source": "Podcasts", "title": "The Louis Theroux Podcast" } }, { "id": "103430", "term": "top surgery", "definition": "A slang term used to refer to thoracic gender-affirming surgeries.", "sentence": "There are great options in Mexico for top surgery.", "communities": [ "transgender" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "asktransgender", "date": "2025-06-05 20:39:38", "timestamp": 1749148778.0 } }, { "id": "158113", "term": "crack", "definition": "To realize that one is transgender.", "sentence": "I donā€™t know if this was my egg cracking, didnā€™t have the awareness.", "communities": [ "transgender" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "asktransgender", "date": "2024-08-06 08:17:51", "timestamp": 1722925071.0 } }, { "id": "143176", "term": "GLBT", "definition": "Initialism for gay, lesbian, bisexual, and transgender.", "sentence": "In cases where weā€™d work together, GLBT or GSM (Gender and sexual minorities) is a recent one Iā€™ve heard that sounds potentially useful as an umbrella.", "communities": [], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "askgaybros", "date": "2021-10-19 14:45:58", "timestamp": 1634647558.0 } }, { "id": "146060", "term": "brainworm", "definition": "An intrusive, unwanted, internalized transphobic or invalidating thought or belief.", "sentence": ">Transphobes will brainworm themselves so hard into convincing themselves a trans woman doesn't pass that all they do is reveal they don't know what women look like ~~without make-up~~", "communities": [], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "transgendercirclejerk", "date": "2024-08-31 22:27:32", "timestamp": 1725136052.0 } }, { "id": "169873", "term": "pre-T", "definition": "Not yet having undergone testosterone-based hormone replacement therapy.", "sentence": "I'm pre-T as well, with hella voice dysphoria, and all my friends on voice comms never misgender me.", "communities": [ "transgender" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "TransSpace", "date": "2020-10-03 09:59:36", "timestamp": 1601711976.0 } }, { "id": "102276", "term": "joyfriend", "definition": "A sexual and/or romantic partner of any gender, but usually a nonbinary person.", "sentence": "There's a variety of terms for dating a non binary person such as joyfriend, enbyfriend, theyfriend etc.", "communities": [ "nonbinary" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "NonBinary", "date": "2025-07-14 20:30:50", "timestamp": 1752517850.0 } }, { "id": "110161", "term": "outie", "definition": "A term sometimes used to refer to the external genitalia of a transfeminine person.", "sentence": "Really i don't care if she has an innie or an outie its just fiddily bit of flesh that really isn't an issue when it comes to real personal relation.", "communities": [ "transfeminine" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "asktransgender", "date": "2014-04-30 12:03:58", "timestamp": 1398852238.0 } }, { "id": "79763", "term": "friend of dorothy", "definition": "Coded slang for gay. Referring to gay icon Judy Garland's Dorothy in The Wizard of Oz.", "sentence": "For both girl in red and friend of Dorothy I would have looked very confused while I'm still interested in girls", "communities": [ "gay male" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "bisexual", "date": "2024-07-15 18:42:53", "timestamp": 1721061773.0 } }, { "id": "1067", "term": "fierce", "definition": "To have looks that could \"kill\"; also used to refer to satisfying, powerful, or beautiful drag queens.", "sentence": "Stay loyal and stay fierce.", "communities": [ "drag" ], "metadata": { "source": "Podcasts", "title": "The Debrief" } }, { "id": "95908", "term": "gaydar", "definition": "A colloquialism referring to the intuitive ability of a person to assess others' sexual orientations as gay, bisexual or heterosexual. Gaydar relies on verbal and non-verbal clues and LGBTQ stereotypes. These include the sensitivity to social behaviors and mannerisms; for instance, acknowledging flamboyant body language, the tone of voice used by a person when speaking, overtly rejecting traditional gender roles, a person's occupation, and grooming habits.", "sentence": "I have a wacky gaydar :c", "communities": [ "LGBTQ" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "gaymers", "date": "2012-03-01 09:15:28", "timestamp": 1330589728.0 } }, { "id": "215529", "term": "breast mint", "definition": "A pill taken as part of feminizing hormone replacement therapy, especially spironolactone (called by this name due to its peppermint smell) or estrogen such as estradiol.", "sentence": "So I'm mtf and just about 13 months now on the breast mints.", "communities": [ "transgender" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "asktransgender", "date": "2018-08-04 21:12:26", "timestamp": 1533409946.0 } }, { "id": "94394", "term": "banjee", "definition": "A young Latino or African American gay man who dresses in stereotypical masculine urban fashion.", "sentence": "Was it the most banjee?", "communities": [ "drag", "Latine LGBTQ", "African-American LGBTQ" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "rupaulsdragrace", "date": "2016-01-03 00:24:31", "timestamp": 1451777071.0 } }, { "id": "107145", "term": "truscum", "definition": "A person who adheres to a strict medical definition of being transgender and believes that gender dysphoria is an essential trait.", "sentence": "And, yeah, truscums donā€™t have their dysphoria stronger, they are just bigots.", "communities": [ "transgender" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "traaaaaaannnnnnnnnns", "date": "2022-04-10 14:26:24", "timestamp": 1649593584.0 } }, { "id": "170025", "term": "prog", "definition": "Progesterone.", "sentence": "Have been on prog for a while, can give you my experiences, naturally this is gonna be a tiny bit nsfw:", "communities": [ "transgender" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "asktransgender", "date": "2025-05-10 17:25:48", "timestamp": 1746890748.0 } }, { "id": "124653", "term": "cruising", "definition": "To walk or drive about a locality in search of a sex partner, usually of the anonymous, casual, one-time variety.", "sentence": "Anyone know what happens if you get caught cruising by say someone who is in charge of facilities ?", "communities": [ "gay male" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "gaybros", "date": "2024-02-20 22:53:26", "timestamp": 1708466006.0 } }, { "id": "113745", "term": "100-footer", "definition": "A lesbian who can be identified easily as a lesbian from a hundred feet away.", "sentence": "I mean, people at this company thought I was straight even though normally I'm practically a 100-footer.", "communities": [ "lesbian" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "actuallesbians", "date": "2020-01-22 01:03:33", "timestamp": 1579651413.0 } }, { "id": "214814", "term": "tops", "definition": "ā€¢ A \"top\" is an individual who acts as the \"giving\" partner in sexual encounters. Sometimes used as a self-descriptor within queer communities, but should be replicated with caution. Sometimes used as a verb (\"to top someone\"). Offensive if applied to LGBTQ+ individuals from outwith queer communities.\nā€¢ Someone, typically a man, who is penetrating someone else during sexual intercourse or someone who has a preference for penetrating during such intercourse.", "sentence": "Itā€™s another weird pressure that bottoms put on tops and itā€™s a big turn off.", "communities": [ "LGBTQ" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "gaybros", "date": "2025-01-14 23:45:40", "timestamp": 1736894740.0 } }, { "id": "129012", "term": "gyal", "definition": "A girl.", "sentence": "*- ya Island gyal*", "communities": [], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "MtF", "date": "2022-11-02 06:09:09", "timestamp": 1667365749.0 } }, { "id": "135645", "term": "AC/DC", "definition": "Said of a person, bisexual, referring to being attracted to women and men.", "sentence": "To be fair, they didn't know that's what AC/DC also meant when they named their band.", "communities": [], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "bisexual", "date": "2022-12-04 10:17:08", "timestamp": 1670145428.0 } }, { "id": "108397", "term": "t4t", "definition": "Short form of \"trans for trans\", indicating transgender persons interested in other transgender persons romantically and/or sexually.", "sentence": "I see trans people say theyā€™re T4T all the time, but never seen Cis4Cis.", "communities": [ "transgender" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "AskLGBT", "date": "2024-11-26 05:15:22", "timestamp": 1732594522.0 } }, { "id": "101744", "term": "enby", "definition": "A nonbinary person, typically a young adult or an adolescent.", "sentence": "FWIW, I'm dating an AFAB enby.", "communities": [ "nonbinary" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "asktransgender", "date": "2024-02-05 02:04:21", "timestamp": 1707095061.0 } }, { "id": "112523", "term": "femme", "definition": "Traditionally, a lesbian who appears \"feminine\" or acts in a \"feminine\" manner. However, the term is often used to describe a wide variety of gender expressions and identities adjacent to feminine or femme-ness.", "sentence": "Youā€™re facing biphobia and femme phobia here.", "communities": [ "lesbian" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "lgbt", "date": "2024-02-25 16:38:40", "timestamp": 1708875520.0 } }, { "id": "99569", "term": "gaymer", "definition": "Gay persons who have active interest in video games or tabletop games.", "sentence": "Are there any gay gaymer groups in Chicago?", "communities": [ "LGBTQ" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "ChicagoGaymers", "date": "2019-02-14 00:46:50", "timestamp": 1550101610.0 } }, { "id": "84696", "term": "Nancy", "definition": "Women's names have often been appropriated as slurs for gay men, especially for feminine gay men and transfeminine people. \"Nancy\" is probably the most common, across the 20th Century globally. All are offensive.", "sentence": "I was told to butch it up, stop being a Nancy.", "communities": [], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "gay", "date": "2017-03-10 02:21:40", "timestamp": 1489108900.0 } }, { "id": "76328", "term": "dyke", "definition": "Contested terminology. Slur for lesbian, highly offensive if applied to a lesbian or transmasc person externally. Term has been reclaimed by some lesbians communities, and is sometimes used affirmingly within communities.\"Bulldyke\" and \"bulldagger\" are often used to indicate butch or masculine queer women, sometimes with overtones of toughness or aggression.", "sentence": "2. if it helps, i feel very similar and i'm a transmasc dyke.", "communities": [], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "ftm", "date": "2024-12-24 05:49:59", "timestamp": 1735015799.0 } }, { "id": "106686", "term": "trancestor", "definition": "A forebear or forerunner to a trans person, or to modern transgender people; a transgender ancestor. Occasionally used to refer to transgender elders in general.", "sentence": "Don't forget your trancestors because they have paved the way for us.", "communities": [ "transgender" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "trans", "date": "2022-04-21 00:30:10", "timestamp": 1650493810.0 } }, { "id": "115642", "term": "stone butch", "definition": "Typically, a lesbian who is butch or otherwise displays traditional \"masculinity\". Alternatively, a subculture of persons identifying as stone butch as opposed to femme or \"high femme\". Such persons may be non-binary or have other various gender identities.", "sentence": "It also has a free pdf of stone butch blues if anyone wants it!", "communities": [ "lesbian" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "lgbthistory", "date": "2023-03-19 15:29:30", "timestamp": 1679236170.0 } }, { "id": "213094", "term": "gaylord", "definition": "Slur for a gay man.", "sentence": "You may be the Gaylord but I am THE BILORD!", "communities": [], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "gay", "date": "2019-04-21 21:22:39", "timestamp": 1555874559.0 } }, { "id": "215540", "term": "breast mint", "definition": "A pill taken as part of feminizing hormone replacement therapy, especially spironolactone (called by this name due to its peppermint smell) or estrogen such as estradiol.", "sentence": "Take my breast mints after breakfast and dinner!", "communities": [ "transgender" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "traaaaaaannnnnnnnnns", "date": "2022-04-15 15:42:45", "timestamp": 1650030165.0 } }, { "id": "123838", "term": "boy pussy", "definition": "A gay man's anus, especially the receiving partipant's. Also, rarely, a transmasculine person's vulva.", "sentence": "Its ok to like boy pussy.", "communities": [ "transgender", "gay", "gay male" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "SuddenlyGay", "date": "2023-03-18 15:32:25", "timestamp": 1679149945.0 } }, { "id": "108935", "term": "cotton ceiling", "definition": "A term used for the tendency for cisgender lesbians to not want to engage in sexual activities with transgender women, particular those who have not yet undergone feminizing genitoplasty; or, more broadly, the tendency for cisgender lesbians to exclude transgender women from spaces.", "sentence": "In fact, I thought all that cotton ceiling nonsense was finally starting to die down.", "communities": [ "transfeminine", "lesbian" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "asktransgender", "date": "2016-12-31 04:12:24", "timestamp": 1483153944.0 } }, { "id": "149502", "term": "the house down", "definition": "Used as an intensifier: very, to a great degree; exceptionally.", "sentence": "Slay boots the house down = Let's fucking GOOOO!", "communities": [ "drag" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "gay", "date": "2024-10-11 01:30:58", "timestamp": 1728603058.0 } }, { "id": "158036", "term": "clocky", "definition": "Clearly identifiable as transgender; capable of being easily clocked; not passing.", "sentence": "And honestly, it's really only clocky to other trans people, if that makes sense.", "communities": [ "transgender" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "ftm", "date": "2024-10-02 09:10:32", "timestamp": 1727853032.0 } }, { "id": "169960", "term": "pre-T", "definition": "Not yet having undergone testosterone-based hormone replacement therapy.", "sentence": "I am mildly worried about buying longterm pieces for my wardrobe pre-T, particularly expensive things like a leather jacket.", "communities": [ "transgender" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "FtMFashionAdvice", "date": "2022-05-01 15:19:07", "timestamp": 1651411147.0 } }, { "id": "86293", "term": "stud", "definition": "ā€¢ Community term for an African-American and/or Latinx masculine queer woman. Also known as \"ag.\" Only use if someone self-describes in this way, and avoid using for white people, as this is a term specifically developed by and for African-American and Latinx communities.\nā€¢ A masculine or butch lesbian; predominantly utilized in Black and Latina lesbian communities. Should not be used by individuals outside of those communities, as it may be seen as pejorative. Sometimes expanded to refer to other gender identities and expressions.", "sentence": "I've talked to both femmes and studs, no preference these days.", "communities": [ "lesbian", "Latine lesbian", "African-American lesbian" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "l4l", "date": "2021-11-03 16:35:12", "timestamp": 1635953712.0 } }, { "id": "101705", "term": "enby", "definition": "A nonbinary person, typically a young adult or an adolescent.", "sentence": "I have an enby friend and Iā€™ll sometimes use ā€œgamerā€ when talking to them", "communities": [ "nonbinary" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "lgbt", "date": "2022-10-26 13:33:20", "timestamp": 1666784000.0 } }, { "id": "151322", "term": "breeding", "definition": "Ejaculation inside the rectum during bareback anal sex.", "sentence": "This explains the breeding kink", "communities": [ "gay" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "bisexual", "date": "2024-01-06 16:39:49", "timestamp": 1704555589.0 } }, { "id": "98674", "term": "versatile", "definition": "Someone who penetrates or is penetrated during sexual intercourse or someone who has a preference for both being penetrated and penetrating during such intercourse.", "sentence": "I'm versatile, I guess, but I can't say most sexual encounters I've been involved with have had a top or bottom set out in strict roles.", "communities": [ "LGBTQ" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "actuallesbians", "date": "2014-08-22 22:51:59", "timestamp": 1408740719.0 } }, { "id": "227378", "term": "drag queen", "definition": "ā€¢ A male entertainer who performs dressed as a woman; a female impersonator.\nā€¢ A male-to-female cross-dresser.", "sentence": "Either I'm an artist... or I'm just some cheap drag queen trying to get laughs.", "communities": [], "metadata": { "source": "OpenSubtitles", "title": "The Birdcage", "imdb_id": "115685" } }, { "id": "116744", "term": "front hole", "definition": "Slang for vagina, often used by transmasculine persons assigned female at birth.", "sentence": "Iā€™ve been taking .50ml of testosterone weekly for about 5 months, and definitely noticed way less sensation in my front hole.", "communities": [ "transmasculine" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "ftm", "date": "2024-08-13 16:59:57", "timestamp": 1723561197.0 } }, { "id": "206510", "term": "useless lesbian", "definition": "A lesbian who is socially or romantically inept with other women.", "sentence": "Maybe this is a case of me being a useless lesbian, maybe she's a straight girl who's playing me but should I just bite the bullet and ask her out?", "communities": [], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "teengirlswholikegirls", "date": "2023-01-12 01:07:06", "timestamp": 1673482026.0 } }, { "id": "215383", "term": "bio queen", "definition": "A cis female performance artist who performs in female drag at drag shows, or acts like a drag queen.", "sentence": "One of the ameratures was a bio queen and when they were introduced there was a slight change in time when they said she was a bio queen.", "communities": [], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "lgbt", "date": "2018-10-12 17:25:27", "timestamp": 1539357927.0 } }, { "id": "210562", "term": "bottoms", "definition": "ā€¢ A \"bottom\" is an individual who acts as the \"receiving\" partner in sexual encounters. Sometimes used as a self-descriptor within queer communities, but should be replicated with caution. Sometimes used as a verb (\"to bottom for someone\"). Offensive if applied to LGBTQ+ individuals from outwith queer communities.\nā€¢ Someone, typically a man, who is penetrated during sexual intercourse or someone who has a preference for being penetrated during such intercourse.\nā€¢ The buttocks.\nā€¢ Genitalia; genitals.", "sentence": "I never understood the disdain some guys feel for bottoms.", "communities": [ "LGBTQ" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "gaybros", "date": "2023-07-14 10:41:18", "timestamp": 1689324078.0 } }, { "id": "143217", "term": "GLBT", "definition": "Initialism for gay, lesbian, bisexual, and transgender.", "sentence": "I had an amazing set of friends, quite a few who were GLBT, so I knew it wouldnā€™t be a problem.", "communities": [], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "MeetLGBT", "date": "2011-07-07 19:28:13", "timestamp": 1310059693.0 } }, { "id": "85498", "term": "punk", "definition": "A slang term with multiple meanings depending on context. Originally used to refer to a sex worker or prostitute, especially a passive or feminine gay man (or a bottom). By the early 20th century, used to refer to a person considered worthless or criminal in nature. By the 1970s, used to refer to punk rock, a punk rocker, or to the sociocultural movement associated with punk rock and its fans. In the modern gay male community, the term \"punk\" may refer to a smaller, typically younger gay man who is forced into a submissive role in prison settings by an older gay man. Also occasionally used as a synonym for \"clock\" or \"read\", i.e. when a cisgender person recognizes a person as transgender.", "sentence": "Torrid has some punky boots in women's 13 wide, and their wide is wiide.", "communities": [ "transgender", "gay male" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "transfashionadvice", "date": "2022-04-08 00:39:23", "timestamp": 1649371163.0 } }, { "id": "102246", "term": "joyfriend", "definition": "A sexual and/or romantic partner of any gender, but usually a nonbinary person.", "sentence": "Lastly, your former joyfriend may come back or they may not.", "communities": [ "nonbinary" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "demisexuality", "date": "2020-10-10 13:44:10", "timestamp": 1602330250.0 } }, { "id": "146698", "term": "troon", "definition": "A transgender person; most commonly, a trans woman.", "sentence": "Well, trooning out is a 4chanism so itā€™s probably a 12 year old old.", "communities": [], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "MtF", "date": "2022-03-16 20:08:41", "timestamp": 1647457721.0 } }, { "id": "205715", "term": "neo", "definition": "Clipping of neopronoun.", "sentence": "I've see a lot of hate towards these pronouns, and there will be times where I scroll through comments on videos that hate on neos/xenos.", "communities": [], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "lgbt", "date": "2023-10-13 08:53:38", "timestamp": 1697180018.0 } }, { "id": "117161", "term": "unicorn", "definition": "A bisexual woman who engages in a sexual, but usually non-romantic, relationship with a heterosexual couple.", "sentence": "They know what they're doing, they lead with the woman in the unicorn hunter pair because she's bait.", "communities": [ "bisexual female" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "actuallesbians", "date": "2025-02-09 22:18:17", "timestamp": 1739135897.0 } }, { "id": "120794", "term": "twunk", "definition": "A gay man with the certain twink (meaning ā€œyoung, attractive, slim maleā€) stereotype elements that has a hunky (strong, muscular, etc.) physique.", "sentence": "I believe the technical term is twunk", "communities": [ "gay", "gay male" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "SuddenlyGay", "date": "2023-07-31 20:31:23", "timestamp": 1690828283.0 } }, { "id": "996", "term": "slay", "definition": "Used to express approval or amazement.", "sentence": "So I mean we've been on tour and it has been so crazy naming this tour international disaster was the biggest fucking slay.", "communities": [ "drag" ], "metadata": { "source": "Podcasts", "title": "Cancelled with Tana Mongeau & Brooke Schofield" } }, { "id": "206505", "term": "useless lesbian", "definition": "A lesbian who is socially or romantically inept with other women.", "sentence": "Now, I'm about the most useless lesbian when it comes to this sort of thing, but that is obvious flirtation.", "communities": [], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "queer", "date": "2022-09-05 23:38:27", "timestamp": 1662413907.0 } }, { "id": "120670", "term": "friend of Dorothy", "definition": "Coded slang for gay. Referring to gay icon Judy Garland's Dorothy in The Wizard of Oz.", "sentence": "I had an idea for a gay bar called \"The Friend of Dorothy\".", "communities": [], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "AskLGBT", "date": "2024-07-17 09:44:59", "timestamp": 1721202299.0 } }, { "id": "202145", "term": "unclockable", "definition": "Not recognizable as transgender or a drag performer; passing.", "sentence": "I donā€™t think of myself as unclockable but I was presenting pretty femme that day and the exact way it happened raised my brows a bit.", "communities": [ "transgender" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "MtF", "date": "2024-09-17 20:57:58", "timestamp": 1726599478.0 } }, { "id": "114655", "term": "gold star lesbian", "definition": "A lesbian who has never had sex with a man.", "sentence": "Ugh the entire concept of gold star lesbians is fucked in the head", "communities": [ "lesbian" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "bisexual", "date": "2025-04-28 15:06:19", "timestamp": 1745845579.0 } }, { "id": "116663", "term": "chubby bear", "definition": "A bear who is particularly large (\"bear\" meaning \"a gay or bisexual man who has facial/body hair and a cuddly body\").", "sentence": "Iā€™m a bearded, hairy, somewhat chubby bear and whenever I see other similar men, I feel absolutely zero attraction.", "communities": [ "chub", "bear" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "lgbt", "date": "2022-07-04 15:54:02", "timestamp": 1656942842.0 } }, { "id": "205401", "term": "neg", "definition": "HIV negative.", "sentence": "Cause I think if you add in \"and you're using condoms/PrEP\" with a poz guy and a (presumed) neg guy, this gets a lot more complicated", "communities": [], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "gaybros", "date": "2021-07-28 05:58:35", "timestamp": 1627444715.0 } }, { "id": "113914", "term": "futch", "definition": "A person who exhibits traits of both a femme (often used to describe a wide variety of gender expressions and identities adjacent to feminine or femme-ness) and a butch (often used to describe a wide variety of gender expressions and identities adjacent to masculinity or \"butchilinity\").", "sentence": "I'd say knock bayo down a femme, and make Kazooie a futch", "communities": [ "lesbian" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "gaymers", "date": "2019-10-01 05:08:27", "timestamp": 1569899307.0 } }, { "id": "101430", "term": "service bottom", "definition": "A service bottom is one who bottoms (acts as the \"receiving\" partner in sexual encounters) under the direction of an eager top (who acts as the \"giving\" partner in sexual encounters).", "sentence": "Stone top, service bottom - I'm getting lost with all the terms.", "communities": [ "LGBTQ" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "actuallesbians", "date": "2025-07-07 10:16:49", "timestamp": 1751876209.0 } }, { "id": "109076", "term": "titty skittle", "definition": "Oral estrogen taken by transgender woman and other transfeminine people.", "sentence": "Guess who just picked up their first prescription of titty skittles!", "communities": [ "transgender", "transfeminine" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "transgenderau", "date": "2022-02-04 05:38:33", "timestamp": 1643949513.0 } }, { "id": "321", "term": "sugar daddy", "definition": "Expression of the Black community in the 1920s, to refer to an older, wealthy partner. Over time, this expression became used by the LGBTQIA+ community as well.", "sentence": "Seriously, unless you want to be a sugar daddy, which I don't.", "communities": [], "metadata": { "source": "Podcasts", "title": "Behind the Bastards" } }, { "id": "103855", "term": "top surgery", "definition": "A slang term used to refer to thoracic gender-affirming surgeries.", "sentence": "I have a binder and wear it when itā€™s not too hot, Iā€™ve contemplated getting top surgery so many times in life.", "communities": [ "transgender" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "questioning", "date": "2025-02-05 01:39:05", "timestamp": 1738715945.0 } }, { "id": "101506", "term": "enban", "definition": "An adult nonbinary person.", "sentence": "Which soulless non-human and emotionless but well-meaning alien or robot from your fav franchise is an enban??", "communities": [ "nonbinary" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "transgendercirclejerk", "date": "2022-04-10 16:03:12", "timestamp": 1649599392.0 } }, { "id": "210876", "term": "drag mother", "definition": "In the US, a group of drag queens who have been mentored by a \"mother,\" also known as a \"house.\" These groups often take on family drag names and form close-knit communities.", "sentence": "I guess I have been watching a lot of drag shows lately, and feel sort of jealous of the idea of drag mother for someone like me.", "communities": [], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "NonBinary", "date": "2022-12-23 16:14:43", "timestamp": 1671808483.0 } }, { "id": "211236", "term": "fagot", "definition": "A pejorative term used chiefly in North America primarily to refer to a gay man. Alongside its use to refer to gay men in particular, it may also be used as a pejorative term for a \"repellent man\" or to refer to women who are lesbian (or to transgender people, typically transgender women). Its use has spread from the United States to varying extents elsewhere in the English-speaking world through mass culture, including film, music, and the Internet.", "sentence": "I tried to come out to my parents in high school, my step dad was a pastor... they called me a Fagot.", "communities": [], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "gay", "date": "2017-03-14 02:14:28", "timestamp": 1489454068.0 } }, { "id": "138913", "term": "cheese", "definition": "The smegma that accumulates around the penis, often the uncircumcised penis, or the unwashed labia.", "sentence": "My parents mutilated my penis shortly after I was born so I've never really had to worry about dick cheese.", "communities": [], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "askgaybros", "date": "2024-03-14 05:13:59", "timestamp": 1710389639.0 } }, { "id": "91664", "term": "kiki", "definition": "ā€¢ A gathering of friends for the purpose of gossiping and chit-chat.\nā€¢ 1940s slang describing a lesbian comfortable with either a more passive or more aggressive partner in a relationship.", "sentence": "I miss her so much as a fan, but her friends must miss kiki-ing with her like crazy.", "communities": [ "drag", "lesbian", "African-American transgender", "African-American gay male" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "rupaulsdragrace", "date": "2020-08-23 03:08:44", "timestamp": 1598144924.0 } }, { "id": "114694", "term": "bambi lesbian", "definition": "A lesbian who identifies as bambi-sexual, i.e. being more interested in kissing, carressing, cuddling, etc. than genital stimulation or sexual intercourse.", "sentence": "Never gonna use the term ace lesbian again, I'm a Bambi lesbian", "communities": [ "lesbian" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "lgbt", "date": "2021-06-01 11:00:35", "timestamp": 1622538035.0 } }, { "id": "228672", "term": "butch", "definition": "ā€¢ Traditionally, a lesbian who appears \"masculine\" or acts in a \"masculine\" manner. However, the term is often used to describe a wide variety of gender expressions and identities adjacent to masculinity or \"butchilinity\".\nā€¢ Heterosexual.", "sentence": "Very butch, very heterosexual high school.", "communities": [ "lesbian" ], "metadata": { "source": "OpenSubtitles", "title": "Angels in America", "imdb_id": "318997" } }, { "id": "155060", "term": "poppers", "definition": "Drugs of the alkyl nitrate class used recreationally as a sexual stimulant, especially among gay men.", "sentence": "I wanted to post thread for people to know what I have gone through after sniffing a bottle of poppers in May of 2020.", "communities": [ "gay" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "gaybros", "date": "2023-07-01 08:45:38", "timestamp": 1688193938.0 } }, { "id": "151332", "term": "breeding", "definition": "Ejaculation inside the rectum during bareback anal sex.", "sentence": "So for tops, what does breeding for you mean, do you like it more?", "communities": [ "gay" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "askgaybros", "date": "2024-03-14 18:10:16", "timestamp": 1710436216.0 } }, { "id": "203147", "term": "šŸ„š", "definition": "Represents an egg, as in a person regarded as having not yet realized they are transgender.", "sentence": "French šŸ„š 30 futur MTF here.", "communities": [ "transgender" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "asktransgender", "date": "2025-06-12 15:04:21", "timestamp": 1749733461.0 } }, { "id": "95568", "term": "queer time", "definition": "Time as experienced outside hetero- and cis-normative structures, milestones, and behaviors. In this way, queer time is time not judged by events like marriage or childbirth.", "sentence": "Ive never heard of it framed as queer time theory or anything.", "communities": [ "LGBTQ" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "AskLGBT", "date": "2023-08-09 00:49:15", "timestamp": 1691534955.0 } }, { "id": "146745", "term": "youngshit", "definition": "A transgender person who began transitioning at a young age.", "sentence": "/uj TIL I could have been a youngshit but am not.", "communities": [], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "transgendercirclejerk", "date": "2024-05-09 19:54:58", "timestamp": 1715277298.0 } }, { "id": "110876", "term": "tranny chaser", "definition": "Someone who aims to have sexual relations (in some cases non-consensually) or date transgender people as a kind of fetish.", "sentence": "So everyone on there doesnā€™t want me cause Iā€™m a woman (except the tranny chasers that have 0 respect).", "communities": [ "transfeminine" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "MtF", "date": "2017-12-21 00:56:42", "timestamp": 1513814202.0 } }, { "id": "83737", "term": "gym rat", "definition": "A sports enthusiast; usually one who frequents gyms and training grounds; often used of young gay men obsessed with body building.", "sentence": "As far as exercise, itā€™s okay to not be a gym rat.", "communities": [], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "gaybros", "date": "2024-11-20 06:21:42", "timestamp": 1732080102.0 } }, { "id": "106682", "term": "repressor", "definition": "A transgender person who fights or represses the wish to change their gender expression.", "sentence": "/uj All TERFs under 30 are female to male repressors", "communities": [ "transgender" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "transgendercirclejerk", "date": "2022-03-08 08:42:44", "timestamp": 1646725364.0 } }, { "id": "115732", "term": "stem", "definition": "A lesbian defined as having a gender presentation between stud (st-) and femme (-em).", "sentence": "I am *pretty* sure Stud, fem and stem all were created specifically for lesbians and stud for black lesbians so idk.", "communities": [ "lesbian" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "bisexual", "date": "2025-01-03 07:39:41", "timestamp": 1735886381.0 } }, { "id": "143376", "term": "autofellatio", "definition": "Oral stimulation of one's own penis.", "sentence": "I'm keeping my dick just for the autofellatio.", "communities": [], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "transgendercirclejerk", "date": "2019-06-20 13:35:49", "timestamp": 1561030549.0 } }, { "id": "154628", "term": "henny", "definition": "Alternative spelling of honey.", "sentence": "You are WEARING that dress henny", "communities": [ "gay" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "Drag", "date": "2022-08-25 01:47:16", "timestamp": 1661384836.0 } }, { "id": "214507", "term": "punks", "definition": "A slang term with multiple meanings depending on context. Originally used to refer to a sex worker or prostitute, especially a passive or feminine gay man (or a bottom). By the early 20th century, used to refer to a person considered worthless or criminal in nature. By the 1970s, used to refer to punk rock, a punk rocker, or to the sociocultural movement associated with punk rock and its fans. In the modern gay male community, the term \"punk\" may refer to a smaller, typically younger gay man who is forced into a submissive role in prison settings by an older gay man. Also occasionally used as a synonym for \"clock\" or \"read\", i.e. when a cisgender person recognizes a person as transgender.", "sentence": "Based on the title I totally thought this was going to be an old lesbian complaining about young lesbian punks not staying off her lawn.", "communities": [ "transgender", "gay male" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "actuallesbians", "date": "2017-07-08 22:50:09", "timestamp": 1499547009.0 } }, { "id": "988", "term": "slay", "definition": "Used to express approval or amazement.", "sentence": "Big slay, got a couple of people's numbers.", "communities": [ "drag" ], "metadata": { "source": "Podcasts", "title": "Sex, Lies & DM Slides" } }, { "id": "110157", "term": "outie", "definition": "A term sometimes used to refer to the external genitalia of a transfeminine person.", "sentence": "And though I'm not super happy I have an outie, my wife is quite fond of it, and I don't plan on doing anything to change its direction.", "communities": [ "transfeminine" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "asktransgender", "date": "2013-05-09 21:15:35", "timestamp": 1368126935.0 } }, { "id": "115260", "term": "baby dyke", "definition": "A person who has just come out as a lesbian.", "sentence": "When I was a baby dyke ( I was 26) I did the exact same thing.", "communities": [ "lesbian" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "lesbian", "date": "2024-10-19 16:02:23", "timestamp": 1729346543.0 } }, { "id": "134019", "term": "androgynous", "definition": "Of clothing or accessories, making a person's identity as male or female not immediately apparent to observers.", "sentence": "It is a turn off to people who are turned off by androgynous people and it is a turn on to people turned on by androgynous people.", "communities": [], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "gaybros", "date": "2022-03-22 15:57:43", "timestamp": 1647961063.0 } }, { "id": "215404", "term": "bio queen", "definition": "A cis female performance artist who performs in female drag at drag shows, or acts like a drag queen.", "sentence": "It was on her Suck Less show, in response to a question from a bio queen about being accepted:", "communities": [], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "rupaulsdragrace", "date": "2017-09-21 22:41:50", "timestamp": 1506026510.0 } }, { "id": "106494", "term": "deadnaming", "definition": "Calling a transgender person by their \"deadname\" (oftentimes their birth name, but not always).", "sentence": "I wouldnā€™t call it deadnaming, just mentioning the deadname.", "communities": [ "transgender" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "asktransgender", "date": "2024-07-17 21:13:43", "timestamp": 1721243623.0 } }, { "id": "75479", "term": "chaser", "definition": "Short for \"tranny chaser.\" A person who sees trans people (usually trans women) as inherently sexual, and sexually objectifies them. As opposed to someone who simply is predominantly attracted to trans women; a chaser does not view trans women respectfully as people with humanity and agency, but rather as players in a sexual fantasy.", "sentence": "Also, while on the subject, I want to point out that a chaser is not necessarily focused on genitals.", "communities": [], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "MtF", "date": "2025-01-06 23:10:31", "timestamp": 1736201431.0 } }, { "id": "158122", "term": "crack", "definition": "To realize that one is transgender.", "sentence": "Transmascs and transfemmes have different experiences of the egg cracking (as well as enbies and genderqueer people, obvs), but I feel like transfemmes are:", "communities": [ "transgender" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "asktransgender", "date": "2025-01-13 00:43:05", "timestamp": 1736725385.0 } }, { "id": "169714", "term": "orchi", "definition": "Clipping of orchiectomy.", "sentence": "I got told recent by the GIC that the NHS no longer offers orchis, just full vaginaplasty now, so your only options are private in the UK.", "communities": [ "transgender" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "transgenderUK", "date": "2023-12-02 09:39:47", "timestamp": 1701506387.0 } }, { "id": "158112", "term": "crack", "definition": "To realize that one is transgender.", "sentence": "My egg didn't so much crack as it fucking shattered.", "communities": [ "transgender" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "asktransgender", "date": "2024-08-06 08:42:07", "timestamp": 1722926527.0 } }, { "id": "228917", "term": "butch queen", "definition": "A gay man with a traditionally masculine gender expression.", "sentence": "The category is Butch Queen First Time in Drags at a Ball.", "communities": [ "gay male" ], "metadata": { "source": "OpenSubtitles", "title": "Paris Is Burning", "imdb_id": "100332" } }, { "id": "120658", "term": "friend of Dorothy", "definition": "Coded slang for gay. Referring to gay icon Judy Garland's Dorothy in The Wizard of Oz.", "sentence": "Yes, I am very much a Friend of Dorothy", "communities": [], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "gay", "date": "2024-06-04 23:05:48", "timestamp": 1717535148.0 } }, { "id": "160972", "term": "E", "definition": "Abbreviation of estrogen or estradiol.", "sentence": "I have tattoos on my chest and i want to know if they'll warp or stretch after i start E", "communities": [ "transgender" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "ask_transgender", "date": "2024-09-30 07:12:05", "timestamp": 1727673125.0 } }, { "id": "107004", "term": "truscum", "definition": "A person who adheres to a strict medical definition of being transgender and believes that gender dysphoria is an essential trait.", "sentence": "This statement caused a pile on of young transgender men, self titled Truscum, who felt I was a \"transtrender.\"", "communities": [ "transgender" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "asktransgender", "date": "2024-03-21 17:10:02", "timestamp": 1711037402.0 } }, { "id": "146430", "term": "hondose", "definition": "A low dose of hormone replacement therapy in a trans woman which produces inadequate feminization and fails to suppress testosterone.", "sentence": "Am I just going to die one day, or eventually hondose my self on 6mg EEn at some point?", "communities": [], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "MtF", "date": "2022-07-27 06:21:31", "timestamp": 1658895691.0 } }, { "id": "106693", "term": "transdar", "definition": "A colloquialism referring to the intuitive ability of a person to assess others' as being transgender. Transdar relies on verbal and non-verbal clues and transgender stereotypes. These include the sensitivity to social behaviors and mannerisms; for instance, acknowledging variations of gendered body language, the tone of voice used by a person when speaking, overtly rejecting traditional gender roles, a person's occupation, interests, etc.", "sentence": "What are some stuff that you think might trigger your transdar ?", "communities": [ "transgender" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "MtF", "date": "2020-10-16 16:24:44", "timestamp": 1602858284.0 } }, { "id": "83352", "term": "giver", "definition": "Slang for the \"active\" role during gay sex. The giver/taker binary is now largely acknowledged as artificial and heteronormative.", "sentence": "But I know that I want him to feel good (I'm more of a giver than a taker).", "communities": [], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "bisexual", "date": "2025-07-12 12:11:41", "timestamp": 1752315101.0 } }, { "id": "85113", "term": "punk", "definition": "A slang term with multiple meanings depending on context. Originally used to refer to a sex worker or prostitute, especially a passive or feminine gay man (or a bottom). By the early 20th century, used to refer to a person considered worthless or criminal in nature. By the 1970s, used to refer to punk rock, a punk rocker, or to the sociocultural movement associated with punk rock and its fans. In the modern gay male community, the term \"punk\" may refer to a smaller, typically younger gay man who is forced into a submissive role in prison settings by an older gay man. Also occasionally used as a synonym for \"clock\" or \"read\", i.e. when a cisgender person recognizes a person as transgender.", "sentence": "I mean I literally googled pop punk songs about friends after this revelation and the answer I saw most was \"all of them??\"", "communities": [ "transgender", "gay male" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "asexuality", "date": "2023-11-14 07:37:40", "timestamp": 1699943860.0 } }, { "id": "146702", "term": "troon", "definition": "A transgender person; most commonly, a trans woman.", "sentence": "Not great but alright.ā€ Instead I get people calling me a man, a rapist, a groomer, a terrorist, a troon.", "communities": [], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "trans", "date": "2023-06-28 11:10:35", "timestamp": 1687943435.0 } }, { "id": "212740", "term": "fruity", "definition": "Slang for a gay man, especially for a feminine gay man. Outdated and often offensive, because it implies someone is easily \"picked,\" or associates someone with its other slang meanings of \"dupe,\" \"victim,\" or someone living with mental illness.", "sentence": "Is that why we're called fruity?", "communities": [], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "actuallesbians", "date": "2024-12-18 16:30:18", "timestamp": 1734535818.0 } }, { "id": "112521", "term": "femme", "definition": "Traditionally, a lesbian who appears \"feminine\" or acts in a \"feminine\" manner. However, the term is often used to describe a wide variety of gender expressions and identities adjacent to feminine or femme-ness.", "sentence": "Source: one of my closest friends is very femme and is happily married to the woman of her dreams, it does happen!", "communities": [ "lesbian" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "lgbt", "date": "2023-02-10 00:04:16", "timestamp": 1675983856.0 } }, { "id": "101431", "term": "service bottom", "definition": "A service bottom is one who bottoms (acts as the \"receiving\" partner in sexual encounters) under the direction of an eager top (who acts as the \"giving\" partner in sexual encounters).", "sentence": "Iā€™m basically a service bottom/sub whoā€™s finally breaking free and wanting more, but neither one of us knows how to figure out what that is.", "communities": [ "LGBTQ" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "bisexual", "date": "2020-08-05 09:52:15", "timestamp": 1596613935.0 } }, { "id": "158066", "term": "clocky", "definition": "Clearly identifiable as transgender; capable of being easily clocked; not passing.", "sentence": "/uj what are clocky hands?", "communities": [ "transgender" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "transgendercirclejerk", "date": "2024-08-23 21:23:45", "timestamp": 1724441025.0 } }, { "id": "169416", "term": "mones", "definition": "Hormones used as part of hormone replacement therapy, especially for transgender or gender variant individuals.", "sentence": "Why do I need 'mones?", "communities": [], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "transgendercirclejerk", "date": "2014-07-31 23:23:18", "timestamp": 1406841798.0 } }, { "id": "202102", "term": "trutrans", "definition": "A genuine or legitimate transgender person.", "sentence": "Iā€™m binary trans and I feel ostracized myself by that trutrans community, especially when I see those posts in r/FTMMen.", "communities": [ "transgender" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "ftm", "date": "2018-05-22 20:40:17", "timestamp": 1527014417.0 } }, { "id": "151588", "term": "chubby", "definition": "An overweight or obese gay man.", "sentence": "I want to try to appreciate and say that you chubby guys are most attractive people I have ever witnessed since the day I was born.", "communities": [ "gay" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "gaybros", "date": "2022-05-18 22:47:37", "timestamp": 1652906857.0 } }, { "id": "107800", "term": "full-time", "definition": "A term which refers to a transgender person living as their gender for the entirety of their day-to-day life, at work, at home, etc.", "sentence": "And the question I keep coming back to is: When my voice changes, am I going to find another roadblock to me presenting full-time?", "communities": [ "transgender" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "TransSpace", "date": "2014-01-06 00:49:09", "timestamp": 1388965749.0 } }, { "id": "142803", "term": "LGBT", "definition": "Initialism for lesbian, gay, bisexual, and transgender.", "sentence": "Obviously, we are a bunch of LGBT+ folks and the first rule to be a part of our raid and guild is to be LGBT+ positive.", "communities": [], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "wowgaymers", "date": "2019-01-22 22:35:26", "timestamp": 1548192926.0 } }, { "id": "117113", "term": "girlfag", "definition": "A woman who is typically attracted to gay or bisexual men.", "sentence": "In my early twenties I looked up if there are others out there feeling the same and found people who defined themselves as girlfags.", "communities": [ "bisexual male", "gay male" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "ask_transgender", "date": "2022-07-07 15:36:14", "timestamp": 1657200974.0 } }, { "id": "213091", "term": "gaylord", "definition": "Slur for a gay man.", "sentence": "I remember when I was about seven getting called a Gaylord.", "communities": [], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "asktransgender", "date": "2020-08-07 14:53:37", "timestamp": 1596804817.0 } }, { "id": "117639", "term": "light in the loafers", "definition": "Gay; homosexual.", "sentence": "To start with I just want to be clear that the love of my life is AMAB and that Iā€™m light in the loafers.", "communities": [ "gay male" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "transgendercirclejerk", "date": "2025-05-11 22:07:44", "timestamp": 1746994064.0 } }, { "id": "96973", "term": "total bottom", "definition": "A total bottom is someone who assumes an exclusively passive or receptive role during anal or oral intercourse.", "sentence": "Pretty much everyone who starts a thread on this sub goes from something else to a total bottom.", "communities": [ "LGBTQ" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "askgaybros", "date": "2020-07-20 16:44:02", "timestamp": 1595256242.0 } }, { "id": "4971", "term": "activist", "definition": "A person who is politically active in campaigning for change to an existing sociopolitical or cultural order.", "sentence": "So Bates, this lady, this cannibalism obsessed lady is a monarchist and an anti-union activist as well.", "communities": [], "metadata": { "source": "Podcasts", "title": "Behind the Bastards" } }, { "id": "215410", "term": "bio queen", "definition": "A cis female performance artist who performs in female drag at drag shows, or acts like a drag queen.", "sentence": "No need to clarify bio queen, you are a QUEEN through and through!!!", "communities": [], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "Drag", "date": "2022-02-22 23:56:36", "timestamp": 1645570596.0 } }, { "id": "101521", "term": "enban", "definition": "An adult nonbinary person.", "sentence": "To add on to the other comparisons, Iā€™m using enban in place of man and woman, and pluralise it to enbans over enben like in men and women.", "communities": [ "nonbinary" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "NonBinary", "date": "2022-04-21 16:41:14", "timestamp": 1650552074.0 } }, { "id": "223271", "term": "straight", "definition": "Of a person, being sexually attracted to individuals of the opposite gender in a binary gender system; heterosexual.", "sentence": "Gay, straight, red, green, if you rob a bank, if you kill someone.", "communities": [], "metadata": { "source": "OpenSubtitles", "title": "In & Out", "imdb_id": "119360" } }, { "id": "146248", "term": "hon", "definition": "A trans woman who does not pass; a clocky (clearly identifiable as transgender) trans woman.", "sentence": "Most know hon, or hun tags trans women as clocky.", "communities": [], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "MtF", "date": "2023-07-26 15:32:44", "timestamp": 1690378364.0 } }, { "id": "205377", "term": "lesboy", "definition": "A person who identifies as male and as a lesbian.", "sentence": "but being lesboy doesnā€™t fit my attraction.", "communities": [], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "AskLGBT", "date": "2025-07-18 01:28:34", "timestamp": 1752794914.0 } }, { "id": "96964", "term": "total bottom", "definition": "A total bottom is someone who assumes an exclusively passive or receptive role during anal or oral intercourse.", "sentence": "There are many total bottoms who go crazy looking for total tops.", "communities": [ "LGBTQ" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "gay", "date": "2025-06-06 13:49:52", "timestamp": 1749210592.0 } }, { "id": "227828", "term": "coming out", "definition": "A metaphor for LGBTQIA+ people's self-disclosure of their sexual orientation or of their gender identity. The term coming out can also be used in various non-LGBTQIA+ applications (e.g. atheists). Framed and debated as a privacy issue, coming out of the closet is described and experienced variously as a psychological process or journey; decision-making or risk-taking; a strategy or plan; a mass or public event; a speech act and a matter of personal identity; a rite of passage; liberation or emancipation from oppression; an ordeal; a means toward feeling gay pride instead of shame and social stigma; or even career suicide. Author Steven Seidman writes that \"it is the power of the closet to shape the core of an individual's life that has made homosexuality into a significant personal, social, and political drama in twentieth-century America\".", "sentence": "I thought it was nice to see a guy coming out to his family, his friends, not to mention his fiancĆ©e.", "communities": [ "LGBTQ" ], "metadata": { "source": "OpenSubtitles", "title": "All Over the Guy", "imdb_id": "250202" } }, { "id": "229120", "term": "drag family", "definition": "In the US, a group of drag queens who have been mentored by a \"mother,\" also known as a \"house.\" These groups often take on family drag names and form close-knit communities.", "sentence": "Because I have my family I'm born with and I have my drag family, so I mixed the pictures together.", "communities": [], "metadata": { "source": "OpenSubtitles", "title": "Venus Boyz", "imdb_id": "293685" } }, { "id": "151300", "term": "boywife", "definition": "A young male assuming the employment of homemaking, a role traditionally assumed by women; the submissive partner in the relationship who receives great pleasure in \"taking care\" of his more dominant partner.", "sentence": "You can be my boywife any day!!", "communities": [ "gay" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "NonBinary", "date": "2022-11-24 01:02:42", "timestamp": 1669248162.0 } }, { "id": "151593", "term": "chubby", "definition": "An overweight or obese gay man.", "sentence": "I donā€™t feel sexually attracted to twinks or muscly guys, I like slightly chubby ones.", "communities": [ "gay" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "gaybros", "date": "2021-12-29 03:35:17", "timestamp": 1640745317.0 } }, { "id": "113730", "term": "U-Haul lesbian", "definition": "A stereotype of lesbian relationships, referring to the joke that lesbians tend to move in together on the second date. It suggests an extreme inclination toward monogamy or committed relationships. It can be considered either complimentary or pejorative, depending on context.", "sentence": "I havenā€™t dated or seriously liked anyone in years so Iā€™m not a U-Haul lesbian.", "communities": [], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "lgbt", "date": "2024-09-06 17:10:10", "timestamp": 1725635410.0 } }, { "id": "169394", "term": "manmoder", "definition": "One who is in manmode (presenting as male regardless of gender identity).", "sentence": "Could anyone pick me up from a transgender surgery in july (I have no friends and also am a manmoder so cant ask people)?", "communities": [ "transgender" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "asktransgender", "date": "2021-06-17 03:25:43", "timestamp": 1623893143.0 } }, { "id": "140163", "term": "BJ", "definition": "Initialism of blow job.", "sentence": "I am, I need a BJ", "communities": [], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "gaymers", "date": "2024-09-12 18:31:30", "timestamp": 1726158690.0 } }, { "id": "113739", "term": "U-Haul lesbian", "definition": "A stereotype of lesbian relationships, referring to the joke that lesbians tend to move in together on the second date. It suggests an extreme inclination toward monogamy or committed relationships. It can be considered either complimentary or pejorative, depending on context.", "sentence": "I am a recent victim of u-haul lesbian syndrome.", "communities": [], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "MtF", "date": "2023-03-15 23:55:14", "timestamp": 1678920914.0 } }, { "id": "157820", "term": "anticistamines", "definition": "Medication used for transgender hormone replacement therapy.", "sentence": "man juice for injections, anticistamines work for hrt in general", "communities": [ "transgender" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "ftm", "date": "2024-12-26 23:46:47", "timestamp": 1735253207.0 } }, { "id": "210873", "term": "drag mother", "definition": "In the US, a group of drag queens who have been mentored by a \"mother,\" also known as a \"house.\" These groups often take on family drag names and form close-knit communities.", "sentence": "Without it, I wouldn't have my drag mother (who is a much better mother than my biological mom) and I probably wouldn't be here.", "communities": [], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "radicalqueers", "date": "2016-03-26 03:23:31", "timestamp": 1458959011.0 } }, { "id": "101692", "term": "enbyfriend", "definition": "A nonbinary sexual and/or romantic partner.", "sentence": "I prefer enbyfriend or by/beefriend.", "communities": [ "nonbinary" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "NonBinary", "date": "2022-06-28 09:57:39", "timestamp": 1656403059.0 } }, { "id": "102294", "term": "ace", "definition": "Asexual; an asexual person.", "sentence": "Iā€™m an ace who canā€™t eat much garlic bread because I need to eat low-carb for my health šŸ˜“ the struggle is real lol", "communities": [ "asexual" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "lgbt", "date": "2022-06-03 01:09:12", "timestamp": 1654211352.0 } }, { "id": "108754", "term": "boymode", "definition": "When a transgender person presents a gender expression codified as male, typically if that person is a transgender woman. Usually used in the context of going incognito as a cisgender man.", "sentence": "Though in the end I ended loosing my job finally since I could not stand the stress of it + being in halfway boymode anymore.", "communities": [ "transgender", "transgender" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "TransSupport", "date": "2013-12-26 18:06:42", "timestamp": 1388077602.0 } }, { "id": "115656", "term": "lesbro", "definition": "A man who is considered an \"honorary lesbian\" by lesbian friends; otherwise, rarely, a lesbian who is considered stereotypically masculine, i.e. a \"bro\".", "sentence": "Thanks for helping out a fellow lesbro!", "communities": [ "lesbian" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "lgbt", "date": "2019-10-02 04:20:10", "timestamp": 1569982810.0 } }, { "id": "101444", "term": "bipoly", "definition": "Of or relating to a person who is bisexual and polyamorous.", "sentence": "There are a fair number of bipoly women, but bipoly guys seem to be pretty rare.", "communities": [ "bisexual" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "askgaybros", "date": "2017-08-28 02:08:37", "timestamp": 1503878917.0 } }, { "id": "106687", "term": "transdar", "definition": "A colloquialism referring to the intuitive ability of a person to assess others' as being transgender. Transdar relies on verbal and non-verbal clues and transgender stereotypes. These include the sensitivity to social behaviors and mannerisms; for instance, acknowledging variations of gendered body language, the tone of voice used by a person when speaking, overtly rejecting traditional gender roles, a person's occupation, interests, etc.", "sentence": "My transdar has only been wrong once (luckily she didn't take offence), and I've been thanked a multitude of times.", "communities": [ "transgender" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "asktransgender", "date": "2015-02-25 12:57:41", "timestamp": 1424865461.0 } }, { "id": "91332", "term": "clock", "definition": "To take notice of, to realize, or to recognize someone as being transgender.", "sentence": "It never seems to be fully flat though, there's a slight bump there and it kind of annoys me, I feel like I could be clocked etc.", "communities": [ "drag", "transgender" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "ask_transgender", "date": "2018-02-15 18:25:20", "timestamp": 1518715520.0 } }, { "id": "135623", "term": "AC/DC", "definition": "Said of a person, bisexual, referring to being attracted to women and men.", "sentence": "Funny thing about you putting bi with ac/dc together but apparently AC/DC used to be slang for bi (because the current goes both ways)", "communities": [], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "lgbt", "date": "2022-07-25 07:48:16", "timestamp": 1658728096.0 } }, { "id": "118717", "term": "gold star gay", "definition": "A gay person who has never had sex with a person of the opposite gender.", "sentence": "I once heard a gay man say in all seriousness that only gay men who had been delivered by cesarean section could actually by a gold star gay.", "communities": [ "gay male" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "ftm", "date": "2025-06-24 18:31:53", "timestamp": 1750782713.0 } }, { "id": "157888", "term": "clockable", "definition": "Of a transgender person or drag performer: able to be clocked; capable of being noticed or recognized as transgender; not passing.", "sentence": "Bob, Chi chi and Naomi have been easily clockable because their clothing is just too them.", "communities": [ "transgender" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "rupaulsdragrace", "date": "2016-04-20 02:30:20", "timestamp": 1461112220.0 } }, { "id": "95988", "term": "gaydar", "definition": "A colloquialism referring to the intuitive ability of a person to assess others' sexual orientations as gay, bisexual or heterosexual. Gaydar relies on verbal and non-verbal clues and LGBTQ stereotypes. These include the sensitivity to social behaviors and mannerisms; for instance, acknowledging flamboyant body language, the tone of voice used by a person when speaking, overtly rejecting traditional gender roles, a person's occupation, and grooming habits.", "sentence": "Have any of you gone from having zero/bad gaydar to something more serviceable?", "communities": [ "LGBTQ" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "askgaybros", "date": "2025-07-03 08:52:32", "timestamp": 1751525552.0 } }, { "id": "203173", "term": "cunty", "definition": "Amazing or very good or cool, especially with regard to femininity.", "sentence": "Anyways here's my cunty senior citizen Antivan Crow Rook.", "communities": [], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "gaymers", "date": "2024-11-12 20:47:53", "timestamp": 1731440873.0 } }, { "id": "91816", "term": "realness", "definition": "The state of being real; the ability to blend or pass as heterosexual or cisgender; the quality of passing as a particular role in a particular circumstance.", "sentence": "Not ā€œpeasantry realnessā€ šŸ˜‚ love this", "communities": [ "drag", "gay male" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "lesbianfashionadvice", "date": "2024-05-10 05:01:29", "timestamp": 1715310089.0 } }, { "id": "114738", "term": "butch dyke", "definition": "A butch lesbian. \"Butch\" is often used to describe a wide variety of gender expressions and identities adjacent to masculinity or \"butchilinity\".", "sentence": "If youā€™re lucky, itā€™s a mixed crowd, muscle Marys and bois and femme fags and butch dykes and genderqueers.", "communities": [ "lesbian" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "gaybros", "date": "2020-06-14 18:24:46", "timestamp": 1592151886.0 } }, { "id": "202182", "term": "unclockable", "definition": "Not recognizable as transgender or a drag performer; passing.", "sentence": "I know that Unclockable Tuck Kit is populer in the US but I dont know what the equilivent here would be", "communities": [ "transgender" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "transgenderUK", "date": "2024-09-14 19:15:01", "timestamp": 1726334101.0 } }, { "id": "99258", "term": "power bottom", "definition": "A power bottom is someone who aggressively enjoys being the receptive partner.", "sentence": "Lol... Thats what i need to do to be a power bottom!", "communities": [ "LGBTQ" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "gaybros", "date": "2018-01-13 21:11:59", "timestamp": 1515874319.0 } }, { "id": "228355", "term": "hetty", "definition": "A heterosexual.", "sentence": "would that make me a hetty?", "communities": [ "gay" ], "metadata": { "source": "OpenSubtitles", "title": "Bedrooms and Hallways", "imdb_id": "126810" } }, { "id": "110917", "term": "zucchini", "definition": "A queerplatonic partner.", "sentence": "I started introducing him as my zucchini, or partner.", "communities": [ "aromantic" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "asexuality", "date": "2019-11-19 06:22:26", "timestamp": 1574140946.0 } }, { "id": "101449", "term": "bi wife energy", "definition": "A slang term coined by a Tik Tok user (@cringelizard) to describe the energy that Misha Collins radiates, i.e. the supposed \"energy\" that he has due to being married to a bisexual woman, Victoria Vantoch. \"Bi wife energy\" is often used to refer to individuals who are supportive of the LGBTQIA+ community, and who have or have had a partner (usually a marital partner) who is LGBTQIA+.", "sentence": "The real question is how to create more people with bi wife energy lol.", "communities": [ "bisexual" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "bisexual", "date": "2021-07-11 08:45:14", "timestamp": 1625985914.0 } }, { "id": "169909", "term": "pre-T", "definition": "Not yet having undergone testosterone-based hormone replacement therapy.", "sentence": "also i would love to hear folks' experiences of regaining confidence in intimacy of all kinds after transitioning ftm (particularly like if me you are pre-t and pre-surgery)", "communities": [ "transgender" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "queer", "date": "2024-12-02 18:01:51", "timestamp": 1733158911.0 } }, { "id": "111293", "term": "femoid", "definition": "A portmanteau of \"female\" and \"android\" (referring to a robot) used in the incel community. It is a derogatory term used to dehumanize women.", "sentence": "I honest to god was shocked he didn't say femoids.", "communities": [ "incel" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "LGBTeens", "date": "2019-08-03 00:38:09", "timestamp": 1564785489.0 } }, { "id": "86288", "term": "stud", "definition": "ā€¢ Community term for an African-American and/or Latinx masculine queer woman. Also known as \"ag.\" Only use if someone self-describes in this way, and avoid using for white people, as this is a term specifically developed by and for African-American and Latinx communities.\nā€¢ A masculine or butch lesbian; predominantly utilized in Black and Latina lesbian communities. Should not be used by individuals outside of those communities, as it may be seen as pejorative. Sometimes expanded to refer to other gender identities and expressions.", "sentence": "sheā€™s openly been a lesbian for years, her family isnā€™t homophobic, shes literally a stud.", "communities": [ "lesbian", "Latine lesbian", "African-American lesbian" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "GayChristians", "date": "2025-04-16 06:58:57", "timestamp": 1744779537.0 } }, { "id": "113728", "term": "gayelle", "definition": "A lesbian.", "sentence": ">However, I would bet good money that every other gayelle in the whole school is going to wear the same thing.", "communities": [ "lesbian" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "lesbianfashionadvice", "date": "2012-01-30 02:35:04", "timestamp": 1327887304.0 } }, { "id": "168269", "term": "girlcock", "definition": "The penis of a trans woman.", "sentence": "I've heard different things like girldick, girlcock, glock.", "communities": [ "transgender" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "MtF", "date": "2022-08-19 15:05:12", "timestamp": 1660914312.0 } }, { "id": "115094", "term": "chapstick lesbian", "definition": "A lesbian who exhibits some butch traits (short hair, stereotypical men's clothing, etc.) without wholly fitting the masculine butch stereotype; alternatively, a lesbian who is athletic or has a keen interest in sports.", "sentence": "Villanelle would opposite and compliment a (stereotypical) chapstick lesbian I feel", "communities": [ "lesbian" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "lesbianfashionadvice", "date": "2023-08-11 03:09:27", "timestamp": 1691716167.0 } }, { "id": "135643", "term": "AC/DC", "definition": "Said of a person, bisexual, referring to being attracted to women and men.", "sentence": "I had a giggle of course but I donā€™t think I have heard AC/DC used for bi since I was a kid.", "communities": [], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "bisexual", "date": "2022-11-28 03:35:01", "timestamp": 1669602901.0 } }, { "id": "158007", "term": "clocky", "definition": "Clearly identifiable as transgender; capable of being easily clocked; not passing.", "sentence": "Idk about clocky other than you do look like youā€™re just now learning which is ok.", "communities": [ "transgender" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "transpassing", "date": "2025-07-03 16:42:25", "timestamp": 1751553745.0 } }, { "id": "126874", "term": "bareback", "definition": "Sexual activity without the use of a condom.", "sentence": "When I was in the dating/NSA arena, bareback was never an option.", "communities": [ "gay male" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "gaybros", "date": "2021-08-22 20:07:16", "timestamp": 1629655636.0 } }, { "id": "86330", "term": "stud", "definition": "ā€¢ Community term for an African-American and/or Latinx masculine queer woman. Also known as \"ag.\" Only use if someone self-describes in this way, and avoid using for white people, as this is a term specifically developed by and for African-American and Latinx communities.\nā€¢ A masculine or butch lesbian; predominantly utilized in Black and Latina lesbian communities. Should not be used by individuals outside of those communities, as it may be seen as pejorative. Sometimes expanded to refer to other gender identities and expressions.", "sentence": "If you find a masc or Stud attractive just straight up tell them...", "communities": [ "lesbian", "Latine lesbian", "African-American lesbian" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "lesbian", "date": "2022-09-26 12:00:50", "timestamp": 1664186450.0 } }, { "id": "90711", "term": "slay", "definition": "Used to express approval or amazement.", "sentence": "Honestly that demon is slaying.", "communities": [ "drag" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "actuallesbians", "date": "2022-06-09 07:00:46", "timestamp": 1654750846.0 } }, { "id": "102300", "term": "ace", "definition": "Asexual; an asexual person.", "sentence": "As an ace who enjoys \"mashing genitals\" with other people.", "communities": [ "asexual" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "lgbt", "date": "2022-12-24 03:49:32", "timestamp": 1671850172.0 } }, { "id": "214829", "term": "tops", "definition": "ā€¢ A \"top\" is an individual who acts as the \"giving\" partner in sexual encounters. Sometimes used as a self-descriptor within queer communities, but should be replicated with caution. Sometimes used as a verb (\"to top someone\"). Offensive if applied to LGBTQ+ individuals from outwith queer communities.\nā€¢ Someone, typically a man, who is penetrating someone else during sexual intercourse or someone who has a preference for penetrating during such intercourse.", "sentence": "As a femme switch mainly attracted to femme tops please tell me **HOW** you managed to do that", "communities": [ "LGBTQ" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "actuallesbians", "date": "2024-06-09 19:43:25", "timestamp": 1717955005.0 } }, { "id": "220164", "term": "house of", "definition": "In the US, a group of drag queens who have been mentored by a \"mother,\" also known as a \"house.\" These groups often take on family drag names and form close-knit communities.", "sentence": "The House of Xtravaganza, the House of Saint Laurent.", "communities": [], "metadata": { "source": "OpenSubtitles", "title": "Paris Is Burning", "imdb_id": "100332" } }, { "id": "116653", "term": "chubby chaser", "definition": "A gay male person who is attracted sexually and/or romantically to obesity.", "sentence": "They don't have to be chubby chasers but I understand most guys who are into bears usually are chubby chasers to a degree", "communities": [ "chub" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "askgaybros", "date": "2024-08-30 15:58:00", "timestamp": 1725026280.0 } }, { "id": "115060", "term": "baby butch", "definition": "A young butch or boyish lesbian or a butch or boyish lesbian who is perceived to be young, regardless of age.", "sentence": "As another baby butch I appreciate it, I only have one pair of loafers I wear for formal occasions and they give me *super* bad blisters.", "communities": [ "lesbian" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "lgbt", "date": "2019-07-27 18:47:23", "timestamp": 1564246043.0 } }, { "id": "117933", "term": "limp-wristed", "definition": "Of a man: having effeminate qualities or characteristics perceived to be homosexual in nature.", "sentence": "Not to mention the fact that I'm a completely limp-wristed fairy, and a guy who has never wanted to change my voice to fit the mold of manhood.", "communities": [ "gay male" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "ftm", "date": "2021-07-21 23:23:50", "timestamp": 1626902630.0 } }, { "id": "102189", "term": "theymab", "definition": "A slang term for a nonbinary person who is assigned male at birth.", "sentence": "I think theyfab and theymab, or afab and amab, are pretty lame terms, but that's just the moment we're at right now in gender discourse.", "communities": [ "nonbinary" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "NonBinary", "date": "2024-09-13 02:57:02", "timestamp": 1726189022.0 } }, { "id": "215537", "term": "breast mint", "definition": "A pill taken as part of feminizing hormone replacement therapy, especially spironolactone (called by this name due to its peppermint smell) or estrogen such as estradiol.", "sentence": "Do y'alls have fun names for your hormones cuz like over here in the MTF community we got breast mints, tit tacs, fem&ms anti boyotics and all sorts of wordplay.", "communities": [ "transgender" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "ftm", "date": "2024-12-24 17:54:28", "timestamp": 1735059268.0 } }, { "id": "157490", "term": "vers", "definition": "ā€¢ LGBTQ+ community slang for someone who \"switches\" between the \"giving\" and \"receiving\" during sex. \"Vers\" is short for \"versatile.\" \"Switch\" is sometimes also used in a BDSM context, to indicate someone who \"switches\" between the dominant and submissive roles.\nā€¢ One who is willing to take either a submissive or a dominant role in a sexual relationship.", "sentence": "Iā€™m a vers topā€¦.ill start that way but if it is right and Iā€™m comfortable I like it the other way too.", "communities": [ "gay" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "gaybros", "date": "2024-02-01 21:39:44", "timestamp": 1706819984.0 } }, { "id": "103303", "term": "top surgery", "definition": "A slang term used to refer to thoracic gender-affirming surgeries.", "sentence": "Even when i get top surgery imma be honest you won't catch me outside in the sun it burns my goblin skin.", "communities": [ "transgender" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "lgbt", "date": "2022-07-16 21:17:49", "timestamp": 1657999069.0 } }, { "id": "113723", "term": "lesbian manicure", "definition": "A set of long, typically acrylic nails, with the exception of two short, plain nails, meant to accommodate fingering of the clitoris and vagina.", "sentence": "edit: I'm definitely doing a lesbian manicure", "communities": [ "lesbian" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "lesbianfashionadvice", "date": "2023-05-18 05:32:17", "timestamp": 1684380737.0 } }, { "id": "215418", "term": "bio queen", "definition": "A cis female performance artist who performs in female drag at drag shows, or acts like a drag queen.", "sentence": "For a lot of bio queens itā€™s difficult to get past the mental block of ā€œheavy makeupā€ as a bad thing, like weā€™ve been told our entire lives.", "communities": [], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "Drag", "date": "2021-07-08 01:23:13", "timestamp": 1625700193.0 } }, { "id": "77703", "term": "fag hag", "definition": "A woman, typically a heterosexual one, possibly ageing, who prefers, enjoys, or seeks out the company of homosexual men. This term is offensive to gay men and misogynistic to heterosexual women. Once common, now rarely used within queer communities.", "sentence": "I have female friends, but none I would call a fag hag.", "communities": [ "gay male" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "gaybros", "date": "2012-06-21 14:23:08", "timestamp": 1340281388.0 } }, { "id": "83741", "term": "gym rat", "definition": "A sports enthusiast; usually one who frequents gyms and training grounds; often used of young gay men obsessed with body building.", "sentence": "Always been a gym rat, but finally to give myself the final push I've started intermittent fasting.", "communities": [], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "gaybros", "date": "2017-03-08 18:04:26", "timestamp": 1488992666.0 } }, { "id": "95538", "term": "service top", "definition": "A service top is one who tops (acts as the \"giving\" partner in sexual encounters) under the direction of an eager bottom (who acts as the \"receiving\" partner in sexual encounters).", "sentence": "No shade at all, just wondering if anyone has been on the receiving end of these or if itā€™s strictly supposed to be a service top kinda dealā€¦", "communities": [ "LGBTQ" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "actuallesbians", "date": "2024-01-17 03:01:42", "timestamp": 1705456902.0 } }, { "id": "170447", "term": "spiro", "definition": "Clipping of spironolactone.", "sentence": "Tbf, a friend of mine takes spiro for heart issues, like less than half the daily dose though.", "communities": [ "transgender" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "lgbt", "date": "2025-07-03 18:31:18", "timestamp": 1751560278.0 } }, { "id": "126876", "term": "bareback", "definition": "Sexual activity without the use of a condom.", "sentence": "All of them can spread through unprotected oral sex or rimming, especially gonorrhoea, but bareback anal sex will cause them to spread more easily.", "communities": [ "gay male" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "gaybros", "date": "2021-08-22 18:58:18", "timestamp": 1629651498.0 } }, { "id": "390", "term": "cunty", "definition": "Amazing or very good or cool, especially with regard to femininity.", "sentence": "I loved- I thought she was so cunty with that little plaid dress.", "communities": [], "metadata": { "source": "Podcasts", "title": "Why Won't You Date Me? with Nicole Byer" } }, { "id": "117939", "term": "batty boy", "definition": "ā€¢ A pejorative term in Jamaican Patois often used to refer to a gay or feminine man.\nā€¢ A gay man.", "sentence": "Can anyone from Jamaica or Jamaican origin in the U.K. confirm whether batty boy can ever be justified as meaning just gay?", "communities": [ "gay male" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "gay", "date": "2021-12-19 19:01:23", "timestamp": 1639936883.0 } }, { "id": "212250", "term": "pansy", "definition": "Various flowers are used to refer to feminine gay men, though \"pansy\" is probably the most common. Associates gay men with misogynistic ideas of femininity; implies weakness, unthreateneaning appearance, cowardliness. Offensive, often used as an intentional slur.", "sentence": "Question, is pansy a slur over there?", "communities": [], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "lgbt", "date": "2020-10-02 12:50:44", "timestamp": 1601635844.0 } }, { "id": "99358", "term": "total top", "definition": "A total top is one who assumes an exclusively penetrative role for sex.", "sentence": "Iā€™m a total top and I fell in love with a vers guy many years ago.", "communities": [ "LGBTQ" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "gaybros", "date": "2024-04-17 02:52:40", "timestamp": 1713315160.0 } }, { "id": "107063", "term": "truscum", "definition": "A person who adheres to a strict medical definition of being transgender and believes that gender dysphoria is an essential trait.", "sentence": "There are but most of the truscum/transmed posts and comments are downvoted", "communities": [ "transgender" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "ftm", "date": "2023-01-20 13:16:22", "timestamp": 1674216982.0 } }, { "id": "117716", "term": "baby gay", "definition": "A person who has recently come out in relationship to a marginalized sexual or gender identity.", "sentence": "Anyway, being on lockdown has me watching all my faves with my kids but this one really brought out the baby gay memories.", "communities": [ "gay male" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "olderlesbians", "date": "2020-03-20 19:40:32", "timestamp": 1584729632.0 } }, { "id": "117110", "term": "girlfag", "definition": "A woman who is typically attracted to gay or bisexual men.", "sentence": "My own story involves a girlfag(I cringe at that word now)>genderqueer>transmasculine>mostly binary trans guy progression.", "communities": [ "bisexual male", "gay male" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "genderqueer", "date": "2014-05-04 03:29:37", "timestamp": 1399166977.0 } }, { "id": "117119", "term": "girlfag", "definition": "A woman who is typically attracted to gay or bisexual men.", "sentence": "There are very few crossdreamers, girlfags or guydykes who like the term, but it seems we are stuck with it, as Dan Savage notes in this column:", "communities": [ "bisexual male", "gay male" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "crossdreaming", "date": "2020-02-18 09:58:54", "timestamp": 1582016334.0 } }, { "id": "146347", "term": "hon", "definition": "A trans woman who does not pass; a clocky (clearly identifiable as transgender) trans woman.", "sentence": "Everyone is telling me I'm actually really hot but I know I'm secretly a hon and they're just being nice", "communities": [], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "transgendercirclejerk", "date": "2025-03-20 19:02:00", "timestamp": 1742493720.0 } }, { "id": "115184", "term": "soft butch", "definition": "A lesbian who exhibits some stereotypical butch traits without fitting the masculine stereotype associated with butch lesbians.", "sentence": "The final thing is that I want to transition to a much more fem body, and my goals must of the time is a punk soft butch girl.", "communities": [ "lesbian" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "TransSpace", "date": "2019-10-26 20:46:14", "timestamp": 1572115574.0 } }, { "id": "99800", "term": "closeted", "definition": "An adjective referring to an LGBTQIA+ person or persons who have not disclosed their status as LGBTQIA+ and other related aspects of their life. More broadly, it can also be used to describe anyone who is hiding part of their identity because of social pressure.", "sentence": "Iā€™d say about 80% of my hookups are with ā€œstraightā€ guys that are either closeted, married, actually bi, whatever.", "communities": [ "LGBTQ" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "gaybros", "date": "2023-11-04 06:52:54", "timestamp": 1699077174.0 } }, { "id": "114687", "term": "bambi lesbian", "definition": "A lesbian who identifies as bambi-sexual, i.e. being more interested in kissing, carressing, cuddling, etc. than genital stimulation or sexual intercourse.", "sentence": "Am I a bambi lesbian or nah?", "communities": [ "lesbian" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "lgbt", "date": "2021-01-09 23:37:22", "timestamp": 1610231842.0 } }, { "id": "214508", "term": "punks", "definition": "A slang term with multiple meanings depending on context. Originally used to refer to a sex worker or prostitute, especially a passive or feminine gay man (or a bottom). By the early 20th century, used to refer to a person considered worthless or criminal in nature. By the 1970s, used to refer to punk rock, a punk rocker, or to the sociocultural movement associated with punk rock and its fans. In the modern gay male community, the term \"punk\" may refer to a smaller, typically younger gay man who is forced into a submissive role in prison settings by an older gay man. Also occasionally used as a synonym for \"clock\" or \"read\", i.e. when a cisgender person recognizes a person as transgender.", "sentence": "When I looked it up I found the fandom to be mostly the kind of pathetic little punks that would happily throw a brick at a queer.", "communities": [ "transgender", "gay male" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "gaymers", "date": "2023-09-24 18:52:56", "timestamp": 1695574376.0 } }, { "id": "947", "term": "gender identity", "definition": "A personal identity one develops in childhood that one belongs to a gender category, multiple gender categories, or no gender categories.", "sentence": "There was sort of an academic perception of like every, people have different, people should have agency over their sexual orientation and gender identity, even if it's not quote, innate.", "communities": [], "metadata": { "source": "Podcasts", "title": "The Ezra Klein Show" } }, { "id": "224943", "term": "read", "definition": "To call attention to someone's flaws in a playful, taunting, or insulting manner; alternatively, to recognize someone as being transgender (to clock).", "sentence": "I am in the middle of Arkansas, and an eight-year-old child just read me.", "communities": [ "drag", "transgender" ], "metadata": { "source": "OpenSubtitles", "title": "Transamerica", "imdb_id": "407265" } }, { "id": "79764", "term": "friend of dorothy", "definition": "Coded slang for gay. Referring to gay icon Judy Garland's Dorothy in The Wizard of Oz.", "sentence": "There were codes ā€“ green carnations (thanks Oscar Wilde) or asking ā€œAre you a friend of Dorothy?ā€ (Judy Garland/ā€œWizard of Ozā€ reference) to signal oneā€™s orientation.", "communities": [ "gay male" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "bisexual", "date": "2025-06-27 17:44:01", "timestamp": 1751039041.0 } }, { "id": "100210", "term": "straggot", "definition": "A portmanteau of \"straight\" (heterosexual) and the slur \"faggot\". Usually used in a joking and/or reclamatory sense to describe heterosexual people who are homophobic.", "sentence": "If you display your homophobia imma say you're closeted or you're a straggot.", "communities": [ "LGBTQ" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "lgbt", "date": "2020-12-25 18:58:34", "timestamp": 1608919114.0 } }, { "id": "111029", "term": "squish", "definition": "An aromantic crush; the desire for a non-romantic and/or platonic relationship with another person.", "sentence": "So here's my question- how would you personally separate a crush from a squish?", "communities": [ "aromantic" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "LGBTeens", "date": "2020-11-09 19:29:13", "timestamp": 1604946553.0 } }, { "id": "146733", "term": "twinkhon", "definition": "A trans woman who looks like a femboy or effeminate man.", "sentence": "24 years old 6 months on e i'm still a twinkhon ingmi", "communities": [], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "transgendercirclejerk", "date": "2025-06-22 21:53:35", "timestamp": 1750622015.0 } }, { "id": "99516", "term": "gaymer", "definition": "Gay persons who have active interest in video games or tabletop games.", "sentence": "Just a reminder to grab those badges for Gaymer X, the \"first gaming and geek lifestyle convention with a focus on LGBTQ culture.\"", "communities": [ "LGBTQ" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "gayming", "date": "2013-03-18 20:05:40", "timestamp": 1363633540.0 } }, { "id": "98611", "term": "gaysian", "definition": "Somewhat derogatory term referring to an Asian gay person.", "sentence": "Hey bitches, I'm a North Korean gaysian who has escaped from North Korea.", "communities": [ "LGBTQ" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "askgaybros", "date": "2017-10-24 05:39:30", "timestamp": 1508816370.0 } }, { "id": "228799", "term": "hormones", "definition": "Hormone replacement therapy.", "sentence": "But back to you, we need to jump start your hormones.", "communities": [ "transgender" ], "metadata": { "source": "OpenSubtitles", "title": "The Truth About Jane", "imdb_id": "256459" } }, { "id": "206268", "term": "poz", "definition": "ā€¢ HIV positive.\nā€¢ To infect (someone) with a sexually transmitted infection; especially HIV.", "sentence": "You say youā€™re poz undetectable.", "communities": [], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "gay", "date": "2023-01-25 15:48:46", "timestamp": 1674658126.0 } }, { "id": "219560", "term": "queen", "definition": "A gay man who is considered to be feminine.", "sentence": "Some queen next door's got Mozart cranked.", "communities": [ "gay male" ], "metadata": { "source": "OpenSubtitles", "title": "A Home at the End of the World", "imdb_id": "359423" } }, { "id": "100246", "term": "queerspawn", "definition": "The children of same-sex parents; broadly, the children of parents who consider themselves queer or as having queer identities.", "sentence": "I would definitely count our queerspawn as part of the community, more than allies, regardless of their gender identity or sexual orientation.", "communities": [ "LGBTQ" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "AskLGBT", "date": "2025-04-16 07:20:27", "timestamp": 1744780827.0 } }, { "id": "227371", "term": "drag queen", "definition": "ā€¢ A male entertainer who performs dressed as a woman; a female impersonator.\nā€¢ A male-to-female cross-dresser.", "sentence": "You know, I fucking hate being the token drag queen.", "communities": [], "metadata": { "source": "OpenSubtitles", "title": "Billy's Hollywood Screen Kiss", "imdb_id": "137386" } }, { "id": "106665", "term": "repressor", "definition": "A transgender person who fights or represses the wish to change their gender expression.", "sentence": "I was a repressor before coming out, not overly masculine, but also not queer.", "communities": [ "transgender" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "asktransgender", "date": "2018-07-13 14:42:18", "timestamp": 1531485738.0 } }, { "id": "116724", "term": "man cave", "definition": "Crude slang sometimes used to refer to a transmasculine person's or a trans man's vagina", "sentence": "The pH down in the man cave also is changing and often yields some different smells", "communities": [ "transmasculine" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "ftm", "date": "2025-04-20 21:08:31", "timestamp": 1745176111.0 } }, { "id": "206303", "term": "poz", "definition": "ā€¢ HIV positive.\nā€¢ To infect (someone) with a sexually transmitted infection; especially HIV.", "sentence": "I dated a poz-u for a few months.", "communities": [], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "askgaybros", "date": "2022-10-01 21:22:34", "timestamp": 1664652154.0 } }, { "id": "106597", "term": "peak trans", "definition": "Signifying of a moment in which a transgender person considers their affirmed gender confirmed to a significant extent by an outside influencer.", "sentence": "I hit peak trans when my nearly 10 month old said \"Dada\" while reaching out to me when my husband (who is called Papa) was holding him.", "communities": [ "transgender" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "traaaaaaannnnnnnnnns", "date": "2018-04-06 03:12:27", "timestamp": 1522977147.0 } }, { "id": "106638", "term": "baby trans", "definition": "Someone who has recently discovered that they are transgender.", "sentence": "This baby trans could use some help!", "communities": [ "transgender", "transgender" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "transvoice", "date": "2018-06-18 04:33:15", "timestamp": 1529289195.0 } }, { "id": "997", "term": "slay", "definition": "Used to express approval or amazement.", "sentence": "Like go, thrive, slay.", "communities": [ "drag" ], "metadata": { "source": "Podcasts", "title": "Cancelled with Tana Mongeau & Brooke Schofield" } }, { "id": "129013", "term": "gyal", "definition": "A girl.", "sentence": "As a gyal and drag queen, Iā€™m obsessedšŸ˜­šŸ’• u look adorbs omggg", "communities": [], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "Drag", "date": "2025-05-10 02:26:34", "timestamp": 1746836794.0 } }, { "id": "228893", "term": "poppers", "definition": "Drugs of the alkyl nitrate class used recreationally as a sexual stimulant, especially among gay men.", "sentence": "I'VE NEVER BEEN INTO POPPERS OR DRUGS OR REALLY SLEEPING AROUND THAT MUCH.", "communities": [ "gay" ], "metadata": { "source": "OpenSubtitles", "title": "Longtime Companion", "imdb_id": "100049" } }, { "id": "158894", "term": "duderus", "definition": "The uterus of a trans man.", "sentence": "Now Im gonna be bleeding out of my chest AND my stupid duderus", "communities": [ "transgender" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "ftm", "date": "2021-08-19 19:06:46", "timestamp": 1629392806.0 } }, { "id": "115658", "term": "lesbro", "definition": "A man who is considered an \"honorary lesbian\" by lesbian friends; otherwise, rarely, a lesbian who is considered stereotypically masculine, i.e. a \"bro\".", "sentence": "*Hey this is my lesbro's girlfriend resume.", "communities": [ "lesbian" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "lgbt", "date": "2015-03-18 03:19:36", "timestamp": 1426645176.0 } }, { "id": "88059", "term": "top", "definition": "ā€¢ A \"top\" is an individual who acts as the \"giving\" partner in sexual encounters. Sometimes used as a self-descriptor within queer communities, but should be replicated with caution. Sometimes used as a verb (\"to top someone\"). Offensive if applied to LGBTQ+ individuals from outwith queer communities.\nā€¢ Someone, typically a man, who is penetrating someone else during sexual intercourse or someone who has a preference for penetrating during such intercourse.", "sentence": "I think I became a better top after finally bottoming.", "communities": [ "LGBTQ" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "askgaybros", "date": "2024-10-11 07:30:34", "timestamp": 1728624634.0 } }, { "id": "228695", "term": "butch", "definition": "ā€¢ Traditionally, a lesbian who appears \"masculine\" or acts in a \"masculine\" manner. However, the term is often used to describe a wide variety of gender expressions and identities adjacent to masculinity or \"butchilinity\".\nā€¢ Heterosexual.", "sentence": "It's very hard to find anyone here who will identify with the term butch.", "communities": [ "lesbian" ], "metadata": { "source": "OpenSubtitles", "title": "Venus Boyz", "imdb_id": "293685" } }, { "id": "108107", "term": "t4t", "definition": "Short form of \"trans for trans\", indicating transgender persons interested in other transgender persons romantically and/or sexually.", "sentence": "My (limited) experience is that dating T4T makes a pretty big difference.", "communities": [ "transgender" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "asktransgender", "date": "2024-03-26 03:26:14", "timestamp": 1711419974.0 } }, { "id": "203165", "term": "cunty", "definition": "Amazing or very good or cool, especially with regard to femininity.", "sentence": "Hey guys, does anyone know what is a well fitting replacement for saying \"something is cunty\" in a corporate setting?", "communities": [], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "lgbt", "date": "2025-06-26 12:55:40", "timestamp": 1750935340.0 } }, { "id": "1583", "term": "lgbt", "definition": "Initialism for lesbian, gay, bisexual, and transgender.", "sentence": "That is one criticism of modern LGBT politics.", "communities": [], "metadata": { "source": "Podcasts", "title": "The Witch Trials of J.K. Rowling" } }, { "id": "203091", "term": "VT", "definition": "Initialism of voice training.", "sentence": "I think my voice is masculine, and I wanted to know how to find someone for VT.", "communities": [ "transgender" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "asktransgender", "date": "2025-01-27 15:45:15", "timestamp": 1737989115.0 } }, { "id": "157487", "term": "vers", "definition": "ā€¢ LGBTQ+ community slang for someone who \"switches\" between the \"giving\" and \"receiving\" during sex. \"Vers\" is short for \"versatile.\" \"Switch\" is sometimes also used in a BDSM context, to indicate someone who \"switches\" between the dominant and submissive roles.\nā€¢ One who is willing to take either a submissive or a dominant role in a sexual relationship.", "sentence": "I would say compared to past now we have more vers visibility however I wish more people are enthusiastic about vers in general rather seeing them as a niche category.", "communities": [ "gay" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "gaybros", "date": "2024-02-01 21:25:16", "timestamp": 1706819116.0 } }, { "id": "2541", "term": "shade", "definition": "A slang term referring to a kind of insult, typically non-verbal in nature. Journalist Anna Holmes called shade \"the art of the sidelong insult\". Merriam-Webster defines it as \"subtle, sneering expression of contempt for or disgust with someoneā€”sometimes verbal, and sometimes not\".", "sentence": "And it's, I got to say, no shade on Rolling Stone, because their article was useful too, but it's the best single source on this guy.", "communities": [ "drag" ], "metadata": { "source": "Podcasts", "title": "Behind the Bastards" } }, { "id": "113714", "term": "carpet muncher", "definition": "A lesbian", "sentence": "I was called a fag, a dyke, carpet muncher.", "communities": [ "lesbian" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "queer", "date": "2021-12-16 09:33:40", "timestamp": 1639643620.0 } }, { "id": "84345", "term": "homo", "definition": "Shortened form of \"homosexual.\" Often derogatory.", "sentence": "I'm not saying \"therefore she's homo/trans-phobic\" - I believe in treating everyone like an individual.", "communities": [], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "transgenderUK", "date": "2022-10-16 23:44:00", "timestamp": 1665956640.0 } }, { "id": "101515", "term": "enban", "definition": "An adult nonbinary person.", "sentence": "so, for the word enban, my first instinct is to pronounce it /enbÉŖn/, to go along with the first syllable being stressed and second reduced that we see in woman.", "communities": [ "nonbinary" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "NonBinary", "date": "2024-08-21 23:07:49", "timestamp": 1724274469.0 } }, { "id": "227367", "term": "drag queen", "definition": "ā€¢ A male entertainer who performs dressed as a woman; a female impersonator.\nā€¢ A male-to-female cross-dresser.", "sentence": "The winner of this year's Drag Queen Of America contest... Hey, now.", "communities": [], "metadata": { "source": "OpenSubtitles", "title": "To Wong Foo, Thanks for Everything! Julie Newmar", "imdb_id": "114682" } }, { "id": "168293", "term": "girlcock", "definition": "The penis of a trans woman.", "sentence": "He's now going between my girlcock and my boobs.", "communities": [ "transgender" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "TransSupport", "date": "2018-05-29 04:00:39", "timestamp": 1527559239.0 } }, { "id": "91566", "term": "clock", "definition": "To take notice of, to realize, or to recognize someone as being transgender.", "sentence": "Iā€™m a trans guy but I donā€™t think theyā€™re clocking me as transā€¦ I usually get called the f slur by people.", "communities": [ "drag", "transgender" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "gayjews", "date": "2025-02-27 04:01:03", "timestamp": 1740625263.0 } }, { "id": "228892", "term": "poppers", "definition": "Drugs of the alkyl nitrate class used recreationally as a sexual stimulant, especially among gay men.", "sentence": "OF COURSE STRAIGHT PEOPLE USE POPPERS.", "communities": [ "gay" ], "metadata": { "source": "OpenSubtitles", "title": "Longtime Companion", "imdb_id": "100049" } }, { "id": "115164", "term": "soft butch", "definition": "A lesbian who exhibits some stereotypical butch traits without fitting the masculine stereotype associated with butch lesbians.", "sentence": "It's not boy moding- it's giving soft butch šŸ’–", "communities": [ "lesbian" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "transtimelines", "date": "2025-05-17 02:09:42", "timestamp": 1747440582.0 } }, { "id": "95912", "term": "gaydar", "definition": "A colloquialism referring to the intuitive ability of a person to assess others' sexual orientations as gay, bisexual or heterosexual. Gaydar relies on verbal and non-verbal clues and LGBTQ stereotypes. These include the sensitivity to social behaviors and mannerisms; for instance, acknowledging flamboyant body language, the tone of voice used by a person when speaking, overtly rejecting traditional gender roles, a person's occupation, and grooming habits.", "sentence": "So, do a lot of you have gaydar?", "communities": [ "LGBTQ" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "gaymers", "date": "2012-06-18 06:18:30", "timestamp": 1339993110.0 } }, { "id": "123892", "term": "poof", "definition": "An offensive term referring to a gay man or a feminine man. Used chiefly in Britain, Australia, and New Zealand.", "sentence": "> Songs such as Fairytale of New York, can no longer be played, because of the word poof", "communities": [ "gay male" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "gay", "date": "2020-02-26 18:24:34", "timestamp": 1582737874.0 } }, { "id": "86274", "term": "stud", "definition": "ā€¢ Community term for an African-American and/or Latinx masculine queer woman. Also known as \"ag.\" Only use if someone self-describes in this way, and avoid using for white people, as this is a term specifically developed by and for African-American and Latinx communities.\nā€¢ A masculine or butch lesbian; predominantly utilized in Black and Latina lesbian communities. Should not be used by individuals outside of those communities, as it may be seen as pejorative. Sometimes expanded to refer to other gender identities and expressions.", "sentence": "More Black and Brown butches use the term stud, but I'm known plenty of white working class women that did too.", "communities": [ "lesbian", "Latine lesbian", "African-American lesbian" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "olderlesbians", "date": "2020-04-07 07:57:21", "timestamp": 1586239041.0 } }, { "id": "77008", "term": "egg", "definition": "Slang term (originating online) for a person who has not yet realised they are transgender, has not yet come out, or is in the early stages of transitioning. Usually used (fondly) by trans people to recognise when aspects of someone's personality or behavior remind them of gender-related aspects of themselves before they realized they were trans.", "sentence": "Maybe just curiosity, being an ally, but that sub tends to break eggs, even if those who don't even know they're eggs when they first find it (šŸ™‹ā€ā™€ļø).", "communities": [ "transgender", "transgender" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "mypartneristrans", "date": "2022-12-01 20:05:04", "timestamp": 1669921504.0 } }, { "id": "108950", "term": "tryke", "definition": "A slang term for transgender lesbian, formed from \"trans\" and \"dyke\".", "sentence": "Thus logically a trans dyke is a tryke", "communities": [ "transfeminine" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "transgendercirclejerk", "date": "2024-01-31 19:25:09", "timestamp": 1706725509.0 } }, { "id": "206481", "term": "useless lesbian", "definition": "A lesbian who is socially or romantically inept with other women.", "sentence": "ā€˜Tiffany you useless lesbianā€™ is now my go to quote", "communities": [], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "gay", "date": "2021-04-28 11:09:38", "timestamp": 1619600978.0 } }, { "id": "99359", "term": "total top", "definition": "A total top is one who assumes an exclusively penetrative role for sex.", "sentence": "Anyway, my husband was a total top because he didn't like bottoming at all.", "communities": [ "LGBTQ" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "gaybros", "date": "2024-04-17 03:37:09", "timestamp": 1713317829.0 } }, { "id": "115178", "term": "soft butch", "definition": "A lesbian who exhibits some stereotypical butch traits without fitting the masculine stereotype associated with butch lesbians.", "sentence": "I want to be clear I am soft butch/futch.", "communities": [ "lesbian" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "MtF", "date": "2021-09-22 18:52:26", "timestamp": 1632329546.0 } }, { "id": "170470", "term": "spiro", "definition": "Clipping of spironolactone.", "sentence": "Especially if itā€™s just to stay on spiro.", "communities": [ "transgender" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "asktransgender", "date": "2025-01-09 03:09:04", "timestamp": 1736388544.0 } }, { "id": "204403", "term": "folx", "definition": "Folks; people.", "sentence": "I identify as queer, and I am working on my thesis project highlighting the lives of queer folx throughout history.", "communities": [], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "lgbthistory", "date": "2022-04-27 18:45:52", "timestamp": 1651077952.0 } }, { "id": "157824", "term": "anticistamines", "definition": "Medication used for transgender hormone replacement therapy.", "sentence": "I want the anticistamines", "communities": [ "transgender" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "traaaaaaannnnnnnnnns", "date": "2021-07-23 03:40:27", "timestamp": 1627004427.0 } }, { "id": "75779", "term": "chaser", "definition": "Short for \"tranny chaser.\" A person who sees trans people (usually trans women) as inherently sexual, and sexually objectifies them. As opposed to someone who simply is predominantly attracted to trans women; a chaser does not view trans women respectfully as people with humanity and agency, but rather as players in a sexual fantasy.", "sentence": "I'm a transgender girl on Grindr,you are definitely not a chaser from your description.", "communities": [], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "mypartneristrans", "date": "2023-10-01 17:35:10", "timestamp": 1696174510.0 } }, { "id": "1575", "term": "lgbt", "definition": "Initialism for lesbian, gay, bisexual, and transgender.", "sentence": "But spoiler alert, JD Vance is a senator now, so we might have some insight into his views about LGBT people that we didn't in 2016.", "communities": [], "metadata": { "source": "Podcasts", "title": "If Books Could Kill" } }, { "id": "83501", "term": "gold star", "definition": "Slang for someone who has never had sex with someone of the opposite gender, sometimes including bisexual people of their own gender. Most commonly used in lesbian communities, now widely recognised as biphobic.", "sentence": "Platinum and Gold Star gays are such cringey terms.", "communities": [], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "gaybros", "date": "2025-03-09 13:16:33", "timestamp": 1741522593.0 } }, { "id": "98667", "term": "versatile", "definition": "Someone who penetrates or is penetrated during sexual intercourse or someone who has a preference for both being penetrated and penetrating during such intercourse.", "sentence": "Started out as bottom but then came versatile as I grew older.", "communities": [ "LGBTQ" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "gaybros", "date": "2021-04-07 10:57:13", "timestamp": 1617785833.0 } }, { "id": "157816", "term": "anticistamines", "definition": "Medication used for transgender hormone replacement therapy.", "sentence": "I call mine Big Boy Juice because itā€™s just awkward enough for me lol, Iā€™ve also heard anticistamines before and got a chuckle", "communities": [ "transgender" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "asktransgender", "date": "2021-04-29 18:27:09", "timestamp": 1619713629.0 } }, { "id": "116657", "term": "chubby chaser", "definition": "A gay male person who is attracted sexually and/or romantically to obesity.", "sentence": "I live in the San Francisco Bay Area (East Bay) and I have never met a Chubby Chaser in my life.", "communities": [ "chub" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "askgaybros", "date": "2023-02-24 08:33:54", "timestamp": 1677224034.0 } }, { "id": "116832", "term": "cub", "definition": "A younger or younger-looking bear, sometimes with a smaller frame (\"bear\" meaning \"a gay or bisexual man who has facial/body hair and a cuddly body\").", "sentence": "Tell me LGBT people (if you can please) As a cub, where can I go to meet other cute twinks?", "communities": [ "gay", "bear" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "lgbt", "date": "2010-01-28 09:23:55", "timestamp": 1264667035.0 } }, { "id": "101631", "term": "femby", "definition": "A slang term sometimes used to refer to femme enbies (non-binary people) or non-binary women. A portmanteau of \"femme\" and \"enby\".", "sentence": "In terms of labels I prefer to still keep it a bit generalised and call it enby, but if you find comfort in the term femby, rock on!", "communities": [ "nonbinary" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "NonBinary", "date": "2022-09-10 15:36:13", "timestamp": 1662816973.0 } }, { "id": "91448", "term": "clock", "definition": "To take notice of, to realize, or to recognize someone as being transgender.", "sentence": "Getting clocked happens, what you do about it is what matters.", "communities": [ "drag", "transgender" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "TransSupport", "date": "2015-08-18 10:03:52", "timestamp": 1439885032.0 } }, { "id": "222944", "term": "straight", "definition": "Of a person, being sexually attracted to individuals of the opposite gender in a binary gender system; heterosexual.", "sentence": "You talked about your emotional problems with a roomful of straight men?", "communities": [], "metadata": { "source": "OpenSubtitles", "title": "Bedrooms and Hallways", "imdb_id": "126810" } }, { "id": "116747", "term": "front hole", "definition": "Slang for vagina, often used by transmasculine persons assigned female at birth.", "sentence": "Are there any tools/strategies for coping with front hole dysphoria, specifically?", "communities": [ "transmasculine" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "ftm", "date": "2021-10-19 01:41:34", "timestamp": 1634600494.0 } }, { "id": "1324", "term": "unicorn", "definition": "A bisexual woman who engages in a sexual, but usually non-romantic, relationship with a heterosexual couple.", "sentence": "It does exist and there are also unicorn hunters, usually men, who seek out bisexual women to have threesomes with.", "communities": [ "bisexual female" ], "metadata": { "source": "Podcasts", "title": "40ish" } }, { "id": "106718", "term": "ewphoria", "definition": "A combination of gender euphoria with feelings of disgust, revulsion, or discomfort, resulting from one's gender identity being affirmed by bigoted, predatory, or creepy behavior by others.", "sentence": "Does anyone else get gender ewphoria?", "communities": [ "transgender", "transgender" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "NonBinary", "date": "2024-12-17 00:32:35", "timestamp": 1734391955.0 } }, { "id": "205722", "term": "neo", "definition": "Clipping of neopronoun.", "sentence": "I'm not particularly 'against' neos, I'm just not sure they serve the purpose that pronouns do.", "communities": [], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "lgbt", "date": "2023-10-13 13:25:48", "timestamp": 1697196348.0 } }, { "id": "90712", "term": "slay", "definition": "Used to express approval or amazement.", "sentence": "This post is not about you guys, y'all slay.", "communities": [ "drag" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "actuallesbians", "date": "2023-08-12 03:50:56", "timestamp": 1691805056.0 } }, { "id": "206488", "term": "useless lesbian", "definition": "A lesbian who is socially or romantically inept with other women.", "sentence": "Thing is, I'm also very much a useless lesbian so I'm screwed.", "communities": [], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "asexuality", "date": "2021-03-15 07:15:46", "timestamp": 1615788946.0 } }, { "id": "108941", "term": "cotton ceiling", "definition": "A term used for the tendency for cisgender lesbians to not want to engage in sexual activities with transgender women, particular those who have not yet undergone feminizing genitoplasty; or, more broadly, the tendency for cisgender lesbians to exclude transgender women from spaces.", "sentence": "So the difficulty with the cotton ceiling argument for me, isn't the argument, it's the ambiguity of the prejudice.", "communities": [ "transfeminine", "lesbian" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "transgender", "date": "2013-12-14 17:13:15", "timestamp": 1387037595.0 } }, { "id": "101485", "term": "theyfab", "definition": "A slang term for a nonbinary person who is assigned female at birth.", "sentence": "/uj can we please not unironically use terms like theyfab?", "communities": [ "nonbinary" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "transgendercirclejerk", "date": "2023-07-22 01:49:35", "timestamp": 1689983375.0 } }, { "id": "84843", "term": "punk", "definition": "A slang term with multiple meanings depending on context. Originally used to refer to a sex worker or prostitute, especially a passive or feminine gay man (or a bottom). By the early 20th century, used to refer to a person considered worthless or criminal in nature. By the 1970s, used to refer to punk rock, a punk rocker, or to the sociocultural movement associated with punk rock and its fans. In the modern gay male community, the term \"punk\" may refer to a smaller, typically younger gay man who is forced into a submissive role in prison settings by an older gay man. Also occasionally used as a synonym for \"clock\" or \"read\", i.e. when a cisgender person recognizes a person as transgender.", "sentence": "When a homophobe says their punk i facepalm so fucking hard šŸ™„", "communities": [ "transgender", "gay male" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "lgbt", "date": "2022-06-12 09:41:54", "timestamp": 1655019714.0 } }, { "id": "115653", "term": "stone butch", "definition": "Typically, a lesbian who is butch or otherwise displays traditional \"masculinity\". Alternatively, a subculture of persons identifying as stone butch as opposed to femme or \"high femme\". Such persons may be non-binary or have other various gender identities.", "sentence": "I was recommended Stone Butch Blues and The Persistent Desire: A Femme-Butch Reader!", "communities": [ "lesbian" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "lesbian", "date": "2023-02-12 22:09:38", "timestamp": 1676236178.0 } }, { "id": "115560", "term": "stone butch", "definition": "Typically, a lesbian who is butch or otherwise displays traditional \"masculinity\". Alternatively, a subculture of persons identifying as stone butch as opposed to femme or \"high femme\". Such persons may be non-binary or have other various gender identities.", "sentence": "Every time one is tempted to participate in community infighting, they must stop, and go read Stone Butch Blues by Leslie Feinberg instead.", "communities": [ "lesbian" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "actuallesbians", "date": "2025-06-10 00:58:04", "timestamp": 1749509884.0 } }, { "id": "214574", "term": "studs", "definition": "ā€¢ Community term for an African-American and/or Latinx masculine queer woman. Also known as \"ag.\" Only use if someone self-describes in this way, and avoid using for white people, as this is a term specifically developed by and for African-American and Latinx communities.\nā€¢ A masculine or butch lesbian; predominantly utilized in Black and Latina lesbian communities. Should not be used by individuals outside of those communities, as it may be seen as pejorative. Sometimes expanded to refer to other gender identities and expressions.", "sentence": "Now if you're referring to studs being more \"stoic\" like, I can see that.", "communities": [ "lesbian", "Latine lesbian", "African-American lesbian" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "actuallesbians", "date": "2025-07-03 06:12:31", "timestamp": 1751515951.0 } }, { "id": "203301", "term": "doll", "definition": "A transgender woman or transfeminine person.", "sentence": "Hey, Iā€™m just wondering how trans women feel generally about people calling you the dolls.", "communities": [], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "asktransgender", "date": "2025-06-13 10:39:18", "timestamp": 1749803958.0 } }, { "id": "123683", "term": "hunk", "definition": "A muscular, handsome gay man.", "sentence": "Two hunks hugging each other...who wouldn't find that cute.", "communities": [ "gay male" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "gay", "date": "2019-12-15 11:02:22", "timestamp": 1576404142.0 } }, { "id": "158065", "term": "clocky", "definition": "Clearly identifiable as transgender; capable of being easily clocked; not passing.", "sentence": "if clocky good then why clocky get hatecrimed", "communities": [ "transgender" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "transgendercirclejerk", "date": "2023-06-20 04:28:00", "timestamp": 1687228080.0 } }, { "id": "108926", "term": "cotton ceiling", "definition": "A term used for the tendency for cisgender lesbians to not want to engage in sexual activities with transgender women, particular those who have not yet undergone feminizing genitoplasty; or, more broadly, the tendency for cisgender lesbians to exclude transgender women from spaces.", "sentence": "Feel free to share your opinions on the cotton ceiling or similar concepts.", "communities": [ "transfeminine", "lesbian" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "asktransgender", "date": "2017-05-09 06:52:16", "timestamp": 1494305536.0 } }, { "id": "444", "term": "bj", "definition": "Initialism of blow job.", "sentence": "And she's like, well, did you give him a BJ?", "communities": [], "metadata": { "source": "Podcasts", "title": "KhloĆ© in Wonder Land" } }, { "id": "113951", "term": "futch", "definition": "A person who exhibits traits of both a femme (often used to describe a wide variety of gender expressions and identities adjacent to feminine or femme-ness) and a butch (often used to describe a wide variety of gender expressions and identities adjacent to masculinity or \"butchilinity\").", "sentence": "Only really useful for girls aiming for the more fem side of the make-up spectrum, so I get why it wouldn't jibe with futch aesthetic as much.", "communities": [ "lesbian" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "MtF", "date": "2022-03-11 19:53:50", "timestamp": 1647024830.0 } }, { "id": "109073", "term": "titty skittle", "definition": "Oral estrogen taken by transgender woman and other transfeminine people.", "sentence": "Oh, and fem'n'ems, titty skittles.. love those names for pills.", "communities": [ "transgender", "transfeminine" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "transgenderUK", "date": "2019-03-28 22:18:28", "timestamp": 1553807908.0 } }, { "id": "101659", "term": "enbyfriend", "definition": "A nonbinary sexual and/or romantic partner.", "sentence": "I still want to use boyfriend instead of enbyfriend, aswell as people irl calling me a guy as to not cause confusion and whatnot.", "communities": [ "nonbinary" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "lgbt", "date": "2023-09-05 01:16:34", "timestamp": 1693869394.0 } }, { "id": "206490", "term": "useless lesbian", "definition": "A lesbian who is socially or romantically inept with other women.", "sentence": "Based on my track record...the useless lesbian :P", "communities": [], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "MtF", "date": "2021-12-07 06:05:00", "timestamp": 1638853500.0 } }, { "id": "140169", "term": "BJ", "definition": "Initialism of blow job.", "sentence": "It's not the most sensual but.. how about a BJ with a condom on?", "communities": [], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "bisexual", "date": "2017-01-06 09:41:49", "timestamp": 1483692109.0 } }, { "id": "158753", "term": "cunt", "definition": "ā€¢ The anus of a trans woman.\nā€¢ The inguinal canals of a trans woman.\nā€¢ Amazing or very good.", "sentence": "Anyone can serve cunt, and I think it's a popular term in the wider LGBTQ community.", "communities": [ "transgender" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "asktransgender", "date": "2024-08-25 14:06:41", "timestamp": 1724587601.0 } }, { "id": "76133", "term": "drag family", "definition": "In the US, a group of drag queens who have been mentored by a \"mother,\" also known as a \"house.\" These groups often take on family drag names and form close-knit communities.", "sentence": "And your drag family are magnificent!", "communities": [], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "Drag", "date": "2023-07-30 06:33:59", "timestamp": 1690691639.0 } }, { "id": "214701", "term": "swishy", "definition": "Slang for a feminine gay man, originating from 1930s USA. Not especially offensive, but should still be accompanied by clearer LGBTQ+ terminology to aid discoverability.", "sentence": "Thank you for saying, ā€œTheyā€™re all jerks, who needs ā€˜em anyway!ā€ when I told you ā€œIā€™m too swishy for the Indian crowd,ā€ and ā€œIā€™m too Indian for the swishy crowd.ā€", "communities": [], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "lgbt", "date": "2011-12-19 15:54:06", "timestamp": 1324306446.0 } }, { "id": "213172", "term": "gym bunny", "definition": "A sports enthusiast; usually one who frequents gyms and training grounds; often used of young gay men obsessed with body building.", "sentence": "A gym bunny will most likely be attracted to other gym bunnies or gym rats, because they're attracted to sculpted muscular figures.", "communities": [], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "gaymers", "date": "2011-11-15 09:11:33", "timestamp": 1321344693.0 } }, { "id": "108780", "term": "boymode", "definition": "When a transgender person presents a gender expression codified as male, typically if that person is a transgender woman. Usually used in the context of going incognito as a cisgender man.", "sentence": "I've been thinking about getting my eyebrows done for a few weeks now, but I'm pretty much in permanent boymode.", "communities": [ "transgender", "transgender" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "transgenderUK", "date": "2018-04-30 23:50:26", "timestamp": 1525125026.0 } }, { "id": "115519", "term": "pillow princess", "definition": "A woman who likes to receive and not give, sexually.", "sentence": "Which is dumb because I do know about pillow princess.", "communities": [ "lesbian" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "olderlesbians", "date": "2025-04-10 03:06:08", "timestamp": 1744247168.0 } }, { "id": "116842", "term": "cub", "definition": "A younger or younger-looking bear, sometimes with a smaller frame (\"bear\" meaning \"a gay or bisexual man who has facial/body hair and a cuddly body\").", "sentence": "Personally I'm 18 and am twink/twunk but I am dating a guy that's 21 and he is a cub.", "communities": [ "gay", "bear" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "gaybros", "date": "2019-06-28 13:11:36", "timestamp": 1561720296.0 } }, { "id": "107410", "term": "bottom surgery", "definition": "A slang term used to refer to genital gender-affirming surgeries.", "sentence": "There are two common kinds of bottom surgery for trans men, and there's a subreddit for each of them where you can learn more.", "communities": [ "transgender" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "ftm", "date": "2024-12-01 02:48:00", "timestamp": 1733017680.0 } }, { "id": "6576", "term": "dirt", "definition": "ā€¢ Slang for an individual who blackmails or robs a gay person.\r\nā€¢ Gossip; rumor; scandal; criticism.\r\nā€¢ Heroin\r\nā€¢ A tobacco cigarette.", "sentence": "Rocky will later claim that in this period, Kevin even hires a private detective to dig up dirt on Keiko.", "communities": [ "gay male" ], "metadata": { "source": "Podcasts", "title": "Scamfluencers" } }, { "id": "101682", "term": "enbyfriend", "definition": "A nonbinary sexual and/or romantic partner.", "sentence": "Just ask them how they feel about it, if theyā€™re not sure suggest enbyfriend or something", "communities": [ "nonbinary" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "traaaaaaannnnnnnnnns", "date": "2022-01-12 22:07:24", "timestamp": 1642021644.0 } }, { "id": "146425", "term": "hondose", "definition": "A low dose of hormone replacement therapy in a trans woman which produces inadequate feminization and fails to suppress testosterone.", "sentence": "I thought I was getting hondosed what do yall think could cause my levels to be so high?", "communities": [], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "asktransgender", "date": "2024-12-16 13:25:23", "timestamp": 1734351923.0 } }, { "id": "151289", "term": "boywife", "definition": "A young male assuming the employment of homemaking, a role traditionally assumed by women; the submissive partner in the relationship who receives great pleasure in \"taking care\" of his more dominant partner.", "sentence": "i canā€™t decide whether iā€™m a boywife or if i want one āœØ", "communities": [ "gay" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "GayBroTeens", "date": "2025-02-08 23:30:23", "timestamp": 1739053823.0 } }, { "id": "117686", "term": "baby gay", "definition": "A person who has recently come out in relationship to a marginalized sexual or gender identity.", "sentence": "Many thanks from a baby gay!!", "communities": [ "gay male" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "queer", "date": "2024-10-27 19:22:28", "timestamp": 1730053348.0 } }, { "id": "206443", "term": "throw shade", "definition": "To subtly insult someone.", "sentence": "I donā€™t know how to throw shade.", "communities": [], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "askgaybros", "date": "2025-05-15 06:07:24", "timestamp": 1747282044.0 } }, { "id": "107217", "term": "deep stealth", "definition": "Referring to a transgender person who is not known to be trans by most of the people they interact with on a daily basis, even a sexual or romantic partner.", "sentence": "But I had worked too hard, and suffered too much to be labeled a trans woman, and I felt deep stealth was probably the best way to go.", "communities": [ "transgender" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "lgbt", "date": "2015-05-19 14:48:46", "timestamp": 1432039726.0 } }, { "id": "129015", "term": "gyal", "definition": "A girl.", "sentence": "I have always been a sporty gyal, so I got along well with the sporty boys.", "communities": [], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "Asexual", "date": "2024-02-01 11:07:20", "timestamp": 1706782040.0 } }, { "id": "143242", "term": "GLBT", "definition": "Initialism for gay, lesbian, bisexual, and transgender.", "sentence": "Contact the GLBT center at State.", "communities": [], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "LGBTriangle", "date": "2022-09-01 14:11:10", "timestamp": 1662034270.0 } }, { "id": "1743", "term": "kink", "definition": "ā€¢ A specific sexual desire, practice, or activity considered unconventional but within certain socially constructed boundaries.\r\nā€¢ A thief or burglar.", "sentence": "Even Cannibal Cop Gilberto Valle weighed in, telling the New York Post, quote, I don't know if he could be facing legal trouble or it's just kink-shaming.", "communities": [], "metadata": { "source": "Podcasts", "title": "KILLED" } }, { "id": "146676", "term": "transmaxx", "definition": "To undergo gender transition (particularly from male to female) for the perceived social advantages that come with being the opposite sex, especially as regards the sexual marketplace.", "sentence": "So I may be falling down a rabbit hole of propaganda but I was curious about if there where any ppl who are transmaxxers in this sub.", "communities": [], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "asktransgender", "date": "2023-05-06 13:56:38", "timestamp": 1683374198.0 } }, { "id": "206281", "term": "poz", "definition": "ā€¢ HIV positive.\r\nā€¢ To infect (someone) with a sexually transmitted infection; especially HIV.", "sentence": "Some guys just mean it to suggest theyā€™re comfortable with Poz guys, but in general the phrase has these connotations.", "communities": [], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "askgaybros", "date": "2020-09-08 18:23:32", "timestamp": 1599582212.0 } }, { "id": "73488", "term": "bottom", "definition": "ā€¢ A \"bottom\" is an individual who acts as the \"receiving\" partner in sexual encounters. Sometimes used as a self-descriptor within queer communities, but should be replicated with caution. Sometimes used as a verb (\"to bottom for someone\"). Offensive if applied to LGBTQ+ individuals from outwith queer communities.\r\nā€¢ Someone, typically a man, who is penetrated during sexual intercourse or someone who has a preference for being penetrated during such intercourse.\r\nā€¢ The buttocks.\r\nā€¢ Genitalia; genitals.", "sentence": "she also likes having a dick, but she gets bottom dysphoria sometimes whereas i never get it.", "communities": [ "gay", "LGBTQ" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "asktransgender", "date": "2021-05-15 00:29:40", "timestamp": 1621031380.0 } }, { "id": "209098", "term": "yass", "definition": "A strong expression of excitement or admiration.", "sentence": "I think I see a Sassy yass queen šŸ‘‘...", "communities": [], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "transpassing", "date": "2021-05-07 05:49:15", "timestamp": 1620359355.0 } }, { "id": "91815", "term": "realness", "definition": "The state of being real; the ability to blend or pass as heterosexual or cisgender; the quality of passing as a particular role in a particular circumstance.", "sentence": "While serving Hot Dad with Chest Hair and Ink Realness.", "communities": [ "drag", "gay male" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "gaybrosgonemild", "date": "2020-05-03 23:41:47", "timestamp": 1588542107.0 } }, { "id": "169999", "term": "prog", "definition": "Progesterone.", "sentence": "I started hormones in 2019 and I definitely noticed some changes but once I started prog the changes just skyrocketed in the best way.", "communities": [ "transgender" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "lgbt", "date": "2023-10-08 17:34:24", "timestamp": 1696779264.0 } }, { "id": "149498", "term": "the house down", "definition": "Used as an intensifier: very, to a great degree; exceptionally.", "sentence": "What part of BOOTS the house down do these children donā€™t get!?!", "communities": [ "drag" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "rupaulsdragrace", "date": "2019-01-08 20:14:04", "timestamp": 1546974844.0 } }, { "id": "228146", "term": "crush", "definition": "An infatuation with somebody, typically someone that one is not dating. By extension, the object of such infatuation or affection.", "sentence": "Vicky has always had a crush on you.", "communities": [ "LGBTQ" ], "metadata": { "source": "OpenSubtitles", "title": "Things You Can Tell Just by Looking at Her", "imdb_id": "210358" } }, { "id": "79821", "term": "fruit", "definition": "Slang for a gay man, especially for a feminine gay man. Outdated and often offensive, because it implies someone is easily \"picked,\" or associates someone with its other slang meanings of \"dupe,\" \"victim,\" or someone living with mental illness.", "sentence": "Is that why we're called fruity?", "communities": [ "gay male" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "actuallesbians", "date": "2024-12-18 16:30:18", "timestamp": 1734535818.0 } }, { "id": "114709", "term": "bambi lesbian", "definition": "A lesbian who identifies as bambi-sexual, i.e. being more interested in kissing, carressing, cuddling, etc. than genital stimulation or sexual intercourse.", "sentence": "I'm not asexual but I wouldn't be surprised if I'm a bambi lesbian, because while I enjoy sex, most of the time I just want to cuddle", "communities": [ "lesbian" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "actuallesbians", "date": "2020-11-26 22:11:00", "timestamp": 1606425060.0 } }, { "id": "95570", "term": "gay virginity", "definition": "A concept in gay communities in which a person is said to have virginity in relationship to whether they have engaged in sexual activity considered to be gay or otherwise non-heterosexual.", "sentence": "As someone who also lost my gay virginity recently and had the time of my life doing so, I can agree it was AMAZING!", "communities": [ "LGBTQ" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "bisexual", "date": "2022-10-18 01:20:01", "timestamp": 1666048801.0 } }, { "id": "143222", "term": "GLBT", "definition": "Initialism for gay, lesbian, bisexual, and transgender.", "sentence": "Who the hell calls it GLBT lol whoever says that is probably dyslexic", "communities": [], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "comingout", "date": "2024-07-08 02:49:59", "timestamp": 1720399799.0 } }, { "id": "169860", "term": "pre-T", "definition": "Not yet having undergone testosterone-based hormone replacement therapy.", "sentence": "But it won't sound exactly the same as your pre-T voice.", "communities": [ "transgender" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "ftm", "date": "2025-06-01 17:38:15", "timestamp": 1748792295.0 } }, { "id": "85712", "term": "rough trade", "definition": "Slang for a man who identifies as straight, but sometimes has sex with queer men (usually as a \"top\").", "sentence": "I love the gay leather scene, the concept of rough trade, Tom of Finland, wrestling, jock straps, etc.", "communities": [ "gay" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "genderqueer", "date": "2016-02-04 05:08:33", "timestamp": 1454558913.0 } }, { "id": "107988", "term": "transition goal", "definition": "A transgender person's goals for transition, or an example of what they would like to achieve for such a transition (for example, pointing to an actor or musician of their desired gender expression and declaring that person \"transition goals\").", "sentence": "But my transition goals is every guy I meet who has ā€œtĆ­o energy,ā€ I get excited to be like them when Iā€™m older.", "communities": [ "transgender" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "ftm", "date": "2024-04-10 20:25:14", "timestamp": 1712773514.0 } }, { "id": "113731", "term": "U-Haul lesbian", "definition": "A stereotype of lesbian relationships, referring to the joke that lesbians tend to move in together on the second date. It suggests an extreme inclination toward monogamy or committed relationships. It can be considered either complimentary or pejorative, depending on context.", "sentence": "We're both MAJOR U-Haul lesbian and this is my first wlw relationship and omg I love her so much!!!", "communities": [], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "lgbt", "date": "2024-08-08 09:46:14", "timestamp": 1723103174.0 } }, { "id": "101694", "term": "enbyfriend", "definition": "A nonbinary sexual and/or romantic partner.", "sentence": "my partner (I also call him enbyfriend) calls me enbyfriend.", "communities": [ "nonbinary" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "NonBinary", "date": "2025-01-10 10:30:23", "timestamp": 1736501423.0 } }, { "id": "165122", "term": "estro", "definition": "Clipping of estrogen.", "sentence": "So my GP has finally agreed to offer me my prescriptions for estro and spiro.", "communities": [ "transgender" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "transgenderUK", "date": "2022-12-06 17:50:34", "timestamp": 1670345434.0 } }, { "id": "108949", "term": "tryke", "definition": "A slang term for transgender lesbian, formed from \"trans\" and \"dyke\".", "sentence": "So, I'm what I'd describe as a Tryke most days.", "communities": [ "transfeminine" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "MtF", "date": "2016-03-12 18:41:18", "timestamp": 1457804478.0 } }, { "id": "143280", "term": "anti-gay", "definition": "ā€¢ Hostile toward gay people; opposed to gay rights; homophobic.\r\nā€¢ Used by some gay people to refer to aspects of the community in critique, especially homogeneity, conformity, obsession with particular types of appearance, and assimilative behavior.", "sentence": "See also Aaron Schock, gay republican who pushed for anti-gay legislation.", "communities": [], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "gaybros", "date": "2020-12-01 16:52:01", "timestamp": 1606837921.0 } }, { "id": "107845", "term": "transgender broken arm syndrome", "definition": "An experience among transgender persons in which medical professionals tend to blame medical issues on a person's being transgender rather than the actual underlying cause (i.e. such as suggesting that a broken arm was caused by hormone replacement therapy).", "sentence": "Sounds like transgender broken arm syndrome.", "communities": [ "transgender" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "ftm", "date": "2025-04-24 16:53:30", "timestamp": 1745506410.0 } }, { "id": "109665", "term": "fish", "definition": "Derogatory term for cisgender women; also used to refer to drag queens or transgender women who are considered \"passing\" as cisgender women.", "sentence": "So fish I tought it was another beauty selfie from MUA.", "communities": [ "transfeminine" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "Drag", "date": "2019-07-06 20:01:19", "timestamp": 1562436079.0 } }, { "id": "114642", "term": "gold star lesbian", "definition": "A lesbian who has never had sex with a man.", "sentence": "I can't believe people are still bragging about being a gold star lesbian these days.", "communities": [ "lesbian" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "actuallesbians", "date": "2024-03-01 04:11:31", "timestamp": 1709262691.0 } }, { "id": "79619", "term": "flute", "definition": "Outdated slang for fellatio, or someone performing fellatio.", "sentence": "iā€™d let him play my flute for sure", "communities": [], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "gaymers", "date": "2023-08-06 07:14:13", "timestamp": 1691298853.0 } }, { "id": "209104", "term": "yass", "definition": "A strong expression of excitement or admiration.", "sentence": "She also isnt making me go off T so yass.", "communities": [], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "ftm", "date": "2015-08-05 03:21:33", "timestamp": 1438737693.0 } }, { "id": "203152", "term": "šŸ„š", "definition": "Represents an egg, as in a person regarded as having not yet realized they are transgender.", "sentence": "My partner, an amab person seems to be a big šŸ„š.", "communities": [ "transgender" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "trans", "date": "2023-01-31 17:44:00", "timestamp": 1675183440.0 } }, { "id": "116696", "term": "malefailing", "definition": "To be seen as and gender as female while attempting to present as masculine.", "sentence": "/uj Malefailing as a whole lot safer than femalefailing", "communities": [ "transmasculine" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "transgendercirclejerk", "date": "2022-11-12 14:29:41", "timestamp": 1668259781.0 } }, { "id": "157486", "term": "vers", "definition": "ā€¢ LGBTQ+ community slang for someone who \"switches\" between the \"giving\" and \"receiving\" during sex. \"Vers\" is short for \"versatile.\" \"Switch\" is sometimes also used in a BDSM context, to indicate someone who \"switches\" between the dominant and submissive roles.\r\nā€¢ One who is willing to take either a submissive or a dominant role in a sexual relationship.", "sentence": "As a vers guy, i almost feel discriminated against by bottoms who want a total top.", "communities": [ "gay" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "gaybros", "date": "2024-02-01 21:45:27", "timestamp": 1706820327.0 } }, { "id": "123685", "term": "hunk", "definition": "A muscular, handsome gay man.", "sentence": "I feel like buff guys are only dating/hooking up with other hunks.", "communities": [ "gay male" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "askgaybros", "date": "2024-10-11 09:40:53", "timestamp": 1728632453.0 } }, { "id": "120702", "term": "hunty", "definition": "A portmanteau of \"honey\" and \"cunt\", usually considered a term of supposed endearment.", "sentence": "In the words of Mamma Ru, \"When the haters be hating, just sashey away Hunty!", "communities": [ "gay male" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "LGBTQ", "date": "2018-08-25 00:35:53", "timestamp": 1535150153.0 } }, { "id": "165213", "term": "estrogel", "definition": "Estradiol gel used in feminizing hormone replacement therapy.", "sentence": "I found estrogel on simple online pharmacy if that helps", "communities": [ "transgender" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "transgenderUK", "date": "2022-03-11 11:22:58", "timestamp": 1646994178.0 } }, { "id": "83513", "term": "gold star", "definition": "Slang for someone who has never had sex with someone of the opposite gender, sometimes including bisexual people of their own gender. Most commonly used in lesbian communities, now widely recognised as biphobic.", "sentence": "I didn't think it didn't exist, but also, Gold Star term was so bad for me to figure out i was a lesbian when i was younger.", "communities": [], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "actuallesbians", "date": "2025-03-24 17:20:34", "timestamp": 1742833234.0 } }, { "id": "106730", "term": "cis-tem", "definition": "Mainstream culture, controlled by the elites or government of a state, or a combination of them, which is oppressive to transgender persons.", "sentence": "GottMik: ā€œTime to crash the cis-temā€", "communities": [ "transgender" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "rupaulsdragrace", "date": "2021-06-20 11:20:03", "timestamp": 1624180803.0 } }, { "id": "202082", "term": "Tit Tac", "definition": "A pill taken as part of feminizing hormone replacement therapy, especially spironolactone (called by this name due to its peppermint smell) or estrogen such as estradiol.", "sentence": "I know trans girls/women call their hormones a ton of fun names (fem-n-ems, tit tacs, etc), but what fun and quirky names do we trans dudes call our T?", "communities": [ "transgender" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "ftm", "date": "2020-04-06 21:23:24", "timestamp": 1586201004.0 } }, { "id": "157843", "term": "bonus hole", "definition": "The vulva or vagina of a trans man.", "sentence": "Trans Women get a vast plethora of them, even Trans Men get a few as cuntboys or bonus hole boys, but what do enbies get?", "communities": [ "transgender" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "transgendercirclejerk", "date": "2020-12-20 17:55:32", "timestamp": 1608483332.0 } }, { "id": "212402", "term": "tulip", "definition": "Various flowers are used to refer to feminine gay men, though \"pansy\" is probably the most common. Associates gay men with misogynistic ideas of femininity; implies weakness, unthreateneaning appearance, cowardliness. Offensive, often used as an intentional slur.", "sentence": "I hate it, but I go along with him so he doesn't call me a tulip, and so people in town don't misgender me or hate crime me.", "communities": [], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "ftm", "date": "2023-12-15 21:12:48", "timestamp": 1702671168.0 } }, { "id": "123242", "term": "wolf", "definition": "A gay man who falls somewhere between a fox or twink and a bear or cub.", "sentence": "A wolf is the older version of an otter; slim, grey and hairy.", "communities": [ "gay male" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "askgaybros", "date": "2025-03-21 20:14:49", "timestamp": 1742584489.0 } }, { "id": "110241", "term": "zap", "definition": "Slang term for electrolytic epilation.", "sentence": "You will have more terminal hairs pre-HRT, and they are more easily zapped.", "communities": [ "transfeminine" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "asktransgender", "date": "2015-04-21 09:29:09", "timestamp": 1429601349.0 } }, { "id": "114725", "term": "bambi lesbian", "definition": "A lesbian who identifies as bambi-sexual, i.e. being more interested in kissing, carressing, cuddling, etc. than genital stimulation or sexual intercourse.", "sentence": "I currently would say I'm an demisexual lesbian (or bambi lesbian) but it doesn't quite fit.", "communities": [ "lesbian" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "asexuality", "date": "2024-05-31 03:55:01", "timestamp": 1717120501.0 } }, { "id": "204424", "term": "go off", "definition": "To perform extremely well; to be impressive or attractive; often used to express encouragement.", "sentence": "This is inspiring šŸ’«āœØ Go off king šŸ‘‘", "communities": [], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "Androgynoushotties", "date": "2025-07-01 22:33:18", "timestamp": 1751401998.0 } }, { "id": "202106", "term": "trutrans", "definition": "A genuine or legitimate transgender person.", "sentence": "I'm confused... is this trutrans being nasty, a play on trutrans being nasty, or something else I'm missing?", "communities": [ "transgender" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "traaaaaaannnnnnnnnns", "date": "2018-06-30 13:52:41", "timestamp": 1530359561.0 } }, { "id": "169995", "term": "prog", "definition": "Progesterone.", "sentence": "Just hit 9 months on E and just started prog.", "communities": [ "transgender" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "lgbt", "date": "2025-05-18 07:34:41", "timestamp": 1747546481.0 } }, { "id": "146343", "term": "hon", "definition": "A trans woman who does not pass; a clocky (clearly identifiable as transgender) trans woman.", "sentence": "/uj Hon is 4chan speech for a non-passing trans woman, often insinuating they are ugly.", "communities": [], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "transgendercirclejerk", "date": "2024-10-25 07:02:24", "timestamp": 1729832544.0 } }, { "id": "214516", "term": "punks", "definition": "A slang term with multiple meanings depending on context. Originally used to refer to a sex worker or prostitute, especially a passive or feminine gay man (or a bottom). By the early 20th century, used to refer to a person considered worthless or criminal in nature. By the 1970s, used to refer to punk rock, a punk rocker, or to the sociocultural movement associated with punk rock and its fans. In the modern gay male community, the term \"punk\" may refer to a smaller, typically younger gay man who is forced into a submissive role in prison settings by an older gay man. Also occasionally used as a synonym for \"clock\" or \"read\", i.e. when a cisgender person recognizes a person as transgender.", "sentence": "Is there really anyone who seriously think TREFs are the new punks rebelling against the big bad established order ?", "communities": [ "transgender", "gay male" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "transgender", "date": "2023-04-16 21:21:38", "timestamp": 1681672898.0 } }, { "id": "116775", "term": "seahorse dad", "definition": "Slang term for a transgender man who is carrying, or has carried, a child to term.", "sentence": "Iā€™ve talked a bit in the seahorse dad sub as well and itā€™s been helpful.", "communities": [ "transmasculine" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "ftm", "date": "2021-12-30 09:52:37", "timestamp": 1640854357.0 } }, { "id": "107949", "term": "crossdreaming", "definition": "Dreams or fantasies in which a person imagines themself as (or simply dressed as) the \"opposite\" gender (i.e. a man as a woman or a woman as a man).", "sentence": "This tells me that sissyfication fantasies are a symptom rather than a cause for crossdreaming.", "communities": [ "transgender", "cross-dressing" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "crossdreaming", "date": "2014-02-10 16:15:52", "timestamp": 1392045352.0 } }, { "id": "7260", "term": "boots", "definition": "Used as an intensifier: very, to a great degree; exceptionally.", "sentence": "I'll be a nice top boots.", "communities": [ "drag" ], "metadata": { "source": "Podcasts", "title": "The Debrief" } }, { "id": "206365", "term": "snatched", "definition": "Good-looking.", "sentence": "Itā€™s cute and your waist looks snatched", "communities": [], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "crossdressing", "date": "2025-06-11 23:12:45", "timestamp": 1749676365.0 } }, { "id": "115048", "term": "ursula", "definition": "A lesbian bear (in male gay culture, a bear is often a larger, hairier man who projects an image of rugged masculinity.).", "sentence": "There was a 5 year old reddit post where based on OP and comments section they believe Bear is a pretty neutral term, or being an Ursula", "communities": [ "lesbian" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "AskLGBT", "date": "2024-12-15 09:12:50", "timestamp": 1734250370.0 } }, { "id": "262", "term": "realness", "definition": "The state of being real; the ability to blend or pass as heterosexual or cisgender; the quality of passing as a particular role in a particular circumstance.", "sentence": "She's got the energy of someone who's about to band dancing in a small town, footloose in realness.", "communities": [ "drag", "gay male" ], "metadata": { "source": "Podcasts", "title": "I've Had It" } }, { "id": "205765", "term": "neo", "definition": "Clipping of neopronoun.", "sentence": "People have mistaken my pronouns in other languages for neos so eh, don't care tbh", "communities": [], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "asktransgender", "date": "2025-06-23 19:47:00", "timestamp": 1750700820.0 } }, { "id": "146094", "term": "fembrained", "definition": "Being a transgender person who acts and thinks like a woman.", "sentence": "FWIW fembrained is, Iā€™m pretty positive, not a real thing anyone should be concerned about.", "communities": [], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "ftm", "date": "2023-09-10 06:16:58", "timestamp": 1694319418.0 } }, { "id": "124643", "term": "cruising", "definition": "To walk or drive about a locality in search of a sex partner, usually of the anonymous, casual, one-time variety.", "sentence": "This a known gay cruising spot.", "communities": [ "gay male" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "gaybros", "date": "2024-02-24 04:32:11", "timestamp": 1708745531.0 } }, { "id": "117719", "term": "baby gay", "definition": "A person who has recently come out in relationship to a marginalized sexual or gender identity.", "sentence": "Unfortunately I was a baby gay and had no idea what I was feeling and how to act on it.", "communities": [ "gay male" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "LesbianWriters", "date": "2022-03-08 19:18:24", "timestamp": 1646763504.0 } }, { "id": "1761", "term": "kink", "definition": "ā€¢ A specific sexual desire, practice, or activity considered unconventional but within certain socially constructed boundaries.\r\nā€¢ A thief or burglar.", "sentence": "The kink world has been through historically Historically, a lot of stigmatization.", "communities": [], "metadata": { "source": "Podcasts", "title": "The Louis Theroux Podcast" } }, { "id": "94369", "term": "opulence", "definition": "A term sometimes used in drag subculture to refer to a mindset in which one has more resources than needed to live in complete luxury; alternatively, the state in which someone is extremely wealthy and lives in luxury.", "sentence": "The rest are totally fine drag looks, and I would holler and tip her in the club but they are definitely not serving opulence lol", "communities": [ "drag" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "rupaulsdragrace", "date": "2025-01-21 03:50:03", "timestamp": 1737427803.0 } }, { "id": "215535", "term": "breast mint", "definition": "A pill taken as part of feminizing hormone replacement therapy, especially spironolactone (called by this name due to its peppermint smell) or estrogen such as estradiol.", "sentence": "Achievement Unlocked: Have A Breast Mint", "communities": [ "transgender" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "MtF", "date": "2020-12-16 04:34:38", "timestamp": 1608089678.0 } }, { "id": "99801", "term": "closeted", "definition": "An adjective referring to an LGBTQIA+ person or persons who have not disclosed their status as LGBTQIA+ and other related aspects of their life. More broadly, it can also be used to describe anyone who is hiding part of their identity because of social pressure.", "sentence": "Maybe I'm just being pedatic and getting stuck on wording, but like did he say anything to indicate he's actually closeted?", "communities": [ "LGBTQ" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "gaybros", "date": "2023-11-04 08:09:33", "timestamp": 1699081773.0 } }, { "id": "79761", "term": "friend of dorothy", "definition": "Coded slang for gay. Referring to gay icon Judy Garland's Dorothy in The Wizard of Oz.", "sentence": "I'm a fan of Gay, Queer, Batting, and Friend of Dorothy.", "communities": [ "gay male" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "gaybros", "date": "2024-11-10 05:55:07", "timestamp": 1731214507.0 } }, { "id": "323", "term": "sugar daddy", "definition": "Expression of the Black community in the 1920s, to refer to an older, wealthy partner. Over time, this expression became used by the LGBTQIA+ community as well.", "sentence": "We've allowed the US government to just become so much of a sugar daddy to all aspects of society.", "communities": [], "metadata": { "source": "Podcasts", "title": "Shawn Ryan Show" } }, { "id": "143283", "term": "anti-gay", "definition": "ā€¢ Hostile toward gay people; opposed to gay rights; homophobic.\r\nā€¢ Used by some gay people to refer to aspects of the community in critique, especially homogeneity, conformity, obsession with particular types of appearance, and assimilative behavior.", "sentence": "\\-no anti-gay laws but a homophobic atmosphere is all over the country", "communities": [], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "actuallesbians", "date": "2022-01-15 05:20:27", "timestamp": 1642220427.0 } }, { "id": "210379", "term": "beards", "definition": "Individuals who pose as the date or partner of someone they are not in a relationship with, typically to prevent that person's sexuality from becoming public knowledge; most commonly used to refer to a woman pretending to be dating a gay man.", "sentence": "We were unknowingly eachother's beards!", "communities": [ "LGBTQ" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "actuallesbians", "date": "2018-05-07 15:28:25", "timestamp": 1525699705.0 } }, { "id": "204202", "term": "folx", "definition": "Folks; people.", "sentence": "One person has been interviewing several trans* folx and is creating an article about transgender topics (life as a trans person, positivity and negativity, support, insurance, HRT, therapy, surgeries, etc.).", "communities": [], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "transpositive", "date": "2015-06-05 03:31:16", "timestamp": 1433467876.0 } }, { "id": "206295", "term": "poz", "definition": "ā€¢ HIV positive.\r\nā€¢ To infect (someone) with a sexually transmitted infection; especially HIV.", "sentence": "I don't think it's so much people are drawn to someone because they're poz more so they're not excluding poz individuals from they're dating pool.", "communities": [], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "askgaybros", "date": "2024-11-29 15:03:33", "timestamp": 1732889013.0 } }, { "id": "214827", "term": "tops", "definition": "ā€¢ A \"top\" is an individual who acts as the \"giving\" partner in sexual encounters. Sometimes used as a self-descriptor within queer communities, but should be replicated with caution. Sometimes used as a verb (\"to top someone\"). Offensive if applied to LGBTQ+ individuals from outwith queer communities.\r\nā€¢ Someone, typically a man, who is penetrating someone else during sexual intercourse or someone who has a preference for penetrating during such intercourse.", "sentence": "Where are all the femme tops irl :c", "communities": [ "LGBTQ" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "actuallesbians", "date": "2023-01-13 19:58:13", "timestamp": 1673636293.0 } }, { "id": "96984", "term": "total bottom", "definition": "A total bottom is someone who assumes an exclusively passive or receptive role during anal or oral intercourse.", "sentence": "I'm not a total bottom, but the top part in me is so small that I don't pursue it at all.", "communities": [ "LGBTQ" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "askgaybros", "date": "2024-06-10 19:30:35", "timestamp": 1718040635.0 } }, { "id": "157427", "term": "twinky", "definition": "Being or resembling a twink (ā€œyoung, attractive, slim maleā€).", "sentence": "Sometimes I want it to see me as a twinky boy, or a masculine woman.", "communities": [ "gay" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "genderqueer", "date": "2014-08-31 07:25:14", "timestamp": 1409462714.0 } }, { "id": "227732", "term": "fierce", "definition": "To have looks that could \"kill\"; also used to refer to satisfying, powerful, or beautiful drag queens.", "sentence": "The shirt is fierce and the hair is working.", "communities": [ "drag" ], "metadata": { "source": "OpenSubtitles", "title": "To Wong Foo, Thanks for Everything! Julie Newmar", "imdb_id": "114682" } }, { "id": "392", "term": "cunty", "definition": "Amazing or very good or cool, especially with regard to femininity.", "sentence": "And she's just so cunty.", "communities": [], "metadata": { "source": "Podcasts", "title": "Cancelled with Tana Mongeau & Brooke Schofield" } }, { "id": "117079", "term": "polar bear", "definition": "An older bear whose facial and body hair are predominantly or entirely white or grey (\"bear\" meaning \"a gay or bisexual man who has facial/body hair and a cuddly body\").", "sentence": "My friend on the other hand says no because Santa is technically an elf, therefore couldn't be a homosexual therefore couldn't be a polar bear.", "communities": [ "bear" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "askgaybros", "date": "2020-06-28 06:23:09", "timestamp": 1593318189.0 } }, { "id": "169393", "term": "manmoder", "definition": "One who is in manmode (presenting as male regardless of gender identity).", "sentence": "Im a manmoder from Los Angeles.", "communities": [ "transgender" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "asktransgender", "date": "2021-06-17 03:25:43", "timestamp": 1623893143.0 } }, { "id": "211152", "term": "eggs", "definition": "Slang term (originating online) for a person who has not yet realised they are transgender, has not yet come out, or is in the early stages of transitioning. Usually used (fondly) by trans people to recognise when aspects of someone's personality or behavior remind them of gender-related aspects of themselves before they realized they were trans.", "sentence": "But spent 20 years breaking peopleā€™s eggs with my work and helping people transition and feel good about themselves without ever being able to do the same for myself.", "communities": [ "transgender" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "TransSupport", "date": "2024-06-20 19:53:11", "timestamp": 1718905991.0 } }, { "id": "101821", "term": "enby", "definition": "A nonbinary person, typically a young adult or an adolescent.", "sentence": "So is an enby relationship a \"Theyfriend\"?", "communities": [ "nonbinary" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "transpositive", "date": "2020-11-02 19:46:11", "timestamp": 1604342771.0 } }, { "id": "115573", "term": "stone butch", "definition": "Typically, a lesbian who is butch or otherwise displays traditional \"masculinity\". Alternatively, a subculture of persons identifying as stone butch as opposed to femme or \"high femme\". Such persons may be non-binary or have other various gender identities.", "sentence": "**TL;DR- a \"switch\" during sex with guys, stone butch with women- whhhhyyyy?", "communities": [ "lesbian" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "bisexual", "date": "2013-11-29 03:55:04", "timestamp": 1385693704.0 } }, { "id": "214580", "term": "studs", "definition": "ā€¢ Community term for an African-American and/or Latinx masculine queer woman. Also known as \"ag.\" Only use if someone self-describes in this way, and avoid using for white people, as this is a term specifically developed by and for African-American and Latinx communities.\r\nā€¢ A masculine or butch lesbian; predominantly utilized in Black and Latina lesbian communities. Should not be used by individuals outside of those communities, as it may be seen as pejorative. Sometimes expanded to refer to other gender identities and expressions.", "sentence": "Thereā€™s been plenty of studs Iā€™ve found myself attracted to.", "communities": [ "lesbian", "Latine lesbian", "African-American lesbian" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "gay", "date": "2024-11-14 01:50:59", "timestamp": 1731545459.0 } }, { "id": "117050", "term": "polar bear", "definition": "An older bear whose facial and body hair are predominantly or entirely white or grey (\"bear\" meaning \"a gay or bisexual man who has facial/body hair and a cuddly body\").", "sentence": "to be fair us older graying bears are called polar bears", "communities": [ "bear" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "bisexual", "date": "2023-10-17 22:31:07", "timestamp": 1697574667.0 } }, { "id": "157981", "term": "clocky", "definition": "Clearly identifiable as transgender; capable of being easily clocked; not passing.", "sentence": "I do pass, but my voice is still clocky.", "communities": [ "transgender" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "asktransgender", "date": "2024-03-22 19:03:26", "timestamp": 1711130606.0 } }, { "id": "107968", "term": "transition goal", "definition": "A transgender person's goals for transition, or an example of what they would like to achieve for such a transition (for example, pointing to an actor or musician of their desired gender expression and declaring that person \"transition goals\").", "sentence": "Holy shit transition goals šŸ˜³", "communities": [ "transgender" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "ladyladyboners", "date": "2021-09-23 08:31:39", "timestamp": 1632378699.0 } }, { "id": "90503", "term": "twink", "definition": "ā€¢ Slang term widely used in gay communities to describe a young or young-looking man with little or no facial or body hair. Can be pejorative, but can also be a self-descriptor.\r\nā€¢ A young, attractive, slim male, usually having little body hair.", "sentence": "Face too fat for short hair, body too short to look like the slim twink femboi i aspire to be", "communities": [ "gay", "gay male" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "TransSupport", "date": "2019-08-12 08:11:45", "timestamp": 1565590305.0 } }, { "id": "86255", "term": "stud", "definition": "ā€¢ Community term for an African-American and/or Latinx masculine queer woman. Also known as \"ag.\" Only use if someone self-describes in this way, and avoid using for white people, as this is a term specifically developed by and for African-American and Latinx communities.\r\nā€¢ A masculine or butch lesbian; predominantly utilized in Black and Latina lesbian communities. Should not be used by individuals outside of those communities, as it may be seen as pejorative. Sometimes expanded to refer to other gender identities and expressions.", "sentence": "Sheā€™s also a stud if that helps (black, so am I).", "communities": [ "lesbian", "Latine lesbian", "African-American lesbian" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "AskLGBT", "date": "2024-08-20 01:20:42", "timestamp": 1724109642.0 } }, { "id": "153667", "term": "family", "definition": "ā€¢ The gay community.\r\nā€¢ Homosexual.", "sentence": "There is the \"chosen family\", a concept that many queer people know of, but in my experience that usually involves a larger group of people.", "communities": [ "gay" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "QueerTheory", "date": "2020-06-25 19:21:43", "timestamp": 1593105703.0 } }, { "id": "85705", "term": "rough trade", "definition": "Slang for a man who identifies as straight, but sometimes has sex with queer men (usually as a \"top\").", "sentence": "The 1975 murder of film director Pier Paolo Pasolini has been attributed to Pasolini's dalliance with rough trade.", "communities": [ "gay" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "rupaulsdragrace", "date": "2015-03-26 10:09:00", "timestamp": 1427360940.0 } }, { "id": "101500", "term": "enban", "definition": "An adult nonbinary person.", "sentence": "Just because gay, lesbian, and straight ***can*** include enbans that doesnā€™t mean you have to be comfortable with it as an enban yourself.", "communities": [ "nonbinary" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "lgbt", "date": "2022-06-05 10:39:59", "timestamp": 1654418399.0 } }, { "id": "126866", "term": "bareback", "definition": "Sexual activity without the use of a condom.", "sentence": "Watching bareback porn is not the same as directly supporting unsafe sex.", "communities": [ "gay male" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "lgbt", "date": "2010-04-09 19:59:49", "timestamp": 1270835989.0 } }, { "id": "107776", "term": "bottom surgery", "definition": "A slang term used to refer to genital gender-affirming surgeries.", "sentence": "But a cis man, a non-transitioned transwoman, a transman with bottom surgery or anyone within the nonbinary/trans umbrella with a transitioned šŸ†?", "communities": [ "transgender" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "LGBTQ", "date": "2025-05-05 13:34:34", "timestamp": 1746444874.0 } }, { "id": "76206", "term": "dyke", "definition": "Contested terminology. Slur for lesbian, highly offensive if applied to a lesbian or transmasc person externally. Term has been reclaimed by some lesbians communities, and is sometimes used affirmingly within communities.\"Bulldyke\" and \"bulldagger\" are often used to indicate butch or masculine queer women, sometimes with overtones of toughness or aggression.", "sentence": "However, for a dyke centered event, it might be different.", "communities": [], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "actuallesbians", "date": "2024-08-22 09:49:30", "timestamp": 1724312970.0 } }, { "id": "107868", "term": "tucute", "definition": "A person who acknowledges that gender dysphoria is not necessary to be transgender.", "sentence": "The inventor of the word \"tucute\" is a tucute.", "communities": [ "transgender" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "asktransgender", "date": "2023-01-23 21:00:45", "timestamp": 1674504045.0 } }, { "id": "117129", "term": "unicorn", "definition": "A bisexual woman who engages in a sexual, but usually non-romantic, relationship with a heterosexual couple.", "sentence": "TL;DR my close friend of 11 years Iā€™m still in love with tried to unicorn hunt me on NYE.", "communities": [ "bisexual female" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "lgbt", "date": "2024-01-02 17:34:31", "timestamp": 1704213271.0 } }, { "id": "116688", "term": "malefailing", "definition": "To be seen as and gender as female while attempting to present as masculine.", "sentence": "SO many girls post how they started malefailing early, or at least before they hit the first year mark.", "communities": [ "transmasculine" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "asktransgender", "date": "2023-07-28 20:19:57", "timestamp": 1690568397.0 } }, { "id": "98656", "term": "versatile", "definition": "Someone who penetrates or is penetrated during sexual intercourse or someone who has a preference for both being penetrated and penetrating during such intercourse.", "sentence": "I'm versatile, I've always liked being passive, but now I'm scared and tense, unable to relax at the time.", "communities": [ "LGBTQ" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "lgbt", "date": "2025-06-18 19:28:01", "timestamp": 1750267681.0 } }, { "id": "99797", "term": "closeted", "definition": "An adjective referring to an LGBTQIA+ person or persons who have not disclosed their status as LGBTQIA+ and other related aspects of their life. More broadly, it can also be used to describe anyone who is hiding part of their identity because of social pressure.", "sentence": "It's not that I'm closeted, it's just that I don't care enough anymore to come out.", "communities": [ "LGBTQ" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "lgbt", "date": "2021-09-05 21:58:06", "timestamp": 1630871886.0 } }, { "id": "101508", "term": "enban", "definition": "An adult nonbinary person.", "sentence": "uj/ reddit, i am just venting about enbyphobia as an enban myself, using *satire* and *irony*, dont send me a warning or report me", "communities": [ "nonbinary" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "transgendercirclejerk", "date": "2022-04-05 10:20:52", "timestamp": 1649146852.0 } }, { "id": "83735", "term": "gym rat", "definition": "A sports enthusiast; usually one who frequents gyms and training grounds; often used of young gay men obsessed with body building.", "sentence": "He was also so completely friendly and courteous unlike other gym rats Iā€™ve encountered in my lifetime.", "communities": [], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "gaybros", "date": "2025-07-05 20:07:07", "timestamp": 1751738827.0 } }, { "id": "115087", "term": "chapstick lesbian", "definition": "A lesbian who exhibits some butch traits (short hair, stereotypical men's clothing, etc.) without wholly fitting the masculine butch stereotype; alternatively, a lesbian who is athletic or has a keen interest in sports.", "sentence": "I prefer chapstick lesbians but no one around me really fits into that category.", "communities": [ "lesbian" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "actuallesbians", "date": "2020-06-08 07:09:36", "timestamp": 1591592976.0 } }, { "id": "108295", "term": "t4t", "definition": "Short form of \"trans for trans\", indicating transgender persons interested in other transgender persons romantically and/or sexually.", "sentence": "As a bi girlie thats been on t4t dates, its like anyother relationship where each one is unique.", "communities": [ "transgender" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "trans", "date": "2025-06-11 06:54:54", "timestamp": 1749617694.0 } }, { "id": "146839", "term": "boots", "definition": "Used as an intensifier: very, to a great degree; exceptionally.", "sentence": "\"Boots house down\" / \"house down boots\" and variations are like additives, like \"very\"", "communities": [ "drag" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "gay", "date": "2024-10-11 01:17:34", "timestamp": 1728602254.0 } }, { "id": "154621", "term": "henny", "definition": "Alternative spelling of honey.", "sentence": "If itā€™s hennyā€™s favorite then itā€™s my favorite", "communities": [ "gay" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "rupaulsdragrace", "date": "2018-02-17 21:41:39", "timestamp": 1518900099.0 } }, { "id": "154653", "term": "mangina", "definition": "ā€¢ The anus of a man, especially in the context of gay sex.\r\nā€¢ The vulva or vagina of a trans man, or the neovagina of a detransitioned man.", "sentence": "Any advice on the best way to tuck and create a mangina?", "communities": [ "transgender", "gay" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "crossdressing", "date": "2015-12-17 20:03:18", "timestamp": 1450378998.0 } }, { "id": "115135", "term": "soft butch", "definition": "A lesbian who exhibits some stereotypical butch traits without fitting the masculine stereotype associated with butch lesbians.", "sentence": "I'm like solidly in the soft butch/boi category (I kind of have too much of a baby face to really be andro haha!).", "communities": [ "lesbian" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "actuallesbians", "date": "2017-07-12 02:57:37", "timestamp": 1499821057.0 } }, { "id": "202149", "term": "unclockable", "definition": "Not recognizable as transgender or a drag performer; passing.", "sentence": "Basically, Iā€™m constantly having to put in the effort to not only pass as cis, but to be unclockable.", "communities": [ "transgender" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "ftm", "date": "2020-03-19 06:43:19", "timestamp": 1584596599.0 } }, { "id": "107905", "term": "tucute", "definition": "A person who acknowledges that gender dysphoria is not necessary to be transgender.", "sentence": "I donā€™t care if youā€™re a truscum or a tucute, it shouldnā€™t matter in a conversation like this.", "communities": [ "transgender" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "trans", "date": "2020-06-18 05:36:57", "timestamp": 1592451417.0 } }, { "id": "120655", "term": "friend of Dorothy", "definition": "Coded slang for gay. Referring to gay icon Judy Garland's Dorothy in The Wizard of Oz.", "sentence": "There were codes ā€“ green carnations (thanks Oscar Wilde) or asking ā€œAre you a friend of Dorothy?ā€ (Judy Garland/ā€œWizard of Ozā€ reference) to signal oneā€™s orientation.", "communities": [], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "bisexual", "date": "2025-06-27 17:44:01", "timestamp": 1751039041.0 } }, { "id": "116805", "term": "bear chaser", "definition": "A gay man who pursues primarily bears (\"bear\" meaning \"a gay or bisexual man who has facial/body hair and a cuddly body\").", "sentence": "Also: I desperately needed to get fit, because not everyone is a bear chaser, and it's easier to pick people up when you're stereotypically handsome.", "communities": [ "bear" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "bisexual", "date": "2014-06-14 09:38:17", "timestamp": 1402731497.0 } }, { "id": "99354", "term": "total top", "definition": "A total top is one who assumes an exclusively penetrative role for sex.", "sentence": "Honestly I became total top because it's just so much easier finding sexual partners.", "communities": [ "LGBTQ" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "gaybros", "date": "2021-12-28 13:00:00", "timestamp": 1640692800.0 } }, { "id": "146682", "term": "transmaxx", "definition": "To undergo gender transition (particularly from male to female) for the perceived social advantages that come with being the opposite sex, especially as regards the sexual marketplace.", "sentence": "I just watched Suris' video on the Transmaxximalists today.", "communities": [], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "traaaaaaannnnnnnnnns", "date": "2023-02-03 05:43:00", "timestamp": 1675399380.0 } }, { "id": "214809", "term": "switches", "definition": "ā€¢ LGBTQ+ community slang for someone who \"switches\" between the \"giving\" and \"receiving\" during sex. \"Vers\" is short for \"versatile.\" \"Switch\" is sometimes also used in a BDSM context, to indicate someone who \"switches\" between the dominant and submissive roles.\r\nā€¢ One who is willing to take either a submissive or a dominant role in a sexual relationship.", "sentence": "I'm Vers & Submissive, but there are also Vers & Dominant folks, neither are Switches, so we could all be not considering you compatible.", "communities": [ "LGBTQ" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "lesbian", "date": "2025-05-23 18:35:06", "timestamp": 1748018106.0 } }, { "id": "107231", "term": "deep stealth", "definition": "Referring to a transgender person who is not known to be trans by most of the people they interact with on a daily basis, even a sexual or romantic partner.", "sentence": "Yeah I suspect many people will go stealth as a result of this - deep deep stealth which we used to have to do.", "communities": [ "transgender" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "transgenderUK", "date": "2025-05-16 19:55:58", "timestamp": 1747418158.0 } }, { "id": "108909", "term": "girl juice", "definition": "A slang term referring to injectable feminizing hormones.", "sentence": "I finally got my Antiboys and Girl Juice!", "communities": [ "transfeminine" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "MtF", "date": "2025-04-19 18:30:46", "timestamp": 1745080246.0 } }, { "id": "115116", "term": "stone femme", "definition": "A lesbian identity patterned after the term \"stone butch\". It may variously refer to: a femme that is a bottom, a femme that is attracted to or partner with someone who is butch, a femme who does not wish to touch her partners' genitalia, or a femme who is sexually stone, i.e. they do not wish to be touched in the genital area (and therefore they usually top).", "sentence": "It also defines Stone Femme as a femme who bottoms sexually or who does not wish to touch the genitals of her partner", "communities": [ "lesbian" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "bisexual", "date": "2023-09-30 21:58:10", "timestamp": 1696103890.0 } }, { "id": "119490", "term": "masc4masc", "definition": "A phrase used to describe a masculine gay man interested in other masculine gay men romantically and/or sexually.", "sentence": "I dont see anything inherently wrong with masc4masc but I dont know why they would view themselves as superior", "communities": [ "gay male" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "askgaybros", "date": "2019-12-24 02:15:52", "timestamp": 1577150152.0 } }, { "id": "77738", "term": "fag hag", "definition": "A woman, typically a heterosexual one, possibly ageing, who prefers, enjoys, or seeks out the company of homosexual men. This term is offensive to gay men and misogynistic to heterosexual women. Once common, now rarely used within queer communities.", "sentence": "A fag hag is just a woman who gives off the energy of having a lot of gay male friends.", "communities": [ "gay male" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "askgaybros", "date": "2023-05-29 17:49:56", "timestamp": 1685375396.0 } }, { "id": "214771", "term": "switches", "definition": "ā€¢ LGBTQ+ community slang for someone who \"switches\" between the \"giving\" and \"receiving\" during sex. \"Vers\" is short for \"versatile.\" \"Switch\" is sometimes also used in a BDSM context, to indicate someone who \"switches\" between the dominant and submissive roles.\r\nā€¢ One who is willing to take either a submissive or a dominant role in a sexual relationship.", "sentence": "Always nice to see switches dominating this sub.", "communities": [ "LGBTQ" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "gaymers", "date": "2018-11-04 23:46:48", "timestamp": 1541371608.0 } }, { "id": "227810", "term": "coming out", "definition": "A metaphor for LGBTQIA+ people's self-disclosure of their sexual orientation or of their gender identity. The term coming out can also be used in various non-LGBTQIA+ applications (e.g. atheists). Framed and debated as a privacy issue, coming out of the closet is described and experienced variously as a psychological process or journey; decision-making or risk-taking; a strategy or plan; a mass or public event; a speech act and a matter of personal identity; a rite of passage; liberation or emancipation from oppression; an ordeal; a means toward feeling gay pride instead of shame and social stigma; or even career suicide. Author Steven Seidman writes that \"it is the power of the closet to shape the core of an individual's life that has made homosexuality into a significant personal, social, and political drama in twentieth-century America\".", "sentence": "HE'S GOING TO BE COMING OUT OF THE CLOSET,", "communities": [ "LGBTQ" ], "metadata": { "source": "OpenSubtitles", "title": "Billy's Hollywood Screen Kiss", "imdb_id": "137386" } }, { "id": "123690", "term": "hunk", "definition": "A muscular, handsome gay man.", "sentence": "So I wonder if you hunk bottoms prefer taller guys or shorter guys like me have a chance too?", "communities": [ "gay male" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "askgaybros", "date": "2024-11-06 11:05:39", "timestamp": 1730887539.0 } }, { "id": "108497", "term": "second puberty", "definition": "A term often used by transgender persons transitioning after they have already undergone puberty.", "sentence": "Only just started my second puberty about 7 months ago so šŸ¤·šŸ»ā€ā™€ļø", "communities": [ "transgender" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "transpositive", "date": "2025-01-28 19:03:09", "timestamp": 1738087389.0 } }, { "id": "118721", "term": "molly house", "definition": "A tavern or other establishment in 18th and 19th century England where homosexuals could meet for sexual encounters.", "sentence": "Makes sense because Molly house = 18th century gay subculture.", "communities": [ "gay male" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "lgbthistory", "date": "2024-09-19 20:41:04", "timestamp": 1726771264.0 } }, { "id": "205343", "term": "lesboy", "definition": "A person who identifies as male and as a lesbian.", "sentence": "We should be tolerant of lesboys.", "communities": [], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "lgbt", "date": "2025-02-16 04:31:16", "timestamp": 1739676676.0 } }, { "id": "79783", "term": "friend of dorothy", "definition": "Coded slang for gay. Referring to gay icon Judy Garland's Dorothy in The Wizard of Oz.", "sentence": "I learned this two yrs ago \"You know /Are you a friend of Dorothy?\"", "communities": [ "gay male" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "AskLGBT", "date": "2022-07-16 20:43:48", "timestamp": 1657997028.0 } }, { "id": "228663", "term": "gaydar", "definition": "A colloquialism referring to the intuitive ability of a person to assess others' sexual orientations as gay, bisexual or heterosexual. Gaydar relies on verbal and non-verbal clues and LGBTQ stereotypes. These include the sensitivity to social behaviors and mannerisms; for instance, acknowledging flamboyant body language, the tone of voice used by a person when speaking, overtly rejecting traditional gender roles, a person's occupation, and grooming habits.", "sentence": "I'd need to meet him before I dare subject him to my gay-dar.", "communities": [ "LGBTQ" ], "metadata": { "source": "OpenSubtitles", "title": "Billy's Hollywood Screen Kiss", "imdb_id": "137386" } }, { "id": "229122", "term": "gender identity", "definition": "A personal identity one develops in childhood that one belongs to a gender category, multiple gender categories, or no gender categories.", "sentence": "Rediscovering your gender identity", "communities": [], "metadata": { "source": "OpenSubtitles", "title": "But I'm a Cheerleader", "imdb_id": "179116" } }, { "id": "165169", "term": "estrogel", "definition": "Estradiol gel used in feminizing hormone replacement therapy.", "sentence": "I have a new appointment with her in 3 days and I'm about to ask her to start with t-blocker and change the Estrogel to patch.", "communities": [ "transgender" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "transtimelines", "date": "2025-03-10 06:29:16", "timestamp": 1741584556.0 } }, { "id": "165282", "term": "Fem&M's", "definition": "Estrogen pills taken as part of hormone replacement therapy.", "sentence": "But would really love to hear from people who went from fem&m's to girl shots", "communities": [ "transgender" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "asktransgender", "date": "2024-10-22 07:49:09", "timestamp": 1729576149.0 } }, { "id": "102307", "term": "ace", "definition": "Asexual; an asexual person.", "sentence": "Hugs hugs hugs hugs hugs hugs hugs hugs hugs hugs hugs hugs hugs hugs hugs hugs hugs hugs hugs hugs hugs HUGS FOR ALL BULLIED ACES OUT THERE!", "communities": [ "asexual" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "lgbt", "date": "2021-01-18 10:08:44", "timestamp": 1610960924.0 } }, { "id": "108328", "term": "t4t", "definition": "Short form of \"trans for trans\", indicating transgender persons interested in other transgender persons romantically and/or sexually.", "sentence": "I wanna be in a t4t", "communities": [ "transgender" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "traaaaaaannnnnnnnnns", "date": "2021-12-13 20:17:35", "timestamp": 1639423055.0 } }, { "id": "106700", "term": "transdar", "definition": "A colloquialism referring to the intuitive ability of a person to assess others' as being transgender. Transdar relies on verbal and non-verbal clues and transgender stereotypes. These include the sensitivity to social behaviors and mannerisms; for instance, acknowledging variations of gendered body language, the tone of voice used by a person when speaking, overtly rejecting traditional gender roles, a person's occupation, interests, etc.", "sentence": "I say that because I have a pretty good transdar and this person indicates to me.", "communities": [ "transgender" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "genderfluid", "date": "2017-11-13 08:25:09", "timestamp": 1510557909.0 } }, { "id": "108854", "term": "spooked", "definition": "A slang term referred to the moment a person uncovers or learns about a transgender person's status as transgender, particularly if the transgender person has not yet undergone genital gender confirmation surgery.", "sentence": "Are u f kidding me?ā€ She was spooked I get it, and I havenā€™t worked on my voice much but I carry myself very femininely.", "communities": [ "transgender" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "MtF", "date": "2025-05-09 04:10:53", "timestamp": 1746756653.0 } }, { "id": "1588", "term": "lgbt", "definition": "Initialism for lesbian, gay, bisexual, and transgender.", "sentence": "Yeah, then what we're doing, okay Then we may be having a burger or not for me Because I'm an LGBT IQ human rights campaigner.", "communities": [], "metadata": { "source": "Podcasts", "title": "Strangers on a Bench" } }, { "id": "210954", "term": "bulldagger", "definition": "Contested terminology. Slur for lesbian, highly offensive if applied to a lesbian or transmasc person externally. Term has been reclaimed by some lesbians communities, and is sometimes used affirmingly within communities.\"Bulldyke\" and \"bulldagger\" are often used to indicate butch or masculine queer women, sometimes with overtones of toughness or aggression.", "sentence": "The word bulldagger is used towards the protagonist and the other butches throughout, some of whom are white and some of whom are people of color.", "communities": [], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "AskLGBT", "date": "2025-01-09 20:36:57", "timestamp": 1736451417.0 } }, { "id": "1585", "term": "lgbt", "definition": "Initialism for lesbian, gay, bisexual, and transgender.", "sentence": "Please give a very warm welcome to the co-founder of LGBT mummies, Laura Rose.", "communities": [], "metadata": { "source": "Podcasts", "title": "Tea at Four" } }, { "id": "134021", "term": "androgynous", "definition": "Of clothing or accessories, making a person's identity as male or female not immediately apparent to observers.", "sentence": "Shout-out to genderqueer folks, fem dudes, and the androgynous.", "communities": [], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "gaybros", "date": "2023-05-24 18:42:51", "timestamp": 1684946571.0 } }, { "id": "115143", "term": "soft butch", "definition": "A lesbian who exhibits some stereotypical butch traits without fitting the masculine stereotype associated with butch lesbians.", "sentence": "Most the soft butch girls I know tend to go for really femme girls, and I am tomboy femme, at best.", "communities": [ "lesbian" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "actuallesbians", "date": "2017-07-12 04:25:55", "timestamp": 1499826355.0 } }, { "id": "205374", "term": "lesboy", "definition": "A person who identifies as male and as a lesbian.", "sentence": "But also the way people talk about lesboys is very similar to the way they talk to nonbinary lesbians.", "communities": [], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "AskLGBT", "date": "2024-12-11 03:28:56", "timestamp": 1733884136.0 } }, { "id": "143370", "term": "autofellatio", "definition": "Oral stimulation of one's own penis.", "sentence": "Me, as a bisexual gentleman, met the autofellatio in the last year thanks to the internet, and 1-2 months ago i tried to do it, with a little sucess.", "communities": [], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "bisexual", "date": "2023-03-27 22:21:12", "timestamp": 1679948472.0 } }, { "id": "103609", "term": "top surgery", "definition": "A slang term used to refer to thoracic gender-affirming surgeries.", "sentence": "Currently recovering from top surgery and am bored out of my mind.", "communities": [ "transgender" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "transgamers", "date": "2025-07-03 03:33:37", "timestamp": 1751506417.0 } }, { "id": "101618", "term": "femby", "definition": "A slang term sometimes used to refer to femme enbies (non-binary people) or non-binary women. A portmanteau of \"femme\" and \"enby\".", "sentence": "Also, getting mad femby vibes from this image, nice", "communities": [ "nonbinary" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "transadorable", "date": "2019-12-19 17:30:47", "timestamp": 1576773047.0 } }, { "id": "99779", "term": "queer coding", "definition": "A situation in which a character is given traits or behaviors which suggest they are not heterosexual and/or cisgender, without the character being outright confirmed as having such an identity.", "sentence": "However, despite me watching every major media connected with the sisters, I never noticed any queer coding, on the count of me discovering what queer coding even is.", "communities": [ "LGBTQ" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "asktransgender", "date": "2025-01-06 13:43:04", "timestamp": 1736167384.0 } }, { "id": "4993", "term": "activist", "definition": "A person who is politically active in campaigning for change to an existing sociopolitical or cultural order.", "sentence": "And one of the people I interview in the book is called Wasim Alabich, who is an activist in Berlin who does work around Muslim futures.", "communities": [], "metadata": { "source": "Podcasts", "title": "Upstream" } }, { "id": "116833", "term": "cub", "definition": "A younger or younger-looking bear, sometimes with a smaller frame (\"bear\" meaning \"a gay or bisexual man who has facial/body hair and a cuddly body\").", "sentence": "Is there a \"twink looking for cub/bears\" \"bears 4 twinks\" website out there?", "communities": [ "gay", "bear" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "lgbt", "date": "2010-01-28 09:23:55", "timestamp": 1264667035.0 } }, { "id": "211569", "term": "faggy", "definition": "A pejorative term used chiefly in North America primarily to refer to a gay man. Alongside its use to refer to gay men in particular, it may also be used as a pejorative term for a \"repellent man\" or to refer to women who are lesbian (or to transgender people, typically transgender women). Its use has spread from the United States to varying extents elsewhere in the English-speaking world through mass culture, including film, music, and the Internet.", "sentence": "There is a time and a place for the words fag and faggy, but I don't think that sentence was such a time and place.", "communities": [], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "gaybros", "date": "2012-09-28 07:25:00", "timestamp": 1348809900.0 } }, { "id": "203159", "term": "byke", "definition": "A bisexual woman.", "sentence": "I've gotten called a switch hitter, AC/DC, bislut, byke, and dyke (more of a sapphics term though).", "communities": [], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "bisexual", "date": "2024-02-13 22:05:40", "timestamp": 1707858340.0 } }, { "id": "77012", "term": "egg", "definition": "Slang term (originating online) for a person who has not yet realised they are transgender, has not yet come out, or is in the early stages of transitioning. Usually used (fondly) by trans people to recognise when aspects of someone's personality or behavior remind them of gender-related aspects of themselves before they realized they were trans.", "sentence": "I canā€™t answer whether your spouse is an egg - the only person who can answer that is your spouse.", "communities": [ "transgender", "transgender" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "mypartneristrans", "date": "2020-12-10 03:03:25", "timestamp": 1607565805.0 } }, { "id": "84583", "term": "lipstick lesbian", "definition": "Usually refers to a lesbian with a feminine gender expression. Can be used in a positive or a derogatory way, depending on who is using it. Is sometimes also used to refer to a lesbian who is seen as automatically \"passing\" for heterosexual.", "sentence": "Not a lipstick lesbian myself but one of my good friends is and she met her girlfriend at Sephora......which I found absolutely HILARIOUS!", "communities": [ "lesbian" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "actuallesbians", "date": "2011-12-24 11:06:35", "timestamp": 1324721195.0 } }, { "id": "129010", "term": "gyal", "definition": "A girl.", "sentence": "Im a simple gyal, i c melinda, i tune in", "communities": [], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "rupaulsdragrace", "date": "2024-01-03 23:24:43", "timestamp": 1704320683.0 } }, { "id": "117937", "term": "batty boy", "definition": "ā€¢ A pejorative term in Jamaican Patois often used to refer to a gay or feminine man.\r\nā€¢ A gay man.", "sentence": "I have now been called a batty boy 3/4 times by pupils.", "communities": [ "gay male" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "gay", "date": "2021-12-19 19:01:23", "timestamp": 1639936883.0 } }, { "id": "154656", "term": "mangina", "definition": "ā€¢ The anus of a man, especially in the context of gay sex.\r\nā€¢ The vulva or vagina of a trans man, or the neovagina of a detransitioned man.", "sentence": "In case you don't know, the manly cup is a little silicone cup one puts in their mangina during manstruation.", "communities": [ "transgender", "gay" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "ftm", "date": "2014-08-07 04:03:05", "timestamp": 1407376985.0 } }, { "id": "106715", "term": "ewphoria", "definition": "A combination of gender euphoria with feelings of disgust, revulsion, or discomfort, resulting from one's gender identity being affirmed by bigoted, predatory, or creepy behavior by others.", "sentence": "Idk if you did this on purpose, but i love the idea of euphoria from bad places being called EWphoria lmao.", "communities": [ "transgender", "transgender" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "traaaaaaannnnnnnnnns", "date": "2023-05-09 16:06:57", "timestamp": 1683641217.0 } }, { "id": "98628", "term": "gaysian", "definition": "Somewhat derogatory term referring to an Asian gay person.", "sentence": "Also how gaysians feel about dating mixed gaysians.", "communities": [ "LGBTQ" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "gaysian", "date": "2025-06-18 21:41:02", "timestamp": 1750275662.0 } }, { "id": "219497", "term": "queen", "definition": "A gay man who is considered to be feminine.", "sentence": "And I am generally known where l am known... as one cool, collected queen.", "communities": [ "gay male" ], "metadata": { "source": "OpenSubtitles", "title": "Angels in America", "imdb_id": "318997" } }, { "id": "115114", "term": "stone femme", "definition": "A lesbian identity patterned after the term \"stone butch\". It may variously refer to: a femme that is a bottom, a femme that is attracted to or partner with someone who is butch, a femme who does not wish to touch her partners' genitalia, or a femme who is sexually stone, i.e. they do not wish to be touched in the genital area (and therefore they usually top).", "sentence": "A Butch can 100% be a Stone bottom, however, they would not be a Stone Femme/ High Femme, bc theyre not Femme.", "communities": [ "lesbian" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "actuallesbians", "date": "2022-12-12 06:24:17", "timestamp": 1670822657.0 } }, { "id": "155440", "term": "poz friendly", "definition": "Willing to have sex with someone who is HIV positive by someone who is HIV negative.", "sentence": "And yes, I think you can be poz friendly but be uncomfortable with sex while not being on prep", "communities": [ "gay" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "gaybros", "date": "2022-04-08 19:08:48", "timestamp": 1649437728.0 } }, { "id": "169417", "term": "mones", "definition": "Hormones used as part of hormone replacement therapy, especially for transgender or gender variant individuals.", "sentence": "In case that wasn't obvious already..(uj/Also take the 'mones already it'll make you feel fulfilled and better eventually, you dummy <3 much love, over and out.", "communities": [], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "transgendercirclejerk", "date": "2019-01-31 17:15:27", "timestamp": 1548951327.0 } }, { "id": "2158", "term": "femme", "definition": "Traditionally, a lesbian who appears \"feminine\" or acts in a \"feminine\" manner. However, the term is often used to describe a wide variety of gender expressions and identities adjacent to feminine or femme-ness.", "sentence": "When you think about it, they had the femme-presenting ladybug who still identified as he, him.", "communities": [ "lesbian" ], "metadata": { "source": "Podcasts", "title": "Secretly Incredibly Fascinating" } }, { "id": "115096", "term": "chapstick lesbian", "definition": "A lesbian who exhibits some butch traits (short hair, stereotypical men's clothing, etc.) without wholly fitting the masculine butch stereotype; alternatively, a lesbian who is athletic or has a keen interest in sports.", "sentence": "At least one is gonna be with family, and I'm a non-binary chapstick lesbian :)", "communities": [ "lesbian" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "lesbianfashionadvice", "date": "2025-05-04 22:45:44", "timestamp": 1746391544.0 } }, { "id": "204406", "term": "gayling", "definition": "A young or immature gay (homosexual) person.", "sentence": "As a baby goth gayling it was my everything.", "communities": [], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "gaybros", "date": "2021-04-08 07:02:13", "timestamp": 1617858133.0 } }, { "id": "203134", "term": "VT", "definition": "Initialism of voice training.", "sentence": "I'm just so blessed to have had daddy pay for ffs, srs, ba, vt, šŸ™šŸ™", "communities": [ "transgender" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "transgendercirclejerk", "date": "2020-06-10 17:20:50", "timestamp": 1591802450.0 } }, { "id": "165284", "term": "Fem&M's", "definition": "Estrogen pills taken as part of hormone replacement therapy.", "sentence": "I've been taking the Fem&M's every day for at least two months now, and all of the changes seem a little too subtle so far.", "communities": [ "transgender" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "MtF", "date": "2025-01-02 19:45:37", "timestamp": 1735843537.0 } }, { "id": "146695", "term": "troon", "definition": "A transgender person; most commonly, a trans woman.", "sentence": "I've been called a troon.", "communities": [], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "actuallesbians", "date": "2019-08-03 16:27:03", "timestamp": 1564842423.0 } }, { "id": "219456", "term": "queen", "definition": "A gay man who is considered to be feminine.", "sentence": "When I take off my make-up, nobody can tell I'm a queen.", "communities": [ "gay male" ], "metadata": { "source": "OpenSubtitles", "title": "The Iron Ladies", "imdb_id": "263957" } }, { "id": "99371", "term": "total top", "definition": "A total top is one who assumes an exclusively penetrative role for sex.", "sentence": "ā€œWhere are all the total tops?!?!", "communities": [ "LGBTQ" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "askgaybros", "date": "2023-10-15 04:57:35", "timestamp": 1697338655.0 } }, { "id": "103487", "term": "top surgery", "definition": "A slang term used to refer to thoracic gender-affirming surgeries.", "sentence": "I doubt our experiences are the same, but I opted for top surgery despite similar feelings and am glad I did it.", "communities": [ "transgender" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "genderqueer", "date": "2024-09-24 06:06:12", "timestamp": 1727150772.0 } }, { "id": "76298", "term": "dyke", "definition": "Contested terminology. Slur for lesbian, highly offensive if applied to a lesbian or transmasc person externally. Term has been reclaimed by some lesbians communities, and is sometimes used affirmingly within communities.\"Bulldyke\" and \"bulldagger\" are often used to indicate butch or masculine queer women, sometimes with overtones of toughness or aggression.", "sentence": "I call myself a trans dyke.", "communities": [], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "genderqueer", "date": "2015-07-14 11:36:28", "timestamp": 1436866588.0 } }, { "id": "94384", "term": "condragulations", "definition": "A variant form of congratulations used sometimes in drag.", "sentence": "ā€œSummer, in the challenge you made my heart melt, condragulations you are the winner of this weeks challenge.ā€", "communities": [ "drag" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "gaybrosgonemild", "date": "2020-02-07 12:45:35", "timestamp": 1581075935.0 } }, { "id": "107928", "term": "tucute", "definition": "A person who acknowledges that gender dysphoria is not necessary to be transgender.", "sentence": "Iā€™m a survivor of the ā€œtruscum vs tucuteā€ wars on tumblr.", "communities": [ "transgender" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "AskLGBT", "date": "2024-05-07 04:38:35", "timestamp": 1715049515.0 } }, { "id": "102297", "term": "ace", "definition": "Asexual; an asexual person.", "sentence": "All are welcome: LGBTQIA+ people (A = ace, aro and agender) and also allies who are not part of the community are welcome.", "communities": [ "asexual" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "lgbt", "date": "2021-10-09 13:41:12", "timestamp": 1633779672.0 } }, { "id": "94238", "term": "drab", "definition": "An instance of a transgender or non-binary person presenting as the gender corresponding to their sex assigned at birth instead of that corresponding to their internal gender identity (most commonly a trans woman dressed as a man).", "sentence": "I'm a trans girl in drab, and pretty deeply closeted, so everyone where I work think I'm a straight guy.", "communities": [ "transgender", "drag", "transgender" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "actuallesbians", "date": "2013-05-30 21:17:27", "timestamp": 1369941447.0 } }, { "id": "107960", "term": "transition goal", "definition": "A transgender person's goals for transition, or an example of what they would like to achieve for such a transition (for example, pointing to an actor or musician of their desired gender expression and declaring that person \"transition goals\").", "sentence": "My transition goal is also not looking like someone else but just a more female version of myself.", "communities": [ "transgender" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "asktransgender", "date": "2022-01-07 19:39:10", "timestamp": 1641580750.0 } }, { "id": "91790", "term": "faux queen", "definition": "A cis female performance artist who performs in female drag at drag shows, or acts like a drag queen.", "sentence": "How do you feel about faux queens?", "communities": [ "drag", "gay male" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "Drag", "date": "2015-11-27 22:32:57", "timestamp": 1448659977.0 } }, { "id": "99337", "term": "power bottom", "definition": "A power bottom is someone who aggressively enjoys being the receptive partner.", "sentence": "You can be a power bottom without topping.", "communities": [ "LGBTQ" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "AskLGBT", "date": "2023-11-18 20:43:52", "timestamp": 1700336632.0 } }, { "id": "142741", "term": "LGBT", "definition": "Initialism for lesbian, gay, bisexual, and transgender.", "sentence": "Running Amach does lots of social stuff for lgbt women", "communities": [], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "LGBTireland", "date": "2024-12-31 14:56:34", "timestamp": 1735653394.0 } }, { "id": "169414", "term": "mones", "definition": "Hormones used as part of hormone replacement therapy, especially for transgender or gender variant individuals.", "sentence": "I got a mani-pedi, shaved and took my 'mones.", "communities": [], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "TransSpace", "date": "2012-08-11 03:14:14", "timestamp": 1344647654.0 } }, { "id": "84850", "term": "punk", "definition": "A slang term with multiple meanings depending on context. Originally used to refer to a sex worker or prostitute, especially a passive or feminine gay man (or a bottom). By the early 20th century, used to refer to a person considered worthless or criminal in nature. By the 1970s, used to refer to punk rock, a punk rocker, or to the sociocultural movement associated with punk rock and its fans. In the modern gay male community, the term \"punk\" may refer to a smaller, typically younger gay man who is forced into a submissive role in prison settings by an older gay man. Also occasionally used as a synonym for \"clock\" or \"read\", i.e. when a cisgender person recognizes a person as transgender.", "sentence": "Im punk and trans , welcome!", "communities": [ "transgender", "gay male" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "lgbt", "date": "2024-06-07 23:27:22", "timestamp": 1717795642.0 } }, { "id": "110984", "term": "squish", "definition": "An aromantic crush; the desire for a non-romantic and/or platonic relationship with another person.", "sentence": "Iā€™m an aromantic lesbian (attracted in non-romantic ways to women, nb, agender people) but I get really intense squishes on queer men.", "communities": [ "aromantic" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "actuallesbians", "date": "2021-12-11 11:25:35", "timestamp": 1639218335.0 } }, { "id": "202079", "term": "Tit Tac", "definition": "A pill taken as part of feminizing hormone replacement therapy, especially spironolactone (called by this name due to its peppermint smell) or estrogen such as estradiol.", "sentence": "THE FEM'&MS, THE ANTI-BOYOTICS, THE TIT TACS (well okay I haven't started progesterone yet) BUT HOLY SHIT IM SO HAPPY.", "communities": [ "transgender" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "MtF", "date": "2025-02-25 23:38:44", "timestamp": 1740523124.0 } }, { "id": "114680", "term": "gold star lesbian", "definition": "A lesbian who has never had sex with a man.", "sentence": "Biphobia in Sapphic scene, Gold Star Lesbian Requiem", "communities": [ "lesbian" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "transgendercirclejerk", "date": "2023-12-30 15:07:35", "timestamp": 1703945255.0 } }, { "id": "108888", "term": "transbutch", "definition": "Transgender expression of butch-ness; alternatively butch transness. \"Butch\" is used to describe a wide variety of gender expressions and identities adjacent to masculinity or \"butchilinity\".", "sentence": "ā€” Translesbian that fluxes/flows between being a transfemme and transbutch.", "communities": [ "transfeminine" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "actuallesbians", "date": "2022-08-28 00:38:04", "timestamp": 1661639884.0 } }, { "id": "155055", "term": "poppers", "definition": "Drugs of the alkyl nitrate class used recreationally as a sexual stimulant, especially among gay men.", "sentence": "Just a gay guy familiar with poppers.", "communities": [ "gay" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "lgbt", "date": "2022-06-13 06:04:59", "timestamp": 1655093099.0 } }, { "id": "110284", "term": "zap", "definition": "Slang term for electrolytic epilation.", "sentence": "I had the very occasional zap for a few years after surgery.", "communities": [ "transfeminine" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "ftm", "date": "2024-02-07 12:10:54", "timestamp": 1707304254.0 } }, { "id": "135639", "term": "AC/DC", "definition": "Said of a person, bisexual, referring to being attracted to women and men.", "sentence": "My mom grew up in the 50ā€™s-60ā€™s and when I told her a friend was bi she called it AC/DC.", "communities": [], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "bisexual", "date": "2024-11-28 18:14:25", "timestamp": 1732814065.0 } }, { "id": "4972", "term": "activist", "definition": "A person who is politically active in campaigning for change to an existing sociopolitical or cultural order.", "sentence": "And Karl's dad is a Catholic activist, right?", "communities": [], "metadata": { "source": "Podcasts", "title": "Behind the Bastards" } }, { "id": "120689", "term": "hunty", "definition": "A portmanteau of \"honey\" and \"cunt\", usually considered a term of supposed endearment.", "sentence": "This is the real tea hunty", "communities": [ "gay male" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "gay", "date": "2019-05-29 13:40:35", "timestamp": 1559130035.0 } }, { "id": "211669", "term": "fag hags", "definition": "A woman, typically a heterosexual one, possibly ageing, who prefers, enjoys, or seeks out the company of homosexual men. This term is offensive to gay men and misogynistic to heterosexual women. Once common, now rarely used within queer communities.", "sentence": "you need new fag hags if they leave you alone in a dark room all day ā¤ļø", "communities": [ "gay male" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "transgendercirclejerk", "date": "2023-11-17 17:41:08", "timestamp": 1700239268.0 } }, { "id": "108891", "term": "m4t", "definition": "Personal ad shorthand for a man looking for a transgender woman.", "sentence": "\"cismale looking for transgender female\" m4t, m4f...", "communities": [ "transfeminine" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "trans", "date": "2013-02-01 06:52:51", "timestamp": 1359697971.0 } }, { "id": "212722", "term": "fruity", "definition": "Slang for a gay man, especially for a feminine gay man. Outdated and often offensive, because it implies someone is easily \"picked,\" or associates someone with its other slang meanings of \"dupe,\" \"victim,\" or someone living with mental illness.", "sentence": "But if a random stranger called me fruity, yeah Iā€™d probably take offense to it", "communities": [], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "lgbt", "date": "2023-09-08 01:30:20", "timestamp": 1694129420.0 } }, { "id": "107001", "term": "truscum", "definition": "A person who adheres to a strict medical definition of being transgender and believes that gender dysphoria is an essential trait.", "sentence": "I have *really fucking bad dysphoria* and truscum rhetoric over the years had me convinced I didn't have enough to be trans.", "communities": [ "transgender" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "asktransgender", "date": "2024-03-21 12:57:21", "timestamp": 1711022241.0 } }, { "id": "158129", "term": "crack", "definition": "To realize that one is transgender.", "sentence": "No, thanks to my egg cracking I have chance to live a happy life as my true self.", "communities": [ "transgender" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "asktransgender", "date": "2025-06-11 08:15:33", "timestamp": 1749622533.0 } }, { "id": "98867", "term": "tenderqueer", "definition": "A potentially derogatory slang term used to designate queer persons who have a preference for a state of radical vulnerability, in the most extreme case potentially being over-sharing and forcing their emotional labor onto others without consent.", "sentence": "Okay but tenderqueer is a really fucked up term and we really shouldn't be using it.", "communities": [ "LGBTQ" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "radicalqueers", "date": "2021-11-17 15:58:53", "timestamp": 1637161133.0 } }, { "id": "157863", "term": "boymoder", "definition": "One who is in boymode, especially a trans woman who is on HRT but is not out.", "sentence": "/hj I could absolutely see TERFs harassing cis guys in fear of the boymoder boogeyman", "communities": [ "transgender" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "transgendercirclejerk", "date": "2022-03-11 13:45:22", "timestamp": 1647002722.0 } }, { "id": "103268", "term": "cissplain", "definition": "To explain transgender issues, people or behavior to a trans person (as a cis person) in a condescending manner, presuming the listenerā€™s inferior understanding.", "sentence": "He then proceeded to cissplain the process I should go through.", "communities": [ "transgender" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "MtF", "date": "2024-07-25 18:37:35", "timestamp": 1721925455.0 } }, { "id": "157492", "term": "vers", "definition": "ā€¢ LGBTQ+ community slang for someone who \"switches\" between the \"giving\" and \"receiving\" during sex. \"Vers\" is short for \"versatile.\" \"Switch\" is sometimes also used in a BDSM context, to indicate someone who \"switches\" between the dominant and submissive roles.\r\nā€¢ One who is willing to take either a submissive or a dominant role in a sexual relationship.", "sentence": "I am a verse/top and if Iā€™m going out with someone whoā€™s also versatile, I usually suggest flipping.", "communities": [ "gay" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "gaybros", "date": "2023-10-29 17:23:50", "timestamp": 1698596630.0 } }, { "id": "140236", "term": "BJ", "definition": "Initialism of blow job.", "sentence": "Maybe not the whole sex but like a bj or something?", "communities": [], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "asexuality", "date": "2020-02-15 23:50:08", "timestamp": 1581807008.0 } }, { "id": "101994", "term": "enby", "definition": "A nonbinary person, typically a young adult or an adolescent.", "sentence": "waghhghhh so i (24 enby, they/he) had sex for the first time yesterday!!", "communities": [ "nonbinary" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "demisexuality", "date": "2024-08-19 16:17:19", "timestamp": 1724077039.0 } }, { "id": "157480", "term": "vers", "definition": "ā€¢ LGBTQ+ community slang for someone who \"switches\" between the \"giving\" and \"receiving\" during sex. \"Vers\" is short for \"versatile.\" \"Switch\" is sometimes also used in a BDSM context, to indicate someone who \"switches\" between the dominant and submissive roles.\r\nā€¢ One who is willing to take either a submissive or a dominant role in a sexual relationship.", "sentence": "Idk what happened, but we are both somewhat VERS now.", "communities": [ "gay" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "gaybros", "date": "2023-11-29 14:23:32", "timestamp": 1701264212.0 } }, { "id": "168383", "term": "hatchling", "definition": "A person who has (especially recently) realized that they are transgender.", "sentence": "Just thought I'd say that as advice for my hatchling sisters", "communities": [ "transgender" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "MtF", "date": "2020-07-14 14:50:16", "timestamp": 1594731016.0 } }, { "id": "91782", "term": "faux queen", "definition": "A cis female performance artist who performs in female drag at drag shows, or acts like a drag queen.", "sentence": "I think the term faux queen is reserved for cis-gendered women (aka women who were born with a female's set of genitalia), but I could be wrong.", "communities": [ "drag", "gay male" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "rupaulsdragrace", "date": "2016-07-23 20:50:30", "timestamp": 1469299830.0 } }, { "id": "140316", "term": "BJ", "definition": "Initialism of blow job.", "sentence": "Now coming to the story, Y asked me to give him a BJ when we were in the workplace.", "communities": [], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "LGBTindia", "date": "2024-03-28 12:36:57", "timestamp": 1711625817.0 } }, { "id": "20085", "term": "tea", "definition": "Information, especially gossip.", "sentence": "On my podcast, Tell Me Something Messy, I'm diving into all the juicy stories and sizzling hot tea that'll make you want to live your life liberated and free.", "communities": [ "gay" ], "metadata": { "source": "Podcasts", "title": "First Date Follow Up - The Jubal Show" } }, { "id": "109024", "term": "pig in a wig", "definition": "An unattractive person wearing a wig; alternatively, a trans woman who does not \"pass\" (is clearly identifiable as transgender).", "sentence": "You forgetting Violet's \"*I'm Lady MacBitch and you're a pig in a wig*\" to Jasmine tho", "communities": [ "transfeminine" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "rupaulsdragrace", "date": "2020-06-12 02:21:07", "timestamp": 1591921267.0 } }, { "id": "994", "term": "slay", "definition": "Used to express approval or amazement.", "sentence": "She's got the faces, she's got every like she's gonna slay dancing with the stars.", "communities": [ "drag" ], "metadata": { "source": "Podcasts", "title": "Cancelled with Tana Mongeau & Brooke Schofield" } }, { "id": "4989", "term": "activist", "definition": "A person who is politically active in campaigning for change to an existing sociopolitical or cultural order.", "sentence": "Delaware activist judge Kathleen McCormick declined to reinstate his pay package.", "communities": [], "metadata": { "source": "Podcasts", "title": "Tomorrow" } }, { "id": "115671", "term": "sporty dyke", "definition": "A lesbian who is stereotypically into sports or who wears \"sporty\" clothing (such as headbands, gym shorts, cut-off shirts, etc.).", "sentence": "Pheonix-chics: Bisexual version of sporty dykes.", "communities": [ "lesbian" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "bisexual", "date": "2018-01-09 15:32:53", "timestamp": 1515508373.0 } }, { "id": "113691", "term": "high femme", "definition": "A femme person who expresses their gender in ultra feminine ways. Often, but not exclusively, this refers to a queer woman.", "sentence": "My family was chill when I was a gnc teenager, sorority high femme lesbian, and whatever regression to gnc/butch weirdo thing I went through post college.", "communities": [ "lesbian" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "ftm", "date": "2024-11-13 01:19:48", "timestamp": 1731457188.0 } }, { "id": "157467", "term": "twunky", "definition": "Being or resembling a twunk (ā€œmuscular twinkā€, \"twink\" meaning \"young, attractive, slim male\").", "sentence": "Strobe + bomb (a twunky looking dancing PokĆ©mon that has more fairy moves )", "communities": [ "gay" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "gaymers", "date": "2021-08-11 22:08:02", "timestamp": 1628712482.0 } }, { "id": "325", "term": "sugar daddy", "definition": "Expression of the Black community in the 1920s, to refer to an older, wealthy partner. Over time, this expression became used by the LGBTQIA+ community as well.", "sentence": "And then, well, now I have a date with a sugar daddy who fell in love.", "communities": [], "metadata": { "source": "Podcasts", "title": "Au Parloir" } }, { "id": "206345", "term": "snatched", "definition": "Good-looking.", "sentence": "Waist is snatched, body is melanated to the gods, commanding eyes and energy and full lips !", "communities": [], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "bisexual", "date": "2025-07-16 07:10:13", "timestamp": 1752642613.0 } }, { "id": "202169", "term": "unclockable", "definition": "Not recognizable as transgender or a drag performer; passing.", "sentence": "In my view, completely unclockable!", "communities": [ "transgender" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "transvoice", "date": "2022-08-12 23:28:24", "timestamp": 1660339704.0 } }, { "id": "112524", "term": "femme", "definition": "Traditionally, a lesbian who appears \"feminine\" or acts in a \"feminine\" manner. However, the term is often used to describe a wide variety of gender expressions and identities adjacent to feminine or femme-ness.", "sentence": "Look for other queer femmesā€”those are your people!", "communities": [ "lesbian" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "lgbt", "date": "2024-02-25 16:38:40", "timestamp": 1708875520.0 } }, { "id": "155437", "term": "poz friendly", "definition": "Willing to have sex with someone who is HIV positive by someone who is HIV negative.", "sentence": "He asked if I was poz friendly and I told him exactly what I said above.", "communities": [ "gay" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "gaybros", "date": "2022-04-08 03:07:08", "timestamp": 1649380028.0 } }, { "id": "118694", "term": "gold star gay", "definition": "A gay person who has never had sex with a person of the opposite gender.", "sentence": "I sometimes refer to myself as a gold star gay but it's more of a tongue-in-cheek rather than a serious thing.", "communities": [ "gay male" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "lgbt", "date": "2013-10-09 01:45:59", "timestamp": 1381275959.0 } }, { "id": "203129", "term": "VT", "definition": "Initialism of voice training.", "sentence": "Ive had 1 VT lesson with a teacher and some self practise at home.", "communities": [ "transgender" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "transvoice", "date": "2025-06-09 21:55:23", "timestamp": 1749498923.0 } }, { "id": "169744", "term": "orchi", "definition": "Clipping of orchiectomy.", "sentence": "I fought long and hard to get my orchi and after two years have no regrets.", "communities": [ "transgender" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "NonBinary", "date": "2022-06-10 05:17:00", "timestamp": 1654831020.0 } }, { "id": "102303", "term": "ace", "definition": "Asexual; an asexual person.", "sentence": "I don't understand people who make a big deal out of others being ace.", "communities": [ "asexual" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "lgbt", "date": "2020-04-02 05:32:47", "timestamp": 1585798367.0 } }, { "id": "110276", "term": "zap", "definition": "Slang term for electrolytic epilation.", "sentence": "I can absolutely build a little device, and zap a few hairs when I have time.", "communities": [ "transfeminine" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "MtF", "date": "2025-05-04 05:45:13", "timestamp": 1746330313.0 } }, { "id": "219716", "term": "camp", "definition": "ā€¢ Camp can also be a social practice and function as a style and performance identity for several types of entertainment including film, cabaret, and pantomime. Where high art necessarily incorporates beauty and value, camp necessarily needs to be lively, audacious and dynamic.\r\nā€¢ An aesthetic style and sensibility that regards something as appealing because of its bad taste and ironic value. Camp aesthetics disrupt many of modernism's notions of what art is and what can be classified as high art by inverting aesthetic attributes such as beauty, value, and taste through an invitation of a different kind of apprehension and consumption.\r\nā€¢ To behave, speak, act, etc. in a flamboyant, affected, ostentatious, or exaggerated manner stereotypically associated with gay men.\r\nā€¢ Gay.", "sentence": "A drag king is camp.", "communities": [ "LGBTQ" ], "metadata": { "source": "OpenSubtitles", "title": "Venus Boyz", "imdb_id": "293685" } }, { "id": "203151", "term": "šŸ„š", "definition": "Represents an egg, as in a person regarded as having not yet realized they are transgender.", "sentence": "I am like all but certain this individual is an egg šŸ„š.", "communities": [ "transgender" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "ftm", "date": "2023-02-09 23:23:18", "timestamp": 1675981398.0 } }, { "id": "155522", "term": "rice queen", "definition": "A non-Asian man who is mostly attracted to East Asian men.", "sentence": "Nothing is more offensive to me than people accuse me of being a rice queen.", "communities": [ "gay" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "gaysian", "date": "2017-09-14 23:38:52", "timestamp": 1505425132.0 } }, { "id": "114675", "term": "gold star lesbian", "definition": "A lesbian who has never had sex with a man.", "sentence": "This is just as bad as gold star lesbian terfs basically.", "communities": [ "lesbian" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "transgendercirclejerk", "date": "2025-05-07 02:39:19", "timestamp": 1746578359.0 } }, { "id": "1760", "term": "kink", "definition": "ā€¢ A specific sexual desire, practice, or activity considered unconventional but within certain socially constructed boundaries.\r\nā€¢ A thief or burglar.", "sentence": "That you consider yourself part of the kink scene?", "communities": [], "metadata": { "source": "Podcasts", "title": "The Louis Theroux Podcast" } }, { "id": "214821", "term": "tops", "definition": "ā€¢ A \"top\" is an individual who acts as the \"giving\" partner in sexual encounters. Sometimes used as a self-descriptor within queer communities, but should be replicated with caution. Sometimes used as a verb (\"to top someone\"). Offensive if applied to LGBTQ+ individuals from outwith queer communities.\r\nā€¢ Someone, typically a man, who is penetrating someone else during sexual intercourse or someone who has a preference for penetrating during such intercourse.", "sentence": "I keep accidentally making stone tops realize they're switches/bottoms and idk how to feel about it?", "communities": [ "LGBTQ" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "actuallesbians", "date": "2025-04-14 08:47:10", "timestamp": 1744613230.0 } }, { "id": "110152", "term": "outie", "definition": "A term sometimes used to refer to the external genitalia of a transfeminine person.", "sentence": "I really love outies, but I love anything as long as I love who's attached to it!", "communities": [ "transfeminine" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "actuallesbians", "date": "2016-02-03 21:16:58", "timestamp": 1454530618.0 } }, { "id": "99383", "term": "oral bottom", "definition": "A gay man who likes to give, more than receive, oral sex.", "sentence": "I (gay m) frequently hook up with men from Grindr, and as an oral bottom I find sucking a man with a condom to be very unpleasant.", "communities": [ "LGBTQ" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "lgbt", "date": "2020-02-11 20:35:02", "timestamp": 1581449702.0 } }, { "id": "91184", "term": "clock", "definition": "To take notice of, to realize, or to recognize someone as being transgender.", "sentence": "I usually get clocked by other trans people.", "communities": [ "drag", "transgender" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "ftm", "date": "2024-09-13 18:43:45", "timestamp": 1726245825.0 } }, { "id": "20335", "term": "beat", "definition": "ā€¢ An area frequented by gay men in search of sexual activity.\r\nā€¢ Having impressively attractive makeup.", "sentence": "It was a very good beat plus, but it wasn't an A, and every piece needed to be an A.", "communities": [ "gay" ], "metadata": { "source": "Podcasts", "title": "KILLED" } }, { "id": "168507", "term": "hen", "definition": "The penis of a trans woman.", "sentence": "Therefore, our female penises should be called hens.", "communities": [ "transgender" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "transgendercirclejerk", "date": "2017-10-29 06:32:11", "timestamp": 1509255131.0 } }, { "id": "118698", "term": "gold star gay", "definition": "A gay person who has never had sex with a person of the opposite gender.", "sentence": "It's just a term people use to try and be funny, like gold star gay.", "communities": [ "gay male" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "gaybros", "date": "2018-11-24 23:19:01", "timestamp": 1543097941.0 } }, { "id": "205356", "term": "lesboy", "definition": "A person who identifies as male and as a lesbian.", "sentence": "I am a lesboy.", "communities": [], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "LGBTeens", "date": "2014-07-11 09:33:25", "timestamp": 1405064005.0 } }, { "id": "98663", "term": "versatile", "definition": "Someone who penetrates or is penetrated during sexual intercourse or someone who has a preference for both being penetrated and penetrating during such intercourse.", "sentence": "Both my boyfriend and I are are 50/50 versatile.", "communities": [ "LGBTQ" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "gaybros", "date": "2012-11-26 11:55:47", "timestamp": 1353927347.0 } }, { "id": "214720", "term": "swishy", "definition": "Slang for a feminine gay man, originating from 1930s USA. Not especially offensive, but should still be accompanied by clearer LGBTQ+ terminology to aid discoverability.", "sentence": "What I'm assuming you were referring to are stereotypes - the swishy flamer with a boa & glitter belting show tunes.", "communities": [], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "gay", "date": "2022-08-05 19:11:53", "timestamp": 1659719513.0 } }, { "id": "106801", "term": "girlmode", "definition": "When a transgender person presents a gender expression codified as female, typically if that person is a transgender man. Usually used in the context of going incognito as a cisgender woman.", "sentence": "I know you tried to boymode very hard a few times, but I don't think you can turn girlmode off tbh šŸ˜‚", "communities": [ "transgender", "transgender" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "trans", "date": "2022-10-22 14:13:15", "timestamp": 1666440795.0 } }, { "id": "157485", "term": "vers", "definition": "ā€¢ LGBTQ+ community slang for someone who \"switches\" between the \"giving\" and \"receiving\" during sex. \"Vers\" is short for \"versatile.\" \"Switch\" is sometimes also used in a BDSM context, to indicate someone who \"switches\" between the dominant and submissive roles.\r\nā€¢ One who is willing to take either a submissive or a dominant role in a sexual relationship.", "sentence": "all the bottoms are complaining about the lack of tops, but whereā€™s the actual verse guys that want to top and bottom when the mood strikes?", "communities": [ "gay" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "gaybros", "date": "2024-02-01 21:13:21", "timestamp": 1706818401.0 } }, { "id": "113933", "term": "futch", "definition": "A person who exhibits traits of both a femme (often used to describe a wide variety of gender expressions and identities adjacent to feminine or femme-ness) and a butch (often used to describe a wide variety of gender expressions and identities adjacent to masculinity or \"butchilinity\").", "sentence": "I am saying futch instead of androgynous because, technically, at 3 years on estrogen, I already have an androgynous face.", "communities": [ "lesbian" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "asktransgender", "date": "2025-07-14 02:13:25", "timestamp": 1752452005.0 } }, { "id": "113717", "term": "pillow queen", "definition": "A woman who likes to receive and not give, sexually.", "sentence": "Should I call myself a pillow queen lesbian?", "communities": [ "lesbian" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "actuallesbians", "date": "2018-11-28 23:22:36", "timestamp": 1543443756.0 } }, { "id": "102086", "term": "enby", "definition": "A nonbinary person, typically a young adult or an adolescent.", "sentence": "I have a consultation with El Gammal this week (yay) and Iā€™m terrified - Iā€™m not strictly FtM and sit somewhere between enby-transmasc.", "communities": [ "nonbinary" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "transgenderUK", "date": "2024-10-15 01:43:12", "timestamp": 1728949392.0 } }, { "id": "169383", "term": "manmode", "definition": "The state of presenting as a man, regardless of one's actual gender identity, especially of a trans woman.", "sentence": "And that maybe I should invest in a binder to improve my manmode I guess.", "communities": [ "transgender" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "MtF", "date": "2025-06-12 13:35:26", "timestamp": 1749728126.0 } }, { "id": "151334", "term": "breeding", "definition": "Ejaculation inside the rectum during bareback anal sex.", "sentence": "I say this as a vers guy, yes breeding a guy and getting bred by a guy are both very hot.", "communities": [ "gay" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "askgaybros", "date": "2024-03-14 20:09:49", "timestamp": 1710443389.0 } }, { "id": "106622", "term": "baby trans", "definition": "Someone who has recently discovered that they are transgender.", "sentence": "Your trans friends will probably be delighted by your baby trans phase, embrace it :)", "communities": [ "transgender", "transgender" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "MtF", "date": "2025-06-15 05:49:22", "timestamp": 1749959362.0 } }, { "id": "169978", "term": "princess wand", "definition": "A trans woman's penis.", "sentence": "Had to slap this man last night, because when we were hooking up, he kept grabbing my princess wand.", "communities": [ "transgender" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "trans", "date": "2024-05-02 18:57:27", "timestamp": 1714669047.0 } }, { "id": "110240", "term": "zap", "definition": "Slang term for electrolytic epilation.", "sentence": "I'm zapping hair with positrons!", "communities": [ "transfeminine" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "asktransgender", "date": "2015-04-21 00:45:00", "timestamp": 1429569900.0 } }, { "id": "140134", "term": "BJ", "definition": "Initialism of blow job.", "sentence": "I got my first bj.", "communities": [], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "gaybros", "date": "2024-09-29 07:02:26", "timestamp": 1727586146.0 } }, { "id": "66", "term": "kikis", "definition": "ā€¢ A gathering of friends for the purpose of gossiping and chit-chat.\r\nā€¢ 1940s slang describing a lesbian comfortable with either a more passive or more aggressive partner in a relationship.", "sentence": "Nothing is off the table for our messy kikis.", "communities": [ "drag", "lesbian", "African-American transgender", "African-American gay male" ], "metadata": { "source": "Podcasts", "title": "First Date Follow Up - The Jubal Show" } }, { "id": "98679", "term": "versatile", "definition": "Someone who penetrates or is penetrated during sexual intercourse or someone who has a preference for both being penetrated and penetrating during such intercourse.", "sentence": "Well, she had told me she is versatile but I kinda have the feeling she is more of a sub kind of lover.", "communities": [ "LGBTQ" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "actuallesbians", "date": "2025-03-07 01:07:06", "timestamp": 1741306026.0 } }, { "id": "106659", "term": "repressor", "definition": "A transgender person who fights or represses the wish to change their gender expression.", "sentence": "I'm becoming very paranoid, because technically I could be a repressor?", "communities": [ "transgender" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "asktransgender", "date": "2023-03-25 21:31:26", "timestamp": 1679776286.0 } }, { "id": "107984", "term": "transition goal", "definition": "A transgender person's goals for transition, or an example of what they would like to achieve for such a transition (for example, pointing to an actor or musician of their desired gender expression and declaring that person \"transition goals\").", "sentence": "I personally find it to be a pretty healthy transition goal and it happens to avoid the whole \"women are more than just their bodies\" issue, which is cool.", "communities": [ "transgender" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "MtF", "date": "2025-07-13 16:14:50", "timestamp": 1752416090.0 } }, { "id": "115552", "term": "stone butch", "definition": "Typically, a lesbian who is butch or otherwise displays traditional \"masculinity\". Alternatively, a subculture of persons identifying as stone butch as opposed to femme or \"high femme\". Such persons may be non-binary or have other various gender identities.", "sentence": "I used to consider myself a stone butch, but now I find myself wanting to bottom during sex.", "communities": [ "lesbian" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "actuallesbians", "date": "2025-04-17 05:35:38", "timestamp": 1744860938.0 } }, { "id": "85703", "term": "rough trade", "definition": "Slang for a man who identifies as straight, but sometimes has sex with queer men (usually as a \"top\").", "sentence": "Often, the terms trade and rough trade are treated as synonymous.", "communities": [ "gay" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "rupaulsdragrace", "date": "2015-03-26 10:09:00", "timestamp": 1427360940.0 } }, { "id": "202090", "term": "trutrans", "definition": "A genuine or legitimate transgender person.", "sentence": "Are you sure you're trutrans?", "communities": [ "transgender" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "asktransgender", "date": "2016-06-12 01:28:11", "timestamp": 1465687691.0 } }, { "id": "158012", "term": "clocky", "definition": "Clearly identifiable as transgender; capable of being easily clocked; not passing.", "sentence": "We are both trans women and yesterday she asked me if she is clocky.", "communities": [ "transgender" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "MtF", "date": "2025-07-09 21:33:30", "timestamp": 1752089610.0 } }, { "id": "146645", "term": "passoid", "definition": "A transgender person who is passing.", "sentence": "I will not tolerate anti passoid propaganda because there is a possibility I will be a passoid in 10 years if I work really hard and get all the procedures.", "communities": [], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "transgendercirclejerk", "date": "2025-02-22 10:20:08", "timestamp": 1740216008.0 } }, { "id": "170462", "term": "spiro", "definition": "Clipping of spironolactone.", "sentence": "\"Oh, your potassium levels have gone down now, must have been the spiro.", "communities": [ "transgender" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "asktransgender", "date": "2025-01-08 21:39:53", "timestamp": 1736368793.0 } }, { "id": "203164", "term": "cunty", "definition": "Amazing or very good or cool, especially with regard to femininity.", "sentence": "I asked the AI for the 10 LGBT commandments thinking it would be cunty and a little funny.", "communities": [], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "lgbt", "date": "2024-08-15 00:15:46", "timestamp": 1723673746.0 } }, { "id": "115570", "term": "stone butch", "definition": "Typically, a lesbian who is butch or otherwise displays traditional \"masculinity\". Alternatively, a subculture of persons identifying as stone butch as opposed to femme or \"high femme\". Such persons may be non-binary or have other various gender identities.", "sentence": "In *Stone Butch Blues*, Feinberg also talks about how the stone butches took a lot of pride in defending their community, but also tended to bottle up emotions.", "communities": [ "lesbian" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "bisexual", "date": "2023-09-30 15:54:47", "timestamp": 1696082087.0 } }, { "id": "206202", "term": "poz", "definition": "ā€¢ HIV positive.\r\nā€¢ To infect (someone) with a sexually transmitted infection; especially HIV.", "sentence": "TL;DR - dating a poz guy for the first time and need advice on how to deal.", "communities": [], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "lgbt", "date": "2011-02-24 19:42:03", "timestamp": 1298572923.0 } }, { "id": "74044", "term": "bottom", "definition": "ā€¢ A \"bottom\" is an individual who acts as the \"receiving\" partner in sexual encounters. Sometimes used as a self-descriptor within queer communities, but should be replicated with caution. Sometimes used as a verb (\"to bottom for someone\"). Offensive if applied to LGBTQ+ individuals from outwith queer communities.\r\nā€¢ Someone, typically a man, who is penetrated during sexual intercourse or someone who has a preference for being penetrated during such intercourse.\r\nā€¢ The buttocks.\r\nā€¢ Genitalia; genitals.", "sentence": "Mentioning which bottom surgery you're looking at (or more vaguely whether you're transmasc or transfem) helps with these questions too :)", "communities": [ "gay", "LGBTQ" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "ask_transgender", "date": "2020-09-21 18:08:00", "timestamp": 1600704480.0 } }, { "id": "108039", "term": "transition goal", "definition": "A transgender person's goals for transition, or an example of what they would like to achieve for such a transition (for example, pointing to an actor or musician of their desired gender expression and declaring that person \"transition goals\").", "sentence": "/uj my transition goals are both \"wow that guy I just walked past shares a lot of my physical traits, I'd love to look like that someday!\"", "communities": [ "transgender" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "transgendercirclejerk", "date": "2019-11-10 15:58:28", "timestamp": 1573397908.0 } }, { "id": "205371", "term": "lesboy", "definition": "A person who identifies as male and as a lesbian.", "sentence": "i feel a strong connection to the lesboy label, but my issue is, i'm not only attracted to fem people.", "communities": [], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "AskLGBT", "date": "2025-04-13 01:16:37", "timestamp": 1744499797.0 } }, { "id": "116800", "term": "seahorse dad", "definition": "Slang term for a transgender man who is carrying, or has carried, a child to term.", "sentence": "Generally whats the consensus for seahorse dads/trans men carrying here?", "communities": [ "transmasculine" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "transgenderUK", "date": "2023-11-12 01:03:43", "timestamp": 1699747423.0 } }, { "id": "168266", "term": "girlcock", "definition": "The penis of a trans woman.", "sentence": "I don't like using the usual terms for my genitals, I call my penis my clit or girlcock.", "communities": [ "transgender" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "asktransgender", "date": "2015-08-21 16:39:18", "timestamp": 1440167958.0 } }, { "id": "110937", "term": "zucchini", "definition": "A queerplatonic partner.", "sentence": "Look up QPR zucchini.", "communities": [ "aromantic" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "Asexual", "date": "2019-12-30 10:49:54", "timestamp": 1577699394.0 } }, { "id": "99306", "term": "power bottom", "definition": "A power bottom is someone who aggressively enjoys being the receptive partner.", "sentence": "To my understanding, a power bottom is the same as a dom or dominant bottom, which means that instead of being submissive, he takes control in the bedroom.", "communities": [ "LGBTQ" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "askgaybros", "date": "2024-11-01 21:01:43", "timestamp": 1730491303.0 } }, { "id": "95565", "term": "queer time", "definition": "Time as experienced outside hetero- and cis-normative structures, milestones, and behaviors. In this way, queer time is time not judged by events like marriage or childbirth.", "sentence": "You have not known struggle until you are trying to lead a discussion about queer time and you see your prof gesturing with their paws and can't laugh.", "communities": [ "LGBTQ" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "QueerTheory", "date": "2025-03-14 23:36:30", "timestamp": 1741991790.0 } }, { "id": "169952", "term": "pre-T", "definition": "Not yet having undergone testosterone-based hormone replacement therapy.", "sentence": "I am pre-T and while I pass alright visually, I'm scared people will question my voice or question me if I'm trans or something.", "communities": [ "transgender" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "transgenderau", "date": "2019-01-25 12:22:26", "timestamp": 1548415346.0 } }, { "id": "170038", "term": "prog", "definition": "Progesterone.", "sentence": "I recently started taking my prog rectally, and noticed that the (empty?)", "communities": [ "transgender" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "asktransgender", "date": "2025-04-17 16:55:33", "timestamp": 1744901733.0 } }, { "id": "114721", "term": "bambi lesbian", "definition": "A lesbian who identifies as bambi-sexual, i.e. being more interested in kissing, carressing, cuddling, etc. than genital stimulation or sexual intercourse.", "sentence": "And i have a question for bambi lesbians or ace lesbians.", "communities": [ "lesbian" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "asexuality", "date": "2025-03-29 19:00:31", "timestamp": 1743271231.0 } }, { "id": "135632", "term": "AC/DC", "definition": "Said of a person, bisexual, referring to being attracted to women and men.", "sentence": "I absolutely LOVE \"to be AC/DC\" but I've never heard it.", "communities": [], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "bisexual", "date": "2023-06-17 00:43:54", "timestamp": 1686955434.0 } }, { "id": "154720", "term": "Mary", "definition": "Women's names have often been appropriated as slurs for gay men, especially for feminine gay men and transfeminine people. \"Nancy\" is probably the most common, across the 20th Century globally. All are offensive.", "sentence": "What decade or year did the term Mary become a thing?", "communities": [ "gay" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "gay", "date": "2024-06-04 04:07:45", "timestamp": 1717466865.0 } }, { "id": "1758", "term": "kink", "definition": "ā€¢ A specific sexual desire, practice, or activity considered unconventional but within certain socially constructed boundaries.\r\nā€¢ A thief or burglar.", "sentence": "They discover a kink they're into.", "communities": [], "metadata": { "source": "Podcasts", "title": "The Viall Files" } }, { "id": "99777", "term": "queer coding", "definition": "A situation in which a character is given traits or behaviors which suggest they are not heterosexual and/or cisgender, without the character being outright confirmed as having such an identity.", "sentence": "but still, there is some queer coding.", "communities": [ "LGBTQ" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "bisexual", "date": "2025-05-07 22:40:08", "timestamp": 1746650408.0 } }, { "id": "165458", "term": "gender", "definition": "Evoking positive feelings regarding gender, like gender euphoria or gender envy.", "sentence": "She's so fucking gender", "communities": [ "transgender" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "ladyladyboners", "date": "2022-09-14 05:41:37", "timestamp": 1663126897.0 } }, { "id": "227775", "term": "cruising", "definition": "To walk or drive about a locality in search of a sex partner, usually of the anonymous, casual, one-time variety.", "sentence": "Married gentlemen, before cruising the Ramble...", "communities": [ "gay male" ], "metadata": { "source": "OpenSubtitles", "title": "Angels in America", "imdb_id": "318997" } }, { "id": "108382", "term": "t4t", "definition": "Short form of \"trans for trans\", indicating transgender persons interested in other transgender persons romantically and/or sexually.", "sentence": "could be t4t (trans for trans) when it comes to dating men.", "communities": [ "transgender" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "questioning", "date": "2025-05-02 03:41:56", "timestamp": 1746150116.0 } }, { "id": "115539", "term": "pillow princess", "definition": "A woman who likes to receive and not give, sexually.", "sentence": "The gender neutral term for pillow princess is mattress monarch", "communities": [ "lesbian" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "lesbian", "date": "2024-07-30 06:22:54", "timestamp": 1722313374.0 } }, { "id": "108235", "term": "t4t", "definition": "Short form of \"trans for trans\", indicating transgender persons interested in other transgender persons romantically and/or sexually.", "sentence": "Like someone will make a positivity post about their t4t relationship and someone will shame them for being t4t.", "communities": [ "transgender" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "ftm", "date": "2025-01-16 21:37:34", "timestamp": 1737059854.0 } }, { "id": "112520", "term": "femme", "definition": "Traditionally, a lesbian who appears \"feminine\" or acts in a \"feminine\" manner. However, the term is often used to describe a wide variety of gender expressions and identities adjacent to feminine or femme-ness.", "sentence": "As a femme queer person.. most other lesbians are clueless when they are being hit on.", "communities": [ "lesbian" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "lgbt", "date": "2023-02-10 02:07:49", "timestamp": 1675991269.0 } }, { "id": "214824", "term": "tops", "definition": "ā€¢ A \"top\" is an individual who acts as the \"giving\" partner in sexual encounters. Sometimes used as a self-descriptor within queer communities, but should be replicated with caution. Sometimes used as a verb (\"to top someone\"). Offensive if applied to LGBTQ+ individuals from outwith queer communities.\r\nā€¢ Someone, typically a man, who is penetrating someone else during sexual intercourse or someone who has a preference for penetrating during such intercourse.", "sentence": "I'm switch as hell but somehow always seem to attract tops/dommes who feel like I'm perfect person to give them a new experience!", "communities": [ "LGBTQ" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "actuallesbians", "date": "2025-04-14 12:49:33", "timestamp": 1744627773.0 } }, { "id": "107995", "term": "transition goal", "definition": "A transgender person's goals for transition, or an example of what they would like to achieve for such a transition (for example, pointing to an actor or musician of their desired gender expression and declaring that person \"transition goals\").", "sentence": "*cough* transition goals *cough*", "communities": [ "transgender" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "TransSpace", "date": "2021-02-07 22:54:44", "timestamp": 1612734884.0 } }, { "id": "86336", "term": "sugar daddy", "definition": "Expression of the Black community in the 1920s, to refer to an older, wealthy partner. Over time, this expression became used by the LGBTQIA+ community as well.", "sentence": "I mean a sugar daddy requesting money is THE red flag lol", "communities": [], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "gaybros", "date": "2021-04-20 16:43:40", "timestamp": 1618929820.0 } }, { "id": "101591", "term": "femby", "definition": "A slang term sometimes used to refer to femme enbies (non-binary people) or non-binary women. A portmanteau of \"femme\" and \"enby\".", "sentence": "As a very PRO PASTELS Femby, this hit me right in the feels.", "communities": [ "nonbinary" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "trans", "date": "2023-09-17 22:53:31", "timestamp": 1694984011.0 } }, { "id": "151337", "term": "breeding", "definition": "Ejaculation inside the rectum during bareback anal sex.", "sentence": "This new guy Iā€™m dating just told me he has a breeding kink.", "communities": [ "gay" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "askgaybros", "date": "2025-06-02 22:02:15", "timestamp": 1748894535.0 } }, { "id": "129007", "term": "gyal", "definition": "A girl.", "sentence": "Just a Canadian queer gyal looking for some other cool queer people to play Overwatch with!", "communities": [], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "actuallesbians", "date": "2017-10-09 01:57:42", "timestamp": 1507507062.0 } }, { "id": "5473", "term": "go off", "definition": "To perform extremely well; to be impressive or attractive; often used to express encouragement.", "sentence": "Like most people would be like, go off.", "communities": [], "metadata": { "source": "Podcasts", "title": "anything goes with emma chamberlain" } }, { "id": "99373", "term": "total top", "definition": "A total top is one who assumes an exclusively penetrative role for sex.", "sentence": "And Iā€™m not a total top, sorry, normally I shouldnā€™t answer.", "communities": [ "LGBTQ" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "askgaybros", "date": "2023-10-15 04:37:52", "timestamp": 1697337472.0 } }, { "id": "101578", "term": "femby", "definition": "A slang term sometimes used to refer to femme enbies (non-binary people) or non-binary women. A portmanteau of \"femme\" and \"enby\".", "sentence": "Iā€™m a 52yo trans enby femby", "communities": [ "nonbinary" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "asktransgender", "date": "2023-10-27 11:24:43", "timestamp": 1698398683.0 } }, { "id": "116089", "term": "stem", "definition": "A lesbian defined as having a gender presentation between stud (st-) and femme (-em).", "sentence": "Knowing absolutely nothing about you, I'd say your second pic (more stem/masc) makes you look a lot more confident.", "communities": [ "lesbian" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "lesbianfashionadvice", "date": "2021-09-22 20:33:54", "timestamp": 1632335634.0 } }, { "id": "127665", "term": "same gender loving", "definition": "A term used for gay or bisexual persons in the African American community.", "sentence": "There's same gender loving people who are romantics and don't even care for sex.", "communities": [ "African-American lesbian", "African-American gay male" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "bisexual", "date": "2021-04-17 17:04:45", "timestamp": 1618671885.0 } }, { "id": "86313", "term": "stud", "definition": "ā€¢ Community term for an African-American and/or Latinx masculine queer woman. Also known as \"ag.\" Only use if someone self-describes in this way, and avoid using for white people, as this is a term specifically developed by and for African-American and Latinx communities.\r\nā€¢ A masculine or butch lesbian; predominantly utilized in Black and Latina lesbian communities. Should not be used by individuals outside of those communities, as it may be seen as pejorative. Sometimes expanded to refer to other gender identities and expressions.", "sentence": "I consider myself a soft stud and it seems that women like women who dress like women.", "communities": [ "lesbian", "Latine lesbian", "African-American lesbian" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "lesbian", "date": "2021-09-28 20:07:54", "timestamp": 1632852474.0 } }, { "id": "101503", "term": "enban", "definition": "An adult nonbinary person.", "sentence": "I am interested in hearing from both enbans and trans men on this one.", "communities": [ "nonbinary" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "ftm", "date": "2021-09-15 21:34:07", "timestamp": 1631734447.0 } }, { "id": "146674", "term": "transmaxx", "definition": "To undergo gender transition (particularly from male to female) for the perceived social advantages that come with being the opposite sex, especially as regards the sexual marketplace.", "sentence": "I also get the feeling that there could be a lot of real (and very confused) trans women among the transmaxxers, who \"click\" with the incel ideology for some reason.", "communities": [], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "asktransgender", "date": "2022-01-31 20:30:01", "timestamp": 1643657401.0 } }, { "id": "41428", "term": "girl", "definition": "Sometimes used as a slur for a gay man, assuming that being \"feminine\" is \"lower status.\" Therefore offensive to gay men and to women more generally. More often used as a (now widely recognised) term of affection between gay men, though more likely as a friendly term than as a romantic one.", "sentence": "Like, baby girl, you're gonna make it through this.", "communities": [], "metadata": { "source": "Podcasts", "title": "Keep it Positive, Sweetie" } }, { "id": "165459", "term": "gender", "definition": "Evoking positive feelings regarding gender, like gender euphoria or gender envy.", "sentence": "New gender envy/crush just dropped!", "communities": [ "transgender" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "ladyladyboners", "date": "2025-02-17 22:16:26", "timestamp": 1739826986.0 } }, { "id": "143285", "term": "anti-gay", "definition": "ā€¢ Hostile toward gay people; opposed to gay rights; homophobic.\r\nā€¢ Used by some gay people to refer to aspects of the community in critique, especially homogeneity, conformity, obsession with particular types of appearance, and assimilative behavior.", "sentence": "To clarify, it is not a 'constitutional anti-gay law.", "communities": [], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "gaymers", "date": "2013-04-20 17:56:01", "timestamp": 1366473361.0 } }, { "id": "157853", "term": "boymoder", "definition": "One who is in boymode, especially a trans woman who is on HRT but is not out.", "sentence": "Yeah I think that would be weird i mean I'm also a boymoder but just a random person would be really strange.", "communities": [ "transgender" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "asktransgender", "date": "2022-02-16 13:26:21", "timestamp": 1645014381.0 } }, { "id": "169404", "term": "mones", "definition": "Hormones used as part of hormone replacement therapy, especially for transgender or gender variant individuals.", "sentence": "I wonder if my mother would've stood up for me if she realized what I was saying, if she would've fought for me to get the 'mones.", "communities": [], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "MtF", "date": "2024-01-18 02:24:39", "timestamp": 1705541079.0 } }, { "id": "115159", "term": "soft butch", "definition": "A lesbian who exhibits some stereotypical butch traits without fitting the masculine stereotype associated with butch lesbians.", "sentence": "I usually stick close to the soft butch identity.", "communities": [ "lesbian" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "asktransgender", "date": "2016-08-01 19:53:14", "timestamp": 1470073994.0 } }, { "id": "146348", "term": "hon", "definition": "A trans woman who does not pass; a clocky (clearly identifiable as transgender) trans woman.", "sentence": "/uj I might be a hon, but I'm a pretty hon.", "communities": [], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "transgendercirclejerk", "date": "2025-03-21 09:15:46", "timestamp": 1742544946.0 } }, { "id": "204104", "term": "folx", "definition": "Folks; people.", "sentence": "I hope this helps other folx struggling with the same issue!", "communities": [], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "genderqueer", "date": "2024-12-23 18:27:49", "timestamp": 1734974869.0 } }, { "id": "95556", "term": "service top", "definition": "A service top is one who tops (acts as the \"giving\" partner in sexual encounters) under the direction of an eager bottom (who acts as the \"receiving\" partner in sexual encounters).", "sentence": "I love a service top but I would agree weā€™re in the minority of the minority.", "communities": [ "LGBTQ" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "askgaybros", "date": "2024-09-28 21:08:04", "timestamp": 1727550484.0 } }, { "id": "384", "term": "cunty", "definition": "Amazing or very good or cool, especially with regard to femininity.", "sentence": "And I was like, Yeah, chopsticks are so cunty.", "communities": [], "metadata": { "source": "Podcasts", "title": "I've Had It" } }, { "id": "127359", "term": "YAASSS", "definition": "An interjection expressing great pleasure or excitement.", "sentence": "yassss straight girls will buy them, yaasss it will be expensive.", "communities": [], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "transgendercirclejerk", "date": "2021-10-04 16:09:57", "timestamp": 1633356597.0 } }, { "id": "99501", "term": "gaymer", "definition": "Gay persons who have active interest in video games or tabletop games.", "sentence": "Looking to meet Gaymers in DC.", "communities": [ "LGBTQ" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "MeetLGBT", "date": "2015-07-01 06:31:59", "timestamp": 1435725119.0 } }, { "id": "213185", "term": "muscle mary", "definition": "A sports enthusiast; usually one who frequents gyms and training grounds; often used of young gay men obsessed with body building.", "sentence": "My category isnā€™t listed and that would be to become an even bigger muscle Mary than I already am.", "communities": [], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "askgaybros", "date": "2020-11-22 05:03:44", "timestamp": 1606017824.0 } }, { "id": "214769", "term": "switches", "definition": "ā€¢ LGBTQ+ community slang for someone who \"switches\" between the \"giving\" and \"receiving\" during sex. \"Vers\" is short for \"versatile.\" \"Switch\" is sometimes also used in a BDSM context, to indicate someone who \"switches\" between the dominant and submissive roles.\r\nā€¢ One who is willing to take either a submissive or a dominant role in a sexual relationship.", "sentence": "Both me and the person I'm seeing are very much switches.", "communities": [ "LGBTQ" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "actuallesbians", "date": "2025-04-15 19:00:42", "timestamp": 1744736442.0 } }, { "id": "228668", "term": "butch", "definition": "ā€¢ Traditionally, a lesbian who appears \"masculine\" or acts in a \"masculine\" manner. However, the term is often used to describe a wide variety of gender expressions and identities adjacent to masculinity or \"butchilinity\".\r\nā€¢ Heterosexual.", "sentence": "I know, but I was so butch when I said it.", "communities": [ "lesbian" ], "metadata": { "source": "OpenSubtitles", "title": "The Broken Hearts Club: A Romantic Comedy", "imdb_id": "222850" } }, { "id": "126867", "term": "bareback", "definition": "Sexual activity without the use of a condom.", "sentence": "I don't see bareback porn and suddenly think, \"oh I think I'm gonna stop using condoms.\"", "communities": [ "gay male" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "lgbt", "date": "2010-04-09 21:54:33", "timestamp": 1270842873.0 } }, { "id": "110169", "term": "outie", "definition": "A term sometimes used to refer to the external genitalia of a transfeminine person.", "sentence": "Having an outie doesn't make someone less female.", "communities": [ "transfeminine" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "asktransgender", "date": "2011-06-10 16:29:35", "timestamp": 1307716175.0 } }, { "id": "227594", "term": "gender", "definition": "Evoking positive feelings regarding gender, like gender euphoria or gender envy.", "sentence": "We're not gender challenged, but gender gifted.", "communities": [ "transgender" ], "metadata": { "source": "OpenSubtitles", "title": "Transamerica", "imdb_id": "407265" } }, { "id": "227906", "term": "shade", "definition": "A slang term referring to a kind of insult, typically non-verbal in nature. Journalist Anna Holmes called shade \"the art of the sidelong insult\". Merriam-Webster defines it as \"subtle, sneering expression of contempt for or disgust with someoneā€”sometimes verbal, and sometimes not\".", "sentence": "And whoever did the better moves was throwing the best shade, basically.", "communities": [ "drag" ], "metadata": { "source": "OpenSubtitles", "title": "Paris Is Burning", "imdb_id": "100332" } }, { "id": "96951", "term": "total bottom", "definition": "A total bottom is someone who assumes an exclusively passive or receptive role during anal or oral intercourse.", "sentence": "I asked my buff a few months ago if he would top me, I wanted to feel him inside me(he is a total bottom).", "communities": [ "LGBTQ" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "gaybros", "date": "2024-11-09 22:02:31", "timestamp": 1731186151.0 } }, { "id": "106496", "term": "deadnaming", "definition": "Calling a transgender person by their \"deadname\" (oftentimes their birth name, but not always).", "sentence": "Is misgendering and deadnaming Caitlyn less offensive because of her political beliefs?", "communities": [ "transgender" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "asktransgender", "date": "2025-02-04 05:40:42", "timestamp": 1738644042.0 } }, { "id": "227744", "term": "fierce", "definition": "To have looks that could \"kill\"; also used to refer to satisfying, powerful, or beautiful drag queens.", "sentence": "You were so fierce then...", "communities": [ "drag" ], "metadata": { "source": "OpenSubtitles", "title": "Beautiful Boxer", "imdb_id": "401248" } }, { "id": "95159", "term": "werk", "definition": "Either an exclamation of approval or to do something excellently (often used in reference to dance or modeling).", "sentence": "Yas bitch, WERK it.", "communities": [ "drag", "gay male" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "transpassing", "date": "2018-12-20 02:33:54", "timestamp": 1545269634.0 } }, { "id": "123832", "term": "boy pussy", "definition": "A gay man's anus, especially the receiving partipant's. Also, rarely, a transmasculine person's vulva.", "sentence": "Talking about my boy pussy is a turn off.", "communities": [ "transgender", "gay", "gay male" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "askgaybros", "date": "2020-10-29 01:48:46", "timestamp": 1603932526.0 } }, { "id": "102188", "term": "theymab", "definition": "A slang term for a nonbinary person who is assigned male at birth.", "sentence": "From one theymab to another, thanks for the doing the work.", "communities": [ "nonbinary" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "NonBinary", "date": "2024-09-03 04:50:06", "timestamp": 1725331806.0 } }, { "id": "117651", "term": "baby gay", "definition": "A person who has recently come out in relationship to a marginalized sexual or gender identity.", "sentence": "I'm a baby gay & a virgin I'm both aspects - not been w a boy or girl.", "communities": [ "gay male" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "actuallesbians", "date": "2025-03-12 00:26:51", "timestamp": 1741735611.0 } }, { "id": "110407", "term": "Eve's apple", "definition": "A transfeminine slang term coined to replace the masculine sounding \"Adam's apple\".", "sentence": "Someone might have already come up with this but can all trans women universaly agree that if you have an \"Adams apple\" it is now called an Eve's apple", "communities": [ "transfeminine" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "trans", "date": "2025-03-24 02:07:09", "timestamp": 1742778429.0 } }, { "id": "146724", "term": "twinkhon", "definition": "A trans woman who looks like a femboy or effeminate man.", "sentence": "> I might reach some kind of twinkhon-like appearance", "communities": [], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "MtF", "date": "2023-08-04 00:19:40", "timestamp": 1691101180.0 } }, { "id": "86338", "term": "sugar daddy", "definition": "Expression of the Black community in the 1920s, to refer to an older, wealthy partner. Over time, this expression became used by the LGBTQIA+ community as well.", "sentence": "What do you call a sugar daddy with no money?", "communities": [], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "gaybros", "date": "2021-04-20 17:18:13", "timestamp": 1618931893.0 } }, { "id": "169803", "term": "pre-E", "definition": "Not yet having undergone estrogen-based hormone replacement therapy.", "sentence": "My (cis F) partner (MtF, pre-E, only out to friends and family) moved in with me recently (from the west coast).", "communities": [ "transgender" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "mypartneristrans", "date": "2024-11-13 19:03:45", "timestamp": 1731521025.0 } }, { "id": "48194", "term": "read", "definition": "To call attention to someone's flaws in a playful, taunting, or insulting manner; alternatively, to recognize someone as being transgender (to clock).", "sentence": "I think that, to paraphrase another quote, shade, a read is when I tell you you're ugly.", "communities": [ "drag", "transgender" ], "metadata": { "source": "Podcasts", "title": "If I Speak" } }, { "id": "228918", "term": "butch queen", "definition": "A gay man with a traditionally masculine gender expression.", "sentence": "Now, the categories are... butch queen, 1 through 17.", "communities": [ "gay male" ], "metadata": { "source": "OpenSubtitles", "title": "Paris Is Burning", "imdb_id": "100332" } }, { "id": "158895", "term": "duderus", "definition": "The uterus of a trans man.", "sentence": "And as if the pain itself weren't bad enough I've also got horrible dysphoria about the fact that I still have a functioning duderus.", "communities": [ "transgender" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "ftm", "date": "2020-01-16 08:17:08", "timestamp": 1579159028.0 } }, { "id": "99786", "term": "queer coding", "definition": "A situation in which a character is given traits or behaviors which suggest they are not heterosexual and/or cisgender, without the character being outright confirmed as having such an identity.", "sentence": "call that queer coding", "communities": [ "LGBTQ" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "transgendercirclejerk", "date": "2021-08-01 22:39:42", "timestamp": 1627850382.0 } }, { "id": "156225", "term": "snow queen", "definition": "A black gay man who prefers to have relations with white men.", "sentence": "I do wonder why, though, I donā€™t think my energy screams ā€œIā€™m a snow queen!", "communities": [ "gay" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "askgaybros", "date": "2019-12-13 17:37:26", "timestamp": 1576255046.0 } }, { "id": "6597", "term": "dirt", "definition": "ā€¢ Slang for an individual who blackmails or robs a gay person.\r\nā€¢ Gossip; rumor; scandal; criticism.\r\nā€¢ Heroin\r\nā€¢ A tobacco cigarette.", "sentence": "I'm going to get dirt on this guy for you.", "communities": [ "gay male" ], "metadata": { "source": "Podcasts", "title": "Tomorrow" } }, { "id": "116749", "term": "front hole", "definition": "Slang for vagina, often used by transmasculine persons assigned female at birth.", "sentence": "Like in the question: are there any FTMs that like to have their front hole /vagina penetrated?", "communities": [ "transmasculine" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "ftm", "date": "2018-10-05 17:37:40", "timestamp": 1538753860.0 } }, { "id": "120781", "term": "twunk", "definition": "A gay man with the certain twink (meaning ā€œyoung, attractive, slim maleā€) stereotype elements that has a hunky (strong, muscular, etc.) physique.", "sentence": "Tim is not a twunk.", "communities": [ "gay", "gay male" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "askgaybros", "date": "2024-09-10 03:27:42", "timestamp": 1725931662.0 } }, { "id": "117163", "term": "unicorn", "definition": "A bisexual woman who engages in a sexual, but usually non-romantic, relationship with a heterosexual couple.", "sentence": "In a lot of kink apps they have specific categories for threesomes and unicorns!", "communities": [ "bisexual female" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "actuallesbians", "date": "2023-10-05 22:39:30", "timestamp": 1696538370.0 } }, { "id": "211244", "term": "fagot", "definition": "A pejorative term used chiefly in North America primarily to refer to a gay man. Alongside its use to refer to gay men in particular, it may also be used as a pejorative term for a \"repellent man\" or to refer to women who are lesbian (or to transgender people, typically transgender women). Its use has spread from the United States to varying extents elsewhere in the English-speaking world through mass culture, including film, music, and the Internet.", "sentence": "Randomly getting messages of people telling me, \"kill yourself, fagot.\"", "communities": [], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "askgaybros", "date": "2018-09-13 06:12:30", "timestamp": 1536811950.0 } }, { "id": "169647", "term": "orchi", "definition": "Clipping of orchiectomy.", "sentence": "What does an orchi entail exactly", "communities": [ "transgender" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "traaaaaaannnnnnnnnns", "date": "2023-04-19 05:29:51", "timestamp": 1681874991.0 } }, { "id": "127674", "term": "down low", "definition": "Typically referring to a man who identifies publicly as heterosexual, but engages in covert sexual relationships with other men.", "sentence": "DL = Down Low (a closeted gay man)", "communities": [ "African-American gay male" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "gay", "date": "2025-01-18 04:49:03", "timestamp": 1737172143.0 } }, { "id": "115670", "term": "lesbro", "definition": "A man who is considered an \"honorary lesbian\" by lesbian friends; otherwise, rarely, a lesbian who is considered stereotypically masculine, i.e. a \"bro\".", "sentence": "If you are looking for a lesbro to talk to just pm me!", "communities": [ "lesbian" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "teengirlswholikegirls", "date": "2014-12-27 17:17:46", "timestamp": 1419697066.0 } }, { "id": "89609", "term": "top", "definition": "ā€¢ A \"top\" is an individual who acts as the \"giving\" partner in sexual encounters. Sometimes used as a self-descriptor within queer communities, but should be replicated with caution. Sometimes used as a verb (\"to top someone\"). Offensive if applied to LGBTQ+ individuals from outwith queer communities.\r\nā€¢ Someone, typically a man, who is penetrating someone else during sexual intercourse or someone who has a preference for penetrating during such intercourse.", "sentence": "I feel like she's more hesitant to be top than bottom because she's definitely worried about making another person uncomfortable.", "communities": [ "LGBTQ" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "GirlsLove", "date": "2025-03-25 15:28:38", "timestamp": 1742912918.0 } }, { "id": "165161", "term": "estrogel", "definition": "Estradiol gel used in feminizing hormone replacement therapy.", "sentence": "so my girl is trying to make estrogel and spiro from just raw ingredients cause she trust no one.", "communities": [ "transgender" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "asktransgender", "date": "2025-01-31 02:58:30", "timestamp": 1738288710.0 } }, { "id": "146093", "term": "fembrained", "definition": "Being a transgender person who acts and thinks like a woman.", "sentence": "There is no such thing as fembrained and I promise you it is just your dysphoria beating you up internally.", "communities": [], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "ftm", "date": "2023-09-10 06:51:27", "timestamp": 1694321487.0 } }, { "id": "168379", "term": "hatchling", "definition": "A person who has (especially recently) realized that they are transgender.", "sentence": "To be fair, some of these lyrics don't sound like they're about being a dysphoric hatchling.", "communities": [ "transgender" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "MtF", "date": "2019-05-11 12:13:31", "timestamp": 1557569611.0 } }, { "id": "115436", "term": "pillow princess", "definition": "A woman who likes to receive and not give, sexually.", "sentence": "Why couldnā€™t you use pillow princess, since thatā€™s what describes you?", "communities": [ "lesbian" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "bisexual", "date": "2025-05-15 10:45:41", "timestamp": 1747298741.0 } }, { "id": "206197", "term": "poz", "definition": "ā€¢ HIV positive.\r\nā€¢ To infect (someone) with a sexually transmitted infection; especially HIV.", "sentence": "Started talking to a guy on grindr and he told me he was poz but undetectable.", "communities": [], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "lgbt", "date": "2012-11-05 01:28:58", "timestamp": 1352075338.0 } }, { "id": "102077", "term": "enby", "definition": "A nonbinary person, typically a young adult or an adolescent.", "sentence": "I love my enby bf", "communities": [ "nonbinary" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "BisexualTeens", "date": "2021-08-16 07:06:10", "timestamp": 1629090370.0 } }, { "id": "101947", "term": "enby", "definition": "A nonbinary person, typically a young adult or an adolescent.", "sentence": "If you're enby, you're trans!", "communities": [ "nonbinary" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "transgendercirclejerk", "date": "2025-07-07 14:45:29", "timestamp": 1751892329.0 } }, { "id": "117707", "term": "baby gay", "definition": "A person who has recently come out in relationship to a marginalized sexual or gender identity.", "sentence": "That's also why as a way to say thank you and goodbye I want to share some of my almost 20yo wisdom for every baby gay that may need them:", "communities": [ "gay male" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "teengirlswholikegirls", "date": "2021-03-17 05:51:32", "timestamp": 1615956692.0 } }, { "id": "101650", "term": "thembo", "definition": "A nonbinary or gender-neutral bimbo.", "sentence": "This is dictionary definition of thembo, fabulous šŸ‘", "communities": [ "nonbinary" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "NonBinary", "date": "2021-03-24 16:07:16", "timestamp": 1616598436.0 } }, { "id": "117638", "term": "light in the loafers", "definition": "Gay; homosexual.", "sentence": "My favorite is to say that someone is ā€œa tad light in the loafersā€.", "communities": [ "gay male" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "lgbt", "date": "2024-01-25 08:24:49", "timestamp": 1706167489.0 } }, { "id": "123840", "term": "boy pussy", "definition": "A gay man's anus, especially the receiving partipant's. Also, rarely, a transmasculine person's vulva.", "sentence": "Clearly she hasnā€™t seen boy pussy before.", "communities": [ "transgender", "gay", "gay male" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "SuddenlyGay", "date": "2022-04-16 08:07:53", "timestamp": 1650089273.0 } }, { "id": "115635", "term": "stone butch", "definition": "Typically, a lesbian who is butch or otherwise displays traditional \"masculinity\". Alternatively, a subculture of persons identifying as stone butch as opposed to femme or \"high femme\". Such persons may be non-binary or have other various gender identities.", "sentence": "Stone femmes and stone butches don't really have counterparts amongst gay men.", "communities": [ "lesbian" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "AskLGBT", "date": "2025-07-06 20:18:15", "timestamp": 1751825895.0 } }, { "id": "146433", "term": "hondose", "definition": "A low dose of hormone replacement therapy in a trans woman which produces inadequate feminization and fails to suppress testosterone.", "sentence": "read: OP is getting hondosed.", "communities": [], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "transgendercirclejerk", "date": "2021-11-23 04:53:15", "timestamp": 1637639595.0 } }, { "id": "204333", "term": "folx", "definition": "Folks; people.", "sentence": "In contrast, this differentiation is to honor the reality that TGNB folx experience unique forms and rates of violence.", "communities": [], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "askGSM", "date": "2024-12-11 23:04:44", "timestamp": 1733954684.0 } }, { "id": "206501", "term": "useless lesbian", "definition": "A lesbian who is socially or romantically inept with other women.", "sentence": "Literally Me (Roleplaying as ourselves in a Buffy setting) So a Useless Lesbian Nerd", "communities": [], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "traaaaaaannnnnnnnnns", "date": "2018-12-23 05:19:50", "timestamp": 1545538790.0 } }, { "id": "168252", "term": "girlballs", "definition": "The testicles of a trans woman.", "sentence": "how do i get them to motorboat my girlballs?", "communities": [ "transgender" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "transgendercirclejerk", "date": "2021-06-02 01:37:21", "timestamp": 1622590641.0 } }, { "id": "204412", "term": "girlsmell", "definition": "A girl or woman's body odour, often regarded as attractive.", "sentence": "Yes, I LOVE girlsmell - it is so much nicer.", "communities": [], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "MtF", "date": "2023-10-29 21:44:42", "timestamp": 1698612282.0 } }, { "id": "76131", "term": "drag family", "definition": "In the US, a group of drag queens who have been mentored by a \"mother,\" also known as a \"house.\" These groups often take on family drag names and form close-knit communities.", "sentence": "She looked exactly like a member of Lexiā€™s drag family.", "communities": [], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "rupaulsdragrace", "date": "2025-03-29 03:27:58", "timestamp": 1743215278.0 } }, { "id": "206435", "term": "throw shade", "definition": "To subtly insult someone.", "sentence": "It's not bad to have a common name, I have one too, so this isn't to throw shade at Olivers everywhere.", "communities": [], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "lgbt", "date": "2023-10-25 20:00:40", "timestamp": 1698256840.0 } }, { "id": "107857", "term": "tucute", "definition": "A person who acknowledges that gender dysphoria is not necessary to be transgender.", "sentence": "I follow a lot of them on tumblr, and recently there has been a lot of fighting back and forth about two opposing ideologies- truscum and tucute.", "communities": [ "transgender" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "asktransgender", "date": "2018-06-01 17:33:08", "timestamp": 1527867188.0 } }, { "id": "117652", "term": "baby gay", "definition": "A person who has recently come out in relationship to a marginalized sexual or gender identity.", "sentence": "I am also a baby gay and have no idea how to flirt.", "communities": [ "gay male" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "actuallesbians", "date": "2025-06-03 20:11:34", "timestamp": 1748974294.0 } }, { "id": "95148", "term": "werk", "definition": "Either an exclamation of approval or to do something excellently (often used in reference to dance or modeling).", "sentence": "Yass bitch werk šŸ‘šŸŒˆšŸŒˆšŸŒˆšŸ¤©", "communities": [ "drag", "gay male" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "gaybros", "date": "2023-12-26 19:57:44", "timestamp": 1703617064.0 } }, { "id": "143226", "term": "GLBT", "definition": "Initialism for gay, lesbian, bisexual, and transgender.", "sentence": "All walks of life are welcome, cool cats, new players and old, we are GLBT-friendly (no exceptions), 18+ (also no exceptions).", "communities": [], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "lezsaysmoargaming", "date": "2013-02-17 02:31:20", "timestamp": 1361064680.0 } }, { "id": "103211", "term": "asexy", "definition": "Typically, a person who asexual people tend to be attracted to for any of various reasons aside from sexual attraction.", "sentence": "It can be used like \"I'm ace and I like this thing, so this thing is asexy\".", "communities": [ "asexual" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "asexuality", "date": "2019-06-13 04:54:12", "timestamp": 1560394452.0 } }, { "id": "212999", "term": "fruitcake", "definition": "Slang for a gay man, especially for a feminine gay man. Outdated and often offensive, because it implies someone is easily \"picked,\" or associates someone with its other slang meanings of \"dupe,\" \"victim,\" or someone living with mental illness.", "sentence": "Lmao, I love how it's a fruitcake, just like us šŸ˜‚", "communities": [], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "gaybros", "date": "2021-11-18 04:19:13", "timestamp": 1637205553.0 } }, { "id": "76487", "term": "dyke", "definition": "Contested terminology. Slur for lesbian, highly offensive if applied to a lesbian or transmasc person externally. Term has been reclaimed by some lesbians communities, and is sometimes used affirmingly within communities.\"Bulldyke\" and \"bulldagger\" are often used to indicate butch or masculine queer women, sometimes with overtones of toughness or aggression.", "sentence": "Just listening to the stories of people who also participated in the Dyke March.", "communities": [], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "AskLGBT", "date": "2025-01-27 13:22:43", "timestamp": 1737980563.0 } }, { "id": "115127", "term": "soft butch", "definition": "A lesbian who exhibits some stereotypical butch traits without fitting the masculine stereotype associated with butch lesbians.", "sentence": "Iā€™m a soft butch dating a soft butch.", "communities": [ "lesbian" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "actuallesbians", "date": "2019-03-30 22:22:48", "timestamp": 1553980968.0 } }, { "id": "110148", "term": "outie", "definition": "A term sometimes used to refer to the external genitalia of a transfeminine person.", "sentence": "For what its worth, I think outies are beautifull, they have just something I find very hot.", "communities": [ "transfeminine" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "actuallesbians", "date": "2022-03-19 08:50:59", "timestamp": 1647676259.0 } }, { "id": "117165", "term": "unicorn", "definition": "A bisexual woman who engages in a sexual, but usually non-romantic, relationship with a heterosexual couple.", "sentence": "As a unicorn I wish they would hunt me.", "communities": [ "bisexual female" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "actuallesbians", "date": "2023-02-22 18:23:26", "timestamp": 1677086606.0 } }, { "id": "168256", "term": "girlbulge", "definition": "The bulge (outline of the genitalia visible through clothing) of a trans woman.", "sentence": "More power to the girlbulgers tho.", "communities": [ "transgender" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "traaaaaaannnnnnnnnns", "date": "2022-09-07 21:45:49", "timestamp": 1662579949.0 } }, { "id": "79983", "term": "fruit", "definition": "Slang for a gay man, especially for a feminine gay man. Outdated and often offensive, because it implies someone is easily \"picked,\" or associates someone with its other slang meanings of \"dupe,\" \"victim,\" or someone living with mental illness.", "sentence": "When ask if the queen is fruity she said bitch im all fruit and no vegetable", "communities": [ "gay male" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "Drag", "date": "2022-02-11 19:01:35", "timestamp": 1644602495.0 } }, { "id": "108470", "term": "second puberty", "definition": "A term often used by transgender persons transitioning after they have already undergone puberty.", "sentence": "going through my first puberty (going on hormones was the second puberty) was a huge betrayal from my body, something I wish I had the option to opt out of.", "communities": [ "transgender" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "asktransgender", "date": "2024-08-10 12:36:21", "timestamp": 1723286181.0 } }, { "id": "101497", "term": "theyfab", "definition": "A slang term for a nonbinary person who is assigned female at birth.", "sentence": "), Iā€™ve sometimes been called a transtrender and a theyfab.", "communities": [ "nonbinary" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "NonBinary", "date": "2023-06-04 12:21:53", "timestamp": 1685874113.0 } }, { "id": "114690", "term": "bambi lesbian", "definition": "A lesbian who identifies as bambi-sexual, i.e. being more interested in kissing, carressing, cuddling, etc. than genital stimulation or sexual intercourse.", "sentence": "Edit 1: A Bambi lesbian is a lesbian who is more interested in cuddles, hugs, and kisses rather than sex.", "communities": [ "lesbian" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "lgbt", "date": "2019-02-12 01:03:43", "timestamp": 1549929823.0 } }, { "id": "6516", "term": "dirt", "definition": "ā€¢ Slang for an individual who blackmails or robs a gay person.\r\nā€¢ Gossip; rumor; scandal; criticism.\r\nā€¢ Heroin\r\nā€¢ A tobacco cigarette.", "sentence": "Right, the secrets, the dirt.", "communities": [ "gay male" ], "metadata": { "source": "Podcasts", "title": "I've Had It" } }, { "id": "151518", "term": "bussy", "definition": "ā€¢ Any anus, in general.\r\nā€¢ The vulva or vagina of a trans man.", "sentence": "I also dont like to be thrown under that skinny tight bussy Asians stereotype.", "communities": [ "gay" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "gaysian", "date": "2019-05-31 20:49:08", "timestamp": 1559328548.0 } }, { "id": "119418", "term": "masc4masc", "definition": "A phrase used to describe a masculine gay man interested in other masculine gay men romantically and/or sexually.", "sentence": "And then thereā€™s those masc4masc dudes.", "communities": [ "gay male" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "lgbt", "date": "2024-01-27 00:23:37", "timestamp": 1706311417.0 } }, { "id": "115247", "term": "bull dyke", "definition": "A lesbian who appears masculine or acts in a masculine manner.", "sentence": "Lol I am a very masc butch, someone called me a bull dykeā€¦ just wondering what would make me so?", "communities": [ "lesbian" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "AskLGBT", "date": "2025-06-30 20:44:37", "timestamp": 1751309077.0 } }, { "id": "206448", "term": "throw shade", "definition": "To subtly insult someone.", "sentence": "And I was wondering, has anyone tried to shit on you for being in shape, or throw shade for having a thinner body type?", "communities": [], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "askgaybros", "date": "2024-04-13 00:36:12", "timestamp": 1712961372.0 } }, { "id": "146021", "term": "brainworm", "definition": "An intrusive, unwanted, internalized transphobic or invalidating thought or belief.", "sentence": "> Once you have a brainworm, online interaction usually makes it worse.", "communities": [], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "ftm", "date": "2025-04-15 23:09:39", "timestamp": 1744751379.0 } }, { "id": "106736", "term": "cis-tem", "definition": "Mainstream culture, controlled by the elites or government of a state, or a combination of them, which is oppressive to transgender persons.", "sentence": "My friend just bought a shirt with their favorite drag performer and the phrase \"Crash the cis-tem\"", "communities": [ "transgender" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "traaaaaaannnnnnnnnns", "date": "2022-06-26 17:40:34", "timestamp": 1656258034.0 } }, { "id": "91774", "term": "in face", "definition": "In drag.", "sentence": "I got in face by 10 AM for the parade, and stayed in face for the all-ages show, story hour, and night show.", "communities": [ "drag" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "Drag", "date": "2024-03-05 00:12:17", "timestamp": 1709593937.0 } }, { "id": "86337", "term": "sugar daddy", "definition": "Expression of the Black community in the 1920s, to refer to an older, wealthy partner. Over time, this expression became used by the LGBTQIA+ community as well.", "sentence": "Itā€™s not a sugar daddy scam, itā€™s a plain outright scam.", "communities": [], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "gaybros", "date": "2021-04-20 18:46:51", "timestamp": 1618937211.0 } }, { "id": "146090", "term": "fembrained", "definition": "Being a transgender person who acts and thinks like a woman.", "sentence": "i feel so fembrained and that it makes me less than a male and iā€™m really just a fake trans guy.", "communities": [], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "ftm", "date": "2023-09-10 03:56:39", "timestamp": 1694310999.0 } }, { "id": "75662", "term": "chaser", "definition": "Short for \"tranny chaser.\" A person who sees trans people (usually trans women) as inherently sexual, and sexually objectifies them. As opposed to someone who simply is predominantly attracted to trans women; a chaser does not view trans women respectfully as people with humanity and agency, but rather as players in a sexual fantasy.", "sentence": "So maybe youā€™re not a chaser so much as you like dick regardless of gender?", "communities": [], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "pansexual", "date": "2023-10-16 21:38:08", "timestamp": 1697485088.0 } }, { "id": "99803", "term": "closeted", "definition": "An adjective referring to an LGBTQIA+ person or persons who have not disclosed their status as LGBTQIA+ and other related aspects of their life. More broadly, it can also be used to describe anyone who is hiding part of their identity because of social pressure.", "sentence": "I think this is sweet, it sucks that people have to be closeted like that.", "communities": [ "LGBTQ" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "gaybros", "date": "2023-11-04 09:24:51", "timestamp": 1699086291.0 } }, { "id": "169398", "term": "manmoder", "definition": "One who is in manmode (presenting as male regardless of gender identity).", "sentence": "I'm a manmoder fr", "communities": [ "transgender" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "MtF", "date": "2024-02-12 21:27:09", "timestamp": 1707769629.0 } }, { "id": "103276", "term": "cissplain", "definition": "To explain transgender issues, people or behavior to a trans person (as a cis person) in a condescending manner, presuming the listenerā€™s inferior understanding.", "sentence": "- GP wrote and printed the letter during the appointment, though not before grilling me about my HRT and cissplaining how they work to me, which was kinda uncomfortable.", "communities": [ "transgender" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "transgenderUK", "date": "2025-04-07 18:35:24", "timestamp": 1744043724.0 } }, { "id": "202119", "term": "unclockable", "definition": "Not recognizable as transgender or a drag performer; passing.", "sentence": "I'm not even unclockable, which makes it worse.", "communities": [ "transgender" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "asktransgender", "date": "2025-07-17 17:02:44", "timestamp": 1752764564.0 } }, { "id": "83500", "term": "gold star", "definition": "Slang for someone who has never had sex with someone of the opposite gender, sometimes including bisexual people of their own gender. Most commonly used in lesbian communities, now widely recognised as biphobic.", "sentence": "If it's any consolation, I don't think any prospective boyfriend will care if your gold star is intact or not.", "communities": [], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "gaybros", "date": "2020-08-22 15:42:24", "timestamp": 1598103744.0 } }, { "id": "214823", "term": "tops", "definition": "ā€¢ A \"top\" is an individual who acts as the \"giving\" partner in sexual encounters. Sometimes used as a self-descriptor within queer communities, but should be replicated with caution. Sometimes used as a verb (\"to top someone\"). Offensive if applied to LGBTQ+ individuals from outwith queer communities.\r\nā€¢ Someone, typically a man, who is penetrating someone else during sexual intercourse or someone who has a preference for penetrating during such intercourse.", "sentence": "This because some girls tend to fill the void of the lack of tops by being top, but once they meet a top, they can be what they truly want.", "communities": [ "LGBTQ" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "actuallesbians", "date": "2025-04-14 12:25:37", "timestamp": 1744626337.0 } }, { "id": "169379", "term": "manmode", "definition": "The state of presenting as a man, regardless of one's actual gender identity, especially of a trans woman.", "sentence": "I manmode wherever I go.", "communities": [ "transgender" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "MtF", "date": "2025-03-02 01:01:41", "timestamp": 1740873701.0 } }, { "id": "101636", "term": "theydy", "definition": "A mostly humorous slang term sometimes used to replace \"lady\" in overly gendered contexts. For instance, using \"theydies and gentlethems\" instead of \"ladies and gentlemen\".", "sentence": "smh this is not a lady, this is a theydy.", "communities": [ "nonbinary" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "ladyladyboners", "date": "2021-05-21 19:25:03", "timestamp": 1621617903.0 } }, { "id": "99556", "term": "gaymer", "definition": "Gay persons who have active interest in video games or tabletop games.", "sentence": "I've found the NYC Gaymers group online but those only seem to happen a few times a year.", "communities": [ "LGBTQ" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "nycgaybros", "date": "2024-08-03 02:22:44", "timestamp": 1722644564.0 } }, { "id": "76139", "term": "drag family", "definition": "In the US, a group of drag queens who have been mentored by a \"mother,\" also known as a \"house.\" These groups often take on family drag names and form close-knit communities.", "sentence": "So do NOT go into your drag family acting like you know more than anybody else.", "communities": [], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "Drag", "date": "2024-02-15 15:30:44", "timestamp": 1708007444.0 } }, { "id": "98624", "term": "gaysian", "definition": "Somewhat derogatory term referring to an Asian gay person.", "sentence": "Iā€™m truly sick of non gaysians coming into this subreddit, gaslighting us, and making us feel lesser than.", "communities": [ "LGBTQ" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "gaysian", "date": "2025-03-26 00:52:52", "timestamp": 1742946772.0 } }, { "id": "202142", "term": "unclockable", "definition": "Not recognizable as transgender or a drag performer; passing.", "sentence": "Yesā€¦ there are other ways to tuck that are cheaper/ better for different situations ā€¦ but imo itā€™s one of the easiest lowest barrier pathways to an unclockable tuck.", "communities": [ "transgender" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "MtF", "date": "2024-11-27 20:10:41", "timestamp": 1732734641.0 } }, { "id": "143373", "term": "autofellatio", "definition": "Oral stimulation of one's own penis.", "sentence": "So, I would define myself as asexual, but I do every so often perform autofellatio.", "communities": [], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "asexuality", "date": "2014-08-05 01:23:45", "timestamp": 1407194625.0 } }, { "id": "169963", "term": "princess wand", "definition": "A trans woman's penis.", "sentence": "I don't care what anyone thinks, feel no need to tuck my rather average princess wand, and I feel confident.", "communities": [ "transgender" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "asktransgender", "date": "2022-08-28 15:26:59", "timestamp": 1661693219.0 } }, { "id": "229121", "term": "gender identity", "definition": "A personal identity one develops in childhood that one belongs to a gender category, multiple gender categories, or no gender categories.", "sentence": "with both aspects of our gender identity, that's something healing for people in general to see.", "communities": [], "metadata": { "source": "OpenSubtitles", "title": "Venus Boyz", "imdb_id": "293685" } }, { "id": "204016", "term": "fishy queen", "definition": "A drag queen who adopts a particularly feminine appearance.", "sentence": "it wouldn't be fishy queens without miss gia!", "communities": [], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "rupaulsdragrace", "date": "2017-10-19 22:54:01", "timestamp": 1508446441.0 } }, { "id": "168279", "term": "girlcock", "definition": "The penis of a trans woman.", "sentence": ";-; I wish my girlcock was a customizable high-impact vagina", "communities": [ "transgender" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "traaaaaaannnnnnnnnns", "date": "2017-05-06 16:33:06", "timestamp": 1494081186.0 } }, { "id": "215543", "term": "to the gods", "definition": "Perfectly; in an exceptional manner.", "sentence": "estrogen does wonders xP (boobs r stuffed to the gods btw, dw I did not grow these in like 5 weeks)", "communities": [], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "transadorable", "date": "2025-06-19 01:48:47", "timestamp": 1750290527.0 } }, { "id": "115657", "term": "lesbro", "definition": "A man who is considered an \"honorary lesbian\" by lesbian friends; otherwise, rarely, a lesbian who is considered stereotypically masculine, i.e. a \"bro\".", "sentence": "I am a lesbro.", "communities": [ "lesbian" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "lgbt", "date": "2011-05-12 06:20:00", "timestamp": 1305174000.0 } }, { "id": "119523", "term": "no homo", "definition": "A phrase used as slang at the end of a sentence to assert the statement spoken by the speaker had no intentional homosexual implications. The phrase is also \"added to a statement in order to rid of a possible homosexual double-entendre\".", "sentence": "People say no homo after doing something mildy homoerotic, when chances are no one was thinking they were gay for that act, until they something like no homo.", "communities": [ "gay male" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "gaybros", "date": "2013-06-03 13:52:55", "timestamp": 1370260375.0 } }, { "id": "206255", "term": "poz", "definition": "ā€¢ HIV positive.\r\nā€¢ To infect (someone) with a sexually transmitted infection; especially HIV.", "sentence": "It leaves poz guys in a very vulnerable spot.", "communities": [], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "gaymers", "date": "2012-06-15 02:51:35", "timestamp": 1339721495.0 } }, { "id": "116444", "term": "chub", "definition": "A gay man who is overweight or obese; typically (but not always) derogatory.", "sentence": "Bears and chubs forever ā¤ļø", "communities": [ "gay", "chub" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "gay", "date": "2025-07-17 17:05:59", "timestamp": 1752764759.0 } }, { "id": "106807", "term": "girlmode", "definition": "When a transgender person presents a gender expression codified as female, typically if that person is a transgender man. Usually used in the context of going incognito as a cisgender woman.", "sentence": "The 26th, me, the four siblings and my parents had planned on eating dinner all together at our house, with me in girlmode.", "communities": [ "transgender", "transgender" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "ask_transgender", "date": "2018-12-09 11:56:55", "timestamp": 1544353015.0 } }, { "id": "107791", "term": "full-time", "definition": "A term which refers to a transgender person living as their gender for the entirety of their day-to-day life, at work, at home, etc.", "sentence": "I'll be starting a new job fairly soon (training as a driving instructor) and already out to them so will ideally be myself full-time soon.", "communities": [ "transgender" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "asktransgender", "date": "2022-07-21 13:54:13", "timestamp": 1658404453.0 } }, { "id": "102201", "term": "joyfriend", "definition": "A sexual and/or romantic partner of any gender, but usually a nonbinary person.", "sentence": "Help your joyfriend get out if you can.", "communities": [ "nonbinary" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "asktransgender", "date": "2023-07-03 06:43:58", "timestamp": 1688359438.0 } }, { "id": "219635", "term": "camp", "definition": "ā€¢ Camp can also be a social practice and function as a style and performance identity for several types of entertainment including film, cabaret, and pantomime. Where high art necessarily incorporates beauty and value, camp necessarily needs to be lively, audacious and dynamic.\r\nā€¢ An aesthetic style and sensibility that regards something as appealing because of its bad taste and ironic value. Camp aesthetics disrupt many of modernism's notions of what art is and what can be classified as high art by inverting aesthetic attributes such as beauty, value, and taste through an invitation of a different kind of apprehension and consumption.\r\nā€¢ To behave, speak, act, etc. in a flamboyant, affected, ostentatious, or exaggerated manner stereotypically associated with gay men.\r\nā€¢ Gay.", "sentence": "I'll camp it up if I want.", "communities": [ "LGBTQ" ], "metadata": { "source": "OpenSubtitles", "title": "The Witnesses", "imdb_id": "487273" } }, { "id": "109065", "term": "titty skittle", "definition": "Oral estrogen taken by transgender woman and other transfeminine people.", "sentence": "anyone that says titty skittles is a fed", "communities": [ "transgender", "transfeminine" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "transgendercirclejerk", "date": "2019-03-18 08:52:18", "timestamp": 1552895538.0 } }, { "id": "95158", "term": "werk", "definition": "Either an exclamation of approval or to do something excellently (often used in reference to dance or modeling).", "sentence": "From open to work to OPEN TO WERK!", "communities": [ "drag", "gay male" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "transtimelines", "date": "2025-04-08 02:56:42", "timestamp": 1744073802.0 } }, { "id": "99366", "term": "total top", "definition": "A total top is one who assumes an exclusively penetrative role for sex.", "sentence": "Honestly I don't totally understand how someone can be 100% a total top or bottom.", "communities": [ "LGBTQ" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "gay", "date": "2015-10-07 19:43:35", "timestamp": 1444239815.0 } }, { "id": "204413", "term": "girlsmell", "definition": "A girl or woman's body odour, often regarded as attractive.", "sentence": "That unique blend of girlsmell and perfumeā€¦ and itā€™s mine.", "communities": [], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "MtF", "date": "2024-12-22 11:07:54", "timestamp": 1734862074.0 } }, { "id": "112516", "term": "diesel dyke", "definition": "A forcefully masculine or butch lesbian.", "sentence": "A diesel dyke is a very butch lesbian.", "communities": [ "lesbian" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "rupaulsdragrace", "date": "2015-04-18 21:40:16", "timestamp": 1429386016.0 } }, { "id": "158747", "term": "cunt", "definition": "ā€¢ The anus of a trans woman.\r\nā€¢ The inguinal canals of a trans woman.\r\nā€¢ Amazing or very good.", "sentence": "she was cunty period", "communities": [ "transgender" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "rupaulsdragrace", "date": "2025-03-17 00:35:15", "timestamp": 1742168115.0 } }, { "id": "117159", "term": "unicorn", "definition": "A bisexual woman who engages in a sexual, but usually non-romantic, relationship with a heterosexual couple.", "sentence": "There I was thinking I might have ā€˜gameā€™ in the wild but I was just the prey of unicorn hunters šŸ˜£ how disheartening šŸ’”", "communities": [ "bisexual female" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "actuallesbians", "date": "2021-12-02 17:12:34", "timestamp": 1638461554.0 } }, { "id": "168277", "term": "girlcock", "definition": "The penis of a trans woman.", "sentence": "I'd prefer to have a vagina but my girlcock doesnt cause me a lot of dysphoria.", "communities": [ "transgender" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "MtF", "date": "2017-01-29 00:13:15", "timestamp": 1485645195.0 } }, { "id": "1587", "term": "lgbt", "definition": "Initialism for lesbian, gay, bisexual, and transgender.", "sentence": "Like I used to think that, I don't know, I'm not very big into politics, but I used to think that Labour had the most in favour of LGBT.", "communities": [], "metadata": { "source": "Podcasts", "title": "Tea at Four" } }, { "id": "90103", "term": "twink", "definition": "ā€¢ Slang term widely used in gay communities to describe a young or young-looking man with little or no facial or body hair. Can be pejorative, but can also be a self-descriptor.\r\nā€¢ A young, attractive, slim male, usually having little body hair.", "sentence": "Think of it not as Twink Death, but as Twink Evolution.", "communities": [ "gay", "gay male" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "askgaybros", "date": "2025-07-04 08:02:01", "timestamp": 1751608921.0 } }, { "id": "227368", "term": "drag queen", "definition": "ā€¢ A male entertainer who performs dressed as a woman; a female impersonator.\r\nā€¢ A male-to-female cross-dresser.", "sentence": "Oh, that drag queen you and Jack hung out with at Christmas?", "communities": [], "metadata": { "source": "OpenSubtitles", "title": "Will & Grace", "imdb_id": "157246" } }, { "id": "112514", "term": "lesbian until graduation", "definition": "A woman of high school or college age who is experimenting with or adopting a temporary lesbian identity.", "sentence": "or lesbian until graduation, a very demeaning way to say that homosexuality is a phase.", "communities": [ "lesbian" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "LGBTeens", "date": "2023-01-14 06:09:35", "timestamp": 1673672975.0 } }, { "id": "155052", "term": "poppers", "definition": "Drugs of the alkyl nitrate class used recreationally as a sexual stimulant, especially among gay men.", "sentence": "I was tired of arguing with people who thought it was possible even though there was no data that showed people were drinking poppers.", "communities": [ "gay" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "lgbt", "date": "2023-06-06 16:32:53", "timestamp": 1686061973.0 } }, { "id": "124656", "term": "cruising", "definition": "To walk or drive about a locality in search of a sex partner, usually of the anonymous, casual, one-time variety.", "sentence": "Then, sick of self-pity, I thought about taking it to the next level and went to a cruising bar.", "communities": [ "gay male" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "gaybros", "date": "2025-02-17 04:06:28", "timestamp": 1739761588.0 } }, { "id": "209106", "term": "yass", "definition": "A strong expression of excitement or admiration.", "sentence": "For gym bros yass bro", "communities": [], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "MajesticManes", "date": "2024-05-09 00:06:36", "timestamp": 1715205996.0 } }, { "id": "123673", "term": "hunk", "definition": "A muscular, handsome gay man.", "sentence": "So I kinda had to decide between bear and hunk and in-between.", "communities": [ "gay male" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "asktransgender", "date": "2025-06-29 11:02:00", "timestamp": 1751187720.0 } }, { "id": "215146", "term": "twinks", "definition": "ā€¢ Slang term widely used in gay communities to describe a young or young-looking man with little or no facial or body hair. Can be pejorative, but can also be a self-descriptor.\r\nā€¢ A young, attractive, slim male, usually having little body hair.", "sentence": "But you would also be surprised how many bears just don't go for twinks.", "communities": [ "gay male" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "lgbt", "date": "2012-12-21 21:16:53", "timestamp": 1356121013.0 } }, { "id": "108410", "term": "t4t", "definition": "Short form of \"trans for trans\", indicating transgender persons interested in other transgender persons romantically and/or sexually.", "sentence": "Maybe itā€™s an enby T4T situation.", "communities": [ "transgender" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "AskLGBT", "date": "2022-02-16 02:03:00", "timestamp": 1644973380.0 } }, { "id": "116782", "term": "seahorse dad", "definition": "Slang term for a transgender man who is carrying, or has carried, a child to term.", "sentence": "I'm not yet a seahorse dad, but I definitely will be.", "communities": [ "transmasculine" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "ftm", "date": "2021-01-29 12:34:00", "timestamp": 1611920040.0 } }, { "id": "227734", "term": "fierce", "definition": "To have looks that could \"kill\"; also used to refer to satisfying, powerful, or beautiful drag queens.", "sentence": "We're not going to be shady, just fierce.", "communities": [ "drag" ], "metadata": { "source": "OpenSubtitles", "title": "Paris Is Burning", "imdb_id": "100332" } }, { "id": "115122", "term": "soft butch", "definition": "A lesbian who exhibits some stereotypical butch traits without fitting the masculine stereotype associated with butch lesbians.", "sentence": "Does anybody have any fashion tips (or know of any good resources) that fit a soft butch / androgynous aesthetic?", "communities": [ "lesbian" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "lgbt", "date": "2022-02-07 02:16:00", "timestamp": 1644196560.0 } }, { "id": "157893", "term": "clockable", "definition": "Of a transgender person or drag performer: able to be clocked; capable of being noticed or recognized as transgender; not passing.", "sentence": "Is there any kind of inherent prejudice or mentality that would make me less likely to be hired as a teacher if I'm still easily clockable?", "communities": [ "transgender" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "asktransgender", "date": "2024-01-09 20:59:41", "timestamp": 1704830381.0 } }, { "id": "106794", "term": "girlmode", "definition": "When a transgender person presents a gender expression codified as female, typically if that person is a transgender man. Usually used in the context of going incognito as a cisgender woman.", "sentence": "The nice thing is, I still have some old stuff from girlmode.", "communities": [ "transgender", "transgender" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "Drag", "date": "2017-03-15 08:14:43", "timestamp": 1489562083.0 } }, { "id": "83498", "term": "gold star", "definition": "Slang for someone who has never had sex with someone of the opposite gender, sometimes including bisexual people of their own gender. Most commonly used in lesbian communities, now widely recognised as biphobic.", "sentence": "Iā€™ve dated a gold star lesbian in my past.", "communities": [], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "lgbt", "date": "2018-02-20 22:52:12", "timestamp": 1519163532.0 } }, { "id": "118701", "term": "gold star gay", "definition": "A gay person who has never had sex with a person of the opposite gender.", "sentence": "Platinum star refers to a gold star gay born by c-section.", "communities": [ "gay male" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "bisexual", "date": "2018-02-20 19:29:58", "timestamp": 1519151398.0 } }, { "id": "95547", "term": "service top", "definition": "A service top is one who tops (acts as the \"giving\" partner in sexual encounters) under the direction of an eager bottom (who acts as the \"receiving\" partner in sexual encounters).", "sentence": "My boyfriend is a service top too and he's amazing <3", "communities": [ "LGBTQ" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "gay", "date": "2025-06-21 11:01:05", "timestamp": 1750496465.0 } }, { "id": "124381", "term": "otter", "definition": "A hairy man with a slender physique, in contrast with a bear, who is more thickset.", "sentence": "If you're rocking some fuzz below the shirt, otter sounds about right.", "communities": [ "gay", "gay male" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "lgbt", "date": "2019-09-22 10:21:00", "timestamp": 1569140460.0 } }, { "id": "227348", "term": "drag queen", "definition": "ā€¢ A male entertainer who performs dressed as a woman; a female impersonator.\r\nā€¢ A male-to-female cross-dresser.", "sentence": "Where she can compete in the Drag Queen Of America contest.", "communities": [], "metadata": { "source": "OpenSubtitles", "title": "To Wong Foo, Thanks for Everything! Julie Newmar", "imdb_id": "114682" } }, { "id": "206357", "term": "snatched", "definition": "Good-looking.", "sentence": "That waist is so fucking snatched.", "communities": [], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "ladyladyboners", "date": "2025-07-08 17:59:57", "timestamp": 1751990397.0 } }, { "id": "220168", "term": "house of", "definition": "In the US, a group of drag queens who have been mentored by a \"mother,\" also known as a \"house.\" These groups often take on family drag names and form close-knit communities.", "sentence": "I'm Willi Ninja, the mother of the House of Ninja.", "communities": [], "metadata": { "source": "OpenSubtitles", "title": "Paris Is Burning", "imdb_id": "100332" } }, { "id": "210948", "term": "bulldyke", "definition": "Contested terminology. Slur for lesbian, highly offensive if applied to a lesbian or transmasc person externally. Term has been reclaimed by some lesbians communities, and is sometimes used affirmingly within communities.\"Bulldyke\" and \"bulldagger\" are often used to indicate butch or masculine queer women, sometimes with overtones of toughness or aggression.", "sentence": "I'm a bulldyke baby...", "communities": [], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "actuallesbians", "date": "2021-02-07 20:23:36", "timestamp": 1612725816.0 } }, { "id": "107228", "term": "deep stealth", "definition": "Referring to a transgender person who is not known to be trans by most of the people they interact with on a daily basis, even a sexual or romantic partner.", "sentence": "That dudeā€™s so deep stealth he transitioned in utero.", "communities": [ "transgender" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "transgendercirclejerk", "date": "2020-01-25 18:50:11", "timestamp": 1579974611.0 } }, { "id": "115173", "term": "soft butch", "definition": "A lesbian who exhibits some stereotypical butch traits without fitting the masculine stereotype associated with butch lesbians.", "sentence": "I was a tomboy and these days I look more soft butch.", "communities": [ "lesbian" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "genderqueer", "date": "2018-09-29 21:05:13", "timestamp": 1538247913.0 } }, { "id": "79777", "term": "friend of dorothy", "definition": "Coded slang for gay. Referring to gay icon Judy Garland's Dorothy in The Wizard of Oz.", "sentence": "(For context for those who don't know: a friend of Dorothy was a code name for gay guys up until the 1960's)", "communities": [ "gay male" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "GayBroTeens", "date": "2025-02-13 09:44:51", "timestamp": 1739436291.0 } }, { "id": "228678", "term": "butch", "definition": "ā€¢ Traditionally, a lesbian who appears \"masculine\" or acts in a \"masculine\" manner. However, the term is often used to describe a wide variety of gender expressions and identities adjacent to masculinity or \"butchilinity\".\r\nā€¢ Heterosexual.", "sentence": "Just'cause they're big, butch footballers, doesn't mean they're Superman, in bed, you know.", "communities": [ "lesbian" ], "metadata": { "source": "OpenSubtitles", "title": "The Sum of Us", "imdb_id": "111309" } }, { "id": "169524", "term": "orchi", "definition": "Clipping of orchiectomy.", "sentence": "Doing an orchi was just delaying the inevitable.", "communities": [ "transgender" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "MtF", "date": "2024-05-15 23:11:09", "timestamp": 1715807469.0 } }, { "id": "206434", "term": "throw shade", "definition": "To subtly insult someone.", "sentence": "But he can throw shade like an mlb pitcher can throw a ball", "communities": [], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "lgbt", "date": "2020-08-01 19:20:38", "timestamp": 1596302438.0 } }, { "id": "206361", "term": "snatched", "definition": "Good-looking.", "sentence": "my sis aja looking snatched!", "communities": [], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "gay", "date": "2018-05-24 23:26:23", "timestamp": 1527197183.0 } }, { "id": "106721", "term": "ewphoria", "definition": "A combination of gender euphoria with feelings of disgust, revulsion, or discomfort, resulting from one's gender identity being affirmed by bigoted, predatory, or creepy behavior by others.", "sentence": "To be honest I'm more confused but I'll take the ewphoria?", "communities": [ "transgender", "transgender" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "transprogrammer", "date": "2023-06-04 18:51:58", "timestamp": 1685897518.0 } }, { "id": "98885", "term": "lavender", "definition": "A pale purple color, like that of the lavender flower. Lavender become symbol of homosexuality in the 1950s and 1960s, just as the color mauve was in the 1890s.", "sentence": "As for Lavender marriages they do happen but if you could find someone like that is a bit difficult to say right now.", "communities": [ "LGBTQ" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "lgbt", "date": "2025-04-26 19:31:53", "timestamp": 1745688713.0 } }, { "id": "101658", "term": "enbyfriend", "definition": "A nonbinary sexual and/or romantic partner.", "sentence": "Nonbinary specific words are enbyfriend or joyfriend.", "communities": [ "nonbinary" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "lgbt", "date": "2021-11-22 21:44:34", "timestamp": 1637613874.0 } }, { "id": "113929", "term": "futch", "definition": "A person who exhibits traits of both a femme (often used to describe a wide variety of gender expressions and identities adjacent to feminine or femme-ness) and a butch (often used to describe a wide variety of gender expressions and identities adjacent to masculinity or \"butchilinity\").", "sentence": "if u *want* to do things typically read as feminine then they are things that a futch or a butch is doing & those two things don't have to contradict.", "communities": [ "lesbian" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "bisexual", "date": "2023-08-15 00:51:27", "timestamp": 1692053487.0 } }, { "id": "134014", "term": "androgynous", "definition": "Of clothing or accessories, making a person's identity as male or female not immediately apparent to observers.", "sentence": "Women, men or enbys can all present as androgynous.", "communities": [], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "lgbt", "date": "2022-01-10 01:54:29", "timestamp": 1641776069.0 } }, { "id": "96283", "term": "versatile bottom", "definition": "A versatile bottom is one who prefers to bottom (act as the \"receiving\" partner in sexual encounters) but who tops (acts as the \"giving\" partner in sexual encounters) occasionally.", "sentence": "I'm versatile bottom now", "communities": [ "LGBTQ" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "gaybros", "date": "2021-04-05 18:33:05", "timestamp": 1617640385.0 } }, { "id": "99277", "term": "power bottom", "definition": "A power bottom is someone who aggressively enjoys being the receptive partner.", "sentence": "I knew Bert was a power bottom šŸ˜Œ", "communities": [ "LGBTQ" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "bisexual", "date": "2022-06-08 21:35:44", "timestamp": 1654716944.0 } }, { "id": "214819", "term": "tops", "definition": "ā€¢ A \"top\" is an individual who acts as the \"giving\" partner in sexual encounters. Sometimes used as a self-descriptor within queer communities, but should be replicated with caution. Sometimes used as a verb (\"to top someone\"). Offensive if applied to LGBTQ+ individuals from outwith queer communities.\r\nā€¢ Someone, typically a man, who is penetrating someone else during sexual intercourse or someone who has a preference for penetrating during such intercourse.", "sentence": "There is a category of gay porn with small twink tops.", "communities": [ "LGBTQ" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "gaybros", "date": "2025-06-05 04:31:31", "timestamp": 1749090691.0 } }, { "id": "90703", "term": "slay", "definition": "Used to express approval or amazement.", "sentence": "Careful now, slaying that hard you're gonna cause mass extinction.", "communities": [ "drag" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "lgbt", "date": "2025-04-24 16:27:38", "timestamp": 1745504858.0 } }, { "id": "94402", "term": "fierce", "definition": "To have looks that could \"kill\"; also used to refer to satisfying, powerful, or beautiful drag queens.", "sentence": "Which is fierce and all, but Iā€™m feeling a little tokenized and Iā€™d rather not spend my pride with work.", "communities": [ "drag" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "gaybros", "date": "2024-06-04 23:38:52", "timestamp": 1717537132.0 } }, { "id": "108947", "term": "tryke", "definition": "A slang term for transgender lesbian, formed from \"trans\" and \"dyke\".", "sentence": "Electronic hugs from another self-identified tryke!", "communities": [ "transfeminine" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "asktransgender", "date": "2011-03-24 15:03:03", "timestamp": 1300975383.0 } }, { "id": "102306", "term": "ace", "definition": "Asexual; an asexual person.", "sentence": "If you didn't actually like trans, BIPOC, or those on the ace spectrum, that would make you a bigot - not your flag choice.", "communities": [ "asexual" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "lgbt", "date": "2022-05-09 22:36:43", "timestamp": 1652128603.0 } }, { "id": "111034", "term": "squish", "definition": "An aromantic crush; the desire for a non-romantic and/or platonic relationship with another person.", "sentence": "If you have a squish, a platonic \"crush\", that you aren't already close friends with, just get to know them and make friends.", "communities": [ "aromantic" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "LGBTeens", "date": "2013-09-07 06:13:30", "timestamp": 1378527210.0 } }, { "id": "83354", "term": "giver", "definition": "Slang for the \"active\" role during gay sex. The giver/taker binary is now largely acknowledged as artificial and heteronormative.", "sentence": "She enjoyed being the giver to anal play/I the receiver.", "communities": [], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "bisexual", "date": "2024-12-08 07:43:41", "timestamp": 1733640221.0 } }, { "id": "224114", "term": "lesbian", "definition": "A girl or woman who is wholly or mostly sexually or romantically attracted to other girls or women.", "sentence": "Even I'd be a lesbian, if I only could.", "communities": [], "metadata": { "source": "OpenSubtitles", "title": "101 ReykjavĆ­k", "imdb_id": "237993" } }, { "id": "91809", "term": "faux queen", "definition": "A cis female performance artist who performs in female drag at drag shows, or acts like a drag queen.", "sentence": "I'm really glad you are interested in faux queens, and I'd be happy to sticky this to see if it can get more traffic.", "communities": [ "drag", "gay male" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "fauxqueens", "date": "2014-12-01 09:06:45", "timestamp": 1417421205.0 } }, { "id": "204401", "term": "folx", "definition": "Folks; people.", "sentence": "Looking for queer folx in and around Raleigh to participate in a play we're doing in collab with St. John's MCC.", "communities": [], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "LGBTriangle", "date": "2023-02-06 20:43:15", "timestamp": 1675712595.0 } }, { "id": "90274", "term": "twink", "definition": "ā€¢ Slang term widely used in gay communities to describe a young or young-looking man with little or no facial or body hair. Can be pejorative, but can also be a self-descriptor.\r\nā€¢ A young, attractive, slim male, usually having little body hair.", "sentence": "I'm 6'4, not skinny, and have a beard, I am in no way a twink.", "communities": [ "gay", "gay male" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "ftm", "date": "2025-03-08 21:59:02", "timestamp": 1741467542.0 } }, { "id": "204387", "term": "folx", "definition": "Folks; people.", "sentence": "Hopefully itā€™s of some help for folx trying to make sense of it all too.", "communities": [], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "transgenderau", "date": "2024-01-31 10:54:47", "timestamp": 1706694887.0 } }, { "id": "103238", "term": "ace of spades", "definition": "A person who is asexual and aromantic.", "sentence": "Iā€™ve been looking into rings, Iā€™ve seen that particular styles worn on the middle finger can symbolise being ace/aro, and that an ace of spades symbolises being aroace.", "communities": [ "asexual", "aromantic" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "asexuality", "date": "2023-08-03 15:14:12", "timestamp": 1691068452.0 } }, { "id": "213178", "term": "gym bunny", "definition": "A sports enthusiast; usually one who frequents gyms and training grounds; often used of young gay men obsessed with body building.", "sentence": "He's a gym bunny and beautiful face.", "communities": [], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "askgaybros", "date": "2021-05-09 16:16:32", "timestamp": 1620569792.0 } }, { "id": "116340", "term": "superchub", "definition": "An extremely large self-identified chub (\"chub\" meaning \"a gay man who is overweight or obese\").", "sentence": "I'm into big guys, like 200-350lbs range, but oddly enough I'm not into superchubs, so I guess there is a limit.", "communities": [ "gay", "chub" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "askgaybros", "date": "2016-03-21 19:48:00", "timestamp": 1458586080.0 } }, { "id": "134010", "term": "androgynous", "definition": "Of clothing or accessories, making a person's identity as male or female not immediately apparent to observers.", "sentence": "You look very androgynous to me, and I think a lot of others will be thinking the same", "communities": [], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "lgbt", "date": "2020-10-22 14:34:14", "timestamp": 1603370054.0 } }, { "id": "114676", "term": "gold star lesbian", "definition": "A lesbian who has never had sex with a man.", "sentence": "/uj whatever the opposite of a gold star lesbian is, I'm that.", "communities": [ "lesbian" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "transgendercirclejerk", "date": "2021-01-25 18:54:04", "timestamp": 1611597244.0 } }, { "id": "113725", "term": "gayelle", "definition": "A lesbian.", "sentence": "seriously, I've heard it in lesbian and gay clubs and gayelles always dance to it and seem to enjoy it.", "communities": [ "lesbian" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "actuallesbians", "date": "2012-01-10 08:16:40", "timestamp": 1326179800.0 } }, { "id": "206362", "term": "snatched", "definition": "Good-looking.", "sentence": "To look snatched for the gods.", "communities": [], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "askgaybros", "date": "2023-06-29 13:29:26", "timestamp": 1688038166.0 } }, { "id": "103265", "term": "cissplain", "definition": "To explain transgender issues, people or behavior to a trans person (as a cis person) in a condescending manner, presuming the listenerā€™s inferior understanding.", "sentence": "The very concept of *thoughtful cissplaining* appears to me to be oxymoronic.", "communities": [ "transgender" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "transgender", "date": "2014-10-03 18:01:28", "timestamp": 1412352088.0 } }, { "id": "107787", "term": "full-time", "definition": "A term which refers to a transgender person living as their gender for the entirety of their day-to-day life, at work, at home, etc.", "sentence": "I presented full-time as a woman long before I started HRT and while I did get some funny looks, I quickly got used to it.", "communities": [ "transgender" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "asktransgender", "date": "2022-09-01 15:38:01", "timestamp": 1662039481.0 } }, { "id": "169369", "term": "manmode", "definition": "The state of presenting as a man, regardless of one's actual gender identity, especially of a trans woman.", "sentence": "A lot of people struggle to see their femininity when they manmode all the time.", "communities": [ "transgender" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "asktransgender", "date": "2023-09-24 09:45:37", "timestamp": 1695541537.0 } }, { "id": "151577", "term": "chubby", "definition": "An overweight or obese gay man.", "sentence": "I tend to like older chubby guys personally.", "communities": [ "gay" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "gaybros", "date": "2023-11-04 00:09:37", "timestamp": 1699052977.0 } }, { "id": "117654", "term": "baby gay", "definition": "A person who has recently come out in relationship to a marginalized sexual or gender identity.", "sentence": "I turned and saw this girl, this Baby Gay, watching wide-eyed and slack-jawed after the woman I'd sent looking for the organic pasta.", "communities": [ "gay male" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "actuallesbians", "date": "2020-04-24 04:35:12", "timestamp": 1587695712.0 } }, { "id": "113973", "term": "futch", "definition": "A person who exhibits traits of both a femme (often used to describe a wide variety of gender expressions and identities adjacent to feminine or femme-ness) and a butch (often used to describe a wide variety of gender expressions and identities adjacent to masculinity or \"butchilinity\").", "sentence": "She-ra futch gay when I have to make the best of my situation at work/in public.", "communities": [ "lesbian" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "traaaaaaannnnnnnnnns", "date": "2018-12-09 06:06:55", "timestamp": 1544332015.0 } }, { "id": "107940", "term": "crossdreaming", "definition": "Dreams or fantasies in which a person imagines themself as (or simply dressed as) the \"opposite\" gender (i.e. a man as a woman or a woman as a man).", "sentence": "But I've fit into the crossdreaming category for years.", "communities": [ "transgender", "cross-dressing" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "ask_transgender", "date": "2016-06-21 05:31:03", "timestamp": 1466479863.0 } }, { "id": "203154", "term": "šŸ„š", "definition": "Represents an egg, as in a person regarded as having not yet realized they are transgender.", "sentence": "I told him that such compliments made me uncomfortable, but I hadn't yet figured out why šŸ„š He started complimenting me differently, and all was well.", "communities": [ "transgender" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "trans", "date": "2021-12-04 08:51:10", "timestamp": 1638604270.0 } }, { "id": "75976", "term": "chaser", "definition": "Short for \"tranny chaser.\" A person who sees trans people (usually trans women) as inherently sexual, and sexually objectifies them. As opposed to someone who simply is predominantly attracted to trans women; a chaser does not view trans women respectfully as people with humanity and agency, but rather as players in a sexual fantasy.", "sentence": "I used to date bi men only but the pool of them who are out is small and chasers, normally denying they're the above, are all that wanna \"date\".", "communities": [], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "transgenderUK", "date": "2023-11-26 14:49:21", "timestamp": 1701006561.0 } }, { "id": "94312", "term": "drab", "definition": "An instance of a transgender or non-binary person presenting as the gender corresponding to their sex assigned at birth instead of that corresponding to their internal gender identity (most commonly a trans woman dressed as a man).", "sentence": "I picked up the intake form from the new therapist before work in guy drab the day before.", "communities": [ "transgender", "drag", "transgender" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "transpositive", "date": "2016-01-16 09:31:52", "timestamp": 1452933112.0 } }, { "id": "123836", "term": "boy pussy", "definition": "A gay man's anus, especially the receiving partipant's. Also, rarely, a transmasculine person's vulva.", "sentence": "Trans guy, literally have a boy pussy but I prefer boy vagina", "communities": [ "transgender", "gay", "gay male" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "askgaybros", "date": "2019-09-05 10:29:13", "timestamp": 1567672153.0 } }, { "id": "114677", "term": "gold star lesbian", "definition": "A lesbian who has never had sex with a man.", "sentence": "Iā€™m a trans woman who winces and stutters awkwardly even *trying* to call myself sapphic, but will still joke that ā€œaccording to TERFs, Iā€™m a gold star lesbian.ā€", "communities": [ "lesbian" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "transgendercirclejerk", "date": "2025-04-26 15:34:58", "timestamp": 1745674498.0 } }, { "id": "86339", "term": "sugar daddy", "definition": "Expression of the Black community in the 1920s, to refer to an older, wealthy partner. Over time, this expression became used by the LGBTQIA+ community as well.", "sentence": "Iā€™ve never had a sugar daddy ask ME for money lol.", "communities": [], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "gaybros", "date": "2021-04-20 18:10:44", "timestamp": 1618935044.0 } }, { "id": "91638", "term": "kiki", "definition": "ā€¢ A gathering of friends for the purpose of gossiping and chit-chat.\r\nā€¢ 1940s slang describing a lesbian comfortable with either a more passive or more aggressive partner in a relationship.", "sentence": "Friend told me we should have a kiki.", "communities": [ "drag", "lesbian", "African-American transgender", "African-American gay male" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "gaybros", "date": "2013-01-11 08:45:59", "timestamp": 1357890359.0 } }, { "id": "113700", "term": "high femme", "definition": "A femme person who expresses their gender in ultra feminine ways. Often, but not exclusively, this refers to a queer woman.", "sentence": "You are still trans....just probably not a high femme transperson.", "communities": [ "lesbian" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "ask_transgender", "date": "2019-09-10 15:27:46", "timestamp": 1568122066.0 } }, { "id": "124650", "term": "cruising", "definition": "To walk or drive about a locality in search of a sex partner, usually of the anonymous, casual, one-time variety.", "sentence": "Back in the 60s 70s 80s and early 90s there was a lot more cruising as it was before the internet which changed so much of the culture.", "communities": [ "gay male" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "gaybros", "date": "2025-07-03 22:45:29", "timestamp": 1751575529.0 } }, { "id": "117689", "term": "baby gay", "definition": "A person who has recently come out in relationship to a marginalized sexual or gender identity.", "sentence": "FYI ā€œbaby gayā€ doesnā€™t mean a gay baby šŸ’› You would only have been a baby gay as a gay baby if you came out when you were one", "communities": [ "gay male" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "lesbianfashionadvice", "date": "2024-03-04 18:45:33", "timestamp": 1709574333.0 } }, { "id": "215507", "term": "orchie", "definition": "Clipping of orchiectomy.", "sentence": "I finally managed to get my referral for an orchie sorted out in May via my GIC!", "communities": [ "transgender" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "transgenderUK", "date": "2025-06-19 14:05:53", "timestamp": 1750334753.0 } }, { "id": "76657", "term": "egg", "definition": "Slang term (originating online) for a person who has not yet realised they are transgender, has not yet come out, or is in the early stages of transitioning. Usually used (fondly) by trans people to recognise when aspects of someone's personality or behavior remind them of gender-related aspects of themselves before they realized they were trans.", "sentence": "Part of the whole \"meme\" is that everything is egg, just like Metal Gear Solid is trans or having a messy bedroom is bisexual.", "communities": [ "transgender", "transgender" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "asktransgender", "date": "2020-05-22 20:34:21", "timestamp": 1590172461.0 } }, { "id": "109003", "term": "girldick", "definition": "A transgender woman's penis.", "sentence": "/uj real talk, girldick memes make me super uncomfortable.", "communities": [ "transgender", "transfeminine" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "transgendercirclejerk", "date": "2020-01-02 22:35:56", "timestamp": 1578000956.0 } }, { "id": "107980", "term": "transition goal", "definition": "A transgender person's goals for transition, or an example of what they would like to achieve for such a transition (for example, pointing to an actor or musician of their desired gender expression and declaring that person \"transition goals\").", "sentence": "I never fully reached my transition goals, and I doubt that ever will.", "communities": [ "transgender" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "MtF", "date": "2025-05-22 21:14:24", "timestamp": 1747941264.0 } }, { "id": "115667", "term": "lesbro", "definition": "A man who is considered an \"honorary lesbian\" by lesbian friends; otherwise, rarely, a lesbian who is considered stereotypically masculine, i.e. a \"bro\".", "sentence": "I've got a few lesbros.", "communities": [ "lesbian" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "actuallesbians", "date": "2015-09-10 07:50:46", "timestamp": 1441864246.0 } }, { "id": "114747", "term": "butch dyke", "definition": "A butch lesbian. \"Butch\" is often used to describe a wide variety of gender expressions and identities adjacent to masculinity or \"butchilinity\".", "sentence": "Yet, I identify as a butch dyke, not a man.", "communities": [ "lesbian" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "genderqueer", "date": "2014-07-09 03:46:50", "timestamp": 1404870410.0 } }, { "id": "204159", "term": "folx", "definition": "Folks; people.", "sentence": "For me, I will continue to use folx.", "communities": [], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "ftm", "date": "2024-09-03 05:48:40", "timestamp": 1725335320.0 } }, { "id": "146426", "term": "hondose", "definition": "A low dose of hormone replacement therapy in a trans woman which produces inadequate feminization and fails to suppress testosterone.", "sentence": "I just wanna make sure Iā€™m not being hondosed.", "communities": [], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "asktransgender", "date": "2023-07-23 17:23:58", "timestamp": 1690125838.0 } }, { "id": "117121", "term": "girlfag", "definition": "A woman who is typically attracted to gay or bisexual men.", "sentence": "I joined this group because I am a girlfag.", "communities": [ "bisexual male", "gay male" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "crossdreaming", "date": "2023-07-03 13:08:29", "timestamp": 1688382509.0 } }, { "id": "116650", "term": "chubby chaser", "definition": "A gay male person who is attracted sexually and/or romantically to obesity.", "sentence": "I'm a chubby fellow and I know there is the whole chubby chaser scene but I've not had the best results from that!", "communities": [ "chub" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "gay", "date": "2013-07-24 12:24:55", "timestamp": 1374661495.0 } }, { "id": "120825", "term": "twunk", "definition": "A gay man with the certain twink (meaning ā€œyoung, attractive, slim maleā€) stereotype elements that has a hunky (strong, muscular, etc.) physique.", "sentence": "Thereā€™s a lot of them in my city, but I feel pretty shunned or unwanted by them since Iā€™m not the picture-perfect twunk circuit party gaysian.", "communities": [ "gay", "gay male" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "gaysian", "date": "2022-02-01 06:29:23", "timestamp": 1643693363.0 } }, { "id": "1759", "term": "kink", "definition": "ā€¢ A specific sexual desire, practice, or activity considered unconventional but within certain socially constructed boundaries.\r\nā€¢ A thief or burglar.", "sentence": "Suggesting that she was involved in the kink world, I guess.", "communities": [], "metadata": { "source": "Podcasts", "title": "The Louis Theroux Podcast" } }, { "id": "114734", "term": "bambi lesbian", "definition": "A lesbian who identifies as bambi-sexual, i.e. being more interested in kissing, carressing, cuddling, etc. than genital stimulation or sexual intercourse.", "sentence": "I actually use the label Bambi Lesbian as well, and I also would date women and non binary people.", "communities": [ "lesbian" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "teengirlswholikegirls", "date": "2021-06-23 01:40:12", "timestamp": 1624405212.0 } }, { "id": "115232", "term": "soft butch", "definition": "A lesbian who exhibits some stereotypical butch traits without fitting the masculine stereotype associated with butch lesbians.", "sentence": "I am a total sucker for femme, andro, soft butch, alt, witchy and/or animal lovers.", "communities": [ "lesbian" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "l4l", "date": "2018-01-28 05:34:06", "timestamp": 1517114046.0 } }, { "id": "116799", "term": "seahorse dad", "definition": "Slang term for a transgender man who is carrying, or has carried, a child to term.", "sentence": "I sincerely doubt your son will like you less but you could ask the seahorse dads.", "communities": [ "transmasculine" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "trans", "date": "2024-01-16 02:21:06", "timestamp": 1705368066.0 } }, { "id": "101575", "term": "femby", "definition": "A slang term sometimes used to refer to femme enbies (non-binary people) or non-binary women. A portmanteau of \"femme\" and \"enby\".", "sentence": "There is also the term femby if that makes you more comfortable.", "communities": [ "nonbinary" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "asktransgender", "date": "2025-04-13 22:48:15", "timestamp": 1744577295.0 } }, { "id": "113972", "term": "futch", "definition": "A person who exhibits traits of both a femme (often used to describe a wide variety of gender expressions and identities adjacent to feminine or femme-ness) and a butch (often used to describe a wide variety of gender expressions and identities adjacent to masculinity or \"butchilinity\").", "sentence": "I'm all in for those FUTCH and SOFT BUTCH looks as soon as they don't make me look like the bro-iest bro who ever bro'd", "communities": [ "lesbian" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "traaaaaaannnnnnnnnns", "date": "2019-08-14 21:39:34", "timestamp": 1565811574.0 } }, { "id": "214571", "term": "studs", "definition": "ā€¢ Community term for an African-American and/or Latinx masculine queer woman. Also known as \"ag.\" Only use if someone self-describes in this way, and avoid using for white people, as this is a term specifically developed by and for African-American and Latinx communities.\r\nā€¢ A masculine or butch lesbian; predominantly utilized in Black and Latina lesbian communities. Should not be used by individuals outside of those communities, as it may be seen as pejorative. Sometimes expanded to refer to other gender identities and expressions.", "sentence": "Talk to elder butches and studs and trans people.", "communities": [ "lesbian", "Latine lesbian", "African-American lesbian" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "actuallesbians", "date": "2025-02-24 23:59:22", "timestamp": 1740437962.0 } }, { "id": "134007", "term": "ambisextrous", "definition": "Said of a person, bisexual.", "sentence": "I go with ambisextrous, but you do you.", "communities": [], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "BisexualTeens", "date": "2019-12-28 10:38:50", "timestamp": 1577525930.0 } }, { "id": "129005", "term": "gyal", "definition": "A girl.", "sentence": "This is the only place i can vent, so give me your support you wonderful guys and gyals, I love you!", "communities": [], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "lgbt", "date": "2019-10-17 05:43:35", "timestamp": 1571283815.0 } }, { "id": "205383", "term": "lesboy", "definition": "A person who identifies as male and as a lesbian.", "sentence": "The only one of these terms Iā€™ve heard without ill intent is lesboy, which a transmasc lesbian (I think?)", "communities": [], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "AskLGBT", "date": "2024-06-24 04:08:46", "timestamp": 1719194926.0 } }, { "id": "69", "term": "closeted", "definition": "An adjective referring to an LGBTQIA+ person or persons who have not disclosed their status as LGBTQIA+ and other related aspects of their life. More broadly, it can also be used to describe anyone who is hiding part of their identity because of social pressure.", "sentence": "I'm not saying they're gay, but I'm saying there's been some porn watching, some bi-curious, maybe some are are closeted.", "communities": [ "LGBTQ" ], "metadata": { "source": "Podcasts", "title": "I've Had It" } }, { "id": "77739", "term": "fag hag", "definition": "A woman, typically a heterosexual one, possibly ageing, who prefers, enjoys, or seeks out the company of homosexual men. This term is offensive to gay men and misogynistic to heterosexual women. Once common, now rarely used within queer communities.", "sentence": "Iā€™ve heard people correct others and say ā€œIā€™m not a fag hag, Iā€™m a fruit fly!ā€", "communities": [ "gay male" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "askgaybros", "date": "2023-05-29 18:18:35", "timestamp": 1685377115.0 } }, { "id": "123851", "term": "poof", "definition": "An offensive term referring to a gay man or a feminine man. Used chiefly in Britain, Australia, and New Zealand.", "sentence": "Not way back when but maybe geographical, but it wouldn't be unusual for me to still hear poof as a slur where Iive in the UK.", "communities": [ "gay male" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "lgbt", "date": "2019-10-02 08:18:42", "timestamp": 1569997122.0 } }, { "id": "123977", "term": "poof", "definition": "An offensive term referring to a gay man or a feminine man. Used chiefly in Britain, Australia, and New Zealand.", "sentence": "As a fellow poof, it looks really nice tho!", "communities": [ "gay male" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "transadorable", "date": "2024-09-20 23:57:45", "timestamp": 1726869465.0 } }, { "id": "210863", "term": "drag mother", "definition": "In the US, a group of drag queens who have been mentored by a \"mother,\" also known as a \"house.\" These groups often take on family drag names and form close-knit communities.", "sentence": "My drag mother's partner is also a drag queen and, between them, they have four drag children.", "communities": [], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "Drag", "date": "2025-07-13 22:58:22", "timestamp": 1752440302.0 } }, { "id": "169411", "term": "mones", "definition": "Hormones used as part of hormone replacement therapy, especially for transgender or gender variant individuals.", "sentence": "I was worried for a few weeks that I'd have to wait a whole 'nother year to get on the 'mones (June).", "communities": [], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "transpositive", "date": "2013-08-09 00:50:34", "timestamp": 1376002234.0 } }, { "id": "214831", "term": "tops", "definition": "ā€¢ A \"top\" is an individual who acts as the \"giving\" partner in sexual encounters. Sometimes used as a self-descriptor within queer communities, but should be replicated with caution. Sometimes used as a verb (\"to top someone\"). Offensive if applied to LGBTQ+ individuals from outwith queer communities.\r\nā€¢ Someone, typically a man, who is penetrating someone else during sexual intercourse or someone who has a preference for penetrating during such intercourse.", "sentence": "While we're at it, subs can be tops, and doms can be bottoms, too!", "communities": [ "LGBTQ" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "actuallesbians", "date": "2024-05-11 20:40:03", "timestamp": 1715452803.0 } }, { "id": "110234", "term": "zap", "definition": "Slang term for electrolytic epilation.", "sentence": "The electrologist will generally decide to be done zapping the follicle based on when the hair decides to slide out of the follicle easily.", "communities": [ "transfeminine" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "asktransgender", "date": "2021-03-16 19:31:40", "timestamp": 1615919500.0 } }, { "id": "113720", "term": "lesbian manicure", "definition": "A set of long, typically acrylic nails, with the exception of two short, plain nails, meant to accommodate fingering of the clitoris and vagina.", "sentence": "Half-expected it to be the lesbian manicure edit", "communities": [ "lesbian" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "actuallesbians", "date": "2022-09-29 15:33:08", "timestamp": 1664458388.0 } }, { "id": "89154", "term": "top", "definition": "ā€¢ A \"top\" is an individual who acts as the \"giving\" partner in sexual encounters. Sometimes used as a self-descriptor within queer communities, but should be replicated with caution. Sometimes used as a verb (\"to top someone\"). Offensive if applied to LGBTQ+ individuals from outwith queer communities.\r\nā€¢ Someone, typically a man, who is penetrating someone else during sexual intercourse or someone who has a preference for penetrating during such intercourse.", "sentence": "I'm a trans man and a top.", "communities": [ "LGBTQ" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "QueerTransmen", "date": "2021-12-28 22:43:56", "timestamp": 1640727836.0 } }, { "id": "154627", "term": "henny", "definition": "Alternative spelling of honey.", "sentence": "Like henny WE KNOW.", "communities": [ "gay" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "gay", "date": "2019-05-19 20:08:11", "timestamp": 1558289291.0 } }, { "id": "113706", "term": "high femme", "definition": "A femme person who expresses their gender in ultra feminine ways. Often, but not exclusively, this refers to a queer woman.", "sentence": "I've been feeling like my generally high femme aesthetic doesn't fit and I've been wearing nearly exclusively overalls.", "communities": [ "lesbian" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "agender", "date": "2022-11-24 15:01:29", "timestamp": 1669298489.0 } }, { "id": "77772", "term": "fag stag", "definition": "A heterosexual man who socializes predominantly with gay men.", "sentence": "I've had a fag stag for about 2 years now and I'm not sure I can continue lying to myself and others anymore.", "communities": [ "gay male" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "actuallesbians", "date": "2015-06-24 03:54:58", "timestamp": 1435110898.0 } }, { "id": "211575", "term": "faggy", "definition": "A pejorative term used chiefly in North America primarily to refer to a gay man. Alongside its use to refer to gay men in particular, it may also be used as a pejorative term for a \"repellent man\" or to refer to women who are lesbian (or to transgender people, typically transgender women). Its use has spread from the United States to varying extents elsewhere in the English-speaking world through mass culture, including film, music, and the Internet.", "sentence": "Flabby faggy mole person is my new drag name", "communities": [], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "rupaulsdragrace", "date": "2020-01-25 11:49:09", "timestamp": 1579949349.0 } }, { "id": "212291", "term": "pansy", "definition": "Various flowers are used to refer to feminine gay men, though \"pansy\" is probably the most common. Associates gay men with misogynistic ideas of femininity; implies weakness, unthreateneaning appearance, cowardliness. Offensive, often used as an intentional slur.", "sentence": "please don't get angry with me but is pansy a really bad insult compared to something like the f slur", "communities": [], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "gay", "date": "2022-08-13 03:46:05", "timestamp": 1660355165.0 } }, { "id": "83499", "term": "gold star", "definition": "Slang for someone who has never had sex with someone of the opposite gender, sometimes including bisexual people of their own gender. Most commonly used in lesbian communities, now widely recognised as biphobic.", "sentence": "_Lots_ of gay guys have lost their gold stars, and I've personally known some who had wives and kids before coming to terms with who they are.", "communities": [], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "gaybros", "date": "2020-08-22 12:54:20", "timestamp": 1598093660.0 } }, { "id": "102238", "term": "joyfriend", "definition": "A sexual and/or romantic partner of any gender, but usually a nonbinary person.", "sentence": "My bf calls me his Joyfriend <3", "communities": [ "nonbinary" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "genderfluid", "date": "2023-04-30 21:45:27", "timestamp": 1682883927.0 } }, { "id": "154640", "term": "man cunt", "definition": "ā€¢ The anus of a man, usually the receptive participant in gay sex.\r\nā€¢ The vulva or vagina of a trans man.", "sentence": "However it turns me on so much to call my hole a pussy or man pussy or man cunt or just cunt.", "communities": [ "transgender", "gay" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "askgaybros", "date": "2024-01-13 03:33:59", "timestamp": 1705113239.0 } }, { "id": "99780", "term": "queer coding", "definition": "A situation in which a character is given traits or behaviors which suggest they are not heterosexual and/or cisgender, without the character being outright confirmed as having such an identity.", "sentence": "I haven't watched the movie, so I couldn't tell you if it's queer coding.", "communities": [ "LGBTQ" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "gay", "date": "2024-11-16 07:25:27", "timestamp": 1731738327.0 } }, { "id": "214692", "term": "swinging both ways", "definition": "A euphemistic phrase indicating that someone (of any gender) is gay or bisexual. These phrases are not a slur or especially offensive, and are generally used with a note of humour. However, they are outdated, because the euphemistic reluctance to normalise terms such as \"gay,\" \"lesbian,\" or \"bisexual\" suggests that LGBTQ+ people should not be openly talked about. Risks blocking discoverability if used instead of more direct terms. Not to be confused with the term \"swinging\" on its own, which can indicate non-monogamous practices.", "sentence": "All over school, everyone knew I was swinging both ways, and I was terrified.", "communities": [], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "LGBTeens", "date": "2015-10-04 00:25:46", "timestamp": 1443911146.0 } }, { "id": "205442", "term": "neg", "definition": "HIV negative.", "sentence": "If you are neg, get on PrEP and you will not only be immune to HIV, but part of the generation that finally puts an end to this horror.", "communities": [], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "askgaybros", "date": "2021-06-05 17:46:54", "timestamp": 1622908014.0 } }, { "id": "112512", "term": "boydyke", "definition": "A woman with a somewhat masculine presentation.", "sentence": "U can be a lesbian boydyke who gets top surgery.", "communities": [ "lesbian", "transmasculine" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "NonBinary", "date": "2025-04-15 02:29:08", "timestamp": 1744676948.0 } }, { "id": "89394", "term": "top", "definition": "ā€¢ A \"top\" is an individual who acts as the \"giving\" partner in sexual encounters. Sometimes used as a self-descriptor within queer communities, but should be replicated with caution. Sometimes used as a verb (\"to top someone\"). Offensive if applied to LGBTQ+ individuals from outwith queer communities.\r\nā€¢ Someone, typically a man, who is penetrating someone else during sexual intercourse or someone who has a preference for penetrating during such intercourse.", "sentence": "What do bottoms *actually* want in a top, beyond the physical aspect?", "communities": [ "LGBTQ" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "LGBTindia", "date": "2024-11-21 05:23:35", "timestamp": 1732163015.0 } }, { "id": "220127", "term": "the house", "definition": "Ellipsis of the house down (used as an intensifier: very, to a great degree; exceptionally.)", "sentence": "You brought the house down with a dance and a dum", "communities": [ "drag" ], "metadata": { "source": "OpenSubtitles", "title": "Trick", "imdb_id": "162710" } }, { "id": "106640", "term": "baby trans", "definition": "Someone who has recently discovered that they are transgender.", "sentence": "O. said that I was giving baby trans masc, very much reminding it of other transmascs in its life.", "communities": [ "transgender", "transgender" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "genderfluid", "date": "2024-05-12 21:38:11", "timestamp": 1715542691.0 } }, { "id": "115246", "term": "bull dyke", "definition": "A lesbian who appears masculine or acts in a masculine manner.", "sentence": "I'm working on a nonfiction book in which I try to account for the distribution and existence of bisexuals, metrosexuals, bull dykes, transgenders, and gay men and lesbians.", "communities": [ "lesbian" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "QueerTheory", "date": "2024-03-10 21:34:52", "timestamp": 1710102892.0 } }, { "id": "1378", "term": "gag", "definition": "To have an intense reaction, usually of shock or excitement. Also: to show intense jealousy or to have an appearance deemed good enough to cause such jealousy.", "sentence": "I'm like, ooh, but it's worth it for the gag!", "communities": [ "drag" ], "metadata": { "source": "Podcasts", "title": "Bittersweet Infamy" } }, { "id": "113729", "term": "U-Haul lesbian", "definition": "A stereotype of lesbian relationships, referring to the joke that lesbians tend to move in together on the second date. It suggests an extreme inclination toward monogamy or committed relationships. It can be considered either complimentary or pejorative, depending on context.", "sentence": "I'm not accusing you or your partner of anything, but the U-Haul Lesbian phenomenon puts lesbian couples at an increased risk of accidentally rushing into a bad situation.", "communities": [], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "lgbt", "date": "2022-03-19 18:45:41", "timestamp": 1647711941.0 } }, { "id": "99361", "term": "total top", "definition": "A total top is one who assumes an exclusively penetrative role for sex.", "sentence": "But everywhere I look online I see people saying that all total tops are \"toxic\" or have internalized homophobia, when I just dont enjoy those things.", "communities": [ "LGBTQ" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "gay", "date": "2025-06-06 11:04:36", "timestamp": 1749200676.0 } }, { "id": "141711", "term": "LGBT", "definition": "Initialism for lesbian, gay, bisexual, and transgender.", "sentence": "While this doesn't really apply to this subreddit, many other LGBT focused subreddit make me feel very unwelcomed.", "communities": [], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "MtF", "date": "2021-10-17 22:19:19", "timestamp": 1634501959.0 } }, { "id": "227363", "term": "drag queen", "definition": "ā€¢ A male entertainer who performs dressed as a woman; a female impersonator.\r\nā€¢ A male-to-female cross-dresser.", "sentence": "If you're going to become a drag queen, you're gonna have to learn these things.", "communities": [], "metadata": { "source": "OpenSubtitles", "title": "To Wong Foo, Thanks for Everything! Julie Newmar", "imdb_id": "114682" } }, { "id": "102312", "term": "ace", "definition": "Asexual; an asexual person.", "sentence": "Edit: also since SpongeBob is canonically ace then he's that too", "communities": [ "asexual" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "lgbt", "date": "2022-09-24 19:27:58", "timestamp": 1664040478.0 } }, { "id": "70", "term": "closeted", "definition": "An adjective referring to an LGBTQIA+ person or persons who have not disclosed their status as LGBTQIA+ and other related aspects of their life. More broadly, it can also be used to describe anyone who is hiding part of their identity because of social pressure.", "sentence": "And I just can't thank you guys enough for participating in my own personal growth as like a closeted, queer athlete.", "communities": [ "LGBTQ" ], "metadata": { "source": "Podcasts", "title": "We Can Do Hard Things with Glennon Doyle" } }, { "id": "165248", "term": "euphoria boner", "definition": "An erection of the penis in a trans woman, caused by strong feelings of gender euphoria.", "sentence": "How do I stop getting euphoria boners pre hrt?", "communities": [ "transgender" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "MtF", "date": "2022-10-17 02:28:57", "timestamp": 1665966537.0 } }, { "id": "204326", "term": "folx", "definition": "Folks; people.", "sentence": "Hi folx, Iā€™m AFAB/agender, starting in on my journey towards top surgery, and was hoping to get some advice from people who have been there with a similar situation.", "communities": [], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "agender", "date": "2024-06-17 19:35:47", "timestamp": 1718645747.0 } }, { "id": "101451", "term": "bi wife energy", "definition": "A slang term coined by a Tik Tok user (@cringelizard) to describe the energy that Misha Collins radiates, i.e. the supposed \"energy\" that he has due to being married to a bisexual woman, Victoria Vantoch. \"Bi wife energy\" is often used to refer to individuals who are supportive of the LGBTQIA+ community, and who have or have had a partner (usually a marital partner) who is LGBTQIA+.", "sentence": "Referring to my husband has having bi wife energy from now on", "communities": [ "bisexual" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "bisexual", "date": "2021-03-26 18:35:04", "timestamp": 1616780104.0 } }, { "id": "115110", "term": "stone femme", "definition": "A lesbian identity patterned after the term \"stone butch\". It may variously refer to: a femme that is a bottom, a femme that is attracted to or partner with someone who is butch, a femme who does not wish to touch her partners' genitalia, or a femme who is sexually stone, i.e. they do not wish to be touched in the genital area (and therefore they usually top).", "sentence": "Apparently stone femme can describe both pillow princesses and touch-me-not?", "communities": [ "lesbian" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "actuallesbians", "date": "2020-12-12 13:07:41", "timestamp": 1607774861.0 } }, { "id": "146040", "term": "brainworm", "definition": "An intrusive, unwanted, internalized transphobic or invalidating thought or belief.", "sentence": "I guess I'm addressing this to the council of wise trans eldersšŸ³ļøā€āš§ļøšŸ§™šŸŽ…, but are the brainworms talking or is there something here?", "communities": [], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "trans", "date": "2025-07-11 22:07:37", "timestamp": 1752264457.0 } }, { "id": "108923", "term": "cotton ceiling", "definition": "A term used for the tendency for cisgender lesbians to not want to engage in sexual activities with transgender women, particular those who have not yet undergone feminizing genitoplasty; or, more broadly, the tendency for cisgender lesbians to exclude transgender women from spaces.", "sentence": "I have learned about appropriate terminology and third wave feminism and the cotton ceiling.", "communities": [ "transfeminine", "lesbian" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "actuallesbians", "date": "2014-02-02 02:27:40", "timestamp": 1391304460.0 } }, { "id": "222926", "term": "straight", "definition": "Of a person, being sexually attracted to individuals of the opposite gender in a binary gender system; heterosexual.", "sentence": "As if even straight people are like that.", "communities": [], "metadata": { "source": "OpenSubtitles", "title": "Jeffrey", "imdb_id": "113464" } }, { "id": "223261", "term": "straight", "definition": "Of a person, being sexually attracted to individuals of the opposite gender in a binary gender system; heterosexual.", "sentence": "But usually in these movies, they hire two straight women to pretend, and the in authenticity is just unbearable.", "communities": [], "metadata": { "source": "OpenSubtitles", "title": "The Kids Are All Right", "imdb_id": "842926" } }, { "id": "101701", "term": "enbyfriend", "definition": "A nonbinary sexual and/or romantic partner.", "sentence": "Iā€™ve seen theyfriend and enbyfriend before.", "communities": [ "nonbinary" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "AskLGBT", "date": "2021-04-24 20:46:46", "timestamp": 1619290006.0 } }, { "id": "204282", "term": "folx", "definition": "Folks; people.", "sentence": "Iā€™m just curious if other queer folx living in rural areas experince this and if so is there anything that has helped?", "communities": [], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "queer", "date": "2024-05-27 20:32:05", "timestamp": 1716834725.0 } }, { "id": "98660", "term": "versatile", "definition": "Someone who penetrates or is penetrated during sexual intercourse or someone who has a preference for both being penetrated and penetrating during such intercourse.", "sentence": "Then thereā€™s the: versatile-passivo to say that oneā€™s versatile but more inclined to be passive and versatile-attivo", "communities": [ "LGBTQ" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "gaybros", "date": "2023-05-26 18:57:56", "timestamp": 1685120276.0 } }, { "id": "101663", "term": "enbyfriend", "definition": "A nonbinary sexual and/or romantic partner.", "sentence": "OR an enby partner,, an enbyfriend if you will", "communities": [ "nonbinary" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "actuallesbians", "date": "2021-09-11 19:57:00", "timestamp": 1631383020.0 } }, { "id": "94293", "term": "drab", "definition": "An instance of a transgender or non-binary person presenting as the gender corresponding to their sex assigned at birth instead of that corresponding to their internal gender identity (most commonly a trans woman dressed as a man).", "sentence": "I love skirts and dresses but because I donā€™t pass I rarely wear them outside, choosing instead to hide away in drab clothes and dark jackets.", "communities": [ "transgender", "drag", "transgender" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "MtF", "date": "2022-01-25 23:22:30", "timestamp": 1643149350.0 } }, { "id": "387", "term": "cunty", "definition": "Amazing or very good or cool, especially with regard to femininity.", "sentence": "I think a look is cunty.", "communities": [], "metadata": { "source": "Podcasts", "title": "Why Won't You Date Me? with Nicole Byer" } }, { "id": "215411", "term": "bio queen", "definition": "A cis female performance artist who performs in female drag at drag shows, or acts like a drag queen.", "sentence": "We need more bio queen representation!", "communities": [], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "Drag", "date": "2020-09-04 06:53:08", "timestamp": 1599195188.0 } }, { "id": "115089", "term": "chapstick lesbian", "definition": "A lesbian who exhibits some butch traits (short hair, stereotypical men's clothing, etc.) without wholly fitting the masculine butch stereotype; alternatively, a lesbian who is athletic or has a keen interest in sports.", "sentence": "Iā€™m definitely more of chapstick lesbian so to speak, but for my job as a social worker I like to look nice for work.", "communities": [ "lesbian" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "actuallesbians", "date": "2019-04-11 17:21:07", "timestamp": 1554996067.0 } }, { "id": "103212", "term": "asexy", "definition": "Typically, a person who asexual people tend to be attracted to for any of various reasons aside from sexual attraction.", "sentence": "Is asexy synonymous with cute?", "communities": [ "asexual" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "asexuality", "date": "2012-06-18 00:18:22", "timestamp": 1339971502.0 } }, { "id": "127550", "term": "butch queen", "definition": "A gay man with a traditionally masculine gender expression.", "sentence": "I feel like a butch queen that can't even put on makeup good enough to be one of the girls, fucking egg cracking is terrible yall.", "communities": [ "gay male" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "MtF", "date": "2019-04-09 05:56:19", "timestamp": 1554782179.0 } }, { "id": "73082", "term": "bicycle", "definition": "Used as slang for bisexual in the 1960s. Also more widely used to indicate promiscuity, esp for women; this usage is considered offensive.", "sentence": "bisexuals are bicycles so therefore we are the fastest at 2 mins", "communities": [], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "bisexual", "date": "2023-10-13 14:52:08", "timestamp": 1697201528.0 } }, { "id": "106729", "term": "cis-tem", "definition": "Mainstream culture, controlled by the elites or government of a state, or a combination of them, which is oppressive to transgender persons.", "sentence": "I promise when I can scrape up the $ Iā€™m going to purchase one of your Break the Cis-tem hoodies to support you.", "communities": [ "transgender" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "rupaulsdragrace", "date": "2021-04-10 13:06:18", "timestamp": 1618052778.0 } }, { "id": "359", "term": "anti-gay", "definition": "ā€¢ Hostile toward gay people; opposed to gay rights; homophobic.\r\nā€¢ Used by some gay people to refer to aspects of the community in critique, especially homogeneity, conformity, obsession with particular types of appearance, and assimilative behavior.", "sentence": "So it doesn't surprise me that it's declined because there has been an active effort to make people anti-gay, to make people homophobic, to send their kids to homophobic schools.", "communities": [], "metadata": { "source": "Podcasts", "title": "I've Had It" } }, { "id": "169965", "term": "princess wand", "definition": "A trans woman's penis.", "sentence": "looking for new creative/funny things to call my princess wand/girldick lolll.", "communities": [ "transgender" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "asktransgender", "date": "2022-08-25 23:51:09", "timestamp": 1661464269.0 } }, { "id": "140274", "term": "BJ", "definition": "Initialism of blow job.", "sentence": "I had the opportunity to get a bj once but i declined bc I didn't wanna embarrass myself (I was 16 back then).", "communities": [], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "Asexual", "date": "2022-12-04 21:09:44", "timestamp": 1670184584.0 } }, { "id": "965", "term": "bottoms", "definition": "ā€¢ A \"bottom\" is an individual who acts as the \"receiving\" partner in sexual encounters. Sometimes used as a self-descriptor within queer communities, but should be replicated with caution. Sometimes used as a verb (\"to bottom for someone\"). Offensive if applied to LGBTQ+ individuals from outwith queer communities.\r\nā€¢ Someone, typically a man, who is penetrated during sexual intercourse or someone who has a preference for being penetrated during such intercourse.\r\nā€¢ The buttocks.\r\nā€¢ Genitalia; genitals.", "sentence": "But also, I think two bottoms could navigate it.", "communities": [ "LGBTQ" ], "metadata": { "source": "Podcasts", "title": "Why Won't You Date Me? with Nicole Byer" } }, { "id": "202078", "term": "Tit Tac", "definition": "A pill taken as part of feminizing hormone replacement therapy, especially spironolactone (called by this name due to its peppermint smell) or estrogen such as estradiol.", "sentence": "I finally have my tit tacs!", "communities": [ "transgender" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "MtF", "date": "2025-05-22 17:45:03", "timestamp": 1747928703.0 } }, { "id": "129009", "term": "gyal", "definition": "A girl.", "sentence": "HAHAH it kills me everytime she says foyer like gyal thatā€™s not what that is darling!!", "communities": [], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "rupaulsdragrace", "date": "2024-06-28 23:22:32", "timestamp": 1719609752.0 } }, { "id": "154612", "term": "henny", "definition": "Alternative spelling of honey.", "sentence": "Good on you, Henny!", "communities": [ "gay" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "gaybros", "date": "2021-07-23 00:21:10", "timestamp": 1626992470.0 } }, { "id": "152637", "term": "family", "definition": "ā€¢ The gay community.\r\nā€¢ Homosexual.", "sentence": "I hope you have some chosen family who loves the beautiful woman you are.", "communities": [ "gay" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "transtimelines", "date": "2023-12-20 02:18:50", "timestamp": 1703035130.0 } }, { "id": "116359", "term": "chub", "definition": "A gay man who is overweight or obese; typically (but not always) derogatory.", "sentence": "As a bear and a chub thanks!", "communities": [ "gay", "chub" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "gaybros", "date": "2024-01-12 22:09:30", "timestamp": 1705093770.0 } }, { "id": "206506", "term": "useless lesbian", "definition": "A lesbian who is socially or romantically inept with other women.", "sentence": "Part of me feels bad, but part of me also knows I'm a useless lesbian.", "communities": [], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "LesbianGamers", "date": "2023-09-08 12:38:29", "timestamp": 1694169509.0 } }, { "id": "155057", "term": "poppers", "definition": "Drugs of the alkyl nitrate class used recreationally as a sexual stimulant, especially among gay men.", "sentence": "But I somehow wound up looking up poppers today and a bunch of the effects sounded exactly like what happened.", "communities": [ "gay" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "lgbt", "date": "2019-09-12 12:28:41", "timestamp": 1568284121.0 } }, { "id": "158744", "term": "cunt", "definition": "ā€¢ The anus of a trans woman.\r\nā€¢ The inguinal canals of a trans woman.\r\nā€¢ Amazing or very good.", "sentence": "Sheā€™s serving cunt šŸ’ā€ā™€ļø", "communities": [ "transgender" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "gaymers", "date": "2022-12-18 20:38:35", "timestamp": 1671392315.0 } }, { "id": "202089", "term": "Tit Tac", "definition": "A pill taken as part of feminizing hormone replacement therapy, especially spironolactone (called by this name due to its peppermint smell) or estrogen such as estradiol.", "sentence": "I just want those tit tacs in my body!", "communities": [ "transgender" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "transgenderau", "date": "2024-10-23 04:37:01", "timestamp": 1729651021.0 } }, { "id": "57", "term": "gym rat", "definition": "A sports enthusiast; usually one who frequents gyms and training grounds; often used of young gay men obsessed with body building.", "sentence": "Sachi, I know you go to the gym, but I'm wondering if you've ever gotten into one of those fad workouts slash diets in your time as a gym rat.", "communities": [], "metadata": { "source": "Podcasts", "title": "Scamfluencers" } }, { "id": "116677", "term": "chubby bear", "definition": "A bear who is particularly large (\"bear\" meaning \"a gay or bisexual man who has facial/body hair and a cuddly body\").", "sentence": "I have a strong attraction towards chubby bears and big men, but unfortunately, it's extremely difficult to find them here in Iran.", "communities": [ "chub", "bear" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "askgaybros", "date": "2023-07-15 10:49:52", "timestamp": 1689410992.0 } }, { "id": "211161", "term": "eggs", "definition": "Slang term (originating online) for a person who has not yet realised they are transgender, has not yet come out, or is in the early stages of transitioning. Usually used (fondly) by trans people to recognise when aspects of someone's personality or behavior remind them of gender-related aspects of themselves before they realized they were trans.", "sentence": "Now I would not say they are that until they adopt the label but I do direct them towards stuff for eggs (i.e.", "communities": [ "transgender" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "transeducate", "date": "2021-02-08 16:59:33", "timestamp": 1612799973.0 } }, { "id": "106698", "term": "transdar", "definition": "A colloquialism referring to the intuitive ability of a person to assess others' as being transgender. Transdar relies on verbal and non-verbal clues and transgender stereotypes. These include the sensitivity to social behaviors and mannerisms; for instance, acknowledging variations of gendered body language, the tone of voice used by a person when speaking, overtly rejecting traditional gender roles, a person's occupation, interests, etc.", "sentence": "Or is there an explanation that checks out that I can tell when it turns out my transdar is wrong and they're cis, instead of basically outing myself?", "communities": [ "transgender" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "trans", "date": "2022-04-28 02:47:45", "timestamp": 1651106865.0 } }, { "id": "107944", "term": "crossdreaming", "definition": "Dreams or fantasies in which a person imagines themself as (or simply dressed as) the \"opposite\" gender (i.e. a man as a woman or a woman as a man).", "sentence": "We need alternative arenas that can attract different people and different ways of thinking about crossdreaming.", "communities": [ "transgender", "cross-dressing" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "crossdreaming", "date": "2014-12-09 14:28:11", "timestamp": 1418131691.0 } }, { "id": "123984", "term": "poof", "definition": "An offensive term referring to a gay man or a feminine man. Used chiefly in Britain, Australia, and New Zealand.", "sentence": "I'm the poofiest poof that ever poofed lmao", "communities": [ "gay male" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "BisexualTeens", "date": "2019-12-22 12:31:52", "timestamp": 1577014312.0 } }, { "id": "99782", "term": "queer coding", "definition": "A situation in which a character is given traits or behaviors which suggest they are not heterosexual and/or cisgender, without the character being outright confirmed as having such an identity.", "sentence": "Future writers please dont retcon accidental queer coding, embrace it.", "communities": [ "LGBTQ" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "asexuality", "date": "2022-11-18 20:03:10", "timestamp": 1668798190.0 } }, { "id": "124368", "term": "otter", "definition": "A hairy man with a slender physique, in contrast with a bear, who is more thickset.", "sentence": "I am struggling sometimes with the thoughts of \"why would someone who is not that hairy/top date someone like me\" - I am somehow between otter and bear.", "communities": [ "gay", "gay male" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "lgbt", "date": "2025-07-02 12:18:55", "timestamp": 1751451535.0 } }, { "id": "83505", "term": "gold star", "definition": "Slang for someone who has never had sex with someone of the opposite gender, sometimes including bisexual people of their own gender. Most commonly used in lesbian communities, now widely recognised as biphobic.", "sentence": "It's just a term people use to try and be funny, like gold star gay.", "communities": [], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "gaybros", "date": "2018-11-24 23:19:01", "timestamp": 1543097941.0 } }, { "id": "146675", "term": "transmaxx", "definition": "To undergo gender transition (particularly from male to female) for the perceived social advantages that come with being the opposite sex, especially as regards the sexual marketplace.", "sentence": "So for context, I've been watching videos on (idk if this is a trigger or not) transmaxxing and I'm worried that I'm just faking it just to be treated better.", "communities": [], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "asktransgender", "date": "2025-04-10 21:52:30", "timestamp": 1744314750.0 } }, { "id": "101612", "term": "femby", "definition": "A slang term sometimes used to refer to femme enbies (non-binary people) or non-binary women. A portmanteau of \"femme\" and \"enby\".", "sentence": "1 was mtf, 1 was ftm, 3 were fembys, and 4 were genderfluid people.", "communities": [ "nonbinary" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "genderfluid", "date": "2024-11-20 06:27:52", "timestamp": 1732080472.0 } }, { "id": "213176", "term": "gym bunny", "definition": "A sports enthusiast; usually one who frequents gyms and training grounds; often used of young gay men obsessed with body building.", "sentence": "I mean he was polite, gentle, had callouses on his hands, a hot muscular body, but muscular from mainly doing physical work, not some kind of gym bunny type build.", "communities": [], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "askgaybros", "date": "2024-07-25 02:18:31", "timestamp": 1721866711.0 } }, { "id": "203167", "term": "cunty", "definition": "Amazing or very good or cool, especially with regard to femininity.", "sentence": "I like people who have playlists called \"Music For Cunty Bitches\".", "communities": [], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "lgbt", "date": "2011-04-17 19:28:49", "timestamp": 1303061329.0 } }, { "id": "116332", "term": "superchub", "definition": "An extremely large self-identified chub (\"chub\" meaning \"a gay man who is overweight or obese\").", "sentence": "Being plus sized (been a superchub all my life, like 495 lbs......ik ;( ) and I REFUSE to try dressing up if I look horrible and stupid.", "communities": [ "gay", "chub" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "lgbt", "date": "2024-05-19 08:56:05", "timestamp": 1716101765.0 } }, { "id": "114647", "term": "gold star lesbian", "definition": "A lesbian who has never had sex with a man.", "sentence": "I'm a gold star lesbian, and I wouldn't care.", "communities": [ "lesbian" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "actuallesbians", "date": "2023-09-21 23:26:10", "timestamp": 1695331570.0 } }, { "id": "123632", "term": "fruit fly", "definition": "A woman who enjoys the company of gay men; a somewhat less offensive alternative to \"fag hag\".", "sentence": "Did you know the \"new\"-ish term is fruit fly?", "communities": [ "gay male" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "askgaybros", "date": "2017-02-26 04:33:38", "timestamp": 1488080018.0 } }, { "id": "158128", "term": "crack", "definition": "To realize that one is transgender.", "sentence": "if my egg didn't crack I'd be dead", "communities": [ "transgender" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "asktransgender", "date": "2025-06-11 21:06:36", "timestamp": 1749668796.0 } }, { "id": "114640", "term": "gold star lesbian", "definition": "A lesbian who has never had sex with a man.", "sentence": "This is so messy for no reason šŸ˜­ youā€™re at different points in your sexuality journey and forcing this gold star lesbian narrative on her is not going to help.", "communities": [ "lesbian" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "lgbt", "date": "2025-02-09 17:23:33", "timestamp": 1739118213.0 } }, { "id": "210870", "term": "drag mother", "definition": "In the US, a group of drag queens who have been mentored by a \"mother,\" also known as a \"house.\" These groups often take on family drag names and form close-knit communities.", "sentence": "I want to claim Sasha velour as my drag mother because she is really inspiring to me in how I express my gender and drag.", "communities": [], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "Drag", "date": "2023-04-20 23:17:25", "timestamp": 1682025445.0 } }, { "id": "70203", "term": "bean queen", "definition": "Slang used in male homosexual communities in the USA to describe Mexican homosexuals. Racist overtones. Also used to describe Latinx drag queens, as well as white men who are attracted to Latino men.", "sentence": "and a bean queen is one who is attracted to Latino males.", "communities": [ "gay" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "askgaybros", "date": "2025-03-02 11:09:34", "timestamp": 1740910174.0 } }, { "id": "116667", "term": "chubby bear", "definition": "A bear who is particularly large (\"bear\" meaning \"a gay or bisexual man who has facial/body hair and a cuddly body\").", "sentence": "I shed a tear, as a chubby bear, I love you!", "communities": [ "chub", "bear" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "gaybros", "date": "2013-09-18 20:33:49", "timestamp": 1379529229.0 } }, { "id": "143377", "term": "autofellatio", "definition": "Oral stimulation of one's own penis.", "sentence": "Oh, and I used to do autofellatio all the time as a kid.", "communities": [], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "questioning", "date": "2021-01-25 02:39:39", "timestamp": 1611538779.0 } }, { "id": "86340", "term": "sugar daddy", "definition": "Expression of the Black community in the 1920s, to refer to an older, wealthy partner. Over time, this expression became used by the LGBTQIA+ community as well.", "sentence": "Those sugar daddy dating sites are scams too, and otherwise kind of pathetic.", "communities": [], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "gaybros", "date": "2021-04-21 01:09:26", "timestamp": 1618960166.0 } }, { "id": "76792", "term": "egg", "definition": "Slang term (originating online) for a person who has not yet realised they are transgender, has not yet come out, or is in the early stages of transitioning. Usually used (fondly) by trans people to recognise when aspects of someone's personality or behavior remind them of gender-related aspects of themselves before they realized they were trans.", "sentence": "Then my egg cracked, and it all made sense.", "communities": [ "transgender", "transgender" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "MtF", "date": "2025-02-26 00:47:12", "timestamp": 1740527232.0 } }, { "id": "116692", "term": "malefailing", "definition": "To be seen as and gender as female while attempting to present as masculine.", "sentence": "My hobbies and interests include malefailing", "communities": [ "transmasculine" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "traaaaaaannnnnnnnnns", "date": "2018-11-23 18:30:31", "timestamp": 1542994231.0 } }, { "id": "87751", "term": "switch-hitter", "definition": "USA slang for bisexual, originating from baseball terminology.", "sentence": "Bi: Bi/sexual, pan/sexual, omni/sexual, switch-hitter.", "communities": [], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "bisexual", "date": "2017-10-17 23:13:14", "timestamp": 1508274794.0 } }, { "id": "142830", "term": "LGBT", "definition": "Initialism for lesbian, gay, bisexual, and transgender.", "sentence": "I keep coming across people who say things like ā€œI donā€™t hate LGBTQ+ people, but I donā€™t support them either.ā€ And itā€™s honestly infuriating.", "communities": [], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "LGBTindia", "date": "2025-06-03 08:38:01", "timestamp": 1748932681.0 } }, { "id": "210463", "term": "beards", "definition": "Individuals who pose as the date or partner of someone they are not in a relationship with, typically to prevent that person's sexuality from becoming public knowledge; most commonly used to refer to a woman pretending to be dating a gay man.", "sentence": "Not as beards but as real relationships.", "communities": [ "LGBTQ" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "korrasami", "date": "2017-07-22 15:35:15", "timestamp": 1500730515.0 } }, { "id": "206471", "term": "useless lesbian", "definition": "A lesbian who is socially or romantically inept with other women.", "sentence": "Someone make an animated film about useless lesbian talking sheep with Yorkshire accents asap", "communities": [], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "actuallesbians", "date": "2024-05-01 19:01:18", "timestamp": 1714582878.0 } }, { "id": "110244", "term": "zap", "definition": "Slang term for electrolytic epilation.", "sentence": "On a related note, as I said I'm pre-everything, but, also due to the ingrown hairs, I'd like to begin zapping soon.", "communities": [ "transfeminine" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "asktransgender", "date": "2013-01-15 14:03:53", "timestamp": 1358255033.0 } }, { "id": "116820", "term": "panda bear", "definition": "A somewhat derogatory term sometimes used to refer to an Asian gay man who is considered a bear (\"bear\" meaning \"a gay or bisexual man who has facial/body hair and a cuddly body\").", "sentence": "A panda bear I guess is what people call me.", "communities": [ "bear" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "askgaybros", "date": "2018-10-01 19:45:43", "timestamp": 1538415943.0 } }, { "id": "110275", "term": "zap", "definition": "Slang term for electrolytic epilation.", "sentence": "If you want bottom surgery, just wait tell they start zappin under your twins or taint.", "communities": [ "transfeminine" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "MtF", "date": "2023-06-19 00:19:19", "timestamp": 1687126759.0 } }, { "id": "165239", "term": "euphoria boner", "definition": "An erection of the penis in a trans woman, caused by strong feelings of gender euphoria.", "sentence": "I then remembered euphoria boners and was wondering if ftm people also get something similar", "communities": [ "transgender" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "asktransgender", "date": "2024-04-03 22:21:33", "timestamp": 1712175693.0 } }, { "id": "106717", "term": "ewphoria", "definition": "A combination of gender euphoria with feelings of disgust, revulsion, or discomfort, resulting from one's gender identity being affirmed by bigoted, predatory, or creepy behavior by others.", "sentence": "I'm new to my transition journey and I've heard of ewphoria but today's the first time I've ever felt it.", "communities": [ "transgender", "transgender" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "NonBinary", "date": "2024-12-17 00:32:35", "timestamp": 1734391955.0 } }, { "id": "76136", "term": "drag family", "definition": "In the US, a group of drag queens who have been mentored by a \"mother,\" also known as a \"house.\" These groups often take on family drag names and form close-knit communities.", "sentence": "I recommend going out to their shows and building friendships before jumping to drag family.", "communities": [], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "Drag", "date": "2024-05-03 18:27:17", "timestamp": 1714753637.0 } }, { "id": "86799", "term": "switch", "definition": "ā€¢ LGBTQ+ community slang for someone who \"switches\" between the \"giving\" and \"receiving\" during sex. \"Vers\" is short for \"versatile.\" \"Switch\" is sometimes also used in a BDSM context, to indicate someone who \"switches\" between the dominant and submissive roles.\r\nā€¢ One who is willing to take either a submissive or a dominant role in a sexual relationship.", "sentence": "the switch experience really is just wanting to be on both ends of every horny meme on this subreddit huh", "communities": [ "LGBTQ" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "gay", "date": "2022-01-02 11:00:31", "timestamp": 1641117631.0 } }, { "id": "101499", "term": "enban", "definition": "An adult nonbinary person.", "sentence": "The attraction of enban to only men is called, viramoric.", "communities": [ "nonbinary" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "lgbt", "date": "2023-02-09 08:18:27", "timestamp": 1675927107.0 } }, { "id": "118047", "term": "fag", "definition": "A pejorative term used chiefly in North America primarily to refer to a gay man. Alongside its use to refer to gay men in particular, it may also be used as a pejorative term for a \"repellent man\" or to refer to women who are lesbian (or to transgender people, typically transgender women). Its use has spread from the United States to varying extents elsewhere in the English-speaking world through mass culture, including film, music, and the Internet.", "sentence": "I hate the word fag, but gay is fine.", "communities": [ "gay male" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "LGBTeens", "date": "2019-05-22 16:31:36", "timestamp": 1558535496.0 } }, { "id": "213170", "term": "gym bunny", "definition": "A sports enthusiast; usually one who frequents gyms and training grounds; often used of young gay men obsessed with body building.", "sentence": "If I keep the rest constant, I'll evolve into a Gym bunny at 24, Gym Rat at 35, and finally to Daddy at 54.", "communities": [], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "gaybros", "date": "2013-06-25 04:11:37", "timestamp": 1372126297.0 } }, { "id": "110922", "term": "zucchini", "definition": "A queerplatonic partner.", "sentence": "Tl;dr I am the zucchini of an aromantic that realized he is grayromantic for me.", "communities": [ "aromantic" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "asexuality", "date": "2019-03-29 10:07:11", "timestamp": 1553850431.0 } }, { "id": "157869", "term": "boymoder", "definition": "One who is in boymode, especially a trans woman who is on HRT but is not out.", "sentence": "/uj I remember a cute fanfic I read about a boymoder being unboymoded.", "communities": [ "transgender" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "transgendercirclejerk", "date": "2024-10-22 02:06:31", "timestamp": 1729555591.0 } }, { "id": "228926", "term": "realness", "definition": "The state of being real; the ability to blend or pass as heterosexual or cisgender; the quality of passing as a particular role in a particular circumstance.", "sentence": "Miss octavia, you don't feel this realness?", "communities": [ "drag", "gay male" ], "metadata": { "source": "OpenSubtitles", "title": "Paris Is Burning", "imdb_id": "100332" } }, { "id": "170426", "term": "rotten egg", "definition": "An egg (ā€œcloseted transgender personā€) who overcompensates by being actively transphobic.", "sentence": "I actually know someone who is a rotten egg.", "communities": [ "transgender" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "MtF", "date": "2022-02-23 01:17:54", "timestamp": 1645575474.0 } }, { "id": "113704", "term": "high femme", "definition": "A femme person who expresses their gender in ultra feminine ways. Often, but not exclusively, this refers to a queer woman.", "sentence": "Anything from high femme to futch, to butch can be found in my wardrobe.", "communities": [ "lesbian" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "lesbianfashionadvice", "date": "2025-03-27 13:14:26", "timestamp": 1743077666.0 } }, { "id": "157408", "term": "twinky", "definition": "Being or resembling a twink (ā€œyoung, attractive, slim maleā€).", "sentence": "I myself am a very small twinky dude (doesn't help that I am trans) and I have only recently started dating in the gay scene.", "communities": [ "gay" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "gay", "date": "2024-11-26 23:09:25", "timestamp": 1732658965.0 } }, { "id": "116758", "term": "front hole", "definition": "Slang for vagina, often used by transmasculine persons assigned female at birth.", "sentence": "Any words you use besides front hole cause heā€™s not a fan of that one.", "communities": [ "transmasculine" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "mypartneristrans", "date": "2019-09-09 20:56:01", "timestamp": 1568055361.0 } }, { "id": "119436", "term": "masc4masc", "definition": "A phrase used to describe a masculine gay man interested in other masculine gay men romantically and/or sexually.", "sentence": "If youā€™re like me, you get to be a part of the masc4masc club until you open your mouth and they hear your voice šŸ˜‚", "communities": [ "gay male" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "gaybros", "date": "2022-05-12 02:21:25", "timestamp": 1652314885.0 } }, { "id": "120700", "term": "hunty", "definition": "A portmanteau of \"honey\" and \"cunt\", usually considered a term of supposed endearment.", "sentence": "Hunny becomes hunty, porno becomes pornto, morning becomes mornting.", "communities": [ "gay male" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "AskLGBT", "date": "2025-04-25 18:01:47", "timestamp": 1745596907.0 } }, { "id": "143216", "term": "GLBT", "definition": "Initialism for gay, lesbian, bisexual, and transgender.", "sentence": ">>* **Job:** Graduate Student studying Mathematics and a student employee at the Campus GLBT Center", "communities": [], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "MeetLGBT", "date": "2011-03-03 15:50:00", "timestamp": 1299163800.0 } }, { "id": "211256", "term": "faggotry", "definition": "A pejorative term used chiefly in North America primarily to refer to a gay man. Alongside its use to refer to gay men in particular, it may also be used as a pejorative term for a \"repellent man\" or to refer to women who are lesbian (or to transgender people, typically transgender women). Its use has spread from the United States to varying extents elsewhere in the English-speaking world through mass culture, including film, music, and the Internet.", "sentence": "My faggotry made me a beacon for those who didnā€™t have gay role models in their communities.", "communities": [], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "gaybros", "date": "2018-06-11 07:32:48", "timestamp": 1528695168.0 } }, { "id": "224087", "term": "lesbian", "definition": "A girl or woman who is wholly or mostly sexually or romantically attracted to other girls or women.", "sentence": "Are you a lesbian?", "communities": [], "metadata": { "source": "OpenSubtitles", "title": "The Opposite of Sex", "imdb_id": "120777" } }, { "id": "264", "term": "realness", "definition": "The state of being real; the ability to blend or pass as heterosexual or cisgender; the quality of passing as a particular role in a particular circumstance.", "sentence": "There's a sort of joyous Realness to it.", "communities": [ "drag", "gay male" ], "metadata": { "source": "Podcasts", "title": "How To Fail With Elizabeth Day" } }, { "id": "992", "term": "slay", "definition": "Used to express approval or amazement.", "sentence": "Hani says Slay only.", "communities": [ "drag" ], "metadata": { "source": "Podcasts", "title": "Leave A Message with Ally & G" } }, { "id": "120692", "term": "hunty", "definition": "A portmanteau of \"honey\" and \"cunt\", usually considered a term of supposed endearment.", "sentence": "In honour of your username and dedication i would like to say: werk fierce diva hunty the house down boots hunty", "communities": [ "gay male" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "gaybrosgonemild", "date": "2025-03-27 09:53:55", "timestamp": 1743065635.0 } }, { "id": "151287", "term": "boywife", "definition": "A young male assuming the employment of homemaking, a role traditionally assumed by women; the submissive partner in the relationship who receives great pleasure in \"taking care\" of his more dominant partner.", "sentence": "Finally, a boywife !", "communities": [ "gay" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "GayBroTeens", "date": "2025-02-09 00:46:37", "timestamp": 1739058397.0 } }, { "id": "165184", "term": "estrogel", "definition": "Estradiol gel used in feminizing hormone replacement therapy.", "sentence": "I'm taking a monodose of estrogel Sandrena.", "communities": [ "transgender" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "trans", "date": "2024-11-08 23:06:48", "timestamp": 1731103608.0 } }, { "id": "127541", "term": "butch queen", "definition": "A gay man with a traditionally masculine gender expression.", "sentence": "Now you made me think about Mo's iconic butch queen...", "communities": [ "gay male" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "rupaulsdragrace", "date": "2022-05-05 19:53:02", "timestamp": 1651773182.0 } }, { "id": "101445", "term": "bipoly", "definition": "Of or relating to a person who is bisexual and polyamorous.", "sentence": "Actually, according to everyone I've ever talked to who's involved in polyamory, bipoly guys are pretty rare.", "communities": [ "bisexual" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "askgaybros", "date": "2017-08-05 03:36:41", "timestamp": 1501897001.0 } }, { "id": "214767", "term": "switches", "definition": "ā€¢ LGBTQ+ community slang for someone who \"switches\" between the \"giving\" and \"receiving\" during sex. \"Vers\" is short for \"versatile.\" \"Switch\" is sometimes also used in a BDSM context, to indicate someone who \"switches\" between the dominant and submissive roles.\r\nā€¢ One who is willing to take either a submissive or a dominant role in a sexual relationship.", "sentence": "I keep accidentally making stone tops realize they're switches/bottoms and idk how to feel about it?", "communities": [ "LGBTQ" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "actuallesbians", "date": "2025-04-14 08:47:10", "timestamp": 1744613230.0 } }, { "id": "157822", "term": "anticistamines", "definition": "Medication used for transgender hormone replacement therapy.", "sentence": "That's pretty cool that you match your anticistamines", "communities": [ "transgender" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "trans", "date": "2021-03-10 21:05:47", "timestamp": 1615406747.0 } }, { "id": "169643", "term": "orchi", "definition": "Clipping of orchiectomy.", "sentence": "Just found out I have a tumour in my testicle last week.. on the bright side I just skipped over the whole waitlist for orchiiiiiišŸ¤·ā€ā™€ļøšŸ¦‹", "communities": [ "transgender" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "traaaaaaannnnnnnnnns", "date": "2022-11-02 09:59:21", "timestamp": 1667379561.0 } }, { "id": "169401", "term": "manmoder", "definition": "One who is in manmode (presenting as male regardless of gender identity).", "sentence": "if you've ever seen the manmoder meme on 4chan, that one drawing in specific.", "communities": [ "transgender" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "TransSupport", "date": "2022-02-21 05:23:42", "timestamp": 1645417422.0 } }, { "id": "211773", "term": "flamer", "definition": "\"Flaming\" can be used generally as an intensifier or curse, but has become especially associated with feminine gay men and campness. Often still used fondly, especially by older generations of gay men, but offensive if applied by others.", "sentence": "Hey fellow flamers anyone out there bought KVRT stuff underwear?", "communities": [], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "askgaybros", "date": "2025-03-04 07:40:50", "timestamp": 1741070450.0 } }, { "id": "35", "term": "punker", "definition": "A slang term with multiple meanings depending on context. Originally used to refer to a sex worker or prostitute, especially a passive or feminine gay man (or a bottom). By the early 20th century, used to refer to a person considered worthless or criminal in nature. By the 1970s, used to refer to punk rock, a punk rocker, or to the sociocultural movement associated with punk rock and its fans. In the modern gay male community, the term \"punk\" may refer to a smaller, typically younger gay man who is forced into a submissive role in prison settings by an older gay man. Also occasionally used as a synonym for \"clock\" or \"read\", i.e. when a cisgender person recognizes a person as transgender.", "sentence": "Writing Gacy was like becoming a punker when we were kids, shouting, fuck you just to break the monotony.", "communities": [], "metadata": { "source": "Podcasts", "title": "KILLED" } }, { "id": "100232", "term": "straggot", "definition": "A portmanteau of \"straight\" (heterosexual) and the slur \"faggot\". Usually used in a joking and/or reclamatory sense to describe heterosexual people who are homophobic.", "sentence": "I heard some people call them Straggots or Stags", "communities": [ "LGBTQ" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "LGBTindia", "date": "2025-01-23 16:56:36", "timestamp": 1737647796.0 } }, { "id": "108481", "term": "second puberty", "definition": "A term often used by transgender persons transitioning after they have already undergone puberty.", "sentence": "Iā€™m about 4 months in and yes, it really is second puberty lmao", "communities": [ "transgender" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "MtF", "date": "2024-09-09 21:12:57", "timestamp": 1725909177.0 } }, { "id": "106489", "term": "deadnaming", "definition": "Calling a transgender person by their \"deadname\" (oftentimes their birth name, but not always).", "sentence": "Just because the one trans person she knows is okay with her deadnaming them, doesnā€™t give her the right to do it to *anyone* else.", "communities": [ "transgender" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "asktransgender", "date": "2025-04-30 22:43:19", "timestamp": 1746045799.0 } }, { "id": "76128", "term": "drag family", "definition": "In the US, a group of drag queens who have been mentored by a \"mother,\" also known as a \"house.\" These groups often take on family drag names and form close-knit communities.", "sentence": "You think Lana and Luxx wear the exact same thing because they are drag family?", "communities": [], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "rupaulsdragrace", "date": "2025-03-29 02:44:59", "timestamp": 1743212699.0 } }, { "id": "95162", "term": "werk", "definition": "Either an exclamation of approval or to do something excellently (often used in reference to dance or modeling).", "sentence": "I have done covers with Pride, Love, Queer, Queen, King, Slay, Extra, Gay, Drag, Fierce and Werk.", "communities": [ "drag", "gay male" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "queer", "date": "2024-06-14 08:32:19", "timestamp": 1718346739.0 } }, { "id": "388", "term": "cunty", "definition": "Amazing or very good or cool, especially with regard to femininity.", "sentence": "Sick Victorian rich child is cunty.", "communities": [], "metadata": { "source": "Podcasts", "title": "Why Won't You Date Me? with Nicole Byer" } }, { "id": "117077", "term": "polar bear", "definition": "An older bear whose facial and body hair are predominantly or entirely white or grey (\"bear\" meaning \"a gay or bisexual man who has facial/body hair and a cuddly body\").", "sentence": "Silver daddies and polar bears?", "communities": [ "bear" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "askgaybros", "date": "2022-06-24 20:17:00", "timestamp": 1656094620.0 } }, { "id": "67", "term": "kikis", "definition": "ā€¢ A gathering of friends for the purpose of gossiping and chit-chat.\r\nā€¢ 1940s slang describing a lesbian comfortable with either a more passive or more aggressive partner in a relationship.", "sentence": "Nothing is off the table for our messy kikis.", "communities": [ "drag", "lesbian", "African-American transgender", "African-American gay male" ], "metadata": { "source": "Podcasts", "title": "First Date Follow Up - The Jubal Show" } }, { "id": "86041", "term": "stud", "definition": "ā€¢ Community term for an African-American and/or Latinx masculine queer woman. Also known as \"ag.\" Only use if someone self-describes in this way, and avoid using for white people, as this is a term specifically developed by and for African-American and Latinx communities.\r\nā€¢ A masculine or butch lesbian; predominantly utilized in Black and Latina lesbian communities. Should not be used by individuals outside of those communities, as it may be seen as pejorative. Sometimes expanded to refer to other gender identities and expressions.", "sentence": "I basically look like a stud lesbian (I guess that's kinda what I am anyway).", "communities": [ "lesbian", "Latine lesbian", "African-American lesbian" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "LGBTeens", "date": "2022-10-27 22:47:50", "timestamp": 1666903670.0 } }, { "id": "119434", "term": "masc4masc", "definition": "A phrase used to describe a masculine gay man interested in other masculine gay men romantically and/or sexually.", "sentence": "Just pretend to be a stoic masc4masc stereotype until you make it", "communities": [ "gay male" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "gaybros", "date": "2024-09-07 13:26:44", "timestamp": 1725708404.0 } }, { "id": "118197", "term": "yestergay", "definition": "A man who formerly identified as gay who is currently in a heterosexual relationship.", "sentence": "LUG, BUG, Saysbian, Fauxbian, Beersexual, Yestergay - The implication that a bisexual dating the opposite gender is not formerly gay/lesbian and no longer bi/lesbian/gay.", "communities": [ "gay male" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "bisexual", "date": "2020-11-29 02:16:50", "timestamp": 1606612610.0 } }, { "id": "108764", "term": "boymode", "definition": "When a transgender person presents a gender expression codified as male, typically if that person is a transgender woman. Usually used in the context of going incognito as a cisgender man.", "sentence": "However, I think I'm discovering that boymode me is a lot more fashionable than girlmode me.", "communities": [ "transgender", "transgender" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "DualGender", "date": "2013-03-10 07:21:37", "timestamp": 1362896497.0 } }, { "id": "97007", "term": "power top", "definition": "A power top is one noted for their skill or aggressiveness in topping (acting as the \"giving\" partner in sexual encounters).", "sentence": "Erron is MY power top daddy so...", "communities": [ "LGBTQ" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "gaymers", "date": "2025-05-20 08:00:08", "timestamp": 1747720808.0 } }, { "id": "205380", "term": "lesboy", "definition": "A person who identifies as male and as a lesbian.", "sentence": "My transmasc friend and I both consider ourselves lesboys", "communities": [], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "AskLGBT", "date": "2024-11-18 13:27:36", "timestamp": 1731932856.0 } }, { "id": "169465", "term": "orchi", "definition": "Clipping of orchiectomy.", "sentence": "I had my orchie last year .", "communities": [ "transgender" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "asktransgender", "date": "2025-06-12 22:15:19", "timestamp": 1749759319.0 } }, { "id": "94395", "term": "banjee", "definition": "A young Latino or African American gay man who dresses in stereotypical masculine urban fashion.", "sentence": "finally, SOMEONE understands banjee", "communities": [ "drag", "Latine LGBTQ", "African-American LGBTQ" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "rupaulsdragrace", "date": "2014-05-15 17:03:21", "timestamp": 1400166201.0 } }, { "id": "77478", "term": "faggot", "definition": "A pejorative term used chiefly in North America primarily to refer to a gay man. Alongside its use to refer to gay men in particular, it may also be used as a pejorative term for a \"repellent man\" or to refer to women who are lesbian (or to transgender people, typically transgender women). Its use has spread from the United States to varying extents elsewhere in the English-speaking world through mass culture, including film, music, and the Internet.", "sentence": "So in my opinion to fight the word faggot is to change its meaning.", "communities": [ "gay male" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "gaymers", "date": "2013-04-25 00:17:10", "timestamp": 1366841830.0 } }, { "id": "76548", "term": "dyke", "definition": "Contested terminology. Slur for lesbian, highly offensive if applied to a lesbian or transmasc person externally. Term has been reclaimed by some lesbians communities, and is sometimes used affirmingly within communities.\"Bulldyke\" and \"bulldagger\" are often used to indicate butch or masculine queer women, sometimes with overtones of toughness or aggression.", "sentence": "Just a hard working dyke who wants to chill somewhere with a cheap beer and talk to women that are grown, ambitious and past the performative stages of queerness.", "communities": [], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "lgbtnyc", "date": "2025-06-22 01:36:05", "timestamp": 1750548965.0 } }, { "id": "165461", "term": "gender", "definition": "Evoking positive feelings regarding gender, like gender euphoria or gender envy.", "sentence": "Unlocking new levels of awakenings & gender envy since more than a decade āœØ", "communities": [ "transgender" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "ladyladyboners", "date": "2024-11-21 08:01:01", "timestamp": 1732172461.0 } }, { "id": "108151", "term": "t4t", "definition": "Short form of \"trans for trans\", indicating transgender persons interested in other transgender persons romantically and/or sexually.", "sentence": "\\- t4t is great and I never wanna go back", "communities": [ "transgender" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "asktransgender", "date": "2021-12-20 00:33:08", "timestamp": 1639956788.0 } }, { "id": "106664", "term": "repressor", "definition": "A transgender person who fights or represses the wish to change their gender expression.", "sentence": "I'm a former repressor, finally getting around to it right before I turn 27.", "communities": [ "transgender" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "asktransgender", "date": "2022-03-14 08:15:32", "timestamp": 1647242132.0 } }, { "id": "157836", "term": "bonus hole", "definition": "The vulva or vagina of a trans man.", "sentence": "I personally like terms like front hole, bonus hole, malebox, manhole and mancave.", "communities": [ "transgender" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "ftm", "date": "2023-07-09 22:43:17", "timestamp": 1688935397.0 } }, { "id": "169880", "term": "pre-T", "definition": "Not yet having undergone testosterone-based hormone replacement therapy.", "sentence": "Any other dudes who have been/are pre-t, or just pre-voice dropping, that might have some advice for me?", "communities": [ "transgender" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "transgamers", "date": "2017-08-09 02:59:34", "timestamp": 1502240374.0 } }, { "id": "165276", "term": "euphoria boner", "definition": "An erection of the penis in a trans woman, caused by strong feelings of gender euphoria.", "sentence": "just got a euphoria boner from this", "communities": [ "transgender" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "transgendercirclejerk", "date": "2022-05-27 03:39:32", "timestamp": 1653615572.0 } }, { "id": "129003", "term": "gyal", "definition": "A girl.", "sentence": "They sung ā€˜Ramping Shopā€™, she sung the, ā€˜Man to man or gyal to gyal dat just wrong, scorn dem!ā€™ line.", "communities": [], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "lgbt", "date": "2025-03-02 13:57:46", "timestamp": 1740920266.0 } }, { "id": "84564", "term": "lipstick lesbian", "definition": "Usually refers to a lesbian with a feminine gender expression. Can be used in a positive or a derogatory way, depending on who is using it. Is sometimes also used to refer to a lesbian who is seen as automatically \"passing\" for heterosexual.", "sentence": "because lipstick lesbian flag is antitrans, which is not okay and is very transphobic", "communities": [ "lesbian" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "lgbt", "date": "2023-11-01 11:19:00", "timestamp": 1698833940.0 } }, { "id": "108991", "term": "girldick", "definition": "A transgender woman's penis.", "sentence": "Liberate the girldicks !", "communities": [ "transgender", "transfeminine" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "traaaaaaannnnnnnnnns", "date": "2022-09-07 21:17:51", "timestamp": 1662578271.0 } }, { "id": "107900", "term": "tucute", "definition": "A person who acknowledges that gender dysphoria is not necessary to be transgender.", "sentence": "I stumbled across this whole space of trans micropolitics, specifically the truscum vs tucute debate.", "communities": [ "transgender" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "trans", "date": "2022-04-10 16:09:15", "timestamp": 1649599755.0 } }, { "id": "165153", "term": "estrogel", "definition": "Estradiol gel used in feminizing hormone replacement therapy.", "sentence": "But recently I looked at instruction pictures on how to put estrogel and most of them showed putting them under the arm from the wrist.", "communities": [ "transgender" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "asktransgender", "date": "2025-04-20 23:35:44", "timestamp": 1745184944.0 } }, { "id": "169973", "term": "princess wand", "definition": "A trans woman's penis.", "sentence": "Initially when we got together, I was still a baby trans, barely 6 months on E so my princess wand worked well.", "communities": [ "transgender" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "trans", "date": "2025-06-22 00:19:19", "timestamp": 1750544359.0 } }, { "id": "117942", "term": "batty boy", "definition": "ā€¢ A pejorative term in Jamaican Patois often used to refer to a gay or feminine man.\r\nā€¢ A gay man.", "sentence": "Yesterday I got back to my flat and some of the younger kids (10-12 years old I think) - called out to me and used terms like batty boy.", "communities": [ "gay male" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "transgenderUK", "date": "2016-07-21 15:36:30", "timestamp": 1469108190.0 } }, { "id": "106684", "term": "trans virginity", "definition": "A concept used with various meanings in the trans community. It may refer to the fact that someone has not engaged in sexual intercourse since realizing they were transgender, since transitioning medically or socially. or since undergoing any of various genital reconstruction surgeries related to their transition.", "sentence": "Lost my str8 virginity at 17, my gay virginity at 43, and my trans virginity at 69.", "communities": [ "transgender" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "MtF", "date": "2022-01-27 21:10:35", "timestamp": 1643314235.0 } }, { "id": "155062", "term": "poppers", "definition": "Drugs of the alkyl nitrate class used recreationally as a sexual stimulant, especially among gay men.", "sentence": "Please think carefully before using poppers in the future - it really is not worth it.", "communities": [ "gay" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "gaybros", "date": "2023-07-01 08:45:38", "timestamp": 1688193938.0 } }, { "id": "94291", "term": "drab", "definition": "An instance of a transgender or non-binary person presenting as the gender corresponding to their sex assigned at birth instead of that corresponding to their internal gender identity (most commonly a trans woman dressed as a man).", "sentence": "The finalized portraits, saved on my phone, carried me from those rare moments when I dressed as I wanted through the drab boy mode days and weeks.", "communities": [ "transgender", "drag", "transgender" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "MtF", "date": "2022-04-26 14:42:33", "timestamp": 1650976953.0 } }, { "id": "157473", "term": "vers", "definition": "ā€¢ LGBTQ+ community slang for someone who \"switches\" between the \"giving\" and \"receiving\" during sex. \"Vers\" is short for \"versatile.\" \"Switch\" is sometimes also used in a BDSM context, to indicate someone who \"switches\" between the dominant and submissive roles.\r\nā€¢ One who is willing to take either a submissive or a dominant role in a sexual relationship.", "sentence": "The problem is that we're kind of sexually incompatible, meaning that I'm a vers (I equally enjoy topping and bottoming) and I have a much higher sex drive than him.", "communities": [ "gay" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "gaybros", "date": "2023-08-25 09:17:16", "timestamp": 1692947836.0 } }, { "id": "931", "term": "gender identity", "definition": "A personal identity one develops in childhood that one belongs to a gender category, multiple gender categories, or no gender categories.", "sentence": "The Matrix was written by two trans sisters and the Red Pill, the true reality, is your true gender identity.", "communities": [], "metadata": { "source": "Podcasts", "title": "Sounds Like A Cult" } }, { "id": "106731", "term": "cis-tem", "definition": "Mainstream culture, controlled by the elites or government of a state, or a combination of them, which is oppressive to transgender persons.", "sentence": "Most of the stuff like \"down with the cis-tem\" is tongue-in-cheek.", "communities": [ "transgender" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "asktransgender", "date": "2016-02-23 16:32:00", "timestamp": 1456241520.0 } }, { "id": "214826", "term": "tops", "definition": "ā€¢ A \"top\" is an individual who acts as the \"giving\" partner in sexual encounters. Sometimes used as a self-descriptor within queer communities, but should be replicated with caution. Sometimes used as a verb (\"to top someone\"). Offensive if applied to LGBTQ+ individuals from outwith queer communities.\r\nā€¢ Someone, typically a man, who is penetrating someone else during sexual intercourse or someone who has a preference for penetrating during such intercourse.", "sentence": "As a femme bottom, where can I get these stone tops?", "communities": [ "LGBTQ" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "actuallesbians", "date": "2025-02-18 17:06:47", "timestamp": 1739894807.0 } }, { "id": "143369", "term": "autofellatio", "definition": "Oral stimulation of one's own penis.", "sentence": "Can you get disease in the mouth from having autofellatio?", "communities": [], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "bisexual", "date": "2023-03-27 22:21:12", "timestamp": 1679948472.0 } }, { "id": "203487", "term": "doll", "definition": "A transgender woman or transfeminine person.", "sentence": "I'm not a history buff, but wasn't the term dolls used to refer to trans women first coined by trans people of color?", "communities": [], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "MtF", "date": "2025-06-16 21:23:07", "timestamp": 1750101787.0 } }, { "id": "101703", "term": "enbyfriend", "definition": "A nonbinary sexual and/or romantic partner.", "sentence": "Enby is the nonbinary equivalent to girl/boy so probably enbyfriend", "communities": [ "nonbinary" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "AskLGBT", "date": "2021-04-25 09:11:09", "timestamp": 1619334669.0 } }, { "id": "108993", "term": "girldick", "definition": "A transgender woman's penis.", "sentence": "normal, thereā€™s nothing masculine about my girldick and i love it", "communities": [ "transgender", "transfeminine" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "traaaaaaannnnnnnnnns", "date": "2021-07-23 16:39:20", "timestamp": 1627051160.0 } }, { "id": "111036", "term": "squish", "definition": "An aromantic crush; the desire for a non-romantic and/or platonic relationship with another person.", "sentence": "TL;DR I'm unsure wether I have a crush or a squish on a guy while in a nearly 2- year relationship with my long-distance gf and idk what to do", "communities": [ "aromantic" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "LGBTeens", "date": "2024-10-08 20:47:12", "timestamp": 1728413232.0 } }, { "id": "106710", "term": "ewphoria", "definition": "A combination of gender euphoria with feelings of disgust, revulsion, or discomfort, resulting from one's gender identity being affirmed by bigoted, predatory, or creepy behavior by others.", "sentence": "Ah yesā€¦.gender ewphoriaā€¦such a lovely part of the process haha.", "communities": [ "transgender", "transgender" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "transpositive", "date": "2025-01-10 18:24:47", "timestamp": 1736529887.0 } }, { "id": "110412", "term": "Eve's apple", "definition": "A transfeminine slang term coined to replace the masculine sounding \"Adam's apple\".", "sentence": "I really enjoy the following method because I'm really self conscious of my Eve's Apple, and this when done correctly hides it entirely.", "communities": [ "transfeminine" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "transvoice", "date": "2018-02-12 01:49:49", "timestamp": 1518396589.0 } }, { "id": "106723", "term": "ewphoria", "definition": "A combination of gender euphoria with feelings of disgust, revulsion, or discomfort, resulting from one's gender identity being affirmed by bigoted, predatory, or creepy behavior by others.", "sentence": "Kinda like ewphoria, not nice but validating", "communities": [ "transgender", "transgender" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "transgenderau", "date": "2024-06-08 22:40:00", "timestamp": 1717879200.0 } }, { "id": "117656", "term": "baby gay", "definition": "A person who has recently come out in relationship to a marginalized sexual or gender identity.", "sentence": "I always make sure to give the baby gays (and all the other gays) the \"nod\".", "communities": [ "gay male" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "actuallesbians", "date": "2020-04-24 06:26:01", "timestamp": 1587702361.0 } }, { "id": "115080", "term": "chapstick lesbian", "definition": "A lesbian who exhibits some butch traits (short hair, stereotypical men's clothing, etc.) without wholly fitting the masculine butch stereotype; alternatively, a lesbian who is athletic or has a keen interest in sports.", "sentence": "identifying as a chapstick lesbian feels just about right.", "communities": [ "lesbian" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "actuallesbians", "date": "2025-02-13 00:37:41", "timestamp": 1739403461.0 } }, { "id": "106701", "term": "transdar", "definition": "A colloquialism referring to the intuitive ability of a person to assess others' as being transgender. Transdar relies on verbal and non-verbal clues and transgender stereotypes. These include the sensitivity to social behaviors and mannerisms; for instance, acknowledging variations of gendered body language, the tone of voice used by a person when speaking, overtly rejecting traditional gender roles, a person's occupation, interests, etc.", "sentence": "They are also looking for different things then the transdar.", "communities": [ "transgender" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "NonBinary", "date": "2022-12-11 08:18:06", "timestamp": 1670743086.0 } }, { "id": "123695", "term": "hunk", "definition": "A muscular, handsome gay man.", "sentence": "Are hairy hunks muscle bears?", "communities": [ "gay male" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "askgaybros", "date": "2024-08-22 08:18:56", "timestamp": 1724307536.0 } }, { "id": "119528", "term": "no homo", "definition": "A phrase used as slang at the end of a sentence to assert the statement spoken by the speaker had no intentional homosexual implications. The phrase is also \"added to a statement in order to rid of a possible homosexual double-entendre\".", "sentence": "It's funny because the first time me and my (now ex) boyfriend had sex we both said no homo and cuddled afterwards.", "communities": [ "gay male" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "gaymers", "date": "2012-01-19 16:35:23", "timestamp": 1326987323.0 } }, { "id": "91780", "term": "faux queen", "definition": "A cis female performance artist who performs in female drag at drag shows, or acts like a drag queen.", "sentence": "And Drag U was all about faux queens.", "communities": [ "drag", "gay male" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "rupaulsdragrace", "date": "2015-10-19 08:49:41", "timestamp": 1445237381.0 } }, { "id": "169477", "term": "orchi", "definition": "Clipping of orchiectomy.", "sentence": "My main reason for getting an orchi besides the obvious physical dysphoria was getting off spiro.", "communities": [ "transgender" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "transgender", "date": "2019-09-24 01:19:00", "timestamp": 1569280740.0 } }, { "id": "101934", "term": "enby", "definition": "A nonbinary person, typically a young adult or an adolescent.", "sentence": "Whether or not you are enby it sounds like he is not supportive of enby folk and thats a huge red flag.", "communities": [ "nonbinary" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "queer", "date": "2025-02-16 04:09:40", "timestamp": 1739675380.0 } }, { "id": "141515", "term": "LGBT", "definition": "Initialism for lesbian, gay, bisexual, and transgender.", "sentence": "Because they don't understand gender politics or lgbt history or power dynamics.", "communities": [], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "asktransgender", "date": "2021-10-23 15:14:31", "timestamp": 1634994871.0 } }, { "id": "217", "term": "poppers", "definition": "Drugs of the alkyl nitrate class used recreationally as a sexual stimulant, especially among gay men.", "sentence": "They're doing butt stuff and poppers.", "communities": [ "gay" ], "metadata": { "source": "Podcasts", "title": "I've Had It" } }, { "id": "87012", "term": "switch", "definition": "ā€¢ LGBTQ+ community slang for someone who \"switches\" between the \"giving\" and \"receiving\" during sex. \"Vers\" is short for \"versatile.\" \"Switch\" is sometimes also used in a BDSM context, to indicate someone who \"switches\" between the dominant and submissive roles.\r\nā€¢ One who is willing to take either a submissive or a dominant role in a sexual relationship.", "sentence": "wooo being a pan vers switch with a minor interest in exhibitionism.", "communities": [ "LGBTQ" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "pansexual", "date": "2020-04-14 01:15:01", "timestamp": 1586819701.0 } }, { "id": "85710", "term": "rough trade", "definition": "Slang for a man who identifies as straight, but sometimes has sex with queer men (usually as a \"top\").", "sentence": "All these politicians who preach all day about \"family values\" and then get caught in a toilet stall with some very rough trade.", "communities": [ "gay" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "askgaybros", "date": "2023-08-23 02:43:24", "timestamp": 1692751404.0 } }, { "id": "157479", "term": "vers", "definition": "ā€¢ LGBTQ+ community slang for someone who \"switches\" between the \"giving\" and \"receiving\" during sex. \"Vers\" is short for \"versatile.\" \"Switch\" is sometimes also used in a BDSM context, to indicate someone who \"switches\" between the dominant and submissive roles.\r\nā€¢ One who is willing to take either a submissive or a dominant role in a sexual relationship.", "sentence": "I'm vers and my partner is a side šŸ¤·ā€ā™‚ļø", "communities": [ "gay" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "gaybros", "date": "2023-11-29 08:44:08", "timestamp": 1701243848.0 } }, { "id": "91660", "term": "kiki", "definition": "ā€¢ A gathering of friends for the purpose of gossiping and chit-chat.\r\nā€¢ 1940s slang describing a lesbian comfortable with either a more passive or more aggressive partner in a relationship.", "sentence": "**Now feel free to kiki about what girls you want, drop juicy gossip, but remember to mark reliable spoilers and [as always keep it cute!", "communities": [ "drag", "lesbian", "African-American transgender", "African-American gay male" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "rupaulsdragrace", "date": "2017-07-03 02:43:37", "timestamp": 1499042617.0 } }, { "id": "10191", "term": "cheese", "definition": "The smegma that accumulates around the penis, often the uncircumcised penis, or the unwashed labia.", "sentence": "Have you ever seen dick cheese?", "communities": [], "metadata": { "source": "Podcasts", "title": "Coffee Convos with Kail Lowry and Lindsie Chrisley" } }, { "id": "215157", "term": "twinks", "definition": "ā€¢ Slang term widely used in gay communities to describe a young or young-looking man with little or no facial or body hair. Can be pejorative, but can also be a self-descriptor.\r\nā€¢ A young, attractive, slim male, usually having little body hair.", "sentence": "They can't have both Leon and Chris be twinks šŸ’…", "communities": [ "gay male" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "gaybros", "date": "2024-06-12 15:14:28", "timestamp": 1718198068.0 } }, { "id": "108962", "term": "girldick", "definition": "A transgender woman's penis.", "sentence": "I'm a proud trans girl living happily with a girldick.", "communities": [ "transgender", "transfeminine" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "asktransgender", "date": "2024-09-18 06:16:38", "timestamp": 1726632998.0 } }, { "id": "95550", "term": "service top", "definition": "A service top is one who tops (acts as the \"giving\" partner in sexual encounters) under the direction of an eager bottom (who acts as the \"receiving\" partner in sexual encounters).", "sentence": "Find your service tops and the guys who respect you for the powerbottom you are!", "communities": [ "LGBTQ" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "gay", "date": "2022-02-02 16:18:12", "timestamp": 1643815092.0 } }, { "id": "157489", "term": "vers", "definition": "ā€¢ LGBTQ+ community slang for someone who \"switches\" between the \"giving\" and \"receiving\" during sex. \"Vers\" is short for \"versatile.\" \"Switch\" is sometimes also used in a BDSM context, to indicate someone who \"switches\" between the dominant and submissive roles.\r\nā€¢ One who is willing to take either a submissive or a dominant role in a sexual relationship.", "sentence": "My boyfriend and I are both complete verse.", "communities": [ "gay" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "gaybros", "date": "2024-02-02 02:13:41", "timestamp": 1706836421.0 } }, { "id": "91804", "term": "faux queen", "definition": "A cis female performance artist who performs in female drag at drag shows, or acts like a drag queen.", "sentence": "For 6 weeks, every week ~8 people (drag queens, drag kings, faux queens, absolutely anybody!", "communities": [ "drag", "gay male" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "fauxqueens", "date": "2015-12-17 00:29:21", "timestamp": 1450308561.0 } }, { "id": "115526", "term": "pillow princess", "definition": "A woman who likes to receive and not give, sexually.", "sentence": "There were several incidents like this because people refuse to date or even have sex, because I am too fat to carry, and they don't want a pillow princess.", "communities": [ "lesbian" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "LGBTindia", "date": "2025-02-04 13:43:00", "timestamp": 1738672980.0 } }, { "id": "106703", "term": "ewphoria", "definition": "A combination of gender euphoria with feelings of disgust, revulsion, or discomfort, resulting from one's gender identity being affirmed by bigoted, predatory, or creepy behavior by others.", "sentence": "So as a trans guy, it always gives me a bit of an ewphoria moment.", "communities": [ "transgender", "transgender" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "lgbt", "date": "2024-05-10 05:16:24", "timestamp": 1715310984.0 } }, { "id": "91814", "term": "realness", "definition": "The state of being real; the ability to blend or pass as heterosexual or cisgender; the quality of passing as a particular role in a particular circumstance.", "sentence": "She was giving that Mary JBlige realness!", "communities": [ "drag", "gay male" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "rupaulsdragrace", "date": "2025-04-19 22:39:19", "timestamp": 1745095159.0 } }, { "id": "115085", "term": "chapstick lesbian", "definition": "A lesbian who exhibits some butch traits (short hair, stereotypical men's clothing, etc.) without wholly fitting the masculine butch stereotype; alternatively, a lesbian who is athletic or has a keen interest in sports.", "sentence": "I think Ellen DeGeneres used to be the iconic Chapstick Lesbian.", "communities": [ "lesbian" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "actuallesbians", "date": "2024-10-08 06:21:30", "timestamp": 1728361290.0 } }, { "id": "127658", "term": "banjee girl", "definition": "A term related to (and sometimes synonymous with) banjee. Used to refer to transgender women, male-to-female cross-dressers, and drag queens as well as queer women in a general sense. Specific to Latinx and Black LGBTQIA+ communities.", "sentence": "A stolen magic scepter does not a Banjee Girl make.", "communities": [ "Latine LGBTQ", "African-American LGBTQ" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "rupaulsdragrace", "date": "2014-06-05 14:31:14", "timestamp": 1401971474.0 } }, { "id": "155051", "term": "poppers", "definition": "Drugs of the alkyl nitrate class used recreationally as a sexual stimulant, especially among gay men.", "sentence": "Do poppers or any form of nitrites show up in hair follicle drug tests?", "communities": [ "gay" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "lgbt", "date": "2024-06-14 03:51:51", "timestamp": 1718329911.0 } }, { "id": "91870", "term": "gag", "definition": "To have an intense reaction, usually of shock or excitement. Also: to show intense jealousy or to have an appearance deemed good enough to cause such jealousy.", "sentence": "I don't think I've seen Ru gag like that before", "communities": [ "drag" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "rupaulsdragrace", "date": "2025-06-11 04:02:59", "timestamp": 1749607379.0 } }, { "id": "169420", "term": "mones", "definition": "Hormones used as part of hormone replacement therapy, especially for transgender or gender variant individuals.", "sentence": "Before I corrected her she claimed I needed to be living as my identified gender for a year full time before I could get 'mones.", "communities": [], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "TransSupport", "date": "2013-08-16 13:16:40", "timestamp": 1376651800.0 } }, { "id": "120669", "term": "friend of Dorothy", "definition": "Coded slang for gay. Referring to gay icon Judy Garland's Dorothy in The Wizard of Oz.", "sentence": "During the days of WW2 and even after WW2, gay men used to Identify each other by asking ''Are you a friend of Dorothy?''", "communities": [], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "GayBroTeens", "date": "2024-02-10 18:39:11", "timestamp": 1707586751.0 } }, { "id": "220167", "term": "house of", "definition": "In the US, a group of drag queens who have been mentored by a \"mother,\" also known as a \"house.\" These groups often take on family drag names and form close-knit communities.", "sentence": "From the House of Xtravaganza, the Mother of the Year, keeping her children intact, can we have Angie Xtravaganza?", "communities": [], "metadata": { "source": "OpenSubtitles", "title": "Paris Is Burning", "imdb_id": "100332" } }, { "id": "158126", "term": "crack", "definition": "To realize that one is transgender.", "sentence": "I'm stuck in limbo and I wish my egg never cracked.", "communities": [ "transgender" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "asktransgender", "date": "2025-06-11 09:14:56", "timestamp": 1749626096.0 } }, { "id": "361", "term": "anti-gay", "definition": "ā€¢ Hostile toward gay people; opposed to gay rights; homophobic.\r\nā€¢ Used by some gay people to refer to aspects of the community in critique, especially homogeneity, conformity, obsession with particular types of appearance, and assimilative behavior.", "sentence": "And somebody spray painted it and I can tell you this much, you can tell how anti-gay this administration is based on two things.", "communities": [], "metadata": { "source": "Podcasts", "title": "I've Had It" } }, { "id": "116591", "term": "chub", "definition": "A gay man who is overweight or obese; typically (but not always) derogatory.", "sentence": "Personal experience Iā€™m a chub and my boyfriend is a jock.", "communities": [ "gay", "chub" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "gaysian", "date": "2020-08-19 22:35:34", "timestamp": 1597869334.0 } }, { "id": "110872", "term": "tranny chaser", "definition": "Someone who aims to have sexual relations (in some cases non-consensually) or date transgender people as a kind of fetish.", "sentence": "I think that has more due to the fact that tranny chasers have low standards rather than me looking that great in girl mode.", "communities": [ "transfeminine" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "crossdressing", "date": "2014-05-28 01:15:49", "timestamp": 1401232549.0 } }, { "id": "85245", "term": "punk", "definition": "A slang term with multiple meanings depending on context. Originally used to refer to a sex worker or prostitute, especially a passive or feminine gay man (or a bottom). By the early 20th century, used to refer to a person considered worthless or criminal in nature. By the 1970s, used to refer to punk rock, a punk rocker, or to the sociocultural movement associated with punk rock and its fans. In the modern gay male community, the term \"punk\" may refer to a smaller, typically younger gay man who is forced into a submissive role in prison settings by an older gay man. Also occasionally used as a synonym for \"clock\" or \"read\", i.e. when a cisgender person recognizes a person as transgender.", "sentence": "What about a punk butch lover?", "communities": [ "transgender", "gay male" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "dykesgonemild", "date": "2025-05-08 03:37:27", "timestamp": 1746668247.0 } }, { "id": "107757", "term": "bottom surgery", "definition": "A slang term used to refer to genital gender-affirming surgeries.", "sentence": "just putting out feelers and seeing if thereā€™s any aussie trans guys that have had bottom surgery (phallo) done and how they went about it/where they went.", "communities": [ "transgender" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "transgenderau", "date": "2025-01-05 13:03:50", "timestamp": 1736078630.0 } }, { "id": "108694", "term": "boymode", "definition": "When a transgender person presents a gender expression codified as male, typically if that person is a transgender woman. Usually used in the context of going incognito as a cisgender man.", "sentence": "I just started HRT so I still sound/present boymode for now.", "communities": [ "transgender", "transgender" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "transgamers", "date": "2025-04-10 15:40:24", "timestamp": 1744292424.0 } }, { "id": "108920", "term": "girl juice", "definition": "A slang term referring to injectable feminizing hormones.", "sentence": "can you mix estrodiol with vodka to make Girl Juice?", "communities": [ "transfeminine" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "traaaaaaannnnnnnnnns", "date": "2018-06-02 20:49:24", "timestamp": 1527965364.0 } }, { "id": "116664", "term": "chubby bear", "definition": "A bear who is particularly large (\"bear\" meaning \"a gay or bisexual man who has facial/body hair and a cuddly body\").", "sentence": "I have to add that I'm a chubby bear, and that alone comes with a set of challenges of its own, even in the bear community.", "communities": [ "chub", "bear" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "gaybros", "date": "2024-10-04 19:40:45", "timestamp": 1728063645.0 } }, { "id": "117120", "term": "girlfag", "definition": "A woman who is typically attracted to gay or bisexual men.", "sentence": "And while many people might think girlfags are doomed to lives of romantic frustration, Hardy insists that's not the case:", "communities": [ "bisexual male", "gay male" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "crossdreaming", "date": "2020-02-18 09:58:54", "timestamp": 1582016334.0 } }, { "id": "169410", "term": "mones", "definition": "Hormones used as part of hormone replacement therapy, especially for transgender or gender variant individuals.", "sentence": "Six months of 'mones and I decide why the hell not, lets come out to my family.", "communities": [], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "transpositive", "date": "2015-11-06 11:43:12", "timestamp": 1446806592.0 } }, { "id": "113965", "term": "futch", "definition": "A person who exhibits traits of both a femme (often used to describe a wide variety of gender expressions and identities adjacent to feminine or femme-ness) and a butch (often used to describe a wide variety of gender expressions and identities adjacent to masculinity or \"butchilinity\").", "sentence": "I consider myself butch, or a good friend described me as futch.", "communities": [ "lesbian" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "trans", "date": "2023-11-11 11:58:44", "timestamp": 1699700324.0 } }, { "id": "214783", "term": "switches", "definition": "ā€¢ LGBTQ+ community slang for someone who \"switches\" between the \"giving\" and \"receiving\" during sex. \"Vers\" is short for \"versatile.\" \"Switch\" is sometimes also used in a BDSM context, to indicate someone who \"switches\" between the dominant and submissive roles.\r\nā€¢ One who is willing to take either a submissive or a dominant role in a sexual relationship.", "sentence": "I feel like theyā€™re both switches, but Asami is just honestly a thirsty woman for Korra and Korraā€™s just chilling but sheā€™s too in love with Asami to care.", "communities": [ "LGBTQ" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "korrasami", "date": "2020-11-14 07:31:19", "timestamp": 1605335479.0 } }, { "id": "103512", "term": "top surgery", "definition": "A slang term used to refer to thoracic gender-affirming surgeries.", "sentence": "Then I found out that my insurance would cover top surgery for nonbinary people, with only a single letter from a therapist.", "communities": [ "transgender" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "genderqueer", "date": "2021-07-20 19:12:02", "timestamp": 1626801122.0 } }, { "id": "169405", "term": "mones", "definition": "Hormones used as part of hormone replacement therapy, especially for transgender or gender variant individuals.", "sentence": "I know I'll be good once it's over, but each milestone (aside from actually swallowing my first dose of 'mones) has been exhausting for me.", "communities": [], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "MtF", "date": "2021-01-26 22:27:03", "timestamp": 1611696423.0 } }, { "id": "228118", "term": "dirt", "definition": "ā€¢ Slang for an individual who blackmails or robs a gay person.\r\nā€¢ Gossip; rumor; scandal; criticism.\r\nā€¢ Heroin\r\nā€¢ A tobacco cigarette.", "sentence": "He's been digging up dirt on Alyssa.", "communities": [ "gay male" ], "metadata": { "source": "OpenSubtitles", "title": "Chasing Amy", "imdb_id": "118842" } }, { "id": "224092", "term": "lesbian", "definition": "A girl or woman who is wholly or mostly sexually or romantically attracted to other girls or women.", "sentence": "Is it true you're a lesbian?", "communities": [], "metadata": { "source": "OpenSubtitles", "title": "Show Me Love", "imdb_id": "150662" } }, { "id": "100244", "term": "oral top", "definition": "A gay man who likes to receive, more than give, oral sex.", "sentence": "Pretty much would say I'm an oral top with trans women.", "communities": [ "LGBTQ" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "questioning", "date": "2022-12-27 00:45:01", "timestamp": 1672098301.0 } }, { "id": "155452", "term": "queerdo", "definition": "A particularly strange LGBTQ+ person.", "sentence": "Suddenly, I'm judging every man and woman in history because they *might've* thought I was a queer weirdo... a queerdo.", "communities": [ "gay" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "lgbt", "date": "2016-03-12 00:09:13", "timestamp": 1457737753.0 } }, { "id": "106726", "term": "repfuel", "definition": "Something used by a transgender person to \"repress\" their interest in changing their gender expression; often connected to media which presents \"non-passing\" transgender people as unattractive alongside general transphobia.", "sentence": "This is pure, indiluted repfuel.", "communities": [ "transgender" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "transgendercirclejerk", "date": "2022-03-17 02:58:39", "timestamp": 1647482319.0 } }, { "id": "124", "term": "punks", "definition": "A slang term with multiple meanings depending on context. Originally used to refer to a sex worker or prostitute, especially a passive or feminine gay man (or a bottom). By the early 20th century, used to refer to a person considered worthless or criminal in nature. By the 1970s, used to refer to punk rock, a punk rocker, or to the sociocultural movement associated with punk rock and its fans. In the modern gay male community, the term \"punk\" may refer to a smaller, typically younger gay man who is forced into a submissive role in prison settings by an older gay man. Also occasionally used as a synonym for \"clock\" or \"read\", i.e. when a cisgender person recognizes a person as transgender.", "sentence": "So while Schmidt is being a big nerd, the people he's hanging out with are kind of like the punks and anarchist radicals of their day.", "communities": [ "transgender", "gay male" ], "metadata": { "source": "Podcasts", "title": "Behind the Bastards" } }, { "id": "211049", "term": "eggs", "definition": "Slang term (originating online) for a person who has not yet realised they are transgender, has not yet come out, or is in the early stages of transitioning. Usually used (fondly) by trans people to recognise when aspects of someone's personality or behavior remind them of gender-related aspects of themselves before they realized they were trans.", "sentence": "Maybe I'm out here shattering college student eggs too omg.", "communities": [ "transgender" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "ftm", "date": "2025-02-15 01:11:25", "timestamp": 1739578285.0 } }, { "id": "101519", "term": "enban", "definition": "An adult nonbinary person.", "sentence": "It basically impossible to pass as an enban in western culture anyway because people are so ingrained into male and female boxes.", "communities": [ "nonbinary" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "NonBinary", "date": "2024-07-18 19:06:29", "timestamp": 1721322389.0 } }, { "id": "228144", "term": "crush", "definition": "An infatuation with somebody, typically someone that one is not dating. By extension, the object of such infatuation or affection.", "sentence": "Ever since they were kids, she had like a crush on him or something.", "communities": [ "LGBTQ" ], "metadata": { "source": "OpenSubtitles", "title": "The Opposite of Sex", "imdb_id": "120777" } }, { "id": "146696", "term": "troon", "definition": "A transgender person; most commonly, a trans woman.", "sentence": "every time they say we can always tell, every time they say 41%, every time we get called groomers and pedos, every time we are called troons or lolcows", "communities": [], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "asktransgender", "date": "2022-11-19 23:32:43", "timestamp": 1668897163.0 } }, { "id": "76127", "term": "drag family", "definition": "In the US, a group of drag queens who have been mentored by a \"mother,\" also known as a \"house.\" These groups often take on family drag names and form close-knit communities.", "sentence": "To her, if youā€™re in the same drag family, you should come down the runway wearing the exact same colors, makeup, hair, outfit, accessories with just one thing changed?!", "communities": [], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "rupaulsdragrace", "date": "2025-03-29 02:44:59", "timestamp": 1743212699.0 } }, { "id": "76954", "term": "egg", "definition": "Slang term (originating online) for a person who has not yet realised they are transgender, has not yet come out, or is in the early stages of transitioning. Usually used (fondly) by trans people to recognise when aspects of someone's personality or behavior remind them of gender-related aspects of themselves before they realized they were trans.", "sentence": "Isnā€™t the whole point of the egg that you shouldnā€™t crack it for them?", "communities": [ "transgender", "transgender" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "trans", "date": "2023-12-16 23:12:14", "timestamp": 1702764734.0 } }, { "id": "213183", "term": "muscle mary", "definition": "A sports enthusiast; usually one who frequents gyms and training grounds; often used of young gay men obsessed with body building.", "sentence": "Barbie = A muscled gay, a muscle mary, Kameron Michaels.", "communities": [], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "rupaulsdragrace", "date": "2023-09-09 17:35:35", "timestamp": 1694273735.0 } }, { "id": "170027", "term": "prog", "definition": "Progesterone.", "sentence": "Part of the way prog interacts with your body involves raising testosterone levels.", "communities": [ "transgender" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "asktransgender", "date": "2025-05-10 17:25:48", "timestamp": 1746890748.0 } }, { "id": "165242", "term": "euphoria boner", "definition": "An erection of the penis in a trans woman, caused by strong feelings of gender euphoria.", "sentence": "I have a question: Why do some trans women experience euphoria boners from gender euphoria even though they don't want to?", "communities": [ "transgender" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "MtF", "date": "2022-02-01 06:09:55", "timestamp": 1643692195.0 } }, { "id": "143179", "term": "GLBT", "definition": "Initialism for gay, lesbian, bisexual, and transgender.", "sentence": "Personally I like LGBT better because I think it sounds and flows better, and I think that people use GLBT because they think it sounds more fancy.", "communities": [], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "LGBTeens", "date": "2014-06-18 04:44:16", "timestamp": 1403059456.0 } }, { "id": "107653", "term": "bottom surgery", "definition": "A slang term used to refer to genital gender-affirming surgeries.", "sentence": "* Bottom surgery (could be a full neovaginoplasty or zero depth)", "communities": [ "transgender" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "TransSupport", "date": "2022-06-22 20:45:46", "timestamp": 1655923546.0 } }, { "id": "91654", "term": "kiki", "definition": "ā€¢ A gathering of friends for the purpose of gossiping and chit-chat.\r\nā€¢ 1940s slang describing a lesbian comfortable with either a more passive or more aggressive partner in a relationship.", "sentence": "If I am gossiping with my brother about comics or video games, can I still classify this as kiki?", "communities": [ "drag", "lesbian", "African-American transgender", "African-American gay male" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "gaymers", "date": "2013-06-23 08:36:52", "timestamp": 1371969412.0 } }, { "id": "95553", "term": "service top", "definition": "A service top is one who tops (acts as the \"giving\" partner in sexual encounters) under the direction of an eager bottom (who acts as the \"receiving\" partner in sexual encounters).", "sentence": "Like what % of bottoms would you say want a service top in western nations?", "communities": [ "LGBTQ" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "askgaybros", "date": "2024-09-28 20:17:53", "timestamp": 1727547473.0 } }, { "id": "79770", "term": "friend of dorothy", "definition": "Coded slang for gay. Referring to gay icon Judy Garland's Dorothy in The Wizard of Oz.", "sentence": "He was around my age, had lovely green eyes, a hot bear body, and seemed to be a fellow friend of Dorothy.", "communities": [ "gay male" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "askgaybros", "date": "2024-10-13 21:43:06", "timestamp": 1728848586.0 } }, { "id": "113733", "term": "U-Haul lesbian", "definition": "A stereotype of lesbian relationships, referring to the joke that lesbians tend to move in together on the second date. It suggests an extreme inclination toward monogamy or committed relationships. It can be considered either complimentary or pejorative, depending on context.", "sentence": "I'm definitely a U-haul lesbian.", "communities": [], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "actuallesbians", "date": "2019-08-28 15:41:21", "timestamp": 1566999681.0 } }, { "id": "147562", "term": "devour", "definition": "Synonym of eat: to be very good at something; to slay.", "sentence": "oh she devoured this one it seems šŸ‘šŸ‘", "communities": [ "drag" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "lgbt", "date": "2024-04-06 16:08:04", "timestamp": 1712412484.0 } }, { "id": "111301", "term": "transcel", "definition": "A term used among the incel community to either refer to (1) a transgender person who is experiencing \"involuntary celibacy\" (sometimes called \"transceldom\") or is part of the incel community; or (2) a person who often visits toxic online communities and blames transgender people for their issues, which are frequently connected to their attraction toward transgender people or their wish to transition, but fear of rejection.", "sentence": "My relationship issues are caused by me and Iā€™m not going to turn into a transcel.", "communities": [ "incel" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "lgbt", "date": "2025-06-06 06:18:20", "timestamp": 1749183500.0 } }, { "id": "141623", "term": "LGBT", "definition": "Initialism for lesbian, gay, bisexual, and transgender.", "sentence": "Weā€™re standing with you in your movement for LGBT+ rights!", "communities": [], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "transtimelines", "date": "2020-09-01 14:25:45", "timestamp": 1598963145.0 } }, { "id": "101685", "term": "enbyfriend", "definition": "A nonbinary sexual and/or romantic partner.", "sentence": "i am not sexually attracted to my enbyfriend, but i still love them very much.", "communities": [ "nonbinary" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "Asexual", "date": "2020-05-12 06:38:00", "timestamp": 1589258280.0 } }, { "id": "206364", "term": "snatched", "definition": "Good-looking.", "sentence": "girls, that bodies looking snatched!", "communities": [], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "crossdressing", "date": "2025-06-09 15:07:20", "timestamp": 1749474440.0 } }, { "id": "149519", "term": "tilapia", "definition": "A fishy (resembling a cisgender woman) drag queen; a drag queen who could pass for a woman, as opposed to one who is exaggeratedly feminine.", "sentence": "Kind of related: a few days ago, Kimora did a live and some people were calling her ā€œfresh tilapiaā€.", "communities": [ "drag" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "rupaulsdragrace", "date": "2018-08-20 07:58:28", "timestamp": 1534744708.0 } }, { "id": "97017", "term": "breeder", "definition": "A heterosexual; i.e. one whose sexual intercourse can lead to breeding.", "sentence": "B) Breeder is not just an insult used against straight people.", "communities": [ "LGBTQ" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "lgbt", "date": "2020-07-13 15:01:53", "timestamp": 1594645313.0 } }, { "id": "86217", "term": "stud", "definition": "ā€¢ Community term for an African-American and/or Latinx masculine queer woman. Also known as \"ag.\" Only use if someone self-describes in this way, and avoid using for white people, as this is a term specifically developed by and for African-American and Latinx communities.\r\nā€¢ A masculine or butch lesbian; predominantly utilized in Black and Latina lesbian communities. Should not be used by individuals outside of those communities, as it may be seen as pejorative. Sometimes expanded to refer to other gender identities and expressions.", "sentence": "This girl changed that entire binary for me though, as she is a stud with a very masculine presentation.", "communities": [ "lesbian", "Latine lesbian", "African-American lesbian" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "comingout", "date": "2023-07-16 10:59:17", "timestamp": 1689497957.0 } }, { "id": "124654", "term": "cruising", "definition": "To walk or drive about a locality in search of a sex partner, usually of the anonymous, casual, one-time variety.", "sentence": "If you're picky (which I am) cruising doesn't really work.", "communities": [ "gay male" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "gaybros", "date": "2024-02-20 23:47:03", "timestamp": 1708469223.0 } }, { "id": "126860", "term": "bareback", "definition": "Sexual activity without the use of a condom.", "sentence": "I personally don't think that the benifits of barebacking outweigh the risk unless I'm committed to someone, but you have to decide for yourself if it's beyond your limits.", "communities": [ "gay male" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "lgbt", "date": "2015-03-11 20:23:56", "timestamp": 1426101836.0 } }, { "id": "106704", "term": "ewphoria", "definition": "A combination of gender euphoria with feelings of disgust, revulsion, or discomfort, resulting from one's gender identity being affirmed by bigoted, predatory, or creepy behavior by others.", "sentence": "There's the usual ewphoria feeling associated with that, i.e., \"they recognize me as a woman, but they assume that I'm incompetent because I'm a woman.\"", "communities": [ "transgender", "transgender" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "actuallesbians", "date": "2025-07-18 02:24:16", "timestamp": 1752798256.0 } }, { "id": "220171", "term": "house of", "definition": "In the US, a group of drag queens who have been mentored by a \"mother,\" also known as a \"house.\" These groups often take on family drag names and form close-knit communities.", "sentence": "The House of LaBeija is the legendary house above all of them.", "communities": [], "metadata": { "source": "OpenSubtitles", "title": "Paris Is Burning", "imdb_id": "100332" } }, { "id": "146028", "term": "brainworm", "definition": "An intrusive, unwanted, internalized transphobic or invalidating thought or belief.", "sentence": "As someone who has been de-wormed, the main reason I bought into the brainworms was because I actually believed the narrative that I was somehow abnormal, irrational, degenerate, etc.", "communities": [], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "ftm", "date": "2025-03-31 19:57:41", "timestamp": 1743443861.0 } }, { "id": "7357", "term": "boots", "definition": "Used as an intensifier: very, to a great degree; exceptionally.", "sentence": "And I am Heidi Munn tagging the house down boots.", "communities": [ "drag" ], "metadata": { "source": "Podcasts", "title": "Cancelled with Tana Mongeau & Brooke Schofield" } }, { "id": "126873", "term": "bareback", "definition": "Sexual activity without the use of a condom.", "sentence": "There was a post on r/askgaybros called \"do you bareback with hookups?\"", "communities": [ "gay male" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "gaybros", "date": "2021-08-22 18:01:23", "timestamp": 1629648083.0 } }, { "id": "107363", "term": "bottom surgery", "definition": "A slang term used to refer to genital gender-affirming surgeries.", "sentence": "I mean, do i really need bottom surgery if I'm never gonna use it for sexual things?", "communities": [ "transgender" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "asexuality", "date": "2021-10-23 02:33:11", "timestamp": 1634949191.0 } }, { "id": "204417", "term": "girlsmell", "definition": "A girl or woman's body odour, often regarded as attractive.", "sentence": "Nah, hrt gives you girlsmell", "communities": [], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "transgendercirclejerk", "date": "2023-12-05 19:55:56", "timestamp": 1701802556.0 } }, { "id": "146434", "term": "hondose", "definition": "A low dose of hormone replacement therapy in a trans woman which produces inadequate feminization and fails to suppress testosterone.", "sentence": "Your endo probably has you on a hondose.", "communities": [], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "transgendercirclejerk", "date": "2024-05-12 09:56:48", "timestamp": 1715500608.0 } }, { "id": "124641", "term": "pillow biter", "definition": "Derogatory slang for a gay man.", "sentence": "Iā€™m a pillow biter and proud of it!", "communities": [ "gay male" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "askgaybros", "date": "2018-11-12 22:12:29", "timestamp": 1542057149.0 } }, { "id": "203155", "term": "šŸ„š", "definition": "Represents an egg, as in a person regarded as having not yet realized they are transgender.", "sentence": "It's probably why I'm here at just NB instead of... something else šŸ„š I believe", "communities": [ "transgender" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "trans", "date": "2021-12-04 08:51:10", "timestamp": 1638604270.0 } }, { "id": "209100", "term": "yass", "definition": "A strong expression of excitement or admiration.", "sentence": "So I created a group, and I called it Yass Queen ( I have no idea why, don't ask me!)", "communities": [], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "LGBTeens", "date": "2022-08-31 01:17:45", "timestamp": 1661901465.0 } }, { "id": "135651", "term": "AC/DC", "definition": "Said of a person, bisexual, referring to being attracted to women and men.", "sentence": "In the 1960s, the term AC/DC became a popular slang for bisexual.", "communities": [], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "askgaybros", "date": "2021-03-12 14:22:10", "timestamp": 1615555330.0 } }, { "id": "108000", "term": "transition goal", "definition": "A transgender person's goals for transition, or an example of what they would like to achieve for such a transition (for example, pointing to an actor or musician of their desired gender expression and declaring that person \"transition goals\").", "sentence": "*new transition goals available*", "communities": [ "transgender" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "LGBTnews", "date": "2023-03-15 14:57:17", "timestamp": 1678888637.0 } }, { "id": "73212", "term": "bicycle", "definition": "Used as slang for bisexual in the 1960s. Also more widely used to indicate promiscuity, esp for women; this usage is considered offensive.", "sentence": "My bicycle seems to go only between straight and bi tho", "communities": [], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "BisexualTeens", "date": "2020-07-09 00:13:32", "timestamp": 1594246412.0 } }, { "id": "211671", "term": "fag stags", "definition": "A heterosexual man who socializes predominantly with gay men.", "sentence": "Tl;dr: Fag stags are the shit.", "communities": [ "gay male" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "gaybros", "date": "2012-04-03 22:40:39", "timestamp": 1333485639.0 } }, { "id": "113994", "term": "futch", "definition": "A person who exhibits traits of both a femme (often used to describe a wide variety of gender expressions and identities adjacent to feminine or femme-ness) and a butch (often used to describe a wide variety of gender expressions and identities adjacent to masculinity or \"butchilinity\").", "sentence": "I can't remember the name but I think there's also a t-shirt brand I've seen that's designed for trans masc bodies that probably has some appeal to butches and futches?", "communities": [ "lesbian" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "lesbianfashionadvice", "date": "2023-03-24 19:37:12", "timestamp": 1679683032.0 } }, { "id": "169403", "term": "mones", "definition": "Hormones used as part of hormone replacement therapy, especially for transgender or gender variant individuals.", "sentence": "Anyways, I would appreciate some advice on whether the 'mones are worth it, and perspectives from people who have been in a similar situation.", "communities": [], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "genderqueer", "date": "2025-07-07 11:34:48", "timestamp": 1751880888.0 } }, { "id": "106712", "term": "ewphoria", "definition": "A combination of gender euphoria with feelings of disgust, revulsion, or discomfort, resulting from one's gender identity being affirmed by bigoted, predatory, or creepy behavior by others.", "sentence": "Congrats on the ewphoria; bad news is it keeps going until only ew remains :c", "communities": [ "transgender", "transgender" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "transgamers", "date": "2025-05-09 20:16:15", "timestamp": 1746814575.0 } }, { "id": "98666", "term": "versatile", "definition": "Someone who penetrates or is penetrated during sexual intercourse or someone who has a preference for both being penetrated and penetrating during such intercourse.", "sentence": "Bottom to versatile here šŸ™‹ā€ā™‚ļø", "communities": [ "LGBTQ" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "gaybros", "date": "2021-04-05 08:43:45", "timestamp": 1617605025.0 } }, { "id": "108900", "term": "girl juice", "definition": "A slang term referring to injectable feminizing hormones.", "sentence": "Hell yeah, congrats on the girl juice!", "communities": [ "transfeminine" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "lgbt", "date": "2025-07-16 15:52:06", "timestamp": 1752673926.0 } }, { "id": "165285", "term": "Fem&M's", "definition": "Estrogen pills taken as part of hormone replacement therapy.", "sentence": "Even though he immediately \"corrected\" himself, it made my day šŸ˜Š I guess that means the fem&m's are working?", "communities": [ "transgender" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "MtF", "date": "2025-05-08 01:34:27", "timestamp": 1746660867.0 } }, { "id": "155463", "term": "queerdo", "definition": "A particularly strange LGBTQ+ person.", "sentence": "I am Ren, your local non-binary latinx queerdo.", "communities": [ "gay" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "NonBinary", "date": "2021-03-04 07:05:55", "timestamp": 1614837955.0 } }, { "id": "115249", "term": "bull dyke", "definition": "A lesbian who appears masculine or acts in a masculine manner.", "sentence": "I learned about femmes, bull dykes, and the culture of what i think was late industrial revolution lesbian blue collar workers.", "communities": [ "lesbian" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "ALbookclub", "date": "2016-02-03 06:11:47", "timestamp": 1454476307.0 } }, { "id": "108922", "term": "cotton ceiling", "definition": "A term used for the tendency for cisgender lesbians to not want to engage in sexual activities with transgender women, particular those who have not yet undergone feminizing genitoplasty; or, more broadly, the tendency for cisgender lesbians to exclude transgender women from spaces.", "sentence": "The cotton ceiling is a reference to trans people being left out of gay and lesbian spaces.", "communities": [ "transfeminine", "lesbian" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "actuallesbians", "date": "2018-06-06 05:50:46", "timestamp": 1528257046.0 } }, { "id": "73331", "term": "bottom", "definition": "ā€¢ A \"bottom\" is an individual who acts as the \"receiving\" partner in sexual encounters. Sometimes used as a self-descriptor within queer communities, but should be replicated with caution. Sometimes used as a verb (\"to bottom for someone\"). Offensive if applied to LGBTQ+ individuals from outwith queer communities.\r\nā€¢ Someone, typically a man, who is penetrated during sexual intercourse or someone who has a preference for being penetrated during such intercourse.\r\nā€¢ The buttocks.\r\nā€¢ Genitalia; genitals.", "sentence": "In this context, I'm a bottom.", "communities": [ "gay", "LGBTQ" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "actuallesbians", "date": "2025-07-16 01:42:49", "timestamp": 1752622969.0 } }, { "id": "101693", "term": "enbyfriend", "definition": "A nonbinary sexual and/or romantic partner.", "sentence": "I'm saying that because I needed new names to refer to my enbyfriend/lover/partner, OR, nonyfriend :3 Tell me your opinions below!", "communities": [ "nonbinary" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "NonBinary", "date": "2024-12-18 20:17:49", "timestamp": 1734549469.0 } }, { "id": "220185", "term": "house of", "definition": "In the US, a group of drag queens who have been mentored by a \"mother,\" also known as a \"house.\" These groups often take on family drag names and form close-knit communities.", "sentence": "I\" m the mother of the House of Ninja because they say I\" m the best voguer out.", "communities": [], "metadata": { "source": "OpenSubtitles", "title": "Paris Is Burning", "imdb_id": "100332" } }, { "id": "106637", "term": "baby trans", "definition": "Someone who has recently discovered that they are transgender.", "sentence": "I've helped quite a few baby trans so far :) and somebody is helping me who I'm their baby trans lol", "communities": [ "transgender", "transgender" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "traaaaaaannnnnnnnnns", "date": "2020-09-07 04:06:41", "timestamp": 1599444401.0 } }, { "id": "135631", "term": "AC/DC", "definition": "Said of a person, bisexual, referring to being attracted to women and men.", "sentence": "I was reading the HP / Marauders fanfic All The Young Dudes (that I couldn't recommand more, btw), and the sentence **\"so is he totally gay or more AC/DC ?", "communities": [], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "bisexual", "date": "2023-06-17 00:43:54", "timestamp": 1686955434.0 } }, { "id": "107227", "term": "deep stealth", "definition": "Referring to a transgender person who is not known to be trans by most of the people they interact with on a daily basis, even a sexual or romantic partner.", "sentence": "So I'm a trans girl early in my transition but eventually my goal is to be able to go deep stealth.", "communities": [ "transgender" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "MtF", "date": "2024-08-05 18:10:47", "timestamp": 1722874247.0 } }, { "id": "98677", "term": "versatile", "definition": "Someone who penetrates or is penetrated during sexual intercourse or someone who has a preference for both being penetrated and penetrating during such intercourse.", "sentence": "I'm definitely versatile, though I think I tend to be on bottom more than top.", "communities": [ "LGBTQ" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "actuallesbians", "date": "2014-08-23 03:19:33", "timestamp": 1408756773.0 } }, { "id": "203145", "term": "šŸ„š", "definition": "Represents an egg, as in a person regarded as having not yet realized they are transgender.", "sentence": "I feel very much like a trans šŸ„š, but now a lesbian egg how oblivious I was to what I wanted and what I aways desired.", "communities": [ "transgender" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "lgbt", "date": "2024-08-12 18:32:57", "timestamp": 1723480377.0 } }, { "id": "116333", "term": "superchub", "definition": "An extremely large self-identified chub (\"chub\" meaning \"a gay man who is overweight or obese\").", "sentence": "Iā€™m wondering if anyone knows of any parties or safe places for chubs and superchubs", "communities": [ "gay", "chub" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "lgbt", "date": "2023-05-24 16:22:13", "timestamp": 1684938133.0 } }, { "id": "101585", "term": "femby", "definition": "A slang term sometimes used to refer to femme enbies (non-binary people) or non-binary women. A portmanteau of \"femme\" and \"enby\".", "sentence": "i just wanna be a butch femby with big hips, a cute butt, a bust, and a girly face", "communities": [ "nonbinary" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "MtF", "date": "2023-02-16 01:03:34", "timestamp": 1676505814.0 } }, { "id": "107801", "term": "full-time", "definition": "A term which refers to a transgender person living as their gender for the entirety of their day-to-day life, at work, at home, etc.", "sentence": "The earlier you start, the better you will be by the time you go full-time.", "communities": [ "transgender" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "TransSpace", "date": "2014-01-06 06:18:46", "timestamp": 1388985526.0 } }, { "id": "168391", "term": "hatchling", "definition": "A person who has (especially recently) realized that they are transgender.", "sentence": "I'm a fairly recent hatchling only on hrt since April and came out in March so I'm kinda new to what to watch for and things Dx.", "communities": [ "transgender" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "ask_transgender", "date": "2019-07-17 17:02:56", "timestamp": 1563375776.0 } }, { "id": "154641", "term": "man cunt", "definition": "ā€¢ The anus of a man, usually the receptive participant in gay sex.\r\nā€¢ The vulva or vagina of a trans man.", "sentence": "I get so turned on calling my hole a pussy or man pussy or man cunt.", "communities": [ "transgender", "gay" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "askgaybros", "date": "2025-06-28 13:12:51", "timestamp": 1751109171.0 } }, { "id": "228148", "term": "crush", "definition": "An infatuation with somebody, typically someone that one is not dating. By extension, the object of such infatuation or affection.", "sentence": "I had a crush on a girl.", "communities": [ "LGBTQ" ], "metadata": { "source": "OpenSubtitles", "title": "The Truth About Jane", "imdb_id": "256459" } }, { "id": "101603", "term": "femby", "definition": "A slang term sometimes used to refer to femme enbies (non-binary people) or non-binary women. A portmanteau of \"femme\" and \"enby\".", "sentence": "Pretty sure my user flair would agree with you on femby.", "communities": [ "nonbinary" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "traaaaaaannnnnnnnnns", "date": "2021-04-01 16:09:27", "timestamp": 1617286167.0 } }, { "id": "91632", "term": "kiki", "definition": "ā€¢ A gathering of friends for the purpose of gossiping and chit-chat.\r\nā€¢ 1940s slang describing a lesbian comfortable with either a more passive or more aggressive partner in a relationship.", "sentence": "The wlw use of Kiki is quite old, dating back to the 40s?", "communities": [ "drag", "lesbian", "African-American transgender", "African-American gay male" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "lgbt", "date": "2020-06-02 12:56:26", "timestamp": 1591095386.0 } }, { "id": "83733", "term": "gym rat", "definition": "A sports enthusiast; usually one who frequents gyms and training grounds; often used of young gay men obsessed with body building.", "sentence": "The gay Meccas on the west coast all are abundantly populated with gym rats and software professionals, often represented in the same person.", "communities": [], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "gaybros", "date": "2021-02-12 14:53:44", "timestamp": 1613138024.0 } }, { "id": "149187", "term": "serve cunt", "definition": "To act in a powerfully and unapologetically feminine manner.", "sentence": "with all that said, i have to serve cunt like i never have before.", "communities": [ "drag" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "lesbianfashionadvice", "date": "2024-12-21 07:38:42", "timestamp": 1734763122.0 } }, { "id": "220179", "term": "house of", "definition": "In the US, a group of drag queens who have been mentored by a \"mother,\" also known as a \"house.\" These groups often take on family drag names and form close-knit communities.", "sentence": "As far as my naming my house\" the house of Ninja\"...", "communities": [], "metadata": { "source": "OpenSubtitles", "title": "Paris Is Burning", "imdb_id": "100332" } }, { "id": "113939", "term": "futch", "definition": "A person who exhibits traits of both a femme (often used to describe a wide variety of gender expressions and identities adjacent to feminine or femme-ness) and a butch (often used to describe a wide variety of gender expressions and identities adjacent to masculinity or \"butchilinity\").", "sentence": "He's gone from a futch lesbian to a gay man, that's his words anyway.", "communities": [ "lesbian" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "asktransgender", "date": "2023-01-07 21:56:25", "timestamp": 1673124985.0 } }, { "id": "98600", "term": "gaysian", "definition": "Somewhat derogatory term referring to an Asian gay person.", "sentence": "Itā€™s kind of sad because I donā€™t really have a lot of gay friends and donā€™t think I would make friend with another gaysian in near future.", "communities": [ "LGBTQ" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "askgaybros", "date": "2023-06-12 00:44:46", "timestamp": 1686523486.0 } }, { "id": "108940", "term": "cotton ceiling", "definition": "A term used for the tendency for cisgender lesbians to not want to engage in sexual activities with transgender women, particular those who have not yet undergone feminizing genitoplasty; or, more broadly, the tendency for cisgender lesbians to exclude transgender women from spaces.", "sentence": "Something like: 'In 2013, the TransAdvocate debunked the cotton ceiling myth as TERFs making a mountain out of a molehill.", "communities": [ "transfeminine", "lesbian" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "transgender", "date": "2020-07-24 13:13:02", "timestamp": 1595589182.0 } }, { "id": "169409", "term": "mones", "definition": "Hormones used as part of hormone replacement therapy, especially for transgender or gender variant individuals.", "sentence": "Cause if so, that's a wonderful way to start off your 'mones.", "communities": [], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "transpositive", "date": "2013-03-27 23:49:31", "timestamp": 1364424571.0 } }, { "id": "202095", "term": "trutrans", "definition": "A genuine or legitimate transgender person.", "sentence": "I know it's probably not your intention, but this really does sound like you're pushing a TruTrans narrative.", "communities": [ "transgender" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "MtF", "date": "2018-03-27 15:42:53", "timestamp": 1522158173.0 } }, { "id": "109062", "term": "titty skittle", "definition": "Oral estrogen taken by transgender woman and other transfeminine people.", "sentence": "Hello Chloe, Iā€™m not able to get the titty skittles yet so youā€™re very lucky!", "communities": [ "transgender", "transfeminine" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "traaaaaaannnnnnnnnns", "date": "2019-07-09 05:25:31", "timestamp": 1562642731.0 } }, { "id": "106490", "term": "deadnaming", "definition": "Calling a transgender person by their \"deadname\" (oftentimes their birth name, but not always).", "sentence": "This was met with clear offence, as the person said that this was deadnaming.", "communities": [ "transgender" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "asktransgender", "date": "2024-07-17 19:57:53", "timestamp": 1721239073.0 } }, { "id": "87794", "term": "top", "definition": "ā€¢ A \"top\" is an individual who acts as the \"giving\" partner in sexual encounters. Sometimes used as a self-descriptor within queer communities, but should be replicated with caution. Sometimes used as a verb (\"to top someone\"). Offensive if applied to LGBTQ+ individuals from outwith queer communities.\r\nā€¢ Someone, typically a man, who is penetrating someone else during sexual intercourse or someone who has a preference for penetrating during such intercourse.", "sentence": "I think some more open minded people out there would really dig being topped by you.", "communities": [ "LGBTQ" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "gaybros", "date": "2025-06-05 04:31:31", "timestamp": 1749090691.0 } }, { "id": "95544", "term": "service top", "definition": "A service top is one who tops (acts as the \"giving\" partner in sexual encounters) under the direction of an eager bottom (who acts as the \"receiving\" partner in sexual encounters).", "sentence": "A service top is an individual who applies sensation or control to a bottom, but does so at the bottom's explicit instructions.", "communities": [ "LGBTQ" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "bisexual", "date": "2023-03-23 02:42:49", "timestamp": 1679535769.0 } }, { "id": "91643", "term": "kiki", "definition": "ā€¢ A gathering of friends for the purpose of gossiping and chit-chat.\r\nā€¢ 1940s slang describing a lesbian comfortable with either a more passive or more aggressive partner in a relationship.", "sentence": "So, lets have a kiki.", "communities": [ "drag", "lesbian", "African-American transgender", "African-American gay male" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "gaybros", "date": "2012-09-20 08:41:36", "timestamp": 1348123296.0 } }, { "id": "115887", "term": "stem", "definition": "A lesbian defined as having a gender presentation between stud (st-) and femme (-em).", "sentence": "Masc and sometimes also femme:) the percentage or times when u are masc or femme depends on how often u feel like either but yeah, a stem maybe?", "communities": [ "lesbian" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "LGBTeens", "date": "2024-09-11 13:58:52", "timestamp": 1726055932.0 } }, { "id": "110913", "term": "zucchini", "definition": "A queerplatonic partner.", "sentence": "So my zucchini says she thinks she might be ace (Iā€™m aroallo) and I know nothing about what it means to be ace.", "communities": [ "aromantic" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "asexuality", "date": "2022-01-17 02:53:47", "timestamp": 1642384427.0 } }, { "id": "86342", "term": "sugar daddy", "definition": "Expression of the Black community in the 1920s, to refer to an older, wealthy partner. Over time, this expression became used by the LGBTQIA+ community as well.", "sentence": "The sugar daddy agreed and met him down there.", "communities": [], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "gaybros", "date": "2023-09-11 22:49:10", "timestamp": 1694465350.0 } }, { "id": "116838", "term": "cub", "definition": "A younger or younger-looking bear, sometimes with a smaller frame (\"bear\" meaning \"a gay or bisexual man who has facial/body hair and a cuddly body\").", "sentence": "I actually enjoy the fact that we have so many categories like, bears, daddies, cubs, twinks, twunks, etc., etc.", "communities": [ "gay", "bear" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "gaybros", "date": "2024-05-30 15:16:45", "timestamp": 1717075005.0 } }, { "id": "115492", "term": "pillow princess", "definition": "A woman who likes to receive and not give, sexually.", "sentence": "Some were definitely pillow princesses with no interest in my pleasure.", "communities": [ "lesbian" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "ftm", "date": "2021-03-22 23:38:21", "timestamp": 1616452701.0 } }, { "id": "117151", "term": "unicorn", "definition": "A bisexual woman who engages in a sexual, but usually non-romantic, relationship with a heterosexual couple.", "sentence": "Since everyone seems to have their own definition of a unicorn and likely don't even match it themselves.", "communities": [ "bisexual female" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "gaybros", "date": "2025-07-11 00:51:25", "timestamp": 1752187885.0 } }, { "id": "206513", "term": "useless lesbian", "definition": "A lesbian who is socially or romantically inept with other women.", "sentence": "If you're a useless lesbian like I am and find that first point of contact difficult, comment *message me first* and I'll do just that.", "communities": [], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "l4l", "date": "2019-08-12 08:51:55", "timestamp": 1565592715.0 } }, { "id": "116787", "term": "seahorse dad", "definition": "Slang term for a transgender man who is carrying, or has carried, a child to term.", "sentence": "there's actually a seahorse dads subreddit!", "communities": [ "transmasculine" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "trans", "date": "2025-07-08 16:29:58", "timestamp": 1751984998.0 } }, { "id": "116673", "term": "chubby bear", "definition": "A bear who is particularly large (\"bear\" meaning \"a gay or bisexual man who has facial/body hair and a cuddly body\").", "sentence": "For reference, I'm a chubby bear, hes skinnier and more rugged.", "communities": [ "chub", "bear" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "gay", "date": "2023-07-07 07:51:48", "timestamp": 1688709108.0 } }, { "id": "205719", "term": "neo", "definition": "Clipping of neopronoun.", "sentence": "There's so much misinformation and misconceptions about neos/xenos.", "communities": [], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "lgbt", "date": "2023-10-13 09:32:09", "timestamp": 1697182329.0 } }, { "id": "110406", "term": "Eve's apple", "definition": "A transfeminine slang term coined to replace the masculine sounding \"Adam's apple\".", "sentence": "I don't have broad shoulders, I don't have a huge Eve's apple, I don't have a significant brow bone, and I don't have hair loss.", "communities": [ "transfeminine" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "MtF", "date": "2019-08-01 23:10:55", "timestamp": 1564693855.0 } }, { "id": "203318", "term": "doll", "definition": "A transgender woman or transfeminine person.", "sentence": "Where Iā€™m from, ā€œone of the dollsā€ feels like an act of reclamation, similar to using the T slur or F slur.", "communities": [], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "asktransgender", "date": "2024-07-07 00:05:43", "timestamp": 1720303543.0 } }, { "id": "90943", "term": "kai kai", "definition": "The act of drag queens having sex with each other.", "sentence": "Mik-i wanna kai kai", "communities": [ "drag" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "rupaulsdragrace", "date": "2024-06-07 16:53:18", "timestamp": 1717771998.0 } }, { "id": "99571", "term": "gaymer", "definition": "Gay persons who have active interest in video games or tabletop games.", "sentence": "I just signed a lease in the lakeview area and hope to get involved with the gaymer community and make some friends here!", "communities": [ "LGBTQ" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "ChicagoGaymers", "date": "2015-07-10 06:52:14", "timestamp": 1436503934.0 } }, { "id": "85709", "term": "rough trade", "definition": "Slang for a man who identifies as straight, but sometimes has sex with queer men (usually as a \"top\").", "sentence": "I'm into rough trade and admit to having done risky stuff in the past wirh questionable ethics.", "communities": [ "gay" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "askgaybros", "date": "2023-11-13 02:44:43", "timestamp": 1699839883.0 } }, { "id": "165283", "term": "Fem&M's", "definition": "Estrogen pills taken as part of hormone replacement therapy.", "sentence": "I get migraines, which means no fem&m's for me - but I'm very happy with my boobie band-aids", "communities": [ "transgender" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "MtF", "date": "2022-08-11 11:19:08", "timestamp": 1660209548.0 } }, { "id": "215497", "term": "orchie", "definition": "Clipping of orchiectomy.", "sentence": "Especially for the orchie consult!", "communities": [ "transgender" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "traaaaaaannnnnnnnnns", "date": "2018-12-19 01:32:58", "timestamp": 1545179578.0 } }, { "id": "110910", "term": "zucchini", "definition": "A queerplatonic partner.", "sentence": "> Ok, I am now referring to these kinds of relationships as zucchini.", "communities": [ "aromantic" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "asexuality", "date": "2024-06-04 17:54:06", "timestamp": 1717516446.0 } }, { "id": "155056", "term": "poppers", "definition": "Drugs of the alkyl nitrate class used recreationally as a sexual stimulant, especially among gay men.", "sentence": "I had never considered poppers until just today.", "communities": [ "gay" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "lgbt", "date": "2019-09-12 12:28:41", "timestamp": 1568284121.0 } }, { "id": "149179", "term": "serve cunt", "definition": "To act in a powerfully and unapologetically feminine manner.", "sentence": "We serve cunt in r/Bayonetta, sir", "communities": [ "drag" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "gaymers", "date": "2024-02-24 23:12:58", "timestamp": 1708812778.0 } }, { "id": "214503", "term": "punker", "definition": "A slang term with multiple meanings depending on context. Originally used to refer to a sex worker or prostitute, especially a passive or feminine gay man (or a bottom). By the early 20th century, used to refer to a person considered worthless or criminal in nature. By the 1970s, used to refer to punk rock, a punk rocker, or to the sociocultural movement associated with punk rock and its fans. In the modern gay male community, the term \"punk\" may refer to a smaller, typically younger gay man who is forced into a submissive role in prison settings by an older gay man. Also occasionally used as a synonym for \"clock\" or \"read\", i.e. when a cisgender person recognizes a person as transgender.", "sentence": "Some gay guys like that weird bigoted tough guy on football/(rugby for non American people) team, or that goofy punker skateboarder metalhead guy that is always causing trouble in school.", "communities": [], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "askgaybros", "date": "2018-11-04 02:55:18", "timestamp": 1541296518.0 } }, { "id": "99772", "term": "queer coding", "definition": "A situation in which a character is given traits or behaviors which suggest they are not heterosexual and/or cisgender, without the character being outright confirmed as having such an identity.", "sentence": "If you want to see positive queer coding, you could look at Frozen or Luca.", "communities": [ "LGBTQ" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "gaybros", "date": "2024-01-03 01:47:52", "timestamp": 1704242872.0 } }, { "id": "94386", "term": "condragulations", "definition": "A variant form of congratulations used sometimes in drag.", "sentence": "I always use condragulations", "communities": [ "drag" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "BisexualTeens", "date": "2021-12-07 15:35:03", "timestamp": 1638887703.0 } }, { "id": "79779", "term": "friend of dorothy", "definition": "Coded slang for gay. Referring to gay icon Judy Garland's Dorothy in The Wizard of Oz.", "sentence": "I had an idea for a gay bar called \"The Friend of Dorothy\".", "communities": [ "gay male" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "AskLGBT", "date": "2024-07-17 09:44:59", "timestamp": 1721202299.0 } }, { "id": "116090", "term": "stem", "definition": "A lesbian defined as having a gender presentation between stud (st-) and femme (-em).", "sentence": "To me, it looks like the answer is the more stem/masc pic, but it's ultimately up to you :-)", "communities": [ "lesbian" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "lesbianfashionadvice", "date": "2021-09-22 20:33:54", "timestamp": 1632335634.0 } }, { "id": "140309", "term": "BJ", "definition": "Initialism of blow job.", "sentence": "What about giving her a bj while she is wearing a strapon?", "communities": [], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "Crossdressing_support", "date": "2023-01-18 05:22:09", "timestamp": 1674015729.0 } }, { "id": "83732", "term": "gym rat", "definition": "A sports enthusiast; usually one who frequents gyms and training grounds; often used of young gay men obsessed with body building.", "sentence": "PS: if you are a gym rat or big muscle bro.", "communities": [], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "gaybros", "date": "2021-02-10 15:02:01", "timestamp": 1612965721.0 } }, { "id": "204414", "term": "girlsmell", "definition": "A girl or woman's body odour, often regarded as attractive.", "sentence": "Boysmell and girlsmell are so powerful and real", "communities": [], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "transgendercirclejerk", "date": "2024-08-11 23:59:58", "timestamp": 1723413598.0 } }, { "id": "340", "term": "hunk", "definition": "A muscular, handsome gay man.", "sentence": "Jamie can be Wolverine, arms out, sexy Wolverine, muscle hunk right?", "communities": [ "gay male" ], "metadata": { "source": "Podcasts", "title": "Leah on the Line" } }, { "id": "96978", "term": "total bottom", "definition": "A total bottom is someone who assumes an exclusively passive or receptive role during anal or oral intercourse.", "sentence": "The difference is night and day, i am more likely to do stupid shit to get inside a total bottom pants than vers guy.", "communities": [ "LGBTQ" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "askgaybros", "date": "2024-05-28 23:40:21", "timestamp": 1716932421.0 } }, { "id": "214770", "term": "switches", "definition": "ā€¢ LGBTQ+ community slang for someone who \"switches\" between the \"giving\" and \"receiving\" during sex. \"Vers\" is short for \"versatile.\" \"Switch\" is sometimes also used in a BDSM context, to indicate someone who \"switches\" between the dominant and submissive roles.\r\nā€¢ One who is willing to take either a submissive or a dominant role in a sexual relationship.", "sentence": "there are plenty of switches out there that can be both dominant and submissive.", "communities": [ "LGBTQ" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "actuallesbians", "date": "2025-04-15 18:41:31", "timestamp": 1744735291.0 } }, { "id": "104084", "term": "stealth", "definition": "When a transgender person keeps their transgender status closely guarded, living as if they were cisgender as their identified gender.", "sentence": "I didnā€™t even mention the fact that Iā€™m a trans woman (Iā€™m stealth) but itā€™s hilarious that they just assumed I was cishet because I was wearing a dress.", "communities": [ "transgender" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "actuallesbians", "date": "2024-05-20 09:58:17", "timestamp": 1716191897.0 } }, { "id": "107942", "term": "crossdreaming", "definition": "Dreams or fantasies in which a person imagines themself as (or simply dressed as) the \"opposite\" gender (i.e. a man as a woman or a woman as a man).", "sentence": "While I accept that crossdreaming may very well be a thing that's separate from being trans, I haven't seen much evidence that it is.", "communities": [ "transgender", "cross-dressing" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "ask_transgender", "date": "2016-06-21 05:51:57", "timestamp": 1466481117.0 } }, { "id": "107553", "term": "bottom surgery", "definition": "A slang term used to refer to genital gender-affirming surgeries.", "sentence": "What can I do or suprise my fiance with after she gets home from bottom surgery?", "communities": [ "transgender" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "mypartneristrans", "date": "2025-06-29 20:45:52", "timestamp": 1751222752.0 } }, { "id": "146677", "term": "transmaxx", "definition": "To undergo gender transition (particularly from male to female) for the perceived social advantages that come with being the opposite sex, especially as regards the sexual marketplace.", "sentence": "please don't fall down the transmaxxing rabbit hole.", "communities": [], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "asktransgender", "date": "2022-09-12 17:19:28", "timestamp": 1662995968.0 } }, { "id": "1577", "term": "lgbt", "definition": "Initialism for lesbian, gay, bisexual, and transgender.", "sentence": "Or the LGBT community, right?", "communities": [], "metadata": { "source": "Podcasts", "title": "If Books Could Kill" } }, { "id": "107223", "term": "deep stealth", "definition": "Referring to a transgender person who is not known to be trans by most of the people they interact with on a daily basis, even a sexual or romantic partner.", "sentence": "I pass as cis 100% of the time and have been deep stealth now for 3 months.", "communities": [ "transgender" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "asktransgender", "date": "2018-01-05 22:19:14", "timestamp": 1515187154.0 } }, { "id": "203228", "term": "doll", "definition": "A transgender woman or transfeminine person.", "sentence": "Also, their t-shirts say ā€œArm the gaysā€, ā€œArm the dollsā€ (referring to trans women) and ā€œarm the theysā€", "communities": [], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "lgbt", "date": "2025-05-25 23:31:00", "timestamp": 1748208660.0 } }, { "id": "119466", "term": "masc4masc", "definition": "A phrase used to describe a masculine gay man interested in other masculine gay men romantically and/or sexually.", "sentence": "Placing people in boxes is never great and itā€™s why Masc4Masc is so toxic", "communities": [ "gay male" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "gay", "date": "2022-07-09 23:29:01", "timestamp": 1657402141.0 } }, { "id": "116829", "term": "cub", "definition": "A younger or younger-looking bear, sometimes with a smaller frame (\"bear\" meaning \"a gay or bisexual man who has facial/body hair and a cuddly body\").", "sentence": "If you really wanted to use one of these terms, cub would fit.", "communities": [ "gay", "bear" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "lgbt", "date": "2022-11-08 07:54:38", "timestamp": 1667890478.0 } }, { "id": "205732", "term": "neo", "definition": "Clipping of neopronoun.", "sentence": "My pronouns are he/him plus neos!!", "communities": [], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "lgbt", "date": "2021-03-09 20:17:10", "timestamp": 1615317430.0 } }, { "id": "101525", "term": "enban", "definition": "An adult nonbinary person.", "sentence": "Very male, but can also be femme with jackie or truly enban via jacket if you want.", "communities": [ "nonbinary" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "NonBinary", "date": "2022-08-11 01:07:41", "timestamp": 1660172861.0 } }, { "id": "108937", "term": "cotton ceiling", "definition": "A term used for the tendency for cisgender lesbians to not want to engage in sexual activities with transgender women, particular those who have not yet undergone feminizing genitoplasty; or, more broadly, the tendency for cisgender lesbians to exclude transgender women from spaces.", "sentence": "I just gotta say I really hate the term cotton ceiling.", "communities": [ "transfeminine", "lesbian" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "transgender", "date": "2020-07-23 21:16:21", "timestamp": 1595531781.0 } }, { "id": "98877", "term": "lavender", "definition": "A pale purple color, like that of the lavender flower. Lavender become symbol of homosexuality in the 1950s and 1960s, just as the color mauve was in the 1890s.", "sentence": "Was your friend objecting to the forced or lavender part of the marriage?", "communities": [ "LGBTQ" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "lgbt", "date": "2025-01-09 02:57:24", "timestamp": 1736387844.0 } }, { "id": "168267", "term": "girlcock", "definition": "The penis of a trans woman.", "sentence": "I think I donā€™t want to fully transition though I do sometimes wish I had a femme body ( bewbs and a girlcock feels right to me).", "communities": [ "transgender" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "asktransgender", "date": "2019-10-20 18:52:46", "timestamp": 1571590366.0 } }, { "id": "227380", "term": "drag queen", "definition": "ā€¢ A male entertainer who performs dressed as a woman; a female impersonator.\r\nā€¢ A male-to-female cross-dresser.", "sentence": "That drag queen is dragging me down!", "communities": [], "metadata": { "source": "OpenSubtitles", "title": "Urbania", "imdb_id": "182508" } }, { "id": "169366", "term": "manmode", "definition": "The state of presenting as a man, regardless of one's actual gender identity, especially of a trans woman.", "sentence": "should I manmode despite feeling uncomfortable?", "communities": [ "transgender" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "asktransgender", "date": "2025-07-02 07:26:01", "timestamp": 1751433961.0 } }, { "id": "227360", "term": "drag queen", "definition": "ā€¢ A male entertainer who performs dressed as a woman; a female impersonator.\r\nā€¢ A male-to-female cross-dresser.", "sentence": "Another year flies by, and it's time to crown a new Drag Queen of the Year.", "communities": [], "metadata": { "source": "OpenSubtitles", "title": "To Wong Foo, Thanks for Everything! Julie Newmar", "imdb_id": "114682" } }, { "id": "123819", "term": "cottaging", "definition": "Anonymous sex between men in a public lavatory (a \"cottage\", \"tea-room\"), or cruising for sexual partners with the intention of having sex elsewhere.", "sentence": "It takes a light-hearted look at cruising, cottaging, clubbing and more from the 1950's through to the early 00's.", "communities": [ "gay male" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "gay", "date": "2023-02-03 21:01:36", "timestamp": 1675454496.0 } }, { "id": "146646", "term": "passoid", "definition": "A transgender person who is passing.", "sentence": "/uj As a passoid now, it doesn't change the fact that I had to survive that year leading up to FFS.", "communities": [], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "transgendercirclejerk", "date": "2024-12-25 18:19:21", "timestamp": 1735147161.0 } }, { "id": "107711", "term": "bottom surgery", "definition": "A slang term used to refer to genital gender-affirming surgeries.", "sentence": "Obesity has very poor outcomes in bottom surgery itā€™s difficult to do at the best of times/circumstances.", "communities": [ "transgender" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "transgenderUK", "date": "2025-03-14 19:21:13", "timestamp": 1741976473.0 } }, { "id": "170427", "term": "shenis", "definition": "The penis of a trans woman.", "sentence": "Iā€™ve seen it being done for penises (for example lady-wand or shenis) but not the testicles or the vas deferens.", "communities": [ "transgender" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "asktransgender", "date": "2023-12-20 05:42:18", "timestamp": 1703047338.0 } }, { "id": "214625", "term": "studs", "definition": "ā€¢ Community term for an African-American and/or Latinx masculine queer woman. Also known as \"ag.\" Only use if someone self-describes in this way, and avoid using for white people, as this is a term specifically developed by and for African-American and Latinx communities.\r\nā€¢ A masculine or butch lesbian; predominantly utilized in Black and Latina lesbian communities. Should not be used by individuals outside of those communities, as it may be seen as pejorative. Sometimes expanded to refer to other gender identities and expressions.", "sentence": "The studs and butches in my life have been there to guide me through my trans journey both directly and indirectly.", "communities": [ "lesbian", "Latine lesbian", "African-American lesbian" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "trans", "date": "2023-05-11 05:03:26", "timestamp": 1683774206.0 } }, { "id": "386", "term": "cunty", "definition": "Amazing or very good or cool, especially with regard to femininity.", "sentence": "I think this is pretty cunty.", "communities": [], "metadata": { "source": "Podcasts", "title": "Why Won't You Date Me? with Nicole Byer" } }, { "id": "106697", "term": "transdar", "definition": "A colloquialism referring to the intuitive ability of a person to assess others' as being transgender. Transdar relies on verbal and non-verbal clues and transgender stereotypes. These include the sensitivity to social behaviors and mannerisms; for instance, acknowledging variations of gendered body language, the tone of voice used by a person when speaking, overtly rejecting traditional gender roles, a person's occupation, interests, etc.", "sentence": "I was at this party yesterday and my transdar was going of with this one person.", "communities": [ "transgender" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "trans", "date": "2024-05-20 10:40:56", "timestamp": 1716194456.0 } }, { "id": "73063", "term": "bicycle", "definition": "Used as slang for bisexual in the 1960s. Also more widely used to indicate promiscuity, esp for women; this usage is considered offensive.", "sentence": "I ride a bicycle, not a straightcycle", "communities": [], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "lgbt", "date": "2025-06-07 18:34:02", "timestamp": 1749314042.0 } }, { "id": "99784", "term": "queer coding", "definition": "A situation in which a character is given traits or behaviors which suggest they are not heterosexual and/or cisgender, without the character being outright confirmed as having such an identity.", "sentence": "Getting into a Crystal Methyd Freddy Kreuger look while I discuss the LGBT cult classic Nightmare on Elm Street Part 2 - queer coding anyone?", "communities": [ "LGBTQ" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "Drag", "date": "2020-10-23 06:37:09", "timestamp": 1603427829.0 } }, { "id": "101574", "term": "femby", "definition": "A slang term sometimes used to refer to femme enbies (non-binary people) or non-binary women. A portmanteau of \"femme\" and \"enby\".", "sentence": "*half raises hand and goes ā€˜wooā€™ in masc femby*", "communities": [ "nonbinary" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "bisexual", "date": "2022-11-06 21:53:35", "timestamp": 1667768015.0 } }, { "id": "206473", "term": "useless lesbian", "definition": "A lesbian who is socially or romantically inept with other women.", "sentence": "i know that useless lesbian tends to be used to mean being easily flustered by women/enbies.", "communities": [], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "actuallesbians", "date": "2023-04-01 17:59:42", "timestamp": 1680364782.0 } }, { "id": "84631", "term": "lipstick lesbian", "definition": "Usually refers to a lesbian with a feminine gender expression. Can be used in a positive or a derogatory way, depending on who is using it. Is sometimes also used to refer to a lesbian who is seen as automatically \"passing\" for heterosexual.", "sentence": "The flag your friends may be thinking of is the lipstick lesbian flag, a flag that has been sadly co-opted by some trans-exclusionary lesbians.", "communities": [ "lesbian" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "AskLGBT", "date": "2024-10-03 12:49:44", "timestamp": 1727952584.0 } }, { "id": "73611", "term": "bottom", "definition": "ā€¢ A \"bottom\" is an individual who acts as the \"receiving\" partner in sexual encounters. Sometimes used as a self-descriptor within queer communities, but should be replicated with caution. Sometimes used as a verb (\"to bottom for someone\"). Offensive if applied to LGBTQ+ individuals from outwith queer communities.\r\nā€¢ Someone, typically a man, who is penetrated during sexual intercourse or someone who has a preference for being penetrated during such intercourse.\r\nā€¢ The buttocks.\r\nā€¢ Genitalia; genitals.", "sentence": "A while back some older generation gays were talking on here about how \"in there day\" topping and bottoming was something you did, not something you are.", "communities": [ "gay", "LGBTQ" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "askgaybros", "date": "2025-07-02 17:47:48", "timestamp": 1751471268.0 } }, { "id": "107907", "term": "tucute", "definition": "A person who acknowledges that gender dysphoria is not necessary to be transgender.", "sentence": "I feel like someone's going to pop up and call me a tucute like it's 2016.", "communities": [ "transgender" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "mypartneristrans", "date": "2023-12-12 12:25:44", "timestamp": 1702380344.0 } }, { "id": "152647", "term": "family", "definition": "ā€¢ The gay community.\r\nā€¢ Homosexual.", "sentence": "It was a deep wound for the first few years that healed as I built up my chosen family.", "communities": [ "gay" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "transtimelines", "date": "2025-02-01 02:48:20", "timestamp": 1738374500.0 } }, { "id": "220176", "term": "house of", "definition": "In the US, a group of drag queens who have been mentored by a \"mother,\" also known as a \"house.\" These groups often take on family drag names and form close-knit communities.", "sentence": "My name is Angie Xtravaganza, and I am the mother of the house of Xtravaganza.", "communities": [], "metadata": { "source": "OpenSubtitles", "title": "Paris Is Burning", "imdb_id": "100332" } }, { "id": "94382", "term": "condragulations", "definition": "A variant form of congratulations used sometimes in drag.", "sentence": "Ru really should have said Morgan condragulations youā€™re back in the race", "communities": [ "drag" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "rupaulsdragrace", "date": "2020-06-28 20:12:49", "timestamp": 1593367969.0 } }, { "id": "109063", "term": "titty skittle", "definition": "Oral estrogen taken by transgender woman and other transfeminine people.", "sentence": "Congrats on the titty skittles!", "communities": [ "transgender", "transfeminine" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "traaaaaaannnnnnnnnns", "date": "2021-02-19 07:31:35", "timestamp": 1613716295.0 } }, { "id": "169876", "term": "pre-T", "definition": "Not yet having undergone testosterone-based hormone replacement therapy.", "sentence": "For reference, Iā€™m an 18 y/o closeted pre-t/pre-op transman living in Texas.", "communities": [ "transgender" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "trans", "date": "2025-06-08 08:40:24", "timestamp": 1749364824.0 } }, { "id": "100225", "term": "straggot", "definition": "A portmanteau of \"straight\" (heterosexual) and the slur \"faggot\". Usually used in a joking and/or reclamatory sense to describe heterosexual people who are homophobic.", "sentence": "No straggot is not considered a slur", "communities": [ "LGBTQ" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "LGBTeens", "date": "2025-04-16 14:16:08", "timestamp": 1744805768.0 } }, { "id": "202076", "term": "Tit Tac", "definition": "A pill taken as part of feminizing hormone replacement therapy, especially spironolactone (called by this name due to its peppermint smell) or estrogen such as estradiol.", "sentence": "mammary mints, life savers, tit tacs, breast mints, femme&mā€™s, antiboyotics,", "communities": [ "transgender" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "lgbt", "date": "2024-08-17 05:55:34", "timestamp": 1723866934.0 } }, { "id": "90702", "term": "slay", "definition": "Used to express approval or amazement.", "sentence": "Adding slay to my repertoire now that it's no longer fleek šŸ˜‚", "communities": [ "drag" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "lgbt", "date": "2023-11-12 01:12:40", "timestamp": 1699747960.0 } }, { "id": "143104", "term": "GLBT", "definition": "Initialism for gay, lesbian, bisexual, and transgender.", "sentence": "Other countries still use GLBT too, or their language equivalents.", "communities": [], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "lgbt", "date": "2021-05-12 12:26:23", "timestamp": 1620815183.0 } }, { "id": "123823", "term": "cottaging", "definition": "Anonymous sex between men in a public lavatory (a \"cottage\", \"tea-room\"), or cruising for sexual partners with the intention of having sex elsewhere.", "sentence": "I used to love cottaging, sadly a lot or councils around the country have closed or demolished the toilets now :(", "communities": [ "gay male" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "askgaybros", "date": "2021-11-04 21:43:52", "timestamp": 1636058632.0 } }, { "id": "213177", "term": "gym bunny", "definition": "A sports enthusiast; usually one who frequents gyms and training grounds; often used of young gay men obsessed with body building.", "sentence": "Most of these guys fit that gym bunny Jock body type build.", "communities": [], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "askgaybros", "date": "2024-09-22 11:13:53", "timestamp": 1726996433.0 } }, { "id": "168366", "term": "hatchling", "definition": "A person who has (especially recently) realized that they are transgender.", "sentence": "So from the vantage of an elder looking at hatchlings, I feel it is our duty to make the world better and safer.", "communities": [ "transgender" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "asktransgender", "date": "2024-10-04 01:18:10", "timestamp": 1727997490.0 } }, { "id": "134002", "term": "ambisextrous", "definition": "Said of a person, bisexual.", "sentence": "And use ambisextrous instead šŸ‘‰šŸ˜ŽšŸ‘‰", "communities": [], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "bisexual", "date": "2018-08-15 21:02:06", "timestamp": 1534359726.0 } }, { "id": "102027", "term": "enby", "definition": "A nonbinary person, typically a young adult or an adolescent.", "sentence": "(and just so we're clear, I love my Enby comrades and consider it an honor to be associated with them)", "communities": [ "nonbinary" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "agender", "date": "2024-04-19 21:36:32", "timestamp": 1713555392.0 } }, { "id": "114739", "term": "butch dyke", "definition": "A butch lesbian. \"Butch\" is often used to describe a wide variety of gender expressions and identities adjacent to masculinity or \"butchilinity\".", "sentence": "Hey - I'm a middle aged butch dyke who has no desire to transition.", "communities": [ "lesbian" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "actuallesbians", "date": "2018-12-30 19:09:37", "timestamp": 1546193377.0 } }, { "id": "94388", "term": "banjee", "definition": "A young Latino or African American gay man who dresses in stereotypical masculine urban fashion.", "sentence": "From Bougie to Banjee.", "communities": [ "drag", "Latine LGBTQ", "African-American LGBTQ" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "rupaulsdragrace", "date": "2019-01-16 22:38:29", "timestamp": 1547674709.0 } }, { "id": "120688", "term": "hunty", "definition": "A portmanteau of \"honey\" and \"cunt\", usually considered a term of supposed endearment.", "sentence": "It's fiction, not politics hunty.", "communities": [ "gay male" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "asktransgender", "date": "2020-01-06 11:24:23", "timestamp": 1578306263.0 } }, { "id": "116779", "term": "seahorse dad", "definition": "Slang term for a transgender man who is carrying, or has carried, a child to term.", "sentence": "HMU if you want a link to some of the research that's out there - it's being led by seahorse dads!", "communities": [ "transmasculine" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "ftm", "date": "2019-08-26 21:39:49", "timestamp": 1566848389.0 } }, { "id": "211296", "term": "faggoty", "definition": "A pejorative term used chiefly in North America primarily to refer to a gay man. Alongside its use to refer to gay men in particular, it may also be used as a pejorative term for a \"repellent man\" or to refer to women who are lesbian (or to transgender people, typically transgender women). Its use has spread from the United States to varying extents elsewhere in the English-speaking world through mass culture, including film, music, and the Internet.", "sentence": "These dickheads donā€™t need the excuse of a gay guy ā€œacting faggotyā€ to hate gay people - theyā€™re just dickheads.", "communities": [], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "askgaybros", "date": "2019-06-17 00:42:59", "timestamp": 1560724979.0 } }, { "id": "169962", "term": "princess wand", "definition": "A trans woman's penis.", "sentence": "I want to look as a woman but, I want to keep my member as Iā€™m happy with it (I nicknamed it my princess wand, lol).", "communities": [ "transgender" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "asktransgender", "date": "2024-12-10 15:48:09", "timestamp": 1733842089.0 } }, { "id": "134006", "term": "ambisextrous", "definition": "Said of a person, bisexual.", "sentence": "If you're bi then does that mean you are ambisextrous", "communities": [], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "BisexualTeens", "date": "2021-12-25 08:12:09", "timestamp": 1640416329.0 } }, { "id": "95799", "term": "gaydar", "definition": "A colloquialism referring to the intuitive ability of a person to assess others' sexual orientations as gay, bisexual or heterosexual. Gaydar relies on verbal and non-verbal clues and LGBTQ stereotypes. These include the sensitivity to social behaviors and mannerisms; for instance, acknowledging flamboyant body language, the tone of voice used by a person when speaking, overtly rejecting traditional gender roles, a person's occupation, and grooming habits.", "sentence": "Side note, I genuinely have a faulty gaydar.", "communities": [ "LGBTQ" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "lgbt", "date": "2025-06-15 04:50:39", "timestamp": 1749955839.0 } }, { "id": "141469", "term": "LGBT", "definition": "Initialism for lesbian, gay, bisexual, and transgender.", "sentence": "Not because I'm against LGBTQ+ being one community...mainly for the sake of visibility and understanding.", "communities": [], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "bisexual", "date": "2023-08-30 23:02:36", "timestamp": 1693429356.0 } }, { "id": "124011", "term": "fudge packer", "definition": "ā€¢ A male homosexual. \r\nā€¢ A person who practices anal sex.", "sentence": "Hi fellow fudge packers!", "communities": [ "gay male" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "askgaybros", "date": "2021-08-19 07:50:50", "timestamp": 1629352250.0 } }, { "id": "146423", "term": "hondose", "definition": "A low dose of hormone replacement therapy in a trans woman which produces inadequate feminization and fails to suppress testosterone.", "sentence": "So I ordered the results of my old blood tests and that's how I found out I was being hondosed.", "communities": [], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "asktransgender", "date": "2023-01-23 10:09:10", "timestamp": 1674464950.0 } }, { "id": "15763", "term": "bitch", "definition": "A pejorative slang term usually used for a woman who is considered unreasonable, malicious, a control freak, intrusive, or aggressive. It also has several other meanings, depending on the context.", "sentence": "But I'm also a bitch.", "communities": [ "gay male" ], "metadata": { "source": "Podcasts", "title": "I've Had It" } }, { "id": "169940", "term": "pre-T", "definition": "Not yet having undergone testosterone-based hormone replacement therapy.", "sentence": "Does anyone have experience of using minoxidil pre-t for facial hair growth and if so how long did it take, did it work, what did it do etc?", "communities": [ "transgender" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "transgenderUK", "date": "2024-11-07 03:56:41", "timestamp": 1730948201.0 } }, { "id": "116685", "term": "chubby bear", "definition": "A bear who is particularly large (\"bear\" meaning \"a gay or bisexual man who has facial/body hair and a cuddly body\").", "sentence": "My partner, however, is not interested in the least and is always disappointed that he canā€™t find a big chubby bear to work his body.", "communities": [ "chub", "bear" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "nycgaybros", "date": "2024-10-14 18:26:54", "timestamp": 1728923214.0 } }, { "id": "108181", "term": "t4t", "definition": "Short form of \"trans for trans\", indicating transgender persons interested in other transgender persons romantically and/or sexually.", "sentence": "We were both T4T so I felt safe in a relationship where she understood my gender identity as I understood hers.", "communities": [ "transgender" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "asexuality", "date": "2022-12-03 23:52:41", "timestamp": 1670107961.0 } }, { "id": "170454", "term": "spiro", "definition": "Clipping of spironolactone.", "sentence": "So the pharmacy screwed up and now my friend is short on spiro.", "communities": [ "transgender" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "lgbt", "date": "2020-12-12 20:48:34", "timestamp": 1607802514.0 } }, { "id": "127657", "term": "banjee girl", "definition": "A term related to (and sometimes synonymous with) banjee. Used to refer to transgender women, male-to-female cross-dressers, and drag queens as well as queer women in a general sense. Specific to Latinx and Black LGBTQIA+ communities.", "sentence": "Darienne Lakeā€™s Banjee girl look found in a dumpster on fire", "communities": [ "Latine LGBTQ", "African-American LGBTQ" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "rupaulsdragrace", "date": "2019-01-16 22:20:50", "timestamp": 1547673650.0 } }, { "id": "223137", "term": "straight", "definition": "Of a person, being sexually attracted to individuals of the opposite gender in a binary gender system; heterosexual.", "sentence": "OF COURSE STRAIGHT PEOPLE USE POPPERS.", "communities": [], "metadata": { "source": "OpenSubtitles", "title": "Longtime Companion", "imdb_id": "100049" } }, { "id": "110146", "term": "outie", "definition": "A term sometimes used to refer to the external genitalia of a transfeminine person.", "sentence": "I have a outie too, I was very shy about it because it's not what I saw in porn...", "communities": [ "transfeminine" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "actuallesbians", "date": "2022-03-19 08:45:32", "timestamp": 1647675932.0 } }, { "id": "119427", "term": "masc4masc", "definition": "A phrase used to describe a masculine gay man interested in other masculine gay men romantically and/or sexually.", "sentence": "If Iā€™m being honest, the majority of times Iā€™ve heard someone complain about Masc4Masc are guys that want a masculine dude but havenā€™t found him yet.", "communities": [ "gay male" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "gaybros", "date": "2024-11-19 19:48:51", "timestamp": 1732042131.0 } }, { "id": "101639", "term": "thembo", "definition": "A nonbinary or gender-neutral bimbo.", "sentence": "nothing wrong with a thembo vibe ;)", "communities": [ "nonbinary" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "lgbt", "date": "2021-08-13 19:21:22", "timestamp": 1628875282.0 } }, { "id": "113722", "term": "lesbian manicure", "definition": "A set of long, typically acrylic nails, with the exception of two short, plain nails, meant to accommodate fingering of the clitoris and vagina.", "sentence": "Can we all take a minute to appreciate Hormona's lesbian manicure in the challenge?", "communities": [ "lesbian" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "rupaulsdragrace", "date": "2025-02-01 10:30:55", "timestamp": 1738402255.0 } }, { "id": "99360", "term": "total top", "definition": "A total top is one who assumes an exclusively penetrative role for sex.", "sentence": "A total top, specifically.", "communities": [ "LGBTQ" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "bisexual", "date": "2024-12-10 14:08:48", "timestamp": 1733836128.0 } }, { "id": "203142", "term": "VT", "definition": "Initialism of voice training.", "sentence": "I find focusing on VT so darn hard lately and feel super depressed when I try to do some :(", "communities": [ "transgender" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "transgenderUK", "date": "2020-09-25 23:38:13", "timestamp": 1601069893.0 } }, { "id": "108564", "term": "boymode", "definition": "When a transgender person presents a gender expression codified as male, typically if that person is a transgender woman. Usually used in the context of going incognito as a cisgender man.", "sentence": "As an MtF - How long were you in Boymode?", "communities": [ "transgender", "transgender" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "asktransgender", "date": "2025-03-05 05:41:17", "timestamp": 1741149677.0 } }, { "id": "87840", "term": "top", "definition": "ā€¢ A \"top\" is an individual who acts as the \"giving\" partner in sexual encounters. Sometimes used as a self-descriptor within queer communities, but should be replicated with caution. Sometimes used as a verb (\"to top someone\"). Offensive if applied to LGBTQ+ individuals from outwith queer communities.\r\nā€¢ Someone, typically a man, who is penetrating someone else during sexual intercourse or someone who has a preference for penetrating during such intercourse.", "sentence": "Being a top is the best sometimes.", "communities": [ "LGBTQ" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "actuallesbians", "date": "2021-09-06 04:23:32", "timestamp": 1630895012.0 } }, { "id": "91785", "term": "faux queen", "definition": "A cis female performance artist who performs in female drag at drag shows, or acts like a drag queen.", "sentence": "I'm sure there are other women out there like me who live in communities where there aren't any drag queens, let alone faux queens.", "communities": [ "drag", "gay male" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "rupaulsdragrace", "date": "2013-12-15 00:28:41", "timestamp": 1387063721.0 } }, { "id": "102206", "term": "joyfriend", "definition": "A sexual and/or romantic partner of any gender, but usually a nonbinary person.", "sentence": "Ok joyfriend is the best term Iā€™ve heard for it, thatā€™s super creative and still gets the point across so basically: youā€™re brilliant, and Iā€™m using joyfriend from now on.", "communities": [ "nonbinary" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "LGBTeens", "date": "2020-03-16 04:35:52", "timestamp": 1584329752.0 } }, { "id": "103239", "term": "ace of spades", "definition": "A person who is asexual and aromantic.", "sentence": "Black rings are an ace thing, and youā€™re correct that the ace of spades is a symbol for aroaces.", "communities": [ "asexual", "aromantic" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "asexuality", "date": "2023-08-03 16:33:57", "timestamp": 1691073237.0 } }, { "id": "115099", "term": "chapstick lesbian", "definition": "A lesbian who exhibits some butch traits (short hair, stereotypical men's clothing, etc.) without wholly fitting the masculine butch stereotype; alternatively, a lesbian who is athletic or has a keen interest in sports.", "sentence": "id say chapstick lesbian/tomboy femme are her overall fashion vibes.", "communities": [ "lesbian" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "lesbianfashionadvice", "date": "2025-03-14 21:48:29", "timestamp": 1741985309.0 } }, { "id": "102270", "term": "joyfriend", "definition": "A sexual and/or romantic partner of any gender, but usually a nonbinary person.", "sentence": "And then my joyfriend stumbled into my life and now my heart belongs to them.", "communities": [ "nonbinary" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "NonBinary", "date": "2022-11-08 23:54:06", "timestamp": 1667948046.0 } }, { "id": "215391", "term": "bio queen", "definition": "A cis female performance artist who performs in female drag at drag shows, or acts like a drag queen.", "sentence": "She is the first bio queen to compete on Drag Race.", "communities": [], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "rupaulsdragrace", "date": "2021-09-28 16:03:15", "timestamp": 1632837795.0 } }, { "id": "107802", "term": "full-time", "definition": "A term which refers to a transgender person living as their gender for the entirety of their day-to-day life, at work, at home, etc.", "sentence": "Is it reasonable to have FFS and go full-time at the same time?", "communities": [ "transgender" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "TransSpace", "date": "2012-03-12 20:47:13", "timestamp": 1331581633.0 } }, { "id": "206438", "term": "throw shade", "definition": "To subtly insult someone.", "sentence": "Did he throw shade immediately after?", "communities": [], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "gaybros", "date": "2024-02-03 04:25:59", "timestamp": 1706930759.0 } }, { "id": "205363", "term": "lesboy", "definition": "A person who identifies as male and as a lesbian.", "sentence": "Im gender fluid and the term lesboy has exactly the kind of gender fuckery to me that gives me euphoria.", "communities": [], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "NonBinary", "date": "2024-10-17 23:42:19", "timestamp": 1729201339.0 } }, { "id": "228162", "term": "crush", "definition": "An infatuation with somebody, typically someone that one is not dating. By extension, the object of such infatuation or affection.", "sentence": "I think she has a crush on me or something..", "communities": [ "LGBTQ" ], "metadata": { "source": "OpenSubtitles", "title": "Lost and Delirious", "imdb_id": "245238" } }, { "id": "113870", "term": "boi", "definition": "An LGBTQIA+ slang term with multiple definitions; a boi might be a boyish lesbian, a submissive butch in the BDSM community, a younger transgender man or a transgender man early in transition, a younger bisexual or gay person who is somewhat feminine. Alternatively, some persons identifying with the term might fit none of these categories.", "sentence": "I don't necessarily want or need someone who is a high femme, but butch / boi energy usually does nothing for me sexually.", "communities": [ "lesbian", "transmasculine", "African-American LGBTQ" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "l4l", "date": "2018-05-16 12:33:40", "timestamp": 1526466820.0 } }, { "id": "143374", "term": "autofellatio", "definition": "Oral stimulation of one's own penis.", "sentence": "If you class autofellatio as a way of masturbating, then that doesn't have anything to do with asexuality.", "communities": [], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "asexuality", "date": "2014-08-05 15:05:01", "timestamp": 1407243901.0 } }, { "id": "76544", "term": "dyke", "definition": "Contested terminology. Slur for lesbian, highly offensive if applied to a lesbian or transmasc person externally. Term has been reclaimed by some lesbians communities, and is sometimes used affirmingly within communities.\"Bulldyke\" and \"bulldagger\" are often used to indicate butch or masculine queer women, sometimes with overtones of toughness or aggression.", "sentence": "Yours, an angry trans dyke", "communities": [], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "LGBTindia", "date": "2021-02-25 13:28:56", "timestamp": 1614256136.0 } }, { "id": "155441", "term": "poz friendly", "definition": "Willing to have sex with someone who is HIV positive by someone who is HIV negative.", "sentence": "To be clear, my profile clearly states that Iā€™m poz friendly and willing to date anyone i find attractive lol.", "communities": [ "gay" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "askgaybros", "date": "2023-10-04 15:19:52", "timestamp": 1696425592.0 } }, { "id": "106841", "term": "girlmode", "definition": "When a transgender person presents a gender expression codified as female, typically if that person is a transgender man. Usually used in the context of going incognito as a cisgender woman.", "sentence": "In girlmode I think a lot about what goes with what, colours, styles, accessories.", "communities": [ "transgender", "transgender" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "DualGender", "date": "2013-01-19 04:15:28", "timestamp": 1358565328.0 } }, { "id": "104090", "term": "stealth", "definition": "When a transgender person keeps their transgender status closely guarded, living as if they were cisgender as their identified gender.", "sentence": "If she's \"very stealth\" and you haven't been told she's trans what makes you think she is?", "communities": [ "transgender" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "actuallesbians", "date": "2024-09-03 10:36:13", "timestamp": 1725352573.0 } }, { "id": "101432", "term": "service bottom", "definition": "A service bottom is one who bottoms (acts as the \"receiving\" partner in sexual encounters) under the direction of an eager top (who acts as the \"giving\" partner in sexual encounters).", "sentence": "Iā€™m a submissive service bottom, but thatā€™s just too much.", "communities": [ "LGBTQ" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "MtF", "date": "2025-01-10 18:36:46", "timestamp": 1736530606.0 } }, { "id": "106873", "term": "girlmode", "definition": "When a transgender person presents a gender expression codified as female, typically if that person is a transgender man. Usually used in the context of going incognito as a cisgender woman.", "sentence": "Also I have a really big frame and am pretty overweight and I donā€™t look how I feel when I girlmode.", "communities": [ "transgender", "transgender" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "transgenderau", "date": "2024-06-23 11:14:37", "timestamp": 1719134077.0 } }, { "id": "205346", "term": "lesboy", "definition": "A person who identifies as male and as a lesbian.", "sentence": "(We forgot to inclood lesboy we'll edit this later)", "communities": [], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "lgbt", "date": "2024-11-15 06:18:40", "timestamp": 1731647920.0 } }, { "id": "120703", "term": "gym queen", "definition": "Refers to gay men that are into bodybuilding, many of whom are into steroids", "sentence": "Love a gym queen āœØāœØšŸ„°", "communities": [ "gay male" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "crossdressing", "date": "2024-06-05 07:51:08", "timestamp": 1717566668.0 } }, { "id": "169386", "term": "manmode", "definition": "The state of presenting as a man, regardless of one's actual gender identity, especially of a trans woman.", "sentence": "Iā€™m so tired of being rectangle and having to manmode in real life all the time just to get by without being targeted.", "communities": [ "transgender" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "trans", "date": "2025-06-17 17:47:29", "timestamp": 1750175249.0 } }, { "id": "212284", "term": "pansy", "definition": "Various flowers are used to refer to feminine gay men, though \"pansy\" is probably the most common. Associates gay men with misogynistic ideas of femininity; implies weakness, unthreateneaning appearance, cowardliness. Offensive, often used as an intentional slur.", "sentence": "I feel that he'll give me all kinds of crap for it, call me a pansy, say that I'm just not manly enough, etc.", "communities": [], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "asktransgender", "date": "2012-05-25 17:20:04", "timestamp": 1337959204.0 } }, { "id": "227370", "term": "drag queen", "definition": "ā€¢ A male entertainer who performs dressed as a woman; a female impersonator.\r\nā€¢ A male-to-female cross-dresser.", "sentence": "That drag queen is amazing, huh, Billy?", "communities": [], "metadata": { "source": "OpenSubtitles", "title": "Billy's Hollywood Screen Kiss", "imdb_id": "137386" } }, { "id": "224105", "term": "lesbian", "definition": "A girl or woman who is wholly or mostly sexually or romantically attracted to other girls or women.", "sentence": "Great lesbian couple who needs it.\"", "communities": [], "metadata": { "source": "OpenSubtitles", "title": "If These Walls Could Talk 2", "imdb_id": "206036" } }, { "id": "107774", "term": "bottom surgery", "definition": "A slang term used to refer to genital gender-affirming surgeries.", "sentence": "Transmen without bottom surgery?", "communities": [ "transgender" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "LGBTQ", "date": "2025-05-05 13:34:34", "timestamp": 1746444874.0 } }, { "id": "19849", "term": "tea", "definition": "Information, especially gossip.", "sentence": "Ooh, here's some tea.", "communities": [ "gay" ], "metadata": { "source": "Podcasts", "title": "Scheananigans with Scheana Shay" } }, { "id": "228802", "term": "hormones", "definition": "Hormone replacement therapy.", "sentence": "Which is why I'm starting to take hormones in a couple of weeks... and sometime next year, I'm going to have the surgery.", "communities": [ "transgender" ], "metadata": { "source": "OpenSubtitles", "title": "Normal", "imdb_id": "338290" } }, { "id": "118693", "term": "gold star gay", "definition": "A gay person who has never had sex with a person of the opposite gender.", "sentence": "And Iā€™m a gold star gay lady!", "communities": [ "gay male" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "LadyBoners", "date": "2025-07-16 23:15:20", "timestamp": 1752700520.0 } }, { "id": "73122", "term": "bicycle", "definition": "Used as slang for bisexual in the 1960s. Also more widely used to indicate promiscuity, esp for women; this usage is considered offensive.", "sentence": "Their bicycles cuz all genders can ride it", "communities": [], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "SuddenlyGay", "date": "2022-06-03 14:31:19", "timestamp": 1654259479.0 } }, { "id": "140155", "term": "BJ", "definition": "Initialism of blow job.", "sentence": "I donā€™t mind giving bj and handjob, it actually makes me alot more wet.", "communities": [], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "actuallesbians", "date": "2023-01-04 11:47:31", "timestamp": 1672829251.0 } }, { "id": "157835", "term": "bonus hole", "definition": "The vulva or vagina of a trans man.", "sentence": "Maybe topical estrogen or something directly on the bonus hole?", "communities": [ "transgender" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "ftm", "date": "2023-04-03 20:56:38", "timestamp": 1680548198.0 } }, { "id": "19979", "term": "tea", "definition": "Information, especially gossip.", "sentence": "On the topic though of people finding out tea from the internet first, Madeline Klein from Outer Banks has unfollowed her former castmate Rudy and his girlfriend Elaine on Instagram.", "communities": [ "gay" ], "metadata": { "source": "Podcasts", "title": "just a little shady" } }, { "id": "170448", "term": "spiro", "definition": "Clipping of spironolactone.", "sentence": "I hated spiro so much.", "communities": [ "transgender" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "lgbt", "date": "2023-10-17 16:54:12", "timestamp": 1697554452.0 } }, { "id": "115523", "term": "pillow princess", "definition": "A woman who likes to receive and not give, sexually.", "sentence": "Yes, pillow princesses do exist, and Iā€™m definitely one of them.", "communities": [ "lesbian" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "LGBTindia", "date": "2024-12-16 10:23:05", "timestamp": 1734340985.0 } }, { "id": "165196", "term": "estrogel", "definition": "Estradiol gel used in feminizing hormone replacement therapy.", "sentence": "Ive been on HRT for 3.5 months (200mg spiro and 3 mg estrogel) and i am noticing alot of breast growth already (started around 1 month mark for me).", "communities": [ "transgender" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "ask_transgender", "date": "2023-02-25 17:43:56", "timestamp": 1677343436.0 } }, { "id": "134018", "term": "androgynous", "definition": "Of clothing or accessories, making a person's identity as male or female not immediately apparent to observers.", "sentence": "I'm Androgynous and I find it hard in dating (I look more fem).", "communities": [], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "gaybros", "date": "2022-03-22 14:12:09", "timestamp": 1647954729.0 } }, { "id": "228153", "term": "crush", "definition": "An infatuation with somebody, typically someone that one is not dating. By extension, the object of such infatuation or affection.", "sentence": "I only had a crush.", "communities": [ "LGBTQ" ], "metadata": { "source": "OpenSubtitles", "title": "The Legend of Rita", "imdb_id": "234805" } }, { "id": "108563", "term": "boymode", "definition": "When a transgender person presents a gender expression codified as male, typically if that person is a transgender woman. Usually used in the context of going incognito as a cisgender man.", "sentence": "For my current job I'm still in boymode during working hours.", "communities": [ "transgender", "transgender" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "actuallesbians", "date": "2024-04-26 13:36:46", "timestamp": 1714131406.0 } }, { "id": "112517", "term": "celesbian", "definition": "A famous lesbian; a lesbian who is a celebrity.", "sentence": "But damn, dude, the celesbian drama is *real.", "communities": [ "lesbian" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "actuallesbians", "date": "2018-08-16 00:57:14", "timestamp": 1534373834.0 } }, { "id": "135644", "term": "AC/DC", "definition": "Said of a person, bisexual, referring to being attracted to women and men.", "sentence": "me on my way to listen to AC/DC now that I know itā€™s slang for bisexual", "communities": [], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "bisexual", "date": "2022-11-28 07:13:35", "timestamp": 1669616015.0 } }, { "id": "168436", "term": "hen", "definition": "The penis of a trans woman.", "sentence": "Anyone that has a problem with my choices can suck my female hen.", "communities": [ "transgender" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "asktransgender", "date": "2020-09-16 04:49:14", "timestamp": 1600224554.0 } }, { "id": "211294", "term": "faggoty", "definition": "A pejorative term used chiefly in North America primarily to refer to a gay man. Alongside its use to refer to gay men in particular, it may also be used as a pejorative term for a \"repellent man\" or to refer to women who are lesbian (or to transgender people, typically transgender women). Its use has spread from the United States to varying extents elsewhere in the English-speaking world through mass culture, including film, music, and the Internet.", "sentence": "When I was talking someone told me I sound faggoty.", "communities": [], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "askgaybros", "date": "2022-01-26 05:43:11", "timestamp": 1643172191.0 } }, { "id": "211656", "term": "fag hags", "definition": "A woman, typically a heterosexual one, possibly ageing, who prefers, enjoys, or seeks out the company of homosexual men. This term is offensive to gay men and misogynistic to heterosexual women. Once common, now rarely used within queer communities.", "sentence": "As usual there was the motley group of drag queens, leather men, geeks, nerds, students and fag hags that made up my family of choice.", "communities": [ "gay male" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "gaybros", "date": "2014-08-19 20:40:17", "timestamp": 1408473617.0 } }, { "id": "106669", "term": "repressor", "definition": "A transgender person who fights or represses the wish to change their gender expression.", "sentence": "And strangest of all, now that I've \"come out to myself\" all my anxieties around my body being a repressor's body have dissapeared.", "communities": [ "transgender" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "asktransgender", "date": "2022-06-15 21:59:39", "timestamp": 1655323179.0 } }, { "id": "117162", "term": "unicorn", "definition": "A bisexual woman who engages in a sexual, but usually non-romantic, relationship with a heterosexual couple.", "sentence": "I think about 40% of the likes I get on Her are from unicorn hunters.", "communities": [ "bisexual female" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "actuallesbians", "date": "2023-10-05 22:08:34", "timestamp": 1696536514.0 } }, { "id": "116831", "term": "cub", "definition": "A younger or younger-looking bear, sometimes with a smaller frame (\"bear\" meaning \"a gay or bisexual man who has facial/body hair and a cuddly body\").", "sentence": "I have been described as a Cub (facial hair, heavy set (I'm 6ft, 235pounds) ) and I have dated 3 men.", "communities": [ "gay", "bear" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "lgbt", "date": "2010-01-28 09:23:55", "timestamp": 1264667035.0 } }, { "id": "213169", "term": "gym bunny", "definition": "A sports enthusiast; usually one who frequents gyms and training grounds; often used of young gay men obsessed with body building.", "sentence": "I'm rugged, not a pretty boy or gym bunny.", "communities": [], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "gaybros", "date": "2018-06-08 18:55:41", "timestamp": 1528476941.0 } }, { "id": "78526", "term": "flip-flop", "definition": "Slang to indicate either 1) bisexuality or 2) a person that likes to switch between \"top\" and \"bottom\" roles during sex. Especially used by incarcerated people in the US.", "sentence": "Generally flip-flopping is more rare because sometimes one or the other is just in the mood to get banged and thus already prepared.", "communities": [], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "askgaybros", "date": "2016-12-13 05:39:00", "timestamp": 1481603940.0 } }, { "id": "169371", "term": "manmode", "definition": "The state of presenting as a man, regardless of one's actual gender identity, especially of a trans woman.", "sentence": "Im not sure hows the transscene in UK because ive been there only as a manmode years ago.", "communities": [ "transgender" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "asktransgender", "date": "2023-01-15 07:01:22", "timestamp": 1673762482.0 } }, { "id": "94308", "term": "drab", "definition": "An instance of a transgender or non-binary person presenting as the gender corresponding to their sex assigned at birth instead of that corresponding to their internal gender identity (most commonly a trans woman dressed as a man).", "sentence": "If I am in drab I like to wear an almost androgynous look, a black knit top and black or khaki pants.", "communities": [ "transgender", "drag", "transgender" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "transpositive", "date": "2017-05-31 16:31:27", "timestamp": 1496241087.0 } }, { "id": "146664", "term": "repper", "definition": "A person who has realised they are transgender but refuses to accept it and begin gender transition.", "sentence": "She would tease me about being an egg and a repper, and here I was, having no idea what any of those meant.", "communities": [], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "trans", "date": "2023-12-02 05:41:46", "timestamp": 1701492106.0 } }, { "id": "83511", "term": "gold star", "definition": "Slang for someone who has never had sex with someone of the opposite gender, sometimes including bisexual people of their own gender. Most commonly used in lesbian communities, now widely recognised as biphobic.", "sentence": "Is gold star still a thing?", "communities": [], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "actuallesbians", "date": "2024-03-01 04:14:07", "timestamp": 1709262847.0 } }, { "id": "77769", "term": "fag stag", "definition": "A heterosexual man who socializes predominantly with gay men.", "sentence": "What do you and your fag stag do together?", "communities": [ "gay male" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "gaybros", "date": "2012-04-03 22:40:39", "timestamp": 1333485639.0 } }, { "id": "106719", "term": "ewphoria", "definition": "A combination of gender euphoria with feelings of disgust, revulsion, or discomfort, resulting from one's gender identity being affirmed by bigoted, predatory, or creepy behavior by others.", "sentence": "\" The hateful things yelled at me just filled me with Ewphoria\"", "communities": [ "transgender", "transgender" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "NonBinary", "date": "2024-12-17 03:53:17", "timestamp": 1734403997.0 } }, { "id": "89134", "term": "top", "definition": "ā€¢ A \"top\" is an individual who acts as the \"giving\" partner in sexual encounters. Sometimes used as a self-descriptor within queer communities, but should be replicated with caution. Sometimes used as a verb (\"to top someone\"). Offensive if applied to LGBTQ+ individuals from outwith queer communities.\r\nā€¢ Someone, typically a man, who is penetrating someone else during sexual intercourse or someone who has a preference for penetrating during such intercourse.", "sentence": "Feeling like youĀ *have*Ā to top can actually kill your arousal.", "communities": [ "LGBTQ" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "AskLGBT", "date": "2025-06-10 20:34:46", "timestamp": 1749580486.0 } }, { "id": "154204", "term": "family", "definition": "ā€¢ The gay community.\r\nā€¢ Homosexual.", "sentence": "I have some great friends, but none of them are a part of the LGBTQ+ family and I would love to expand my circle.", "communities": [ "gay" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "l4l", "date": "2020-08-23 02:13:59", "timestamp": 1598141639.0 } }, { "id": "116738", "term": "front hole", "definition": "Slang for vagina, often used by transmasculine persons assigned female at birth.", "sentence": "You can get bottom surgery remaining your front hole!", "communities": [ "transmasculine" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "asktransgender", "date": "2024-04-08 20:42:09", "timestamp": 1712601729.0 } }, { "id": "146427", "term": "hondose", "definition": "A low dose of hormone replacement therapy in a trans woman which produces inadequate feminization and fails to suppress testosterone.", "sentence": "As for your dose, 6 sublingual isnā€™t a hondose but you should split it 3x a day.", "communities": [], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "MtF", "date": "2025-01-04 07:59:46", "timestamp": 1735973986.0 } }, { "id": "1579", "term": "lgbt", "definition": "Initialism for lesbian, gay, bisexual, and transgender.", "sentence": "He was instantly condemned as a transphobe by I think the Oxford University's LGBT society.", "communities": [], "metadata": { "source": "Podcasts", "title": "The Witch Trials of J.K. Rowling" } }, { "id": "106740", "term": "cis-tem", "definition": "Mainstream culture, controlled by the elites or government of a state, or a combination of them, which is oppressive to transgender persons.", "sentence": "Find any red pills in your house and make her take them so that she can see outside of the perspective of the CIS-tem", "communities": [ "transgender" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "transgendercirclejerk", "date": "2015-01-08 08:06:58", "timestamp": 1420700818.0 } }, { "id": "103447", "term": "top surgery", "definition": "A slang term used to refer to thoracic gender-affirming surgeries.", "sentence": "Love the fit, and congrats on top surgery!", "communities": [ "transgender" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "transpassing", "date": "2022-08-08 22:58:12", "timestamp": 1659992292.0 } }, { "id": "204394", "term": "folx", "definition": "Folks; people.", "sentence": "Like how many fucking times do us trans folx have to remind y'all that it's not okay to do that.", "communities": [], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "LGBTindia", "date": "2021-01-12 08:16:03", "timestamp": 1610435763.0 } }, { "id": "108690", "term": "boymode", "definition": "When a transgender person presents a gender expression codified as male, typically if that person is a transgender woman. Usually used in the context of going incognito as a cisgender man.", "sentence": "**beautiful woman:** ahaha yeah im in boymode", "communities": [ "transgender", "transgender" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "trans", "date": "2024-05-27 05:53:49", "timestamp": 1716782029.0 } }, { "id": "948", "term": "gender identity", "definition": "A personal identity one develops in childhood that one belongs to a gender category, multiple gender categories, or no gender categories.", "sentence": "Like that's how comfortable I've been made to feel in my gender identity.", "communities": [], "metadata": { "source": "Podcasts", "title": "If I Speak" } }, { "id": "115086", "term": "chapstick lesbian", "definition": "A lesbian who exhibits some butch traits (short hair, stereotypical men's clothing, etc.) without wholly fitting the masculine butch stereotype; alternatively, a lesbian who is athletic or has a keen interest in sports.", "sentence": "A chapstick lesbian, then, is not quite that.", "communities": [ "lesbian" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "actuallesbians", "date": "2024-10-08 06:21:43", "timestamp": 1728361303.0 } }, { "id": "170473", "term": "spiro", "definition": "Clipping of spironolactone.", "sentence": "Honestly, Spiro is ass for a lot of people, me included.", "communities": [ "transgender" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "asktransgender", "date": "2025-01-08 23:38:44", "timestamp": 1736375924.0 } }, { "id": "214518", "term": "punks", "definition": "A slang term with multiple meanings depending on context. Originally used to refer to a sex worker or prostitute, especially a passive or feminine gay man (or a bottom). By the early 20th century, used to refer to a person considered worthless or criminal in nature. By the 1970s, used to refer to punk rock, a punk rocker, or to the sociocultural movement associated with punk rock and its fans. In the modern gay male community, the term \"punk\" may refer to a smaller, typically younger gay man who is forced into a submissive role in prison settings by an older gay man. Also occasionally used as a synonym for \"clock\" or \"read\", i.e. when a cisgender person recognizes a person as transgender.", "sentence": "Who is saying TERFs are punks?", "communities": [ "transgender", "gay male" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "transgender", "date": "2023-04-16 22:03:22", "timestamp": 1681675402.0 } }, { "id": "203340", "term": "doll", "definition": "A transgender woman or transfeminine person.", "sentence": "What has more impact on a t-shirt: \"Protect the dolls\" or \"Protect trans people\" ?", "communities": [], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "asktransgender", "date": "2025-05-29 01:21:19", "timestamp": 1748474479.0 } }, { "id": "102257", "term": "joyfriend", "definition": "A sexual and/or romantic partner of any gender, but usually a nonbinary person.", "sentence": "I use joyfriend for the person I'm dating too!", "communities": [ "nonbinary" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "BisexualTeens", "date": "2022-06-04 16:52:18", "timestamp": 1654354338.0 } }, { "id": "127545", "term": "butch queen", "definition": "A gay man with a traditionally masculine gender expression.", "sentence": "always wondered why Mariah says she competes in the butch queen up in drags face category", "communities": [ "gay male" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "rupaulsdragrace", "date": "2017-08-30 00:11:28", "timestamp": 1504044688.0 } }, { "id": "228844", "term": "banjee", "definition": "A young Latino or African American gay man who dresses in stereotypical masculine urban fashion.", "sentence": "l'm giving you banjee.", "communities": [ "drag", "Latine LGBTQ", "African-American LGBTQ" ], "metadata": { "source": "OpenSubtitles", "title": "Precious", "imdb_id": "929632" } }, { "id": "116763", "term": "front hole", "definition": "Slang for vagina, often used by transmasculine persons assigned female at birth.", "sentence": "Prolly won't be allowed to have that front hole installed either.", "communities": [ "transmasculine" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "transgendercirclejerk", "date": "2018-08-27 04:43:01", "timestamp": 1535337781.0 } }, { "id": "113736", "term": "U-Haul lesbian", "definition": "A stereotype of lesbian relationships, referring to the joke that lesbians tend to move in together on the second date. It suggests an extreme inclination toward monogamy or committed relationships. It can be considered either complimentary or pejorative, depending on context.", "sentence": "Anyway, I was talking to him recently and I jokingly said I wasn't a U-haul lesbian with this new girl.", "communities": [], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "bisexual", "date": "2019-12-04 09:29:52", "timestamp": 1575448192.0 } }, { "id": "170452", "term": "spiro", "definition": "Clipping of spironolactone.", "sentence": "My Spiro has AE on it, didn't knew that varied from country to country", "communities": [ "transgender" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "lgbt", "date": "2025-01-02 18:26:06", "timestamp": 1735838766.0 } }, { "id": "119467", "term": "masc4masc", "definition": "A phrase used to describe a masculine gay man interested in other masculine gay men romantically and/or sexually.", "sentence": "Like whatever you like, just don't be rude or talk anyone down while doing your thing, and there's no need to put masc4masc on your profile.", "communities": [ "gay male" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "gay", "date": "2022-07-10 00:11:58", "timestamp": 1657404718.0 } }, { "id": "214788", "term": "switches", "definition": "ā€¢ LGBTQ+ community slang for someone who \"switches\" between the \"giving\" and \"receiving\" during sex. \"Vers\" is short for \"versatile.\" \"Switch\" is sometimes also used in a BDSM context, to indicate someone who \"switches\" between the dominant and submissive roles.\r\nā€¢ One who is willing to take either a submissive or a dominant role in a sexual relationship.", "sentence": "We are both switches, but I have a preference for topping and them for bottoming.", "communities": [ "LGBTQ" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "queer", "date": "2024-12-31 08:44:45", "timestamp": 1735631085.0 } }, { "id": "113715", "term": "carpet muncher", "definition": "A lesbian", "sentence": "She also allowed him to be lesbophobic towards me, calling me a d\\*ke and a carpet muncher and making fun of my armpit and leg hair.", "communities": [ "lesbian" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "transgenderUK", "date": "2024-03-19 20:04:47", "timestamp": 1710875087.0 } }, { "id": "151306", "term": "boywife", "definition": "A young male assuming the employment of homemaking, a role traditionally assumed by women; the submissive partner in the relationship who receives great pleasure in \"taking care\" of his more dominant partner.", "sentence": "But if you and your partner are fine with boywife and you want to subvert tropes, that's the word you should use regardless of wether \"it's a thing\" or not.", "communities": [ "gay" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "NonBinary", "date": "2025-01-02 10:45:19", "timestamp": 1735811119.0 } }, { "id": "73476", "term": "bottom", "definition": "ā€¢ A \"bottom\" is an individual who acts as the \"receiving\" partner in sexual encounters. Sometimes used as a self-descriptor within queer communities, but should be replicated with caution. Sometimes used as a verb (\"to bottom for someone\"). Offensive if applied to LGBTQ+ individuals from outwith queer communities.\r\nā€¢ Someone, typically a man, who is penetrated during sexual intercourse or someone who has a preference for being penetrated during such intercourse.\r\nā€¢ The buttocks.\r\nā€¢ Genitalia; genitals.", "sentence": "I had zero bottom dysphoria until I fully socially transitioned.", "communities": [ "gay", "LGBTQ" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "asktransgender", "date": "2024-05-23 15:55:10", "timestamp": 1716472510.0 } }, { "id": "99284", "term": "power bottom", "definition": "A power bottom is someone who aggressively enjoys being the receptive partner.", "sentence": "The bird is sitting on the eggs like a power bottom would sit on a d1ck šŸ˜‚", "communities": [ "LGBTQ" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "gay", "date": "2017-05-29 20:35:55", "timestamp": 1496082955.0 } }, { "id": "126879", "term": "bareback", "definition": "Sexual activity without the use of a condom.", "sentence": "So many guys on dating apps get super pushy when I tell them I don't do bareback.", "communities": [ "gay male" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "gaybros", "date": "2021-08-22 21:32:55", "timestamp": 1629660775.0 } }, { "id": "204335", "term": "folx", "definition": "Folks; people.", "sentence": "You only owe yourself and explanation and the folx you are dating or want to be with.", "communities": [], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "questioning", "date": "2023-09-29 12:20:54", "timestamp": 1695982854.0 } }, { "id": "108914", "term": "girl juice", "definition": "A slang term referring to injectable feminizing hormones.", "sentence": "is picking up their first dose of girl juice today!!!!!", "communities": [ "transfeminine" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "mypartneristrans", "date": "2024-05-10 15:14:42", "timestamp": 1715346882.0 } }, { "id": "120732", "term": "twunk", "definition": "A gay man with the certain twink (meaning ā€œyoung, attractive, slim maleā€) stereotype elements that has a hunky (strong, muscular, etc.) physique.", "sentence": "He do be an emo twunk tho.", "communities": [ "gay", "gay male" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "gaymers", "date": "2023-04-17 06:45:07", "timestamp": 1681706707.0 } }, { "id": "115062", "term": "baby butch", "definition": "A young butch or boyish lesbian or a butch or boyish lesbian who is perceived to be young, regardless of age.", "sentence": "I salute you baby butchā€¦ I do.. We need so many more like you...", "communities": [ "lesbian" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "actuallesbians", "date": "2016-04-08 09:41:38", "timestamp": 1460101298.0 } }, { "id": "84568", "term": "lipstick lesbian", "definition": "Usually refers to a lesbian with a feminine gender expression. Can be used in a positive or a derogatory way, depending on who is using it. Is sometimes also used to refer to a lesbian who is seen as automatically \"passing\" for heterosexual.", "sentence": "- Lipstick lesbian ā€”> made by a person who didnā€™t consider poc and trans lesbians ā€œrealā€ lesbians, no longer in use.", "communities": [ "lesbian" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "lgbt", "date": "2023-12-17 22:24:10", "timestamp": 1702848250.0 } }, { "id": "146087", "term": "fembrained", "definition": "Being a transgender person who acts and thinks like a woman.", "sentence": "I been on hrt for two years pretty much everything I do is fembrained šŸ˜‚ I was kinda like it pre e just didn't know it", "communities": [], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "MtF", "date": "2025-06-22 16:12:44", "timestamp": 1750601564.0 } }, { "id": "1323", "term": "unicorn", "definition": "A bisexual woman who engages in a sexual, but usually non-romantic, relationship with a heterosexual couple.", "sentence": "As a bisexual millennial myself I am all too familiar with the term unicorn.", "communities": [ "bisexual female" ], "metadata": { "source": "Podcasts", "title": "40ish" } }, { "id": "116753", "term": "front hole", "definition": "Slang for vagina, often used by transmasculine persons assigned female at birth.", "sentence": "I personally like terms like front hole, bonus hole, malebox, manhole and mancave.", "communities": [ "transmasculine" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "ftm", "date": "2023-07-09 22:43:17", "timestamp": 1688935397.0 } }, { "id": "99545", "term": "gaymer", "definition": "Gay persons who have active interest in video games or tabletop games.", "sentence": "The fun doesn't end, cuz the Gaymer Pride after-party is at Coexist Gaming!", "communities": [ "LGBTQ" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "nycgaymers", "date": "2023-06-14 19:54:43", "timestamp": 1686765283.0 } }, { "id": "79778", "term": "friend of dorothy", "definition": "Coded slang for gay. Referring to gay icon Judy Garland's Dorothy in The Wizard of Oz.", "sentence": "During the days of WW2 and even after WW2, gay men used to Identify each other by asking ''Are you a friend of Dorothy?''", "communities": [ "gay male" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "GayBroTeens", "date": "2024-02-10 18:39:11", "timestamp": 1707586751.0 } }, { "id": "151594", "term": "chubby", "definition": "An overweight or obese gay man.", "sentence": "This isn't to say that people like chasers or muscle bears who like chubby guys don't exist, it's just it my experience there is less of them.", "communities": [ "gay" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "gaybros", "date": "2021-12-29 03:35:09", "timestamp": 1640745309.0 } }, { "id": "106766", "term": "girlmode", "definition": "When a transgender person presents a gender expression codified as female, typically if that person is a transgender man. Usually used in the context of going incognito as a cisgender woman.", "sentence": "I feel like I finally will be able to pass better as a guy in boymode and I'll finally come off as queer in girlmode.", "communities": [ "transgender", "transgender" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "genderqueer", "date": "2015-01-10 21:28:18", "timestamp": 1420921698.0 } }, { "id": "108055", "term": "transition goal", "definition": "A transgender person's goals for transition, or an example of what they would like to achieve for such a transition (for example, pointing to an actor or musician of their desired gender expression and declaring that person \"transition goals\").", "sentence": "I have an unrealistic transition goal now.", "communities": [ "transgender" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "demisexuality", "date": "2020-07-21 16:20:42", "timestamp": 1595341242.0 } }, { "id": "108968", "term": "girldick", "definition": "A transgender woman's penis.", "sentence": "I noticed some bottom dysphoria last winter, which was weird because I'd always loved my girldick and loved using her.", "communities": [ "transgender", "transfeminine" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "asktransgender", "date": "2022-02-11 21:57:36", "timestamp": 1644613056.0 } }, { "id": "116772", "term": "seahorse dad", "definition": "Slang term for a transgender man who is carrying, or has carried, a child to term.", "sentence": "I think some cis men would be seahorse dads too if given the opportunity.", "communities": [ "transmasculine" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "ftm", "date": "2024-04-29 21:51:59", "timestamp": 1714420319.0 } }, { "id": "109038", "term": "titty skittle", "definition": "Oral estrogen taken by transgender woman and other transfeminine people.", "sentence": "Lol @ titty skittles.", "communities": [ "transgender", "transfeminine" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "transtimelines", "date": "2016-05-17 11:49:17", "timestamp": 1463478557.0 } }, { "id": "83351", "term": "giver", "definition": "Slang for the \"active\" role during gay sex. The giver/taker binary is now largely acknowledged as artificial and heteronormative.", "sentence": "Iā€™m wonder if people put their preferences (whether they are a giver or receiver or both) right there or if you wait till the first date?", "communities": [], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "bisexual", "date": "2019-12-12 09:33:09", "timestamp": 1576139589.0 } }, { "id": "91813", "term": "realness", "definition": "The state of being real; the ability to blend or pass as heterosexual or cisgender; the quality of passing as a particular role in a particular circumstance.", "sentence": "Nah, itā€™s giving Sailor Starlights realness.", "communities": [ "drag", "gay male" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "gaymers", "date": "2022-11-29 18:02:31", "timestamp": 1669741351.0 } }, { "id": "99369", "term": "total top", "definition": "A total top is one who assumes an exclusively penetrative role for sex.", "sentence": "He's total top and has a bit of a dom, he's tall and very confident.", "communities": [ "LGBTQ" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "askgaybros", "date": "2023-05-13 20:15:17", "timestamp": 1684001717.0 } }, { "id": "89889", "term": "twink", "definition": "ā€¢ Slang term widely used in gay communities to describe a young or young-looking man with little or no facial or body hair. Can be pejorative, but can also be a self-descriptor.\r\nā€¢ A young, attractive, slim male, usually having little body hair.", "sentence": "The \"You were cuter when you were a twink\" is the worst one.", "communities": [ "gay", "gay male" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "gaybros", "date": "2023-05-25 10:57:00", "timestamp": 1685005020.0 } }, { "id": "170030", "term": "prog", "definition": "Progesterone.", "sentence": "I am on mono-therapy and have been taking prog for just over a year now and my T levels have been just as low as before I started.", "communities": [ "transgender" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "asktransgender", "date": "2025-05-10 18:24:03", "timestamp": 1746894243.0 } }, { "id": "106786", "term": "girlmode", "definition": "When a transgender person presents a gender expression codified as female, typically if that person is a transgender man. Usually used in the context of going incognito as a cisgender woman.", "sentence": "I can girlmode if I want to, but I do have long hair which makes it easier.", "communities": [ "transgender", "transgender" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "ftm", "date": "2025-01-09 22:01:33", "timestamp": 1736456493.0 } }, { "id": "75550", "term": "chaser", "definition": "Short for \"tranny chaser.\" A person who sees trans people (usually trans women) as inherently sexual, and sexually objectifies them. As opposed to someone who simply is predominantly attracted to trans women; a chaser does not view trans women respectfully as people with humanity and agency, but rather as players in a sexual fantasy.", "sentence": "Is basically undeniable that the vast majority of chasers, in general, are cis guys, sometimes, maybe quite rarely, I have came across some lesbians who were both trans and chasers.", "communities": [], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "ftm", "date": "2023-10-03 10:48:12", "timestamp": 1696322892.0 } }, { "id": "158902", "term": "duderus", "definition": "The uterus of a trans man.", "sentence": "i love you guys and want to share lack of duderus-leakage with you all.", "communities": [ "transgender" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "ftm", "date": "2014-07-16 11:20:52", "timestamp": 1405502452.0 } }, { "id": "114719", "term": "bambi lesbian", "definition": "A lesbian who identifies as bambi-sexual, i.e. being more interested in kissing, carressing, cuddling, etc. than genital stimulation or sexual intercourse.", "sentence": "Like, no offense, but i dont think bambi lesbians ( or ace lesbians ) gives a single f4ck if they see two women giving eachother cunnilingus.", "communities": [ "lesbian" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "asexuality", "date": "2025-03-29 19:00:31", "timestamp": 1743271231.0 } }, { "id": "227895", "term": "shade", "definition": "A slang term referring to a kind of insult, typically non-verbal in nature. Journalist Anna Holmes called shade \"the art of the sidelong insult\". Merriam-Webster defines it as \"subtle, sneering expression of contempt for or disgust with someoneā€”sometimes verbal, and sometimes not\".", "sentence": "They're throwing shade at him!", "communities": [ "drag" ], "metadata": { "source": "OpenSubtitles", "title": "Paris Is Burning", "imdb_id": "100332" } }, { "id": "110408", "term": "Eve's apple", "definition": "A transfeminine slang term coined to replace the masculine sounding \"Adam's apple\".", "sentence": "All of that to say, the Eve's apple sounds like a throat clitoris to me, oops.", "communities": [ "transfeminine" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "traaaaaaannnnnnnnnns", "date": "2021-05-13 14:26:02", "timestamp": 1620908762.0 } }, { "id": "1571", "term": "lgbt", "definition": "Initialism for lesbian, gay, bisexual, and transgender.", "sentence": "It's part of a moral panic that takes any instance of educating kids that LGBT subjects exist and redresses it as grooming.", "communities": [], "metadata": { "source": "Podcasts", "title": "Bittersweet Infamy" } }, { "id": "96285", "term": "versatile bottom", "definition": "A versatile bottom is one who prefers to bottom (act as the \"receiving\" partner in sexual encounters) but who tops (acts as the \"giving\" partner in sexual encounters) occasionally.", "sentence": "And there are versatile bottoms too.", "communities": [ "LGBTQ" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "gay", "date": "2016-12-03 17:00:08", "timestamp": 1480780808.0 } }, { "id": "229023", "term": "outie", "definition": "A term sometimes used to refer to the external genitalia of a transfeminine person.", "sentence": "Then you take out the inside of the penis... and pull it inside out, making what was once an outie an innie.", "communities": [ "transfeminine" ], "metadata": { "source": "OpenSubtitles", "title": "Normal", "imdb_id": "338290" } }, { "id": "127677", "term": "down low", "definition": "Typically referring to a man who identifies publicly as heterosexual, but engages in covert sexual relationships with other men.", "sentence": "Since this sort enables an even worse group of toxic, homophobic down low men who harbor many abusers/sexual abusers amongst their spaces.", "communities": [ "African-American gay male" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "gay", "date": "2025-06-08 02:51:10", "timestamp": 1749343870.0 } }, { "id": "211098", "term": "eggs", "definition": "Slang term (originating online) for a person who has not yet realised they are transgender, has not yet come out, or is in the early stages of transitioning. Usually used (fondly) by trans people to recognise when aspects of someone's personality or behavior remind them of gender-related aspects of themselves before they realized they were trans.", "sentence": "She's 100% straight but somehow has been attracted to eggs.", "communities": [ "transgender" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "trans", "date": "2023-10-09 17:06:24", "timestamp": 1696863984.0 } }, { "id": "164177", "term": "E", "definition": "Abbreviation of estrogen or estradiol.", "sentence": "(20/11/2024 for reference - same dosages, except E was being taken orally)", "communities": [ "transgender" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "transgenderau", "date": "2025-02-25 07:16:30", "timestamp": 1740464190.0 } }, { "id": "115067", "term": "baby butch", "definition": "A young butch or boyish lesbian or a butch or boyish lesbian who is perceived to be young, regardless of age.", "sentence": "I personally don't see it that way, there are a lot of styles of butches and I see baby butch as someone who's still finding their voice.", "communities": [ "lesbian" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "AskLGBT", "date": "2025-03-18 01:32:30", "timestamp": 1742257950.0 } }, { "id": "142293", "term": "LGBT", "definition": "Initialism for lesbian, gay, bisexual, and transgender.", "sentence": "Idk I get a huge feeling like I'm an imposter when I look at LGBT posts.", "communities": [], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "questioning", "date": "2025-06-20 22:31:33", "timestamp": 1750451493.0 } }, { "id": "118714", "term": "gold star gay", "definition": "A gay person who has never had sex with a person of the opposite gender.", "sentence": "By gold star gay I'm refferong to those gay men who have never had sexual nor romantic activity with women.", "communities": [ "gay male" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "askgaybros", "date": "2020-12-04 23:28:54", "timestamp": 1607120934.0 } }, { "id": "210981", "term": "eggs", "definition": "Slang term (originating online) for a person who has not yet realised they are transgender, has not yet come out, or is in the early stages of transitioning. Usually used (fondly) by trans people to recognise when aspects of someone's personality or behavior remind them of gender-related aspects of themselves before they realized they were trans.", "sentence": "That's messed up, and it can even make people who actually WERE eggs go further back in the closet out of fear.", "communities": [ "transgender" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "asktransgender", "date": "2024-04-28 16:14:48", "timestamp": 1714313688.0 } }, { "id": "169821", "term": "pre-E", "definition": "Not yet having undergone estrogen-based hormone replacement therapy.", "sentence": "So I'm 23 amab and I'm wondering if one can exercise to get a feminine form/figure pre-E.", "communities": [ "transgender" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "NonBinary", "date": "2024-01-16 05:58:01", "timestamp": 1705381081.0 } }, { "id": "229117", "term": "swishy", "definition": "Slang for a feminine gay man, originating from 1930s USA. Not especially offensive, but should still be accompanied by clearer LGBTQ+ terminology to aid discoverability.", "sentence": "And to top that off, I'm a gay black man, notoriously, the most swishy of the bunch.", "communities": [], "metadata": { "source": "OpenSubtitles", "title": "Chasing Amy", "imdb_id": "118842" } }, { "id": "115078", "term": "chapstick lesbian", "definition": "A lesbian who exhibits some butch traits (short hair, stereotypical men's clothing, etc.) without wholly fitting the masculine butch stereotype; alternatively, a lesbian who is athletic or has a keen interest in sports.", "sentence": "Plenty of chapstick lesbians might wear a ball cap and pants.", "communities": [ "lesbian" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "actuallesbians", "date": "2025-02-13 01:30:21", "timestamp": 1739406621.0 } }, { "id": "95561", "term": "service top", "definition": "A service top is one who tops (acts as the \"giving\" partner in sexual encounters) under the direction of an eager bottom (who acts as the \"receiving\" partner in sexual encounters).", "sentence": "One who really enjoys having her penis and being a polyamorous service top!", "communities": [ "LGBTQ" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "transgendercirclejerk", "date": "2022-05-09 15:09:58", "timestamp": 1652101798.0 } }, { "id": "79776", "term": "friend of dorothy", "definition": "Coded slang for gay. Referring to gay icon Judy Garland's Dorothy in The Wizard of Oz.", "sentence": "It could be seen as judgmental and exclusionary, as opposed to Friend of Dorothy, which had no negative connotations.", "communities": [ "gay male" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "asexuality", "date": "2022-07-18 01:59:51", "timestamp": 1658102391.0 } }, { "id": "99805", "term": "closeted", "definition": "An adjective referring to an LGBTQIA+ person or persons who have not disclosed their status as LGBTQIA+ and other related aspects of their life. More broadly, it can also be used to describe anyone who is hiding part of their identity because of social pressure.", "sentence": "Now that Iā€™m in the military and experiencing small town, conservative America for the first time, Iā€™m blown away by the sheer number of closeted/repressed gay men.", "communities": [ "LGBTQ" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "gaybros", "date": "2023-04-06 03:15:36", "timestamp": 1680743736.0 } }, { "id": "115138", "term": "soft butch", "definition": "A lesbian who exhibits some stereotypical butch traits without fitting the masculine stereotype associated with butch lesbians.", "sentence": "wishing I had my own lovely soft butch :(", "communities": [ "lesbian" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "actuallesbians", "date": "2017-07-12 03:27:54", "timestamp": 1499822874.0 } }, { "id": "157387", "term": "twinky", "definition": "Being or resembling a twink (ā€œyoung, attractive, slim maleā€).", "sentence": "I wanna be buff so bad šŸ˜­ bur Iā€™m just a twinky little boy šŸ˜‚", "communities": [ "gay" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "bisexual", "date": "2024-08-01 06:29:46", "timestamp": 1722486586.0 } }, { "id": "170461", "term": "spiro", "definition": "Clipping of spironolactone.", "sentence": "so, if she were to stop taking spiro i suspect that her T levels may rise _a little_ but not to anything too crazy.", "communities": [ "transgender" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "asktransgender", "date": "2025-01-08 21:39:53", "timestamp": 1736368793.0 } }, { "id": "126869", "term": "bareback", "definition": "Sexual activity without the use of a condom.", "sentence": "About 7 months ago I had unprotected bareback sex as a top, stupid I know.", "communities": [ "gay male" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "lgbt", "date": "2019-04-21 04:14:04", "timestamp": 1555812844.0 } }, { "id": "95873", "term": "gaydar", "definition": "A colloquialism referring to the intuitive ability of a person to assess others' sexual orientations as gay, bisexual or heterosexual. Gaydar relies on verbal and non-verbal clues and LGBTQ stereotypes. These include the sensitivity to social behaviors and mannerisms; for instance, acknowledging flamboyant body language, the tone of voice used by a person when speaking, overtly rejecting traditional gender roles, a person's occupation, and grooming habits.", "sentence": "For example: i have a colleague who is married and has 3 children, but pings my gaydar HARD.", "communities": [ "LGBTQ" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "actuallesbians", "date": "2024-07-07 23:24:20", "timestamp": 1720387460.0 } }, { "id": "120677", "term": "hunty", "definition": "A portmanteau of \"honey\" and \"cunt\", usually considered a term of supposed endearment.", "sentence": "Honestly it made everything so much more fun, even though it sounded very much like a straight white girl saying, \"yes momma, we are sipping that true T hunty.", "communities": [ "gay male" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "lgbt", "date": "2024-06-07 07:12:18", "timestamp": 1717737138.0 } }, { "id": "103267", "term": "cissplain", "definition": "To explain transgender issues, people or behavior to a trans person (as a cis person) in a condescending manner, presuming the listenerā€™s inferior understanding.", "sentence": "No, we don't want cissplaining.", "communities": [ "transgender" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "transgender", "date": "2024-10-16 20:29:57", "timestamp": 1729103397.0 } }, { "id": "1013", "term": "cunt", "definition": "ā€¢ The anus of a trans woman.\nā€¢ The inguinal canals of a trans woman.\nā€¢ Amazing or very good.", "sentence": "She's serving cunt all the time.", "communities": [ "transgender" ], "metadata": { "source": "Podcasts", "title": "Why Won't You Date Me? with Nicole Byer" } }, { "id": "169492", "term": "orchi", "definition": "Clipping of orchiectomy.", "sentence": "As far as future surgeries I would go for an orchi after a year, and trachea shave.", "communities": [ "transgender" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "transpassing", "date": "2025-07-08 03:57:04", "timestamp": 1751939824.0 } }, { "id": "218558", "term": "girl", "definition": "Sometimes used as a slur for a gay man, assuming that being \"feminine\" is \"lower status.\" Therefore offensive to gay men and to women more generally. More often used as a (now widely recognised) term of affection between gay men, though more likely as a friendly term than as a romantic one.", "sentence": "I'll make it real, girl", "communities": [], "metadata": { "source": "OpenSubtitles", "title": "In the Flesh", "imdb_id": "480514" } }, { "id": "75470", "term": "chaser", "definition": "Short for \"tranny chaser.\" A person who sees trans people (usually trans women) as inherently sexual, and sexually objectifies them. As opposed to someone who simply is predominantly attracted to trans women; a chaser does not view trans women respectfully as people with humanity and agency, but rather as players in a sexual fantasy.", "sentence": "We're *not* trying to condemn all folks who do sex work, we're trying to keep a lot of chasers and a lot of predators *out* of our communities.", "communities": [], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "MtF", "date": "2024-01-03 20:44:12", "timestamp": 1704311052.0 } }, { "id": "204014", "term": "fishy queen", "definition": "A drag queen who adopts a particularly feminine appearance.", "sentence": "People saying Viola Davis over Acid \"Least Fishy Queen Ever\" Betty for season 8 perplexes me.", "communities": [], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "rupaulsdragrace", "date": "2017-08-15 13:52:46", "timestamp": 1502797966.0 } }, { "id": "210085", "term": "bears", "definition": "ā€¢ Community term with multiple meanings. 1. A gay or bisexual man who has facial/body hair and a cuddly body. 2. An umbrella term that refers to members of a subculture in the gay and bisexual male communities and is often defined as more of an attitude or sense of comfort with natural masculinity and bodies.\nā€¢ In male gay culture, a bear is often a larger, hairier man who projects an image of rugged masculinity.", "sentence": "Of course we love bears, men with hair on them are the best!", "communities": [ "bear" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "lgbt", "date": "2024-01-23 16:29:02", "timestamp": 1706023742.0 } }, { "id": "86325", "term": "stud", "definition": "ā€¢ Community term for an African-American and/or Latinx masculine queer woman. Also known as \"ag.\" Only use if someone self-describes in this way, and avoid using for white people, as this is a term specifically developed by and for African-American and Latinx communities.\nā€¢ A masculine or butch lesbian; predominantly utilized in Black and Latina lesbian communities. Should not be used by individuals outside of those communities, as it may be seen as pejorative. Sometimes expanded to refer to other gender identities and expressions.", "sentence": "My Black lesbian married neighbors tell me I had a stud hitting on me at work, and she was white.", "communities": [ "lesbian", "Latine lesbian", "African-American lesbian" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "lesbian", "date": "2025-01-02 22:59:56", "timestamp": 1735855196.0 } }, { "id": "149188", "term": "serve cunt", "definition": "To act in a powerfully and unapologetically feminine manner.", "sentence": "some days, i serve cunt and other days, i serve plain t-shirt lol", "communities": [ "drag" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "NonBinary", "date": "2025-02-12 08:27:19", "timestamp": 1739345239.0 } }, { "id": "158120", "term": "crack", "definition": "To realize that one is transgender.", "sentence": "Reportedly the original saying was \"when an egg cracks, a chick comes out,\" which is transfem specific, but as far as I know it is used more generally now.", "communities": [ "transgender" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "asktransgender", "date": "2025-01-12 23:08:18", "timestamp": 1736719698.0 } }, { "id": "146659", "term": "repper", "definition": "A person who has realised they are transgender but refuses to accept it and begin gender transition.", "sentence": "If you have genuine pain and dysphoria please don't become a repper(someone who stops themselves from transitioning) just because you have negative connotations of men.", "communities": [], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "asktransgender", "date": "2025-02-14 17:20:09", "timestamp": 1739550009.0 } }, { "id": "120662", "term": "friend of Dorothy", "definition": "Coded slang for gay. Referring to gay icon Judy Garland's Dorothy in The Wizard of Oz.", "sentence": "Back during WW2, American and British soldiers would say ā€œIā€™m a friend of Dorothyā€ (as the actress from The Wizard of Oz supported the LGBT community, unsure about T but)", "communities": [], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "askgaybros", "date": "2020-11-06 17:30:09", "timestamp": 1604680209.0 } }, { "id": "157894", "term": "clockable", "definition": "Of a transgender person or drag performer: able to be clocked; capable of being noticed or recognized as transgender; not passing.", "sentence": "It just... does make me a bit clockable.", "communities": [ "transgender" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "asktransgender", "date": "2023-05-20 02:52:41", "timestamp": 1684543961.0 } }, { "id": "113665", "term": "high femme", "definition": "A femme person who expresses their gender in ultra feminine ways. Often, but not exclusively, this refers to a queer woman.", "sentence": "I appreciate high femme women, I could never achieve the makeup artistry and I just simply melt when one looks at me and winks.", "communities": [ "lesbian" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "actuallesbians", "date": "2021-04-28 18:23:09", "timestamp": 1619626989.0 } }, { "id": "214261", "term": "Molly", "definition": "Women's names have often been appropriated as slurs for gay men, especially for feminine gay men and transfeminine people. \"Nancy\" is probably the most common, across the 20th Century globally. All are offensive.", "sentence": "A molly house was basically a gay brothel.", "communities": [], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "gay", "date": "2022-07-08 08:49:12", "timestamp": 1657262952.0 } }, { "id": "110405", "term": "Eve's apple", "definition": "A transfeminine slang term coined to replace the masculine sounding \"Adam's apple\".", "sentence": "I have cleared about 1 - 1.5 inches around the base of my neck (over my Eve's apple).", "communities": [ "transfeminine" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "MtF", "date": "2021-11-14 18:32:49", "timestamp": 1636911169.0 } }, { "id": "162168", "term": "E", "definition": "Abbreviation of estrogen or estradiol.", "sentence": "In a few days, I go to the doctor to get my e levels tested for the first time.", "communities": [ "transgender" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "transhealth", "date": "2021-05-22 13:30:56", "timestamp": 1621683056.0 } }, { "id": "169975", "term": "princess wand", "definition": "A trans woman's penis.", "sentence": "Iā€™m 2 years hrt mtf, I want bottom surgery more than anything, so Iā€™ll soon be starting the lengthy process of getting electrolysis done on and around my princess wand.", "communities": [ "transgender" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "trans", "date": "2025-05-22 17:48:30", "timestamp": 1747928910.0 } }, { "id": "141397", "term": "LGBT", "definition": "Initialism for lesbian, gay, bisexual, and transgender.", "sentence": "Whereas the LGBT population is only 45% (still high, but not what's being shown above).", "communities": [], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "lgbt", "date": "2025-06-28 21:26:31", "timestamp": 1751138791.0 } }, { "id": "108047", "term": "transition goal", "definition": "A transgender person's goals for transition, or an example of what they would like to achieve for such a transition (for example, pointing to an actor or musician of their desired gender expression and declaring that person \"transition goals\").", "sentence": "Jadzia Dax is fucking transition goals.", "communities": [ "transgender" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "genderfluid", "date": "2022-01-13 19:45:03", "timestamp": 1642099503.0 } }, { "id": "99789", "term": "queer coding", "definition": "A situation in which a character is given traits or behaviors which suggest they are not heterosexual and/or cisgender, without the character being outright confirmed as having such an identity.", "sentence": "Maybe you could make it a metaphor instead of directly having queer coding, is there any particular story?", "communities": [ "LGBTQ" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "BisexualTeens", "date": "2021-07-22 16:20:55", "timestamp": 1626963655.0 } }, { "id": "168255", "term": "girlballs", "definition": "The testicles of a trans woman.", "sentence": "Sex and Erotisicm āœ…āœ…āœ…āœ…āœ…āœ… There's atleast one post talking of girlballs or manpussy every day", "communities": [ "transgender" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "transgendercirclejerk", "date": "2022-05-19 21:52:28", "timestamp": 1652989948.0 } }, { "id": "116819", "term": "panda bear", "definition": "A somewhat derogatory term sometimes used to refer to an Asian gay man who is considered a bear (\"bear\" meaning \"a gay or bisexual man who has facial/body hair and a cuddly body\").", "sentence": "Was not born a twink, more of a burly panda bear currently.", "communities": [ "bear" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "askgaybros", "date": "2021-09-24 17:08:58", "timestamp": 1632496138.0 } }, { "id": "90357", "term": "twink", "definition": "ā€¢ Slang term widely used in gay communities to describe a young or young-looking man with little or no facial or body hair. Can be pejorative, but can also be a self-descriptor.\nā€¢ A young, attractive, slim male, usually having little body hair.", "sentence": "After all, I don't consider myself thin (what do you think is one of the descriptions of a twink?)", "communities": [ "gay", "gay male" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "trans", "date": "2024-08-19 17:55:54", "timestamp": 1724082954.0 } }, { "id": "89723", "term": "tranny", "definition": "A transgender person, usually a transgender woman. Originally a shortening of transvestite. Generally considered derogatory, offensive. Debate over the termā€™s offensiveness occurred in the early 2010s, but by 2017, the term was banned by several media stylebooks and labeled as hate speech by Facebook.", "sentence": "My best friend is trans and we jokingly call eachother tranny, but if anyone else did I'd be severely pissed.", "communities": [ "transfeminine" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "ftm", "date": "2020-09-14 16:01:07", "timestamp": 1600092067.0 } }, { "id": "80178", "term": "fruit", "definition": "Slang for a gay man, especially for a feminine gay man. Outdated and often offensive, because it implies someone is easily \"picked,\" or associates someone with its other slang meanings of \"dupe,\" \"victim,\" or someone living with mental illness.", "sentence": "Probably my most vivid example showcasing this is telling me at the age of 6, \"If you ever turn out to be a fruit, you won't be my son anymore.\"", "communities": [ "gay male" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "comingout", "date": "2020-10-13 11:37:47", "timestamp": 1602581867.0 } }, { "id": "104079", "term": "stealth", "definition": "When a transgender person keeps their transgender status closely guarded, living as if they were cisgender as their identified gender.", "sentence": "Iā€™m very masculine and stealth about my trans status.", "communities": [ "transgender" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "gaybros", "date": "2022-05-31 00:33:58", "timestamp": 1653950038.0 } }, { "id": "227898", "term": "shade", "definition": "A slang term referring to a kind of insult, typically non-verbal in nature. Journalist Anna Holmes called shade \"the art of the sidelong insult\". Merriam-Webster defines it as \"subtle, sneering expression of contempt for or disgust with someoneā€”sometimes verbal, and sometimes not\".", "sentence": "Then reading became a developed form where it became shade.", "communities": [ "drag" ], "metadata": { "source": "OpenSubtitles", "title": "Paris Is Burning", "imdb_id": "100332" } }, { "id": "140230", "term": "BJ", "definition": "Initialism of blow job.", "sentence": "I had partners suggesting underwater bj or sex but as soon as it turns erotic I can't get arousal from it.", "communities": [], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "asexuality", "date": "2025-04-27 05:34:27", "timestamp": 1745724867.0 } }, { "id": "143160", "term": "GLBT", "definition": "Initialism for gay, lesbian, bisexual, and transgender.", "sentence": "It started with marches to commemorate Stonewall uprising where GLBT people stood up for their rights.", "communities": [], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "gay", "date": "2021-05-25 05:20:45", "timestamp": 1621912845.0 } }, { "id": "99367", "term": "total top", "definition": "A total top is one who assumes an exclusively penetrative role for sex.", "sentence": "Many guys on Reddit identify as total top or total bottom as if it's part of their identity.", "communities": [ "LGBTQ" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "gay", "date": "2023-11-14 19:34:53", "timestamp": 1699986893.0 } }, { "id": "5520", "term": "go off", "definition": "To perform extremely well; to be impressive or attractive; often used to express encouragement.", "sentence": "You should say, right, you go off and do your th.", "communities": [], "metadata": { "source": "Podcasts", "title": "The Ricky Gervais Show / An Idiot Abroad" } }, { "id": "158893", "term": "duderus", "definition": "The uterus of a trans man.", "sentence": "I always think \"I really wish I could donate my breasts and duderus to ANY of you in exchange for a penis and flat chest\".", "communities": [ "transgender" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "asktransgender", "date": "2018-07-25 11:53:10", "timestamp": 1532512390.0 } }, { "id": "106713", "term": "ewphoria", "definition": "A combination of gender euphoria with feelings of disgust, revulsion, or discomfort, resulting from one's gender identity being affirmed by bigoted, predatory, or creepy behavior by others.", "sentence": "Yikes a shame that you and a lot of others have suffered ewphoria", "communities": [ "transgender", "transgender" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "traaaaaaannnnnnnnnns", "date": "2023-06-09 06:43:44", "timestamp": 1686285824.0 } }, { "id": "213167", "term": "gym bunny", "definition": "A sports enthusiast; usually one who frequents gyms and training grounds; often used of young gay men obsessed with body building.", "sentence": "I am not a gym bunny, I'm clearly a gym hare.", "communities": [], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "gaybros", "date": "2012-08-09 19:43:35", "timestamp": 1344534215.0 } }, { "id": "96172", "term": "gaydar", "definition": "A colloquialism referring to the intuitive ability of a person to assess others' sexual orientations as gay, bisexual or heterosexual. Gaydar relies on verbal and non-verbal clues and LGBTQ stereotypes. These include the sensitivity to social behaviors and mannerisms; for instance, acknowledging flamboyant body language, the tone of voice used by a person when speaking, overtly rejecting traditional gender roles, a person's occupation, and grooming habits.", "sentence": "My gaydar went OFF and not only that but I saw another girl with a rainbow heart on her binder.", "communities": [ "LGBTQ" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "teengirlswholikegirls", "date": "2021-09-16 06:44:57", "timestamp": 1631767497.0 } }, { "id": "84617", "term": "lipstick lesbian", "definition": "Usually refers to a lesbian with a feminine gender expression. Can be used in a positive or a derogatory way, depending on who is using it. Is sometimes also used to refer to a lesbian who is seen as automatically \"passing\" for heterosexual.", "sentence": "I forgot your user, Lipstick Lesbian girl who I'd like to know.", "communities": [ "lesbian" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "LGBTForeverAlone", "date": "2019-02-01 20:37:50", "timestamp": 1549049870.0 } }, { "id": "228954", "term": "androgynous", "definition": "Of clothing or accessories, making a person's identity as male or female not immediately apparent to observers.", "sentence": "I always wore androgynous and crossgender make-up.", "communities": [], "metadata": { "source": "OpenSubtitles", "title": "Venus Boyz", "imdb_id": "293685" } }, { "id": "146051", "term": "brainworm", "definition": "An intrusive, unwanted, internalized transphobic or invalidating thought or belief.", "sentence": "add that with brainworms and i feel stuck despite sometimes working on my voice several hours in a day.", "communities": [], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "transvoice", "date": "2025-04-10 23:39:49", "timestamp": 1744321189.0 } }, { "id": "96999", "term": "total bottom", "definition": "A total bottom is someone who assumes an exclusively passive or receptive role during anal or oral intercourse.", "sentence": "I'm an old feminine total bottom, and I'm just fine.", "communities": [ "LGBTQ" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "AskLGBT", "date": "2023-09-06 21:55:03", "timestamp": 1694030103.0 } }, { "id": "170429", "term": "shenis", "definition": "The penis of a trans woman.", "sentence": "I'm fascinated and would love to explore this, but other than shenis (suggested by my best friend), I've got nothing.", "communities": [ "transgender" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "LGBTeens", "date": "2017-11-06 06:29:28", "timestamp": 1509946168.0 } }, { "id": "165245", "term": "euphoria boner", "definition": "An erection of the penis in a trans woman, caused by strong feelings of gender euphoria.", "sentence": "I have literally never had a euphoria boner in my life.", "communities": [ "transgender" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "MtF", "date": "2021-12-21 20:46:36", "timestamp": 1640115996.0 } }, { "id": "120675", "term": "friend of Dorothy", "definition": "Coded slang for gay. Referring to gay icon Judy Garland's Dorothy in The Wizard of Oz.", "sentence": "about a lesbian friend of Dorothy's who falls in love with Rose.", "communities": [], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "olderlesbians", "date": "2025-03-21 06:09:27", "timestamp": 1742533767.0 } }, { "id": "104085", "term": "stealth", "definition": "When a transgender person keeps their transgender status closely guarded, living as if they were cisgender as their identified gender.", "sentence": "Maria was stealth and trusted Haley enough to come out to her, it definitely didn't sound like they only went on a few dates.", "communities": [ "transgender" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "actuallesbians", "date": "2023-03-14 06:06:54", "timestamp": 1678770414.0 } }, { "id": "141680", "term": "LGBT", "definition": "Initialism for lesbian, gay, bisexual, and transgender.", "sentence": "Personally, everyone Iā€™ve met that were LGBTQ and have discussed my asexuality with have been very open and/or curious about it.", "communities": [], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "asexuality", "date": "2024-11-11 19:27:47", "timestamp": 1731349667.0 } }, { "id": "158053", "term": "clocky", "definition": "Clearly identifiable as transgender; capable of being easily clocked; not passing.", "sentence": "No matter how many procedures I have, I will always somehow be clocky to a small amount of people.", "communities": [ "transgender" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "trans", "date": "2025-06-23 14:26:32", "timestamp": 1750681592.0 } }, { "id": "206368", "term": "snatched", "definition": "Good-looking.", "sentence": "OMG that waist is snatched!", "communities": [], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "crossdressing", "date": "2016-04-01 07:09:14", "timestamp": 1459487354.0 } }, { "id": "91663", "term": "kiki", "definition": "ā€¢ A gathering of friends for the purpose of gossiping and chit-chat.\nā€¢ 1940s slang describing a lesbian comfortable with either a more passive or more aggressive partner in a relationship.", "sentence": "Letā€™s kiki over this very average snatch game of All Stars 10.", "communities": [ "drag", "lesbian", "African-American transgender", "African-American gay male" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "rupaulsdragrace", "date": "2025-07-07 14:41:11", "timestamp": 1751892071.0 } }, { "id": "109058", "term": "titty skittle", "definition": "Oral estrogen taken by transgender woman and other transfeminine people.", "sentence": "i prefer titty skittles but my favorite is antiboyotics", "communities": [ "transgender", "transfeminine" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "traaaaaaannnnnnnnnns", "date": "2020-11-08 03:34:25", "timestamp": 1604802865.0 } }, { "id": "117076", "term": "polar bear", "definition": "An older bear whose facial and body hair are predominantly or entirely white or grey (\"bear\" meaning \"a gay or bisexual man who has facial/body hair and a cuddly body\").", "sentence": "Iā€™m a polar bear dude.", "communities": [ "bear" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "askgaybros", "date": "2023-08-01 23:33:12", "timestamp": 1690925592.0 } }, { "id": "115572", "term": "stone butch", "definition": "Typically, a lesbian who is butch or otherwise displays traditional \"masculinity\". Alternatively, a subculture of persons identifying as stone butch as opposed to femme or \"high femme\". Such persons may be non-binary or have other various gender identities.", "sentence": "I feel like a Stone Butch when I'm with her, but I don't know if it's normal to be like that with women and not with men.", "communities": [ "lesbian" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "bisexual", "date": "2013-11-29 03:55:04", "timestamp": 1385693704.0 } }, { "id": "106619", "term": "baby trans", "definition": "Someone who has recently discovered that they are transgender.", "sentence": "(Please be kind iā€™m a baby trans)", "communities": [ "transgender", "transgender" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "transpassing", "date": "2025-01-25 15:40:53", "timestamp": 1737816053.0 } }, { "id": "221773", "term": "mother", "definition": "A person who is admired, respected, or looked up to within a particular fandom or community.", "sentence": "From the House of Xtravaganxa, the Mother of the Year, keeping her children intact, can we have Angie Xtravaganxa?", "communities": [ "drag" ], "metadata": { "source": "OpenSubtitles", "title": "Paris Is Burning", "imdb_id": "100332" } }, { "id": "114769", "term": "butch dyke", "definition": "A butch lesbian. \"Butch\" is often used to describe a wide variety of gender expressions and identities adjacent to masculinity or \"butchilinity\".", "sentence": "[note: I am a butch dyke here ISO some info - hope that is ok!]", "communities": [ "lesbian" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "nycgaybros", "date": "2024-07-30 19:53:12", "timestamp": 1722361992.0 } }, { "id": "213175", "term": "gym bunny", "definition": "A sports enthusiast; usually one who frequents gyms and training grounds; often used of young gay men obsessed with body building.", "sentence": "I've never really been that much of a gym bunny so to speak but I've recently been considering buying a gym membership and following a routine.", "communities": [], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "asktransgender", "date": "2025-02-13 17:03:48", "timestamp": 1739462628.0 } }, { "id": "30", "term": "bulldagger", "definition": "Contested terminology. Slur for lesbian, highly offensive if applied to a lesbian or transmasc person externally. Term has been reclaimed by some lesbians communities, and is sometimes used affirmingly within communities.\"Bulldyke\" and \"bulldagger\" are often used to indicate butch or masculine queer women, sometimes with overtones of toughness or aggression.", "sentence": "I know, but do you think you have a Butch Bulldagger in you?", "communities": [], "metadata": { "source": "Podcasts", "title": "Why Won't You Date Me? with Nicole Byer" } }, { "id": "151596", "term": "chubby", "definition": "An overweight or obese gay man.", "sentence": "Cross between Bear, Chubby and Polar", "communities": [ "gay" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "gaybros", "date": "2022-11-08 07:32:11", "timestamp": 1667889131.0 } }, { "id": "102239", "term": "joyfriend", "definition": "A sexual and/or romantic partner of any gender, but usually a nonbinary person.", "sentence": "Instead of calling them your girlfriend, say your partner or joyfriend", "communities": [ "nonbinary" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "genderfluid", "date": "2021-06-29 06:53:27", "timestamp": 1624942407.0 } }, { "id": "229038", "term": "sugar daddy", "definition": "Expression of the Black community in the 1920s, to refer to an older, wealthy partner. Over time, this expression became used by the LGBTQIA+ community as well.", "sentence": "Come on, sugar daddy, bring it home.", "communities": [], "metadata": { "source": "OpenSubtitles", "title": "Hedwig and the Angry Inch", "imdb_id": "248845" } }, { "id": "170026", "term": "prog", "definition": "Progesterone.", "sentence": "Body hair: for me, prog has caused pretty rapid body hair growth, which is to be expected.", "communities": [ "transgender" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "asktransgender", "date": "2025-05-10 17:25:48", "timestamp": 1746890748.0 } }, { "id": "101647", "term": "thembo", "definition": "A nonbinary or gender-neutral bimbo.", "sentence": "Hi I am Oli 26 non binary thembo looking for someone to play bg3 with cause I need help!", "communities": [ "nonbinary" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "LesbianGamers", "date": "2024-10-02 19:17:58", "timestamp": 1727889478.0 } }, { "id": "123649", "term": "hunk", "definition": "A muscular, handsome gay man.", "sentence": "where is the 100% hunk pic from?", "communities": [ "gay male" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "gaybros", "date": "2019-02-18 00:24:29", "timestamp": 1550445869.0 } }, { "id": "227773", "term": "cruising", "definition": "To walk or drive about a locality in search of a sex partner, usually of the anonymous, casual, one-time variety.", "sentence": "If it's just for sex, they can go cruising.", "communities": [ "gay male" ], "metadata": { "source": "OpenSubtitles", "title": "The Witnesses", "imdb_id": "487273" } }, { "id": "95942", "term": "gaydar", "definition": "A colloquialism referring to the intuitive ability of a person to assess others' sexual orientations as gay, bisexual or heterosexual. Gaydar relies on verbal and non-verbal clues and LGBTQ stereotypes. These include the sensitivity to social behaviors and mannerisms; for instance, acknowledging flamboyant body language, the tone of voice used by a person when speaking, overtly rejecting traditional gender roles, a person's occupation, and grooming habits.", "sentence": "No, gaydar is just a word.", "communities": [ "LGBTQ" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "asktransgender", "date": "2024-02-27 20:10:35", "timestamp": 1709061035.0 } }, { "id": "210565", "term": "bottoms", "definition": "ā€¢ A \"bottom\" is an individual who acts as the \"receiving\" partner in sexual encounters. Sometimes used as a self-descriptor within queer communities, but should be replicated with caution. Sometimes used as a verb (\"to bottom for someone\"). Offensive if applied to LGBTQ+ individuals from outwith queer communities.\nā€¢ Someone, typically a man, who is penetrated during sexual intercourse or someone who has a preference for being penetrated during such intercourse.\nā€¢ The buttocks.\nā€¢ Genitalia; genitals.", "sentence": "All tall bottoms I've dated were also great cuddlers and loved to lay *on* me which, honestly, I loved.", "communities": [ "LGBTQ" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "gaybros", "date": "2021-08-06 18:11:01", "timestamp": 1628266261.0 } }, { "id": "88133", "term": "top", "definition": "ā€¢ A \"top\" is an individual who acts as the \"giving\" partner in sexual encounters. Sometimes used as a self-descriptor within queer communities, but should be replicated with caution. Sometimes used as a verb (\"to top someone\"). Offensive if applied to LGBTQ+ individuals from outwith queer communities.\nā€¢ Someone, typically a man, who is penetrating someone else during sexual intercourse or someone who has a preference for penetrating during such intercourse.", "sentence": "d-do they think all gay men are bottoms and all lesbians are tops?", "communities": [ "LGBTQ" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "SuddenlyGay", "date": "2022-10-17 20:26:22", "timestamp": 1666031182.0 } }, { "id": "157472", "term": "vers", "definition": "ā€¢ LGBTQ+ community slang for someone who \"switches\" between the \"giving\" and \"receiving\" during sex. \"Vers\" is short for \"versatile.\" \"Switch\" is sometimes also used in a BDSM context, to indicate someone who \"switches\" between the dominant and submissive roles.\nā€¢ One who is willing to take either a submissive or a dominant role in a sexual relationship.", "sentence": "I am 30 year-old vers guy in a relationship with a 40 year-old top guy.", "communities": [ "gay" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "gaybros", "date": "2023-08-25 09:17:16", "timestamp": 1692947836.0 } }, { "id": "90492", "term": "twink", "definition": "ā€¢ Slang term widely used in gay communities to describe a young or young-looking man with little or no facial or body hair. Can be pejorative, but can also be a self-descriptor.\nā€¢ A young, attractive, slim male, usually having little body hair.", "sentence": "Iā€™ve always felt like a guy my whole life, though not very masculine, definitely hate my facial and body hair, dress like a twink, etc.", "communities": [ "gay", "gay male" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "genderfluid", "date": "2025-02-18 16:01:08", "timestamp": 1739890868.0 } }, { "id": "168314", "term": "gock", "definition": "The penis of a trans woman.", "sentence": "You are not faking it hun, lots of us love our gocks ^w^", "communities": [ "transgender" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "asktransgender", "date": "2024-05-18 03:54:31", "timestamp": 1715997271.0 } }, { "id": "211774", "term": "flamer", "definition": "\"Flaming\" can be used generally as an intensifier or curse, but has become especially associated with feminine gay men and campness. Often still used fondly, especially by older generations of gay men, but offensive if applied by others.", "sentence": "Not exactly a flamboyant flamer but my interests and the things I spend my time on could not be gayer.", "communities": [], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "askgaybros", "date": "2024-10-06 18:09:10", "timestamp": 1728230950.0 } }, { "id": "143367", "term": "autofellatio", "definition": "Oral stimulation of one's own penis.", "sentence": "I've had fantasies about giving BJs (I can perform autofellatio), and I've masturbated to gay porn a few times.", "communities": [], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "lgbt", "date": "2010-09-29 23:11:14", "timestamp": 1285794674.0 } }, { "id": "107846", "term": "cissona", "definition": "A transgender person's \"cis\" persona, i.e. their cover personality and character used to conceal their actual gender, usually before coming out (although not always).", "sentence": "I figure my cissona wouldn't be angry by getting misgendered, simply very confused.", "communities": [ "transgender" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "ftm", "date": "2022-12-12 22:59:37", "timestamp": 1670882377.0 } }, { "id": "210558", "term": "bottoms", "definition": "ā€¢ A \"bottom\" is an individual who acts as the \"receiving\" partner in sexual encounters. Sometimes used as a self-descriptor within queer communities, but should be replicated with caution. Sometimes used as a verb (\"to bottom for someone\"). Offensive if applied to LGBTQ+ individuals from outwith queer communities.\nā€¢ Someone, typically a man, who is penetrated during sexual intercourse or someone who has a preference for being penetrated during such intercourse.\nā€¢ The buttocks.\nā€¢ Genitalia; genitals.", "sentence": "Itā€™s another weird pressure that bottoms put on tops and itā€™s a big turn off.", "communities": [ "LGBTQ" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "gaybros", "date": "2025-01-14 23:45:40", "timestamp": 1736894740.0 } }, { "id": "1768", "term": "kink", "definition": "ā€¢ A specific sexual desire, practice, or activity considered unconventional but within certain socially constructed boundaries.\nā€¢ A thief or burglar.", "sentence": "I mean, it's spicy, don't get me wrong, but after reading Twisted Hate, I'm like, okay, well, guess that's what I'm into Kink unlocked.", "communities": [], "metadata": { "source": "Podcasts", "title": "Leah on the Line" } }, { "id": "101492", "term": "theyfab", "definition": "A slang term for a nonbinary person who is assigned female at birth.", "sentence": "I thought theyfab was a slur?", "communities": [ "nonbinary" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "NonBinary", "date": "2024-03-27 20:49:43", "timestamp": 1711568983.0 } }, { "id": "206436", "term": "throw shade", "definition": "To subtly insult someone.", "sentence": "Please do not throw shade at my boyfriend.", "communities": [], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "lgbt", "date": "2023-07-16 03:34:18", "timestamp": 1689471258.0 } }, { "id": "110921", "term": "zucchini", "definition": "A queerplatonic partner.", "sentence": "And I have realized: she was my zucchini and I had no idea.", "communities": [ "aromantic" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "asexuality", "date": "2015-09-12 07:10:04", "timestamp": 1442034604.0 } }, { "id": "215528", "term": "breast mint", "definition": "A pill taken as part of feminizing hormone replacement therapy, especially spironolactone (called by this name due to its peppermint smell) or estrogen such as estradiol.", "sentence": "For example, E has a bunch of (frankly hilarious) names like Antiboyotics, Titty Sprinkles, Femme&Ms, Breast Mints, etc", "communities": [ "transgender" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "lgbt", "date": "2023-04-19 17:30:51", "timestamp": 1681918251.0 } }, { "id": "204376", "term": "folx", "definition": "Folks; people.", "sentence": "Join Yorkshire Dance on 30-31 May for Collective Encounters, a two-day festival of dance celebrating LGBTQ+ folx and their allies.", "communities": [], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "UKLGBT", "date": "2025-05-07 15:49:27", "timestamp": 1746625767.0 } }, { "id": "101447", "term": "AC-DC", "definition": "Bisexual.", "sentence": "Here is what I have so far: Heteroflexible, swing both ways, unicorn, Switch hitter, AC-DC, gay after three, Kinsey scale, straight girl/guy candy, bisexual erasure.", "communities": [], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "bisexual", "date": "2020-02-04 17:45:31", "timestamp": 1580834731.0 } }, { "id": "165267", "term": "euphoria boner", "definition": "An erection of the penis in a trans woman, caused by strong feelings of gender euphoria.", "sentence": "Yeahhh I know, euphoria boners suck.", "communities": [ "transgender" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "traaaaaaannnnnnnnnns", "date": "2022-04-22 10:48:56", "timestamp": 1650617336.0 } }, { "id": "110099", "term": "fish", "definition": "Derogatory term for cisgender women; also used to refer to drag queens or transgender women who are considered \"passing\" as cisgender women.", "sentence": "I went as fishy queen as possible for the big 29th!", "communities": [ "transfeminine" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "fauxqueens", "date": "2015-08-11 07:49:42", "timestamp": 1439272182.0 } }, { "id": "102293", "term": "joyfriend", "definition": "A sexual and/or romantic partner of any gender, but usually a nonbinary person.", "sentence": "Most common ones I've seen are joyfriend, theyfriend, and companion.", "communities": [ "nonbinary" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "LGBTQ", "date": "2023-02-26 06:57:35", "timestamp": 1677391055.0 } }, { "id": "77325", "term": "egg", "definition": "Slang term (originating online) for a person who has not yet realised they are transgender, has not yet come out, or is in the early stages of transitioning. Usually used (fondly) by trans people to recognise when aspects of someone's personality or behavior remind them of gender-related aspects of themselves before they realized they were trans.", "sentence": "Are we talking about first notable moment of actually articulating denial, or when the egg broke?", "communities": [ "transgender", "transgender" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "AskLGBT", "date": "2025-06-17 03:32:31", "timestamp": 1750123951.0 } }, { "id": "77548", "term": "faggot", "definition": "A pejorative term used chiefly in North America primarily to refer to a gay man. Alongside its use to refer to gay men in particular, it may also be used as a pejorative term for a \"repellent man\" or to refer to women who are lesbian (or to transgender people, typically transgender women). Its use has spread from the United States to varying extents elsewhere in the English-speaking world through mass culture, including film, music, and the Internet.", "sentence": "I usually end up calling myself a faggot when I'm feeling down about myself, it's a habit that I'm trying to end, but it slips out so easily.", "communities": [ "gay male" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "LGBTeens", "date": "2016-01-09 17:48:40", "timestamp": 1452358120.0 } }, { "id": "228931", "term": "femme", "definition": "Traditionally, a lesbian who appears \"feminine\" or acts in a \"feminine\" manner. However, the term is often used to describe a wide variety of gender expressions and identities adjacent to feminine or femme-ness.", "sentence": "Maybe next week we'll do butch and femme role-play...", "communities": [ "lesbian" ], "metadata": { "source": "OpenSubtitles", "title": "The L Word", "imdb_id": "330251" } }, { "id": "139254", "term": "brown", "definition": "To have anal intercourse.", "sentence": "I would like to pierce his brown if ya know what I mean", "communities": [], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "LadyBoners", "date": "2015-04-10 07:11:10", "timestamp": 1428642670.0 } }, { "id": "127340", "term": "basket", "definition": "The bulge of the penis and testicles visible through clothing.", "sentence": "I was adjusting my basket and I caught him staring at it.", "communities": [ "gay male" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "GaybroReads", "date": "2020-10-16 20:05:13", "timestamp": 1602871513.0 } }, { "id": "206487", "term": "useless lesbian", "definition": "A lesbian who is socially or romantically inept with other women.", "sentence": "I want \"I am a useless lesbian\" on a t-shirt", "communities": [], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "LGBTeens", "date": "2019-05-18 00:01:30", "timestamp": 1558130490.0 } }, { "id": "95619", "term": "bent", "definition": "Slang for queer.", "sentence": "In fact the term bent for gay people came after, when people had already forgotten why straight people were called straight.", "communities": [ "LGBTQ" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "gay", "date": "2023-05-16 16:49:41", "timestamp": 1684248581.0 } }, { "id": "98575", "term": "gaysian", "definition": "Somewhat derogatory term referring to an Asian gay person.", "sentence": "Anyways, we hope you come hang out (you don't need to be gaysian yourself :P).", "communities": [ "LGBTQ" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "gaymers", "date": "2013-03-11 20:37:13", "timestamp": 1363030633.0 } }, { "id": "79908", "term": "fruit", "definition": "Slang for a gay man, especially for a feminine gay man. Outdated and often offensive, because it implies someone is easily \"picked,\" or associates someone with its other slang meanings of \"dupe,\" \"victim,\" or someone living with mental illness.", "sentence": "Was so hypermasc in highschool to fit in, now i'm confident growing my hair out and being a little fruit sometimes lol.", "communities": [ "gay male" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "transtimelines", "date": "2024-03-01 03:48:13", "timestamp": 1709261293.0 } }, { "id": "206332", "term": "pozzed", "definition": "HIV positive.", "sentence": "Is a quick blowjob worth risking being robbed, abused, pozzed, blackmailed, raped, or killed?", "communities": [], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "askgaybros", "date": "2021-08-13 21:45:56", "timestamp": 1628883956.0 } }, { "id": "10190", "term": "cheese", "definition": "The smegma that accumulates around the penis, often the uncircumcised penis, or the unwashed labia.", "sentence": "Do guys that have circumcised ones ever get dick cheese?", "communities": [], "metadata": { "source": "Podcasts", "title": "Coffee Convos with Kail Lowry and Lindsie Chrisley" } }, { "id": "157897", "term": "clockable", "definition": "Of a transgender person or drag performer: able to be clocked; capable of being noticed or recognized as transgender; not passing.", "sentence": "\\- Discrimination: violence, misgendering, people making jokes and looking at you weirdly because I am easily clockable", "communities": [ "transgender" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "asktransgender", "date": "2023-08-09 13:11:32", "timestamp": 1691579492.0 } }, { "id": "215149", "term": "twinks", "definition": "ā€¢ Slang term widely used in gay communities to describe a young or young-looking man with little or no facial or body hair. Can be pejorative, but can also be a self-descriptor.\nā€¢ A young, attractive, slim male, usually having little body hair.", "sentence": "100 twinks vs 1 bear.", "communities": [ "gay male" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "gaybros", "date": "2025-05-04 06:07:33", "timestamp": 1746331653.0 } }, { "id": "116750", "term": "front hole", "definition": "Slang for vagina, often used by transmasculine persons assigned female at birth.", "sentence": "I love my front hole.", "communities": [ "transmasculine" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "ftm", "date": "2018-10-05 17:41:27", "timestamp": 1538754087.0 } }, { "id": "120684", "term": "hunty", "definition": "A portmanteau of \"honey\" and \"cunt\", usually considered a term of supposed endearment.", "sentence": "and my immediate reaction was \"YAAAS HUNTY CHOKE ON MY FROSTY ELEGANZA, Y'ALL CAN'T FUCKING TAKE MY ICE QUEEN REALNESS\"", "communities": [ "gay male" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "gaymers", "date": "2015-12-04 02:19:07", "timestamp": 1449191947.0 } }, { "id": "127357", "term": "YAASSS", "definition": "An interjection expressing great pleasure or excitement.", "sentence": "TIL Yaasss isnt just a gay thing.", "communities": [], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "gay", "date": "2015-02-12 01:11:13", "timestamp": 1423699873.0 } }, { "id": "168303", "term": "girlpussy", "definition": "The vagina or vulva of a cisgender woman.", "sentence": "don't let society tell you that girlpussy and boycock aren't valid!!", "communities": [ "transgender" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "transgendercirclejerk", "date": "2025-05-17 07:49:39", "timestamp": 1747460979.0 } }, { "id": "115678", "term": "stem", "definition": "A lesbian defined as having a gender presentation between stud (st-) and femme (-em).", "sentence": "Does the term stem only applies to lesbian?", "communities": [ "lesbian" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "lgbt", "date": "2024-06-02 13:31:20", "timestamp": 1717327880.0 } }, { "id": "157481", "term": "vers", "definition": "ā€¢ LGBTQ+ community slang for someone who \"switches\" between the \"giving\" and \"receiving\" during sex. \"Vers\" is short for \"versatile.\" \"Switch\" is sometimes also used in a BDSM context, to indicate someone who \"switches\" between the dominant and submissive roles.\nā€¢ One who is willing to take either a submissive or a dominant role in a sexual relationship.", "sentence": "Although we keep to 80% our perspective roles, 20% we are both VERS.", "communities": [ "gay" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "gaybros", "date": "2023-11-29 14:23:32", "timestamp": 1701264212.0 } }, { "id": "76184", "term": "dyke", "definition": "Contested terminology. Slur for lesbian, highly offensive if applied to a lesbian or transmasc person externally. Term has been reclaimed by some lesbians communities, and is sometimes used affirmingly within communities.\"Bulldyke\" and \"bulldagger\" are often used to indicate butch or masculine queer women, sometimes with overtones of toughness or aggression.", "sentence": "I call myself a dyke all the time but I wouldn't call a stranger one despite living in a liberal area.", "communities": [], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "actuallesbians", "date": "2018-05-31 09:19:33", "timestamp": 1527751173.0 } }, { "id": "117699", "term": "baby gay", "definition": "A person who has recently come out in relationship to a marginalized sexual or gender identity.", "sentence": "Lots of baby gays and t4t folks.", "communities": [ "gay male" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "demisexuality", "date": "2024-06-11 17:57:37", "timestamp": 1718121457.0 } }, { "id": "170029", "term": "prog", "definition": "Progesterone.", "sentence": "It has lots of information about the different effects of prog.", "communities": [ "transgender" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "asktransgender", "date": "2025-05-10 18:24:03", "timestamp": 1746894243.0 } }, { "id": "115111", "term": "stone femme", "definition": "A lesbian identity patterned after the term \"stone butch\". It may variously refer to: a femme that is a bottom, a femme that is attracted to or partner with someone who is butch, a femme who does not wish to touch her partners' genitalia, or a femme who is sexually stone, i.e. they do not wish to be touched in the genital area (and therefore they usually top).", "sentence": "That way Stone Femme remains a giving only title.", "communities": [ "lesbian" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "actuallesbians", "date": "2020-12-12 19:06:53", "timestamp": 1607796413.0 } }, { "id": "123824", "term": "cottaging", "definition": "Anonymous sex between men in a public lavatory (a \"cottage\", \"tea-room\"), or cruising for sexual partners with the intention of having sex elsewhere.", "sentence": "Cruising and cottaging have for a long time been and still are a part of gay life for many, young and old.", "communities": [ "gay male" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "askgaybros", "date": "2023-07-04 02:45:16", "timestamp": 1688431516.0 } }, { "id": "214567", "term": "studs", "definition": "ā€¢ Community term for an African-American and/or Latinx masculine queer woman. Also known as \"ag.\" Only use if someone self-describes in this way, and avoid using for white people, as this is a term specifically developed by and for African-American and Latinx communities.\nā€¢ A masculine or butch lesbian; predominantly utilized in Black and Latina lesbian communities. Should not be used by individuals outside of those communities, as it may be seen as pejorative. Sometimes expanded to refer to other gender identities and expressions.", "sentence": "People get so confused when im like STUDS ARE BLACK!!!!!!!", "communities": [ "lesbian", "Latine lesbian", "African-American lesbian" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "actuallesbians", "date": "2025-05-15 23:21:24", "timestamp": 1747344084.0 } }, { "id": "168265", "term": "girlcock", "definition": "The penis of a trans woman.", "sentence": "I'm deeply in *love* with the idea of topping and domming with my girlcock (which I plan on keeping), and I'm *terrified* at the thought of losing my inches.", "communities": [ "transgender" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "asktransgender", "date": "2022-12-18 14:14:32", "timestamp": 1671369272.0 } }, { "id": "127549", "term": "butch queen", "definition": "A gay man with a traditionally masculine gender expression.", "sentence": "I love butch queens, bro in the street, queen in the sheets!", "communities": [ "gay male" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "gaybrosgonemild", "date": "2022-02-03 22:38:09", "timestamp": 1643924289.0 } }, { "id": "4979", "term": "activist", "definition": "A person who is politically active in campaigning for change to an existing sociopolitical or cultural order.", "sentence": "She's also an activist for equality and inclusion and the author of a number one New York Times bestseller.", "communities": [], "metadata": { "source": "Podcasts", "title": "We Can Do Hard Things with Glennon Doyle" } }, { "id": "107762", "term": "bottom surgery", "definition": "A slang term used to refer to genital gender-affirming surgeries.", "sentence": "Now I'm nearly 30 with no bottom surgery savings at all.", "communities": [ "transgender" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "transgenderau", "date": "2024-03-04 11:16:02", "timestamp": 1709547362.0 } }, { "id": "214435", "term": "Molly", "definition": "Women's names have often been appropriated as slurs for gay men, especially for feminine gay men and transfeminine people. \"Nancy\" is probably the most common, across the 20th Century globally. All are offensive.", "sentence": "Makes sense because Molly house = 18th century gay subculture.", "communities": [], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "lgbthistory", "date": "2024-09-19 20:41:04", "timestamp": 1726771264.0 } }, { "id": "73981", "term": "bottom", "definition": "ā€¢ A \"bottom\" is an individual who acts as the \"receiving\" partner in sexual encounters. Sometimes used as a self-descriptor within queer communities, but should be replicated with caution. Sometimes used as a verb (\"to bottom for someone\"). Offensive if applied to LGBTQ+ individuals from outwith queer communities.\nā€¢ Someone, typically a man, who is penetrated during sexual intercourse or someone who has a preference for being penetrated during such intercourse.\nā€¢ The buttocks.\nā€¢ Genitalia; genitals.", "sentence": "Unfortunately, Iā€™ve become insane about the thought of her getting bottom surgery (as in, I accidentally got too high and had a three hour long anxiety spiral about it).", "communities": [ "gay", "LGBTQ" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "mypartneristrans", "date": "2025-01-02 08:35:56", "timestamp": 1735803356.0 } }, { "id": "115119", "term": "stone femme", "definition": "A lesbian identity patterned after the term \"stone butch\". It may variously refer to: a femme that is a bottom, a femme that is attracted to or partner with someone who is butch, a femme who does not wish to touch her partners' genitalia, or a femme who is sexually stone, i.e. they do not wish to be touched in the genital area (and therefore they usually top).", "sentence": "but yes, basically a stone butch is a butch who only 'gives' during sex and a stone femme or high femme only 'receives.'", "communities": [ "lesbian" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "AskLGBT", "date": "2022-12-12 03:32:50", "timestamp": 1670812370.0 } }, { "id": "143243", "term": "GLBT", "definition": "Initialism for gay, lesbian, bisexual, and transgender.", "sentence": "Maybe talk to the glbt center about it", "communities": [], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "LGBTriangle", "date": "2022-09-01 04:51:41", "timestamp": 1662000701.0 } }, { "id": "95636", "term": "bent", "definition": "Slang for queer.", "sentence": "May all you ladies, gents, and those whose gender be a lil bit bent have an ever most joyous pride lunation!šŸ³ļøā€šŸŒˆšŸ³ļøā€āš§ļø", "communities": [ "LGBTQ" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "LGBTeens", "date": "2024-06-07 23:17:15", "timestamp": 1717795035.0 } }, { "id": "151592", "term": "chubby", "definition": "An overweight or obese gay man.", "sentence": "Too hairy, too smooth, too muscular, not enough muscles, too chubby, not chubby enough, too old, too young, too masc, not masc enough.", "communities": [ "gay" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "gaybros", "date": "2024-12-28 15:48:41", "timestamp": 1735397321.0 } }, { "id": "110416", "term": "Eve's apple", "definition": "A transfeminine slang term coined to replace the masculine sounding \"Adam's apple\".", "sentence": "Your eve's apple comes up, but it's not really going to change resonance because that pocket hasn't at all, it's *just* higher.", "communities": [ "transfeminine" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "transvoice", "date": "2018-02-12 01:49:49", "timestamp": 1518396589.0 } }, { "id": "157834", "term": "bonus hole", "definition": "The vulva or vagina of a trans man.", "sentence": "Iā€™ve always struggled with some bonus hole dryness.", "communities": [ "transgender" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "ftm", "date": "2023-04-03 20:56:38", "timestamp": 1680548198.0 } }, { "id": "169810", "term": "pre-E", "definition": "Not yet having undergone estrogen-based hormone replacement therapy.", "sentence": "Me pre-E: no boobs, day ruined", "communities": [ "transgender" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "traaaaaaannnnnnnnnns", "date": "2022-03-12 05:37:37", "timestamp": 1647059857.0 } }, { "id": "134009", "term": "androgynous", "definition": "Of clothing or accessories, making a person's identity as male or female not immediately apparent to observers.", "sentence": "I wish I could dress more androgynously to express my sexuality more, but my conservative mother wonā€™t let me shop in the menā€™s clothing section.", "communities": [], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "lgbt", "date": "2020-10-01 23:36:59", "timestamp": 1601588219.0 } }, { "id": "124384", "term": "otter", "definition": "A hairy man with a slender physique, in contrast with a bear, who is more thickset.", "sentence": "An otter is a term for a gay man who is slim and has a lot of hair", "communities": [ "gay", "gay male" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "lgbt", "date": "2021-02-08 02:05:16", "timestamp": 1612746316.0 } }, { "id": "116797", "term": "seahorse dad", "definition": "Slang term for a transgender man who is carrying, or has carried, a child to term.", "sentence": "Therapy may help, same with advice through the seahorse dads thread.", "communities": [ "transmasculine" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "trans", "date": "2025-04-11 11:06:55", "timestamp": 1744362415.0 } }, { "id": "146624", "term": "oldshit", "definition": "A transgender person who began transitioning at a relatively late age.", "sentence": "Then they came for the oldshits, and I did not speak outā€”because I was not an oldshit.", "communities": [], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "transgendercirclejerk", "date": "2024-11-16 20:21:32", "timestamp": 1731784892.0 } }, { "id": "94", "term": "throw shade", "definition": "To subtly insult someone.", "sentence": "Like what's the income where you won't throw shade?", "communities": [], "metadata": { "source": "Podcasts", "title": "What Now? with Trevor Noah" } }, { "id": "227901", "term": "shade", "definition": "A slang term referring to a kind of insult, typically non-verbal in nature. Journalist Anna Holmes called shade \"the art of the sidelong insult\". Merriam-Webster defines it as \"subtle, sneering expression of contempt for or disgust with someoneā€”sometimes verbal, and sometimes not\".", "sentence": "Instead of fighting, you would dance it out on the dance floor, and whoever did the better moves was throwing the best shade, basically.", "communities": [ "drag" ], "metadata": { "source": "OpenSubtitles", "title": "Paris Is Burning", "imdb_id": "100332" } }, { "id": "213182", "term": "muscle mary", "definition": "A sports enthusiast; usually one who frequents gyms and training grounds; often used of young gay men obsessed with body building.", "sentence": "If youā€™re lucky, itā€™s a mixed crowd, muscle Marys and bois and femme fags and butch dykes and genderqueers.", "communities": [], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "gaybros", "date": "2020-06-14 18:24:46", "timestamp": 1592151886.0 } }, { "id": "210946", "term": "bulldyke", "definition": "Contested terminology. Slur for lesbian, highly offensive if applied to a lesbian or transmasc person externally. Term has been reclaimed by some lesbians communities, and is sometimes used affirmingly within communities.\"Bulldyke\" and \"bulldagger\" are often used to indicate butch or masculine queer women, sometimes with overtones of toughness or aggression.", "sentence": "I kinda want to play on the idea of bulldyke androgyny to mask my being trans or being (a cross dressing freak))", "communities": [], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "lgbt", "date": "2019-03-09 08:54:28", "timestamp": 1552118068.0 } }, { "id": "165251", "term": "euphoria boner", "definition": "An erection of the penis in a trans woman, caused by strong feelings of gender euphoria.", "sentence": "Euphoria + a bit of silky friction = euphoria boner.", "communities": [ "transgender" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "MtF", "date": "2021-06-21 03:40:27", "timestamp": 1624239627.0 } }, { "id": "116742", "term": "front hole", "definition": "Slang for vagina, often used by transmasculine persons assigned female at birth.", "sentence": "How do we, as a whole, feel about the word ā€œpussyā€ being used by others to refer to our front hole?", "communities": [ "transmasculine" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "ftm", "date": "2025-05-06 14:25:16", "timestamp": 1746534316.0 } }, { "id": "108448", "term": "second puberty", "definition": "A term often used by transgender persons transitioning after they have already undergone puberty.", "sentence": "So I identity as gender fluid and second puberty hasn't been my fave.", "communities": [ "transgender" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "lgbt", "date": "2025-03-26 03:41:06", "timestamp": 1742956866.0 } }, { "id": "165203", "term": "estrogel", "definition": "Estradiol gel used in feminizing hormone replacement therapy.", "sentence": "I have to put rub my estrogel on my legs and I can't put on any pants or anything until it dries completely.", "communities": [ "transgender" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "transgendercirclejerk", "date": "2015-02-03 02:34:52", "timestamp": 1422927292.0 } }, { "id": "98665", "term": "versatile", "definition": "Someone who penetrates or is penetrated during sexual intercourse or someone who has a preference for both being penetrated and penetrating during such intercourse.", "sentence": "I'm versatile bottom now", "communities": [ "LGBTQ" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "gaybros", "date": "2021-04-05 18:33:05", "timestamp": 1617640385.0 } }, { "id": "109077", "term": "titty skittle", "definition": "Oral estrogen taken by transgender woman and other transfeminine people.", "sentence": "So, I managed to finally get my titty skittles a week and a half ago!", "communities": [ "transgender", "transfeminine" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "transgenderau", "date": "2020-12-28 14:02:22", "timestamp": 1609160542.0 } }, { "id": "114005", "term": "futch", "definition": "A person who exhibits traits of both a femme (often used to describe a wide variety of gender expressions and identities adjacent to feminine or femme-ness) and a butch (often used to describe a wide variety of gender expressions and identities adjacent to masculinity or \"butchilinity\").", "sentence": "I present as a futch punk agirl so I wear skirts and tights and nail polish but no make up, baggy t-shirts, and big boots.", "communities": [ "lesbian" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "transgenderUK", "date": "2021-07-06 15:54:41", "timestamp": 1625579681.0 } }, { "id": "1304", "term": "unicorn", "definition": "A bisexual woman who engages in a sexual, but usually non-romantic, relationship with a heterosexual couple.", "sentence": "And then that glass of wine progressed into me becoming a unicorn for them.", "communities": [ "bisexual female" ], "metadata": { "source": "Podcasts", "title": "Coffee Convos with Kail Lowry and Lindsie Chrisley" } }, { "id": "106738", "term": "cis-tem", "definition": "Mainstream culture, controlled by the elites or government of a state, or a combination of them, which is oppressive to transgender persons.", "sentence": "Or should I say cis-tem?", "communities": [ "transgender" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "transgendercirclejerk", "date": "2019-06-29 08:10:50", "timestamp": 1561788650.0 } }, { "id": "102205", "term": "joyfriend", "definition": "A sexual and/or romantic partner of any gender, but usually a nonbinary person.", "sentence": "Partner, joyfriend, and enbyfriend are my faves", "communities": [ "nonbinary" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "asktransgender", "date": "2023-02-28 18:06:09", "timestamp": 1677603969.0 } }, { "id": "115152", "term": "soft butch", "definition": "A lesbian who exhibits some stereotypical butch traits without fitting the masculine stereotype associated with butch lesbians.", "sentence": "okay, but still I don't think that gets me entirely off the hook, I am more into a soft butch vibe.", "communities": [ "lesbian" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "bisexual", "date": "2024-11-14 22:05:27", "timestamp": 1731618327.0 } }, { "id": "123692", "term": "hunk", "definition": "A muscular, handsome gay man.", "sentence": "A Twunk is a Twinky hunk a short hunk is Shrunk.", "communities": [ "gay male" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "askgaybros", "date": "2024-10-19 01:32:39", "timestamp": 1729294359.0 } }, { "id": "202134", "term": "unclockable", "definition": "Not recognizable as transgender or a drag performer; passing.", "sentence": "is it possible that at 16 i can b unclockable (im not tall and i have a passing voice and im getting ffs (nose job lip lift and tracheal shave))?", "communities": [ "transgender" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "MtF", "date": "2023-09-15 18:41:30", "timestamp": 1694796090.0 } }, { "id": "214569", "term": "studs", "definition": "ā€¢ Community term for an African-American and/or Latinx masculine queer woman. Also known as \"ag.\" Only use if someone self-describes in this way, and avoid using for white people, as this is a term specifically developed by and for African-American and Latinx communities.\nā€¢ A masculine or butch lesbian; predominantly utilized in Black and Latina lesbian communities. Should not be used by individuals outside of those communities, as it may be seen as pejorative. Sometimes expanded to refer to other gender identities and expressions.", "sentence": "If you're reading this studs, thank you I love youšŸ™ā™„ļøšŸ‘©ā€ā¤ļøā€šŸ’‹ā€šŸ‘©", "communities": [ "lesbian", "Latine lesbian", "African-American lesbian" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "actuallesbians", "date": "2025-03-18 03:50:42", "timestamp": 1742266242.0 } }, { "id": "108180", "term": "t4t", "definition": "Short form of \"trans for trans\", indicating transgender persons interested in other transgender persons romantically and/or sexually.", "sentence": "My partner and I are t4t and have been together for a few years and are as happy as can be with one another.", "communities": [ "transgender" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "asexuality", "date": "2024-04-19 12:12:41", "timestamp": 1713521561.0 } }, { "id": "107221", "term": "deep stealth", "definition": "Referring to a transgender person who is not known to be trans by most of the people they interact with on a daily basis, even a sexual or romantic partner.", "sentence": "I guess i'm just wondering if anyone has experienced this through deep stealth, and if they have continued their whole life like this.. because i definitely could..", "communities": [ "transgender" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "asktransgender", "date": "2018-03-04 19:06:39", "timestamp": 1520186799.0 } }, { "id": "102245", "term": "joyfriend", "definition": "A sexual and/or romantic partner of any gender, but usually a nonbinary person.", "sentence": "Your lack of patience with your former joyfriend was a symptom of the emotional anxiety because of the afore mentioned manifestation of emotional trauma.", "communities": [ "nonbinary" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "demisexuality", "date": "2020-10-10 13:44:10", "timestamp": 1602330250.0 } }, { "id": "151275", "term": "boy next door", "definition": "A young, attractive, slim male, usually having little body hair.", "sentence": "They are the literal definition of the boy next door.", "communities": [ "gay" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "mypartneristrans", "date": "2018-08-25 02:56:06", "timestamp": 1535158566.0 } }, { "id": "120691", "term": "hunty", "definition": "A portmanteau of \"honey\" and \"cunt\", usually considered a term of supposed endearment.", "sentence": "(Things like miss gurl, miss maam, okurr, shade, tea, hunty, chile,periodt.)", "communities": [ "gay male" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "askgaybros", "date": "2021-02-18 01:43:24", "timestamp": 1613609004.0 } }, { "id": "169967", "term": "princess wand", "definition": "A trans woman's penis.", "sentence": "Iā€™m post orchiecromy but keeping my princess wand.", "communities": [ "transgender" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "MtF", "date": "2025-06-26 13:10:55", "timestamp": 1750936255.0 } }, { "id": "143194", "term": "GLBT", "definition": "Initialism for gay, lesbian, bisexual, and transgender.", "sentence": "Your local GLBT+ community organization might be able to refer you to someone to speak to.", "communities": [], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "trans", "date": "2022-08-30 19:09:53", "timestamp": 1661879393.0 } }, { "id": "102108", "term": "enby", "definition": "A nonbinary person, typically a young adult or an adolescent.", "sentence": "I've only just accepted that I am non-binary, and I don't know anyone who identifies as enby in my \"real\" life.", "communities": [ "nonbinary" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "NonBinary", "date": "2024-08-22 20:26:23", "timestamp": 1724351183.0 } }, { "id": "2556", "term": "shade", "definition": "A slang term referring to a kind of insult, typically non-verbal in nature. Journalist Anna Holmes called shade \"the art of the sidelong insult\". Merriam-Webster defines it as \"subtle, sneering expression of contempt for or disgust with someoneā€”sometimes verbal, and sometimes not\".", "sentence": "And the one guy looked at her sort of throwing some shade and said, yeah, I think they are.", "communities": [ "drag" ], "metadata": { "source": "Podcasts", "title": "Toronto Mike'd: The Official Toronto Mike Podcast" } }, { "id": "214572", "term": "studs", "definition": "ā€¢ Community term for an African-American and/or Latinx masculine queer woman. Also known as \"ag.\" Only use if someone self-describes in this way, and avoid using for white people, as this is a term specifically developed by and for African-American and Latinx communities.\nā€¢ A masculine or butch lesbian; predominantly utilized in Black and Latina lesbian communities. Should not be used by individuals outside of those communities, as it may be seen as pejorative. Sometimes expanded to refer to other gender identities and expressions.", "sentence": "My mentioning butches and studs and trans men in the same paragraph was not intended to rope them in together.", "communities": [ "lesbian", "Latine lesbian", "African-American lesbian" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "actuallesbians", "date": "2025-02-24 23:59:22", "timestamp": 1740437962.0 } }, { "id": "115662", "term": "lesbro", "definition": "A man who is considered an \"honorary lesbian\" by lesbian friends; otherwise, rarely, a lesbian who is considered stereotypically masculine, i.e. a \"bro\".", "sentence": "Edited: Reason I'm asking is cause a few Lesbro friends mentioned that they wouldn't consider this cheating at all because nothing happened... And I wanted to just know your opinions.", "communities": [ "lesbian" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "gaybros", "date": "2012-07-10 21:31:06", "timestamp": 1341948666.0 } }, { "id": "110952", "term": "squish", "definition": "An aromantic crush; the desire for a non-romantic and/or platonic relationship with another person.", "sentence": "(Also, my squish is online and we talk over discord.)", "communities": [ "aromantic" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "lgbt", "date": "2023-12-21 02:38:43", "timestamp": 1703122723.0 } }, { "id": "114737", "term": "butch dyke", "definition": "A butch lesbian. \"Butch\" is often used to describe a wide variety of gender expressions and identities adjacent to masculinity or \"butchilinity\".", "sentence": "I'm a dyed in the orange and blue butch dyke college football fan so I want to replace his signature with Steve Spurriers.", "communities": [ "lesbian" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "lgbt", "date": "2023-05-24 01:23:44", "timestamp": 1684884224.0 } }, { "id": "94313", "term": "drab", "definition": "An instance of a transgender or non-binary person presenting as the gender corresponding to their sex assigned at birth instead of that corresponding to their internal gender identity (most commonly a trans woman dressed as a man).", "sentence": "I may still be \"IN\", whether with painted nails hidden inside boat shoes (like I am right now) or with perfectly fitting panties under my male drab work clothing.", "communities": [ "transgender", "drag", "transgender" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "transpositive", "date": "2014-05-19 02:54:01", "timestamp": 1400460841.0 } }, { "id": "106631", "term": "baby trans", "definition": "Someone who has recently discovered that they are transgender.", "sentence": "What are other changes I can expect the longer Im transitioning in regards to baby trans discourse or trans discourse in general?", "communities": [ "transgender", "transgender" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "trans", "date": "2025-05-26 13:25:38", "timestamp": 1748258738.0 } }, { "id": "116804", "term": "seahorse dad", "definition": "Slang term for a transgender man who is carrying, or has carried, a child to term.", "sentence": "However Iā€™ve met a seahorse dad and he had absolutely no issues.", "communities": [ "transmasculine" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "transgenderUK", "date": "2023-11-12 01:49:32", "timestamp": 1699750172.0 } }, { "id": "115664", "term": "lesbro", "definition": "A man who is considered an \"honorary lesbian\" by lesbian friends; otherwise, rarely, a lesbian who is considered stereotypically masculine, i.e. a \"bro\".", "sentence": "Also, yay for good lesbro friends!", "communities": [ "lesbian" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "actuallesbians", "date": "2014-06-28 17:27:28", "timestamp": 1403969248.0 } }, { "id": "95567", "term": "queer time", "definition": "Time as experienced outside hetero- and cis-normative structures, milestones, and behaviors. In this way, queer time is time not judged by events like marriage or childbirth.", "sentence": "More than anything, if you grow up in a loving and accepting culture and come out early, you will likely not experience queer time as much.", "communities": [ "LGBTQ" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "AskLGBT", "date": "2023-08-08 20:17:44", "timestamp": 1691518664.0 } }, { "id": "124644", "term": "cruising", "definition": "To walk or drive about a locality in search of a sex partner, usually of the anonymous, casual, one-time variety.", "sentence": "While thereā€™s cruising that happens, IT IS NOT THE ONLY REASON GAY MEN GO THERE.", "communities": [ "gay male" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "gaybros", "date": "2024-02-24 21:18:32", "timestamp": 1708805912.0 } }, { "id": "86332", "term": "sugar daddy", "definition": "Expression of the Black community in the 1920s, to refer to an older, wealthy partner. Over time, this expression became used by the LGBTQIA+ community as well.", "sentence": "This is gonna sound weird, but basically she has this like sugar daddy-ish older man that buys her/us things, especially food.", "communities": [], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "lgbt", "date": "2024-08-31 01:53:49", "timestamp": 1725062029.0 } }, { "id": "99330", "term": "power bottom", "definition": "A power bottom is someone who aggressively enjoys being the receptive partner.", "sentence": "To whomever wrote this article, they have no idea what a power bottom is.", "communities": [ "LGBTQ" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "gaysian", "date": "2015-06-26 23:48:40", "timestamp": 1435355320.0 } }, { "id": "228151", "term": "crush", "definition": "An infatuation with somebody, typically someone that one is not dating. By extension, the object of such infatuation or affection.", "sentence": "The boy, does he have a crush on you!", "communities": [ "LGBTQ" ], "metadata": { "source": "OpenSubtitles", "title": "The Truth About Jane", "imdb_id": "256459" } }, { "id": "24918", "term": "camp", "definition": "ā€¢ Camp can also be a social practice and function as a style and performance identity for several types of entertainment including film, cabaret, and pantomime. Where high art necessarily incorporates beauty and value, camp necessarily needs to be lively, audacious and dynamic.\nā€¢ An aesthetic style and sensibility that regards something as appealing because of its bad taste and ironic value. Camp aesthetics disrupt many of modernism's notions of what art is and what can be classified as high art by inverting aesthetic attributes such as beauty, value, and taste through an invitation of a different kind of apprehension and consumption.\nā€¢ To behave, speak, act, etc. in a flamboyant, affected, ostentatious, or exaggerated manner stereotypically associated with gay men.\nā€¢ Gay.", "sentence": "There's a bit of camp.", "communities": [ "LGBTQ" ], "metadata": { "source": "Podcasts", "title": "Bittersweet Infamy" } }, { "id": "114949", "term": "ursula", "definition": "A lesbian bear (in male gay culture, a bear is often a larger, hairier man who projects an image of rugged masculinity.).", "sentence": "Personally, I love the gay bear culture and found that they coined the terms Ursula or grrl bear for inclusion.", "communities": [ "lesbian" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "actuallesbians", "date": "2019-02-03 18:05:06", "timestamp": 1549213506.0 } }, { "id": "75466", "term": "chaser", "definition": "Short for \"tranny chaser.\" A person who sees trans people (usually trans women) as inherently sexual, and sexually objectifies them. As opposed to someone who simply is predominantly attracted to trans women; a chaser does not view trans women respectfully as people with humanity and agency, but rather as players in a sexual fantasy.", "sentence": "anyone else notice how these subs feel like their made for cis male chasers and not trans women?", "communities": [], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "MtF", "date": "2025-03-31 23:06:31", "timestamp": 1743455191.0 } }, { "id": "102244", "term": "joyfriend", "definition": "A sexual and/or romantic partner of any gender, but usually a nonbinary person.", "sentence": "You can still turn things around for yourself, whether or not that involves your former joyfriend.", "communities": [ "nonbinary" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "demisexuality", "date": "2020-10-10 13:44:10", "timestamp": 1602330250.0 } }, { "id": "120671", "term": "friend of Dorothy", "definition": "Coded slang for gay. Referring to gay icon Judy Garland's Dorothy in The Wizard of Oz.", "sentence": "The gay bar being named Friend of Dorothy or even Rival of Dorothy is cute.", "communities": [], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "AskLGBT", "date": "2024-07-17 17:09:56", "timestamp": 1721228996.0 } }, { "id": "203166", "term": "cunty", "definition": "Amazing or very good or cool, especially with regard to femininity.", "sentence": "I'm upvoting bc the visual of you sitting there with \"something is cunty\" as the only viable option for this situation is hilarious.", "communities": [], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "lgbt", "date": "2025-06-26 13:02:49", "timestamp": 1750935769.0 } }, { "id": "115669", "term": "lesbro", "definition": "A man who is considered an \"honorary lesbian\" by lesbian friends; otherwise, rarely, a lesbian who is considered stereotypically masculine, i.e. a \"bro\".", "sentence": "iā€™m just a lesbro lol", "communities": [ "lesbian" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "ftm", "date": "2023-10-31 03:52:27", "timestamp": 1698720747.0 } }, { "id": "165065", "term": "estro", "definition": "Clipping of estrogen.", "sentence": "I recall her telling me before she started estro years ago, that hormones sometimes change the way a person feels in regards to dating and partners.", "communities": [ "transgender" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "ftm", "date": "2019-09-23 20:19:24", "timestamp": 1569262764.0 } }, { "id": "91633", "term": "kiki", "definition": "ā€¢ A gathering of friends for the purpose of gossiping and chit-chat.\nā€¢ 1940s slang describing a lesbian comfortable with either a more passive or more aggressive partner in a relationship.", "sentence": "Modern usage of Kiki in LGBTQ+ culture is more of a gathering, like a party.", "communities": [ "drag", "lesbian", "African-American transgender", "African-American gay male" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "lgbt", "date": "2020-06-02 12:56:26", "timestamp": 1591095386.0 } }, { "id": "106498", "term": "deadnaming", "definition": "Calling a transgender person by their \"deadname\" (oftentimes their birth name, but not always).", "sentence": "But it was relating to my deadnaming.", "communities": [ "transgender" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "asktransgender", "date": "2022-08-25 14:06:34", "timestamp": 1661429194.0 } }, { "id": "209114", "term": "yass", "definition": "A strong expression of excitement or admiration.", "sentence": "If anyone says Yasss bitxh", "communities": [], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "LGBTindia", "date": "2024-01-02 18:28:08", "timestamp": 1704216488.0 } }, { "id": "115100", "term": "chapstick lesbian", "definition": "A lesbian who exhibits some butch traits (short hair, stereotypical men's clothing, etc.) without wholly fitting the masculine butch stereotype; alternatively, a lesbian who is athletic or has a keen interest in sports.", "sentence": "Hello Iā€™m asking all the chapstick lesbians out there if they often get misgendered and if they do, does it bother them?", "communities": [ "lesbian" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "lesbianfashionadvice", "date": "2024-02-14 17:38:01", "timestamp": 1707928681.0 } }, { "id": "157872", "term": "boymoder", "definition": "One who is in boymode, especially a trans woman who is on HRT but is not out.", "sentence": "* Durability - the boymoder sports a baggy hoodie and jeans/sweatpants, providing +1 to defense in every category.", "communities": [ "transgender" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "transgendercirclejerk", "date": "2022-03-25 23:51:50", "timestamp": 1648248710.0 } }, { "id": "110954", "term": "squish", "definition": "An aromantic crush; the desire for a non-romantic and/or platonic relationship with another person.", "sentence": "i have a squish on my closest friend, and he has one on me as well.", "communities": [ "aromantic" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "lgbt", "date": "2021-05-12 02:24:05", "timestamp": 1620779045.0 } }, { "id": "108198", "term": "t4t", "definition": "Short form of \"trans for trans\", indicating transgender persons interested in other transgender persons romantically and/or sexually.", "sentence": "i enjoy t4t *because* of the common experience and connections, that is just me though.", "communities": [ "transgender" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "MtF", "date": "2025-04-05 20:01:50", "timestamp": 1743876110.0 } }, { "id": "140306", "term": "BJ", "definition": "Initialism of blow job.", "sentence": "Made out with a few guys and got a BJ.", "communities": [], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "nycgaybros", "date": "2022-07-31 18:24:52", "timestamp": 1659284692.0 } }, { "id": "109036", "term": "titty skittle", "definition": "Oral estrogen taken by transgender woman and other transfeminine people.", "sentence": "We know Biden isn't going to swoop in and personally deliver titty skittles to all the good little trans girls out of the goodness of his heart.", "communities": [ "transgender", "transfeminine" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "asktransgender", "date": "2021-01-21 12:13:39", "timestamp": 1611227619.0 } }, { "id": "157895", "term": "clockable", "definition": "Of a transgender person or drag performer: able to be clocked; capable of being noticed or recognized as transgender; not passing.", "sentence": "Iā€™ve heard people say high singsongy voices are more clockable.", "communities": [ "transgender" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "asktransgender", "date": "2022-09-28 01:10:52", "timestamp": 1664320252.0 } }, { "id": "202077", "term": "Tit Tac", "definition": "A pill taken as part of feminizing hormone replacement therapy, especially spironolactone (called by this name due to its peppermint smell) or estrogen such as estradiol.", "sentence": "I donā€™t have tit tacs I have a no-more-mister sticker", "communities": [ "transgender" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "MtF", "date": "2022-01-19 07:31:26", "timestamp": 1642573886.0 } }, { "id": "102191", "term": "joyfriend", "definition": "A sexual and/or romantic partner of any gender, but usually a nonbinary person.", "sentence": "The non binary person I dated last year liked to be referred to as joyfriend", "communities": [ "nonbinary" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "lgbt", "date": "2022-02-19 13:09:43", "timestamp": 1645272583.0 } }, { "id": "96992", "term": "total bottom", "definition": "A total bottom is someone who assumes an exclusively passive or receptive role during anal or oral intercourse.", "sentence": "That together with the fact I like bottoming so much made me into a total bottom.", "communities": [ "LGBTQ" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "askgaybros", "date": "2024-05-23 19:00:27", "timestamp": 1716483627.0 } }, { "id": "106875", "term": "girlmode", "definition": "When a transgender person presents a gender expression codified as female, typically if that person is a transgender man. Usually used in the context of going incognito as a cisgender woman.", "sentence": "idk i just girlmode at work bc i have anxiety šŸ”„šŸ”„", "communities": [ "transgender", "transgender" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "transgenderau", "date": "2023-03-07 05:44:08", "timestamp": 1678164248.0 } }, { "id": "101588", "term": "femby", "definition": "A slang term sometimes used to refer to femme enbies (non-binary people) or non-binary women. A portmanteau of \"femme\" and \"enby\".", "sentence": "excuse me is there an agender version of femby", "communities": [ "nonbinary" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "pansexual", "date": "2021-01-07 02:51:43", "timestamp": 1609984303.0 } }, { "id": "149181", "term": "serve cunt", "definition": "To act in a powerfully and unapologetically feminine manner.", "sentence": "> How can you serve cunt as a man and as a woman??", "communities": [ "drag" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "rupaulsdragrace", "date": "2023-11-25 22:35:03", "timestamp": 1700948103.0 } }, { "id": "101443", "term": "bipoly", "definition": "Of or relating to a person who is bisexual and polyamorous.", "sentence": "(Also are there any bipoly dating apps?)", "communities": [ "bisexual" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "bisexual", "date": "2021-12-02 02:46:43", "timestamp": 1638409603.0 } }, { "id": "101501", "term": "enban", "definition": "An adult nonbinary person.", "sentence": "Just like how not all monosexuals feel attraction to enbans even if their label is inclusive of it.", "communities": [ "nonbinary" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "lgbt", "date": "2022-06-05 10:39:59", "timestamp": 1654418399.0 } }, { "id": "115091", "term": "chapstick lesbian", "definition": "A lesbian who exhibits some butch traits (short hair, stereotypical men's clothing, etc.) without wholly fitting the masculine butch stereotype; alternatively, a lesbian who is athletic or has a keen interest in sports.", "sentence": "Kinda a chapstick lesbian in the works.", "communities": [ "lesbian" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "asktransgender", "date": "2017-09-19 23:34:45", "timestamp": 1505856885.0 } }, { "id": "71564", "term": "beard", "definition": "Individuals who pose as the date or partner of someone they are not in a relationship with, typically to prevent that person's sexuality from becoming public knowledge; most commonly used to refer to a woman pretending to be dating a gay man.", "sentence": "My answer was like ā€œI see my beard every week, but she doesnā€™t really do it for meā€ before I realized you are speaking of LITERAL beards!", "communities": [ "LGBTQ" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "gaybros", "date": "2025-02-02 17:55:45", "timestamp": 1738515345.0 } }, { "id": "227353", "term": "drag queen", "definition": "ā€¢ A male entertainer who performs dressed as a woman; a female impersonator.\nā€¢ A male-to-female cross-dresser.", "sentence": "Auntie Vida and Auntie Noxee will give you the outrageous outlook and indomitable spirit that it will take to make you a full-fledged drag queen.", "communities": [], "metadata": { "source": "OpenSubtitles", "title": "To Wong Foo, Thanks for Everything! Julie Newmar", "imdb_id": "114682" } }, { "id": "83509", "term": "gold star", "definition": "Slang for someone who has never had sex with someone of the opposite gender, sometimes including bisexual people of their own gender. Most commonly used in lesbian communities, now widely recognised as biphobic.", "sentence": "I can't believe people are still bragging about being a gold star lesbian these days.", "communities": [], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "actuallesbians", "date": "2024-03-01 04:11:31", "timestamp": 1709262691.0 } }, { "id": "149503", "term": "the house down", "definition": "Used as an intensifier: very, to a great degree; exceptionally.", "sentence": "Since when is a high kick, pas de bourre, kick ball change 'dancing the house down'.", "communities": [ "drag" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "Drag", "date": "2015-07-18 05:52:05", "timestamp": 1437191525.0 } }, { "id": "98673", "term": "versatile", "definition": "Someone who penetrates or is penetrated during sexual intercourse or someone who has a preference for both being penetrated and penetrating during such intercourse.", "sentence": "Top=dominant, bottom=submissive, versatile=can switch roles.", "communities": [ "LGBTQ" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "actuallesbians", "date": "2014-08-22 22:49:52", "timestamp": 1408740592.0 } }, { "id": "202080", "term": "Tit Tac", "definition": "A pill taken as part of feminizing hormone replacement therapy, especially spironolactone (called by this name due to its peppermint smell) or estrogen such as estradiol.", "sentence": "Are tit tacs progesterone?", "communities": [ "transgender" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "MtF", "date": "2025-02-26 08:41:57", "timestamp": 1740555717.0 } }, { "id": "118704", "term": "gold star gay", "definition": "A gay person who has never had sex with a person of the opposite gender.", "sentence": "Most of my gay friends knew they were gay because they fantasized being with a man when they were with women, repressing their desires, or are ā€ gold star gaysā€.", "communities": [ "gay male" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "gay", "date": "2012-12-18 05:02:33", "timestamp": 1355803353.0 } }, { "id": "83738", "term": "gym rat", "definition": "A sports enthusiast; usually one who frequents gyms and training grounds; often used of young gay men obsessed with body building.", "sentence": "He's 28 I think and the gym rat nerdy type if that adds anything", "communities": [], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "gaybros", "date": "2024-08-30 19:51:38", "timestamp": 1725040298.0 } }, { "id": "84587", "term": "lipstick lesbian", "definition": "Usually refers to a lesbian with a feminine gender expression. Can be used in a positive or a derogatory way, depending on who is using it. Is sometimes also used to refer to a lesbian who is seen as automatically \"passing\" for heterosexual.", "sentence": "Primarily \"straight-looking\" girls or lipstick lesbians.", "communities": [ "lesbian" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "bisexual", "date": "2012-01-30 05:55:55", "timestamp": 1327899355.0 } }, { "id": "215539", "term": "breast mint", "definition": "A pill taken as part of feminizing hormone replacement therapy, especially spironolactone (called by this name due to its peppermint smell) or estrogen such as estradiol.", "sentence": "Iā€™d just like to tack on Methamfeminine and Breast Mints onto the list we have going on in the comments!", "communities": [ "transgender" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "traaaaaaannnnnnnnnns", "date": "2022-01-06 01:58:12", "timestamp": 1641430692.0 } }, { "id": "123241", "term": "wolf", "definition": "A gay man who falls somewhere between a fox or twink and a bear or cub.", "sentence": "A wolf is fit/trim/muscular and hairy.", "communities": [ "gay male" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "askgaybros", "date": "2025-03-21 20:06:20", "timestamp": 1742583980.0 } }, { "id": "113804", "term": "boi", "definition": "An LGBTQIA+ slang term with multiple definitions; a boi might be a boyish lesbian, a submissive butch in the BDSM community, a younger transgender man or a transgender man early in transition, a younger bisexual or gay person who is somewhat feminine. Alternatively, some persons identifying with the term might fit none of these categories.", "sentence": "And as a cute gaymer boi, we love to see it.", "communities": [ "lesbian", "transmasculine", "African-American LGBTQ" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "GaymersGoneMild", "date": "2020-12-17 17:55:13", "timestamp": 1608224113.0 } }, { "id": "86990", "term": "switch", "definition": "ā€¢ LGBTQ+ community slang for someone who \"switches\" between the \"giving\" and \"receiving\" during sex. \"Vers\" is short for \"versatile.\" \"Switch\" is sometimes also used in a BDSM context, to indicate someone who \"switches\" between the dominant and submissive roles.\nā€¢ One who is willing to take either a submissive or a dominant role in a sexual relationship.", "sentence": "i get a big switch vibe from both of them", "communities": [ "LGBTQ" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "korrasami", "date": "2020-12-01 22:48:09", "timestamp": 1606859289.0 } }, { "id": "169408", "term": "mones", "definition": "Hormones used as part of hormone replacement therapy, especially for transgender or gender variant individuals.", "sentence": "Someone had told me years ago that you should wait until your finished because it can mess up your internal 'mones but I can't find anything to corroborate that...", "communities": [], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "ftm", "date": "2018-01-02 17:55:08", "timestamp": 1514912108.0 } }, { "id": "114756", "term": "butch dyke", "definition": "A butch lesbian. \"Butch\" is often used to describe a wide variety of gender expressions and identities adjacent to masculinity or \"butchilinity\".", "sentence": "Aspen has identified as a butch dyke for a good long while now (well before I entered the picture) and recently began identifying as nonbinary/transmasculine.", "communities": [ "lesbian" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "mypartneristrans", "date": "2023-06-22 00:42:43", "timestamp": 1687387363.0 } }, { "id": "102138", "term": "enby", "definition": "A nonbinary person, typically a young adult or an adolescent.", "sentence": "Evening all, I'm a transfem enby looking for more femme clothing.", "communities": [ "nonbinary" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "Crossdressing_support", "date": "2023-06-14 05:42:31", "timestamp": 1686714151.0 } }, { "id": "170466", "term": "spiro", "definition": "Clipping of spironolactone.", "sentence": "Also: she's been on spiro for 17 *years?!?!?!", "communities": [ "transgender" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "asktransgender", "date": "2025-01-08 22:08:24", "timestamp": 1736370504.0 } }, { "id": "108560", "term": "boymode", "definition": "When a transgender person presents a gender expression codified as male, typically if that person is a transgender woman. Usually used in the context of going incognito as a cisgender man.", "sentence": "If you want to boymode, you're gonna need to invest in a binder.", "communities": [ "transgender", "transgender" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "lgbt", "date": "2025-04-09 09:49:12", "timestamp": 1744184952.0 } }, { "id": "998", "term": "slay", "definition": "Used to express approval or amazement.", "sentence": "I'm just kind of like, yeah, slay.", "communities": [ "drag" ], "metadata": { "source": "Podcasts", "title": "Cancelled with Tana Mongeau & Brooke Schofield" } }, { "id": "108700", "term": "boymode", "definition": "When a transgender person presents a gender expression codified as male, typically if that person is a transgender woman. Usually used in the context of going incognito as a cisgender man.", "sentence": "I guess maybe he meant go to the funeral in boymode??", "communities": [ "transgender", "transgender" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "mypartneristrans", "date": "2024-12-11 17:12:55", "timestamp": 1733933575.0 } }, { "id": "90704", "term": "slay", "definition": "Used to express approval or amazement.", "sentence": "Bestie you slay 100%", "communities": [ "drag" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "lgbt", "date": "2024-02-04 13:42:30", "timestamp": 1707050550.0 } }, { "id": "101648", "term": "thembo", "definition": "A nonbinary or gender-neutral bimbo.", "sentence": "fellow thembo here: think flower jumpsuits might need to be our uniform!", "communities": [ "nonbinary" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "NonBinary", "date": "2021-03-24 13:45:01", "timestamp": 1616589901.0 } }, { "id": "211107", "term": "eggs", "definition": "Slang term (originating online) for a person who has not yet realised they are transgender, has not yet come out, or is in the early stages of transitioning. Usually used (fondly) by trans people to recognise when aspects of someone's personality or behavior remind them of gender-related aspects of themselves before they realized they were trans.", "sentence": "I guess things eggs seem to do, and hell, what I did before I realised I was trans.", "communities": [ "transgender" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "mypartneristrans", "date": "2020-08-14 10:26:30", "timestamp": 1597393590.0 } }, { "id": "212723", "term": "fruity", "definition": "Slang for a gay man, especially for a feminine gay man. Outdated and often offensive, because it implies someone is easily \"picked,\" or associates someone with its other slang meanings of \"dupe,\" \"victim,\" or someone living with mental illness.", "sentence": "Calling someone you don't know well a fruit or fruity as an insult or to make fun of them is not cool though.", "communities": [], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "lgbt", "date": "2023-09-08 01:27:10", "timestamp": 1694129230.0 } }, { "id": "168381", "term": "hatchling", "definition": "A person who has (especially recently) realized that they are transgender.", "sentence": "_Another_ queerantine hatchlingā€½ Congrats!", "communities": [ "transgender" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "MtF", "date": "2023-06-06 23:50:27", "timestamp": 1686088227.0 } }, { "id": "91787", "term": "faux queen", "definition": "A cis female performance artist who performs in female drag at drag shows, or acts like a drag queen.", "sentence": "I'm kind of delighted that Bob spent so much energy on making Rob the Faux Queen look (and feel) gorgeous on the runway.", "communities": [ "drag", "gay male" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "rupaulsdragrace", "date": "2016-04-12 05:43:53", "timestamp": 1460432633.0 } }, { "id": "106591", "term": "peak trans", "definition": "Signifying of a moment in which a transgender person considers their affirmed gender confirmed to a significant extent by an outside influencer.", "sentence": "Also I hope you mean that passing is PEAK trans to you (I genuinely couldn't figure out from what you had written and don't wanna assume either way).", "communities": [ "transgender" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "ftm", "date": "2025-06-20 08:43:18", "timestamp": 1750401798.0 } }, { "id": "120693", "term": "hunty", "definition": "A portmanteau of \"honey\" and \"cunt\", usually considered a term of supposed endearment.", "sentence": "I'm going into 4 months on hrt and ya girls excited I'm starting to see some BOOBS HUNTY and this butt is getting fat.", "communities": [ "gay male" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "MtF", "date": "2019-01-05 09:44:20", "timestamp": 1546677860.0 } }, { "id": "102256", "term": "joyfriend", "definition": "A sexual and/or romantic partner of any gender, but usually a nonbinary person.", "sentence": "Not only that but my friend came out to her cousin and my joyfriend is coming out to their mum", "communities": [ "nonbinary" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "comingout", "date": "2020-11-08 20:35:36", "timestamp": 1604864136.0 } }, { "id": "87752", "term": "switch-hitter", "definition": "USA slang for bisexual, originating from baseball terminology.", "sentence": "Sexually AmBIdexstrous: another way of saying switch-hitter", "communities": [], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "bisexual", "date": "2021-02-03 19:45:51", "timestamp": 1612377951.0 } }, { "id": "151278", "term": "boywife", "definition": "A young male assuming the employment of homemaking, a role traditionally assumed by women; the submissive partner in the relationship who receives great pleasure in \"taking care\" of his more dominant partner.", "sentence": "this is my first time posting as a pan boywife femboy love yall!", "communities": [ "gay" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "lgbt", "date": "2023-03-18 04:37:42", "timestamp": 1679110662.0 } }, { "id": "215449", "term": "orchie", "definition": "Clipping of orchiectomy.", "sentence": "I had my levels checked after my orchie.", "communities": [ "transgender" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "asktransgender", "date": "2025-05-26 21:02:30", "timestamp": 1748286150.0 } }, { "id": "91808", "term": "faux queen", "definition": "A cis female performance artist who performs in female drag at drag shows, or acts like a drag queen.", "sentence": "I'll keep reading the forum and I can't wait to get out and see some faux queens perform.", "communities": [ "drag", "gay male" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "fauxqueens", "date": "2014-11-30 17:51:32", "timestamp": 1417366292.0 } }, { "id": "140138", "term": "BJ", "definition": "Initialism of blow job.", "sentence": "I have never had a bad BJ in my life.", "communities": [], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "gaybros", "date": "2014-02-26 21:54:37", "timestamp": 1393448077.0 } }, { "id": "120787", "term": "twunk", "definition": "A gay man with the certain twink (meaning ā€œyoung, attractive, slim maleā€) stereotype elements that has a hunky (strong, muscular, etc.) physique.", "sentence": "I dont wanna be a huge beefy guy, just a twunk or a jock body at most...", "communities": [ "gay", "gay male" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "askgaybros", "date": "2024-06-28 21:48:10", "timestamp": 1719604090.0 } }, { "id": "213171", "term": "gym bunny", "definition": "A sports enthusiast; usually one who frequents gyms and training grounds; often used of young gay men obsessed with body building.", "sentence": "I have gym bunny gf šŸ˜.", "communities": [], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "actuallesbians", "date": "2021-09-19 18:07:00", "timestamp": 1632067620.0 } }, { "id": "106649", "term": "baby trans", "definition": "Someone who has recently discovered that they are transgender.", "sentence": "young ftm baby trans looking for L/XL/1X masc clothing or binders.", "communities": [ "transgender", "transgender" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "transtrade", "date": "2020-11-29 09:41:22", "timestamp": 1606639282.0 } }, { "id": "939", "term": "gender identity", "definition": "A personal identity one develops in childhood that one belongs to a gender category, multiple gender categories, or no gender categories.", "sentence": "And in Tumblr's case, it was activism particularly around sex positivity and gender identity.", "communities": [], "metadata": { "source": "Podcasts", "title": "The Witch Trials of J.K. Rowling" } }, { "id": "205345", "term": "lesboy", "definition": "A person who identifies as male and as a lesbian.", "sentence": "for conformation i am apart of lgbtq and nb, this is just a genuine question i have for lesboys", "communities": [], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "lgbt", "date": "2024-08-10 23:40:40", "timestamp": 1723326040.0 } }, { "id": "204416", "term": "girlsmell", "definition": "A girl or woman's body odour, often regarded as attractive.", "sentence": "I will not go feral for others in the bathroom, they shall come and seek me out as sole distributor of the girlsmell.", "communities": [], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "transgendercirclejerk", "date": "2025-04-19 20:25:41", "timestamp": 1745087141.0 } }, { "id": "142845", "term": "LGBT", "definition": "Initialism for lesbian, gay, bisexual, and transgender.", "sentence": "In my experience, in most places LGBT people form very small close-knit social circles.", "communities": [], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "LGBTindia", "date": "2025-07-11 09:30:58", "timestamp": 1752219058.0 } }, { "id": "110887", "term": "zucchini", "definition": "A queerplatonic partner.", "sentence": "If you don't, you are aromantic as well as asexual, and you might actually be looking for a zucchini, aka, a queer-platonic life partner.", "communities": [ "aromantic" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "lgbt", "date": "2024-12-29 17:09:26", "timestamp": 1735488566.0 } }, { "id": "269", "term": "realness", "definition": "The state of being real; the ability to blend or pass as heterosexual or cisgender; the quality of passing as a particular role in a particular circumstance.", "sentence": "Very American horror story realness.", "communities": [ "drag", "gay male" ], "metadata": { "source": "Podcasts", "title": "Cancelled with Tana Mongeau & Brooke Schofield" } }, { "id": "96247", "term": "gaydar", "definition": "A colloquialism referring to the intuitive ability of a person to assess others' sexual orientations as gay, bisexual or heterosexual. Gaydar relies on verbal and non-verbal clues and LGBTQ stereotypes. These include the sensitivity to social behaviors and mannerisms; for instance, acknowledging flamboyant body language, the tone of voice used by a person when speaking, overtly rejecting traditional gender roles, a person's occupation, and grooming habits.", "sentence": "I personally come across as very stereotypically straightā€”most people assume I am, and I donā€™t set off anyoneā€™s gaydar.", "communities": [ "LGBTQ" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "AskLGBT", "date": "2024-05-25 14:21:04", "timestamp": 1716639664.0 } }, { "id": "123828", "term": "boy pussy", "definition": "A gay man's anus, especially the receiving partipant's. Also, rarely, a transmasculine person's vulva.", "sentence": "If someone called my ass a boy pussy i would find it more funny than insulting at all tbh.", "communities": [ "transgender", "gay", "gay male" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "bisexual", "date": "2020-10-03 17:03:37", "timestamp": 1601737417.0 } }, { "id": "1745", "term": "kink", "definition": "ā€¢ A specific sexual desire, practice, or activity considered unconventional but within certain socially constructed boundaries.\nā€¢ A thief or burglar.", "sentence": "She didn't know about his kink, the sex worker or anything, so she was pretty shocked.", "communities": [], "metadata": { "source": "Podcasts", "title": "We Can Be Weirdos" } }, { "id": "204365", "term": "folx", "definition": "Folks; people.", "sentence": "Is it the same idea as folx?", "communities": [], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "AskLGBT", "date": "2025-06-08 03:05:30", "timestamp": 1749344730.0 } }, { "id": "83504", "term": "gold star", "definition": "Slang for someone who has never had sex with someone of the opposite gender, sometimes including bisexual people of their own gender. Most commonly used in lesbian communities, now widely recognised as biphobic.", "sentence": "Nope, just a simple gold star gay here.", "communities": [], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "gaybros", "date": "2018-11-23 10:47:19", "timestamp": 1542966439.0 } }, { "id": "99382", "term": "total top", "definition": "A total top is one who assumes an exclusively penetrative role for sex.", "sentence": "Total bottom, the guy I'm with is a total top - works out great :D", "communities": [ "LGBTQ" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "gaysian", "date": "2016-02-03 06:03:16", "timestamp": 1454475796.0 } }, { "id": "83502", "term": "gold star", "definition": "Slang for someone who has never had sex with someone of the opposite gender, sometimes including bisexual people of their own gender. Most commonly used in lesbian communities, now widely recognised as biphobic.", "sentence": "Im another gold star gay, knew I was gay since 11.", "communities": [], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "gaybros", "date": "2024-04-24 06:33:59", "timestamp": 1713933239.0 } }, { "id": "110160", "term": "outie", "definition": "A term sometimes used to refer to the external genitalia of a transfeminine person.", "sentence": "My outie is barely 4\"...", "communities": [ "transfeminine" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "asktransgender", "date": "2018-03-02 19:42:03", "timestamp": 1520016123.0 } }, { "id": "151511", "term": "bussy", "definition": "ā€¢ Any anus, in general.\nā€¢ The vulva or vagina of a trans man.", "sentence": "see the word bussy in a title of an article has the same effect as a flashbang", "communities": [ "gay" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "LGBTnews", "date": "2023-03-27 09:29:30", "timestamp": 1679902170.0 } }, { "id": "120795", "term": "twunk", "definition": "A gay man with the certain twink (meaning ā€œyoung, attractive, slim maleā€) stereotype elements that has a hunky (strong, muscular, etc.) physique.", "sentence": "I was a Twinks and Twunks type and now I'm like I guess Cubs and Hunkish Bears are ok too šŸ‘€šŸ‘€šŸ‘€šŸ‘€šŸ‘€šŸ‘€šŸ‘€šŸ‘€šŸ‘€šŸ‘€šŸ‘€šŸ‘€šŸ‘€šŸ‘€šŸ‘€", "communities": [ "gay", "gay male" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "SuddenlyGay", "date": "2018-09-01 04:51:25", "timestamp": 1535770285.0 } }, { "id": "202184", "term": "unclockable", "definition": "Not recognizable as transgender or a drag performer; passing.", "sentence": "Hanes makes decent bralettes that are relatively comfy and you can slip the Unclockables Bra Buds into them to fill them out a bit.", "communities": [ "transgender" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "NonBinary", "date": "2025-05-24 07:50:15", "timestamp": 1748065815.0 } }, { "id": "227365", "term": "drag queen", "definition": "ā€¢ A male entertainer who performs dressed as a woman; a female impersonator.\nā€¢ A male-to-female cross-dresser.", "sentence": "Hell, I'm a drag queen too.!", "communities": [], "metadata": { "source": "OpenSubtitles", "title": "To Wong Foo, Thanks for Everything! Julie Newmar", "imdb_id": "114682" } }, { "id": "116849", "term": "cub", "definition": "A younger or younger-looking bear, sometimes with a smaller frame (\"bear\" meaning \"a gay or bisexual man who has facial/body hair and a cuddly body\").", "sentence": "I absolutely love cubs and bears.", "communities": [ "gay", "bear" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "gaybros", "date": "2018-10-30 13:25:23", "timestamp": 1540902323.0 } }, { "id": "168271", "term": "girlcock", "definition": "The penis of a trans woman.", "sentence": "So... i decided to look at my girlcock and its gone less than a inch balls have gone smaller is it anything to worry about?", "communities": [ "transgender" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "MtF", "date": "2022-03-31 14:52:44", "timestamp": 1648731164.0 } }, { "id": "169375", "term": "manmode", "definition": "The state of presenting as a man, regardless of one's actual gender identity, especially of a trans woman.", "sentence": "TL;DR Mistaken for girl twice while in manmode at restaurants with only a ponytail and male clothing.", "communities": [ "transgender" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "crossdressing", "date": "2012-03-16 08:25:38", "timestamp": 1331882738.0 } }, { "id": "110916", "term": "zucchini", "definition": "A queerplatonic partner.", "sentence": "Me and EP had been together for about a year as best friends before we decided we wanted to be zucchinis, or platonic life partners.", "communities": [ "aromantic" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "asexuality", "date": "2019-11-19 06:22:26", "timestamp": 1574140946.0 } }, { "id": "110909", "term": "zucchini", "definition": "A queerplatonic partner.", "sentence": "gf/bf, just your partner, I've even heard some people say zucchini?", "communities": [ "aromantic" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "asexuality", "date": "2024-06-04 08:46:20", "timestamp": 1717483580.0 } }, { "id": "228056", "term": "discreet", "definition": "Not drawing attention, anger or challenge; inconspicuous.", "sentence": "You weren't very discreet.", "communities": [ "LGBTQ" ], "metadata": { "source": "OpenSubtitles", "title": "Gia", "imdb_id": "123865" } }, { "id": "101459", "term": "eneby", "definition": "Rare nonbinary slang. Portmanteau of \"enemy\" and \"enby\" (NB, being the phonetic spelling of nonbinary).", "sentence": "Everybody wants to be my eneby!", "communities": [ "nonbinary" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "traaaaaaannnnnnnnnns", "date": "2022-04-17 09:54:08", "timestamp": 1650182048.0 } }, { "id": "107179", "term": "truscum", "definition": "A person who adheres to a strict medical definition of being transgender and believes that gender dysphoria is an essential trait.", "sentence": "And truscum aren't just saying it about NB people either.", "communities": [ "transgender" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "agender", "date": "2022-01-15 16:53:37", "timestamp": 1642262017.0 } }, { "id": "151517", "term": "bussy", "definition": "ā€¢ Any anus, in general.\nā€¢ The vulva or vagina of a trans man.", "sentence": "just like my bussy", "communities": [ "gay" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "GayBroTeens", "date": "2025-06-28 15:55:17", "timestamp": 1751118917.0 } }, { "id": "113824", "term": "boi", "definition": "An LGBTQIA+ slang term with multiple definitions; a boi might be a boyish lesbian, a submissive butch in the BDSM community, a younger transgender man or a transgender man early in transition, a younger bisexual or gay person who is somewhat feminine. Alternatively, some persons identifying with the term might fit none of these categories.", "sentence": "Today's gender: Groth- a combination of a grudge gurl and a goth boi, mixed not blended.", "communities": [ "lesbian", "transmasculine", "African-American LGBTQ" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "androgyny", "date": "2025-02-22 14:07:24", "timestamp": 1740229644.0 } }, { "id": "169795", "term": "pre-E", "definition": "Not yet having undergone estrogen-based hormone replacement therapy.", "sentence": "I am far beyond pre-E, but my concern were:", "communities": [ "transgender" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "MtF", "date": "2024-06-08 19:43:46", "timestamp": 1717868626.0 } }, { "id": "98664", "term": "versatile", "definition": "Someone who penetrates or is penetrated during sexual intercourse or someone who has a preference for both being penetrated and penetrating during such intercourse.", "sentence": "I've yet to fully appreciate the joys of bottoming myself, but well over half of the gay guys I know, or have *known*, were versatile.", "communities": [ "LGBTQ" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "gaybros", "date": "2012-11-26 06:54:36", "timestamp": 1353909276.0 } }, { "id": "99787", "term": "queer coding", "definition": "A situation in which a character is given traits or behaviors which suggest they are not heterosexual and/or cisgender, without the character being outright confirmed as having such an identity.", "sentence": "Other people: we need to stop queer coding villains", "communities": [ "LGBTQ" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "BisexualTeens", "date": "2020-05-26 03:44:20", "timestamp": 1590457460.0 } }, { "id": "228062", "term": "discreet", "definition": "Not drawing attention, anger or challenge; inconspicuous.", "sentence": "Can I ask you to be discreet?", "communities": [ "LGBTQ" ], "metadata": { "source": "OpenSubtitles", "title": "Priest", "imdb_id": "110889" } }, { "id": "229059", "term": "stealth", "definition": "When a transgender person keeps their transgender status closely guarded, living as if they were cisgender as their identified gender.", "sentence": "You're stealth to him?", "communities": [ "transgender" ], "metadata": { "source": "OpenSubtitles", "title": "Transamerica", "imdb_id": "407265" } }, { "id": "637", "term": "snatched", "definition": "Good-looking.", "sentence": "I have had friends say to me, your face looks snatched.", "communities": [], "metadata": { "source": "Podcasts", "title": "Let's Be Honest with Kristin Cavallari" } }, { "id": "123687", "term": "hunk", "definition": "A muscular, handsome gay man.", "sentence": "I'm a hunk who is with a hunk, and we like to do hunky things together :)", "communities": [ "gay male" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "askgaybros", "date": "2024-10-11 10:01:48", "timestamp": 1728633708.0 } }, { "id": "116651", "term": "chubby chaser", "definition": "A gay male person who is attracted sexually and/or romantically to obesity.", "sentence": "There simply isn't a large number of chubby chasers tho.", "communities": [ "chub" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "askgaybros", "date": "2024-08-09 19:02:07", "timestamp": 1723222927.0 } }, { "id": "206469", "term": "useless lesbian", "definition": "A lesbian who is socially or romantically inept with other women.", "sentence": "As stated above, we are 3 German useless lesbians.", "communities": [], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "lgbt", "date": "2020-12-18 20:27:08", "timestamp": 1608319628.0 } }, { "id": "99349", "term": "power bottom", "definition": "A power bottom is someone who aggressively enjoys being the receptive partner.", "sentence": "perhaps into a power top or a power bottom :)", "communities": [ "LGBTQ" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "nycgaybros", "date": "2020-08-20 14:01:24", "timestamp": 1597924884.0 } }, { "id": "118706", "term": "gold star gay", "definition": "A gay person who has never had sex with a person of the opposite gender.", "sentence": "Noone who lives in reality, out of the twitter bubble, will react that way in response to someone being a gold star gay holy", "communities": [ "gay male" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "askgaybros", "date": "2023-03-30 16:07:08", "timestamp": 1680185228.0 } }, { "id": "84634", "term": "lipstick lesbian", "definition": "Usually refers to a lesbian with a feminine gender expression. Can be used in a positive or a derogatory way, depending on who is using it. Is sometimes also used to refer to a lesbian who is seen as automatically \"passing\" for heterosexual.", "sentence": "Does that make me a lipstick lesbian.", "communities": [ "lesbian" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "AskLGBT", "date": "2022-05-27 03:44:09", "timestamp": 1653615849.0 } }, { "id": "83743", "term": "gym rat", "definition": "A sports enthusiast; usually one who frequents gyms and training grounds; often used of young gay men obsessed with body building.", "sentence": "I'm going to continue being a feminine gym rat!", "communities": [], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "actuallesbians", "date": "2024-01-26 03:28:42", "timestamp": 1706236122.0 } }, { "id": "101460", "term": "eneby", "definition": "Rare nonbinary slang. Portmanteau of \"enemy\" and \"enby\" (NB, being the phonetic spelling of nonbinary).", "sentence": "Clockperson, my graetest eneby!", "communities": [ "nonbinary" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "NonBinary", "date": "2024-10-07 18:13:25", "timestamp": 1728317605.0 } }, { "id": "110413", "term": "Eve's apple", "definition": "A transfeminine slang term coined to replace the masculine sounding \"Adam's apple\".", "sentence": "- Start by swallowing, but holding your throat once your Eve's Apple has raised up.", "communities": [ "transfeminine" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "transvoice", "date": "2018-02-12 01:49:49", "timestamp": 1518396589.0 } }, { "id": "117056", "term": "polar bear", "definition": "An older bear whose facial and body hair are predominantly or entirely white or grey (\"bear\" meaning \"a gay or bisexual man who has facial/body hair and a cuddly body\").", "sentence": "What if you're a bipolar bi polar bear?", "communities": [ "bear" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "bisexual", "date": "2012-07-17 04:04:28", "timestamp": 1342490668.0 } }, { "id": "96966", "term": "total bottom", "definition": "A total bottom is someone who assumes an exclusively passive or receptive role during anal or oral intercourse.", "sentence": "Any total bottoms in southern Maryland wanna hook up?", "communities": [ "LGBTQ" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "gay", "date": "2019-11-26 20:23:37", "timestamp": 1574796217.0 } }, { "id": "169387", "term": "manmode", "definition": "The state of presenting as a man, regardless of one's actual gender identity, especially of a trans woman.", "sentence": "* feel like a manmoder talking to them", "communities": [ "transgender" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "transgendercirclejerk", "date": "2024-01-01 05:06:41", "timestamp": 1704082001.0 } }, { "id": "224467", "term": "daddy", "definition": "ā€¢ A slang term with multiple meanings depending on the context. It may refer to an attractive older man, an older man in a relationship with a young male partner, a butch lesbian who fulfills such a role in a lesbian relationship, a man who takes care of a younger partner financially, or a procurer of sex workers, among other things.\nā€¢ A man who, in the context of sexual or romantic relationships with other men, is dominant\nā€¢ A predatory or aggressive gay man in a prison.\nā€¢ A pimp; a procurer of sex workers or prostituted persons.\nā€¢ A supervising officer in the military.", "sentence": "Call me daddy, while I fuck you.", "communities": [ "gay male" ], "metadata": { "source": "OpenSubtitles", "title": "Monster", "imdb_id": "340855" } }, { "id": "211106", "term": "eggs", "definition": "Slang term (originating online) for a person who has not yet realised they are transgender, has not yet come out, or is in the early stages of transitioning. Usually used (fondly) by trans people to recognise when aspects of someone's personality or behavior remind them of gender-related aspects of themselves before they realized they were trans.", "sentence": "As a trans person myself, even I get uncomfortable when I hear people calling folks they don't know eggs.", "communities": [ "transgender" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "mypartneristrans", "date": "2024-05-04 12:45:25", "timestamp": 1714819525.0 } }, { "id": "203322", "term": "doll", "definition": "A transgender woman or transfeminine person.", "sentence": "i have a very culturally diverse group of trans friends and most of the trans fems call themselves dolls, no matter where they from", "communities": [], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "asktransgender", "date": "2025-05-20 20:31:43", "timestamp": 1747765903.0 } }, { "id": "165209", "term": "estrogel", "definition": "Estradiol gel used in feminizing hormone replacement therapy.", "sentence": "So some of you may remember I posted about my current HRT regime (prostap for blockers and estrogel)", "communities": [ "transgender" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "transgenderUK", "date": "2024-01-16 14:50:32", "timestamp": 1705413032.0 } }, { "id": "89658", "term": "tranny", "definition": "A transgender person, usually a transgender woman. Originally a shortening of transvestite. Generally considered derogatory, offensive. Debate over the termā€™s offensiveness occurred in the early 2010s, but by 2017, the term was banned by several media stylebooks and labeled as hate speech by Facebook.", "sentence": "honestly iā€™m not familiar with the history of tranny being used as a hurtful term against trans men.", "communities": [ "transfeminine" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "asktransgender", "date": "2021-12-26 19:18:28", "timestamp": 1640542708.0 } }, { "id": "20488", "term": "beat", "definition": "ā€¢ An area frequented by gay men in search of sexual activity.\nā€¢ Having impressively attractive makeup.", "sentence": "He's in a full beat selling merch, having a meet and greet.", "communities": [ "gay" ], "metadata": { "source": "Podcasts", "title": "Why Won't You Date Me? with Nicole Byer" } }, { "id": "123844", "term": "boy pussy", "definition": "A gay man's anus, especially the receiving partipant's. Also, rarely, a transmasculine person's vulva.", "sentence": "Side note, boy pussy is more often used to refer to the anus of a twink than a trans person's genitalia.", "communities": [ "transgender", "gay", "gay male" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "trans", "date": "2024-03-10 14:05:35", "timestamp": 1710075935.0 } }, { "id": "127547", "term": "butch queen", "definition": "A gay man with a traditionally masculine gender expression.", "sentence": "A lot of city gays make me out to be some masc butch queen because I donā€™t care for Rupauls drag race.", "communities": [ "gay male" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "gay", "date": "2023-08-03 00:37:59", "timestamp": 1691015879.0 } }, { "id": "120696", "term": "hunty", "definition": "A portmanteau of \"honey\" and \"cunt\", usually considered a term of supposed endearment.", "sentence": "Whoa okay hunty that 2nd pic šŸ’•", "communities": [ "gay male" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "VintageLadyBoners", "date": "2023-06-21 18:26:44", "timestamp": 1687364804.0 } }, { "id": "115496", "term": "pillow princess", "definition": "A woman who likes to receive and not give, sexually.", "sentence": "Dont get me wrong, i love being a pillow princess but im starting to feel a lack of connection.", "communities": [ "lesbian" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "mypartneristrans", "date": "2019-06-18 15:09:13", "timestamp": 1560863353.0 } }, { "id": "165166", "term": "estrogel", "definition": "Estradiol gel used in feminizing hormone replacement therapy.", "sentence": "6 months estrogel monotherapy, 6 months estradiol enanthate injections monotherapy.", "communities": [ "transgender" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "transtimelines", "date": "2025-01-11 19:02:33", "timestamp": 1736618553.0 } }, { "id": "108925", "term": "cotton ceiling", "definition": "A term used for the tendency for cisgender lesbians to not want to engage in sexual activities with transgender women, particular those who have not yet undergone feminizing genitoplasty; or, more broadly, the tendency for cisgender lesbians to exclude transgender women from spaces.", "sentence": "I don't think it's a good idea to promote the idea that anyone is entitled to sex, which is what I feel that belief in the cotton ceiling is doing.", "communities": [ "transfeminine", "lesbian" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "asktransgender", "date": "2017-05-09 06:52:16", "timestamp": 1494305536.0 } }, { "id": "110858", "term": "genetic woman", "definition": "A term used rarely by transgender women to refer to cisgender women.", "sentence": "I'm very well-adjusted as a woman and only the people I've told seem to know that I'm not a genetic woman.", "communities": [ "transfeminine" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "actuallesbians", "date": "2012-01-03 21:47:53", "timestamp": 1325623673.0 } }, { "id": "106657", "term": "repressor", "definition": "A transgender person who fights or represses the wish to change their gender expression.", "sentence": "> I'm an mtf repressor who likes to write stories as a way to cope with life.", "communities": [ "transgender" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "asktransgender", "date": "2022-10-06 00:04:13", "timestamp": 1665007453.0 } }, { "id": "157416", "term": "twinky", "definition": "Being or resembling a twink (ā€œyoung, attractive, slim maleā€).", "sentence": "Just because I dont like twinks even though I'm kinda twinky doesn't mean who I like is wrong.", "communities": [ "gay" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "askgaybros", "date": "2018-12-16 22:41:55", "timestamp": 1544996515.0 } }, { "id": "142264", "term": "LGBT", "definition": "Initialism for lesbian, gay, bisexual, and transgender.", "sentence": "I've worked in the medical field and had this discussion with other gay coworkers and generally speaking, there is a terrible dearth of competent practitioners for the LGBT community.", "communities": [], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "askGSM", "date": "2012-10-02 20:35:17", "timestamp": 1349202917.0 } }, { "id": "110955", "term": "squish", "definition": "An aromantic crush; the desire for a non-romantic and/or platonic relationship with another person.", "sentence": "i already have a romantic boyfriend, but i was wondering if my squish and i could be in some sort of platonic relationship, but not be cheating on my boyfriend.", "communities": [ "aromantic" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "lgbt", "date": "2021-05-12 02:24:05", "timestamp": 1620779045.0 } }, { "id": "99328", "term": "power bottom", "definition": "A power bottom is someone who aggressively enjoys being the receptive partner.", "sentence": "An example, most people pass me as straight, but I am a bottom in the sexual connotation, making me a true power bottom", "communities": [ "LGBTQ" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "GayBroTeens", "date": "2023-03-22 05:51:54", "timestamp": 1679460714.0 } }, { "id": "142066", "term": "LGBT", "definition": "Initialism for lesbian, gay, bisexual, and transgender.", "sentence": "We can't tolerate hate crimes against women, LGBT people, POCs and marginalized groups.", "communities": [], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "TransphobiaProject", "date": "2023-03-02 10:05:39", "timestamp": 1677747939.0 } }, { "id": "143375", "term": "autofellatio", "definition": "Oral stimulation of one's own penis.", "sentence": "But if you like performing autofellatio because you find yourself attractive and you enjoy performing sex with yourself because you are sexy, then you may have 'selfsexual' or 'autosexual' tendencies.", "communities": [], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "asexuality", "date": "2014-08-05 15:05:01", "timestamp": 1407243901.0 } }, { "id": "203320", "term": "doll", "definition": "A transgender woman or transfeminine person.", "sentence": "I have a white trans feminine acquaintance who refers to herself as a ā€œdollā€ ā€” like, ā€œIā€™m just a doll,ā€ or using it as a kind of identity label.", "communities": [], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "asktransgender", "date": "2025-05-20 18:48:06", "timestamp": 1747759686.0 } }, { "id": "91492", "term": "clock", "definition": "To take notice of, to realize, or to recognize someone as being transgender.", "sentence": "So I've been used to getting clocked as amab for awhile now despite being afab.", "communities": [ "drag", "transgender" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "agender", "date": "2024-08-18 22:45:25", "timestamp": 1724013925.0 } }, { "id": "210086", "term": "bears", "definition": "ā€¢ Community term with multiple meanings. 1. A gay or bisexual man who has facial/body hair and a cuddly body. 2. An umbrella term that refers to members of a subculture in the gay and bisexual male communities and is often defined as more of an attitude or sense of comfort with natural masculinity and bodies.\nā€¢ In male gay culture, a bear is often a larger, hairier man who projects an image of rugged masculinity.", "sentence": "I like other bears primarily.", "communities": [ "bear" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "lgbt", "date": "2024-01-23 17:22:21", "timestamp": 1706026941.0 } }, { "id": "1751", "term": "kink", "definition": "ā€¢ A specific sexual desire, practice, or activity considered unconventional but within certain socially constructed boundaries.\nā€¢ A thief or burglar.", "sentence": "So find me a kink.", "communities": [], "metadata": { "source": "Podcasts", "title": "We Can Be Weirdos" } }, { "id": "99622", "term": "gaymer", "definition": "Gay persons who have active interest in video games or tabletop games.", "sentence": "Don't have too many ATX gaymers on there, at least not that I'm aware of so would love some company :D", "communities": [ "LGBTQ" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "austingaymers", "date": "2016-11-14 01:53:05", "timestamp": 1479084785.0 } }, { "id": "89890", "term": "twink", "definition": "ā€¢ Slang term widely used in gay communities to describe a young or young-looking man with little or no facial or body hair. Can be pejorative, but can also be a self-descriptor.\nā€¢ A young, attractive, slim male, usually having little body hair.", "sentence": "iā€™ve noticed there isnā€™t really a butch community there, so itā€™s easy to get confused on who is a twink, and who is a butch lesbian šŸ˜­", "communities": [ "gay", "gay male" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "actuallesbians", "date": "2024-03-29 19:04:45", "timestamp": 1711735485.0 } }, { "id": "168471", "term": "hen", "definition": "The penis of a trans woman.", "sentence": "Much as I find my hen annoying I don't really trust myself but something has got to be done about the hen whether it be orchitectomy or full depth surgery.", "communities": [ "transgender" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "MtF", "date": "2024-09-21 13:53:11", "timestamp": 1726919591.0 } }, { "id": "165188", "term": "estrogel", "definition": "Estradiol gel used in feminizing hormone replacement therapy.", "sentence": "Been reading up on estrogel a bit recently and curious if anyone here has experience with it as I know injection, tablets, and patches are more common.", "communities": [ "transgender" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "trans", "date": "2022-07-19 11:19:07", "timestamp": 1658222347.0 } }, { "id": "110254", "term": "zap", "definition": "Slang term for electrolytic epilation.", "sentence": "Iā€™m not trying to go fully hairless but ideally Iā€™d like to permanently zap away my shoulder, neck, ass cheek and hole hairs.", "communities": [ "transfeminine" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "askgaybros", "date": "2023-12-19 05:47:40", "timestamp": 1702961260.0 } }, { "id": "108916", "term": "girl juice", "definition": "A slang term referring to injectable feminizing hormones.", "sentence": "If all goes well, I should be on the way to getting legitimate Girl Juice or Tittie Skittles.", "communities": [ "transfeminine" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "ask_transgender", "date": "2016-10-07 20:35:53", "timestamp": 1475865353.0 } }, { "id": "203158", "term": "šŸ„š", "definition": "Represents an egg, as in a person regarded as having not yet realized they are transgender.", "sentence": "Cracks in the egg are showing šŸ„š", "communities": [ "transgender" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "NonBinary", "date": "2024-03-03 10:53:27", "timestamp": 1709459607.0 } }, { "id": "214816", "term": "tops", "definition": "ā€¢ A \"top\" is an individual who acts as the \"giving\" partner in sexual encounters. Sometimes used as a self-descriptor within queer communities, but should be replicated with caution. Sometimes used as a verb (\"to top someone\"). Offensive if applied to LGBTQ+ individuals from outwith queer communities.\nā€¢ Someone, typically a man, who is penetrating someone else during sexual intercourse or someone who has a preference for penetrating during such intercourse.", "sentence": "It seems to be a thing, the idea that tops think and act a certain way, bottoms think and act a certain way, wtf lol?", "communities": [ "LGBTQ" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "gaybros", "date": "2022-03-24 14:47:53", "timestamp": 1648129673.0 } }, { "id": "151458", "term": "bussy", "definition": "ā€¢ Any anus, in general.\nā€¢ The vulva or vagina of a trans man.", "sentence": "Couldnā€™t agree more itā€™s weird just call it an ass, it sounds hotter than bussy šŸ˜·", "communities": [ "gay" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "askgaybros", "date": "2019-09-11 09:01:57", "timestamp": 1568185317.0 } }, { "id": "116848", "term": "cub", "definition": "A younger or younger-looking bear, sometimes with a smaller frame (\"bear\" meaning \"a gay or bisexual man who has facial/body hair and a cuddly body\").", "sentence": "I adore cubs so donā€™t worry, if anything I think a lot of gay men prefer the cub/bear type.", "communities": [ "gay", "bear" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "gaybros", "date": "2018-11-29 02:31:20", "timestamp": 1543455080.0 } }, { "id": "212725", "term": "fruity", "definition": "Slang for a gay man, especially for a feminine gay man. Outdated and often offensive, because it implies someone is easily \"picked,\" or associates someone with its other slang meanings of \"dupe,\" \"victim,\" or someone living with mental illness.", "sentence": "Today, we were kinda joking around and I said ā€œPassion Fruit and Dragon Fruit are my favorite fruitsā€ and she responded with ā€œWell, you always were pretty fruity.ā€", "communities": [], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "lgbt", "date": "2025-06-02 03:52:39", "timestamp": 1748829159.0 } }, { "id": "227383", "term": "drag queen", "definition": "ā€¢ A male entertainer who performs dressed as a woman; a female impersonator.\nā€¢ A male-to-female cross-dresser.", "sentence": "We should make this International Year of the Drag Queen.", "communities": [], "metadata": { "source": "OpenSubtitles", "title": "The Iron Ladies", "imdb_id": "263957" } }, { "id": "213174", "term": "gym bunny", "definition": "A sports enthusiast; usually one who frequents gyms and training grounds; often used of young gay men obsessed with body building.", "sentence": "Sheā€™s a gym bunny, long blonde hair, great ass, button nose; a 10 in my opinion.", "communities": [], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "bisexual", "date": "2020-01-20 07:08:18", "timestamp": 1579500498.0 } }, { "id": "223257", "term": "straight", "definition": "Of a person, being sexually attracted to individuals of the opposite gender in a binary gender system; heterosexual.", "sentence": "She thought you were straight.", "communities": [], "metadata": { "source": "OpenSubtitles", "title": "Touch of Pink", "imdb_id": "374277" } }, { "id": "106673", "term": "repressor", "definition": "A transgender person who fights or represses the wish to change their gender expression.", "sentence": "Regardless, don't do the repressor thing where you take extra testosterone to cure transness.", "communities": [ "transgender" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "MtF", "date": "2025-05-14 12:01:26", "timestamp": 1747216886.0 } }, { "id": "106689", "term": "transdar", "definition": "A colloquialism referring to the intuitive ability of a person to assess others' as being transgender. Transdar relies on verbal and non-verbal clues and transgender stereotypes. These include the sensitivity to social behaviors and mannerisms; for instance, acknowledging variations of gendered body language, the tone of voice used by a person when speaking, overtly rejecting traditional gender roles, a person's occupation, interests, etc.", "sentence": "My transdar has went off for less than this, traditionally (and I tend to be right).", "communities": [ "transgender" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "asktransgender", "date": "2015-10-13 11:43:48", "timestamp": 1444729428.0 } }, { "id": "75685", "term": "chaser", "definition": "Short for \"tranny chaser.\" A person who sees trans people (usually trans women) as inherently sexual, and sexually objectifies them. As opposed to someone who simply is predominantly attracted to trans women; a chaser does not view trans women respectfully as people with humanity and agency, but rather as players in a sexual fantasy.", "sentence": "DL guys wanting to keep our conversations a secret, chasers trying to get in our pants, men who just want to experiment with you.", "communities": [], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "trans", "date": "2024-10-16 17:11:52", "timestamp": 1729091512.0 } }, { "id": "210878", "term": "drag mother", "definition": "In the US, a group of drag queens who have been mentored by a \"mother,\" also known as a \"house.\" These groups often take on family drag names and form close-knit communities.", "sentence": "So who are your drag mothers or ideal drag mothers and how did you aquire your mother of drag?", "communities": [], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "fauxqueens", "date": "2014-05-25 07:42:51", "timestamp": 1400996571.0 } }, { "id": "214506", "term": "punks", "definition": "A slang term with multiple meanings depending on context. Originally used to refer to a sex worker or prostitute, especially a passive or feminine gay man (or a bottom). By the early 20th century, used to refer to a person considered worthless or criminal in nature. By the 1970s, used to refer to punk rock, a punk rocker, or to the sociocultural movement associated with punk rock and its fans. In the modern gay male community, the term \"punk\" may refer to a smaller, typically younger gay man who is forced into a submissive role in prison settings by an older gay man. Also occasionally used as a synonym for \"clock\" or \"read\", i.e. when a cisgender person recognizes a person as transgender.", "sentence": "What are the pronouns for punks?", "communities": [ "transgender", "gay male" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "lgbt", "date": "2021-08-19 19:01:17", "timestamp": 1629392477.0 } }, { "id": "113820", "term": "boi", "definition": "An LGBTQIA+ slang term with multiple definitions; a boi might be a boyish lesbian, a submissive butch in the BDSM community, a younger transgender man or a transgender man early in transition, a younger bisexual or gay person who is somewhat feminine. Alternatively, some persons identifying with the term might fit none of these categories.", "sentence": "I want to hug the big trans boi.", "communities": [ "lesbian", "transmasculine", "African-American LGBTQ" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "traaaaaaannnnnnnnnns", "date": "2021-05-12 07:26:28", "timestamp": 1620797188.0 } }, { "id": "106997", "term": "truscum", "definition": "A person who adheres to a strict medical definition of being transgender and believes that gender dysphoria is an essential trait.", "sentence": "More recently, the terms truscum and tucute have somewhat merged with two newer (or not as popular) terms, inclus and exclus.", "communities": [ "transgender" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "asktransgender", "date": "2024-03-21 08:44:56", "timestamp": 1711007096.0 } }, { "id": "4975", "term": "activist", "definition": "A person who is politically active in campaigning for change to an existing sociopolitical or cultural order.", "sentence": "She was a millionaire and philanthropist and a women's rights activist.", "communities": [], "metadata": { "source": "Podcasts", "title": "Bittersweet Infamy" } }, { "id": "116689", "term": "malefailing", "definition": "To be seen as and gender as female while attempting to present as masculine.", "sentence": "My first time malefailing was to someone whoā€™s know me my whole life.", "communities": [ "transmasculine" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "MtF", "date": "2025-02-28 04:12:04", "timestamp": 1740712324.0 } }, { "id": "96286", "term": "versatile bottom", "definition": "A versatile bottom is one who prefers to bottom (act as the \"receiving\" partner in sexual encounters) but who tops (acts as the \"giving\" partner in sexual encounters) occasionally.", "sentence": "As a 100% bottom, I avoid versatile and versatile bottoms for hookups.", "communities": [ "LGBTQ" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "askgaybros", "date": "2023-12-24 19:50:51", "timestamp": 1703443851.0 } }, { "id": "165155", "term": "estrogel", "definition": "Estradiol gel used in feminizing hormone replacement therapy.", "sentence": "I'm MtF starting on Estrogel in a day or so, and I have a bunch of stuff I'm wondering that I've had a hard time finding answers for.", "communities": [ "transgender" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "asktransgender", "date": "2025-03-13 21:11:11", "timestamp": 1741896671.0 } }, { "id": "158085", "term": "crack", "definition": "To realize that one is transgender.", "sentence": ">Welp... Today is 2 years since my egg cracked for good šŸ£", "communities": [ "transgender" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "lgbt", "date": "2020-09-16 21:39:26", "timestamp": 1600285166.0 } }, { "id": "107950", "term": "crossdreaming", "definition": "Dreams or fantasies in which a person imagines themself as (or simply dressed as) the \"opposite\" gender (i.e. a man as a woman or a woman as a man).", "sentence": "I have now learned to know too many extrovert and outgoing crossdreamers to think that this trait says something essential about crossdreaming.", "communities": [ "transgender", "cross-dressing" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "crossdreaming", "date": "2014-02-10 16:15:52", "timestamp": 1392045352.0 } }, { "id": "165171", "term": "estrogel", "definition": "Estradiol gel used in feminizing hormone replacement therapy.", "sentence": "3 months on 1mg estrogel, then 3 months on 1.5mg.", "communities": [ "transgender" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "transtimelines", "date": "2024-01-15 14:06:11", "timestamp": 1705323971.0 } }, { "id": "104078", "term": "stealth", "definition": "When a transgender person keeps their transgender status closely guarded, living as if they were cisgender as their identified gender.", "sentence": "As for the person, itā€™s hard to tell if it was a genuine case of stealth-sex or just a slip up.", "communities": [ "transgender" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "gaybros", "date": "2019-05-31 06:35:42", "timestamp": 1559277342.0 } }, { "id": "74242", "term": "bottom", "definition": "ā€¢ A \"bottom\" is an individual who acts as the \"receiving\" partner in sexual encounters. Sometimes used as a self-descriptor within queer communities, but should be replicated with caution. Sometimes used as a verb (\"to bottom for someone\"). Offensive if applied to LGBTQ+ individuals from outwith queer communities.\nā€¢ Someone, typically a man, who is penetrated during sexual intercourse or someone who has a preference for being penetrated during such intercourse.\nā€¢ The buttocks.\nā€¢ Genitalia; genitals.", "sentence": "Usually I like myself down there but now I am reconsidering bottom surgery.", "communities": [ "gay", "LGBTQ" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "transgendercirclejerk", "date": "2024-05-27 23:49:41", "timestamp": 1716846581.0 } }, { "id": "93", "term": "throw shade", "definition": "To subtly insult someone.", "sentence": "I'm not gonna say, I'm not gonna throw shade on that guy.", "communities": [], "metadata": { "source": "Podcasts", "title": "Toronto Mike'd: The Official Toronto Mike Podcast" } }, { "id": "77481", "term": "faggot", "definition": "A pejorative term used chiefly in North America primarily to refer to a gay man. Alongside its use to refer to gay men in particular, it may also be used as a pejorative term for a \"repellent man\" or to refer to women who are lesbian (or to transgender people, typically transgender women). Its use has spread from the United States to varying extents elsewhere in the English-speaking world through mass culture, including film, music, and the Internet.", "sentence": "I can't play an online game without people calling me and other people faggots.", "communities": [ "gay male" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "gaymers", "date": "2014-08-09 01:37:21", "timestamp": 1407541041.0 } }, { "id": "211160", "term": "eggs", "definition": "Slang term (originating online) for a person who has not yet realised they are transgender, has not yet come out, or is in the early stages of transitioning. Usually used (fondly) by trans people to recognise when aspects of someone's personality or behavior remind them of gender-related aspects of themselves before they realized they were trans.", "sentence": "This is a convoluted question, but I think the main answer is because eggs themselves created this term.", "communities": [ "transgender" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "transeducate", "date": "2021-02-08 16:43:41", "timestamp": 1612799021.0 } }, { "id": "157821", "term": "anticistamines", "definition": "Medication used for transgender hormone replacement therapy.", "sentence": "Congratulations on your anticistamines :)", "communities": [ "transgender" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "trans", "date": "2025-03-13 23:00:32", "timestamp": 1741903232.0 } }, { "id": "106485", "term": "deadnaming", "definition": "Calling a transgender person by their \"deadname\" (oftentimes their birth name, but not always).", "sentence": "She knows what shes doing deadnaming trans people.", "communities": [ "transgender" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "rupaulsdragrace", "date": "2023-09-30 01:53:15", "timestamp": 1696031595.0 } }, { "id": "154630", "term": "henny", "definition": "Alternative spelling of honey.", "sentence": "Watch your language henny, try \"Yass Commonly Consort Monarch\" instead.", "communities": [ "gay" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "transgendercirclejerk", "date": "2016-11-03 02:51:02", "timestamp": 1478137862.0 } }, { "id": "169396", "term": "manmoder", "definition": "One who is in manmode (presenting as male regardless of gender identity).", "sentence": "im a manmoder, everyone tells me my shoulders are horrifically broad.", "communities": [ "transgender" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "transpassing", "date": "2025-07-09 15:35:48", "timestamp": 1752068148.0 } }, { "id": "88543", "term": "top", "definition": "ā€¢ A \"top\" is an individual who acts as the \"giving\" partner in sexual encounters. Sometimes used as a self-descriptor within queer communities, but should be replicated with caution. Sometimes used as a verb (\"to top someone\"). Offensive if applied to LGBTQ+ individuals from outwith queer communities.\nā€¢ Someone, typically a man, who is penetrating someone else during sexual intercourse or someone who has a preference for penetrating during such intercourse.", "sentence": "Whatā€™s fun is you can top with a strap on if you so choose later on.", "communities": [ "LGBTQ" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "ask_transgender", "date": "2022-09-21 20:55:06", "timestamp": 1663786506.0 } }, { "id": "104071", "term": "stealth", "definition": "When a transgender person keeps their transgender status closely guarded, living as if they were cisgender as their identified gender.", "sentence": "If there are any stealthers out there, why do you do it?", "communities": [ "transgender" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "gaybros", "date": "2018-11-24 22:38:40", "timestamp": 1543095520.0 } }, { "id": "116759", "term": "front hole", "definition": "Slang for vagina, often used by transmasculine persons assigned female at birth.", "sentence": "And you can call the vagina just a front hole, or bonus hole.", "communities": [ "transmasculine" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "mypartneristrans", "date": "2019-09-09 21:16:18", "timestamp": 1568056578.0 } }, { "id": "215150", "term": "twinks", "definition": "ā€¢ Slang term widely used in gay communities to describe a young or young-looking man with little or no facial or body hair. Can be pejorative, but can also be a self-descriptor.\nā€¢ A young, attractive, slim male, usually having little body hair.", "sentence": "Iā€™m fighting the other twinks for the bear.", "communities": [ "gay male" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "gaybros", "date": "2025-05-04 06:25:09", "timestamp": 1746332709.0 } }, { "id": "89702", "term": "tranny", "definition": "A transgender person, usually a transgender woman. Originally a shortening of transvestite. Generally considered derogatory, offensive. Debate over the termā€™s offensiveness occurred in the early 2010s, but by 2017, the term was banned by several media stylebooks and labeled as hate speech by Facebook.", "sentence": "Then when I came off at my stop they laughed their brains out in my direction and told me ā€œyouā€™re a tranny ahahahahhhahahahahhahaā€", "communities": [ "transfeminine" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "MtF", "date": "2020-09-19 21:14:17", "timestamp": 1600542857.0 } }, { "id": "98662", "term": "versatile", "definition": "Someone who penetrates or is penetrated during sexual intercourse or someone who has a preference for both being penetrated and penetrating during such intercourse.", "sentence": "I'm fully versatile, and I feel like I belong to a HUGE majority.", "communities": [ "LGBTQ" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "gaybros", "date": "2012-11-26 06:32:52", "timestamp": 1353907972.0 } }, { "id": "2422", "term": "kiki", "definition": "ā€¢ A gathering of friends for the purpose of gossiping and chit-chat.\nā€¢ 1940s slang describing a lesbian comfortable with either a more passive or more aggressive partner in a relationship.", "sentence": "I'm here in the studio today with my girl Kiki Monique, ready to Kiki.", "communities": [ "drag", "lesbian", "African-American transgender", "African-American gay male" ], "metadata": { "source": "Podcasts", "title": "Scheananigans with Scheana Shay" } }, { "id": "157865", "term": "boymoder", "definition": "One who is in boymode, especially a trans woman who is on HRT but is not out.", "sentence": "/uj god i can't wait to be called a boymoder and pinkpilled just because im not a high femme transgirl", "communities": [ "transgender" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "transgendercirclejerk", "date": "2022-03-11 16:31:48", "timestamp": 1647012708.0 } }, { "id": "227897", "term": "shade", "definition": "A slang term referring to a kind of insult, typically non-verbal in nature. Journalist Anna Holmes called shade \"the art of the sidelong insult\". Merriam-Webster defines it as \"subtle, sneering expression of contempt for or disgust with someoneā€”sometimes verbal, and sometimes not\".", "sentence": "Shade comes from reading.", "communities": [ "drag" ], "metadata": { "source": "OpenSubtitles", "title": "Paris Is Burning", "imdb_id": "100332" } }, { "id": "202109", "term": "trutrans", "definition": "A genuine or legitimate transgender person.", "sentence": "I think they called themselves trutrans first, and then people riffed on that to truscum.", "communities": [ "transgender" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "transgendercirclejerk", "date": "2022-05-07 23:57:07", "timestamp": 1651960627.0 } }, { "id": "158061", "term": "clocky", "definition": "Clearly identifiable as transgender; capable of being easily clocked; not passing.", "sentence": "/uj I swear if I wouldā€™ve been 10x more clocky in the US if I chose a ā€œwhite boy nameā€ (forget that Spanish is a white language)", "communities": [ "transgender" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "transgendercirclejerk", "date": "2025-04-03 13:30:43", "timestamp": 1743679843.0 } }, { "id": "151294", "term": "boywife", "definition": "A young male assuming the employment of homemaking, a role traditionally assumed by women; the submissive partner in the relationship who receives great pleasure in \"taking care\" of his more dominant partner.", "sentence": "Have you considered being the boywife", "communities": [ "gay" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "GayBroTeens", "date": "2023-04-21 05:03:59", "timestamp": 1682046239.0 } }, { "id": "107218", "term": "deep stealth", "definition": "Referring to a transgender person who is not known to be trans by most of the people they interact with on a daily basis, even a sexual or romantic partner.", "sentence": "On the other hand, deep stealth has its allure.", "communities": [ "transgender" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "lgbt", "date": "2010-02-05 09:01:35", "timestamp": 1265356895.0 } }, { "id": "100241", "term": "oral top", "definition": "A gay man who likes to receive, more than give, oral sex.", "sentence": "How do you feel about total bottoms that don't want their dick sucked or played with especially if you're an ORAL TOP.", "communities": [ "LGBTQ" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "askgaybros", "date": "2023-05-08 02:43:09", "timestamp": 1683506589.0 } }, { "id": "99799", "term": "closeted", "definition": "An adjective referring to an LGBTQIA+ person or persons who have not disclosed their status as LGBTQIA+ and other related aspects of their life. More broadly, it can also be used to describe anyone who is hiding part of their identity because of social pressure.", "sentence": "I ask because you said you are closeted and I donā€™t often know the status of students wearing pride symbols.", "communities": [ "LGBTQ" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "lgbt", "date": "2020-08-24 05:26:51", "timestamp": 1598239611.0 } }, { "id": "158740", "term": "cunt", "definition": "ā€¢ The anus of a trans woman.\nā€¢ The inguinal canals of a trans woman.\nā€¢ Amazing or very good.", "sentence": "sorry babes, if this is serving cunt we are at a vending machine.", "communities": [ "transgender" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "gaymers", "date": "2024-10-31 18:23:10", "timestamp": 1730395390.0 } }, { "id": "227345", "term": "drag queen", "definition": "ā€¢ A male entertainer who performs dressed as a woman; a female impersonator.\nā€¢ A male-to-female cross-dresser.", "sentence": "And here to present this year's Drag Queen Of The Year... last year's winner.", "communities": [], "metadata": { "source": "OpenSubtitles", "title": "To Wong Foo, Thanks for Everything! Julie Newmar", "imdb_id": "114682" } }, { "id": "157827", "term": "anticistamines", "definition": "Medication used for transgender hormone replacement therapy.", "sentence": "My favourite queer joke is calling HRT anticistamines", "communities": [ "transgender" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "queer", "date": "2023-02-21 16:05:18", "timestamp": 1676991918.0 } }, { "id": "169440", "term": "orchi", "definition": "Clipping of orchiectomy.", "sentence": "My wife had her orchi surgery three weeks ago and is finding it hard to feel comfortable in the underwear she used to wear.", "communities": [ "transgender" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "asktransgender", "date": "2025-06-03 13:40:07", "timestamp": 1748950807.0 } }, { "id": "102242", "term": "joyfriend", "definition": "A sexual and/or romantic partner of any gender, but usually a nonbinary person.", "sentence": "My joyfriend responded with love and forgiveness.", "communities": [ "nonbinary" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "demisexuality", "date": "2020-10-10 12:24:43", "timestamp": 1602325483.0 } }, { "id": "116768", "term": "seahorse dad", "definition": "Slang term for a transgender man who is carrying, or has carried, a child to term.", "sentence": "For my fellow future seahorse dads, my hope is that none of us will have to feel we're making a dangerous choice between carrying a baby and avoiding cancer.", "communities": [ "transmasculine" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "asktransgender", "date": "2021-02-05 20:24:54", "timestamp": 1612553094.0 } }, { "id": "151318", "term": "breeding", "definition": "Ejaculation inside the rectum during bareback anal sex.", "sentence": "I love breeding my pals.", "communities": [ "gay" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "gaymers", "date": "2024-02-01 08:36:48", "timestamp": 1706773008.0 } }, { "id": "44794", "term": "read", "definition": "To call attention to someone's flaws in a playful, taunting, or insulting manner; alternatively, to recognize someone as being transgender (to clock).", "sentence": "And we just kind of got read in the comment section, like, so what?", "communities": [ "drag", "transgender" ], "metadata": { "source": "Podcasts", "title": "I've Had It" } }, { "id": "94229", "term": "drab", "definition": "An instance of a transgender or non-binary person presenting as the gender corresponding to their sex assigned at birth instead of that corresponding to their internal gender identity (most commonly a trans woman dressed as a man).", "sentence": "Dressing like a man is never a positive desire for me, it's more a drab boring default that I can cope with if that's what's needed.", "communities": [ "transgender", "drag", "transgender" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "lgbt", "date": "2022-07-06 12:19:14", "timestamp": 1657102754.0 } }, { "id": "110159", "term": "outie", "definition": "A term sometimes used to refer to the external genitalia of a transfeminine person.", "sentence": "I personally don't feel incredibly dysphoric about my... nether region though I'd prefer to have an innie rather than an outie.", "communities": [ "transfeminine" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "asktransgender", "date": "2017-07-03 03:05:57", "timestamp": 1499043957.0 } }, { "id": "206271", "term": "poz", "definition": "ā€¢ HIV positive.\nā€¢ To infect (someone) with a sexually transmitted infection; especially HIV.", "sentence": "I haven't dated a poz guy, but I would.", "communities": [], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "gay", "date": "2017-12-19 21:24:39", "timestamp": 1513715079.0 } }, { "id": "202161", "term": "unclockable", "definition": "Not recognizable as transgender or a drag performer; passing.", "sentence": "and yeah your voice is unclockableeee", "communities": [ "transgender" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "transvoice", "date": "2023-10-16 11:33:25", "timestamp": 1697448805.0 } }, { "id": "103667", "term": "top surgery", "definition": "A slang term used to refer to thoracic gender-affirming surgeries.", "sentence": "I personally can't imagine not just walking out entirely if the surgeon doing my top surgery kept misgendering me.", "communities": [ "transgender" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "ask_transgender", "date": "2020-01-21 14:39:19", "timestamp": 1579613959.0 } }, { "id": "146662", "term": "repper", "definition": "A person who has realised they are transgender but refuses to accept it and begin gender transition.", "sentence": "I was always a repper, never an egg, before transitioning.", "communities": [], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "asktransgender", "date": "2024-08-03 01:50:16", "timestamp": 1722642616.0 } }, { "id": "157465", "term": "twinky", "definition": "Being or resembling a twink (ā€œyoung, attractive, slim maleā€).", "sentence": "Younger, twinky, monogamous and respecting", "communities": [ "gay" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "LGBTindia", "date": "2025-07-01 20:49:50", "timestamp": 1751395790.0 } }, { "id": "228060", "term": "discreet", "definition": "Not drawing attention, anger or challenge; inconspicuous.", "sentence": "You're not very discreet.", "communities": [ "LGBTQ" ], "metadata": { "source": "OpenSubtitles", "title": "Loving Annabelle", "imdb_id": "323120" } }, { "id": "106495", "term": "deadnaming", "definition": "Calling a transgender person by their \"deadname\" (oftentimes their birth name, but not always).", "sentence": "There are a lot of allys I know who have started misgendering and deadnaming Caitlyn Jenner.", "communities": [ "transgender" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "asktransgender", "date": "2025-02-04 05:40:42", "timestamp": 1738644042.0 } }, { "id": "228177", "term": "crush", "definition": "An infatuation with somebody, typically someone that one is not dating. By extension, the object of such infatuation or affection.", "sentence": "You assume I can turn all that around because you've got a fucking crush?", "communities": [ "LGBTQ" ], "metadata": { "source": "OpenSubtitles", "title": "Chasing Amy", "imdb_id": "118842" } }, { "id": "107798", "term": "full-time", "definition": "A term which refers to a transgender person living as their gender for the entirety of their day-to-day life, at work, at home, etc.", "sentence": "As a trans woman who lives full-time as myself in front of everybody, I couldn't be with someone who hasn't committed to who they are.", "communities": [ "transgender" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "MtF", "date": "2025-01-25 19:02:47", "timestamp": 1737828167.0 } }, { "id": "1068", "term": "fierce", "definition": "To have looks that could \"kill\"; also used to refer to satisfying, powerful, or beautiful drag queens.", "sentence": "And also staying fierce.", "communities": [ "drag" ], "metadata": { "source": "Podcasts", "title": "The Debrief" } }, { "id": "115257", "term": "baby dyke", "definition": "A person who has just come out as a lesbian.", "sentence": "I'm just a baby dyke.", "communities": [ "lesbian" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "MtF", "date": "2024-10-29 09:37:28", "timestamp": 1730191048.0 } }, { "id": "123835", "term": "boy pussy", "definition": "A gay man's anus, especially the receiving partipant's. Also, rarely, a transmasculine person's vulva.", "sentence": "Or ā€œtell me that your boy pussy is wet for meā€ I thought it was weird cuz how can it get wet lol", "communities": [ "transgender", "gay", "gay male" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "askgaybros", "date": "2019-09-05 07:44:18", "timestamp": 1567662258.0 } }, { "id": "114216", "term": "aggressive", "definition": "A term used to describe lesbian or bisexual women or color who express traditionally masculine behavior or traits; alternatively, a lesbian who has a stereotypically \"hip-hop\" or \"gangster\" look. This term has also been used to describe women considered \"disagreeable\", i.e. describing feminist activists, any woman who disagrees with a man, women who pursue a career, etc.", "sentence": "You know calling women aggressive and bossy is a tactic used by misogynists all the time right?", "communities": [ "lesbian", "Latine lesbian", "African-American lesbian" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "MtF", "date": "2023-04-03 20:42:04", "timestamp": 1680547324.0 } }, { "id": "101507", "term": "enban", "definition": "An adult nonbinary person.", "sentence": "openly talking about being a transmasc enban on a non-trans sub just to feel something", "communities": [ "nonbinary" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "transgendercirclejerk", "date": "2022-05-08 21:32:24", "timestamp": 1652038344.0 } }, { "id": "206444", "term": "throw shade", "definition": "To subtly insult someone.", "sentence": "Iā€™m not the one to stay silent either, but it seems like if you donā€™t know how to throw shade, it puts you at a disadvantage in queer male friendships.", "communities": [], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "askgaybros", "date": "2025-05-15 06:07:24", "timestamp": 1747282044.0 } }, { "id": "94311", "term": "drab", "definition": "An instance of a transgender or non-binary person presenting as the gender corresponding to their sex assigned at birth instead of that corresponding to their internal gender identity (most commonly a trans woman dressed as a man).", "sentence": "Even though I walked in in drab I wasn't misgendered once.", "communities": [ "transgender", "drag", "transgender" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "transpositive", "date": "2015-12-29 15:18:21", "timestamp": 1451398701.0 } }, { "id": "169804", "term": "pre-E", "definition": "Not yet having undergone estrogen-based hormone replacement therapy.", "sentence": "She says she feels scared to go too far and make me uncomfortable, which isn't something she ever felt pre-E -- she used to literally wake me up with sex.", "communities": [ "transgender" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "mypartneristrans", "date": "2024-11-26 08:52:23", "timestamp": 1732607543.0 } }, { "id": "108930", "term": "cotton ceiling", "definition": "A term used for the tendency for cisgender lesbians to not want to engage in sexual activities with transgender women, particular those who have not yet undergone feminizing genitoplasty; or, more broadly, the tendency for cisgender lesbians to exclude transgender women from spaces.", "sentence": "Hi, I know the term cotton ceiling originally came from trans women describing their experiences with lesbians.", "communities": [ "transfeminine", "lesbian" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "asktransgender", "date": "2017-11-11 14:53:30", "timestamp": 1510408410.0 } }, { "id": "151264", "term": "boy next door", "definition": "A young, attractive, slim male, usually having little body hair.", "sentence": "There's something about the classic white male briefs that I find very hot and Boy Next Door.", "communities": [ "gay" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "gaybros", "date": "2024-05-03 23:47:50", "timestamp": 1714772870.0 } }, { "id": "96133", "term": "gaydar", "definition": "A colloquialism referring to the intuitive ability of a person to assess others' sexual orientations as gay, bisexual or heterosexual. Gaydar relies on verbal and non-verbal clues and LGBTQ stereotypes. These include the sensitivity to social behaviors and mannerisms; for instance, acknowledging flamboyant body language, the tone of voice used by a person when speaking, overtly rejecting traditional gender roles, a person's occupation, and grooming habits.", "sentence": "Anyways, help me out, my gaydar is lying to me.", "communities": [ "LGBTQ" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "queer", "date": "2024-06-19 07:49:44", "timestamp": 1718776184.0 } }, { "id": "91797", "term": "faux queen", "definition": "A cis female performance artist who performs in female drag at drag shows, or acts like a drag queen.", "sentence": "And you are not an AFAB or faux queen or bio queen by doing so.", "communities": [ "drag", "gay male" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "Drag", "date": "2021-07-15 14:22:10", "timestamp": 1626351730.0 } }, { "id": "108906", "term": "girl juice", "definition": "A slang term referring to injectable feminizing hormones.", "sentence": "Hi fellow transfem here 25 y/o almost 8 months on girl juice.", "communities": [ "transfeminine" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "asktransgender", "date": "2022-04-03 09:16:47", "timestamp": 1648970207.0 } }, { "id": "112515", "term": "diesel dyke", "definition": "A forcefully masculine or butch lesbian.", "sentence": "A diesel dyke is a very butch lesbian", "communities": [ "lesbian" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "rupaulsdragrace", "date": "2015-04-18 17:18:35", "timestamp": 1429370315.0 } }, { "id": "221740", "term": "mother", "definition": "A person who is admired, respected, or looked up to within a particular fandom or community.", "sentence": "My name is Angie Xtravaganza and I am the mother of the House of Xtravaganza.", "communities": [ "drag" ], "metadata": { "source": "OpenSubtitles", "title": "Paris Is Burning", "imdb_id": "100332" } }, { "id": "155458", "term": "queerdo", "definition": "A particularly strange LGBTQ+ person.", "sentence": "She is, in fact, the queen of the queerdos because of her absolute Uniqueness;", "communities": [ "gay" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "rupaulsdragrace", "date": "2024-08-21 19:09:37", "timestamp": 1724260177.0 } }, { "id": "97018", "term": "breeder", "definition": "A heterosexual; i.e. one whose sexual intercourse can lead to breeding.", "sentence": "I've only used breeder as a complete joke.", "communities": [ "LGBTQ" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "lgbt", "date": "2011-02-18 04:43:53", "timestamp": 1298000633.0 } }, { "id": "115674", "term": "hasbian", "definition": "Someone who formerly identified as lesbian who now identifies as heterosexual.", "sentence": ">she hasbianed herself by cheating on my gf with a dude", "communities": [ "lesbian" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "actuallesbians", "date": "2013-08-21 07:04:24", "timestamp": 1377061464.0 } }, { "id": "155058", "term": "poppers", "definition": "Drugs of the alkyl nitrate class used recreationally as a sexual stimulant, especially among gay men.", "sentence": "No, that's not how poppers work at all.", "communities": [ "gay" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "lgbt", "date": "2019-09-12 16:03:11", "timestamp": 1568296991.0 } }, { "id": "157425", "term": "twinky", "definition": "Being or resembling a twink (ā€œyoung, attractive, slim maleā€).", "sentence": "Honestly, I love being twinky.", "communities": [ "gay" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "LGBTeens", "date": "2016-03-27 05:45:02", "timestamp": 1459050302.0 } }, { "id": "11078", "term": "serve", "definition": "ā€¢ An impressive presentation (especially of a person's appearance).\nā€¢ To present an attractive personal appearance.\n(transitive) To attractively display (something, especially a body part) as part of one's personal appearance.\n(transitive) To evoke (something, especially a person) with one's personal appearance.", "sentence": "Evil band is kind of a serve.", "communities": [ "gay" ], "metadata": { "source": "Podcasts", "title": "Bittersweet Infamy" } }, { "id": "115489", "term": "pillow princess", "definition": "A woman who likes to receive and not give, sexually.", "sentence": "T lately has made me a super top when I used to be a pillow princess as a girl.", "communities": [ "lesbian" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "ftm", "date": "2025-01-01 03:39:21", "timestamp": 1735699161.0 } }, { "id": "94271", "term": "drab", "definition": "An instance of a transgender or non-binary person presenting as the gender corresponding to their sex assigned at birth instead of that corresponding to their internal gender identity (most commonly a trans woman dressed as a man).", "sentence": "Do you dress for work in drab also.", "communities": [ "transgender", "drag", "transgender" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "crossdressing", "date": "2021-04-27 00:10:15", "timestamp": 1619475015.0 } }, { "id": "155521", "term": "rice queen", "definition": "A non-Asian man who is mostly attracted to East Asian men.", "sentence": "Most of the white guys (or non-Asian guys) I dated are rice queens, most of the white guys who follow me on IG are rice queens.", "communities": [ "gay" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "gaysian", "date": "2021-02-14 20:06:03", "timestamp": 1613329563.0 } }, { "id": "165232", "term": "estrogel", "definition": "Estradiol gel used in feminizing hormone replacement therapy.", "sentence": "My endocrinologist has reduced my estrogel dosage as my E level were over 1800.", "communities": [ "transgender" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "transgenderau", "date": "2025-05-23 19:40:15", "timestamp": 1748022015.0 } }, { "id": "111306", "term": "transcel", "definition": "A term used among the incel community to either refer to (1) a transgender person who is experiencing \"involuntary celibacy\" (sometimes called \"transceldom\") or is part of the incel community; or (2) a person who often visits toxic online communities and blames transgender people for their issues, which are frequently connected to their attraction toward transgender people or their wish to transition, but fear of rejection.", "sentence": "In conclusion transcels are the coolest type of incel and more exploration of their ways needs to happen.", "communities": [ "incel" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "transgendercirclejerk", "date": "2020-12-15 17:40:40", "timestamp": 1608050440.0 } }, { "id": "155478", "term": "rice queen", "definition": "A non-Asian man who is mostly attracted to East Asian men.", "sentence": "I have met a guy whoā€™s quite likable except being maybe too much a rice queen.", "communities": [ "gay" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "gaysian", "date": "2019-10-25 22:18:49", "timestamp": 1572034729.0 } }, { "id": "155515", "term": "rice queen", "definition": "A non-Asian man who is mostly attracted to East Asian men.", "sentence": "I'm very anti rice queen.", "communities": [ "gay" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "gaysian", "date": "2021-02-19 04:29:22", "timestamp": 1613705362.0 } }, { "id": "85691", "term": "punk", "definition": "A slang term with multiple meanings depending on context. Originally used to refer to a sex worker or prostitute, especially a passive or feminine gay man (or a bottom). By the early 20th century, used to refer to a person considered worthless or criminal in nature. By the 1970s, used to refer to punk rock, a punk rocker, or to the sociocultural movement associated with punk rock and its fans. In the modern gay male community, the term \"punk\" may refer to a smaller, typically younger gay man who is forced into a submissive role in prison settings by an older gay man. Also occasionally used as a synonym for \"clock\" or \"read\", i.e. when a cisgender person recognizes a person as transgender.", "sentence": "I donā€™t have specifics, but goth is a subculture that came about from punk.", "communities": [ "transgender", "gay male" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "lesbian", "date": "2025-02-06 00:02:57", "timestamp": 1738796577.0 } }, { "id": "103270", "term": "cissplain", "definition": "To explain transgender issues, people or behavior to a trans person (as a cis person) in a condescending manner, presuming the listenerā€™s inferior understanding.", "sentence": "I will not allow for cispologies and cissplaining.", "communities": [ "transgender" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "TransSpace", "date": "2013-08-02 01:43:40", "timestamp": 1375400620.0 } }, { "id": "210081", "term": "bears", "definition": "ā€¢ Community term with multiple meanings. 1. A gay or bisexual man who has facial/body hair and a cuddly body. 2. An umbrella term that refers to members of a subculture in the gay and bisexual male communities and is often defined as more of an attitude or sense of comfort with natural masculinity and bodies.\nā€¢ In male gay culture, a bear is often a larger, hairier man who projects an image of rugged masculinity.", "sentence": "Here in London there's a massive bear club called xxl, it's kind of amusing about 20% of the crowd are twinks chasing after the bears.", "communities": [ "bear" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "lgbt", "date": "2012-12-22 00:09:53", "timestamp": 1356131393.0 } }, { "id": "116656", "term": "chubby chaser", "definition": "A gay male person who is attracted sexually and/or romantically to obesity.", "sentence": "Not a chubby chaser but I don't care about weight.", "communities": [ "chub" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "askgaybros", "date": "2019-05-05 03:45:30", "timestamp": 1557020730.0 } }, { "id": "101458", "term": "eneby", "definition": "Rare nonbinary slang. Portmanteau of \"enemy\" and \"enby\" (NB, being the phonetic spelling of nonbinary).", "sentence": "I am my own worst eneby :P", "communities": [ "nonbinary" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "traaaaaaannnnnnnnnns", "date": "2022-04-17 07:39:35", "timestamp": 1650173975.0 } }, { "id": "115162", "term": "soft butch", "definition": "A lesbian who exhibits some stereotypical butch traits without fitting the masculine stereotype associated with butch lesbians.", "sentence": "I am so glad to see soft butch trans lesbian girls!", "communities": [ "lesbian" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "transtimelines", "date": "2019-08-31 22:52:27", "timestamp": 1567284747.0 } }, { "id": "212731", "term": "fruity", "definition": "Slang for a gay man, especially for a feminine gay man. Outdated and often offensive, because it implies someone is easily \"picked,\" or associates someone with its other slang meanings of \"dupe,\" \"victim,\" or someone living with mental illness.", "sentence": "I am 6'1 and I'm fruity but it's not because I'm 6'1", "communities": [], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "lgbt", "date": "2022-09-25 18:23:53", "timestamp": 1664123033.0 } }, { "id": "85111", "term": "punk", "definition": "A slang term with multiple meanings depending on context. Originally used to refer to a sex worker or prostitute, especially a passive or feminine gay man (or a bottom). By the early 20th century, used to refer to a person considered worthless or criminal in nature. By the 1970s, used to refer to punk rock, a punk rocker, or to the sociocultural movement associated with punk rock and its fans. In the modern gay male community, the term \"punk\" may refer to a smaller, typically younger gay man who is forced into a submissive role in prison settings by an older gay man. Also occasionally used as a synonym for \"clock\" or \"read\", i.e. when a cisgender person recognizes a person as transgender.", "sentence": "I drive 40mins school and back each day, I'm listening to so much music right now it's unreal and punk rock is my favorite!", "communities": [ "transgender", "gay male" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "asexuality", "date": "2021-08-20 23:36:55", "timestamp": 1629495415.0 } }, { "id": "135634", "term": "AC/DC", "definition": "Said of a person, bisexual, referring to being attracted to women and men.", "sentence": "When the band AC/DC came out back in the 70's everyone in the US was like, \"So they're bi?\"", "communities": [], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "bisexual", "date": "2023-06-17 22:53:51", "timestamp": 1687035231.0 } }, { "id": "123700", "term": "hunk", "definition": "A muscular, handsome gay man.", "sentence": "or am I just being paranoid and this is just a genuine hunk who is into me and just has some weird interaction over WhatsApp?", "communities": [ "gay male" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "askgaybros", "date": "2023-09-09 20:55:28", "timestamp": 1694285728.0 } }, { "id": "152854", "term": "family", "definition": "ā€¢ The gay community.\nā€¢ Homosexual.", "sentence": "You didn't mention your age, but building a chosen family irl or online and making plans for getting out are gonna be crucial to your survival now.", "communities": [ "gay" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "ftm", "date": "2021-07-19 19:39:56", "timestamp": 1626716396.0 } }, { "id": "168321", "term": "gock", "definition": "The penis of a trans woman.", "sentence": "He was nice at first, but then all of a sudden, he asked \"Hey sweetie, could I see your gock?\"", "communities": [ "transgender" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "ftm", "date": "2023-04-09 11:17:52", "timestamp": 1681031872.0 } }, { "id": "206441", "term": "throw shade", "definition": "To subtly insult someone.", "sentence": "Instead people have to throw shade and be mean to people who are trying their absolute best to exist in this fucked up society.", "communities": [], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "actuallesbians", "date": "2022-08-30 00:49:52", "timestamp": 1661813392.0 } }, { "id": "494", "term": "discreet", "definition": "Not drawing attention, anger or challenge; inconspicuous.", "sentence": "Well, the sisters find that they're well-suited to run in circles with the wealthy, generous, and discreet.", "communities": [ "LGBTQ" ], "metadata": { "source": "Podcasts", "title": "Scamfluencers" } }, { "id": "1066", "term": "fierce", "definition": "To have looks that could \"kill\"; also used to refer to satisfying, powerful, or beautiful drag queens.", "sentence": "It's stay loyal and stay fierce.", "communities": [ "drag" ], "metadata": { "source": "Podcasts", "title": "The Debrief" } }, { "id": "91641", "term": "kiki", "definition": "ā€¢ A gathering of friends for the purpose of gossiping and chit-chat.\nā€¢ 1940s slang describing a lesbian comfortable with either a more passive or more aggressive partner in a relationship.", "sentence": "technically it's only a kiki if it's between drag queens.", "communities": [ "drag", "lesbian", "African-American transgender", "African-American gay male" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "gaybros", "date": "2012-08-19 14:16:23", "timestamp": 1345378583.0 } }, { "id": "123696", "term": "hunk", "definition": "A muscular, handsome gay man.", "sentence": "Doesn't really apply to me as I'm still in my late 20's, but my boyfriend is 39 and was considered a young hunk during his 20's.", "communities": [ "gay male" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "askgaybros", "date": "2021-12-17 01:41:26", "timestamp": 1639701686.0 } }, { "id": "215536", "term": "breast mint", "definition": "A pill taken as part of feminizing hormone replacement therapy, especially spironolactone (called by this name due to its peppermint smell) or estrogen such as estradiol.", "sentence": "I'm already a super clumsy girl and I'm curious how much breast mints will add to that.", "communities": [ "transgender" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "MtF", "date": "2024-01-22 23:21:25", "timestamp": 1705962085.0 } }, { "id": "75503", "term": "chaser", "definition": "Short for \"tranny chaser.\" A person who sees trans people (usually trans women) as inherently sexual, and sexually objectifies them. As opposed to someone who simply is predominantly attracted to trans women; a chaser does not view trans women respectfully as people with humanity and agency, but rather as players in a sexual fantasy.", "sentence": "Turned out he was a chaser and faked being trans, was a really disgusting experience.", "communities": [], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "MtF", "date": "2025-06-13 12:46:22", "timestamp": 1749811582.0 } }, { "id": "228598", "term": "the house down", "definition": "Used as an intensifier: very, to a great degree; exceptionally.", "sentence": "You brought the house down", "communities": [ "drag" ], "metadata": { "source": "OpenSubtitles", "title": "Trick", "imdb_id": "162710" } }, { "id": "90168", "term": "twink", "definition": "ā€¢ Slang term widely used in gay communities to describe a young or young-looking man with little or no facial or body hair. Can be pejorative, but can also be a self-descriptor.\nā€¢ A young, attractive, slim male, usually having little body hair.", "sentence": "I wish I could be a twink šŸ˜­", "communities": [ "gay", "gay male" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "LGBTeens", "date": "2025-07-15 00:52:00", "timestamp": 1752533520.0 } }, { "id": "158118", "term": "crack", "definition": "To realize that one is transgender.", "sentence": "When my egg first cracked I pushed those thoughts and feelings mostly aside for several years.", "communities": [ "transgender" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "asktransgender", "date": "2021-08-17 16:05:42", "timestamp": 1629209142.0 } }, { "id": "119515", "term": "masc4masc", "definition": "A phrase used to describe a masculine gay man interested in other masculine gay men romantically and/or sexually.", "sentence": "I get it, it's really hard to date Masc4Masc because most are not interested in that I get it.", "communities": [ "gay male" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "LGBTQ", "date": "2024-07-08 21:40:29", "timestamp": 1720467629.0 } }, { "id": "109056", "term": "titty skittle", "definition": "Oral estrogen taken by transgender woman and other transfeminine people.", "sentence": "Estrogen = titty skittles, spiro and natal puberty blockers both ways = anticistemines.", "communities": [ "transgender", "transfeminine" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "traaaaaaannnnnnnnnns", "date": "2019-02-13 15:35:36", "timestamp": 1550068536.0 } }, { "id": "101617", "term": "femby", "definition": "A slang term sometimes used to refer to femme enbies (non-binary people) or non-binary women. A portmanteau of \"femme\" and \"enby\".", "sentence": "I am in need of new winter gloves and am considering getting women's gloves this time instead of men's (I am agender and a femby, AMAB).", "communities": [ "nonbinary" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "transfashionadvice", "date": "2023-11-02 03:58:10", "timestamp": 1698893890.0 } }, { "id": "101446", "term": "bipoly", "definition": "Of or relating to a person who is bisexual and polyamorous.", "sentence": "I am bipoly (ethically nonmonogamous) and married.", "communities": [ "bisexual" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "l4l", "date": "2018-01-28 05:34:06", "timestamp": 1517114046.0 } }, { "id": "203310", "term": "doll", "definition": "A transgender woman or transfeminine person.", "sentence": "If I saw someone wearing a protect the dolls shirt, I would consider them an ally and would not be mad about it.", "communities": [], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "asktransgender", "date": "2025-06-16 19:22:50", "timestamp": 1750094570.0 } }, { "id": "91669", "term": "kiki", "definition": "ā€¢ A gathering of friends for the purpose of gossiping and chit-chat.\nā€¢ 1940s slang describing a lesbian comfortable with either a more passive or more aggressive partner in a relationship.", "sentence": "Weā€™ve been kikiā€™ing and acting all close and all that.", "communities": [ "drag", "lesbian", "African-American transgender", "African-American gay male" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "asktransgender", "date": "2025-03-01 08:54:22", "timestamp": 1740815662.0 } }, { "id": "6596", "term": "dirt", "definition": "ā€¢ Slang for an individual who blackmails or robs a gay person.\nā€¢ Gossip; rumor; scandal; criticism.\nā€¢ Heroin\nā€¢ A tobacco cigarette.", "sentence": "Like I need to get dirt on somebody.", "communities": [ "gay male" ], "metadata": { "source": "Podcasts", "title": "Tomorrow" } }, { "id": "116843", "term": "cub", "definition": "A younger or younger-looking bear, sometimes with a smaller frame (\"bear\" meaning \"a gay or bisexual man who has facial/body hair and a cuddly body\").", "sentence": "I m not into cubs but i have a sweet tooth for otters and dad bods in young guys", "communities": [ "gay", "bear" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "gaybros", "date": "2019-06-29 09:37:00", "timestamp": 1561793820.0 } }, { "id": "84071", "term": "homo", "definition": "Shortened form of \"homosexual.\" Often derogatory.", "sentence": "All the way homo bro", "communities": [], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "lgbtaww", "date": "2020-03-25 17:44:42", "timestamp": 1585154682.0 } }, { "id": "146684", "term": "transmaxx", "definition": "To undergo gender transition (particularly from male to female) for the perceived social advantages that come with being the opposite sex, especially as regards the sexual marketplace.", "sentence": "/uj Why would anyone ever think transmaxxers exist?", "communities": [], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "transgendercirclejerk", "date": "2023-04-17 21:29:36", "timestamp": 1681759776.0 } }, { "id": "98618", "term": "gaysian", "definition": "Somewhat derogatory term referring to an Asian gay person.", "sentence": "Beyond that, thereā€™re large gaysian parties around the city and Brooklyn.", "communities": [ "LGBTQ" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "askgaybros", "date": "2019-06-07 04:00:55", "timestamp": 1559872855.0 } }, { "id": "107596", "term": "bottom surgery", "definition": "A slang term used to refer to genital gender-affirming surgeries.", "sentence": "My gf has hinted at having sexual fantasies about us after she gets bottom surgery, but she has only ever described them once or twice briefly.", "communities": [ "transgender" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "Asexual", "date": "2019-10-29 03:39:51", "timestamp": 1572316791.0 } }, { "id": "205416", "term": "neg", "definition": "HIV negative.", "sentence": "Basically, it concerns an HIV poz guy who didn't disclose his status to another HIV neg guy with whom he had sex.", "communities": [], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "gaymers", "date": "2012-06-15 02:21:21", "timestamp": 1339719681.0 } }, { "id": "123650", "term": "hunk", "definition": "A muscular, handsome gay man.", "sentence": "To sum up, if you ever want to seduce a beautifull hunk in his natural habitat, go to a gay gym.", "communities": [ "gay male" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "gaybros", "date": "2022-01-16 18:24:20", "timestamp": 1642353860.0 } }, { "id": "228666", "term": "butch", "definition": "ā€¢ Traditionally, a lesbian who appears \"masculine\" or acts in a \"masculine\" manner. However, the term is often used to describe a wide variety of gender expressions and identities adjacent to masculinity or \"butchilinity\".\nā€¢ Heterosexual.", "sentence": "Ooh, big and butch.", "communities": [ "lesbian" ], "metadata": { "source": "OpenSubtitles", "title": "Beautiful Thing", "imdb_id": "115640" } }, { "id": "115675", "term": "hasbian", "definition": "Someone who formerly identified as lesbian who now identifies as heterosexual.", "sentence": "However, all of my long term relationships have been with straight cis men prior to this and I wonder sometimes if I'm just a hasbian.", "communities": [ "lesbian" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "mypartneristrans", "date": "2025-02-01 22:01:18", "timestamp": 1738443678.0 } }, { "id": "84595", "term": "lipstick lesbian", "definition": "Usually refers to a lesbian with a feminine gender expression. Can be used in a positive or a derogatory way, depending on who is using it. Is sometimes also used to refer to a lesbian who is seen as automatically \"passing\" for heterosexual.", "sentence": "Do people still use the term lipstick lesbian?", "communities": [ "lesbian" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "askgaybros", "date": "2016-02-05 20:40:25", "timestamp": 1454701225.0 } }, { "id": "228067", "term": "discreet", "definition": "Not drawing attention, anger or challenge; inconspicuous.", "sentence": "We could be nice and discreet.", "communities": [ "LGBTQ" ], "metadata": { "source": "OpenSubtitles", "title": "L'homme que j'aime", "imdb_id": "173906" } }, { "id": "165127", "term": "estro", "definition": "Clipping of estrogen.", "sentence": "I mean, is there even enough info about treating my problem in any other way besides estro+progesterone HRT?", "communities": [ "transgender" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "NonBinary", "date": "2025-05-31 10:13:36", "timestamp": 1748679216.0 } }, { "id": "76135", "term": "drag family", "definition": "In the US, a group of drag queens who have been mentored by a \"mother,\" also known as a \"house.\" These groups often take on family drag names and form close-knit communities.", "sentence": "If you'd like me to record any of your drag family connections, let me know here.", "communities": [], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "Drag", "date": "2022-12-30 02:19:14", "timestamp": 1672363154.0 } }, { "id": "113713", "term": "carpet muncher", "definition": "A lesbian", "sentence": "But my step dad doesnā€™t mind throwing ā€œfag, Dyke, carpet muncherā€ to name a few out there towards the community then realizes ā€˜oops I forgot your one of themā€™.", "communities": [ "lesbian" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "ftm", "date": "2018-06-01 04:02:08", "timestamp": 1527818528.0 } }, { "id": "155509", "term": "rice queen", "definition": "A non-Asian man who is mostly attracted to East Asian men.", "sentence": "This is why I don't like getting into relationships with Rice Queens.", "communities": [ "gay" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "gaysian", "date": "2021-03-22 20:12:45", "timestamp": 1616440365.0 } }, { "id": "228418", "term": "bottoms", "definition": "ā€¢ A \"bottom\" is an individual who acts as the \"receiving\" partner in sexual encounters. Sometimes used as a self-descriptor within queer communities, but should be replicated with caution. Sometimes used as a verb (\"to bottom for someone\"). Offensive if applied to LGBTQ+ individuals from outwith queer communities.\nā€¢ Someone, typically a man, who is penetrated during sexual intercourse or someone who has a preference for being penetrated during such intercourse.\nā€¢ The buttocks.\nā€¢ Genitalia; genitals.", "sentence": "Yeah, but we discovered we're both out-and-out tops... so we're makin the rounds tonight... lookin'for a couple of hot bottoms.", "communities": [ "LGBTQ" ], "metadata": { "source": "OpenSubtitles", "title": "Trick", "imdb_id": "162710" } }, { "id": "79771", "term": "friend of dorothy", "definition": "Coded slang for gay. Referring to gay icon Judy Garland's Dorothy in The Wizard of Oz.", "sentence": "Back during WW2, American and British soldiers would say ā€œIā€™m a friend of Dorothyā€ (as the actress from The Wizard of Oz supported the LGBT community, unsure about T but)", "communities": [ "gay male" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "askgaybros", "date": "2020-11-06 17:30:09", "timestamp": 1604680209.0 } }, { "id": "169970", "term": "princess wand", "definition": "A trans woman's penis.", "sentence": "Hey girlies so Iā€™m 2 weeks from 11 months of hrt and noticed Iā€™ve started getting more stretch marks between my thighs near my princess wand letā€™s call it.", "communities": [ "transgender" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "MtF", "date": "2024-06-02 09:15:02", "timestamp": 1717312502.0 } }, { "id": "143208", "term": "GLBT", "definition": "Initialism for gay, lesbian, bisexual, and transgender.", "sentence": "Should it be used by the glbt community if so many individuals dislike it?", "communities": [], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "queer", "date": "2010-06-03 17:02:20", "timestamp": 1275577340.0 } }, { "id": "103947", "term": "top surgery", "definition": "A slang term used to refer to thoracic gender-affirming surgeries.", "sentence": "There are also people who have a reduction first, realize it wasn't enough, and later have top surgery.", "communities": [ "transgender" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "AskLGBT", "date": "2024-06-15 19:38:49", "timestamp": 1718473129.0 } }, { "id": "126877", "term": "bareback", "definition": "Sexual activity without the use of a condom.", "sentence": "If you're having bareback anal sex with two or three new partners every week, I'd consider that pretty reckless, and I think you should strongly consider wrapping it up.", "communities": [ "gay male" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "gaybros", "date": "2021-08-22 18:58:18", "timestamp": 1629651498.0 } }, { "id": "91777", "term": "faux queen", "definition": "A cis female performance artist who performs in female drag at drag shows, or acts like a drag queen.", "sentence": "Honestly like, I think a spin off thing for faux queens, like \"Michelle Visage's Drag Race\" (since she is essentially a faux queen) could be a cute little spin off??", "communities": [ "drag", "gay male" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "rupaulsdragrace", "date": "2015-10-19 17:25:42", "timestamp": 1445268342.0 } }, { "id": "75986", "term": "chaser", "definition": "Short for \"tranny chaser.\" A person who sees trans people (usually trans women) as inherently sexual, and sexually objectifies them. As opposed to someone who simply is predominantly attracted to trans women; a chaser does not view trans women respectfully as people with humanity and agency, but rather as players in a sexual fantasy.", "sentence": "Then you have chasers that do the same but use them to jerk off and fetishize us.", "communities": [], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "transgenderUK", "date": "2025-05-23 16:19:04", "timestamp": 1748009944.0 } }, { "id": "106633", "term": "baby trans", "definition": "Someone who has recently discovered that they are transgender.", "sentence": "How I look like right now (first pic, 7 months HRT) vs my Baby trans phase (2nd pic, pre HRT)", "communities": [ "transgender", "transgender" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "trans", "date": "2024-11-06 00:20:42", "timestamp": 1730848842.0 } }, { "id": "84572", "term": "lipstick lesbian", "definition": "Usually refers to a lesbian with a feminine gender expression. Can be used in a positive or a derogatory way, depending on who is using it. Is sometimes also used to refer to a lesbian who is seen as automatically \"passing\" for heterosexual.", "sentence": "Gay bears get a flag, butch get a flag, and lipstick lesbians...DID have a flag...which has horrible meaning behind it.", "communities": [ "lesbian" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "lgbt", "date": "2024-07-02 05:38:18", "timestamp": 1719891498.0 } }, { "id": "202098", "term": "trutrans", "definition": "A genuine or legitimate transgender person.", "sentence": "* donā€™t play Trutrans olympics", "communities": [ "transgender" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "MtF", "date": "2019-04-11 14:50:53", "timestamp": 1554987053.0 } }, { "id": "214775", "term": "switches", "definition": "ā€¢ LGBTQ+ community slang for someone who \"switches\" between the \"giving\" and \"receiving\" during sex. \"Vers\" is short for \"versatile.\" \"Switch\" is sometimes also used in a BDSM context, to indicate someone who \"switches\" between the dominant and submissive roles.\nā€¢ One who is willing to take either a submissive or a dominant role in a sexual relationship.", "sentence": "Pansexual switches could rock that term to a different level šŸ˜­ ā€œpanā€cake", "communities": [ "LGBTQ" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "bisexual", "date": "2019-08-27 00:01:15", "timestamp": 1566856875.0 } }, { "id": "83353", "term": "giver", "definition": "Slang for the \"active\" role during gay sex. The giver/taker binary is now largely acknowledged as artificial and heteronormative.", "sentence": "Cherry's never shown interest in being the receiver and she's very confident as a giver.", "communities": [], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "bisexual", "date": "2025-04-01 05:40:46", "timestamp": 1743478846.0 } }, { "id": "16122", "term": "bitch", "definition": "A pejorative slang term usually used for a woman who is considered unreasonable, malicious, a control freak, intrusive, or aggressive. It also has several other meanings, depending on the context.", "sentence": "No, no, no, we can still have them because I love City Mapper and a gaslighting little bitch, actually.", "communities": [ "gay male" ], "metadata": { "source": "Podcasts", "title": "Leave A Message with Ally & G" } }, { "id": "158748", "term": "cunt", "definition": "ā€¢ The anus of a trans woman.\nā€¢ The inguinal canals of a trans woman.\nā€¢ Amazing or very good.", "sentence": "She didn't have a silhouette that was sinched so therefore it wasn't cunt enough šŸ™„", "communities": [ "transgender" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "rupaulsdragrace", "date": "2025-03-17 02:13:57", "timestamp": 1742174037.0 } }, { "id": "165286", "term": "Fem&M's", "definition": "Estrogen pills taken as part of hormone replacement therapy.", "sentence": "I like Fem&m's and Tit Tacs.", "communities": [ "transgender" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "traaaaaaannnnnnnnnns", "date": "2018-06-02 01:41:45", "timestamp": 1527896505.0 } }, { "id": "113890", "term": "dykon", "definition": "A celebrity, often a woman, who is much admired by lesbians.", "sentence": "a dykon truly a dykon", "communities": [ "lesbian" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "actuallesbians", "date": "2020-08-05 15:04:01", "timestamp": 1596632641.0 } }, { "id": "101453", "term": "bisexual chic", "definition": "A phrase used to describe the public acknowledgment of bisexuality or increased public interest or acceptance of bisexuality. Another usage describes a faddish attention towards bisexuality. Bisexual chic is often accompanied by celebrities publicly revealing their bisexuality.", "sentence": "Also bisexual chic in the 70s (think Bowie etc) was more male focused.", "communities": [ "bisexual" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "bisexual", "date": "2022-08-12 11:52:57", "timestamp": 1660297977.0 } }, { "id": "94392", "term": "banjee", "definition": "A young Latino or African American gay man who dresses in stereotypical masculine urban fashion.", "sentence": "It was the drag version of Banjee while Adore was more pedestrian and Courtney was a hundred percent pedestrian.", "communities": [ "drag", "Latine LGBTQ", "African-American LGBTQ" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "rupaulsdragrace", "date": "2016-01-02 23:12:57", "timestamp": 1451772777.0 } }, { "id": "127360", "term": "YAASSS", "definition": "An interjection expressing great pleasure or excitement.", "sentence": "but most of all yaassss quxxn!!", "communities": [], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "transgendercirclejerk", "date": "2021-10-04 16:09:57", "timestamp": 1633356597.0 } }, { "id": "214511", "term": "punks", "definition": "A slang term with multiple meanings depending on context. Originally used to refer to a sex worker or prostitute, especially a passive or feminine gay man (or a bottom). By the early 20th century, used to refer to a person considered worthless or criminal in nature. By the 1970s, used to refer to punk rock, a punk rocker, or to the sociocultural movement associated with punk rock and its fans. In the modern gay male community, the term \"punk\" may refer to a smaller, typically younger gay man who is forced into a submissive role in prison settings by an older gay man. Also occasionally used as a synonym for \"clock\" or \"read\", i.e. when a cisgender person recognizes a person as transgender.", "sentence": "When I went to Richmond Pride there were a lot of punks there that we're all really accepting of Trans Folx, and at DC pride even more so.", "communities": [ "transgender", "gay male" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "asktransgender", "date": "2020-05-16 03:34:00", "timestamp": 1589592840.0 } }, { "id": "115251", "term": "baby dyke", "definition": "A person who has just come out as a lesbian.", "sentence": "Turns out she was fine with me being a baby dyke :)", "communities": [ "lesbian" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "actuallesbians", "date": "2023-02-17 04:27:49", "timestamp": 1676604469.0 } }, { "id": "87947", "term": "top", "definition": "ā€¢ A \"top\" is an individual who acts as the \"giving\" partner in sexual encounters. Sometimes used as a self-descriptor within queer communities, but should be replicated with caution. Sometimes used as a verb (\"to top someone\"). Offensive if applied to LGBTQ+ individuals from outwith queer communities.\nā€¢ Someone, typically a man, who is penetrating someone else during sexual intercourse or someone who has a preference for penetrating during such intercourse.", "sentence": "no matter which gender you're into you can find somebody who wants an mtf top.", "communities": [ "LGBTQ" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "asktransgender", "date": "2022-01-22 11:17:18", "timestamp": 1642846638.0 } }, { "id": "168297", "term": "girlcum", "definition": "The semen produced by a trans woman.", "sentence": "just soak 'em in a jar of girlcum for an hour and they'll be wearable again!", "communities": [ "transgender" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "transgendercirclejerk", "date": "2017-02-14 04:57:58", "timestamp": 1487044678.0 } }, { "id": "84613", "term": "lipstick lesbian", "definition": "Usually refers to a lesbian with a feminine gender expression. Can be used in a positive or a derogatory way, depending on who is using it. Is sometimes also used to refer to a lesbian who is seen as automatically \"passing\" for heterosexual.", "sentence": "- Why have Bear and Lipstick Lesbian developed their own pride flag, but Twink and Dyke have not?", "communities": [ "lesbian" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "queer", "date": "2019-06-12 08:10:49", "timestamp": 1560319849.0 } }, { "id": "157391", "term": "twinky", "definition": "Being or resembling a twink (ā€œyoung, attractive, slim maleā€).", "sentence": "I feel like most people these days especially bi guys and girls are really into slim feminine twinky guys.", "communities": [ "gay" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "bisexual", "date": "2020-04-07 03:36:36", "timestamp": 1586223396.0 } }, { "id": "89704", "term": "tranny", "definition": "A transgender person, usually a transgender woman. Originally a shortening of transvestite. Generally considered derogatory, offensive. Debate over the termā€™s offensiveness occurred in the early 2010s, but by 2017, the term was banned by several media stylebooks and labeled as hate speech by Facebook.", "sentence": "If I'm a grandmother, than I am a Tranny Granny and I think that sounds so cute and cringe lol.", "communities": [ "transfeminine" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "MtF", "date": "2025-06-08 01:08:29", "timestamp": 1749337709.0 } }, { "id": "153935", "term": "family", "definition": "ā€¢ The gay community.\nā€¢ Homosexual.", "sentence": "I think I got lucky finding \"chosen family\" relatively quickly in the city through gay volleyball.", "communities": [ "gay" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "nycgaybros", "date": "2025-03-05 19:52:19", "timestamp": 1741200739.0 } }, { "id": "228673", "term": "butch", "definition": "ā€¢ Traditionally, a lesbian who appears \"masculine\" or acts in a \"masculine\" manner. However, the term is often used to describe a wide variety of gender expressions and identities adjacent to masculinity or \"butchilinity\".\nā€¢ Heterosexual.", "sentence": "FIRST BUTCH GAY PERSON ON TV.", "communities": [ "lesbian" ], "metadata": { "source": "OpenSubtitles", "title": "Longtime Companion", "imdb_id": "100049" } }, { "id": "106483", "term": "deadnaming", "definition": "Calling a transgender person by their \"deadname\" (oftentimes their birth name, but not always).", "sentence": "The first being a didn't know what deadnaming is.", "communities": [ "transgender" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "actuallesbians", "date": "2020-06-29 01:53:45", "timestamp": 1593388425.0 } }, { "id": "228961", "term": "Nelly", "definition": "Women's names have often been appropriated as slurs for gay men, especially for feminine gay men and transfeminine people. \"Nancy\" is probably the most common, across the 20th Century globally. All are offensive.", "sentence": "He made me feel beyond nelly... like wispy daisies are sprouting out my ears.", "communities": [], "metadata": { "source": "OpenSubtitles", "title": "Angels in America", "imdb_id": "318997" } }, { "id": "229115", "term": "hasbian", "definition": "Someone who formerly identified as lesbian who now identifies as heterosexual.", "sentence": "\" That is what we refer to as a... has-bian.\"", "communities": [ "lesbian" ], "metadata": { "source": "OpenSubtitles", "title": "The L Word", "imdb_id": "330251" } }, { "id": "77774", "term": "fag stag", "definition": "A heterosexual man who socializes predominantly with gay men.", "sentence": "My fag stag(thank you reddit for teaching me that word) came over to teach me how to play and we ended up playing all night.", "communities": [ "gay male" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "gaymers", "date": "2011-10-14 21:14:05", "timestamp": 1318619645.0 } }, { "id": "107810", "term": "full-time", "definition": "A term which refers to a transgender person living as their gender for the entirety of their day-to-day life, at work, at home, etc.", "sentence": "I read many stories about it and some of you started full-time after HRT start and others before.", "communities": [ "transgender" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "ask_transgender", "date": "2021-08-04 23:34:14", "timestamp": 1628112854.0 } }, { "id": "362", "term": "anti-gay", "definition": "ā€¢ Hostile toward gay people; opposed to gay rights; homophobic.\nā€¢ Used by some gay people to refer to aspects of the community in critique, especially homogeneity, conformity, obsession with particular types of appearance, and assimilative behavior.", "sentence": "So it sounds like a lot of this is is anti-gay in nature.", "communities": [], "metadata": { "source": "Podcasts", "title": "All About Change" } }, { "id": "170430", "term": "shenis", "definition": "The penis of a trans woman.", "sentence": "I'd also be interested in hearing about genderqueer or FtM names for their parts (Good luck beating shenis though).", "communities": [ "transgender" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "LGBTeens", "date": "2017-11-06 06:29:28", "timestamp": 1509946168.0 } }, { "id": "113737", "term": "U-Haul lesbian", "definition": "A stereotype of lesbian relationships, referring to the joke that lesbians tend to move in together on the second date. It suggests an extreme inclination toward monogamy or committed relationships. It can be considered either complimentary or pejorative, depending on context.", "sentence": "They're still U-haul lesbians.", "communities": [], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "askgaybros", "date": "2020-10-07 23:44:17", "timestamp": 1602107057.0 } }, { "id": "158058", "term": "clocky", "definition": "Clearly identifiable as transgender; capable of being easily clocked; not passing.", "sentence": "You're doing great and I couldn't even detect anything clocky from the 2 minutes i listened to, turned up to 100%", "communities": [ "transgender" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "transvoice", "date": "2024-08-22 01:52:07", "timestamp": 1724284327.0 } }, { "id": "115259", "term": "baby dyke", "definition": "A person who has just come out as a lesbian.", "sentence": "I am new to the lesbian culture (moved from East part of the world to the West) as a 34 year old baby dyke.", "communities": [ "lesbian" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "lesbian", "date": "2024-10-19 13:12:47", "timestamp": 1729336367.0 } }, { "id": "100217", "term": "straggot", "definition": "A portmanteau of \"straight\" (heterosexual) and the slur \"faggot\". Usually used in a joking and/or reclamatory sense to describe heterosexual people who are homophobic.", "sentence": "Hello, Iā€™m a straight male and was wondering if the lgbtq+ community actually thinks of straggot as an insult to straight people or if itā€™s just a stupid joke.", "communities": [ "LGBTQ" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "gay", "date": "2020-07-17 07:18:48", "timestamp": 1594963128.0 } }, { "id": "224091", "term": "lesbian", "definition": "A girl or woman who is wholly or mostly sexually or romantically attracted to other girls or women.", "sentence": "Have you heard she's a lesbian?", "communities": [], "metadata": { "source": "OpenSubtitles", "title": "Show Me Love", "imdb_id": "150662" } }, { "id": "220163", "term": "house of", "definition": "In the US, a group of drag queens who have been mentored by a \"mother,\" also known as a \"house.\" These groups often take on family drag names and form close-knit communities.", "sentence": "I am Pepper LaBeija, the legendary mother of the House of LaBeija.", "communities": [], "metadata": { "source": "OpenSubtitles", "title": "Paris Is Burning", "imdb_id": "100332" } }, { "id": "228680", "term": "butch", "definition": "ā€¢ Traditionally, a lesbian who appears \"masculine\" or acts in a \"masculine\" manner. However, the term is often used to describe a wide variety of gender expressions and identities adjacent to masculinity or \"butchilinity\".\nā€¢ Heterosexual.", "sentence": "Come on, butch, get a move on.", "communities": [ "lesbian" ], "metadata": { "source": "OpenSubtitles", "title": "The Adventures of Priscilla, Queen of the Desert", "imdb_id": "109045" } }, { "id": "2552", "term": "shade", "definition": "A slang term referring to a kind of insult, typically non-verbal in nature. Journalist Anna Holmes called shade \"the art of the sidelong insult\". Merriam-Webster defines it as \"subtle, sneering expression of contempt for or disgust with someoneā€”sometimes verbal, and sometimes not\".", "sentence": "Like no shade Gideon, but like, do I drop you all together?", "communities": [ "drag" ], "metadata": { "source": "Podcasts", "title": "Woman Evolve with Sarah Jakes Roberts" } }, { "id": "108521", "term": "second puberty", "definition": "A term often used by transgender persons transitioning after they have already undergone puberty.", "sentence": "I had mild acne first puberty and moderate for my second puberty.", "communities": [ "transgender" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "ask_transgender", "date": "2021-02-24 17:14:23", "timestamp": 1614183263.0 } }, { "id": "110417", "term": "Eve's apple", "definition": "A transfeminine slang term coined to replace the masculine sounding \"Adam's apple\".", "sentence": "Then once this is normal, start making noises with your eve's apple raised.", "communities": [ "transfeminine" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "transvoice", "date": "2018-02-12 01:49:49", "timestamp": 1518396589.0 } }, { "id": "110232", "term": "zap", "definition": "Slang term for electrolytic epilation.", "sentence": "It only needs to be a few millimeters in length (about 2mm), basically long enough that the electrologist can see it, and yank it after zapping it.", "communities": [ "transfeminine" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "asktransgender", "date": "2023-03-14 04:23:08", "timestamp": 1678764188.0 } }, { "id": "78558", "term": "flip-flop", "definition": "Slang to indicate either 1) bisexuality or 2) a person that likes to switch between \"top\" and \"bottom\" roles during sex. Especially used by incarcerated people in the US.", "sentence": "It was because I had been imagining being in a relationship when I was older and my brain would randomly flip-flop between guys and girls.", "communities": [], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "BisexualTeens", "date": "2020-02-24 19:04:55", "timestamp": 1582567495.0 } }, { "id": "2222", "term": "femme", "definition": "Traditionally, a lesbian who appears \"feminine\" or acts in a \"feminine\" manner. However, the term is often used to describe a wide variety of gender expressions and identities adjacent to feminine or femme-ness.", "sentence": "We got BFF, Black Fat Femme.", "communities": [ "lesbian" ], "metadata": { "source": "Podcasts", "title": "First Date Follow Up - The Jubal Show" } }, { "id": "116672", "term": "chubby bear", "definition": "A bear who is particularly large (\"bear\" meaning \"a gay or bisexual man who has facial/body hair and a cuddly body\").", "sentence": "Could be a feminine dude, feminine woman, masculine dude, woman more on the masculine side, trans men ,trans women, bbw, twink, petite woman, chubby bear dude.", "communities": [ "chub", "bear" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "bisexual", "date": "2021-04-25 00:59:39", "timestamp": 1619305179.0 } }, { "id": "79768", "term": "friend of dorothy", "definition": "Coded slang for gay. Referring to gay icon Judy Garland's Dorothy in The Wizard of Oz.", "sentence": "Have any one here ever asked some one \"Are you a friend of Dorothy?\"", "communities": [ "gay male" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "askgaybros", "date": "2018-01-26 19:26:41", "timestamp": 1516991201.0 } }, { "id": "19212", "term": "coming out", "definition": "A metaphor for LGBTQIA+ people's self-disclosure of their sexual orientation or of their gender identity. The term coming out can also be used in various non-LGBTQIA+ applications (e.g. atheists). Framed and debated as a privacy issue, coming out of the closet is described and experienced variously as a psychological process or journey; decision-making or risk-taking; a strategy or plan; a mass or public event; a speech act and a matter of personal identity; a rite of passage; liberation or emancipation from oppression; an ordeal; a means toward feeling gay pride instead of shame and social stigma; or even career suicide. Author Steven Seidman writes that \"it is the power of the closet to shape the core of an individual's life that has made homosexuality into a significant personal, social, and political drama in twentieth-century America\".", "sentence": "And so you got to give that to another young actor coming out.", "communities": [ "LGBTQ" ], "metadata": { "source": "Podcasts", "title": "Where Everybody Knows Your Name with Ted Danson and Woody Harrelson (sometimes)" } }, { "id": "106691", "term": "transdar", "definition": "A colloquialism referring to the intuitive ability of a person to assess others' as being transgender. Transdar relies on verbal and non-verbal clues and transgender stereotypes. These include the sensitivity to social behaviors and mannerisms; for instance, acknowledging variations of gendered body language, the tone of voice used by a person when speaking, overtly rejecting traditional gender roles, a person's occupation, interests, etc.", "sentence": "The skinny hips might show up on my transdar?", "communities": [ "transgender" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "transpassing", "date": "2025-05-18 16:02:11", "timestamp": 1747576931.0 } }, { "id": "149182", "term": "serve cunt", "definition": "To act in a powerfully and unapologetically feminine manner.", "sentence": "Anyone can serve cunt.", "communities": [ "drag" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "asktransgender", "date": "2024-08-25 09:00:29", "timestamp": 1724569229.0 } }, { "id": "110871", "term": "tranny chaser", "definition": "Someone who aims to have sexual relations (in some cases non-consensually) or date transgender people as a kind of fetish.", "sentence": "Has anyone else had those weird experiences with tranny chasers who were just a little too interested for their own good?", "communities": [ "transfeminine" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "crossdressing", "date": "2014-05-28 00:41:48", "timestamp": 1401230508.0 } }, { "id": "97010", "term": "power top", "definition": "A power top is one noted for their skill or aggressiveness in topping (acting as the \"giving\" partner in sexual encounters).", "sentence": "If a power top meets a power bottom what happens?", "communities": [ "LGBTQ" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "gaybrosgonemild", "date": "2021-07-07 17:22:00", "timestamp": 1625671320.0 } }, { "id": "204089", "term": "folx", "definition": "Folks; people.", "sentence": "I live alone, but sometimes I have folx over, and I'm starting to feel like I'm hiding from people I care about, and who I know care about me.", "communities": [], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "crossdressing", "date": "2023-10-31 13:38:12", "timestamp": 1698755892.0 } }, { "id": "146663", "term": "repper", "definition": "A person who has realised they are transgender but refuses to accept it and begin gender transition.", "sentence": "didn't improve my mental health (if anything repper me was way better at handling dissociation).", "communities": [], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "MtF", "date": "2025-05-30 20:45:59", "timestamp": 1748630759.0 } }, { "id": "120847", "term": "twunk", "definition": "A gay man with the certain twink (meaning ā€œyoung, attractive, slim maleā€) stereotype elements that has a hunky (strong, muscular, etc.) physique.", "sentence": "I (24M white twunk) moved to NYC about a year ago.", "communities": [ "gay", "gay male" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "nycgaybros", "date": "2024-03-27 21:19:45", "timestamp": 1711570785.0 } }, { "id": "5443", "term": "go off", "definition": "To perform extremely well; to be impressive or attractive; often used to express encouragement.", "sentence": "Don't have to drag her on the slightly thinning hair, but go off.", "communities": [], "metadata": { "source": "Podcasts", "title": "Bittersweet Infamy" } }, { "id": "116760", "term": "front hole", "definition": "Slang for vagina, often used by transmasculine persons assigned female at birth.", "sentence": "Unless thatā€™s reserved to buttholes, otherwise front hole is another good word.", "communities": [ "transmasculine" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "traaaaaaannnnnnnnnns", "date": "2019-07-15 01:51:00", "timestamp": 1563148260.0 } }, { "id": "142140", "term": "LGBT", "definition": "Initialism for lesbian, gay, bisexual, and transgender.", "sentence": "As a lesbian I feel like part of the LGBT+ community.", "communities": [], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "demisexuality", "date": "2021-06-07 14:48:34", "timestamp": 1623070114.0 } }, { "id": "106615", "term": "baby trans", "definition": "Someone who has recently discovered that they are transgender.", "sentence": "You wanna grab a coffee with a fellow baby trans?", "communities": [ "transgender", "transgender" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "transpassing", "date": "2022-04-13 21:48:00", "timestamp": 1649879280.0 } }, { "id": "142038", "term": "LGBT", "definition": "Initialism for lesbian, gay, bisexual, and transgender.", "sentence": "I know there's a ton of people around, but I was just hoping that I could find more LGBT players that were close by as well!", "communities": [], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "LoLGaymers", "date": "2015-05-06 03:08:50", "timestamp": 1430874530.0 } }, { "id": "158901", "term": "duderus", "definition": "The uterus of a trans man.", "sentence": "I'm pretty jaded in this topic though since nothing seems to be able to make my duderus shut up for more than a couple of months at a time :/.", "communities": [ "transgender" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "ftm", "date": "2015-11-11 06:09:13", "timestamp": 1447218553.0 } }, { "id": "76490", "term": "dyke", "definition": "Contested terminology. Slur for lesbian, highly offensive if applied to a lesbian or transmasc person externally. Term has been reclaimed by some lesbians communities, and is sometimes used affirmingly within communities.\"Bulldyke\" and \"bulldagger\" are often used to indicate butch or masculine queer women, sometimes with overtones of toughness or aggression.", "sentence": "As a bit of a masculine presenting dyke myself, I was happy for another LGBT coworker, especially one that's woman-aligned.", "communities": [], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "AskLGBT", "date": "2021-07-14 03:08:16", "timestamp": 1626224896.0 } }, { "id": "117164", "term": "unicorn", "definition": "A bisexual woman who engages in a sexual, but usually non-romantic, relationship with a heterosexual couple.", "sentence": "It was very fun at the time, but unicorn hunters on online dating websites are no bueno and it got old.", "communities": [ "bisexual female" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "actuallesbians", "date": "2023-10-05 23:15:47", "timestamp": 1696540547.0 } }, { "id": "169806", "term": "pre-E", "definition": "Not yet having undergone estrogen-based hormone replacement therapy.", "sentence": "I think the soonest time we can see each other is next month, and the last time I saw her was in May pre-E.", "communities": [ "transgender" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "mypartneristrans", "date": "2021-07-18 11:09:50", "timestamp": 1626599390.0 } }, { "id": "107232", "term": "deep stealth", "definition": "Referring to a transgender person who is not known to be trans by most of the people they interact with on a daily basis, even a sexual or romantic partner.", "sentence": "There has never been a trans Commissioner (unless they have been in deep stealth) and more than one of us have tried to get appointed.", "communities": [ "transgender" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "transgenderUK", "date": "2025-04-18 01:23:21", "timestamp": 1744932201.0 } }, { "id": "149508", "term": "the house down", "definition": "Used as an intensifier: very, to a great degree; exceptionally.", "sentence": "So I was sure I liked boys, and after 3ā€“4 years, he hit puberty, and goshā€”ā€œSlay the house down boots, Houston, Iā€™m deceased.ā€ That guy is HOT.", "communities": [ "drag" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "LGBTindia", "date": "2025-02-22 03:40:55", "timestamp": 1740192055.0 } }, { "id": "158096", "term": "crack", "definition": "To realize that one is transgender.", "sentence": "Egg cracking can be applied to almost all trans people or at least those who realise/come out when theyā€™re older, but the lesbian ā€˜equivalentsā€™ people have put seem pretty narrow.", "communities": [ "transgender" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "actuallesbians", "date": "2025-06-27 12:36:26", "timestamp": 1751020586.0 } }, { "id": "120837", "term": "twunk", "definition": "A gay man with the certain twink (meaning ā€œyoung, attractive, slim maleā€) stereotype elements that has a hunky (strong, muscular, etc.) physique.", "sentence": "Also, I'm not super masculine either, practically a Twunk for lack of better words LOL", "communities": [ "gay", "gay male" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "NonBinary", "date": "2024-10-09 15:39:35", "timestamp": 1728481175.0 } }, { "id": "16099", "term": "bitch", "definition": "A pejorative slang term usually used for a woman who is considered unreasonable, malicious, a control freak, intrusive, or aggressive. It also has several other meanings, depending on the context.", "sentence": "The bitch being me.", "communities": [ "gay male" ], "metadata": { "source": "Podcasts", "title": "The Debrief" } }, { "id": "155450", "term": "queerdo", "definition": "A particularly strange LGBTQ+ person.", "sentence": "Would appreciate suggestions from ace spec folx or other punny queerdos.", "communities": [ "gay" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "lgbt", "date": "2024-03-21 22:49:08", "timestamp": 1711057748.0 } }, { "id": "86334", "term": "sugar daddy", "definition": "Expression of the Black community in the 1920s, to refer to an older, wealthy partner. Over time, this expression became used by the LGBTQIA+ community as well.", "sentence": "Whatā€™s the PayPal sugar daddy scam?", "communities": [], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "gaybros", "date": "2021-12-30 20:21:00", "timestamp": 1640892060.0 } }, { "id": "106861", "term": "girlmode", "definition": "When a transgender person presents a gender expression codified as female, typically if that person is a transgender man. Usually used in the context of going incognito as a cisgender woman.", "sentence": "Then on Saturday, a handful of days ago, I decided to work up the courage and girlmoded to my dad's workshop because I had to vacate for a few hours.", "communities": [ "transgender", "transgender" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "transgenderUK", "date": "2024-06-10 14:37:32", "timestamp": 1718023052.0 } }, { "id": "211277", "term": "faggotry", "definition": "A pejorative term used chiefly in North America primarily to refer to a gay man. Alongside its use to refer to gay men in particular, it may also be used as a pejorative term for a \"repellent man\" or to refer to women who are lesbian (or to transgender people, typically transgender women). Its use has spread from the United States to varying extents elsewhere in the English-speaking world through mass culture, including film, music, and the Internet.", "sentence": "Honey I am embracing my faggotry like no one's business.", "communities": [], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "ftm", "date": "2013-09-18 04:01:07", "timestamp": 1379469667.0 } }, { "id": "206284", "term": "poz", "definition": "ā€¢ HIV positive.\nā€¢ To infect (someone) with a sexually transmitted infection; especially HIV.", "sentence": "my guy is POZ (first time ive read that description) its not even remotely an issue with us.", "communities": [], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "askgaybros", "date": "2023-02-11 14:50:58", "timestamp": 1676123458.0 } }, { "id": "151340", "term": "breeding", "definition": "Ejaculation inside the rectum during bareback anal sex.", "sentence": "Came back from a month-long cruise bragging about the two guys he was breeding while on vacation.", "communities": [ "gay" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "askgaybros", "date": "2025-07-07 19:48:37", "timestamp": 1751910517.0 } }, { "id": "101490", "term": "theyfab", "definition": "A slang term for a nonbinary person who is assigned female at birth.", "sentence": "We theyfab femmebies exist and we ARE nonbinary.", "communities": [ "nonbinary" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "NonBinary", "date": "2023-10-11 14:38:17", "timestamp": 1697027897.0 } }, { "id": "203356", "term": "doll", "definition": "A transgender woman or transfeminine person.", "sentence": "Because \"Protect the Dolls\" exists in the context of transmisogyny, not just transphobia.", "communities": [], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "asktransgender", "date": "2025-06-03 15:57:47", "timestamp": 1748959067.0 } }, { "id": "83744", "term": "gym rat", "definition": "A sports enthusiast; usually one who frequents gyms and training grounds; often used of young gay men obsessed with body building.", "sentence": "My ex was kind of a gym rat and my best friend had never even gone before, so it felt suspicious.", "communities": [], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "actuallesbians", "date": "2025-05-23 01:14:11", "timestamp": 1747955651.0 } }, { "id": "112522", "term": "femme", "definition": "Traditionally, a lesbian who appears \"feminine\" or acts in a \"feminine\" manner. However, the term is often used to describe a wide variety of gender expressions and identities adjacent to feminine or femme-ness.", "sentence": "Iā€™m really femme and pass as straight constantly.", "communities": [ "lesbian" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "lgbt", "date": "2024-02-25 15:41:28", "timestamp": 1708872088.0 } }, { "id": "99376", "term": "total top", "definition": "A total top is one who assumes an exclusively penetrative role for sex.", "sentence": "Total top as in you both know youā€™ll never bottom or total top as in the Ā«Ā I wonā€™t suck your dickĀ Ā» bullshit ?", "communities": [ "LGBTQ" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "askgaybros", "date": "2025-04-20 11:43:05", "timestamp": 1745142185.0 } }, { "id": "79767", "term": "friend of dorothy", "definition": "Coded slang for gay. Referring to gay icon Judy Garland's Dorothy in The Wizard of Oz.", "sentence": "Yes, I am very much a Friend of Dorothy", "communities": [ "gay male" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "gay", "date": "2024-06-04 23:05:48", "timestamp": 1717535148.0 } }, { "id": "113897", "term": "futch", "definition": "A person who exhibits traits of both a femme (often used to describe a wide variety of gender expressions and identities adjacent to feminine or femme-ness) and a butch (often used to describe a wide variety of gender expressions and identities adjacent to masculinity or \"butchilinity\").", "sentence": "Help a futch lesbian out!", "communities": [ "lesbian" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "lgbt", "date": "2020-09-16 02:18:47", "timestamp": 1600215527.0 } }, { "id": "206343", "term": "snatched", "definition": "Good-looking.", "sentence": "His waist is SNATCHED", "communities": [], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "gaymers", "date": "2021-05-25 21:52:42", "timestamp": 1621972362.0 } }, { "id": "215406", "term": "bio queen", "definition": "A cis female performance artist who performs in female drag at drag shows, or acts like a drag queen.", "sentence": "If you're answer is no, then why does the same argument not apply to bio queens?", "communities": [], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "rupaulsdragrace", "date": "2017-09-23 01:39:43", "timestamp": 1506123583.0 } }, { "id": "123669", "term": "hunk", "definition": "A muscular, handsome gay man.", "sentence": "Everyone knows how beautiful Serena ChaCha is as a queen, but letā€™s appreciate what a soft sculpted hunk of a man he is outside of drag!", "communities": [ "gay male" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "rupaulsdragrace", "date": "2021-06-18 23:07:04", "timestamp": 1624050424.0 } }, { "id": "145991", "term": "brainworm", "definition": "An intrusive, unwanted, internalized transphobic or invalidating thought or belief.", "sentence": "Gods Iā€™m sorry theyā€™ve been so infected with the anti-trans brainworms šŸ˜”", "communities": [], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "lgbt", "date": "2025-06-12 03:34:08", "timestamp": 1749692048.0 } }, { "id": "113724", "term": "gayelle", "definition": "A lesbian.", "sentence": "Hi all you wonderful gayellesā€”", "communities": [ "lesbian" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "actuallesbians", "date": "2019-11-20 06:29:29", "timestamp": 1574227769.0 } }, { "id": "158060", "term": "clocky", "definition": "Clearly identifiable as transgender; capable of being easily clocked; not passing.", "sentence": "/uj if i see one more person saying ā€œAlexā€ and ā€œOliverā€ are clocky names iā€™m gonna lose my mind", "communities": [ "transgender" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "transgendercirclejerk", "date": "2025-04-03 04:55:08", "timestamp": 1743648908.0 } }, { "id": "326", "term": "sugar daddy", "definition": "Expression of the Black community in the 1920s, to refer to an older, wealthy partner. Over time, this expression became used by the LGBTQIA+ community as well.", "sentence": "I meet a Sugar Daddy.", "communities": [], "metadata": { "source": "Podcasts", "title": "Au Parloir" } }, { "id": "106668", "term": "repressor", "definition": "A transgender person who fights or represses the wish to change their gender expression.", "sentence": "I go on and imagine myself as a guy - but then I feel like a repressor because I've seen so many repressors that looked like that guy.", "communities": [ "transgender" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "asktransgender", "date": "2022-06-15 21:59:39", "timestamp": 1655323179.0 } }, { "id": "118702", "term": "gold star gay", "definition": "A gay person who has never had sex with a person of the opposite gender.", "sentence": "I thought it was really disappointing the focus on the gold star gay discussion in the last episode.", "communities": [ "gay male" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "rupaulsdragrace", "date": "2022-01-19 16:58:19", "timestamp": 1642607899.0 } }, { "id": "158127", "term": "crack", "definition": "To realize that one is transgender.", "sentence": "Egg cracking was the worst thing that ever happened to me aside from being trans.", "communities": [ "transgender" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "asktransgender", "date": "2025-06-11 11:17:37", "timestamp": 1749633457.0 } }, { "id": "94398", "term": "fierce", "definition": "To have looks that could \"kill\"; also used to refer to satisfying, powerful, or beautiful drag queens.", "sentence": "Lookit those tired fierce eyes, grrr!", "communities": [ "drag" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "lgbt", "date": "2025-03-13 11:12:50", "timestamp": 1741860770.0 } }, { "id": "215145", "term": "twinks", "definition": "ā€¢ Slang term widely used in gay communities to describe a young or young-looking man with little or no facial or body hair. Can be pejorative, but can also be a self-descriptor.\nā€¢ A young, attractive, slim male, usually having little body hair.", "sentence": "Here in London there's a massive bear club called xxl, it's kind of amusing about 20% of the crowd are twinks chasing after the bears.", "communities": [ "gay male" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "lgbt", "date": "2012-12-22 00:09:53", "timestamp": 1356131393.0 } }, { "id": "107065", "term": "truscum", "definition": "A person who adheres to a strict medical definition of being transgender and believes that gender dysphoria is an essential trait.", "sentence": "Anyone else feel like the whole truscum community is founded on anger?", "communities": [ "transgender" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "ftm", "date": "2021-08-27 06:54:25", "timestamp": 1630040065.0 } }, { "id": "101597", "term": "femby", "definition": "A slang term sometimes used to refer to femme enbies (non-binary people) or non-binary women. A portmanteau of \"femme\" and \"enby\".", "sentence": "I think fembys are feminine non-binary people whether AFAB or AMAB, and likewise for mascbys.", "communities": [ "nonbinary" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "ask_transgender", "date": "2020-06-26 20:22:29", "timestamp": 1593195749.0 } }, { "id": "170467", "term": "spiro", "definition": "Clipping of spironolactone.", "sentence": "Given what I've heard about spiro's side effects, that sounds absolutely f\\*cking miserable.", "communities": [ "transgender" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "asktransgender", "date": "2025-01-08 22:08:24", "timestamp": 1736370504.0 } }, { "id": "101671", "term": "enbyfriend", "definition": "A nonbinary sexual and/or romantic partner.", "sentence": "Told enbyfriend after a month.", "communities": [ "nonbinary" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "asktransgender", "date": "2016-05-03 21:00:36", "timestamp": 1462302036.0 } }, { "id": "101676", "term": "enbyfriend", "definition": "A nonbinary sexual and/or romantic partner.", "sentence": "Came out to my Enbyfriend and I have just been on top of the world ever since.", "communities": [ "nonbinary" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "MtF", "date": "2022-02-05 00:34:21", "timestamp": 1644017661.0 } }, { "id": "228699", "term": "butch", "definition": "ā€¢ Traditionally, a lesbian who appears \"masculine\" or acts in a \"masculine\" manner. However, the term is often used to describe a wide variety of gender expressions and identities adjacent to masculinity or \"butchilinity\".\nā€¢ Heterosexual.", "sentence": "I consider myself butch, I can't change it.", "communities": [ "lesbian" ], "metadata": { "source": "OpenSubtitles", "title": "Venus Boyz", "imdb_id": "293685" } }, { "id": "76175", "term": "dyke", "definition": "Contested terminology. Slur for lesbian, highly offensive if applied to a lesbian or transmasc person externally. Term has been reclaimed by some lesbians communities, and is sometimes used affirmingly within communities.\"Bulldyke\" and \"bulldagger\" are often used to indicate butch or masculine queer women, sometimes with overtones of toughness or aggression.", "sentence": "I rarely, rarely call myself a dyke.", "communities": [], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "actuallesbians", "date": "2018-05-31 04:07:57", "timestamp": 1527732477.0 } }, { "id": "103608", "term": "top surgery", "definition": "A slang term used to refer to thoracic gender-affirming surgeries.", "sentence": "As title mentioned I just got top surgery so I have a week off of everything and I need to entertain myself.", "communities": [ "transgender" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "transgamers", "date": "2025-04-17 03:25:53", "timestamp": 1744853153.0 } }, { "id": "101478", "term": "theyfab", "definition": "A slang term for a nonbinary person who is assigned female at birth.", "sentence": "Half the reason I still look like a sad pathetic theyfab is because we have no healthcare in my country and I canā€™t afford any kind of anything lol", "communities": [ "nonbinary" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "transgendercirclejerk", "date": "2024-05-17 18:42:10", "timestamp": 1715964130.0 } }, { "id": "101621", "term": "femby", "definition": "A slang term sometimes used to refer to femme enbies (non-binary people) or non-binary women. A portmanteau of \"femme\" and \"enby\".", "sentence": "You could be a masculine femby.", "communities": [ "nonbinary" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "questioning", "date": "2021-03-15 19:28:08", "timestamp": 1615832888.0 } }, { "id": "151283", "term": "boywife", "definition": "A young male assuming the employment of homemaking, a role traditionally assumed by women; the submissive partner in the relationship who receives great pleasure in \"taking care\" of his more dominant partner.", "sentence": "I would not be opposed to getting turned into a boywife though its not for everyone.", "communities": [ "gay" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "askgaybros", "date": "2023-04-17 16:59:42", "timestamp": 1681743582.0 } }, { "id": "157484", "term": "vers", "definition": "ā€¢ LGBTQ+ community slang for someone who \"switches\" between the \"giving\" and \"receiving\" during sex. \"Vers\" is short for \"versatile.\" \"Switch\" is sometimes also used in a BDSM context, to indicate someone who \"switches\" between the dominant and submissive roles.\nā€¢ One who is willing to take either a submissive or a dominant role in a sexual relationship.", "sentence": "I prefer a not vers at all partner actually.", "communities": [ "gay" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "gaybros", "date": "2023-11-29 07:41:20", "timestamp": 1701240080.0 } }, { "id": "203108", "term": "VT", "definition": "Initialism of voice training.", "sentence": "Im still not a good singer but just learning *how* to sing went quite well hand in hand with VT for me.", "communities": [ "transgender" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "MtF", "date": "2025-03-14 02:11:39", "timestamp": 1741914699.0 } }, { "id": "94315", "term": "drab", "definition": "An instance of a transgender or non-binary person presenting as the gender corresponding to their sex assigned at birth instead of that corresponding to their internal gender identity (most commonly a trans woman dressed as a man).", "sentence": "I'm mtf, but I live in drab, and I'm in the closet to all but my closest friends.", "communities": [ "transgender", "drag", "transgender" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "TransSpace", "date": "2013-05-10 17:52:07", "timestamp": 1368201127.0 } }, { "id": "101493", "term": "theyfab", "definition": "A slang term for a nonbinary person who is assigned female at birth.", "sentence": "I never heard femmeby before but my friends know that if they use theyfab around me they get blocked.", "communities": [ "nonbinary" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "NonBinary", "date": "2024-03-27 17:07:13", "timestamp": 1711555633.0 } }, { "id": "107883", "term": "tucute", "definition": "A person who acknowledges that gender dysphoria is not necessary to be transgender.", "sentence": "the main subs (ftm/mtf/trans/etc) are generally tucute, meaning we don't gatekeep anyone's identity, and all trans people are welcome as long as they aren't assholes", "communities": [ "transgender" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "MtF", "date": "2024-08-01 23:19:09", "timestamp": 1722547149.0 } }, { "id": "99773", "term": "queer coding", "definition": "A situation in which a character is given traits or behaviors which suggest they are not heterosexual and/or cisgender, without the character being outright confirmed as having such an identity.", "sentence": "Honestly straight people are bad at catching queer coding.", "communities": [ "LGBTQ" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "actuallesbians", "date": "2025-03-02 21:06:50", "timestamp": 1740946010.0 } }, { "id": "169439", "term": "orchi", "definition": "Clipping of orchiectomy.", "sentence": "While I cannot speak broadly for a common experience, I didn't have any issues with rising T levels or hair growth after my orchi.", "communities": [ "transgender" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "asktransgender", "date": "2025-06-11 03:34:46", "timestamp": 1749605686.0 } }, { "id": "113735", "term": "U-Haul lesbian", "definition": "A stereotype of lesbian relationships, referring to the joke that lesbians tend to move in together on the second date. It suggests an extreme inclination toward monogamy or committed relationships. It can be considered either complimentary or pejorative, depending on context.", "sentence": "After actively attempting not to succumb to the clichĆ©, I absolutely became a U-Haul lesbian, and I'm never looking back", "communities": [], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "actuallesbians", "date": "2019-08-28 21:16:24", "timestamp": 1567019784.0 } }, { "id": "99616", "term": "gaymer", "definition": "Gay persons who have active interest in video games or tabletop games.", "sentence": "Emerald warriors are a rugby club, Outhouse has some social supports, Dublin gaymers have a monthly board games night", "communities": [ "LGBTQ" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "LGBTireland", "date": "2025-04-07 15:37:03", "timestamp": 1744033023.0 } }, { "id": "113708", "term": "high femme", "definition": "A femme person who expresses their gender in ultra feminine ways. Often, but not exclusively, this refers to a queer woman.", "sentence": "I don't necessarily want or need someone who is a high femme, but butch / boi energy usually does nothing for me sexually.", "communities": [ "lesbian" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "l4l", "date": "2018-05-16 12:33:40", "timestamp": 1526466820.0 } }, { "id": "108994", "term": "girldick", "definition": "A transgender woman's penis.", "sentence": "Seeing all the comments about loving their girldick make me happy for some kind of reason, that I don't know yet.", "communities": [ "transgender", "transfeminine" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "traaaaaaannnnnnnnnns", "date": "2021-07-23 20:50:34", "timestamp": 1627066234.0 } }, { "id": "153269", "term": "family", "definition": "ā€¢ The gay community.\nā€¢ Homosexual.", "sentence": "Iā€™m sorry this is happening and hope you can build a deep, loving chosen family if you havenā€™t already.", "communities": [ "gay" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "gaysian", "date": "2022-04-29 17:52:40", "timestamp": 1651247560.0 } }, { "id": "91812", "term": "Bye, Felicia", "definition": "A phrase used to dismiss someone.", "sentence": "And to the state of Texas: bye, Felicia.", "communities": [], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "trans", "date": "2023-04-26 11:09:56", "timestamp": 1682500196.0 } }, { "id": "85031", "term": "punk", "definition": "A slang term with multiple meanings depending on context. Originally used to refer to a sex worker or prostitute, especially a passive or feminine gay man (or a bottom). By the early 20th century, used to refer to a person considered worthless or criminal in nature. By the 1970s, used to refer to punk rock, a punk rocker, or to the sociocultural movement associated with punk rock and its fans. In the modern gay male community, the term \"punk\" may refer to a smaller, typically younger gay man who is forced into a submissive role in prison settings by an older gay man. Also occasionally used as a synonym for \"clock\" or \"read\", i.e. when a cisgender person recognizes a person as transgender.", "sentence": "Definitely not a punk in my behavior or appearance though.", "communities": [ "transgender", "gay male" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "askgaybros", "date": "2017-10-21 01:40:25", "timestamp": 1508542825.0 } }, { "id": "84596", "term": "lipstick lesbian", "definition": "Usually refers to a lesbian with a feminine gender expression. Can be used in a positive or a derogatory way, depending on who is using it. Is sometimes also used to refer to a lesbian who is seen as automatically \"passing\" for heterosexual.", "sentence": "The \"problem\" of lipstick lesbians is essentially the same, from the point of view of certain people.", "communities": [ "lesbian" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "askgaybros", "date": "2016-02-05 21:29:48", "timestamp": 1454704188.0 } }, { "id": "228160", "term": "crush", "definition": "An infatuation with somebody, typically someone that one is not dating. By extension, the object of such infatuation or affection.", "sentence": "Plus my huge crush on roddy mcdowell and those cute, little leather outfits.", "communities": [ "LGBTQ" ], "metadata": { "source": "OpenSubtitles", "title": "All Over the Guy", "imdb_id": "250202" } }, { "id": "202144", "term": "unclockable", "definition": "Not recognizable as transgender or a drag performer; passing.", "sentence": "I had just a bought the unclockable bra buds.", "communities": [ "transgender" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "MtF", "date": "2024-03-19 02:39:08", "timestamp": 1710812348.0 } }, { "id": "220165", "term": "house of", "definition": "In the US, a group of drag queens who have been mentored by a \"mother,\" also known as a \"house.\" These groups often take on family drag names and form close-knit communities.", "sentence": "The House of Xtravaganza has done a lot.", "communities": [], "metadata": { "source": "OpenSubtitles", "title": "Paris Is Burning", "imdb_id": "100332" } }, { "id": "210984", "term": "eggs", "definition": "Slang term (originating online) for a person who has not yet realised they are transgender, has not yet come out, or is in the early stages of transitioning. Usually used (fondly) by trans people to recognise when aspects of someone's personality or behavior remind them of gender-related aspects of themselves before they realized they were trans.", "sentence": "this movie cracked so many eggs", "communities": [ "transgender" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "ladyladyboners", "date": "2023-08-31 14:31:51", "timestamp": 1693485111.0 } }, { "id": "204411", "term": "girlsmell", "definition": "A girl or woman's body odour, often regarded as attractive.", "sentence": "i'm 4 months on hrt and wonder if i still have boysmell or girlsmell or whatever is in between ?", "communities": [], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "asktransgender", "date": "2022-10-19 07:22:20", "timestamp": 1666156940.0 } }, { "id": "118695", "term": "gold star gay", "definition": "A gay person who has never had sex with a person of the opposite gender.", "sentence": "Platinum and Gold Star gays are such cringey terms.", "communities": [ "gay male" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "gaybros", "date": "2025-03-09 13:16:33", "timestamp": 1741522593.0 } }, { "id": "117938", "term": "batty boy", "definition": "ā€¢ A pejorative term in Jamaican Patois often used to refer to a gay or feminine man.\nā€¢ A gay man.", "sentence": "Itā€™s clear form the Wikipedia page on batty boy that the term is used in offensive song lyrics:", "communities": [ "gay male" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "gay", "date": "2021-12-19 19:01:23", "timestamp": 1639936883.0 } }, { "id": "96998", "term": "total bottom", "definition": "A total bottom is someone who assumes an exclusively passive or receptive role during anal or oral intercourse.", "sentence": "im amab, total bottom, my height is 5,5 im slim/ muscular, face smooth.", "communities": [ "LGBTQ" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "NonBinary", "date": "2024-12-25 15:22:30", "timestamp": 1735136550.0 } }, { "id": "106628", "term": "baby trans", "definition": "Someone who has recently discovered that they are transgender.", "sentence": "My name is Oliver, which is also another baby trans name.", "communities": [ "transgender", "transgender" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "ftm", "date": "2025-01-30 14:47:20", "timestamp": 1738244840.0 } }, { "id": "107009", "term": "truscum", "definition": "A person who adheres to a strict medical definition of being transgender and believes that gender dysphoria is an essential trait.", "sentence": "Not truscum, never was.", "communities": [ "transgender" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "asktransgender", "date": "2023-09-19 23:33:22", "timestamp": 1695159202.0 } }, { "id": "110874", "term": "tranny chaser", "definition": "Someone who aims to have sexual relations (in some cases non-consensually) or date transgender people as a kind of fetish.", "sentence": "I just want to add I know a lot of the men and they are not tranny chasers", "communities": [ "transfeminine" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "MtF", "date": "2023-04-04 16:18:10", "timestamp": 1680617890.0 } }, { "id": "101634", "term": "femby", "definition": "A slang term sometimes used to refer to femme enbies (non-binary people) or non-binary women. A portmanteau of \"femme\" and \"enby\".", "sentence": "Just to clarify, are you attracted to fembys?", "communities": [ "nonbinary" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "AskLGBT", "date": "2023-11-25 07:25:41", "timestamp": 1700893541.0 } }, { "id": "110920", "term": "zucchini", "definition": "A queerplatonic partner.", "sentence": "You will find your next zucchini.", "communities": [ "aromantic" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "asexuality", "date": "2019-11-19 13:58:47", "timestamp": 1574168327.0 } }, { "id": "211663", "term": "fag hags", "definition": "A woman, typically a heterosexual one, possibly ageing, who prefers, enjoys, or seeks out the company of homosexual men. This term is offensive to gay men and misogynistic to heterosexual women. Once common, now rarely used within queer communities.", "sentence": "Including by girls who called themselves my fag hags.", "communities": [ "gay male" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "askgaybros", "date": "2023-02-23 00:01:36", "timestamp": 1677106896.0 } }, { "id": "215415", "term": "bio queen", "definition": "A cis female performance artist who performs in female drag at drag shows, or acts like a drag queen.", "sentence": "My wife is a cis woman drag queen and she doesnā€™t like to be called bio queen either.", "communities": [], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "Drag", "date": "2022-08-09 20:09:25", "timestamp": 1660068565.0 } }, { "id": "100236", "term": "oral top", "definition": "A gay man who likes to receive, more than give, oral sex.", "sentence": "I am pretty sure oral top means they rather recieve a bj rather than sucking.", "communities": [ "LGBTQ" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "askgaybros", "date": "2022-06-01 00:55:36", "timestamp": 1654037736.0 } }, { "id": "25119", "term": "camp", "definition": "ā€¢ Camp can also be a social practice and function as a style and performance identity for several types of entertainment including film, cabaret, and pantomime. Where high art necessarily incorporates beauty and value, camp necessarily needs to be lively, audacious and dynamic.\nā€¢ An aesthetic style and sensibility that regards something as appealing because of its bad taste and ironic value. Camp aesthetics disrupt many of modernism's notions of what art is and what can be classified as high art by inverting aesthetic attributes such as beauty, value, and taste through an invitation of a different kind of apprehension and consumption.\nā€¢ To behave, speak, act, etc. in a flamboyant, affected, ostentatious, or exaggerated manner stereotypically associated with gay men.\nā€¢ Gay.", "sentence": "What if I have a different personality in American as well because I become a little bit mannered, ever so slightly camp.", "communities": [ "LGBTQ" ], "metadata": { "source": "Podcasts", "title": "The Louis Theroux Podcast" } }, { "id": "227382", "term": "drag queen", "definition": "ā€¢ A male entertainer who performs dressed as a woman; a female impersonator.\nā€¢ A male-to-female cross-dresser.", "sentence": "So what's the drag queen got that makes her so irresistible?", "communities": [], "metadata": { "source": "OpenSubtitles", "title": "The Iron Ladies", "imdb_id": "263957" } }, { "id": "115361", "term": "pillow princess", "definition": "A woman who likes to receive and not give, sexually.", "sentence": "Also I prefer being the bottom or ā€œ pillow princess ā€œ and just sit there but I feel like that makes me look like I like girls less.", "communities": [ "lesbian" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "lgbt", "date": "2025-01-07 11:19:15", "timestamp": 1736245155.0 } }, { "id": "107127", "term": "truscum", "definition": "A person who adheres to a strict medical definition of being transgender and believes that gender dysphoria is an essential trait.", "sentence": "I imagine as well, for those truscums who have severe dysphoria, may feel resentment towards those who are happily trans.", "communities": [ "transgender" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "ask_transgender", "date": "2021-06-27 22:28:23", "timestamp": 1624825703.0 } }, { "id": "117136", "term": "unicorn", "definition": "A bisexual woman who engages in a sexual, but usually non-romantic, relationship with a heterosexual couple.", "sentence": "Unicorn is used to describe a bisexual (normally a woman) who is willing to join an existing couple and sexually satisfy them, see the related term unicorn hunters.", "communities": [ "bisexual female" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "lgbt", "date": "2024-06-27 14:41:02", "timestamp": 1719492062.0 } }, { "id": "89787", "term": "tranny", "definition": "A transgender person, usually a transgender woman. Originally a shortening of transvestite. Generally considered derogatory, offensive. Debate over the termā€™s offensiveness occurred in the early 2010s, but by 2017, the term was banned by several media stylebooks and labeled as hate speech by Facebook.", "sentence": "Iā€™ve been told Iā€™m not a real woman, that Iā€™m a gender traitor, and that Iā€™m a man, a tranny and a faggot.", "communities": [ "transfeminine" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "TransSupport", "date": "2015-01-08 19:44:51", "timestamp": 1420742691.0 } }, { "id": "211275", "term": "faggotry", "definition": "A pejorative term used chiefly in North America primarily to refer to a gay man. Alongside its use to refer to gay men in particular, it may also be used as a pejorative term for a \"repellent man\" or to refer to women who are lesbian (or to transgender people, typically transgender women). Its use has spread from the United States to varying extents elsewhere in the English-speaking world through mass culture, including film, music, and the Internet.", "sentence": "I like relishing in my faggotry.", "communities": [], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "ftm", "date": "2013-09-16 23:30:01", "timestamp": 1379367001.0 } }, { "id": "114699", "term": "bambi lesbian", "definition": "A lesbian who identifies as bambi-sexual, i.e. being more interested in kissing, carressing, cuddling, etc. than genital stimulation or sexual intercourse.", "sentence": "I literally have bambi lesbian on my instagram bio lol", "communities": [ "lesbian" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "actuallesbians", "date": "2022-04-12 07:26:20", "timestamp": 1649741180.0 } }, { "id": "83494", "term": "gold star", "definition": "Slang for someone who has never had sex with someone of the opposite gender, sometimes including bisexual people of their own gender. Most commonly used in lesbian communities, now widely recognised as biphobic.", "sentence": "First government to codify Gold Star lesbianism.", "communities": [], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "lgbt", "date": "2025-04-26 09:22:52", "timestamp": 1745652172.0 } }, { "id": "209094", "term": "yass", "definition": "A strong expression of excitement or admiration.", "sentence": "Not even spooning mode level, but like bury head under arm and into side, mode level; hand holding, yes please, hand massages, yes puhleese, and minutes long squeeezed hugs, yass!", "communities": [], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "asktransgender", "date": "2020-06-22 13:56:04", "timestamp": 1592826964.0 } }, { "id": "215143", "term": "twinks", "definition": "ā€¢ Slang term widely used in gay communities to describe a young or young-looking man with little or no facial or body hair. Can be pejorative, but can also be a self-descriptor.\nā€¢ A young, attractive, slim male, usually having little body hair.", "sentence": "One day he's about to release us early due to it being a dead Friday, and comes out and yells \"ALRIGHT TWINKS WHO WANTS TO LEAVE EARLY?\"", "communities": [ "gay male" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "lgbt", "date": "2024-12-29 01:09:17", "timestamp": 1735430957.0 } }, { "id": "119522", "term": "no homo", "definition": "A phrase used as slang at the end of a sentence to assert the statement spoken by the speaker had no intentional homosexual implications. The phrase is also \"added to a statement in order to rid of a possible homosexual double-entendre\".", "sentence": "If he'd said 'I really respect that man and have a great deal of affection for him, no homo' I still wouldn't find it offensive, just unfortunate.", "communities": [ "gay male" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "gaybros", "date": "2013-06-02 19:57:42", "timestamp": 1370195862.0 } }, { "id": "126863", "term": "bareback", "definition": "Sexual activity without the use of a condom.", "sentence": "my wife and i used to bareback...now....look at the second word.", "communities": [ "gay male" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "lgbt", "date": "2010-04-24 20:00:31", "timestamp": 1272132031.0 } }, { "id": "99342", "term": "power bottom", "definition": "A power bottom is someone who aggressively enjoys being the receptive partner.", "sentence": "Where's my fellow Power Bottoms at Rock Bottom, at?", "communities": [ "LGBTQ" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "AskLGBT", "date": "2024-04-10 17:42:19", "timestamp": 1712763739.0 } }, { "id": "100245", "term": "queerspawn", "definition": "The children of same-sex parents; broadly, the children of parents who consider themselves queer or as having queer identities.", "sentence": "My little queerspawn kids don't really need an intro to the concept of LGBTQ families.", "communities": [ "LGBTQ" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "actuallesbians", "date": "2016-09-07 17:03:25", "timestamp": 1473260605.0 } }, { "id": "157829", "term": "anticistamines", "definition": "Medication used for transgender hormone replacement therapy.", "sentence": "I'm finally going to get my anticistamines!", "communities": [ "transgender" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "transgenderUK", "date": "2024-02-16 10:08:43", "timestamp": 1708074523.0 } }, { "id": "101807", "term": "enby", "definition": "A nonbinary person, typically a young adult or an adolescent.", "sentence": "(Knew an AFAB enby once who decided a trans woman we knew wasn't actually a woman because she had anger issues, like?????", "communities": [ "nonbinary" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "MtF", "date": "2025-04-03 16:05:42", "timestamp": 1743689142.0 } }, { "id": "106677", "term": "repressor", "definition": "A transgender person who fights or represses the wish to change their gender expression.", "sentence": "Experience: >!FtM repressor 8-5 !<", "communities": [ "transgender" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "transgendercirclejerk", "date": "2022-12-22 16:00:26", "timestamp": 1671721226.0 } }, { "id": "115256", "term": "baby dyke", "definition": "A person who has just come out as a lesbian.", "sentence": "So queer guys: did you have a baby dyke phase?", "communities": [ "lesbian" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "askgaybros", "date": "2015-12-11 01:21:45", "timestamp": 1449793305.0 } }, { "id": "110936", "term": "zucchini", "definition": "A queerplatonic partner.", "sentence": "The name for a QPR is zucchini.", "communities": [ "aromantic" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "Asexual", "date": "2019-12-30 10:49:54", "timestamp": 1577699394.0 } }, { "id": "924", "term": "cruising", "definition": "To walk or drive about a locality in search of a sex partner, usually of the anonymous, casual, one-time variety.", "sentence": "I'm not very comfortable cruising.", "communities": [ "gay male" ], "metadata": { "source": "Podcasts", "title": "Ouvre ton jeu avec Marie-Claude Barrette" } }, { "id": "165275", "term": "euphoria boner", "definition": "An erection of the penis in a trans woman, caused by strong feelings of gender euphoria.", "sentence": "I feel like every other day there's a handful of posts talking about euphoria boners and sex drive with anime girls stickers on them.", "communities": [ "transgender" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "transgendercirclejerk", "date": "2023-05-13 19:19:03", "timestamp": 1683998343.0 } }, { "id": "168364", "term": "hatchling", "definition": "A person who has (especially recently) realized that they are transgender.", "sentence": "Generally, at least for me, hatchlings/yearlings can be so for up to seven years: it can be less for someone whoā€™s a bit younger and more if a bit older.", "communities": [ "transgender" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "asktransgender", "date": "2024-10-04 01:18:10", "timestamp": 1727997490.0 } }, { "id": "116839", "term": "cub", "definition": "A younger or younger-looking bear, sometimes with a smaller frame (\"bear\" meaning \"a gay or bisexual man who has facial/body hair and a cuddly body\").", "sentence": "Anyway Iā€™m just curious how many dudes my age like would actually wanna date me?Are there any guys honestly into cubs?", "communities": [ "gay", "bear" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "gaybros", "date": "2019-06-28 11:33:49", "timestamp": 1561714429.0 } }, { "id": "108528", "term": "second puberty", "definition": "A term often used by transgender persons transitioning after they have already undergone puberty.", "sentence": "I had to remind myself it's called a second puberty for a reason.", "communities": [ "transgender" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "traaaaaaannnnnnnnnns", "date": "2018-11-29 07:45:47", "timestamp": 1543473947.0 } }, { "id": "151543", "term": "bussy", "definition": "ā€¢ Any anus, in general.\nā€¢ The vulva or vagina of a trans man.", "sentence": ">bf turns ass into anyother bussy", "communities": [ "gay" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "transgendercirclejerk", "date": "2023-01-13 02:55:07", "timestamp": 1673574907.0 } }, { "id": "99788", "term": "queer coding", "definition": "A situation in which a character is given traits or behaviors which suggest they are not heterosexual and/or cisgender, without the character being outright confirmed as having such an identity.", "sentence": "The only way I could see it working is with see incredibly blatant queer coding with the characters being gay, bi, etc.", "communities": [ "LGBTQ" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "BisexualTeens", "date": "2021-07-22 06:29:20", "timestamp": 1626928160.0 } }, { "id": "169413", "term": "mones", "definition": "Hormones used as part of hormone replacement therapy, especially for transgender or gender variant individuals.", "sentence": "After 4 months of 'mones, I'm finally realizing just how much of a difference this decision has made for my happiness.", "communities": [], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "transpositive", "date": "2013-06-14 20:44:45", "timestamp": 1371235485.0 } }, { "id": "127691", "term": "down low", "definition": "Typically referring to a man who identifies publicly as heterosexual, but engages in covert sexual relationships with other men.", "sentence": "There's the Down Low boys who just seem stuck in their closet and when you ask them about it they try to pretend they aren't secretly into men.", "communities": [ "African-American gay male" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "GayBroTeens", "date": "2025-04-28 18:11:09", "timestamp": 1745856669.0 } }, { "id": "210561", "term": "bottoms", "definition": "ā€¢ A \"bottom\" is an individual who acts as the \"receiving\" partner in sexual encounters. Sometimes used as a self-descriptor within queer communities, but should be replicated with caution. Sometimes used as a verb (\"to bottom for someone\"). Offensive if applied to LGBTQ+ individuals from outwith queer communities.\nā€¢ Someone, typically a man, who is penetrated during sexual intercourse or someone who has a preference for being penetrated during such intercourse.\nā€¢ The buttocks.\nā€¢ Genitalia; genitals.", "sentence": "If any gay guy says bottoms aren't real men, I think they have some internalized homophobia to work through.", "communities": [ "LGBTQ" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "gaybros", "date": "2023-07-14 08:04:49", "timestamp": 1689314689.0 } }, { "id": "114711", "term": "bambi lesbian", "definition": "A lesbian who identifies as bambi-sexual, i.e. being more interested in kissing, carressing, cuddling, etc. than genital stimulation or sexual intercourse.", "sentence": "Love seeing my bambi lesbian rep on here šŸ„°", "communities": [ "lesbian" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "actuallesbians", "date": "2023-09-15 08:16:39", "timestamp": 1694758599.0 } }, { "id": "151468", "term": "bussy", "definition": "ā€¢ Any anus, in general.\nā€¢ The vulva or vagina of a trans man.", "sentence": "Oh Bussy is a man's Pussy, Oh My.", "communities": [ "gay" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "SuddenlyGay", "date": "2025-06-17 04:10:20", "timestamp": 1750126220.0 } }, { "id": "90336", "term": "twink", "definition": "ā€¢ Slang term widely used in gay communities to describe a young or young-looking man with little or no facial or body hair. Can be pejorative, but can also be a self-descriptor.\nā€¢ A young, attractive, slim male, usually having little body hair.", "sentence": "Who says you have to be a twink for an upvote?", "communities": [ "gay", "gay male" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "GaymersGoneMild", "date": "2015-07-06 14:32:20", "timestamp": 1436185940.0 } }, { "id": "151292", "term": "boywife", "definition": "A young male assuming the employment of homemaking, a role traditionally assumed by women; the submissive partner in the relationship who receives great pleasure in \"taking care\" of his more dominant partner.", "sentence": "I want to be a boywife twink šŸ„ŗšŸ‘‰šŸ‘ˆI am already tired of having to be an upstanding independent individual and whatnot.", "communities": [ "gay" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "GayBroTeens", "date": "2023-04-18 16:28:56", "timestamp": 1681828136.0 } }, { "id": "228921", "term": "realness", "definition": "The state of being real; the ability to blend or pass as heterosexual or cisgender; the quality of passing as a particular role in a particular circumstance.", "sentence": "The idea of realness is to look as much as possible like your straight counterpart.", "communities": [ "drag", "gay male" ], "metadata": { "source": "OpenSubtitles", "title": "Paris Is Burning", "imdb_id": "100332" } }, { "id": "104065", "term": "stealth", "definition": "When a transgender person keeps their transgender status closely guarded, living as if they were cisgender as their identified gender.", "sentence": "Wondering if I can go stealth first time dressing fem tips?", "communities": [ "transgender" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "lgbt", "date": "2025-04-30 23:47:33", "timestamp": 1746049653.0 } }, { "id": "169365", "term": "manmode", "definition": "The state of presenting as a man, regardless of one's actual gender identity, especially of a trans woman.", "sentence": "How can I consider myself a woman when all I do is manmode?", "communities": [ "transgender" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "asktransgender", "date": "2025-07-20 21:18:27", "timestamp": 1753039107.0 } }, { "id": "90710", "term": "slay", "definition": "Used to express approval or amazement.", "sentence": "Overall this gay guys slays, and is a queen, and that's on period!", "communities": [ "drag" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "gaybros", "date": "2020-03-25 04:26:47", "timestamp": 1585106807.0 } }, { "id": "85175", "term": "punk", "definition": "A slang term with multiple meanings depending on context. Originally used to refer to a sex worker or prostitute, especially a passive or feminine gay man (or a bottom). By the early 20th century, used to refer to a person considered worthless or criminal in nature. By the 1970s, used to refer to punk rock, a punk rocker, or to the sociocultural movement associated with punk rock and its fans. In the modern gay male community, the term \"punk\" may refer to a smaller, typically younger gay man who is forced into a submissive role in prison settings by an older gay man. Also occasionally used as a synonym for \"clock\" or \"read\", i.e. when a cisgender person recognizes a person as transgender.", "sentence": "Iā€™m a big punk rock girl I really like Rancid, Far From Finished, Streetlight Manifesto, The Briggs, Pennywise, Left Alone", "communities": [ "transgender", "gay male" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "MtF", "date": "2022-07-13 14:26:57", "timestamp": 1657715217.0 } }, { "id": "113784", "term": "boi", "definition": "An LGBTQIA+ slang term with multiple definitions; a boi might be a boyish lesbian, a submissive butch in the BDSM community, a younger transgender man or a transgender man early in transition, a younger bisexual or gay person who is somewhat feminine. Alternatively, some persons identifying with the term might fit none of these categories.", "sentence": "There's absolutely nothing wrong with being or wanting to be a ā€œuwu soft boiā€.", "communities": [ "lesbian", "transmasculine", "African-American LGBTQ" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "ftm", "date": "2023-04-30 21:44:24", "timestamp": 1682883864.0 } }, { "id": "165192", "term": "estrogel", "definition": "Estradiol gel used in feminizing hormone replacement therapy.", "sentence": "Friends thanks for advice to my earlier post.. Shall I u only estrogel without taking of bicamulate..", "communities": [ "transgender" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "ask_transgender", "date": "2019-02-06 18:53:36", "timestamp": 1549475616.0 } }, { "id": "115486", "term": "pillow princess", "definition": "A woman who likes to receive and not give, sexually.", "sentence": "I said I was just wanting to also return the pleasure, Iā€™m not always a pillow princess.", "communities": [ "lesbian" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "ftm", "date": "2023-06-28 10:01:39", "timestamp": 1687939299.0 } }, { "id": "157898", "term": "clockable", "definition": "Of a transgender person or drag performer: able to be clocked; capable of being noticed or recognized as transgender; not passing.", "sentence": "I think I pass relatively well, but definitely have some clockable features.", "communities": [ "transgender" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "asktransgender", "date": "2025-05-27 06:29:13", "timestamp": 1748320153.0 } }, { "id": "211574", "term": "faggy", "definition": "A pejorative term used chiefly in North America primarily to refer to a gay man. Alongside its use to refer to gay men in particular, it may also be used as a pejorative term for a \"repellent man\" or to refer to women who are lesbian (or to transgender people, typically transgender women). Its use has spread from the United States to varying extents elsewhere in the English-speaking world through mass culture, including film, music, and the Internet.", "sentence": "As a flabby faggy guy who doesn't even do drag I'm particularly hard hit by these dual sickening and trade queens", "communities": [], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "rupaulsdragrace", "date": "2020-01-24 23:44:44", "timestamp": 1579905884.0 } }, { "id": "503", "term": "discreet", "definition": "Not drawing attention, anger or challenge; inconspicuous.", "sentence": "I think I have, I don't know if I'm being discreet.", "communities": [ "LGBTQ" ], "metadata": { "source": "Podcasts", "title": "Ouvre ton jeu avec Marie-Claude Barrette" } }, { "id": "95822", "term": "gaydar", "definition": "A colloquialism referring to the intuitive ability of a person to assess others' sexual orientations as gay, bisexual or heterosexual. Gaydar relies on verbal and non-verbal clues and LGBTQ stereotypes. These include the sensitivity to social behaviors and mannerisms; for instance, acknowledging flamboyant body language, the tone of voice used by a person when speaking, overtly rejecting traditional gender roles, a person's occupation, and grooming habits.", "sentence": "I used to have the worst gaydar but it improves with age with stunning accuracy.", "communities": [ "LGBTQ" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "gaybros", "date": "2023-01-18 18:20:18", "timestamp": 1674062418.0 } }, { "id": "205387", "term": "lesboy", "definition": "A person who identifies as male and as a lesbian.", "sentence": "basically the opposite of lesboy.", "communities": [], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "LGBTQ", "date": "2024-12-14 05:57:31", "timestamp": 1734152251.0 } }, { "id": "151595", "term": "chubby", "definition": "An overweight or obese gay man.", "sentence": "Where are all these men that like chubby guys and how do I find them?", "communities": [ "gay" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "gaybros", "date": "2012-09-22 04:37:04", "timestamp": 1348281424.0 } }, { "id": "102066", "term": "enby", "definition": "A nonbinary person, typically a young adult or an adolescent.", "sentence": "My mom seems more accepting than she used to along with my brother accepting me as enby.", "communities": [ "nonbinary" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "comingout", "date": "2022-07-31 01:52:52", "timestamp": 1659225172.0 } }, { "id": "169862", "term": "pre-T", "definition": "Not yet having undergone testosterone-based hormone replacement therapy.", "sentence": "Protip though, if the guy has ONLY been with cis women and pre-T trans men?", "communities": [ "transgender" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "ftm", "date": "2025-01-20 01:51:55", "timestamp": 1737334315.0 } }, { "id": "151295", "term": "boywife", "definition": "A young male assuming the employment of homemaking, a role traditionally assumed by women; the submissive partner in the relationship who receives great pleasure in \"taking care\" of his more dominant partner.", "sentence": "I wanna make something like the future boywife that I am :3", "communities": [ "gay" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "GayBroTeens", "date": "2024-08-15 16:31:28", "timestamp": 1723732288.0 } }, { "id": "227972", "term": "punks", "definition": "A slang term with multiple meanings depending on context. Originally used to refer to a sex worker or prostitute, especially a passive or feminine gay man (or a bottom). By the early 20th century, used to refer to a person considered worthless or criminal in nature. By the 1970s, used to refer to punk rock, a punk rocker, or to the sociocultural movement associated with punk rock and its fans. In the modern gay male community, the term \"punk\" may refer to a smaller, typically younger gay man who is forced into a submissive role in prison settings by an older gay man. Also occasionally used as a synonym for \"clock\" or \"read\", i.e. when a cisgender person recognizes a person as transgender.", "sentence": "Two punks in leather jackets.", "communities": [ "transgender", "gay male" ], "metadata": { "source": "OpenSubtitles", "title": "My Own Private Idaho", "imdb_id": "102494" } }, { "id": "106763", "term": "girlmode", "definition": "When a transgender person presents a gender expression codified as female, typically if that person is a transgender man. Usually used in the context of going incognito as a cisgender woman.", "sentence": "I see girlmode in both.", "communities": [ "transgender", "transgender" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "transpassing", "date": "2024-09-25 17:24:30", "timestamp": 1727277870.0 } }, { "id": "205379", "term": "lesboy", "definition": "A person who identifies as male and as a lesbian.", "sentence": "I was thinking if anyone had a suggestion on a shorter label to use for my experience otherwise Iā€™ll just stick with lesboy and homoflexible šŸ‘", "communities": [], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "AskLGBT", "date": "2025-07-18 01:28:34", "timestamp": 1752794914.0 } }, { "id": "151568", "term": "chubby", "definition": "An overweight or obese gay man.", "sentence": "fellow chubby royalty represent!", "communities": [ "gay" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "lgbt", "date": "2021-03-23 18:12:58", "timestamp": 1616519578.0 } }, { "id": "113921", "term": "futch", "definition": "A person who exhibits traits of both a femme (often used to describe a wide variety of gender expressions and identities adjacent to feminine or femme-ness) and a butch (often used to describe a wide variety of gender expressions and identities adjacent to masculinity or \"butchilinity\").", "sentence": "FWIW, if he's worth your time and into you, he won't care about you being futch or you not shaving.", "communities": [ "lesbian" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "bisexual", "date": "2022-10-03 23:06:47", "timestamp": 1664831207.0 } }, { "id": "146629", "term": "passoid", "definition": "A transgender person who is passing.", "sentence": "if I call someone a passoid it's a compliment but I'm also seething with jealousy.", "communities": [], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "MtF", "date": "2020-12-13 14:05:57", "timestamp": 1607864757.0 } }, { "id": "29", "term": "bulldagger", "definition": "Contested terminology. Slur for lesbian, highly offensive if applied to a lesbian or transmasc person externally. Term has been reclaimed by some lesbians communities, and is sometimes used affirmingly within communities.\"Bulldyke\" and \"bulldagger\" are often used to indicate butch or masculine queer women, sometimes with overtones of toughness or aggression.", "sentence": "Would you play that, would you play like a butch, butch, bulldagger in the movie?", "communities": [], "metadata": { "source": "Podcasts", "title": "Why Won't You Date Me? with Nicole Byer" } }, { "id": "110882", "term": "tranny chaser", "definition": "Someone who aims to have sexual relations (in some cases non-consensually) or date transgender people as a kind of fetish.", "sentence": "This is all tranny chaser 101.", "communities": [ "transfeminine" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "TransphobiaProject", "date": "2015-11-16 06:38:22", "timestamp": 1447652302.0 } }, { "id": "123842", "term": "boy pussy", "definition": "A gay man's anus, especially the receiving partipant's. Also, rarely, a transmasculine person's vulva.", "sentence": "But I'd love to just have my tits , my boy pussy and no blood coming from it.", "communities": [ "transgender", "gay", "gay male" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "ftm", "date": "2023-11-11 19:51:37", "timestamp": 1699728697.0 } }, { "id": "204438", "term": "go off", "definition": "To perform extremely well; to be impressive or attractive; often used to express encouragement.", "sentence": "Omg go off king!", "communities": [], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "LGBTeensGoneMild", "date": "2020-08-01 22:27:40", "timestamp": 1596313660.0 } }, { "id": "945", "term": "gender identity", "definition": "A personal identity one develops in childhood that one belongs to a gender category, multiple gender categories, or no gender categories.", "sentence": "That's not what gender identity is.", "communities": [], "metadata": { "source": "Podcasts", "title": "The Ezra Klein Show" } }, { "id": "219717", "term": "camp", "definition": "ā€¢ Camp can also be a social practice and function as a style and performance identity for several types of entertainment including film, cabaret, and pantomime. Where high art necessarily incorporates beauty and value, camp necessarily needs to be lively, audacious and dynamic.\nā€¢ An aesthetic style and sensibility that regards something as appealing because of its bad taste and ironic value. Camp aesthetics disrupt many of modernism's notions of what art is and what can be classified as high art by inverting aesthetic attributes such as beauty, value, and taste through an invitation of a different kind of apprehension and consumption.\nā€¢ To behave, speak, act, etc. in a flamboyant, affected, ostentatious, or exaggerated manner stereotypically associated with gay men.\nā€¢ Gay.", "sentence": "There's a whole camp aesthetic.", "communities": [ "LGBTQ" ], "metadata": { "source": "OpenSubtitles", "title": "Venus Boyz", "imdb_id": "293685" } }, { "id": "357", "term": "anti-gay", "definition": "ā€¢ Hostile toward gay people; opposed to gay rights; homophobic.\nā€¢ Used by some gay people to refer to aspects of the community in critique, especially homogeneity, conformity, obsession with particular types of appearance, and assimilative behavior.", "sentence": "He's also claimed not to be anti-gay, but I don't know if this is an example of him having softened or just lying.", "communities": [], "metadata": { "source": "Podcasts", "title": "Behind the Bastards" } }, { "id": "124642", "term": "pillow biter", "definition": "Derogatory slang for a gay man.", "sentence": "I am amused by the old description of gays as being pillow biters.", "communities": [ "gay male" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "askgaybros", "date": "2019-01-15 02:30:34", "timestamp": 1547515834.0 } }, { "id": "101696", "term": "enbyfriend", "definition": "A nonbinary sexual and/or romantic partner.", "sentence": "As for just dating I'd probably prefer enbyfriend.", "communities": [ "nonbinary" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "NonBinary", "date": "2023-10-31 17:23:54", "timestamp": 1698769434.0 } }, { "id": "210950", "term": "bulldyke", "definition": "Contested terminology. Slur for lesbian, highly offensive if applied to a lesbian or transmasc person externally. Term has been reclaimed by some lesbians communities, and is sometimes used affirmingly within communities.\"Bulldyke\" and \"bulldagger\" are often used to indicate butch or masculine queer women, sometimes with overtones of toughness or aggression.", "sentence": "I think I might have to detransition and be a bulldyke that dates mostly men.", "communities": [], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "transgendercirclejerk", "date": "2017-03-08 02:44:57", "timestamp": 1488937497.0 } }, { "id": "219738", "term": "bear", "definition": "ā€¢ Community term with multiple meanings. 1. A gay or bisexual man who has facial/body hair and a cuddly body. 2. An umbrella term that refers to members of a subculture in the gay and bisexual male communities and is often defined as more of an attitude or sense of comfort with natural masculinity and bodies.\nā€¢ In male gay culture, a bear is often a larger, hairier man who projects an image of rugged masculinity.", "sentence": "You know, if, um... if you were gay, you'd make one hell of a bear.", "communities": [ "gay", "bear" ], "metadata": { "source": "OpenSubtitles", "title": "Queer as Folk", "imdb_id": "262985" } }, { "id": "224103", "term": "lesbian", "definition": "A girl or woman who is wholly or mostly sexually or romantically attracted to other girls or women.", "sentence": "Are-are you sure this is a lesbian bar?", "communities": [], "metadata": { "source": "OpenSubtitles", "title": "If These Walls Could Talk 2", "imdb_id": "206036" } }, { "id": "108748", "term": "boymode", "definition": "When a transgender person presents a gender expression codified as male, typically if that person is a transgender woman. Usually used in the context of going incognito as a cisgender man.", "sentence": "So generally speaking, boymode will usually be much easier to achieve than girlmode.", "communities": [ "transgender", "transgender" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "genderfluid", "date": "2024-07-21 19:50:21", "timestamp": 1721584221.0 } }, { "id": "99806", "term": "closeted", "definition": "An adjective referring to an LGBTQIA+ person or persons who have not disclosed their status as LGBTQIA+ and other related aspects of their life. More broadly, it can also be used to describe anyone who is hiding part of their identity because of social pressure.", "sentence": "Also to add on this, the ones who do come out usually leave to the cities, thus leaving all the closeted ones behind", "communities": [ "LGBTQ" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "gaybros", "date": "2023-04-06 03:29:07", "timestamp": 1680744547.0 } }, { "id": "103753", "term": "top surgery", "definition": "A slang term used to refer to thoracic gender-affirming surgeries.", "sentence": "they would lose it if i ever talk about top surgery with either of them.", "communities": [ "transgender" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "genderfluid", "date": "2024-04-05 11:54:51", "timestamp": 1712310891.0 } }, { "id": "94269", "term": "drab", "definition": "An instance of a transgender or non-binary person presenting as the gender corresponding to their sex assigned at birth instead of that corresponding to their internal gender identity (most commonly a trans woman dressed as a man).", "sentence": "If it were you, would you go in drab with no makeup?", "communities": [ "transgender", "drag", "transgender" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "crossdressing", "date": "2025-02-22 22:44:50", "timestamp": 1740260690.0 } }, { "id": "168369", "term": "hatchling", "definition": "A person who has (especially recently) realized that they are transgender.", "sentence": "Hey everyone, I'm a pretty fresh hatchling who only really figured it out earlier this month.", "communities": [ "transgender" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "asktransgender", "date": "2017-12-10 20:56:53", "timestamp": 1512935813.0 } }, { "id": "101607", "term": "femby", "definition": "A slang term sometimes used to refer to femme enbies (non-binary people) or non-binary women. A portmanteau of \"femme\" and \"enby\".", "sentence": "jokes on you - as an amab femby, I'll roll with being a femboy... when repressing, that is", "communities": [ "nonbinary" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "transgendercirclejerk", "date": "2021-01-20 17:44:52", "timestamp": 1611161092.0 } }, { "id": "149499", "term": "the house down", "definition": "Used as an intensifier: very, to a great degree; exceptionally.", "sentence": "Not Joella loosing her luggage including all her drag šŸ«£Slayed the house down boots though!!", "communities": [ "drag" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "rupaulsdragrace", "date": "2025-06-28 18:55:29", "timestamp": 1751129729.0 } }, { "id": "113672", "term": "high femme", "definition": "A femme person who expresses their gender in ultra feminine ways. Often, but not exclusively, this refers to a queer woman.", "sentence": "the meaning of high femme being about appearance is a more modern understanding of high femme, and both meanings have generally existed simultaneously for a while now.", "communities": [ "lesbian" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "actuallesbians", "date": "2023-02-20 03:10:46", "timestamp": 1676859046.0 } }, { "id": "151286", "term": "boywife", "definition": "A young male assuming the employment of homemaking, a role traditionally assumed by women; the submissive partner in the relationship who receives great pleasure in \"taking care\" of his more dominant partner.", "sentence": "Im house being boywife :3/ im workplace being edgy boi >;3", "communities": [ "gay" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "crossdressing", "date": "2025-02-06 22:19:58", "timestamp": 1738876798.0 } }, { "id": "101504", "term": "enban", "definition": "An adult nonbinary person.", "sentence": "not every enban is like that and its sad to see how most people agree with this stuff :o( stereotypes are stereotypes no matter what !", "communities": [ "nonbinary" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "traaaaaaannnnnnnnnns", "date": "2021-09-05 02:29:03", "timestamp": 1630801743.0 } }, { "id": "228168", "term": "crush", "definition": "An infatuation with somebody, typically someone that one is not dating. By extension, the object of such infatuation or affection.", "sentence": "I sensed he had a little crush on me.", "communities": [ "LGBTQ" ], "metadata": { "source": "OpenSubtitles", "title": "Notes on a Scandal", "imdb_id": "465551" } }, { "id": "224106", "term": "lesbian", "definition": "A girl or woman who is wholly or mostly sexually or romantically attracted to other girls or women.", "sentence": "They don't wanna to support us because they think we're a lesbian group.", "communities": [], "metadata": { "source": "OpenSubtitles", "title": "If These Walls Could Talk 2", "imdb_id": "206036" } }, { "id": "102259", "term": "joyfriend", "definition": "A sexual and/or romantic partner of any gender, but usually a nonbinary person.", "sentence": "Calling your partner joyfriend is so fucking genius and answer the question i had for the past month.", "communities": [ "nonbinary" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "BisexualTeens", "date": "2022-06-04 22:15:29", "timestamp": 1654373729.0 } }, { "id": "96284", "term": "versatile bottom", "definition": "A versatile bottom is one who prefers to bottom (act as the \"receiving\" partner in sexual encounters) but who tops (acts as the \"giving\" partner in sexual encounters) occasionally.", "sentence": "I will admit that in the M/M arena I would be a versatile bottom, so maybe that makes it easier for us.", "communities": [ "LGBTQ" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "bisexual", "date": "2012-03-27 18:24:48", "timestamp": 1332865488.0 } }, { "id": "165116", "term": "estro", "definition": "Clipping of estrogen.", "sentence": "How do yā€™all get estro?šŸ˜­", "communities": [ "transgender" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "transgenderUK", "date": "2025-06-03 01:31:13", "timestamp": 1748907073.0 } }, { "id": "210859", "term": "drag mother", "definition": "In the US, a group of drag queens who have been mentored by a \"mother,\" also known as a \"house.\" These groups often take on family drag names and form close-knit communities.", "sentence": "do I move to Atlanta and ask her to be my drag mother or do I move to Atlanta and ask her to be my drag mother", "communities": [], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "rupaulsdragrace", "date": "2021-01-16 18:05:31", "timestamp": 1610816731.0 } }, { "id": "116746", "term": "front hole", "definition": "Slang for vagina, often used by transmasculine persons assigned female at birth.", "sentence": "But it's less focused on what I don't have and more focused on what I do have (specifically, it's focused on the front hole).", "communities": [ "transmasculine" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "ftm", "date": "2021-10-19 01:41:34", "timestamp": 1634600494.0 } }, { "id": "228157", "term": "crush", "definition": "An infatuation with somebody, typically someone that one is not dating. By extension, the object of such infatuation or affection.", "sentence": "Okay, my first television crush.", "communities": [ "LGBTQ" ], "metadata": { "source": "OpenSubtitles", "title": "The Broken Hearts Club: A Romantic Comedy", "imdb_id": "222850" } }, { "id": "209102", "term": "yass", "definition": "A strong expression of excitement or admiration.", "sentence": "It takes so much willpower not to shout Yass Queen at random moments and start cackling", "communities": [], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "ftm", "date": "2019-04-03 18:57:07", "timestamp": 1554310627.0 } }, { "id": "999", "term": "slay", "definition": "Used to express approval or amazement.", "sentence": "So you being honest is a slay.", "communities": [ "drag" ], "metadata": { "source": "Podcasts", "title": "Cancelled with Tana Mongeau & Brooke Schofield" } }, { "id": "169407", "term": "mones", "definition": "Hormones used as part of hormone replacement therapy, especially for transgender or gender variant individuals.", "sentence": "my brother just came over baked as shit and when he saw me he asked if i was \"on the 'mones\"(hormones).", "communities": [], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "ftm", "date": "2023-11-24 02:05:25", "timestamp": 1700787925.0 } }, { "id": "120708", "term": "twunk", "definition": "A gay man with the certain twink (meaning ā€œyoung, attractive, slim maleā€) stereotype elements that has a hunky (strong, muscular, etc.) physique.", "sentence": "I heard twunk is used to describe a someone who has a face of a twink but the body of an athletic jock (strong with muscles).", "communities": [ "gay", "gay male" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "lgbt", "date": "2024-05-27 02:18:53", "timestamp": 1716769133.0 } }, { "id": "108945", "term": "cotton ceiling", "definition": "A term used for the tendency for cisgender lesbians to not want to engage in sexual activities with transgender women, particular those who have not yet undergone feminizing genitoplasty; or, more broadly, the tendency for cisgender lesbians to exclude transgender women from spaces.", "sentence": "Was it the first time you heard of the cotton ceiling?", "communities": [ "transfeminine", "lesbian" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "transgendercirclejerk", "date": "2015-12-09 09:37:55", "timestamp": 1449650275.0 } }, { "id": "146190", "term": "hon", "definition": "A trans woman who does not pass; a clocky (clearly identifiable as transgender) trans woman.", "sentence": "Heya, people.. i'm self-medding and habe been for almost 11 months it's obvious that i'll never pass, and be stuck eternally in hon-mode ;n; should I just detransition~?", "communities": [], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "asktransgender", "date": "2016-08-18 10:18:22", "timestamp": 1471508302.0 } }, { "id": "94380", "term": "condragulations", "definition": "A variant form of congratulations used sometimes in drag.", "sentence": "Congratulations and condragulations on winning your reelection!", "communities": [ "drag" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "rupaulsdragrace", "date": "2020-11-04 05:06:13", "timestamp": 1604462773.0 } }, { "id": "106708", "term": "ewphoria", "definition": "A combination of gender euphoria with feelings of disgust, revulsion, or discomfort, resulting from one's gender identity being affirmed by bigoted, predatory, or creepy behavior by others.", "sentence": "You have discovered ewphoria, where you get gender euphoria from something objectively kind of disgusting.", "communities": [ "transgender", "transgender" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "ftm", "date": "2025-06-27 04:49:19", "timestamp": 1750992559.0 } }, { "id": "169392", "term": "manmoder", "definition": "One who is in manmode (presenting as male regardless of gender identity).", "sentence": "Its common in some communities it's called being a boymoder or manmoder.", "communities": [ "transgender" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "asktransgender", "date": "2025-04-25 08:48:53", "timestamp": 1745563733.0 } }, { "id": "99765", "term": "gaymer", "definition": "Gay persons who have active interest in video games or tabletop games.", "sentence": "What would you gaymers do?", "communities": [ "LGBTQ" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "metagaymers", "date": "2012-03-05 23:36:29", "timestamp": 1330986989.0 } }, { "id": "97028", "term": "breeder", "definition": "A heterosexual; i.e. one whose sexual intercourse can lead to breeding.", "sentence": "Some people call straight people breeders, so when you mentioned her breeder group, I totally thought you meant her straight friends.", "communities": [ "LGBTQ" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "actuallesbians", "date": "2014-04-24 14:30:53", "timestamp": 1398342653.0 } }, { "id": "2725", "term": "punk", "definition": "A slang term with multiple meanings depending on context. Originally used to refer to a sex worker or prostitute, especially a passive or feminine gay man (or a bottom). By the early 20th century, used to refer to a person considered worthless or criminal in nature. By the 1970s, used to refer to punk rock, a punk rocker, or to the sociocultural movement associated with punk rock and its fans. In the modern gay male community, the term \"punk\" may refer to a smaller, typically younger gay man who is forced into a submissive role in prison settings by an older gay man. Also occasionally used as a synonym for \"clock\" or \"read\", i.e. when a cisgender person recognizes a person as transgender.", "sentence": "And whenever you mentioned Toronto punk, Stephen Leckie and the Bile Tones would be top of mind for anyone else who was familiar with that scene and that music.", "communities": [ "transgender", "gay male" ], "metadata": { "source": "Podcasts", "title": "Toronto Mike'd: The Official Toronto Mike Podcast" } }, { "id": "104086", "term": "stealth", "definition": "When a transgender person keeps their transgender status closely guarded, living as if they were cisgender as their identified gender.", "sentence": "I dress butch, work in the union trades,.don't particularly like pink, have only two stuffed animals, stealth lesbian and trans, am a closet dork, and drink PBR and whiskey,", "communities": [ "transgender" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "actuallesbians", "date": "2024-02-11 02:43:46", "timestamp": 1707615826.0 } }, { "id": "157367", "term": "twinky", "definition": "Being or resembling a twink (ā€œyoung, attractive, slim maleā€).", "sentence": "And Twinky Christmas, Ottery Christmas, Cubby Christmas... oh god, there must be more, help me out.", "communities": [ "gay" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "lgbt", "date": "2011-12-22 23:16:44", "timestamp": 1324592204.0 } }, { "id": "106620", "term": "baby trans", "definition": "Someone who has recently discovered that they are transgender.", "sentence": "I've had few instances of being attracted or thinking I'm attracted to girls, but it's also hard to tell because I'm a baby trans+gay and almost 22.", "communities": [ "transgender", "transgender" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "asexuality", "date": "2024-12-29 10:05:03", "timestamp": 1735463103.0 } }, { "id": "210076", "term": "bears", "definition": "ā€¢ Community term with multiple meanings. 1. A gay or bisexual man who has facial/body hair and a cuddly body. 2. An umbrella term that refers to members of a subculture in the gay and bisexual male communities and is often defined as more of an attitude or sense of comfort with natural masculinity and bodies.\nā€¢ In male gay culture, a bear is often a larger, hairier man who projects an image of rugged masculinity.", "sentence": "I have a thing for men who are bears.", "communities": [ "bear" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "lgbt", "date": "2024-06-22 14:51:26", "timestamp": 1719060686.0 } }, { "id": "202088", "term": "Tit Tac", "definition": "A pill taken as part of feminizing hormone replacement therapy, especially spironolactone (called by this name due to its peppermint smell) or estrogen such as estradiol.", "sentence": "Hi so I'm wondering should I ask my doctor for fem'n'ems, tit tacs, whore moans, tittles or is there any other brands that might be best for me?", "communities": [ "transgender" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "transgendercirclejerk", "date": "2016-10-11 04:00:12", "timestamp": 1476151212.0 } }, { "id": "96054", "term": "gaydar", "definition": "A colloquialism referring to the intuitive ability of a person to assess others' sexual orientations as gay, bisexual or heterosexual. Gaydar relies on verbal and non-verbal clues and LGBTQ stereotypes. These include the sensitivity to social behaviors and mannerisms; for instance, acknowledging flamboyant body language, the tone of voice used by a person when speaking, overtly rejecting traditional gender roles, a person's occupation, and grooming habits.", "sentence": "And I guess Iā€™ve always been just naturally, without really trying, low-key feminine (or at least non-macho) enough in certain ways to ping peopleā€™s gaydar.", "communities": [ "LGBTQ" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "genderqueer", "date": "2020-11-26 13:55:45", "timestamp": 1606395345.0 } }, { "id": "96972", "term": "total bottom", "definition": "A total bottom is someone who assumes an exclusively passive or receptive role during anal or oral intercourse.", "sentence": "I think it shouldn't matter if you are total top or total bottom or whatever stereotype you're reflecting with (inevitably, I don't blame you).", "communities": [ "LGBTQ" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "askgaybros", "date": "2020-07-20 08:16:06", "timestamp": 1595225766.0 } }, { "id": "107951", "term": "crossdreaming", "definition": "Dreams or fantasies in which a person imagines themself as (or simply dressed as) the \"opposite\" gender (i.e. a man as a woman or a woman as a man).", "sentence": "It is certainly true that most crossdreamers do not experience this kind of trauma, but both transsexual and non-transsexual crossdreamers have crossdreaming in common.", "communities": [ "transgender", "cross-dressing" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "crossdreaming", "date": "2014-02-10 16:15:52", "timestamp": 1392045352.0 } }, { "id": "106655", "term": "repressor", "definition": "A transgender person who fights or represses the wish to change their gender expression.", "sentence": "as a repressor i was numb, i could dissociate, i was male and had access to that privilege i had no reliance or dependancy on medication", "communities": [ "transgender" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "asktransgender", "date": "2024-10-22 12:12:50", "timestamp": 1729591970.0 } }, { "id": "228910", "term": "gym bunny", "definition": "A sports enthusiast; usually one who frequents gyms and training grounds; often used of young gay men obsessed with body building.", "sentence": "If you intend on experiencing the joys of a bitter, co-dependent relationship it'll never be with a gym bunny.", "communities": [], "metadata": { "source": "OpenSubtitles", "title": "The Broken Hearts Club: A Romantic Comedy", "imdb_id": "222850" } }, { "id": "101688", "term": "enbyfriend", "definition": "A nonbinary sexual and/or romantic partner.", "sentence": "I just called my (ex now) partner \"Partner\" but enbyfriend sounds pretty cool", "communities": [ "nonbinary" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "teengirlswholikegirls", "date": "2021-06-23 00:42:56", "timestamp": 1624401776.0 } }, { "id": "101502", "term": "enban", "definition": "An adult nonbinary person.", "sentence": "As a transmasculine enban, staying in the closet gets harder day by day.", "communities": [ "nonbinary" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "lgbt", "date": "2022-06-01 11:06:51", "timestamp": 1654074411.0 } }, { "id": "5472", "term": "go off", "definition": "To perform extremely well; to be impressive or attractive; often used to express encouragement.", "sentence": "Honestly, sure, go off Patricia.", "communities": [], "metadata": { "source": "Podcasts", "title": "Scamfluencers" } }, { "id": "135640", "term": "AC/DC", "definition": "Said of a person, bisexual, referring to being attracted to women and men.", "sentence": "I learned the AC/DC slang from a \"The Nice Guys\" slash fic on AO3 šŸ˜…", "communities": [], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "bisexual", "date": "2024-11-28 16:56:37", "timestamp": 1732809397.0 } }, { "id": "155460", "term": "queerdo", "definition": "A particularly strange LGBTQ+ person.", "sentence": "Love freaks and queerdos and nightlife.", "communities": [ "gay" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "MtF", "date": "2023-05-16 23:04:30", "timestamp": 1684271070.0 } }, { "id": "120668", "term": "friend of Dorothy", "definition": "Coded slang for gay. Referring to gay icon Judy Garland's Dorothy in The Wizard of Oz.", "sentence": "(For context for those who don't know: a friend of Dorothy was a code name for gay guys up until the 1960's)", "communities": [], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "GayBroTeens", "date": "2025-02-13 09:44:51", "timestamp": 1739436291.0 } }, { "id": "126861", "term": "bareback", "definition": "Sexual activity without the use of a condom.", "sentence": "If I were still prowling the depths of Grindr and Scruff, would I bareback someone?", "communities": [ "gay male" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "lgbt", "date": "2015-03-11 22:10:57", "timestamp": 1426108257.0 } }, { "id": "84616", "term": "lipstick lesbian", "definition": "Usually refers to a lesbian with a feminine gender expression. Can be used in a positive or a derogatory way, depending on who is using it. Is sometimes also used to refer to a lesbian who is seen as automatically \"passing\" for heterosexual.", "sentence": "A girl who is in the middle of masc and fem is a chapstick lesbian ( contrasting with a lipstick lesbian which is a fem lesbian )", "communities": [ "lesbian" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "teengirlswholikegirls", "date": "2024-08-29 13:22:04", "timestamp": 1724930524.0 } }, { "id": "115095", "term": "chapstick lesbian", "definition": "A lesbian who exhibits some butch traits (short hair, stereotypical men's clothing, etc.) without wholly fitting the masculine butch stereotype; alternatively, a lesbian who is athletic or has a keen interest in sports.", "sentence": "I hope you get good answers, because I'm another self-described chapstick lesbian and I saved this post before even opening it up.", "communities": [ "lesbian" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "lesbianfashionadvice", "date": "2023-04-16 05:15:55", "timestamp": 1681614955.0 } }, { "id": "106624", "term": "baby trans", "definition": "Someone who has recently discovered that they are transgender.", "sentence": "I'm a baby trans but I'm an old baby trans .", "communities": [ "transgender", "transgender" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "ftm", "date": "2020-01-17 15:12:19", "timestamp": 1579270339.0 } }, { "id": "120685", "term": "hunty", "definition": "A portmanteau of \"honey\" and \"cunt\", usually considered a term of supposed endearment.", "sentence": "When Katya saw \"SLAY Hunty\"", "communities": [ "gay male" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "rupaulsdragrace", "date": "2023-08-23 23:05:48", "timestamp": 1692824748.0 } }, { "id": "110911", "term": "zucchini", "definition": "A queerplatonic partner.", "sentence": "Iā€™ve heard of zucchini before but I just use partner or significant other :)", "communities": [ "aromantic" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "asexuality", "date": "2023-04-14 19:34:38", "timestamp": 1681493678.0 } }, { "id": "2558", "term": "shade", "definition": "A slang term referring to a kind of insult, typically non-verbal in nature. Journalist Anna Holmes called shade \"the art of the sidelong insult\". Merriam-Webster defines it as \"subtle, sneering expression of contempt for or disgust with someoneā€”sometimes verbal, and sometimes not\".", "sentence": "I mean, that's not shade.", "communities": [ "drag" ], "metadata": { "source": "Podcasts", "title": "The Viall Files" } }, { "id": "101635", "term": "theydy", "definition": "A mostly humorous slang term sometimes used to replace \"lady\" in overly gendered contexts. For instance, using \"theydies and gentlethems\" instead of \"ladies and gentlemen\".", "sentence": "my fav theydy šŸ˜šŸ˜šŸ˜", "communities": [ "nonbinary" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "ladyladyboners", "date": "2025-05-12 06:31:13", "timestamp": 1747024273.0 } }, { "id": "205718", "term": "neo", "definition": "Clipping of neopronoun.", "sentence": "** Objectively trying to understand and discussing why people might misunderstand or be bigoted towards neos and xenos however is fine.", "communities": [], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "lgbt", "date": "2023-10-13 21:05:31", "timestamp": 1697223931.0 } }, { "id": "203082", "term": "VT", "definition": "Initialism of voice training.", "sentence": "Iā€™m in VT so itā€™s very hard.", "communities": [ "transgender" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "bisexual", "date": "2024-12-15 19:57:30", "timestamp": 1734289050.0 } }, { "id": "941", "term": "gender identity", "definition": "A personal identity one develops in childhood that one belongs to a gender category, multiple gender categories, or no gender categories.", "sentence": "Martin's stand-up tours, Us in 2015 about sex and gender identity and Dope in 2017 about addiction, were both turned into BBC radio shows.", "communities": [], "metadata": { "source": "Podcasts", "title": "How To Fail With Elizabeth Day" } }, { "id": "102311", "term": "ace", "definition": "Asexual; an asexual person.", "sentence": "I'd say Patrick is pansexual/ ace-panromantic, I'll have to agree on SpongeBob being gender queer/enby as well as gay or bi, and Squidward is grey-aroace", "communities": [ "asexual" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "lgbt", "date": "2022-09-24 19:27:58", "timestamp": 1664040478.0 } }, { "id": "99576", "term": "gaymer", "definition": "Gay persons who have active interest in video games or tabletop games.", "sentence": "My roommate brought me home gaymer button StPattys day from a bar(he was dancing there, Sidetracks i think he said.", "communities": [ "LGBTQ" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "ChicagoGaymers", "date": "2013-04-03 06:35:52", "timestamp": 1364963752.0 } }, { "id": "1766", "term": "kink", "definition": "ā€¢ A specific sexual desire, practice, or activity considered unconventional but within certain socially constructed boundaries.\nā€¢ A thief or burglar.", "sentence": "Ooh, does he have some sort of blowjob kink, having videos of them all on his phone?", "communities": [], "metadata": { "source": "Podcasts", "title": "Leah on the Line" } }, { "id": "104106", "term": "stealth", "definition": "When a transgender person keeps their transgender status closely guarded, living as if they were cisgender as their identified gender.", "sentence": "I transitioned quite a while before you did, was a trans activist for a few years, eventually went stealth for fifteen years, then ā€œunstealthedā€ a few years ago.", "communities": [ "transgender" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "asktransgender", "date": "2023-05-14 08:43:42", "timestamp": 1684046622.0 } }, { "id": "113852", "term": "boi", "definition": "An LGBTQIA+ slang term with multiple definitions; a boi might be a boyish lesbian, a submissive butch in the BDSM community, a younger transgender man or a transgender man early in transition, a younger bisexual or gay person who is somewhat feminine. Alternatively, some persons identifying with the term might fit none of these categories.", "sentence": "*an always cute boi*", "communities": [ "lesbian", "transmasculine", "African-American LGBTQ" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "LGBTeensGoneMild", "date": "2018-03-27 20:34:39", "timestamp": 1522175679.0 } }, { "id": "115077", "term": "chapstick lesbian", "definition": "A lesbian who exhibits some butch traits (short hair, stereotypical men's clothing, etc.) without wholly fitting the masculine butch stereotype; alternatively, a lesbian who is athletic or has a keen interest in sports.", "sentence": "Now recently I saw a video saying people are calling chapstick lesbians mascs, and calling ā€œfems in boy clothesā€ masc.", "communities": [ "lesbian" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "actuallesbians", "date": "2025-02-13 00:03:55", "timestamp": 1739401435.0 } }, { "id": "117674", "term": "baby gay", "definition": "A person who has recently come out in relationship to a marginalized sexual or gender identity.", "sentence": "Sponsored by this late bloomer baby gay wishing I actually still looked my age ;__;", "communities": [ "gay male" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "dykesgonemild", "date": "2021-07-04 03:47:58", "timestamp": 1625363278.0 } }, { "id": "111035", "term": "squish", "definition": "An aromantic crush; the desire for a non-romantic and/or platonic relationship with another person.", "sentence": "Right now I'm considering befriending him first to see if these feelings truly are just a squish or if they indeed are a crush.", "communities": [ "aromantic" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "LGBTeens", "date": "2024-10-08 20:47:12", "timestamp": 1728413232.0 } }, { "id": "215142", "term": "twinks", "definition": "ā€¢ Slang term widely used in gay communities to describe a young or young-looking man with little or no facial or body hair. Can be pejorative, but can also be a self-descriptor.\nā€¢ A young, attractive, slim male, usually having little body hair.", "sentence": "like for exemple a straight man being called a twink when twinks are gay men..idk maybe im overreacting but i wish those terms were still for the lgbt community", "communities": [ "gay male" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "lgbt", "date": "2024-12-28 21:28:30", "timestamp": 1735417710.0 } }, { "id": "151282", "term": "boywife", "definition": "A young male assuming the employment of homemaking, a role traditionally assumed by women; the submissive partner in the relationship who receives great pleasure in \"taking care\" of his more dominant partner.", "sentence": "submissive boywife with a cat?", "communities": [ "gay" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "askgaybros", "date": "2024-04-25 23:49:06", "timestamp": 1714081746.0 } }, { "id": "98875", "term": "lavender", "definition": "A pale purple color, like that of the lavender flower. Lavender become symbol of homosexuality in the 1950s and 1960s, just as the color mauve was in the 1890s.", "sentence": "It is actually a really good portrayal, because lavender marriages are not the same as forced marriages - they are something both people chose together to protect each other.", "communities": [ "LGBTQ" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "lgbt", "date": "2025-01-09 02:57:51", "timestamp": 1736387871.0 } }, { "id": "99386", "term": "cisvestite", "definition": "A neologism referring to one who wears clothing typical of their assigned sex.", "sentence": "Does a cis woman stop being a cisvestite if she ever wears a single pair of pants?", "communities": [ "LGBTQ" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "transgendercirclejerk", "date": "2023-01-29 19:30:24", "timestamp": 1675017024.0 } }, { "id": "202157", "term": "unclockable", "definition": "Not recognizable as transgender or a drag performer; passing.", "sentence": "i do think i pass fairly well but i donā€™t feel unclockable.", "communities": [ "transgender" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "trans", "date": "2025-05-13 11:57:00", "timestamp": 1747130220.0 } }, { "id": "206353", "term": "snatched", "definition": "Good-looking.", "sentence": "So I know that hrt makes you more feminine it gives you hips boobs and snatched your waist but just how does estrogen make your face more feminine?", "communities": [], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "asktransgender", "date": "2025-04-09 00:23:16", "timestamp": 1744150996.0 } }, { "id": "123628", "term": "fruit fly", "definition": "A woman who enjoys the company of gay men; a somewhat less offensive alternative to \"fag hag\".", "sentence": "We all know the terms for women who hang out with gay guys (f*g hag, fruit fly, etc.)", "communities": [ "gay male" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "gay", "date": "2024-03-23 21:57:56", "timestamp": 1711227476.0 } }, { "id": "2551", "term": "shade", "definition": "A slang term referring to a kind of insult, typically non-verbal in nature. Journalist Anna Holmes called shade \"the art of the sidelong insult\". Merriam-Webster defines it as \"subtle, sneering expression of contempt for or disgust with someoneā€”sometimes verbal, and sometimes not\".", "sentence": "I ask, you know, and it's no shade or anything.", "communities": [ "drag" ], "metadata": { "source": "Podcasts", "title": "Keep it Positive, Sweetie" } }, { "id": "95549", "term": "service top", "definition": "A service top is one who tops (acts as the \"giving\" partner in sexual encounters) under the direction of an eager bottom (who acts as the \"receiving\" partner in sexual encounters).", "sentence": "Powerbottom is the term and yes plenty of guys are like that and enjoy to be the opposite of service top.", "communities": [ "LGBTQ" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "gay", "date": "2022-02-02 00:50:58", "timestamp": 1643759458.0 } }, { "id": "227354", "term": "drag queen", "definition": "ā€¢ A male entertainer who performs dressed as a woman; a female impersonator.\nā€¢ A male-to-female cross-dresser.", "sentence": "There are four steps to becoming a drag queen.", "communities": [], "metadata": { "source": "OpenSubtitles", "title": "To Wong Foo, Thanks for Everything! Julie Newmar", "imdb_id": "114682" } }, { "id": "210881", "term": "drag mother", "definition": "In the US, a group of drag queens who have been mentored by a \"mother,\" also known as a \"house.\" These groups often take on family drag names and form close-knit communities.", "sentence": "You might find that, instead of a drag mother, you end up with a handful of sisters, and that can be a wonderful, successful arrangement too.", "communities": [], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "fauxqueens", "date": "2014-09-22 20:15:34", "timestamp": 1411409734.0 } }, { "id": "78151", "term": "fairy", "definition": "ā€¢ Slang for homosexual man, probably derived from earlier slang use meaning a promiscuous woman. Contested term - originally offensive, but reclaimed by gay men in the 1960s.\nā€¢ A feminine gay man.", "sentence": "Oh god do not call a gay man a queer fairy I am begging you.", "communities": [ "gay male" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "AskLGBT", "date": "2022-07-10 14:50:41", "timestamp": 1657457441.0 } }, { "id": "135636", "term": "AC/DC", "definition": "Said of a person, bisexual, referring to being attracted to women and men.", "sentence": "Love all you AC/DCā€™s šŸ˜‰ keep being cute and awesome.", "communities": [], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "bisexual", "date": "2021-01-22 10:07:41", "timestamp": 1611306461.0 } }, { "id": "110852", "term": "genetic girl", "definition": "A somewhat infantilizing term used rarely by transgender women to refer to cisgender women.", "sentence": "I have started talking to a genetic girl and this is where a lot of the confusion begins.", "communities": [ "transfeminine" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "crossdressing", "date": "2011-09-05 12:27:33", "timestamp": 1315218453.0 } }, { "id": "227350", "term": "drag queen", "definition": "ā€¢ A male entertainer who performs dressed as a woman; a female impersonator.\nā€¢ A male-to-female cross-dresser.", "sentence": "What do you mean,\" be a drag queen\"?", "communities": [], "metadata": { "source": "OpenSubtitles", "title": "To Wong Foo, Thanks for Everything! Julie Newmar", "imdb_id": "114682" } }, { "id": "228891", "term": "poppers", "definition": "Drugs of the alkyl nitrate class used recreationally as a sexual stimulant, especially among gay men.", "sentence": "YOU DON'T USE THAT MANY POPPERS.", "communities": [ "gay" ], "metadata": { "source": "OpenSubtitles", "title": "Longtime Companion", "imdb_id": "100049" } }, { "id": "110859", "term": "genetic woman", "definition": "A term used rarely by transgender women to refer to cisgender women.", "sentence": "* Mariah totally forgot her name for a minute, misremembered the names of men she's dated, and asked her if she was \"really born a genetic woman\".", "communities": [ "transfeminine" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "rupaulsdragrace", "date": "2020-04-14 16:42:34", "timestamp": 1586875354.0 } }, { "id": "101486", "term": "theyfab", "definition": "A slang term for a nonbinary person who is assigned female at birth.", "sentence": "im theyfab no cap this is what passing ā€œdoes to an mfā€ as they say", "communities": [ "nonbinary" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "transgendercirclejerk", "date": "2023-07-22 07:23:16", "timestamp": 1690003396.0 } }, { "id": "114748", "term": "butch dyke", "definition": "A butch lesbian. \"Butch\" is often used to describe a wide variety of gender expressions and identities adjacent to masculinity or \"butchilinity\".", "sentence": "I'm over 50 and what used to be known as a butch dyke.", "communities": [ "lesbian" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "genderqueer", "date": "2018-08-19 08:37:02", "timestamp": 1534660622.0 } }, { "id": "158752", "term": "cunt", "definition": "ā€¢ The anus of a trans woman.\nā€¢ The inguinal canals of a trans woman.\nā€¢ Amazing or very good.", "sentence": "noooo i dont think it is, serving cunt just means to slay šŸ˜­šŸ˜­šŸ˜­", "communities": [ "transgender" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "asktransgender", "date": "2024-08-25 11:12:37", "timestamp": 1724577157.0 } }, { "id": "107571", "term": "bottom surgery", "definition": "A slang term used to refer to genital gender-affirming surgeries.", "sentence": "I'm not sure how good bottom surgery for men is nowadays but I remember it being 'lacking' in the past.", "communities": [ "transgender" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "ask_transgender", "date": "2018-12-14 00:51:48", "timestamp": 1544745108.0 } }, { "id": "109029", "term": "titty skittle", "definition": "Oral estrogen taken by transgender woman and other transfeminine people.", "sentence": "You're beautiful hun, and I laughed on the titty skittles šŸ˜…", "communities": [ "transgender", "transfeminine" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "lgbt", "date": "2020-11-04 11:08:40", "timestamp": 1604484520.0 } }, { "id": "76138", "term": "drag family", "definition": "In the US, a group of drag queens who have been mentored by a \"mother,\" also known as a \"house.\" These groups often take on family drag names and form close-knit communities.", "sentence": "Most performers I know w drag family got their families WAY EARLY in the process.", "communities": [], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "Drag", "date": "2024-02-15 09:51:22", "timestamp": 1707987082.0 } }, { "id": "86210", "term": "stud", "definition": "ā€¢ Community term for an African-American and/or Latinx masculine queer woman. Also known as \"ag.\" Only use if someone self-describes in this way, and avoid using for white people, as this is a term specifically developed by and for African-American and Latinx communities.\nā€¢ A masculine or butch lesbian; predominantly utilized in Black and Latina lesbian communities. Should not be used by individuals outside of those communities, as it may be seen as pejorative. Sometimes expanded to refer to other gender identities and expressions.", "sentence": "Or is it just that studs are masculine?", "communities": [ "lesbian", "Latine lesbian", "African-American lesbian" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "teengirlswholikegirls", "date": "2025-04-22 03:43:48", "timestamp": 1745286228.0 } }, { "id": "90705", "term": "slay", "definition": "Used to express approval or amazement.", "sentence": "Can confirmā€¦ you slayed!", "communities": [ "drag" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "lgbt", "date": "2024-02-04 15:38:08", "timestamp": 1707057488.0 } }, { "id": "110855", "term": "genetic girl", "definition": "A somewhat infantilizing term used rarely by transgender women to refer to cisgender women.", "sentence": "But I donā€™t see many genetic girls doing this", "communities": [ "transfeminine" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "transfashionadvice", "date": "2024-10-22 09:55:12", "timestamp": 1729583712.0 } }, { "id": "117149", "term": "unicorn", "definition": "A bisexual woman who engages in a sexual, but usually non-romantic, relationship with a heterosexual couple.", "sentence": "I get called a unicorn a lot... by guys already in relationships.", "communities": [ "bisexual female" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "gaybros", "date": "2025-07-11 00:51:25", "timestamp": 1752187885.0 } }, { "id": "106829", "term": "girlmode", "definition": "When a transgender person presents a gender expression codified as female, typically if that person is a transgender man. Usually used in the context of going incognito as a cisgender woman.", "sentence": "I can't rely on agendermode to last a whole day, it usually ends in a blast of sudden dysphoria when gender envy kicks me back into girlmode.", "communities": [ "transgender", "transgender" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "genderfluid", "date": "2024-09-29 17:23:08", "timestamp": 1727623388.0 } }, { "id": "2514", "term": "ace", "definition": "Asexual; an asexual person.", "sentence": "I think I'm ace I you know, what is your relationship with yourself?", "communities": [ "asexual" ], "metadata": { "source": "Podcasts", "title": "It Can't Just Be Me" } }, { "id": "99781", "term": "queer coding", "definition": "A situation in which a character is given traits or behaviors which suggest they are not heterosexual and/or cisgender, without the character being outright confirmed as having such an identity.", "sentence": "Start with sth like queer coding on Wikipedia or elsewhere, and then just go to the references pr people also searched for bar.", "communities": [ "LGBTQ" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "gay", "date": "2021-06-30 22:49:22", "timestamp": 1625086162.0 } }, { "id": "119494", "term": "masc4masc", "definition": "A phrase used to describe a masculine gay man interested in other masculine gay men romantically and/or sexually.", "sentence": "everyone is either taken, taken by a girl (bi), masc4masc, my ex, or closeted (and known).", "communities": [ "gay male" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "LGBTeens", "date": "2019-03-28 06:39:09", "timestamp": 1553751549.0 } }, { "id": "209097", "term": "yass", "definition": "A strong expression of excitement or admiration.", "sentence": "Your nails are šŸ’Æ% YASSS too!", "communities": [], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "crossdressing", "date": "2024-10-15 11:06:41", "timestamp": 1728983201.0 } }, { "id": "103240", "term": "ace of spades", "definition": "A person who is asexual and aromantic.", "sentence": "They called me an ace of spades but I had to explain that since I still experience romantic attraction (to other women), Iā€™m an ace of hearts.", "communities": [ "asexual", "aromantic" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "asexuality", "date": "2024-04-11 22:33:16", "timestamp": 1712867596.0 } }, { "id": "385", "term": "cunty", "definition": "Amazing or very good or cool, especially with regard to femininity.", "sentence": "Do you wanna hear like something super cunty that I do?", "communities": [], "metadata": { "source": "Podcasts", "title": "I've Had It" } }, { "id": "146842", "term": "boots", "definition": "Used as an intensifier: very, to a great degree; exceptionally.", "sentence": "Slay boots the house down = Let's fucking GOOOO!", "communities": [ "drag" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "gay", "date": "2024-10-11 01:30:58", "timestamp": 1728603058.0 } }, { "id": "118711", "term": "gold star gay", "definition": "A gay person who has never had sex with a person of the opposite gender.", "sentence": "Most gold star gays aren't like that, though.", "communities": [ "gay male" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "askgaybros", "date": "2024-12-24 00:40:49", "timestamp": 1734997249.0 } }, { "id": "14704", "term": "clock", "definition": "To take notice of, to realize, or to recognize someone as being transgender.", "sentence": "And I clock the woman in front of me.", "communities": [ "drag", "transgender" ], "metadata": { "source": "Podcasts", "title": "The Viall Files" } }, { "id": "99793", "term": "closeted", "definition": "An adjective referring to an LGBTQIA+ person or persons who have not disclosed their status as LGBTQIA+ and other related aspects of their life. More broadly, it can also be used to describe anyone who is hiding part of their identity because of social pressure.", "sentence": "As a gay closeted teenager he was everything for me", "communities": [ "LGBTQ" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "LadyBoners", "date": "2025-05-29 12:05:56", "timestamp": 1748513156.0 } }, { "id": "206201", "term": "poz", "definition": "ā€¢ HIV positive.\nā€¢ To infect (someone) with a sexually transmitted infection; especially HIV.", "sentence": "New features for Poz community members and educates everyone on PrEP", "communities": [], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "lgbt", "date": "2014-12-23 23:43:58", "timestamp": 1419374638.0 } }, { "id": "157837", "term": "bonus hole", "definition": "The vulva or vagina of a trans man.", "sentence": "Whoever told cis people about the bonus hole done fucked up.", "communities": [ "transgender" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "ftm", "date": "2023-07-10 03:25:13", "timestamp": 1688952313.0 } }, { "id": "445", "term": "bj", "definition": "Initialism of blow job.", "sentence": "And she goes, did you give him a BJ?", "communities": [], "metadata": { "source": "Podcasts", "title": "KhloĆ© in Wonder Land" } }, { "id": "145984", "term": "boyremoval", "definition": "The process of boyremoving or the fact of being boyremoved.", "sentence": "Literally the start of shitty boyremoval erotica", "communities": [], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "transgendercirclejerk", "date": "2023-12-16 14:59:39", "timestamp": 1702735179.0 } }, { "id": "1746", "term": "kink", "definition": "ā€¢ A specific sexual desire, practice, or activity considered unconventional but within certain socially constructed boundaries.\nā€¢ A thief or burglar.", "sentence": "Heyo Meatball says, This is such a dangerous kink to pressure a first-timer into.", "communities": [], "metadata": { "source": "Podcasts", "title": "We Can Be Weirdos" } }, { "id": "106804", "term": "girlmode", "definition": "When a transgender person presents a gender expression codified as female, typically if that person is a transgender man. Usually used in the context of going incognito as a cisgender woman.", "sentence": "The first time I saw them in girlmode my brain couldn't really comprehend it.", "communities": [ "transgender", "transgender" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "mypartneristrans", "date": "2021-04-12 16:47:24", "timestamp": 1618238844.0 } }, { "id": "212068", "term": "flip flop", "definition": "Slang to indicate either 1) bisexuality or 2) a person that likes to switch between \"top\" and \"bottom\" roles during sex. Especially used by incarcerated people in the US.", "sentence": "For years I've been flip flopping between if I like men or if I'm lesbian but now it's becoming a little more pressing of a question.", "communities": [], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "LGBTQ", "date": "2023-03-22 16:13:38", "timestamp": 1679498018.0 } }, { "id": "165194", "term": "estrogel", "definition": "Estradiol gel used in feminizing hormone replacement therapy.", "sentence": "When they see androcur and estrogel on the prescription, do they know for sure I'm a transgender or could it be something else?", "communities": [ "transgender" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "ask_transgender", "date": "2020-07-30 18:28:08", "timestamp": 1596126488.0 } }, { "id": "110918", "term": "zucchini", "definition": "A queerplatonic partner.", "sentence": "He would call me his zucchini to others and tell them we were \"as close as two people could possibly be.\"", "communities": [ "aromantic" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "asexuality", "date": "2019-11-19 06:22:26", "timestamp": 1574140946.0 } }, { "id": "74417", "term": "bottom", "definition": "ā€¢ A \"bottom\" is an individual who acts as the \"receiving\" partner in sexual encounters. Sometimes used as a self-descriptor within queer communities, but should be replicated with caution. Sometimes used as a verb (\"to bottom for someone\"). Offensive if applied to LGBTQ+ individuals from outwith queer communities.\nā€¢ Someone, typically a man, who is penetrated during sexual intercourse or someone who has a preference for being penetrated during such intercourse.\nā€¢ The buttocks.\nā€¢ Genitalia; genitals.", "sentence": "Feminine achillean bottoms exist.", "communities": [ "gay", "LGBTQ" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "questioning", "date": "2025-02-14 06:35:57", "timestamp": 1739511357.0 } }, { "id": "214623", "term": "studs", "definition": "ā€¢ Community term for an African-American and/or Latinx masculine queer woman. Also known as \"ag.\" Only use if someone self-describes in this way, and avoid using for white people, as this is a term specifically developed by and for African-American and Latinx communities.\nā€¢ A masculine or butch lesbian; predominantly utilized in Black and Latina lesbian communities. Should not be used by individuals outside of those communities, as it may be seen as pejorative. Sometimes expanded to refer to other gender identities and expressions.", "sentence": "so like you know the lesbian stereotypes, like studs, femmes, butches, e.t.c.?", "communities": [ "lesbian", "Latine lesbian", "African-American lesbian" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "pansexual", "date": "2021-02-19 11:04:31", "timestamp": 1613729071.0 } }, { "id": "123833", "term": "boy pussy", "definition": "A gay man's anus, especially the receiving partipant's. Also, rarely, a transmasculine person's vulva.", "sentence": "Me talking about your boy pussy is a turn on!", "communities": [ "transgender", "gay", "gay male" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "askgaybros", "date": "2020-10-29 01:48:46", "timestamp": 1603932526.0 } }, { "id": "113693", "term": "high femme", "definition": "A femme person who expresses their gender in ultra feminine ways. Often, but not exclusively, this refers to a queer woman.", "sentence": "I ADORE dressing vintage high femme and ALWAYS get compliments!", "communities": [ "lesbian" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "dykesgonemild", "date": "2025-05-15 21:30:48", "timestamp": 1747337448.0 } }, { "id": "85642", "term": "punk", "definition": "A slang term with multiple meanings depending on context. Originally used to refer to a sex worker or prostitute, especially a passive or feminine gay man (or a bottom). By the early 20th century, used to refer to a person considered worthless or criminal in nature. By the 1970s, used to refer to punk rock, a punk rocker, or to the sociocultural movement associated with punk rock and its fans. In the modern gay male community, the term \"punk\" may refer to a smaller, typically younger gay man who is forced into a submissive role in prison settings by an older gay man. Also occasionally used as a synonym for \"clock\" or \"read\", i.e. when a cisgender person recognizes a person as transgender.", "sentence": "Looking for any masc clothing that are either gothic, punk (any alt pretty much) and dark academia-style clothing.", "communities": [ "transgender", "gay male" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "transtrade", "date": "2022-03-27 05:48:09", "timestamp": 1648352889.0 } }, { "id": "1586", "term": "lgbt", "definition": "Initialism for lesbian, gay, bisexual, and transgender.", "sentence": "I think even though we're specifically called LGBT mummies, because again, that's our lived and living experience.", "communities": [], "metadata": { "source": "Podcasts", "title": "Tea at Four" } }, { "id": "98676", "term": "versatile", "definition": "Someone who penetrates or is penetrated during sexual intercourse or someone who has a preference for both being penetrated and penetrating during such intercourse.", "sentence": "I'm versatile and am expected to top (a lot, cuz butch.", "communities": [ "LGBTQ" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "actuallesbians", "date": "2014-08-23 01:13:30", "timestamp": 1408749210.0 } }, { "id": "4992", "term": "activist", "definition": "A person who is politically active in campaigning for change to an existing sociopolitical or cultural order.", "sentence": "I'm involved in various activist initiatives.", "communities": [], "metadata": { "source": "Podcasts", "title": "Upstream" } }, { "id": "73224", "term": "bicycle", "definition": "Used as slang for bisexual in the 1960s. Also more widely used to indicate promiscuity, esp for women; this usage is considered offensive.", "sentence": "(Pansexuals have \"haha you like kitchen supplies,\" asexuals have the ace of spades, bisexuals have bicycles, and so on)", "communities": [], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "NonBinary", "date": "2020-10-24 04:51:49", "timestamp": 1603507909.0 } }, { "id": "101655", "term": "thembo", "definition": "A nonbinary or gender-neutral bimbo.", "sentence": "for the last time it's Fembo, Himbo and Thembo!", "communities": [ "nonbinary" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "AskLGBT", "date": "2021-11-11 09:41:28", "timestamp": 1636620088.0 } }, { "id": "99804", "term": "closeted", "definition": "An adjective referring to an LGBTQIA+ person or persons who have not disclosed their status as LGBTQIA+ and other related aspects of their life. More broadly, it can also be used to describe anyone who is hiding part of their identity because of social pressure.", "sentence": "From another college dropout and suicide survivor due to super religious family as a closeted boy in the midwest, I 100% agree with you and am happy for you!", "communities": [ "LGBTQ" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "gaybros", "date": "2023-06-01 16:18:00", "timestamp": 1685629080.0 } }, { "id": "97009", "term": "power top", "definition": "A power top is one noted for their skill or aggressiveness in topping (acting as the \"giving\" partner in sexual encounters).", "sentence": "In other words, am I just wired to be a minute man and stop-and-start is the best I can do, or can I train to be a power top?", "communities": [ "LGBTQ" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "gay", "date": "2024-10-12 14:46:57", "timestamp": 1728737217.0 } }, { "id": "83736", "term": "gym rat", "definition": "A sports enthusiast; usually one who frequents gyms and training grounds; often used of young gay men obsessed with body building.", "sentence": "Iā€™m not a gym rat, and I had a host of body dysmorphia issues as a teen/twenty-something.", "communities": [], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "gaybros", "date": "2024-11-20 04:56:37", "timestamp": 1732074997.0 } }, { "id": "165259", "term": "euphoria boner", "definition": "An erection of the penis in a trans woman, caused by strong feelings of gender euphoria.", "sentence": "Its the dreaded euphoria boner and it only goes away the more you make whatā€™s giving you euphoria normal.", "communities": [ "transgender" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "trans", "date": "2023-01-12 23:56:16", "timestamp": 1673564176.0 } }, { "id": "97034", "term": "breeder", "definition": "A heterosexual; i.e. one whose sexual intercourse can lead to breeding.", "sentence": "I just wish they would stop parading around and making a big deal out of being a Breeder.", "communities": [ "LGBTQ" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "gaymers", "date": "2016-11-25 05:24:32", "timestamp": 1480047872.0 } }, { "id": "2394", "term": "kiki", "definition": "ā€¢ A gathering of friends for the purpose of gossiping and chit-chat.\nā€¢ 1940s slang describing a lesbian comfortable with either a more passive or more aggressive partner in a relationship.", "sentence": "We got to Kiki in the pool and just talk and just see your face.", "communities": [ "drag", "lesbian", "African-American transgender", "African-American gay male" ], "metadata": { "source": "Podcasts", "title": "Keep it Positive, Sweetie" } }, { "id": "107224", "term": "deep stealth", "definition": "Referring to a transgender person who is not known to be trans by most of the people they interact with on a daily basis, even a sexual or romantic partner.", "sentence": "Now I have the opportunity to be a bit more open and visible, but I've been in deep stealth for so long, I don't really know where to start anymore.", "communities": [ "transgender" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "crossdressing", "date": "2015-09-23 09:47:53", "timestamp": 1442994473.0 } }, { "id": "127676", "term": "down low", "definition": "Typically referring to a man who identifies publicly as heterosexual, but engages in covert sexual relationships with other men.", "sentence": "It's one thing to be down low, or not out, or whatever is going on.", "communities": [ "African-American gay male" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "gay", "date": "2025-02-19 08:42:49", "timestamp": 1739950969.0 } }, { "id": "215401", "term": "bio queen", "definition": "A cis female performance artist who performs in female drag at drag shows, or acts like a drag queen.", "sentence": "being cast before a bio queen or drag king of any type.", "communities": [], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "rupaulsdragrace", "date": "2021-03-12 20:37:36", "timestamp": 1615577856.0 } }, { "id": "99581", "term": "gaymer", "definition": "Gay persons who have active interest in video games or tabletop games.", "sentence": "for so long, but if I'm playing multiplayer I really prefer to be with other gaymers.", "communities": [ "LGBTQ" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "Queercraft", "date": "2012-06-13 21:29:10", "timestamp": 1339615750.0 } }, { "id": "97005", "term": "power top", "definition": "A power top is one noted for their skill or aggressiveness in topping (acting as the \"giving\" partner in sexual encounters).", "sentence": "Me Who plays healers but is also a power topā€¦šŸ‘€", "communities": [ "LGBTQ" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "gaymers", "date": "2021-10-16 10:02:37", "timestamp": 1634371357.0 } }, { "id": "124893", "term": "trade", "definition": "Slang for sex work or prostitution; may also be slang for a sex worker's client. Among gay men, refers to a man with whom one has commercial sex with, a gay man's casual partner, or a man a gay man has sex with generally speaking.", "sentence": "not trade but Brad was looking so hot this episode.", "communities": [ "gay", "gay male" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "rupaulsdragrace", "date": "2024-12-22 03:46:41", "timestamp": 1734835601.0 } }, { "id": "228159", "term": "crush", "definition": "An infatuation with somebody, typically someone that one is not dating. By extension, the object of such infatuation or affection.", "sentence": "plus, my huge crush on Roddy McDowall, and those cute little leather outfits?", "communities": [ "LGBTQ" ], "metadata": { "source": "OpenSubtitles", "title": "All Over the Guy", "imdb_id": "250202" } }, { "id": "1106", "term": "chubby", "definition": "An overweight or obese gay man.", "sentence": "The good thing is that when you, like me, who is chubby, we look more beautiful when we are chubby.", "communities": [ "gay" ], "metadata": { "source": "Podcasts", "title": "Javier Ceriani" } }, { "id": "109050", "term": "titty skittle", "definition": "Oral estrogen taken by transgender woman and other transfeminine people.", "sentence": "Just different flavors of Titty Skittles.", "communities": [ "transgender", "transfeminine" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "trans", "date": "2023-11-11 11:23:58", "timestamp": 1699698238.0 } }, { "id": "146694", "term": "transmaxx", "definition": "To undergo gender transition (particularly from male to female) for the perceived social advantages that come with being the opposite sex, especially as regards the sexual marketplace.", "sentence": "Incel cults are opposed to self-improvements in general and transmaxxing to escape inceldom is viewed especially bad there.", "communities": [], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "crossdreaming", "date": "2023-10-16 17:19:43", "timestamp": 1697469583.0 } }, { "id": "213121", "term": "gaylord", "definition": "Slur for a gay man.", "sentence": "We were talking about this at lunch and my friend goes \"yeah, i don't understand why you did that, you're a fucking gaylord\".", "communities": [], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "LGBTeens", "date": "2018-11-19 19:00:11", "timestamp": 1542650411.0 } }, { "id": "79647", "term": "flute", "definition": "Outdated slang for fellatio, or someone performing fellatio.", "sentence": "I can play the flute and if someone gives me enough attention, I'll blow on their flute!", "communities": [], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "askgaybros", "date": "2021-01-18 23:55:57", "timestamp": 1611010557.0 } }, { "id": "101627", "term": "femby", "definition": "A slang term sometimes used to refer to femme enbies (non-binary people) or non-binary women. A portmanteau of \"femme\" and \"enby\".", "sentence": "Your process is some peak femby goals.", "communities": [ "nonbinary" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "NonBinary", "date": "2024-09-16 21:22:34", "timestamp": 1726514554.0 } }, { "id": "169988", "term": "princess wand", "definition": "A trans woman's penis.", "sentence": "My partner (27f) and I (32mtf) have been having issues surrounding the display I put up in our living room after I had my Princess Wand removed.", "communities": [ "transgender" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "transgendercirclejerk", "date": "2025-06-28 20:23:53", "timestamp": 1751135033.0 } }, { "id": "99537", "term": "gaymer", "definition": "Gay persons who have active interest in video games or tabletop games.", "sentence": "**tl;dr**- Gaymer house party on Long Island.", "communities": [ "LGBTQ" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "nycgaymers", "date": "2014-08-15 04:36:01", "timestamp": 1408070161.0 } }, { "id": "116676", "term": "chubby bear", "definition": "A bear who is particularly large (\"bear\" meaning \"a gay or bisexual man who has facial/body hair and a cuddly body\").", "sentence": "Iā€™m more of the chubby bear sort.", "communities": [ "chub", "bear" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "askgaybros", "date": "2024-07-30 14:13:35", "timestamp": 1722341615.0 } }, { "id": "110167", "term": "outie", "definition": "A term sometimes used to refer to the external genitalia of a transfeminine person.", "sentence": "currently identify as a woman), and they have an outie instead of an innie?", "communities": [ "transfeminine" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "asktransgender", "date": "2011-06-10 16:29:35", "timestamp": 1307716175.0 } }, { "id": "99686", "term": "gaymer", "definition": "Gay persons who have active interest in video games or tabletop games.", "sentence": "I hate to think someone visiting the city might not meet other gaymers because we don't have a strong presence on reddit.", "communities": [ "LGBTQ" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "sfgaymers", "date": "2012-11-25 07:03:37", "timestamp": 1353823417.0 } }, { "id": "76137", "term": "drag family", "definition": "In the US, a group of drag queens who have been mentored by a \"mother,\" also known as a \"house.\" These groups often take on family drag names and form close-knit communities.", "sentence": "You guys look stunning and warm and fun, I want to be in your Drag family!", "communities": [], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "Drag", "date": "2022-04-25 14:42:29", "timestamp": 1650890549.0 } }, { "id": "108933", "term": "cotton ceiling", "definition": "A term used for the tendency for cisgender lesbians to not want to engage in sexual activities with transgender women, particular those who have not yet undergone feminizing genitoplasty; or, more broadly, the tendency for cisgender lesbians to exclude transgender women from spaces.", "sentence": "As did the cotton ceiling debate.", "communities": [ "transfeminine", "lesbian" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "asktransgender", "date": "2017-06-18 17:00:39", "timestamp": 1497798039.0 } }, { "id": "99785", "term": "queer coding", "definition": "A situation in which a character is given traits or behaviors which suggest they are not heterosexual and/or cisgender, without the character being outright confirmed as having such an identity.", "sentence": "Only for the show to go\" Oh no, we WERE talking to them and specifically queer coding him, because he IS queer!", "communities": [ "LGBTQ" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "pansexual", "date": "2023-06-18 15:13:25", "timestamp": 1687094005.0 } }, { "id": "123648", "term": "hunk", "definition": "A muscular, handsome gay man.", "sentence": "I'm not sure what you don't like about your body, but if you find muscle hot I'm sure that hunky daddy would be happy to give you excersise advice.", "communities": [ "gay male" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "gaybros", "date": "2020-02-15 22:09:50", "timestamp": 1581800990.0 } }, { "id": "94390", "term": "banjee", "definition": "A young Latino or African American gay man who dresses in stereotypical masculine urban fashion.", "sentence": "Like, Shea described her big hair runway as banjee while Aja described her princess runway as banjee and I just don't see the similarity between the two?", "communities": [ "drag", "Latine LGBTQ", "African-American LGBTQ" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "rupaulsdragrace", "date": "2017-05-11 05:12:46", "timestamp": 1494472366.0 } }, { "id": "169981", "term": "princess wand", "definition": "A trans woman's penis.", "sentence": "My princess wand is wonderful and I am happy to have it.", "communities": [ "transgender" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "trans", "date": "2023-05-16 04:44:59", "timestamp": 1684205099.0 } }, { "id": "203162", "term": "cunty", "definition": "Amazing or very good or cool, especially with regard to femininity.", "sentence": "he's sooooo cunty in this movie!", "communities": [], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "LadyBoners", "date": "2025-02-18 16:02:46", "timestamp": 1739890966.0 } }, { "id": "101690", "term": "enbyfriend", "definition": "A nonbinary sexual and/or romantic partner.", "sentence": "(They haven't been on a date) Enbyfriend?", "communities": [ "nonbinary" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "NonBinary", "date": "2023-01-17 22:06:22", "timestamp": 1673989582.0 } }, { "id": "126", "term": "punks", "definition": "A slang term with multiple meanings depending on context. Originally used to refer to a sex worker or prostitute, especially a passive or feminine gay man (or a bottom). By the early 20th century, used to refer to a person considered worthless or criminal in nature. By the 1970s, used to refer to punk rock, a punk rocker, or to the sociocultural movement associated with punk rock and its fans. In the modern gay male community, the term \"punk\" may refer to a smaller, typically younger gay man who is forced into a submissive role in prison settings by an older gay man. Also occasionally used as a synonym for \"clock\" or \"read\", i.e. when a cisgender person recognizes a person as transgender.", "sentence": "Well, yes, I fall for that gang, which in fact, even the punks at the time, they didn't shoot, you know.", "communities": [ "transgender", "gay male" ], "metadata": { "source": "Podcasts", "title": "Au Parloir" } }, { "id": "115634", "term": "stone butch", "definition": "Typically, a lesbian who is butch or otherwise displays traditional \"masculinity\". Alternatively, a subculture of persons identifying as stone butch as opposed to femme or \"high femme\". Such persons may be non-binary or have other various gender identities.", "sentence": "If the futch scale is any indication, I think stone butch just means a lesbian that's really butch.", "communities": [ "lesbian" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "AskLGBT", "date": "2022-12-12 00:34:27", "timestamp": 1670801667.0 } }, { "id": "228689", "term": "butch", "definition": "ā€¢ Traditionally, a lesbian who appears \"masculine\" or acts in a \"masculine\" manner. However, the term is often used to describe a wide variety of gender expressions and identities adjacent to masculinity or \"butchilinity\".\nā€¢ Heterosexual.", "sentence": "Oh, he's so butch.", "communities": [ "lesbian" ], "metadata": { "source": "OpenSubtitles", "title": "Love! Valour! Compassion!", "imdb_id": "119578" } }, { "id": "102152", "term": "enby", "definition": "A nonbinary person, typically a young adult or an adolescent.", "sentence": "Coming in from center stage your fun having Jesus lovin kind hearted queer enby friend here to find a new to the Catholic faith friend!", "communities": [ "nonbinary" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "GayChristians", "date": "2023-11-09 01:22:36", "timestamp": 1699489356.0 } }, { "id": "157833", "term": "bonus hole", "definition": "The vulva or vagina of a trans man.", "sentence": "On an aside, can I call the front hole I have (but didn't start out with) a bonus hole, too?", "communities": [ "transgender" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "asktransgender", "date": "2011-12-21 16:37:55", "timestamp": 1324481875.0 } }, { "id": "108978", "term": "girldick", "definition": "A transgender woman's penis.", "sentence": "I also admit that I feel I might miss my girldick, and am partially uncomfortable with the idea of it gone (*particularly* if results were not great).", "communities": [ "transgender", "transfeminine" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "MtF", "date": "2024-11-26 09:17:12", "timestamp": 1732609032.0 } }, { "id": "76129", "term": "drag family", "definition": "In the US, a group of drag queens who have been mentored by a \"mother,\" also known as a \"house.\" These groups often take on family drag names and form close-knit communities.", "sentence": "Lexi had great drag family resemblance- on brand, had hearts for love and they were both representing her drag aesthetic.", "communities": [], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "rupaulsdragrace", "date": "2025-03-29 02:44:59", "timestamp": 1743212699.0 } }, { "id": "210082", "term": "bears", "definition": "ā€¢ Community term with multiple meanings. 1. A gay or bisexual man who has facial/body hair and a cuddly body. 2. An umbrella term that refers to members of a subculture in the gay and bisexual male communities and is often defined as more of an attitude or sense of comfort with natural masculinity and bodies.\nā€¢ In male gay culture, a bear is often a larger, hairier man who projects an image of rugged masculinity.", "sentence": "But you would also be surprised how many bears just don't go for twinks.", "communities": [ "bear" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "lgbt", "date": "2012-12-21 21:16:53", "timestamp": 1356121013.0 } }, { "id": "108485", "term": "second puberty", "definition": "A term often used by transgender persons transitioning after they have already undergone puberty.", "sentence": "I know T is described as second puberty for its effects on the body but I feel like I also went through puberty again psychologically as well.", "communities": [ "transgender" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "ftm", "date": "2025-06-29 02:57:19", "timestamp": 1751158639.0 } }, { "id": "106967", "term": "truscum", "definition": "A person who adheres to a strict medical definition of being transgender and believes that gender dysphoria is an essential trait.", "sentence": "Itā€™s called truscum cuz their the (tru)scum of the earth", "communities": [ "transgender" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "actuallesbians", "date": "2021-11-21 03:48:13", "timestamp": 1637462893.0 } }, { "id": "114021", "term": "saysbian", "definition": "A woman who claims to be lesbian or bisexual, but is heterosexual.", "sentence": "LUG, BUG, Saysbian, Fauxbian, Beersexual, Yestergay - The implication that a bisexual dating the opposite gender is not formerly gay/lesbian and no longer bi/lesbian/gay.", "communities": [ "lesbian" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "bisexual", "date": "2020-11-29 02:16:50", "timestamp": 1606612610.0 } }, { "id": "96991", "term": "total bottom", "definition": "A total bottom is someone who assumes an exclusively passive or receptive role during anal or oral intercourse.", "sentence": "So I just went on with it and admitted to myself Iā€™m a total bottom.", "communities": [ "LGBTQ" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "askgaybros", "date": "2024-05-23 19:00:27", "timestamp": 1716483627.0 } }, { "id": "108208", "term": "t4t", "definition": "Short form of \"trans for trans\", indicating transgender persons interested in other transgender persons romantically and/or sexually.", "sentence": "I've never been in a T4T relationship, but I imagine it's nice that the other person understands dysphoria first hand.", "communities": [ "transgender" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "MtF", "date": "2025-01-29 07:55:04", "timestamp": 1738133704.0 } }, { "id": "109053", "term": "titty skittle", "definition": "Oral estrogen taken by transgender woman and other transfeminine people.", "sentence": "My sweet and lovey partner stopped their titty skittles on March 1st, so today is Day 74!", "communities": [ "transgender", "transfeminine" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "mypartneristrans", "date": "2015-05-13 18:13:37", "timestamp": 1431533617.0 } }, { "id": "227772", "term": "cruising", "definition": "To walk or drive about a locality in search of a sex partner, usually of the anonymous, casual, one-time variety.", "sentence": "You know there's a new police unit to clear out gay cruising areas?", "communities": [ "gay male" ], "metadata": { "source": "OpenSubtitles", "title": "The Witnesses", "imdb_id": "487273" } }, { "id": "118057", "term": "fag", "definition": "A pejorative term used chiefly in North America primarily to refer to a gay man. Alongside its use to refer to gay men in particular, it may also be used as a pejorative term for a \"repellent man\" or to refer to women who are lesbian (or to transgender people, typically transgender women). Its use has spread from the United States to varying extents elsewhere in the English-speaking world through mass culture, including film, music, and the Internet.", "sentence": "His buddy came back and started screaming about Jesus out something and calling me and my friends homos and fags and just a bunch of really nice things.", "communities": [ "gay male" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "MtF", "date": "2025-06-15 06:24:36", "timestamp": 1749961476.0 } }, { "id": "109030", "term": "titty skittle", "definition": "Oral estrogen taken by transgender woman and other transfeminine people.", "sentence": "Bish you look adorable <3 let's hope the titty skittles treat u well :)", "communities": [ "transgender", "transfeminine" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "lgbt", "date": "2020-11-04 11:41:43", "timestamp": 1604486503.0 } }, { "id": "120681", "term": "hunty", "definition": "A portmanteau of \"honey\" and \"cunt\", usually considered a term of supposed endearment.", "sentence": "Yas spoon work hunty", "communities": [ "gay male" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "gaybros", "date": "2025-01-19 06:33:37", "timestamp": 1737264817.0 } }, { "id": "205378", "term": "lesboy", "definition": "A person who identifies as male and as a lesbian.", "sentence": "I was thinking if I couldā€¦be lesboy AND homoflexible.", "communities": [], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "AskLGBT", "date": "2025-07-18 01:28:34", "timestamp": 1752794914.0 } }, { "id": "165269", "term": "euphoria boner", "definition": "An erection of the penis in a trans woman, caused by strong feelings of gender euphoria.", "sentence": "I mean, i know i like being praised, but for someone who doesnt, how do you know its a euphoria boner?", "communities": [ "transgender" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "traaaaaaannnnnnnnnns", "date": "2022-04-22 17:02:59", "timestamp": 1650639779.0 } }, { "id": "103269", "term": "cissplain", "definition": "To explain transgender issues, people or behavior to a trans person (as a cis person) in a condescending manner, presuming the listenerā€™s inferior understanding.", "sentence": "Just what the fuck's wrong with these holier than thou, I know better, your collective lived experience doesn't count people who have the irresistible need to cissplain?", "communities": [ "transgender" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "MtF", "date": "2021-04-10 08:52:28", "timestamp": 1618037548.0 } }, { "id": "87753", "term": "switch-hitter", "definition": "USA slang for bisexual, originating from baseball terminology.", "sentence": "My current bio reads thus: \"wish I was better at baseball because I'm an excellent switch-hitter\"", "communities": [], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "bisexual", "date": "2017-07-30 09:08:26", "timestamp": 1501398506.0 } }, { "id": "169520", "term": "orchi", "definition": "Clipping of orchiectomy.", "sentence": "So I had an orchi consultation on Wednesday.", "communities": [ "transgender" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "MtF", "date": "2024-10-25 16:03:35", "timestamp": 1729865015.0 } }, { "id": "227846", "term": "coming out", "definition": "A metaphor for LGBTQIA+ people's self-disclosure of their sexual orientation or of their gender identity. The term coming out can also be used in various non-LGBTQIA+ applications (e.g. atheists). Framed and debated as a privacy issue, coming out of the closet is described and experienced variously as a psychological process or journey; decision-making or risk-taking; a strategy or plan; a mass or public event; a speech act and a matter of personal identity; a rite of passage; liberation or emancipation from oppression; an ordeal; a means toward feeling gay pride instead of shame and social stigma; or even career suicide. Author Steven Seidman writes that \"it is the power of the closet to shape the core of an individual's life that has made homosexuality into a significant personal, social, and political drama in twentieth-century America\".", "sentence": "than people who never have to go through the process of coming out.", "communities": [ "LGBTQ" ], "metadata": { "source": "OpenSubtitles", "title": "The L Word", "imdb_id": "330251" } }, { "id": "143281", "term": "anti-gay", "definition": "ā€¢ Hostile toward gay people; opposed to gay rights; homophobic.\nā€¢ Used by some gay people to refer to aspects of the community in critique, especially homogeneity, conformity, obsession with particular types of appearance, and assimilative behavior.", "sentence": "Thereā€™s enough anti-gay shit going on in our country right now - no need to manufacture rage when there are legitimate examples out there.", "communities": [], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "gaybros", "date": "2024-08-18 04:23:49", "timestamp": 1723947829.0 } }, { "id": "112529", "term": "femme", "definition": "Traditionally, a lesbian who appears \"feminine\" or acts in a \"feminine\" manner. However, the term is often used to describe a wide variety of gender expressions and identities adjacent to feminine or femme-ness.", "sentence": "But if you want to look femme, lose the gloves and add some jewelry (rings or necklaces, for example)", "communities": [ "lesbian" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "lgbt", "date": "2021-10-04 22:21:39", "timestamp": 1633378899.0 } }, { "id": "98883", "term": "lavender", "definition": "A pale purple color, like that of the lavender flower. Lavender become symbol of homosexuality in the 1950s and 1960s, just as the color mauve was in the 1890s.", "sentence": "If there is a reason for a lavender marriage, and both parties are happy participants, then anything from the outside is pure speculation and assumptions.", "communities": [ "LGBTQ" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "lgbt", "date": "2025-06-28 07:26:32", "timestamp": 1751088392.0 } }, { "id": "84578", "term": "lipstick lesbian", "definition": "Usually refers to a lesbian with a feminine gender expression. Can be used in a positive or a derogatory way, depending on who is using it. Is sometimes also used to refer to a lesbian who is seen as automatically \"passing\" for heterosexual.", "sentence": "Is it wrong to identify as a lipstick lesbian?", "communities": [ "lesbian" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "lgbt", "date": "2022-09-12 21:15:18", "timestamp": 1663010118.0 } }, { "id": "85604", "term": "punk", "definition": "A slang term with multiple meanings depending on context. Originally used to refer to a sex worker or prostitute, especially a passive or feminine gay man (or a bottom). By the early 20th century, used to refer to a person considered worthless or criminal in nature. By the 1970s, used to refer to punk rock, a punk rocker, or to the sociocultural movement associated with punk rock and its fans. In the modern gay male community, the term \"punk\" may refer to a smaller, typically younger gay man who is forced into a submissive role in prison settings by an older gay man. Also occasionally used as a synonym for \"clock\" or \"read\", i.e. when a cisgender person recognizes a person as transgender.", "sentence": "you look amazing and you are completely correct about too much cis dudes in punk", "communities": [ "transgender", "gay male" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "NonBinary", "date": "2022-06-23 23:26:03", "timestamp": 1656019563.0 } }, { "id": "102305", "term": "ace", "definition": "Asexual; an asexual person.", "sentence": "However aro people are a hella valid part of the ace community.", "communities": [ "asexual" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "lgbt", "date": "2020-04-02 05:23:41", "timestamp": 1585797821.0 } }, { "id": "113686", "term": "high femme", "definition": "A femme person who expresses their gender in ultra feminine ways. Often, but not exclusively, this refers to a queer woman.", "sentence": "But it turns out I'm not that picky because I fell in love with a high femme.", "communities": [ "lesbian" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "MtF", "date": "2025-06-25 12:11:08", "timestamp": 1750846268.0 } }, { "id": "116795", "term": "seahorse dad", "definition": "Slang term for a transgender man who is carrying, or has carried, a child to term.", "sentence": "(Yes I'm a seahorse dad)", "communities": [ "transmasculine" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "trans", "date": "2025-05-09 06:16:57", "timestamp": 1746764217.0 } }, { "id": "155063", "term": "poppers", "definition": "Drugs of the alkyl nitrate class used recreationally as a sexual stimulant, especially among gay men.", "sentence": "Personally I donā€™t like poppers as they give me headaches and I get this large vein pop out my forehead.", "communities": [ "gay" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "gaybros", "date": "2023-07-01 10:58:19", "timestamp": 1688201899.0 } }, { "id": "107229", "term": "deep stealth", "definition": "Referring to a transgender person who is not known to be trans by most of the people they interact with on a daily basis, even a sexual or romantic partner.", "sentence": "genuinely being cis is just the deepest of deep stealth where you got your grs in the womb", "communities": [ "transgender" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "transgendercirclejerk", "date": "2020-08-17 19:56:43", "timestamp": 1597687003.0 } }, { "id": "116334", "term": "superchub", "definition": "An extremely large self-identified chub (\"chub\" meaning \"a gay man who is overweight or obese\").", "sentence": "Are there chasers out there who love superchubs?", "communities": [ "gay", "chub" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "gay", "date": "2019-09-18 04:01:12", "timestamp": 1568772072.0 } }, { "id": "146632", "term": "passoid", "definition": "A transgender person who is passing.", "sentence": "I would say I am visually a passoid but my voice is kinda hon-ish so it would clock me instantly.", "communities": [], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "MtF", "date": "2024-09-23 03:36:27", "timestamp": 1727055387.0 } }, { "id": "120664", "term": "friend of Dorothy", "definition": "Coded slang for gay. Referring to gay icon Judy Garland's Dorothy in The Wizard of Oz.", "sentence": "Ask them are they a friend of Dorothy.", "communities": [], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "askgaybros", "date": "2016-08-31 04:01:36", "timestamp": 1472608896.0 } }, { "id": "114013", "term": "futch", "definition": "A person who exhibits traits of both a femme (often used to describe a wide variety of gender expressions and identities adjacent to feminine or femme-ness) and a butch (often used to describe a wide variety of gender expressions and identities adjacent to masculinity or \"butchilinity\").", "sentence": "Have a look online for media from non-binary or gender-non-conforming (butch or futch) trans femmes.", "communities": [ "lesbian" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "transgenderau", "date": "2022-07-05 07:42:25", "timestamp": 1656999745.0 } }, { "id": "214568", "term": "studs", "definition": "ā€¢ Community term for an African-American and/or Latinx masculine queer woman. Also known as \"ag.\" Only use if someone self-describes in this way, and avoid using for white people, as this is a term specifically developed by and for African-American and Latinx communities.\nā€¢ A masculine or butch lesbian; predominantly utilized in Black and Latina lesbian communities. Should not be used by individuals outside of those communities, as it may be seen as pejorative. Sometimes expanded to refer to other gender identities and expressions.", "sentence": "Every week there are posts on here shitting on butches, mascs, and studs and it becomes public discourse about whether it's okay to not be attracted to them.", "communities": [ "lesbian", "Latine lesbian", "African-American lesbian" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "actuallesbians", "date": "2025-01-19 20:24:16", "timestamp": 1737314656.0 } }, { "id": "123831", "term": "boy pussy", "definition": "A gay man's anus, especially the receiving partipant's. Also, rarely, a transmasculine person's vulva.", "sentence": "Not a fan of the boy pussy or bussy thing but itā€™s not a boner killer for me either.", "communities": [ "transgender", "gay", "gay male" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "askgaybros", "date": "2020-10-28 19:34:02", "timestamp": 1603910042.0 } }, { "id": "110248", "term": "zap", "definition": "Slang term for electrolytic epilation.", "sentence": "The hairs that I have today are the transparent hairs that it couldn't zap.", "communities": [ "transfeminine" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "asktransgender", "date": "2025-07-04 00:09:28", "timestamp": 1751580568.0 } }, { "id": "113744", "term": "100-footer", "definition": "A lesbian who can be identified easily as a lesbian from a hundred feet away.", "sentence": "I guess they are the opposite of a 100-footer.", "communities": [ "lesbian" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "actuallesbians", "date": "2023-05-11 08:31:44", "timestamp": 1683786704.0 } }, { "id": "115663", "term": "lesbro", "definition": "A man who is considered an \"honorary lesbian\" by lesbian friends; otherwise, rarely, a lesbian who is considered stereotypically masculine, i.e. a \"bro\".", "sentence": "It's for gays and queers and bis and straights and our lesbro colleagues - every letter in the alphabet all together at once.", "communities": [ "lesbian" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "gaybros", "date": "2015-02-05 02:14:54", "timestamp": 1423098894.0 } }, { "id": "94310", "term": "drab", "definition": "An instance of a transgender or non-binary person presenting as the gender corresponding to their sex assigned at birth instead of that corresponding to their internal gender identity (most commonly a trans woman dressed as a man).", "sentence": "I was just going to window shop at Lane Bryant, as I was in the drabbiest of male drab from my job interview earlier that day.", "communities": [ "transgender", "drag", "transgender" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "transpositive", "date": "2015-12-29 15:18:21", "timestamp": 1451398701.0 } }, { "id": "165125", "term": "estro", "definition": "Clipping of estrogen.", "sentence": "Oh yeah my doeses are 2mg of estro, 100mg of Spiro and 100mg of progesterone.", "communities": [ "transgender" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "TransCommunity", "date": "2020-04-16 02:08:58", "timestamp": 1586995738.0 } }, { "id": "108921", "term": "girl juice", "definition": "A slang term referring to injectable feminizing hormones.", "sentence": "Iā€™m not sure if I should wait it out and get a diagnosis of dysphoria at more cost or just get going on the girl juice.", "communities": [ "transfeminine" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "transgenderUK", "date": "2024-11-27 00:21:36", "timestamp": 1732663296.0 } }, { "id": "143286", "term": "anti-gay", "definition": "ā€¢ Hostile toward gay people; opposed to gay rights; homophobic.\nā€¢ Used by some gay people to refer to aspects of the community in critique, especially homogeneity, conformity, obsession with particular types of appearance, and assimilative behavior.", "sentence": "That means he has direct influence on many of the anti-gay initiatives taking place in America", "communities": [], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "gaymers", "date": "2013-02-12 11:08:54", "timestamp": 1360663734.0 } }, { "id": "206450", "term": "throw shade", "definition": "To subtly insult someone.", "sentence": "Even vegetarians have an audience because they can throw shade at the meat eaters.", "communities": [], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "asexuality", "date": "2022-07-26 07:14:59", "timestamp": 1658812499.0 } }, { "id": "101436", "term": "trysexual", "definition": "A term referring to a person who appears willing to try any sexual activity with just about any person or persons, may be used in a derogatory fashion.", "sentence": "Is trysexual a fun thing ppl refer to bi as or is it lowkey biphobic?", "communities": [ "pansexual", "bisexual" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "bisexual", "date": "2025-04-28 08:52:43", "timestamp": 1745823163.0 } }, { "id": "116723", "term": "man cave", "definition": "Crude slang sometimes used to refer to a transmasculine person's or a trans man's vagina", "sentence": "My man cave completely changing in smellā€¦", "communities": [ "transmasculine" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "ftm", "date": "2022-12-10 01:40:12", "timestamp": 1670632812.0 } }, { "id": "214578", "term": "studs", "definition": "ā€¢ Community term for an African-American and/or Latinx masculine queer woman. Also known as \"ag.\" Only use if someone self-describes in this way, and avoid using for white people, as this is a term specifically developed by and for African-American and Latinx communities.\nā€¢ A masculine or butch lesbian; predominantly utilized in Black and Latina lesbian communities. Should not be used by individuals outside of those communities, as it may be seen as pejorative. Sometimes expanded to refer to other gender identities and expressions.", "sentence": "I know there are lesbian studs, but are there bi studs?", "communities": [ "lesbian", "Latine lesbian", "African-American lesbian" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "bisexual", "date": "2020-05-13 11:21:37", "timestamp": 1589361697.0 } }, { "id": "209105", "term": "yass", "definition": "A strong expression of excitement or admiration.", "sentence": "Church of the Yass Mawma", "communities": [], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "Drag", "date": "2023-03-24 18:35:56", "timestamp": 1679679356.0 } }, { "id": "210882", "term": "drag mother", "definition": "In the US, a group of drag queens who have been mentored by a \"mother,\" also known as a \"house.\" These groups often take on family drag names and form close-knit communities.", "sentence": "Did you find a drag mother/family?", "communities": [], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "fauxqueens", "date": "2014-09-22 20:15:34", "timestamp": 1411409734.0 } }, { "id": "203161", "term": "cunty", "definition": "Amazing or very good or cool, especially with regard to femininity.", "sentence": "Iā€™m sad he removed his mole, it was so cunty", "communities": [], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "LadyBoners", "date": "2025-03-09 18:38:40", "timestamp": 1741541920.0 } }, { "id": "228066", "term": "discreet", "definition": "Not drawing attention, anger or challenge; inconspicuous.", "sentence": "I'll be a discreet, quiet... fluff.", "communities": [ "LGBTQ" ], "metadata": { "source": "OpenSubtitles", "title": "Bent", "imdb_id": "118698" } }, { "id": "90945", "term": "kai kai", "definition": "The act of drag queens having sex with each other.", "sentence": "If Jinkx and pandora where to Kai Kai and a magical drag unicorn were to be born you would be that unicorn.", "communities": [ "drag" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "Drag", "date": "2013-12-05 05:28:11", "timestamp": 1386217691.0 } }, { "id": "146746", "term": "youngshit", "definition": "A transgender person who began transitioning at a young age.", "sentence": "Grieving for what didnā€™t happen (i.e., being a youngshit) deserves the space, energy, and time to be grieved.", "communities": [], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "transgendercirclejerk", "date": "2024-12-04 15:14:51", "timestamp": 1733321691.0 } }, { "id": "143109", "term": "GLBT", "definition": "Initialism for gay, lesbian, bisexual, and transgender.", "sentence": "I'm one of the house moms for Lost-n-Found Youth, Atlanta's only agency actively working to take GLBT youth off the street.", "communities": [], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "gaybros", "date": "2014-10-17 02:37:40", "timestamp": 1413506260.0 } }, { "id": "169855", "term": "pre-T", "definition": "Not yet having undergone testosterone-based hormone replacement therapy.", "sentence": "My levels pre-T was in the female range.", "communities": [ "transgender" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "ftm", "date": "2022-11-08 16:29:42", "timestamp": 1667921382.0 } }, { "id": "124646", "term": "cruising", "definition": "To walk or drive about a locality in search of a sex partner, usually of the anonymous, casual, one-time variety.", "sentence": "When you confronted your BF did he tell you he was cruising or was it assumed?", "communities": [ "gay male" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "gaybros", "date": "2024-02-24 21:18:32", "timestamp": 1708805912.0 } }, { "id": "143044", "term": "LGBT", "definition": "Initialism for lesbian, gay, bisexual, and transgender.", "sentence": "The other LGBT human that I know is into the party-club-kid scene and is just living it up in Dallas's gayborhood.", "communities": [], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "TopQueer", "date": "2020-02-21 04:14:26", "timestamp": 1582254866.0 } }, { "id": "106492", "term": "deadnaming", "definition": "Calling a transgender person by their \"deadname\" (oftentimes their birth name, but not always).", "sentence": "I will say, just for consideration and clarification, that whether the person being named is present or far away doesn't really change whether deadnaming is right or wrong.", "communities": [ "transgender" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "asktransgender", "date": "2024-07-17 20:18:48", "timestamp": 1721240328.0 } }, { "id": "111030", "term": "squish", "definition": "An aromantic crush; the desire for a non-romantic and/or platonic relationship with another person.", "sentence": "Crushes and squishes can overlap.", "communities": [ "aromantic" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "LGBTeens", "date": "2020-11-10 02:16:01", "timestamp": 1604970961.0 } }, { "id": "158792", "term": "cunt", "definition": "ā€¢ The anus of a trans woman.\nā€¢ The inguinal canals of a trans woman.\nā€¢ Amazing or very good.", "sentence": "Serving cunt and country!", "communities": [ "transgender" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "gaybrosgonemild", "date": "2024-05-17 07:24:46", "timestamp": 1715923486.0 } }, { "id": "168508", "term": "hen", "definition": "The penis of a trans woman.", "sentence": "That's right, girlcocks, or hens.", "communities": [ "transgender" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "transgendercirclejerk", "date": "2017-10-29 06:32:11", "timestamp": 1509255131.0 } }, { "id": "19114", "term": "coming out", "definition": "A metaphor for LGBTQIA+ people's self-disclosure of their sexual orientation or of their gender identity. The term coming out can also be used in various non-LGBTQIA+ applications (e.g. atheists). Framed and debated as a privacy issue, coming out of the closet is described and experienced variously as a psychological process or journey; decision-making or risk-taking; a strategy or plan; a mass or public event; a speech act and a matter of personal identity; a rite of passage; liberation or emancipation from oppression; an ordeal; a means toward feeling gay pride instead of shame and social stigma; or even career suicide. Author Steven Seidman writes that \"it is the power of the closet to shape the core of an individual's life that has made homosexuality into a significant personal, social, and political drama in twentieth-century America\".", "sentence": "I don't think... Yeah, I don't think the coming out moment really needed to happen.", "communities": [ "LGBTQ" ], "metadata": { "source": "Podcasts", "title": "Why Won't You Date Me? with Nicole Byer" } }, { "id": "107014", "term": "truscum", "definition": "A person who adheres to a strict medical definition of being transgender and believes that gender dysphoria is an essential trait.", "sentence": "Being proud of being truscum is like expressing that you're proud to be a transmisic/exorsexist bigot, a racist, or anything else bigoted.", "communities": [ "transgender" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "asktransgender", "date": "2024-03-26 04:18:37", "timestamp": 1711423117.0 } }, { "id": "170464", "term": "spiro", "definition": "Clipping of spironolactone.", "sentence": "Anti-androgens like spiro are used in early transition as a way of getting T under control, but you should not need them forever.", "communities": [ "transgender" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "asktransgender", "date": "2025-01-08 22:08:24", "timestamp": 1736370504.0 } }, { "id": "101442", "term": "bipoly", "definition": "Of or relating to a person who is bisexual and polyamorous.", "sentence": "I believe his of is also bipoly", "communities": [ "bisexual" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "bisexual", "date": "2018-11-04 05:10:47", "timestamp": 1541304647.0 } }, { "id": "169397", "term": "manmoder", "definition": "One who is in manmode (presenting as male regardless of gender identity).", "sentence": "Sincerly yours, a manmoder often passing as a dyke that tried skirts.", "communities": [ "transgender" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "MtF", "date": "2025-05-10 01:40:04", "timestamp": 1746834004.0 } }, { "id": "101601", "term": "femby", "definition": "A slang term sometimes used to refer to femme enbies (non-binary people) or non-binary women. A portmanteau of \"femme\" and \"enby\".", "sentence": "And femby rights appeared", "communities": [ "nonbinary" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "traaaaaaannnnnnnnnns", "date": "2019-02-15 13:31:27", "timestamp": 1550233887.0 } }, { "id": "151310", "term": "boywife", "definition": "A young male assuming the employment of homemaking, a role traditionally assumed by women; the submissive partner in the relationship who receives great pleasure in \"taking care\" of his more dominant partner.", "sentence": "heard of a boywife?", "communities": [ "gay" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "AskLGBT", "date": "2025-02-14 01:04:38", "timestamp": 1739491478.0 } }, { "id": "113688", "term": "high femme", "definition": "A femme person who expresses their gender in ultra feminine ways. Often, but not exclusively, this refers to a queer woman.", "sentence": "I have a sneaking suspicion a lot of my daily looks would fall into the high femme category.", "communities": [ "lesbian" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "MtF", "date": "2024-10-05 02:16:06", "timestamp": 1728087366.0 } }, { "id": "86214", "term": "stud", "definition": "ā€¢ Community term for an African-American and/or Latinx masculine queer woman. Also known as \"ag.\" Only use if someone self-describes in this way, and avoid using for white people, as this is a term specifically developed by and for African-American and Latinx communities.\nā€¢ A masculine or butch lesbian; predominantly utilized in Black and Latina lesbian communities. Should not be used by individuals outside of those communities, as it may be seen as pejorative. Sometimes expanded to refer to other gender identities and expressions.", "sentence": "Either with studs or femme, I can't stop thinking about being in a relationship with another female.", "communities": [ "lesbian", "Latine lesbian", "African-American lesbian" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "comingout", "date": "2025-06-05 04:33:53", "timestamp": 1749090833.0 } }, { "id": "116794", "term": "seahorse dad", "definition": "Slang term for a transgender man who is carrying, or has carried, a child to term.", "sentence": "I might want to be a father someday, but not a seahorse dad, if that makes sense.", "communities": [ "transmasculine" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "trans", "date": "2024-02-23 01:10:06", "timestamp": 1708647006.0 } }, { "id": "168385", "term": "hatchling", "definition": "A person who has (especially recently) realized that they are transgender.", "sentence": "I'm also a hatchling.", "communities": [ "transgender" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "MtF", "date": "2023-06-19 01:42:33", "timestamp": 1687131753.0 } }, { "id": "101667", "term": "enbyfriend", "definition": "A nonbinary sexual and/or romantic partner.", "sentence": "Partner, joyfriend, and enbyfriend are my faves", "communities": [ "nonbinary" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "asktransgender", "date": "2023-02-28 18:06:09", "timestamp": 1677603969.0 } }, { "id": "214514", "term": "punks", "definition": "A slang term with multiple meanings depending on context. Originally used to refer to a sex worker or prostitute, especially a passive or feminine gay man (or a bottom). By the early 20th century, used to refer to a person considered worthless or criminal in nature. By the 1970s, used to refer to punk rock, a punk rocker, or to the sociocultural movement associated with punk rock and its fans. In the modern gay male community, the term \"punk\" may refer to a smaller, typically younger gay man who is forced into a submissive role in prison settings by an older gay man. Also occasionally used as a synonym for \"clock\" or \"read\", i.e. when a cisgender person recognizes a person as transgender.", "sentence": "Black flag FTW, but I wish I could find info on gay punks during that era.", "communities": [ "transgender", "gay male" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "askgaybros", "date": "2016-07-16 09:21:03", "timestamp": 1468653663.0 } }, { "id": "106678", "term": "repressor", "definition": "A transgender person who fights or represses the wish to change their gender expression.", "sentence": "Potential: >!FtM repressor 11-6 !<", "communities": [ "transgender" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "transgendercirclejerk", "date": "2022-12-22 16:00:26", "timestamp": 1671721226.0 } }, { "id": "942", "term": "gender identity", "definition": "A personal identity one develops in childhood that one belongs to a gender category, multiple gender categories, or no gender categories.", "sentence": "And I was sort of writing this character of myself who was really struggling with gender identity and things like that.", "communities": [], "metadata": { "source": "Podcasts", "title": "How To Fail With Elizabeth Day" } }, { "id": "211301", "term": "faggoty", "definition": "A pejorative term used chiefly in North America primarily to refer to a gay man. Alongside its use to refer to gay men in particular, it may also be used as a pejorative term for a \"repellent man\" or to refer to women who are lesbian (or to transgender people, typically transgender women). Its use has spread from the United States to varying extents elsewhere in the English-speaking world through mass culture, including film, music, and the Internet.", "sentence": ">oh yeah, I look faggoty af", "communities": [], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "transgendercirclejerk", "date": "2025-07-22 12:32:03", "timestamp": 1753180323.0 } }, { "id": "107794", "term": "full-time", "definition": "A term which refers to a transgender person living as their gender for the entirety of their day-to-day life, at work, at home, etc.", "sentence": "Top right November 2008 Already out of the closet with my now-ex, hair growing out, etc (six months before full-time)", "communities": [ "transgender" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "transpassing", "date": "2025-03-19 12:58:44", "timestamp": 1742385524.0 } }, { "id": "84402", "term": "homo", "definition": "Shortened form of \"homosexual.\" Often derogatory.", "sentence": "For reference, Iā€™m Hispanic + 28 yrs old working in tech and would be down to hang with some local queers n homos to expand my friend network.", "communities": [], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "nycgaybros", "date": "2025-04-10 07:25:54", "timestamp": 1744262754.0 } }, { "id": "91868", "term": "gag", "definition": "To have an intense reaction, usually of shock or excitement. Also: to show intense jealousy or to have an appearance deemed good enough to cause such jealousy.", "sentence": "Bitch I was gagged too šŸ˜­šŸ˜­", "communities": [ "drag" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "rupaulsdragrace", "date": "2025-05-29 18:11:47", "timestamp": 1748535107.0 } }, { "id": "107941", "term": "crossdreaming", "definition": "Dreams or fantasies in which a person imagines themself as (or simply dressed as) the \"opposite\" gender (i.e. a man as a woman or a woman as a man).", "sentence": "I know some believe crossdreaming to be a manifestation of dysphoria, others believe it to be legitimate or not always indicative of wanting to transition.", "communities": [ "transgender", "cross-dressing" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "ask_transgender", "date": "2016-06-21 05:31:03", "timestamp": 1466479863.0 } }, { "id": "41460", "term": "girl", "definition": "Sometimes used as a slur for a gay man, assuming that being \"feminine\" is \"lower status.\" Therefore offensive to gay men and to women more generally. More often used as a (now widely recognised) term of affection between gay men, though more likely as a friendly term than as a romantic one.", "sentence": "My friend could call me and be like,, let's go do brunch, girl.", "communities": [], "metadata": { "source": "Podcasts", "title": "Keep it Positive, Sweetie" } }, { "id": "115092", "term": "chapstick lesbian", "definition": "A lesbian who exhibits some butch traits (short hair, stereotypical men's clothing, etc.) without wholly fitting the masculine butch stereotype; alternatively, a lesbian who is athletic or has a keen interest in sports.", "sentence": "Also, a bit more chapstick lesbian-like as well.", "communities": [ "lesbian" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "transtimelines", "date": "2025-07-12 21:35:49", "timestamp": 1752348949.0 } }, { "id": "103277", "term": "part-time", "definition": "A term which refers to a transgender person living as their gender for only part of their day-to-day life for any of various reasons; i.e. they may not present at work in fear of getting fired.", "sentence": "Do you know any examples of (fiction, live-action or animated) films and TV shows that show crossdressers, genderfluid individuals, part-time girls etc.", "communities": [ "transgender" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "crossdressing", "date": "2024-12-07 18:20:25", "timestamp": 1733592025.0 } }, { "id": "146642", "term": "passoid", "definition": "A transgender person who is passing.", "sentence": "Being called a BDD Passoid gave me a speck of hope that made the next few times after I got misgendered hurt 100x harder", "communities": [], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "transgendercirclejerk", "date": "2024-04-22 20:53:07", "timestamp": 1713811987.0 } }, { "id": "92155", "term": "outta face", "definition": "Out of drag.", "sentence": "This past monday my partner and I were at a local bar in Portland Oregon watching Rupaul's Drag Race, and I am 99.9% sure Magnolia Crawford was there outta face.", "communities": [ "drag" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "rupaulsdragrace", "date": "2014-04-30 23:43:11", "timestamp": 1398894191.0 } }, { "id": "202099", "term": "trutrans", "definition": "A genuine or legitimate transgender person.", "sentence": "imo, this kind of person is of a trutrans mentality where", "communities": [ "transgender" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "MtF", "date": "2019-06-26 14:53:43", "timestamp": 1561553623.0 } }, { "id": "115406", "term": "pillow princess", "definition": "A woman who likes to receive and not give, sexually.", "sentence": "You aren't a stone top, and she appears to actually be a pillow princess.", "communities": [ "lesbian" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "actuallesbians", "date": "2023-12-04 14:56:00", "timestamp": 1701698160.0 } }, { "id": "149504", "term": "the house down", "definition": "Used as an intensifier: very, to a great degree; exceptionally.", "sentence": "uhm yas queen skinny legend versace boots the house down slay queen hunty momma annaoop daddy werk *pop* charlixcx snatch my wig", "communities": [ "drag" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "Drag", "date": "2021-03-21 15:47:42", "timestamp": 1616338062.0 } }, { "id": "101679", "term": "enbyfriend", "definition": "A nonbinary sexual and/or romantic partner.", "sentence": "Bathroom wise I was walking around campus today with my enbyfriend and realized that I could start using the menā€™s washrooms.", "communities": [ "nonbinary" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "ftm", "date": "2018-09-04 02:53:36", "timestamp": 1536022416.0 } }, { "id": "103266", "term": "cissplain", "definition": "To explain transgender issues, people or behavior to a trans person (as a cis person) in a condescending manner, presuming the listenerā€™s inferior understanding.", "sentence": "I want to extend an apology to anyone I have hurt by my persistent cissplaining.", "communities": [ "transgender" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "transgender", "date": "2012-02-09 16:05:28", "timestamp": 1328799928.0 } }, { "id": "158903", "term": "duderus", "definition": "The uterus of a trans man.", "sentence": "All those years wanting a penis and a flat chest, hating my Duderus, dreaming of becoming muscular, were simply just \"I wanna change my body lololol.\"", "communities": [ "transgender" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "transgendercirclejerk", "date": "2018-10-31 17:58:25", "timestamp": 1541005105.0 } }, { "id": "101637", "term": "theydy", "definition": "A mostly humorous slang term sometimes used to replace \"lady\" in overly gendered contexts. For instance, using \"theydies and gentlethems\" instead of \"ladies and gentlemen\".", "sentence": "But like are you a Gentlethem or Theydy?", "communities": [ "nonbinary" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "transgendercirclejerk", "date": "2021-05-04 01:15:30", "timestamp": 1620083730.0 } }, { "id": "123691", "term": "hunk", "definition": "A muscular, handsome gay man.", "sentence": "twunk = hunky twink.", "communities": [ "gay male" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "askgaybros", "date": "2024-10-19 01:35:40", "timestamp": 1729294540.0 } }, { "id": "168295", "term": "girlcum", "definition": "The semen produced by a trans woman.", "sentence": "they suck each other's girlcum and eventually stop needing estrogen altogether.", "communities": [ "transgender" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "transgendercirclejerk", "date": "2024-11-03 23:11:39", "timestamp": 1730671899.0 } }, { "id": "110165", "term": "outie", "definition": "A term sometimes used to refer to the external genitalia of a transfeminine person.", "sentence": "Her guy says he constructs a vagina that fits the size of the individual woman's body, pretty much regardless of the length of the outie that is being inverted.", "communities": [ "transfeminine" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "asktransgender", "date": "2012-03-01 22:53:29", "timestamp": 1330638809.0 } }, { "id": "115714", "term": "stem", "definition": "A lesbian defined as having a gender presentation between stud (st-) and femme (-em).", "sentence": "how are everyone else's experiences as stem lesbians?", "communities": [ "lesbian" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "actuallesbians", "date": "2025-04-05 20:22:13", "timestamp": 1743877333.0 } }, { "id": "101518", "term": "enban", "definition": "An adult nonbinary person.", "sentence": "I am an enban, but like barely, at least comparatively.", "communities": [ "nonbinary" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "NonBinary", "date": "2024-07-18 19:06:29", "timestamp": 1721322389.0 } }, { "id": "170434", "term": "shenis", "definition": "The penis of a trans woman.", "sentence": "My shenis is small enough it barely makes a bulge anyways.", "communities": [ "transgender" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "traaaaaaannnnnnnnnns", "date": "2019-01-19 00:29:22", "timestamp": 1547854162.0 } }, { "id": "106787", "term": "girlmode", "definition": "When a transgender person presents a gender expression codified as female, typically if that person is a transgender man. Usually used in the context of going incognito as a cisgender woman.", "sentence": "My initial plan was to girlmode until I can't anymore, and it's definitely getting harder.", "communities": [ "transgender", "transgender" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "ftm", "date": "2025-05-12 03:11:39", "timestamp": 1747012299.0 } }, { "id": "106480", "term": "deadnaming", "definition": "Calling a transgender person by their \"deadname\" (oftentimes their birth name, but not always).", "sentence": "Purposeful misgendering or deadnaming is on the same level as calling someone a slur.", "communities": [ "transgender" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "lgbt", "date": "2023-07-11 01:54:45", "timestamp": 1689033285.0 } }, { "id": "115177", "term": "soft butch", "definition": "A lesbian who exhibits some stereotypical butch traits without fitting the masculine stereotype associated with butch lesbians.", "sentence": "3) I still prefer a more soft butch / q dapper / masculine like appearance with some fem mixed in (I know this doesn't mean I'm not trans)", "communities": [ "lesbian" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "MtF", "date": "2022-04-18 19:00:31", "timestamp": 1650301231.0 } }, { "id": "96997", "term": "total bottom", "definition": "A total bottom is someone who assumes an exclusively passive or receptive role during anal or oral intercourse.", "sentence": "(But also I'm not a total bottom.)", "communities": [ "LGBTQ" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "gaysian", "date": "2021-06-11 00:09:11", "timestamp": 1623362951.0 } }, { "id": "116662", "term": "chub4chub", "definition": "Someone who identifies as a chub who is sexually and/or romanticly interested in other self-identified chubs (\"chub\" meaning \"a gay man who is overweight or obese\").", "sentence": "Have you tried listing your dating profile that you're chub4chub?", "communities": [ "chub" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "AskLGBT", "date": "2022-05-01 07:53:34", "timestamp": 1651384414.0 } }, { "id": "119411", "term": "masc4masc", "definition": "A phrase used to describe a masculine gay man interested in other masculine gay men romantically and/or sexually.", "sentence": "Just not super into the whole masc4masc vibe, yā€™know?", "communities": [ "gay male" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "lgbt", "date": "2025-06-28 23:54:47", "timestamp": 1751147687.0 } }, { "id": "165238", "term": "euphoria boner", "definition": "An erection of the penis in a trans woman, caused by strong feelings of gender euphoria.", "sentence": "Get a euphoria boner when thinking about vaginoplasty...", "communities": [ "transgender" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "asktransgender", "date": "2024-04-30 16:55:07", "timestamp": 1714488907.0 } }, { "id": "101509", "term": "enban", "definition": "An adult nonbinary person.", "sentence": "\"I am a non-binary adult, also known as an enban!\"", "communities": [ "nonbinary" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "transgendercirclejerk", "date": "2021-11-13 18:27:15", "timestamp": 1636824435.0 } }, { "id": "124652", "term": "cruising", "definition": "To walk or drive about a locality in search of a sex partner, usually of the anonymous, casual, one-time variety.", "sentence": "But what is cruising and how do guys do it in 2024?", "communities": [ "gay male" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "gaybros", "date": "2024-02-20 20:26:29", "timestamp": 1708457189.0 } }, { "id": "75518", "term": "chaser", "definition": "Short for \"tranny chaser.\" A person who sees trans people (usually trans women) as inherently sexual, and sexually objectifies them. As opposed to someone who simply is predominantly attracted to trans women; a chaser does not view trans women respectfully as people with humanity and agency, but rather as players in a sexual fantasy.", "sentence": "I kinda seek out chasers for dating/fucking.", "communities": [], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "ftm", "date": "2014-04-11 21:44:30", "timestamp": 1397245470.0 } }, { "id": "146840", "term": "boots", "definition": "Used as an intensifier: very, to a great degree; exceptionally.", "sentence": "Person 2: Slay the house down boots, momma, you better werq!", "communities": [ "drag" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "gay", "date": "2024-10-11 01:17:34", "timestamp": 1728602254.0 } }, { "id": "213187", "term": "muscle mary", "definition": "A sports enthusiast; usually one who frequents gyms and training grounds; often used of young gay men obsessed with body building.", "sentence": "Like if you go to a gay sex club/bar or sauna muscle Marys are the minority.", "communities": [], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "askgaybros", "date": "2022-10-14 10:37:52", "timestamp": 1665736672.0 } }, { "id": "203175", "term": "cunty", "definition": "Amazing or very good or cool, especially with regard to femininity.", "sentence": "Oh he cunty āœØ", "communities": [], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "gaymers", "date": "2025-03-15 20:35:06", "timestamp": 1742067306.0 } }, { "id": "206467", "term": "transfemby", "definition": "A transfeminine nonbinary person.", "sentence": "i use the term enby because it's conversational and cute and i like it and i call myself transfemby", "communities": [], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "lgbt", "date": "2024-12-19 20:27:13", "timestamp": 1734636433.0 } }, { "id": "76463", "term": "dyke", "definition": "Contested terminology. Slur for lesbian, highly offensive if applied to a lesbian or transmasc person externally. Term has been reclaimed by some lesbians communities, and is sometimes used affirmingly within communities.\"Bulldyke\" and \"bulldagger\" are often used to indicate butch or masculine queer women, sometimes with overtones of toughness or aggression.", "sentence": "so, of course, my parents and sister are always cracking jokes about me being a dyke or butch lesbian.", "communities": [], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "comingout", "date": "2019-08-14 10:00:07", "timestamp": 1565769607.0 } }, { "id": "112513", "term": "boydyke", "definition": "A woman with a somewhat masculine presentation.", "sentence": "I do like boydyke, but itā€™s bc ā€œgirlfag boydykeā€ has been rotating in my brain for the past few months.", "communities": [ "lesbian", "transmasculine" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "NonBinary", "date": "2024-01-16 02:01:53", "timestamp": 1705366913.0 } }, { "id": "83338", "term": "giver", "definition": "Slang for the \"active\" role during gay sex. The giver/taker binary is now largely acknowledged as artificial and heteronormative.", "sentence": "So many people (family,friends, and even strangers) ask me things like ā€œare you a taker or a giver?ā€ I feel like this is a personal question.", "communities": [], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "gaybros", "date": "2023-08-15 03:35:42", "timestamp": 1692063342.0 } }, { "id": "107793", "term": "full-time", "definition": "A term which refers to a transgender person living as their gender for the entirety of their day-to-day life, at work, at home, etc.", "sentence": "hoping to start presenting full-time soon.", "communities": [ "transgender" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "transtimelines", "date": "2025-02-16 23:21:41", "timestamp": 1739744501.0 } }, { "id": "156224", "term": "snow queen", "definition": "A black gay man who prefers to have relations with white men.", "sentence": "If I say I find Ed Sheeran attractive \"Oh you self hating faggot snow queen.", "communities": [ "gay" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "askgaybros", "date": "2019-05-15 09:30:18", "timestamp": 1557905418.0 } }, { "id": "99776", "term": "queer coding", "definition": "A situation in which a character is given traits or behaviors which suggest they are not heterosexual and/or cisgender, without the character being outright confirmed as having such an identity.", "sentence": "i had one friend who took queer coding really seriously.", "communities": [ "LGBTQ" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "bisexual", "date": "2025-05-07 22:40:08", "timestamp": 1746650408.0 } }, { "id": "134015", "term": "androgynous", "definition": "Of clothing or accessories, making a person's identity as male or female not immediately apparent to observers.", "sentence": "#4 is pretty androgynous but not fully there *if* that's the goal", "communities": [], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "lgbt", "date": "2024-12-21 04:54:20", "timestamp": 1734753260.0 } }, { "id": "117940", "term": "batty boy", "definition": "ā€¢ A pejorative term in Jamaican Patois often used to refer to a gay or feminine man.\nā€¢ A gay man.", "sentence": "There were three other guys at the urinals and they started saying things like ā€œdonā€™t be gayā€ and ā€œdonā€™t be a batty boyā€ to each other.", "communities": [ "gay male" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "askgaybros", "date": "2025-05-23 15:51:12", "timestamp": 1748008272.0 } }, { "id": "1580", "term": "lgbt", "definition": "Initialism for lesbian, gay, bisexual, and transgender.", "sentence": "Over the past couple of decades, the fight for LGBT rights has experienced many landmark victories.", "communities": [], "metadata": { "source": "Podcasts", "title": "The Witch Trials of J.K. Rowling" } }, { "id": "227831", "term": "coming out", "definition": "A metaphor for LGBTQIA+ people's self-disclosure of their sexual orientation or of their gender identity. The term coming out can also be used in various non-LGBTQIA+ applications (e.g. atheists). Framed and debated as a privacy issue, coming out of the closet is described and experienced variously as a psychological process or journey; decision-making or risk-taking; a strategy or plan; a mass or public event; a speech act and a matter of personal identity; a rite of passage; liberation or emancipation from oppression; an ordeal; a means toward feeling gay pride instead of shame and social stigma; or even career suicide. Author Steven Seidman writes that \"it is the power of the closet to shape the core of an individual's life that has made homosexuality into a significant personal, social, and political drama in twentieth-century America\".", "sentence": "Telling Yukako is coming out of the closet.", "communities": [ "LGBTQ" ], "metadata": { "source": "OpenSubtitles", "title": "Love My Life", "imdb_id": "923779" } }, { "id": "83748", "term": "gym rat", "definition": "A sports enthusiast; usually one who frequents gyms and training grounds; often used of young gay men obsessed with body building.", "sentence": "Maybe I'm just a gym rat, but whatever.", "communities": [], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "bisexual", "date": "2022-03-14 01:11:02", "timestamp": 1647216662.0 } }, { "id": "158813", "term": "cunt", "definition": "ā€¢ The anus of a trans woman.\nā€¢ The inguinal canals of a trans woman.\nā€¢ Amazing or very good.", "sentence": "This is cunt as hell and Iā€™m obsessed.", "communities": [ "transgender" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "Drag", "date": "2025-06-30 21:58:36", "timestamp": 1751313516.0 } }, { "id": "89582", "term": "top", "definition": "ā€¢ A \"top\" is an individual who acts as the \"giving\" partner in sexual encounters. Sometimes used as a self-descriptor within queer communities, but should be replicated with caution. Sometimes used as a verb (\"to top someone\"). Offensive if applied to LGBTQ+ individuals from outwith queer communities.\nā€¢ Someone, typically a man, who is penetrating someone else during sexual intercourse or someone who has a preference for penetrating during such intercourse.", "sentence": "OP is not wrong, but this goes for more than just femme top/butch/masc bottom dynamics.", "communities": [ "LGBTQ" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "lesbian", "date": "2024-05-09 12:33:24", "timestamp": 1715250804.0 } }, { "id": "205386", "term": "lesboy", "definition": "A person who identifies as male and as a lesbian.", "sentence": "And last I have seen men identify as lesbian, lesboy, lesbian men, or people dating men calling their relationship a lesbian one.", "communities": [], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "AskLGBT", "date": "2022-03-08 15:36:57", "timestamp": 1646750217.0 } }, { "id": "116496", "term": "chub", "definition": "A gay man who is overweight or obese; typically (but not always) derogatory.", "sentence": "I'm also tired of paying for content where there is a bear involved but they are just muscle not really Chub", "communities": [ "gay", "chub" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "askgaybros", "date": "2024-08-30 15:58:00", "timestamp": 1725026280.0 } }, { "id": "106627", "term": "baby trans", "definition": "Someone who has recently discovered that they are transgender.", "sentence": "I ran into another transmasc who told me that that I should have picked a different name and not one that every baby trans masc picks (Ash) :(", "communities": [ "transgender", "transgender" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "ftm", "date": "2025-01-30 14:19:38", "timestamp": 1738243178.0 } }, { "id": "154614", "term": "henny", "definition": "Alternative spelling of honey.", "sentence": "Heroes never die, henny!", "communities": [ "gay" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "gaymers", "date": "2017-09-07 20:28:40", "timestamp": 1504808920.0 } }, { "id": "114692", "term": "bambi lesbian", "definition": "A lesbian who identifies as bambi-sexual, i.e. being more interested in kissing, carressing, cuddling, etc. than genital stimulation or sexual intercourse.", "sentence": "That said, I still identify as a lesbian, especially bambi lesbian, thatā€™s what feels most me.", "communities": [ "lesbian" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "lgbt", "date": "2025-05-30 02:31:31", "timestamp": 1748565091.0 } }, { "id": "155466", "term": "rice queen", "definition": "A non-Asian man who is mostly attracted to East Asian men.", "sentence": "So yeah, if you're a rice queen or just want an easier way to say you like Asian Muscle Daddies, just say AMD.", "communities": [ "gay" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "gaymers", "date": "2022-08-08 07:01:12", "timestamp": 1659934872.0 } }, { "id": "108927", "term": "cotton ceiling", "definition": "A term used for the tendency for cisgender lesbians to not want to engage in sexual activities with transgender women, particular those who have not yet undergone feminizing genitoplasty; or, more broadly, the tendency for cisgender lesbians to exclude transgender women from spaces.", "sentence": "Holy shit, so much misunderstanding in this about what the term cotton ceiling actually means.", "communities": [ "transfeminine", "lesbian" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "asktransgender", "date": "2017-05-09 11:38:45", "timestamp": 1494322725.0 } }, { "id": "99310", "term": "power bottom", "definition": "A power bottom is someone who aggressively enjoys being the receptive partner.", "sentence": "If the place is haunted, and theyā€™re all power bottoms, some ghosts are gonna get ridden.", "communities": [ "LGBTQ" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "SuddenlyGay", "date": "2020-10-07 16:33:07", "timestamp": 1602081187.0 } }, { "id": "112518", "term": "celesbian", "definition": "A famous lesbian; a lesbian who is a celebrity.", "sentence": "Up on celesbian gossip, can bring hummus.", "communities": [ "lesbian" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "queerottawa", "date": "2019-02-12 18:27:11", "timestamp": 1549992431.0 } }, { "id": "102308", "term": "ace", "definition": "Asexual; an asexual person.", "sentence": "And for all the other lucky aces that werenā€™t bullied as well!", "communities": [ "asexual" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "lgbt", "date": "2021-01-18 10:08:44", "timestamp": 1610960924.0 } }, { "id": "203479", "term": "doll", "definition": "A transgender woman or transfeminine person.", "sentence": "It is also used within broader queer culture as a colloquial and familiar term for trans women, such as fashion designer Connor Ivesā€™ recently popular ā€œProtect The Dollsā€ tshirt.", "communities": [], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "MtF", "date": "2025-04-16 20:39:05", "timestamp": 1744828745.0 } }, { "id": "169406", "term": "mones", "definition": "Hormones used as part of hormone replacement therapy, especially for transgender or gender variant individuals.", "sentence": "ive been on 'mones for almost 8 months now", "communities": [], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "ftm", "date": "2025-02-26 21:08:24", "timestamp": 1740600504.0 } }, { "id": "222952", "term": "straight", "definition": "Of a person, being sexually attracted to individuals of the opposite gender in a binary gender system; heterosexual.", "sentence": "Falling in love with a straight man.", "communities": [], "metadata": { "source": "OpenSubtitles", "title": "Bedrooms and Hallways", "imdb_id": "126810" } }, { "id": "115115", "term": "stone femme", "definition": "A lesbian identity patterned after the term \"stone butch\". It may variously refer to: a femme that is a bottom, a femme that is attracted to or partner with someone who is butch, a femme who does not wish to touch her partners' genitalia, or a femme who is sexually stone, i.e. they do not wish to be touched in the genital area (and therefore they usually top).", "sentence": "Not that lots of people aren't okay with being in a relationship with a stone femme/butch/whatever, I don't think I would be able to handle it.", "communities": [ "lesbian" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "actuallesbians", "date": "2013-12-10 08:29:37", "timestamp": 1386660577.0 } }, { "id": "157831", "term": "bonus hole", "definition": "The vulva or vagina of a trans man.", "sentence": "On the other hand, trans men tend to be fetishized in gay porn as bottoms (the bonus hole boy kink).", "communities": [ "transgender" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "asktransgender", "date": "2021-08-17 16:50:57", "timestamp": 1629211857.0 } }, { "id": "114770", "term": "butch dyke", "definition": "A butch lesbian. \"Butch\" is often used to describe a wide variety of gender expressions and identities adjacent to masculinity or \"butchilinity\".", "sentence": "I think gray hair looks great on me...and any other butch dyke too!", "communities": [ "lesbian" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "olderlesbians", "date": "2022-04-09 22:15:11", "timestamp": 1649535311.0 } }, { "id": "157818", "term": "anticistamines", "definition": "Medication used for transgender hormone replacement therapy.", "sentence": "I wish people would just leave our brothers and sisters on anticistamines alone tbh.", "communities": [ "transgender" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "gay", "date": "2024-07-20 08:12:27", "timestamp": 1721455947.0 } }, { "id": "114761", "term": "butch dyke", "definition": "A butch lesbian. \"Butch\" is often used to describe a wide variety of gender expressions and identities adjacent to masculinity or \"butchilinity\".", "sentence": "Not much of a difference between butch dyke and gayboy, honestly.", "communities": [ "lesbian" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "lesbianfashionadvice", "date": "2024-04-11 19:22:41", "timestamp": 1712856161.0 } }, { "id": "146736", "term": "youngshit", "definition": "A transgender person who began transitioning at a young age.", "sentence": "Her:Youngshit is someone who started hormones young, Iā€™m a youngshit", "communities": [], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "asktransgender", "date": "2024-06-20 02:30:24", "timestamp": 1718843424.0 } }, { "id": "127675", "term": "down low", "definition": "Typically referring to a man who identifies publicly as heterosexual, but engages in covert sexual relationships with other men.", "sentence": "I Cannot stand Down Low guys!", "communities": [ "African-American gay male" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "gay", "date": "2025-01-19 01:54:10", "timestamp": 1737248050.0 } }, { "id": "209090", "term": "yass", "definition": "A strong expression of excitement or admiration.", "sentence": "Even in the gay bars I get jokes from regulars that Iā€™m too dude bro instead of yass Queen.", "communities": [], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "gaybros", "date": "2023-07-23 20:16:01", "timestamp": 1690136161.0 } }, { "id": "118716", "term": "gold star gay", "definition": "A gay person who has never had sex with a person of the opposite gender.", "sentence": "Does kissing a girl during spin the bottle but never feeling a vagina count as being a gold star gay?", "communities": [ "gay male" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "askgaybros", "date": "2020-10-12 07:18:59", "timestamp": 1602479939.0 } }, { "id": "151559", "term": "chickenhawk", "definition": "An older, usually more powerful man who preys on adolescent boys for sex.", "sentence": "One of them was your typical chickenhawk type in his 50s.", "communities": [ "gay" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "askgaybros", "date": "2018-04-28 17:25:08", "timestamp": 1524929108.0 } }, { "id": "6595", "term": "dirt", "definition": "ā€¢ Slang for an individual who blackmails or robs a gay person.\nā€¢ Gossip; rumor; scandal; criticism.\nā€¢ Heroin\nā€¢ A tobacco cigarette.", "sentence": "He then hired a private investigator to like dig up dirt on this guy, which the guy did not, he produced a bunch of fake stuff, right?", "communities": [ "gay male" ], "metadata": { "source": "Podcasts", "title": "Tomorrow" } }, { "id": "228156", "term": "crush", "definition": "An infatuation with somebody, typically someone that one is not dating. By extension, the object of such infatuation or affection.", "sentence": "Idaho Guy is Benji's newest crush.", "communities": [ "LGBTQ" ], "metadata": { "source": "OpenSubtitles", "title": "The Broken Hearts Club: A Romantic Comedy", "imdb_id": "222850" } }, { "id": "108429", "term": "t4t", "definition": "Short form of \"trans for trans\", indicating transgender persons interested in other transgender persons romantically and/or sexually.", "sentence": "I'm pretty sure you can filter so your results are effectively t4t but I've just started using Feeld and I've been making some actual human connections without a single dickpic.", "communities": [ "transgender" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "transgenderau", "date": "2024-11-14 15:12:01", "timestamp": 1731593521.0 } }, { "id": "119520", "term": "no homo", "definition": "A phrase used as slang at the end of a sentence to assert the statement spoken by the speaker had no intentional homosexual implications. The phrase is also \"added to a statement in order to rid of a possible homosexual double-entendre\".", "sentence": "What about ā€œno no homoā€", "communities": [ "gay male" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "lgbt", "date": "2020-03-16 03:44:12", "timestamp": 1584326652.0 } }, { "id": "499", "term": "discreet", "definition": "Not drawing attention, anger or challenge; inconspicuous.", "sentence": "But it's a little, one of the things that has been very, I think, tricky about this is there's one world where they're trying to achieve something very discreet.", "communities": [ "LGBTQ" ], "metadata": { "source": "Podcasts", "title": "The Ezra Klein Show" } }, { "id": "101779", "term": "enby", "definition": "A nonbinary person, typically a young adult or an adolescent.", "sentence": "I'm an enby and I mainly use they/them but I also like male pronouns like mister, sir, etc.", "communities": [ "nonbinary" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "LGBTeens", "date": "2023-12-30 03:29:22", "timestamp": 1703903362.0 } }, { "id": "223487", "term": "walk", "definition": "To enter a particular category in a vogue, ballroom, or drag competition.", "sentence": "\" you have to walk a ball for us.", "communities": [], "metadata": { "source": "OpenSubtitles", "title": "Paris Is Burning", "imdb_id": "100332" } }, { "id": "1765", "term": "kink", "definition": "ā€¢ A specific sexual desire, practice, or activity considered unconventional but within certain socially constructed boundaries.\nā€¢ A thief or burglar.", "sentence": "No kink shaming here.", "communities": [], "metadata": { "source": "Podcasts", "title": "How To Fail With Elizabeth Day" } }, { "id": "91873", "term": "gag", "definition": "To have an intense reaction, usually of shock or excitement. Also: to show intense jealousy or to have an appearance deemed good enough to cause such jealousy.", "sentence": "I love the gagging of Rupaul..Her commentary was everything lol Brooke turned that runway OUT with her performance", "communities": [ "drag" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "rupaulsdragrace", "date": "2020-04-29 12:03:39", "timestamp": 1588154619.0 } }, { "id": "211936", "term": "flip flop", "definition": "Slang to indicate either 1) bisexuality or 2) a person that likes to switch between \"top\" and \"bottom\" roles during sex. Especially used by incarcerated people in the US.", "sentence": "Me and my boyfriend like flip flopping occasionally.", "communities": [], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "askgaybros", "date": "2016-12-14 19:41:08", "timestamp": 1481740868.0 } }, { "id": "113694", "term": "high femme", "definition": "A femme person who expresses their gender in ultra feminine ways. Often, but not exclusively, this refers to a queer woman.", "sentence": "The queen of the high femme court šŸ™Œ", "communities": [ "lesbian" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "trans", "date": "2020-10-01 07:01:06", "timestamp": 1601528466.0 } }, { "id": "170465", "term": "spiro", "definition": "Clipping of spironolactone.", "sentence": "2, There are other AAs available which are not diuretics like spiro is.", "communities": [ "transgender" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "asktransgender", "date": "2025-01-08 22:08:24", "timestamp": 1736370504.0 } }, { "id": "110414", "term": "Eve's apple", "definition": "A transfeminine slang term coined to replace the masculine sounding \"Adam's apple\".", "sentence": "- **So my Eve's Apple has been raised sooo...** Now, pretend your throat from a side view looks like a lowercase 'b'.", "communities": [ "transfeminine" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "transvoice", "date": "2018-02-12 01:49:49", "timestamp": 1518396589.0 } }, { "id": "123941", "term": "poof", "definition": "An offensive term referring to a gay man or a feminine man. Used chiefly in Britain, Australia, and New Zealand.", "sentence": "A kid leaned over to me and said ā€œyour dress makes you look like a poofā€.", "communities": [ "gay male" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "trans", "date": "2024-11-20 01:02:26", "timestamp": 1732060946.0 } }, { "id": "222967", "term": "straight", "definition": "Of a person, being sexually attracted to individuals of the opposite gender in a binary gender system; heterosexual.", "sentence": "Some of my best friends are... straight?", "communities": [], "metadata": { "source": "OpenSubtitles", "title": "Billy's Hollywood Screen Kiss", "imdb_id": "137386" } }, { "id": "151260", "term": "bitchboy", "definition": "A bottom, usually a younger, submissive male.", "sentence": "I'm pretty sure bitchboy is like a homophobic term for a guy who is being made to play a submissive role in like prison.", "communities": [ "gay" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "MtF", "date": "2022-11-26 19:18:38", "timestamp": 1669486718.0 } }, { "id": "157493", "term": "vers", "definition": "ā€¢ LGBTQ+ community slang for someone who \"switches\" between the \"giving\" and \"receiving\" during sex. \"Vers\" is short for \"versatile.\" \"Switch\" is sometimes also used in a BDSM context, to indicate someone who \"switches\" between the dominant and submissive roles.\nā€¢ One who is willing to take either a submissive or a dominant role in a sexual relationship.", "sentence": "I might say that only one out of ten of my partners are genuine vers guys like me.", "communities": [ "gay" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "gaybros", "date": "2023-10-29 16:29:37", "timestamp": 1698593377.0 } }, { "id": "77778", "term": "fag stag", "definition": "A heterosexual man who socializes predominantly with gay men.", "sentence": "Most of my social interaction is coming from my brother and my best friend and fag stag whose name for the sake of conversation will be Bradley.", "communities": [ "gay male" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "LGBTeens", "date": "2013-11-20 08:51:25", "timestamp": 1384933885.0 } }, { "id": "94361", "term": "opulence", "definition": "A term sometimes used in drag subculture to refer to a mindset in which one has more resources than needed to live in complete luxury; alternatively, the state in which someone is extremely wealthy and lives in luxury.", "sentence": "For them, any display of opulence is testament to their success.", "communities": [ "drag" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "lgbt", "date": "2024-08-28 13:37:47", "timestamp": 1724845067.0 } }, { "id": "168257", "term": "girlbulge", "definition": "The bulge (outline of the genitalia visible through clothing) of a trans woman.", "sentence": "Don't shame the tiny uwu girlbulges", "communities": [ "transgender" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "transgendercirclejerk", "date": "2022-06-28 00:24:27", "timestamp": 1656368667.0 } }, { "id": "94385", "term": "condragulations", "definition": "A variant form of congratulations used sometimes in drag.", "sentence": "Thatā€™s so iconic, condragulations ā™„ļøā™„ļøā™„ļøā˜ŗļøšŸ™Œ", "communities": [ "drag" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "Drag", "date": "2023-04-05 18:58:01", "timestamp": 1680713881.0 } }, { "id": "85071", "term": "punk", "definition": "A slang term with multiple meanings depending on context. Originally used to refer to a sex worker or prostitute, especially a passive or feminine gay man (or a bottom). By the early 20th century, used to refer to a person considered worthless or criminal in nature. By the 1970s, used to refer to punk rock, a punk rocker, or to the sociocultural movement associated with punk rock and its fans. In the modern gay male community, the term \"punk\" may refer to a smaller, typically younger gay man who is forced into a submissive role in prison settings by an older gay man. Also occasionally used as a synonym for \"clock\" or \"read\", i.e. when a cisgender person recognizes a person as transgender.", "sentence": "Adding the jacket gave me a bit of a punk vibe I felt.", "communities": [ "transgender", "gay male" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "transpassing", "date": "2023-06-09 02:30:09", "timestamp": 1686270609.0 } }, { "id": "106851", "term": "girlmode", "definition": "When a transgender person presents a gender expression codified as female, typically if that person is a transgender man. Usually used in the context of going incognito as a cisgender woman.", "sentence": "Today I decided to girlmode.", "communities": [ "transgender", "transgender" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "teengirlswholikegirls", "date": "2024-12-12 00:57:52", "timestamp": 1733961472.0 } }, { "id": "96960", "term": "total bottom", "definition": "A total bottom is someone who assumes an exclusively passive or receptive role during anal or oral intercourse.", "sentence": "I am pretty much a total bottom right now.", "communities": [ "LGBTQ" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "gay", "date": "2023-09-16 05:19:56", "timestamp": 1694834396.0 } }, { "id": "170033", "term": "prog", "definition": "Progesterone.", "sentence": "I tried talking to my doctor, but as I expected she said that she couldn't give me any information about prog because it is not in the government plan.", "communities": [ "transgender" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "asktransgender", "date": "2025-06-24 23:43:50", "timestamp": 1750801430.0 } }, { "id": "115248", "term": "bull dyke", "definition": "A lesbian who appears masculine or acts in a masculine manner.", "sentence": "It is very similar idea however bull dyke is for more overtly masculine or assertive lesbians and is more commonly used as a slur.", "communities": [ "lesbian" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "AskLGBT", "date": "2025-06-30 20:53:27", "timestamp": 1751309607.0 } }, { "id": "227899", "term": "shade", "definition": "A slang term referring to a kind of insult, typically non-verbal in nature. Journalist Anna Holmes called shade \"the art of the sidelong insult\". Merriam-Webster defines it as \"subtle, sneering expression of contempt for or disgust with someoneā€”sometimes verbal, and sometimes not\".", "sentence": "Shade is,\" I don't tell you you're ugly, but I don't have to tell you because you know you're ugly.\"", "communities": [ "drag" ], "metadata": { "source": "OpenSubtitles", "title": "Paris Is Burning", "imdb_id": "100332" } }, { "id": "107991", "term": "transition goal", "definition": "A transgender person's goals for transition, or an example of what they would like to achieve for such a transition (for example, pointing to an actor or musician of their desired gender expression and declaring that person \"transition goals\").", "sentence": "I keep drawing my transition goal bro", "communities": [ "transgender" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "ftm", "date": "2025-07-09 14:32:35", "timestamp": 1752064355.0 } }, { "id": "228058", "term": "discreet", "definition": "Not drawing attention, anger or challenge; inconspicuous.", "sentence": "I'll fly into LA this weekend and we'll go somewhere discreet for dinner.", "communities": [ "LGBTQ" ], "metadata": { "source": "OpenSubtitles", "title": "The Broken Hearts Club: A Romantic Comedy", "imdb_id": "222850" } }, { "id": "114732", "term": "bambi lesbian", "definition": "A lesbian who identifies as bambi-sexual, i.e. being more interested in kissing, carressing, cuddling, etc. than genital stimulation or sexual intercourse.", "sentence": "Iā€™m 25, enby and a bambi lesbian!", "communities": [ "lesbian" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "LesbianGamers", "date": "2025-06-16 05:50:41", "timestamp": 1750045841.0 } }, { "id": "165130", "term": "estro", "definition": "Clipping of estrogen.", "sentence": "My final estro dosage will be 100 (as you see, I don't remember what measure typy it is), + progesterone.", "communities": [ "transgender" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "NonBinary", "date": "2025-05-31 10:13:36", "timestamp": 1748679216.0 } }, { "id": "117813", "term": "nancy", "definition": "Women's names have often been appropriated as slurs for gay men, especially for feminine gay men and transfeminine people. \"Nancy\" is probably the most common, across the 20th Century globally. All are offensive.", "sentence": "Same usual shit ā€œGoing to see your boyfriend, Nancy?ā€ (they always call me Nancy which I HATE).", "communities": [ "gay male" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "LGBTeens", "date": "2017-08-25 20:56:54", "timestamp": 1503687414.0 } }, { "id": "95536", "term": "service top", "definition": "A service top is one who tops (acts as the \"giving\" partner in sexual encounters) under the direction of an eager bottom (who acts as the \"receiving\" partner in sexual encounters).", "sentence": "All that said, Iā€™m happy with myself but Iā€™m definitely curious about what all of you service tops see that I donā€™t.", "communities": [ "LGBTQ" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "gaybros", "date": "2023-07-21 16:55:53", "timestamp": 1689951353.0 } }, { "id": "119508", "term": "masc4masc", "definition": "A phrase used to describe a masculine gay man interested in other masculine gay men romantically and/or sexually.", "sentence": "That being said, I'd love to hear about some personal Masc4Masc stories to celebrate and bring some focus to Masc4Masc connectionsā¤ļøšŸ™‚šŸ¤˜āœØ.", "communities": [ "gay male" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "NonBinary", "date": "2025-04-14 17:34:23", "timestamp": 1744644863.0 } }, { "id": "83965", "term": "homo", "definition": "Shortened form of \"homosexual.\" Often derogatory.", "sentence": "Especially the so-called heteroromantics, which to me is basically \"I'll suck your dick, but no homo.\"", "communities": [], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "askgaybros", "date": "2023-11-20 16:19:04", "timestamp": 1700493544.0 } }, { "id": "117697", "term": "baby gay", "definition": "A person who has recently come out in relationship to a marginalized sexual or gender identity.", "sentence": "Donā€™t miss being a baby gay at all.", "communities": [ "gay male" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "Lesbients", "date": "2018-03-10 01:57:36", "timestamp": 1520643456.0 } }, { "id": "106651", "term": "baby trans", "definition": "Someone who has recently discovered that they are transgender.", "sentence": "After some retrospective baby transfem behavior, and some research and introspection, my egg cracked last September.", "communities": [ "transgender", "transgender" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "transgenderau", "date": "2024-06-02 01:18:31", "timestamp": 1717283911.0 } }, { "id": "103275", "term": "cissplain", "definition": "To explain transgender issues, people or behavior to a trans person (as a cis person) in a condescending manner, presuming the listenerā€™s inferior understanding.", "sentence": "Lots of cissplaining (a cis person explaining trans experiences).", "communities": [ "transgender" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "TransphobiaProject", "date": "2012-06-10 22:19:46", "timestamp": 1339359586.0 } }, { "id": "206439", "term": "throw shade", "definition": "To subtly insult someone.", "sentence": "So I'm not trying to throw shade at Ariana grande but why is she such a big deal in the gay community?", "communities": [], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "gaybros", "date": "2023-01-28 23:49:06", "timestamp": 1674946146.0 } }, { "id": "79759", "term": "friend of dorothy", "definition": "Coded slang for gay. Referring to gay icon Judy Garland's Dorothy in The Wizard of Oz.", "sentence": "I still use Friend of Dorothy to refer to other queer friends.", "communities": [ "gay male" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "lgbt", "date": "2021-10-11 18:29:00", "timestamp": 1633969740.0 } }, { "id": "107972", "term": "transition goal", "definition": "A transgender person's goals for transition, or an example of what they would like to achieve for such a transition (for example, pointing to an actor or musician of their desired gender expression and declaring that person \"transition goals\").", "sentence": "My transition goal is I wanna look like Vladimir from Young Dracula, but it's impossible.", "communities": [ "transgender" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "LGBTeens", "date": "2020-06-14 08:25:08", "timestamp": 1592115908.0 } }, { "id": "149501", "term": "the house down", "definition": "Used as an intensifier: very, to a great degree; exceptionally.", "sentence": "Person 2: Slay the house down boots, momma, you better werq!", "communities": [ "drag" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "gay", "date": "2024-10-11 01:17:34", "timestamp": 1728602254.0 } }, { "id": "151509", "term": "bussy", "definition": "ā€¢ Any anus, in general.\nā€¢ The vulva or vagina of a trans man.", "sentence": "Or my general practitioner will have to make me a note saying yes indeed this dude has a bussy", "communities": [ "gay" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "ftm", "date": "2021-08-10 03:21:38", "timestamp": 1628558498.0 } }, { "id": "84633", "term": "lipstick lesbian", "definition": "Usually refers to a lesbian with a feminine gender expression. Can be used in a positive or a derogatory way, depending on who is using it. Is sometimes also used to refer to a lesbian who is seen as automatically \"passing\" for heterosexual.", "sentence": "But I just now realized what lipstick lesbian actually meant.", "communities": [ "lesbian" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "AskLGBT", "date": "2022-05-27 03:44:09", "timestamp": 1653615849.0 } }, { "id": "149183", "term": "serve cunt", "definition": "To act in a powerfully and unapologetically feminine manner.", "sentence": "Anyone can serve cunt, and I think it's a popular term in the wider LGBTQ community.", "communities": [ "drag" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "asktransgender", "date": "2024-08-25 14:06:41", "timestamp": 1724587601.0 } }, { "id": "102202", "term": "joyfriend", "definition": "A sexual and/or romantic partner of any gender, but usually a nonbinary person.", "sentence": "I've had multiple boyfriends, and one masc-presenting non-binary joyfriend.", "communities": [ "nonbinary" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "asktransgender", "date": "2024-03-05 07:32:40", "timestamp": 1709620360.0 } }, { "id": "169378", "term": "manmode", "definition": "The state of presenting as a man, regardless of one's actual gender identity, especially of a trans woman.", "sentence": "Sincerly yours, a manmoder often passing as a dyke that tried skirts.", "communities": [ "transgender" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "MtF", "date": "2025-05-10 01:40:04", "timestamp": 1746834004.0 } }, { "id": "95548", "term": "service top", "definition": "A service top is one who tops (acts as the \"giving\" partner in sexual encounters) under the direction of an eager bottom (who acts as the \"receiving\" partner in sexual encounters).", "sentence": "They're called service tops.", "communities": [ "LGBTQ" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "gay", "date": "2025-01-09 00:05:59", "timestamp": 1736377559.0 } }, { "id": "99290", "term": "power bottom", "definition": "A power bottom is someone who aggressively enjoys being the receptive partner.", "sentence": "I love how you became a power bottom purely out of spite.", "communities": [ "LGBTQ" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "askgaybros", "date": "2025-06-18 19:28:48", "timestamp": 1750267728.0 } }, { "id": "116683", "term": "chubby bear", "definition": "A bear who is particularly large (\"bear\" meaning \"a gay or bisexual man who has facial/body hair and a cuddly body\").", "sentence": "I'm usually a pure dom, but for big, chubby bear-y dads I get soo weak!", "communities": [ "chub", "bear" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "MeetLGBT", "date": "2025-04-13 00:32:11", "timestamp": 1744497131.0 } }, { "id": "168373", "term": "hatchling", "definition": "A person who has (especially recently) realized that they are transgender.", "sentence": "Happy First Voting for all you (USA folx at least) queerentimes hatchlings who are voting for the first time under your real name!", "communities": [ "transgender" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "asktransgender", "date": "2022-08-03 02:05:52", "timestamp": 1659485152.0 } }, { "id": "113734", "term": "U-Haul lesbian", "definition": "A stereotype of lesbian relationships, referring to the joke that lesbians tend to move in together on the second date. It suggests an extreme inclination toward monogamy or committed relationships. It can be considered either complimentary or pejorative, depending on context.", "sentence": "I donā€™t admit to anything in regards of being a U-Haul lesbian.", "communities": [], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "actuallesbians", "date": "2019-08-28 15:55:01", "timestamp": 1567000501.0 } }, { "id": "229057", "term": "stealth", "definition": "When a transgender person keeps their transgender status closely guarded, living as if they were cisgender as their identified gender.", "sentence": "I believe the slang terminology is\" Living Stealth.\"", "communities": [ "transgender" ], "metadata": { "source": "OpenSubtitles", "title": "Transamerica", "imdb_id": "407265" } }, { "id": "116783", "term": "seahorse dad", "definition": "Slang term for a transgender man who is carrying, or has carried, a child to term.", "sentence": "I was a seahorse dad and loved it.", "communities": [ "transmasculine" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "ftm", "date": "2023-07-05 13:57:38", "timestamp": 1688558258.0 } }, { "id": "206493", "term": "useless lesbian", "definition": "A lesbian who is socially or romantically inept with other women.", "sentence": "You are making me feel like a complete useless lesbian.", "communities": [], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "transpositive", "date": "2024-10-08 19:57:04", "timestamp": 1728410224.0 } }, { "id": "210949", "term": "bulldyke", "definition": "Contested terminology. Slur for lesbian, highly offensive if applied to a lesbian or transmasc person externally. Term has been reclaimed by some lesbians communities, and is sometimes used affirmingly within communities.\"Bulldyke\" and \"bulldagger\" are often used to indicate butch or masculine queer women, sometimes with overtones of toughness or aggression.", "sentence": "I look like a bulldyke or maybe a teenage boy.", "communities": [], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "ftm", "date": "2014-03-18 07:13:34", "timestamp": 1395123214.0 } }, { "id": "120803", "term": "twunk", "definition": "A gay man with the certain twink (meaning ā€œyoung, attractive, slim maleā€) stereotype elements that has a hunky (strong, muscular, etc.) physique.", "sentence": "It's taken ages but I'm finally a cute (twink who has) twunk!", "communities": [ "gay", "gay male" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "ftm", "date": "2023-01-30 04:51:34", "timestamp": 1675050694.0 } }, { "id": "97012", "term": "power top", "definition": "A power top is one noted for their skill or aggressiveness in topping (acting as the \"giving\" partner in sexual encounters).", "sentence": "A power top is a dominant who prefers to penetrate their partner.", "communities": [ "LGBTQ" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "AskLGBT", "date": "2023-08-01 07:39:26", "timestamp": 1690868366.0 } }, { "id": "108505", "term": "second puberty", "definition": "A term often used by transgender persons transitioning after they have already undergone puberty.", "sentence": "And while some trans people find it helpful to describe the experience of transition like a second puberty, some donā€™t.", "communities": [ "transgender" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "mypartneristrans", "date": "2024-11-04 13:18:49", "timestamp": 1730722729.0 } }, { "id": "2409", "term": "kiki", "definition": "ā€¢ A gathering of friends for the purpose of gossiping and chit-chat.\nā€¢ 1940s slang describing a lesbian comfortable with either a more passive or more aggressive partner in a relationship.", "sentence": "Yes, oh my God, I'm so excited to kiki with y'all because what the fuck was that?", "communities": [ "drag", "lesbian", "African-American transgender", "African-American gay male" ], "metadata": { "source": "Podcasts", "title": "The Viall Files" } }, { "id": "83510", "term": "gold star", "definition": "Slang for someone who has never had sex with someone of the opposite gender, sometimes including bisexual people of their own gender. Most commonly used in lesbian communities, now widely recognised as biphobic.", "sentence": "I'm a gold star lesbian.", "communities": [], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "actuallesbians", "date": "2024-03-01 06:13:09", "timestamp": 1709269989.0 } }, { "id": "120755", "term": "twunk", "definition": "A gay man with the certain twink (meaning ā€œyoung, attractive, slim maleā€) stereotype elements that has a hunky (strong, muscular, etc.) physique.", "sentence": "Then you are twunk", "communities": [ "gay", "gay male" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "gay", "date": "2024-06-03 23:20:47", "timestamp": 1717449647.0 } }, { "id": "213173", "term": "gym bunny", "definition": "A sports enthusiast; usually one who frequents gyms and training grounds; often used of young gay men obsessed with body building.", "sentence": "I've taken this test before and both times I've been a Gym Bunny : P Not too accurate to me actually haha", "communities": [], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "gaymers", "date": "2011-11-23 00:26:27", "timestamp": 1322004387.0 } }, { "id": "103789", "term": "top surgery", "definition": "A slang term used to refer to thoracic gender-affirming surgeries.", "sentence": "I'm NB, had top surgery back in 2019 when I was still identifying as a binary trans man.", "communities": [ "transgender" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "transfashionadvice", "date": "2024-04-10 08:28:27", "timestamp": 1712730507.0 } }, { "id": "114726", "term": "bambi lesbian", "definition": "A lesbian who identifies as bambi-sexual, i.e. being more interested in kissing, carressing, cuddling, etc. than genital stimulation or sexual intercourse.", "sentence": "It is the bi equivalent of bambi lesbian, bambi gay, fox pan, and rat ace.", "communities": [ "lesbian" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "asexuality", "date": "2023-11-23 22:52:02", "timestamp": 1700776322.0 } }, { "id": "154649", "term": "mangina", "definition": "ā€¢ The anus of a man, especially in the context of gay sex.\nā€¢ The vulva or vagina of a trans man, or the neovagina of a detransitioned man.", "sentence": "My sisters deserve to feel fine about their ladydicks, and yes, my brothers deserve to feel fine about their...let's say manginas.", "communities": [ "transgender", "gay" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "asktransgender", "date": "2019-01-30 07:20:05", "timestamp": 1548829205.0 } }, { "id": "115521", "term": "pillow princess", "definition": "A woman who likes to receive and not give, sexually.", "sentence": "Looking for an older woman - someone who's patient and understanding (I'm not very experienced) and maybe someone who likes to dominate/doesn't mind a pillow princess.", "communities": [ "lesbian" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "l4l", "date": "2018-10-14 23:04:33", "timestamp": 1539551073.0 } }, { "id": "116668", "term": "chubby bear", "definition": "A bear who is particularly large (\"bear\" meaning \"a gay or bisexual man who has facial/body hair and a cuddly body\").", "sentence": "Uhh as a chubby bear, where are these mythical muscle Maryā€™s into chubbier guys?", "communities": [ "chub", "bear" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "gaymers", "date": "2020-11-04 19:37:18", "timestamp": 1604515038.0 } }, { "id": "108493", "term": "second puberty", "definition": "A term often used by transgender persons transitioning after they have already undergone puberty.", "sentence": "But calling it a second puberty isn't necessarily accurate?", "communities": [ "transgender" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "ftm", "date": "2023-02-23 14:46:29", "timestamp": 1677159989.0 } }, { "id": "120776", "term": "twunk", "definition": "A gay man with the certain twink (meaning ā€œyoung, attractive, slim maleā€) stereotype elements that has a hunky (strong, muscular, etc.) physique.", "sentence": "A thin framed guy (small waist and narrower shoulders) with a swimmers build is someone Iā€™d consider a twunk.", "communities": [ "gay", "gay male" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "askgaybros", "date": "2024-10-19 02:29:44", "timestamp": 1729297784.0 } }, { "id": "118697", "term": "gold star gay", "definition": "A gay person who has never had sex with a person of the opposite gender.", "sentence": "Nope, just a simple gold star gay here.", "communities": [ "gay male" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "gaybros", "date": "2018-11-23 10:47:19", "timestamp": 1542966439.0 } }, { "id": "4976", "term": "activist", "definition": "A person who is politically active in campaigning for change to an existing sociopolitical or cultural order.", "sentence": "Frances Thompson was a freed slave and anti-rape activist and is believed to be the first trans woman to testify before the American Congress about the Memphis riots of 1866.", "communities": [], "metadata": { "source": "Podcasts", "title": "Bittersweet Infamy" } }, { "id": "91817", "term": "realness", "definition": "The state of being real; the ability to blend or pass as heterosexual or cisgender; the quality of passing as a particular role in a particular circumstance.", "sentence": "I mean poolparty Graves is giving me daddy realness, but I need more unrealistically hot guys.", "communities": [ "drag", "gay male" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "LoLGaymers", "date": "2016-03-25 00:06:22", "timestamp": 1458860782.0 } }, { "id": "107937", "term": "crossdreaming", "definition": "Dreams or fantasies in which a person imagines themself as (or simply dressed as) the \"opposite\" gender (i.e. a man as a woman or a woman as a man).", "sentence": "I've had Crossdreaming fantasies, imagining being female in sex, since my first ones during puberty.", "communities": [ "transgender", "cross-dressing" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "asktransgender", "date": "2016-10-10 02:03:07", "timestamp": 1476057787.0 } }, { "id": "169899", "term": "pre-T", "definition": "Not yet having undergone testosterone-based hormone replacement therapy.", "sentence": "You sound amazing in both , in your pre-T were you by any chance characterize as alto ranged ?", "communities": [ "transgender" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "transvoice", "date": "2025-04-06 08:13:29", "timestamp": 1743920009.0 } }, { "id": "169811", "term": "pre-E", "definition": "Not yet having undergone estrogen-based hormone replacement therapy.", "sentence": "Damn, wish I looked as cute as the pre-e girl", "communities": [ "transgender" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "traaaaaaannnnnnnnnns", "date": "2020-12-12 23:09:19", "timestamp": 1607810959.0 } }, { "id": "70194", "term": "alphabet people", "definition": "Offensive contemporary term for LGBTQ+ people, often used by right-wing people reacting to perceived advancements in LGBTQ+ people's rights.", "sentence": "Feel like alphabet people is meant to be demeaning", "communities": [], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "asktransgender", "date": "2020-06-06 19:50:58", "timestamp": 1591465858.0 } }, { "id": "151471", "term": "bussy", "definition": "ā€¢ Any anus, in general.\nā€¢ The vulva or vagina of a trans man.", "sentence": "Me in my way to bussy a bussy", "communities": [ "gay" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "SuddenlyGay", "date": "2023-08-03 14:21:38", "timestamp": 1691065298.0 } }, { "id": "65", "term": "kikis", "definition": "ā€¢ A gathering of friends for the purpose of gossiping and chit-chat.\nā€¢ 1940s slang describing a lesbian comfortable with either a more passive or more aggressive partner in a relationship.", "sentence": "Nothing is off the table for our messy kikis.", "communities": [ "drag", "lesbian", "African-American transgender", "African-American gay male" ], "metadata": { "source": "Podcasts", "title": "First Date Follow Up - The Jubal Show" } }, { "id": "116699", "term": "malefailing", "definition": "To be seen as and gender as female while attempting to present as masculine.", "sentence": "I feel painful envy when I read about other trans women malefailing 3 months into their transition when I can't even pass *as trans* while presenting completely female.", "communities": [ "transmasculine" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "TransSupport", "date": "2019-08-31 18:32:25", "timestamp": 1567269145.0 } }, { "id": "222966", "term": "straight", "definition": "Of a person, being sexually attracted to individuals of the opposite gender in a binary gender system; heterosexual.", "sentence": "How straight are you now?", "communities": [], "metadata": { "source": "OpenSubtitles", "title": "Gia", "imdb_id": "123865" } }, { "id": "203171", "term": "cunty", "definition": "Amazing or very good or cool, especially with regard to femininity.", "sentence": "Iā€™m doing all the typical like Pride, Love is Loveā€¦ but Iā€™m also making naughtier ones like: Pussy Power, Daddy, Cuntyā€¦ etc.", "communities": [], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "actuallesbians", "date": "2025-06-05 03:10:46", "timestamp": 1749085846.0 } }, { "id": "169635", "term": "orchi", "definition": "Clipping of orchiectomy.", "sentence": "TL;DR, HRT for 1.5 years, having orchi in 2 weeks.", "communities": [ "transgender" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "ask_transgender", "date": "2021-03-31 18:44:15", "timestamp": 1617209055.0 } }, { "id": "85713", "term": "rough trade", "definition": "Slang for a man who identifies as straight, but sometimes has sex with queer men (usually as a \"top\").", "sentence": "Oooh that is rough trade, indeed", "communities": [ "gay" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "Drag", "date": "2018-09-24 20:24:47", "timestamp": 1537813487.0 } }, { "id": "110147", "term": "outie", "definition": "A term sometimes used to refer to the external genitalia of a transfeminine person.", "sentence": "Would an outie make you turn away frok her?", "communities": [ "transfeminine" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "actuallesbians", "date": "2022-03-19 08:50:59", "timestamp": 1647676259.0 } }, { "id": "73105", "term": "bicycle", "definition": "Used as slang for bisexual in the 1960s. Also more widely used to indicate promiscuity, esp for women; this usage is considered offensive.", "sentence": "I suppose it's possible it's the bicycle, but if you always prefer men then I would think that testifies to being gay.", "communities": [], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "gay", "date": "2023-08-03 08:03:16", "timestamp": 1691042596.0 } }, { "id": "113680", "term": "high femme", "definition": "A femme person who expresses their gender in ultra feminine ways. Often, but not exclusively, this refers to a queer woman.", "sentence": "I became a barfly at local gay bars and got really into femme hobbies like makeup and perfume and dressed really high femme on nights out.", "communities": [ "lesbian" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "asktransgender", "date": "2025-04-19 22:07:59", "timestamp": 1745093279.0 } }, { "id": "118713", "term": "gold star gay", "definition": "A gay person who has never had sex with a person of the opposite gender.", "sentence": "Essentially a gold star gay is someone who's never had sex with a vagina and a gold star lesbian is someone who's never had sex with a penis.", "communities": [ "gay male" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "askgaybros", "date": "2022-12-27 22:20:09", "timestamp": 1672176009.0 } }, { "id": "101461", "term": "theyfab", "definition": "A slang term for a nonbinary person who is assigned female at birth.", "sentence": "stuff I hear from predominantly theyfabs doesn't really help.", "communities": [ "nonbinary" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "asktransgender", "date": "2025-05-24 06:06:09", "timestamp": 1748059569.0 } }, { "id": "1742", "term": "kink", "definition": "ā€¢ A specific sexual desire, practice, or activity considered unconventional but within certain socially constructed boundaries.\nā€¢ A thief or burglar.", "sentence": "Is it purity culture or is it kink?", "communities": [], "metadata": { "source": "Podcasts", "title": "Sounds Like A Cult" } }, { "id": "108141", "term": "t4t", "definition": "Short form of \"trans for trans\", indicating transgender persons interested in other transgender persons romantically and/or sexually.", "sentence": "If your already in a T4T relationship:", "communities": [ "transgender" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "asktransgender", "date": "2023-04-23 21:51:19", "timestamp": 1682279479.0 } }, { "id": "115063", "term": "baby butch", "definition": "A young butch or boyish lesbian or a butch or boyish lesbian who is perceived to be young, regardless of age.", "sentence": "And she's just the cutest red haired baby butch...", "communities": [ "lesbian" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "transpositive", "date": "2019-01-24 18:35:53", "timestamp": 1548351353.0 } }, { "id": "169391", "term": "manmode", "definition": "The state of presenting as a man, regardless of one's actual gender identity, especially of a trans woman.", "sentence": "I'm not a man, but sometimes it's easier to manmode than to try and get accommodated.", "communities": [ "transgender" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "agender", "date": "2024-03-31 18:49:22", "timestamp": 1711903762.0 } }, { "id": "76719", "term": "egg", "definition": "Slang term (originating online) for a person who has not yet realised they are transgender, has not yet come out, or is in the early stages of transitioning. Usually used (fondly) by trans people to recognise when aspects of someone's personality or behavior remind them of gender-related aspects of themselves before they realized they were trans.", "sentence": "I briefly went with short (for me) hair for about a year before my egg cracked, and I wore a big beard through my late 20s.", "communities": [ "transgender", "transgender" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "transtimelines", "date": "2025-02-06 04:44:51", "timestamp": 1738813491.0 } }, { "id": "123834", "term": "boy pussy", "definition": "A gay man's anus, especially the receiving partipant's. Also, rarely, a transmasculine person's vulva.", "sentence": "Because some people have a stick up their boy pussy.", "communities": [ "transgender", "gay", "gay male" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "askgaybros", "date": "2015-12-17 06:40:09", "timestamp": 1450330809.0 } }, { "id": "107531", "term": "bottom surgery", "definition": "A slang term used to refer to genital gender-affirming surgeries.", "sentence": "Curious, donā€™t know if Iā€™ll do full bottom surgery besides an orchi soon but if I do I want to be able to afford it :)", "communities": [ "transgender" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "trans", "date": "2024-02-25 09:12:02", "timestamp": 1708848722.0 } }, { "id": "157428", "term": "twinky", "definition": "Being or resembling a twink (ā€œyoung, attractive, slim maleā€).", "sentence": "But I know that T isnā€™t going to make me magically look like the twinky boys whose bodies I adore.", "communities": [ "gay" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "genderqueer", "date": "2014-08-31 07:25:14", "timestamp": 1409462714.0 } }, { "id": "77711", "term": "fag hag", "definition": "A woman, typically a heterosexual one, possibly ageing, who prefers, enjoys, or seeks out the company of homosexual men. This term is offensive to gay men and misogynistic to heterosexual women. Once common, now rarely used within queer communities.", "sentence": "Nobody's gonna think you're a fag hag if you outright say you're gay.", "communities": [ "gay male" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "actuallesbians", "date": "2014-07-31 00:19:59", "timestamp": 1406758799.0 } }, { "id": "84412", "term": "homo", "definition": "Shortened form of \"homosexual.\" Often derogatory.", "sentence": "Not a parent, just homo and happened to be lurking around...", "communities": [], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "Samesexparents", "date": "2012-11-21 04:14:30", "timestamp": 1353467670.0 } }, { "id": "169816", "term": "pre-E", "definition": "Not yet having undergone estrogen-based hormone replacement therapy.", "sentence": "I'm currently pre-E (hopefully starting soon!", "communities": [ "transgender" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "transfashionadvice", "date": "2019-04-28 05:35:30", "timestamp": 1556422530.0 } }, { "id": "107216", "term": "deep stealth", "definition": "Referring to a transgender person who is not known to be trans by most of the people they interact with on a daily basis, even a sexual or romantic partner.", "sentence": "Not any more, everyone is in deep stealth.", "communities": [ "transgender" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "lgbt", "date": "2023-11-18 01:47:35", "timestamp": 1700268455.0 } }, { "id": "223007", "term": "straight", "definition": "Of a person, being sexually attracted to individuals of the opposite gender in a binary gender system; heterosexual.", "sentence": "There are no straight maids in South Beach.", "communities": [], "metadata": { "source": "OpenSubtitles", "title": "The Birdcage", "imdb_id": "115685" } }, { "id": "117659", "term": "baby gay", "definition": "A person who has recently come out in relationship to a marginalized sexual or gender identity.", "sentence": "It was a sea of late teen and early 20s baby gays.", "communities": [ "gay male" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "actuallesbians", "date": "2020-04-24 17:27:02", "timestamp": 1587742022.0 } }, { "id": "89679", "term": "tranny", "definition": "A transgender person, usually a transgender woman. Originally a shortening of transvestite. Generally considered derogatory, offensive. Debate over the termā€™s offensiveness occurred in the early 2010s, but by 2017, the term was banned by several media stylebooks and labeled as hate speech by Facebook.", "sentence": "I don't care if RuPaul loves the word tranny!", "communities": [ "transfeminine" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "transgender", "date": "2012-01-15 23:22:03", "timestamp": 1326666123.0 } }, { "id": "95160", "term": "werk", "definition": "Either an exclamation of approval or to do something excellently (often used in reference to dance or modeling).", "sentence": "werk werk werk werk werk", "communities": [ "drag", "gay male" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "MtF", "date": "2024-09-04 16:12:54", "timestamp": 1725459174.0 } }, { "id": "84575", "term": "lipstick lesbian", "definition": "Usually refers to a lesbian with a feminine gender expression. Can be used in a positive or a derogatory way, depending on who is using it. Is sometimes also used to refer to a lesbian who is seen as automatically \"passing\" for heterosexual.", "sentence": "There's of course nothing wrong with being a lipstick lesbian, or course, just like there's nothing wrong with being a masculine gay, so long as you're not being a jerk.", "communities": [ "lesbian" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "lgbt", "date": "2022-01-27 19:19:17", "timestamp": 1643307557.0 } }, { "id": "95551", "term": "service top", "definition": "A service top is one who tops (acts as the \"giving\" partner in sexual encounters) under the direction of an eager bottom (who acts as the \"receiving\" partner in sexual encounters).", "sentence": "This can be a hot button topic so this is the definition I am referring to when I ask about Service Tops.", "communities": [ "LGBTQ" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "askgaybros", "date": "2016-12-16 05:55:18", "timestamp": 1481864118.0 } }, { "id": "99379", "term": "total top", "definition": "A total top is one who assumes an exclusively penetrative role for sex.", "sentence": "I'm in a happy monogamus relationship with a total top.", "communities": [ "LGBTQ" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "askgaybros", "date": "2024-06-10 19:30:35", "timestamp": 1718040635.0 } }, { "id": "206344", "term": "snatched", "definition": "Good-looking.", "sentence": "Brows and nose look snatched!", "communities": [], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "gaymers", "date": "2025-01-23 17:28:22", "timestamp": 1737649702.0 } }, { "id": "211991", "term": "flip flop", "definition": "Slang to indicate either 1) bisexuality or 2) a person that likes to switch between \"top\" and \"bottom\" roles during sex. Especially used by incarcerated people in the US.", "sentence": "i identify as queer - my attraction to men is complicated and iā€™ve flip flopped between the lesbian and bisexual labels quite a bit before.", "communities": [], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "mypartneristrans", "date": "2022-07-21 07:11:36", "timestamp": 1658380296.0 } }, { "id": "210866", "term": "drag mother", "definition": "In the US, a group of drag queens who have been mentored by a \"mother,\" also known as a \"house.\" These groups often take on family drag names and form close-knit communities.", "sentence": "Maybe raise up the question with something more like ā€œHave you ever thought of starting a drag familyā€ or ā€œDo you have a drag mother?ā€.", "communities": [], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "Drag", "date": "2023-11-16 05:40:35", "timestamp": 1700109635.0 } }, { "id": "228179", "term": "crush", "definition": "An infatuation with somebody, typically someone that one is not dating. By extension, the object of such infatuation or affection.", "sentence": "If this is a crush, I don't think I could take it if the real thing ever happened.", "communities": [ "LGBTQ" ], "metadata": { "source": "OpenSubtitles", "title": "Chasing Amy", "imdb_id": "118842" } }, { "id": "180", "term": "androgynous", "definition": "Of clothing or accessories, making a person's identity as male or female not immediately apparent to observers.", "sentence": "He was flamboyant, colorful, and androgynous.", "communities": [], "metadata": { "source": "Podcasts", "title": "Ideas" } }, { "id": "115253", "term": "baby dyke", "definition": "A person who has just come out as a lesbian.", "sentence": "Advice on what area of being a baby dyke specifically?", "communities": [ "lesbian" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "actuallesbians", "date": "2015-04-19 18:08:49", "timestamp": 1429459729.0 } }, { "id": "124645", "term": "cruising", "definition": "To walk or drive about a locality in search of a sex partner, usually of the anonymous, casual, one-time variety.", "sentence": "Itā€™s highly patrolled and when I lived in Austin (Austinite for 24 years, very familiar with HH) it was so patrolled the cruising was almost non-existent.", "communities": [ "gay male" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "gaybros", "date": "2024-02-24 21:18:32", "timestamp": 1708805912.0 } }, { "id": "206442", "term": "throw shade", "definition": "To subtly insult someone.", "sentence": "I want to throw shade, but I own Resident Evil 4 on like five different consoles.", "communities": [], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "gaymers", "date": "2022-08-22 20:23:16", "timestamp": 1661192596.0 } }, { "id": "205342", "term": "lesboy", "definition": "A person who identifies as male and as a lesbian.", "sentence": "There are definitely resources you can look for to find more information on lesboys, but this is all I have for y'all!", "communities": [], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "lgbt", "date": "2025-02-16 04:21:51", "timestamp": 1739676111.0 } }, { "id": "116834", "term": "cub", "definition": "A younger or younger-looking bear, sometimes with a smaller frame (\"bear\" meaning \"a gay or bisexual man who has facial/body hair and a cuddly body\").", "sentence": "I'm 19, self-identify as a cub (moreso in personality/attitude than in looks; one could make a case either way based on how I look).", "communities": [ "gay", "bear" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "lgbt", "date": "2010-01-29 03:21:57", "timestamp": 1264731717.0 } }, { "id": "115886", "term": "stem", "definition": "A lesbian defined as having a gender presentation between stud (st-) and femme (-em).", "sentence": "You could just be a stem?", "communities": [ "lesbian" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "LGBTeens", "date": "2024-09-11 13:58:52", "timestamp": 1726055932.0 } }, { "id": "94397", "term": "fierce", "definition": "To have looks that could \"kill\"; also used to refer to satisfying, powerful, or beautiful drag queens.", "sentence": "you are absolutely fierce!", "communities": [ "drag" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "lgbt", "date": "2025-03-13 07:18:42", "timestamp": 1741846722.0 } }, { "id": "155506", "term": "rice queen", "definition": "A non-Asian man who is mostly attracted to East Asian men.", "sentence": "anyway it's refreshing we finally have a critical mass of gaysians (and I guess \"woke enough\" non-Asians) here to outvote the 20% of yt rice queens here still downvoting this.", "communities": [ "gay" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "gaysian", "date": "2022-01-26 00:19:17", "timestamp": 1643152757.0 } }, { "id": "116376", "term": "chub", "definition": "A gay man who is overweight or obese; typically (but not always) derogatory.", "sentence": "damn right, chubby is beautiful & adorable šŸ„°", "communities": [ "gay", "chub" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "actuallesbians", "date": "2023-04-28 18:10:09", "timestamp": 1682698209.0 } }, { "id": "106497", "term": "deadnaming", "definition": "Calling a transgender person by their \"deadname\" (oftentimes their birth name, but not always).", "sentence": "If we start normalising deadnaming for people we don't like, we undermine our own cause.", "communities": [ "transgender" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "asktransgender", "date": "2025-02-04 06:00:10", "timestamp": 1738645210.0 } }, { "id": "99796", "term": "closeted", "definition": "An adjective referring to an LGBTQIA+ person or persons who have not disclosed their status as LGBTQIA+ and other related aspects of their life. More broadly, it can also be used to describe anyone who is hiding part of their identity because of social pressure.", "sentence": "Im ready with a big hug when you do come out and clenched fists for those trying to keep you closeted, though.", "communities": [ "LGBTQ" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "lgbt", "date": "2021-09-05 21:55:21", "timestamp": 1630871721.0 } }, { "id": "211744", "term": "flamer", "definition": "\"Flaming\" can be used generally as an intensifier or curse, but has become especially associated with feminine gay men and campness. Often still used fondly, especially by older generations of gay men, but offensive if applied by others.", "sentence": "Ive met some pretty nice guys who called themselves flamers and yes in every \"group\" of gays from \"straight acting\" to \"flamers\" there are gonna be dicks period.", "communities": [], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "lgbt", "date": "2012-04-25 10:18:10", "timestamp": 1335341890.0 } }, { "id": "84914", "term": "punk", "definition": "A slang term with multiple meanings depending on context. Originally used to refer to a sex worker or prostitute, especially a passive or feminine gay man (or a bottom). By the early 20th century, used to refer to a person considered worthless or criminal in nature. By the 1970s, used to refer to punk rock, a punk rocker, or to the sociocultural movement associated with punk rock and its fans. In the modern gay male community, the term \"punk\" may refer to a smaller, typically younger gay man who is forced into a submissive role in prison settings by an older gay man. Also occasionally used as a synonym for \"clock\" or \"read\", i.e. when a cisgender person recognizes a person as transgender.", "sentence": "Boxes are stupid, we can be a cute punk butch with fem qualities if we wanna.", "communities": [ "transgender", "gay male" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "actuallesbians", "date": "2023-02-24 08:37:07", "timestamp": 1677224227.0 } }, { "id": "110884", "term": "tranny chaser", "definition": "Someone who aims to have sexual relations (in some cases non-consensually) or date transgender people as a kind of fetish.", "sentence": ">I've never met a tranny chaser in real life", "communities": [ "transfeminine" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "TransphobiaProject", "date": "2015-11-16 06:38:22", "timestamp": 1447652302.0 } }, { "id": "117665", "term": "baby gay", "definition": "A person who has recently come out in relationship to a marginalized sexual or gender identity.", "sentence": "I just wanna say it sucks to be a baby gay or well someone who really put themselves out there.", "communities": [ "gay male" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "bisexual", "date": "2024-07-26 02:05:29", "timestamp": 1721952329.0 } }, { "id": "168380", "term": "hatchling", "definition": "A person who has (especially recently) realized that they are transgender.", "sentence": "I'm one of the many queerantine hatchlings of 2020.", "communities": [ "transgender" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "MtF", "date": "2023-05-29 14:02:35", "timestamp": 1685361755.0 } }, { "id": "119457", "term": "masc4masc", "definition": "A phrase used to describe a masculine gay man interested in other masculine gay men romantically and/or sexually.", "sentence": "Yeah, nothing wrong with masc4masc, similar to how there's nothing wrong with butch-butch relationships.", "communities": [ "gay male" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "bisexual", "date": "2018-05-13 07:48:54", "timestamp": 1526190534.0 } }, { "id": "124919", "term": "trade", "definition": "Slang for sex work or prostitution; may also be slang for a sex worker's client. Among gay men, refers to a man with whom one has commercial sex with, a gay man's casual partner, or a man a gay man has sex with generally speaking.", "sentence": "Guys who we have casual sex with are trade, e.g.", "communities": [ "gay", "gay male" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "gay", "date": "2023-01-22 21:15:17", "timestamp": 1674418517.0 } }, { "id": "107756", "term": "bottom surgery", "definition": "A slang term used to refer to genital gender-affirming surgeries.", "sentence": "Dr Ives has resumed MTF bottom surgery :)", "communities": [ "transgender" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "transgenderau", "date": "2024-07-21 12:03:51", "timestamp": 1721556231.0 } }, { "id": "115241", "term": "bull dyke", "definition": "A lesbian who appears masculine or acts in a masculine manner.", "sentence": "Hospital staff were so accepting when realizing My new identity and I had the BESTEST inspirational chat with a certain hot bull dyke nurse!", "communities": [ "lesbian" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "crossdressing", "date": "2022-11-25 15:36:08", "timestamp": 1669386968.0 } }, { "id": "123703", "term": "hunk", "definition": "A muscular, handsome gay man.", "sentence": "Im in my 20s and havent met a hunk who is married with a woman and in the closet.", "communities": [ "gay male" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "askgaybros", "date": "2022-07-27 21:16:29", "timestamp": 1658949389.0 } }, { "id": "110875", "term": "tranny chaser", "definition": "Someone who aims to have sexual relations (in some cases non-consensually) or date transgender people as a kind of fetish.", "sentence": "I have no experience with female chasers; so this post is exclusively about male tranny chasers.", "communities": [ "transfeminine" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "MtF", "date": "2022-06-05 06:58:29", "timestamp": 1654405109.0 } }, { "id": "223158", "term": "straight", "definition": "Of a person, being sexually attracted to individuals of the opposite gender in a binary gender system; heterosexual.", "sentence": "In straight relationships it's always the long-suffering woman who wants to do it, and the man who can't make a commitment.", "communities": [], "metadata": { "source": "OpenSubtitles", "title": "Puccini for Beginners", "imdb_id": "492481" } }, { "id": "205443", "term": "neg", "definition": "HIV negative.", "sentence": "So glad that treatment and prevention have moved on so much, and that poz folks can live healthy lives and neg folks can stay that way with prep.", "communities": [], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "askgaybros", "date": "2021-06-05 18:23:19", "timestamp": 1622910199.0 } }, { "id": "99798", "term": "closeted", "definition": "An adjective referring to an LGBTQIA+ person or persons who have not disclosed their status as LGBTQIA+ and other related aspects of their life. More broadly, it can also be used to describe anyone who is hiding part of their identity because of social pressure.", "sentence": "Does closeted because of uncertainty count?", "communities": [ "LGBTQ" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "lgbt", "date": "2021-09-05 22:30:02", "timestamp": 1630873802.0 } }, { "id": "151329", "term": "breeding", "definition": "Ejaculation inside the rectum during bareback anal sex.", "sentence": "I'm into piss play and unprotected breeding and lots of other very fun but risky play.", "communities": [ "gay" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "gay", "date": "2025-05-09 04:35:43", "timestamp": 1746758143.0 } }, { "id": "85708", "term": "rough trade", "definition": "Slang for a man who identifies as straight, but sometimes has sex with queer men (usually as a \"top\").", "sentence": "Iā€™m talking full-on seedy, rough trade vibesā€”like back in the day at Stellaā€™s in Times Square.", "communities": [ "gay" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "askgaybros", "date": "2025-02-26 14:20:56", "timestamp": 1740576056.0 } }, { "id": "482", "term": "down low", "definition": "Typically referring to a man who identifies publicly as heterosexual, but engages in covert sexual relationships with other men.", "sentence": "Right, on the down low, because they're married and a pastor of a church or something.", "communities": [ "African-American gay male" ], "metadata": { "source": "Podcasts", "title": "I've Had It" } }, { "id": "164181", "term": "E", "definition": "Abbreviation of estrogen or estradiol.", "sentence": "Testosterone reference is 0.5 to 2.4 nmol/L which seems okay, but as your E increases, your T will likely drop.", "communities": [ "transgender" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "transgenderau", "date": "2025-02-25 07:45:34", "timestamp": 1740465934.0 } }, { "id": "531", "term": "stealth", "definition": "When a transgender person keeps their transgender status closely guarded, living as if they were cisgender as their identified gender.", "sentence": "So that's why I'm always like, I would just rather my younger self, if I could look back now, be like, just do you, be stealth.", "communities": [ "transgender" ], "metadata": { "source": "Podcasts", "title": "Tea at Four" } }, { "id": "169399", "term": "manmoder", "definition": "One who is in manmode (presenting as male regardless of gender identity).", "sentence": "* feel like a manmoder talking to them", "communities": [ "transgender" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "transgendercirclejerk", "date": "2024-01-01 05:06:41", "timestamp": 1704082001.0 } }, { "id": "119532", "term": "no homo", "definition": "A phrase used as slang at the end of a sentence to assert the statement spoken by the speaker had no intentional homosexual implications. The phrase is also \"added to a statement in order to rid of a possible homosexual double-entendre\".", "sentence": "when someone says no homo, all I hear is homo", "communities": [ "gay male" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "bisexual", "date": "2013-12-01 18:49:26", "timestamp": 1385920166.0 } }, { "id": "118190", "term": "fag", "definition": "A pejorative term used chiefly in North America primarily to refer to a gay man. Alongside its use to refer to gay men in particular, it may also be used as a pejorative term for a \"repellent man\" or to refer to women who are lesbian (or to transgender people, typically transgender women). Its use has spread from the United States to varying extents elsewhere in the English-speaking world through mass culture, including film, music, and the Internet.", "sentence": "The ones that I try to make throw their homophobic behaviour by calling me fag/chakka.", "communities": [ "gay male" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "LGBTindia", "date": "2022-11-18 13:45:47", "timestamp": 1668775547.0 } }, { "id": "149500", "term": "the house down", "definition": "Used as an intensifier: very, to a great degree; exceptionally.", "sentence": "And ā€œboots slay the house downā€ is a positive comment, means youā€™re coolā€¦ but also no one talks like that lol šŸ‘€", "communities": [ "drag" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "gay", "date": "2024-10-11 01:12:54", "timestamp": 1728601974.0 } }, { "id": "91655", "term": "kiki", "definition": "ā€¢ A gathering of friends for the purpose of gossiping and chit-chat.\nā€¢ 1940s slang describing a lesbian comfortable with either a more passive or more aggressive partner in a relationship.", "sentence": "Would love to play with someone that enjoys the game so I have someone I can Kiki about it with!", "communities": [ "drag", "lesbian", "African-American transgender", "African-American gay male" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "gaymers", "date": "2025-01-08 16:25:56", "timestamp": 1736349956.0 } }, { "id": "114658", "term": "gold star lesbian", "definition": "A lesbian who has never had sex with a man.", "sentence": "Essentially a gold star gay is someone who's never had sex with a vagina and a gold star lesbian is someone who's never had sex with a penis.", "communities": [ "lesbian" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "askgaybros", "date": "2022-12-27 22:20:09", "timestamp": 1672176009.0 } }, { "id": "73521", "term": "bottom", "definition": "ā€¢ A \"bottom\" is an individual who acts as the \"receiving\" partner in sexual encounters. Sometimes used as a self-descriptor within queer communities, but should be replicated with caution. Sometimes used as a verb (\"to bottom for someone\"). Offensive if applied to LGBTQ+ individuals from outwith queer communities.\nā€¢ Someone, typically a man, who is penetrated during sexual intercourse or someone who has a preference for being penetrated during such intercourse.\nā€¢ The buttocks.\nā€¢ Genitalia; genitals.", "sentence": "Iā€™m dom and bottom", "communities": [ "gay", "LGBTQ" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "gay", "date": "2024-10-06 22:22:03", "timestamp": 1728246123.0 } }, { "id": "223050", "term": "straight", "definition": "Of a person, being sexually attracted to individuals of the opposite gender in a binary gender system; heterosexual.", "sentence": "And therefore, you're showing the straight world that I can be an executive.", "communities": [], "metadata": { "source": "OpenSubtitles", "title": "Paris Is Burning", "imdb_id": "100332" } }, { "id": "146726", "term": "twinkhon", "definition": "A trans woman who looks like a femboy or effeminate man.", "sentence": "Every future I've imagined for myself involves me being a woman, or at the very least being a clocky twinkhon, but even that is out of my reach.", "communities": [], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "MtF", "date": "2023-05-03 21:16:21", "timestamp": 1683141381.0 } }, { "id": "76239", "term": "dyke", "definition": "Contested terminology. Slur for lesbian, highly offensive if applied to a lesbian or transmasc person externally. Term has been reclaimed by some lesbians communities, and is sometimes used affirmingly within communities.\"Bulldyke\" and \"bulldagger\" are often used to indicate butch or masculine queer women, sometimes with overtones of toughness or aggression.", "sentence": "I thought I was the resident dyke", "communities": [], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "rupaulsdragrace", "date": "2018-03-20 01:09:57", "timestamp": 1521504597.0 } }, { "id": "215377", "term": "kikis", "definition": "ā€¢ A gathering of friends for the purpose of gossiping and chit-chat.\nā€¢ 1940s slang describing a lesbian comfortable with either a more passive or more aggressive partner in a relationship.", "sentence": "The kikis have been had, gurl.", "communities": [ "drag", "lesbian", "African-American transgender", "African-American gay male" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "gaymers", "date": "2012-09-17 19:37:57", "timestamp": 1347903477.0 } }, { "id": "107939", "term": "crossdreaming", "definition": "Dreams or fantasies in which a person imagines themself as (or simply dressed as) the \"opposite\" gender (i.e. a man as a woman or a woman as a man).", "sentence": "Iā€™ve read a lot about crossdreaming and transition.", "communities": [ "transgender", "cross-dressing" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "trans", "date": "2021-04-28 14:10:06", "timestamp": 1619611806.0 } }, { "id": "203314", "term": "doll", "definition": "A transgender woman or transfeminine person.", "sentence": "So when someone says \"Protect The Dolls\", its paying homage to queer history and showing an understanding of our (Trans people's) culture.", "communities": [], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "asktransgender", "date": "2025-06-16 21:25:13", "timestamp": 1750101913.0 } }, { "id": "227902", "term": "shade", "definition": "A slang term referring to a kind of insult, typically non-verbal in nature. Journalist Anna Holmes called shade \"the art of the sidelong insult\". Merriam-Webster defines it as \"subtle, sneering expression of contempt for or disgust with someoneā€”sometimes verbal, and sometimes not\".", "sentence": "So voguing is like a safe form of throwing shade.", "communities": [ "drag" ], "metadata": { "source": "OpenSubtitles", "title": "Paris Is Burning", "imdb_id": "100332" } }, { "id": "203323", "term": "doll", "definition": "A transgender woman or transfeminine person.", "sentence": "Go yell at some white cis straight women or something, stop coming for the dolls.", "communities": [], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "asktransgender", "date": "2025-05-20 22:27:28", "timestamp": 1747772848.0 } }, { "id": "85320", "term": "punk", "definition": "A slang term with multiple meanings depending on context. Originally used to refer to a sex worker or prostitute, especially a passive or feminine gay man (or a bottom). By the early 20th century, used to refer to a person considered worthless or criminal in nature. By the 1970s, used to refer to punk rock, a punk rocker, or to the sociocultural movement associated with punk rock and its fans. In the modern gay male community, the term \"punk\" may refer to a smaller, typically younger gay man who is forced into a submissive role in prison settings by an older gay man. Also occasionally used as a synonym for \"clock\" or \"read\", i.e. when a cisgender person recognizes a person as transgender.", "sentence": "I love my fellow trans punks :)", "communities": [ "transgender", "gay male" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "trans", "date": "2023-07-28 10:10:14", "timestamp": 1690531814.0 } }, { "id": "159499", "term": "E", "definition": "Abbreviation of estrogen or estradiol.", "sentence": "You need to be on at least some E.", "communities": [ "transgender" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "asktransgender", "date": "2023-01-14 03:07:31", "timestamp": 1673662051.0 } }, { "id": "143228", "term": "GLBT", "definition": "Initialism for gay, lesbian, bisexual, and transgender.", "sentence": "I think I remember a time in the early to mid 1990s when you could use either GLBT or LGBT, interchangeably.", "communities": [], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "olderlesbians", "date": "2024-11-05 23:28:47", "timestamp": 1730845727.0 } }, { "id": "215384", "term": "bio queen", "definition": "A cis female performance artist who performs in female drag at drag shows, or acts like a drag queen.", "sentence": "Is there an animosity towards bio queens in the drag community and if there is, why?", "communities": [], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "lgbt", "date": "2018-10-12 17:25:27", "timestamp": 1539357927.0 } }, { "id": "151335", "term": "breeding", "definition": "Ejaculation inside the rectum during bareback anal sex.", "sentence": "I fuckinv love breeding guys.", "communities": [ "gay" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "askgaybros", "date": "2024-03-14 21:55:48", "timestamp": 1710449748.0 } }, { "id": "204017", "term": "fishy queen", "definition": "A drag queen who adopts a particularly feminine appearance.", "sentence": "I love the overlined lip look on Fishy Queens like Courtney Act and Blair St. Clair.", "communities": [], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "Drag", "date": "2025-03-05 02:03:28", "timestamp": 1741136608.0 } }, { "id": "109042", "term": "titty skittle", "definition": "Oral estrogen taken by transgender woman and other transfeminine people.", "sentence": "Eyyyyy ya girl started her titty skittles today thank you planned parenthood Illinois", "communities": [ "transgender", "transfeminine" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "MtF", "date": "2019-05-07 02:00:30", "timestamp": 1557187230.0 } }, { "id": "211240", "term": "fagot", "definition": "A pejorative term used chiefly in North America primarily to refer to a gay man. Alongside its use to refer to gay men in particular, it may also be used as a pejorative term for a \"repellent man\" or to refer to women who are lesbian (or to transgender people, typically transgender women). Its use has spread from the United States to varying extents elsewhere in the English-speaking world through mass culture, including film, music, and the Internet.", "sentence": "Heard many people say that fagot has been reclaimed and redefined in our community, but I don't really think so.", "communities": [], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "askgaybros", "date": "2022-05-29 08:19:38", "timestamp": 1653805178.0 } }, { "id": "113705", "term": "high femme", "definition": "A femme person who expresses their gender in ultra feminine ways. Often, but not exclusively, this refers to a queer woman.", "sentence": "And I want to go into high femme or ultra girly sometimes.", "communities": [ "lesbian" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "genderfluid", "date": "2024-07-24 06:40:22", "timestamp": 1721796022.0 } }, { "id": "146681", "term": "transmaxx", "definition": "To undergo gender transition (particularly from male to female) for the perceived social advantages that come with being the opposite sex, especially as regards the sexual marketplace.", "sentence": "It's something I don't know how to talk about without it sounding like an incel transmaxxing thing.", "communities": [], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "ftm", "date": "2023-10-13 03:16:31", "timestamp": 1697159791.0 } }, { "id": "168466", "term": "hen", "definition": "The penis of a trans woman.", "sentence": "Do any of you ladies have suggestions for feminine jeans that won't be either super uncomfortable or super obvious for someone who still has her hen?", "communities": [ "transgender" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "MtF", "date": "2023-11-22 05:10:51", "timestamp": 1700626251.0 } }, { "id": "108553", "term": "second puberty", "definition": "A term often used by transgender persons transitioning after they have already undergone puberty.", "sentence": "You'll just experience a slowed second puberty, and you won't feminise as much as you would on a proper dosage.", "communities": [ "transgender" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "transgenderau", "date": "2024-07-16 14:53:44", "timestamp": 1721134424.0 } }, { "id": "170435", "term": "shenis", "definition": "The penis of a trans woman.", "sentence": "I always refer to it as my shenis.", "communities": [ "transgender" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "traaaaaaannnnnnnnnns", "date": "2018-12-28 22:49:31", "timestamp": 1546033771.0 } }, { "id": "86335", "term": "sugar daddy", "definition": "Expression of the Black community in the 1920s, to refer to an older, wealthy partner. Over time, this expression became used by the LGBTQIA+ community as well.", "sentence": "I recently got messaged by a supposed sugar daddy.", "communities": [], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "gaybros", "date": "2021-04-20 16:37:41", "timestamp": 1618929461.0 } }, { "id": "157899", "term": "clockable", "definition": "Of a transgender person or drag performer: able to be clocked; capable of being noticed or recognized as transgender; not passing.", "sentence": "And with HRT, Iā€™m horrified of ending up stuck looking like some abomination in between man & woman & being horribly clockable for the rest of my life.", "communities": [ "transgender" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "asktransgender", "date": "2025-07-14 22:08:39", "timestamp": 1752523719.0 } }, { "id": "206279", "term": "poz", "definition": "ā€¢ HIV positive.\nā€¢ To infect (someone) with a sexually transmitted infection; especially HIV.", "sentence": "they are far less likely to spread the disease than somebody who is \"neg\" but doesn't know they are poz.", "communities": [], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "askgaybros", "date": "2020-09-08 18:01:27", "timestamp": 1599580887.0 } }, { "id": "107225", "term": "deep stealth", "definition": "Referring to a transgender person who is not known to be trans by most of the people they interact with on a daily basis, even a sexual or romantic partner.", "sentence": "Every once in a blue moon I get clocked, but Iā€™ve been deep stealth most of my life.", "communities": [ "transgender" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "MtF", "date": "2024-12-01 17:28:30", "timestamp": 1733070510.0 } }, { "id": "112526", "term": "femme", "definition": "Traditionally, a lesbian who appears \"feminine\" or acts in a \"feminine\" manner. However, the term is often used to describe a wide variety of gender expressions and identities adjacent to feminine or femme-ness.", "sentence": "I think you look great but agree, it doesn't read femme that much.", "communities": [ "lesbian" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "lgbt", "date": "2021-10-04 22:11:42", "timestamp": 1633378302.0 } }, { "id": "79606", "term": "flute", "definition": "Outdated slang for fellatio, or someone performing fellatio.", "sentence": "So it it true or not that a lot of sailors like to play the skin flute?", "communities": [], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "gaybros", "date": "2023-03-21 01:39:50", "timestamp": 1679359190.0 } }, { "id": "115661", "term": "lesbro", "definition": "A man who is considered an \"honorary lesbian\" by lesbian friends; otherwise, rarely, a lesbian who is considered stereotypically masculine, i.e. a \"bro\".", "sentence": "I really didn't know what to expect, yet I wanted to venture out and my LesBro friend said she would go with me.", "communities": [ "lesbian" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "gaybros", "date": "2012-09-20 05:18:15", "timestamp": 1348111095.0 } }, { "id": "157412", "term": "twinky", "definition": "Being or resembling a twink (ā€œyoung, attractive, slim maleā€).", "sentence": "I was incredibly twinky at 21.", "communities": [ "gay" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "gay", "date": "2016-02-12 23:48:57", "timestamp": 1455317337.0 } }, { "id": "73084", "term": "bicycle", "definition": "Used as slang for bisexual in the 1960s. Also more widely used to indicate promiscuity, esp for women; this usage is considered offensive.", "sentence": "yeah I tend to hyperfixate on my crushes which are usually an even split between men and women, so Iā€™m definitely somewhere in the raging bicycle category", "communities": [], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "bisexual", "date": "2025-05-11 14:18:19", "timestamp": 1746965899.0 } }, { "id": "158095", "term": "crack", "definition": "To realize that one is transgender.", "sentence": "I was a bi guy for about 4 years before my egg cracked.", "communities": [ "transgender" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "actuallesbians", "date": "2024-05-19 18:06:17", "timestamp": 1716134777.0 } }, { "id": "116342", "term": "superchub", "definition": "An extremely large self-identified chub (\"chub\" meaning \"a gay man who is overweight or obese\").", "sentence": "I'm a 42 year old, 6'1, 260 pound (very muscular) Black Male in the Newark area looking for curvy superchubs to chill with.", "communities": [ "gay", "chub" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "nycgaybros", "date": "2024-03-12 14:34:03", "timestamp": 1710250443.0 } }, { "id": "115238", "term": "bull dyke", "definition": "A lesbian who appears masculine or acts in a masculine manner.", "sentence": "It's a derogatory term, but if I weren't a super femmey, lipstick les and was all hairy and cut, I would totally take back the term bull dyke.", "communities": [ "lesbian" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "lgbt", "date": "2023-01-10 10:03:27", "timestamp": 1673341407.0 } }, { "id": "205372", "term": "lesboy", "definition": "A person who identifies as male and as a lesbian.", "sentence": "does this sound like i qualify as a lesboy?", "communities": [], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "AskLGBT", "date": "2025-04-13 01:16:37", "timestamp": 1744499797.0 } }, { "id": "125895", "term": "bitch", "definition": "A pejorative slang term usually used for a woman who is considered unreasonable, malicious, a control freak, intrusive, or aggressive. It also has several other meanings, depending on the context.", "sentence": "He calls me a bitch and constantly tells me he's better than me for not being transgender.", "communities": [ "gay male" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "trans", "date": "2025-01-10 13:40:38", "timestamp": 1736512838.0 } }, { "id": "213101", "term": "gaylord", "definition": "Slur for a gay man.", "sentence": ",,Schwuchtel\" means something like gaylord in german", "communities": [], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "askgaybros", "date": "2020-04-17 10:41:30", "timestamp": 1587112890.0 } }, { "id": "169920", "term": "pre-T", "definition": "Not yet having undergone testosterone-based hormone replacement therapy.", "sentence": "Unfortunately, I am pre-T FtM due to transphobic parents.", "communities": [ "transgender" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "TransSupport", "date": "2024-07-15 21:02:42", "timestamp": 1721070162.0 } }, { "id": "1744", "term": "kink", "definition": "ā€¢ A specific sexual desire, practice, or activity considered unconventional but within certain socially constructed boundaries.\nā€¢ A thief or burglar.", "sentence": "Like I don't think, and I'm not kink shaming, I'm not like sex shaming.", "communities": [], "metadata": { "source": "Podcasts", "title": "anything goes with emma chamberlain" } }, { "id": "91869", "term": "gag", "definition": "To have an intense reaction, usually of shock or excitement. Also: to show intense jealousy or to have an appearance deemed good enough to cause such jealousy.", "sentence": "I was there in person and I was so gagged at how incredible her performance was!", "communities": [ "drag" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "rupaulsdragrace", "date": "2025-07-11 05:34:02", "timestamp": 1752204842.0 } }, { "id": "227811", "term": "coming out", "definition": "A metaphor for LGBTQIA+ people's self-disclosure of their sexual orientation or of their gender identity. The term coming out can also be used in various non-LGBTQIA+ applications (e.g. atheists). Framed and debated as a privacy issue, coming out of the closet is described and experienced variously as a psychological process or journey; decision-making or risk-taking; a strategy or plan; a mass or public event; a speech act and a matter of personal identity; a rite of passage; liberation or emancipation from oppression; an ordeal; a means toward feeling gay pride instead of shame and social stigma; or even career suicide. Author Steven Seidman writes that \"it is the power of the closet to shape the core of an individual's life that has made homosexuality into a significant personal, social, and political drama in twentieth-century America\".", "sentence": "BILLY, I'M NOT COMING OUT.", "communities": [ "LGBTQ" ], "metadata": { "source": "OpenSubtitles", "title": "Billy's Hollywood Screen Kiss", "imdb_id": "137386" } }, { "id": "76120", "term": "cornhole", "definition": "American rural slang to indicate anal sex, or a gay man. Generally considered offensive. Should not be confused with the game of the same name, which involves throwing beanbags into a hole in a wooden platform.", "sentence": "A source of embarrassment which has turned me away from getting cornholed like I desire.", "communities": [], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "gay", "date": "2013-07-19 12:35:05", "timestamp": 1374230105.0 } }, { "id": "89705", "term": "tranny", "definition": "A transgender person, usually a transgender woman. Originally a shortening of transvestite. Generally considered derogatory, offensive. Debate over the termā€™s offensiveness occurred in the early 2010s, but by 2017, the term was banned by several media stylebooks and labeled as hate speech by Facebook.", "sentence": "Idk I just wish I could use the word in a cute way, I love to be a Tranny Cutey or something", "communities": [ "transfeminine" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "MtF", "date": "2025-06-08 01:08:29", "timestamp": 1749337709.0 } }, { "id": "146692", "term": "transmaxx", "definition": "To undergo gender transition (particularly from male to female) for the perceived social advantages that come with being the opposite sex, especially as regards the sexual marketplace.", "sentence": "I do not agree with the transmaxxing thing but i am desperate, it does feel wrong to transition when i do not identify as female.", "communities": [], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "TransSupport", "date": "2020-09-04 13:59:31", "timestamp": 1599220771.0 } }, { "id": "88340", "term": "top", "definition": "ā€¢ A \"top\" is an individual who acts as the \"giving\" partner in sexual encounters. Sometimes used as a self-descriptor within queer communities, but should be replicated with caution. Sometimes used as a verb (\"to top someone\"). Offensive if applied to LGBTQ+ individuals from outwith queer communities.\nā€¢ Someone, typically a man, who is penetrating someone else during sexual intercourse or someone who has a preference for penetrating during such intercourse.", "sentence": "But honestly letting go of control like that is the ultimate power move, making her an absolute top.", "communities": [ "LGBTQ" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "korrasami", "date": "2020-09-27 16:39:19", "timestamp": 1601217559.0 } }, { "id": "10716", "term": "gender", "definition": "Evoking positive feelings regarding gender, like gender euphoria or gender envy.", "sentence": "So that was gender achievement.", "communities": [ "transgender" ], "metadata": { "source": "Podcasts", "title": "If Books Could Kill" } }, { "id": "73996", "term": "bottom", "definition": "ā€¢ A \"bottom\" is an individual who acts as the \"receiving\" partner in sexual encounters. Sometimes used as a self-descriptor within queer communities, but should be replicated with caution. Sometimes used as a verb (\"to bottom for someone\"). Offensive if applied to LGBTQ+ individuals from outwith queer communities.\nā€¢ Someone, typically a man, who is penetrated during sexual intercourse or someone who has a preference for being penetrated during such intercourse.\nā€¢ The buttocks.\nā€¢ Genitalia; genitals.", "sentence": "Anyway, she reads a lot about trans issues and things, and I donā€™t think sheā€™s been exposed to anyone that doesnā€™t have any bottom dysphoria.", "communities": [ "gay", "LGBTQ" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "mypartneristrans", "date": "2022-03-15 02:22:28", "timestamp": 1647307348.0 } }, { "id": "165071", "term": "estro", "definition": "Clipping of estrogen.", "sentence": "I take 2 Spiro and 1 estro... waat", "communities": [ "transgender" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "transpositive", "date": "2017-03-09 12:09:34", "timestamp": 1489057774.0 } }, { "id": "116674", "term": "chubby bear", "definition": "A bear who is particularly large (\"bear\" meaning \"a gay or bisexual man who has facial/body hair and a cuddly body\").", "sentence": "I am a chubby bear...", "communities": [ "chub", "bear" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "gay", "date": "2023-12-15 19:25:49", "timestamp": 1702664749.0 } }, { "id": "170459", "term": "spiro", "definition": "Clipping of spironolactone.", "sentence": "I quit Spiro at 18 months and am doing E monotherapy.", "communities": [ "transgender" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "asktransgender", "date": "2025-01-08 21:58:32", "timestamp": 1736369912.0 } }, { "id": "158117", "term": "crack", "definition": "To realize that one is transgender.", "sentence": "Iā€™m about 10 days into egg crack 2.0 (egg crack 1.0 was almost 2 years ago and prompted some changes but I shoved down/rationalized away desires for medical transition).", "communities": [ "transgender" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "asktransgender", "date": "2021-08-17 15:54:07", "timestamp": 1629208447.0 } }, { "id": "90374", "term": "twink", "definition": "ā€¢ Slang term widely used in gay communities to describe a young or young-looking man with little or no facial or body hair. Can be pejorative, but can also be a self-descriptor.\nā€¢ A young, attractive, slim male, usually having little body hair.", "sentence": "I would prefer a twink", "communities": [ "gay", "gay male" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "GayBroTeens", "date": "2025-06-10 21:11:06", "timestamp": 1749582666.0 } }, { "id": "94290", "term": "drab", "definition": "An instance of a transgender or non-binary person presenting as the gender corresponding to their sex assigned at birth instead of that corresponding to their internal gender identity (most commonly a trans woman dressed as a man).", "sentence": "I changed back into drab and had dinner with my wife.", "communities": [ "transgender", "drag", "transgender" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "MtF", "date": "2020-03-14 08:01:40", "timestamp": 1584169300.0 } }, { "id": "99745", "term": "gaymer", "definition": "Gay persons who have active interest in video games or tabletop games.", "sentence": "I tend to play multiplayer games on 360 such as BL2, AC5, Bomberman (yes), NinjaStorm (because I'm still a 13y/o gaymer in a 26 y/o's body).", "communities": [ "LGBTQ" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "ColumbusGaymers", "date": "2012-10-19 09:02:57", "timestamp": 1350630177.0 } }, { "id": "95167", "term": "werk", "definition": "Either an exclamation of approval or to do something excellently (often used in reference to dance or modeling).", "sentence": "Oh WERK, I'm also on y'all Community Discord!", "communities": [ "drag", "gay male" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "nycgaymers", "date": "2025-05-14 02:58:32", "timestamp": 1747184312.0 } }, { "id": "111032", "term": "squish", "definition": "An aromantic crush; the desire for a non-romantic and/or platonic relationship with another person.", "sentence": "Also, what should I do about a squish exactly, seeing as there are no traditional relationships beyond standard friendship that you can have with a squish.", "communities": [ "aromantic" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "LGBTeens", "date": "2013-09-07 06:00:11", "timestamp": 1378526411.0 } }, { "id": "109013", "term": "girldick", "definition": "A transgender woman's penis.", "sentence": "i love girldick and think it's normal to tell my trans girl friend that i wouldn't exclude them from my dating pool.", "communities": [ "transgender", "transfeminine" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "transgendercirclejerk", "date": "2023-10-24 05:27:36", "timestamp": 1698118056.0 } }, { "id": "165253", "term": "euphoria boner", "definition": "An erection of the penis in a trans woman, caused by strong feelings of gender euphoria.", "sentence": "Often called the euphoria boner, it's a completely normal phenomenon", "communities": [ "transgender" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "trans", "date": "2022-04-24 18:05:57", "timestamp": 1650816357.0 } }, { "id": "169915", "term": "pre-T", "definition": "Not yet having undergone testosterone-based hormone replacement therapy.", "sentence": "Sometimes it feels too feminine and others I feel like Iā€™m much uglier than I was pre-T.", "communities": [ "transgender" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "genderfluid", "date": "2023-02-28 19:14:38", "timestamp": 1677608078.0 } }, { "id": "157885", "term": "clockable", "definition": "Of a transgender person or drag performer: able to be clocked; capable of being noticed or recognized as transgender; not passing.", "sentence": "TLDR: people are staring and idk of I'm pretty or clockable", "communities": [ "transgender" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "actuallesbians", "date": "2023-05-15 15:09:34", "timestamp": 1684156174.0 } }, { "id": "101644", "term": "thembo", "definition": "A nonbinary or gender-neutral bimbo.", "sentence": "So if a bimbo is supposed to be dumb and slutty, and a himbo is a gentle giant wholesome large man, what's the thembo stereotype?", "communities": [ "nonbinary" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "traaaaaaannnnnnnnnns", "date": "2023-05-13 11:20:54", "timestamp": 1683969654.0 } }, { "id": "206486", "term": "useless lesbian", "definition": "A lesbian who is socially or romantically inept with other women.", "sentence": "Hi friends, useless lesbian here...", "communities": [], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "LGBTeens", "date": "2019-12-28 04:20:07", "timestamp": 1577503207.0 } }, { "id": "211929", "term": "flip flop", "definition": "Slang to indicate either 1) bisexuality or 2) a person that likes to switch between \"top\" and \"bottom\" roles during sex. Especially used by incarcerated people in the US.", "sentence": "Havenā€™t had sex in a while but I feel like when I start again Iā€™m gonna wanna do flip flop.", "communities": [], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "askgaybros", "date": "2022-04-29 21:46:22", "timestamp": 1651261582.0 } }, { "id": "987", "term": "slay", "definition": "Used to express approval or amazement.", "sentence": "Okay outfits are slay.", "communities": [ "drag" ], "metadata": { "source": "Podcasts", "title": "Leah on the Line" } }, { "id": "113742", "term": "100-footer", "definition": "A lesbian who can be identified easily as a lesbian from a hundred feet away.", "sentence": "She was definitely gay, i wouldn't even consider her a 100-footer.", "communities": [ "lesbian" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "actuallesbians", "date": "2023-03-22 07:29:18", "timestamp": 1679466558.0 } }, { "id": "115665", "term": "lesbro", "definition": "A man who is considered an \"honorary lesbian\" by lesbian friends; otherwise, rarely, a lesbian who is considered stereotypically masculine, i.e. a \"bro\".", "sentence": "So if you're shopping for a new, awesome lesbro to kick it with during Dinah (aren't we all?", "communities": [ "lesbian" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "actuallesbians", "date": "2017-03-14 17:50:34", "timestamp": 1489510234.0 } }, { "id": "151407", "term": "bussy", "definition": "ā€¢ Any anus, in general.\nā€¢ The vulva or vagina of a trans man.", "sentence": "Ugh, he could drive a truck into my bussy and Iā€™d still make him breakfast", "communities": [ "gay" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "LadyBoners", "date": "2021-05-03 20:11:40", "timestamp": 1620065500.0 } }, { "id": "169974", "term": "princess wand", "definition": "A trans woman's penis.", "sentence": "Now that I am with her again and my bodyā€™s a lot more feminized and the princess wand is not wandingā€” itā€™s hard to top like I used to.", "communities": [ "transgender" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "trans", "date": "2025-06-22 00:19:19", "timestamp": 1750544359.0 } }, { "id": "229025", "term": "outie", "definition": "A term sometimes used to refer to the external genitalia of a transfeminine person.", "sentence": "I'm just gonna have an innie instead of an outie.", "communities": [ "transfeminine" ], "metadata": { "source": "OpenSubtitles", "title": "Transamerica", "imdb_id": "407265" } }, { "id": "10189", "term": "cheese", "definition": "The smegma that accumulates around the penis, often the uncircumcised penis, or the unwashed labia.", "sentence": "Is that where the term dick cheese comes from?", "communities": [], "metadata": { "source": "Podcasts", "title": "Coffee Convos with Kail Lowry and Lindsie Chrisley" } }, { "id": "127358", "term": "YAASSS", "definition": "An interjection expressing great pleasure or excitement.", "sentence": "This sooooo a yaasss from me.", "communities": [], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "gay", "date": "2025-02-23 20:25:24", "timestamp": 1740338724.0 } }, { "id": "169982", "term": "princess wand", "definition": "A trans woman's penis.", "sentence": "1 year on estrogen and before surgery, my princess wand tried to do that on its own, lol", "communities": [ "transgender" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "traaaaaaannnnnnnnnns", "date": "2023-02-12 03:05:48", "timestamp": 1676167548.0 } }, { "id": "97011", "term": "power top", "definition": "A power top is one noted for their skill or aggressiveness in topping (acting as the \"giving\" partner in sexual encounters).", "sentence": "How does everyone feel about porn where you have a power top asian and a power bottom white daddy?", "communities": [ "LGBTQ" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "gaysian", "date": "2024-12-07 02:53:44", "timestamp": 1733536424.0 } }, { "id": "157852", "term": "boymoder", "definition": "One who is in boymode, especially a trans woman who is on HRT but is not out.", "sentence": "Me as a boymoder trying to talk to other queer women:", "communities": [ "transgender" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "actuallesbians", "date": "2025-03-25 04:49:40", "timestamp": 1742874580.0 } }, { "id": "116764", "term": "front hole", "definition": "Slang for vagina, often used by transmasculine persons assigned female at birth.", "sentence": "For reference, pre op, gay, I use my front hole for penetrative sex with no pain.", "communities": [ "transmasculine" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "transhealth", "date": "2019-10-16 02:00:51", "timestamp": 1571184051.0 } }, { "id": "20", "term": "serve cunt", "definition": "To act in a powerfully and unapologetically feminine manner.", "sentence": "But then I think there are, like, my favorite dolls, like Alex Kinsani, Hunter Schafer, like, they serve cunt.", "communities": [ "drag" ], "metadata": { "source": "Podcasts", "title": "Why Won't You Date Me? with Nicole Byer" } }, { "id": "96174", "term": "gaydar", "definition": "A colloquialism referring to the intuitive ability of a person to assess others' sexual orientations as gay, bisexual or heterosexual. Gaydar relies on verbal and non-verbal clues and LGBTQ stereotypes. These include the sensitivity to social behaviors and mannerisms; for instance, acknowledging flamboyant body language, the tone of voice used by a person when speaking, overtly rejecting traditional gender roles, a person's occupation, and grooming habits.", "sentence": "(My mom literally says she has a gaydar but because I dont talk or walk like im gay ig she has no idea)", "communities": [ "LGBTQ" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "comingout", "date": "2025-04-07 19:53:01", "timestamp": 1744048381.0 } }, { "id": "215421", "term": "bio queen", "definition": "A cis female performance artist who performs in female drag at drag shows, or acts like a drag queen.", "sentence": "I got invited out last night by a few drag queens I know, one bio queen and a trans masc drag king I have only known a short time.", "communities": [], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "trans", "date": "2024-12-25 17:22:30", "timestamp": 1735143750.0 } }, { "id": "204367", "term": "folx", "definition": "Folks; people.", "sentence": "Alright folx, I know we feel some kinda way about HRC (how they spend their money, among other reasons).", "communities": [], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "AskLGBT", "date": "2025-02-11 15:07:11", "timestamp": 1739282831.0 } }, { "id": "119521", "term": "no homo", "definition": "A phrase used as slang at the end of a sentence to assert the statement spoken by the speaker had no intentional homosexual implications. The phrase is also \"added to a statement in order to rid of a possible homosexual double-entendre\".", "sentence": "Okay sexuality is fluid and all but no homo ain't that powerful.", "communities": [ "gay male" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "gaybros", "date": "2023-10-04 13:36:37", "timestamp": 1696419397.0 } }, { "id": "154652", "term": "mangina", "definition": "ā€¢ The anus of a man, especially in the context of gay sex.\nā€¢ The vulva or vagina of a trans man, or the neovagina of a detransitioned man.", "sentence": "When heā€™s going down on your mangina how do you make sure no parcels are coming down the factory production line?", "communities": [ "transgender", "gay" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "askgaybros", "date": "2024-10-02 22:15:59", "timestamp": 1727900159.0 } }, { "id": "113808", "term": "boi", "definition": "An LGBTQIA+ slang term with multiple definitions; a boi might be a boyish lesbian, a submissive butch in the BDSM community, a younger transgender man or a transgender man early in transition, a younger bisexual or gay person who is somewhat feminine. Alternatively, some persons identifying with the term might fit none of these categories.", "sentence": "I could be your cute pan boi šŸ„ŗšŸ¤­", "communities": [ "lesbian", "transmasculine", "African-American LGBTQ" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "GayBroTeens", "date": "2022-08-13 05:30:19", "timestamp": 1660361419.0 } }, { "id": "84579", "term": "lipstick lesbian", "definition": "Usually refers to a lesbian with a feminine gender expression. Can be used in a positive or a derogatory way, depending on who is using it. Is sometimes also used to refer to a lesbian who is seen as automatically \"passing\" for heterosexual.", "sentence": "Iā€™ve always interpreted Lipstick Lesbian to be along the lines of.", "communities": [ "lesbian" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "actuallesbians", "date": "2023-01-02 04:23:46", "timestamp": 1672629826.0 } }, { "id": "115090", "term": "chapstick lesbian", "definition": "A lesbian who exhibits some butch traits (short hair, stereotypical men's clothing, etc.) without wholly fitting the masculine butch stereotype; alternatively, a lesbian who is athletic or has a keen interest in sports.", "sentence": "If anything more soft butch / futch/ chapstick lesbian", "communities": [ "lesbian" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "bisexual", "date": "2023-05-23 17:31:14", "timestamp": 1684855874.0 } }, { "id": "168377", "term": "hatchling", "definition": "A person who has (especially recently) realized that they are transgender.", "sentence": "Would they have resources for a young hatchling like myself who isn't totally ready for hrt yet?", "communities": [ "transgender" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "asktransgender", "date": "2017-11-30 21:55:43", "timestamp": 1512075343.0 } }, { "id": "134005", "term": "ambisextrous", "definition": "Said of a person, bisexual.", "sentence": "Ain't ambidextrous but I am ambisextrous", "communities": [], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "BisexualTeens", "date": "2023-08-20 07:37:35", "timestamp": 1692509855.0 } }, { "id": "110415", "term": "Eve's apple", "definition": "A transfeminine slang term coined to replace the masculine sounding \"Adam's apple\".", "sentence": "Before raising your eve's apple, the loop represents it.", "communities": [ "transfeminine" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "transvoice", "date": "2018-02-12 01:49:49", "timestamp": 1518396589.0 } }, { "id": "228694", "term": "butch", "definition": "ā€¢ Traditionally, a lesbian who appears \"masculine\" or acts in a \"masculine\" manner. However, the term is often used to describe a wide variety of gender expressions and identities adjacent to masculinity or \"butchilinity\".\nā€¢ Heterosexual.", "sentence": "Because I think it makes them feel that they might be queer if they like a butch version.", "communities": [ "lesbian" ], "metadata": { "source": "OpenSubtitles", "title": "Venus Boyz", "imdb_id": "293685" } }, { "id": "114743", "term": "butch dyke", "definition": "A butch lesbian. \"Butch\" is often used to describe a wide variety of gender expressions and identities adjacent to masculinity or \"butchilinity\".", "sentence": "I live as a butch dyke, though my partner and close friends understand that I'm not entirely female-identified.", "communities": [ "lesbian" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "asktransgender", "date": "2011-10-11 18:02:34", "timestamp": 1318348954.0 } }, { "id": "86147", "term": "stud", "definition": "ā€¢ Community term for an African-American and/or Latinx masculine queer woman. Also known as \"ag.\" Only use if someone self-describes in this way, and avoid using for white people, as this is a term specifically developed by and for African-American and Latinx communities.\nā€¢ A masculine or butch lesbian; predominantly utilized in Black and Latina lesbian communities. Should not be used by individuals outside of those communities, as it may be seen as pejorative. Sometimes expanded to refer to other gender identities and expressions.", "sentence": "Im a bit on the older side (33), bi Female, stud, asexual, goal driven.", "communities": [ "lesbian", "Latine lesbian", "African-American lesbian" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "Asexual", "date": "2020-06-03 00:24:34", "timestamp": 1591136674.0 } }, { "id": "110400", "term": "Eve's apple", "definition": "A transfeminine slang term coined to replace the masculine sounding \"Adam's apple\".", "sentence": "I mean I don't hate my Eve's Apple but I don't need to.", "communities": [ "transfeminine" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "lgbt", "date": "2021-05-25 14:46:57", "timestamp": 1621946817.0 } }, { "id": "126878", "term": "bareback", "definition": "Sexual activity without the use of a condom.", "sentence": "I don't do bareback with hookups, and it's never been discussed in relationships I've had so far either.", "communities": [ "gay male" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "gaybros", "date": "2021-08-22 21:32:55", "timestamp": 1629660775.0 } }, { "id": "116774", "term": "seahorse dad", "definition": "Slang term for a transgender man who is carrying, or has carried, a child to term.", "sentence": "Hi Iā€™m a binary trans man and I plan to be a seahorse dad in two years.", "communities": [ "transmasculine" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "ftm", "date": "2021-12-30 09:52:37", "timestamp": 1640854357.0 } }, { "id": "212283", "term": "pansy", "definition": "Various flowers are used to refer to feminine gay men, though \"pansy\" is probably the most common. Associates gay men with misogynistic ideas of femininity; implies weakness, unthreateneaning appearance, cowardliness. Offensive, often used as an intentional slur.", "sentence": "I've experienced negative reactions from other males who labelled me with words like \"pussy, pansy, wimp, soft, etc.", "communities": [], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "asktransgender", "date": "2017-04-09 01:12:27", "timestamp": 1491693147.0 } }, { "id": "220224", "term": "bitch", "definition": "A pejorative slang term usually used for a woman who is considered unreasonable, malicious, a control freak, intrusive, or aggressive. It also has several other meanings, depending on the context.", "sentence": "Show business is a harsh bitch of a mistress who kicked me in the gut one too many times until I heaved up the regret of a millions yesteryears!", "communities": [ "gay male" ], "metadata": { "source": "OpenSubtitles", "title": "Will & Grace", "imdb_id": "157246" } }, { "id": "97120", "term": "versatile top", "definition": "A versatile top is one who prefers to top (act as the \"giving\" partner in sexual encounters) but who bottoms (acts as the \"receiving\" partner in sexual encounters) occasionally.", "sentence": "I don't want a versatile top.", "communities": [ "LGBTQ" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "lgbt", "date": "2020-06-10 15:30:24", "timestamp": 1591795824.0 } }, { "id": "83731", "term": "gym rat", "definition": "A sports enthusiast; usually one who frequents gyms and training grounds; often used of young gay men obsessed with body building.", "sentence": "Tim on the other hand was a gym rat.", "communities": [], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "lgbt", "date": "2019-08-16 15:02:44", "timestamp": 1565960564.0 } }, { "id": "101642", "term": "thembo", "definition": "A nonbinary or gender-neutral bimbo.", "sentence": "I am also playing a thembo Rook :)", "communities": [ "nonbinary" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "gaymers", "date": "2024-11-12 16:00:46", "timestamp": 1731423646.0 } }, { "id": "110258", "term": "zap", "definition": "Slang term for electrolytic epilation.", "sentence": "Getting my beard zapped off was a great idea, have a great night gals, šŸ˜˜", "communities": [ "transfeminine" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "crossdressing", "date": "2023-10-15 03:15:22", "timestamp": 1697332522.0 } }, { "id": "99363", "term": "total top", "definition": "A total top is one who assumes an exclusively penetrative role for sex.", "sentence": "Been in a relationship with a wonderful guy now, but hes a total top and Iā€™m pretty versatile.", "communities": [ "LGBTQ" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "gay", "date": "2018-05-22 22:17:49", "timestamp": 1527020269.0 } }, { "id": "203069", "term": "VT", "definition": "Initialism of voice training.", "sentence": "I'm in VT too.", "communities": [ "transgender" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "gaybros", "date": "2013-05-22 02:21:20", "timestamp": 1369182080.0 } }, { "id": "213180", "term": "gym bunny", "definition": "A sports enthusiast; usually one who frequents gyms and training grounds; often used of young gay men obsessed with body building.", "sentence": "Iā€™m a gym bunny but my facial hair isnā€™t all removed.", "communities": [], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "MtF", "date": "2025-05-05 05:58:45", "timestamp": 1746417525.0 } }, { "id": "124375", "term": "otter", "definition": "A hairy man with a slender physique, in contrast with a bear, who is more thickset.", "sentence": "If not, should we create some terms within the otter community that could better describe the various types of otters out there?", "communities": [ "gay", "gay male" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "lgbt", "date": "2023-09-08 22:39:54", "timestamp": 1694205594.0 } }, { "id": "154655", "term": "mangina", "definition": "ā€¢ The anus of a man, especially in the context of gay sex.\nā€¢ The vulva or vagina of a trans man, or the neovagina of a detransitioned man.", "sentence": "I love my mangina and Iā€™m satisfied enough with my bottom growth too.", "communities": [ "transgender", "gay" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "ftm", "date": "2022-02-19 03:13:49", "timestamp": 1645236829.0 } }, { "id": "2543", "term": "shade", "definition": "A slang term referring to a kind of insult, typically non-verbal in nature. Journalist Anna Holmes called shade \"the art of the sidelong insult\". Merriam-Webster defines it as \"subtle, sneering expression of contempt for or disgust with someoneā€”sometimes verbal, and sometimes not\".", "sentence": "And I mean, all of this is no shade.", "communities": [ "drag" ], "metadata": { "source": "Podcasts", "title": "Bittersweet Infamy" } }, { "id": "106834", "term": "girlmode", "definition": "When a transgender person presents a gender expression codified as female, typically if that person is a transgender man. Usually used in the context of going incognito as a cisgender woman.", "sentence": "Sadly been a while since I was in girlmode - I miss it, honestly.", "communities": [ "transgender", "transgender" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "genderfluid", "date": "2024-09-26 19:27:44", "timestamp": 1727371664.0 } }, { "id": "102075", "term": "enby", "definition": "A nonbinary person, typically a young adult or an adolescent.", "sentence": "Man I gotta get me an enby sticker", "communities": [ "nonbinary" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "BisexualTeens", "date": "2023-02-16 18:43:20", "timestamp": 1676569400.0 } }, { "id": "206329", "term": "pozzed", "definition": "HIV positive.", "sentence": "There have been attempts to misrepresent this, apparently out of some fear that if young folks arenā€™t sufficiently terrified theyā€™ll run out and get their bussies pozzed.", "communities": [], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "askgaybros", "date": "2019-05-01 04:35:58", "timestamp": 1556678158.0 } }, { "id": "89809", "term": "tranny", "definition": "A transgender person, usually a transgender woman. Originally a shortening of transvestite. Generally considered derogatory, offensive. Debate over the termā€™s offensiveness occurred in the early 2010s, but by 2017, the term was banned by several media stylebooks and labeled as hate speech by Facebook.", "sentence": "If someone calls me a tranny but doesn't mean it in a rude way/to make me dysphoric, then it's fine with me.", "communities": [ "transfeminine" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "NonBinary", "date": "2020-10-05 23:55:00", "timestamp": 1601934900.0 } }, { "id": "94268", "term": "drab", "definition": "An instance of a transgender or non-binary person presenting as the gender corresponding to their sex assigned at birth instead of that corresponding to their internal gender identity (most commonly a trans woman dressed as a man).", "sentence": "Also, I'd wear this for underdressing in drab/guy-mode.", "communities": [ "transgender", "drag", "transgender" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "crossdressing", "date": "2025-04-10 21:14:19", "timestamp": 1744312459.0 } }, { "id": "214691", "term": "swinging both ways", "definition": "A euphemistic phrase indicating that someone (of any gender) is gay or bisexual. These phrases are not a slur or especially offensive, and are generally used with a note of humour. However, they are outdated, because the euphemistic reluctance to normalise terms such as \"gay,\" \"lesbian,\" or \"bisexual\" suggests that LGBTQ+ people should not be openly talked about. Risks blocking discoverability if used instead of more direct terms. Not to be confused with the term \"swinging\" on its own, which can indicate non-monogamous practices.", "sentence": "So yeah, I'm a bi guy, swinging both ways but do I get accepted into the gaybros community.", "communities": [], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "gaybros", "date": "2013-07-13 23:24:38", "timestamp": 1373750678.0 } }, { "id": "123243", "term": "wolf", "definition": "A gay man who falls somewhere between a fox or twink and a bear or cub.", "sentence": "A wolf would be in between, more like a hairy twunk maybe.", "communities": [ "gay male" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "askgaybros", "date": "2025-03-21 20:03:31", "timestamp": 1742583811.0 } }, { "id": "101652", "term": "thembo", "definition": "A nonbinary or gender-neutral bimbo.", "sentence": "(From, a fellow thembo with tics)", "communities": [ "nonbinary" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "NonBinary", "date": "2023-09-30 18:20:53", "timestamp": 1696090853.0 } }, { "id": "157891", "term": "clockable", "definition": "Of a transgender person or drag performer: able to be clocked; capable of being noticed or recognized as transgender; not passing.", "sentence": "I'm sensitive and I feel clockable AF so I don't plan on engaging in shade battles (even though", "communities": [ "transgender" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "rupaulsdragrace", "date": "2019-08-20 17:57:03", "timestamp": 1566316623.0 } }, { "id": "202170", "term": "unclockable", "definition": "Not recognizable as transgender or a drag performer; passing.", "sentence": "I'm not bothered about my bust being unclockable and I'm only around a B cup anyway.", "communities": [ "transgender" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "lesbianfashionadvice", "date": "2025-04-14 00:06:29", "timestamp": 1744581989.0 } }, { "id": "79620", "term": "flute", "definition": "Outdated slang for fellatio, or someone performing fellatio.", "sentence": "I'd like to play his flute", "communities": [], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "gaymers", "date": "2023-08-06 09:04:35", "timestamp": 1691305475.0 } }, { "id": "151530", "term": "bussy", "definition": "ā€¢ Any anus, in general.\nā€¢ The vulva or vagina of a trans man.", "sentence": "Why do trans girls get the word bussy when I'm an actual boy with a pussy }:\\[", "communities": [ "gay" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "transgendercirclejerk", "date": "2022-04-20 18:31:57", "timestamp": 1650472317.0 } }, { "id": "228686", "term": "butch", "definition": "ā€¢ Traditionally, a lesbian who appears \"masculine\" or acts in a \"masculine\" manner. However, the term is often used to describe a wide variety of gender expressions and identities adjacent to masculinity or \"butchilinity\".\nā€¢ Heterosexual.", "sentence": "Cause I'm not large with the butch.", "communities": [ "lesbian" ], "metadata": { "source": "OpenSubtitles", "title": "In the Flesh", "imdb_id": "480514" } }, { "id": "206338", "term": "snatched", "definition": "Good-looking.", "sentence": "I wanna look snatched in photos is that a crime?", "communities": [], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "gaybros", "date": "2023-07-09 05:30:52", "timestamp": 1688873452.0 } }, { "id": "158745", "term": "cunt", "definition": "ā€¢ The anus of a trans woman.\nā€¢ The inguinal canals of a trans woman.\nā€¢ Amazing or very good.", "sentence": "Not that sheā€™s particularly serving infinite cunt or has cheap looks.", "communities": [ "transgender" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "rupaulsdragrace", "date": "2025-03-15 06:11:41", "timestamp": 1742015501.0 } }, { "id": "99597", "term": "gaymer", "definition": "Gay persons who have active interest in video games or tabletop games.", "sentence": "What's happened to all the UK Gaymer Discord servers?", "communities": [ "LGBTQ" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "UKLGBT", "date": "2024-11-06 15:18:38", "timestamp": 1730902718.0 } }, { "id": "210509", "term": "beards", "definition": "Individuals who pose as the date or partner of someone they are not in a relationship with, typically to prevent that person's sexuality from becoming public knowledge; most commonly used to refer to a woman pretending to be dating a gay man.", "sentence": "iā€™ve actually never heard of beards/lavender marriages being nonconsensual wtf šŸ˜Ÿ but yeah if thatā€™s the case thatā€™s def not cool.", "communities": [ "LGBTQ" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "queer", "date": "2025-07-09 22:55:49", "timestamp": 1752094549.0 } }, { "id": "90713", "term": "slay", "definition": "Used to express approval or amazement.", "sentence": "We really donā€™t deserve the slay grandma", "communities": [ "drag" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "bisexual", "date": "2021-07-10 23:55:23", "timestamp": 1625954123.0 } }, { "id": "115250", "term": "baby dyke", "definition": "A person who has just come out as a lesbian.", "sentence": "TYIA and hugs from a new baby dyke <3", "communities": [ "lesbian" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "lgbt", "date": "2018-10-11 04:16:06", "timestamp": 1539224166.0 } }, { "id": "108911", "term": "girl juice", "definition": "A slang term referring to injectable feminizing hormones.", "sentence": "Hope the girl juice treats you well!", "communities": [ "transfeminine" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "trans", "date": "2023-07-26 18:18:11", "timestamp": 1690388291.0 } }, { "id": "19670", "term": "tea", "definition": "Information, especially gossip.", "sentence": "So the real tea, Taylor and I actually had this like, undeniable chemistry that was never shown.", "communities": [ "gay" ], "metadata": { "source": "Podcasts", "title": "The Viall Files" } }, { "id": "937", "term": "gender identity", "definition": "A personal identity one develops in childhood that one belongs to a gender category, multiple gender categories, or no gender categories.", "sentence": "No, cisgender kids are pretty much always trusted to know their gender identity.", "communities": [], "metadata": { "source": "Podcasts", "title": "The Witch Trials of J.K. Rowling" } }, { "id": "96983", "term": "total bottom", "definition": "A total bottom is someone who assumes an exclusively passive or receptive role during anal or oral intercourse.", "sentence": "I'm a total bottom, I want monogamy and I adore my husband, so I'm very satisfied in a monogamous relationship with a total top.", "communities": [ "LGBTQ" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "askgaybros", "date": "2024-06-10 17:17:33", "timestamp": 1718032653.0 } }, { "id": "91786", "term": "faux queen", "definition": "A cis female performance artist who performs in female drag at drag shows, or acts like a drag queen.", "sentence": "Not sure about Reddit but I know Tumblr has some what of a faux queen community.", "communities": [ "drag", "gay male" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "rupaulsdragrace", "date": "2013-12-15 00:44:32", "timestamp": 1387064672.0 } }, { "id": "114665", "term": "gold star lesbian", "definition": "A lesbian who has never had sex with a man.", "sentence": "No, but I do consider myself now a gold star lesbian.", "communities": [ "lesbian" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "MtF", "date": "2023-04-03 06:23:08", "timestamp": 1680495788.0 } }, { "id": "91776", "term": "faux queen", "definition": "A cis female performance artist who performs in female drag at drag shows, or acts like a drag queen.", "sentence": "I've always wanted to be a faux queen because I really enjoy make up.", "communities": [ "drag", "gay male" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "actuallesbians", "date": "2013-04-08 10:06:14", "timestamp": 1365408374.0 } }, { "id": "205400", "term": "neg", "definition": "HIV negative.", "sentence": "Do we have any mathematicians in the sub who can express this post concisely and prove that *you are likely to contract hiv from a neg than from a poz*?", "communities": [], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "gaybros", "date": "2021-07-28 11:53:52", "timestamp": 1627466032.0 } }, { "id": "158050", "term": "clocky", "definition": "Clearly identifiable as transgender; capable of being easily clocked; not passing.", "sentence": "The more makeup I apply on myself the more clocky my face becomes", "communities": [ "transgender" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "trans", "date": "2025-05-08 13:48:40", "timestamp": 1746704920.0 } }, { "id": "119527", "term": "no homo", "definition": "A phrase used as slang at the end of a sentence to assert the statement spoken by the speaker had no intentional homosexual implications. The phrase is also \"added to a statement in order to rid of a possible homosexual double-entendre\".", "sentence": "I say no homo to my gay friends when were being gay as fuck", "communities": [ "gay male" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "actuallesbians", "date": "2020-02-12 07:42:11", "timestamp": 1581489731.0 } }, { "id": "115064", "term": "baby butch", "definition": "A young butch or boyish lesbian or a butch or boyish lesbian who is perceived to be young, regardless of age.", "sentence": "Any advice is appreciated, since Iā€™m a bit of a baby butch!", "communities": [ "lesbian" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "lesbianfashionadvice", "date": "2019-02-07 23:25:39", "timestamp": 1549578339.0 } }, { "id": "83503", "term": "gold star", "definition": "Slang for someone who has never had sex with someone of the opposite gender, sometimes including bisexual people of their own gender. Most commonly used in lesbian communities, now widely recognised as biphobic.", "sentence": "I am not a gold star.", "communities": [], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "gaybros", "date": "2024-04-24 13:08:45", "timestamp": 1713956925.0 } }, { "id": "109074", "term": "titty skittle", "definition": "Oral estrogen taken by transgender woman and other transfeminine people.", "sentence": "Iā€™m non binary and when I move out I want to get top sugary and titty skittles.", "communities": [ "transgender", "transfeminine" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "NonBinary", "date": "2020-02-25 00:23:26", "timestamp": 1582586606.0 } }, { "id": "124647", "term": "cruising", "definition": "To walk or drive about a locality in search of a sex partner, usually of the anonymous, casual, one-time variety.", "sentence": "Actually i always felt there's a lot more cruising in the \"straight\" area.", "communities": [ "gay male" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "gaybros", "date": "2024-02-24 18:45:49", "timestamp": 1708796749.0 } }, { "id": "2863", "term": "house of", "definition": "In the US, a group of drag queens who have been mentored by a \"mother,\" also known as a \"house.\" These groups often take on family drag names and form close-knit communities.", "sentence": "It's just not going to be called House of Kim.", "communities": [], "metadata": { "source": "Podcasts", "title": "Let's Be Honest with Kristin Cavallari" } }, { "id": "151581", "term": "chubby", "definition": "An overweight or obese gay man.", "sentence": "He's not even chubby like, I'M Chubby but this man is fine and handsome.", "communities": [ "gay" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "gaybros", "date": "2023-05-25 10:53:52", "timestamp": 1685004832.0 } }, { "id": "106737", "term": "cis-tem", "definition": "Mainstream culture, controlled by the elites or government of a state, or a combination of them, which is oppressive to transgender persons.", "sentence": "Defy the cis-tem maybe?", "communities": [ "transgender" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "traaaaaaannnnnnnnnns", "date": "2019-01-18 19:14:20", "timestamp": 1547835260.0 } }, { "id": "151572", "term": "chubby", "definition": "An overweight or obese gay man.", "sentence": "I'm a chubby guy that is much more attracted to other chubby guys (the bear body), but you don't really see too much of that.", "communities": [ "gay" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "lgbt", "date": "2020-09-29 17:05:58", "timestamp": 1601391958.0 } }, { "id": "206355", "term": "snatched", "definition": "Good-looking.", "sentence": "Iā€™m skinny-fat, like Iā€™m slim but Iā€™m pretty short and have a lot of curves (my waist is SNATCHED)", "communities": [], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "asktransgender", "date": "2024-11-08 01:30:20", "timestamp": 1731025820.0 } }, { "id": "146176", "term": "hon", "definition": "A trans woman who does not pass; a clocky (clearly identifiable as transgender) trans woman.", "sentence": "However I have no idea about hon, from the profile that I saw that was posting these words relentlessly it might be a trans woman who doesn't pass well?", "communities": [], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "asktransgender", "date": "2024-04-27 16:30:17", "timestamp": 1714228217.0 } }, { "id": "115194", "term": "soft butch", "definition": "A lesbian who exhibits some stereotypical butch traits without fitting the masculine stereotype associated with butch lesbians.", "sentence": "I consider myself soft butch to a large degree--though I do have a lovely summer skirt I am dying to wear out!", "communities": [ "lesbian" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "ask_transgender", "date": "2016-08-05 17:43:01", "timestamp": 1470411781.0 } }, { "id": "170034", "term": "prog", "definition": "Progesterone.", "sentence": "Waiting a bit longer with prog may be preferable.", "communities": [ "transgender" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "asktransgender", "date": "2025-07-10 22:44:08", "timestamp": 1752180248.0 } }, { "id": "107315", "term": "bottom surgery", "definition": "A slang term used to refer to genital gender-affirming surgeries.", "sentence": "I have those urges too but no bottom surgery for me", "communities": [ "transgender" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "crossdressing", "date": "2023-12-06 17:26:19", "timestamp": 1701879979.0 } }, { "id": "96222", "term": "gaydar", "definition": "A colloquialism referring to the intuitive ability of a person to assess others' sexual orientations as gay, bisexual or heterosexual. Gaydar relies on verbal and non-verbal clues and LGBTQ stereotypes. These include the sensitivity to social behaviors and mannerisms; for instance, acknowledging flamboyant body language, the tone of voice used by a person when speaking, overtly rejecting traditional gender roles, a person's occupation, and grooming habits.", "sentence": "I think it would be rude if you ask if someone is gay to calibrate your gaydar.", "communities": [ "LGBTQ" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "AskLGBT", "date": "2023-03-01 18:33:52", "timestamp": 1677692032.0 } }, { "id": "106662", "term": "repressor", "definition": "A transgender person who fights or represses the wish to change their gender expression.", "sentence": "If you don't transition you are considered a trans repressor.", "communities": [ "transgender" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "asktransgender", "date": "2022-06-24 15:00:45", "timestamp": 1656075645.0 } }, { "id": "110956", "term": "squish", "definition": "An aromantic crush; the desire for a non-romantic and/or platonic relationship with another person.", "sentence": "Iā€™ve only ever had a squish/crush/whatever once before, years ago, and I canā€™t really tell if this is a crush or a squish.", "communities": [ "aromantic" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "lgbt", "date": "2021-11-19 02:10:07", "timestamp": 1637284207.0 } }, { "id": "110857", "term": "genetic girl", "definition": "A somewhat infantilizing term used rarely by transgender women to refer to cisgender women.", "sentence": "However, we only had sex one other time and lost touch due to her transition and me falling for a genetic girl who broke my heart.", "communities": [ "transfeminine" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "questioning", "date": "2020-07-20 04:29:17", "timestamp": 1595212157.0 } }, { "id": "146436", "term": "hondose", "definition": "A low dose of hormone replacement therapy in a trans woman which produces inadequate feminization and fails to suppress testosterone.", "sentence": "Today, we stop getting hondosed!", "communities": [], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "transgendercirclejerk", "date": "2021-12-29 08:59:19", "timestamp": 1640764759.0 } }, { "id": "116778", "term": "seahorse dad", "definition": "Slang term for a transgender man who is carrying, or has carried, a child to term.", "sentence": "Also, while I don't see many folks on reddit who are seahorse dads, there are very active fb groups.", "communities": [ "transmasculine" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "ftm", "date": "2019-08-26 21:39:49", "timestamp": 1566848389.0 } }, { "id": "146612", "term": "lateshit", "definition": "A transgender person who began transitioning at a relatively late age.", "sentence": "Is there a light at the end of the tunnel for lateshit hons?", "communities": [], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "MtF", "date": "2025-04-01 13:39:41", "timestamp": 1743507581.0 } }, { "id": "169412", "term": "mones", "definition": "Hormones used as part of hormone replacement therapy, especially for transgender or gender variant individuals.", "sentence": "I love you all, here's to another year (maybe this time with the 'mones),", "communities": [], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "transpositive", "date": "2015-06-06 19:27:10", "timestamp": 1433611630.0 } }, { "id": "168370", "term": "hatchling", "definition": "A person who has (especially recently) realized that they are transgender.", "sentence": "So I'm a recent hatchling (cracked beginning of Oct 2023) and am very happy with my realization and my journey moving forward.", "communities": [ "transgender" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "asktransgender", "date": "2023-12-16 17:58:19", "timestamp": 1702745899.0 } }, { "id": "108605", "term": "boymode", "definition": "When a transgender person presents a gender expression codified as male, typically if that person is a transgender woman. Usually used in the context of going incognito as a cisgender man.", "sentence": "I don't know how you even could still boymode.", "communities": [ "transgender", "transgender" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "transpassing", "date": "2024-04-13 20:55:41", "timestamp": 1713034541.0 } }, { "id": "106699", "term": "transdar", "definition": "A colloquialism referring to the intuitive ability of a person to assess others' as being transgender. Transdar relies on verbal and non-verbal clues and transgender stereotypes. These include the sensitivity to social behaviors and mannerisms; for instance, acknowledging variations of gendered body language, the tone of voice used by a person when speaking, overtly rejecting traditional gender roles, a person's occupation, interests, etc.", "sentence": "Come on, if you had a remotely well-calibrated transdar you'd know the moment you looked at them.", "communities": [ "transgender" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "transgendercirclejerk", "date": "2024-08-01 12:28:34", "timestamp": 1722508114.0 } }, { "id": "221761", "term": "mother", "definition": "A person who is admired, respected, or looked up to within a particular fandom or community.", "sentence": "My mother is Angie Xtravaganza, and my father is David Xtravaganza.", "communities": [ "drag" ], "metadata": { "source": "OpenSubtitles", "title": "Paris Is Burning", "imdb_id": "100332" } }, { "id": "99529", "term": "gaymer", "definition": "Gay persons who have active interest in video games or tabletop games.", "sentence": "i am a raver, flowartist, gaymer and gloving has been one of my hobbies since 2018. happy to join the commminity, what are your interests?", "communities": [ "LGBTQ" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "NonBinary", "date": "2023-05-11 18:11:11", "timestamp": 1683821471.0 } }, { "id": "115654", "term": "lesbro", "definition": "A man who is considered an \"honorary lesbian\" by lesbian friends; otherwise, rarely, a lesbian who is considered stereotypically masculine, i.e. a \"bro\".", "sentence": "My best friend in the world is a lesbian and everybody started calling me her lesbro.", "communities": [ "lesbian" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "lgbt", "date": "2011-05-07 05:33:38", "timestamp": 1304739218.0 } }, { "id": "103264", "term": "cissplain", "definition": "To explain transgender issues, people or behavior to a trans person (as a cis person) in a condescending manner, presuming the listenerā€™s inferior understanding.", "sentence": "The cissplaining in these comments is pretty terrible.", "communities": [ "transgender" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "lgbt", "date": "2012-01-13 20:26:57", "timestamp": 1326482817.0 } }, { "id": "206278", "term": "poz", "definition": "ā€¢ HIV positive.\nā€¢ To infect (someone) with a sexually transmitted infection; especially HIV.", "sentence": "This sub loves to freak out about bug-chasing and poz play because they find porn and erotica about it and think everyone whoā€™s into it is actually spreading HIV.", "communities": [], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "askgaybros", "date": "2020-09-08 18:09:46", "timestamp": 1599581386.0 } }, { "id": "1011", "term": "cunt", "definition": "ā€¢ The anus of a trans woman.\nā€¢ The inguinal canals of a trans woman.\nā€¢ Amazing or very good.", "sentence": "Like that's where I was talking about like serving cunt.", "communities": [ "transgender" ], "metadata": { "source": "Podcasts", "title": "Why Won't You Date Me? with Nicole Byer" } }, { "id": "209099", "term": "yass", "definition": "A strong expression of excitement or admiration.", "sentence": "I have recently contracted MAH FIRST GAY CRUSH ON A BOY HOLY BEHQGEHHFDNR *EJW* YASSS", "communities": [], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "LGBTeens", "date": "2020-10-27 08:44:43", "timestamp": 1603784683.0 } }, { "id": "106685", "term": "trancestor", "definition": "A forebear or forerunner to a trans person, or to modern transgender people; a transgender ancestor. Occasionally used to refer to transgender elders in general.", "sentence": "Me celebrating pride because I'm trans is me celebrating my trancestors that have fought for me to be able to transition.", "communities": [ "transgender" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "ftm", "date": "2019-09-23 08:58:19", "timestamp": 1569221899.0 } }, { "id": "143129", "term": "GLBT", "definition": "Initialism for gay, lesbian, bisexual, and transgender.", "sentence": "I remember seeing it written as glbt on some LGBT website.", "communities": [], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "bisexual", "date": "2023-03-06 02:31:45", "timestamp": 1678066305.0 } }, { "id": "108452", "term": "second puberty", "definition": "A term often used by transgender persons transitioning after they have already undergone puberty.", "sentence": "I was / am the same way, and its exacerbated by the fact that I'm going through a literal second puberty due to HRT.", "communities": [ "transgender" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "actuallesbians", "date": "2016-10-05 14:21:28", "timestamp": 1475670088.0 } }, { "id": "115117", "term": "stone femme", "definition": "A lesbian identity patterned after the term \"stone butch\". It may variously refer to: a femme that is a bottom, a femme that is attracted to or partner with someone who is butch, a femme who does not wish to touch her partners' genitalia, or a femme who is sexually stone, i.e. they do not wish to be touched in the genital area (and therefore they usually top).", "sentence": "But, basically in the past, a Stone Butch or Stone femme would be a lesbian who liked giving pleasure but not receiving it.", "communities": [ "lesbian" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "asexuality", "date": "2022-11-13 07:50:59", "timestamp": 1668322259.0 } }, { "id": "169376", "term": "manmode", "definition": "The state of presenting as a man, regardless of one's actual gender identity, especially of a trans woman.", "sentence": "If you have the courage to step out of manmode you have no trouble passing.", "communities": [ "transgender" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "transpassing", "date": "2023-08-25 20:36:00", "timestamp": 1692988560.0 } }, { "id": "95150", "term": "werk", "definition": "Either an exclamation of approval or to do something excellently (often used in reference to dance or modeling).", "sentence": "You bettah werk, you dapper raptor.", "communities": [ "drag", "gay male" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "actuallesbians", "date": "2013-09-27 03:17:04", "timestamp": 1380244624.0 } }, { "id": "107938", "term": "crossdreaming", "definition": "Dreams or fantasies in which a person imagines themself as (or simply dressed as) the \"opposite\" gender (i.e. a man as a woman or a woman as a man).", "sentence": "White Lotus might have given us a good fact and experienced based discussion about erotic crossdreaming.", "communities": [ "transgender", "cross-dressing" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "transgender", "date": "2025-03-20 14:37:08", "timestamp": 1742477828.0 } }, { "id": "108467", "term": "second puberty", "definition": "A term often used by transgender persons transitioning after they have already undergone puberty.", "sentence": "That said, second puberty is easier than the first one because you're likely already mentally mature and are more familiar with who you are as a person.", "communities": [ "transgender" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "asktransgender", "date": "2024-12-19 19:06:05", "timestamp": 1734631565.0 } }, { "id": "2161", "term": "femme", "definition": "Traditionally, a lesbian who appears \"feminine\" or acts in a \"feminine\" manner. However, the term is often used to describe a wide variety of gender expressions and identities adjacent to feminine or femme-ness.", "sentence": "Like I'm such a femme, but I definitely, when I see people who make that their main pillar of identity, I just scorn them.", "communities": [ "lesbian" ], "metadata": { "source": "Podcasts", "title": "If I Speak" } }, { "id": "146039", "term": "brainworm", "definition": "An intrusive, unwanted, internalized transphobic or invalidating thought or belief.", "sentence": "Still, I like my name, and if the brainworms get too strong I have a second name that is more common (while not mainstream) and more undoubtely feminine.", "communities": [], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "trans", "date": "2024-11-16 12:17:09", "timestamp": 1731755829.0 } }, { "id": "103920", "term": "top surgery", "definition": "A slang term used to refer to thoracic gender-affirming surgeries.", "sentence": "I have top surgery in a couple of days and also going with no nips, and seeing you made me so excited", "communities": [ "transgender" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "NonBinary", "date": "2025-07-11 22:12:39", "timestamp": 1752264759.0 } }, { "id": "146729", "term": "twinkhon", "definition": "A trans woman who looks like a femboy or effeminate man.", "sentence": "I will end up having a twinkhon body and I think most twinkhons would make very cute femboys.", "communities": [], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "ftm", "date": "2017-05-25 18:43:12", "timestamp": 1495730592.0 } }, { "id": "110246", "term": "zap", "definition": "Slang term for electrolytic epilation.", "sentence": "I'm in a tight financial situation and can't really afford blowing money on zapping hair that might return.", "communities": [ "transfeminine" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "asktransgender", "date": "2013-01-15 14:03:53", "timestamp": 1358255033.0 } }, { "id": "84987", "term": "punk", "definition": "A slang term with multiple meanings depending on context. Originally used to refer to a sex worker or prostitute, especially a passive or feminine gay man (or a bottom). By the early 20th century, used to refer to a person considered worthless or criminal in nature. By the 1970s, used to refer to punk rock, a punk rocker, or to the sociocultural movement associated with punk rock and its fans. In the modern gay male community, the term \"punk\" may refer to a smaller, typically younger gay man who is forced into a submissive role in prison settings by an older gay man. Also occasionally used as a synonym for \"clock\" or \"read\", i.e. when a cisgender person recognizes a person as transgender.", "sentence": "In my experience most people in the punk/metal scenes don't give a fuck if you're trans tho and are all pretty fucking cool about it.", "communities": [ "transgender", "gay male" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "asktransgender", "date": "2023-07-13 22:31:36", "timestamp": 1689280296.0 } }, { "id": "168367", "term": "hatchling", "definition": "A person who has (especially recently) realized that they are transgender.", "sentence": "If thereā€™s a hatchling near to our lives, we might end up being a half-decent mentor.", "communities": [ "transgender" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "asktransgender", "date": "2024-10-04 01:18:10", "timestamp": 1727997490.0 } }, { "id": "79775", "term": "friend of dorothy", "definition": "Coded slang for gay. Referring to gay icon Judy Garland's Dorothy in The Wizard of Oz.", "sentence": "\"Are you a Friend of Dorothy (FOD)?\"", "communities": [ "gay male" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "LGBTeens", "date": "2020-11-09 08:58:39", "timestamp": 1604908719.0 } }, { "id": "96175", "term": "gaydar", "definition": "A colloquialism referring to the intuitive ability of a person to assess others' sexual orientations as gay, bisexual or heterosexual. Gaydar relies on verbal and non-verbal clues and LGBTQ stereotypes. These include the sensitivity to social behaviors and mannerisms; for instance, acknowledging flamboyant body language, the tone of voice used by a person when speaking, overtly rejecting traditional gender roles, a person's occupation, and grooming habits.", "sentence": "Well my gaydar may be broken then", "communities": [ "LGBTQ" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "comingout", "date": "2022-09-29 14:10:03", "timestamp": 1664453403.0 } }, { "id": "219666", "term": "camp", "definition": "ā€¢ Camp can also be a social practice and function as a style and performance identity for several types of entertainment including film, cabaret, and pantomime. Where high art necessarily incorporates beauty and value, camp necessarily needs to be lively, audacious and dynamic.\nā€¢ An aesthetic style and sensibility that regards something as appealing because of its bad taste and ironic value. Camp aesthetics disrupt many of modernism's notions of what art is and what can be classified as high art by inverting aesthetic attributes such as beauty, value, and taste through an invitation of a different kind of apprehension and consumption.\nā€¢ To behave, speak, act, etc. in a flamboyant, affected, ostentatious, or exaggerated manner stereotypically associated with gay men.\nā€¢ Gay.", "sentence": "I mean, it was definitely cowboy camp.", "communities": [ "LGBTQ" ], "metadata": { "source": "OpenSubtitles", "title": "Brokeback Mountain", "imdb_id": "388795" } }, { "id": "227832", "term": "coming out", "definition": "A metaphor for LGBTQIA+ people's self-disclosure of their sexual orientation or of their gender identity. The term coming out can also be used in various non-LGBTQIA+ applications (e.g. atheists). Framed and debated as a privacy issue, coming out of the closet is described and experienced variously as a psychological process or journey; decision-making or risk-taking; a strategy or plan; a mass or public event; a speech act and a matter of personal identity; a rite of passage; liberation or emancipation from oppression; an ordeal; a means toward feeling gay pride instead of shame and social stigma; or even career suicide. Author Steven Seidman writes that \"it is the power of the closet to shape the core of an individual's life that has made homosexuality into a significant personal, social, and political drama in twentieth-century America\".", "sentence": "Pablo is never coming out.", "communities": [ "LGBTQ" ], "metadata": { "source": "OpenSubtitles", "title": "East Side Story", "imdb_id": "437171" } }, { "id": "151470", "term": "bussy", "definition": "ā€¢ Any anus, in general.\nā€¢ The vulva or vagina of a trans man.", "sentence": "Haribo bear showing that bussy leakin", "communities": [ "gay" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "SuddenlyGay", "date": "2024-02-21 13:58:59", "timestamp": 1708520339.0 } }, { "id": "98655", "term": "versatile", "definition": "Someone who penetrates or is penetrated during sexual intercourse or someone who has a preference for both being penetrated and penetrating during such intercourse.", "sentence": "So it's common knowledge in queer circles that some people are tops, some are bottoms, and some are versatile.", "communities": [ "LGBTQ" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "lgbt", "date": "2022-11-24 08:36:36", "timestamp": 1669275396.0 } }, { "id": "116698", "term": "malefailing", "definition": "To be seen as and gender as female while attempting to present as masculine.", "sentence": "Honestly malefailing feels a lot more stressful when it involves being questioned about my obviously fake boy name after sitting in a waiting room for an hour.", "communities": [ "transmasculine" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "transgendercirclejerk", "date": "2024-06-20 00:48:00", "timestamp": 1718837280.0 } }, { "id": "155456", "term": "queerdo", "definition": "A particularly strange LGBTQ+ person.", "sentence": "Join the queerdos clan :)", "communities": [ "gay" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "gaymers", "date": "2023-06-07 00:44:31", "timestamp": 1686091471.0 } }, { "id": "113771", "term": "boi", "definition": "An LGBTQIA+ slang term with multiple definitions; a boi might be a boyish lesbian, a submissive butch in the BDSM community, a younger transgender man or a transgender man early in transition, a younger bisexual or gay person who is somewhat feminine. Alternatively, some persons identifying with the term might fit none of these categories.", "sentence": "hi there, i am a shy nerdy quiet nerdy boi", "communities": [ "lesbian", "transmasculine", "African-American LGBTQ" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "LGBTeens", "date": "2019-10-01 07:40:58", "timestamp": 1569908458.0 } }, { "id": "113721", "term": "lesbian manicure", "definition": "A set of long, typically acrylic nails, with the exception of two short, plain nails, meant to accommodate fingering of the clitoris and vagina.", "sentence": "Look up the lesbian manicure (index and middle nails short, all the rest long)", "communities": [ "lesbian" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "actuallesbians", "date": "2022-08-05 19:07:40", "timestamp": 1659719260.0 } }, { "id": "109023", "term": "girldick", "definition": "A transgender woman's penis.", "sentence": "I enjoy using my girldick for intimacy etc and, thankfully, don't have issues with erectile function of atrophy of the internal tissue.", "communities": [ "transgender", "transfeminine" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "transgenderUK", "date": "2023-01-09 11:13:58", "timestamp": 1673259238.0 } }, { "id": "120676", "term": "hunty", "definition": "A portmanteau of \"honey\" and \"cunt\", usually considered a term of supposed endearment.", "sentence": "Padded for the gods hunty!", "communities": [ "gay male" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "LadyBoners", "date": "2020-01-13 08:21:36", "timestamp": 1578900096.0 } }, { "id": "113670", "term": "high femme", "definition": "A femme person who expresses their gender in ultra feminine ways. Often, but not exclusively, this refers to a queer woman.", "sentence": "You can still identify as high femme of that feels the best for you.", "communities": [ "lesbian" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "actuallesbians", "date": "2023-02-18 14:52:48", "timestamp": 1676728368.0 } }, { "id": "77770", "term": "fag stag", "definition": "A heterosexual man who socializes predominantly with gay men.", "sentence": "Tl;dr: Fag stags are the shit.", "communities": [ "gay male" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "gaybros", "date": "2012-04-03 22:40:39", "timestamp": 1333485639.0 } }, { "id": "165240", "term": "euphoria boner", "definition": "An erection of the penis in a trans woman, caused by strong feelings of gender euphoria.", "sentence": "So youā€™re not the only one, except I donā€™t get euphoria boners anymore.", "communities": [ "transgender" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "asktransgender", "date": "2025-05-04 02:24:51", "timestamp": 1746318291.0 } }, { "id": "115097", "term": "chapstick lesbian", "definition": "A lesbian who exhibits some butch traits (short hair, stereotypical men's clothing, etc.) without wholly fitting the masculine butch stereotype; alternatively, a lesbian who is athletic or has a keen interest in sports.", "sentence": "I would consider my regular style to maybe be chapstick lesbian?", "communities": [ "lesbian" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "lesbianfashionadvice", "date": "2025-04-04 00:53:23", "timestamp": 1743720803.0 } }, { "id": "114723", "term": "bambi lesbian", "definition": "A lesbian who identifies as bambi-sexual, i.e. being more interested in kissing, carressing, cuddling, etc. than genital stimulation or sexual intercourse.", "sentence": "One of them is ace and the other is allo bambi lesbian.", "communities": [ "lesbian" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "asexuality", "date": "2025-05-21 18:57:29", "timestamp": 1747846649.0 } }, { "id": "90277", "term": "twink", "definition": "ā€¢ Slang term widely used in gay communities to describe a young or young-looking man with little or no facial or body hair. Can be pejorative, but can also be a self-descriptor.\nā€¢ A young, attractive, slim male, usually having little body hair.", "sentence": "I thought Iā€™d be some little twink with maybe a little bit of stubble and a deeper voice.", "communities": [ "gay", "gay male" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "ftm", "date": "2022-10-21 02:35:20", "timestamp": 1666312520.0 } }, { "id": "115102", "term": "chapstick lesbian", "definition": "A lesbian who exhibits some butch traits (short hair, stereotypical men's clothing, etc.) without wholly fitting the masculine butch stereotype; alternatively, a lesbian who is athletic or has a keen interest in sports.", "sentence": "Iā€™d love to hear what brands other tomboys / chapstick lesbians like to wear to work!", "communities": [ "lesbian" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "lesbianfashionadvice", "date": "2024-03-25 00:41:52", "timestamp": 1711323712.0 } }, { "id": "127543", "term": "butch queen", "definition": "A gay man with a traditionally masculine gender expression.", "sentence": "A butch queen is a ***gay man*** (\"butch\" referring to the fact that they're a man, \"queen\" to them being queer).", "communities": [ "gay male" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "rupaulsdragrace", "date": "2017-08-29 15:23:47", "timestamp": 1504013027.0 } }, { "id": "146424", "term": "hondose", "definition": "A low dose of hormone replacement therapy in a trans woman which produces inadequate feminization and fails to suppress testosterone.", "sentence": "Both of which are often inadequate to produce the desired results and are often considered being ā€œHondosedā€, at least according to those who have previously been hondosed.", "communities": [], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "asktransgender", "date": "2024-11-01 22:54:41", "timestamp": 1730498081.0 } }, { "id": "108948", "term": "tryke", "definition": "A slang term for transgender lesbian, formed from \"trans\" and \"dyke\".", "sentence": "Really I feel most comfortable as a lesbian or tryke or whatever.", "communities": [ "transfeminine" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "genderqueer", "date": "2017-12-11 09:07:47", "timestamp": 1512979667.0 } }, { "id": "117684", "term": "baby gay", "definition": "A person who has recently come out in relationship to a marginalized sexual or gender identity.", "sentence": "Iā€™m a naĆÆve baby gay.", "communities": [ "gay male" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "gaysian", "date": "2024-11-08 12:40:28", "timestamp": 1731066028.0 } }, { "id": "103690", "term": "top surgery", "definition": "A slang term used to refer to thoracic gender-affirming surgeries.", "sentence": "No one can say whether you should or should not get top surgery.", "communities": [ "transgender" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "queer", "date": "2025-06-11 03:42:42", "timestamp": 1749606162.0 } }, { "id": "206194", "term": "pixie stick", "definition": "Any phallic object carried by a cruising gay male, e.g., a rolled umbrella or a cigarette holder, in order to signal one's sexual availability.", "sentence": ">I call mine a Pixie Stick", "communities": [], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "TransSpace", "date": "2014-02-14 05:15:08", "timestamp": 1392351308.0 } }, { "id": "227361", "term": "drag queen", "definition": "ā€¢ A male entertainer who performs dressed as a woman; a female impersonator.\nā€¢ A male-to-female cross-dresser.", "sentence": "The winner of the Drag Queen of the Year will receive... an all-expense-paid, round-trip ticket... to Hollywood, California!", "communities": [], "metadata": { "source": "OpenSubtitles", "title": "To Wong Foo, Thanks for Everything! Julie Newmar", "imdb_id": "114682" } }, { "id": "108534", "term": "second puberty", "definition": "A term often used by transgender persons transitioning after they have already undergone puberty.", "sentence": "i want second puberty, but only if it turns me into a shapeshifter.", "communities": [ "transgender" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "traaaaaaannnnnnnnnns", "date": "2021-12-05 05:41:52", "timestamp": 1638679312.0 } }, { "id": "114669", "term": "gold star lesbian", "definition": "A lesbian who has never had sex with a man.", "sentence": "Lol it just occurred to me that my wife is a gold star lesbian.", "communities": [ "lesbian" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "mypartneristrans", "date": "2020-11-30 22:24:58", "timestamp": 1606771498.0 } }, { "id": "102298", "term": "ace", "definition": "Asexual; an asexual person.", "sentence": "Whether you are gay, bi, ace or an ally", "communities": [ "asexual" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "lgbt", "date": "2021-10-09 14:47:20", "timestamp": 1633783640.0 } }, { "id": "215482", "term": "orchie", "definition": "Clipping of orchiectomy.", "sentence": "So why is an orchie different?", "communities": [ "transgender" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "mypartneristrans", "date": "2018-02-03 16:57:46", "timestamp": 1517673466.0 } }, { "id": "116868", "term": "cub", "definition": "A younger or younger-looking bear, sometimes with a smaller frame (\"bear\" meaning \"a gay or bisexual man who has facial/body hair and a cuddly body\").", "sentence": "[another gaymer cub here!", "communities": [ "gay", "bear" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "gaymers", "date": "2011-11-12 22:37:42", "timestamp": 1321133862.0 } }, { "id": "95858", "term": "gaydar", "definition": "A colloquialism referring to the intuitive ability of a person to assess others' sexual orientations as gay, bisexual or heterosexual. Gaydar relies on verbal and non-verbal clues and LGBTQ stereotypes. These include the sensitivity to social behaviors and mannerisms; for instance, acknowledging flamboyant body language, the tone of voice used by a person when speaking, overtly rejecting traditional gender roles, a person's occupation, and grooming habits.", "sentence": "I don't tip anyone else's gaydar.", "communities": [ "LGBTQ" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "gaybros", "date": "2013-06-17 08:49:11", "timestamp": 1371451751.0 } }, { "id": "124008", "term": "fudge packer", "definition": "ā€¢ A male homosexual. \nā€¢ A person who practices anal sex.", "sentence": "Yeah fudge packer is an old one.", "communities": [ "gay male" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "askgaybros", "date": "2025-02-14 14:35:48", "timestamp": 1739540148.0 } }, { "id": "149185", "term": "serve cunt", "definition": "To act in a powerfully and unapologetically feminine manner.", "sentence": "I want to serve cunt but like in a masculine way (serving penis I guess)", "communities": [ "drag" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "ftm", "date": "2025-07-19 21:23:40", "timestamp": 1752953020.0 } }, { "id": "6578", "term": "dirt", "definition": "ā€¢ Slang for an individual who blackmails or robs a gay person.\nā€¢ Gossip; rumor; scandal; criticism.\nā€¢ Heroin\nā€¢ A tobacco cigarette.", "sentence": "Conrad decided Edith and his mistress, Maria, had too much dirt on him.", "communities": [ "gay male" ], "metadata": { "source": "Podcasts", "title": "Scamfluencers" } }, { "id": "115381", "term": "pillow princess", "definition": "A woman who likes to receive and not give, sexually.", "sentence": "saying a pillow princess is just someone who's lazy at sex is like saying a bratty sub is just someone who's rude to people", "communities": [ "lesbian" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "actuallesbians", "date": "2023-11-18 15:46:23", "timestamp": 1700318783.0 } }, { "id": "113681", "term": "high femme", "definition": "A femme person who expresses their gender in ultra feminine ways. Often, but not exclusively, this refers to a queer woman.", "sentence": "I'm a high femme cis woman who's relatively comfortable in that identity, and everything about my outward appearance and gender performance confirms this.", "communities": [ "lesbian" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "genderqueer", "date": "2022-12-15 23:14:41", "timestamp": 1671142481.0 } }, { "id": "115112", "term": "stone femme", "definition": "A lesbian identity patterned after the term \"stone butch\". It may variously refer to: a femme that is a bottom, a femme that is attracted to or partner with someone who is butch, a femme who does not wish to touch her partners' genitalia, or a femme who is sexually stone, i.e. they do not wish to be touched in the genital area (and therefore they usually top).", "sentence": "femmes who are stone tops sometimes use stone femme top.", "communities": [ "lesbian" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "actuallesbians", "date": "2022-12-11 09:45:27", "timestamp": 1670748327.0 } }, { "id": "12", "term": "femoid", "definition": "A portmanteau of \"female\" and \"android\" (referring to a robot) used in the incel community. It is a derogatory term used to dehumanize women.", "sentence": "There's also a whole host of derogatory words for women like femoid or FHOs, female humanoid organism, roasties, the whole thing.", "communities": [ "incel" ], "metadata": { "source": "Podcasts", "title": "Sounds Like A Cult" } }, { "id": "206495", "term": "useless lesbian", "definition": "A lesbian who is socially or romantically inept with other women.", "sentence": "Fellow useless lesbian here to tell you she definitely doesn't like you.", "communities": [], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "traaaaaaannnnnnnnnns", "date": "2018-12-12 20:41:36", "timestamp": 1544643696.0 } }, { "id": "109057", "term": "titty skittle", "definition": "Oral estrogen taken by transgender woman and other transfeminine people.", "sentence": "Irl, I like skittles more so I *would* say titty skittles, but honestly femme&mā€™s rolls off the tongue better.", "communities": [ "transgender", "transfeminine" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "traaaaaaannnnnnnnnns", "date": "2020-11-08 01:51:12", "timestamp": 1604796672.0 } }, { "id": "143378", "term": "autofellatio", "definition": "Oral stimulation of one's own penis.", "sentence": "I frequently masturbate to gay porn, I've experimented with anal play, autofellatio, and I've also crossdressed a few times.", "communities": [], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "questioning", "date": "2013-09-06 02:27:06", "timestamp": 1378427226.0 } }, { "id": "25067", "term": "camp", "definition": "ā€¢ Camp can also be a social practice and function as a style and performance identity for several types of entertainment including film, cabaret, and pantomime. Where high art necessarily incorporates beauty and value, camp necessarily needs to be lively, audacious and dynamic.\nā€¢ An aesthetic style and sensibility that regards something as appealing because of its bad taste and ironic value. Camp aesthetics disrupt many of modernism's notions of what art is and what can be classified as high art by inverting aesthetic attributes such as beauty, value, and taste through an invitation of a different kind of apprehension and consumption.\nā€¢ To behave, speak, act, etc. in a flamboyant, affected, ostentatious, or exaggerated manner stereotypically associated with gay men.\nā€¢ Gay.", "sentence": "And the music video is hilarious and like camp and like everybody's wearing like tight suits, I think.", "communities": [ "LGBTQ" ], "metadata": { "source": "Podcasts", "title": "anything goes with emma chamberlain" } }, { "id": "12482", "term": "egg", "definition": "Slang term (originating online) for a person who has not yet realised they are transgender, has not yet come out, or is in the early stages of transitioning. Usually used (fondly) by trans people to recognise when aspects of someone's personality or behavior remind them of gender-related aspects of themselves before they realized they were trans.", "sentence": "But if a guy were to have long fingernails, I think that would give me the egg.", "communities": [ "transgender", "transgender" ], "metadata": { "source": "Podcasts", "title": "The Unplanned Podcast with Matt & Abby" } }, { "id": "169700", "term": "orchi", "definition": "Clipping of orchiectomy.", "sentence": "I actually feel a lot more secure in my supply now - and getting the orchi was one of the best things I've ever done for myself.", "communities": [ "transgender" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "transgenderUK", "date": "2025-05-11 10:07:45", "timestamp": 1746950865.0 } }, { "id": "41719", "term": "girl", "definition": "Sometimes used as a slur for a gay man, assuming that being \"feminine\" is \"lower status.\" Therefore offensive to gay men and to women more generally. More often used as a (now widely recognised) term of affection between gay men, though more likely as a friendly term than as a romantic one.", "sentence": "However you want me to do it, girl, I got you.", "communities": [], "metadata": { "source": "Podcasts", "title": "Woman Evolve with Sarah Jakes Roberts" } }, { "id": "204018", "term": "fishy queen", "definition": "A drag queen who adopts a particularly feminine appearance.", "sentence": "I went as fishy queen as possible for the big 29th!", "communities": [], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "fauxqueens", "date": "2015-08-11 07:49:42", "timestamp": 1439272182.0 } }, { "id": "102269", "term": "joyfriend", "definition": "A sexual and/or romantic partner of any gender, but usually a nonbinary person.", "sentence": "i wanna have a joyfriend too", "communities": [ "nonbinary" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "NonBinary", "date": "2022-06-08 14:52:56", "timestamp": 1654692776.0 } }, { "id": "108901", "term": "girl juice", "definition": "A slang term referring to injectable feminizing hormones.", "sentence": "...I miss my girl juice šŸ˜­", "communities": [ "transfeminine" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "lgbt", "date": "2022-10-11 23:50:24", "timestamp": 1665525024.0 } }, { "id": "146252", "term": "hon", "definition": "A trans woman who does not pass; a clocky (clearly identifiable as transgender) trans woman.", "sentence": "As someone who came out later in life (60), I find hon to be extremely offensive.", "communities": [], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "MtF", "date": "2023-07-26 15:56:02", "timestamp": 1690379762.0 } }, { "id": "169884", "term": "pre-T", "definition": "Not yet having undergone testosterone-based hormone replacement therapy.", "sentence": "Certain parts of my personality and expression have definitely changed through my transition, I'd understand why someone I was close to pre-T would express sadness for those losses.", "communities": [ "transgender" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "mypartneristrans", "date": "2024-04-30 12:49:13", "timestamp": 1714474153.0 } }, { "id": "107639", "term": "bottom surgery", "definition": "A slang term used to refer to genital gender-affirming surgeries.", "sentence": "So I used to dream of bottom surgery specifically, but now I kind of think I wouldn't pursue that were I to transition.", "communities": [ "transgender" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "genderfluid", "date": "2025-03-07 17:58:10", "timestamp": 1741366690.0 } }, { "id": "91793", "term": "faux queen", "definition": "A cis female performance artist who performs in female drag at drag shows, or acts like a drag queen.", "sentence": "I honestly don't understand how anyone could enjoy drag but not enjoy a really talented faux queen.", "communities": [ "drag", "gay male" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "Drag", "date": "2015-12-01 20:12:02", "timestamp": 1448997122.0 } }, { "id": "65293", "term": "work", "definition": "To perform with a confident attitude, particularly as a drag queen.", "sentence": "You better work bitch.", "communities": [], "metadata": { "source": "Podcasts", "title": "The Debrief" } }, { "id": "120697", "term": "hunty", "definition": "A portmanteau of \"honey\" and \"cunt\", usually considered a term of supposed endearment.", "sentence": "Then, spill the tea, hunty!", "communities": [ "gay male" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "gaysian", "date": "2017-10-17 11:32:04", "timestamp": 1508232724.0 } }, { "id": "127055", "term": "mince", "definition": "To walk affectedly.", "sentence": "For example, I mince when I walk, but I don't think I do?", "communities": [ "gay male" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "askgaybros", "date": "2023-10-21 20:36:56", "timestamp": 1697913416.0 } }, { "id": "76132", "term": "drag family", "definition": "In the US, a group of drag queens who have been mentored by a \"mother,\" also known as a \"house.\" These groups often take on family drag names and form close-knit communities.", "sentence": "Of her heritage, of what she learnt from her drag family and especially from her drag mother.", "communities": [], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "rupaulsdragrace", "date": "2024-07-12 16:57:10", "timestamp": 1720796230.0 } }, { "id": "206366", "term": "snatched", "definition": "Good-looking.", "sentence": "!šŸ˜ You look really snatched girly", "communities": [], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "crossdressing", "date": "2024-03-12 18:49:30", "timestamp": 1710265770.0 } }, { "id": "95151", "term": "werk", "definition": "Either an exclamation of approval or to do something excellently (often used in reference to dance or modeling).", "sentence": "ā€œYou Betta mutha tucking werk bitch!ā€ šŸ˜‚šŸ¤£šŸ’€", "communities": [ "drag", "gay male" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "gaymers", "date": "2022-01-21 23:25:44", "timestamp": 1642803944.0 } }, { "id": "2450", "term": "kiki", "definition": "ā€¢ A gathering of friends for the purpose of gossiping and chit-chat.\nā€¢ 1940s slang describing a lesbian comfortable with either a more passive or more aggressive partner in a relationship.", "sentence": "They kind of lived in their own houses and just kind of like kiki'd and got together.", "communities": [ "drag", "lesbian", "African-American transgender", "African-American gay male" ], "metadata": { "source": "Podcasts", "title": "Cancelled with Tana Mongeau & Brooke Schofield" } }, { "id": "101520", "term": "enban", "definition": "An adult nonbinary person.", "sentence": "You are enban enough just by existing.", "communities": [ "nonbinary" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "NonBinary", "date": "2024-07-18 19:06:29", "timestamp": 1721322389.0 } }, { "id": "168393", "term": "hatchling", "definition": "A person who has (especially recently) realized that they are transgender.", "sentence": "As a new hatchling (48mtf 6 weeks out), I have tons of questions in my head about pads, gaffs, shapers etc.", "communities": [ "transgender" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "transfashionadvice", "date": "2021-11-16 23:51:48", "timestamp": 1637103108.0 } }, { "id": "129004", "term": "gyal", "definition": "A girl.", "sentence": "Okay so I'm a pansexual enby gyal.", "communities": [], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "lgbt", "date": "2019-07-28 04:04:10", "timestamp": 1564279450.0 } }, { "id": "110853", "term": "genetic girl", "definition": "A somewhat infantilizing term used rarely by transgender women to refer to cisgender women.", "sentence": "no iā€™m a genetic girl", "communities": [ "transfeminine" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "transgendercirclejerk", "date": "2022-05-24 07:01:05", "timestamp": 1653368465.0 } }, { "id": "157823", "term": "anticistamines", "definition": "Medication used for transgender hormone replacement therapy.", "sentence": "We just want the anticistamines , headpats and cute clothes.", "communities": [ "transgender" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "ask_transgender", "date": "2018-10-22 07:17:13", "timestamp": 1540185433.0 } }, { "id": "206292", "term": "poz", "definition": "ā€¢ HIV positive.\nā€¢ To infect (someone) with a sexually transmitted infection; especially HIV.", "sentence": "I've seen accounts of men receiving abuse for refusing to have sex with a poz guy.", "communities": [], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "askgaybros", "date": "2024-08-23 05:19:44", "timestamp": 1724383184.0 } }, { "id": "106612", "term": "baby trans", "definition": "Someone who has recently discovered that they are transgender.", "sentence": "Specially as Iā€™m in my very early baby trans steps šŸ„°", "communities": [ "transgender", "transgender" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "transtimelines", "date": "2025-01-31 23:31:24", "timestamp": 1738362684.0 } }, { "id": "79708", "term": "flute", "definition": "Outdated slang for fellatio, or someone performing fellatio.", "sentence": "Thereā€™s only one flute I know how to play šŸ„“šŸ˜ž", "communities": [], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "GayBroTeens", "date": "2025-06-08 10:05:38", "timestamp": 1749369938.0 } }, { "id": "123623", "term": "fruit fly", "definition": "A woman who enjoys the company of gay men; a somewhat less offensive alternative to \"fag hag\".", "sentence": "Went to lunch with my work fruit fly.", "communities": [ "gay male" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "gaybros", "date": "2024-01-19 21:59:40", "timestamp": 1705697980.0 } }, { "id": "110860", "term": "genetic woman", "definition": "A term used rarely by transgender women to refer to cisgender women.", "sentence": "Think I can pass for a genetic woman?", "communities": [ "transfeminine" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "transpassing", "date": "2013-07-01 03:01:42", "timestamp": 1372640502.0 } }, { "id": "110907", "term": "zucchini", "definition": "A queerplatonic partner.", "sentence": "Squish became squash, which became zucchini.", "communities": [ "aromantic" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "asexuality", "date": "2025-03-17 15:48:00", "timestamp": 1742222880.0 } }, { "id": "99292", "term": "power bottom", "definition": "A power bottom is someone who aggressively enjoys being the receptive partner.", "sentence": "I'm a bit of a control freak in bed, and wouldn't want to be a sub for a power bottom.", "communities": [ "LGBTQ" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "askgaybros", "date": "2021-02-11 22:23:23", "timestamp": 1613078603.0 } }, { "id": "110401", "term": "Eve's apple", "definition": "A transfeminine slang term coined to replace the masculine sounding \"Adam's apple\".", "sentence": "Cute Eve's apple, .... no different from many girls.", "communities": [ "transfeminine" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "transpassing", "date": "2025-04-27 08:22:51", "timestamp": 1745734971.0 } }, { "id": "206509", "term": "useless lesbian", "definition": "A lesbian who is socially or romantically inept with other women.", "sentence": "I would like to confirm I'm a useless lesbian so yeah.", "communities": [], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "teengirlswholikegirls", "date": "2020-10-25 10:13:59", "timestamp": 1603617239.0 } }, { "id": "7380", "term": "hormones", "definition": "Hormone replacement therapy.", "sentence": "I think it was a little before hormones.", "communities": [ "transgender" ], "metadata": { "source": "Podcasts", "title": "I've Had It" } }, { "id": "158075", "term": "clocky", "definition": "Clearly identifiable as transgender; capable of being easily clocked; not passing.", "sentence": "I've been trying to find a name for literally six years, but finding *anything* that wouldn't be clocky as all hell where I am is a task and a half.", "communities": [ "transgender" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "transgenderUK", "date": "2025-01-14 15:32:54", "timestamp": 1736865174.0 } }, { "id": "151591", "term": "chubby", "definition": "An overweight or obese gay man.", "sentence": "We chubby guys appreciate it.", "communities": [ "gay" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "gaybros", "date": "2022-05-18 22:58:02", "timestamp": 1652907482.0 } }, { "id": "95557", "term": "service top", "definition": "A service top is one who tops (acts as the \"giving\" partner in sexual encounters) under the direction of an eager bottom (who acts as the \"receiving\" partner in sexual encounters).", "sentence": "okay i think my bf is a service top but can someone explain like what it actually is", "communities": [ "LGBTQ" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "askgaybros", "date": "2024-09-28 20:25:27", "timestamp": 1727547927.0 } }, { "id": "116515", "term": "chub", "definition": "A gay man who is overweight or obese; typically (but not always) derogatory.", "sentence": "I'm attracted to chubby/fat/bearish type guys more than twinks, I know that's kind of uncommon but I just wanted to know how rare that actually is.", "communities": [ "gay", "chub" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "LGBTeens", "date": "2015-04-17 23:12:35", "timestamp": 1429305155.0 } }, { "id": "107135", "term": "truscum", "definition": "A person who adheres to a strict medical definition of being transgender and believes that gender dysphoria is an essential trait.", "sentence": "I need this kind of validation in my life, god truscums suckšŸ˜­", "communities": [ "transgender" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "traaaaaaannnnnnnnnns", "date": "2021-05-27 20:49:07", "timestamp": 1622141347.0 } }, { "id": "120841", "term": "twunk", "definition": "A gay man with the certain twink (meaning ā€œyoung, attractive, slim maleā€) stereotype elements that has a hunky (strong, muscular, etc.) physique.", "sentence": "Don't get me wrong, you're jacked....but I imagine a twunk to be someone who has a classic body builder type vibe", "communities": [ "gay", "gay male" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "NonBinary", "date": "2024-01-20 15:16:09", "timestamp": 1705760169.0 } }, { "id": "99488", "term": "gaymer", "definition": "Gay persons who have active interest in video games or tabletop games.", "sentence": "I will also be at PAX Prime - I'd love to see us have a LoL Gaymer meet up!", "communities": [ "LGBTQ" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "LoLGaymers", "date": "2013-08-05 06:05:00", "timestamp": 1375675500.0 } }, { "id": "94379", "term": "condragulations", "definition": "A variant form of congratulations used sometimes in drag.", "sentence": "That's awesome condragulations šŸ˜ it always feels good to know your mom has your back", "communities": [ "drag" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "bisexual", "date": "2024-05-08 04:36:38", "timestamp": 1715135798.0 } }, { "id": "107045", "term": "truscum", "definition": "A person who adheres to a strict medical definition of being transgender and believes that gender dysphoria is an essential trait.", "sentence": "I'll concede the difference between truscum and transmedicalist because it doesn't really change the judgement outcome.", "communities": [ "transgender" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "MtF", "date": "2023-01-17 01:21:30", "timestamp": 1673914890.0 } }, { "id": "138912", "term": "cheese", "definition": "The smegma that accumulates around the penis, often the uncircumcised penis, or the unwashed labia.", "sentence": "Thereā€™s more than one kind of dick cheese?", "communities": [], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "askgaybros", "date": "2024-03-13 22:08:27", "timestamp": 1710364107.0 } }, { "id": "214806", "term": "switches", "definition": "ā€¢ LGBTQ+ community slang for someone who \"switches\" between the \"giving\" and \"receiving\" during sex. \"Vers\" is short for \"versatile.\" \"Switch\" is sometimes also used in a BDSM context, to indicate someone who \"switches\" between the dominant and submissive roles.\nā€¢ One who is willing to take either a submissive or a dominant role in a sexual relationship.", "sentence": "Smut isn't required but it can be included, in that case, either both of them are switches or Arthur tops.", "communities": [ "LGBTQ" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "SlashFanfiction", "date": "2021-03-16 21:18:30", "timestamp": 1615925910.0 } }, { "id": "146685", "term": "transmaxx", "definition": "To undergo gender transition (particularly from male to female) for the perceived social advantages that come with being the opposite sex, especially as regards the sexual marketplace.", "sentence": "Iā€™m the opposite of a transmaxxer.", "communities": [], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "transgendercirclejerk", "date": "2023-04-18 01:52:22", "timestamp": 1681775542.0 } }, { "id": "99555", "term": "gaymer", "definition": "Gay persons who have active interest in video games or tabletop games.", "sentence": "I find that most guys on apps who claim to be looking for gaymer friends are only looking for fwb gaymer friends.", "communities": [ "LGBTQ" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "nycgaybros", "date": "2024-11-04 05:47:27", "timestamp": 1730695647.0 } }, { "id": "115255", "term": "baby dyke", "definition": "A person who has just come out as a lesbian.", "sentence": "Just learned I'm a baby dyke", "communities": [ "lesbian" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "actuallesbians", "date": "2016-05-13 19:21:26", "timestamp": 1463160086.0 } }, { "id": "103788", "term": "top surgery", "definition": "A slang term used to refer to thoracic gender-affirming surgeries.", "sentence": "So, I had my top surgery last week, and next week I swap from the surgical bra to sports bras.", "communities": [ "transgender" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "transfashionadvice", "date": "2023-10-22 23:14:23", "timestamp": 1698009263.0 } }, { "id": "155065", "term": "poppers", "definition": "Drugs of the alkyl nitrate class used recreationally as a sexual stimulant, especially among gay men.", "sentence": "My boyfriend and I found out that I have early onset heart disease after we tried poppers for the first time and I had a heart attack.", "communities": [ "gay" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "gaybros", "date": "2023-07-01 17:50:53", "timestamp": 1688226653.0 } }, { "id": "94248", "term": "drab", "definition": "An instance of a transgender or non-binary person presenting as the gender corresponding to their sex assigned at birth instead of that corresponding to their internal gender identity (most commonly a trans woman dressed as a man).", "sentence": "If you dress in drab, you're dressing in clothes your birth sex would wear.", "communities": [ "transgender", "drag", "transgender" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "asktransgender", "date": "2016-11-27 09:08:16", "timestamp": 1480234096.0 } }, { "id": "155451", "term": "queerdo", "definition": "A particularly strange LGBTQ+ person.", "sentence": "It's totally grass-roots and I'm a total queerdo.", "communities": [ "gay" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "lgbt", "date": "2019-02-21 16:25:51", "timestamp": 1550762751.0 } }, { "id": "108365", "term": "t4t", "definition": "Short form of \"trans for trans\", indicating transgender persons interested in other transgender persons romantically and/or sexually.", "sentence": "/uj being in a straight t4t relationship during this discourse wave is so confusing.", "communities": [ "transgender" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "transgendercirclejerk", "date": "2025-01-06 19:35:56", "timestamp": 1736188556.0 } }, { "id": "95559", "term": "service top", "definition": "A service top is one who tops (acts as the \"giving\" partner in sexual encounters) under the direction of an eager bottom (who acts as the \"receiving\" partner in sexual encounters).", "sentence": "you're a service top mate", "communities": [ "LGBTQ" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "asexuality", "date": "2024-03-14 00:57:13", "timestamp": 1710374233.0 } }, { "id": "1059", "term": "fierce", "definition": "To have looks that could \"kill\"; also used to refer to satisfying, powerful, or beautiful drag queens.", "sentence": "And I look like this fierce construction guy.", "communities": [ "drag" ], "metadata": { "source": "Podcasts", "title": "No Stupid Questions" } }, { "id": "224111", "term": "lesbian", "definition": "A girl or woman who is wholly or mostly sexually or romantically attracted to other girls or women.", "sentence": "You say that because I'm a lesbian?", "communities": [], "metadata": { "source": "OpenSubtitles", "title": "101 ReykjavĆ­k", "imdb_id": "237993" } }, { "id": "151285", "term": "boywife", "definition": "A young male assuming the employment of homemaking, a role traditionally assumed by women; the submissive partner in the relationship who receives great pleasure in \"taking care\" of his more dominant partner.", "sentence": "This is my boywife dream haha", "communities": [ "gay" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "askgaybros", "date": "2022-02-09 19:05:35", "timestamp": 1644429935.0 } }, { "id": "117078", "term": "polar bear", "definition": "An older bear whose facial and body hair are predominantly or entirely white or grey (\"bear\" meaning \"a gay or bisexual man who has facial/body hair and a cuddly body\").", "sentence": "If Santa Claus was gay would he be a polar bear?", "communities": [ "bear" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "askgaybros", "date": "2020-06-28 06:23:09", "timestamp": 1593318189.0 } }, { "id": "99771", "term": "queer coding", "definition": "A situation in which a character is given traits or behaviors which suggest they are not heterosexual and/or cisgender, without the character being outright confirmed as having such an identity.", "sentence": "I believe you may not have a grasp on what queer coding actually is and then youā€™ve taken that misunderstanding and railed against it.", "communities": [ "LGBTQ" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "gaybros", "date": "2024-01-03 01:23:09", "timestamp": 1704241389.0 } }, { "id": "124385", "term": "otter", "definition": "A hairy man with a slender physique, in contrast with a bear, who is more thickset.", "sentence": "Bears are large, often hairy men and otters are hairy but leaner/more athletic.", "communities": [ "gay", "gay male" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "lgbt", "date": "2021-02-08 02:07:47", "timestamp": 1612746467.0 } }, { "id": "211560", "term": "faggy", "definition": "A pejorative term used chiefly in North America primarily to refer to a gay man. Alongside its use to refer to gay men in particular, it may also be used as a pejorative term for a \"repellent man\" or to refer to women who are lesbian (or to transgender people, typically transgender women). Its use has spread from the United States to varying extents elsewhere in the English-speaking world through mass culture, including film, music, and the Internet.", "sentence": "But even I understand the colloquialism of something being really gay or faggy meaning just that, there are no other words to discribe really really gay stuff.", "communities": [], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "lgbt", "date": "2018-11-07 14:36:29", "timestamp": 1541597789.0 } }, { "id": "155499", "term": "rice queen", "definition": "A non-Asian man who is mostly attracted to East Asian men.", "sentence": "Doesn't that invert, thus cancelling out the definition for what a rice queen is defined as?", "communities": [ "gay" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "gaysian", "date": "2025-07-14 03:56:25", "timestamp": 1752458185.0 } }, { "id": "143368", "term": "autofellatio", "definition": "Oral stimulation of one's own penis.", "sentence": "Here's to the autofellatio club!", "communities": [], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "lgbt", "date": "2010-09-30 05:47:58", "timestamp": 1285818478.0 } }, { "id": "101440", "term": "trysexual", "definition": "A term referring to a person who appears willing to try any sexual activity with just about any person or persons, may be used in a derogatory fashion.", "sentence": "Is this implying that if you like Butterfingers you're trysexual?", "communities": [ "pansexual", "bisexual" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "bisexual", "date": "2015-01-21 01:01:24", "timestamp": 1421798484.0 } }, { "id": "146349", "term": "hon", "definition": "A trans woman who does not pass; a clocky (clearly identifiable as transgender) trans woman.", "sentence": "The mindset change from \"I'm such a hon :(\" to \"I'm going to be the hottest fucking hon in town\" has done a lot.", "communities": [], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "transgendercirclejerk", "date": "2025-03-21 09:15:46", "timestamp": 1742544946.0 } }, { "id": "109067", "term": "titty skittle", "definition": "Oral estrogen taken by transgender woman and other transfeminine people.", "sentence": "Hello, I'm a genderfluid amab on titty skittles.", "communities": [ "transgender", "transfeminine" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "genderfluid", "date": "2024-01-10 16:42:39", "timestamp": 1704901359.0 } }, { "id": "98881", "term": "lavender", "definition": "A pale purple color, like that of the lavender flower. Lavender become symbol of homosexuality in the 1950s and 1960s, just as the color mauve was in the 1890s.", "sentence": "I think the interest in lavender marriages is actually a statement against gay dating and hookup culture.", "communities": [ "LGBTQ" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "lgbt", "date": "2025-07-13 08:11:45", "timestamp": 1752387105.0 } }, { "id": "83936", "term": "homo", "definition": "Shortened form of \"homosexual.\" Often derogatory.", "sentence": "Every \"break\" between our lessons there is at least one colleague screaming hyper trans- and homophobic terms, calling us names and laughing like no one cares.", "communities": [], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "asktransgender", "date": "2019-03-13 12:30:13", "timestamp": 1552476613.0 } }, { "id": "104060", "term": "stealth", "definition": "When a transgender person keeps their transgender status closely guarded, living as if they were cisgender as their identified gender.", "sentence": "I'm stealth, too, and it definitely takes some weight off my shoulders.", "communities": [ "transgender" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "lgbt", "date": "2023-07-13 20:32:40", "timestamp": 1689273160.0 } }, { "id": "227908", "term": "shade", "definition": "A slang term referring to a kind of insult, typically non-verbal in nature. Journalist Anna Holmes called shade \"the art of the sidelong insult\". Merriam-Webster defines it as \"subtle, sneering expression of contempt for or disgust with someoneā€”sometimes verbal, and sometimes not\".", "sentence": "Voguing came from shade because it was a dance that two people did because they didn\" t like each other.", "communities": [ "drag" ], "metadata": { "source": "OpenSubtitles", "title": "Paris Is Burning", "imdb_id": "100332" } }, { "id": "91219", "term": "clock", "definition": "To take notice of, to realize, or to recognize someone as being transgender.", "sentence": "This would always happen to me Pre-T where little kids would clock me omg", "communities": [ "drag", "transgender" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "ftm", "date": "2025-01-25 14:53:09", "timestamp": 1737813189.0 } }, { "id": "169790", "term": "pre-E", "definition": "Not yet having undergone estrogen-based hormone replacement therapy.", "sentence": "Iā€™m also pre-e, would HRT help reduce muscle mass?", "communities": [ "transgender" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "asktransgender", "date": "2024-06-04 04:16:13", "timestamp": 1717467373.0 } }, { "id": "113703", "term": "high femme", "definition": "A femme person who expresses their gender in ultra feminine ways. Often, but not exclusively, this refers to a queer woman.", "sentence": "I've almost always been high femme or a bit punk.", "communities": [ "lesbian" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "lesbianfashionadvice", "date": "2025-04-16 23:44:22", "timestamp": 1744839862.0 } }, { "id": "227971", "term": "punks", "definition": "A slang term with multiple meanings depending on context. Originally used to refer to a sex worker or prostitute, especially a passive or feminine gay man (or a bottom). By the early 20th century, used to refer to a person considered worthless or criminal in nature. By the 1970s, used to refer to punk rock, a punk rocker, or to the sociocultural movement associated with punk rock and its fans. In the modern gay male community, the term \"punk\" may refer to a smaller, typically younger gay man who is forced into a submissive role in prison settings by an older gay man. Also occasionally used as a synonym for \"clock\" or \"read\", i.e. when a cisgender person recognizes a person as transgender.", "sentence": "Taken from us by 20 or 30 punks.", "communities": [ "transgender", "gay male" ], "metadata": { "source": "OpenSubtitles", "title": "My Own Private Idaho", "imdb_id": "102494" } }, { "id": "158719", "term": "crack someone's egg", "definition": "To cause (someone) to realize that they are transgender.", "sentence": "It's probably a bad idea to crack someone's egg for them.", "communities": [ "transgender" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "AskLGBT", "date": "2024-12-20 20:56:29", "timestamp": 1734724589.0 } }, { "id": "86267", "term": "stud", "definition": "ā€¢ Community term for an African-American and/or Latinx masculine queer woman. Also known as \"ag.\" Only use if someone self-describes in this way, and avoid using for white people, as this is a term specifically developed by and for African-American and Latinx communities.\nā€¢ A masculine or butch lesbian; predominantly utilized in Black and Latina lesbian communities. Should not be used by individuals outside of those communities, as it may be seen as pejorative. Sometimes expanded to refer to other gender identities and expressions.", "sentence": "These two are two bestie studs showing how real our love is for each other.", "communities": [ "lesbian", "Latine lesbian", "African-American lesbian" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "olderlesbians", "date": "2025-06-23 03:55:38", "timestamp": 1750643738.0 } }, { "id": "203169", "term": "cunty", "definition": "Amazing or very good or cool, especially with regard to femininity.", "sentence": "Disclaimer: I'm really not as cunty in real life as I am on Twitter", "communities": [], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "gaybros", "date": "2015-01-03 22:14:08", "timestamp": 1420319648.0 } }, { "id": "92", "term": "throw shade", "definition": "To subtly insult someone.", "sentence": "Whereas, as much you know, throw shade at people who delegate decision-making, we all do because you can't actually derive, you don't have enough time to first- It's too effortful.", "communities": [], "metadata": { "source": "Podcasts", "title": "Modern Wisdom" } }, { "id": "116093", "term": "stem", "definition": "A lesbian defined as having a gender presentation between stud (st-) and femme (-em).", "sentence": "(i get heart eyes at all stems, studs and tomboys, sorry if this is too vague).", "communities": [ "lesbian" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "lesbianfashionadvice", "date": "2019-02-22 05:52:27", "timestamp": 1550811147.0 } }, { "id": "157448", "term": "twinky", "definition": "Being or resembling a twink (ā€œyoung, attractive, slim maleā€).", "sentence": "I'm a twinky tattooed white male, haha.", "communities": [ "gay" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "gaysian", "date": "2025-03-02 11:46:45", "timestamp": 1740912405.0 } }, { "id": "120686", "term": "hunty", "definition": "A portmanteau of \"honey\" and \"cunt\", usually considered a term of supposed endearment.", "sentence": "How would I explain ā€œKatya channeling Ann Coulter and honestly, slay huntyā€ to someone from any time but now", "communities": [ "gay male" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "rupaulsdragrace", "date": "2023-08-24 02:21:03", "timestamp": 1692836463.0 } }, { "id": "98629", "term": "gaysian", "definition": "Somewhat derogatory term referring to an Asian gay person.", "sentence": "So I'm a mixed-race gaysian.", "communities": [ "LGBTQ" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "gaysian", "date": "2025-06-18 21:59:09", "timestamp": 1750276749.0 } }, { "id": "143371", "term": "autofellatio", "definition": "Oral stimulation of one's own penis.", "sentence": "I'm too afraid to risk being outed to do anything more than wank and try autofellatio for some penis.", "communities": [], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "bisexual", "date": "2013-07-16 08:41:22", "timestamp": 1373956882.0 } }, { "id": "74241", "term": "bottom", "definition": "ā€¢ A \"bottom\" is an individual who acts as the \"receiving\" partner in sexual encounters. Sometimes used as a self-descriptor within queer communities, but should be replicated with caution. Sometimes used as a verb (\"to bottom for someone\"). Offensive if applied to LGBTQ+ individuals from outwith queer communities.\nā€¢ Someone, typically a man, who is penetrated during sexual intercourse or someone who has a preference for being penetrated during such intercourse.\nā€¢ The buttocks.\nā€¢ Genitalia; genitals.", "sentence": "Sucks that even other trans men/mascs have such a negative or completely uninformed idea on bottom surgery.", "communities": [ "gay", "LGBTQ" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "transgendercirclejerk", "date": "2024-10-05 04:12:33", "timestamp": 1728094353.0 } }, { "id": "228953", "term": "androgynous", "definition": "Of clothing or accessories, making a person's identity as male or female not immediately apparent to observers.", "sentence": "with a slightly androgynous appearance that many females at the time aspire to.", "communities": [], "metadata": { "source": "OpenSubtitles", "title": "Orlando", "imdb_id": "107756" } }, { "id": "94273", "term": "drab", "definition": "An instance of a transgender or non-binary person presenting as the gender corresponding to their sex assigned at birth instead of that corresponding to their internal gender identity (most commonly a trans woman dressed as a man).", "sentence": "Medium in drab, which I know is a large in fem clothes and I'm a U.K. 12/14 in fem tops/dresses.", "communities": [ "transgender", "drag", "transgender" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "crossdressing", "date": "2023-11-17 02:43:27", "timestamp": 1700185407.0 } }, { "id": "155053", "term": "poppers", "definition": "Drugs of the alkyl nitrate class used recreationally as a sexual stimulant, especially among gay men.", "sentence": "Sessi Blanchard didnā€™t hesitate to describe what she sees as the appeal of poppers.", "communities": [ "gay" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "lgbt", "date": "2023-06-06 16:23:52", "timestamp": 1686061432.0 } }, { "id": "415", "term": "chaser", "definition": "Short for \"tranny chaser.\" A person who sees trans people (usually trans women) as inherently sexual, and sexually objectifies them. As opposed to someone who simply is predominantly attracted to trans women; a chaser does not view trans women respectfully as people with humanity and agency, but rather as players in a sexual fantasy.", "sentence": "Like, I will be... How do you know when someone's a chaser?", "communities": [], "metadata": { "source": "Podcasts", "title": "Why Won't You Date Me? with Nicole Byer" } }, { "id": "169971", "term": "princess wand", "definition": "A trans woman's penis.", "sentence": "It is completely, down the roots, hairless ..My princess wand has never been this smooth From all directions before.", "communities": [ "transgender" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "MtF", "date": "2024-01-09 10:13:28", "timestamp": 1704791608.0 } }, { "id": "165200", "term": "estrogel", "definition": "Estradiol gel used in feminizing hormone replacement therapy.", "sentence": "Me resisting the urge to coat myself in estrogel", "communities": [ "transgender" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "traaaaaaannnnnnnnnns", "date": "2022-06-01 13:05:19", "timestamp": 1654081519.0 } }, { "id": "215443", "term": "orchie", "definition": "Clipping of orchiectomy.", "sentence": "Personally, I didn't get a huge amount of benefit out of an orchie.", "communities": [ "transgender" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "asktransgender", "date": "2025-02-02 03:06:58", "timestamp": 1738462018.0 } }, { "id": "169380", "term": "manmode", "definition": "The state of presenting as a man, regardless of one's actual gender identity, especially of a trans woman.", "sentence": "No experiences have really challenged my manmode.", "communities": [ "transgender" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "MtF", "date": "2025-03-02 01:01:41", "timestamp": 1740873701.0 } }, { "id": "203406", "term": "doll", "definition": "A transgender woman or transfeminine person.", "sentence": "The trans community needs all the support it can get and picking fights because we donā€™t like the word doll is utterly ridiculous.", "communities": [], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "transgender", "date": "2025-07-04 02:34:31", "timestamp": 1751589271.0 } }, { "id": "101643", "term": "thembo", "definition": "A nonbinary or gender-neutral bimbo.", "sentence": "As a 6ā€™4 thembo I will gladly trade heights with u", "communities": [ "nonbinary" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "traaaaaaannnnnnnnnns", "date": "2021-01-28 22:21:58", "timestamp": 1611868918.0 } }, { "id": "99377", "term": "total top", "definition": "A total top is one who assumes an exclusively penetrative role for sex.", "sentence": "I'm a total bottom, I want monogamy and I adore my husband, so I'm very satisfied in a monogamous relationship with a total top.", "communities": [ "LGBTQ" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "askgaybros", "date": "2024-06-10 17:17:33", "timestamp": 1718032653.0 } }, { "id": "75317", "term": "chaser", "definition": "Short for \"tranny chaser.\" A person who sees trans people (usually trans women) as inherently sexual, and sexually objectifies them. As opposed to someone who simply is predominantly attracted to trans women; a chaser does not view trans women respectfully as people with humanity and agency, but rather as players in a sexual fantasy.", "sentence": "A quick test for chasers is this: sure, heā€™d fuck you, but would he introduce you to his friends or hold your hand in public?", "communities": [], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "asktransgender", "date": "2025-07-12 21:52:32", "timestamp": 1752349952.0 } }, { "id": "110935", "term": "zucchini", "definition": "A queerplatonic partner.", "sentence": "\\- Squash; A Platonic attraction to someone with the desire to be with them or to become their Zucchini.", "communities": [ "aromantic" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "Asexual", "date": "2022-06-07 04:59:55", "timestamp": 1654570795.0 } }, { "id": "120679", "term": "hunty", "definition": "A portmanteau of \"honey\" and \"cunt\", usually considered a term of supposed endearment.", "sentence": "And werk, hunty !", "communities": [ "gay male" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "lgbt", "date": "2014-07-10 17:55:05", "timestamp": 1405007705.0 } }, { "id": "145997", "term": "brainworm", "definition": "An intrusive, unwanted, internalized transphobic or invalidating thought or belief.", "sentence": "Girl your brainworms are working overtime you look cis.", "communities": [], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "transpassing", "date": "2024-06-18 02:38:15", "timestamp": 1718671095.0 } }, { "id": "168307", "term": "girlpussy", "definition": "The vagina or vulva of a cisgender woman.", "sentence": "They're people, not just walking girlpussy dispensers", "communities": [ "transgender" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "transgendercirclejerk", "date": "2022-08-14 09:18:15", "timestamp": 1660461495.0 } }, { "id": "102302", "term": "ace", "definition": "Asexual; an asexual person.", "sentence": "Being Ace/Aro is not a choice.", "communities": [ "asexual" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "lgbt", "date": "2020-04-02 01:20:44", "timestamp": 1585783244.0 } }, { "id": "202168", "term": "unclockable", "definition": "Not recognizable as transgender or a drag performer; passing.", "sentence": "I really wanted to give you some thoughts on your clockability but you sound unclockable!", "communities": [ "transgender" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "transvoice", "date": "2022-10-06 02:29:30", "timestamp": 1665016170.0 } }, { "id": "639", "term": "snatched", "definition": "Good-looking.", "sentence": "This trend, it's been going on for a little while now, but it's the trend on TikTok, and everyone's trying to get snatched for summer.", "communities": [], "metadata": { "source": "Podcasts", "title": "The Vault with Financielle" } }, { "id": "114698", "term": "bambi lesbian", "definition": "A lesbian who identifies as bambi-sexual, i.e. being more interested in kissing, carressing, cuddling, etc. than genital stimulation or sexual intercourse.", "sentence": "Am a cute lil bambi lesbian :3", "communities": [ "lesbian" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "actuallesbians", "date": "2022-04-12 07:12:20", "timestamp": 1649740340.0 } }, { "id": "91549", "term": "clock", "definition": "To take notice of, to realize, or to recognize someone as being transgender.", "sentence": "I wish I could wear skirts without instantly getting clocked as trans/nonbinary...", "communities": [ "drag", "transgender" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "NonBinary", "date": "2020-09-13 02:54:56", "timestamp": 1599958496.0 } }, { "id": "102296", "term": "ace", "definition": "Asexual; an asexual person.", "sentence": "I see a ton of ace flags at the prides I goto.", "communities": [ "asexual" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "lgbt", "date": "2021-10-09 14:02:18", "timestamp": 1633780938.0 } }, { "id": "77722", "term": "fag hag", "definition": "A woman, typically a heterosexual one, possibly ageing, who prefers, enjoys, or seeks out the company of homosexual men. This term is offensive to gay men and misogynistic to heterosexual women. Once common, now rarely used within queer communities.", "sentence": "You didn't list your gender or the friend's, so I was going through the list while reading your post and none of them fits the definition of a fag hag:", "communities": [ "gay male" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "asktransgender", "date": "2017-09-21 01:11:57", "timestamp": 1505949117.0 } }, { "id": "114717", "term": "bambi lesbian", "definition": "A lesbian who identifies as bambi-sexual, i.e. being more interested in kissing, carressing, cuddling, etc. than genital stimulation or sexual intercourse.", "sentence": "It's such a sweet term, I'd be happy to call anyone who calls themselves that, a bambi lesbian.", "communities": [ "lesbian" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "asexuality", "date": "2020-11-10 15:55:27", "timestamp": 1605020127.0 } }, { "id": "203170", "term": "cunty", "definition": "Amazing or very good or cool, especially with regard to femininity.", "sentence": "I'm pretty \"sassy and cunty\" on there, but it's really not how I am in person, it's kind of a character and it works for me.", "communities": [], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "gaybros", "date": "2014-01-02 23:06:23", "timestamp": 1388700383.0 } }, { "id": "151428", "term": "bussy", "definition": "ā€¢ Any anus, in general.\nā€¢ The vulva or vagina of a trans man.", "sentence": "A taste for Bussy.", "communities": [ "gay" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "rupaulsdragrace", "date": "2024-09-09 06:07:54", "timestamp": 1725854874.0 } }, { "id": "76141", "term": "drag family", "definition": "In the US, a group of drag queens who have been mentored by a \"mother,\" also known as a \"house.\" These groups often take on family drag names and form close-knit communities.", "sentence": "Do people actually audition to be a part of a drag family?", "communities": [], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "Drag", "date": "2023-03-09 03:35:44", "timestamp": 1678329344.0 } }, { "id": "140194", "term": "BJ", "definition": "Initialism of blow job.", "sentence": "Best bj of my life.", "communities": [], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "gay", "date": "2021-05-01 08:56:45", "timestamp": 1619852205.0 } }, { "id": "135642", "term": "AC/DC", "definition": "Said of a person, bisexual, referring to being attracted to women and men.", "sentence": "I remember reading the term AC/DC as slang for bisexual in a 1970s novel (probably Heinlein) as a bi metalhead in the 80s.", "communities": [], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "bisexual", "date": "2022-11-28 03:35:01", "timestamp": 1669602901.0 } }, { "id": "203123", "term": "VT", "definition": "Initialism of voice training.", "sentence": "if you say you're trans, then you are, even if you haven't done VT, HRT, or anything like that.", "communities": [ "transgender" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "trans", "date": "2025-06-02 07:46:31", "timestamp": 1748843191.0 } }, { "id": "209093", "term": "yass", "definition": "A strong expression of excitement or admiration.", "sentence": "It just feels like that sort of misguided support like when you tell someone youā€™re gay and they go YASS HUNTY RUPAULS DRAG RACE GAY BESTIE AM I RIGHT", "communities": [], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "asktransgender", "date": "2019-11-28 13:17:07", "timestamp": 1574943427.0 } }, { "id": "206325", "term": "pozzed", "definition": "HIV positive.", "sentence": "Most people get pozzed by a partner, someone they are dating, and by hook ups the way it happens is unsafe sex.", "communities": [], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "gaybros", "date": "2023-09-07 01:37:14", "timestamp": 1694043434.0 } }, { "id": "204388", "term": "folx", "definition": "Folks; people.", "sentence": "hi folx, iā€™m nonbinary and after years of dealing with my chest in various ways i want to formally start getting them removed.", "communities": [], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "transgenderau", "date": "2019-12-27 04:17:55", "timestamp": 1577416675.0 } }, { "id": "107361", "term": "bottom surgery", "definition": "A slang term used to refer to genital gender-affirming surgeries.", "sentence": "I've heard that some trans people only were able to feel sexual pleasure after bottom surgery.", "communities": [ "transgender" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "asexuality", "date": "2022-12-03 21:30:00", "timestamp": 1670099400.0 } }, { "id": "215148", "term": "twinks", "definition": "ā€¢ Slang term widely used in gay communities to describe a young or young-looking man with little or no facial or body hair. Can be pejorative, but can also be a self-descriptor.\nā€¢ A young, attractive, slim male, usually having little body hair.", "sentence": "Try to reframe it, no point wasting energy being annoyed by something you can't stop and instead amuse yourself whenever straight rugby players call themselves twinks.", "communities": [ "gay male" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "gaybros", "date": "2025-04-28 19:58:28", "timestamp": 1745863108.0 } }, { "id": "85044", "term": "punk", "definition": "A slang term with multiple meanings depending on context. Originally used to refer to a sex worker or prostitute, especially a passive or feminine gay man (or a bottom). By the early 20th century, used to refer to a person considered worthless or criminal in nature. By the 1970s, used to refer to punk rock, a punk rocker, or to the sociocultural movement associated with punk rock and its fans. In the modern gay male community, the term \"punk\" may refer to a smaller, typically younger gay man who is forced into a submissive role in prison settings by an older gay man. Also occasionally used as a synonym for \"clock\" or \"read\", i.e. when a cisgender person recognizes a person as transgender.", "sentence": "Because licking the boots of fascists wasn't punk 50 years ago and ain't now.", "communities": [ "transgender", "gay male" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "transgender", "date": "2023-04-16 21:51:50", "timestamp": 1681674710.0 } }, { "id": "120710", "term": "twunk", "definition": "A gay man with the certain twink (meaning ā€œyoung, attractive, slim maleā€) stereotype elements that has a hunky (strong, muscular, etc.) physique.", "sentence": "Iā€™m a 24 years old Latino male and though I love being a twunk/Daddy.", "communities": [ "gay", "gay male" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "lgbt", "date": "2023-11-07 15:17:26", "timestamp": 1699366646.0 } }, { "id": "205716", "term": "neo", "definition": "Clipping of neopronoun.", "sentence": "I don't use neos nor xenos but I still feel some kind of rage when I see these types of comments, I can't really explain it well, sorry abt that", "communities": [], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "lgbt", "date": "2023-10-13 08:53:38", "timestamp": 1697180018.0 } }, { "id": "203351", "term": "doll", "definition": "A transgender woman or transfeminine person.", "sentence": "Though, of course, it still has the same problem \"Protect the dolls\" does by focusing only on protecting trans women, but that's another conversation.", "communities": [], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "asktransgender", "date": "2025-06-19 08:53:49", "timestamp": 1750316029.0 } }, { "id": "165249", "term": "euphoria boner", "definition": "An erection of the penis in a trans woman, caused by strong feelings of gender euphoria.", "sentence": "Try doing some exercise, like push-ups until the euphoria boner disappears, they stay wearing your fem clothes until your body gets used to it.", "communities": [ "transgender" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "MtF", "date": "2022-10-17 13:27:26", "timestamp": 1666006046.0 } }, { "id": "115660", "term": "lesbro", "definition": "A man who is considered an \"honorary lesbian\" by lesbian friends; otherwise, rarely, a lesbian who is considered stereotypically masculine, i.e. a \"bro\".", "sentence": "I have an older gay bro and my lesbro roommate and gay best friend from university both had younger gay bros.", "communities": [ "lesbian" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "gaybros", "date": "2012-07-03 16:57:41", "timestamp": 1341327461.0 } }, { "id": "209091", "term": "yass", "definition": "A strong expression of excitement or admiration.", "sentence": "Anybody else witnessing straight guys saying Yass??", "communities": [], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "rupaulsdragrace", "date": "2018-11-04 13:32:20", "timestamp": 1541334740.0 } }, { "id": "205720", "term": "neo", "definition": "Clipping of neopronoun.", "sentence": "People thinking it's abt identifying as cats or plants etc or wrongly assuming neo users are mocking trans folks etc", "communities": [], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "lgbt", "date": "2023-10-13 09:32:09", "timestamp": 1697182329.0 } }, { "id": "76126", "term": "drag family", "definition": "In the US, a group of drag queens who have been mentored by a \"mother,\" also known as a \"house.\" These groups often take on family drag names and form close-knit communities.", "sentence": "Here we are again where Michelle says that because two looks arenā€™t the EXACT same, there is zero drag family resemblance.", "communities": [], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "rupaulsdragrace", "date": "2025-03-29 02:44:59", "timestamp": 1743212699.0 } }, { "id": "169384", "term": "manmode", "definition": "The state of presenting as a man, regardless of one's actual gender identity, especially of a trans woman.", "sentence": "I'm a manmoder fr", "communities": [ "transgender" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "MtF", "date": "2024-02-12 21:27:09", "timestamp": 1707769629.0 } }, { "id": "88608", "term": "top", "definition": "ā€¢ A \"top\" is an individual who acts as the \"giving\" partner in sexual encounters. Sometimes used as a self-descriptor within queer communities, but should be replicated with caution. Sometimes used as a verb (\"to top someone\"). Offensive if applied to LGBTQ+ individuals from outwith queer communities.\nā€¢ Someone, typically a man, who is penetrating someone else during sexual intercourse or someone who has a preference for penetrating during such intercourse.", "sentence": "Do you guys think a bottom must be smooth, or at least more smooth than the top?", "communities": [ "LGBTQ" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "gaysian", "date": "2024-11-27 14:51:43", "timestamp": 1732715503.0 } }, { "id": "157892", "term": "clockable", "definition": "Of a transgender person or drag performer: able to be clocked; capable of being noticed or recognized as transgender; not passing.", "sentence": "Since I'm not going to live my life in the closet, I have to accept bring clockable.", "communities": [ "transgender" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "asktransgender", "date": "2021-07-10 02:26:47", "timestamp": 1625876807.0 } }, { "id": "169977", "term": "princess wand", "definition": "A trans woman's penis.", "sentence": "I would genuinely throw myself off my 8th floor balcony if someone ever called my junk a princess wand.", "communities": [ "transgender" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "trans", "date": "2024-05-20 01:57:07", "timestamp": 1716163027.0 } }, { "id": "108942", "term": "cotton ceiling", "definition": "A term used for the tendency for cisgender lesbians to not want to engage in sexual activities with transgender women, particular those who have not yet undergone feminizing genitoplasty; or, more broadly, the tendency for cisgender lesbians to exclude transgender women from spaces.", "sentence": "the cotton ceiling is a real thing, except it's not just about homosexual relationships, that's a facet not the whole story.", "communities": [ "transfeminine", "lesbian" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "trans", "date": "2018-12-06 00:57:51", "timestamp": 1544054271.0 } }, { "id": "219719", "term": "camp", "definition": "ā€¢ Camp can also be a social practice and function as a style and performance identity for several types of entertainment including film, cabaret, and pantomime. Where high art necessarily incorporates beauty and value, camp necessarily needs to be lively, audacious and dynamic.\nā€¢ An aesthetic style and sensibility that regards something as appealing because of its bad taste and ironic value. Camp aesthetics disrupt many of modernism's notions of what art is and what can be classified as high art by inverting aesthetic attributes such as beauty, value, and taste through an invitation of a different kind of apprehension and consumption.\nā€¢ To behave, speak, act, etc. in a flamboyant, affected, ostentatious, or exaggerated manner stereotypically associated with gay men.\nā€¢ Gay.", "sentence": "Camp is a way to subvert sorrow also.", "communities": [ "LGBTQ" ], "metadata": { "source": "OpenSubtitles", "title": "Venus Boyz", "imdb_id": "293685" } }, { "id": "159453", "term": "E", "definition": "Abbreviation of estrogen or estradiol.", "sentence": "I've always had really bad depression, but on E it's not nearly as intense, but I think a large trigger of my depression was dysphoria.", "communities": [ "transgender" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "asktransgender", "date": "2021-04-11 17:02:48", "timestamp": 1618153368.0 } }, { "id": "106688", "term": "transdar", "definition": "A colloquialism referring to the intuitive ability of a person to assess others' as being transgender. Transdar relies on verbal and non-verbal clues and transgender stereotypes. These include the sensitivity to social behaviors and mannerisms; for instance, acknowledging variations of gendered body language, the tone of voice used by a person when speaking, overtly rejecting traditional gender roles, a person's occupation, interests, etc.", "sentence": "My transdar is impeccable", "communities": [ "transgender" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "asktransgender", "date": "2017-11-20 16:54:31", "timestamp": 1511193271.0 } }, { "id": "77177", "term": "egg", "definition": "Slang term (originating online) for a person who has not yet realised they are transgender, has not yet come out, or is in the early stages of transitioning. Usually used (fondly) by trans people to recognise when aspects of someone's personality or behavior remind them of gender-related aspects of themselves before they realized they were trans.", "sentence": "I've known this person, and thought they were a wonderful human for over a decade, before my egg cracked.", "communities": [ "transgender", "transgender" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "TransSupport", "date": "2025-04-27 10:04:39", "timestamp": 1745741079.0 } }, { "id": "102200", "term": "joyfriend", "definition": "A sexual and/or romantic partner of any gender, but usually a nonbinary person.", "sentence": "\"Oh but I want to visit my joyfriend-\" Don't.", "communities": [ "nonbinary" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "asktransgender", "date": "2023-07-03 06:43:58", "timestamp": 1688359438.0 } }, { "id": "146036", "term": "brainworm", "definition": "An intrusive, unwanted, internalized transphobic or invalidating thought or belief.", "sentence": "youre absolutely beautiful, dont listen to the brainworms", "communities": [], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "transpositive", "date": "2025-07-04 06:57:43", "timestamp": 1751605063.0 } }, { "id": "116637", "term": "chubby chaser", "definition": "A gay male person who is attracted sexually and/or romantically to obesity.", "sentence": "I was outside on break and messaged this dude on grindr, heā€™s a chubby chaser and my type, and vice versa.", "communities": [ "chub" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "gaybros", "date": "2019-12-29 11:29:49", "timestamp": 1577615389.0 } }, { "id": "151308", "term": "boywife", "definition": "A young male assuming the employment of homemaking, a role traditionally assumed by women; the submissive partner in the relationship who receives great pleasure in \"taking care\" of his more dominant partner.", "sentence": "I came across boywife and it kinda works really well for me.", "communities": [ "gay" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "NonBinary", "date": "2025-06-27 07:33:39", "timestamp": 1751002419.0 } }, { "id": "169359", "term": "ladyparts", "definition": "The penis of a trans woman.", "sentence": "Plus, I like my ladyparts, they're fun, top and bottom.", "communities": [ "transgender" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "genderqueer", "date": "2012-02-18 01:33:12", "timestamp": 1329525192.0 } }, { "id": "107805", "term": "full-time", "definition": "A term which refers to a transgender person living as their gender for the entirety of their day-to-day life, at work, at home, etc.", "sentence": "Since it's my opinion you'll have no problem at all passing, I'd suggest going full-time when you feel comfortable.", "communities": [ "transgender" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "TransSpace", "date": "2012-03-13 01:01:26", "timestamp": 1331596886.0 } }, { "id": "113690", "term": "high femme", "definition": "A femme person who expresses their gender in ultra feminine ways. Often, but not exclusively, this refers to a queer woman.", "sentence": "I look fucking beautiful and sexy and incredible, 'the perfect women' in high femme fashion.", "communities": [ "lesbian" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "ftm", "date": "2023-10-21 15:08:53", "timestamp": 1697893733.0 } }, { "id": "2535", "term": "shade", "definition": "A slang term referring to a kind of insult, typically non-verbal in nature. Journalist Anna Holmes called shade \"the art of the sidelong insult\". Merriam-Webster defines it as \"subtle, sneering expression of contempt for or disgust with someoneā€”sometimes verbal, and sometimes not\".", "sentence": "But no shade to the silver ring thing.", "communities": [ "drag" ], "metadata": { "source": "Podcasts", "title": "Sounds Like A Cult" } }, { "id": "155497", "term": "rice queen", "definition": "A non-Asian man who is mostly attracted to East Asian men.", "sentence": "The standard definition of a rice queen is a white guy seeking a feminine, waifish, or submissive East Asian bottom.", "communities": [ "gay" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "gaysian", "date": "2025-07-14 03:56:25", "timestamp": 1752458185.0 } }, { "id": "115074", "term": "chapstick lesbian", "definition": "A lesbian who exhibits some butch traits (short hair, stereotypical men's clothing, etc.) without wholly fitting the masculine butch stereotype; alternatively, a lesbian who is athletic or has a keen interest in sports.", "sentence": "I am femme myself but more like a chapstick lesbian (lmao at these terms) and veeery switch.", "communities": [ "lesbian" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "lgbt", "date": "2021-02-13 02:39:17", "timestamp": 1613180357.0 } }, { "id": "206449", "term": "throw shade", "definition": "To subtly insult someone.", "sentence": "Statler and Waldorf is the old married couple who throw shade like a pair of redwoods.", "communities": [], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "SuddenlyGay", "date": "2021-11-08 15:14:35", "timestamp": 1636380875.0 } }, { "id": "114262", "term": "aggressive", "definition": "A term used to describe lesbian or bisexual women or color who express traditionally masculine behavior or traits; alternatively, a lesbian who has a stereotypically \"hip-hop\" or \"gangster\" look. This term has also been used to describe women considered \"disagreeable\", i.e. describing feminist activists, any woman who disagrees with a man, women who pursue a career, etc.", "sentence": "Iā€™ve been bouncing back and forth between my more aggressive and she/they kind of looks and my softer more feminine looks.", "communities": [ "lesbian", "Latine lesbian", "African-American lesbian" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "Drag", "date": "2023-06-24 01:39:36", "timestamp": 1687563576.0 } }, { "id": "77449", "term": "faggot", "definition": "A pejorative term used chiefly in North America primarily to refer to a gay man. Alongside its use to refer to gay men in particular, it may also be used as a pejorative term for a \"repellent man\" or to refer to women who are lesbian (or to transgender people, typically transgender women). Its use has spread from the United States to varying extents elsewhere in the English-speaking world through mass culture, including film, music, and the Internet.", "sentence": "The reason that people get away with saying faggot is because, on some level, homophobia is tolerated in our culture.", "communities": [ "gay male" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "lgbt", "date": "2010-09-03 17:04:25", "timestamp": 1283526265.0 } }, { "id": "97014", "term": "breeder", "definition": "A heterosexual; i.e. one whose sexual intercourse can lead to breeding.", "sentence": "I have been called breeder as a bi person.", "communities": [ "LGBTQ" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "lgbt", "date": "2022-01-09 17:36:47", "timestamp": 1641746207.0 } }, { "id": "113865", "term": "boi", "definition": "An LGBTQIA+ slang term with multiple definitions; a boi might be a boyish lesbian, a submissive butch in the BDSM community, a younger transgender man or a transgender man early in transition, a younger bisexual or gay person who is somewhat feminine. Alternatively, some persons identifying with the term might fit none of these categories.", "sentence": "Last time I was dating, people used terms like soft butch or boi.", "communities": [ "lesbian", "transmasculine", "African-American LGBTQ" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "olderlesbians", "date": "2023-02-28 15:45:05", "timestamp": 1677595505.0 } }, { "id": "168296", "term": "girlcum", "definition": "The semen produced by a trans woman.", "sentence": "Sugma girlcock so I can girlcum", "communities": [ "transgender" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "transgendercirclejerk", "date": "2021-06-28 09:12:10", "timestamp": 1624864330.0 } }, { "id": "155479", "term": "rice queen", "definition": "A non-Asian man who is mostly attracted to East Asian men.", "sentence": "As usual asian spaces get flooded with rice queens until most of itā€™s not even asian anymore.", "communities": [ "gay" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "gaysian", "date": "2019-10-26 01:50:58", "timestamp": 1572047458.0 } }, { "id": "214570", "term": "studs", "definition": "ā€¢ Community term for an African-American and/or Latinx masculine queer woman. Also known as \"ag.\" Only use if someone self-describes in this way, and avoid using for white people, as this is a term specifically developed by and for African-American and Latinx communities.\nā€¢ A masculine or butch lesbian; predominantly utilized in Black and Latina lesbian communities. Should not be used by individuals outside of those communities, as it may be seen as pejorative. Sometimes expanded to refer to other gender identities and expressions.", "sentence": "Because this morning, I was literally telling myself there's a shortage of studs in the lesbian subs here, and now youā€™re showing up with this cool outfit and cool timbs!", "communities": [ "lesbian", "Latine lesbian", "African-American lesbian" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "actuallesbians", "date": "2025-05-15 17:25:39", "timestamp": 1747322739.0 } }, { "id": "97000", "term": "total bottom", "definition": "A total bottom is someone who assumes an exclusively passive or receptive role during anal or oral intercourse.", "sentence": "30yo wannabe total bottom here.", "communities": [ "LGBTQ" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "LGBTAustralia", "date": "2022-07-03 05:01:43", "timestamp": 1656817303.0 } }, { "id": "107234", "term": "bottom surgery", "definition": "A slang term used to refer to genital gender-affirming surgeries.", "sentence": "It must feel great to have gotten your bottom surgery!", "communities": [ "transgender" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "lgbt", "date": "2024-11-13 00:11:37", "timestamp": 1731453097.0 } }, { "id": "151338", "term": "breeding", "definition": "Ejaculation inside the rectum during bareback anal sex.", "sentence": "But recently, he brought up the breeding kink, and Iā€™m not sure how to fulfill his desires because I always use condoms.", "communities": [ "gay" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "askgaybros", "date": "2025-06-02 22:02:15", "timestamp": 1748894535.0 } }, { "id": "90944", "term": "kai kai", "definition": "The act of drag queens having sex with each other.", "sentence": "Either a pair of queer twins have been born, a gay lost his virginity in an orgy, or a Kai Kai happened", "communities": [ "drag" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "gay", "date": "2020-05-21 01:49:56", "timestamp": 1590018596.0 } }, { "id": "115208", "term": "soft butch", "definition": "A lesbian who exhibits some stereotypical butch traits without fitting the masculine stereotype associated with butch lesbians.", "sentence": "Any ideas for stuff that would still look cute in a soft butch rustic way while also fitting the needs of my job?", "communities": [ "lesbian" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "transfashionadvice", "date": "2024-06-28 00:20:35", "timestamp": 1719526835.0 } }, { "id": "108015", "term": "transition goal", "definition": "A transgender person's goals for transition, or an example of what they would like to achieve for such a transition (for example, pointing to an actor or musician of their desired gender expression and declaring that person \"transition goals\").", "sentence": "Created myself a fem body with penis (personal transition goals) and have been loving that.", "communities": [ "transgender" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "transgamers", "date": "2021-10-06 20:04:33", "timestamp": 1633543473.0 } }, { "id": "99770", "term": "queer coding", "definition": "A situation in which a character is given traits or behaviors which suggest they are not heterosexual and/or cisgender, without the character being outright confirmed as having such an identity.", "sentence": "It's a little more complicated than that, queer coding is not about male characters acting female, it's about people that don't act like society wants their gender to act.", "communities": [ "LGBTQ" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "gaybros", "date": "2024-01-03 02:34:41", "timestamp": 1704245681.0 } }, { "id": "149186", "term": "serve cunt", "definition": "To act in a powerfully and unapologetically feminine manner.", "sentence": "Iā€™m here to be masc and serve cunt, and my T shot ainā€™t till tomorrow.", "communities": [ "drag" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "ftm", "date": "2025-06-27 01:10:28", "timestamp": 1750979428.0 } }, { "id": "107792", "term": "full-time", "definition": "A term which refers to a transgender person living as their gender for the entirety of their day-to-day life, at work, at home, etc.", "sentence": "All I can say is I very recently started dressing full-time and I couldnā€™t be happier.", "communities": [ "transgender" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "crossdressing", "date": "2024-03-12 09:48:42", "timestamp": 1710233322.0 } }, { "id": "107897", "term": "tucute", "definition": "A person who acknowledges that gender dysphoria is not necessary to be transgender.", "sentence": "Today I have learnt three new words; truscum, tucute, and transmed.", "communities": [ "transgender" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "trans", "date": "2025-06-18 19:33:24", "timestamp": 1750268004.0 } }, { "id": "115522", "term": "pillow princess", "definition": "A woman who likes to receive and not give, sexually.", "sentence": "I read a while back about pillow princess and I was like that's so me.", "communities": [ "lesbian" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "LGBTindia", "date": "2024-12-15 16:42:07", "timestamp": 1734277327.0 } }, { "id": "115439", "term": "pillow princess", "definition": "A woman who likes to receive and not give, sexually.", "sentence": "Eh I'm into the pillow princesses thing, so I know there is a market.", "communities": [ "lesbian" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "bisexual", "date": "2023-10-04 18:04:19", "timestamp": 1696435459.0 } }, { "id": "206312", "term": "poz", "definition": "ā€¢ HIV positive.\nā€¢ To infect (someone) with a sexually transmitted infection; especially HIV.", "sentence": "This guy is POZ but continues to have bareback sex with strangers and post them on twitter.", "communities": [], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "gaysian", "date": "2020-05-01 18:37:23", "timestamp": 1588351043.0 } }, { "id": "204210", "term": "folx", "definition": "Folks; people.", "sentence": "I was wondering if other folx on here have similar experiences?", "communities": [], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "pansexual", "date": "2024-10-08 13:57:00", "timestamp": 1728388620.0 } }, { "id": "76015", "term": "chaser", "definition": "Short for \"tranny chaser.\" A person who sees trans people (usually trans women) as inherently sexual, and sexually objectifies them. As opposed to someone who simply is predominantly attracted to trans women; a chaser does not view trans women respectfully as people with humanity and agency, but rather as players in a sexual fantasy.", "sentence": "The issue with chasers is not that they are attracted to trans women who have not had bottom surgery.", "communities": [], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "AskLGBT", "date": "2024-05-11 16:18:26", "timestamp": 1715437106.0 } }, { "id": "170028", "term": "prog", "definition": "Progesterone.", "sentence": "Dreams: after I started prog I also started having much more vivid dreams, just a little bit of an aside.", "communities": [ "transgender" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "asktransgender", "date": "2025-05-10 17:25:48", "timestamp": 1746890748.0 } }, { "id": "146027", "term": "brainworm", "definition": "An intrusive, unwanted, internalized transphobic or invalidating thought or belief.", "sentence": "Don't treat brainworms like brainworms; don't treat this like out-of-the-blue emotional spiraling.", "communities": [], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "ftm", "date": "2024-11-25 04:09:36", "timestamp": 1732504176.0 } }, { "id": "116690", "term": "malefailing", "definition": "To be seen as and gender as female while attempting to present as masculine.", "sentence": "i dream of malefailing lol.", "communities": [ "transmasculine" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "MtF", "date": "2024-09-11 18:42:58", "timestamp": 1726072978.0 } }, { "id": "213087", "term": "gaylord", "definition": "Slur for a gay man.", "sentence": "She said I stared at the girls playing soccer during recess too much and said I was a Gaylord.", "communities": [], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "actuallesbians", "date": "2015-09-05 04:33:04", "timestamp": 1441420384.0 } }, { "id": "19968", "term": "tea", "definition": "Information, especially gossip.", "sentence": "This is the part of the show where you spill the tea and we try not to.", "communities": [ "gay" ], "metadata": { "source": "Podcasts", "title": "Tea at Four" } }, { "id": "151284", "term": "boywife", "definition": "A young male assuming the employment of homemaking, a role traditionally assumed by women; the submissive partner in the relationship who receives great pleasure in \"taking care\" of his more dominant partner.", "sentence": "yes šŸ‘€ iā€™ll be boywife", "communities": [ "gay" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "askgaybros", "date": "2022-10-13 19:25:15", "timestamp": 1665681915.0 } }, { "id": "123826", "term": "boy pussy", "definition": "A gay man's anus, especially the receiving partipant's. Also, rarely, a transmasculine person's vulva.", "sentence": "So to non trans boys, why do you call you ass your boy pussy?", "communities": [ "transgender", "gay", "gay male" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "bisexual", "date": "2020-10-03 06:31:40", "timestamp": 1601699500.0 } }, { "id": "91652", "term": "kiki", "definition": "ā€¢ A gathering of friends for the purpose of gossiping and chit-chat.\nā€¢ 1940s slang describing a lesbian comfortable with either a more passive or more aggressive partner in a relationship.", "sentence": "The kikis have been had, gurl.", "communities": [ "drag", "lesbian", "African-American transgender", "African-American gay male" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "gaymers", "date": "2012-09-17 19:37:57", "timestamp": 1347903477.0 } }, { "id": "95164", "term": "werk", "definition": "Either an exclamation of approval or to do something excellently (often used in reference to dance or modeling).", "sentence": "I told him he's doing **GODS WERK** haha!!", "communities": [ "drag", "gay male" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "transgendercirclejerk", "date": "2023-06-04 00:51:12", "timestamp": 1685832672.0 } }, { "id": "227381", "term": "drag queen", "definition": "ā€¢ A male entertainer who performs dressed as a woman; a female impersonator.\nā€¢ A male-to-female cross-dresser.", "sentence": "Being a drag queen like us.", "communities": [], "metadata": { "source": "OpenSubtitles", "title": "The Iron Ladies", "imdb_id": "263957" } }, { "id": "91653", "term": "kiki", "definition": "ā€¢ A gathering of friends for the purpose of gossiping and chit-chat.\nā€¢ 1940s slang describing a lesbian comfortable with either a more passive or more aggressive partner in a relationship.", "sentence": "While I still really enjoy the song (and the band), every second guy on Grindr seems to have \"LETS HAVE A KIKI\" on his profile.", "communities": [ "drag", "lesbian", "African-American transgender", "African-American gay male" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "gaymers", "date": "2012-09-17 19:39:08", "timestamp": 1347903548.0 } }, { "id": "169903", "term": "pre-T", "definition": "Not yet having undergone testosterone-based hormone replacement therapy.", "sentence": "What are some good tips on voice training pre-T?", "communities": [ "transgender" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "transvoice", "date": "2025-05-06 05:55:34", "timestamp": 1746503734.0 } }, { "id": "211233", "term": "fagot", "definition": "A pejorative term used chiefly in North America primarily to refer to a gay man. Alongside its use to refer to gay men in particular, it may also be used as a pejorative term for a \"repellent man\" or to refer to women who are lesbian (or to transgender people, typically transgender women). Its use has spread from the United States to varying extents elsewhere in the English-speaking world through mass culture, including film, music, and the Internet.", "sentence": ">Around the time I was 18 I started hearing a lot of people question my sexuality and ask me if I was gay or call me a fagot.", "communities": [], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "gaybros", "date": "2016-01-31 22:57:55", "timestamp": 1454277475.0 } }, { "id": "96996", "term": "total bottom", "definition": "A total bottom is someone who assumes an exclusively passive or receptive role during anal or oral intercourse.", "sentence": "A lot of guys look at me as a total bottom... which kinda make me sad.", "communities": [ "LGBTQ" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "gaysian", "date": "2019-01-30 17:22:39", "timestamp": 1548865359.0 } }, { "id": "2159", "term": "femme", "definition": "Traditionally, a lesbian who appears \"feminine\" or acts in a \"feminine\" manner. However, the term is often used to describe a wide variety of gender expressions and identities adjacent to feminine or femme-ness.", "sentence": "It's like, I want to say presenting as like a femme.", "communities": [ "lesbian" ], "metadata": { "source": "Podcasts", "title": "If I Speak" } }, { "id": "146660", "term": "repper", "definition": "A person who has realised they are transgender but refuses to accept it and begin gender transition.", "sentence": "I've seen reppers go down extremely dark paths again and again even if they claim everything is okay for a while.", "communities": [], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "asktransgender", "date": "2025-02-14 17:20:09", "timestamp": 1739550009.0 } }, { "id": "90013", "term": "twink", "definition": "ā€¢ Slang term widely used in gay communities to describe a young or young-looking man with little or no facial or body hair. Can be pejorative, but can also be a self-descriptor.\nā€¢ A young, attractive, slim male, usually having little body hair.", "sentence": "You know, it was looking at twinks that made me realize I wanted to be more feminine.", "communities": [ "gay", "gay male" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "asktransgender", "date": "2019-11-14 05:11:41", "timestamp": 1573704701.0 } }, { "id": "113919", "term": "futch", "definition": "A person who exhibits traits of both a femme (often used to describe a wide variety of gender expressions and identities adjacent to feminine or femme-ness) and a butch (often used to describe a wide variety of gender expressions and identities adjacent to masculinity or \"butchilinity\").", "sentence": "Dunno if this is relevant but Iā€™m nonbinary and Iā€™m quite tough futch presentingšŸ¤·ā€ā™€ļø", "communities": [ "lesbian" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "bisexual", "date": "2025-04-07 22:10:04", "timestamp": 1744056604.0 } }, { "id": "127546", "term": "butch queen", "definition": "A gay man with a traditionally masculine gender expression.", "sentence": "Any other cities that's butch queen heavy?", "communities": [ "gay male" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "gay", "date": "2020-03-29 01:13:22", "timestamp": 1585440802.0 } }, { "id": "110883", "term": "tranny chaser", "definition": "Someone who aims to have sexual relations (in some cases non-consensually) or date transgender people as a kind of fetish.", "sentence": "See, tranny chasers know what to say to make you feel comfortable and what will make you trust them.", "communities": [ "transfeminine" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "TransphobiaProject", "date": "2015-11-16 06:38:22", "timestamp": 1447652302.0 } }, { "id": "102064", "term": "enby", "definition": "A nonbinary person, typically a young adult or an adolescent.", "sentence": "I denied for months that I was trans because I thought I could only be enby and not enby and trans.", "communities": [ "nonbinary" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "comingout", "date": "2022-07-31 01:52:52", "timestamp": 1659225172.0 } }, { "id": "107043", "term": "truscum", "definition": "A person who adheres to a strict medical definition of being transgender and believes that gender dysphoria is an essential trait.", "sentence": "I kinda gather truscum means transmedicalist theyā€™re exclusionary to a lot of gender identities and consider themselves ā€œrealā€ trans people but whatā€™s up with the name?", "communities": [ "transgender" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "MtF", "date": "2024-11-19 16:29:02", "timestamp": 1732030142.0 } }, { "id": "70202", "term": "alphabet people", "definition": "Offensive contemporary term for LGBTQ+ people, often used by right-wing people reacting to perceived advancements in LGBTQ+ people's rights.", "sentence": "Iā€™m seeing a new doctor and my mom said ā€œIt said on the website that he focuses on the alphabet peopleā€¦.", "communities": [], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "AskLGBT", "date": "2024-02-27 04:54:37", "timestamp": 1709006077.0 } }, { "id": "99808", "term": "closeted", "definition": "An adjective referring to an LGBTQIA+ person or persons who have not disclosed their status as LGBTQIA+ and other related aspects of their life. More broadly, it can also be used to describe anyone who is hiding part of their identity because of social pressure.", "sentence": "But I also want to push back against the idea that closeted men are manipulative and self-serving.", "communities": [ "LGBTQ" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "gaybros", "date": "2024-10-29 17:36:52", "timestamp": 1730219812.0 } }, { "id": "168374", "term": "hatchling", "definition": "A person who has (especially recently) realized that they are transgender.", "sentence": "But now I have a question too: Are pre everything trans people called hatchlings?", "communities": [ "transgender" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "asktransgender", "date": "2019-03-30 10:05:47", "timestamp": 1553936747.0 } }, { "id": "145979", "term": "boyremoval", "definition": "The process of boyremoving or the fact of being boyremoved.", "sentence": "hj/ being able to self insert in vanilla boyremoval greentexts clearly written by an incredibly touch starved trans girl are like the only good part of being trans", "communities": [], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "transgendercirclejerk", "date": "2025-03-03 19:49:32", "timestamp": 1741027772.0 } }, { "id": "165151", "term": "estrogel", "definition": "Estradiol gel used in feminizing hormone replacement therapy.", "sentence": "Iā€™d love to hear from people whoā€™ve used Estrogel and/or Androcur.", "communities": [ "transgender" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "asktransgender", "date": "2025-02-14 13:57:57", "timestamp": 1739537877.0 } }, { "id": "164159", "term": "E", "definition": "Abbreviation of estrogen or estradiol.", "sentence": "They said to stop taking my E about 2 weeks after the procedure and also cease Spiro at the 4 month mark.", "communities": [ "transgender" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "transgenderau", "date": "2025-04-05 13:07:29", "timestamp": 1743851249.0 } }, { "id": "154615", "term": "henny", "definition": "Alternative spelling of honey.", "sentence": "Sissy that walk henny!", "communities": [ "gay" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "gaymers", "date": "2018-11-15 00:34:47", "timestamp": 1542238487.0 } }, { "id": "146416", "term": "hon", "definition": "A trans woman who does not pass; a clocky (clearly identifiable as transgender) trans woman.", "sentence": "Whenever I look in the mirror I see a body I'm happy with...but my face ruins everything and reminds me of what I really am, a freakish hon.", "communities": [], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "transgenderau", "date": "2023-07-22 21:49:07", "timestamp": 1690055347.0 } }, { "id": "143278", "term": "anti-gay", "definition": "ā€¢ Hostile toward gay people; opposed to gay rights; homophobic.\nā€¢ Used by some gay people to refer to aspects of the community in critique, especially homogeneity, conformity, obsession with particular types of appearance, and assimilative behavior.", "sentence": "I know many Christians are not anti-gay and I've met many very kind affirming Christians myself.", "communities": [], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "lgbt", "date": "2024-10-25 05:22:39", "timestamp": 1729826559.0 } }, { "id": "116741", "term": "front hole", "definition": "Slang for vagina, often used by transmasculine persons assigned female at birth.", "sentence": "Iā€™m 5 months on T, but about a month ago I noticed that Iā€™ve unfortunately got some front hole atrophy going on.", "communities": [ "transmasculine" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "ftm", "date": "2025-04-08 17:31:40", "timestamp": 1744126300.0 } }, { "id": "214820", "term": "tops", "definition": "ā€¢ A \"top\" is an individual who acts as the \"giving\" partner in sexual encounters. Sometimes used as a self-descriptor within queer communities, but should be replicated with caution. Sometimes used as a verb (\"to top someone\"). Offensive if applied to LGBTQ+ individuals from outwith queer communities.\nā€¢ Someone, typically a man, who is penetrating someone else during sexual intercourse or someone who has a preference for penetrating during such intercourse.", "sentence": "Tall bottom here, we love tops of all shapes and sizes.", "communities": [ "LGBTQ" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "gaybros", "date": "2025-06-05 06:34:59", "timestamp": 1749098099.0 } }, { "id": "203148", "term": "šŸ„š", "definition": "Represents an egg, as in a person regarded as having not yet realized they are transgender.", "sentence": "Thank you for helping an šŸ„š", "communities": [ "transgender" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "asktransgender", "date": "2023-01-18 06:04:16", "timestamp": 1674018256.0 } }, { "id": "151558", "term": "chickenhawk", "definition": "An older, usually more powerful man who preys on adolescent boys for sex.", "sentence": "However, there is a huge difference between two consenting adults and a chickenhawk situation.", "communities": [ "gay" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "askgaybros", "date": "2024-02-07 21:01:39", "timestamp": 1707336099.0 } }, { "id": "101466", "term": "theyfab", "definition": "A slang term for a nonbinary person who is assigned female at birth.", "sentence": "Edit 2: removed theyfab cause I learned it was a derogatory term for nb people.", "communities": [ "nonbinary" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "ftm", "date": "2023-11-19 17:21:23", "timestamp": 1700410883.0 } }, { "id": "228928", "term": "realness", "definition": "The state of being real; the ability to blend or pass as heterosexual or cisgender; the quality of passing as a particular role in a particular circumstance.", "sentence": "those are the Femme Realness Queens.", "communities": [ "drag", "gay male" ], "metadata": { "source": "OpenSubtitles", "title": "Paris Is Burning", "imdb_id": "100332" } }, { "id": "90714", "term": "slay", "definition": "Used to express approval or amazement.", "sentence": "Seen many posts on here with people getting their first crop tops and hoodies and I just wanna say that yā€™all are absolutely slaying it kings and queens!!", "communities": [ "drag" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "bisexual", "date": "2020-10-19 20:58:09", "timestamp": 1603133889.0 } }, { "id": "116770", "term": "seahorse dad", "definition": "Slang term for a transgender man who is carrying, or has carried, a child to term.", "sentence": "It is about a seahorse dad and I made it with not a lot of money and resources but am very proud of how it turned out!", "communities": [ "transmasculine" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "ftm", "date": "2025-06-18 12:45:52", "timestamp": 1750243552.0 } }, { "id": "165243", "term": "euphoria boner", "definition": "An erection of the penis in a trans woman, caused by strong feelings of gender euphoria.", "sentence": "I think I could only dream of not having euphoria boners, lol.", "communities": [ "transgender" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "MtF", "date": "2022-12-22 15:10:11", "timestamp": 1671718211.0 } }, { "id": "168365", "term": "hatchling", "definition": "A person who has (especially recently) realized that they are transgender.", "sentence": "We recognize hatchlings can be prone to the same patterns known to previous hatchlings, including ourselves.", "communities": [ "transgender" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "asktransgender", "date": "2024-10-04 01:18:10", "timestamp": 1727997490.0 } }, { "id": "102144", "term": "enby", "definition": "A nonbinary person, typically a young adult or an adolescent.", "sentence": "As an enby Zig programmer, I can confirm.", "communities": [ "nonbinary" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "transprogrammer", "date": "2023-07-02 20:57:51", "timestamp": 1688324271.0 } }, { "id": "110233", "term": "zap", "definition": "Slang term for electrolytic epilation.", "sentence": "So I'm asking this because I noticed during my appointment today that sometimes it will hurt very little or not at all when she does her zapping.", "communities": [ "transfeminine" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "asktransgender", "date": "2021-03-16 17:46:17", "timestamp": 1615913177.0 } }, { "id": "215400", "term": "bio queen", "definition": "A cis female performance artist who performs in female drag at drag shows, or acts like a drag queen.", "sentence": "Do you think the show could merge Drag Kings into the format or only Bio Queens?", "communities": [], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "rupaulsdragrace", "date": "2021-03-12 14:25:02", "timestamp": 1615555502.0 } }, { "id": "214509", "term": "punks", "definition": "A slang term with multiple meanings depending on context. Originally used to refer to a sex worker or prostitute, especially a passive or feminine gay man (or a bottom). By the early 20th century, used to refer to a person considered worthless or criminal in nature. By the 1970s, used to refer to punk rock, a punk rocker, or to the sociocultural movement associated with punk rock and its fans. In the modern gay male community, the term \"punk\" may refer to a smaller, typically younger gay man who is forced into a submissive role in prison settings by an older gay man. Also occasionally used as a synonym for \"clock\" or \"read\", i.e. when a cisgender person recognizes a person as transgender.", "sentence": "nazi punks, nazi punks, nazi punks fuck off!", "communities": [ "transgender", "gay male" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "rupaulsdragrace", "date": "2018-10-14 20:29:45", "timestamp": 1539541785.0 } }, { "id": "216", "term": "poppers", "definition": "Drugs of the alkyl nitrate class used recreationally as a sexual stimulant, especially among gay men.", "sentence": "And then he ends up doing poppers with some gay escort.", "communities": [ "gay" ], "metadata": { "source": "Podcasts", "title": "I've Had It" } }, { "id": "120738", "term": "twunk", "definition": "A gay man with the certain twink (meaning ā€œyoung, attractive, slim maleā€) stereotype elements that has a hunky (strong, muscular, etc.) physique.", "sentence": "Never will the word twunk not bring a smile on my face.", "communities": [ "gay", "gay male" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "gaymers", "date": "2018-02-08 13:55:23", "timestamp": 1518094523.0 } }, { "id": "7388", "term": "hormones", "definition": "Hormone replacement therapy.", "sentence": "And as I've said, gender confirmation certificates may now be granted without any need for surgery or hormones.", "communities": [ "transgender" ], "metadata": { "source": "Podcasts", "title": "The Witch Trials of J.K. Rowling" } }, { "id": "119431", "term": "masc4masc", "definition": "A phrase used to describe a masculine gay man interested in other masculine gay men romantically and/or sexually.", "sentence": "But I thought it was a creative way of saying masc4masc.", "communities": [ "gay male" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "gaybros", "date": "2018-12-07 03:26:51", "timestamp": 1544149611.0 } }, { "id": "203482", "term": "doll", "definition": "A transgender woman or transfeminine person.", "sentence": "It doesn't resonate for me, though, so I don't use it and I prefer not to be called a doll.", "communities": [], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "MtF", "date": "2025-04-16 23:21:52", "timestamp": 1744838512.0 } }, { "id": "110403", "term": "Eve's apple", "definition": "A transfeminine slang term coined to replace the masculine sounding \"Adam's apple\".", "sentence": "Although I like that another user called it an Eve's apple.", "communities": [ "transfeminine" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "transpassing", "date": "2019-09-17 04:33:15", "timestamp": 1568687595.0 } }, { "id": "223492", "term": "walk", "definition": "To enter a particular category in a vogue, ballroom, or drag competition.", "sentence": "As far as all of you all not walking, please realixe that we all, at one time or another, have lusted to walk a ballroom floor.", "communities": [], "metadata": { "source": "OpenSubtitles", "title": "Paris Is Burning", "imdb_id": "100332" } }, { "id": "228925", "term": "realness", "definition": "The state of being real; the ability to blend or pass as heterosexual or cisgender; the quality of passing as a particular role in a particular circumstance.", "sentence": "If you can pass the untrained eye... or even the trained eye... and not give away the fact that you're gay, that's when it's realness.", "communities": [ "drag", "gay male" ], "metadata": { "source": "OpenSubtitles", "title": "Paris Is Burning", "imdb_id": "100332" } }, { "id": "97013", "term": "power top", "definition": "A power top is one noted for their skill or aggressiveness in topping (acting as the \"giving\" partner in sexual encounters).", "sentence": "perhaps into a power top or a power bottom :)", "communities": [ "LGBTQ" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "nycgaybros", "date": "2020-08-20 14:01:24", "timestamp": 1597924884.0 } }, { "id": "210982", "term": "eggs", "definition": "Slang term (originating online) for a person who has not yet realised they are transgender, has not yet come out, or is in the early stages of transitioning. Usually used (fondly) by trans people to recognise when aspects of someone's personality or behavior remind them of gender-related aspects of themselves before they realized they were trans.", "sentence": "calling people eggs outside of meme-y internet contexts is wrong, intentionally misgendering someone as a part of that is extremely fucked up.", "communities": [ "transgender" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "asktransgender", "date": "2024-04-28 18:29:06", "timestamp": 1714321746.0 } }, { "id": "168301", "term": "girlmoder", "definition": "One who is in girlmode (presenting femininely regardless of gender identity).", "sentence": "Still, sending love to all the girlmoders out there, I'm sure there's plenty of you, you can do this ā™„ļø", "communities": [ "transgender" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "asktransgender", "date": "2024-06-04 11:24:23", "timestamp": 1717493063.0 } }, { "id": "168313", "term": "gock", "definition": "The penis of a trans woman.", "sentence": "I'm looking into vaginoplasty right now as I am 99.99% sure I want to be rid of my gock and be able to do penetration and stuff.", "communities": [ "transgender" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "asktransgender", "date": "2023-11-10 00:22:53", "timestamp": 1699572173.0 } }, { "id": "169840", "term": "pre-T", "definition": "Not yet having undergone testosterone-based hormone replacement therapy.", "sentence": "I've been blessed with hairy generics pre-t and love having body hair.", "communities": [ "transgender" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "genderqueer", "date": "2022-07-26 01:42:15", "timestamp": 1658792535.0 } }, { "id": "157409", "term": "twinky", "definition": "Being or resembling a twink (ā€œyoung, attractive, slim maleā€).", "sentence": "i plan on wearing a very twinky fit.", "communities": [ "gay" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "gay", "date": "2025-06-06 23:14:54", "timestamp": 1749244494.0 } }, { "id": "165224", "term": "estrogel", "definition": "Estradiol gel used in feminizing hormone replacement therapy.", "sentence": "I recently switched from oral estradiol after 8 years to estrogel and progesterone.", "communities": [ "transgender" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "transgenderau", "date": "2024-12-24 11:45:50", "timestamp": 1735037150.0 } }, { "id": "115195", "term": "soft butch", "definition": "A lesbian who exhibits some stereotypical butch traits without fitting the masculine stereotype associated with butch lesbians.", "sentence": "i like looking very soft butch everyday, and had long hair until last year, which i liked.", "communities": [ "lesbian" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "ask_transgender", "date": "2015-12-21 07:41:01", "timestamp": 1450680061.0 } }, { "id": "228929", "term": "femme", "definition": "Traditionally, a lesbian who appears \"feminine\" or acts in a \"feminine\" manner. However, the term is often used to describe a wide variety of gender expressions and identities adjacent to feminine or femme-ness.", "sentence": "those are the Femme Realness Queens.", "communities": [ "lesbian" ], "metadata": { "source": "OpenSubtitles", "title": "Paris Is Burning", "imdb_id": "100332" } }, { "id": "108910", "term": "girl juice", "definition": "A slang term referring to injectable feminizing hormones.", "sentence": "your first shot of girl juice.", "communities": [ "transfeminine" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "transpositive", "date": "2025-01-09 02:56:52", "timestamp": 1736387812.0 } }, { "id": "110158", "term": "outie", "definition": "A term sometimes used to refer to the external genitalia of a transfeminine person.", "sentence": "I know how much my wife loves my outie, and I'm OK with it (just not so much the rest of my body).", "communities": [ "transfeminine" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "asktransgender", "date": "2013-05-09 21:36:05", "timestamp": 1368128165.0 } }, { "id": "5593", "term": "go off", "definition": "To perform extremely well; to be impressive or attractive; often used to express encouragement.", "sentence": "But then it's like, you know what, Katy, go off.", "communities": [], "metadata": { "source": "Podcasts", "title": "Cancelled with Tana Mongeau & Brooke Schofield" } }, { "id": "228693", "term": "butch", "definition": "ā€¢ Traditionally, a lesbian who appears \"masculine\" or acts in a \"masculine\" manner. However, the term is often used to describe a wide variety of gender expressions and identities adjacent to masculinity or \"butchilinity\".\nā€¢ Heterosexual.", "sentence": "I've always been gay and I've always been butch or transgender even, you know what I mean.", "communities": [ "lesbian" ], "metadata": { "source": "OpenSubtitles", "title": "Venus Boyz", "imdb_id": "293685" } }, { "id": "214573", "term": "studs", "definition": "ā€¢ Community term for an African-American and/or Latinx masculine queer woman. Also known as \"ag.\" Only use if someone self-describes in this way, and avoid using for white people, as this is a term specifically developed by and for African-American and Latinx communities.\nā€¢ A masculine or butch lesbian; predominantly utilized in Black and Latina lesbian communities. Should not be used by individuals outside of those communities, as it may be seen as pejorative. Sometimes expanded to refer to other gender identities and expressions.", "sentence": "My comments about butches and studs were stand alone feelings.", "communities": [ "lesbian", "Latine lesbian", "African-American lesbian" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "actuallesbians", "date": "2025-02-24 23:59:22", "timestamp": 1740437962.0 } }, { "id": "115795", "term": "stem", "definition": "A lesbian defined as having a gender presentation between stud (st-) and femme (-em).", "sentence": "I want a few outfits to put together to make me look like a stem.", "communities": [ "lesbian" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "gay", "date": "2020-07-24 04:56:50", "timestamp": 1595559410.0 } }, { "id": "117678", "term": "baby gay", "definition": "A person who has recently come out in relationship to a marginalized sexual or gender identity.", "sentence": "For context, I consider myself a baby gay still.", "communities": [ "gay male" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "pansexual", "date": "2024-10-13 05:09:54", "timestamp": 1728788994.0 } }, { "id": "120723", "term": "twunk", "definition": "A gay man with the certain twink (meaning ā€œyoung, attractive, slim maleā€) stereotype elements that has a hunky (strong, muscular, etc.) physique.", "sentence": "I would consider myself more on the twunk side of things with being 183/65kg (6ft, 140lbs).", "communities": [ "gay", "gay male" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "gaybros", "date": "2025-01-08 15:19:53", "timestamp": 1736345993.0 } }, { "id": "146431", "term": "hondose", "definition": "A low dose of hormone replacement therapy in a trans woman which produces inadequate feminization and fails to suppress testosterone.", "sentence": "Will they hondose me?", "communities": [], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "MtF", "date": "2022-05-23 05:37:51", "timestamp": 1653277071.0 } }, { "id": "101495", "term": "theyfab", "definition": "A slang term for a nonbinary person who is assigned female at birth.", "sentence": "Iā€™ve even been jokingly (joking-but-not-actually) calling myself a theyfab lately until my transmasc bestie kicked my ass about it.", "communities": [ "nonbinary" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "NonBinary", "date": "2024-03-22 17:57:19", "timestamp": 1711126639.0 } }, { "id": "209109", "term": "yass", "definition": "A strong expression of excitement or admiration.", "sentence": "and yes I overlayed a galaxy onto the Agender flag because well yass", "communities": [], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "agender", "date": "2025-06-09 20:48:47", "timestamp": 1749494927.0 } }, { "id": "109069", "term": "titty skittle", "definition": "Oral estrogen taken by transgender woman and other transfeminine people.", "sentence": "4.4 yrs on titty skittles.", "communities": [ "transgender", "transfeminine" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "transadorable", "date": "2024-03-08 15:57:27", "timestamp": 1709909847.0 } }, { "id": "158896", "term": "duderus", "definition": "The uterus of a trans man.", "sentence": "Now the duderus cramping is getting better but Iā€™ve started...leaking...again down there and it feels like shark week :( also Iā€™ve been getting hot flashes and night sweats.", "communities": [ "transgender" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "ftm", "date": "2019-10-24 04:39:02", "timestamp": 1571884742.0 } }, { "id": "168382", "term": "hatchling", "definition": "A person who has (especially recently) realized that they are transgender.", "sentence": "Any guidance for this hatchling is greatly appreciated.", "communities": [ "transgender" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "MtF", "date": "2024-08-11 08:35:24", "timestamp": 1723358124.0 } }, { "id": "155447", "term": "pussyboy", "definition": "A bottom, usually a younger, submissive, and hairless male.", "sentence": "It appropriates us real pussyboys šŸ˜¤šŸ˜¤šŸ˜¤šŸ˜¤", "communities": [ "gay" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "transgendercirclejerk", "date": "2021-04-09 21:16:27", "timestamp": 1617995787.0 } }, { "id": "127673", "term": "down low", "definition": "Typically referring to a man who identifies publicly as heterosexual, but engages in covert sexual relationships with other men.", "sentence": "And out of nowhere I saw a picture of my dad and his bio is all about down low and canā€™t host.", "communities": [ "African-American gay male" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "gay", "date": "2024-02-28 23:18:42", "timestamp": 1709158722.0 } }, { "id": "114718", "term": "bambi lesbian", "definition": "A lesbian who identifies as bambi-sexual, i.e. being more interested in kissing, carressing, cuddling, etc. than genital stimulation or sexual intercourse.", "sentence": "Most of them completely ranting abt bambi lesbians bc apparently to them, they are trying to ā€˜ā€™ desexualize ā€˜ā€™ the lesbian community.", "communities": [ "lesbian" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "asexuality", "date": "2025-03-29 19:00:31", "timestamp": 1743271231.0 } }, { "id": "124649", "term": "cruising", "definition": "To walk or drive about a locality in search of a sex partner, usually of the anonymous, casual, one-time variety.", "sentence": "No gay wording and penis sketches graffiti on stall walls nowadays to indicate it's a cruising spot.", "communities": [ "gay male" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "gaybros", "date": "2025-06-30 04:56:48", "timestamp": 1751252208.0 } }, { "id": "106775", "term": "girlmode", "definition": "When a transgender person presents a gender expression codified as female, typically if that person is a transgender man. Usually used in the context of going incognito as a cisgender woman.", "sentence": "On the first day of school, I decided to girlmode.", "communities": [ "transgender", "transgender" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "MtF", "date": "2024-12-13 21:45:54", "timestamp": 1734122754.0 } }, { "id": "118712", "term": "gold star gay", "definition": "A gay person who has never had sex with a person of the opposite gender.", "sentence": "But still gold star gay, makes me feel like a total eunuch.", "communities": [ "gay male" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "askgaybros", "date": "2024-12-23 06:53:22", "timestamp": 1734933202.0 } }, { "id": "119519", "term": "no homo", "definition": "A phrase used as slang at the end of a sentence to assert the statement spoken by the speaker had no intentional homosexual implications. The phrase is also \"added to a statement in order to rid of a possible homosexual double-entendre\".", "sentence": "I mean, if we cancel no homo how will I be able to say it to my future boyfriend after ramming my tongue down his throat?", "communities": [ "gay male" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "lgbt", "date": "2021-12-04 13:43:15", "timestamp": 1638621795.0 } }, { "id": "146003", "term": "brainworm", "definition": "An intrusive, unwanted, internalized transphobic or invalidating thought or belief.", "sentence": "Tho, mostly I get treated like a woman, so maybe it's just the brainworms.", "communities": [], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "transpassing", "date": "2025-05-31 17:23:02", "timestamp": 1748704982.0 } }, { "id": "77726", "term": "fag hag", "definition": "A woman, typically a heterosexual one, possibly ageing, who prefers, enjoys, or seeks out the company of homosexual men. This term is offensive to gay men and misogynistic to heterosexual women. Once common, now rarely used within queer communities.", "sentence": "I skipped quite a few but it wouldn't matter, no combination of genders in this situation makes you a fag hag.", "communities": [ "gay male" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "asktransgender", "date": "2017-09-21 01:11:57", "timestamp": 1505949117.0 } }, { "id": "107220", "term": "deep stealth", "definition": "Referring to a transgender person who is not known to be trans by most of the people they interact with on a daily basis, even a sexual or romantic partner.", "sentence": "So it's come to the point where i'm deep stealth now..", "communities": [ "transgender" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "asktransgender", "date": "2018-03-04 19:06:39", "timestamp": 1520186799.0 } }, { "id": "1763", "term": "kink", "definition": "ā€¢ A specific sexual desire, practice, or activity considered unconventional but within certain socially constructed boundaries.\nā€¢ A thief or burglar.", "sentence": "They're doing all the weird kink, whatever.", "communities": [], "metadata": { "source": "Podcasts", "title": "Why Won't You Date Me? with Nicole Byer" } }, { "id": "83740", "term": "gym rat", "definition": "A sports enthusiast; usually one who frequents gyms and training grounds; often used of young gay men obsessed with body building.", "sentence": "I don't want to be a gym rat but I want to be slim-fit in a year.", "communities": [], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "gaybros", "date": "2018-03-14 21:55:47", "timestamp": 1521060947.0 } }, { "id": "170437", "term": "shenis", "definition": "The penis of a trans woman.", "sentence": "How I differentiate is shenis is casual while gock is sexual.", "communities": [ "transgender" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "traaaaaaannnnnnnnnns", "date": "2023-02-14 18:00:12", "timestamp": 1676394012.0 } }, { "id": "99794", "term": "closeted", "definition": "An adjective referring to an LGBTQIA+ person or persons who have not disclosed their status as LGBTQIA+ and other related aspects of their life. More broadly, it can also be used to describe anyone who is hiding part of their identity because of social pressure.", "sentence": "Anyway, love his journey from closeted Mormon pop boy to slutty gay pop boy.", "communities": [ "LGBTQ" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "LadyBoners", "date": "2025-06-07 21:31:22", "timestamp": 1749324682.0 } }, { "id": "212730", "term": "fruity", "definition": "Slang for a gay man, especially for a feminine gay man. Outdated and often offensive, because it implies someone is easily \"picked,\" or associates someone with its other slang meanings of \"dupe,\" \"victim,\" or someone living with mental illness.", "sentence": "I'm under 6ft and I'm very fruity šŸ¤·ā€ā™‚ļø", "communities": [], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "lgbt", "date": "2022-09-25 15:22:20", "timestamp": 1664112140.0 } }, { "id": "103217", "term": "asexy", "definition": "Typically, a person who asexual people tend to be attracted to for any of various reasons aside from sexual attraction.", "sentence": "You might sometimes hear asexuals call things asexy.", "communities": [ "asexual" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "Asexual", "date": "2018-10-28 03:14:33", "timestamp": 1540692873.0 } }, { "id": "115061", "term": "baby butch", "definition": "A young butch or boyish lesbian or a butch or boyish lesbian who is perceived to be young, regardless of age.", "sentence": "About 20 years ago, I had a crush on this baby butch (is that what you call them now?).", "communities": [ "lesbian" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "lgbt", "date": "2025-03-27 02:08:23", "timestamp": 1743037703.0 } }, { "id": "154675", "term": "man pussy", "definition": "ā€¢ The anus and rectum of a man, usually the receptive participant (the bottom) in gay sex.\nā€¢ The vulva or vagina of a trans man.", "sentence": "What if a guy told you he wants to fuck your man pussy would it turn you on?", "communities": [ "transgender", "gay" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "askgaybros", "date": "2022-03-21 19:38:32", "timestamp": 1647887912.0 } }, { "id": "168273", "term": "girlcock", "definition": "The penis of a trans woman.", "sentence": "Who knew my girlcock was so dangerous for the TSA, but I guess they truly saw me as female.", "communities": [ "transgender" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "MtF", "date": "2018-02-13 04:37:15", "timestamp": 1518493035.0 } }, { "id": "127554", "term": "flaming", "definition": "\"Flaming\" can be used generally as an intensifier or curse, but has become especially associated with feminine gay men and campness. Often still used fondly, especially by older generations of gay men, but offensive if applied by others.", "sentence": "I think Homer Simpson said it best when he stated, \"I like my beer cold, my TV loud, and my homosexuals FLAMING!\"", "communities": [ "gay male" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "lgbt", "date": "2010-07-30 05:20:55", "timestamp": 1280460055.0 } }, { "id": "215386", "term": "bio queen", "definition": "A cis female performance artist who performs in female drag at drag shows, or acts like a drag queen.", "sentence": "* he used to believe hrt was like performance enhancing drugs, and said he wouldnā€™t cast trans or bio queens on the show", "communities": [], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "lgbt", "date": "2022-08-18 05:49:10", "timestamp": 1660794550.0 } }, { "id": "91658", "term": "kiki", "definition": "ā€¢ A gathering of friends for the purpose of gossiping and chit-chat.\nā€¢ 1940s slang describing a lesbian comfortable with either a more passive or more aggressive partner in a relationship.", "sentence": "Lock the doors tight, and let's have a Kiki ;)", "communities": [ "drag", "lesbian", "African-American transgender", "African-American gay male" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "bisexual", "date": "2015-12-19 10:57:39", "timestamp": 1450519059.0 } }, { "id": "58", "term": "gym rat", "definition": "A sports enthusiast; usually one who frequents gyms and training grounds; often used of young gay men obsessed with body building.", "sentence": "That's different between the top academics versus the gym rat or closed door academics.", "communities": [], "metadata": { "source": "Podcasts", "title": "Theories of Everything with Curt Jaimungal" } }, { "id": "116850", "term": "cub", "definition": "A younger or younger-looking bear, sometimes with a smaller frame (\"bear\" meaning \"a gay or bisexual man who has facial/body hair and a cuddly body\").", "sentence": "Before I say anything, this sounds ridiculous to me, since cubs are the hottest thing in the planet IMHO (I happen to be slim lol).", "communities": [ "gay", "bear" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "gaybros", "date": "2018-10-30 16:30:10", "timestamp": 1540913410.0 } }, { "id": "211118", "term": "eggs", "definition": "Slang term (originating online) for a person who has not yet realised they are transgender, has not yet come out, or is in the early stages of transitioning. Usually used (fondly) by trans people to recognise when aspects of someone's personality or behavior remind them of gender-related aspects of themselves before they realized they were trans.", "sentence": "From a trans girl it is really annoying when people call more fem guys eggs it gets kind of demening, also ā€˜breaking someones eggā€™ is against the prime derective", "communities": [ "transgender" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "GayBroTeens", "date": "2023-10-07 12:17:28", "timestamp": 1696673848.0 } }, { "id": "143372", "term": "autofellatio", "definition": "Oral stimulation of one's own penis.", "sentence": "I've tried my own precum and have no problem when I autofellatio.", "communities": [], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "askgaybros", "date": "2016-09-09 00:01:58", "timestamp": 1473372118.0 } }, { "id": "101526", "term": "enban", "definition": "An adult nonbinary person.", "sentence": "Torenromantic (attracted to men and enbans)?", "communities": [ "nonbinary" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "AskLGBT", "date": "2024-07-18 19:15:52", "timestamp": 1721322952.0 } }, { "id": "86328", "term": "stud", "definition": "ā€¢ Community term for an African-American and/or Latinx masculine queer woman. Also known as \"ag.\" Only use if someone self-describes in this way, and avoid using for white people, as this is a term specifically developed by and for African-American and Latinx communities.\nā€¢ A masculine or butch lesbian; predominantly utilized in Black and Latina lesbian communities. Should not be used by individuals outside of those communities, as it may be seen as pejorative. Sometimes expanded to refer to other gender identities and expressions.", "sentence": "i was wondering if studs buy or would buy shirts with designs that point out their identity.", "communities": [ "lesbian", "Latine lesbian", "African-American lesbian" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "lesbian", "date": "2024-10-02 17:58:03", "timestamp": 1727884683.0 } }, { "id": "113925", "term": "futch", "definition": "A person who exhibits traits of both a femme (often used to describe a wide variety of gender expressions and identities adjacent to feminine or femme-ness) and a butch (often used to describe a wide variety of gender expressions and identities adjacent to masculinity or \"butchilinity\").", "sentence": "The words butch and futch make me feel at home.", "communities": [ "lesbian" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "bisexual", "date": "2023-08-12 09:56:12", "timestamp": 1691826972.0 } }, { "id": "103241", "term": "ace of spades", "definition": "A person who is asexual and aromantic.", "sentence": "I'm an ace of spades myself", "communities": [ "asexual", "aromantic" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "asexuality", "date": "2024-04-12 01:01:06", "timestamp": 1712876466.0 } }, { "id": "124364", "term": "otter", "definition": "A hairy man with a slender physique, in contrast with a bear, who is more thickset.", "sentence": "Nick Bateman IS an otter.", "communities": [ "gay", "gay male" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "LadyBoners", "date": "2018-06-15 02:17:40", "timestamp": 1529021860.0 } }, { "id": "146741", "term": "youngshit", "definition": "A transgender person who began transitioning at a young age.", "sentence": "šŸ˜­ the youngshit vocal cords are working as intended", "communities": [], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "transvoice", "date": "2024-08-24 15:53:34", "timestamp": 1724507614.0 } }, { "id": "84875", "term": "punk", "definition": "A slang term with multiple meanings depending on context. Originally used to refer to a sex worker or prostitute, especially a passive or feminine gay man (or a bottom). By the early 20th century, used to refer to a person considered worthless or criminal in nature. By the 1970s, used to refer to punk rock, a punk rocker, or to the sociocultural movement associated with punk rock and its fans. In the modern gay male community, the term \"punk\" may refer to a smaller, typically younger gay man who is forced into a submissive role in prison settings by an older gay man. Also occasionally used as a synonym for \"clock\" or \"read\", i.e. when a cisgender person recognizes a person as transgender.", "sentence": "love old 70s-80s punk but the new shit is pretty legit too.", "communities": [ "transgender", "gay male" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "gaybros", "date": "2014-10-03 22:48:52", "timestamp": 1412369332.0 } }, { "id": "91872", "term": "gag", "definition": "To have an intense reaction, usually of shock or excitement. Also: to show intense jealousy or to have an appearance deemed good enough to cause such jealousy.", "sentence": "I think they were just gagged that someone like Arietty was going home so early", "communities": [ "drag" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "rupaulsdragrace", "date": "2025-02-06 23:23:08", "timestamp": 1738880588.0 } }, { "id": "2393", "term": "kiki", "definition": "ā€¢ A gathering of friends for the purpose of gossiping and chit-chat.\nā€¢ 1940s slang describing a lesbian comfortable with either a more passive or more aggressive partner in a relationship.", "sentence": "And I'm just, I'm so happy to be here and I'm so happy to kiki with you and to like meet your whole crew and.", "communities": [ "drag", "lesbian", "African-American transgender", "African-American gay male" ], "metadata": { "source": "Podcasts", "title": "Keep it Positive, Sweetie" } }, { "id": "206315", "term": "poz", "definition": "ā€¢ HIV positive.\nā€¢ To infect (someone) with a sexually transmitted infection; especially HIV.", "sentence": "Our goal is to create a safe space for poz guys to make friends, be social, join in activities, share knowledge about HIV resources, and be a support network.", "communities": [], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "nycgaybros", "date": "2024-11-22 20:57:38", "timestamp": 1732305458.0 } }, { "id": "98675", "term": "versatile", "definition": "Someone who penetrates or is penetrated during sexual intercourse or someone who has a preference for both being penetrated and penetrating during such intercourse.", "sentence": "Femme, versatile but usually prefer top", "communities": [ "LGBTQ" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "actuallesbians", "date": "2014-08-23 00:17:09", "timestamp": 1408745829.0 } }, { "id": "102190", "term": "joyfriend", "definition": "A sexual and/or romantic partner of any gender, but usually a nonbinary person.", "sentence": "Also loving Quingā€¦and totally stealing joyfriend!", "communities": [ "nonbinary" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "lgbt", "date": "2025-03-24 01:41:51", "timestamp": 1742776911.0 } }, { "id": "358", "term": "anti-gay", "definition": "ā€¢ Hostile toward gay people; opposed to gay rights; homophobic.\nā€¢ Used by some gay people to refer to aspects of the community in critique, especially homogeneity, conformity, obsession with particular types of appearance, and assimilative behavior.", "sentence": "They have gone into religious schools and they make parents sign the anti-gay document.", "communities": [], "metadata": { "source": "Podcasts", "title": "I've Had It" } }, { "id": "168260", "term": "girlcock", "definition": "The penis of a trans woman.", "sentence": "Why is it so much different when we bring up girlcock?", "communities": [ "transgender" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "actuallesbians", "date": "2022-10-10 02:16:03", "timestamp": 1665360963.0 } }, { "id": "114765", "term": "butch dyke", "definition": "A butch lesbian. \"Butch\" is often used to describe a wide variety of gender expressions and identities adjacent to masculinity or \"butchilinity\".", "sentence": "Hi all, Iā€™m a 30 year old butch dyke in the UK.", "communities": [ "lesbian" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "LesbianGamers", "date": "2021-05-05 11:45:48", "timestamp": 1620207948.0 } }, { "id": "214260", "term": "Molly", "definition": "Women's names have often been appropriated as slurs for gay men, especially for feminine gay men and transfeminine people. \"Nancy\" is probably the most common, across the 20th Century globally. All are offensive.", "sentence": "In 18th century in the Uk Molly was often used to describe effeminate gay men.", "communities": [], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "gay", "date": "2022-07-08 08:49:12", "timestamp": 1657262952.0 } }, { "id": "101441", "term": "bipoly", "definition": "Of or relating to a person who is bisexual and polyamorous.", "sentence": "Both my SO and I are bipoly.", "communities": [ "bisexual" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "bisexual", "date": "2018-11-04 05:10:47", "timestamp": 1541304647.0 } }, { "id": "107789", "term": "full-time", "definition": "A term which refers to a transgender person living as their gender for the entirety of their day-to-day life, at work, at home, etc.", "sentence": "There were some things I'd hoped would happen before I went full-time that haven't.", "communities": [ "transgender" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "asktransgender", "date": "2019-06-11 16:30:04", "timestamp": 1560263404.0 } }, { "id": "96210", "term": "gaydar", "definition": "A colloquialism referring to the intuitive ability of a person to assess others' sexual orientations as gay, bisexual or heterosexual. Gaydar relies on verbal and non-verbal clues and LGBTQ stereotypes. These include the sensitivity to social behaviors and mannerisms; for instance, acknowledging flamboyant body language, the tone of voice used by a person when speaking, overtly rejecting traditional gender roles, a person's occupation, and grooming habits.", "sentence": "You can't figure out who to try to talk to in class by applying gaydar.", "communities": [ "LGBTQ" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "NonBinary", "date": "2020-06-09 07:59:02", "timestamp": 1591682342.0 } }, { "id": "4991", "term": "activist", "definition": "A person who is politically active in campaigning for change to an existing sociopolitical or cultural order.", "sentence": "Gabriel Rockhill is a philosopher, cultural critic, and activist teaching philosophy and global interdisciplinary studies at Villanova University.", "communities": [], "metadata": { "source": "Podcasts", "title": "Upstream" } }, { "id": "206437", "term": "throw shade", "definition": "To subtly insult someone.", "sentence": "Edit: I'm not trying to throw shade at people who met through dating apps.", "communities": [], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "gaybros", "date": "2023-01-24 10:39:36", "timestamp": 1674553176.0 } }, { "id": "19569", "term": "tea", "definition": "Information, especially gossip.", "sentence": "You had absolutely, positively no business dropping tea that hot into this podcast.", "communities": [ "gay" ], "metadata": { "source": "Podcasts", "title": "Woman Evolve with Sarah Jakes Roberts" } }, { "id": "108893", "term": "m4t", "definition": "Personal ad shorthand for a man looking for a transgender woman.", "sentence": "The trans girl will find this man at a gay bar in the bad part of town or in the Craigslist m4t Casual Encounters section.", "communities": [ "transfeminine" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "transgendercirclejerk", "date": "2017-03-01 20:09:26", "timestamp": 1488395366.0 } }, { "id": "169422", "term": "mones", "definition": "Hormones used as part of hormone replacement therapy, especially for transgender or gender variant individuals.", "sentence": "I'm a student so on a tight budget and have next to no girly wardrobe, and with my starting 'mones soon I wanna expand that.", "communities": [], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "transgenderUK", "date": "2015-09-20 23:43:18", "timestamp": 1442785398.0 } }, { "id": "120687", "term": "hunty", "definition": "A portmanteau of \"honey\" and \"cunt\", usually considered a term of supposed endearment.", "sentence": "It just feels like that sort of misguided support like when you tell someone youā€™re gay and they go YASS HUNTY RUPAULS DRAG RACE GAY BESTIE AM I RIGHT", "communities": [ "gay male" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "asktransgender", "date": "2019-11-28 13:17:07", "timestamp": 1574943427.0 } }, { "id": "146739", "term": "youngshit", "definition": "A transgender person who began transitioning at a young age.", "sentence": "I'm worried I'll have a \"male\" skeletal structure that youngshits don't have.", "communities": [], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "MtF", "date": "2022-10-12 21:18:12", "timestamp": 1665602292.0 } }, { "id": "146428", "term": "hondose", "definition": "A low dose of hormone replacement therapy in a trans woman which produces inadequate feminization and fails to suppress testosterone.", "sentence": "i was hondosed by my first endo.", "communities": [], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "MtF", "date": "2025-06-25 11:52:25", "timestamp": 1750845145.0 } }, { "id": "108899", "term": "girl juice", "definition": "A slang term referring to injectable feminizing hormones.", "sentence": "I want some girl juice pretty please", "communities": [ "transfeminine" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "lgbt", "date": "2023-06-20 14:40:05", "timestamp": 1687264805.0 } }, { "id": "169415", "term": "mones", "definition": "Hormones used as part of hormone replacement therapy, especially for transgender or gender variant individuals.", "sentence": "I came out in October 2014, started therapy in March 2015, started living full time and going by my chosen name April 2015, and then 'mones on October 16, 2015.", "communities": [], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "ask_transgender", "date": "2017-01-31 02:53:55", "timestamp": 1485827635.0 } }, { "id": "41", "term": "deadnaming", "definition": "Calling a transgender person by their \"deadname\" (oftentimes their birth name, but not always).", "sentence": "His son, my son, they call it deadnaming for a reason.", "communities": [ "transgender" ], "metadata": { "source": "Podcasts", "title": "cafĆ© snake" } }, { "id": "124382", "term": "otter", "definition": "A hairy man with a slender physique, in contrast with a bear, who is more thickset.", "sentence": "There are quite a few bear groups (umbrella use of bear, including otters, cubs and more!)", "communities": [ "gay", "gay male" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "lgbt", "date": "2019-09-22 10:21:00", "timestamp": 1569140460.0 } }, { "id": "146628", "term": "passoid", "definition": "A transgender person who is passing.", "sentence": "Like, I've posted in passing subreddits and been told I'm a complete passoid, yet I still get clocked sometimes.", "communities": [], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "asktransgender", "date": "2023-10-05 16:35:15", "timestamp": 1696516515.0 } }, { "id": "227849", "term": "coming out", "definition": "A metaphor for LGBTQIA+ people's self-disclosure of their sexual orientation or of their gender identity. The term coming out can also be used in various non-LGBTQIA+ applications (e.g. atheists). Framed and debated as a privacy issue, coming out of the closet is described and experienced variously as a psychological process or journey; decision-making or risk-taking; a strategy or plan; a mass or public event; a speech act and a matter of personal identity; a rite of passage; liberation or emancipation from oppression; an ordeal; a means toward feeling gay pride instead of shame and social stigma; or even career suicide. Author Steven Seidman writes that \"it is the power of the closet to shape the core of an individual's life that has made homosexuality into a significant personal, social, and political drama in twentieth-century America\".", "sentence": "It's your coming out suit.", "communities": [ "LGBTQ" ], "metadata": { "source": "OpenSubtitles", "title": "Tipping the Velvet", "imdb_id": "324264" } }, { "id": "1060", "term": "fierce", "definition": "To have looks that could \"kill\"; also used to refer to satisfying, powerful, or beautiful drag queens.", "sentence": "This is such a bitchy move and it's so kind and it's so fierce.", "communities": [ "drag" ], "metadata": { "source": "Podcasts", "title": "Why Won't You Date Me? with Nicole Byer" } }, { "id": "228924", "term": "realness", "definition": "The state of being real; the ability to blend or pass as heterosexual or cisgender; the quality of passing as a particular role in a particular circumstance.", "sentence": "Realness in the daytime, darling.", "communities": [ "drag", "gay male" ], "metadata": { "source": "OpenSubtitles", "title": "Paris Is Burning", "imdb_id": "100332" } }, { "id": "212724", "term": "fruity", "definition": "Slang for a gay man, especially for a feminine gay man. Outdated and often offensive, because it implies someone is easily \"picked,\" or associates someone with its other slang meanings of \"dupe,\" \"victim,\" or someone living with mental illness.", "sentence": "I personally hate being called a fruit or fruity.", "communities": [], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "lgbt", "date": "2023-09-08 01:38:10", "timestamp": 1694129890.0 } }, { "id": "76130", "term": "drag family", "definition": "In the US, a group of drag queens who have been mentored by a \"mother,\" also known as a \"house.\" These groups often take on family drag names and form close-knit communities.", "sentence": "The one person with no drag family saying what makes someone look like drag family is gaggy.", "communities": [], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "rupaulsdragrace", "date": "2025-03-29 02:44:59", "timestamp": 1743212699.0 } }, { "id": "135656", "term": "AC/DC", "definition": "Said of a person, bisexual, referring to being attracted to women and men.", "sentence": "He says \"When sometimes you're a homosexual, but you also like women you're like an AC/DC current.\"", "communities": [], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "LGBTeens", "date": "2015-09-02 03:19:41", "timestamp": 1441156781.0 } }, { "id": "157439", "term": "twinky", "definition": "Being or resembling a twink (ā€œyoung, attractive, slim maleā€).", "sentence": "You say that like 'acting twinky' is a bad thing.", "communities": [ "gay" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "GaymersGoneMild", "date": "2017-01-18 23:35:56", "timestamp": 1484778956.0 } }, { "id": "104030", "term": "top surgery", "definition": "A slang term used to refer to thoracic gender-affirming surgeries.", "sentence": "So, if I start the process today, how long will it take to actually get the prescription to HRT and top surgery?", "communities": [ "transgender" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "LGBTindia", "date": "2022-05-08 17:24:09", "timestamp": 1652023449.0 } }, { "id": "83745", "term": "gym rat", "definition": "A sports enthusiast; usually one who frequents gyms and training grounds; often used of young gay men obsessed with body building.", "sentence": "Guess what they had muscle fetish voilĆ  I got my unsolicited FFM invitešŸ¤¦šŸ»ā€ā™€ļø Bottom line If you still want to show your gym rat side please share obscure stuff.", "communities": [], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "actuallesbians", "date": "2020-07-30 02:12:17", "timestamp": 1596067937.0 } }, { "id": "157478", "term": "vers", "definition": "ā€¢ LGBTQ+ community slang for someone who \"switches\" between the \"giving\" and \"receiving\" during sex. \"Vers\" is short for \"versatile.\" \"Switch\" is sometimes also used in a BDSM context, to indicate someone who \"switches\" between the dominant and submissive roles.\nā€¢ One who is willing to take either a submissive or a dominant role in a sexual relationship.", "sentence": "Iā€™m verse and am in a relationship with my bf who also said he was verse.", "communities": [ "gay" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "gaybros", "date": "2021-10-14 17:38:13", "timestamp": 1634225893.0 } }, { "id": "211782", "term": "flamer", "definition": "\"Flaming\" can be used generally as an intensifier or curse, but has become especially associated with feminine gay men and campness. Often still used fondly, especially by older generations of gay men, but offensive if applied by others.", "sentence": "Iā€™m a trans feminine non-binary person who kinda gets read as a flamer by Teh Cis.", "communities": [], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "trans", "date": "2023-06-28 23:11:52", "timestamp": 1687986712.0 } }, { "id": "106692", "term": "transdar", "definition": "A colloquialism referring to the intuitive ability of a person to assess others' as being transgender. Transdar relies on verbal and non-verbal clues and transgender stereotypes. These include the sensitivity to social behaviors and mannerisms; for instance, acknowledging variations of gendered body language, the tone of voice used by a person when speaking, overtly rejecting traditional gender roles, a person's occupation, interests, etc.", "sentence": "From countless posts here and other places it seems that trans people have an impeccable transdar, but it manifests in an odd way.", "communities": [ "transgender" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "MtF", "date": "2024-01-28 13:50:57", "timestamp": 1706446257.0 } }, { "id": "117647", "term": "baby gay", "definition": "A person who has recently come out in relationship to a marginalized sexual or gender identity.", "sentence": "How long are you a baby gay for before youā€™re like standard gay?", "communities": [ "gay male" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "actuallesbians", "date": "2022-09-21 04:20:27", "timestamp": 1663726827.0 } }, { "id": "122622", "term": "tearoom", "definition": "A public lavatory, particularly as a meeting place for gay men.", "sentence": "The Tearoom is about having anonymous sex with men in a bathroom while avoiding the police.", "communities": [ "gay", "gay male" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "gaymers", "date": "2017-08-27 00:28:16", "timestamp": 1503786496.0 } }, { "id": "211245", "term": "fagot", "definition": "A pejorative term used chiefly in North America primarily to refer to a gay man. Alongside its use to refer to gay men in particular, it may also be used as a pejorative term for a \"repellent man\" or to refer to women who are lesbian (or to transgender people, typically transgender women). Its use has spread from the United States to varying extents elsewhere in the English-speaking world through mass culture, including film, music, and the Internet.", "sentence": "The school I went to everyone called me names like fagot, queer, gay.", "communities": [], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "MtF", "date": "2014-10-28 01:59:01", "timestamp": 1414457941.0 } }, { "id": "119517", "term": "no homo", "definition": "A phrase used as slang at the end of a sentence to assert the statement spoken by the speaker had no intentional homosexual implications. The phrase is also \"added to a statement in order to rid of a possible homosexual double-entendre\".", "sentence": "When i hear no homo i always respond with all of the homo XD", "communities": [ "gay male" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "lgbt", "date": "2021-11-19 21:37:12", "timestamp": 1637354232.0 } }, { "id": "95558", "term": "service top", "definition": "A service top is one who tops (acts as the \"giving\" partner in sexual encounters) under the direction of an eager bottom (who acts as the \"receiving\" partner in sexual encounters).", "sentence": "my bf is a service top Iā€™m pretty sure.", "communities": [ "LGBTQ" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "askgaybros", "date": "2024-10-19 19:07:18", "timestamp": 1729357638.0 } }, { "id": "108740", "term": "boymode", "definition": "When a transgender person presents a gender expression codified as male, typically if that person is a transgender woman. Usually used in the context of going incognito as a cisgender man.", "sentence": "uj/ being forced to boymode right now thank u for this jerk šŸ™šŸ™", "communities": [ "transgender", "transgender" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "transgendercirclejerk", "date": "2025-05-16 15:00:05", "timestamp": 1747400405.0 } }, { "id": "1750", "term": "kink", "definition": "ā€¢ A specific sexual desire, practice, or activity considered unconventional but within certain socially constructed boundaries.\nā€¢ A thief or burglar.", "sentence": "Brian needs a kink.", "communities": [], "metadata": { "source": "Podcasts", "title": "We Can Be Weirdos" } }, { "id": "123108", "term": "angel", "definition": "ā€¢ Slang term referring to a \"bottom\" (someone who takes the receptive role) in anal intercourse.\nā€¢ A gay man.\nā€¢ A vogue performer who is perceived as feminine or femme and who is perceived as having a daintier dance style or execution.", "sentence": "Thereā€™s a leather-clad angel doing poppers in the corner.", "communities": [ "gay male" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "queercore", "date": "2025-05-30 03:09:00", "timestamp": 1748567340.0 } }, { "id": "214822", "term": "tops", "definition": "ā€¢ A \"top\" is an individual who acts as the \"giving\" partner in sexual encounters. Sometimes used as a self-descriptor within queer communities, but should be replicated with caution. Sometimes used as a verb (\"to top someone\"). Offensive if applied to LGBTQ+ individuals from outwith queer communities.\nā€¢ Someone, typically a man, who is penetrating someone else during sexual intercourse or someone who has a preference for penetrating during such intercourse.", "sentence": "The thing is - I'm actually INTO tops!", "communities": [ "LGBTQ" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "actuallesbians", "date": "2025-04-14 08:47:10", "timestamp": 1744613230.0 } }, { "id": "219636", "term": "camp", "definition": "ā€¢ Camp can also be a social practice and function as a style and performance identity for several types of entertainment including film, cabaret, and pantomime. Where high art necessarily incorporates beauty and value, camp necessarily needs to be lively, audacious and dynamic.\nā€¢ An aesthetic style and sensibility that regards something as appealing because of its bad taste and ironic value. Camp aesthetics disrupt many of modernism's notions of what art is and what can be classified as high art by inverting aesthetic attributes such as beauty, value, and taste through an invitation of a different kind of apprehension and consumption.\nā€¢ To behave, speak, act, etc. in a flamboyant, affected, ostentatious, or exaggerated manner stereotypically associated with gay men.\nā€¢ Gay.", "sentence": "Go on, camp it up!", "communities": [ "LGBTQ" ], "metadata": { "source": "OpenSubtitles", "title": "The Witnesses", "imdb_id": "487273" } }, { "id": "204293", "term": "folx", "definition": "Folks; people.", "sentence": "/uj Wait are people really using folx instead of folks?", "communities": [], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "transgendercirclejerk", "date": "2020-04-02 09:07:47", "timestamp": 1585811267.0 } }, { "id": "119525", "term": "no homo", "definition": "A phrase used as slang at the end of a sentence to assert the statement spoken by the speaker had no intentional homosexual implications. The phrase is also \"added to a statement in order to rid of a possible homosexual double-entendre\".", "sentence": "I use the term \"pause,\" which has the exact same meaning as no homo.", "communities": [ "gay male" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "gaybros", "date": "2013-02-18 08:46:25", "timestamp": 1361173585.0 } }, { "id": "155467", "term": "rice queen", "definition": "A non-Asian man who is mostly attracted to East Asian men.", "sentence": "Being half Asian, I encounter a lot of rice queens and don't really mind it.", "communities": [ "gay" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "askgaybros", "date": "2014-09-12 20:57:04", "timestamp": 1410548224.0 } }, { "id": "84615", "term": "lipstick lesbian", "definition": "Usually refers to a lesbian with a feminine gender expression. Can be used in a positive or a derogatory way, depending on who is using it. Is sometimes also used to refer to a lesbian who is seen as automatically \"passing\" for heterosexual.", "sentence": "as someone who was a lipstick lesbian for a while before realizing I was a dude, I got a couple words for ya!", "communities": [ "lesbian" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "transeducate", "date": "2022-10-12 19:57:15", "timestamp": 1665597435.0 } }, { "id": "213168", "term": "gym bunny", "definition": "A sports enthusiast; usually one who frequents gyms and training grounds; often used of young gay men obsessed with body building.", "sentence": "Like it or not, there's quite a bit of emphasis on what camp we belong to, whether that's the twink camp, the bear camp, the gym bunny camp, etc.", "communities": [], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "gaybros", "date": "2013-12-24 00:21:58", "timestamp": 1387840918.0 } }, { "id": "113741", "term": "granola dyke", "definition": "A lesbian who stereotypically employs certain behavior such as being vegan or vegetarian, listening to folk music, hiking, etc.", "sentence": "I'm a granola dyke because the guys at my local organic produce stand know me by name?", "communities": [ "lesbian" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "actuallesbians", "date": "2011-12-06 03:21:51", "timestamp": 1323138111.0 } }, { "id": "206323", "term": "pozzed", "definition": "HIV positive.", "sentence": "And not worry about getting pozzed.", "communities": [], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "gaybros", "date": "2023-03-31 23:22:24", "timestamp": 1680297744.0 } }, { "id": "170431", "term": "shenis", "definition": "The penis of a trans woman.", "sentence": "I'm talking about masturbation that involves the shenis", "communities": [ "transgender" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "MtF", "date": "2023-11-28 19:20:14", "timestamp": 1701195614.0 } }, { "id": "115254", "term": "baby dyke", "definition": "A person who has just come out as a lesbian.", "sentence": "I wanna hear your baby dyke stories.", "communities": [ "lesbian" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "actuallesbians", "date": "2020-05-07 23:58:44", "timestamp": 1588888724.0 } }, { "id": "215538", "term": "breast mint", "definition": "A pill taken as part of feminizing hormone replacement therapy, especially spironolactone (called by this name due to its peppermint smell) or estrogen such as estradiol.", "sentence": "There's always fem&Ms, breast mints, anticistamines, antiboyotics...", "communities": [ "transgender" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "traaaaaaannnnnnnnnns", "date": "2022-01-06 00:42:23", "timestamp": 1641426143.0 } }, { "id": "204405", "term": "gayling", "definition": "A young or immature gay (homosexual) person.", "sentence": "I knew it was time to stop when a couple of the little gayling guys told me they actually didnā€™t feel welcome.", "communities": [], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "gaybros", "date": "2019-03-22 14:27:05", "timestamp": 1553261225.0 } }, { "id": "79782", "term": "friend of dorothy", "definition": "Coded slang for gay. Referring to gay icon Judy Garland's Dorothy in The Wizard of Oz.", "sentence": "So a friend of Dorothy is older slang same with the hanky code etc.", "communities": [ "gay male" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "AskLGBT", "date": "2022-08-24 20:46:51", "timestamp": 1661366811.0 } }, { "id": "80210", "term": "fruit", "definition": "Slang for a gay man, especially for a feminine gay man. Outdated and often offensive, because it implies someone is easily \"picked,\" or associates someone with its other slang meanings of \"dupe,\" \"victim,\" or someone living with mental illness.", "sentence": "I guess I look a bit fruity?\"", "communities": [ "gay male" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "AskLGBT", "date": "2024-11-24 08:50:08", "timestamp": 1732434608.0 } }, { "id": "98880", "term": "lavender", "definition": "A pale purple color, like that of the lavender flower. Lavender become symbol of homosexuality in the 1950s and 1960s, just as the color mauve was in the 1890s.", "sentence": "Considering everything going on, the idea of a lavender marriage is almost akin to carving out a safe haven in this world.", "communities": [ "LGBTQ" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "lgbt", "date": "2025-07-13 08:26:21", "timestamp": 1752387981.0 } }, { "id": "101577", "term": "femby", "definition": "A slang term sometimes used to refer to femme enbies (non-binary people) or non-binary women. A portmanteau of \"femme\" and \"enby\".", "sentence": "I'm Alex, a femby (feminine enby) person with a weird mix of gender stuff!", "communities": [ "nonbinary" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "asktransgender", "date": "2024-07-23 19:44:13", "timestamp": 1721756653.0 } }, { "id": "140231", "term": "BJ", "definition": "Initialism of blow job.", "sentence": "Like-what does it even mean to crave to give a guy a bj but trying to actually roleplay doing it makes you not turned on.", "communities": [], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "asexuality", "date": "2025-06-09 21:56:58", "timestamp": 1749499018.0 } }, { "id": "74170", "term": "bottom", "definition": "ā€¢ A \"bottom\" is an individual who acts as the \"receiving\" partner in sexual encounters. Sometimes used as a self-descriptor within queer communities, but should be replicated with caution. Sometimes used as a verb (\"to bottom for someone\"). Offensive if applied to LGBTQ+ individuals from outwith queer communities.\nā€¢ Someone, typically a man, who is penetrated during sexual intercourse or someone who has a preference for being penetrated during such intercourse.\nā€¢ The buttocks.\nā€¢ Genitalia; genitals.", "sentence": "Apparently there's a theory,if the person eats the apple from the bottom they are bottom.", "communities": [ "gay", "LGBTQ" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "queer", "date": "2024-10-31 07:43:21", "timestamp": 1730357001.0 } }, { "id": "151291", "term": "boywife", "definition": "A young male assuming the employment of homemaking, a role traditionally assumed by women; the submissive partner in the relationship who receives great pleasure in \"taking care\" of his more dominant partner.", "sentence": "but i also want to be the boywife twink", "communities": [ "gay" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "GayBroTeens", "date": "2023-04-18 12:35:44", "timestamp": 1681814144.0 } }, { "id": "126865", "term": "bareback", "definition": "Sexual activity without the use of a condom.", "sentence": "What they need is a truly invisible condom so that one could produce bareback porn and still be responsible.", "communities": [ "gay male" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "lgbt", "date": "2010-04-04 03:20:41", "timestamp": 1270344041.0 } }, { "id": "157389", "term": "twinky", "definition": "Being or resembling a twink (ā€œyoung, attractive, slim maleā€).", "sentence": "However, i am painfully aware that i had lost my twinky qualities so sought after the dominant tops, and these qualities are not coming back in this incarnation.", "communities": [ "gay" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "bisexual", "date": "2023-07-28 05:00:49", "timestamp": 1690513249.0 } }, { "id": "101437", "term": "trysexual", "definition": "A term referring to a person who appears willing to try any sexual activity with just about any person or persons, may be used in a derogatory fashion.", "sentence": "Anynhow, just wondering what anyone else thinks, and if anyone else identifies as trysexual.", "communities": [ "pansexual", "bisexual" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "bisexual", "date": "2021-11-06 02:49:59", "timestamp": 1636163399.0 } }, { "id": "210567", "term": "bottoms", "definition": "ā€¢ A \"bottom\" is an individual who acts as the \"receiving\" partner in sexual encounters. Sometimes used as a self-descriptor within queer communities, but should be replicated with caution. Sometimes used as a verb (\"to bottom for someone\"). Offensive if applied to LGBTQ+ individuals from outwith queer communities.\nā€¢ Someone, typically a man, who is penetrated during sexual intercourse or someone who has a preference for being penetrated during such intercourse.\nā€¢ The buttocks.\nā€¢ Genitalia; genitals.", "sentence": "Tall sub bottoms deserve the world.", "communities": [ "LGBTQ" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "gaybros", "date": "2025-01-13 22:09:52", "timestamp": 1736802592.0 } }, { "id": "110245", "term": "zap", "definition": "Slang term for electrolytic epilation.", "sentence": "But now I'm wondering how much of the zapped hair MIGHT return w/o Estro/Spiro?", "communities": [ "transfeminine" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "asktransgender", "date": "2013-01-15 14:03:53", "timestamp": 1358255033.0 } }, { "id": "114715", "term": "bambi lesbian", "definition": "A lesbian who identifies as bambi-sexual, i.e. being more interested in kissing, carressing, cuddling, etc. than genital stimulation or sexual intercourse.", "sentence": "Not all bambi lesbians have to be ace-spec or asexual but many are.", "communities": [ "lesbian" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "asexuality", "date": "2024-04-25 02:07:54", "timestamp": 1714003674.0 } }, { "id": "85459", "term": "punk", "definition": "A slang term with multiple meanings depending on context. Originally used to refer to a sex worker or prostitute, especially a passive or feminine gay man (or a bottom). By the early 20th century, used to refer to a person considered worthless or criminal in nature. By the 1970s, used to refer to punk rock, a punk rocker, or to the sociocultural movement associated with punk rock and its fans. In the modern gay male community, the term \"punk\" may refer to a smaller, typically younger gay man who is forced into a submissive role in prison settings by an older gay man. Also occasionally used as a synonym for \"clock\" or \"read\", i.e. when a cisgender person recognizes a person as transgender.", "sentence": "Looks like a mix between 90's grunge and punk.", "communities": [ "transgender", "gay male" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "genderfluid", "date": "2020-02-13 01:36:16", "timestamp": 1581554176.0 } }, { "id": "165274", "term": "euphoria boner", "definition": "An erection of the penis in a trans woman, caused by strong feelings of gender euphoria.", "sentence": "Getting dysphoria from euphoria boners /uj", "communities": [ "transgender" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "transgendercirclejerk", "date": "2024-08-11 21:58:49", "timestamp": 1723406329.0 } }, { "id": "114693", "term": "bambi lesbian", "definition": "A lesbian who identifies as bambi-sexual, i.e. being more interested in kissing, carressing, cuddling, etc. than genital stimulation or sexual intercourse.", "sentence": "Omg...I am a Bambi Lesbian!", "communities": [ "lesbian" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "lgbt", "date": "2021-05-31 22:32:26", "timestamp": 1622493146.0 } }, { "id": "116654", "term": "chubby chaser", "definition": "A gay male person who is attracted sexually and/or romantically to obesity.", "sentence": "I'm an obese gay bro in a relationship with a chubby chaser - we're both 6 feet tall but I'm 350 lbs.", "communities": [ "chub" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "askgaybros", "date": "2014-04-14 20:36:18", "timestamp": 1397500578.0 } }, { "id": "112511", "term": "boydyke", "definition": "A woman with a somewhat masculine presentation.", "sentence": "There are lesbians who call themselves boys, boyfriends, boydykes, Ect., nonbinary people who call themselves women or men or such.", "communities": [ "lesbian", "transmasculine" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "lgbt", "date": "2025-07-11 09:12:27", "timestamp": 1752217947.0 } }, { "id": "89808", "term": "tranny", "definition": "A transgender person, usually a transgender woman. Originally a shortening of transvestite. Generally considered derogatory, offensive. Debate over the termā€™s offensiveness occurred in the early 2010s, but by 2017, the term was banned by several media stylebooks and labeled as hate speech by Facebook.", "sentence": "When a transgender person calls themselves a tranny, it's okay, but if a cisgender person calls a transgender person a tranny, it's very offensive.", "communities": [ "transfeminine" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "NonBinary", "date": "2020-10-05 23:55:00", "timestamp": 1601934900.0 } }, { "id": "70201", "term": "alphabet people", "definition": "Offensive contemporary term for LGBTQ+ people, often used by right-wing people reacting to perceived advancements in LGBTQ+ people's rights.", "sentence": "Formed a housing co-op with some fellow alphabet people.", "communities": [], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "Asexual", "date": "2022-10-07 05:15:31", "timestamp": 1665112531.0 } }, { "id": "77241", "term": "egg", "definition": "Slang term (originating online) for a person who has not yet realised they are transgender, has not yet come out, or is in the early stages of transitioning. Usually used (fondly) by trans people to recognise when aspects of someone's personality or behavior remind them of gender-related aspects of themselves before they realized they were trans.", "sentence": "I was such an egg I swear", "communities": [ "transgender", "transgender" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "agender", "date": "2021-03-10 14:54:55", "timestamp": 1615384495.0 } }, { "id": "228933", "term": "femme", "definition": "Traditionally, a lesbian who appears \"feminine\" or acts in a \"feminine\" manner. However, the term is often used to describe a wide variety of gender expressions and identities adjacent to feminine or femme-ness.", "sentence": "I'm not butch or femme.", "communities": [ "lesbian" ], "metadata": { "source": "OpenSubtitles", "title": "Venus Boyz", "imdb_id": "293685" } }, { "id": "76172", "term": "dyke", "definition": "Contested terminology. Slur for lesbian, highly offensive if applied to a lesbian or transmasc person externally. Term has been reclaimed by some lesbians communities, and is sometimes used affirmingly within communities.\"Bulldyke\" and \"bulldagger\" are often used to indicate butch or masculine queer women, sometimes with overtones of toughness or aggression.", "sentence": "Iā€™ve been reading it a lot recently with pride coming up and dykemarch", "communities": [], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "actuallesbians", "date": "2018-05-31 02:58:14", "timestamp": 1527728294.0 } }, { "id": "213166", "term": "gym bunny", "definition": "A sports enthusiast; usually one who frequents gyms and training grounds; often used of young gay men obsessed with body building.", "sentence": "Omg... Gym Bunny, Silver Fox, Otter, Bears...", "communities": [], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "gaybros", "date": "2018-10-29 22:05:40", "timestamp": 1540847140.0 } }, { "id": "155054", "term": "poppers", "definition": "Drugs of the alkyl nitrate class used recreationally as a sexual stimulant, especially among gay men.", "sentence": "Hi, baby gay here and I was wondering how to use poppers safely.", "communities": [ "gay" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "lgbt", "date": "2023-02-12 02:55:53", "timestamp": 1676166953.0 } }, { "id": "227385", "term": "drag queen", "definition": "ā€¢ A male entertainer who performs dressed as a woman; a female impersonator.\nā€¢ A male-to-female cross-dresser.", "sentence": "The drag queen are playing!", "communities": [], "metadata": { "source": "OpenSubtitles", "title": "The Iron Ladies", "imdb_id": "263957" } }, { "id": "95546", "term": "service top", "definition": "A service top is one who tops (acts as the \"giving\" partner in sexual encounters) under the direction of an eager bottom (who acts as the \"receiving\" partner in sexual encounters).", "sentence": "She's mostly a service top at this point.", "communities": [ "LGBTQ" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "bisexual", "date": "2019-08-08 16:51:26", "timestamp": 1565275886.0 } }, { "id": "115668", "term": "lesbro", "definition": "A man who is considered an \"honorary lesbian\" by lesbian friends; otherwise, rarely, a lesbian who is considered stereotypically masculine, i.e. a \"bro\".", "sentence": "Before transitioning he was my lesbro.", "communities": [ "lesbian" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "gay", "date": "2017-12-28 16:26:31", "timestamp": 1514474791.0 } }, { "id": "142972", "term": "LGBT", "definition": "Initialism for lesbian, gay, bisexual, and transgender.", "sentence": "* For those of you who do not know, GaymerX is an annual Gaming convention with focus on the LGBT community.", "communities": [], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "LasVegasGaymers", "date": "2015-07-28 18:55:55", "timestamp": 1438102555.0 } }, { "id": "107902", "term": "tucute", "definition": "A person who acknowledges that gender dysphoria is not necessary to be transgender.", "sentence": "They're binary trans and all heavily critical of NBs and use tucute as an insult.", "communities": [ "transgender" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "trans", "date": "2019-06-07 18:38:10", "timestamp": 1559925490.0 } }, { "id": "115189", "term": "soft butch", "definition": "A lesbian who exhibits some stereotypical butch traits without fitting the masculine stereotype associated with butch lesbians.", "sentence": "Only to finally, decades later, realize I've been a soft butch lesbian stuck in the wrong body.", "communities": [ "lesbian" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "trans", "date": "2020-11-13 21:47:34", "timestamp": 1605300454.0 } }, { "id": "1581", "term": "lgbt", "definition": "Initialism for lesbian, gay, bisexual, and transgender.", "sentence": "Supreme Court has ruled that LGBT Americans are protected by the anti-discrimination laws of this country at their war.", "communities": [], "metadata": { "source": "Podcasts", "title": "The Witch Trials of J.K. Rowling" } }, { "id": "213181", "term": "gym bunny", "definition": "A sports enthusiast; usually one who frequents gyms and training grounds; often used of young gay men obsessed with body building.", "sentence": "I used to be a real gym bunny when younger and nearly became a PT in my mid-late 20ā€™s but moved into tv & film instead.", "communities": [], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "trans", "date": "2024-03-25 16:38:22", "timestamp": 1711381102.0 } }, { "id": "140214", "term": "BJ", "definition": "Initialism of blow job.", "sentence": "Iā€™ve only been able to bust from a bj a few times in my life.", "communities": [], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "askgaybros", "date": "2025-06-11 20:44:24", "timestamp": 1749667464.0 } }, { "id": "151512", "term": "bussy", "definition": "ā€¢ Any anus, in general.\nā€¢ The vulva or vagina of a trans man.", "sentence": "(Opposite being bussy in my opinion, very gender neutral option for whatever people wanna use it for), And it helps me remember that my genitals dont define my gender.", "communities": [ "gay" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "trans", "date": "2024-06-11 06:36:09", "timestamp": 1718080569.0 } }, { "id": "158100", "term": "crack", "definition": "To realize that one is transgender.", "sentence": "Weā€™ve been together for over 13 years now and I was with her pre-egg cracking.", "communities": [ "transgender" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "actuallesbians", "date": "2025-06-03 17:48:43", "timestamp": 1748965723.0 } }, { "id": "20149", "term": "tea", "definition": "Information, especially gossip.", "sentence": "Like, I don't want to air out her tea because like, you know.", "communities": [ "gay" ], "metadata": { "source": "Podcasts", "title": "Cancelled with Tana Mongeau & Brooke Schofield" } }, { "id": "224469", "term": "daddy", "definition": "ā€¢ A slang term with multiple meanings depending on the context. It may refer to an attractive older man, an older man in a relationship with a young male partner, a butch lesbian who fulfills such a role in a lesbian relationship, a man who takes care of a younger partner financially, or a procurer of sex workers, among other things.\nā€¢ A man who, in the context of sexual or romantic relationships with other men, is dominant\nā€¢ A predatory or aggressive gay man in a prison.\nā€¢ A pimp; a procurer of sex workers or prostituted persons.\nā€¢ A supervising officer in the military.", "sentence": "See, I'm calling you daddy.", "communities": [ "gay male" ], "metadata": { "source": "OpenSubtitles", "title": "Monster", "imdb_id": "340855" } }, { "id": "165287", "term": "Fem&M's", "definition": "Estrogen pills taken as part of hormone replacement therapy.", "sentence": "The Fem&m's made my dick stop working so this thing is kinda useless now... looking to sell it for cheap price!", "communities": [ "transgender" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "transgendercirclejerk", "date": "2016-08-04 16:22:21", "timestamp": 1470320541.0 } }, { "id": "149180", "term": "serve cunt", "definition": "To act in a powerfully and unapologetically feminine manner.", "sentence": "How to serve cunt in a nun way.", "communities": [ "drag" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "gaymers", "date": "2023-05-31 12:28:37", "timestamp": 1685528917.0 } }, { "id": "204015", "term": "fishy queen", "definition": "A drag queen who adopts a particularly feminine appearance.", "sentence": "Does Jujubee get her credit as a fishy queen often?", "communities": [], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "rupaulsdragrace", "date": "2017-03-19 01:50:43", "timestamp": 1489884643.0 } }, { "id": "95542", "term": "service top", "definition": "A service top is one who tops (acts as the \"giving\" partner in sexual encounters) under the direction of an eager bottom (who acts as the \"receiving\" partner in sexual encounters).", "sentence": "Well, Iā€™m more of a service top (I think) and am worried ā€œAmazon warrior-princessā€ sends the wrong signal.", "communities": [ "LGBTQ" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "actuallesbians", "date": "2025-06-10 00:32:11", "timestamp": 1749508331.0 } }, { "id": "203408", "term": "doll", "definition": "A transgender woman or transfeminine person.", "sentence": "Iā€™m a trans guy and 100% not a doll.", "communities": [], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "transgender", "date": "2025-07-03 16:32:22", "timestamp": 1751553142.0 } }, { "id": "120666", "term": "friend of Dorothy", "definition": "Coded slang for gay. Referring to gay icon Judy Garland's Dorothy in The Wizard of Oz.", "sentence": "\"Are you a Friend of Dorothy (FOD)?\"", "communities": [], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "LGBTeens", "date": "2020-11-09 08:58:39", "timestamp": 1604908719.0 } }, { "id": "108626", "term": "boymode", "definition": "When a transgender person presents a gender expression codified as male, typically if that person is a transgender woman. Usually used in the context of going incognito as a cisgender man.", "sentence": "šŸŽ‚šŸ„³ Sorry, boymode wasn't working today... šŸ„° Too much of her shining through!", "communities": [ "transgender", "transgender" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "MtF", "date": "2025-02-23 07:24:22", "timestamp": 1740291862.0 } }, { "id": "108404", "term": "t4t", "definition": "Short form of \"trans for trans\", indicating transgender persons interested in other transgender persons romantically and/or sexually.", "sentence": "Well, youā€™re non-binary, and are therefore trans*, so it would not be catfishing at all as you match the T4T preference", "communities": [ "transgender" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "AskLGBT", "date": "2023-10-26 21:21:29", "timestamp": 1698348089.0 } }, { "id": "117930", "term": "flame dame", "definition": "A woman who enjoys the company of gay men; a somewhat less offensive alternative to \"fag hag\".", "sentence": "I asked my friendly local Flame Dame \"What do I do?", "communities": [ "gay male" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "gaybros", "date": "2012-09-08 23:04:34", "timestamp": 1347138274.0 } }, { "id": "107409", "term": "bottom surgery", "definition": "A slang term used to refer to genital gender-affirming surgeries.", "sentence": "Most pics online will be of early stage bottom surgery, or even during/after complications because that's when people look for support and advice the most.", "communities": [ "transgender" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "ftm", "date": "2024-12-01 03:27:58", "timestamp": 1733020078.0 } }, { "id": "154657", "term": "mangina", "definition": "ā€¢ The anus of a man, especially in the context of gay sex.\nā€¢ The vulva or vagina of a trans man, or the neovagina of a detransitioned man.", "sentence": "So I've never inserted anything into my mangina, but I haven't gotten my period this month and I keep feeling like I am pregnant.", "communities": [ "transgender", "gay" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "ftm", "date": "2015-04-22 01:46:04", "timestamp": 1429659964.0 } }, { "id": "108594", "term": "boymode", "definition": "When a transgender person presents a gender expression codified as male, typically if that person is a transgender woman. Usually used in the context of going incognito as a cisgender man.", "sentence": "I honestly can hardly believe that you're still able to go full boymode :D You're definitely over the halfway mark to being feminine I'd say.", "communities": [ "transgender", "transgender" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "transtimelines", "date": "2025-05-18 13:59:48", "timestamp": 1747569588.0 } }, { "id": "120674", "term": "friend of Dorothy", "definition": "Coded slang for gay. Referring to gay icon Judy Garland's Dorothy in The Wizard of Oz.", "sentence": "I learned this two yrs ago \"You know /Are you a friend of Dorothy?\"", "communities": [], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "AskLGBT", "date": "2022-07-16 20:43:48", "timestamp": 1657997028.0 } }, { "id": "100230", "term": "straggot", "definition": "A portmanteau of \"straight\" (heterosexual) and the slur \"faggot\". Usually used in a joking and/or reclamatory sense to describe heterosexual people who are homophobic.", "sentence": "like i genuinely don't understand male straggots, why are they so mad when people like MEN?", "communities": [ "LGBTQ" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "transgendercirclejerk", "date": "2025-05-20 00:27:23", "timestamp": 1747693643.0 } }, { "id": "212254", "term": "pansy", "definition": "Various flowers are used to refer to feminine gay men, though \"pansy\" is probably the most common. Associates gay men with misogynistic ideas of femininity; implies weakness, unthreateneaning appearance, cowardliness. Offensive, often used as an intentional slur.", "sentence": "The term has been reclaimed by some gays, too, like the band Pansy Division and the Pansy Patrol organisation.", "communities": [], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "lgbt", "date": "2020-05-23 00:39:52", "timestamp": 1590187192.0 } }, { "id": "169400", "term": "manmoder", "definition": "One who is in manmode (presenting as male regardless of gender identity).", "sentence": "/Rj I'm doomed to being a ngmi manmoder", "communities": [ "transgender" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "transgendercirclejerk", "date": "2025-06-10 17:18:47", "timestamp": 1749568727.0 } }, { "id": "2537", "term": "shade", "definition": "A slang term referring to a kind of insult, typically non-verbal in nature. Journalist Anna Holmes called shade \"the art of the sidelong insult\". Merriam-Webster defines it as \"subtle, sneering expression of contempt for or disgust with someoneā€”sometimes verbal, and sometimes not\".", "sentence": "But also, and I love McDonald's, so this is No Shade and I eat their burgers.", "communities": [ "drag" ], "metadata": { "source": "Podcasts", "title": "Coffee Convos with Kail Lowry and Lindsie Chrisley" } }, { "id": "157475", "term": "vers", "definition": "ā€¢ LGBTQ+ community slang for someone who \"switches\" between the \"giving\" and \"receiving\" during sex. \"Vers\" is short for \"versatile.\" \"Switch\" is sometimes also used in a BDSM context, to indicate someone who \"switches\" between the dominant and submissive roles.\nā€¢ One who is willing to take either a submissive or a dominant role in a sexual relationship.", "sentence": "Then add the fact my BF doesnā€™t overly like bottoming and I love love riding dick and you have the usual dynamic of this verse bottom.", "communities": [ "gay" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "gaybros", "date": "2024-11-16 23:49:24", "timestamp": 1731797364.0 } }, { "id": "215390", "term": "bio queen", "definition": "A cis female performance artist who performs in female drag at drag shows, or acts like a drag queen.", "sentence": "The bio queen was also very defiant when she answered Bianca like \"were called bio queens\" really loud in a defiant tone.", "communities": [], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "rupaulsdragrace", "date": "2017-11-14 01:24:14", "timestamp": 1510619054.0 } }, { "id": "143068", "term": "LGBT", "definition": "Initialism for lesbian, gay, bisexual, and transgender.", "sentence": "In doing so, Swann became the earliest known American activist to use the U.S. political and legal system to defend LGBT+ rights.", "communities": [], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "lgbthistory", "date": "2023-03-05 15:54:11", "timestamp": 1678028051.0 } }, { "id": "129014", "term": "gyal", "definition": "A girl.", "sentence": "Goodness gracious gyal šŸ’š", "communities": [], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "trans", "date": "2024-09-14 20:23:57", "timestamp": 1726338237.0 } }, { "id": "227737", "term": "fierce", "definition": "To have looks that could \"kill\"; also used to refer to satisfying, powerful, or beautiful drag queens.", "sentence": "Very fierce indeed, good posture!", "communities": [ "drag" ], "metadata": { "source": "OpenSubtitles", "title": "By Hook or by Crook", "imdb_id": "290498" } }, { "id": "95571", "term": "gay virginity", "definition": "A concept in gay communities in which a person is said to have virginity in relationship to whether they have engaged in sexual activity considered to be gay or otherwise non-heterosexual.", "sentence": "Lost my gay virginity and it was incredible.", "communities": [ "LGBTQ" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "GayBroTeens", "date": "2022-10-17 02:11:20", "timestamp": 1665965480.0 } }, { "id": "210566", "term": "bottoms", "definition": "ā€¢ A \"bottom\" is an individual who acts as the \"receiving\" partner in sexual encounters. Sometimes used as a self-descriptor within queer communities, but should be replicated with caution. Sometimes used as a verb (\"to bottom for someone\"). Offensive if applied to LGBTQ+ individuals from outwith queer communities.\nā€¢ Someone, typically a man, who is penetrated during sexual intercourse or someone who has a preference for being penetrated during such intercourse.\nā€¢ The buttocks.\nā€¢ Genitalia; genitals.", "sentence": "When I've shared this with other bottoms, they've scoffed.", "communities": [ "LGBTQ" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "gaybros", "date": "2024-06-24 23:39:55", "timestamp": 1719265195.0 } }, { "id": "158900", "term": "duderus", "definition": "The uterus of a trans man.", "sentence": "I've been on T for 18 months now, and have been putting up with a crampy duderus for the past year.", "communities": [ "transgender" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "ftm", "date": "2015-11-11 02:44:35", "timestamp": 1447206275.0 } }, { "id": "106644", "term": "baby trans", "definition": "Someone who has recently discovered that they are transgender.", "sentence": "I'm still a baby transmasc more than transman, so no advice except that genderqueer/nb/fluid seems to be where many of us old tomboy types wind up while we learn.", "communities": [ "transgender", "transgender" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "transeducate", "date": "2021-02-26 14:52:46", "timestamp": 1614347566.0 } }, { "id": "110249", "term": "zap", "definition": "Slang term for electrolytic epilation.", "sentence": "Its a pulse, they should be basically holding it still, zapping an area, then moving it, zapping another, and so on.", "communities": [ "transfeminine" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "asktransgender", "date": "2025-06-20 16:01:59", "timestamp": 1750428119.0 } }, { "id": "211261", "term": "faggotry", "definition": "A pejorative term used chiefly in North America primarily to refer to a gay man. Alongside its use to refer to gay men in particular, it may also be used as a pejorative term for a \"repellent man\" or to refer to women who are lesbian (or to transgender people, typically transgender women). Its use has spread from the United States to varying extents elsewhere in the English-speaking world through mass culture, including film, music, and the Internet.", "sentence": "So what are some mods that would make my game more suiting to my faggotry?", "communities": [], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "gaymers", "date": "2018-05-10 22:09:15", "timestamp": 1525982955.0 } }, { "id": "123625", "term": "fruit fly", "definition": "A woman who enjoys the company of gay men; a somewhat less offensive alternative to \"fag hag\".", "sentence": "He loves his fruit fly, and showed me there's no real correlation between fem behavior and body type.", "communities": [ "gay male" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "gaybros", "date": "2012-08-08 14:17:25", "timestamp": 1344428245.0 } }, { "id": "101448", "term": "bi wife energy", "definition": "A slang term coined by a Tik Tok user (@cringelizard) to describe the energy that Misha Collins radiates, i.e. the supposed \"energy\" that he has due to being married to a bisexual woman, Victoria Vantoch. \"Bi wife energy\" is often used to refer to individuals who are supportive of the LGBTQIA+ community, and who have or have had a partner (usually a marital partner) who is LGBTQIA+.", "sentence": "specifically in the lgbtq+ community or they gotta have extreme bi wife energy.", "communities": [ "bisexual" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "lgbt", "date": "2022-08-08 19:41:59", "timestamp": 1659980519.0 } }, { "id": "107865", "term": "tucute", "definition": "A person who acknowledges that gender dysphoria is not necessary to be transgender.", "sentence": "I hear lots of people say truscum but Iā€™ve never heard tucute said out loud ever.", "communities": [ "transgender" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "asktransgender", "date": "2023-02-14 02:33:51", "timestamp": 1676338431.0 } }, { "id": "86304", "term": "stud", "definition": "ā€¢ Community term for an African-American and/or Latinx masculine queer woman. Also known as \"ag.\" Only use if someone self-describes in this way, and avoid using for white people, as this is a term specifically developed by and for African-American and Latinx communities.\nā€¢ A masculine or butch lesbian; predominantly utilized in Black and Latina lesbian communities. Should not be used by individuals outside of those communities, as it may be seen as pejorative. Sometimes expanded to refer to other gender identities and expressions.", "sentence": "The Aggressives - The lives of butch & stud lesbians + trans men in the 90s", "communities": [ "lesbian", "Latine lesbian", "African-American lesbian" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "lgbthistory", "date": "2025-06-05 15:36:25", "timestamp": 1749130585.0 } }, { "id": "101614", "term": "femby", "definition": "A slang term sometimes used to refer to femme enbies (non-binary people) or non-binary women. A portmanteau of \"femme\" and \"enby\".", "sentence": "I'm a femby who is entering my mid-30's.", "communities": [ "nonbinary" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "transfashionadvice", "date": "2025-06-22 21:35:56", "timestamp": 1750620956.0 } }, { "id": "110521", "term": "brick", "definition": "Derogatory term referring to someone who is not accepted as female.", "sentence": "am i doomed to be a brick forever?", "communities": [ "transfeminine" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "transpassing", "date": "2025-04-18 23:52:50", "timestamp": 1745013170.0 } }, { "id": "101640", "term": "thembo", "definition": "A nonbinary or gender-neutral bimbo.", "sentence": "Sure, thembo is an option, but personally I like to use bimbo for all genders.", "communities": [ "nonbinary" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "lgbt", "date": "2023-08-12 18:30:49", "timestamp": 1691857849.0 } }, { "id": "84594", "term": "lipstick lesbian", "definition": "Usually refers to a lesbian with a feminine gender expression. Can be used in a positive or a derogatory way, depending on who is using it. Is sometimes also used to refer to a lesbian who is seen as automatically \"passing\" for heterosexual.", "sentence": "As a lipstick lesbian, I quite regularly have this problem.", "communities": [ "lesbian" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "ladyladyboners", "date": "2013-07-28 03:33:23", "timestamp": 1374975203.0 } }, { "id": "94307", "term": "drab", "definition": "An instance of a transgender or non-binary person presenting as the gender corresponding to their sex assigned at birth instead of that corresponding to their internal gender identity (most commonly a trans woman dressed as a man).", "sentence": "When youā€™re shopping in drab I recommend that you dress nicely.", "communities": [ "transgender", "drag", "transgender" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "transpositive", "date": "2017-05-31 16:31:27", "timestamp": 1496241087.0 } }, { "id": "146185", "term": "hon", "definition": "A trans woman who does not pass; a clocky (clearly identifiable as transgender) trans woman.", "sentence": "I am not transgender and I do not look like a man and I don't like to be called a Hon.", "communities": [], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "asktransgender", "date": "2022-02-22 19:48:21", "timestamp": 1645555701.0 } }, { "id": "116737", "term": "front hole", "definition": "Slang for vagina, often used by transmasculine persons assigned female at birth.", "sentence": "On an aside, can I call the front hole I have (but didn't start out with) a bonus hole, too?", "communities": [ "transmasculine" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "asktransgender", "date": "2011-12-21 16:37:55", "timestamp": 1324481875.0 } }, { "id": "116666", "term": "chubby bear", "definition": "A bear who is particularly large (\"bear\" meaning \"a gay or bisexual man who has facial/body hair and a cuddly body\").", "sentence": "Secretly, Iā€™m looking for the chubby bear šŸ»", "communities": [ "chub", "bear" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "gaybros", "date": "2024-03-26 23:24:16", "timestamp": 1711491856.0 } }, { "id": "227804", "term": "coming out", "definition": "A metaphor for LGBTQIA+ people's self-disclosure of their sexual orientation or of their gender identity. The term coming out can also be used in various non-LGBTQIA+ applications (e.g. atheists). Framed and debated as a privacy issue, coming out of the closet is described and experienced variously as a psychological process or journey; decision-making or risk-taking; a strategy or plan; a mass or public event; a speech act and a matter of personal identity; a rite of passage; liberation or emancipation from oppression; an ordeal; a means toward feeling gay pride instead of shame and social stigma; or even career suicide. Author Steven Seidman writes that \"it is the power of the closet to shape the core of an individual's life that has made homosexuality into a significant personal, social, and political drama in twentieth-century America\".", "sentence": "Afraid of coming out?", "communities": [ "LGBTQ" ], "metadata": { "source": "OpenSubtitles", "title": "French Twist", "imdb_id": "113149" } }, { "id": "123681", "term": "hunk", "definition": "A muscular, handsome gay man.", "sentence": "I will also point out that the Bear Community is very welcoming to those of us who aren't twinks or hunks.", "communities": [ "gay male" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "gay", "date": "2024-11-15 21:14:58", "timestamp": 1731701698.0 } }, { "id": "219623", "term": "camp", "definition": "ā€¢ Camp can also be a social practice and function as a style and performance identity for several types of entertainment including film, cabaret, and pantomime. Where high art necessarily incorporates beauty and value, camp necessarily needs to be lively, audacious and dynamic.\nā€¢ An aesthetic style and sensibility that regards something as appealing because of its bad taste and ironic value. Camp aesthetics disrupt many of modernism's notions of what art is and what can be classified as high art by inverting aesthetic attributes such as beauty, value, and taste through an invitation of a different kind of apprehension and consumption.\nā€¢ To behave, speak, act, etc. in a flamboyant, affected, ostentatious, or exaggerated manner stereotypically associated with gay men.\nā€¢ Gay.", "sentence": "My god, he's too straight to appreciate fine camp.", "communities": [ "LGBTQ" ], "metadata": { "source": "OpenSubtitles", "title": "Billy's Hollywood Screen Kiss", "imdb_id": "137386" } }, { "id": "107809", "term": "full-time", "definition": "A term which refers to a transgender person living as their gender for the entirety of their day-to-day life, at work, at home, etc.", "sentence": "i started estrogen in November (transfem nonbinary) - came out on christmas day and went full-time immediately.", "communities": [ "transgender" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "mypartneristrans", "date": "2021-04-04 17:33:45", "timestamp": 1617550425.0 } }, { "id": "2547", "term": "shade", "definition": "A slang term referring to a kind of insult, typically non-verbal in nature. Journalist Anna Holmes called shade \"the art of the sidelong insult\". Merriam-Webster defines it as \"subtle, sneering expression of contempt for or disgust with someoneā€”sometimes verbal, and sometimes not\".", "sentence": "You hear Jamie Dimon, he's throwing a few some shade there, and you know behind the scenes they nicknamed him Taco.", "communities": [ "drag" ], "metadata": { "source": "Podcasts", "title": "I've Had It" } }, { "id": "169382", "term": "manmode", "definition": "The state of presenting as a man, regardless of one's actual gender identity, especially of a trans woman.", "sentence": "Iā€™m never going to socially transition to any degree unless I pass as cis either, which means I will likely boymode into manmode and live my life this way.", "communities": [ "transgender" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "MtF", "date": "2025-07-21 07:42:46", "timestamp": 1753076566.0 } }, { "id": "143156", "term": "GLBT", "definition": "Initialism for gay, lesbian, bisexual, and transgender.", "sentence": "Back in the 90's it wasn't LGBT, it was GLBT.", "communities": [], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "gay", "date": "2021-11-30 12:12:34", "timestamp": 1638270754.0 } }, { "id": "101450", "term": "bi wife energy", "definition": "A slang term coined by a Tik Tok user (@cringelizard) to describe the energy that Misha Collins radiates, i.e. the supposed \"energy\" that he has due to being married to a bisexual woman, Victoria Vantoch. \"Bi wife energy\" is often used to refer to individuals who are supportive of the LGBTQIA+ community, and who have or have had a partner (usually a marital partner) who is LGBTQIA+.", "sentence": "As an enby, I fully support this personā€™s bi wife energy.", "communities": [ "bisexual" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "bisexual", "date": "2022-07-06 09:19:15", "timestamp": 1657091955.0 } }, { "id": "215153", "term": "twinks", "definition": "ā€¢ Slang term widely used in gay communities to describe a young or young-looking man with little or no facial or body hair. Can be pejorative, but can also be a self-descriptor.\nā€¢ A young, attractive, slim male, usually having little body hair.", "sentence": "That's why all the twinks that ate talking to me ghost me eventually!", "communities": [ "gay male" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "gaybros", "date": "2025-05-16 15:03:47", "timestamp": 1747400627.0 } }, { "id": "110259", "term": "zap", "definition": "Slang term for electrolytic epilation.", "sentence": "You look stunning girlā¤ļø Just one one question how/where get someone get their beard zapped away?", "communities": [ "transfeminine" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "crossdressing", "date": "2023-10-15 05:44:53", "timestamp": 1697341493.0 } }, { "id": "102299", "term": "ace", "definition": "Asexual; an asexual person.", "sentence": "The aceflux in me agrees.", "communities": [ "asexual" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "lgbt", "date": "2024-09-07 23:59:07", "timestamp": 1725746347.0 } }, { "id": "101654", "term": "thembo", "definition": "A nonbinary or gender-neutral bimbo.", "sentence": "They could just use himbo/bimbo, or they could use thembo, embo, or literally any other terms.", "communities": [ "nonbinary" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "AskLGBT", "date": "2021-11-11 00:17:55", "timestamp": 1636586275.0 } }, { "id": "143188", "term": "GLBT", "definition": "Initialism for gay, lesbian, bisexual, and transgender.", "sentence": "I was in a long term relationship with someone not accepting, who thought some of my friends in the GLBT community had indoctrinated me.", "communities": [], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "ftm", "date": "2014-04-24 11:49:33", "timestamp": 1398332973.0 } }, { "id": "203312", "term": "doll", "definition": "A transgender woman or transfeminine person.", "sentence": "i see people on reddit get offended by the term dolls for some reason but itā€™s very popular for younger trans women and on twitter and instagram", "communities": [], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "asktransgender", "date": "2025-06-16 20:31:25", "timestamp": 1750098685.0 } }, { "id": "158119", "term": "crack", "definition": "To realize that one is transgender.", "sentence": "Was hanging out with a newer friend who is trans masc and casually mentioned when my egg cracked and they had never heard that before.", "communities": [ "transgender" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "asktransgender", "date": "2025-01-12 22:32:42", "timestamp": 1736717562.0 } }, { "id": "206328", "term": "pozzed", "definition": "HIV positive.", "sentence": "If you can get pozzed by an undetectable man then you are a scientific anomaly lolz.", "communities": [], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "askgaybros", "date": "2020-11-19 16:02:01", "timestamp": 1605798121.0 } }, { "id": "1582", "term": "lgbt", "definition": "Initialism for lesbian, gay, bisexual, and transgender.", "sentence": "One is the traditional conservative right argument, which is anti-LGBT.", "communities": [], "metadata": { "source": "Podcasts", "title": "The Witch Trials of J.K. Rowling" } }, { "id": "117695", "term": "baby gay", "definition": "A person who has recently come out in relationship to a marginalized sexual or gender identity.", "sentence": "Help a late blooming baby gay out?", "communities": [ "gay male" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "lesbianfashionadvice", "date": "2023-11-06 00:12:12", "timestamp": 1699225932.0 } }, { "id": "170460", "term": "spiro", "definition": "Clipping of spironolactone.", "sentence": "One concern of dropping Spiro is it may be masking hypertension, as Spiro lowers blood pressure.", "communities": [ "transgender" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "asktransgender", "date": "2025-01-08 21:58:32", "timestamp": 1736369912.0 } }, { "id": "157845", "term": "boyclit", "definition": "The clitoris of a trans man.", "sentence": "Waiting for it to charge so I can try it on my boyclit", "communities": [ "transgender" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "MtF", "date": "2022-01-20 20:32:37", "timestamp": 1642707157.0 } }, { "id": "228152", "term": "crush", "definition": "An infatuation with somebody, typically someone that one is not dating. By extension, the object of such infatuation or affection.", "sentence": "It was just an innocent crush phase.", "communities": [ "LGBTQ" ], "metadata": { "source": "OpenSubtitles", "title": "The Truth About Jane", "imdb_id": "256459" } }, { "id": "109071", "term": "titty skittle", "definition": "Oral estrogen taken by transgender woman and other transfeminine people.", "sentence": "It's gonna be a year since I started this journey before I get anywhere near the titty skittles :(", "communities": [ "transgender", "transfeminine" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "transgenderUK", "date": "2021-06-27 15:45:43", "timestamp": 1624801543.0 } }, { "id": "228149", "term": "crush", "definition": "An infatuation with somebody, typically someone that one is not dating. By extension, the object of such infatuation or affection.", "sentence": "Boy, does he have a crush on you?", "communities": [ "LGBTQ" ], "metadata": { "source": "OpenSubtitles", "title": "The Truth About Jane", "imdb_id": "256459" } }, { "id": "169866", "term": "pre-T", "definition": "Not yet having undergone testosterone-based hormone replacement therapy.", "sentence": "super common to be seen as younger pre-T, and T does help it", "communities": [ "transgender" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "ftm", "date": "2025-07-14 00:25:49", "timestamp": 1752445549.0 } }, { "id": "116784", "term": "seahorse dad", "definition": "Slang term for a transgender man who is carrying, or has carried, a child to term.", "sentence": "The only thing I think about seahorse dads is that they should have access to appropriate and respectful obstetric care.", "communities": [ "transmasculine" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "ftm", "date": "2023-07-05 09:18:36", "timestamp": 1688541516.0 } }, { "id": "215128", "term": "trannies", "definition": "A transgender person, usually a transgender woman. Originally a shortening of transvestite. Generally considered derogatory, offensive. Debate over the termā€™s offensiveness occurred in the early 2010s, but by 2017, the term was banned by several media stylebooks and labeled as hate speech by Facebook.", "sentence": "This is a woman that call things she thinks are stupid gay and retarded, calls mentally handicapped people retards, and calls trans people trannies and gender confused.", "communities": [ "transfeminine" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "TransSupport", "date": "2021-02-19 05:38:22", "timestamp": 1613709502.0 } }, { "id": "113663", "term": "high femme", "definition": "A femme person who expresses their gender in ultra feminine ways. Often, but not exclusively, this refers to a queer woman.", "sentence": "One of my oldest friends is a high femme and is thankfully merciful with her power.", "communities": [ "lesbian" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "actuallesbians", "date": "2021-04-28 15:12:22", "timestamp": 1619615542.0 } }, { "id": "170451", "term": "spiro", "definition": "Clipping of spironolactone.", "sentence": "If you don't want Spiro, ask for progesterone implants maybe that will help.", "communities": [ "transgender" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "lgbt", "date": "2023-08-07 01:26:42", "timestamp": 1691364402.0 } }, { "id": "206256", "term": "poz", "definition": "ā€¢ HIV positive.\nā€¢ To infect (someone) with a sexually transmitted infection; especially HIV.", "sentence": "As a poz guy, we are not dirty, so please educate yourself about HIV before you continue to jeopardize your own mental health and the education of others.", "communities": [], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "rupaulsdragrace", "date": "2017-09-06 02:06:30", "timestamp": 1504656390.0 } }, { "id": "211276", "term": "faggotry", "definition": "A pejorative term used chiefly in North America primarily to refer to a gay man. Alongside its use to refer to gay men in particular, it may also be used as a pejorative term for a \"repellent man\" or to refer to women who are lesbian (or to transgender people, typically transgender women). Its use has spread from the United States to varying extents elsewhere in the English-speaking world through mass culture, including film, music, and the Internet.", "sentence": "Relish in your faggotry.", "communities": [], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "ftm", "date": "2013-09-16 23:43:59", "timestamp": 1379367839.0 } }, { "id": "99802", "term": "closeted", "definition": "An adjective referring to an LGBTQIA+ person or persons who have not disclosed their status as LGBTQIA+ and other related aspects of their life. More broadly, it can also be used to describe anyone who is hiding part of their identity because of social pressure.", "sentence": "Guysā€¦.thanks to those of you who ā€œwork withā€ the closeted gay men I finally realized who/what I am.", "communities": [ "LGBTQ" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "gaybros", "date": "2023-11-04 13:46:38", "timestamp": 1699101998.0 } }, { "id": "101664", "term": "enbyfriend", "definition": "A nonbinary sexual and/or romantic partner.", "sentence": "or an enbyfriend, who the hekk knows.", "communities": [ "nonbinary" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "bisexual", "date": "2020-05-15 05:55:45", "timestamp": 1589514945.0 } }, { "id": "134020", "term": "androgynous", "definition": "Of clothing or accessories, making a person's identity as male or female not immediately apparent to observers.", "sentence": "There are people who will find you attractive and lovable regardless of how masculine, feminine, or androgynous you appear.", "communities": [], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "gaybros", "date": "2022-03-22 19:51:23", "timestamp": 1647975083.0 } }, { "id": "94370", "term": "opulence", "definition": "A term sometimes used in drag subculture to refer to a mindset in which one has more resources than needed to live in complete luxury; alternatively, the state in which someone is extremely wealthy and lives in luxury.", "sentence": "I also wish her headpiece was a little more stoned in the front just for the opulence of it all.", "communities": [ "drag" ], "metadata": { "source": "Reddit", "subreddit": "rupaulsdragrace", "date": "2025-04-12 06:57:41", "timestamp": 1744433861.0 } } ]