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{ "description": "leaving the door open", "pronormative_score": 3, "contranormative_score": 2 }
Aita for leaving the door open?
I’ve never left the door open before. Today I was taking out the trash and I must have closed it improperly because it was wide open a few minutes later. I didn’t know this because I was upstairs. I heard my mom calling out, then she said I left the door open. I started to apologize and go downstairs to shut the door, ...
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{ "description": "breaking up with my girlfriend because she's not intimate", "pronormative_score": 20, "contranormative_score": 1 }
WIBTA if I broke up with my (M29) girlfriend (F29) because she's not intimate?
Throwaway because she uses my Reddit account I understand that, for a lot of people, lack of sex and intimacy can be a deal-breaker. My SO and I have been dating for about 4 1/2 years now yet we barely have any physical intimacy. She doesn't like to be held for too long, maybe 30 seconds at best, and we haven't had s...
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{ "description": "not letting a person with a service dog have my seat in an auditorium", "pronormative_score": 4, "contranormative_score": 4 }
WIBTA if I didn't let a person with a service dog have my seat in an auditorium?
Today in one of my lectures (I'm a student), a person with a support/service dog walks in about 15 minutes late to class. The dog isn't small, so it needs an aisle or something for it to be, which is fair, I get it. What really bugged me was that she asked someone sitting in the very front row in the middle section if ...
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{ "description": "telling my brother to stop bringing so many people over for family dinner", "pronormative_score": 3, "contranormative_score": 0 }
WIBTA If I tell my brother to stop bringing so many people over for family dinner?
I have 3 brothers and my family are really close we eat dinner every sunday together, it's a tradition that we all just take part in even though we all moved out. My brother travels with a literal entourage like something out of a show and for the past 6 months or so he's brought about 4 or 5 girls and sometimes a coup...
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{ "description": "using my phone at a petrol/gas station", "pronormative_score": 3, "contranormative_score": 2 }
AITA for using my phone at a petrol/gas station?
Okay so this just happened, I received a call at the petrol bowser & was speaking to my father. I started filling up my car at the same time. There are always signs at petrol stations saying 'please turn off mobile phones' but I always regarded phone signals causing fires a myth (based on a Mythbusters episode &am...
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{ "description": "thinking this is unfair? relationship shit", "pronormative_score": 6, "contranormative_score": 4 }
AITA for thinking this is unfair? Relationship shit.
So, a little background - I'm away at college (2.5-3 hours away), shit hasn't been easy these last few weeks. I come home on the weekends, but my housing situation is getting progressively fucked and this is likely one of the last weekends I'll have a place to stay at home (power, water, gas, etc. getting shut off in a...
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{ "description": "cutting off a former roommate", "pronormative_score": 1, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA for cutting off a former roommate?
In my freshman year of college I met this guy, let’s say N, and he ended up moving into my dorm. We’re both part of the same circle of friends, and I live with three other girls now. We all stuck with him through a diagnosis of type 1 diabetes, and I helped him pay for his medicine and other needs. My family has a bi...
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{ "description": "being rude to a friend who blew me off", "pronormative_score": 2, "contranormative_score": 2 }
AITA for being rude to a friend who blew me off?
Ok so one of my friends asked me to help her prepare for a test, I said ok because I was going to study that subject anyway, we planned for Saturday. She spent the whole week telling me everyday to not forget, to the point of exhaustion. Saturday morning she sends me a message telling me she cant come, I said fine no p...
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{ "description": "getting upset with my boyfriend for insinuating that I'm being disloyal", "pronormative_score": 6, "contranormative_score": 8 }
AITA for getting upset with my boyfriend for insinuating that I'm being disloyal?
TL;DR at the bottom. Throwaway. Background: He (25) and I (26f) have been together in a monogamous relationship for almost three years and lived together for a large part of that. I recently moved into my own apartment because of his anger/control issues, but agreed to try to work through this with him while he works ...
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{ "description": "not believing someone is transgender", "pronormative_score": 7, "contranormative_score": 8 }
AITA for not believing someone is transgender?
Okay, please let me explain and don’t immediately call me an ass just for the title alone. I’m transgender. Ftm, pre-op. Operation due in 21. Let me explain this situation. I own a discord server with just under a 100 members. It’s nice, we have a lot of actives and we’re quite chummy with each other. I host a lot ...
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{ "description": "bringing up an 3 month old incident back up to my dad about my car", "pronormative_score": 4, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for bringing up an 3 month old incident back up to my dad about my car?
I had bought my very first car with money I saved up for about $950. It's decent car for a 1993 Ford Explorer XLT. 3 months ago, we had about 10 inches of snow that note very common in my part of Texas. In the morning I had to go to work and my dad wanted to take me there since my car had the only option with 4x4. The...
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{ "description": "texting my former roommates fiance about the roommate owing me money", "pronormative_score": 3, "contranormative_score": 3 }
WIBTA For texting my former roommates fiance about the roommate owing me money.
So pretty much about over a year and a half ago my now former roommate came into my room and told me that his bank account had been hacked and he didn't have any money to pay rent. As I had already sent my half to him I was forced to pay the entire rent plus my half a second time. He promised me he'd pay me back and as...
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{ "description": "getting this girl fired", "pronormative_score": 2, "contranormative_score": 4 }
aita for getting this girl fired
I work at a large warehouse with several companies inside that are contracted by the company i work for. My job is safety related (just recently moved to safety) for my department. 5 months ago this girl (lets call her Denise) started working for a contractor and she did great for the first 2 or 3 months she did great....
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{ "description": "being too worried about my girlfriend", "pronormative_score": 12, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA for being too worried about my girlfriend?
Last week I (33M) was hanging out with my girlfriend (32F) as I normally do. She left to go workout and then go home for the evening. Everything was fine but it was getting late. She always sends me a message before she goes to bed just as we say goodnight. This night she didn't. It was the first time she she hadn't. I...
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{ "description": "asking GF for a break in our relationship due to lack of sex", "pronormative_score": 6, "contranormative_score": 3 }
AITA for asking GF for a break in our relationship due to lack of sex?
Throwaway account for obvious reasons.. IDK if this should be at r/relationshipadvice but anyway.. And apologize me for bad English. So me 21 and my girlfriend 20 have been in a relationship for over three years now. She is my second GF and I am her first boyfriend. At first our relationship rotated around meeting a...
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{ "description": "yelling at my brothers for not doing their chores", "pronormative_score": 1, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA For Yelling at my Brothers for not Doing their chores?
So after dinner my brothers and I have to do our chores before going back onto games and TV etc. So usually after dinner they just go back to their games/shows so I have to politely ask them to do them and they don't so I start to get annoyed because I can't do mine until they do theirs. Fast Forward 15 minutes (their...
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{ "description": "telling my GF I didn't like her tattoo idea", "pronormative_score": 4, "contranormative_score": 5 }
AITA for telling my GF I didn’t like her tattoo idea.
I know this sounds stupid, but it’s genuinely bothering me. My girlfriend of about 2 years now wants to get a tattoo of a band members autograph with a little quote by him. We both grew up very differently so in my family that would be seen as a bit trashy, and in her family that’s completely normal. Now just to make t...
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{ "description": "not wanting to go to the sex store with my boyfriend", "pronormative_score": 4, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for not wanting to go to the sex store with my boyfriend.
I have a friend who has her very first art show at the local risque boutique. She's really excited but also pretty nervous and has never shown her work before. Ive recently started showing my own work and have a few shows of experience. So she invited me to help her hang and place her work and to be her date the night ...
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AITA for feelings second place in my girlfriends life when she’s consumed by school?
I’ll make this short but I’m SUPER supportive of everything she does CANT WAIT to have a full marching band at her graduation and our wedding bc she will look stunning. But since we’ve met she’s been in school and it’s never an issue I support her always help her study so everything I can to make her life easier. I wor...
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{ "description": "posting your picture on Instagram", "pronormative_score": 1, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA for posting your picture on Instagram?
So I am running a vape Instagram and I had pulled a picture off of a popular vape Snapchat story. There were no credits to the original photographer and I knew the Snapchat itself didn't take it. Fast forward a few days someone tagged the original photographer and then he got mad and said a few words in the comments. O...
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{ "description": "punching a hole in my buddy's tv", "pronormative_score": 0, "contranormative_score": 8 }
AITA for punching a hole in my buddy’s TV
I know it sounds bad based on the title, but hear me out. So earlier today my buddy who I live with (1 of 23 other fraternity brothers) decided to talk smack about my ex girlfriend. My ex and I are still seeing each other and hanging out every now and then, so it isn’t out of the ordinary for her to be at our house...
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{ "description": "ignoring the fact I have a kid", "pronormative_score": 3, "contranormative_score": 5 }
AITA For ignoring the fact I have a kid
AITA, Long story short, I slept with a girl maybe 6 times over a couple of months we weren't close just meet up now and then. Her friend told me she was pregnant and it was mine. I was semi friends with her mate so we talked. I soon put a end to our fling mainly because I was scared I was young 21. The friend later tol...
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{ "description": "wanting more from my partner", "pronormative_score": 6, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA for wanting more from my partner
Obligatory apology for any mistakes since I'm on mobile + this is a throwaway. Tl;dr: my dad has died less than two weeks ago. I'm (diagnosed) depressed and cannot easily deal with sudden changes in scheduling and long nights alone. Boyfriend suddenly decides to go out because he feels bad from me feeling bad. So, ...
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{ "description": "thinking my friends joking about hating me is not funny", "pronormative_score": 4, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for thinking my friends joking about hating me is not funny
For context: This friend, who I will refer to as Cal, is one of my good friends. We’ve been friends since sixth grade and we have a really good friendship. However, sometimes I feel like he REALLY hates me. Every time I try to talk to him he “jokingly” tells me to fuck off and pushes me away. At first. I thought it wa...
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{ "description": "accidentally breaking a kid's hearing aid", "pronormative_score": 2, "contranormative_score": 2 }
AITA for accidentally breaking a kid's hearing aid?
This happened several years ago and I was just reminded of it today. This was in summer camp daycare, and I was about 13 with the other kids being around the same age. I was kinda nerdy and unpopular, but I would sit next to the kids who had a DS to watch them play. I sat down at the edge of a table and began watchin...
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{ "description": "asking my mother if I could spend Christmas Eve with my fathers side of the family", "pronormative_score": 3, "contranormative_score": 3 }
AITA For asking my mother if I could spend Christmas Eve with my fathers side of the family
It all started on December 19th was my fathers 62nd birthday and he had a large party with his side of the family. My mother does not get along with them so she didn't go. When I was there my aunt was borderline begging me and my brother to come celebrate Christmas Eve because she was throwing a large dinner party and ...
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{ "description": "not going with my girlfriend to the rodeo", "pronormative_score": 1, "contranormative_score": 6 }
AITA for not going with my girlfriend to the rodeo?
A few weeks ago she mentioned that her grandparents had bought her and her family ticket passes to go to the Houston Rodeo and asked if I would want to go. I said sure, but for whatever reason her family planned on going on a weekday while we were still away at college so it would just be the two of us. Fast forward to...
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{ "description": "telling a roomate instead of asking them not to do something", "pronormative_score": 2, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for telling a roomate instead of asking them not to do something?
Ftp on mobil and all that jazz. My bff lives with my husband, me, and my 2 kids. She has a baby that sleeps with her and and she stores all his stuff in my sons room. Last night my son stayed in my daughters room because they have been having "sleep overs" lately and we just let it, they are 2 and 4 so young enough t...
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AITA when someone interrupts me when I am speaking, I continue to speak, over their words and louder
AITA When I am out to dinner at a restaurant with my wife, daughter and son in law, my wife and SIL will routinely interrupt me when I am speaking. When my SIL does this, I continue speaking and SIL and I both continue speaking at the same time, and I raise my voice louder than SIL. Everyone ignores what I am saying...
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{ "description": "talking to my ex girlfriend", "pronormative_score": 2, "contranormative_score": 2 }
AITA for talking to my ex girlfriend?
A while ago, I broke up with a girlfriend (I'll call her Sarah) on good terms, but she lived in the UK and I live in the US, so it was hard to keep in touch with her, so we stopped talking to each other for a while. A few months later, I contacted her again because I wanted to reconnect (we were still really good frien...
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{ "description": "skipping my grandmothers funeral", "pronormative_score": 12, "contranormative_score": 2 }
WIBTA if I skip my grandmothers funeral
This is a throwaway and Im on mobile. My grandmother has been battling cancer the last few years. About 6 months she let the family know she was stopping treatment and wanted to spend the time she had left with family at home. A month ago she contacted all of us grand children and paid for us all to go visit her for ...
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{ "description": "leaving the air conditioner in my room on when my dogs were sleeping inside", "pronormative_score": 8, "contranormative_score": 2 }
AITA for leaving the air conditioner in my room on when my dogs were sleeping inside?
I know it's something small, but I am really confused why my mom got mad, but basically what happened was I went outside the house for about an hour, leaving my 2 dogs in my room. I thought they would be hot because it's the summer and it's very hot here, so I decide to leave the air conditioner on in my room. Once I g...
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{ "description": "offering a customer free food", "pronormative_score": 2, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for offering a customer free food?
I work in a coffeeshop and there's this guy that comes in on weekend mornings. I'm the only person of color that works there, the rest are white girls. On several different occasions, this dude has asked me where I'm from, which he never asks anyone else and I get the feeling he wants me to say a village in India or so...
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{ "description": "telling my best friend that he needs to learn a trade or go to college", "pronormative_score": 4, "contranormative_score": 0 }
WIBTA If I told my best friend that he needs to learn a trade or go to college?
So I (20F) and my best friend (20 MTF) have bee friends since our sophomore year of high school. I’m a third year currently attending a tech University just 2 hours away from home. Whenever I come visit, we usually get the topic of the future-relationships, money, etc. It’s fun for a while, but then I get worried. Ev...
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AITA
So I have a old friend let's call him Jeff, now me and Jeff where close friends and used to play fortnite a lot together but he was always very picky with everything always wanted the best stuff and if he didn't have it in the game he would kick me from the party. Time for the story: We where playing fortnite again be...
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{ "description": "not recognizing my boyfriend's sarcasm during an argument", "pronormative_score": 6, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for not recognizing my boyfriend's sarcasm during an argument?
After arguing in my car, I thought my boyfriend slammed the door. He was angry and already raising his voice, cursing and waiving his hands. Here is the exchange that took place. Me: please don't slam my car door Him: I didn't slam it, I pushed it normally. Me: Okay I'm sorry, I thought I heard it slam. You: I c...
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{ "description": "distancing myself from my friends due to them inviting someone I dislike", "pronormative_score": 4, "contranormative_score": 0 }
WIBTA if I distanced myself from my friends due to them inviting someone I dislike?
First of all: mobile, formatting, blah blah blah So basically, my closest friend group consists of me and six other people. We are all really comfortable with each other, and we’ve all been friends with each other for years with the exception of one of us. At the beginning of the year, a kid who I’ll name John came t...
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{ "description": "trying to make a classmate skip practice for the school musical", "pronormative_score": 4, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for trying to make a classmate skip practice for the school musical?
I am on my school's mock trial team, and one of the people on our team texted me today saying that she is dropping out from the team because she got cast in the school musical. The team meets once a week, and musical is 5 days a week. I need her to skip the one day of practice to be on our team, because if she doesn't,...
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{ "description": "dating my good friends ex", "pronormative_score": 2, "contranormative_score": 2 }
AITA for dating my good friends ex?
So a bit of backstory, me and my friend have known each other for 2 years. He has told about this girl he was dating and how big of a bitch she was to him, things went down and she broke it of. She was okay but he wasn’t, you see my friend was very controlling and didn’t allow her to do anything without his approval o...
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{ "description": "telling a guy to fuck off after asking for my snapchat", "pronormative_score": 2, "contranormative_score": 2 }
AITA for telling a guy to fuck off after asking for my Snapchat
I was playing overwatch and decided to join a competitive group through lfg. As soon as I joined and said hello someone asked me if I was single. I said yes and brushed it off, thinking they wouldn’t go any further and if they did I’d just mute them. They seemed nice enough and after one game I decided to play another....
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{ "description": "refusing to do more work to carry my robotics team", "pronormative_score": 2, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for refusing to do more work to carry my robotics team?
Background: I do some FIRST robotics stuff. I'm on an FRC and FTC team(FRC being higher level). I'm trying to juggle both currently. I previously basically solo built and coded(and drove at competition) the FTC team's robot. I stayed up late past the normal meeting times and came in on days we weren't meeting in the d...
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{ "description": "advising my ex to break up with her boyfriend", "pronormative_score": 1, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA for advising my ex to break up with her boyfriend?
Hello, Reddit! I'm \[M18\] and the ex in question is \[f19\] for details sake. After not having talked to this person for almost a year, she replied to my Snapchat story, where I continued to to start a friendly conversation with her, since I was bored and on a bus. After some minutes of small talk she said that she ne...
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{ "description": "telling my buddy I don't want his girl to come", "pronormative_score": 4, "contranormative_score": 0 }
WIBTA for telling my buddy I don't want his girl to come?
Scenario: I've been married for many years and long-time-solo Buddy has been with Girl for a year or 2 (finally!). We used to hang out a lot together and equally as much with him third wheeling it. Ever since Girl came along, Buddy has been an absent buddy, we rarely see each other and when we do, Girl has to be there....
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{ "description": "almost ruining a relationship", "pronormative_score": 2, "contranormative_score": 2 }
AITA For almost ruining a relationship
I had a girlfriend a while ago and she was an absolute bitch (controlling, manipulative) but she would always want love and affection from me even though she was like that, after a while she cheated on me with one of my closest friends after I didn't talk to her for 2 days because I didn't have my phone and was in anot...
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AITA for my ex’s love interest what he did to me?
He broke up with me after 3 years of relationship , saying all that “I’ve got too much to deal with in life that I’m not ready to he in any relationship.” We broke up on good terms and at least we still cared about each other- oh so I thought. 1 month later, I heard him enthusiastically and loudly talk about his new ...
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{ "description": "banning depressed people from a streamers twitch chat", "pronormative_score": 11, "contranormative_score": 11 }
AITA for banning depressed people from a streamers twitch chat?
I mod for a streamers channel and every so often someone will come into chat and ruin the vibe. The streamer doesn’t have rules about that but then talking about their depression get annoying honestly. The streamer will be nice, ask them about their day and the depression topic gets brought up. I usually time them out ...
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AITA? 23 (M) living at home working and taking courses at local college. Due to failing a class I owe my parents a bit of money. To work it off I’ve been doing some of the harder chores around the house.
This includes; moving furniture, mowing the lawn, sealing small holes in the trim of our basement from nail indentations, chopping firewood, shoveling snow, raking leaves. I also water the plants around the house, do all the dishes, took both our cars for safety and emission checks, and do the majority of the laundry. ...
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{ "description": "making out with my flatmates drunk friend", "pronormative_score": 1, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA for making out with my flatmates drunk friend?
TL;DR at the bottom. Bit of a situation I'm feeling a little odd over. So last night my flatmate K (20s F) had her good friend C (20s F) for drinks, since it had previously been C's birthday. I (20s M) ended up drinking with them, and we all ended up getting quite drunk, and walking to the nearby Maccas for some drunk...
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{ "description": "kicking my roommate out just because I got annoyed by him and do not trust him", "pronormative_score": 4, "contranormative_score": 0 }
WIBTA if I kick my roommate out just because I got annoyed by him and do not trust him
We are living together for 2 months. He is a normal dude, we do not have any complex communication problems. He knows that this apartment for him is temporary. But, he keeps asking me could he stay more. I’m generally okay with him but I can support this apartment on my own and I just don’t like him in general. He do...
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{ "description": "not going on this years family vacation", "pronormative_score": 8, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA for not going on this years family vacation?
I need your input! My immediate family has been taking the same vacation for 6 years! For the past 3 years we have stayed in the same house, it’s an absolute blast and I wouldn’t want to miss it for the world. Unfortunately however this year is different. This year my parents invited my girlfriend and I! We were supe...
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{ "description": "not wanting to play video games against my friend because he joined an esports team, and I don't stand a chance anymore", "pronormative_score": 6, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for not wanting to play video games against my friend because he joined an esports team, and I don’t stand a chance anymore
My friend (17 M) and I (16 M) used to race on forza Motorsport quite often, and we were about the same pace, lap time wise. I stopped playing because of other responsibilities, and he got a lot faster, eventually joining a semi-pro Esports team. I am happy for him, don’t get me wrong, but as I recently got back into th...
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{ "description": "bringing a knife to a restaurant with my girlfriend", "pronormative_score": 4, "contranormative_score": 4 }
AITA for bringing a knife to a restaurant with my Girlfriend?
Today was the birthday of a friend of my girlfriend and it was celebrated on a restaurant about 10 minutes from my home. I bought a new knife a few days ago, I like knives, I know how to fight and since I live in a pretty dangerous area, I often go out with it to defend myself in case I need to. I brought it for the bi...
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{ "description": "wanting to ghost this girl", "pronormative_score": 5, "contranormative_score": 4 }
AITA for wanting to ghost this girl
So I started talking to this girl online via a mutual friend that connected us. We started playing videogames together and texting each other. When we first started talking everything seemed normal; we flirted with each other and just got to know each other a little. Overall, I felt like it was casual and that we were ...
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{ "description": "being bothered by the way she texts", "pronormative_score": 1, "contranormative_score": 2 }
AITA for being bothered by the way she texts?
Throwaway because reasons, English isn't my first language, so excuse me if anything seems fishy or janky grammar wise. Been together with a girl for a handful of months now, we've had our fair share of arguments, which is fine of course, but one thing that has been bothering me the most - the way she texts. ...
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{ "description": "not telling my girlfriend the truth", "pronormative_score": 2, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA For not telling my girlfriend the truth
Backstory: I dated a girl for 2 1/2 years starting in high school to sophomore year of college. I ended up breaking up with her because she was living at home working jobs she hated just to stay near me. I told her she didn't has to stay in our hometown but she wanted to. I wanted her to live her own life and be happy...
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{ "description": "abandoning my depressed friend", "pronormative_score": 3, "contranormative_score": 3 }
AITA for abandoning my depressed friend?
TLDR; Cut contact with high school friend because I didn't like hanging out with her anymore but she has anxiety and depression and really needs to hang out with friends to be ok. This happened a couple of years ago but she appeared in my dreams two nights in a row and I think I might be feeling guilty. I (20F) was f...
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{ "description": "speaking out my mind to a friend about his relationship", "pronormative_score": 1, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA for speaking out my mind to a friend about his relationship
Long story short, a really close friend of mine got into a relationship 2 weeks ago, since then he has distanced himself from myself and others we have in common. On two occasions he has asked me what I think of his relationship and his gf and I was pretty open about the fact that I see too many differences and do not ...
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{ "description": "not wanting to try doing things with my friend anymore", "pronormative_score": 8, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for not wanting to try doing things with my friend anymore?
My (26F) best friend (25F) recently got a new significant other and it has been really difficult to see them anymore. I am delighted that she finally has someone who cares about her deeply, and wants to shower her with the attention she deserves. But lately she has been ignoring my texts and phone calls, and when I ask...
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{ "description": "not letting my parents stay at my place", "pronormative_score": 3, "contranormative_score": 2 }
WIBTA for not letting my parents stay at my place?
I'm using a throwaway account, but basically my parents are planning a trip to come visit me in NYC during the summer for two weeks. They are travelling from Asia, which can be an expensive and long trip. (I actually came back from a trip there visiting them a month ago.) They asked me if I they could stay over my pla...
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{ "description": "exploiting my boyfriend natural weaknesses against him on fights", "pronormative_score": 1, "contranormative_score": 2 }
AITA For exploiting my boyfriend natural weaknesses against him on fights?
My boyfriend and I love to play-fight, roughhouse, wrestle, whatever you call it. We just love this experience of competitiveness and the trust we give each other to hit and allow the be hit without harm and to grapple and wrestle. He being a man is naturally larger wider and stronger with his 1,80M (6') against ...
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{ "description": "making my sister pay for something she broke/lost", "pronormative_score": 4, "contranormative_score": 4 }
AITA for making my sister pay for something she broke/lost
Obligatory happened a few months ago and I'm on mobile So what happened is my sisters car battery died but when we went to help her car started up. Now I told her to use my battery charger just to charge it overnight to be safe. She wouldnt unlock her car so I left it on the roof of her car Fast forward next day at...
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{ "description": "being honest", "pronormative_score": 2, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for being honest?
I talk with a friend online and we’re both creative people and constantly coming up with silly ideas for short stories or characters. When we have a serious idea about a story or character we’ll bounce plot or characterization ideas off each other for honest feedback. Since we’re both night owls we’re often up late mes...
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{ "description": "making a JOKE to a girl who goes to my school", "pronormative_score": 0, "contranormative_score": 10 }
AITA for making a JOKE to a girl who goes to my school
Me and this fat girl were at a mutual friends Christmas party when we were both asked to go outside to bring in some boxes of soda from the backyard fridge. I had trouble lifting two boxes at once because of a shoulder injury I got when playing football. She grabbed one of the boxes from me and said "gimme that, weak b...
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{ "description": "almost losing my composure at work", "pronormative_score": 4, "contranormative_score": 3 }
AITA for almost losing my composure at work.
So I had gotten this summer job after returning home from university to make a little extra cash. I decided to work at this place because a couple of my friends worked there, this turned out to be a mistake on my part. I have social anxiety, which I have struggled with for years. I wouldn't say that it's severe, as I c...
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{ "description": "upsetting my mum for telling her to take back my new school shoes", "pronormative_score": 1, "contranormative_score": 2 }
AITA for upsetting my mum for telling her to take back my new school shoes
My mother has recently had changes at work that mean she doesn’t have the same amount of money as she used to, but she still acts as if we have the old amount of money. I’ve been trying to get her to save money by buying most of my school supplies from my own money but she still needlessly spends money on things that ...
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{ "description": "throwing a pile of tree limbs into my neighbors yard", "pronormative_score": 0, "contranormative_score": 2 }
WIBTA if I threw a pile of tree limbs into my neighbors yard?
To give some background, the houses in my neighborhood are spaced a bit apart, kind of like a normal suburb type feel. My house and the neighbor in question both have gigantic pine trees in our yards, I have two and they have about 4. These things are seriously monstrous and the pine needles are a nightmare. So, a few...
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{ "description": "not letting my friend into my house", "pronormative_score": 3, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for not letting my friend into my house?
I was walking home from school one day, and my friend(Lets call him R) calls me. This conversation happens. R: I'm coming over to your house. Me: You can't I'm busy. How do you know where I live? *He hangs up* About half an hour goes by, and R calls again. R: Open the door. *He then proceeds to ring the bell for ...
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{ "description": "telling my friend that I need some space", "pronormative_score": 2, "contranormative_score": 2 }
AITA for telling my friend that I need some space?
Another relationship one Background; I (28M) have been close friends with L (30F) who I met through my best friend (28M), for about a year. Since the start of this year, we have been spending a lot of one-on-one time together, doing the sort of stuff you’d do on dates. Eventually I realised that I had started to see he...
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{ "description": "saying to my gf that I'm feeling better some time after talking with her about her being in a bad spot and feeling bad overall", "pronormative_score": 1, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA for saying to my gf that i'm feeling better some time after talking with her about her being in a bad spot and feeling bad overall?
I was talking with gf about her problems, she said that nobody in her family listens to her and that her family was arguing all previous day and she couldn't focus on learning to an exam. I listened to her of course and tried to help and make her less sad. It was sad for me also, later i was happier but when we were sp...
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{ "description": "cutting off a friend who has sexual harassment claims against him", "pronormative_score": 2, "contranormative_score": 2 }
WIBTA if I cut off a friend who has sexual harassment claims against him?
The photography & creative community can feel pretty small at times, especially when drama starts to brew. I’ve been friends with a male photographer for a few years, when he still in the beginning of his career. We met through Tinder and became friends but as he improved, many more models were working with him. ...
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{ "description": "encouraging sexual harassment to get revenge", "pronormative_score": 1, "contranormative_score": 10 }
AITA for encouraging sexual harassment to get revenge?
I am a woman in my mid-thirties working in a white-collar job. Last week we had our performance reviews and I find out that my client did not give me a good review... He chalked it up to lacking good presentation at the office. I was not dressing professionally enough apparently. This *really* pissed me off because thi...
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{ "description": "eating junk food in front of my baby brother", "pronormative_score": 1, "contranormative_score": 2 }
AITA for eating junk food in front of my baby brother?
I'm 19 and he's 4. He's my world and I would hate to think he could pick up on my bad habits. I'm overweight. Not exactly obese but I'm honestly just greedy. I'm active but this doesn't take away my junk food habits. I'm busy with full time university and my job so it's just so much easier to get take out and also i j...
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{ "description": "refusing to speak to my mom", "pronormative_score": 1, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA For Refusing to Speak to my Mom?
To give you guys some info, my little brother was sent to a rehab facility for drugs. He mostly smoked weed but started experimenting with a bunch of different drugs. He was doing Xanax, painkillers, drinking while doing these, etc. My brother thinks I’m one to never tell on him, I think it’s partly because I smoke wee...
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WIBTA if I elbow hit a person's foot?
Say, hypothetically, I am sitting on a plane, and someone has set their feet on your sides of my armchair. Let's also say I've told them not to do it, but they don't listen. WIBTA if I elbow their foot, hard?
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{ "description": "being a hypocrite to my (ex)friend", "pronormative_score": 0, "contranormative_score": 4 }
AITA for being a hypocrite to my (ex)friend?
Throwaway account! I'm sorry about the title sounding bad, but please hear me out! I've been friends (now ex-friends) with this guy, we'll call him Dean, for about 2-3 years until it happened. We got to know each other because of a mutual friend of a common interest. He was great! We hit it off and we have a lot in co...
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WRONG
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{ "description": "completely withdrawing from my group of friends", "pronormative_score": 1, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA for completely withdrawing from my group of friends?
To summarise - Over the last couple of years I've completely withdrawn from my old circle of friends, most of whom I grew up with and have mostly known each other since primary school. I work away from home, so we're all used to me being away for months at a time, but then when I come back I'd usually spend plenty of t...
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{ "description": "making a reference to Fallout New Vegas on r/pics", "pronormative_score": 1, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA? For making a reference to Fallout New Vegas on r/pics?
I had posted a comment on a picture on r/pics of a pet leech and as a JOKE I made a reference to the game Fallout New Vegas in witch there is a group know as the legion. The legion is based on the Roman empire in witch they had partake In putting people on crosses as a show of force and had done it to Jesus Christ caus...
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AITA Girlfriend of 5 years recently had feelings for a guy online for 2 weeks, Am I right to say to her its hurt me deep?
Hi reddit, So my girlfriend of 5 years has admitted to me tonight that she had feelings for about 2 weeks about a guy she frequently plays Call of Duty with. She told me she’s comfortable talking to him about her life problems etc and she suddenly realised how she felt and has been absolutely guilt ridden since. Could...
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AITA Dog poop left in a bag
Saw the neighbor bag his dog poop and leave it outside, I got in my car and went to ask if he planned to pick it up, he said he did on the way home. I told him no worries, and to have a good one. I threw away the poop, and again said to have a good one when he walked by, letting him know I threw it out. My GF w...
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{ "description": "refusing to be alone with my youngest sister even though it pains my elderly parents", "pronormative_score": 1, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for refusing to be alone with my youngest sister even though it pains my elderly parents?
So I have two sisters Evil Sis (ES) and Good Sis (GS). GS has charge of my father’s affairs. ES is very accomplished and quite pretty, like a brightly colored poisonous snake that you should never touch. She is also domineering, viciously fires off barbs about your flaws for the sake of ‘honesty’ and then cuts off fu...
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{ "description": "wanting to pursue law enforcement", "pronormative_score": 4, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for wanting to pursue law enforcement
I’ve never really thought about it too much until the past week. Due to an insane set of events in my house, I’ve started to work closely with the police and have been inspired to become an officer myself. Main reason is I want to be there for people and provide hope to those who otherwise can’t fix their situation. I ...
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OTHER
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{ "description": "pouring a drink on my mates girlfriend", "pronormative_score": 1, "contranormative_score": 6 }
AITA for pouring a drink on my mates girlfriend?
This happened a couple years or so ago, when I first met my mates girlfriend. The three of us were out with another mutual friend of ours, and we were all getting along well. We leave this club we're in and go to this small dinghy pub/club nearby. We chill there for a couple hours and at this point we're all pretty dru...
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AUTHOR
{ "RIGHT": 1, "WRONG": 6 }
WRONG
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{ "description": "wanting to keep lost cash", "pronormative_score": 1, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA for wanting to keep lost cash
One day I was working an early shift at a Walmart. It was about 5am and time for my break. I grabbed a snack and went to the self checkout and I happened to spot two twenty dollar bills stuck between the counters. I thought "Score!" And picked them up and showed the older woman tending the checkout area. (Probably in ...
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{ "description": "not inviting my boyfriend to a family dinner because my ex will be there", "pronormative_score": 6, "contranormative_score": 6 }
AITA for not inviting my boyfriend to a family dinner because my ex will be there?
This weekend my family is having dinner and they invited both me and my boyfriend. My brother who lives in another state will be there visiting. They also invited my ex. I have a child with him and this will be during his time. They have always really liked him. He used to work with my dad. My boyfriend however...
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{ "description": "not going to my 8 am college class", "pronormative_score": 9, "contranormative_score": 5 }
AITA for not going to my 8 AM college class?
Hey guys. So I take a heavy course load due to being a double major, and my schedule this semester consists of 2 biology classes, 2 chemistry classes, and an economics class. I don’t show up to my 8 AM biology class all that often, and this is the class I’m asking about. I have an “A” in the class, I pass the tests w...
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{ "description": "not wanting to do long-distance with my fiancée, and for wishing her mom would stop encouraging her to", "pronormative_score": 5, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for not wanting to do long-distance with my fiancée, and for wishing her mom would stop encouraging her to?
Backstory: She and I have been together for just over 3 years. We both graduated college 1.5 years ago. We both wanted to get out of this town immediately after graduating, but she had an opportunity to further her education just after graduation. We decided to stay for the extra year and a half, with the agreement tha...
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{ "description": "accidentally letting this go on", "pronormative_score": 2, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA for accidentally letting this go on? (Long Text Below)
First off, using a throwaway for obvious reasons. This is a bit of a rant, so prepare yourselves; A few years ago, when I was a freshman in High School, I found out a girl I was friends with had a crush on me. I told her (in more words) that I wasn't ready for a relationship yet, and she seemed to understand. A lit...
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AITA- My parents think I'm at fault for melting down?
Soooo, this is going to be a long one. The title is not very specific, I know. Also, English is not my native language, so please excuse any grammatical mistakes that may occur. Some information about me: I'm a 16 year old girl who is currently being tested for Autism Spectrum Disorder. The story began yesterday aft...
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{ "description": "sharing a subscribe to pewdiepie message with my fellow students", "pronormative_score": 5, "contranormative_score": 7 }
AITA for sharing a subscribe to pewdiepie message with my fellow students
This was back when the whole sub to pewdiepie thing was in full swing, and a buddy from boy scouts who was also in the same school district sent me a google doc over gmail with the title subscribe to pewdiepie on it. All it said was sub to pewdiepie, don’t let t-series win, share this with your friends. I sent it to ab...
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AUTHOR
{ "RIGHT": 5, "WRONG": 7 }
WRONG
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{ "description": "selling a car I got for a good price a few months after I got it", "pronormative_score": 1, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA if I sell a car I got for a good price a few months after I got it?
So my girlfriend's dad sold me his car. He gave me a good deal on it and I needed a car at the time so I took it. It's an impala and it's just a huge car. I wish I had something smaller especially since I park in parking garages and in the city sometimes so I was thinking about selling it. I got it for $6000 and it's w...
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{ "RIGHT": 1, "WRONG": 0 }
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{ "description": "trying to force my ex-wife to get an abortion", "pronormative_score": 8, "contranormative_score": 8 }
AITA for trying to force my ex-wife to get an abortion?
For simplicity ex-wife name is Janet and she is 7 months pregnant. Janet and I divorced couple months back while she was pregnant. Janet is "still" addicted to drinking day in and day out. When we found out she was pregnant I begged her to stop as it would harm the baby and would cause extreme disorders and addiction ...
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{ "RIGHT": 8, "WRONG": 8 }
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{ "description": "being mad at my ex roommate", "pronormative_score": 1, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA for being mad at my ex roommate
Context: we were friends for about a decade, from childhood til about a few months ago. We had always been close, working same jobs, hanging out a lot etc, but some months ago he asked me to move in with him because his previous roommate was bad at paying rent on time and just generally didn’t contribute to the house. ...
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OTHER
{ "RIGHT": 1, "WRONG": 1 }
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{ "description": "not wanting to meet my girlfriends ex", "pronormative_score": 14, "contranormative_score": 2 }
AITA for not wanting to meet my girlfriends ex
Here’s the scoop. My girlfriend went out with a guy a few years ago for about 9/10 months. In her words “they realised they just worked better as friends”. It ended up them becoming ‘best friends’ and have been on holidays and spent a lot of time together since. She made me aware of this early on and I didn’t have an...
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{ "description": "telling my friend's girlfriend that he has been cheating on her", "pronormative_score": 3, "contranormative_score": 3 }
AITA for telling my friend's girlfriend that he has been cheating on her?
Despite the fact that this happened several years ago now, I still feel like an asshole because of all of the drama that ensued from this event. So. I was out drinking with a friend. Let's call him M. M divulged that he had cheated on his girlfriend a few times with someone who lives in his hometown while he was visit...
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{ "description": "talking shit about my dad behind his back for giving off to me over nothing", "pronormative_score": 2, "contranormative_score": 2 }
AITA for talking shit about my dad behind his back for giving off to me over nothing?
My school friend is being a real dickbag lately for no reason and I told another friend what I think about it. When I told my dad, he flipped his shit. He was grilling me on how to be careful because it’s gonna escalate into a fight and he doesn’t want me getting expelled (my school are very serious on that) So I wen...
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WIBTA? Ruined a Group Project
First of all, Don't really know if this belongs here but I need to know if this is my fault. Here goes, I am in a group with 3 other people. We are making a poster board about Canada for our schools multicultural night. We really wanted to stand out so we decided to make a silhouette of the parliament building to sit o...
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{ "RIGHT": 2, "WRONG": 2 }
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{ "description": "telling a girl I barely know she's a psychopath", "pronormative_score": 3, "contranormative_score": 3 }
AITA for telling a girl i barely know she's A psychopath?
I met this girl 10 days ago in the hostel I'm staying at. She directly acted like she was very into me, over the next few days she kept messaging me, wanted to hangout together all the time, hugging me, kissing me on the cheek, the kind of physical proximity you do not show to a total stranger for no reason. It was go...
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{ "RIGHT": 3, "WRONG": 3 }
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{ "description": "scolding my mother for being so messy", "pronormative_score": 1, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA for scolding my mother for being so messy?
A bit of backstory, I live with my mother full-time now, because she has a neurological condition that affects her motor skills and vision, among other things. Due to this, doing basic tasks, such as eating, can be a challenge for her. When I leave for work in the evening, I leave a plate of food for her on the table t...
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{ "description": "thinking bad about my friend for talking with my boyfriend and talking to him all through 6th period", "pronormative_score": 0, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA after thinking bad about my friend for talking with my boyfriend and talking to him all through 6th period?
My friend (who I’ll call Yuri bc that’s her nickname) was talking to my boyfriend (who’ll I’ll call mc) and did a list of things 1. She did the stupid “which one tickles the most” thing on his hand 2. Various “magic” tricks 3. Arm wrestle (probably an excuse to hold his hand) And this one took the cake 4. Laid on his a...
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{ "description": "wanting to break up with my 'girlfriend' and start seeing other people", "pronormative_score": 5, "contranormative_score": 3 }
AITA for wanting to break up with my ‘girlfriend’ and start seeing other people?
I know it looks bad that I put the word girlfriend in quotation marks but bear with me for a second. My ‘girlfriend’ and I have only been together for a few months and unfortunately I think it was a few months too many. We met over the fact we both shared an interest of writing stories with fictional cha...
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