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{ "description": "wanting death for wwii veteran", "pronormative_score": 6, "contranormative_score": 2 }
AITA for wanting death for WWII veteran?
My grandfather served in WWII and will be 100 this year. For the last few years as a family we have been looking forward to celebrating his 100th birthday. Although he didn't single-handedly slay every Nazi he was still my childhood hero. Unfortunately he has had a few health issues over the last few years so he is p...
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{ "description": "being upset my boyfriend chose to out this evening", "pronormative_score": 6, "contranormative_score": 3 }
AITA for being upset my boyfriend chose to out this evening?
TLDR at the bottom. So I feel the need to take this to reddit because I've been having quite the mental health crisis recently and seem to be incapable of thinking rationally at the moment and the other people in my life only seem to be telling me what I want to hear at the moment. Boyfriend has done his best to sup...
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{ "description": "not wanting one of the captains on my team to be a captain again next year", "pronormative_score": 2, "contranormative_score": 2 }
AITA: if I don't want one of the captains on my team to be a captain again next year?
I am a captain of the basketball club team at a university in the east coast. Our club team has 4 captain's, where 1 captain is the "main captain." This person does most of the work for the team, in practice and off practice. This person happens to be me. One of the other 3 captains still has one more year left, but i ...
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{ "description": "asking who is hotter on reddit", "pronormative_score": 5, "contranormative_score": 6 }
AITA For asking who is hotter on reddit?
This is gonna be short So I was spending the night with a few of my mates and we start talking. One of them let’s call him joe says that Jennifer Lawrence is the hottest person he has ever seen. Now I get that she is very successful and made herself famous and I do respect her but I said she’s not as hot as Kate Upto...
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{ "description": "accusing my brother of stealing", "pronormative_score": 3, "contranormative_score": 6 }
AITA for accusing my brother of stealing?
This happened maybe twenty minutes ago, i have a tip jar dedicated to all the tips i have saved up over the past year and had a decent amount of it rolled. I checked my jar to find a sizeable chunk taken out of it and almost all of my rolled quarters done. My first thought was that my brother did it. Now, there are on...
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{ "description": "calling myself a Christian", "pronormative_score": 4, "contranormative_score": 4 }
WIBTA if I call myself a Christian?
So a little background on me, I was raised in the Evangelical church and went to Bible college and I’m pretty darn educated when it comes to theology. But I lost faith after studying it deeply enough. I stopped believing in God quite a long time ago. I don’t believe in the religious/metaphysical aspects of Christianity...
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{ "description": "watching Harry Potter", "pronormative_score": 8, "contranormative_score": 4 }
AITA for watching Harry Potter?
Me [M19] and my girlfriend [F19] have this thing we do where we pick out different move series that we watch in case we have nothing planned for the days that we hang out. Harry Potter is our 3rd movie series that we decided to watch because I had never seen the Harry Potter movies and she had seen them multiple times ...
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{ "description": "asking the dealer for the part I paid for back", "pronormative_score": 2, "contranormative_score": 3 }
AITA for asking the dealer for the part i paid for back?
i purchased a very unique car. the car wasn't perfect, it had a mechanical problem, which was fine. I was willing to have it fixed if it was. the dealer told me there was nothing wrong with the car, and that's just how high-end sports cars drive. when i said ill buy the car if the dealer would look into the the issue. ...
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{ "description": "being upset at my friend who does not take her medication", "pronormative_score": 1, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA for being upset at my friend who does not take her medication?
Backstory; I've known this girl for a few years now. We dated for a year, broke up, but are still good friends. She has struggled with Borderline Personality Disorder, depression, and anxiety for as long as I've known her. She has been hospitalized previously, and has struggled with self-harm. So for as long as I've k...
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{ "description": "feeling embarrassed when walking next to my mother outside while she's dressed as a hobo", "pronormative_score": 1, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA For feeling embarrassed when walking next to my mother outside while she's dressed as a hobo?
My mother has been suffering from depression and has really let herself go in many ways both emotionally and physical so she doesn't really care what she looks like anymore. Am I the asshole for feeling such way?
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{ "description": "not wanting to learn to deal with my roommates cats", "pronormative_score": 2, "contranormative_score": 3 }
AITA For not wanting to learn to deal with my roommates cats?
Since moving in with this girl we've had issues with both of her animals. The first after four months of fighting us she dealt with kind of. Her male cat gets in the trash, on our shelf in the pantry, and was aggressive to my chihuahua to who is half the size of her fat lard cat. She numerous times implied the issue w...
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{ "description": "wearing a sports bra out of the fitting room", "pronormative_score": 8, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for wearing a sports bra out of the fitting room?
Yesterday my mom took me shopping. I tried on some dresses and left some shirts in her cart. When I decided which dresses I wanted I put on some sweats and a sports bra to go get the shirts to try on. My mom got upset and told me I shouldn’t expose my sports bra in case men or children were watching. My reasoning was...
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{ "description": "not reaching out to my grandparents", "pronormative_score": 6, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA for not reaching out to my grandparents?
Some context here - I’ve generally had a good relationship with my grandparents throughout my life. I love on the other side of the country, work a lot, but still would make time to call them semi-regularly. Typically once a month or every other month. With that said, conversations started getting a little tense. Que...
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{ "description": "asking my friends to get me a birthday gift", "pronormative_score": 1, "contranormative_score": 1 }
WIBTA if I asked my friends to get me a birthday gift?
CONTEXT: I'm still part of a pretty large group of friends from high school that organise gifts for everyone on their birthdays. Usually a separate group chat is made and we all end up chipping in around $10-20 each. I'm always included in those and have chipped in for every person for the past few years. This year I ...
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AITA my "friend" hates me for ruining his dream
So some before knowledge you need to know, this person is MANIPULATIVE. People pity him so much they HAVE to be friends with them. So this part of the story happened like a month ago ill call my 'friend' chad. So we are really good fake 'friends' right. And so what happens is that chad asks "hey starpastels what do you...
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{ "description": "talking about race with the lady at a pretzel stand", "pronormative_score": 6, "contranormative_score": 4 }
AITA for talking about race with the lady at a pretzel stand
Okay so I am a young female and I am at the local mall purchasing a soft pretzel yesterday. I am making polite conversation with the young girl at the cash register. We each ask each other how our days are going. I notice that her name tag says “GG”. I ask her if GG is short for something. She’s says yes it’s ____ it’s...
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{ "description": "yelling at the lady holding up a car line", "pronormative_score": 3, "contranormative_score": 3 }
AITA for yelling at the lady holding up a car line?
At my school there is a car line (like most). Today there was a lady waiting in the middle of the line for her kid to walk out of the school, completely holding me and multiple other people up for around 7 minutes as we weren’t able to pass her. When I passed her I yelled “No Parking” as there was literally a sign ri...
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{ "description": "ghosting a friend of 3 years for being obsessive over my relationship with my boyfriend", "pronormative_score": 2, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for ghosting a friend of 3 years for being obsessive over my relationship with my boyfriend?
we met in high school when I was a freshman and she was a senior. we were both in theater and we kinda just clicked, she saw herself in me and was very supportive and a kind gal. we didn’t really hang out outside of school other than a small party she had last year (or maybe the year before, not sure). about 6 months ...
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{ "description": "being upset at my brother for buying a laptop while owing others money", "pronormative_score": 2, "contranormative_score": 8 }
AITA for being upset at my brother for buying a laptop while owing others money?
Some context so this makes more sense. My eldest brother is almost 30. He graduated from a rather good university a few years back but it's been difficult to find a well-paying starting job even for his level of education. As such, he's been settling for temporary jobs such as administration work, etc. However, recen...
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{ "description": "sleeping with my best-friends other best-friend", "pronormative_score": 3, "contranormative_score": 3 }
AITA for sleeping with my best-friends other best-friend?
Ok so for a bit of context, I’m on schoolies with my best-friend, she is 18F and I am 17M. Here in Australia, we have a yearly celebration called “schoolies” where everyone who finishes highschool goes a town or city to celebrate their 13 years of schooling. This week of fun is usually fuelled by a lot of sex, drinks a...
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{ "description": "telling my friend to not talk over other people", "pronormative_score": 1, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA for telling my friend to not talk over other people?
So the situation is me and two friends, Sebastian and Jessica. They’re watching a movie and while I join in I ask a question about the movie. Any of them could have answered, but Jessica answers first. Sebastian quickly loudly speaks over Jessica just seconds after she start talking. This makes me bust out “Hold on, I ...
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{ "description": "not being friends with him anymore", "pronormative_score": 2, "contranormative_score": 2 }
AITA for not being friends with him anymore?
Okay so at the beginning of the year my best friend let me borrow some cash about 120 bucks with promis to pay him back which I had full intention to. Then I lost my job and my mom need to borrow 600 dollars the last of my money that I had. He understood that and we made a deal that I would pay him back when I had gott...
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{ "description": "thinking wanting my so to save more money", "pronormative_score": 2, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA for thinking wanting my SO to save more money?
(This is a throwaway account etc.) This is about saving a bit more money to comfortably cover solicitor fees, moving fees, new stuff for the house, etc. Some background: My SO and I have been together for a few years and we're in the process of buying a house. We're both around 30 years old. My SO is contributing mor...
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{ "description": "not showing my gf enough attention or attention", "pronormative_score": 3, "contranormative_score": 2 }
AITA for not showing my gf enough attention or attention?
My girlfriend is a home maker, I work and go to school full-time, so I am always studying, working or sleeping. On occasion I take my girlfriend on dates (every month or so), I also make sure she has everything at home, such as, food, water, and personal items. I am not a very affectionate person but I try to show I ca...
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{ "description": "not giving a shit about my coworkers feelings", "pronormative_score": 2, "contranormative_score": 3 }
AITA for not giving a shit about my coworkers feelings?
AITA for being "snappy/disrespectful" to a racist coworker? TL;DR at the bottom and sorry for it being so long Also sorry if the format is weird or there are grammar errors I am on mobile and English was never my best subject. I should probably mention were both shift managers and I was the manager on shift tonight...
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{ "description": "laughing at people featured in vids posted on publicfreekout", "pronormative_score": 3, "contranormative_score": 3 }
AITA for laughing at people featured in vids posted on publicfreekout?
I just watched one of a guy trying to get run over while repeatedly saying that he is in the midst of a mental breakdown, and laughed my ass off at the video. Then I realized that the individual in that video was likely having a really shit day and the video likely captured one of his lowest/saddest moments. Now I feel...
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{ "description": "drinking at a friend get together and not being able to make it back", "pronormative_score": 2, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for drinking at a friend get together and not being able to make it back?
I went to hang out with a few friends across town. My buddy drove us and we planned on taking an Uber back as we were both going to be drinking. It comes to 1 am and we can’t find an Uber or a Lyft. My girlfriend is mad about this fact. I don’t know what I was supposed to do. I’ve never had a single problem finding a L...
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{ "description": "warning my mentally disable friend about cops", "pronormative_score": 3, "contranormative_score": 2 }
AITA For warning my mentally disable friend about cops
My friend has a trouble speaking and understanding things, he also has a habit to run away from home just cause. We were walking into the store and he saw a cop. He wanted to go talk to him but I didn't the that one so I didn't know the temperament of the cop so I told him it's not the best idea. In the store I quietly...
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{ "description": "going against my best friend for not telling me about my then girlfriend's plans", "pronormative_score": 3, "contranormative_score": 3 }
AITA for going against my Best friend for not telling me about my then girlfriend's plans?
Please read the full text before judging. There is a lot more that a simple title can't say. It's my first time doing a AITA but I'll try to answer all the questions you might have. And I will take your comments seriously if IATA. ​ So this all started early summer of 2017, so a year and a half ago. I wa...
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{ "description": "going to a formal event with a girl to meet other girls", "pronormative_score": 0, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA For going to a formal event with a girl to meet other girls?
I am a sophomore in college and recently a girl invited me to be her date at a formal even at a sorority party on campus. I don’t know this girl super well, we met through a mutual friends and we have a class together. She’s nice and and all but I’m just not interested in being in a relationship with her. Regardless, I...
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AITA - boyfriend refuses to kiss me until he unilaterally decides after an extensive amount of time when i have a cold sore
Ok, first time poster here and posting via mobile Here's the deal. I get cold sores aka I have herpes. I'm 28. I've had it my whole life ever since I can remember ( I didn't make a bad decision or recklessly get one). I've been in many long term relationships (3+ years in length) and NEVER have I given it to any of my...
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{ "description": "starting a business that is exactly the same as my friend", "pronormative_score": 4, "contranormative_score": 0 }
WIBTA if I start a business that is exactly the same as my friend?
Hi, first time posting on this sub, tl;dr below. *dlc = downloadable content Let's give you guys little context here, I've been selling in game items for a specific game for a while now, and i met someone selling game codes ( dlc's and stuff's, instead of in game items) for the same game, and it's not really a big de...
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{ "description": "ending a 15-year friendship over one event 5 years ago", "pronormative_score": 2, "contranormative_score": 3 }
WIBTA for ending a 15-year friendship over one event 5 years ago?
So background, I have a hard time understanding relationships of any kind. It has gotten better over the years, but navigating social situations does not come to me easily. ​ So for the situation. My ex-friend C and I have been friends since high school. But I recently have only considered to drop all cont...
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{ "description": "pinching my sister in the traps", "pronormative_score": 1, "contranormative_score": 6 }
AITA for pinching my sister in the traps (trapezius muscle)
As I was waiting for my truck to warm up to get food, I suddenly see my dog out on the road. He was close to being run over and I was able to quickly grab him and put him in the backyard. I noticed that my sister took him out to the washroom by himself and left the backyard gate open. She was already upstairs and had t...
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{ "description": "expecting my parents to help more than burden with my kids", "pronormative_score": 2, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for expecting my parents to help more than burden with my kids?
AITA for wanting my mom to pick up and drop off my kids when she wants to see them? She lives 45 mins away and her demands for what we need to bring to her for her convenience has gotten of hand. She claims it's important to spend time with my kids, but wants to put zero effort in the leg work. It's become more of a bu...
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{ "description": "blocking all communication with someone I called a friend", "pronormative_score": 0, "contranormative_score": 2 }
AITA For blocking all communication with someone I called a friend?
So me and a few friends have a discord serer that we all use to just hang out and game. but about a week ago a few of my friends (they don't know each other irl) Got into a fight. I don't know exactly what happened ( I wasn't there) but when I jumped into the conversation it seemed that they had worked their problems ...
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{ "description": "not driving carefully enough for my great grandma", "pronormative_score": 0, "contranormative_score": 8 }
AITA for not driving carefully enough for my great grandma?
Today, my (17M) great grandma rode with me for the first time in a couple months. She started bitching, as usual, about me taking corners too fast and just generally going too fast. Yeh thing that really pushed her over the edge was when I drove through 2 empty parking spots between parked cars to get to the other side...
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{ "description": "wanting to explain", "pronormative_score": 2, "contranormative_score": 2 }
WIBTA for wanting to explain
My ex and I dated a long time (like 7 years) and then my ex broke up with me unexpectedly. I was upset during it but we remained friends after still. Sometime later my ex wanted to get back with me but I didn't really want to, but being friends was ok, sometimes my ex would push boundaries a bit and I'd not stop them ...
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{ "description": "being frustrated that my GF won't seek mental health help", "pronormative_score": 5, "contranormative_score": 3 }
AITA for being frustrated that my GF won't seek mental health help?
My girlfriend and I have been together for 5 years now. She had depression, but she goes through good times and bad like always. Recently though she is hitt 25 years old and feels like she should have stuff figured out. She doesn't at all. I work in a very stressful job (emergency medicine) and see a lot of mental hea...
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{ "description": "accidentally getting my coworker/friend in trouble", "pronormative_score": 2, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for accidentally getting my coworker/friend in trouble?
I work in a print shop in my colleges union. There are about ten employees all students, and one manager who's an older guy, He's rather lazy and hates having to do anything more than he has to. There is almost always only two of us and our manager working at rather sporadic shifts around classes. A lot of our orders c...
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{ "description": "standing a girl up", "pronormative_score": 0, "contranormative_score": 2 }
AITA for standing a girl up?
So a few weeks ago I met a girl on a dating app. We were talking a little bit and I asked her out and she said yes. She didnt really respond to my texts that much so I really didnt even get a chance to talk to her much. When the day came around I messaged her again and asked if we were still on. She said she totally fo...
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{ "description": "refusing to sell to someone because they didn't follow my sale rules even if they we're probably pointless", "pronormative_score": 2, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA for refusing to sell to someone because they didn't follow my sale rules even if they we're probably pointless?
okay, for some context, i am a freelance artist who mostly works off of Deviantart (it's not the prettiest place to work, but at this point i'm used to it) and i wanted to make some adoptable characters over the span of thanksgiving break and Christmas break, as the school i work at wouldn't have work, since of course ...
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{ "description": "breaking up with a depressed \"friend\"", "pronormative_score": 0, "contranormative_score": 4 }
AITA for breaking up with a depressed “friend”?
Sorry in advance for any formatting problems, I’m on mobile. TL;DR at the bottom Early in the school year, a friend of mine told me that she a guy was watching her. With her permission, I befriended the guy so I could talk to him about her. It was a success. But he still thought himself my friend after. I know he h...
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{ "description": "reporting a classmate's rape, but for selfish reasons", "pronormative_score": 3, "contranormative_score": 3 }
AITA for reporting a classmate‘s rape, but for selfish reasons
In high school a now former friend, Alice (Junior), confided in me (sophomore) that her father raped her when she was little. Alice also told me her mom knew and didn’t do anything about it. Btw Alice was 16 when she told me, and I was 15. Fast forward almost a year and our friendship fell apart. We grew closer wit...
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{ "description": "not caring if people think I'm the asshole", "pronormative_score": 2, "contranormative_score": 2 }
AITA for not caring if people think I’m the asshole?
Having an existential moment here boys.
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{ "description": "telling a friends parents about her new cocaine habit", "pronormative_score": 2, "contranormative_score": 2 }
WIBTA to tell a friends parents about her new cocaine habit?
A friend of mine recently started doing cocaine. She's in her mid twenties. I've had a lot of friends do coke of the years, and generally it's not a major issue, they do it once every while at big parties and such. That's how this particular friend started as well a few months ago. But I've had a few friends who have c...
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{ "description": "giving my 14 year old cousin wasabi without telling her what it was first", "pronormative_score": 2, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA for giving my 14 year old cousin wasabi without telling her what it was first?
I really like wasabi, I put it on things people probably shouldn't put it on (like hot dogs.) So, we were having a family meal with my grandma and a couple of cousins and I put some wasabi on my plate to have with dinner. My one cousin, let's call her Amy, is a very adventurous kid. She likes to be included in every...
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{ "description": "talking people friendly on social media", "pronormative_score": 3, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for talking people friendly on social media
I am living abroad and I have a long distance relationship with my gf. I use twitter actively and sometimes I talk with people with a friendly behavior. I don't have much friends in here to go out casually. Last semester there was this girl I know from my home city, i barely knew her (we've met a few times) and she w...
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{ "description": "asking my boyfriend if he thought we wouldn't be together more than 6 months when he told me he'd rather get a 6 month lease than a year long lease", "pronormative_score": 2, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA for asking my boyfriend (M24) if he thought we wouldn't be together more than 6 months when he told me (F24) he'd rather get a 6 month lease than a year long lease
As a female (24), I feel like I don't want to be labeled as crazy. My boyfriend (also 24) wanted to get a 6 month lease instead of a longer lease when we rent an apartment and move in together for the first time, and I asked him if it was because he thought we might not be together longer than 6 months and told him I'd...
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AITA My friend made me uncomfertable
I had a close friend named Juliet (not real name). We were just talking and sexuality came up in just your standard straight male nothing interesting. She kept saying "you dont know if you're not gay." This made me uncomfertable so I didn't talk to her when I confronted her about it. I wanted to say she had no place sa...
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{ "description": "losing a usb key that is not mine", "pronormative_score": 4, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for losing a USB key that is not mine?
So today, I was on the train and I found a usb key. So I took it and thought: "I'm going to see if I can find the name of the owner and try to give it back to him" . So I used a PC at school to look for the name and I found it. She is a student in a city next to where I live and she had some potentially important files...
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AITA for apparently acting hyper-competitive?
I'm (F/22) currently taking a stressful, extremely competitive and intensive 5 week summer course at university. In this class, there's another student from my department, Ann (F/30+). I've clashed with Ann twice. First was when Ann overheard a student in our class talking to the professor. He said that he did poorly...
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{ "description": "asking for nudes when she said she was ok with it", "pronormative_score": 4, "contranormative_score": 3 }
AITA for asking for nudes when she said she was ok with it?
Asked nudes from girlfriend of 3 years she said she was ok with it I constantly ask her if she was ok with it and she says she is then suddenly when we are both on separate holidays she breaks up saying I can get a better girlfriend then a mutual friend says she actually broke up cause I constantly asked for nudes when...
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{ "description": "not wanting my son to talk to his dad every night son is with me", "pronormative_score": 18, "contranormative_score": 2 }
AITA for not wanting my son to talk to his dad every night son is with me?
Tldr: dad wants phone call every night son is with me but some nights I don't feel like it and I dont want to encourage son on nights he doesn't feel like it. Background: My ex and I coparent very well for the most part. I have our son 4 nights out of the week. His father wants to talk to him each of those nights. Som...
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{ "description": "causing a scene to get the heat off my sister", "pronormative_score": 2, "contranormative_score": 2 }
AITA for causing a scene to get the heat off my sister?
It's Thanksgiving and my little sister (17) and I (21) are hanging out most of the day. We both smoke weed, so after dinner we "take a walk" around the corner. We get back and my older sisters circle the kid and go full mom mode on her. "You're our responsibility!" "you need to think about your actions!" and the like. ...
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{ "description": "during the last Text Conversation I had with an ex girlfriend", "pronormative_score": 3, "contranormative_score": 3 }
AITA during the Last Text Conversation I had with an ex girlfriend?
(To preface this conversation: She asked for a break, later wanted to get back with me, I said no and regret that decision, didn't give her the distance because I wanted to fix my mistakes with her. We also work together and she told me that she fell out of love and has feelings for another coworker. I've been a heap o...
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{ "description": "using my dad's car", "pronormative_score": 0, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA for using my dad's car?
My (20) dad has always claimed me on his taxes while my mom claimed my sister (19). I always looked up to my dad while my sister usually comes by when she wants something. He has a better job than my mom and has had a better career overall than my mom. I would always hang out with my dad every opportunity I got. I got ...
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{ "description": "wanting someone to stop using my \"product\" to make money", "pronormative_score": 1, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA If I want someone to stop using my "product" to make money
I run a theme park and this girl always films the park and interacts with the characters and they get a decent amount of views and she makes money from it. I don't want to ruin her time but I also feel uncomfortable and some of the actors as well have felt weird about being used this way. The park is bigger than I am m...
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{ "description": "not going in to work tomorrow", "pronormative_score": 2, "contranormative_score": 2 }
WIBTA If I didn't go in to work tomorrow?
So a few weeks ago I went to a concert and had requested off 2 months in advanced and came into work the day before the concert only to find out I didn't work that day but the next day (the night of the concert). It ended up working out though because the coworker who was supposed to work that night was sick so we ju...
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{ "description": "going over my \"manager's\" head", "pronormative_score": 1, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA for going over my "manager's" head?
This might be a long post because I'm covering two years of a relationship with a co worker, so I'll try to keep it as brief as possible. Thank you to those who stick with me because I really need some perspective. ​ I've worked at my job for a little over two years now. I have two co workers who are in a...
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{ "description": "being annoyed with my roommate for not dealing with a mouse in the apartment", "pronormative_score": 1, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA for being annoyed with my roommate for not dealing with a mouse in the apartment?
This just happened, and I’m being yelled at for it, just wanna check in with y’all. I live in a major city in an apartment...I go off to a friends house up the street and get a frantic call from my roommate who is hollering and having damn near a panic attack about a mouse in the apartment (First one I ever heard of ...
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{ "description": "wanting my current roommate to help with debt I accumulated because he was late on moving in be a few months", "pronormative_score": 3, "contranormative_score": 2 }
AITA for wanting my current roommate to help with debt I accumulated because he was late on moving in be a few months.
For starters I broke up with my ex early last year. We agreed to replace him on the lease so he could leave, and I could have his portion of rent covered. I do not make enough to cover the expenses alone. I work full time without much downtime. This was supposed to be a two month arrangement. My friend agrees to be my ...
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{ "description": "telling a girl that likes me that I'm interested her friend", "pronormative_score": 4, "contranormative_score": 3 }
WIBTA for telling a girl that likes me that I’m interested her friend?
So this girl has been making it pretty obvious that she’s into me but I don’t feel the same way towards her. Would I be the asshole if I told her that I think her friend is pretty? I feel like I would be but I just wanted to get a second opinion.
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{ "description": "quitting on my boss when the job made me miserable and she was a huge part of it", "pronormative_score": 2, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for quitting on my boss when the job made me miserable and she was a huge part of it
Today, after months of actually wanting to leave, quit on my boss. I worked at a franchised liquor store, working part time but eventually became full time because my boss wanted it that way. I went from working weekends to 5 sometimes 6 days a week. I worked two jobs, one there at the store, another working for my mom...
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{ "description": "humiliating my little brother online when he continuously tries to pull the same thing to me", "pronormative_score": 6, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA for humiliating my little brother online when he continuously tries to pull the same thing to me.
Sometimes my little brother would say into my mic over discord stuff to try to embarrass me that are untrue. I don’t get particularly mad at him when he does it to me so I thought he would also think the same when I do it to him. So over his mic in fortnite I said “STOP RUNNING AROUND THE HOUSE NAKED” and he burst into...
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{ "description": "not telling my teacher about a question she missed while grading my test", "pronormative_score": 6, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA for not telling my teacher about a question she missed while grading my test?
This happened earlier today. I was taking a Spanish test and there was a word I had to translate from Spanish to English. I couldn't remember the word so I skipped over it thinking one missed answer won't ruin the test. I finished a few minutes later and handed it in, but after I got it back graded I had 43/45 question...
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{ "description": "not wanting to work together with someone going through mental issues", "pronormative_score": 3, "contranormative_score": 4 }
AITA for not wanting to work together with someone going through mental issues?
I'm a lawyer that works at a small law firm (<10 lawyers, couple paralegals, couple accountants.) Because we're so small most of us are acquaintances if not good friends. One of our guys, let's call him John, has a myriad of mental disorders ranging from schizophrenia to depression and sometimes doesn't show up f...
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{ "description": "getting (internally) upset that my new ladyfriend (1 month) told me she doesnt want to go out on friday and just wants to stay in an fuck", "pronormative_score": 4, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA For getting (internally) upset that my new ladyfriend (1 month) told me she doesnt want to go out on friday and just wants to stay in an fuck?
Yeah Yeah Yeah, I know. But we've been going out for 4 weeks and she is at least two points out of my league. Things have been going stellar. We had a big heart-to-heart that seemed to sweep away lot of the messy initial dating debris and all was sexy sweet. Just before she left tonight, she said she doesn't want to go...
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{ "description": "road raging", "pronormative_score": 1, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA for road raging?
I moved to a new house on a street that is used as a shortcut to the freeway. Its an old and low income neighborhood and its pretty obvious when people actually live here or are just driving through. There are 3 parks and an elementary school within 200 yards of my house, so there's a lot of foot traffic (dog walkers, ...
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{ "description": "not wanting to sleep at my girlfriend's house", "pronormative_score": 8, "contranormative_score": 2 }
Aita for not wanting to sleep at my girlfriend's house
Okay, so I stay at my girlfriend's house 2-3 nights a week, it was fine at first. The issue is she has 2 cats that have no boundaries and do not listen at all. I wake up at minimum 3-4 times a night with a cat literally on my face, sneezing on my face, or digging it's claws into part of me. We can't lock the cats out...
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{ "description": "not going to the hospital with my mum", "pronormative_score": 2, "contranormative_score": 3 }
AITA for not going to the hospital with my mum ?
So a couple days ago my mother complained about severe pain in her side out of no where so we called an ambulance and I spent 6 hours in the a e with her for them to find nothing. Here's some laxatives hope you feel better. 2 days later today she called me that she wanted to go to another hopsital further away in the m...
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{ "description": "telling him that I thought the people at his church were really weird", "pronormative_score": 8, "contranormative_score": 4 }
AITA for telling him that I thought the people at his church were really weird?
I’m not religious. My family is Catholic and when I was little we would sometimes go to church, but eventually we just stopped. All I remember is a lot of standing, then kneeling, then sitting, and basically just repeating that. When my boyfriend asked me to come with him to his church I figured why not, it couldn’t...
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{ "description": "thinking my flatmate is a spoiled brat that's way too attached to her mother", "pronormative_score": 1, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for thinking my flatmate is a spoiled brat that's way too attached to her mother?
Not sure if this is the correct place to post, if not please give me directions. I share a flat with three other people. I want to talk about one of my flatmates. I don't want to sound mean about it, but she seems like a spoiled, privileged kid. During the start of out rent, when everybody moved in, I already knew th...
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AITA For getting in a fight with my Ex-best friend because he was self harming himself over my Ex-girlfriend
Bit of background My friend, lets call him Jamal, had just moved to town and within this year of school we quickly became very good friends. around a month after i met him me and my serious girlfriend of nearly a year had broken up. Me and her had a semi toxic relationship but we were still very good friends du...
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{ "description": "ignoring my dad all day after he made an offensive joke", "pronormative_score": 4, "contranormative_score": 7 }
AITA for ignoring my dad all day after he made an offensive joke?
This morning, as I was getting ready to head to school, I was in a rush to pack everything up and make it on time. Computer, notebook, iPad, everything. As I was headed for the door my mother asked me if I had everything, and listed off the things I needed, to which I replied “yes” to all of them. Then as I turned ...
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{ "description": "unexpectedly quitting job post-baby and being pissed that husband never helps", "pronormative_score": 3, "contranormative_score": 2 }
AITA for unexpectedly quitting job post-baby and being pissed that husband never helps?
AITA for not returning to work after maternity leave despite planning to and leaving my husband to be sole provider unexpectedly? I have fairly severe postpartum depression and anxiety that I can’t afford treatment for (I could if I went to work, but my symptoms would be 10x worse, so I can’t win there...). My husband...
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{ "description": "canceling a casual plan at 7 after finding out they had separate plans at 830", "pronormative_score": 2, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA for canceling a casual plan at 7 after finding out they had separate plans at 830?
For fairness' sake I'll give their perspective first: - They had 830 plans but still wanted to hang out. - They wanted to start earlier than usual to give everyone a good chunk of time. - They said they were available "early evening-ish" and solidified the plan at 530 - Their friends weren't ready until 7. Then t...
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{ "description": "neglecting to help my girlfriend with her mental health issues in order to stop triggering my own mental health issues", "pronormative_score": 6, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for neglecting to help my girlfriend with her mental health issues in order to stop triggering my own mental health issues?
My girlfriend has severe anxiety and its causing serious strain on my mental health. I suffer from depression and bipolar and am subject to episodes regularly. Recently she's started questioning if I still love her due to her anxiety and its really straining, it hurts a lot when she questions how I feel. Her questionin...
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{ "description": "not being annoyed about my parents not traveling halfway across the United States for my daughter's 1st birthday", "pronormative_score": 4, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for not being annoyed about my parents not traveling halfway across the United States for my daughter's 1st birthday?
From the top...Wife has scheduled the birthday party for memorial weekend (to provide for more time together, especially for those that have to travel). Incidentally parents are leaving for vacation to Italy, first time to Europe/out of country, the following weekend. Which they have been planning for probably 6+ month...
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{ "description": "complaining about the music that students play in the bus", "pronormative_score": 4, "contranormative_score": 3 }
AITA for complaining about the music that students play in the bus?
Here's some context. The university I attend provides transportation services for students who are interested. So, the students in my bus play loud music on the bus speakers, everyday during mornings and evenings. When one student gets off, the other uses the aux cord, and when that person gets off, the next student...
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{ "description": "losing attraction", "pronormative_score": 6, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA for losing attraction?
Hi first post so sorry if I mess up but its 2am and this is bothering me. I am 24(m) and I live with my gf (24) who is a wonderful woman who supports and cares me no matter what. We have been together for over 5 months and we even moved to Florida together. We are both just starting jobs and renting for now and we hav...
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{ "description": "denying my classmate my phone charger", "pronormative_score": 6, "contranormative_score": 1 }
WIBTA if I denied my classmate my phone charger?
My phone battery is kinda old and it depletes quickly (and leaks a bit even when I'm not using it). Because of this, I bring my phone charger to school every day and charge it during math class (right after lunch). A few days ago I was doing this. My phone was on 58% and if I charged it now I would definitely get home ...
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AITA? Brother is bi-polar with anxiety but treats my sis (17) and me (21m) like shit.
*full disclosure my username is just a username, I’m not an actual douche* So every time I (21m) come home from college, my brother (22m) verbally attacks my sister (17) and me. I can only assume he berated my sister 24/7 while I’m not there as well. He has some mental problems (disclosed in the title) that extend int...
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{ "description": "not getting out of my car for deliveries", "pronormative_score": 0, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA for not getting out of my car for deliveries?
So the deal is, part of my living arrangement is I get a discount on rent if I agree to work part-time (10-12hrs/wk) for my roommate's delivery business. This wasn't a spectacular deal for me, but I was desperate to find a place and it was this or live out of my car. I DO get paid about $4 per delivery, and am allowed ...
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{ "description": "wanting reciprocity", "pronormative_score": 4, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for wanting reciprocity?
So a little backstory. I’ve been dating this girl for about 5 months now. Everything was going well until about a week ago. Last week we had a date and everything seemed perfect until I arrived home from the date. That night she said that she was tired of me being “helpless and indecisive” and that she needed time to c...
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{ "description": "getting revenge on a girl who robbed me", "pronormative_score": 0, "contranormative_score": 4 }
AITA for getting revenge on a girl who robbed me? (Xposted from other AITA)
Sorry for the wall of text. This turned into a bit of a rant... I’m a person with typically no drama in my life so this whole situation was an out of this world experience for me. I (28f) have been friends with Slim (35m) for over a year now. He sells drugs low key (Ike 3 customers) and I never really cared cos he was...
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{ "description": "breaking up with my girlfriend of 10 months", "pronormative_score": 3, "contranormative_score": 2 }
AITA for breaking up with my girlfriend of 10 months
Tldr : broke up with a rebound that helped me through a rough time in my life with the reason “romantic feelings are gone”. The relationship started out in March and to be honest it was kind of a rebound. My dad passed away November and my girlfriend (ldr) at that time broke up with me on New Year’s Eve. Pretty deva...
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{ "description": "getting upset at my boyfriend for telling his parents I'm a heroin addict", "pronormative_score": 6, "contranormative_score": 6 }
AITA for getting upset at my boyfriend for telling his parents I'm a heroin addict?
A few months ago, I was admitted to hospital after a suspected overdose, which I can't remember. I do know that on this night, I tried a new medication (a non-benzodiazepine) for sleep and, according to some message logs, I redosed with this medication for some reason. The first thing I remember after this was waking u...
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{ "description": "telling my parents about fooling around with my step-sister over a will", "pronormative_score": 8, "contranormative_score": 1 }
WIBTA if I tell my parents about fooling around with my step-sister over a will?
My parents got divorced when I was very young. When I was 14 my dad got remarried to a woman with a daughter we’ll call Jane. Shortly after Jane and I had a brief physical relationship (yes, my step-sister). According to her we stopped fooling around because she turned 18 and I was still 15. Eventually I stopped sp...
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{ "description": "not wanting to be near my grandma's bf", "pronormative_score": 0, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA for not wanting to be near my grandma's Bf?
So my grandma's bf sucks. He constantly gets into fights with her, she asks for him to do anything and he groeans and moans. However he works and pays the bills (but he recently got fired for drinking on the job, although he got a new one within 3 weeks.) He and my mom got into a big ol fight over a year ago, on what i...
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{ "description": "considering calling animal control on my neighbors", "pronormative_score": 2, "contranormative_score": 4 }
AITA for considering calling animal control on my neighbors?
I'm in my last semester at university and living in an off-campus apartment. My neighbors upstairs own a dog, even though it's not allowed in the bylaws, but I don't think the apartment management company really cares. I absolutely adore dogs, and don't want them to have to give up their dog. What I do want them to do ...
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{ "description": "not stopping at an accident where a kid got hit", "pronormative_score": 8, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA For not stopping at an accident where a kid got hit?
So some backstory about me: I’m an 18 year old male living in Texas. I’m an Eagle Scout and active in martial arts. Both of these activities require me to know basic first aid and how to take control of a situation if need be. The story: The incident happened earlier today when I was picking up my younger brother f...
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{ "description": "wanting a £75 birthday present", "pronormative_score": 3, "contranormative_score": 2 }
AITA for wanting a £75 birthday present?
Basically it's my nineteenth birthday next month and for the last few months I've been telling my mum that all I want for my birthday is a microscope. It's mostly to help me with college (currently doing biology) and just cause I think they're cool. So about half an hour ago I sent her a link to a decent one from amazo...
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{ "description": "telling my friend I lost weight", "pronormative_score": 14, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA for telling my friend I lost weight?
This is kinda long but I think context matters. TL;DR at bottom.   My friend has always been overweight. I have been in fairly decent shape throughout our friendship, but have gained about 15 pounds in the past couple years. It kind of crept up on me and I didn’t realize it until a few months ago, when I we...
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{ "description": "being jealous", "pronormative_score": 6, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for being jealous?
I (46F) have had fibromyalgia my whole life; it started getting progressively worse about 10 years ago. I am in constant, excruciating pain for which my doctor will not give me anything stronger than ibuprofen (which is like taking Tic-Tacs). My sister (37F) recently ruptured a disc and is scheduled for surgery on Mond...
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{ "description": "borrowing money from my mom", "pronormative_score": 6, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA for borrowing money from my mom?
The past couple of months have been pretty rough and I’ve found myself short for rent/bills for the first time ever. I am 26 and have supported myself without help for 5 years. My father has passed and my mother lives with my brother. My mother is disabled because of a brain injury a year ago. She is still high fun...
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{ "description": "not letting a friend clean", "pronormative_score": 10, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for not letting a friend clean.
so im currently typing this 30 minutes after the argument has ended. (22F) I hosted a party at my parents house as they where on a holiday, they agreed to the party and i set it up. everyone comes we play sing star get drunk have a swim and just overall have a god time. most of the guys decide to crash here as I ...
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{ "description": "wanting to remain friends with a female friend that my GF does not trust", "pronormative_score": 8, "contranormative_score": 2 }
AITA for wanting to remain friends with a female friend that my GF does not trust?
I've been dating a girl, call her Abby, for a year and a half. We are getting pretty serious and there have been talks about our future and luge together. We love eachother. Just for a little more background, we are all in our mud twenties. I have a good friend, call her Sam, who I meet about 5 years ago. We have been...
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{ "description": "(Unknowingly) letting my Mother Injure Herself in the home? do I tell her about this 12 months later", "pronormative_score": 1, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA for (Unknowingly) Letting My Mother Injure Herself in the Home? Do I Tell her about this 12 months later?
Okay this might be a long one so I'll leave a tl;dr at the bottom. BACKSTORY: A couple of years ago my parents divorced - I didn't really care (yada yada yada we get the point). The KEY thing from this is that my dad was a lazy asshole and for 20-odd years my mum got used to having to do loads of stuff herself - garde...
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{ "description": "leaving after waiting on my friends", "pronormative_score": 2, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for leaving after waiting on my friends?
(preface this is my first AITA post) but pretty much 2 friends of mine, myself and an ex friend were going out to eat for the ex friends birthday. So I decided to come and show support, I ended u getting there a bit before them so I waited in my car and messaged them to see when they arrived. They responded "in a few...
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