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AITA?? Adult son doesn’t make time for Dad
Throw away account, because both son and hubby are on Reddit. It’s coming up to my husband’s milestone 50th birthday. Most men in his family have not lived past 51-69. He’s hyper aware that ( fact or not ) he may not live another decade. Our (young) adult son lives 3.5 hours away. He works 2 jobs. I’ve been plann...
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{ "description": "not wanting to pay for my gf's gym initiation fee", "pronormative_score": 4, "contranormative_score": 2 }
AITA - for not wanting to pay for my gf's gym initiation fee.
I've been spitballing the idea of going to a gym for a few months now and after a recent checkup I decided to finally go for it to try and lose some weight. The gym I had in mind has a pool, included classes, is close to me, and a few of my friends go there already. The downside is a $100 fee upfront and $25/month memb...
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{ "description": "not wanting to do chores anymore because my so is never satisfied", "pronormative_score": 3, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA for not wanting to do chores anymore because my SO is never satisfied?
Not much context needed I guess. She'll make a list of things to do, I'll do everything on it. She'll go off because it's not good enough in her eyes, essentially always redoing the chores I already did and then being mad/ignoring me the rest of the night. Told her I wouldn't do jack anymore since she'll get mad eit...
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{ "description": "doing caricatures of my friends", "pronormative_score": 1, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for doing caricatures of my friends
*TL;DR at the end* So I’m a 20 y/o student, and since last year I made like 4 friends and we always hang out with each other at uni. But this years things began to shift in my perception of two of my friends which I love dearly but I’m kinda fed up with their attitude.  **\\for context\\** It all began when I was...
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{ "description": "going out for drinks with friends", "pronormative_score": 2, "contranormative_score": 2 }
AITA for going out for drinks with friends?
My mom has been in AA for 10 years and my brother and I know that she has always been sensitive to us drinking. I am in second year uni so I have been away from home, and have completely distance myself from my family (I consider my partner and people who live in the town that I go to school in my family). My famil...
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{ "description": "taking money from my brothers PayPal? please read", "pronormative_score": 5, "contranormative_score": 5 }
AITA for taking money from my brothers PayPal? Please read.
I’ve loaned my brother about $400.00 in total over the last 6 months. He’s only paid back $200.00 of it and he’s never paid me when he said he would, but somehow can afford to eat out 3x a week and buy a new PS4 through Rent-A-Center. The other day, he left his laptop at my house because he had to run to town for a m...
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{ "description": "wanting to bail on my grandpa's 98th birthday lunch because I have morning sickness", "pronormative_score": 1, "contranormative_score": 4 }
AITA for wanting to bail on my grandpa’s 98th birthday lunch because I have morning sickness?
This happened yesterday. I haven’t been sleeping well lately and my toddler was going back to daycare for the first time in over a week so I’d finally be able to get some shit done and have a much needed nap. Yes I was planning on skipping lunch with grandpa and my family but I was planning on spending time with him o...
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{ "description": "refusing to go out with gf even though she would have paid", "pronormative_score": 3, "contranormative_score": 2 }
AITA for refusing to go out with gf even though she would have paid?
She was working yesterday and her parents left her a generous tip because they didnt have to pay for one thing, so they gave it as tip to my gf. She called on her way home if I wanted to go out and I said I would think about it till she got home and I could already tell that she was kinda disappointed by that. So she...
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{ "description": "calling out someone for claiming to be gay despite them pursuing relationships with the opposite sex", "pronormative_score": 4, "contranormative_score": 3 }
AITA for calling out someone for claiming to be gay despite them pursuing relationships with the opposite sex?
I'm going to cut this looooooong story incredibly short. A woman asked me on a date, we slept together multiple times. We ended up staying friends for a time, and she talked about her love for a male friend. She regularly sleeps with men, and openly pursues them. She claims to our mutual friends and to anyone she can...
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Aita- extra curricular
This is a rewrite since my first one had tmi. I have been diagnosed with depression and low functioning anxiety but this was after me, yes I will admit, overbooking myself. From many outside opinions- adult and kids- they(show choir) are very, very intense and adamant about winning and having it be your number one prio...
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{ "description": "being upset/taking action with friend who stole my f packages that I sent to her house", "pronormative_score": 1, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA for being upset/taking action with friend (f16) who stole my f(17) packages that i sent to her house.
hey guys, I'll make this as short as possible. My parents are weird about me sending stuff via. mail sometimes, so i asked my very close friend if it was okay to send it to hers. we're with eachother most of the school day, and we're in the same grade. note that she is one month pregnant, and her parents (father & ...
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{ "description": "telling my friend I didn't want to watch tv with her", "pronormative_score": 2, "contranormative_score": 2 }
AITA because I told my friend I didn’t want to watch TV with her?
I live with my best friend and my partner, I’ve recently broken my ankle and can’t move around very well and after being pretty active this is an incredibly stressful and frustrating time for me. I’ve told my friends that not only am I going through this and it’s completely not their fault if I’m pissy, but I have bip...
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{ "description": "not donating blood", "pronormative_score": 20, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for not donating blood?
Hey guys. Nothing too serious here, I’ve just always been curious about what other people think about this. I know a lot of people donate blood. Blood is of course a vital resource for hospitals to have. I’ve never gone out of my way to donate. While many people don’t, here’s my reasoning: My blood type is AB+. To t...
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{ "description": "wanting my two new roommates to all agree to a set of rules", "pronormative_score": 2, "contranormative_score": 2 }
AITA for wanting my two new roommates to all agree to a set of rules?
The four of us all moved into an off-campus house about two weeks ago. (We are all graduate students.) For the most part, we get along okay, but there have been a few incidents. I think it’s a good idea for us to agree to some ground rules before anything gets truly out of hand. The incident that prompted me to sugge...
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{ "description": "being annoyed with my mother in law", "pronormative_score": 6, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for being annoyed with my mother in law
So my mother in law has stage 4 cancer and only has a short time left. We have been here all Christmas break taking care of her. I don’t mind this really because I’ll do anything to help out in a time like this. The only thing that annoys me is that she absolutely refuses to get a catheter put in. This means that becau...
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{ "description": "wanting to spend more time alone in my room", "pronormative_score": 6, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA For wanting to spend more time alone in my room?
For context I'm a 16 year old Male, all of my siblings have moved out and I'm in practicality an only child. My school let's out extraordinarily late, about 4:15pm. I get home about 4:30. My parents force me to go to bed around 10:30. So from the time I get home I have about 6 Hours of actual free time. Now, my pa...
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{ "description": "getting mad at a game, and my friend getting mad at me for it", "pronormative_score": 1, "contranormative_score": 2 }
AITA For getting mad at a game, and my friend getting mad at me for it?
This is a little hard to explain but I’ll go for it. We were playing a game last night and he beat me, and i was pretty mad. Not because he beat me, but the way I lost was kinda stupid. Anyway, he could tell I was upset so every time I would try to speak he would say “you’re mad”. I asked him why he was doing that and...
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AITA retail shop and customer has issue with camera.
Working in a repair shop for electronics, customer comes in with a digital camera with the lens extended and won't close. Realised they were using normal AA batteries told them they needed high powerfull 2000 mah batteries or rechargeable. Asked if I could write it down I said it's only 2000 mah felt I had to write...
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{ "description": "asking my flatmates to be quiet", "pronormative_score": 1, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA for asking my flatmates to be quiet?
I'm going to try and include as much detail here as possible, though it's hard to depict the whole picture, so I apologise if I omit some details. If you would like more information, just let me know and I can provide more. I should also say that as a person, I like peace and quiet, and that find I loud noises to be ov...
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{ "description": "leaving my mom and brother in a church", "pronormative_score": 2, "contranormative_score": 1 }
Aita for leaving my mom and brother in a church {more like a cult}
This just happened and what happened was my mom wanted to go to church this Sunday and it was one which her co worker invited her too So the church is going on and then I notice weird things and jokingly say to myself this is a cult So 2 hours in a lady starts to vomit and scream and I am like well sucks to be you...
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{ "description": "expecting my partner to be there for me while I am terminating a pregnancy", "pronormative_score": 1, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA for expecting my partner to be there for me while I am terminating a pregnancy?
To make a long story short I am in my second year of college out of state. Due to a sexual assualt that happened to me at the start of the semester, that I had not told anyone about until recently, I had been acting very distant from my partner. Fast forward and I ended up cheating on him, not physically but the texts ...
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{ "description": "yelling at my husband for interrupting my sleep this morning", "pronormative_score": 14, "contranormative_score": 2 }
AITA-I yelled at my husband for interrupting my sleep this morning
Basically I’m an event planner. This means I work odd hours in addition to the 9-5 we all know and love. Last night I reminded my DH that he needed to pick up our son from school because I have an event today-an event that goes til midnight. It’s been on the calendar for a month, but he was still shocked and a bit up...
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{ "description": "not breaking ties with a friend that my gf didn't like", "pronormative_score": 2, "contranormative_score": 2 }
AITA for not breaking ties with a friend that my gf didn’t like?
For some background my gf (f 21) and I (m 22) met in college and have been together ever since for about two and a half years now and it’s been great and we’re both very happy with our relationship. A little while after we started dating my gf found out about a friend I had at college who was a girl the same year as m...
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{ "description": "forgetting to tell my dad his family tried to contact him", "pronormative_score": 4, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA for forgetting to tell my dad his family tried to contact him?
Ok the title sounds really bad, but hear me out. I have family in central America on my dad's side that he is very close to. We talk and contact them frequently, and recently they started a WhatsApp group chat to coordinate their activities. This Tuesday my grandmother added me thinking it's my dad's account , and I ...
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{ "description": "wanting to have a good night and see one of my closest friends", "pronormative_score": 2, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for wanting to have a good night and see one of my closest friends
First off sorry for any incorrect formatting, I’m on mobile and don’t wanna wait till I get home. About 3 weeks ago my relationship started becoming very rocky because my girlfriend, or ex girlfriend now, told me she wanted to move back to her home town because she missed her family. We’ve been together for 2 years now...
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AITA for this? I’m pretty sure I’m not
My name is Anthony. In my last year of middle school, I made friends with this one person named Kyle. He was pretty nice and funny. In my first year of high school, I met a much better friend that was funnier and friendlier. I started thinking kyle was annoying. He kept texting me and talking to me. This annoyed me a l...
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{ "description": "not wanting to go to my nephew's basketball/baseball games", "pronormative_score": 2, "contranormative_score": 2 }
AITA For not wanting to go to my nephew’s basketball/baseball games?
A little background, I have two kids under 3 years old and my sister in law has 3 kids, oldest is 5. Family is very important to my wife, which it should be, however living in the same town as my SIL and 1 hr away from in laws we end up seeing them quite a lot. Every sport my nephew starts/plays they invite us to ...
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{ "description": "having an affair with a woman engaged to someone far away", "pronormative_score": 1, "contranormative_score": 4 }
AITA for having an affair with a woman engaged to someone far away?
This happened a couple years ago, but I still think about it all the time. I(21m at the time) met this girl(29F at the time) at work. I was friends with everyone at work but she was an exception because I had a deep respect for her for some reason. We always worked together when we were shorthanded so we bonded in tha...
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{ "description": "trying to force my om to deal with something she doesn't want", "pronormative_score": 1, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for trying to force my om to deal with something she doesn't want?
Backstory: we were never a functional perfect family. as a kid my mom would abuse me emotionally and physically, and my step dad wouldn't really do much about it. stuff started to change for the better 2 years ago, she hasen't laid a hand on me at all, and 1.5 years ago she went abroad to study something and took my br...
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{ "description": "\"blackmailing\" my crush and then going back on my word", "pronormative_score": 2, "contranormative_score": 42 }
AITA for "blackmailing" my crush and then going back on my word?
I became close friends with my crush and really fell in love with him. We were always flirting, so I thought he might like me back and then we began to exchange nude photographs and I thought we would sure become a thing. Well, I confessed my feelings and he told me right then and there that not only did he not feel th...
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{ "description": "not sleeping with an apprehensive girl", "pronormative_score": 8, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for not sleeping with an apprehensive girl?
This could either go here, or r/TIFU -- I think here fits just *slightly* better... So me and a friend decided we would really like a FWB situation. The only problem was I would be her first. She was 23, I was 24. So to get right to the point, she was at my place, we were making out and I put my hand on her thigh an...
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{ "description": "not being especially nice to a repeat uber driver", "pronormative_score": 6, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for not being especially nice to a repeat uber driver?
I take Uber a lot, this guy had driven me twice before. I put in a request and he responded and said something along the lines of, "I was just about to stop for the night, but I saw you and thought you'd be really excited, but I guess I was wrong." This was after he picked me up and I said normal, not-excited "hey, h...
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{ "description": "telling a guy in my Discord server to download a game notorious for having an anti-piracy measure", "pronormative_score": 1, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA for telling a guy in my Discord server to download a game notorious for having an anti-piracy measure?
So, I told a guy in my Discord who was bragging about how he illegally downloaded all these movies and stuff for free, so then I told him to download game dev tycoon 3, I originally told him to download cuphead but he declined. (The guy's Canadian, btw)
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{ "description": "showing up to a restaurant 15 minutes after it opens", "pronormative_score": 8, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for showing up to a restaurant 15 minutes after it opens?
TL;DR I'm at a hotel restaurant and I showed up at 6:45, fifteen minutes after it opened. I worked at a restaurant so I know it's a dick move to show up that close to closing (unless you're ordering really light) but I didn't work in the kitchen so I don't remember what mornings were like Also fyi ordering a mimosa at...
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{ "description": "messaging his sister", "pronormative_score": 1, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA for messaging his sister?
Apologies for the poor formating; I am on my phone and this is my first post here. Ok so my (ex) best friend and I got into a -what I thought was- friendly debate about if maths was important or not, me taking maths' side. The debate fizzled out and I thought it was getting left at that. The next day, he boyfriend ...
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{ "description": "not wanting to spend new years with my core friend group", "pronormative_score": 2, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA for not wanting to spend new years with my core friend group?
I have a few groups of friends that I juggle hanging out with. One of them I tend to see much more frequently than the others since they live close, the rest I only really see during breaks in college and work. I would definitely consider the ones that live close my best friends, that being said I've never spent new ye...
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{ "description": "wanting to spend time with a friend from out of town", "pronormative_score": 1, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA for wanting to spend time with a friend from out of town
I have been on and off with a guy, let’s call him B, for ~3 years now. in the last few months, things have gotten quite good between us, but he recently moved across the country. We both decided it would be fun for me to visit for the weekend. I get there on Thursday morning and right off the bat there’s tension. I tr...
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{ "description": "roasting my ex-bestfriend after she cheated", "pronormative_score": 2, "contranormative_score": 6 }
AITA for roasting my ex-bestfriend after she cheated?
this is my second AITA post of the night, i guess a lot of things have been happening recently and im truly curious if im just an asshole. i will start at the beginning. 4 years ago i was a sophomore in highschool, as was my bestfriend, lets call her C for cheater. C and i were super close, as neither of us had man...
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{ "description": "going off on girlfriend", "pronormative_score": 2, "contranormative_score": 3 }
AITA for going off on girlfriend!
So my girlfriend and i have been dating for over a year 1/2 and we haven't had any major problems in our relationship. Until recently, we have been getting into small tiffs over minuscule issues that i don't see have any real impact over anything. I'm not going to lie on here but i tend to be the jealous type, but i do...
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{ "description": "not feeling sorry about coming home at 4am", "pronormative_score": 4, "contranormative_score": 12 }
AITA for not feeling sorry about coming home at 4am?
So some context, I’m 21, off at school most of the year and have been home for the last month for break. I leave tomorrow, this happened last night. Last night was one of my best friend’s 21st birthday, so we did what any good group of friends would do and got him shitfaced drunk until around 2am. then got him home a...
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{ "description": "calling my now ex-housemate an ungrateful child", "pronormative_score": 1, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA for calling my now ex-housemate an ungrateful child? (Copied and pasted conversation)
In an attempt to keep everything condensed, i can't name all of what he did in detail. So, he brought 2 freeloaders. Dirty. Cat had fleas. Didn't treat them. I have flea bite scars all over, cuz allergic. He & guests took over living room. I and other housemate dont use it. 1 day, living room fan broke. Asked t...
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{ "description": "possibly leading a girl on", "pronormative_score": 1, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA for possibly leading a girl on
I met someone about a year ago whom ive come to respect and care about as probably the only person i could call a friend, and while our friendship has been great, she knows I have a hard time with stuff like trust and caring about people. I know she has feelings for me, shes made that pretty apparent, and is currentl...
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{ "description": "accepting a free chicken sandwhich", "pronormative_score": 2, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA for accepting a free chicken sandwhich?
I just bought lunch at a place in Chicago that does chicken sandwiches on donuts. They were a little pricey, but fair. I ordered a spicy chicken sandwhich on glazed and fries. The place was busy but not insanely packed. I heard my name called and when I approached the worker simply said, "spicy chicken?" So I assumed ...
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{ "description": "not caring that my roommate's friend killed himself", "pronormative_score": 3, "contranormative_score": 3 }
AITA for not caring that my roommate’s friend killed himself?
I live in a house with 3 other girls and 1 of them I do not get along with (for more background info on this roommate, I have a post on r/legaladvice that details her offenses). So to summarize what’s been going on for the passed 2 months, it’s been borderline illegal disputes and common courtesy thrown out the window....
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{ "description": "telling my friend to just google it instead of repeatedly asking me for answers", "pronormative_score": 3, "contranormative_score": 4 }
AITA for telling my friend to just Google it instead of repeatedly asking me for answers
My friends and I are in a Discord server, we usually talk about anime tits and games there. We have board exams in two months, but we're still fucking around and not studying that much. One of my friends recently doesn't stay active on discord that much. The only time he's online is to just ask questions about the topi...
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AITA dear friend maybe going back to his ex
So my dear friend lets call him johny broke up with his ex gf. He was with his ex for about 3 years. (She broke up) Johny every night complained and cried about their relationship to me. Telling me that he wants to end the relationship and he doesnt love her or that he wants to killhinself. That he cant do it anymore....
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{ "description": "not wanting my mom to come to my graduation", "pronormative_score": 2, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for not wanting my mom to come to my graduation?
Hi all, I'm on mobile so I hope this is an easy read. My grandmother died 3 years ago from ALS. Since her death i became a huge hypochondriac. And my mom knows this. I love my mom to death but I think she has mental health issues, but i can't tell for sure. She can seem manipulative sometimes but I love her so much i...
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{ "description": "disliking being talked to like my cat", "pronormative_score": 4, "contranormative_score": 4 }
AITA for disliking being talked to like my cat?
It sounds strange but hear me out. My wife and I recently got a cat and everything was great for a while, until I realized that sometimes she talks to me the same way she talks to the cat. For example, before we had the cat if I came home from work after a hard day and told her about it she would say "Aw, you poor ba...
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{ "description": "not being more proactive in my brother's college financial aid process", "pronormative_score": 4, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA for not being more proactive in my brother's college financial aid process?
I'm 23, my little brother is 17 and a senior in high school so he's been going through the applications process to go to college. I've tried to be supportive throughout because our parents are immigrants and really have no idea how this works. I handled all my applications and financial aid forms myself, asking guidanc...
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{ "description": "getting upset that my dad wants to take away my new phone that he gave me", "pronormative_score": 3, "contranormative_score": 2 }
AITA for getting upset that my dad wants to take away my new phone that he gave me
So here is a little backstory: our family upgraded two phones to iPhone 8+s. I \[15m\] had an iPhone 5 at the time so we figured that I could get an upgrade. However, my dad thinks that I am "spoiled" even though I don't get presents for Christmas nor do I have any money, and I do not ask for gifts. He wants to take aw...
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{ "description": "not visiting an old friend", "pronormative_score": 1, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA For not visiting an old friend?
(Sorry, this is hard to encapsulate but I'll try) I have had a certain friend for about 45 years. We were best friends in High School. We still keep in touch and have an emotional connection, but sometimes she makes me feel like she really doesn't care that much about me. For instance: I have meditated for about ...
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{ "description": "refusing to pay my new roommate's old roommate", "pronormative_score": 4, "contranormative_score": 4 }
AITA for refusing to pay my new roommate’s old roommate?
I just moved to a new state and am staying with my boyfriend’s mom until I can move in with one of his friends. I moved specifically because she said I could live with her. Right now she shares an apartment with a roommate who I will call Madison. I hate Madison because I know from my boyfriend’s friend that she is a h...
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{ "description": "\"breaking\" with my friend", "pronormative_score": 2, "contranormative_score": 3 }
AITA for "breaking" with my friend?
Hello everyone! I just had this question for y'all: AITA? We (my group of friends and me) go to the cinema to watch movies, so we were planning to watch Avengers: Endgame which is going to be on our local cinema the 26th of April. The thing is that it's a Friday and i have to go to the university that day at the hour...
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{ "description": "not taking dance lessons with my girl friend", "pronormative_score": 4, "contranormative_score": 3 }
AITA For not taking dance lessons with my girl friend?
She wants to learn how to do the tango and stuff, and wants to take lessons for it. I personally don’t want to take lessons, but I’d told her we could compromise with YouTube tutorials. Then she said it’s ok she’ll take them with one of her guy friends. AITA?
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{ "description": "breaking up with my boyfriend because I realized I had feelings for someone else", "pronormative_score": 7, "contranormative_score": 5 }
WIBTA if I broke up with my boyfriend because I realized I had feelings for someone else?
I posted this in r/relationship_advice too. I (24F) and my bf (24M) had been dating casually since about September, and in December I decided that we should become exclusive because 1) I wasn’t seeing anyone else at the time 2) it felt like we were already in an exclusive relationship anyway 3) I didn’t know how to in...
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{ "description": "being pissed at future mother in law for bringing a contagious virus into our home", "pronormative_score": 1, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA for being pissed at future mother in law for bringing a contagious virus into our home?
My (f36) fiancés (m35) mother and father came to visit this week. This is always a stressful time for him because his mother is very her way or the highway. At dinner the evening they arrived, his mother told us a ridiculously long and elaborate story that ended with her pulling a muscle in her ass playing tennis. She...
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{ "description": "Telling Someone that my friend isn't dead", "pronormative_score": 1, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA for Telling Someone that my Friend Isn't Dead?
I was on discord just a few hours ago, on a server with me and a bunch of friends. I was the only on online until some random guy got on. This is a private server btw so invites only. I knew it had to be someone that one of my friends knew, so I treated them as I friend, like I would with anyone. They urgently asked if...
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{ "description": "caring for my ex", "pronormative_score": 2, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA For caring for my ex
Hey there! Thanks, first of all, thank you for taking the time to read this. ​ I was in a Long Distance Relationship with this cute girl from the opposite hemisphere for 4 years and a half, we talked every day for hours at an end, I helped her through some really awful times in her life as well through som...
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{ "description": "wanting to kick a guy out of our friend group and actively trying to", "pronormative_score": 0, "contranormative_score": 2 }
AITA For wanting to kick a guy out of our friend group and actively trying to
I hang out with a group of 8 or so people and we get together every week or so to hang out and just chill or go out together. We also all go to school together so we all see each other everyday. It’s a friendly school for the most part too, and it’s a everyone is cool with everyone sort of deal. One guy who we hang ou...
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{ "description": "distancing myself from a moody friend", "pronormative_score": 3, "contranormative_score": 2 }
AITA for distancing myself from a moody friend?
​ I've known my friend (from now on known as Mark) for a few years now, and he is in general a positive, fun, and supportive guy. But at times, he can be very irritable and moody for seemingly small reasons, and takes it out from me, which seriously drains my mood and triggers my anxiety. For example, if he...
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{ "description": "not allowing my mil to call my daughter by a nickname", "pronormative_score": 30, "contranormative_score": 24 }
AITA for not allowing my MiL to call my daughter by a nickname?
My MiL, Rose, and I don’t have the best relationship so I want an unbiased perspective on the situation. Hopefully, I can present it as such. Rose has another granddaughter that is 9 years old. Everyone calls her “chi-chi”, her real name is Amber. When I asked how the nickname came about, I was told that Rose had a dr...
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{ "description": "hating my teacher", "pronormative_score": 4, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA For hating my teacher
So basically the deal is my teacher always yell at my class for being noisy which to be fare we are but my feeling is he keeps yelling at us everyday but he doesn't do anything make the situation better all he does is yell and sometimes he even lives the class and this is why I dislike him AITA For thinking this way by...
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{ "description": "not wanting my so to get into vaping", "pronormative_score": 2, "contranormative_score": 2 }
AITA for not wanting my SO to get into vaping?
My SO has been getting into vaping quite a bit recently and I don’t mind trying it on the rare occasion but not often they want to buy a vape and have it more I talked to her about it saying I care about her heath and I don’t want her to damage it plus it’s expensive to do and I don’t want her wasting her money on some...
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{ "description": "telling my friend their crush is not interested in them and to move on", "pronormative_score": 2, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for telling my friend their crush is not interested in them and to move on?
She and I are friends for about 2 years now and always comes talk to me for advice, let's call her Kelly. So Kelly and I are talking in school when she tells me she's sent an anonymous letter to her crush and is very nervous. I tell her that she should go tell him if she was completely serious on being with him, which ...
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AITA Lost a Friend over How I Conveyed my Concern
I had known this girl for about 2 and a half years in school by the time we started talking (let's call her S). I say talking but I mean messaging each other talking about our days, sharing funny secrets of friends, how school was hard, etc. I had always joked around with one of her friends (call them E). I'd call E ig...
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{ "description": "telling my brother to get off his ass and do something to get his crush", "pronormative_score": 4, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for telling my brother to get off his ass and do something to get his crush?
So, my brother, Nate, has a huge crush on this girl, let's call her Kenzie. I know for a fact a guy on my swim team (let's call him Ryan) is flirting with her and plans to ask her out. So I gave Nate a heads-up about it. He just whined about Kenzie would date Ryan. I told him, he should ask out Kenzie now before Ryan...
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{ "description": "not getting my mother a Mother's Day card", "pronormative_score": 10, "contranormative_score": 12 }
AITA for not getting my mother a Mother’s Day card?
For context I am 21M still living with my mom and her boyfriend. A couple weeks ago my moms bf text me with an Amazon link to a present my mom would like for Mother’s Day. It wasn’t anything big, it only cost about 20$ so I said thanks and ordered it and went about my life as usual. Fast forward to today and I handed...
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{ "description": "pirating a game after already paying for it", "pronormative_score": 3, "contranormative_score": 3 }
WIBTA If I pirate a game after already paying for it?
To put this into context, several years ago I bought a legit copy of [KSP](https://www.kerbalspaceprogram.com/game/kerbal-space-program/) from the official website. You had to make an account to do this, and your game ownership is linked to your account. A while back i stopped playing, and have gotten a new computer si...
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{ "description": "feeling this way about my ex", "pronormative_score": 2, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA For feeling this way about my ex
Necessary background: I (17M) dated this girl (17F) for 11 months. She was my first love, and it hurt beyond words when she dumped me. I always wanted to be with her, never even thinking about getting sick of her. We were friends on and off a few times, we ended up having sex twice, once during the summer and once in...
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{ "description": "failing to communicate", "pronormative_score": 1, "contranormative_score": 0 }
Aita for failing to communicate?
About 6 month ago I had gotten into a relationship with a girl and it lasted for about 2 months. It was both our first relationship. We mutually broke up because exams were coming for college and we were both going to different ones. I believe that both of us we really sad about it but we both promised that this relati...
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{ "description": "scolding a guy for leaving us waiting", "pronormative_score": 1, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA for scolding a guy for leaving us waiting?
So im part of a leadership youth group and we often do meetings at universities at the afternoon, and usually when we finish it's already dark outside, today we all agreed to meet at a restaurant after the meeting. We were done at 9pm, the university was already closed, no students, almost no lights and our cars were ...
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{ "description": "insulting his sister in front of his life long friends", "pronormative_score": 1, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA for insulting his sister in front of his life long friends?
Neighbor I've been on/off seeing had his son's birthday party. At said birthday party, his older sister who is beautiful and incredibly fit for her age was ridiculing her own weight incessantly and started telling one of neighbors life long friends how she could lose weight, continuously ridiculing herself even though ...
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{ "description": "breaking up with my boyfriend because of his friendship with his ex", "pronormative_score": 4, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for breaking up with my boyfriend because of his friendship with his ex?
So this happened about a month ago. BF and I have been dating for a year and a half, and there's always been (in my mind) an issue of his ex. He likes to be friends with his exes. That's fine. Ideally, I wouldn't want them in our lives and for the most part that's true. However, his most recent ex (BF broke up with her...
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AITA for not wanting my (sort of) girlfriend to not date other guys while we take a break?
Context: Around New Years my girlfriend told me that she wasn’t happy, and that the past few months she felt like we weren’t together anymore. I had regrettably failed to emotionally support her during some very stressful months and due to this and a few other issues on my end she was considering breaking up with me....
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{ "description": "parking like this", "pronormative_score": 3, "contranormative_score": 3 }
AITA for parking like this?
See picture https://i.imgur.com/n0dpjo2.jpg Context: It's a busy industrial area and the parking is very difficult to find during business hours. Lot of people who are early to arrive park with huge gaps between them that are about one more car lenght, but not enough to easuily pull in between. There were no other sp...
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{ "description": "blaming my parents for my problems", "pronormative_score": 5, "contranormative_score": 7 }
AITA for blaming my parents for my problems
Throw away account , also I'm on mobile. It all started when I was born. My parents weren't the worst but weren't the best either. My dad was always working, either in my home country or abroad , so I rarely seen him. He didn't really show any interest in how I am or what I'm doing. I did want to spend more time with ...
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{ "description": "refusing to let my father use my garden", "pronormative_score": 4, "contranormative_score": 6 }
AITA if i refuse to let my father use my garden?
Preface: this is a bit of a mouthful. Anyway, I am currently building a garden in my family's backyard. Starting from scratch, the whole nine yards. Also doing it myself, with the idea that it would be primarily for my use, but I wouldn't be opposed if someone else wanted to put a couple of plants in. Since I have oth...
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UPDATE: WIBTA for asking adults to pay for themselves at my daughter's birthday party?
So last week I was judged as the asshole. ​ See the original post here: [https://www.reddit.com/r/AmItheAsshole/comments/a1spxu/wibta\_for\_asking\_adults\_to\_pay\_for\_themselves\_at/](https://www.reddit.com/r/AmItheAsshole/comments/a1spxu/wibta_for_asking_adults_to_pay_for_themselves_at/) ​ ...
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{ "description": "backing out of a living assignment with my friend", "pronormative_score": 3, "contranormative_score": 4 }
AITA for backing out of a living assignment with my friend
I have a friend named ted, at the start of the year, he started hanging out with our resident assistant... a lot. Recently they are secretly dating (have done everything except sex. Not even really dating, just friends with benefits honestly). That doesn't bother me too much, shes just a jerk. She has this ego problem...
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{ "description": "resenting a woman who was promoted over me", "pronormative_score": 6, "contranormative_score": 4 }
AITA for resenting a woman who was promoted over me?
I work at a buffet style restaurant. It’s at a popular vacation spot and quite large. On the floor the hierarchy is basically general manager<floor manager<lead line server<line server. I have years of both front end and back end kitchen experience. I was also an assistant manager at a previous place of em...
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{ "description": "asking an online business how they would maintain transparency when promising all proceeds from sales of a particular item will be donated to a local tragedy", "pronormative_score": 6, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for asking an online business how they would maintain transparency when promising all proceeds from sales of a particular item will be donated to a local tragedy?
They are an established one-woman facebook business making teething toys, keyrings, necklaces etc from silicon and wood. They created a small keyring item to sell and stated all proceeds would go to a charity set up to take donations for victims of a recent national tragedy. The whole thing feels a bit gimmicky and...
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{ "description": "using a former Friend's Hulu", "pronormative_score": 2, "contranormative_score": 2 }
AITA For Using a Former Friend's Hulu?
So, there's this guy. He and I have been..... close, but touch and go. Which is to say we've had fallings-outs before. Usually over shit he did (an indication that either I'm an overreactive drama queen or that he's a dramamonger) ​ He's the argumentative type. And, to be perfectly honest, so am I, but I g...
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{ "description": "publicly shaming him", "pronormative_score": 4, "contranormative_score": 5 }
AITA for publicly shaming him?
Sorry for the format I'm on my phone. Today My mother and I(27M) went to have coffee like we do 4/5 days a week. We went to our regular, a smallish cafe in the mall that is quite open. After I ordered and sat down there was a middle aged guy who walked around to the self service counter next to me and threw a sugar p...
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{ "description": "accidentally telling someone from Portland people from Portland are losers", "pronormative_score": 4, "contranormative_score": 2 }
AITA For accidentally telling someone from Portland people from Portland are losers?
Throwaway because im a pussy and im worried about hate on my main account. Out to dinner with friends. My gf, her friend, friends bf. I know her friend just enough to be friendly with her but to also not know much about personal stuff. So the friend starts making fun of LA, saying that people from LA are "just a bunc...
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{ "description": "expecting a yes or no answer", "pronormative_score": 1, "contranormative_score": 2 }
AITA for expecting a yes or no answer?
This happens frequently but the latest was today. My boyfriend mentioned he was off work. I was home sick doing nothing, and invited him over. He sounded vaguely interested in my plans, and I told him to let me know. That was 11:00 am. At a little before 2:00 pm, I messaged saying I was assuming he wasn’t going to c...
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{ "description": "pretending to be Deaf for a tip", "pronormative_score": 2, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for Pretending to be Deaf for a Tip?
(Posting on my alt college account, also on mobile if there’s any weird formatting) Some background, I (F17) work in a custodial position for my local amusement park. I do everything short of bathrooms which means trash, sweeping, and table bussing for our parks restaurants. Today the 2 people I was suppose to work...
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{ "description": "insisting to pay for my meals when others are trying to treat me", "pronormative_score": 4, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for insisting to pay for my meals when others are trying to treat me?
Asshole is too strong a word for the situation, but you catch my point (probably). Here's the situation, my boss wants to treat my coworker and I to lunch. All 3 of us are straight men BTW. I (happily) don't have a car so I welcome every invitation to eat with my coworkers, but my boss always wants to pick up the check...
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{ "description": "not going to dinner with my aunt tomorrow", "pronormative_score": 2, "contranormative_score": 0 }
WIBTA if I don't go to dinner with my aunt tomorrow?
My dad met his bio family, and while I'm super happy for him, I went to dinner with them tonight for the first time. It was awful. I was stuck on the other end of the table and totally ignored by everyone. I tried to engage but would just get one word answers from the aunt. His bio mom is pretty chill but I legitima...
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{ "description": "trying to call out my dad for saying \"I must be a miserable person\"", "pronormative_score": 1, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA for trying to call out my dad for saying “I must be a miserable person”
So, for some background: it was a couple of days before Christmas, and as I was doing the dishes, my dad whipped me with a towel. It was playfully, but I wasn’t in the mood, so I asked “Could you not”. A few minutes later, my mom was saying that I was giving her pushback on a lot of things, and I told her as respectful...
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{ "description": "not wanting to stay at my boyfriends place anymore", "pronormative_score": 1, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for not wanting to stay at my boyfriends place anymore
Background information, I'm gay. My boyfriend and I have been dating for about three months, though we dated briefly about three years ago before work took us to different states. We got together once we were living in the same city. We're both in our 20's, he is two years older than I am and makes more money -- but no...
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{ "description": "pointedly ignoring and walking away from an army vet", "pronormative_score": 4, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for pointedly ignoring and walking away from an army vet
On mobile so apologies for formatting. Background information: Years ago when I was working my first job as a teenager, I worked at a popular breakfast/lunch in my family’s well-to-do neighbourhood. We had a 25-30ish regular who would order a meal (not cheap) and ask for our recycling. I was told that he was brain-dam...
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{ "description": "getting passed at my sister for telling me to clean up", "pronormative_score": 3, "contranormative_score": 3 }
AITA for getting passed at my sister for telling me to clean up?
So my family is bad at cleaning up their dishes after themselves, they leave dishes all around and never wash them regularly, leaving it until there’s no dishes and someone cleans them ( usually me). I had been doing the dishes for this entire week trying to keep it under control, and I had a handle on it and had clean...
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{ "description": "not hanging out with most of my high school friends anymore", "pronormative_score": 6, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA For not hanging out with most of my high school friends anymore
Okay so first of all I'm in my first year of University and second year of college. I commute like 50 minutes to my school everyday, so for this reason alone I do not have much time to hang with my friends for hours during the school week. Flashback to my last 2 years of high school, one of those years which I spent a...
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{ "description": "taking the knobs of the heater", "pronormative_score": 1, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA for taking the knobs of the heater
We have a bathroom off of our kitchen that does not have heat in it so we put a little space heater in there to keep our cheeks warm when we do our business. It’s been in there for two months now and every time I go to use the bathroom it’s freezing because someone has either turned off the heater or turned it down. ...
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{ "description": "disliking my flatmate", "pronormative_score": 2, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for disliking my flatmate?
Sorry this is a long one! Basically I have lived with my flatmate for three years but with others. We were really great friends and then he went away for a year. When he came back we decided to live together just us two. He wasn't around so I sorted all of the viewings for flats etc. I was really proud of the flat (re...
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{ "description": "roasting a girl after she was an ass", "pronormative_score": 1, "contranormative_score": 2 }
AITA for roasting a girl after she was an ass
so there’s this girl at my school let’s call her a . she wasn’t always a giant bitch , in fact we got along quite well that is until i realized she was boy obsessed. we had met before school started once before, and when that happened she actually came out to me as bisexual. I’m completely supportive of anyone that’s...
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{ "description": "preferring a talented asshole over a mediocre nice person", "pronormative_score": 12, "contranormative_score": 7 }
AITA for preferring a talented asshole over a mediocre nice person?
I'm [33M], the woman I took under my wing is [27F], and the guy I didn't want to take under my wing is [30M]. This becomes important later. So recently I was promoted to CFO of my firm. It's customary at my firm for each c-suite exec to take an employee in their division as kind of an apprentice/assistant to hone the...
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{ "description": "trying to gain independence", "pronormative_score": 2, "contranormative_score": 2 }
AITA for trying to gain independence
I don't know if this fits but I would like some input. First and foremost, I am twenty and I've been date my bf for almost a year.. This factor will play into the story. I have a very busy schedule, I go to work and I also attend college. Lately, my parents have been angry/ mad at me for coming home super late after...
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{ "description": "blowing up a small comment, potentially ruining Christmas", "pronormative_score": 0, "contranormative_score": 6 }
AITA for blowing up a small comment, potentially ruining Christmas
For reference, I am 20 and currently on winter break from school. My mom and I have been arguing for most of today over finances, specifically over her spending what I thought was way too much money for a holiday dinner (she bought 4 filet minion steaks when I know we could have gotten a cheaper cut of meat and been ju...
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{ "description": "'defending' my friend", "pronormative_score": 0, "contranormative_score": 2 }
Aita for 'defending' my friend
So I was playing video games with my friend, and we were expecting another one of our friends to join us and play. My girlfriend's then joined the call and said hi, and my friend went 'oh, hi' because he was expecting someone else. My girlfriend got upset and left the call but I managed to convince her to join again. ...
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