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{ "description": "honking my car horn in the drive thru line", "pronormative_score": 2, "contranormative_score": 4 }
AITA for honking my car horn in the drive thru line?
So I was in a fast food drive through line and I had just ordered. There were also several other people waiting to order behind me and it seemed like the person in front of me wasn’t paying any attention. The line moved and I waited longer than I feel I should have to hit my horn just to get the person to move forward ...
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{ "description": "not telling my boyfriend I had lunch with a friend near his work", "pronormative_score": 3, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA For not telling my boyfriend I had lunch with a friend near his work?
Sorry, this is very rambly, TL;DR at the bottom. So, this seems silly to me, but my boyfriend seemed upset. (I have not said so to him) About a week ago a friend of mine asked me to meet up. I was busy at the time, so we agreed on a lunch 3 days ago. I told my boyfriend (who I was with at the time) and he didn't reall...
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AITA Parked a bit awkwardly in a lot and the guy who parked next to me shows up but I don’t move my car
Honestly this really isn’t that huge, I’ve just been bothered by this for the past few days. So I just drove somewhere with a really crowded lot and found like the last open spot which had two pickup trucks on either side. They were both kinda close to the sidelines, but I have a pretty small car and managed to squee...
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{ "description": "not believing encouragement", "pronormative_score": 1, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA for not believing encouragement?
TL;DR at bottom So a little background: I got my degree in secondary education, with an emphasis in physics. I have always been passionate about physics, more so than education, but I wasn't sure of my own abilities. I opted to focus on teaching high school instead of pursuing physics myself, for several reasons. one ...
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{ "description": "not wanting to be a friend to someone who has life and possibly mental problems", "pronormative_score": 0, "contranormative_score": 2 }
AITA for not wanting to be a friend to someone who has life and possibly mental problems?
So I will tell the story from the start to my current day. I was hanging around in discord doing useless but fun stuff when I noticed this one girl. She was bad at the game in which the server is based on, so I ridicule her gameplay in front of some people. However it turns out that she's there at the server. Knowing...
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AITA
So my gf claims she got at least an 8th (marijuana) for $15 when she was drunk Friday night. Now she says she only spent $10 on it and gave the person $5 to deliver it. The problem is that I've never met a drug dealer who will drive to you that late (this happened around midnight-1 a.m.) and give you a lot extra. I fe...
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{ "description": "abandoning an apparently depressed friend", "pronormative_score": 3, "contranormative_score": 3 }
AITA for abandoning an apparently depressed friend?
Context: In college. This happened twice, actually, with slightly different scenarios; I'm the common denominator in both these somewhat unfavorable situations, so I'm concerned about this. Case 1: I had a friend, Jeff, who appears to be depressed *as far as I can tell*, although Jeff has never really been to a mental...
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{ "description": "abandoning my friends at IKEA for wasting my time while intoxicated", "pronormative_score": 3, "contranormative_score": 3 }
AITA for abandoning my friends at IKEA for wasting my time while intoxicated?
**Background** I am a college student and my roommate is a writer and a moderate drug user. My roommate, who we are going to call Jim in this post, smokes a lot of weed and drinks. He has weird habits for brainstorming for ideas such as standing on his desk, laying flat on his desk, jumping on his desk etc. This is fi...
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{ "description": "backleading and then defending my point", "pronormative_score": 1, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA for backleading and then defending my point?
I am in my university’s ballroom dance club. Today was Week 2 for Polka. My strong suit is West Coast Swing, but like to expand my horizons. I’ve learned and developed compensation techniques for when it comes to newer leads, one of which is backleading. So today in the class I danced with this guy who had a good frame...
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{ "description": "having sex with my best friends crush while I was black out drunk", "pronormative_score": 3, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA for having sex with my best friends crush while I was black out drunk
Ok so a little backstory my best friend who I'll name Richard has had an interest in one of the girls in our friend group who I'll name Ashley for a while now and had being trying to go out with her since about a year ago so yesterday my friend group went to a party since it was my other friend birthday and I had taken...
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{ "description": "calling out an SJW", "pronormative_score": 2, "contranormative_score": 2 }
AITA for calling out an SJW?
Other person: Just a reminder that able-bodied bourgeois cishet white men are explicitly not valid! Me: Fun writing tip! If replacing the race in your sentence with another makes you sound racist, you might want to think about what you're saying. I'm not entirely able bodied and I'm bi. But a large portion of my frie...
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{ "description": "not wanting my roommate's russian \"boyfriend\" (who has legal issues and insukted us and our home) stay in our house", "pronormative_score": 1, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for not wanting my roommate's russian "boyfriend" (who has legal issues and insukted us and our home) stay in our house?
A little background story: my roommate and friend has been dating a man (roo.ate is 29 guy is 35) for like 3_ 4 months , they met through a dating app and started dating right away. They are not in exclusive according to her since she is seeing other people but I think he thinks she's his gf and not dating anyone else....
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{ "description": "writing a note containing the F word to my niece", "pronormative_score": 2, "contranormative_score": 3 }
AITA: I wrote a note containing the F word to my niece.
My niece (12f) and I (17f) exchange notes and drawings a lot (we live in the same house). Anyway, she made me a necklace, which I thought was really cool, and I wrote her a note saying how fucking awesome it was. Well, her mom (my sister) went into my niece's room without knocking (my niece was in the room), and read ...
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{ "description": "not telling my friends I moved states", "pronormative_score": 1, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA for not telling my friends i moved states?
I'm 18 and moved states before my last year of high school and only told a few people. Before I left I had some good times and made an effort to go to more parties and stuff, but I didn't even tell some of my good friends I was leaving. I don't know if I was just scared and prefer deal with things on my own or that I d...
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{ "description": "being pissed bout this convo between my bf and his ex", "pronormative_score": 2, "contranormative_score": 2 }
AITA for being pissed bout this convo between my bf and his ex?
He used to shit talk me to this girl months ago. She said: I dunno what to say. I’m sad you’re not in my life (my fault) and I’m still curious and sad as to why I’m not enough. I wish I could have answers but I know you don’t want to be pressed (you said you didn’t wanna talk). So I guess goodbye then? I do Not think...
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{ "description": "wanting more from a friend", "pronormative_score": 1, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA for wanting more from a friend?
I've been friends with this guy for a few years now. Really close for the past year and we dated in the months leading up to his having to move away due to getting a new job in a different state. We decided to break up because he wasn't ready for long distance, but wanted to remain friends. We texted almost incessantly...
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{ "description": "feeling bad because my friends blanked me", "pronormative_score": 2, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for feeling bad because my friends blanked me?
I will try to explain this as clearly as possible, as I have a tendency to get muddled up when explaining my social issues. I'll refer to everyone by letters, and call them friends, though I'm not sure if they are my friends anymore. We live in the UK. So. I have this friend I'll call L. He moved to Australia back i...
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{ "description": "wanting to talk to my roommates as little as possible and openly telling them no/not doing what they ask", "pronormative_score": 1, "contranormative_score": 4 }
AITA for wanting to talk to my roommates as little as possible and openly telling them no/not doing what they ask?
I have two roommates. They're friends. They go to the same college. We are NOT friends. I don't like them because I feel left out by them (I tried to be their friend and ask lots of questions, but they never return the favor), I feel that they're pretty judgmental, I don't like that they're strong Christians and pushed...
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AITA for... being an asshole?
To preface, I know i was an asshole, I want an outside opinion on whether or not it was justified. Probably doesn't belong here I know, I'd appreciate recommendations. With that said, let's get into the actual story. (Warning long by my standards. TL;DR at the bottom) (Throwaway because my friends know my reddit ac...
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{ "description": "confronting someone on their performance", "pronormative_score": 1, "contranormative_score": 0 }
WIBTA if I confronted someone on their performance?
Hey y’all, I’m currently facing some dilemma right now. I’m in charge of hosting a small charity event that has students from around our school district audition and perform Asian cultural stuff. It has now come time to picking the acts for this year, and oh boy are there a lot of kpop dances. This one particular danc...
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{ "description": "not wanting to go out to eat with my co-workers the first night of a business trip", "pronormative_score": 4, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA for not wanting to go out to eat with my co-workers the first night of a business trip?
I am traveling to Nashville for business with some co-workers. I’ve never been there and I’m a huge bluegrass fan. There is a major lineup at the Grand Ole Opry the first night in town and I really want to go. I extended an invitation mostly to be polite as I know that kind of music doesn’t appeal to everyone. The grou...
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{ "description": "telling my gf that I wouldn't bribe my way through a Driver's license test", "pronormative_score": 1, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA For telling my[27] GF[21] that I wouldn't bribe my way through a Driver's License test
So this has been going on for about a day. Last night my GF told me she can bribe the traffic official to pass her test.(we live in a country where this is easy to do). I told her she can decide but that she must be cool with living the thought of having cheated. I also said I wouldn't do it. She got incredibly short ...
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{ "description": "accepting fantasy football winnings from a deceased league manager's father", "pronormative_score": 3, "contranormative_score": 2 }
AITA for accepting fantasy football winnings from a deceased league manager's father?
Decided to play a winner-take-all fantasy football league this season with some folks my dad knows where he currently lives. I enjoyed a successful season and pretty much dominate the whole year. Anyone in the league would be able to look at my team and pretty much assume I'm going to win it (although I did win in epic...
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{ "description": "not going to my best girl friend's birthday party", "pronormative_score": 1, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA for not going to my best girl friend's birthday party
Note : My english isnt't perceft. Well, today my bgf had a birthday and she invited me. I didn't want to go because I had headache, school ended at 15:30 and the bday was at 16 + tired. I was a year ago on her bday alone as a boy. I didn't feel comfortable. I am chubby and I felt uncomfortable cuz of that too. 2nd n...
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{ "description": "not liking a group member", "pronormative_score": 2, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA: for not liking a group member?
Its more of a “are we the asshole” because nobody in the group really likes him, Now, this guy, he’s kinda like Michael from the office in the first few seasons, nobody actually likes him, but we tolerate him because we cant escape him, our group is pretty open about mot liking him, i mean like, “guy, nobody likes you...
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{ "description": "being lazy/unmotivated", "pronormative_score": 2, "contranormative_score": 2 }
AITA for being lazy/unmotivated?
Okay so here's the deal, I (21F) told my boyfriend (24) the other day that I don't think we should exchange Christmas gifts. I have nothing against Christmas. And I love my boyfriend very much and enjoy buying him things. But the thing is, it kinda snuck up on me this year(we've both been busy with work and school) and...
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{ "description": "telling my alcoholic friend's parents he hasn't quit", "pronormative_score": 1, "contranormative_score": 1 }
WIBTA for telling my alcoholic friend's parents he hasn't quit?
Sorry for the novel. I posted this last week in another subreddit but now theres been an update and I am lost with what to do. My friend, Michael has always has bad habbits and a need to fit in/"be cool". He's extremely image conscious, has zero self awareness, and a fragile ego. We have a similar hobby and he consta...
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AITA My teacher gave me a lecture about being "obnoxious, disrespectful, having a superiority complex"
I'll be honest, I don't know if this is the right sub for this, so please direct me to the right place if need be. So this happened today, allow me to set the scene, it'll take a while. I'm not an incredible student in school, I get good grades and take honors/AP classes, but I don't have the honors kid mindset. I'm ...
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{ "description": "defending myself after someone insinuated that I was scamming people", "pronormative_score": 2, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA for defending myself after someone insinuated that I was scamming people (or at least that's what I think happened)?
I am a relatively new eBay seller and I am still relatively getting the hang of how it all works. Before selling a computer that I returned to full working order, [I wanted to ask whether I should sell it as "used" or "seller refurbished"](https://i.imgur.com/7VDAUBg.png) (I didn't know which option to choose because a...
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{ "description": "requesting my brother's friend use a separate chat for Magic set up that doesnt include me", "pronormative_score": 1, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for requesting my brother's friend use a separate chat for Magic set up that doesnt include me?
My brother and his friends play a lot of magic which I joined in once for a draft and now my phone is constantly receiving texts that are of no relevance to me. I asked if he or someone else could set up a group text that doesn't include me since the conversation doesn't include me. They could even use still text me al...
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{ "description": "making a shitty deal and getting pissed when the other guy didn't stick to it", "pronormative_score": 1, "contranormative_score": 8 }
AITA For making a shitty deal and getting pissed when the other guy didn't stick to it?
My friend and I decided to do some work around the neighborhood together to make a quick buck one year when we were kids. It was my idea and I decided that we would split the money 60/40, mainly because I was a selfish jerk back then. He grumbled a bit but really didn't put up a fight, If he really wanted an even cut I...
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{ "description": "starting a new job knowing I will quit soon to go back to my old job for more money", "pronormative_score": 5, "contranormative_score": 3 }
AITA for starting a new job knowing I will quit soon to go back to my old job for more money?
I applied for a new job we can call job B, and got an offer from them. When I went and told my current job (job A) about it, they said that they could offer me a promotion and more pay than the new job was offereing. This promotion is technically a new new job I will call job C (it's technically a different company, bu...
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{ "description": "getting mad at my ex for hitting on me", "pronormative_score": 1, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA For getting mad at my ex for hitting on me?
Ok, I could give a long drawn out explanation but I'll just simplify it. I'm not going to include ages because it involved minors (including myself) ​ Basically my ex was getting really flirty with me, and I told her that it made me uncomfortable but she didn't stop. I got a friend to tell her off and I ...
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{ "description": "pirating a game", "pronormative_score": 4, "contranormative_score": 2 }
WIBTA If I pirate a game
So I bought Stardew Valley on steam, but I bought it on my brother's steam account. I now have his old PC and my own steam account and I would like to play it again without having to go on his computer. So WIBTA if I just pirate the game?
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{ "description": "asking my girlfriend to help clean my apartment because of her cat", "pronormative_score": 4, "contranormative_score": 0 }
WIBTA if I ask my girlfriend to help clean my apartment because of her cat?
(I'm also a girl btw) ​ A few months ago, a cat showed up at my gf's parents house. She instantly bonded with this cat. Her parents tried to take this cat in, but their other cat started attacking it. My gf instantly comes to me and says, "I need you to keep this cat at your apartment for me." &#x200B...
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{ "description": "asking a dude I friendzoned for drugs", "pronormative_score": 3, "contranormative_score": 3 }
WIBTA if I asked a dude I friendzoned for drugs?
This guy asked me out, but I am not gay so I said no (my friend, who thought I was gay, introduced him to me under the pretense that I was gay). I don't hate him and he doesn't hate me, we just have kind of never talked after that. He will sometimes talk to me, and we have talked about how much we enjoy psychedelics. W...
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{ "description": "ignoring my friend who has been ignoring me", "pronormative_score": 2, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA For ignoring my friend who has been ignoring me?
Little backstory. I’ve known my friend since we were kids, we were never very close until the last two years. I don’t mean to sound like a true asshole but I’d do anything for her or any of my friends. But sometimes she ignores me when she’s made plans with me. Like this weekend. I went to see Captain Marvel ( which ...
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{ "description": "hating my Xmas gift", "pronormative_score": 2, "contranormative_score": 3 }
AITA for hating my Xmas gift?
I’m not here looking for relationship advice. Last week my boyfriend got very drunk at my office Christmas party and called me some nasty names and accused me of cheating on him in front of my coworkers. He claims he was blackout drunk, remembers nothing and has since profousely apologized. I stayed at a friend’s hous...
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{ "description": "making a joke", "pronormative_score": 4, "contranormative_score": 2 }
AITA for making a joke?
Throwaway because people could easily find out who I am through my regular account. I've been dating this girl for about 4 months now, and things have been going great. We have had occasional arguments, but we've been able to always work things out. Some important background, we always tease each other when we're toge...
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{ "description": "reporting restaurant staff for refusing to serve me 5 minutes before their last order", "pronormative_score": 10, "contranormative_score": 0 }
WIBTA if I report restaurant staff for refusing to serve me 5 minutes before their last order?
Basically the title. The restaurant is in a hotel and they’re supposed to close at 1:00AM, last order is at 12:00AM. I get there at 11:55PM and am told that they are closed. I assume I get the hours mixed up. I get back to my room, and turns out They do close at 1. Would it be wrong if I complained?
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{ "description": "telling my cousin's wife :\"oh boy, luckily Im not married to you\" in jest", "pronormative_score": 1, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA for telling my cousin's wife :"oh boy, luckily im not married to you" in jest?
Last week I was hanging out with my cousin and his wife and she was talking about measures to help her husband not be addicted to games like moving those games to a secret folder in his phone and other things. These actions do not screw with game progress but only gives the user a mild inconvenience. I also understand ...
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{ "description": "ghosting a friend", "pronormative_score": 1, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA for ghosting a friend?
This happened awhile ago, been brewing over it since then. Over a year ago, one if my best friends, let's say A, worked with my boyfriend at the same place together. My boyfriend and I decided we we're going to move in together after a admitted small time. About 9 months into dating. The reasoning being he was going to...
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{ "description": "being short with my mom", "pronormative_score": 2, "contranormative_score": 2 }
AITA for being short with my mom?
Every morning, for my whole life, my mom bothers me with some mundane conversation that eventually turns negative. She can never say good morning and just be pleasant to me. It always ends with some passive aggressive comment or ranting about some problem she has that I didn't ask about. This morning, I wake up and s...
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{ "description": "getting mad at my so for drinking", "pronormative_score": 4, "contranormative_score": 2 }
AITA for getting mad at my SO for drinking?
I went dry for a specific period and SO volunteered to do it with me, unsolicited. I never asked for that. Tonight, they had a couple beers while we were out with friends and claimed they forgot. It upset me, and now they are angry with me because it did. Am I in the wrong?
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AITA: DINNER FOR ONE
I got off work and called my wife and asked did she want Chinese food. She said no. I came home started grubbing and she kept trying to eat off my plate so I ate my food in my car. AITA?
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{ "description": "pressuring friends to come to our friends funeral", "pronormative_score": 5, "contranormative_score": 3 }
AITA For pressuring friends to come to our friends funeral
Using a throwaway account because some friends know my personal account. ​ Last week one of my friends past away very suddenly. to be honest i'm not sure I have processed it properly and i think i am still in shock. I assumed that all of his other friends would be attending the funeral however because i w...
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{ "description": "not wanting to swim", "pronormative_score": 1, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA for not wanting to swim?
Sorry for formatting, on mobile So, I have the day off of school tomorrow, and my Mom wants me to go and hand out resumes (I’m 16 btw) and wanting me to get a job is fair enough (I’ve been trying to get one for a little while now). But then She also has an interview, so she wants me to go to school to watch my two si...
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{ "description": "ignoring my friends", "pronormative_score": 1, "contranormative_score": 2 }
AITA for Ignoring my Friends
Ok so, like most AITAs the title makes it seem likr an instant asshole, but a quick backstory. I have well, done dumbass things and one of them was talking shit behind my friends back. I know exactly how it was wromg, why i did it, and was ready to admit and apologize to my friends. Well, that blew up in my face...The...
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{ "description": "being angry at my ex's insecure new boyfriend", "pronormative_score": 4, "contranormative_score": 3 }
AITA for being angry at my ex's insecure new boyfriend?
My ex and I broke up about a year and a half ago and the decision was mutual. We were dating nearly 7 years and I became quite close with my ex's family. There were also numerous important things that happened in my life during that time. After the breakup, I started dating someone who was a better fit for me and going...
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{ "description": "not going to my parents house", "pronormative_score": 3, "contranormative_score": 2 }
AITA for not going to my parents house?
So yesterday my dad texted me out of the blue asking when I was going to come over with my kids, and I told him I would soon. And he texts me back and says “see you tomorrow”, so I texted him back and I was like “tomorrow?” And he’s like yes at 4. So I didn’t text him back because I was flustered and confused. So today...
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{ "description": "buying a pc for school", "pronormative_score": 1, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA buying a pc for school
So i bought a surface go for school work as the next two years i will be doing a lot of essays presentations ect. My parents are very skeptical as i do spend a lot of time on my main PC but due to ADHD and general laziness its quite hard to work on my main pc due to having no supervision and loads of games. My parents ...
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{ "description": "not wanting someone in my D&D group to dm my campaign", "pronormative_score": 6, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA for not wanting someone in my D&D group to DM my campaign?
So, in one of my Dungeons and Dragons groups, I've been DMing a long-standing campaign. About 10 sessions ish, each being 4 hours. So, one of my players, call him M, really wants to DM and he's agreed to have his campaign after mine. So, where the issue comes into play is that sometimes, I just cannot make it to sessio...
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{ "description": "giving my mom the silent treatment", "pronormative_score": 2, "contranormative_score": 2 }
AITA for giving my mom the silent treatment?
I’m a grad student who’s home for the holidays. My mom is one of those narcissists who believe they are perfect, nothing is ever their fault, etc. She is also incredibly judgmental. Yesterday I had a committed schedule planned. First, brunch with my boyfriend on his lunch break. Then, spend rest of day with boyfriend....
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{ "description": "throwing my housemates clothes on the floor after they had been sitting in the washing machine for a few days", "pronormative_score": 2, "contranormative_score": 3 }
AITA For throwing my housemates clothes on the floor after they had been sitting in the washing machine for a few days
I live with 3 other people and we all share a washing machine. One housemate always puts on a load and leaves it sitting for a few days so usually i take it out and put it in a basket and leave it in the laundry. This is starting to get really annoying. It is only a little thing but it is just so lazy and it's annoying...
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{ "description": "kicking a car that almost hit me", "pronormative_score": 1, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA For Kicking a Car That Almost Hit Me?
I was riding my bike yesterday through the city around rush hour, it was raining. I generally stay pretty safe, use crosswalks at big intersections- I'm not the bike person you see swerving in and out of traffic and running lights and stop signs. I was waiting at a crosswalk on my bike for the light to turn. A car s...
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{ "description": "being angry at my gf for lying about small things", "pronormative_score": 2, "contranormative_score": 2 }
AITA for being angry at my gf for lying about small things?
Hello everybody, little back ground, my dad is abusive piece of shit and notoric lier, fortunately my mom left him when I was 12 (22 now) but it made me automatically suppose people are lying all the time. Anyway I've got many close friends who I believe because they proved to me I can. Problem is my girlfriend finds...
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{ "description": "being angry at my friend because she doesn't appreciate the gift I got for her", "pronormative_score": 4, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for being angry at my friend because she doesn’t appreciate the gift I got for her?
So this is part two of this amazing AITA adventure. So to summarize the first experience: I get frustrated at my friend because she keeps shooting down the gift ideas I want to give her, she says some things to me and then shuts down my emotional state and doesn’t want to talk to me anymore. I included the first part...
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{ "description": "not giving up my spot on an arcade game", "pronormative_score": 2, "contranormative_score": 2 }
AITA for not giving up my spot on an arcade game?
I was at a busy busy arcade bar. The was a wait on each of the 15 pinball machines. I had a bunch of tolkens left, so I posted up on a game i like. After a while, someone tapped me on the shoulder saying the were people waiting. I know people are waiting, i waited too. I told her our credits cost the same so I h...
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{ "description": "feeling violated because my mother went through my room", "pronormative_score": 4, "contranormative_score": 2 }
AITA for feeling violated because my mother went through my room?
A bit of background, I am 18 and my mother has been a bit overbearing my whole life, and recently I have started vaping. I knew my mother wouldn't like it so I hid the juice, pods, etc, in a dresser drawer. I had noticed that the drawer had been left open a few times but I had just assumed I forgot to close it. Then my...
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{ "description": "cutting off a friend when he seems genuinely sorry", "pronormative_score": 2, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA for cutting off a friend when he seems genuinely sorry?
One of my friends has recently been doing a lot of things that I have been very clearly telling him to stop but he kept on going, I decided enough was enough and cut contact with him and it feels like he's genuinely sorry but I don't want to have to deal with all his shit in the future. AITA?
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{ "description": "wanting more of my friend's time", "pronormative_score": 2, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for wanting more of my friend’s time?
Hoping for some feedback on this. Sorry if it gets a bit rambling or long. Basically, I have a very close friend who I’ve known for 12 years, let’s call her Pam. Pam and I, up until a couple of months ago, would talk over Discord/Facebook for hours on end, maybe about 4/5 days a week. We would share videos, play games...
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{ "description": "honking at the lady in front of me in the drive through", "pronormative_score": 2, "contranormative_score": 2 }
AITA for honking at the lady in front of me in the drive through?
This one is pretty light, but I'm curious what everyone thinks none-the-less. On my lunch break today, I'm waiting in line in the drive through of a local fast food joint. The line was extending out of their corridor and into the parking lot, curving one way. I lined up at the end of the curve, and shortly after some ...
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{ "description": "getting mad at my friend for being a hypocrite over Sexual Assualt", "pronormative_score": 5, "contranormative_score": 5 }
AITA For getting mad at my friend for being a hypocrite over Sexual Assualt
So I have a friend, we'll call her F. I had just got to know her this year. So it was on Halloween, and she was in the woods with another friend, we'll call him C. So they were in the woods searching for something, as she had lost it. So as she was searching, C kisses her out of the blue, and she freaks out, and runs a...
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{ "description": "down voting jokes about 9/11", "pronormative_score": 2, "contranormative_score": 3 }
AITA for down voting jokes about 9/11?
I was just browsing r/FortniteBR and r/memes and i keep finding memes about the events that happened on 9/11, so on two posts I decided to react, asking for them to be taken down. On one of these replies I got down voted to shit and I am now even more disturbed. Do people really find these funny and am I an asshole for...
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{ "description": "wanting to unfriend my ex-boyfriends current girlfriend on Facebook", "pronormative_score": 4, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for wanting to unfriend my ex-boyfriends current girlfriend on Facebook?
Okay so I dated my ex for 5 years and we broke up amicably when I needed to move to another state about 2 and a half years ago. It was a really good breakup as far as break ups go and I’m still on good terms with and speak to his family, and him and I have remained good friends and chat on the phone and on messenger pr...
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{ "description": "talking shit on a guy who wasted a good 3 months of my life", "pronormative_score": 0, "contranormative_score": 2 }
AITA for talking shit on a guy who wasted a good 3 months of my life ?
hey so i have a story lads and lasses. so there was this guy let’s call him b. b was a senior and i was a freshman and he added me on snapchat. at first i thought he was just some senior trying to get a streak with me then he started talking to me. he asked about a friend of mine and about a family . a week later we ta...
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{ "description": "cutting contact with my friend", "pronormative_score": 1, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA for cutting contact with my friend?
Hi folks. A small confession, this isn't really worrying me or anything, but when I found out about this sub a couple of days ago I LOVED the idea. (Am I the asshole for not posting a serious situation? Lol.) So anyway, I finally came up with a situation which I could share. Happened about a year ago. I live in...
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{ "description": "not wanting to help", "pronormative_score": 4, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA for not wanting to help?
My husband and I have a friend who lives around the corner. We do a lot to help her family out and now I'm starting to feel taken advantage of. I have 3 kids of my own who are very little (all under 6 and one is an infant)- relevant to things. I take her and her kid to school every morning since she doesn't drive and ...
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{ "description": "criticizing someone in a separate discord server", "pronormative_score": 0, "contranormative_score": 2 }
AITA for Criticizing someone in a separate discord server?
Here's some backstory... I was in this discord server that happened to be about werewolves and whatnot and the people in charge tended to call it a "pack". Well, see the owner of the server tended to be very... eh IDK a very kind word for it, basically he was the kind of RPer who would PM you outside of the server bec...
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{ "description": "snapping at my gf when she caught my skin in my zipper while closing my pants", "pronormative_score": 11, "contranormative_score": 9 }
AITA for snapping at my gf when she caught my skin in my zipper while closing my pants?
She was zipping up my pants and the skin of my junk got caught in the zipper. In the blink of an eye I was really angry and shouted “just fuck off”. Immediately after I was shocked that I said that and said sorry because I don’t wanna talk to her (or anyone for that matter) in such a rude way. She freaked out and star...
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{ "description": "trying to sell a gift I didn't like", "pronormative_score": 3, "contranormative_score": 3 }
AITA for trying to sell a gift I didn't like?
There will be a TL;DR at the end if you want to skip. I feel like a little background is needed here. When I was younger I was definitely an a-hole about gifts. Like even if I tried to hide it, I feel like most people could tell if I didn't like a gift and I've even had a few regrettable moments when I've straight up ...
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{ "description": "not going to holiday dinners", "pronormative_score": 3, "contranormative_score": 3 }
WIBTA for not going to holiday dinners?
I'm pretty sure I'm being an asshole, but I don't see how the alternatives are any better. **Background:** I haven’t attended a family dinner since I moved out after high school. This year, I moved back in with my parents to save money on rent while I complete my final year at university. **The situation:** I d...
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{ "description": "thinking that my aunt who brought her boyfriend along when my mom wanted to spend new years at the casino just with her sister was being super inconsiderate", "pronormative_score": 3, "contranormative_score": 2 }
AITA for thinking that my aunt who brought her boyfriend along when my mom wanted to spend new years at the casino just with her sister was being super inconsiderate?
So some background, me and my mother cared for my father for two years in hospice after he was diagnosed with intestinal cancer and his chemo treatment had failed and as he fought for those two years and passed away mid 2018 from it. well fast forward about a month and half later and my aunt's marriage is falling apar...
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{ "description": "following instagram models while talking to my crush", "pronormative_score": 2, "contranormative_score": 2 }
AITA for following instagram models while talking to my crush?
Throwaway account, and please excuses my English. Yesterday night I made a silly comment about how I blocked one of her followers, because that guy non-stop is posting ''sweet things'' under her pictures (she had over 100k followers so..). Meant it playful, and she appreciated me being honest with her, and said she...
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AITA (complicated relationship, transitioning)
Currently, I'm in the aftermath of a breakup. I've been trying to make things right so we can be friends. I'm 18/ftm and she's 16/f (we were dating before I turned 18 for what it's worth). The backstory is we were in a pretty serious relationship for about 6 months. Her parents didn't know we were together (or that I w...
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{ "description": "pointing to my mil that she's not a widow", "pronormative_score": 1, "contranormative_score": 2 }
AITA for pointing to my MIL that she's not a widow?
My mother-in-law – let's call her Susanne – likes to feel sorry for herself because she is a widow, and therefore she lives alone and with no one who could help her on daily basis, or something like that. Here's the thing: she and her husband (let's say David) divorced and only later David died in an accident. Susanne...
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{ "description": "not kissing my girlfriend", "pronormative_score": 12, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA for not kissing my girlfriend?
So I’ve (31M) been sick all week, it’s pretty bad. My girlfriend (26F) keeps trying to kiss me when she or I leaves and I tell her, “No, I don’t want you to get sick” and she gets all pissy. I feel like she is being childish, and she should know better than to pretty much purposefully spread germs. She knows how sick...
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{ "description": "encouraging me friend to go all alone to meet her ex in another potentially dangerous city without any of her parents knowing", "pronormative_score": 2, "contranormative_score": 3 }
AITA for encouraging me friend to go all alone to meet her ex in another potentially dangerous city without any of her parents knowing?
This happened a few months back. My friend (she lives with me and we study together) was going through a phase where nothing was working out with any of the guys she had been meeting off of tinder (basically all of them turned out be assholes, leading her on at first, then bailing out abruptly with flimsy excuses). So ...
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{ "description": "moving 1,500 miles away from my husband for 6 months", "pronormative_score": 10, "contranormative_score": 4 }
AITA for moving 1,500 miles away from my husband for 6 months?
My husband and I are in more debt than I have ever been in my life. Our main goal in life is to save up money and sail around the Caribbean. We have been together 7 years and married for almost 2. We have no children. My sister goes to Alaska each year to serve at a restaurant and she makes very good money (way more t...
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{ "description": "having my cousin beat up some girls who were bothering me at school", "pronormative_score": 4, "contranormative_score": 4 }
AITA for having my cousin beat up some girls who were bothering me at school?
There are some very unpleasant girls (as girls are at that age) at my school, who cause a lot of trouble and harrass me. They invade my personal space and are very obnoxious. I can't do anything about it personally as I could (and have done in the past) if they were male because there is that retarded rule about not h...
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{ "description": "dumping a girl on Wednesday and going out with her close friend on Friday", "pronormative_score": 1, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA for dumping a girl on Wednesday and going out with her close friend on Friday?
I’m a sophomore in HS who doesn’t have too much experience w girls but I’m not antisocial or anything, I’m relatively popular. Let’s call the girl I dumped “girl#1” I asked out girl#1 to homecoming and “dated” her for about a month. We only hu around 3-4 times but slowly our relationship deteriorated and the last wee...
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AITA The Flu and the Husband
Apologies for formatting, being new to reddit, and all that comes with it. I also have the flu, so I hope this makes sense. The husb, for the past few days has been pretty great with taking care of me. Normally he's at a loss for what to do for a sick person, but up until now he's been conscientious, willing to do th...
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{ "description": "never hanging out with my friends outside of school", "pronormative_score": 4, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for never hanging out with my friends outside of school?
I by no means dislike my friends, not at all, and it's not like they've approached me about why I don't hang out with them, but I just feel like my friendship is questionable to them. School is just tiring for me and I know that it's likely we'll end up doing the same thing we do at school so I don't really see a point...
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{ "description": "wanting to speak with my supervisor", "pronormative_score": 2, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA For wanting to speak with my supervisor?
I am a [19M] and was just recently diagnosed with multiple sclerosis (January). After having a large attack that caused the left half of my body to have limited mobility and the left half of my face to be numb. After a month of physical therapy and new medications I am doing much better now and my mobility is almost ba...
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{ "description": "changing the subject on a sensitive matter that I did not know about", "pronormative_score": 1, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA for changing the subject on a sensitive matter that I did not know about?
Mobile formating blah blah grammar blah blah This happened today, and I asked some people on discord but they didn't really give a full response so i'm moving here. In class at the end, my table was just goofing off regularly while playing the board game we were assigned, and a topic (It was a debating game) came up...
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{ "description": "wanting my partner(ish) to go through a pregnancy scare with me", "pronormative_score": 4, "contranormative_score": 4 }
AITA for wanting my partner(ish) to go through a pregnancy scare with me
First of all, I will admit we’ve used the pull out method 3 times which isn’t the safest form of birth control (if at all) but we have our reasons and I will be going on birth control soon. We’ve discussed what I would wish to do if I fell pregnant. We used condoms for a while until the last 3 times we saw each other. ...
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{ "description": "not wanting to help my parents", "pronormative_score": 4, "contranormative_score": 5 }
AITA for not wanting to help my parents?
I’m 21 years old, and my parents are in their late 40’s/early 50’s. Every Thursday and Friday they expect me to wake up at 6:30 am to drive my dad to work because he recently had a medical complication that affected his vision. It’s all taken care of now but my mom still prohibits him from driving on the off chance tha...
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AITA because my husband wants to go out with a friend on the last night of our holiday?
We’re going to another state for a week. The first 3 nights will be to attend my mother’s 70th birthday party. The last 5 nights will be in the beach town where we got married a year ago (18 months ago by the time we get there). It’s the first time we will have been there since the wedding so it feels special. He aske...
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aisha6
{ "description": "wanting to sleep", "pronormative_score": 0, "contranormative_score": 4 }
AITA for wanting to sleep
So, backstory is simple. I had an appointment in the city on tuesday and a job interview on tuesday. As money was short, I asked my brother to sleep at his place to save travelling costs. He told me, that I would have to sleep on the couch and I agreed. Mind you, Ive slept at his place several times and his roommate wo...
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{ "description": "not remembering a story my girlfriend told me", "pronormative_score": 3, "contranormative_score": 3 }
AITA for not remembering a story my girlfriend told me?
This happened about an hour ago. My girlfriend has had an issue with this guy in her class Joshua, and for several reasons he's a super shitty person. The issue, though, is that he's best friends with her roommate. One thing led to another and she and her roommate had a pretty big fight over it that affected her a lot,...
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axnd29
{ "description": "wanting what I paid for", "pronormative_score": 5, "contranormative_score": 3 }
AITA for wanting what I paid for?
This happened maybe two years ago with some friends. We went to Sonic for ice cream and slushies before going to a movie. I had ordered the Sonic equivalent to a Reese's blizzard/mcflurry. We all got our stuff and started eating. I realized there was a pretty big crack in my cup that ice cream was dripping out of so I ...
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{ "description": "communicating to my best friend that there are a lot of red flags in his current relationship", "pronormative_score": 4, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for communicating to my best friend that there are a lot of red flags in his current relationship?
We know each other for years, he had one relationship before (middle school) with girl that was really unstable emotionally, and he couldn't bear with her, it took several broke ups to wrap up things, because after each she was begging him to stay and start over. After that he was alone for over ten years, dating and ...
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{ "description": "telling her about this bet", "pronormative_score": 0, "contranormative_score": 2 }
AITA for telling her about this bet?
First of all: Sorry for my not perfect english. ​ So a few years ago I had a crush on some girl, she had a pretty slutty reputation (which was bullshit) and 2 classmates of mine bet about who would be the first one to get laid with her. They asked me not to tell that to her and I didnt because I wasn't rea...
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{ "description": "calling my depressed sister a fucking crazy bitch in front of my mother when she told me she'll choke me in my sleep", "pronormative_score": 3, "contranormative_score": 3 }
AITA for calling my depressed sister a fucking crazy bitch in front of my mother when she told me she'll choke me in my sleep?
She's in her 20's, has several mental health issues such as depression and social anxiety and lives with our grandmother. I visited my grandmother this winter break and my mom, which I had not seen in years, also came. We all live in Brazil. Me and my sister had fought just a few days before this title incident and fr...
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abue3j
{ "description": "calling out a friend that was trash talking our other friend", "pronormative_score": 1, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA For calling out a friend that was trash talking our other friend
This is my first post to reddit ever and I’m on mobile like a pleb so bare with me So Marie, Anne, Kyla and I have all been best friends for at least five years, Kyla and I are closer and Anne and Marie are closer with each other but Marie keeps trash talking Kyla all the time and is always critical of her and...
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{ "description": "not going to my aunt's house", "pronormative_score": 1, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA for not going to my aunt's house?
Throwaway here. So I just want to start this off by saying I love my family. We're really close and I love spending time with them. But I've seen my all of my 25 cousins and my aunts and uncles Friday, Saturday, Sunday, Monday, and Tuesday this week. Now tonight my mom wants to go to my aunt's house to have a game nigh...
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{ "description": "not breaking up with my girlfriend", "pronormative_score": 2, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA For not breaking up with my Girlfriend?
So I would like to first tell you about the whole situation. I am a fairly shy introverted person and my friend Vikky (fake name) was fairly similar. We shared interests in Memes, television series like The Office and Brooklyn Nine Nine. We had some Highschool courses together and after a semester became best friends. ...
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{ "description": "beating my dad at Smash Bros", "pronormative_score": 2, "contranormative_score": 2 }
AITA for beating my dad at Smash Bros?
So, every night me and my dad play Super Smash Bros. Ultimate. He’s not the best at the game, although he is improving. When we play, he always insists on picking my character, so he has a better chance at winning. I’m normally fine with this, as it gives me more of a challenge. For our first match tonight, he picks ...
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{ "description": "being angry that my senior boss told my junior boss that I had told him I was feeling harassed by the junior boss at my job", "pronormative_score": 1, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA for being angry that my senior boss told my junior boss that I had told him I was feeling harassed by the junior boss at my job?
Not sexual harassment - demeaning remarks, overbearing supervision, not admitting they were wrong when challenged? HR policy states that this should have been confidential when I told my senior boss, and he instead said to me today he had discussed my feelings regarding the harassment with the junior. I explicitly did ...
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{ "description": "wanting to live comfortably", "pronormative_score": 2, "contranormative_score": 3 }
AITA for wanting to live comfortably?
So I just moved into my new place about a month ago. It was forced, my dad's health was seriously declining and he couldn't work anymore, but he'she's seeing a doctor regularly and things are starting to look up for him. The night I moved in, I was so scared of being there alone, I didn't know the area and my landlord ...
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