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AITA Am I a jerk for destroying a bullies fort?
TL;DR is not at the bottom since its hard to explain bottom. So first of let me tell you the people involved : E (friend) L (friend) ME (me) M (Bully) K1 (friend) K2 (friend) 4G (Bullies Minions) So me and lots of my friends have this gigantic, awesome snow fort. M and another one of my friends (k2) had some drama befo...
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{ "description": "mentioning a problem about our dads car to my brother and basically telling me to stand down in all caps", "pronormative_score": 2, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA: I mentioned a problem about our dads car to my brother and he basically told me to stand down in all caps
So our dad has recently been less and less self sufficient and needed some help. I live in another city and my brother and my mom help him with moving to a smaller place after we sold his house. I wrote my younger brother about the [impending GPS rollover](https://www.gpsworld.com/homeland-security-provides-info-about...
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{ "description": "getting upset with the person I'm talking to for being on my ass about smoking weed", "pronormative_score": 6, "contranormative_score": 3 }
AITA for getting upset with the person i’m talking to for being on my ass about smoking weed?
I feel like the asshole, but I also feel like my reaction is justified. I’ve been through a lot in my life. It hasn’t always been easy. I smoke to help cope a bit with what I can, but It’s not like that was the first solution. I’ve been to therapy and taken psychiatric meds, and nothing helps as much as a little bit ...
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AITA Roommate has been unable to pay his full share of the rent for a while now and leaves me to cover it. I try to talk to him about money issues and solutions to help both of us and he gets upset.
My roommate and I have been living together since July. He is my best friend and we moved to a new state because my job took me here and he wanted to get away from his current situation. Since I’d be making better money I offered him a deal where he pays 1/3 of the rent and half the bills and I’ll cover the rest. Told ...
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{ "description": "thinking my girlfriend is dating me out of pity", "pronormative_score": 2, "contranormative_score": 1 }
aita for thinking my girlfriend is dating me out of pity?
so, hi. on mobile, second time poster, english is my first language. i moved states (nevada to arizona) in about july. school started around august, but i started in september. so there i was, starting school late in a new state without friends. i made my first two friends who aren’t relevant to this story. they in...
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{ "description": "confronting the pee in the bowl", "pronormative_score": 5, "contranormative_score": 4 }
WIBTA if I confront the pee in the bowl?
I'm living with my fiance's parents for the next few months until we find out where his new job is placing him. His parents are in their 60s and retired, They are lovely people, but don't really upkeep their home very well. I'm trying to help where I can with daily household chores, and aside from some minor venting ...
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{ "description": "\"cheating\" on my so", "pronormative_score": 2, "contranormative_score": 3 }
AITA for “cheating” on my SO?
So this actually isn’t my story, but a friend’s. It took place years ago. So it’s more of ARTA (are THEY the asshole)? She was with her boyfriend for about two years at the time that this happened. They had a habit of breaking and making up (which is already a bad sign). They had a particularly bad fight and he dumpe...
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{ "description": "constantly questioning my supervisor", "pronormative_score": 2, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA for constantly questioning my supervisor?
Stick with me here. It's a little long. I work for a police department as a security officer. The building I work in has pretty high security, but less than an airport. So already you can probably get the armed services vibe of "do what you're told and don't ask questions". But I'm not in the military, and I don't get...
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{ "description": "making fun of my friends skin color", "pronormative_score": 4, "contranormative_score": 7 }
AITA for making fun of my friends skin color?
So this girl I used to work with and been wanting to sleep with is Hispanic, so am I. I'm light skinned though and she's much tanner than I am. She always teased me about being white. We were hanging out with some people the other night and she started calling me things like white boy and other things. Which I didn't...
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{ "description": "meddling with my dad's work", "pronormative_score": 2, "contranormative_score": 2 }
AITA for meddling with my dad’s work?
My dad was recently transferred to a new city (he’s a prosecutor) and was reviewing a bunch of cases and he stumbled upon a rape case that was going to be dismissed. He found out the family of the rapist had paid off the prosecutor and the said prosecutor was already transferred to another region. My dad got really ang...
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{ "description": "not helping a soon-to-be single mom", "pronormative_score": 8, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for not helping a soon-to-be single mom?
I’m a single mom. I usually don’t call myself that. I’ve worked really hard to get my son and I ahead. Most, if not all, the help we’ve received has been paid for in one way or another. An acquaintance, the mom of my son’s classmate, is going through a divorce. She says they’re just separated for now but it’s clear he...
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{ "description": "being angry at my roommate", "pronormative_score": 1, "contranormative_score": 4 }
AITA for being angry at my roommate?
My roommate and I live in a two bedroom apartment. At the moment, we have our friend, who is my best friend, and her dog staying with us for a little bit. Tonight both my roommate (A) and my friend (B) left our apartment for two hours so that I could have some privacy while a friend is over. The friend and I went back ...
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{ "description": "being mad at my disabled mom", "pronormative_score": 4, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA for being mad at my disabled mom?
Some backstory: I am the oldest of 5 children, and my mom has cerebral palsy. My parents are divorced, so my dad lives about 15 minutes away. My mom is only disabled to the point where she has a severe limp, nothing affects her mental ability or upper body. She is also overweight. She is always late. Always. Examples...
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{ "description": "refusing to compromise on my gaming schedule", "pronormative_score": 6, "contranormative_score": 2 }
AITA for refusing to compromise on my gaming schedule?
Lately i have had more sparetime than usual as the workload have been reduced, that has allowed me more time to enjoy my hobby and game with my buddies. We are playing games that require communication, and we are usually doing callouts and having fun. However, im talking with a normal voice level, im not screaming, or ...
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{ "description": "telling my boss to F*** off when I tried to call out cause my grandmother passed away", "pronormative_score": 1, "contranormative_score": 2 }
AITA for telling my boss to F*** off when i tried to call out cause my grandmother passed away?
So a couple of days ago i woke up to the devastating news that my grandma passed away,i was pretty depressed and i didn’t felt like going to work was a great idea.So it was pretty early in the morning and i always have the closing shift so i decided to call my job to let them know what happened plus since its so early ...
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{ "description": "suggesting we don't tell my grandmother with Alzheimer's her oldest son is dying", "pronormative_score": 4, "contranormative_score": 0 }
WIBTA if I suggest we don’t tell my Grandmother with Alzheimer’s her oldest son is dying?
My oldest uncle got diagnosed with stomach cancer last week and may only have a few weeks/months to live. He is considered to be moderate mentally retarded and lives in a state group home, about 2-3 hours from my Grandmother’s house. I couldn’t tell you the last time they’ve seen each other, as neither of them travel v...
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AITA in a Craigslist argument?
Found a fairly good deal on a mountain bike on Craigslist the other day posted for $1,275. Texted the guy and spent a good part of the day going back and forth discussing specs, condition, finding a good time to meet, etc. We decided to meet so I could look at it the next day. Hadn’t talked price yet, but a few hours l...
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{ "description": "putting my stuff back in the closet", "pronormative_score": 2, "contranormative_score": 2 }
AITA for putting my stuff back in the closet?
I live in a residence with a kitchen that is shared between 15 people. A girl who I know also lived here for two years, but this year she didn't during the first semester because of unrelated reasons. This week she just moved back in, after subletting the room to someone else for the first semester. When she left in t...
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{ "description": "doing what I've been doing for 5 years", "pronormative_score": 2, "contranormative_score": 3 }
WIBTA for doing what I’ve been doing for 5 years.
About 5 years ago I got a new job that paid a lot better and moved into a neighborhood where the houses are rather far apart, I’d say probly about 100 meters or so. Most people use that space for outbuildings like garages, storage, pool house, etc so it’s not uncommon to have buildings on your property that are close t...
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{ "description": "asking my friend to not go to a concert with my ex", "pronormative_score": 4, "contranormative_score": 0 }
WIBTA if I asked my friend to not go to a concert with my ex?
My ex-boyfriend and I bought concert tickets a few months ago for a show coming up in a month. One of his friends got excited about it, and my boyfriend asked him to come (with my permission). I was cool with it, since he’s my friend too. He was going to bring along his girlfriend who is one of my closest friends, whic...
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anexyo
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AITA for being mad?
So I used to be friends with a dude from college and we sort of had an urgement over a girl in our science class. He stopped talking to me and we decided to spend sometime away from each other. This was especially difficult for me , since he was one of my greatest friends and I had no one to talk to about certain thing...
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{ "description": "seeing an acquaintance on the bus", "pronormative_score": 4, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA when I see an acquaintance on the bus
AITA for just giving a wave and a hello? Do you sit next to them or give them their space? If it’s a short ride I usually seat near and chat but on a long ride I hate to monopolize someone’s time who isn’t a friend or closer person who I know would enjoy the company.
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{ "description": "demanding my husband to be there for me", "pronormative_score": 6, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA for demanding my husband [35M] to be there for me [25F]
I have developed depression due to some severe traumatic experiences I went through since our marriage over a year ago. We live long distance (oceans apart) due to having financial problems which contributes a lot to my said depression. My husband doesn’t give me proper timing and always prioritizes his friends. He usu...
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{ "description": "asking my roommate if her brother could not sleep on our couch while he's sick", "pronormative_score": 2, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for asking my roommate if her brother could not sleep on our couch while he’s sick?
For background, I live with my girlfriend and another couple. I am the only one who has graduated and started a full time job about two months ago, the rest of them are in their final semesters of college. My girlfriend and I started dating about halfway through our lease, so as a result the two of us are each paying 1...
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{ "description": "I mean being her dad", "pronormative_score": 3, "contranormative_score": 5 }
AITA? I mean it is her dad?
AITA? I have been with my girlfriend for two years. She has a 12 yo daughter with her ex who was in a motorcycle accident over a week ago. He is still in a coma. We would like to speak positively to the 12 year old daughter but temper that with realistic expectations. His family and his sex worker girlfriend will not ...
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{ "description": "telling a girl someone called her a slut", "pronormative_score": 2, "contranormative_score": 2 }
AITA for telling a girl someone called her a slut?
I just started at a new school and I sit with the girls in my homeroom class at lunch, who are nice to me but don’t seem to like a lot of the other people in our grade. There groups “leader” I guess, A, doesn’t like another girl, B, and while the group was talking A called her a slut. B and I were talking later that ...
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{ "description": "not going to the family reunion", "pronormative_score": 4, "contranormative_score": 3 }
AITA for not going to the family reunion?
So my husband’s family (who has taken me in and treated me like family since I don’t have one of my own) had a big family reunion with all the aunts and uncles and cousins and all the rest. My husband and I were invited. We told the planner (his older sister) that we likely wouldn’t be going. There are about 25 kids ...
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{ "description": "being uncomfortable around my grandmother", "pronormative_score": 2, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for being uncomfortable around my grandmother
Throwaway account btw AITA for being extremely uncomfortable around my grandma? She always asks the most personal questions about my development and says stuff like "Get some meat on that ass!" And stuff like that
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{ "description": "giving my BF an ultimatum", "pronormative_score": 1, "contranormative_score": 2 }
AITA for giving my BF an ultimatum?
We (f/30) (m/31) had a fight about a controversial issue. He took it personal. We made up, but after 2 days, he said he felt judged and broke up with me bc he doesn't want me to resent him 1 day. We make up again and the very next day which is a week before our big trip across the world, he says we have to postpone the...
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{ "description": "telling my coworker to go talk to her mom in the other room so I could watch a movie", "pronormative_score": 1, "contranormative_score": 1 }
WIBTA if I told my coworker to go talk to her mom in the other room so i could watch a movie?
I work 3rd shift by myself 3 days of the week. It is usually pretty slow, which gives me an opportunity to watch some movies in my free time. I finished most of my work for the night and sat down in the lobby to watch a movie. I started the movie and my coworker sat down because she doesnt have a ride and is waiting ...
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{ "description": "snapping and yelling at my roommate", "pronormative_score": 2, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA for snapping and yelling at my roommate?
The title makes it seem pretty one sided, but hear me out. TL;DR at the bottom Me and a few friends (3 college-age guys) just moved into a new house this past summer, and it’s been great. The neighborhood is really nice, and it’s mostly families and older couples living here. We like to play live music with drums and ...
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AITA: Droppin’ Bombs
We went out to breakfast; my wife, 2 year old daughter and myself. We were seated in a booth behind a group of 3 older gentlemen. As we were sitting there trying to figure out what to order, we kept hearing “fuck this” and “fuck that.” They weren’t be belligerent, just talking to each other. Anyway, my 2 year old is a...
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{ "description": "making a girl pay for my drink and lying to her", "pronormative_score": 3, "contranormative_score": 2 }
AITA for making a girl pay for my drink and lying to her?
I was at ball with my friend and I happened to bump to one of the girls near bar. I immedietly apologized and the girl said its ok as long as I go get a drink with her (she wanted to pay for it), I kindly declined and told her maybe later (which was a lie I didnt like her at all but didnt want to hurt her). My friend t...
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{ "description": "buying beer for her with her money", "pronormative_score": 1, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA For (23m) buying beer for her (19f) with her money.
Been seeing this girl and she has a job, i recently lost mine. i had a job when we met but then i lost mine she felt bad for me i guess. but since we met, i felt like she only liked hanging out with me because im one of few guys that she had to hang out with and buy beer for the both of us (with her money) and just hav...
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{ "description": "seating myself at the counter without seeing the hostess at a diner", "pronormative_score": 1, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA for seating myself at the counter without seeing the hostess at a diner?
So I arrive at a busy diner for breakfast. There are 2 entrances, a Street entrance with no parking and a back door leading to parking lot. My partner and I park in the lot, enter through the back door, and snag two seats at the counter since it's just two of us and we don't need a table. After the waitress behind the ...
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{ "description": "expressing my financial concerns for my gf's father", "pronormative_score": 1, "contranormative_score": 1 }
Aita for expressing my financial concerns for my gf's father
To be fair this happened a couple months ago and I feel requires some background knowledge to properly access. I have been friends with this F (23) for a a long time. I've been working with her father for almost half a year. And we both started officially dating about 2 months ago. She has a car that her previous b...
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{ "description": "being mad at by best friend and Ex gf for sleeping together", "pronormative_score": 0, "contranormative_score": 8 }
AITA for being mad at by best friend and Ex gf for sleeping together?
For some context I dated a girl for a little of 4 months. We never got to deep into love with each other even though sometimes I really felt like I did and I’m sure she did too but in reality it was more sex than love. At the end of our relationship we kinda stopped talking and only saw each other once a week at most a...
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{ "description": "leaving for a music show without my friend", "pronormative_score": 6, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for leaving for a music show without my friend
I'm a university student that lives in a house with 5 other students (two couples, and two singles, all close friends of mine). I spend a large majority of my time with the first couple and we hang out, play games, and watch movies together every night. The others in the house are always welcome, but are usually doing ...
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{ "description": "bitching at my roommate", "pronormative_score": 1, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA for bitching at my roommate
I study abroad in the same city as my best friend, so obviously our parents decided to rent us an apartment. Its very small, basically one open room w/ kitchen, living room, beds. The only things we really decided on spliting are beds (obv) and desks. There is a couch facing the tv that i never sit in, that my roommate...
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{ "description": "not paying rent after moving out", "pronormative_score": 5, "contranormative_score": 14 }
AITA if I don’t pay rent after moving out?
I’ve been living with my roommates for about 2 years now. It’s three of us in one apartment, and rent is 1500 dollars a month. I’m going to give a little background and then get to the problem. Background: Everything was going well, until one of my roommates got a dog without running it by any of us. It was a rescue...
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{ "description": "getting mad that my Dad couldn't pay for a trip", "pronormative_score": 4, "contranormative_score": 3 }
AITA for getting mad that my Dad couldn’t pay for a trip?
My sister lives far away so I don’t have the chance to see her a lot. Two months ago my dad said he could send me over to see her for a week. I was over the moon! Getting to see my sister and having a mini vacation was a dream come true! So I tell my part time job that I wouldn’t be in that week and start planning for ...
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{ "description": "rejecting my ex-friend's feelings", "pronormative_score": 6, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for rejecting my ex-friend's feelings.
TL;DR: I made a new friend. She needed help kissing. I helped her. She confessed her feelings to me. I rejected her. ​ Some background: I'm a junior in high school. Before the school year I chose to take an extra Spanish class. My friend since middle school was in the same class sitting in the desk in fron...
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{ "description": "being disappointed that friendA didn't tell me about friendB", "pronormative_score": 1, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for being disappointed that friendA didn't tell me about friendB?
Context: I lived in a country different to my homecountry for 5 years, the last 2 of which I made a group of friends from Homecountry (FriendA, FriendB and FriendC). We work at the same company, have similar ages, are all in LTRs. I moved to Newcountry almost 2 years ago but kept in touch with them, chatting daily, se...
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{ "description": "being offended at a joke my boyfriend made", "pronormative_score": 9, "contranormative_score": 14 }
AITA for being offended at a joke my boyfriend made?
my boyfriend and i are both gamers, but he is into more games than i am and knows a lot more than i do. yesterday, he had some friends over. he was playing Fallout 76 on the Xbox and his friends were sitting with him and joking around. i was sitting with them and i saw a plane thing on the screen, and all i did was as...
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{ "description": "getting mad at my partner for thinking about having sex with other people", "pronormative_score": 2, "contranormative_score": 2 }
AITA for getting mad at my (21 F) partner (28 M) for thinking about having sex with other people?
I need perspective here. We've been together for 2 years. My partner sometimes sees a stranger and think about having sex with them. Today he saw a co worker of his check him out and started thinking of them sexually. I'm really upset by it and want to understand his perspective but I'm struggling. He says he doesn't...
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{ "description": "losing my friend of 19 years", "pronormative_score": 2, "contranormative_score": 2 }
AITA for losing my friend of 19 years?
So this only happened recently, but the whole problem of it started over a year ago. Basically, I used to hang around with this group of the four of us, myself, one lad who’s irrelevant to the story, and a couple, who for the sake of anonymity I’ll refer to as Rhys and Zoey. Now, Zoey started hanging out with us a lot ...
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{ "description": "pushing my friend in a water balloon fight", "pronormative_score": 1, "contranormative_score": 2 }
AITA for pushing my friend in a water balloon fight
Don’t know if this counts as physical violence sorry if it does Side note: this happened a long time ago but I chilled with my friend that this happened to today, also were in middle school so this is rly silly stuff So it’s me and my friend Tom vs Shawn, 2v1 in water balloons. Me and Tom are running low on balloons ...
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{ "description": "calling a little kid's YouTube channel trash", "pronormative_score": 2, "contranormative_score": 3 }
AITA For calling a little kid’s YouTube channel trash?
I used to be friends with someone at my summer camp and I have always supported his small YouTube channel (100+ subs). He runs a discord server for his fans, which I have been a part of all the way from the beginning. The server starts becoming active again a couple years after it is made. However, I noticed that peopl...
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{ "description": "rethinking my whole relationship with my best friend", "pronormative_score": 2, "contranormative_score": 2 }
AITA for rethinking my whole relationship with my best friend?
This one is going to be a doozy. Obligatory TL;DR at the bottom. So, to set the stage for this, I met my best friend (21F, who will be referred to as Sara from here on out) when I (22F) was in high school. She was a sophomore and I was a junior and we have been friends ever since. So, around six years. Ove the cour...
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{ "description": "giving my sister weed knowing she's had bad experiences in the past", "pronormative_score": 2, "contranormative_score": 2 }
AITA for giving my sister weed knowing she's had bad experiences in the past?
The title sounds bad, but bear with me. I (19F) smoke regularly. I enjoy it, it helps me relax. My sister (17) does not. She tried edibles once before and totally freaked out and spent the night puking. She's tried smoking a couple times with me and hasn't had a bad reaction. So, on to last night. I got home, after a...
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{ "description": "telling a girl she should probably find a new home", "pronormative_score": 4, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for telling a girl she should probably find a new home?
First of all, I’m not a native speaker and there might be some cultural differences, which I’ll try to explain. I’m in college and share a house with another 9 people, it’s kinda like a fraternity but we’re super chill. 5 of them are men(gay) and the other 5 are woman(me, included). We are super close and quite intim...
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{ "description": "being a side dude", "pronormative_score": 5, "contranormative_score": 4 }
AITA for being a side dude?
So long story short I met a girl the other day and I’m 100% she got a boyfriend. We were hitting on each-other quite a bit, I asked if he has a boyfriend and she said “haha kinda nothing serious, dw ill tell you if anything happens.” Am I an asshole for considering being a side dude????
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{ "description": "asking to be reimbursed for alcohol my roommate's mom drank", "pronormative_score": 1, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA for asking to be reimbursed for alcohol my roommate's mom drank?
This is my first post ever. That's nerve wracking. If I mess any of this up, please let me know and I'll fix it. TL;DR at the bottom. Let me preface this story with a bit of backstory. This happened back in October of last year. My best friend (21F) (from here on out to be referred to as RM) and I (21F) had been livi...
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{ "description": "confronting my ex 3 years on", "pronormative_score": 0, "contranormative_score": 2 }
AITA for confronting my ex 3 years on?
So the backstory. 3 years ago me and this girl were in a relationship. It was highschool senior year (I'm not from the US so we don't have a relaxed dating culture) the first time for both of us and lasted for 4 months before she dropped of the face of the earth for a couple of days, and ended it without giving a reaso...
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{ "description": "prioritizing my strict moral expectations for myself over my friend", "pronormative_score": 2, "contranormative_score": 2 }
AITA for prioritizing my strict moral expectations for myself over my friend?
My close friend of several years (we'll refer to her as Mary) dated this guy (we'll call him Roger), but it ended up being a one night stand-ish ordeal. She had felt very genuinely towards him, but Roger severed the relationship after only a few days, leaving her with a negative, whorish self-image. She proceeded to ex...
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{ "description": "being angry at my sister and her friends for messing with my hair", "pronormative_score": 2, "contranormative_score": 2 }
AITA for being angry at my sister and her friends for messing with my hair?
I am a guy btw. My older sister and her friends are very into makeup and stuff. One of her friends I think has a crush on me although I think they are weirdos. Anyhow I fall asleep on the couch and when I wake up my hair has been done with scrunchies and into plaits. AITA to regard this as an invasion of privacy?
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{ "description": "not paying for the fence", "pronormative_score": 1, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA for not paying for the fence
Okay let me start by saying I’m not the person this is about but idk what the sub is when you want to find out if another person is being an asshole. So bear with me if you can. We are building a house for these clients in a rich, waterfront neighbourhood. We are coming close to finishing and the price all up is gett...
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{ "description": "refusing to see an ex's kid who is not of any relation to me 8 years after we split up", "pronormative_score": 3, "contranormative_score": 3 }
AITA for refusing to see an ex's kid who is not of any relation to me 8 years after we split up?
Here is a little back story. I dated this person for a little under 3 years around 8-10 years ago. We were both in our early 20's and she has a then 1 year old son from a previous relationship. She told me the kids father was a dead beat dad and beating her and what not (found out later all of that was a lie). I played...
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{ "description": "not telling my friend what happened at A Party", "pronormative_score": 2, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA For Not Telling My Friend What Happened At A Party?
CONTEXT: I am a male, most people at the party are male. She and me had a little bit of chemistry before the party but we lost touch until my friends party. Alright so this has been chewing me up lately and I need advice. So I went to my friends bday party and we’ll call him Harold so I went to the party and everyth...
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{ "description": "not being psychic and knowing what my grieving MIL wants", "pronormative_score": 3, "contranormative_score": 2 }
AITA for not being psychic and knowing what my grieving MIL wants
So, some quick background, my husband 3 kids and I moved in with my MIL back in July to help raise our 2 nephews because she works 2nd shift ft and I'm a stay at home mom. There's more details in my post history if anyone cared to dig. My MIL is mostly a very nice lady. She can be very passive aggressive though, inst...
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{ "description": "missing my aunt's (eventual) funeral", "pronormative_score": 5, "contranormative_score": 4 }
WIBTA for missing my aunt's (eventual) funeral?
So for like my entire life, my aunt has been basically non-existent in my life, and in fact has always been only looking out for number one. As a teen she was a runaway. She's got an adversarial relationship with her siblings. She was in the hospital hallway on the phone the entire time her mom was on her deathbed....
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{ "description": "being frustrated with the father of my child", "pronormative_score": 2, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for being frustrated with the father of my child?
I'm UK based and get a certain amount of maternity and child benefit paid into my account. My partner works and our baby is his second child - his first born lives in a town not far away but he has to travel every weekend to see him. He's paid roughly £700/800 a month compared to my roughly £600. He works 3 days a week...
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{ "description": "calling my friend fat", "pronormative_score": 5, "contranormative_score": 5 }
AITA for calling my friend fat?
I go to a pretty small public highschool and my friend is one of the biggest kids in our school, but he is also the strongest and sometimes that gets to his head. So my friend is constantly making fun of me for not being able to lift as much as him and calls me weak constantly even though i can lift a good amount alrea...
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{ "description": "asking my friend to stick to a schedule for when we can talk", "pronormative_score": 4, "contranormative_score": 0 }
WIBTA if I asked my friend to stick to a schedule for when we can talk
Hello all - pretty low stakes game here, but I'd like an outside opinion. ​ I am abroad in Europe, in my first year of grad school, while my good friend is working in the US; we are 6 hours apart time-zone wise. We have made a good effort to keep in touch while I've been abroad, via Snapchat, Instagram, Fa...
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{ "description": "addressing my GF's compalont and change my behavior toward her", "pronormative_score": 1, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA for addressing my GF's compalont and change my behavior toward her?
First time poster, English is my second language sorry for odd syntax. Long story short. Few days ago, i tried to initiate some intimacy between us the sane way I've always did. She did not felt like it, but i still kept going. I always start witha good full body massage to setup the mood and it always turns me on r...
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{ "description": "asking my mom to stop humming in public", "pronormative_score": 4, "contranormative_score": 3 }
AITA for asking my mom to stop humming in public?
My first post so excuse any mistakes please but am I the asshole for wanting my mom to stop humming and singing in public locations and in the car? She sings and hums alot and it gets very annoying. I’ll say here that her humming and singing is very loud and she seems to try and command attention. She is always loud ...
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{ "description": "wanting to keep my desk heater on in the office", "pronormative_score": 5, "contranormative_score": 6 }
AITA for wanting to keep my desk heater on in the office?
Hi everyone, I am really not sure what to think of this situation. I am a legal assistant at a law firm. Across from me sits another legal assistant. There is a barrier between us and a decent amount of distance between us. I find the office cold and I have been using a small desk heater as of recent. I only point it a...
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{ "description": "parking in an empty reserved spot to pick something up from a porch", "pronormative_score": 4, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for parking in an empty reserved spot to pick something up from a porch?
On the way home from work today I had to pick something up from my daughter's school friend's porch. They live on a pretty busy road with no street parking. I m not feeling well and am rushing to get home so of course I absentmindedly drove passed their drive way. I pulled into the next multi unit lot and park in an em...
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{ "description": "fighting with my gf over kittens", "pronormative_score": 6, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for fighting with my GF over kittens?
I've always wanted a kitten and a few months ago, a stray followed me home and I adopted him. My family was not pleased because our landlord doesn't allow pets. But they grew to like him and the landlord gave us the OK. Prior to adopting, I had been sending m6 gf pics of white cats because I always wanted one. Imagin...
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{ "description": "not telling my mother about my future plans", "pronormative_score": 6, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for not telling my mother about my future plans?
So a little bit of a back story: I am a 15 year old that goes in 10th ( last ) year of primary school. My mother always wanted me to gymnasium or higher education school in English. I got nice school marks etc. so I don't think it would be a problem, however I decided that I want to do a trade as a fitness advisor whil...
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{ "description": "ghosting a friend", "pronormative_score": 3, "contranormative_score": 4 }
AITA for ghosting a friend?
This happened a few months ago, but it's been looming over my head ever since. Throwaway account since some people know my main account username. I apologize that this is a long one. I have been friends with a boy (who I'll call Alex from here on out) for more than 10 years. At the beginning of the "friendship", thou...
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{ "description": "calling someone out for spamming Craigslist Free Section with a sick kitten", "pronormative_score": 1, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA for calling someone out for spamming Craigslist Free Section with a sick kitten?
The free section of craigslist in my area gets far too many listings for pets, despite being specifically not acceptable for that section. Other Person lists *sick* kitten on craigslist free section, begging for someone to pay ten dollars for it and then take it to a vet. I send an email: > > Free stuff (no...
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{ "description": "worrying about the fact that my girlfriend smoked a joint with a random homeless man", "pronormative_score": 3, "contranormative_score": 3 }
AITA For worrying about the fact that my girlfriend smoked a joint with a random homeless man?
As the title says. My girlfriend just told me that she smoked a joint with a random homeless guy on the street. When I brought up the fact that she could maybe catch something. (I think, or am I wrong?) I said how that has the potential to affect me and that doing that kind of stuff has dangers. I specifically broug...
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{ "description": "having a thing with a married woman who's on \"break\"", "pronormative_score": 5, "contranormative_score": 6 }
AITA for having a thing with a married woman who’s on “break”?
Her and her husband are apparently on a “break” as she says. She currently lives in her own place, and I’ve been there multiple times. Soon after she met me, they took a break according to her and then she basically hinted at us seeing each other. She’s attractive so why not? Here’s the thing. I’m not a mean or a b...
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{ "description": "telling my uncle-in-law he needed to leave Thanksgiving dinner when he wouldn't stop attacking people politically", "pronormative_score": 2, "contranormative_score": 2 }
AITA for telling my uncle-in-law he needed to leave Thanksgiving dinner when he wouldn't stop attacking people politically?
He is VERY conservative (and religious) and I guess that's fine, but as soon as he got there he had on a MAGA hat and a shirt that said "monica sucks but not like hillary" and was told it's not OK in front of kids, but to his credit (after my Aunt's help) changed into one of my shirts for the night. Then 2 mins later s...
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{ "description": "getting frustrated when my bf didn't respond and taking a shift at work instead", "pronormative_score": 2, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for getting frustrated when my bf didn’t respond and taking a shift at work instead?
Okay so for some context, I’ve (US) been in an LDR with my boyfriend (UK) for almost five months now. The only saving grace is that his sleep schedule is messed up enough so that we can actually talk. I have class on weekdays and I work on weekends, leaving the only time we have together during my evenings and his late...
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AITA and creating unnecessary problems at work?
I (33 M) have been dealing with ongoing issues with a colleague who I will refer to as G (40 F) at work. I am having trouble letting go of the situation and don't feel like I am in the wrong, but would like some validation in my opinion or to hear differing thoughts regarding the situation. Just some background, this...
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{ "description": "going on holiday without my girlfriend", "pronormative_score": 7, "contranormative_score": 7 }
AITA for going on holiday without my girlfriend?
Hello so me and the girlfriend in a bit of a pickle and she's saying i'm in the wrong but i think i'm not, please shed some light on this. A few months ago we booked and fully paid for our very first Holiday together. The date was set for the 1st of June. She is currently on her final year at university and during thi...
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{ "description": "ending a friendship after they supported someone who is ruining my Professional Reputation and broke my heart", "pronormative_score": 1, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA For Ending a Friendship After They Supported Someone Who Is Ruining My Professional Reputation and Broke My Heart?
About 6 months ago, I discovered a popular supplier selling damaged goods. Since I was scared of them, and no one would listen to me alone, I gave the information to another larger company, AC. AC excitedly went public with the information. He became popular, and had a huge influx of customers. Due to a mistake, it ca...
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{ "description": "thinking my peer should take leave", "pronormative_score": 2, "contranormative_score": 2 }
AITA for Thinking My Peer Should Take Leave?
Hello everyone! I've been dealing with a situation for the last few weeks and I'm wondering if I'm in the wrong here... I'm in a masters program (second year) and in a team of six members. The course is challenging and we have group assignments every week including one large final project. One team member, a married m...
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{ "description": "getting upset with my boyfriend for dodging a concert we've planned going to, to go on a vacation with his friends", "pronormative_score": 2, "contranormative_score": 2 }
AITA for getting upset with my boyfriend for dodging a concert we’ve planned going to, to go on a vacation with his friends
I’ve been a long time fan of Guns N’ Roses. Have been to their concert back in July and it was the most amazing night ever. So when I heard about Slash touring with Myles Kennedy in February I became instantly hyped. Asked my boyfriend to come with me and he replied quite excited. He bought the tickets in September and...
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{ "description": "getting annoyed over processions for public safety people who die", "pronormative_score": 2, "contranormative_score": 2 }
AITA for getting annoyed over processions for public safety people who die...
Off duty? I had two recent ones in my city. First a cop died at home of a heart attack and a fire fighter was hit by a vehicle while cycling. Both got freeway processions of public safety vehicles and fire trucks parked on overpasses. I am sorry for their loss but this wasn’t in the line of duty. Line of duty death ...
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{ "description": "expecting my best friend to not hang out with my ex", "pronormative_score": 1, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA for expecting my best friend to not hang out with my ex?
Me and my ex had a nasty breakup, with some stuff that was hard for me to decide if it was my fault or not. I told my best friend about this, and he would assure me that my ex is an asshole and I'm too good for him. However, he continues to hang out with my ex. I havent asked him to not hang out with him, nor am I goin...
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{ "description": "asking my host mom not to be loud at 5 am", "pronormative_score": 3, "contranormative_score": 3 }
AITA For Asking My Host Mom Not To Be Loud At 5 AM?
For context; I've been living with a host family for 6 months now, while going to school abroad. Our relationship is pretty good, esp. between me and my host mom. So, my host mom has started using the coffee machine early in the morning (around 5-5:30 am), multiple times over a period of around 20 minutes. I figured, ...
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{ "description": "telling my brother to hide that he's gay", "pronormative_score": 12, "contranormative_score": 8 }
AITA for telling my brother to hide that he's gay?
So I know right off the bat this sounds bad, but hear me out here. My older brother, let's call him Thomas, is planning to run for the House as a Republican. He's also gay. He's semi-open, basically he doesn't hide it from closer friends and family, but the average person he kinda knows doesn't know. I've heard thro...
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{ "description": "not getting my friend a Brithday Present", "pronormative_score": 4, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA For Not Getting My Friend a Brithday Present?
So, some friends and I have gone on holiday to celebrate a friend's significant birthday. I live away these days so I haven't really been around for the organisation/discussions about the holiday or celebrations and so I didn't realise that as midnight hit on the eve of the birthday, the others appeared with presents...
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{ "description": "telling my brother what people were saying about him", "pronormative_score": 2, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for telling my brother what people were saying about him?
Okay that was a vague title. Here's the obligatory I'm on mobile/throwaway account/first post here/fake names/TL;DR at the bottom yada yada. Some context: my brother is a few years above me. He has a girlfriend who is homeschooled, but her younger sister goes to the same high school as my brother. I as an 8th grader ...
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{ "description": "destroying my best friend's relationship", "pronormative_score": 1, "contranormative_score": 2 }
AITA for destroying my best friend's relationship ?
This is my first post ever so please forgive me if I've made any errors in formatting. There are 4 people involved in this story (fake names for privacy obviously) Me Harry (My best friend) Abigail (Harry's girlfriend) Austin (the person Abigail hooks up with) This happened around 9-10 months ago, at this point eve...
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{ "description": "disliking my mom because of her current lover", "pronormative_score": 1, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA for disliking my mom because of her current lover
My father has not been around for a while and it was just me and my mother. Up comes her current lover, which I will call David now. At first I thought he was nice. He brought me and my mother to events I would never have gone to anyways. He bought me and my mother a couple of stuff. Im pretty sure he got me my Xbox ...
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{ "description": "inconveniencing my friends", "pronormative_score": 1, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for inconveniencing my friends?
This all reads as rather petty, but the feelings behind it are quite real. I was friends with somebody who I hadn't spoken to for a while because we fell out. I had feelings for them and they lead me on repeatedly, we argued a lot about everything, and then eventually I cut things off. Recently, I've had a lot of wo...
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{ "description": "starting an arguement with a girl and her mom because I was defending my friend", "pronormative_score": 1, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA for starting an arguement with a girl and her mom because I was defending my friend?
So we were making a project and this girl wanted to make a handle and my friend wanted to help so I let them be,When they were making the handle I noticed the girl playing with the cutter and then a few minutes later I see my friend's finger bleed so I asked what happened and he said that the girl accidentally cut her ...
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{ "description": "not attending my friend's debut", "pronormative_score": 1, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA for not attending my friend's debut?
She already placed me on a list where they call people up to give gifts ad stuff without eve asking beforehand if I'll be able to attend. I feel like a real asshole right now because 18th birthdays only happen once in a lifetime ad I wasn't there to celebrate with her when she was expecting me because I needed to atten...
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{ "description": "asking an apology", "pronormative_score": 2, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA for asking an apology?
Excuse my language, I'm not native speaker. So, I'm student and live in appartment with my parents. They go to their country house most weekends, so i planned meeting with my friends on saturday at my house and on friday asked them both if they are going to country house and if i could throw a little party.(I feel re...
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{ "description": "hating my grandmom after she died", "pronormative_score": 1, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA for hating my grandmom after she died?
Ok so, I lived with my grandmother and my uncle till I was 9,my life was pretty basic and normal. But after I moved in with my family,let's just say they weren't the best (abusive mentally and physically) The only ppl that cared about me (irl) were my uncle and grandmother but to them I was turning into a dispointme...
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{ "description": "asking my roommate to smoke away from the house", "pronormative_score": 1, "contranormative_score": 2 }
AITA for asking my roommate to smoke away from the house?
My buddy and I moved into a new apartment in November, and there is an extra room. We moved in a girl who is-for all rhyme and reason-a decent person despite her splitting hairs with me on certain issues (timing of rent payments, New year's celebrations, a homeless friend she had stay over for a few days..) we aren't g...
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{ "description": "wondering if I'm settling for my current partner", "pronormative_score": 6, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA For Wondering if I’m Settling for my Current Partner
I really believe I love my current partner but I’m also wondering if it’s more of a platonic love. This is the second longest and realest relationship I would say I’ve ever had but the first of which has been with a woman. I once dated a girl in college for three months but we were horrible to each other. The one year ...
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{ "description": "telling my classmate to shut up", "pronormative_score": 2, "contranormative_score": 2 }
AITA for telling my classmate to shut up
This happened 5 years ago so this is more so “was I the asshole?” I was a sophomore in high school and taking a remedial science class. There was a small group of ghetto girls (before you accuse me of being racist or assume these people I’m mentioning are of a certain race. I’m not saying whether these people are white...
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{ "description": "wanting to tell a guy to move out or call the police knowing that he will end up on the streets", "pronormative_score": 4, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for wanting to tell a guy to move out or call the police knowing that he will end up on the streets?
Recently my parents asked me to take care of the "family business" - we have 8 rooms to rent and basically all our money comes through it. Some of the people living there aren't paying rent and they want me to handle the situation as they say I'm more rational and cold when dealing with people. The situation that is ...
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{ "description": "finishing a friendship because this person ghosted me and then 'took' my job", "pronormative_score": 2, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for finishing a friendship because this person ghosted me and then 'took' my job?
Hello, I read the rules and I think I'm ready to tell you my history and I hope you can give me your opinion about it. I have a friend, let's say she's called Jane, I met like ten years ago. We have supported each other through different complicated situations, like financial problems, a kind of abusive husband (hers)...
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{ "description": "not asking the girl that asked me to the spring (turnabout) dance to prom", "pronormative_score": 4, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA if I don’t ask the girl that asked me to the spring (turnabout) dance to prom?
Recently, a friend group of mine that was brought together after we auditioned for a lip sync battle of sorts for our senior year decided that we should all go to the spring dance together. A girl in the group asked me to the dance, and I said yes. A week later, a girl from work that I had been talking to asked me to h...
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