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{ "description": "thinking my partner should not push back on occasional early breakfast dates", "pronormative_score": 6, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA for thinking my partner should not push back on occasional early breakfast dates?
I (54F) have been with my boyfriend (55M) since 2006. We have been domestic partners since 2011. He is a night owl. I am a morning person. This is not by choice, it’s just the way each of us is metabolically wired. I don’t choose to wake when the sun rises. Quite the opposite; I spent $3000 out of MY OWN POCKET for c...
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{ "description": "not wanting to attend my Masters Graduation ceremony", "pronormative_score": 13, "contranormative_score": 7 }
AITA For not wanting to attend my Masters Graduation ceremony
So, heres the context I go to a very small college (1,200 students) This school offers a program where you get a bachelors degree in 3 years, and a Masters in 1 year. This school is private and rather expensive. My parents are helping me pay for college, and stipulated that I could go to this school, on the condition ...
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{ "description": "showing up at a childhood best friend's house unannounced", "pronormative_score": 8, "contranormative_score": 5 }
Aita for showing up at a childhood best friend's house unannounced?
So this happened like 10 years ago and it is still kinda bugging me..lol. When I was a kid I grew up next door to a boy my age and a girl a couple years older (brothers age). We we're all best friends. Like spent every day hanging out. They were kind of a weird family though.. I honestly can't put my finger on why, t...
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AITA, sister and a deal
a little backstory: ​ I have failed classes my freshman and sophomore year and been making them up in online classes since last summer, which should have been done by the end of summer, which i lied about but still am getting done. Early march my sister and i made a deal to get me a new phone, to get my ...
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{ "description": "keeping my donuts in baggies following an April Fool's joke", "pronormative_score": 6, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA for keeping my donuts in baggies following an April Fool's joke?
My friends and I are at an impasse regarding my recent behavior, and I have decided to turn to Reddit for resolution. If I am indeed the asshole, I will accept my judgement with a grateful heart. Anyway, with yesterday being April Fool’s, I decided to go with a classic office prank. I purchased a dozen fresh donuts ...
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{ "description": "not wanting my dad to talk to me", "pronormative_score": 2, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for not wanting my dad to talk to me
okay yes i am aware it sounds like angsty teen bs but bear with me.(sorry for formatting , am on mobile) Okay so I've been with my dad through thick and thin and have away been there for him. But he went back to prison again this year for drug charges and as much as I love him I hate how he is back in prison , because...
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{ "description": "not wanting to end it", "pronormative_score": 3, "contranormative_score": 3 }
AITA for not wanting to end it?
Second account as I don't want this tied to my main. Also I am new to this subreddit as a whole so I apologize if I make any errors. I am genuinely confused whether my stance on this makes me the asshole... I am in high school, going to college in a few years.. my father got a promotion in work so we'll be relocatin...
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{ "description": "not wanting to share my financial aid information with anyone but my parents", "pronormative_score": 3, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA if I don't want to share my financial aid information with anyone but my parents?
So I get an estimate for the financial aid I will be receiving for college, with estimated loans and everything. I'm looking at it and my little sister, 14, asks how much financial aid I was getting. In the least aggressive way I could, I said it wasn't her business, it's just something me and dad have to worry about. ...
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{ "description": "sleeping with her friends", "pronormative_score": 3, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for sleeping with her friends? (M18)
So to preface, I have severe trust issues, and as such I've had it a lot easier with casual sex than with relationships. Anyway, me and this girl "Ellie" got very close. I actually fell for her, despite having a hard time trusting anybody, and things went south. Long story short, she broke my heart, but we still keep i...
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{ "description": "refusing to dance at family gatherings/parties/wherever", "pronormative_score": 4, "contranormative_score": 2 }
WIBTA if I refuse to dance at family gatherings/parties/wherever?
In about two weeks, my girlfriend's father turns 50 and there is a huge party planned for him that we're going to. Of course there is going to be music (live or not, doesn't matter) and people will dance. Dancing seems to be like a "requirement" in my country. At these huge family gatherings, people pressure into it, ...
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{ "description": "bringing up my friend's ex-girlfriend in a context that he said was okay", "pronormative_score": 2, "contranormative_score": 2 }
AITA for bringing up my friend’s ex-girlfriend in a context that he said was okay?
This incident involves three people. Me, Person A, & Person B Person A jokingly mentioned he wanted me to invite my girlfriend’s little sister to a group event all of us we were planning. In response, I said that I find it weird to have a friend date my girlfriend’s little sister as I find it one step detached fro...
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{ "description": "staying at a bar because I wanted to finish a darts game", "pronormative_score": 2, "contranormative_score": 3 }
AITA for staying at a bar because I wanted to finish a darts game
Sorry for my poor english knowledge and formatting. Writing on mobile. Every Thursday and/or Saturday I rehearsel with my band in the basement of our favourite bar. I always come home at 8:45 pm after rehearsel. Today there was a DJ who played some decent stuff we're into. I would have come home early anyway If my gir...
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{ "description": "wanting to ditch my friends of 7 years", "pronormative_score": 2, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for wanting to ditch my friends of 7 years?
Yes, I am a senior in high school and yes the obvious decision is forget them when you graduate in a few months, but I see them everyday and I've known them for almost a decade so this a huge deal for me. So now that that's out of the way...this year, I've been reconsidering my friend group I've known since 5th grade....
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{ "description": "not wanting to accept an apology from a delivery driver at my house", "pronormative_score": 2, "contranormative_score": 2 }
AITA for not wanting to accept an apology from a delivery driver at my house?
AITA for not wanting to talk to him again? I ordered food from a local pizza place and had it delivered but had the weirdest/worst interaction with the delivery driver which prompted me to message the business through Facebook. The conversation I had with the business ended up making me feel worse and that I shouldn'...
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{ "description": "not finding a place to charge my sister's phone", "pronormative_score": 1, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA for not finding a place to charge my sister's phone?
Me and my sis were in the airport, and out of the blue she just starts asking me to find her a place to charge her phone. She wasn't doing anything, and she literally could have done it on her own just fine, but she said since I'm the little brother I should do it. My mom got mad at me when I refused. AITA?
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{ "description": "proposing my two male friends to take me on festival in June using car, that belongs to one of them", "pronormative_score": 4, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA because I proposed my two male friends to take me on festival in June using car, that belongs to one of them?
In my country at the 1st June is held a youth festival. It's in place, where (if we could believe to legends) was baptism of creator of our country. Since my one friend has no time due to moving to campus at his college, and second one isn't interested, I decided to go with two guys, that met some months ago in my scho...
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{ "description": "me calling my mother a name when she kept pushing for more food from me", "pronormative_score": 0, "contranormative_score": 2 }
AITA for me calling my mother a name when she kept pushing for more food from me?
So basically this is the story. I have a Mexican family and I bought these kinds of chips. My sister asked me for one (since she bought the chips), so I did. My mother came up to me and said "Gimme one". I have a pet peeve about when someone asks me for something and don't say please. It's common courtesy. I told her ...
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{ "description": "cutting a Toxic my Toxic Sister out of my life", "pronormative_score": 1, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA For Cutting A Toxic My Toxic Sister Out Of My Life?
My sister and I have a complicated history. We come from a divorced family and both of our parents have passed away in the last ten years (we are both in our 30s, so our parents did both pass away rather young.) My sister and I have constantly bickered throughout our lives, and I know that she harbors resentment towa...
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{ "description": "not liking the tea my dad makes me", "pronormative_score": 4, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for not liking the tea my dad makes me?
Hi all! So every once in a while my daddy will make me tea. This kind of tea is a berry mix tea, which absolutely makes me sick. I’m not sure why, but the only way I can drink it is if it’s cold and very watered down. He makes the tea with 8oz of water, 1-2 teabags and about a half a cup of honey. It ends up super thi...
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{ "description": "giving this Dollar General a bad review", "pronormative_score": 1, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA if i give this Dollar General a bad review?
Tl;Dr - merchandiser for a beverage company, I feel like I was blamed for corporate coming into this Dollar general. An employee is nothing but mean to me and I believe I have done anything wrong. I am a merchandiser for a beverage company. And I haven't even been working there for 2 months, very new to all of this. ...
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{ "description": "being upset that my boyfriend makes comments about my diet", "pronormative_score": 3, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for being upset that my (26f) boyfriend (28M) makes comments about my diet
My boyfriend and I are pretty open with each other, and we tend to poke fun a lot. Problem is, very recently, I’ve been feeling very self conscious about my weight lately. I ate my dinner and decided I wanted seconds since I missed lunch and had a tiny breakfast. He (jokingly) says “you’re having more?!” And I kind of ...
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{ "description": "seeming passive aggressive", "pronormative_score": 1, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA for seeming passive aggressive.
AITA for send a text saying "Its Friday" on Friday to a person who's last text was "Wednesday Tops" and hasn't produced document for a lease signing with 3 other people? More info. I have been trying to get a lease signed for several months now. People are difficult, the landlord is a lazy schmuck, one person decided ...
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{ "description": "flipping off an old lady", "pronormative_score": 1, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA for flipping off an old lady?
And the context. I work at a donation site. I have reg donors who show up once a week. One in particular is a 89 y/o woman. She shows up bringing the dirtiest, oldest, mustiest shit ever. A few weeks ago she showed up with 3 full boxes of this stuff and also wants the boxes back. So i have to hurry through a 100 years ...
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{ "description": "delaying my & a coworker's lunch", "pronormative_score": 1, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA for delaying my & a coworker’s lunch?
Happened yesterday, I work as a TV tech and am a relatively new hire (< 3 months) who has been performing well, and so received a very newly hired tech as a shadow yesterday (with no prior heads up. That’s a theme here.) I needed to stock a new van instead of taking my normally assigned one (no heads up, again) and...
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{ "description": "yelling at a kid at the movies", "pronormative_score": 4, "contranormative_score": 7 }
AITA for yelling at a kid at the movies?
Over the holidays my family went out to see the new Spiderman movie at the theater. We got there a little early, got all our snacks and got to watch some of those pre-movie commercials. So far all good. Right before the movie starts a dad comes in with his kid (probably late elementary school, 10 or so?) near the mi...
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{ "description": "confronting my friend about feeling excluded", "pronormative_score": 2, "contranormative_score": 1 }
WIBTA if I confronted my friend about feeling excluded?
So I was walking home from school with one of my best friends last Friday(we'll call her A), and another one of our mutual friends, who both of us are pretty close to(we'll call her B) tagged along. As I later found out, both A and B are going to hang out at A's place after school. This is the part where I was wonderin...
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AITA not vacation with SO family
Household is SO's parent, SO's older sibling & their 3 young children. I've never been good with younger kids but try my hardest. Every morning begins with a symphony of little kids screaming, slamming doors, & being fairly rude to their parent & grandparent. I'm usually up around 5am anyways for work &...
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{ "description": "calling someones wish stupid and saying they shouldn't wish for it", "pronormative_score": 2, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for calling someones wish stupid and saying they shouldn't wish for it?
It was a disussion on Facebook (of course wasn't gonna end well) in a closed group with OP saying that people should shut the fuck up about race if they have no clue about it *or* they should educate themselves. I disagreed and called that former part of her wish stupid as preventing people from voicing their opinions ...
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{ "description": "wanting to take a nap on a Saturday afternoon", "pronormative_score": 4, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA - for wanting to take a nap on a Saturday afternoon?
My wife and I came home with our new baby 6 weeks ago. Being a new mom, the curve for her has been a hard one. Being a second time dad I have tried to make sure she has all the support she needs. I keep the feeding schedule (if she’s up I’m up) so she doesn’t feel alone. I call her friends to invite them to stop by so...
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{ "description": "not finishing my laundry in time for my mom to get home", "pronormative_score": 2, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA for not finishing my laundry in time for my mom to get home?
So this morning my mom put a note on the fridge asking for my laundry ( like 2 loads) to be done by the time she got home. Easy enough. So i do my first load and wash my second. I then put my second load in the dryer. Then my mom gets home and starts raising hell about how i never get anything done when she asks me ...
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{ "description": "disputing a charge on a tab at a bar I forgot my card at", "pronormative_score": 3, "contranormative_score": 3 }
WIBTA if I disputed a charge on a tab at a bar I forgot my card at?
Last weekend I went out to meet a few friends at a bar. Needless to say, by night's end I ended getting a little inebriated. I also ended up forgetting to close out my tab and forgot my card at the bar, which didn't reopen until five days later. Despite my condition, I remember what I drank and in what order I drank th...
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{ "description": "getting in a fight with my step father", "pronormative_score": 0, "contranormative_score": 2 }
AITA for getting in a fight with my step father?
Some quick back story, my actual father became addicted to alcohol in my early teenage years and I often got into physical fights with him about anything and everything. So now I'm 21 and mystep father got drunk in the middle of the day for some reason and was being a bit of a dick. I don't like confrontations so I we...
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{ "description": "asking the guy in front of me to take his hat off during a Broadway Show", "pronormative_score": 6, "contranormative_score": 8 }
AITA for asking the guy in front of me to take his hat off during a Broadway Show
I recently visited New York for the first time so as any tourist, I did all the touristy things! One of them was to watch a Broadway Show. I went to go watch Chicago and as those of you who have watched this, the theatre is very small and the top level is very compact so everyone can see the showing. For reference, if...
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{ "description": "wanting to eat", "pronormative_score": 2, "contranormative_score": 2 }
AITA for wanting to eat?
Throwaway + mobile, sorry for formatting. This happened like 30 minutes ago and It’s bothering me. So, my family and I are going to a different city today to do a rosary for a family member who passed away a year ago. I was told we were going to leave at 4pm and be there for the entire evening. It’s a 1 hour and 45 mi...
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{ "description": "being annoyed with my friend", "pronormative_score": 2, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for being annoyed with my friend?
So I’m aware this whole situation is ridiculous and juvenile but nonetheless I want to know if I’m being unreasonable. I have agoraphobia (basically an anxiety disorder wherein various situations cause me to have panic attacks). One of my biggest triggers is school - especially on mufti days (which is basically a day...
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{ "description": "ending a friendship with a guy that has very poor logic or reasoning skills", "pronormative_score": 1, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA for ending a friendship with a guy that has very poor logic or reasoning skills?
Backstory: I have a friend who I’ve been friends with since we were both 11 in 6th grade (14, 8th now) and he is mildly autistic (we still treat him normally, he’s just very shy) Classmates know that we’re really good friends, so it is a big deal. Now that we’re older and he tends to have a bit more... *aggressive* arg...
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{ "description": "getting really mad at my best friend for peeing himself in my house while he was drunk", "pronormative_score": 3, "contranormative_score": 3 }
AITA for getting really mad at my best friend for peeing himself in my house while he was drunk
Long story. It was his birthday, I won't specify how old he is, but just assume that were between the ages of 18-23. It was his birthday (Yay!) and me and a couple of the guys we're like "Yeah, this kid is gonna get super fucking drunk and just fucking hammered." We go to a party where we know NOBODY. Anyway, the nig...
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{ "description": "pushing past a family blocking my way", "pronormative_score": 4, "contranormative_score": 7 }
AITA for pushing past a family blocking my way?
So I go shopping. I enter the store and there's this long ass shopping cart supporting escalator from the entrance of the building (and car park) to the entrance of the store. As I enter I see this family blocking the entire thing. No problem, I think. Walk up, politely ask them to make some space. The guy is star...
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{ "description": "arguing with a family member of an accused murderer", "pronormative_score": 1, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA for arguing with a family member of an accused murderer?
Background: a young mother was murdered last year in my town (Ohio). The husband was arrested shortly after. Their 3 year old son was given to his closest relatives, the family of the husband. The woman's sister lived in Turkey, and was originally from Isreal. She filed for a Visa to come to the funeral, but was denied...
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{ "description": "thinking my friend was lying to me", "pronormative_score": 2, "contranormative_score": 0 }
Aita for thinking my friend was lying to me
So me and my friends have a discord server which I run due to being the smartest with technology in general. I like to regularly check the audit logs to monitor everything and I noticed something strange. My best friend who I gave Moderater permissions created an invite link that wasn't to the default. I approached by ...
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AITA Coworker out of context text?
Context: Coworker currently has an ankle injury and has had to use a scooter for mobility concerns. ​ I don't even really know how to phrase this so bear with me. So, the previous day (Friday) I help a coworker out to the front of our office where their spouse picked them up. There were some concerns abo...
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{ "description": "being mad at my mother", "pronormative_score": 2, "contranormative_score": 0 }
WIBTA for being mad at my mother?
I (f17) have a pretty good relationship with my mother, but it's a problem in the way that it makes it hard for me to be/stay mad at her. heres some context I have two older brothers, who are completely hopeless and never help around the house. They're both big gluttons and they almost never clean anything, not even...
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{ "description": "not wanting to hang out with my 2 close friends after they started dating", "pronormative_score": 4, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA for not wanting to hang out with my 2 close friends after they started dating.
We've been close friends for 2 years (in college), but after they started their relationship they've really changed. I try to hang out with them, but when we're walking together they can't keep their hands off each other (not full blown pda, but arm in arm, whispering to each other, etc.), and don't seem all that int...
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{ "description": "refusing to travel 800 miles and pay $180 for each ticket (yeah, seriously) with my girlfriend to see a band she loves and I hate", "pronormative_score": 1, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA for refusing to travel 800 miles and pay $180 for each ticket (yeah, seriously) with my girlfriend to see a band she loves and I hate?
Title, pretty much. I feel I'm on the right here since it's a shit ton of money to spend, plus traveling, accomodation, and food. And I absolutely despise that band. They're playing a festival and I don't like any of the bands that also play either since they're pretty much that kind of new indie pop that's popular now...
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{ "description": "recording the rude 6yo to prove to his parents that he is a rude child", "pronormative_score": 2, "contranormative_score": 2 }
WIBTA If I recorded the rude 6yo to prove to his parents that he is a rude child
So I've been forced to watch the kid every so often for little to no pay since his somehow family ( I dont know how, possibly a family friend thing). I don't work but I am looking for work and brought up doing the babysitter thing but only for INFANTS, not a whole grown child. The kid is insane he curses and acts like ...
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{ "description": "not caring about my older brother being suicidal", "pronormative_score": 4, "contranormative_score": 5 }
AITA for not caring about my older brother being suicidal??
Last night was my daughters 5th birthday and everyone was drinking and having a good time. It was at her grandparents house so i left to go home a little bit early. My brother seemed happy, although a bit too wasted for a child’s bday party, but hey the entire house was singing the smiths at the top of their lungs when...
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{ "description": "getting mad because I was expecting a friend to wait for me", "pronormative_score": 1, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA for getting mad because I was expecting a friend to wait for me?
Using a throwaway of course. I'll try to retell the story as accurately as possible and let me know if you think that there's a part I'm leaving out and I'll let you know. ​ So it kind of started because we all played a game together. I was playing with someone, we'll call Joe, who I've been friends with f...
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{ "description": "working on a project without my friend", "pronormative_score": 1, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for working on a project without my friend?
I do a lot of royalty based income work, I like to create. My friend suffers low confidence but not the type where people seem to want to help her anymore, instead she’s become very biter over the last year and can’t seem to be happy for anybody. She always has something unpleasant to say recently it seems. I write so...
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{ "description": "being mad at my family over a game of risk", "pronormative_score": 2, "contranormative_score": 2 }
AITA for being mad at my family over a game of risk?
A little backstory to this: A couple years ago i bought the boardgame "risk"(if you want game specifics look it up). Now, i loved this game, but could never play it with anyone, so it sat mostly unused. Until today, when my grandmother and mom decided to play it with me. So, we sit down, set it up, and i explain the ru...
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{ "description": "being annoyed that my husband got me a birthday present", "pronormative_score": 3, "contranormative_score": 3 }
AITA for being annoyed that my husband got me a birthday present?
Background: the two of us live pretty frugally. This is partly because of our current financial situation and partly because we're both naturally frugal people. At the beginning of our relationship we mutually decided not to exchange presents with each other at Christmas time. We also generally don't do birthday gifts....
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{ "description": "being honest about not liking an Xmas gift", "pronormative_score": 4, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for being honest about not liking an Xmas gift?
My husband is usually an EXCELLENT gift giver. Since we have insane work schedules and don’t get to see each other much, he had me open my Xmas gift tonight. I unwrap the package and I see it’s an UGG box. I ask ‘is this what it really is?’ and he says yes. I’m not anti-UGGS. I have a pair a friend gave to me years ago...
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{ "description": "using an older picture on Tinder", "pronormative_score": 5, "contranormative_score": 14 }
AITA for using an older picture on Tinder?
I recently broke up with my first and only girlfriend, we'd been together since we were 16. Never had tried dating or online dating for this reason but I figured I might give it a try. So I made a Tinder with some pics of me. One of them was a bit of a candid shot of me shirtless holding my Maine Coon kitten, that was ...
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{ "description": "asking my roommate to pay for the modem wifi box she threw away", "pronormative_score": 4, "contranormative_score": 6 }
AITA for asking my roommate to pay for the modem wifi box she threw away?
October 2018: I move in with my friends E, D and V in a student appartement where they lived for a few years. I also had sublet a room there for 8 months two years prior. As the previous guy leaves, I take over the internet subscription and the guy from the company comes install a new modem box. January 2019: D and V ...
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{ "description": "saying something to checked out parents", "pronormative_score": 1, "contranormative_score": 0 }
WIBTA For saying something to checked out parents
So I don’t know if it’s against the rules because this happened this time last year, but I just learned about this sub and this event still sticks with me, but if it has to be recent, then ill take the post down to adhere to the rules So at the time, me and my mother were going out to eat at a chain pizza restaurant,...
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{ "description": "going on a date", "pronormative_score": 3, "contranormative_score": 3 }
AITA - For going on a date?
Weird title I know. So there is this girl that I like but she has a boyfriend (what a home wrecker, I know). The thing is I've been taking her to places like the aquarium or botanical gardens which she hasn't been and knows she really enjoys going to places like these. This gets her boyfriend annoyed, which I don't bla...
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{ "description": "refusing people's hugs", "pronormative_score": 16, "contranormative_score": 2 }
AITA for refusing people's hugs?
I have always been uncomfortable with any kind of skin contact with another person. I don't like touching, which means I don't like hugs. At my work, we had a "going away" party for a co-worker who had quit, and it was her last day. At the end of the party we were all saying our goodbyes and everyone hugged her, one ...
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{ "description": "leaving my manipulative friend", "pronormative_score": 1, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA for leaving my manipulative friend?
Ok so a bit of backstory, I'm a 14 year old girl with few irl friends and leading up to this point, I'd been manipulated by this "friend" that I'll call K. I never had the courage to stand up to this girl or tell her off because I was scared to. In this roleplay server we used to have, she would constantly be causing ...
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{ "description": "making my classmate fail", "pronormative_score": 3, "contranormative_score": 3 }
AITA for making my classmate fail?
Hey Everyone! I know its wrong to cheat during an exam but me and my classmates used to do it all the time,We'd help each other out on whatever we didnt know from all the way across the room sometimes! Back then most of the teachers in my school didnt really seem to care so we got away with that stuff. During one o...
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{ "description": "focusing on wanting to save money to move countries to be with my gf? she thinks I should focus on myself", "pronormative_score": 3, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for focusing on wanting to save money to move countries to be with my gf? She thinks I should focus on myself.
I (33F) had a fight with my gf(27F) cos I'm sacrificing on many of my personal endeavours to make money to save and move with her to another country. I'm not in anyway stopping her in pursuing her goals. I just feel that being with her is more important then my own endeavours. I am fairly settled in my life in terms of...
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{ "description": "being mad about my boyfriend's female friend coming over while we were hanging out after he told her he was going to be unavailable", "pronormative_score": 2, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA for being mad about my boyfriend's female friend coming over while we were hanging out after he told her he was going to be unavailable?
Last weekend me and my now ex were hanging out. He had been with a female friend of his who is Rich and pays him to do side work for her all week. As such, he told her that he was going to be busy all weekend because he was hanging out with me and he was going to be unavailable. Everything was fine until Sunday night w...
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{ "description": "asking my girlfriend to put in more effort", "pronormative_score": 3, "contranormative_score": 0 }
WIBTA asking my girlfriend to put in more effort?
There’s this girl that I’ve been dating for around 2 months now and she’s had a thing for me for probably close to 2 or 3 years (yeah I know). I know that she really is happy with the current state of our relationship and really enjoys being with me but I’m just getting tired of it. I’m the one who has to plan every s...
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{ "description": "distracting my friend from his girlfriend", "pronormative_score": 2, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for distracting my friend from his girlfriend?
So, a bit of background: My (17M) friend (17M) has a gf (18F). We'll call him James and her Kate. James and Kate are always together when I walk by James. Kate hates when anyone detracts James' attention away from her. Knowing this, I decided to start singing a random classic rock song at him when I walked by him in th...
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{ "description": "having sex with a FWB after ending relationship", "pronormative_score": 5, "contranormative_score": 4 }
AITA For having sex with a FWB after ending relationship
Im a Sophomore in college and I met a really nice girl the first week of school and started hooking up with her and took her virginity. Nothing formal just a FWB type situation. We had casual sex for about 5 months (i know its a ridiculously long time for not being in a relationship.) We both talked to other people dur...
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{ "description": "wanting my bf to do more chores", "pronormative_score": 6, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA for wanting my BF to do more chores?
I (25F) am unemployed. I quit my last job and I'm working tirelessly to get a job. I live with my BF (32M) who works FT in retail. When not at work, he's on his computer. Because I'm home all day, I agreed to take on more chores. But we both agreed that cleaning shouldn't be my full responsibility. A few years ago, th...
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{ "description": "ditching my group and soloing a project", "pronormative_score": 3, "contranormative_score": 2 }
WIBTA if I ditch my group and solo a project?
I'm a HS senior taking Japanese 4. My teacher likes group projects, and this time he assigned the groups himself because he wanted us to learn how to work with others we may not like. However, my group has not been cooperating with me. ​ This project is supposed to be a 5 minute film. It's composed of me ...
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{ "description": "promising to make a second study video and never doing it", "pronormative_score": 2, "contranormative_score": 4 }
AITA for promising to make a second study video and never doing it.
Hello, So the story goes like this: I consider myself "smarter" than my colleagues in high school, and they also consider me as one of the "smartest people in class" (I know this sounds arrogant but its true). I'm new to this high school, so when I see that they have a WhatsApp group were they record audio tracks t...
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{ "description": "not wanting to play Mario Kart with my brother", "pronormative_score": 1, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for not wanting to play Mario Kart with my brother?
This is stupidly long, sorry. TL;DR: My brother has anger management issues around losing. This makes me not want to play Mario Kart with him because when he gets angry it stresses me out. However, he really wants to play Mario Kart with me and I'm conflicted on whether me saying no makes me a jerk or not. My brothe...
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{ "description": "not being a better employee", "pronormative_score": 1, "contranormative_score": 2 }
AITA for not being a better employee?
Okay, this might be a bit long so fasten your seatbelts. I am a 20 yr old guy who is starting university this year. This is about an incident that happened approximately a month ago during work. I'm going to go to a university 400KM away and will not return for a while and wanted to get this mess out of my head. I apo...
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{ "description": "not wanting my girlfriend to play soccer", "pronormative_score": 3, "contranormative_score": 2 }
AITA for not wanting my girlfriend to play soccer?
Hey Reddit So some background. My girlfriend loves playing soccer. She’s played both club and high school every time it comes in season. She is great at it and I couldn’t be happier that she has something to play that makes her happy. Because of this love for soccer, this is how she met her now ex boyfriend (he is a m...
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AITA - Roommate with constant visitors
So obligatory happened 10 years ago. I had a roommate for 3 years. We had been friends since we were kids and decided in our 20s to get an apartment together, we had already both lived on our own before. We lived in a nice lakeside apt, that we both loved, had small arguments as to who would get to keep it down th...
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{ "description": "excluding a good friend from her group", "pronormative_score": 1, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for excluding a good friend from her group?
So, i have a good female friend that i know for about 5 years+. Usually i have my own friends where i live and just meet her whenever i visit my parents place on the weekends. I got out of touch with most of my friends in the same area that my female friend lives, since i moved to a bigger city and have my friends th...
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{ "description": "bailing on a hookup for olaying Taylor Swift", "pronormative_score": 4, "contranormative_score": 3 }
AITA for bailing on a hookup for olaying Taylor Swift?
This happened 3 days ago and it's been in my head ever since. Throwaway because people know my real account and I don't want them to know about this. I met a guy at a bar and we both hit it off really quick. We went back to his place and to get in the mood he wanted to put some music. He put on Taylor Swift which w...
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{ "description": "not heeding my wife's irrational warning not to use the elevator", "pronormative_score": 12, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA for not heeding my wife's irrational warning not to use the elevator?
My wife is someone who like to think she's very observant. She will leave a hangout with friends and say something like "I think Ellen is going to leave John. She ..." and then give an example of something Ellen did to give her the idea. It's not always based on reason, but sometimes on what she calls her "intuition." ...
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{ "description": "not wanting to work with my friend anymore", "pronormative_score": 1, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA for not wanting to work with my friend anymore?
Sorry in advance if this is kinda a long back story. Me and my current best friend and roommate met roughly 6 years ago at our first job(restaurant). Not too long after that she got promoted from a cashier, like me, to a supervisor position. At first it was a really nice gig having my friend be my “boss” simply becaus...
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{ "description": "confessing having suicidal thoughts", "pronormative_score": 1, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for confessing having suicidal thoughts?
Backstory: I'm your average depressed teen from England (Yorkshire to be precise) and I've had a fair few friendships ending, some ending bad and some ultimately for the better. Also new to Reddit so let me know if this post belongs in a different thread TL;DR: I've had thoughts about suicide and my (now ex) best frie...
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{ "description": "wanting my gf to pleasure herself", "pronormative_score": 3, "contranormative_score": 2 }
AITA for wanting my gf to pleasure herself? (NSFW slightly)
My gf refuses my suggestion to invest in some adult toys for times when I may not be in mood due to schedule issues, overwork, or stress. She seems to think toys and/or porn is cheating or something despite the fact that I beg her to do it. (Not in front of me, wherever and however she pleases.) I know her unfulfill...
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{ "description": "saying \"oh shit\" in front of a bus driver when I realized my bus pass ran out of credits", "pronormative_score": 4, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA for saying “oh shit” in front of a bus driver when I realized my bus pass ran out of credits?
he said “no swearing “ with a slightly pissed off and moderately stern look 45 year old Caucasian man I then said “could I just board the bus just this once?” He said “you can do whatever you want , but no swearing “ What’s wrong with saying “oh shit?” I don’t recall there being any children on the bus
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{ "description": "preferring some privacy with a friend", "pronormative_score": 4, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for preferring some privacy with a friend?
Before I start of I wanna clarify that the context in its entirety does not have any romantic nuances with anyone involved. ​ Some backstory: I am apart of a teamspeak server with around 20 people and we play online games together for fun. So me and this other individual, lets call her Robin has been apart...
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AITA My wife eats sweets faster than I do.
So in an effort to make sure I still get to enjoy some sweets I sometimes hide them. Context: I have 2 bags of candy in my office drawer. She eats her half of the candy much faster so I make an off hand comment, this is why I hide stuff. I wasn’t saying to be mean, I just wanted her to understand why I hide candy somet...
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{ "description": "getting mad at my friend when he came over", "pronormative_score": 1, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA for getting mad at my friend when he came over
(AITA?)So my friend came over the other day after telling me that he has been too busy with work for a few weeks now. I was fine with him being busy and didn't want to push or get aggravated until i found out that he wasn't busy with work but with a mutual friend going out drinking and spending time at her house and re...
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{ "description": "not standing my boyfriend's best friend/\"daddy\"", "pronormative_score": 3, "contranormative_score": 3 }
AITA because i can't stand my boyfriend's best friend/"daddy"?
I (36F) have been dating my bf(28M) for 5 months and every single time we hang out, my man's roommate/landlord/ bestie dude acts Jealous,obnoxious, egotistical, blunt and at times, rude. AITA for telling my bf it's a deal breaker if i have to deal with this guy ever again? He's known him 12 years which he's made very c...
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{ "description": "telling a friend to tone down his ego", "pronormative_score": 1, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA for telling a friend to tone down his ego?
So I'm going to be real here. I made an account on reddit for this reason. Basically, I have a "friend who acts like a total dick (in my opinion) to me and his friends. A day ago, I muted him because I didn't want to hear him argue with a friend but also because he would'nt let me finish my point, when I let him do so....
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{ "description": "telling my brother to fuck off for pretending to have a more serious mental illness than he actually does", "pronormative_score": 1, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA for telling my brother to fuck off for pretending to have a more serious mental illness than he actually does?
My brother is 22, he’s currently couch hoping because he tried living with a girlfriend but it didn’t work out. He works at a fast food response with no ambitions to strive for more and he has no plans to stop being a leech off of those around him. He has “no money” but spends an awful lot on weed and other drugs and a...
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{ "description": "being turned against online", "pronormative_score": 0, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA for being turned against online?
once i had a group of friends that were honestly...very mean. they turned against me for the games and characters i liked, and proceeded to talk shit about me on social media and stalk me to talk down on me directly whenever i posted or drew something they found disgusting ( like vent art or characters they didnt like...
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{ "description": "wanting to split the bill for a AYCE sushi date", "pronormative_score": 6, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for wanting to split the bill for a AYCE sushi date.
I'm going out to eat all you can eat sushi lunch meet up with an acquaintance of mine tomorrow. I view this as a date, but I am unsure if the other party does. That being said, I don't like paying for the other party unless the feeling is mutual. What's your verdict boys?
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{ "description": "wanting my money back when my friends used my/our money from our joint vacation account to gamble", "pronormative_score": 4, "contranormative_score": 4 }
AITA for wanting my money back when my friends used my/our money from our joint vacation account to gamble?
I'll start this by saying that they won, they put everything on one row, so they tripled the money, basically. This was when they were out drinking one time without me. Me and four of my friends planned a two week vacation to the Bahamas three months ago. It was $2100/person, all-inclusive including plane tickets. The...
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{ "description": "wanting distance from my friend of 5 years", "pronormative_score": 1, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA for wanting distance from my friend of 5 years?
My friend (22F) and I (23M) have been friends for 5 years, and working at the same company for the last 2. The past 3 years have been somewhat rocky, with constant arguments over petty things (usually issues she has with my character, such as not sharing enough about my life with her, not spending enough time outside o...
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{ "description": "not helping an old lady on the subway", "pronormative_score": 4, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for not helping an old lady on the subway?
OK there is more to this than just that. Basically I got on the subway at one stop intending to get off at the next stop. While I'm waiting for my stop to arrive I see this old lady sitting almost in front of me (but like 10 feet away) calling people for help. At first many were ignoring her but when she started pointi...
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{ "description": "wanting to spend time with my girlfriend", "pronormative_score": 1, "contranormative_score": 4 }
AITA For Wanting to Spend Time With My Girlfriend?
This happened last week and has caused some bumps with me and my girlfriends relationship. My girlfriend (F16) lives in my home state, however, I (M16) live all the way across the country because I am going to school. I came back home this past week for the first time in two months and I was finally able to spend tim...
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{ "description": "ransoming a girl's teddy bear", "pronormative_score": 4, "contranormative_score": 7 }
AITA for ransoming a girl's teddy bear?
There was this girl who kinda was friends with my roommate and I in uni. While I was away (according to my roommate) she knocked and he opened the door and she walked in without an invitation. I happened to accidentally leave my wallet on my desk. She reportedly rifled through it, took money, and left. Indeed, there wa...
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{ "description": "telling off my siblings for not making their beds", "pronormative_score": 0, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA For telling off my siblings for not making their beds?
I live up at a ski resort and have been working here this ski season. Around christmas, my family came to visit like normal. I should add some backstory: the place I’m staying is my grandparents cabin as they’re not using it and they graciously let me stay here. My family and I have come every christmas for a ski vacat...
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{ "description": "having someone over after breakup", "pronormative_score": 1, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA having someone over after breakup
I didn’t read the sidebar and I accidentally posted twice :( sorry :( It’s a very long story but pretty much my girlfriend and I moved in together 4 months ago. The decision was either: move in with me or break up because of long distance(both graduated college, live in hcol city and she couldn’t afford to live her on ...
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{ "description": "asking my girlfriend to throw away $399 roses that was delivered to her apartment anonymously", "pronormative_score": 14, "contranormative_score": 3 }
AITA For asking my girlfriend to throw away $399 roses that was delivered to her apartment anonymously?
On Valentine’s Day my(26M) GF(26F) received very expensive roses from somebody random. Valentines this year landed on a weekday, and me and my girlfriend are doing a somewhat long distance relationship. I had tried to secretly plan on bringing my own bouquet of roses when I went to visit her that weekend but some perso...
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{ "description": "resenting my boyfriend", "pronormative_score": 4, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for resenting my boyfriend?
I'm almost certain he'll find this as our situation is too unique. If he does - I love you, I'm sorry, I needed outsider opinion. I am a woman, working in a trade for my parents, currently unpaid (for 6 months now) and I work 6-7 days a week depending. Recently I've been getting home more on time, but historically I s...
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{ "description": "skipping an expensive play with my girlfriend's mom", "pronormative_score": 3, "contranormative_score": 2 }
AITA for skipping an expensive play with my girlfriend’s mom?
So as a brief intro, my girlfriend and I have been together for 5 months and have gotten very serious very quickly and now live together. Her parents are divorced and I love her dad and his family and we see them often. I have never met her mom, and for a “Christmas present”, without asking if we had plans or if what s...
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{ "description": "getting mad at my girlfriend", "pronormative_score": 1, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA for getting mad at my girlfriend?
On mobile so sorry for formatting and whatnot. So to preface, I'm in highschool and so is my gf. Recently my car's broken down. I'm rather lucky in the regard that my mom both bought me a car and pays for insurance, gas, repairs, and the like. I'm trying to enjoy getting taken care of while I can cause I know life's g...
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{ "description": "doing the work", "pronormative_score": 3, "contranormative_score": 2 }
AITA for doing the work?
(Excuse the formatting, I'm on mobile) So I was doing a project with a person, I don't normally do very well with this. I'm an independent person, I want to get my stuff done and be done with it. I finished my part of the presentation and had some time to spare. She said she had all her information written down on...
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WIBTA - Neighbor’s young child very loud
WIBTA - I moved into a new apartment a few months ago and the upstairs neighbors, whom I have never seen or spoken to, have what sounds like a toddler (I hear nursery songs and crying sounds from the apartment, so the age is a very rough estimate). Sidebar: I’ve actually taken to calling the child Thor God of Thunder b...
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{ "description": "thinking my friend is a bit annoying for exaggerating everything", "pronormative_score": 1, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for thinking my friend is a bit annoying for exaggerating everything?
Hello r/AITA, this is a throwaway since I do not want to be identified. Today, I got annoyed like again because my friend said that his family was so poor that he ate only Tuna as meat for 6 years straight. This was such a clear exaggeration. I responded "I have some doubts about that" and he doubled down on his respo...
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{ "description": "spending time with both parents", "pronormative_score": 4, "contranormative_score": 3 }
AITA for spending time with both parents?
hey Reddit this is my first post here so please have mercy and sorry for my english it is not my first language :) . ​ i recently got back in touch with my father, my mother had to raise me alone after a dirty divorce 13 years ago. now i'm in my mid-20s and want to work up a lot of family crap. i get along...
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