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### Instruction: Generate a one-sentence summary of this post. ### Input: A little backstory from a post about a month ago So here is what's going on now. About a week ago, she took a break from her boyfriend. She came to my house and we fooled around for about 6 hours. It was amazing, but I feel like a horrible per... | friend wants to stay with her boyfriend despite knowing how much she loves me. Wondering what to do. Help. Help. Help. Help. Help. Help. Help. Help. Help. Help.PLEASE HEL | [
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### Instruction: Generate a one-sentence summary of this post. ### Input: We've been "together" for over a year, and about 6 months ago went through a really rough patch. Both of us did things we regret, and he went a little wild with some girls at parties (nothing beyond nudity). Now we're pretty much back on track,... | my bf is going to a party with the same people that caused us to break up in the past. Wondering how to get over it and move on. Any suggestions? Thanks in advance! xo. Advice needed! :) | [
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] | worried about him partying at the same house as some girls he's been with. Want to know how to move past these feelings. Any advice would be appreciated. Thanks!
Any advice on how to move past these feeling | [
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### Instruction: Generate a one-sentence summary of this post. ### Input: So I was talking about Napoleon with my students and of course this leads to a talk\rant about personal budgeting\etc. I've had a few students talk to me afterwards, them being curious about budgeting and person finance. I saw the post about the... | I teach high school and I want to have a poster in my room that has a list of things on it that I can use to explain personal finance to my students. But I want it to be easy to understand and easy to reference | [
-0.3,
4.2,
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] | talking about Napoleon, talk about personal budgeting, want a poster with a quick reference on it as a quick reference, but want to make sure my lower stream students know what all the things are. Also teach in Canada. What' | [
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### Instruction: Generate a one-sentence summary of this post. ### Input: Birthdays have always been hard on my girlfriend. She's had a few parties as a child where no one showed up, and since moving states in the middle of high school she hasn't made close friends. Here at college, she tries hard to make friends. S... | girlfriend wants to celebrate birthday with me and I don't have any friends. I gave her invites to a small party and everyone said no. What can I do? Help?!?!?! | [
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] | girlfriend's birthday coming up, no one wants to come. I've tried inviting people but no one will do it. What can I do? Help?!?!?!?!?! | [
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-1
] | 0 |
### Instruction: Generate a one-sentence summary of this post. ### Input: I go to college and I work on the school paper. I get some money from it, which is why I called it my job, but I don't really need it. I met her while working there, and we're both supposed to go back to the paper next year to work on it for the... | GF and I are on school paper together, broke up, don't want to see her anymore, but don't want to be alienated by the others. Do I still quit? Am I being immature for not | [
0.1,
5.7,
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] | I'm not sure if I should quit the school paper because of my ex, or stay and work with her. I don't want to see her anymore. I don't know what to do. Should I quit? Am | [
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3.4,
-0.2
] | 1 |
### Instruction: Generate a one-sentence summary of this post. ### Input: I hope I am posting in the right subreddit for this. Lately I have been feeling....anomalous(?) regarding what I want out of a relationship. Another fling of mine was recently ended because he 21M did not want to "marginalize his friendships." W... | recently ended fling because he did not want to marginalize his friendships. i am accepting of friends of the opposite sex as long as there is not a sexual or romantic past. am feeling lonely and as if there i | [
0.6,
-0.3,
-0.7
] | feeling odd about relationship expectations of ex-girlfriends and males in general. Am I being overbearing? What is wrong with me?!?!?!?!?!?!?!?!? | [
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] | 1 |
### Instruction: Generate a one-sentence summary of this post. ### Input: Towards the end of our relationship it just seemed like she was always mad at me. It got to the point where we would argue about literally everything. Her birthday just passed and I spent close to $400 on it, and yet she still had an attitude an... | I miss my ex but I know we're not compatible anymore and I don't know what to do. Am I crazy? Should I try and make it work? What should I do?!?!?!?! | [
0.3,
2.2,
-0.1
] | long distance relationship ended due to attitude and hard time getting along. Want to get back with ex but not sure if it's worth it. Wat do?!?!?!?!?!?!?!?! | [
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1.2,
-1
] | 1 |
### Instruction: Generate a one-sentence summary of this post. ### Input: So I am living with 3 girl roommates and in the summer me and their best friend had sex and hooked up a bunch. I loved her but she did not feel the same way back. I kind of ended our friendship because it was not fair to me. The problem is that ... | Mandatory summary/question! Help me get over my ex!?!?!?!?!?!?!?!?!?!?!?!?!?!?!?!?!?!? | [
0.1,
-5.2,
-0.2
] | I broke up with a girl and I want to get over her but I have to see her all the time. I need help getting over her. Help me am miserable. Help?!?!?!?!?!? | [
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3.6,
-0.2
] | 0 |
### Instruction: Generate a one-sentence summary of this post. ### Input: Last weekend, my ex was in town for a party i was at as well. I spent the whole night helping him because he drank too much, and he ended up passing out at my house. We hooked up in the morning, completely sober, and acting like we were dating ... | I'm dating a guy who is avoiding talking to me because we didn't speak for so long. He's a naturally awkward person, should i leave it to him to bring it up and see where it | [
-0.9,
-2.9,
-0.2
] | hooked up with ex, acted like we were dating again, but he's avoiding talking about it. Wtf do i do? Should i leave it to him to bring it up? Help pls!?!? | [
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4.9,
-0.4
] | 0 |
### Instruction: Generate a one-sentence summary of this post. ### Input: The past couple of years have revealed a pattern I'm finding a little concerning - I date a guy for a while and hold myself back from gestures or being too forward, then I get a little relaxed (which can be anything from a few weeks to a few mon... | I'm afraid of being too affectionate with a guy I've just met, how can I be kind to him without him losing interest? Thank you. Am I being a bitch? Should I just be nice? | [
0,
-5.1,
-0.1
] | I'm scared that if I'm nice to a guy he'll run, but I don't want to be ungrateful. He's picking me up from the airport and I need to be | [
-1,
0.6,
-0.1
] | 0 |
### Instruction: Generate a one-sentence summary of this post. ### Input: My boyfriend and I are both 19. My boyfriend's mother is the only draw back to my relationship with him and I'm not sure how to handle her. She claims to be fond of me, but I know she's lying. She never even gave me a chance, even after a year o... | How do I deal with a mother who is a monster? Can I get over her? What should I do? Am I in trouble? Is there any hope for this relationship? Is there any hope for me? Is there any hope | [
-0.5,
-4.5,
-0.1
] | My boyfriend's mother is a horrible person and is a hypocrite. She is the only thing standing between me and my boyfriend and I am not sure how to handle her. She got his mom and dad involved | [
-1.1,
2,
-0.2
] | 0 |
### Instruction: Generate a one-sentence summary of this post. ### Input: My girlfriends dog, who I used to love, has seemingly forgotten that he can't poop in the house. He was completely housebroken and then started to have really runny poops in the house so we just figured he was sick (we accidentally bought the wr... | Mandatory summary/question! How do I get my dog to stop pooping in the house?!?!?!?!?!?!?!?!?!?!?!?!?!?! | [
0.2,
-1.5,
-0.2
] | My dog used to be housebroken, but now he thinks he can poop in the house and does. He doesn't seem to care that he does it and it's just a free for all. He used to go | [
-0.5,
0.3,
-0.2
] | 0 |
### Instruction: Generate a one-sentence summary of this post. ### Input: Not dating anyone right now, but a hypothetical future person as I'm getting back into the dating game. A little more about me: I'm bisexual and very sexually fluid. Sometimes I even feel asexual. I'm also a virgin, but I'm really ready to not... | 20 something bisexual virgin who hates kissing and is looking to start dating again. Not sure when to bring it up or if at all. What do I do?! Help!?!?!? | [
1,
4.9,
-0.9
] | 20 something bisexual virgin who hates kissing and is looking to date soon. Want advice on how to bring it up with potential future boyfriends. Am I being crazy? What do I do? | [
1.2,
4.8,
-0.9
] | 0 |
### Instruction: Generate a one-sentence summary of this post. ### Input: Long story short -- We dated for about a year and 1/2 I moved for my job we couldn't handle the distance and we end our relationship. Months go by, I see him Friday night and he is very poliet and nice and after we started drinking he started po... | ex boyfriend from a year and a half ago started talking to me about his feelings, I missed his calls and he has still said nothing. Should I pretend like it never happened? Or should I try to get to the bottom of | [
-0.1,
-0.8,
-1
] | ex boyfriend of a year and 1/2 is ignoring me, should I pretend like it never happened? Or should I try and get in contact with him? How should I go about it? What should I say? | [
0.6,
0.1,
-1
] | 0 |
### Instruction: Generate a one-sentence summary of this post. ### Input: I'm in my early 20s and live in the southern United States. I've had the same friends for forever and have had lots of great experiences with them in the past. In the last 2-3 years though they've become increasingly negative towards me. I'll o... | long-time friends becoming increasingly negative towards me, no idea what to do to make things better/stop them from being so judgmental. Am lonely and need advice! Please help! :)
Friends judge me and exclude me | [
0.7,
3.2,
-1
] | Young adult with few friends who seem to be getting more negative towards me. Not sure what to do. Am I overreacting? What should I do? Is this normal? Anyone have any experience with this? What is the best way | [
0.9,
1.4,
-0.4
] | 1 |
### Instruction: Generate a one-sentence summary of this post. ### Input: My friend moved across the country 5 months ago for work, leaving his other friends and family, and I'm the only person he knows here. We met on a forum online and have been friends for about 3 years. He's a very sensitive person and very shy, w... | my best friend lives across the country, and I'm starting to feel like I have to walk on eggshells around him and constantly make excuses and explain myself. I don't like making plans because I'd rather just | [
-0.6,
-1,
-1.1
] | Mandatory summary/question! Stressed out by my only friend moving across country. What can I do?!?!?!?!?!?!?!?!?!?!?!?!?!? | [
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-0.2
] | 0 |
### Instruction: Generate a one-sentence summary of this post. ### Input: Mine is simple, my kids. I will always remember the one day my daughter made me feel like the best dad in the world. I sometimes have to go back to work late at night to attend meetings (I work for a place with offices around the world) and one ... | I left my kids cookies and said I was sorry. I was a dad who was needed and loved. My wife sent me a video and I was so happy. I know that I will have to worry about them a lot, | [
-0.8,
3.6,
-0.3
] | I left cookies for my kids, my daughter was very sad and my wife sent me a video of my son being happy and my daughter crying. My wife sent me the video and I felt like the best dad in the world | [
-0.5,
-2.2,
-0.1
] | 1 |
### Instruction: Generate a one-sentence summary of this post. ### Input: Hello redditers, First topic post on Reddit. So, I went to study abroad in the United States for 5 months. My GF is coming after 4 months of us being separated(we met in the same town and spent a lot of time together, before I left). Today I ... | I'm about to meet my girlfriend after 5 months of separation, and she's very excited and nervous. She's worried that maybe one of us didn't feel the same after all that time. Am | [
-0.3,
3.1,
-0.5
] | My gf is coming after a long time apart, she's nervous and afraid. She might leave me. Is it overreacting? What should I do? Help!?!?!?!?!?!? | [
0.3,
2.3,
-0.3
] | 0 |
### Instruction: Generate a one-sentence summary of this post. ### Input: I'm the type that usually goes from long-term relationship to long-term relationship without much dating in between. I'm trying out the casual dating thing for a while. I am 26f, above average attractiveness (in my opinion, but i still have pre... | guy gave me his number, then left me hanging. Why? What's the deal? Anyone have any ideas? Anyone have any experience with this type of situation? Any advice? Anyone have any experience with this type of situation | [
0.1,
1.2,
-0.9
] | guy I barely know gave me his number, but not interested in actually meeting in person. Wondering why he gave me his number in the first place. Am I being overly suspicious? Any thoughts or opinions? Thanks! | [
0.2,
-0.4,
-0.7
] | 1 |
### Instruction: Generate a one-sentence summary of this post. ### Input: We've been FWB for over a year, and we have started to develop feelings. I eventually said this wasn't going to work anymore, because one of us is going to get really hurt (probably me). He agreed, but a week later he said we should "try dating"... | started a relationship with a guy I knew was going to hurt me, then he showed me his sweet side and now I don't know if I want to be in a relationship with him. Am I being crazy? Should I | [
-0.3,
-1.5,
-1
] | Mandatory summary/question! How do you know if you are ready for a relationship? Is it based on what you WANT or what you are afraid of losing? What's the best way to approach this? What's the | [
0.3,
0.3,
-0.2
] | 0 |
### Instruction: Generate a one-sentence summary of this post. ### Input: Today I woke up late and home alone so I decided to make homemade bagels for the upcoming week. They took awhile to make and I was wanting to do something else, but they turned out really hard and horribly stuck on the pan. dammit. So being me I... | I was making bagels, they turned out really hard and stuck on the pan, I was trying to pry them off, I got a butter knife and started stabbing the bottom on the pan, my roommate | [
-0.1,
0.5,
-0.2
] | I was making bagels, they turned out hard and stuck on the pan, I got frustrated and started stabbing the bottom on the pan, and cursing, and eating the leftover bits, my ro | [
0.3,
2,
-0.4
] | 0 |
### Instruction: Generate a one-sentence summary of this post. ### Input: Been together 3 years, living together for 1.5 years. I'm Persian, he's white. My family will invite me (and him by extension) to family events such as birthdays, Shabbat, etc. My boyfriend (let's call him Z) has been treated disrespectfully by ... | My family doesn't invite me to family events. I want to take action but don't know what action to take. What's the best option? Speak up, do nothing, something else entirely? So far we | [
-0.1,
-3.1,
-0.4
] | my family doesn't invite me and my boyfriend to family events. My boyfriend thinks it's a cultural issue and it will resolve itself if we give it time. I want to take action but don't know what | [
-0.1,
2.5,
-1
] | 0 |
### Instruction: Generate a one-sentence summary of this post. ### Input: My wife went to a pokemon conference thing with a friend while I was away for work for a long amount time, about a month. She told me she was out to dinner. I asked later on if she was with her friend. She said she was and with two other guys. I... | is going out with a friend in a public place like a date inappropriate? Should I get over it? What would you do? Thoughts? Opinions? Stories? Advice? Anything?! | [
1.1,
-2.4,
-0.8
] | My wife went to a pokemon conference with a friend. She told me she was with two guys. I said it felt inappropriate. She said it was not a date. She said it was inappropriate. I | [
-0.4,
-1.4,
-0.1
] | 1 |
### Instruction: Generate a one-sentence summary of this post. ### Input: Every time I try to give a chance at communicating, he shuts everything out and gets all random with me or he will just make it out to be like I "just want to argue" as if it's a hobby of mine. I believe that some arguments are necessary and the... | My boyfriend doesn't want to communicate, but I want to. He makes me out to be some crazy person when I'm just trying to figure things out and work through them. He's afraid of being "used | [
-1.1,
0.6,
-0.1
] | my boyfriend shuts everything out and gets all random with me every time I try to communicate something important to him. He makes me out to be some sort of "argumentative person" when I'm just trying to figure things out | [
0.4,
4.5,
-1
] | 0 |
### Instruction: Generate a one-sentence summary of this post. ### Input: First of all, excuse my English, because I'm pretty drunk right now and English is not my native language. Okay, so, I'm originally not from England, but I've lived there for a couple of months and I met a girl there, who is not from my home c... | My girlfriend started ignoring me and I don't know what to do. Should I break-up with her or wait till she responds? Help!?!?!?!?!?!?!?!? | [
0.3,
0.9,
-0.2
] | Mandatory summary/question! How long should one wait for a response from a girl who has been ignoring him? Should I break up with her? Or should I wait till she responds? What should I do? Help!? | [
1,
1,
-0.1
] | 0 |
### Instruction: Generate a one-sentence summary of this post. ### Input: I dated this guy last year. He impregnated a 20f pretty quickly after we broke up and when I found out, I got extremely sad and jealous, because I wish I was on my way to having a family. We broke up because of infidelity. Now though, all that ... | I'm angry at my ex for cheating on me and want to get revenge sex. Am I wrong? What should I do? How do I handle this? Help!?!?!?!?!?!? | [
0.4,
3.2,
-0.2
] | I dated a guy, he impregnated a girl, and now I want to go out and have revenge sex with any guy I want. I'm upset and angry, and I don't know how | [
-0.3,
5.1,
-0.1
] | 0 |
### Instruction: Generate a one-sentence summary of this post. ### Input: Hi, hoping this is the right sub for my question, apologies if not. I was browsing my account on Credit Karma recently and saw the message that "1 account has gone into collections". I thought this couldn't be right, so I looked and it said I h... | A collection agency has been contacting me about a debt I don't owe and I've already sent them a debt validation letter. They're still leaving messages for me and I'm not sure what my | [
-0.5,
1.5,
-0.2
] | I have a collection account that I don't owe, and I'm wondering how to get it removed from my credit report. I've sent them a debt validation letter, but they haven't responded. I | [
-0.1,
5.9,
-0.3
] | 0 |
### Instruction: Generate a one-sentence summary of this post. ### Input: A couple of months ago a friend and I started developing feelings for each other. She had been in a relationship of 3 years and often told me how unhappy she was with the relationship and how poorly he treats her. Things between us started getti... | I want to help a friend who is in a bad relationship, but I can't help but feel like she's not happy. I want to make her happy and I know I can but I'm not sure what to do | [
-1.2,
-2.6,
-0.1
] | I've been hanging out with a friend who has been in a relationship for three years. She's been telling me how unhappy she is with the relationship and how poorly he treats her. She's finally must | [
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-4,
-0.1
] | 0 |
### Instruction: Generate a one-sentence summary of this post. ### Input: First of all, I would like to thank everyone who opened it even if they knew it was only a teen with girl problems. This new girl came to school one week ago and I was in love since the first time I saw here. I talked to her for the first time... | Fell in love with new girl at school, talked for little over 24 hours, should I message her again or talk to her in person? Any advice would be appreciated!
What should I do if I'm in love | [
0.7,
-1,
-0.3
] | really shy girl just started school, how should I talk to her so we can get to know each other? Any advice would be appreciated!
I'm so sorry for the bad formatting, I'm on a phone! Any | [
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### Instruction: Generate a one-sentence summary of this post. ### Input: We met via okcupid (10/10 would recommend), and I didn't even think to look then about his 'children' preferences. Recently I revisited his page and saw that he had put 'doesn't want kids' on his profile summary. I really, really want kids som... | I'm ready to have kids, but he doesn't want kids at all. How do I bring it up to him? Or should I just let it go? I don't want to scare him off by | [
-1.2,
3.3,
-0.1
] | how do I bring up the fact that I want kids to my boyfriend who doesn't want kids? I'm willing to let it go, but I don't want to scare him off. I'm | [
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3.6,
-0.8
] | 0 |
### Instruction: Generate a one-sentence summary of this post. ### Input: Long story short...u/andyootoo posted a submission, telling people that he has tickets to a show in SF for sale, but he has to sell them online since he's in NY. The tickets for this show are sold out, so I decide to trust him. After a few back ... | someone I trusted online sent me money for tickets that he never delivered. Tickets were sold out, so I didn't get scammed. I'm just frustrated that I can't get the money back | [
0.4,
-2.7,
-0.4
] | bought tickets from u/andyootoo, he had to sell them online because he was in NY, and they were sold out. I trusted him and sent him money via Amazon gift card. He promised to transfer the ticket | [
-1,
3.8,
-0.4
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### Instruction: Generate a one-sentence summary of this post. ### Input: Usually when my bf goes out locally, whether it's drinks after work with colleagues or a night out with the guys, I refrain from blowing up his phone. I think I text about 3 to 4 times that night, just to see how he's doing, if he's having fun, ... | Wondering how often people text their SO when they are out partying and getting drunk. Wondering if it varies if they are local or out of the country/state. Wondering if anyone else does the same thing?! | [
0.7,
2.7,
-0.2
] | bf goes out with friends, I text him more when he's out of the country. Is this normal? How often do you text your SO when they are out of the country/state? Does it vary if they are local | [
-0.4,
-1.5,
-0.7
] | 1 |
### Instruction: Generate a one-sentence summary of this post. ### Input: A little backstory from a post about a month ago So here is what's going on now. About a week ago, she took a break from her boyfriend. She came to my house and we fooled around for about 6 hours. It was amazing, but I feel like a horrible per... | I need help finding a way to stay friends with my ex after she took a break from her boyfriend. Unsure what to do anymore. Need advice! Help please!?!?!?!?!?!?! | [
0.6,
-3.7,
-0.2
] | She wants to stay with her boyfriend, but I want to be with her. She says she loves me more than anything, but she's too afraid to leave the position she's in now because it's "to | [
-1.2,
-1.8,
-0.2
] | 1 |
### Instruction: Generate a one-sentence summary of this post. ### Input: We've been "together" for over a year, and about 6 months ago went through a really rough patch. Both of us did things we regret, and he went a little wild with some girls at parties (nothing beyond nudity). Now we're pretty much back on track,... | My boyfriend and I had a rough patch, but we're back on track. He's going to a party at the same house as some of the girls he was wild with, and it's making me feel a little | [
-0.5,
2.3,
-0.1
] | feel a little self loathsome over past partys/relationships... how do I move on and enjoy my weekend knowing he's enjoying his? Any suggestions on how to cope/manage my own preservation | [
1,
-1.6,
-0.8
] | 1 |
### Instruction: Generate a one-sentence summary of this post. ### Input: So I was talking about Napoleon with my students and of course this leads to a talk\rant about personal budgeting\etc. I've had a few students talk to me afterwards, them being curious about budgeting and person finance. I saw the post about the... | talk about personal finance with students, thought about having a quick reference poster up in my room, two issues with the cue card - students won't know what many of those things are and I teach in Canada. So what' | [
0.7,
2.2,
-0.6
] | I'm a dick and I'm not going to explain all the things on a cue card. I'm going to have a poster with a bunch of stuff on it and I'm going to have the kid | [
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-3.2,
-0.2
] | 1 |
### Instruction: Generate a one-sentence summary of this post. ### Input: Birthdays have always been hard on my girlfriend. She's had a few parties as a child where no one showed up, and since moving states in the middle of high school she hasn't made close friends. Here at college, she tries hard to make friends. S... | My girlfriend wants to be friends with me, but I don't have any friends. I'm not sure how to tell her that I don't have any friends. I'm not sure what to do. | [
-1.3,
-5.7,
-0.1
] | How can I tell my girlfriend she's failing at making friends? Is there anything I can do? Is there any hope? Is there any hope for her? What can I do? What can I do | [
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-0.1
] | 0 |
### Instruction: Generate a one-sentence summary of this post. ### Input: I go to college and I work on the school paper. I get some money from it, which is why I called it my job, but I don't really need it. I met her while working there, and we're both supposed to go back to the paper next year to work on it for the... | Broke up with girlfriend, don't want to see her again, should I still quit working on the school paper with her? Am I being immature for not wanting to see her? What should I do? Help please! | [
0.5,
6,
-0.3
] | I don't want to see my girlfriend anymore, but I don't have many friends. I don't want to be alienated from the group of people I know. She dumped me, and I don' | [
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-0.8,
-0.5
] | 1 |
### Instruction: Generate a one-sentence summary of this post. ### Input: I hope I am posting in the right subreddit for this. Lately I have been feeling....anomalous(?) regarding what I want out of a relationship. Another fling of mine was recently ended because he 21M did not want to "marginalize his friendships." W... | I am a woman who wants to be in a relationship that is completely free of any past sexual or romantic relationships. I am feeling like I am being unreasonable and am feeling lonely. Am I being overbearing? | [
-0.6,
4.3,
-0.1
] | I am a woman who wants a relationship to be a clean slate. I don't want my boyfriend to be facebook friends with people he has slept with before. I am accepting of friends of the opposite sex as long a | [
-0.6,
1.5,
-0.2
] | 1 |
### Instruction: Generate a one-sentence summary of this post. ### Input: Towards the end of our relationship it just seemed like she was always mad at me. It got to the point where we would argue about literally everything. Her birthday just passed and I spent close to $400 on it, and yet she still had an attitude an... | I'm still in love with my ex and I don't know what to do. I'm not sure if I should try to get her back or just move on. I'm also not sure if I should try to | [
-0.2,
0.2,
-0.1
] | I'm not sure if I want to get back with my ex because I know how she acts. I'm just not sure if I can handle it. I'm not sure what to do. I'm just not sure | [
-0.3,
-0.4,
-0.1
] | 1 |
### Instruction: Generate a one-sentence summary of this post. ### Input: So I am living with 3 girl roommates and in the summer me and their best friend had sex and hooked up a bunch. I loved her but she did not feel the same way back. I kind of ended our friendship because it was not fair to me. The problem is that ... | need help getting over ex gf who I see everyday and have to be around at practice and even at my home. Help me am miserable. Help!?!?!?!?!?!?!?!? | [
0.5,
3.2,
-0.6
] | I need help getting over my ex because I see her everyday. Help me. Please. Help. Help. Help. Help. Help. Help.
Help me get over my ex. fille help. wystupajniehelp me | [
-1.8,
-2.5,
-0.3
] | 1 |
### Instruction: Generate a one-sentence summary of this post. ### Input: Last weekend, my ex was in town for a party i was at as well. I spent the whole night helping him because he drank too much, and he ended up passing out at my house. We hooked up in the morning, completely sober, and acting like we were dating ... | got back with ex, had a night of fun, but he's avoiding talking about "feelings" and i'm not sure if he's still not interested or if he's avoiding it because of past | [
0,
3.2,
-0.9
] | Mandatory summary/question! What should i do?!?!?!?!?!?!?!?!?!?!?!?!?!?!?!?!?!?!?! | [
0.2,
-6.2,
-0.2
] | 1 |
### Instruction: Generate a one-sentence summary of this post. ### Input: The past couple of years have revealed a pattern I'm finding a little concerning - I date a guy for a while and hold myself back from gestures or being too forward, then I get a little relaxed (which can be anything from a few weeks to a few mon... | Dating guy for a month, afraid if I show any affection he'll bolt. How can I be affecionate and kind without him losing interest? Help please!?!?!?!?!?! | [
1.1,
6.1,
-0.4
] | keeping guy's interest by being nice, afraid if I do anything nice he'll run. Am looking for advice on how to be affectionate without being overbearing or making him lose interest. Am desperate for advice | [
0.7,
3.6,
-0.4
] | 1 |
### Instruction: Generate a one-sentence summary of this post. ### Input: My boyfriend and I are both 19. My boyfriend's mother is the only draw back to my relationship with him and I'm not sure how to handle her. She claims to be fond of me, but I know she's lying. She never even gave me a chance, even after a year o... | my boyfriend's mother is a monster who will never give me the respect I deserve. Am I justified in leaving my relationship? How do I deal with her? Any advice is appreciated. Thanks in advance. Adult | [
0,
-0.1,
-1
] | My boyfriend's mother is a cunt and I'm not sure how to handle her. She's a cunt because she's a child who is trying to be an adult and is failing miserably. She' | [
-1.2,
-0.5,
-0.4
] | 1 |
### Instruction: Generate a one-sentence summary of this post. ### Input: My girlfriends dog, who I used to love, has seemingly forgotten that he can't poop in the house. He was completely housebroken and then started to have really runny poops in the house so we just figured he was sick (we accidentally bought the wr... | Dog poops in the house when he wants. He used to be very responsible. Help. Help. Please. Help. Help. Help. Help. Help. Help. Help.HELP! HELP! HEL | [
-0.9,
-2.4,
-0.4
] | My dog has forgotten that he can't poop in the house and is doing it all the time. He used to go to the door and everything when he had to go and now it's just a free for all. Help | [
-0.4,
3.2,
-0.2
] | 0 |
### Instruction: Generate a one-sentence summary of this post. ### Input: Not dating anyone right now, but a hypothetical future person as I'm getting back into the dating game. A little more about me: I'm bisexual and very sexually fluid. Sometimes I even feel asexual. I'm also a virgin, but I'm really ready to not... | I hate kissing, but I need to find someone who will accept that.**When do I tell a potential SO?**And how?**Any and all opinions are appreciated!**Any and all opinions are appreciated!**Any and | [
-1,
-0.8,
-0.2
] | I hate kissing, but I'm a virgin. What do I do? When do I bring it up? And don't tell me I'll eventually like it when I find a good kisser, because I' | [
-0.3,
-3.4,
-0.4
] | 1 |
### Instruction: Generate a one-sentence summary of this post. ### Input: Long story short -- We dated for about a year and 1/2 I moved for my job we couldn't handle the distance and we end our relationship. Months go by, I see him Friday night and he is very poliet and nice and after we started drinking he started po... | Ex boyfriend and I had a drunken night and he told me he loved me, and I've tried to contact him, but he won't respond. Should I pretend like it never happened? I'm confused | [
-0.5,
2.8,
-0.1
] | Mandatory title and question! Should I pretend like it never happened? Why? What should I do?!?!?!?!?!?!?!?!?!?!?!?!?!? | [
0.3,
-4.8,
-0.2
] | 1 |
### Instruction: Generate a one-sentence summary of this post. ### Input: I'm in my early 20s and live in the southern United States. I've had the same friends for forever and have had lots of great experiences with them in the past. In the last 2-3 years though they've become increasingly negative towards me. I'll o... | friends have become increasingly negative towards me in recent years and I'm not sure what to do. Am being judged and excluded for things I don't do. Am being told I'm too sensitive or joking around | [
0.5,
4.9,
-0.4
] | long-time friends become increasingly negative towards me despite still having good times. Not sure what to do or how to deal with it. It's become very stressful. Please help!?!?!?!?!? | [
0.6,
3.9,
-1.1
] | 1 |
### Instruction: Generate a one-sentence summary of this post. ### Input: My friend moved across the country 5 months ago for work, leaving his other friends and family, and I'm the only person he knows here. We met on a forum online and have been friends for about 3 years. He's a very sensitive person and very shy, w... | very good friend moved across country 5 months ago, I feel like I'm suffocating him and stressed out. What can I do to stop feeling responsible for his happiness? Or is it worth it? Help please!? | [
0.6,
1.8,
-1.1
] | I'm starting to feel like my friend is a burden around my friends. What can I do? Should I break up with him? How can I make it better? Am I overreacting? Is it normal? Should I | [
0.1,
-4.9,
-0.1
] | 1 |
### Instruction: Generate a one-sentence summary of this post. ### Input: Mine is simple, my kids. I will always remember the one day my daughter made me feel like the best dad in the world. I sometimes have to go back to work late at night to attend meetings (I work for a place with offices around the world) and one ... | daughter made me feel loved and appreciated beyond measure. Words cannot express how grateful I am. Wish all dads a wonderful day. Than you for all the wonderful memories. Than you for being a part of my life | [
0.6,
1.6,
-1.1
] | I left some cookies for my kids and my daughter was very sad and my wife sent me a video of my daughter crying and saying she was so happy. My wife sent me the video and I felt like the best dad in | [
-0.4,
-0.8,
-0.2
] | 1 |
### Instruction: Generate a one-sentence summary of this post. ### Input: Hello redditers, First topic post on Reddit. So, I went to study abroad in the United States for 5 months. My GF is coming after 4 months of us being separated(we met in the same town and spent a lot of time together, before I left). Today I ... | Is it possible to get back together after a long-term LDR? What should I do to make her happy? What are some tips for a successful LDR? What are some tips for a successful LDR? What are some tip | [
0.6,
-3.3,
-0.2
] | I'm afraid that my gf is going to leave me because she is afraid that we might not feel the same after so long. She hasn't left me, but I'm afraid she might leave me. Am I over | [
-1,
2.2,
-0.1
] | 0 |
### Instruction: Generate a one-sentence summary of this post. ### Input: I'm the type that usually goes from long-term relationship to long-term relationship without much dating in between. I'm trying out the casual dating thing for a while. I am 26f, above average attractiveness (in my opinion, but i still have pre... | guy gave me his number, why? What's the deal? Is he not that into me? What's the deal?!?!?!?!?!?!?!?!?!?!? | [
-0.6,
-1.7,
-0.9
] | guy gave me his number, but not that into me in person, why? Just for fun? What's the deal? Any ideas? Anyone have any experience with this type of thing? Any ideas? Any help is appreciated! | [
0,
-0.2,
-1
] | 0 |
### Instruction: Generate a one-sentence summary of this post. ### Input: We've been FWB for over a year, and we have started to develop feelings. I eventually said this wasn't going to work anymore, because one of us is going to get really hurt (probably me). He agreed, but a week later he said we should "try dating"... | We were FWBs, I said we had to stop because I wanted more, he said we should "try dating" because he doesn't want to lose me. Am I wrong for feeling like this is a little ir | [
-0.1,
5.2,
-0.4
] | Started a relationship based on fear of losing intimacy instead of on the hope of building a future with someone, is this normal? Confusing and irritating. Am I being unreasonable? What should I do? Should | [
0.8,
1.4,
-0.2
] | 1 |
### Instruction: Generate a one-sentence summary of this post. ### Input: Today I woke up late and home alone so I decided to make homemade bagels for the upcoming week. They took awhile to make and I was wanting to do something else, but they turned out really hard and horribly stuck on the pan. dammit. So being me I... | I made bagels, got stuck on the pan, got yelled at by my roommate for being a mess. What's the dumbest thing you've done while hungover? Any stories about how you almost died | [
0.3,
-2.4,
-0.2
] | I made bagels, got stuck on the pan, yelled at my roommate for not helping me, and now he won't talk to me. Am I in trouble? What should I do?!?!?! | [
0,
0.2,
-0.2
] | 0 |
### Instruction: Generate a one-sentence summary of this post. ### Input: Been together 3 years, living together for 1.5 years. I'm Persian, he's white. My family will invite me (and him by extension) to family events such as birthdays, Shabbat, etc. My boyfriend (let's call him Z) has been treated disrespectfully by ... | My family will invite me (and my boyfriend by extension) to family events but my boyfriend feels disrespected by them in the past. I want to take action but don't know what action to take. We could | [
0,
0.7,
-0.3
] | I want my boyfriend to feel comfortable at family events but it's not guaranteed that we will get invited. What's the best option? Speak up, do nothing, something else entirely? Any ideas are appreciated! Thanks! | [
0.3,
1.9,
-0.1
] | 0 |
### Instruction: Generate a one-sentence summary of this post. ### Input: My wife went to a pokemon conference thing with a friend while I was away for work for a long amount time, about a month. She told me she was out to dinner. I asked later on if she was with her friend. She said she was and with two other guys. I... | wife went to dinner with two guys, one was gay and the other was ugly and nerdy. Am I wrong for feeling uncomfortable with that? Or is she right? What do you guys think?!?!? | [
0.2,
-0.5,
-1
] | I still think it was inappropriate to go out with a friend in a restaurant with two guys. Am I wrong? Should I just get over it? What would you do? Thoughts? Opinions? Storie | [
0.5,
-0.7,
-0.3
] | 0 |
### Instruction: Generate a one-sentence summary of this post. ### Input: Every time I try to give a chance at communicating, he shuts everything out and gets all random with me or he will just make it out to be like I "just want to argue" as if it's a hobby of mine. I believe that some arguments are necessary and the... | trying to communicate with boyfriend of 3 years, he shuts everything out and gets all random with me or will just make it out like I "just want to argue" as if it's a hobby of mine. | [
0.7,
1.6,
-0.5
] | BF of 3 years avoids any form of communication, including just talking, and shuts everything out. He makes me out to be a sadistic, argumentative person when I'm just trying to figure things out and work | [
0.2,
1.5,
-0.6
] | 1 |
### Instruction: Generate a one-sentence summary of this post. ### Input: First of all, excuse my English, because I'm pretty drunk right now and English is not my native language. Okay, so, I'm originally not from England, but I've lived there for a couple of months and I met a girl there, who is not from my home c... | I'm in love with a girl, we had a great time together, but she started ignoring me and I don't know what to do. Should I break up or wait till she responds? Please help. Help! | [
0,
3.3,
-0.1
] | girlfriend suddenly stopped responding to me, should I break-up with her or wait till she responds? Any advice would be appreciated. Thanks!
Should I break-up with my girlfriend of 2 months because she suddenly | [
0.3,
1.2,
-0.9
] | 1 |
### Instruction: Generate a one-sentence summary of this post. ### Input: I dated this guy last year. He impregnated a 20f pretty quickly after we broke up and when I found out, I got extremely sad and jealous, because I wish I was on my way to having a family. We broke up because of infidelity. Now though, all that ... | broke up with ex, now want revenge sex and don't know how to handle it. Am I being irrational? What should I do? Help!?!?!?!?!?!?!?! | [
0.9,
2.8,
-0.6
] | I'm so upset and angry about my ex's infidelity. Am I just being petty? What should I do? How should I handle this? Help please! :) :) :) :) :) :) :) :) :) :) | [
-0.5,
-0.3,
-0.2
] | 1 |
### Instruction: Generate a one-sentence summary of this post. ### Input: Hi, hoping this is the right sub for my question, apologies if not. I was browsing my account on Credit Karma recently and saw the message that "1 account has gone into collections". I thought this couldn't be right, so I looked and it said I h... | I have a collection account that says I have a $277 balance in collections, but I don't owe that amount and I don't have any other debts. I've sent them a debt validation letter | [
-0.7,
4.3,
-0.4
] | one of my debts has been placed in collections but I don't think it's legit. What should I do?!?!?!?!?!?!?!?!?!?!?!? | [
-0.4,
1.3,
-1
] | 1 |
### Instruction: Generate a one-sentence summary of this post. ### Input: A couple of months ago a friend and I started developing feelings for each other. She had been in a relationship of 3 years and often told me how unhappy she was with the relationship and how poorly he treats her. Things between us started getti... | girl and I were developing feelings for each other. She is in a relationship and is unhappy. She can't leave him because his mom has cancer. She's not sure if she can leave him and I'm upset | [
-1,
5.8,
-1
] | started falling for friend who is in unhealthy relationship, cancer strikes and prevents her from leaving him, not sure what to do now. Help please!?!?!?!?!?!?!?!? | [
0.9,
4.2,
-1.1
] | 0 |
### Instruction: Generate a one-sentence summary of this post. ### Input: First of all, I would like to thank everyone who opened it even if they knew it was only a teen with girl problems. This new girl came to school one week ago and I was in love since the first time I saw here. I talked to her for the first time... | I'm in love with a girl who I've only talked to a little bit, but I'm not sure when to message her on facebook or talk to her in person. She seems really shy in person so I don | [
-0.7,
1.9,
-0.3
] | really really really like new girl, not sure how to proceed or when to message her again, any advice is appreciated! Help please!?!?!?!?!?!?!?!?!?!?!? | [
0.4,
-0.8,
-1
] | 1 |
### Instruction: Generate a one-sentence summary of this post. ### Input: We met via okcupid (10/10 would recommend), and I didn't even think to look then about his 'children' preferences. Recently I revisited his page and saw that he had put 'doesn't want kids' on his profile summary. I really, really want kids som... | I'm a kid-loving girl who wants to date a child-free man, but I don't want to scare him off. How do I bring it up? Or should I just let it go? I don | [
-1.2,
0.5,
-0.2
] | met awesome guy, found out he doesn't want kids. How do I bring this up, or is it too late? Should we break up? What's the best course of action?!?!?!? | [
0.7,
2.9,
-1
] | 0 |
### Instruction: Generate a one-sentence summary of this post. ### Input: Long story short...u/andyootoo posted a submission, telling people that he has tickets to a show in SF for sale, but he has to sell them online since he's in NY. The tickets for this show are sold out, so I decide to trust him. After a few back ... | bought tickets from u/andyootoo, he had to sell them online since he's in NY, I trusted him and sent him money via Amazon gift card. Tickets never came. EDIT: I'm | [
-0.4,
3.3,
-0.4
] | got scammed out of $200 for tickets that were sold out, Amazon cant help, bank investigating, wondering what my next steps should be. Thanks! Reddit, you've been a blessing! I' | [
0.8,
3.4,
-0.5
] | 0 |
### Instruction: Generate a one-sentence summary of this post. ### Input: Usually when my bf goes out locally, whether it's drinks after work with colleagues or a night out with the guys, I refrain from blowing up his phone. I think I text about 3 to 4 times that night, just to see how he's doing, if he's having fun, ... | I don't text my bf when he's out with his friends, but I do text him when he's out of the country. He's not a big texter and I'm not either. How often | [
-0.7,
-0.7,
-0.1
] | I text my bf more when he's out with his friends because he hates texting and we don't text each other on the regular. Is this normal? Does it vary if they are local or out of the country | [
0.1,
0.2,
-0.3
] | 0 |
### Instruction: Generate a one-sentence summary of this post. ### Input: A little backstory from a post about a month ago So here is what's going on now. About a week ago, she took a break from her boyfriend. She came to my house and we fooled around for about 6 hours. It was amazing, but I feel like a horrible per... | She says she loves me, but she's too scared to leave her boyfriend. She took a break, but now she wants to stay with him. I don't know what to do. I'm looking for | [
-1.1,
2.4,
-0.2
] | my best friend is in a relationship and doesn't know how to leave it. She's afraid of leaving it because it's too risky. What do I do? I feel like a total bitch looking for advice. | [
-0.4,
1.3,
-1
] | 0 |
### Instruction: Generate a one-sentence summary of this post. ### Input: We've been "together" for over a year, and about 6 months ago went through a really rough patch. Both of us did things we regret, and he went a little wild with some girls at parties (nothing beyond nudity). Now we're pretty much back on track,... | How do I make sure my weekend is a good one even though my bf is at a party with some of the same people? Any advice on how to handle this? Any ideas on how to prevent this from happening in the future | [
0.6,
-3.5,
-0.1
] | my boyfriend is going to a party at the same house as some of the same people. He's not ready to make any promises or commitments, and I'm worried it's going to make me feel a little | [
-0.7,
-2.5,
-0.9
] | 1 |
### Instruction: Generate a one-sentence summary of this post. ### Input: So I was talking about Napoleon with my students and of course this leads to a talk\rant about personal budgeting\etc. I've had a few students talk to me afterwards, them being curious about budgeting and person finance. I saw the post about the... | talking about Napoleon, talk about personal finance, students want to know what some of the things are, I teach in Canada, they won't know what some of those things are. EDIT: I'm not sure if I | [
0.1,
-4.2,
-0.4
] | talking about Napoleon, talk about personal budgeting, students ask me about budgeting, I have a cue card, but it has a lot of things on it that they don't know, and I teach in Canada, so we | [
0,
-1.6,
-0.5
] | 0 |
### Instruction: Generate a one-sentence summary of this post. ### Input: Birthdays have always been hard on my girlfriend. She's had a few parties as a child where no one showed up, and since moving states in the middle of high school she hasn't made close friends. Here at college, she tries hard to make friends. S... | girlfriend has never had a successful birthday party. She thinks providing food and drink is a great way to make friends, but people don't want to come. What can I do? I'm at a lo | [
0.1,
1.9,
-1
] | My girlfriend wants to have a party for her birthday. I don't have any friends, but I'm happy to help her. I invited some acquaintances, but they all said no. What can I | [
-0.6,
4.9,
-0.2
] | 0 |
### Instruction: Generate a one-sentence summary of this post. ### Input: I go to college and I work on the school paper. I get some money from it, which is why I called it my job, but I don't really need it. I met her while working there, and we're both supposed to go back to the paper next year to work on it for the... | Mandatory summary/question! Wheter or not I should quit my job because of a break up with my girlfriend. Am I being immature for not wanting to see her? Do you think I should still quit? What should I | [
0.6,
0,
-0.2
] | I don't want to see my girlfriend anymore, but I don't have many friends. I don't want to be alienated by the others, but I don't want to see her. Do I quit | [
-1.1,
-0.6,
-0.1
] | 1 |
### Instruction: Generate a one-sentence summary of this post. ### Input: I hope I am posting in the right subreddit for this. Lately I have been feeling....anomalous(?) regarding what I want out of a relationship. Another fling of mine was recently ended because he 21M did not want to "marginalize his friendships." W... | recently ended fling due to significant others unwillingness to marginalize his friendships. think my relationship expectations are ludicrous and unrealistic. am feeling lonely and confused. am I wrong? what do you | [
1.4,
3.2,
-0.8
] | I am not being a dick. I am just feeling like I am not being respected. Am I wrong? What do you think? Is this normal? What do you think? What do you think? Is this normal? What | [
-1.4,
-5.9,
-0.2
] | 1 |
### Instruction: Generate a one-sentence summary of this post. ### Input: Towards the end of our relationship it just seemed like she was always mad at me. It got to the point where we would argue about literally everything. Her birthday just passed and I spent close to $400 on it, and yet she still had an attitude an... | long distance relationship with girlfriend of 2 years ended due to constant arguments and attitudes. Want to get back with her but not sure if it will work. Am I overthinking things? Should I give it a chance? | [
1.1,
4.5,
-0.9
] | long distance relationship split up due to attitude and hard time getting along. Want to get back with ex but not sure if it's worth it. Not sure what to do. Help pls. Pls help. Pls. | [
0.6,
1.5,
-1
] | 1 |
### Instruction: Generate a one-sentence summary of this post. ### Input: So I am living with 3 girl roommates and in the summer me and their best friend had sex and hooked up a bunch. I loved her but she did not feel the same way back. I kind of ended our friendship because it was not fair to me. The problem is that ... | I have a crush on a girl and we had sex. She did not feel the same way back and I broke up with her. She is her best friends and they come over all the time and I hate seeing her. I need | [
-0.4,
0.8,
-0.1
] | I need help getting over my ex. I see her everyday and need to get over her. How do I get over her? Help please. Help!?!?!?!?!?!?!?!?! | [
-0.3,
1.6,
-0.2
] | 0 |
### Instruction: Generate a one-sentence summary of this post. ### Input: Last weekend, my ex was in town for a party i was at as well. I spent the whole night helping him because he drank too much, and he ended up passing out at my house. We hooked up in the morning, completely sober, and acting like we were dating ... | Mandatory summary/question! How should i bring up the topic of our relationship again? Should i just leave it to him? Or should i just leave it to him to bring it up?!?!?!?!?! | [
0.1,
-2.1,
-0.2
] | hooked up with ex last weekend, acted like we were dating again, but he's avoiding talking to me. I know it's a possibility, but i'm not sure if he's still interested. | [
0,
1.4,
-0.5
] | 0 |
### Instruction: Generate a one-sentence summary of this post. ### Input: The past couple of years have revealed a pattern I'm finding a little concerning - I date a guy for a while and hold myself back from gestures or being too forward, then I get a little relaxed (which can be anything from a few weeks to a few mon... | I'm afraid I'm going to lose interest in a guy I've just met, but I'm afraid if I'm nice to him he'll run. Am I being a bitch? How can I | [
-1.1,
-4.5,
-0.1
] | Mandatory summary/question! How can I be affectionate and kind to a guy without him losing interest? What should I do?!?!?!?!?!?!?!?!?!?!? | [
0.3,
-0.2,
-0.2
] | 0 |
### Instruction: Generate a one-sentence summary of this post. ### Input: My boyfriend and I are both 19. My boyfriend's mother is the only draw back to my relationship with him and I'm not sure how to handle her. She claims to be fond of me, but I know she's lying. She never even gave me a chance, even after a year o... | My boyfriend's mother is a bitch and is a hypocrite. She's a 40-something year old child who is not respecting my relationship. She's a bitch and I'm not | [
-1.4,
2,
-0.4
] | My boyfriend's mother is a horrible person and I can't stand her. She's a grandmother and is acting like a child, which is why I'm not prepared to deal with her. I' | [
-0.9,
-0.6,
-0.5
] | 1 |
### Instruction: Generate a one-sentence summary of this post. ### Input: My girlfriends dog, who I used to love, has seemingly forgotten that he can't poop in the house. He was completely housebroken and then started to have really runny poops in the house so we just figured he was sick (we accidentally bought the wr... | Dog poops in the house. Am I a bad owner? How do I get him to stop?!?!?!?!?!?!?!?!?!?!?!?!?!?! | [
0,
-2.7,
-0.2
] | My dog poops in the house, we thought he was sick, now he poops in the house because he is a stupid dog. He used to go to the door and everything when he had to go and now it's just | [
-1.5,
-1.2,
-0.2
] | 1 |
### Instruction: Generate a one-sentence summary of this post. ### Input: Not dating anyone right now, but a hypothetical future person as I'm getting back into the dating game. A little more about me: I'm bisexual and very sexually fluid. Sometimes I even feel asexual. I'm also a virgin, but I'm really ready to not... | 20 something female who hates kissing, when do I tell a future SO? And how? If at all? And what if I find someone amazing?!?!?!?!?!?!?! | [
1,
2.3,
-0.9
] | 20 something bisexual virgin who hates kissing and is looking to start dating again. Not sure how to bring it up or when to bring it up. Am I being crazy? What do I do? | [
0.8,
4,
-0.9
] | 0 |
### Instruction: Generate a one-sentence summary of this post. ### Input: Long story short -- We dated for about a year and 1/2 I moved for my job we couldn't handle the distance and we end our relationship. Months go by, I see him Friday night and he is very poliet and nice and after we started drinking he started po... | ex bf of a year and 1/2 confessed to me that he still loves me and wont get over me should I pretend like it never happen?!?!?!?!?!?!?! | [
0.4,
3.6,
-0.9
] | got drunk with ex and he opened up about his feelings, next morning he ignores me and wont respond to my texts. Should I pretend like it never happened? Or should I tell him how I feel? Thoughts? | [
0.4,
6.6,
-0.7
] | 0 |
### Instruction: Generate a one-sentence summary of this post. ### Input: I'm in my early 20s and live in the southern United States. I've had the same friends for forever and have had lots of great experiences with them in the past. In the last 2-3 years though they've become increasingly negative towards me. I'll o... | I'm a kid who has been friends with a group of adults for a long time. They've become increasingly negative towards me and I'm the only one who gets shit on. I'm not sure what | [
-0.5,
-3.1,
-0.1
] | my friends are becoming increasingly negative towards me and I'm not sure what to do. I'm being judged for everything I do and I'm not sure if it's me or them. I'm not sure | [
0.1,
-1.3,
-1.1
] | 0 |
### Instruction: Generate a one-sentence summary of this post. ### Input: My friend moved across the country 5 months ago for work, leaving his other friends and family, and I'm the only person he knows here. We met on a forum online and have been friends for about 3 years. He's a very sensitive person and very shy, w... | my best friend is very sensitive and shy, so he doesn't make new friends and gets upset if plans fall through. I feel like I have to walk on eggshells around him and constantly make excuses and apologize | [
-0.2,
3,
-1.1
] | I feel like my friend is my only friend and I'm not sure if I'm overreacting or not. What can I do? Should I just move on? What can I do?!?!?!?! | [
-1,
-4.8,
-0.2
] | 1 |
### Instruction: Generate a one-sentence summary of this post. ### Input: Mine is simple, my kids. I will always remember the one day my daughter made me feel like the best dad in the world. I sometimes have to go back to work late at night to attend meetings (I work for a place with offices around the world) and one ... | left some cookies for my kids, daughter was very sad and grumpy, wife sent me a video of my daughter being happy and my son being excited. She made me feel like the best dad in the world. I know | [
0.1,
1.3,
-1.1
] | my daughter made me feel like the best dad ever. Wish all parents could feel this way. Want to know what is the best thing your kids have done for you? Share your stories! :)
Best thing my k | [
0.2,
1.4,
-0.8
] | 0 |
### Instruction: Generate a one-sentence summary of this post. ### Input: Hello redditers, First topic post on Reddit. So, I went to study abroad in the United States for 5 months. My GF is coming after 4 months of us being separated(we met in the same town and spent a lot of time together, before I left). Today I ... | Is my gf leaving me for another country? What should I do? Is it over? Should I do something? What should I do? Is it over? Should I do something? What should I do? Is it over? Should | [
0.3,
-6.3,
-0.2
] | GF of 5 months is coming to visit me after 4 months of separation. She told me she was excited but also nervous and afraid that maybe one of us didn't feel the same after so long. Am I over | [
0,
3.7,
-0.9
] | 0 |
### Instruction: Generate a one-sentence summary of this post. ### Input: I'm the type that usually goes from long-term relationship to long-term relationship without much dating in between. I'm trying out the casual dating thing for a while. I am 26f, above average attractiveness (in my opinion, but i still have pre... | I am a casual dater. Why would someone give me their phone number and then leave me hanging? What's the point? What's the deal? Any ideas? Anyone have any experience with this? Any ideas? | [
0.2,
1.5,
-0.2
] | guy gave random stranger his number, then ignored when asked to meet in person. Wondering why. Not that into me? What's the deal? Any ideas? Any help is appreciated. Thanks! :)
I'm a | [
0.6,
1.1,
-0.8
] | 0 |
### Instruction: Generate a one-sentence summary of this post. ### Input: We've been FWB for over a year, and we have started to develop feelings. I eventually said this wasn't going to work anymore, because one of us is going to get really hurt (probably me). He agreed, but a week later he said we should "try dating"... | Started a FWB relationship, developed feelings, he agreed to date, but a week later said we should "try dating" because he doesn't want to lose me. Is this normal? Should I be expecting more from | [
0,
2,
-0.4
] | started a FWB relationship, developed feelings, decided to end it, then he says we should "try dating" because he doesn't want to lose me. Am I being crazy? What do you think? Should I | [
0.3,
5.9,
-0.7
] | 0 |
### Instruction: Generate a one-sentence summary of this post. ### Input: Today I woke up late and home alone so I decided to make homemade bagels for the upcoming week. They took awhile to make and I was wanting to do something else, but they turned out really hard and horribly stuck on the pan. dammit. So being me I... | made bagels, got stuck on pan, roommate walked in on me eating the leftovers. Leftovers included dough, pepperoni, mushroom, onion, cheese, sauce | [
0.5,
1.5,
-0.6
] | roommate walked in on me stabbing my bagels, what should I do?!?!?!?!?!?!?!?!?!?!?!?!?!?!?! | [
0.3,
-2,
-0.8
] | 1 |
### Instruction: Generate a one-sentence summary of this post. ### Input: Been together 3 years, living together for 1.5 years. I'm Persian, he's white. My family will invite me (and him by extension) to family events such as birthdays, Shabbat, etc. My boyfriend (let's call him Z) has been treated disrespectfully by ... | family ignores boyfriend when inviting me to family events. What's the best option? Speak up, do nothing, something else entirely? So far we have been attending some events but not all. Thoughts? | [
1.1,
2.9,
-1
] | family ignores boyfriend at family events, want to take action but don't know what action to take. So far we've attended some events but not all. What's the best option? Speak up, do nothing | [
0.8,
1.3,
-0.9
] | 1 |
### Instruction: Generate a one-sentence summary of this post. ### Input: My wife went to a pokemon conference thing with a friend while I was away for work for a long amount time, about a month. She told me she was out to dinner. I asked later on if she was with her friend. She said she was and with two other guys. I... | wife went to a pokemon conference, told me she was out to dinner. She said one was gay and the other was ugly and nerdy. I still feel uncomfortable with date type situations. She says the atmosphere wa | [
0.1,
0,
-1
] | wife went out with two guys, one gay, one nerdy. Not sure if I'm overreacting or immature. Am I wrong? What do you guys think? Should I apologize? Am I being immature | [
0.4,
1.9,
-1.1
] | 0 |
### Instruction: Generate a one-sentence summary of this post. ### Input: Every time I try to give a chance at communicating, he shuts everything out and gets all random with me or he will just make it out to be like I "just want to argue" as if it's a hobby of mine. I believe that some arguments are necessary and the... | my boyfriend shuts everything out and gets all random when I try to communicate with him, what can I do to make him see that I'm just trying to figure things out?!?!?!?!?!? | [
0.3,
3.5,
-1
] | my boyfriend doesn't want to communicate, and I'm trying to make an effort to make communication work, but he shuts everything out and gets all random with me or he will just make it out to be like I " | [
-0.3,
2,
-0.9
] | 1 |
### Instruction: Generate a one-sentence summary of this post. ### Input: First of all, excuse my English, because I'm pretty drunk right now and English is not my native language. Okay, so, I'm originally not from England, but I've lived there for a couple of months and I met a girl there, who is not from my home c... | I'm in love with a girl who is not from my home country, but she is now ignoring me. She didn't give me a response for two days now, which sounds like a short time, but it' | [
-0.4,
-1.3,
-0.3
] | girlfriend suddenly ignoring me for no reason, should I break-up with or wait till she responds? Help please!?!?!?!?!?!?!?!?!?!?!?! | [
0.7,
0.2,
-0.6
] | 0 |
### Instruction: Generate a one-sentence summary of this post. ### Input: I dated this guy last year. He impregnated a 20f pretty quickly after we broke up and when I found out, I got extremely sad and jealous, because I wish I was on my way to having a family. We broke up because of infidelity. Now though, all that ... | broke up with guy, now want revenge sex and more. Not sure how to handle it. Any advice would be appreciated. Thanks! :)
I dated this guy last year. He impregnated a 20 | [
0,
-1,
-0.5
] | I'm not ready for a relationship, but I'm so upset and angry at the fact that my ex is having a family and I'm not. I don't know how to handle this. I'm | [
-1.3,
0.2,
-0.1
] | 1 |
### Instruction: Generate a one-sentence summary of this post. ### Input: Hi, hoping this is the right sub for my question, apologies if not. I was browsing my account on Credit Karma recently and saw the message that "1 account has gone into collections". I thought this couldn't be right, so I looked and it said I h... | a collection agency is saying I owe them $277 and that I didn't pay a debt I didn't owe them. I've never used that number before and they got my mom's phone | [
-1.3,
-1.2,
-0.7
] | A collection agency has been trying to contact me about a debt I don't owe, and I've already sent them a debt validation letter. I'm just wondering what my next step is. Please help! | [
-0.2,
7.1,
-0.2
] | 0 |
### Instruction: Generate a one-sentence summary of this post. ### Input: A couple of months ago a friend and I started developing feelings for each other. She had been in a relationship of 3 years and often told me how unhappy she was with the relationship and how poorly he treats her. Things between us started getti... | girl has been in a bad relationship for 3 years, has feelings for me, can't leave him bc of his family who has cancer. She's not happy, I want to make her happy but I don't | [
-0.1,
5.2,
-1
] | I've been hanging out with a friend for a couple of months and things were starting to get serious. She told me she can't leave him because his mother has cancer. She's not happy but doesn't want | [
-0.5,
1.7,
-0.4
] | 1 |
### Instruction: Generate a one-sentence summary of this post. ### Input: First of all, I would like to thank everyone who opened it even if they knew it was only a teen with girl problems. This new girl came to school one week ago and I was in love since the first time I saw here. I talked to her for the first time... | there's this girl I really like, I just met her, we said like 2 sentences, and I don't know when to talk to her again. What do I do? Any advice is appreciated! Thanks! (no | [
-0.3,
2.8,
-0.8
] | there is a new girl in school that I am crazy about, we haven't talked much, but I am very interested in her. What should I do? When should I message her again? Any advice is appreciated! Thanks! | [
-0.2,
4.8,
-0.9
] | 0 |
### Instruction: Generate a one-sentence summary of this post. ### Input: We met via okcupid (10/10 would recommend), and I didn't even think to look then about his 'children' preferences. Recently I revisited his page and saw that he had put 'doesn't want kids' on his profile summary. I really, really want kids som... | Mandatory summary/question! How do I bring up having children? Should we break up? What's the best way to approach this?!?!?!?!?!?!?!?!?!?! | [
0.4,
-1.6,
-0.2
] | how do I bring up the fact that I want children to my boyfriend, and how do I not scare him off? Please help! :) Thank you! :) :) :) :) :) :) :) :) :) :) :) :) :) :) :) | [
-0.8,
3.4,
-0.3
] | 0 |
### Instruction: Generate a one-sentence summary of this post. ### Input: Long story short...u/andyootoo posted a submission, telling people that he has tickets to a show in SF for sale, but he has to sell them online since he's in NY. The tickets for this show are sold out, so I decide to trust him. After a few back ... | I lost money on a ticket that I bought from a Redditor. I'm hoping that someone can help me get it back. I'm also hoping that Reddit will help me find the person who stole it. I | [
-0.5,
-0.1,
-0.4
] | Bought tickets from stranger on the internet, got scammed. Will bank investigate? How long will it take? Will I get my money back? How will I know if I can trust this guy again? What's the | [
0.9,
0.5,
-0.2
] | 0 |
### Instruction: Generate a one-sentence summary of this post. ### Input: Usually when my bf goes out locally, whether it's drinks after work with colleagues or a night out with the guys, I refrain from blowing up his phone. I think I text about 3 to 4 times that night, just to see how he's doing, if he's having fun, ... | I text my bf when he's out with his friends, but not as much when he's out of the country. I'm wondering if this is normal or if it varies depending on where they are? I know | [
0.1,
-1.3,
-0.1
] | bf goes out with friends, I text him a lot more when he's out of the country/state than when he's local. Wondering why this is and if other people do the same?!?!?! | [
0,
0.5,
-0.8
] | 0 |
### Instruction: Generate a one-sentence summary of this post. ### Input: A little backstory from a post about a month ago So here is what's going on now. About a week ago, she took a break from her boyfriend. She came to my house and we fooled around for about 6 hours. It was amazing, but I feel like a horrible per... | Ex and I had a night of sex. She's scared to leave her boyfriend because it's too risky. She wants to stay with him. I want her to be happy, but I don't know what | [
-0.8,
1.6,
-0.6
] | Mandatory summary/question! Help?!?!?!?!?!?!?!?!?!?!?!?!?!?!?!?!?!?!?!?!? | [
0.4,
-6.2,
-0.2
] | 1 |
### Instruction: Generate a one-sentence summary of this post. ### Input: We've been "together" for over a year, and about 6 months ago went through a really rough patch. Both of us did things we regret, and he went a little wild with some girls at parties (nothing beyond nudity). Now we're pretty much back on track,... | I'm worried about my relationship with my boyfriend, and I'm not sure how to handle it. Any suggestions? Any advice? Any stories? Any help? Any ideas? Any hope? Any help? Any hope? | [
-0.6,
-2.3,
-0.1
] | I'm worried about going to a party with my boyfriend and his friends. He's not ready to make any commitments, and I'm not sure how to handle it. Any suggestions? I really love him and | [
-0.9,
0,
-0.1
] | 0 |
### Instruction: Generate a one-sentence summary of this post. ### Input: So I was talking about Napoleon with my students and of course this leads to a talk\rant about personal budgeting\etc. I've had a few students talk to me afterwards, them being curious about budgeting and person finance. I saw the post about the... | I want to have a poster in my room that has a list of things on it that I can quickly reference when talking about personal finance. What are some good things to include on this list? What are some good names for the categorie | [
0,
1.9,
-0.2
] | want to make a poster for students to use as a quick reference on personal finance, need help with terms and such. Also need help with Canadian system of money. Also need help with Canadian money. What do you guys use? What | [
0.6,
1.7,
-0.6
] | 0 |
### Instruction: Generate a one-sentence summary of this post. ### Input: Birthdays have always been hard on my girlfriend. She's had a few parties as a child where no one showed up, and since moving states in the middle of high school she hasn't made close friends. Here at college, she tries hard to make friends. S... | girlfriend has never had a successful birthday party and wants me to try to make one for her. I have no friends so I can't. What do? Help!?!?!?!?!? | [
-0.4,
2.7,
-1.1
] | I failed to make my girlfriend happy on her birthday. I have no friends and can't find anyone who will party with us. What do? Is it over? What can I do? Help? | [
0.2,
0.2,
-0.1
] | 1 |
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