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Henlo frens!
Good to see all of you here UwU.
Grab on to your bodypillows, I have a smol announcement about the purpose of this subreddit.
This community is meant as a fun, lighthearted place where we can commiserate with each other about those annoying little irritations that hinder our day to day enjoyment in life.
That means that suitable posts here can be about my children.
And things like a wall socket or tile being placed out of allignment. A crack in a phone screen. Duckling shit on your new car. Incomprehensible software. Mismatched buttons. You know, the little things.
This subreddit isn't meant to incite rage mobs that go after people. For that reason we say:
#No reddit meta posts
No posts about being banned from subreddit. No posts about up- or down-votes. No posts about shitty moderators or users or subreddits. No posts about reddit.
All jokes and tomfoolery aside, that sort of thing gets us in trouble with site admins. If we allow one type of post about reddit it then very easily moprhs into allowing posts that directly call out other subreddits or users, we just can't allow any of it.
That rule already existed for years and we have just made it more clearly visible in the sidebar on old and new reddit. We're gonna be a little strict on it for a bit I'm afraid. 🥺
Thank you all for being awesome and have a very Merry Christmas! Celebrate Christmas in the traditional European way, with a suasage roll!
https://imgur.com/gallery/K42ajAZ | r/mildlyinfuriating | post | r/mildlyinfuriating | 2022-01-11 | Z0FBQUFBQm4xVWM2Nk5QT2dMWjZ5UFBHSHVTNWJIZERwX0lVOExIMEdyZTkzYmRVVW1iRldNWWdvNVVRb1BuUVB4bmFLQU4tSU9RRDVVQ3E0TlBwcnJMZ3RTTFM5dkd5U0E9PQ== | Z0FBQUFBQm4xVWM2cVZIYVJRVXJWN1Y2clVmZHA3OWtaSUFUNWI1dWc2bmRneWJXdmtzYzFDLUFsbWZBeUtjRVlMVXBPNkFyVUVPRDgzZXFVR1dodjF3YmcxeWV2d0taZ2ppS0FzVzRTY1lxT0ptOWJwRjEyOGdScGxJUjBjWUozZmZhdm14WW04QUFMU3FvLU9OeHBVMWpKeXhyTVJMS2NhRXhhdDVuZHVxWmdxOXNxalc5eWNQb3p5UEFoVHgxUFpHb193dEQyRVNR |
I last posted a variation of this a little over 5 years ago. We're a little overdue for a repost.
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You know how every Uber rating is right on the verge of 5 stars unless something's particularly off? Everyone's all "A+++ would ride again." Same for eBay, Amazon, etc.
You can think of /r/relationship_advice comments in much the same way, only inverted. Just about every post here talking about a problem is going to be a magnet for "break up with them" and "get rid of them" comments. Two things to keep front of mind when you're submitting:
1. The vast majority of people posting here are posting because they've got a challenge they probably haven't been able to resolve on their own.
2. In many cases, these challenges are either insurmountable or exceedingly difficult to manage.
The majority of commenters aren't *necessarily* cynical/assholes, but combine both a one-sided account of what happened—your account—with each commenter's own potential history, grievances, etc., and the resulting brew is pretty dark, meaning that every post will get drenched in comments suggesting ending the dynamic.
The number of serious comments suggesting _an alternative to ending things_ is a good way to tell whether or not there's merit to, well, ending things. I'll carry that Uber analogy a bit further:
* Let's say you're asking about behavior that's so bad, the red flag's basically bleeding. Nearly every single comment will tell you to run, and you're having a hard time finding well-reasoned counter-arguments to it. Sounds like running is good advice. **Zero stars** on our inverted Uber scale; the relationship is cooked.
* Together but your s/o cheated on you once? Most comments will probably tell you to run because "once a cheater, always a cheater." Some comments might suggest you should stay and work it out, but the details of how the cheating happened might vary the number of these comments. Great; **One or Two Stars.**
* Married but your s/o got drunk and made out with someone else, felt awful about it, immediately left the event where they met that other person and told you what happened and apologized with no prior history of cheating? Many people might _still_ tell you to leave (same reason), but odds are good that a fair number of people might suggest staying. Awesome; **Two, maybe even three stars.**
* Good relationship with your S/O but they forget to treat you in the love language you normally need to thrive? Maybe they forget to bring you token flowers/trinkets or other signs of appreciation but otherwise everything's pretty good? Many comments will probably be advice on how to communicate; there'll probably still be a good number of people suggesting you should just leave, but you can take these with a grain of salt. **Three to four stars.**
* Everything's rosey and you're looking for a way to celebrate your s/o's special promotion, anniversary, birthday, or something else? There'll be a few trolls who tell you to break up for asking the subreddit for advice, but it sounds like the relationship is **four to five stars.**
You can apply this to any type of relationship question asked here. Platonic, professional, and other relationships that aren't exactly romantic, this still works. You get the idea.
Basically, the people telling you to leave probably outnumber the people with less jaded opinions by an order of magnitude because many, many people have had shitty experiences that dominate their memories, so the best way to consider most advice here is to see whether other advice shines through the cosmic negativity background. If everyone's telling you to break up, that's probably what you should do, but if 1/4 of the comments are telling you another way, you'd benefit by giving that 25% a chance.
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##TL;DR:
The vast majority of comments will tell you to end things. It's a side effect of the fact that many people reading either have a very dim view of relationships or just do it for the drama. The more people tell you to consider something _other_ than running, the more value there is in trying that other approach, whatever it is.
(inspired to repost this thanks to [this comment](https://www.reddit.com/r/mildlyinfuriating/comments/1dc05p7/had_to_end_my_birthday_party_early_because_a_1/l7vtsis/?context=3) by u/NotAmericanDontCare. Comments open for a little bit because I know some of y'all want to vent about this, but try to be civil about it.) | r/relationship_advice | post | r/relationship_advice | 2024-06-10 | Z0FBQUFBQm4xVWM2bkxHa1JobUpWX3hwQ2MyS0hqU3BYMEJyU0ZCZ1lOck1DdGtHd0NESGVYeHlRRllGUnRZVy15WjNyUlZTZHhhWl9kVkgtamtQckZZU3lBMDBNV1h3RkE9PQ== | Z0FBQUFBQm4xVWM2Nno3VmxDNThrd1A3VzMxS0Q5YWZLSXRERUFKdDBFX0dZSmJwV1FSQ3c4X0dzLTFCUXd6SUwwODM1QU1pZGRzUDZCNU5BaEFpUTFNMmRvVnN5aTBXWlZLRzYtQk9wZ0pmNEtXNkhqTEg0NHEzZHVHLVkyZ2RlTkFZbFozenhnWUd6ZXF1R1ZtSjJGQXJITnF6dmFzREdva2d0azlaNHU3cFZ3UGdrSE1yUGtFUlR5V0Nsei1RQVRiTVd6bklZb2RjOWliMzFlcDFjeUZNSWRYdFRqRnVadz09 |
Hey everyone! While there are many, many opinions about what happened on Election Day this year, please keep it off this subreddit. If you see any posts about the election results or such, please report them so we can get them taken care of as soon as possible. There are many other subs for you to vent on about the election instead of this one. Thank you. | r/amioverreacting | post | r/AmIOverreacting | 2024-11-08 | Z0FBQUFBQm4xVWM2aF9qYkhwdWtJY3Q4Uzl6Z2xUQ2tyNXduSWhPSm9GS1JRSVFMOXFmUXdIbVRXOWM1YXFIWXNrclU1a1lHOEMyS3l0Zk50c2pSX3B4SWRfVHRack84THc9PQ== | Z0FBQUFBQm4xVWM2Z3h3WnNidDVVYkctd25xQnhhWlQ2TkpDYVRaVEZNRFo1T3V2bHVKOUpnNE13ejBIaVlIQkxuV29qekYweGYxX1RvLWlEX0d1MlpnY2IwMzM1dDJURExNRVpYUGVJY042Q2ZWWE5xbEphZ0hiM0w1S0hsRmtvNkFDTzdaRmM0WUw1OW1DSGRhcEx6V0FDUmhCeEVwZmVpVkhIWGV6YzBMUkNsV1hZVnYyZVk5SU1nSlVUc21yd3k2bGUwYjhYMnFI |
If it's just a bull run for the start of 2025, than head and shoulders to what ever TRIPLE TOP. Right now we made a shoulders, let's HOLD tight.
This is the 12 hour chart I'm looking at. 7.15 is the # to break.
If this 12 hour chart isn't making a head and shoulders, and we ain't NO MEME, than LETS go for the BIG W, with a LONG weakly candle GREEN!
To some this might sound alien, to others, I'm scattered and probably get the just of where I am coming from.
In the END
#FILE COIN MIN $20.00
👍👍👍👍👍SUPPORT...let's BUILD this support! | r/filecoin | post | r/filecoin | 2024-12-15 | Z0FBQUFBQm4xVWM2MXZZeF9ld05STW5YeFNUZzdpbzZHVDR4czZtMjNGRXpUU1Z3djZRQkV4d2VKYlZTTGJ3NjFnM3JCd2dZM2ZZMWRmMzF6cE5MTENmOVhSMTRaVWxBRnc9PQ== | Z0FBQUFBQm4xVWM2RzBPY29PR2NrcFNiUE5TLVB6NnlxN0hIM2p2VGlERTgzcEVMMVVPZGFCc1pRUDNxY1lGR0R1bXFkaUZRdjBCWWUzM0wzYklHMWJVd2ZTdk9QVlBsMWhNcDMxWEJiVDlHU2Y5SW9kd2dCWldrSUltazdSS3NMNF9DVkdxTE9UWTZDOHc1cFZnRTNLa0pqb1lQaXY0SWNoZm5UYmR6VjJXVGNjR0hKV1NzZ1JaWVFJRGZqaWZhQmpDLW9KMnBnbURS |
Hey all, so some of you have been here for a while, and in the lat 24 hours, this random Canuck comes in and hypes up this COIN. What does it mean? It means, I believe in the END game! Just on here giving us holders that spunk to remember the long game is the only game.
👍👍👍👍👍 ↔️Always UPVOTE each other to show support!
#THIS FRIDAY: $7.88 (just a guess) | r/filecoin | post | r/filecoin | 2024-12-15 | Z0FBQUFBQm4xVWM2LXBEZm5naVE5eW1MR09SMlhoSHpYZE5mUHlDNnRSNGg0MFhHdGFUc0E1TjlOSkV1bzJCSW9ReEVuZ2tMV2pBRjI4b25yRXF5bWN2UFpDRVV1OW90Q2c9PQ== | Z0FBQUFBQm4xVWM2a1BuTUR0U3Z1WkpXbVZsdEZYM01YRnNjV1E1dFFlMlNtQlhDcXBMWWxRdmlFSzdaNTMzYTlpU05zN25pd1FwSGpwQWxKVHBMaWREZU51QzdfT1VXVGdTZm1yRy1jNjdGWlI5a3l6c3BZY182U2NTVzhPSVo0TEI4Y0luN3VCSnZRZG1YVG1SY0tFQWgwNEp6T0Vqb3dGeE42S3BlN1N1UzJmTGFER1dWRDBjPQ== |
can somebody tell me how to contact someone from fil to ask them about binding process for recovering my assets from BNB chain network ? | r/filecoin | post | r/filecoin | 2024-12-16 | Z0FBQUFBQm4xVWM2dEhzclBZSGtoQ0ZMTm9qRzdjQko0Q1lUelF0ZTBTWVlGc0wzWF9YUWN4WW9MVUVqSVJ0QktoMUM3V3BtdWxHSG9LT093Wk1KTWVMUjM1Tlppd0ZweXc9PQ== | Z0FBQUFBQm4xVWM2bzJZY2tCR3NhWjJmQnJsM0hSUkloVEVuWjI4YjlPS2hYa0xSdGFONnhIQkc2WHpqbVRENUhiZVpJcW45NWpPbmw2YmwwRnpTRTJsa0VlcExUS1VLTnlWRVA2c3pidHl6LVEyOV8zakFoa2g5R0tOUjNseTU0amlSZExDZFhQYXlNQklOUzR2R1J4Q2twLU5DVlVZa2cwZWN0amFyTUV5cWt4cHV5WXl2ZE5lSjVwYkt3RTg1amtWRWphSllUMGJBaHljaHFxamtVZ3lmRXlYLW5qNlNhUT09 |
All my FIL tokens were seized by the Chinese police in April and the STFIL team in china was under investigation. Anyone have any update on this? Thanks in advance. | r/filecoin | post | r/filecoin | 2024-12-16 | Z0FBQUFBQm4xVWM2dzFtand5TTRJQ0c5aEZ0OW44a2dFZS1kcWJ5NElHS2VkWHJJTWtQcEhoeG85MjdmNmVmRy1CRU1ad1FacGR3N0hLTDE4MndteFM0YVUyeUdSa3FORnc9PQ== | Z0FBQUFBQm4xVWM2a2EtWk8xdmtEM3dldWhJVzVmNUM4WWQwRkkybUlseTdyaWlobW4zdFVPX012UHhuWWlwLUtDY0RRRVR6TGYwaG9LOHdKQ3RDQ1dDQUVtbzRyeVJhbjhIc2ZRRl9wd1oyMi03cGtaQW1MdUJFaUh4QnlXdWJLb3RzU3RlT3JlLXJxQkhjLWE4ZDlHNm5FaWV0OTJIejZJSlVoUkU5ZUNFV3UyajNNUkdWT21MSTZ3MGx2YW5WOWhXaVJRV09PQWtF |
Looks like GS is purchasing FIL at over a 1000% increase. Am I reading this correctly? Seems super bullish if GS is purchasing already at over a 1000% price increase. | r/filecoin | post | r/filecoin | 2024-12-18 | Z0FBQUFBQm4xVWM2a3huZE41ZzhKNGZtc29zVkU0SFBjS0phTjJONkVlVEJiSHJWdW9NNmIycG56WmpuYW5scU1IRHN2eWVWTVFWdThPYXJpWFBZMXBzUUktcHZlT2J2VFhTTFBVZXJSbmt4SHk3SGs0NXRkZFE9 | Z0FBQUFBQm4xVWM2OHdmZjFhb0NnS2ZacTdIR0lHdmdfSER0dlBqREVKclVieHR1dnB1VTJqR1VSczJueHNOX2FtMVR1TnJfMFhBb21zcTJZbmpFQzJaSTJ2bTFNSllyazFBZi10YjFaNE5ydkFQbXB6a0lma25rNk1NeEJmUEwxc0xhNmljdGF4TjlPUzVEVHJ5aVFxcGlsNnlNNVNtNXRUdWVmV3ozV1lHUUM2dllZMmlVVGZJPQ== |
I’m new to crypto but I’d expect with all this good news about file that it would blow up pretty soon. Seems like the opposite is happening | r/filecoin | post | r/filecoin | 2024-12-20 | Z0FBQUFBQm4xVWM2eTAybzRwYmZXTGFSelZjc3Z6cTdVNm5PS0Z6UXJpVzlVOTlYUzVEUkRBMW5XU3p3QXAyU3hQYl9lcmxtRVpBWGRmbVk4QzRNeWphN0M3VldmODhrTkE9PQ== | Z0FBQUFBQm4xVWM2ZG9YcGRtYlVRWWFMOUpCdmZsR1RZZldfTUhPZ09uck5BcjNybDJKY19WV0NiMi1fM1ZoOHVYYXlvQjhMWWN0aXZnMWU0YXRBcFFFZE0zZk1CZ2RCbF9yVnIxek53WnptS253OVJXbG5BMTQ1cEtKYm5qSF85bl9aYlF0S0JwV2ljSXhteUtBbDFXR20tZXN2UnBhSS1OWEZkWVpJVU9HcTkyOUtjLU5ZU0JRPQ== |
When owning physical hardware for storage is so cheap nowadays, why would anyone use filecoin? | r/filecoin | post | r/filecoin | 2025-01-01 | Z0FBQUFBQm4xVWM2TFlpUkxWcDRqUjVCU0pfN21RNkZmVHA4bC1xamVaRmF5bmU0RXlqdWM4SmZ5Y1ZFRkFHM3ZCWDZpN1Q0SXY0QzhJaFNKdDhVcHNSSks5Rm1zVjlLVVYzcUdBNFVNSDZCRTB3Q3hpMkJpQ2c9 | Z0FBQUFBQm4xVWM2alFMb1ZnZjZ0VlJvUWptQ29uMzA4SVBGdElIOC1CaGVJdDJ2TTBGdmEzUDZWTDZTYjNCb2FPTXBKUDhnQXhnY3ZNaU94NlZJQ2tPeXh4MmdBQmdUSXpMVVRUZWhDbWZrWktIOTBseF9MWDEySlpqR1FiblQ1bUxUU0VwbmlBZjl4X0VGNjJBOFhQTzBzeHU2TXNfbUNmOHNfQU54RzBqZjFYU1Fab2RsVmlJPQ== |
Is there any good dev resources (GitHub/repo) and docs for example on how to use the ecosystem? I want to test storing and retrieving … also is there a price per TB stored/retrieved ? Golang is my preferred language | r/filecoin | post | r/filecoin | 2025-01-02 | Z0FBQUFBQm4xVWM2M0lZUUNxYWJ1U3dLWHV4S003ZlJFS24zc1ZqUXhQUDFxaDFjX1QwOGoxY19YdzdfdG0tVHdvSDNVWjB1RzJRaUZZTUNGRjBSbXowZ2hBWWllc1BLemc9PQ== | Z0FBQUFBQm4xVWM2QkdrZmNTVXlqb2VRRWxNNkQ2TldSQ2YtczlkejdYOFhXSUNkdlZSTXFjXzNZLThIUG9nLTl2U216SFFOS3V3OURCX1RyMGRYLWw3OHpQNHBxRzVSUmNyVEFaVjg3WExpMVJrOUUwbWd5TzhJWUR3eDZFY2NCVUlBNkFDMEhsUFo4X2RNUG1aUW81RWZSMFA4NDlhRnpGbktNWGkyQU1wNG5iY0tNeGh1cGZNPQ== |
Filecoin Staking: How to Stake Filecoin and Earn FIL Rewards?
https://cryptonews.net/30316913/?utm_source=CryptoNews&utm_medium=app&utm_campaign=shared | r/filecoin | post | r/filecoin | 2025-01-03 | Z0FBQUFBQm4xVWM2ZHBpVmt1NGVOSzNyTThJRlJKUXNiLWViNDhiQmwxdVZjYXc3cWdaLTdkS05vaC1kWS1uT3RpVl9CWll0aGxMdVlYRl9XeFpseUV3Znp2SGZjekxES1E9PQ== | Z0FBQUFBQm4xVWM2RkdJVUpWbF9rcFF6RzBQMThTYk96b1NRSHAweHVWOGNZVXRBVWthX1dhV1l5TEd5YWJxYnF3QTlfTVB2SlJRZTRpRm1CdUxxN2FDQ0VOQS03dE1yR1pCSFY1WnV1Nm90LXpwaml6SW5RNENHMV9XWDNhOUotZUJiQm01dFZBclFfQVQ2eUtBUUFYV1BZc3hnaElYa0tOS180alJHZ3VZY1NOMS1sVVYxRjBrX2hFZ3lPSnh0YVBRNTNuUEpkUURNMFBRdkR4dk5lbVNoSVZsS0h3RzV6QT09 |
Sure anyone know the exact date of F3 (fast finality) launch? I read a X post someone commenting that launch date is postponed to Q2! Is that true? | r/filecoin | post | r/filecoin | 2025-01-07 | Z0FBQUFBQm4xVWM2OXRFZXg0WkMwek5tdFREaXdBc1gwck9hWU5iX0Itdnc2Q0ZJOHJlS2NnTkVneXZKMi1hOXh6aXZyN2dNbmM0dFNHOEdWVmk0WXhldlhjT3FwQnRBc0E9PQ== | Z0FBQUFBQm4xVWM2R2p4WFlTM1pQUTVISGVjVHJDYjllNmptNzRWMDdsU3VzTmkyY1QyclJ1eV96czQ0SmI0Ym1pZGI4UE9TWWZNaW9QTi1YT29fSWZQZkFySk1Yd3dyZ1hkMy1jY05QOG5odi1xdjlYNkc3NFg4VzVlai1zN1RyTnBRU3FCQm1HbEtmMGFQeEV2N3c0TkFpN3ByeGwySnNkZXREaXI2TVZrTzdYRDk1LTI3TUdFPQ== |
I want to start filecoin mining. I can build a 320TB machine with 1GB internet and 256GB RAM and a good video card? How do I get started? What is important to know? How much would the profit be? I would be grateful if I could get some help from an experienced miner :) | r/filecoin | post | r/filecoin | 2025-01-08 | Z0FBQUFBQm4xVWM2TDlHQmkyTVMtRFhsZ0h3dUhnVVVVa2xDVkFBc0lxZ0FiNlZmMGc3aHVFZmtxSDhrXzZ2dFZxUkgwcjRNU2hnUFVpZnJYRER0TnRvN2JDOGY2aGFaSzZieTNycmNkRVBRMDBrdzE2cmU1QVk9 | Z0FBQUFBQm4xVWM2RXd6UFlpUWZPMnBwV2NxZzBfZmtuYVlRbENGTnQ3aFIzeHFyNlZsYjJRZDNxa0hLeXRQQUFIUXU5UGZaOHlnNzRsUmR0cmp3MnJpUGN6TmNkb3pqMVZtekVsd25VMFI0aUxQbG9BNktxWDlUYXVxdkZLSTdYX0xYNWFmMVdqRjRLcF9VTEZLbjFva2pURjRMOG84cmViMVJGcnJ6NTZtMC1uRllLd2RVSGdjPQ== |
I can’t see this space being useful especially for the next decade. What’s the reason for the hype? Filecoin will never get CLOSE to its ATH because of its market cap and it’s practically useless. Am I wrong? | r/filecoin | post | r/filecoin | 2025-01-09 | Z0FBQUFBQm4xVWM2MmpxYVFDYm1vNjlXSnhpM25RMHY5Q0ktbGhpTTRoSnE5bm8tWV9yZ2Fsa1BVUkNmOWU2R0hlZ3VVLW5laWV0cHAzNlVPWWVMZ2xHcGI0dzNzRmFha2c9PQ== | Z0FBQUFBQm4xVWM2SWZSTkQxbkdUWEpFX2QtRnlnenBOeERKVU9UZG5iY1R4TjNoVkNiQTE4bHZXdF9RaDJ5cWI1TFpkUlBucnc3WnZuUjhKWWZMSllIOF8zRnJ3ckdpcDZXRlBWZUdSSHZMdTYzdlNhMGxickh2YnBrcHNrRk56ZUFnVUk5MW42RVJyZGxGb2I5N2RIY1REQkc0RTVmaEY1NjhvRjYzaFdPaE5zb0xGTzhYSXp1R3pabXF1N3B4cXV1MVVUbmtDaWE3 |
Long story short, 2 years ago I send the money to my friend cant remember (0f.. to 0x..) maybe but the coin i never received.
So now binance supporting 0x and f0 address so my friend should now received my money or not?
Hes not receiving my calls that's why I'm asking to you all
Thanks | r/filecoin | post | r/filecoin | 2025-01-13 | Z0FBQUFBQm4xVWM2MVpoVExmQVJVUlNzR2VIclViU0MxOEV4SHhVQXM5bi1MSXV1V1J2ZzNnSHd1WlA4LXI4QXJ2OEhocDUzWmtWTWpvVXp2eGxhcVBPMDNkc1R0bG85eGc9PQ== | Z0FBQUFBQm4xVWM2ZDRZeDRGRmFlM0hMam1WbEpXemRNcnAyVnp5OUQ4M1Q0eU5CMlcwY0d1VnZTb1gwcGdGQW5idEVUT0taQ1RWTzAyTDFucnRUSWVOZmY3MldTeWxjNTRHZkpGdzFKMHA3eV9LTGQwb1hUNHVGR1pYQXRJQTFNWUNXREs4NzhqTzA4Q3A0eV9hUjR5RWZDMnI3bkNXeXB2WnBTTHFaZ2dYQ1I5VkFwVFlKQUk4X0ZZMGloOXQxZlJGUVM5RU96NmE2 |
Filecoin collaborations with Solana and other networks makes it a more attractive platform for investment. Usability wise, it is a cloud like decentralized storage system so in terms of real world usage it has a purpose. Technically speaking as a trader big volumes has been placing since its lows from last year until now, still anything can happen in the market. But if my prediction is right it breakout and reach 61 usd or contest 81 usd. (Im using tradingview binance platform) Let see where will the price action gonna be, personally ive placed mine since last year. Always manage your positions and risk management. | r/filecoin | post | r/filecoin | 2025-01-15 | Z0FBQUFBQm4xVWM2OUpKVmt5bkR5SjVUYTRvamY1RmdsazBleFNqUFpjZWdHMU5xYlA5UHNDem1vNlE1M2xINVhVT3JjQVA2RW1MR05ZWFJsMmhtcnhIV0d5U01WV01BU1NaT0tuU0xmeURDVy1TMWVSclJpZUU9 | Z0FBQUFBQm4xVWM2Y0tINndvaUROS0ZsV0RCTTUxTnFvVElEemV4RkV3N0kyellHS1YyZW9GWDQ0NTNJMUQyd3pNOUdRR3pMY3J3ZFBLZ3ZYeG9VTGxCWHZZal9tNG9DYXlkLXR3VjZBQnQ4Qlg1RkFpLTk5U2E5MzV5Y29GVFYyMlZEUFkzWjZ5WHhnZm0yZGU4MzF6eHRpTHNpd3c1TnFESml3UF9HVHZPWllTajB2cklHQWlBPQ== |
I have to say I was very spectical of FIL until I found Juan Benets videos on YouTube. I know that may sounds funny but hearing that man talk about the future of this project with so much passion was amazing and really took away so many doubts I had. If your doubting FIL I highly recommend looking up the Filecoinfondation on YT and checking out some of his videos or just any of their videos in general. | r/filecoin | post | r/filecoin | 2025-01-16 | Z0FBQUFBQm4xVWM2azZEOHpDRzR3a2dUWGpzbVo5bW5fODZvc0hrMTZjWjFKY3JBNlFvVGFOYkZNU2tYMlVNU2ZpdlE0eWdidmZuRzNLYVREaS01NW93dmRBVzVqUW92ZVVKbnJnazVHT2x1STJOMmxWdmV0cW89 | Z0FBQUFBQm4xVWM2V2w5MHNLaG84VTRpa2Z3WXdaeVFoMlYxZkJhRVlfQ3ZxRC1sVnBIOS1OZFR0M2FXMUFoaTBiWTFnblc4aC1GZ2ZTMmtGTHQ1U3p0TjlXYTNWRjRtOVhiN3BLSm5VemZRNXNXMlhndzljYXpBaWN5ZDhJUzAtRkpJdGY4UG5zT1pDV1hTaVQ0ZXVYZnJ3VGpOWVh6bW9BPT0= |
Seeing as how filecoin dropped so substantially, what is your reasoning for buying filecoin? Are you not afraid that it'll tank some more ? What were the reasons for why it dropped from 150 to 5$? | r/filecoin | post | r/filecoin | 2025-01-19 | Z0FBQUFBQm4xVWM2eW1zaklnRlU1LXNNNzNPdThNSldMT0tZc3AtWVFiekNEZFNsNExHSlVxUTNjUmdrc3ZrLXd5S1gwRHlaN0xENVUzQndIYkhmMjRqRlJiUFBEX2E1SnVyMEV0RWM5a0pCNHlPbUlxbFhmWUk9 | Z0FBQUFBQm4xVWM2aEdmejhzS21NX2YyT1JhOFRzajNnN1ZRSnVGQVZkNkFvc2V1S1NMNlJHa0psRnJha05RdjNGTmMwQjlTVlp5QUYycC0xQVhuUTFDUWZiUlVNWmZVU0hNSnF3Mm51WGtxT21WUVpTcnRXQjJ6N0xmcXkyY2hkU1QzSldFOU9WdklKR2E0TEMtdWNIc0MzWENXaVZtX1JfRHJEQVA0SDNucXhNNUJRVjgwZXhZPQ== |
This coin has consistently lost money all my other coins have been making bank whilst this shrimp has been bucking me in my wallet duck this shrimp I’m selling | r/filecoin | post | r/filecoin | 2025-01-21 | Z0FBQUFBQm4xVWM2NGdwajRJUzl2eWFSUUJaVTN5MFRGeFQ5d0g2YVUtc2IyWUZOSW56el9aLVQxZC1nOEpHbklyaWZVVHREUGw1cUVuQm40eUhYR2pXbFMwS2wzanBCaFE9PQ== | Z0FBQUFBQm4xVWM2VTd2Ulp1SEZKSzRHZVF6dEN5cU4zUGVuWGZ1VkdSOUhUcWZ1dTRzRWZLNzZHWE92am1DVkcxWUJpbE5UMGhRMjBYZGRmZm1QMkVWamNJazlQOXBRVjVOaUU0YzNsb0NMNFV0Wnc3dUNLVTFRR0ZwbUFZRU5VbzhEMW0xVnZDemhSRkRYV0ZfSFlBdGRHMExqOWVQcm1EV0lDM0Z0aktPSUFHTzlnOWt1Q09ZPQ== |
Have faith it will soon move! 🙏🏻 | r/filecoin | post | r/filecoin | 2025-01-22 | Z0FBQUFBQm4xVWM2cFh0cF9lZWVfdmVUYzRlYU1xb2pRVzdCUUZjWHNVdTJQYW9yZlhELUdweGNZeFdjakM1LU5OV3BVOThZX0hvMWZSMmxkNktRemN4ZkY0THZnakJWLUdrVmJpQXVJbV9oS1hoT1kwSGs5MFU9 | Z0FBQUFBQm4xVWM2T1FwT0N4NXlDVHFWQUM1Q1lvWFFMdjZKbENUU2NZSWtVREFLbkVlYUxkaV9YV05aRUJtSHpqT2hTVTFVeG9aakIxVEFzLWY3Q01YUVdNQXlibUI0MWZRdWtyY3J5N21qWlVub081dkU1X0l0WkhKbVNYNTk0UlpjRGVBa09VdnR0TVZoOUVWN3VaeG1EQ3NVaXhLcm5JM2o4Tk9DN09hdkprM1ZscHVnTjh3TmpNZTFUV1pZUlY1M2Z2MXZfdlgz |
Hey y’all I bought FIL a few years ago on KuCoin and have been informed that KuCoin is removing users from he US by shutting them down. Wondering how to store my coin into either a hot wallet or cold wallet? I have the original ELLIPAL titan cold wallet but I need to update it but not sure which network to use? (I think I asked that correctly?) I see that on KuCoin they provide both BSC and HECO contract addresses but I was reading FIL went to its own network?
Sorry if I am asking the wrong type of question as I am still pretty new to this. | r/filecoin | post | r/filecoin | 2025-01-22 | Z0FBQUFBQm4xVWM2Y0NPdmNKc3QyTTBLbWZ4NTA2VWhvMlp2ZGFoWmJ5UHlzeUdzTmpDUFBzU091WW9McXlmdldkSXpYTmdCd2M5Q3BjZE9WUHlYUlVyVmV0WTUwejdSelE9PQ== | Z0FBQUFBQm4xVWM2cnBxZmhZV2Y2TXlLLU1wSFlQWWdYSVFfYmZXRmNwSlh0YnlDZE1YRVpVbUpYVEFlUUlzVEFnMk5pckJEbWd5bFBYUXBSU2RQbklKUllKbk50OUpHc1hPRDBiVGlPbUFtdS1Sa0hiYy12MEY0dzZJSmdmRGNKUWxEOWZZNWtJSnZJdHhhMlNLWm8zVXYyY1FtVVRYS0lWdUxHTGRuNGNNWFh3eVhqRDFPTGo4PQ== |
Is there any ready built application to interface with the network? It does not need to have a UI.
From what I understand the files need to be split to buckets and in general they need to be preprocessed and go through IPFS (?).
Please do not suggest to go through gateways, that destroys any meaning for me. | r/filecoin | post | r/filecoin | 2025-01-23 | Z0FBQUFBQm4xVWM2NkU0aVlBcGZ6MDlTM0hDMlVsclgwVW9iVm8yak1aeldERThfRF9NX3BhbFFVUkRZRm45TnJDbWdjQ1lTMklCRmFsOVZxbUc4RzRhNVJBbnVLbmdDY2c9PQ== | Z0FBQUFBQm4xVWM2RVNBZVdfSWc4cmhGYkJRSHUyWkdXN2VWVGNwbUpuYnNSMi16NlFRY1NwNEN2TVlvTk1jaTRvT0ZQdDlLU3lMM2tCRzh4LXdZU1RVdjA0SUVWMnZDNnBPZFdlUWNBeEpTRFNiLVlXMDhvNWtSS09XZWJvMGpZR1NwR1hkdkJOM2doQTh6ckZVODlRVFlrQ3YtZVlQNU9Udms2OG9fZzNDdkhEckdKX0ZuMFM2MUxKdVA4WTFZNWl5Wk1iV1pYWFZtbTZOa0FGSzdEV2NJaTlXd1FzM2k0Zz09 |
Nope. Paying a company to try out your product doesn't counts, especially when that company doesn't proceeds with using it, like Archive.org. And having dozens fake sites "using" Filecoin is not cool. | r/filecoin | post | r/filecoin | 2025-01-26 | Z0FBQUFBQm4xVWM2MXFfc0JvRHJReDN5bTdQUWp4YXIxajNwRmZtR3doSi1OYzd1RXFPYmM5bHZGZDZMV1Q5LVBmTDVPel9NVldqQks5VFFZR2JEd2lWM2lwNlNGRDBZYUE9PQ== | Z0FBQUFBQm4xVWM2eHlid2YzM0kzSnRYUEVreHhrcFk2bHdrUnRhNUdydDdrbFBCUU5uWkdCS3JLRHJBMUpWQTFYVDdDRDFiQnFfQlZzN1FEQllCSW8xM2NnQ0ROR0doZ1NmNmJRS2hxYURscnlmd0lWd2wwREVfdHJEWTJFcV85TFpDdW9XbG5uNm5UdTRxel9lb3M4QTNWMHhrR2lGcGd2eTFRZDczYUpoLUNfcGF0UVFfTHdJMUdqakxPWDZGeGx5cXJvSUxKSFVzOVotVWctT1loRUtEMkJPdlRtY3JOdz09 |
At $4-something per coin, Filecoin has lost more than 99% of it's all time high. Will it ever bounce back? I think not. What's going on here? Looks like Filecoin is a kind of ponzi scheme. These should be **big red flags** for anyone considering investing in Filecoin:
* You can't use Filecoin in the real world. They'll tell you that to store data on IPFS you need a lot of it, and you need to invest in Filecoin. Any rewards you reap will trickle down from that initial investment - classical **Ponzi scheme**. Compare with Amazon, Google and others for ease of storage.
* There are no real world case scenarios of Filecoin being used by any company or organization: giving [Archive.org](http://Archive.org) 50,000 Filecoins credits to try it out, doesn't mean it's being used outside of the trial period.
* The Filecoin companies in China ran a **pyramid scam scheme**, and founders were actually imprisoned.
* Filecoin development APIs do not work and haven't been updated in years on GitHub.
* Filecoin Foundation advertises a lot of similar-looking websites, touting them as if they are doing something Filecoin-related that moves things forward. They all appear to be **fake storefronts**.
* The idea behind Filecoin is nothing that hasn't been done already: take P2P sharing and Torrents. Same candy. Just that these actually work, unlike Filecoin.
Filecoin has failed. | r/filecoin | post | r/filecoin | 2025-01-29 | Z0FBQUFBQm4xVWM2am9WS2xRaTl4a1pJTVE0bGthcnVibk45UFgxWXk1eVVGZTJTcTdwb3NzU0x4d0tPek1Yc2pWUU1vUVNwNjJOcmptbG02a1R4OW54aHh6UW5vcE8yTVE9PQ== | Z0FBQUFBQm4xVWM2eVBxN2hwNGEyQ0c1bkdKSWhrR2xTdEpvSFJzY3U1RHRBYUlYcmZZdW4tUng0X3BRWkk1TlU1dUJtVjVoTzNyNlR6SGJkRDBBNDNPbmFkcnZQc2VMTklrTmFjXzNza2ZOckpySWVEQmh6RHpsNS12Q3ZmbHozUHJHQlE3Z3ZIVm1QcmtSNko3ZmhtWmVzT1dOY2YwUzVjd0EwV21JeVNzS3lzRmlRTDNPeWloYjd2LWNVdDBucGpFNk5jUmFCemhNOTlpRDFxYTRWQVJJUTNvNTlpd05TQT09 |
Data redundancy:
By having multiple copies spread across the network, Filecoin mitigates the risk of data loss if one provider experiences issues.
It's written the client chosen how many copies he wishes to create. But what is the standard minimum ?
I'm asking this because 25 EiB of available storage might get filled by 10EiB of client data.
Also does filecoin break client data into several encrypted pieces & spreads it across different storage providers ?
Then it creates multiple copies & again spreads it.
Thanks for answering 🙂 | r/filecoin | post | r/filecoin | 2025-01-29 | Z0FBQUFBQm4xVWM2T3ZOdXd5dXVzd283bXJZOWlkcnAyRjlRWHl2c3N2ODVEOVp2TTdCMF9ZVGFOdkduLXNPMmplMVVVMnNSZ1RxZU9vQ0ltV0phVUFTR2ZhQWNQUWxTRHc9PQ== | Z0FBQUFBQm4xVWM2ZVB3LXBuZGMybkQ1MHhQNVBlOXJ6TGhTLVJPR3FUeHNKX0hSYTdjTXZGN0lMYTF0WlFLT0pxYXVmNm9lc0JMUloxLTRmWVBDTEhoMEd0aGNJdmstdkRCczZMTVNnY1pkWjlycVVjdkN5NlVJTkhMc0EwX052ekRHX3Q0MktYcE1MeFhZWmk3ZGJZNm0tTXhpcXdmTTRUcC1wSHlFM3cyVDhxZkVyYW5EYl8tVFVsQUY4Rk9QQkZueGNOeU9uZGo1cDVJTmNqSVFaS2lZdl8tb1FwM3RmZz09 |
Still hodling it? And it'll tank even more. | r/filecoin | post | r/filecoin | 2025-02-05 | Z0FBQUFBQm4xVWM2N0t5eDBWUXVsRDRkTGlBbnh1RHZtOUt3N3RvaHluZFNraVdWZjBxeW5uaEk4b3hKUnIxblVCdldiazRHV0JXUFRTcl9nakprWTk2MnlDN2VpOWxJMUE9PQ== | Z0FBQUFBQm4xVWM2SlBVdnJydVhCZEJJNkRyenRBX3RmVVFWUTgwZlh3Y0hBVFlMMFFSWnBONFNsMklNYWRPa3ZfTXFWZDJJUV9GNkhRTi1xR1Zzc1hLYnBBUDBOdjc3ZnFhX3JWT2dnV2NzdHM1MFd6VW9ZTzUyeGlSZFdteFk3RVZDakg0aWh5VTNIXzdBRWdpajR3a0pCYVJuVHY4MXh5a192S28tRExZaC1EUVpYRnlmNEQ2c2Y0cERnSlZZOU5xNTY4WFRVcVZGbWkzTXh5UThabndySmlad0FzYTZIQT09 |
https://medium.com/@jake.e.rubin/siacoin-the-filecoin-killer-c87eff2a8715
Utreexo coming up the first one to have a full utreexo node! Don’t miss out or you will be sorry that the rocket left without you!
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I want to invest different currencies and into crypto how can I? | r/bitcoincash | post | r/Bitcoincash | 2025-02-07 | Z0FBQUFBQm4xVWM2aFVEelJqV19VNW9YZk9RRFdLa0lDeGZqMnRyejR6RjV4MGJpT0dkRl9GMU0yQXFHMzQ5a21zRlFnUzcwcUo5UFhpaEVhb3dNOEFndG5PQXlFaGk5dnc9PQ== | Z0FBQUFBQm4xVWM2ci0yMm9DdElMQUJVZWQ1TXl5ZUlmYzBzOXlfQndSS1dPQkdFaUhUaDdZWEpZYkdySGtHYVVvV2pVTTlCb3Fjb3U4QXh0aUFmT193ZVNSdXpTejY3dTctdUhBRDh0Qm4yWUpyNDR5WmxGV0tUMFY1SjhTaXd2cnhQT1JOOWtJRExsRXRDQUxLMzFHNUlCVG0yc0g3YjNCSXE4SlpwYnQ1YnNOUkJabGpEMlZ2N3dYRmNLbE44UU10VUlTWHFLNGlaTlRsWU9HWWpnUzdvbjlOak8yNzU5Zz09 |
I just noticed Roger no longer talks about BCH publicly or even on his X (Twitter) account. He even took the name Bitcoin cash out of his bio. Anyone know what’s going on? | r/bitcoincash | post | r/Bitcoincash | 2025-02-07 | Z0FBQUFBQm4xVWM2SkhHY2dFR2lPVVFseENpTmJGQlhGQ1RWRXpVM3RkYzJmbUZIc21FWlRwSVRlaEFEV1pYM0w4NXduTGRXY1hBckZaUk9XM05qck1UdkZzV2dCR19IVXc9PQ== | Z0FBQUFBQm4xVWM2cVdqb3k2djdLcVhTUkRaVHY5czA5VWNJU3BHMHRfQTJYMEFaXzJrUWlNUFhjNXZqbHdGV3FRNzh4a3hwZXZlOGczLXBVLXlwX1VSeGp2bHltZTg2SXZNS3gwaEpDVEVTRnB1em9wLU91MHpQOVRlZHlYZjk2WHB4VHF3eXZPc3VaSzNIMGZSdC1GeFB0Mk1ob0kyWTZqeWpXQWtkVWdOazFuVDRVbjYweS1feF9fM05ZdjVNVEZtSGkwZzVVMThvVE5vcjk2S3B6dnhUeVZ4N0JDcDkxdz09 |
I've got $125 gift card that I'll sell for $100 in BCH. DM me. | r/bitcoincash | post | r/Bitcoincash | 2025-02-07 | Z0FBQUFBQm4xVWM2WlB2Z3dsYzlNNzBjSDVJWlh4VDNqcl90Y2VGNXlxanRBU3RXeS1sNC14c1BMaWpDRFA4TERpczY0bzFMTGR1N0RSdlE1LTJlYklWNHFXblNLLWJDUlE9PQ== | Z0FBQUFBQm4xVWM2TU1SLUtnUGZ2VmRJbXQwbm5Yc2lVUEdwQVFVRnpmUm1FUWdzdG1DbzdMNjJxRzM2M3ZKOHRHaXZvbHBwaUpxdzJhN1hFZmF1YXBfem9ubUFvZEkzbVNwLWdpTkxEa2YtNU84dDlnMldIamI0QmtnQXQ5Nzd2XzFUYlg2eHBvYUFidkdmeHlsaW5wTW9JT21QSDFHR0dkWkFIZmRwbEt1bVRGSFI4UXlFMndRPQ== |
BCH is the crypto no. 23 by market cap. (source coinmarketcap.com)
But, if I have seen it correctly, it's the no. 3 POW limited supply as BTC. The other coins in between are inflationary (eg. Doge) or stablecoins (USDC/T) or minted at will with potential infinite supply.
If BTC is gold, and LTC (the second classified) is silver, could we consider BCH as bronze?
In the past, all three metals were used as a currency, with each one having different purposes. | r/bitcoincash | post | r/Bitcoincash | 2025-02-08 | Z0FBQUFBQm4xVWM2NTZWS25VT3M4SjE4eTVSeTZrZ3RpWXBVd3ZBdUo0cFhJM050SVd1dUpRX0pPRXl3WlV1UG9JVWYwcHFXbTcxTl9WVXlXOXM5aDJTOGtEaC1KTjJmMmc9PQ== | Z0FBQUFBQm4xVWM2MDdhVFh0N2NTS1Eyb0pNT3dfNm12bVE0eXd2OEVLQzNFdkMtbmhrTDR0d0lxcXlYWHFSZXdhWHBzZ29DQ1pDS1pUWG9QMzkyU0s0Q3V4M2FRTERfRlAxWl9CbGptb2ZoUkM3cmhhM3dhcGw2aFBUcmNFYXBpaThzR1pla2JHRmROaTJQejNLTmV1OEFUaU1SYmJnUXMxX3ItdnRTOUFQWEdQdnNBcDJCTzRzbWxmalg0dzRfcWpkR09KWHNQQUNocUlkMXgxSDRnRkUxU2pqbG43anFBdz09 |
Filecoin Redefines Activation of F3 with an Exclusive Smart Contract
https://cryptonews.net/30498634/?utm_source=CryptoNews&utm_medium=app&utm_campaign=shared | r/filecoin | post | r/filecoin | 2025-02-10 | Z0FBQUFBQm4xVWM2b2tuYW5YU1Etb21VOFlkUExsODA5SWd4M3FlczFBUDBWRV9lSVpvd0VSZE91WVh3TFlTMUpZZDg5RmxNemNKTGEwbU43S2hEV0FFSjRISEdJMUhEQlE9PQ== | Z0FBQUFBQm4xVWM2RG9LS0JvRFkzSU5PMjBvZm9HWGZ2aEVKQlF5T1FSekU4dktGY3lmT05odGdCTkpVYTN3MzJMY3k5dllNbm5IYWc5Qnd6MGpTMjdvS25MS0RKYXVhYWY3TWJYek9Za0g4LVVsV0tNRWdfTUdCZTdIWlhsd09yOGJOcDRRajRodUZwRldYdkc5dnEzNkt6SUZBZFZkVjFLZWJqWmNXYTNfMFNWcDFqTVF4UzBDLVA2QldKSWRPSlVpOHd4cFlEcnpLcXNCUWpaZm83LXplRmJ0bFhNTXJKZz09 |
A year ago I had an amazing opportunity to interview Mathieu Geukens, the dev behind cashonize and today I updated the article. I hope you read and enjoy it. | r/bitcoincash | post | r/Bitcoincash | 2025-02-11 | Z0FBQUFBQm4xVWM2MFZzR3YwQWFRaENVOVVaMkZ1SXBSTnVTUGFWYlpXRjlpcllOWVZ6YXVYNG1KVElUX1FIU2x1M0Nnd21GY01lY1ZQQ2NLcE4wMHJqOUhKd0RxNm1lOFE9PQ== | Z0FBQUFBQm4xVWM2V19EVUFkYjVsT1h2b0w4bTdFUURKQWd4cEp3dHpnYncyNW1DSFFZSmwtcWVjUjJYNEhBNHBGbFFaQlRJSm4xTUhRdlRsakcyTjdidnNCRUtEbWJhbWJmVWZ5QTM5cmhvQ0NKZURlMWQ4cTJFLWpOTTl3SG54RTVtczVLd3VkTzI1TDQ4UXB6YWpIYjl0WGhIRGNaeEcxVG56elRmR2xVUDFjNW1FNWtJNktFMnZXUlRxMzNtOHozczNfU2FfTmNGbkZqbmF4UWJLczYwdzVzUEdFLTVnQT09 |
To your own risks
https://unspent.cash/
I don't know if it is serious or trustworthy
To be honest I just discovered it today and didnt even read now but I felt in love for this cartoon...so I share directly
https://unspent.cash/bitcoin.jpg
Thank you Paul for yours videos in French and Spanish for BCH
https://youtu.be/hcHpePRVmlA?feature=shared
| r/bitcoincash | post | r/Bitcoincash | 2025-02-12 | Z0FBQUFBQm4xVWM2X1Jpc0pVdkFHcHNqLWI0MWktTkIySU9TR1RkWURSNUg5U0ZJaVl2WWhjNWpKZDVvU242djNlMnhLNHBWX2xJM0xzY184ZE5MZGc0N0tpM0JEV01jMWc9PQ== | Z0FBQUFBQm4xVWM2bU8ta3ViTWZqN3ZrNUV4VkdwcW9vX3ZzejNzZGFnMmsxa3VBaWI3QUJVUjNHbThndjVXRk92blgwX2JraWZrck51LW1rdHFpWGFvblNabERGTXgxMFJ1cmVPbmdVemlEOTNseWZRN0JxVm9YcDY3NkNyRVNjTHVjNENVVHE4VGUtM3lwa0RNRWJxWXIzSmJQQTR4RUtQX1dVVnIyQXN3MlJXT1pmVlB4c3k1RUxqcjllNUNEZTE1MU5PTHRMdmwt |
Title says it all.
This is a throwaway acc for them luls
Usually im not so cocky. But fuck it
This is my first leverage trade, kid you not
Also please explain how does the funding rate is going to kill this long term trade.
Planning to go all in on one trade
Not selling until half a milli
To those who say alt season is not happening. Liquidate me! | r/filecoin | post | r/filecoin | 2025-02-12 | Z0FBQUFBQm4xVWM2REtQQ1JqS3NQTEJuVmNSUkRpaDhDWXd1T2NtaTBzdHZnMVU5LXl6Yjc4cVl0YlF6d2t1Y3FFUGNBajFHdUduRUxRUkRsemVydjJzVFVvRWh1TzZKenc9PQ== | Z0FBQUFBQm4xVWM2VU44VU1OUUVxeURvMFF1dUVLRFcyeUNtOF85REItSU03NXhYSkRwOGh5eWhURkNHTXdfYjJ0Q0RzZUY1Y01uOTRhc0hOTjl5S3dvc0M0VkZBWmI0Vk1yRzNQVDBpajhDREFRWFU0Z1lUbXR5MzlXRDZhY3BNX3p0WENBQ3NKOFNUcnlxZTdWMzI3NzBUcDdDYXZqeFZBMjcwSEsybTk0UlJlT2t6NGFzaDFONkJJR2FaQWVVV3JPUlZqU0tsbmlUcVJidHpoaHd5X0d2N0NneG5YUXVOdz09 |
[Read.Cash](https://read.cash/@Gigamegs/spaceship-medium-update-since-my-last-post-0375aaf3) | r/bitcoincash | post | r/Bitcoincash | 2025-02-12 | Z0FBQUFBQm4xVWM2OXB4eFU2ajhKM1UtWGFCQlFkOHY4VGZQbk02dTBrN2N5ZDlNRHMwYV9BUFFaTm5OLTlxR1JBdk5rTFpnVFpjYTZXTm5NTGtRZVdVTFlqSWFSQ191LXc9PQ== | Z0FBQUFBQm4xVWM2aVl1dUxhVzY5elZIaF9UQkJPSXNELXlPY0s5RW8xdFN5OHdZaEV4aFFnYjJOQjFHMXFfaFFGbUREZXZXbzZtcC1Rd3NkRU1ucnp5YWxlZHViUDhhbzNpN0xqa0lPZldBWFZfZnUweUh2el96WGxzWXNUZ1JINUhXeHd2VUJPdWl2YTdTOHg3UURCaDgxRzB3c015QUh2TDJNMnpUdHIwd1BBLS1fMWxldjY5VHBYMFFTcmhJTVBKZDRSb1pLRGQyX0hLcjdaY3pTS04tTVJzRGhIcFFZQT09 |
Today I started a New Series of Articles called "Built with Bitcoin Cash" where I highlight BCH real world stories where the currency is used in the world to buy for things people are interested in and are important for them. I hope the community can send me this stories where people open stores to accept Bitcoin Cash for their products and service, accept on restaurants etc, and I will use to produce content. Now, I started with my own story, enjoy. | r/bitcoincash | post | r/Bitcoincash | 2025-02-13 | Z0FBQUFBQm4xVWM2eVl4c283S183M1lMeEJWSWxna3VXdkFEMkhWLWVBcTVNUDRXbVdZSlctWHAzSVJrbXQxMjhPT0kwT282UjRIWTVuRDRXemlYbjBTLTNOSkswVkJPLVE9PQ== | Z0FBQUFBQm4xVWM2OWJfTUdDN1NkV1pZZ1JudFR0UFIyOXAzdjdpMEdBeTRsVWw5ZmJkcVpXYjMwMnZhd2J0bEh6X0VMSWU0UXVpdTl6NUxIamlHcXBiU1FqM1FLdndvaGFfN185OWhjd09ZSVhIUkJDQTdYSHNxMGVWUU8xSVZSTHE4Zng2elNTbG1jS3l4bmJrVlFTS3RTMTZ1dHAxaE9lY29VY2gyWEJ1VEc3MEhXSUlGR2t2dl9OczktRE82bXRJdEwzUXh3U3pnanF2N2hUWmJFcFVXeGR5cURzMGh0dz09 |
Filecoin and TOP AI Network Collaborate for AI Efficiency
https://cryptonews.net/30519516/?utm_source=CryptoNews&utm_medium=app&utm_campaign=shared | r/filecoin | post | r/filecoin | 2025-02-13 | Z0FBQUFBQm4xVWM2bmo1NW9ldW11YmU4cUI4Y1FrakZtajRCck44QVJXb0pCXzI4cDVPWlZ6WU5CN3Vxb1dkNG1iRzJKQmc4MGZ1Q01TTlhBcklQN3Fud1prZWNGbFBkTmc9PQ== | Z0FBQUFBQm4xVWM2Qk5kMkhUSk85d0RnUERGQmNiV1dFTXR1b2FrcFMxcTVrSThkVXozeXNnT2dTRVBmV0N0MmNsS1ZJdV9mRmp5TUdXbU5jU2pVVWdySkVQVVhudFFSVVVCM04tVDZwd3dWbkV5QS14R0lENTVLcktBWFJMblNRWk81Z2UwbWFyb3ZTUF9MSUtzaTl5NEx5OHh0ckc0ME12VURwUG5YX2VWUDl4MjM2cDFzdndSWm9ueS1VOTFaUFpiS0VCSm52aEw3RlRaQjgyeURQeWMwdVZteFM4TXhQdz09 |
I'm sure this has been asked before but I have 4 pre-fork Bitcoin addresses and PKs. The BTC was long ago moved but Explorers still show Bitcoin Cash balances. However when I attempt to sweep the private keys on Coinomi it shows a "Private Key contains No funds" message. I'm sure the addresses I match have the PKs. I think I may need to put in a derivation path when I create the Coinomi BCH wallet ? Any help appreciated . | r/bitcoincash | post | r/Bitcoincash | 2025-02-14 | Z0FBQUFBQm4xVWM2U2JOQnVVQThiYkhRc0xqcDdEdHJvczJ4aEJzTGc1VnBiQVJjZDBOQTAzc1RTaUl2TnFIUzMwallZN1FXY2szaW43bWgwVTdiQWxBV0xBYmJIbjQzM1E9PQ== | Z0FBQUFBQm4xVWM2S0FPbFNDWGtxRm1La3drcHA4ZjlwYTdMdDd5SS1zMTJYcmtncFV6YXlTQmk1bFNRRmpwSmVDbS04amtRc25qbE9jVWNnVjFNd0RfVkhDaEg0TEhtSzlTTjJhTWs0SW83MTYwSkh5b2F2UlpkVWVNcC1uSWpJb3lxOUtzSjBCUnFvMDNhSF9KYWxHMGpEU2lNWlUtb24wVHlLS3dlTmUxX1lxU0EzX2hWTWRLcENXVXNESWwyZE9PV1hDT2ZYUUJvczNtVzVVSW4tU3M1cUdNMFZXQzgzdz09 |
My (32F) husband (33M) got laid off today and it’s hitting him really hard. All evening he’s been calling himself a loser, deadbeat, asking me how it feels it be married to a loser etc. It breaks my heart to hear him talk about himself that way. I told him that, and that he brings so much more to the table and our relationship than his income. I would love him if he sold flowers on the highway.
For context, this isn’t the first time he’s been laid off. He lost his job in 2020 and found a new job in 2 weeks, but the job market is way worse now. He’s also been hating his job and his manager lately and looking for new work.
Financially, we are fine. I work full time, though he made slightly more than me. We don’t have kids, we own a house. He got 6 weeks of severance pay.
He’s just been feeling really down on himself and I hate seeing him like this. We’ve been married 6 years and been together since we were basically kids, I just love him so much and hate to see him talk about himself so negatively. Appreciate any advice. | r/askmenadvice | post | r/AskMenAdvice | 2025-02-15 | Z0FBQUFBQm4xVWM2T042N2RBZVdnMlJ2SlpzMEVJb1BiV2docTFwMHFjd3FhdFc1eVlXZ1N0aC01WTV5eEFlX1h2Rmh2d0tVYVJrb011NUt1UjNFdFpNeFFDNlF6Y3RfX1E9PQ== | Z0FBQUFBQm4xVWM2cmhDS2xaWUNGRjk0bkFISlhMUVdXRGpUeVlmQlpXNmhNNWF3TDA2TmRGY2dQQlpmdjlwcGxsRUZaQ2ZQQ3JXWDlQa08wM2J2VlNidS0tSGl5ZTdTbW1vSlNzOVlUSF9GV0xQTHcyWS1QaFc2OUY1NGhOUkRUZy1Kdk9jbzFwc3pYT092ejFYSHpJR0NFX2VtT2VBT1dFWENQVXB6bjBYYmozdzBoWV9IcEZnZXNITjZvNkQ2MHdmcXpRbHA1X1JxT1E1QjlQZnkwVEFTaEhaM0d3RzRadz09 |
Alternative title: how is it possible not to have a scarcity mindset when you rarely meet women you’re interested in and when these women rarely reciprocate your attraction?
Even when I’m with someone who seems to appreciate me for who I am, I feel like the dynamic is still me not trying to fuck things up and drop the ball
In fact the better they are, the more I like them, the more pressure I feel not to fuck things up because I know from experience it will be a long time before I find someone else on their level
I have unintentionally sabotaged potential relationships in some dumb ways before (not cheating or anything scummy just by not always thinking before I speak or forgetting something that was important to them) so now it’s always in the back of my mind
Of course the harder I try to not fuck things up the more likely I am to do exactly that
It’s also just not a healthy mindset and it zaps most of the fun out of the dating process
And frankly even when you’re exclusive there’s always the lurking possibility that they lose interest or you shoot yourself in the foot somehow … even when you’re married there’s always a chance
How do I change my mindset so it’s healthier and less stressful?
I know that I should just be true to myself and if it doesn’t work out then so be it but especially on the rare occasion I meet someone great I feel an intense desire to hold onto it and try to make it work and begin to overthink every interaction
Do you guys feel this way?
Edit : the funniest part is that for all women’s pickiness and ruthlessness they so often end up with guys waving more red flags than a goddamn mayday parade | r/askmenadvice | post | r/AskMenAdvice | 2025-02-15 | Z0FBQUFBQm4xVWM2dnE3bmNUYWNBNUJUOE9VcUFkX0tfdUxUS0RtV2RhTzJPb0N3dHNBTDFBZmJpMFFGZk1VZkRCS1hLOFp0RENzMGRTTVlmR1V2NEpmekpwRGV1Z0RFSmc9PQ== | Z0FBQUFBQm4xVWM2OUN5NHE2cUF5dUlYa18tS2F5WTB1cDFvV3A5MUhaYTV4dUJKbVB1ZjFOdWZxWGM1T21VNzNsdVFhYjVpdFRnM3JZSjEwNm1sbUlFRkNVYW5IdVA2aVhvOTFKcWJWNDR1ajg0YkdINFVSUHVjbGp1eEcyd203WUhFSGo5Y1Z0MDJ0M083UkdhOVpaZ0ZfYzJtdE1QM2l0aFQ1RWRaZ0R6cDJuTEdYREtwRlZqVWNTSERNS0RtNmtwSDg5Q2FjR0RVWjlJbXoza1lfT2Y0a3JVaFBIQnFSZz09 |
For context, my dad (60M) cheated on my mom, had another family, and spent the college fund my mom had been saving for me since birth on the other woman. That’s actually how my mom figured out he was cheating when I (29F) was around 15 years old. He was diagnosed as a narcissist and never talked about it with me, never directly apologized. We sort of act like it's never happened, he's not emotionally open; he wants to be close to me but I have a wall up.
Last year, when I was unemployed, he lent me $300. The other day, he called me saying that his wife told him it was actually $800. I sent him the receipt showing it was $300. But honestly, I’m just sitting here like… it’s $300, you’re my dad, and you technically owe me tens of thousands.
Would I be the asshole if I just didn’t pay him back? He says a year is too long and I need to learn about responsibility. What should I tell him? | r/amitheasshole | post | r/AmItheAsshole | 2025-02-15 | Z0FBQUFBQm4xVWM2S080UlpuOWVJZnlvcE0xX0tNRHFpSHV3Tl9ELTNjLWtHTUtGZmJHMEhLRzFOR09jcmhqTEFBQnF5R2ZHYnlDTXpnOFJTdHhOV29odGFESUVYRXNYS1J6OGIxYWk4LVdwMFRXNXNodWlfY3M9 | Z0FBQUFBQm4xVWM2WGwtWDhfNVVVamFVQUJCMHdHRnZ2MGpTYnVjM0E4eVF5S0owT3dnRGVjd29YQ1dKSXM1dmdyd1NFeHdqakZpWUJpcGV2QnhFdllmZzNXTENVektfOWNpUEh6a0dJYmk5TEpUTHVjb3dYbmVkb1BBU1FjeTlxbVpIcWVnMGpobE5KdFZJRzZUbU9jbl81NmNDZjd3M09yTWxQakxCaVltblM3S2U5RDEzc2JjR29pNUFoTEFBZzRuQy1yam05bUxET1RvZllLYkVhcFVkeXBLb3kwYXpwUT09 |
For context, my mom has always had a problem with me wanting to sleep over my friend’s house throughout my entire life. On this wonderful Friday evening, my parents were telling me to get home at 1. Which is reasonable, however I had arrived at the function at around 11. Being normal young adults, we feel as if the night is young. I asked my parents to order an Uber, if they really had an issue with a 25 mile commute back home in the middle of the night. They refused, and instead insisted on picking me up that very moment. In a plea of hope I ask them if I could sleep over. This was my mom’s response. They ended up, taking my car keys and telling me I’m selfish and mean nothing to them. Am I tripping or are they going over the top? Not to mention, my dad hit a mailbox in the process of skirting off following getting my keys. | r/amioverreacting | post | r/AmIOverreacting | 2025-02-15 | Z0FBQUFBQm4xVWM2Q19oa2FKLXY0akhXcE5SazZTcTJYSEJVRm1YbUd5QlNLUXlUeGFYZmFJNDdTZUVEU0t3djFuQ1h5V2NXR0tGLS1XMDdyNWYtREptVDRLTHFwWmZTcHc9PQ== | Z0FBQUFBQm4xVWM2VEdWaXYwbHlTZTVRcmhJRnBqeEFDQ0ZQWUgxVUF2bVZSWGtSWDhKUS1uLUxjQmJQQV9fQkwyTFdTX3lHQ3dBeDhBRmRLZi0zaGJvUnFXRy02QUhaMHc2a3RnNWVwZjNMU01QWUdvRGN2N2REZmJlUS1Ha2plS2I1a2Ric3hMZjVBSS1hQzUtV2ZxUGJsWnBUOTQySXgxNDJ3SkV0NGNvOVItVGNuRzdPbllCaGpJS2FHaktfMGdscmdzQWZzRXZmenBISG9DUDR2SldBT0lTbkVQVjhhdz09 |
My aunt passed away a few years ago, and before she died, she gave me(27F) a beautiful antique necklace that had been in our family for generations. She told me she wanted me to have it because we were extremely close. She knew I’d treasure it, and I have ever since.
Now her daughter, Lily(29F) is getting married, and last week she asked if she could borrow the necklace as her “something old.” I said yes at first, because I thought it was just for the wedding day. But then she casually mentioned that she actually wanted to keep it permanently.
I was confused and asked what she meant, and she said it should have been hers all along, since it belonged to her mother. She said it was unfair that I had it instead of her, and that she deserved it more because she is her daughter.
I told her, “I thought you just wanted to borrow it. Aunt gave this to me because she wanted me to have it. I’m not giving it away.”
She got upset and said my aunt was probably just being polite when she gave it to me, and that if she were still here, she would’ve “obviously” wanted her own daughter to have it instead. She told me I was being selfish and should do the right thing.
Now my mom and a few relatives are saying I should just give it to her because it was her mom’s and it would mean a lot to her on her wedding day. But to me, this isn’t just some family heirloom. It was a gift meant for me.
I understand why she wants it, but my aunt had her reasons for giving it to me. I don’t think I should be guilted into handing it over just because Lily suddenly decided she wants it now. | r/amitheasshole | post | r/AmItheAsshole | 2025-02-15 | Z0FBQUFBQm4xVWM2MGxfSmJiYVY2SFFQaGV4RjBsWlg1NDZ6OGtjU0JuRExjSHZDRWtBUzltTFExX083a3BiSlFFeEhxc0ZQQ1dkb0JwUXNFYVVkREV0ZU5KamM5ZlpVY19ZSXBrS3F3bUNOUWZRd2ktMVdVbDA9 | Z0FBQUFBQm4xVWM2eGk4eVRPN0RPa0lqeEJldjJ5YTBRZU5EdkJ6ZFktTG5qR2o5RnpXTHQwTVVGWWZyalhDaDR6SUhEbS15LXMxV2lTY2xyTGl1VFc0WGxJVGd0ZERESHJhQllJWlZFcTd3bVNmYm9oa2RvY2JHbGVFOG15aHlFQzVtckR0VEJPV3Jqd0hLaFpXbHdRMGJ6dUVTa3Btd2NWUnhpSXFLamdaNGthQ0NhQVpObGNtLURXT3p2QWEzSFNZbGs3M09BcU80S1MtN2VGN00tZ2JUMENXSHZ0Y2Vqdz09 |
If so, how would someone rent 100TB of storage and manage it over standard protocols like s3 or sftp or something compatible with rclone.
What is the rough FIL/TB
Don't link me estuary, that's 10GB and not a paid service. It would be unreasonable to expect a free service to provide the volume of data I want to store. | r/filecoin | post | r/filecoin | 2025-02-15 | Z0FBQUFBQm4xVWM2cXQwR0QzeVVvSUpBSGhyQmFHMEI1SE9KcUdUaTZNSkd3UkswMndGQ3dQOXp6a1pSN3lpdHp6V2xUNzJncWxfaUNQV0NtNDg3bGtKQlZnMGZ2N1NTRnc9PQ== | Z0FBQUFBQm4xVWM2Qng3Ml93QXJJdnVxeTFYTE9QdGxoM0xZQ0RwZ2VwTjFCOThjUk1lc3lFQldkYVpXbWppeC1zZy1DWlRjWWozYUkwX19SVWhHVWZSajdtZzVJX3Vhb25iZ25EVmtENGE4ODFUamlvZmJHLWFxRmN1TlFlcExTOHhHaGxXSjZoSGJiMG5MQllyNFROOUF1a3dUTlJxQkJuMXR3UURXemZxSHh2WHpVQXJhV2JMR2JTQ3F1cmZxS2pFT1J6WGtITHVVSDdDalJ3Y05PMkhYcWZPVHlDNjg5QT09 |
My fiancé (M, 27) and I (F, 27) are planning a small wedding. We only invited immediate family and close friends so we can afford to pay for the wedding ourselves. We also said that guests can only bring a plus-one if they’ve been dating for at least a year because we can’t afford to pay for someone they barely know.
Here’s the issue. My sister is 25 and started dating Jon in November. He’s a 43 year old pilot and has two teenagers. Three weeks ago, they announced they were engaged. I’ve tried talking to her a few times about how he’s too old for her and how she’s way too young to be a stepmom to two teens, but she told me to mind my own business and that she loves him.
For our wedding, I only invited my sister. She called and asked why Jon and his kids weren’t invited. I told her it’s because I barely know them and they haven’t even been dating for a year. She said Jon is family now and that his kids will be my niece and nephews, so it’s different. I told her I can’t afford to pay for three extra guests who are basically strangers to us. Now she’s mad and says she won’t come either.
My parents get where I’m coming from, but they also want my sister at the wedding. My dad even offered to cover the cost of Jon and the kids. But the thing is, I just don’t want them there. I feel uncomfortable inviting people I don’t know to my wedding.
Am I being a stubborn asshole?
PS: we only have 24 guests in total . She wanna add 3 strangers to it now
Update : considering my sister just told my mom she is pregnant ( shaking my head ) , I decided to invite them all .
Added later : why I’m inviting everyone ? Because I’m trying to reach a deal with my train wreck of sister ! Bring your crew in return no pregnancy announcement at my wedding ( or any other stunt )
| r/amitheasshole | post | r/AmItheAsshole | 2025-02-15 | Z0FBQUFBQm4xVWM2QnFmc0hDY1RsNWVMc0s2VzBkdTNNZGw1aFQ4NHRCakNINXloTmt0TXlBdk5GSktIenRiN0NsMUxZYWRvQXhKSkd4Y2JvTjQwdVdfMTBPTm5qTm4xVGc9PQ== | Z0FBQUFBQm4xVWM2UkFVelNOSnpVNUozUE0wSEhpY0JvdjBMbVQ3bVFYMWF2bENkNk1tQVU1dzE4cXRxb2F3NnZXeE93ZE16S00zMTV5N0J0dmVicnVfZnVvN2cxRWZfVlRJdHVycFdMYTJsOEdJeXUzVWhhVWlPaFE0ekVPNmFQNWQxTktUdXZVQVJ6RFoyMkhpZDAtaWJnczVxdVNjYmo5dS1Pc0M1YnE4S1FjRGVkYkU3NWpudl9zWnVhOFR4MkdIRUVzemRSVEtZUUdINGlsb3IzTGM3WFhxWHdXa1o2UT09 |
My parents got divorced when I (17M) was 14. The divorce should have come so much sooner. The two of them were a match made in hell and they made "home" feel more like I was in the middle of an MMA fight. They were volatile together and had so much toxic stuff going on. Neither one of them was worse than the other. They were equal in being shitty to each other and in being shitty to be around. And by that I mean their moods would be so bad after a fight or after something happened and I was hesitant to go to either one.
Their divorce was sweet relief to me. But it was toxic too. I was expected to pick a side. My mom tried to use being a woman and mom to win me over saying I didn't know what it was like to be a woman in an abusive marriage. She also said her being my mom meant we had a special bond nobody could understand and living with her made sense for that reason. My dad tried to pull the we're both guys card and your mom gets hysterical card.
Neither one was directly physically abusive. Although shit got thrown all the damn time which is physically abusive in it's own way but they didn't hit each other. Both were equally hysterical. So their arguments didn't win me over and a judge decided 50-50 was the way to go. Of course neither liked it and the judge saw how hysterical they could be but the judge stood firm on his decision.
They both entered new relationships two years ago and they're now both engaged (to other people).
I'll be 18 next month and I already started my exit strategy to move in with my best friend and his family for a while. I have some stuff moved over already. My parents don't know.
With their new relationships and weddings coming up in the next year they've tried to make me a part of the families they're making. Their partners have tried to parent me too. Like sitting me down and talking about stuff they want me to change, etc. This came up because I stay out of the house a lot and they don't like it. I also got used to never saying where I was going because approaching my parents is difficult. I stopped doing chores years ago too. It was a source of conflict between my parents and I just kept my personal space clean and said the houses could burn to the ground for all I care because it was so uncomfortable and I still feel that way at both of their houses. I still don't feel like either one is home. And I really try not to be in spaces where others could be. But yeah the partners tried to parent me and insist on things and they wanted me to tell them how I was doing in school and stuff but I dodged the questions and really didn't listen to either. I was asked to pick up kids or stay with kids a few times too and I don't. My mom's fiance has like 3 kids or maybe it's 4 and dad's fiancee has two.
I guess they complained to the parent they're marrying and my parents started fighting over it again and they teamed up sorta to talk about it and how I'm not giving my new family members a chance and how having four parents is good. In the middle of trying to sell me on this shit they started fighting again. That's when I said to stop and they needed to let it go because their partners are not going to be my parents now or ever and I'm too old for this shit.
Now there's even more fighting and they're angry at me and so are their partners who know what I said and feel like I never even gave them a chance to be good parents to me.
AITA? | r/aitah | post | r/AITAH | 2025-02-15 | Z0FBQUFBQm4xVWM2VGFJMWFCQURlZFQ2bDQ3cXpyS1lSd2RiVDJDTzhaMFllNVpKNThoc0JKVndmZFBXX3pVaW9tR3duZ3Y0MG0zZVNUNnZ5UWpneUhtWFI0R1FiTktUZFg5czdJbUhMbTBSNHdHVm5CdVpKamc9 | Z0FBQUFBQm4xVWM2emJ2UmV0OWlObGlPSFpJbjN3VHdTSzUyVFZRRWhqV2RxNzRzVTVHSUljZ1VSa296dWtsTDRaVVRtTUtabkhYMjMzTnB2U21lQmUwNVFPZUp4endqRmktaTJsa2tNSVdGTGxfQlNBbWdhNEk5WjNFNTNIQkRfc1Y4VmlWTDlpc3l6UG9IS0pHUzN3Z0RlLWVzQVlZS00yNHYwNW9qTTR6azFzUVdxaURHQkFiZjZzTnIwRXh6aHJETWlIdjZqaXkz |
My boyfriend (30) and I (28F) were cuddled in bed, under a blanket. Not doing anything, just cuddled up. Randomly, I farted, literally out of no where and he IMMEDIATELY jumped out of bed and said, “okay I’m done” and started getting dressed, saying, “stuff like this irks me”.
I replied, “I understand, but that was completely unintentional but also very natural”. His response, angrily, “why would you fart in the bed, under the blanket?”.
I just sat there, shocked, with absolutely no words! At that moment, my heart shattered into every tiny piece imaginable.
What should I do?
EDIT: oh wow I did not expect this post to blow up!
Firstly, thank you all for commenting.
For context, the fart did not stink. It was a little ‘toot’. Please understand me when I say I am not worried about the fart itself, I am more so concerned at his reaction. This is someone I heavily considered spending forever with, but that all became questionable after that situation.
I am also extremely shocked at the number of comments of people who genuinely think women don’t fart/poop?
Also, I wish this was fake, trust me, I’m even embarrassed for myself! I didn’t think a ‘fart’ would cause issues in my relationship that I’ve invested literally every fiber of my being in. | r/aitah | post | r/AITAH | 2025-02-15 | Z0FBQUFBQm4xVWM2TGoyaHJjVUFLV0dneFVKeUNIMGoyaGNJRnZac3R1WmV2N0dqUUpkYmZPTEJiQ1pNRHc5N0N3OFd0eU1VTTE4eVM3RHhBSUVjT01BZGx5SUtoX3h5VVFNbUpwME1BaUllR0huNkQ3NlhxSGs9 | Z0FBQUFBQm4xVWM2LXhNVTA3UEVjMzJ3X1hPc2NyMTJmLTRDMlcyMHdHckUyWjdrTzhrU0J5TVJ6RV9lSy1lOG5nUE11Sk5mY29PS0FkZU9Rd0xDRzE5YmFmeUd2QUNlc3NBU3ROVkZsMG16OWpiSnNPd1FzckF2bmxiUVVTU0ppVElRaktBLUpWNXpCMXNtVjE2TGI4bmVaQUtTX0l5VVFBRXNSbVB2WFhLNTNNOFhQeVNKLS1RWGZWQnhEd3IzYTU1YjFfaFI0di1V |
We have been a relationship for just over a year now and this is our second valentine's day. He send me gifts but I'm shook by this. Am I overreacting? I haven't talked to him since. What should I tell him? I really love him but this is giving me second thoughts. | r/amioverreacting | post | r/AmIOverreacting | 2025-02-15 | Z0FBQUFBQm4xVWM2M0hNbUpDSFZGbGxPQzB2SWE1MmdBcHJ5WmUyV2NCcDdJMlE4c3ZCWmV4anVtVEpYNWZwczhmZ2hVTklHMXI5SndqMXdCYjRmckdxV1gwa2d6TFhJelhTQWtmRzFEWkg5OHdJTFBrN180T1k9 | Z0FBQUFBQm4xVWM2Uy1EeVBXN0ZrdF9BTlpNak5hLVVjWkJJQTQ0Q2piSjI1Ty13cUxQb0RGYzl4dVFvZmZlSURtTWxNWXRfZml3eXNUTUdFOWNDeVNfU0YyZV8xVE9MTkU3YTF6QlJfWl9LbndVMnVEdk9sWkdJVE9LWDNwRndGbHM5Ul9aYzR6Z0N3Zm1abmZ6dUNiaVRHUWkzMHpXZHFpRXd2LXhlX3hPZzJpYzFqTHZLSjNOaFY0WjVaRnU2SXhLTzQ3eE16OC14LVhneXo4bGV0M1RLQ3ZSNXNsWG9zZz09 |
I’ve been a strict Jain vegetarian since birth—it’s not just a diet for me, it’s a deeply held belief. Recently, I visited a relative’s home where they don’t follow the same dietary restrictions, but they know about mine.
As dinner was being served, they casually offered me some mutton curry. I politely declined and reminded them that I’m vegetarian and would stick to cottage cheese curry and flat bread. I thought that would be the end of it. But no—just moments later, they again insisted I take some non-veg, as if my earlier response didn’t even matter.
At that point, I firmly told them that I found it disrespectful and that it actually hurt my sentiments. The room got a little awkward, but honestly, I felt like I had to say something. My friends who were invited as well told me that I was rude while refusing the food for the second time. They also mentioned I should have not called the host disrespectful during the conversation.
However what triggered me was the fact that host smirked after offering me food for the first time.
Now, I can’t stop wondering—was I being too sensitive, or was my reaction justified? AITAH? | r/amitheasshole | post | r/AmItheAsshole | 2025-02-15 | Z0FBQUFBQm4xVWM2Vk1yZUtLR0E5Nnc3SE5RdTRJdFF6RGJSVWF1b0J5empyUmxpT0Q0MlVac1pkc2lZTFVoVGpCa193Qm1hWDUxSGQxVkVYZ0F4a1AxQnBjaXJfR2d3TVhwd3lRQmFqVngyb050bVRIUWNQNWM9 | Z0FBQUFBQm4xVWM2T2pZXzZlNEpSVUt0dktlaUJYdERQUWlhZ0FfbDdtdmZEX3F0ZWhaTEl4c3ljVTVsaHlNY1dtNWEtRE9VdmY5QVpXUEdLUXVkbFBTZTI5bmczek5TRTRPRjNDQW9KcVphV1JUNEZMYUtaeFlQdjN0eFFzaGNpZHQ4OTgwQVNVcTV2bE91bl8wOFVrWmpyb0puSHd0dWJJSVQ2RTRNYkZqTDdpMjdPR0hkZ3MtMzREcWhGY2RVQi1abnF4bkY0WlVITDJzX2Y2YWVUZDkzT0ZHeWkwVmZTdz09 |
In today's article I dive into the Launch of BCHPump, this amazing tool to increase engagement on BCH creating Memecoins, interact on-chain etc, and I also announce my Fundme campaign so, I hope you enjoy and let's together build BCH! | r/bitcoincash | post | r/Bitcoincash | 2025-02-15 | Z0FBQUFBQm4xVWM2d1hjU3JqUHNfR0hOLTA5Tk02S3llWW8zanAzdzRRWG5wYlFyMlVRUE9WRENJeWdNTGF4M0ZJSUlQUnZmUHRkQjA1aG9CWW5ISDVtTG9RSktsS3pSVUE9PQ== | Z0FBQUFBQm4xVWM2SnFydTdidk9wdG9oV1BrTTRRakRjRHpMZkVMMTJJNVNZVlk4NGxSNER4b3E3MkVkaWRHOURtR0MwZWhfcmZaSUl5YlNabFpER044WTlrN2lDUnhwWURYY3FfODFyT3NUY0tGOUFjODNTSVNfZHl1YmtHLXg0bVQ2bkktVmtlMGQ0VWs4Y3FPRWlESTdnM1lUdTllOVdBdkw4Zk1na19fOFhCNEJVUExrakY1Y0ZyRWotZXRMN1I5bWlnR2dXbkY1ZW1zaHdLQTczcElFY01heEFTRFp6Zz09 |
It arrived 2 days ago. I had my first scoop of it yesterday. And I wake up to this.
This is the first bag I've ever bought.
Is there any way to save it or is the whole bag done for?
Aside from that, I now have a jacked mouse runnin through the house. | r/mildlyinfuriating | post | r/mildlyinfuriating | 2025-02-15 | Z0FBQUFBQm4xVWM2NXFuV2lrb2xFeURFR1Y2d3cyMVBIcW9wTEFHZzJBazZkWEVBSHJDUG9NT3BaNVpaS2UySlprMHFZcFFVWE9ma2pBdWQwSEJyZkgwRko4ajVYOFdGc1E9PQ== | Z0FBQUFBQm4xVWM2cU9xWGhxaFZqMm9JRE9uLWJFTlJwWDRMb0lhMEVZR1Z2TUNUcGZvRTFxYmpZeVpJeTNTbkhncDRocVNBYTZ4QW00a1BZY0xDTjZMYXBLQUVoeWYxSmxxWEdZZmlmVjVVRWFRQWt5VlU3aGtGNXA0YUNrYmY1UmdVZVpiT1BnS0pmZ0hDdUJ2UU5MUFB0NWEzb1d0MkdpNTJLTm5XcEtRcjNKZ3lwUjNKVGVEV21SVXB3X1dBVjhWNy1rNHlsdHFzbFA2YzgtV0tnNEJ6bFNpb2VIWm9fdz09 |
We’ve been together for about 12 years and it finally happened I puked on my husband a during 69 session… please tell me it isn’t the biggest deal in the world and that I shouldn’t feel so bad/ashamed. Thankfully it was mostly liquid and I acted fast but I feel horrible 😭 has it happened to you? How did you react?
Edit to say thank you for the honest feedback, I never tried to think about from a man’s point view, hence the post, but wow, thank you.
Also my husband laughed it off, I personally was mortified and embarrassed, he’s a good man who deserves all the BJ’s just maybe minus the vomit next time… | r/askmenadvice | post | r/AskMenAdvice | 2025-02-15 | Z0FBQUFBQm4xVWM2RDRMUlhidTNJaHF3YUhTZEhkQ3hYcmo5cVd6YUx0aklGMFp5aGhDRURPdVFHWW5MdTNNY3UwcFdxSGtvYUlDUlpoWTRWazVRamwwUmJLOElvdDZuZ1JJNGRpSm15bFFaYThjblBLZVZyMHM9 | Z0FBQUFBQm4xVWM2S011M3cxSmt0Vm1UZ3doNXZPT3dQSjNxeVdCVnhub1pQOFBLckNiWXRFQ1UzSEZnLWpQRXREWF9vTU55bXlIQ2J1X2VDVGt3ZjFlRGhYYXBEVHdGaGY4c0pjVDlsVk1YcXNYNTlDOGRBcHVuXzBYS3I2QXdiN2ZaRjhBZDRnU01VNHJoZWxhOEV2dExQX2tYMnJPZmQybFRHNzVrWEN5M3J5TUNibGNEWnZWOWUxN3N2ZW0tQkVKSXhlVmNzQk1FeGItSmZpS0R0azVHLV94OTh3Yl9DUT09 |
I've never really wrote on reddit before but i just want to know if i would be the AH in this situation. i 22 female and my friend 20 female who we will call belle for this story. had been on the rocks with out friendship for awhile, neither of us bothered to see each other much since she stayed with me after being kicked out of her flat. a couple days ago we had a huge argument about the way i spoke to her. (this was on text chat and i have autism so that type of thing is confusing for me. she knew this.) i tried to explain and defend myself but she victimised herself (as always.) started to say i never bother with her and she's the only one who makes effort. i said i only check in once in awhile since her boyfriend doesn't like her at my house anymore due to him liking being around my brother. (she had a thing with my brother out of spite when we had an argument.) and she got really upset and angry, calling me names, saying i was useless then blocked me before i could've replied.
fast forwarding to today. she texted me again. "i left my coat at yours and id like it back.", by this point i gutted my entire bedroom and me and belle have a very different size in weight. i thought it was one of my old coats considering it was in the back of my wardrobe (it had been there for over half a year.) so i chucked it in a charity bag with a lot of other clothes taking them to a women's aid. i told her that her coat was gone and that i had donated it. she got MAD and started to demand i pay her back for the coat. i refused as in my head, leaving something you apparently care about so much at someone else's house for almost 7 months despite being told to pick it up. you no longer want that coat, i had forgotten it was hers and i told her that it was her own fault for not listening and picking up her bits. so AITAH in this situation?
EDIT: UPDATE! - after everything that had happened over the coat i had taken yours and my family's advice. she was blocked. it had been completely silent. until today when she decided to show up at my door. i didn't open my door to her as with belle can be quite violent when she gets frustrated to a certain point. and i didn't really wanna open the door as I'm not a fan of confrontation. so i spoke to her out of the window. it way have seen demeaning or belittling from her perspective but i wasn't about to be knuckled sandwiched for a coat. that's gone. nothing i can do now i've donated it. but she came to my door demanding i pay for the coat or she was going to call the police for theft if i didn't give it back or pay her for it. i told her i wasn't going to pay her anything and that if she wanted the money so badly i wanted £1330 in storage fees (where i live its £190 a month.) and a full months rent for when she stayed with me when she got kicked out and that i wanted the money back that she borrowed so she could buy new clothes/underwear as they didn't leave her with much after she had to pay (she didn't have much of anything before that anyway.). roughly all together it would have been over £2000. she then started to bang on my door repeatedly name call me. she said that i was a pussy for not coming to the door. i said that's because shes acting like a child and closed my window. she continued to scream and shout at me banging on my door. i stayed inside and she eventually wore herself out. i was crapping it the whole time thinking she'd break my window. --but WIBTA if i call the police if she comes back? AITA for how i spoke to her? | r/amitheasshole | post | r/AmItheAsshole | 2025-02-15 | Z0FBQUFBQm4xVWM2T3FHR0JvWXg3a0xEZFNCZFVsaHhKM29aS1AyT3FFNnRFVHZ0ZFk5YVRzMEZTalRJTTV0TGZlVGgtV2REUnA2RWhzUWZTQ01sR2JyeGRXOEtxd3RBRVhNNXZobV9tNFV3ZU16TXluRmZidGc9 | Z0FBQUFBQm4xVWM2NDlTQTBoQld1TWxzZnV4bWY3ZkE5cnhyWlRpTWhWOFNqdUswUWU1ZEd6R2stVk1aMkNubUlBbUpHWkRWdjVsYWxKUlJ5blFiT3pVWE82ZXBrc0ppdkxzYkV1bTJxTm9KS2U3V0ZvR1VxNnVfTnl6d2RyRVFFcUFaTGlIelAwX3BCYUg3M2IycnZrRmpsQTVmVXpOdWU3TXFheTVaR0dFVHFDSUs5dG5OUjd6eDBDZVFTQTdrcVVSc0Y3ajduN2Q1dDRsOWZUVTVOT3pfei1QR0VqSjMxZz09 |
So, my sister (32F) just had a baby and needed a place to stay for a few months. I agreed because, you know, family. The only issue? I have a golden retriever, Max, who is my baby. He’s well-groomed, trained, and literally the sweetest dog ever.
From the second she moved in, she started making snide comments about how "dirty" he is, saying things like:
* "Dogs don’t belong inside, especially near a newborn!"
* "He’s covered in germs; I don’t want my baby getting sick."
* "Can you lock him in a room when we’re in the living room?"
I tried to compromise by keeping him out of the nursery, but that wasn’t enough. She wanted me to keep him out of the house entirely. She even went as far as spraying **disinfectant** on my couch where he sleeps!
The final straw? I caught her **kicking Max away with her foot** when he came near the baby’s playmat. I lost it. I told her if she has such a problem with my "dirty" dog, she can find another place to stay. She freaked out, called me heartless for prioritizing a dog over her and the baby, and left crying. Now, my parents are furious, saying I should have been more accommodating.
So, AITA for kicking my sister out over this? | r/aitah | post | r/AITAH | 2025-02-15 | Z0FBQUFBQm4xVWM2R0w2ZFVhME5rQ0tyaHFNTFB5ejlOLUJDX3lSOUxRczd3SG15WGVTMlIwZkpFcFl4bGQ1ZHdQRDExN19taEtJSmVHZHBZbmUxUE1ONTdHT1ZHZlFocnc9PQ== | Z0FBQUFBQm4xVWM2d09LaFh1M3c3QjRrYnh2R2ZxN0RocVNCUjc4Zk16M3R0R3lja0w2anVOWUtaU0ZSRGtRSVlFcUtzbHYyMWpiN1lka3pjQkZ4WWx2LUprMy1ERjlmYTRxM2tubUNtUEJKTG5wbnVBR0VqZTE2UmpXSXY4V0dQS2lyd2RhTE0wVTV6ek9FRkQ2WjRyYUxWaURhQ0hoTm00VDZfcWJqakpQUDVJNmQ4amlLSk5OaEZOOThoNEhMOFRHYWFENDFNRS13 |
I'm still LIVID!! | r/mildlyinfuriating | post | r/mildlyinfuriating | 2025-02-15 | Z0FBQUFBQm4xVWM2VjM4SXEtMXJvb2kza3g4ZDNUQWdOUEd4SFhBSkI5VGU0Q01ZYy00S0xGYU1OVjBXaVBMNE1FQnRUekFseVNXOC1ZeHJGdGVYWUdwSEctY29BcmdnblpyX29JdmZvWkFmNW9Tb1V2N0pqYm89 | Z0FBQUFBQm4xVWM2TW9hS1NlNjZHRUtHc1JMY001UGp3UWYwajUzbmpRbmZhYTBKYnB0djEwWDU0bWNpb3lqUmVQS01CRDk5S1FhZGNFWWw1S2ZreEJkWTViMV9DN21QTl9JYkVJQUxvWXFxODc1cGlZY29FOWJsVnlYWU1VeUpGSDJCbTRtS1FpYVpVUUF4RWZGYXgwV0ZzaXZRRGhNNVI1VjZOODFBMGplSm5ueW9yYmJNYlE3OFhURllPREZ1ZFFXQ0Z4X0ZUUmxDcmpHWWF2U2Z5SEIzZ0lQcTJ1SmNfQT09 |
My fucking god. Enough already. It's obvious that not all men like the same things and that different men have different tastes and preferences (like everyone, it's obvious) so all those questions are just stupid, because the men that agree will answer and the ones that don't won't, I'm the end it's just a "flatter me" post. This has nothing to do with advice about men. | r/askmenadvice | post | r/AskMenAdvice | 2025-02-15 | Z0FBQUFBQm4xVWM2MngwVkxPdmltNWZ3LU1XekZnX01FOHc5LTUtMlJwNU9FSVVNZjdha1ZhVXRXSGJzdUNwZlZpZE5rWEd1ckhFSEV0cmpsNEdleHd2ZmEycVZkU2gtOXFnWE9KQ0xQeC1wZktJR3FvWDBkQk09 | Z0FBQUFBQm4xVWM2ZXdIMkFwNExXaW40VnJzMm5XOHRwU0FJTU84YXJ5TW43MlV2b0g0bTBUbnVKZ0NpRHNPMWlQX29hUTFzeW1rYmZ4NmhDeXhqLVZCb1J3Yk1rMzVKVEdKSTRsSm9NRG5iNEpsZmVQVDJHZGlYNzd4VkJNNEVXY1k4SEM3aUJuQUtrVUtXRVEzS2M3UmVKSmNlX1BSSkVnb2JVY2NDaG1HcWtFRmlyd3BQT2JSLU5FZ09jMWRBQ2JoUHJDRWFlTDRTOFF0b3lOUmgweHp2bjN0MWllNWdBZz09 |
So I'm at work on a Thursday, and the CTO comes in and tells me that a software feature I'd been working on needed to be finished before tomorrow morning. OK fine, I don't have an issue working late, but it was a strange request given that they'd postponed the project for several months to have me working on other stuff. Still, I stayed up until about 2 AM and finished the project.
The next morning when I arrived at work, the CEO and CTO called me into a meeting to let me know that I was being laid off, and that it would be my last day. No two weeks, no severance pay. "We'll need to you to finish out today, working with \[name redacted\] to log all your logins and passwords and show him the rest of your code.
To say I was angry was an understatement. "So you *knew* you were going to can me today, that's why you made me work late yesterday? Does that seem wrong to you?"
They just stared at me, no apology, no acknowledgment. So I played my final card.
"Alright. If you're gonna play it this way, then it's both personal *and* business. I need a job, so it's to my benefit to quit right now and walk away, and start looking for work, rather than helping a company that clearly doesn't care about me. If you want me to sit here and generate a list of passwords and train my replacement, then I want a two-week severance package, or I walk right now."
They declined, and I walked out the door. I called one of their vendors and let them know I was open to work, and had a new job within a week. They were still emailing me to beg for "help" weeks later. Was I in the wrong? | r/aitah | post | r/AITAH | 2025-02-15 | Z0FBQUFBQm4xVWM2MDBSZEJEM25KbzBhdzRfM3UwdXZ2Ym9rdzNPZkFEc0toQUNIclQwSjFIN0FUUWdQQXM1NXJvckNhZDMyV0tCRjhpamJVOTVBMHNzOG43NkJlZXZ5NC1FMXpxX0VCT3FUb1hvMmhmQUZETFU9 | Z0FBQUFBQm4xVWM2YUN6eUExVkwyUmlaYTUwaWxoWW43NlBJUlYxZFdKZlB3elNYSURaRFNjOU96UWdvQ0lNQWdrX0x1TzRHdE1CNVNxNlpySXRoZ0RNbkZ2cVY4MjZuZ0xQMWljckZfM3oxbHV3T1duMGV0S0lqSmtwVXdyS2ViNEY5bkVVX0ZVTTNYdjFzOWNnVDNqc0JuMDMyYlhEUllvWC1heElPOV9UNjhFNlRnQUR0ZGxCX1o5Y056cVkwQWxQSWVUQUx4M2trM1JDcW1CbVMwNUswOGI5bFZOeml1Zz09 |
Recently I had some friends over for a party at my house, and notably didn’t invite my friend “John.” I didn’t lie to him, or say that we weren’t doing it, or rub it in his face, I just had some friends over and he didn’t get the invite.
I felt bad, but at the same time he always stays too late, makes things really uncomfortable for me, and is just a difficult guest to have in my house. I hosted a super bowl party, and he stayed roughly two hours later than everyone else, even though I straight up told him, “parties over dude.” He vapes, he says the n-word (which i don’t think anyone should say, but especially not him) and makes jokes abt some of my mental health issues.
I love him to death and he’s one of my oldest friends, but it’s at the point where if he’s coming to my house I have anxiety the whole day leading up to it.
Anyways, he called me during my party and asked me what I was up to, and if I wanted to catch a movie. I said I actually had a couple people over so I couldn’t tonight, and he asked who, I told him and he asked why he wasn’t invited/if he could come, and i said something along the lines of “ehh not tonight man.” He kind of lost his shit at me and sent a bunch of angry texts the next day, which is imo a huge overreaction bc i tried to be as nice as i could about things.
so ig aitah if i just stop inviting him?
EDIT: for everyone calling me a racist in the comments;
some things you should know, that i should’ve included in the original post. he recently had a large personality change seemingly out of nowhere , which included some things like new music taste, excessive working out, and as of LAST WEEK saying the n word.
i am not a racist, i do not condone racism, or his actions. he HAS NOT been invited back to my house since the first time he said that word, and will not unless he changes some things. i am not “continuing to associate with a racist,” as this is a new behavior, and my other friends feel the same way as i do.
i should also add that i’m a senior in highschool, and still figuring myself out. | r/amitheasshole | post | r/AmItheAsshole | 2025-02-15 | Z0FBQUFBQm4xVWM2SjlINFFlY3FiLW1UVTJlZWVkaVRNU2MxZ203cXdOY0g0OXB6VXlOVk1abm9JQ1JiVDhfUHNHRVFvOHBRMjBsYi1ZaXlPVmJjblQ3NDZVTnVORmh4N1E9PQ== | Z0FBQUFBQm4xVWM2VzdWWVpJdDBQM2lvOHBwY0xwT09kZWZ5WDRJS0o3RVNiNU50S2M3ZmpKWjVGbTM5cFYxQ2FNNy1WVHl4cGhpTi1IaWlHWERLZzVMa2ZydHpYbWViT1F1clpNQ1dpalVjaGl3WmNiUFJTT05ndlRacWNCRHlfVjJaZjBqSGZCQlRqcUxXdFI4WW9BM1NpLVpIMkNXeWdKcDVwa3Q4UzBKT0t5Z2dmMU1yemV4QkR0VjJQOFM1YnoxS05INk5NVXJrbk1zT3U2a21kYXlReHEzZ1cyU1k3UT09 |
So I’ve been drawing and posting anime girls for a while now and my mom got mad about it. At least I still have previous photos. No drawing today tho | r/mildlyinfuriating | post | r/mildlyinfuriating | 2025-02-15 | Z0FBQUFBQm4xVWM2cXlCR2ZlQWZuSUs4TVhpY05EaUdmT0RELUtlM1ZVS1lOX0YxSjZBVWI3Z1hONjZPal9xUWpKLWdTNVR5S1RyNGJHM056cFh3WjlwRHBXMHBaT3NMWFE9PQ== | Z0FBQUFBQm4xVWM2NHFtVW5rbDMxckJ6NVhhdm1xc1V2TjVHZWpIeWYtWVl3ZkQyejgtaWlab1NrXzFDRnZMY3cwSkFES1B4eUgyRDRKSEg4ZW0zakx2WUxkdlRabDR4UENENjE3Nm1lRDRlYWh0aTkxMVp2TmFNX19QaTQza19mQnExenRoYjgwWThscUZKVGp3ME5vSjBndnV2c3hlODJ3UTVZZTRuSTFQeFVlb3pkT0RONEJvQUFidFAxUG8zUjh3R096c2VRc3E1 |
My 3 and 5 year old are extremely picky eaters and always make excuses or don't finish meals.
This REALLY irks my husband and he is very demanding, forceful and authoritative with them (and me, when I don't agree).
My 3yo was fussy as usual for lunch today and saying no, I don't want to eat. I set a timer for 30 minutes and said I'm putting the plate away when the timer goes off. So she'll be hungry at nap time if she doesn't eat. My husband kept trying to force her to eat ("Eat! Take a bite! Eat your food!") to which she rebelled more, started crying and barely took a couple bites.
My 5yo cleared most of his plate for lunch but left about a quarter because he said he was full. My husband demanded he finish the food. He refused politely saying, "No, thank you. I'm full." My husband kept getting more mad and saying he HAD to finish it, we don't waste food, he hadn't eaten much today, etc.
My son came to me and asked if it was okay that he was done. My husband followed him and said, "don't ask mommy! I already told you to finish it. Go sit down and finish your food!" Again, my son said, "no, thank you. I'm full. I don't want to eat more."
So then I told my husband to not force him, if he was full. He can finish the rest later. I also reminded him that he needs to stop being so demanding and forcing the kids to eat or finish their food. It's causing MORE issues and making mealtime MORE stressful. It's become a huge headache and having a negative effect on their health, especially because it's starting to cause a feeding disorder. And I have to deal with it majority of the time as the primary parent.
We have had this conversation MANY MANY MANY times about how to handle feeding issues and what the protocol is, per feeding therapists and past OTs, and all the child therapists & psychology experts I follow online. For example, setting timers, giving choices, allowing them to try one bite and have a backup meal (usually greek yogurt with fruit or pb&j) if they don't like the main meal. I also keep low-sugar treats they love on hand like organic fruit popsicles or Jell-o as an incentive. I understand their need to have some control over what they eat and try to make it positive and stress-free for all of us. I talk to him about what feeding therapists suggest, send him articles to read, share videos etc, to improve his approach. He always says okay, he understands.... but then he continues to bully.
He got really mad at me today when I told him our son ate plenty and to stop forcing him if he was full. And after reminding him of our *multiple* conversations regarding feeding techniques, I then told our son we don't waste food so he will need to finish it later during dinner.
My husband started raising his voice at me and saying I was going "behind his back (all 3 of us were literally standing together) by letting him do whatever he wants! and "wasting food!" Again, I said we've talked about this so many times and I'm literally talking TO YOU about this right now, how is it behind your back!?
He kept getting aggressive with me and gaslighting so then it escalated and we got into a fight. I cursed a couple times during our conversation, not AT him but in the context of what I was expressing, and he then said I was cursing at him and I better stop. I said I'm not cursing at YOU, I'm just cursing in context because I'm frustrated with this always being an issue and having this conversation over & over again. I told him to read up on feeding issues & educate himself because I was f*kng tired of having to deal with this constantly and the resulting defiance and mealtime battles with the kids.
He kept accusing me of cursing at him and saying I wasn't allowed to curse at all, and that it didn't matter if I was cursing at him or in the conversation. He got more & more aggressive so then I *did* curse at him, out of sheer frustration and overwhelming stress, so then he threatened to SLAP me to "bring me back to my senses!"
I said, "Are you really threatening to be physically abusive because I cursed?" And he then started laughing and mockingly saying, "Stop it! That's not physical abuse!" and reiterated he would do it "only to bring you to your senses."
Needless to say, I was not calm at all by that point. I dared him to go ahead and do it, and then I'd call the cops on him and press charges! It was a full blown fight by then and he just kept arguing, threatening me, occasionally laughing & mocking me, then CURSED AT ME while claiming I couldn't curse at all, and just escalating the fight. I definitely blew up at the end called him a few choice words and cursed back AT him before walking away.
I feel like complete shit right now, I have a headache, I've been crying for an hour, and I feel like I'm stuck in a very toxic relationship.
If you read all this, thank you. I'm not sure what I'm even asking for here. I just needed to vent, I guess. And I feel like my reaction to him threatening to "slap me back to my senses" was warranted and that he was being abusive. Am I wrong?? | r/aitah | post | r/AITAH | 2025-02-15 | Z0FBQUFBQm4xVWM2emJDY1hERFdkRHRNR0MtNmM5ZnZrdjlBVXhlc2UxWTRoTDdJcTJCZWlSX3NNeHdUSUFiNTBMTmkyR21SNnJMSFpCNHpqMnROOEU4X25iUl8zSl9UZnNWMnhBV25TYVdrYkx6T19kay14aDQ9 | Z0FBQUFBQm4xVWM2YVNRTlpyMWUtNWxfYWN1QjVYNWVDamFJZExCUDhpVnkwdUl6UkRTMHRfVlhKQ2Z1RGl4elh0TEo3MUhhV1VPM2tBWXJlU3BUNmlPYmUwV2h0ZE1ZWnR0bGVSS0lJSjc4MmZJTTJXT01PaHhLelhmQ0NqcDVnX3FRM1NESnBuZ21MY1BHN1BNdDJTZFdUT0VZandncGUwYzVLTFhLZjlVbTNOa2JxNnkxTEpWMWVDSHRFaWVyWW92ODUwYlJwRjhSUHctV1NKV29UdU1IT2ltSVZBeU82UT09 |
Sorry the second picture is blurry!
Found these texts between my boyfriend and a coworker of his. For context, he works nights at a hospital.
I confronted him and he said he was just “talking shit” and “hyping his friend up”. I think this is beyond disrespectful and could’ve hyped his friend up in a more appropriate way. Also, I am white/european, not Latina, so there’s that. I’m not sure what to do or how to feel. I am already insecure and this just makes me feel worse.
I have been upset all day and he just blames me for going through his phone. I know that going through his messages was wrong, but I knew something was up with him and this is what I found. This is at best extremely disrespectful and at worse he’s scoping out prospects to cheat on me with? | r/amioverreacting | post | r/AmIOverreacting | 2025-02-16 | Z0FBQUFBQm4xVWM2eW1YUTBkSXBvQ1NQUFhRMnRzY01uQXdVeU4tdjNfOGJoZ2xEX2E5dURMOVNqNWtNQjNxVklnUGpRNXA3SWppZHhFc2RmNGk1eEtjOHFWOTJpUy1YOHc9PQ== | Z0FBQUFBQm4xVWM2VWtrbmkyQUVmWVEtaXpLdUZYNXozWU1EaE1waHh4WVg4bWhmOWhnWW55NjRBMGdUenIyRlg0cnpBMGlYVFY4RWF0SkRfSE44ZWpseDlEYjd1c1BUcmVqVDlFdzlvLUpfVmVhMi1RRkhBcS1nWjE3emw4dFFRV0YzN0JGTGtCSExqQjd3NW9TNEVtNm50bEdzR2hXc2o2Y0gwcUk1cUNBY042Y3dLY1hrblcxeDEzZUNlcjFFZkRKWjJoOFQ3bjBkX1U0bjZOeWdNR3puSzZjUG1xQml2dz09 |
ok so idk if im losing it or what but i (32f) been married to my husband (36m) for 4 yrs and idk who the fuck i married anymore. so hes always had this weird fetish he told me about where he wanted to pee on my face during segggs and i was like no. just NO. never been into that shit. he asked a few times, i always shut it down, he never pushed it so i thought that was the end of it. i was wrong.
few months ago i started noticing my food tasting weird. not like bad like rotten but just off. like my overnight oats, my yogurt bowls, sometimes my brewed coffee. i thought maybe the fridge was fucking up but everything else was fine. i threw out so much shit thinking it was spoiled but then it kept happening. but heres the thing i never got sick. no stomach aches, no nothing. so i started thinking maybe he was like poisoning me slowly or idk, trying to drug me or something. but it wasnt even making me sick so it made no sense. i was just stressed af. Also like why would he drug me. hes always loving so it wasn't making sense.
told my friend abt it and she was like u need to put a camera on ur fridge. just in case. Because its just him and i living alone. Only other person coming over is our moms sometines. so i did put the camera cus i was losing my brain. got a tiny one from amazon, set it up, waited.
this man. MY HUSBAND. PEEING IN MY OVERNIGHT OATS. and my brewed coffee. took the lid off. PEED. put the lid back. SHOOK IT. put it back in the fridge like nothing happened. i thought i was gonna throw up right there.
i LOST it. i went full psycho. i broke his ps5, his tv, threw his clothes outside in the snow, messed up his shoes, EVERYTHING. he came home and i just screamed at him. he started crying begging saying it was his fetish and he thought it was a way to do it without me knowing. like wtf??????? like does he think that makes it BETTER???? he said he will go to therapy, we can put cameras all over the house, he will never do it again. was saying we took vows and we have to work thru this. like???????
Saw these people on tiktok advice asking on reddit so here i am needing that outside perspective. im at my friends place rn i havent told anyone else idk wtf to do. hes blowing up my phone saying im ruining our marriage over this “mistake” but like this aint a mistake this is like. fucking vile. and i cant look at him the same. am i the asshole for wanting to divorce or should i try to forgive him. bc i really just want to vomit forever.
| r/aitah | post | r/AITAH | 2025-02-16 | Z0FBQUFBQm4xVWM2MDdOWkpDWkRQTlMwMEVGbml3UEdIYXl3U3BzOVBKTjZXQ0FpU0diNDZaVHN1aUVkWUwzZmhmSWlCaDZFRkJtbmxVbXAtOWUtVG82SlV5OVpfOFN3Qnc9PQ== | Z0FBQUFBQm4xVWM2a0dIMGtONS1iRVRUYWNvSi0wUnRLcmF5aVlra2dwTXFqaE8wOXNNWk5SUVJGMmtGeEw5dG1VdzQ2RFBLQ0V5d1lMQ2FlQUdLNTZQWV9OeHJZeFlnQnV2YzM5VmtncS1CYklIUXZiOG5Sdy10UVhENjUxTnQwNzFXaGdSQzc2aF9jUnZsRzFXdVlWQWNqLU5fc3RYYzlSYzBBMHBwMGdfQVp0dlhjV1kxQmdSeTNLVTl5TzFwOUFiazlqNDR5M2Js |
My wife and I are in our 60's. My ex (call her M) has terminal cancer. I've two kids in their 30's, from first marriage, and my daughter is particularly close to her mum. The marriage ended when kids were 5 and 9 with me only seeing them every second weekend.
I have a good relationship with both kids but distantly cordial with M. M didn't tell me about the cancer and I don't know if she yet knows I found out.
My wife and I are planning a 6 week holiday in Europe. I raised the issue of "what if M dies whilst we're away?" My wife was horrified at the idea I'd rush home to support the family and the extra cost of doing so.
AITA for considering supporting my kids more important than continuing a holiday?
\## Update - thanks for all the feedback!
I'm (mildly) ADHD and a bit on the spectrum and so my wife often talks about my lack of EQ which is why I posted this question as a cross-check.
I was utterly floored with her initial reaction and again when I tried to bring it up a few days later.
We've booked the travel but with fares that can be fairly easily changed to come back earlier. As I do much of the planning, will ensure most of the accomodation is cancellable. My wife lives for her holidays, it's about the only thing in her life that's important to her (that's a privileged position and may be hard to relate to). Life is an endless balancing act. Maybe I'm playing chicken by dodging the issue for now - hopefully it's a fight we don't have to have.
I still don't know if my ex knows that I know. According to my daughter, she's "OK but had a couple of weeks in hospital recently".
I'm trying to have conversations with the kids about this. I think they are both somewhat in stoic denial, having been through this about 12-15 years ago with beloved grandparents who both died from cancer. | r/amitheasshole | post | r/AmItheAsshole | 2025-02-16 | Z0FBQUFBQm4xVWM2V1VLbmItUkhSdk5VSzNRWk1pelk3R0NCY0VxMjhxTzQ5TE03RlJMSE1FUi1FS0RaWUgycDhqalJGT0dkQWllaHRpTGs2NWRhYVhjQm5WZWVlQV85QUlRU3hHaGsxb0Y4TGtNU0VBWWs5NFk9 | Z0FBQUFBQm4xVWM2ZzhrbUdZRHRaeDlGY19NSWxMNWFJTlpyVFdQdWpScEhwM0ZmNDVKdEQ1YVg5QU9EWEk0amVXWDZyaHZxYllQOXQ4T29yRWl2bEdzMkFNZkZSempIT3FEd1B0cy1kSVFFVXNWVEJNSzNKUFREbE5UVzVmSjZrUWxmdWFac3ZJRDYtZkt3NUJpcDhNQlU5OXp0OHh5TnpMWnFsTDhWWThYcnR2STBVVGxZQ2VhRHNOZDdtN2dVZ3FWdTVTUV9kb2Z6U1hlUDRQWWpIaTdMVWdnTFdQVG43Zz09 |
i bought a peach hand soap at TjMaxx or Marshall’s (some discount store) for like $4 that smelled EXACTLY like peach rings (my fav candy) came home one day to find out my mom poured some random soap into it that ruined the smell of it and now the cheapest i can find is 2 for like $25 not including shipping 🥲 feels perfect for this group because im upset but i can only be so upset about hand soap 😂 | r/mildlyinfuriating | post | r/mildlyinfuriating | 2025-02-16 | Z0FBQUFBQm4xVWM2TGs0TTRGUzdRbzlNR1ptWUNoQkVJR1RaWWtxd1RVOXFlS1Y2eDFJNEVFN0pnUXh4OWZfeFhOMWFONGU0VERzaGVxa3ppdFQzUmZMWHFVX2xEcUJEZjNfSjk5VmVCeUxZb3N0Q2hDRUlPQ0E9 | Z0FBQUFBQm4xVWM2dlpQMEpGZmhmWFVLXzV3TmQ5QUpxZUI1cDQ0cE10Vm1uSXlBVjhyVWdWWl9WZzA2LXRhaC1BbE4tTG1tclVYbXQ4Nk5aRmdXZXNsM3FuNzI1LVpfZmZ2TTAxSjQzVGpJUXV1d241ZWtVV3hIQXdkU01FWV9WdVlHNFZoZWJaUlJCOHhZakxxRFNlNkxsNTZWUHpTTGRBeE5Gc0ZQMFZzWF9vclFMQnRhWVpPMnVjUXdpVnpON2tQQm1PS3BSMUpW |
First post
https://www.reddit.com/r/AmIOverreacting/s/cqcj1LuQQj
Second post
https://www.reddit.com/r/AmIOverreacting/s/LbfJ8VNtfV
I haven’t responded to him. I just feel so betrayed by this. It’s literally another thrust in the gut. His inauthenticity is appalling. I’m just mentally exhausted from this whole ordeal. I’m
Sorry it wasn’t the result you all were hoping for. I’ve accepted my reality.
There’s really nothing else to say or do here, I have limited time so I’m going to just appreciate it however I can. Traveling and seeing the world was the dream, but I can pretend. | r/amioverreacting | post | r/AmIOverreacting | 2025-02-16 | Z0FBQUFBQm4xVWM2MW9NZ25JelJOR2Q2OE8xUzg0YTNMcGkyNERQM0xjYzl3OEdmQkVUS3lQb3JkaWlTWDE1TzJKTWFQU1p4X0tfUVRGUTh5dU1nTDc5X2cwSzNGZndYV2c9PQ== | Z0FBQUFBQm4xVWM2Rmo5SVYtcUtKVy1MZGJBZXFQeXljVHMyOHl6MFNZdXRabmlGTUVDVXAyNUNfOHZzdzhMRFVwdWxkdVJkZzhLeEV5aVYzZExEcUxtU0ZlWldVZGV1Vm1oclhucEE5dVlyTW1DWk0ycHJ4SVE0ZzhRWS1sT1ZTdFVyanVxYnFvQmVlSjQtOVoyYlp0WFVxcGE2OU5xVTRPZmN2RG5abmwtcnRnMTdydlZ0RS0yckZTOEpGdjJWdkZqRmRYdC1PV0I1MF9GZUVseE1OMTV5N05teWRZbHM2QT09 |
So I (22M) recently took a flight home after visiting some friends. I booked my seat months in advance—a nice window seat, because I like to put my music on and just vibe, I mean who doesn't?
I get on the plane, and there’s already a guy (probably mid-30s) sitting in my seat. I politely tell him that he’s in the wrong spot. He looks up and just goes, “Oh yeah, I was hoping you’d switch with me. I have a middle seat like five rows back.”
I tell him, “Yeah, no thanks, I picked this seat for a reason.”
He sighs super dramatically and goes, “Come on, man, have a heart.” I just shake my head and say, “Sorry, but I’m sitting in the seat I paid for.”
At this point, he starts to tell me every bad thing that has happened in his LIFE because clearly he wasn't that sad of a person but wanted to seem like one. And then he starts crying... Like, loud, over-the-top sobs. The lady next to him looks super uncomfortable. The flight attendant comes over to ask what’s going on, and before I can even say anything, he goes, “Is there no humanity left on you ASSHOLE?“
I explain the situation, and the flight attendant just stares at him and goes, “…Sir, please move.”
Dude gets up all huffy and says, “Wow. Some people are just heartless.” Then he dramatically walks off to his middle seat. I thought that was the end of it, but when we landed, he stood up, looked me dead in the eyes, and said:
"I hope you have a terrible life."
So, AITA for not switching seats??? | r/aitah | post | r/AITAH | 2025-02-16 | Z0FBQUFBQm4xVWM2T245bVhra01PZUQ5VXZfOXF6aDljbDcwNzJlR2o0WUl5bWNiQ2xTdnZqOUtHR1l3cG5seVk0TEdId3E3TU9SY1NtaUVTYWVJemZpUUxxdTNkbjFTaHc9PQ== | Z0FBQUFBQm4xVWM2M19TQWJCRGluelo2MEkxTkdZdEhJUzFXb3pkMnJUYnZHbW5ZOHV1bUN3X0NlUHpkUUhWZjViMDNaVGZyQWNOV2RmaW5la21iZDV4RnRLSFJtS2JJZGpzVERITS01Vk82RTJXSHBrSzVJS0VERTNuTjVYS21CN1FRdEhYVG9oM1ZEWXYwa0ljeXJZdUI4cWpPbTQ0TDk1aVBNS2NjM1VPclRVVjB6ZU1ORGpYUE5TZmhBWDNkSXhsWEJ0SFgxVUs2NVhseHJfbTRTWHlkWkRFSjFGRUR2Zz09 |
My (30F) friend Sarah (also 30F) is a single mom with two kids. She’s been going through a rough time after separating from her husband last year, and I’ve done my best to be there for her. My other close friend, Lina, and I have always accommodated Sarah’s situation—visiting her at her house so she wouldn’t have to go out, planning outings around her kids’ needs, and being as flexible as possible.
Recently, Lina and I decided to go on a vacation together, just the two of us. When Sarah found out, she got very upset and told us that she had expected us to include her and her kids, since we are her closest friends and she doesn’t have many people to travel with. She also said that because she’s in a difficult situation, she thought this was something we would do for her as her friends.
Lina and I explained that while we love her and her kids, a vacation with them would be completely different from what we have in mind. We also offered to take a shorter trip with her and the kids (like a long weekend), but she dismissed that because she wanted a full week at the beach. She then said that she would have let me join if the roles were reversed, but to me, that’s not a fair comparison—if I were tagging along on a vacation with her family, I’d be adapting to their plans, whereas if she came with us, we would have to plan the whole trip around her kids.
Sarah has now said that she doesn’t know if our friendship will survive this, which I think is an extreme reaction. I understand that she’s disappointed, but I don’t think it’s fair to guilt-trip us into changing our plans. She’s also acting like we’re abandoning her when, in reality, we’ve been incredibly accommodating for years.
I feel bad that she’s struggling, but at the end of the day, I don’t think it’s my resp to ensure she has someone to travel with.
So, AITA for not wanting to go on vacation with her and her kids?
**Update**: She has just sent me a 12 minute voice note ending our 10 year friendship because she thinks we should’ve celebrated NYE at her home with her kids and that we should take this trip with her to cheer her up, and that the friendship wasn’t “on equal terms” 🤷🏻♀️
This is the message I’m thinking about sending (if it sounds a little weird it’s because it’s translated into English from my first language):
*I’m sorry that you see it like that. I do understand that you’re going through an incredibly tough time, and it was absolutely never our intention to leave you behind. But to me, friendship doesn’t mean that everything always has to revolve around one person, even if they’re going through a hard time.*
*We tried to find compromises, both on New Year’s Eve and with the vacation, but it feels like it has to be exactly the way you imagine it or not at all. And honestly, that doesn’t feel like an equal friendship to me either.*
*Of course I can understand that you feel excluded, but that was never my intention either. There are simply moments when, as someone without kids, I want to spend time without children. You always emphasize that your kids are a part of you, which is of course your decision, but it also means that sometimes you can’t have both. If you never really ask yourself whether there are alternatives because you assume from the start that you always have to or want to have your kids with you, then that’s your choice, but you can’t expect others to always go along with that decision.*
*I think it’s really sad that you want to end our ten-year friendship over this, because you mean a lot to me. But if this is what you’ve decided for yourself, then I have no choice but to respect that. I still hope that at some point we can find our way back to each other, and I wish you and the kids all the best.* | r/amitheasshole | post | r/AmItheAsshole | 2025-02-16 | Z0FBQUFBQm4xVWM2eGFTRTc0REJWQVJFN0lMckN1RFIxLXA5WlFDdkVmNHRwRUV3RmZDUXFCNlFnTDRWSGFvcldyTFNOMi1adTdBSkQyZmZtTEx1MDh0b1B3NXF2RkpqYVE9PQ== | Z0FBQUFBQm4xVWM2MlVIM0k4YmFVeDZpazcyYmJ1bndnOFpPN2l2MmlXN3dPdmRuNllqZ1dCZnBmU1YwMlFpaEtYamY2Zk5wdGRHR0xJaU1OOERyV2QwVWxDQWpGYmpHZkJ1VlpFajhnZWY4dlQtdC1VQkVMQlRZOHRteVlmbkhXYUFxb2d1X2YzamxYSXhnZlhvQXBLamVYSjNmZl9YZHFMUUwyam4wOUNraFowY0RIeWtVRXVuQVdTeGdfdFBVaHh5RzB3Tk91MDVVd0dPOWRUaEpFdnNpVlF4dE9Rd1JZZz09 |
a few weeks back i went to my follow up appointment with my GI doctor at his clinic. i was with my baby (10 month old) and was placed in a room by this guy who looked similar to my age. it was such a short interaction that i didn’t think much of. we were both friendly and polite, just smiling, saying thank you/you’re welcome for bringing me to my room.
i look at my email today and see he emailed me. the title is the GI clinic address so i thought it might have been about some tests i need to do, but it’s actually sent to my makeup business email. you would have to find my instagram and go to my makeup accounts page through my bio and then from there find the contact info. i’m a bit lost on whether i should respond back or just ignore it. i am married and had my baby with me (which i think alone would have deterred anyone from assuming im single). i feel a bit uncomfortable and feel as though as a professional he shouldn’t be reaching out to me, but i honestly don’t know what to do. am i overreacting? | r/amioverreacting | post | r/AmIOverreacting | 2025-02-16 | Z0FBQUFBQm4xVWM2NHlzWnJ0aE5VWklMdGZNZ0JldUZva2hzdkdwVjI2b0pZelBoQ0xjTFlhM05peVJmVzFiazdfVkw2MFFXeldRSzAxRVRoeXFwZmVuc1hoR0hSZjVQZUo1Y2owUGNzMjFydFV0SHFYSGJtdUU9 | Z0FBQUFBQm4xVWM2NGNSSllpVkxuQlgwUTlYZjA5a3JqR1dzQ2lXRHRQNkFBc2VwZ1ZGWmx4VnRXSnN2bV84ejlNbm53M1NTUndtRXZoc2hvUmNvaDlGZnY3b0lENFpNX25nS0VYbExtd3ZOVGtQZEc3RkdyaFE1bE0yNVhPVEhMNURUQ1RXOE5CZ3Fscm1fUW1VRGJiY29PeWVBY2VPTlg4NlpRZDEyMEVOaFFNSUpEVUV4LTdxdXhxcXdhWDhpVGNPcDZyTGxyMXBjRldLcmxRMTZkZHZqU09BSVZ6Y08zdz09 |
Bought a year ago, second time using it. Bought for like 150USD in local currency. | r/mildlyinfuriating | post | r/mildlyinfuriating | 2025-02-16 | Z0FBQUFBQm4xVWM2aWpXRTVPSjBwNF9GN2t1ZHI0RVFQVlBNOGZCS1ZsNHM2bGFpUzhZVWh2NWJOenZkem5Zc3hDZV9sRTlWSTJnSWIwNDVOLVhWT2RuLUtndUdacDMzVlE9PQ== | Z0FBQUFBQm4xVWM2ZTZacGhGQ2NWTzlFcVRfMEZTd1BudHlQOXE2a1JRc3dNOWlkMDNjRkpCS1pvN3JUX19xVW53UW5ELVlhbXpMN1RsU1FLMXh0Z0VRX21ma0s4WHF3SUhmT0pack9SWjhtZlluN1Y1YU5OeDVyQ2RiVUdZaGxKSFVtODdidVZ0XzRuXzB4bUlNaDlEZkxDSzJ1NWxVWVcwY21KcVdtWGlLX013ckR1dUdNTUlmQ0lZT2xtSDI1UENWdzhWdzNOaXlkV09EZENVNzYyd182OFQ3Vk5NTWJxdz09 |
Growing up I had it drilled into my head how to treat women. I don't actually remember anyone telling me how I should be treated. It doesn't end well!
Edit: the amount of people claiming that I somehow hate women for asking this question is insane. Nowhere did I indicate that I hate women. Do better. | r/askmenadvice | post | r/AskMenAdvice | 2025-02-16 | Z0FBQUFBQm4xVWM2UEJDSVRhUmstQ0ZoR0VnQ29vV1BWM2RWU3JPM0RGV1NNN056aGhVQnVteXRXU3pPNVMzalRDa243TEtmcW9YUzg2UC1MTlRid2ZxbkFfZUdFeGhjblE9PQ== | Z0FBQUFBQm4xVWM2YmFNUzB5cFZrLUt3em5ubTFoMnFmUFZOSWZYWDUtOXI5bVo0UWt3UExpRkdaODkwSkR1X3VPdjRqQklyZmwxLVhUb3gwMnYwWE5nZThUUGRQanFTMW93TDFlOEJnblRqTUhQSy1PNEE3S1BfQ1N6cWZ1bXhrYkh1cFZZZjJsLWxLNXlJYWFKd0NoSy0wQTJ2Sk1GOGxXTGJTTjdibDkyRFJDelYyQTVncDgwY1R3WVFzOGgweXdfQzRLYks2VGRpV0lXcUZMS3l6SW9JcUNyOVNMd2I5UT09 |
Hello, so I have a very complicated co parenting relationship with my daughter (13) dad. He lives in another state and rarely visits. He visits once a year. We do have a court order that states he can have visits, we just need to work them out first. We do a shared calendar. Now we don't do a whole lot of stuff, so there might be 1-3 weekends that are busy throughout the entire year.
In January, he messaged me saying he would be coming out in February. I hadn't put anything on the calendar yet, but knew we would be busy only 1 weekend that month (Valentines day, then my b day is next day). That just happened to be the weekend he picked. I told him that wasn't a good weekend, but every other weekend was completely open. He got mad, said no he was coming down that weekend and there was nothing I could do about it.
Honestly wasn't going to argue with him. So I informed my daughter that her dad was coming out that weekend. She freaked out when hearing when he was coming out. She told me her friends had told her that her crush was planning on asking her on a valentines date (would be her first ever date). She immediately called her dad and begged him to move the weekend. He actually yelled at her, then yelled at me for "turning her against him".
She ended up hanging up on him and has been ignoring his calls since. Well she was asked out on a movie date for Valentines day (to be supervised by boys mom). So Valentines day comes, her dad is in town now, she refuses to go and goes on her date. She refuses to even meet up with him. I've tried multiple times to get her to go see him, even for a bit, but she is not budging.
He is obviously very mad, he's now threatening to call police and the courts to see if i can be thrown in jail. I've tried talking to her, but I can't drag her into the vehicle and force her to stay with him.
So AITA? | r/amitheasshole | post | r/AmItheAsshole | 2025-02-16 | Z0FBQUFBQm4xVWM2aDdFQ2VoQTFzbnhJSFhTMm1CSFk5Q0hidDRvUjhjbEZKT0hyTG5lNDlOYmMzY3NtZFNSTEprVGxhaGpueDFySG8zU1E4aVp3NFZuNTZYc3ZGUzYxN0E9PQ== | Z0FBQUFBQm4xVWM2YmFyNm5NZ05FdFY3OVlVMEFzaXBuZndJY0dETjUyUlEyakVwUndtOVcxOE9CUnhnalFfNWx5RGlWTVhUeE4ydURQT0loVWZnM3J4MGQ2S2NXcDFwNXhmeHdJUDJFUkZwal9RSkFlckRPRVF1R1pHanNmRlRyTnBuaHZiYVdwNXlpbXFNQm05YUFDSEt0SmNRU1QxVXFaajJBZnlNb3dJUDRBYktySDg5bjFLd0pnUFp5bmhDTEJWSEt3cV9VNlg3M3ppNTNXNy14MTdNc21VS01hTEZUUT09 |
*Posting for a friend who isn't on reddit:*
Me (39F) and my husband (44M) are currently looking for a new home, after outgrowing our current starter home. We live in a suburb of a major metropolitan area, I'm an architect and he's an attorney. Ideally we're looking for a home that has some good bones, that we can renovate to our taste since I'm an architect and we have friends who work in the trades. Long story short we toured a house two weeks ago that I thought may be a good fit, there was a lot that needed to be changed and updated but for the price listed I thought it would be something we wanted to pursue.
Flash forward about 4 days and I get a text from one of my friends asking if I'd seen this, with a link to an instagram reel from a local 'mommy' influencer (35F). I click on it and its a security camera video of my husband and I walking through the home on a tour with our realtor, and she's taken all the clips where I was talking about things that I didn't like or what I would change, and spliced it up so it looks like I'm being highly critical of her home. The rest of the video is her saying she would never sell to us because we are 'mean and nasty people'. Our faces are clearly visible in the videos I might add.
My husband drafted up a cease and desist letter yesterday threatening legal action unless she removes the videos and now she's blasting us all over town to kingdom come with her little army of mommy trolls on my husbands law firm social media accounts and my firms webpage (mind you I'm the owner of my firm so it doesnt make a difference for me, but it does for my husband). She hasn't taken down the video yet and we are fully prepared to take her to court if she doesnt.
My realtor is extremely embarrassed and said that the other realtor is embarrassed as well. Needless to say we are not pursuing her house anymore and are taking a pause while we deal with this. Two of our friends said we should've just tried to ride it out and let it pass because this type of thing always does, but I just could not let her do this. AITA?
TLDR; we toured an influencers house, she recorded us secretly and then posted it online for likes, seems like rage bait but I am fully raging. | r/aitah | post | r/AITAH | 2025-02-16 | Z0FBQUFBQm4xVWM2NXItZWlIQ2NTckd5S2NoREQtYUZZc3BZazk3NnpzSC1oYy1GZDZpSENMOV9RR0oxdnUxdER2RmQxTUxHZk03UjZBNEV1eHpjaG1fWjEyR3RRemtjNnc9PQ== | Z0FBQUFBQm4xVWM2V3k0anBzOUFibm5FZlRmbGpWU3VwdWlRcDZSNXNBRmt3cHJXU0lJYm9pbTRDMnlyanJHNmhvaGNTNGdSMWNyUHJTWlZwN21wWnhUaF9FdGJxZnpua01zcHU5dVVGUlNQZG5ocjNnbHd3VUV6elctRjJWd2FqRnR0SERtUDF4UkZianR6ay02ek9KXzJmQVZKMHlHajNyLXY5UjVSWlRtNV9aQWhmWW1WeFZkanJDLWkyN080MExabzg1Y0dZUkgz |
I put a sign up on my door telling people to not knock or barge in because I was taking an honor lock test. Not even ten minutes into the test and my sister comes banging on my door. I tried to ignore her hoping she would read the sign but then I heard the door job turning and yelled at her to go away.
She then goes to the living room and proceeds to have the loudest conversation with our parents about how “rude” I was and they started yelling back at her that I had a sign telling people to leave me alone. I get that they were defending me but their loud voices combined with the thin walls were probably picked up by the computer and now I’m going to get another flag.
To top it all off I accidentally clicked outside the testing window when yelling at my sister so that will probably be a THIRD flag.
I fucking hate honor lock with a burning passion | r/mildlyinfuriating | post | r/mildlyinfuriating | 2025-02-16 | Z0FBQUFBQm4xVWM2RzVFdzkycmJabm9HRHNGazRQUzhyTTlhMlQyOVZJRll2SDRoZmVmMlRUYmR3Vm5COC01S2NiNWpzSXVia1duOGVoVFZpN3FpTVhOT1VhM1Q1N2NnWXc9PQ== | Z0FBQUFBQm4xVWM2Qzg4RkU0WUpBMWFuMWx1OVAzMnNXb2xHZDMydFdlT1hCM2NFa3U4THQ1Y0Y3M3djcTJlTDBXNHFCdzFCU3ZRWk9FNXVUWkxySmQ2Q2Ixc0RtNmNTZlNEemRUaEw0RHg0ZEIyclJ2VDJIT1V5XzZzRzI1bkZPVWNQZENSZmhVWVNXbUkwUExLejhYNFhjd0NXS081cnB3eEZIUVE4WnIzMGlTd3FsU1NlRUZzU3EwQVhMQVM0Z0pFdUpFYmR4Zk9DeWV3UEZIMERtbjZza3ZLcFhCcE5hUT09 |
The CFPB has been the #1 recourse for the crypto community to fight back at these exchanges for when they freeze funds, put months long security holds on accounts, etc.
Just do a search for CFPB on the subreddits for these exchanges and you’ll see how essential they have been in helping our people in the crypto community get their money back.
We all know how sketchy exchanges are, which is why almost everyone here recommends to keep our valuable crypto in cold storage off of the exchange.
With a near complete reliance on these exchanges why are we not more pissed off? This is the largest crypto subreddit and I can’t find a single thread talking about how detrimental a loss of the CFPB would be to us.
Edit: To see clear examples of how great the CFPB has been for us, search for CFPB on r/gemini and also r/coinbase, Many success stories of problems only being resolved after contacting the CFPB | r/cryptocurrency | post | r/CryptoCurrency | 2025-02-16 | Z0FBQUFBQm4xVWM2MXZEVi1oMVNJRXI2QjhyTlFOblZqcGFlcE9lZFZTaFZkVHdwQVY2QU1nSExjbXRNTHlPT0RCenV0QndvU2hxSTV4czBMY05QZGt0U1UwdkFoMXoyY1E9PQ== | Z0FBQUFBQm4xVWM2cmV2ZkNva0c2aXRTYi1fVzQ0U1Fvd3puSFVZcTNGTVhmTllzaVd0TlBpek45N0VWTXdLRGVtT1dCcTRGUGYzWVEzR1ZiTHBEOU4zaWNRSXFEaFpTSzBJS2FIVmZLaUkzdnZ2NkhvMF9Oa3BCTnVmU09XRkZHd3BDams0VUp3eklMZlV3emEtclEzRWJmR3hIcnlJbkpIbjNlR191ZTBHTThOQVplNFpfV2c5ZDlCSEpvMDFsWUJ5eDdDai1EaWVzM0Ywek9nTjVBaW43R1pXVXJqTXRXUT09 |
Only had them for a few months, idk what happened but now I’m running late to my friends wedding | r/mildlyinfuriating | post | r/mildlyinfuriating | 2025-02-16 | Z0FBQUFBQm4xVWM2UTBLOGJzMmlzNmVHYXViUUNHVEcyUmQ4R2dJT1NLb2ltSlRfQnNNajk1YU92eWVFOUJTX2FWNFhpODh3OTFsOWZFb2tDcEJLd0NFcERQN19kcWhMcUE9PQ== | Z0FBQUFBQm4xVWM2SUVDVDJsY1lFY0lOMHl2cXFmY0xpc19waTQ1eWlidU9uVlMzTUZHeHhYMWFlOWFyOGpMQWMzdmpEWF9HNFN1d0xOYUg1YkFZeE5KMU1uRURKR3dCVFVSbV9xS1E4WnZnemlaMzR5dTFnWFZqNWZBRkpDYWM2RG9MQ0VYaVRWdGMxek5WWE05UkZTWjY5MlNjMERsSXJFSU9CRFkyMWlXRnMwODlGcmF2ZEQ2d1piZ0RoNFZrbjh2Tm9SVFltVWVVRlBmNHhhSTNzay1Id3hSU085eWJZZz09 |
My husband and I have three kids (14 M, 13 F, and 10 M). We used to live in a 2 bedroom house where all the kids stayed in the same room and shared the same bathroom. There were many arguments about bedroom and bathroom space, especially amongst the two oldest. We have just purchased our first home and the house has 3 bedrooms. As my middle child is the only girl, I thought it would be more appropriate for her to have her own room and bathroom away from the boys, so I gave her the sole bedroom/bathroom and the boys share a room. However, my oldest son has been moping about it ever since we moved in. He believes since he is the oldest he should have his own room. I told him it is better for him and his brother to be in one room, but he is still complaining about “having to share a room with a little kid” and not having his own space. My oldest has started barging in my daughter’s bathroom when he has his own with his little brother. I told him to stay out of his sister’s bathroom, but he got upset saying “he doesn’t have a damn thing to himself”. I grounded him for cussing at me. My husband later on went and talked with my son and now thinks maybe our son is right and he should have his own room as the oldest. | r/amitheasshole | post | r/AmItheAsshole | 2025-02-16 | Z0FBQUFBQm4xVWM2cjVYWU90MXdCbUhXVllQVEI2TlZDZGdTUmxpQXRxNHptSjJ0WHR0TVU2aFpaVDJDYnV0aXpIaDc5RGFMWnBMNm9iUUNPdUJ3Zy0xYjBJdWtjMEpveGc9PQ== | Z0FBQUFBQm4xVWM2Sk9QSW43cVc2enp4ODlhZHRWUHRtQzRlNXRXTXpIOHVNdDdWYUlaMk0tN195aHItMl9JVmFJaldfZ19MVEZzMDNMdVlNSDJoS2RIU1JsalpkYWtSbzFyMlJoUzRtNEdaVTFlZ3lOcDIxWGFKLTZfajBoNDdROFlBYzRGWWhvd0ItTmluemdXeUNIcVJJMVN6djZ3M0lPQkFaaEt1dHpWaHVhM1FoRXV0SURyd05WZ09VZEJGemx2Znhvd2drNzVqUURyS0dqV0Jlc0gzVEVITXNpWDc5UT09 |
It's been a hell of a weekend. I couldn't sleep, and was itching to find out what truly happened with my boyfriend on Valentine's night. First thing Saturday morning, I called my bf and he said he was sleeping, that's why he couldn't pick my calls. When I mentioned the time where he actually picked up and immediately turned it off, he was in total denial and said he didn't remember any such thing. He then told me he could share his live location with me from now on, which I declined cause it was painting me as this crazy, jealous gf.
I got off the call and dug up old texts from my phone, and I found our friend's mother's contact there. I called her, asking to check in on my friend. She said my friend had left home the night before to an all night party with her friends. But she said one of my male friends came to pick her up. It was my boyfriend. I ended the call and checked my Snapchat to check if my bf had come online so we could talk, and i saw that our friend had updated her private story. I clicked it, and in the video, she was having pillow talk with a guy I sharply recognize as my bf.
After seeing and hearing all this, I had my answer. I was right. I spent the rest of the day indoors rethinking the whole relationship. They were in contact before I returned to the picture. Why drag me into this? Why get me involved and then pull this schtick? A part of me is glad this happened earlier, cause he was below my standards, but I loved him. Today, I went to visit my cousin, and she took me to the beach.
So the, that is my update. They're both blocked, and I'll be taking a break to focus on my job and myself. Thank you all for the support and dms giving me suggestions. | r/amioverreacting | post | r/AmIOverreacting | 2025-02-16 | Z0FBQUFBQm4xVWM2bWY1Y3oxaEpPbTAxaWh6bzRNR05IVjFnanVJd0lGZ09KT0ViWGgyaExuN2xUYzROS05lZ05ZZHRSdHJLdlgyNThNQ3d4VlVab0c4bEVxTi03eGRuclBFS3AwZXZvN0NoQVdDMVo2N0t1eEk9 | Z0FBQUFBQm4xVWM2ZW5FT2Z6LXJCUWxmTmR6SldtMjRqSWkzTG1uVFM2Q3RMRloweVlvSEE1R3FNTUlkYkRCdTlLQlE2MVZvTVd3S0U4ZEZDOUY5NkVfSXdZaWpsU2NsSUtEMEtNWFF5bGlEaUd5VEJOTDRYbFlKYWxLbjNEOTZqMXFOLTN6emxnVEZIN00zMnZVUXN2V3NMcFZWWk5ud2duTkxTTU9lNTlLWkM0M3ROemQxbGxpV2FzY2FTcWZPQTM3c0kzRDB1UlQ4anNvei1Zckpyc21hNnBpOVQtTU1udz09 |
Side note: I still do want to be educated on why people vouch for and against XRP | r/cryptocurrency | post | r/CryptoCurrency | 2025-02-16 | Z0FBQUFBQm4xVWM2a1V1TjROVWliVFFFN1ZSY2MwY0c3M2kyWFZHQUNNSGhqZmFQUnc2MllFTFliZmZpbXhXOGtaVzYzcTdPTXQzRW1DWjJYYXB0THZDMGx0RXk5NHY1ekE9PQ== | Z0FBQUFBQm4xVWM2cnNxY3Jfb0hIMXFXanZBNldjQlI5dWFpZ1dkak1Bdk5UR3p0Nl9teUFqQnA2VmtYZGN5TlRoTWRSTl9yVVE5RHhkZWlheEpnZWF0QjI1WTJsdVFVcHpaWGozbW1EZXlvbC1RRl9zNnczdExMRXFHaEVnTlJrU1FfaWJldTI5Y2w4WktKaVdkN0JsdWJQbXRTUDl2Q1hHMzhlV0U3NkFxa2NqTmVuNFVJb2FIYVpkTlgzVWRCYnhiSFFSZ3k1VTcy |
Context: KC OLine all had "0 sacks" shirts on in their parade, after defeating the Eagles last time in the Super Bowl | r/nfl | post | r/nfl | 2025-02-16 | Z0FBQUFBQm4xVWM2ZTh3Nl9kRUtzLWVMb3QxOFp3MWNYTWprbkNZbE9haVVGb2dJYlgwbzN5RkI5cVZ5dVVOekF5dFIwMXRQTW5hV2lxVmlSU0dCYU14Y0l5SEVEZlZxVVE9PQ== | Z0FBQUFBQm4xVWM2bVFJUDcyYjRwSmVENnhxd0ZzMUxtYUN5clJwbjlVLVZCRTZNOHowYjNFb3BfTUptVzFFN1pOOXBVei1GX1NYcUhLamxTZXl6ZWFqT1JWX2dmRzcxWjZ1eTNrcXdVZWFpR2JiQlVDYkt2UzhQb1NxdWZkT2l4MmU4UGVEVzI3SlVhMUhGRTExeFhNWUxoME1jblpNSlgwN3FTTWlPUklvVlJKOGYzYVhyaWdINzVvZURkMFROZkF4VUVFX253OElXNUVBd2R1Q3Q5SW56cFdMN3hhMk5YZz09 |
Super Bowl Appearances by QBs drafted after 2012:
Patrick Mahomes (2017): 3-2
Jalen Hurts (2020): 1-1
Jared Goff (2016), Jimmy G (2014), Joe Burrow (2020), Brock Purdy (2022): 0-1
Literally everyone else: Nothing. | r/nfl | post | r/nfl | 2025-02-17 | Z0FBQUFBQm4xVWM2TVJWN192SEdXdVhJNWhyUWZYcXVsazltTkZNU0VVTzBRTk1nYWlzTEdpQ09kM1l0d2RVUVR6bk1YQWVtd2VxcGVxaFRaQmlHMTN0SGdsUkZwSGtON0E9PQ== | Z0FBQUFBQm4xVWM2YkJSUGxUeUV4aDNiR2JfUHZZaDdGa0FBejh1cWFMNm9NZk9TeHo4bUZSR3NXQUM3bTRxUjM5Zm0xdzNpYWhNNUo5dWJiLWQweFYtQUU4MjdiU1NsRklqcG1HVWpOS3Y5ekVCVkxTZkE1MUpjNWpVUGF0cmFrWjlkS3hEM2h4RUwzN09JMzkwV0gxMTFSeExaWnRDLThPVWF3b2NoUTYzZHNSU1RqWnhoSDIyaWRnRDVJVGVWblAyRkxoaU9ORll1 |
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Forgive my last message I know it’s childish lol “boohoo” (yuck) but I was pissed off and it translated to.. that
The green scribble is my older cousin’s name (her boyfriend).
Literally posted the original just over an hour ago. She texted me and I intended to reply after sleeping but I couldn’t sleep and needed to have the convo. Good to know my gut feeling was right and there’s something wrong with this girl. Such a blithe disregard for someone’s health, especially someone she called her “sister” for years. This exchange is making me think she never saw me as a friend to begin with, so baffling.
And yes I’m letting my cousin know, he’s 3 years older than me and has always been my protector and older bro. Went through a lot as kids, best brother one could ask for. They got together a few months ago. I hope he’s not stupid and sees how weird she’s acting. And I hope by letting him know, he can protect his younger siblings from her clearly irresponsible ways. Imagine those lil kids feeling snackish and helping themselves to some easily accessible, unlabelled EDIBLES.
It’s late now, will talk to him tomorrow. Kinda fearful of her twisting it all before I get the chance to speak to him but it’s 1am rn idk. I should probably send a message to him rn explaining the situation so he can read it in the morning maybe ? | r/amioverreacting | post | r/AmIOverreacting | 2025-02-17 | Z0FBQUFBQm4xVWM2RFlXUnFpTUw2MXNZV3g3dm5MUF96WmRNamZXbjdja1V3Zk1KS2toSkZaZUUyakMzLTR5d3BtaFJxUXhUSTI3dG4wQzB6NV8yVG5QcG8tVHAyWXhuSGc9PQ== | Z0FBQUFBQm4xVWM2X29RenRvc0R0Rjk3eHE0SURhcWdOc2RZRGpuZWdMa0xMT2o3dFFnVVBCTDUtc1F5STB1andDRWxhR09ydmRsaVdjVTZQMkVpd3d6ZTlnVjEtZ0daYXBsbUotWVVINjJKZGlOY1oxNnZsRmY0dTBFWkJWNk1CdkxpdC1UeEx4M0x3SzNnVGJqN3gwMDE0VmhWQmVtNzdCZHZ6a09Sazg2QlJZTHZKXzltbVctNjlBRXZ2SkNYVGZaUTBHYmNFOHVaRlp0cGgxRTVoTmNURkQ3amQ5NmJ0dz09 |
Not charming attractive men who are secretly scumbags but often guys who are waving more red flags than a mayday parade which should be obvious to anyone with anything between their ears
I could understand women being ruthless and picky if they were all vying for the top echelon of men but I - a 6’5 good looking interesting and respectful guy - have been stood up on a 2nd date by a woman who wound up dating an older balding single dad with a fat gut who goes on unhinged racist rants on social media and posts all sorts of rwnj conspiracies so not only is he ugly as shit on the outside but the inside as well. There I was wondering what the hell I did wrong… she seemed like a sensitive person so maybe I unwittingly offended her somehow… when I saw her with him on social media I laughed like a maniac ( like Walt at the end of Crawl space) at how twisted this whole thing is.
I’m not everyone’s cup of prune juice and I accept that.
And I know there are a lot of damaged women out there with daddy issues who aren’t even capable of maintaining a healthy stable relationship or on some level dont believe they deserve one and until they can work through their issues they’re destined to be a moth flying into a flame
I know a lot of smart people are susceptible to manipulation as well… even if they’ve been manipulated before but many of these guys they’re going for aren’t exactly charismatic manipulative masterminds, some of them I know are fucking boneheads and there’s nothing charming about them. Obviously they have some kind of appeal with these women but it’s mysterious to me.
And it doesn’t just apply to damaged uneducated women - one of my attractive well educated otherwise intelligent female friends comes from a good family but she ended up dating a shorter average looking guy who treated her like dogshit, abused her and tried to turn her against her friends, then at a party we saw him slam her head against the wall and several of us jumped in and beat the shit out of him - she actually sided with him and cut contact with us until she came to her senses and got away from him.
Women like her could have their pick of the litter and they settle for some rabid little runt scum like that
Do they know on some level that they’re making a foolish decision just as we know we shouldn’t go out and drink the night before work but we’ve all done it anyway?
Meanwhile good guys are getting dropped like hot coal for the smallest misstep. Over sending one too many messages when they get excited about a topic or making a joke that gets misinterpreted as something offensive or something trifling that gives her the dreaded ick
Even if I understand on some level how and why this happens I’ll never completely wrap my mind around it.
I’m just venting here, I’m sure some of you can relate
| r/askmenadvice | post | r/AskMenAdvice | 2025-02-17 | Z0FBQUFBQm4xVWM2OWJPQW40dV9uSy1qS2RXaS1sTlduX2o5SFdLTmhLb0RVMlVVN2k3WElIMGdQYk12TWJieFpTSDFsOXpPME9SbnFUY01vY3JDRlZnMXdnVllDOExGSEE9PQ== | Z0FBQUFBQm4xVWM2a1BvcHhjQVl2MUtKQjhENXdnSzlsbVF0V1VBX25GVkZVcDRCX04tQkhXUVpKRWNaTXZ5SjNkUU41aXExUDl4X0s2US14ZU43SThXNlJBT25raWpLckZYVDBfdUlydFRJRHNHb2xnRDRDZlp2Rzdkd2dUS1hRbjlBOHY3QXo5WXpIRklXYkhscExJd2tSMWlYdV80em5SdHFlb0ZxOXRlWTNGZDFWOGhlZC1YS0d1R0trZXNlTlJEbUVEelk3ZjZiN0E5LVF0ajhUdmZ4dzQwMUpNa1NLZz09 |
People can get divorced. I don’t care, that’s fine. But the reason fascinates me. They’re stable. They’re, like, so effing stable. They’re parents. He’s a sweet, mellow guy who’s not abusive. She’s a kind, balanced girl who’s not toxic. They don’t mistreat one another. They’re so nice and friendly to each other. No animosity. They’re doing great. I asked him what happened and he said they both just realized they was no passion anymore. What? I don’t understand. Like who tf can afford endless, renewed passion in a long-term relationship in which both parties are also toiling and surviving in this neoliberal, end-stage capitalism hellscape? Isn’t a partnership with someone you care about and can trust and be stable with far, far more valuable? Like, if you want passion, couldn’t one or both of them just make a fetlife account and get laid once in a while, fully immersed in some trite fantasy…and then come home to *stability*? Why would two really good people throw it all away for the potential prospect of something that barely exists?
Edit:
Yeah, I’m obviously not telling them this. I’m telling the internet. I have no interest in involving myself in his issues. This is a “what-do-you-think?” kind of thing. We get to have opinions about what others are doing. This is a safe space. It’s fine. | r/askmenadvice | post | r/AskMenAdvice | 2025-02-17 | Z0FBQUFBQm4xVWM2UFZTU3ZPWjJFbHZNb1RhMmhJejlwc0MzeVFpMENyVHFGRXMzYU5PMkhMZnpKNUFEMnBLZ2UyME01S3FJSldSeFZPU2lzMEc4dTBzcmdTSE5aR3FRdXc9PQ== | Z0FBQUFBQm4xVWM2ZThodk8zZG9vQ1ZteFlBTXNab0Z5WlFYdDFMOElrNmFIYWs1a0VsSnpIQ1VWWDV4R0t4VG9lU0Y1aFpQWUZsaFJRc0JjbGw2eWFVVmZyMWxRQ19YWEctMTh1ZGlKcHpCQmNHU2FXLW80Sm90SGNRckJIV1pXME96c0M1X3ptMjRDSVlaZWdpN1lyaGF1eXFWaVc5bnJ2bFBOX25wOV8xZkhmQ2YtYmEwTjVmWWpEY08zVllWMnFtS2VEX1hpc09leHM4NW9NdERjaTg3X2trZHN4emlXZz09 |
For nearly nine years, I lived in and paid for a home under the agreement that once it was paid off, my mother would transfer the title to me. The home was in her name, but I covered the mortgage, lot rent, and all expenses. I also put my own money into renovations and repairs like new flooring, light fixtures, refinishing cabinets, replacing appliances, and fixing the oven.
My mom originally bought the home in 2015, planning to leave her husband. When she changed her mind about the divorce, she offered it to me, saying it was a great way to “invest my money into something for my future.” I agreed and moved in, believing I was working toward ownership.
The Roof & Her Changing the Terms
In 2022, my roof started leaking. I called my mom for advice, but she didn’t know anyone who could do small repairs. My boyfriend at the time (who had roofing experience) helped me fix it, and I paid for all the materials.
Later, she insisted on sending out someone she knew to check the roof. Since the home was in her name, I couldn’t stop her. She then decided to have the entire roof replaced without my consent. When I asked about the cost, she brushed it off, saying, “Don’t worry, God always provides.”
In early 2023, she suddenly demanded $3,000 for the roof, despite never discussing payment beforehand. I told her this felt unfair, since I never agreed to it. I offered to make monthly payments, but she was furious.
Her Final Ultimatum
By early 2024, I was less than $3,500 away from fully paying off the home. I was ready to be done with all the drama. But then, in February 2024, my mom raised the roof cost by another $1,500, bringing it to $4,500, and added other random fees, telling me I had one week to pay over $20,000 or move out.
I was stunned. I asked why, and all she said was, “The choice is yours to make—you just have to decide what path to take.” No explanation—just an ultimatum.
When I refused, she started making my life hell. In April 2024, she showed up unannounced and refused to leave until the police made her. At that point, I had no choice—I packed up my kids and moved out on May 1st, 2024. Not long after, she sold the home I had spent nearly a decade paying for, keeping all the money for herself.
My Family Thinks I Should “Move On”
Now, my family says I’m the bad guy for cutting her off and “keeping her grandkids away.” But my kids want nothing to do with her—they were old enough to understand what happened and felt just as betrayed as I did.
To make things worse, she has been showing up uninvited to my kids’ events and causing scenes. I’m now looking into legal options to keep her away, as I don’t want her forcing her way back into their lives.
My family says I should “just move on” because “it’s not worth losing family over.” But I can’t just forget about all the money I put into that home. It’s been almost a year, and I am now seeking legal advice because I refuse to let her get away with it.
I feel like I owe her nothing at this point, but my family keeps guilt-tripping me, saying I’m being too harsh.
AITA for refusing to let my kids see my mother and not just “moving on” like my family wants me to? | r/aitah | post | r/AITAH | 2025-02-17 | Z0FBQUFBQm4xVWM2Vzh2RmNGSWVFVGFRX2dNdkpjZkxodk5MYjRQb1hWeFNyZlhZNlR1UWZlaWRXVlVvb1lISk90VWk5Qmlyc0JhRXNZbnhENjhYYmVXTzI3QU0yRzlfTmc9PQ== | Z0FBQUFBQm4xVWM2TWdWcWs3QU5sREljbWNCSThMaElicHRPaFluWktMbk1XSHMzUFd5dUxaRG5kVjlQdUh6STNIM01GXzVGa1FORzZWR3BpbF9IbS0tdTRlcDB0cDY3UnRqeG5yVWVmRnIxOUg3ZDl4ZjF0Y1VRTkhVLW1KcVNYVmZ3dFp3Y2o1UkZNUjJ4ZGJmelI4akVmSVlhVUhvRVZiX3dSb1NYRThNVm1NU3ZWamk2YTd1VHhmWjZCSVRPQzJ5anFycE5VM1lt |
For context me (M 20) and this girl (F 19) started dating about a week ago, and we were planning on going out for dinner tonight on a late valentines dinner and she randomly asked me to bring one of her friends? I thought she wanted to make it a double date last minute so I suggested inviting one of my own friends and she started saying it was weird and she was hoping it could be the three of us only and maybe become a threesome I was immediately weirded out and didn’t respond. 10 minutes later she asked me why I didn’t calling me a “sexist pussy” and I ended it with her. Did I jump the gun? My friends say I missed out and that I should’ve agreed or at least not have ended it with her but idk. How does me being uncomfortable with having a threesome make me sexist? Total red flags but I came to Reddit for strangers opinions. Help a guy out lol | r/amioverreacting | post | r/AmIOverreacting | 2025-02-17 | Z0FBQUFBQm4xVWM2Q3Z2bThSczhiOG02OVc2SGctalNvTU5ZeHVhdFBDZm9hOTYxaUZHODFZX0ZzSmxzdGZwUTdFS3VqZndXNGtXLVhuYkNSXzRlc0RzVXpfTmFhcGRPTEthejdwMEdXMzQ0WU9adzVFMnM1Qk09 | Z0FBQUFBQm4xVWM2b01IT2h4WS1GSFlPd0JyNzZ4Zk5qTHVPZXZ6QjZtaTRBd0FQLXVQQ1FIRW9wbjBib0dHaWRNdUpQN3J1TXZ1YXh5Ukdsd0pCYUFMQVV5Ym85VnhPU3lRQUtBOTBJVUMzT2tqcFR0QW56Um9yRGNGczB1clBJMk9IclF2bko4LWJWaW9Ub3pmbGNUR3ZodkpxV2JLY0xLeWE5ajNkSVZoYmVkblJQd0tMdjRmRE5UUjVSc0NvTFhySmdtZFk5SXc1cVo2WmpDanBWM1N1STlRUEU4VmdXUT09 |
Every since I (22m) moved in with my roommate (32m), I have been the only one buying TP, trashbags, paper towels, handsoap, condiments and basically everything considering communial in a roommate situation. I am also the only one who ever cleans ( mops, sweeps, cleaning the tub, toilet, kitchen and the dishes ) but thats a bit besides the point. I’ve hit a bit of a financial tight spot and could only really afford rent, groceries and my phone bill and we ran out of toliet paper and trash bags for a week and he never bought more ( dont ask me what i had to do it was horrific but i didnt have the cash to buy what we needed. ) Theres no possible way he didn’t notice and the moment I could I bought more toliet paper but couldn’t get trash bags and so he just kept adding to an overflowing trash can and letting stuff just fall onto the floor.
I am now out of that spot and I’ve bought what we fucking needed but I’m genuinely considering taking the trash bags, TP, and paper towels out of the communal spaces and just keeping them in my room because im tired of being the only fucking person contributing to this household. He works from home ( hes a streamer ) and all he does all day is sit on the couch and get high and blast music and tiktoks over his speaker and then play video games until 4 am on YT or something. Theres no excuse for him not cleaning or noticing we need stuff.
Would I be the asshole if I started keeping the TP and trash bags and what not that I buy in my room? | r/amitheasshole | post | r/AmItheAsshole | 2025-02-17 | Z0FBQUFBQm4xVWM2OEpuVVRnSEVLeEpOMThUdk0tZVY3T2kwOE1Zamo1TEl2NHhfZ1p1bHJSVjFBQ2g1NXVXWGVkMjlFM3hFUThkMmViN0xXV0pCMk9Md0Y3SHJXVFNnNUE9PQ== | Z0FBQUFBQm4xVWM2cERyVEtCU0xRam5YNXpTSWtKelhNaHNkX0I5a21kWE9sdjNXTnJHLTFxaHpVNWwwT05ucklmMmRwakN1MjFrY01VTll6WVFNMW9Zc0NGMGRHbDlkTWREUDNVUzR1SUJPaV9HWHJ5ZmoyeldQM1ZmNVZHdmFVMG1kV2R6Ql9xd2dzcmZJNWRPZDlBUVpDdjNyalhwQ1NMWGxPcWtNVVh1Rnl6UTVkUG44NlpVbjlSZHhLYVh3NldtdXFQWGFERFBoQWJITzlSVmJNQmxUZ19ZdFNLM3dhdz09 |
the note speaks for itself | r/mildlyinfuriating | post | r/mildlyinfuriating | 2025-02-17 | Z0FBQUFBQm4xVWM2T25hejRGVV9fNGFnOFVDWHFnTzdJOVl6SXZrVWpYSlEwOVVnZmtSWWlRVlo0UkFLbU8wRkZPM0ZkWUFldEJ6QUZvazd3bThzMENjbmRxWnF3eFpDa2c9PQ== | Z0FBQUFBQm4xVWM2bkg1VWEwcnRDWjAxMUNkWEhJR1hLdXRCX0dkd0dUbDY5ZjhLdHktSmRieVNxZUJBSHpJbkE4d3JLUGdPZS12YmtZZUxFVlBvZ1V0Vk1PN1VKUVpDX0U2ajhzLXB4ZUVSM3B1eDZjcFY3RUJOaklhVVFlaGpsbmhtajVmckdpeUpHVGFSQmZhajZieU1DeDZyd3RGN3pRdDhleTB3WDBpaEdWVmlKOVRRQlpZRTdHOHJBc1p1aFU1blRDRngtNHA0emRFSUlnUUlKSFJjZXhWSmFVQ3RtUT09 |
I have this neighbor that I find really attractive. He’s a rugged dude with a great beard and he seems like a super nice guy. Aside from seeing him while we walk our dogs (who don’t get along) and saying hello, I don’t have any contact with him. Don’t even have his number.
I was considering making “too much” dessert and bringing him some. He lives alone so he might be into that.
I’m also not really looking for a serious relationship. I honestly just want to sleep with him. But I don’t want to make him uncomfortable.
Thoughts? And how should I do it? | r/askmenadvice | post | r/AskMenAdvice | 2025-02-17 | Z0FBQUFBQm4xVWM2QVF5RWYxMHlsYVF5b2ZWM0tYSExEQWlwYXU5X3NxMUFyWmY4TkpjWDlYQjJYdWl0RFBIQ2FHd1RDUEtIeUtqWktnNEZzVElFX2E3TGZmT2JYN1JNYUlVTURtUXhRcDN4VGVYWDhVYlI1UEU9 | Z0FBQUFBQm4xVWM2RVJfVVV5cVVBYlBTRzRKd2lyaEVLUFR2QlFtNVdsR2VEQ2t1dGlNUmprdE9vazdWLXlveFB5SVctcncxZWFvYVBWVmN4N2pEMm1GMVo5YnBKMHhJRUI2eFNqdG1YVGRSSlBwdU91VEFzcGNKNVFxTDVnblNndUZJUTQ1X1NPNGcwMzd5TU1hZUJ5VmxoT3JqUUFCWk9hT0NRR0xXaC1tWERtenVrWU1Dc24xZzJkRFdyVG03V3lITHVoYzFTWTNEQXVXclJzeFZ3UFc1N2d5QXBQbnRBZz09 |
Ok so this happened a few hours ago and I’ve only just calmed down, because I hate conflict.
Basically I was doing a long travel day( 5 ish hours) so I booked my train in advance to ensure that I had a reserved seat. When I get on the train a woman is in my seat, so I politely inform her that I think that’s my seat show her my ticket and ask her to move. She checks her ticket and just says well I must have sit in the wrong seat and puts her head down. I say that it’s my seat and could I please sit in it. At this point her partner sitting opposite her starts speaking at me in what I perceive to be an aggressive tone. He suggests I find another seat( which there are none because it’s busy) and I say but I booked that seat and there are no other available seats in the carriage . He then raises his voice and says well someone else is in our seats and that his missus is pregnant. I say I understand and that I have a heart defect( which I do) and said everyone has their own medical issues and reasons standing for long periods of time might be difficult. And here I could be the asshole , I ask him to not speak to me in an aggressive tone , and that I will make a complaint. He then starts swearing at me and I ask him to stop. Eventually the woman gets up and allows me to sit there and he continues to berate me saying he hopes I feel good for myself and that I’m quiet now I have my seat, when really I just stopped engaging as I felt there was no point.
One of the men who was sat beside him offers that him and his partners sit in the seats opposite me ( it’s a table seat) at which point he sits his partner down and then laughs at me and points in my face. Eventually when the ticket inspector comes around they are asked to movr to their assigned seats and she asks if I’m ok as another passenger had made a complaint on my behalf.
Even so was I the asshole ? Should I have just left them alone as she was pregnant? And did I in any way escalate the situation ?
EDIT : as I don’t know how able I’ll be to respond to all the comments, thank you sincerely to everyone that has engaged with this post. I’ve learnt a lot about myself and my ability to let anxiety and over thinking get in the way of trusting my decisions. I honestly came into writing this thinking that I escalated the situation, so to have people affirm that it’s just standing my ground and that that is alright has been really gratifying. It has taught me however I have a way to go with standing up for myself, and not being such a people pleaser. If I don’t get to respond just know I appreciate your engagement with my post nonetheless and this has really helped to calm me and give me insight after an incredibly stressful situation. | r/amitheasshole | post | r/AmItheAsshole | 2025-02-17 | Z0FBQUFBQm4xVWM2N0NBelhjeFVqdTJmeU9xbWlCbmpEWTJmTVhCMWNWNVB4aGQ3blFsUzVfTjVZWF9VbzVJZENaTHQwcFIzRUg4YUc4c3Yxb2cwbzZBSnE4aFI2VkZHMy1SWjRIWS1jdTFHMVZWMTZHbXVZdGs9 | Z0FBQUFBQm4xVWM2bzEwQUtmdDkzSGpYTVdKMjhkYnAwNTJoQUlmeTRmdXZtVTdyOTkyRld2ZnpmQ1NKMlBwOVJFYmkyU2Q4cHF2UHl5NGJmSmtaYWx6OHRjbk9PRmNXZDNNVy1DdjdDUFZUQkpaY29SVlljNkZhbG5rQUR4czk2cUMwQmpKQUpRRnVoV2Vvc3NGTUdtWXY2SXNmbFJ5ek1jZXV2T0MwdVo2SldjRWJIdjROMjk3WE1LRGQ4TFRja3pHcXdxbWQ1WU5tNC1PUzR0Ulo4WndoV01MQ3FkdVZsUT09 |
I live in the UK on the end of a street of terraced housing all with small front gardens - about 15*15ft. Each garden is separated by either a fence or a hedge. When I moved in there was a hedge between mine and the neighbour's garden, definitely on my side of the dividing line. After a half decade of living here, the hedge had become dishevelled looking and definitely needed to come down. I'll admit, I wasn't the best when it came to maintaining it however my neighbour both refused to care for the side of the hedge facing her garden (because it was my hedge) whilst also refusing to allow me into her garden to trim or maintain it.
About 2 weeks ago I decided that I'd had enough of the unsightly beast since it looked pretty bad and dropped loads of leaves in my garden every year so I got rid of it. Doing this really upset my neighbour, who said that the hedge was the only thing denoting where my garden ended and hers began. This is not true; my garden has beds for plants around the edges and the one bordering her garden stops at the line of her small lawn area - you can tell whose garden is whose. She said that I had the responsibility of getting a fence to divide the gardens, since I was the one who cut down the hedge. I said I didn't want to get a fence and that if she wanted one so badly that she should get one herself.
For some reason this made her really angry.
I really don't think this is that big of a deal. If she wants a fence then she can get a fence. I agree with her that it looks rather odd having two gardens with no fence or border hedge or whatever but I'm really not that bothered. I spend most of my time either inside (not looking at the border between our gardens) or at work (also not looking at the border between our gardens).
AITA? | r/amitheasshole | post | r/AmItheAsshole | 2025-02-17 | Z0FBQUFBQm4xVWM2SGJtb0UxVmZ1eXJqTXJfUlUtRGxFc2lWcmZLYjdCTUtsT1Q1YzJzb0F5TmpmdmZLTklwVkx6LWl1V1lQcDVZVExZSzlybVBZeWpjbHhEWWJpb18zVWc9PQ== | Z0FBQUFBQm4xVWM2cjlBaldONlNab1BqeGVjdU1ieXpFTXdYZkdtQmJNWl9GMnNReTVKWnloU0FzbGxBVHY3TWJDZnhrNFJtMklrTXRzbjZOcEFwY1FkS0E2Vnd2NEZYaGhYOFJXUjV1Um5kclJ6aGtUb25oY0kxUnU4LVZrWV9fMDVWeEZsT3VkQmJMaWRCZ0JKSTFER1Y2VTAwLVFDSW9MbkJBTVVnY1dGRXA1TXMzNGNpRjVQZ3FzT3UtMW82YWl3YklGTVhIYmdDYUx3ZEk3R0dwbGNjaHRMSmYwMWRYdz09 |
My sister sent me this text she received that seemed like somebody was watching her or something. I don’t know if it’s something to be concerned about or not, has anybody had a similar experience? | r/amioverreacting | post | r/AmIOverreacting | 2025-02-17 | Z0FBQUFBQm4xVWM2WXVjRWVPaXA1bHVXU0dydnhqZTdWX2xuckljQjU5MG5fZTdCaGx6eGIxelo5OW0xZEEtc2VJNmhaOTVkTDhTSU1vWUp2WnlUT2ZyYjAzMnFtdDRRNkE9PQ== | Z0FBQUFBQm4xVWM2OEhSSjJodWRLcW5wbFdMN2lWZmZiSkZueVF2aWtOTDdmM0lhSjJfQWtYd3ZXUWNkbkk5NWloNVpnaTNpTmJpVzFtOUNNdkFKYUNETWZpUERDY0xNTzd0WUcwcUlxRUVuZVY0NkE1VExzTUIzRGlPcUpZWkVjVW9vcmpxUFZ0YWliN1NLMWI2LW5VYkNVdklLN0l4aTltRlcxajN4cGRRWlp2aWtERTEySWkwZXBvaHZxcXVrZXdWeFVaS1U1aXgyU2drR3d1Z3d6N05tRHIwY2tGelhaUT09 |
My partner is absolutely obsessed with anime our room is practically a shrine to it. This past Valentine’s, he went all out, surprising me with flowers, chocolates, and even a designer bag. Honestly, I was so swamped with work that I completely forgot about Valentine’s Day. It only hit me on my way home, and I felt terrible.
I rushed to a nearby mall, clueless about what to get him. I knew he loved anime, and I vaguely remembered him constantly talking about *One Piece*, so I asked the staff for help. They pointed me to some merch, and I just hoped I picked something he’d actually like.
When I gave it to him, he teared up. At first, I panicked, thinking he was disappointed. But then, he hugged me so tight, and I realized he wasn’t upset. He was overwhelmed that I remembered something he loved, even in the middle of my chaos. I really really amazed how he loved it. Anyone here share the same obsession as my partner? I’d love some advice on what to buy next.I want to see that same reaction from him again. | r/askmenadvice | post | r/AskMenAdvice | 2025-02-17 | Z0FBQUFBQm4xVWM2VUNETkNYMFAxaUx0UXJRY0txSl9kcTlwNjFBRHFDcy1UYTl1aEZnai1tY0lLQkxqYXhjVjJnbXlSU01fSkVNTXZPWU9UUHBONlBTWUZtUTRnZDlqYVE9PQ== | Z0FBQUFBQm4xVWM2amtQaWlYcUdiZDFTYmIwcWFia3ZiVFQ5TUd1bENNNThNMUxjZnZrN25KQnRLaU9tZUxocmYwSTl6WjFRNUpqXzV3bWYtelB1YXVKejBaSllReFBVVHlUelJRUE8tZW5CSktXQk1lRWh1WGtDcmJUdndWZ0lpRDhVZ1Z5ZGszOFBMdHFRZGw4N3FJRmpZT2o2RVB5OV91S0ozdEVQZXgwOU9IQkp6MDM4NExpVmhYUFpRMmNXRXJqX2pHcU14bmd2ZnNIdE9nR0RsZ0kzaGJZMHFlYTJRQT09 |
Hi,
This just happened about half an hour ago. I wanted to be a little silly, and I touched the neck of my boyfriend with icey-cold fingers. (I had been walking our dogs in the cold. )
I stood behind him. He turned halfway to me and hit with his fist against my thigh. Hard. It really hurt and the pain lingered for several minutes.
He apologised in the next moment, but I said right in this instant that I want to break up.
Little background story: about 2 weeks ago he already hit me lightly with his fist against my upper arm. Back then we had an argument in public and he wanted me to shut up. It hurt but not a lot. But the intention got me worried.
We have a 6 months old son together and live together.
I need to know if I'm overreacting.
Thank you in advance!
EDIT on the next day: thank you all so much for your answers, insides, stories and support! I'm super grateful! But with now over 4000 comments I can't possibly answer or even read them all.
I hear you loud and clearly and will take safety precautions. | r/amioverreacting | post | r/AmIOverreacting | 2025-02-17 | Z0FBQUFBQm4xVWM2OVZ2cUFaYlpWLS1wZDhlSGYzWDJ6QWpoaHBZUWFZQzJzSTdTem9qTGtDVUtHNDZ3Um9zZXRkcGZNQUVjT1k5Mmw1c0JsZXZJcDRhRDdwTGNqdHlFb3c9PQ== | Z0FBQUFBQm4xVWM2M3h1QkkwVnZKU1JudXhHRHlOZ0IzdTlpWE1Fa1IwOXZxT3RJaWNyaFlCZFNOUDh3QWRyaHFMNUU3bm5SZjNFR3Bockx5X3FWa3J0enNKQUdNQkp0WmNNd0FwX1MtbGVYbzRoOUo2MGJTLUVRU3JJRjRxMmVEYXlTajN2U0NfdXVIZmt3c3hTYkE4R0p1YUE0Nm94SjBjYkN2Q2MyM0l0bU5PTUhsWUMwSlFYX2ZZSWlheWcwZ1dXQVpXNThGVl9TenFIQkdBazh6V0wtV2dLdUdXdm11Zz09 |
For context check my first post. The next day she apologized and explained why, I felt bad and told her it’s all good but would still like to be broken up. She then started lashing out, bringing up some trauma I had told her about in my past saying I “deserved it “ (I crossed those parts out for privacy.) and then when I told her this is just making it easier for me to block her she sent me a picture of Kylie Jenner flipping me off? I think I definitely dodged a bullet, not gonna be posting about this ever again. Also on my last post bunch of horny clowns in my comments calling me gay for declining the threesome. Sorry I’m not comfortable jumping into bed with a stranger and someone who I’m still trying to get to know. I find sex a big deal. Might be an unpopular opinion. | r/amioverreacting | post | r/AmIOverreacting | 2025-02-17 | Z0FBQUFBQm4xVWM2NmRySFg3S1FISXoyaUR5SURnOXhhd2JjcnFlOFNyNTZSMHRHUndMUU1TZGxfLUFmQlBBSjJTZUZLakgySTRpSVhWVTBHRmM4ek8xVEMyVnFwSzJUNVhlcl84Z0o2MjE0aWdHcUgweTZwUmc9 | Z0FBQUFBQm4xVWM2amdMMlFxSmVNYTNacnltaWlBc2w2LUZvNkZmSVhPeVp3OHo4bkpjNE1rbm5WLVYyTUZVNnRRbE9QQk9aRHVVSk03UUxmQ1NUSWFFMlV3WU5qSmIyOERraVE5eDlpdC1NZ2R1QnpfUS11cFEzd2drakFCUGR5dFgwM2RXOWx0US1VVDRkRUJocDJEbkJNUk1rSGhTc1VFUWZKLUdnZGxKRmxQNDR4WDhBNTNoUnR1eE15VjFhQm9vZWplX1R5QlgtMzBlRWFlY1JIamhnRE5xZW9XVVZpUT09 |
This is the second time one particular bus driver has driven right past me while waiting to go to work. He stopped for me at the next stop and proceeded to tell me that where I was waiting wasn’t a bus stop?!?! | r/mildlyinfuriating | post | r/mildlyinfuriating | 2025-02-17 | Z0FBQUFBQm4xVWM2WE52WERrcnJmWTdfQzhBUE13dy13VE1ZWEQyWGI3N2JsQ3pwUkRVRXBsa0d2R1MtRXJXMlRFcWFqMWxBbEpyLXRyYnZ5V1lnVTRRVloxOHNrLTR4VWc9PQ== | Z0FBQUFBQm4xVWM2bTdlc2xlaUFteUJ4bzloamJfckY3dXNuZ0RpY2Z3UXZ1QUNOUmRKRF9sTWZVN0xRSXgtaU8yYTEwTE05NGN4ZzhCWDhlUnd4MnRrWXpSSTZZY2NTREJlVEotYUh0enJzNEJ2WXlkODZiZ0xJLVZMNjV1R3NPVkNyODZPY3RRZDRJTm1yUjRaZFlOVkdoamNyLVRyUnlndGxoSlgtM0hlQUhvbko3ZEY2RGp5TW9SMHYxTnh4TVV2b1huV2V6NzltU1BKV05BUFJEMW9aM0JoeWc5TjFLQT09 |
I didn’t expect this to blow up, but since everyone’s asking for an update.. here it is. Yes I’m on my vacation in Aruba AND before I left I was physically assaulted by Holly.
Here’s how it all started: Holly requested the second-largest room in our villa, assuring everyone she could cover her share. When it came time to pay.. she didn’t. So I covered the $4,000 myself and reached out privately to a few friends. The room was huge-easily fitting four to five people so I offered them spots. Three girls who originally backed out were so excited and more than happy to contribute, they split the cost with me at $500 per night for six days. They pitched in $3,000 so I didn’t lose much and honestly.. having them here has been so fun! But when Holly saw I added them to the group chat, she lost it. I invited her over to talk things through since this was a group trip, and she showed up.. buzzed lol but fully engaging with us, even grabbing mimosas from the serving tray (which you’ll find funny because she claims she didn’t drink the mimosas) I was just tired of the excuses so I called her out for not paying her share and leaving us to figure it out.
She became hysterical…and then things turned violent. She punched me and threw a glass wine bottle at my face. I hit the ground hard.. my pool area has rough cement for about six feet before the deck, so the impact was brutal. I wasn’t fully knocked out but was limp on the ground for about five minutes. Holly ran.. no idea how she left, probably an Uber. My friends rushed to help me and I went to urgent care just to make sure my eye was okay! despite everything we still made our flight!! But when I woke up after a night’s sleep…it was a nightmare. My face was shredded in three spots, and my eye was almost swollen shut. At first, I wasn’t going to involve the police.. Holly has been through a lot, and my heart went out to her. But my girls sat me down and said, Either you call, or we will. And they were right. So, I did!! Thankfully my backyard and pool area have security cameras which captured everything. The authorities are now handling it.
I saw a lot of replies, so let me clear a few things up:
“Why don’t you just split her room or tell the resort it’s unoccupied?”
- We rented a beachfront villa, not a hotel. There’s no “locking up” an empty room or removing it from the bill. It’s a set price for the entire property.. occupied or not. And no, the other girls and I aren’t splitting the cost of someone else’s no-show.
“You made $300k in two months.. you should pay for the room.”
- What I make isn’t a group fund. It’s my money, not a community chest. I’d never join a trip I couldn’t afford and then guilt someone else into paying. That’s selfish to everyone who planned, budgeted, and contributed. Holly clearly thought my kindness came with unlimited deposits but guess what? The bank is closed.
“If you were her friend, you’d just pay and move on.”
- Why is this even a debate? We all have the same 24 hours in a day..mine just pays better. That doesn’t make me her personal ATM. I’ve helped Holly plenty in the past but being an adult means knowing how to budget—not expecting your friends to foot the bill. | r/amioverreacting | post | r/AmIOverreacting | 2025-02-17 | Z0FBQUFBQm4xVWM2TkRZMVM5dEIwVk94Tndmb0Etbm4zb3RGa2JabUtob3ZGNVU1ZmI0MExlQ0phXzU2OUNQYWhJYy05TjdzX1hWdjJCN25EVXpyMWNrNnY3ZG9wTVBCbGc9PQ== | Z0FBQUFBQm4xVWM2WHlxc3I3MEhoNWhwSzBlcEIwUF92dDdEcWptN0ptc1Z3QngtODVXZ0lUQy1LdXZ3MDA4bkROc2xaXzhfSVU4Q1R5NHg5TjV3Rk43UHB1ckR1YmlWQ2ZzaVVNM1NUZlo3Rkh6LV9pb015bnU1LWs1X01saXE3R2d5TEpHLVdPYW1pTkVnd3hzaXFrMS1nZzJhTG5fUGVkaWx3bi15UG00ci1QWG1mU2VRZ0cxeE9iNndpS2J0NjVhdmlIclRpTW9WV1BuNU9uaF9NT292XzVHZjZyTzhPdz09 |
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