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Wife moved out while I was work, won't let me see my son now. Hi, new to reddit. Need advice on what do to please.. ​ My wife and I haven't been getting along for awhile. I work nights and came home Saturday morning to a house with only my bed and sectional. My wife while I was at work moved out and took everything. I called her and she came over later that day and agreed to move back in if we went to marriage counseling. Went back to work that night expecting to come home and her and my son to be moved back in. Well i'm assuming with the influence of her family, they talked her out of it because she decided not to move back in and is now refusing to come to the house. Now she is pretty much refusing me to let me see my son. She doesn't respond to my text and when I call her she only wants to meet at a park after work so I can see my son for like 20 min. She refusing to let me take him for several hours, ect. I thought about picking him up from daycare but she took my key to get into the daycare. Also her mother works at the daycare and may refuse to let me take him. ​ My question is what is my legal right to see my son and pick him up from day care if I want to spend time with him while she is at work. And what is my legal right to all the stuff she took from my house? Also I live in Illinois. | 807832b1ee8f37017f0f71cbd9a9ad6bdceda589f002d3f46cea3da226314926 | [
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Wife moved out while I was work, won't let me see my son now. Hi, new to reddit. Need advice on what do to please.. ​ My wife and I haven't been getting along for awhile. I work nights and came home Saturday morning to a house with only my bed and sectional. My wife while I was at work moved out and took everything. I called her and she came over later that day and agreed to move back in if we went to marriage counseling. Went back to work that night expecting to come home and her and my son to be moved back in. Well i'm assuming with the influence of her family, they talked her out of it because she decided not to move back in and is now refusing to come to the house. Now she is pretty much refusing me to let me see my son. She doesn't respond to my text and when I call her she only wants to meet at a park after work so I can see my son for like 20 min. She refusing to let me take him for several hours, ect. I thought about picking him up from daycare but she took my key to get into the daycare. Also her mother works at the daycare and may refuse to let me take him. ​ My question is what is my legal right to see my son and pick him up from day care if I want to spend time with him while she is at work. And what is my legal right to all the stuff she took from my house? Also I live in Illinois. | 807832b1ee8f37017f0f71cbd9a9ad6bdceda589f002d3f46cea3da226314926 | [
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Wife moved out while I was work, won't let me see my son now. Hi, new to reddit. Need advice on what do to please.. ​ My wife and I haven't been getting along for awhile. I work nights and came home Saturday morning to a house with only my bed and sectional. My wife while I was at work moved out and took everything. I called her and she came over later that day and agreed to move back in if we went to marriage counseling. Went back to work that night expecting to come home and her and my son to be moved back in. Well i'm assuming with the influence of her family, they talked her out of it because she decided not to move back in and is now refusing to come to the house. Now she is pretty much refusing me to let me see my son. She doesn't respond to my text and when I call her she only wants to meet at a park after work so I can see my son for like 20 min. She refusing to let me take him for several hours, ect. I thought about picking him up from daycare but she took my key to get into the daycare. Also her mother works at the daycare and may refuse to let me take him. ​ My question is what is my legal right to see my son and pick him up from day care if I want to spend time with him while she is at work. And what is my legal right to all the stuff she took from my house? Also I live in Illinois. | 807832b1ee8f37017f0f71cbd9a9ad6bdceda589f002d3f46cea3da226314926 | [
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Wife moved out while I was work, won't let me see my son now. Hi, new to reddit. Need advice on what do to please.. ​ My wife and I haven't been getting along for awhile. I work nights and came home Saturday morning to a house with only my bed and sectional. My wife while I was at work moved out and took everything. I called her and she came over later that day and agreed to move back in if we went to marriage counseling. Went back to work that night expecting to come home and her and my son to be moved back in. Well i'm assuming with the influence of her family, they talked her out of it because she decided not to move back in and is now refusing to come to the house. Now she is pretty much refusing me to let me see my son. She doesn't respond to my text and when I call her she only wants to meet at a park after work so I can see my son for like 20 min. She refusing to let me take him for several hours, ect. I thought about picking him up from daycare but she took my key to get into the daycare. Also her mother works at the daycare and may refuse to let me take him. ​ My question is what is my legal right to see my son and pick him up from day care if I want to spend time with him while she is at work. And what is my legal right to all the stuff she took from my house? Also I live in Illinois. | 807832b1ee8f37017f0f71cbd9a9ad6bdceda589f002d3f46cea3da226314926 | [
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My boyfriend was rear ended while traveling from one work location to another last night. Car at fault took off. Work won't let him take anymore days off. Last night my boyfriend got rear ended while driving from one work location to another. He works for a major gas station (think Exxon/Shell, etc) and was told to help out at another location that needed coverage. During his drive, he was hit by another vehicle, who immediately took off. He chased her but eventually lost her after she got on the highway. He has a dashcam (front view only) so he has her license plate number. He stopped somewhere nearby and called the police. While waiting for the police, another car came by and said they witnessed the whole thing and tried to follow her but to no avail, though they did provide more of a description of the driver to the police officer once he arrived. Since he was covering another location that night, he was told he didn't have any more available days off and worked the rest of the shift. After work, he went to urgent care on base nearby the house since he's in the reserves. He had a ct scan done. Called up his insurance which says he has to pay a $500 deductible in regard to the car, but he hasn't called her insurance since his phone died. He was told to not go back to work for another 5 days, but he doesnt have anymore days available to get off, so hes going to work for the rest of his work week (Friday - Tuesday nights) I'm asking him to stay home, but he's adamant on working even though he keeps having back pains from an old injury he received while in the Navy that's now resurface because of this. He's currently asleep (just got home) so he hasn't called her insurance nor the gas stations corporate office about his accident. Can there be anything done in regard to him staying home and possibly being fired, cost of medical and damage to car? What can I do for him since he's leaving everything to insurance after he filed that police report? Is there anything we can do in this instance? Location: Texas | 37a800a32db58a60c09014565dfb5660ff86e5ea642555ffc8fbe7628d62bf3e | [
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My boyfriend was rear ended while traveling from one work location to another last night. Car at fault took off. Work won't let him take anymore days off. Last night my boyfriend got rear ended while driving from one work location to another. He works for a major gas station (think Exxon/Shell, etc) and was told to help out at another location that needed coverage. During his drive, he was hit by another vehicle, who immediately took off. He chased her but eventually lost her after she got on the highway. He has a dashcam (front view only) so he has her license plate number. He stopped somewhere nearby and called the police. While waiting for the police, another car came by and said they witnessed the whole thing and tried to follow her but to no avail, though they did provide more of a description of the driver to the police officer once he arrived. Since he was covering another location that night, he was told he didn't have any more available days off and worked the rest of the shift. After work, he went to urgent care on base nearby the house since he's in the reserves. He had a ct scan done. Called up his insurance which says he has to pay a $500 deductible in regard to the car, but he hasn't called her insurance since his phone died. He was told to not go back to work for another 5 days, but he doesnt have anymore days available to get off, so hes going to work for the rest of his work week (Friday - Tuesday nights) I'm asking him to stay home, but he's adamant on working even though he keeps having back pains from an old injury he received while in the Navy that's now resurface because of this. He's currently asleep (just got home) so he hasn't called her insurance nor the gas stations corporate office about his accident. Can there be anything done in regard to him staying home and possibly being fired, cost of medical and damage to car? What can I do for him since he's leaving everything to insurance after he filed that police report? Is there anything we can do in this instance? Location: Texas | 37a800a32db58a60c09014565dfb5660ff86e5ea642555ffc8fbe7628d62bf3e | [
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Am I liable to pay my son's friend's hospital bill? I brought him to the emergency room. In Oregon/Washington USA. My 14 year old son snuck out and got drunk with some friends. One of his friends ("Josh", also 14) was brought back to our home at 2 AM unconscious and barely breathing. I (at this point) did not have his parent's contact information to notify them, but immediately drove him to the emergency room. I provided the hospital with my information, and made clear the situation. The woman at the front desk was able to pull up my information as I'd be a patient there before. She told me that I would not be sent a bill. Just to be clear here, the hospital is in Oregon, but Josh's family live in Washington. I live in Oregon, on the border. Myself, my husband, and our son waited at the emergency room for about 6 hours until Josh's mother was contacted and came in. At this point, Josh is definitely okay. She had a very emotional reaction, and had to be escorted out of the hospital by staff. Basically, yelling at me, my family, the hospital staff, etc. Josh's father then arrives, he and I speak for a moment and he seems upset about the bill. He says that his insurance plan isn't very good. This was roughly 2 months ago and his family has been harassing me to try to get me to pay Josh's hospital bill. The hospital called me and told me that they were told that I'd be paying it; they could not tell me how much it was for due to HIIPA. So I'm not really sure what to do with that information. Apparently Josh has told his parents that he was "not that drunk" and definitely did not need to go to the hospital, and they seem to be buying it. I would think that this would be verifiable by asking the hospital, as he is a minor, but I'm also unsure how HIIPA factors into that. I'm unsure of my liability here. I did make the decision that he needed emergency care, drove him there, and provided the hospital with my information. On the other hand, this is not my child and you generally have to pay for your own kid's fuck ups. I'm having trouble finding good information on this, most of my google searches have turned up individual hospital billing policies or things of that nature. Any advice is appreciated! | 74993eef3071864714305b0feb2c7d66815308a7a19cc15dd085b262b972cbde | [
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Am I liable to pay my son's friend's hospital bill? I brought him to the emergency room. In Oregon/Washington USA. My 14 year old son snuck out and got drunk with some friends. One of his friends ("Josh", also 14) was brought back to our home at 2 AM unconscious and barely breathing. I (at this point) did not have his parent's contact information to notify them, but immediately drove him to the emergency room. I provided the hospital with my information, and made clear the situation. The woman at the front desk was able to pull up my information as I'd be a patient there before. She told me that I would not be sent a bill. Just to be clear here, the hospital is in Oregon, but Josh's family live in Washington. I live in Oregon, on the border. Myself, my husband, and our son waited at the emergency room for about 6 hours until Josh's mother was contacted and came in. At this point, Josh is definitely okay. She had a very emotional reaction, and had to be escorted out of the hospital by staff. Basically, yelling at me, my family, the hospital staff, etc. Josh's father then arrives, he and I speak for a moment and he seems upset about the bill. He says that his insurance plan isn't very good. This was roughly 2 months ago and his family has been harassing me to try to get me to pay Josh's hospital bill. The hospital called me and told me that they were told that I'd be paying it; they could not tell me how much it was for due to HIIPA. So I'm not really sure what to do with that information. Apparently Josh has told his parents that he was "not that drunk" and definitely did not need to go to the hospital, and they seem to be buying it. I would think that this would be verifiable by asking the hospital, as he is a minor, but I'm also unsure how HIIPA factors into that. I'm unsure of my liability here. I did make the decision that he needed emergency care, drove him there, and provided the hospital with my information. On the other hand, this is not my child and you generally have to pay for your own kid's fuck ups. I'm having trouble finding good information on this, most of my google searches have turned up individual hospital billing policies or things of that nature. Any advice is appreciated! | 74993eef3071864714305b0feb2c7d66815308a7a19cc15dd085b262b972cbde | [
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My father is in a tailspin and we need to get him off our Deed and Mortgage Throwaway for obvious reasons. Its been a crazy few weeks. My Dad has parkinsons and has been on meds to increase his dopamine levels. This triggered several delusional, hypersexual episodes. In that time, he sexually assaulted my wife and daughter (his daughter in law and granddaughter, respectively). He has since been admitted to an adult psychiatric facility and we as a family are working with counseling to process this trauma. However we have concerns that he will be released prematurely and we will need to scramble to find him a place to stay. This may mean a nursing home, which we cannot afford out of pocket. The LEGAL issue/question I have is how to best manage our home asset. You see, my parents put a large down payment on our home and moved in with us. Their names are on the Deed and Mortgage note, along with mine and my wife's. My mom has already begun speaking with a lawyer about getting a divorce. But overall, what are some further actions we can take to make sure that no matter what happens to my Dad the rest of us still own this home? Im on mobile so I apologize for any poor wording or incomplete info. If you have addl questions pls ask! | 948b2431ffdd20ef36f73c58ec9f5b73c10780fc912624a9e5376a1e779b6ae8 | [
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My husband and I adopted a baby 14 months ago. Baby's biological father claims he was never notified and is trying to vacate the adoption (MA). We fear he may have a case. Going to try to keep a long story short. Obviously we have an adoption attorney but just looking for some outside advice as well. My husband and I adopted a baby girl (who is now 15 months old) shortly after her birth in 2018. Her biological father had said both in person and in writing to her biological mother that he didn't want anything to do with the baby, and he didn't sign the birth certificate. Per MA state law, the father was notified in writing by the court and was given 4 days to respond after delivery of the paperwork was confirmed. He didn't respond and the child was then freed for adoption. We have an open relationship with the child's biological mother, her older children, and her current partner. We have never heard from the biological father but he'd have been welcome to contact us as well. Now in the present, the biological father has resurfaced. He's claiming that he never got notice that the adoption was happening, that he never said he wouldn't have anything to do with the baby, and that the letter informing him of the adoption was sent to an address that he didn't live at anymore (someone signed for it). He was clear in his petition to vacate the adoption that if he had known that she would be adopted by a same sex couple (us), he definitely wouldn't have signed off on the adoption because it goes against his personal values. Our lawyer pretty much told us to let the court handle it and to NOT alarm the biological mom until we absolutely had to, but admitted to never having dealt with such a situation before. Does anyone know anything about this? Like, realistically, is there a case here? This is our child. We're the only family she's ever known. She's my daughter and I'm in knots at the idea of losing her, especially because we lost an older child to cancer shortly before she was born. | 4e138da53f5254d2d23fdc32945cb16400483b5e1e1764eb283ad84c99dcc53d | [
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[TN] I was fired from my job of 13 years upon returning from short term disability. Now, I am being sued for the cost of a scholarship due to "breach of contract". What happens now and how does the statute of limitations play in (this was 14 months ago)? I considered making a throwaway for this, but I am in desperate need of advice and I am hoping using my real account will increase the visibility of my question. I threw a TL;DR at the end because it's a super long read, but I would love to show my appreciation for any insight/advice by answering any questions you may have about pharmacy/medicine whenever such a need arises on your end (I have an active doctorate in pharmacy)! I worked at a popular retail pharmacy in Tennessee from 2003 - 2016 (13 years) with excellent performance reviews and continuous promotions (no attendance issues as well). I received a scholarship from the company with some fine print in the contract that I must work an equal amount of years at my company as the amount of years I took the scholarship. This was not an issue for me, as this company was my lifelong career plan. In March 2016 (2 years into my ~5 year scholarship/contract), I started having health issues related to some epidural steroid shots/back problems. I went on short term disability from March 2016 through June 2016 due to some bouts with loss of consciousness and incontinence (potential cauda equina). Upon return from short term disability, I was doing fine except for some slight hand tremors. I discovered I was not able to (reliably) give immunizations to patients, and my district manager put me on severely limited hours, based on his interpretation of a newly-updated company policy regarding immunization. While my doctor and I were trying to figure out if these tremors were a short-term or life-long thing, I managed to find my own hours by working across 3 districts, sometimes driving 10-15 hours a week. During this time (June 2016 through August 2016), I felt like my district manager was picking on me for smaller and smaller issues, so I began filing reports with corporate HR. I filed at least 2 reports specifically stating my concern that my district manager was trying to fire me under other/false pretenses because my disability/tremor was inconvenient but (unfortunately for him) was not in itself a fire-able offense. Near the end of August, I came in for a morning shift and almost immediately had to call the district office to get sick coverage for myself (vomiting and diarrhea). My relief arrived and I started to leave for home. The store manager tells me I am not allowed to leave because he had put in a request for me to take a drug test due to me "acting unusual". At this point, I shared with them that I actually needed to go home to clean myself up because I had had a small accident (vomit + diarrhea + desperately trying to hold it in = shart). I would then be happy to report to wherever they wanted me to go, as yes, I probably was behaving *unusual* since it was an *unusual* occurrence for me to sit around with stool in my pants. He told me not to bother with the drug test if I went home first. The next day, the district manager called me to tell me I was being terminated and was not eligible for re-hire for the rest of my life due to failure to comply with the drug test request. I later found out (through friends...not through something provable in court) that the store manager had only requested the drug test because the district manager had heard my call come in to the scheduler for the sick coverage request. The district manager then asked the store manager (whom I had never worked with) to put in a request for a supervised drug test across town. My guess is he knew a humiliating two hour chauffeured and chaperoned ordeal while carrying a bucket to vomit in and reeking of excrement might be something I finally kick back on. I feel lost, helpless, and stupid for deciding to not take action last year. I have always been the type of person that keeps their head down and desperately tries not to make waves no matter how much I get stepped on in the process. I'm sure that it doesn't help on the "speaking up" front that a large portion of my situation revolves around more than one episode of fecal incontinence (rrreeaaallly hoping this ends up being worth not making a throwaway). I really feel like I am in a "fighting city hall" scenario since my ex-employer is one of the top three retail chain pharmacies in the country. So...what is my question/s already? Please weigh in on any or all of the following: To start, some recent background: I work as a teacher now and am not making pharmacist bank anymore. I barely make enough right now to stave off just the interest of my $250,000 federal student loans from pharmacy school. Will I need to bring proof of income/debt or will that even be taken into consideration? How common would it be for a judge to decide guilty but then decide a different amount to be paid? How can I prove I called HR and filed the reports - if I ask for a copy of them do they have to give them to me? I don't really know how to go about getting a lawyer in Northeast Tennessee for this (do I need a disability lawyer? some other kind of lawyer?) and wasn't sure about statute of limitations (I was terminated Aug 30, 2016) and also affordability is an issue here as well (are lawyers' fees income based?). If I sue my ex-employer, is that a separate trial or will it be in the same one coming up for my 'breach of contract"? How hard is it to prove discrimination/wrongful termination in a right to work state? If statute of limitations is over now, what is the best way to handle their suit against me - should I even still get a lawyer? What happens if I say "not guilty", but I don't have a lawyer? There are so many other questions and issues that would make this way too long to type [I never got paid for my short term disability and never got reimbursed for my travel expenses so they technically owed me thousands of dollars during those six months BEFORE I lost my job (probably in the ballpark of $15,000 honestly, but it's been more than a year so does that matter?) and they are suing me for about $15,000 for the scholarship], so please ask me anything that will help you make better sense of this mess! TL;DR After 13 years with a retail pharmacy in Tennessee, I was (wrongfully?) terminated two months after returning from short-term disability and am now being sued for the full cost of a scholarship since being terminated made me unable to comply with their terms. What is the best recourse in a right to work state? (See last paragraph for some possibly related income issues) | 6ba6201f37ac268a75194c1ae7134c62a2f5fadebe69b5c22ae35fcb25d20e25 | [
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[TN] I was fired from my job of 13 years upon returning from short term disability. Now, I am being sued for the cost of a scholarship due to "breach of contract". What happens now and how does the statute of limitations play in (this was 14 months ago)? I considered making a throwaway for this, but I am in desperate need of advice and I am hoping using my real account will increase the visibility of my question. I threw a TL;DR at the end because it's a super long read, but I would love to show my appreciation for any insight/advice by answering any questions you may have about pharmacy/medicine whenever such a need arises on your end (I have an active doctorate in pharmacy)! I worked at a popular retail pharmacy in Tennessee from 2003 - 2016 (13 years) with excellent performance reviews and continuous promotions (no attendance issues as well). I received a scholarship from the company with some fine print in the contract that I must work an equal amount of years at my company as the amount of years I took the scholarship. This was not an issue for me, as this company was my lifelong career plan. In March 2016 (2 years into my ~5 year scholarship/contract), I started having health issues related to some epidural steroid shots/back problems. I went on short term disability from March 2016 through June 2016 due to some bouts with loss of consciousness and incontinence (potential cauda equina). Upon return from short term disability, I was doing fine except for some slight hand tremors. I discovered I was not able to (reliably) give immunizations to patients, and my district manager put me on severely limited hours, based on his interpretation of a newly-updated company policy regarding immunization. While my doctor and I were trying to figure out if these tremors were a short-term or life-long thing, I managed to find my own hours by working across 3 districts, sometimes driving 10-15 hours a week. During this time (June 2016 through August 2016), I felt like my district manager was picking on me for smaller and smaller issues, so I began filing reports with corporate HR. I filed at least 2 reports specifically stating my concern that my district manager was trying to fire me under other/false pretenses because my disability/tremor was inconvenient but (unfortunately for him) was not in itself a fire-able offense. Near the end of August, I came in for a morning shift and almost immediately had to call the district office to get sick coverage for myself (vomiting and diarrhea). My relief arrived and I started to leave for home. The store manager tells me I am not allowed to leave because he had put in a request for me to take a drug test due to me "acting unusual". At this point, I shared with them that I actually needed to go home to clean myself up because I had had a small accident (vomit + diarrhea + desperately trying to hold it in = shart). I would then be happy to report to wherever they wanted me to go, as yes, I probably was behaving *unusual* since it was an *unusual* occurrence for me to sit around with stool in my pants. He told me not to bother with the drug test if I went home first. The next day, the district manager called me to tell me I was being terminated and was not eligible for re-hire for the rest of my life due to failure to comply with the drug test request. I later found out (through friends...not through something provable in court) that the store manager had only requested the drug test because the district manager had heard my call come in to the scheduler for the sick coverage request. The district manager then asked the store manager (whom I had never worked with) to put in a request for a supervised drug test across town. My guess is he knew a humiliating two hour chauffeured and chaperoned ordeal while carrying a bucket to vomit in and reeking of excrement might be something I finally kick back on. I feel lost, helpless, and stupid for deciding to not take action last year. I have always been the type of person that keeps their head down and desperately tries not to make waves no matter how much I get stepped on in the process. I'm sure that it doesn't help on the "speaking up" front that a large portion of my situation revolves around more than one episode of fecal incontinence (rrreeaaallly hoping this ends up being worth not making a throwaway). I really feel like I am in a "fighting city hall" scenario since my ex-employer is one of the top three retail chain pharmacies in the country. So...what is my question/s already? Please weigh in on any or all of the following: To start, some recent background: I work as a teacher now and am not making pharmacist bank anymore. I barely make enough right now to stave off just the interest of my $250,000 federal student loans from pharmacy school. Will I need to bring proof of income/debt or will that even be taken into consideration? How common would it be for a judge to decide guilty but then decide a different amount to be paid? How can I prove I called HR and filed the reports - if I ask for a copy of them do they have to give them to me? I don't really know how to go about getting a lawyer in Northeast Tennessee for this (do I need a disability lawyer? some other kind of lawyer?) and wasn't sure about statute of limitations (I was terminated Aug 30, 2016) and also affordability is an issue here as well (are lawyers' fees income based?). If I sue my ex-employer, is that a separate trial or will it be in the same one coming up for my 'breach of contract"? How hard is it to prove discrimination/wrongful termination in a right to work state? If statute of limitations is over now, what is the best way to handle their suit against me - should I even still get a lawyer? What happens if I say "not guilty", but I don't have a lawyer? There are so many other questions and issues that would make this way too long to type [I never got paid for my short term disability and never got reimbursed for my travel expenses so they technically owed me thousands of dollars during those six months BEFORE I lost my job (probably in the ballpark of $15,000 honestly, but it's been more than a year so does that matter?) and they are suing me for about $15,000 for the scholarship], so please ask me anything that will help you make better sense of this mess! TL;DR After 13 years with a retail pharmacy in Tennessee, I was (wrongfully?) terminated two months after returning from short-term disability and am now being sued for the full cost of a scholarship since being terminated made me unable to comply with their terms. What is the best recourse in a right to work state? (See last paragraph for some possibly related income issues) | 6ba6201f37ac268a75194c1ae7134c62a2f5fadebe69b5c22ae35fcb25d20e25 | [
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[TN] I was fired from my job of 13 years upon returning from short term disability. Now, I am being sued for the cost of a scholarship due to "breach of contract". What happens now and how does the statute of limitations play in (this was 14 months ago)? I considered making a throwaway for this, but I am in desperate need of advice and I am hoping using my real account will increase the visibility of my question. I threw a TL;DR at the end because it's a super long read, but I would love to show my appreciation for any insight/advice by answering any questions you may have about pharmacy/medicine whenever such a need arises on your end (I have an active doctorate in pharmacy)! I worked at a popular retail pharmacy in Tennessee from 2003 - 2016 (13 years) with excellent performance reviews and continuous promotions (no attendance issues as well). I received a scholarship from the company with some fine print in the contract that I must work an equal amount of years at my company as the amount of years I took the scholarship. This was not an issue for me, as this company was my lifelong career plan. In March 2016 (2 years into my ~5 year scholarship/contract), I started having health issues related to some epidural steroid shots/back problems. I went on short term disability from March 2016 through June 2016 due to some bouts with loss of consciousness and incontinence (potential cauda equina). Upon return from short term disability, I was doing fine except for some slight hand tremors. I discovered I was not able to (reliably) give immunizations to patients, and my district manager put me on severely limited hours, based on his interpretation of a newly-updated company policy regarding immunization. While my doctor and I were trying to figure out if these tremors were a short-term or life-long thing, I managed to find my own hours by working across 3 districts, sometimes driving 10-15 hours a week. During this time (June 2016 through August 2016), I felt like my district manager was picking on me for smaller and smaller issues, so I began filing reports with corporate HR. I filed at least 2 reports specifically stating my concern that my district manager was trying to fire me under other/false pretenses because my disability/tremor was inconvenient but (unfortunately for him) was not in itself a fire-able offense. Near the end of August, I came in for a morning shift and almost immediately had to call the district office to get sick coverage for myself (vomiting and diarrhea). My relief arrived and I started to leave for home. The store manager tells me I am not allowed to leave because he had put in a request for me to take a drug test due to me "acting unusual". At this point, I shared with them that I actually needed to go home to clean myself up because I had had a small accident (vomit + diarrhea + desperately trying to hold it in = shart). I would then be happy to report to wherever they wanted me to go, as yes, I probably was behaving *unusual* since it was an *unusual* occurrence for me to sit around with stool in my pants. He told me not to bother with the drug test if I went home first. The next day, the district manager called me to tell me I was being terminated and was not eligible for re-hire for the rest of my life due to failure to comply with the drug test request. I later found out (through friends...not through something provable in court) that the store manager had only requested the drug test because the district manager had heard my call come in to the scheduler for the sick coverage request. The district manager then asked the store manager (whom I had never worked with) to put in a request for a supervised drug test across town. My guess is he knew a humiliating two hour chauffeured and chaperoned ordeal while carrying a bucket to vomit in and reeking of excrement might be something I finally kick back on. I feel lost, helpless, and stupid for deciding to not take action last year. I have always been the type of person that keeps their head down and desperately tries not to make waves no matter how much I get stepped on in the process. I'm sure that it doesn't help on the "speaking up" front that a large portion of my situation revolves around more than one episode of fecal incontinence (rrreeaaallly hoping this ends up being worth not making a throwaway). I really feel like I am in a "fighting city hall" scenario since my ex-employer is one of the top three retail chain pharmacies in the country. So...what is my question/s already? Please weigh in on any or all of the following: To start, some recent background: I work as a teacher now and am not making pharmacist bank anymore. I barely make enough right now to stave off just the interest of my $250,000 federal student loans from pharmacy school. Will I need to bring proof of income/debt or will that even be taken into consideration? How common would it be for a judge to decide guilty but then decide a different amount to be paid? How can I prove I called HR and filed the reports - if I ask for a copy of them do they have to give them to me? I don't really know how to go about getting a lawyer in Northeast Tennessee for this (do I need a disability lawyer? some other kind of lawyer?) and wasn't sure about statute of limitations (I was terminated Aug 30, 2016) and also affordability is an issue here as well (are lawyers' fees income based?). If I sue my ex-employer, is that a separate trial or will it be in the same one coming up for my 'breach of contract"? How hard is it to prove discrimination/wrongful termination in a right to work state? If statute of limitations is over now, what is the best way to handle their suit against me - should I even still get a lawyer? What happens if I say "not guilty", but I don't have a lawyer? There are so many other questions and issues that would make this way too long to type [I never got paid for my short term disability and never got reimbursed for my travel expenses so they technically owed me thousands of dollars during those six months BEFORE I lost my job (probably in the ballpark of $15,000 honestly, but it's been more than a year so does that matter?) and they are suing me for about $15,000 for the scholarship], so please ask me anything that will help you make better sense of this mess! 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Can my mom get in legal trouble if I (17) refuse to go to my last visitation because it interferes with college? We live in Colorado. Bio dad lives out of state I’ll be graduating high school this year but I won’t turn 18 until after college starts. My orientation is not until the end of June, but I’ll still be 17 by then I’ve already told bio dad that it is nonnegotiable that I be in Colorado for my orientation, otherwise I’ll be out nearly a thousand dollars, in debt, and unable to even go to college because that depends on me being able to attend orientation In response to this, he’s said that he is entitled to me every summer and Christmas as he has been for the last ten years. He refused to reschedule the visit because the end of June is the most convenient for him. He said I should have asked him about the visitation dates before scheduling I’ve already looked and the school has no space available for any other orientation sessions. I literally need to attend this specific one and bio dad is refusing to let me So I think I’ll just not go on this visitation. Can my mom get in any serious legal trouble for this? What’s the worst that can happen? This is the last mandatory visit for me, if that changes anything | 62b83d1d813161e3f8887496e3d22c07fef9d6608f3e8159b8111208a60fde8d | [
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Can my mom get in legal trouble if I (17) refuse to go to my last visitation because it interferes with college? We live in Colorado. Bio dad lives out of state I’ll be graduating high school this year but I won’t turn 18 until after college starts. My orientation is not until the end of June, but I’ll still be 17 by then I’ve already told bio dad that it is nonnegotiable that I be in Colorado for my orientation, otherwise I’ll be out nearly a thousand dollars, in debt, and unable to even go to college because that depends on me being able to attend orientation In response to this, he’s said that he is entitled to me every summer and Christmas as he has been for the last ten years. He refused to reschedule the visit because the end of June is the most convenient for him. He said I should have asked him about the visitation dates before scheduling I’ve already looked and the school has no space available for any other orientation sessions. I literally need to attend this specific one and bio dad is refusing to let me So I think I’ll just not go on this visitation. Can my mom get in any serious legal trouble for this? What’s the worst that can happen? This is the last mandatory visit for me, if that changes anything | 62b83d1d813161e3f8887496e3d22c07fef9d6608f3e8159b8111208a60fde8d | [
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Can my mom get in legal trouble if I (17) refuse to go to my last visitation because it interferes with college? We live in Colorado. Bio dad lives out of state I’ll be graduating high school this year but I won’t turn 18 until after college starts. My orientation is not until the end of June, but I’ll still be 17 by then I’ve already told bio dad that it is nonnegotiable that I be in Colorado for my orientation, otherwise I’ll be out nearly a thousand dollars, in debt, and unable to even go to college because that depends on me being able to attend orientation In response to this, he’s said that he is entitled to me every summer and Christmas as he has been for the last ten years. He refused to reschedule the visit because the end of June is the most convenient for him. He said I should have asked him about the visitation dates before scheduling I’ve already looked and the school has no space available for any other orientation sessions. I literally need to attend this specific one and bio dad is refusing to let me So I think I’ll just not go on this visitation. Can my mom get in any serious legal trouble for this? What’s the worst that can happen? This is the last mandatory visit for me, if that changes anything | 62b83d1d813161e3f8887496e3d22c07fef9d6608f3e8159b8111208a60fde8d | [
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(WA) Am I opening myself to any trouble for refusing a good offer on my house? My question is pretty straightforward. I am selling my home and we received around 5 offers in 7 days. I wanna sell it quickly because I’m buying another property. For personal reasons, I do not want to sell my house to the people that made the highest offer. They offered $5 over asking. I want to pick someone else who offered asking price. Am I opening myself to any legal trouble? Can the refused ones sue me for something? Thanks! | 1abc2d0ee1fef69807d2d11f4aca14d2efdbdc303a9eb5a2372bafebe6e2c7dc | [
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My ex told my 10-year-old that she could call her at any time and that I wasn't allowed to stop her from doing so [Massachusetts] Is this legally the case? We have joint custody. My daughter was upset and wanted to call her mom (to complain about me). I said she could after she did her homework (she was upset about me requiring her to go to another room to do it). My daughter yelled that she felt uncomfortable and acted as if she had more authority over the situation because her mother told her this. | 3f512f9527d850f7f141fc437801aa614729890bf5fca55019ee11af101a4fb6 | [
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I privately sold a car, and 2 days later the buyer wants me to pay him back because he found out that the car has many issues. What do i do? I sold a VW Passat 2007 for about $4000 and also mentioned the issues it had. It had an oil leak and that’s it. Today, the buyer says that the car is not drive-able and that the engine is from a junkyard and that the heater core is not there and stuff. I told him that I had no clue about all this and him and his full family came to inspect the car. They all liked it and bought it. Now he’s saying that he is going to sue me over it. I looked up the laws in my state which say that a private sale is a done deal, as long as I have 4 documents. I have them all except the bill of sale. Does he have a legal basis to stand on? | e6e1908a5ce61b58e56428b603b526588a241216f30c73058530b52da6c88f85 | [
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I privately sold a car, and 2 days later the buyer wants me to pay him back because he found out that the car has many issues. What do i do? I sold a VW Passat 2007 for about $4000 and also mentioned the issues it had. It had an oil leak and that’s it. Today, the buyer says that the car is not drive-able and that the engine is from a junkyard and that the heater core is not there and stuff. I told him that I had no clue about all this and him and his full family came to inspect the car. They all liked it and bought it. Now he’s saying that he is going to sue me over it. I looked up the laws in my state which say that a private sale is a done deal, as long as I have 4 documents. I have them all except the bill of sale. Does he have a legal basis to stand on? | e6e1908a5ce61b58e56428b603b526588a241216f30c73058530b52da6c88f85 | [
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I privately sold a car, and 2 days later the buyer wants me to pay him back because he found out that the car has many issues. What do i do? I sold a VW Passat 2007 for about $4000 and also mentioned the issues it had. It had an oil leak and that’s it. Today, the buyer says that the car is not drive-able and that the engine is from a junkyard and that the heater core is not there and stuff. I told him that I had no clue about all this and him and his full family came to inspect the car. They all liked it and bought it. Now he’s saying that he is going to sue me over it. I looked up the laws in my state which say that a private sale is a done deal, as long as I have 4 documents. I have them all except the bill of sale. Does he have a legal basis to stand on? | e6e1908a5ce61b58e56428b603b526588a241216f30c73058530b52da6c88f85 | [
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I privately sold a car, and 2 days later the buyer wants me to pay him back because he found out that the car has many issues. What do i do? I sold a VW Passat 2007 for about $4000 and also mentioned the issues it had. It had an oil leak and that’s it. Today, the buyer says that the car is not drive-able and that the engine is from a junkyard and that the heater core is not there and stuff. I told him that I had no clue about all this and him and his full family came to inspect the car. They all liked it and bought it. Now he’s saying that he is going to sue me over it. I looked up the laws in my state which say that a private sale is a done deal, as long as I have 4 documents. I have them all except the bill of sale. Does he have a legal basis to stand on? | e6e1908a5ce61b58e56428b603b526588a241216f30c73058530b52da6c88f85 | [
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I privately sold a car, and 2 days later the buyer wants me to pay him back because he found out that the car has many issues. What do i do? I sold a VW Passat 2007 for about $4000 and also mentioned the issues it had. It had an oil leak and that’s it. Today, the buyer says that the car is not drive-able and that the engine is from a junkyard and that the heater core is not there and stuff. I told him that I had no clue about all this and him and his full family came to inspect the car. They all liked it and bought it. Now he’s saying that he is going to sue me over it. I looked up the laws in my state which say that a private sale is a done deal, as long as I have 4 documents. I have them all except the bill of sale. Does he have a legal basis to stand on? | e6e1908a5ce61b58e56428b603b526588a241216f30c73058530b52da6c88f85 | [
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I privately sold a car, and 2 days later the buyer wants me to pay him back because he found out that the car has many issues. What do i do? I sold a VW Passat 2007 for about $4000 and also mentioned the issues it had. It had an oil leak and that’s it. Today, the buyer says that the car is not drive-able and that the engine is from a junkyard and that the heater core is not there and stuff. I told him that I had no clue about all this and him and his full family came to inspect the car. They all liked it and bought it. Now he’s saying that he is going to sue me over it. I looked up the laws in my state which say that a private sale is a done deal, as long as I have 4 documents. I have them all except the bill of sale. Does he have a legal basis to stand on? | e6e1908a5ce61b58e56428b603b526588a241216f30c73058530b52da6c88f85 | [
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I privately sold a car, and 2 days later the buyer wants me to pay him back because he found out that the car has many issues. What do i do? I sold a VW Passat 2007 for about $4000 and also mentioned the issues it had. It had an oil leak and that’s it. Today, the buyer says that the car is not drive-able and that the engine is from a junkyard and that the heater core is not there and stuff. I told him that I had no clue about all this and him and his full family came to inspect the car. They all liked it and bought it. Now he’s saying that he is going to sue me over it. I looked up the laws in my state which say that a private sale is a done deal, as long as I have 4 documents. I have them all except the bill of sale. Does he have a legal basis to stand on? | e6e1908a5ce61b58e56428b603b526588a241216f30c73058530b52da6c88f85 | [
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I privately sold a car, and 2 days later the buyer wants me to pay him back because he found out that the car has many issues. What do i do? I sold a VW Passat 2007 for about $4000 and also mentioned the issues it had. It had an oil leak and that’s it. Today, the buyer says that the car is not drive-able and that the engine is from a junkyard and that the heater core is not there and stuff. I told him that I had no clue about all this and him and his full family came to inspect the car. They all liked it and bought it. Now he’s saying that he is going to sue me over it. I looked up the laws in my state which say that a private sale is a done deal, as long as I have 4 documents. I have them all except the bill of sale. Does he have a legal basis to stand on? | e6e1908a5ce61b58e56428b603b526588a241216f30c73058530b52da6c88f85 | [
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I privately sold a car, and 2 days later the buyer wants me to pay him back because he found out that the car has many issues. What do i do? I sold a VW Passat 2007 for about $4000 and also mentioned the issues it had. It had an oil leak and that’s it. Today, the buyer says that the car is not drive-able and that the engine is from a junkyard and that the heater core is not there and stuff. I told him that I had no clue about all this and him and his full family came to inspect the car. They all liked it and bought it. Now he’s saying that he is going to sue me over it. I looked up the laws in my state which say that a private sale is a done deal, as long as I have 4 documents. I have them all except the bill of sale. Does he have a legal basis to stand on? | e6e1908a5ce61b58e56428b603b526588a241216f30c73058530b52da6c88f85 | [
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I privately sold a car, and 2 days later the buyer wants me to pay him back because he found out that the car has many issues. What do i do? I sold a VW Passat 2007 for about $4000 and also mentioned the issues it had. It had an oil leak and that’s it. Today, the buyer says that the car is not drive-able and that the engine is from a junkyard and that the heater core is not there and stuff. I told him that I had no clue about all this and him and his full family came to inspect the car. They all liked it and bought it. Now he’s saying that he is going to sue me over it. I looked up the laws in my state which say that a private sale is a done deal, as long as I have 4 documents. I have them all except the bill of sale. Does he have a legal basis to stand on? | e6e1908a5ce61b58e56428b603b526588a241216f30c73058530b52da6c88f85 | [
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I privately sold a car, and 2 days later the buyer wants me to pay him back because he found out that the car has many issues. What do i do? I sold a VW Passat 2007 for about $4000 and also mentioned the issues it had. It had an oil leak and that’s it. Today, the buyer says that the car is not drive-able and that the engine is from a junkyard and that the heater core is not there and stuff. I told him that I had no clue about all this and him and his full family came to inspect the car. They all liked it and bought it. Now he’s saying that he is going to sue me over it. I looked up the laws in my state which say that a private sale is a done deal, as long as I have 4 documents. I have them all except the bill of sale. Does he have a legal basis to stand on? | e6e1908a5ce61b58e56428b603b526588a241216f30c73058530b52da6c88f85 | [
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I privately sold a car, and 2 days later the buyer wants me to pay him back because he found out that the car has many issues. What do i do? I sold a VW Passat 2007 for about $4000 and also mentioned the issues it had. It had an oil leak and that’s it. Today, the buyer says that the car is not drive-able and that the engine is from a junkyard and that the heater core is not there and stuff. I told him that I had no clue about all this and him and his full family came to inspect the car. They all liked it and bought it. Now he’s saying that he is going to sue me over it. I looked up the laws in my state which say that a private sale is a done deal, as long as I have 4 documents. I have them all except the bill of sale. Does he have a legal basis to stand on? | e6e1908a5ce61b58e56428b603b526588a241216f30c73058530b52da6c88f85 | [
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I privately sold a car, and 2 days later the buyer wants me to pay him back because he found out that the car has many issues. What do i do? I sold a VW Passat 2007 for about $4000 and also mentioned the issues it had. It had an oil leak and that’s it. Today, the buyer says that the car is not drive-able and that the engine is from a junkyard and that the heater core is not there and stuff. I told him that I had no clue about all this and him and his full family came to inspect the car. They all liked it and bought it. Now he’s saying that he is going to sue me over it. I looked up the laws in my state which say that a private sale is a done deal, as long as I have 4 documents. I have them all except the bill of sale. Does he have a legal basis to stand on? | e6e1908a5ce61b58e56428b603b526588a241216f30c73058530b52da6c88f85 | [
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I privately sold a car, and 2 days later the buyer wants me to pay him back because he found out that the car has many issues. What do i do? I sold a VW Passat 2007 for about $4000 and also mentioned the issues it had. It had an oil leak and that’s it. Today, the buyer says that the car is not drive-able and that the engine is from a junkyard and that the heater core is not there and stuff. I told him that I had no clue about all this and him and his full family came to inspect the car. They all liked it and bought it. Now he’s saying that he is going to sue me over it. I looked up the laws in my state which say that a private sale is a done deal, as long as I have 4 documents. I have them all except the bill of sale. Does he have a legal basis to stand on? | e6e1908a5ce61b58e56428b603b526588a241216f30c73058530b52da6c88f85 | [
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I privately sold a car, and 2 days later the buyer wants me to pay him back because he found out that the car has many issues. What do i do? I sold a VW Passat 2007 for about $4000 and also mentioned the issues it had. It had an oil leak and that’s it. Today, the buyer says that the car is not drive-able and that the engine is from a junkyard and that the heater core is not there and stuff. I told him that I had no clue about all this and him and his full family came to inspect the car. They all liked it and bought it. Now he’s saying that he is going to sue me over it. I looked up the laws in my state which say that a private sale is a done deal, as long as I have 4 documents. I have them all except the bill of sale. Does he have a legal basis to stand on? | e6e1908a5ce61b58e56428b603b526588a241216f30c73058530b52da6c88f85 | [
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I privately sold a car, and 2 days later the buyer wants me to pay him back because he found out that the car has many issues. What do i do? I sold a VW Passat 2007 for about $4000 and also mentioned the issues it had. It had an oil leak and that’s it. Today, the buyer says that the car is not drive-able and that the engine is from a junkyard and that the heater core is not there and stuff. I told him that I had no clue about all this and him and his full family came to inspect the car. They all liked it and bought it. Now he’s saying that he is going to sue me over it. I looked up the laws in my state which say that a private sale is a done deal, as long as I have 4 documents. I have them all except the bill of sale. Does he have a legal basis to stand on? | e6e1908a5ce61b58e56428b603b526588a241216f30c73058530b52da6c88f85 | [
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[SC,USA] My friend's mother has dementia but it hasn't been diagnosed yet. She bought a car the other day and she neither drives nor can afford it. Can my buddy void the sale if The doctor diagnoses her and he gets POA? So my buddy's mother lives with him and his wife ever since his dad passed away. Over the last few years she started to become forgetful, and sometimes forget where she is or what year it is. A doctor hasn't diagnosed her with dementia yet, but he has no doubt. The other day she was at the mall and somehow ended up buying $60,000 car with financing through the dealer. She doesn't remember buying the car and they're supposed to deliver in a few days. He goes to the doctor and the doctor diagnoses her with dementia, giving him power of attorney, can he avoid the sale? Apparently in contracts there's something called "capacity" that you need. If she didn't have it at the time, is it valid? | 064bbe47e3c613fd48eb29be75834af07b4f57ca43ec3df921df20ee0703d20c | [
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[SC,USA] My friend's mother has dementia but it hasn't been diagnosed yet. She bought a car the other day and she neither drives nor can afford it. Can my buddy void the sale if The doctor diagnoses her and he gets POA? So my buddy's mother lives with him and his wife ever since his dad passed away. Over the last few years she started to become forgetful, and sometimes forget where she is or what year it is. A doctor hasn't diagnosed her with dementia yet, but he has no doubt. The other day she was at the mall and somehow ended up buying $60,000 car with financing through the dealer. She doesn't remember buying the car and they're supposed to deliver in a few days. He goes to the doctor and the doctor diagnoses her with dementia, giving him power of attorney, can he avoid the sale? Apparently in contracts there's something called "capacity" that you need. If she didn't have it at the time, is it valid? | 064bbe47e3c613fd48eb29be75834af07b4f57ca43ec3df921df20ee0703d20c | [
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[SC,USA] My friend's mother has dementia but it hasn't been diagnosed yet. She bought a car the other day and she neither drives nor can afford it. Can my buddy void the sale if The doctor diagnoses her and he gets POA? So my buddy's mother lives with him and his wife ever since his dad passed away. Over the last few years she started to become forgetful, and sometimes forget where she is or what year it is. A doctor hasn't diagnosed her with dementia yet, but he has no doubt. The other day she was at the mall and somehow ended up buying $60,000 car with financing through the dealer. She doesn't remember buying the car and they're supposed to deliver in a few days. He goes to the doctor and the doctor diagnoses her with dementia, giving him power of attorney, can he avoid the sale? Apparently in contracts there's something called "capacity" that you need. If she didn't have it at the time, is it valid? | 064bbe47e3c613fd48eb29be75834af07b4f57ca43ec3df921df20ee0703d20c | [
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[SC,USA] My friend's mother has dementia but it hasn't been diagnosed yet. She bought a car the other day and she neither drives nor can afford it. Can my buddy void the sale if The doctor diagnoses her and he gets POA? So my buddy's mother lives with him and his wife ever since his dad passed away. Over the last few years she started to become forgetful, and sometimes forget where she is or what year it is. A doctor hasn't diagnosed her with dementia yet, but he has no doubt. The other day she was at the mall and somehow ended up buying $60,000 car with financing through the dealer. She doesn't remember buying the car and they're supposed to deliver in a few days. He goes to the doctor and the doctor diagnoses her with dementia, giving him power of attorney, can he avoid the sale? Apparently in contracts there's something called "capacity" that you need. If she didn't have it at the time, is it valid? | 064bbe47e3c613fd48eb29be75834af07b4f57ca43ec3df921df20ee0703d20c | [
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