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"value": "hi i'm ellie thanks for coming in today"
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"speaker": "Ellie",
"value": "i was created to talk to people in a safe and secure environment"
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"speaker": "Ellie",
"value": "i'm not a therapist but i'm here to learn about people and would love to learn about you i'll ask a few questions to get us started"
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"speaker": "Ellie",
"value": "and please feel free to tell me anything your answers are totally confidential"
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"speaker": "Ellie",
"value": "are you okay with this"
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"value": "yeah"
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"speaker": "Ellie",
"value": "okay"
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"speaker": "Ellie",
"value": "so how are you doing today"
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"speaker": "Participant",
"value": "i'm doing okay"
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"speaker": "Participant",
"value": "how are you doing"
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"speaker": "Ellie",
"value": "that's good"
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"speaker": "Ellie",
"value": "i'm great thanks"
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"speaker": "Ellie",
"value": "where are you from originally"
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"value": "i'm originally from like a suburb <su> a suburb of l_a from the san gabriel valley"
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"speaker": "Ellie",
"value": "really"
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"speaker": "Ellie",
"value": "what are some things you really like about l_a"
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"speaker": "Participant",
"value": "i like the diversity i like the vibe of the city i've lived other places and it's just"
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"value": "not"
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"speaker": "Participant",
"value": "as happy here i feel like i can really thrive here so i just like l_a"
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"speaker": "Ellie",
"value": "mhm"
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"speaker": "Participant",
"value": "like all the things that are so close together then there's a lot of interesting things that totally different parts of the city just miles away from each other"
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"speaker": "Ellie",
"value": "yeah"
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"speaker": "Ellie",
"value": "i see what you mean"
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"speaker": "Ellie",
"value": "what are some things you don't really like about l_a"
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"speaker": "Participant",
"value": "uh"
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"speaker": "Participant",
"value": "don't like the traffic don't like all the cars but i can live with it i mean"
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"value": "there's not that much i don't like"
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"speaker": "Ellie",
"value": "okay"
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"speaker": "Ellie",
"value": "what'd you study at school"
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"value": "i studied music um vocal performance i studied music technology things like that"
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"speaker": "Ellie",
"value": "awesome"
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"speaker": "Ellie",
"value": "are you still working in that"
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"value": "yes"
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"speaker": "Ellie",
"value": "what do you do now"
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"speaker": "Participant",
"value": "right now um i sing in an opera company but my i do have a day job because it doesn't pay that much unless you're actually working for the l_a opera"
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"value": "so i do have a day job i work at a call center that caters mostly to"
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"speaker": "Participant",
"value": "performers and actors and things like that and it's really good because if i get a call i can call in and change my shift very easily"
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"speaker": "Participant",
"value": "so it's actually a pretty good gig"
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"speaker": "Ellie",
"value": "okay"
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"speaker": "Participant",
"value": "and i do some uh technology gigs sometimes you know it's do some recording some live sound stuff but i'm kinda wanna get away from that"
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"speaker": "Participant",
"value": "do some video work sometimes but again i wanna get away from that i wanna go back to the "
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"speaker": "Ellie",
"value": "why"
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"speaker": "Participant",
"value": "because i find that performing more is more interesting i like being talent more than i like being crew <laughter>"
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"value": "so i kinda wanna get away from that side and start working more toward actually doing what i wanna do with my life"
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"speaker": "Ellie",
"value": "okay"
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"speaker": "Ellie",
"value": "do you consider yourself an introvert"
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"speaker": "Participant",
"value": "sometimes i mean per my personal life yeah so i do have a shell that i put out there to deal with people"
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"speaker": "Participant",
"value": "but if i'm at home you know i'd kinda rather just keep to myself or my husband or my cats or whatever talk to family "
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"speaker": "Participant",
"value": "don't really have too many close friends <clears throat> but yeah you know"
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"value": "i'd rather keep to myself"
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"speaker": "Ellie",
"value": "uh huh"
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"speaker": "Ellie",
"value": "how close are you to your family"
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"speaker": "Participant",
"value": "uh moderately close to the family that i have left i've actually lost a lot of family in the last ten years or so"
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"speaker": "Ellie",
"value": "i'm sorry to hear that"
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"speaker": "Participant",
"value": "but like"
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"speaker": "Participant",
"value": "thank you <laughter> but like uh my i'm close to my husband and"
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"speaker": "Participant",
"value": "you know i've got couple of cousins i talk to and my aunt that i have an aunt that i talk to a bit but it's not like we're interacting every day close together "
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"speaker": "Ellie",
"value": "right"
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"speaker": "Participant",
"value": "but it's"
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"speaker": "Participant",
"value": "somewhat close"
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"speaker": "Ellie",
"value": "okay"
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"speaker": "Ellie",
"value": "what do you do to relax"
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"speaker": "Participant",
"value": "mostly i sing or i read or i write or"
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"value": "xxx a trip that i like to take is to make the drive from here to nevada whether i go all the way to vegas or just go to state line"
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