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{
"version": "1.0.0",
"categories": [
{
"id": "core_identity_values",
"name": "Core Identity & Values",
"start": 1,
"end": 5,
"description": "Values, identity, life direction, and moral texture."
},
{
"id": "emotional_attachment",
"name": "Emotional Pattern & Attachment",
"start": 6,
"end": 10,
"description": "How the person bonds, regulates emotion, and receives care."
},
{
"id": "captivating_traits",
"name": "Captivating Traits & Attraction",
"start": 11,
"end": 15,
"description": "The traits that create admiration, desire, and sustained interest."
},
{
"id": "disgust_triggers",
"name": "Disgust Triggers & Deep Dealbreakers",
"start": 16,
"end": 22,
"description": "Strong aversions, hygiene thresholds, moral disgust, habits, and non-negotiable repulsions."
},
{
"id": "conflict_repair",
"name": "Conflict & Repair",
"start": 23,
"end": 26,
"description": "Conflict style, repair needs, accountability, and pressure responses."
},
{
"id": "lifestyle_future",
"name": "Lifestyle & Future",
"start": 27,
"end": 30,
"description": "Daily rhythm, ambition, place, money, family, and long-term practical fit."
},
{
"id": "intimacy_communication",
"name": "Intimacy & Communication",
"start": 31,
"end": 33,
"description": "Affection, communication texture, desire, and vulnerability."
},
{
"id": "safety_boundaries",
"name": "Safety, Boundaries & Readiness",
"start": 34,
"end": 36,
"description": "Relational readiness, boundaries, consent, and the conditions for trust."
},
{
"id": "body_attraction",
"name": "Body-Type & Physical Attraction",
"start": 37,
"end": 40,
"description": "Respectful self-description, body-type preferences, flexibility, and physical attraction alignment."
}
],
"questions": [
{
"id": "q1",
"number": 1,
"categoryId": "core_identity_values",
"prompt": "What are your top five non-negotiable values in life, and what does each one look like in your daily behavior?",
"inputType": "ranked_list",
"weight": 1.25,
"tags": ["values", "identity", "long_term_fit"],
"followUps": [
"Which of these values has cost you something important?",
"Which value would be hardest to compromise in a relationship?"
]
},
{
"id": "q2",
"number": 2,
"categoryId": "core_identity_values",
"prompt": "Describe the kind of life you want to be living in five to ten years.",
"inputType": "long_text",
"weight": 1.1,
"tags": ["future", "ambition", "life_design"],
"followUps": [
"What part of that future feels emotionally necessary, not just nice to have?",
"What would make that future incompatible with a partner?"
]
},
{
"id": "q3",
"number": 3,
"categoryId": "core_identity_values",
"prompt": "What do people who know you well consistently misunderstand about you?",
"inputType": "long_text",
"weight": 1.0,
"tags": ["self_awareness", "identity", "perception"],
"followUps": [
"What do you wish a partner would notice without you having to explain it?",
"How do you react when you feel misread?"
]
},
{
"id": "q4",
"number": 4,
"categoryId": "core_identity_values",
"prompt": "What kind of person do you become when you feel proud of yourself?",
"inputType": "long_text",
"weight": 0.95,
"tags": ["confidence", "character", "growth"],
"followUps": [
"What brings that version of you out most reliably?",
"What kind of partner would support that version?"
]
},
{
"id": "q5",
"number": 5,
"categoryId": "core_identity_values",
"prompt": "What moral lines are you unwilling to cross, even when nobody is watching?",
"inputType": "long_text",
"weight": 1.2,
"tags": ["morality", "trust", "integrity"],
"followUps": [
"Which moral difference would make dating someone impossible?",
"What behavior makes you lose respect quickly?"
]
},
{
"id": "q6",
"number": 6,
"categoryId": "emotional_attachment",
"prompt": "When you start caring about someone, what changes in your behavior?",
"inputType": "long_text",
"weight": 1.0,
"tags": ["attachment", "bonding", "affection"],
"followUps": [
"Do you move closer, get cautious, test the connection, or need reassurance?",
"What do you hope the other person understands about your pace?"
]
},
{
"id": "q7",
"number": 7,
"categoryId": "emotional_attachment",
"prompt": "What makes you feel emotionally safe with someone you are dating?",
"inputType": "long_text",
"weight": 1.25,
"tags": ["emotional_safety", "trust", "attachment"],
"followUps": [
"What does emotional safety sound like in conversation?",
"What breaks safety for you quickly?"
]
},
{
"id": "q8",
"number": 8,
"categoryId": "emotional_attachment",
"prompt": "How do you usually handle loneliness, jealousy, or fear of rejection?",
"inputType": "long_text",
"weight": 1.1,
"tags": ["regulation", "jealousy", "rejection"],
"followUps": [
"What response from a partner helps you regulate without feeling managed?",
"What response makes it worse?"
]
},
{
"id": "q9",
"number": 9,
"categoryId": "emotional_attachment",
"prompt": "What do you need after a hard day: comfort, space, practical help, distraction, touch, conversation, or something else?",
"inputType": "multi_select_with_text",
"weight": 0.95,
"tags": ["care", "support", "daily_life"],
"options": ["Comfort", "Space", "Practical help", "Distraction", "Touch", "Conversation", "Humor", "Quiet presence"],
"followUps": [
"How should someone know which kind of support you need?",
"What well-meant support does not work for you?"
]
},
{
"id": "q10",
"number": 10,
"categoryId": "emotional_attachment",
"prompt": "What relationship pattern are you actively trying not to repeat?",
"inputType": "long_text",
"weight": 1.15,
"tags": ["growth", "history", "readiness"],
"followUps": [
"What are you doing differently now?",
"What should a future partner know about that growth?"
]
},
{
"id": "q11",
"number": 11,
"categoryId": "captivating_traits",
"prompt": "What traits in another person make you feel captivated rather than merely interested?",
"inputType": "ranked_list",
"weight": 1.3,
"tags": ["attraction", "captivating_traits", "desire"],
"followUps": [
"Which trait has surprised you by mattering more over time?",
"Which trait creates immediate curiosity for you?"
]
},
{
"id": "q12",
"number": 12,
"categoryId": "captivating_traits",
"prompt": "What kind of intelligence or competence do you find deeply attractive?",
"inputType": "long_text",
"weight": 1.0,
"tags": ["attraction", "competence", "admiration"],
"followUps": [
"Is it intellectual, emotional, practical, creative, social, physical, or something else?",
"What does that competence look like in real life?"
]
},
{
"id": "q13",
"number": 13,
"categoryId": "captivating_traits",
"prompt": "What style of humor, play, or wit makes you feel close to someone?",
"inputType": "long_text",
"weight": 0.9,
"tags": ["humor", "play", "chemistry"],
"followUps": [
"What kind of humor turns you off?",
"Do you prefer banter, absurdity, dry wit, warmth, teasing, or shared references?"
]
},
{
"id": "q14",
"number": 14,
"categoryId": "captivating_traits",
"prompt": "What makes someone feel magnetic to you in ordinary moments?",
"inputType": "long_text",
"weight": 1.1,
"tags": ["chemistry", "presence", "desire"],
"followUps": [
"Is it how they move, listen, speak, decide, care, notice details, or handle pressure?",
"What ordinary moment has stayed with you?"
]
},
{
"id": "q15",
"number": 15,
"categoryId": "captivating_traits",
"prompt": "What traits do you bring that the right partner tends to find most compelling?",
"inputType": "long_text",
"weight": 1.0,
"tags": ["self_knowledge", "attraction", "reciprocity"],
"followUps": [
"What part of you is easy to miss at first?",
"What kind of person appreciates that trait best?"
]
},
{
"id": "q16",
"number": 16,
"categoryId": "disgust_triggers",
"prompt": "What hygiene or cleanliness habits would make you physically uncomfortable in a partner?",
"inputType": "multi_select_with_text",
"weight": 1.65,
"tags": ["disgust", "hygiene", "hard_filter"],
"options": ["Body odor", "Poor dental hygiene", "Dirty home", "Messy bathroom", "Unwashed bedding", "Pet cleanliness issues", "Food mess", "Ignoring illness hygiene", "Other"],
"followUps": [
"Which of these are mild irritations, and which are true dealbreakers?",
"What standard do you hold yourself to here?"
]
},
{
"id": "q17",
"number": 17,
"categoryId": "disgust_triggers",
"prompt": "What social behaviors create an immediate gut-level aversion for you?",
"inputType": "multi_select_with_text",
"weight": 1.55,
"tags": ["disgust", "social_behavior", "hard_filter"],
"options": ["Rudeness to service workers", "Cruel gossip", "Loud public scenes", "Entitlement", "Chronic lying", "Bragging", "Boundary pushing", "Humiliating humor", "Other"],
"followUps": [
"Which one would make attraction disappear immediately?",
"What makes this behavior feel so wrong to you?"
]
},
{
"id": "q18",
"number": 18,
"categoryId": "disgust_triggers",
"prompt": "What habits around food, drinking, substances, sleep, or body care are incompatible with your attraction?",
"inputType": "multi_select_with_text",
"weight": 1.55,
"tags": ["disgust", "habits", "lifestyle_filters"],
"options": ["Heavy drinking", "Smoking", "Recreational drug use", "Chaotic sleep", "Extremely restricted eating", "No exercise", "Overtraining", "Food pickiness", "Unsafe sex habits", "Other"],
"followUps": [
"Which are negotiable with context?",
"Which would create resentment or disgust over time?"
]
},
{
"id": "q19",
"number": 19,
"categoryId": "disgust_triggers",
"prompt": "What forms of moral or ideological disgust are strongest for you in dating?",
"inputType": "long_text",
"weight": 1.7,
"tags": ["disgust", "morality", "ideology", "hard_filter"],
"followUps": [
"Where is honest disagreement acceptable, and where does it become impossible?",
"What belief or behavior would make you feel unsafe or ashamed to be associated with someone?"
]
},
{
"id": "q20",
"number": 20,
"categoryId": "disgust_triggers",
"prompt": "What sexual, romantic, or intimacy-related behaviors are firm no's for you?",
"inputType": "long_text",
"weight": 1.75,
"tags": ["disgust", "intimacy", "boundaries", "consent", "hard_filter"],
"followUps": [
"What needs explicit conversation before intimacy feels safe?",
"What behavior would permanently break desire?"
]
},
{
"id": "q21",
"number": 21,
"categoryId": "disgust_triggers",
"prompt": "What environments or aesthetics make you feel at ease, and which ones make you want to leave?",
"inputType": "long_text",
"weight": 1.1,
"tags": ["sensory", "environment", "disgust"],
"followUps": [
"Think smells, clutter, noise, lighting, clothing, rooms, restaurants, and social scenes.",
"Which sensory mismatch would wear you down in a relationship?"
]
},
{
"id": "q22",
"number": 22,
"categoryId": "disgust_triggers",
"prompt": "What is a small recurring behavior that could slowly make you lose attraction?",
"inputType": "long_text",
"weight": 1.45,
"tags": ["disgust", "erosion", "micro_dealbreakers"],
"followUps": [
"Why does that behavior accumulate for you?",
"How early should someone know this about you?"
]
},
{
"id": "q23",
"number": 23,
"categoryId": "conflict_repair",
"prompt": "When conflict starts, what is your default move: pursue, withdraw, fix, freeze, explain, joke, escalate, or something else?",
"inputType": "multi_select_with_text",
"weight": 1.2,
"tags": ["conflict", "attachment", "repair"],
"options": ["Pursue", "Withdraw", "Fix", "Freeze", "Explain", "Joke", "Escalate", "Appease", "Ask for time", "Other"],
"followUps": [
"What are you proud of about your conflict style?",
"What part can hurt a partner?"
]
},
{
"id": "q24",
"number": 24,
"categoryId": "conflict_repair",
"prompt": "What does a sincere apology need to include for you to trust it?",
"inputType": "long_text",
"weight": 1.2,
"tags": ["apology", "repair", "trust"],
"followUps": [
"What kind of apology feels empty to you?",
"How quickly do you need repair after conflict?"
]
},
{
"id": "q25",
"number": 25,
"categoryId": "conflict_repair",
"prompt": "What topics tend to become sensitive or charged for you in relationships?",
"inputType": "long_text",
"weight": 1.0,
"tags": ["conflict", "sensitivity", "history"],
"followUps": [
"What helps those topics stay workable?",
"What makes you shut down or overreact?"
]
},
{
"id": "q26",
"number": 26,
"categoryId": "conflict_repair",
"prompt": "How do you want disagreements to end, even when nobody fully changes their mind?",
"inputType": "long_text",
"weight": 1.05,
"tags": ["repair", "communication", "respect"],
"followUps": [
"What tells you that the relationship is still okay?",
"What ending leaves you unsettled?"
]
},
{
"id": "q27",
"number": 27,
"categoryId": "lifestyle_future",
"prompt": "What is your ideal weekly rhythm across work, rest, friends, solitude, health, and romance?",
"inputType": "long_text",
"weight": 1.0,
"tags": ["lifestyle", "rhythm", "compatibility"],
"followUps": [
"Where do you want overlap with a partner?",
"Where do you need independence?"
]
},
{
"id": "q28",
"number": 28,
"categoryId": "lifestyle_future",
"prompt": "How do you think about money, generosity, ambition, and financial security?",
"inputType": "long_text",
"weight": 1.1,
"tags": ["money", "ambition", "security"],
"followUps": [
"What financial behavior would make partnership hard?",
"What does generosity mean to you?"
]
},
{
"id": "q29",
"number": 29,
"categoryId": "lifestyle_future",
"prompt": "What do you want around home, location, travel, children, family involvement, and community?",
"inputType": "long_text",
"weight": 1.3,
"tags": ["future", "family", "home", "children"],
"followUps": [
"Which parts are decided, and which are open?",
"What future mismatch would be unfair to ignore?"
]
},
{
"id": "q30",
"number": 30,
"categoryId": "lifestyle_future",
"prompt": "What health, fitness, spirituality, or personal growth practices do you want a partner to respect?",
"inputType": "long_text",
"weight": 0.95,
"tags": ["health", "spirituality", "growth"],
"followUps": [
"Do you want shared practice or simply respect?",
"What would feel dismissive?"
]
},
{
"id": "q31",
"number": 31,
"categoryId": "intimacy_communication",
"prompt": "How do you give and receive affection when you feel secure?",
"inputType": "multi_select_with_text",
"weight": 1.0,
"tags": ["affection", "love_languages", "intimacy"],
"options": ["Words", "Touch", "Quality time", "Acts of service", "Gifts", "Play", "Practical care", "Shared rituals", "Other"],
"followUps": [
"What affection feels most natural to give?",
"What affection do you quietly crave?"
]
},
{
"id": "q32",
"number": 32,
"categoryId": "intimacy_communication",
"prompt": "What does good communication feel like to you in everyday dating?",
"inputType": "long_text",
"weight": 1.1,
"tags": ["communication", "availability", "expectations"],
"followUps": [
"How much texting or checking in feels right?",
"What communication pattern makes you anxious or annoyed?"
]
},
{
"id": "q33",
"number": 33,
"categoryId": "intimacy_communication",
"prompt": "What helps you feel desired without feeling pressured?",
"inputType": "long_text",
"weight": 1.25,
"tags": ["desire", "consent", "intimacy"],
"followUps": [
"What kind of pace lets attraction build?",
"What signals make desire feel mutual and safe?"
]
},
{
"id": "q34",
"number": 34,
"categoryId": "safety_boundaries",
"prompt": "What boundaries must be respected for you to continue dating someone?",
"inputType": "long_text",
"weight": 1.45,
"tags": ["boundaries", "safety", "consent", "hard_filter"],
"followUps": [
"Which boundary should be known early?",
"How do you communicate a boundary when you are nervous?"
]
},
{
"id": "q35",
"number": 35,
"categoryId": "safety_boundaries",
"prompt": "What are you genuinely ready to offer in a relationship now, and what are you still working on?",
"inputType": "long_text",
"weight": 1.2,
"tags": ["readiness", "accountability", "growth"],
"followUps": [
"What should a partner be able to count on from you?",
"What do you not want to overpromise?"
]
},
{
"id": "q36",
"number": 36,
"categoryId": "safety_boundaries",
"prompt": "If loveGPT could introduce you to only ten people, what would make those ten feel worth your full attention?",
"inputType": "long_text",
"weight": 1.35,
"tags": ["matching_preferences", "quality", "intentionality"],
"followUps": [
"What should the matching system optimize for above raw attraction?",
"What would make you decline a superficially good match?"
]
},
{
"id": "q37",
"number": 37,
"categoryId": "body_attraction",
"prompt": "How would you describe your own body type or build in a respectful, useful way for attraction matching?",
"inputType": "multi_select_with_text",
"weight": 1.0,
"tags": ["body_type", "physical_attraction", "self_description"],
"options": ["Slim", "Average", "Athletic", "Muscular", "Curvy", "Full-figured", "Stocky", "Tall", "Short", "Plus-size", "Prefer to describe in my own words", "Prefer not to label"],
"followUps": [
"What language feels accurate without feeling reductive?",
"What should a future partner understand about how you relate to your body?"
]
},
{
"id": "q38",
"number": 38,
"categoryId": "body_attraction",
"prompt": "What body types, builds, or physical presences are you usually most attracted to in a future match?",
"inputType": "multi_select_with_text",
"weight": 1.2,
"tags": ["desired_body_type", "body_preference", "physical_attraction", "attraction"],
"options": ["Slim", "Average", "Athletic", "Muscular", "Curvy", "Full-figured", "Stocky", "Tall", "Short", "Plus-size", "Soft", "Strong", "No single type", "Open range", "Prefer to describe in my own words"],
"followUps": [
"Which preferences are strong attraction signals, and which are only patterns you have noticed?",
"How much flexibility do you genuinely have here?"
]
},
{
"id": "q39",
"number": 39,
"categoryId": "body_attraction",
"prompt": "Which physical or body-type preferences are genuine attraction needs, and which are nice-to-have but flexible?",
"inputType": "long_text",
"weight": 1.15,
"tags": ["desired_body_type", "body_preference", "flexibility", "attraction_boundaries"],
"followUps": [
"What would be unfair to call a dealbreaker?",
"What preference would be dishonest to pretend does not matter?"
]
},
{
"id": "q40",
"number": 40,
"categoryId": "body_attraction",
"prompt": "How should a partner relate to their body, health, clothing, movement, or fitness for attraction to feel aligned?",
"inputType": "long_text",
"weight": 1.05,
"tags": ["body_type", "health", "style", "physical_attraction", "lifestyle"],
"followUps": [
"Do you need shared habits, mutual respect, confidence, effort, style, or something else?",
"What body-related attitude would reduce attraction even if the physical type matched?"
]
}
]
}