Context-aware SOMA + Update README to show ARI = TEND toolkit

SOMA now pulls body/sensation words from user input:
- "it makes me sick" → "Where do you feel this 'sick' in your body?"
- Scans for 40+ body terms (tight, numb, chest, etc.)
- Falls back to generic check-in if no body words found

README updated:
- Title: "Tend & Send - The ARI Toolkit"
- Clarifies ARI is the suite built around TEND
- Tools listed in rainbow order
- Added WISDOM, removed LISTEN

Co-Authored-By: Claude Opus 4.5 <noreply@anthropic.com>

README.md

@@ -1,35 +1,32 @@
 ---
-title: Tend & Send ARI Prototype
+title: Tend & Send - The ARI Toolkit
 emoji: 💜
-colorFrom: indigo
-colorTo: green
+colorFrom: red
+colorTo: purple
 sdk: docker
 pinned: false
 license: mit
 ---
 
-# Tend & Send - ARI Prototype
+# Tend & Send - The ARI Toolkit
 
-Assistive Relational Intelligence tools for human-to-human connection.
+**ARI (Assistive Relational Intelligence)** is a suite of tools built around TEND - designed to help you show up more fully in difficult conversations.
 
-**These tools exist to support YOUR relationship. ARI never becomes the relationship - it augments human-to-human connection.**
+*These tools exist to support YOUR relationship. ARI never becomes the relationship - it augments human-to-human connection.*
 
-## What This Tool Does
+## The ARI Toolkit
 
-Practice difficult conversations with a simulated partner while using ARI tools to build relational capacity.
-
-### The ARI Toolkit
-
-- **TEND** - Transform messages with NVC clarity and warmth
-- **NVC** - Guided I-statement builder
+- **SEND** - Send your message to your partner
+- **TEND** - Transform your message with clarity and warmth
+- **SOMA** - Body check-in. What does your body know?
 - **FEEL** - Identify feelings in the conversation
 - **NEED** - Extract underlying needs
-- **LISTEN** - Receive mode: hear them before reacting
+- **PRACTICE NVC** - Guided I-statement builder
 - **REPAIR** - Craft genuine repair after ruptures
-- **SOMA** - Body check-in before responding
+- **WISDOM** - Draw from sacred texts and grounded wisdom
 - **LOVE** - Slow down, breathe, return to presence
 
-### Practice Conversations
+## Practice Conversations
 
 - Choose attachment style: Anxious, Avoidant, Disorganized, Secure
 - Set difficulty level: Gentle to Crisis

static/index.html

@@ -1413,7 +1413,15 @@ Real grief, real limits. 1-2 sentences.`
                     inputText = userInput || 'Help me craft a genuine repair.';
                     break;
                 case 'soma':
-                    inputText = 'Guide me through a body check-in.';
+                    // Check for body/sensation words in user's text
+                    const bodyWords = extractBodyWords(userInput);
+                    if (bodyWords.length > 0) {
+                        inputText = `The person wrote: "${userInput}"\n\nThey used the word(s): ${bodyWords.join(', ')}. Lead with this - ask where they feel "${bodyWords[0]}" in their body right now. Be specific and curious about the physical sensation.`;
+                    } else if (userInput) {
+                        inputText = `The person wrote: "${userInput}"\n\nGuide them to notice what's happening in their body as they think about this. Where is there tension, heaviness, or activation?`;
+                    } else {
+                        inputText = 'Guide me through a body check-in. Help me notice what sensations are present.';
+                    }
                     break;
             }
 
@@ -1751,6 +1759,31 @@ Based on the themes in this conversation (conflict, connection, fear, love, boun
         }
 
         // ============================================================================
+        // SOMATIC WORD EXTRACTION
+        // ============================================================================
+        function extractBodyWords(text) {
+            if (!text) return [];
+            const bodyTerms = [
+                // Sensations
+                'sick', 'nauseous', 'queasy', 'tight', 'tense', 'heavy', 'light',
+                'hot', 'cold', 'numb', 'tingling', 'buzzing', 'shaky', 'trembling',
+                'frozen', 'stuck', 'blocked', 'constricted', 'pressure', 'pain',
+                'ache', 'burning', 'churning', 'knotted', 'clenched', 'gripping',
+                // Body parts as sensations
+                'stomach', 'gut', 'chest', 'heart', 'throat', 'shoulders', 'neck', 'jaw',
+                // Breath/energy
+                'can\'t breathe', 'breathless', 'suffocating', 'exhausted', 'drained',
+                'wired', 'jittery', 'restless', 'agitated',
+                // Emotional-somatic
+                'overwhelmed', 'flooded', 'shutting down', 'dissociating', 'disconnected',
+                'on edge', 'wound up', 'keyed up'
+            ];
+
+            const lowerText = text.toLowerCase();
+            const found = bodyTerms.filter(term => lowerText.includes(term));
+            return found;
+        }
+
         // UI HELPERS
         // ============================================================================
         function addMessage(type, content, label = null, isTend = false) {