perf(proxy): gate /debug/tasks stack-depth computation behind query param

Task.get_stack(limit=32) walks coroutine frames synchronously and
measurably stalls the event loop when called for 50+ relay tasks during
a reconnect storm. The /debug/tasks snapshot does not need this by
default — the perf-cheap fields (name, coro_qualname, age, done) are
enough for the common case of "which tasks are alive".

- collect_tasks: add with_stack_depth=False kwarg; default leaves
stack_depth=None per entry.
- /debug/tasks: read ?stack=true query parameter and forward it. Default
response is cheap; opt-in explicitly when human-debugging one snapshot.
- Test: verify default entries have stack_depth=None and that
?stack=true produces at least one integer depth.

headroom/proxy/debug_introspection.py

@@ -113,6 +113,8 @@ def _age_for_named_task(
 
 def collect_tasks(
     ws_registry: WebSocketSessionRegistry | None = None,
+    *,
+    with_stack_depth: bool = False,
 ) -> list[dict[str, Any]]:
     """Enumerate ``asyncio.all_tasks()`` for /debug/tasks.
 
@@ -121,6 +123,12 @@ def collect_tasks(
     and ``done``. Sorted by age descending with ``None`` ages sorted
     after known ages. System noise (``None`` tasks, tasks with no
     coroutine) is filtered out.
+
+    ``stack_depth`` is only computed when ``with_stack_depth=True``
+    because :meth:`asyncio.Task.get_stack` walks coroutine frames and
+    can noticeably stall the event loop during a storm with 50+ relay
+    tasks. The default returns ``stack_depth=None``; callers that need
+    it (a human debugging one snapshot) can pass ``with_stack_depth=True``.
     """
     try:
         tasks = asyncio.all_tasks()
@@ -145,7 +153,7 @@ def collect_tasks(
             "name": name,
             "coro_qualname": qualname,
             "age_seconds": age,
-            "stack_depth": _stack_depth(task),
+            "stack_depth": _stack_depth(task) if with_stack_depth else None,
             "done": bool(task.done()),
         }
         entries.append(entry)

headroom/proxy/server.py

@@ -1335,9 +1335,19 @@ def create_app(config: ProxyConfig | None = None) -> FastAPI:
     from headroom.proxy.loopback_guard import require_loopback as _require_loopback
 
     @app.get("/debug/tasks", dependencies=[Depends(_require_loopback)])
-    async def debug_tasks():
+    async def debug_tasks(stack: bool = False):
+        """Enumerate running asyncio tasks.
+
+        Default is cheap — ``stack_depth`` is ``null`` in every entry so
+        a storm snapshot does not walk 50+ coroutine frames synchronously.
+        Pass ``?stack=true`` to compute ``stack_depth`` for each task
+        (useful for single-shot human debugging).
+        """
         ws_registry = getattr(proxy, "ws_sessions", None)
-        return JSONResponse(status_code=200, content=_collect_tasks(ws_registry))
+        return JSONResponse(
+            status_code=200,
+            content=_collect_tasks(ws_registry, with_stack_depth=stack),
+        )
 
     @app.get("/debug/ws-sessions", dependencies=[Depends(_require_loopback)])
     async def debug_ws_sessions():

tests/test_proxy_debug_endpoints.py

@@ -256,6 +256,37 @@ def test_debug_tasks_returns_json_array_for_loopback(client):
         assert "coro_qualname" in entry
 
 
+def test_debug_tasks_stack_depth_is_gated_behind_query(client):
+    """Default response must not compute stack_depth (P3 Fix 29 perf gate).
+
+    ``?stack=true`` opts into the synchronous ``Task.get_stack`` walk; the
+    default stays cheap so snapshotting during a reconnect storm does
+    not stall the event loop.
+    """
+    default = client.get("/debug/tasks")
+    assert default.status_code == 200
+    for entry in default.json():
+        assert entry["stack_depth"] is None, (
+            f"default /debug/tasks must not compute stack_depth; "
+            f"got {entry['stack_depth']!r} for {entry.get('name')!r}"
+        )
+
+    with_stack = client.get("/debug/tasks?stack=true")
+    assert with_stack.status_code == 200
+    entries = with_stack.json()
+    # At least one entry should have a computed depth (the TestClient
+    # itself runs under a task). Some entries may still be None if
+    # get_stack raised defensively — we only require that opting in
+    # produces at least one integer result.
+    integer_depths = [
+        e["stack_depth"] for e in entries if isinstance(e["stack_depth"], int)
+    ]
+    assert integer_depths, (
+        "expected at least one int stack_depth when ?stack=true; "
+        f"got entries={entries!r}"
+    )
+
+
 def test_debug_warmup_reports_registry_slots(client):
     response = client.get("/debug/warmup")
     assert response.status_code == 200