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No, it was a rude awakening for me. You know, I went there thinking, hey, I'm going to be the next Roger Staubach. And we all did. And then all of a sudden you start to see all these other kids from all over the country. Wow, they're good too. I'd never really run the option before. And they've got guys from the prep ... | <0>2099<0>151<0>1157<0>2094<0>593<0>173<0>173<0>1363<0>779<0>1773<0>173<0>173<0>173<0>1858<0>1773<0>2733<0>850<0>561<0>3899<0>2578<0>1636<0>2187<0>2875<0>2284<0>691<0>1157<0>1858<0>1171<0>3997<0>2716<0>2525<0>2525<0>3556<0>2375<0>553<0>746<0>313<0>386<0>1171<0>2773<0>746<0>3748<0>3404<0>2748<0>379<0>850<0>3791<0>3404<0... |
So next thing you know, I'm getting moved to wide receiver and getting moved to safety. Then I'm getting moved to linebacker and I have to figure out how to play these positions. And it was one of the best lessons I ever learned as a young man where I had to make a decision. I'm going to contribute to this team. I'm n... | <0>1828<0>1132<0>3002<0>3585<0>746<0>3405<0>368<0>3176<0>368<0>1773<0>652<0>3894<0>2935<0>756<0>492<0>679<0>3067<0>2735<0>516<0>1190<0>1449<0>3556<0>386<0>2799<0>679<0>3075<0>1671<0>492<0>368<0>22<0>2734<0>368<0>3839<0>3176<0>318<0>151<0>746<0>151<0>3670<0>1671<0>826<0>2934<0>492<0>3899<0>151<0>3373<0>2715<0>3748<0>286... |
Some of the best contributions I can make as a leader are to help mentally prepare the younger guys to play. So my senior year I was competing for the starting outside linebacker position. | <0>3210<0>1587<0>1579<0>191<0>2135<0>746<0>1444<0>1419<0>1944<0>2748<0>2284<0>386<0>3861<0>386<0>368<0>3176<0>3382<0>1095<0>2332<0>644<0>1835<0>1941<0>3585<0>3176<0>243<0>3556<0>368<0>3405<0>3096<0>1118<0>231<0>3079<0>1701<0>553<0>54<0>3972<0>1569<0>3754<0>2834<0>3899<0>259<0>2960<0>2158<0>2716<0>3096<0>3927<0>3235<0>3... |
And we had this young kid named Bobby McLaren, who was an animal. | <0>1108<0>2830<0>229<0>779<0>3096<0>368<0>3556<0>369<0>1007<0>2075<0>2497<0>553<0>2875<0>304<0>361<0>819<0>2053<0>83<0>1409<0>1328<0>2221<0>3943<0>3032<0>3402<0>1418<0>1950<0>1287<0>2952<0>789<0>1989<0>1675<0>3305<0>1858<0>1842<0>3593<0>2029<0>365<0>368<0>553<0>580<0>690<0>3981<0>2068<0>2068<0>2068<0>2068<0>2068<0>3981... |
Alright, so I'm a senior, I'm gonna help this kid out. And we're in two-a-days and I'm competing for the starting job and I'm helping this kid out who's third string. And he's getting frustrated and then all of a sudden he starts to get it. | <0>949<0>2288<0>279<0>279<0>1190<0>3556<0>1205<0>2008<0>1820<0>22<0>2208<0>280<0>192<0>553<0>644<0>1099<0>4049<0>1449<0>3447<0>3923<0>2199<0>2525<0>2440<0>3556<0>1190<0>2221<0>1738<0>391<0>2572<0>3614<0>714<0>2475<0>1500<0>279<0>3953<0>967<0>3079<0>2525<0>279<0>2485<0>2948<0>3556<0>2525<0>691<0>3451<0>580<0>3134<0>3556... |
And he's starting to grasp on. And slowly but surely I could see this kid taking not only my job, but the job of the guy who was ahead of me who I was competing with. And, you know, the bottom line was, | <0>1206<0>3353<0>491<0>3782<0>941<0>289<0>3187<0>3972<0>3402<0>3899<0>2594<0>327<0>2748<0>1777<0>789<0>738<0>2957<0>2870<0>114<0>1022<0>1703<0>3927<0>2550<0>313<0>3541<0>386<0>3055<0>433<0>932<0>3020<0>553<0>386<0>368<0>729<0>368<0>386<0>368<0>850<0>368<0>1206<0>3096<0>386<0>368<0>386<0>1190<0>2819<0>890<0>1773<0>3359<... |
Is I had to find a way to contribute value to the team. Obviously I was a special teams contributor, but leadership was going to be the biggest thing I contributed. | <0>2589<0>3405<0>2525<0>967<0>1850<0>967<0>3295<0>1944<0>1944<0>2872<0>691<0>2323<0>2144<0>1773<0>3618<0>2185<0>492<0>3082<0>623<0>1022<0>1938<0>386<0>3143<0>3637<0>1190<0>151<0>684<0>294<0>3143<0>553<0>2787<0>1773<0>386<0>729<0>3176<0>3378<0>729<0>1730<0>1569<0>1569<0>2485<0>2734<0>1773<0>22<0>3850<0>2715<0>2773<0>379... |
And, and that made me a very valuable member of the team that season. And it taught me great lessons moving forward, both in the Marine Corps and especially now in my job. If you aren't finding a way to add value to your organization, to your team every day, then you're wasting time. You're wasting money and somebody'... | <0>3114<0>148<0>1730<0>553<0>553<0>2152<0>2494<0>553<0>3488<0>1944<0>2958<0>3574<0>1485<0>368<0>368<0>368<0>3176<0>1171<0>386<0>561<0>553<0>3447<0>561<0>151<0>561<0>2703<0>2715<0>368<0>1858<0>895<0>1254<0>3894<0>3447<0>1575<0>1569<0>3894<0>3008<0>3837<0>729<0>3585<0>2769<0>2152<0>2099<0>75<0>2010<0>701<0>75<0>3447<0>96... |
Somebody will come along and take that spot. I don't care how successful you get. | <0>948<0>759<0>3927<0>3045<0>3899<0>596<0>850<0>3999<0>3348<0>3899<0>4009<0>2094<0>3782<0>3987<0>386<0>1123<0>3585<0>3008<0>1500<0>1938<0>366<0>2436<0>3348<0>2708<0>1597<0>1180<0>2460<0>618<0>1842<0>2323<0>2323<0>1444<0>3045<0>22<0>3195<0>1118<0>3861<0>3861<0>779<0>2187<0>368<0>967<0>1415<0>3015<0>3263<0>2068<0>2068<0>... |
You can't take life for granted. Every day you gotta add value. I learned that lesson early and my football coach, my linebacker coach liked me the most. I was his favorite guy and he would admit that to me in our personal meetings. | <0>2029<0>369<0>593<0>613<0>2323<0>3096<0>1273<0>3405<0>2887<0>3405<0>368<0>369<0>3598<0>144<0>368<0>1944<0>1007<0>3404<0>492<0>2703<0>2848<0>3861<0>3114<0>3114<0>431<0>433<0>3079<0>1444<0>252<0>553<0>368<0>386<0>368<0>2715<0>2345<0>1944<0>2716<0>361<0>1850<0>4074<0>967<0>368<0>679<0>631<0>3869<0>2822<0>1732<0>3447<0>1... |
But at the end of the day, he told me, Brian, I get paid, I feed my family to put the best players on the field who are going to help us win games. I really wish that was you right now. But it's not. | <0>1748<0>1022<0>368<0>1363<0>2668<0>3556<0>1363<0>3914<0>2470<0>3556<0>972<0>1540<0>1540<0>1079<0>2567<0>75<0>2506<0>3155<0>4009<0>4009<0>2894<0>366<0>898<0>746<0>1190<0>967<0>3405<0>2734<0>2190<0>2633<0>1175<0>2734<0>2588<0>3227<0>967<0>3861<0>3453<0>2440<0>2525<0>2668<0>2668<0>3899<0>691<0>2453<0>1944<0>2049<0>967<0... |
You gotta be able to receive that information and find a way to get better. | <0>1108<0>2433<0>148<0>386<0>15<0>1773<0>2733<0>2769<0>368<0>1858<0>1500<0>1715<0>3840<0>3082<0>3045<0>776<0>3405<0>3155<0>2144<0>2323<0>776<0>776<0>1944<0>3899<0>2703<0>967<0>3556<0>3002<0>368<0>746<0>1944<0>3972<0>1569<0>553<0>1858<0>492<0>492<0>1190<0>2375<0>368<0>3199<0>77<0>3096<0>368<0>2481<0>3894<0>1085<0>3509<0... |
I still remember, you know, back then at the Naval Academy, we had what was called instant messenger. And so you could leave an away message, you know, on your instant messenger. And we did our fourth quarter drills. I remember our starting defensive end, Pete Butemiller. He left in his away message. He said, today I ... | <0>2191<0>3899<0>2557<0>379<0>2323<0>2323<0>1555<0>2588<0>3295<0>1157<0>492<0>2054<0>2675<0>492<0>83<0>3359<0>2410<0>2703<0>492<0>484<0>327<0>4077<0>1805<0>3762<0>3973<0>3762<0>77<0>368<0>1328<0>3509<0>1190<0>4074<0>936<0>3096<0>553<0>368<0>3176<0>718<0>1135<0>3622<0>919<0>553<0>492<0>746<0>553<0>493<0>1442<0>553<0>746... |
It was brutal and they screamed at us repeatedly, no wonder you went 0-11. We were a Naval Academy football team and the previous coach had let discipline just run awry. | <0>3199<0>2485<0>64<0>3079<0>535<0>3447<0>3899<0>1910<0>932<0>746<0>151<0>368<0>2323<0>3927<0>1582<0>3899<0>506<0>279<0>746<0>779<0>2525<0>776<0>1525<0>526<0>1773<0>746<0>83<0>3592<0>3861<0>386<0>1701<0>2799<0>1485<0>1858<0>492<0>493<0>1797<0>1484<0>1118<0>2485<0>1730<0>690<0>3348<0>1973<0>1200<0>83<0>3840<0>374<0>3373... |
You know, both on the field, in practice, in the weight room, in films, you could be hurt all week still starting the game. | <0>75<0>3176<0>679<0>1579<0>3135<0>144<0>443<0>1777<0>898<0>1118<0>2060<0>1779<0>1730<0>368<0>3235<0>3943<0>3107<0>3585<0>1076<0>1485<0>1500<0>3782<0>2716<0>2012<0>386<0>3045<0>1537<0>553<0>3155<0>2525<0>3305<0>1858<0>369<0>3057<0>2748<0>3057<0>3670<0>3096<0>1022<0>437<0>561<0>3373<0>3067<0>3096<0>3556<0>386<0>2497<0>2... |
The things that are essential for a military academy team to win. I mean, you, you've got to be in better shape than the other team and you've got to commit less mental errors because physically you're never really going to match up. And we were making that error and, and from all that chaos. | <0>2840<0>2525<0>3453<0>967<0>1363<0>3060<0>3927<0>3987<0>2735<0>2958<0>2208<0>2525<0>2525<0>3046<0>1683<0>3447<0>3195<0>898<0>1238<0>3373<0>3791<0>3235<0>1850<0>553<0>252<0>553<0>1609<0>3447<0>1022<0>3176<0>212<0>2769<0>919<0>679<0>1579<0>1579<0>1858<0>553<0>3008<0>908<0>566<0>2288<0>2605<0>2779<0>2739<0>1526<0>3176<0... |
One of the real amazing things I learned from those coaches. | <0>998<0>1769<0>304<0>3551<0>1118<0>3559<0>290<0>1022<0>1485<0>3153<0>2506<0>3574<0>1899<0>3079<0>562<0>3079<0>3079<0>2474<0>774<0>2178<0>1329<0>464<0>3840<0>3134<0>1022<0>3046<0>3405<0>2525<0>151<0>3096<0>368<0>2703<0>824<0>3828<0>1484<0>1569<0>898<0>1118<0>2748<0>1768<0>1526<0>492<0>3592<0>746<0>2799<0>386<0>1445<0>3... |
Who that staff is basically still there today. Coach Neha Matalolo was the offensive coordinator. When Johnson left, he's now the head coach. But they taught me. | <0>2799<0>492<0>2525<0>967<0>1009<0>1444<0>2453<0>2470<0>595<0>3899<0>3079<0>2525<0>2935<0>3556<0>3680<0>243<0>3405<0>491<0>1118<0>1118<0>967<0>1105<0>368<0>2375<0>3868<0>83<0>1858<0>3002<0>368<0>746<0>1902<0>2298<0>3235<0>3943<0>3235<0>144<0>492<0>492<0>1773<0>368<0>2748<0>1500<0>426<0>2769<0>1738<0>1645<0>2510<0>3691... |
And as leaders to expect excellence every single drill. | <0>3785<0>1944<0>1190<0>2330<0>3437<0>3235<0>666<0>668<0>368<0>12<0>1449<0>307<0>3693<0>3637<0>593<0>3131<0>1828<0>91<0>729<0>2309<0>1525<0>559<0>148<0>2984<0>3515<0>1042<0>2453<0>1484<0>3328<0>1205<0>3210<0>1108<0>1067<0>3295<0>3328<0>2054<0>2485<0>1449<0>22<0>1835<0>1007<0>1118<0>2323<0>2348<0>1569<0>1883<0>3981<0>39... |
Every film session, every weight room session, every conditioning, there is a standard. You either meet the standard or you don't meet the standard. And if you don't meet the standard, there are consequences. There's remediation. There's ways that you have to fix it because this is the only thing that's good enough. I... | <0>193<0>3082<0>3079<0>850<0>1701<0>593<0>2070<0>2525<0>3002<0>3915<0>3556<0>3320<0>1730<0>2748<0>561<0>361<0>1858<0>2323<0>3113<0>151<0>2525<0>3821<0>3376<0>700<0>765<0>2716<0>840<0>1941<0>2708<0>2506<0>1532<0>368<0>3556<0>2773<0>3535<0>553<0>3015<0>115<0>115<0>75<0>919<0>3447<0>2748<0>2525<0>22<0>3045<0>3850<0>368<0>... |
And when, when you take that mentality as an officer to what you're doing in the field to train 160 Marines to go to combat. | <0>3176<0>2525<0>1525<0>368<0>2627<0>690<0>386<0>1309<0>386<0>3861<0>3861<0>3405<0>1944<0>3405<0>539<0>3045<0>2431<0>593<0>1123<0>2462<0>967<0>1190<0>898<0>374<0>368<0>2594<0>362<0>1038<0>1071<0>2051<0>2004<0>1356<0>2525<0>2525<0>3404<0>898<0>1500<0>3079<0>2525<0>593<0>19<0>1071<0>1108<0>4095<0>1748<0>1108<0>3837<0>492... |
But that, that, that holds true in business, it holds true in anything. There is a standard and if you, if you accept below that standard just once, that sets a precedent. | <0>983<0>782<0>967<0>3914<0>889<0>3349<0>2107<0>395<0>2035<0>437<0>1995<0>593<0>666<0>1526<0>3405<0>35<0>2860<0>3348<0>1095<0>151<0>2525<0>2525<0>2525<0>593<0>1645<0>895<0>2769<0>1405<0>35<0>313<0>3348<0>553<0>967<0>3060<0>3753<0>1523<0>1377<0>919<0>967<0>1910<0>110<0>491<0>22<0>3668<0>3155<0>379<0>3530<0>2708<0>2161<0... |
That could lead to what happened before he got there. And, and I've, I've gone back to the Naval Academy repeatedly and I've talked to the team. I actually talked to the junior class every single year. And one of the things I always tell those coaches, uh, I, | <0>1108<0>3045<0>1944<0>386<0>148<0>2506<0>368<0>369<0>2525<0>3348<0>3082<0>1190<0>644<0>366<0>3528<0>3972<0>2199<0>68<0>43<0>2187<0>2187<0>2163<0>3443<0>466<0>403<0>2641<0>2573<0>738<0>3299<0>366<0>2999<0>2582<0>2398<0>3585<0>553<0>3585<0>1123<0>1121<0>644<0>1835<0>1729<0>3899<0>1442<0>1007<0>898<0>593<0>2645<0>1190<0... |
Gentlemen, you guys are putting out a better product as officers because you're here. Your job is to put forth a great football team, but I promise you, and the staff at the Naval Academy, the officers, they see it too. | <0>2563<0>3899<0>2956<0>2799<0>2824<0>464<0>1013<0>133<0>2010<0>2187<0>779<0>967<0>691<0>3748<0>2222<0>3832<0>1747<0>2778<0>2396<0>1902<0>3946<0>1738<0>915<0>3667<0>426<0>3165<0>3443<0>1981<0>2683<0>2161<0>1022<0>365<0>75<0>809<0>173<0>2799<0>1675<0>348<0>484<0>1902<0>2332<0>2868<0>3658<0>755<0>1748<0>1108<0>1950<0>370... |
They are making better leaders because of what they're doing on the football field. Before they got there, that wasn't happening. What was happening on the football field is making, making us worse officers. And so I, I still hold true. He now coaches, Paul Johnson coaches at Georgia Tech now. | <0>2525<0>368<0>1472<0>898<0>2703<0>3894<0>3821<0>368<0>148<0>2185<0>493<0>648<0>3447<0>1190<0>3987<0>3828<0>3305<0>1022<0>850<0>1303<0>850<0>3378<0>3693<0>3693<0>2129<0>386<0>3235<0>3898<0>3809<0>1063<0>3999<0>2252<0>2799<0>3509<0>652<0>2799<0>1007<0>1422<0>1518<0>1500<0>2115<0>3898<0>1238<0>1944<0>1484<0>922<0>3295<0... |
He brought me down to speak to the team a couple of years ago, and we had some great conversations, but I mean, he's still, he's still that same guy, still thinks he can beat me up. Coach. | <0>919<0>679<0>2735<0>1569<0>386<0>553<0>898<0>2348<0>368<0>3002<0>2826<0>919<0>2830<0>2099<0>403<0>1710<0>3894<0>2299<0>2799<0>484<0>144<0>386<0>553<0>3447<0>368<0>686<0>746<0>3404<0>611<0>1779<0>115<0>3199<0>361<0>492<0>368<0>746<0>2522<0>729<0>1442<0>3067<0>386<0>2716<0>2748<0>3404<0>1190<0>3850<0>1730<0>2734<0>3176... |
I get it, and I'm not asking you in front of your teammates. You always say you can whoop me. You have to realize now there's not a chance. | <0>2525<0>386<0>368<0>2935<0>1773<0>2375<0>1516<0>556<0>1011<0>746<0>3082<0>593<0>3899<0>1905<0>2375<0>3082<0>3484<0>2144<0>3096<0>553<0>593<0>1850<0>3791<0>553<0>252<0>2525<0>3176<0>3541<0>3585<0>2161<0>3195<0>3230<0>936<0>714<0>1079<0>3176<0>386<0>3887<0>3489<0>3821<0>3235<0>2323<0>1798<0>1444<0>2734<0>2563<0>386<0>1... |
That's life. I mean, you know, at that point, especially then, that is, that is your world. That is your life. | <0>2187<0>2769<0>3135<0>3791<0>2734<0>1944<0>593<0>1382<0>1335<0>1145<0>3803<0>714<0>3480<0>3096<0>1710<0>895<0>3821<0>374<0>1773<0>1737<0>379<0>2082<0>2645<0>1500<0>151<0>2525<0>2525<0>3480<0>776<0>1445<0>368<0>151<0>776<0>967<0>1171<0>1485<0>967<0>967<0>3374<0>3875<0>3096<0>2525<0>967<0>3713<0>3556<0>3556<0>3809<0>17... |
The military is so unique in that other jobs you can leave at 5pm, 6pm, whenever you go home from work, hey I am no longer an accountant, now I'm Jimmy, now I'm Sarah, now I'm whomever, right? But in the military, if you're bad at your job, you're a bad person. That's kinda how you're looked at. | <0>3762<0>1108<0>1526<0>1022<0>593<0>3834<0>1362<0>1190<0>967<0>553<0>1449<0>729<0>3927<0>1118<0>386<0>1022<0>3585<0>2379<0>1654<0>2187<0>437<0>403<0>701<0>748<0>701<0>701<0>75<0>3585<0>2185<0>1022<0>729<0>1944<0>1105<0>3198<0>1428<0>1108<0>465<0>1145<0>1649<0>1007<0>1118<0>3295<0>3295<0>716<0>3405<0>3447<0>691<0>2748<... |
And, and I always tell this story when people look at me like I'm crazy. I tell them this story. | <0>4048<0>1306<0>2525<0>368<0>1725<0>368<0>3002<0>2657<0>3290<0>3114<0>3762<0>3762<0>3726<0>3052<0>1444<0>279<0>1363<0>729<0>2525<0>3235<0>3045<0>3850<0>3447<0>690<0>1328<0>1730<0>3861<0>895<0>1441<0>144<0>4074<0>3464<0>2525<0>1321<0>967<0>2748<0>1320<0>2332<0>484<0>2838<0>2563<0>148<0>872<0>1335<0>3003<0>3003<0>4095<0... |
Had a marine named James Brown, no affiliation with the famous person. And James is a great marine, he was a tough, tough kid. And... | <0>2830<0>967<0>2323<0>3235<0>484<0>690<0>679<0>3585<0>1238<0>3556<0>553<0>1579<0>2875<0>1442<0>691<0>3443<0>2569<0>679<0>492<0>593<0>1118<0>1579<0>2161<0>850<0>3907<0>191<0>1277<0>1022<0>3280<0>1127<0>1442<0>3894<0>662<0>3526<0>3861<0>1730<0>3008<0>3134<0>2875<0>1480<0>3990<0>2705<0>1277<0>114<0>3620<0>1900<0>634<0>26... |
He was in a machine gun post, uh, watching over a main avenue of approach. And his job was to make sure that it stayed clear. He had the best optics, keep it clear of IEDs, make sure nobody plants an IED there. And everything was bulletproof around him except for the one slit where the 240 Golf went through. And | <0>3466<0>3781<0>919<0>1022<0>1022<0>317<0>729<0>3668<0>3525<0>2597<0>1108<0>3353<0>696<0>3574<0>3376<0>3376<0>3457<0>3176<0>1858<0>3813<0>122<0>1094<0>229<0>2191<0>3592<0>3066<0>977<0>3762<0>3762<0>1108<0>3003<0>3762<0>3762<0>1748<0>3299<0>2799<0>1579<0>3135<0>691<0>1472<0>2734<0>527<0>3029<0>1007<0>492<0>2898<0>1973<... |
It was hot. 125 degrees. And people always ask me, why are the Marines so extreme? When you make statements like that, discipline, commitment, they're everything. Everything has to be perfect. I tell them this story. It got hot. | <0>3762<0>3007<0>1022<0>2525<0>1334<0>2832<0>2332<0>3797<0>3540<0>2590<0>2612<0>3762<0>2987<0>2053<0>3486<0>2823<0>3176<0>2748<0>3828<0>1730<0>348<0>2799<0>679<0>3359<0>3509<0>561<0>2830<0>494<0>2036<0>4095<0>2036<0>3300<0>1875<0>2398<0>3681<0>368<0>756<0>553<0>1206<0>1730<0>1442<0>2474<0>1007<0>967<0>967<0>2525<0>2594... |
James leaned against the rifle to get a little breeze through that slit. And that moment got shot in the head by a sniper and died. It was an amazing shot. When we went up there and looked at where, I mean, | <0>2437<0>3457<0>151<0>2769<0>1484<0>2769<0>2506<0>2161<0>3096<0>3927<0>562<0>1238<0>2471<0>850<0>2748<0>3168<0>797<0>77<0>919<0>3585<0>144<0>2339<0>3348<0>1238<0>2799<0>229<0>2161<0>403<0>3378<0>1685<0>3720<0>1245<0>562<0>866<0>2395<0>515<0>3003<0>3003<0>3003<0>3726<0>133<0>2353<0>2875<0>1730<0>882<0>2200<0>2185<0>895... |
In Iraq, they had some very, very good snipers, as we know. Right? But in that one split moment, I lost that Marine. | <0>2437<0>2657<0>3405<0>3448<0>1190<0>3899<0>1525<0>3082<0>3414<0>850<0>368<0>1525<0>1773<0>22<0>1526<0>703<0>561<0>1401<0>3999<0>386<0>3082<0>2703<0>2716<0>2769<0>3910<0>746<0>1944<0>3541<0>746<0>2769<0>1442<0>1022<0>368<0>1157<0>1902<0>2730<0>2106<0>1649<0>75<0>2099<0>3882<0>2205<0>1145<0>1335<0>1335<0>3762<0>4066<0>... |
And everything we do, everything you do to perfection, that's why. You demand perfection in everything you do because you are so afraid that they're not gonna come home alive. And I had to tell my Marines this one time, they were lacking in some of their standards. This is in Iraq. I made them stay in uniform inspecti... | <0>2029<0>2161<0>2278<0>1501<0>379<0>951<0>2485<0>949<0>1273<0>3079<0>850<0>3155<0>368<0>313<0>1010<0>3542<0>1560<0>3155<0>3861<0>369<0>779<0>3082<0>374<0>3899<0>3195<0>3447<0>2716<0>850<0>1710<0>3320<0>75<0>1022<0>2525<0>1190<0>3899<0>3927<0>1238<0>1484<0>1777<0>4074<0>3613<0>919<0>386<0>1206<0>3447<0>1073<0>919<0>151... |
Imagine their attitude as I made them stand three uniform inspections a day. And they were so mad. But in leadership, you can't do something like that without telling them the why. They're not gonna buy it, they're just gonna hate you now. And I told them, I said, listen guys, | <0>2026<0>2075<0>593<0>776<0>2734<0>22<0>3280<0>3045<0>1190<0>1190<0>2284<0>3922<0>3155<0>386<0>3861<0>3447<0>3134<0>3585<0>2634<0>1944<0>2563<0>3176<0>3637<0>679<0>561<0>386<0>2748<0>2872<0>915<0>2769<0>3910<0>2471<0>1042<0>2563<0>3637<0>3637<0>212<0>2578<0>3275<0>4048<0>631<0>2398<0>701<0>1206<0>3176<0>386<0>3348<0>7... |
We're not strapping down our ammo in the Humvees well enough. We're not cleaning our weapons right after a mission like we should be. Not wearing our uniforms when we get back to camp because you think you're so cool because you've been in a bunch of firefights. If we don't do the little things right, it's gonna affec... | <0>88<0>2748<0>3748<0>2734<0>967<0>553<0>1944<0>1941<0>361<0>1981<0>3899<0>3045<0>1166<0>967<0>652<0>3509<0>623<0>3899<0>2348<0>3777<0>729<0>173<0>2541<0>1118<0>3840<0>1309<0>2830<0>148<0>2199<0>2799<0>3404<0>1973<0>2594<0>789<0>3614<0>2569<0>1649<0>3348<0>3748<0>425<0>3151<0>561<0>3155<0>1525<0>3447<0>3809<0>3443<0>37... |
Therefore, I'm gonna do these uniform inspections until all of these things are fixed. Permanently. | <0>744<0>3134<0>368<0>1472<0>580<0>3067<0>3067<0>1039<0>691<0>1190<0>3079<0>3079<0>3155<0>3155<0>368<0>3405<0>368<0>3556<0>151<0>2748<0>2748<0>1111<0>2152<0>2826<0>382<0>2708<0>838<0>3378<0>3361<0>632<0>2185<0>553<0>3096<0>2336<0>2675<0>2062<0>3248<0>259<0>782<0>234<0>368<0>2506<0>3046<0>2029<0>1730<0>1485<0>3660<0>43<... |
And I am totally fine with you hating me right now. | <0>745<0>553<0>978<0>2332<0>850<0>1773<0>2158<0>1079<0>2398<0>2010<0>1118<0>231<0>279<0>1995<0>2588<0>1944<0>3927<0>1902<0>691<0>3359<0>1409<0>3882<0>1875<0>115<0>634<0>1108<0>492<0>368<0>3176<0>1730<0>368<0>1858<0>1944<0>2323<0>850<0>703<0>1273<0>3637<0>760<0>3183<0>1376<0>2205<0>1145<0>1145<0>1346<0>327<0>3447<0>668<... |
If that means I will deliver you home alive with the mission accomplished, I'd rather you be alive and hate me. | <0>75<0>593<0>1356<0>776<0>2958<0>668<0>2769<0>368<0>3349<0>1007<0>2799<0>2769<0>2550<0>3079<0>3899<0>386<0>1858<0>1518<0>1518<0>1171<0>1819<0>2471<0>3146<0>652<0>2735<0>2345<0>3132<0>2251<0>1579<0>2705<0>1579<0>553<0>3374<0>1710<0>2708<0>2748<0>3434<0>327<0>3155<0>421<0>3053<0>1190<0>3888<0>1850<0>3045<0>368<0>3861<0>... |
Then you guys love me because you think I'm super cool, but then have you guys die because of my poor leadership and my inability to keep you guys disciplined and keep you to the standard of perfection. | <0>2525<0>368<0>2710<0>369<0>779<0>3447<0>2787<0>1773<0>3999<0>3828<0>3447<0>915<0>919<0>3143<0>3556<0>3457<0>809<0>919<0>2716<0>3987<0>759<0>1703<0>779<0>1777<0>484<0>1902<0>231<0>1526<0>3135<0>3898<0>464<0>1108<0>3466<0>1428<0>2004<0>3373<0>1318<0>1710<0>1123<0>1850<0>2703<0>919<0>679<0>3447<0>3447<0>3096<0>3447<0>69... |
And that is something that's hard for people who haven't been in that circumstance. It's hard for them to understand. It really is. But even in my current job running a non-profit, I tell my staff, every single veteran they speak to, every conversation, whether it's the 10th time you talk to that vet and you're doing ... | <0>701<0>3668<0>2029<0>1123<0>3176<0>553<0>967<0>368<0>22<0>1977<0>2034<0>3585<0>368<0>3592<0>3073<0>1195<0>94<0>3782<0>2860<0>348<0>898<0>1675<0>1730<0>1022<0>1007<0>433<0>1007<0>2129<0>191<0>553<0>3713<0>3008<0>1190<0>3660<0>2525<0>3373<0>1238<0>3910<0>212<0>3668<0>746<0>3195<0>1785<0>2247<0>2572<0>2572<0>2708<0>1732... |
Our job is to help them find the American dream. | <0>1883<0>2748<0>3987<0>1773<0>3405<0>3447<0>3443<0>3899<0>151<0>729<0>3405<0>1798<0>882<0>1977<0>259<0>1289<0>1671<0>1213<0>403<0>776<0>729<0>362<0>2099<0>1632<0>1895<0>225<0>3132<0>2594<0>3927<0>1007<0>2748<0>368<0>2152<0>1306<0>1094<0>3968<0>3447<0>1777<0>703<0>2185<0>1830<0>3171<0>1666<0>797<0>2575<0>3981<0>2068<0>... |
People give us money not to fail them. You're paid with other people's money that they gave us to help these vets get jobs. Period. | <0>2506<0>386<0>231<0>492<0>826<0>3556<0>3079<0>1683<0>3791<0>2769<0>1526<0>1007<0>3447<0>2769<0>3837<0>1079<0>3114<0>1108<0>1209<0>2379<0>746<0>2332<0>1180<0>789<0>3837<0>3447<0>3720<0>553<0>3447<0>484<0>679<0>919<0>3447<0>2780<0>1730<0>368<0>368<0>1022<0>1858<0>234<0>374<0>782<0>915<0>1730<0>2497<0>2550<0>2769<0>3373... |
If we're not doing that, then you don't work here anymore. I don't work here anymore. Period. We will find somebody else to do it because that's our job. And so you've got to set that standard. | <0>2226<0>561<0>492<0>3899<0>1582<0>644<0>705<0>593<0>3079<0>1444<0>3302<0>1995<0>1204<0>1727<0>3218<0>1108<0>3762<0>3681<0>1526<0>3585<0>2155<0>3079<0>3235<0>666<0>1007<0>484<0>1580<0>386<0>1862<0>3008<0>926<0>3177<0>2368<0>1805<0>3762<0>3003<0>3003<0>3973<0>1777<0>1190<0>3447<0>2707<0>1981<0>1777<0>238<0>1862<0>2594<... |
But if you don't tell them the why behind it, they'll never understand that. It doesn't mean that we have this, this culture. It's not like my platoon had this culture where we were all so hardcore and there was no compassion. There was no personality, there was no smiles. As you can attest to, look, you can have an e... | <0>1108<0>1575<0>1500<0>2008<0>1455<0>3733<0>1899<0>746<0>369<0>2152<0>259<0>1192<0>4074<0>2619<0>3373<0>3898<0>3135<0>898<0>3437<0>366<0>2460<0>691<0>553<0>1171<0>2258<0>484<0>1645<0>2178<0>3782<0>1688<0>1449<0>3084<0>553<0>386<0>1991<0>2569<0>2465<0>631<0>115<0>3155<0>779<0>1444<0>22<0>192<0>368<0>2588<0>3447<0>690<0... |
And you want to have a discipline and commitment and hard work? That's why they're on the top. And they have a lot of fun smiling at the end of every season when everybody hates on them and they're raising those trophies. | <0>3658<0>1146<0>414<0>1730<0>173<0>1910<0>3899<0>3484<0>1992<0>368<0>2525<0>1444<0>3834<0>3750<0>3373<0>1858<0>3176<0>1042<0>151<0>151<0>1195<0>1835<0>746<0>3447<0>3782<0>898<0>3067<0>2541<0>484<0>1973<0>2683<0>1732<0>2683<0>2683<0>2004<0>2525<0>1444<0>2530<0>279<0>3045<0>173<0>2748<0>593<0>729<0>1842<0>898<0>1569<0>1... |
The Marine Corps has a really unique circumstance where they have the basic school where every single officer goes there and that's huge to set this huge standard. | <0>679<0>1500<0>3135<0>3447<0>3999<0>840<0>3899<0>3067<0>898<0>746<0>1478<0>746<0>3437<0>3850<0>1309<0>492<0>1858<0>1858<0>386<0>3585<0>1730<0>403<0>746<0>1202<0>1442<0>770<0>91<0>3785<0>3592<0>2258<0>3785<0>746<0>1858<0>2099<0>553<0>3405<0>746<0>4022<0>2354<0>1484<0>327<0>1675<0>3018<0>1172<0>1473<0>3348<0>561<0>3348<... |
Then we go a step further where when we go to infantry officer course, that course was 13 weeks long, one of the very hardest, if not the hardest in the Marine Corps. | <0>1171<0>593<0>779<0>3880<0>2934<0>313<0>770<0>1773<0>3720<0>898<0>2510<0>782<0>3348<0>1981<0>1569<0>1819<0>196<0>690<0>756<0>1858<0>1409<0>1309<0>2894<0>2563<0>151<0>561<0>3155<0>746<0>43<0>1213<0>1944<0>3797<0>3972<0>3888<0>3443<0>770<0>3378<0>746<0>2715<0>1940<0>165<0>327<0>3888<0>1533<0>746<0>3720<0>3665<0>3132<0>... |
Mentally, physically, everything. You don't know anything that's coming, everything's a surprise. | <0>493<0>3045<0>2525<0>3750<0>3096<0>3861<0>1944<0>2588<0>553<0>366<0>2339<0>1532<0>1318<0>365<0>1449<0>2748<0>3348<0>362<0>4003<0>1197<0>3524<0>1335<0>2398<0>2029<0>3556<0>1472<0>30<0>3987<0>3821<0>1596<0>553<0>2525<0>379<0>3096<0>824<0>3480<0>691<0>83<0>3002<0>3447<0>1773<0>3176<0>729<0>3927<0>3927<0>1331<0>1331<0>22... |
But I felt that my instructors during our course were phenomenal and they were getting all the real time intelligence from the battlefield. All the training was realistic, but in terms of how you relate | <0>83<0>2332<0>3748<0>850<0>1944<0>403<0>2525<0>3150<0>2898<0>2675<0>648<0>746<0>746<0>1243<0>3075<0>3404<0>2748<0>850<0>2563<0>3046<0>3556<0>2748<0>3662<0>3868<0>3359<0>409<0>2705<0>1862<0>1277<0>3107<0>2471<0>484<0>2898<0>1575<0>1819<0>2799<0>2144<0>2594<0>1981<0>1944<0>2152<0>1658<0>3404<0>1319<0>3434<0>287<0>3973<0... |
To your marines. From your junior enlisted to your middle ranked to your senior enlisted. | <0>2733<0>2155<0>2716<0>3782<0>1819<0>2474<0>623<0>1587<0>1206<0>468<0>2030<0>2870<0>9<0>9<0>3325<0>3348<0>3972<0>3404<0>3057<0>1941<0>2641<0>975<0>3556<0>151<0>151<0>3892<0>3447<0>1891<0>2060<0>2525<0>212<0>3457<0>3176<0>391<0>2679<0>1145<0>3637<0>1730<0>553<0>2748<0>2244<0>1941<0>327<0>1485<0>173<0>3999<0>279<0>2860<... |
How you relate to the senior enlisted from the battalion who worked directly for the battalion staff. | <0>644<0>898<0>2144<0>1701<0>1941<0>2341<0>3411<0>1321<0>259<0>3999<0>2525<0>2506<0>1486<0>1444<0>3155<0>22<0>2208<0>3405<0>368<0>967<0>967<0>4050<0>2525<0>239<0>3079<0>593<0>3849<0>151<0>1701<0>967<0>3899<0>1995<0>3295<0>333<0>3262<0>2870<0>3620<0>977<0>1738<0>231<0>3067<0>484<0>1569<0>3828<0>3782<0>1240<0>3079<0>3861... |
How you manage those relationships to maximize the effectiveness of your platoon to make sure that you can get exactly what they need. They, they did such a good job of that. Then you take it one step further. When I reported to 3rd Battalion 2nd Marines, I'd be remiss if I didn't give credit to a guy by the name of G... | <0>2488<0>2525<0>2144<0>3849<0>3079<0>22<0>368<0>368<0>368<0>779<0>1118<0>2284<0>2348<0>2094<0>3556<0>3556<0>3457<0>2462<0>3556<0>1495<0>3720<0>1245<0>3282<0>1013<0>3620<0>365<0>3038<0>593<0>1409<0>386<0>1190<0>691<0>2440<0>1977<0>1902<0>3349<0>2525<0>2485<0>746<0>3612<0>735<0>386<0>368<0>3850<0>1830<0>3861<0>3447<0>16... |
But he taught me, he was a true student of leadership and military history. He would tell me all the time, his craft is his hobby. There's nothing else he cared about. It's what he was. He loved being a Marine, loved being an officer, and he taught me a lot about decentralized leadership. | <0>2799<0>3556<0>110<0>1701<0>703<0>3907<0>3447<0>3782<0>1569<0>840<0>2838<0>368<0>779<0>3927<0>3478<0>407<0>35<0>2832<0>3828<0>512<0>915<0>1442<0>2675<0>1108<0>3332<0>3045<0>3927<0>491<0>3832<0>779<0>386<0>838<0>75<0>4095<0>1335<0>1108<0>3762<0>4095<0>1108<0>611<0>2748<0>348<0>1484<0>369<0>368<0>379<0>884<0>1175<0>339... |
How to not micromanage, how to empower your junior leaders that they start to think like you and you could achieve tempo on the battlefield. | <0>3899<0>3987<0>703<0>4051<0>746<0>691<0>1455<0>3634<0>3447<0>386<0>3404<0>3067<0>3894<0>698<0>2563<0>838<0>3637<0>3875<0>975<0>768<0>3199<0>789<0>2999<0>1773<0>2867<0>679<0>3153<0>75<0>746<0>1729<0>1905<0>3443<0>3061<0>2174<0>484<0>484<0>1409<0>2155<0>1730<0>3556<0>151<0>3585<0>1401<0>2594<0>369<0>3405<0>1449<0>2055<... |
And you could immediately see examples of Marines. I call it, and I see it all the time in the business world. I call it JV leadership, where I'm a great leader if my people love me. | <0>153<0>967<0>2525<0>1135<0>3585<0>3556<0>3861<0>151<0>539<0>368<0>1378<0>368<0>1773<0>3405<0>909<0>1273<0>3405<0>1944<0>3405<0>3405<0>369<0>3405<0>368<0>746<0>386<0>895<0>327<0>1007<0>2592<0>3943<0>1442<0>562<0>484<0>304<0>770<0>2769<0>1205<0>1456<0>3325<0>1523<0>415<0>1335<0>1335<0>4048<0>9<0>691<0>1220<0>1190<0>335... |
And, and they're the same leaders that will tell their people, alright guys, today we've got to stay 30 minutes longer because headquarters said so. Look, I disagree with it. I think it's ridiculous, but we have to do it. So let's just sit here together. | <0>983<0>1171<0>716<0>3823<0>3376<0>2129<0>368<0>967<0>779<0>2525<0>110<0>2734<0>368<0>2323<0>1097<0>3405<0>3405<0>3447<0>746<0>2525<0>3914<0>304<0>288<0>2525<0>3791<0>3235<0>915<0>1730<0>1022<0>259<0>691<0>3061<0>3082<0>3359<0>2715<0>2530<0>2881<0>3927<0>1205<0>151<0>553<0>553<0>1858<0>1022<0>2935<0>1773<0>3850<0>3556... |
Now none of their people are actually gonna work motivated, there's gonna be no discipline, there's gonna be no standard that they're trying to achieve because of that horrible leadership. | <0>369<0>1190<0>3592<0>2769<0>2506<0>1773<0>3542<0>4050<0>2734<0>433<0>3839<0>1022<0>1022<0>484<0>2860<0>1010<0>323<0>386<0>2510<0>545<0>484<0>1675<0>690<0>279<0>2894<0>368<0>3713<0>386<0>850<0>561<0>212<0>1401<0>1309<0>1022<0>2525<0>491<0>1118<0>3943<0>1715<0>850<0>3907<0>919<0>2161<0>348<0>1842<0>2173<0>3850<0>368<0>... |
They're, they're mad at the chain of command. Exactly. It's JV leadership and I'm constantly trying to talk to people about that. JV leadership, the first thing of it is you think you have to be loved to be an effective leader. | <0>1086<0>1977<0>433<0>3349<0>3899<0>1569<0>3946<0>158<0>1400<0>596<0>4050<0>3505<0>3541<0>1977<0>967<0>3349<0>1977<0>313<0>967<0>3349<0>3374<0>809<0>155<0>3457<0>967<0>3447<0>83<0>3146<0>2881<0>3522<0>2795<0>151<0>561<0>967<0>735<0>2683<0>115<0>3290<0>967<0>368<0>785<0>3405<0>3556<0>2506<0>785<0>3405<0>1273<0>3556<0>2... |
If you are an effective leader, over the long term, you will be loved, but there's gonna be intermittent parts where they can't stand you. | <0>2029<0>368<0>369<0>492<0>3782<0>1902<0>2860<0>1105<0>1842<0>2716<0>2716<0>690<0>1526<0>369<0>3447<0>2799<0>1163<0>3107<0>2004<0>3150<0>1500<0>2348<0>1388<0>3135<0>3248<0>3489<0>3484<0>1967<0>1642<0>288<0>898<0>1362<0>165<0>1022<0>561<0>3235<0>235<0>2485<0>3235<0>2750<0>2860<0>1738<0>1118<0>553<0>593<0>386<0>386<0>25... |
They don't understand things all the time or they're gonna be mad at you because they're emotional. | <0>963<0>593<0>1995<0>628<0>2453<0>1400<0>1967<0>967<0>1175<0>3096<0>2769<0>2619<0>915<0>2550<0>691<0>1862<0>580<0>1941<0>2485<0>909<0>3542<0>3078<0>1564<0>1363<0>73<0>294<0>2506<0>151<0>561<0>368<0>2060<0>1941<0>1526<0>1118<0>3899<0>1500<0>3828<0>279<0>776<0>3457<0>3634<0>2944<0>602<0>3981<0>2068<0>2068<0>2068<0>3981<... |
But over long term, they're going to understand that what you did was best. The other, the second major part to JV leadership is thinking, hey, I'm in charge, therefore I come up with all the great ideas and I'm going to make every single decision without your input and I'm going to, I'm going to really try hard to ma... | <0>1329<0>2001<0>2070<0>1472<0>2750<0>259<0>3489<0>3061<0>173<0>746<0>898<0>898<0>898<0>1331<0>3797<0>4077<0>2096<0>2748<0>746<0>2284<0>776<0>368<0>3096<0>1773<0>3305<0>492<0>3613<0>3861<0>3585<0>756<0>1858<0>770<0>3171<0>4074<0>180<0>1785<0>948<0>3856<0>2589<0>3199<0>365<0>3637<0>553<0>495<0>3841<0>3082<0>78<0>491<0>1... |
It is not your job to come up with all the great ideas. Some of the best ideas I received were from 19 year olds. | <0>3405<0>2323<0>3060<0>348<0>1995<0>1701<0>967<0>3556<0>3556<0>3899<0>898<0>2258<0>2199<0>1945<0>2753<0>2799<0>1007<0>1500<0>3592<0>2748<0>236<0>553<0>2161<0>3556<0>1584<0>300<0>1977<0>2347<0>2212<0>1444<0>3045<0>1444<0>110<0>2506<0>2506<0>2506<0>967<0>2525<0>3203<0>2332<0>1472<0>4009<0>746<0>729<0>3405<0>368<0>3861<0... |
You know, 21 year olds who had already been to Iraq once had a grea- Hey sir, I got a great idea. Well, I wanna hear all about it. | <0>2010<0>368<0>3880<0>593<0>22<0>2323<0>593<0>3061<0>596<0>379<0>279<0>3447<0>3264<0>593<0>2302<0>2900<0>2284<0>967<0>2734<0>1773<0>2441<0>1007<0>1850<0>3822<0>2940<0>1441<0>2436<0>22<0>1944<0>2716<0>1882<0>64<0>3405<0>368<0>2208<0>3447<0>1850<0>2716<0>3447<0>166<0>43<0>2001<0>1941<0>2410<0>553<0>2563<0>2506<0>1449<0>... |
It's our job as leaders to decide which are the best ideas to invest energy, time, and resources in. | <0>703<0>368<0>1363<0>368<0>2454<0>3708<0>368<0>667<0>1180<0>3443<0>1081<0>1729<0>1118<0>3405<0>1157<0>1157<0>1773<0>3927<0>548<0>1363<0>3405<0>746<0>3448<0>368<0>491<0>3927<0>3045<0>2375<0>951<0>3297<0>1526<0>379<0>3556<0>1602<0>3186<0>14<0>22<0>1995<0>3318<0>2060<0>809<0>3349<0>3318<0>3045<0>368<0>2506<0>368<0>2525<0... |
And that's not just, I get all this stuff all the time when I talk to different groups and companies. Well, military leadership is different than corporate leadership. Why? | <0>4048<0>668<0>3914<0>1444<0>1086<0>3899<0>1355<0>2734<0>694<0>2382<0>2288<0>3052<0>348<0>2323<0>1729<0>1820<0>3318<0>491<0>3318<0>1902<0>3828<0>1118<0>3385<0>1910<0>1190<0>2323<0>374<0>1902<0>559<0>386<0>553<0>1902<0>2471<0>3404<0>2799<0>690<0>593<0>2525<0>679<0>3370<0>1500<0>1738<0>969<0>368<0>1210<0>3324<0>2064<0>1... |
What am I saying here that doesn't apply? Well, it's too extreme. | <0>327<0>1901<0>1780<0>3235<0>1905<0>1995<0>3484<0>2173<0>776<0>2506<0>729<0>2525<0>548<0>2525<0>1370<0>1400<0>562<0>2525<0>1099<0>374<0>2619<0>898<0>898<0>2708<0>2780<0>2840<0>1816<0>1500<0>598<0>3061<0>495<0>2144<0>3555<0>2144<0>3927<0>491<0>3079<0>2922<0>3306<0>1273<0>1166<0>549<0>2860<0>386<0>2152<0>332<0>2427<0>32... |
It is not. You're taking us too literal with our warrior mentalities here. | <0>2811<0>1363<0>3295<0>379<0>3405<0>2506<0>850<0>2332<0>3443<0>2942<0>3405<0>386<0>3556<0>252<0>2525<0>2734<0>2525<0>3062<0>2525<0>239<0>1449<0>3079<0>492<0>2799<0>83<0>1569<0>2510<0>1518<0>797<0>1639<0>1649<0>3798<0>2799<0>3999<0>1858<0>2525<0>3305<0>1773<0>3079<0>3079<0>3899<0>2619<0>3974<0>1526<0>3061<0>2860<0>3437... |
You know, you do not need to be insecure. The best leaders are not insecure. They're secure. They know that they're there and ultimately gonna make the final decision. But it empowers your people and you can achieve tempo when you're decentralized enough that they feel good about coming up with ideas. | <0>4095<0>1769<0>368<0>1773<0>1007<0>1079<0>2004<0>77<0>3856<0>1532<0>729<0>3162<0>368<0>539<0>1208<0>386<0>3008<0>368<0>1835<0>3484<0>3502<0>368<0>3556<0>3861<0>368<0>3707<0>4051<0>3457<0>1205<0>2525<0>3861<0>3405<0>3447<0>368<0>3134<0>1502<0>746<0>3349<0>2525<0>3195<0>243<0>368<0>3556<0>967<0>698<0>3899<0>3545<0>2769... |
Sending them up to you to get back up for it and get resources behind it. But also knowing that they can make the appropriate decisions at their level because they know what your final intent is. Here's the outcome I want achieved. You get us there. | <0>3762<0>3525<0>1444<0>2734<0>1273<0>1273<0>2055<0>379<0>1157<0>3705<0>729<0>2563<0>369<0>679<0>3798<0>115<0>1900<0>1775<0>3585<0>369<0>368<0>664<0>2197<0>882<0>2332<0>3370<0>1818<0>593<0>1944<0>231<0>2619<0>413<0>384<0>2639<0>3466<0>3762<0>4095<0>424<0>1206<0>3176<0>368<0>973<0>512<0>2485<0>838<0>898<0>3899<0>2525<0>... |
You're the expert at it, that's why I hired you. I didn't tell my machine gunners how to work their T&E system and how to sight in their machine guns, right? I just told them what I wanted them to hit. | <0>2353<0>2323<0>2144<0>2734<0>1190<0>2323<0>2799<0>2410<0>1190<0>2158<0>3927<0>593<0>3980<0>3899<0>691<0>1850<0>746<0>1273<0>2187<0>823<0>3199<0>1732<0>611<0>3797<0>746<0>3405<0>3433<0>2167<0>1835<0>2734<0>3235<0>2070<0>3899<0>3899<0>779<0>2734<0>3556<0>317<0>3457<0>3987<0>3603<0>3927<0>3447<0>1328<0>1981<0>484<0>1734... |
They're better than that at me. Taking the time to spend it with my Marines and their different functions and aspects and talk to them about how they're, they're the expert and compliment them like that, it made them feel great. | <0>433<0>1099<0>2999<0>379<0>495<0>2144<0>776<0>1773<0>1773<0>2734<0>2060<0>3462<0>1366<0>631<0>631<0>3114<0>3850<0>368<0>850<0>2588<0>3062<0>368<0>3530<0>2748<0>2332<0>3443<0>967<0>2158<0>3290<0>631<0>3386<0>368<0>2173<0>2525<0>553<0>3002<0>3405<0>3555<0>3574<0>1773<0>2137<0>3348<0>3899<0>1500<0>484<0>2703<0>1715<0>28... |
It does wonders for a leader to go to their level, see what they do every day and, and see that expert work. | <0>3353<0>368<0>3155<0>3484<0>3592<0>866<0>895<0>2860<0>1773<0>3447<0>1944<0>2748<0>3809<0>895<0>2627<0>1562<0>2683<0>1071<0>3003<0>3466<0>2840<0>3155<0>1022<0>2099<0>313<0>3235<0>173<0>2525<0>3020<0>3405<0>1525<0>2956<0>1977<0>3791<0>1484<0>3927<0>1444<0>729<0>3405<0>277<0>2487<0>2734<0>368<0>3405<0>368<0>3987<0>3980<... |
Cause they don't expect you to be an expert in all of that. They know that. Right? Your job is different. Your responsibilities are different. You need to have greater perspective. But when you go to their level and respect what they do and show them respect, | <0>2589<0>949<0>2173<0>816<0>816<0>2733<0>1363<0>491<0>3480<0>563<0>1445<0>668<0>668<0>1730<0>3713<0>631<0>735<0>838<0>1777<0>321<0>2178<0>1007<0>1518<0>2799<0>967<0>3349<0>1772<0>1444<0>3804<0>1174<0>3061<0>253<0>967<0>1220<0>2199<0>1944<0>224<0>3929<0>362<0>1431<0>2780<0>3393<0>1500<0>967<0>596<0>1940<0>1844<0>2506<0... |
That, that could, that could make a group of people so much better collectively than they ever would have been individually. And when it happens, right, when it finally, when you finally get there and can achieve that, | <0>1386<0>967<0>1366<0>967<0>1941<0>1123<0>3176<0>553<0>553<0>553<0>1485<0>2185<0>1579<0>729<0>368<0>975<0>2272<0>1710<0>1485<0>2099<0>1902<0>562<0>2174<0>4009<0>3348<0>3122<0>915<0>2054<0>1944<0>1730<0>684<0>1463<0>666<0>3927<0>3850<0>3850<0>3927<0>3311<0>3821<0>2070<0>2748<0>491<0>3158<0>3447<0>2715<0>2748<0>3404<0>4... |
It is, it is awesome. It's the most rewarding experience you could ever have. And it's hard for people to understand because most people think, well, the most rewarding experience you guys probably have is killing people. No. It's so much different than that. So much different. There's so much more to it than that. | <0>718<0>3447<0>1773<0>491<0>3937<0>718<0>368<0>3155<0>234<0>2004<0>3150<0>898<0>4074<0>63<0>1209<0>3340<0>1196<0>1118<0>1007<0>1484<0>3899<0>1157<0>1981<0>2185<0>2185<0>1526<0>279<0>173<0>368<0>368<0>3166<0>729<0>3668<0>1944<0>553<0>553<0>386<0>3219<0>3651<0>631<0>631<0>365<0>789<0>1730<0>3861<0>368<0>1525<0>1569<0>11... |
And a lot of times it's, hey, they got a bad review from this officer. So this is their way of saying, you know, hey, uh, you know, go fly a kite, you know, this is their way of rebelling. I noticed that with some officers. Uhm, and, and some of the, you know, I had, I had a fire lieutenant during my second deployment... | <0>1123<0>1773<0>3235<0>1007<0>898<0>3899<0>379<0>1105<0>83<0>3927<0>553<0>561<0>368<0>2563<0>22<0>2916<0>631<0>701<0>658<0>368<0>850<0>3096<0>3008<0>3447<0>1865<0>336<0>567<0>807<0>3539<0>967<0>2922<0>3348<0>3348<0>2594<0>3176<0>386<0>1022<0>2748<0>2748<0>1579<0>3585<0>3927<0>3447<0>898<0>2748<0>593<0>491<0>2525<0>337... |
And, and he had this problem, you know, he kept feeling he had to be best friends with his Marines. He spent way too much time with them talking about a lot of personal stuff. They'd be out on patrol and nobody would listen to him. I mean, it was almost straight mutiny. | <0>3637<0>3176<0>553<0>553<0>838<0>1485<0>702<0>2029<0>1306<0>2506<0>2769<0>2525<0>967<0>2506<0>3720<0>1842<0>2332<0>327<0>1277<0>1730<0>386<0>3176<0>648<0>3195<0>2703<0>2822<0>23<0>2594<0>1568<0>1526<0>1377<0>2161<0>3176<0>289<0>1485<0>365<0>2703<0>280<0>1449<0>2221<0>1463<0>2353<0>2029<0>3155<0>648<0>484<0>1959<0>77<... |
And then when I had to fire him, and here was the thing is, and I tell him, look, you're a really good person. | <0>1415<0>746<0>1105<0>279<0>3542<0>967<0>593<0>1944<0>1569<0>2715<0>4009<0>1630<0>294<0>104<0>698<0>1171<0>2961<0>553<0>3585<0>151<0>3348<0>2525<0>3457<0>631<0>3176<0>3176<0>3585<0>212<0>1245<0>3803<0>1335<0>4048<0>1166<0>3038<0>718<0>1944<0>3348<0>1518<0>338<0>2092<0>327<0>2339<0>2675<0>1108<0>3762<0>3762<0>3003<0>37... |
And you are most likely going to be very successful in whatever you choose to do. So please, please remember that. It's hard to hear that now. This is a very unique job. | <0>768<0>368<0>3585<0>3612<0>2619<0>2787<0>243<0>231<0>3821<0>3899<0>934<0>2094<0>3849<0>3943<0>386<0>679<0>1007<0>679<0>587<0>386<0>3861<0>561<0>4009<0>561<0>280<0>729<0>850<0>1584<0>824<0>3484<0>746<0>327<0>1737<0>196<0>1022<0>2589<0>193<0>1850<0>1500<0>386<0>3861<0>686<0>3922<0>386<0>2563<0>3637<0>1206<0>1409<0>611<... |
And we are in a very dangerous scenario. We were already in Iraq and we were in a dangerous area at the time. And things were about to go south. And I had to remove this kid now before things got worse. | <0>718<0>3894<0>492<0>386<0>3447<0>321<0>3892<0>2934<0>561<0>1701<0>553<0>3348<0>386<0>2099<0>368<0>2769<0>368<0>967<0>2525<0>3447<0>2471<0>1858<0>1401<0>2619<0>2872<0>898<0>3082<0>368<0>746<0>1850<0>1819<0>3402<0>3187<0>3143<0>679<0>361<0>3299<0>2848<0>2187<0>77<0>2769<0>770<0>368<0>4009<0>776<0>3892<0>3782<0>553<0>25... |
And it was hard for him to understand that you can be a phenomenal human being, a great person, but just not meant to lead, especially in those circumstances. | <0>2161<0>553<0>553<0>1710<0>703<0>679<0>1842<0>1882<0>2510<0>1618<0>3750<0>1773<0>593<0>1449<0>698<0>2588<0>2152<0>668<0>3630<0>3986<0>748<0>2029<0>3556<0>840<0>2915<0>1835<0>3176<0>2244<0>2506<0>368<0>2525<0>1944<0>2525<0>2075<0>3155<0>1230<0>1472<0>3782<0>1007<0>919<0>3894<0>3894<0>2099<0>2769<0>3143<0>3123<0>290<0>... |
But it, it, it's, it's some people, and I think it, obviously if they have so many years growing up in a household, | <0>3642<0>1773<0>3604<0>1175<0>3556<0>1773<0>2090<0>368<0>3405<0>3046<0>3556<0>3910<0>729<0>4048<0>3762<0>2100<0>3762<0>1205<0>3927<0>1157<0>2531<0>1730<0>2506<0>2627<0>895<0>1441<0>457<0>3575<0>3466<0>3208<0>35<0>746<0>746<0>1944<0>3556<0>3046<0>3376<0>3402<0>83<0>779<0>1944<0>3096<0>553<0>1944<0>553<0>3082<0>2703<0>2... |
Where it was so different from what they're being taught that I think sometimes is the route for them to push back against this type of leadership. No, you know, I've been taught differently for years and years. It's kind of like, wow, did you just block it all out for the, you know, year and a half you've been in sch... | <0>492<0>1773<0>553<0>1850<0>259<0>2316<0>368<0>1671<0>3849<0>3045<0>3850<0>1773<0>1858<0>2934<0>368<0>1944<0>2323<0>3349<0>466<0>1213<0>2703<0>2070<0>3235<0>2298<0>3447<0>679<0>3585<0>919<0>2152<0>3972<0>1518<0>2650<0>3658<0>327<0>3681<0>368<0>1850<0>3722<0>2748<0>151<0>2345<0>2506<0>491<0>231<0>3373<0>1858<0>2769<0>2... |
I mean, the military is a business. It is a business. It's run like a business, and... | <0>115<0>1827<0>3490<0>2668<0>596<0>596<0>596<0>2652<0>3485<0>967<0>2525<0>967<0>2525<0>2525<0>593<0>2525<0>548<0>2660<0>3219<0>669<0>1885<0>3585<0>3556<0>192<0>2525<0>3839<0>1773<0>2144<0>212<0>3850<0>368<0>3592<0>2181<0>2735<0>628<0>313<0>1773<0>561<0>3593<0>2150<0>3873<0>1396<0>509<0>3041<0>3015<0>2679<0>2679<0>87<0... |
The leadership there, it's about maximizing the potential of all the human beings that you have on your team. | <0>2099<0>277<0>1073<0>313<0>1500<0>3079<0>3405<0>1363<0>379<0>3556<0>3457<0>3460<0>2734<0>553<0>3447<0>2163<0>1915<0>553<0>3121<0>915<0>1095<0>871<0>1569<0>898<0>2339<0>2178<0>2573<0>1108<0>2099<0>1485<0>1409<0>2716<0>644<0>2332<0>1042<0>491<0>313<0>690<0>1569<0>1190<0>729<0>3585<0>1858<0>289<0>1730<0>414<0>1525<0>368... |
And how do you do that? Yes, it involves tactics and, and what we do is different, but the, the, the personal, the small unit down to the large unit leadership is all the same. It's all the same. | <0>3842<0>746<0>1838<0>3443<0>3447<0>368<0>386<0>386<0>386<0>3839<0>1525<0>1377<0>2185<0>2935<0>1977<0>3045<0>2506<0>368<0>2506<0>1007<0>3782<0>1484<0>2525<0>3910<0>967<0>735<0>1042<0>386<0>729<0>3096<0>2961<0>1561<0>2432<0>1641<0>407<0>1329<0>895<0>279<0>4072<0>779<0>386<0>368<0>3079<0>779<0>368<0>212<0>368<0>1944<0>1... |
And you go around and you talk to different executives who are having trouble. Well, you know, this, you know, it's the millennials and what they do and what they do and this do. And we were talking about it in the ride here. | <0>2378<0>698<0>2734<0>1710<0>3556<0>3861<0>313<0>506<0>279<0>2900<0>2832<0>1452<0>386<0>386<0>3750<0>898<0>2648<0>2769<0>368<0>553<0>348<0>368<0>3861<0>967<0>1944<0>1944<0>369<0>2563<0>746<0>1850<0>3437<0>1401<0>1022<0>1449<0>3899<0>2471<0>895<0>690<0>1444<0>1500<0>1500<0>3405<0>3447<0>231<0>2525<0>491<0>3614<0>631<0>... |
I think your process and your information flow is wrong and the way that you have your workflow set up in the office space, that's causing this issue in communication. | <0>746<0>644<0>3542<0>1184<0>2588<0>2454<0>967<0>3987<0>3899<0>1902<0>2748<0>3927<0>3235<0>1444<0>3096<0>967<0>3318<0>3448<0>22<0>850<0>2734<0>2525<0>2199<0>3235<0>3373<0>2922<0>1157<0>3782<0>94<0>3782<0>2922<0>2158<0>492<0>492<0>1086<0>2668<0>73<0>3353<0>1444<0>1190<0>386<0>561<0>1981<0>2541<0>484<0>3195<0>1007<0>3235... |
No it's not, you're saying that because you are afraid to have the hard conversations with the leaders who are failing. | <0>560<0>1204<0>1470<0>2009<0>2173<0>368<0>644<0>1190<0>2531<0>2173<0>2173<0>491<0>491<0>906<0>2173<0>1390<0>1400<0>776<0>526<0>593<0>3405<0>3556<0>3556<0>3556<0>277<0>1907<0>1139<0>1157<0>898<0>898<0>746<0>2440<0>3701<0>3953<0>967<0>2144<0>3405<0>729<0>644<0>279<0>304<0>967<0>3489<0>3061<0>3327<0>3748<0>898<0>1729<0>3... |
You know, it's funny you bring it up. There's a great example. Dan Quinn is the current head coach of the Atlanta Falcons. He was a defensive coordinator at Seattle. Hires a head coach in Atlanta. | <0>1500<0>2217<0>3528<0>805<0>2173<0>3060<0>1835<0>433<0>1642<0>379<0>323<0>3530<0>2525<0>1967<0>259<0>596<0>1962<0>1756<0>2860<0>967<0>1945<0>4083<0>2804<0>2525<0>2323<0>900<0>3277<0>3348<0>1401<0>386<0>386<0>3405<0>553<0>561<0>29<0>1238<0>1117<0>1649<0>1748<0>196<0>368<0>746<0>1773<0>2158<0>3899<0>2748<0>2922<0>2158<... |
And through his, he's a very good friend of Jay Glazer, who's obviously very involved in mixed martial arts and does a lot of the Fox broadcasts, and I've worked with him and gotten close with him. And so Jay introduced me to Dan. Dan was looking to make the team tougher. | <0>2567<0>2840<0>2769<0>368<0>553<0>368<0>3176<0>714<0>2870<0>2589<0>114<0>2558<0>593<0>3348<0>3405<0>2734<0>3060<0>3405<0>2506<0>3861<0>2525<0>2032<0>561<0>386<0>3082<0>2922<0>850<0>1944<0>1850<0>746<0>3075<0>3556<0>553<0>3861<0>484<0>2733<0>3155<0>1944<0>2365<0>2332<0>679<0>746<0>652<0>2894<0>729<0>3405<0>561<0>3447<... |
And here's a guy who has achieved the highest level of leadership in coaching. Just like you talked about. He was a great coordinator, now he's a head coach. And he had the humility. | <0>701<0>3296<0>553<0>919<0>386<0>3585<0>553<0>2173<0>2525<0>3861<0>2748<0>898<0>2441<0>850<0>679<0>3079<0>368<0>1449<0>3556<0>668<0>1730<0>691<0>4074<0>691<0>967<0>2734<0>4074<0>2146<0>3791<0>2775<0>492<0>1007<0>386<0>553<0>35<0>3155<0>240<0>919<0>3370<0>492<0>3880<0>3875<0>1491<0>556<0>3907<0>1715<0>2453<0>2704<0>386... |
He went to seek out experts from all, I mean, he went to different sports, talked to their head coaches, he went to the military, he went all over with humility to ask and get advice and glean experience from other people's time and leadership to include, I couldn't believe it, but here I am having breakfast with the ... | <0>967<0>1449<0>36<0>549<0>1166<0>3405<0>2087<0>770<0>1190<0>691<0>259<0>2458<0>2106<0>1042<0>746<0>2323<0>593<0>484<0>2860<0>3748<0>3899<0>1500<0>1765<0>3489<0>173<0>368<0>3861<0>3453<0>2952<0>3861<0>3096<0>73<0>3235<0>379<0>553<0>850<0>967<0>1804<0>3539<0>2762<0>3927<0>3927<0>1710<0>2174<0>2860<0>3241<0>491<0>2522<0>... |
Here I'm in his office or I'm in their, in, in, you know, their little cafeteria there. We're just talking leadership. | <0>1730<0>2174<0>2323<0>2734<0>3155<0>2525<0>1902<0>898<0>1500<0>1444<0>2375<0>22<0>2525<0>3474<0>714<0>1488<0>2062<0>4009<0>898<0>746<0>368<0>3155<0>1525<0>3782<0>1042<0>368<0>756<0>3585<0>3176<0>3176<0>3880<0>1022<0>368<0>746<0>1157<0>173<0>1042<0>967<0>3447<0>746<0>491<0>967<0>553<0>776<0>746<0>2541<0>2748<0>2506<0>... |
And he's talking about some of his individual guys and he's actually listening to my opinion. Wanted to hear what I went through. My opinion on this guy or that guy is he brought me in to do some martial arts drills to make the team tougher. But I gained so much respect for that. Here's a man who's achieved the highes... | <0>632<0>2506<0>3832<0>1500<0>3404<0>3987<0>4001<0>3079<0>2769<0>368<0>386<0>368<0>368<0>3135<0>2748<0>366<0>746<0>3045<0>3176<0>2506<0>967<0>900<0>3155<0>1526<0>2525<0>729<0>2060<0>3874<0>1710<0>1022<0>3894<0>2748<0>746<0>2375<0>1730<0>698<0>718<0>3296<0>196<0>209<0>3404<0>1773<0>668<0>369<0>1641<0>148<0>3447<0>2615<0... |
He knows he's in charge, he's not out to prove anything. His guys know he's in charge. And when they don't meet the standard, there's a consequence. | <0>1523<0>73<0>909<0>1204<0>3079<0>3060<0>22<0>1710<0>2734<0>3782<0>3782<0>3791<0>1273<0>1444<0>1995<0>3899<0>1842<0>2804<0>3750<0>279<0>3082<0>3002<0>2588<0>3376<0>2968<0>2870<0>2708<0>2708<0>3457<0>1363<0>694<0>2453<0>4074<0>549<0>2323<0>593<0>1500<0>1286<0>1449<0>895<0>2777<0>2142<0>2302<0>3166<0>240<0>3199<0>3199<0... |
But at the same time, he shows them the same kind of humility as he seeks out advice to get better every day because he wants them, hey Julio Jones, I know you think you're the best wide receiver in football. | <0>313<0>2144<0>2323<0>491<0>22<0>1273<0>3062<0>2525<0>1213<0>1902<0>3899<0>746<0>3134<0>1079<0>465<0>290<0>2558<0>2527<0>2506<0>3155<0>3405<0>3556<0>173<0>1118<0>3927<0>2525<0>1444<0>78<0>491<0>2208<0>22<0>368<0>2668<0>3748<0>3045<0>368<0>3405<0>369<0>2158<0>151<0>3318<0>3235<0>2922<0>3880<0>1540<0>802<0>2567<0>1730<0... |
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