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[ "Yeah, what's your deepest darkest secret?", "Kidding, but should I be scared to be in a car with you while driving?", "haha so you just never got caught, got it. My deepest darkest secret is that I secretly find black girls named (Mishal) really attractive, don't judge me;) hbu?" ]
[ { "coach_comment": null, "content": " No kids, no tattoos, ran into many curbs, never been to prison LOL.", "role": "Her" }, { "coach_comment": null, "content": " Any more questions?", "role": "Her" }, { "coach_comment": null, "content": "Yeah, what's your deepest darkest sec...
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[ "We can go sometime babe 😘, this one’s for the boys" ]
This is his new official girlfriend which he has been officially dating for 1 month.
[ { "coach_comment": null, "content": " How’s your day going ?", "role": "Her" }, { "coach_comment": null, "content": " Just woke up from a nap, got stories scheduled for next week", "role": "Student" }, { "coach_comment": null, "content": " That’s good babe. Any plans for the ...
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[ "Anyway, had to slide into the DM’s to see what that fun bubbly vibe ws all about", "So far so good.. Might have to see in person before giving you the final verdict", "Shoot me your number and we’ll iron out the details", "Just making sure. My buddy sent me a bottle of Caymus, SO good.", "Anyway, make sure...
This student has been messaging random girls on instagram in his area who he thinks is cute. They have never met nor do they know each other. In this particular conversation the student was saying things that were very bad so the coach had to get context as to why he called her a raver. The student told the coach that ...
[ { "coach_comment": null, "content": " Long Beach?", "role": "Student" }, { "coach_comment": null, "content": " yes I'm out here", "role": "Her" }, { "coach_comment": null, "content": " Ahh you seem like a Long Beach girl.", "role": "Student" }, { "coach_comment": ...
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[ "It’s ok if you can’t control yourself around me", "You just have to be good until Saturday ;)", "Don’t get too excited, coming from the chick that double text me haha ;). But, you’re cute so it’s all good" ]
The student has met this girl in person one time and they are texting back and forth. She is following up with him after he didn’t respond to a text about meeting up
[ { "coach_comment": null, "content": " u truly suck at texting", "role": "Her" }, { "coach_comment": null, "content": " What do you mean lol? I was busy, but anyway i’m thinking mini golf and a drive in movie", "role": "Student" }, { "coach_comment": null, "content": " hahahah...
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[ "Analysis: Cute but will slash your tires if upset", "How’d I do" ]
The student matched with a girl on Hinge. He liked her photo, but she was the first to message him. In his profile he talked about how he is excellent at psychoanalyzing woman
[ { "coach_comment": null, "content": " I 100% want a psychoanalysis", "role": "Her" }, { "coach_comment": "This message is broad and could apply to millions of girls. ", "content": "Analysis: Cute but will slash your tires if upset", "role": "assistant" }, { "coach_comment": null,...
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[ "maybe voice notes would be better then so we don’t have a breakdown in communication. Then we might never get to our first date. Wouldn’t that be tragic.", "I was thinking you, me, a bottle of wine, laughs, teases, neck kisses, that sort of thing. Vibing and building chemistry", "I am a red wine drinker, you k...
He met this girl on Hinge. She liked his photo first and he got her number. They discussed the best types of wine and the girl mentioned it would only be weird if he loved Rosé. Voice messages were recommended during the Hinge interaction as they build a more intimate vibe, making you seem more real than just letters o...
[ { "coach_comment": null, "content": " Hey Anna I like your style 👌", "role": "Student" }, { "coach_comment": null, "content": " Hey, I like yours too 👍 and nice hair!", "role": "Her" }, { "coach_comment": null, "content": " Thanks, I wonder how well our styles would mix", ...
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[ "I bet you use that line on all the cute guys ;)", "Always wanted to travel to italy. Been to parts of Europe, a lot of mexico, want to skydive, and maybe add drinks with a cute brunette called (her name), you?", "We could make perfect travel buddies", " Sounds like the best of both world to me 😏", "We sho...
He matched with this girl on Bumble, she was the first to message him
[ { "coach_comment": null, "content": " What’s something on your bucket list?", "role": "Her" }, { "coach_comment": " This is a good message to use if the girl messages first and is particularly good when used on Bumble. It challenges her while also framing you as a cute guy.", "content": "I b...
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[ "Well that all depends. Are you the sexually open minded type of girl?", "Only if you say please", "Me bending (her name) over my bed, grabbing a fistful of her hair and.." ]
The student had a prompt in his hinge profile that is a shower thought I recently had, and his answer is you don’t even wanna know with a devil emoji. The girl commented on this prompt. Her comment is listed as the first line below.
[ { "coach_comment": null, "content": " I really want to know. The devil emoji is enticing. Is it a dirty thought or something about going to hell, I need to know", "role": "Her" }, { "coach_comment": " This message gets consent from the girl about moving forward with sexualising the conversation....
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[ "Sounds like you could use some stress relief” This message is a good segway into asking for the date. Can usually be followed up with “I hear drinks with a handsome, (something else about their physical appearance, hobbies, job) man does wonders for stress", "I’m great, just got home from my brothers birthday, b...
Context:The student met this girl out while at the bars. He got her number and text her a few days later
[ { "coach_comment": null, "content": " Hey (her name)", "role": "Student" }, { "coach_comment": null, "content": " Hey (student name)", "role": "Her" }, { "coach_comment": null, "content": " How’s your Thursday been treating you ?", "role": "Student" }, { "coach_co...
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[ "How do you think my hair got so curly", "Hmm, maybe you’re a medical marvel", "I’m sure we can carry out some of that research on our date", "Of course, I don’t want to see any funny stuff from you", "Seems we’ve found our perfect matches", "Can’t believe you forget your plants names, bet they feel super...
They both met on Bumble, the girl texted first. Recipes were inconsistent and, on two occasions, she didn’t reply for long periods of time so the student had to prompt her to reply. The student needed to be persistent without being needy so he mirrored her interest level.
[ { "coach_comment": null, "content": " Do you eat the crust on the pizza?", "role": "Her" }, { "coach_comment": " This is a lighthearted response. It’s a common story that eating the crusts gives you curly hair and the student had curly hair. He could have answered the question more logically but...
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[ "I’ve given you a follow but I’m not on there much. Shoot me your number as well" ]
The student matched with her on Tinder.
[ { "coach_comment": null, "content": " You look like my future ex wife 😏", "role": "Student" }, { "coach_comment": null, "content": " You look like you know how to show a woman a good time ", "role": "Her" }, { "coach_comment": null, "content": " As an artist, it’s always see...
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[ "hey (girl’s name), you recovered from your crushing defeat yet 😉", "We could find out but I was thinking drinks for our next date", "What’s your schedule look like this week?", "Let’s do 7:24 then", "Awesome, 7:24 at (name of venue) then", "Hey (her name), you picked a cute outfit for our date? 😉", "...
They have been on their first date. They went bowling and he beat her in the game. The coach advised he reopen the following day using callback humor relating to the date as this is often the best way to reopen, spark conversation and lead to a second date. Even though they have met in person and you don’t have to put ...
[ { "coach_comment": " This message works as it connects you two in a shared experience. It is also good because it is teasing her about her loss without being too harsh or rude.", "content": "hey (girl’s name), you recovered from your crushing defeat yet 😉", "role": "assistant" }, { "coach_comme...
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[ "I’m sure we can make Iowa more fun 😏", "alright I’ll give that to you.. But this is what I’m thinking.. You, me, a bottle of wine, laughs, teases, neck kisses, vibing and building chemistry", "You don’t seem like the type who’s attracted to shy guys", "You seem like a confident girl in general. You have a n...
The student matched with the girl on Hinge. She liked his photo of him working out in the gym.
[ { "coach_comment": null, "content": " Do you happen to need a new gym partner? 😅 🫣", "role": "Her" }, { "coach_comment": null, "content": " Idk… do you think you can keep up?", "role": "Student" }, { "coach_comment": null, "content": " Possibly 😬 😬", "role": "Her" }...
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[ "well I’m sure you’re still cute ;) but with all these hair changes I hope you’re not going through some kind of mental breakdown haha", "I’ll be sure to add beach picnic to our dates agenda", "You have exceptional taste, shoot me your number for romance arrangement purposes" ]
The student matched with the girl on Hinge. He liked her photo and she sent the first message.
[ { "coach_comment": null, "content": " hiii", "role": "Her" }, { "coach_comment": null, "content": " Cute, dyed hair, and nose piercings, what’s the catch?", "role": "Student" }, { "coach_comment": null, "content": " I just chopped my hair super short like 2 hours ago and it l...
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[ "You look like my future ex wife 😏", "We’re getting a prenup and I’m keeping the dog", "He’s a labrador, how on earth would he have fit in the microwave?? This is why it never worked between us (her name)", "If you play your cards right I might let you touch the hair on our date 😉", "Let’s start with wine...
The student matched with this girl on Tinder. This messaging sequence uses a role play involving the girl and the student being a divorced couple. The girl does ghost part way through so the student has to reopen the conversation. The interaction ends with the student getting the girl’s phone number and moving the conv...
[ { "coach_comment": " This is a playful way to start conversation. It can also lead into fun role plays about you and the girl being married, getting divorced and the reasons behind the divorce. ", "content": "You look like my future ex wife 😏", "role": "assistant" }, { "coach_comment": null, ...
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[ "You look like my future ex wife 😏", "You know the kids won’t leave the dog behind. This is why it never worked between us", "Shame, the make up sex would have been phenomenal", "Unless you disagree", "You don’t remember the time I dragged you across the bed by your ankles and kissed you passionately, suck...
The student matched with this girl on Hinge. This messaging sequence uses a role play involving the girl and the student being a divorced couple. The girl does ghost part way through so the student has to reopen the conversation. The student then has to sexualise the conversation. The interaction ends with the student ...
[ { "coach_comment": " This is a playful way to start conversation. It can also lead into fun role plays about you and the girl being married, getting divorced and the reasons behind the divorce. ", "content": "You look like my future ex wife 😏", "role": "assistant" }, { "coach_comment": null, ...
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[ "Read my mind, sounds like a great first date", "Definitely some beautiful spots I can show you here", "Yeah been there a few times, beautiful place. Maybe that can be our second date", "We should probably organize the first one before that though", "Do you like wine?" ]
The girl initiated a prompt on Bumble. The prompt was ‘What would you do on a rainy Sunday?’.
[ { "coach_comment": null, "content": " Whiskey tim", "role": "Her" }, { "coach_comment": null, "content": " Film, blanket, cup of tea", "role": "Student" }, { "coach_comment": null, "content": " Whiskey wouldn’t hurt either ", "role": "Student" }, { "coach_comment"...
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[ "That is the dream, I can be your muse", "You can do my portrait on our date", "When are you typically free?" ]
The student comments on the girl’s photo on Hinge saying “You look like my future ex wife 😏”. They find some common ground before moving towards the date.
[ { "coach_comment": null, "content": " You look like my future ex wife 😏", "role": "Student" }, { "coach_comment": null, "content": " I will be if you don’t grow your hair long like your pic ", "role": "Her" }, { "coach_comment": null, "content": " You’ve nothing to worry abo...
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[ "Nice, I like a girl who looks after her physical health. Where are you from originally?", "Ah so you have that sexy Spanish accent then 😏", "A flower on your ass, I like that lol you’ll gave to teach me more Spanish on our romantic date", "Hey, it (student’s name) from the thing", "Last night was fun” It ...
The girl liked the student's photo of him running in a race on Hinge and he opened her.
[ { "coach_comment": null, "content": " Hey, another runner? Love that", "role": "Student" }, { "coach_comment": null, "content": " Yeah", "role": "Her" }, { "coach_comment": null, "content": " 5k personal record?", "role": "Her" }, { "coach_comment": null, "con...
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[ "We must have similarly bad taste", "Had the same thing happen to me last week. Our date will be better though", "Positive. Define silly", "I definitely don’t take things too seriously, hoping you don’t either", "We should test this out in person" ]
They met on Hinge. The student commented on her photo and she started the interaction by replying to his comment. The conversation takes place over two days but the student closed and met her on the same day.
[ { "coach_comment": null, "content": " You look like my future ex wife 😏", "role": "Student" }, { "coach_comment": null, "content": " How strange I was thinking you look like my next future mistake 👀", "role": "Her" }, { "coach_comment": " This message works here as it builds on...
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[ "Smooth (her name) 😉 I guess there’s only one way to find out", "Sounds good, what do you do for work? I’m on day 2 of an intense couple of weeks of essay writing. Managed to get to the gym this morning though", "I’ll be the judge of that 😉 you like wine?", "Oh maybe this won’t work after all (her name) 😉"...
They met on Hinge. The girl liked a photo in his profile. He opened her.
[ { "coach_comment": null, "content": " Hey I like your style (her name) 👌", "role": "Student" }, { "coach_comment": null, "content": " Hey! Thank you, I like yours too!", "role": "Her" }, { "coach_comment": null, "content": " I wonder how well our styles would mix", "role...
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[ "What’s that?”. With his two messages he's pedestalize her by complimenting her twice. It’s okay to compliment a girl and it was good to say “you seem like", "Careful, compliments like that might get yo a romantic date 😉", "a white girl who doesn’t like coffee? You’re full of surprises” or “A physics major who...
They matched on Hinge. He opened her. The girl ghosted after a few messages.
[ { "coach_comment": null, "content": " Hey soo.. I guess we’re dating now..?", "role": "Student" }, { "coach_comment": null, "content": " I don’t think that’s how it works lol 😅", "role": "Her" }, { "coach_comment": null, "content": " I should probably figure out if you’re cr...
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[ "You seem like a gym rat", "no ice cream, no alcohol. Training for the olympics or something", "Gotta make sure you’re not crazy or something before i give you my number 😉" ]
They met in person. The student got her number after conversation and seeding the date.
[ { "coach_comment": null, "content": " Hey, Ronald Regan of Long Beach", "role": "Student" }, { "coach_comment": null, "content": " Hey", "role": "Her" }, { "coach_comment": " as it is shorter and matches her energy and investment level more accurately. ", "content": "You seem...
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[ "We should change that", "That doesn’t worry me. I know what I’m doing. You’re in good safe hands" ]
They matched on Tinder. She then admitted to being a virgin. Then the student number closed.
[ { "coach_comment": null, "content": " Someone’s adorable af", "role": "Student" }, { "coach_comment": null, "content": " thank you ;)", "role": "Her" }, { "coach_comment": null, "content": " I’m curious about something", "role": "Student" }, { "coach_comment": nul...
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[ "I bet you use that line on all the cute guys 😉", "Smooth 😏” This message is a good follow up to most things girls will respond to the “I bet you use that line on all the cute guys 😉", "That good huh?” This is a good message to send if you ask a girl something, ask her how her day is or about an event she at...
They matched on Bumble so the girl had to message first.
[ { "coach_comment": null, "content": " Well you’re hella cute ain’t ya", "role": "Her" }, { "coach_comment": " This is a good line to use if the girl messages you first. It was in response to pretty much anything but it is most effective when she compliments you.", "content": "I bet you use t...
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[ "Thank u, but can you promise me not to steal it when we hang out and you get cold?", "We’ll see how persuasive you can be on our date ;)” or “depends how cute you are on our date, maybe I won’t be able to say no to you ;)", "Mm interesting, so can I propose something?", "We should chill and vibe out to some ...
They matched on Hinge. She sent the first message which is a good sign because it shows interest and investment from the girl right from the start of the interaction.
[ { "coach_comment": null, "content": " Nice fur lol", "role": "Her" }, { "coach_comment": " This message does well to seed the date in a playful way without requiring any commitment from the girl. It is a playful role play that allows her to imagine herself spending time with the student in perso...
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The student got the girl’s number while in a nightclub. There was vibing and flirting and they were close to kissing but didn’t.
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[ "hey (her name) I couldn’t forget the cute, curvy teacher I vibed so well with", "The drink was great, we should have another sometime where it’s not super loud lol", "No worries, what time works for you? Btw I know you live 3 hours away so we can meet in the middle", "Ok bet, but we should have a quick call ...
[ { "coach_comment": null, "content": " Hellp Amor lol not you naming yourself that in my phone lol. Its (her name) your fellow Leo, unless you forgot haha have a goodnight and get to sleep safely!", "role": "Her" }, { "coach_comment": " just to make it more succinct and flow better.", "conten...
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[ "That’s cool, but please don’t tell me we have to do the matching pajamas too" ]
They matched on a dating app. He sent the first message.
[ { "coach_comment": null, "content": " So I guess we’re dating now?... Not sure how this works", "role": "Student" }, { "coach_comment": null, "content": " Yes that’s how it is. Think you can meet my parents in November, and we’ll get engaged in December! ", "role": "Her" }, { "co...
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[ "No worries, you can make it up to me on our date 😉" ]
Matched on a dating app. The student messaged the girl first.
[ { "coach_comment": null, "content": " It’s always the discrete ones that are the most fun ;)", "role": "Student" }, { "coach_comment": null, "content": " how’s it going?", "role": "Student" }, { "coach_comment": null, "content": " Very well thank you ☺️", "role": "Her" ...
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[ "Is the British accent fact or cap?" ]
They matched on Hinge. He commented on her photo. She mentioned in her profile that she is British.
[ { "coach_comment": null, "content": "Is the British accent fact or cap?", "role": "assistant" }, { "coach_comment": null, "content": " Fact 🤣", "role": "Her" }, { "coach_comment": null, "content": " Babygirl", "role": "Student" }, { "coach_comment": null, "co...
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Context:They matched on Hinge. She mentioned in her profile that she was a PHD student so he commented on that first.
[ { "coach_comment": null, "content": " PHD student and fun is a pretty rare combo", "role": "Student" }, { "coach_comment": null, "content": " I’m not sold (her name)", "role": "Student" }, { "coach_comment": null, "content": " Hahaha I promise we exist", "role": "Her" }...
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[ "Careful, cute compliments like that might just land you a date ;)", "& you obviously have a few of my weaknesses", "Cute & curvy, with a bit of a wild side. A sexy feminine energy which tells me there’s a fun submissive side to you for the right man 😉", "Mhm, I even have a plan", "Me & you splitting a bot...
They matched on Hinge. She liked his photo. He messaged her first.
[ { "coach_comment": null, "content": " Hey trouble", "role": "Student" }, { "coach_comment": null, "content": " Hey handsome", "role": "Her" }, { "coach_comment": " This message works to seed the date and set intention early in the conversation. It also sets the frame that she is ...
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[ "Gym, planning, reading, meal prepping, hang out with friends. Just missing a little bit of (her name) 😉", "Originally from the Philippines, moved to TX when I was 7-8, now I’m here for our romance", "You’ll be whispering Gujarati on our date, I hope 😏", "Adventurous I see. I’m just looking to meet a cool g...
They matched on Bumble so she has to message him first.
[ { "coach_comment": null, "content": " What’s up, buttercup? 💕", "role": "Her" }, { "coach_comment": null, "content": " Sup sexy starburst, how’s your Friday?", "role": "Student" }, { "coach_comment": null, "content": " Omg you’re cuuute. Starburst, I like this ", "role":...
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[ "Don’t worry I’m gonna change that for you! I just hope you have a few qualities I like too", "Lol! I’m just not a fan of the bars in Williamsburg. I have a few wine bare I’d love to take you to though if you’re feeling adventurous", "Hey, I had fun last night" ]
They matched on Hinge. He responded to her prompt which said ‘I recently discovered that… my attraction to men is almost exclusively based on how funny I think they are. Great news for the broke guys!. His response was “What about funny and not broke guys?
[ { "coach_comment": null, "content": " What about funny and not broke guys?", "role": "Student" }, { "coach_comment": null, "content": " Hmm… not my type ", "role": "Her" }, { "coach_comment": null, "content": " But I might give it a shot", "role": "Her" }, { "coac...
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[ "Oh no, made (her name) shy.", "I’m sure you appreciate a bit of forwardness", "Lost the sexy accent unfortunately lol", "You + me = more than friends 😏" ]
They matched on Tinder. The student messaged the girl first.
[ { "coach_comment": null, "content": " You seem like the perfect mix of cute & trouble ", "role": "Student" }, { "coach_comment": null, "content": " Called it 😂", "role": "Her" }, { "coach_comment": null, "content": " Cool. I’d know just how to handle you 😏 This kind of mess...
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[ "Glad to hear. It was great, not too packed. Looking nice and fit for our date” The aim of this message is to seed the date. After telling a girl you have done any from of exercise, you can seed the date by saying “Looking nice and fit for our date", "feeling spontaneous?" ]
They matched on Tinder and she messages him first. This is a great sign as it shows investment from the girl. The whole interaction took place on Tinder, no number close.
[ { "coach_comment": null, "content": " Hello! How are you?", "role": "Her" }, { "coach_comment": null, "content": " Hey cutie ;) doing amazing just got out of the gym, hbu?", "role": "Student" }, { "coach_comment": null, "content": " I’m good thank you ☺️ how was the gym", ...
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[ "When you’re the small spoon, I’d wrap my arm around your waist and get you close to me while your booty warms me up when I hold you tight. Play with your hair and pull it to the side to kiss on the back of your neck", "Pro cuddler for a reason ;) I’ll be sure to include that to our romantic date’s agenda as well...
They match on Bumble so the girl has to message first.
[ { "coach_comment": null, "content": " Hey 👋 what’s up?", "role": "Her" }, { "coach_comment": null, "content": " Hey Lucie. Just came back from a run with my dog. Tired him out and he’s passed out on the couch lol and you? ", "role": "Student" }, { "coach_comment": null, "con...
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[ "Fuckin amazing!! Just got back from the gym after a killer workout. Looking sharp for our date. You?” The aim of this message is to seed the date. After telling a girl you have done any form of exercise, you can seed the date by saying “Looking nice and fit for our date” or “looking sharp for our date", "Haha we...
They matched on Hinge. She liked his photo. He messaged first.
[ { "coach_comment": null, "content": " I like your style 👌", "role": "Student" }, { "coach_comment": null, "content": " Thank you ☺️ I like youre too 😉", "role": "Her" }, { "coach_comment": null, "content": " How’s your Sunday going?", "role": "Her" }, { "coach_c...
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[ "Looking nice and fit for our date” or “looking sharp for our date", "Look at us. Preparing for our romantic date we haven’t even organized yet", "Don’t worry. I’ll look sexy af and irresistible too. And I’ll be sure to pack extra charm in my pockets.", "Interesting phone number", "I deleted my instagram la...
They matched on Hinge. The student commented on her photo in Russian because she mentioned that she was russian.
[ { "coach_comment": null, "content": " Privet Tatyana", "role": "Student" }, { "coach_comment": null, "content": " Privet! Ti govorish po Rysski?", "role": "Her" }, { "coach_comment": null, "content": " No haha I dated a Russian last year. I could only learn and remember that ...
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They matched on Bumble so the girl must message first. She sends him a gif of two people saying ‘HAYYY’.
[ { "coach_comment": null, "content": " HAYYY", "role": "Her" }, { "coach_comment": null, "content": " Hey there ;) Was waiting for you to message me", "role": "Student" }, { "coach_comment": null, "content": " The time is now hahaha", "role": "Her" }, { "coach_comm...
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[ "I’m not the best at math but you could replace my X and I won’t ask Y", "Lmao well I’ve never tried it, so I guess we’ll find out together 🫢", "Aha ok off to a good start 😅", "You’re cute, what are you looking for on here?", "Aha thanks girl 😘", "And me too, trying to have some fun and going with the ...
Matched on Hinge. She liked one of his prompts. The prompt said ‘Believe it or not, I probably have more tattoos than you’. She also messaged him first.
[ { "coach_comment": null, "content": " Hi", "role": "Her" }, { "coach_comment": null, "content": "I’m not the best at math but you could replace my X and I won’t ask Y", "role": "assistant" }, { "coach_comment": null, "content": " 😂 Omg how well does that work on women 😝", ...
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