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1 | [
"Yeah, what's your deepest darkest secret?",
"Kidding, but should I be scared to be in a car with you while driving?",
"haha so you just never got caught, got it. My deepest darkest secret is that I secretly find black girls named (Mishal) really attractive, don't judge me;) hbu?"
] | [
{
"coach_comment": null,
"content": " No kids, no tattoos, ran into many curbs, never been to prison LOL.",
"role": "Her"
},
{
"coach_comment": null,
"content": " Any more questions?",
"role": "Her"
},
{
"coach_comment": null,
"content": "Yeah, what's your deepest darkest sec... | |
2 | [
"We can go sometime babe 😘, this one’s for the boys"
] | This is his new official girlfriend which he has been officially dating for 1 month. | [
{
"coach_comment": null,
"content": " How’s your day going ?",
"role": "Her"
},
{
"coach_comment": null,
"content": " Just woke up from a nap, got stories scheduled for next week",
"role": "Student"
},
{
"coach_comment": null,
"content": " That’s good babe. Any plans for the ... |
3 | [
"Anyway, had to slide into the DM’s to see what that fun bubbly vibe ws all about",
"So far so good.. Might have to see in person before giving you the final verdict",
"Shoot me your number and we’ll iron out the details",
"Just making sure. My buddy sent me a bottle of Caymus, SO good.",
"Anyway, make sure... | This student has been messaging random girls on instagram in his area who he thinks is cute. They have never met nor do they know each other. In this particular conversation the student was saying things that were very bad so the coach had to get context as to why he called her a raver. The student told the coach that ... | [
{
"coach_comment": null,
"content": " Long Beach?",
"role": "Student"
},
{
"coach_comment": null,
"content": " yes I'm out here",
"role": "Her"
},
{
"coach_comment": null,
"content": " Ahh you seem like a Long Beach girl.",
"role": "Student"
},
{
"coach_comment": ... |
4 | [
"It’s ok if you can’t control yourself around me",
"You just have to be good until Saturday ;)",
"Don’t get too excited, coming from the chick that double text me haha ;). But, you’re cute so it’s all good"
] | The student has met this girl in person one time and they are texting back and forth. She is following up with him after he didn’t respond to a text about meeting up | [
{
"coach_comment": null,
"content": " u truly suck at texting",
"role": "Her"
},
{
"coach_comment": null,
"content": " What do you mean lol? I was busy, but anyway i’m thinking mini golf and a drive in movie",
"role": "Student"
},
{
"coach_comment": null,
"content": " hahahah... |
5 | [
"Analysis: Cute but will slash your tires if upset",
"How’d I do"
] | The student matched with a girl on Hinge. He liked her photo, but she was the first to message him. In his profile he talked about how he is excellent at psychoanalyzing woman | [
{
"coach_comment": null,
"content": " I 100% want a psychoanalysis",
"role": "Her"
},
{
"coach_comment": "This message is broad and could apply to millions of girls. ",
"content": "Analysis: Cute but will slash your tires if upset",
"role": "assistant"
},
{
"coach_comment": null,... |
6 | [
"maybe voice notes would be better then so we don’t have a breakdown in communication. Then we might never get to our first date. Wouldn’t that be tragic.",
"I was thinking you, me, a bottle of wine, laughs, teases, neck kisses, that sort of thing. Vibing and building chemistry",
"I am a red wine drinker, you k... | He met this girl on Hinge. She liked his photo first and he got her number. They discussed the best types of wine and the girl mentioned it would only be weird if he loved Rosé. Voice messages were recommended during the Hinge interaction as they build a more intimate vibe, making you seem more real than just letters o... | [
{
"coach_comment": null,
"content": " Hey Anna I like your style 👌",
"role": "Student"
},
{
"coach_comment": null,
"content": " Hey, I like yours too 👍 and nice hair!",
"role": "Her"
},
{
"coach_comment": null,
"content": " Thanks, I wonder how well our styles would mix",
... |
7 | [
"I bet you use that line on all the cute guys ;)",
"Always wanted to travel to italy. Been to parts of Europe, a lot of mexico, want to skydive, and maybe add drinks with a cute brunette called (her name), you?",
"We could make perfect travel buddies",
" Sounds like the best of both world to me 😏",
"We sho... | He matched with this girl on Bumble, she was the first to message him | [
{
"coach_comment": null,
"content": " What’s something on your bucket list?",
"role": "Her"
},
{
"coach_comment": " This is a good message to use if the girl messages first and is particularly good when used on Bumble. It challenges her while also framing you as a cute guy.",
"content": "I b... |
8 | [
"Well that all depends. Are you the sexually open minded type of girl?",
"Only if you say please",
"Me bending (her name) over my bed, grabbing a fistful of her hair and.."
] | The student had a prompt in his hinge profile that is a shower thought I recently had, and his answer is you don’t even wanna know with a devil emoji. The girl commented on this prompt. Her comment is listed as the first line below. | [
{
"coach_comment": null,
"content": " I really want to know. The devil emoji is enticing. Is it a dirty thought or something about going to hell, I need to know",
"role": "Her"
},
{
"coach_comment": " This message gets consent from the girl about moving forward with sexualising the conversation.... |
9 | [
"Sounds like you could use some stress relief” This message is a good segway into asking for the date. Can usually be followed up with “I hear drinks with a handsome, (something else about their physical appearance, hobbies, job) man does wonders for stress",
"I’m great, just got home from my brothers birthday, b... | Context:The student met this girl out while at the bars. He got her number and text her a few days later | [
{
"coach_comment": null,
"content": " Hey (her name)",
"role": "Student"
},
{
"coach_comment": null,
"content": " Hey (student name)",
"role": "Her"
},
{
"coach_comment": null,
"content": " How’s your Thursday been treating you ?",
"role": "Student"
},
{
"coach_co... |
10 | [
"How do you think my hair got so curly",
"Hmm, maybe you’re a medical marvel",
"I’m sure we can carry out some of that research on our date",
"Of course, I don’t want to see any funny stuff from you",
"Seems we’ve found our perfect matches",
"Can’t believe you forget your plants names, bet they feel super... | They both met on Bumble, the girl texted first. Recipes were inconsistent and, on two occasions, she didn’t reply for long periods of time so the student had to prompt her to reply. The student needed to be persistent without being needy so he mirrored her interest level. | [
{
"coach_comment": null,
"content": " Do you eat the crust on the pizza?",
"role": "Her"
},
{
"coach_comment": " This is a lighthearted response. It’s a common story that eating the crusts gives you curly hair and the student had curly hair. He could have answered the question more logically but... |
11 | [
"I’ve given you a follow but I’m not on there much. Shoot me your number as well"
] | The student matched with her on Tinder. | [
{
"coach_comment": null,
"content": " You look like my future ex wife 😏",
"role": "Student"
},
{
"coach_comment": null,
"content": " You look like you know how to show a woman a good time ",
"role": "Her"
},
{
"coach_comment": null,
"content": " As an artist, it’s always see... |
12 | [
"hey (girl’s name), you recovered from your crushing defeat yet 😉",
"We could find out but I was thinking drinks for our next date",
"What’s your schedule look like this week?",
"Let’s do 7:24 then",
"Awesome, 7:24 at (name of venue) then",
"Hey (her name), you picked a cute outfit for our date? 😉",
"... | They have been on their first date. They went bowling and he beat her in the game. The coach advised he reopen the following day using callback humor relating to the date as this is often the best way to reopen, spark conversation and lead to a second date. Even though they have met in person and you don’t have to put ... | [
{
"coach_comment": " This message works as it connects you two in a shared experience. It is also good because it is teasing her about her loss without being too harsh or rude.",
"content": "hey (girl’s name), you recovered from your crushing defeat yet 😉",
"role": "assistant"
},
{
"coach_comme... |
13 | [
"I’m sure we can make Iowa more fun 😏",
"alright I’ll give that to you.. But this is what I’m thinking.. You, me, a bottle of wine, laughs, teases, neck kisses, vibing and building chemistry",
"You don’t seem like the type who’s attracted to shy guys",
"You seem like a confident girl in general. You have a n... | The student matched with the girl on Hinge. She liked his photo of him working out in the gym. | [
{
"coach_comment": null,
"content": " Do you happen to need a new gym partner? 😅 🫣",
"role": "Her"
},
{
"coach_comment": null,
"content": " Idk… do you think you can keep up?",
"role": "Student"
},
{
"coach_comment": null,
"content": " Possibly 😬 😬",
"role": "Her"
}... |
14 | [
"well I’m sure you’re still cute ;) but with all these hair changes I hope you’re not going through some kind of mental breakdown haha",
"I’ll be sure to add beach picnic to our dates agenda",
"You have exceptional taste, shoot me your number for romance arrangement purposes"
] | The student matched with the girl on Hinge. He liked her photo and she sent the first message. | [
{
"coach_comment": null,
"content": " hiii",
"role": "Her"
},
{
"coach_comment": null,
"content": " Cute, dyed hair, and nose piercings, what’s the catch?",
"role": "Student"
},
{
"coach_comment": null,
"content": " I just chopped my hair super short like 2 hours ago and it l... |
15 | [
"You look like my future ex wife 😏",
"We’re getting a prenup and I’m keeping the dog",
"He’s a labrador, how on earth would he have fit in the microwave?? This is why it never worked between us (her name)",
"If you play your cards right I might let you touch the hair on our date 😉",
"Let’s start with wine... | The student matched with this girl on Tinder. This messaging sequence uses a role play involving the girl and the student being a divorced couple. The girl does ghost part way through so the student has to reopen the conversation. The interaction ends with the student getting the girl’s phone number and moving the conv... | [
{
"coach_comment": " This is a playful way to start conversation. It can also lead into fun role plays about you and the girl being married, getting divorced and the reasons behind the divorce. ",
"content": "You look like my future ex wife 😏",
"role": "assistant"
},
{
"coach_comment": null,
... |
16 | [
"You look like my future ex wife 😏",
"You know the kids won’t leave the dog behind. This is why it never worked between us",
"Shame, the make up sex would have been phenomenal",
"Unless you disagree",
"You don’t remember the time I dragged you across the bed by your ankles and kissed you passionately, suck... | The student matched with this girl on Hinge. This messaging sequence uses a role play involving the girl and the student being a divorced couple. The girl does ghost part way through so the student has to reopen the conversation. The student then has to sexualise the conversation. The interaction ends with the student ... | [
{
"coach_comment": " This is a playful way to start conversation. It can also lead into fun role plays about you and the girl being married, getting divorced and the reasons behind the divorce. ",
"content": "You look like my future ex wife 😏",
"role": "assistant"
},
{
"coach_comment": null,
... |
17 | [
"Read my mind, sounds like a great first date",
"Definitely some beautiful spots I can show you here",
"Yeah been there a few times, beautiful place. Maybe that can be our second date",
"We should probably organize the first one before that though",
"Do you like wine?"
] | The girl initiated a prompt on Bumble. The prompt was ‘What would you do on a rainy Sunday?’. | [
{
"coach_comment": null,
"content": " Whiskey tim",
"role": "Her"
},
{
"coach_comment": null,
"content": " Film, blanket, cup of tea",
"role": "Student"
},
{
"coach_comment": null,
"content": " Whiskey wouldn’t hurt either ",
"role": "Student"
},
{
"coach_comment"... |
18 | [
"That is the dream, I can be your muse",
"You can do my portrait on our date",
"When are you typically free?"
] | The student comments on the girl’s photo on Hinge saying “You look like my future ex wife 😏”. They find some common ground before moving towards the date. | [
{
"coach_comment": null,
"content": " You look like my future ex wife 😏",
"role": "Student"
},
{
"coach_comment": null,
"content": " I will be if you don’t grow your hair long like your pic ",
"role": "Her"
},
{
"coach_comment": null,
"content": " You’ve nothing to worry abo... |
19 | [
"Nice, I like a girl who looks after her physical health. Where are you from originally?",
"Ah so you have that sexy Spanish accent then 😏",
"A flower on your ass, I like that lol you’ll gave to teach me more Spanish on our romantic date",
"Hey, it (student’s name) from the thing",
"Last night was fun” It ... | The girl liked the student's photo of him running in a race on Hinge and he opened her. | [
{
"coach_comment": null,
"content": " Hey, another runner? Love that",
"role": "Student"
},
{
"coach_comment": null,
"content": " Yeah",
"role": "Her"
},
{
"coach_comment": null,
"content": " 5k personal record?",
"role": "Her"
},
{
"coach_comment": null,
"con... |
20 | [
"We must have similarly bad taste",
"Had the same thing happen to me last week. Our date will be better though",
"Positive. Define silly",
"I definitely don’t take things too seriously, hoping you don’t either",
"We should test this out in person"
] | They met on Hinge. The student commented on her photo and she started the interaction by replying to his comment. The conversation takes place over two days but the student closed and met her on the same day. | [
{
"coach_comment": null,
"content": " You look like my future ex wife 😏",
"role": "Student"
},
{
"coach_comment": null,
"content": " How strange I was thinking you look like my next future mistake 👀",
"role": "Her"
},
{
"coach_comment": " This message works here as it builds on... |
21 | [
"Smooth (her name) 😉 I guess there’s only one way to find out",
"Sounds good, what do you do for work? I’m on day 2 of an intense couple of weeks of essay writing. Managed to get to the gym this morning though",
"I’ll be the judge of that 😉 you like wine?",
"Oh maybe this won’t work after all (her name) 😉"... | They met on Hinge. The girl liked a photo in his profile. He opened her. | [
{
"coach_comment": null,
"content": " Hey I like your style (her name) 👌",
"role": "Student"
},
{
"coach_comment": null,
"content": " Hey! Thank you, I like yours too!",
"role": "Her"
},
{
"coach_comment": null,
"content": " I wonder how well our styles would mix",
"role... |
22 | [
"What’s that?”. With his two messages he's pedestalize her by complimenting her twice. It’s okay to compliment a girl and it was good to say “you seem like",
"Careful, compliments like that might get yo a romantic date 😉",
"a white girl who doesn’t like coffee? You’re full of surprises” or “A physics major who... | They matched on Hinge. He opened her. The girl ghosted after a few messages. | [
{
"coach_comment": null,
"content": " Hey soo.. I guess we’re dating now..?",
"role": "Student"
},
{
"coach_comment": null,
"content": " I don’t think that’s how it works lol 😅",
"role": "Her"
},
{
"coach_comment": null,
"content": " I should probably figure out if you’re cr... |
23 | [
"You seem like a gym rat",
"no ice cream, no alcohol. Training for the olympics or something",
"Gotta make sure you’re not crazy or something before i give you my number 😉"
] | They met in person. The student got her number after conversation and seeding the date. | [
{
"coach_comment": null,
"content": " Hey, Ronald Regan of Long Beach",
"role": "Student"
},
{
"coach_comment": null,
"content": " Hey",
"role": "Her"
},
{
"coach_comment": " as it is shorter and matches her energy and investment level more accurately. ",
"content": "You seem... |
24 | [
"We should change that",
"That doesn’t worry me. I know what I’m doing. You’re in good safe hands"
] | They matched on Tinder. She then admitted to being a virgin. Then the student number closed. | [
{
"coach_comment": null,
"content": " Someone’s adorable af",
"role": "Student"
},
{
"coach_comment": null,
"content": " thank you ;)",
"role": "Her"
},
{
"coach_comment": null,
"content": " I’m curious about something",
"role": "Student"
},
{
"coach_comment": nul... |
25 | [
"I bet you use that line on all the cute guys 😉",
"Smooth 😏” This message is a good follow up to most things girls will respond to the “I bet you use that line on all the cute guys 😉",
"That good huh?” This is a good message to send if you ask a girl something, ask her how her day is or about an event she at... | They matched on Bumble so the girl had to message first. | [
{
"coach_comment": null,
"content": " Well you’re hella cute ain’t ya",
"role": "Her"
},
{
"coach_comment": " This is a good line to use if the girl messages you first. It was in response to pretty much anything but it is most effective when she compliments you.",
"content": "I bet you use t... |
26 | [
"Thank u, but can you promise me not to steal it when we hang out and you get cold?",
"We’ll see how persuasive you can be on our date ;)” or “depends how cute you are on our date, maybe I won’t be able to say no to you ;)",
"Mm interesting, so can I propose something?",
"We should chill and vibe out to some ... | They matched on Hinge. She sent the first message which is a good sign because it shows interest and investment from the girl right from the start of the interaction. | [
{
"coach_comment": null,
"content": " Nice fur lol",
"role": "Her"
},
{
"coach_comment": " This message does well to seed the date in a playful way without requiring any commitment from the girl. It is a playful role play that allows her to imagine herself spending time with the student in perso... |
27 | [] | The student got the girl’s number while in a nightclub. There was vibing and flirting and they were close to kissing but didn’t. | [] |
28 | [
"hey (her name) I couldn’t forget the cute, curvy teacher I vibed so well with",
"The drink was great, we should have another sometime where it’s not super loud lol",
"No worries, what time works for you? Btw I know you live 3 hours away so we can meet in the middle",
"Ok bet, but we should have a quick call ... | [
{
"coach_comment": null,
"content": " Hellp Amor lol not you naming yourself that in my phone lol. Its (her name) your fellow Leo, unless you forgot haha have a goodnight and get to sleep safely!",
"role": "Her"
},
{
"coach_comment": " just to make it more succinct and flow better.",
"conten... | |
29 | [
"That’s cool, but please don’t tell me we have to do the matching pajamas too"
] | They matched on a dating app. He sent the first message. | [
{
"coach_comment": null,
"content": " So I guess we’re dating now?... Not sure how this works",
"role": "Student"
},
{
"coach_comment": null,
"content": " Yes that’s how it is. Think you can meet my parents in November, and we’ll get engaged in December! ",
"role": "Her"
},
{
"co... |
30 | [
"No worries, you can make it up to me on our date 😉"
] | Matched on a dating app. The student messaged the girl first. | [
{
"coach_comment": null,
"content": " It’s always the discrete ones that are the most fun ;)",
"role": "Student"
},
{
"coach_comment": null,
"content": " how’s it going?",
"role": "Student"
},
{
"coach_comment": null,
"content": " Very well thank you ☺️",
"role": "Her"
... |
31 | [
"Is the British accent fact or cap?"
] | They matched on Hinge. He commented on her photo. She mentioned in her profile that she is British. | [
{
"coach_comment": null,
"content": "Is the British accent fact or cap?",
"role": "assistant"
},
{
"coach_comment": null,
"content": " Fact 🤣",
"role": "Her"
},
{
"coach_comment": null,
"content": " Babygirl",
"role": "Student"
},
{
"coach_comment": null,
"co... |
32 | [] | Context:They matched on Hinge. She mentioned in her profile that she was a PHD student so he commented on that first. | [
{
"coach_comment": null,
"content": " PHD student and fun is a pretty rare combo",
"role": "Student"
},
{
"coach_comment": null,
"content": " I’m not sold (her name)",
"role": "Student"
},
{
"coach_comment": null,
"content": " Hahaha I promise we exist",
"role": "Her"
}... |
33 | [
"Careful, cute compliments like that might just land you a date ;)",
"& you obviously have a few of my weaknesses",
"Cute & curvy, with a bit of a wild side. A sexy feminine energy which tells me there’s a fun submissive side to you for the right man 😉",
"Mhm, I even have a plan",
"Me & you splitting a bot... | They matched on Hinge. She liked his photo. He messaged her first. | [
{
"coach_comment": null,
"content": " Hey trouble",
"role": "Student"
},
{
"coach_comment": null,
"content": " Hey handsome",
"role": "Her"
},
{
"coach_comment": " This message works to seed the date and set intention early in the conversation. It also sets the frame that she is ... |
34 | [
"Gym, planning, reading, meal prepping, hang out with friends. Just missing a little bit of (her name) 😉",
"Originally from the Philippines, moved to TX when I was 7-8, now I’m here for our romance",
"You’ll be whispering Gujarati on our date, I hope 😏",
"Adventurous I see. I’m just looking to meet a cool g... | They matched on Bumble so she has to message him first. | [
{
"coach_comment": null,
"content": " What’s up, buttercup? 💕",
"role": "Her"
},
{
"coach_comment": null,
"content": " Sup sexy starburst, how’s your Friday?",
"role": "Student"
},
{
"coach_comment": null,
"content": " Omg you’re cuuute. Starburst, I like this ",
"role":... |
35 | [
"Don’t worry I’m gonna change that for you! I just hope you have a few qualities I like too",
"Lol! I’m just not a fan of the bars in Williamsburg. I have a few wine bare I’d love to take you to though if you’re feeling adventurous",
"Hey, I had fun last night"
] | They matched on Hinge. He responded to her prompt which said ‘I recently discovered that… my attraction to men is almost exclusively based on how funny I think they are. Great news for the broke guys!. His response was “What about funny and not broke guys? | [
{
"coach_comment": null,
"content": " What about funny and not broke guys?",
"role": "Student"
},
{
"coach_comment": null,
"content": " Hmm… not my type ",
"role": "Her"
},
{
"coach_comment": null,
"content": " But I might give it a shot",
"role": "Her"
},
{
"coac... |
36 | [
"Oh no, made (her name) shy.",
"I’m sure you appreciate a bit of forwardness",
"Lost the sexy accent unfortunately lol",
"You + me = more than friends 😏"
] | They matched on Tinder. The student messaged the girl first. | [
{
"coach_comment": null,
"content": " You seem like the perfect mix of cute & trouble ",
"role": "Student"
},
{
"coach_comment": null,
"content": " Called it 😂",
"role": "Her"
},
{
"coach_comment": null,
"content": " Cool. I’d know just how to handle you 😏 This kind of mess... |
37 | [
"Glad to hear. It was great, not too packed. Looking nice and fit for our date” The aim of this message is to seed the date. After telling a girl you have done any from of exercise, you can seed the date by saying “Looking nice and fit for our date",
"feeling spontaneous?"
] | They matched on Tinder and she messages him first. This is a great sign as it shows investment from the girl. The whole interaction took place on Tinder, no number close. | [
{
"coach_comment": null,
"content": " Hello! How are you?",
"role": "Her"
},
{
"coach_comment": null,
"content": " Hey cutie ;) doing amazing just got out of the gym, hbu?",
"role": "Student"
},
{
"coach_comment": null,
"content": " I’m good thank you ☺️ how was the gym",
... |
38 | [
"When you’re the small spoon, I’d wrap my arm around your waist and get you close to me while your booty warms me up when I hold you tight. Play with your hair and pull it to the side to kiss on the back of your neck",
"Pro cuddler for a reason ;) I’ll be sure to include that to our romantic date’s agenda as well... | They match on Bumble so the girl has to message first. | [
{
"coach_comment": null,
"content": " Hey 👋 what’s up?",
"role": "Her"
},
{
"coach_comment": null,
"content": " Hey Lucie. Just came back from a run with my dog. Tired him out and he’s passed out on the couch lol and you? ",
"role": "Student"
},
{
"coach_comment": null,
"con... |
39 | [
"Fuckin amazing!! Just got back from the gym after a killer workout. Looking sharp for our date. You?” The aim of this message is to seed the date. After telling a girl you have done any form of exercise, you can seed the date by saying “Looking nice and fit for our date” or “looking sharp for our date",
"Haha we... | They matched on Hinge. She liked his photo. He messaged first. | [
{
"coach_comment": null,
"content": " I like your style 👌",
"role": "Student"
},
{
"coach_comment": null,
"content": " Thank you ☺️ I like youre too 😉",
"role": "Her"
},
{
"coach_comment": null,
"content": " How’s your Sunday going?",
"role": "Her"
},
{
"coach_c... |
40 | [
"Looking nice and fit for our date” or “looking sharp for our date",
"Look at us. Preparing for our romantic date we haven’t even organized yet",
"Don’t worry. I’ll look sexy af and irresistible too. And I’ll be sure to pack extra charm in my pockets.",
"Interesting phone number",
"I deleted my instagram la... | They matched on Hinge. The student commented on her photo in Russian because she mentioned that she was russian. | [
{
"coach_comment": null,
"content": " Privet Tatyana",
"role": "Student"
},
{
"coach_comment": null,
"content": " Privet! Ti govorish po Rysski?",
"role": "Her"
},
{
"coach_comment": null,
"content": " No haha I dated a Russian last year. I could only learn and remember that ... |
41 | [] | They matched on Bumble so the girl must message first. She sends him a gif of two people saying ‘HAYYY’. | [
{
"coach_comment": null,
"content": " HAYYY",
"role": "Her"
},
{
"coach_comment": null,
"content": " Hey there ;) Was waiting for you to message me",
"role": "Student"
},
{
"coach_comment": null,
"content": " The time is now hahaha",
"role": "Her"
},
{
"coach_comm... |
42 | [
"I’m not the best at math but you could replace my X and I won’t ask Y",
"Lmao well I’ve never tried it, so I guess we’ll find out together 🫢",
"Aha ok off to a good start 😅",
"You’re cute, what are you looking for on here?",
"Aha thanks girl 😘",
"And me too, trying to have some fun and going with the ... | Matched on Hinge. She liked one of his prompts. The prompt said ‘Believe it or not, I probably have more tattoos than you’. She also messaged him first. | [
{
"coach_comment": null,
"content": " Hi",
"role": "Her"
},
{
"coach_comment": null,
"content": "I’m not the best at math but you could replace my X and I won’t ask Y",
"role": "assistant"
},
{
"coach_comment": null,
"content": " 😂 Omg how well does that work on women 😝",
... |
43 | [
"We should recreate your third photo. I’ll be the ATV",
"Lmoa (laughing my ass off) Honestly it was just too easy",
"Be cool if you did though. I’ve always wanted a sugar momma 😂",
"All of your vacation photos lead me to believe you’re not joking",
"I’m glad you don’t need me to pay your rent 😅 But if you... | They match on Tinder. The student messages her first. In her third photo, she is in a bikini riding an all-terrain vehicle (ATV). There are a lot of shit tests in this interaction but the key to passing shit tests is to reverse it on her/ flip the frame and stay strong and confident. | [
{
"coach_comment": " Observational openers like this, which comment on one of the girl’s photos are the most effective when it comes to response rate.",
"content": "We should recreate your third photo. I’ll be the ATV",
"role": "assistant"
},
{
"coach_comment": null,
"content": " If I had a ... |
44 | [
"You better be a good little spoon",
"Your confidence is a solid 2/10",
"But I love the honesty",
"Okok I see you Shirley 👀",
"You’re cute, what are you looking for on here?",
"Lmfao (laughing my fucking ass off)",
"Good sex and if I fall in love that’s chill too",
"One can always dream",
"Haha sho... | They matched on Hinge. He messaged her first. | [
{
"coach_comment": null,
"content": "You better be a good little spoon",
"role": "assistant"
},
{
"coach_comment": null,
"content": " Demands this early on haha can’t guarantee the ‘good’ part",
"role": "Her"
},
{
"coach_comment": " This message is supposed to tease the girl. ",
... |
45 | [
"Come have a drink and let’s see if we vibe",
"I have plans tomo (tomorrow)",
"(his address)",
"Yeah obviously 😂” This is a good way to respond to the ‘are you a murderer/ serial killer?’ questions. The sarcastic response communicates that he isn’t a murderer and that the question is ridiculous. Another good... | They matched on Bumble so the girl must message first. This joins the conversation part way through the interaction. | [
{
"coach_comment": null,
"content": "Come have a drink and let’s see if we vibe",
"role": "assistant"
},
{
"coach_comment": null,
"content": " How about tm (tomorrow)?",
"role": "Her"
},
{
"coach_comment": null,
"content": "I have plans tomo (tomorrow)",
"role": "assistan... |
46 | [
"I feel like making a lawyer your wifey is such a bad idea",
"But damn you have me tempted",
"Did you get banned or something",
"I have a thing for girls who break the rules",
"I can’t imagine leaving Brazil for snowy Canada 😂",
"But ur (you’re) cute, what are you looking for on here?",
"Yeah I feel th... | The matched on Tinder. He messaged her first. From her profile, the student knows that she is a lawyer. | [
{
"coach_comment": " Observational openers like this are usually the most effective way to get a response from the girl.",
"content": "I feel like making a lawyer your wifey is such a bad idea",
"role": "assistant"
},
{
"coach_comment": null,
"content": "But damn you have me tempted",
"r... |
47 | [
"Hey cutie",
"Aha yeah it’s me",
"How’s it going 🙂",
"Wow absolutely love that for you Nat",
"Currently trying to get a tan on my balcony so I’m not as pale as a ghost 😂",
"Are you one of those people who wears a suit on the top half and boxers on the bottom",
"Haha damn that’s hot",
"(Sent photo of... | They matched on a dating app. This conversation takes place after he got her phone number. | [
{
"coach_comment": null,
"content": "Hey cutie",
"role": "assistant"
},
{
"coach_comment": null,
"content": " Hi 🙂 Hunter?",
"role": "Her"
},
{
"coach_comment": null,
"content": "Aha yeah it’s me",
"role": "assistant"
},
{
"coach_comment": null,
"content": "H... |
48 | [
"Ketchup on eggs is elite",
"I’m willing to die on that hill",
"It’s okay, I don’t kiss my friends (her name) 😉",
"Ahaha only if I like you",
"So bring your a-game 👀",
"Lmfao you’re cute, What are you looking for on here?",
"Haha yeah I’m in the same boat",
"Keeping things fun and going with the flo... | They matched on Hinge. He replied to her prompt which said ‘My most controversial opinion is… Ketchup does not belong on eggs’. | [
{
"coach_comment": " Observational openers like this, which comment on one of the girl’s photos are the most effective when it comes to response rate.",
"content": "Ketchup on eggs is elite",
"role": "assistant"
},
{
"coach_comment": null,
"content": "I’m willing to die on that hill",
"r... |
49 | [
"Haha do you even have one?",
"Shame, I was looking forward to exploring your body looking for them 💁♂️",
"I love the confidence",
"What are you looking for on here (her name)?",
"I’m going to Asia in a few weeks",
"Are you dead set on a relationship, or are you down to hang out this week?"
] | They matched on Hinge. She began the interaction by Commenting on one of his prompts which said ‘One thing people don’t know about me is… I probably have more tattoos than you’. | [
{
"coach_comment": null,
"content": " You probably do have more tatts than me but how bout you show me? 😉",
"role": "Her"
},
{
"coach_comment": " This teases her about being innocent.",
"content": "Haha do you even have one?",
"role": "assistant"
},
{
"coach_comment": null,
... |
50 | [
"Come cuddle",
"Wow how dare you",
"But we could probably make that work",
"Yeahh baby"
] | They have had their first date. It went well. The student is trying to get a second date with the girl. You don’t need to constantly be texting back and forth. Keep it simple and organize logistics. | [
{
"coach_comment": null,
"content": "Come cuddle",
"role": "assistant"
},
{
"coach_comment": null,
"content": " I wish",
"role": "Her"
},
{
"coach_comment": null,
"content": " I’m busy tonight",
"role": "Her"
},
{
"coach_comment": null,
"content": " You free t... |
51 | [
"I can’t tell if you’re innocent or an absolute baddie",
"Lmfoa nooo it was my favorite one 😅 💀",
"Ok you send me your bets line then",
"You can’t tell me to improve my lines then follow up with this ^",
"Lmfao no why?",
"I mean your mouth isn’t the only place I’m trying to put my tongue 😌",
"Aha you... | They match on Hinge. He messages her first. Standard pick up line. | [
{
"coach_comment": null,
"content": "I can’t tell if you’re innocent or an absolute baddie",
"role": "assistant"
},
{
"coach_comment": null,
"content": " 😂",
"role": "Her"
},
{
"coach_comment": null,
"content": " I already heard that phrase her",
"role": "Her"
},
{
... |
52 | [
"I can’t tell if you’re innocent or and absolute baddie",
"More than you could possibly imagine",
"Do you want me to send my excel spreadsheet over?",
"Hmm I don’t think Bumble supports csv files",
"Might need your number instead"
] | The match on Bumble so the girl must message first. | [
{
"coach_comment": null,
"content": " Howdy",
"role": "Her"
},
{
"coach_comment": null,
"content": "I can’t tell if you’re innocent or and absolute baddie",
"role": "assistant"
},
{
"coach_comment": null,
"content": " Lol how often have you used that on?",
"role": "Her"
... |
53 | [
"Colgate or crest?",
"hmmm true but I’d rather give you oral b",
"Aha so glad you have a sense of humor",
"You’re hot, what are you looking for on here?",
"Sounds like you’re ready for a hot girl summer eh 😉",
"Damn I love your energy",
"Okk so don’t be weirded out, but me and my girlfriend are looking... | They match on Tinder and the aim is to set up a threesome. | [
{
"coach_comment": null,
"content": "Colgate or crest?",
"role": "assistant"
},
{
"coach_comment": null,
"content": " Colgate? I suppose",
"role": "Her"
},
{
"coach_comment": " This play on words introduces a sexual component to the interaction early on.",
"content": "hmmm tr... |
54 | [
"What did chocolate timbits ever do to you 😤",
"Not gonna lie so many dirty lines came to mind when you said sour cream glazed and it took every ounce of strength for me to keep this family friendly",
"Glad you like it glazed cause I’m tyranny fill you like a Boston cream",
"Honestly you look super innocent ... | They matched on Tinder. She mentioned that she didn’t like chocolate timbits in her bio so that is what he used to open her with. | [
{
"coach_comment": " Observational openers like this are usually the most effective way to get a response from the girl.",
"content": "What did chocolate timbits ever do to you 😤",
"role": "assistant"
},
{
"coach_comment": null,
"content": " It’s all about the sour cream glazed life 🙏",
... |
55 | [
"I would so make out with you",
"As long as you can help me fix my daddy issues ofc",
"Is it bad that I think some therapist role play would be hot af?",
"You’re cute, what are you looking for on here?",
"Honestly same just looking for a fwb (friends with benefits) to have some casual fun this summer",
"A... | They matched on Tinder. He messaged her first. It says in her profile that she majored in psychology so he uses that in the conversation. | [
{
"coach_comment": null,
"content": "I would so make out with you",
"role": "assistant"
},
{
"coach_comment": null,
"content": " that’s crazy i was thinking the same thing!",
"role": "Her"
},
{
"coach_comment": " This message sets up a playful roleplay in the conversation which c... |
56 | [
"I would so make out with you",
"Would you be into that?",
"Oh I’m intrigued",
"Lmao kind of a dream to have a lil ranch but also not looking to settle down rn so I’m torn",
"Not even gonna buy me a drink first?"
] | Context: | [
{
"coach_comment": null,
"content": "I would so make out with you",
"role": "assistant"
},
{
"coach_comment": null,
"content": " So does this make me the prey to your hunter?",
"role": "Her"
},
{
"coach_comment": null,
"content": "Would you be into that?",
"role": "assist... |
57 | [
"Oh most definitely more than you",
"I have big pieces it feels weird to count them lol",
"Wanna bet",
"Hmm what do I get when I beat you",
"Winner gets head if you’re so confident"
] | They matched on Tinder. She messages him first in response to part of his bio which says ‘I bet I have mere tattoos that you’. | [
{
"coach_comment": null,
"content": " pffft how many tats do u have",
"role": "Her"
},
{
"coach_comment": null,
"content": " I’m seeing none 🤔",
"role": "Her"
},
{
"coach_comment": null,
"content": "Oh most definitely more than you",
"role": "assistant"
},
{
"coa... |
58 | [
"Solid 8.5 indeed 👀",
"You tryna call me daddy so we can celebrate it together?",
"Aha love that",
"You’re cute, what are you looking for on here?",
"Yeah I feel that",
"Looking to meet someone chill and have some fun this summer, possibly a fwb type scenario if it feels right",
"Aha yesss you’re speak... | They matched on Tinder. He messaged her first. She said she had ‘solid 8.5 cooking skills’. | [
{
"coach_comment": null,
"content": "Solid 8.5 indeed 👀",
"role": "assistant"
},
{
"coach_comment": null,
"content": " Haha ;) what’s up? Any Father’s Day weekend plans?",
"role": "Her"
},
{
"coach_comment": null,
"content": "You tryna call me daddy so we can celebrate it to... |
59 | [
"Honestly so am I but somehow never stopped me 😂",
"Shame that our tattoo tour is gonna be one sided though 😫",
"Wow 10/10 texter over here 😂",
"But at least you’re cute, what are you looking for on here?",
"Aha yeah I feel that, nothing super serious just looking to meet new people and have fun this sum... | They matched on Tinder. She messages him first in response to part of his bio which says ‘I bet I have mere tattoos that you’. | [
{
"coach_comment": null,
"content": " you’d be right about the tats, I have a needle phobia 🥴",
"role": "Her"
},
{
"coach_comment": null,
"content": "Honestly so am I but somehow never stopped me 😂",
"role": "assistant"
},
{
"coach_comment": null,
"content": " That’s impres... |
60 | [
"Haha you look like the innocent type who would never get one",
"That was unexpected",
"Any other secret sides I should know about you? 👀",
"Haha you’re cute",
"WHat are you looking for on here Nat?",
"Yeah I feel that, keeping things casual and fun for now and going with the flow",
"Where are you thou... | They matched on Tinder. She messages him first in response to part of his bio which says ‘I bet I have mere tattoos that you’. | [
{
"coach_comment": null,
"content": " Definitely have more tattoos than me ",
"role": "Her"
},
{
"coach_comment": null,
"content": "Haha you look like the innocent type who would never get one",
"role": "assistant"
},
{
"coach_comment": null,
"content": " I have 8 😁",
"r... |
61 | [
"Let’s meet for a drink soon. I’m probably going to the clubs a bit later",
"I’ve heard having rough passionate sex beforehand increases your luck 🤔 what do you reckon?",
"With every orgasm your luck goes us by 2%",
"Challenge accepted. Where you staying at the moment?",
"Pretty close. Almost in chokable r... | They met on Tinder. The conversation went well, a connection was made and a sexual frame was established. The interaction begins after he gets her number. | [
{
"coach_comment": null,
"content": "Let’s meet for a drink soon. I’m probably going to the clubs a bit later",
"role": "assistant"
},
{
"coach_comment": null,
"content": " Sounds good, i’ve got some blackjack to fuck up",
"role": "Her"
},
{
"coach_comment": null,
"content": ... |
62 | [
"Such a white girl 😝",
"Anything non starbucks related or with an alcoholic percentage above 0.01 😂"
] | They matched on Tinder. He got her number and they moved the interaction to iMessage. | [
{
"coach_comment": null,
"content": " nah just a caramel latte from starbucks with my name on it would make me happy",
"role": "Her"
},
{
"coach_comment": null,
"content": "Such a white girl 😝",
"role": "assistant"
},
{
"coach_comment": null,
"content": " What’s not a white ... |
63 | [
"You look a lot like my future ex wife",
"I keep the dog and we’re getting a prenup",
"No. You tried to drown it last week not allowing that",
"Maybe. I should never have slept with her, she’s pregnant now",
"Okay. You’re going to rehab and we’re seeing Dr Phil next week we might be able to make this work",... | Context:They matched on Tinder. He opened her with a standard opener that starts a fun roleplay. | [
{
"coach_comment": null,
"content": "You look a lot like my future ex wife",
"role": "assistant"
},
{
"coach_comment": null,
"content": " Ah i was trying to be subtle but yes that’s me",
"role": "Her"
},
{
"coach_comment": null,
"content": "I keep the dog and we’re getting a ... |
64 | [
"Nooo…no… That’s a conversation ender lol gonna need a little more than that"
] | This is an example of how to handle a girl who gives one word responses. | [
{
"coach_comment": null,
"content": " Okay",
"role": "Her"
},
{
"coach_comment": null,
"content": "Nooo…no… That’s a conversation ender lol gonna need a little more than that",
"role": "assistant"
},
{
"coach_comment": null,
"content": " Hahaha",
"role": "Her"
},
{
... |
65 | [
"Fluent but prefer english over thi sveedesh. What a unique intro. Recently I was happy on a walk when I realised I’m doing what I wanna be doing with my life right now. Hbu?",
"I like that. I take it you prefer deep conversations then? Or maybe just fed up of boring tinder conversations",
"At the moment, quit ... | Context:This interaction proves that, executed properly and with the right kind of girl, long paragraph texts can work well if you are matching her energy. | [
{
"coach_comment": null,
"content": " Hey, I really like your bio! Let’s skip the how-are-you-convo? Tell me about something that’s made you happy recently instead 🙂",
"role": "Her"
},
{
"coach_comment": null,
"content": " Also not sure if you prefer English or Swedish, let me know",
"r... |
66 | [
"Is this one of those asmr videos?",
"You can be my secret girlfriend then. To avoid public cringe. And an announcement for the date of our smash brawl",
"I’ll admit you would look cute wrapped around my arm. We can do a 3 month probationary period",
"You happened to be talking to my old office’s reigning sma... | They match on Tinder. Hey messages her first in response to a photo in her profile that is her wearing headphones, in front of a microphone. It also says in her bio that she enjoys Mario Super Smash Bros, which he mentions as well. | [
{
"coach_comment": null,
"content": "Is this one of those asmr videos?",
"role": "assistant"
},
{
"coach_comment": null,
"content": " It could be one, but they kinda cringe. Maybe I am too. What would you like it to be?",
"role": "Her"
},
{
"coach_comment": null,
"content": "... |
67 | [
"You’re adventurous, like to express yourself. Bit of a hippie. Long legs. Sometimes parties like the world’s about to end. Anything else important I missed?",
"Only english sorry 😉",
"What type of celebrity butt. Firm and squeezable?",
"Life is short. Should be enjoyed!",
"Hot. Very heart-shaped. The only... | They matched on Feeld. He opens her with a cold read that is deliberately vague but feels like it is all about her but could apply to anyone. | [
{
"coach_comment": null,
"content": "You’re adventurous, like to express yourself. Bit of a hippie. Long legs. Sometimes parties like the world’s about to end. Anything else important I missed?",
"role": "assistant"
},
{
"coach_comment": null,
"content": " Hahaha",
"role": "Her"
},
{... |
68 | [
"It looks like we have a couple things in common already but I think I have to watch out for you… you look like trouble",
"Haha your vibe is just giving I’m nice but if u try and eat my sushi on the first date, I’ll fuck u up haha” Another good version of this message is “Haha your vibe is just giving I’m nice as... | They matched on Hinge. The girl liked his photo and opened him once he liked her back. | [
{
"coach_comment": null,
"content": " 👋",
"role": "Her"
},
{
"coach_comment": null,
"content": "It looks like we have a couple things in common already but I think I have to watch out for you… you look like trouble",
"role": "assistant"
},
{
"coach_comment": null,
"content":... |
69 | [
"yea you’re right, I’m from (location). So tell me more about you, you don’t seem like you’re boring 🤞"
] | They matched on a dating app. The student inferred from her profile that she is shy but cute. | [
{
"coach_comment": null,
"content": " I like your eyes",
"role": "Student"
},
{
"coach_comment": null,
"content": " Aww thank you 🙂",
"role": "Her"
},
{
"coach_comment": null,
"content": " Ur welcome. Where are you from, Venezuela?",
"role": "Student"
},
{
"coach... |
70 | [
"Based off your pics, u def have blonde hair and love country but funnier so the lie has to be that you’re funnier than me 😉” This message works as a way to keep the conversation lighthearted and teasing. Some other options for this message are “based off your pics, u def have blonde hair and love country so I’ll ... | The student has seen this girl on Hinge and wants to send a message with his like, which is something that is highly recommended. In her photos she has dark hair and is wearing cowboy boots and cowboys hats. | [
{
"coach_comment": null,
"content": " Two truths, one lie…I love country music, I’m funnier than you, I have blonde hair",
"role": "Her"
},
{
"coach_comment": " This message works as a way to keep the conversation lighthearted and teasing. Some other options for this message are “based off your ... |
71 | [
"So she’s cute, bilingual and Syrian…what’s the catch?",
"Hey it’s Amir from hinge",
"What trouble did you get into today?",
"Caused all kinds of trouble today, stole the only copy of the Muppets from Space 2” This message was edited from what the coach told him to send which was: “Caused all kinds of trouble... | They matched on Hinge and she gave him her instagram. She responded to his prompt which said ‘I get myself out of a funk by making art”. | [
{
"coach_comment": null,
"content": " What kind of art do you make? 🙂",
"role": "Her"
},
{
"coach_comment": null,
"content": " I make the art of a good relationship",
"role": "Student"
},
{
"coach_comment": null,
"content": " on a serious note I work across a lot of mediums... |
72 | [
"Your face is telling me you’re innocent but that choker is telling me you’re big trouble",
"Is that so 😏 well you certainly have a few of my weaknesses",
"Mhm, great sense of style, cute & curvy with a bit of a wild side",
"Absolutely, what area are you in?",
"(location) not too far for our romance",
";... | They matched on Tinder. He messaged her first. In his first message he references one of her photos in which she is wearing a choker. | [
{
"coach_comment": null,
"content": "Your face is telling me you’re innocent but that choker is telling me you’re big trouble",
"role": "assistant"
},
{
"coach_comment": null,
"content": " lol the choker is just for fashion that’s all",
"role": "Her"
},
{
"coach_comment": null,
... |
73 | [
"Serious question, why do you seem innocent but also trouble at the same time",
"Oh, I’m an angel. Something tells me you might not be so innocent though 😏",
"Is that so? I have just the plan to solve our mystery",
"Just what I like to hear. Before we get into the nitty gritty, I need to know a few things ab... | They matched on Tinder. He messaged first with a generic opener that could apply to anyone. | [
{
"coach_comment": null,
"content": "Serious question, why do you seem innocent but also trouble at the same time",
"role": "assistant"
},
{
"coach_comment": null,
"content": " Hahaha let’s say because I’m the whole package so you get a little bit of everything! But don’t worry I lean innoce... |
74 | [
"Good. I have a few ideas for us that you’ll like even more",
"I’ll be sure to give you a good spanking on our date. I just hope you can keep up, I have a very high sex drive.",
"Good. You’ll be the happiest girl in Brooklyn very soon",
"We’ll take our time. It’s important to me that you’re comfortable. The I... | They matched on OkCupid. She had said that she was looking for casual hookups on her profile and she gave me the energy so I gave her the energy back. | [
{
"coach_comment": null,
"content": " Hey trouble",
"role": "Student"
},
{
"coach_comment": null,
"content": " 😈",
"role": "Her"
},
{
"coach_comment": null,
"content": " The innocent fuck me eyes never lie 😈 you seem like my type btw",
"role": "Student"
},
{
"co... |
75 | [
"You’re cute. I can think of a few easy we’d have fun",
"Mm, you think you can handle it?",
"Good. I’m going to handcuff your hands behind your back. And then I’m going to force you down on your knees and tell you to open your mouth.",
"Yes, for our second meet. But for now, I’ll be having you as the main cou... | They matched on Tinder. He messaged her first with a generic opener that could apply to almost anyone. | [
{
"coach_comment": null,
"content": "You’re cute. I can think of a few easy we’d have fun",
"role": "assistant"
},
{
"coach_comment": null,
"content": " You have my attention 🙂",
"role": "Her"
},
{
"coach_comment": null,
"content": "Mm, you think you can handle it?",
"ro... |
76 | [
"Oh I’m a big karaoke guy. What’s your go-to song?",
"LOL nice, now I’m imagining you rapping in a bucket hat with your drink in your hand.. I see you",
"The fifth pic makes so much sense now 😉",
"Respect hahaha a true trailblazer in action. Is look at me now in your song list? Now that’s a hard one",
"Hah... | They matched on Hinge. She had a very sweet, cutesy vibe to her profile. She liked his photo. He messaged her first by responding to a prompt she had about karaoke. | [
{
"coach_comment": null,
"content": "Oh I’m a big karaoke guy. What’s your go-to song?",
"role": "assistant"
},
{
"coach_comment": null,
"content": " My go to song is a milli 😂",
"role": "Her"
},
{
"coach_comment": null,
"content": "LOL nice, now I’m imagining you rapping in... |
77 | [
"Is that so? Sounds like we’re off to a great start then ;)",
"Am I going to be a bad influence on you?",
"Because I like to get into some fun trouble from time to time myself 😈",
"Haha nothing too crazy, just a few neck kisses and a lil hair pulling",
"Glad we are ;) so let’s start with the basics. Any ta... | They matched on Tinder. Hey messaged her first with a generic opener. | [
{
"coach_comment": null,
"content": " Hey trouble 😏",
"role": "Student"
},
{
"coach_comment": null,
"content": " Trouble I’m a good girl 😂 😈",
"role": "Her"
},
{
"coach_comment": "7 🥰",
"content": " Also hi I’m 5”7 🥰",
"role": "Her"
},
{
"coach_comment": null... |
78 | [
"When did you start modeling?",
"Lmao damn might be time to get into it (her name) 😅",
"You won’t be saying that after I steal your 🐈",
"Haha love the confidence (her name)",
"Right on, I’m looking for something chill and fun for now but down to see where things go if that makes sense",
"Lemme secure th... | Context:They matched on Tinder. He messaged her first with a generic opener that could apply to anyone. | [
{
"coach_comment": null,
"content": "When did you start modeling?",
"role": "assistant"
},
{
"coach_comment": null,
"content": " Ahaha nere",
"role": "Her"
},
{
"coach_comment": null,
"content": "Lmao damn might be time to get into it (her name) 😅",
"role": "assistant"
... |
79 | [
"Wow ice Cream and fries on our date?!",
"When is this happening?",
"Sure!",
"Well I’d prefer to meet in public before going inside. I feel better like that",
"Maybe. If you’re as fun in person as you are over text and the vibe is right",
"Haha I feel like it’s too early to give you my address. Let’s grab... | They matched on Tinder. He messaged her first. This interaction contains some examples of misinterpreting what she says and reframing them. This is not an example of a perfect interaction as there is little to no ‘get to know you’ conversation and, so, very little comfort and connection created for the girl. There are ... | [
{
"coach_comment": null,
"content": "Wow ice Cream and fries on our date?!",
"role": "assistant"
},
{
"coach_comment": null,
"content": " the best thing ever",
"role": "Her"
},
{
"coach_comment": " Misinterpreting what she is saying to mean that she is referring to their date.",
... |
80 | [
"Love you",
"Mean it?",
"Wow that’s fucked up…",
"Haha kidding! We can get a divorce that’s totally fine 😜",
"The dotted line..",
"Just so you know, I’m keeping the dogs!",
"When we were married they all became mine!",
"You can have the house in Australia",
"It was a threesome you can’t call that c... | They match on Tinder and he opens her with a generic opener. | [
{
"coach_comment": null,
"content": "Love you",
"role": "assistant"
},
{
"coach_comment": null,
"content": " love you too 🤣",
"role": "Her"
},
{
"coach_comment": null,
"content": "Mean it?",
"role": "assistant"
},
{
"coach_comment": null,
"content": " Hahaha ... |
81 | [
"Amazing! How are you?",
"Just finishing up writing an article. Yourself?",
"What course? Its generally around how men can improve themselves and understand women on a deeper level. The one I’m writing about now is dirty talk to improve pleasure in the bedroom",
"That makes sense, I think that would suit you"... | They matched on Tinder during the COVID-19 pandemic. He super liked her. Then she likes one of his photos and sent the first message. | [
{
"coach_comment": null,
"content": " Hey how are you doing?",
"role": "Her"
},
{
"coach_comment": null,
"content": "Amazing! How are you?",
"role": "assistant"
},
{
"coach_comment": null,
"content": " I’m very well thank you",
"role": "Her"
},
{
"coach_comment": ... |
82 | [
"Thanks for the super like!",
"Hmm what intrigued you the most?",
"I usually travel the world city to city running workshops coaching men with topic on sex, dominance foreplay, understanding women etc etc.",
"I’ve met some amazing girls from here, I tend to be a good judge of character though. I know a lot of... | They match on Tinder. Her bio says: ‘ 🏴 living in Sydney. Not on here for hook up! I like to cuddle but also like a party 😜 I won’t message first because I think that’s your job 🤷♀️’. She didn’t super like him but that is his opener to get a reaction out of her. | [
{
"coach_comment": null,
"content": "Thanks for the super like!",
"role": "assistant"
},
{
"coach_comment": null,
"content": " Haha no worries",
"role": "Her"
},
{
"coach_comment": null,
"content": " I was very intrigued so didn’t want you to skip past me 😜",
"role": "He... |
83 | [
"Hey is this the girl who loves blindfolds & handcuffs?",
"Where are you right now?",
"My plan for Monday is to use my blindfold on you!",
"You’re going to absolutely love every moment of it…",
"How’s 9pm for you?",
"Perfect. I’ll message you the exact address later tonight ;)",
"Hey you’re the one that... | The student met the girl in the club. The conversation was made sexual in person. He opens her with a callback to the sexual conversation from their in-person interaction. His first message was sent on the night they met at 3:34am. | [
{
"coach_comment": null,
"content": "Hey is this the girl who loves blindfolds & handcuffs?",
"role": "assistant"
},
{
"coach_comment": null,
"content": " Yas its me",
"role": "Her"
},
{
"coach_comment": null,
"content": "Where are you right now?",
"role": "assistant"
}... |
84 | [
"You should’ve worn that collar last night!",
"Good girl.",
"As long as you behave yourself.",
"Likely not. I’ll always find ways to punish you…",
"And I can’t wait to see how I’m going to punish you and when…",
"That’s a great idea! What’s your schedule like next week?",
"Monday would actually work rea... | The met at the club.The interaction goes well and he messages her on WhatsApp the next day at 13:14. She is wearing a collar in her WhatsApp photo so he uses that to open her. | [
{
"coach_comment": " ",
"content": "You should’ve worn that collar last night!",
"role": "assistant"
},
{
"coach_comment": null,
"content": " Ohh you’re right! I even thought about wearing it but forgot about it when I was leaving my house in a rush haha",
"role": "Her"
},
{
"coa... |
85 | [
"What’s your schedule like?",
"I’m busy tonight. I think I can make time for us tomorrow or Friday night around 9:30.",
"Friday it is. Be ready by 10",
"Yes. But if you reschedule again I’ll have to punish you.."
] | They met during day game. They are organizing the date but she is trying to reschedule on him. | [
{
"coach_comment": null,
"content": "What’s your schedule like?",
"role": "assistant"
},
{
"coach_comment": null,
"content": " I’m free after 9, or saturday after 8",
"role": "Her"
},
{
"coach_comment": null,
"content": "I’m busy tonight. I think I can make time for us tomorr... |
86 | [
"No problem! I’m back at my penthouse. 3 mins away",
"Perfect! I’ll message you then",
"How’s 8pm?",
"Perfect, I’ll send you the address later ;)",
"That actually works even better for me!",
"Fine I’ll do 6:30 but I want a striptease the moment you walk in…",
"Good girl!",
"How close are you to (stude... | He met this girl during day game at around 8am. He sat at her table and his opening line was “Sorry I’m late”. The interaction went well. He ended up paying for her breakfast without her realizing and she used that to open him on WhatsApp at 11am. | [
{
"coach_comment": null,
"content": " Are you still near? Thank you for paying for my breakfast",
"role": "Her"
},
{
"coach_comment": null,
"content": "No problem! I’m back at my penthouse. 3 mins away",
"role": "assistant"
},
{
"coach_comment": null,
"content": " So, write m... |
87 | [
"You’re such a good girl.",
"You will be after I’m done with you.",
"First, I’m going to handcuff your hands behind your back. And then I’m going to force you down on your knees and tell you to open your mouth.",
"After I’ve slid my hard cock down your throat and made you gag on it, I’m going to throw you on ... | They matched on Tinder. She was giving submissive signals using body language in her profile. He messaged her first. | [
{
"coach_comment": " This message conveys sexual dominance.",
"content": "You’re such a good girl.",
"role": "assistant"
},
{
"coach_comment": null,
"content": " Not sure about it",
"role": "Her"
},
{
"coach_comment": " This message doubles down on the sexual dominance.",
"co... |
88 | [
"Do you actually know how to snowboard, or did you just want the Tinder photo?",
"I challenge you to a snowboard race. If you’re brave enough, that it…",
"So you are all warmed up for the challenge already?",
"Yes of course! We have a slope in (student’s apartment building)",
"I just had one installed! It s... | They matched on Tinder. She had a photo of her posing with a snowboard. He used this to send the opening message. | [
{
"coach_comment": " Girls will often feel compelled to respond if you challenge them. This is what he is doing here.",
"content": "Do you actually know how to snowboard, or did you just want the Tinder photo?",
"role": "assistant"
},
{
"coach_comment": null,
"content": " I know very well, p... |
89 | [
"You have such a beautiful smile in your first 2 photos",
"You’ll never guess why I got it",
"It’s a bit explicit. You’re not some kind of good girl, are you?",
"As a Dominant, I can always identify a submissive girl",
"i know… exactly my type",
"I know what you like",
"You love a guy that leads, who ca... | They matched on Tinder. The girl is hiding her face with her phone in the first two photos in her profile so he uses that to open her with. | [
{
"coach_comment": null,
"content": "You have such a beautiful smile in your first 2 photos",
"role": "assistant"
},
{
"coach_comment": null,
"content": " Okay, thanks I guess.. But I’m not smiling in any of this photos hahah",
"role": "Her"
},
{
"coach_comment": null,
"conte... |
90 | [
"Boy?",
"how’d you know?!"
] | They matched on Hinge. He messages her first with a generic opener. | [
{
"coach_comment": null,
"content": " Hey troublemaker",
"role": "Student"
},
{
"coach_comment": null,
"content": " Lol howd you know 😉",
"role": "Her"
},
{
"coach_comment": null,
"content": " I can see it in your eyes",
"role": "Student"
},
{
"coach_comment": nu... |
91 | [
"yes.",
"It’s a long story. I’ll tell you over a bottle of wine"
] | They matched on tinder. He sent the first message. | [
{
"coach_comment": null,
"content": " I’m curious about something ",
"role": "Student"
},
{
"coach_comment": null,
"content": " What are you curious about 😅",
"role": "Her"
},
{
"coach_comment": null,
"content": " But first I need to ask if you’re open minded",
"role": "... |
92 | [
"Let’s meet at 10:30. (Student’s address). Just message me when you’re on your way!",
"I live with my business partner, but he’s out meeting clients tonight!",
"Tonight is my night off! I’ve been working very hard!",
"We won’t be strangers… we’re going to sit down and get to know each other first! You’re goin... | They matched on a dating app. They have exchanged numbers. The have organized to meet. | [
{
"coach_comment": null,
"content": "Let’s meet at 10:30. (Student’s address). Just message me when you’re on your way!",
"role": "assistant"
},
{
"coach_comment": null,
"content": " Okay, do you live alone or with your friends?",
"role": "Her"
},
{
"coach_comment": null,
"co... |
93 | [
"Which one do you have..",
"Do you have a nice ass?",
"Good.",
"So what fun things have you been up to?",
"I try to stay busy with working out, cooking, gaming, and working on my online business",
"It’s a little controversial…",
"I essentially teach men how to have better dating and sex lives",
"I’m v... | They matched on hinge. The girl liked one of his prompts. The prompt was: I’m weirdly attracted to accents, intelligence, tatts, and a nice 🍑. He sent the first message based on this prompt. | [
{
"coach_comment": " This message makes her qualify.",
"content": "Which one do you have..",
"role": "assistant"
},
{
"coach_comment": null,
"content": " Tattoos and I’ve been told I have a nice ass",
"role": "Her"
},
{
"coach_comment": " This message makes her further qualify.",... |
94 | [] | Context: | [] |
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