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“For what prevents us from saying that the happy life is to have a mind that is free, lofty, fearless and steadfast - a mind that is placed beyond the reach of fear, beyond the reach of desire, that counts virtue the only good, baseness the only evil, and all else but a worthless mass of things, which come and go without increasing or diminishing the highest good, and neither subtract any part from the happy life nor add any part to it? A man thus grounded must, whether he wills or not, necessarily be attended by constant cheerfulness and a joy that is deep and issues from deep within, since he finds delight in his own resources, and desires no joys greater than his inner joys.”
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“It is foolish to give up on yourself. And doubly so to do that before everyone has given up on you.”
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“You can wear an expensive watch and still be late.”
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“He is the kind of person I should expect to rescue one from a mad dog at any risk but then insist on a stoical indifference to the fright afterward." Jefferson Davis's future wife describing him at first meeting.”
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“The boon that could be given can be withdrawn.”
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“Pretty much all wealthy people who were willing to lose and have lost their health while chasing wealth are now willing to lose their wealth while chasing health.”
stoicism
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“Limiting one’s desires actually helps to cure one of fear. ‘Cease to hope … and you will cease to fear.’ … Widely different [as fear and hope] are, the two of them march in unison like a prisoner and the escort he is handcuffed to. Fear keeps pace with hope … both belong to a mind in suspense, to a mind in a state of anxiety through looking into the future. Both are mainly due to projecting our thoughts far ahead of us instead of adapting ourselves to the present.”
stoicism
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“Because of things such as arrogance, alcohol, and promiscuity, some people are each a legend in the unmaking.”
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“...what will you do when you are dead? "My name will remain." Write it on a stone, and it will remain. But come, what remembrance of you will there be beyond Nicopolis? "But I shall wear a crown of gold." If you desire a crown at all, take a crown of roses and put it on, for it will be more elegant in appearance.”
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“Milo's Way- A Haiku Strength sought in small steps, Like Milo's calf on shoulders, Grow with steady will.”
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“We are often blind to the fact that our situation is not as bad as we think, until it gets worse.”
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“At the heart of stoicism lay the desire to disappoint oneself before someone else had the chance to do so. Stoic­ism was a crude defense against the dangers of the affections of others, dangers that would take more endurance than a life in the desert to be able to face.”
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“She looks as if she were thinking of something beyond her punishment—beyond her situation: of something not round nor before her.”
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“It's with a heavy heart that I assure you that regardless of how lasting your fortune feels, it can be taken from you before you can even think to try to hold on.”
stoicism
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“Well begun is half done. This is something that depends on the mind; so when one is willing to become good, goodness is in large part achieved.”
stoicism
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“Tomorrow will take care of itself, so take care of today, otherwise tomorrow will take ill-care of you today – thus losing today.”
stoicism
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“Destroying the seeds of disappointment requires you to unexpect the expected.”
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“One man’s bad day is another man’s good night.”
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“Which of us does not admire what Lycurgus the Spartan did? A young citizen had put out his eye, and been handed over to him by the people to be punished at his own discretion. Lycurgus abstained from all vengeance, but on the contrary instructed and made a good man of him. Producing him in public in the theatre, he said to the astonished Spartans: "I received this young man at your hands full of violence and wanton insolence; I restore him to you in his right mind and fit to serve his country.”
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“Funerals greatly exaggerate the pleasantness of being alive, while they prevent us from thinking about the advantages of being dead.”
stoicism
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“Pleasure is often felt through the tongue or genitals as an attempt to distract oneself from the pain one is feeling through the heart.”
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“Complaining does not work as a strategy. We all have finite time and energy. Any time we spend whining is unlikely to help us achieve our goals. And it won't make us happier.”
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“There will never come a time when I will be able to resist my emotions.”
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“Indeed this gentleman's stoicism was of that not uncommon kind, which enables a man to bear with exemplary fortitude the afflictions of his friends, but renders him, by way of counterpoise, rather selfish and sensitive in respect of any that happen to befall himself.”
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“Stop wandering about! You aren't likely to read your own notebooks, or ancient histories, or the anthologies you've collected to enjoy in your old age. Get busy with life's purpose, toss aside empty hopes, get active in your own rescue-if you care for yourself at all-and do it while you can.”
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“[T]he man who spends his time choosing one resort after another in a hunt for peace and quiet, will in every place he visits find something to prevent him from relaxing. The story is told that someone complained to Socrates that travelling abroad had never done him any good and received the reply: "What else can you expect, seeing that you always take yourself along with you when you go abroad?‟”
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“It is a great man that can treat his earthenware as if it was silver, and a man who treats his silver as if it was earthenware is no less great.”
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“We are good to others only because we think that that is, or will be, good for us.”
stoicism
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“The ability to utter wise words is not exclusive to the wise.”
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“The fear of being poor or broke is a blessing, if you are a successful entrepreneur; but is a curse, if you want to be an entrepreneur.”
stoicism
7,307
“We get a taste of death, not when we’re asleep, but when we awake.”
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“Soon you will be dead and none of it will matter”
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7,199
“It is foolish to waste time in order to save money.”
stoicism
7,507
“Pitying a living man for being poor is like envying a dead man for being rich.”
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7,054
“Well begun is half done. This is something that depends on the mind; so when one is willing to become good, goodness is in large part achieved.”
stoicism
7,285
“A truth whispered is not less truthful. And an untruth shouted is not less untruthful.”
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“Virtue alone affords everlasting and peace-giving joy; even if some obstacle arise, it is but like an intervening cloud, which floats beneath the sun but never prevails against it.”
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“You cannot really not care about what others think about you, yet care about whether or not they know that you do not care about what they think about you.”
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“I sacrificed much to be where I am today, yet I will sacrifice much more to get to where I need to be someday.”
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“Remember to act always as if you were at a symposium. When the food or drink comes around, reach out and take some politely; if it passes you by don't try pulling it back. And if it has not reached you yet, don't let your desire run ahead of you, be patient until your turn comes. Adopt a similar attitude with regard to children, wife, wealth and status, and in time, you will be entitled to dine with the gods. Go further and decline these goods even when they are on offer and you will have a share in the gods' power as well as their company. That is how Diogenes, Heraclitus and philosophers like them came to be called, and considered, divine.”
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“Most adult geniuses are more playful than most children.”
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“So the life of a philosopher extends widely: he is not confined by the same boundary as are others. He alone is free from the laws that limit the human race, and all ages serve him as though he were a god.”
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“Life is a game we are all bound to lose.”
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“Speak the truth and above all claim the things you want, at least to yourself.”
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“To the wise, peace of mind is the result of being fine with how things are; to the foolish, the result of things being fine.”
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“Why be concerned about others, come to that, when you've outdone your own self? Set yourself a limit which you couldn't even exceed if you wanted to, and say good-bye at last to those deceptive prizes more precious to those who hope for them than to those who have won them. If there were anything substantial in them they would sooner or later bring a sense of fullness; as it is they simply aggravate the thirst of those who swallow them.”
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“Life takes from us only lives we were given by it.”
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“The act of focusing is not simply the mental equivalent of gazing intently at an object. It is a confluence, a harmonious marriage of mind, heart, and will, an alignment akin to a troupe of actors on a stage, each playing their part, but all moving in harmony towards the climax of the play. This is the essence of true focus.”
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“It's with a heavy heart that I assure you that regardless of how lasting your fortune feels, it can be taken from you before you can even think to try to hold on.”
stoicism
6,853
“Employers pay with their money for what employees have paid for with portions of their lives.”
stoicism
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“Limiting one’s desires actually helps to cure one of fear. ‘Cease to hope … and you will cease to fear.’ … Widely different [as fear and hope] are, the two of them march in unison like a prisoner and the escort he is handcuffed to. Fear keeps pace with hope … both belong to a mind in suspense, to a mind in a state of anxiety through looking into the future. Both are mainly due to projecting our thoughts far ahead of us instead of adapting ourselves to the present.”
stoicism
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“The ability to utter wise words is not exclusive to the wise.”
stoicism
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“Like great ecologists, great pessimists make us see the beauty of death.”
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“The qualities of stoic self-denial, self-sacrifice for others, patient labour, expiation for past error, willing acceptance of the burdens of life, were for him nobler manifestations of humanity than ostentatious feats of bravery, death-defying deeds of heroism or a life ruled by passions. He was persuaded that moral strength could best be displayed by silent endurance rather than by vehement anger and passionate rebellion.”
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“Oh, dear me!" he lamented. "The raft has floated off and I suppose it's gone down that awful hole by now." "Well, never mind. We're not on it," said Snufkin gaily. "What's a kettle here or there when you're out looking for a comet!”
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“Some real kings are drama queens.”
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“The modern expectation is that there will be equality in all things in the couple—which means, at heart, an equality of suffering. But calibrating grief to ensure an equal dosage is no easy task: misery is experienced subjectively, and there is always a temptation for each party to form a sincere yet competitive conviction that, in truth, his or her life really is more cursed--in ways that the partner seems uninclined to acknowledge or atone for. It takes a superhuman wisdom to avoid the consoling conclusion that one has the harder life.”
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“Getting something or someone we want is often a guaranteed way to eventually stop us from wanting it, him, or her.”
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“The wise remind themselves that ‘This too shall pass’ even when things are good; the foolish, only when things are bad.”
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“To be everywhere is to be nowhere.”
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“Don’t seek for everything to happen as you wish it would, but rather wish that everything happens as it actually will — then your life will flow well.”
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“At the bar on the Favoritenstrasse, Julius the policeman talked to us about dignity, evolution, the great Darwin and the great Nietzsche. I translated so that my good friend Ulises could understand what he was saying, although I didn’t understand any of it. The prayer of the bones, said Julius. The yearning for health. The virtue of danger. The tenacity of the forgotten. Bravo, said my good friend Ulises. Bravo, said everyone else. The limits of memory. The wisdom of plants. The eye of parasites. The agility of the earth. The merit of the soldier. The cunning of the giant. The hole of the will. Magnificent, said my good friend Ulises in German. Extraordinary.”
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“Employers pay with their money for what employees have paid for with portions of their lives.”
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7,543
“Some of the things we fear exist nowhere but where fear happens.”
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“Стоик стремится к добродетели, совершенству и живет по принципу: «Делать все настолько хорошо, насколько это возможно», он осознает моральный аспект всех своих действий.”
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“It takes selfishness to stop someone from killing themself.”
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“We must say nothing, when we have nothing to say.”
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“Like a problem, time is nothing but a shadow of thought.”
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“At any moment we may be toppled from our perch and made to do with less—less money, less recognition, less access, less resources. Even the “less-es” that come with age: less mobility, less energy, less freedom. But we can prepare for that, in some way, by familiarizing ourselves with what that might feel like.”
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“The fear of being poor or broke is a blessing, if you are a successful entrepreneur; but is a curse, if you want to be an entrepreneur.”
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“[Philosophers] have come to envy the philologist and the mathematician, and they have taken over all the inessential elements in those studies—with the result that they know more about devoting care and attention to their speech than about devoting such attention to their lives.”
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“Destroying your mirrors hides your ugliness or facial blemishes from only you.”
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“The Iliad consists of nothing more than impressions and the use of impressions. An impression prompted Paris to carry off the wife of Menelaus, and an impression prompted Helen to go with him. If an impression, then, had prompted Menelaus to feel that it was a gain to be deprived of such a wife, what would have come about? Not only the Iliad would have been lost, but the Odyssey too!”
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“We should remember that even Nature's inadvertence has its own charm, its own attractiveness. Take the baking of bread. The loaf splits open here and there, and those very cracks, in one way a failure of the baker's profession, somehow catch the eye and give particular stimulus to our appetite.”
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“If you have assumed any character beyond your strength, you have both demeaned yourself ill in that and quitted one which you might have supported.”
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“Suffering adds spice to life.”
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“[M]aking noble resolutions is not as important as keeping the resolutions you have made already. (Letter XVI)”
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“It is foolish to give up on yourself. And doubly so to do that before everyone has given up on you.”
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“In the first place, sensation (aisthesis) is a corporeal process which we have in common with animals, and in which the impression of an exterior object is transmitted to the soul. By means of this process, an image (phantasia) of the object is produced in the soul, or more precisely in the guiding part (hegemonikon) of the soul”
stoicism
7,040
“Most adult geniuses are more playful than most children.”
stoicism
7,261
“A shallow reading of a problem begets outrage; a detailed approach to a problem encourages moderation.”
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“Do not underestimate the quiet and laid-back individuals because displaying stoicism, at certain times, is a superpower.”
stoicism
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“Like great ecologists, great pessimists make us see the beauty of death.”
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“If you work at that which is before you, following right reason seriously, vigorously, calmly, without allowing anything else to distract you, but keeping your divine part pure, as if you should be bound to give it back immediately; if you hold to this, expecting nothing, fearing nothing, but satisfied with your present activity according to nature, and with heroic truth in every word and sound which you utter, you will live happy. And there is no-one who is able to prevent this.”
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“It is impossible to lose everything and still be alive.”
stoicism
7,199
“It is foolish to waste time in order to save money.”
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7,426
“If you admit to having derived great pleasures, your duty is not to complain about what has been taken away but to be thankful for what you have been given.”
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“And if you want to know why all this running away cannot help you, the answer is simply this: you are running away in your own company.”
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“We are hurried, not by what is happening, but by what we are desiring.”
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“...but if you think that only which is your own to be your own, and if you think that what is another’s, as it really is, belongs to another, no man will ever compel you, no man will hinder you, you will never blame any man, you will accuse no man, you will do nothing involuntarily (against your will), no man will harm you, you will have no enemy, for you will not suffer any harm.”
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“We are all capable of laughing at what is meant or expected to make us unhappy or angry.”
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“You know yourself what you are worth in your own eyes; and at what price you will sell yourself. For men sell themselves at various prices. This is why, when Florus was deliberating whether he should appear at Nero's shows, taking part in the performance himself, Agrippinus replied, 'Appear by all means.' And when Florus inquired, 'But why do not you appear?' he answered, 'Because I do not even consider the question.' For the man who has once stooped to consider such questions, and to reckon up the value of external things, is not far from forgetting what manner of man he is.”
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“The older you are, and the faster you walk, the crazier you look.”
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“The fact that we are all going to die prevents the vast majority of people from being driven insane by the fact that they are going to die.”
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“It is only when you fall that you learn whether you can fly.”
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“We must say nothing, when we have nothing to say.”
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“Intelligent people question everything. Stupid people answer every question.”
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“You can be hurt, not by what others think of you, but by what you think of what they think or you think they think of you.”
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“Admitting that their child is, or can be, more educated than them is the closest most parents are willing to get to admitting that their child is, or can be, smarter or wiser than them.”
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“You should, I need hardly say, live in such a way that there is nothing which you could not as easily tell your enemy as keep to yourself.”
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