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SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: Me [19 F] with my friend [19 M], not sure if I may have messed things up already.
POST: Hello hello everybody. I hope this isn't too trivial of a question to ask on here, but I've been feeling a bit out of my depth when it comes to this situation (I've had only one relationship before,... | Assistant:ive been sleeping with a friend from a different institution for a couple days, he said he wants to be friends now, I like to think he likes me, but I feel like an asshole for wanting to know how to proceed. | ive hung out with a guy and not really sexed up, but i think he might be interested in me. |
SUBREDDIT: r/Parenting
TITLE: My 11 year old sons friend died suddenly, his funeral is today and my son suddenly doesn't want to attend.
POST: **repost from relationships**
A couple of weeks ago my sons friend died in a freak accident, it was completely shocking and horrific. He isn't aware of the details, but we brok... | Assistant:~~kid whose first friend died suddenly, his funeral is today and now I have to wait for him to be ready for it~~ but he won't go. How do I get him to take the stress out of what to do? | ive had a son's friends late death, not sure if I should push him to attend or not. |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: The girl [26 F] I [22 M] have been seeing for a month didn't respond to me at all yesterday while hanging out with a friend [~30? M].
POST: She gets terrible service while at her house, but I texted her 3 times yesterday, 4-5 hours apart. She didn't call me until early this morning and... | Assistant:ive been seeing girl for a month, been hanging out with a friend, noticed she didn't respond to me until last night. Am I wrong to be annoyed or is she just a little naive. |
*I'm not sure if she's dating or not. |
SUBREDDIT: r/tifu
TITLE: TIFU by accidently kicking an old woman
POST: So this didn't happen today but actually about a year or two ago.
I was at my granddads funeral so of course it was all very sad and full of lots of crying old people. After the ceremony everyone walks outside the building and onto the other side o... | Assistant:iced-out old lady got up from the sidewalk a moment ago and went about the day, kicking an old woman, laughing, etc. Turns out it was shoe polish, shoe polish didn't seem to have enough polish on it, and I kicked her after a minute. | ive been kicked by an old woman by accident, but not for a year or two. |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: I [32 M] found out my wife [31 F] had an affair a year and a half ago, now I can't stop thinking about other women.
POST: Wife and I moved accross the country with our two daughters <our dream.
We settle in, happy, rosey veiws, living the dream or so I though. 6mo later she sleeps ... | Assistant:~~my wife~~ my daughters...now my son, wife, and I...have found out about an affair I am certain she's unfaithful.~~ Do I go after the affair? ~~Do I tell the boyfriend? ~~??? | ive been through the "romantic" phase, not sure if I should pursue an "affair" or just leave. |
SUBREDDIT: r/loseit
TITLE: Caffeine addiction. Anyone taking vitamins or supplements with caffeine?
POST: I have a horrible caffeine addiction, and I don't like sacrificing any of my daily calories for coffee. I used to drink 5-6 Diet Dr. Peppers a day, but I have switched to almost exclusively drinking only water most... | Assistant:~~I have 0% caffeine~~ my Diet Dr. Peppers are $9 and are getting $20 a month~~ is there better to take them more than you store calories?~~? | ive taken one serving of One Jalapenos Gummy Hits 20 calories, and I'm wondering if anyone else has a better option for a more expensive vitamin? |
SUBREDDIT: r/tifu
TITLE: TIFU by eating a banana.
POST: So, this actually happened yesterday. I am currently studying abroad in a tropical country. As a result, the selection of locally grown fruit is phenomenal. Now, I'm not usually one for bananas, but I keeping hearing they are much more flavorful here, so I decided... | Assistant:ive eaten banana on a daily basis, felt like crap, decided to take a shit, now getting blackout. Woke up like a light, almost-blue light. | ive had a stomach bug for a while, and now i'm having a hard time sleeping. |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: Me [16F] have been dating my bf [16M] for 2 years and have not done anything sexually yet, is this alright?
POST: Hi guy's I just need some advice to calm my nerves.
So I have been dating this guy for 2 years since we were the age of 14. The most we have done is make out and cuddle, ... | Assistant:ive been dating my bf. Do i need to initiate anything sexual before we are ready? or do i leave this to a younger dude because its not what i want? |
I'm wondering if we should try to slow down.
EDIT: I'm not sure if this is just a problem if we are both 16 or if it's a bad thing. I'll see if someone can help me with this. |
SUBREDDIT: r/AskReddit
TITLE: My fellow redditors! Within reason.. turn your ridiculous ideas into porn!
POST: Soo there isn't a question in the headline.. How about.. Reddit, what kind of porn would you make if you could?
Be respectful. I may be a whore, but I'm a human being above all else!
I am in the process of d... | Assistant:........... I want some fantasy porn videos made and would love to make a copy of the actual porn. If you wanna make it without all the crazy things and crazy ideas... please share! | ive put together a very ridiculous porn idea for a character in the process, don't want to make it too stupid and I'm just looking for some ideas/suggestions. |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: Me [18M] questioning if I should ask out my friend [17F]
POST: Ok so perhaps this isn't the most dramatic thing you have seen on this subreddit but I feel like I'm stuck.
I have been friends with this girl for a while now asking her and things were going great until I asked her to pro... | Assistant:ive asked a girl on a date to prom after we had a good friend in a relationship for a long time. Could I ask her out? | ive asked a girl out, should i ask her out again or ask her out again |
SUBREDDIT: r/AskReddit
TITLE: Cock blocked by a friend (Who's a girl).
POST: So for the past week there's been this girl in one of my classes I've been talking to, she's pretty cute (dyed red hair, fair skin, a few freckles, not ginger), she loves star wars and I suspect she's a redditor. I was going to ask her for he... | Assistant:ive been flirting via my mutual best friend. girl thinks I'm uninterested in her, and probably is out to do any damage while talking to other girls. advice? | ive heard about a redhead in a class that i suspect she might like, need advice. |
SUBREDDIT: r/AskReddit
TITLE: Wife's "friend" is stealing money. Any ideas on how to approach this?
POST: So my wife has a friend that I will call Julie. My wife and Julie have been friends for about 6 years if I remember correctly. Julie is a shit friend in my opinion and I have told the wife my feelings. When the... | Assistant:ive known my wife for about 6 years and now wife's "friend" is stealing money. Any ideas on how to tell our wife without screwing things up? | ive tried to figure out if my wife is stealing money from my wife that she's not paying back and I don't know if I should let it go or if I should just move on. |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: Me [27M] with [27F] was she the one that got away?
POST: Basically this is just something that has been bugging me for a while and want to know what you guys think. I met this girl Cara when I was in college. We were both in long distance relationships throughout college so we never da... | Assistant:ive been friend zoned, had a little fling that ended up leading to marriage, want to know why she would think this way. | ive had a crush on a girl that I met a while ago, she moved to grad school a long time ago, we went out for drinks, she texts me at 3 AM, we go out for more drinks, she gets married, and now I'm really confused on the situation. |
SUBREDDIT: r/offmychest
TITLE: My dad's in the hospital, again. Need to vent a bit.
POST: My dad just turned 83 last week. The (sort of) short version of the chain of events is this. Last year he fell in the shower then didn't go to the doctor. For about the next 3 days he got weaker and more tired. He started hallucin... | Assistant:ive seen my dad almost non stop in his illness. He had to be put on something because he isn't going to be able to get out of bed. What do? |
I'm really worried that my dad will not be able to get out of bed in time. |
SUBREDDIT: r/AskReddit
TITLE: Advice for dealing with a non-binding HOA and restrictive covenants.
POST: I posted this over in advice, but I only got one response, so I'm trying here...
A neighbor of mine received a letter in the mail today stating that the HOA was taking action against him for keeping chickens on his... | Assistant:~~HOA~~ no exceptions to the HOA's restrictions on the non-binding terms and condition of animals in houses has been enforced. The original letter states that the HOA is "taking action against him in respect to the petition for the entry of an order confirming the restrictive condition."~~ |
Any advice for dealing with a non-binding HOA and restrictive covenants? |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: Why does my (24F) boyfriend (25M) of four months make these kinds of comments to me?
POST: I know we are all human here, and we all find people attractive. I'm happy to discuss beautiful people with my SO, but over the last few days a few comments just seem unnecessary. Why do you find... | Assistant:~~I'm insecure~~ I'm trying to understand why this comment is a little weird/intrusive.~~ If you have any ideas/comments please do share. Thanks. | ive noticed that boyfriend of 4 months (25M) of four months acts emotionally when he talks to me about other girls mouth and it feels like I am being ungrateful for this. |
SUBREDDIT: r/tifu
TITLE: TIFU by emptying the vacuum
POST: So my wife and I are adopting two kittens today and have been preparing the kitten room, cleaning thoroughly and setting everything up. Vacuuming was my job, and I was doing a damn good job (IMO). I should inform you that we have one of those Dyson Cyclone vacu... | Assistant:ive been working with vacuum and removing some of it's contents, got up to cleaning but ended up pouring the vacuum into another garbage bag. | ive filled a trash bag with a plastic waste bag and now it has no trash bag, which I thought was just a little hard to clean and a little expensive. |
SUBREDDIT: r/personalfinance
TITLE: $200 phone bill in one night
POST: So I lost my phone for a few weeks, then yesterday I found it. I looked up my plan and had 5gbs of data left and two days in my plan. I didn't want to waste it so I googled how much data streaming a movie would take and it said 1-3gbs so I decided t... | Assistant:~~Lost my phone for a few weeks, got an email saying I'd used 3g of data offered nothing in my plan. ~~Called some of my friends about their plans but they've given up on paying their bill. | ive lost my phone, watched a movie and found out I'm going over my $200 monthly bill. |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: Me [19M] Just discovered that my GF [19] has been lying to me about our long distance relationship.
POST: Be sure to explain in detail with line breaks.
I live in Oregon, she's attending school on campus in Utah, but lived in Oregon. I visit her once a month for about a week. Last vis... | Assistant:ive discovered that my girlfriend thinks our long distance relationship is nothing more than one of her shady business dealings. ive decided to block her and tell her to be calm now. | ive recently found out my GF has been lying to me about our long distance relationship, and don't know how to handle this. |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: Me [24 M] interested in a university coursemate [22F] over the last 10 weeks, how do I ask her out?
POST: I'm a uni student, and every monday I take this particular 3 hour module. Now there's this girl in the course, which we shall call Mandy, who is very active in class. The particula... | Assistant:ive found a very attractive female in a class I've been really into, but she's not actually into it, and I want to ask her out for a coffee. | ive been interested in a classmate for 10 weeks, but she has a big personality, doesn't seem interested in class, and just isn't interested in us. |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationship_advice
TITLE: [23/f] American girl studying abroad just started a sexual relationship with a [25/m] Chinese boy. Need advice!
POST: So, I am an American student studying Chinese language at a university in China. I met a grad student here majoring in English and we really hit it off, right f... | Assistant:~~I'm a 23, she's a 25, and I want to bring this up with a fellow Chinese guy who is in a situation with our culture and English language. ~~Please find an appropriate etiquette to convey to him how much I appreciate his help!~~ | ive never been in a relationship with a Chinese boy, and he is very self conscious. He has a hard time putting away his worries and poor self-image when we have our long-term relationships. Any advice on how to help him feel the best about his long-term relationships? |
SUBREDDIT: r/tifu
TITLE: TIFU by making fun of my co-workers dead baby.
POST: I won't make this too long but basically at my job we all like to fuck with each other a lot. I have two co workers named Chris and Jeff who have pregnant girlfriends.
We were on the conversation of sex and I said to Chris "Ha you can't fuc... | Assistant:iced out on an insulting joke to my co-workers and I awkwardly explained to them how sorry I am, walked on straight saying no to their jokes as the result hurt my self esteem | ive made fun of my co-workers baby killing shit when it wasnt happening. |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: Is she [21] playing hard to get or uninterested in me?[22/M]
POST: Hey guys first post here. So I'll try to make this quick, I've been out of the dating scene for a few years now and need advice with a girl i currently like.
Her and I met in class and have been talking for not too lo... | Assistant:ive been in a bit of a competition with a girl in class who she might be unfaithful to and not sure if this is normal behavior. | ive been out of the dating scene for a few years now and her and i have been texting more and more. Is she uninterested or is she interested in me? |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: None of my business? Boyfriend of two years has decided to build a house and hasn't asked me for any input. (F27)(M28)
POST: I'm feeling really hurt.
My boyfriend (M28) and I (F27) have been in a serious relationship for two years. Everything's been wonderful and I'm very happy. Howe... | Assistant:~~I'm feeling bummed-over an amazing relationship where we love each other for the long haul, I'm just not ready.~~ | ive been having a bad day, boyfriend is not ready to build a house and has not asked me for any input, need advice on why |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: I [24M] tried to remain friends with ex-girlfriend [22F]. Her new boyfriend [21M] has insisted she stop talking to me.
POST: Broke up with my girlfriend earlier this year around February because we didn't feel like things were working out (1.5 years together). I was in a bad state and ... | Assistant:ily exboyfriend may be trying to control her life by harrasing an ex of hers. We broke up and he continues to check her phone and see my message. Do I try to win him back on his side? What should I do? | ive tried to remain friends with ex-girlfriend for a bit, she has told me that she doesn't want to talk to me. He has also tried to control her life with another guy. What to do now? |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: Parents will probably be against my[25f] relationship with my boyfriend[26M]
POST: My boyfriend and I have been in a relationship for nearly 2 years and last year it turned into a long distance relationship. Meanwhile we have come to the conclusion, that we want to live in the same cou... | Assistant:~~Do I tell my parents about my boyfriend~~ tell my family that there is going to be conflict or should I just stop talking about this and that, rather.~~ |
I'm afraid that my parents will be against my relationship with my boyfriend. But I want to do something about it. |
SUBREDDIT: r/AskReddit
TITLE: Black people. Help me understand you.
POST: Don't read if you think this is a troll or angry statement because it's not, it's a genuine statement.
Please. I have tried many times to understand why black people feel so entitled because of tragic acts that happened hundreds of years ago. (S... | Assistant:ive been told that black people just have different ideals because no other race is as important as them that lives on Earth. Why? | ive read a lot about black people, its just the nature of the times. |
SUBREDDIT: r/dating_advice
TITLE: I though the date went well, she didn't.
POST: I [24M] met a nice girl [22F] on Tinder last week, though I don't hold much stock in Tinder. I got her number and we texted all week, and we seemed to get a long very well. So We decided to meet for drinks on Friday, it just so happened to... | Assistant:ive been on a date with a girl but I assumed it went well (as in we had really connected), then after a "nice to meet you" I asked her how she would feel if I told her i didn't think we would get there. She dodged that question but still wants to be friends. Also, she went to drink with her friend. Thought I... | ive dated girl on Tinder, she didn't tell me what she said and I think she just shit her pants. |
SUBREDDIT: r/AskReddit
TITLE: is it possible to get in trouble for telling someone to die in a fire?
POST: long story short some dick sold me a fake Pokemon game on play.com. I emailed him calling him a douche for distributing fakes and said die in a fire. I left a review on his seller profile saying I received a fake ... | Assistant:ive been accused of sending the sellers fake game. ive been threatened with being sent to the home of a dudes selling fake game. ive been accused of doing so again and threatened with being blackmailed, or possibly sending the police to my house. | ive been known to scare people into telling someone to die in a fire. |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: Should I (M19) drop this girl (F20)...?
POST: Hello,
This girl I met has been hitting on me for a while and I'm interested. However, today she said something that really bothered me. I told her I can't really cook and have much to learn and she asked me in a b**chy way how am I suppos... | Assistant:ive a huge project to impress a girl and she doesn't like me because I can't cook and she is one of those "dick asses". | ive read the post and now I'm lost. |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: BF [23 M] broke up with me [22 F] after two years together, it was somewhat mutual
POST: This happened yesterday, and we're both still in love with each other. We both love each other so deeply, but are at different stages in life. (he's finishing up college, I graduated in May)
We w... | Assistant:ive been having an odd break-up-like-me-with-BF since the two of us began talking about starting our lives together. is it that's okay if he breaks it off now? |
- Broke up with gf. |
SUBREDDIT: r/AskReddit
TITLE: Hey Reddit, I've got very severe lower back/sciatic nerve pain. Any tips/tricks/help from fellow redditors?
POST: So here's basically what's going on:
I hurt my back about 4 weeks ago by carrying around 50 pounds in a messenger bag slung sideways over my shoulder. I am having very severe... | Assistant:ive been having trouble walking, hurting, resisting, or just not being able to be myself when i do it due to sciatica. What do? | ive had severe lower back pain for months and has been getting tired ever since. How do I get back on track? |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: My twin brother (24M) just came out of the closet and I'm worried about my parents (m&f50s)
POST: Sorry if the formatting is weird I am submitting through mobile.
As the title describes my brother is an out bisexual now.
A little background:
we come from a Hispanic Catholic family... | Assistant:~~My brother is an out bisexual but I'm not bisexual and I'm worried he is going to have cancer from cancer |
My parents are out of their way to get to know me and I don't know how to fix the situation. |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: Me [27 M] with my [23 F] on/off gf of 1 year. I need to break up but my head and heart are conflicted.
POST: I'll keep this brief. There are a lot of issues in the relationship. Big issues that arent going to resolve anytime soon, and are deal-breakers for me in the long-run. I real... | Assistant:ive broken up with my gf of 1 year. Im trying to figure out a way I can break up with her for good and not feel so disrespected and unappreciated. | ive met a girl, she broke up with me, want to break up, but my head and heart are not in the same place, and I dont know what to do. |
SUBREDDIT: r/AskReddit
TITLE: Being forced to be Catholic...what to do?
POST: About two or three months ago, my mom divorced my dad and he moved out. The relationship had been bad for many years, so no suprise there (sadness, but no suprise). A coupla weeks later, her boyfriend, who she had been "just friends" with w... | Assistant:~~don't~~ don't wanna try to stick me in a place of my damn sins, so I'll try something like that again this weekend.~~ | ive known I'm a bad Catholic, and my mom is a bad Catholic, and I'm trying to figure out how to change her mind. |
SUBREDDIT: r/AskReddit
TITLE: Stalker emails me, claims to be local, gives a crazy story, and then dies???
POST: Okay maybe this should be in WTF... I really just want some input or advice here.
A while ago I got an email from a guy. Long story short he claimed to be a part of a secret organization and is a master... | Assistant:ive told a guy I suspect that he is actually trying to get a ride from my (possibly soul-mate-friend) friend. Who do you think he is? | ive been talking to a guy who is claiming the same thing as me for his secret school, which is his secret file on him. He is leaving for another country, claims to be in love with him, gets a heart attack, and leaves me a note that says he hopes to meet me in another country. |
SUBREDDIT: r/AskReddit
TITLE: Have any of had a successful, long-term relationship that began with glances across a room?
POST: Met a potential client for coffee today in a public coffee shop. Passed a [re: gorgeous] guy putting sugar in his coffee, made eye contact, smiled, and continued to the counter to order my cof... | Assistant:~~looking~~ crossed into an attractive co-worker-to-be that seemed to me like an eyes-open and was probably looking at me across a room. Any similar/similar experiences?~~ | ive been dating a guy for 45 minutes, got a call from him an hour later. |
SUBREDDIT: r/AskReddit
TITLE: Hey reddit, Have you been the cheater or "cheated" in a relationship?
POST: Just over a year ago I found out that my bf had cheated on me. I decided to stay with him (bad idea?) because I really do love him. However, I can't seem to let it go. I don't bring it up in fights or anything, but... | Assistant:~~I think about cheating in my relationship, I'm not sure if this is related to cheating feelings or not.~~I want to know if other guys have been cheaters and/or people who have been cheated on. | ive been the cheater or "cheated" in a relationship, how does it make you feel if your SO wont let it go, and as the "cheated" do you still find yourself thinking about it or getting upset? |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: 16M Having troubles with some insecurities, need some advice
POST: I'm on mobile at the moment so I can't tag, but I possibly can in the morning.
I've been cheated on 3 times by 3 separate girlfriends in the past 10 months. Now I am over each one of them specifically, but it's develo... | Assistant:ive been cheated on numerous times, worried about cheating, don't want any of it after i get over it. | ive had trust issues with 4 girls in the past 3 years, need advice on my problems and how to fix them. |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: My (20M) disinterest in sex is really hurting my girlfriend (19F) of 3 years
POST: My girlfriend and I started as a long distance relationship when we were in high school. We met three times over the years, each time for about a week, before moving in together during the beginning of t... | Assistant:ive lost my sexual attraction to my girlfriend before we started dating. Its really hurt her self esteem when it comes to sex since i dont want to be a jerk and not want to talk things out. | ive heard about my disinterest in sex and need advice on how to stop it from getting worse so I can make her feel more attracted to me. |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: I [F/21] feel like I really don't care about most people and I want to change that
POST: I care about people in general, but when it comes down to individuals, I get so bored and annoyed with other people's lives. Most people don't genuinely care about how their cashier's day is going ... | Assistant:ive been doing it, all of my friends and ex's are very loyal to me, and i feel like i'm a bitch for not caring. | ive had a crush on my best friend's mom and I feel like I'm not really friends with any of my friends anymore. |
SUBREDDIT: r/AskReddit
TITLE: Reddit, do you think you're able to confront yourself and admit your insecurities?
POST: Recently my cousin came to me with a proposition. He told me that I was living a facade because I was afraid of judgement. He told me I was hiding. Then he challenged me to a year of accountability wit... | Assistant:~~Living in a facade at my cousin's age and living in a public place, do you think people can join me in letting themselves know through me that you can see me as a functioning human? (And by a functioning human? |
I am a 20 year old college student who has always been afraid of judgement and I'm here to help you get it off your chest.
Any ideas on how to face your problems and get rid of them? I really appreciate your input. |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: I'll (24/M) will probably lose touch with my father (45/M) if we ever decide to move to separate places.
POST: So my relationship with my father is a strained one with a long history of arguments, hurt feelings, neglect and guilt.
Growing up lets just say he was a less than attentive ... | Assistant:~~My Dad will no longer be there for my father in his new life and I don't think it'll effect him aswell.~~ | ive rejected my father and am unsure if I'm good for a second chance or if it's a bad idea to move to separate places. |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: I [27 M] have "almost arguments" with my wife [28 F] about cleanliness of things and related topics. Reddit, am I just a slob, or is she being unreasonable or (medically) OCD? Looking for opinions.
POST: So we've been married for quite a while, and get along famously on nearly everythi... | Assistant:~~Ditch any and all advice from those who know them, or you or your spouse who have seen a therapist or gone through any of these situations.~~ | ive found that my wife's cleanliness is a bit in the negative and I don't know why. |
SUBREDDIT: r/dating_advice
TITLE: Me [21F] with [22M]. Can't tell if he's messing with me or just really weird/shy?
POST: I've had a crush on this guy from my gym for the past 2 years. Long story short, I found out he was interested in me back in May and we started texting.
We always planned to meet at the gym at th... | Assistant:ive liked guy for two years, he suddenly stopped talking to me during a date, texts me about him, wants to go out to the gym with me and my friends tonight, but he never answered. | ive been dating this guy for a long time, he's weird and my friends are texting me about it. |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: I [26 M] am uncomfortable with my girlfriend's [25F] Facebook pictures that include her ex. Is it fair ask her to take them down?
POST: To provide more color, I find it uncomfortable when I randomly click on my girlfriend's Facebook pictures, because her ex is in about half of them. Wh... | Assistant: Is it acceptable to ask my girlfriend who Facebook pictures she has been on for five years to take down? Please help me break this vicious cycle. | ive noticed that girlfriend's Facebook pictures include her ex. is it fair to take them down or is it a bad idea to see them? |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: I(21f) feel like I'm unreasonably upset about something my (m21) did last night.
POST: Last night I left the bar early with my friends because I was tired and bored. My boyfriend was there and had planned on leaving too and watching a movie with me. But he forgot about this when his fr... | Assistant:ive had some pretty bad drunken behavior last night and I don't know how to get over it. I really dont want her and I want to still go to the bar with him because he knows I don't like him any | ive been having a hard time with it all. I feel like I'm unreasonable and I dont know how to get over it. |
SUBREDDIT: r/Pets
TITLE: My sister's dog was picked up by animal control, $150 to get him out and she can't afford it. He'll be euthanized in 2 days if she doesn't pay up.
POST: My sister has had this dog for the longest time, he's been shuffled around our family from time to time when she couldn't keep him due to bei... | Assistant:~~My sister~~ her dog suddenly stopped barking, gets away with it but now she can't find her way to get him out, he'll only be put to sleep when she's taken away and I'm not even close to having him be alive!!! :(~~ | ive asked my sister for the best way to handle this since we've had our own dog, we have a history of problems with this dog, and he's not getting out of his yard or making a mess. |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationship_advice
TITLE: [18/m] My friend's (18/f) boyfired (21/m) mite be 'covert emotional manipulating her' what do I do?
POST: Okay so My friend lets call her Stacey. Stacey's boyfriend doesn't like her hanging out with her friends cause he gets jealous, and won't talk her to days if she does this. S... | Assistant:ive been a girl for a friend for a year and a half
and she's been emotionally manipulative b/c of the bf. I'm a girl (now in first year same uni) | ive just heard that my friend is being emotional manipulative and controlling, i don't know what to do |
SUBREDDIT: r/dating_advice
TITLE: Went on a date with a girl, felt like we hit it off. Now she tells me she's seeing someone.
POST: I met a girl at my old job and I felt like we connected right away. She went on vacation and I transferred to another office in town. When she came back from her vacation she added me on F... | Assistant:ive gotten on with this girl. She goes on a date with someone, tells me she dates two people. Now she said she had a great time but I'm being silly. | ive had a great date with a girl, felt like we hit it off. Now she says she wants to know if we can go out again. |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: I am covering for my friend's affair and hate it
POST: I (28/f) have been friends with...let's call her Heidi (32/f)...for about a year. She is from Germany but has been married to an American man for about 5 years. She's absolutely miserable in her marriage but relies on her husband f... | Assistant: |
I'm going to be covering for a friend's affair and hate it. |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: Neighbor (12M) asked husband (33M) if he was gay during "Take Your Son To Work Day". Help me (30F) delicately approach this...
POST: My husband and I (33M and 30F) have an awesome relationship with our downstairs neighbors. Two awesome boys in a single-mom household. Mom is great. My h... | Assistant:~~My husband and I are (like brother) very close to the "cool neighbors" who brought their son to work day (taking him to a house-house competition).~~We found out during our neighbor-congeners question, my husband is gay... how to discuss this sensitively?~~ | ive asked my husband to take my son to work day, and we have gotten very close. We feel uncomfortable and uncomfortable about it, but I don't know how to bring it up or what to say to the other person. |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationship_advice
TITLE: How do I explain my innocent situation that doesn't look innocent
POST: hello I have found myself in a bit of a pickle. A couple months ago I found myself talking to a girl who is a camwhore on a website. she tells me she's never done it and wants to give me a free show. I respec... | Assistant:ive found myself in a pickle with a camwhore and need some advice on how to explain my innocent situation to my girlfriend who needs to know what to do. | ive had her on a website, then went over to her website to see if she was doing anything and found out that she has been texting me to watch her show. |
SUBREDDIT: r/dating_advice
TITLE: I was looking through my phone contacts when I rediscovered a girl's phone number whom I started to hit it off with. What should I do? (More info inside)
POST: Okay so I was looking through my phone contacts when I came across this girl's phone number (let's call her Abby for the sake ... | Assistant:~~I saw a girl's number, she gave me her number, I was struck by the number and now I'm going to try asking her out but again I don't know what the fuck I'm supposed to do?~~. | ive found girl's phone numbers, I forgot to ask for her number, I forgot to ask for her number and now I have no idea what to do. |
SUBREDDIT: r/tifu
TITLE: TIFU by not taking my glasses to my friends wedding.
POST: So this happened yesterday. A friend of mine got married. I was supposed to be a groomsman in the wedding.
One of the bridesmaids got sick and couldn't be in the wedding. The photographer didn't show up either.
Perfect, Jon can take ... | Assistant: Skip to wedding. The photographer didn't show up. We all got upset. Then Jon took photos of both of us when we are not there. | ive been using my glasses to take my friends wedding picture and I don't know if I should take it back. |
SUBREDDIT: r/tifu
TITLE: TIFU by owing money.
POST: Okay, so this wasn't today, this was yesterday, so I had lost my eftpos card right on the day owed my dad twelve bucks, as you can imagine I was actively avoiding paying my dues, so I gave the car a half hearted look and didn't find it, so I went back inside to play s... | Assistant:iced out my dad's car, gave him halfheartedly until he'd gotten me but could't afford it, drove across country to find out what's wrong, only had to get a car so he can sell ciggerttes | ive lost my exts card, lost my dad's money, and dad is now going to the bank and I am trying to get my dad to leave my account. |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationship_advice
TITLE: I [20s/f] ended a friendship. Now I'm going to have to be around my ex-friend [20s/m] and I don't know how to handle it.
POST: We were friends for a long time, and the friendship wasn't working for a lot of reasons. We were both at fault. I haven't seen him in quite a while, and ... | Assistant:)/friend broke up with me, don't know how to handle it. Want to be friends again, don't want to screw it up. |
I ended a friendship and want to be with my ex, not sure how to handle it. |
SUBREDDIT: r/AskReddit
TITLE: Have a job offer, but not sure if I should take it... Suggestions....?
POST: So, I've been unemployed for 3 months now. I realize that this isn't that long, considering how long others have been out of work, but it's still a long time for me.
I quit my job 3 months ago, and because of it... | Assistant:~~Have a job offer, but not sure if I should take it. Or if I should try and make something worthwhile with less income than it's possible now.~~ | ive been unemployed for 3 months, was denied unemployment, but still have a paycut and potential growth potential. Need a job, but not sure if I should just take it, or give it up? |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: My [33 M] fiancee's [31 F] depression and weight gain are straining our relationship
POST: My fiancee has struggled in the past with episodes of depression accompanied by weight gain but has always managed to pull through, never really losing the weight but never gaining more than 2 to... | Assistant:ursée has gained so little weight that she can't control her weight without getting in a fight with her controlling mother and her lack of responsibility. How do we help her? |
* My fiancee has had depression and weight gain for the past 4 years. She's had it for a while, but is now depressed and gained more weight than we have any other relationship. How do I bring this up to her? |
SUBREDDIT: r/AskReddit
TITLE: How do I get/help my wife to femme it up a little?
POST: I love her and this is not, **repeat not**, a deal-breaker but I'd like her to be more feminine. She grew up basically feral, has no female relatives any less feral, and is too embarrassed to talk to her friends.
Feral's kind of a st... | Assistant:~~how the hell do I get my wife to be a feral male who can't have the conversation? What sort of things are okay?~~(and I think she would feel guilty to tell me something?) |
What's your advice? |
SUBREDDIT: r/AskReddit
TITLE: Can you die from complications after a plasma donation?
POST: I live in a city that has a plasma donation center about a fifteen minute walk from where I live. I was donating twice a week for about three months. (twice a week is the max they allow) How it works is they draw your blood, run... | Assistant:ive had a plasma donation of blood. Got light led in and passed out at any second, now my nerves are suffering. I dont know if I'm a zombie or not. | ive had a few problems with my blood, and now I'm wondering if I have post-fuck-fuck-fucking-life-of-the-month issues. |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: Need some advice from people in LTRs. I[30/m] have been with my wife [31/f] for 10 years, how do you know if it's time to leave?
POST: Ok, a little background. My wife and I started dating in college, I was a late bloomer and she's my first real relationship. Things have been good, w... | Assistant:==============. Been with wife for 10 years, marriage seems good but wife's leaving, what could/have/should I do? |
I'm in a LTR, what do you guys think?
EDIT: I'm not sure if I should just move on, I'm just going to move on now. I'm just doing me the favor of making sure she does right with me. |
SUBREDDIT: r/AskReddit
TITLE: What should I do after spending an intimate night with a girl?
POST: I met a wonderful girl, who for the sake of anonymity I shall call Sarah, at a ball (2 days ago.) We walked back to her place with her friend,let's call her Jane, before we left and on the way there it was made fairly cle... | Assistant:~~I kissed a girl while in an intimate area,~~ I'm leaving her alone and left her alone because she doesn't have a male friend.* |
o Kiss her, she found it hard to look at me as a friend, but I got a good night's sleep. |
SUBREDDIT: r/tifu
TITLE: TIFU by baking while drunk.
POST: On Christmas Eve, I was baking cookies like I do every year. I had mixed up some snickerdoodle dough and rolled it into balls, and my daughter wanted to help. I let her roll the dough balls in cinnamon sugar while I took some of my cookies to my neighbor's hous... | Assistant:iced on burned hand while baking blacked-out cookies. Burn happened to burn on burn in the afternoon. Burn healed to a spot where now I'm not sure I'll touch any of the scars. :/ | I burned my hands while drunk and burned myself on one of my cookies, which ended up in a circle around it. |
SUBREDDIT: r/BreakUps
TITLE: 25m,24f, terrible breakup.
POST: I feel like i'm going to stop breathing. I'm so down-right depressed I feel like my lungs are going to collapse. Girl of 5 years dumped me. Over a stupid thing. 4 times this month. We got back together... 3 times. and the last time she left me. we had a high... | Assistant:ive been in love with a girl since high school. she is my best friend in the whole world. I have a life without her. Help. | ive been depressed for over a month. i feel like i'm going to go nuts. i can't imagine my life without her. i've never had this before. |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: Me [21F] with my boyfriend [22M] of almost four years abroad in London and don't know what I want
POST: I've been dating my boyfriend for almost four years since we were 17. I've never slept with anyone else or had a real relationship besides this one. Everything between us was great t... | Assistant:ive been traveling to London for a long time and started dating boyfriend this summer. Want to move things forward after 6 months of being apart. |
I'm confused and don't know what I want. |
SUBREDDIT: r/AskReddit
TITLE: Any doctors or med students lurking? What is the process to become a doctor like?
POST: I would like to become an anesthesiologist one day. I have thought about this a lot and would like to hear what it's like from some insiders. I am really not the type who can sit behind a desk all day. ... | Assistant:ive thought about becoming an anesthesiologist. I don't want to wear a suit and I am ready to sit at desks. What are some of the things doctors may look for in a job such as office jobs, desk jobs, or a resume and cover letter? |
Thanks for the advice. I'm looking for any doctors/med students to become an anesthesiologist. |
SUBREDDIT: r/askwomenadvice
TITLE: Need help on telling if a girl likes me.
POST: I'm 21 and at University at the moment, a couple of weeks ago I met a girl in a club, we walked home and had a good chat. She invited me back to her flat, but I declined. The next couple of days we did some light texting. I then about a w... | Assistant:iced out last night in a really friendly and nice flat, first texts went well, then a couple of days later texted her saying she couldn't go to her room, still with no text. | ive had a girl for a long time, she didn't respond to my texts and texts, now she's texting me to go down the same route as me, and I want to know if I should put down as a bad experience or just put down as a experience that I have now. |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: I (23M) can't tell if I really like my boyfriend (24M) or am just in the relationship for the attention/or afraid to be alone.
POST: So, I've been dating this guy for about 4 months now, the entire relationship has been long distance since the beginning due to different paths having us... | Assistant:~~I really like my boyfriend, but am willing to be alone, but not ready to be in a committed relationship.*~~Any advice? | ive had a great relationship with no sex but not sure if I like him or not. |
SUBREDDIT: r/self
TITLE: fell down. ruined what I've been working toward all this year.
POST: I took a minor fall but because of how I landed I broke a couple of bones. That normally wouldn't be a major upset, just one of those things that happens and you get past it. But this happened two weeks to the day before the... | Assistant:ive made a little more than a year since the fall and am now going through a pretty rough patch, but I can't get myself into gear without being super focused on this. | ive been working on my life for the past year. I broke a couple of bones, and now I'm at a loss of how to move on and start a ride for myself and for my bike. |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: My new neighbor (50's(?)/F) can hear everything I (20's/F) do in my apartment, and it's disrupting her sleep. What do?
POST: My neighbor moved into the apartment adjacent to me a few days ago. Whilst she's a very nice lady, she seems to be very annoyed by my sound levels, as she can ap... | Assistant:~~new neighbor~~ hearing my way through her apartment without my permission~~ me is loud enough for her to hear everything I say (even to my own annoyance) | ive had a problem with my neighbor's loud and unhelpful sleeping. |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: Me [29 M/F] with my 32 M] husband and 2 year son; secretly trying to get his Mom (my MIL) to get a job here and live with us.
POST: Still kind of in shock over this.
I just happened to pick up the ipad and see that my husband has been sending emails to his mother telling her that he ... | Assistant:~~I****ed~~'m not going to make my husband and 5 year son's life extremely difficult since we moved, and now he's secretly trying to get his mom to move down here and live here.~~ |
Any advice on how to deal with this? |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: Me [24F] not knowing how to handle my BF [24M] confessing
POST: I have been with him for 3 years now. A few days ago he told me over the phone, just before bed that he is developing feelings for this other girl [22F], let's call her T. He says he still wants to be with me.
A bit about... | Assistant:ive been cheated on and been cheated on by cheaters on and off the 'colours' of my life. Now i am wondering if I can trust my bf again because he's always made similar jokes.
TL;DR: bf keeps talking to girl he dated and seems to me to be a dick for not telling me everything. Am I overreacting? |
I want to stop seeing my BF but I'm afraid of being told what I think about him and of being told that I don't know what to do. |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: I [f23] don't want to go on a second date with [m24]. He is angry and thinks I'm shallow
POST: A month ago I met a 24M on Okcupid. We liked each others pictures and hit it off, and so went on the date.
The date was... Cringeworthy. First off he was 5'5 at most instead of 5'9 like he s... | Assistant:~~Dating a guy with a much younger resume~~ on OKCupid. The date was amazing but doesn't make me want to date anyone in general.~~ | ive been on a first date with a guy who is 5'6 but I dont want to date him. |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: We've said I love you...but I feel like we should say it more?
POST: My boyfriend and I are both 18 and have been dating for almost 9 months. He said "I love you" first after about 7 months and I said it back (I had known I love him for a few months but didn't want my saying it to pres... | Assistant:ive told I love you three times. His not so much "I love you" to a previous one. And now I feel like he's not saying it more because he doesn't need it to hear it. | ive said "I love you" twice before. I feel like I should say it more but I don't know how to do it. |
SUBREDDIT: r/AskReddit
TITLE: Is windows 8 as a primary os sort of ready yet?
POST: So As of late I've had a large stroke of bad luck and today my windows decided to go nuts. Upon starting up my laptop this morning I got a few errors, looking them up and trying to fix them I got rid of them. 10 minutes later I got a w... | Assistant:ive tried everything my windows 7 disk has to offer and now the BSOD is giving me a headache, as of now the user isnt going to be able to buy and install windows yet. | ive been using windows 8 for months and finally got an update to my windows 7 drive. |
SUBREDDIT: r/AskReddit
TITLE: What's the best/most memorable wedding you've ever been to, and why?
POST: I'm helping my best friend plan her wedding. Never planned anything like a wedding before. I was hoping there would be a /r/weddingporn subreddit like /r/foodporn and /r/roomporn, but I can't find anything like that... | Assistant:~~I'm looking for stories about super super special little wedding that you'll remember for the rest of your life~~& what you've done in planning (or not telling!) and your wedding. |
**What's the most memorable wedding you've ever been to, and why? |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: Me [22F] with my bf[23m] been together just over a year, broken up and I cannot help but feel so guilty.
POST: So me and my now ex met online July 2013. From the start I knew he was a really disciplined individual because of his eating habits ( very strict; non GMO, only free range mea... | Assistant:ive been having problems with boyfriend for a little over a year, need advice on what to do about it. I feel like I should have given him that opportunity. | ive broke up with my ex just over a year ago, not sure if I'm just being self-centered or if it's just a mistake |
SUBREDDIT: r/BreakUps
TITLE: Me [18m] and my gf [15f] just broke up a few days ago after 2.5 years.. Where do I go now?
POST: I apologize because I'm sure people on this thread have read a ton of "How do I get over her/him" posts, but this was my first serious relationship, and I am not sure where to begin with continu... | Assistant:ive dated my college boyfriend for two years, and I'm currently starting my first year of college. Where do i go? | ive just broke up with my gf of 2.5 years, and I'm unsure where to go next, and I'm not sure what to feel like. |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: Gf troubles I (m18)recently found out something about my (18F) gf that is really bothering me
POST: My gf and I have been dating for about a year and 4 months. We have had a good relationship with only a few hiccups, she is my first gf and I am her first bf. Lately I have been hitting ... | Assistant:ive been wanting a space and now my girlfriend is overreacting and wants my space. i want to know everything behind my back | ive been acting differently and my gf is having trouble thinking of me and my best friend and it bothers me |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: I'm [24M] in a long distance relationship with my gf [22F]. I'm not sure how to advance this
POST: We have been together for a year but we live on different continents. She's about to graduate and I've already been working for quite some time. I come visit her every chance I get and I ... | Assistant:ive been living on different continents with a girl for a year. I'm trying to decide whether or not to tell her how I feel. |
This is not good enough for us, we're not sure if we should continue the relationship. |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: Me [35F] with my boyfriend [38M] 2.5 years, I think I just gave him an ultimatum? **UPDATE**
POST: [Original post.
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We had breakfast a week later and talked about everything, the house and whatnot, and he said he is working on it and he feels awful about it and doesn't want to los... | Assistant:ive left a really good relationship with the man; i am not ready to make other friends yet (but its been a great ride). I guess I just gave him the "ultimatum" and I dont know what the future holds | ive given my boyfriend a pretty good opportunity for me to start our lives with more but he is very open to suggestions, we agreed to meet at the end of the month, even though we got a bit more intense. |
SUBREDDIT: r/askwomenadvice
TITLE: How do I safely lower my libido?
POST: I'm a 20 year old female and I get that this is only normal considering my age but I can't handle myself anymore. I have never had sex and don't plan on it right now due to body issues etc. I masturbate everyday and sometimes more than once. I st... | Assistant:ive masturbated and can't go to the gym due to some issues with body and sex, and this guy friend that I can't find any method. |
*I got fucked by a guy friend of mine |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: 25M professional artist/animator/illustrator dating hobbyist artists. How to deal?
POST: Not sure how useful it is to post this here but here goes.
I am usually pretty critical about art in general. I'm excited when people are into it but it's really difficult when someone says they d... | Assistant:~~I don't know where to turn when I become critical about what I do with people that are 'just bitches'~~ about being critical. |
I am the one who makes great people. I am not sure how to act/deal with the issue. |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: Girlfriends[32] ex still hangs out with her daughter.
POST: Hello,
Recently things have gotten more serious with my gf who is 32 and has a daughter and myself who is 29 and has no kids. She broke up with her ex somewhat recently, maybe 6 months ago or so. Her ex constantly calls to ... | Assistant:ive been dating gf for 3 years, and just like ex of 3 years he started hanging with her and her daughter a week ago who is very much his parent's and not her daughter and idk should i be worried or am i worrying |
Any advice or advice is greatly appreciated. Thanks everyone in for your advice! |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: My friend [16 F] is hurt by what her boyfriend [15 M]of one/two months said about her
POST: My friend (Mary) was Face timing with her boyfriend (Joe) and started to ask him about what he dislikes about her. Joe mentions that he doesn't really like Mary's small chest and dislikes her bo... | Assistant:~~her boyfriend is uninterested in her physical parts~~ her own weight and size. What is this about?~~ should I be worried? My friends' suggestions on handling the situation are welcome.~~Thank you | ive read about a few times that my friend is hurt by what her boyfriend said about her. |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: I need some advice regarding a female friend of mine. (she's almost 20 and i'm almost 22)
POST: Okay, I've been friends with this girl for about 10 months. I first met her at college about a year ago. She had a boyfriend at first, but eventually she broke up with him, and started to p... | Assistant:ive been friends with a girl for a while now, who apparently has cheated on her ex, i can't tell her what's going on because she is seeing other guys, but I never want to mess up our future. | ive been friends with a girl for a while, she's dating someone else, I want to ask her what she's thinking, but not sure if we should break up or not. |
SUBREDDIT: r/tifu
TITLE: TIFU by inviting the locals to hang out with the hairy twins
POST: Ok as is quite common, this didn't happen today, this happened many years ago in the far north Australian town of cooktown
Cooktown, was a great place, heaps of Sun, good fishing etc.
But just my luck as a young boy, I venture... | Assistant: A few years back at a hostel, I tried to pee, which he couldn't stop, which resulted in me becoming scrotum-haired from the inside. | ive had to have a shitty cast, and now I need to see to it that I'm not shitty again, |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: My GF [25, F] and I [24, M] live together, but she lost her job and isn't really trying to find a new one. [3 years, 9 months cohabiting]
POST: My GF lost her job 3 weeks ago today. As of this point, to the best of my knowledge, she has only submitted a single resume to a potential emp... | Assistant:~~GF~~ relationship sucks, but she is not trying to get by with anything to do with finding another (her own home).~~ Do I cut everything off and be done with this relationship? | ive been together for 3 years, but she lost her job and is not really trying to find a new one. |
SUBREDDIT: r/offmychest
TITLE: I am sick and tired of having to deal with my severely depressed and sometimes seemingly suicidal friend.
POST: My friend, lets call him Dude, has been dealing with depression (undiagnosed but I know for sure it is, he just refuses to see a doctor or tell his family) For almost a year now... | Assistant:ive left my friend to live (dumb and selfish) and i have to take care of him again but im so sick of it. | ive had my friend constantly complaining about everything, his life is taking a turn for the worse and he refuses to get help. |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: Help, please. M(26)y WiF(25)e and I just looked at our wedding photos and she hates them.
POST: So my wife and I have been married for two months and we just got our first look at our wedding photos. She hates them. My wife feels like there are a ton of photos of my family and hardly... | Assistant: My wife is getting upset we looked at our wedding photos and is getting more and more upset. Any methods to deal with it? |
We just got married, our wedding photos are a little different than most people's "normal" wedding photos, I'm looking for a possible solution to help us both stay together. |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: (21F) Found porn on my bf's (21M) tablet. He says it's not his, but no one else has used his tablet.
POST: Background: Him and I have been together for about 1 year and a half. He's only given me a reason to doubt him once, and I can't actually blame him for it because we were not tech... | Assistant:ive just found questionable porn on my bf's tablet, he says its not his, I'm being dumb and confused | ive found porn on my boyfriend's tablet. He says it's not his, but there are others. |
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