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SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: Me [19 F] with my friend [19 M], not sure if I may have messed things up already.
POST: Hello hello everybody. I hope this isn't too trivial of a question to ask on here, but I've been feeling a bit out of my depth when it comes to this situation (I've had only one relationship before,... | Assistant:~~I slept with a guy and now I'm not sure about his intentions, and I'm worried I may have already sabotaged things. |
I don't know whether I should try to pursue a relationship with this guy that I met a couple of weeks ago. He doesn't seem to be interested in anything more than a fwb situation, but I like him, and I don't know whether or not to pursue it. |
SUBREDDIT: r/Parenting
TITLE: My 11 year old sons friend died suddenly, his funeral is today and my son suddenly doesn't want to attend.
POST: **repost from relationships**
A couple of weeks ago my sons friend died in a freak accident, it was completely shocking and horrific. He isn't aware of the details, but we brok... | Assistant:ive explained about his friends funeral to my sons friend, he has cried, asked questions and is okay with it, but now he suddenly doesn;t want to go | ive told my son about the accident, he is fine with it, but doesn't want to go to his first funeral. what do i do? |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: The girl [26 F] I [22 M] have been seeing for a month didn't respond to me at all yesterday while hanging out with a friend [~30? M].
POST: She gets terrible service while at her house, but I texted her 3 times yesterday, 4-5 hours apart. She didn't call me until early this morning and... | Assistant:~~The girl I met a month ago hasn't responded to my last two texts while with a friend. Should I be a little irked?~~ | ive been texting a girl for a month, she hasn't responded to me at all while hanging out with a friend, am I wrong to be annoyed? |
SUBREDDIT: r/tifu
TITLE: TIFU by accidently kicking an old woman
POST: So this didn't happen today but actually about a year or two ago.
I was at my granddads funeral so of course it was all very sad and full of lots of crying old people. After the ceremony everyone walks outside the building and onto the other side o... | Assistant:icky footy is not a good look and kicked an old lady in the face as she tripped. Realise later that it was all in good fun and confirm by shoeing her in the face. | ive been kicking old women in the face for no reason for the past few years, but accidentally kicked a very old woman in the face and now no one will talk to me |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: I [32 M] found out my wife [31 F] had an affair a year and a half ago, now I can't stop thinking about other women.
POST: Wife and I moved accross the country with our two daughters <our dream.
We settle in, happy, rosey veiws, living the dream or so I though. 6mo later she sleeps ... | Assistant:~~I found out wife was a year & a half ago date raped.~~ My wife ~~and I~~ are still living in the same house together and have a 5 month old son. What to do? | ive been cheated on, and have a roomate who's the mother of my kids. Do I pursue an affair or just flip the world upside down? |
SUBREDDIT: r/loseit
TITLE: Caffeine addiction. Anyone taking vitamins or supplements with caffeine?
POST: I have a horrible caffeine addiction, and I don't like sacrificing any of my daily calories for coffee. I used to drink 5-6 Diet Dr. Peppers a day, but I have switched to almost exclusively drinking only water most... | Assistant:iced coffee before work is no longer sufficient, and I can't find any other caffeine-supplement on the shelf besides some gummy vitamins with a huge amount of caffeine that costs $20. |
Is there a better brand of high-caffeine Vitamin B6, B12, and folic acid than One A Day? Should I just drink more water, anyway? |
SUBREDDIT: r/tifu
TITLE: TIFU by eating a banana.
POST: So, this actually happened yesterday. I am currently studying abroad in a tropical country. As a result, the selection of locally grown fruit is phenomenal. Now, I'm not usually one for bananas, but I keeping hearing they are much more flavorful here, so I decided... | Assistant:~~A bunch of bananas was the source of my intense indigestion and allergic reaction, only to lead me to find that I am allergic to bananas.~~ |
I had a bunch of bananas, didn't know I was allergic to them, woke up feeling awful, went to a class for 4 hours, came home still feeling sick, found out I am allergic to them, now I don't eat any more. |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: Me [16F] have been dating my bf [16M] for 2 years and have not done anything sexually yet, is this alright?
POST: Hi guy's I just need some advice to calm my nerves.
So I have been dating this guy for 2 years since we were the age of 14. The most we have done is make out and cuddle, ... | Assistant:
Have not done anything sexual with my boyfriend of 2 years. Because of that is it bad that I cant imagine doing anything sexual with him? | ive been dating my bf for 2 years and haven't done anything sexually, is this a bad thing? |
SUBREDDIT: r/AskReddit
TITLE: My fellow redditors! Within reason.. turn your ridiculous ideas into porn!
POST: Soo there isn't a question in the headline.. How about.. Reddit, what kind of porn would you make if you could?
Be respectful. I may be a whore, but I'm a human being above all else!
I am in the process of d... | Assistant:~~Dare you to turn your wildest sex idea into a porno. I want to make it as awesome as you can!~~ | ive been asked to make porn for reddit, i need ideas |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: Me [18M] questioning if I should ask out my friend [17F]
POST: Ok so perhaps this isn't the most dramatic thing you have seen on this subreddit but I feel like I'm stuck.
I have been friends with this girl for a while now asking her and things were going great until I asked her to pro... | Assistant:ive gotten to know this girl for months, asked her to prom, and since then she has lost all interest in talking about anything. Should I give up? or ask her out? | ive asked a girl out and I don't know what to do. Don't know if she saw too much into the prom-posal. |
SUBREDDIT: r/AskReddit
TITLE: Cock blocked by a friend (Who's a girl).
POST: So for the past week there's been this girl in one of my classes I've been talking to, she's pretty cute (dyed red hair, fair skin, a few freckles, not ginger), she loves star wars and I suspect she's a redditor. I was going to ask her for he... | Assistant:ican't get a date cause a girl who i don't like and had plans with got out of my way only to realize i never made a move. |
girl i'm interested in sits next to me, cockblocks me and drives the girl I'm interested in away. Advice? |
SUBREDDIT: r/AskReddit
TITLE: Wife's "friend" is stealing money. Any ideas on how to approach this?
POST: So my wife has a friend that I will call Julie. My wife and Julie have been friends for about 6 years if I remember correctly. Julie is a shit friend in my opinion and I have told the wife my feelings. When the... | Assistant:~~I~~ my wife ~~left her purse around and someone stole all of the money inside it.~~ |
I don't know what to do about my wife's friend whom she has known for a long time. She is stealing from my wife. I don't know if I should say something to her or if I should let the wife handle it. |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: Me [27M] with [27F] was she the one that got away?
POST: Basically this is just something that has been bugging me for a while and want to know what you guys think. I met this girl Cara when I was in college. We were both in long distance relationships throughout college so we never da... | Assistant:ive known this girl for years and she ended up being married (although i didnt do anything to cause this). Should i have made a move on her? |
I've been hanging out with a girl that I really like and want to make a move, but I don't know if I should.
|
SUBREDDIT: r/offmychest
TITLE: My dad's in the hospital, again. Need to vent a bit.
POST: My dad just turned 83 last week. The (sort of) short version of the chain of events is this. Last year he fell in the shower then didn't go to the doctor. For about the next 3 days he got weaker and more tired. He started hallucin... | Assistant:~~My dad turns 83 this weekend. He's been hospitalized 4 times this year and it's becoming apparent that it was a bad combination of things that killed him.~~ |
1. My dad is in the hospital again.
2. He might not have much time left.
EDIT: I just wanted to add that he's not in a hospital anymore and I'm only giving him the short version. |
SUBREDDIT: r/AskReddit
TITLE: Advice for dealing with a non-binding HOA and restrictive covenants.
POST: I posted this over in advice, but I only got one response, so I'm trying here...
A neighbor of mine received a letter in the mail today stating that the HOA was taking action against him for keeping chickens on his... | Assistant:~~Neighbor keeping chickens on deed based property.~~ No way chickens are OK in the neighborhood. He's ignoring the letter and wants me to be an snitch. |
How do you deal with a non-binding HOA that is taking no action in response to your behavior? |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: Why does my (24F) boyfriend (25M) of four months make these kinds of comments to me?
POST: I know we are all human here, and we all find people attractive. I'm happy to discuss beautiful people with my SO, but over the last few days a few comments just seem unnecessary. Why do you find... | Assistant:~~I don't know how to deal with this. Am I being overly sensitive? Will this just improve if I just stick around and show him I'm willing to play?~~ Do some guys get this from dating girls??? | ive noticed my bf makes comments to me that seem sexually aggressive. is this normal in relationships? wat do? |
SUBREDDIT: r/tifu
TITLE: TIFU by emptying the vacuum
POST: So my wife and I are adopting two kittens today and have been preparing the kitten room, cleaning thoroughly and setting everything up. Vacuuming was my job, and I was doing a damn good job (IMO). I should inform you that we have one of those Dyson Cyclone vacu... | Assistant:***************************** I just F'd Up ***************************** by vacuuming so my wife's the cat room is now a litter box heaven. | ive just spent a good 2 hours cleaning up after myself and my wife. TIFU by accidentily spilling the entire contents of my Dyson into the floor |
SUBREDDIT: r/personalfinance
TITLE: $200 phone bill in one night
POST: So I lost my phone for a few weeks, then yesterday I found it. I looked up my plan and had 5gbs of data left and two days in my plan. I didn't want to waste it so I googled how much data streaming a movie would take and it said 1-3gbs so I decided t... | Assistant:ive been over my data limit by a bunch and didn't get any warnings/texts about my usage or I'd have probably shut the service off earlier. | ried to watch movie, went over my plan's data limit and got charged $150, called them, they said they'd give me $10 1gb data pack to put on my plan, they didn't, I'm pissed. |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: Me [19M] Just discovered that my GF [19] has been lying to me about our long distance relationship.
POST: Be sure to explain in detail with line breaks.
I live in Oregon, she's attending school on campus in Utah, but lived in Oregon. I visit her once a month for about a week. Last vis... | Assistant:ive discovered my long distance GF lied to me about who she was spending the night with and now my stomach is sinking. I don't know how to handle it. | ive been dating my gf for almost a year, she told me she wanted a break because she felt stressed with school and work, but just found out that she was cheating on me with another guy. |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: Me [24 M] interested in a university coursemate [22F] over the last 10 weeks, how do I ask her out?
POST: I'm a uni student, and every monday I take this particular 3 hour module. Now there's this girl in the course, which we shall call Mandy, who is very active in class. The particula... | Assistant:~~Girl is super cool, has a lot of spare time in a gender studies university course~~ and I wanna get closer to her, but I don't know how. | ive been interested in a girl in my class for almost 10 weeks, how do I ask her out? |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationship_advice
TITLE: [23/f] American girl studying abroad just started a sexual relationship with a [25/m] Chinese boy. Need advice!
POST: So, I am an American student studying Chinese language at a university in China. I met a grad student here majoring in English and we really hit it off, right f... | Assistant: Met Chinese lad studying in China. Really hit it off, just started exploring each other's nether regions. He is extremely self conscious. Please help. |
1. I am an American girl studying abroad, and I am in a romantic relationship with a Chinese man. How do I help him let go of his self-consciousness, and enjoy himself? |
SUBREDDIT: r/tifu
TITLE: TIFU by making fun of my co-workers dead baby.
POST: I won't make this too long but basically at my job we all like to fuck with each other a lot. I have two co workers named Chris and Jeff who have pregnant girlfriends.
We were on the conversation of sex and I said to Chris "Ha you can't fuc... | Assistant:................................. I made a bad joke while at work, ended up offending a new friend and he assumed everyone told me about it. |
I made fun of my coworkers pregnant girlfriend and then found out he lost the baby. |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: Is she [21] playing hard to get or uninterested in me?[22/M]
POST: Hey guys first post here. So I'll try to make this quick, I've been out of the dating scene for a few years now and need advice with a girl i currently like.
Her and I met in class and have been talking for not too lo... | Assistant:ive had the talk with her and she seems to be uninterested or maybe playing hard to get but i have no idea. what should i make of this? | ive made progress with girl but now seems less interested. Is she playing hard to get? Uninterested? Other? |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: None of my business? Boyfriend of two years has decided to build a house and hasn't asked me for any input. (F27)(M28)
POST: I'm feeling really hurt.
My boyfriend (M28) and I (F27) have been in a serious relationship for two years. Everything's been wonderful and I'm very happy. Howe... | Assistant:ily boyfriend of two years informed me last week he plans on breaking the lease on his house in May and building a new one - without any of my input or discussion. Don't think this is any of my business |
Is it wrong for a boyfriend to build a house without asking his girlfriend for any input? |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: I [24M] tried to remain friends with ex-girlfriend [22F]. Her new boyfriend [21M] has insisted she stop talking to me.
POST: Broke up with my girlfriend earlier this year around February because we didn't feel like things were working out (1.5 years together). I was in a bad state and ... | Assistant:erm, ex-gf says new boyfriend is upset with her talking to me, I tried talking it out with him but he refuses to hear me out. | ive tried to remain friends with ex-girlfriend, her new boyfriend has been controlling her life. don't know what to do |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: Parents will probably be against my[25f] relationship with my boyfriend[26M]
POST: My boyfriend and I have been in a relationship for nearly 2 years and last year it turned into a long distance relationship. Meanwhile we have come to the conclusion, that we want to live in the same cou... | Assistant:~~I don't know how to tell my parents about my boyfriend and I. I don't want them to hate him, but I don't want to go into a argument either. ~~ |
I want to tell my parents about my boyfriend, but I am afraid of the reaction. What should I do? |
SUBREDDIT: r/AskReddit
TITLE: Black people. Help me understand you.
POST: Don't read if you think this is a troll or angry statement because it's not, it's a genuine statement.
Please. I have tried many times to understand why black people feel so entitled because of tragic acts that happened hundreds of years ago. (S... | Assistant:ive met black people and they honestly seem like they should be running their own country. what can i do to get blacks to where they should be? |
What is it that black people don't like about the world? What is it that black people don't like about the world? What is it that black people don't like about the world? |
SUBREDDIT: r/dating_advice
TITLE: I though the date went well, she didn't.
POST: I [24M] met a nice girl [22F] on Tinder last week, though I don't hold much stock in Tinder. I got her number and we texted all week, and we seemed to get a long very well. So We decided to meet for drinks on Friday, it just so happened to... | Assistant:ive been out of the dating game for a while and made some faux pas on a date, she left me cold and it has been that way ever since. |
I thought the date went well, she didn't. She didn't tell me what I said, and dumped me. Thoughts? |
SUBREDDIT: r/AskReddit
TITLE: is it possible to get in trouble for telling someone to die in a fire?
POST: long story short some dick sold me a fake Pokemon game on play.com. I emailed him calling him a douche for distributing fakes and said die in a fire. I left a review on his seller profile saying I received a fake ... | Assistant:ive been screwed over by selling someone a fake card and now he has been bullying and cussing me out via emails and such. | ive told someone to die in a fire and told them to leave me the fuck alone and now he wants me to take it down. |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: Should I (M19) drop this girl (F20)...?
POST: Hello,
This girl I met has been hitting on me for a while and I'm interested. However, today she said something that really bothered me. I told her I can't really cook and have much to learn and she asked me in a b**chy way how am I suppos... | Assistant:~~Girl I met said I'm not good at some specific things (seemed like b****y things). I told her it was just a joke and she got off on that. Should I drop her from texting? |
- Girl I'm interested in said I can't cook. Should I ignore her or bring it up? |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: BF [23 M] broke up with me [22 F] after two years together, it was somewhat mutual
POST: This happened yesterday, and we're both still in love with each other. We both love each other so deeply, but are at different stages in life. (he's finishing up college, I graduated in May)
We w... | Assistant:ive been in a long distance relationship for a while, and I'm sad. He says we're going to see each other soon, and we cant close the door on the possibility of being with each other again. |
- BF broke up with me after two years together, but we're still in love with each other. We're both in different stages in life.
EDIT: Thanks for all the advice, we're going to get back together.
EDIT2: We're still in love, and it's the best thing for us. |
SUBREDDIT: r/AskReddit
TITLE: Hey Reddit, I've got very severe lower back/sciatic nerve pain. Any tips/tricks/help from fellow redditors?
POST: So here's basically what's going on:
I hurt my back about 4 weeks ago by carrying around 50 pounds in a messenger bag slung sideways over my shoulder. I am having very severe... | Assistant:ive got very severe sciatic nerve pain down my back, it's moving from lower back to my thighs. i'm going to the doctor this week, what can I do? Anything will be appreciated! | ive got severe back pain. ive tried everything and I've had no luck. any tips? |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: My twin brother (24M) just came out of the closet and I'm worried about my parents (m&f50s)
POST: Sorry if the formatting is weird I am submitting through mobile.
As the title describes my brother is an out bisexual now.
A little background:
we come from a Hispanic Catholic family... | Assistant:ive(24M) twin brother bisexual now came out to our family. My mother is emotionally distraught now and I need help as my sibling and I are both confused and scared on how to help my family. | ive been in a family of traditional catholic parents and my brother came out as bisexual after a family dinner tonight |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: Me [27 M] with my [23 F] on/off gf of 1 year. I need to break up but my head and heart are conflicted.
POST: I'll keep this brief. There are a lot of issues in the relationship. Big issues that arent going to resolve anytime soon, and are deal-breakers for me in the long-run. I real... | Assistant:ive been in a quasi-relationship for a while and want to end it, but I'm a coward. I dont know how. | ive fallen out of love with my gf of 1 year. I need to break up with her but I dont want to hurt her. |
SUBREDDIT: r/AskReddit
TITLE: Being forced to be Catholic...what to do?
POST: About two or three months ago, my mom divorced my dad and he moved out. The relationship had been bad for many years, so no suprise there (sadness, but no suprise). A coupla weeks later, her boyfriend, who she had been "just friends" with w... | Assistant:ive been made to be a catholic just to keep the peace for the time being and i havent been allowed to decide what i believe in. |
- Mom is forcing me to go through all the Catholic rituals despite my being an atheist. Should I tell her I don't want to? |
SUBREDDIT: r/AskReddit
TITLE: Stalker emails me, claims to be local, gives a crazy story, and then dies???
POST: Okay maybe this should be in WTF... I really just want some input or advice here.
A while ago I got an email from a guy. Long story short he claimed to be a part of a secret organization and is a master... | Assistant:irl stalker gives me tons of info about my life but dies mysteriously... what should I do about it or think of it? | ive had some crazy stalker type guys, one of which died, recently. What gives? |
SUBREDDIT: r/AskReddit
TITLE: Have any of had a successful, long-term relationship that began with glances across a room?
POST: Met a potential client for coffee today in a public coffee shop. Passed a [re: gorgeous] guy putting sugar in his coffee, made eye contact, smiled, and continued to the counter to order my cof... | Assistant:~~Hot guy walked behind my client, I smiled and got a call. Have you ever had a relationship begin with you and your SO meeting just by chance?~~ |
1. Met a guy, he was hot.
2. He walked to his car, I talked to him for 45 minutes, he walked to his car, I talked to him for 45 minutes.
What do you guys think? |
SUBREDDIT: r/AskReddit
TITLE: Hey reddit, Have you been the cheater or "cheated" in a relationship?
POST: Just over a year ago I found out that my bf had cheated on me. I decided to stay with him (bad idea?) because I really do love him. However, I can't seem to let it go. I don't bring it up in fights or anything, but... | Assistant:ivan (cheater) had affair, I (gal) stayed with him. Now I can't let it go. Advice? | ive found out my bf cheated on me a year ago. he tells me he doesn't know why he did it. i still get upset over it. how does it make you feel when your SO won't let it go? |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: 16M Having troubles with some insecurities, need some advice
POST: I'm on mobile at the moment so I can't tag, but I possibly can in the morning.
I've been cheated on 3 times by 3 separate girlfriends in the past 10 months. Now I am over each one of them specifically, but it's develo... | Assistant:ive been cheated on a lot in the past few months, and now i have insecurities that I should probably look into, any suggestions or comments are appreciated :). |
I'm in a relationship with a girl who has been cheated on 3 times and I have trust issues and I don't know how to stop them. |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: My (20M) disinterest in sex is really hurting my girlfriend (19F) of 3 years
POST: My girlfriend and I started as a long distance relationship when we were in high school. We met three times over the years, each time for about a week, before moving in together during the beginning of t... | Assistant: I disinterestedly agree to have sex with my girlfriend and I know this is really bothering her, but I really don't know how to fix this, since it's not just a physical issue. |
My girlfriend and I have been having sex once or twice a week for the past three months. I don't really want to and it's really hurting her self esteem. Help me please. |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: I [F/21] feel like I really don't care about most people and I want to change that
POST: I care about people in general, but when it comes down to individuals, I get so bored and annoyed with other people's lives. Most people don't genuinely care about how their cashier's day is going ... | Assistant:~~I really don't care about most people~~, but I want to change that. I'm going into therapy next month but I can't imagine it will be a very effective tool. | ive come to realize i dont care about other people and want to change that.. need advice on how to do so |
SUBREDDIT: r/AskReddit
TITLE: Reddit, do you think you're able to confront yourself and admit your insecurities?
POST: Recently my cousin came to me with a proposition. He told me that I was living a facade because I was afraid of judgement. He told me I was hiding. Then he challenged me to a year of accountability wit... | Assistant:͡° | ive been hiding myself from the world due to fear of judgement and public embarrassment, need help in being honest and open with myself and asking for help |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: I'll (24/M) will probably lose touch with my father (45/M) if we ever decide to move to separate places.
POST: So my relationship with my father is a strained one with a long history of arguments, hurt feelings, neglect and guilt.
Growing up lets just say he was a less than attentive ... | Assistant:~~Am I an idiot or are you an idiot for leaving your father before the age of accountability? ~~"You're an ERIK! Give me your ERIK now!" | ive been with my dad for a long time and I don't know if I should break up with him. |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: I [27 M] have "almost arguments" with my wife [28 F] about cleanliness of things and related topics. Reddit, am I just a slob, or is she being unreasonable or (medically) OCD? Looking for opinions.
POST: So we've been married for quite a while, and get along famously on nearly everythi... | Assistant:͡°͜ʖ͡ʖ ͡°͜ʖ͡ʖ is wife unreasonable about something (cleanliness) in our relationship, or am I a slob? |
I don't like a clean home, but she doesn't like to work to keep it that way. Thoughts? |
SUBREDDIT: r/dating_advice
TITLE: Me [21F] with [22M]. Can't tell if he's messing with me or just really weird/shy?
POST: I've had a crush on this guy from my gym for the past 2 years. Long story short, I found out he was interested in me back in May and we started texting.
We always planned to meet at the gym at th... | Assistant:ive had crush on guy from gym for two years. he's never been super into it, but always seemed *really* interested in me. date 2 weeks ago. ignores me after date, then texts me two days ago saying "idk why I do or don't do things. im really shy." now he never responds. is he just messing with me? what gives. a... |
I don't know if this guy is just really shy or if he's looking to hook up with me. |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: I [26 M] am uncomfortable with my girlfriend's [25F] Facebook pictures that include her ex. Is it fair ask her to take them down?
POST: To provide more color, I find it uncomfortable when I randomly click on my girlfriend's Facebook pictures, because her ex is in about half of them. Wh... | Assistant:ractive pictures of exes make me feel creeped out. Is it fair to ask her to remove some of them? Is it selfish of me? Should I even say anything to her? |
I really don't like to see pictures of my girlfriend with her ex because it brings back all of my insecurities about our sexual history. Is it fair to ask her to take them down? |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: I(21f) feel like I'm unreasonably upset about something my (m21) did last night.
POST: Last night I left the bar early with my friends because I was tired and bored. My boyfriend was there and had planned on leaving too and watching a movie with me. But he forgot about this when his fr... | Assistant:ive vented to some of my girl friends and I've decided to wait it all out and see how I feel tomorrow. I just need advise in how to get over it or is this a relationship deal breaker? | ive been trying to get over the fact that my bf invited a girl friend to his house and haven't gotten a response from him. How do I get over this? |
SUBREDDIT: r/Pets
TITLE: My sister's dog was picked up by animal control, $150 to get him out and she can't afford it. He'll be euthanized in 2 days if she doesn't pay up.
POST: My sister has had this dog for the longest time, he's been shuffled around our family from time to time when she couldn't keep him due to bei... | Assistant: My sister doesn't wanna ask my help to get her dog out of animal control. He'll be euthanized in 2 days unless she pays $150. What can she do? |
My sister's dog is going to be put down, she doesn't have the money to get him out, I can't let him be put down but I can't afford to help her. |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationship_advice
TITLE: [18/m] My friend's (18/f) boyfired (21/m) mite be 'covert emotional manipulating her' what do I do?
POST: Okay so My friend lets call her Stacey. Stacey's boyfriend doesn't like her hanging out with her friends cause he gets jealous, and won't talk her to days if she does this. S... | Assistant:........Friend gets treated poorly by boyfriend, should I tell her he is manipulative, or am I being too nosey? |
I don't know what to do about my friend's boyfriend. I don't want to ruin the relationship, but I don't know how to handle it. |
SUBREDDIT: r/dating_advice
TITLE: Went on a date with a girl, felt like we hit it off. Now she tells me she's seeing someone.
POST: I met a girl at my old job and I felt like we connected right away. She went on vacation and I transferred to another office in town. When she came back from her vacation she added me on F... | Assistant:~~Met a girl I really hit it off with at work. Went out for a couple beers, felt like we connected great. She's seeing someone and she feels like I've been burned before. What to do?~~ |
I'm a bit confused on how to respond to a girl that says she's seeing someone. |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: I am covering for my friend's affair and hate it
POST: I (28/f) have been friends with...let's call her Heidi (32/f)...for about a year. She is from Germany but has been married to an American man for about 5 years. She's absolutely miserable in her marriage but relies on her husband f... | Assistant:ive been friends with heidi for about a year, she caught her husband visiting/cheating and now I am covering for her by lying | ive been friends with a woman who is cheating on her husband with another man. I hate being the person to cover for her. |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: Neighbor (12M) asked husband (33M) if he was gay during "Take Your Son To Work Day". Help me (30F) delicately approach this...
POST: My husband and I (33M and 30F) have an awesome relationship with our downstairs neighbors. Two awesome boys in a single-mom household. Mom is great. My h... | Assistant:iced neighbor asked husband if he was gay. I'm looking for the tactful way to say "J, no. We've answered that question, and it's not you." |
How do I approach my husband's neighbor who asked if he was gay? I want him to feel comfortable talking to me about this. |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationship_advice
TITLE: How do I explain my innocent situation that doesn't look innocent
POST: hello I have found myself in a bit of a pickle. A couple months ago I found myself talking to a girl who is a camwhore on a website. she tells me she's never done it and wants to give me a free show. I respec... | Assistant:ive been having text convos and pictures sent/received and i let camwhore know to quit it cause i have a girlfriend and now my girlfriend wants to talk and i have no idea what to tell her | ive been talking to a cam whore, gf found out and wants to talk to me. |
SUBREDDIT: r/dating_advice
TITLE: I was looking through my phone contacts when I rediscovered a girl's phone number whom I started to hit it off with. What should I do? (More info inside)
POST: Okay so I was looking through my phone contacts when I came across this girl's phone number (let's call her Abby for the sake ... | Assistant:
I'm a sophomore in high school and discovered the girl I hadn't talked to for over 4 years' new contact info, she may like me as well and I don't know what to do, HALP |
I haven't talked to this girl in a few years, found her number and hit it off with her. I haven't talked to her for a while, want to text her, don't know if I should wait until I see her again or if I should text her and explain my case. |
SUBREDDIT: r/tifu
TITLE: TIFU by not taking my glasses to my friends wedding.
POST: So this happened yesterday. A friend of mine got married. I was supposed to be a groomsman in the wedding.
One of the bridesmaids got sick and couldn't be in the wedding. The photographer didn't show up either.
Perfect, Jon can take ... | Assistant:~~I was supposed to be a groomsman at a wedding but didn't wear my glasses and ended up taking pictures without being able to tell who the groom and brides are~~ |
I didn't take my glasses to my friends wedding. My friend didn't even notice. |
SUBREDDIT: r/tifu
TITLE: TIFU by owing money.
POST: Okay, so this wasn't today, this was yesterday, so I had lost my eftpos card right on the day owed my dad twelve bucks, as you can imagine I was actively avoiding paying my dues, so I gave the car a half hearted look and didn't find it, so I went back inside to play s... | Assistant: I owed someone money, he crashed my car, I was only out enough for ciggs, and probably a short shower. | ive lost my eftpos card and didn't find it, so i went to the bank and couldn't get any money, so i went to my mom's house and got some money, didn't give it to my dad and crashed into someone else's car. |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationship_advice
TITLE: I [20s/f] ended a friendship. Now I'm going to have to be around my ex-friend [20s/m] and I don't know how to handle it.
POST: We were friends for a long time, and the friendship wasn't working for a lot of reasons. We were both at fault. I haven't seen him in quite a while, and ... | Assistant:~~I think people are always going to be friends with their exes, but I don't really approve of my own reasons for that.~~ |
I want to be friends with my ex-friend again, but I don't know how to do that without making things awkward. |
SUBREDDIT: r/AskReddit
TITLE: Have a job offer, but not sure if I should take it... Suggestions....?
POST: So, I've been unemployed for 3 months now. I realize that this isn't that long, considering how long others have been out of work, but it's still a long time for me.
I quit my job 3 months ago, and because of it... | Assistant:~~The employer won't pay for relocation, but it's the only job that I have right now.~~ | ive got a job offer but don't know if i should take it due to lack of financial stability and living situation. need advice plz :) |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: My [33 M] fiancee's [31 F] depression and weight gain are straining our relationship
POST: My fiancee has struggled in the past with episodes of depression accompanied by weight gain but has always managed to pull through, never really losing the weight but never gaining more than 2 to... | Assistant:ive never struggled with my attraction to anyone, I'm an extremely confident person. This woman and I are proposing soon and her weight and episodes of depression are straining our relationship. What do I do? |
Fiancee of 4 years has gained more than 25kg in the last 4 years and now we're getting married. How do I explain to her that her weight gain and depression are affecting our relationship? |
SUBREDDIT: r/AskReddit
TITLE: How do I get/help my wife to femme it up a little?
POST: I love her and this is not, **repeat not**, a deal-breaker but I'd like her to be more feminine. She grew up basically feral, has no female relatives any less feral, and is too embarrassed to talk to her friends.
Feral's kind of a st... | Assistant:~~I'd like to know how to help my wife become more feminine and not-so threatening.~~ [How?] [Feminine and not so threatening?] |
What do you do to make your wife seem morefemme? |
SUBREDDIT: r/AskReddit
TITLE: Can you die from complications after a plasma donation?
POST: I live in a city that has a plasma donation center about a fifteen minute walk from where I live. I was donating twice a week for about three months. (twice a week is the max they allow) How it works is they draw your blood, run... | Assistant:ive donated plasma multiple times, had two energy drinks before on my 24th donation, got very light headed twice, think i have ptsd resulting in anxiety and fear. Should I be concerned? |
I don't know if I can pass out at any moment after a blood draw, and if it's okay to donate again. |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: Need some advice from people in LTRs. I[30/m] have been with my wife [31/f] for 10 years, how do you know if it's time to leave?
POST: Ok, a little background. My wife and I started dating in college, I was a late bloomer and she's my first real relationship. Things have been good, w... | Assistant:~~I can't get over the feeling of "starting over"~~ and I'm scared that is how my wife will feel when I tell her. | ive been with my wife for 10 years, I don't know if its time to leave, should I stay or should I go? |
SUBREDDIT: r/AskReddit
TITLE: What should I do after spending an intimate night with a girl?
POST: I met a wonderful girl, who for the sake of anonymity I shall call Sarah, at a ball (2 days ago.) We walked back to her place with her friend,let's call her Jane, before we left and on the way there it was made fairly cle... | Assistant:~~What is a man to say and how is a man to act after spending the night (in that order!) with a girl?~~ What do I say and do to let this girl know I want to move this forward? |
1. Met a great girl, slept with her, she didn't want to have sex.
2. Met her friends, they didn't want to have sex.
What should I do now? |
SUBREDDIT: r/tifu
TITLE: TIFU by baking while drunk.
POST: On Christmas Eve, I was baking cookies like I do every year. I had mixed up some snickerdoodle dough and rolled it into balls, and my daughter wanted to help. I let her roll the dough balls in cinnamon sugar while I took some of my cookies to my neighbor's hous... | Assistant:iced balls; baked cookies; drank in house; burned hand; punched hole in my blister causing the inside of the skin that covered the burn to also blister and then to open, causing the burn to become increasingly infected. | ive been drinking, fell into the oven, burned my hand but didn't make it out, now I'm pissed. |
SUBREDDIT: r/BreakUps
TITLE: 25m,24f, terrible breakup.
POST: I feel like i'm going to stop breathing. I'm so down-right depressed I feel like my lungs are going to collapse. Girl of 5 years dumped me. Over a stupid thing. 4 times this month. We got back together... 3 times. and the last time she left me. we had a high... | Assistant:ive lived with someone I love since 5 years. And ive been dumped 4 times in 5 months. I've lost control of my life and am helpless and lost. I have no idea how to move forward. | ive been dating a girl for 5 years. She broke up with me. Im heartbroken. I love her. I don't know what to do. |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: Me [21F] with my boyfriend [22M] of almost four years abroad in London and don't know what I want
POST: I've been dating my boyfriend for almost four years since we were 17. I've never slept with anyone else or had a real relationship besides this one. Everything between us was great t... | Assistant:ive spent almost four years with my bf in an arranged marriage and now i don't know what I'm doing anymore |
I don't know what I want. I don't want to lose my boyfriend, but I don't want to be a virgin for the rest of my life. |
SUBREDDIT: r/AskReddit
TITLE: Any doctors or med students lurking? What is the process to become a doctor like?
POST: I would like to become an anesthesiologist one day. I have thought about this a lot and would like to hear what it's like from some insiders. I am really not the type who can sit behind a desk all day. ... | Assistant:~~What was the process like to go from high school to college and eventually become an anesthesiologist?~~ |
I don't want to be a corporate employee, I want to make a high salary and enjoy myself. How do I go about this? |
SUBREDDIT: r/askwomenadvice
TITLE: Need help on telling if a girl likes me.
POST: I'm 21 and at University at the moment, a couple of weeks ago I met a girl in a club, we walked home and had a good chat. She invited me back to her flat, but I declined. The next couple of days we did some light texting. I then about a w... | Assistant:ive been trying to text a girl to ask her out, but she is now ignoring me, do I leave it or am I being played the fool? | ive met a girl, went out a few times, asked her out, she didn't say anything for a few days, then texted me to meet her, didn't text me back, now I have been texted by her, but she didn't text me back. |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: I (23M) can't tell if I really like my boyfriend (24M) or am just in the relationship for the attention/or afraid to be alone.
POST: So, I've been dating this guy for about 4 months now, the entire relationship has been long distance since the beginning due to different paths having us... | Assistant:ican't tell if I really like this person who I've been talking to for 4+ months or if I'm just in a relationship for the attention and to not be alone. |
I don't know how to tell my boyfriend I don't want to be in a long distance relationship because I don't want to lose him. |
SUBREDDIT: r/self
TITLE: fell down. ruined what I've been working toward all this year.
POST: I took a minor fall but because of how I landed I broke a couple of bones. That normally wouldn't be a major upset, just one of those things that happens and you get past it. But this happened two weeks to the day before the... | Assistant:~~fell down~~. Ruin my plans for the things in my life. I was doing great stuff. |
I fell down and broke a few bones. I lost weight, got healthier, and started doing stuff that I have wanted to do for a long time. |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: My new neighbor (50's(?)/F) can hear everything I (20's/F) do in my apartment, and it's disrupting her sleep. What do?
POST: My neighbor moved into the apartment adjacent to me a few days ago. Whilst she's a very nice lady, she seems to be very annoyed by my sound levels, as she can ap... | Assistant:icky new neighbor is disturbed by me breathing too heavily; I don't know how to find a compromise that keeps us both happy :/ |
My neighbor can hear everything I do, and I don't know what to do about it. I don't want her to suffer for it, so I don't want to stop talking to her. |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: Me [29 M/F] with my 32 M] husband and 2 year son; secretly trying to get his Mom (my MIL) to get a job here and live with us.
POST: Still kind of in shock over this.
I just happened to pick up the ipad and see that my husband has been sending emails to his mother telling her that he ... | Assistant:ive become suspicious of my husband and I need advice and to vent because my head hurts and I need to pull myself together. |
- How do I know if he's talking to his family about this?
- How do I know if he's going to move her out of the house?
I don't know how to approach this and I don't know what to do. I don't know if I should tell him. I don't know what to say. I don't know what to do. I don't know if I can handle this. |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: Me [24F] not knowing how to handle my BF [24M] confessing
POST: I have been with him for 3 years now. A few days ago he told me over the phone, just before bed that he is developing feelings for this other girl [22F], let's call her T. He says he still wants to be with me.
A bit about... | Assistant: BF [24M] confessed he has feelings for a classmate [22F] he barely knows. I [24F] don't know how to respond. |
I don't know if I can trust my boyfriend with his new GF and I don't know how to handle this situation. |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: I [f23] don't want to go on a second date with [m24]. He is angry and thinks I'm shallow
POST: A month ago I met a 24M on Okcupid. We liked each others pictures and hit it off, and so went on the date.
The date was... Cringeworthy. First off he was 5'5 at most instead of 5'9 like he s... | Assistant:ive gone on a date with a guy who is at least my height, who acts like a typical guy. I want to cut short this relationship but he thinks im shallow | ive met a guy on okcupid and went on a date. he made me uncomfortable. now he won't stop texting and trying to convince me to be friends. what do i do? |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: We've said I love you...but I feel like we should say it more?
POST: My boyfriend and I are both 18 and have been dating for almost 9 months. He said "I love you" first after about 7 months and I said it back (I had known I love him for a few months but didn't want my saying it to pres... | Assistant:ive said I love you like 3 times in almost 9 months and we've said I love you together since bout 4 months I want to say it more but I don't want to seem pushy | ive said "I love you" 4 times since our first date but my bf hasn't said it more than 4 times |
SUBREDDIT: r/AskReddit
TITLE: Is windows 8 as a primary os sort of ready yet?
POST: So As of late I've had a large stroke of bad luck and today my windows decided to go nuts. Upon starting up my laptop this morning I got a few errors, looking them up and trying to fix them I got rid of them. 10 minutes later I got a w... | Assistant:ive gotten bad luck lately and lost my windows 7 recovery disc, can windows 8 even function as a primary yet? |
I have a few problems with my laptop and I have to buy windows 7 again, but I can't wait to buy the new version of Windows 8. |
SUBREDDIT: r/AskReddit
TITLE: What's the best/most memorable wedding you've ever been to, and why?
POST: I'm helping my best friend plan her wedding. Never planned anything like a wedding before. I was hoping there would be a /r/weddingporn subreddit like /r/foodporn and /r/roomporn, but I can't find anything like that... | Assistant:~~Tell me about the most memorable wedding you've ever been to~~, but make it relevant to *my* wedding. :) |
I'm looking for stories about crazy, outrageous, big wedding customs. |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: Me [22F] with my bf[23m] been together just over a year, broken up and I cannot help but feel so guilty.
POST: So me and my now ex met online July 2013. From the start I knew he was a really disciplined individual because of his eating habits ( very strict; non GMO, only free range mea... | Assistant:
I cant figure out if breaking up with my boyfriend was a good idea. Or a terrible one. Was it my place to give him the chance to fix our relationship | ive been with my bf for over a year and I broke up with him because I couldn't deal with his strict rules. I feel like I should have tried harder to make it work. |
SUBREDDIT: r/BreakUps
TITLE: Me [18m] and my gf [15f] just broke up a few days ago after 2.5 years.. Where do I go now?
POST: I apologize because I'm sure people on this thread have read a ton of "How do I get over her/him" posts, but this was my first serious relationship, and I am not sure where to begin with continu... | Assistant:ive just broke up with someone i've been with for 2.5 years(me 18 m, her 15 f) and feel lost about what to do next. where do I go/what do I do after college starts? | ive just broke up with my gf of 2.5 years, don't know where to go from here. |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: Gf troubles I (m18)recently found out something about my (18F) gf that is really bothering me
POST: My gf and I have been dating for about a year and 4 months. We have had a good relationship with only a few hiccups, she is my first gf and I am her first bf. Lately I have been hitting ... | Assistant:ive found out my gf masturbated to the thought of my best friend to orgasm, which really hurt me and now i'm confused about how to cope or what to do from here |
I found out that my gf of 1.5 years masturbates to my best friend and I can't get over it or get over it. What do I do? |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: I'm [24M] in a long distance relationship with my gf [22F]. I'm not sure how to advance this
POST: We have been together for a year but we live on different continents. She's about to graduate and I've already been working for quite some time. I come visit her every chance I get and I ... | Assistant:ive been dating this girl for a year. I've always been there for her. We've been in a long distance relationship for almost a year now but I don't know if she's willing to make that leap and come join me. |
I want to propose to my gf but I'm not sure if I'm being selfish and should wait to do so. |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: Me [35F] with my boyfriend [38M] 2.5 years, I think I just gave him an ultimatum? **UPDATE**
POST: [Original post.
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We had breakfast a week later and talked about everything, the house and whatnot, and he said he is working on it and he feels awful about it and doesn't want to los... | Assistant:.............................................................................. Still taking a little time to process, but everything seems to be going as per our plan. |
I am willing to help in any way I can, but I don't know how to go about it. How do I go about it without making him feel like he's putting me in a position I don't want to be in? I don't want to lose him, but I don't want to be an idiot either. |
SUBREDDIT: r/askwomenadvice
TITLE: How do I safely lower my libido?
POST: I'm a 20 year old female and I get that this is only normal considering my age but I can't handle myself anymore. I have never had sex and don't plan on it right now due to body issues etc. I masturbate everyday and sometimes more than once. I st... | Assistant: I have never had sex and want to lower my libido. I can't seem to resist my urges anymore. Help? | ive tried everything but still have a hard time controlling my libido when i see the guy friend. Need advice on how to lower it |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: 25M professional artist/animator/illustrator dating hobbyist artists. How to deal?
POST: Not sure how useful it is to post this here but here goes.
I am usually pretty critical about art in general. I'm excited when people are into it but it's really difficult when someone says they d... | Assistant:ily, am i an asshole? How to deal with 'artistic types'. Or should i be less critical all together... | ive been dating a 25 year old artist for 2 years but he doesn't really make decent money. How do I deal with this? |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: Girlfriends[32] ex still hangs out with her daughter.
POST: Hello,
Recently things have gotten more serious with my gf who is 32 and has a daughter and myself who is 29 and has no kids. She broke up with her ex somewhat recently, maybe 6 months ago or so. Her ex constantly calls to ... | Assistant:~~32 year old girl's ex still babysits her daughter while ~~32 year old girl is dating 29 year old me. |
girlfriend still hangs out with her daughter, ex still hangs out with his daughter. what do you think? |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: My friend [16 F] is hurt by what her boyfriend [15 M]of one/two months said about her
POST: My friend (Mary) was Face timing with her boyfriend (Joe) and started to ask him about what he dislikes about her. Joe mentions that he doesn't really like Mary's small chest and dislikes her bo... | Assistant:ive been friend for a year and i'm still in middle school, please don't judge me if i made mistakes so young irl. |
Is it fair to a girl to confess that he doesn't like her small chest and that he doesn't like her skinny body? |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: I need some advice regarding a female friend of mine. (she's almost 20 and i'm almost 22)
POST: Okay, I've been friends with this girl for about 10 months. I first met her at college about a year ago. She had a boyfriend at first, but eventually she broke up with him, and started to p... | Assistant:~~I'm trying to figure out what's going on with my friend with a difference, and I need a few words of wisdom. |
I'm friends with this girl, she has a boyfriend, she's having trouble trusting him, I don't understand what's going through her head, any advice? |
SUBREDDIT: r/tifu
TITLE: TIFU by inviting the locals to hang out with the hairy twins
POST: Ok as is quite common, this didn't happen today, this happened many years ago in the far north Australian town of cooktown
Cooktown, was a great place, heaps of Sun, good fishing etc.
But just my luck as a young boy, I venture... | Assistant:
- Went fishing
- Sat on toilet
- Stoled the natives shit, got tick stuck in my johnson |
I was a young kid, went into the bush to pee, found some local natives, didn't know I had a bloodsucking demon in my scrotum, ended up having it removed. Now no longer can Pee straight without crying. |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: My GF [25, F] and I [24, M] live together, but she lost her job and isn't really trying to find a new one. [3 years, 9 months cohabiting]
POST: My GF lost her job 3 weeks ago today. As of this point, to the best of my knowledge, she has only submitted a single resume to a potential emp... | Assistant: GF lost her job 3 weeks ago, and still isn't looking for employment, and I'm not sure if she's even being honest about searching. What do you think of the situation? |
GF lost job 3 weeks ago, doesn't seem to be trying to find one despite being home all the time. I can't support both of us as a young adult who is still establishing his career. Don't know what to do. |
SUBREDDIT: r/offmychest
TITLE: I am sick and tired of having to deal with my severely depressed and sometimes seemingly suicidal friend.
POST: My friend, lets call him Dude, has been dealing with depression (undiagnosed but I know for sure it is, he just refuses to see a doctor or tell his family) For almost a year now... | Assistant: Friend has severe depression and one way or another Im going show his parents all the crap he sends them so that they can get him help, but I am sick of him and sick of dealing with this. | ive been telling my friend to get help for a year now, he refuses to see a doctor and refuse to tell his family, but I need to get this off my chest. |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: Help, please. M(26)y WiF(25)e and I just looked at our wedding photos and she hates them.
POST: So my wife and I have been married for two months and we just got our first look at our wedding photos. She hates them. My wife feels like there are a ton of photos of my family and hardly... | Assistant:~~Wife hated our wedding photos, didn't tell anyone, and is now in a huge rage until we talk about it.~~ |
I don't know what to do about my wife's anger at our wedding photos. |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: (21F) Found porn on my bf's (21M) tablet. He says it's not his, but no one else has used his tablet.
POST: Background: Him and I have been together for about 1 year and a half. He's only given me a reason to doubt him once, and I can't actually blame him for it because we were not tech... | Assistant:~~I don't even know the wording.~~ Boyfriend claims he did not download porn to his tablet, but it was on it. |
I found porn on my bf's tablet, but he says it's not his. Am I being naive? |
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