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SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: My co-worker [24 F] seems to have gotten really close to me [22 M] but she's also seeing someone. Is there anything that I can do about it?
POST: We were hired together last August, were seated by each other, and immediately got along well. Similar nerdy interests, make each other la... | Co-worker clearly seems to like me but is seeing someone else, I feel like I have nothing that I can do about it.<|endoftext|> |
SUBREDDIT: r/Parenting
TITLE: In response to "My Kindergartner is already learning about black history..."
POST: So, when I first read [this post] I was surprised because it made me think differently about Black History month being celebrated in younger age groups. As a teacher and mother of a 2nd grader, I thought ... | 7 year old feeling white guilt because of Black History Month. Are we giving these kids too much of a history lesson?<|endoftext|> |
SUBREDDIT: r/dating_advice
TITLE: Any Tips on Picking Up Girls in Public?
POST: Hi, I've had a lot of trouble with dating friends and people close to me, so I'm looking to sort of find and date people that I don't already know.
I'm a 17 y/o male. I live in a very small town and have somewhat exhausted my "resources.... | I'm consciously going out of town, to public places, to try and find someone to date. Weird, right? Any tips?<|endoftext|> |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: My [22F] mother [54F] died and I don't know how to feel.
POST: My mom always had a problem with addiction, or so I was told. She got clean and had my brother, J, and I back to back. When she was in labor with me I managed to break her tailbone. They prescribed her heavy painkillers a... | my estranged mom left when I was baby and she died of a drug overdose. unsure how to proceed and how to feel.<|endoftext|> |
SUBREDDIT: r/pettyrevenge
TITLE: Muffin revenge
POST: This morning, I made some wonderful blueberry-lemon buttermilk muffins with my friend. They were heavenly- light and fluffy, not too sweet, with a lemon glaze drizzled over the top. We made 2 batches- about 20 muffins- and after indulging in a few ourselves, I dec... | Made muffins. Mom made me walk a mile, so I gave away their muffins to my friends (who loved them), and put the box that clearly held the muffins right in front of my family.<|endoftext|> |
SUBREDDIT: r/AskReddit
TITLE: AskReddit, were my parents just the victims of malicious social engineering?
POST: First post, apologies if I missed a rules violation. I've already asked my father to send me as detailed an account of what happened on a 3rd computer as soon ashe could, but I wanted to get thoughts on t... | Some random guy called my Dad twice claiming their was malware on my Dad's computer. On the second time, my Dad gave him remote desktop access. What should I do?<|endoftext|> |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: Need advise on how to deal with game-playing in a relationship.
POST: Advice*** sorry.
So, last night, one of of my good friends who I never get to see anymore texted me and asked if I'd like to hang out with his youth group and watch the heat game. Obviously I accepted. I should ad... | I stayed out late last night with friends now she's staying out late with her coworkers (who she hates). How do i respond?<|endoftext|> |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: Me [42 M] with my Friend [28 F] got pretty close but i don't know where i'm going - Need advice!
POST: Reddit i need your power :)
Me and this girl, let's give her a fake name, Sheila, met a couple of years ago during a Yelp event in the City where i worked.
During the course of t... | i've found a girl i like and we got close, but she has a boyfriend. I don't know how to proceed.<|endoftext|> |
SUBREDDIT: r/personalfinance
TITLE: Engaged, trying to build credit so we can buy a home. Have outstanding debt that is affecting my credit score. Should I use my down payment savings to pay off the debt?
POST: I have about $4,000 saved up as a nest egg, as a potential down payment for a cheap starter home/furniture/... | keep my savings with one outstanding defaulted medical bill in case I need a bigger down payment, or spend my savings on clearing all debt?<|endoftext|> |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: Me [19F ] just broke up with my [29 M] partner.
POST: I'm constantly advised just to have sex and don't catch any feelings but part of me feels bad when I'm treated like a blow-up doll, the last man I had feelings for just told me today he was seeing someone else while excusing himse... | I need advise to get over him and move on since he cheated (because of our "long distance relationship" and age) and I became extremely clingy to him.<|endoftext|> |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: Stepbrother's half brother just died. What do I say
POST: My (F 23) now ex-stepbrother (M 21) has always been a member of my family, no questions asked. His mom had another son with her first husband, making him my stepbrother's older half brother. Sorry, I know it's confusing.
The... | Stepbrother's brother died and I desperately want to be as supportive and helpful as I can be but I'm at a loss.<|endoftext|> |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: Me [23 M]with my girlfriend [21F] of 3 months, am i overthinking or should i be worried?
POST: Firstly, i met this girl off tinder, we spoke and had mutual friends including family memers even though ive never met her. We dated for about a month before it became official and we didnt... | gf of 3 months is a social media queen, does random things that make me jealous, also doesnt even mention she has a boyfriend on any of these. Should i be worried? <|endoftext|> |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: Me [20F] with guy [19m] I just met, is it normal to be ignored the first few days?
POST: Hey reddit, this is my first post so please be gentle :)
So a couple days ago, he (let's called him Jake) approached me as I finished my shift at work. He was really friendly and easy to talk to... | Guy approached me after work and gave me his number. We were talking quite a bit the first two days, and now nothing. Did I scare him off?<|endoftext|> |
SUBREDDIT: r/AskReddit
TITLE: Reddit, I start my first retail job tomorrow (christmas casual) and I'm a bit intimidated by all these numbers/ranks/etc, any tips?
POST: As the title says, I start work at a popular chain of videogame stores tomorrow and while there is an 'expiration date' as such, there is a possibilit... | Start work at video game store tomorrow, suck at retail, want to do good enough to continue working there after christmas.<|endoftext|> |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: Me [20F] with my SO [27 M] my friends think he is too old for me??
POST: My boyfriend is 27, and I am 20 but will be turning 21 in a few short months. Im currently in undergrad and he is working. My school is private and somewhat elitist, its tucked away neatly in a small town, with ... | my friends are a little critical of the age difference although we all agree the relationship is healthy. What do you think?<|endoftext|> |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationship_advice
TITLE: I [27M] have a great, near 'dream job' opportunity that if I take might cost me my relationship of 7 years...
POST: I have a great offer to work in a new location that is very close to the ideal situation as far as my career advancement. I've made sure to express that I see thi... | New and great job opportunity in a place where my SO refuses to move and thinks an LDR is 'going backwards' due to how our relationship started. I'm at a crossroads and don't know what to do. <|endoftext|> |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: Me [20 M] with my ex-girlfriend (bestfriend) [22 F] 8 months or so, Split up and now are spending a massive amount of time together, I'm confused.
POST: Let me preface this with this. Back in December when we split she said it was due to personal issues. She said that she was still h... | broke up, got very close again after not speaking for a while. not sure what to do with feelings, she said she has feelings too, but doesn't know.<|endoftext|> |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: [24M] My sister [22F] is in an abusive relationship, she has ostracised herself from her family members and has moved in with him [23M]. They have a child together and I am worried about her and her daughter.
POST: I really don't know what to do. It is confusing so I will write it ou... | sister is in an abusive relationship with her boyfriend and father of their 5 month old daughter, she has ostracised herself from family members in order to be with him.<|endoftext|> |
SUBREDDIT: r/dating_advice
TITLE: Recent college grad looking for some quick advice...
POST: So, to begin with some backstory, as the title says, I'm a recent college grad, and just after I started work in February I had gotten dumped pretty harshly by my now ex of about 2 years. So this whole dating with not knowing... | When after having sex should you ask to be exclusive if you think things are going well? Even if the general month-ish trial period isn't anywhere near close?<|endoftext|> |
SUBREDDIT: r/AskReddit
TITLE: Am I an arachnophobe?
POST: My family keeps a refrigerator in our garage, and today I went in there to get something when I saw this awful looking black widow in the corner. I freaked out and rushed back inside, this was also the first time I have ever genuinely screamed out of fear in r... | I saw a black widow and became frightened, screamed, and stopped what I was doing to go somewhere else. I'm also afraid of some pictures of spiders. Is this arachnophobia?<|endoftext|> |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: I'm [M17] not sure if I want a relationship
POST: So basically, I've had shitty luck when it comes to relationships, longest one was a month, which I spoke with the girl twice, whilst going on 4 or 5 dates prior. I was heartbroken when she split up with me, never got a reason.
Met a... | Is it worth trying to find a girlfriend, or just spending time with someone? How do I go about meeting new people?<|endoftext|> |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: I [25 M] refuse to 'chase' or 'roll out the red carpet' when I am pursing. Is this wrong?
POST: "If she is as ambitious and intelligent as I want her to be, she will see everything I have to offer her and send me an indication of interest."
I understand that as a male in the US, I a... | When I make my intentions/feelings clear to a girl ONCE, I do not pursue until she reciprocates my attention and I am asking you guys if this is a false way of thinking. <|endoftext|> |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: I (31m) want to get back my fiancée (31f) who recently left me. We have a 5 year old daughter together.
POST: Sunday my fiancée left me saying she is unhappy with our relationship and doesn't think it can be fixed. She says we have the same problems over and over again and they never... | I'm trying to fix my relationship of 8 years since my fiancée left but nothing seems to work. I need some advice.<|endoftext|> |
SUBREDDIT: r/AskReddit
TITLE: Do you think it's possible to be "soul mates" with a person you would never date?
POST: Let me try to put that in better perspective... In Greek mythology there is this belief that humans were originally created with 4 arms, 4 legs, and 2 heads, but Zeus was so afraid of their power like... | Do you believe in "soul mates"? And if so, do you think you can be "soul mates" with someone you have no romantic feelings for?<|endoftext|> |
SUBREDDIT: r/tifu
TITLE: TIFU by moaning my ex's name during oral with my new guy (nsfw)
POST: This happened just a couple hours ago and I feel awful and super embarrassed.
So, my ex and I broke up about 2 months ago. I had lost my virginity to him and he was the only guy I had done anything sexual with (oral, fing... | moaned my ex's name during oral with my new guy; I'm not sure if he heard but I feel awful nonetheless.<|endoftext|> |
SUBREDDIT: r/travel
TITLE: Ever fallen for a scam while traveling? Or almost?
POST: I am usually good about this sort of thing but today I was scammed for the first time (that I know of) while visiting the terra-cotta warriors in Xi'an, China.
I was renting an audio guide from the official booth (which is, i think, ... | Two clerks worked together to try to jip me out of a 200 yuan deposit plus 60 yuan in change for an audio guide.<|endoftext|> |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: I [32 M] started chatting with a girl [23 F] online, we met once, keep getting mixed signals
POST: Hopefully, it wont get long. So, the girl I added on Facebook 2 months ago, that I never met before, messaged me a week ago, asking if I want to meet with her. We chatted a little and s... | Met a girl I like on facebook. Met once in person, all went well, but she considers me a friend. What to do?<|endoftext|> |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationship_advice
TITLE: Getting bored and annoyed with BF. Think I'm falling for someone else. How to reignite relationship or should I leave?
POST: I'm 24. BF is 25. Living together. I love him, but lately I'm getting irritated by him. We barely have anything in common. He appears to have no real dri... | BF does not seem to appreciate anything I do for him. He bores me. There may be a new guy I would rather be with because we are on the same nerd wavelength.<|endoftext|> |
SUBREDDIT: r/personalfinance
TITLE: Americasbest401k, Lincoln Trust, looking for advise please.
POST: Our company has decided to move forward and change our 401k plan from Nationwide to Americasbest401k. Someone in our company read the book "Money:Master the Game" from Tony Robbins and apparently he recommended the c... | Employer plans to change plan, new provider seems fishy. Also is 401k rollover possible when changing plan providers.<|endoftext|> |
SUBREDDIT: r/tifu
TITLE: TIFU by yelling
POST: Ok, so this fu happened yesterday not today. I just didn't have time until now. One more thing before I go on, is that this fuck up isn't really hilarious or cringing, but it made my parents think less of me.
So I (15 year old male) was playing MLB 2k13 (Please don't ju... | Was playing mlb 2k with my brother, wouldn't let me run home on a sacrafice fly and yelled what the fuck and my parents heard.<|endoftext|> |
SUBREDDIT: r/personalfinance
TITLE: Is there any way to put 100k into an account for retirement without taking it out of income?
POST: I'm just about to graduate college and I am taking a personal finance class. I see the advantage of saving for retirement early but do not yet understand a lot of the intricacies of r... | I have 100k that I want to get high interest on but I don't want to wait to fund a Roth IRA or 401k.<|endoftext|> |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: Me [27 M] with my Ex [23 F] of 6 years, after 8 months of break up she wants to get back together.
POST: We had different points of view on our last 6 months of our relationship and basically it was most of the time discussions. When we broke up she decided to have some time for hers... | Ex girlfriend of 6 years want to get back together after 8 months of being apart. In the meantime, she had a boyfriend for 4 months.<|endoftext|> |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: [Update] Me [25F] with my boyfriend [28M] of 4 years, has recently become totally obsessed with anal sex
POST: Original post:
That evening I asked him if we could talk about something. I basically told him everything I wrote down here - how I was fed up with his anal obsession. To ... | We talked a lot about things and think we can try work things out. He has agreed to cut down on watching porn.<|endoftext|> |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: Me [26 M] with my girlfriend [24 F] of 1 year. She wants to go through my phone, but I want my privacy
POST: Pretty simple situation - my girlfriend sometimes wants to look at my phone. She'll start flipping through my texts/pictures/whatever and I'm not ok with it. This is right in ... | Girlfriend thinks she should have unrestricted access to my phone and its contents. Am I wrong for believing I deserve my privacy? How can I get my perspective across without losing her trust?<|endoftext|> |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: Me (20 M) trying to deal with an understand her(17 F) saying she needs a break after finally meeting in LDR relationship
POST: First off, I know we are young, but please try to look past that?
We met in May 2012 online, and started talking every day. We became a couple in July 2012.... | Dated 18 months online, finally met in person, was amazing, had to leave, now she doesn't want to talk to me<|endoftext|> |
SUBREDDIT: r/AskReddit
TITLE: Reddit, Whats in your bag?
POST: A couple years back, I was browsing lifehacker, and came upon a series of threads titled "Whats in your bag?" With picture upon picture, of everyones bags, it fascinated me endlessly. I found lots of cool organizers, trinkets, ect. It helped me develop my... | Post pictures of your bag and whats inside. Dont just detail a list, thats no fun. Everyone likes pictures!<|endoftext|> |
SUBREDDIT: r/AskReddit
TITLE: Dear academic Redditors; I messed up my first swing at college, and want to give it another go. I have a couple questions and a request for advice.
POST: The back story: I graduated high school in 2005. I was always really into science and mathematics in high school, and was urged by my... | I screwed up college the first time I tried, it's been two years, and I want to go back and get a science degree. Advice?<|endoftext|> |
SUBREDDIT: r/Advice
TITLE: Apartment broken into. Valuables taken. What to do next?
POST: Our apartment was 'broken into' yesterday while we were at work. Valuables amounting to thousands of dollars were taken - mostly cash in different currencies and the engagement ring that my boyfriend was going to give me.
We'v... | The title. Police report made. Credit cards cancelled. Locks changed. Going to get renter's insurance. What next?<|endoftext|> |
SUBREDDIT: r/legaladvice
TITLE: A friend stored items in a shed on my property in April, agreed to collect things by May 1st...it's August.
POST: I'm in Tennessee.
A friend I made at work at the end of last year had to move out of her apartment quickly after a relationship turned bad with one of her roommates. I let... | I let a relatively new friend store stuff at my place, and she was supposed to come get it on May 1st. Now I can't contact her to come get it, or she's just not responding.<|endoftext|> |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: On changing my [20F] last name to his [22M]. Did you regret your decision to take his name, or to keep your own?
POST: My boyfriend and I are both in our final year of undergrad, and have been together for 6 years (long distance during the school year for 3 years). We plan to be marr... | Boyfriend would be much happier if I take his name, but I'm not so sure I'd be happy. Did you regret your decision to take a partner's name?<|endoftext|> |
SUBREDDIT: r/dating_advice
TITLE: Why am I (33m) being such a teenage girl?
POST: I met this absolutely wonderful girl a 2 months back on a skiing trip with some friends. We immideately hit it off, but nothing physical happened. A few weeks go by, and her friend contacts me, gets me into trying snapchat (i know right... | Great chemistry with this girl, but all of a sudden she delays a lot in responding to messages. Like several hours.<|endoftext|> |
SUBREDDIT: r/AskReddit
TITLE: Am I the only one that thinks'strategically defaulting' on your mortgage is a load of horseshit?
POST: So, more and more I am hearing about people'strategically defaulting' on their home mortgages.
The way I see it (and correct me if I am wrong on this) is that homeowners are fed up w... | My neighbors dog shit in my yard, and then my kid stepped in it with bare feet. She now has a weird looking growth on that foot. Doctor doesn't know what it is. What should I do?????<|endoftext|> |
SUBREDDIT: r/dating_advice
TITLE: 23M needs some beginner's help.
POST: So some background (throwaway here), like my username suggests, I have no relationship experience. I've had my fair shares of rejections, so that kind of stopped me from asking just any girls I found to my liking to hangout, date, etc.
So let's ... | No experience, got to know a girl through texting, trying to find a way to ask her on a date/hangout. Help?<|endoftext|> |
SUBREDDIT: r/weddingplanning
TITLE: Fiancé is insisting on a Game of Thrones themed wedding and I want something more traditional. Fighting is erupting.
POST: My fiancé of three months is being a nightmare about wedding planning. We're east coast based.
He's a huge Game of Thrones fan...which is fine. I like the sho... | Fiancé wants a game of thrones wedding, I do not. How to compromise without looking like complete dorks.<|endoftext|> |
SUBREDDIT: r/askwomenadvice
TITLE: Was my comment sexist?
POST: Hi everyone.
I just wanted some perspective on my behavior to understand whether or not, from your perspectives, I was being sexist. It may seem minor to some however I think that it is important for a number of underlying reasons. I'm not looking for ... | Made a joke on a girls picture (of her in her car) asking who she hit this time. Called out for making a sexist joke. Wanting perspective.<|endoftext|> |
SUBREDDIT: r/AskReddit
TITLE: Entrepreneurs of Reddit: How do you deal with the struggle of getting more customers?
POST: I'm not looking for advice or tactics and tips. There's plenty of that online and plenty of my friends telling me what to do. Sometimes, it just doesn't work, no matter how awesome your advice is.... | Instead of asking for advice on how to get customers (there's plenty of that elsewhere), join this thread to complain about how difficult it is to find customers.<|endoftext|> |
SUBREDDIT: r/tifu
TITLE: TIFU by being paranoid
POST: I live in a country where a lot of crimes (theft, mostly) happen in public transportation. Being the paranoid that I am, I not only carry a swiss knife in my bag, but I also enrolled myself in basic self-defense classes, and carried the strongest pepper-spray sold... | Rode a bus, being extremely paranoid, pepper-sprayed a pastor (whom I mistook for a mugger).<|endoftext|> |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: My (23f) newly ex boyfriend (23m) is coming home drunk.... a lot. Need advice ASAP, he's at the bar now.
POST: Recently broke up with my emotionally abusive boyfriend of 1.5 years. We live together in an apartment and neither of us can move until one of us can save money to get into ... | My ex is coping with the breakup by drinking at the bar every night for the past week, drives himself home. I'm the only option for him to have a DD but he won't call me. Help?<|endoftext|> |
SUBREDDIT: r/jobs
TITLE: Advice on when to reach out again to the hiring manager for possible position.
POST: Hey guys,
I work in the media industry and my current title is a production assistant for a sports station. Even thought I'm 24 I've had some great experiences in my past and have been able to make a lot of ... | contacted hiring manager, got a no position available now response, trying to figure out the rule of thumb of when to reach out again?<|endoftext|> |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: Me [24 M] with my [24 F] of 5 months, frequently orgasms a few times, and quits before I can as well
POST: Good evening folks, hoping I can gain some perspective here.
I'm having a problem in my relationship related to sex. We started out friends with benefits for a couple of months... | SO orgasms a few times and tires out too quickly for me to finish during sex, leaving me to finish alone in the bathroom. What to do??<|endoftext|> |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: My [31F] roommate of 1 year [26M] wants to throw a big party even though I work that weekend
POST: Basically what the title says. I work the occasional weekend, and my roommate has announced he's throwing a party in 2 weeks (on a weekend I work) because that's when the most people ca... | roommate says he's having a party in 2 weeks, I have to work and I'm not okay with it. He doesn't care and says he's having it anyway.<|endoftext|> |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: Fighting in marriage
POST: Hi /r/relationships, created this throw away because I don't want personal friends to know about my marital issues. My wife is 24 and I am 26. Been married for 3 years, together for 6.
My wife is a wonderful woman who is creative, funny and absolute pleas... | Had a bad fight, think its mostly my fault, need to know how to handle these situations better without taking to long to think about what to say.<|endoftext|> |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: My(18/m) girlfriend (17/f) of 1 year doesn't seem to appreciate what I go though for her. What can I do?
POST: For the last year+ I've been bending over backwards to Help her, if something goes wrong I'm there she needs to. Talk I'm there 24/7 I do My best to be second asleep all the... | I do a lot for her and feel as I'd she doesn't care anymore. Not looking to break up but just how to work it out.<|endoftext|> |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: My [27 F] husband [30 M] of six months is driving me crazy
POST: No one thing jumps out, so I'm going to list a few.
- If he doesn't want to have sex, he thinks it's perfectly normal and I should respect that and never question it, even if it goes on for weeks at a time. If I don't ... | Husband is basically beating me down on a lot of fronts - emotionally, financially, etc. How do I deal with this?<|endoftext|> |
SUBREDDIT: r/jobs
TITLE: How much info should be in a LinkedIn profile?
POST: I recently started attempting to tailor my resume to the specific jobs I am applying to, but it's raised a question for me. If I have jobs that are listed on my LinkedIn profile but not my resume for a particular application, or if I have d... | how much detail should be in a LinkedIn job description? How do I keep my LinkedIn profile consistent with my resume when I am applying to multiple positions at a time, which may not require the same experience?<|endoftext|> |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: This girl I'm seeing [23 F] just got out of a four year relationship and told me [27 M] she didn't want to jump into a relationship with me. Does that mean she's down to hook up with other guys?
POST: We started talking less than a month ago and this week we started sleeping with eac... | I don't know whether this girl I'm seeing is flaky or not but there are a lot of warning signs.<|endoftext|> |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: Me [26 M] with my [31 M] very confused and not sure how to approach "the talk" really needing advice.
POST: The history with my guy is an interesting one, but I'll keep it short.
We met at the gym around June, we were both busy so we didn't get to hang out a lot. Well, we eventually ... | First gay relationship, he might be moving away, not sure how to approach having "the talk" about us, think I'm falling in love first the first time.<|endoftext|> |
SUBREDDIT: r/tifu
TITLE: TIFU by unintentionally stealing my Christmas present
POST: Now, this happened around 6 years ago. I was at that age where I was a goody two shoes. Like if my mom told me to eat a dick I would eat a dick.
So anyways, it was almost Christmas time. My sister went out to buy some presents and ... | Sister got presents, guessed what my present was, sister thought I peeked at what my present was, got mad, stole present, and got rekt.<|endoftext|> |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: Girlfriend (20f) just told me (20m) we need a break right before our 3 year anniversary, and I'm terrified.
POST: So long story short, I thought she was the one. We bonded very quickly when we first met, and had almost no problems besides the occasional little argument, which we got ... | Girlfriend says she still loves me, and for reasons she can't understand feels the need to be separate. Want to understand and be supportive.<|endoftext|> |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: Im in college and my [21F] Mother [45F] steals money from me and guilts me for it
POST: So I am in my final semester of college. I graduate in May. My mother has access to my bank account but it was only supposed to be for her to pay my rent. I work part time as a server and I am als... | Mother promises to pay my rent, but always pays it late to the point of eviction. She also takes money whenever she pleases from my account.<|endoftext|> |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: Me [19F] having a hard time when it comes to meeting guys and talking to them.
POST: Hey, everyone!
I'm REALLY insecure. I've never ever had a boyfriend before, boys have approached me in the past, and I simply push them off, due to my insecurity.
A new year started, and I've been ... | How do you approach a guy you're interested in, without coming off as creepy, or weird? And as an anxious/insecure person what do you do when you're interested in someone?.<|endoftext|> |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: Wondering if it would be ok for me(m34) to get a mother's day gift for a friend (f27) who was once a girlfriend.
POST: I have a friend that has a 2 year old. I dated this friend for a short time and still care very much for her but ended the relationship because of outside issues. ... | Thinking of getting a friend who is a single mother and ex-girlfriend, a mother's day gift. (I'm not the father) Should I? and if so, any suggestions?<|endoftext|> |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: Is he genuinely busy or is something else going on?
POST: Hi reddit. This one will take a little bit of background (first post on /r/relationships but I'll do my best).
I met this guy just over a month ago. I'm female, 17 and he's male, French, 27. The age gap came as a surprise to ... | 10 year age gap, we're both really into each other, but he's keeps saying he's busy and won't make plans with me.<|endoftext|> |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: Me [20F] with my SO [22 M] 2 years, was raped a year ago and told him last week- struggling to enjoy sex now [Xpost from r/sex]
POST: I posted this in r/sex earlier but didn't get much response so thought I would try here.
Like I said in the title, I was raped a year ago. I don't f... | Was raped a year ago, told my boyfriend last week and don't enjoy sex as much now. What can I do to get past this and enjoy having sex with him again?<|endoftext|> |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: I [19 M] was just told by the girl [18 F] I've been seeing for a few weeks that she's demiromantic
POST: I'm in college, and this was the first time a relationship seemed like it could actually get anywhere. My cousin and her friend had been trying to set us up all summer, we went on... | Went on a date with a girl I really like, and she's demiromantic. What do I do?<|endoftext|> |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: Me [21 M] with [21 F] girl says she cannot have a relationship because we belong to different religions
POST: I have been into this girl for a very long time and she has been in to me. I felt as though I was getting all the right signals when I told her my feelings for her. But she s... | Girl says we can't have relationship because we belong to different religions and her parents would object. How do I make this work? And what should I do?<|endoftext|> |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: reddit! am I being stupid about this or would you guys feels the same?
POST: I'll keep it short :3
I'm 18, he's 18. Dating for 3 years.
When we walk together anywhere, like, say the mall or an amusement park or whatever he is always walking ahead of me. Like, legit ahead of me so th... | My boyfriend walks way faster than me and always leaves me behind. It upsets me and he doesn't see why and also doesn't want to compromise and walk my pace.<|endoftext|> |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationship_advice
TITLE: ex-gf's roommate situation
POST: I am very good friends with an ex-girlfriend of mine. We dated for just under a year several years ago. In the time since we have hooked-up a few times but never on a consistent basis and never with any hint of reigniting an actual relationshi... | Want to date a good friend/ex-gf's roommate. Ex will not allow. But I am really interested in the roommate and don't want to relent.<|endoftext|> |
SUBREDDIT: r/self
TITLE: Too smart to commit, too stupid to leave
POST: I like this girl I'm with a lot. She's abrasive and incredibly strong willed, but I kinda like that. She's also emotionally scarred which is my weakness.
She seems to keep me at arms length, but at the same time seems to always have me in mind.... | i won't tell her that I love her, but I don't want to let her go. She actually makes me happy. I think I might actually be falling for her.<|endoftext|> |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: Girlfriend [18 F] of only one month spontaneously broke up with me [18 M] last night. Don't know what to do :/
POST: She came to my dorm last night and said that she just wasn't feeling it emotionally anymore. She had just broken up with a previous boyfriend in August and said she fe... | Girlfriend broke up with me suddenly saying we went too fast. Am now lost and don't know what to do. :/<|endoftext|> |
SUBREDDIT: r/AskReddit
TITLE: How bad really is the recession and unemployment in America?
POST: As someone who has never been to America, or outside of my own country, I am confused at the situation in America currently. I hear stuff about it's a great place to live, and I also hear stuff about how unemployment rate... | just need a non-bias view on America's current economical situation (job stability and cost of living), as I have heard mixed contradictory views.<|endoftext|> |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: Been dating a girl for almost two years but may be finding something special with someone else?
POST: Ok so i am a male 18 and she is a female 18. We have been dating for almost 2 years and things have been ok for the most part. There have been times where i have wanted to be out of ... | Love gf of two years, met someone amazing, makes me feel very good, dont know what to do, forget about new girl and move on?<|endoftext|> |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: My (20 F) Dads (M 54) bad habits drive me insane and its ruining our relationship.
POST: My dad has many of those little annoying habits, eating loudly, biting his nails whenever his hands are free, loudly sniffing and coughing frequently and blaring BBC news past midnight.
I know... | my dad's bad habits drive me insane, so much so that its putting a strain on our relationship. I want to know how to not give a fuck and deal with it. Plz halp<|endoftext|> |
SUBREDDIT: r/self
TITLE: Really needed to vent so here, my sushi apprenticeship hardships.
POST: I put myself and and a few other people into an awkward situation. My boss at work is great, when we close together we just chit chat about all the great nerd shit we are into and sometimes we talk about chicks and what n... | I work at a big corporate sushi joint and I work my ass off but occasionally I find myself with nothing to do, I also might have some major confidence issues. I need mental help. That is all.<|endoftext|> |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: My [25 M] boyfriend [26 M] has me in his phone as another name.
POST: We have been dating for a little over a year and a half and are long distance right now. I noticed he had me in his phone as another name like, 8 months ago, I noticed in a text screenshot. I asked him then, and he... | Noticed by screenshot that long distance boyfriend has me in phone as woman's name. We are both gay. I feel like it probably has to do with him wanting to hide being gay from people. Should I confront anyway?<|endoftext|> |
SUBREDDIT: r/AskReddit
TITLE: What's your most unlikely chance meeting?
POST: Mine happened a couple days ago. It all started on Omegle, about three years ago where I met a random girl (gender has since been confirmed) who is now one of my better friends. She made me sign up for Tumblr, and I just started subscribing... | Subscribed to a random girl on Tumblr, told her she looked how I thought Katniss would, ran into her in Disney World a couple years later.<|endoftext|> |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: Have negative feelings towards a mutual friend of ex and me for stupid reason and it's making me feel bad
POST: So, my first love and I broke up around 8 or 9 months ago (together for 1.5 yrs). Him and I decided to remain friends out of mutual respect towards one another and the fact... | Have negative feelings towards a really cool girl in me and my ex's group of friends just because her and my ex are very compatible. It makes me feel really bad. Don't know how to deal with it<|endoftext|> |
SUBREDDIT: r/self
TITLE: Yesterday was a horrible day.
POST: Yesterday I did shrooms. While tripping I kept on getting this feeling of deja-vu and convinced myself that I was stuck in an infinite loop, which was really overwhelming and terrified me. In the middle of my terror, my mom called and told me our family c... | Found out my cat died while in the middle of a bad shrooms trip. Went home, still tripping, to a devastated family, then got a headache so bad I threw up for 2 hours.<|endoftext|> |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: Me [20 M] and my [20 F] girlfriend are having issues, likely caused by me. Help?
POST: Hey guys, I don't really know if this is the right place to put this out there but I don't really know where else to go. I'll start from the beginning.
The relationship between her and I in the pa... | My Girlfriend and I are just finished the honeymoon stage in our relationship and I know she's having second thoughts, possibly because of me. Help?<|endoftext|> |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: Me [45 M] with my Ex-Wife [40 F] 15years, trouble moving on
POST: I separated from my wide coming on 2 years ago - she lied and cheated and it all ended. We have 2 kids and only ongoing communication is brief and related to them. I have no desire whatsoever to get back together and a... | Why do i care if my ex is with the person she cheated on me with - why is it seemingly holding me back when I don't want to be with her?!<|endoftext|> |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: I [23M] just started being ignored by a girl [22F] I've been seeing.
POST: So I've been seeing this girl for the past few weeks. We met on Tinder (I know, right?), and talked from there. We both knew we were looking for more of a relationship than just a hookup (although I did state ... | Guy talks to girl, guy sleeps with girl, girl starts to ignore guy completely, guy has no idea what's up. What is going on? Should I just say "fuck it" and move on?<|endoftext|> |
SUBREDDIT: r/tifu
TITLE: TIFU by screaming in terror and waking up my family
POST: I woke up at an especially ungodly hour this morning... I remember briefly trying to figure out why I would wake up so early, when my hand came into contact with the hand of a stranger. Heart racing, I realized that the position of the... | I'm an idiot. Fell asleep with my arm under my pillow and woke up thinking someone else was sleeping next to me. Woke up my family with the ensuing screams.<|endoftext|> |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: I [17 M] want to postpone a date with my GF [18 F]. But I'm not sure what to say?
POST: Basically we have a date to go to a nearby city tomorrow by using the train. However there is a football match in the city on that day, and due to this the train and city will likely be crowded. T... | Have a date tomorrow, but because a football match is on the train and city will likely be crowded, so I want to postpone by a week. What excuse should I use because I'm not sure crowds are an acceptable excuse?<|endoftext|> |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationship_advice
TITLE: [27m] she[27f] wants "space", but is keeping in contact.
POST: Friends for 4 years, been dating for 4 months.
Classic "i need space"; i know, i know... Most people think this is the coward's way to ease into a breakup. I am partially expecting this, though I obviously don't w... | she says wants space, but is still texting me like nothing changed. How do I politely ask her to tell me whats going on (provided she knows) the next time she texts me?<|endoftext|> |
SUBREDDIT: r/AskReddit
TITLE: My manager at work and some co-workers friend requested me on Facebook, wouldn't both options be a bad idea?
POST: I hate my job, I work in the kitchen at Taco Bell where only guys work. They're assholes to me because I'm a girl, talk down to me like i'm retarded for shits and giggles, a... | Manager and douchebag coworkers friend requested me. Accepting them would be bad, and denying them would be bad. What do I do?<|endoftext|> |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: I [20 M] have a weird feeling about my SO [19 F] and her coworker [24 M]
POST: My SO and I have been together for over a year. She is an introvert with social anxiety. She doesn't talk to many people and when she does, it's quick conversations and she very rarely starts the conversat... | SO talking to coworker seems weird to me and now she seems heartbroken that he doesn't want to talk anymore. Am I wrong for feeling like this?<|endoftext|> |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: Me [28/M] with my "boyfriend" [20 M/] 4 months, got awkward when asked about how long he'd been with me
POST: Last night the guy I've been seeing since November was asked by a friend "how long have you guys been together".
He kinda turned and looked at me as if it was an awkward ques... | Why is he being so cautious about wanting to be my boyfriend and where do I go from here. I'm tired to having to kinda beg to do things like spend holidays together.<|endoftext|> |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: Me [26 F] and Ex [27 M] of 1.5 years: getting back in touch through Spotify after 9 months without contact
POST: Following a bad break up at the end of last year, my once very close ex and I completely stopped communicating. Up until recently we both had each other blocked on several... | Followed ex on Spotify after 9 months of no contact. He deleted a recent playlist made up of break up / sad songs. Should I unfollow him to avoid being intrusive?<|endoftext|> |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: Me [22 M] with a girl I am talking to [24 F] for about 3 months, may be also talking to my cousin [29 M]. Do I confront one of them?
POST: I [22M] have been getting to know someone from work [24F] for about 3 months now. We hang out, workout, watch shows, etc. I have told her that I ... | Girl [24F] I am talking to may also be talking to my cousin [29M]. I [22M] do not know who to confront or if I should even say anything at all.<|endoftext|> |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: [24F] Girl I am dating lives with her ex - unsure what I [24M] should do.
POST: Almost two months ago I met a girl through some mutual friends at a dinner party and we immediatly hit it off. We chatted and texted a lot during the next weeks and went on some very succesful dates. She'... | She still lives with her ex and also close friend of many years, may not realize it's a red flag, I'm unsure how to bring it up.<|endoftext|> |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: How can I [22M] motivate my GF [23F] of 3 years to be more outgoing and successful?
POST: My girlfriend [23F] and I [22M] have been together for about 3 years now. We have had our ups and downs, including a short break at the beginning of the 2011 fall semester. However, lately I hav... | GF [23F] and I [22M] have been together 3 years, starting to question her motivation/career drive and out relationship.<|endoftext|> |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: Disinterested guy being nice probably, how do I let him off the hook?
POST: He's (25M) incredibly hard to read, and I'm (22F) not sure if he's shy or just not interested. Not dating yet.
We talked, even got vibes of flirting from him, think I've seen him looking my direction once a... | have no idea how to tell if this guy is disinterested or not. I feel like I should just tell him hey, don't worry about it and get it done with. Thoughts?<|endoftext|> |
SUBREDDIT: r/personalfinance
TITLE: New to budgeting: Have the motivation, but I've never done it before. Any tips?
POST: My finances are a total mess. I never learned good money management skills, or how to be wise with debt, so I have poor credit and struggle each month to pay all the bills. My parents cosigned o... | Broke lady needs budgetary direction. Broke lady probably also needs to come up with more money, but let's take it one step at a time.<|endoftext|> |
SUBREDDIT: r/AskReddit
TITLE: Hey Reddit! What are some strange things that have happened to you in a public washroom? I'll start...
POST: So I was sitting in a Tim Horton's eating an amazing bagel topped with delicious whipped cream and sipping upon a cool and refreshing chocolate milk, when the urge to defecate inv... | A man came into the bathroom while I was dumping and started masturbating, and winked at me when I finally left.<|endoftext|> |
SUBREDDIT: r/dating_advice
TITLE: I (M26) am foggy on how to proceed with her (F22).
POST: Please help r/dating_advice.
Let's start with some back story...about a year ago I met a woman who was a couple years my junior and was dating someone. At the time I was not in a place where I was ready/able to be in a relatio... | I like her, we're friends, idk how she feels. Might be in friend-zone, don't really know. If so, how do I fix? If not, how should I proceed?<|endoftext|> |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: Me [19F] with my SO [20M] 1.5 years, ~4 m LDR, What are some ways I can show him how much I appreciate him?
POST: Hi everyone!
My boyfriend and I have been in a ldr for the best ~ 4 months of our relationship.
He is wonderful, smart, caring, funny, laughs at my jokes, dedicated, ... | Me [19F] with my SO [20M] LDR, What are some ways I can show him how much I appreciate him?<|endoftext|> |
SUBREDDIT: r/dating_advice
TITLE: I [23M] dating [22F] - finding the time when working/studying
POST: Ok so recently I started working full-time(finished my BS/MSc), and "unfortunately" met an amazing girl(completely out of the blue). And now I find myself struggling with time.
One of the things I am concerned about... | I work 9-17, she studies, is the quality time outside of work that I have enough to build a strong relationship? (aka are you supposed to not have enough time when one of you is working)?<|endoftext|> |
SUBREDDIT: r/running
TITLE: An interesting observation I made today in regards to starting training
POST: About six months ago, I was running almost daily, getting solid mileage and feeling great. Then I got sick, and then I got lazy, and I haven't run at all since January.
Three weeks ago I've decided it's time for... | instead of jumping straight into running, go for some long walks first, to build up your initial endurance and not feel as sore after you actually begin running.<|endoftext|> |
SUBREDDIT: r/dating_advice
TITLE: online dating situation
POST: Hey everyone, just looking for an outside perspective here. I'm a 28m and I met a 24f online. We emailed and eventually texted back and forth for a few days before finally getting drinks together a few nights ago. The night seemed to go pretty well, w... | went on a pretty good date with someone I met online. Hasn't responded about a second date but has looked at my profile again. Should I try contacting her again?<|endoftext|> |
SUBREDDIT: r/legaladvice
TITLE: Froend wants to know if she will lose custody [FL]
POST: Edit: meant friend, my bad
TL;DR: | R and E have child, R gets less than honorable discharge, has no job, not supporting child. E worried he could get full custody if she files for child support.<|endoftext|> |
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