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SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: Me [23 F] with my boyfriend [28 M] 4 1/2 months, find myself getting jealous/self conscious when hearing about his dating/sexual history. POST: Let me begin by saying that boyfriend and I are doing so incredibly well. I'm pretty confident that I love the guy (just haven't told him ye...
Wondering how you fellow redditors feel about your current significant other's dating history? Has it had any effect on your relationship? How do refrain from feeling self conscious or jealous? Thank you!!<|endoftext|>
SUBREDDIT: r/AskReddit TITLE: Good Guy Babysitter or Bad Guy Buddy? POST: I have an acquaintance on Facebook, I have known him for a few years(he's 25). He's a pretty nice guy, he was always somewhat over weight and didn't date much, but has recently slimmed down and always hangs at the bars. Well, here's my dilemma....
a guy posts pics of himself with little girls who are of no relation to him, but the moms are okay with it.<|endoftext|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: Me [20 F] with my interest [20 M], unsure how to proceed POST: I originally met this guy (let's call him John) through a friend of mine around half a year ago. I always found him pretty cute, but I was hesitant at first to start anything because his English isn't too great and I was ...
I'm concerned about mistaking friendliness for interest. Not sure whether to take a passive or a more assertive approach.<|endoftext|>
SUBREDDIT: r/tifu TITLE: TIFU picking up a book that was peed on POST: First submission here, long time lurker, but i thought I'd share a story of mine here: 7th grade I was a quiet kid, not the brightest and going through my chubby stage well I'm in my English class and have to go to the bathroom. Well after I'm don...
tried to do something right picked up a book with piss on it, got called "pee book" for two years.<|endoftext|>
SUBREDDIT: r/Advice TITLE: Missed class again. Professor not happy. POST: So I've missed every one of my Software Engineering classes.. Mostly due to no motivation/depression. Got an e-mail from professor basically saying to go to class or fail. It didn't say directly, but that was the idea. Basically said he's not g...
Miss every lecture, professor emails me to go. I say I will, but then oversleep. What do I do?<|endoftext|>
SUBREDDIT: r/AskReddit TITLE: IT decision: continue as a Java(EE) dev or readjust to a network admin. Advice needed! POST: I graduated this year and have been studying all summer as a Java2EE programmer. I've been trying to get a job all summer, with little success, but not done yet. I still have some few opportuniti...
've been studying as a Java2EE dev all summer but now a friend comes proposing me to work as a net admin for x2/x3 as much money + pays for my Cisco certification. <|endoftext|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationship_advice TITLE: [28/M] - I think I may be hung up on a friend (27/F) of mine. How should I approach the situation? POST: I have this friend. We met briefly back when we were in our very early 20s. She was a friend of a friend and somehow developed a fairly substantial crush on me. At the time ...
I have a long distance friend who I have some feelings for and don't know how to handle being hung up on these feelings?<|endoftext|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: My SO[f22] and I [m20] are stuck and confused POST: We have known each other for 5 years. I was her first kiss when we met, and her first time 2 years later. We have been seriously involved since then. I am at school as was she until recently, so we had agreed not to try the long dis...
I am in the military and my SO is afraid of what all that might entail in the future and I need help on how to explain it to her.<|endoftext|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: Need breakup advice [M22] feels like I'm getting really screwed over POST: My girlfriend is studying abroad. We've been together 3 years and she's been overseas for 3 months and will be there for another 3. We had plans to travel together at the end of her study which I've already st...
girlfriend of 3 years been studying abroad for three months, broke up with me via phone call last night. No explanation given other than im not ready for a committed relationship. Was meant to travel with her in 3 months.<|endoftext|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: I (16 F) recently got asked out by a guy (17) not even a week of talking to each other. Is this a bad sign and/or taking it too fast? POST: So recently I started talking to this guy... We have a LOT in common and it seems as though we have known each other forever.. Even as a sociall...
Recently met this really cool guy online. He asked me out on a date on the second day of talking.. Is this a red sign? Is this rushing into something too quickly??<|endoftext|>
SUBREDDIT: r/legaladvice TITLE: How to fight an illegal seniors home operating on my street? POST: I live in the suburbs of Toronto in a very quiet, old, residential neighbourhood. Two years ago the house across the street from me was sold. I've always thought something fishy was going on over there, but unable to ac...
Neighbours are running an illegal seniors home on my street and in the process of getting it legalized. How to fight it?<|endoftext|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: I [23M] met a girl [20F] at a work event recently. I'm sure she was into me and we seemed like such a great fit for each other. I forgot to take her number and now I'm devastated. POST: She was mindblowingly great. And I'm quite sure she was into me as well! The only way to contact h...
Met mind-blowing girl, forget to get her number. Next time I see her is up to a year from now. The wait is going to suck..<|endoftext|>
SUBREDDIT: r/AskReddit TITLE: What can I do to help my mom? POST: Hey reddit, throwaway (used for another purpose here.) So I am currently 21 years old and live on my own. I have been on my own going to college for about 2 years now - making ends meet fine..not living beyond my means, lots of student debt but no cr...
how can I get my soon-to-be- laid off - at risk for being homeless - mom a car so she can keep working??? are loans the only option?<|endoftext|>
SUBREDDIT: r/tifu TITLE: TIFU by grossing out my Sister's Friends POST: Next school-week of mine is finals so this weekend I have been holed up in my basement studying. After having an awesome late lunch of sausage, ham and bread/butter at around 2:00 I decided to continue studying. Now, my sister is very social and ...
Took the most disgusting shit of my life right next to my sister's friends. They decided to brave the cold outside instead of smelling the cesspool that was my shit. TIFU.<|endoftext|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: Me [27M] with my wife [26F] of 6years. Have different outlooks on drug use. POST: We have been together for a total of 8 years. I have never been in to smoking weed, she has been. I was under the assumption that she had quit. It was a discussion prior to us getting married. It was no...
I am anti drug use. My wife has been smoking weed behind my back. Am I making a big deal out of nothing.<|endoftext|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: My[20M] girlfriend [17/F] of 6 weeks always assumes I'm up to no good. POST: So I met her via online dating site and after the first time meeting each other things progressed quickly and we spend large amounts of time together which is great, except from a very early point in the rel...
Girlfriend always thinks I am being unfaithful with no reason to, and sent suspicious text msg today, also snapchats guys she has met when I have told her it makes me unconfortable<|endoftext|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: I (26/f) can't stand my boyfriend's (26/m) breath! POST: Basically, the title. We've been together for 4 years. The past few months his breath just smells, even after he brushes his teeth. Sour. I can't stand it especially when we're in bed. It's gotten to the point where we just don...
I don't like my boyfriend's breath. Can't stand it. He won't discuss. He doesn't seem to care.<|endoftext|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: [23f] Is a feeling that something isn't right always right? Or can insecurity and jealousy really be that potent? POST: I've always felt secure in my relationship. Until I found that he reached out to a girl he once had a thing for. It was innocent, he would be speaking at a day even...
Fiancé reached out to old crush. Made me question my trust for the first time ever with him. Is it just my immature insecurities?<|endoftext|>
SUBREDDIT: r/legaladvice TITLE: Conflict of Interest question POST: throwaway here, sorry. hope someone is kind enough to reply, as will likely consult with a lawyer anyways. this is a question regarding employment to business owner type of thing. To my knowledge, company policy is set forth by a company and unless...
does conflict of interest policy apply only if there there is one signed or is there a legal rule outside of company policies ie. state/city law that cover it.<|endoftext|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: I[m20] need a bit of help dealing with bf[m26]'s moving away and our inevitable breakup. POST: My boyfriend of a year and some change is moving somewhere(for grad school, he's not sure exactly where he got into yet) far away in about 4 months. I'm going back and forth on how I feel ...
boyfriend of a bout a year is moving away and our relationship is going to end. looking for advice on How To Deal.<|endoftext|>
SUBREDDIT: r/pettyrevenge TITLE: Oh you want to jump the queue do you? POST: So I'm a university student and I was in the library to print off some sources for the essay I'm working on. There was a lineup at the printers which is really not all that surprising considering the time of year. So I've made my way to the...
Cow cuts to the front of the queue at the school printers and stupidly leaves it unattended. Hope she likes putting 90 pages of work back in order with no page numbers...<|endoftext|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: I am in a non-defined relationship, and things are too damn complicated! Help! POST: Dear Reddit, I have been seeing someone for about 5 months. We started off just intending to have casual sex, but it ended up being a lot more complicated. We would fight and then work it out and...
Am in an undefined relationship, we have addressed our feelings for each other but he doesn't seem to want to make time to be with me.<|endoftext|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: Made a Reddit to seek advice here. I [21F] am already in a relationship but small crush has been growing due to his [22M] flirting. POST: This doesn't seem to be due to any unresolved relationship problems. I love my boyfriend to bits and I am very happy in my relationship with him. ...
Already committed, but attractive male specimen is making it very hard for me to distance myself. How to deal with growing crush I literally cannot avoid (same uni, same classes)???<|endoftext|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationship_advice TITLE: I (f18) might be pregnant with ex boyfriend's (m23) child. POST: We broke up about 3 weeks ago, and my period is about 5 days late, which is very unusual, and very concerning. We broke up on rocky terms, and Im not sure how I would go about telling him, or my new bf (m19). My e...
Might be pregnant with my ex's boyfriend who isnt a very understanding person. I am also seeing someone new. Im wondering what the best way to approach this situation is if its positive.<|endoftext|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: I (23M) have no real experience getting dates. I'm not really sure what to do when it comes to dating. And then theres the trust issues... POST: Hey there all. So as I said I'm a 23 year old guy, I'd probably fit into the nerd category of cliques, but more on the lite side. I take ...
I'm a nerd. Im shy. Im scared of people. I want to talk to people make friends and make friends with a girl. Help me please. Have a great day.<|endoftext|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: I (20m) Dont want my (20f) gf to drink as much POST: So today we got into a fight because she went out to drink and drank too much to drive so I had to go get her. I got mad because I think if she went out she shouldn't have drank so much. She said she planned on sleeping there or ...
gf thinks it's okay to go out and drink and sleep at other places. I don't want her to.<|endoftext|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: I'm[29/M] not sure how to respond to this test from my SO[27/F] and could use your input. How to react when SO keeps inviting my to look at another female's chest. POST: My significant other and I have been friends with another guy ever since college. In the last year, he has picked ...
So keeps jokingly asking me to look at female friend's chest, I have no idea what the proper reaction is.<|endoftext|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: I (M22) have been talking to (21F) for 5 months got really drunk had a bad day lol now she needs her space what does that mean POST: So last saturday i went to a huge day drink at my buddies house. The girl im talking to went somewhere else with her friends. I wanted to see her. So i...
got really drunk last saturday the girl im talking too told me she needs space. What does she mean by that?<|endoftext|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: I'm [18F] potentially in love with my best friend [19M] except something's standing in the way POST: Hi, For starters, this is a throwaway account just so people who know my real reddit can't see my post. My guy best friend, Ethan, means the absolute world to me. We've been friends...
I love my best friend emotionally, but am not attracted to him physically. Although our relationship would be great, I can't get myself to take the next step. How do I get over these feelings?<|endoftext|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: M(18) with a girlfriend (17) of 9 months. Having issues with her stress levels. POST: So my girlfriend of 9 months Is having issues with stress and it is effecting our relationship. There is a chance she may have to move 900 miles away to accommodate her fathers new job, or stay here...
Girlfriend has a lot of stress that is effecting our relationship negitivly, how do I deal with it?<|endoftext|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: Hello,I'm[18 m] in a somewhat long distance relationship[18 f]. But my best friend who is also 18 and a female wants to date me. POST: Hello reddit. I'm 18 and been in only 2 other relationships. I knew a girl that I ended up liking, so I started talking to her more and more. She end...
Best friend wants to date me. But I'm in a long distance relationship she doesn't know about. Don't know how to break it to her, or explain.<|endoftext|>
SUBREDDIT: r/AskReddit TITLE: My neighbor's cat spends time at my house because it is deathly afraid of the two dogs who already killed another neighbor's cat. Is there anything I can do or say to make this cat's life easier? POST: I live on a residential neighborhood street corner property containing three houses an...
cat is scared to death of dogs because it already killed another cat, can I ask that it hang out at our house more without sounding like a dick/preachy/weird to the owners?<|endoftext|>
SUBREDDIT: r/Advice TITLE: Pride, ego getting in the way POST: I'm a guy, 37, with a history of depression since university - I smoked weed from my teens which probably triggered it. Mother also has suffered. The hardest thing has been getting and keeping work. I excelled at school academically, got a 2.1 (high-mi...
working relationship with guy at work - who I respect and value as a person - is at risk. Pride and ego are the only reasons as far as I'm concerned.<|endoftext|>
SUBREDDIT: r/AskReddit TITLE: My Landlord is trying to break our lease early to increase the rent, if I fight it, I'm afraid he will nickel and dime our security deposit... POST: My roommate and I are currently in a lease that expires at the end of November. At the beginning of May we received a letter saying there w...
Landlord is increasing our rent, he's not allowed to, but I'm concerned he will come after our security deposit if we fight it.<|endoftext|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationship_advice TITLE: Boyfriend and I are at risk of fusing into a single entity. (An almost-typical living-together problem.) POST: We're both in our early 20s, Canadian, been dating for less than six months and have been living together since mid-September. I know that's stupid fast, but it's bee...
Boyfriend and I live together and see far, far too much of each other, but we're both shut-ins with difficulty making/getting together with friends. <|endoftext|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: Engaged with date set and my secret might come out POST: I'll try to be brief. I'm 26(m), she's 28, engaged 2 months, together 2.5 years, to be married in February w/ date set. ...And I screwed up 2 years ago at a party. Got too drunk playing a stupid drinking game and ended up ...
Messed up at a party early in my relationship and thought my secret was safe, but it may not be as secure as I hoped. Should I still take my mistake to the grave? <|endoftext|>
SUBREDDIT: r/tifu TITLE: TIFU by having untied shoelaces (NSFW) POST: This actually happened about a decade ago, when i was just wee lad of 9. I was vacationing in Majorca with friends and family, and we had just returned from a morning on wandering around the shops and getting breakfast. I had spent that entire mo...
I got over-excited, ran face-first into a marble staircase and then my friends went in the pool without me.<|endoftext|>
SUBREDDIT: r/BreakUps TITLE: I'm (25m) terrified I'll never find someone like her (24f) again POST: I think I'm just writing this to get it out of my system, and I think I know all the standard responses: 7 billion people in the world, many different people for everyone, 'you're only 25, you've got so much time.' I...
Having that closeness and connection with someone for so long is without a doubt the best thing that's ever happened in my life. How in the hell can I get back to a place where that's possible again?<|endoftext|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: Advice on how to deal with GF[23] working as a dancer(no not that kind) POST: Hi /r/Relationships! I [M/25] have been together with my GF [23] for 3 years. We have been living together for the past year and have the perfect relationship. We almost never argue and we love eachother v...
Uncomfortable to see my GF dancing "sexy or flirtatious" on stage with another guy, has anyone got any tips on how to handle this?<|endoftext|>
SUBREDDIT: r/AskReddit TITLE: What's one lie a salesman told you that bothers you till this day? POST: When I was a child I had the chance to visit a kiosk selling ancient Egyptian replicas and memorabilia. My family was not to far away at another kiosk looking at potential gifts to buy for friends, so I was alone. ...
As a child, a salesman told me that the sand locked inside a small Pyramid made in Vietnam I bought from him was sand from the real Pyramids of Egypt<|endoftext|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: I [20F] am not religious and have strong feelings for my very religious close friend [20 M]. POST: I recently (about a month ago) discovered that I have feelings for a close college friend of mine. It turns out that he does feel the same but he does not think that perusing a relation...
My religious friend and I (non-religious) have feelings for each other. I think we should date. He thinks it is a bad idea. What should we do?<|endoftext|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: [26M] My cousin [17F] is infatuated with me and is threatening to ruin my reputation if I don't date her. POST: I'm in a really sticky situation, and I don't know what to do. A few years ago, my uncle filed for divorce. He immediately engaged in a lengthy court battle with his wife...
My 17 year old cousin is infatuated with me and is threatening to ruin my reputation if I don't date her. What should I do?<|endoftext|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationship_advice TITLE: [30/m] My girlfriend (31/f) wants more time than I have to give. POST: We just passed the one year mark. I'm working 60 hour weeks to save up enough that I can buy a ring and a house and get a family started before her baby-maker isn't up to making babies. This week, I took a...
Girlfriend loves me. Likes to spend time with me. I need some of that time back. How do I ask for it?<|endoftext|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationship_advice TITLE: Help I can't stand it when he falls asleep! POST: Me and my boyfriend (26), and myself (f, 27) share an office space where do anything and everything not sleeping, bathing or eating. It's really nice to be in the same room together because we have a lot of diverse hobbies and a...
My boyfriend falls asleep at his desk, and won't go to sleep properly, which is driving me insane. ヽ(o`皿′o)ノ<|endoftext|>
SUBREDDIT: r/loseit TITLE: Newly living by myself - troubles having accountability for sticking to my fitness. POST: Hi all, This is a bit of an unexpected problem for me and I'm not sure how to correct myself. I started working out and calorie counting last September. I had an immensely successful year and enjoyed...
Lost fitness mojo, making excuses to myself and 'tomorrow I'll be better' which never happens. How do I get out of this?<|endoftext|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: She (F18) says she doesn't know much about me (M19) what can I do to work on this? POST: We've been friends for a while but she still feels like she knows nothing about me. In a way I understand this because I've always been a rather reserved person and not very good with talking abo...
GF says she doesn't know much about me, won't ask questions/feels embarrassed to ask. I'm not sure how to work on this.<|endoftext|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: How do I [25 F] get my hookup [26 M] to be less selfish in bed? POST: Just got out of a relationship. Hooking up with a friend. Sex was awkward, then amazing, now just meh. He's averagely endowed and used to be more attentive. Lately, he just isn't that into it. He pops off, then jus...
The sex is no longer hot with this guy, but I'd like for it to be again. It would be great if he could expend minimal effort. Advice appreciated.<|endoftext|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: How can I [19M] tell my mum [45F] that I am agnostic POST: Been raised Baptist my went to college and stayed away while learning for myself and stopped going to church and reading more into science and developing my own opinions. And decided church wasn't for me. I come back home a...
I'm agnostic. my mum thinks that if I don't go to church and believe in God then I'm worse than Hitler<|endoftext|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: Me [19 M] being threatened by my SO [18 F] (11months) uncle [40+ M] POST: **Background**: My SO and I have been dating for 11 months. Everything is great. Everyone in her family loves me. Except her uncle. Her uncle makes me seriously uncomfortable. Lets just put it at he's 40 and p...
Threatened by my SO uncle multiple times only because I'm clearly out matched. I can't do anything about it. It makes me extremely uncomfortable and her uncle has a snitching son who isn't gonna help at all.<|endoftext|>
SUBREDDIT: r/tifu TITLE: TIFU: Family caught me crossdressing POST: So to start off with, I'm staying with my aunt and uncle for the summer before I go back to college. They live in a small town in south western Virginia, and are an old southern style conservative couple. Last night I curled up in bed in my favorite...
Got drunk/passed out while crossdressing, got caught by my conservative aunt, being taken to church on Sunday.<|endoftext|>
SUBREDDIT: r/tifu TITLE: TIFU by hooking up with my friends sister.. POST: Well, this was 2 days ago. I didn't plan to actually do anything that night. It was a normal night, go to the gym. Go see my friends and shut the night down till tomorrow. Well went and saw my friends and they were having a party. The party wa...
Fucked my friends sister and took her back to her house and got caught by her brother and he freaked out while drunk as fuck and smashed a bunch of shit.<|endoftext|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: I [21 M] am wondering how I can make my gf [20 M/F] happier, and help work on some of her problems POST: Hey guys, Throwaway here, just in case but this is a tough question that I need some perspective on. My girlfriend has some daddy issues, like her father died when she was in a...
girlfriend has daddy issues, what can I do to be there for her, and do the symptoms of these problems ever diminish?<|endoftext|>
SUBREDDIT: r/AskReddit TITLE: What's the worst prank you've played on your bf/gf, or had played on you? POST: I'll start. I had just woken up at my now husband's place (yep, still married him lol), and was wrapped in a blanket checking my Facebook (no clothes on). He had asked me if I could get him some breakfast, an...
My boyfriend locked me out of the apartment naked as a prank. What's the worst prank you've pulled/vice versa on your significant other?<|endoftext|>
SUBREDDIT: r/AskReddit TITLE: Why to people that shop at Wholefoods smell so bad? POST: Ok, so I started going into Wholefoods because one opened near me and they have a pretty damn good menu in the Wholefoods cafe. Over the past few weeks I have noticed that people shopping here do not practice proper hygene. I have...
Why do people that shop at Wholefoods not practice proper hygene and leave a horrid cloud of BO in their wake?<|endoftext|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: I (30F) am going through a lot of life changes right now and I'm not sure what to do about my bf (33M) of a year. POST: This might be a 'personal issue' more than a relationship issue, but I'd appreciate it if you guys could talk me through this. I recently learned that I have to re...
I'm going through very stressful life changes right now. I'm experiencing panic attacks and uncertainty about my relationship. Should I wait it out or end it and hope it is the right choice for both of us?<|endoftext|>
SUBREDDIT: r/AskReddit TITLE: Going to visit a friend who attends a big party school next weekend for his birthday. I don't party. What can I do to make things less awkward? POST: My friend and I are both sophomores in college. He goes to Penn State which is quite the party school. Over the past year and a half he ha...
Will probably be attending a college party next weekend, but I don't exactly like to party. What can/should I do?<|endoftext|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: my[27m] gf[28f] wants to move from NJ to SC but i live and work in NYC. POST: we have been dating for 9 months and i love her dearly. she wants to move to SC because that is where her parents are. my parents live in nj. i live and work in nyc. i have an entry level job in major n...
my gf wants to move far away to live closer to her parents and to start a new life. my family lives here. i also have a great job here.<|endoftext|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: How can I [27M] tell if my girlfriend [33F] is ready to hear "I love you"? POST: We've only been together about two months, but I think I already know. I'm okay if she's not ready to say it back yet, but I feel like I have to say something. I keep biting my tongue so as not to just b...
Think I'm ready to tell 2-month girlfriend I love her. Don't want to freak her out if she's not ready for that.<|endoftext|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: Ex keeps texting even three years after break up. How do I make him stop, reddit? POST: I (f/28) broke up with my ex (m/31) three or four years ago. We had been together for roughly three years. We tried remaining friends, but that didn't work because he repeatedly would try to get b...
My ex boyfriend keeps texting me years after our break up. I don't want to be cruel, but how can I make him stop?<|endoftext|>
SUBREDDIT: r/Advice TITLE: Renting an apartment for next year - pricey cable/internet bill POST: Hi Reddit, I'm not sure if there's a better subreddit to post this in, so if this belongs somewhere else, please let me know. My girlfriend and I are planning to rent an apartment adjacent to the one we live in currentl...
Gf and I are planning on renting an apartment and want to get the $90/month cable/internet service removed from our lease before signing or at least get better service for what we pay.<|endoftext|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: Me [26 F] with my husband [37 M] of 7 years, Doesn't support my desire for breast implants. POST: So....I've always been small chested. No big deal. I had full, round, perky A cups. It was great. Fast forward to three kids and 7 years with my husband...I nursed all of my babies. I'm ...
My husband sort of encouraged me to look into a breast augmentation, then suddenly was super against it. Now I dont know what to do.<|endoftext|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: I feel alone but at one time I had the best guy I could ask for. POST: Okay first off, I'm 24F and he is 32M. We have been dating for 4 years, the past 2 we have lived together. It started out the first 3 years we devoted all of our time together. We loved spending every minute toget...
Boyfriends libido sucks/he lacks motivation for change, but before recently he was the perfect SO. I'm confused should I stay or go?<|endoftext|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: My sister (41) disowned me a year ago but just got diagnosed with stage 4 liver cancer. What am I supposed to do? POST: I have a half sister who hated me from the day I was born. Let's call her Reyna. Her mother told her that my family replaced her with me so we didn't really get to ...
My estranged sister has stage 4 liver cancer and we have not spoken in a year. Not sure how to go about contacting her or if I even should?<|endoftext|>
SUBREDDIT: r/tifu TITLE: TIFU By trying to scare my girlfriend POST: Before I start, this was totally an accident and I didn't mean for this to happen whatsoever. So me and my girlfriend were driving home from the store on some nice back roads. Suddenly I see a rabbit ahead on the road. She looks up, and I stepped ...
saw a rabbit when driving with my gf, stepped on the gas to freak her out. Rabbit doubled back and the last second and despite my efforts got hit. Not confirmed to be dead, please don't hate me. <|endoftext|>
SUBREDDIT: r/Advice TITLE: Husband wants to visit his homeland POST: My husband and I have been through a long, expensive battle with immigrating here to the US legally. I'm a US citizen by birth (like 5th gen American), and he is from El Salvador. We spent 2.5 years apart while we waited for my government to issue h...
husband and I were apart for 2.5 years waiting on visa, husband came back last November finally, husband wants to go back to his country to visit, I'm sad.<|endoftext|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: Me [25 F] with my boyfriend [31 M] of ~1 month, am worried he is not that into me because he never wants to hang out when I initiate things. POST: Back in March I met this guy. We immediately hit it off on our first date. For the first week we text pretty often throughout the day. We...
Been seeing this guy for a month. Never wants to hangout when I suggest although he did want to take things slow. Is it normal to go days without talking/texting your SO?<|endoftext|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: I[19 M] with my [22F] girl of one month are talking way too much! POST: About a month ago I started talking to and pursuing a girl I go to college with. She is great, but completely my opposite -- sometimes I find myself clutching at straws for things to talk about that we both shar...
Girl wants to talk way too much. I fear that she will lose interest in me or I will lose interest in her if we continue. How do I delicately stop?<|endoftext|>
SUBREDDIT: r/AskReddit TITLE: New School, New Girls, Im a Socially awkward penguin. Any help? POST: since I'm posting on reedit, i assume everyone is aware of who the socially awkward penguin is. I am that penguin. Everything he's say, does, and even the way he acts, is exactly me. So here is my problem, 10th grade j...
im a socially awkward penguin, lost a girl who was into me, how do i act non penguin and get her back into me?<|endoftext|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationship_advice TITLE: I [21/F] am in a long distance relationship but falling for my best friend POST: I have been dating someone [23/M] long distance for over 4 years now, he lives in another state across the country and we only get to see each other 1-2 times a year. We love each other to death bu...
I'm in love with my SO but I only see him 1-2 times a year, meanwhile my best friend and I are getting very close and I'm falling for him.<|endoftext|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: Her (23F) mom is dying if cancer, how do I (24M) handle this best? POST: We've been seeing eachother for about 2 months. Things have escalated to the point of her sleeping over and has met my family as I have met hers. When I met her, her mother was living diagnosed, but in the last...
girls mom has cancer, causing emotional disturbance in the natural progression of an early relationship, but I care too much to quit her.<|endoftext|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: [25/M] looking for honest help with [21/F]... POST: Sooo I need help. Like any advice anyone is willing to give. I've known this girl for awhile now. We met as co workers and it's still that way. Overtime my feelings for her grew to a point where I asked her to hang out, see movies, ...
I'm in love with a girl who doesn't like me in that way but wants to hang out to see if things might change. How can I improve my chances/any suggestions?<|endoftext|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: My (M20) girlfriend (22F) is leaving me because she doesn't want me to be a distraction in her future. POST: Hey r/relationships, I'm fairly torn up right now. My girlfriend of one year asked me to have a talk with her last night after I got home from playing Catan with some friend...
GF wants to chat, tells me she doesn't want me to move across country with her. We get upset, fight, and today she tells me she wants to move out.<|endoftext|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: My [25M] girlfriend's [23F] friend's birthday is coming up and the guy who my ex cheated on my with will be there. Am I wrong for not wanting to go? POST: I'll try to keep this short...my current girlfriend, let's call her Bridgett, and I have been together for a little over 10 month...
girlfriend's friend is having a party. Guy my ex cheated on me will be there. Girlfriend thinks if I truly love her, I would have no problems going<|endoftext|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: I [25m] have fallen for a [29f] and things are about to get tricky. POST: A little context: I met this girl through a mutual friend at a bar. We instantly clicked and had the most wonderful conversation and that night we hooked up and we thought mutually that this was the makings of...
I've fallen for a girl that doesn't live in my city, or state. Should I continue or let it go.<|endoftext|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: Me [24 M] with my SOs [18-24 F]. Every relationship, showing feelings is bad POST: I'm starting to be sick of it. I'm in a relationship that's a couple weeks old, and we got to a point where things began to get rough for the first time. She did something that made me feel like she do...
Men should never show emotion because it's a weakness and almost every woman hates weakness. Be a stone. Showing feelings is a high-risk low-reward kind of deal.<|endoftext|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: After 7 years, should I leave? POST: A little bit of background: I am 26 and my boyfriend is 30. We have been together for 7 years. We met while I was at school in NYC, I then transferred to school at home in Boston and we did long distance for about 8 months before he moved to Bos...
My boyfriend and I have been together for 7 years, 4 of which have been long distance. He won't propose.<|endoftext|>
SUBREDDIT: r/dogs TITLE: Hello redditors, I'm having some concerning thoughts right now... POST: One of my friends found a puppy and since he already has a fair number of dogs, he couldn't really take care of her, but that isn't the problem. He asked me if I wanted her and of course I immediately said yes without a t...
My friend gave me a puppy he found, the type of dog is kind of illegal in my county, I don't want to give her up, but I might just be an idiot 17 year old who loves dogs too much.<|endoftext|>
SUBREDDIT: r/AskReddit TITLE: How do you flirt using humor? POST: I'm not sure how to explain this.. So I've been 'trying' to get a girlfriend recently(i know you're not supposed to actively try, but its more marketing myself as available), and I realized that one of my'strengths' is humor. (I'm nowhere near the Dave...
Guy trying to flirt, is trying to find the line between humor and profanity. Also How do you find the line between intimacy and intrusion in a conversation?<|endoftext|>
SUBREDDIT: r/AskReddit TITLE: How do you find your motivation Reddit? POST: I'm finding myself in a hole of depressed, and can't seem to pull myself out of it. Lot's of the posts that I see like this get responses along the lines of "keep yourself busy, doesn't mater what it is, just go out and do something, even if ...
So I guess after all that rambling, my question for Reddit is; How to you find the motivation to be motivated?<|endoftext|>
SUBREDDIT: r/BreakUps TITLE: 26/M and 21/F. Ending it gracefully. [xpost] POST: I have recently been dumped in a rather monumental fashion. Essentially she just stopped talking to me and my attempts to contact her and ask for an explanation have been met with nothing but silence. I do not know why she has done this,...
Got dumped. Not upset. Send her a message to tell her this, or just walk away and let it hang.<|endoftext|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: Me [19 F] with my boyfriend [20 M] in happiest relationship of my life, yet can't stop thinking about my ex... POST: I was in a very whirlwind relationship with a guy in September of last year. We'll call him James. I was very infatuated with him, and I ended up cheating on my boyfri...
guy I used to date tried to get back into my life after I got into an amazing relationship, rejected him but can't stop thinking about him<|endoftext|>
SUBREDDIT: r/tifu TITLE: TIFU by using my SodaStream absentmindedly. POST: I drink a lot of carbonated water. I used to go through 2 twelve packs of La Croix every week before I purchased my SodaStream. This morning I decided I was going to make a liter bottle of Raspberry flavored water before work. Also importan...
Absentmindedly made sparkling water with my soda stream without following the instructions; became the subject of a raspberry water bukkake.<|endoftext|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: Me [22 M] with my lover/gf [19F] and I'm having REAL trouble trusting. POST: I've known her for a little while now, we started out speaking a lot. Then we moved to hanging out. I feel like it's been a train ride, a huge explosion of dopamine and seratonin and I am falling for her REA...
Please offer me advice to be able to trust this girl, she told me she wants to be around to see my pet snake grow up, which is like 2 or 3 years I need some advice.<|endoftext|>
SUBREDDIT: r/offmychest TITLE: I almost ruined my college experience due to depression and anxiety POST: The title says it all. I was really anxious for some reason. I thought the source of my anxiety was from me doing stupid shit when drunk/blackout. I've been to counsellors, therapists and psychiatrists. I had ...
Had anxiety all the time. Lost fake friends and people thought I was weird as fuck. Took magnesium and now I can function without being a complete weirdo.<|endoftext|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: Boyfriend M[26] looks at porn despite the fact that I F[21] am upset by it and won't have anal sex with him. POST: My boyfriend M[26] and I F[21] have been together for 2 years and lived together for about a year. He has been wanting me to have anal sex with him, in which I've tried ...
Boyfriend looks at porn when it upsets me because I won't have anal sex. Tried a few times, offered other alternatives besides porn but afraid it's not enough.<|endoftext|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: Me [23 M] with my GF [20 /F] for a year now, she wants to explore other options POST: I've been in a relationship with my girlfriend for a year now. We can see life together and we both tell each other that we love each other. I've graduated school and I'm working in my career, makin...
Girlfriend and I love each other, but she wants to hook up with a few more guys before settling down with me.<|endoftext|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: Me [28/F] have been with my BF [27M] for 3 weeks and we might have broken up over my ex! Help Please?! POST: I've been seeing this guy for 3 weeks, tonight he was supposed to meet my parents... my ex happen to come around with some of my other friends... we get on ok... so my bf arri...
BOLD New Boyfriend was hurt by fact my ex was there when he was to meet my parents.. Is he Controlling or did I do something wrong?<|endoftext|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: [23F]My bf [26M] is always horny and its affecting our relationship and his self esteem. POST: My bf and I have been together for 4 years. We have great sex but I am not always horny like he is. He seems to be horny anytime we're together and sometimes cant control himself and initia...
bf is always horny, I am not. He feels crappy about it. Do I keep having sex to make him happy<|endoftext|>
SUBREDDIT: r/tifu TITLE: TIFU by not remembering a customer POST: So, context. I currently have summer job working in a local amusement park in a small town within Northern Ireland. One of the requirements for this job is to operate the ghost train carts as they go in one door and come out the other, while allowing c...
I tried to get a woman out of her ghost train cart quickly by shunting it, I forgot she was disabled.<|endoftext|>
SUBREDDIT: r/tifu TITLE: TIFU by making a joke about computer science students being autistic. POST: I'm taking Computer Science I over the summer at my school and a lot of the people in my class are very weird, constantly talk over professor, or try to prove they know more, or some don't talk at all and pick their n...
I made a joke about all computer science students being autistic. Then my mom told me that I was autistic and they kept it a secret from me, because they didn't want me to be labeled.<|endoftext|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: I [26 M] had made plans with my girlfriend [25 F] a month in advance and she bailed 3 days beforehand to go to a party alone. POST: So a bit of background: I'm 26, she's 25. We've been dating for nearly 2 years and we live together. I work full-time and she's a student. This is a thr...
I made special plans for us months in advance, my GF backed out 3 days before for a college party. What do I do?<|endoftext|>
SUBREDDIT: r/tifu TITLE: TIFU by having a one night stand with a thief POST: So I go out with a bunch of friends to a bar last night. Like most nights I drink before so I don't buy too many over priced drinks. I walk in the bar and immediately see this tall beautiful women with curly hair cut to her shoulders. A "bob...
Had one night stand; awoken to perform emergency babysitting; returned; Favorite Black Levi 511s & band Tshirt missing. Lady also missing.<|endoftext|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: I [18F] with my boyfriend [18M] of one year, went to a concert with my ex and three other friends, boyfriend brings it up in arguments POST: (Throwaway & I'm sorry if I ramble here) So when me and my ex broke up we already had a concert booked but we stayed on good terms and we are ...
Went to a concert with my ex and some friends, boyfriend says he cannot and will not forgive me and throws it in my face to win arguments.<|endoftext|>
SUBREDDIT: r/personalfinance TITLE: Inherited Beneficiary IRA- need advice POST: Hello PF, My mother passed away earlier this year and I inherited $130,000 in the form of a Beneficiary IRA. I have two older brothers who also received the same amount. A little background info on me: 29(m), single with a 3y.o. daughte...
Beneficiary IRA account. Financial advisor says to leave it and take the minimum required distribution, CPA says to take more out now to avoid a higher tax bracket later.<|endoftext|>
SUBREDDIT: r/cats TITLE: My Dad Is Threatening To Put My Cat Down Because He Pees In The Basement POST: Okay, so we've been trying to sell our house. I don't want too, but whatever my dad wants, it happens. We've had over 40 showings, but not a single offer. Anyways, One of our cats, Ging pees in the basement. We h...
Dad wants new hardwood floor even though one cat pees on it, he now lets them outside even though last time they ran away, and said he would put down one of our cats if he keeps peeing.<|endoftext|>
SUBREDDIT: r/tifu TITLE: TIFU by charging my phone. POST: TIFU: Today I fucked up by charging my phone I'm very new to reddit so apologies in advance.. So recently this exchange student has been staying at my house as he came out here to visit some friends. He is really clueless as being from another country so he ...
Left phone at home to charge. Mother knew password (because somehow she saw me do it enough). Now my parents know they're innocent little boy is an all around shitty person.<|endoftext|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: Me [23 F] with my boyfriend [24 M] 3 years, I'm having problem find myself interested in sex. POST: Me and my boyfriend have been together 3 years over the past year I've been finding myself disinterested in sex for short periods of time. Most of the time if my boyfriend is really tr...
Boyfriend finds out I'm not interested in sex so asks for a quickie. I find my self annoyed and not wanting to sleep in the same bed cause I want him to stop try to initiate sex when I'm not interested.<|endoftext|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: My boyfriend (m27) opening bar and would like to hire waitresses dressed in skimpy dresses. I ( f27 ) feel uncomfortable with this. POST: We have known each other for 6 years and dated for less than 1 year. My boyfriend will soon be opening up his own bar. I am really proud of of wha...
Boyfriend going to hire waitresses and have them dress in skimpy dresses to maximize sales at his new bar. This makes me uncomfortable.<|endoftext|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: Me [26F] with guy [32M] I've dated for 2 months, broke up and regrets POST: I'm 26F and have been seeing 32M for 2 months. My bday was on Monday and he took me out for a nice dinner on Saturday, but no card or anything which was fine. He was going to be leaving town on Wednesday and ...
Not sure if I made a mistake breaking up with him, was I asking for too much for him to say happy birthday on my actual birthday?<|endoftext|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationship_advice TITLE: This one stumped r/dating_advice. Any ideas from those hopeless romantics out there?? POST: Hi everyone! I have a slightly unusual situation to run by you. I [F24] met a wonderful guy [M22] through a friend of a friend at a party several weeks ago. We clicked immediately, and ...
New love interest and I hit it off big time, but then he left for three months. How can I fan the flame without being too overwhelming?<|endoftext|>