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SUBREDDIT: r/AskReddit
TITLE: Is it wrong to defend myself against a stray dog that may agitate my aggressive dog?
POST: Reddit,
My dog, a German Shepherd, has an aggression problem. We are working to train it out as much as possible but he still has problems with people or animals rushing him. Today while walking... | I charlie browned the neighborhood dog (offleash) to get it away from mine (onleash).<|endoftext|> |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: My [18/M] S/O [18/F] decided we should end things, caught me slightly off guard and I'm extremely lonely (advice needed)
POST: Throwaway.
My SO decided that we should end things on Tuesday.
Let me give you a run down: we were never together, just two friends who liked each other a... | S/O ended things, I'm heartbroken and lonely. She said she wants to be friends but I don't know where to go now.<|endoftext|> |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: I [20F] got back together with ex [24M] and our futures don't align.
POST: We had dated for 5 months prior. We did 3 months or so LD while I was on summer break. The LD was terrible. We tried our best but broke up near the end. Some of the problems were caused by my jealousy, and tha... | Got back with ex, but I'm only in town for 5 months or so. We don't want to do LD so how do I enjoy a relationship with an expiry date?<|endoftext|> |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: Me [24 M] with my fiancee [24 F] Revealed my financial situation after getting engaged.
POST: I proposed to my fiancee 1 year and a half ago. Finances never really was a big discussion yet. I'm 15k in debt from a mix of poor decisions and a car I bought 3 years ago, still making paym... | Got engaged. Talked about my financial standings. She's in full disappointment of me like our relationship can go sour because of this.<|endoftext|> |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: [20m/f] My girlfriend is upset that we cant spend very much time together because she is so busy.
POST: I have been dating my awesome girlfriend for just over a month now. The honey-moon phase has worn off as i expected it to, and now we're starting to begin what i think is going to ... | Girlfriend upset that she's too busy to hang out very often. How do i let her know that i understand and still very much want to be in a relationship with her?<|endoftext|> |
SUBREDDIT: r/AskReddit
TITLE: Random Act of Kindness - Mistake or Good Choice?
POST: So, earlier today I was involved in a car accident. I had the right of way, and the other driver was supposed to stop at a stop sign. Unfortunately the other driver did not stop and I was hit. Nobody was injured (it was a fairly m... | I was in a car accident. It was the other driver's fault. I didn't file a police report to prevent her from receiving a citation. Did I make a mistake?<|endoftext|> |
SUBREDDIT: r/AskReddit
TITLE: What do you think of New Jersey?
POST: I've lived in New Jersey my whole life. Up until a few years ago, when the Jersey Shore came out, it wasn't really anything special, famous, or popular. I mean, we have great artists such as Bon Jovi, Bruce Springsteen, the Misfits, and My Chemical ... | I'm from New Jersey and I think that the Jersey Shore gave my state a bad name. What do you think of it?<|endoftext|> |
SUBREDDIT: r/needadvice
TITLE: Need help dealing with fears.
POST: I've always been afraid of the dark and being alone at night, sleeping with a nightlight and once I got to my teens, feeling safe knowing that my parents and family were home. When it came to college I did fine due to the light shining through the win... | Need help with coping with fear of the dark and being alone at night, or a way to relax and calm down.<|endoftext|> |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: He [25 M] wants me [23 F] to move in with him, but doesn't want to be in an official relationship.
POST: Alright, so there's a guy I've been seeing for a few weeks and we've been hitting it off amazingly. So well, in fact, that when he moves out with his cousin/wife in a month, he wa... | Sounds like he's considering long time commitment, doesn't want the label of a couple. What should I make of this?<|endoftext|> |
SUBREDDIT: r/college
TITLE: Car or Dorm?
POST: I have been struggling with myself for the past month over whether I should get a car and commute the 20 minutes to campus or get a dorm room and stay on campus. I will be a freshman in this upcoming fall. I am obsessed with JDM cars and am constantly browsing Cars.com, ... | Been dying for a car all senior year, will be freshman next year and am forced to decide between either a car and commuting 20mins each way or living on campus in a dorm.<|endoftext|> |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: Me [22F] with my bf [21M] 6mo, has decided we cant have sex anymore.
POST: so met in my city and instantly fell for each other. ive been in 1 other relationships before him that lasted 4 years (glad thats over)
now started dating in may officially, had sex in july for the first tim... | basically, bf turns out to be crazy christian while i really have no religious views. hes pressuring me to change myself to better fit his lifestyle so no sex, no staying over each others place etc<|endoftext|> |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: I [32/M] don't know whether to try to be friends with a girl I use to date [31/F] after feeling twice rejected.
POST: I met a girl in AA last summer. I was in my first year of sobriety and she was in her 4th year. Her pretty face and vicarious personality attracted me to her. It t... | A girl I use to date, and wasn't too into me wants to be friends now; and I don't know if it's worth it.<|endoftext|> |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: I (17/M) am nervous about my relationship with my boyfriend of 5 months off and on (17/M) going too fast.
POST: Hi,
So I have been involved in an off and on relationship since February (Things stopped for a while due to my SO's homophobic father) that has recently rekindled. We alwa... | Off and on boyfriend wants to have sex. I was all down with it until recently. Nervous and indecisive about the matter. Any advice on deciding how I should proceed?<|endoftext|> |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: Should I (27F) message a guy (??M) I went on a date with then lost a few months back?
POST: So earlier this year, about March, I went on a date with this guy I met on Tinder. He seemed really cool and it was a good date and we texted a bit after and were making plans for another date... | – Went on a date with a guy then lost his contact info, just found him on FB months later and want to reconnect.<|endoftext|> |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: I [22M] decided to just move on after my EX [20F] left me last year, she is now back. Help?
POST: Long (complicated) back story short, me and my ex dated for over a year and both had an amazing time together. We really did want to spend our lives together but she fell out of love wit... | Ex gf broke up with me after our perfect relationship was broken by life 2 months ago and after I decided to let her live her life, she texted me this morning and now I don't know what to do.<|endoftext|> |
SUBREDDIT: r/dating_advice
TITLE: Me [17m] and my girlfriend [17f] have just made up after a gigantic fight and I have no clue what to do from here
POST: So me and my girlfriend got into a huge argument... HUGE... How it started was because it seemed like she didn't care about me after she knew I was upset, but it wa... | I was a dick to my gf, she kind of wanted to end it, changed her mind and now I don't know how to act<|endoftext|> |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: me (30/F) with husband (35/M), together 4 years total, married 1 - think he's bored with me?
POST: Just not really sure how to describe. I'm on my second marriage, so maybe I'm just getting worried for nothing.
So I guess we share some hobbies (hiking, biking, swimming, enjoy music,... | Weird reactions about unequal enthusiam about shared hobbies. Leading me to feel like he is unsatisfied with me and our relationship.<|endoftext|> |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: I [28/F] have recently been added and unblocked by my ex [30/M] and his family members on various social media sites within the last few months after 8 years of no contact. Should I try contacting him?
POST: My ex and I were in a serious relationship in college (promise rings were in... | Serious relationship ended, and all contact cut off. 8 years later, ex and his sister are reaching out via social media friend adds. Neither of us in a relationship currently. Should I try contacting him?<|endoftext|> |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: Having second thoughts about my marriage...
POST: I've been married for a little over a year now and I'm don't know if I want to keep this marriage going. We sorta rushed into this for a change in both of our lives but I think that hurt us more than it helped.
We're three years apa... | Married for a year and a half, regret marriage, and there is another woman/childhood friend that I like.<|endoftext|> |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: I am (30f) not my boyfriend's (31m) best friend
POST: We've been together for about 2 years but have been friends for around 10. We met when my close friend "annie" did the same degree as him and he became part of our friend group. I'll call my boyfriend "neil".
I've always suspect... | boyfriend is probably in love with his best friend, I wouldn't even mind that much if he showed me the same attention.<|endoftext|> |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: Me [33M] dating a a 26F who makes quite a bit less money. Dating for two months. When does she start paying for things?
POST: I make a decent amount of money (1%) and generally date girls with a good career and education. I grew up living the good life and continue living the good l... | Am I expected to pay for everything if I make significantly more money and am older? Is there a way to address this without sounding like a terrible person?<|endoftext|> |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: Me [22f] with my boyfriend [22m] of one year. How do you know if someone is "the one"?
POST: Like I said, my boyfriend and I have been together for about a year. We get along well, have good sex and good times. We talk about our future together, and I'm excited for that future but I ... | Feelings are becoming less intense, questioning whether my relationship will work long term. Am I falling out of love or do I have an incorrect view of what love really is?<|endoftext|> |
SUBREDDIT: r/AskReddit
TITLE: I'm a College Student with a drug addiction. Does reddit have any advice?
POST: A little background, I'm a 21 year old male who goes to a decent University in a major city. For the past year, I've found myself increasingly turning to drugs of all sorts, both illicit and not, for relief f... | I can't stop popping pills and putting shit up my nose. I'm desperate for advice and I'm too socially retarded to be able to ask anyone except a faceless, omnipresent collective of anonymous strangers.<|endoftext|> |
SUBREDDIT: r/legaladvice
TITLE: Cannot handle job anymore and want to quit but forced to work for 20 more days
POST: Hello. I would like an advice on one matter related to work.
Some two months ago, I got employed at Amazon Customer Service (working from home).
The problem is, I cannot handle the working hours and e... | the job really is affecting my health, I really want to quit but apparently I can't no matter how bad it is making me feel for at least 20 more days. I consider this rather inhumane.<|endoftext|> |
SUBREDDIT: r/Dogtraining
TITLE: [Discussion] How do you know how when your dog's brain is fried / how do you decide how long and often to train?
POST: I have recently cranked up the training I've been doing with my dog. She's a pain to walk and I want to clean up that behavior, I recently moved to a new place and wan... | I know everyone just has to learn their dog by trial and error, I'm just looking to share stories and general ideas.<|endoftext|> |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: My [45M] wife [45F] doesn't take my advice on a subject that I'm an expert in.
POST: I am an advertising creative director working for A-list agencies producing campaigns for Fortune 500 companies (as well as startups and small businesses). You have seen my work on TV, in magazines, ... | I want to tall my wife, "Fuck it, you do it then," but there's nothing about that which would be the least bit productive.<|endoftext|> |
SUBREDDIT: r/personalfinance
TITLE: Parents and relatives doesn't want to cosign a student loan. Don't want to drop out. Need some advice to see through this.
POST: Hi /r/personalfinance, I've been a lurker for quite some time. Usually someone asks how to pay their loans, well, I want to ask for help on how to acquir... | girlfriend parents won't cosign a loan for her. She's looking at around $10000 needed for the school year. Her credit score is 630. Drop out is not an option since she's graduating in 2 years in biomedical engineering.<|endoftext|> |
SUBREDDIT: r/pettyrevenge
TITLE: All actions have (petty) consequences
POST: **Background**
My teacher had assigned my class a group project (ugh) and my other friends already had already gotten partners, so me and my friend (we'll call her A) ended up getting partners who were not the best. D and T. D lived an hour... | my 'friend' didn't do any work for a group project so I put her name last and uncapitalized.<|endoftext|> |
SUBREDDIT: r/dating_advice
TITLE: Are they (21 F) afraid of me (22 M)? What does this behavior mean?
POST: Hi, all, first time redditor here, this is just my second post, and I need some help.
I'll start by describing myself to give you a little bit of insight into my situation.
I'm a 22 year old senior male in col... | Pretty girls that I've never talked to seem to be avoiding me, is this common? The first girl I've been interested in for a while, is this an indicator of disinterest? Or just nervousness?<|endoftext|> |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: Me [22 F] with my fiancé [22M] been together 3 years, just got engaged and are planning on moving across the country. How do I tell my incredibly conservative parents?
POST: Hi everyone,
So my fiancé and I have been dating for 3 years now, and just got engaged 5 days ago. We're both... | moving with my fiancé across country before marriage, incredibly conservative parents won't approve. How do I tell them respectfully?<|endoftext|> |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: Gf [25f] slept around a lot and I [25m] can't get over it. Together 3 months
POST: Gf gave me her laptop to fix and I found a bunch of pics of her with guys, mostly her ex tho. She had a text file that listed a bunch of guys names I'm assuming these are the men she's slept with as I ... | gf has been with a lot of guys, I just found that out, feel weird about it, am I right to feel uneasy or am I being insecure?<|endoftext|> |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: Im (18f) in love with my cousin (18m), not my bf(33m)
POST: I met my "cousin" (18m) through his dad, (not blood related but still family). We chatted via skype for hours. He lives a thousand miles away thought. So after a couple of weeks we decided to break it up due to distance befo... | Im in love with someone withing the family, (not blood related) not my bf, but hes going away for 4 years.<|endoftext|> |
SUBREDDIT: r/loseit
TITLE: 40 teaspoons of sugar daily. Help for your weight loss journey.
POST: 40 teaspoon fulls of sugar daily for 2 months was the challenge that Damon Gameau undertook in That Sugar Film.
While initially that may seem like a lot, statistics ([1] [2] [3] [4] show that on average we eat much more ... | That Sugar Film is a fun way to learn about the effects of sugar on the body and can help you with motivation on your weight loss journey.<|endoftext|> |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: Me [25F] with my bf[25M] of 6 months, he needs more support?
POST: Hey there, things are going pretty well between the two of us, but something happened recently that we both can't agree.
We live in nyc and both went to a comedy show. I was having a lot of pain with my stomach so I ... | Should I have taken equal blame with the lost items? I thought it was his mistake but wasn't a big deal.<|endoftext|> |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: I (17 M) want to ask her (17 F) to prom.
POST: So a bit of story I guess. This girl I've been crushing on for a few months, but it's only been in the last week or so that we've begun chatting alot. It's always over facebook but when we talk it ends up spanning close to 4-5 hours talk... | Nervous and need some confidence on asking out crush to prom, even though I'm pretty sure we've been lightly flirting. Thanks in advance for any advice/confidence boosts.<|endoftext|> |
SUBREDDIT: r/AskReddit
TITLE: Anyone else notice this plot hole in Fairly Odd Parents?
POST: Okay so in that one episode where Timmy wishes for heat vision and melts his dad's trophy for getting first place in a race, his dad goes crazy and punishes him. So Timmy wishes to go back in time and prevent his dad from win... | Timmy goes back in time and impersonates his dad in a race and wins it by melting everyone else's shoes with heat vision he shouldn't be able to use in a competition according to Da Rulez.<|endoftext|> |
SUBREDDIT: r/dogs
TITLE: My boy won his agility class last night!
POST: Hi Doggit, I just have to brag a little on my 9 month old Aussie Benny who had the fastest time at agility class last night. This is his second set of classes we've done, and after 2.5 months, he's gotten to be pretty awesome :)
I don't think yo... | if you have an active dog or one who would enjoy running around to get food, find somewhere that offers agility classes in your area and go for it. It makes for [super happy] dogs!<|endoftext|> |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: Girlfriend is unbelievably busy....
POST: My girlfriend and I (both 18, together for 6 months) are leaving for school in just over 2 weeks. She is always incredibly busy and this has not been a recent issue. I have mentioned to her that I feel we should spend more time together and s... | She's very busy. We leave for college soon. This issue has been for a long time and she never makes time, should I break up with her?<|endoftext|> |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: I (22/F) am looking for advice in dealing with subtle abuse by my parents (48/M&F)
POST: Longtime lurker, will try not to ramble on too long.
My siblings (13/F & 19/M) and I (22/F) have always had an incredibly volatile relationship with my parents, and I have always thought of it ... | My parents are controlling and remain so by using scare tactics and humiliation as tools. Just looking for advice to deal with a situation that's been constant since I was born<|endoftext|> |
SUBREDDIT: r/jobs
TITLE: Need help assessing my situation
POST: I just started working at the beginning of August through a recruitment agency in a temp-to-perm role. Just last week, I got called over by my supervisor so that I can talk to her privately on Thursday (we had Friday and Monday off). At first I thought ... | Agency is over billing the company by a large amount of what the perm job pays. Company is refusing the pay. Managers love me. What are my options?<|endoftext|> |
SUBREDDIT: r/AskReddit
TITLE: My house is infested with fleas, and my family can't afford to exterminate them. My family, me and my animals are covered with bites, and we're miserable. What can I possibly do?
POST: I'm a sixteen year old kid living with a family that essentially lives paycheck to paycheck. All togeth... | My house is infested with fleas and we can't afford to exterminate them. My whole family is miserable and I don't know what I can do. What can I do to solve this problem without spending too much money.)<|endoftext|> |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: I [F18] don't know how to make my dad feel loved.
POST: Ok, so background: my parents got divorced about two years ago, my dad now lives with his father, taking care of him, but also because he can't afford his own place as he only has a part-time job.
I am in my first year of coll... | My dad wants more of a relationship with my sister and I but I don't know how to do that because we have nothing in common.<|endoftext|> |
SUBREDDIT: r/dogs
TITLE: Picture request! I'm making a sort of unique dog calendar for a holiday gift. Any picture contribution would be awesome! [x-post from /r/dogpictures]
POST: Ok, here's the low down. My girlfriend and I both really love dogs and have both in the past 1.5 years lost our childhood dogs. Both of o... | I'm making a calendar for my girlfriend of dogs pooping! Donate a picture of you own dog's shame in the comments!<|endoftext|> |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: [27 M] having difficulty with my gf [24 F] of 2 years after we bought a dog together
POST: Hi, just thought I'd post here to get some impartial advice since my gf doesn't use Reddit.
I'm in a very L relationship with my gf of 2 years, we moved in together 6 months ago and dreamed of... | GF and I got a dog together shortly after moving in, she insists that he sleeps in our bed and it's causing me and our relationship/finances/sex life problems<|endoftext|> |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: (22M) need an unbiased opinion on an argument I had with my girlfriend (22F), am I just being jealous?
POST: Relationship has been fine for the last three or so years,
Going to mention here that I have some jealousy issues that I'm still working on (but getting better)
over the la... | girlfriend thinking of crashing at a new male friends house, I am a boyfriend who wants to know if its a jealousy problem<|endoftext|> |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: I (M 17)am having problems with my mom(F 40's) and it is making things worse with everyone around me
POST: It all started yesterday. I went to the doctor's office and I asked him if he recommends any sleepaid meds to help me. He offered some method that I should try before and if not... | having major problems with my mom who doesn't listen for shit if I try just talking. She gets angry very easily and yells a lot. Makes me feel less than shit.<|endoftext|> |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: I [22M] Really suck at french kissing my GF [22F] apparently. Help?
POST: So I've never really been in a relationship, and my GF has been in quite a few actual serious ones. Well she likes to French Kiss, but she doesn't seem too keen on teaching me. She's told me before I've put too... | Suck at french kissing, even though I've tried to practice, and it always causes frustration and kills the mood. Any advice/help?<|endoftext|> |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationship_advice
TITLE: [18/m] Met a guy (18/m) a few days ago, not sure what's going on in our relationship.
POST: We met on Grindr, not the most romantic of places, he's incredibly good looking and studying at a med school very very close to my school. We chatted for a couple of days then agreed to ... | Guy I met is sometimes an asshole and won't be open about what he wants but I don't know what to do.<|endoftext|> |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: (22 m) As a lonely guy, how should I figure out if I really like someone instead of just enjoying their companionship?
POST: This situation has happened to me before. I was quite lonely as a college freshman and got back together with my high school flame (at the time a HS junior).
... | Lonely guy not sure if he really likes girl he's hooking up with or just relieving loneliness. Not many common intrests.<|endoftext|> |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: I [29F] need to break it off with coworker [26M], but how?
POST: Sorry I'm not so eloquent and sorry about the throwaway. I'm certain this person I'm talking about reads reddit.
I think I messed up. I met this guy at work a few months ago and we hit it off. I thought it would be oka... | Coworker relationship not working out, want to bail, but need to continue working with this person. It's already awkward. How do I get out?<|endoftext|> |
SUBREDDIT: r/AskReddit
TITLE: How can I get back at my upstairs neighbor?
POST: So recently we moved into an apartment. Our apartment is on the second floor, but there is a small fenced in terrace type area outside of our window. The problem is the ground of it is right next to the bottom of our window. Our neighbor ... | dumb neighbor keeps pissing out of window and it's splashing into our apartment (it's too hot to close the window) what should we do to fuck with him?<|endoftext|> |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationship_advice
TITLE: 21 [F] Am I mad to meet up with him?
POST: I've been in a two year relationship with this man. (22 M)
We've had a really bad time lately, 6/7 weeks of none stop fighting, breaking up and getting back together constantly.
I've recently had my eyes opened and realise I've been ... | broke up with abusive boyfriend, he got in contact saying he wants to meet up and make things right, should I trust him?<|endoftext|> |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: I caught my girlfriend [18] cheating on me [23], need some advice.
POST: Background: Started off as fuck buddies, and did that dance for about 8 months, things got serious around November, and started dating in December. Jan 7 she went out and went to play beer pong at a friends, whi... | Startred off as fuck-buddies, started dating for 2 weeks, cheated on me, then next week pulled some sneaky business with a lesbian.<|endoftext|> |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: Me [35 M] with takeout counter girl [??/F] - how to find out her age without being creepy?
POST: There's a girl that I interact with about three times a week at a local "health food" restaurant that I grab lunch from. Over the past few months, we've built up a great rapport to the po... | Want to ask out counter girl at restaurant but worried that she might be way too young. How can I figure this out without being creepy?<|endoftext|> |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: How do I(18F) let my friend(21M) know I don't want him in my car without offending him?
POST: My primary friend group consists of four people, including myself and my boyfriend. Out of the four of us, only one person who I will refer to as Donnie, has his license as well as a car. Si... | I don't want my friend to ride in my new car because he has very poor hygiene. How do I break the news without breaking up the friendship?<|endoftext|> |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: I[F19] am feeling more like his[M26] fuck buddy than his girlfriend :/
POST: I (f19) have been with my bf(M26) for about 5 months. We have had our ups and downs but we have worked things out in our own way.
Lately I have been feeling more and more like a part-time girlfriend.
We bo... | I never see my bf until after 9pm and we both live on the same campus, feeling more like a fuck buddy than his girlfriend.<|endoftext|> |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationship_advice
TITLE: Clairissa (Me, MTF age 19) looking to date a girl (19-20, f) who potentially would want sex... Gender Identity vs Sex crisis
POST: so, I have been really into this girl that a met a few weeks ago but I have been having issues on whether I should or should not date/try to be mor... | due to my Gender Identity and my natural body, I do not want sex, but a potential partner will most likely want sex. how do I work around this... anything and everything is appreciated...<|endoftext|> |
SUBREDDIT: r/Advice
TITLE: My best friend's dad is abusive, how can I help him?
POST: I need help giving him good advice! My best friend's dad is verbally, emotionally, and (when he drinks) physically abusive. My friend is nearly 18 and wants to get out from the horrible situation, but he's afraid to leave his mom an... | Friend's dad is abusive, but he can't leave because he needs to protect his little brother and mom from said abuse, what should I advise him to do?<|endoftext|> |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationship_advice
TITLE: Need some analysis on a date I [33/M] had the other night with a [28/F]
POST: Hi Reddit,
Not heart broken or anything, but I would appreciate some 3rd party analysis regarding a date I had on Sunday night...I really can't figure out what happened.
Started chatting up a 28/F on... | Went on what I had thought was a good date, had sex, made plans to go out again, get wigged out on the day after.<|endoftext|> |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: My SO (21F) and I (20M) are fighting because she can't trust me, and I get too defensive.
POST: I want to preface this by saying, the trust issues are my fault. I have a history of being unfaithful in relationships, and am breaking the habit, by communicating, and being honest about ... | My SO doesn't trust me as far as she can throw me, and I need help not being defensive in response.<|endoftext|> |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: I [19f] need advice on how to end my abusive relationship with [26M]
POST: Edit: Emotionally abusive, not physically. Forgot to point that out. Not that either is better than the other, but he does not bruise me.
I have come to the realization that I am in an abusive relationship wi... | I need advice on how to leave my abusive relationship. We live together and I've never been in this situation. Any questions and advice are appreciated!<|endoftext|> |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: How soon is too soon to talk to an Ex?
POST: My (22f) now Ex SO (25m) of 5 years and I broke up roughly a month ago. The last year of the relationship we became a long distance couple.
The breakup, for numerous reasons, was mutual and I knew it had been coming for a while, which is w... | mutual breakup roughly 1 month ago after being together for 5 years. We agreed to stay in touch after time apart, is it too soon for me to say hello?<|endoftext|> |
SUBREDDIT: r/running
TITLE: Pain in arches of feet.
POST: I am part of a basketball team. We recently started running around one a week on a track. I am not the best runner (avg. 7:30 minute mile) so I researched running tips and strategies. I read that staying on the balls/toes of your feet and not letting your heel... | I started to run without letting my heels touch the track, now there is a pain in the middle of my feet, in the arches.<|endoftext|> |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: My (30f) pregnant best friend (31f) of 14 years doesn't want me to nanny anymore. Is there anything I can do?
POST: I'm going to crosspost this to a few places because I don't know what to do.
My friend is 40 weeks pregnant and about to deliver. She is an attorney and plans on conti... | friend doesn't want me to nanny her son because of hair smell and I'm not sure what to do to help our friendship<|endoftext|> |
SUBREDDIT: r/AskReddit
TITLE: Reddit please help I have a tenant in my house that wont go away and I can't afford to evict her!
POST: Basically she stopped paying rent about 8 months ago, I asked her to leave as soon as she could (she has 5 kids and no place to go so i did not want to throw her on the streets) 1 mont... | She has not paid rent in 8 months do I have to pay the 190 dollars court filing fee or can i call cops and get them thrown out for trespassing?<|endoftext|> |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationship_advice
TITLE: (m/23) Am I wrong for wanting friends again?
POST: Hi RA. Throwaway because.
I've been in this relationship for 4 years and for the last year have been completely unsure on whether or not I want to remain in this. One of the main reasons is that I miss the social life I used... | I cut off all friends when I began dating my girlfriend, I now think I just want to be single again and have friends again. Am I wrong for wanting to be with other girls and friends in general?<|endoftext|> |
SUBREDDIT: r/dating_advice
TITLE: I (M22) get positive signals from her(21). Super early stage and I don't want to mess it up.
POST: We're just casual friends, so it was weird when we hung out by accident for 6 hours, (would have been more but we closed down the place). This is where I got those "positive signals." T... | Casual and accidental study session leads to her place (no sex), leads to me thinking I want to date her. Give me any advice you can.<|endoftext|> |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: If you think someone wont text you unless you text them first what should you do?
POST: I've been texting a girl from okcupid (I'm a girl too if that matters? we are both 23) but I'm always the first to send a message. As soon as we start texting the convos usually last at least two ... | It seems like this girl is only messaging me because she is bored. Should I give up on pursuing her, or is there still a chance for us to have some sort of relationship?<|endoftext|> |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: Me(22f) and my boyfriend(25m) are making plans to move in together. Seeking general advice and help with a few little problems
POST: We have been dating for just over a year, and we will be looking for places starting in October. Before we became a couple we were friends for a few ye... | Moving in with the boyfriend. Excited, happy, a little nervous. Seeking general advice to make it a smooth transition and happy living situation for everyone!<|endoftext|> |
SUBREDDIT: r/offmychest
TITLE: Websites: Stop trying to look like Apple products
POST: I cannot stand every website I visit adopt the same style of layout; bright, borderless colors that hurt my eyes with oversimplified user interfaces that won't let me do specific functions on them without spending a ludicrous amoun... | Websites like Facebook, Twitter, Paypal, etc won't stop changing their layout and limiting user options, so I've stopped using them<|endoftext|> |
SUBREDDIT: r/AskReddit
TITLE: My crazy asian mother has once again found my marijauna.
POST: I am 20 years old currently attending college. While staying at home and commuting has its bennefits, having a mother with CABS (crazy asian bitch syndrom) can be a major issue. After finding more undeniable proof yet again, ... | CABS = Crazy Asian bitch sydrom. Asking any Asian American with an Asian mother with die hard traditions : How do I make her understand I do not wish to follow in her anciet korean ways? ?<|endoftext|> |
SUBREDDIT: r/AskReddit
TITLE: How do you control your anger/temper?
POST: So I actually feel kind of odd even asking this, but it's something that has popped up of late. I was never a particularly violent person, but I used to have quite a temper. When I was younger I was much more prone to fury than I am now. Howeve... | I've works very hard to mellow out as an adult, but recently I've been having a hard time resisting the urge to beat the shit out of someone who for some reason thinks I'm the guy to fuck with. <|endoftext|> |
SUBREDDIT: r/AskReddit
TITLE: If in a game of Rummy, two players reach the same point goal during the same hand, how do you decide who wins?
POST: Today a friend and I were playing our remixed version of Rummy. The main rule is "The first player to reach 200 points wins." Since you can gain or lose points during each... | If 2 people play a game to 200 points and both pass it in the same round, is the winner the one who was closer before or the one with the higher score at the end of the round?<|endoftext|> |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: A question for men with little experience with dating.
POST: Hello! I've (29/F) been hanging out with this guy (25/M) for a while. We finally went on our first date recently and I can say that we both like each other.
With that said, I've casually asked him about his dating past and... | I'm seeing a guy that probably has little experience dating women. I like him, he's adorable, and I want to know how to proceed without scaring him off.<|endoftext|> |
SUBREDDIT: r/tifu
TITLE: TIFU by annoying a nerd
POST: This is not only my very first TIFU post, but my very first Reddit post of my own overall, so please critique me in areas that I need to improve in. Anyway, this happened back in middle school (around 2005).
Growing up, I was the outcast in my group of classmat... | Don't be annoying to people. Do your best to get along with people, or at least tolerate the people who you don't like and/or don't like you.<|endoftext|> |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationship_advice
TITLE: [21/F] Could I have scared my boyfriend [21/M] off?
POST: My boyfriend and I had sex for the first time tonight after being together for a month and talking casually for a month beforehand. Before we had sex, I mentioned starting to fall for him, since he had said it before. He... | Slept with boyfriend, brought up insecurity of him leaving after having sex with me, did I mess up big time?<|endoftext|> |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: This will likely be the last time I (26m) write in this subreddit
POST: Despite some supportive words and constructive critiques, I'm giving up on having a meaningful relationship and am resigning myself to bachelorhood.
Without sounding conceited, I have a few things going for me t... | personal issues make me nonviable and rather than beat my head against a wall trying to find and maintain a facet of life I will never have, I'm just going to accept things as they are.<|endoftext|> |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: My[23F] boyfriend[27M] texts former FWB(???) sometimes, should I be concerned?
POST: He's known her since high school and we've been together for 3.5 years. When our relationship was new, he mentioned this girl and said that they used to be "make-out buddies" and that she gave him a ... | Bf keeps in touch with a friend he used to be 'make-out buddies' with, should I care at all?<|endoftext|> |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: How do I (23f) get over him (24m)?
POST: This may sound weird but I am still in love with my ex from a long time ago. We met a couple months before we both turned 16. We talked constantly and dated for about eight months despite living two hours away from each other. Our parents were... | still in love with my ex boyfriend from when I was 16. Can't get over him no matter how hard I try. What do I do?<|endoftext|> |
SUBREDDIT: r/askwomenadvice
TITLE: What do I do after she says that?
POST: I'm a 17 male, and never really done much with girls. They text me and I hangout with them in general every now and then but not frequently.
Recently I've really grown close to one, and she comes to me whenever she needs help with say school... | Boyfriend breaks up with her after 22 months and she's crushed. Tells me that when she's around me she forgets all of her sadness and is happy. What does that mean.<|endoftext|> |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: I [33F] feel like I'm failing my partner [31M] in the pet name department.
POST: My partner of a few months and I are in a not-very-long-distance relationship (about an 1:15 apart), and recently he started calling me baby - in person, and a lot through text and on the phone - which I... | My partner is verbally affectionate, and I feel like I'm not keeping up. Can I call him baby? Do guys like to be called baby, or should I wait and come up with something organically?<|endoftext|> |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: My(M19) gf(F17) wants to try sex with someone other than me.
POST: Sorry this is on mobile
My gf(17) wants to see what it's like to have sex with someone other than me(M19).
We both took each others virginity and we have been dating for almost 1.5 years.
Now she's saying she... | my girlfriend only had sex with me, she loves Me and wants to be with me but wants to know what it's like to be with someone else<|endoftext|> |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: Is desire a conscious choice, or is it something else?
POST: Having a bit of a discussion (okay, a disagreement, really) with my [46M] wife [45F]. Been together almost 20 years, and had our share of ups and downs.
In this particular down cycle, it seems that her view on sex in ou... | Wife seems to have lost interest in sex, I think this is a conscious choice and not just an inevitable fact of life.<|endoftext|> |
SUBREDDIT: r/tifu
TITLE: TIFU by forgetting to lock that door
POST: So early this morning I'm doing my thing upstairs in my room, trying to finish up this small batch of meth so my friends and I can get up n go. Everything's going good the final product is only minutes from being finished. It's quiet downstairs where... | I was cooking some meth in secret upstairs when mom walks right the fuck in but strangely doesn't attack me and now it's gonna be hella awkward next time we speak<|endoftext|> |
SUBREDDIT: r/legaladvice
TITLE: Does de facto custody schedule hold more legal weight than (unfollowed) decree custody schedule?
POST: [X-post in Divorce]
For the sake of narrative bias I'm going to write this as cleanly as possible, parties historically are high-conflict and even a throwaway can be risky. If you've... | One parent feels de facto schedule carries more weight, other parent feels if authorities/legal counsel get involved, decree wins until custody is legally modified by judgment.<|endoftext|> |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: Me [23 F] with my SO [22 M] of 2 years, I'm scared of failing new things and project on my SO.
POST: Hi Reddit, throwaway account because reasons.
I'm not sure if this is a pure relationship problem exactly, but this is my first, real long-term relationship and I really want to make... | I'm incredibly insecure about trying new things and feel like my SO invalidates my feelings. However, this may just be an overarching personal issue.<|endoftext|> |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: I [23 M] don't know if giving a gift to the girl [21 F] I like would be a good idea or now.
POST: So there's this girl I've had a crush on for a while now (a little longer than a year). We are in the same group in one of our classes, and we have a lot in common, based off of what sh... | Girl I like has a birthday coming up, want to give her a hand made bracelet with charms on it, but don't know if that would be too weird or not.<|endoftext|> |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: Girl [20 F] is scared that I'm not over my ex [20 M] and doesn't want to escalate
POST: I've been broken up with my ex for over 2 months now and I've finally started to move on. She broke up with me, and I was emotionally destroyed and broken up and thought that I couldn't be with an... | I want to have sex with this girl, but she doesn't want to ge hurt because I got out of a 1 year+ long relationship 2 months ago. <|endoftext|> |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: Wife cheated on me, I found out the other night.
POST: My wife [24 F] had been distant for a long time, paying little attention to me and playing games online all day. I found this suspicious after a while, especially when I would say "I love you" and she wouldn't say it back.
Well ... | Am I right to expect her to make a decision right now? Should I even give her a chance to make it right?<|endoftext|> |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: My [33M] girlfriend [26F] has become cold, distant, and says things don't feel the same...
POST: I'll try and keep this fairly short. Girlfriend and I have been dating since January. Up until this last month, things have been going fairly smooth. We have our arguments, they get ha... | Girlfriend has become distant, says things "don't feel the same, haven't seen her in nearly a month. What do?<|endoftext|> |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: I'm (21, M) in a friends with benefits relationship but a girl I've been really is telling me she's been into me this entire time. What do I do?
POST: Okay so pretty much I've been really into this one girl...let's call her Haley. So Haley and I have been really good friends for lik... | In a friends with benefits relationship with a best friend, but girl Ive been into for 2 years recently confessed she's into me. Wat do?<|endoftext|> |
SUBREDDIT: r/tifu
TITLE: TIFU by trying to do a U-turn at a roundabout
POST: So its December 23rd here in New Zealand and as you can imagine its almost the worst possible time to do my Full Drivers Licence test but it was the only time that was available.
It's very busy on the roads and I am pretty stressed trying to... | Testing officer told me to do a U-turn at the roundabout and in a moment of retardation I tried to turn into the oncoming lanes and go back the way I came.<|endoftext|> |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: Irreconcilable Conflict of Goals between me [28M] and my [24F] wife? She wants to move abroad and I don't.
POST: Been together for 3.5 years, married for 1.5 years
We both currently live on the east coast of the US in a great city with lots of opportunities, rich in culture, etc:
... | my wife wants to move to Europe where life is easier, but I don't want to leave my home. Can this be resolved?<|endoftext|> |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationship_advice
TITLE: Are drunk words truly sober thoughts?
POST: I had a class with this girl and she stole my phone and put her number in it two or three months ago. I caught her staring at me in class daily and talked to her on a daily basis up until summer (which has just started for us). We u... | A girl I said I was attracted,while drunk, drunk texted me saying she likes me, but then completely denies everything the next day, but gets offended when I say that what she said about me was stupid and corny<|endoftext|> |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationship_advice
TITLE: GF [28F] told me [32M] that she would have slept with a guy if he had made a move. Is this cheating?
POST: *I prefer serious replies please.
This is my first post on Reddit ever, having lurched for years. I want as much advice on this as possible, hence the account creation an... | GF sleeps in bed next to stranger, nothing happens, but she would have let him bang her. Cheating still?<|endoftext|> |
SUBREDDIT: r/tifu
TITLE: TIFU by meeting up a girl I met online for sex
POST: So this wasn't today, but about 2 years ago, during the start of my fall semester freshman year. I used the website "meetme" to meet a decent amount of girls at the time, mostly for the purpose of sexual things. This one girl I was talking ... | Met girl online for a quickie, she turned out to be autistic, and I ended up meeting her family while coming up on shrooms.<|endoftext|> |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: Boyfriend is angry at me all the time lately...
POST: SO and I are 25, together 1.5 years, living together for 1.
In the last few months the romance has died, he seems less interested in sex and he is angry all the time at me. I try to talk to him about it but he says he is tired ... | SO who was previously wonderful is now getting angry at me for every little thing, essentially making me feel like shit. Unsure on how to address it.<|endoftext|> |
SUBREDDIT: r/dating_advice
TITLE: 19/M long-distance flirting with 18/F. Is she into me?
POST: So I met this awesome girl (let's call her Sarah) over summer and we hit it off pretty well, but there's just one problem: she lives about 4,800 miles away. There's a chance she'll move back to my country permanently at som... | clicked well and flirting with girl who currently lives far away but might come back. Any point waiting or is she not into me?<|endoftext|> |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: I've [21M] been sick for a long time and my partner [21M] has been supportive. How can I thank him?
POST: Throw away because I don't want this attached to my regular account.
Sorry if the formatting is gross as well, I'm posting from mobile.
So we've been together for a year and a h... | Been sick upwards of 8 months and am not sure when I'll be well again. How can I be a better partner through this to my patient boyfriend, and let him know I appreciate him?<|endoftext|> |
SUBREDDIT: r/AskReddit
TITLE: Looking for legal advice re: domestic partnership
POST: So here's the deal: I live with a wonderful woman (I'm male, btw). We are not romantically engaged, but do have an amazing friendship. We have commented multiple times that we plan on living together for the long-term foreseeable fu... | Long-term cohabitation with opposite-sex housemate, never getting married, will a domestic partnership let me give her my insurance benefits, etc?<|endoftext|> |
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