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SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: Am I over thinking this? (Me, 17m; Her, 17f) POST: So a few weeks ago my girlfriend was talking about how at parties we can't go across the field the party is in without several people shouting "Hey buddy!" at me and said, "Everyone loves you! Not as much me though." I didn't really ...
Not sure if its too soon to say I love you to my girlfriend when we are about to enter a long distance relationship. Should I wait to see how our relationship changes over long distance?<|endoftext|>
SUBREDDIT: r/AskReddit TITLE: Why does the brain fucking work againts us? POST: Hey reddit. Long time lurker here and I need some advice. This may be a bit long so please stay with me. Recently I have been hit with some pretty heavy grief over the past couple weeks involving girl troubles. It's gotten to the point w...
Why does the brain insist on torturing itself and the body after a significant negative event? Wouldn't it be best to learn and forget?<|endoftext|>
SUBREDDIT: r/askwomenadvice TITLE: Would you want to know if your husband was seeing teen sex workers/Did I do the right thing? POST: (I'm a 21 year old woman and the man in question is 50+) A couple years ago, I was raped by one of my clients when I was making money through various types of sex work. I was doing t...
I was raped by a john when I used to escort and recently outed him to his wife because I think he's a dangerous man and a pedophile. Was I in the wrong to do this?<|endoftext|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: Me [23M] with my college FWB [21F] 4 month, picking up the pieces POST: Just looking to get this off my chest and get some advice. M[23] about to graduate college had a FWB situation going with this F[21] sophomore who transferred here over a year ago. Same circle of friends, known h...
FWB broke it off after 4 months when we had gotten quite close and now unsure how friendship will or can progress.<|endoftext|>
SUBREDDIT: r/AskReddit TITLE: What are some small time acts of kindness that you wish more people spoke about? POST: I'll start. And this is really simple, but that's kind of the point of this post. I had left my credit card in an ATM one night. I didn't realize I'd lost it until I was way gone, and it being a Friday...
Left my card in ATM, guy looked me up in college directory, and traveled across the city to return it to me.<|endoftext|>
SUBREDDIT: r/AskReddit TITLE: Rats, why did it have to be rats? POST: I am a changed man. This morning I was eating breakfast in the kitchen. Coco Pops with slices of banana for that extra bit of energy. Good stuff. I love that time of the weekend when I can sit there and slowly eat and watch things on my laptop. Pu...
We've got rats in the house, what the fuck do I do to get rid of them? God damn motherfucking rats.<|endoftext|>
SUBREDDIT: r/offmychest TITLE: I'm running out of things to care about. POST: I do what I can to keep myself motivated, yet at every turn I find something that stops me. I'm tired of caring about things, all I end up doing is being stupid and causing myself and other people to get hurt. My parents are recently divorc...
I feel like I'm drifting out of having emotions, I wish I could just disappear without hurting anyone, and I doubt there's any sound advice for me, but go for it if you feel you can help.<|endoftext|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: My girlfriend (26/f) wants to break up with me (29/m) due to increased cancer risk. POST: While we were talking last night, the fact that my mother had a hysterectomy, about a decade ago, due to a possible tumor, came up in conversation. My girlfriend came over this morning and wante...
Girlfriend is worried that I may have increased chance in cancer, wants to break up but decides not to in the end. Problems?<|endoftext|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: Me [19 M] with my GF [20F] been together 3 months known her for 4 years, told me she has been sad for 10 years and says it wont get better. What can i do? POST: My girlfriend and I have been dating for 3 months, and today she just told me she hasn't been happy for the last 10 years a...
My Girfriend i have been dating for 3 months has not been happy for 10 years and i dont know what to do.<|endoftext|>
SUBREDDIT: r/tifu TITLE: TIFU by stranding my team at the end of a long, successful project. POST: This just happened a few minutes ago. So my team traveled 4 hours away to Pennsylvania from home to provide 24/7 support for a big software upgrade. Things went so well that we finished up a day early and got ready to...
Locked my whole team out of the rental car after they put all of their personal belongings in it. OnStar isn't active in this car and AAA can't unlock it.<|endoftext|>
SUBREDDIT: r/dogs TITLE: Morphometry of skin changes in Newfoundland dogs following coat clipping | The Veterinary Journal POST: [ Abstract >Dog breeds are unique in their coat conformation and quality. Newfoundland dogs have a long and fine hair coat, and clipping may induce changes in newly grown hair. This study ...
Repeated clippings of Newfoundland dogs cause hyperkeratosis(thickening of skin), reduced skin and coat gloss and increased scaliness.<|endoftext|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: How should I (19M) handle my crazy (ex)girlfriend (19f)? POST: So I(19M) broke up with my girlfriend(19F) of 5 months because she cheated on me. She was apologizing up and down profusely. She wanted to stay together. I told her no. Then she said she wanted to stay friends (she's a lo...
Ex girlfriend went insane after the breakup, I'm concerned she's a danger to herself and people around her. What can I do?<|endoftext|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: My [22 F] boyfriend [22 M] of four months lost "the spark" and now views me as just a friend. what can i do? POST: My boyfriend and I were in love up until about a week ago. Last night he said he needs a break from me, and after further conversations today, he has admitted that he sl...
boyfriend went from in love with me to viewing me as just a friend. we have plans to hang out "as friends" next week to see if the spark returns. is this salvageable?<|endoftext|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: How do I [23F], newly single, talk to men who I don't already know? POST: I got out of a 2 year relationship a little over 3 months ago, and he was the only guy I've ever been in a relationship with. We were friends for a while before dating, so it was easy to transition. The only ot...
Never had to talk to guys before because the only one I dated was a friend first. How do I talk to guys I am interested in that I don't already know?<|endoftext|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: Me [21M] and my partner [20F] and threesomes, exploring sexual options and need threesome advice POST: Hi everyone, my partner and I are two students at university, we have been together almost two years and have a very trustworthy, stable relationship and love each other a lot. I w...
Boyfriend unwilling to have a MMF threesome, but open to MFF, advice needed on preparation. <|endoftext|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: Do you think he [M21] and I [F20] will be able to make it work in the future? POST: Hey, how's it going? I'm stuck in a pretty messed up situation. I started seeing my coworker a few weeks ago. We both admitted to having getting out of messy relationships. We ended up hanging out mo...
guy i was seeing has too much on his plate tight now, sounds like a temporary break, could it work out in the end?<|endoftext|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: I (m17) started talking to a girl (f17) and she wants to take things to the "next level". POST: I (17m) started talking to this girl (17f) a few weeks ago (right after my breakup with another girl who is irrelevant and won't be mentioned again). Things are going fine between the gir...
Girl I met a few weeks ago wants to become sexually active. I have very little experience and am nervous. Should I go ahead and give her what she wants or back out and focus on my school work?<|endoftext|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: I want to help my best friend (F/20) with her relationship with her boyfriend (21). POST: My best friend has been with this guy for a few months, he is her first boyfriend. My friend has a lot of self-esteem issues and mild depression and anxiety. This makes it hard for her to be in...
Friend with emotional problems is finally in her first relationship, but her boyfriend is stubborn and does not take responsibility for his actions. What should I do?<|endoftext|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: I [23 M] am still not over my ex [22 F] of less than 9 months, even though we broke up over 3 years ago. POST: I'll keep this short. I was dating this girl and it was going exceptionally well for about 6 months, just mutually head over heels, until we started living in different citi...
Had a short but powerful relationship with a girl that ended after we moved to different cities and she became nearly impossible to reach. Still not over her. What the hell is wrong with me?<|endoftext|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: Me [27F] with my boyfriend [31M] of 5 years. How do I tell him his forgetfulness is beginning to frighten me without insulting him? POST: This isn't as huge a problem as most I see on here, but I hope someone can offer me advice! My boyfriend (Jack) runs his own company, which he se...
Boyfriend's stress is making him forgetful and it's worrying me. Don't know how to approach him, or what solution to approach him with.<|endoftext|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: Me [22 F] with my LD BF [21 M] of 8M, should I break up with him? POST: Me [22 F] and my LD BF [21 M] have been together for 8 months. He cheated on me once, and we've broken up twice. About a month ago I noticed he was being very distant and stopped saying that he loved me. When I s...
My LD BF [21] cheated on me [21F] in the past and now I've noticed he's using his OK Cupid account. Should I break up with him?<|endoftext|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationship_advice TITLE: [28/M] being forced to move in with a [25/F]? POST: So we have been together for a decent amount of time 4+ yrs (we both dont really have a number we both agree on) but the whole relationship is just going downhill. We both want to be together ( I guess?) but don't see how we c...
I have to move in with my gf, to see if we can survive this downhill relationship long enough to get married.<|endoftext|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: I've [20 F] developed feelings on my lost distance friend[21 M] but I don't know if I should say anything. POST: My friend and I have been friends for a year or two, and just recently I had a lightbulb moment. Problem is, I live in Florida/Texas and he's in Oregon. Another problem i...
Should I tell my friend who is long distance, has a nagging ex and like to disappear for a month that I want to date?<|endoftext|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: I [23M] am gonna approach this girl [??F] tomorrow POST: this isn't a question, but I'm open to any advice you guys wanna give! just a little background on myself. I'm a virgin with no dating experience, ZERO. Something bad happened in freshman year highschool that made me antisocial...
I pussied out on an opportunity to talk to a girl and I'm going back tomorrow to talk to her.<|endoftext|>
SUBREDDIT: r/dating_advice TITLE: After painfully breaking up with my first boyfriend a month ago, I (20/f) was asked to see a movie and drink wine by a new guy (21/m). Any and all advice is appreciated! :) POST: I am a girl (20 y/o) and I am going over to a boy's house to watch a movie with him (Gladiator, I picked ...
went through a painful breakup a month ago, going to see a movie and drink wine with a kid who thinks I am cute. Need advice on how to act<|endoftext|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: I [22F] completely trust my husband [26M] (married 1 year), but he doesn't trust me. He constantly looks through my phone and social media. POST: I trust my husband with everything. I've never cheated. The most I've done while in a relationship with him was text an ex of mine (who wa...
My husband doesn't trust me, but has no reason not to. He won't let me use his phone, but is constantly looking through mine when I'm not around. How do I talk to him about this?<|endoftext|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: My [24F] Boyfriend [20M] Wants to have Friend who's a Girl POST: My boyfriend of 1 years and 9 months and I have had a near perfect relationship, aside from me having jealousy issues. In the beginning of out relationship I didn't have much of a problem with him having female friends,...
I'm having issues with letting my boyfriend be friends with a girl. I've had negative experiences with that in the past and I'm not sure I feel like it's okay for him to be friends with her or not.<|endoftext|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationship_advice TITLE: The only titles I can think of sound really dorky. POST: Created an alternate account for this. I'm a youngin' (18 years old, final year of high school), so I don't have a wealth of experience with this type of thing, so here goes. Fell in love with this girl and flirted with...
Broke up with first girlfriend about a year ago. Haven't stopped thinking about her. Recently started having vivid dreams of us getting back together which are really fucking depressing.***<|endoftext|>
SUBREDDIT: r/personalfinance TITLE: Took the 0% - what to do with the cash? POST: I recently purchased a new car and took the 0% for 60 month financing option in lieu of a $1250 rebate. Now, I had the cash for the vehicle set aside and could have paid for it, but it seemed that $40k invested in pretty much anything ...
Took the 0 percent for 60 months... what to do with $40k that's low, but not zero risk.<|endoftext|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: My boyfriend (25m) and I (25f) don't seem to have time for each other. POST: Dating for four years...recently (last 3 weeks) my boyfriend and I don't seem to have time for one another. Or it's more like he doesn't have time for me. We are seeing each other 2 times a week (Saturday ...
Boyfriend is too busy to put in time with me. I've tried to talk to him but it has not gotten better. We only see each other for social events with other people.<|endoftext|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: Me [36 F] with my ex [36 M] of several years, who wants me back but wants to keep his options open too POST: I've been in an on/off long-distance relationship with "Pete" for 5 years. We were supposed to move in together, but I got cold feet when I suspected him of cheating on me wi...
Long-distance ex says he still loves me but wants to play the field, too. I love him but this is killing me, how do I deal with it?<|endoftext|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: Me [24 M] with my friend [18F ], she agreed on going out in a date with me but said she alredy has a boyfriend. Maybe she was joking or what? POST: Hi guys, throwaway account since I think she remebers my username. Anyway, I met this girl, M, a week ago during a small vacation in G...
lonely guy,met girl in vacation, asked her out, she said yes but told me she has a boyfriend. What to do/How to clarify our situation?<|endoftext|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationship_advice TITLE: I'm 29/m starting to date someone (25/m) but still haunted by the past POST: I met someone (44/m) in 2008. We had a tumultuous relationship for the first couple of years: it was a complete emotional rollercoaster. Nevertheless, I married him in 2011, thinking that it would bett...
I'm legally married but separated and dating someone new. Should I tell him now or when I know that we're definitely in a relationship?<|endoftext|>
SUBREDDIT: r/AskReddit TITLE: How closely do bounty hunters have to follow the law? POST: Last night, I went to a friends house and a bunch of us were hanging out. One of the guys brought a guy he sorta knew (we'll call him Jake) to join us, and he gave us all some free drugs. Most of the people go out to a bar, an...
While there are some things that were handled wrong on our end, do bounty hunters not need to say that they're bounty hunters and can they imply they're police officers? And do they not really need a warrant?<|endoftext|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: I (M19) just went through a serious breakup (M20) and my guy friend (M29) is already hitting on me...? POST: For the past year and a half (since we were 18) I have been dating my childhood best friend. I couldn't be with him anymore mostly due to his parents and I just broke up with ...
Just ended a long term relationship and my guy friend is already putting the moves on me. Does he only want sex? And should I feel this horribly guilty about it all?<|endoftext|>
SUBREDDIT: r/dating_advice TITLE: Going on "dates" vs. "dating," what is normal as far as exclusivity? POST: I've been on a few dates with a woman, we are both in our early 40s and divorced with kids of our own. I told her I am enjoying her company and getting to know her. But I was clear that this was going to be a ...
in your 40s, is it normal to go on dates with more than one person or do people go exclusive from the start?<|endoftext|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: Love is a douche[M18][F18] POST: This is the situation. I began on a new school last year, and in my class was a really nice girl. We quickly started to like eachother, and we talked alot. Another person (M) who was seen as the clown of the class, who everyone thought would never get...
I loved a girl, she got into a relationship, but still hang with me. And i still love her more than ever.<|endoftext|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: Me [27 F] with my ex [25 M] of 4.5 years. He's moving on quickly, and I'm losing my resolve to not date for 1-2 years POST: I broke up with my ex four months ago after 4.5 years together. He lives halfway across the country now, and we had a ton of issues, so no part of me wants him ...
Ex is moving on after a measly four months. How long does it take you? And how can I get past this so I can keep my promise to myself to stay single for awhile?<|endoftext|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: Having friends "choose sides" in a breakup... How do I deal/cope/explain my situation to my friends? POST: Me: 25/F, my exbf is a 29/M. We broke up about a month and a half ago. We were together for about 2 years. It was my decision in the end to break up, there were things that I wa...
How do I ask my friends to "choose a side" or to explain to them my situation when they hang out with my exbf without sounding childish?<|endoftext|>
SUBREDDIT: r/cats TITLE: My cat is my mom's hero. POST: I got a phone call from my mom last night and she told me I wasn't allowed to have my cat returned to me when I moved into a larger place. I recently took him to live with my parents since my apartment is so small and I felt bad for him not getting a chance to r...
My cat killed and ate a spider to save my mom from certain death and now she doesn't want to give him back.<|endoftext|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: Advice please- I called out his best friend's name. POST: I (f, 24) have been seriously dating my boyfriend (m, 25- Let's say his name is John) for about 4 months. We have a really great relationship and care about one another quite a bit and have never argued, until now. John's be...
I had a dream of my boyfriend's best friend and called out his name in my sleep. Simply saying it was nothing is not working, what else can I do?<|endoftext|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: I [22 F] befriended a guy [30-40 M] who is taken with kids on a gaming site and am unsure if he wants friendship or romance POST: Hi folks! I recently started talking to a guy on gaming website (about a month ago) who lives in the same city as me. The site we met on is NOT a dating ...
i struck up a friendship who has a partner/kids on a non-dating internet site and i'm not sure what his intentions are towards me.<|endoftext|>
SUBREDDIT: r/Advice TITLE: Accidentally insulted my friend, he doesn't believe me that I didn't mean it the way it sounded, what do? POST: I have a friend who is a stay at home dad, I think that's fantastic not only because it means his girls get a strong male role model but also because it means he's always availabl...
Told a bad joke about a band, causing my stay at home dad friend to think I was belittling him. What do?<|endoftext|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: I AM ANGRY. He [26M] cheated on me [25F][6 mo relationship] and I want to do something about it. POST: My boyfriend of 6 months cheated on me last week, lied about it, broke up with me two days after the deed, and then came clean and told me that he cheated the day after he broke up ...
I want to go full crazy-ex and make his life as miserable as I feel after he cheated. Hold me back, bro.<|endoftext|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationship_advice TITLE: Long distance? POST: throwaway cause I know people on reddit **Backstory:** I went to another town for Halloween its about 6 hours away. I had a great time while there. I danced with one particular girl and got a kiss and her number as we went our separate ways. I called he...
Met a girl like no other I have ever come across. I feel like I am falling hard but am not sure what to do about the distance between us. :(<|endoftext|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: How do I stop myself from checking on my ex's facebook from time to time? POST: I am 21F, he is 25M, we were together for 3y and he broke up with me last christmas, I have moved on since (moved on = don't hurt/angry/sad when I think about him/memories of us) but because his facebook ...
checks up on ex by logging into his fb cos the password is my name, would like to hear some past experiences and how you stop yourself from doing so.<|endoftext|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: Me [23 F] with my classmate [27 F] of a few weeks, she keeps intruding on my space at the library POST: Hi everyone, I am just looking for an outsider's perspective on how to address my classmate's somewhat intrusive behavior. I gave one of my classmates my number so we could text e...
Classmate won't stop bothering me in the library when I am studying, how can I politely tell her to give me some space?<|endoftext|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: How do I[31M] decline a business partnership [29M] offer without burning a bridge? POST: I'm in the process of starting a localized business, and was contacted by someone that has a similar business in another part of the country. We have yet to discuss specifics, but he is offering ...
Approached by someone with experience when starting my own company, unsure how to decline partnership offer without offending and ruining chance for further relationship.<|endoftext|>
SUBREDDIT: r/tifu TITLE: TIFUS By booking a flight wrong POST: Hello reddit, I actually just realized my mistake about 15 minutes ago. For Christmas this year we were given a couple of weeks off from work, so I thought it would be nice to go on a vacation with my boyfriend since he missed out on the vacation I went...
booked an expensive vacation a month later than I thought. Might have trouble being able to get yet another week off of work to actually go now.<|endoftext|>
SUBREDDIT: r/tifu TITLE: TIFU by leading a guy on POST: Actually last weekend, but I still feel bad about it. I just moved to a new city so I've been going to Meetup events. There was a house party on Saturday, so I put on my dancing shoes and headed over. The party was fine, lots of 20-30 something nerds playing b...
Met a guy at a party, talked for awhile, went to a diner, went back to his place, rejected the hook up, went home.<|endoftext|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationship_advice TITLE: Are my [f26] feelings normal or unhealthy after a break up? POST: Background: I had been infatuated with the guy [26] for two years before he finally reciprocated in December. After getting together he went nearly NC for two weeks. He admitted it's because he couldn't make his ...
I had a short lived relationship with a guy I had liked for years. After the break up, I feel like I am obsessing too much over the break up and I am unsure how healthy or natural my feelings are. <|endoftext|>
SUBREDDIT: r/self TITLE: Shitty neighbors. POST: So the people who live below me are in their 30s. All 3 smoke. Not just cigarettes, but also weed that smells like my butthole. I took toilet paper, wiped my ass, smelled it, and it was that. I'm fine with all that, if they did it once in a while. Among them they ...
I'm either posting a passive aggressive note on their door or pissing on dumbasses through my window. They're always drunk, maybe they'll enjoy it.<|endoftext|>
SUBREDDIT: r/offmychest TITLE: Rejected from job, feel cheated. POST: Basically after working a trial shift at a popular coffee chain I was rejected. Of course i wanted to know why, so i asked. She replied with something along the lines of 'lack of presence, in n these times you could have asked if anything needed f...
was busy on my work trial and this gave me a disadvantage becuase i couldnt talk to my colleagues and show them my personality<|endoftext|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationship_advice TITLE: I [19m] met this girl [19f] two weeks ago, I want to tell her how I am feeling about her before Christmas break...[Update] POST: [Original post]( Ok, so about an hour ago I had her in my arms, literally. We were just finishing up an episode of our show we started watching toge...
Had the girl, was gonna kiss the girl, girl had to leave, didn't get to kiss the girl, don't know if I will see the girl again, don't know what to do. Damnit.<|endoftext|>
SUBREDDIT: r/legaladvice TITLE: [Warner Robins, GA] Can my landlord enforce an automatic renewal clause on my lease agreement? POST: I have a lease agreement ending October 26th for my apartment. The landlord requires 60 days advance notice of ending the lease or moving out and I only gave the landlord 45 days. They ...
My landlord is trying to say I owe them money beyond the terms of my lease using an out-of-date automatic renewal clause.<|endoftext|>
SUBREDDIT: r/AskReddit TITLE: Ex that wants to stay in contact... (sorry for the repost) POST: Ook, uhm I don't really have any friends left in my old city. With the ones i do have left i really don't ask them for there help or opinion about anything to do with career or relationship. For the simple fact they don't k...
Ex messaged me saying she wants to be friends, i said sure, she hasnt messaged back... Is she trolling or am i stupid?<|endoftext|>
SUBREDDIT: r/AskReddit TITLE: Self-Injury Question POST: Hey guys, when I was younger I went through some emotional trauma, and ended up cutting myself quite alot. I've got 40 scars on my wrists, but they've mostly faded, besides the basic lines of course, and 20 on my upper arms. Those on the upper arms turned int...
Former self injurer with obvious scars needs to know how to deal with questions that any doctors might ask, and if there are any insurance implications if I tell the truth/lie.<|endoftext|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: I[18M] have feelings for a girl[18] that I used to go to school with, but I'm starting to like her best friend[18F] as well... POST: So, I've known that first girl, K, for about four years. I always thought she was cool, but I only started having these kinds of feelings for a few mon...
I have feelings for two girls, they're best friends, and I don't know how to handle being around both of them at the same time.<|endoftext|>
SUBREDDIT: r/AskReddit TITLE: Broke up with my girlfriend because she didn't feel attracted by other guys. Did I do right? POST: I've been with this girl for about 1 year. Today I told her something about a funny porn movie I've seen (that was supposed to show two naïve girls having their first experience together an...
girlfriend says she can't even watch porn or recognize a guy is handsome because of her feelings for me, I broke up with her and now I'm not so sure.<|endoftext|>
SUBREDDIT: r/self TITLE: My boss is a bully POST: I have a side-job that I work at a few hours a week, and I absolutely love what I do and love the people I work with. Being part of that community makes me happier than anything else in my life right now. The only problem is that my boss is unethical. She's not always...
I love my part-time job more than anything, but my boss bullies me (and everyone else). Not sure how to handle this.<|endoftext|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: I have slightly different relationship problem, with my brother, who I don't want him to get into bad drugs.. without him knowing that I'm trying to stop anything. POST: I think I should start with background, so you understand the type of person he is. My brother is in his early 20...
Brother already does some stuff. He doesn't know I know, I want to suppress him from doing anything as much as possible without him knowing I'm trying. Are there any tips for this? Anyone have experience?<|endoftext|>
SUBREDDIT: r/Advice TITLE: Should I quit my part-time job to go full-time as a mechanical engineering student [long read] POST: So not sure how to start but my issues are more about personal issues I'm dealing with my girlfriend and her family. How does that relate to my question? Well, I got accepted to a state univ...
I want to go full-time for mechanical engineering but highly doubt the gf's step dad will not approve of me not working.<|endoftext|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationship_advice TITLE: Advice regarding new sil wedding POST: I tried posting somewhere else but im new so i dont know what im doing. I went to my bil wedding last week. Hes been with his now wife since may of last year, got engaged a few months after and got married last week. Hes the kind of guy th...
Went to bil wedding, was hurt that i and my son were excluded so i left early. How to make thos less awkward and not ruin our relationship with my husbands family?<|endoftext|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationship_advice TITLE: [31/f] Married to [34/M] for 10 years, issue starting business together POST: I have over 15 years of experience in my field of work (web programming and website building, I started when I was about 14 yrs old in this business) and I am currently the sole earner using that expe...
DH does not take my advice, even though I have years of experience in that field. Treat him like any other client?<|endoftext|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: I [19/M] need advice about my girlfriend [17/F] and her friend [17/F] POST: For sake of clarity my girlfriend's name will be Bella. And her friend will be Claire. I dated my girlfriend for about 7 months and then we sort of broke it off. After a few months her friend Claire and ...
I date GF. We break up. Her friend begins to like me. I get back with GF she finds out. Now she feels terrible and I can't do anything to help her.<|endoftext|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: Me [21F] unsure about [35M] POST: He and I met this past September in a University class. He found me via the class Twitter and started Tweeting me. Tweets turned into personal messages, personal messages turned into getting coffee. We've gotten coffee twice, second time he refused t...
Me [21F] falling for [35M] and unsure about his feelings towards me. We've become close friends over the span of late September to now.<|endoftext|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: My boyfriend (M23) and I (F23) are planning an engagement, but dealing with some resentment from another bride(F30) in his family POST: My boyfriend (23) and I (23) have been together for four years. We are planning a wedding at this point, and are "unofficially engaged", in that he ...
My boyfriend's future SIL is upset we are getting engaged within two months of her wedding, but my family member moves across an ocean prior to that. I want to smooth out the situation.<|endoftext|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: Me [33 F] and my husband [32 M] were separated, decided to reconcile but he wants to remain friends with a girl he dated. POST: Hey guys! Please help! My husband and I were separated for almost two years. It took awhile to get myself away from him enough to get space and try to g...
Bottom line is, while we were separated he dated someone. Now that we are trying to reconcile, they want to remain friends. Is this a bad idea, or should I get over the past and be ok with it?<|endoftext|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: My girlfriend (18/F) of 1 year does not allow me (18/M) to say I that I love her, or even discuss the topic of love. POST: My girlfriend and I have been dating for almost exactly a year, and we had discussed being in a relationship months prior. Several times I have brought up the to...
Girlfriend of 1 year doesn't want me to say I love her, doesn't want to say she loves me, not allowed to talk about it with her.<|endoftext|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: I [17m] am having trouble figuring out what to do with girlfriend's [16f] strict uncles that are holding onto her past. POST: My girlfriend and I have secretly been dating now for a bit - about a month and a half- and we have gotten as far as kissing. We have been discussing and we a...
Girlfriends sexual past is making it hard for us to progress in our relationships and don't know how to proceed.<|endoftext|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: I think my [28/M] girlfriend [26/F] might be completely void of empathy. Please read this conversation and let me know your thoughts. POST: Long story short, I'm pretty sure my girlfriend is incapable of showing empathy, and if she does, it's very shallow. I think I need more out of ...
Not sure if my girlfriend has enough empathy in her personality for my liking. Please let me know your thoughts on this conversation that just happened.<|endoftext|>
SUBREDDIT: r/AskReddit TITLE: Reddit, I don't know what to do. POST: I need your help Reddit. I was recently in a car accident where the other driver was at fault. They turned through a stopped lane of traffic turning into a parking lot and hit me in the second lane. Their insurance agency accepted fault for the acc...
American Family Insurance is screwing me with a $300 bill for rental insurance that was needed due to their client hitting my car.<|endoftext|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: Me [26 M] with my girlfriend [22 F] 5 months. She hid pictures of us on FB. Questioned why and then she broke up with me. POST: So I had one picture of me and my ex that I uploaded to FB after NYE. It's the only photo we had together on any social media. She ended up hiding the pic, ...
Girlfriend of 5 months left me over one argument. I think she's still in contact with her ex. Should I call the guy and just have a conversation, or is that crazy?<|endoftext|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationship_advice TITLE: [24/m] I had a first date with a girl [23/f] and really hit it off. She wasn't sure about us. Should I pursue her? POST: So I met this girl on an online dating site. We were texting for about a week and she was really interested. Then we met for our first date and it went great...
Met a girl online, she said it wouldn't work, I think we are perfect for each other. What do I do?<|endoftext|>
SUBREDDIT: r/AskReddit TITLE: Why is it that when OBL was killed America's youth was celebrating in the streets, but when Seal Team Six and a total of 38 special forces servicemen were killed when their Chinook was shot down, America's youth doesn't even mourn the loss? POST: Honestly, fuck the MSM for not giving thi...
If people put as much effort into mourning death as they did celebrating it, we might have a legitimate anti war movement.<|endoftext|>
SUBREDDIT: r/tifu TITLE: TIFU by leading my entire school in the wrong direction POST: First some background information: I go to a school that has both a middle school and high school. Every other week there is an entire school assembly where both the middle school and high school pack into the theater for announcem...
Made almost every single student and teacher in the school go to the wrong place in the school and caused people to be 20 minutes later for the next class<|endoftext|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationship_advice TITLE: I'm not looking for love, and neither is my email address. POST: Background: Back in 2004, I locked down my gmail account simply as my name (an adult move wise beyond my years), and as I got older I believed I had won the gmail lottery given that both my names are so common. Ho...
You're not ready to find love until you find your own email/name. I did it for your own damn good!<|endoftext|>
SUBREDDIT: r/self TITLE: I did great today, C-Section in 37 seconds!! POST: My nurse just told me that the last emergency c-section only took 37 seconds really proud of myself and the team, What a great day :D wooha TL;DR:
it was a case of cord prolapse , and 37 seconds indicates time from incision to the baby being out of the uterus<|endoftext|>
SUBREDDIT: r/offmychest TITLE: It hurts, it just hurts... POST: As this subreddit says, I have to get this off my chest, I'm not really willing to tell this to my family or to any friend, as it may just sound ridiculous. I dated a girl like 2 years ago, but we of course ended breaking up. I don't how to put this, sh...
I was in love with a girl who dumped me, I was starting to forget her until I saw picture of her with her new boyfriend.<|endoftext|>
SUBREDDIT: r/cats TITLE: Young, live alone. Should I get a Cat? POST: I've had a cat since I was a child. She was incredibly awkward and impossible to walk up to (due to some trauma experienced as a kitten), but I still loved her a lot. Unfortunately, the cat has moved to Brussels with my mother and her partner, when...
live alone, juggle having a job and attending university classes as well as a lot of parties, live in the city. Should I/can I get a cat?<|endoftext|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: I (31m) am going to break up with my girlfriend (24f) and she isn't going to see it coming POST: We've been dating 2 years, and have been drifting apart for the last 6 months or do since she moved about an hour and a half away. But in reality I've been unsure about this relationship...
been with someone 2 years. It's not working, she doesn't know. Want to gently break up with her and need advice.<|endoftext|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: I [23F] have been acting as therapist for my two friends [23F & 22M]. How to tell them it's my turn to have a shoulder to cry on? POST: I have a small but close-knit group of friends that stick together through everything. But I feel like I'm being taken advantage of emotionally by m...
Emotionally drained by my friend's problems. How do I approach them about reciprocating and attending to my emotional needs as well?<|endoftext|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: My fiancé never seems to want to have sex anymore. POST: Recently, I (24m) have been trying to face the issue of my fiancé (25f) not wanting to have sex. First I want to note that NO she isn't cheating. This is something other than infidelity. Also, we recently got engaged and we a...
Fiancé doesn't seem to want sex, pleasures herself often, gets annoyed when I try and talk to her about the issue. <|endoftext|>
SUBREDDIT: r/AskReddit TITLE: My friend is in danger. What should I do to help? POST: Okay, I'm pretty young, barely in high school. I have a group of friends that includes a guy (who will be referred to as X) that isn't quite right... His view of reality and morals is pretty warped. I also have a female friend (Y) w...
My friend and perhaps others are in danger of being sexually assaulted. Should we get the suspected assaulter removed before it happens and how should we do it?<|endoftext|>
SUBREDDIT: r/dating_advice TITLE: [22m] asking a girl out by text/facebook? POST: There's this girl that I see semi-regularly (every week or 2 weeks), we get on super well and I really like her. I'm pretty sure she likes me too. Because of random circumstances we won't be in the same place at the same time again for...
havent seen a girl for like a week and might not see her again for few months, want to ask her out. Is text/fb ok?<|endoftext|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: Me [30 M], my mom [67 F] wants her and her BF [65 M] to move into my house for 4 months, before they move out of state. POST: She already bought a house in another state, and is only staying now to wait for my sister to have her baby. She wants to start renting her house here, to sta...
My mom can be shitty, and I don't trust the BF, but she is offering great compensation, and will probably be really pissed if I say no.<|endoftext|>
SUBREDDIT: r/Advice TITLE: Finish university or "start" my own life? POST: The scenario is the following: I [24M] have a semester left of uni which I consider pretty useless so I just want to finish it and get it out the way with the diploma in my hand. On the other hand since I'm still living at home and I feel very...
Should I finish university first and wait till I have the time to get a 9-5 or start my own business, just bury my head in the sand and let things run their course - <|endoftext|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: Me [18 M] with my GF?[16 F] duration 3.5 months, switching schools due to college, girl wants to end it with just being friends POST: Be sure to explain in detail with line breaks. MMe and this girl has been going out for about 3.5 months. It statred out with hanging out with frien...
Mandatory summary/question! Girl afraid of getting close over the summer because i will be switching schools. But will be in the same city and not moving.<|endoftext|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: I [18M] have to make a tough decision about gf [16F] POST: I've been dating my girlfriend for 7 months now, and it's been amazing, we haven't gotten into a major fight, we share the same interests, everything is going perfect right now. The problem is that I am (most likely) leaving ...
I have to decide about my future with my girlfriend, whether I should break up with her now, try long distance, or wait until the end of summer (very last chance I get to see her) and end it there...<|endoftext|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: Me [22M] with my girlfriend [22F] just became long distance. How do I transition properly? POST: A little bit of backstory behind my current relationship, I've known my current girlfriend for maybe 10 months and have dated her for about 6 of them. For the 3 or 4 months that we first ...
Since we've become long distance, my girlfriend and I have had trouble communicating and I've had trouble worrying about her. What can I do to help my transition into long distance?<|endoftext|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: I [21F] don't know where I stand with a friend [21F] who avoided me for many months then contacted me out of the blue. Non-Romantic POST: Hi Reddit, if you guys could provide me with some fresh perspective on a friendship I would be so grateful. I'll try to keep this short. I met a ...
Someone I considered a close friend abruptly changed their behavior toward me, stopped answering texts, etc., but still has time for mutual friends. Contacted me out of the blue but I am confused about how I should act.<|endoftext|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: Me [18 M] with my gf [17F] broke up after 2 months and I'm confused POST: I know this is not a super long relationship by any means, but I was really thinking it was going to last longer. Another part is that she was the first girl I've ever had close to me and it stings.   The rea...
I just broke up with my first gf and am not sure what to do from here. I would like to remain with her or maybe in the future but am unsure.<|endoftext|>
SUBREDDIT: r/legaladvice TITLE: I need help, I just got a letter saying my license is suspended. POST: I got a ticket for trying to go into a bar underage while at college in New York State. The police officer said it was the equivalent of a traffic violation and I'd just receive a fine and no further punishment. The...
I got a ticket in New York and was told only consequence was a fine, now Mass is suspending my license. Please help.<|endoftext|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: Me (25/F) asked out by OkCupid guy (24/M). Lots in common. He's looking forward to it then bails and I never hear from him again. WTF?! Theories? POST: Hey guys, A guy messaged me saying we had a lot in common (which we totally do!) and referenced some of my favorite movies, I was ...
Guy I had a lot in common with and seemed repeatedly enthusiastic about meeting up asked to reschedule and never replied to my response.<|endoftext|>
SUBREDDIT: r/tifu TITLE: TIFU by trying to make my brother leave the house for a day POST: **Back story:** So I got a brother, who's a huge jerk. He's a constant dick to everyone in the house and will always pick on me if he gets the chance. He'll even yell and beat my parents if he doesn't get his way. So yesterday...
Told my brother to leave for a day for money, decided it wasn't worth it and let him stay, now he's gonna bring his gang member friends on Friday.<|endoftext|>
SUBREDDIT: r/AskReddit TITLE: Should I move in with three girls? (I'm a guy) POST: I'm a male college student who's lease is up at the end of the school year, and I'll need to find a new place to live for the upcoming year. A female friend of mine and her 2 roommates(also girls) are looking for a 4th roommate for th...
I'm a guy that found a nice house, reasonable rent, with three girls, girlfriend is apprehensive about the idea. Move in or find a different place?<|endoftext|>
SUBREDDIT: r/AskReddit TITLE: Is there any software to record sound levels (decibels) with my mic without recording the actual audio? POST: Me and my family are in the process of selling our house. I am moving to Uni and my parents are moving abroad, however, we are being hindered by one of our neighbors. This neig...
Neighbor is an unpleasant man, I want to record audio level data without an actual audio recording so that I can provide evidence contrary to his accusation that we are too noisy.<|endoftext|>
SUBREDDIT: r/college TITLE: Developing a "big spike" in high school POST: Hello /r/college, I've started to look into the college application process as a high school freshman mainly from the influence of my HS Senior brother who is currently going through the process of applying to colleges. I saw some guides on ho...
I am a freshman who wants to develop "big spike" but fears computer science and electronics are too common to make me unique.<|endoftext|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationship_advice TITLE: Expensive Gift From An SO While I'm Basically A Bum POST: My SO and I's anniversary is coming up and he wants to get me an extravagant gift. The thing is, I'm unemployed and wouldn't be able to provide with a gift of equal value. I know these type of things shouldn't be based o...
SO wants to get me a ring (not engagement or promise) but I'm uncomfortable with the notion. Anyone been through this? What did you do? Help me get over or at least come to terms with this?<|endoftext|>
SUBREDDIT: r/AskReddit TITLE: How can I read/write a 3D modeling.obj file? POST: I'm building a three-dimensional scanner for my senior undergraduate project. I am writing software that calculates all of the vertices x,y,z coordinates and keeps track of all edges. I've also exported a current face model I had made to...
How do you write a .obj file with a text editor if you know the x,y,z coordinates of your vertices and which vertices are attached by edges?<|endoftext|>