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SUBREDDIT: r/AskReddit
TITLE: Guys of Reddit: I need an answer
POST: I have been pseudo dating a great friend of mine for two years. We were dumb and continued this confusing "dating" even though our paths in life did not seem to match up. Although we forced our paths together, we were confident that they would match... | Pseudo boyfriend of 2 years tells me he doesn't see us having a future but doesn't want me dating anyone else | Great friend told me that he doesn't see us having a future together and that he doesn't want me to date anyone else. Is that okay? |
SUBREDDIT: r/AskReddit
TITLE: Guys of Reddit: I need an answer
POST: I have been pseudo dating a great friend of mine for two years. We were dumb and continued this confusing "dating" even though our paths in life did not seem to match up. Although we forced our paths together, we were confident that they would match... | I was told that I should stop trying to be friends with my friend so that we don't have any sort of future together. Is that normal? | friend no longer wants to be friends because he can't picture us dating. |
SUBREDDIT: r/AskReddit
TITLE: Guys of Reddit: I need an answer
POST: I have been pseudo dating a great friend of mine for two years. We were dumb and continued this confusing "dating" even though our paths in life did not seem to match up. Although we forced our paths together, we were confident that they would match... | Pseudo boyfriend of 2 years tells me he doesn't see us having a future but doesn't want me dating anyone else | friend no longer wants to be friends because he can't picture us dating. |
SUBREDDIT: r/AskReddit
TITLE: Guys of Reddit: I need an answer
POST: I have been pseudo dating a great friend of mine for two years. We were dumb and continued this confusing "dating" even though our paths in life did not seem to match up. Although we forced our paths together, we were confident that they would match... | Great friend told me that he doesn't see us having a future together and that he doesn't want me to date anyone else. Is that okay? | I was told that I should stop trying to be friends with my friend so that we don't have any sort of future together. Is that normal? |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: Recently I[26m] have been developing feelings for a classmate[30f]which is weighing on my relationship with my girlfriend[26f]. how do i handle this situation?
POST: i have never had any interest in anyone other than my girlfriend until i met this girl and now it seems like its expos... | recently i[26m] have developed feelings for a classmate[30f]which is weighing on my relationship with my girlfriend[26f]. how do i handle this situation? | I am developing feelings for a classmate(30f) how do i handle this situation? |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: Recently I[26m] have been developing feelings for a classmate[30f]which is weighing on my relationship with my girlfriend[26f]. how do i handle this situation?
POST: i have never had any interest in anyone other than my girlfriend until i met this girl and now it seems like its expos... | !: have feeling for a new girl that is making my current relationship seem shitty. | I have feelings for a girl IRL and i dont want to break up with my gf but i do feel guilty for cheating on her. |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: Recently I[26m] have been developing feelings for a classmate[30f]which is weighing on my relationship with my girlfriend[26f]. how do i handle this situation?
POST: i have never had any interest in anyone other than my girlfriend until i met this girl and now it seems like its expos... | recently i[26m] have developed feelings for a classmate[30f]which is weighing on my relationship with my girlfriend[26f]. how do i handle this situation? | I have feelings for a girl IRL and i dont want to break up with my gf but i do feel guilty for cheating on her. |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: Recently I[26m] have been developing feelings for a classmate[30f]which is weighing on my relationship with my girlfriend[26f]. how do i handle this situation?
POST: i have never had any interest in anyone other than my girlfriend until i met this girl and now it seems like its expos... | !: have feeling for a new girl that is making my current relationship seem shitty. | I am developing feelings for a classmate(30f) how do i handle this situation? |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: Screwed things up, advice?
POST: So I met a girl before winter break,(we will call her 'Sarah') (we are both in college, but we are 2 hours away from each other) and everything went great since we both had feelings for each other. When I left to head back to my school, she told me t... | I met a girl, had feelings for her, then broke up with her and she started talking to me on facebook and I'm confused. | I still like a girl who likes me, but I haven't talked to her in 2 weeks, and she's told me to wait a week before talking to her. |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: Screwed things up, advice?
POST: So I met a girl before winter break,(we will call her 'Sarah') (we are both in college, but we are 2 hours away from each other) and everything went great since we both had feelings for each other. When I left to head back to my school, she told me t... | Met a girl, everything went great, she didn't know if she wanted a relationship/not, I told her about her friend, she liked me as well and told me to wait a week and see if i would choose at the end.
When should I do this? | I still like a girl who likes me, but I haven't talked to her in 2 weeks, and she's told me to wait a week before talking to her. |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: Screwed things up, advice?
POST: So I met a girl before winter break,(we will call her 'Sarah') (we are both in college, but we are 2 hours away from each other) and everything went great since we both had feelings for each other. When I left to head back to my school, she told me t... | Met a girl I liked before break, talked to another during break, now I have feelings for the 1st girl and none for the second. 1st girl knows about the other one, and now 'just wants to be friends' but I want something more than that. Now I don't know how to start talking to her again, and I'm confused. | Met a girl, everything went great, she didn't know if she wanted a relationship/not, I told her about her friend, she liked me as well and told me to wait a week and see if i would choose at the end.
When should I do this? |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: Screwed things up, advice?
POST: So I met a girl before winter break,(we will call her 'Sarah') (we are both in college, but we are 2 hours away from each other) and everything went great since we both had feelings for each other. When I left to head back to my school, she told me t... | I met a girl, had feelings for her, then broke up with her and she started talking to me on facebook and I'm confused. | Met a girl I liked before break, talked to another during break, now I have feelings for the 1st girl and none for the second. 1st girl knows about the other one, and now 'just wants to be friends' but I want something more than that. Now I don't know how to start talking to her again, and I'm confused. |
SUBREDDIT: r/jobs
TITLE: [Advice] 31yo software engineer wants to ask for a raise
POST: Hello, I have been working for a bank as SW engineer for almost 4yrs. I have international experiences, a master degree in engineering with highest marks and I had a good working experience in private research before joining this ... | I was hired for 28 K eur/yr gross, I asked for a raise because underpaid and I got 29.7 K eur/yr. Now, after 1.5 yrs I want ask for a better raise. | I am a software engineer, being paid 29.700 eur/year gross, and I am not getting it, as my coworkers earn many more. My manager said that I overcame my expectations. |
SUBREDDIT: r/jobs
TITLE: [Advice] 31yo software engineer wants to ask for a raise
POST: Hello, I have been working for a bank as SW engineer for almost 4yrs. I have international experiences, a master degree in engineering with highest marks and I had a good working experience in private research before joining this ... | I was hired for 28 K eur/yr gross, I asked for a raise because underpaid and I got 29.7 K eur/yr. Now, after 1.5 yrs I want ask for a better raise. | I am asking for a raise to 35.000 eur gross, but I am not earning enough to support myself and my family. |
SUBREDDIT: r/jobs
TITLE: [Advice] 31yo software engineer wants to ask for a raise
POST: Hello, I have been working for a bank as SW engineer for almost 4yrs. I have international experiences, a master degree in engineering with highest marks and I had a good working experience in private research before joining this ... | I was hired as a software engineer, was promised a raise. I asked for it, but got a promotion rather than the raise I wanted. Now I am thinking to ask again for a raise, but I am not sure if this is the right thing to do. | I am asking for a raise to 35.000 eur gross, but I am not earning enough to support myself and my family. |
SUBREDDIT: r/jobs
TITLE: [Advice] 31yo software engineer wants to ask for a raise
POST: Hello, I have been working for a bank as SW engineer for almost 4yrs. I have international experiences, a master degree in engineering with highest marks and I had a good working experience in private research before joining this ... | I was hired as a software engineer, was promised a raise. I asked for it, but got a promotion rather than the raise I wanted. Now I am thinking to ask again for a raise, but I am not sure if this is the right thing to do. | I am a software engineer, being paid 29.700 eur/year gross, and I am not getting it, as my coworkers earn many more. My manager said that I overcame my expectations. |
SUBREDDIT: r/pettyrevenge
TITLE: Raccoon revenge
POST: Obligatory "first post on this sub", "this is more my dad's story not mine", and "this happened years ago" thing. Now on to what you want to read.
At my old house, my family had a bird feeder in the backyard, mounted on a wooden post. We'd used it for years, bu... | Dad put Tabasco on birdseed, the raccoon ate the seed, birds ate the rest of the birdseed no problem | Dad threw Tabasco sauce on the top of the bird feeder to make it eat its fill.
PS: The raccoon didn't eat the birdseed. It just ate the seed and left. |
SUBREDDIT: r/pettyrevenge
TITLE: Raccoon revenge
POST: Obligatory "first post on this sub", "this is more my dad's story not mine", and "this happened years ago" thing. Now on to what you want to read.
At my old house, my family had a bird feeder in the backyard, mounted on a wooden post. We'd used it for years, bu... | A raccoon stole our bird seed, so we fed it hot sauce. It didn't like hot sauce. | Raccoons eat birdseed, so dad does Tabasco sauce to scare the beast off. |
SUBREDDIT: r/pettyrevenge
TITLE: Raccoon revenge
POST: Obligatory "first post on this sub", "this is more my dad's story not mine", and "this happened years ago" thing. Now on to what you want to read.
At my old house, my family had a bird feeder in the backyard, mounted on a wooden post. We'd used it for years, bu... | A raccoon stole our bird seed, so we fed it hot sauce. It didn't like hot sauce. | Dad put Tabasco on birdseed, the raccoon ate the seed, birds ate the rest of the birdseed no problem |
SUBREDDIT: r/pettyrevenge
TITLE: Raccoon revenge
POST: Obligatory "first post on this sub", "this is more my dad's story not mine", and "this happened years ago" thing. Now on to what you want to read.
At my old house, my family had a bird feeder in the backyard, mounted on a wooden post. We'd used it for years, bu... | Dad threw Tabasco sauce on the top of the bird feeder to make it eat its fill.
PS: The raccoon didn't eat the birdseed. It just ate the seed and left. | Raccoons eat birdseed, so dad does Tabasco sauce to scare the beast off. |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: How do I [16 F] pretend my dad [68 M] adopted me/isn't my real dad?
POST: Today has been the last straw. Just to give you some background info on what he looks like, he's about 68 (I'm only 16), big pot belly, also missing all his teeth.
Now before you start flaming at me, saying tha... | My dad is a fucking asshole, does he always do this kind of shit? | My father is a terrible father figure.
EDIT: I am not in a relationship with his daughter. |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: How do I [16 F] pretend my dad [68 M] adopted me/isn't my real dad?
POST: Today has been the last straw. Just to give you some background info on what he looks like, he's about 68 (I'm only 16), big pot belly, also missing all his teeth.
Now before you start flaming at me, saying tha... | My father is a terrible father figure.
EDIT: I am not in a relationship with his daughter. | My dad is a douche. Help me make him stop.
EDIT: I'm sorry for the bad english, I'm on a phone right now. |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: How do I [16 F] pretend my dad [68 M] adopted me/isn't my real dad?
POST: Today has been the last straw. Just to give you some background info on what he looks like, he's about 68 (I'm only 16), big pot belly, also missing all his teeth.
Now before you start flaming at me, saying tha... | My dad is a fucking asshole, does he always do this kind of shit? | Dad makes big scene in front of whole school, the teacher calls him by [My name]'s father, so everyone knows he's my dad. How do I explain to people he's not my dad? I want to say he adopted me but how would I explain this? I wish I could say I'm making this up but I'm not, please help, I'm now being teased/bullied f... |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: How do I [16 F] pretend my dad [68 M] adopted me/isn't my real dad?
POST: Today has been the last straw. Just to give you some background info on what he looks like, he's about 68 (I'm only 16), big pot belly, also missing all his teeth.
Now before you start flaming at me, saying tha... | My dad is a douche. Help me make him stop.
EDIT: I'm sorry for the bad english, I'm on a phone right now. | Dad makes big scene in front of whole school, the teacher calls him by [My name]'s father, so everyone knows he's my dad. How do I explain to people he's not my dad? I want to say he adopted me but how would I explain this? I wish I could say I'm making this up but I'm not, please help, I'm now being teased/bullied f... |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: Do you think its inappropriate for a girl to say in front of her boyfriend that another guy in the room has a nice smile?
POST: I was hanging out with my buddy and he had this couple over that I have never really hung out with. After an hour of being there the girl seemed to very int... | I think a girl I was hanging out with made an inappropriate comment to me in front of her boyfriend | girlfriend jokingly said nice smile to her boyfriend in front of him. He was getting really annoyed and got angry. |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: Do you think its inappropriate for a girl to say in front of her boyfriend that another guy in the room has a nice smile?
POST: I was hanging out with my buddy and he had this couple over that I have never really hung out with. After an hour of being there the girl seemed to very int... | Girl tells guy I have a nice smile and it just seems too nice on her part. | Me and my buddy got a date to a restaurant, girl in front of him said she had a nice smile. Him and I have no idea how to respond to this. |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: Do you think its inappropriate for a girl to say in front of her boyfriend that another guy in the room has a nice smile?
POST: I was hanging out with my buddy and he had this couple over that I have never really hung out with. After an hour of being there the girl seemed to very int... | Girl tells guy I have a nice smile and it just seems too nice on her part. | girlfriend jokingly said nice smile to her boyfriend in front of him. He was getting really annoyed and got angry. |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: Do you think its inappropriate for a girl to say in front of her boyfriend that another guy in the room has a nice smile?
POST: I was hanging out with my buddy and he had this couple over that I have never really hung out with. After an hour of being there the girl seemed to very int... | I think a girl I was hanging out with made an inappropriate comment to me in front of her boyfriend | Me and my buddy got a date to a restaurant, girl in front of him said she had a nice smile. Him and I have no idea how to respond to this. |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: How can I know if my uni classmate [23F], with a boyfriend, is leading me [24M] on?
POST: Basically, this girl I met at my uni four months ago is amazing. The problem is, even though we have many things in common and great chemistry, she has a boyfriend.
Now, the way she acts, she m... | how can you know if a girl likes you or is just toying with you, IF she has a boyfriend? | I have a crush on a girl who's been teasing me and making fun of me for a while now, and I don't know if she's being nice. Help! |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: How can I know if my uni classmate [23F], with a boyfriend, is leading me [24M] on?
POST: Basically, this girl I met at my uni four months ago is amazing. The problem is, even though we have many things in common and great chemistry, she has a boyfriend.
Now, the way she acts, she m... | how can you know if a girl likes you or is just toying with you, IF she has a boyfriend? | how do I figure out what my friends are really up to, and if a girl is being friendly/flirty with you and reacts well to you teasing her, how can you know what she really wants? |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: How can I know if my uni classmate [23F], with a boyfriend, is leading me [24M] on?
POST: Basically, this girl I met at my uni four months ago is amazing. The problem is, even though we have many things in common and great chemistry, she has a boyfriend.
Now, the way she acts, she m... | how do I figure out what my friends are really up to, and if a girl is being friendly/flirty with you and reacts well to you teasing her, how can you know what she really wants? | Girl I've been crushing on has a boyfriend. How do I know if she's the one? How can I figure out what she really wants? |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: How can I know if my uni classmate [23F], with a boyfriend, is leading me [24M] on?
POST: Basically, this girl I met at my uni four months ago is amazing. The problem is, even though we have many things in common and great chemistry, she has a boyfriend.
Now, the way she acts, she m... | Girl I've been crushing on has a boyfriend. How do I know if she's the one? How can I figure out what she really wants? | I have a crush on a girl who's been teasing me and making fun of me for a while now, and I don't know if she's being nice. Help! |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationship_advice
TITLE: help. 31 y/o woman. i'm not in love with my husband of one year. he's the best person I've ever met, although he has severe anger problems.
POST: i want out but don't know how to leave. he lived as a gay man from 18 to 32. then he married, then divorced, and we've been together... | i don't know how to leave my husband of one year, who is extremely angry. | i'm so unhappy in my marriage that i want to cheat. its starting to get to me... |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationship_advice
TITLE: help. 31 y/o woman. i'm not in love with my husband of one year. he's the best person I've ever met, although he has severe anger problems.
POST: i want out but don't know how to leave. he lived as a gay man from 18 to 32. then he married, then divorced, and we've been together... | i don't know how to leave my husband of one year, who is extremely angry. | we're miserable together but he won't do anything about it. i'm struggling to know what's the right move. |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationship_advice
TITLE: help. 31 y/o woman. i'm not in love with my husband of one year. he's the best person I've ever met, although he has severe anger problems.
POST: i want out but don't know how to leave. he lived as a gay man from 18 to 32. then he married, then divorced, and we've been together... | we're miserable together but he won't do anything about it. i'm struggling to know what's the right move. | in a relationship with a man, don't want to break up, but i don't know how. |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationship_advice
TITLE: help. 31 y/o woman. i'm not in love with my husband of one year. he's the best person I've ever met, although he has severe anger problems.
POST: i want out but don't know how to leave. he lived as a gay man from 18 to 32. then he married, then divorced, and we've been together... | i'm so unhappy in my marriage that i want to cheat. its starting to get to me... | in a relationship with a man, don't want to break up, but i don't know how. |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: I [26 M] get annoyed with my girlfriend [24 F] when waiting for a mid convo text for and hour only to find out she's posting away on fbook or other social media.
POST: I'm in a long distance relationship of almost 3 months. I can text at work but my SO can't. This is fine except whe... | I get annoyed that my girlfriend is posting on fbook or other social media when I can't text. Is there valid reason to be annoyed? | girlfriend is posting away on fbook which is annoying me. |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: I [26 M] get annoyed with my girlfriend [24 F] when waiting for a mid convo text for and hour only to find out she's posting away on fbook or other social media.
POST: I'm in a long distance relationship of almost 3 months. I can text at work but my SO can't. This is fine except whe... | GF stops texting mid convo to get on fb for 15-30 mins. Should I be frustrated with this? | Girlfriend is posting on fb, is it justified to be annoyed? |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: I [26 M] get annoyed with my girlfriend [24 F] when waiting for a mid convo text for and hour only to find out she's posting away on fbook or other social media.
POST: I'm in a long distance relationship of almost 3 months. I can text at work but my SO can't. This is fine except whe... | Girlfriend is posting on fb, is it justified to be annoyed? | girlfriend is posting away on fbook which is annoying me. |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: I [26 M] get annoyed with my girlfriend [24 F] when waiting for a mid convo text for and hour only to find out she's posting away on fbook or other social media.
POST: I'm in a long distance relationship of almost 3 months. I can text at work but my SO can't. This is fine except whe... | GF stops texting mid convo to get on fb for 15-30 mins. Should I be frustrated with this? | I get annoyed that my girlfriend is posting on fbook or other social media when I can't text. Is there valid reason to be annoyed? |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: My (F/19) father (M/45). I think he is depressed and I want to help him.
POST: My father lives in a town one hour and a half of car drive away from the city where I study so for the last year we were only seeing each other on weekends.
Last week when I called him to tell him I am co... | My depressed father wants to get out of his depressed life but he wants to do it alone. I am worried about him. | My father is depressed and I want to help him but he wants to do it alone.
EDIT: added some stuff |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: My (F/19) father (M/45). I think he is depressed and I want to help him.
POST: My father lives in a town one hour and a half of car drive away from the city where I study so for the last year we were only seeing each other on weekends.
Last week when I called him to tell him I am co... | My father hates his life and he wants to change it but won't let me help him. Any similar stories? Any advice? | My father is depressed and I want to help him but he wants to do it alone.
EDIT: added some stuff |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: My (F/19) father (M/45). I think he is depressed and I want to help him.
POST: My father lives in a town one hour and a half of car drive away from the city where I study so for the last year we were only seeing each other on weekends.
Last week when I called him to tell him I am co... | My father hates his life and he wants to change it but won't let me help him. Any similar stories? Any advice? | I want to help my (F/19) father (M/45) but he says he wants to do it alone. |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: My (F/19) father (M/45). I think he is depressed and I want to help him.
POST: My father lives in a town one hour and a half of car drive away from the city where I study so for the last year we were only seeing each other on weekends.
Last week when I called him to tell him I am co... | My depressed father wants to get out of his depressed life but he wants to do it alone. I am worried about him. | I want to help my (F/19) father (M/45) but he says he wants to do it alone. |
SUBREDDIT: r/AskReddit
TITLE: How do you get by being largely alone?
POST: I'm 23, I'm bipolar, and the only person i talk to anymore is my fiance'. I used to have a nicely sized group of friends, but I was the only one who would ever call or text them to see what was going on. Realising this I stopped calling & text... | I'm depressed and lonely, how do I make friends? | how do you keep sane during long periods of solitude(or very close to solitude) |
SUBREDDIT: r/AskReddit
TITLE: How do you get by being largely alone?
POST: I'm 23, I'm bipolar, and the only person i talk to anymore is my fiance'. I used to have a nicely sized group of friends, but I was the only one who would ever call or text them to see what was going on. Realising this I stopped calling & text... | I'm 23 with bipolar, I'm lonely, I'm just not sure how to make friends. | I'm a lonely autistic person, how do I get by? |
SUBREDDIT: r/AskReddit
TITLE: How do you get by being largely alone?
POST: I'm 23, I'm bipolar, and the only person i talk to anymore is my fiance'. I used to have a nicely sized group of friends, but I was the only one who would ever call or text them to see what was going on. Realising this I stopped calling & text... | I'm a lonely autistic person, how do I get by? | how do you keep sane during long periods of solitude(or very close to solitude) |
SUBREDDIT: r/AskReddit
TITLE: How do you get by being largely alone?
POST: I'm 23, I'm bipolar, and the only person i talk to anymore is my fiance'. I used to have a nicely sized group of friends, but I was the only one who would ever call or text them to see what was going on. Realising this I stopped calling & text... | I'm 23 with bipolar, I'm lonely, I'm just not sure how to make friends. | I'm depressed and lonely, how do I make friends? |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: I [23 M] am dealing with the continual repercussions of being raised by an abusive mother. Dating life in particular.
POST: My mom and I have never gotten along. I was her first child, and I was subject to a lot of verbal abuse, minor physical abuse, and constant manipulation etc whi... | I was raised by an abusive mother, and I am trying to deal with my insecurities and self sabotage. | Need help with trust and confidence issues. |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: I [23 M] am dealing with the continual repercussions of being raised by an abusive mother. Dating life in particular.
POST: My mom and I have never gotten along. I was her first child, and I was subject to a lot of verbal abuse, minor physical abuse, and constant manipulation etc whi... | An abusive mother and predominantly negative experiences with dating have resulted in my distorted view of women. How can I overcome my history and introverted nature to approach people and experience trust and closeness in a relationship? | Need help with trust and confidence issues. |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: I [23 M] am dealing with the continual repercussions of being raised by an abusive mother. Dating life in particular.
POST: My mom and I have never gotten along. I was her first child, and I was subject to a lot of verbal abuse, minor physical abuse, and constant manipulation etc whi... | An abusive mother and predominantly negative experiences with dating have resulted in my distorted view of women. How can I overcome my history and introverted nature to approach people and experience trust and closeness in a relationship? | I grew up in an extremely abusive home and have never been able to fully rebuild my trust. How do I start trusting again? |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: I [23 M] am dealing with the continual repercussions of being raised by an abusive mother. Dating life in particular.
POST: My mom and I have never gotten along. I was her first child, and I was subject to a lot of verbal abuse, minor physical abuse, and constant manipulation etc whi... | I grew up in an extremely abusive home and have never been able to fully rebuild my trust. How do I start trusting again? | I was raised by an abusive mother, and I am trying to deal with my insecurities and self sabotage. |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: I'm (23/m) in a happy relationship, moved in with an amazing girl (24f) but feel like I wasn't independent long enough.
POST: I'll keep it short: I was living with my parents through college and had 7 months of independence between moving to the big city where I met my girlfriend, an... | do I cautiously resume being a crazy youth and miss out on The One or continue to avoid these destructive behaviors? I know this sounds stupid, but do any other young people miss out on being... Young? | My life is perfect until I stray from it. |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: I'm (23/m) in a happy relationship, moved in with an amazing girl (24f) but feel like I wasn't independent long enough.
POST: I'll keep it short: I was living with my parents through college and had 7 months of independence between moving to the big city where I met my girlfriend, an... | do I cautiously resume being a crazy youth and miss out on The One or continue to avoid these destructive behaviors? I know this sounds stupid, but do any other young people miss out on being... Young? | I miss being an independent wild driver.
EDIT: Grammar |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: I'm (23/m) in a happy relationship, moved in with an amazing girl (24f) but feel like I wasn't independent long enough.
POST: I'll keep it short: I was living with my parents through college and had 7 months of independence between moving to the big city where I met my girlfriend, an... | I feel like I'm missing out on the fun that going out to bars and parties brings, even though I'm in a happy relationship.** | My life is perfect until I stray from it. |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: I'm (23/m) in a happy relationship, moved in with an amazing girl (24f) but feel like I wasn't independent long enough.
POST: I'll keep it short: I was living with my parents through college and had 7 months of independence between moving to the big city where I met my girlfriend, an... | I feel like I'm missing out on the fun that going out to bars and parties brings, even though I'm in a happy relationship.** | I miss being an independent wild driver.
EDIT: Grammar |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: My [30's, M] wife [30's,F] wants to relocate to a more expensive city to the family's detriment
POST: My wife and I relocated around eight years ago from a large city to a regional city.
We've been very lucky here. We have two kids (3 and 1), we have paid off our home, bought an inv... | Wife adamantly wants to move. I think it would be a terrible financial decision. Wife is unhappy staying. | My wife wants the larger city and I don't know what to do. |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: My [30's, M] wife [30's,F] wants to relocate to a more expensive city to the family's detriment
POST: My wife and I relocated around eight years ago from a large city to a regional city.
We've been very lucky here. We have two kids (3 and 1), we have paid off our home, bought an inv... | My [30's,M] wife [30's,F] wants to relocate to a more expensive city to the family's detriment. We have two young children, and a house and investments. | My wife wants to move to the larger city that I moved to, and I don't know whether she is happy moving back to that city, or if I shouldn't. |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: My [30's, M] wife [30's,F] wants to relocate to a more expensive city to the family's detriment
POST: My wife and I relocated around eight years ago from a large city to a regional city.
We've been very lucky here. We have two kids (3 and 1), we have paid off our home, bought an inv... | My [30's,M] wife [30's,F] wants to relocate to a more expensive city to the family's detriment. We have two young children, and a house and investments. | My wife wants the larger city and I don't know what to do. |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: My [30's, M] wife [30's,F] wants to relocate to a more expensive city to the family's detriment
POST: My wife and I relocated around eight years ago from a large city to a regional city.
We've been very lucky here. We have two kids (3 and 1), we have paid off our home, bought an inv... | Wife adamantly wants to move. I think it would be a terrible financial decision. Wife is unhappy staying. | My wife wants to move to the larger city that I moved to, and I don't know whether she is happy moving back to that city, or if I shouldn't. |
SUBREDDIT: r/AskReddit
TITLE: What is your "I should be dead or in jail story"?
POST: I was 18, and my friend's mom let me borrow her little old Toyota pickup as long as I gave my friend a ride everyday. Sweet deal.
I lived in the middle of the Mojave desert, and my friends and I would 'flog' (fishtail, do donuts, ... | Tried to kill three girls in their bed, only one died. | should've been responsible for the death of at least one girl, but Carl Sagan was watching over me, protecting me. |
SUBREDDIT: r/AskReddit
TITLE: What is your "I should be dead or in jail story"?
POST: I was 18, and my friend's mom let me borrow her little old Toyota pickup as long as I gave my friend a ride everyday. Sweet deal.
I lived in the middle of the Mojave desert, and my friends and I would 'flog' (fishtail, do donuts, ... | I almost killed everyone in the bed when my friend and I flipped a car and we had no seats. | should've been responsible for the death of at least one girl, but Carl Sagan was watching over me, protecting me. |
SUBREDDIT: r/AskReddit
TITLE: What is your "I should be dead or in jail story"?
POST: I was 18, and my friend's mom let me borrow her little old Toyota pickup as long as I gave my friend a ride everyday. Sweet deal.
I lived in the middle of the Mojave desert, and my friends and I would 'flog' (fishtail, do donuts, ... | Tried to kill three girls in their bed, only one died. | I went fishing, flipped my truck, killed three people, got away with it. |
SUBREDDIT: r/AskReddit
TITLE: What is your "I should be dead or in jail story"?
POST: I was 18, and my friend's mom let me borrow her little old Toyota pickup as long as I gave my friend a ride everyday. Sweet deal.
I lived in the middle of the Mojave desert, and my friends and I would 'flog' (fishtail, do donuts, ... | I almost killed everyone in the bed when my friend and I flipped a car and we had no seats. | I went fishing, flipped my truck, killed three people, got away with it. |
SUBREDDIT: r/dating_advice
TITLE: I [18M] have never had a girlfriend and need help
POST: Hey guys thanks for taking the time to read this. I am a senior in high school who has never had a girlfriend. But I'm clueless and don't get it. I can make girls laugh easy and it seems like collectively they like me. I'm athle... | 18 year old male who has many generally accepted attractive qualities and looks but has never had a girlfriend through high school. Help me please! | I am smart but I don't get girls to flirt with me and lead me on. What do? How can I improve?
Thanks in advance. |
SUBREDDIT: r/dating_advice
TITLE: I [18M] have never had a girlfriend and need help
POST: Hey guys thanks for taking the time to read this. I am a senior in high school who has never had a girlfriend. But I'm clueless and don't get it. I can make girls laugh easy and it seems like collectively they like me. I'm athle... | 18 year old male who has many generally accepted attractive qualities and looks but has never had a girlfriend through high school. Help me please! | I can't seem to get girls to like me. Help? |
SUBREDDIT: r/dating_advice
TITLE: I [18M] have never had a girlfriend and need help
POST: Hey guys thanks for taking the time to read this. I am a senior in high school who has never had a girlfriend. But I'm clueless and don't get it. I can make girls laugh easy and it seems like collectively they like me. I'm athle... | I have no experience with dating and don't know how to accomplish anything. | I am smart but I don't get girls to flirt with me and lead me on. What do? How can I improve?
Thanks in advance. |
SUBREDDIT: r/dating_advice
TITLE: I [18M] have never had a girlfriend and need help
POST: Hey guys thanks for taking the time to read this. I am a senior in high school who has never had a girlfriend. But I'm clueless and don't get it. I can make girls laugh easy and it seems like collectively they like me. I'm athle... | I can't seem to get girls to like me. Help? | I have no experience with dating and don't know how to accomplish anything. |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: post from r/sex Boyfriend [26] me (female) [20]
POST: I have been dating my boyfriend for over a year and we live together. At first we had sex all the time at least once a day usually more than that. At first I lied about having an orgasm as well until I felt bad and didn't want to ... | boyfriend doesn't help with sex; I hate it. | I feel like my boyfriend doesn't give me a lot of attention or even makes fun of me when we have sex. I also have a lot of sex drive and want to make it better. |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: post from r/sex Boyfriend [26] me (female) [20]
POST: I have been dating my boyfriend for over a year and we live together. At first we had sex all the time at least once a day usually more than that. At first I lied about having an orgasm as well until I felt bad and didn't want to ... | boyfriends never made me orgasm what should I do to help our sex life | I've been having sex with my boyfriend for over a year now and I have nothing to show for it other than i'm bored and it's getting boring. I want to make our sex life better. |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: post from r/sex Boyfriend [26] me (female) [20]
POST: I have been dating my boyfriend for over a year and we live together. At first we had sex all the time at least once a day usually more than that. At first I lied about having an orgasm as well until I felt bad and didn't want to ... | boyfriend doesn't help with sex; I hate it. | I've been having sex with my boyfriend for over a year now and I have nothing to show for it other than i'm bored and it's getting boring. I want to make our sex life better. |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: post from r/sex Boyfriend [26] me (female) [20]
POST: I have been dating my boyfriend for over a year and we live together. At first we had sex all the time at least once a day usually more than that. At first I lied about having an orgasm as well until I felt bad and didn't want to ... | boyfriends never made me orgasm what should I do to help our sex life | I feel like my boyfriend doesn't give me a lot of attention or even makes fun of me when we have sex. I also have a lot of sex drive and want to make it better. |
SUBREDDIT: r/offmychest
TITLE: i fucked up with a great guy :(
POST: One night i decided to go out for a one night stand. I was by myself on my college campus at the bars when I ran into a friend. She was hammered,but she introduced me to two friends she was with. We'll call them james and matt. I was immediately a... | flirted with a really nice guy at a bar one night and developed a crush. but drunk me ended up getting walked home and fucking his dick of a friend. guilty about that, and reinforcing "nice guys finish last" stereotype. :( i'm dumb. | I fucked up a great guy's night and ruined my chances of getting laid again.
I'm sure there's been other examples of this, but this is one of the most painful ones. |
SUBREDDIT: r/offmychest
TITLE: i fucked up with a great guy :(
POST: One night i decided to go out for a one night stand. I was by myself on my college campus at the bars when I ran into a friend. She was hammered,but she introduced me to two friends she was with. We'll call them james and matt. I was immediately a... | flirted with a really nice guy at a bar one night and developed a crush. but drunk me ended up getting walked home and fucking his dick of a friend. guilty about that, and reinforcing "nice guys finish last" stereotype. :( i'm dumb. | i fucked up my chances with a great guy, did i ruin his chances? |
SUBREDDIT: r/offmychest
TITLE: i fucked up with a great guy :(
POST: One night i decided to go out for a one night stand. I was by myself on my college campus at the bars when I ran into a friend. She was hammered,but she introduced me to two friends she was with. We'll call them james and matt. I was immediately a... | i fucked up my chances with a great guy, did i ruin his chances? | fucked up my own chances with a great guy, but in the process did a disservice to james and matt. |
SUBREDDIT: r/offmychest
TITLE: i fucked up with a great guy :(
POST: One night i decided to go out for a one night stand. I was by myself on my college campus at the bars when I ran into a friend. She was hammered,but she introduced me to two friends she was with. We'll call them james and matt. I was immediately a... | fucked up my own chances with a great guy, but in the process did a disservice to james and matt. | I fucked up a great guy's night and ruined my chances of getting laid again.
I'm sure there's been other examples of this, but this is one of the most painful ones. |
SUBREDDIT: r/college
TITLE: Apparently I'm way behind in school.
POST: I'm a Computer Science major/Business minor and I just met with my new advisor to sign up for next semester. I decided to ask how far off I am from graduation based entirely upon CS classes alone. She told me her best estimate would be Spring 2017... | 4th year student just found out I need an extra two years to graduate. | I'm a CS major and I'm getting too burnt out by the amount of classes I'm supposed to be taking. Should I drop out?
Edit: I didn't understand a word she said and can't figure out why I'm getting so little help. She's been really helpful, but I'm not sure what to do. |
SUBREDDIT: r/college
TITLE: Apparently I'm way behind in school.
POST: I'm a Computer Science major/Business minor and I just met with my new advisor to sign up for next semester. I decided to ask how far off I am from graduation based entirely upon CS classes alone. She told me her best estimate would be Spring 2017... | I'm a CS major and I'm getting too burnt out by the amount of classes I'm supposed to be taking. Should I drop out?
Edit: I didn't understand a word she said and can't figure out why I'm getting so little help. She's been really helpful, but I'm not sure what to do. | I'm going to be a sophomore in college in three semesters. Can't decide if I should quit, take a break while adding CS classes, or just drop out? |
SUBREDDIT: r/college
TITLE: Apparently I'm way behind in school.
POST: I'm a Computer Science major/Business minor and I just met with my new advisor to sign up for next semester. I decided to ask how far off I am from graduation based entirely upon CS classes alone. She told me her best estimate would be Spring 2017... | 4th year student just found out I need an extra two years to graduate. | I'm in my fourth year and I'm not sure if I'll be able to finish my degree by the time I finish. |
SUBREDDIT: r/college
TITLE: Apparently I'm way behind in school.
POST: I'm a Computer Science major/Business minor and I just met with my new advisor to sign up for next semester. I decided to ask how far off I am from graduation based entirely upon CS classes alone. She told me her best estimate would be Spring 2017... | I'm going to be a sophomore in college in three semesters. Can't decide if I should quit, take a break while adding CS classes, or just drop out? | I'm in my fourth year and I'm not sure if I'll be able to finish my degree by the time I finish. |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: [25M] Trouble forming meaningful relationships.
POST: I am a [25M] and have problems showing emotion which people seem to associate with being stoic. Although I am not sure how to feel about people coming to that conclusion it led me into reading up on Stoicism. Which I believe is go... | I feel that I am just a stoic who is able to maintain neutral interactions. I do not want to lose anything by making myself feel like I am not looking to make friends. This is just a problem I have with people who seem to notice I am a stoic and want to know what I want. | I am not a stoic, I *do not* feel as if I am being passive. |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: [25M] Trouble forming meaningful relationships.
POST: I am a [25M] and have problems showing emotion which people seem to associate with being stoic. Although I am not sure how to feel about people coming to that conclusion it led me into reading up on Stoicism. Which I believe is go... | Stoic philosophy has helped me gain more insight into my emotions. I'm happy with my current situation as it is, but I am also learning other things about my emotions. | I am not a stoic, I *do not* feel as if I am being passive. |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: [25M] Trouble forming meaningful relationships.
POST: I am a [25M] and have problems showing emotion which people seem to associate with being stoic. Although I am not sure how to feel about people coming to that conclusion it led me into reading up on Stoicism. Which I believe is go... | Stoic philosophy has helped me gain more insight into my emotions. I'm happy with my current situation as it is, but I am also learning other things about my emotions. | I stay safe and neutral in my relationships with people, which I believe is keeping me from moving forward. |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: [25M] Trouble forming meaningful relationships.
POST: I am a [25M] and have problems showing emotion which people seem to associate with being stoic. Although I am not sure how to feel about people coming to that conclusion it led me into reading up on Stoicism. Which I believe is go... | I feel that I am just a stoic who is able to maintain neutral interactions. I do not want to lose anything by making myself feel like I am not looking to make friends. This is just a problem I have with people who seem to notice I am a stoic and want to know what I want. | I stay safe and neutral in my relationships with people, which I believe is keeping me from moving forward. |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: Me [23f] with my blind date[23M] Is this guy kinda pushy, or am I being touchy?
POST: I want to preface this post with a note that I have a history of growing up with abuse and attracting abusive men. I am working hard on recognizing healthy behaviors, not being so skittish, and esta... | Met guy online. He is asking for a second date in the same week as the first. I'm not really sure if I'm ready for that., but am already feeling weirdly obligated to agree. | I'm coming to terms with my past abusive history. Am I being crazy, or is this guy pushy? |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: Me [23f] with my blind date[23M] Is this guy kinda pushy, or am I being touchy?
POST: I want to preface this post with a note that I have a history of growing up with abuse and attracting abusive men. I am working hard on recognizing healthy behaviors, not being so skittish, and esta... | Guy I had a blind date with is texting me every day, but I've been on a series of dates with him. What's up with that? | I'm coming to terms with my past abusive history. Am I being crazy, or is this guy pushy? |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: Me [23f] with my blind date[23M] Is this guy kinda pushy, or am I being touchy?
POST: I want to preface this post with a note that I have a history of growing up with abuse and attracting abusive men. I am working hard on recognizing healthy behaviors, not being so skittish, and esta... | Was blind date. Went fine, but guy is still texting me daily. Am I just being paranoid, or am I just being overly sensitive?
Just a personal question, I'm sure you guys have a lot of questions in this subreddit. Tips and advice would be greatly appreciated. | Guy I had a blind date with is texting me every day, but I've been on a series of dates with him. What's up with that? |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: Me [23f] with my blind date[23M] Is this guy kinda pushy, or am I being touchy?
POST: I want to preface this post with a note that I have a history of growing up with abuse and attracting abusive men. I am working hard on recognizing healthy behaviors, not being so skittish, and esta... | Was blind date. Went fine, but guy is still texting me daily. Am I just being paranoid, or am I just being overly sensitive?
Just a personal question, I'm sure you guys have a lot of questions in this subreddit. Tips and advice would be greatly appreciated. | Met guy online. He is asking for a second date in the same week as the first. I'm not really sure if I'm ready for that., but am already feeling weirdly obligated to agree. |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: I [27 F] am in awkward communication with my crush [29 M], and I need a pep-talk
POST: I just moved 1,500 miles to the east coast a month ago. Previous relationship of 7 months called it quits because he didn't want to do long distance. I saw it coming for months and honestly wasn't ... | After a bought of sexting how should I go about contacting my friend/crush? | I [27F] am in awkward communication with my crush [29M], and I need a pep-talk. |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: I [27 F] am in awkward communication with my crush [29 M], and I need a pep-talk
POST: I just moved 1,500 miles to the east coast a month ago. Previous relationship of 7 months called it quits because he didn't want to do long distance. I saw it coming for months and honestly wasn't ... | I [27F] am in awkward communication with my crush [29M], and I need a pep-talk. | I'm in love with a friend from grad school, he is in love with me. I'm just not sure what to do. |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: I [27 F] am in awkward communication with my crush [29 M], and I need a pep-talk
POST: I just moved 1,500 miles to the east coast a month ago. Previous relationship of 7 months called it quits because he didn't want to do long distance. I saw it coming for months and honestly wasn't ... | After a bought of sexting how should I go about contacting my friend/crush? | I [27 F] am in a new-ish relationship, is he the one for me? |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: I [27 F] am in awkward communication with my crush [29 M], and I need a pep-talk
POST: I just moved 1,500 miles to the east coast a month ago. Previous relationship of 7 months called it quits because he didn't want to do long distance. I saw it coming for months and honestly wasn't ... | I'm in love with a friend from grad school, he is in love with me. I'm just not sure what to do. | I [27 F] am in a new-ish relationship, is he the one for me? |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: In a tough situation with my gf of 3 years. Need advice.
POST: I've been with my girlfriend for going on 3 years now. We are moving in together. I go into spells where I am completely unattracted to her. She will try to kiss me and I basically lay there like a dead fish. I want to br... | I feel in love with my girlfriend but I am not attracted to her. I need to find someone I can be attracted to. I feel like I am being selfish. Do I get over myself? | Moving into an apartment with gf of 3 years in a few weeks, but not attracted to her and having problems. |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: In a tough situation with my gf of 3 years. Need advice.
POST: I've been with my girlfriend for going on 3 years now. We are moving in together. I go into spells where I am completely unattracted to her. She will try to kiss me and I basically lay there like a dead fish. I want to br... | I want to break up with my gf of 3 years but I'm not attracted to her. I wish I could find someone who is attracted to me. I'm completely alone. How do I find someone who is attractive?
Thanks for reading! | I love my girlfriend but she is so much better than I am at being attractive to her. I have no urge to work out and I hate myself for it. |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: In a tough situation with my gf of 3 years. Need advice.
POST: I've been with my girlfriend for going on 3 years now. We are moving in together. I go into spells where I am completely unattracted to her. She will try to kiss me and I basically lay there like a dead fish. I want to br... | Moving into an apartment with gf of 3 years in a few weeks, but not attracted to her and having problems. | I want to break up with my gf of 3 years but I'm not attracted to her. I wish I could find someone who is attracted to me. I'm completely alone. How do I find someone who is attractive?
Thanks for reading! |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: In a tough situation with my gf of 3 years. Need advice.
POST: I've been with my girlfriend for going on 3 years now. We are moving in together. I go into spells where I am completely unattracted to her. She will try to kiss me and I basically lay there like a dead fish. I want to br... | I feel in love with my girlfriend but I am not attracted to her. I need to find someone I can be attracted to. I feel like I am being selfish. Do I get over myself? | I love my girlfriend but she is so much better than I am at being attractive to her. I have no urge to work out and I hate myself for it. |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: Me [17 M] with my SO [17 F], dating for 5 months; does she have any reason to say she loves me without genuinely meaning it?
POST: A couple of weeks ago I'd realized that I had fallen in love with my SO. So I told her, expecting the worst (because she had been always really shy with ... | My SO told me after our 1st date that she loves me, but I'm not convinced that she really loves me, or at least isn't as interested that I'm the one initiating in the relationship. | Would my girlfriend have any reason to lie about genuinely being in love with me? |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: Me [17 M] with my SO [17 F], dating for 5 months; does she have any reason to say she loves me without genuinely meaning it?
POST: A couple of weeks ago I'd realized that I had fallen in love with my SO. So I told her, expecting the worst (because she had been always really shy with ... | Would my girlfriend have any reason to lie about genuinely being in love with me? | I feel like my SO is keeping distance from me, but does she really love me? |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: Me [17 M] with my SO [17 F], dating for 5 months; does she have any reason to say she loves me without genuinely meaning it?
POST: A couple of weeks ago I'd realized that I had fallen in love with my SO. So I told her, expecting the worst (because she had been always really shy with ... | My SO told me after our 1st date that she loves me, but I'm not convinced that she really loves me, or at least isn't as interested that I'm the one initiating in the relationship. | How do I fix the jealousy I have from failing to realize that my girlfriend loves me?** |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: Me [17 M] with my SO [17 F], dating for 5 months; does she have any reason to say she loves me without genuinely meaning it?
POST: A couple of weeks ago I'd realized that I had fallen in love with my SO. So I told her, expecting the worst (because she had been always really shy with ... | I feel like my SO is keeping distance from me, but does she really love me? | How do I fix the jealousy I have from failing to realize that my girlfriend loves me?** |
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