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Q: Alhamdulilah, I am happily married, however I require clarification over a matter. I work from 8 5 and my wife teaches hifz in the morning and madrasah in the afternoon. She is occupied and very busy the entire day. I have no problem with her busy day and am happy to let her serve the deen of Allah Taala. However d...
Yes, you are right in saying that. She does not understand Deen. If she understood Deen she would have given you all the attention. Work with respect and love. And Allah Taala ( ) knows best
Jabala b. Suhaim reported:Ibn Zubair used to provide us with dates during the time that the people were hard pressed because of famine (Once) as we were busy in eating there happened to appear before us Ibn Umar. He said: Dont eat two dates together, for Allahs Messenger (may peace be upon him) forbade eating them toge...
Q: I would like to know according to shariah, what is the basis in Islam for using a ring to show that one is married, whether it be a man or a woman. ? --T--? --T--
There is absolutely no basis for this. This is an alien kuffaar custom. And Allah Taala ( ) knows best
Narrated Jabir ibn Abdullah:A man committed fornication with a woman. So the Messenger of Allah () ordered regarding him and the prescribed punishment of flogging was inflicted on him. He was then informed that he was married. So he commanded regarding him and he was stoned to death.Abu Dawud said: This tradition has b...
Q: Im getting married in June Insha-Allah. When my parents were discussing the mahr, I kept a request in front of my in laws and my husband that instead of money I wanted to be gifted with a Surah from the Quran which will hold a value of living a good life after marriage and adding barakah to our life. So me and my hu...
You may receive the mahr that is customary in your family and together with this you can also learn a portion of the Quraan. Learning a portion of the Quraan is an optional thing. And Allah Taala ( ) knows best
Narrated `Aisha:Eleven women sat (at a place) and promised and contracted that they would not conceal anything of the news of their husbands. The first one said, "My husband is like the meat of a slim weak camel which is kept on the top of a mountain which is neither easy to climb, nor is the meat fat, so that one migh...
Q: I want to pursue a career that is more or entirely Islamically alligned but my parents want me to pursue architecture in which I have little to no interest especially as it is not Islamically beneficial (except obeying my parents). I can convince my parents and they will accept but they will not accept very happily....
It is alright to try and convince your parents. And Allah Taala ( ) knows best
It was narrated that Salamah bin Muhabbiq said:“When the Verse of legal punishments was revealed, it was said to Abu Thabit Sad bin Ubadah, who was a jealous man: ‘If you found another man with your wife, what would you do?’ He said: “I would strike them both wife the sword; do you think I should wait until I bring fou...
Q: What is the meaning of having milkiat of something? A housewife buys something from her husbands money for her personal use or for her children. Who will have milkiat over that thing? If a man gives something to his close relative or his own children to use, then who will have milkiat over that thing? What is the di...
Milkiyat of something means, that one is the sole owner of that item and is therefore able to use it as he pleases. If the husband gave permission to his wife to purchase from his wealth for herself or for the children, then the purchased items will belong to the wife and the children. If the items were gifted to na ba...
It was narrated from Ibn Umar that the Prophet () said:“The Muslim man has no right to spend two nights, if he has something for which will should be made, without having a written will with him.”<D>Narrated `Aisha:The Prophet called Fatima during his fatal illness and told her something secretly and she wept. Then he ...
Q: I am a mother to a 21 year old daughter who is a chef by profession and works away from home. She has met a gentleman who is older than her (she is 21) he is in his 30s. He is from the Christian faith (coloured) and wants to marry her with intention of converting to Islam. They have being dating now for a year. He a...
When a girl is exposed to the outside life then this is the natural consequence. Cut short your losses and see how best you can save her imaan. And Allah Taala ( ) knows best
It was narrated that Aishah said:"The wives of the Prophet got together and sent Fatimah to the Prophet. They told her to say: Your wives" -and he (the narrator) said something to the effect that they are urging you to be equitable with regard to the matter of the daughter of Abu Quhafah. She said: "So she entered upon...
Q: Do two witnesses have to be present/hear the woman give her consent to her wali/guardian for the nikaah? ? --T--? --T--
No. And Allah Taala ( ) knows best
Narrated `Aisha:I did not feel jealous of any woman as much as I did of Khadija because Allahs Apostle used to mention her very often. He married me after three years of her death, and his Lord (or Gabriel) ordered him to give her the good news of having a palace of Qasab in Paradise.<D>Narrated Abu Hurairah:That Sad b...
Q: I am soon to be married, insha-Allah. I want to know how to do the whole wedding in accordance to the Sunnah. What is the sunnat mehr and the ammount in South African Rands? What is the Shariee status of having a wedding and calling people? When is the sunnat time for having the walimah? Does khalwah(in referance to...
The nikaah which earns the most amount of blessings in the sight of Allah Taaala is the nikaah which is closest to the sunnah. Hereunder are a few important aspects one should adhere to in order for the nikaah to conform to the sunnah: It is sunnah to perform the nikaah in the masjid and it is preferable that the nikaa...
Narrated Sahl bin Sa`d:Abu Usaid As Sa`idi invited the Prophet to his wedding banquet. At that time his wife was serving them and she was the bride. She said, Do you know what (kind of syrup) I soaked (made) for Allahs Apostle? I soaked some dates in water in a Tur (bowl) overnight. <D>Narrated Sahl bin Sa`d:Abu Usaid ...
Q: A man wants to change whole name of a woman he wants to marry because he does not like her name. Is it legal in Islam to change the whole name of a woman before nikah and write a new name on the nikaah papers? ? --T--? --T--
If the name is unpleasant there is no harm in changing the name, not the surname or the family name. And Allah Taala ( ) knows best
Narrated `Aisha:Regarding the Verse:--"If a woman fears cruelty or desertion on her husbands part." (4.128) It is about a man who has a woman (wife) and he does not like her and wants to divorce her but she says to him, "I make you free as regards myself." So this Verse was revealed in this connection.<D>Narrated Ibn `...
Q: We had an affair and had an illegitimate daughter from that affair. After that we got married. Now my daughter is 20 years old. She does not know anything about this and she is going to marry soon. My question is can I be the Wali (guardian) to my daughter? If not who can be the Wali? ? --T--? --T--
If the child was born six months or more after the nikaah, the child will be regarded as your child and hence you will be the wali
Narrated Al-Miswar bin Makhrama:`Ali demanded the hand of the daughter of Abu Jahl. Fatima heard of this and went to Allahs Apostle saying, "Your people think that you do not become angry for the sake of your daughters as `Ali is now going to marry the daughter of Abu Jahl. "On that Allahs Apostle got up and after his ...
Q: I was looking for a kitaab on sexual relations like what is permissible and what is not but I havent been able to find clarity on the following: 1) Is your spouse allowed to finger you whilst youre on your haidh 2) Do you only make ghusal after his sexual organ enters your body or do you only make gusal after he eja...
1. After concealing the area between navel and knee it is permissible to take pleasure from any other area of the body. 2. After he enters. 3. Yes, you could express your pain and discomfort. 4. This is disgusting. And Allah Taala ( ) knows best
Narrated Abu Huraira:Allahs Apostle said, "If a husband calls his wife to his bed (i.e. to have sexual relation) and she refuses and causes him to sleep in anger, the angels will curse her till morning."<D>Narrated Sa`id bin Jubair:I said to Ibn `Umar, "If a man accuses his wife of illegal sexual intercourse (what is t...
Q: If a man do not pray in weeks or even in months, does his nikah to his wife break and does he have to do nikah again with his wife? ? --T--? --T--
The nikaah is not broken. And Allah Taala ( ) knows best
Narrated Sahl bin Saud:Uwaimir came to `Asim bin `Adi who was the chief of Bani Ajlan and said, "What do you say about a man who has found another man with his wife? Should he kill him whereupon you would kill him (i.e. the husband), or what should he do? Please ask Allahs Apostle about this matter on my behalf." `Asim...
Q: My wife does not agree to live in my home town so what should I do? I tried my level best to make her understand her but she refuses to listen. What should I do? ? --T--? --T--
Explain to her the complications and difficulties. And Allah Taala ( ) knows best
‘Abd Allah bin Ka’b reported “I heard Ka’ab bin Malik. He then narrated his story about the battle of Tabuk.(Narrating the story) he added “When forty out of fifty days passed”, the messenger of the Apostle of Allaah() came and said “The Apostle of Allaah() has commanded you to keep away from your wife. He said “So, I ...
Q: Is it permissible to tell some one happy birthday? I know its not a day to celebrate, nor do we do so but people feel appreciated / acknowledged that at least he remembered my birthday. Sometimes, some people take offense if you forget to tell them? ? --T--? --T--
Celebrating birthdays is a custom of the kuffaar. As Muslims, we are commanded to refrain from emulating the kuffaar as well as adopting their ways. Nabi Sallallahu Alaihi Wasallam said(the one who emulates a people will be counted from amongst them (in the court of Allah Taaala)). Hence, it is reprehensible to share i...
Narrated Al-Miswar bin Makhrama and Marwan:(whose narrations attest each other) Allahs Apostle set out at the time of Al-Hudaibiya (treaty), and when they proceeded for a distance, he said, "Khalid bin Al-Walid leading the cavalry of Quraish constituting the front of the army, is at a place called Al-Ghamim, so take th...
Q: Once my wifes periods finished, we had sexual intercourse before she could take ghusal (bath), really we fear azaab (punishment) of Allah Subhanu Wataaala on this matter. May Allah forgive me for this and guide me to spend my life according to the Sharia. ? --T--? --T--
If she had bled for ten complete days then this is permissible. However, if she bled for less than ten days and then it is not permissible to share the bed with her before she could have ghusl or one salaah time passes. Make taubah for this and ask Allah Ta`ala to forgive both of you
It was narrated from Aishah that she said:"Praise be to Allah Whose hearing encompasses all voices. Khawlah came to the Messenger of Allah complaining about her husband, but I could not hear what she said. Then Allah, the Mighty and Sublime, revealed: Indeed Allah has heard the statement of her that disputes with you c...
Q: Please inform us regarding the Ulama taking each other to court, what is the solution? ? --T--? --T--
Make du`aa earnestly and sincerely especially in the days and nights of Ramadhaan that Allah Taaala grant us mutual mahabbat and the true respect of our pious elders and Ulama. I suggest that we do not discuss this nor make it an occupation. Sometimes, we could be talking about matters or people without proper investig...
Narrated Al-Miswar bin Makhrama and Marwan:(whose narrations attest each other) Allahs Apostle set out at the time of Al-Hudaibiya (treaty), and when they proceeded for a distance, he said, "Khalid bin Al-Walid leading the cavalry of Quraish constituting the front of the army, is at a place called Al-Ghamim, so take th...
Q: During a fight with my wife, I said Mujhe tumhare sath nahi rehna. I came to know later on that this is a kinaya word of talaq and I am not sure about my niyat while saying these words. Can I redo my nikah to be on the safer side? ? --T--? --T--
These words are not words of talaaq. And Allah Taala ( ) knows best
Yunus b. Jubair reported:I said to IbnUmar (Allah be pleased with them): A person divorcedhis wife while she was in the state of menses, whereupon he said: Do you know Abdullah b. Umar (Allah be pleased with them), for he divorced his wife in the state of menses. Umar (Allah be pleased with him) came to Allahs Apostle ...
Q: During a quarrel with his wife, if a husband says to his wife, See what I do tomorrow (his intention was to say that he will divorce her tomorrow). And the next day and the day after he didnt do anything. He just wanted to scare his wife. Will talaaq take place? ? --T--? --T--
There is no divorce with this. And Allah Taala ( ) knows best
Narrated `Ali bin Abi Talib:On the day of Khaibar, Allahs Apostle forbade the Muta (i.e. temporary marriage) and the eating of donkey-meat.<D>Narrated Ibn `Abbas:Lian was mentioned in the presence of the Prophet, `Asim bin Adi said a statement about it, and when he left, a man from his tribe came to him complaining tha...
Q: If a mother in law discusses something with her daughter in law and later her son confronts his wife in front of his mother demanding to know what the mother said, the wife remains silent out of respect for the mother in law and also to prevent an argument from taking place between the mother and son. The husband la...
The wife did the right thing. She should avoid arguments and confrontations and let the husband know in advance that this is what she is doing. This is the right way of the righteous. And Allah Taala ( ) knows best
Anas bin Malik said “We came to Khaibar. We bestowed the conquest of fortress (on us), the beauty of Safiyyah daughter of Huyayy was mentioned to him (the Prophet). Her husband was killed (in the battle) and she was a bride. The Apostle of Allaah() chose her for himself. He came out with her till we reached Sadd Al Sah...
Q: Is it allowed for the husband to swallow the mazi of his wife, and the wife to swallow the mazi of her husband? ? --T--? --T--
This is filth (napaak). Therefore, it is impermissible
Narrated Nafi`:Ibn `Umar used to say about the Ila (which Allah defined (in the Holy Book), "If the period of Ila expires, then the husband has either to retain his wife in a handsome manner or to divorce her as Allah has ordered." Ibn `Umar added, "When the period of four months has expired, the husband should be put ...
Q: In order for me to earn a living I have to go abroad and stay overseas for long periods of time.I have asked my wife to come with me but she refuses. I now have to go away again abroad for months on end staying on my own. She refuses to come with me. Can I give her talaaq on the basis that she refuses to come with m...
If your wife does not wish to accompany you due to Deeni reasons or medical reasons, then you should respect her feelings and be considerate towards her
Ibn Abbas said:The Quranic verse: "If they do come to thee, either judge between them, or decline to interfere" was abrogated by the verse: "So judge between them by what Allah hath revealed."<D>[Abu An-Nasr narrated :from Ibn Abbas, regarding the saying of Allah, the Most High: When believing women come to you as emig...
Q: I was discussing with a friend of mine regarding the rights of parents, I said that there is nobody after Allah and his Rasool (Sallallahu Alaihi Wasallam) that has more rights upon us than our parents. He commented that he heard someone say that either our Teachers of Islamic knowledge or our spiritual sheikh is hi...
Hadhrat Moulana Thanwi (Rahmatullahi Alaihi) has explained that our parents have more rights over us than our Ustaads (Islamic Teachers) and Mashaaikh
Aisha (Allah be pleased with her) reported:When the Messenger of Allah (may peace be upon him) was commanded to give option to his wives, he started it from me saying: I am going to mention to you a matter which you should not (decide) in haste until you have consulted your parents. She said that he already knew that m...
Q: During ones period, is the husband allowed to touch his wife from the belly button till her knees on her clothes? If not, can he at least hug her? ? --T--? --T--
Yes. He may touch her over the clothes
Narrated Abu Huraira:Allahs Apostle said, "If a husband calls his wife to his bed (i.e. to have sexual relation) and she refuses and causes him to sleep in anger, the angels will curse her till morning."<D>Narrated Anas bin Malik:The Prophet came to Khaibar and when Allah made him victorious and he conquered the town b...
Q: Can one fast the 6 days of Shawwal as your fard days that you have to pay in together or must it be separate? ? --T--? --T--
Qaza fast will not suffice for the shawaal nafil fast. And Allah Taala ( ) knows best
Narrated `Abdullah bin `Umar:`Umar bin Al-Khattab said, "When Hafsa bint `Umar became a widow after the death of (her husband) Khunais bin Hudhafa As-Sahmi who had been one of the companions of the Prophet, and he died at Medina. I went to `Uthman bin `Affan and presented Hafsa (for marriage) to him. He said, "I will t...
Q: My sisters name is Aay Bee but during the nikaah ceremony the Mufti said Aay Khan instead of Aay Bee. I just want to ask if this nikaah is valid or do we need to do the nikaah again? ? --T--? --T--
If she is also known as Aay Khan then the nikaah is valid. And Allah Taala ( ) knows best
Narrated `Aisha:The wife of Rifa`a Al-Qurazi came to Allahs Apostle and said, "O Allahs Apostle! Rifa`a divorced me irrevocably. After him I married `Abdur-Rahman bin Az-Zubair Al-Qurazi who proved to be impotent." Allahs Apostle said to her, "Perhaps you want to return to Rifa`a? Nay (you cannot return to Rifa`a) unti...
Q: A certain brother wishes to know if his nikah performed in the following manner is valid. In the presence of two jamaat brothers and his wife they first reverted his wife to Islam by making her recite the kalimah tayyiba. Thereafter he told her that I have accepted you as my wife and she also accepted him. There was...
If the nikah (i.e. proposal and acceptance between the husband and wife) was performed in the presence of two Muslim, baaligh, male witnesses, the nikah is valid. Thereafter the couple did not live in sin. He should give her mahr.( 2/306) ( 2/323)
It was narrated that:Umm Salmah said: “The Messenger of Allah enjoined charity upon us. Zainab, the wife of Abdullah said: Will it accepted as charity on my part if I give charity to my husband who is poor, and to children of a brother of mine who are orphans, spending such and such on them, and in all circumstances? H...
Q: My husband handed me a letter tester staying the following words: I Muhammed Ismail release you. Is this a valid divorce? ? --T--? --T--
If he intended talaaq through this statement, then a baain talaaq (irrevocable talaaq) has taken place. And Allah Taala ( ) knows best
Narrated Ibn `Abbas:That was Mughith, the slave of Bani so-and-so, i.e., Bariras husband as if I am now looking at him following her (Barira) along the streets of Medina.<D>Ubadah bin Al-Walid bin Ubadah bin As-Samit narrated from Rubayy bint Muawwidh. He said:"I said to her: Tell me your Hadith. She said: I was separa...
Q: Is it permissible to use ones wifes body to derive sexual satisfaction, whilst she is asleep and therefore unaware? I derived sexual pleasure in such a manner and thought to myself: What if this is wrong Its unlikely to be wrong and even if Islamically impermissible, who cares as it feels good doing this potentially...
Yes. It is permissible
Nafi b. Utba reported:We were with Allahs Messenger (may peace be upon him) in an expedition that there came a people to Allahs Apostle (may peace be upon him) from the direction of the west. They were dressed in woollen clothes and they stood near a hillock and they met him as Allahs Messenger (may peace be upon him) ...
Q: I am 31 years old and I want to marry but I am unemployed and unable to fulfil wifes duties? Can I stay unmarried? ? --T--? --T--
If you are sure that you will not fall into haraam then you may live unmarried. And Allah Taala ( ) knows best
Narrated Ursa:The Prophet wrote the (marriage contract) with `Aisha while she was six years old and consummated his marriage with her while she was nine years old and she remained with him for nine years (i.e. till his death).<D>A’ishah said The Apostle of Allaah() sent for his wives during his illness. When they got t...
Q: My question is regarding marrying a girl that has been adopted at the age of 5 days but the girl doesnt know about her real father. All the documents supporting her parentage is of her adopted father. So please let me know what Shariah says about marrying her? ? --T--? --T--
It is permissible to marry her. And Allah Taala ( ) knows best
Narrated `Urwa bin Az-Zubair:That he asked `Aisha regarding the Statement of Allah: "If you fear that you shall not be able to deal justly with the orphan girls..." (4.3) She said, "O son of my sister! An Orphan girl used to be under the care of a guardian with whom she shared property. Her guardian, being attracted by...
Q: 1. Sometimes my wife comes to me and asks me about doing something. I reply to her jo dil chahe karo, Is say it sometimes to show my anger, and sometimes just to tell her that she can do it or not. I never used the word free or azad or farigh and never intended divorce. Additionally, we both originate from same city...
No divorce has taken place. And Allah Taala ( ) knows best
Aisha (Allah be pleased with her) reported:Allahs Messenger (may peace be upon him) gave us the option (to get divorce) and we chose him and he did not count it a divorce.<D>Narrated Al-Miswar bin Makhrama and Marwan:(whose narrations attest each other) Allahs Apostle set out at the time of Al-Hudaibiya (treaty), and w...
Q: If a wife passed away mahar wasnt paid to her than what should husband do now? Is it still to be paid? If yes then to whom should it be paid to? ? --T--? --T--
The mahr will have to be paid. It will be included in the estate and distributed amongst the heirs
Narrated Ibn Abbas:The pagans were of two kinds as regards their relationship to the Prophet and the Believers. Some of them were those with whom the Prophet was at war and used to fight against, and they used to fight him; the others were those with whom the Prophet made a treaty, and neither did the Prophet fight the...
Q: In Islam, is it compulsory upon a person to exercise equality between his wives? In which aspects does the husband have to exercise equality amongst his wives? If a person has two wives, one young and one old, is equality waajib between both? Can you explain the method of equal distribution of time between wives and...
1. Yes, it is compulsory. . (2/332) ()( ) () . (3/201) 2. Equality between the wives is necessary in the following aspects: Wealth and provisions Clothing Shelter The night turns Showing affection and socializing . (2/332) ()( ) () ()() . (3/201):() (). (3/202) 3. Equality is waajib between both. (). (3/206) 4. It is c...
Narrated `Aisha:Eleven women sat (at a place) and promised and contracted that they would not conceal anything of the news of their husbands. The first one said, "My husband is like the meat of a slim weak camel which is kept on the top of a mountain which is neither easy to climb, nor is the meat fat, so that one migh...
Q: I am a 17 year old girl, currently in my final year of high school. Recently, Ive been having a lot of thoughts about marriage and the purpose of a Muslims life. I reasoned that there is no point in studying for many years only to die and end up without any knowledge of Deen. Hence I decided to get married once Im d...
Yes, marriage is a responsibility. If you feel that you are responsible enough then there is no problem. And Allah Taala ( ) knows best
Narrated `Ali:Allahs Apostle prohibited Al-Muta marriage and the eating of donkeys meat in the year of the Khaibar battle.<D>Narrated `Aisha:Once Fatima came walking and her gait resembled the gait of the Prophet . The Prophet said, "Welcome, O my daughter!" Then he made her sit on his right or on his left side, and th...
Q: A husband and wife are studying. Can they use contraceptives till the end of their studies to afford them more time to study? ? --T--? --T--
The usage of contraceptives is permissible. To refrain from it is best
Narrated Abu Huraira:Allahs Apostle said, "If a husband calls his wife to his bed (i.e. to have sexual relation) and she refuses and causes him to sleep in anger, the angels will curse her till morning."<D>Ibn Abbas narrated that :The wife of Thabit bin Qais was granted a Khul from her husband during the time of the Pr...
Q: I have two children both under 8 and my wife wants a third child. Im 49 and my wife is 35. My mother feels that Im too old to have any more children. My wife feels shes still young and would like another child. My mothers reasoning is that with my age I might not see my child grow up and leave my wife with having to...
I would support having a child. Nabi (sallallahu alaihi wa sallam) also liked his ummat to be expanded. And Allah Taala ( ) knows best
Narrated Um Atiyya:At the time of giving the pledge of allegiance to the Prophet one of the conditions was that we would not wail, but it was not fulfilled except by five women and they are Um Sulaim, Um Al-`Ala, the daughter of Abi Sabra (the wife of Mu`adh), and two other women; or the daughter of Abi Sabra and the w...
Q: Is it permissible for a married woman to work to support her family (father family)? ? --T--? --T--
She may do so in the confines of the home, provided it does not affect the rights of the husband
It was narrated that Abu Salamah said:"Ibn Abbas and Abu Hurairah were asked about the woman whose husband dies when she is pregnant. Ibn Abbas said: (She should wait) for the longer of the two periods. Abu Hurairah said: When she gives birth it becomes permissible for her to marry. Abu Salamah went to Umm Salamah and ...
Q: If a man kisses his cousins daughter with lust. 1. Are their children allowed to marry each other? The girl married another man and the man (who touched or kissed her) married another woman. 2. Will this nullify their parents marriage? ? --T--? --T--
1. Yes. 2. No. And Allah Taala ( ) knows best
Narrated Jabir:"Allahs Apostle said to me, "Have you got married O Jabir?" I replied, "Yes." He asked "What, a virgin or a matron?" I replied, "Not a virgin but a matron." He said, "Why did you not marry a young girl who would have fondled with you?" I replied, "O Allahs Apostle! My father was martyred on the day of Uh...
Q: Husband picks up wife at work. As she gets in they both kiss one another. Is this acceptable? In a working environment, in a meeting comprising of various sects what is the common etiquette that a Muslim women should display, defend her point of view loudly, be argumentative, etc. What does Islam say about women app...
Such behaviour is not appropriate in public. Further, this is imitating western culture and behaviour. The theme of western culture is that everything should seem to be pleasant and good outwardly though they may be fights, disputes and bitterness within the hearts and homes. Women should not attend such meetings. Thei...
Narrated Al-Miswar bin Makhrama and Marwan:(whose narrations attest each other) Allahs Apostle set out at the time of Al-Hudaibiya (treaty), and when they proceeded for a distance, he said, "Khalid bin Al-Walid leading the cavalry of Quraish constituting the front of the army, is at a place called Al-Ghamim, so take th...
Q: I am young. I am physically and sexually fit. I do my hard exercises on a daily basis. I have a job and I earn (halaal). I try to give most of my time in worship. Now, the matter is that I dont want to marry, I just want to live my life as single till death. What should I do? ? --T--? --T--
The sunnat is to marry, unless you have some genuine valid reasons not to marry. And Allah Taala ( ) knows best
Aishah narrated:"The wife of Rifaah Al-Qurzi came to the Messenger of Allah and said: I was with Rifaah and he divorced me irrevocably. Then I married Abdur-Rahman bin Az-Zubair, but he only has the likes of the fringe of a garment. So he said: Perhaps you want me to return to Rifaah? No, not until you taste his sweetn...
Q: What is the correct way to get permission from a woman if she wants to get married? ? --T--? --T--
From the parents, the one who can speak to her freely should put the proposal to her. And Allah Taala ( ) knows best
It was narrated from Abu Salamah bin Abdur-Rahman that Zainab bint Abi Salamah told him, from her mother, Umm Salamah, the wife of the Prophet:"That a woman from Aslam who was called Subaiah was married to her husband, and he died while she was pregnant. Abu As-Sanabil bin Bakak proposed to her but she refused to marry...
Q: Are you sinning if you disobey your parents if you refuse to marry who they want you to? ? --T--? --T--
It is not a sin, but it is the good fortune of the child to obey, respect and keep his parents happy at all times. And Allah Taala ( ) knows best
Narrated `Aisha:(regarding His Statement): They ask your instruction concerning the women. Say: Allah instructs you about them ... (4.127) It is about the female orphan who is under the guardianship of a man with whom she shares her property and he does not want to marry her and dislikes that someone else should marry ...
Q: Is it permissible for one in the state of Ihraam to discuss issues relating to sexual intercourse with his wife? ? --T--? --T--
It is impermissible for one in the state of Ihraam to discuss issues relating to sexual intercourse with ones wife. : : { } :: {} [: 187]. : : : : :. : : { } :
Ibn Umar (Allah be pleased with them) reported:I divorced my wife during the lifetime of Allahs Messenger (may peace be upon him) when she was in the state of menses. Umar (Allah be pleased with him) made a mention of it to Allahs Messenger (may peace be upon him), whereupon he said: Command him to take her back and le...
Q: Me and my wife have been married for two years now. We fight often because we both have anger issues but at the same time we love each other alot. One day, the fight was so extreme that my wife started screaming and she said I need divorce. She was out of her mind. Now she says that she doesnt remember what happened...
If you had no intention to divorce then this is not talaaq-e-kinaayah. And Allah Taala ( ) knows best
Ayyub said:Al-Hasan said: I will never return to it.<D>Sahl bin Sa’ad Al Sa’idi said that ‘Uwaimir bin Ashqar Al Ajilani came to ‘Asim bin Adl and said to him “Asim tell me about a man who finds a man along with his wife. Should he kill him and then be killed by you, or how should he act? Ask the Apostle of Allaah() ‘A...
Q: I am 46 years old, can I read this dua now for plenty of rozi in old age? Allahum maj al o sa ah rizkika allaya inda kibari sinni wan kitha e umuri. My wife says I must make dua for rozi now, which I am doing, because I am in financial difficulties now. ? --T--? --T--
Yes
Narrated Abdullah ibn Abbas:The Prophet () said about a person who had intercourse with his wife while she was menstruating: He must give one dinar or half a dinar in alms.Abu Dawud said: The correct version says si: One dinar or half a dinar. Shubah (a narrator) did not sometimes narrate this tradition as a statement ...
Q: Can a wife take khula from a court in Pakistan without the husbands consent? ? --T--? --T--
The khula will only be valid if the husband accepts the khula. And Allah Taala ( ) knows best
Ibn Sirin reported:One who was blameless (as a narrator) narrated to me for twenty years that Ibn Umar (Allah be pleased with him) pronounced three divorces to his wife while she was in the state of menses. He was commanded to take her back. I neither blamed them (the narrators) nor recognised the hadith (to be perfect...
Q: Why should a person marry? ? --T--? --T--
Nikaah is an emphasized sunnah of Rasulullah (Sallallahu Alayhi Wasallam). Rasulullah (Sallallahu Alayhi Wasallam) said that the one who turns away from my sunnah is not from me. Hence, if one does not have a valid excuse not to get married and one is able to get married, then one should get married. Apart from this, n...
Nafi reported on the authority of Ibn Umar (Allah be pleased with them) that a person invoked curse on the wife during the lifetime of Allah s Messenger (may peace be upon him), so he effected separation between them and traced the lineage of the son to his mother.<D>Ibn Umar (Allah be pleased with them) reported:Allah...
Q: I am a married women. I saw a dream that I am asking a question that who will come in my life. Suddenly a voice came but no one was their and the voice told me a boys name. This dream was seen before fajar azaan. Please tell me what is the meaning of this dream. ? --T--? --T--
Ignore the dream and fulfill your husbands marital rights. And Allah Taala ( ) knows best
Jabir reported that Allahs Messenger (may peace be upon him) saw a woman, and so he came to his wife, Zainab, as she was tanning a leather and had sexual intercourse with her. He then went to his Companions and told them:The woman advances and retires in the shape of a devil, so when one of you sees a woman, he should ...
Q: Five years ago, me and my husband were having problems in our marriage, so I asked for a third talaaq and he sent it to me via a text message. He said that he didnt do it from his heart. We are both still single and we havent been married to anyone else, we both still love eachother. I want to know the ruling in thi...
The divorce is valid and you are haraam for him and so is he to you. The procedure to get back is referred to as halaalah. It is where the woman, after iddat of the first nikaah will have to marry another person, consummate the marriage with him, and when he dies or divorces her, she must complete her iddat. Upon compl...
Ubaidullah b. Abdullah b. Utba reported that Amr b. Hafs b. al-Mughira set out along with Ali b. Abi Talib (Allah be pleased with him) to the Yemen and sent to his wife the one pronouncement of divorce which was still left from the (irrevocable) divorce; and he commanded al-Harith b. Hisham and Ayyash b. Abu Rabia to g...
Q: My friend took khula from her husband (father of her kids) and after a year did nikaah with someone else. After 2 months she left him and went back to her ex-husband and denied her nikaah with the second husband and remarried her first husband without taking divorce from the second husband. She said that the second ...
We suggest that you refer this case to the Jamiat of your locality and ask them to investigate into this matter. And Allah Taala ( ) knows best
Aisha reported that the husband of Barira was a slave.<D>Narrated Ibn `Abbas:That was Mughith, the slave of Bani so-and-so, i.e., Bariras husband as if I am now looking at him following her (Barira) along the streets of Medina.<D>Narrated `Aisha:A man divorced his wife thrice (by expressing his decision to divorce her ...
Q: I am married in court in community of property with my first wife. Recently I had taken a second wife in my nikaah. How will both inherit after I pass away? ? --T--? --T--
Marrying in a COP contract (community of property) is impermissible in Islam as it contravenes the Islamic laws of inheritance. You should immediately try to change your marriage contract to an ANC contract (Ante Nuptial Contract) which does not oppose the laws of Shariah. If this is difficult then you should make a wi...
It was narrated from Ibn Abbas that:a woman came to the Prophet and became Muslim, and a man married her. Then her first husband carne and said: "O Messenger of Allah, I became Muslim with her, and she knew that I was Muslim." So the Messenger of Allah took her away from her second husband and returned her to her first...
Q: I am 30 years of age and divorced with 2 kids a girl and a boy. I have been a lone parent for over 8 years now and I really feel that I need a partner and at the same time I worry for my kids too. My parents dont want to get me remarried because of the children. My mum worries too much about the kids that if their o...
Your mothers thinking in this way that you should not get married because the step father will not take care of the children is incorrect. If you find a suitable partner who is Deeni conscious and is prepared to take care of your children, then you should get married. Recite after your five daily Salaah and constantly ...
It was narrated that Aishah said:"When the following was revealed: But if you desire Allah and His Messenger, () the Messenger of Allah () entered upon me and said: O Aishah I want to say something to you, and you do not have to hasten (in making a decision) until you have consulted your parents." She said: "He knew, b...
Q: I got married 9 years ago, when I was baaligh. I did a court marriage to protect myself from sins, in Pakistan. During our nikaah we had 2 male witnesses, molvi judge and Surah Al Nisa was recited and dua was made and we both consented with heart. As per constitution of Pakistan (Islamic country) nikah is valid. But...
Your nikaah is valid. And Allah Taala ( ) knows best
Narrated Ibn `Abbas:For one year I wanted to ask `Umar about the two women who helped each other against the Prophet but I was afraid of him. One day he dismounted his riding animal and went among the trees of Arak to answer the call of nature, and when he returned, I asked him and he said, "(They were) `Aisha and Hafs...