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t3_1hxu8s	relationships	I (f/22) have to figure out if I want to still know these girls or not and would hate to sound insulting	Not sure if this belongs here but it's worth a try. Backstory: When I (f/22) went through my first real breakup 2 years ago because he needed space after a year of dating roand it effected me more than I thought. It was a horrible time in my life due to living with my mother and finally having the chance to cut her ...	I still have contact with an old ex's friends but can't stand to see or talk to him. His friends are really nice ,so how do I tell them I possibly want to unfriend them on Facebook because of him?	[ 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 5...	SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: I (f/22) have to figure out if I want to still know these girls or not and would hate to sound insulting POST: Not sure if this belongs here but it's worth a try. Backstory: When I (f/22) went through my first real breakup 2 years ago because he needed space after a year of dating ...	I still have contact with an old ex's friends but can't stand to see or talk to him. His friends are really nice ,so how do I tell them I possibly want to unfriend them on Facebook because of him?<\|endoftext\|>	[ 309, 1335, 452, 3057, 342, 271, 1711, 385, 434, 3858, 533, 476, 626, 1462, 281, 923, 390, 2312, 281, 779, 15, 3032, 3858, 403, 1663, 5322, 1157, 601, 849, 513, 309, 2028, 731, 309, 6830, 971, 281, 5369, 6902, 731, 327, 6745, 984, ...	47	SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: I (f/22) have to figure out if I want to still know these girls or not and would hate to sound insulting POST: Not sure if this belongs here but it's worth a try. Backstory: When I (f/22) went through my first real breakup 2 years ago because he needed space after a year of dating ...	[ 6971, 7941, 1703, 37, 1433, 27, 391, 16, 22842, 16458, 187, 187, 53, 43561, 27, 309, 313, 71, 16, 1423, 10, 452, 281, 4677, 562, 604, 309, 971, 281, 1335, 871, 841, 6838, 390, 417, 285, 651, 9239, 281, 3590, 50124, 187, 187, 15743...	485	[ " I'm going through another relationship which will be ending soon. I'm not sure if it's right to keep in contact with these girls that have been in my life for a while.", " I'm going through another relationship breakup and I want to cut contact with my ex and his friends because it's time to move on.", " Shou...	[ 0, 2, 4, 6, 8 ]	[ 1, 3, 5, 7, 9 ]	0
t3_33lz18	loseit	SV & NSV! Keeping on keeping on.	30F, 5'6". SW: 236 GW: 150 CW: 219 I weigh myself weekly and measure myself monthly. I'd hit a plateau the last four weeks or so where I was stuck at 222. Felt like kind of a bummer, but knew it's because I haven't been as strict as I should with my diet, and the last week and a half have been crazy with life things, ...	Progress is still happening, even when you think it might not be! Don't get discouraged, even if your journey seems to be going slowly. Don't give up, warriors.	[ 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 5...	SUBREDDIT: r/loseit TITLE: SV & NSV! Keeping on keeping on. POST: 30F, 5'6". SW: 236 GW: 150 CW: 219 I weigh myself weekly and measure myself monthly. I'd hit a plateau the last four weeks or so where I was stuck at 222. Felt like kind of a bummer, but knew it's because I haven't been as strict as I should with my d...	Progress is still happening, even when you think it might not be! Don't get discouraged, even if your journey seems to be going slowly. Don't give up, warriors.<\|endoftext\|>	[ 28225, 310, 1335, 9369, 13, 1014, 672, 368, 1158, 352, 1537, 417, 320, 2, 5037, 626, 755, 42965, 13, 1014, 604, 634, 9455, 3133, 281, 320, 1469, 7808, 15, 5037, 626, 1918, 598, 13, 29353, 15, 0, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50...	37	SUBREDDIT: r/loseit TITLE: SV & NSV! Keeping on keeping on. POST: 30F, 5'6". SW: 236 GW: 150 CW: 219 I weigh myself weekly and measure myself monthly. I'd hit a plateau the last four weeks or so where I was stuck at 222. Felt like kind of a bummer, but knew it's because I haven't been as strict as I should with my d...	[ 6971, 7941, 1703, 37, 1433, 27, 391, 16, 77, 583, 262, 187, 187, 53, 43561, 27, 17370, 708, 6640, 55, 2, 46769, 327, 7562, 327, 15, 187, 187, 15743, 27, 1884, 39, 13, 608, 8, 23, 3446, 13710, 27, 28131, 23765, 27, 7783, 34444, 2...	334	[ " I'm finally noticing the difference in my body after a 3.5-year plateauing period. I'm starting to feel lighter and smaller and I'm excited.", " Stuck at my highest weight, measured myself at my lowest. I'm now the lightest I've been in years, and I know it's due to my diet and exercise habits.", " Lost 8 inc...	[ 0, 2, 4, 6, 8 ]	[ 1, 3, 5, 7, 9 ]	1
t3_38a85h	relationships	Me [19F] with my friend [19M] 10 months, Insecurities - Show or Tell?	What are your stories about insecurities you've had in past relationships? How have you dealt with them, particularly the ones that you can't hide? I'm not currently in a relationship, but recently I've realized that there is someone who likes me, and I'm interested in them, too. Frankly, the only reason I'm not askin...	My skin is scarred badly; what could I do/say about it that would gross my future partner out the least? What's your experience with body image issues?	[ 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 5...	SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: Me [19F] with my friend [19M] 10 months, Insecurities - Show or Tell? POST: What are your stories about insecurities you've had in past relationships? How have you dealt with them, particularly the ones that you can't hide? I'm not currently in a relationship, but recently I've real...	My skin is scarred badly; what could I do/say about it that would gross my future partner out the least? What's your experience with body image issues?<\|endoftext\|>	[ 2752, 4808, 310, 12689, 433, 16426, 28, 752, 812, 309, 513, 16, 19506, 670, 352, 326, 651, 13711, 619, 2852, 7832, 562, 253, 1878, 32, 1737, 434, 634, 2793, 342, 2133, 2460, 3374, 32, 0, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277...	35	SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: Me [19F] with my friend [19M] 10 months, Insecurities - Show or Tell? POST: What are your stories about insecurities you've had in past relationships? How have you dealt with them, particularly the ones that you can't hide? I'm not currently in a relationship, but recently I've real...	[ 6971, 7941, 1703, 37, 1433, 27, 391, 16, 22842, 16458, 187, 187, 53, 43561, 27, 3189, 544, 746, 39, 62, 342, 619, 3331, 544, 746, 46, 62, 884, 2607, 13, 496, 1704, 19940, 428, 10684, 390, 19906, 32, 187, 187, 15743, 27, 1737, 403,...	327	[ " I'm a female in my mid-20s who has a history of acne on her chest and arms. I'm not sure if that will be a deal breaker for someone, or if it will change the way they see me.", " Insecurities about body image, especially in the form of scars on my chest from acne keep me from taking the next step.", " I've go...	[ 0, 2, 4, 6, 8 ]	[ 1, 3, 5, 7, 9 ]	2
t3_2as12n	personalfinance	Prioritize student debt or saving for down payment?	I have $25k in student debt. One private loan at 9.5% (highest priority obviously) and nine others federal between 3.4% and 6.8%. Minimum payment per month total is $301.16. Over the next 9 months, I will pay off $11k of these, which will get rid of everything above 5% interest and will drop the total minimum payment t...	$14k in student debt (all <5%) and need to save more for down payment on a ~$300k house. How to allocate $5200/mo between the two?	[ 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 5...	SUBREDDIT: r/personalfinance TITLE: Prioritize student debt or saving for down payment? POST: I have $25k in student debt. One private loan at 9.5% (highest priority obviously) and nine others federal between 3.4% and 6.8%. Minimum payment per month total is $301.16. Over the next 9 months, I will pay off $11k of the...	$14k in student debt (all <5%) and need to save more for down payment on a ~$300k house. How to allocate $5200/mo between the two?<\|endoftext\|>	[ 370, 1047, 76, 275, 5974, 6735, 313, 455, 654, 22, 2673, 285, 878, 281, 5321, 625, 323, 1066, 7830, 327, 247, 5062, 5, 7554, 76, 2419, 15, 1359, 281, 29211, 370, 22, 1518, 16, 6972, 875, 253, 767, 32, 0, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277...	40	SUBREDDIT: r/personalfinance TITLE: Prioritize student debt or saving for down payment? POST: I have $25k in student debt. One private loan at 9.5% (highest priority obviously) and nine others federal between 3.4% and 6.8%. Minimum payment per month total is $301.16. Over the next 9 months, I will pay off $11k of the...	[ 6971, 7941, 1703, 37, 1433, 27, 391, 16, 10816, 2103, 249, 593, 187, 187, 53, 43561, 27, 13036, 262, 907, 5974, 6735, 390, 13868, 323, 1066, 7830, 32, 187, 187, 15743, 27, 309, 452, 370, 1099, 76, 275, 5974, 6735, 15, 2596, 3055, ...	319	[ " What's the best way to prioritize paying off student debt vs saving for down payment?", " Should I continue to pay off my student loans or save/grow our down payment/savings? How do I go about doing this?", " Should I focus on paying off student debt or am I setting myself up for a lifetime of stress and pain...	[ 0, 2, 4, 6, 8 ]	[ 1, 3, 5, 7, 9 ]	3
t3_2bzi1g	relationships	My[25m] girlfriend [24f] is only nice and pleasant when I'm aloof and distant. (9 months)	Throwaway I noticed the more I'm cold and distant towards my girlfriend, the more pleasant she becomes. She'll come over and clean my apartment, do laundry, dishes and cook for me, even as far as to offer oral favors while I'm drinking a beer! She seems completely happy and content during this time, which makes me h...	GF is a meanie-bo-beanie when I'm nice, and an absolute doll when I'm uninterested. Sex is bomb and she's the hottest I've ever dated. What do?	[ 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 5...	SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: My[25m] girlfriend [24f] is only nice and pleasant when I'm aloof and distant. (9 months) POST: Throwaway I noticed the more I'm cold and distant towards my girlfriend, the more pleasant she becomes. She'll come over and clean my apartment, do laundry, dishes and cook for me, even a...	GF is a meanie-bo-beanie when I'm nice, and an absolute doll when I'm uninterested. Sex is bomb and she's the hottest I've ever dated. What do?<\|endoftext\|>	[ 33952, 310, 247, 1599, 466, 14, 2399, 14, 14844, 466, 672, 309, 1353, 5322, 13, 285, 271, 7880, 6135, 672, 309, 1353, 440, 39619, 15, 16678, 310, 10110, 285, 703, 434, 253, 43526, 309, 1849, 2455, 15483, 15, 1737, 513, 32, 0, 50277,...	42	SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: My[25m] girlfriend [24f] is only nice and pleasant when I'm aloof and distant. (9 months) POST: Throwaway I noticed the more I'm cold and distant towards my girlfriend, the more pleasant she becomes. She'll come over and clean my apartment, do laundry, dishes and cook for me, even a...	[ 6971, 7941, 1703, 37, 1433, 27, 391, 16, 22842, 16458, 187, 187, 53, 43561, 27, 2752, 60, 1099, 78, 62, 19609, 544, 1348, 71, 62, 310, 760, 5322, 285, 17127, 672, 309, 1353, 355, 49912, 285, 13392, 15, 313, 26, 2607, 10, 187, 187,...	410	[ " girlfriend becomes more pleasant when I'm aloof and distant. I'm not sure what to do.", " Girlfriend is nicer when I'm cold and distant. She's also nicer when I'm aloof and distant. How do I deal with this?", " Girlfriend is nice and pleasant when I'm aloof and distant. If I make her happy by doing her favors...	[ 0, 2, 4, 6, 8 ]	[ 1, 3, 5, 7, 9 ]	4
t3_552pxf	relationships	Me 28 F with guy I'm dating 30 M - 1 month, Is it okay to ask if everything is okay or am I being pushy?	I have been dating this guy for 1 month now and everything was great until last Sunday when I noticed he wasn't responding to my text with the same flirty, cute, enthusiastic text that he usually would. He used to call me baby, babe but since last Sunday he has said none of those words and texting has been less and com...	I asked guy I have been dating for a month if everything was okay and now I regret it because I think it makes me look pushy /clingy.	[ 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 5...	SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: Me 28 F with guy I'm dating 30 M - 1 month, Is it okay to ask if everything is okay or am I being pushy? POST: I have been dating this guy for 1 month now and everything was great until last Sunday when I noticed he wasn't responding to my text with the same flirty, cute, enthusiasti...	I asked guy I have been dating for a month if everything was okay and now I regret it because I think it makes me look pushy /clingy.<\|endoftext\|>	[ 309, 2546, 5599, 309, 452, 644, 13597, 323, 247, 1770, 604, 3253, 369, 8261, 285, 1024, 309, 14938, 352, 984, 309, 1158, 352, 2789, 479, 1007, 43283, 1994, 1227, 36537, 90, 15, 0, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, ...	33	SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: Me 28 F with guy I'm dating 30 M - 1 month, Is it okay to ask if everything is okay or am I being pushy? POST: I have been dating this guy for 1 month now and everything was great until last Sunday when I noticed he wasn't responding to my text with the same flirty, cute, enthusiasti...	[ 6971, 7941, 1703, 37, 1433, 27, 391, 16, 22842, 16458, 187, 187, 53, 43561, 27, 3189, 3349, 401, 342, 5599, 309, 1353, 13597, 1884, 353, 428, 337, 1770, 13, 1680, 352, 8261, 281, 1642, 604, 3253, 310, 8261, 390, 717, 309, 1146, 4328...	377	[ " Guy I'm dating has been acting different and I want to know if I am being pushy or too clingy asking if he is okay or if he is getting comfortable.", " Dating a guy for 1 month and I notice a change in him, as in he isn't responding to text the same way or doesn't say the same things that he used to, is it okay...	[ 0, 2, 4, 6, 8 ]	[ 1, 3, 5, 7, 9 ]	5
t3_fss6j	relationships	Is it weird that this turned me off from my gf?	The other day my girlfriend(23 years old) and myself(22 years old) were talking and she revealed to me that she almost didn't date me because I was too short (5'7"-5'8"). She is only about 5'5". Now she loves me a lot and thinks I am the best thing to ever happen to her but for some reason, learning about this, reall...	Gf said she almost didn't date me because I was too short. Now I am really turned off by her.	[ 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 5...	SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: Is it weird that this turned me off from my gf? POST: The other day my girlfriend(23 years old) and myself(22 years old) were talking and she revealed to me that she almost didn't date me because I was too short (5'7"-5'8"). She is only about 5'5". Now she loves me a lot and thinks...	Gf said she almost didn't date me because I was too short. Now I am really turned off by her.<\|endoftext\|>	[ 443, 71, 753, 703, 2761, 1904, 626, 3522, 479, 984, 309, 369, 1512, 2159, 15, 50276, 4125, 309, 717, 1663, 3531, 745, 407, 617, 15, 0, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 502...	26	SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: Is it weird that this turned me off from my gf? POST: The other day my girlfriend(23 years old) and myself(22 years old) were talking and she revealed to me that she almost didn't date me because I was too short (5'7"-5'8"). She is only about 5'5". Now she loves me a lot and thinks...	[ 6971, 7941, 1703, 37, 1433, 27, 391, 16, 22842, 16458, 187, 187, 53, 43561, 27, 1680, 352, 12504, 326, 436, 3531, 479, 745, 432, 619, 305, 71, 32, 187, 187, 15743, 27, 380, 643, 1388, 619, 19609, 9, 1508, 1107, 1711, 10, 285, 4266...	224	[ " GF who is 5'5\" aka 5'7\" turned me off. Is it wrong for me to want to break up with her?", " girlfriend who is 5'5\" is mad at me because I am 5'7\". Is it weird to want to break up with her because of this?", " Girlfriend is 5'3\" and I am 5'7\". She says I am too short for her and it is my fault. Is it...	[ 0, 2, 4, 6, 8 ]	[ 1, 3, 5, 7, 9 ]	6
t3_3mcrjk	relationships	I (27/F) am obnoxiously paranoid after a gynecological health scare. How do I explain my ridiculous hormonal-ness to my boyfriend (32/M)? (X-posted to /r/AskWomen)	Last month, I started getting really hormonal and feeling downright crazy (becoming paranoid about my awesome boyfriend for absolutely no reason, crying at the drop of a hat, and all of that jazz.). Right around that time, my gyno told me that I was due to have my IUD removed. Oh, okay! That's why I was a hormonal wrec...	Had a big-ass ovarian cyst; scared that I'm irreparably broken; hormonal shitstorm ensues; worried I'm going to alienate my boyfriend with my behavior.	[ 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 5...	SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: I (27/F) am obnoxiously paranoid after a gynecological health scare. How do I explain my ridiculous hormonal-ness to my boyfriend (32/M)? (X-posted to /r/AskWomen) POST: Last month, I started getting really hormonal and feeling downright crazy (becoming paranoid about my awesome boyf...	Had a big-ass ovarian cyst; scared that I'm irreparably broken; hormonal shitstorm ensues; worried I'm going to alienate my boyfriend with my behavior.<\|endoftext\|>	[ 14136, 247, 1943, 14, 515, 18984, 26242, 28, 16060, 326, 309, 1353, 21388, 1148, 1598, 7154, 28, 37085, 10739, 25576, 3994, 955, 28, 11926, 309, 1353, 1469, 281, 14165, 366, 619, 22273, 342, 619, 3879, 15, 0, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277,...	37	SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: I (27/F) am obnoxiously paranoid after a gynecological health scare. How do I explain my ridiculous hormonal-ness to my boyfriend (32/M)? (X-posted to /r/AskWomen) POST: Last month, I started getting really hormonal and feeling downright crazy (becoming paranoid about my awesome boyf...	[ 6971, 7941, 1703, 37, 1433, 27, 391, 16, 22842, 16458, 187, 187, 53, 43561, 27, 309, 313, 1630, 16, 39, 10, 717, 691, 42480, 8140, 46197, 846, 247, 19859, 41286, 1975, 1786, 30272, 15, 1359, 513, 309, 5513, 619, 19082, 37085, 14, 12...	433	[ " My boyfriend and I are still dealing with a gynecological health scare, and I feel like I'm being irrational because I'm afraid that I'm going to have to worry about things that I'm not even fully aware of yet.", " I'm a hormonal mess, my girlfriend is supportive and understanding. I don't feel any less scared ...	[ 0, 2, 4, 6, 8 ]	[ 1, 3, 5, 7, 9 ]	7
t3_38mtrj	relationships	Advice givers of this subreddit please help me (18m) out. Please and thank you:)	So recently I listened to the song Feel Again by OneRepublic. GREAT SONG. But it got me thinking: "is my heart numb? Am I a lonely soul?" All my friends tell me I am basically Ted Mosby (for those of u who are himym fans...) but I have seriously never been in a relationship and have always been friendzoned which is fin...	I think I might like two girls at once. Don't want to; just want to be head over heels for one. Do I do anything before college?	[ 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 5...	SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: Advice givers of this subreddit please help me (18m) out. Please and thank you:) POST: So recently I listened to the song Feel Again by OneRepublic. GREAT SONG. But it got me thinking: "is my heart numb? Am I a lonely soul?" All my friends tell me I am basically Ted Mosby (for those ...	I think I might like two girls at once. Don't want to; just want to be head over heels for one. Do I do anything before college?<\|endoftext\|>	[ 309, 1158, 309, 1537, 751, 767, 6838, 387, 2378, 15, 5037, 626, 971, 281, 28, 816, 971, 281, 320, 1481, 689, 25296, 323, 581, 15, 3166, 309, 513, 2712, 1078, 6831, 32, 0, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, ...	33	SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: Advice givers of this subreddit please help me (18m) out. Please and thank you:) POST: So recently I listened to the song Feel Again by OneRepublic. GREAT SONG. But it got me thinking: "is my heart numb? Am I a lonely soul?" All my friends tell me I am basically Ted Mosby (for those ...	[ 6971, 7941, 1703, 37, 1433, 27, 391, 16, 22842, 16458, 187, 187, 53, 43561, 27, 13536, 547, 305, 1564, 273, 436, 749, 433, 22940, 4496, 1361, 479, 313, 1093, 78, 10, 562, 15, 7764, 285, 5717, 368, 37731, 187, 187, 15743, 27, 1893, ...	263	[ " I'm a fun guy but I'm not into girls as much as I want to be and I want to know if I'm just being a clingy person.", " I'm a lonely teen who wants to be head over heels for one girl. How do I do it? Please help me.", " I've always been friendzoned and I am really not sure how to overcome this and be in a rela...	[ 0, 2, 4, 6, 8 ]	[ 1, 3, 5, 7, 9 ]	8
t3_4gbnkb	relationships	Me [20/F] having trouble with boyfriend [23/m] of 2.5 years sex drive	My boyfriend and I have an amazing sex life. We are very sexually compatible. Although, his sex drive is crazy high compared to mine. It really depends on the time of month for me [hormones], sometimes I'll be down to go 3 times a day and sometimes I'm only interested in once a week. I'm asking for advice because I ...	how do I deny sex with my boyfriend of 2.5 years without him feeling like I don't want to please him?	[ 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 5...	SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: Me [20/F] having trouble with boyfriend [23/m] of 2.5 years sex drive POST: My boyfriend and I have an amazing sex life. We are very sexually compatible. Although, his sex drive is crazy high compared to mine. It really depends on the time of month for me [hormones], sometimes I'll ...	how do I deny sex with my boyfriend of 2.5 years without him feeling like I don't want to please him?<\|endoftext\|>	[ 849, 513, 309, 13292, 2825, 342, 619, 22273, 273, 374, 15, 22, 1107, 1293, 779, 5471, 751, 309, 1053, 626, 971, 281, 4496, 779, 32, 0, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 502...	26	SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: Me [20/F] having trouble with boyfriend [23/m] of 2.5 years sex drive POST: My boyfriend and I have an amazing sex life. We are very sexually compatible. Although, his sex drive is crazy high compared to mine. It really depends on the time of month for me [hormones], sometimes I'll ...	[ 6971, 7941, 1703, 37, 1433, 27, 391, 16, 22842, 16458, 187, 187, 53, 43561, 27, 3189, 544, 938, 16, 39, 62, 1907, 7596, 342, 22273, 544, 1508, 16, 78, 62, 273, 374, 15, 22, 1107, 2825, 4446, 187, 187, 15743, 27, 2752, 22273, 285, ...	403	[ " My boyfriend has a high sex drive and I'm not as turned on by him as he is. How do I approach his sexual needs without him feeling rejected?", " My boyfriend has a very high sex drive and I have a hard time denying him because he sometimes feels like I don't want to please him. How do I approach his needs bett...	[ 0, 2, 4, 6, 8 ]	[ 1, 3, 5, 7, 9 ]	9
t3_1e42z5	offmychest	I'm just really tired right now...	I just discovered this subreddit and I am glad I did because I am about to be at the breaking point. I am about to move out of my house with my boyfriend and into an apartment in about a week. I've been extremely stressed out. I am losing sleep about this and I have been becoming irritated at many things. Having enough...	I'm worried about moving out of parent's house and into an apartment with a boyfriend who doesn't really seemed worried at all.	[ 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 5...	SUBREDDIT: r/offmychest TITLE: I'm just really tired right now... POST: I just discovered this subreddit and I am glad I did because I am about to be at the breaking point. I am about to move out of my house with my boyfriend and into an apartment in about a week. I've been extremely stressed out. I am losing sleep a...	I'm worried about moving out of parent's house and into an apartment with a boyfriend who doesn't really seemed worried at all.<\|endoftext\|>	[ 309, 1353, 11926, 670, 4886, 562, 273, 2885, 434, 2419, 285, 715, 271, 10230, 342, 247, 22273, 665, 2506, 626, 1663, 4455, 11926, 387, 512, 15, 0, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, ...	27	SUBREDDIT: r/offmychest TITLE: I'm just really tired right now... POST: I just discovered this subreddit and I am glad I did because I am about to be at the breaking point. I am about to move out of my house with my boyfriend and into an apartment in about a week. I've been extremely stressed out. I am losing sleep a...	[ 6971, 7941, 1703, 37, 1433, 27, 391, 16, 2727, 2577, 1962, 296, 187, 187, 53, 43561, 27, 309, 1353, 816, 1663, 11870, 987, 1024, 1051, 187, 187, 15743, 27, 309, 816, 6888, 436, 749, 433, 22940, 285, 309, 717, 9995, 309, 858, 984, ...	295	[ " I'm about to move out of my house and I'm getting stressed out. I feel like I'm stressed out because I'm afraid that I'm not ready.", " Moving out of my abusive relationship, not sure what to do. Don't want to be dragged into another one.", " Moving to an apartment in a week and I am really scared and worried...	[ 0, 2, 4, 6, 8 ]	[ 1, 3, 5, 7, 9 ]	10
t3_12n77s	relationship_advice	How to deal with questioning everything?	23/f here and SO is 26/m. Together for 1.5 yrs and living together for 5 months. My sister just recently got married and I can't tell if the thoughts I am having are because I'm imaging their relationship to be something it isn't or if I'm in a LTR with someone that is really not suited for me in the long term. Their...	Witnessing a different kind of relationship is making me question mine. I don't know whether this is all in my head or I'm onto something	[ 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 6971, 7941, 1703, 37, 1433, 27, 391, 16, 46397, 64, 24301, 547, 187, 187, 53, 43561, 27, 1359...	SUBREDDIT: r/relationship_advice TITLE: How to deal with questioning everything? POST: 23/f here and SO is 26/m. Together for 1.5 yrs and living together for 5 months. My sister just recently got married and I can't tell if the thoughts I am having are because I'm imaging their relationship to be something it isn't ...	Witnessing a different kind of relationship is making me question mine. I don't know whether this is all in my head or I'm onto something<\|endoftext\|>	[ 40177, 272, 247, 1027, 2238, 273, 2954, 310, 2403, 479, 1953, 7477, 15, 309, 1053, 626, 871, 1880, 436, 310, 512, 275, 619, 1481, 390, 309, 1353, 4830, 1633, 0, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277...	30	SUBREDDIT: r/relationship_advice TITLE: How to deal with questioning everything? POST: 23/f here and SO is 26/m. Together for 1.5 yrs and living together for 5 months. My sister just recently got married and I can't tell if the thoughts I am having are because I'm imaging their relationship to be something it isn't ...	[ 6971, 7941, 1703, 37, 1433, 27, 391, 16, 46397, 64, 24301, 547, 187, 187, 53, 43561, 27, 1359, 281, 2968, 342, 20501, 3253, 32, 187, 187, 15743, 27, 3495, 16, 71, 1060, 285, 8717, 310, 3436, 16, 78, 15, 20058, 323, 337, 15, 22, ...	521	[ " my sister and my boyfriend are a dream and I want to be with them. How can I scale back my thoughts about wanting to be with them and get over my apprehensions about their relationship?", " my SO and I are in a LTR and I'm having thoughts about my sister and her husband and wondering if this is normal or if I'm...	[ 0, 2, 4, 6, 8 ]	[ 1, 3, 5, 7, 9 ]	11
t3_29gdvm	relationships	Me [ 20/F] with my bf [ 20/M] of 3 years. I've found myself attracted to someone else. Need advice on how to overcome.	So I have been in what I consider a serious relationship for a few years now. Like any relationship we've had our ups and downs, but things have been great these past few months. I recently started a new job, and don't get to see my bf as often as I would like to anymore. And on top of that I've found myself attracted ...	I've found myself attracted to a man who is not my boyfriend. I can't quit my job, so how can I overcome these feelings?	[ 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 6971, 7941, 170...	SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: Me [ 20/F] with my bf [ 20/M] of 3 years. I've found myself attracted to someone else. Need advice on how to overcome. POST: So I have been in what I consider a serious relationship for a few years now. Like any relationship we've had our ups and downs, but things have been great the...	I've found myself attracted to a man who is not my boyfriend. I can't quit my job, so how can I overcome these feelings?<\|endoftext\|>	[ 309, 1849, 1119, 4266, 17755, 281, 247, 637, 665, 310, 417, 619, 22273, 15, 309, 476, 626, 15856, 619, 2628, 13, 594, 849, 476, 309, 11399, 841, 10450, 32, 0, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, ...	30	SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: Me [ 20/F] with my bf [ 20/M] of 3 years. I've found myself attracted to someone else. Need advice on how to overcome. POST: So I have been in what I consider a serious relationship for a few years now. Like any relationship we've had our ups and downs, but things have been great the...	[ 6971, 7941, 1703, 37, 1433, 27, 391, 16, 22842, 16458, 187, 187, 53, 43561, 27, 3189, 544, 1384, 16, 39, 62, 342, 619, 270, 71, 544, 1384, 16, 46, 62, 273, 495, 1107, 15, 309, 1849, 1119, 4266, 17755, 281, 3095, 2010, 15, 20389, ...	509	[ " I'm attracted to another man, and I don't want to hurt my bf, but I feel like I'm making things worse.", " I'm attracted to another man, and I'm not sure how to deal. How did you overcome it?", " I've found myself attracted to someone else. Also, don't want to hurt my boyfriend, and I don't want to stop my re...	[ 0, 2, 4, 6, 8 ]	[ 1, 3, 5, 7, 9 ]	12
t3_2pzfya	relationships	Me [21M] with my GF [19F] of 2,5 years. She wants to pay me for helping her with her accounting studies, but I don't want her to	Hello fellow redditors, we've been together for 2,5 years and everything is more than perfect :) She is sitting here with me and we will both provide our perspectives. We are enrolled in a similar business administration program, but at different universities and I'm one year ahead. She is struggling right now with...	My GF wants to pay for helping her with her accounting class, but I don't want to get paid since I think that something like this should be expected in a relationship. Both perspectives are provided in the post.	[ 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 5...	SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: Me [21M] with my GF [19F] of 2,5 years. She wants to pay me for helping her with her accounting studies, but I don't want her to POST: Hello fellow redditors, we've been together for 2,5 years and everything is more than perfect :) She is sitting here with me and we will both prov...	My GF wants to pay for helping her with her accounting class, but I don't want to get paid since I think that something like this should be expected in a relationship. Both perspectives are provided in the post.<\|endoftext\|>	[ 2752, 33952, 5605, 281, 2075, 323, 9073, 617, 342, 617, 15890, 966, 13, 533, 309, 1053, 626, 971, 281, 755, 5087, 1580, 309, 1158, 326, 1633, 751, 436, 943, 320, 3264, 275, 247, 2954, 15, 6295, 24302, 403, 2530, 275, 253, 1501, 15, ...	44	SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: Me [21M] with my GF [19F] of 2,5 years. She wants to pay me for helping her with her accounting studies, but I don't want her to POST: Hello fellow redditors, we've been together for 2,5 years and everything is more than perfect :) She is sitting here with me and we will both prov...	[ 6971, 7941, 1703, 37, 1433, 27, 391, 16, 22842, 16458, 187, 187, 53, 43561, 27, 3189, 544, 1797, 46, 62, 342, 619, 33952, 544, 746, 39, 62, 273, 374, 13, 22, 1107, 15, 1500, 5605, 281, 2075, 479, 323, 9073, 617, 342, 617, 15890, ...	517	[ " GF wants to pay me for tutoring lessons after I helped her with accounting. I don't want to do it because I don't need it and I want to give it to him.", " GF wants to pay me for tutoring lessons after exams, I don't want to be paid for it. What should I do?", " GF wants to give me some money for tutoring les...	[ 0, 2, 4, 6, 8 ]	[ 1, 3, 5, 7, 9 ]	13
t3_q3sop	dating_advice	I think I'm trapped in nasty triangle and don't know how to proceed, some advice would be really appreciated.	I (male, 19) met this girl at collge (19 too) a couple of months ago. At the moment I met her, nothing really special happened between us happened, we just chatted a bit and left as early friends. Then, I entered college (the same where she studies) and we started to connect faster; we have a lot in common, we're both...	I like this girl. A friend of mine likes this girl. This girl doesn't likes him back. This girl might like another friend, although I'm not sure of that. How do I proceed?	[ 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 5...	SUBREDDIT: r/dating_advice TITLE: I think I'm trapped in nasty triangle and don't know how to proceed, some advice would be really appreciated. POST: I (male, 19) met this girl at collge (19 too) a couple of months ago. At the moment I met her, nothing really special happened between us happened, we just chatted a bi...	I like this girl. A friend of mine likes this girl. This girl doesn't likes him back. This girl might like another friend, although I'm not sure of that. How do I proceed?<\|endoftext\|>	[ 309, 751, 436, 3226, 15, 329, 3331, 273, 7477, 13052, 436, 3226, 15, 831, 3226, 2506, 626, 13052, 779, 896, 15, 831, 3226, 1537, 751, 1529, 3331, 13, 3738, 309, 1353, 417, 2119, 273, 326, 15, 1359, 513, 309, 4262, 32, 0, 50277, 50...	42	SUBREDDIT: r/dating_advice TITLE: I think I'm trapped in nasty triangle and don't know how to proceed, some advice would be really appreciated. POST: I (male, 19) met this girl at collge (19 too) a couple of months ago. At the moment I met her, nothing really special happened between us happened, we just chatted a bi...	[ 6971, 7941, 1703, 37, 1433, 27, 391, 16, 44275, 64, 24301, 547, 187, 187, 53, 43561, 27, 309, 1158, 309, 1353, 18195, 275, 26321, 19037, 285, 1053, 626, 871, 849, 281, 4262, 13, 690, 7535, 651, 320, 1663, 14109, 15, 187, 187, 15743,...	328	[ " I'm trapped in a triangle, girlfriend and I are finishing college and I want to move on with my life. How should I proceed?", " I'm in a triangle with this girl and I don't know how to proceed from here; I want to move forward, but I don't want to hurt anyone.", " I've met a girl that I like, am interested in...	[ 0, 2, 4, 6, 8 ]	[ 1, 3, 5, 7, 9 ]	14
t3_506j75	relationships	I [M20] met a girl [F20] who i really like while backpacking europe and i dont know what to do.	I met her initially in berlin, where I only got to spend a day with her. I instantly knew there was something between us, I didnt know what but we just clicked strait away. I would have stayed there longer just to be with her if I could have. I met with her again a few months later In london. We spent another 3 days t...	Met a girl while traveling, trying to figure out a way we can spend more time together and how to tell her how I feel.	[ 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 5...	SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: I [M20] met a girl [F20] who i really like while backpacking europe and i dont know what to do. POST: I met her initially in berlin, where I only got to spend a day with her. I instantly knew there was something between us, I didnt know what but we just clicked strait away. I would h...	Met a girl while traveling, trying to figure out a way we can spend more time together and how to tell her how I feel.<\|endoftext\|>	[ 6365, 247, 3226, 1223, 15153, 13, 2820, 281, 4677, 562, 247, 1039, 359, 476, 6947, 625, 673, 2366, 285, 849, 281, 2028, 617, 849, 309, 1928, 15, 0, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 5027...	28	SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: I [M20] met a girl [F20] who i really like while backpacking europe and i dont know what to do. POST: I met her initially in berlin, where I only got to spend a day with her. I instantly knew there was something between us, I didnt know what but we just clicked strait away. I would h...	[ 6971, 7941, 1703, 37, 1433, 27, 391, 16, 22842, 16458, 187, 187, 53, 43561, 27, 309, 544, 46, 938, 62, 1313, 247, 3226, 544, 39, 938, 62, 665, 891, 1663, 751, 1223, 30564, 272, 19454, 285, 891, 13414, 871, 752, 281, 513, 15, 187, ...	319	[ " Met a girl who i really like while backpacking europe, she and i want to spend more time together. Im not sure what to do. ", " Met a girl who i really like while backpacking europe. I'm not sure what to do next time we meet up, and I don't even know why Im posting this...", " met a girl in uk that I like, a...	[ 0, 2, 4, 6, 8 ]	[ 1, 3, 5, 7, 9 ]	15

t3_1hxu8s

relationships

I (f/22) have to figure out if I want to still know these girls or not and would hate to sound insulting

Not sure if this belongs here but it's worth a try. Backstory: When I (f/22) went through my first real breakup 2 years ago because he needed space after a year of dating roand it effected me more than I thought. It was a horrible time in my life due to living with my mother and finally having the chance to cut her ...

I still have contact with an old ex's friends but can't stand to see or talk to him. His friends are really nice ,so how do I tell them I possibly want to unfriend them on Facebook because of him?

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SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: I (f/22) have to figure out if I want to still know these girls or not and would hate to sound insulting POST: Not sure if this belongs here but it's worth a try. Backstory: When I (f/22) went through my first real breakup 2 years ago because he needed space after a year of dating ...

I still have contact with an old ex's friends but can't stand to see or talk to him. His friends are really nice ,so how do I tell them I possibly want to unfriend them on Facebook because of him?<|endoftext|>

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SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: I (f/22) have to figure out if I want to still know these girls or not and would hate to sound insulting POST: Not sure if this belongs here but it's worth a try. Backstory: When I (f/22) went through my first real breakup 2 years ago because he needed space after a year of dating ...

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[ " I'm going through another relationship which will be ending soon. I'm not sure if it's right to keep in contact with these girls that have been in my life for a while.", " I'm going through another relationship breakup and I want to cut contact with my ex and his friends because it's time to move on.", " Shou...

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t3_33lz18

loseit

SV & NSV! Keeping on keeping on.

30F, 5'6". SW: 236 GW: 150 CW: 219 I weigh myself weekly and measure myself monthly. I'd hit a plateau the last four weeks or so where I was stuck at 222. Felt like kind of a bummer, but knew it's because I haven't been as strict as I should with my diet, and the last week and a half have been crazy with life things, ...

Progress is still happening, even when you think it might not be! Don't get discouraged, even if your journey seems to be going slowly. Don't give up, warriors.

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SUBREDDIT: r/loseit TITLE: SV & NSV! Keeping on keeping on. POST: 30F, 5'6". SW: 236 GW: 150 CW: 219 I weigh myself weekly and measure myself monthly. I'd hit a plateau the last four weeks or so where I was stuck at 222. Felt like kind of a bummer, but knew it's because I haven't been as strict as I should with my d...

Progress is still happening, even when you think it might not be! Don't get discouraged, even if your journey seems to be going slowly. Don't give up, warriors.<|endoftext|>

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SUBREDDIT: r/loseit TITLE: SV & NSV! Keeping on keeping on. POST: 30F, 5'6". SW: 236 GW: 150 CW: 219 I weigh myself weekly and measure myself monthly. I'd hit a plateau the last four weeks or so where I was stuck at 222. Felt like kind of a bummer, but knew it's because I haven't been as strict as I should with my d...

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t3_38a85h

relationships

Me [19F] with my friend [19M] 10 months, Insecurities - Show or Tell?

What are your stories about insecurities you've had in past relationships? How have you dealt with them, particularly the ones that you can't hide? I'm not currently in a relationship, but recently I've realized that there is someone who likes me, and I'm interested in them, too. Frankly, the only reason I'm not askin...

My skin is scarred badly; what could I do/say about it that would gross my future partner out the least? What's your experience with body image issues?

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SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: Me [19F] with my friend [19M] 10 months, Insecurities - Show or Tell? POST: What are your stories about insecurities you've had in past relationships? How have you dealt with them, particularly the ones that you can't hide? I'm not currently in a relationship, but recently I've real...

My skin is scarred badly; what could I do/say about it that would gross my future partner out the least? What's your experience with body image issues?<|endoftext|>

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SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: Me [19F] with my friend [19M] 10 months, Insecurities - Show or Tell? POST: What are your stories about insecurities you've had in past relationships? How have you dealt with them, particularly the ones that you can't hide? I'm not currently in a relationship, but recently I've real...

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t3_2as12n

personalfinance

Prioritize student debt or saving for down payment?

I have $25k in student debt. One private loan at 9.5% (highest priority obviously) and nine others federal between 3.4% and 6.8%. Minimum payment per month total is $301.16. Over the next 9 months, I will pay off $11k of these, which will get rid of everything above 5% interest and will drop the total minimum payment t...

$14k in student debt (all <5%) and need to save more for down payment on a ~$300k house. How to allocate $5200/mo between the two?

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SUBREDDIT: r/personalfinance TITLE: Prioritize student debt or saving for down payment? POST: I have $25k in student debt. One private loan at 9.5% (highest priority obviously) and nine others federal between 3.4% and 6.8%. Minimum payment per month total is $301.16. Over the next 9 months, I will pay off $11k of the...

$14k in student debt (all <5%) and need to save more for down payment on a ~$300k house. How to allocate $5200/mo between the two?<|endoftext|>

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SUBREDDIT: r/personalfinance TITLE: Prioritize student debt or saving for down payment? POST: I have $25k in student debt. One private loan at 9.5% (highest priority obviously) and nine others federal between 3.4% and 6.8%. Minimum payment per month total is $301.16. Over the next 9 months, I will pay off $11k of the...

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t3_2bzi1g

relationships

My[25m] girlfriend [24f] is only nice and pleasant when I'm aloof and distant. (9 months)

Throwaway I noticed the more I'm cold and distant towards my girlfriend, the more pleasant she becomes. She'll come over and clean my apartment, do laundry, dishes and cook for me, even as far as to offer oral favors while I'm drinking a beer! She seems completely happy and content during this time, which makes me h...

GF is a meanie-bo-beanie when I'm nice, and an absolute doll when I'm uninterested. Sex is bomb and she's the hottest I've ever dated. What do?

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SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: My[25m] girlfriend [24f] is only nice and pleasant when I'm aloof and distant. (9 months) POST: Throwaway I noticed the more I'm cold and distant towards my girlfriend, the more pleasant she becomes. She'll come over and clean my apartment, do laundry, dishes and cook for me, even a...

GF is a meanie-bo-beanie when I'm nice, and an absolute doll when I'm uninterested. Sex is bomb and she's the hottest I've ever dated. What do?<|endoftext|>

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SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: My[25m] girlfriend [24f] is only nice and pleasant when I'm aloof and distant. (9 months) POST: Throwaway I noticed the more I'm cold and distant towards my girlfriend, the more pleasant she becomes. She'll come over and clean my apartment, do laundry, dishes and cook for me, even a...

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t3_552pxf

relationships

Me 28 F with guy I'm dating 30 M - 1 month, Is it okay to ask if everything is okay or am I being pushy?

I have been dating this guy for 1 month now and everything was great until last Sunday when I noticed he wasn't responding to my text with the same flirty, cute, enthusiastic text that he usually would. He used to call me baby, babe but since last Sunday he has said none of those words and texting has been less and com...

I asked guy I have been dating for a month if everything was okay and now I regret it because I think it makes me look pushy /clingy.

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SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: Me 28 F with guy I'm dating 30 M - 1 month, Is it okay to ask if everything is okay or am I being pushy? POST: I have been dating this guy for 1 month now and everything was great until last Sunday when I noticed he wasn't responding to my text with the same flirty, cute, enthusiasti...

I asked guy I have been dating for a month if everything was okay and now I regret it because I think it makes me look pushy /clingy.<|endoftext|>

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SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: Me 28 F with guy I'm dating 30 M - 1 month, Is it okay to ask if everything is okay or am I being pushy? POST: I have been dating this guy for 1 month now and everything was great until last Sunday when I noticed he wasn't responding to my text with the same flirty, cute, enthusiasti...

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t3_fss6j

relationships

Is it weird that this turned me off from my gf?

The other day my girlfriend(23 years old) and myself(22 years old) were talking and she revealed to me that she almost didn't date me because I was too short (5'7"-5'8"). She is only about 5'5". Now she loves me a lot and thinks I am the best thing to ever happen to her but for some reason, learning about this, reall...

Gf said she almost didn't date me because I was too short. Now I am really turned off by her.

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SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: Is it weird that this turned me off from my gf? POST: The other day my girlfriend(23 years old) and myself(22 years old) were talking and she revealed to me that she almost didn't date me because I was too short (5'7"-5'8"). She is only about 5'5". Now she loves me a lot and thinks...

Gf said she almost didn't date me because I was too short. Now I am really turned off by her.<|endoftext|>

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SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: Is it weird that this turned me off from my gf? POST: The other day my girlfriend(23 years old) and myself(22 years old) were talking and she revealed to me that she almost didn't date me because I was too short (5'7"-5'8"). She is only about 5'5". Now she loves me a lot and thinks...

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t3_3mcrjk

relationships

I (27/F) am obnoxiously paranoid after a gynecological health scare. How do I explain my ridiculous hormonal-ness to my boyfriend (32/M)? (X-posted to /r/AskWomen)

Last month, I started getting really hormonal and feeling downright crazy (becoming paranoid about my awesome boyfriend for absolutely no reason, crying at the drop of a hat, and all of that jazz.). Right around that time, my gyno told me that I was due to have my IUD removed. Oh, okay! That's why I was a hormonal wrec...

Had a big-ass ovarian cyst; scared that I'm irreparably broken; hormonal shitstorm ensues; worried I'm going to alienate my boyfriend with my behavior.

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SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: I (27/F) am obnoxiously paranoid after a gynecological health scare. How do I explain my ridiculous hormonal-ness to my boyfriend (32/M)? (X-posted to /r/AskWomen) POST: Last month, I started getting really hormonal and feeling downright crazy (becoming paranoid about my awesome boyf...

Had a big-ass ovarian cyst; scared that I'm irreparably broken; hormonal shitstorm ensues; worried I'm going to alienate my boyfriend with my behavior.<|endoftext|>

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SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: I (27/F) am obnoxiously paranoid after a gynecological health scare. How do I explain my ridiculous hormonal-ness to my boyfriend (32/M)? (X-posted to /r/AskWomen) POST: Last month, I started getting really hormonal and feeling downright crazy (becoming paranoid about my awesome boyf...

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t3_38mtrj

relationships

Advice givers of this subreddit please help me (18m) out. Please and thank you:)

So recently I listened to the song Feel Again by OneRepublic. GREAT SONG. But it got me thinking: "is my heart numb? Am I a lonely soul?" All my friends tell me I am basically Ted Mosby (for those of u who are himym fans...) but I have seriously never been in a relationship and have always been friendzoned which is fin...

I think I might like two girls at once. Don't want to; just want to be head over heels for one. Do I do anything before college?

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SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: Advice givers of this subreddit please help me (18m) out. Please and thank you:) POST: So recently I listened to the song Feel Again by OneRepublic. GREAT SONG. But it got me thinking: "is my heart numb? Am I a lonely soul?" All my friends tell me I am basically Ted Mosby (for those ...

I think I might like two girls at once. Don't want to; just want to be head over heels for one. Do I do anything before college?<|endoftext|>

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t3_4gbnkb

relationships

Me [20/F] having trouble with boyfriend [23/m] of 2.5 years sex drive

My boyfriend and I have an amazing sex life. We are very sexually compatible. Although, his sex drive is crazy high compared to mine. It really depends on the time of month for me [hormones], sometimes I'll be down to go 3 times a day and sometimes I'm only interested in once a week. I'm asking for advice because I ...

how do I deny sex with my boyfriend of 2.5 years without him feeling like I don't want to please him?

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SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: Me [20/F] having trouble with boyfriend [23/m] of 2.5 years sex drive POST: My boyfriend and I have an amazing sex life. We are very sexually compatible. Although, his sex drive is crazy high compared to mine. It really depends on the time of month for me [hormones], sometimes I'll ...

how do I deny sex with my boyfriend of 2.5 years without him feeling like I don't want to please him?<|endoftext|>

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SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: Me [20/F] having trouble with boyfriend [23/m] of 2.5 years sex drive POST: My boyfriend and I have an amazing sex life. We are very sexually compatible. Although, his sex drive is crazy high compared to mine. It really depends on the time of month for me [hormones], sometimes I'll ...

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t3_1e42z5

offmychest

I'm just really tired right now...

I just discovered this subreddit and I am glad I did because I am about to be at the breaking point. I am about to move out of my house with my boyfriend and into an apartment in about a week. I've been extremely stressed out. I am losing sleep about this and I have been becoming irritated at many things. Having enough...

I'm worried about moving out of parent's house and into an apartment with a boyfriend who doesn't really seemed worried at all.

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SUBREDDIT: r/offmychest TITLE: I'm just really tired right now... POST: I just discovered this subreddit and I am glad I did because I am about to be at the breaking point. I am about to move out of my house with my boyfriend and into an apartment in about a week. I've been extremely stressed out. I am losing sleep a...

I'm worried about moving out of parent's house and into an apartment with a boyfriend who doesn't really seemed worried at all.<|endoftext|>

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SUBREDDIT: r/offmychest TITLE: I'm just really tired right now... POST: I just discovered this subreddit and I am glad I did because I am about to be at the breaking point. I am about to move out of my house with my boyfriend and into an apartment in about a week. I've been extremely stressed out. I am losing sleep a...

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t3_12n77s

relationship_advice

How to deal with questioning everything?

23/f here and SO is 26/m. Together for 1.5 yrs and living together for 5 months. My sister just recently got married and I can't tell if the thoughts I am having are because I'm imaging their relationship to be something it isn't or if I'm in a LTR with someone that is really not suited for me in the long term. Their...

Witnessing a different kind of relationship is making me question mine. I don't know whether this is all in my head or I'm onto something

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SUBREDDIT: r/relationship_advice TITLE: How to deal with questioning everything? POST: 23/f here and SO is 26/m. Together for 1.5 yrs and living together for 5 months. My sister just recently got married and I can't tell if the thoughts I am having are because I'm imaging their relationship to be something it isn't ...

Witnessing a different kind of relationship is making me question mine. I don't know whether this is all in my head or I'm onto something<|endoftext|>

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SUBREDDIT: r/relationship_advice TITLE: How to deal with questioning everything? POST: 23/f here and SO is 26/m. Together for 1.5 yrs and living together for 5 months. My sister just recently got married and I can't tell if the thoughts I am having are because I'm imaging their relationship to be something it isn't ...

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[ " my sister and my boyfriend are a dream and I want to be with them. How can I scale back my thoughts about wanting to be with them and get over my apprehensions about their relationship?", " my SO and I are in a LTR and I'm having thoughts about my sister and her husband and wondering if this is normal or if I'm...

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t3_29gdvm

relationships

Me [ 20/F] with my bf [ 20/M] of 3 years. I've found myself attracted to someone else. Need advice on how to overcome.

So I have been in what I consider a serious relationship for a few years now. Like any relationship we've had our ups and downs, but things have been great these past few months. I recently started a new job, and don't get to see my bf as often as I would like to anymore. And on top of that I've found myself attracted ...

I've found myself attracted to a man who is not my boyfriend. I can't quit my job, so how can I overcome these feelings?

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SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: Me [ 20/F] with my bf [ 20/M] of 3 years. I've found myself attracted to someone else. Need advice on how to overcome. POST: So I have been in what I consider a serious relationship for a few years now. Like any relationship we've had our ups and downs, but things have been great the...

I've found myself attracted to a man who is not my boyfriend. I can't quit my job, so how can I overcome these feelings?<|endoftext|>

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SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: Me [ 20/F] with my bf [ 20/M] of 3 years. I've found myself attracted to someone else. Need advice on how to overcome. POST: So I have been in what I consider a serious relationship for a few years now. Like any relationship we've had our ups and downs, but things have been great the...

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t3_2pzfya

relationships

Me [21M] with my GF [19F] of 2,5 years. She wants to pay me for helping her with her accounting studies, but I don't want her to

Hello fellow redditors, we've been together for 2,5 years and everything is more than perfect :) She is sitting here with me and we will both provide our perspectives. We are enrolled in a similar business administration program, but at different universities and I'm one year ahead. She is struggling right now with...

My GF wants to pay for helping her with her accounting class, but I don't want to get paid since I think that something like this should be expected in a relationship. Both perspectives are provided in the post.

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SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: Me [21M] with my GF [19F] of 2,5 years. She wants to pay me for helping her with her accounting studies, but I don't want her to POST: Hello fellow redditors, we've been together for 2,5 years and everything is more than perfect :) She is sitting here with me and we will both prov...

My GF wants to pay for helping her with her accounting class, but I don't want to get paid since I think that something like this should be expected in a relationship. Both perspectives are provided in the post.<|endoftext|>

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SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: Me [21M] with my GF [19F] of 2,5 years. She wants to pay me for helping her with her accounting studies, but I don't want her to POST: Hello fellow redditors, we've been together for 2,5 years and everything is more than perfect :) She is sitting here with me and we will both prov...

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t3_q3sop

dating_advice

I think I'm trapped in nasty triangle and don't know how to proceed, some advice would be really appreciated.

I (male, 19) met this girl at collge (19 too) a couple of months ago. At the moment I met her, nothing really special happened between us happened, we just chatted a bit and left as early friends. Then, I entered college (the same where she studies) and we started to connect faster; we have a lot in common, we're both...

I like this girl. A friend of mine likes this girl. This girl doesn't likes him back. This girl might like another friend, although I'm not sure of that. How do I proceed?

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SUBREDDIT: r/dating_advice TITLE: I think I'm trapped in nasty triangle and don't know how to proceed, some advice would be really appreciated. POST: I (male, 19) met this girl at collge (19 too) a couple of months ago. At the moment I met her, nothing really special happened between us happened, we just chatted a bi...

I like this girl. A friend of mine likes this girl. This girl doesn't likes him back. This girl might like another friend, although I'm not sure of that. How do I proceed?<|endoftext|>

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SUBREDDIT: r/dating_advice TITLE: I think I'm trapped in nasty triangle and don't know how to proceed, some advice would be really appreciated. POST: I (male, 19) met this girl at collge (19 too) a couple of months ago. At the moment I met her, nothing really special happened between us happened, we just chatted a bi...

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t3_506j75

relationships

I [M20] met a girl [F20] who i really like while backpacking europe and i dont know what to do.

I met her initially in berlin, where I only got to spend a day with her. I instantly knew there was something between us, I didnt know what but we just clicked strait away. I would have stayed there longer just to be with her if I could have. I met with her again a few months later In london. We spent another 3 days t...

Met a girl while traveling, trying to figure out a way we can spend more time together and how to tell her how I feel.

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SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: I [M20] met a girl [F20] who i really like while backpacking europe and i dont know what to do. POST: I met her initially in berlin, where I only got to spend a day with her. I instantly knew there was something between us, I didnt know what but we just clicked strait away. I would h...

Met a girl while traveling, trying to figure out a way we can spend more time together and how to tell her how I feel.<|endoftext|>

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