GitBag/tldr_temp_processed · Datasets at Hugging Face

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t3_1hxu8s	relationships	I (f/22) have to figure out if I want to still know these girls or not and would hate to sound insulting	Not sure if this belongs here but it's worth a try. Backstory: When I (f/22) went through my first real breakup 2 years ago because he needed space after a year of dating roand it effected me more than I thought. It was a horrible time in my life due to living with my mother and finally having the chance to cut her ...	I still have contact with an old ex's friends but can't stand to see or talk to him. His friends are really nice ,so how do I tell them I possibly want to unfriend them on Facebook because of him?	[ 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 5...	SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: I (f/22) have to figure out if I want to still know these girls or not and would hate to sound insulting POST: Not sure if this belongs here but it's worth a try. Backstory: When I (f/22) went through my first real breakup 2 years ago because he needed space after a year of dating ...	I still have contact with an old ex's friends but can't stand to see or talk to him. His friends are really nice ,so how do I tell them I possibly want to unfriend them on Facebook because of him?<\|endoftext\|>	[ 309, 1335, 452, 3057, 342, 271, 1711, 385, 434, 3858, 533, 476, 626, 1462, 281, 923, 390, 2312, 281, 779, 15, 3032, 3858, 403, 1663, 5322, 1157, 601, 849, 513, 309, 2028, 731, 309, 6830, 971, 281, 5369, 6902, 731, 327, 6745, 984, ...	47	SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: I (f/22) have to figure out if I want to still know these girls or not and would hate to sound insulting POST: Not sure if this belongs here but it's worth a try. Backstory: When I (f/22) went through my first real breakup 2 years ago because he needed space after a year of dating ...	[ 6971, 7941, 1703, 37, 1433, 27, 391, 16, 22842, 16458, 187, 187, 53, 43561, 27, 309, 313, 71, 16, 1423, 10, 452, 281, 4677, 562, 604, 309, 971, 281, 1335, 871, 841, 6838, 390, 417, 285, 651, 9239, 281, 3590, 50124, 187, 187, 15743...	485	[ " I'm going through another relationship which will be ending soon. I'm not sure if it's right to keep in contact with these girls that have been in my life for a while.", " I'm going through another relationship breakup and I want to cut contact with my ex and his friends because it's time to move on.", " Shou...	[ 0, 2, 4, 6, 8 ]	[ 1, 3, 5, 7, 9 ]	0	[ [ 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50...	[ -58.70829772949219, -28.702892303466797, -48.09949493408203, -69.07099151611328, -39.69459533691406, -37.74494934082031, -35.880043029785156, -40.93476486206055, -59.310401916503906, -34.627647399902344 ]	[ -52.5, -36.75, -41, -81.5, -37.25, -34.25, -30.25, -46, -54.5, -38.5 ]
t3_33lz18	loseit	SV & NSV! Keeping on keeping on.	30F, 5'6". SW: 236 GW: 150 CW: 219 I weigh myself weekly and measure myself monthly. I'd hit a plateau the last four weeks or so where I was stuck at 222. Felt like kind of a bummer, but knew it's because I haven't been as strict as I should with my diet, and the last week and a half have been crazy with life things, ...	Progress is still happening, even when you think it might not be! Don't get discouraged, even if your journey seems to be going slowly. Don't give up, warriors.	[ 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 5...	SUBREDDIT: r/loseit TITLE: SV & NSV! Keeping on keeping on. POST: 30F, 5'6". SW: 236 GW: 150 CW: 219 I weigh myself weekly and measure myself monthly. I'd hit a plateau the last four weeks or so where I was stuck at 222. Felt like kind of a bummer, but knew it's because I haven't been as strict as I should with my d...	Progress is still happening, even when you think it might not be! Don't get discouraged, even if your journey seems to be going slowly. Don't give up, warriors.<\|endoftext\|>	[ 28225, 310, 1335, 9369, 13, 1014, 672, 368, 1158, 352, 1537, 417, 320, 2, 5037, 626, 755, 42965, 13, 1014, 604, 634, 9455, 3133, 281, 320, 1469, 7808, 15, 5037, 626, 1918, 598, 13, 29353, 15, 0, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50...	37	SUBREDDIT: r/loseit TITLE: SV & NSV! Keeping on keeping on. POST: 30F, 5'6". SW: 236 GW: 150 CW: 219 I weigh myself weekly and measure myself monthly. I'd hit a plateau the last four weeks or so where I was stuck at 222. Felt like kind of a bummer, but knew it's because I haven't been as strict as I should with my d...	[ 6971, 7941, 1703, 37, 1433, 27, 391, 16, 77, 583, 262, 187, 187, 53, 43561, 27, 17370, 708, 6640, 55, 2, 46769, 327, 7562, 327, 15, 187, 187, 15743, 27, 1884, 39, 13, 608, 8, 23, 3446, 13710, 27, 28131, 23765, 27, 7783, 34444, 2...	334	[ " I'm finally noticing the difference in my body after a 3.5-year plateauing period. I'm starting to feel lighter and smaller and I'm excited.", " Stuck at my highest weight, measured myself at my lowest. I'm now the lightest I've been in years, and I know it's due to my diet and exercise habits.", " Lost 8 inc...	[ 0, 2, 4, 6, 8 ]	[ 1, 3, 5, 7, 9 ]	1	[ [ 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50...	[ -69.29830932617188, -46.903743743896484, -35.23002624511719, -27.120561599731445, -53.62705993652344, -42.46021270751953, -116.22093200683594, -34.496063232421875, -90.50434112548828, -33.88426971435547 ]	[ -60.75, -60, -40.75, -39.5, -39.5, -54.5, -88.5, -50, -70.5, -45 ]
t3_38a85h	relationships	Me [19F] with my friend [19M] 10 months, Insecurities - Show or Tell?	What are your stories about insecurities you've had in past relationships? How have you dealt with them, particularly the ones that you can't hide? I'm not currently in a relationship, but recently I've realized that there is someone who likes me, and I'm interested in them, too. Frankly, the only reason I'm not askin...	My skin is scarred badly; what could I do/say about it that would gross my future partner out the least? What's your experience with body image issues?	[ 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 5...	SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: Me [19F] with my friend [19M] 10 months, Insecurities - Show or Tell? POST: What are your stories about insecurities you've had in past relationships? How have you dealt with them, particularly the ones that you can't hide? I'm not currently in a relationship, but recently I've real...	My skin is scarred badly; what could I do/say about it that would gross my future partner out the least? What's your experience with body image issues?<\|endoftext\|>	[ 2752, 4808, 310, 12689, 433, 16426, 28, 752, 812, 309, 513, 16, 19506, 670, 352, 326, 651, 13711, 619, 2852, 7832, 562, 253, 1878, 32, 1737, 434, 634, 2793, 342, 2133, 2460, 3374, 32, 0, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277...	35	SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: Me [19F] with my friend [19M] 10 months, Insecurities - Show or Tell? POST: What are your stories about insecurities you've had in past relationships? How have you dealt with them, particularly the ones that you can't hide? I'm not currently in a relationship, but recently I've real...	[ 6971, 7941, 1703, 37, 1433, 27, 391, 16, 22842, 16458, 187, 187, 53, 43561, 27, 3189, 544, 746, 39, 62, 342, 619, 3331, 544, 746, 46, 62, 884, 2607, 13, 496, 1704, 19940, 428, 10684, 390, 19906, 32, 187, 187, 15743, 27, 1737, 403,...	327	[ " I'm a female in my mid-20s who has a history of acne on her chest and arms. I'm not sure if that will be a deal breaker for someone, or if it will change the way they see me.", " Insecurities about body image, especially in the form of scars on my chest from acne keep me from taking the next step.", " I've go...	[ 0, 2, 4, 6, 8 ]	[ 1, 3, 5, 7, 9 ]	2	[ [ 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50...	[ -67.67106628417969, -45.24378204345703, -106.2151870727539, -32.53727722167969, -25.359464645385742, -30.27443504333496, -61.36061096191406, -51.98571014404297, -34.63241958618164, -32.64930725097656 ]	[ -62.25, -61.5, -93.5, -48.75, -20.375, -36.75, -54.5, -72.5, -20.125, -56.5 ]
t3_2as12n	personalfinance	Prioritize student debt or saving for down payment?	I have $25k in student debt. One private loan at 9.5% (highest priority obviously) and nine others federal between 3.4% and 6.8%. Minimum payment per month total is $301.16. Over the next 9 months, I will pay off $11k of these, which will get rid of everything above 5% interest and will drop the total minimum payment t...	$14k in student debt (all <5%) and need to save more for down payment on a ~$300k house. How to allocate $5200/mo between the two?	[ 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 5...	SUBREDDIT: r/personalfinance TITLE: Prioritize student debt or saving for down payment? POST: I have $25k in student debt. One private loan at 9.5% (highest priority obviously) and nine others federal between 3.4% and 6.8%. Minimum payment per month total is $301.16. Over the next 9 months, I will pay off $11k of the...	$14k in student debt (all <5%) and need to save more for down payment on a ~$300k house. How to allocate $5200/mo between the two?<\|endoftext\|>	[ 370, 1047, 76, 275, 5974, 6735, 313, 455, 654, 22, 2673, 285, 878, 281, 5321, 625, 323, 1066, 7830, 327, 247, 5062, 5, 7554, 76, 2419, 15, 1359, 281, 29211, 370, 22, 1518, 16, 6972, 875, 253, 767, 32, 0, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277...	40	SUBREDDIT: r/personalfinance TITLE: Prioritize student debt or saving for down payment? POST: I have $25k in student debt. One private loan at 9.5% (highest priority obviously) and nine others federal between 3.4% and 6.8%. Minimum payment per month total is $301.16. Over the next 9 months, I will pay off $11k of the...	[ 6971, 7941, 1703, 37, 1433, 27, 391, 16, 10816, 2103, 249, 593, 187, 187, 53, 43561, 27, 13036, 262, 907, 5974, 6735, 390, 13868, 323, 1066, 7830, 32, 187, 187, 15743, 27, 309, 452, 370, 1099, 76, 275, 5974, 6735, 15, 2596, 3055, ...	319	[ " What's the best way to prioritize paying off student debt vs saving for down payment?", " Should I continue to pay off my student loans or save/grow our down payment/savings? How do I go about doing this?", " Should I focus on paying off student debt or am I setting myself up for a lifetime of stress and pain...	[ 0, 2, 4, 6, 8 ]	[ 1, 3, 5, 7, 9 ]	3	[ [ 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50...	[ -12.322935104370117, -26.18353843688965, -40.35731506347656, -28.428142547607422, -56.07616424560547, -36.81848907470703, -8.903088569641113, -5.313793659210205, -35.21067428588867, -39.25278854370117 ]	[ -15.125, -39.75, -34.75, -38.5, -47.75, -46.5, -4.84375, -3.359375, -27.375, -63.75 ]
t3_2bzi1g	relationships	My[25m] girlfriend [24f] is only nice and pleasant when I'm aloof and distant. (9 months)	Throwaway I noticed the more I'm cold and distant towards my girlfriend, the more pleasant she becomes. She'll come over and clean my apartment, do laundry, dishes and cook for me, even as far as to offer oral favors while I'm drinking a beer! She seems completely happy and content during this time, which makes me h...	GF is a meanie-bo-beanie when I'm nice, and an absolute doll when I'm uninterested. Sex is bomb and she's the hottest I've ever dated. What do?	[ 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 5...	SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: My[25m] girlfriend [24f] is only nice and pleasant when I'm aloof and distant. (9 months) POST: Throwaway I noticed the more I'm cold and distant towards my girlfriend, the more pleasant she becomes. She'll come over and clean my apartment, do laundry, dishes and cook for me, even a...	GF is a meanie-bo-beanie when I'm nice, and an absolute doll when I'm uninterested. Sex is bomb and she's the hottest I've ever dated. What do?<\|endoftext\|>	[ 33952, 310, 247, 1599, 466, 14, 2399, 14, 14844, 466, 672, 309, 1353, 5322, 13, 285, 271, 7880, 6135, 672, 309, 1353, 440, 39619, 15, 16678, 310, 10110, 285, 703, 434, 253, 43526, 309, 1849, 2455, 15483, 15, 1737, 513, 32, 0, 50277,...	42	SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: My[25m] girlfriend [24f] is only nice and pleasant when I'm aloof and distant. (9 months) POST: Throwaway I noticed the more I'm cold and distant towards my girlfriend, the more pleasant she becomes. She'll come over and clean my apartment, do laundry, dishes and cook for me, even a...	[ 6971, 7941, 1703, 37, 1433, 27, 391, 16, 22842, 16458, 187, 187, 53, 43561, 27, 2752, 60, 1099, 78, 62, 19609, 544, 1348, 71, 62, 310, 760, 5322, 285, 17127, 672, 309, 1353, 355, 49912, 285, 13392, 15, 313, 26, 2607, 10, 187, 187,...	410	[ " girlfriend becomes more pleasant when I'm aloof and distant. I'm not sure what to do.", " Girlfriend is nicer when I'm cold and distant. She's also nicer when I'm aloof and distant. How do I deal with this?", " Girlfriend is nice and pleasant when I'm aloof and distant. If I make her happy by doing her favors...	[ 0, 2, 4, 6, 8 ]	[ 1, 3, 5, 7, 9 ]	4	[ [ 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50...	[ -20.579463958740234, -20.829113006591797, -73.94290161132812, -17.8482666015625, -64.77822875976562, -25.2210636138916, -42.87783432006836, -31.65926742553711, -46.46297836303711, -25.604110717773438 ]	[ -16.25, -30, -61.25, -21.25, -43.75, -42.75, -32.75, -46, -42, -38.75 ]
t3_552pxf	relationships	Me 28 F with guy I'm dating 30 M - 1 month, Is it okay to ask if everything is okay or am I being pushy?	I have been dating this guy for 1 month now and everything was great until last Sunday when I noticed he wasn't responding to my text with the same flirty, cute, enthusiastic text that he usually would. He used to call me baby, babe but since last Sunday he has said none of those words and texting has been less and com...	I asked guy I have been dating for a month if everything was okay and now I regret it because I think it makes me look pushy /clingy.	[ 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 5...	SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: Me 28 F with guy I'm dating 30 M - 1 month, Is it okay to ask if everything is okay or am I being pushy? POST: I have been dating this guy for 1 month now and everything was great until last Sunday when I noticed he wasn't responding to my text with the same flirty, cute, enthusiasti...	I asked guy I have been dating for a month if everything was okay and now I regret it because I think it makes me look pushy /clingy.<\|endoftext\|>	[ 309, 2546, 5599, 309, 452, 644, 13597, 323, 247, 1770, 604, 3253, 369, 8261, 285, 1024, 309, 14938, 352, 984, 309, 1158, 352, 2789, 479, 1007, 43283, 1994, 1227, 36537, 90, 15, 0, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, ...	33	SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: Me 28 F with guy I'm dating 30 M - 1 month, Is it okay to ask if everything is okay or am I being pushy? POST: I have been dating this guy for 1 month now and everything was great until last Sunday when I noticed he wasn't responding to my text with the same flirty, cute, enthusiasti...	[ 6971, 7941, 1703, 37, 1433, 27, 391, 16, 22842, 16458, 187, 187, 53, 43561, 27, 3189, 3349, 401, 342, 5599, 309, 1353, 13597, 1884, 353, 428, 337, 1770, 13, 1680, 352, 8261, 281, 1642, 604, 3253, 310, 8261, 390, 717, 309, 1146, 4328...	377	[ " Guy I'm dating has been acting different and I want to know if I am being pushy or too clingy asking if he is okay or if he is getting comfortable.", " Dating a guy for 1 month and I notice a change in him, as in he isn't responding to text the same way or doesn't say the same things that he used to, is it okay...	[ 0, 2, 4, 6, 8 ]	[ 1, 3, 5, 7, 9 ]	5	[ [ 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50...	[ -30.915992736816406, -56.6340217590332, -53.94136047363281, -8.188726425170898, -28.29367446899414, -31.418033599853516, -43.099281311035156, -27.854692459106445, -52.71357727050781, -22.357994079589844 ]	[ -21.625, -74, -47.5, -9.9375, -21.625, -35.75, -35.5, -30.125, -43, -27.125 ]
t3_fss6j	relationships	Is it weird that this turned me off from my gf?	The other day my girlfriend(23 years old) and myself(22 years old) were talking and she revealed to me that she almost didn't date me because I was too short (5'7"-5'8"). She is only about 5'5". Now she loves me a lot and thinks I am the best thing to ever happen to her but for some reason, learning about this, reall...	Gf said she almost didn't date me because I was too short. Now I am really turned off by her.	[ 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 5...	SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: Is it weird that this turned me off from my gf? POST: The other day my girlfriend(23 years old) and myself(22 years old) were talking and she revealed to me that she almost didn't date me because I was too short (5'7"-5'8"). She is only about 5'5". Now she loves me a lot and thinks...	Gf said she almost didn't date me because I was too short. Now I am really turned off by her.<\|endoftext\|>	[ 443, 71, 753, 703, 2761, 1904, 626, 3522, 479, 984, 309, 369, 1512, 2159, 15, 50276, 4125, 309, 717, 1663, 3531, 745, 407, 617, 15, 0, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 502...	26	SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: Is it weird that this turned me off from my gf? POST: The other day my girlfriend(23 years old) and myself(22 years old) were talking and she revealed to me that she almost didn't date me because I was too short (5'7"-5'8"). She is only about 5'5". Now she loves me a lot and thinks...	[ 6971, 7941, 1703, 37, 1433, 27, 391, 16, 22842, 16458, 187, 187, 53, 43561, 27, 1680, 352, 12504, 326, 436, 3531, 479, 745, 432, 619, 305, 71, 32, 187, 187, 15743, 27, 380, 643, 1388, 619, 19609, 9, 1508, 1107, 1711, 10, 285, 4266...	224	[ " GF who is 5'5\" aka 5'7\" turned me off. Is it wrong for me to want to break up with her?", " girlfriend who is 5'5\" is mad at me because I am 5'7\". Is it weird to want to break up with her because of this?", " Girlfriend is 5'3\" and I am 5'7\". She says I am too short for her and it is my fault. Is it...	[ 0, 2, 4, 6, 8 ]	[ 1, 3, 5, 7, 9 ]	6	[ [ 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50...	[ -45.60913848876953, -25.119731903076172, -40.553062438964844, -46.56532287597656, -46.9129638671875, -48.67768859863281, -36.50719451904297, -28.70608901977539, -26.600404739379883, -27.988492965698242 ]	[ -34.5, -29.625, -34.75, -55.25, -45.75, -56.5, -27.625, -45, -23.5, -33.5 ]
t3_3mcrjk	relationships	I (27/F) am obnoxiously paranoid after a gynecological health scare. How do I explain my ridiculous hormonal-ness to my boyfriend (32/M)? (X-posted to /r/AskWomen)	Last month, I started getting really hormonal and feeling downright crazy (becoming paranoid about my awesome boyfriend for absolutely no reason, crying at the drop of a hat, and all of that jazz.). Right around that time, my gyno told me that I was due to have my IUD removed. Oh, okay! That's why I was a hormonal wrec...	Had a big-ass ovarian cyst; scared that I'm irreparably broken; hormonal shitstorm ensues; worried I'm going to alienate my boyfriend with my behavior.	[ 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 5...	SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: I (27/F) am obnoxiously paranoid after a gynecological health scare. How do I explain my ridiculous hormonal-ness to my boyfriend (32/M)? (X-posted to /r/AskWomen) POST: Last month, I started getting really hormonal and feeling downright crazy (becoming paranoid about my awesome boyf...	Had a big-ass ovarian cyst; scared that I'm irreparably broken; hormonal shitstorm ensues; worried I'm going to alienate my boyfriend with my behavior.<\|endoftext\|>	[ 14136, 247, 1943, 14, 515, 18984, 26242, 28, 16060, 326, 309, 1353, 21388, 1148, 1598, 7154, 28, 37085, 10739, 25576, 3994, 955, 28, 11926, 309, 1353, 1469, 281, 14165, 366, 619, 22273, 342, 619, 3879, 15, 0, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277,...	37	SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: I (27/F) am obnoxiously paranoid after a gynecological health scare. How do I explain my ridiculous hormonal-ness to my boyfriend (32/M)? (X-posted to /r/AskWomen) POST: Last month, I started getting really hormonal and feeling downright crazy (becoming paranoid about my awesome boyf...	[ 6971, 7941, 1703, 37, 1433, 27, 391, 16, 22842, 16458, 187, 187, 53, 43561, 27, 309, 313, 1630, 16, 39, 10, 717, 691, 42480, 8140, 46197, 846, 247, 19859, 41286, 1975, 1786, 30272, 15, 1359, 513, 309, 5513, 619, 19082, 37085, 14, 12...	433	[ " My boyfriend and I are still dealing with a gynecological health scare, and I feel like I'm being irrational because I'm afraid that I'm going to have to worry about things that I'm not even fully aware of yet.", " I'm a hormonal mess, my girlfriend is supportive and understanding. I don't feel any less scared ...	[ 0, 2, 4, 6, 8 ]	[ 1, 3, 5, 7, 9 ]	7	[ [ 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50...	[ -65.3314208984375, -53.071449279785156, -73.98626708984375, -74.44949340820312, -36.07582473754883, -32.407005310058594, -43.51375198364258, -40.78364562988281, -38.82487487792969, -40.59313201904297 ]	[ -55.25, -59.25, -67.5, -89.5, -30.375, -42.5, -39, -47.75, -31.25, -59.25 ]
t3_38mtrj	relationships	Advice givers of this subreddit please help me (18m) out. Please and thank you:)	So recently I listened to the song Feel Again by OneRepublic. GREAT SONG. But it got me thinking: "is my heart numb? Am I a lonely soul?" All my friends tell me I am basically Ted Mosby (for those of u who are himym fans...) but I have seriously never been in a relationship and have always been friendzoned which is fin...	I think I might like two girls at once. Don't want to; just want to be head over heels for one. Do I do anything before college?	[ 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 5...	SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: Advice givers of this subreddit please help me (18m) out. Please and thank you:) POST: So recently I listened to the song Feel Again by OneRepublic. GREAT SONG. But it got me thinking: "is my heart numb? Am I a lonely soul?" All my friends tell me I am basically Ted Mosby (for those ...	I think I might like two girls at once. Don't want to; just want to be head over heels for one. Do I do anything before college?<\|endoftext\|>	[ 309, 1158, 309, 1537, 751, 767, 6838, 387, 2378, 15, 5037, 626, 971, 281, 28, 816, 971, 281, 320, 1481, 689, 25296, 323, 581, 15, 3166, 309, 513, 2712, 1078, 6831, 32, 0, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, ...	33	SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: Advice givers of this subreddit please help me (18m) out. Please and thank you:) POST: So recently I listened to the song Feel Again by OneRepublic. GREAT SONG. But it got me thinking: "is my heart numb? Am I a lonely soul?" All my friends tell me I am basically Ted Mosby (for those ...	[ 6971, 7941, 1703, 37, 1433, 27, 391, 16, 22842, 16458, 187, 187, 53, 43561, 27, 13536, 547, 305, 1564, 273, 436, 749, 433, 22940, 4496, 1361, 479, 313, 1093, 78, 10, 562, 15, 7764, 285, 5717, 368, 37731, 187, 187, 15743, 27, 1893, ...	263	[ " I'm a fun guy but I'm not into girls as much as I want to be and I want to know if I'm just being a clingy person.", " I'm a lonely teen who wants to be head over heels for one girl. How do I do it? Please help me.", " I've always been friendzoned and I am really not sure how to overcome this and be in a rela...	[ 0, 2, 4, 6, 8 ]	[ 1, 3, 5, 7, 9 ]	8	[ [ 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50...	[ -62.19119644165039, -27.674373626708984, -37.23457336425781, -48.008636474609375, -28.203277587890625, -16.905834197998047, -96.32217407226562, -33.81073760986328, -46.83428955078125, -62.054466247558594 ]	[ -52.75, -32, -34.75, -60, -26.875, -16.375, -80, -39, -41.75, -77 ]
t3_4gbnkb	relationships	Me [20/F] having trouble with boyfriend [23/m] of 2.5 years sex drive	My boyfriend and I have an amazing sex life. We are very sexually compatible. Although, his sex drive is crazy high compared to mine. It really depends on the time of month for me [hormones], sometimes I'll be down to go 3 times a day and sometimes I'm only interested in once a week. I'm asking for advice because I ...	how do I deny sex with my boyfriend of 2.5 years without him feeling like I don't want to please him?	[ 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 5...	SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: Me [20/F] having trouble with boyfriend [23/m] of 2.5 years sex drive POST: My boyfriend and I have an amazing sex life. We are very sexually compatible. Although, his sex drive is crazy high compared to mine. It really depends on the time of month for me [hormones], sometimes I'll ...	how do I deny sex with my boyfriend of 2.5 years without him feeling like I don't want to please him?<\|endoftext\|>	[ 849, 513, 309, 13292, 2825, 342, 619, 22273, 273, 374, 15, 22, 1107, 1293, 779, 5471, 751, 309, 1053, 626, 971, 281, 4496, 779, 32, 0, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 502...	26	SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: Me [20/F] having trouble with boyfriend [23/m] of 2.5 years sex drive POST: My boyfriend and I have an amazing sex life. We are very sexually compatible. Although, his sex drive is crazy high compared to mine. It really depends on the time of month for me [hormones], sometimes I'll ...	[ 6971, 7941, 1703, 37, 1433, 27, 391, 16, 22842, 16458, 187, 187, 53, 43561, 27, 3189, 544, 938, 16, 39, 62, 1907, 7596, 342, 22273, 544, 1508, 16, 78, 62, 273, 374, 15, 22, 1107, 2825, 4446, 187, 187, 15743, 27, 2752, 22273, 285, ...	403	[ " My boyfriend has a high sex drive and I'm not as turned on by him as he is. How do I approach his sexual needs without him feeling rejected?", " My boyfriend has a very high sex drive and I have a hard time denying him because he sometimes feels like I don't want to please him. How do I approach his needs bett...	[ 0, 2, 4, 6, 8 ]	[ 1, 3, 5, 7, 9 ]	9	[ [ 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50...	[ -26.150724411010742, -35.14996337890625, -56.6350212097168, -30.698871612548828, -31.79631996154785, -29.058679580688477, -96.20349884033203, -25.90066909790039, -22.110904693603516, -38.35662078857422 ]	[ -22.125, -46.5, -54.5, -45.75, -30, -36, -80.5, -35.75, -20.625, -43.5 ]
t3_1e42z5	offmychest	I'm just really tired right now...	I just discovered this subreddit and I am glad I did because I am about to be at the breaking point. I am about to move out of my house with my boyfriend and into an apartment in about a week. I've been extremely stressed out. I am losing sleep about this and I have been becoming irritated at many things. Having enough...	I'm worried about moving out of parent's house and into an apartment with a boyfriend who doesn't really seemed worried at all.	[ 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 5...	SUBREDDIT: r/offmychest TITLE: I'm just really tired right now... POST: I just discovered this subreddit and I am glad I did because I am about to be at the breaking point. I am about to move out of my house with my boyfriend and into an apartment in about a week. I've been extremely stressed out. I am losing sleep a...	I'm worried about moving out of parent's house and into an apartment with a boyfriend who doesn't really seemed worried at all.<\|endoftext\|>	[ 309, 1353, 11926, 670, 4886, 562, 273, 2885, 434, 2419, 285, 715, 271, 10230, 342, 247, 22273, 665, 2506, 626, 1663, 4455, 11926, 387, 512, 15, 0, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, ...	27	SUBREDDIT: r/offmychest TITLE: I'm just really tired right now... POST: I just discovered this subreddit and I am glad I did because I am about to be at the breaking point. I am about to move out of my house with my boyfriend and into an apartment in about a week. I've been extremely stressed out. I am losing sleep a...	[ 6971, 7941, 1703, 37, 1433, 27, 391, 16, 2727, 2577, 1962, 296, 187, 187, 53, 43561, 27, 309, 1353, 816, 1663, 11870, 987, 1024, 1051, 187, 187, 15743, 27, 309, 816, 6888, 436, 749, 433, 22940, 285, 309, 717, 9995, 309, 858, 984, ...	295	[ " I'm about to move out of my house and I'm getting stressed out. I feel like I'm stressed out because I'm afraid that I'm not ready.", " Moving out of my abusive relationship, not sure what to do. Don't want to be dragged into another one.", " Moving to an apartment in a week and I am really scared and worried...	[ 0, 2, 4, 6, 8 ]	[ 1, 3, 5, 7, 9 ]	10	[ [ 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50...	[ -35.33881759643555, -39.89030075073242, -25.44178009033203, -46.727577209472656, -66.86729431152344, -40.042091369628906, -43.747596740722656, -33.40101623535156, -33.902984619140625, -22.462512969970703 ]	[ -36, -50.5, -27.375, -64.5, -51, -46, -40.75, -38, -33.5, -28.625 ]
t3_12n77s	relationship_advice	How to deal with questioning everything?	23/f here and SO is 26/m. Together for 1.5 yrs and living together for 5 months. My sister just recently got married and I can't tell if the thoughts I am having are because I'm imaging their relationship to be something it isn't or if I'm in a LTR with someone that is really not suited for me in the long term. Their...	Witnessing a different kind of relationship is making me question mine. I don't know whether this is all in my head or I'm onto something	[ 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 6971, 7941, 1703, 37, 1433, 27, 391, 16, 46397, 64, 24301, 547, 187, 187, 53, 43561, 27, 1359...	SUBREDDIT: r/relationship_advice TITLE: How to deal with questioning everything? POST: 23/f here and SO is 26/m. Together for 1.5 yrs and living together for 5 months. My sister just recently got married and I can't tell if the thoughts I am having are because I'm imaging their relationship to be something it isn't ...	Witnessing a different kind of relationship is making me question mine. I don't know whether this is all in my head or I'm onto something<\|endoftext\|>	[ 40177, 272, 247, 1027, 2238, 273, 2954, 310, 2403, 479, 1953, 7477, 15, 309, 1053, 626, 871, 1880, 436, 310, 512, 275, 619, 1481, 390, 309, 1353, 4830, 1633, 0, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277...	30	SUBREDDIT: r/relationship_advice TITLE: How to deal with questioning everything? POST: 23/f here and SO is 26/m. Together for 1.5 yrs and living together for 5 months. My sister just recently got married and I can't tell if the thoughts I am having are because I'm imaging their relationship to be something it isn't ...	[ 6971, 7941, 1703, 37, 1433, 27, 391, 16, 46397, 64, 24301, 547, 187, 187, 53, 43561, 27, 1359, 281, 2968, 342, 20501, 3253, 32, 187, 187, 15743, 27, 3495, 16, 71, 1060, 285, 8717, 310, 3436, 16, 78, 15, 20058, 323, 337, 15, 22, ...	521	[ " my sister and my boyfriend are a dream and I want to be with them. How can I scale back my thoughts about wanting to be with them and get over my apprehensions about their relationship?", " my SO and I are in a LTR and I'm having thoughts about my sister and her husband and wondering if this is normal or if I'm...	[ 0, 2, 4, 6, 8 ]	[ 1, 3, 5, 7, 9 ]	11	[ [ 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 6971, 7941, 1703, 37, 1433, 27, 391, 16, 46397,...	[ -83.70065307617188, -48.26748275756836, -38.1043701171875, -34.257652282714844, -40.73202896118164, -35.87631607055664, -52.602760314941406, -33.820987701416016, -94.99713897705078, -41.894981384277344 ]	[ -70.5, -55.75, -33.25, -39.25, -37.5, -52, -41, -50.75, -74, -48.25 ]
t3_29gdvm	relationships	Me [ 20/F] with my bf [ 20/M] of 3 years. I've found myself attracted to someone else. Need advice on how to overcome.	So I have been in what I consider a serious relationship for a few years now. Like any relationship we've had our ups and downs, but things have been great these past few months. I recently started a new job, and don't get to see my bf as often as I would like to anymore. And on top of that I've found myself attracted ...	I've found myself attracted to a man who is not my boyfriend. I can't quit my job, so how can I overcome these feelings?	[ 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 6971, 7941, 170...	SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: Me [ 20/F] with my bf [ 20/M] of 3 years. I've found myself attracted to someone else. Need advice on how to overcome. POST: So I have been in what I consider a serious relationship for a few years now. Like any relationship we've had our ups and downs, but things have been great the...	I've found myself attracted to a man who is not my boyfriend. I can't quit my job, so how can I overcome these feelings?<\|endoftext\|>	[ 309, 1849, 1119, 4266, 17755, 281, 247, 637, 665, 310, 417, 619, 22273, 15, 309, 476, 626, 15856, 619, 2628, 13, 594, 849, 476, 309, 11399, 841, 10450, 32, 0, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, ...	30	SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: Me [ 20/F] with my bf [ 20/M] of 3 years. I've found myself attracted to someone else. Need advice on how to overcome. POST: So I have been in what I consider a serious relationship for a few years now. Like any relationship we've had our ups and downs, but things have been great the...	[ 6971, 7941, 1703, 37, 1433, 27, 391, 16, 22842, 16458, 187, 187, 53, 43561, 27, 3189, 544, 1384, 16, 39, 62, 342, 619, 270, 71, 544, 1384, 16, 46, 62, 273, 495, 1107, 15, 309, 1849, 1119, 4266, 17755, 281, 3095, 2010, 15, 20389, ...	509	[ " I'm attracted to another man, and I don't want to hurt my bf, but I feel like I'm making things worse.", " I'm attracted to another man, and I'm not sure how to deal. How did you overcome it?", " I've found myself attracted to someone else. Also, don't want to hurt my boyfriend, and I don't want to stop my re...	[ 0, 2, 4, 6, 8 ]	[ 1, 3, 5, 7, 9 ]	12	[ [ 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50...	[ -21.940685272216797, -24.747268676757812, -45.84409713745117, -40.48875427246094, -17.04430389404297, -19.729839324951172, -26.821258544921875, -23.31741714477539, -17.98659324645996, -25.054290771484375 ]	[ -19.625, -25.25, -35.75, -52.75, -14.125, -25.875, -24.75, -24.5, -13.1875, -26 ]
t3_2pzfya	relationships	Me [21M] with my GF [19F] of 2,5 years. She wants to pay me for helping her with her accounting studies, but I don't want her to	Hello fellow redditors, we've been together for 2,5 years and everything is more than perfect :) She is sitting here with me and we will both provide our perspectives. We are enrolled in a similar business administration program, but at different universities and I'm one year ahead. She is struggling right now with...	My GF wants to pay for helping her with her accounting class, but I don't want to get paid since I think that something like this should be expected in a relationship. Both perspectives are provided in the post.	[ 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 5...	SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: Me [21M] with my GF [19F] of 2,5 years. She wants to pay me for helping her with her accounting studies, but I don't want her to POST: Hello fellow redditors, we've been together for 2,5 years and everything is more than perfect :) She is sitting here with me and we will both prov...	My GF wants to pay for helping her with her accounting class, but I don't want to get paid since I think that something like this should be expected in a relationship. Both perspectives are provided in the post.<\|endoftext\|>	[ 2752, 33952, 5605, 281, 2075, 323, 9073, 617, 342, 617, 15890, 966, 13, 533, 309, 1053, 626, 971, 281, 755, 5087, 1580, 309, 1158, 326, 1633, 751, 436, 943, 320, 3264, 275, 247, 2954, 15, 6295, 24302, 403, 2530, 275, 253, 1501, 15, ...	44	SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: Me [21M] with my GF [19F] of 2,5 years. She wants to pay me for helping her with her accounting studies, but I don't want her to POST: Hello fellow redditors, we've been together for 2,5 years and everything is more than perfect :) She is sitting here with me and we will both prov...	[ 6971, 7941, 1703, 37, 1433, 27, 391, 16, 22842, 16458, 187, 187, 53, 43561, 27, 3189, 544, 1797, 46, 62, 342, 619, 33952, 544, 746, 39, 62, 273, 374, 13, 22, 1107, 15, 1500, 5605, 281, 2075, 479, 323, 9073, 617, 342, 617, 15890, ...	517	[ " GF wants to pay me for tutoring lessons after I helped her with accounting. I don't want to do it because I don't need it and I want to give it to him.", " GF wants to pay me for tutoring lessons after exams, I don't want to be paid for it. What should I do?", " GF wants to give me some money for tutoring les...	[ 0, 2, 4, 6, 8 ]	[ 1, 3, 5, 7, 9 ]	13	[ [ 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50...	[ -47.5562629699707, -19.124731063842773, -42.76081848144531, -21.39325714111328, -28.045799255371094, -22.639022827148438, -62.161190032958984, -21.36539077758789, -49.41337203979492, -26.2393741607666 ]	[ -35.75, -22.75, -37.25, -28.375, -19.625, -26, -48.5, -24.375, -45.5, -33 ]
t3_q3sop	dating_advice	I think I'm trapped in nasty triangle and don't know how to proceed, some advice would be really appreciated.	I (male, 19) met this girl at collge (19 too) a couple of months ago. At the moment I met her, nothing really special happened between us happened, we just chatted a bit and left as early friends. Then, I entered college (the same where she studies) and we started to connect faster; we have a lot in common, we're both...	I like this girl. A friend of mine likes this girl. This girl doesn't likes him back. This girl might like another friend, although I'm not sure of that. How do I proceed?	[ 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 5...	SUBREDDIT: r/dating_advice TITLE: I think I'm trapped in nasty triangle and don't know how to proceed, some advice would be really appreciated. POST: I (male, 19) met this girl at collge (19 too) a couple of months ago. At the moment I met her, nothing really special happened between us happened, we just chatted a bi...	I like this girl. A friend of mine likes this girl. This girl doesn't likes him back. This girl might like another friend, although I'm not sure of that. How do I proceed?<\|endoftext\|>	[ 309, 751, 436, 3226, 15, 329, 3331, 273, 7477, 13052, 436, 3226, 15, 831, 3226, 2506, 626, 13052, 779, 896, 15, 831, 3226, 1537, 751, 1529, 3331, 13, 3738, 309, 1353, 417, 2119, 273, 326, 15, 1359, 513, 309, 4262, 32, 0, 50277, 50...	42	SUBREDDIT: r/dating_advice TITLE: I think I'm trapped in nasty triangle and don't know how to proceed, some advice would be really appreciated. POST: I (male, 19) met this girl at collge (19 too) a couple of months ago. At the moment I met her, nothing really special happened between us happened, we just chatted a bi...	[ 6971, 7941, 1703, 37, 1433, 27, 391, 16, 44275, 64, 24301, 547, 187, 187, 53, 43561, 27, 309, 1158, 309, 1353, 18195, 275, 26321, 19037, 285, 1053, 626, 871, 849, 281, 4262, 13, 690, 7535, 651, 320, 1663, 14109, 15, 187, 187, 15743,...	328	[ " I'm trapped in a triangle, girlfriend and I are finishing college and I want to move on with my life. How should I proceed?", " I'm in a triangle with this girl and I don't know how to proceed from here; I want to move forward, but I don't want to hurt anyone.", " I've met a girl that I like, am interested in...	[ 0, 2, 4, 6, 8 ]	[ 1, 3, 5, 7, 9 ]	14	[ [ 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50...	[ -53.08394241333008, -23.87982749938965, -90.85081481933594, -27.193532943725586, -22.02817153930664, -32.44286346435547, -36.36856460571289, -30.841550827026367, -39.94997024536133, -17.11039924621582 ]	[ -46.25, -27.625, -83.5, -33, -18.25, -42, -33, -40.75, -38, -19.5 ]
t3_506j75	relationships	I [M20] met a girl [F20] who i really like while backpacking europe and i dont know what to do.	I met her initially in berlin, where I only got to spend a day with her. I instantly knew there was something between us, I didnt know what but we just clicked strait away. I would have stayed there longer just to be with her if I could have. I met with her again a few months later In london. We spent another 3 days t...	Met a girl while traveling, trying to figure out a way we can spend more time together and how to tell her how I feel.	[ 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 5...	SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: I [M20] met a girl [F20] who i really like while backpacking europe and i dont know what to do. POST: I met her initially in berlin, where I only got to spend a day with her. I instantly knew there was something between us, I didnt know what but we just clicked strait away. I would h...	Met a girl while traveling, trying to figure out a way we can spend more time together and how to tell her how I feel.<\|endoftext\|>	[ 6365, 247, 3226, 1223, 15153, 13, 2820, 281, 4677, 562, 247, 1039, 359, 476, 6947, 625, 673, 2366, 285, 849, 281, 2028, 617, 849, 309, 1928, 15, 0, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 5027...	28	SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: I [M20] met a girl [F20] who i really like while backpacking europe and i dont know what to do. POST: I met her initially in berlin, where I only got to spend a day with her. I instantly knew there was something between us, I didnt know what but we just clicked strait away. I would h...	[ 6971, 7941, 1703, 37, 1433, 27, 391, 16, 22842, 16458, 187, 187, 53, 43561, 27, 309, 544, 46, 938, 62, 1313, 247, 3226, 544, 39, 938, 62, 665, 891, 1663, 751, 1223, 30564, 272, 19454, 285, 891, 13414, 871, 752, 281, 513, 15, 187, ...	319	[ " Met a girl who i really like while backpacking europe, she and i want to spend more time together. Im not sure what to do. ", " Met a girl who i really like while backpacking europe. I'm not sure what to do next time we meet up, and I don't even know why Im posting this...", " met a girl in uk that I like, a...	[ 0, 2, 4, 6, 8 ]	[ 1, 3, 5, 7, 9 ]	15	[ [ 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50...	[ -40.898109436035156, -30.224533081054688, -69.08935546875, -30.727231979370117, -51.94158172607422, -30.862911224365234, -65.87911987304688, -67.06632232666016, -29.862024307250977, -16.713672637939453 ]	[ -36.5, -47, -58.25, -32.75, -39.75, -36, -52.75, -74, -29, -25.625 ]
t3_4q1ipr	dogs	[HELP] Not sure how to deal with new people/dogs and my big ole pup	I have a three year old Dober/Pit mix named Romulus ("Rome" for short). He's about 105lbs and for the most part a good guy. I live with 3 other dogs: a 10 year old labrador, a 2 year old French Bulldog and a 8 year old maltese mix. The four of them get along just fine, Rome and the Frenchie are best best best best frie...	HOW do I introduce new people? HOW do I introduce new dogs? WHAT do I do about 4th of July??	[ 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 6971, 7941, 1703, 37, 1433, 27, 391, 16, 69, 14175, 187, 187, 53, 43561, 27, 544, 1922, 13010, 62, 3105, 2119, 849, 281, 2968, 342, 747, 952, 16, 69, 14175, ...	SUBREDDIT: r/dogs TITLE: [HELP] Not sure how to deal with new people/dogs and my big ole pup POST: I have a three year old Dober/Pit mix named Romulus ("Rome" for short). He's about 105lbs and for the most part a good guy. I live with 3 other dogs: a 10 year old labrador, a 2 year old French Bulldog and a 8 year old ...	HOW do I introduce new people? HOW do I introduce new dogs? WHAT do I do about 4th of July??<\|endoftext\|>	[ 28281, 513, 309, 9569, 747, 952, 32, 28281, 513, 309, 9569, 747, 9097, 32, 29632, 513, 309, 513, 670, 577, 394, 273, 4163, 8220, 0, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, ...	25	SUBREDDIT: r/dogs TITLE: [HELP] Not sure how to deal with new people/dogs and my big ole pup POST: I have a three year old Dober/Pit mix named Romulus ("Rome" for short). He's about 105lbs and for the most part a good guy. I live with 3 other dogs: a 10 year old labrador, a 2 year old French Bulldog and a 8 year old ...	[ 6971, 7941, 1703, 37, 1433, 27, 391, 16, 69, 14175, 187, 187, 53, 43561, 27, 544, 1922, 13010, 62, 3105, 2119, 849, 281, 2968, 342, 747, 952, 16, 69, 14175, 285, 619, 1943, 18889, 16597, 187, 187, 15743, 27, 309, 452, 247, 1264, 8...	526	[ " I'm a dog owner who wants to bring a dog to a party, but I don't want to be around the dog when people come over. Help?", " my new dog (he's a puppy), gets a little skittish when meeting new people/dogs. How do I introduce him to new people/dogs?", " I've got a new pup and his old one is a stray. I want to ha...	[ 0, 2, 4, 6, 8 ]	[ 1, 3, 5, 7, 9 ]	16	[ [ 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 6971, 7941, 1703, 37, 1433, 27, 391, 16, 69, 14175, 187, 187, 53, 43561, 27, 544, 1922, 13010, 62, 3105, 2119...	[ -44.19697570800781, -42.707496643066406, -59.58646011352539, -26.0733585357666, -26.694494247436523, -22.96778678894043, -52.56836700439453, -51.149452209472656, -82.48656463623047, -61.52958297729492 ]	[ -38.75, -49.75, -52.75, -31.875, -22.625, -27, -43, -73.5, -77.5, -76.5 ]
t3_3uf4g1	relationships	I [16 M] think one of my friends [17 F] is self-harming. What should I do?	I was talking to two of my friends at school yesterday - we'll call them Mary and Emma. Emma is a good friend of mine and one of Mary's best friends. Mary and I aren't particularly close, but we still talk quite a bit. She doesn't really take anything that seriously; she's always making a joke. It was a fairly normal ...	Saw a friend had self-harm scars and want to know what I can do to help, or at least make her feel more comfortable.	[ 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 5...	SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: I [16 M] think one of my friends [17 F] is self-harming. What should I do? POST: I was talking to two of my friends at school yesterday - we'll call them Mary and Emma. Emma is a good friend of mine and one of Mary's best friends. Mary and I aren't particularly close, but we still ta...	Saw a friend had self-harm scars and want to know what I can do to help, or at least make her feel more comfortable.<\|endoftext\|>	[ 29961, 247, 3331, 574, 1881, 14, 21127, 38763, 285, 971, 281, 871, 752, 309, 476, 513, 281, 1361, 13, 390, 387, 1878, 1056, 617, 1928, 625, 9848, 15, 0, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277,...	29	SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: I [16 M] think one of my friends [17 F] is self-harming. What should I do? POST: I was talking to two of my friends at school yesterday - we'll call them Mary and Emma. Emma is a good friend of mine and one of Mary's best friends. Mary and I aren't particularly close, but we still ta...	[ 6971, 7941, 1703, 37, 1433, 27, 391, 16, 22842, 16458, 187, 187, 53, 43561, 27, 309, 544, 1036, 353, 62, 1158, 581, 273, 619, 3858, 544, 1166, 401, 62, 310, 1881, 14, 21127, 272, 15, 1737, 943, 309, 513, 32, 187, 187, 15743, 27, ...	463	[ " My friend has been self-harming for a while now. I don't know what to do. I just want to help her.", " one of my friends has a self-harming habit, I don't know what to do. I don't know if she'd be comfortable talking about it with me.", " I've been thinking about someone I'm close to who has had a bad scar on...	[ 0, 2, 4, 6, 8 ]	[ 1, 3, 5, 7, 9 ]	17	[ [ 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50...	[ -24.72303009033203, -25.5856990814209, -48.462276458740234, -25.742998123168945, -26.604158401489258, -12.63319206237793, -16.684682846069336, -23.079208374023438, -45.598854064941406, -14.033876419067383 ]	[ -19.125, -24.25, -38, -31, -22.75, -14.8125, -14.8125, -31.75, -36.5, -11.875 ]
t3_2b7zgh	legaladvice	[GA] My ex is in possession of illegal pictures of me and won't delete them	I originally posted in /r/relationships, but I was told to also post here. So, I'm 16/F, and I was dating my ex for two years (I was 14 when he was 17, now I'm 16 and he's 19). During that time he was verbally and sexually abusive and often threatened me so I would send explicit photos, which I foolishly did. Ever s...	dated a guy for two years, crazy destructive ex still has pictures of me and I'm not legal. What can I do?	[ 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 5...	SUBREDDIT: r/legaladvice TITLE: [GA] My ex is in possession of illegal pictures of me and won't delete them POST: I originally posted in /r/relationships, but I was told to also post here. So, I'm 16/F, and I was dating my ex for two years (I was 14 when he was 17, now I'm 16 and he's 19). During that time he was v...	dated a guy for two years, crazy destructive ex still has pictures of me and I'm not legal. What can I do?<\|endoftext\|>	[ 15483, 247, 5599, 323, 767, 1107, 13, 10412, 27009, 385, 1335, 556, 7968, 273, 479, 285, 309, 1353, 417, 4320, 15, 1737, 476, 309, 513, 32, 0, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50...	27	SUBREDDIT: r/legaladvice TITLE: [GA] My ex is in possession of illegal pictures of me and won't delete them POST: I originally posted in /r/relationships, but I was told to also post here. So, I'm 16/F, and I was dating my ex for two years (I was 14 when he was 17, now I'm 16 and he's 19). During that time he was v...	[ 6971, 7941, 1703, 37, 1433, 27, 391, 16, 7685, 24301, 547, 187, 187, 53, 43561, 27, 544, 7283, 62, 2752, 385, 310, 275, 10023, 273, 9676, 7968, 273, 479, 285, 1912, 626, 11352, 731, 187, 187, 15743, 27, 309, 8927, 9269, 275, 1227, ...	301	[ " Ex won't take down pictures of me even after I've warned him, and I can't ask him to do it, and I don't want to file a report or anything.", " My ex has been threatening me, and I want to know what I can do to stop him from possessing and using the pictures he has that I sent him.", " Ex is being really manip...	[ 0, 2, 4, 6, 8 ]	[ 1, 3, 5, 7, 9 ]	18	[ [ 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50...	[ -62.69371032714844, -31.12862777709961, -33.50596618652344, -18.675798416137695, -18.85304069519043, -31.17581558227539, -60.57636260986328, -23.48505210876465, -25.61981964111328, -22.95901107788086 ]	[ -62.25, -43, -27, -20.625, -17.25, -35, -51.25, -31.125, -21.5, -30 ]
t3_16h35a	relationships	My (F27) ex-FWB (M26) lied about being single; he's married. Need help with rational response.	I used the reddit search function and couldn't find this question. We met 6 years ago, FWB off and on for about 3 years. We live (now) in different states. We'd travel periodically to see each other and meet up in hotels or my house, sexting etc. I asked him several times if he is single, lives alone before any 'bene...	turns out my ex-fwb was married, lied to me about it, I found out, do I tell him I know?	[ 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 5...	SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: My (F27) ex-FWB (M26) lied about being single; he's married. Need help with rational response. POST: I used the reddit search function and couldn't find this question. We met 6 years ago, FWB off and on for about 3 years. We live (now) in different states. We'd travel periodically ...	turns out my ex-fwb was married, lied to me about it, I found out, do I tell him I know? <\|endoftext\|>	[ 7819, 562, 619, 385, 14, 25837, 67, 369, 7028, 13, 27786, 281, 479, 670, 352, 13, 309, 1119, 562, 13, 513, 309, 2028, 779, 309, 871, 32, 209, 0, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277...	29	SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: My (F27) ex-FWB (M26) lied about being single; he's married. Need help with rational response. POST: I used the reddit search function and couldn't find this question. We met 6 years ago, FWB off and on for about 3 years. We live (now) in different states. We'd travel periodically ...	[ 6971, 7941, 1703, 37, 1433, 27, 391, 16, 22842, 16458, 187, 187, 53, 43561, 27, 2752, 313, 39, 1630, 10, 385, 14, 20941, 35, 313, 46, 1731, 10, 27786, 670, 1146, 2014, 28, 344, 434, 7028, 15, 20389, 1361, 342, 8870, 2380, 15, 187,...	375	[ " Ex-FWB lied about being single and married. Is there any good reason to keep this guy's name in my heart or mind? I'm very angry.", " Ex-FWB lied about being single and married. How do I respond to the news? And what if he were to find out I'm pregnant?", " Ex-FWB lied that he is single, is there any rati...	[ 0, 2, 4, 6, 8 ]	[ 1, 3, 5, 7, 9 ]	19	[ [ 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50...	[ -50.591331481933594, -46.886966705322266, -56.865943908691406, -20.66226577758789, -35.75069046020508, -26.45721435546875, -54.48185729980469, -24.641674041748047, -39.83749771118164, -33.688507080078125 ]	[ -48.75, -49, -37, -28.625, -35.25, -36.75, -42.75, -33.25, -31.5, -40.25 ]
t3_gp1ty	AskReddit	Has anyone ever gone batshit crazy before, and how did you patch your life back after that?	First time posting on Reddit. Been lurking for awhile and thought this a much merry place to be. For context, I have been suffering from depression for the last few years. And as a reaction to depression, I did get pretty angry for awhile, and lashed out at people close to me. I'll call that my "batshit crazy" perio...	Was depressed. Got crazy angry. Messed up life. Fixing life. Would like to hear from others how they fixed their life after possibly messing it up.	[ 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 6971, 7941, 1703, 37, 1433, 27, 391, 16, 30326, 10252, 22940, 187, 187, 53, 43561, 27, 14026, 3780, 2455, 4783, 10464, 26871, 10412, 1078, 13, 285, 849, 858, 368, 12097, 634, 1495, 896, 846, 326...	SUBREDDIT: r/AskReddit TITLE: Has anyone ever gone batshit crazy before, and how did you patch your life back after that? POST: First time posting on Reddit. Been lurking for awhile and thought this a much merry place to be. For context, I have been suffering from depression for the last few years. And as a reacti...	Was depressed. Got crazy angry. Messed up life. Fixing life. Would like to hear from others how they fixed their life after possibly messing it up.<\|endoftext\|>	[ 12349, 23201, 15, 21979, 10412, 11790, 15, 15551, 264, 598, 1495, 15, 22360, 272, 1495, 15, 14815, 751, 281, 4089, 432, 2571, 849, 597, 4229, 616, 1495, 846, 6830, 4840, 272, 352, 598, 15, 0, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, ...	35	SUBREDDIT: r/AskReddit TITLE: Has anyone ever gone batshit crazy before, and how did you patch your life back after that? POST: First time posting on Reddit. Been lurking for awhile and thought this a much merry place to be. For context, I have been suffering from depression for the last few years. And as a reacti...	[ 6971, 7941, 1703, 37, 1433, 27, 391, 16, 30326, 10252, 22940, 187, 187, 53, 43561, 27, 14026, 3780, 2455, 4783, 10464, 26871, 10412, 1078, 13, 285, 849, 858, 368, 12097, 634, 1495, 896, 846, 326, 32, 187, 187, 15743, 27, 475, 6407, ...	541	[ " Went crazy, rebuilt my life, and I'm not ready to put myself back in the dark. How do you rebuild and live a fuller life?", " Went batshit crazy, lost a lot of friends and a best friend, and am now on meds. Looking for advice on how to rebuild my life.", " became depressed, psychotic, and finally got medical ...	[ 0, 2, 4, 6, 8 ]	[ 1, 3, 5, 7, 9 ]	20	[ [ 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 6971, 7941, 1703, 37, 1433, 27, 391, 16, 30326, 10252, 22940, 187, 187, 53, 43561, 27, 14026, 3780, 2455, 4783, 10464, 26871, 10412, 1078, 13, 2...	[ -55.035213470458984, -21.075620651245117, -87.81138610839844, -28.02520751953125, -62.49851608276367, -30.20943260192871, -65.05970001220703, -34.012874603271484, -52.8632926940918, -37.858116149902344 ]	[ -48, -28.875, -64.5, -39.25, -51, -34, -57.75, -35.25, -41.25, -46.25 ]
t3_4c2yj8	legaladvice	Contacting my biological father, who doesnt know I exist because of falsified DNA test [Washington]	I'm going to try to keep this short so it doesn't drag long into a soap opera. When my Mom [22 F at the time] got pregnant with her boyfriend at the time [24 M], aka my Dad, she decided he would be the right fit for many reasons. He ended up harassing her by constantly calling her work/showing up at her house. My mom ...	My mom hid me from my dad by falsifying DNA test when I was born. I want to meet him now (19 years later) but am lost of what I should do in legal/moral terms?	[ 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 5...	SUBREDDIT: r/legaladvice TITLE: Contacting my biological father, who doesnt know I exist because of falsified DNA test [Washington] POST: I'm going to try to keep this short so it doesn't drag long into a soap opera. When my Mom [22 F at the time] got pregnant with her boyfriend at the time [24 M], aka my Dad, she d...	My mom hid me from my dad by falsifying DNA test when I was born. I want to meet him now (19 years later) but am lost of what I should do in legal/moral terms?<\|endoftext\|>	[ 2752, 2243, 29334, 479, 432, 619, 12247, 407, 21649, 5411, 3882, 1071, 672, 309, 369, 5686, 15, 309, 971, 281, 2525, 779, 1024, 313, 746, 1107, 1996, 10, 533, 717, 3663, 273, 752, 309, 943, 513, 275, 4320, 16, 78, 7909, 2426, 32, ...	44	SUBREDDIT: r/legaladvice TITLE: Contacting my biological father, who doesnt know I exist because of falsified DNA test [Washington] POST: I'm going to try to keep this short so it doesn't drag long into a soap opera. When my Mom [22 F at the time] got pregnant with her boyfriend at the time [24 M], aka my Dad, she d...	[ 6971, 7941, 1703, 37, 1433, 27, 391, 16, 7685, 24301, 547, 187, 187, 53, 43561, 27, 3267, 20594, 619, 7534, 3392, 13, 665, 36908, 871, 309, 2226, 984, 273, 21649, 1245, 3882, 1071, 544, 25655, 62, 187, 187, 15743, 27, 309, 1353, 146...	519	[ " My mom got pregnant by my dad and they never married, now he's my biological father and I want to meet him, my mom doesn't want me to because of his harassment, how should I go about it?", " My mom used a different kid for the DNA test. DNA didn't match. Dad wants to meet me. Not sure what to do.", " Mom mess...	[ 0, 2, 4, 6, 8 ]	[ 1, 3, 5, 7, 9 ]	21	[ [ 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50...	[ -64.33043670654297, -26.657001495361328, -64.99874877929688, -23.813875198364258, -50.840354919433594, -52.620445251464844, -51.57097625732422, -39.60352325439453, -109.38485717773438, -40.32753372192383 ]	[ -61, -37.25, -62.25, -32.5, -40.5, -68, -40.5, -53.5, -76, -48.5 ]
t3_2l3yy4	relationships	I [19M] have been talking to/seeing [18F] friend for about 3 months and have no idea what I'm doing.	So basically I met a girl in the beginning of the semester during our orientation week. She caught my eye the first day and we ended up talking on a bus ride somewhere and clicked. We exchanged numbers and continued talking. Fast forward a weekend and I actually start texting her (during orientation week we were i...	Been seeing/talking to girl for more than 3 months. Have taken her out twice and have lunch weekly. How do I ask her to get official/serious?	[ 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 5...	SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: I [19M] have been talking to/seeing [18F] friend for about 3 months and have no idea what I'm doing. POST: So basically I met a girl in the beginning of the semester during our orientation week. She caught my eye the first day and we ended up talking on a bus ride somewhere and clic...	Been seeing/talking to girl for more than 3 months. Have taken her out twice and have lunch weekly. How do I ask her to get official/serious?<\|endoftext\|>	[ 2325, 257, 6523, 16, 85, 21489, 281, 3226, 323, 625, 685, 495, 2607, 15, 12238, 2668, 617, 562, 7019, 285, 452, 11157, 13772, 15, 50276, 2347, 513, 309, 1642, 617, 281, 755, 3565, 16, 47396, 32, 0, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, ...	37	SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: I [19M] have been talking to/seeing [18F] friend for about 3 months and have no idea what I'm doing. POST: So basically I met a girl in the beginning of the semester during our orientation week. She caught my eye the first day and we ended up talking on a bus ride somewhere and clic...	[ 6971, 7941, 1703, 37, 1433, 27, 391, 16, 22842, 16458, 187, 187, 53, 43561, 27, 309, 544, 746, 46, 62, 452, 644, 5015, 281, 16, 30546, 544, 1093, 39, 62, 3331, 323, 670, 495, 2607, 285, 452, 642, 2934, 752, 309, 1353, 2509, 15, ...	444	[ " Met a girl in the beginning of the semester and we have been talking for about 3 months and have no idea what we're doing.", " Met a girl in the beginning of the semester and we have been talking/seeing each other for about 3 months. Don't know what I'm doing.", " Met girl and really like her but have no ide...	[ 0, 2, 4, 6, 8 ]	[ 1, 3, 5, 7, 9 ]	22	[ [ 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50...	[ -13.443939208984375, -15.130391120910645, -43.676414489746094, -34.203922271728516, -35.48968505859375, -37.091102600097656, -49.63041687011719, -35.84649658203125, -38.324283599853516, -57.047000885009766 ]	[ -13.1875, -19.5, -44, -40, -28.25, -37.25, -44.5, -52.75, -32.75, -76.5 ]
t3_46d53t	relationships	I [23F] continually feel unwelcome around my boyfriend's [22M] Dad's side of the family.	So my boyfriend and I have been together for a little over 2 years, and for the first 2, things were pretty great. I felt welcomed and loved by everyone in his families (his parents are divorced), even though the bf was rarely around--we had a LDR where he went to college 5 hours away on a sports scholarship. Last sum...	made the mistake of breaking up, got back together, bf's Dad and Stepmom are completely stonewalling me.	[ 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 6971, 7941, 1703, 37, 1433, 27, 391, 16, 22842, 16458, 187, 187, 53, 43561, 27, 309, 544, 1508, 39, 62, 23265, 1...	SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: I [23F] continually feel unwelcome around my boyfriend's [22M] Dad's side of the family. POST: So my boyfriend and I have been together for a little over 2 years, and for the first 2, things were pretty great. I felt welcomed and loved by everyone in his families (his parents are div...	made the mistake of breaking up, got back together, bf's Dad and Stepmom are completely stonewalling me.<\|endoftext\|>	[ 1160, 253, 10551, 273, 10155, 598, 13, 1694, 896, 2366, 13, 270, 71, 434, 16522, 285, 2951, 2617, 297, 403, 4336, 8805, 88, 11822, 479, 15, 0, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50...	27	SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: I [23F] continually feel unwelcome around my boyfriend's [22M] Dad's side of the family. POST: So my boyfriend and I have been together for a little over 2 years, and for the first 2, things were pretty great. I felt welcomed and loved by everyone in his families (his parents are div...	[ 6971, 7941, 1703, 37, 1433, 27, 391, 16, 22842, 16458, 187, 187, 53, 43561, 27, 309, 544, 1508, 39, 62, 23265, 1928, 10357, 13509, 1475, 619, 22273, 434, 544, 1423, 46, 62, 16522, 434, 1930, 273, 253, 2021, 15, 187, 187, 15743, 27, ...	521	[ " My boyfriend and I are still in a LDR. His parents are cold. How do keep my friendship with them intact, when I don't want to be?", " My boyfriend's family has been very cold to me since he moved back, and I feel like I'm an outcast, even though I love them all. How do I win them over?", " I've been in a LDR ...	[ 0, 2, 4, 6, 8 ]	[ 1, 3, 5, 7, 9 ]	23	[ [ 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 6971, 7941, 1703, 37, 1433, 27, 391, 16, 22842, 16458, 187, 187, ...	[ -65.30074310302734, -26.095115661621094, -73.3660659790039, -37.205562591552734, -26.202714920043945, -37.36735534667969, -38.0490608215332, -20.90613555908203, -27.744644165039062, -26.709251403808594 ]	[ -65.5, -29.375, -56.5, -52.75, -24.125, -45.75, -36.5, -31.75, -20.5, -49 ]
t3_4q289h	relationships	I [28 F] just confronted my Borderline mother [54 F] about all the things she has done to ruin my life up until now...	I had been advised by my psychologist not to contact her due to the negative effect she was having on my personal life and mental health (I myself have problems with mental illness). But she had been relentlessly trying to contact me after I cut off contact without giving her a reason. So today I emailed her detailin...	Confronted borderline mother, now feel guilty. Would like to hear others' stories of similar confrontations with borderline people.	[ 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 5...	SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: I [28 F] just confronted my Borderline mother [54 F] about all the things she has done to ruin my life up until now... POST: I had been advised by my psychologist not to contact her due to the negative effect she was having on my personal life and mental health (I myself have problem...	Confronted borderline mother, now feel guilty. Would like to hear others' stories of similar confrontations with borderline people.<\|endoftext\|>	[ 1716, 6342, 264, 45210, 3101, 13, 1024, 1928, 8106, 15, 14815, 751, 281, 4089, 2571, 8, 6281, 273, 2074, 11449, 569, 342, 45210, 952, 15, 0, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277,...	26	SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: I [28 F] just confronted my Borderline mother [54 F] about all the things she has done to ruin my life up until now... POST: I had been advised by my psychologist not to contact her due to the negative effect she was having on my personal life and mental health (I myself have problem...	[ 6971, 7941, 1703, 37, 1433, 27, 391, 16, 22842, 16458, 187, 187, 53, 43561, 27, 309, 544, 1619, 401, 62, 816, 25394, 619, 26580, 1282, 3101, 544, 3439, 401, 62, 670, 512, 253, 1841, 703, 556, 2218, 281, 23737, 619, 1495, 598, 1919, ...	418	[ " My Borderline mother has been trying to get in touch with me since I cut contact with her without giving me a reason, and I have come to the point where I feel guilty for not having come to her with everything I know, but she will deny everything and", " Just confronted Borderline mother of my girlfriend about ...	[ 0, 2, 4, 6, 8 ]	[ 1, 3, 5, 7, 9 ]	24	[ [ 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50...	[ -72.84178161621094, -60.9506721496582, -41.036746978759766, -22.024642944335938, -103.25596618652344, -49.54208755493164, -62.29247283935547, -45.582977294921875, -50.16059112548828, -23.842567443847656 ]	[ -63.75, -79, -32.5, -27.125, -88.5, -75, -54.5, -72, -45.75, -31.125 ]
t3_3peoig	relationships	[Update] I [17 M] am crazy about this this girl [17 F] and need advice on how to proceed.	My previous post can be seen here: We have remained in touch since I originally posted this. She has since broken up with this guy [17/18 M] from Alberta, apparently due to what I understand is the relationship being somewhat abusive in nature. We met again on Friday and I thoroughly enjoyed the encounter of ours. I'...	The aforementioned "Alberta guy" from the last post is now the out of the picture. I feel like I connect with her on a more emotional level since our second meeting so I was wondering what I should do from here.	[ 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 5...	SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: [Update] I [17 M] am crazy about this this girl [17 F] and need advice on how to proceed. POST: My previous post can be seen here: We have remained in touch since I originally posted this. She has since broken up with this guy [17/18 M] from Alberta, apparently due to what I unders...	The aforementioned "Alberta guy" from the last post is now the out of the picture. I feel like I connect with her on a more emotional level since our second meeting so I was wondering what I should do from here.<\|endoftext\|>	[ 380, 18979, 346, 2422, 589, 893, 5599, 3, 432, 253, 1390, 1501, 310, 1024, 253, 562, 273, 253, 5406, 15, 309, 1928, 751, 309, 4684, 342, 617, 327, 247, 625, 8991, 1268, 1580, 776, 1273, 4804, 594, 309, 369, 12371, 752, 309, 943, 5...	48	SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: [Update] I [17 M] am crazy about this this girl [17 F] and need advice on how to proceed. POST: My previous post can be seen here: We have remained in touch since I originally posted this. She has since broken up with this guy [17/18 M] from Alberta, apparently due to what I unders...	[ 6971, 7941, 1703, 37, 1433, 27, 391, 16, 22842, 16458, 187, 187, 53, 43561, 27, 544, 11241, 62, 309, 544, 1166, 353, 62, 717, 10412, 670, 436, 436, 3226, 544, 1166, 401, 62, 285, 878, 7535, 327, 849, 281, 4262, 15, 187, 187, 15743...	509	[ " Met a girl who has been through a lot of depression and I'm feeling as if I have found someone that I can relate to and that will be there for me.", " I'm crazy about this girl, she's suffering from depression, and I want to be with her. Any advice on how to proceed?", " Met this girl in September that I met ...	[ 0, 2, 4, 6, 8 ]	[ 1, 3, 5, 7, 9 ]	25	[ [ 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50...	[ -43.5419807434082, -17.708415985107422, -48.55372619628906, -71.61968231201172, -43.160728454589844, -29.813804626464844, -88.22190856933594, -34.349578857421875, -44.439239501953125, -47.094093322753906 ]	[ -43, -23, -42, -76.5, -31.75, -36.5, -73, -37, -36.75, -55.25 ]
t3_1y50rt	relationships	I [28m] am afraid to commit to a girl [26f] I really like because of my lack of relationship/dating experience. And the fact that she is ugly.	I have been dating this girl for a few months now and I'm in a little bit of a dilemma. At first I did not really see this as anything long term, but gradually I have started to appreciate every little thing about her. I have started to picture us together in the future, travelling together, starting a family. The pr...	In a relationship with a wonderful girl but afraid to commit cause of my lack of dating experience. And the fact that she is not very good looking.	[ 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 6971, 7941, 1703, 37, 1433, 27, 391, 16, 22842, 16458, 187, 187, 53, 43561, 27, 309, 5...	SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: I [28m] am afraid to commit to a girl [26f] I really like because of my lack of relationship/dating experience. And the fact that she is ugly. POST: I have been dating this girl for a few months now and I'm in a little bit of a dilemma. At first I did not really see this as anything ...	In a relationship with a wonderful girl but afraid to commit cause of my lack of dating experience. And the fact that she is not very good looking.<\|endoftext\|>	[ 496, 247, 2954, 342, 247, 9386, 3226, 533, 9202, 281, 4514, 2847, 273, 619, 3480, 273, 13597, 2793, 15, 1244, 253, 958, 326, 703, 310, 417, 1077, 1175, 2819, 15, 0, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, ...	31	SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: I [28m] am afraid to commit to a girl [26f] I really like because of my lack of relationship/dating experience. And the fact that she is ugly. POST: I have been dating this girl for a few months now and I'm in a little bit of a dilemma. At first I did not really see this as anything ...	[ 6971, 7941, 1703, 37, 1433, 27, 391, 16, 22842, 16458, 187, 187, 53, 43561, 27, 309, 544, 1619, 78, 62, 717, 9202, 281, 4514, 281, 247, 3226, 544, 1731, 71, 62, 309, 1663, 751, 984, 273, 619, 3480, 273, 2954, 16, 44275, 2793, 15, ...	521	[ " I'm afraid of committing to a girlfriend because I don't have much dating experience and the only person I've ever dated is my girlfriend.", " I'm afraid of committing to a girlfriend because I don't have much dating experience and the only person I've ever dated is ugly.", " I've been in a relationship for a...	[ 0, 2, 4, 6, 8 ]	[ 1, 3, 5, 7, 9 ]	26	[ [ 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 6971, 7941, 1703, 37, 1433, 27, 391, 16,...	[ -35.688568115234375, -30.72464370727539, -37.115867614746094, -35.22626876831055, -47.30440902709961, -42.79181671142578, -52.188255310058594, -42.12432098388672, -33.83427810668945, -57.62132263183594 ]	[ -33.75, -32.25, -32, -41, -33.25, -60.25, -46.75, -55.25, -29, -67 ]
t3_2brbyp	relationships	How to convince my very conscious parents to allow me to go on a trip with my best friend	My best friend asked me to go to Montreal with her this summer for a few days, but my parents are pretty strict. My whole life, my parents have most of the time said no to me hanging out with friends or going out and they have randomly said yes a few times. What is the best way for me to convince them for me to go? I'm...	How can I convince my strict parents to let me take a trip with my best friend? My parents have known my best friend for over 10 years.	[ 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 5...	SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: How to convince my very conscious parents to allow me to go on a trip with my best friend POST: My best friend asked me to go to Montreal with her this summer for a few days, but my parents are pretty strict. My whole life, my parents have most of the time said no to me hanging out w...	How can I convince my strict parents to let me take a trip with my best friend? My parents have known my best friend for over 10 years.<\|endoftext\|>	[ 1359, 476, 309, 18578, 619, 7654, 4651, 281, 1339, 479, 1379, 247, 7408, 342, 619, 1682, 3331, 32, 2752, 4651, 452, 1929, 619, 1682, 3331, 323, 689, 884, 1107, 15, 0, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277,...	31	SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: How to convince my very conscious parents to allow me to go on a trip with my best friend POST: My best friend asked me to go to Montreal with her this summer for a few days, but my parents are pretty strict. My whole life, my parents have most of the time said no to me hanging out w...	[ 6971, 7941, 1703, 37, 1433, 27, 391, 16, 22842, 16458, 187, 187, 53, 43561, 27, 1359, 281, 18578, 619, 1077, 9680, 4651, 281, 1581, 479, 281, 564, 327, 247, 7408, 342, 619, 1682, 3331, 187, 187, 15743, 27, 2752, 1682, 3331, 2546, 47...	215	[ " How can I convince my parents to let me go on a trip with my best friend? Also, I'm 20 years old by the way and Indian.", " My parents are very strict and do not like me hanging out with friends, how do I keep them from saying no this time?", " how to convince my parents that I need to go on a trip with my be...	[ 0, 2, 4, 6, 8 ]	[ 1, 3, 5, 7, 9 ]	27	[ [ 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50...	[ -26.330265045166016, -29.646860122680664, -12.973508834838867, -12.9735107421875, -28.654624938964844, -11.748468399047852, -32.236751556396484, -20.222572326660156, -27.829303741455078, -15.882217407226562 ]	[ -18.25, -36, -12.875, -12.875, -24, -22.75, -32.5, -22.375, -23.875, -20.125 ]
t3_2i1pb6	relationships	My [23M] GF [22F] is a bit too active on my Instagram for my comfort level.	We've been together a few months now and things are going swell. We're some 150 miles apart (she works, I'm in grad school). We see each other every or every other weekend depending on how busy we are and it's good so far. One small hiccup: our presence on social media. By nature I'm a pretty private person and keep a...	GF's comments on IG are a bit too much for my personal comfort. How do I tell her to be mindful?	[ 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 5...	SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: My [23M] GF [22F] is a bit too active on my Instagram for my comfort level. POST: We've been together a few months now and things are going swell. We're some 150 miles apart (she works, I'm in grad school). We see each other every or every other weekend depending on how busy we are a...	GF's comments on IG are a bit too much for my personal comfort. How do I tell her to be mindful?<\|endoftext\|>	[ 33952, 434, 5701, 327, 43027, 403, 247, 2372, 1512, 1199, 323, 619, 3367, 5956, 15, 1359, 513, 309, 2028, 617, 281, 320, 44049, 32, 0, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277...	25	SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: My [23M] GF [22F] is a bit too active on my Instagram for my comfort level. POST: We've been together a few months now and things are going swell. We're some 150 miles apart (she works, I'm in grad school). We see each other every or every other weekend depending on how busy we are a...	[ 6971, 7941, 1703, 37, 1433, 27, 391, 16, 22842, 16458, 187, 187, 53, 43561, 27, 2752, 544, 1508, 46, 62, 33952, 544, 1423, 39, 62, 310, 247, 2372, 1512, 3939, 327, 619, 19614, 323, 619, 5956, 1268, 15, 187, 187, 15743, 27, 844, 18...	428	[ " GF is too active on my IG and I don't want to come across as an asshole but don't know how to tread delicately.", " GF is too active on my IG and I don't want her to post inappropriate things on it. How do I broach the subject without coming off as an asshole?", " GF is too much on my Instagram and I am not. ...	[ 0, 2, 4, 6, 8 ]	[ 1, 3, 5, 7, 9 ]	28	[ [ 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50...	[ -22.521358489990234, -21.085819244384766, -32.80528259277344, -28.877368927001953, -44.77252197265625, -31.949806213378906, -69.49977111816406, -50.33929443359375, -25.270477294921875, -28.103181838989258 ]	[ -15.9375, -30.625, -25.5, -30.875, -34.25, -52, -51.5, -72, -23.5, -36 ]
t3_2vx54g	relationships	Am I [25/F] in the wrong for being incredibly upset that my LDR boyfriend [32] hasn't even texted me today?	He texted me last night at 1 am while he was drinking with his friends saying "Happy Valentine's Day." I thought it was sweet he was thinking of me with his friends. He hasn't texted me a lot recently. I have to text him first or he won't text me all day. This has been going on for a week now. Recently I've stop...	LDR boyfriend has been texting less and less, now waiting until late evening to initiate contact. Do I have any right to be upset for not hearing from him on today of all days?	[ 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 5...	SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: Am I [25/F] in the wrong for being incredibly upset that my LDR boyfriend [32] hasn't even texted me today? POST: He texted me last night at 1 am while he was drinking with his friends saying "Happy Valentine's Day." I thought it was sweet he was thinking of me with his friends. ...	LDR boyfriend has been texting less and less, now waiting until late evening to initiate contact. Do I have any right to be upset for not hearing from him on today of all days?<\|endoftext\|>	[ 418, 4976, 22273, 556, 644, 2505, 272, 1679, 285, 1679, 13, 1024, 6179, 1919, 3563, 7237, 281, 23070, 3057, 15, 50276, 4045, 309, 452, 667, 987, 281, 320, 14004, 323, 417, 4854, 432, 779, 327, 3063, 273, 512, 1897, 32, 0, 50277, 502...	41	SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: Am I [25/F] in the wrong for being incredibly upset that my LDR boyfriend [32] hasn't even texted me today? POST: He texted me last night at 1 am while he was drinking with his friends saying "Happy Valentine's Day." I thought it was sweet he was thinking of me with his friends. ...	[ 6971, 7941, 1703, 37, 1433, 27, 391, 16, 22842, 16458, 187, 187, 53, 43561, 27, 3052, 309, 544, 1099, 16, 39, 62, 275, 253, 3430, 323, 1146, 16088, 14004, 326, 619, 418, 4976, 22273, 544, 1237, 62, 11210, 626, 1014, 2505, 264, 479, ...	304	[ " LDR boyfriend hasn't texted me in a week. Am I wrong for being upset? And if I am, is that because I'm mad he's not responding to my texts or am I mad because he's not responding?", " LDR boyfriend hasn't texted me in a week. Am I wrong for being upset? Should I initiate contact?", " LDR boyfriend hasn't ...	[ 0, 2, 4, 6, 8 ]	[ 1, 3, 5, 7, 9 ]	29	[ [ 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50...	[ -56.15435791015625, -14.876462936401367, -44.03142166137695, -17.331090927124023, -57.23347473144531, -26.47132110595703, -44.10749816894531, -26.19687271118164, -25.25917625427246, -12.695307731628418 ]	[ -51, -16.375, -43.75, -22.875, -41, -28.5, -35.25, -29.375, -17.5, -16.125 ]
t3_13f1ol	relationship_advice	[24/f] Is it time to ask pseudo-fwb [27/m] the "what are we" question?	We first met about a year ago - no common friends of any kind - and first went out this April. I got really loose on the first date and may or may not have said that i'm not looking for anything serious. We went out on brunch and other stuff afterwards and sex just happened along the way. i have been going out on dates...	7 months since we first dated, never defined what we are. he did stop seeing someone in March, that's all i know about his past ;)	[ 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 5...	SUBREDDIT: r/relationship_advice TITLE: [24/f] Is it time to ask pseudo-fwb [27/m] the "what are we" question? POST: We first met about a year ago - no common friends of any kind - and first went out this April. I got really loose on the first date and may or may not have said that i'm not looking for anything seriou...	7 months since we first dated, never defined what we are. he did stop seeing someone in March, that's all i know about his past ;)<\|endoftext\|>	[ 818, 2607, 1580, 359, 806, 15483, 13, 1620, 2931, 752, 359, 403, 15, 344, 858, 3523, 6523, 3095, 275, 3919, 13, 326, 434, 512, 891, 871, 670, 521, 2469, 24457, 0, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 5...	31	SUBREDDIT: r/relationship_advice TITLE: [24/f] Is it time to ask pseudo-fwb [27/m] the "what are we" question? POST: We first met about a year ago - no common friends of any kind - and first went out this April. I got really loose on the first date and may or may not have said that i'm not looking for anything seriou...	[ 6971, 7941, 1703, 37, 1433, 27, 391, 16, 46397, 64, 24301, 547, 187, 187, 53, 43561, 27, 544, 1348, 16, 71, 62, 1680, 352, 673, 281, 1642, 17927, 14, 25837, 67, 544, 1630, 16, 78, 62, 253, 346, 5371, 403, 359, 3, 1953, 32, 187, ...	381	[ " i'm not looking for anything serious and may or may not be interested in a long term relationship. We had sex this last night after a one day period of very casual dating, we are re-committing to a \"casual\" relationship with no expectations of", " i'm not looking for anything serious but i'm not ready to slee...	[ 0, 2, 4, 6, 8 ]	[ 1, 3, 5, 7, 9 ]	30	[ [ 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50...	[ -130.73165893554688, -34.634002685546875, -16.936931610107422, -11.308574676513672, -90.72625732421875, -37.494873046875, -70.30953979492188, -53.829742431640625, -32.77119064331055, -38.64275360107422 ]	[ -110, -39, -17.25, -12.5, -72.5, -41, -65, -66, -33.5, -49.75 ]
t3_2jceac	relationships	Me [23 F], my SO [24 M] of a year, I want to break up but I have no place to go.	So I have been dating my boyfriend over a year. Let's call him Austin. I moved in with Austin's family because my parents out of state and I decided to take some time off from the college where we met. I worked through a terrible depression which has been persistent for the past few years. I isolated myself so now I a...	If I break up with my boyfriend I will be homeless. Should I pretend like everything is okay until I can leave?	[ 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 5...	SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: Me [23 F], my SO [24 M] of a year, I want to break up but I have no place to go. POST: So I have been dating my boyfriend over a year. Let's call him Austin. I moved in with Austin's family because my parents out of state and I decided to take some time off from the college where we...	If I break up with my boyfriend I will be homeless. Should I pretend like everything is okay until I can leave?<\|endoftext\|>	[ 1310, 309, 2740, 598, 342, 619, 22273, 309, 588, 320, 20783, 15, 14482, 309, 22830, 751, 3253, 310, 8261, 1919, 309, 476, 3553, 32, 0, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277...	25	SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: Me [23 F], my SO [24 M] of a year, I want to break up but I have no place to go. POST: So I have been dating my boyfriend over a year. Let's call him Austin. I moved in with Austin's family because my parents out of state and I decided to take some time off from the college where we...	[ 6971, 7941, 1703, 37, 1433, 27, 391, 16, 22842, 16458, 187, 187, 53, 43561, 27, 3189, 544, 1508, 401, 1092, 619, 8717, 544, 1348, 353, 62, 273, 247, 807, 13, 309, 971, 281, 2740, 598, 533, 309, 452, 642, 1659, 281, 564, 15, 187, ...	472	[ " I'm broke, homeless, no money and no place to go. I want to break up with my boyfriend but I don't know how to go about it.", " I'm a 23 year old girl who moved in with my boyfriend's family. I feel like I need to break up with my boyfriend and I don't know how to do it.", " I want to break up with my boyfrie...	[ 0, 2, 4, 6, 8 ]	[ 1, 3, 5, 7, 9 ]	31	[ [ 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50...	[ -30.577943801879883, -31.36713409423828, -41.58976745605469, -34.06243133544922, -27.404266357421875, -30.998332977294922, -13.771223068237305, -35.56863784790039, -28.98583984375, -26.746891021728516 ]	[ -26.625, -37.5, -31.75, -40.25, -22.25, -36.25, -13.6875, -58.75, -24.75, -31.25 ]
t3_yxymu	running	Blood blisters and weird sized feet	Hey runnit, I'm training for my second half marathon in October, and I've got a concern: I've developed some decent blood blisters on the middle toes of both my feet as well as a doozy on the big toe of my left foot. My right foot has normal blisters on the big toe and underneath. I'm not sure if I should leave them as...	blood blisters on my 2 different sized feet. What can I do to combat this? Am I doomed to spend ridiculous money on shoes and orthotics?	[ 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 5...	SUBREDDIT: r/running TITLE: Blood blisters and weird sized feet POST: Hey runnit, I'm training for my second half marathon in October, and I've got a concern: I've developed some decent blood blisters on the middle toes of both my feet as well as a doozy on the big toe of my left foot. My right foot has normal bliste...	blood blisters on my 2 different sized feet. What can I do to combat this? Am I doomed to spend ridiculous money on shoes and orthotics?<\|endoftext\|>	[ 2614, 787, 8328, 327, 619, 374, 1027, 25180, 4669, 15, 1737, 476, 309, 513, 281, 11757, 436, 32, 3052, 309, 38467, 281, 6947, 19082, 2583, 327, 12682, 285, 9373, 20290, 32, 0, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 5027...	32	SUBREDDIT: r/running TITLE: Blood blisters and weird sized feet POST: Hey runnit, I'm training for my second half marathon in October, and I've got a concern: I've developed some decent blood blisters on the middle toes of both my feet as well as a doozy on the big toe of my left foot. My right foot has normal bliste...	[ 6971, 7941, 1703, 37, 1433, 27, 391, 16, 24220, 187, 187, 53, 43561, 27, 14169, 787, 8328, 285, 12504, 25180, 4669, 187, 187, 15743, 27, 18793, 1408, 32202, 13, 309, 1353, 3733, 323, 619, 1273, 2716, 39097, 275, 4437, 13, 285, 309, ...	292	[ " Blood blisters on my feet, not sure what to do. Don't want to pop them because I'm not sure they are going to hurt, or if they'll hurt, or if they're even worth it.", " Blood blisters on my feet, not sure what to do. I have small feet, keep them from hurting?", " I've got blood blisters on my big toe, and had...	[ 0, 2, 4, 6, 8 ]	[ 1, 3, 5, 7, 9 ]	32	[ [ 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50...	[ -65.36520385742188, -34.147613525390625, -44.86968231201172, -43.30773162841797, -35.395484924316406, -46.667518615722656, -49.764923095703125, -54.53602981567383, -24.763521194458008, -35.158966064453125 ]	[ -56, -41, -43.5, -53, -37, -54, -41.5, -70, -23.25, -39.25 ]
t3_3cp277	tifu	TIFU by forgetting my lube in the shower	So I'm sitting in the living room with my then GF not long ago and my roommate (Carl with the slicked back hair) comes in from the bathroom to ask me where the little black bottle in the shower went. Confused, I looked back at him and told him I didn't know what he was talking about. This is about what happened next: ...	i left my lube in the shower for a couple days and my roommate mistook it for hair conditioner. To this day he doesn't know.	[ 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 5...	SUBREDDIT: r/tifu TITLE: TIFU by forgetting my lube in the shower POST: So I'm sitting in the living room with my then GF not long ago and my roommate (Carl with the slicked back hair) comes in from the bathroom to ask me where the little black bottle in the shower went. Confused, I looked back at him and told him I ...	i left my lube in the shower for a couple days and my roommate mistook it for hair conditioner. To this day he doesn't know.<\|endoftext\|>	[ 891, 1669, 619, 298, 4338, 275, 253, 16846, 323, 247, 4564, 1897, 285, 619, 2316, 13884, 5384, 645, 352, 323, 4707, 1617, 254, 15, 1916, 436, 1388, 344, 2506, 626, 871, 15, 0, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50...	33	SUBREDDIT: r/tifu TITLE: TIFU by forgetting my lube in the shower POST: So I'm sitting in the living room with my then GF not long ago and my roommate (Carl with the slicked back hair) comes in from the bathroom to ask me where the little black bottle in the shower went. Confused, I looked back at him and told him I ...	[ 6971, 7941, 1703, 37, 1433, 27, 391, 16, 40165, 86, 187, 187, 53, 43561, 27, 308, 3801, 54, 407, 37264, 619, 298, 4338, 275, 253, 16846, 187, 187, 15743, 27, 1893, 309, 1353, 7063, 275, 253, 3811, 2316, 342, 619, 840, 33952, 417, ...	349	[ " Tried to take out my lube in the shower and didn't even notice it was gone. Girlfriend found it and was going to tell me where it was.", " Tried to take a shower, girlfriend was in the shower with me, my roommate finds my lube in the shower, girlfriend doesn't know where it is", " I was too embarrassed to tel...	[ 0, 2, 4, 6, 8 ]	[ 1, 3, 5, 7, 9 ]	33	[ [ 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50...	[ -62.31044006347656, -46.63825988769531, -41.38664245605469, -25.967927932739258, -48.01555633544922, -33.85188293457031, -42.622901916503906, -39.30576705932617, -59.52091598510742, -55.00584411621094 ]	[ -45.75, -53, -33.25, -31.5, -44.75, -43.75, -33.25, -55, -42.5, -63.5 ]
t3_2b77t2	relationships	My mom [53F] keeps trying to reunite me [23F] and my estranged sister [19F] and it's making me miserable.	"Estranged" isn't really the right word though. We have never had a relationship of any kind. We have hated each other since the moment she was born. Not once in the past decade (despite living together and going to the same school) have we even spoken to each other without it turning violent, or at least becoming a sc...	I want my mom to stop tricking me and my sister, who hate each other, into meeting in the hope that we will suddenly get along after two decades.	[ 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 5...	SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: My mom [53F] keeps trying to reunite me [23F] and my estranged sister [19F] and it's making me miserable. POST: "Estranged" isn't really the right word though. We have never had a relationship of any kind. We have hated each other since the moment she was born. Not once in the past d...	I want my mom to stop tricking me and my sister, who hate each other, into meeting in the hope that we will suddenly get along after two decades.<\|endoftext\|>	[ 309, 971, 619, 2243, 281, 3523, 10480, 272, 479, 285, 619, 7586, 13, 665, 9239, 1016, 643, 13, 715, 4804, 275, 253, 3524, 326, 359, 588, 8423, 755, 2112, 846, 767, 8007, 15, 0, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, ...	34	SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: My mom [53F] keeps trying to reunite me [23F] and my estranged sister [19F] and it's making me miserable. POST: "Estranged" isn't really the right word though. We have never had a relationship of any kind. We have hated each other since the moment she was born. Not once in the past d...	[ 6971, 7941, 1703, 37, 1433, 27, 391, 16, 22842, 16458, 187, 187, 53, 43561, 27, 2752, 2243, 544, 3357, 39, 62, 11359, 2820, 281, 27135, 614, 479, 544, 1508, 39, 62, 285, 619, 49712, 4626, 7586, 544, 746, 39, 62, 285, 352, 434, 240...	460	[ " My mom keeps trying to reunite me and my estranged sister and it's making me miserable. How do I convince her that I don't want to be reunited?", " My mom keeps trying to reunite me and my estranged sister and it's making me miserable. How do I get her to stop?", " Mom keeps trying to reunite us and I am mise...	[ 0, 2, 4, 6, 8 ]	[ 1, 3, 5, 7, 9 ]	34	[ [ 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50...	[ -14.43453598022461, -8.170842170715332, -54.377044677734375, -33.515892028808594, -47.90538787841797, -7.627836227416992, -36.817779541015625, -35.83747100830078, -29.391021728515625, -6.8390727043151855 ]	[ -16.875, -11.4375, -44.5, -41.75, -49.25, -12.0625, -30.125, -41.5, -25, -12.3125 ]
t3_12ax1j	dating_advice	Is it a date? Or just as friends? M(18) F(17)	So, I've know this girl a while through other friends and she's been at gatherings I've been to. The other day at a party I finally plucked up the courage to talk to her properly (not just the usual "hi how are you" stuff) and we got on really well. The only problem was she then started talking to her friend about h...	A girl who I only know a little has said yes to seeing a film with me, which we both really want to see, and suggested we have coffee before, is it a date, or just as friends?	[ 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 5...	SUBREDDIT: r/dating_advice TITLE: Is it a date? Or just as friends? M(18) F(17) POST: So, I've know this girl a while through other friends and she's been at gatherings I've been to. The other day at a party I finally plucked up the courage to talk to her properly (not just the usual "hi how are you" stuff) and we g...	A girl who I only know a little has said yes to seeing a film with me, which we both really want to see, and suggested we have coffee before, is it a date, or just as friends?<\|endoftext\|>	[ 329, 3226, 665, 309, 760, 871, 247, 1652, 556, 753, 4754, 281, 6523, 247, 3085, 342, 479, 13, 534, 359, 1097, 1663, 971, 281, 923, 13, 285, 5125, 359, 452, 8574, 1078, 13, 310, 352, 247, 3522, 13, 390, 816, 347, 3858, 32, 0, 502...	44	SUBREDDIT: r/dating_advice TITLE: Is it a date? Or just as friends? M(18) F(17) POST: So, I've know this girl a while through other friends and she's been at gatherings I've been to. The other day at a party I finally plucked up the courage to talk to her properly (not just the usual "hi how are you" stuff) and we g...	[ 6971, 7941, 1703, 37, 1433, 27, 391, 16, 44275, 64, 24301, 547, 187, 187, 53, 43561, 27, 1680, 352, 247, 3522, 32, 2207, 816, 347, 3858, 32, 353, 9, 1093, 10, 401, 9, 1166, 10, 187, 187, 15743, 27, 1893, 13, 309, 1849, 871, 436,...	437	[ " Girl I like said she wasn't sure if she liked the guy she's interested in, but then she said she wants to see a film and go out for coffee. Is it a date, or just friends?", " M(18) F(17) I like her, she likes a film we both like. We've talked about it, arranged to go and see it. Is it a date, or just as friends...	[ 0, 2, 4, 6, 8 ]	[ 1, 3, 5, 7, 9 ]	35	[ [ 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50...	[ -41.240142822265625, -37.74272155761719, -77.0963363647461, -42.65863800048828, -91.53147888183594, -29.52118682861328, -29.350601196289062, -36.65101623535156, -56.402687072753906, -35.970672607421875 ]	[ -38.25, -75, -61.75, -40.5, -62.25, -35, -30.25, -50.25, -41.25, -43 ]
t3_242sbp	relationships	F20 broken up with by M20. 2 years. First day. I can't enjoy food, I'm afraid to sleep. My heart hurts.i want to connect to others that feel this way.	The future was so bright, we were going to live together. We never fought. I tried so hard to make him happy. We talked through everything, I always admitted when I was wrong and we seemed so good at fixing problems. I couldn't make him happy. He was depressed, but in a way that he hid from me. I didn't mind when he wa...	He loved me, then realized he didn't. Then he told me he could love me, and as soon as he saw me he told me he couldn't.	[ 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 5...	SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: F20 broken up with by M20. 2 years. First day. I can't enjoy food, I'm afraid to sleep. My heart hurts.i want to connect to others that feel this way. POST: The future was so bright, we were going to live together. We never fought. I tried so hard to make him happy. We talked through...	He loved me, then realized he didn't. Then he told me he could love me, and as soon as he saw me he told me he couldn't.<\|endoftext\|>	[ 754, 7636, 479, 13, 840, 8156, 344, 1904, 626, 15, 2635, 344, 2183, 479, 344, 812, 2389, 479, 13, 285, 347, 3517, 347, 344, 3047, 479, 344, 2183, 479, 344, 4571, 626, 15, 0, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50...	34	SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: F20 broken up with by M20. 2 years. First day. I can't enjoy food, I'm afraid to sleep. My heart hurts.i want to connect to others that feel this way. POST: The future was so bright, we were going to live together. We never fought. I tried so hard to make him happy. We talked through...	[ 6971, 7941, 1703, 37, 1433, 27, 391, 16, 22842, 16458, 187, 187, 53, 43561, 27, 401, 938, 7154, 598, 342, 407, 353, 938, 15, 374, 1107, 15, 3973, 1388, 15, 309, 476, 626, 4264, 2739, 13, 309, 1353, 9202, 281, 4600, 15, 2752, 2798,...	409	[ " F20 broke up with by M20. I want to be able to connect to other people who feel this way.", " M20 broke up with me, I'm sad. I didn't know how to feel and I feel alone. I don't know how to go on.", " F20 broke up with by M20. I'm not sure how to overcome this. I miss him so much and it's my first day back.", ...	[ 0, 2, 4, 6, 8 ]	[ 1, 3, 5, 7, 9 ]	36	[ [ 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50...	[ -14.670317649841309, -40.54941177368164, -44.299156188964844, -6.886430740356445, -28.044689178466797, -47.933773040771484, -53.905818939208984, -32.192684173583984, -12.530405044555664, -35.032596588134766 ]	[ -12.1875, -41.5, -41.5, -7.96875, -20.5, -51.5, -48, -33.25, -15.3125, -43.75 ]
t3_4sx055	relationships	Should me [f]irst relationship be long distance?	Hi all! Backstory: I just recently came out of my "ugly duckling with extreme social anxiety" phase I have never had a boyfriend/girlfriend (am also a "supervirgin") or many friends.I have really come out of my shell these past few months! I [19f] have started a new summer job and will be transferring to a university...	I like this guy but am moving away, should we do it long distance, have a summer fling or let it fizzle?	[ 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 5...	SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: Should me [f]irst relationship be long distance? POST: Hi all! Backstory: I just recently came out of my "ugly duckling with extreme social anxiety" phase I have never had a boyfriend/girlfriend (am also a "supervirgin") or many friends.I have really come out of my shell these past ...	I like this guy but am moving away, should we do it long distance, have a summer fling or let it fizzle?<\|endoftext\|>	[ 309, 751, 436, 5599, 533, 717, 4886, 1977, 13, 943, 359, 513, 352, 1048, 4181, 13, 452, 247, 5768, 892, 272, 390, 1339, 352, 269, 11114, 282, 32, 0, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 5...	29	SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: Should me [f]irst relationship be long distance? POST: Hi all! Backstory: I just recently came out of my "ugly duckling with extreme social anxiety" phase I have never had a boyfriend/girlfriend (am also a "supervirgin") or many friends.I have really come out of my shell these past ...	[ 6971, 7941, 1703, 37, 1433, 27, 391, 16, 22842, 16458, 187, 187, 53, 43561, 27, 14482, 479, 544, 71, 62, 712, 2954, 320, 1048, 4181, 32, 187, 187, 15743, 27, 17459, 512, 2, 187, 187, 8116, 19192, 27, 309, 816, 4102, 2210, 562, 273...	448	[ " I'm going to be moving away from my home for the summer and I want to know if I should keep pursuing this relationship.", " I'm moving away from my home town and into a 3 hour drive away. Will be quitting my job in 3 months. I have never been in a relationship before.", " Should I break up with my boyfriend a...	[ 0, 2, 4, 6, 8 ]	[ 1, 3, 5, 7, 9 ]	37	[ [ 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50...	[ -38.069000244140625, -43.178749084472656, -48.56206130981445, -22.63189125061035, -59.48957824707031, -40.468868255615234, -46.505043029785156, -31.606830596923828, -42.11589813232422, -29.394290924072266 ]	[ -30.75, -51.75, -41.5, -34.75, -57.25, -49.5, -41.5, -38.5, -41.5, -33.25 ]
t3_4bvotl	relationships	I [27 M] met an amazing girl [29 F], but my superficial prejudices could screw it up.	I went on an online date with an amazing girl. She's smart, funny, and we just had chemistry. I've been on many online dates, and the awkward silence during certain bits of the date is just par for the course. This date was different. We always had something to talk about, and more over we were on the same page. We'd e...	Met an amazing girl. Had an amazing connection. Problem is she looks better with clothes on than off. I'm in conflict about how to proceed.	[ 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 5...	SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: I [27 M] met an amazing girl [29 F], but my superficial prejudices could screw it up. POST: I went on an online date with an amazing girl. She's smart, funny, and we just had chemistry. I've been on many online dates, and the awkward silence during certain bits of the date is just pa...	Met an amazing girl. Had an amazing connection. Problem is she looks better with clothes on than off. I'm in conflict about how to proceed.<\|endoftext\|>	[ 6365, 271, 8644, 3226, 15, 14136, 271, 8644, 4602, 15, 24016, 310, 703, 4453, 1805, 342, 10015, 327, 685, 745, 15, 309, 1353, 275, 7344, 670, 849, 281, 4262, 15, 0, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, ...	31	SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: I [27 M] met an amazing girl [29 F], but my superficial prejudices could screw it up. POST: I went on an online date with an amazing girl. She's smart, funny, and we just had chemistry. I've been on many online dates, and the awkward silence during certain bits of the date is just pa...	[ 6971, 7941, 1703, 37, 1433, 27, 391, 16, 22842, 16458, 187, 187, 53, 43561, 27, 309, 544, 1630, 353, 62, 1313, 271, 8644, 3226, 544, 1717, 401, 1092, 533, 619, 28019, 10216, 1271, 812, 11598, 352, 598, 15, 187, 187, 15743, 27, 309, ...	398	[ " Met an amazing girl, but my superficial prejudices could screw it up. We're both beautiful, but I'm not sure if I should be okay with her being a little heavier, or if I should leave her because I'm pretty shallow.", " Met an amazing girl, but my superficial prejudices could screw it up. We've talked on the pho...	[ 0, 2, 4, 6, 8 ]	[ 1, 3, 5, 7, 9 ]	38	[ [ 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50...	[ -67.40631103515625, -34.203285217285156, -61.87892150878906, -28.54197120666504, -19.20673370361328, -33.486595153808594, -35.30836868286133, -31.869491577148438, -55.39117431640625, -28.912321090698242 ]	[ -56.5, -34.25, -43.5, -37.25, -18.25, -44.25, -29.875, -33.75, -47.5, -41 ]
t3_53uht0	needadvice	Much needed advice for adopted Russian prodigy!	My family adopted an 8 year old girl with disabilities who's mother was an alcoholic prostitute. She was born with Fetal Alcohol Syndrome and is missing her arms from the elbows down. My sister is now 18 years old, a senior in high school, has straight A's and is a professional artist. She will have her pick at whateve...	I have an adopted 18 year old sister without social skills and I need advice on how to help her attain social skills for college.	[ 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 5...	SUBREDDIT: r/needadvice TITLE: Much needed advice for adopted Russian prodigy! POST: My family adopted an 8 year old girl with disabilities who's mother was an alcoholic prostitute. She was born with Fetal Alcohol Syndrome and is missing her arms from the elbows down. My sister is now 18 years old, a senior in high s...	I have an adopted 18 year old sister without social skills and I need advice on how to help her attain social skills for college.<\|endoftext\|>	[ 309, 452, 271, 8671, 1283, 807, 1711, 7586, 1293, 2675, 6936, 285, 309, 878, 7535, 327, 849, 281, 1361, 617, 20685, 2675, 6936, 323, 6831, 15, 0, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, ...	27	SUBREDDIT: r/needadvice TITLE: Much needed advice for adopted Russian prodigy! POST: My family adopted an 8 year old girl with disabilities who's mother was an alcoholic prostitute. She was born with Fetal Alcohol Syndrome and is missing her arms from the elbows down. My sister is now 18 years old, a senior in high s...	[ 6971, 7941, 1703, 37, 1433, 27, 391, 16, 22990, 24301, 547, 187, 187, 53, 43561, 27, 18770, 3058, 7535, 323, 8671, 7247, 48864, 90, 2, 187, 187, 15743, 27, 2752, 2021, 8671, 271, 854, 807, 1711, 3226, 342, 26545, 665, 434, 3101, 369...	272	[ " My sister is adopted and is a very social and smart young lady. She has Fetal Alcohol Syndrome and will need to learn how to be socially adept.", " My sister has Fetal Alcohol Syndrome and may not be ready for college, as a result, I want to help her with her social skills and communicating with strangers.", ...	[ 0, 2, 4, 6, 8 ]	[ 1, 3, 5, 7, 9 ]	39	[ [ 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50...	[ -44.81216812133789, -26.879413604736328, -30.254745483398438, -71.01351165771484, -37.665443420410156, -24.878522872924805, -48.815513610839844, -36.35746765136719, -35.285972595214844, -41.17720413208008 ]	[ -37.25, -30.75, -32.25, -89.5, -39.25, -38.25, -38.75, -50.25, -28.5, -58.75 ]
t3_2n1rcv	relationships	I [15 F] don't want my boyfriend [16 M] to think I'm cheating on him	We've been together for about a year and I've made a new male friend (lets call him John) recently. Most of my friends are guys, so my boyfriend has gotten accustomed to it as far as I know. However, I spend a lot of time with John, and it's not because I'm interested in John romantically or anything. I've become John'...	Hang out with new male friend who needs my help very often, don't want boyfriend getting the wrong idea, but can't tell him why I'm gone	[ 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 5...	SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: I [15 F] don't want my boyfriend [16 M] to think I'm cheating on him POST: We've been together for about a year and I've made a new male friend (lets call him John) recently. Most of my friends are guys, so my boyfriend has gotten accustomed to it as far as I know. However, I spend a...	Hang out with new male friend who needs my help very often, don't want boyfriend getting the wrong idea, but can't tell him why I'm gone<\|endoftext\|>	[ 39008, 562, 342, 747, 5086, 3331, 665, 3198, 619, 1361, 1077, 2223, 13, 1053, 626, 971, 22273, 2970, 253, 3430, 2934, 13, 533, 476, 626, 2028, 779, 2139, 309, 1353, 4783, 0, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277,...	32	SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: I [15 F] don't want my boyfriend [16 M] to think I'm cheating on him POST: We've been together for about a year and I've made a new male friend (lets call him John) recently. Most of my friends are guys, so my boyfriend has gotten accustomed to it as far as I know. However, I spend a...	[ 6971, 7941, 1703, 37, 1433, 27, 391, 16, 22842, 16458, 187, 187, 53, 43561, 27, 309, 544, 1010, 401, 62, 1053, 626, 971, 619, 22273, 544, 1036, 353, 62, 281, 1158, 309, 1353, 37142, 327, 779, 187, 187, 15743, 27, 844, 1849, 644, 2...	300	[ " I'm leaving my boyfriend of a year to regroup with a new male friend from the group I'm with. I don't want my boyfriend to think I'm cheating on him, but I also don't want to hurt him.", " I'm going out of my way to spend time with a guy I don't like romantically, but I don't want my boyfriend to think I'm chea...	[ 0, 2, 4, 6, 8 ]	[ 1, 3, 5, 7, 9 ]	40	[ [ 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50...	[ -69.58428955078125, -17.564725875854492, -48.001346588134766, -22.398426055908203, -14.556086540222168, -14.349278450012207, -39.431724548339844, -20.137088775634766, -25.809085845947266, -15.907720565795898 ]	[ -52.25, -36.25, -42, -29, -13.4375, -19.75, -28.5, -29.75, -22.125, -18.125 ]
t3_o1mey	AskReddit	Reddit, what makes you insanely mad?	Something that makes me mad happened today. I'll start by saying I respect when people can be straight up with me, i.e. if they don't like me, and they tell me, I respect that. So, what happened: A while back I assisted a friend in making a short film. They recently asked me to edit their work. I am okay with this, do ...	Guy gets me to do job for him, tells me that he never wanted me to do it in the first place, hours of work lost.	[ 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 5...	SUBREDDIT: r/AskReddit TITLE: Reddit, what makes you insanely mad? POST: Something that makes me mad happened today. I'll start by saying I respect when people can be straight up with me, i.e. if they don't like me, and they tell me, I respect that. So, what happened: A while back I assisted a friend in making a shor...	Guy gets me to do job for him, tells me that he never wanted me to do it in the first place, hours of work lost.<\|endoftext\|>	[ 22757, 4850, 479, 281, 513, 2628, 323, 779, 13, 8599, 479, 326, 344, 1620, 3078, 479, 281, 513, 352, 275, 253, 806, 1659, 13, 3038, 273, 789, 3663, 15, 0, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50...	30	SUBREDDIT: r/AskReddit TITLE: Reddit, what makes you insanely mad? POST: Something that makes me mad happened today. I'll start by saying I respect when people can be straight up with me, i.e. if they don't like me, and they tell me, I respect that. So, what happened: A while back I assisted a friend in making a shor...	[ 6971, 7941, 1703, 37, 1433, 27, 391, 16, 30326, 10252, 22940, 187, 187, 53, 43561, 27, 39714, 13, 752, 2789, 368, 1210, 266, 600, 10279, 32, 187, 187, 15743, 27, 18190, 326, 2789, 479, 10279, 4592, 3063, 15, 309, 1833, 1265, 407, 39...	225	[ " A friend of mine made a short film and I edited it. I am told it was horrible. I want to destroy things.", " Friend who I am assisting makes a short film, I edit it, he doesn't like it. He's sorry. I'm mad.", " A friend is mad that I am editing his short film. They claim nothing I did was used. I want to dest...	[ 0, 2, 4, 6, 8 ]	[ 1, 3, 5, 7, 9 ]	41	[ [ 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50...	[ -25.826053619384766, -31.426340103149414, -44.789634704589844, -40.22981262207031, -46.45777893066406, -57.01262664794922, -38.72611618041992, -54.987632751464844, -32.97227096557617, -39.02557373046875 ]	[ -24.625, -40, -43, -60, -39.75, -58.25, -32.75, -61.25, -31.25, -46.5 ]
t3_493u87	relationships	Me [18M] with my girlfriend [18F] of 1 year, she currently has a boy who 'likes' her sleeping in the same room as her tonight	My girlfriend spent the day with her long time friend (he has asked her out and tried to have sex with her before) which I initially had no problems with (although I am insecure) She just messaged me telling me that he's sleeping at her house tonight in the same room. This is my first real relationship but she's als...	gf sleeping in the same room with her friend who loves her, feel I'm overreacting by being upset/angry about it	[ 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 5...	SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: Me [18M] with my girlfriend [18F] of 1 year, she currently has a boy who 'likes' her sleeping in the same room as her tonight POST: My girlfriend spent the day with her long time friend (he has asked her out and tried to have sex with her before) which I initially had no problems wit...	gf sleeping in the same room with her friend who loves her, feel I'm overreacting by being upset/angry about it<\|endoftext\|>	[ 305, 71, 14343, 275, 253, 1072, 2316, 342, 617, 3331, 665, 14528, 617, 13, 1928, 309, 1353, 689, 250, 20594, 407, 1146, 14004, 16, 606, 610, 670, 352, 0, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277...	29	SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: Me [18M] with my girlfriend [18F] of 1 year, she currently has a boy who 'likes' her sleeping in the same room as her tonight POST: My girlfriend spent the day with her long time friend (he has asked her out and tried to have sex with her before) which I initially had no problems wit...	[ 6971, 7941, 1703, 37, 1433, 27, 391, 16, 22842, 16458, 187, 187, 53, 43561, 27, 3189, 544, 1093, 46, 62, 342, 619, 19609, 544, 1093, 39, 62, 273, 337, 807, 13, 703, 4390, 556, 247, 5006, 665, 686, 7513, 265, 8, 617, 14343, 275, ...	226	[ " Girlfriend has a boyfriend who likes sleeping in the same room as her, as long as they have no sex. I don't know what to do.", " Girlfriend has a boyfriend who is sleeping in the same room as her tonight. I feel like I'm overreacting, but I don't want to be controlling", " Girlfriend is with friend that I'm n...	[ 0, 2, 4, 6, 8 ]	[ 1, 3, 5, 7, 9 ]	42	[ [ 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50...	[ -33.25674819946289, -17.395591735839844, -62.69105529785156, -32.49801254272461, -11.252765655517578, -39.44224548339844, -55.11737823486328, -27.98675537109375, -28.334257125854492, -24.060623168945312 ]	[ -32.5, -20.375, -53.5, -33.5, -11.125, -47.5, -46.25, -35.75, -27.25, -22.625 ]
t3_3x4k80	personalfinance	Wanting to go to an out of area school for 6 months. How would you pull it off?	I'm wanting to go to a very prestigious furniture making and design school. The best part is is that it is ran by a community college so the fees will not be insane. This school would be an investment for my side business in woodworking. My question though is that I have a full-time job in healthcare. I've talked to ...	I want to go to school for a 6 month program out of area as an investment for my business and self.	[ 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 5...	SUBREDDIT: r/personalfinance TITLE: Wanting to go to an out of area school for 6 months. How would you pull it off? POST: I'm wanting to go to a very prestigious furniture making and design school. The best part is is that it is ran by a community college so the fees will not be insane. This school would be an inves...	I want to go to school for a 6 month program out of area as an investment for my business and self. <\|endoftext\|>	[ 309, 971, 281, 564, 281, 2143, 323, 247, 721, 1770, 2086, 562, 273, 2170, 347, 271, 8149, 323, 619, 2136, 285, 1881, 15, 209, 0, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50...	25	SUBREDDIT: r/personalfinance TITLE: Wanting to go to an out of area school for 6 months. How would you pull it off? POST: I'm wanting to go to a very prestigious furniture making and design school. The best part is is that it is ran by a community college so the fees will not be insane. This school would be an inves...	[ 6971, 7941, 1703, 37, 1433, 27, 391, 16, 10816, 2103, 249, 593, 187, 187, 53, 43561, 27, 411, 25841, 281, 564, 281, 271, 562, 273, 2170, 2143, 323, 721, 2607, 15, 1359, 651, 368, 3785, 352, 745, 32, 187, 187, 15743, 27, 309, 1353,...	435	[ " I'm wanting to go to a furniture making and design school. I have a full time job and want to stay in the area. How would you pull it off?", " I'm wanting to go to a school in a completely different area and I want to know how you would pull it off, living with someone or on your own.", " Want to go to furnit...	[ 0, 2, 4, 6, 8 ]	[ 1, 3, 5, 7, 9 ]	43	[ [ 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50...	[ -25.85437774658203, -41.211769104003906, -39.42241668701172, -55.89378356933594, -35.26963806152344, -53.201602935791016, -33.17124938964844, -39.00270080566406, -12.174764633178711, -20.244083404541016 ]	[ -17.875, -52.5, -34.75, -64, -30.5, -66.5, -25.5, -49.25, -14.8125, -24.75 ]
t3_cp6ig	AskReddit	What are some good motorcycles for a beginner?	Hey guys, I'm in the process of getting my M1 - just passed the safety course and waiting for my paperwork to take the written test at the DMV. That being said, I'm pumped up to buy my first bike and start endangering you all on the road. Which leads me to the pickle I'm in - I don't really know very much about motor...	new biker in SF bay-area needs advice on what kinds of standard/cruiser motorcycles are good for around-the-town driving	[ 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 5...	SUBREDDIT: r/AskReddit TITLE: What are some good motorcycles for a beginner? POST: Hey guys, I'm in the process of getting my M1 - just passed the safety course and waiting for my paperwork to take the written test at the DMV. That being said, I'm pumped up to buy my first bike and start endangering you all on the ...	new biker in SF bay-area needs advice on what kinds of standard/cruiser motorcycles are good for around-the-town driving<\|endoftext\|>	[ 747, 270, 24736, 275, 15112, 17699, 14, 12879, 3198, 7535, 327, 752, 9351, 273, 2629, 16, 49010, 9141, 5694, 37360, 403, 1175, 323, 1475, 14, 783, 14, 10700, 6276, 0, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, ...	30	SUBREDDIT: r/AskReddit TITLE: What are some good motorcycles for a beginner? POST: Hey guys, I'm in the process of getting my M1 - just passed the safety course and waiting for my paperwork to take the written test at the DMV. That being said, I'm pumped up to buy my first bike and start endangering you all on the ...	[ 6971, 7941, 1703, 37, 1433, 27, 391, 16, 30326, 10252, 22940, 187, 187, 53, 43561, 27, 1737, 403, 690, 1175, 5694, 37360, 323, 247, 43240, 32, 187, 187, 15743, 27, 18793, 6068, 13, 187, 187, 42, 1353, 275, 253, 1232, 273, 2970, 619,...	313	[ " I'm a beginner and I want a bike around 250 cc. I don't know much about them and I want to find one I can afford.", " What's a fun, beginner motorbike I can pick up for $2k? P.S. I'm not looking for a Scooter.", " I've got about $2,000 to spend on a bike, bad decision or not? What are some good biking bikes?"...	[ 0, 2, 4, 6, 8 ]	[ 1, 3, 5, 7, 9 ]	44	[ [ 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50...	[ -38.36030197143555, -47.042083740234375, -57.27902603149414, -33.580039978027344, -64.91363525390625, -19.13954734802246, -30.418514251708984, -31.370943069458008, -25.61835479736328, -24.676799774169922 ]	[ -33.75, -59.75, -37.5, -38.25, -50.75, -21.5, -27.75, -43.25, -26.125, -31.875 ]
t3_2076bt	relationships	I [21 M] was seeing a girl [21 F] a few months back, stopped meeting after a few dates but recently saw her again and I want to try it again.	So I was seeing this girl a few months back and everything was going great. Then came the winter holidays and didn't really talk to her at all over the Christmas period and I sort of stopped fancying her. Was thinking of calling it off but thought it'd be a bit harsh given the time and didn't want it to be awkward for ...	Was seeing a girl a few months ago, left it when I stopped fancying her but saw her recently and I think I still do. How do I play it?	[ 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 5...	SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: I [21 M] was seeing a girl [21 F] a few months back, stopped meeting after a few dates but recently saw her again and I want to try it again. POST: So I was seeing this girl a few months back and everything was going great. Then came the winter holidays and didn't really talk to her ...	Was seeing a girl a few months ago, left it when I stopped fancying her but saw her recently and I think I still do. How do I play it?<\|endoftext\|>	[ 12349, 6523, 247, 3226, 247, 1643, 2607, 3622, 13, 1669, 352, 672, 309, 6331, 18612, 272, 617, 533, 3047, 617, 4102, 285, 309, 1158, 309, 1335, 513, 15, 1359, 513, 309, 1132, 352, 32, 0, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277...	35	SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: I [21 M] was seeing a girl [21 F] a few months back, stopped meeting after a few dates but recently saw her again and I want to try it again. POST: So I was seeing this girl a few months back and everything was going great. Then came the winter holidays and didn't really talk to her ...	[ 6971, 7941, 1703, 37, 1433, 27, 391, 16, 22842, 16458, 187, 187, 53, 43561, 27, 309, 544, 1797, 353, 62, 369, 6523, 247, 3226, 544, 1797, 401, 62, 247, 1643, 2607, 896, 13, 6331, 4804, 846, 247, 1643, 12282, 533, 4102, 3047, 617, ...	339	[ " Saw girl a few months back, not in a relationship but didn't dump her, haven't seen her since then, wanting to see her again, how should I act?", " Seen a girl a few months back and rekindled old flame, want to see if she's interested in me, not sure how to go about it.", " saw girl a few months back, stopped...	[ 0, 2, 4, 6, 8 ]	[ 1, 3, 5, 7, 9 ]	45	[ [ 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50...	[ -58.770423889160156, -36.74024200439453, -46.65105438232422, -28.4443359375, -38.365211486816406, -27.793930053710938, -27.99777603149414, -32.582984924316406, -34.43612289428711, -30.733129501342773 ]	[ -56, -45.5, -45.75, -42, -30.75, -32.5, -26, -35.25, -25.75, -38.5 ]
t3_gfp7y	AskReddit	Unmotivated At Work: The Cubicle Cliché	This is me browsing reddit at work again, as most of us do. This is, and has always been common practice to all of us dweller of the cube farms. I'm the stereotypical guy who works for a big corporation that doesn't give a shit about you, in turn, causing you not to give a shit about it. My predicament is as follows. ...	I used to like my job, now not so much. Need help to stay motivated and actually do work so i don't get fired for being shit.	[ 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 5...	SUBREDDIT: r/AskReddit TITLE: Unmotivated At Work: The Cubicle Cliché POST: This is me browsing reddit at work again, as most of us do. This is, and has always been common practice to all of us dweller of the cube farms. I'm the stereotypical guy who works for a big corporation that doesn't give a shit about you, in ...	I used to like my job, now not so much. Need help to stay motivated and actually do work so i don't get fired for being shit.<\|endoftext\|>	[ 309, 908, 281, 751, 619, 2628, 13, 1024, 417, 594, 1199, 15, 20389, 1361, 281, 3297, 17194, 285, 2686, 513, 789, 594, 891, 1053, 626, 755, 11226, 323, 1146, 10739, 15, 0, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, ...	32	SUBREDDIT: r/AskReddit TITLE: Unmotivated At Work: The Cubicle Cliché POST: This is me browsing reddit at work again, as most of us do. This is, and has always been common practice to all of us dweller of the cube farms. I'm the stereotypical guy who works for a big corporation that doesn't give a shit about you, in ...	[ 6971, 7941, 1703, 37, 1433, 27, 391, 16, 30326, 10252, 22940, 187, 187, 53, 43561, 27, 914, 24013, 8550, 2058, 7733, 27, 380, 13447, 2024, 1639, 469, 860, 187, 187, 15743, 27, 831, 310, 479, 33310, 28159, 262, 387, 789, 969, 13, 347...	402	[ " i'm a cubicle dweller that wants to care about my job, as somebody who used to like it. what are some things that you do to help yourself?", " i'm a cubicle dweller who wants to be more productive and feel as if i have some contribution to make. What are some things you do?", " I've been in a stale job for th...	[ 0, 2, 4, 6, 8 ]	[ 1, 3, 5, 7, 9 ]	46	[ [ 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50...	[ -61.967281341552734, -40.14967346191406, -100.0257568359375, -50.82701873779297, -93.36184692382812, -54.756019592285156, -47.96902847290039, -44.84531021118164, -43.662506103515625, -57.17741775512695 ]	[ -57.25, -49.5, -84.5, -59.5, -73.5, -66.5, -39.25, -57, -37.75, -65 ]
t3_18xe9f	relationships	Girlfriend [22] might be hiding something and my friend is worried about me [22]. (How) should I bring this up with her?	My girlfriend (A) and I have been "officially" dating for about a month now. Out of the blue, I get a call from an old friend (B) who is pretty close to her. He told me that she's been hiding some things that have happened in the past four months (he wouldn't give me details) and that he was really worried about me get...	Friend knows something about my girlfriend and he's worried it will cause trouble between my girlfriend and I. Should I bring this up with her and if so, how?	[ 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 5...	SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: Girlfriend [22] might be hiding something and my friend is worried about me [22]. (How) should I bring this up with her? POST: My girlfriend (A) and I have been "officially" dating for about a month now. Out of the blue, I get a call from an old friend (B) who is pretty close to her....	Friend knows something about my girlfriend and he's worried it will cause trouble between my girlfriend and I. Should I bring this up with her and if so, how?<\|endoftext\|>	[ 25845, 6057, 1633, 670, 619, 19609, 285, 344, 434, 11926, 352, 588, 2847, 7596, 875, 619, 19609, 285, 309, 15, 14482, 309, 3324, 436, 598, 342, 617, 285, 604, 594, 13, 849, 32, 0, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277...	34	SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: Girlfriend [22] might be hiding something and my friend is worried about me [22]. (How) should I bring this up with her? POST: My girlfriend (A) and I have been "officially" dating for about a month now. Out of the blue, I get a call from an old friend (B) who is pretty close to her....	[ 6971, 7941, 1703, 37, 1433, 27, 391, 16, 22842, 16458, 187, 187, 53, 43561, 27, 14758, 8471, 544, 1423, 62, 1537, 320, 17197, 1633, 285, 619, 3331, 310, 11926, 670, 479, 544, 1423, 1570, 313, 2347, 10, 943, 309, 3324, 436, 598, 342,...	292	[ " Girlfriend might be hiding something, B is worried about me. Should I bring this up with A? How?", " Girlfriend might be hiding something, B says he's worried about me, how do I keep this from hurting our relationship?", " Girlfriend is hiding something that I'm worried about, and she's badmouthing me to my b...	[ 0, 2, 4, 6, 8 ]	[ 1, 3, 5, 7, 9 ]	47	[ [ 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50...	[ -13.20053482055664, -37.865718841552734, -76.07832336425781, -15.930868148803711, -21.983604431152344, -20.10658073425293, -49.267337799072266, -11.59109878540039, -8.825104713439941, -11.97500228881836 ]	[ -14.375, -44.75, -58.25, -13, -20.75, -26.25, -40.75, -16.625, -9.25, -14.375 ]
t3_4qazoz	relationships	My girlfriend [25F] might get a job in another city and I [26M] am thinking to follow her	Hello r/relationships, I will try to be short. My girlfriend [25F] has an interview for a job in another city, let's called it C because it is the third city in our equation. I [26M] am from city A where I live but I work all week in city B. She is also from city B, and that's why have a common ground. (the distances ...	Girlfriend is about to get a job in a different city and I am thinking to follow her. Opinions?	[ 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 5...	SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: My girlfriend [25F] might get a job in another city and I [26M] am thinking to follow her POST: Hello r/relationships, I will try to be short. My girlfriend [25F] has an interview for a job in another city, let's called it C because it is the third city in our equation. I [26M] am f...	Girlfriend is about to get a job in a different city and I am thinking to follow her. Opinions?<\|endoftext\|>	[ 14758, 8471, 310, 670, 281, 755, 247, 2628, 275, 247, 1027, 2846, 285, 309, 717, 4680, 281, 956, 617, 15, 473, 9852, 621, 32, 0, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50...	25	SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: My girlfriend [25F] might get a job in another city and I [26M] am thinking to follow her POST: Hello r/relationships, I will try to be short. My girlfriend [25F] has an interview for a job in another city, let's called it C because it is the third city in our equation. I [26M] am f...	[ 6971, 7941, 1703, 37, 1433, 27, 391, 16, 22842, 16458, 187, 187, 53, 43561, 27, 2752, 19609, 544, 1099, 39, 62, 1537, 755, 247, 2628, 275, 1529, 2846, 285, 309, 544, 1731, 46, 62, 717, 4680, 281, 956, 617, 187, 187, 15743, 27, 243...	402	[ " Girlfriend might get a job in another city and I want to follow her. How can keep this from hurting me?", " My girlfriend might get a job in another city and I want to follow her. What do you think about that?", " Girlfriend is going to be moving and I am following her, should I do this?", " Girlfriend is t...	[ 0, 2, 4, 6, 8 ]	[ 1, 3, 5, 7, 9 ]	48	[ [ 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50...	[ -37.83245849609375, -6.511962890625, -34.28399658203125, -17.023513793945312, -11.156715393066406, -12.187911033630371, -13.651479721069336, -12.68089485168457, -24.9512882232666, -3.3588414192199707 ]	[ -32.75, -9.9375, -29.375, -25.25, -10.9375, -14.375, -15.1875, -14.5, -25.375, -5.40625 ]
t3_1pcley	personalfinance	Should we adjust our high student loan repayments while my wife stays home with the kids?	My wife and I both have pretty large amounts of student loans ($72,000 for my PhD, $83,000 for her 2 Master's), which are all Federal Direct Stafford Loans. The payments on these loans together will come to around $1,780/month, once I am out of deferment (I just finished school a couple months ago). My income is $100...	Wife staying home for the next 6-8 years, should I reduce our student loan repayments for that period to give us more breathing room?	[ 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 5...	SUBREDDIT: r/personalfinance TITLE: Should we adjust our high student loan repayments while my wife stays home with the kids? POST: My wife and I both have pretty large amounts of student loans ($72,000 for my PhD, $83,000 for her 2 Master's), which are all Federal Direct Stafford Loans. The payments on these loans ...	Wife staying home for the next 6-8 years, should I reduce our student loan repayments for that period to give us more breathing room?<\|endoftext\|>	[ 40223, 14596, 1728, 323, 253, 1735, 721, 14, 25, 1107, 13, 943, 309, 4796, 776, 5974, 10119, 29216, 942, 323, 326, 2180, 281, 1918, 441, 625, 14578, 2316, 32, 0, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 5027...	30	SUBREDDIT: r/personalfinance TITLE: Should we adjust our high student loan repayments while my wife stays home with the kids? POST: My wife and I both have pretty large amounts of student loans ($72,000 for my PhD, $83,000 for her 2 Master's), which are all Federal Direct Stafford Loans. The payments on these loans ...	[ 6971, 7941, 1703, 37, 1433, 27, 391, 16, 10816, 2103, 249, 593, 187, 187, 53, 43561, 27, 14482, 359, 4575, 776, 1029, 5974, 10119, 29216, 942, 1223, 619, 4475, 19931, 1728, 342, 253, 5753, 32, 187, 187, 15743, 27, 2752, 4475, 285, 3...	502	[ " Should we continue to pay the amount due to our student loans, or should we make the adjustments to our payments to keep the payments low while our wife continues to stay at home with the kids?", " My wife is not working, so our monthly student loan payments are cut in half from the $2,950 to the $1,780. Shoul...	[ 0, 2, 4, 6, 8 ]	[ 1, 3, 5, 7, 9 ]	49	[ [ 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50...	[ -72.89522552490234, -58.10264587402344, -63.24753952026367, -12.235771179199219, -68.041748046875, -46.70374298095703, -34.889076232910156, -65.24114990234375, -51.66878890991211, -23.669986724853516 ]	[ -49.75, -73, -50.75, -27.5, -64, -57.25, -25.375, -78.5, -50.25, -37.5 ]
t3_2bzh12	relationships	How do I [19F] get my boyfriend [21M] of 4 months to feel more attractive?	(Throwaway account) My boyfriend and I have been official for almost 4 months, but have been close friends for the past year (it was a pretty seamless friends -> friends with benefits -> relationship transition). He is very, very attractive. I say this not only because I love him and of course I would think that, but ...	Boyfriend doesn't think of himself as very attractive - how do I get him to see himself the way I see him?	[ 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 5...	SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: How do I [19F] get my boyfriend [21M] of 4 months to feel more attractive? POST: (Throwaway account) My boyfriend and I have been official for almost 4 months, but have been close friends for the past year (it was a pretty seamless friends -> friends with benefits -> relationship tr...	Boyfriend doesn't think of himself as very attractive - how do I get him to see himself the way I see him?<\|endoftext\|>	[ 12143, 8471, 2506, 626, 1158, 273, 2994, 347, 1077, 12994, 428, 849, 513, 309, 755, 779, 281, 923, 2994, 253, 1039, 309, 923, 779, 32, 0, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, ...	26	SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: How do I [19F] get my boyfriend [21M] of 4 months to feel more attractive? POST: (Throwaway account) My boyfriend and I have been official for almost 4 months, but have been close friends for the past year (it was a pretty seamless friends -> friends with benefits -> relationship tr...	[ 6971, 7941, 1703, 37, 1433, 27, 391, 16, 22842, 16458, 187, 187, 53, 43561, 27, 1359, 513, 309, 544, 746, 39, 62, 755, 619, 22273, 544, 1797, 46, 62, 273, 577, 2607, 281, 1928, 625, 12994, 32, 187, 187, 15743, 27, 313, 36556, 1259...	260	[ " My boyfriend is very attractive, but doesn't believe I find him attractive. What can I do to help him feel this way?", " My boyfriend thinks he is not very attractive and I want him to find himself as attractive as other people do. What can I do or say to help?", " Boyfriend is really good looking, and I am r...	[ 0, 2, 4, 6, 8 ]	[ 1, 3, 5, 7, 9 ]	50	[ [ 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50...	[ -20.638851165771484, -18.661663055419922, -39.32738494873047, -35.57276153564453, -19.705142974853516, -17.610788345336914, -41.56730270385742, -19.75640106201172, -45.91679763793945, -12.326175689697266 ]	[ -21.125, -26.375, -31.625, -42.5, -19.5, -26.25, -40.75, -29.25, -34, -22.75 ]
t3_1ji4ql	relationships	My [21/M] girlfriend [21/F] constantly looks through my phone while I'm asleep. Time to end it?	So my girlfriend and I have been getting along great our entire relationship. My family loves her, her family loves me, and we usually got along great. However, she always goes through my phone while I am asleep at her house. It started before we were even official, and she woke me up at 5 in the morning crying about ...	Girlfriend constantly goes through my phone while I'm asleep, makes wild assumptions that I'm cheating on her, and starts fights over things that aren't there. Is it time to drop this relationship?	[ 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 6971, 79...	SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: My [21/M] girlfriend [21/F] constantly looks through my phone while I'm asleep. Time to end it? POST: So my girlfriend and I have been getting along great our entire relationship. My family loves her, her family loves me, and we usually got along great. However, she always goes thro...	Girlfriend constantly goes through my phone while I'm asleep, makes wild assumptions that I'm cheating on her, and starts fights over things that aren't there. Is it time to drop this relationship?<\|endoftext\|>	[ 14758, 8471, 11485, 4566, 949, 619, 4481, 1223, 309, 1353, 17390, 13, 2789, 4956, 13260, 326, 309, 1353, 37142, 327, 617, 13, 285, 7866, 24662, 689, 1841, 326, 6403, 626, 627, 15, 1680, 352, 673, 281, 5926, 436, 2954, 32, 0, 50277, ...	41	SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: My [21/M] girlfriend [21/F] constantly looks through my phone while I'm asleep. Time to end it? POST: So my girlfriend and I have been getting along great our entire relationship. My family loves her, her family loves me, and we usually got along great. However, she always goes thro...	[ 6971, 7941, 1703, 37, 1433, 27, 391, 16, 22842, 16458, 187, 187, 53, 43561, 27, 2752, 544, 1797, 16, 46, 62, 19609, 544, 1797, 16, 39, 62, 11485, 4453, 949, 619, 4481, 1223, 309, 1353, 17390, 15, 6865, 281, 990, 352, 32, 187, 187,...	519	[ " Girlfriend has been looking through my phone while I'm asleep. I've caught her twice and have stopped her from looking through my phone. What do you think?", " Girlfriend constantly looks through my phone while I'm asleep. I suspect she's looking through it for some kind of reason, and I don't know how to break...	[ 0, 2, 4, 6, 8 ]	[ 1, 3, 5, 7, 9 ]	51	[ [ 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50...	[ -26.13906478881836, -40.713104248046875, -20.093297958374023, -69.06001281738281, -21.97163200378418, -17.925254821777344, -36.03388595581055, -39.98345184326172, -20.473373413085938, -24.716415405273438 ]	[ -27.625, -39, -22.5, -92, -19.375, -17.75, -32, -52, -18.125, -29 ]
t3_2n825b	relationships	I [17 M] don't know how to start a relationship with a girl [16 F]	Well, a little context first, I've been in love/attracted plenty of times over my life, but never I've been able to be with a girl. I've been rejecter every time. This time the girl (let's call her Caterine) I have a crush on appeared in my life 6 months ago. I met her or a classical concert I went with some of my fri...	Been rejected countless times, Really like this girl, Afraid of expressing my feelings, don't know how to do it. (English isn't my main language so I'm sorry for any grammatical errors )	[ 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 5...	SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: I [17 M] don't know how to start a relationship with a girl [16 F] POST: Well, a little context first, I've been in love/attracted plenty of times over my life, but never I've been able to be with a girl. I've been rejecter every time. This time the girl (let's call her Caterine) I ...	Been rejected countless times, Really like this girl, Afraid of expressing my feelings, don't know how to do it. (English isn't my main language so I'm sorry for any grammatical errors )<\|endoftext\|>	[ 2325, 257, 10945, 23499, 2069, 13, 24744, 751, 436, 3226, 13, 3723, 46088, 273, 13002, 619, 10450, 13, 1053, 626, 871, 849, 281, 513, 352, 15, 313, 14376, 3548, 626, 619, 2022, 3448, 594, 309, 1353, 7016, 323, 667, 47412, 474, 6332, ...	44	SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: I [17 M] don't know how to start a relationship with a girl [16 F] POST: Well, a little context first, I've been in love/attracted plenty of times over my life, but never I've been able to be with a girl. I've been rejecter every time. This time the girl (let's call her Caterine) I ...	[ 6971, 7941, 1703, 37, 1433, 27, 391, 16, 22842, 16458, 187, 187, 53, 43561, 27, 309, 544, 1166, 353, 62, 1053, 626, 871, 849, 281, 1265, 247, 2954, 342, 247, 3226, 544, 1036, 401, 62, 187, 187, 15743, 27, 6089, 13, 247, 1652, 3634...	507	[ " I'm a loser, I'm fed up of being rejected. I don't know how to start a relationship with this girl.", " I'm a 15 years old guy that like a girl but she's 16. How do I ask her out? (if she accepts that will be another story)", " I've been in love for a long time, I don't know how to start a relationship with a...	[ 0, 2, 4, 6, 8 ]	[ 1, 3, 5, 7, 9 ]	52	[ [ 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50...	[ -26.497509002685547, -58.34717559814453, -42.56449890136719, -37.952301025390625, -19.89586639404297, -20.004114151000977, -37.12501907348633, -17.58355712890625, -13.182318687438965, -41.467891693115234 ]	[ -19.5, -75.5, -32.75, -45.5, -20, -23.375, -34.5, -24.875, -11.25, -51.25 ]
t3_hjftj	AskReddit	I feel like my dad is cheating me out of a large amount of money. What do?	I'm currently 17. I lived with my dad my entire life. My mom died in 2009 and I began receiving social security checks every month for about $600. In November (2010) part of our house burnt down and we got an insurance check for around $20,000. Now, my dad is not a poor guy. He makes about $30 an hour full time, and ...	he hit me and I moved out (about a month and a half ago). I'm now living with my grandmother. I believe he gives her about $100-200 for food a month.	[ 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 6971, 7941, 1703, 37, 1433, 27, 391, 16, 30326, 10252, 22940, 187, 187, 53, 43561, 27, 309, 1...	SUBREDDIT: r/AskReddit TITLE: I feel like my dad is cheating me out of a large amount of money. What do? POST: I'm currently 17. I lived with my dad my entire life. My mom died in 2009 and I began receiving social security checks every month for about $600. In November (2010) part of our house burnt down and we got a...	he hit me and I moved out (about a month and a half ago). I'm now living with my grandmother. I believe he gives her about $100-200 for food a month. <\|endoftext\|>	[ 344, 4352, 479, 285, 309, 4395, 562, 313, 10383, 247, 1770, 285, 247, 2716, 3622, 481, 309, 1353, 1024, 3811, 342, 619, 20606, 15, 309, 2868, 344, 4245, 617, 670, 370, 2313, 14, 1518, 323, 2739, 247, 1770, 15, 209, 0, 50277, 50277, ...	41	SUBREDDIT: r/AskReddit TITLE: I feel like my dad is cheating me out of a large amount of money. What do? POST: I'm currently 17. I lived with my dad my entire life. My mom died in 2009 and I began receiving social security checks every month for about $600. In November (2010) part of our house burnt down and we got a...	[ 6971, 7941, 1703, 37, 1433, 27, 391, 16, 30326, 10252, 22940, 187, 187, 53, 43561, 27, 309, 1928, 751, 619, 12247, 310, 37142, 479, 562, 273, 247, 1781, 2408, 273, 2583, 15, 1737, 513, 32, 187, 187, 15743, 27, 309, 1353, 4390, 1722,...	532	[ " My dad is always giving me a staggering amount of money, yet he has no money to keep my cat or me fed, and I don't know where the money is going.", " My dad is not giving me any money for anything. He has a good job, and his girlfriend is good with money, yet he doesn't give me any.", " My dad is saying that ...	[ 0, 2, 4, 6, 8 ]	[ 1, 3, 5, 7, 9 ]	53	[ [ 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 6971, 7941, 1703, 37, 1433, 27, 391, 16, 30326,...	[ -74.66121673583984, -40.380516052246094, -24.120807647705078, -35.53193283081055, -31.143951416015625, -13.240604400634766, -45.32545471191406, -64.27886962890625, -35.96266555786133, -33.41084289550781 ]	[ -62.5, -51.25, -26.75, -44.25, -23, -11.8125, -39, -68.5, -30.125, -41 ]
t3_mr748	AskReddit	Does writing a few papers on a band make you "obsessed"?	So far in my college career I have taken all of my humanities courses on the subject of music (they tend to interest me more than others). There are always research topics that we are allowed to choose. During my first semester, I did it on a band I pulled out of a hat (seriously, I just hit shuffle on iTunes and picke...	I found out I was good at writing papers on a band that isn't my favourite band but I found it nets me the best grades. Does this make me obsessed with that band?	[ 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 5...	SUBREDDIT: r/AskReddit TITLE: Does writing a few papers on a band make you "obsessed"? POST: So far in my college career I have taken all of my humanities courses on the subject of music (they tend to interest me more than others). There are always research topics that we are allowed to choose. During my first semest...	I found out I was good at writing papers on a band that isn't my favourite band but I found it nets me the best grades. Does this make me obsessed with that band?<\|endoftext\|>	[ 309, 1119, 562, 309, 369, 1175, 387, 4028, 9380, 327, 247, 3961, 326, 3548, 626, 619, 18069, 3961, 533, 309, 1119, 352, 37507, 479, 253, 1682, 23129, 15, 9876, 436, 1056, 479, 35524, 342, 326, 3961, 32, 0, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, ...	38	SUBREDDIT: r/AskReddit TITLE: Does writing a few papers on a band make you "obsessed"? POST: So far in my college career I have taken all of my humanities courses on the subject of music (they tend to interest me more than others). There are always research topics that we are allowed to choose. During my first semest...	[ 6971, 7941, 1703, 37, 1433, 27, 391, 16, 30326, 10252, 22940, 187, 187, 53, 43561, 27, 9876, 4028, 247, 1643, 9380, 327, 247, 3961, 1056, 368, 346, 10600, 16187, 16296, 187, 187, 15743, 27, 1893, 2080, 275, 619, 6831, 5249, 309, 452, ...	292	[ " Wrote a paper on a band, got a decent grade, now I'm considered an expert on the band.", " Wrote papers on a band that was completely irrelevant to my original research topic, as a result have become known as \"the local expert\" and have been given the title of \"obsessed\".", " I've chosen a band that I'm o...	[ 0, 2, 4, 6, 8 ]	[ 1, 3, 5, 7, 9 ]	54	[ [ 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50...	[ -22.77509307861328, -46.50117874145508, -68.4588394165039, -37.738861083984375, -30.343826293945312, -34.42995071411133, -48.260704040527344, -27.721845626831055, -26.912179946899414, -34.81842041015625 ]	[ -19.5, -63.75, -62.25, -41.5, -24.625, -42, -42.25, -36.75, -21.125, -49.5 ]
t3_k9q6b	cats	Acquired cat! Now a question..	So, I just got a lovely little cat named Luna. She's about a year, a year and a half and pretty tiny. I live in an apartment located on the 5th floor of my building. My apartment doesn't have AC (I'm in NYC) and I usually like to leave the windows open for ventilation. They've got child bars, but because Luna is so sma...	I live on the 5th floor and my cat just walked out on my window ledge and came back in. Should I be nervous she's going to explore too far out and fall to her kitty death?	[ 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 5...	SUBREDDIT: r/cats TITLE: Acquired cat! Now a question.. POST: So, I just got a lovely little cat named Luna. She's about a year, a year and a half and pretty tiny. I live in an apartment located on the 5th floor of my building. My apartment doesn't have AC (I'm in NYC) and I usually like to leave the windows open for...	I live on the 5th floor and my cat just walked out on my window ledge and came back in. Should I be nervous she's going to explore too far out and fall to her kitty death?<\|endoftext\|>	[ 309, 3153, 327, 253, 608, 394, 5254, 285, 619, 5798, 816, 7428, 562, 327, 619, 3497, 3977, 463, 285, 2210, 896, 275, 15, 14482, 309, 320, 11219, 703, 434, 1469, 281, 8338, 1512, 2080, 562, 285, 2965, 281, 617, 6119, 555, 2471, 32, ...	44	SUBREDDIT: r/cats TITLE: Acquired cat! Now a question.. POST: So, I just got a lovely little cat named Luna. She's about a year, a year and a half and pretty tiny. I live in an apartment located on the 5th floor of my building. My apartment doesn't have AC (I'm in NYC) and I usually like to leave the windows open for...	[ 6971, 7941, 1703, 37, 1433, 27, 391, 16, 38718, 187, 187, 53, 43561, 27, 5192, 17050, 5798, 2, 3954, 247, 1953, 537, 187, 187, 15743, 27, 1893, 13, 309, 816, 1694, 247, 13491, 1652, 5798, 4907, 47392, 15, 1500, 434, 670, 247, 807, ...	254	[ " Got a little cat, saw her slip through window bars, now I'm worried about the cat being attacked by a stray, are windows open or closed?", " Acquired a tiny cat that can fit through window bars. Question is, should I leave the windows open or closed to avoid a dead cat on my hands?", " Got a little cat that i...	[ 0, 2, 4, 6, 8 ]	[ 1, 3, 5, 7, 9 ]	55	[ [ 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50...	[ -60.6315803527832, -28.021846771240234, -69.20742797851562, -6.074020862579346, -45.4473876953125, -18.909996032714844, -139.1385955810547, -47.00987243652344, -98.69834899902344, -26.3238525390625 ]	[ -44, -37.75, -52, -7.75, -34.75, -37, -124.5, -52.5, -79, -30.875 ]
t3_30l1ug	tifu	TIFU By befriending a cannibal in grade 4-5.	As usual this didn't happen today, it actually happened around 10 years ago when I was in grade 4 or 5. I was not the most popular kid in school back in the day, probably starting from around grade 2 nobody liked me and my friends. It did suck being hated by so many, but things were a lot worse for the 2nd tier dorks....	tried to make a weird kid feel better and ended up being attacked by him because he was hungry. I not only had a sore arm but I felt horrible for the kids living conditions at home, double whammy.	[ 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 5...	SUBREDDIT: r/tifu TITLE: TIFU By befriending a cannibal in grade 4-5. POST: As usual this didn't happen today, it actually happened around 10 years ago when I was in grade 4 or 5. I was not the most popular kid in school back in the day, probably starting from around grade 2 nobody liked me and my friends. It did su...	tried to make a weird kid feel better and ended up being attacked by him because he was hungry. I not only had a sore arm but I felt horrible for the kids living conditions at home, double whammy.<\|endoftext\|>	[ 3597, 281, 1056, 247, 12504, 5772, 1928, 1805, 285, 7402, 598, 1146, 13964, 407, 779, 984, 344, 369, 18254, 15, 309, 417, 760, 574, 247, 25132, 4430, 533, 309, 3543, 19201, 323, 253, 5753, 3811, 2515, 387, 1728, 13, 4021, 364, 312, ...	45	SUBREDDIT: r/tifu TITLE: TIFU By befriending a cannibal in grade 4-5. POST: As usual this didn't happen today, it actually happened around 10 years ago when I was in grade 4 or 5. I was not the most popular kid in school back in the day, probably starting from around grade 2 nobody liked me and my friends. It did su...	[ 6971, 7941, 1703, 37, 1433, 27, 391, 16, 40165, 86, 187, 187, 53, 43561, 27, 308, 3801, 54, 2896, 40660, 363, 1946, 247, 13066, 34300, 275, 9646, 577, 14, 22, 15, 187, 187, 15743, 27, 1284, 7312, 436, 1904, 626, 5108, 3063, 13, 35...	427	[ " I was innocent in grade 4, got bitten by a kid who was as weird as they come and had to defend myself.", " befriended the only kid in school that I hated, he bit me. I literally had to pull out his arm and he apologized.", " became friends with a cannibal in grade 4-5. They never told me they were cannibals, ...	[ 0, 2, 4, 6, 8 ]	[ 1, 3, 5, 7, 9 ]	56	[ [ 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50...	[ -61.9501838684082, -47.02119445800781, -66.76689147949219, -37.188472747802734, -59.63812255859375, -32.60167694091797, -78.35459899902344, -42.0393180847168, -64.39909362792969, -51.96846008300781 ]	[ -48.25, -57, -57, -41.5, -52, -34.75, -64.5, -55.25, -50.5, -70 ]
t3_259u9r	relationships	Me [20m] just got out of an 8 month relationship with my gf [19F]. I am very emotional, she wasnt.	I am far from the stereotypical macho, no emotions, no mushy stuff guy. I love romance, I love to be cute, and express my love in various ways. She is far from the stereotypical mushy, emotional, lovey dovey girl. She never speaks about her feelings, she never tells me whats wrong and she never told me she loved me wit...	Me emotional guy, gf unemotional. Broke up, wanting to know if most girls actually like romance and guys caring and shit, or if this unemotional, uncommunicative bullshit is the norm.	[ 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 5...	SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: Me [20m] just got out of an 8 month relationship with my gf [19F]. I am very emotional, she wasnt. POST: I am far from the stereotypical macho, no emotions, no mushy stuff guy. I love romance, I love to be cute, and express my love in various ways. She is far from the stereotypical m...	Me emotional guy, gf unemotional. Broke up, wanting to know if most girls actually like romance and guys caring and shit, or if this unemotional, uncommunicative bullshit is the norm.<\|endoftext\|>	[ 3189, 8991, 5599, 13, 305, 71, 440, 358, 29882, 15, 4819, 413, 598, 13, 14707, 281, 871, 604, 954, 6838, 2686, 751, 24847, 285, 6068, 23374, 285, 10739, 13, 390, 604, 436, 440, 358, 29882, 13, 440, 11713, 280, 800, 35281, 310, 253, ...	46	SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: Me [20m] just got out of an 8 month relationship with my gf [19F]. I am very emotional, she wasnt. POST: I am far from the stereotypical macho, no emotions, no mushy stuff guy. I love romance, I love to be cute, and express my love in various ways. She is far from the stereotypical m...	[ 6971, 7941, 1703, 37, 1433, 27, 391, 16, 22842, 16458, 187, 187, 53, 43561, 27, 3189, 544, 938, 78, 62, 816, 1694, 562, 273, 271, 854, 1770, 2954, 342, 619, 305, 71, 544, 746, 39, 1570, 309, 717, 1077, 8991, 13, 703, 369, 2649, ...	326	[ " Girlfriend is not emotional, do you guys like to see a guy express his love? Do you guys like to see a girl express her love? Do you guys like to see a girl say she loves you?", " I am very emotional, my girlfriend is not, I want to know if shes the same way. I am not asking for advice on how to get her to be m...	[ 0, 2, 4, 6, 8 ]	[ 1, 3, 5, 7, 9 ]	57	[ [ 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50...	[ -51.17963409423828, -42.71029281616211, -110.0713119506836, -41.59712219238281, -95.40367889404297, -45.85730743408203, -72.03395080566406, -48.58674240112305, -54.08666229248047, -36.47162628173828 ]	[ -37.25, -55, -97, -56.75, -76, -60.75, -57, -58.5, -41.75, -39 ]
t3_3kbx9e	relationships	Me [18 M] with my Girlfriend [16 F] (4 months) - I'm constantly paranoid i'm screwing up my relationship and it's having bad effects on me	Let me preface this by saying I love my girlfriend very much, and most of this is probably my fault. Alot of time whenever I'm talking to/skyping/etc with my girlfriend i'm worrying that i did something wrong and that she is weirded out or mad at me and just isn't telling me. It doesn't help that this is a long distan...	I constantly worry that I've done something to weird out or upset my girlfriend and can't help it - it's having detrimental affects on me as a person..	[ 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 5...	SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: Me [18 M] with my Girlfriend [16 F] (4 months) - I'm constantly paranoid i'm screwing up my relationship and it's having bad effects on me POST: Let me preface this by saying I love my girlfriend very much, and most of this is probably my fault. Alot of time whenever I'm talking to/...	I constantly worry that I've done something to weird out or upset my girlfriend and can't help it - it's having detrimental affects on me as a person..<\|endoftext\|>	[ 309, 11485, 7664, 326, 309, 1849, 2218, 1633, 281, 12504, 562, 390, 14004, 619, 19609, 285, 476, 626, 1361, 352, 428, 352, 434, 1907, 30078, 11852, 327, 479, 347, 247, 1436, 537, 0, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277...	33	SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: Me [18 M] with my Girlfriend [16 F] (4 months) - I'm constantly paranoid i'm screwing up my relationship and it's having bad effects on me POST: Let me preface this by saying I love my girlfriend very much, and most of this is probably my fault. Alot of time whenever I'm talking to/...	[ 6971, 7941, 1703, 37, 1433, 27, 391, 16, 22842, 16458, 187, 187, 53, 43561, 27, 3189, 544, 1093, 353, 62, 342, 619, 14758, 8471, 544, 1036, 401, 62, 313, 21, 2607, 10, 428, 309, 1353, 11485, 46197, 891, 1353, 11598, 272, 598, 619, ...	337	[ " I'm paranoid my girlfriend is mad at me and doesn't tell me she's mad at me because I'm worried about messing up my relationship and I'm worried it's causing me to be more outwardly sad to people.", " i'm paranoid my girlfriend is mad at me and doesn't tell me she's mad at me because i'm paranoid i'm screwing ...	[ 0, 2, 4, 6, 8 ]	[ 1, 3, 5, 7, 9 ]	58	[ [ 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50...	[ -55.76032257080078, -25.08356475830078, -56.368404388427734, -20.132017135620117, -14.130949974060059, -21.702526092529297, -21.62522315979004, -21.76628875732422, -33.92475509643555, -18.260295867919922 ]	[ -49.25, -30.625, -44, -23.5, -12.6875, -23.625, -21, -23.625, -28.375, -30.625 ]
t3_u4qrv	AskReddit	Girl had nip slip in photo, Blamed on me.	I was with friends and we were going through pictures on facebook when we came across this photo from this years prom where a girl has a nip slip. It is barely visable, but we noticed it. (I should have reported the picture for nudity, but with friends i didn't think of it. We agreed to not tell anyone about it. Howeve...	Girl had a nip slip at prom, photo was taken (not on purpose) and it was blamed on me.	[ 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 5...	SUBREDDIT: r/AskReddit TITLE: Girl had nip slip in photo, Blamed on me. POST: I was with friends and we were going through pictures on facebook when we came across this photo from this years prom where a girl has a nip slip. It is barely visable, but we noticed it. (I should have reported the picture for nudity, but ...	Girl had a nip slip at prom, photo was taken (not on purpose) and it was blamed on me.<\|endoftext\|>	[ 14758, 574, 247, 295, 532, 15813, 387, 1964, 13, 7512, 369, 2668, 313, 1439, 327, 4096, 10, 285, 352, 369, 27137, 327, 479, 15, 0, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, ...	25	SUBREDDIT: r/AskReddit TITLE: Girl had nip slip in photo, Blamed on me. POST: I was with friends and we were going through pictures on facebook when we came across this photo from this years prom where a girl has a nip slip. It is barely visable, but we noticed it. (I should have reported the picture for nudity, but ...	[ 6971, 7941, 1703, 37, 1433, 27, 391, 16, 30326, 10252, 22940, 187, 187, 53, 43561, 27, 14758, 574, 295, 532, 15813, 275, 7512, 13, 2071, 3163, 327, 479, 15, 187, 187, 15743, 27, 309, 369, 342, 3858, 285, 359, 497, 1469, 949, 7968, ...	270	[ " Girl had nip slip in photo, Blamed on me. I didnt want to be dragged into it.", " Nip slip in photo, found out about it, now everyone hates me. What do i do?", " Girl found out i have a nip slip in photo. They claim i have a nip slip, but it was in my picture.", " Girl had nip slip in prom picture, am not i...	[ 0, 2, 4, 6, 8 ]	[ 1, 3, 5, 7, 9 ]	59	[ [ 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50...	[ -23.835988998413086, -17.564937591552734, -55.473392486572266, -28.57750701904297, -28.88530158996582, -44.194000244140625, -42.615455627441406, -21.28302001953125, -41.35321044921875, -44.87168884277344 ]	[ -23.125, -29.375, -48, -35.5, -30.75, -58.5, -41.75, -31, -31.25, -60 ]
t3_sxbg4	relationships	Pride only hurts, it never helps.	Me 26 Her 28 Having a tough time on my own with this one. I'm realizing how much my pride and ego are controlling a recent incident and if they're good indicators on wether I should take my gf back or not. My girlfriend and I have been dating for a little over 3 years. There's been ups and downs recently and ...	Girlfriend on break sleeps with another guy (after promising not to), lots of remorse, trying to figure out if I should take her back.	[ 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 5...	SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: Pride only hurts, it never helps. POST: Me 26 Her 28 Having a tough time on my own with this one. I'm realizing how much my pride and ego are controlling a recent incident and if they're good indicators on wether I should take my gf back or not. My girlfriend and I have bee...	Girlfriend on break sleeps with another guy (after promising not to), lots of remorse, trying to figure out if I should take her back.<\|endoftext\|>	[ 14758, 8471, 327, 2740, 3574, 2265, 342, 1529, 5599, 313, 6438, 12532, 417, 281, 582, 8783, 273, 47753, 13, 2820, 281, 4677, 562, 604, 309, 943, 1379, 617, 896, 15, 0, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277...	31	SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: Pride only hurts, it never helps. POST: Me 26 Her 28 Having a tough time on my own with this one. I'm realizing how much my pride and ego are controlling a recent incident and if they're good indicators on wether I should take my gf back or not. My girlfriend and I have bee...	[ 6971, 7941, 1703, 37, 1433, 27, 391, 16, 22842, 16458, 187, 187, 53, 43561, 27, 39523, 760, 31835, 13, 352, 1620, 7729, 15, 187, 187, 15743, 27, 3189, 3436, 4058, 3349, 187, 187, 18562, 247, 10458, 673, 327, 619, 1211, 342, 436, 581...	374	[ " GF slept with someone while on a trip and I want to forgive her, but it's keep eating away at me.", " GF cheated on me, I forgave her but now she's hurt. How can I get past this?", " Girlfriend and I broke up because of my pride, not allowing her to be loved and believed by me, still bickering over the past t...	[ 0, 2, 4, 6, 8 ]	[ 1, 3, 5, 7, 9 ]	60	[ [ 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50...	[ -29.25548553466797, -23.974590301513672, -86.40838623046875, -48.32579040527344, -34.83692169189453, -48.86140441894531, -41.48265838623047, -37.88243865966797, -38.18523025512695, -50.322505950927734 ]	[ -25.125, -25.5, -76.5, -49.5, -29.375, -59.75, -40.25, -40, -32.25, -61.25 ]
t3_nxx5g	AskReddit	confused.	I am not biased towards religion nor am I biased for or against atheism. I try not judge people by their personal beliefs because I know we are all different, either through evolution or through some supreme being. It doesn't matter to me if you think that God created us, or if we are space farts; fact of the matter is...	I try not to give fucks, but eventually fucks are given. Can fucks be ungiven? Help.	[ 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 5...	SUBREDDIT: r/AskReddit TITLE: confused. POST: I am not biased towards religion nor am I biased for or against atheism. I try not judge people by their personal beliefs because I know we are all different, either through evolution or through some supreme being. It doesn't matter to me if you think that God created us,...	I try not to give fucks, but eventually fucks are given. Can fucks be ungiven? Help.<\|endoftext\|>	[ 309, 1611, 417, 281, 1918, 269, 9984, 13, 533, 6524, 269, 9984, 403, 1677, 15, 2615, 269, 9984, 320, 440, 28821, 32, 21695, 15, 0, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, ...	25	SUBREDDIT: r/AskReddit TITLE: confused. POST: I am not biased towards religion nor am I biased for or against atheism. I try not judge people by their personal beliefs because I know we are all different, either through evolution or through some supreme being. It doesn't matter to me if you think that God created us,...	[ 6971, 7941, 1703, 37, 1433, 27, 391, 16, 30326, 10252, 22940, 187, 187, 53, 43561, 27, 13477, 15, 187, 187, 15743, 27, 309, 717, 417, 23539, 4404, 9596, 4543, 717, 309, 23539, 323, 390, 1411, 15389, 1204, 15, 309, 1611, 417, 5963, 9...	490	[ " I'm confused. I don't want to be a part of the group. I want to be different. I want to be a part of the group of people that fight, not the group that follows other people's religion and hate.", " /r/atheism is a religion and I want to know if you want to be treated like one.", " I've been thinking about why...	[ 0, 2, 4, 6, 8 ]	[ 1, 3, 5, 7, 9 ]	61	[ [ 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50...	[ -79.56358337402344, -24.605602264404297, -105.48461151123047, -39.699134826660156, -39.30918502807617, -33.136260986328125, -65.30934143066406, -27.54427146911621, -93.04069519042969, -17.493534088134766 ]	[ -75, -31.75, -92, -55.75, -39.5, -46.25, -52.5, -39.25, -80.5, -45.5 ]
t3_1kl4sz	tifu	TIFU by Letting my Brothers onto an Social Experiment I was Planning.	Not so recently, my grandma was put into a personal care home due to a broken hip and both of her daughters just not having the time to be able to care for her as she needs to be. More recently, the pitbull that the couple who run this home has had a litter of puppies. Out of the 8, 7 survived and 1 of those is the sec...	I attempted an incognito social experiment to estimate to see how many bronies live in my area and got it blown wide open by way of discussion of video games.	[ 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 5...	SUBREDDIT: r/tifu TITLE: TIFU by Letting my Brothers onto an Social Experiment I was Planning. POST: Not so recently, my grandma was put into a personal care home due to a broken hip and both of her daughters just not having the time to be able to care for her as she needs to be. More recently, the pitbull that the c...	I attempted an incognito social experiment to estimate to see how many bronies live in my area and got it blown wide open by way of discussion of video games.<\|endoftext\|>	[ 309, 9919, 271, 1485, 2331, 7067, 2675, 3368, 281, 6642, 281, 923, 849, 1142, 13605, 447, 3153, 275, 619, 2170, 285, 1694, 352, 24684, 4618, 1527, 407, 1039, 273, 5955, 273, 3492, 3958, 15, 0, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, ...	35	SUBREDDIT: r/tifu TITLE: TIFU by Letting my Brothers onto an Social Experiment I was Planning. POST: Not so recently, my grandma was put into a personal care home due to a broken hip and both of her daughters just not having the time to be able to care for her as she needs to be. More recently, the pitbull that the c...	[ 6971, 7941, 1703, 37, 1433, 27, 391, 16, 40165, 86, 187, 187, 53, 43561, 27, 308, 3801, 54, 407, 1281, 1076, 619, 24916, 4830, 271, 8404, 28111, 309, 369, 26722, 15, 187, 187, 15743, 27, 3105, 594, 4102, 13, 619, 4936, 785, 369, 1...	473	[ " My brothers caught on to my plan to name a pitbull after Alois. Both of my brothers are very interested in the game and that's okay, but they are a little confused.", " Named a dog after a pony from a TV show, didn't realize my brothers knew it was a TV show.", " I've named a pitbull after an animated pony fr...	[ 0, 2, 4, 6, 8 ]	[ 1, 3, 5, 7, 9 ]	62	[ [ 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50...	[ -85.19358825683594, -26.37464141845703, -62.8326416015625, -33.14154815673828, -44.334495544433594, -34.69867706298828, -59.32284164428711, -48.10286331176758, -53.26469421386719, -29.24932861328125 ]	[ -60.75, -37, -47.75, -42.5, -33.75, -39.75, -49.5, -62.5, -46.75, -35.25 ]
t3_3zm7ca	relationships	There is a 80% chance I (20F) can't have children, but my boyfriend (24M) will not stop bringing up wanting to have his own kids. I don't know what to do.	I found out recently that I have a medical condition that makes it very difficult for me to conceive, and very, very risky for me and the baby. If I were to get pregnant, I would have to take a shot of heparin (blood thinner) in my stomach twice a day to reduce the risk of miscarriage, and thrombosis. So basically, i...	I probably can't have kids, but boyfriend wants kids and doesn't really want to adopt. I want to be able to have children for him, but also want him to respect me.	[ 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 5...	SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: There is a 80% chance I (20F) can't have children, but my boyfriend (24M) will not stop bringing up wanting to have his own kids. I don't know what to do. POST: I found out recently that I have a medical condition that makes it very difficult for me to conceive, and very, very risky ...	I probably can't have kids, but boyfriend wants kids and doesn't really want to adopt. I want to be able to have children for him, but also want him to respect me.<\|endoftext\|>	[ 309, 3164, 476, 626, 452, 5753, 13, 533, 22273, 5605, 5753, 285, 2506, 626, 1663, 971, 281, 5283, 15, 309, 971, 281, 320, 2104, 281, 452, 2151, 323, 779, 13, 533, 671, 971, 779, 281, 1675, 479, 15, 0, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 5...	39	SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: There is a 80% chance I (20F) can't have children, but my boyfriend (24M) will not stop bringing up wanting to have his own kids. I don't know what to do. POST: I found out recently that I have a medical condition that makes it very difficult for me to conceive, and very, very risky ...	[ 6971, 7941, 1703, 37, 1433, 27, 391, 16, 22842, 16458, 187, 187, 53, 43561, 27, 1707, 310, 247, 5096, 6, 4839, 309, 313, 938, 39, 10, 476, 626, 452, 2151, 13, 533, 619, 22273, 313, 1348, 46, 10, 588, 417, 3523, 9745, 598, 14707, ...	340	[ " My boyfriend wants to have kids, but I don't want to have them. How can I have a good relationship with him when I can't have children?", " I'm not going to get pregnant, and I don't know how to convince my boyfriend that he can't have kids, when I know he's really interested.", " I've chosen not to be pregna...	[ 0, 2, 4, 6, 8 ]	[ 1, 3, 5, 7, 9 ]	63	[ [ 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50...	[ -32.420265197753906, -32.95531463623047, -71.48719024658203, -22.084962844848633, -28.363950729370117, -31.79874038696289, -96.97340393066406, -41.912437438964844, -38.26483917236328, -23.878738403320312 ]	[ -30.625, -39.75, -55, -26.625, -21.875, -37, -76, -43.75, -28, -23.5 ]
t3_39evy6	relationships	I [24 M] ended a very new relationship with a long time friend [24 F] because we seemed to want different things out of our relationship. She seemed to agree when I brought it up to her, but now I am not sure if I did the right thing.	So I had met this girl when I started this new job. She worked there for a few months after I got hired, then moved onto a different career path. But was still a part of the social circle I was a part of. I had a huge crush on her soon after, she did not reciprocate that feeling. I was a little sour about it, but decid...	Did I take the easy way out? Or did I make a wise choice by realizing that this was not going anywhere?	[ 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 5...	SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: I [24 M] ended a very new relationship with a long time friend [24 F] because we seemed to want different things out of our relationship. She seemed to agree when I brought it up to her, but now I am not sure if I did the right thing. POST: So I had met this girl when I started this ...	Did I take the easy way out? Or did I make a wise choice by realizing that this was not going anywhere?<\|endoftext\|>	[ 10348, 309, 1379, 253, 3477, 1039, 562, 32, 2207, 858, 309, 1056, 247, 15822, 4327, 407, 27017, 326, 436, 369, 417, 1469, 9825, 32, 0, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277...	25	SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: I [24 M] ended a very new relationship with a long time friend [24 F] because we seemed to want different things out of our relationship. She seemed to agree when I brought it up to her, but now I am not sure if I did the right thing. POST: So I had met this girl when I started this ...	[ 6971, 7941, 1703, 37, 1433, 27, 391, 16, 22842, 16458, 187, 187, 53, 43561, 27, 309, 544, 1348, 353, 62, 7402, 247, 1077, 747, 2954, 342, 247, 1048, 673, 3331, 544, 1348, 401, 62, 984, 359, 4455, 281, 971, 1027, 1841, 562, 273, 77...	497	[ " I ended a relationship with a friend because I felt I needed to stay close as we both had different goals out of this relationship.", " Met a girl who i thought was cute and after a few drinks kissed, as we both had different ideas of what this relationship was going to be like, I ended it.", " I ended a real...	[ 0, 2, 4, 6, 8 ]	[ 1, 3, 5, 7, 9 ]	64	[ [ 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50...	[ -49.7548942565918, -55.183807373046875, -62.248592376708984, -44.98844909667969, -29.81182861328125, -17.412281036376953, -124.41419219970703, -57.34613037109375, -22.967727661132812, -17.370967864990234 ]	[ -33.75, -73.5, -57, -51.75, -26.75, -18, -96, -65.5, -17, -28.25 ]
t3_1yu5q3	cats	really need your help with my cat, Never seen him act like this	So my brother comes over my house a lot and he is really scared of my cat, my cat is 2 and has always been a sweet heart so I never de-clawed him but today well I was working on my computer the my brother came home I didnt even notice until he started screaming I mean SCREEAMMINGG like if you had just cut your self rea...	MY BRO GOT FUCKED UP BY MY CAT, I ALMOST GOT FUCKED UP BY HIM. CAT IS NEVER LIKE THAT AND IS EXTREMELY LOVABLE	[ 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 5...	SUBREDDIT: r/cats TITLE: really need your help with my cat, Never seen him act like this POST: So my brother comes over my house a lot and he is really scared of my cat, my cat is 2 and has always been a sweet heart so I never de-clawed him but today well I was working on my computer the my brother came home I didnt ...	MY BRO GOT FUCKED UP BY MY CAT, I ALMOST GOT FUCKED UP BY HIM. CAT IS NEVER LIKE THAT AND IS EXTREMELY LOVABLE <\|endoftext\|>	[ 17450, 11324, 48, 48983, 401, 36746, 1703, 20653, 9149, 17450, 29782, 13, 309, 6589, 6329, 1267, 48983, 401, 36746, 1703, 20653, 9149, 49526, 15, 29782, 4110, 48231, 32021, 16093, 4889, 4110, 8021, 53, 31085, 39155, 418, 4741, 8908, 209, ...	40	SUBREDDIT: r/cats TITLE: really need your help with my cat, Never seen him act like this POST: So my brother comes over my house a lot and he is really scared of my cat, my cat is 2 and has always been a sweet heart so I never de-clawed him but today well I was working on my computer the my brother came home I didnt ...	[ 6971, 7941, 1703, 37, 1433, 27, 391, 16, 38718, 187, 187, 53, 43561, 27, 1663, 878, 634, 1361, 342, 619, 5798, 13, 9018, 2326, 779, 769, 751, 436, 187, 187, 15743, 27, 1893, 619, 4929, 3249, 689, 619, 2419, 247, 2257, 285, 344, 31...	404	[ " my brother came home and saw my cat acting like a monster, he didnt want to shoot it but I had to because he was going to be in danger of being shot.", " my brother came home and my cat was acting like a monster, he didnt even notice he was locked up until he saw me and screamed and then bit my brother", " br...	[ 0, 2, 4, 6, 8 ]	[ 1, 3, 5, 7, 9 ]	65	[ [ 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50...	[ -56.69940185546875, -47.8993034362793, -52.29642105102539, -63.39121627807617, -84.8835678100586, -57.46384811401367, -53.284637451171875, -45.937156677246094, -70.92657470703125, -14.060429573059082 ]	[ -54.25, -63.25, -38.25, -84.5, -70.5, -77, -48.25, -52.5, -61.25, -17.125 ]
t3_4yyvu1	relationships	I [22F] love my boyfriend [24M] dearly, but I don't want to move in with him...	My boyfriend and I have been together for 5 years. Our relationship for the most part has been pretty good. We get along well in nearly every capacity - life plans, sex, etc. I'm very happy with him. Yesterday he asked me to move in with him. I'm graduating college this fall, and am looking for a job in the same are...	I don't want to move in with my boyfriend because I like visiting my family without him, want to move my parents into my home in the future, and just like being alone. Does this mean anything?	[ 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 5...	SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: I [22F] love my boyfriend [24M] dearly, but I don't want to move in with him... POST: My boyfriend and I have been together for 5 years. Our relationship for the most part has been pretty good. We get along well in nearly every capacity - life plans, sex, etc. I'm very happy with h...	I don't want to move in with my boyfriend because I like visiting my family without him, want to move my parents into my home in the future, and just like being alone. Does this mean anything?<\|endoftext\|>	[ 309, 1053, 626, 971, 281, 2118, 275, 342, 619, 22273, 984, 309, 751, 13975, 619, 2021, 1293, 779, 13, 971, 281, 2118, 619, 4651, 715, 619, 1728, 275, 253, 2852, 13, 285, 816, 751, 1146, 3815, 15, 9876, 436, 1599, 2712, 32, 0, 5027...	43	SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: I [22F] love my boyfriend [24M] dearly, but I don't want to move in with him... POST: My boyfriend and I have been together for 5 years. Our relationship for the most part has been pretty good. We get along well in nearly every capacity - life plans, sex, etc. I'm very happy with h...	[ 6971, 7941, 1703, 37, 1433, 27, 391, 16, 22842, 16458, 187, 187, 53, 43561, 27, 309, 544, 1423, 39, 62, 2389, 619, 22273, 544, 1348, 46, 62, 372, 1285, 13, 533, 309, 1053, 626, 971, 281, 2118, 275, 342, 779, 1051, 187, 187, 15743,...	396	[ " I'm very happy in my relationship, but I don't want to live with my boyfriend. What do I say to him?", " I'm graduating college, my boyfriend wants to move in with me. I don't want to live with him. What should I say to him?", " I love my boyfriend dearly, and I am not willing to move in with him. What should...	[ 0, 2, 4, 6, 8 ]	[ 1, 3, 5, 7, 9 ]	66	[ [ 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50...	[ -16.807132720947266, -17.26610565185547, -25.044471740722656, -26.511089324951172, -8.651259422302246, -7.4368791580200195, -30.15219497680664, -11.679645538330078, -18.886980056762695, -26.910558700561523 ]	[ -15.375, -19, -20.125, -27.375, -6.21875, -9.4375, -25.125, -17.5, -17, -32.25 ]
t3_47vfuj	relationships	Me [21 M] with my GF [23 F] 6 months, girlfriend talks to exes and gets mad when I talk to girls	So my GF is my first sexual partner, my GF has had many. She talks to guys from her past. She talks weekly to 2 exes, which I'm fine with, but we recently got into a big fight, because she was texting, snapchatting and calling another guy who was either a fuck buddy, or used her for sex, or something along those lines...	GF talks to guys from her past, but gets mad when I talk to old female friends. What should I do?	[ 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 6971, 7941, 1703, 37, 1433, 27, 391, 16, 22842, 16458, 187, 187, 53, 43561...	SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: Me [21 M] with my GF [23 F] 6 months, girlfriend talks to exes and gets mad when I talk to girls POST: So my GF is my first sexual partner, my GF has had many. She talks to guys from her past. She talks weekly to 2 exes, which I'm fine with, but we recently got into a big fight, bec...	GF talks to guys from her past, but gets mad when I talk to old female friends. What should I do?<\|endoftext\|>	[ 33952, 12088, 281, 6068, 432, 617, 2469, 13, 533, 4850, 10279, 672, 309, 2312, 281, 1711, 5343, 3858, 15, 1737, 943, 309, 513, 32, 0, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277,...	25	SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: Me [21 M] with my GF [23 F] 6 months, girlfriend talks to exes and gets mad when I talk to girls POST: So my GF is my first sexual partner, my GF has had many. She talks to guys from her past. She talks weekly to 2 exes, which I'm fine with, but we recently got into a big fight, bec...	[ 6971, 7941, 1703, 37, 1433, 27, 391, 16, 22842, 16458, 187, 187, 53, 43561, 27, 3189, 544, 1797, 353, 62, 342, 619, 33952, 544, 1508, 401, 62, 721, 2607, 13, 19609, 12088, 281, 385, 265, 285, 4850, 10279, 672, 309, 2312, 281, 6838, ...	513	[ " GF talks to guys from her past, says she doesn't care if I talk to who I want to talk to, but when I do talk to girls, she's angry, and I don't know where to go from here.", " GF talks to guys from her past, says I don't deserve to know. I talk to female friend from elementary school, she says slut and ulterior...	[ 0, 2, 4, 6, 8 ]	[ 1, 3, 5, 7, 9 ]	67	[ [ 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 6971, 7941, 1703, 37, 1433, ...	[ -46.108306884765625, -28.329345703125, -78.22647094726562, -57.21633529663086, -40.39967727661133, -24.400981903076172, -39.70237350463867, -47.580596923828125, -60.915592193603516, -57.68363952636719 ]	[ -45, -48, -69.5, -65, -30.75, -26.75, -32.75, -50.75, -51.25, -69 ]
t3_10do9r	Advice	Help, i feel like my step mom is being very unfair...	So, lets start off by saying im a freshman, so, yes, im young, but i still need help. Last night i was watching Netflix in bed (It was about 12) and my stepmom texted me and told me to turn it down, so i put in headphones, problem solved, right? Wrong. Today my dad came and bitched me out about "Respecting other peop...	sepmom put time blocks on wifi, all i want to do is watch netflix at night... Can i put myself as admin without being caught? (Are my lying skills good enough)	[ 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 5...	SUBREDDIT: r/Advice TITLE: Help, i feel like my step mom is being very unfair... POST: So, lets start off by saying im a freshman, so, yes, im young, but i still need help. Last night i was watching Netflix in bed (It was about 12) and my stepmom texted me and told me to turn it down, so i put in headphones, problem...	sepmom put time blocks on wifi, all i want to do is watch netflix at night... Can i put myself as admin without being caught? (Are my lying skills good enough)<\|endoftext\|>	[ 396, 2617, 297, 1691, 673, 8336, 327, 44681, 13, 512, 891, 971, 281, 513, 310, 3698, 2036, 21881, 387, 2360, 1051, 2615, 891, 1691, 4266, 347, 14991, 1293, 1146, 7270, 32, 313, 6723, 619, 10776, 6936, 1175, 2217, 10, 0, 50277, 50277, ...	40	SUBREDDIT: r/Advice TITLE: Help, i feel like my step mom is being very unfair... POST: So, lets start off by saying im a freshman, so, yes, im young, but i still need help. Last night i was watching Netflix in bed (It was about 12) and my stepmom texted me and told me to turn it down, so i put in headphones, problem...	[ 6971, 7941, 1703, 37, 1433, 27, 391, 16, 26256, 547, 187, 187, 53, 43561, 27, 21695, 13, 891, 1928, 751, 619, 3213, 2243, 310, 1146, 1077, 16593, 1051, 187, 187, 15743, 27, 1893, 13, 14935, 1265, 745, 407, 3981, 516, 247, 33726, 13,...	407	[ " i'm innocent, i dont want to get reprimanded, but i want to be able to watch Netflix past 10, does r/ advice have any way of bypassing the parental controls?", " i need advice on how to remove parental control time restrictions, i know i can do it, but im not sure if i should or not... if yes, how?", " i wa...	[ 0, 2, 4, 6, 8 ]	[ 1, 3, 5, 7, 9 ]	68	[ [ 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50...	[ -75.44276428222656, -48.92021942138672, -73.5650634765625, -36.57371139526367, -61.7008056640625, -52.203269958496094, -80.4205093383789, -47.42265319824219, -52.61020278930664, -27.9456729888916 ]	[ -62.75, -64.5, -72.5, -46.75, -54.25, -63.25, -65, -59.5, -46, -41.5 ]
t3_52qe0z	dogs	[discussion] Dog very injured and I'm emotionally terrified of what might happen	So my dog turned 11 two days ago, we celebrated and he was so happy. I'm 18 now and we basically grew up together and of course have become attached. Yesterday my father went for a daily walk with him and a dog got out and attacked Willie (my dog). He wrapped his teeth around his neck and pushed him to the ground and r...	My dog was attacked and I'm scared he's going to die. I'm really not ready to say goodbye to him.	[ 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 5...	SUBREDDIT: r/dogs TITLE: [discussion] Dog very injured and I'm emotionally terrified of what might happen POST: So my dog turned 11 two days ago, we celebrated and he was so happy. I'm 18 now and we basically grew up together and of course have become attached. Yesterday my father went for a daily walk with him and a...	My dog was attacked and I'm scared he's going to die. I'm really not ready to say goodbye to him.<\|endoftext\|>	[ 2752, 4370, 369, 13964, 285, 309, 1353, 16060, 344, 434, 1469, 281, 3150, 15, 309, 1353, 1663, 417, 4704, 281, 1333, 33969, 281, 779, 15, 0, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277,...	26	SUBREDDIT: r/dogs TITLE: [discussion] Dog very injured and I'm emotionally terrified of what might happen POST: So my dog turned 11 two days ago, we celebrated and he was so happy. I'm 18 now and we basically grew up together and of course have become attached. Yesterday my father went for a daily walk with him and a...	[ 6971, 7941, 1703, 37, 1433, 27, 391, 16, 69, 14175, 187, 187, 53, 43561, 27, 544, 49794, 62, 21048, 1077, 11062, 285, 309, 1353, 28561, 32052, 273, 752, 1537, 5108, 187, 187, 15743, 27, 1893, 619, 4370, 3531, 1903, 767, 1897, 3622, ...	273	[ " my dog got attacked by a dog that was a lot bigger. I'm emotionally terrified and keep my dog with me because I don't know what else to do.", " my dog got attacked by another dog and I'm emotionally terrified of what will happen to him and I'm stressed out because I'm not ready to say goodbye.", " Dog was bei...	[ 0, 2, 4, 6, 8 ]	[ 1, 3, 5, 7, 9 ]	69	[ [ 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50...	[ -53.36316680908203, -29.345144271850586, -77.20408630371094, -18.816425323486328, -42.930362701416016, -20.90616226196289, -40.506675720214844, -43.09646987915039, -22.79621696472168, -31.127180099487305 ]	[ -41.25, -33, -65, -20.75, -41, -25.625, -35, -54.25, -21.625, -44 ]
t3_3c5lsl	relationships	My close friend [both 20F] is getting married abroad but I don't want to go. Am I being selfish?	We've known each other since teenagers and been through a lot together. She recently got engaged and is planning on having her wedding in Morocco because that's where her family (and fiance) originate. Despite wanting to be there for her special day, there's several reasons why I don't want to go: 1) She has cheated ...	Friend wants to get married to guy she cheated on in Morocco. Don't wanna go cos I hate the place from bad experience and disagree with infidelity.	[ 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 5...	SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: My close friend [both 20F] is getting married abroad but I don't want to go. Am I being selfish? POST: We've known each other since teenagers and been through a lot together. She recently got engaged and is planning on having her wedding in Morocco because that's where her family (a...	Friend wants to get married to guy she cheated on in Morocco. Don't wanna go cos I hate the place from bad experience and disagree with infidelity. <\|endoftext\|>	[ 25845, 5605, 281, 755, 7028, 281, 5599, 703, 1161, 456, 327, 275, 40983, 15, 5037, 626, 17341, 564, 7349, 309, 9239, 253, 1659, 432, 3076, 2793, 285, 14936, 342, 2192, 21718, 15, 50276, 0, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277...	34	SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: My close friend [both 20F] is getting married abroad but I don't want to go. Am I being selfish? POST: We've known each other since teenagers and been through a lot together. She recently got engaged and is planning on having her wedding in Morocco because that's where her family (a...	[ 6971, 7941, 1703, 37, 1433, 27, 391, 16, 22842, 16458, 187, 187, 53, 43561, 27, 2752, 2810, 3331, 544, 15617, 1384, 39, 62, 310, 2970, 7028, 17195, 533, 309, 1053, 626, 971, 281, 564, 15, 3052, 309, 1146, 27915, 32, 187, 187, 15743,...	444	[ " My close friend is getting married in Morocco and I don't want to go. Am I being selfish for not wanting to go?", " My close friend is getting married in Morocco and I don't want to go. Am I being selfish for not wanting to go?", " Close friend is getting married abroad but I don't want to go. Am I being self...	[ 0, 2, 4, 6, 8 ]	[ 1, 3, 5, 7, 9 ]	70	[ [ 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50...	[ -8.434144020080566, -8.434142112731934, -4.412266731262207, -30.187776565551758, -62.60661315917969, -5.708189487457275, -54.47888946533203, -27.949899673461914, -5.8208909034729, -4.231201648712158 ]	[ -7.90625, -7.90625, -5.09375, -37, -35.75, -10.5625, -48.25, -36, -4.875, -4.6875 ]
t3_152lhf	relationships	I [F21] feel frustrated with my boyfriend's [M24] laziness. Am I justified?	I [F21] have been with my boyfriend [M24] for 2 years, lived with him for one year. Maybe it's just because of finals, but I've been feeling increasingly stressed about life over the past few months and have expressed this to my boyfriend. I have a well paying part time job and also am a full time student. He works ful...	My boyfriend doesn't seem to want to help me with anything, even when he sees I'm clearly stressed out. What actions do I need to take to change his behavior? Or is it too late?	[ 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 5...	SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: I [F21] feel frustrated with my boyfriend's [M24] laziness. Am I justified? POST: I [F21] have been with my boyfriend [M24] for 2 years, lived with him for one year. Maybe it's just because of finals, but I've been feeling increasingly stressed about life over the past few months and...	My boyfriend doesn't seem to want to help me with anything, even when he sees I'm clearly stressed out. What actions do I need to take to change his behavior? Or is it too late?<\|endoftext\|>	[ 2752, 22273, 2506, 626, 1646, 281, 971, 281, 1361, 479, 342, 2712, 13, 1014, 672, 344, 11403, 309, 1353, 4518, 21198, 562, 15, 1737, 5231, 513, 309, 878, 281, 1379, 281, 1818, 521, 3879, 32, 2207, 310, 352, 1512, 3563, 32, 0, 50277,...	42	SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: I [F21] feel frustrated with my boyfriend's [M24] laziness. Am I justified? POST: I [F21] have been with my boyfriend [M24] for 2 years, lived with him for one year. Maybe it's just because of finals, but I've been feeling increasingly stressed about life over the past few months and...	[ 6971, 7941, 1703, 37, 1433, 27, 391, 16, 22842, 16458, 187, 187, 53, 43561, 27, 309, 544, 39, 1797, 62, 1928, 23573, 342, 619, 22273, 434, 544, 46, 1348, 62, 826, 91, 1632, 15, 3052, 309, 17285, 32, 187, 187, 15743, 27, 309, 544, ...	366	[ " My boyfriend is always busy playing video games and never helps me with housework. Am I justified?", " my boyfriend doesn't want to do anything and gets mad when I ask him to do something, I feel stressed about life and he can't be bothered. Am I justified?", " boyfriend is too lazy to be a good boyfriend, I ...	[ 0, 2, 4, 6, 8 ]	[ 1, 3, 5, 7, 9 ]	71	[ [ 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50...	[ -23.8726806640625, -32.567413330078125, -87.32844543457031, -66.6029281616211, -65.35209655761719, -30.114255905151367, -34.36249923706055, -44.8702507019043, -19.71170997619629, -25.03835678100586 ]	[ -24, -41.5, -65.5, -82, -61.25, -30, -34.75, -49, -14, -30.125 ]
t3_nwu8y	AskReddit	Alright Reddit, What is the worst/craziest thing you've ever done at a party?	I only think it is fair I should begin. So growing up in a small town everybody knows everybody but once in awhile we got a rare chance to go to these massive house parties out in the country. These parties were usually thrown by really rich kids with massive houses and tons of money to throw away and what was my favo...	Got super drunk, passed out, had to take emergency piss and pee'd on the furnace causing the smell of stinky urine to permeate the house.	[ 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 5...	SUBREDDIT: r/AskReddit TITLE: Alright Reddit, What is the worst/craziest thing you've ever done at a party? POST: I only think it is fair I should begin. So growing up in a small town everybody knows everybody but once in awhile we got a rare chance to go to these massive house parties out in the country. These part...	Got super drunk, passed out, had to take emergency piss and pee'd on the furnace causing the smell of stinky urine to permeate the house.<\|endoftext\|>	[ 21979, 2221, 17507, 13, 4817, 562, 13, 574, 281, 1379, 8945, 24329, 285, 759, 70, 1871, 327, 253, 33926, 8479, 253, 13624, 273, 331, 46279, 16327, 281, 15498, 366, 253, 2419, 15, 0, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277...	33	SUBREDDIT: r/AskReddit TITLE: Alright Reddit, What is the worst/craziest thing you've ever done at a party? POST: I only think it is fair I should begin. So growing up in a small town everybody knows everybody but once in awhile we got a rare chance to go to these massive house parties out in the country. These part...	[ 6971, 7941, 1703, 37, 1433, 27, 391, 16, 30326, 10252, 22940, 187, 187, 53, 43561, 27, 1219, 918, 39714, 13, 1737, 310, 253, 9065, 16, 68, 5744, 10558, 2181, 368, 1849, 2455, 2218, 387, 247, 3128, 32, 187, 187, 15743, 27, 309, 760, ...	498	[ " I'm innocent, I pee in the dark, the smell is so strong it literally stank up the house. Everyone was trying to figure out where the smell came from, I was too busy feeling relieved to care.", " I'm drunk, wake up, pee in a furnace. Find out my Dad pissed on the furnace.", " I was too drunk to be able to pee,...	[ 0, 2, 4, 6, 8 ]	[ 1, 3, 5, 7, 9 ]	72	[ [ 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50...	[ -91.160400390625, -30.974761962890625, -50.515987396240234, -38.87360382080078, -40.90162658691406, -65.14463806152344, -67.5716781616211, -54.87455749511719, -80.68365478515625, -30.321453094482422 ]	[ -74, -54.25, -40.5, -55, -30.875, -87, -53.75, -79.5, -63.75, -36 ]
t3_1ebk9u	offmychest	I just saw my ex boyfriend for the first time in a year.	We had an extremely emotionally intense relationship. Together for 2 years, lived together for the second year. We didn't have a crazy break up, we were both so numb and exhausted that we just said this is it and kind of drifted away after I moved out. But we still were kind and respectful to each other. I think of...	I'm conflicted about my ex because seeing him made me realize that sometimes what you think you want isn't what's good for you.	[ 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 5...	SUBREDDIT: r/offmychest TITLE: I just saw my ex boyfriend for the first time in a year. POST: We had an extremely emotionally intense relationship. Together for 2 years, lived together for the second year. We didn't have a crazy break up, we were both so numb and exhausted that we just said this is it and kind of d...	I'm conflicted about my ex because seeing him made me realize that sometimes what you think you want isn't what's good for you.<\|endoftext\|>	[ 309, 1353, 7344, 264, 670, 619, 385, 984, 6523, 779, 1160, 479, 8968, 326, 4536, 752, 368, 1158, 368, 971, 3548, 626, 752, 434, 1175, 323, 368, 15, 0, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, ...	29	SUBREDDIT: r/offmychest TITLE: I just saw my ex boyfriend for the first time in a year. POST: We had an extremely emotionally intense relationship. Together for 2 years, lived together for the second year. We didn't have a crazy break up, we were both so numb and exhausted that we just said this is it and kind of d...	[ 6971, 7941, 1703, 37, 1433, 27, 391, 16, 2727, 2577, 1962, 296, 187, 187, 53, 43561, 27, 309, 816, 3047, 619, 385, 22273, 323, 253, 806, 673, 275, 247, 807, 15, 187, 187, 15743, 27, 844, 574, 271, 6685, 28561, 12680, 2954, 15, 502...	391	[ " Saw my ex boyfriend for the first time in a year. Know that he is too intense for me. Decision has been made to go against my heart and try again, but I'm not sure that I have the balls to do so.", " Ex boyfriend and I broke up, but I reconnected with him and saw him for the first time in a year. I don't wan...	[ 0, 2, 4, 6, 8 ]	[ 1, 3, 5, 7, 9 ]	73	[ [ 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50...	[ -80.06153106689453, -61.794036865234375, -56.8289909362793, -29.001461029052734, -23.304317474365234, -51.8455810546875, -66.52635955810547, -59.115943908691406, -40.86735916137695, -36.15763854980469 ]	[ -70, -81, -49.5, -34.75, -19.5, -56.25, -64.5, -70, -37.25, -41.5 ]
t3_43ti13	relationships	I'm [25 M] seeing this Girl [24F] for a month, doesn't do oral..	Throwaway for obvious reasons. Now I've posted here because no, I haven't spoken to her about this and would like some advice. Been seeing this girl, let's call her Stacey, for about a month or so. She's attractive, great personality, respectful job etc. Things have been good so far, however, we've had sex 10 times s...	Seeing girl for a month, I go down on her every time, having great sex, she still hasn't gone down on me..	[ 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 5...	SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: I'm [25 M] seeing this Girl [24F] for a month, doesn't do oral.. POST: Throwaway for obvious reasons. Now I've posted here because no, I haven't spoken to her about this and would like some advice. Been seeing this girl, let's call her Stacey, for about a month or so. She's attract...	Seeing girl for a month, I go down on her every time, having great sex, she still hasn't gone down on me..<\|endoftext\|>	[ 41583, 3226, 323, 247, 1770, 13, 309, 564, 1066, 327, 617, 1046, 673, 13, 1907, 1270, 2825, 13, 703, 1335, 11210, 626, 4783, 1066, 327, 479, 537, 0, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 502...	28	SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: I'm [25 M] seeing this Girl [24F] for a month, doesn't do oral.. POST: Throwaway for obvious reasons. Now I've posted here because no, I haven't spoken to her about this and would like some advice. Been seeing this girl, let's call her Stacey, for about a month or so. She's attract...	[ 6971, 7941, 1703, 37, 1433, 27, 391, 16, 22842, 16458, 187, 187, 53, 43561, 27, 309, 1353, 544, 1099, 353, 62, 6523, 436, 14758, 544, 1348, 39, 62, 323, 247, 1770, 13, 2506, 626, 513, 7946, 537, 187, 187, 15743, 27, 43083, 12594, ...	245	[ " Girl I'm seeing has been going down on me a lot, I don't think she likes it but I'm not sure what to say to her about it.", " Seen a girl for a month, not going down on her much, want to talk to her about it respectfully.", " Girl I'm seeing likes it but is uncomfortable with it. How should I approach this?",...	[ 0, 2, 4, 6, 8 ]	[ 1, 3, 5, 7, 9 ]	74	[ [ 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50...	[ -30.280921936035156, -23.25448989868164, -28.51495933532715, -31.141315460205078, -99.32501983642578, -25.981481552124023, -56.22467803955078, -34.0897331237793, -26.718727111816406, -19.858667373657227 ]	[ -27.125, -32.25, -22.25, -39.25, -78, -34.5, -45.75, -42.75, -32.5, -28.5 ]
t3_30b633	relationships	Me[20F] and ex[24M] he got married, had a baby, but still wont leave me alone. Should I tell his wife?	I was gonna use a throwaway but fuck it. About 15 months ago I started talking to a guy and we went on ONE date. The whole "relationship" lasted only 1 month. Well , he would only talk to me in "baby talk" about everything. He would speak to me like I was an actual infant. I hated that and told him to stop like 1,000 t...	ex got married, proposed to girl with used ring. Still won't leave me alone. Do I tell his wife??	[ 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 5...	SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: Me[20F] and ex[24M] he got married, had a baby, but still wont leave me alone. Should I tell his wife? POST: I was gonna use a throwaway but fuck it. About 15 months ago I started talking to a guy and we went on ONE date. The whole "relationship" lasted only 1 month. Well, he would o...	ex got married, proposed to girl with used ring. Still won't leave me alone. Do I tell his wife??<\|endoftext\|>	[ 385, 1694, 7028, 13, 4081, 281, 3226, 342, 908, 5818, 15, 11706, 1912, 626, 3553, 479, 3815, 15, 3166, 309, 2028, 521, 4475, 8220, 0, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277,...	25	SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: Me[20F] and ex[24M] he got married, had a baby, but still wont leave me alone. Should I tell his wife? POST: I was gonna use a throwaway but fuck it. About 15 months ago I started talking to a guy and we went on ONE date. The whole "relationship" lasted only 1 month. Well, he would o...	[ 6971, 7941, 1703, 37, 1433, 27, 391, 16, 22842, 16458, 187, 187, 53, 43561, 27, 3189, 60, 938, 39, 62, 285, 385, 60, 1348, 46, 62, 344, 1694, 7028, 13, 574, 247, 6858, 13, 533, 1335, 31451, 3553, 479, 3815, 15, 14482, 309, 2028, ...	333	[ " Ex-boyfriend got married, had a baby. He has been begging me to have sex with him. Should I tell his wife that? ", " my ex got married, had a baby, and keeps begging me to have sex with him even though I had already moved on. Should I tell his wife?", " Ex cheated on me, got married, fathered a baby, badmout...	[ 0, 2, 4, 6, 8 ]	[ 1, 3, 5, 7, 9 ]	75	[ [ 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50...	[ -33.66163635253906, -27.40117645263672, -84.53842163085938, -35.98797607421875, -53.57170486450195, -42.43034362792969, -54.09423828125, -38.46604919433594, -59.782432556152344, -16.664306640625 ]	[ -33, -32, -62.75, -45, -41.75, -48.75, -46.75, -51, -49.5, -20 ]
t3_1juaz7	relationships	Me[21F] and my boyfriend of a year [21M] are starting to face a long distance relationship and I don't know how to handle it	Me and my boyfriend have been friends for four years and dating for a year, the past year has been one of the best years of my life. We don't fight we communicate wonderfully and everything has been great. We talk about our future a lot and can honestly see ourselves getting married once we are out of school in two+ ye...	Me and my SO who is the man of my dreams are going to be long distance for two+ years, not sure what we should do	[ 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 5...	SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: Me[21F] and my boyfriend of a year [21M] are starting to face a long distance relationship and I don't know how to handle it POST: Me and my boyfriend have been friends for four years and dating for a year, the past year has been one of the best years of my life. We don't fight we co...	Me and my SO who is the man of my dreams are going to be long distance for two+ years, not sure what we should do<\|endoftext\|>	[ 3189, 285, 619, 8717, 665, 310, 253, 637, 273, 619, 13702, 403, 1469, 281, 320, 1048, 4181, 323, 767, 12, 1107, 13, 417, 2119, 752, 359, 943, 513, 0, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, ...	29	SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: Me[21F] and my boyfriend of a year [21M] are starting to face a long distance relationship and I don't know how to handle it POST: Me and my boyfriend have been friends for four years and dating for a year, the past year has been one of the best years of my life. We don't fight we co...	[ 6971, 7941, 1703, 37, 1433, 27, 391, 16, 22842, 16458, 187, 187, 53, 43561, 27, 3189, 60, 1797, 39, 62, 285, 619, 22273, 273, 247, 807, 544, 1797, 46, 62, 403, 4983, 281, 2454, 247, 1048, 4181, 2954, 285, 309, 1053, 626, 871, 849,...	377	[ " my boyfriend and I are moving for school and we are finishing up our high school years and have decided to try to get back together after that. Any advice/help would be greatly appreciated.", " I'm moving away from my boyfriend and I'm not sure if I should end it because it will be difficult to see each other ...	[ 0, 2, 4, 6, 8 ]	[ 1, 3, 5, 7, 9 ]	76	[ [ 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50...	[ -80.42263793945312, -22.796241760253906, -95.26922607421875, -37.027801513671875, -46.015960693359375, -37.05244445800781, -55.0826530456543, -51.87879180908203, -54.493621826171875, -22.953346252441406 ]	[ -61.25, -27.25, -79, -45.25, -44, -38.5, -53.5, -65.5, -47.25, -31.625 ]
t3_36rr3e	relationships	I [25 F] think that the guy I've been seeing for a couple months [39 M] is hiding a smoking habit from me.	Short backstory: I've known him for about 4.5 years, he got divorced last year, we've been seeing each other for about two months. As long as I've known him I've never seen him smoke. It's not a secret that I absolutely hate the habit (cigarettes). I just think it's disgusting and I personally don't (usually) date guys...	I think he's hiding a new smoking habit because he knows I hate it, and I'm not sure how to proceed.	[ 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 5...	SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: I [25 F] think that the guy I've been seeing for a couple months [39 M] is hiding a smoking habit from me. POST: Short backstory: I've known him for about 4.5 years, he got divorced last year, we've been seeing each other for about two months. As long as I've known him I've never see...	I think he's hiding a new smoking habit because he knows I hate it, and I'm not sure how to proceed.<\|endoftext\|>	[ 309, 1158, 344, 434, 17197, 247, 747, 10470, 8803, 984, 344, 6057, 309, 9239, 352, 13, 285, 309, 1353, 417, 2119, 849, 281, 4262, 15, 0, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 5...	26	SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: I [25 F] think that the guy I've been seeing for a couple months [39 M] is hiding a smoking habit from me. POST: Short backstory: I've known him for about 4.5 years, he got divorced last year, we've been seeing each other for about two months. As long as I've known him I've never see...	[ 6971, 7941, 1703, 37, 1433, 27, 391, 16, 22842, 16458, 187, 187, 53, 43561, 27, 309, 544, 1099, 401, 62, 1158, 326, 253, 5599, 309, 1849, 644, 6523, 323, 247, 4564, 2607, 544, 1867, 353, 62, 310, 17197, 247, 10470, 8803, 432, 479, ...	456	[ " Guy I've been seeing for a couple months has a habit of smoking, and I haven't seen it. I'm not sure how to bring it up.", " Guy I've been seeing for a couple months has a smoking habit. I think he hides it from me. Not sure what to do.", " Guy I'm seeing has a habit of throwing out his cigarettes, and I thin...	[ 0, 2, 4, 6, 8 ]	[ 1, 3, 5, 7, 9 ]	77	[ [ 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50...	[ -22.800525665283203, -15.454479217529297, -24.992826461791992, -26.283647537231445, -32.60053634643555, -26.608409881591797, -50.1424446105957, -70.91512298583984, -28.367019653320312, -13.282611846923828 ]	[ -19, -21.5, -18.25, -31, -22.5, -35.5, -41, -85, -28.375, -14.0625 ]
t3_2l3mf0	relationships	Me (22F) and my boyfriend (22M) of 5 years are taking a break....but we still live together in seperate rooms. This feels weird. How can we make this break work?	I posted this about a week ago for anyone that wants to read a more detailed version of why we went on a break: We have a lease together until August 2015. We are wanting to take a 1-month break in order to re-evaluate our relationship, decide what our needs are, and try to "fall back in love" with eachother. The siz...	BF and I taking a break to re-evaluate our relationship, but I'm not sure how to go through with a meaningful break if we are still living together and seeing eachother every day.	[ 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 5...	SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: Me (22F) and my boyfriend (22M) of 5 years are taking a break....but we still live together in seperate rooms. This feels weird. How can we make this break work? POST: I posted this about a week ago for anyone that wants to read a more detailed version of why we went on a break: We...	BF and I taking a break to re-evaluate our relationship, but I'm not sure how to go through with a meaningful break if we are still living together and seeing eachother every day.<\|endoftext\|>	[ 40542, 285, 309, 3192, 247, 2740, 281, 294, 14, 45141, 776, 2954, 13, 533, 309, 1353, 417, 2119, 849, 281, 564, 949, 342, 247, 14282, 2740, 604, 359, 403, 1335, 3811, 2366, 285, 6523, 1016, 977, 1046, 1388, 15, 0, 50277, 50277, 5027...	40	SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: Me (22F) and my boyfriend (22M) of 5 years are taking a break....but we still live together in seperate rooms. This feels weird. How can we make this break work? POST: I posted this about a week ago for anyone that wants to read a more detailed version of why we went on a break: We...	[ 6971, 7941, 1703, 37, 1433, 27, 391, 16, 22842, 16458, 187, 187, 53, 43561, 27, 3189, 313, 1423, 39, 10, 285, 619, 22273, 313, 1423, 46, 10, 273, 608, 1107, 403, 3192, 247, 2740, 2391, 2858, 359, 1335, 3153, 2366, 275, 396, 44640, ...	242	[ " We are taking a break from our relationship to re-evaluate. We are still living together in separate rooms. How can we make this work? ", " We are taking a break from our relationship in order to try to rebuild it. How can we make this work?", " We've been in a break for a year, we live together in separate ...	[ 0, 2, 4, 6, 8 ]	[ 1, 3, 5, 7, 9 ]	78	[ [ 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50...	[ -30.94028091430664, -19.269777297973633, -70.28169250488281, -59.39607238769531, -24.201309204101562, -38.961143493652344, -39.919551849365234, -26.802114486694336, -47.12408447265625, -17.42835235595703 ]	[ -26.375, -22.375, -50.75, -63.75, -22.625, -44.75, -35, -31.375, -40, -22.5 ]
t3_13eshb	relationships	I Might be a father again. How am I supposed to handle this? [25M]	I had a fling for about a month with a girl back in September. We had unprotected sex but I pulled out.... which I know isn't perfect. Yesterday, she called me and wanted to talk. Apparently she is pregnant and she is saying I am the father. I don't know if I believe her since our "relationship" was very casual. I don'...	Had a fling for a month. Apparently the girl I had the fling with is pregnant and says its mine. I'm married and have a family of my own already. Not sure what to do.	[ 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 5...	SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: I Might be a father again. How am I supposed to handle this? [25M] POST: I had a fling for about a month with a girl back in September. We had unprotected sex but I pulled out.... which I know isn't perfect. Yesterday, she called me and wanted to talk. Apparently she is pregnant an...	Had a fling for a month. Apparently the girl I had the fling with is pregnant and says its mine. I'm married and have a family of my own already. Not sure what to do.<\|endoftext\|>	[ 14136, 247, 892, 272, 323, 247, 1770, 15, 25998, 253, 3226, 309, 574, 253, 892, 272, 342, 310, 12821, 285, 2296, 697, 7477, 15, 50276, 42, 1353, 7028, 285, 452, 247, 2021, 273, 619, 1211, 2168, 15, 3105, 2119, 752, 281, 513, 15, 0...	44	SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: I Might be a father again. How am I supposed to handle this? [25M] POST: I had a fling for about a month with a girl back in September. We had unprotected sex but I pulled out.... which I know isn't perfect. Yesterday, she called me and wanted to talk. Apparently she is pregnant an...	[ 6971, 7941, 1703, 37, 1433, 27, 391, 16, 22842, 16458, 187, 187, 53, 43561, 27, 309, 475, 46, 429, 11, 320, 247, 3392, 969, 15, 1359, 717, 309, 6326, 281, 6016, 436, 32, 544, 1099, 46, 62, 187, 187, 15743, 27, 309, 574, 247, 892...	383	[ " Girl I had a fling with got pregnant after a month. I don't want the baby. How do I handle this?", " Girl I had a fling with is pregnant and I may be the father. How do I handle this?", " Fling with a girl that I am not in a relationship with. Her pregnancy is possible. Do I need to tell my wife? Do I need to...	[ 0, 2, 4, 6, 8 ]	[ 1, 3, 5, 7, 9 ]	79	[ [ 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50...	[ -27.663841247558594, -10.41278076171875, -54.359092712402344, -35.26679229736328, -37.916709899902344, -18.300758361816406, -80.99119567871094, -42.99857711791992, -34.71308898925781, -36.76517105102539 ]	[ -20.875, -11.6875, -43.25, -42.25, -27.375, -19.375, -63, -41.5, -30, -46.5 ]
t3_4umtkx	relationships	I [19M] want to ask my coworker [??F] out but I never get an opening. Need suggestions..	I work in retail with someone who I seem to have a good chemistry with and I think she would agree if I were to ask her, but the problem is that we never have a moment where I can do that. We work in different departments and see each other pretty regularly but theres always customers or coworkers around. I've known h...	How do you ask out a coworker that you almost never are alone with? Is it okay to ask a girl on a date in front of people?	[ 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 5...	SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: I [19M] want to ask my coworker [??F] out but I never get an opening. Need suggestions.. POST: I work in retail with someone who I seem to have a good chemistry with and I think she would agree if I were to ask her, but the problem is that we never have a moment where I can do that. ...	How do you ask out a coworker that you almost never are alone with? Is it okay to ask a girl on a date in front of people?<\|endoftext\|>	[ 1359, 513, 368, 1642, 562, 247, 38800, 254, 326, 368, 2761, 1620, 403, 3815, 342, 32, 1680, 352, 8261, 281, 1642, 247, 3226, 327, 247, 3522, 275, 2914, 273, 952, 32, 0, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50...	32	SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: I [19M] want to ask my coworker [??F] out but I never get an opening. Need suggestions.. POST: I work in retail with someone who I seem to have a good chemistry with and I think she would agree if I were to ask her, but the problem is that we never have a moment where I can do that. ...	[ 6971, 7941, 1703, 37, 1433, 27, 391, 16, 22842, 16458, 187, 187, 53, 43561, 27, 309, 544, 746, 46, 62, 971, 281, 1642, 619, 38800, 254, 544, 8220, 39, 62, 562, 533, 309, 1620, 755, 271, 5909, 15, 20389, 13991, 537, 187, 187, 15743...	281	[ " I'm a 20 year old male who wants to ask a girl he works with out but keep my coworkers around. Is it okay or should I go with my gut?", " I'm a 19 year old male and I want to ask a coworker out but I keep missing opportunities. What should I do?", " I want to ask my coworker out but am never given an opening ...	[ 0, 2, 4, 6, 8 ]	[ 1, 3, 5, 7, 9 ]	80	[ [ 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50...	[ -70.34610748291016, -25.987424850463867, -56.39849853515625, -39.2095832824707, -23.766321182250977, -27.432992935180664, -24.190547943115234, -23.48644256591797, -24.4189510345459, -23.286094665527344 ]	[ -47.25, -29.75, -46.75, -47.75, -24.625, -31.625, -21.875, -23, -21.25, -26.5 ]
t3_34b5gw	relationships	I (22/F) think I have feelings for (25/M). Can't tell if it's mutual (x-post from r/wemetonline)	Heyooo, So, I met this guy online on a non-dating website 6 months ago. We started talking every day, we've video chatted a few times, and we've exchanged literally thousands of messages to each other. It was gradual at first and in the beginning of our online friendship he said that I was easy to talk to because of t...	Met a guy online and am getting feelings for him. I am leaving the country to meet him and need some advice on whether the feeling could be mutual or not.	[ 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 5...	SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: I (22/F) think I have feelings for (25/M). Can't tell if it's mutual (x-post from r/wemetonline) POST: Heyooo, So, I met this guy online on a non-dating website 6 months ago. We started talking every day, we've video chatted a few times, and we've exchanged literally thousands of me...	Met a guy online and am getting feelings for him. I am leaving the country to meet him and need some advice on whether the feeling could be mutual or not.<\|endoftext\|>	[ 6365, 247, 5599, 3909, 285, 717, 2970, 10450, 323, 779, 15, 309, 717, 6108, 253, 2586, 281, 2525, 779, 285, 878, 690, 7535, 327, 1880, 253, 5471, 812, 320, 15577, 390, 417, 15, 0, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277...	34	SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: I (22/F) think I have feelings for (25/M). Can't tell if it's mutual (x-post from r/wemetonline) POST: Heyooo, So, I met this guy online on a non-dating website 6 months ago. We started talking every day, we've video chatted a few times, and we've exchanged literally thousands of me...	[ 6971, 7941, 1703, 37, 1433, 27, 391, 16, 22842, 16458, 187, 187, 53, 43561, 27, 309, 313, 1423, 16, 39, 10, 1158, 309, 452, 10450, 323, 313, 1099, 16, 46, 481, 2615, 626, 2028, 604, 352, 434, 15577, 313, 89, 14, 5996, 432, 391, ...	451	[ " Met a guy online. We're not even in a physical relationship but we've been talking for 6 months. I'm not sure if that's a mutual feeling.", " Met a guy online, been talking every day for 6 months. I'm about to go visit him and I'm starting to get feelings for him. Do you think there might be something more ther...	[ 0, 2, 4, 6, 8 ]	[ 1, 3, 5, 7, 9 ]	81	[ [ 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50...	[ -54.59505081176758, -27.673538208007812, -38.85157012939453, -44.87550354003906, -23.577726364135742, -20.85846519470215, -70.70271301269531, -34.7906608581543, -14.280054092407227, -24.35454750061035 ]	[ -42, -36, -31, -48.5, -25.25, -26.375, -62.5, -44.5, -12.8125, -21.5 ]
t3_4tkukx	relationships	I [28 M] suspect my Wife [29 F] of 2 years may be cheating. Need advice.	My wife and I have been growing apart lately (lack of intimacy for about 3 months) and I've noticed a couple strange things that I want some unbiased opinions on. She goes to the gym 5 days a week for a couple hours. One day recently when she was leaving she said goodbye and then I heard her phone start giving her GP...	I suspect my wife may be unfaithful but have 0 proof. I genuinely appreciate any help or advice. Thanks.	[ 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 5...	SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: I [28 M] suspect my Wife [29 F] of 2 years may be cheating. Need advice. POST: My wife and I have been growing apart lately (lack of intimacy for about 3 months) and I've noticed a couple strange things that I want some unbiased opinions on. She goes to the gym 5 days a week for a ...	I suspect my wife may be unfaithful but have 0 proof. I genuinely appreciate any help or advice. Thanks.<\|endoftext\|>	[ 309, 9101, 619, 4475, 778, 320, 5369, 66, 334, 1020, 533, 452, 470, 4737, 15, 309, 27364, 11435, 667, 1361, 390, 7535, 15, 9375, 15, 0, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50...	26	SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: I [28 M] suspect my Wife [29 F] of 2 years may be cheating. Need advice. POST: My wife and I have been growing apart lately (lack of intimacy for about 3 months) and I've noticed a couple strange things that I want some unbiased opinions on. She goes to the gym 5 days a week for a ...	[ 6971, 7941, 1703, 37, 1433, 27, 391, 16, 22842, 16458, 187, 187, 53, 43561, 27, 309, 544, 1619, 353, 62, 9101, 619, 40223, 544, 1717, 401, 62, 273, 374, 1107, 778, 320, 37142, 15, 20389, 7535, 15, 187, 187, 15743, 27, 2752, 4475, ...	440	[ " My wife has been sneaking out of the house to the gym and I suspect she has been doing some online shopping. How do I find out without ruining my marriage?", " My wife has been sneaking around and I'm not sure if she's cheating on me or if I'm just paranoid. What are my options here?", " Wife seems to be putt...	[ 0, 2, 4, 6, 8 ]	[ 1, 3, 5, 7, 9 ]	82	[ [ 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50...	[ -47.140594482421875, -33.268367767333984, -58.073116302490234, -29.752544403076172, -44.60997772216797, -21.52347183227539, -68.03236389160156, -44.076908111572266, -69.62753295898438, -21.03256607055664 ]	[ -43.5, -32.75, -52, -33.75, -31.125, -26.5, -59.25, -46.25, -60.5, -19.625 ]
t3_43y3dy	relationships	Me [26 M] with my ex [25 F] broke up and I feel guilty and sad since I initiated it	We had been dating for about six months and things were going reasonably well. I liked her and she liked me. I'd say there wasn't a very intense passion to the relationship, but there was definite affection towards each other. Both of us cared for each other deeply without question. Yet I felt like something was missi...	I initiated a breakup due to lack of passion in the relationship even though everything else about the relationship was just fine. I feel horrible about it. Any words of advice?	[ 50277, 6971, 7941, 1703, 37, 1433, 27, 391, 16, 22842, 16458, 187, 187, 53, 43561, 27, 3189, 544, 1731, 353, 62, 342, 619, 385, 544, 1099, 401, 62, 9377, 598, 285, 309, 1928, 8106, 285, 8872, 1580, 309, 15247, 352, 187, 187, 15743, ...	SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: Me [26 M] with my ex [25 F] broke up and I feel guilty and sad since I initiated it POST: We had been dating for about six months and things were going reasonably well. I liked her and she liked me. I'd say there wasn't a very intense passion to the relationship, but there was defini...	I initiated a breakup due to lack of passion in the relationship even though everything else about the relationship was just fine. I feel horrible about it. Any words of advice?<\|endoftext\|>	[ 309, 15247, 247, 2740, 484, 1955, 281, 3480, 273, 9908, 275, 253, 2954, 1014, 2167, 3253, 2010, 670, 253, 2954, 369, 816, 4030, 15, 50276, 42, 1928, 19201, 670, 352, 15, 6101, 3000, 273, 7535, 32, 0, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277,...	37	SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: Me [26 M] with my ex [25 F] broke up and I feel guilty and sad since I initiated it POST: We had been dating for about six months and things were going reasonably well. I liked her and she liked me. I'd say there wasn't a very intense passion to the relationship, but there was defini...	[ 6971, 7941, 1703, 37, 1433, 27, 391, 16, 22842, 16458, 187, 187, 53, 43561, 27, 3189, 544, 1731, 353, 62, 342, 619, 385, 544, 1099, 401, 62, 9377, 598, 285, 309, 1928, 8106, 285, 8872, 1580, 309, 15247, 352, 187, 187, 15743, 27, 8...	548	[ " Broke up with my ex, girlfriend and I both feel guilty and sad. How can I get over this?", " Broke up with my girlfriend, she says she doesn't want to talk. I feel horrible for hurting her feelings. What are some things I can do to help?", " Ex broke up with me out of the blue. I don't know how to handle the ...	[ 0, 2, 4, 6, 8 ]	[ 1, 3, 5, 7, 9 ]	83	[ [ 50277, 6971, 7941, 1703, 37, 1433, 27, 391, 16, 22842, 16458, 187, 187, 53, 43561, 27, 3189, 544, 1731, 353, 62, 342, 619, 385, 544, 1099, 401, 62, 9377, 598, 285, 309, 1928, 810...	[ -34.650516510009766, -44.010257720947266, -36.1672477722168, -33.541114807128906, -23.292482376098633, -22.84722900390625, -35.90458679199219, -37.74760437011719, -45.226802825927734, -17.169933319091797 ]	[ -24.75, -46.25, -30.125, -39.5, -17.375, -29.75, -36.5, -45.25, -39.75, -17.125 ]
t3_ssxdb	relationships	Frustrated with these people...	So, here's the gist of the situation. Got a girl, who broke with a boy, decided she hated him, then got back together with said boy after about 2 weeks, when he came crawling back. The girl and I are in a close relationship, and she tried to hide the fact they were back together. Frustrated me pretty badly. I've asked...	Girl broke up with guy, guy asks to get back together and they. I like her, don't know what to do.	[ 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 5...	SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: Frustrated with these people... POST: So, here's the gist of the situation. Got a girl, who broke with a boy, decided she hated him, then got back together with said boy after about 2 weeks, when he came crawling back. The girl and I are in a close relationship, and she tried to hid...	Girl broke up with guy, guy asks to get back together and they. I like her, don't know what to do. <\|endoftext\|>	[ 14758, 9377, 598, 342, 5599, 13, 5599, 12325, 281, 755, 896, 2366, 285, 597, 15, 309, 751, 617, 13, 1053, 626, 871, 752, 281, 513, 15, 209, 0, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, ...	28	SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: Frustrated with these people... POST: So, here's the gist of the situation. Got a girl, who broke with a boy, decided she hated him, then got back together with said boy after about 2 weeks, when he came crawling back. The girl and I are in a close relationship, and she tried to hid...	[ 6971, 7941, 1703, 37, 1433, 27, 391, 16, 22842, 16458, 187, 187, 53, 43561, 27, 1879, 5337, 456, 342, 841, 952, 1051, 187, 187, 15743, 27, 1893, 13, 1060, 434, 253, 305, 382, 273, 253, 4112, 15, 21979, 247, 3226, 13, 665, 9377, 34...	301	[ " Girl I'm in a relationship with broke up with a guy she hates, and now wants to be with him again. I'm confused and hurt.", " Girl I'm in a relationship with broke up with me, got back together. Now she's being very distant and callous when talking to me.", " Girl broke with boy, then got back together, becau...	[ 0, 2, 4, 6, 8 ]	[ 1, 3, 5, 7, 9 ]	84	[ [ 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50...	[ -31.069427490234375, -27.11252784729004, -28.443222045898438, -21.463279724121094, -64.5273208618164, -31.0695858001709, -47.8631706237793, -52.462703704833984, -52.201744079589844, -43.058982849121094 ]	[ -26, -35.25, -19.125, -28.625, -43.25, -38.5, -49, -56.5, -40, -49.25 ]
t3_14e2an	relationships	My gf wants an explenation from me [Both 24]	This is a fight we had 2 times before, it's hard on our relationship, and if she doesn't get an explenation that it isn't going to happen anymore it's the end. Relationship of 2,5 years. We are 2 outgoing people, we do alot of fun things, together or with friends, we respect eachothers boundaries, and do what we want ...	I tought my gf drank too much, build up resentment, exploded in her face. This happened 2 times before, now she wants explenation that it won't happen again.	[ 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 5...	SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: My gf wants an explenation from me [Both 24] POST: This is a fight we had 2 times before, it's hard on our relationship, and if she doesn't get an explenation that it isn't going to happen anymore it's the end. Relationship of 2,5 years. We are 2 outgoing people, we do alot of fun t...	I tought my gf drank too much, build up resentment, exploded in her face. This happened 2 times before, now she wants explenation that it won't happen again.<\|endoftext\|>	[ 309, 246, 1224, 619, 305, 71, 27215, 1512, 1199, 13, 1973, 598, 40586, 13, 31032, 275, 617, 2454, 15, 831, 4592, 374, 2069, 1078, 13, 1024, 703, 5605, 1414, 257, 318, 326, 352, 1912, 626, 5108, 969, 15, 0, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277...	39	SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: My gf wants an explenation from me [Both 24] POST: This is a fight we had 2 times before, it's hard on our relationship, and if she doesn't get an explenation that it isn't going to happen anymore it's the end. Relationship of 2,5 years. We are 2 outgoing people, we do alot of fun t...	[ 6971, 7941, 1703, 37, 1433, 27, 391, 16, 22842, 16458, 187, 187, 53, 43561, 27, 2752, 305, 71, 5605, 271, 1414, 257, 318, 432, 479, 544, 14358, 2164, 62, 187, 187, 15743, 27, 831, 310, 247, 3819, 359, 574, 374, 2069, 1078, 13, 352...	437	[ " my gf always drinks, this is a problem because i love her, i need help to figure out what's causing the problem", " my girlfriend drinks a lot, when she's out with her friends, i feel like i keep my distance from her because she's drunk.", " Girlfriend is 5/7 drunk, when am i going to trust her? or i should j...	[ 0, 2, 4, 6, 8 ]	[ 1, 3, 5, 7, 9 ]	85	[ [ 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50...	[ -34.6502799987793, -38.292518615722656, -41.91813278198242, -38.65471649169922, -90.55679321289062, -21.332664489746094, -67.52361297607422, -63.82112121582031, -42.59306335449219, -53.33600616455078 ]	[ -32.75, -51, -35.25, -36.5, -77, -30.75, -61.5, -74, -39.75, -57.25 ]
t3_rutrl	AskReddit	Isn't it a matter of faith that we are not being lied to about the outcome of a national election? Because honestly, they can claim that anyone won, and none of us could say a thing about it.	I understand that this is the only system we have right now, but is it not correct that the outcome told to us can have no correlation whatsoever to how people actually voted? We, the millions of individuals who voted, have no real recourse for saying what the outcome should have been because we are all so disconnec...	There is no way for us, as individual voters, to really comprehend the logistics of a national election. So... IMO there is an element of faith involved, because we can be told any outcome.	[ 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 5...	SUBREDDIT: r/AskReddit TITLE: Isn't it a matter of faith that we are not being lied to about the outcome of a national election? Because honestly, they can claim that anyone won, and none of us could say a thing about it. POST: I understand that this is the only system we have right now, but is it not correct that ...	There is no way for us, as individual voters, to really comprehend the logistics of a national election. So... IMO there is an element of faith involved, because we can be told any outcome.<\|endoftext\|>	[ 1707, 310, 642, 1039, 323, 441, 13, 347, 2060, 11163, 13, 281, 1663, 37240, 253, 38238, 273, 247, 3872, 6132, 15, 1893, 1051, 309, 6329, 627, 310, 271, 3284, 273, 6009, 3206, 13, 984, 359, 476, 320, 2183, 667, 6454, 15, 0, 50277, ...	42	SUBREDDIT: r/AskReddit TITLE: Isn't it a matter of faith that we are not being lied to about the outcome of a national election? Because honestly, they can claim that anyone won, and none of us could say a thing about it. POST: I understand that this is the only system we have right now, but is it not correct that ...	[ 6971, 7941, 1703, 37, 1433, 27, 391, 16, 30326, 10252, 22940, 187, 187, 53, 43561, 27, 36026, 626, 352, 247, 2647, 273, 6009, 326, 359, 403, 417, 1146, 27786, 281, 670, 253, 6454, 273, 247, 3872, 6132, 32, 4923, 20509, 13, 597, 476,...	258	[ " What if you were told that you were in a brick-walled box, where the only way out was to believe in the government that was telling you the truth?", " If I bet you that Obama would win and you bet me that he would lose, and then you bet me that Clinton would win, and then I bet you that McCain would lose, and t...	[ 0, 2, 4, 6, 8 ]	[ 1, 3, 5, 7, 9 ]	86	[ [ 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50...	[ -64.41692352294922, -47.94382095336914, -41.529380798339844, -91.79147338867188, -30.22484588623047, -24.763063430786133, -72.88473510742188, -28.35504913330078, -70.16615295410156, -28.42377471923828 ]	[ -53.5, -69, -36.25, -103.5, -23.875, -32, -56.75, -35, -55.75, -35 ]
t3_3fre3a	relationships	Me [24 M] with my BF [27 M]: His housemate wants me to pay rent and bills just for staying there.	I don't think I'm being unreasonable by asking WTF kind of backwards thinking is this: I've been with my boyfriend almost 18 months. I stay at his house (and he has 2 housemates) for most nights of the week and somehow this justifies me paying for rent and bills. However: ...	BF's housemate wants me to pay rent and bills just because I stay over a lot. Bills have not increased and I don't use water or electricity anyway. Thoughts?	[ 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 5...	SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: Me [24 M] with my BF [27 M]: His housemate wants me to pay rent and bills just for staying there. POST: I don't think I'm being unreasonable by asking WTF kind of backwards thinking is this: I've been with my boyfriend almost 18 months. I stay at his house (and h...	BF's housemate wants me to pay rent and bills just because I stay over a lot. Bills have not increased and I don't use water or electricity anyway. Thoughts?<\|endoftext\|>	[ 40542, 434, 2419, 13884, 5605, 479, 281, 2075, 8845, 285, 14874, 816, 984, 309, 3297, 689, 247, 2257, 15, 47491, 452, 417, 2559, 285, 309, 1053, 626, 897, 1824, 390, 13978, 8791, 15, 29084, 84, 32, 0, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277...	37	SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: Me [24 M] with my BF [27 M]: His housemate wants me to pay rent and bills just for staying there. POST: I don't think I'm being unreasonable by asking WTF kind of backwards thinking is this: I've been with my boyfriend almost 18 months. I stay at his house (and h...	[ 6971, 7941, 1703, 37, 1433, 27, 391, 16, 22842, 16458, 187, 187, 53, 43561, 27, 3189, 544, 1348, 353, 62, 342, 619, 40542, 544, 1630, 353, 5218, 3032, 2419, 13884, 5605, 479, 281, 2075, 8845, 285, 14874, 816, 323, 14596, 627, 15, 18...	469	[ " My boyfriend has 2 housemates, I'm not sure why he keeps paying for my rent and bills just because he has me.", " My boyfriend and I pay rent, bills and electricity because we sleep at his house. We keep to ourselves and clean up after ourselves. Is this okay?", " I've been with my bf for 18 months, and I'm b...	[ 0, 2, 4, 6, 8 ]	[ 1, 3, 5, 7, 9 ]	87	[ [ 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50...	[ -49.888824462890625, -53.78661346435547, -103.10969543457031, -58.888160705566406, -46.21541976928711, -33.72636413574219, -45.20600509643555, -96.96305847167969, -25.52560806274414, -33.1458740234375 ]	[ -36.25, -55.25, -85.5, -71.5, -35.75, -34.75, -38.5, -119, -21.375, -38 ]
t3_vyq1k	BreakUps	So I got dumped by my best friend and all I want is to talk to him about, how do I get away from this circle jerk that is us?	We have been best friends for 3 years, friends is such a stupid concept when it comes to boys and girls though, at least for us. Anyways, he broke up with me b/c he loves when we are together but when we aren't he doesn't see it working. The thing is when we aren't together, he is with his mother, his mother who hates...	How do I get over a break-up and talk to people about it when the one person I want to talk to is my best friend, being the guy that dumped me.	[ 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 5...	SUBREDDIT: r/BreakUps TITLE: So I got dumped by my best friend and all I want is to talk to him about, how do I get away from this circle jerk that is us? POST: We have been best friends for 3 years, friends is such a stupid concept when it comes to boys and girls though, at least for us. Anyways, he broke up with me...	How do I get over a break-up and talk to people about it when the one person I want to talk to is my best friend, being the guy that dumped me.<\|endoftext\|>	[ 1359, 513, 309, 755, 689, 247, 2740, 14, 484, 285, 2312, 281, 952, 670, 352, 672, 253, 581, 1436, 309, 971, 281, 2312, 281, 310, 619, 1682, 3331, 13, 1146, 253, 5599, 326, 35611, 479, 15, 0, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277,...	37	SUBREDDIT: r/BreakUps TITLE: So I got dumped by my best friend and all I want is to talk to him about, how do I get away from this circle jerk that is us? POST: We have been best friends for 3 years, friends is such a stupid concept when it comes to boys and girls though, at least for us. Anyways, he broke up with me...	[ 6971, 7941, 1703, 37, 1433, 27, 391, 16, 30389, 54, 793, 187, 187, 53, 43561, 27, 1893, 309, 1694, 35611, 407, 619, 1682, 3331, 285, 512, 309, 971, 310, 281, 2312, 281, 779, 670, 13, 849, 513, 309, 755, 1977, 432, 436, 9096, 27964...	429	[ " Best friend broke up with me, I want to talk to him about everything. How do I get away from this circle jerk?", " Best friend broke up with me, I want to talk to him about everything. How do I get away from him and his family?", " Best friend broke up with me because his mother hates me. They are bad for me ...	[ 0, 2, 4, 6, 8 ]	[ 1, 3, 5, 7, 9 ]	88	[ [ 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50...	[ -15.907085418701172, -17.214557647705078, -55.9420166015625, -85.94747924804688, -11.857236862182617, -25.14153289794922, -48.3286247253418, -45.77851104736328, -15.922342300415039, -56.42027282714844 ]	[ -15.125, -19.75, -54.5, -96, -8.875, -26.5, -40.5, -59.75, -12.9375, -68.5 ]
t3_ic8j7	AskReddit	I want to throw a great party, Reddit. What are some special things that I can do to make this happen?	Alright, so my 19th birthday is next Friday. I live in a college town, renting a house alone for the summer, and I want to throw a great party. I have invited friends from both school (which means they are coming from all over the state) and from home. However, since it's summer, I know that a lot of people won't show....	How do I throw a kick ass party with a bunch of people who don't really know each other and my house is still standing in the morning?	[ 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 5...	SUBREDDIT: r/AskReddit TITLE: I want to throw a great party, Reddit. What are some special things that I can do to make this happen? POST: Alright, so my 19th birthday is next Friday. I live in a college town, renting a house alone for the summer, and I want to throw a great party. I have invited friends from both sc...	How do I throw a kick ass party with a bunch of people who don't really know each other and my house is still standing in the morning?<\|endoftext\|>	[ 1359, 513, 309, 4710, 247, 8386, 718, 3128, 342, 247, 12190, 273, 952, 665, 1053, 626, 1663, 871, 1016, 643, 285, 619, 2419, 310, 1335, 6306, 275, 253, 4131, 32, 0, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, ...	31	SUBREDDIT: r/AskReddit TITLE: I want to throw a great party, Reddit. What are some special things that I can do to make this happen? POST: Alright, so my 19th birthday is next Friday. I live in a college town, renting a house alone for the summer, and I want to throw a great party. I have invited friends from both sc...	[ 6971, 7941, 1703, 37, 1433, 27, 391, 16, 30326, 10252, 22940, 187, 187, 53, 43561, 27, 309, 971, 281, 4710, 247, 1270, 3128, 13, 39714, 15, 1737, 403, 690, 2714, 1841, 326, 309, 476, 513, 281, 1056, 436, 5108, 32, 187, 187, 15743, ...	223	[ " I'm hosting a party, but I want to make sure that everyone has as much fun as possible while it's still fresh.", " I'm hosting my 19th birthday party in a college town. I want to make it a good time. What can I do to make sure that everyone has a good time, things are under control, and that everyone has a good...	[ 0, 2, 4, 6, 8 ]	[ 1, 3, 5, 7, 9 ]	89	[ [ 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50...	[ -37.092987060546875, -40.05527114868164, -49.43426513671875, -61.68275451660156, -9.702807426452637, -25.202537536621094, -8.991044998168945, -32.35591125488281, -20.374267578125, -45.51896667480469 ]	[ -31, -46, -37.75, -64.5, -9.25, -34.5, -9.375, -43.5, -23.625, -51.75 ]
t3_1jh4fh	relationships	Why do I [23f], who has an amazing family and loving friends with a good life, hate myself? And how can I get past it?	So this is me... I have a loving and amazing family. I have many loving friends. I have a great social life. It is easy for me to get the guy I want. I've just recently started talking to a really great guy, who really cares about me and likes me. So everythings cool and gravy and dandy so why do I not like myself so m...	Hate myself for no reason, don't know why, and don't know how to get past it. Makes me sad that I can't seem to really love myself	[ 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 5...	SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: Why do I [23f], who has an amazing family and loving friends with a good life, hate myself? And how can I get past it? POST: So this is me... I have a loving and amazing family. I have many loving friends. I have a great social life. It is easy for me to get the guy I want. I've just...	Hate myself for no reason, don't know why, and don't know how to get past it. Makes me sad that I can't seem to really love myself<\|endoftext\|>	[ 388, 366, 4266, 323, 642, 1921, 13, 1053, 626, 871, 2139, 13, 285, 1053, 626, 871, 849, 281, 755, 2469, 352, 15, 46615, 479, 8872, 326, 309, 476, 626, 1646, 281, 1663, 2389, 4266, 0, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, ...	35	SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: Why do I [23f], who has an amazing family and loving friends with a good life, hate myself? And how can I get past it? POST: So this is me... I have a loving and amazing family. I have many loving friends. I have a great social life. It is easy for me to get the guy I want. I've just...	[ 6971, 7941, 1703, 37, 1433, 27, 391, 16, 22842, 16458, 187, 187, 53, 43561, 27, 6049, 513, 309, 544, 1508, 71, 1092, 665, 556, 271, 8644, 2021, 285, 18248, 3858, 342, 247, 1175, 1495, 13, 9239, 4266, 32, 1244, 849, 476, 309, 755, ...	485	[ " I'm a great person. But every time I think about getting back together with somebody, it makes me hate myself. How can I get past this?", " I'm a happy, good person. I have a loving family and good friends. Yet I have hated myself so much for so long that it's now getting in the way of things.", " I've been h...	[ 0, 2, 4, 6, 8 ]	[ 1, 3, 5, 7, 9 ]	90	[ [ 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50...	[ -53.03108215332031, -52.7878303527832, -33.863712310791016, -51.244178771972656, -53.34105682373047, -35.70306396484375, -64.74176788330078, -41.98712921142578, -31.199186325073242, -26.805484771728516 ]	[ -47, -64.5, -25.875, -70, -45, -35.75, -56, -50.25, -26.375, -31.375 ]
t3_38momy	offmychest	I'm worried.	I'm incredibly worried about my younger cousins; I have been for some time, but tonight it's different. Today their father killed himself. Their parents have been separated for some time, and my cousins have been living with their mom and grandma out in the country for a while. I'm not even sure if they know yet. I s...	My uncle killed himself today, leaving behind his ex-wife and two children who struggle with depression and coping with their parents divorce. I need help.	[ 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 5...	SUBREDDIT: r/offmychest TITLE: I'm worried. POST: I'm incredibly worried about my younger cousins; I have been for some time, but tonight it's different. Today their father killed himself. Their parents have been separated for some time, and my cousins have been living with their mom and grandma out in the country fo...	My uncle killed himself today, leaving behind his ex-wife and two children who struggle with depression and coping with their parents divorce. I need help.<\|endoftext\|>	[ 2752, 18796, 5339, 2994, 3063, 13, 6108, 3212, 521, 385, 14, 27505, 285, 767, 50276, 13863, 665, 11182, 342, 9454, 285, 30963, 342, 616, 4651, 17038, 15, 309, 878, 1361, 15, 0, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 502...	32	SUBREDDIT: r/offmychest TITLE: I'm worried. POST: I'm incredibly worried about my younger cousins; I have been for some time, but tonight it's different. Today their father killed himself. Their parents have been separated for some time, and my cousins have been living with their mom and grandma out in the country fo...	[ 6971, 7941, 1703, 37, 1433, 27, 391, 16, 2727, 2577, 1962, 296, 187, 187, 53, 43561, 27, 309, 1353, 11926, 15, 187, 187, 15743, 27, 309, 1353, 16088, 11926, 670, 619, 9243, 37827, 28, 309, 452, 644, 323, 690, 673, 13, 533, 11608, ...	245	[ " My two cousins seem to be dealing with parental problems. I'm worried about them, and keep my head down.", " My two cousins are dealing with a lot of problems. I'm worried about the older cousin with mental health issues.", " I'm worried about my older cousins and the youngest of my two cousins because of men...	[ 0, 2, 4, 6, 8 ]	[ 1, 3, 5, 7, 9 ]	91	[ [ 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50...	[ -53.69538116455078, -25.550321578979492, -30.42280387878418, -12.803768157958984, -29.33739471435547, -23.58521270751953, -40.67558288574219, -29.366046905517578, -35.11580276489258, -36.895076751708984 ]	[ -50.25, -28.125, -22.25, -19.125, -29, -27.625, -34, -37.25, -23.875, -54.75 ]
t3_3823i0	tifu	TIFU by scaring the shit out of my friends	So this happened just today. We're in highschool and me and my three friends (lets call them Bob, Steven and Tong) were eating lunch and chilling. We were making fun of Bob as we usually do and then Tong brings up the topic of the Charlie, Charlie pencil game (if you don't know what it is then go on youtube). We all tr...	Scared the living shit out of my friends playing Charlie Charlie pencil game and I will be surprised if they come to school tommorow.	[ 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 5...	SUBREDDIT: r/tifu TITLE: TIFU by scaring the shit out of my friends POST: So this happened just today. We're in highschool and me and my three friends (lets call them Bob, Steven and Tong) were eating lunch and chilling. We were making fun of Bob as we usually do and then Tong brings up the topic of the Charlie, Char...	Scared the living shit out of my friends playing Charlie Charlie pencil game and I will be surprised if they come to school tommorow.<\|endoftext\|>	[ 1810, 1096, 253, 3811, 10739, 562, 273, 619, 3858, 4882, 16955, 16955, 29514, 2165, 285, 309, 588, 320, 9861, 604, 597, 1705, 281, 2143, 281, 2188, 263, 319, 15, 0, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 5...	30	SUBREDDIT: r/tifu TITLE: TIFU by scaring the shit out of my friends POST: So this happened just today. We're in highschool and me and my three friends (lets call them Bob, Steven and Tong) were eating lunch and chilling. We were making fun of Bob as we usually do and then Tong brings up the topic of the Charlie, Char...	[ 6971, 7941, 1703, 37, 1433, 27, 391, 16, 40165, 86, 187, 187, 53, 43561, 27, 308, 3801, 54, 407, 660, 1875, 253, 10739, 562, 273, 619, 3858, 187, 187, 15743, 27, 1893, 436, 4592, 816, 3063, 15, 844, 1472, 275, 1029, 19221, 285, 47...	366	[ " Tried to scare my friends by blowing a pencil to 'Yes' and 'No' and blowing it to 'Yes' again and again till I scared them.", " Tried to scare my friends, they believe Charlie will find you if you blow a pencil to 'Yes'", " I messed with my friends minds and they thought I was a psycho killer because of this ...	[ 0, 2, 4, 6, 8 ]	[ 1, 3, 5, 7, 9 ]	92	[ [ 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50...	[ -39.35724639892578, -17.212749481201172, -38.679141998291016, -21.24428939819336, -34.96003341674805, -24.83944320678711, -30.99537467956543, -32.88556671142578, -14.35222339630127, -35.98371887207031 ]	[ -30.125, -22.5, -36.75, -38.5, -25.125, -35.25, -29.875, -38, -12.625, -65 ]
t3_2au7ub	relationships	I (20F) am still good friends with my ex (25M). We're both in a relationship, but last night he started trying to sext me. What should I do?	We've been friends since we broke up almost 3 years ago and this is the first time he's tried anything like this. I told him that I wasn't comfortable with it. He said: "tell me you don't like me talking dirty to you and mean it and I'll stop." Me: "we both have someone. Regardless of whether or not I like it, its ...	ex and I have been friends since we broke up almost 3 years ago. He tried to sext me last night, even though we both have partners. Advice on what to do.	[ 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 5...	SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: I (20F) am still good friends with my ex (25M). We're both in a relationship, but last night he started trying to sext me. What should I do? POST: We've been friends since we broke up almost 3 years ago and this is the first time he's tried anything like this. I told him that I wasn'...	ex and I have been friends since we broke up almost 3 years ago. He tried to sext me last night, even though we both have partners. Advice on what to do.<\|endoftext\|>	[ 385, 285, 309, 452, 644, 3858, 1580, 359, 9377, 598, 2761, 495, 1107, 3622, 15, 754, 3597, 281, 396, 633, 479, 1390, 2360, 13, 1014, 2167, 359, 1097, 452, 10471, 15, 13536, 547, 327, 752, 281, 513, 15, 0, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277,...	39	SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: I (20F) am still good friends with my ex (25M). We're both in a relationship, but last night he started trying to sext me. What should I do? POST: We've been friends since we broke up almost 3 years ago and this is the first time he's tried anything like this. I told him that I wasn'...	[ 6971, 7941, 1703, 37, 1433, 27, 391, 16, 22842, 16458, 187, 187, 53, 43561, 27, 309, 313, 938, 39, 10, 717, 1335, 1175, 3858, 342, 619, 385, 313, 1099, 46, 481, 844, 1472, 1097, 275, 247, 2954, 13, 533, 1390, 2360, 344, 3053, 2820...	351	[ " my ex is sexting me. I told him I didn't like it, he keep trying to persuade me to not be uncomfortable. What else can I do?", " my ex tried to sext me. I told him to stop. What should I do next?", " Ex is trying to sext me and I am not comfortable with it. What should I do?", " Ex tried to sext me. I rejec...	[ 0, 2, 4, 6, 8 ]	[ 1, 3, 5, 7, 9 ]	93	[ [ 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50...	[ -49.99757766723633, -11.90626049041748, -13.429673194885254, -47.89183044433594, -41.891319274902344, -26.80158233642578, -48.496673583984375, -23.929224014282227, -27.648075103759766, -24.510482788085938 ]	[ -50.5, -16.75, -12, -55.75, -36, -35.5, -40.25, -38, -23.5, -28.25 ]
t3_2vplfm	Advice	I think I suck at my job.	Now I make mistakes sometimes. Usually fine detail mistakes, like a typo in an important place. Or not knowing that someone put training equipment on a truck and I dispatch it on a job. I would say I could tack up one good mistake per month working. I just came out of a meeting where I was told that mistakes were not ...	Should human error be expected sometimes in the workplace? Is a manager with "no tolerance" for error being unfair or simply having healthy standards for his company?	[ 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 5...	SUBREDDIT: r/Advice TITLE: I think I suck at my job. POST: Now I make mistakes sometimes. Usually fine detail mistakes, like a typo in an important place. Or not knowing that someone put training equipment on a truck and I dispatch it on a job. I would say I could tack up one good mistake per month working. I just c...	Should human error be expected sometimes in the workplace? Is a manager with "no tolerance" for error being unfair or simply having healthy standards for his company?<\|endoftext\|>	[ 14482, 1966, 2228, 320, 3264, 4536, 275, 253, 21853, 32, 1680, 247, 7205, 342, 346, 2369, 13761, 3, 323, 2228, 1146, 16593, 390, 3365, 1907, 5875, 7465, 323, 521, 2567, 32, 0, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 5027...	32	SUBREDDIT: r/Advice TITLE: I think I suck at my job. POST: Now I make mistakes sometimes. Usually fine detail mistakes, like a typo in an important place. Or not knowing that someone put training equipment on a truck and I dispatch it on a job. I would say I could tack up one good mistake per month working. I just c...	[ 6971, 7941, 1703, 37, 1433, 27, 391, 16, 26256, 547, 187, 187, 53, 43561, 27, 309, 1158, 309, 15327, 387, 619, 2628, 15, 187, 187, 15743, 27, 3954, 309, 1056, 16503, 4536, 15, 25683, 4030, 2508, 16503, 13, 751, 247, 1745, 80, 275, ...	416	[ " I'm a perfectionist. I'm not a detail freak. I have to learn to keep my mind out of the \"I can't be good at this\" game.", " I'm a supervisor in sales, not in logistics. GM thinks I should be perfect, but I'm not. How can I learn to be okay with my mistakes?", " I've been in trouble for mistakes and I am rea...	[ 0, 2, 4, 6, 8 ]	[ 1, 3, 5, 7, 9 ]	94	[ [ 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50...	[ -71.33111572265625, -44.947654724121094, -64.36581420898438, -49.38697052001953, -35.539947509765625, -34.76930236816406, -65.04890441894531, -32.996177673339844, -72.14514923095703, -37.471336364746094 ]	[ -52.75, -58.5, -55, -54.25, -35.25, -45.25, -58.25, -36.25, -62, -54.5 ]
t3_4le58z	relationships	My [30 F] boyfriend [25 M] of 14 months, we are considering moving in together in a home that I own. What's the best way to split expenses?	My boyfriend and I are discussing moving in together in the fall when his lease is up. We've been together for just over a year. We both make a similar salary. He makes about $2K more than I do. We have been discussing how to share expenses and split the bills. We are both open to communication and discussion on this ...	Boyfriend and I are considering moving into the home I own. We have almost identical salaries. What is reasonable for splitting the expenses?	[ 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 5...	SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: My [30 F] boyfriend [25 M] of 14 months, we are considering moving in together in a home that I own. What's the best way to split expenses? POST: My boyfriend and I are discussing moving in together in the fall when his lease is up. We've been together for just over a year. We both ...	Boyfriend and I are considering moving into the home I own. We have almost identical salaries. What is reasonable for splitting the expenses?<\|endoftext\|>	[ 12143, 8471, 285, 309, 403, 7296, 4886, 715, 253, 1728, 309, 1211, 15, 844, 452, 2761, 8931, 32510, 15, 1737, 310, 5272, 323, 19860, 253, 12222, 32, 0, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, ...	28	SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: My [30 F] boyfriend [25 M] of 14 months, we are considering moving in together in a home that I own. What's the best way to split expenses? POST: My boyfriend and I are discussing moving in together in the fall when his lease is up. We've been together for just over a year. We both ...	[ 6971, 7941, 1703, 37, 1433, 27, 391, 16, 22842, 16458, 187, 187, 53, 43561, 27, 2752, 544, 1229, 401, 62, 22273, 544, 1099, 353, 62, 273, 1638, 2607, 13, 359, 403, 7296, 4886, 275, 2366, 275, 247, 1728, 326, 309, 1211, 15, 1737, 4...	375	[ " My boyfriend and I are considering moving in together in a house that I own. How can we scale our expenses to this new living arrangement?", " My boyfriend and I are considering moving in together in a house that I own. How can we scale our house-sharing expenses?", " Moving in with boyfriend in a house that ...	[ 0, 2, 4, 6, 8 ]	[ 1, 3, 5, 7, 9 ]	95	[ [ 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50...	[ -39.19987487792969, -37.31361770629883, -20.50202178955078, -61.85784149169922, -20.820648193359375, -32.06680679321289, -46.77250671386719, -28.400360107421875, -20.546371459960938, -30.908737182617188 ]	[ -33.5, -35.5, -17, -67, -19, -36.5, -37.25, -33.75, -17, -39.25 ]
t3_1jhf23	relationships	Me[19M] pissed off with my [19F] over sickness (long term relationship)	So to keep it as brief as possible I have been dating my SO for coming up 5 years now, every things been great yadayada. --- Two weeks ago I came down with viral meningitis and was administered to hospital for a couple of nights. She became slightly unwell during this time and was unable to visit me which is fine. -- H...	GF of 5 years hasn't come to visit me in 2 weeks (nearly 3) of being bed ridden, should I be mad?	[ 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 5...	SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: Me[19M] pissed off with my [19F] over sickness (long term relationship) POST: So to keep it as brief as possible I have been dating my SO for coming up 5 years now, every things been great yadayada. --- Two weeks ago I came down with viral meningitis and was administered to hospital ...	GF of 5 years hasn't come to visit me in 2 weeks (nearly 3) of being bed ridden, should I be mad?<\|endoftext\|>	[ 33952, 273, 608, 1107, 11210, 626, 1705, 281, 4143, 479, 275, 374, 3618, 313, 570, 1285, 495, 10, 273, 1146, 3722, 391, 5394, 13, 943, 309, 320, 10279, 32, 0, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, ...	30	SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: Me[19M] pissed off with my [19F] over sickness (long term relationship) POST: So to keep it as brief as possible I have been dating my SO for coming up 5 years now, every things been great yadayada. --- Two weeks ago I came down with viral meningitis and was administered to hospital ...	[ 6971, 7941, 1703, 37, 1433, 27, 391, 16, 22842, 16458, 187, 187, 53, 43561, 27, 3189, 60, 746, 46, 62, 39309, 745, 342, 619, 544, 746, 39, 62, 689, 31009, 313, 5056, 1307, 2954, 10, 187, 187, 15743, 27, 1893, 281, 1978, 352, 347, ...	380	[ " Girlfriend has not visited me for over 5 days because she didn't want to come and keep me company during my sickness, she blew me off and now I'm pissed.", " girlfriend hasn't been to see me in 5 days because she didn't want to come, keep blowing off plans to see me when I was bed ridden for 2 weeks.", " Girl...	[ 0, 2, 4, 6, 8 ]	[ 1, 3, 5, 7, 9 ]	96	[ [ 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50...	[ -55.88926696777344, -53.10866928100586, -103.7887954711914, -79.81657409667969, -74.43878936767578, -31.705251693725586, -72.13792419433594, -48.82720947265625, -34.79508972167969, -25.794082641601562 ]	[ -50.25, -64.5, -84.5, -100.5, -60.25, -43.5, -57.75, -61.75, -27.125, -40 ]
t3_1d26n0	relationships	Am I being ridiculous for being upset that my boyfriend [30M] would rather bring family (that he is not close to) to his graduation rather than me [28F]?	Some background: Me and my boyfriend have been in a long distance relationship for almost a year. We attend different schools 5 hours apart. It was rough in the beginning because of the distance, but everything is great now. We text throughout the day and talk on the phone/skype every night. We see each other anywhere ...	Boyfriend would rather have family members he is not close with attend his graduation rather than me, his girlfriend. It makes me sad.	[ 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 5...	SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: Am I being ridiculous for being upset that my boyfriend [30M] would rather bring family (that he is not close to) to his graduation rather than me [28F]? POST: Some background: Me and my boyfriend have been in a long distance relationship for almost a year. We attend different school...	Boyfriend would rather have family members he is not close with attend his graduation rather than me, his girlfriend. It makes me sad.<\|endoftext\|>	[ 12143, 8471, 651, 2581, 452, 2021, 2758, 344, 310, 417, 2810, 342, 8041, 521, 31313, 2581, 685, 479, 13, 521, 19609, 15, 733, 2789, 479, 8872, 15, 0, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50...	28	SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: Am I being ridiculous for being upset that my boyfriend [30M] would rather bring family (that he is not close to) to his graduation rather than me [28F]? POST: Some background: Me and my boyfriend have been in a long distance relationship for almost a year. We attend different school...	[ 6971, 7941, 1703, 37, 1433, 27, 391, 16, 22842, 16458, 187, 187, 53, 43561, 27, 3052, 309, 1146, 19082, 323, 1146, 14004, 326, 619, 22273, 544, 1229, 46, 62, 651, 2581, 3324, 2021, 313, 3529, 344, 310, 417, 2810, 281, 10, 281, 521, ...	388	[ " My boyfriend wants to bring his family to his graduation. I didn't get invited because he only has 6 tickets. Am I wrong for being hurt?", " My boyfriend has only 6 tickets for his graduation and I have none. He wants to bring his family and I dont. Am I being unreasonable?", " My boyfriend is graduating with...	[ 0, 2, 4, 6, 8 ]	[ 1, 3, 5, 7, 9 ]	97	[ [ 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50...	[ -33.25334930419922, -22.111848831176758, -47.14118194580078, -32.73427200317383, -32.971923828125, -43.46227264404297, -44.78660583496094, -15.258634567260742, -69.10147094726562, -27.949697494506836 ]	[ -28.375, -31.375, -42.5, -53.5, -25.25, -67, -37.25, -25.375, -45.25, -42.75 ]
t3_2e8zan	relationships	My boyfriend (age 22) of 5 months can't handle how many sexual partners I (female - age 23) have had.	I've been with 29 other people, and he brings it up almost every day. I've also had a threesome, which he talks about constantly. He feels like he can't please me sexually (even though I always tell him that isn't so. He is one of the only people I've been to orgasm with, and it's the best sex I've ever had) because I'...	Dating a crazy guy who thinks I don't pay enough attention to him and can't handle the fact that I've slept with so many people. I should break up with him, right?	[ 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 5...	SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: My boyfriend (age 22) of 5 months can't handle how many sexual partners I (female - age 23) have had. POST: I've been with 29 other people, and he brings it up almost every day. I've also had a threesome, which he talks about constantly. He feels like he can't please me sexually (eve...	Dating a crazy guy who thinks I don't pay enough attention to him and can't handle the fact that I've slept with so many people. I should break up with him, right?<\|endoftext\|>	[ 399, 839, 247, 10412, 5599, 665, 11121, 309, 1053, 626, 2075, 2217, 4116, 281, 779, 285, 476, 626, 6016, 253, 958, 326, 309, 1849, 21567, 342, 594, 1142, 952, 15, 309, 943, 2740, 598, 342, 779, 13, 987, 32, 0, 50277, 50277, 50277, ...	40	SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: My boyfriend (age 22) of 5 months can't handle how many sexual partners I (female - age 23) have had. POST: I've been with 29 other people, and he brings it up almost every day. I've also had a threesome, which he talks about constantly. He feels like he can't please me sexually (eve...	[ 6971, 7941, 1703, 37, 1433, 27, 391, 16, 22842, 16458, 187, 187, 53, 43561, 27, 2752, 22273, 313, 486, 3307, 10, 273, 608, 2607, 476, 626, 6016, 849, 1142, 5615, 10471, 309, 313, 35686, 428, 2363, 3495, 10, 452, 574, 15, 187, 187, ...	511	[ " My boyfriend thinks I'm cheating on him because I've slept with so many people. We keep having these conversations about this, and I don't know how to break up with him.", " My boyfriend thinks I'm cheating on him because I've slept with 29 other people, and it's driving me crazy. What are my options? ", " M...	[ 0, 2, 4, 6, 8 ]	[ 1, 3, 5, 7, 9 ]	98	[ [ 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50...	[ -37.21907424926758, -32.457984924316406, -30.07651138305664, -39.44856262207031, -16.339824676513672, -38.167236328125, -48.9649658203125, -37.86145782470703, -49.2230110168457, -32.92315673828125 ]	[ -32.5, -36.75, -28, -43.5, -17.125, -43.5, -43.5, -47, -41.25, -39.25 ]
t3_2fumiw	relationships	Me [22 M] and my best friend [22F] got into a relationship - I need help	We have been best friends since high school, we talked about everything and everybody and always had a good time together. She was the perfect "best friend", someone who would stay with you, the rest of your life. And then we got even closer. She fell in love with me, I couldnt hurt her so we started to evolve into a c...	Got into a relationship with my best friend, but I feel that it has a deadline - looking for help cause I don't want to lose her.	[ 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 5...	SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: Me [22 M] and my best friend [22F] got into a relationship - I need help POST: We have been best friends since high school, we talked about everything and everybody and always had a good time together. She was the perfect "best friend", someone who would stay with you, the rest of yo...	Got into a relationship with my best friend, but I feel that it has a deadline - looking for help cause I don't want to lose her.<\|endoftext\|>	[ 21979, 715, 247, 2954, 342, 619, 1682, 3331, 13, 533, 309, 1928, 326, 352, 556, 247, 20639, 428, 2819, 323, 1361, 2847, 309, 1053, 626, 971, 281, 7168, 617, 15, 0, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, ...	31	SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: Me [22 M] and my best friend [22F] got into a relationship - I need help POST: We have been best friends since high school, we talked about everything and everybody and always had a good time together. She was the perfect "best friend", someone who would stay with you, the rest of yo...	[ 6971, 7941, 1703, 37, 1433, 27, 391, 16, 22842, 16458, 187, 187, 53, 43561, 27, 3189, 544, 1423, 353, 62, 285, 619, 1682, 3331, 544, 1423, 39, 62, 1694, 715, 247, 2954, 428, 309, 878, 1361, 187, 187, 15743, 27, 844, 452, 644, 1682...	412	[ " Best friend and I got together, girlfriend and I want to break up, how can we keep our friendship?", " Best friend and I got into a relationship, I want to be single, but I feel like I will lose her if I end the relationship. Any advice/experience?", " I fall in love with someone I am in a relationship with,...	[ 0, 2, 4, 6, 8 ]	[ 1, 3, 5, 7, 9 ]	99	[ [ 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50...	[ -33.961544036865234, -34.039451599121094, -51.48657989501953, -30.8375186920166, -59.05897521972656, -63.92673873901367, -39.35322952270508, -20.180912017822266, -29.645137786865234, -45.32227325439453 ]	[ -26.875, -32.5, -45.75, -37, -56.25, -77.5, -32.75, -19, -27.5, -54 ]

t3_1hxu8s

relationships

I (f/22) have to figure out if I want to still know these girls or not and would hate to sound insulting

Not sure if this belongs here but it's worth a try. Backstory: When I (f/22) went through my first real breakup 2 years ago because he needed space after a year of dating roand it effected me more than I thought. It was a horrible time in my life due to living with my mother and finally having the chance to cut her ...

I still have contact with an old ex's friends but can't stand to see or talk to him. His friends are really nice ,so how do I tell them I possibly want to unfriend them on Facebook because of him?

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SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: I (f/22) have to figure out if I want to still know these girls or not and would hate to sound insulting POST: Not sure if this belongs here but it's worth a try. Backstory: When I (f/22) went through my first real breakup 2 years ago because he needed space after a year of dating ...

I still have contact with an old ex's friends but can't stand to see or talk to him. His friends are really nice ,so how do I tell them I possibly want to unfriend them on Facebook because of him?<|endoftext|>

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SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: I (f/22) have to figure out if I want to still know these girls or not and would hate to sound insulting POST: Not sure if this belongs here but it's worth a try. Backstory: When I (f/22) went through my first real breakup 2 years ago because he needed space after a year of dating ...

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t3_33lz18

loseit

SV & NSV! Keeping on keeping on.

30F, 5'6". SW: 236 GW: 150 CW: 219 I weigh myself weekly and measure myself monthly. I'd hit a plateau the last four weeks or so where I was stuck at 222. Felt like kind of a bummer, but knew it's because I haven't been as strict as I should with my diet, and the last week and a half have been crazy with life things, ...

Progress is still happening, even when you think it might not be! Don't get discouraged, even if your journey seems to be going slowly. Don't give up, warriors.

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SUBREDDIT: r/loseit TITLE: SV & NSV! Keeping on keeping on. POST: 30F, 5'6". SW: 236 GW: 150 CW: 219 I weigh myself weekly and measure myself monthly. I'd hit a plateau the last four weeks or so where I was stuck at 222. Felt like kind of a bummer, but knew it's because I haven't been as strict as I should with my d...

Progress is still happening, even when you think it might not be! Don't get discouraged, even if your journey seems to be going slowly. Don't give up, warriors.<|endoftext|>

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SUBREDDIT: r/loseit TITLE: SV & NSV! Keeping on keeping on. POST: 30F, 5'6". SW: 236 GW: 150 CW: 219 I weigh myself weekly and measure myself monthly. I'd hit a plateau the last four weeks or so where I was stuck at 222. Felt like kind of a bummer, but knew it's because I haven't been as strict as I should with my d...

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t3_38a85h

relationships

Me [19F] with my friend [19M] 10 months, Insecurities - Show or Tell?

What are your stories about insecurities you've had in past relationships? How have you dealt with them, particularly the ones that you can't hide? I'm not currently in a relationship, but recently I've realized that there is someone who likes me, and I'm interested in them, too. Frankly, the only reason I'm not askin...

My skin is scarred badly; what could I do/say about it that would gross my future partner out the least? What's your experience with body image issues?

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SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: Me [19F] with my friend [19M] 10 months, Insecurities - Show or Tell? POST: What are your stories about insecurities you've had in past relationships? How have you dealt with them, particularly the ones that you can't hide? I'm not currently in a relationship, but recently I've real...

My skin is scarred badly; what could I do/say about it that would gross my future partner out the least? What's your experience with body image issues?<|endoftext|>

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SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: Me [19F] with my friend [19M] 10 months, Insecurities - Show or Tell? POST: What are your stories about insecurities you've had in past relationships? How have you dealt with them, particularly the ones that you can't hide? I'm not currently in a relationship, but recently I've real...

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t3_2as12n

personalfinance

Prioritize student debt or saving for down payment?

I have $25k in student debt. One private loan at 9.5% (highest priority obviously) and nine others federal between 3.4% and 6.8%. Minimum payment per month total is $301.16. Over the next 9 months, I will pay off $11k of these, which will get rid of everything above 5% interest and will drop the total minimum payment t...

$14k in student debt (all <5%) and need to save more for down payment on a ~$300k house. How to allocate $5200/mo between the two?

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SUBREDDIT: r/personalfinance TITLE: Prioritize student debt or saving for down payment? POST: I have $25k in student debt. One private loan at 9.5% (highest priority obviously) and nine others federal between 3.4% and 6.8%. Minimum payment per month total is $301.16. Over the next 9 months, I will pay off $11k of the...

$14k in student debt (all <5%) and need to save more for down payment on a ~$300k house. How to allocate $5200/mo between the two?<|endoftext|>

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SUBREDDIT: r/personalfinance TITLE: Prioritize student debt or saving for down payment? POST: I have $25k in student debt. One private loan at 9.5% (highest priority obviously) and nine others federal between 3.4% and 6.8%. Minimum payment per month total is $301.16. Over the next 9 months, I will pay off $11k of the...

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t3_2bzi1g

relationships

My[25m] girlfriend [24f] is only nice and pleasant when I'm aloof and distant. (9 months)

Throwaway I noticed the more I'm cold and distant towards my girlfriend, the more pleasant she becomes. She'll come over and clean my apartment, do laundry, dishes and cook for me, even as far as to offer oral favors while I'm drinking a beer! She seems completely happy and content during this time, which makes me h...

GF is a meanie-bo-beanie when I'm nice, and an absolute doll when I'm uninterested. Sex is bomb and she's the hottest I've ever dated. What do?

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SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: My[25m] girlfriend [24f] is only nice and pleasant when I'm aloof and distant. (9 months) POST: Throwaway I noticed the more I'm cold and distant towards my girlfriend, the more pleasant she becomes. She'll come over and clean my apartment, do laundry, dishes and cook for me, even a...

GF is a meanie-bo-beanie when I'm nice, and an absolute doll when I'm uninterested. Sex is bomb and she's the hottest I've ever dated. What do?<|endoftext|>

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SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: My[25m] girlfriend [24f] is only nice and pleasant when I'm aloof and distant. (9 months) POST: Throwaway I noticed the more I'm cold and distant towards my girlfriend, the more pleasant she becomes. She'll come over and clean my apartment, do laundry, dishes and cook for me, even a...

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t3_552pxf

relationships

Me 28 F with guy I'm dating 30 M - 1 month, Is it okay to ask if everything is okay or am I being pushy?

I have been dating this guy for 1 month now and everything was great until last Sunday when I noticed he wasn't responding to my text with the same flirty, cute, enthusiastic text that he usually would. He used to call me baby, babe but since last Sunday he has said none of those words and texting has been less and com...

I asked guy I have been dating for a month if everything was okay and now I regret it because I think it makes me look pushy /clingy.

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SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: Me 28 F with guy I'm dating 30 M - 1 month, Is it okay to ask if everything is okay or am I being pushy? POST: I have been dating this guy for 1 month now and everything was great until last Sunday when I noticed he wasn't responding to my text with the same flirty, cute, enthusiasti...

I asked guy I have been dating for a month if everything was okay and now I regret it because I think it makes me look pushy /clingy.<|endoftext|>

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SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: Me 28 F with guy I'm dating 30 M - 1 month, Is it okay to ask if everything is okay or am I being pushy? POST: I have been dating this guy for 1 month now and everything was great until last Sunday when I noticed he wasn't responding to my text with the same flirty, cute, enthusiasti...

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t3_fss6j

relationships

Is it weird that this turned me off from my gf?

The other day my girlfriend(23 years old) and myself(22 years old) were talking and she revealed to me that she almost didn't date me because I was too short (5'7"-5'8"). She is only about 5'5". Now she loves me a lot and thinks I am the best thing to ever happen to her but for some reason, learning about this, reall...

Gf said she almost didn't date me because I was too short. Now I am really turned off by her.

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SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: Is it weird that this turned me off from my gf? POST: The other day my girlfriend(23 years old) and myself(22 years old) were talking and she revealed to me that she almost didn't date me because I was too short (5'7"-5'8"). She is only about 5'5". Now she loves me a lot and thinks...

Gf said she almost didn't date me because I was too short. Now I am really turned off by her.<|endoftext|>

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SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: Is it weird that this turned me off from my gf? POST: The other day my girlfriend(23 years old) and myself(22 years old) were talking and she revealed to me that she almost didn't date me because I was too short (5'7"-5'8"). She is only about 5'5". Now she loves me a lot and thinks...

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t3_3mcrjk

relationships

I (27/F) am obnoxiously paranoid after a gynecological health scare. How do I explain my ridiculous hormonal-ness to my boyfriend (32/M)? (X-posted to /r/AskWomen)

Last month, I started getting really hormonal and feeling downright crazy (becoming paranoid about my awesome boyfriend for absolutely no reason, crying at the drop of a hat, and all of that jazz.). Right around that time, my gyno told me that I was due to have my IUD removed. Oh, okay! That's why I was a hormonal wrec...

Had a big-ass ovarian cyst; scared that I'm irreparably broken; hormonal shitstorm ensues; worried I'm going to alienate my boyfriend with my behavior.

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SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: I (27/F) am obnoxiously paranoid after a gynecological health scare. How do I explain my ridiculous hormonal-ness to my boyfriend (32/M)? (X-posted to /r/AskWomen) POST: Last month, I started getting really hormonal and feeling downright crazy (becoming paranoid about my awesome boyf...

Had a big-ass ovarian cyst; scared that I'm irreparably broken; hormonal shitstorm ensues; worried I'm going to alienate my boyfriend with my behavior.<|endoftext|>

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SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: I (27/F) am obnoxiously paranoid after a gynecological health scare. How do I explain my ridiculous hormonal-ness to my boyfriend (32/M)? (X-posted to /r/AskWomen) POST: Last month, I started getting really hormonal and feeling downright crazy (becoming paranoid about my awesome boyf...

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t3_38mtrj

relationships

Advice givers of this subreddit please help me (18m) out. Please and thank you:)

So recently I listened to the song Feel Again by OneRepublic. GREAT SONG. But it got me thinking: "is my heart numb? Am I a lonely soul?" All my friends tell me I am basically Ted Mosby (for those of u who are himym fans...) but I have seriously never been in a relationship and have always been friendzoned which is fin...

I think I might like two girls at once. Don't want to; just want to be head over heels for one. Do I do anything before college?

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SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: Advice givers of this subreddit please help me (18m) out. Please and thank you:) POST: So recently I listened to the song Feel Again by OneRepublic. GREAT SONG. But it got me thinking: "is my heart numb? Am I a lonely soul?" All my friends tell me I am basically Ted Mosby (for those ...

I think I might like two girls at once. Don't want to; just want to be head over heels for one. Do I do anything before college?<|endoftext|>

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SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: Advice givers of this subreddit please help me (18m) out. Please and thank you:) POST: So recently I listened to the song Feel Again by OneRepublic. GREAT SONG. But it got me thinking: "is my heart numb? Am I a lonely soul?" All my friends tell me I am basically Ted Mosby (for those ...

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t3_4gbnkb

relationships

Me [20/F] having trouble with boyfriend [23/m] of 2.5 years sex drive

My boyfriend and I have an amazing sex life. We are very sexually compatible. Although, his sex drive is crazy high compared to mine. It really depends on the time of month for me [hormones], sometimes I'll be down to go 3 times a day and sometimes I'm only interested in once a week. I'm asking for advice because I ...

how do I deny sex with my boyfriend of 2.5 years without him feeling like I don't want to please him?

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SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: Me [20/F] having trouble with boyfriend [23/m] of 2.5 years sex drive POST: My boyfriend and I have an amazing sex life. We are very sexually compatible. Although, his sex drive is crazy high compared to mine. It really depends on the time of month for me [hormones], sometimes I'll ...

how do I deny sex with my boyfriend of 2.5 years without him feeling like I don't want to please him?<|endoftext|>

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SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: Me [20/F] having trouble with boyfriend [23/m] of 2.5 years sex drive POST: My boyfriend and I have an amazing sex life. We are very sexually compatible. Although, his sex drive is crazy high compared to mine. It really depends on the time of month for me [hormones], sometimes I'll ...

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t3_1e42z5

offmychest

I'm just really tired right now...

I just discovered this subreddit and I am glad I did because I am about to be at the breaking point. I am about to move out of my house with my boyfriend and into an apartment in about a week. I've been extremely stressed out. I am losing sleep about this and I have been becoming irritated at many things. Having enough...

I'm worried about moving out of parent's house and into an apartment with a boyfriend who doesn't really seemed worried at all.

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SUBREDDIT: r/offmychest TITLE: I'm just really tired right now... POST: I just discovered this subreddit and I am glad I did because I am about to be at the breaking point. I am about to move out of my house with my boyfriend and into an apartment in about a week. I've been extremely stressed out. I am losing sleep a...

I'm worried about moving out of parent's house and into an apartment with a boyfriend who doesn't really seemed worried at all.<|endoftext|>

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SUBREDDIT: r/offmychest TITLE: I'm just really tired right now... POST: I just discovered this subreddit and I am glad I did because I am about to be at the breaking point. I am about to move out of my house with my boyfriend and into an apartment in about a week. I've been extremely stressed out. I am losing sleep a...

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t3_12n77s

relationship_advice

How to deal with questioning everything?

23/f here and SO is 26/m. Together for 1.5 yrs and living together for 5 months. My sister just recently got married and I can't tell if the thoughts I am having are because I'm imaging their relationship to be something it isn't or if I'm in a LTR with someone that is really not suited for me in the long term. Their...

Witnessing a different kind of relationship is making me question mine. I don't know whether this is all in my head or I'm onto something

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SUBREDDIT: r/relationship_advice TITLE: How to deal with questioning everything? POST: 23/f here and SO is 26/m. Together for 1.5 yrs and living together for 5 months. My sister just recently got married and I can't tell if the thoughts I am having are because I'm imaging their relationship to be something it isn't ...

Witnessing a different kind of relationship is making me question mine. I don't know whether this is all in my head or I'm onto something<|endoftext|>

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SUBREDDIT: r/relationship_advice TITLE: How to deal with questioning everything? POST: 23/f here and SO is 26/m. Together for 1.5 yrs and living together for 5 months. My sister just recently got married and I can't tell if the thoughts I am having are because I'm imaging their relationship to be something it isn't ...

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t3_29gdvm

relationships

Me [ 20/F] with my bf [ 20/M] of 3 years. I've found myself attracted to someone else. Need advice on how to overcome.

So I have been in what I consider a serious relationship for a few years now. Like any relationship we've had our ups and downs, but things have been great these past few months. I recently started a new job, and don't get to see my bf as often as I would like to anymore. And on top of that I've found myself attracted ...

I've found myself attracted to a man who is not my boyfriend. I can't quit my job, so how can I overcome these feelings?

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SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: Me [ 20/F] with my bf [ 20/M] of 3 years. I've found myself attracted to someone else. Need advice on how to overcome. POST: So I have been in what I consider a serious relationship for a few years now. Like any relationship we've had our ups and downs, but things have been great the...

I've found myself attracted to a man who is not my boyfriend. I can't quit my job, so how can I overcome these feelings?<|endoftext|>

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SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: Me [ 20/F] with my bf [ 20/M] of 3 years. I've found myself attracted to someone else. Need advice on how to overcome. POST: So I have been in what I consider a serious relationship for a few years now. Like any relationship we've had our ups and downs, but things have been great the...

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t3_2pzfya

relationships

Me [21M] with my GF [19F] of 2,5 years. She wants to pay me for helping her with her accounting studies, but I don't want her to

Hello fellow redditors, we've been together for 2,5 years and everything is more than perfect :) She is sitting here with me and we will both provide our perspectives. We are enrolled in a similar business administration program, but at different universities and I'm one year ahead. She is struggling right now with...

My GF wants to pay for helping her with her accounting class, but I don't want to get paid since I think that something like this should be expected in a relationship. Both perspectives are provided in the post.

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SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: Me [21M] with my GF [19F] of 2,5 years. She wants to pay me for helping her with her accounting studies, but I don't want her to POST: Hello fellow redditors, we've been together for 2,5 years and everything is more than perfect :) She is sitting here with me and we will both prov...

My GF wants to pay for helping her with her accounting class, but I don't want to get paid since I think that something like this should be expected in a relationship. Both perspectives are provided in the post.<|endoftext|>

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SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: Me [21M] with my GF [19F] of 2,5 years. She wants to pay me for helping her with her accounting studies, but I don't want her to POST: Hello fellow redditors, we've been together for 2,5 years and everything is more than perfect :) She is sitting here with me and we will both prov...

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t3_q3sop

dating_advice

I think I'm trapped in nasty triangle and don't know how to proceed, some advice would be really appreciated.

I (male, 19) met this girl at collge (19 too) a couple of months ago. At the moment I met her, nothing really special happened between us happened, we just chatted a bit and left as early friends. Then, I entered college (the same where she studies) and we started to connect faster; we have a lot in common, we're both...

I like this girl. A friend of mine likes this girl. This girl doesn't likes him back. This girl might like another friend, although I'm not sure of that. How do I proceed?

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SUBREDDIT: r/dating_advice TITLE: I think I'm trapped in nasty triangle and don't know how to proceed, some advice would be really appreciated. POST: I (male, 19) met this girl at collge (19 too) a couple of months ago. At the moment I met her, nothing really special happened between us happened, we just chatted a bi...

I like this girl. A friend of mine likes this girl. This girl doesn't likes him back. This girl might like another friend, although I'm not sure of that. How do I proceed?<|endoftext|>

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SUBREDDIT: r/dating_advice TITLE: I think I'm trapped in nasty triangle and don't know how to proceed, some advice would be really appreciated. POST: I (male, 19) met this girl at collge (19 too) a couple of months ago. At the moment I met her, nothing really special happened between us happened, we just chatted a bi...

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t3_506j75

relationships

I [M20] met a girl [F20] who i really like while backpacking europe and i dont know what to do.

I met her initially in berlin, where I only got to spend a day with her. I instantly knew there was something between us, I didnt know what but we just clicked strait away. I would have stayed there longer just to be with her if I could have. I met with her again a few months later In london. We spent another 3 days t...

Met a girl while traveling, trying to figure out a way we can spend more time together and how to tell her how I feel.

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SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: I [M20] met a girl [F20] who i really like while backpacking europe and i dont know what to do. POST: I met her initially in berlin, where I only got to spend a day with her. I instantly knew there was something between us, I didnt know what but we just clicked strait away. I would h...

Met a girl while traveling, trying to figure out a way we can spend more time together and how to tell her how I feel.<|endoftext|>

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SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: I [M20] met a girl [F20] who i really like while backpacking europe and i dont know what to do. POST: I met her initially in berlin, where I only got to spend a day with her. I instantly knew there was something between us, I didnt know what but we just clicked strait away. I would h...

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t3_4q1ipr

dogs

[HELP] Not sure how to deal with new people/dogs and my big ole pup

I have a three year old Dober/Pit mix named Romulus ("Rome" for short). He's about 105lbs and for the most part a good guy. I live with 3 other dogs: a 10 year old labrador, a 2 year old French Bulldog and a 8 year old maltese mix. The four of them get along just fine, Rome and the Frenchie are best best best best frie...

HOW do I introduce new people? HOW do I introduce new dogs? WHAT do I do about 4th of July??

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SUBREDDIT: r/dogs TITLE: [HELP] Not sure how to deal with new people/dogs and my big ole pup POST: I have a three year old Dober/Pit mix named Romulus ("Rome" for short). He's about 105lbs and for the most part a good guy. I live with 3 other dogs: a 10 year old labrador, a 2 year old French Bulldog and a 8 year old ...

HOW do I introduce new people? HOW do I introduce new dogs? WHAT do I do about 4th of July??<|endoftext|>

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SUBREDDIT: r/dogs TITLE: [HELP] Not sure how to deal with new people/dogs and my big ole pup POST: I have a three year old Dober/Pit mix named Romulus ("Rome" for short). He's about 105lbs and for the most part a good guy. I live with 3 other dogs: a 10 year old labrador, a 2 year old French Bulldog and a 8 year old ...

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t3_3uf4g1

relationships

I [16 M] think one of my friends [17 F] is self-harming. What should I do?

I was talking to two of my friends at school yesterday - we'll call them Mary and Emma. Emma is a good friend of mine and one of Mary's best friends. Mary and I aren't particularly close, but we still talk quite a bit. She doesn't really take anything that seriously; she's always making a joke. It was a fairly normal ...

Saw a friend had self-harm scars and want to know what I can do to help, or at least make her feel more comfortable.

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SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: I [16 M] think one of my friends [17 F] is self-harming. What should I do? POST: I was talking to two of my friends at school yesterday - we'll call them Mary and Emma. Emma is a good friend of mine and one of Mary's best friends. Mary and I aren't particularly close, but we still ta...

Saw a friend had self-harm scars and want to know what I can do to help, or at least make her feel more comfortable.<|endoftext|>

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SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: I [16 M] think one of my friends [17 F] is self-harming. What should I do? POST: I was talking to two of my friends at school yesterday - we'll call them Mary and Emma. Emma is a good friend of mine and one of Mary's best friends. Mary and I aren't particularly close, but we still ta...

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t3_2b7zgh

legaladvice

[GA] My ex is in possession of illegal pictures of me and won't delete them

I originally posted in /r/relationships, but I was told to also post here. So, I'm 16/F, and I was dating my ex for two years (I was 14 when he was 17, now I'm 16 and he's 19). During that time he was verbally and sexually abusive and often threatened me so I would send explicit photos, which I foolishly did. Ever s...

dated a guy for two years, crazy destructive ex still has pictures of me and I'm not legal. What can I do?

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dated a guy for two years, crazy destructive ex still has pictures of me and I'm not legal. What can I do?<|endoftext|>

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SUBREDDIT: r/legaladvice TITLE: [GA] My ex is in possession of illegal pictures of me and won't delete them POST: I originally posted in /r/relationships, but I was told to also post here. So, I'm 16/F, and I was dating my ex for two years (I was 14 when he was 17, now I'm 16 and he's 19). During that time he was v...

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t3_16h35a

relationships

My (F27) ex-FWB (M26) lied about being single; he's married. Need help with rational response.

I used the reddit search function and couldn't find this question. We met 6 years ago, FWB off and on for about 3 years. We live (now) in different states. We'd travel periodically to see each other and meet up in hotels or my house, sexting etc. I asked him several times if he is single, lives alone before any 'bene...

turns out my ex-fwb was married, lied to me about it, I found out, do I tell him I know?

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SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: My (F27) ex-FWB (M26) lied about being single; he's married. Need help with rational response. POST: I used the reddit search function and couldn't find this question. We met 6 years ago, FWB off and on for about 3 years. We live (now) in different states. We'd travel periodically ...

turns out my ex-fwb was married, lied to me about it, I found out, do I tell him I know? <|endoftext|>

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SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: My (F27) ex-FWB (M26) lied about being single; he's married. Need help with rational response. POST: I used the reddit search function and couldn't find this question. We met 6 years ago, FWB off and on for about 3 years. We live (now) in different states. We'd travel periodically ...

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t3_gp1ty

AskReddit

Has anyone ever gone batshit crazy before, and how did you patch your life back after that?

*First time posting on Reddit. Been lurking for awhile and thought this a much merry place to be.* For context, I have been suffering from depression for the last few years. And as a reaction to depression, I did get pretty angry for awhile, and lashed out at people close to me. I'll call that my "batshit crazy" perio...

Was depressed. Got crazy angry. Messed up life. Fixing life. Would like to hear from others how they fixed their life after possibly messing it up.

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Was depressed. Got crazy angry. Messed up life. Fixing life. Would like to hear from others how they fixed their life after possibly messing it up.<|endoftext|>

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SUBREDDIT: r/AskReddit TITLE: Has anyone ever gone batshit crazy before, and how did you patch your life back after that? POST: *First time posting on Reddit. Been lurking for awhile and thought this a much merry place to be.* For context, I have been suffering from depression for the last few years. And as a reacti...

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t3_4c2yj8

legaladvice

Contacting my biological father, who doesnt know I exist because of falsified DNA test [Washington]

I'm going to try to keep this short so it doesn't drag long into a soap opera. When my Mom [22 F at the time] got pregnant with her boyfriend at the time [24 M], aka my Dad, she decided he would be the right fit for many reasons. He ended up harassing her by constantly calling her work/showing up at her house. My mom ...

My mom hid me from my dad by falsifying DNA test when I was born. I want to meet him now (19 years later) but am lost of what I should do in legal/moral terms?

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SUBREDDIT: r/legaladvice TITLE: Contacting my biological father, who doesnt know I exist because of falsified DNA test [Washington] POST: I'm going to try to keep this short so it doesn't drag long into a soap opera. When my Mom [22 F at the time] got pregnant with her boyfriend at the time [24 M], aka my Dad, she d...

My mom hid me from my dad by falsifying DNA test when I was born. I want to meet him now (19 years later) but am lost of what I should do in legal/moral terms?<|endoftext|>

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SUBREDDIT: r/legaladvice TITLE: Contacting my biological father, who doesnt know I exist because of falsified DNA test [Washington] POST: I'm going to try to keep this short so it doesn't drag long into a soap opera. When my Mom [22 F at the time] got pregnant with her boyfriend at the time [24 M], aka my Dad, she d...

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t3_2l3yy4

relationships

I [19M] have been talking to/seeing [18F] friend for about 3 months and have no idea what I'm doing.

So basically I met a girl in the beginning of the semester during our orientation week. She caught my eye the first day and we ended up talking on a bus ride somewhere and clicked. We exchanged numbers and continued talking. Fast forward a weekend and I actually start texting her (during orientation week we were i...

Been seeing/talking to girl for more than 3 months. Have taken her out twice and have lunch weekly. How do I ask her to get official/serious?

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SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: I [19M] have been talking to/seeing [18F] friend for about 3 months and have no idea what I'm doing. POST: So basically I met a girl in the beginning of the semester during our orientation week. She caught my eye the first day and we ended up talking on a bus ride somewhere and clic...

Been seeing/talking to girl for more than 3 months. Have taken her out twice and have lunch weekly. How do I ask her to get official/serious?<|endoftext|>

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SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: I [19M] have been talking to/seeing [18F] friend for about 3 months and have no idea what I'm doing. POST: So basically I met a girl in the beginning of the semester during our orientation week. She caught my eye the first day and we ended up talking on a bus ride somewhere and clic...

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t3_46d53t

relationships

I [23F] continually feel unwelcome around my boyfriend's [22M] Dad's side of the family.

So my boyfriend and I have been together for a little over 2 years, and for the first 2, things were pretty great. I felt welcomed and loved by everyone in his families (his parents are divorced), even though the bf was rarely around--we had a LDR where he went to college 5 hours away on a sports scholarship. Last sum...

made the mistake of breaking up, got back together, bf's Dad and Stepmom are completely stonewalling me.

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SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: I [23F] continually feel unwelcome around my boyfriend's [22M] Dad's side of the family. POST: So my boyfriend and I have been together for a little over 2 years, and for the first 2, things were pretty great. I felt welcomed and loved by everyone in his families (his parents are div...

made the mistake of breaking up, got back together, bf's Dad and Stepmom are completely stonewalling me.<|endoftext|>

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SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: I [23F] continually feel unwelcome around my boyfriend's [22M] Dad's side of the family. POST: So my boyfriend and I have been together for a little over 2 years, and for the first 2, things were pretty great. I felt welcomed and loved by everyone in his families (his parents are div...

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t3_4q289h

relationships

I [28 F] just confronted my Borderline mother [54 F] about all the things she has done to ruin my life up until now...

I had been advised by my psychologist not to contact her due to the negative effect she was having on my personal life and mental health (I myself have problems with mental illness). But she had been relentlessly trying to contact me after I cut off contact without giving her a reason. So today I emailed her detailin...

Confronted borderline mother, now feel guilty. Would like to hear others' stories of similar confrontations with borderline people.

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SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: I [28 F] just confronted my Borderline mother [54 F] about all the things she has done to ruin my life up until now... POST: I had been advised by my psychologist not to contact her due to the negative effect she was having on my personal life and mental health (I myself have problem...

Confronted borderline mother, now feel guilty. Would like to hear others' stories of similar confrontations with borderline people.<|endoftext|>

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SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: I [28 F] just confronted my Borderline mother [54 F] about all the things she has done to ruin my life up until now... POST: I had been advised by my psychologist not to contact her due to the negative effect she was having on my personal life and mental health (I myself have problem...

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t3_3peoig

relationships

[Update] I [17 M] am crazy about this this girl [17 F] and need advice on how to proceed.

My previous post can be seen here: We have remained in touch since I originally posted this. She has since broken up with this guy [17/18 M] from Alberta, apparently due to what I understand is the relationship being somewhat abusive in nature. We met again on Friday and I thoroughly enjoyed the encounter of ours. I'...

The aforementioned "Alberta guy" from the last post is now the out of the picture. I feel like I connect with her on a more emotional level since our second meeting so I was wondering what I should do from here.

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SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: [Update] I [17 M] am crazy about this this girl [17 F] and need advice on how to proceed. POST: My previous post can be seen here: We have remained in touch since I originally posted this. She has since broken up with this guy [17/18 M] from Alberta, apparently due to what I unders...

The aforementioned "Alberta guy" from the last post is now the out of the picture. I feel like I connect with her on a more emotional level since our second meeting so I was wondering what I should do from here.<|endoftext|>

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SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: [Update] I [17 M] am crazy about this this girl [17 F] and need advice on how to proceed. POST: My previous post can be seen here: We have remained in touch since I originally posted this. She has since broken up with this guy [17/18 M] from Alberta, apparently due to what I unders...

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t3_1y50rt

relationships

I [28m] am afraid to commit to a girl [26f] I really like because of my lack of relationship/dating experience. And the fact that she is ugly.

I have been dating this girl for a few months now and I'm in a little bit of a dilemma. At first I did not really see this as anything long term, but gradually I have started to appreciate every little thing about her. I have started to picture us together in the future, travelling together, starting a family. The pr...

In a relationship with a wonderful girl but afraid to commit cause of my lack of dating experience. And the fact that she is not very good looking.

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In a relationship with a wonderful girl but afraid to commit cause of my lack of dating experience. And the fact that she is not very good looking.<|endoftext|>

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t3_2brbyp

relationships

How to convince my very conscious parents to allow me to go on a trip with my best friend

My best friend asked me to go to Montreal with her this summer for a few days, but my parents are pretty strict. My whole life, my parents have most of the time said no to me hanging out with friends or going out and they have randomly said yes a few times. What is the best way for me to convince them for me to go? I'm...

How can I convince my strict parents to let me take a trip with my best friend? My parents have known my best friend for over 10 years.

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SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: How to convince my very conscious parents to allow me to go on a trip with my best friend POST: My best friend asked me to go to Montreal with her this summer for a few days, but my parents are pretty strict. My whole life, my parents have most of the time said no to me hanging out w...

How can I convince my strict parents to let me take a trip with my best friend? My parents have known my best friend for over 10 years.<|endoftext|>

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SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: How to convince my very conscious parents to allow me to go on a trip with my best friend POST: My best friend asked me to go to Montreal with her this summer for a few days, but my parents are pretty strict. My whole life, my parents have most of the time said no to me hanging out w...

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t3_2i1pb6

relationships

My [23M] GF [22F] is a bit too active on my Instagram for my comfort level.

We've been together a few months now and things are going swell. We're some 150 miles apart (she works, I'm in grad school). We see each other every or every other weekend depending on how busy we are and it's good so far. One small hiccup: our presence on social media. By nature I'm a pretty private person and keep a...

GF's comments on IG are a bit too much for my personal comfort. How do I tell her to be mindful?

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SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: My [23M] GF [22F] is a bit too active on my Instagram for my comfort level. POST: We've been together a few months now and things are going swell. We're some 150 miles apart (she works, I'm in grad school). We see each other every or every other weekend depending on how busy we are a...

GF's comments on IG are a bit too much for my personal comfort. How do I tell her to be mindful?<|endoftext|>

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SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: My [23M] GF [22F] is a bit too active on my Instagram for my comfort level. POST: We've been together a few months now and things are going swell. We're some 150 miles apart (she works, I'm in grad school). We see each other every or every other weekend depending on how busy we are a...

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t3_2vx54g

relationships

Am I [25/F] in the wrong for being incredibly upset that my LDR boyfriend [32] hasn't even texted me today?

He texted me last night at 1 am while he was drinking with his friends saying "Happy Valentine's Day." I thought it was sweet he was thinking of me with his friends. He hasn't texted me a lot recently. I have to text him first or he won't text me all day. This has been going on for a week now. Recently I've stop...

LDR boyfriend has been texting less and less, now waiting until late evening to initiate contact. Do I have any right to be upset for not hearing from him on today of all days?

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SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: Am I [25/F] in the wrong for being incredibly upset that my LDR boyfriend [32] hasn't even texted me today? POST: He texted me last night at 1 am while he was drinking with his friends saying "Happy Valentine's Day." I thought it was sweet he was thinking of me with his friends. ...

LDR boyfriend has been texting less and less, now waiting until late evening to initiate contact. Do I have any right to be upset for not hearing from him on today of all days?<|endoftext|>

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SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: Am I [25/F] in the wrong for being incredibly upset that my LDR boyfriend [32] hasn't even texted me today? POST: He texted me last night at 1 am while he was drinking with his friends saying "Happy Valentine's Day." I thought it was sweet he was thinking of me with his friends. ...

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t3_13f1ol

relationship_advice

[24/f] Is it time to ask pseudo-fwb [27/m] the "what are we" question?

We first met about a year ago - no common friends of any kind - and first went out this April. I got really loose on the first date and may or may not have said that i'm not looking for anything serious. We went out on brunch and other stuff afterwards and sex just happened along the way. i have been going out on dates...

7 months since we first dated, never defined what we are. he did stop seeing someone in March, that's all i know about his past ;)

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SUBREDDIT: r/relationship_advice TITLE: [24/f] Is it time to ask pseudo-fwb [27/m] the "what are we" question? POST: We first met about a year ago - no common friends of any kind - and first went out this April. I got really loose on the first date and may or may not have said that i'm not looking for anything seriou...

7 months since we first dated, never defined what we are. he did stop seeing someone in March, that's all i know about his past ;)<|endoftext|>

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SUBREDDIT: r/relationship_advice TITLE: [24/f] Is it time to ask pseudo-fwb [27/m] the "what are we" question? POST: We first met about a year ago - no common friends of any kind - and first went out this April. I got really loose on the first date and may or may not have said that i'm not looking for anything seriou...

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t3_2jceac

relationships

Me [23 F], my SO [24 M] of a year, I want to break up but I have no place to go.

So I have been dating my boyfriend over a year. Let's call him Austin. I moved in with Austin's family because my parents out of state and I decided to take some time off from the college where we met. I worked through a terrible depression which has been persistent for the past few years. I isolated myself so now I a...

If I break up with my boyfriend I will be homeless. Should I pretend like everything is okay until I can leave?

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SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: Me [23 F], my SO [24 M] of a year, I want to break up but I have no place to go. POST: So I have been dating my boyfriend over a year. Let's call him Austin. I moved in with Austin's family because my parents out of state and I decided to take some time off from the college where we...

If I break up with my boyfriend I will be homeless. Should I pretend like everything is okay until I can leave?<|endoftext|>

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SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: Me [23 F], my SO [24 M] of a year, I want to break up but I have no place to go. POST: So I have been dating my boyfriend over a year. Let's call him Austin. I moved in with Austin's family because my parents out of state and I decided to take some time off from the college where we...

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t3_yxymu

running

Blood blisters and weird sized feet

Hey runnit, I'm training for my second half marathon in October, and I've got a concern: I've developed some decent blood blisters on the middle toes of both my feet as well as a doozy on the big toe of my left foot. My right foot has normal blisters on the big toe and underneath. I'm not sure if I should leave them as...

blood blisters on my 2 different sized feet. What can I do to combat this? Am I doomed to spend ridiculous money on shoes and orthotics?

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SUBREDDIT: r/running TITLE: Blood blisters and weird sized feet POST: Hey runnit, I'm training for my second half marathon in October, and I've got a concern: I've developed some decent blood blisters on the middle toes of both my feet as well as a doozy on the big toe of my left foot. My right foot has normal bliste...

blood blisters on my 2 different sized feet. What can I do to combat this? Am I doomed to spend ridiculous money on shoes and orthotics?<|endoftext|>

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SUBREDDIT: r/running TITLE: Blood blisters and weird sized feet POST: Hey runnit, I'm training for my second half marathon in October, and I've got a concern: I've developed some decent blood blisters on the middle toes of both my feet as well as a doozy on the big toe of my left foot. My right foot has normal bliste...

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t3_3cp277

tifu

TIFU by forgetting my lube in the shower

So I'm sitting in the living room with my then GF not long ago and my roommate (Carl with the slicked back hair) comes in from the bathroom to ask me where the little black bottle in the shower went. Confused, I looked back at him and told him I didn't know what he was talking about. This is about what happened next: ...

i left my lube in the shower for a couple days and my roommate mistook it for hair conditioner. To this day he doesn't know.

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SUBREDDIT: r/tifu TITLE: TIFU by forgetting my lube in the shower POST: So I'm sitting in the living room with my then GF not long ago and my roommate (Carl with the slicked back hair) comes in from the bathroom to ask me where the little black bottle in the shower went. Confused, I looked back at him and told him I ...

i left my lube in the shower for a couple days and my roommate mistook it for hair conditioner. To this day he doesn't know.<|endoftext|>

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SUBREDDIT: r/tifu TITLE: TIFU by forgetting my lube in the shower POST: So I'm sitting in the living room with my then GF not long ago and my roommate (Carl with the slicked back hair) comes in from the bathroom to ask me where the little black bottle in the shower went. Confused, I looked back at him and told him I ...

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t3_2b77t2

relationships

My mom [53F] keeps trying to reunite me [23F] and my estranged sister [19F] and it's making me miserable.

"Estranged" isn't really the right word though. We have never had a relationship of any kind. We have hated each other since the moment she was born. Not once in the past decade (despite living together and going to the same school) have we even spoken to each other without it turning violent, or at least becoming a sc...

I want my mom to stop tricking me and my sister, who hate each other, into meeting in the hope that we will suddenly get along after two decades.

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SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: My mom [53F] keeps trying to reunite me [23F] and my estranged sister [19F] and it's making me miserable. POST: "Estranged" isn't really the right word though. We have never had a relationship of any kind. We have hated each other since the moment she was born. Not once in the past d...

I want my mom to stop tricking me and my sister, who hate each other, into meeting in the hope that we will suddenly get along after two decades.<|endoftext|>

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SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: My mom [53F] keeps trying to reunite me [23F] and my estranged sister [19F] and it's making me miserable. POST: "Estranged" isn't really the right word though. We have never had a relationship of any kind. We have hated each other since the moment she was born. Not once in the past d...

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t3_12ax1j

dating_advice

Is it a date? Or just as friends? M(18) F(17)

So, I've know this girl a while through other friends and she's been at gatherings I've been to. The other day at a party I finally plucked up the courage to talk to her properly (not just the usual "hi how are you" stuff) and we got on really well. The only problem was she then started talking to her friend about h...

A girl who I only know a little has said yes to seeing a film with me, which we both really want to see, and suggested we have coffee before, is it a date, or just as friends?

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SUBREDDIT: r/dating_advice TITLE: Is it a date? Or just as friends? M(18) F(17) POST: So, I've know this girl a while through other friends and she's been at gatherings I've been to. The other day at a party I finally plucked up the courage to talk to her properly (not just the usual "hi how are you" stuff) and we g...

A girl who I only know a little has said yes to seeing a film with me, which we both really want to see, and suggested we have coffee before, is it a date, or just as friends?<|endoftext|>

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SUBREDDIT: r/dating_advice TITLE: Is it a date? Or just as friends? M(18) F(17) POST: So, I've know this girl a while through other friends and she's been at gatherings I've been to. The other day at a party I finally plucked up the courage to talk to her properly (not just the usual "hi how are you" stuff) and we g...

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t3_242sbp

relationships

F20 broken up with by M20. 2 years. First day. I can't enjoy food, I'm afraid to sleep. My heart hurts.i want to connect to others that feel this way.

The future was so bright, we were going to live together. We never fought. I tried so hard to make him happy. We talked through everything, I always admitted when I was wrong and we seemed so good at fixing problems. I couldn't make him happy. He was depressed, but in a way that he hid from me. I didn't mind when he wa...

He loved me, then realized he didn't. Then he told me he could love me, and as soon as he saw me he told me he couldn't.

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SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: F20 broken up with by M20. 2 years. First day. I can't enjoy food, I'm afraid to sleep. My heart hurts.i want to connect to others that feel this way. POST: The future was so bright, we were going to live together. We never fought. I tried so hard to make him happy. We talked through...

He loved me, then realized he didn't. Then he told me he could love me, and as soon as he saw me he told me he couldn't.<|endoftext|>

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t3_4sx055

relationships

Should me [f]irst relationship be long distance?

Hi all! Backstory: I just recently came out of my "ugly duckling with extreme social anxiety" phase I have never had a boyfriend/girlfriend (am also a "supervirgin") or many friends.I have really come out of my shell these past few months! I [19f] have started a new summer job and will be transferring to a university...

I like this guy but am moving away, should we do it long distance, have a summer fling or let it fizzle?

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SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: Should me [f]irst relationship be long distance? POST: Hi all! Backstory: I just recently came out of my "ugly duckling with extreme social anxiety" phase I have never had a boyfriend/girlfriend (am also a "supervirgin") or many friends.I have really come out of my shell these past ...

I like this guy but am moving away, should we do it long distance, have a summer fling or let it fizzle?<|endoftext|>

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SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: Should me [f]irst relationship be long distance? POST: Hi all! Backstory: I just recently came out of my "ugly duckling with extreme social anxiety" phase I have never had a boyfriend/girlfriend (am also a "supervirgin") or many friends.I have really come out of my shell these past ...

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t3_4bvotl

relationships

I [27 M] met an amazing girl [29 F], but my superficial prejudices could screw it up.

I went on an online date with an amazing girl. She's smart, funny, and we just had chemistry. I've been on many online dates, and the awkward silence during certain bits of the date is just par for the course. This date was different. We always had something to talk about, and more over we were on the same page. We'd e...

Met an amazing girl. Had an amazing connection. Problem is she looks better with clothes on than off. I'm in conflict about how to proceed.

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Met an amazing girl. Had an amazing connection. Problem is she looks better with clothes on than off. I'm in conflict about how to proceed.<|endoftext|>

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SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: I [27 M] met an amazing girl [29 F], but my superficial prejudices could screw it up. POST: I went on an online date with an amazing girl. She's smart, funny, and we just had chemistry. I've been on many online dates, and the awkward silence during certain bits of the date is just pa...

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t3_53uht0

needadvice

Much needed advice for adopted Russian prodigy!

My family adopted an 8 year old girl with disabilities who's mother was an alcoholic prostitute. She was born with Fetal Alcohol Syndrome and is missing her arms from the elbows down. My sister is now 18 years old, a senior in high school, has straight A's and is a professional artist. She will have her pick at whateve...

I have an adopted 18 year old sister without social skills and I need advice on how to help her attain social skills for college.

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SUBREDDIT: r/needadvice TITLE: Much needed advice for adopted Russian prodigy! POST: My family adopted an 8 year old girl with disabilities who's mother was an alcoholic prostitute. She was born with Fetal Alcohol Syndrome and is missing her arms from the elbows down. My sister is now 18 years old, a senior in high s...

I have an adopted 18 year old sister without social skills and I need advice on how to help her attain social skills for college.<|endoftext|>

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SUBREDDIT: r/needadvice TITLE: Much needed advice for adopted Russian prodigy! POST: My family adopted an 8 year old girl with disabilities who's mother was an alcoholic prostitute. She was born with Fetal Alcohol Syndrome and is missing her arms from the elbows down. My sister is now 18 years old, a senior in high s...

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t3_2n1rcv

relationships

I [15 F] don't want my boyfriend [16 M] to think I'm cheating on him

We've been together for about a year and I've made a new male friend (lets call him John) recently. Most of my friends are guys, so my boyfriend has gotten accustomed to it as far as I know. However, I spend a lot of time with John, and it's not because I'm interested in John romantically or anything. I've become John'...

Hang out with new male friend who needs my help very often, don't want boyfriend getting the wrong idea, but can't tell him why I'm gone

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Hang out with new male friend who needs my help very often, don't want boyfriend getting the wrong idea, but can't tell him why I'm gone<|endoftext|>

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t3_o1mey

AskReddit

Reddit, what makes you insanely mad?

Something that makes me mad happened today. I'll start by saying I respect when people can be straight up with me, i.e. if they don't like me, and they tell me, I respect that. So, what happened: A while back I assisted a friend in making a short film. They recently asked me to edit their work. I am okay with this, do ...

Guy gets me to do job for him, tells me that he never wanted me to do it in the first place, hours of work lost.

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SUBREDDIT: r/AskReddit TITLE: Reddit, what makes you insanely mad? POST: Something that makes me mad happened today. I'll start by saying I respect when people can be straight up with me, i.e. if they don't like me, and they tell me, I respect that. So, what happened: A while back I assisted a friend in making a shor...

Guy gets me to do job for him, tells me that he never wanted me to do it in the first place, hours of work lost.<|endoftext|>

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SUBREDDIT: r/AskReddit TITLE: Reddit, what makes you insanely mad? POST: Something that makes me mad happened today. I'll start by saying I respect when people can be straight up with me, i.e. if they don't like me, and they tell me, I respect that. So, what happened: A while back I assisted a friend in making a shor...

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t3_493u87

relationships

Me [18M] with my girlfriend [18F] of 1 year, she currently has a boy who 'likes' her sleeping in the same room as her tonight

My girlfriend spent the day with her long time friend (he has asked her out and tried to have sex with her before) which I initially had no problems with (although I am insecure) She just messaged me telling me that he's sleeping at her house tonight in the same room. This is my first real relationship but she's als...

gf sleeping in the same room with her friend who loves her, feel I'm overreacting by being upset/angry about it

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gf sleeping in the same room with her friend who loves her, feel I'm overreacting by being upset/angry about it<|endoftext|>

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t3_3x4k80

personalfinance

Wanting to go to an out of area school for 6 months. How would you pull it off?

I'm wanting to go to a very prestigious furniture making and design school. The best part is is that it is ran by a community college so the fees will not be insane. This school would be an investment for my side business in woodworking. My question though is that I have a full-time job in healthcare. I've talked to ...

I want to go to school for a 6 month program out of area as an investment for my business and self.

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I want to go to school for a 6 month program out of area as an investment for my business and self. <|endoftext|>

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t3_cp6ig

AskReddit

What are some good motorcycles for a beginner?

Hey guys, I'm in the process of getting my M1 - just passed the safety course and waiting for my paperwork to take the written test at the DMV. That being said, I'm pumped up to buy my first bike and start endangering you all on the road. Which leads me to the pickle I'm in - I don't really know very much about motor...

new biker in SF bay-area needs advice on what kinds of standard/cruiser motorcycles are good for around-the-town driving

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new biker in SF bay-area needs advice on what kinds of standard/cruiser motorcycles are good for around-the-town driving<|endoftext|>

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SUBREDDIT: r/AskReddit TITLE: What are some good motorcycles for a beginner? POST: Hey guys, I'm in the process of getting my M1 - just passed the safety course and waiting for my paperwork to take the written test at the DMV. That being said, I'm pumped up to buy my first bike and start endangering you all on the ...

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t3_2076bt

relationships

I [21 M] was seeing a girl [21 F] a few months back, stopped meeting after a few dates but recently saw her again and I want to try it again.

So I was seeing this girl a few months back and everything was going great. Then came the winter holidays and didn't really talk to her at all over the Christmas period and I sort of stopped fancying her. Was thinking of calling it off but thought it'd be a bit harsh given the time and didn't want it to be awkward for ...

Was seeing a girl a few months ago, left it when I stopped fancying her but saw her recently and I think I still do. How do I play it?

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SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: I [21 M] was seeing a girl [21 F] a few months back, stopped meeting after a few dates but recently saw her again and I want to try it again. POST: So I was seeing this girl a few months back and everything was going great. Then came the winter holidays and didn't really talk to her ...

Was seeing a girl a few months ago, left it when I stopped fancying her but saw her recently and I think I still do. How do I play it?<|endoftext|>

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t3_gfp7y

AskReddit

Unmotivated At Work: The Cubicle Cliché

This is me browsing reddit at work again, as most of us do. This is, and has always been common practice to all of us dweller of the cube farms. I'm the stereotypical guy who works for a big corporation that doesn't give a shit about you, in turn, causing you not to give a shit about it. My predicament is as follows. ...

I used to like my job, now not so much. Need help to stay motivated and actually do work so i don't get fired for being shit.

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I used to like my job, now not so much. Need help to stay motivated and actually do work so i don't get fired for being shit.<|endoftext|>

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t3_18xe9f

relationships

Girlfriend [22] might be hiding something and my friend is worried about me [22]. (How) should I bring this up with her?

My girlfriend (A) and I have been "officially" dating for about a month now. Out of the blue, I get a call from an old friend (B) who is pretty close to her. He told me that she's been hiding some things that have happened in the past four months (he wouldn't give me details) and that he was really worried about me get...

Friend knows something about my girlfriend and he's worried it will cause trouble between my girlfriend and I. Should I bring this up with her and if so, how?

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Friend knows something about my girlfriend and he's worried it will cause trouble between my girlfriend and I. Should I bring this up with her and if so, how?<|endoftext|>

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SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: Girlfriend [22] might be hiding something and my friend is worried about me [22]. (How) should I bring this up with her? POST: My girlfriend (A) and I have been "officially" dating for about a month now. Out of the blue, I get a call from an old friend (B) who is pretty close to her....

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t3_4qazoz

relationships

My girlfriend [25F] might get a job in another city and I [26M] am thinking to follow her

Hello r/relationships, I will try to be short. My girlfriend [25F] has an interview for a job in another city, let's called it C because it is the third city in our equation. I [26M] am from city A where I live but I work all week in city B. She is also from city B, and that's why have a common ground. (the distances ...

Girlfriend is about to get a job in a different city and I am thinking to follow her. Opinions?

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Girlfriend is about to get a job in a different city and I am thinking to follow her. Opinions?<|endoftext|>

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t3_1pcley

personalfinance

Should we adjust our high student loan repayments while my wife stays home with the kids?

My wife and I both have pretty large amounts of student loans ($72,000 for my PhD, $83,000 for her 2 Master's), which are all Federal Direct Stafford Loans. The payments on these loans together will come to around $1,780/month, once I am out of deferment (I just finished school a couple months ago). My income is $100...

Wife staying home for the next 6-8 years, should I reduce our student loan repayments for that period to give us more breathing room?

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Wife staying home for the next 6-8 years, should I reduce our student loan repayments for that period to give us more breathing room?<|endoftext|>

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SUBREDDIT: r/personalfinance TITLE: Should we adjust our high student loan repayments while my wife stays home with the kids? POST: My wife and I both have pretty large amounts of student loans ($72,000 for my PhD, $83,000 for her 2 Master's), which are all Federal Direct Stafford Loans. The payments on these loans ...

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t3_2bzh12

relationships

How do I [19F] get my boyfriend [21M] of 4 months to feel more attractive?

(Throwaway account) My boyfriend and I have been official for almost 4 months, but have been close friends for the past year (it was a pretty seamless friends -> friends with benefits -> relationship transition). He is very, very attractive. I say this not only because I love him and of course I would think that, but ...

Boyfriend doesn't think of himself as very attractive - how do I get him to see himself the way I see him?

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Boyfriend doesn't think of himself as very attractive - how do I get him to see himself the way I see him?<|endoftext|>

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t3_1ji4ql

relationships

My [21/M] girlfriend [21/F] constantly looks through my phone while I'm asleep. Time to end it?

So my girlfriend and I have been getting along great our entire relationship. My family loves her, her family loves me, and we usually got along great. However, she always goes through my phone while I am asleep at her house. It started before we were even official, and she woke me up at 5 in the morning crying about ...

Girlfriend constantly goes through my phone while I'm asleep, makes wild assumptions that I'm cheating on her, and starts fights over things that aren't there. Is it time to drop this relationship?

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Girlfriend constantly goes through my phone while I'm asleep, makes wild assumptions that I'm cheating on her, and starts fights over things that aren't there. Is it time to drop this relationship?<|endoftext|>

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t3_2n825b

relationships

I [17 M] don't know how to start a relationship with a girl [16 F]

Well, a little context first, I've been in love/attracted plenty of times over my life, but never I've been able to be with a girl. I've been rejecter every time. This time the girl (let's call her Caterine) I have a crush on appeared in my life 6 months ago. I met her or a classical concert I went with some of my fri...

Been rejected countless times, Really like this girl, Afraid of expressing my feelings, don't know how to do it. (English isn't my main language so I'm sorry for any grammatical errors )

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Been rejected countless times, Really like this girl, Afraid of expressing my feelings, don't know how to do it. (English isn't my main language so I'm sorry for any grammatical errors )<|endoftext|>

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t3_hjftj

AskReddit

I feel like my dad is cheating me out of a large amount of money. What do?

I'm currently 17. I lived with my dad my entire life. My mom died in 2009 and I began receiving social security checks every month for about $600. In November (2010) part of our house burnt down and we got an insurance check for around $20,000. Now, my dad is not a poor guy. He makes about $30 an hour full time, and ...

he hit me and I moved out (about a month and a half ago). I'm now living with my grandmother. I believe he gives her about $100-200 for food a month.

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SUBREDDIT: r/AskReddit TITLE: I feel like my dad is cheating me out of a large amount of money. What do? POST: I'm currently 17. I lived with my dad my entire life. My mom died in 2009 and I began receiving social security checks every month for about $600. In November (2010) part of our house burnt down and we got a...

he hit me and I moved out (about a month and a half ago). I'm now living with my grandmother. I believe he gives her about $100-200 for food a month. <|endoftext|>

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SUBREDDIT: r/AskReddit TITLE: I feel like my dad is cheating me out of a large amount of money. What do? POST: I'm currently 17. I lived with my dad my entire life. My mom died in 2009 and I began receiving social security checks every month for about $600. In November (2010) part of our house burnt down and we got a...

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t3_mr748

AskReddit

Does writing a few papers on a band make you "obsessed"?

So far in my college career I have taken all of my humanities courses on the subject of music (they tend to interest me more than others). There are always research topics that we are allowed to choose. During my first semester, I did it on a band I pulled out of a hat (seriously, I just hit shuffle on iTunes and picke...

I found out I was good at writing papers on a band that isn't my favourite band but I found it nets me the best grades. Does this make me obsessed with that band?

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I found out I was good at writing papers on a band that isn't my favourite band but I found it nets me the best grades. Does this make me obsessed with that band?<|endoftext|>

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t3_k9q6b

cats

Acquired cat! Now a question..

So, I just got a lovely little cat named Luna. She's about a year, a year and a half and pretty tiny. I live in an apartment located on the 5th floor of my building. My apartment doesn't have AC (I'm in NYC) and I usually like to leave the windows open for ventilation. They've got child bars, but because Luna is so sma...

I live on the 5th floor and my cat just walked out on my window ledge and came back in. Should I be nervous she's going to explore too far out and fall to her kitty death?

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I live on the 5th floor and my cat just walked out on my window ledge and came back in. Should I be nervous she's going to explore too far out and fall to her kitty death?<|endoftext|>

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t3_30l1ug

tifu

TIFU By befriending a cannibal in grade 4-5.

As usual this didn't happen today, it actually happened around 10 years ago when I was in grade 4 or 5. I was not the most popular kid in school back in the day, probably starting from around grade 2 nobody liked me and my friends. It did suck being hated by so many, but things were a lot worse for the 2nd tier dorks....

tried to make a weird kid feel better and ended up being attacked by him because he was hungry. I not only had a sore arm but I felt horrible for the kids living conditions at home, double whammy.

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SUBREDDIT: r/tifu TITLE: TIFU By befriending a cannibal in grade 4-5. POST: As usual this didn't happen today, it actually happened around 10 years ago when I was in grade 4 or 5. I was not the most popular kid in school back in the day, probably starting from around grade 2 nobody liked me and my friends. It did su...

tried to make a weird kid feel better and ended up being attacked by him because he was hungry. I not only had a sore arm but I felt horrible for the kids living conditions at home, double whammy.<|endoftext|>

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SUBREDDIT: r/tifu TITLE: TIFU By befriending a cannibal in grade 4-5. POST: As usual this didn't happen today, it actually happened around 10 years ago when I was in grade 4 or 5. I was not the most popular kid in school back in the day, probably starting from around grade 2 nobody liked me and my friends. It did su...

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t3_259u9r

relationships

Me [20m] just got out of an 8 month relationship with my gf [19F]. I am very emotional, she wasnt.

I am far from the stereotypical macho, no emotions, no mushy stuff guy. I love romance, I love to be cute, and express my love in various ways. She is far from the stereotypical mushy, emotional, lovey dovey girl. She never speaks about her feelings, she never tells me whats wrong and she never told me she loved me wit...

Me emotional guy, gf unemotional. Broke up, wanting to know if most girls actually like romance and guys caring and shit, or if this unemotional, uncommunicative bullshit is the norm.

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SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: Me [20m] just got out of an 8 month relationship with my gf [19F]. I am very emotional, she wasnt. POST: I am far from the stereotypical macho, no emotions, no mushy stuff guy. I love romance, I love to be cute, and express my love in various ways. She is far from the stereotypical m...

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t3_3kbx9e

relationships

Me [18 M] with my Girlfriend [16 F] (4 months) - I'm constantly paranoid i'm screwing up my relationship and it's having bad effects on me

Let me preface this by saying I love my girlfriend very much, and most of this is probably my fault. Alot of time whenever I'm talking to/skyping/etc with my girlfriend i'm worrying that i did something wrong and that she is weirded out or mad at me and just isn't telling me. It doesn't help that this is a long distan...

I constantly worry that I've done something to weird out or upset my girlfriend and can't help it - it's having detrimental affects on me as a person..

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SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: Me [18 M] with my Girlfriend [16 F] (4 months) - I'm constantly paranoid i'm screwing up my relationship and it's having bad effects on me POST: Let me preface this by saying I love my girlfriend very much, and most of this is probably my fault. Alot of time whenever I'm talking to/...

I constantly worry that I've done something to weird out or upset my girlfriend and can't help it - it's having detrimental affects on me as a person..<|endoftext|>

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SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: Me [18 M] with my Girlfriend [16 F] (4 months) - I'm constantly paranoid i'm screwing up my relationship and it's having bad effects on me POST: Let me preface this by saying I love my girlfriend very much, and most of this is probably my fault. Alot of time whenever I'm talking to/...

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t3_u4qrv

AskReddit

Girl had nip slip in photo, Blamed on me.

I was with friends and we were going through pictures on facebook when we came across this photo from this years prom where a girl has a nip slip. It is barely visable, but we noticed it. (I should have reported the picture for nudity, but with friends i didn't think of it. We agreed to not tell anyone about it. Howeve...

Girl had a nip slip at prom, photo was taken (not on purpose) and it was blamed on me.

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SUBREDDIT: r/AskReddit TITLE: Girl had nip slip in photo, Blamed on me. POST: I was with friends and we were going through pictures on facebook when we came across this photo from this years prom where a girl has a nip slip. It is barely visable, but we noticed it. (I should have reported the picture for nudity, but ...

Girl had a nip slip at prom, photo was taken (not on purpose) and it was blamed on me.<|endoftext|>

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SUBREDDIT: r/AskReddit TITLE: Girl had nip slip in photo, Blamed on me. POST: I was with friends and we were going through pictures on facebook when we came across this photo from this years prom where a girl has a nip slip. It is barely visable, but we noticed it. (I should have reported the picture for nudity, but ...

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t3_sxbg4

relationships

Pride only hurts, it never helps.

Me 26 Her 28 Having a tough time on my own with this one. I'm realizing how much my pride and ego are controlling a recent incident and if they're good indicators on wether I should take my gf back or not. My girlfriend and I have been dating for a little over 3 years. There's been ups and downs recently and ...

Girlfriend on break sleeps with another guy (after promising not to), lots of remorse, trying to figure out if I should take her back.

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SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: Pride only hurts, it never helps. POST: Me 26 Her 28 Having a tough time on my own with this one. I'm realizing how much my pride and ego are controlling a recent incident and if they're good indicators on wether I should take my gf back or not. My girlfriend and I have bee...

Girlfriend on break sleeps with another guy (after promising not to), lots of remorse, trying to figure out if I should take her back.<|endoftext|>

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SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: Pride only hurts, it never helps. POST: Me 26 Her 28 Having a tough time on my own with this one. I'm realizing how much my pride and ego are controlling a recent incident and if they're good indicators on wether I should take my gf back or not. My girlfriend and I have bee...

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t3_nxx5g

AskReddit

confused.

I am not biased towards religion nor am I biased for or against atheism. I try not judge people by their personal beliefs because I know we are all different, either through evolution or through some supreme being. It doesn't matter to me if you think that God created us, or if we are space farts; fact of the matter is...

I try not to give fucks, but eventually fucks are given. Can fucks be ungiven? Help.

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SUBREDDIT: r/AskReddit TITLE: confused. POST: I am not biased towards religion nor am I biased for or against atheism. I try not judge people by their personal beliefs because I know we are all different, either through evolution or through some supreme being. It doesn't matter to me if you think that God created us,...

I try not to give fucks, but eventually fucks are given. Can fucks be ungiven? Help.<|endoftext|>

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SUBREDDIT: r/AskReddit TITLE: confused. POST: I am not biased towards religion nor am I biased for or against atheism. I try not judge people by their personal beliefs because I know we are all different, either through evolution or through some supreme being. It doesn't matter to me if you think that God created us,...

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t3_1kl4sz

tifu

TIFU by Letting my Brothers onto an Social Experiment I was Planning.

Not so recently, my grandma was put into a personal care home due to a broken hip and both of her daughters just not having the time to be able to care for her as she needs to be. More recently, the pitbull that the couple who run this home has had a litter of puppies. Out of the 8, 7 survived and 1 of those is the sec...

I attempted an incognito social experiment to estimate to see how many bronies live in my area and got it blown wide open by way of discussion of video games.

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SUBREDDIT: r/tifu TITLE: TIFU by Letting my Brothers onto an Social Experiment I was Planning. POST: Not so recently, my grandma was put into a personal care home due to a broken hip and both of her daughters just not having the time to be able to care for her as she needs to be. More recently, the pitbull that the c...

I attempted an incognito social experiment to estimate to see how many bronies live in my area and got it blown wide open by way of discussion of video games.<|endoftext|>

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SUBREDDIT: r/tifu TITLE: TIFU by Letting my Brothers onto an Social Experiment I was Planning. POST: Not so recently, my grandma was put into a personal care home due to a broken hip and both of her daughters just not having the time to be able to care for her as she needs to be. More recently, the pitbull that the c...

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t3_3zm7ca

relationships

There is a 80% chance I (20F) can't have children, but my boyfriend (24M) will not stop bringing up wanting to have his own kids. I don't know what to do.

I found out recently that I have a medical condition that makes it very difficult for me to conceive, and very, very risky for me and the baby. If I were to get pregnant, I would have to take a shot of heparin (blood thinner) in my stomach twice a day to reduce the risk of miscarriage, and thrombosis. So basically, i...

I probably can't have kids, but boyfriend wants kids and doesn't really want to adopt. I want to be able to have children for him, but also want him to respect me.

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SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: There is a 80% chance I (20F) can't have children, but my boyfriend (24M) will not stop bringing up wanting to have his own kids. I don't know what to do. POST: I found out recently that I have a medical condition that makes it very difficult for me to conceive, and very, very risky ...

I probably can't have kids, but boyfriend wants kids and doesn't really want to adopt. I want to be able to have children for him, but also want him to respect me.<|endoftext|>

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SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: There is a 80% chance I (20F) can't have children, but my boyfriend (24M) will not stop bringing up wanting to have his own kids. I don't know what to do. POST: I found out recently that I have a medical condition that makes it very difficult for me to conceive, and very, very risky ...

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t3_39evy6

relationships

I [24 M] ended a very new relationship with a long time friend [24 F] because we seemed to want different things out of our relationship. She seemed to agree when I brought it up to her, but now I am not sure if I did the right thing.

So I had met this girl when I started this new job. She worked there for a few months after I got hired, then moved onto a different career path. But was still a part of the social circle I was a part of. I had a huge crush on her soon after, she did not reciprocate that feeling. I was a little sour about it, but decid...

Did I take the easy way out? Or did I make a wise choice by realizing that this was not going anywhere?

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t3_1yu5q3

cats

really need your help with my cat, Never seen him act like this

So my brother comes over my house a lot and he is really scared of my cat, my cat is 2 and has always been a sweet heart so I never de-clawed him but today well I was working on my computer the my brother came home I didnt even notice until he started screaming I mean SCREEAMMINGG like if you had just cut your self rea...

MY BRO GOT FUCKED UP BY MY CAT, I ALMOST GOT FUCKED UP BY HIM. CAT IS NEVER LIKE THAT AND IS EXTREMELY LOVABLE

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SUBREDDIT: r/cats TITLE: really need your help with my cat, Never seen him act like this POST: So my brother comes over my house a lot and he is really scared of my cat, my cat is 2 and has always been a sweet heart so I never de-clawed him but today well I was working on my computer the my brother came home I didnt ...

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SUBREDDIT: r/cats TITLE: really need your help with my cat, Never seen him act like this POST: So my brother comes over my house a lot and he is really scared of my cat, my cat is 2 and has always been a sweet heart so I never de-clawed him but today well I was working on my computer the my brother came home I didnt ...

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t3_4yyvu1

relationships

I [22F] love my boyfriend [24M] dearly, but I don't want to move in with him...

My boyfriend and I have been together for 5 years. Our relationship for the most part has been pretty good. We get along well in nearly every capacity - life plans, sex, etc. I'm very happy with him. Yesterday he asked me to move in with him. I'm graduating college this fall, and am looking for a job in the same are...

I don't want to move in with my boyfriend because I like visiting my family without him, want to move my parents into my home in the future, and just like being alone. Does this mean anything?

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I don't want to move in with my boyfriend because I like visiting my family without him, want to move my parents into my home in the future, and just like being alone. Does this mean anything?<|endoftext|>

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t3_47vfuj

relationships

Me [21 M] with my GF [23 F] 6 months, girlfriend talks to exes and gets mad when I talk to girls

So my GF is my first sexual partner, my GF has had many. She talks to guys from her past. She talks weekly to 2 exes, which I'm fine with, but we recently got into a big fight, because she was texting, snapchatting and calling another guy who was either a fuck buddy, or used her for sex, or something along those lines...

GF talks to guys from her past, but gets mad when I talk to old female friends. What should I do?

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GF talks to guys from her past, but gets mad when I talk to old female friends. What should I do?<|endoftext|>

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t3_10do9r

Advice

Help, i feel like my step mom is being very unfair...

So, lets start off by saying im a freshman, so, yes, im young, but i still need help. Last night i was watching Netflix in bed (It was about 12) and my stepmom texted me and told me to turn it down, so i put in headphones, problem solved, right? Wrong. Today my dad came and bitched me out about "Respecting other peop...

sepmom put time blocks on wifi, all i want to do is watch netflix at night... Can i put myself as admin without being caught? (Are my lying skills good enough)

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SUBREDDIT: r/Advice TITLE: Help, i feel like my step mom is being very unfair... POST: So, lets start off by saying im a freshman, so, yes, im young, but i still need help. Last night i was watching Netflix in bed (It was about 12) and my stepmom texted me and told me to turn it down, so i put in headphones, problem...

sepmom put time blocks on wifi, all i want to do is watch netflix at night... Can i put myself as admin without being caught? (Are my lying skills good enough)<|endoftext|>

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SUBREDDIT: r/Advice TITLE: Help, i feel like my step mom is being very unfair... POST: So, lets start off by saying im a freshman, so, yes, im young, but i still need help. Last night i was watching Netflix in bed (It was about 12) and my stepmom texted me and told me to turn it down, so i put in headphones, problem...

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t3_52qe0z

dogs

[discussion] Dog very injured and I'm emotionally terrified of what might happen

So my dog turned 11 two days ago, we celebrated and he was so happy. I'm 18 now and we basically grew up together and of course have become attached. Yesterday my father went for a daily walk with him and a dog got out and attacked Willie (my dog). He wrapped his teeth around his neck and pushed him to the ground and r...

My dog was attacked and I'm scared he's going to die. I'm really not ready to say goodbye to him.

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SUBREDDIT: r/dogs TITLE: [discussion] Dog very injured and I'm emotionally terrified of what might happen POST: So my dog turned 11 two days ago, we celebrated and he was so happy. I'm 18 now and we basically grew up together and of course have become attached. Yesterday my father went for a daily walk with him and a...

My dog was attacked and I'm scared he's going to die. I'm really not ready to say goodbye to him.<|endoftext|>

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SUBREDDIT: r/dogs TITLE: [discussion] Dog very injured and I'm emotionally terrified of what might happen POST: So my dog turned 11 two days ago, we celebrated and he was so happy. I'm 18 now and we basically grew up together and of course have become attached. Yesterday my father went for a daily walk with him and a...

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t3_3c5lsl

relationships

My close friend [both 20F] is getting married abroad but I don't want to go. Am I being selfish?

We've known each other since teenagers and been through a lot together. She recently got engaged and is planning on having her wedding in Morocco because that's where her family (and fiance) originate. Despite wanting to be there for her special day, there's several reasons why I don't want to go: 1) She has cheated ...

Friend wants to get married to guy she cheated on in Morocco. Don't wanna go cos I hate the place from bad experience and disagree with infidelity.

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SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: My close friend [both 20F] is getting married abroad but I don't want to go. Am I being selfish? POST: We've known each other since teenagers and been through a lot together. She recently got engaged and is planning on having her wedding in Morocco because that's where her family (a...

Friend wants to get married to guy she cheated on in Morocco. Don't wanna go cos I hate the place from bad experience and disagree with infidelity. <|endoftext|>

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SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: My close friend [both 20F] is getting married abroad but I don't want to go. Am I being selfish? POST: We've known each other since teenagers and been through a lot together. She recently got engaged and is planning on having her wedding in Morocco because that's where her family (a...

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t3_152lhf

relationships

I [F21] feel frustrated with my boyfriend's [M24] laziness. Am I justified?

I [F21] have been with my boyfriend [M24] for 2 years, lived with him for one year. Maybe it's just because of finals, but I've been feeling increasingly stressed about life over the past few months and have expressed this to my boyfriend. I have a well paying part time job and also am a full time student. He works ful...

My boyfriend doesn't seem to want to help me with anything, even when he sees I'm clearly stressed out. What actions do I need to take to change his behavior? Or is it too late?

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My boyfriend doesn't seem to want to help me with anything, even when he sees I'm clearly stressed out. What actions do I need to take to change his behavior? Or is it too late?<|endoftext|>

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t3_nwu8y

AskReddit

Alright Reddit, What is the worst/craziest thing you've ever done at a party?

I only think it is fair I should begin. So growing up in a small town everybody knows everybody but once in awhile we got a rare chance to go to these massive house parties out in the country. These parties were usually thrown by really rich kids with massive houses and tons of money to throw away and what was my favo...

Got super drunk, passed out, had to take emergency piss and pee'd on the furnace causing the smell of stinky urine to permeate the house.

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SUBREDDIT: r/AskReddit TITLE: Alright Reddit, What is the worst/craziest thing you've ever done at a party? POST: I only think it is fair I should begin. So growing up in a small town everybody knows everybody but once in awhile we got a rare chance to go to these massive house parties out in the country. These part...

Got super drunk, passed out, had to take emergency piss and pee'd on the furnace causing the smell of stinky urine to permeate the house.<|endoftext|>

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SUBREDDIT: r/AskReddit TITLE: Alright Reddit, What is the worst/craziest thing you've ever done at a party? POST: I only think it is fair I should begin. So growing up in a small town everybody knows everybody but once in awhile we got a rare chance to go to these massive house parties out in the country. These part...

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t3_1ebk9u

offmychest

I just saw my ex boyfriend for the first time in a year.

We had an extremely emotionally intense relationship. Together for 2 years, lived together for the second year. We didn't have a crazy break up, we were both so numb and exhausted that we just said this is it and kind of drifted away after I moved out. But we still were kind and respectful to each other. I think of...

I'm conflicted about my ex because seeing him made me realize that sometimes what you think you want isn't what's good for you.

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SUBREDDIT: r/offmychest TITLE: I just saw my ex boyfriend for the first time in a year. POST: We had an extremely emotionally intense relationship. Together for 2 years, lived together for the second year. We didn't have a crazy break up, we were both so numb and exhausted that we just said this is it and kind of d...

I'm conflicted about my ex because seeing him made me realize that sometimes what you think you want isn't what's good for you.<|endoftext|>

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SUBREDDIT: r/offmychest TITLE: I just saw my ex boyfriend for the first time in a year. POST: We had an extremely emotionally intense relationship. Together for 2 years, lived together for the second year. We didn't have a crazy break up, we were both so numb and exhausted that we just said this is it and kind of d...

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t3_43ti13

relationships

I'm [25 M] seeing this Girl [24F] for a month, doesn't do oral..

Throwaway for obvious reasons. Now I've posted here because no, I haven't spoken to her about this and would like some advice. Been seeing this girl, let's call her Stacey, for about a month or so. She's attractive, great personality, respectful job etc. Things have been good so far, however, we've had sex 10 times s...

Seeing girl for a month, I go down on her every time, having great sex, she still hasn't gone down on me..

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SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: I'm [25 M] seeing this Girl [24F] for a month, doesn't do oral.. POST: Throwaway for obvious reasons. Now I've posted here because no, I haven't spoken to her about this and would like some advice. Been seeing this girl, let's call her Stacey, for about a month or so. She's attract...

Seeing girl for a month, I go down on her every time, having great sex, she still hasn't gone down on me..<|endoftext|>

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SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: I'm [25 M] seeing this Girl [24F] for a month, doesn't do oral.. POST: Throwaway for obvious reasons. Now I've posted here because no, I haven't spoken to her about this and would like some advice. Been seeing this girl, let's call her Stacey, for about a month or so. She's attract...

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t3_30b633

relationships

Me[20F] and ex[24M] he got married, had a baby, but still wont leave me alone. Should I tell his wife?

I was gonna use a throwaway but fuck it. About 15 months ago I started talking to a guy and we went on ONE date. The whole "relationship" lasted only 1 month. Well , he would only talk to me in "baby talk" about everything. He would speak to me like I was an actual infant. I hated that and told him to stop like 1,000 t...

ex got married, proposed to girl with used ring. Still won't leave me alone. Do I tell his wife??

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ex got married, proposed to girl with used ring. Still won't leave me alone. Do I tell his wife??<|endoftext|>

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t3_1juaz7

relationships

Me[21F] and my boyfriend of a year [21M] are starting to face a long distance relationship and I don't know how to handle it

Me and my boyfriend have been friends for four years and dating for a year, the past year has been one of the best years of my life. We don't fight we communicate wonderfully and everything has been great. We talk about our future a lot and can honestly see ourselves getting married once we are out of school in two+ ye...

Me and my SO who is the man of my dreams are going to be long distance for two+ years, not sure what we should do

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Me and my SO who is the man of my dreams are going to be long distance for two+ years, not sure what we should do<|endoftext|>

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SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: Me[21F] and my boyfriend of a year [21M] are starting to face a long distance relationship and I don't know how to handle it POST: Me and my boyfriend have been friends for four years and dating for a year, the past year has been one of the best years of my life. We don't fight we co...

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t3_36rr3e

relationships

I [25 F] think that the guy I've been seeing for a couple months [39 M] is hiding a smoking habit from me.

Short backstory: I've known him for about 4.5 years, he got divorced last year, we've been seeing each other for about two months. As long as I've known him I've never seen him smoke. It's not a secret that I absolutely hate the habit (cigarettes). I just think it's disgusting and I personally don't (usually) date guys...

I think he's hiding a new smoking habit because he knows I hate it, and I'm not sure how to proceed.

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SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: I [25 F] think that the guy I've been seeing for a couple months [39 M] is hiding a smoking habit from me. POST: Short backstory: I've known him for about 4.5 years, he got divorced last year, we've been seeing each other for about two months. As long as I've known him I've never see...

I think he's hiding a new smoking habit because he knows I hate it, and I'm not sure how to proceed.<|endoftext|>

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SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: I [25 F] think that the guy I've been seeing for a couple months [39 M] is hiding a smoking habit from me. POST: Short backstory: I've known him for about 4.5 years, he got divorced last year, we've been seeing each other for about two months. As long as I've known him I've never see...

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t3_2l3mf0

relationships

Me (22F) and my boyfriend (22M) of 5 years are taking a break....but we still live together in seperate rooms. This feels weird. How can we make this break work?

I posted this about a week ago for anyone that wants to read a more detailed version of why we went on a break: We have a lease together until August 2015. We are wanting to take a 1-month break in order to re-evaluate our relationship, decide what our needs are, and try to "fall back in love" with eachother. The siz...

BF and I taking a break to re-evaluate our relationship, but I'm not sure how to go through with a meaningful break if we are still living together and seeing eachother every day.

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BF and I taking a break to re-evaluate our relationship, but I'm not sure how to go through with a meaningful break if we are still living together and seeing eachother every day.<|endoftext|>

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t3_13eshb

relationships

I *Might* be a father again. How am I supposed to handle this? [25M]

I had a fling for about a month with a girl back in September. We had unprotected sex but I pulled out.... which I know isn't perfect. Yesterday, she called me and wanted to talk. Apparently she is pregnant and she is saying I am the father. I don't know if I believe her since our "relationship" was very casual. I don'...

Had a fling for a month. Apparently the girl I had the fling with is pregnant and says its mine. I'm married and have a family of my own already. Not sure what to do.

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Had a fling for a month. Apparently the girl I had the fling with is pregnant and says its mine. I'm married and have a family of my own already. Not sure what to do.<|endoftext|>

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t3_4umtkx

relationships

I [19M] want to ask my coworker [??F] out but I never get an opening. Need suggestions..

I work in retail with someone who I seem to have a good chemistry with and I think she would agree if I were to ask her, but the problem is that we never have a moment where I can do that. We work in different departments and see each other pretty regularly but theres always customers or coworkers around. I've known h...

How do you ask out a coworker that you almost never are alone with? Is it okay to ask a girl on a date in front of people?

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How do you ask out a coworker that you almost never are alone with? Is it okay to ask a girl on a date in front of people?<|endoftext|>

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SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: I [19M] want to ask my coworker [??F] out but I never get an opening. Need suggestions.. POST: I work in retail with someone who I seem to have a good chemistry with and I think she would agree if I were to ask her, but the problem is that we never have a moment where I can do that. ...

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t3_34b5gw

relationships

I (22/F) think I have feelings for (25/M). Can't tell if it's mutual (x-post from r/wemetonline)

Heyooo, So, I met this guy online on a non-dating website 6 months ago. We started talking every day, we've video chatted a few times, and we've exchanged literally thousands of messages to each other. It was gradual at first and in the beginning of our online friendship he said that I was easy to talk to because of t...

Met a guy online and am getting feelings for him. I am leaving the country to meet him and need some advice on whether the feeling could be mutual or not.

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SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: I (22/F) think I have feelings for (25/M). Can't tell if it's mutual (x-post from r/wemetonline) POST: Heyooo, So, I met this guy online on a non-dating website 6 months ago. We started talking every day, we've video chatted a few times, and we've exchanged literally thousands of me...

Met a guy online and am getting feelings for him. I am leaving the country to meet him and need some advice on whether the feeling could be mutual or not.<|endoftext|>

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t3_4tkukx

relationships

I [28 M] suspect my Wife [29 F] of 2 years may be cheating. Need advice.

My wife and I have been growing apart lately (lack of intimacy for about 3 months) and I've noticed a couple strange things that I want some unbiased opinions on. She goes to the gym 5 days a week for a couple hours. One day recently when she was leaving she said goodbye and then I heard her phone start giving her GP...

I suspect my wife may be unfaithful but have 0 proof. I genuinely appreciate any help or advice. Thanks.

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SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: I [28 M] suspect my Wife [29 F] of 2 years may be cheating. Need advice. POST: My wife and I have been growing apart lately (lack of intimacy for about 3 months) and I've noticed a couple strange things that I want some unbiased opinions on. She goes to the gym 5 days a week for a ...

I suspect my wife may be unfaithful but have 0 proof. I genuinely appreciate any help or advice. Thanks.<|endoftext|>

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SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: I [28 M] suspect my Wife [29 F] of 2 years may be cheating. Need advice. POST: My wife and I have been growing apart lately (lack of intimacy for about 3 months) and I've noticed a couple strange things that I want some unbiased opinions on. She goes to the gym 5 days a week for a ...

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t3_43y3dy

relationships

Me [26 M] with my ex [25 F] broke up and I feel guilty and sad since I initiated it

We had been dating for about six months and things were going reasonably well. I liked her and she liked me. I'd say there wasn't a very intense passion to the relationship, but there was definite affection towards each other. Both of us cared for each other deeply without question. Yet I felt like something was missi...

I initiated a breakup due to lack of passion in the relationship even though everything else about the relationship was just fine. I feel horrible about it. Any words of advice?

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I initiated a breakup due to lack of passion in the relationship even though everything else about the relationship was just fine. I feel horrible about it. Any words of advice?<|endoftext|>

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SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: Me [26 M] with my ex [25 F] broke up and I feel guilty and sad since I initiated it POST: We had been dating for about six months and things were going reasonably well. I liked her and she liked me. I'd say there wasn't a very intense passion to the relationship, but there was defini...

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t3_ssxdb

relationships

Frustrated with these people...

So, here's the gist of the situation. Got a girl, who broke with a boy, decided she hated him, then got back together with said boy after about 2 weeks, when he came crawling back. The girl and I are in a close relationship, and she tried to hide the fact they were back together. Frustrated me pretty badly. I've asked...

Girl broke up with guy, guy asks to get back together and they. I like her, don't know what to do.

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Girl broke up with guy, guy asks to get back together and they. I like her, don't know what to do. <|endoftext|>

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SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: Frustrated with these people... POST: So, here's the gist of the situation. Got a girl, who broke with a boy, decided she hated him, then got back together with said boy after about 2 weeks, when he came crawling back. The girl and I are in a close relationship, and she tried to hid...

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t3_14e2an

relationships

My gf wants an explenation from me [Both 24]

This is a fight we had 2 times before, it's hard on our relationship, and if she doesn't get an explenation that it isn't going to happen anymore it's the end. Relationship of 2,5 years. We are 2 outgoing people, we do alot of fun things, together or with friends, we respect eachothers boundaries, and do what we want ...

I tought my gf drank too much, build up resentment, exploded in her face. This happened 2 times before, now she wants explenation that it won't happen again.

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I tought my gf drank too much, build up resentment, exploded in her face. This happened 2 times before, now she wants explenation that it won't happen again.<|endoftext|>

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SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: My gf wants an explenation from me [Both 24] POST: This is a fight we had 2 times before, it's hard on our relationship, and if she doesn't get an explenation that it isn't going to happen anymore it's the end. Relationship of 2,5 years. We are 2 outgoing people, we do alot of fun t...

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t3_rutrl

AskReddit

Isn't it a matter of faith that we are not being lied to about the outcome of a national election? Because honestly, they can claim that *anyone* won, and none of us could say a thing about it.

I understand that this is the only system we have right now, but is it not correct that the outcome told to us can have no correlation whatsoever to how people actually voted? We, the millions of individuals who voted, have no real recourse for saying what the outcome *should have* been because we are all so disconnec...

There is no way for us, as individual voters, to really comprehend the logistics of a national election. So... IMO there is an element of faith involved, because we can be told any outcome.

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SUBREDDIT: r/AskReddit TITLE: Isn't it a matter of faith that we are not being lied to about the outcome of a national election? Because honestly, they can claim that *anyone* won, and none of us could say a thing about it. POST: I understand that this is the only system we have right now, but is it not correct that ...

There is no way for us, as individual voters, to really comprehend the logistics of a national election. So... IMO there is an element of faith involved, because we can be told any outcome.<|endoftext|>

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SUBREDDIT: r/AskReddit TITLE: Isn't it a matter of faith that we are not being lied to about the outcome of a national election? Because honestly, they can claim that *anyone* won, and none of us could say a thing about it. POST: I understand that this is the only system we have right now, but is it not correct that ...

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t3_3fre3a

relationships

Me [24 M] with my BF [27 M]: His housemate wants me to pay rent and bills just for staying there.

I don't think I'm being unreasonable by asking WTF kind of backwards thinking is this: *I've been with my boyfriend almost 18 months. *I stay at his house (and he has 2 housemates) for *most* nights of the week and somehow this justifies me paying for rent and bills. However: ...

BF's housemate wants me to pay rent and bills just because I stay over a lot. Bills have not increased and I don't use water or electricity anyway. Thoughts?

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BF's housemate wants me to pay rent and bills just because I stay over a lot. Bills have not increased and I don't use water or electricity anyway. Thoughts?<|endoftext|>

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SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: Me [24 M] with my BF [27 M]: His housemate wants me to pay rent and bills just for staying there. POST: I don't think I'm being unreasonable by asking WTF kind of backwards thinking is this: *I've been with my boyfriend almost 18 months. *I stay at his house (and h...

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t3_vyq1k

BreakUps

So I got dumped by my best friend and all I want is to talk to him about, how do I get away from this circle jerk that is us?

We have been best friends for 3 years, friends is such a stupid concept when it comes to boys and girls though, at least for us. Anyways, he broke up with me b/c he loves when we are together but when we aren't he doesn't see it working. The thing is when we aren't together, he is with his mother, his mother who hates...

How do I get over a break-up and talk to people about it when the one person I want to talk to is my best friend, being the guy that dumped me.

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SUBREDDIT: r/BreakUps TITLE: So I got dumped by my best friend and all I want is to talk to him about, how do I get away from this circle jerk that is us? POST: We have been best friends for 3 years, friends is such a stupid concept when it comes to boys and girls though, at least for us. Anyways, he broke up with me...

How do I get over a break-up and talk to people about it when the one person I want to talk to is my best friend, being the guy that dumped me.<|endoftext|>

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SUBREDDIT: r/BreakUps TITLE: So I got dumped by my best friend and all I want is to talk to him about, how do I get away from this circle jerk that is us? POST: We have been best friends for 3 years, friends is such a stupid concept when it comes to boys and girls though, at least for us. Anyways, he broke up with me...

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t3_ic8j7

AskReddit

I want to throw a great party, Reddit. What are some special things that I can do to make this happen?

Alright, so my 19th birthday is next Friday. I live in a college town, renting a house alone for the summer, and I want to throw a great party. I have invited friends from both school (which means they are coming from all over the state) and from home. However, since it's summer, I know that a lot of people won't show....

How do I throw a kick ass party with a bunch of people who don't really know each other and my house is still standing in the morning?

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How do I throw a kick ass party with a bunch of people who don't really know each other and my house is still standing in the morning?<|endoftext|>

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SUBREDDIT: r/AskReddit TITLE: I want to throw a great party, Reddit. What are some special things that I can do to make this happen? POST: Alright, so my 19th birthday is next Friday. I live in a college town, renting a house alone for the summer, and I want to throw a great party. I have invited friends from both sc...

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t3_1jh4fh

relationships

Why do I [23f], who has an amazing family and loving friends with a good life, hate myself? And how can I get past it?

So this is me... I have a loving and amazing family. I have many loving friends. I have a great social life. It is easy for me to get the guy I want. I've just recently started talking to a really great guy, who really cares about me and likes me. So everythings cool and gravy and dandy so why do I not like myself so m...

Hate myself for no reason, don't know why, and don't know how to get past it. Makes me sad that I can't seem to really love myself

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Hate myself for no reason, don't know why, and don't know how to get past it. Makes me sad that I can't seem to really love myself<|endoftext|>

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t3_38momy

offmychest

I'm worried.

I'm incredibly worried about my younger cousins; I have been for some time, but tonight it's different. Today their father killed himself. Their parents have been separated for some time, and my cousins have been living with their mom and grandma out in the country for a while. I'm not even sure if they know yet. I s...

My uncle killed himself today, leaving behind his ex-wife and two children who struggle with depression and coping with their parents divorce. I need help.

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SUBREDDIT: r/offmychest TITLE: I'm worried. POST: I'm incredibly worried about my younger cousins; I have been for some time, but tonight it's different. Today their father killed himself. Their parents have been separated for some time, and my cousins have been living with their mom and grandma out in the country fo...

My uncle killed himself today, leaving behind his ex-wife and two children who struggle with depression and coping with their parents divorce. I need help.<|endoftext|>

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SUBREDDIT: r/offmychest TITLE: I'm worried. POST: I'm incredibly worried about my younger cousins; I have been for some time, but tonight it's different. Today their father killed himself. Their parents have been separated for some time, and my cousins have been living with their mom and grandma out in the country fo...

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t3_3823i0

tifu

TIFU by scaring the shit out of my friends

So this happened just today. We're in highschool and me and my three friends (lets call them Bob, Steven and Tong) were eating lunch and chilling. We were making fun of Bob as we usually do and then Tong brings up the topic of the Charlie, Charlie pencil game (if you don't know what it is then go on youtube). We all tr...

Scared the living shit out of my friends playing Charlie Charlie pencil game and I will be surprised if they come to school tommorow.

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SUBREDDIT: r/tifu TITLE: TIFU by scaring the shit out of my friends POST: So this happened just today. We're in highschool and me and my three friends (lets call them Bob, Steven and Tong) were eating lunch and chilling. We were making fun of Bob as we usually do and then Tong brings up the topic of the Charlie, Char...

Scared the living shit out of my friends playing Charlie Charlie pencil game and I will be surprised if they come to school tommorow.<|endoftext|>

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SUBREDDIT: r/tifu TITLE: TIFU by scaring the shit out of my friends POST: So this happened just today. We're in highschool and me and my three friends (lets call them Bob, Steven and Tong) were eating lunch and chilling. We were making fun of Bob as we usually do and then Tong brings up the topic of the Charlie, Char...

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t3_2au7ub

relationships

I (20F) am still good friends with my ex (25M). We're both in a relationship, but last night he started trying to sext me. What should I do?

We've been friends since we broke up almost 3 years ago and this is the first time he's tried anything like this. I told him that I wasn't comfortable with it. He said: "tell me you don't like me talking dirty to you and mean it and I'll stop." Me: "we both have someone. Regardless of whether or not I like it, its ...

ex and I have been friends since we broke up almost 3 years ago. He tried to sext me last night, even though we both have partners. Advice on what to do.

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ex and I have been friends since we broke up almost 3 years ago. He tried to sext me last night, even though we both have partners. Advice on what to do.<|endoftext|>

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SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: I (20F) am still good friends with my ex (25M). We're both in a relationship, but last night he started trying to sext me. What should I do? POST: We've been friends since we broke up almost 3 years ago and this is the first time he's tried anything like this. I told him that I wasn'...

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t3_2vplfm

Advice

I think I suck at my job.

Now I make mistakes sometimes. Usually fine detail mistakes, like a typo in an important place. Or not knowing that someone put training equipment on a truck and I dispatch it on a job. I would say I could tack up one good mistake per month working. I just came out of a meeting where I was told that mistakes were not ...

Should human error be expected sometimes in the workplace? Is a manager with "no tolerance" for error being unfair or simply having healthy standards for his company?

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Should human error be expected sometimes in the workplace? Is a manager with "no tolerance" for error being unfair or simply having healthy standards for his company?<|endoftext|>

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SUBREDDIT: r/Advice TITLE: I think I suck at my job. POST: Now I make mistakes sometimes. Usually fine detail mistakes, like a typo in an important place. Or not knowing that someone put training equipment on a truck and I dispatch it on a job. I would say I could tack up one good mistake per month working. I just c...

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t3_4le58z

relationships

My [30 F] boyfriend [25 M] of 14 months, we are considering moving in together in a home that I own. What's the best way to split expenses?

My boyfriend and I are discussing moving in together in the fall when his lease is up. We've been together for just over a year. We both make a similar salary. He makes about $2K more than I do. We have been discussing how to share expenses and split the bills. We are both open to communication and discussion on this ...

Boyfriend and I are considering moving into the home I own. We have almost identical salaries. What is reasonable for splitting the expenses?

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Boyfriend and I are considering moving into the home I own. We have almost identical salaries. What is reasonable for splitting the expenses?<|endoftext|>

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SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: My [30 F] boyfriend [25 M] of 14 months, we are considering moving in together in a home that I own. What's the best way to split expenses? POST: My boyfriend and I are discussing moving in together in the fall when his lease is up. We've been together for just over a year. We both ...

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t3_1jhf23

relationships

Me[19M] pissed off with my [19F] over sickness (long term relationship)

So to keep it as brief as possible I have been dating my SO for coming up 5 years now, every things been great yadayada. --- Two weeks ago I came down with viral meningitis and was administered to hospital for a couple of nights. She became slightly unwell during this time and was unable to visit me which is fine. -- H...

GF of 5 years hasn't come to visit me in 2 weeks (nearly 3) of being bed ridden, should I be mad?

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SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: Me[19M] pissed off with my [19F] over sickness (long term relationship) POST: So to keep it as brief as possible I have been dating my SO for coming up 5 years now, every things been great yadayada. --- Two weeks ago I came down with viral meningitis and was administered to hospital ...

GF of 5 years hasn't come to visit me in 2 weeks (nearly 3) of being bed ridden, should I be mad?<|endoftext|>

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SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: Me[19M] pissed off with my [19F] over sickness (long term relationship) POST: So to keep it as brief as possible I have been dating my SO for coming up 5 years now, every things been great yadayada. --- Two weeks ago I came down with viral meningitis and was administered to hospital ...

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t3_1d26n0

relationships

Am I being ridiculous for being upset that my boyfriend [30M] would rather bring family (that he is not close to) to his graduation rather than me [28F]?

Some background: Me and my boyfriend have been in a long distance relationship for almost a year. We attend different schools 5 hours apart. It was rough in the beginning because of the distance, but everything is great now. We text throughout the day and talk on the phone/skype every night. We see each other anywhere ...

Boyfriend would rather have family members he is not close with attend his graduation rather than me, his girlfriend. It makes me sad.

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Boyfriend would rather have family members he is not close with attend his graduation rather than me, his girlfriend. It makes me sad.<|endoftext|>

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t3_2e8zan

relationships

My boyfriend (age 22) of 5 months can't handle how many sexual partners I (female - age 23) have had.

I've been with 29 other people, and he brings it up almost every day. I've also had a threesome, which he talks about constantly. He feels like he can't please me sexually (even though I always tell him that isn't so. He is one of the only people I've been to orgasm with, and it's the best sex I've ever had) because I'...

Dating a crazy guy who thinks I don't pay enough attention to him and can't handle the fact that I've slept with so many people. I should break up with him, right?

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Dating a crazy guy who thinks I don't pay enough attention to him and can't handle the fact that I've slept with so many people. I should break up with him, right?<|endoftext|>

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SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: My boyfriend (age 22) of 5 months can't handle how many sexual partners I (female - age 23) have had. POST: I've been with 29 other people, and he brings it up almost every day. I've also had a threesome, which he talks about constantly. He feels like he can't please me sexually (eve...

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t3_2fumiw

relationships

Me [22 M] and my best friend [22F] got into a relationship - I need help

We have been best friends since high school, we talked about everything and everybody and always had a good time together. She was the perfect "best friend", someone who would stay with you, the rest of your life. And then we got even closer. She fell in love with me, I couldnt hurt her so we started to evolve into a c...

Got into a relationship with my best friend, but I feel that it has a deadline - looking for help cause I don't want to lose her.

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Got into a relationship with my best friend, but I feel that it has a deadline - looking for help cause I don't want to lose her.<|endoftext|>

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SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: Me [22 M] and my best friend [22F] got into a relationship - I need help POST: We have been best friends since high school, we talked about everything and everybody and always had a good time together. She was the perfect "best friend", someone who would stay with you, the rest of yo...

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