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What is up everyone? Welcome back to another video. | Angel Hutchinson | Not supported with pagination yet | |
It is the month of February. Everyone considers it the month of love. | Angel Hutchinson | Not supported with pagination yet | |
But in today's video, I want to talk about the single season. | Angel Hutchinson | Not supported with pagination yet | |
I personally love talking about seasons or experiences or stages of life that I am in or I've gone through or going into. | Angel Hutchinson | Not supported with pagination yet | |
And so I don't know anything about marriage because I haven't been married, but I'm going to have some of my friends come on to talk about that. | Angel Hutchinson | Not supported with pagination yet | |
In today's video, I want to talk about embracing your single season. | Angel Hutchinson | Not supported with pagination yet | |
Because if there's one thing you guys don't know about me, I genuinely enjoy being single. | Angel Hutchinson | Not supported with pagination yet | |
I know it's a weird thing to say. | Angel Hutchinson | Not supported with pagination yet | |
I'm not saying I don't want to get married. I don't want to have kids. | Angel Hutchinson | Not supported with pagination yet | |
And that let me just put a disclaimer out before I even carry on. | Angel Hutchinson | Not supported with pagination yet | |
This talking about embracing your single season does not mean that we're going to trash talk people who are married, people who are in relationships, and other seasons. | Angel Hutchinson | Not supported with pagination yet | |
I'm talking about my stage of life. I'm not trashing any other. | Angel Hutchinson | Not supported with pagination yet | |
And I'm solely sharing how I enjoy it and why I enjoy it so much. | Angel Hutchinson | Not supported with pagination yet | |
When I want to say when I was like 16 or 15, 16, 17, and people started dating, | Angel Hutchinson | Not supported with pagination yet | |
yes, there were people in my life, there were situationships, there were like relationships that I don't consider relationships, but there was all that. | Angel Hutchinson | Not supported with pagination yet | |
And I've had as time has gone by. | Angel Hutchinson | Not supported with pagination yet | |
Like I've definitely had up until now. | Angel Hutchinson | Not supported with pagination yet | |
But I found that earlier on, I just made a conscious decision that I am not gonna find like myself or I am not gonna determine my happiness based on someone else or based on a relationship. | Angel Hutchinson | Not supported with pagination yet | |
I don't know why from early on, I was just like, I want to make sure when I date and get married or when somebody seriously comes into my life that I, Angel Hutchinson, has done everything, number one. | Angel Hutchinson | Not supported with pagination yet | |
And then number two, that I'm genuinely happy with myself. | Angel Hutchinson | Not supported with pagination yet | |
Because I generally believe that when you're happy with yourself, | Angel Hutchinson | Not supported with pagination yet | |
when you're confident with yourself, that oozes out and that attracts what you want instead of what you don't like. | Angel Hutchinson | Not supported with pagination yet | |
So I have pointers and mind you, I still try to love by them or not even try. | Angel Hutchinson | Not supported with pagination yet | |
I love by these. | Angel Hutchinson | Not supported with pagination yet | |
And there are times where I've probably done a few things and I've been like, oh, backtrack. | Angel Hutchinson | Not supported with pagination yet | |
And that's how I even know with certain relationships that, yeah, this is not for me because of certain things. | Angel Hutchinson | Not supported with pagination yet | |
One of my points. | Angel Hutchinson | Not supported with pagination yet | |
I have notes because I was like, I don't want to forget some of the things. | Angel Hutchinson | Not supported with pagination yet | |
The first thing I will say is take time, no matter how old you are, take time for yourself and for God. | Angel Hutchinson | Not supported with pagination yet | |
I put for God, if you don't believe in God, if you're a different religion, kudos, whatever you are, whatever you serve. | Angel Hutchinson | Not supported with pagination yet | |
But for me, I say when you're single, make sure you make time for yourself and for God. | Angel Hutchinson | Not supported with pagination yet | |
What I mean with that, see God, ask God, like, God, what do you have in store for me, God? | Angel Hutchinson | Not supported with pagination yet | |
What do you want for me? God, like, what do you say on marriage? | Angel Hutchinson | Not supported with pagination yet | |
Because I literally did this. And let me tell you why I say this. | Angel Hutchinson | Not supported with pagination yet | |
Because I, for a while, have been saying, I don't want kids. | Angel Hutchinson | Not supported with pagination yet | |
I knew I wanted to get married, but I was like, yeah, I don't think I want kids. | Angel Hutchinson | Not supported with pagination yet | |
I don't think I want kids. | Angel Hutchinson | Not supported with pagination yet | |
I'm okay with not getting married, but I wanted to get married. | Angel Hutchinson | Not supported with pagination yet | |
So it was like, if I didn't get married, I wouldn't be sad, but I really wanted to get married. | Angel Hutchinson | Not supported with pagination yet | |
Versus with kids, I was like, yeah. | Angel Hutchinson | Not supported with pagination yet | |
And to be honest with you, till this day, I'm like, I don't really see a point of it. | Angel Hutchinson | Not supported with pagination yet | |
But in that season of wrestling, and I've actually said no to certain guys because they've always been like, | Angel Hutchinson | Not supported with pagination yet | |
oh, you'll change your mind when you have kids or whatever. | Angel Hutchinson | Not supported with pagination yet | |
And it has been like a block when it came to dating. | Angel Hutchinson | Not supported with pagination yet | |
But after sitting with God, and I would say in the last year, just like researching in the Bible and just sitting with God and seeking God and saying, okay, God, what do you say about marriage? | Angel Hutchinson | Not supported with pagination yet | |
What do you say about kids? What do you say about dating? | Angel Hutchinson | Not supported with pagination yet | |
And just going back to basics, because there's a lot of things said about dating out there. | Angel Hutchinson | Not supported with pagination yet | |
And I needed to go to my source and I needed to sit and be like, okay, Angel, why don't you want kids? | Angel Hutchinson | Not supported with pagination yet | |
Angel, like, why wouldn't you be as bummed if you want getting married? | Angel Hutchinson | Not supported with pagination yet | |
Like, you guys, you want it. Why do you want it? | Angel Hutchinson | Not supported with pagination yet | |
And I started getting answers. | Angel Hutchinson | Not supported with pagination yet | |
And my answers are obviously personal for me. | Angel Hutchinson | Not supported with pagination yet | |
I had to go down the rabbit trail and just, and I would just write down what God is saying. | Angel Hutchinson | Not supported with pagination yet | |
And I would just write down what like the desires of my heart. | Angel Hutchinson | Not supported with pagination yet | |
And like, I would honestly be open, left nothing behind and be like, okay, these are my deepest, darkest fears. | Angel Hutchinson | Not supported with pagination yet | |
These are my deepest, darkest things. | Angel Hutchinson | Not supported with pagination yet | |
Like, I, the reason I want kids is because of this. | Angel Hutchinson | Not supported with pagination yet | |
The reason I wouldn't be bummed if I got married is because of this, this, this, this, and this. | Angel Hutchinson | Not supported with pagination yet | |
There's a stigma of being like miss independent, miss strong, misses, this, misses, that, which is great. | Angel Hutchinson | Not supported with pagination yet | |
But to a certain degree, some women have turned into men. | Angel Hutchinson | Not supported with pagination yet | |
And I had to like check myself pretty fast and be like, do I not want to do this because of that and that whole thing? | Angel Hutchinson | Not supported with pagination yet | |
And honestly speaking, it was like one of the best things I have done for myself because now going into a relationship, I'm self-aware. | Angel Hutchinson | Not supported with pagination yet | |
And even sometimes I'll catch myself say stuff and I'm like, whoa, no, no, girl. | Angel Hutchinson | Not supported with pagination yet | |
Like, you know, this is what the word says about this situation. | Angel Hutchinson | Not supported with pagination yet | |
This is what God says. And for me, I'm not even going to lie. | Angel Hutchinson | Not supported with pagination yet | |
It's like a pure discipline. | Angel Hutchinson | Not supported with pagination yet | |
And yes, there's the Instagram couples and there's the kids and all these cute things. | Angel Hutchinson | Not supported with pagination yet | |
But it's like certain words, certain scriptures have jumped out at me. | Angel Hutchinson | Not supported with pagination yet | |
And even just me sitting with myself, it's made me so self-aware. | Angel Hutchinson | Not supported with pagination yet | |
And now, like, now I genuinely feel bad for some of the people that I've dated or had situations because I'm like, oh, my God, I actually owe them an apology. | Angel Hutchinson | Not supported with pagination yet | |
Like, no, like, this is me being genuinely honest. | Angel Hutchinson | Not supported with pagination yet | |
But you won't have that if you keep bouncing from one situation to another, to another, to another. | Angel Hutchinson | Not supported with pagination yet | |
If you don't figure out yourself. | Angel Hutchinson | Not supported with pagination yet | |
Now, if you're married, I'm not saying you can't still figure out yourself. | Angel Hutchinson | Not supported with pagination yet | |
You can't still see God. You definitely can. | Angel Hutchinson | Not supported with pagination yet | |
But for me, I am just mulking the stage I'm in. | Angel Hutchinson | Not supported with pagination yet | |
I am single. There's nothing I can do about it right now. | Angel Hutchinson | Not supported with pagination yet | |
And so I'm just going to milk it and I'm just going to do the best I can. | Angel Hutchinson | Not supported with pagination yet | |
And so that's point number one. | Angel Hutchinson | Not supported with pagination yet | |
Bouncing off point number one, number two is know yourself and know what you want. | Angel Hutchinson | Not supported with pagination yet | |
So number two is specifically know what you want. | Angel Hutchinson | Not supported with pagination yet | |
Somebody asked me last year. Oh, it's 2023. | Angel Hutchinson | Not supported with pagination yet | |
Somebody asked me last year, Angel, like, what do you want in a guy? | Angel Hutchinson | Not supported with pagination yet | |
And because I dated so many different personalities and so many things, I was trying to take bits and pieces from them and add it to one guy, which is great. | Angel Hutchinson | Not supported with pagination yet | |
But then I had to check myself and be like, wait, am I that girl that I want in a guy? | Angel Hutchinson | Not supported with pagination yet | |
And I was like, there's certain things that I still weren't sure about. | Angel Hutchinson | Not supported with pagination yet | |
There's certain things that were super realistic. | Angel Hutchinson | Not supported with pagination yet | |
I mean, unrealistic to expect from a guy. | Angel Hutchinson | Not supported with pagination yet | |
And so I had to be like, okay, cool. | Angel Hutchinson | Not supported with pagination yet | |
I need to step back and be like, what do I want in a guy? | Angel Hutchinson | Not supported with pagination yet | |
What do I bring to the table? What do I bring to the table? | Angel Hutchinson | Not supported with pagination yet | |
What do I want somebody to bring to the table? | Angel Hutchinson | Not supported with pagination yet | |
Because let me tell you why. | Angel Hutchinson | Not supported with pagination yet | |
It may seem like a small, dumb thing, but it could be a big problem when you guys decide to walk down the aisle or get married. | Angel Hutchinson | Not supported with pagination yet | |
And then you have a guy, for example, who was like, you believe in spanking your kids. | Angel Hutchinson | Not supported with pagination yet | |
He doesn't believe in spanking the kids. | Angel Hutchinson | Not supported with pagination yet | |
And then you guys are constantly clashing when it comes to disciplining kids. | Angel Hutchinson | Not supported with pagination yet | |
Or you believe in staying in one state. | Angel Hutchinson | Not supported with pagination yet | |
You want to stay in the state you were born, raised, the state you guys met. | Angel Hutchinson | Not supported with pagination yet | |
He wants to travel. | Angel Hutchinson | Not supported with pagination yet |
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