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Long story short, I moved in with my girlfriend back in July. Since then, my girlfriend has slowly been limiting my contact with certain friends (mainly girls). Some of these people are just acquaintances, but a few of them are incredibly close friends.
Recently I tried to get in contact with one of my female friends... | My girlfriend went behind my back to try and control who I'm friends with. Should I break it off or give her another chance? | My girlfriend is trying to control me, and I'm considering ending the relationship. What do you think I should do? | My girlfriend is jealous of my friends who are in rehab, and she's trying to control my social media. What do I do? | My girlfriend is jealous of my friends, and she's trying to control me. What do I do? |
So Im 20 yrs old and have been with my boyfriend for three years now.
He was my first, and I've never had sex with anyone but him. We enjoy a very active sex life with each other and are in love. In bed recently, dirty talk has consisted of him watching me get it for the first time from other men, and then refined to... | BF of 3 yrs says he would be okay with me having sex with a male friend of mine, and that he would want a video of that. Not sure what to do or think about this. | Boyfriend wants me to have sex with a guy friend of mine, but i dont want to. He says he would never expect me to be okay with it unless it was a threesome. | Boyfriend says he would never expect me to be okay with him doing the same thing unless it was a threesome, that this would only be a one time thing, and that its only okay bc he knows about it. | Boyfriend wants me to have sex with a guy friend of mine, but i dont want to. He says he would never expect me to be okay with it unless it was a threesome. |
Okay, so I feel so bad about this.
In November me and my SO will celebrate our 1 year anniversary, and of course we said that we'll gift one another "nothing" and of course we both knew it's a lie.
So, I just discovered what her "nothing" is, and this is why I feel bad. She know's i like computers and when I first bu... | Found out SO's "nothing" is a new graphic card, and she wants to make me happy by buying it for me. Need help convincing her to choose something else. | SO wants to buy me a new computer, but I don't want it, and I don't want her to spend money on it. | SO wants to buy me a new computer, but I don't need it right now and I don't want her to spend money on something materialistic. | SO wants to buy me a new graphics card, but I don't want it, and I don't want her to spend money on something materialistic. |
Hello all, thanks in advance for any advice you may have.
Let me preface this by letting you know that I am currently working an hourly security position for a state College in Nebraska. We are part time (30hrs/week), hand in our timestamps every Monday and are paid bi-weekly.
Christmas break for employees at the col... | My employer processed my time-sheets late because of their Christmas break. Now I'm not getting payed for the hours that I worked for two more weeks. | My employer processed my time-sheets late because of their Christmas break. Now I'm not getting paid for the hours that I worked for another two weeks. | My employer processed my time-sheets late because of their Christmas break. Now I'm not getting payed for the hours that I worked for another two weeks. | My employer processed my time-sheets late because of their Christmas break. Now I'm not getting payed for the hours that I worked for another two weeks. |
I've been in a long distance relationship for the last 5 years. We live over 250 miles away from each other, and have done since the beginning, apart from a few years when I was at uni, I lived a lot closer to my SO.
After uni I moved back to my home town, riddled with guilt that I barely saw my family in 3 years, bec... | Relationship of 5 years. I'm conflicted as to whether I should abandon my family again to live 250 miles away with my SO, and near his family. | I'm in a long distance relationship, and I'm not sure if I should move closer to my SO, or stay where I am. | I'm in a long distance relationship, and I'm feeling selfish for not wanting to move near my SO. Am I being selfish for not wanting to move near my parents? | I'm in a long distance relationship, and I'm feeling selfish for not wanting to move near my SO. Am I being selfish for not wanting to move near my parents? |
So I (F, 21) recently moved out of my apartment and got a new one living by myself. I still pay rent at the old apartment and put a lock on my door because without it my roommate would take over my room and that isn't fair since I pay 450 for an apartment that I do not live in... So anyways I pay rent do not pay for in... | I pay rent for an apartment that I do not live in, roommate has a key, can I call the cops on her for breaking and entering? | Roommate(F, 22) broke into my apartment and stole my stuff. I don't have a key to the apartment and I don't know if I can call the cops on her. | Roommate(F, 22) broke into my apartment and stole my stuff. I want to know if I can call the cops on her for breaking and entering. | Roommate(F, 22) broke into my apartment and stole my stuff. I want to know if I can call the cops on her for breaking and entering. |
So, to give a little background to the story, my ex and I broke up this past July after getting together in May.. it was short, however, we fell very hard for each other. Our summer spent together was beautiful, we had an amazing time with one another. That is, until he decided it wasn't worth his time.
Anyway, this p... | I'm going to a festival with my ex and I'm not sure how to deal with the situation if I see him. | Ex and I broke up, he will be at a festival with me. I'm going to be seeing him and possibly hanging out with him. What do I do? | Ex and I broke up, he will be at a festival with me. I'm going to see him and possibly hang out with him. What do I do? | Ex-boyfriend is going to a small festival with me. I'm going to be seeing him. I'm not sure how to handle this situation. |
Her argument is that since we both started it we are both technically co-founders. To be a founder means that there was only one individual in the beginning. I feel like she really encouraged me to start it, but that I did most of the work in the beginning getting it going & she more so took on the role of getting peop... | My wife feels that my putting up on my resume that I founded my company takes away her role in the company and is very hurt. Is she right to be upset about it? | Wife is upset that I listed on my website & resume that I founded it. I feel like she took on the role of getting people involved. Am I in the wrong? | Wife is upset that I listed on my website & resume that I founded it. I feel like she took on the role of getting people involved. Am I in the wrong? | Wife is upset that I listed on my website & resume that I founded it. I feel like she took on the role of getting people involved. Am I in the wrong? |
I have a very busy schedule this semester, so I've had 4 tests this past week, and another two tests in 4 days.
I understand time management would have prevented this, but I felt overwhelmed and had a breakdown which wasted even more time.
Back to the point: I got about 3 hours of sleep and about 2 hour naps everyd... | Had a breakdown due to time pressure and over-study, 4 tests in a short span and I'm not getting enough sleep. Need advice on how to recover and prepare for another one very soon. | I had a very hectic schedule this week, and I had to study for a test, and I had to sleep for 8 hours. | I had a very hectic schedule this week, and I had a breakdown, and wasted a lot of time. I need to recover and prepare for another one very soon. | I had a very hectic schedule this week, and I had a breakdown, and wasted a lot of time. I need to recover and prepare for another one very soon. |
This is a really trivial problem compared to typical r/relationships but I'd still like advice if anyone has it.
My dad sent an email to me and my two siblings (25F and 23M) this morning with a screenshot of what he ordered for our mom for Mother's Day. It's a huge, very expensive order of flowers/chocolate/assorted g... | Dad sent email informing me he bought Mother's Day presents for all of us. It's petty and petty and I want him to stop. Any advice? | Dad sent me a screenshot of what he ordered for my mom for Mother's Day. I'm not sure if it's okay to let him know it's not from us or if I should just drop it. | Dad sent me an email with a screenshot of what he ordered for our mom for Mother's Day. I'm pissed and hurt that he thinks it's okay to do this. What is wrong with my dad and how can I let him know this isn't okay? | Dad sent me an email with a screenshot of what he ordered for our mom for Mother's Day. I'm pissed and hurt. What is wrong with my dad and how can I let him know this isn't okay? Should I tell my mom it's not from us or just drop it? |
I just moved in to the perfect apartment, but my roommates are either fighting, not speaking to each other, doing passive aggressive things. The apartment is tiny, so it doesn't help that we are already cramped for space, but it's pretty uncomfortable to live like this. However, I've been moving around for months, so I... | My roommates hate each other and I don't know what to do. I don't want to get involved in the conflict, but I also don't want to live in a passive aggressive, negative environment. | Roommates are fighting, passive aggressively, and I don't know what to do. What do I do? | Roommates hate each other, and I'm moving in, what do I do? I don't want to get involved in the conflict, but I also don't want to live in such a passive aggressive, negative environment. | Roommates hate each other, passive aggressively fight all the time, I just moved in, what do I do? |
None | Selfish, Shallow, and Self-Absorbed: Sixteen Writers on the Decision Not to Have Kids was edited by Los Angeles-based author Meghan Daum. | Sixteen writers defend their decision to not have kids in book edited by LA based Meghan Daum. | Sixteen writers defend their decision to not have kids in book edited by LA based Meghan Daum. | Sixteen writers defend their decision to not have kids in book edited by LA based Meghan Daum |
So my ex finished our relationship 2 months ago, we were together for three years.
So the "issue" is as follows:
My family plans a large exotic, expensive trip every summer and this year my family wanted her to join. (Paid by my family) She and I were excited to finally experience it together. Fast forward a f... | Exotic trip planned by my parents but my ex has not cancelled her flight. Should I tell her to cancel or let her deal with the financial hit of not doing anything? | Ex is not coming to my family's exotic trip. My parents cancelled her flight. Should I say something to her? | Ex is not coming to my family's exotic trip this year. My parents cancelled her flight. Should I say something to her? | Ex is not coming to my family's exotic trip. My parents are still paying for her flight. Should I say something to her? |
Throw-away here. My ex-boyfriend and I bought a dog together when we were together. We broke up January of 2012 and I received custody of her. We adopted her when she was just 8 weeks old. I've been toying with the idea of putting her up for adoption since we broke up because I feel like I cannot care for her like I us... | Been thinking about putting my dog up for adoption after break-up with sociopath ex boyfriend because I've been finding myself becoming irritated of her easily. Can I fix myself, or would she be happier somewhere else? | I feel like I'm not being a good father to my dog, and I'm not sure if I should put her up for adoption. | I feel like I am getting more and more irritated with my dog, and I don't know how to fix it. I want to put her up for adoption, but I don't know if I should. | I feel like I'm not able to care for my dog like I used to when I was living with my ex. Is there a way I can fix my relationship with my dog, or would she be happier with another person (maybe family) that can give her happy attention instead of being annoyed of her 80% of |
Throwaway. The title pretty much says it all, but the long goes like this:
My fiance started working for this company as an administrative assistant about a year and a half ago after the company she was working for was acquired by said company. Within the first month or so of her working there she noticed that there ... | Fiance's workplace has black mold and she has symptoms consistent with black mold exposure and we don't know what to do. | Fiance started working for a company that has a mold problem, the mold test came back positive for black mold. Is there any sort of legal ramifications? | Fiance's boss is aware of the issue with mold in the basement of the building, but they aren't doing anything to fix it. Is there any sort of legal ramifications? | Fiance started working for a company that has a mold problem, the mold test came back positive for black mold. Is there any sort of lawsuit at hand? |
I don't want to go into too much detail, but enough that you guys can make out what my dilemma is.
I met her online (certain app). We live in the same city, we talked for a while, found out we have a lot in common, and she's extremely nice. We only text chat, we almost know nothing about how the other looks, and at th... | I [20M] met a great girl [16F] online who lives in the same city. Problems are: she's moving away, I want to meet her, and the obvious age gap. | I met a girl online, we live in the same city, she's moving away, I want to meet her, and the obvious age gap. | Met a girl online, we live in the same city, she's moving away, I want to meet her, and the obvious age gap. | I met a girl online, we live in the same city, she's moving away, I want to meet her, and the obvious age gap. |
This is a really trivial problem compared to typical r/relationships but I'd still like advice if anyone has it.
My dad sent an email to me and my two siblings (25F and 23M) this morning with a screenshot of what he ordered for our mom for Mother's Day. It's a huge, very expensive order of flowers/chocolate/assorted g... | Dad sent email informing me and my two younger siblings that he bought Mother's Day gifts for us. I'm hurt and don't know how to let him know this isn't okay. | Dad sent me a screenshot of what he ordered for my mom for Mother's Day. I'm not sure if it's okay to let him know it's not from us or if I should just drop it. | Dad sent me an email with a screenshot of what he ordered for our mom for Mother's Day. I'm pissed and hurt that he thinks it's okay to do this. What is wrong with my dad and how can I let him know this isn't okay? | Dad sent me an email with a screenshot of what he ordered for our mom for Mother's Day. I'm pissed and hurt. What is wrong with my dad and how can I let him know this isn't okay? Should I tell my mom it's not from us or just drop it? |
I just got engaged to my awesome boyfriend [24/m] of 2 years. We met in my last semester of college and are so incredibly excited to be taking this step together. My mom is thrilled, his parents are awesome and super supportive, and our friends and family have been nothing but kind.
Then there's my dad. He's always be... | My dad is being a jerk about my engagement and it makes me really sad. | My dad is being a jerk about my engagement and it's really awful. I don't know what to do or say or even what kind of advice I'm expecting. | My dad is being a jerk about my engagement and it's really awful. I don't know what to do or say or even what kind of advice I'm expecting. | My dad is being a jerk about my engagement and it's really awful. I don't know what to do or say or even what kind of advice I'm expecting. |
So i just found out that my best friend wants to be romantically involved with me.
The big problem is that we are both dudes and i'm straight so i don't want to be in a relationship with him but has been my best bro for years and he really helped me through some tough times.
We had a talk about it and it turns out t... | My best friend is in love with me and i don't want to be his best friend anymore. He has done some creepy things but i'm not sure what to do. | My best friend is in love with me and i don't know what to do. I don't want to be in a relationship with him but he has assured me that he isn't confused or going through a phase. | My best friend of 3 years is in love with me and i don't know what to do. I'm scared that he may have done something creepy while i was asleep. | My best friend of 3 years is in love with me and i don't know what to do. I'm scared he may have done something creepy while i was asleep. |
The basics: 28 years old, I make $15/hour, I have zero savings and I have approximately 10k in credit card debt. I make about $1,900/month after taxes. I am currently looking for a job that pays more and also offers a 401K and insurance, because my current one does neither.
I've recently moved into my parent's house i... | I have $400/month to live on. I'm wondering if it's better to put that toward my debt and pay it off faster, or put that into savings and have a little bit of money for a rainy day. | I have $1,500 in debt, I want to pay it off by April 2016, but I'm wondering if it would be wiser to put less toward my debt and start putting something into savings? | I have a ton of debt, but I'm wondering if it would be wiser to put less toward my debt and start putting something into savings? | I have a ton of debt, but I'm wondering if it would be wiser to put less toward my debt and start putting something into savings? |
R/books, hello!
Can you all give me some good suggestions on fiction books that express the condition of being a guy or a man?
Not books *for* men, there are plenty of lists I could go to Google for. I mean books that subtly and empathetically draw you into relating to the psyche of a man, seeing the world through a... | Any suggestions for truly great literature on what it *feels* like to be a man, to understand, not just books that are good for men. | I want to understand the emotional repertoire and drive that lies behind'respect', 'brotherhood','solidarity', 'fortitude' etc etc. Particularly, so much guy culture seems to be just that - about 'guys', a fixation on facile things with a slightly self-mocking tone. | I want to understand the emotional repertoire and drive behind'respect', 'brotherhood','solidarity', 'fortitude' etc etc. Particularly, so much guy culture seems to be just that - about 'guys', a fixation on facile things with a slightly self-mocking tone. | I want to understand the emotional repertoire and drive behind'respect', 'brotherhood','solidarity', 'fortitude' etc etc. Particularly, so much guy culture seems to be just that - about 'guys', a fixation on facile things with a slightly self-mocking tone. |
My boyfriend and I have been together for about a year now, and he doesn't like to sugar coat things. Ever. I admittedly can be really sensitive and hot headed but we usually manage to talk things out and find common ground.
However - and I know this may seem like a really small thing, but it really hurt my feelings ... | My boyfriend said something really hurtful yesterday about me cooking steak in a food processor/blender. I told him it hurt my feelings and he thinks I'm overreacting. Am I wrong? | My boyfriend doesn't like to sugar coat things. He says things hurtful to me. Am I wrong? | My boyfriend doesn't like to sugar coat things. He said something really hurtful yesterday. Am I wrong for feeling hurt? | My boyfriend doesn't like to sugar coat things. He says things hurtful to me. Am I wrong? |
I live abroad and am dating a girl from the country I live in. I've been here for 3 years and we've been dating for 1.
We had an argument today about New Year's Eve, I know it's a long way away but we like to plan our travels in advance. I want to go home and spend it with my friends and family, I'll be home for Chri... | Girlfriend wants me to come back home for NYE but I want to spend more time with friends and family. She might consider breaking up with me over it. Am I being selfish in the relationship? | I want to spend New Years with my girlfriend but I don't want to leave my country early to spend it with her. Am I being selfish? | I'm selfish in my relationship with my girlfriend because I want to spend New Years with my friends and family, she feels I'm being selfish in not wanting to go home for NYE. | I want to spend New Years with my friends and family but my girlfriend wants to come and see me twice. Am I being selfish? |
Hey Reddit, I was wondering if you could help me out with this one.
So, here's the story so far: I'm friends with a girl (she is a good friend of my girlfriend) who, from my point of view, is a bit in a rough spot right now. She is 28, came out of a rather long, serious relationship (that lasted for about 8 years) a ... | Friend and this guy are seeing each other every day, but he doesn't show any signs of affection. Is it possible to initiate some kind of relationship between them? | My friend is in a relationship with a guy who is afraid of sex. She has tried to initiate any kind of affectionate interaction with him, but he just laughs and says that he is a bit tired. | Girlfriend is in a relationship with a guy who is afraid of sex. She has tried to initiate anything but nothing has happened yet. | My friend has fallen for a guy who is not showing any signs of affection. She has tried her best to initiate any kind of affectionate interaction. |
Boy x (me) and girl x are dating, going on 4 years. We had an "off and back on" time abkut a year ago (relevant later). Boy and girl x are now happy, boy x got a job transfer to move to the same city after this weekend (labor day) as girl x while she finishes a master's. Girl x is super excited and picking out apartmen... | Girl x is moving in with boy x, and boy y is visiting. Is boy x screwed? | Boy x and girl x are dating, going on 4 years. Boy y is visiting girl x for labor day to go hiking, etc. Boy y and girl x are now happy, boy x got a job transfer to move to the same city after this weekend. Girl x is super excited and picking out apartments. Boy | Boy x and girl x are dating, going on 4 years. Boy y is visiting girl x for labor day to go hiking, etc. Boy y and girl x dated once during the "off and on time" but nothing came of it. Boy y is visiting girl x for labor day to go hiking, etc. | Boy y and girl x are dating, going on 4 years. Boy y got a job transfer to move to the same city as girl x while she finishes a master's. Girl x is super excited and picking out apartments. Boy y lives 4-5hours from girl x. Is Boy X screwed? |
Me [24] Him [28], relationship of 6 months.
It's not that my boyfriend doesn't respect me. It's that I want him to respect me even more. I want him to admire me and for him to see me in my best light as often as possible. Maybe this is non-sequitor, but there are so many TV wives who are not very respect-worthy. W... | I want to be worthy of respect in my boyfriend's eyes. How can I do this? | I want my boyfriend to respect me more than I want him to admire me. How can I do this? | I want my boyfriend to admire me and for him to see me in my best light as often as possible. How can I be a woman worthy of great respect in his eyes? | I want my boyfriend to respect me more than the other women he sees on TV. How can I do this? |
This is dumb, and it might not be the best place for this question but I want to know how to handle this. I would like to make this situation right with the restaurant staff and I just feel awful.
I went out to a bar last night with my husband and had a few drinks and skipped dinner (read as: I got too drunk). Before... | I peed in the garbage in a bar bathroom and I'm ashamed. What do I do? | I peed in the bathroom and I'm mortified. I'm not sure how to handle this situation. | I peed in the bathroom and I'm mortified that they know. I'm embarrassed and I don't know what to do. | I peed in the bathroom and I'm mortified. I can't tell my husband what I did. I'm embarrassed. |
This is kind of insane behavior.
I moved out six weeks ago. I was paying rent, but I couldn't live with someone who went through my shit like I was 14.
I saved enough to get a studio apartment. I am fully employed, go to school part time, and am single. So I am pretty focused on my own stuff at the moment. I got a ... | Mom insists on bringing stuff I don't want to my new place. I told her to take it back or I would donate it. She keeps bringing it anyway. What the fuck is going on? | Mom is freaking out because I don't want pillows on my bed. I am not sure what to do. | My mom is freaking out because I don't want pillows on my bed. I am not sure what to do. | Mom is freaking out because I don't want pillows on my bed. I am not sure what to do. |
My GF flew off at me the other week.
I asked her if she was texting another guy and me asking this question almost made her breakup with me.
The reason I thought she might be is that she has suspicious phone activity. She uses it a lot when I'm not in the same room and quickly stops what she's doing when I come in, s... | I questioned GFs phone habits... She went apeshit... now I feel I can't talk to her about stuff like that. | GF says I'm too paranoid, but I don't think it's totally fair. Am I being too insecure? | GF says I'm too paranoid, but I don't think it's totally fair. I feel like I should be able to talk about what's bothering me. Am I too insecure with asking about her phone habits? | GF says I'm too paranoid, but I don't think it's totally fair. Am I being too insecure? |
Hey /r/advice. I'm having some life problems, and need some guidance.
I feel like I'm stuck in a shitty situation. 5 years ago I broke my right arm and as a result lost my job. Due to complications, I can no longer use it for load bearing tasks like poring milk, lifting items, and driving. Last year I was diagnosed wi... | I can't use arms to do work or computers due to complications from injury, and I can't afford surgery to correct my dysgraphia. What should I do? | I can't use my arms, I can't use a computer, I can't drive, I can't do anything. What should I do? | I can't use my arms and I can't use a computer effectively. I'm not disabled, but I can't use my job due to my medical condition. What should I do? | I can't use my arms whilst standing and I can't use a computer effectively when sitting. I'm trained in construction and auto maintenance. What should I do for work? What's my next step? |
I scared off this guy I got really into 2 months.
He told me he's never had a gf before, and has never really fallen for a girl before.
He seemed into me but I was cautious, we hung out a few times, then we kind of accidentally plowed (I didn't mean to, but for the first time I got super drunk because I was nervous) in... | I recently got scared off by a guy. He seems really into me but I still see him occasionally. How to I win him back? | I'm scared of getting hurt again, how do I win him back? I'm scared of being hurt again. | guy I really like told me he's never had a gf before, and he's never really fallen for a girl before. He's a really nice guy, but I'm scared he's not interested in me. | guy I like told me he's never had a gf before, and has never really fallen for a girl before. He seems into me but I'm scared he's not interested. |
My daughter has always been a good kid and a good student. She's in first year university, and like many of us (myself included), she found it overwhelming. She's been keeping up with the work and getting decent grades, but for a recent English essay, she googled other people's ideas and pulled a few sentences fro... | daughter plagiarized small part of university essay, will get a disciplinary hearing, and I'm wondering what to do. | daughter plagiarized an essay, prof found out, now she's facing a disciplinary hearing. How can I help her? | My daughter has been plagiarizing in her English essay, and her prof is going to hear the evidence at the disciplinary hearing. How can I help her? | daughter plagiarized an essay, prof found out, now facing disciplinary hearing. How can I help her? |
How short does a relationship have to be for one to not care that it's over?
We met over summer break while she was vacationing in my hometown. We had an amazing summer and decided it was worth a long distance relationship since she was moving to where I live after she graduates in one semester. I bought a ticket to s... | GF of a few weeks broke up with me because of the distance. How do I get through the semester while I wait for her to come back? | GF and I ended a few weeks ago. She's moving to where I live and says she wants to continue the relationship at that time. | GF ended a relationship after a few weeks. She's moving to where I live and says she wants to continue the relationship at that time. I'm still waiting for her to call me. | GF ended a relationship after a few weeks. I'm still in love with her and want to be with her. How do I get through the semester while I wait for her? |
I have been dating the same girl for 4 years We have lived together 3 of those years. I have always been a flirty guy and I know it can cause problems. From the start of our relationship I wasn't ready for anything long term, wanted to be single and play the field. Throughout our relationship I have been a dumbass ... | I screwed up in the past with flirting and naked pics, now I want to salvage the relationship and turn it around. | I have done things in the past that I feel like I've ruined this relationship. How can I fix it? | I have done things in the past that I feel like I've doomed this relationship. How can I ever feel like the perfect guy for her when I've screwed up so many times. | I have done things in the past that I feel like I've doomed this relationship. How can I ever feel like the perfect guy for her when I've screwed up so many times. |
I apologize for the wall of text, but I want to be thorough with this.
My mom is 56, retired last summer, and kind of lapsing in the intellectual department. She's got nothing to do that occupies her time aside from watching TV. She's been doing more reading lately, even had me pick her up a booklight so should could ... | Reading material for my middle-aged, retired mom. Preferably a series. "Not dark" but still intellectually stimulating. She's been reading fluffy romance, but I'd like to help her branch out. | My mom is a book-loving, book-reading, book-reading, book-loving, book-reading, book-loving, book-loving, book-loving, book-loving, book-loving, book-loving, book-loving, book-l | My mom is a book-loving, book-reading, book-reading, book-loving, book-reading, book-loving, book-reading, book-loving, book-loving, book-loving, book-loving, book-loving, book-loving | My mom is a book-loving, book-reading, book-reading, book-loving, book-reading, book-loving, book-reading, book-loving, book-loving, book-loving, book-loving, book-loving, book-loving |
Hello AskReddit, I did some preliminary searching and turned up nothing, so if this is a repost, I sincerely apologize.
To the point; in the past I have burned numerous mp3 cds for my listening enjoyment. However, a 60 song playlist only lasts for so long. Recently, in a moment of nerd audacity I made the claim that ... | Is it possible to burn a dvd in the same manner as burning an mp3 cd? I.E to make a 1,000 song disc? | I can burn a dvd disc in the same manner as an mp3 cd, but I cannot make an "infinite playlist" of 1000 songs. | Is it possible to burn a dvd disc in the same manner as burning an mp3 cd? I.E to make a 1,000 song disc? | Is it possible to burn a dvd disc in the same manner as burning an mp3 cd? I.E to make a 1,000 song disc? |
So i just found out that my best friend wants to be romantically involved with me.
The big problem is that we are both dudes and i'm straight so i don't want to be in a relationship with him but has been my best bro for years and he really helped me through some tough times.
We had a talk about it and it turns out t... | Found out that my best friend of three years is in love with me and is possessive and creepy and our whole group of friends is now split apart. Need help on what to do going forward. | My best friend is in love with me and i don't know what to do. I don't want to be in a relationship with him but he has assured me that he isn't confused or going through a phase. | My best friend of 3 years is in love with me and i don't know what to do. I'm scared that he may have done something creepy while i was asleep. | My best friend of 3 years is in love with me and i don't know what to do. I'm scared he may have done something creepy while i was asleep. |
Hey everybody, I've been married for my wife for 2 years and dating for over 6. This has been slowly building the last year or so but exploded in the past few days. My wife has told me she feels like I am always the center of attention and that she constantly lives in my shadow. And honestly I 100% agree with her. I am... | My wife feels like I'm always the center of attention and that she constantly lives in my shadow. I don't know what to do to make her feel the center of my world. | Wife feels like I am always the center of attention and that I am always the one who is doing all the work. I don't know what to do to make her feel like the center of my world. | Wife feels like I am always the center of attention and that I am always the one to plan romantic weekend away. I don't know what to do to make her feel like the center of my world. | Wife feels like I am always the center of attention and that I am always the one to plan romantic getaways with her. I don't know what to do to make her feel like the center of my world. |
I don't really want to go into details, but I (23F) have severe trust issues and my SO (22M) shattered all the trust I had in him. We're at the point where I can't believe anything he says if there could possibly be an ulterior motive. Would a no-privacy policy help, or just make me more paranoid? Any other suggesti... | My SO broke my trust, and I don't know how to fix it. Any suggestions? | My SO broke my trust and I don't know how to fix it. How can we fix our relationship? | My SO broke my trust by telling me he was going to break up with me because he was going to be with someone else. How can we fix our relationship? | My SO broke my trust. How can we fix our relationship? I'm not sure what to do. I'm not sure if I should just move on. |
Hello everyone ... let me give you a little background. About 2 months ago, my company moved my department, including my job, from New York to California. I reluctantly went with my job because I am young and felt that it would be good for my career. I don't know a single person here -- no family, friends, etc. -- and ... | I recently moved cross-country with my job. I hate it and need help. | I hate my job, I'm moving to California, and I'm depressed and anxious. What do I do? | I hate my job, I'm moving across country with my job, and I'm having major panic attacks. What do I do? | I hate my job, I'm moving across country with my job, and I'm depressed and anxious. What do I do? |
I need honest opinions on how to go about dating someone who is barely underage without ruffling too many feathers. Just to give you a little insight into the situation, we've been talking for about a month now, but haven't gotten into anything too serious yet. I'm a 22 year old male, never really had a serious relatio... | How can I approach dating a 17 year old girl without ruffling too many feathers. I don't want to lose her. | I'm a virgin, she's 17, and we're talking. How do I approach this? | I'm 22, virgin, and 17, and she's 17, but she's interested in me. How do I approach dating her without getting into trouble? | I'm a 22 year old male who has never had a serious relationship, and am a virgin. Girl is 17, turns 18 next summer, and is clearly interested in me. How do I deal with parents? |
Ugh so the title is supposed to say My boyfriend made me FEEL terrible...
A few days ago the dog in the apartment below mine started barking/howling/whining non stop for over an hour. The walls are paper thin and eventually I got tired of it. I don't know any of the people there but happened to know the name of one gu... | Boyfriend got upset with me when I complained about a barking dog. He makes me feel like a whiney bitch whenever I complain about things that I feel are justified. Anyone been in a relationship like this? | My boyfriend made me feel terrible for getting upset over a barking dog. I don't know what to do now. | My boyfriend made me feel terrible for getting upset over a barking dog. I don't know what to do now. | Boyfriend made me feel terrible for getting upset over a barking dog. I don't know what to do now. |
I'm not really sure where to begin, I found the picture earlier today and confronted him about it. He said it was only a one time thing and that he was 'curious' to see what men thought of him but for me this is a huge red flag.
We've been together on-off for under a year now, don't get me wrong I have absolutely not... | I [18F] caught my [18M] boyfriend posting naked selfies on a gay male subreddit. He says it's just a 'one time thing' but I'm really worried about the effects it could have on our relationship. | Boyfriend posted naked selfies on a gay subreddit, I confronted him about it and he said it was only a one time thing and he's straight. | My boyfriend posted a naked selfie on a gay subreddit, I'm confused and angry and need advice. | Boyfriend posted naked selfies on a gay subreddit, I'm confused and angry and need advice. |
Ten months ago my girlfriend of nearly two years and I broke up. Her and I were perfect for each other. We got along better than I've ever gotten along with anyone, and we had more fun than you could imagine. We clicked- any problem that we had we could always work through. She made me feel a way I could never explain.... | I'm starting to realize that I may never be able to get my ex back, and I need advice on how to deal with this. | I need all the advice I can get. I love my girlfriend so much, but I don't know if I can ever get her back. | I love my girlfriend, but I'm starting to realize that I'm not going to be able to get her back. What do I do now? | I need all the advice I can get. I love my girlfriend so much that I don't think I'll ever be able to get her back. What do I do now? |
My ex and I have been ex's for about 5 months. She broke the relationship off, she said her feelings for me had faded. I was truly heartbroken and I am still progressing this, but feel less for her every day now days. Within this time we've talked a little, mostly basic questions like how eachother is doing.
I figured... | I still have stuff at my ex's place since the breakup, she asks me to drive 500kms and get it. | My ex asks me to drive 500kms and get them. I don't know what to say. | My ex asks me to drive 500kms and get them, I don't know what she wants, I don't want to be rude, but I don't know what to reply. | My ex asks me to drive 500kms and get them, I reply that I can't do it, she replies that she can buy a big enough box. |
When I was in 2nd year of college in Welland, Ontario (ugh) I lived with 6 girls. I'm a guy. One of them was my cousin, and the other her friend. The other 4 are not part of this story.
Anyways - haven't spoken to/heard from/seen/had on Facebook this friend of my cousin's for 2.5years+ and today she is asking my cousi... | I haven't spoken to/heard from my cousin's friend for two years, and now she is asking my cousin for my D.O.B., my middle name, and my home address. This is significantly creepy. | I have never had anything like this happen to me before, and I'm not sure if I should tell my cousin about it. | My cousin is asking for my D.O.B., my middle name, and my home address in Toronto, far from Welland. What are your creepiest stalker stories involving people from your past? | Haven't seen this person in years, but now they seem to be stalking me. What are your creepiest stalker stories involving people from your past? |
College kid, poor, scared, and obviously on a throwaway. I understand I'm stupid and made a mistake.
I'm 19 and in August I had unprotected sex with a girl and about a month later I went to the doctor to check out my swollen testicle, I became lighted head and fainted, he said that I probably had epidemimitis, but obv... | have had chlamydia for 6 months, thought that 'my epidydmitis' was treated, and am now freaking out. | I had unprotected sex with a girl, I got lighted head and fainted, I had epydidimitis, should I go to the doctor for an ultrasound? | I had unprotected sex with a girl, got lighted head, fainted, doctor said I probably had epidemimitis, I didn't call them back, got it, should I go in for an ultrasound to see if there is any serious damage? | I had unprotected sex with a girl, got lighted head, fainted, doctor said I probably had epidemimitis, but obviously they should run test. I felt okay, but missed a day and accidentally consumed cheese/ ice cream within two hours of a couple of dosages. |
College kid, poor, scared, and obviously on a throwaway. I understand I'm stupid and made a mistake.
I'm 19 and in August I had unprotected sex with a girl and about a month later I went to the doctor to check out my swollen testicle, I became lighted head and fainted, he said that I probably had epidemimitis, but obv... | have had chlamydia for 6 months, thought that 'my epidydmitis' was treated, and am now freaking out. | I had unprotected sex with a girl, I got lighted head and fainted, I had epydidimitis, should I go to the doctor for an ultrasound? | I had unprotected sex with a girl, got lighted head, fainted, doctor said I probably had epidemimitis, I didn't call them back, got it, should I go in for an ultrasound to see if there is any serious damage? | I had unprotected sex with a girl, got lighted head, fainted, doctor said I probably had epidemimitis, but obviously they should run test. I felt okay, but missed a day and accidentally consumed cheese/ ice cream within two hours of a couple of dosages. |
SO the story goes that I have had this sinking feeling that my best friends girlfriend was going to breakup with him for a while. sincing this I told him over and over that if she ever hurt him to just call me and I would be their for him. We spent tonight texting, and he is coming over tomorrow night, so we can talk. ... | My best friends girlfriend of two years said she wanted space. I am trying to be the best friend I can be for my friend in his hour of need. | My best friend girlfriend is going to break up with him. I need advice on what to say to him. | My best friend girlfriend just broke up with him. I need advice on what to say to him tomorrow. I am his for him. | My best friend girlfriend just broke up with him. I need advice on what to tell him tomorrow. |
2 years ago hurricane sandy came through, and we actually made out pretty well. A fucking massive tree did fall on my house, but it hit another tree on the way down, and that kinda softened the blow. In any case, after a lot of other stories, we got the tree off the house.
My family is pretty good at making the best o... | Tried to help dad who can't really split logs due to injury, busted the axe apart, he was pretty cool about it. | I split some logs, and my dad got a new handle for his axe. I'm feeling pretty bad about it. | I split some logs, and my dad got a brand new handle for his axe. I feel like I owe him a handle. | I split logs with my dad, and he got a brand new handle for the axe. I feel like I owe him a handle. |
A few months back, I was reading up on how to teach your dog to play dead. The whole guiding him onto his back with a treat, then reinforcing with praise and reward. I figured I'd give it a shot.
So I get home from work and get down to business. Ozzy's catching on pretty quickly. Within 10 minutes, I have him roll... | Tried to teach my dog to play dead, he wets himself and is now terrified of gun fingers and the word "bang". | I tried to teach my dog to play dead. He pees a little. I gave him a complex cue word. He's still ashamed of himself. | I tried to teach my dog to play dead, he pees a little, I get him to lie down and try to move a treat across his shoulder, he just goes "NOPE". | I tried to teach my dog to play dead. Instead gave him a complex. He's afraid of fireworks and thunderstorms and the loud "BANG" is too harsh of a cue word. |
I'm 17, she's 17. Her boyfriend is 16. Me and her hang out constantly, we also share some classes together. I've also known her longer (1year). They share no classes, he's younger, and they've been dating for 1 month.
The thing is, I write a FACEBOOK post about her and I jump-starting her car because we killed her bat... | My best friend's boyfriend is being controlling. Breaking me and my best friend apart. Any ideas? | My best friend's boyfriend is being controlling and I'm not sure what to do. Any advice? | My best friend's boyfriend is controlling and I'm breaking her apart. Any advice on what I should do? | My best friend's boyfriend is controlling and I'm breaking her apart. What do I do? |
I said something stupid that I cannot take back, during an argument, and my boyfriend wants to break up. He told me that he feels like he cannot trust me anymore because of what I said. (He thinks I might cheat on him in the future and he doesn't want to have to go through that.)
I don't want the relationship to end l... | I said something stupid that I cannot take back, during an argument, and my boyfriend wants to break up. He told me that he feels like he cannot trust me anymore because of what I said. | I said something stupid that I cannot take back, and my boyfriend wants to break up. I want to fix things, but I don't know how. | I said something stupid during an argument, and my boyfriend wants to break up. He thinks I might cheat on him in the future and he doesn't want to have to go through that. What should I do to fix things? | I said something stupid that I cannot take back, and my boyfriend wants to break up. I want to fix things, but I don't know how. |
My first girlfriend of 6 months left me 9 months ago, 7 months into the break up she contacted me again talking to me about what has happened in her life and what not after she left. She then brought up the possibility of her coming back to me.
Unfortunately, we talked a bit more and she said she really wasn't sure s... | Girlfriend left me, contacted me a few months later, talks a bit more then stops communicating with me, now she wont even tell me if she wants me back. What to do? | GF left me 9 months ago, she contacted me again, I dont know what to do. She wont even tell me if she wants me back or not. | GF left me 9 months ago, she contacted me again talking about her life and what has happened since she left. She wont even tell me if she wants me back or not. I am having a hard time moving on with all the thoughts of her being with someone else and I cant get any solace because she wont | GF left me 9 months ago, she contacted me again a few weeks later, she wont tell me anything. I am having a hard time moving on with all the thoughts of her being with someone else and I cant get any solace because she wont tell me anything. |
Throwaway account, just because.
For three weeks last month I was traveling for work. An old friend contacted me right before I left, asking if she could stay with me while doing job interviews nearby. I told her that I wouldn't be around but that I would give her free access to my apartment. She ended up staying for ... | let a friend use my apartment for free while I was gone for work, utilities bill is way higher than usual and I'm not sure if i should bring this up at all. | Friend of mine stayed in my apartment while I was away for work, I'm now paying for her usage. Should I bring this up? | Friend of mine stayed in my apartment while I was away for work, my bill skyrocketed, and I'm wondering if I should bring this up to my landlord. | Friend of mine stayed in my apartment while I was away for three weeks, my bill skyrocketed, should I bring this up? |
We've been together 6 months now. I'm her first bf, she's my second gf.
I bought my phone around a year ago and right after it, I took it on a trip with my ex and snapped a few pictures with the two of us around famous landmarks and scenery and such. I then completely forgot these pictures existed in my phone until th... | Gf found pictures of ex in my phone and seems to not understand that I simply forgot about them. What should I do/say to fix this? | My gf found pictures of my ex in my phone. I don't know what to do or say. | My gf found pictures of my ex in my phone. I forgot about them and now I can't get her to accept my explanations. What do I say/do? | My gf found pictures of my ex in my phone. I forgot about them and now I can't get her to accept my explanations. What do I do? |
Quick background: My ex (m24) broke up with me about a month ago and basically I (f20) have been a completely mess because of it. I also did the unthinkable and pleaded to get back and work around the differences but that hasn't worked out. Anyway, it seems like he is doing fine and messages casually every week or so, ... | After a painful breakup, ex messages me regularly just to chat etc, I want to tell him I can't carry on this friendship where I can't be honest with my true feelings. How to convey this? | I'm having a hard time with my ex and I don't know how to tell him that I'm not interested in talking to him anymore. | After a painful breakup with my ex, I (f20) need advice on how to or how not to remain friends. | After a painful breakup with my ex, I need advice on how to or how not to remain friends. |
Hi everyone,
I've had a really tough week and feeling at an all-time low and just need some support/advice. I am over working and studying long hours and haven't been sleeping well. My whole body is aching from sitting all day and all I have been doing in binge eating. I want to lose weight, but it's this vicious cycl... | Binge eating at work on sweets, over worked and feeling shitty. Boyfriend is super skinny and not encouraging. Need support. | I am an all time low weight, I am over working and studying, I am not sleeping well, I am eating too much and I am angry with my boyfriend. | I am over working and studying long hours and haven't been sleeping well. I feel like I am failing at weight loss and need support/advice. | I am over working and studying long hours and haven't been sleeping well. I feel like shit and want to lose weight, but I can't seem to get out of the cycle of binge eating. |
I've been with my fiance for 3 and a half years now. She is bi-polar and I have ADD and depression. We both go to therapy, and we both (admittedly) have good days and bad days with respect to our emotional states.
Recently she's noticed that she isn't very nice to me. In fact she can be pretty darn scary. Scary to... | Fiance is bi-polar and wants to be nice to me. She doesn't know how. I need advice for her to be nicer to me. | Fiance is bipolar and I have ADD and depression. She wants to be nicer to me but doesn't know how. How do I help her be nicer to me? | Fiance is bi-polar and I have ADD and depression. She's noticed that she isn't very nice to me. How do I help her be nicer to me? | Fiance is bi-polar and I have ADD and depression. She wants to be nicer to me but doesn't know how. How do I help her be nicer to me? |
Hi r/relationships. Some context.
I'd been dating this girl around November last year; it didn't work out initially and we went our separate ways. She contacts again about a month ago and asks if I want to hang out; we do. This time it works out so much better than before; we'd both matured a lot due to finishing scho... | Going overseas, girl I like says its okay for me to get with other people while I'm gone, however I'd rather be with her. How do I express this wish for exclusivity without placing limits on her? | I like this girl, but I'm going overseas for a year; she tells me it's okay to get with other girls while I'm gone. I really like this girl and would love to be exclusive; but how do I express this to her without limiting her? | Girl I like is going to the US for a year; I'm going to be away for a year; I want to be exclusive; how do I express this to her without hurting her? | Girl I like is going to the US for a long time; I'm going to be away for a long time; I want to be exclusive but I don't want to hurt her; how do I express this to her without hurting her? |
None | batch of vaccines at a children's surgery were stored at the wrong temperature for five years meaning hundreds of children may not be properly protected. Parents have been left frustrated and confused. Worried about their children. | Hundreds of children left exposed to meningitis, measles, mumps and rubella after vaccines were stored in a faulty fridge for five years | Hundreds of children left exposed to meningitis, measles, mumps and rubella after vaccines were stored in a faulty fridge for five years | Hundreds of children left exposed to meningitis, measles, mumps and rubella after vaccines were stored in a faulty fridge for five years |
So I've known this girl for about 3 months. She blew me away from the minute I first met her in my friends house. We hung out a lot (4/5 nights a week) over summer, just as friends. I asked her out about 1+1/2 months ago and things are going good!
But there's one thing that has been bugging me. She openly admitted to ... | Girlfriend admitted to me that she doesn't believe in love anymore. Worried that I'll grow to love her and she won't feel the same. Should I keep trying or move on? | Girlfriend doesn't believe in love, but I do. I'm worried that if I grow to love her after a while, she won't feel the same. | Girlfriend of 1 month told me she doesn't believe in love, but I do. Do you think I can change her opinion? | Girlfriend doesn't believe in love, but I do. I'm worried that if I grow to love her after a while, she won't feel the same. |
Met a great girl last week, we've been clicking so fast and I know that we have something great going for us. We went out on our first date and she explained to me her situation with her ex, which had me in awe and I did not really know what to tell her.
She was about to break up with her ex when I think he started to... | Girl is getting threatened by ex, she is trying to help him but it seems difficult. What do I do? | Met a girl, she's going to break up with her ex, he's threatening to kill himself, she's clueless on how to handle it. | Met a great girl, she's going to break up with her ex, he's threatening to kill himself by jumping off a balcony. How do I help her out? | Met a great girl, she's going to break up with her ex, he threatened to kill himself by jumping off a balcony, she's clueless on how to handle it. |
I have know him for ~11 years. We used to hang out all the time. Video games, metal etc. We shared a lot of interests. But then he found more friends.
We spent less and less time together. Nowadays we only see each other in school. Every now and then we skype and vidya, and it's fun.
He doesn't care about my things t... | I'm questioning if my best friend is actually my friend. | I don't know if my best friend is actually my friend. He is the only person outside of my family that wants to spend time with me. | I am 17, he is 18, we hang out a lot, but he doesn't care about my interests, and i don't know if he is my friend at all. | I am questioning if my best/only friend is actually my friend at all. I don't know if he is a friend at all. |
Sorry if this comes out poorly formatting-wise,doing this on phone.
My ex and I dated for 2 1/2 years. We met at college and quickly became great friends which led to us dating. Throughout the relationship she stressed that she wasn't one for relationships and was only involved in one with me because she loved me so m... | Gf of 2 1/2 years dumped me for the 2nd time5 months ago, kept in contact and agreed to take things slow. Should I even bother? | Ex gf of 2 1/2 years, still in love with me, wants to take things slowly, not sure if it's a good idea. | Ex and I have been dating for 2 1/2 years. She's been a pain in the ass and has caused me so much grief. I should move on but I'm not sure if it's a good idea. | Ex gf of 2 1/2 years broke up with me and is still in contact despite me saying I want to end it. Should i even bother with the relationship? |
My girl and I have been together for a few months now. However, there is a guy that she still is in contact with that worries me. This guy happens to be her ex LTR. She told me at the beginning of the relationship while we were in the dating phase that she had slept with him. I said I appreciate your honesty and we mov... | She is still in contact with her ex LTR of 3 years. I was not aware of just how close they were. | Girlfriend and I have been exclusive for a while now, she told me she slept with her ex. I am not sure if she is cheating or not. | Girlfriend of 3 months is still in contact with ex of 3 years. I am not sure if she is cheating or not. | Girlfriend of 3 months is still in contact with ex of 3 years. I am not sure if she is cheating or not. |
None | Atlantis the Palm opened in 2008 and is located on the world's largest artificial islands. The hotel is a 20-minute car ride from the city centre. The underwater suites feature floor to ceiling views of the aquarium. | I'm a girl who loves to travel and I'm looking for a place to stay in the middle of the desert. I'm a girl who loves to travel and I'm looking for a place to stay in the middle of the desert. | I'm a big, brash and beautiful water world in the middle of the desert... and one of Kim Kardashian's favourite luxury hotels. | I'm a huge fan of Kim Kardashian and her lifestyle, and I'm looking for a place to stay in her home country of the United States. |
I understand that they used to and that people [complained] because there were lots of "vote up if" type posts that were getting karma. Removing karma from them, however, does not appear to have changed things. They've always been reported and deleted (none are on in the pages [archived by archive.org] for the time bef... | Self posts add original content to reddit. Why don't we start letting them get karma? What kind of karma would be the most appropriate for them? | Self posts get karma, but not as much as other posts. Is there any reason we shouldn't start letting self posts get karma? | Self posts are not getting karma, but they are getting more and more popular. Is there any reason we shouldn't start letting self posts get karma? | Self posts get karma, but it's not the same as the original posts. What kind of karma should be given to self posts? |
None | OJ Simpson was recently seen struggling to walk with a silver cane at Lovelock Correctional Center in Nevada. The disgraced gridiron great is serving a nine-to-33-year sentence for armed robbery and kidnapping but he could be paroled in two years. OJ's knee injuries are from his 11-year career as a running back in th... | OJ Simpson says his left knee has deteriorated so badly he needs a cane to walk. He says he can't walk without a cane. | OJ Simpson says his left knee has deteriorated so badly he needs a cane to walk. He says he can't walk without a cane. | OJ Simpson says his left knee has deteriorated so badly he needs a cane to walk. He says he can't walk without a cane. |
Things at work have gotten insane and I just don't like they way many things have been handled. This is a corporate IT job at a Fortune 250 company. My senior developer quit a few weeks ago and I was offered the position, but things have been so insane lately we haven't had time to discuss details. *I'm now solely resp... | How do I best communicate with my boss that I'm unhappy, on the verge of quitting, but am willing to stay if they offer me a shit ton of money and some things change? | I'm unhappy at work, possibly quitting, need to negotiate a raise and some changes. How do I approach this with my boss? | I'm unhappy at work, possibly quitting, will need to negotiate a raise and some changes. How do I approach this with my boss? | Unhappy at work, possibly quitting, will need to negotiate a raise and some changes. How do I approach this with my boss? |
The problem is:
He has trust issues. He says he trusts me, but that he doesn't trust the guys around me. And although he trusts I won't cheat on him, his qualm is that I like any type of attention I can get from guys. I'm around more people more than he is because I'm still in college and yes, I do get attention from... | Boyfriend has trust issues and is very jealous of other guys who I hang out with. Says he wants to work on his trust issues and is willing to be supportive of him. Is this normal? | Boyfriend is insecure about his trust issues and is willing to work on it. Is this normal? | Boyfriend is insecure about his trust issues and is willing to work on it. Is this normal? | Boyfriend is insecure about his trust issues and is willing to work on it. Is this normal? |
I genuinely enjoy being around my friend and I want to invite her to a party I will be having. However, I really hate her pseudo-boyfriend and do not want him there. The first time I met him she brought him to a previous party I had and he was completely awful - I mean he arrived intoxicated, was rude to my boyfriend, ... | how do I invite my friend to a party without inviting her pseudo-boyfriend who I don't want to be around? | I want to invite my friend to a party but I don't want to invite her man friend. How do I do this without inviting her man friend? | I want to invite my friend to a party but I don't want to invite her boyfriend. How do I invite her without inviting her man friend? | I want to invite my friend to a party but I don't want to invite her man friend. How do I do this without inviting her man friend? |
This is just a simple question, nothing dramatic. My boyfriend and I have been dating 2 years and will be living together next semester in an 10 person flat. 7 of these other people are single women and 1 is a gay man. We're the only couple, and we don't know any of these people.
My question is, how much cuddling... | my boyfriend and I will be living together in a shared flat. How much cuddling (or kissing) is acceptable in common spaces? Is this something I should have with him before shoving him aside if he wants to go | How much PDA is acceptable in a shared space? Is it appropriate to cuddle in a shared space? Is it appropriate to flirt in a shared space? | My boyfriend and I will be living together in a 10 person flat next semester, 7 other people are single women and 1 is a gay man. How much PDA is acceptable in common spaces? | How much PDA is acceptable in common spaces? Is it appropriate to hug and flirt with other couples? Is it appropriate to cuddle in a shared bedroom? |
Where do I begin.. I have been beyond unhappy (in general) lately. This isn't the first time I've felt like this, but it doesn't normally "last" this long. So I'm going through stuff..
We both have feelings for each other, we aren't in a relationship, and we watch TV every night together. I haven't been myself, and I ... | Not sure how to handle a relationship that has gone stale and I can't say what I mean or feel, and I don't know if it's permanent. | I'm not happy, but I'm not sure if I care about him anymore. I'm not sure if I should talk to him again. | I'm not sure if I care about my boyfriend anymore, and I'm not sure if I'm just hurting over everything. | I'm not sure if I care about my boyfriend anymore, and I'm not sure if I should be happy about it. |
My boyfriend and I love each other very much, but love is pretty much all we've got that works. Well, we also get along very well. But other than that it feels like it is all obstacles between us.
We are long distance now because we are both academics and living the "two-body problem.*" We not only live far from ... | BF and GF (me) love each other and get along well, but the rest of life looks like love might not be enough to keep us together. | I love my boyfriend, but I am not sure if I can make it work with him. Is love enough to make a relationship work? | My boyfriend and I love each other very much, but we are both working very hard to stay afloat in our careers. Is love enough to make a relationship work? | My boyfriend and I love each other very much, but we also get along very well. Other than that it feels like it is all obstacles between us. Can this possibly ever work out? |
I've been with my boyfriend for 2 years and we've been living together for the past few months. Now, generally I've come to accept him for being a 'guy' and not cleaning up after himself. He has got a lot better at it though so I'll give him that. Anyway, this morning I went downstairs as usual to clean up a bit and wh... | My boyfriend left a cup full of piss on the floor and I noticed it. I don't know how to handle it. Advice anyone? | Found a mcdonalds cup with piss in it sitting next to my boyfriend's chair. I don't know how to bring it up or how to even bring it up. | Found a disgusting mcdonalds cup in my boyfriend's living room. He smokes and I don't know how to bring it up. | Found a mcdonalds cup with piss in it in the living room. I don't know how to go about talking to my boyfriend about it. |
I get a call nearly every week from the phone number 1 (720) 539-6698. I think the number is a credit card scam. The automated message says it is cardholder services and that it can lower the interest rate on your credit card. I pressed 1 to "speak to an agent." When the person picked up I asked what company he worked... | Phone number 1 (720) 539-6698 calling me trying to sell me credit card interest rate lowering services. The Do Not Call Registry doesn't seem to be taking any action. What else can I do to get justice? | I'm pissed that there's probably poor people out there getting ripped off by this scumbag. I'm not sure what else I can do to make sure this scumbag sees justice. | I'm pissed that there's probably poor people getting ripped off by this scumbag. He's been calling for months, but I just hang up. What else can I do to make sure he sees justice? | I'm pissed that there's probably poor people out there getting ripped off by this scumbag. I'm calling the National Do Not Call Registry and filing a complaint. |
I'm a student at college and I was going to confess all my sappy gooey feelings to a guy (Let's call him Mike) and ask him out. We hang out as much as we can on weekends. I've known Mike for a few months now and like I said, gooey feely blah - I was going to ask him out.
So as we were driving to a restaurant for dinn... | Was going to ask a guy out, turns out he's moving across the country with his ex. Should I say anything? Is it a good idea? | I want to ask out a guy I've known for a few months, but I'm afraid of getting in the way of a soap opera story. | I want to ask out a guy I know who has a new roommate, but I'm worried about the possibility of them getting together. Should I tell him? | I want to ask out my friend of a couple months only to find out his ex is moving in. Should I tell him? |
Honestly, I'm not sure how significant this piece of information is in the context of our relationship.
I've been dating my boyfriend for a few months now, and he doesn't know that the drunken dance-floor makeout we had a little over a year ago, the first time we met, was my first kiss.
I've kissed plenty of other pe... | I'm in a relationship with my boyfriend of six months and, admittedly, my first kiss was not that significant emotionally, but it was pretty good. I don't know if I should tell him that he was my first kiss. | I'm dating my boyfriend, and he's the first person I've had sex with. Should I tell him that I was his first kiss? | Boyfriend of a few months doesn't know that I had my first kiss with him, and I'm not sure if I should tell him or wait until we've known each other for longer. | Boyfriend of a few months doesn't know that I had my first kiss with him, and I don't want him to think I'm clingy or that I planned this all out. |
I have to provide a bit of a back story. There is a husband and wife. They own a house. The husband dies and the wife has dementia and is put into a home. Due to the wife's lack of mental capacity, 3 of their daughters were appointed as executors. The house that the father and mother lived in is up for sale. The money ... | 3 sisters are executors. 2 agree on an offer on their fathers house, the third one does not. Do 2 overpower one? | Do all 3 sisters have to agree on the price of an offer in order to be able to sell it or do only 2 need to agree and they majority rule the other sister? | Do all executors of a deceased family members estate have to agree in order to sell said family members estate? Or do you only need 2 to agree as the majority? | Do all executors of a deceased family members estate have to agree in order to sell said family members estate? Or do only 2 need to agree and they majority rule the other sister? |
(24/f) I have had two boyfriends in my entire life- each lasting 4+ years. Never really got a chance to sleep or date around. I know that men prefer younger women, and I feel the older I get the harder it will be for me to sleep with men I find attractive, and who find me attractive as well. I have always had trouble f... | I don't know if I want to dump my bf because I feel I haven't slept with enough people, even though I have a boyfriend right now. Conflicted because I love him and don't want to hurt him. | I have a boyfriend, but I feel like I haven't slept with enough guys. Do you ever feel that way? | I have a boyfriend, we've been together for 4 years, but I feel like I'm missing out on a lot of things because I'm not sleeping with enough guys. | I have a boyfriend, but I feel like I haven't slept with enough guys. Do you ever feel that way? |
Not even sure if this is the best place to post this but here goes:
About 3 days ago I got invited by my friend and classmate (let's call her Katie) to spend this Saturday at an amusement park a few towns (let's call it town A) over, and also to maybe watch some movies. The company (X) she interns at is also located i... | Friend invites me to party and amusement park and movies and sounds super excited to see me. Should I go or not? | Friend invited me to an amusement park, I'm not sure if I should go or not. Should I go or not? | Friend invites me to an amusement park and movie party, I'm not sure if she has ulterior motives for inviting me over or if she's just really excited to see me. | Friend invites me to an amusement park, I'm not sure if I should go or not. I don't want to be a dick, but I'm not sure if she has ulterior motives. |
I sold my car to someone a few months back. Let's call him Bob. I signed over the title to Bob and made him sign a bill of sale/notice of transfer. I got three copies, one of which I mailed to the tax collector's office the next day. I didn't hear anything from either the Bob or the tax collector for nearly two months.... | Bob sold my car to Jim. Jim now wants me to sign the title over to him. Bob has changed his number. What do I do? | I sold my car to someone, and he sold it to someone else. I don't know what to do about it. | I sold my car to someone, Bob, and he sold it to someone else, Jim. I don't know what to do about this. | I sold my car to someone, Bob, and he sold it to someone else, Jim. I don't know what to do about this. |
Okay so I didn't really get both my front teeth but I couldn't pass up the title and as most TIFU post begin, mine too starts with a little backstory. I'll try to be quick.
So in the 6th grade I was on my way to school on my bike just as I would do any other day. Suddenly, and I shit you not, some jackass I had never ... | TIFU by getting tipsy, "competing" with my friend, shattering part of my tooth, and getting it for Christmas. | I got my teeth for Christmas and got my teeth bonded. I got my teeth for Christmas and got my teeth bonded. | I got my teeth for Christmas and my breath got in the way of my teeth hitting the plastic piece of the attic stairs. | I got my teeth for Christmas and got my teeth bonded. I got my teeth for Christmas and got my teeth bonded. |
When i was 16 i had an abortion with my ex boyfriend.
living with guilt,
two years later my boyfriend (23 M) and i (18 F) (being together for a year or so) at the time ended up being pregnant.
At first he wanted to have an abortion.
I could not live with myself if i would have agreed to do so.
2 months pass by and w... | had abortion when 16, 2 years later BF and i decide to have kid. he doesn't want to anymore and we've been together for 2.5 yrs. feel empty and want child. wat do? | I had an abortion with my ex boyfriend, I misscarried, I want to have a baby with my boyfriend, but he doesn't. | I had an abortion with my ex boyfriend, i misscarried, i want to have a baby with my boyfriend, but he doesn't. Advice? | I had an abortion with my ex boyfriend, i misscarried, i want to have a baby with my boyfriend, but he doesn't. Advice? |
My mother has a really bad habit for forming circle arguments where she restarts the conversation after its long dead and I don't care anymore.
Last week:
I come home from work after school, it is 10:30 on a Tuesday night, I am beat I put my half eaten pizza in the fridge and head for bed. Not before she catches me ... | My mom gets mad at me for not doing chores and I tell her how expensive it is to live with her. | I am a lazy, spoiled, spoiled brat. I am going to show her how much she relies on me. | My mom is a rude, inconsiderate, and lazy person. I am fed up with her and want to show her just how much she relies on me. | My mom is a rude, inconsiderate, and lazy bitch. I am fed up with her and want to show her just how much she relies on me. |
So this happened yesterday.. My best friend ( a girl) started flirting with a friend of mine on Friday. She never told me anything.. I found out when my friend decided to show half the squad their text message exchange. That shit hurt like a mf, this lead to me finding out I have feelings for her.
I had the ability t... | Tried to be a good guy and I went out of my way to be a bad guy. I really am the bad guy. | Friend of mine started flirting with a girl on Friday, I let her know I have feelings for her and she lost her shit. | My best friend started flirting with a girl on Friday and I let it carry on. She lost her shit and now I'm mad at her for not telling me. | Friend of mine started flirting with my best friend and I let it carry on. She lost her shit and now I'm mad at her. |
My coworker (I'll call him Alex) is a touchy feely guy. At first I didn't mind. Now I mind a whole lot.
Alex will come up to me, and a few other female coworkers, and tickle us. 95% of the time it's unexpected and I don't even know he's coming up to me. It's always on my back, back of legs/knees, arm, elbow areas- ba... | Coworker tickles me regularly, I ask him to stop, he won't. I'm getting anxious and nervous being near him. Help! | My coworker comes up to me and tickles me. I'm not sure if he thinks I'm kidding or if I'm not saying don't firmly enough. | My coworker comes up to me and tickles me. I'm uncomfortable and I'm starting to get nervous. What should I do? | My coworker comes up to me and tickles me. I'm uncomfortable and I'm starting to get nervous. What should I do? |
So I was thinking today, I'm a good driver (over 1 million miles with no accidents), but I'm a total dick on the road.
I gear down instead of hitting my brakes, so it comes off like I'm riding your ass but I'm just trying to save energy. On the other hand, I do ride close if someone is going excessively slow or not m... | I'm a constantly aggressive and impatient driver, but my car is extremely powerful and can overtake many cars quickly. Am I a bad driver or just an aggressive driver? | I'm a good driver, but I'm a dick on the road. What do I do? | I'm a good driver, but I'm a total dick on the road. I'm not a good driver, but I'm a total dick. | I'm a good driver, but I'm a total dick on the road. What do I do? |
Trying to keep this short, also apologies for spelling as this is all off my poor Nokia phone!
Basically, I (18) met a girl on okcupid (22) . I have been on 4 dates with this girl and we got on great from the start and by the second date were acting as if we were a couple almost, the hand holding, kissing, cuddling e... | meeting girl on okcupid, really like her but chemistry isn't there, worried i might be leading her on as i dont have many friends due to move, should i continue seeing her and/or let it go? | Met a girl on okcupid, we get on great, she likes me alot, i worry that i may be leading her on, should i let it continue? | Met a girl on okcupid, we got on great, we kissed, cuddled, etc. Now i worry that i may be leading her on and she may continue to like me more than i want to admit. | Met a girl on okcupid, we get on great, we kiss, cuddle, etc. The problem is i have recently realised as much as i do like this girl the chemistry isn't there for me. |
I'm 20, this is new to me. My parents no longer work for the employer that provided the healthcare we had. My parents are more or less self employed, the healthcare was a perk for exclusively working with said employer. I'm now tasked with finding a health care plan for my family since my family trusts me with the deci... | Parents aren't working for employer that provided free healthcare, I'm the one making the decision on what to do. Help me choose a health care plan! | I'm a newb, need help choosing a health plan for my family. I'm a 20 yro male. | I'm a newb trying to find a health plan for my family. I'm 20, my parents are self employed, and I'm tasked with finding a health plan for my family. | I'm a newb, need help choosing a health plan for my family. I'm 20, my parents are self employed, I'm the one going to college. |
Simple story, my boyfriend and I have been together for 2 years, we were friends in high school, and we live together. He has a friend that he plays League with. I sometimes play with them, too, because I love my boyfriend and he wanted to play with me.
His friend (not my friend, his friend) called me a bitch today. I... | boyfriend didn't say anything when his friend called me a bitch. I told him not to let someone disrespect me like that. He still defends his friend despite me raising concerns. Am i the one in the wrong? | Boyfriend didn't say anything when his friend called me a bitch, and I'm still mad. Am I in the wrong? | My boyfriend didn't say anything when his friend disrespected me, and I'm still mad. Am I in the wrong? | My boyfriend didn't say anything when his friend disrespected me, and I'm still angry. Am I in the wrong? |
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I've removed butter, ice cream and almost all bread, cereals and pasta successfully from my diet, while increasing my consumption of vegetables and whole foods. I have not yet found a good substitute for chocolate. I have decent self control and I've tried removing it from my diet, but, when I do this, I continue... | I have successfully removed most chocolate from my diet, but, when I do, I continue to craved it. What can I substitute for chocolate that would reduce the craving? | I have a problem with chocolate, and I want to know if there are any healthy substitutes that I can use to replace it. | I have successfully removed chocolate from my diet, but I still crave it. I want to find a healthy substitute that is compatible with getting thinner. | I have successfully removed chocolate from my diet, but I still crave it. I want to find a healthy substitute that is compatible with getting thinner. |
I'm a 22/F with a 23/M and we've been together for 2.5 years. Our relationship is loving and happy, and due to the fact that we live approximately 45 minutes away from each other (both living with our parents [embarrassing, but resources we're lucky to have]) have to restrict our visits to about 2 days a week.
We did... | living with boyfriend but unsure when or if I should move back in due to financial/emotional constraints. Do I wait to see how things pan out or do I move without him? | I'm moving back in with my boyfriend, but I don't want to move back without him. What should I do? | I'm 22/F with a 23/M and we've been together for 2.5 years. We live 45 minutes away from each other, and I'm not sure if I should move back in with him. | I'm 22/F with a 23/M and we've been together for 2.5 years. We live 45 minutes away from each other, and I'm unsure if I should move back in with him. |
Yeah, so I missed a call from him earlier. When I called back he said he'd call me back in a bit. So I'm farting around, looking for something to do. Watched TV in the basement for a short time and went back upstairs. I was chilling in my bed, messing with my phone when he called. He asked if he could run something by ... | Out of beer, friend calls at just the right time, I smell smoke outside, house was about to catch fire. | My best friend was smoking a cigarette on the back porch, and it burned down our house. I'm going to get a can of some sort to put our butts in to reduce the risk. | My best friend, and beer may have saved my family's lives last night. I burned the house down. I will absolutely get a can of some sorts to put our butts in to reduce the risk. Should just fucking quit smoking. | My best friend was smoking a cigarette on the back porch, and it ignited a glowing ball of death in a bed of pine straw. |
Hey all,
Next month I will be looking to move in with my friend that works at the same location as me. I graduated last semester and this moving situation has been a long time coming. When I originally told my girlfriend about me potentially moving away (only an hour north from where I currently live) she was very an... | Moving away from home and girlfriend is mad that we did not come up with a living situation before I discussed it with my friend. | Moving away from home and girlfriend wants to live together, but I don't want to compromise and compromise is not an option. | My girlfriend is mad that I am moving away from her and her dorm is paid for by her scholarship. How do I come up with a compromise to make this work? | Moving away from home and girlfriend is mad that I didn't ask her to live with me first. How do I come up with a compromise to make this work? |
None | Kurt Busch was suspended after a civil court found he probably committed domestic violence. He appealed twice, but lost both times. NASCAR says it will waive its requirement for him to compete in all championship events. | NASCAR lifts suspension of driver Kurt Busch. He is now suspended for the rest of the season. What do I do? | NASCAR lifts suspension of driver Kurt Busch after he was involved in a wreck. What does this mean for his future? | NASCAR lifts suspension of driver Kurt Busch after he was involved in a wreck. What does this mean? |
I'm currently in the Netherlands for a few months. Everyone over here uses a special Dutch debit card with a chip. Not having one makes life much much more difficult since some places don't accept cash (in euros) or American credit cards.
As a result, I opened up a Dutch bank account with ING. I have an account back i... | Need to transfer money to my foreign account, Chase is expensive, what's the cheapest way to do it? | I want to move money from my Chase account to my Dutch account. Is there a cheaper way to do this? | I want to move money from my Chase account to my Dutch account. Is there a cheaper way to do this? | I want to move money from my Chase account to my Dutch account. Is there a cheaper way to do this? |
I'm 21 and my husband is 24. We have been married for 2 years. He's the greatest guy ever and I trust that he won't try to hurt me, but I feel like some of his actions overstep boundaries.
Sometimes he'll stay over at a friend's house - sometimes male, sometimes female - without telling me. I really wish he'd let me ... | My husband stays over at female friends' houses and hits on them. I'm uncomfortable with this and asked him to put a stop to it. He doesn't listen. | I trust my husband, but I'm uncomfortable with his actions. He doesn't think anything is wrong. Is there anything I can do? | Husband is flirting with female friends, but I'm uncomfortable with it. Is there anything I can do to make him stop? | Husband is flirting with female friends, I don't know if he's cheating, but I'm uncomfortable with his actions. Is there anything I can do? |
I scared off this guy I got really into 2 months.
He told me he's never had a gf before, and has never really fallen for a girl before.
He seemed into me but I was cautious, we hung out a few times, then we kind of accidentally plowed (I didn't mean to, but for the first time I got super drunk because I was nervous) in... | guy I really liked, seemed to want me, I scared him off by getting drunk, got drunk again to hang out with him, he doesn't seem interested anymore, why? | I'm scared of getting hurt again, how do I win him back? I'm scared of being hurt again. | guy I really like told me he's never had a gf before, and he's never really fallen for a girl before. He's a really nice guy, but I'm scared he's not interested in me. | guy I like told me he's never had a gf before, and has never really fallen for a girl before. He seems into me but I'm scared he's not interested. |
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