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Question 3020
Title: My ex of 2 years texted me today and I feel even more lonelier. Text: She just sent me picture of a mug I gifted her maybe 5 years back and wrote: "Found this. It's my new tea mug. Thank you!" I barely ever receive any texts and receiving one from her just threw me back to the time when I wasn't struggling to...
no_crisis
Question 3021
Title: It finally caught up to my ex!!!! Text: I was with him for five years, I hadn't seen him in four, and now he is getting three years in prison for three different criminal charges for hitting his girlfriend with a gun. I'm not sorry for celebrating his incarceration, and can't help but laugh at it. For any cris...
no_crisis
Question 3022
Title: Is this rape? Text: I was going through a breakup and I felt super alone and vulnerable anyways this guy message me and he made me feel comfortable to open up about my relationship and he would send me music to listen to make myself feel better and one day I finally told him I’ll meet with him so I drove to his...
rape_past
Question 3023
Title: feeling really empty and lonely lately but embracing it unfortunaly Text: I guess. A lot of people here feel the same but i need to put some things thats are deep in my heart out there , would be nice to vent for once.. For any crisis present, mark whether it is Ongoing or Past. **Leave a row blank if that cr...
no_crisis
Question 3024
Title: Sexual harassment at work because I’m attractive according to my company. Text: I’m having a bit of trouble with coworkers, I’m 20 years old working in a male dominated environment and work with clients who visit around the world at a resort. The problem I’m faced with is not the clients but my coworkers I’ve b...
sexualharassment_ongoing
Question 3025
Title: Does love/relationships feel foreign to you? Text: Have you not been in a relationship or haven’t had one for so long that the concept of being loved romantically feels off or impossible? For any crisis present, mark whether it is Ongoing or Past. **Leave a row blank if that crisis type is not present.**
no_crisis
Question 3026
Title: Why do you do it? Text: I sh myself and now that I've been asked my my mom why I sh I told her that it was insecurities and school stuff but I don't think that's actually why I do it. I've been asking myself why I do it and I just can't find an answer. I only know why I started. So if you don't mind answering w...
selfharm_ongoing
Question 3027
Title: Struggling right now Text: I'm just really struggling right now, wish I was not so lonely, wish I had a family. I wish I was not mentally ill. I have bee. Getting comfortable with suicide more and more as time passes, I have picked out my method written my suicide note, I am ready to move on this world was crue...
suicideideation_active_ongoing
Question 3028
Title: What’s the point of going on if you can’t appreciate what you have, and you can’t get what you want? Text: It keeps coming down to this question. Ending it all sounds better to me than settling. For any crisis present, mark whether it is Ongoing or Past. **Leave a row blank if that crisis type is not present....
suicideideation_passive_ongoing
Question 3029
Title: Locked my abusive alcoholic husband out and called the police on him Text: So tonight he got drunk and wanted to go out at 10:15pm. Our country is in lockdown and curfew is at 10pm until 6am. If you are caught outside after curfew you are taken to a quarantine facility for 2 weeks with no warning. I locked the ...
domesticviolence_ongoing
Question 3030
Title: Bi polar/intellectual disability Text: I have an 18-year-old daughter, who goes to a special-needs school here in Pennsylvania. During a bus ride home she supposedly assaulted someone who was 15. My daughter is saying she did not touch him and the school bus driver doesn’t report any disturbances and said there...
no_crisis
Question 3031
Title: what's the worst thing about having emotional numbness? Text: mine personally is probably being in relationships because it's hard to show affection For any crisis present, mark whether it is Ongoing or Past. **Leave a row blank if that crisis type is not present.**
no_crisis
Question 3032
Title: Does involving justice anger them more ? Text: It's been 2 years with my abuser. He was very violent, verbally and physically. It was (seemingly) out of jealousy, since he thought I desired every single human we came across. He hit me, punching me (most times right in the face) but also used batons, hif...
domesticviolence_ongoing
Question 3033
Title: What should she do? Text: This isn't me but one of my internet friends. I don't really want to get into deep specifics as I am worried that he could see this as he does use reddit. My friend (23F) and her BF got into a disagreement in which ultimately ended with her BF physically assaulting her, think black ey...
no_crisis
Question 3034
Title: 9 years. Text: 9 years of depression! Can we get to double digits? Haha. Things can't really get any worse for me. It's just a wait until they get better. Can't believe my depression is older than a good percentage of people on the planet. For any crisis present, mark whether it is Ongoing or Past. **...
no_crisis
Question 3035
Title: [NSFW] Didn't think I'd ever say this but my dick is bleeding. Text: Was (am) kinda drunk and cutting a bit and one slash to the right thight slipped a bit and the result is *a bleeding dong*. Fortunately it's nothing serious. Actually got a bit of a laught out of this after bandaging it. For any crisis presen...
selfharm_ongoing
Question 3036
Title: My alternative to cutting Text: So instead of cutting I started painting my nails. It helped me feel better and it felt like I was just painting on a minni canvas. When I got stressed I would peal at the nail polish instead of cutting and I painted it back when I was sad. Unfortunately, it became very obsessi...
selfharm_past
Question 3037
Title: I don’t want to die but I have no desire to live neither Text: Trying to figure out the meaning of being alive if everything made you has gone? For any crisis present, mark whether it is Ongoing or Past. **Leave a row blank if that crisis type is not present.**
suicideideation_passive_ongoing
Question 3038
Title: For everyone whose partner abused them when no one was watching. Text: When no one was watching, or in the silence, or when everyone left, or when you were on a dark street, or only when you two were alone. You were definitely confused thinking, "it must be me, I caused this." Because you are so confused why th...
no_crisis
Question 3039
Title: Succumbing to alcoholism is my form of suicide. Text: It’s the best way I deal with my autism. Everything I do comes across as natural as I’m completely anxiety-free when I’m drunk. I’m full of confidence and wanting to socialize with everyone. Only when I’m tipsy does anyone love me, the only time I can make f...
suicideideation_active_ongoing
Question 3040
Title: lead technician made me feel uncomfortable today. what's the best course of action? Text: As I was changing in the locker room, the lead technician made a comment about how I could get with a person at work. I'm pretty sure she may have a crush on me and she acts flirty most days so that's probably why he sai...
sexualharassment_ongoing
Question 3041
Title: What’s it like having people that actually give a shit about you? Text: . For any crisis present, mark whether it is Ongoing or Past. **Leave a row blank if that crisis type is not present.**
no_crisis
Question 3042
Title: How to stop self-sabotating professionally? Text: Hi everyone, I had a rough time this year because I realized I didn't want to continue the career I have been working on for almost eight years at this point (1 year on one graduation closely related that I left, 5 concluding a graduation and 2 years on masters...
no_crisis
Question 3043
Title: What do guys/people think about self harm scars during sex? Text: I do not have really thick or deep scars but they are a little bit visible and I am quite sure that the guy I am seeing saw them last time we had sex (they were kind of reddish as well so it was easier to see). I am kind of afraid of going out wi...
selfharm_past
Question 3044
Title: Did I make false allegations? Text: I've made another post before but I'll make a more detailed one here. I work with a guy let's call him John. John came on to me at a work trip when I was in his hotel room having drinks. I said no and that he was married so I didn't want to. He made excuses like he wasn't ...
sexualharassment_ongoing
Question 3045
Title: How can I support a friend who self harms? Text: I'm terrible at talking and sometimes I don't know what to say when she's having a bad day or I'm afraid what I said sounds too cold For any crisis present, mark whether it is Ongoing or Past. **Leave a row blank if that crisis type is not present.**
no_crisis
Question 3046
Title: I thought I made a friend. Text: This happens all the time, I’ll meet someone at work or somewhere and start talking and things seem fine to me. We’d swap numbers and text here and there. But eventually they just stop replying and we stop seeing each other in public. This happens to me all the time. I keep thin...
no_crisis
Question 3047
Title: How to help my sister with her abusive husband Text: To set the stage. My sister 30F has been married for ten years to 41M. A few months into their marriage after she hadn’t gotten pregnant he began talking to a lady that had two kids and he claimed it was because he wanted to help her because she was a sing...
no_crisis
Question 3048
Title: Short sleeves Text: Do you wear clothes with short sleeves or no sleeves at all in public? I understand, that it would be inappropriate in, lets say, working environment, but how about going out for a drink, or just meeting up with friends for a coffee, or simply doing a little walking thing..? For any crisis ...
no_crisis
Question 3049
Title: I don’t want to be alive anymore Text: I wake up everyday not wanting to be alive. I goto bed praying that I won’t wake up. It’s crippling. I feel like such a failure. I feel like I mess up everything I touch. My relationship with most of my family is a mess and I feel I’ll never find anyone to love me. My grad...
suicideideation_passive_ongoing
Question 3050
Title: there is something left in me Text: i thought i cut everything out, yet here i always am, looking at the world through what feels like a fake camera. i am not myself. i'm just watching, and when i don't like what i see, which is everything, i cut myself. i used to want to live, and feel like i was the one livi...
selfharm_ongoing, suicideideation_passive_ongoing
Question 3051
Title: Was this sexual harassment? Text: Hi, so recently I've been thinking about something that happened about 2 years ago when I was 15(F). I'm not sure if would be considered sexual harassment but it definitely made me uncomfortable so I'd like to hear someone else's thoughts. This happened at school very close to...
sexualharassment_past
Question 3052
Title: is tramadol safe? Text: I been seeing psychiatrist for over 20 years now. I tried every medication. but I am depressed and anxious all the time. I am currently on cymbalta. I react to drug very very negatively (side effect) whenever I take cymbalta my sking gets red, I get pimples, my face swells up. I can't un...
no_crisis
Question 3053
Title: Do I have any hope? Text: 30 years old. Still alone. I don't want to live the rest of my life alone. I'd rather be dead. For any crisis present, mark whether it is Ongoing or Past. **Leave a row blank if that crisis type is not present.**
suicideideation_passive_ongoing
Question 3054
Title: So,I really want to die,But I don't want to be so damn scared about it. Text: I mean,since our polichickens want to get us killed by Russia/China(nuked) I'm really thinking about just ending it myself. I was really happy reading somewhere that A shot to the head would be painless and be instant death. B...
suicideideation_active_ongoing
Question 3055
Title: Submitted a Clare's Law request against the guy I'm seeing. Got a disclosure yesterday Text: About three months ago I (23) met this guy (21). The day I met him he told me he had an electronic tag and was in prison until a few months ago due to drug charges. No judgment please, I continued seeing him as I though...
no_crisis
Question 3056
Title: Community focused on harassment of students by professors Text: r/abuse_by_professors is a community to shed light on incidents of racism, sexual harassment or other abuse by professors. Please share your own experience or crosspost a related story. Students often finds schools are more interested in protecti...
no_crisis
Question 3057
Title: Lack of empathy and no filter, is this a common theme? Text: I know someone who was SA’d more than once in their life. This person recently has been struggling with triggers for the past few months. One thing I’ve noticed is a lack of empathy and not having a filter. While the not having a filter has been prett...
no_crisis
Question 3058
Title: It baffles me how some people have tons of friends, a healthy relationship and a massive family... like HOW?! Text: I mean, how do they do that? How to you build such a huge loving circle of people? How phenomenally did I fail at being alive that I have none of that and probably never will? Happy social peopl...
no_crisis