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76_10
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Yeah, I like being active. You know, if I could, um, be more adept to tennis, and I would love to do something like that coaching people how to play tennis, but I don't. I know enough about the game and play it, but I-I don't think my skill level would be high enough to actually coach other people but—
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76_12
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Yes, I have.
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76_14
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It's been in the top. It's been up there, yeah. I don't remember if it's always been number one. It's probably definitely been in the top three. Uh, yeah, because I've had problems, um, with inner harmony, I guess in different stages in my life, so I don't get that. This time I put it at number two.
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76_16
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Yeah, it's just funny how it came out that it wasn't in the top 12. But then when I look at it again it had something to do with, um, peace, uh, inner peace or something or something in there.
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neutral
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76_18
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And, um, I put that as a higher priority, or top of my value list.
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neutral
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76_20
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Yeah. Um, since I've been practicing yoga, and since I learned how to teach yoga, that's been something that I've been, um, coming to terms with more, that I feel like I have a lot more inner harmony. I'm more at peace with myself, and in-in the quiet times, and if I'm meditating.
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76_22
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Um, I really feel like-- yeah, I feel like really good about myself.
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76_24
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Yeah, that's part of it. Yeah, and then just feeling like, um, I don't have to please other people either. It's not a selfish thing to put myself first. And, uh, that's something I've always tried to do, make other people happy, please other people, and-and also put myself second, third, fourth, or whatever it is. And I always thought, "Well, that's the way a good person should be.They should always put other people first, you know. And then there's times for that, you know. There's something going on, and you wanna go out of your way to help people, and you say, "Well, my needs aren't so important right now." I think that is okay to do once in a while. As long as you know- you know that you're not really, um, doing anything detrimental to yourself while you're doing it. And you realize, "Well, I'm just-- I'm really helping this other person a lot, and it gives me satisfaction."
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76_26
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Not out of a sense of, uh, you know, "I'm obligated to this person."
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neutral
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76_28
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Mm-hmm.
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neutral
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76_30
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Self love.
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neutral
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communication behavior
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77_1
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[signs] Kind of slow.
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neutral
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77_3
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Yeah.
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neutral
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77_5
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Oh, they have me doing all kinds of things in different machines and stuff. Yeah, it hurts.
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neutral
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77_7
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Well, just about every joint like especially my knees. They're really-- They have me doing some leg things that-that-that is it really necessary?
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neutral
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communication behavior
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77_9
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Okay.
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neutral
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communication behavior
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77_11
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I wanna go home.
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neutral
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77_13
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Everything. I wanna- I wanna, play with my dog. I miss my dog. I wanna cook for myself. I'm a very independent person and I wanna do things for myself.
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neutral
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77_15
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Um, I guess the rehab.
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neutral
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77_17
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Not really.
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neutral
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communication behavior
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77_19
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Oh, yeah.
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neutral
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77_21
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Uh, I have.
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neutral
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77_23
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I have a friend who, uh, does it and she just raves about it. She loves it.
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77_25
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Absolutely. I do not want to fall, for sure.
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77_27
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Well, I-I hadn't really thought about it, but yeah I guess, I guess.
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77_29
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Like I said, my friend talks about it and-and it's very pretty. I've seen pictures, you know.
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neutral
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77_31
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Well, I don't see how I could do it. I-I'm still in a walker, you know.
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communication behavior
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77_33
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I could?
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neutral
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communication behavior
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77_35
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And you really recommend this?
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neutral
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communication behavior
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77_37
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You do Tai Chi?
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neutral
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communication behavior
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77_39
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Oh, okay. Well, yeah. Um, listen, anything that's going to get me home and if you do it and you recommend it, I'll try it.
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77_41
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Okay, okay.
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neutral
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78_1
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Mm-hmm. Yeah.
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neutral
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communication behavior
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78_3
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Mm-hmm.
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neutral
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78_5
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It's been- it's been really difficult. Um, I hate to see her gasping for breath. And, um, I'm really worried, you know, when she has to go. Uh, so that's been-- it's really difficult when I have to take her.
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78_7
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Mm-hmm. Yeah.
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communication behavior
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78_9
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Mm-hmm.
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neutral
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78_11
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Well, I did research on the chronic inhaler and I found out that there were steroids in it and that-that I don't want her taking steroids. I did, uh, research on some of the potential side effects and some of the health problems that can result from taking steroids and I-I just don't want her to take those at all. I don't want her exposed to them at all. And then, uh, let me just go ahead and lay this out right now. Uh, because I'm sure it'll come up, but I-I do smoke. But I make sure that I do not smoke around her so that I make sure that it does not affect her. So-
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78_13
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-I just want to let you know that right off.
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neutral
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communication behavior
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78_15
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Mm-hmm. Yeah.
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neutral
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communication behavior
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78_17
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Yeah.
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neutral
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communication behavior
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78_19
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Okay.
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neutral
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communication behavior
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78_21
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Mm-hmm.
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neutral
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communication behavior
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78_23
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Well, I-I guess I didn't realize that they weren't the same thing as the anabolic steroids.
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78_25
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Which are the ones that cause all the problems and everything. So, um, if-if you can assure me that it's not going to have those same side effects and health problems-
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78_27
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Yeah.
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neutral
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communication behavior
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78_29
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Okay.
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neutral
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communication behavior
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78_31
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Yeah.
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neutral
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communication behavior
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78_33
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Oh, okay.
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neutral
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communication behavior
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78_35
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Mm-hmm.
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neutral
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communication behavior
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78_37
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Yeah.
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78_39
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Oh, even when it's just on my clothes?
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78_41
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She's that sensitive. If I realized that—
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78_43
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Right. Um, so would it help, um-- You know, the thought of quitting smoking is a pretty daunting aspect.
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78_45
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I mean, I know people who've tried to quit and it's-it's just it's- it's really difficult, you know. So I know, it'd be better—
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communication behavior
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78_47
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Yeah.
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neutral
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communication behavior
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78_49
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Yeah, it is. Um.
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78_51
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Well, I was thinking, um, if since it, you know, it affects her that it's on my clothes, if I only smoked while she was at school, and then changed my clothes before she came home. Would that help?
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78_53
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Oh, absolutely. I never. Never.
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78_55
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Okay.
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neutral
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communication behavior
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78_57
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Yeah. [chuckles]
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neutral
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communication behavior
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78_59
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It's really difficult.
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78_61
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Mm-hmm.
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78_63
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Oh, really?
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78_65
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Oh, that's great-
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78_67
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-because that's always scary when she has to use that one.
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communication behavior
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78_69
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Okay.
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neutral
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communication behavior
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78_71
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Okay.
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communication behavior
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78_73
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That sounds good. Thank you.
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communication behavior
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79_0
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Something clicked, I'd had a bunch to drink and, uh, and I knew I'd messed up. I totally messed up.
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neutral
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communication behavior
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79_2
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Because I was- because I was right there, man. I was right there in the same place when I'd come home and I'd pop a couple of those pills, it was the same deal, like and I wanted to stay there. I wanted to stay exactly right there. And I just felt like I'd ruined everything. You know, Erin's using the phone now, and he called me the next day and it was, uh, great, but I kinda felt ashamed of myself, and I don't want to feel that way again.
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79_4
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Because of what-- Yeah, I guess, I think that's what I mean, yeah, yeah. Because you know, I mean- I mean I could have stayed, I could have got, I could have got absolutely hammered and I could have done it every night for the rest of the week.
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79_6
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But I don't know if I stopped because I knew I had to stop or because, you know, it was like right there, that's where I wanted to stay, you know? Anyway, I just, uh-- [crosstalk].
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79_8
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They're better, yeah.
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79_10
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Yeah, yeah.
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80_1
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Hello, doctor.
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80_3
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Well, I did what we discussed. I did the journal-
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communication behavior
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80_5
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-for a week, uh, trying to mark down the-the difference in my smoking, being more aware when I had the urge, if I could stop the urge-
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80_7
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-and I found it was okay. It got a little bit scary on the weekend because, uh, uh, the urge has kept on coming-
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80_9
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-to have a cigarette.
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communication behavior
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80_11
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But during the week, I was able to cut down at least two or three cigarettes a week, and that's just in one week. So-
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change
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communication behavior
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80_13
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Yeah.
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communication behavior
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80_15
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Yes.
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communication behavior
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80_17
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It just seemed to get worse when it was the weekend-
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neutral
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communication behavior
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80_19
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-and I was going out with friends and I was home a lot of the day-
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neutral
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communication behavior
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80_21
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-instead of at work. And I found that, um, it was really hard to stop those urges.
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neutral
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communication behavior
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80_23
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Yes.
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80_25
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But I marked it in the book. Uh, that's one thing I said to myself, I'll be honest in my marking down.
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80_27
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So, I'm gonna have to really be aware of the weekends. Maybe get some kind of hobby or-or join some group or something on the weekends to keep me busy.
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communication behavior
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80_29
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If I can just postpone it-
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communication behavior
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80_31
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-and-and say, "Okay, I'm not gonna have it at home-
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change
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communication behavior
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80_33
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-I'll have it when I get to work or on the way to work."
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change
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communication behavior
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80_35
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'Cause I-I-I-
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neutral
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communication behavior
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80_37
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And then, uh-uh, what I'd like to do is try not to smoke in my house.
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change
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communication behavior
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80_39
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I think I'd just like to do what I did this first week. I liked the idea of marking it down.
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communication behavior
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80_41
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I-- And it took me a week and I'm down two cigarettes a day, I-I figure.
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communication behavior
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80_43
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What I'd like to do is maybe go down to five cigarettes, in other words, another three a day.
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change
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communication behavior
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80_45
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And, um, 'cause I smoke a large pack and small pack, maybe just two small packs.
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communication behavior
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80_47
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Yes.
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communication behavior
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80_49
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I can try each day to count.
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