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<s> [INST] I have dog obsession disorder and I am having problems with my girlfriend because I am placing more importance to my two dogs over her. How do I get over this problem and prioritize my girlfriend over my two dogs?[/INST]Hey, dogs are cool. They adore pleasing humans and often LOVE to work on learning what yo... |
<s> [INST] I find myself lying about small everyday things that there is really no need to lie about. How do I figure out what triggers me to do this? And how do I help overcome this problem? I would like to become more honest and open no matter the situation.[/INST]Well let's start with the awesome realization you've ... |
<s> [INST] I've been like this ever since I was in school; back then I transferred to another school. Now I'm thinking about changing my job.[/INST]I recommend that you make a list of all the reasons you should change your life and all of the reasons you shouldn't change your life. Can the problem you are in be fixed? ... |
<s> [INST] I keep hearing I am attractive from people around me, and I think I believe it. But I have low confidence regarding approaching girls I like.[/INST]I recommend that you focus on the negative thoughts or irrational beliefs that are going through your mind at the time in which you are trying to approach a girl... |
<s> [INST] We have been fighting a lot and have 3 kids but we both want to stay together. I need some help to save our family.[/INST]Hello, I do not live in the California area. However, perhaps I could make some suggestions as to where you might look for free counseling. First, I must mention that most insurances now ... |
<s> [INST] I'm currently dating someone else and I really like him. But I love and miss my ex so much. What do I do?[/INST]Finding the right person is a tricky thing to do. Why did you and your ex break up 3 months ago? In relationships with others you get to see a reflection of yourself. Sometimes you may enjoy that ... |
<s> [INST] I feel like I have to be promiscuous in order to keep people around? It started after I got raped by my ex-boyfriend.[/INST]I recommend that you seek professional services to address the trauma you experienced. EMDR has been proven to be very effective in treating trauma. In addition, a support group might b... |
<s> [INST] We kissed and he grabbed my boobs and we exchanged some texts and a few calls. It went on for about 8 months. Just when we were all together and our spouses were out of the room. Once I met him for lunch to tell him that we needed to stop. We ended up kissing after lunch and then I sent him a few more texts ... |
<s> [INST] Cheating is something unacceptable for me but because we have two daughters I decided not to break up the family.
However, now I am struggling to forget and forgive what happened. I feel like I cannot trust him. Without trust, I cannot stay in this relationship. On the other hand, I do not want my children t... |
<s> [INST] I feel that I need to end my present relationship. He lives three hours away and likes the reassurance of having someone to talk to multiple times per day and seeing me once or twice a month. I want someone who is more present and more of a life companion.
Lately, he has had a very busy work schedule and I ... |
<s> [INST] He goes out with her to dinner/brunch/movies when we are not together (we live 2 hours apart).[/INST]Would you have the same desire to meet this friend if she were a he? If you are concerned that their friendship is a substitute for you when you aren't present,�talk to him. It sounds like you are concerned t... |
<s> [INST] What do I do if I have been feeling like I could never be with anyone because no one would want me. Or I couldn't have many friends because of who I am. It's strange I want to be loved but I'd hate to be because I always lose.[/INST]What would make you feel no one wants to be with you?</s> |
<s> [INST] I'm in a relationship, but I feel like I'm always putting more into it and not getting reciprocated. My ex told me that I will never find anyone else, and that's lingering in the back of my mind.[/INST]The most crucial key to any relationship is that mutual feeling you hold between you both: that you matter.... |
<s> [INST] This is preventing me from getting a job. I have bad relationship with my bipolar mother. I am living with her but it stresses me out so much to be around her that I have locked myself in my room. I have no friends or other family to help me. I have no money for therapy, but I think I need therapy before I c... |
<s> [INST] I have no self control over food. Most people stop when they've had enough, but I keep eating for the pleasure of it. Especially with sweets - I'm never done eating dessert.[/INST]Hello! I'm so glad you decided to write in today. This is such a great question and I'm sure many others will relate to exactly w... |
<s> [INST] I have no self control over food. Most people stop when they've had enough, but I keep eating for the pleasure of it. Especially with sweets - I'm never done eating dessert.[/INST]I would recommend removing yourself from the environment you are in after you have finished eating. A simple walk around the bloc... |
<s> [INST] I know someone who is extremely sensitive to stress and very sensitive to a negative tone of voice. Sometimes during a disagreement he tells me that my communication is having a harmful impact on him. Once he believes I am being negative I can't seem to find a better way of communicating. In fact, it is ofte... |
<s> [INST] When I ask him who he is talking to, he tells me no one. But, it sounds like he is holding a conversation with someone. I have even accused him of having a secret cell phone. I ask so much, I feel like I am losing it. Is he trying to make me question my sanity, or is he talking to himself?[/INST]A rare topi... |
<s> [INST] Does this go against any ethical codes? Are there legal ramifications?[/INST]Generally, the ethical codes only prohibit relationships with clients.�There are however a few types of counselor-to-counselor relationships that are prohibited by the ethics codes. Such prohibited relationships include those betwee... |
<s> [INST] We went out had great sex and I was really liking her. Then one day she says we should just be friends, but I can't stop thinking about her. She's always on mind and I want her back.[/INST]It can be really difficult when someone you care about doesn't feel the same about you. The most important thing to reme... |
<s> [INST] She cried because she lost all trust in me. Now I feel disgusting and like my heart just got stabbed, what do I do?[/INST]It sounds like you've already learned that just being honest is often the best approach.�What do you think about telling your mom how you're feeling? �She might really appreciate it if yo... |
<s> [INST] I'm a 40 year old male and having erection problems. Still have the desire for a woman. Awfully frustrated. Any suggestions? My Doc doesn't want to discuss it.[/INST]When a doc blows you off it may be a signal that it is time to find a new one! ED can often be caused by health issues. If all physical possibi... |
<s> [INST] What do I do if I have been feeling like I could never be with anyone because no one would want me. Or I couldn't have many friends because of who I am. It's strange I want to be loved but I'd hate to be because I always lose.[/INST]As a relationship therapist I work with a lot of people who feel similar fee... |
<s> [INST] He is in his late thirties and I am in my mid twenties. We have been together for about 5 months. I really like him. He says he cares about me and is willing to fight to make things right. He has been very apologetic and expressed he did it out of fear. I don't know if it's worth giving him a second chance.[... |
<s> [INST] However, it seems as though he is really talking to someone other than himself. I have even accused him of having a secret phone. Is he trying to make me crazy on purpose, or is he really talking to himself?[/INST]Some people simply talk to themselves as a way of processing information. Have you checked in w... |
<s> [INST] I keep getting into relationships with men that are in bad situations. I take them on and help them and do all I can and the relationship still fails. How do I learn to not get in relationships with men in bad situations? I see someone in need of help, I jump in. And it is getting me nowhere. I am alone sad ... |
<s> [INST] My girlfriend's grandma passed away 5 months ago. They were very close. She took care of her till she died. Things kinda returned to normal few weeks later. Last month it feels like we hit a brick wall. Intimacy fell off. I asked what's up. She says she can't connect with anyone and that it's not me. She use... |
<s> [INST] I have manic depression and last summer was very very bad. I have recurring nightmares and I avoid anything that will give me a similar feeling as I did that summer.[/INST]In general, the answer is no. Depression can not not generally cause PTSD.�Your question does make a lot of sense, though. Depression is ... |
<s> [INST] I loved him more than anything. He passed away on our anniversary which was also the day I was going to apply for our apartment. I'm not handling it well. I moved to a new town and started a new life but nothing helps.[/INST]Grief is unpredictable and does not fit into rules and stereotypes. Everybody grieve... |
<s> [INST] I have recently separated from my husband whom I have been with for 5 years. Throughout our 5 years together, I have stood by him through 2 affairs, him talking to other women while I was pregnant, his drug abuse and thru verbal and physical abuse.[/INST]It usually boils down to a lack of self esteem, self ... |
<s> [INST] I'm in a relationship with my fianc� and I currently found out that she's been cheating on me with a co-worker. I was very upset none the less. I understand what she did was wrong, but I want to spend the rest of my life with her. So I'm willing to forgive and move on. We have been together for a little over... |
<s> [INST] I'm in a relationship with my fianc� and I currently found out that she's been cheating on me with a co-worker. I was very upset none the less. I understand what she did was wrong, but I want to spend the rest of my life with her. So I'm willing to forgive and move on. We have been together for a little over... |
<s> [INST] About 5 months ago my ex left without fully explaining why. For me it seemed out of the blue. I don't miss her as much as I used to but I just don't trust people anymore, not even my friends who I have known since my childhood not even my family. I'm so terrified of being judged or dismissed. Instead of acti... |
<s> [INST] Then turn right back around and say he loves me and needs me. This rollercoaster is crazy.[/INST]Your partners obviously very confused when it comes to love. Sometimes people shy away from good and positive relationships and companionship because their afraid. They know that it's something worth holding on t... |
<s> [INST] Sometimes 3 times a night.[/INST]
That's a�difficult question�to answer.�Dreaming is a normal (and healthy) part of the sleep cycle. The current thought is that we all generally
experience roughly the same number of dreams - the difference often is just
whether we remember the dreams or not.An increase in th... |
<s> [INST] I'm in a relationship with my fianc� and I currently found out that she's been cheating on me with a co-worker. I was very upset none the less. I understand what she did was wrong, but I want to spend the rest of my life with her. So I'm willing to forgive and move on. We have been together for a little over... |
<s> [INST] I feel like I'm trying to convince myself that I'm okay when I'm not. I'm always blocking out the bad things and forgetting. I also feel like nobody cares for me and they never will. I feel truly alone.[/INST]I can relate! When things are going badly, I feel like my life has
always been and will always be th... |
<s> [INST] This is preventing me from getting a job. I have bad relationship with my bipolar mother. I am living with her but it stresses me out so much to be around her that I have locked myself in my room. I have no friends or other family to help me. I have no money for therapy, but I think I need therapy before I c... |
<s> [INST] My doctor thinks that seeing a psychiatrist will help with my depression and anxiety. Now my anxiety is worse, what do I do? Writing on here has taken every bit of strength I have left.[/INST]Did you take the medication the way the psychiatrist prescribed it? �Did you follow up with her/him to report how i... |
<s> [INST] In particular during family gatherings (such as funerals), where there are different customs.[/INST]You have an opportunity, but you haven't described a problem. �(Are you creating one?) �Many families have various members who have different spiritual beliefs and religious practices. �Accepting the idea that... |
<s> [INST] I have manic depression and last summer was very very bad. I have recurring nightmares and I avoid anything that will give me a similar feeling as I did that summer.[/INST]A PTSD diagnosis requires an event which occurred at least 6 months prior to the symptoms. � Depression is a common symptom of PTSD, but ... |
<s> [INST] I always feel like I'm not good enough and it literally is so hard living. I don't know how to talk to my parents about it.[/INST]Are you a teen? �This is a really hard problem for more teens (and adults) than let on. �When I was about 15, I remember asking my parent's friend, Herman, whether life gets any e... |
<s> [INST] I think I'm annoying and bothersome, but my girlfriend says I'm just fine. I don't think so, I think I'm stressing everyone else out[/INST]I think you have identified something important here. It's not unusual to experience feelings that don't seem to match up with what your rational mind recognizes.�In this... |
<s> [INST] Sometimes 3 times a night.[/INST]As a depth therapist (aka "psychodynamic practitioner"), I do a lot of dream work with clients; and they gain great insights from our explorations.We remember dreams, I believe, because dreams are messages (always in code) from the unconscious, communicating the crux of unres... |
<s> [INST] I found out my boyfriend takes anti-depression medicine. Lately he's been saying he has a lot on his mind, and he needs time to think about us. We've only been dating 3 weeks but I like him a lot.[/INST]This seems like two questions. �The first is what may have happened to prompt him to back off. �The second... |
<s> [INST] I feel like I'm trying to convince myself that I'm okay when I'm not. I'm always blocking out the bad things and forgetting. I also feel like nobody cares for me and they never will. I feel truly alone.[/INST]I'm glad you're aware of how you honestly feel. �Knowing one's personal truth is always the first st... |
<s> [INST] Sometimes 3 times a night.[/INST]Dreams are our chance to make sense of our waking lives.If you've got a lot going on in your life then your dreams are your assistants in understanding these happenings and dynamics.</s> |
<s> [INST] About 5 months ago my ex left without fully explaining why. For me it seemed out of the blue. I don't miss her as much as I used to but I just don't trust people anymore, not even my friends who I have known since my childhood not even my family. I'm so terrified of being judged or dismissed. Instead of acti... |
<s> [INST] I think I'm annoying and bothersome, but my girlfriend says I'm just fine. I don't think so, I think I'm stressing everyone else out[/INST]Interesting: �How much of your issue is your own self-judging and how much of your perception is real?There are many ways to stop judging and self-judging using Cognitive... |
<s> [INST] Sometimes I can't stop thinking about life after death. I was raised in a religion that teaches that we will live on forever either in hell or in heaven.
When I think of living forever (even if it is in heaven which should be good), I feel overwhelmed. I don't like the thought of living forever and ever and... |
<s> [INST] I keep on begging him to come back. I am so unhappy with him but am so scared of being a single parent to our son. I was abused as a little girl and that has made to be very abusive to men. What should I do...[/INST]Major change frightens almost everybody.Don't be so afraid of your fear that you let yourself... |
<s> [INST] She was raised by her abusive father and his wife. 30 years ago I shot and killed my rapist and was convicted in Louisiana. I lost custody of my daughter and served 5 years. When I was released, she was 5 and didn't remember me. Many many sad memories came from my having to leave her visit after visit, havin... |
<s> [INST] Sometimes 3 times a night.[/INST]Perhaps more dreaming means that you are making use of your mind to solve problems. �I find that change states, while sometimes difficult, are very exciting. �They give you opportunity to grow more rapidly. �So I say: "congratulations!" �~Mark (www.MarkMorrisLCSW.com and www.... |
<s> [INST] I'm in a relationship with my fianc� and I currently found out that she's been cheating on me with a co-worker. I was very upset none the less. I understand what she did was wrong, but I want to spend the rest of my life with her. So I'm willing to forgive and move on. We have been together for a little over... |
<s> [INST] Why am I attracted to older men?[/INST]What a wonderful question!Good for you on clearly knowing your priorities.If I was sitting with you now, I'd ask you to list your reasons.Start with whatever answers you do come up with and examine each of these a little further.If, for example, you feel you need a man ... |
<s> [INST] I found out my boyfriend takes anti-depression medicine. Lately he's been saying he has a lot on his mind, and he needs time to think about us. We've only been dating 3 weeks but I like him a lot.[/INST]Your boyfriend may like you a lot as well.People have different styles of reflecting on their lives, one o... |
<s> [INST] I have been with my best friend for over a year, and we have had a beautiful baby girl. We were in love, and I still love her dearly. I am in my late teens and so is she. She says she has lost her connection with me. She is talking to a random guy that she says is just someone to talk to. But she says she st... |
<s> [INST] Then turn right back around and say he loves me and needs me. This rollercoaster is crazy.[/INST]Yes, I agree with your view about the "rollercoaster" sounding "crazy"!Concentrate on knowing what your reasons are for staying with this guy, given the broad facts that you state.What are you gaining from being ... |
<s> [INST] I'm going through a majorly bad divorce and my wife is making things so impossible for me. I need help.[/INST]Crying due to a dissolution of a marriage, is normal. �Hating yourself may be a sign of extreme sadness, feelings of loss and uncertainty.Do you know why you hate yourself?�Discovering your reason is... |
<s> [INST] I want us all to get along, but feel that I am not being respected. Of course I do have some insecurities because he was with his ex for 8 years. He wants to see his step daughter and ex makes it so he has to go there to see her, but she doesn't want me around. She has a boyfriend, but mine fixes their vehic... |
<s> [INST] My therapist is gay so there are no sexual issues here. However, my therapist for six years has made me believe that he cares about me and that we are friends. I have loaned money to him many times, and he always paid me back.
I had a medical emergency last weekend and I was heavily medicated. I knew that t... |
<s> [INST] I found messages between my boyfriend and this girl on social media. He was asking her for naked pictures and then hung out with her once, but nothing happened. I didn�t find out about the messages until last month and that was six months after it happened. I can�t trust him anymore and I'm just wondering ... |
<s> [INST] In 2008 my former husband of 14 years walked away from my life and we've been separated ever since. We have always been together sexually and both have experienced sleeping with others. I stopped because I wanted my marriage to work out but he did not. If he stops sleeping with other women, can our marriag... |
<s> [INST] I was married to a narcissist sociopath for 10 years. During that time I was a general manager. I used to help him financially and in other ways when we were together. But things began to change. He emotionally and sexually drained me. I lost my spirit. I used to be a very happy person but now I am a lone... |
<s> [INST] I have been diagnosed with ADHD and experienced manic depression episodes. I have problems with anger management. Apparently, I also have an ODD, bipolar and split personality. How can I be truly happy?[/INST]The ADHD and manic depressive episodes are terms other people told you that you have.You don't ha... |
<s> [INST] My therapist is gay so there are no sexual issues here. However, my therapist for six years has made me believe that he cares about me and that we are friends. I have loaned money to him many times, and he always paid me back.
I had a medical emergency last weekend and I was heavily medicated. I knew that t... |
<s> [INST] My boyfriend says I'm nuts. I need to get help because I get an overwhelming feeling that he is cheating on me. Whenever I try to talk with him about it, he always turns it around on me by telling me what I'm doing wrong. I know that accusing him does not help. When his whole demeanor shifts towards me, I ... |
<s> [INST] I am having a problem with extended family members who are inappropriately urinating in my home. They are peeing in cat litter boxes, bottles, and directly on floors and in corners of my house.
Is there any literature that supports why such adults would behave this way? This is not a joke. I am trying to und... |
<s> [INST] Tonight, my husband seemed to put our son down through an incorrect approach. His approach was perfectly wrong. I found myself defending my son. I told him that what he did was not the way to encourage our son.
Instead of watching my husband�s harsh behavior I decided to sit beside my son and, together, we w... |
<s> [INST] How do I ever trust another woman? I have found myself constantly reading between the lines with every other woman that I meet. I am having a difficult time making any sort of connection to anyone because of her deception and willingness to say and do literally anything in order to control my emotions.
Once ... |
<s> [INST] I am currently living in a hotel and I don�t have a family. I met a guy a month ago. He is a bisexual. He has a lot of gay friends on social networking sites. He would not help pay for the room. When I asked for the TV remote control, he threw it elsewhere and asked me to get it. I slapped him and asked ... |
<s> [INST] I�m a senior high school student. I�m also five months pregnant. I got pregnant by my boyfriend of three years. My parents don�t want us to communicate with each other. He can�t even come to visit my gynecologist. My mom goes to attend all of my doctor�s appointments. She�s supportive of me. I wish, though, ... |
<s> [INST] I have always wanted to have a transition from male to female for some time now. This issue has persisted for 10 years already but I don't know where to start. I do not have the soundest information either.[/INST]Wonderful! �I am so excited for you. �What a huge decision. �I am writing from Toronto Canada ... |
<s> [INST] How do I stop those thoughts?[/INST]The thoughts you are having are just thoughts. �Not actions. �It is your choice whether you act on these thoughts. �If you decide to explore having sex with adults of different genders that is great. �If you find yourself obsessed with sexual thoughts,�you may want to see ... |
<s> [INST] I feel like I would be more comfortable as a girl even though I still like girls. I think I'm like a girl stuck in a guy body. I imagine myself as a girl too. I think this more because my friends say that if I was a girl I would be a hot looking one. And I don't care about having boobs or anything. I just fe... |
<s> [INST] I've never been able to talk with my parents. My parents are in their sixties while I am a teenager. I love both of them but not their personalities. I feel that they do not take me seriously whenever I talk about a serious event in my life. If my dad doesn�t believe me, then my mom goes along with my dad an... |
<s> [INST] I'm going through a divorce with my wife of three years, who I've known since the 4th grade and been involved with for seven years! We just had a baby seven months ago and never got along with my mother, who I've lived with for years. I am now back with my mother because I have nowhere to go with this divorc... |
<s> [INST] I been having anger problems a lot lately. It only takes one word wrongly said to set me off. I use to not be like this until I got with my soon-to-be husband. I think his mood and rage/anger problems have rubbed off on me a lot. I don't get nearly as bad as he does, but I yell almost constantly and I can't ... |
<s> [INST] I have been with my boyfriend for more than a year. He recently got a new job and travels a lot. I�m not used to him being gone all the time. I feel as though he has forgotten about me because he does not talk with me as much and doesn�t keep me up to date on everything that he does throughout the day, which... |
<s> [INST] I'm a teenager. I get random spurts of anger, like complete, pure rage. I figured it was hormones, but others notice it too. I get self-destructive. I used to cut but stopped. Now when I get mad, I bite my arms and fingers, pull my hair, scratch my face, or punch my thighs. Basically, I do things I can hide ... |
<s> [INST] He said he would try and he never did. It's been nine months, and this is making me worse. Today, he said I have to respect whatever decision he makes. Is that true? Am I supposed to respect the decision to leave because he can't handle what I'm going through and leaves me here crying and worried every night... |
<s> [INST] My new daughter-in-law just informed me that she is smoking marijuana while pregnant because of her morning sickness. I�m in shock and I don�t know how to respond. I just lost my mom, and she was good with advice.[/INST]Have you reached your own conclusions and reasons for these, regarding the topic? ��When ... |
<s> [INST] Current medications are: topamax, ativan, brintellix, lamictal, restoril, abilify, tx: long term dbt, cbt[/INST]The general prognosis for anyone is good, so long as they have faith in their own ability to find the goodness in life.From what you write, the professionals may have so much focus on the drugs the... |
<s> [INST] He said he would try and he never did. It's been nine months, and this is making me worse. Today, he said I have to respect whatever decision he makes. Is that true? Am I supposed to respect the decision to leave because he can't handle what I'm going through and leaves me here crying and worried every night... |
<s> [INST] I've been hospitalized twice. Once was last month for psychiatric help. I'm on medicine, but I'm struggling with fighting the negative thoughts, irrational fears, and loneliness. The people around me aren't helping much.[/INST]If you are someone who usually has a job, pays or contributes to household bills, ... |
<s> [INST] I find myself being very outgoing most of the time, but there are some times when I don't know what to say. I don't even want to talk at all. It's like, I search for the right thing to say and nothing ever comes out. I don't know if I'm outgoing only to fill the void of not knowing what to say. I don�t know ... |
<s> [INST] I am going through a very hard time and I'm so depressed. My parents are getting a divorce and a lot of bad things are happening. I want to lull myself.[/INST]Consider yourself quite normal for feeling overwhelmed and depressed about your parents divorce. � This is the most natural way to feel at this time.D... |
<s> [INST] I was raped repeatedly when I was younger. I told my parents and action was taken, but now that I�m an adult, I suffer from extreme anxiety.[/INST]It's not unusual for traumatic experiences that happened when we were younger to stay with us when we get older. �Traumatic experiences can become embedded in our... |
<s> [INST] My toddler is having a real hard time with toilet training. He almost throws up every time he sees his poop. He gags and will not go on the toilet. We have tried a toilet chair and ring that goes on the big-boy toilet, but he refuses to use it. When he sits on the toilet, he just sits there forever and only ... |
<s> [INST] I was raped repeatedly when I was younger. I told my parents and action was taken, but now that I�m an adult, I suffer from extreme anxiety.[/INST]Hi. Even though (thankfully) your parents responded well to you telling them, and you received treatment, it's possible, and very normal for sexual abuse trauma t... |
<s> [INST] I was raped by multiple men, and now I can't stand the sight of myself. I wear lingerie to get my self excited enough to have sex with my wife.[/INST]I'm sorry for your being taken advantage of and for all the negative feelings created by being exploited.If you have not already explained to your wife about w... |
<s> [INST] My husband and I would've been married for five years come June 2016. Our infant daughter just had her birthday. Shortly before, he told me he wanted a divorce. He has four other children, three of which are from his first wife. He decided to end that marriage when his youngest was an infant. The children do... |
<s> [INST] I was raped repeatedly when I was younger. I told my parents and action was taken, but now that I�m an adult, I suffer from extreme anxiety.[/INST]While anxiety can come about for many reasons, trauma is definitely one of the factors that makes anxiety a possibility both immediately following a traumatic eve... |
<s> [INST] I don�t love my sister. I would never wish her harm, but if I could, I would wish for us not to be related. Is this cruel? Why must blood mean we have to be friends? Am I being unreasonable and is there a way to fix this? I do care about her, like I do every human being, but I�d rather be with my friends tha... |
<s> [INST] Sometimes I can't stop thinking about life after death. I was raised in a religion that teaches that we will live on forever either in hell or in heaven.
When I think of living forever (even if it is in heaven which should be good), I feel overwhelmed. I don't like the thought of living forever and ever and... |
<s> [INST] I was raped by multiple men, and now I can't stand the sight of myself. I wear lingerie to get my self excited enough to have sex with my wife.[/INST]I am very sorry to hear about your rapes. �Traumatic events, such as rape, can have some lasting effects. �Issues with sex drive are one of these effects. �The... |
<s> [INST] I was raped by multiple men, and now I can't stand the sight of myself. I wear lingerie to get my self excited enough to have sex with my wife.[/INST]Hello Utah, thank you for writing with your question. Sexual assault or sexual abuse is a very traumatic event that affects victims in many ways. Your difficul... |
<s> [INST] My boyfriend�s sneaky and puts his friends before me. He fights just to leave. One day, he's happy. The next, he's mean and blames me for everything. He can't admit faults. He thinks he's perfect and does no wrong.[/INST]Hi, Ontario. I live in the other Ontario; in Canada. I'll try to help you sort this out.... |
<s> [INST] I don�t love my sister. I would never wish her harm, but if I could, I would wish for us not to be related. Is this cruel? Why must blood mean we have to be friends? Am I being unreasonable and is there a way to fix this? I do care about her, like I do every human being, but I�d rather be with my friends tha... |
<s> [INST] My ex-boyfriend, will not stop harassing and stalking me. We work together. I honestly think he needs help to move on. His accusations are angry lies. But I think he may believe them to be true.[/INST]The specific laws about this will vary from state to state. �Generally, the only way to "force" someone to g... |
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