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<s> [INST] For the past four weeks, I've been having nightmares and hearing voices telling me of horrible things. They're not random voices, but rather, the voices of those I care about.[/INST]Voices and dreams could be suppressed feelings or thoughts that result from negative experiences. �Many times when people go to... |
<s> [INST] I am becoming a Water Safety Instructor but I didn't have enough for a proper swimsuit. I was told by a boy in class that my top was displaying everything. I was very embarrassed.[/INST]First I think we have to acknowledge that you are doing something amazing.� You are putting yourself out there and becoming... |
<s> [INST] I am so terrified of having sex anymore because I have been told over and over that sex is dangerous even though me and my partner used both forms of protection. My partner is not happy about this and simply wants more sex, and honestly, I want to give that to her.[/INST]I am wondering who is telling you tha... |
<s> [INST] He said he would try and he never did. It's been nine months, and this is making me worse. Today, he said I have to respect whatever decision he makes. Is that true? Am I supposed to respect the decision to leave because he can't handle what I'm going through and leaves me here crying and worried every night... |
<s> [INST] I've been like this ever since I was in school; back then I transferred to another school. Now I'm thinking about changing my job.[/INST]There's a quote I love that says, "Wherever you go, there you are" and the book by the same name by Jon Kabat-Zinn may be very helpful for you. The thing about changing thi... |
<s> [INST] I've been like this ever since I was in school; back then I transferred to another school. Now I'm thinking about changing my job.[/INST]Sometimes changes make sense. It may be helpful to talk to someone who you trust to get a sense of whether the changes that you are making are those that are considered ada... |
<s> [INST] For the past four weeks, I've been having nightmares and hearing voices telling me of horrible things. They're not random voices, but rather, the voices of those I care about.[/INST]I would recommend that you talk with a mental health professional near you about the details so you can have some really specif... |
<s> [INST] I am so terrified of having sex anymore because I have been told over and over that sex is dangerous even though me and my partner used both forms of protection. My partner is not happy about this and simply wants more sex, and honestly, I want to give that to her.[/INST]I would suggest possibly talking with... |
<s> [INST] I have cheated on my husband of five years roughly ten times. I pretend we aren't married at my work. Recently, he has caught on, but I lie to cover it. He use to talk to girls online, but I have caught myself constantly having a affair.[/INST]It may be helpful to have this emotionally impactful conversation... |
<s> [INST] How can I get to a place where I can be content from day to day?[/INST]One thing that comes to mind is making a list of some things that happen each day. It could be that there are things that are affecting how upset you are, but because so many other things are going on, you may not notice.Another idea to t... |
<s> [INST] I have anxieties about everyday stressors, i.e. finances, work, relationships, kids, and maintaining a household.[/INST]Something to remember about anxiety is that it's a useful and necessary response to stressors, and we all have a level of anxiety that falls somewhere on the spectrum from very slight to ve... |
<s> [INST] I have bipolar disorder, paranoid personality disorder, posttraumatic stress disorder, anxiety and obsessive-compulsive disorder. I last self-harmed a week ago. When I am stressed, overwhelmed, hurt, or angry, the urge to self-harm is all I can think of. I am trying to seek help.[/INST]Seeking professional h... |
<s> [INST] I've been like this ever since I was in school; back then I transferred to another school. Now I'm thinking about changing my job.[/INST]Many times when things become difficult to manage, is because we are getting out of our comfort zone, so we seek growth and change.� Coping with the difficulties does make ... |
<s> [INST] I have suffered many things at home and school. We never went to the doctor to diagnose depression or anything like that, but I always feel like a part of my heart is missing. I try to fill it in with objects or, in this case, a woman.[/INST]There are a lot of ways to look at this. It sounds as if there is a... |
<s> [INST] A year ago, the love of my life left me and never looked back. Our son was two months old at the time and it broke my heart. I miss her so much and can't seem to get over being so heartbroken.[/INST]I recognize that you say you are missing being with the love of your life. At the same time, I don't understa... |
<s> [INST] I stress over everything. If I don't have enough "quality time" with my boyfriend, I start to feel resentment towards him. He has three children, and they are great kids, but I find we don't have much time together. I break down easily and find myself depressed.[/INST]Everyone has some level of anxiety - it'... |
<s> [INST] I have been with my boyfriend for more than a year. He recently got a new job and travels a lot. I�m not used to him being gone all the time. I feel as though he has forgotten about me because he does not talk with me as much and doesn�t keep me up to date on everything that he does throughout the day, which... |
<s> [INST] I have cheated on my husband of five years roughly ten times. I pretend we aren't married at my work. Recently, he has caught on, but I lie to cover it. He use to talk to girls online, but I have caught myself constantly having a affair.[/INST]Clearly you seem interested in�being other people, and you are al... |
<s> [INST] I�m a man, and I�m soon to be married. I have been messing around with other men on the side. It started as a once in a while thing, but it�s been happening a lot. I don't know what to do.[/INST]Hello, and thank you for your question. When faced with these kinds of difficult challenges, I usually encourage p... |
<s> [INST] I told her that if daddy dies, we will never see him again. She started crying because I wouldn't make her daddy die.[/INST]Children often have a difficult time expressing emotions accurately. It is also very likely that your daughter does not understand �the permanence of death. Having said that, she is usi... |
<s> [INST] I get very nervous and anxious/scared before sex.[/INST]I first wonder what your anxiety or fear connects to. I don't know whether it is about sex itself or about ideas of worthiness or feeling desirable.There is also a difference between having self-doubt about the actual physicality of having sex (performa... |
<s> [INST] Both of my parents committed suicide together, and I was the one who found them. I suffer from overwhelming depression, which is having an extreme effect on me and my husband�s sex lives. He does not understand at all and is always making me feel so uncomfortable about sex.[/INST]Hello, and thank you for you... |
<s> [INST] I have suffered many things at home and school. We never went to the doctor to diagnose depression or anything like that, but I always feel like a part of my heart is missing. I try to fill it in with objects or, in this case, a woman.[/INST]There could be many reasons but often people feel validated when th... |
<s> [INST] I�ve been on 0.5 mg of Xanax twice a day for the past month. It hasn't been helping me at all, but when I take 1 mg during a big anxiety attack, it calms me down. I was wondering how I can ask my psychologist to up the dose to 1 mg twice a day without her thinking I'm abusing them. I just have very big anxie... |
<s> [INST] Sometimes, I'm fine and can go out or meet people, but other days, my heart races and words physically cannot come out of my mouth. I've always thought it was normal and I was just nervous, but the other day, it took me almost 30 minutes of sitting in my car to find the courage to enter Target by myself.[/IN... |
<s> [INST] I have been feeling more and more down for over a month. I have started having trouble sleeping due to panic attacks, but they are almost never triggered by something that I know of.[/INST]It could be really helpful to see a counselor/therapist about your increasing depression/panic symptoms. Finding out the... |
<s> [INST] Her father and I have been dealing with this problem for quite some time now. She is an adolescent, and the problem is mostly food. She is now overweight, and we just don't know what to do anymore. She can be disrespectful and doesn't listen to or respect what we say.[/INST]I would be curious about there pot... |
<s> [INST] I'm in my late 50s. I never loved or have been loved. I need deeper help than is offered in my small town, but I cannot leave this town because of agoraphobia. I find myself losing hope more and more. My brain barely works anymore, and my memory so small, I forget in a moment. I serve no purpose. I'm incapab... |
<s> [INST] I have been with my boyfriend for more than a year. He recently got a new job and travels a lot. I�m not used to him being gone all the time. I feel as though he has forgotten about me because he does not talk with me as much and doesn�t keep me up to date on everything that he does throughout the day, which... |
<s> [INST] Sometimes, I'm fine and can go out or meet people, but other days, my heart races and words physically cannot come out of my mouth. I've always thought it was normal and I was just nervous, but the other day, it took me almost 30 minutes of sitting in my car to find the courage to enter Target by myself.[/IN... |
<s> [INST] I�ve been on 0.5 mg of Xanax twice a day for the past month. It hasn't been helping me at all, but when I take 1 mg during a big anxiety attack, it calms me down. I was wondering how I can ask my psychologist to up the dose to 1 mg twice a day without her thinking I'm abusing them. I just have very big anxie... |
<s> [INST] I�m a man, and I�m soon to be married. I have been messing around with other men on the side. It started as a once in a while thing, but it�s been happening a lot. I don't know what to do.[/INST]If you are happy with the person that you are about to be married to and are also enjoying time with other men, it... |
<s> [INST] He wants to wear makeup and heels. He even tucks his penis away to resemble a vagina. He wants me to wear a strap on and have anal sex with him. I have tried this for him, but I don�t like it and have told him so. He keeps making comments about it and says he can't live without it.[/INST]It sounds like you m... |
<s> [INST] Sometimes, I'm fine and can go out or meet people, but other days, my heart races and words physically cannot come out of my mouth. I've always thought it was normal and I was just nervous, but the other day, it took me almost 30 minutes of sitting in my car to find the courage to enter Target by myself.[/IN... |
<s> [INST] I have known I was always different. This year, in December, I found out that I never felt female. I did research and have identified myself as male but don't know how to tell my dad.[/INST]I admire your courage.If you are concerned about telling your dad regarding your gender identity, I would suggest a cou... |
<s> [INST] I'm a girl, and I can't tell whether I'm bisexual or gay. I like girls a little more than boys, but I don't really know.[/INST]Sexual orientation is not always something that is clearly definable. Some people look at it on a continuum where being attracted to only boys is at one end, only girls is at the oth... |
<s> [INST] I went to my ex-boyfriend to reach out to one of his high school friends who's attempted to commit suicide. When I went to him to reach out to his high school friend, he told me that I put him in a terrible position and put an enormous load on his shoulders. He was very angry that I went to him to do that. A... |
<s> [INST] I�ve been on 0.5 mg of Xanax twice a day for the past month. It hasn't been helping me at all, but when I take 1 mg during a big anxiety attack, it calms me down. I was wondering how I can ask my psychologist to up the dose to 1 mg twice a day without her thinking I'm abusing them. I just have very big anxie... |
<s> [INST] He is always telling me our fights are only and all my fault, he bashes me to our young child, and he is addicted to a few substances.[/INST]The behaviors you describe are boundary violations.� You can not change your spouse, but you can respond to his behaviors in ways that protect your boundaries and ensur... |
<s> [INST] I�ve been on 0.5 mg of Xanax twice a day for the past month. It hasn't been helping me at all, but when I take 1 mg during a big anxiety attack, it calms me down. I was wondering how I can ask my psychologist to up the dose to 1 mg twice a day without her thinking I'm abusing them. I just have very big anxie... |
<s> [INST] I have terrible anxiety and depression. I've tried various therapists and pills, but nothing's helped.[/INST]Is it possible you simply didn't mix well with the particular therapists with whom you've worked? � If this is possible, interview a therapist before �starting therapy. � Then you will be choosing a t... |
<s> [INST] I've been dealing with this for years. My mom thinks I'm overly emotional and refuses to offer any help, like therapy or seeing a doctor. She's seen me when I'm having a panic attack and just said I was faking for attention or that I'm a hypochondriac. I just want to get better.[/INST]How old are you?Are you... |
<s> [INST] These "jokes" are made about everything. They seem to have the need to say something "funny" about everything. It's not funny, just awkward.[/INST]I agree, it is awkward when people make jokes about subjects which may not be funny at all. �And, if a person only jokes, then after laughing and realizing the pe... |
<s> [INST] I'm in my early 20s. I've worked since two months after I turned 18. I have �plans.� I could become an electrician, or I could operate heavy machinery. I have goals, but I do nothing to try to meet them because I don't feel I can. I just want a better life for my fianc�e and the kids than I did.[/INST]For st... |
<s> [INST] My husband had an emotional affair with his ex-wife in November. She invited him to dinner, alone, with their daughter. I wasn�t aware of this until after 11pm when I asked where he was. He had been drinking, and I told him not to come home that night. The next morning, we talked about going to counseling. H... |
<s> [INST] I believe it is wrong for men to look at inappropriate content. The father of my child has agreed to respect my beliefs. His co-worker sent him an inappropriate video. He got mad because he does not think he should tell his friend to not send him things like that.[/INST]In my book, this is a boundary issue. ... |
<s> [INST] I�m a man, and I�m soon to be married. I have been messing around with other men on the side. It started as a once in a while thing, but it�s been happening a lot. I don't know what to do.[/INST]Divorce is expensive emotionally and financially. If your fiance is not ok with an open marriage, it would be a go... |
<s> [INST] I told her that if daddy dies, we will never see him again. She started crying because I wouldn't make her daddy die.[/INST]It's normal for a child to be so angry she wanted someone to die, but this seems to be heading into a dangerous realm. I think it would be wise to have her seen by a child psychologist ... |
<s> [INST] Sometimes, I'm fine and can go out or meet people, but other days, my heart races and words physically cannot come out of my mouth. I've always thought it was normal and I was just nervous, but the other day, it took me almost 30 minutes of sitting in my car to find the courage to enter Target by myself.[/IN... |
<s> [INST] I have terrible anxiety and depression. I've tried various therapists and pills, but nothing's helped.[/INST]I'm sorry that you have tried several different things and not had much relief.I will say that there are several different types of medications that may help and each therapist is different, so it is ... |
<s> [INST] I've been dealing with this for years. My mom thinks I'm overly emotional and refuses to offer any help, like therapy or seeing a doctor. She's seen me when I'm having a panic attack and just said I was faking for attention or that I'm a hypochondriac. I just want to get better.[/INST]I don't know how old yo... |
<s> [INST] Sometimes, I'm fine and can go out or meet people, but other days, my heart races and words physically cannot come out of my mouth. I've always thought it was normal and I was just nervous, but the other day, it took me almost 30 minutes of sitting in my car to find the courage to enter Target by myself.[/IN... |
<s> [INST] I've been with a man for four years. For the last year, he has said he is done, but he still talks, texts, visits, and has not moved on with anyone else. His words do not match his actions. I love this man, but it's hurting so much.[/INST]This can be difficult and confusing.If you think your boyfriend would ... |
<s> [INST] My doctor seems to think I am in danger of having one. I neglected to ask how this was different than an episode. I have been formally diagnosed with bipolar type 1.[/INST]I will admit that I'm not specifically familiar with this from my own experience.My best educated guess is that you could have a seizure ... |
<s> [INST] I've been with a man for four years. For the last year, he has said he is done, but he still talks, texts, visits, and has not moved on with anyone else. His words do not match his actions. I love this man, but it's hurting so much.[/INST]Have you brought up the topic as to the way you're feeling?The best wa... |
<s> [INST] We had great chemistry, but then he became distant. I had the feeling that I can't be without him. As soon as I felt the difference, I was scared to lose him. I started freaking out if he did not answer, thinking that something bad happened.[/INST]The simplest answer is that love feels good, obsessions don't... |
<s> [INST] We had great chemistry, but then he became distant. I had the feeling that I can't be without him. As soon as I felt the difference, I was scared to lose him. I started freaking out if he did not answer, thinking that something bad happened.[/INST]People often care deeply for those whom they love. I don't kn... |
<s> [INST] I shake and have panic attacks.[/INST]One of the first things I would suggest is to see if you can keep track of what is leading you to feel anxious.�If you shake all the time, consider talking with your primary care physician. Sometimes that can be a hormonal imbalance or another chemical imbalance (such as... |
<s> [INST] I just don't know what I want in life anymore. I'm can't figure out what it is that is keeping me distracted and unfocused. I can't put things into perspective at all. I'm just stuck, and I'm disappointed with my lack of accomplishments.[/INST]It sounds as if you would benefit from talking with a local menta... |
<s> [INST] There are many people willing to lovingly provide me with a home. I have food, clothes, and a university education, but I never feel like I belong. Even when I have a good time with people who are supposed to be close, I feel like I'm just out with friends and I never go home.[/INST]For some people, having a... |
<s> [INST] I'm in my mid 20s with a husband and children. I love my family, but I feel like I've lost my identity, and I don't know who I am other than a mom and wife. At times, all I can think is what I gave up and how I feel unhappy and trapped, but I know I'd feel like worse without them. I loathe myself at times. I... |
<s> [INST] I'm a teenager. My dad has been jail for the last five years. It's tough, but my mom really tries to give a normal life to my two sisters, my brother, and I. I feel like I took upon a parent role when I'm the second youngest, and I'm not stable. My mother and sisters say I'm overdramatic. I�m just so hurt, a... |
<s> [INST] My boyfriend has this close female friend. It always bothered me because of how close they are, so I decided to meet her. That made the situation worse because they were even closer than what I thought. They acted like a couple rather than friends with each other. There was no physical interaction, but he ta... |
<s> [INST] She constantly tells me what I am doing wrong. For once, I want her to be proud of me. It�s like no matter what I do, she does not have one nice word to say to me. She is always hateful towards me and always has been.[/INST]I imagine this is very difficult and confusing for you.It sounds like there are thing... |
<s> [INST] He was in love with someone years ago, and he still thinks about her time to time. He said, and I quote, "That relationship is definitely over. I love you, but that girl will always be in my mind." It just didn't feel like he appreciated all the things I've done to make him happy.[/INST]It sounds like you we... |
<s> [INST] Sometimes, I'm fine and can go out or meet people, but other days, my heart races and words physically cannot come out of my mouth. I've always thought it was normal and I was just nervous, but the other day, it took me almost 30 minutes of sitting in my car to find the courage to enter Target by myself.[/IN... |
<s> [INST] I'm feeling rejected and frustrated. This is not new. The first month we were together, sex was about every day. Then it slowed down to once a month right away. I love my husband, but I am struggling with this.[/INST]� �Feeling rejected and frustrated is a reasonable reaction to your experience with your hus... |
<s> [INST] I believe my partner has a masturbation and porn problem. He masturbates daily, even when I am lying in bed sleeping beside him. We have sex once a week. He is rough and worries about his needs. He never touches me, and treats me like a porn star, wanting to finish on my face or chest.[/INST]� �The comments ... |
<s> [INST] I�m a man, and I�m soon to be married. I have been messing around with other men on the side. It started as a once in a while thing, but it�s been happening a lot. I don't know what to do.[/INST]� �It took a lot of courage to share what must be so shameful to you and to ask for help. Regardless of your sexua... |
<s> [INST] My husband�s ex-wife married a man who was charged with seven felony counts of pandering involving a minor. He, by his own admission, is addicted to child pornography. My step-daughters are now all teenagers. They do not know. My husband�s ex-wife has kept this information from my step-daughters. The step-fa... |
<s> [INST] I have been diagnosed with general anxiety and depression by my family doctor. They wrote a prescription for me to have an emotional support dog, I have the paper work, and I gave it to my apartment manager. They said I can't keep the ESD because I'm not disabled. What do you suggest I do?[/INST]This can be ... |
<s> [INST] I've been with a man for four years. For the last year, he has said he is done, but he still talks, texts, visits, and has not moved on with anyone else. His words do not match his actions. I love this man, but it's hurting so much.[/INST]That does sound very confusing...and hurtful.� You do not have to tole... |
<s> [INST] I�m a man, and I�m soon to be married. I have been messing around with other men on the side. It started as a once in a while thing, but it�s been happening a lot. I don't know what to do.[/INST]I would start by examining the reasons for seeking out other relationships. Are you getting something from the oth... |
<s> [INST] Sometimes, I'm fine and can go out or meet people, but other days, my heart races and words physically cannot come out of my mouth. I've always thought it was normal and I was just nervous, but the other day, it took me almost 30 minutes of sitting in my car to find the courage to enter Target by myself.[/IN... |
<s> [INST] When my son was a teenager, we sent him to live with his dad because of the constant disrespectful attitude. A week after he graduated, his dad made him leave because of the same issues. All four parents tried to talk to him, and he just refuses help all around. He is now living with his grandparents. He had... |
<s> [INST] In middle school and high school, my friends and family thought I was gay. I tried telling them, but they wouldn�t believe me. It almost feels like they wanted me to be. Now I�m actually starting to believe them. I know I wasn�t back then, and now I�m not sure anymore.[/INST]I agree with Amy. We get a lot of... |
<s> [INST] I was the one who ended it, and I'm so glad I did. It was the best decision I made in my life. But how do I stop the nightmares and flashbacks? It is creating a wall in my current relationship.[/INST]One thing you could try to do on your own is to focus on the partner who is in front of you now. If you are a... |
<s> [INST] I panicked over a minor parking lot mistake. It was totally my fault, but due to another insurance issue, I left a note with an illegible phone number. Guilty over this, I got an envelope containing several hundred dollars. Unfortunately, by the time I returned, the other driver had seen my ersatz note and d... |
<s> [INST] I don't know what to say. I have never really known who I am.[/INST]This is perhaps the deepest question that one can ask of themselves and the answer is as elusive as the deepest enigma. We are fluid beings, we are never the same from day to day, we learn or unlearn, we evolve or some of us even devolve, we... |
<s> [INST] I've become so jaded that I can't control my thoughts. I cannot focus on anything and been having anxiety attacks.[/INST]I imagine that it's pretty disconcerting to feel as though you lost yourself.When you said that you are jaded, I'm not sure whether you mean that you are jaded toward someone, something, l... |
<s> [INST] My husband and I have been married for seven years, and in that time, we have only had sex four or five times. Others have told me that most men would have left me by now. Honestly, I think I have a low sex drive or neither one of us actually knows what we are doing. I want to be better connected with my hus... |
<s> [INST] I have been diagnosed with general anxiety and depression by my family doctor. They wrote a prescription for me to have an emotional support dog, I have the paper work, and I gave it to my apartment manager. They said I can't keep the ESD because I'm not disabled. What do you suggest I do?[/INST]This is tric... |
<s> [INST] I don't know what to say. I have never really known who I am.[/INST]Because you put this under the category of spirituality, I'm not sure whether you are asking how you find yourself as far as religious or spiritual beliefs or overall.If you are talking about learning more about religious or spirituality, co... |
<s> [INST] My mother takes care of niece whom my sister abandoned. She calls me every day complaining, but I don't want to hear it anymore.[/INST]This sounds stressful.You mentioned that you want to learn how to avoid them. I'm not sure whether you want to avoid them overall or if you would like to ask your mom to mayb... |
<s> [INST] My fianc� and I recently had an argument over finances. He gives me the money each month to pay his automobile insurance. He no longer has one of the vehicles on the policy. He realized he was still paying for the coverage and asked why I was allowing him to continue to do that since I was physically paying ... |
<s> [INST] She said she needed space after three days of dating, and she got a boyfriend a week later. I still really miss her, and she told me she still likes me.[/INST]It sounds as if your ex-girlfriend is trying to figure out what type of relationship she is looking to have with you. There are lots of levels of rela... |
<s> [INST] I recently went through a divorce. My ex-husband called my sister saying bad things about me. My sister never defended me. Now that I showed the truth, she's shutting me up and saying she doesn't care about the fight. Why didn't she convey that to him from the beginning?[/INST]Unfortunately, I can't tell you... |
<s> [INST] I've known him for about six years. We've dated off and on. I hadn't seen him in close to three years but recently started seeing him again. I really want this to last this time. I stayed the night. Do I text, call, or make contact first, the same day of the morning I left his house?[/INST]I don't see why yo... |
<s> [INST] I'm a teenager, and while I�ve never been to any kind of therapist, I noticed I experience several anxiety symptoms. I frequently find myself not going out and following my parent around the house. I can't go into stores (grocery stores specifically) on my own, and when I do, I have to be on the phone with m... |
<s> [INST] My fianc� and I broke up. He cheated on me numerous times. I kept forgiving but questioning his every move. He got tired and left.[/INST]There is a grieving process after losing a relationship (or any other major loss, such as a job, a house, etc.). One of the things to consider is give yourself a chance to ... |
<s> [INST] My spouse decided he no longer wanted me six years ago. Things have deteriorated so badly that we have separated but still live in the same house. He says he despises the sight of me, wants to be with other women, and divorce. What I don't understand is that he says constantly that I have no feelings for him... |
<s> [INST] Every time my partner gets angry for anything, she takes it out on me. Nothing I do is right, and once she's mad, she calls me all kinds of names and is verbally abusive. She says it isn�t abuse, it�s just angry verbal bashing, and that it�s different. It gets worse each time. The names are very vulgar now.[... |
<s> [INST] I've always thought that there wasn't much good out there for me. Now that things are actually going well, it kind of scares me. I spent most of my life feeling unwanted and figured I would be alone. I recently met a great woman who seems to really like me, and I don't know how to process this. It's botherin... |
<s> [INST] She's busy because her mom makes her clean all the time and go out places with her family. We don't talk much because of it. Also, we have little fights. We want to work it out but we don't know how.[/INST]Maybe you can start with having 15 minutes per week that you know you will be spending time with each o... |
<s> [INST] She has lied about every aspect of her life. She's created three fake relationships. The most recent one is concerning because she has fake photos, phone calls, and text messages, and it�s with a married man with kids. Her lying is becoming dangerous because she could ruin lives.[/INST]To be honest, I think ... |
<s> [INST] I want a secure relationship with someone that wants to be with me and who will actually put effort into it.
I seem to gravitate toward unavailable men and those that want intimacy and no relationship. I let men dictate and control me because they accuse me of being controlling. I let men emotionally abuse m... |
<s> [INST] I'm a teenager, and I know the importance of my upcoming schooling. However, no matter how much I put in my best effort, my family thinks I have done zero effort in total. What can I do?[/INST]First of all, I'm glad that you posted here and I'm glad that you recognize the importance of schooling.Where does y... |
<s> [INST] I�m trying to make marriage work after a split. Before our split, he lied a lot and broke every promise to me. I don't think he cheated. Last month, I asked what women work with him, so he told me. Yesterday, I found out about a girl that he said he forgot about. Should I be upset?[/INST]Imagine your best fr... |
<s> [INST] I don't know what to say. I have never really known who I am.[/INST]The older I get, the more I believe that our real task isn't to 'find' ourselves. We're already 100% "there." What we do have to do is become more mindful of the times when we feel the most alive, most happy, most creative, and most fully en... |
<s> [INST] My best friend and I were pranking her friend, and I told her to tell him that she likes him. She said no, but I forced her. After she told him, he told her that he likes her too. Their friendship is ruined because of me. She won't forgive me, and I feel really guilty. I feel like crying.[/INST]This takes ti... |
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